Love You Daughter

Author(s): Priyam
Publisher: Ashapuran Parshwanath Jain Gyanbhandar
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/034119/1

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The Most Precious Gift for your Daughter lava yu Dora tamArI dIkarIne ApavA mATe sarvazreSTha upahAra Useful for each woman & each person also priyam A che tamArI dIkarInuM jIvanabharanuM sukha ane tamArI jIvanabharanI hA...za. cUkazo to kharekhara pastAzo. Don't miss this -: prakAzaka : zrI AzApUraNa pArzvanAtha jaina jJAnabhaMDAra zA.vimaLAbena saremala javeracaMda kheDAvALA bhavana hIrA jaina sosAyaTI, sAbaramatI, amadAvAda-5 mo. 9426585904 Email : ahoshrut.bs@gmail.com

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pustakanuM nAma : lava yu DoTara lekhaka .: priyam prakAzaka : zrI AzApUraNa pArzvanAtha jaina jJAna bhaMDAra bhASA .: gujarAtI viSaya : dIkarI mATe lAipha korsa prakAzana varSa : saMvat 2074 I.sa. 2018 pRSTha .: 376 A pustakanuM prakAzana zrAvaka-zrAvikA upAzrayanA jJAnadravyanI sahAya vaDe karavAmAM Avela che. saMyamI gurubhagavaMto temaja jJAnabhaMDArone bheTa maLaze.gRhastha potAnA saMghanA jJAnakhAtAmAM rUA.100/- arpaNa karI mAlikI karI zakaze. 0 prApti sthAna 0 zAha bAbulAla saremalajI zA. saremala javeracaMda phAinapheba (prA.) lI. 672/11, bombe mArkeTa, relvapurA, amadAvAda-380002 phona : 22132543 zrI kulInabhAi ke. zAha zrI AdinAtha meDIsIna TU-02, zaMkhezvara kompalekSa, kailAzanagara, surata 0 mo. 9574696000 zrI akSayabhAi zAha ahama enTaraprAijha 20/48, jayamahala bilDIMga, rUma naM.7/e, bIje mALe, bAdazAha kolDrIksa pAse, luhAra cAla, muMbaI -400002 mo. 9594papapapa05 (whatapps)

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Love You Daughter vhAlI dIkarI, Aje tane A sneha upahAra ApatAM ame anerI lAgaNIothI bhIMjAI rahyA chIe. skula-kaoNlejathI ke klAsa-TyuzanathI tane je nathI maLI zakyuM e jIvanopayogI amUlya jJAna A nAnakaDA vaoNlyumamAM che. This is the life Science my daughter ! tArA jIvanapaMthanuM A pAtheya banaze tArA bhAvine A svarga banAvaze tArA badhAM ja sukhonuM A rijharvezana karI deze. Read it carefully & always keep it with you. tane jyAre jayAre koI paNa mUMjhavaNa thAya tyAre pharI A Book kholaje. We promise you tane badhAM ja solutions AmAMthI maLI raheze. with a warm love. Your Parents

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INDEX 2. 29 44 95 1. THE MOUNTAIN OF THE GIFTS DIET WHY ? WHEN ? WHAT ? HOW? MAKE-UP DRESS LOGIC MODESTY SPEECH SILENCE SOCIETY 10. CHARACTOR 11. 11 SECRETS 12. EARNING ENGAGEMENT 14. FAMILY 15. HOME 16. ART 17. WIFEHOOD FREEDOM EQUALITY 20. PARENTING 21. FEEDING MIS-UNDERSTANDING LAW CRUELTY 25. FOURTH BIRTH 26. GOOD-BYE 102 106 120 126 170 192 212 234 238 251 288 299 307 324 330 336 341 352 23. 24. 358

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THE MOUNTAIN OF THE GIFTS 1

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lava yu DoTara My dear... dearer... dearest daughter ! You don't know, tuM mane keTalI vhAlI che ! duniyA kahe che, dIkarI eTale vahAlano dariyo. I have objection here. hAlano dariyo to huM chuM. jyAre tuM mArI sAme Ave tyAre. khera, paNa evo yaza maLe, evuM mAruM nasIba nathI. enA karatAM tuM to keTalI badhI nasIbadAra che, jo to kharI, gAme gAme ne galIe galIe tArA yazanA kevA toraNo baMdhAyA che !!! dIkarI eTale vhAlano dariyo... dIkarI eTalo kALajAno kaTako dIkarI eTale samajaNanuM sarovara... dIkarI eTale gharano ujAsa dIkarI eTale gharano AnaMda.. dIkarI eTale gharanI jAna dIkarI eTale snehanI pratimA... dIkarI eTale savAI dIkaro dIkarI eTale tulasI kyAro... dIkarI eTale jhADano chAyo dIkarI eTale premanuM pAraNuM... dIkarI eTale hetano hiMDoLo dIkarI eTale prajavalita dIpamALA.. dIkarI eTale uchaLato ullAsa dIkarI eTale koyalano TahukAra... dIkarI eTale AnaMdanI kilakArI dIkarI eTale vhAlapanI varSA... dIkarI eTale zraddhAno sathavAro dIkarI eTale vizvAsanuM vahANa.. dIkarI eTale sRSTino zaNagAra dIkarI eTale dharatIno dhabakAra... dIkarI eTale avanino alaMkAra dIkarI eTale pRthvInuM pAnetara... dIkarI eTale jhAlarano jhaMkAra dIkarI eTale bApanuM haiyuM... dIkarI eTale bApanA AMsu. Wow my doll, tane to giftsno DuMgara maLI gayo, barAbara ne ? My dear, Really I have no objection here.

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THE MOUNTAIN OF THE GIFTS I accept - dIkarI eTale nAma mAtrathI maLI jAya zAtA, dIkarI eTale bIjI mAtA. (dilipabhAI rAvala) kadAca tane khabara nahIM hoya, paNa dIkarInI A dAstAna mAtra AjanI nathI, seMkaDo-hajAro-lAkho varSa jUnI che. tulasI-rAmAyaNanA zabdo che - putrI pavitra kiyeu kula dou dIkarI to baMne kuLane pavitra kare che. piyara-kuLane ane sAsara-kuLane. tuSArabhAI zukla yAda Ave, uMbara paranuM koDiyuM dIkarI, aMdara bahAra prakAza dIpazikhA zI dIkarI rele, baMne ghara ajavAsa lIlIchama lAgaNIe lathabatha, bhInuM bhInuM jIvatara jIvatarane maghamaghatuM karatuM, dIkarI nAme attara harSadabhAI caMdArANAe mArA haiyAnI vAta kahI dIdhI che - zaizavamAM sapanAmAM joyelI parI sadehe avatarI thaI dIkarI. dIkarI kaMTaka vagarano bAga paMchIe cheDelo rAga pAnakhara vagaranI vasaMta sugaMdhano sAgara anaMta

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lava yu DoTara mArI vhAlI, javA de A badhI vAta A to badhAM zabdo che vAmaNAM lAgaNInA zikharo ghaNAM UMcA hoya che. pelI kavitAmAM kahyuM che ne ? kAgaLanA kaTakAmAM kema karI cItaravI rudiyAmAM raNajhaNatI vAta kAgaLanI te zI visAta? ApaNe ema karIe, tArI nahIM, mArI vAta karIe. mArI = dIkarInA pitAnI. gorIsana kilore bahu majAnI vAta karI che - apaharaNa karAyelA UMcA darajjAnA AdamI jevI dIkarInA pitAnI hAlata hoya che. te tenA putro pratye rukSa cahero karI zake che. temane mArI-dhamakAvI zake che. temane avAja karIne bhagADI zake che. paNa jyAre tenI dIkarI tenA khabhA pAchaLathI gaLAne hAtha vIMTALIne kahe, "pappA, mAre tamane eka vAta pUchavI che.' tyAre e pitAnI hAlata garama kaDhAImAM mUkelA mAkhaNa jevI thaI jAya che." joje huM beTA, mArI majabUrIno Misuse nahIM karatI. mArI vhAlI, duniyA kahe che - rAha jue te mA che. vAta sAcI che. paNa AnI sAthenuM ja eka bIjuM satya che - rAha jovaDAve te dIkarI che. Do you know - why ? Because daughter is a wonderous combinations of a mind, brain & heart. Yes my dear,

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THE MOUNTAIN OF THE GIFTS That's my experience. mArI vhAlI, tane khabara che, ke mANasane sauthI vadhAre duHkhI koNa karI zake che? mAthAbhAre paDozI ? dhaMdhAno harIpha ? kaTTara duzmana ? No my dear, AmAMthI koI ja nahIM. mANasane sauthI vadhAre duHkhI e ja karI zake, jenA para ene sauthI vadhAre prema hoya che. jema ke mArA mATe tuM. I don't say, ke te mane duHkhI karyo che, ke karavAnI che. This is the matter of the posibility. A to "zake'-nI vAta che. ?! tuM haju avaDhavamAM che ne? AvuM kaI rIte thaI zake ? I tell you. tuM mane kaI rIte duHkhI karI zake. tuM kAMI evuM kare, jenAthI te duHkhI thaI jAya, to sure, huM tArAthI hajAragaNI duHkhI thaI javAno. kAraNa ke tuM mane khUba ja vhAlI che. mArI jAta karatAM paNa vadhAre. khUba ja vadhAre. mArI vhAlI, duzmana to zuM duHkhI karI zake ? duzmananI samakSa to mANasa kaThora thato hoya che. du:khI to e ja karI zake

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lava yu DoTara je AMkhonI kIkI ne kALajAno kaTako banI gaI hoya che. Aje mAre tane keTalIka evI vAto karavI che, je tArI lAipha mATe khUba imporTanTa che.

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DIET Why ? When ? What ? How ? 7

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lava yu DoTara You know very well, huM tane je kahIza, e sAcuM ja kahIza. tArA sArA mATe ja kahIza. mArI vAta mAnIza ne ? Well, pahelI vAta che DAyaTanI. enA cAra pAsA che. (1) Why to eat ? (2) When to eat ? (3) What to eat ? (4) How to eat ? Why ? To maintain our body & it's activities. My dear, jo Why' clear che, to AgaLa badhuM clear che. jo Why'mAM garabaDa che, to AgaLa badhI garabaDa che. jyAM Dietno Main purpose TASTE banI jAya che. tyAM 'Why? cUMthAI jAya che. nItizAstramAM kahyuM che - iSTamUlAni zokAni - zokanuM mULa che pasaMda - Choice ramUnAna thAya: - roganuM mULa che rasa - Taste tamamUnAna pApana - pAponuM mULa che lobha - Greed trI tyavasvI suthvI mA A traNane choDI de ane sukhI thaI jA. chagana eka vAra mAMdo paDyo. DaoNkTara pAse gayo. DaoNkTare ceka-apa karyuM. davA lakhI ApI.

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DIET chagane pUchyuM, "DaoNkTara sAheba, khAvA-pIvAmAM..?' DaoNkTare javAba Apyo, "sAdo khorAka badho laI zakAze.'' "ane DaoNkTara sAheba khIcaDI-kaDhI jevu ?' "laI zakAze. vAMdho nahIM.' "ane pauA-upamA levAya ?'' "kahyuM ne ? sAdo khorAka badho levAze.'' "hA DaoNkTara sAheba ane roTalI-zAka levAya ?'' "hA, levAze." "ane thoDuM lIMbu pANI ane seva-mamarA...' "tamAre je khAvuM hoya e khAva, paNa mAruM mAthuM nahIM khAva." Do you know my dear, koI prANI mAMduM paDe eTale paheluM kAma zuM kare ? khAvAnuM baMdha karI de. eTale e vahelAmAM vaheluM sAjuM thaI jAya. How smart ? No ? mANasa A bAbatamAM ghaNo pachAta che. e mAMdo paDe eTale enI khAvA-pIvAnI upAdhi vadhI jAya che. yogazAstramAM kahyuM che - ajIrNe bhojanatyAgI / 9 ajIrNa eTale hajI jUnuM bhojana pacyuM na hoya evI sthiti. A sthitimAM navuM bhojana na levuM joIe. We are on 'Why ?' jo AhAra levAno Purpose dainirvAha ja che, to pachI je AhAra levAmAM zarIrane nukasAna thAya, e AhAra zI rIte laI zakAya ?

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10 lava yu DoTara karoDo loko A Stupidityno bhoga banyA che. jeno sIdho phAyado DaoNkTarsa, haoNspiTalsa ane meDikala sTorsane thAya che. Number 2 - When ? nItivAkyAmRtam kahe che - kSutkAla eva bhojanakAlaH / tamane bhUkha lAgI hoya tyAre ja khAo. jaTharAgnithI bhUkha lAge che. agni vinA IMdhaNa nAkho, to eno saDo ja thavAno che. bhUkha vagara khAvuM e bhraSTAcAra che. mANasa svAda mATe bhUkha vinA ya khAya che. paNa ene khabara nathI. ke svAdano jeTalo saMbaMdha vAnagI sAthe che, tenAthI vadhu saMbaMdha bhUkha sAthe che. mahAbhAratamAM kahyuM che - sampannataramevAnnaM daridrA bhuJjate sadA / kSut svAdutAM janayati, sA cA''DhayeSu sudurlabhA // garIbo haMmezA vadhu vaibhavI bhojana letA hoya che. bhUkha svAdiSTatAnuM nirmANa kare che ane zrImaMtone bhUkha e khUba durlabha hoya che. Actualy, je mANasane kakaDIne bhUkha lAgatI hoya, ene TATA-biralA samajavo joIe. He is the actual rich. jo mANasa savArano nAsto choDI de, to jUno vadhArAno khorAka,

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DIET jene "Ama' kahevAmAM Ave che, te barAbara pacI jAya, ghaNA rogothI bacI javAya. ane bapora sudhImAM tAjI ane sAcI bhUkha lAge. e sthitimAM mANasa je bhojana leze, te khUba ja svAdiSTa lAgaze. barAbara pacI jaze. zarIranA pAcakaraso A sthitimAM sakriya thatAM hoya che. paNa ApaNI vRtti evI che, ke AvI salAha koI DaoNkTara Apaze, to ApaNe DaoNkTara badalI nAkhazuM. Am I right my dear ? A to mane pUro vizvAsa che, ke tuM mane badalI nahIM nAkhe, eTale kahuM chuM. AyurvedanA eka niSNAta. eka lAkha zlokonA graMtho laIne rAjAnI pAse AvyA. rAjAne jANavAmAM rasa to hato, paNa enI pAse eTalo Time na hato. Just like us. rAjAe kahyuM, "mane shortmAM badho sAra ApI do." eka ja zlokamAM. nA 1/4 zlokamAM. basa." niSNAta samaya mAMgyo. khUba mahenata karIne pharI rAjA pAse hAjara thayAM. ane samasta Ayurvedano sAra ApI dIdho. nI monanamAtreya: I' Atreya kahe che ke - "bhojana tyAre ja karavuM, jyAre jUnuM bhojana pacI gayuM hoya."

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lava yu DoTara When'nI bAbatamAM haju eka vAta - AyurvedamAM ApaNA jaTharane "kamaLa' kahyuM che. nAbhikamaLa. jema sUraja caDhe tema kamaLa khIle ane jema sUraja DhaLe tema kamaLa bIDAtuM jAya. ApaNI hojarInI sthiti paNa evI ja che. mATe madhyAhunanA samaye ApaNe bharapeTa jamavuM joIe. savAra-sAMje bahu ja ochuM. ane rAte biskula nahIM. ato naktaM na bhoktavyam / Adhunika meDikala sAyansa AyurvedanI A mAnyatAne ghaNI rIte Teko Apyo che. I suggest you a book - Rld vidi udai e bukathI A viSayamAM tane ghaNuM noleja maLI jaze. Number 3 - What ? ApaNe tyAM eka sarasa majAnI kahevata che - tAjuM khAya vakhatasara sUve, teno roga dhrusake ruve. tAjuM A eka ja zabda hoTala, lArI, peka-phUDa, TIna-phUDa, jaMkaphUDa, boTala-phUDa badhAM upara cokaDI lagADI de che. chagane eka vAra enA phemilI DaoNkTarane pUchyuM, "bajAruM mIThAI-pharasANa khAvAmAM to vAMdho nahIM ne?" DaoNkTare bahu nikhAlasatAthI javAba Apyo, "nA re, e ja to mArA jIvanano AdhAra che." My dear, I ask you one question. eka mANasa tAruM bhojana jhUMTavI jAya che.

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DIET ane bIjo mANasa tane khoTuM bhojana jamADI jAya che. Who is worse of them? bhUkhyA rahevAthI to kadAca Ama-pAcana dvArA tAruM Arogya khIlI uThaze. paNa khoTuM bhojana to keTalAM rogo lAvaze ! tana-mana-dhana badhuM ja bagADI deze. Do you know my dear ? There are 5 types of the white poison (1) meMdo (2) mIThuM (3) khAMDa (4) soDA (5) sAiTrika eNsiDa bahAranA khorAkamAM AmAMthI zuM nathI hotuM ? mArI vhAlI, peTrolamAM kacaro hoya to gADI khoTakAvA lAge che. AhAramAM kacaro hoya to zarIra khoTakAvA lAge che. bajArU khorAka eTale zaNagArelo kacaro. eTrekTiva prejhanTezana, eDeDa phlevarsa, supara mArkeTiMga, horibala TreDa vora, reina oNpha dha eDsa... & the result... breina-voza. Now you hate your mom's Bhakhari, No ? U. S. A.mAM mekaDonAlDa kaMpanI bargaranI Add karavAmAM 50 karoDa DaoNlara kharce che. I ask why ? jIvana jarUriyAtanI vastunA salemAM AddnI zuM jarUra hovI joIe ? 13 But my dear, A vAta tuM samaje che, eTalI sIdhI nathI. duniyAnuM eTalI hade naitika adhaHpatana thayuM che, ke teo paisA khAtara gharAkanI heltha sAthe ramata karI zake che. teo ghauMnA sAthe ja dhaneDAM (Insects) daLIne

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14 lava yu DoTara tane breDa-pAuM-bargara khavaDAvI zake che. teo marelo uMdara ke garoLI kADhI laIne ATha divasanI vAsI bhAjI tane pIrasI zake che. teo sAta paisAnA raMgIna pANImAM jaMtunAzakonuM jhera umerIne tane sattara rUpiyAmAM vecI zake che. teo hAnikAraka prijharveTIjha ane kalara phalevarsa Add karIne tane kenDI, caoNkaleTsa, kekasa vagere vagere vagere padharAvI zake che. My daughter, tuM ghaNI vAra vadhelI roTalI ane zAka laIne roDa para jAya che, gAyane, kUtarAne ke garIbane ApI Ave che. ghare ApaNe kadI gaI kAlanI rasoI jamatAM nathI. What do you think? Food businessmAM kadI AvuM thatuM haze ? Is it possible ? khorAka sAthe jyAre vepAra joDAya che, tyAre taMdurastIno kaccaraghANa nIkaLI jAya che. Please, don't be fool. tuM mAMdI paDIza, e to pachInI vAta che. tuM mUrkha banIza, tyArathI ja mane tArA mATe zarama upajaze. I remember, meM eka Health article vAMcyo hato, enuM title hatuM mAMdA paDavuM e guno che ane davA e dhatiMga che. My dear tArA mATe duniyAnuM zreSTha bhojana e che, je tArI mammIe tArA mATe premathI banAvyuM che.

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DIET ApaNI saMskRtie bhAvanA ane vicAranI zakti viSe ghaNuM ghaNuM kahyuM che. moDarna sAyansa A bAbatamAM ghaNA saphaLa prayogo karI cUkyuM che. jyAre tuM kahe che - bahAranuM khAvAnuM 'sAruM' hoya che, tyAre sArApaNAnA keTalAM badhAM pAsAone tuM Neglect karatI hoya che, enI tane khabara che ? keTalAMya kAmadAronA nisAsA, kaMTALo, duHkha ane pIDA jemAM bhaLelAM hoya, keTakeTalI jIvAtonA maDadAM jemAM bhaLelAM hoya, Expiry date-nA saMdarbhamAM jemAM avanavA goTALAo hoya, jene Food kahevA karatAM Food poison kahevuM Better & correct hoya, e jo sAruM che, to tuM 'kharAba' kone kahIza ? Plese think seriously - 'What?' tIkhuM-taLeluM-masAledAra bhojana vicArone tAmasI banAve che. pachI e vyakti vAte vAte gusse thaI jAya che. satata zaMkA-kuzaMkA kare che. nAnI nAnI vAtomAM laDI paDe che. gunAkhora ane saMkucita manovRttino bhoga bane che. kaMdamULa paNa tAmasI khorAka che. -- ApaNI saMskRtimAM khUba kaDaka zabdomA teno niSedha karAyo che. purANamAM kahyuM che putramAMsaM varaM bhuktaM na tu mUlakabhakSaNam / mULa-vividha kaMdamULo khAvA e dIkarAnuM mAMsa khAvA karatAM paNa vadhu kharAba che. 15 mArI vhAlI, 'mAMsa'nI vAta AvI ja che, to tane eka vAta kahI dauM,

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16 lava yu DoTara I know, Today you are pure veg. & you like it. paNa kAlanI ApaNane khabara nathI. koI pArTI, koI bahenapaNIno phorsa, koI pralobhana... game te thaI jAya, tuM mAMsa ke IMDAthI tArA peTane abhaDAvatI nahIM. e maDadAMone dATavAnuM kabrastAna nathI. mArI vhAlI, May be, tArI sAme evuM Logic Avaze, koNe zuM khAvuM ke na khAvuM, e vyaktinI aMgata bAbata che. emAM koI dhArmika ke sAmAjika baMdhana na hoI zake. Well, mAnavane ATalI hadanuM AhAra-svAtaMtrya ane pazu-paMkhIne jIvanasvAtaMtrya paNa nahIM? Why ? We battle for human-rights. paNa hakIkatamAM to Each living-being-rights ela 97827. Arogya ane mAnavatA baMne dRSTie mAMsa-IMDAM vajarya che. eka buka che - smArTa phUDa, emAM A vAta prove karelI che. You will like to read it. My dear, dArUnI vAta karuM e pahelA eka ghaTanA yAda Ave che. philma-sTAra rAja kapUranI. eka pArTImAM jAdugara ke. lAla sAthe emanI mulAkAta thaI. emaNe ke. lAlane dArUno glAsa oNphara karyo. ke. lAle nA pADatA kahyuM, "huM nathI pIto."

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DIET rAja kapUre Agraha karyo, "Aje pIvo paDaze.'' kheMcatANa vadhI. pArTInA badhAM loko jovA lAgyA. rAja kapUra mATe have A Prestige-issue banI gayo. emaNe kahyuM, "mAtra mArA mAna khAtara pI lo." ke. lAle daDhatA-namratAmizrita 'nA' pADI. have rAja kapUre chello dAva pheMkyo. "tame A glAsa nA pIvo, to tamane mArA pitA pRthvIrAja kapUranA sogaMda che.' ke. lAle e ja namratA sAthe javAba Apyo. "meM mArI sAta peDhInA sogaMda laIne dArUnI pratijJA karI che.'' badhAM ja loko AbhA banI gayAM. dArUno glAsa choDIne rAja kapUra ke. lAlane bheTI paDyA. My dear, I don't tell you, ke tuM paNa AvuM karaje. I wish, tuM kadI paNa evI pArTImAM na ja jAya, tuM kadI paNa evA mitronI sobata na ja kare. jyAM tArA saMskAronI eka jhATake katala thaI jAya. mArI vhAlI, mANasano kharo AtmA enA saMskAro ja hoya che. saMskAronI katala thaI jAya, eTale hakIkatamAM eka maDaduM ja bAkI rahe che. dArU, tamAkuM, sigAreTa, hukko ane bIjA kephI dravyo, Aja sudhImAM karoDo mANasonA jIva laI cUkyA che. 17

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18 lava yu DoTara karoDo koDabharI nArIone vidhavA karI cUkyA che. karoDo bALakone sAva ja anAtha karI cUkyA che. mArI dIkarI. tArAthI bane, to tuM kAMI evuM karI batAvaje ke A honAratamAMthI duniyA kaMIka aMze paNa mukta thAya. paNa tuM pote jo A honAratamAM sapaDAI gaI to mAruM mAthuM zaramathI jhUkI jaze. tArA pappAne gaurava ApavuM ke zarama e tArA hAthanI vAta che. I know, drugsno pracAra vadhAravA mATe Aje jAtajAtanI jALo bichAvavAmAM Ave che. tamAkuMthI mAMDIne senDavica ane cokaleTa sudhInI vastumAM DrugsnI bheLaseLa karIne mANasane ajANapaNe Drugsno baMdhANI banAvI devAmAM Ave che. beTA, A jIvana evI phAlatuM vastu mATe pheMkI devA jevI cIja nathI. tArA manane tuM khUba ja dRDha ane saMyamita banAvaje. jIbhanI gulAmImAMthI tuM haMmezA mukta raheje. One wrong step may give you a great fall. Always Beware of it my daughter ! svITu skUlamAM 7th standerdmAM bhaNato hato. eka divasa e ghare hato, tyAre enA baMne hAtha kheMcAvA lAgyA. e cIso pADavA lAgyo. enI mammI gabharAI gaI. paDozIo bhegAM thaI gayAM. badhAe joyuM ke enA hAthomAM-enI nasomAM

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DIET 19 sakhata tANa thaI rahI che. svITu bolavA lAgyo, "mane e cokaleTa Apo. jaladI mane..." svITue nAma ApyuM e cokaleTa paDozIno dIkaro laI Avyo. svITue e caoNkaleTa khAdhI, paNa koI phera na paDyo. e kahe, "mArI skUlanA kenTinamAMthI A caoNkaleTa laI Avo." lAvyA. caoNkaleTa khAdhI. TempararI rilIpha thaI gaI. eka caoNkaleTe kUmaLA bALakanI AkhI jiMdagI barabAda karI dIdhI. eTale ja ApaNI saMskRti kahe che - jJAtImamasAtam | ajANI jagyAthI Avela vastu ke ajANI vastu kadI na khAo. beTA, Aje ghare ghare vaDIlo bALakone khAvA-pIvAnI bAbatamAM ghaNI salAha ApatAM hoya che. Telivijhana, esaphiyara ane mArkeTiMga bALakanuM eTalI hade Brain Wash karI cUkyA hoya che, ke bALakane potAnA hitaciMtako duzmana jevA lAge che. mArI dIkarI, tuM tAruM jIvana barabAda kare, e paNa mane nahIM game. ane amArI TakaTaka tane duHkhI kare, e paNa mane nahIM game. mane to gamaze samaju dIkarI. sAttvika bhojanano AnaMda letI dIkarI. svAthya ane saMskArothI susamRddha dIkarI. beTA, jema bahAranuM khAvAnuM hAnikAraka che tema gharanuM paNa ayogya khAvAnuM hAnikAraka che.

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20 For example ati uSNa : lava yu DoTara vadhAre paDatuM garama bhojana zarIramAM vAyuno prakopa kare, khAMsI kare. enAthI amlapitta, raktapitta, nabaLAI ane atisAra (jhADA) thaI zake che. ghaNAne ekadama dajhADatI cA pIvAnI Teva hoya che. evI cA dAMta ane AMtaraDAne kharAba kare. dAMtanA ghaNA rogo bahu garama vastu khAvAthI thatA hoya che. evA bhojanathI atisAra, saMgrahaNI ane vIryapAtano roga thAya che. ati khAruM H ati khATuM : ati AhAra : koI paNa khorAka vadhu paDato levAmAM Ave, to e taMdurastIno pahelo duzmana / bane che. haMmezA bhUkha karatAM thoDuM ochuM khAvAthI pAcana barAbara thAya che ane Arogya sAruM rahe che. ati zIta : vAyuno prakopa kare. (Ice-cream, cold-drinks etc.) 'What?'mAM chellI vAta che zAkanI. enAthI AMtaraDAmAM cAMdA paDe che ane vIryazakti para dhakko pahoMce che. kadAca tuM bolI uThIza 'zAka' to bahu sArA. well, A saMdarbhamAM eka majAnI vAta che. chagana basamAM musApharI karato hato. enI bAjumAM eka Gentleman AvIne birAjamAna thayAM. chagana joI ja rahyo. eka to unALo, emAM baporano samaya ne emAM e bhAIe zarTa upara TAi caDAvIne upara pAcho koTa paheryo hato. thoDI vAra thaI, chaganathI rahevAyuM nahIM, eNe pUchyuM, "ATalI garamImAM A zUTa ?...' e Gentleman bolyAM, iMglenDamAM to ThaMDI che ne ?...'

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DIET chagana samajI gayo. ke Ane kAMI samajAvavA jevuM nathI. We are talking about vegitables. phorenamAM mAMsAhAranuM pramANa khUba ja che. mAMsa e phakta amuka jaMgalI prANIono khorAka che. mAnava zarIra racanA zAkAhArI prANIone ja anurUpa che. tethI phorenanA loko mAMsAhAranA ghaNA ghaNA duSpariNAmo bhogave che. apacAthI mAMDIne kaeNnsara sudhInA. mATe tyAMnAM DaoNkTarsa ane meDikala risarca senTarsa zAkAhAra para khUba ja bhAra mUke che. enA phAyadA samajAve che. tyAMnA lokono kabajiyAtano TrAphika jAma zAka dvArA kaMIka klIyara thato hoya che. ApaNane enI jarUra nathI. ulaTu enAthI ApaNA AMtaraDA upara bojo vadhI jAya che. ane pAcanakriyA bagaDe che. tIkhAM zAka rakta dUSita kare che. kSAra-pANIvALA zAka hojarI ane AMtaraDAne bagADe che. ati khATA zAka sAMdhA bagADe che. kohavAyelA-bagaDelA zAka ghaNI rIte nukasAna kare che. paNa ApaNane phorena upara khUba ja vizvAsa che, kadAca bhagavAna karatAM paNa vadhAre. mATe ApaNe AMkha mIMcIne emanuM anukaraNa karIe chIe. emAM pAchuM ApaNuM gaurava samajIe chIe. ane pachI duHkhI thaIe

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lava yu DoTara eTale doSano Topalo nAMkhavA mATenA kAraNo zodhI kADhIe chIe. mahAbhAratanI eka ghaTanA che - yakSaprazna. yakSa yudhiSThirane prazna kare che - zeDaru ? koNa nIrogI rahe che ? yudhiSThira javAba Ape che - hitamu je hitakArI bhojana le. mitamu je parimita bhojana le. azamud je zAka na khAya. A traNa niyamo pALe te nIrogI rahe che. cANakyanItimAM kahyuM che - zaphreina sevA varSane . zAkathI rogo vadhe che. majAnI vAta to e che ke A badhI vAta sArI jagyAe sArA pANIthI banAvelA zAkonI che. zaheromAM gaTaromAM sAva ja gaMdhAtA pANI ane gaMdakIo dvArA zAko ugADavAmAM AvatAM hoya che. e zAkonI asaro jANavA mATe kadAca navesarathI saMzodhana karavAnI jarUra che. mArI vahAlI, te kadI roDa para khodakAma karatAM ke makAnonuM bAMdhakAma karatAM majUrone joyA che? emanA zarIra keTalA sazakta hoya che ! emanuM eka sadbhAgya evuM che, ke zAka emane posAtAM ja nathI. roTalI ke roTalA sAthe caTaNI ke maracuM... AmAM emanuM AkhuM bhojana AvI gayuM. huM rAjasthAnamAM mAravADa pradezamAM gayo hato,

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23 DIET tyAMnA lokonuM zarIra ApaNA karatAM traNa gaNuM majabUta. jADI roTalI ane chAza e temano mukhya khorAka. yA e loko zAka khAtAM ja nathI ane yA to caTaNI jeTaluM ja zAka khAya che. meM mArka karyuM, ke e lokomAM camAvALAnuM pramANa khUba ja ochuM che. mane tarata ja nItivAkyAmRtanuM eka sUtra yAda AvI gayuM. sarve zAkA dRSTiharAH / badhAM zAko AMkhonI rozanIne ochI karI de che. My dear, duniyA kadAca sAMbhaLelI vAta kahetI haze, huM tane AMkhe joyeluM kahuM chuM. Adhunika vijJAna rogonA kharA mULa pakaDI pADe. tyAM sudhImAM loko e rogono bhoga banI jatAM hoya che. heltha ke sTrentha baMne dRSTie zAka sAruM nathI. zAkena vardhate malam / zAkathI maLa vadhe che. kharIdavAno kharca, rAMdhavAno zrama, AMtaraDAMono parizrama ane maLanuM utpAdana This is the shak-story. Number 4 - How ? koIe sarasa vAta karI che. Eat water, drink food. pANI eTaluM dhIme dhIme pIvo ke jANe ene jamatAM ho. khorAka eTalo cAvIne khAo ke ene gaLe utAro tyAre e pravAhI jevo banI gayo hoya. beTA, hojarImAM dAMta hotA nathI.

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24 lava yu DoTara dAMtanuM pUrepUruM kAma jo dAMta nahIM kare, to eka divasa hojarI javAba ApI deze. TI.vI. jotAM jotAM, mobAila ke lepaTopa calAvatAM calAvatAM, riDIMga karatAM karatAM khAvuM, e hAthe karIne pAcanataMtrane DisTarba karavAno rasto che. tamAruM mana kyAMka bIje che ane tame koI bIjuM kAma karI rahyA cho, to e kAmamAM goTALAM thavAnAM ja che. mArI vhAlI, That's possible ke tAro Interest joIne huM ke tArI mammI tane rokIe nahIM. dAdA ke bA tane Toke, to ya tuM aTake nahIM, But, jyAre tAruM Body ja tArI opposemAM haze. tyAre tuM zuM karIza? Be wise my daughter. eka samaye eka kAma. How? nA ghaNA badhAM factors che. * khullAmAM na khAvuM : AkAzamAMthI sUkSma jIvANuo, rajakaNo vagere to paDatAM ja hoya che, paNa samaDI jevA paMkhI sApane pakaDIne laI jatAM hoya, e sApanuM jhera nIce paDyuM hoya ane bhojanamAM Mix thaIne e jhere koIno jIva lIdho hoya, evI paNa ghaTanA banI che.

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* Teko daIne na khAvuM * 25 : pAcanataMtranI sakriyatA mATe A jarUrI che. Aje Tebala-khurazInuM calaNa vadhyuM che, tema rogo paNa vadhyAM che. svastha, TaTTArapaNe palAMThI vALIne zAMta citte jamavuM e sArA Arogya mATe khUba upayogI che. maunapaNe khAvuM DIET zarIra-vastranI zuddhipUrvaka khAvuM : hAtha-paga gaMdA hoya ane vastro melAM hoya, evI sthitimAM khAvAthI svAsthya kathaLe che. : bolatI vakhate ApaNA zarIrano vAyu urdhvagati kare che ane khAtI vakhate nIce gati kare che. mATe khAtAM-khAtAM bolavAthI khorAka barAbara utarI zakato nathI. udharasa Ave che. pAcanakriyA bagaDe che. koI khAtAM khAtAM bolatuM hoya, e jovuM ane sAMbhaLavuM paNa behuduM lAge che. One more reason, zabda e jJAna che. eMThA moDhe bolavAthI jJAnanuM apamAna thAya che. mATe ja ApaNI saMskRtiAmaM kahyuM che - bhuJjate kevalaM pApaM, yo na maunena munnate / je maunapUrvaka nathI jamato, te pApa ja jamI rahyo che. * mAtA-pitA Adine jamADIne jamavuM H mAtA, pitA, bALaka, garbhavatI strI, vRddha ane rogI ATalA jaNane jamADIne pachI bhojana karavuM joIe. bhojana karyAM pahelAM ApaNane Azrita nokara-cAkaro ane ApaNe pALelAM

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26 taDakAmAM na khAvuM aMdhArAmAM na khAvuM * jhADa nIce na khAvuM nirvastrapaNe na khAvuM bhInA kapaDe na khAvuM lava yu DoTara khUba AsaktithI na khAvuM pazu-paMkhIo jamyA ke nahIM, e paNa jovuM joIe. : sIdhAM sUryakiraNomAM khAvuM e Arogya ane nItithI viruddha che. : bhojana barAbara dekhAya nahIM e rIte khAvuM e jIvadayAno tyAga che ane svAsthyano jugAra che. : jhADamAM jIva-jaMtuthI mAMDIne sApa sudhInA prANIo rahelA hoI zake. uparathI DALI-DALakhAM ke paMkhIonI gaMdakI paDI zake. mATe jhADa nIce na khAvuM joIe. : A dazAmAM snAna paNa ucita nathI. A dazAthI vIryazaktine dhakko pahoMce che. mana kSobhita thAya che, ekAgratA, yAdazakti ane buddhizakti ghaTe che. mATe ApaNI saMskRtimAM evuM kahyuM che ke snAna karatI vakhate paNa AMzika vastro paheravA joIe . nirvasvadazAmAM cokkasa prakAranuM zArIrika ane mAnasika parivartana Ave che, mATe e dazAmAM lIdheluM bhojana barAbara pacatuM nathI. : bhInAM vastro raktaparibhramaNa ane zArIrika dhAtuo para khAsa asara kare che. mATe te samaye zarIra bhojana karavAne yogya hotuM nathI. : rucipUrvaka khAvuM ane pAgala banIne khAvuM e baMnemAM pharaka che. svAdanI lolupatA mananI svasthatAne to khorave ja che, bhojananuM pramANa paNa jALavavA

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DIET detI nathI. pariNAma... ajIrNa ane rogo. * caMpala vagere paherIne na khAvuM : khullA page khAvuM e supAcana mATe jarUrI che. * vyagra mane na khAvuM : TI.vI. vagere jotAM, gabharATamAM, gussAmAM ke vicAronA dhamasANamAM khAvAthI te bhojana barAbara pacatuM nathI. * DAyarekTa jamIna para besI na khAvuM? bAjoTha ke Asana para besIne khAvuM joIe, jethI zarIranI UrjA TakI rahe ane jaTharAgni maMda na thaI jAya. * palaMga vagere para besIne na khAvuM : bhojana samaye zarIranI je sthiti hovI joIe, te palaMga vagere para saMbhavita nathI. * pharI garama karI na khAvuM : tAjuM khAo ane 4 kalAka pachI pharI garama karIne khAo emAM eTalo ja pharaka che jeTalo lAkha rUpiyA ane cAra-AnAmAM pharaka che. * paramAtmAnuM smaraNa karIne khAvuM: enAthI mana zAMta ane prasanna bane che. pariNAme samagra pAcanataMtra vyavasthita thaI jAya che. jamaNA nAkathI zvAsa cAlato hoya nAkanI DAbI bAju baMdha karIne betyAre khAvuM : cAra UMDA zvAsa levAthI jamaNI nADI cAluM thaI jAya che. jene sUryanADI kahevAya che. yogya pAcanakriyA mATe jamatI vakhate sUryanADI cAluM hoya, te upayogI che. * kramapUrvaka khAvuM : bhojanamAM gaLapaNavALI ke ghIvALI vastu hoya, tene sau prathama khAvI joIe, khArI, tUrI ke pravAhI vastu hoya, tene vacce khAvI joIe, tIkhI

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28 lava yu DoTara ane kaDavI vastu sauthI chelle khAvI joIe. * jalapAna yogya samaye karavuM ? bhojananI zarUAtamAM pANI pIvAmAM Ave, to jaTharAgni maMda thAya che = DAijeTiMga pAvara ghaTe che. bhojananI vacce pANI pIvAmAM Ave, te amRtanI samAna che. bhojananA aMte pANI pIvAmAM Ave te jhera samAna che. mATe bhojana pahelAM ke pachI pANI na pIvuM, bhojanamAM vacce pANI pIvuM. bhojana pachI thoDA samaya sudhI zarIra dabAvavuM, bhAra upADavo, besavuM, doDavuM ke snAna vagere karavuM - AmAMthI kazuM paNa na karavuM joIe. A viSayamAM bahu sarasa zloka che. muvattvopavirataH - jamIne bese to peTa vadhe. vartamuttAnazAyinaHA - cattA sUve to baLa vadhe. AyurvAzayAtha - DAbe paDakhe sUve to AyuSya vadhe. mRtyuvati dhAvata: - doDe to mRtyu doDatuM Ave. bhojana karyA pachI be ghaDI (48 miniTa) sudhI DAbe paDakhe sUvuM joIe. ahIM sUvAno artha UMdhavuM evo nathI. jAgRtapaNe paDyA rahevAnI vAta che. taMdUlavecArika AgamamAM kahyuM che - vAne pAse suparine paUUjo - DAbuM paDakhuM sukha Ape che. hari pAse 3pariNAme paUtte - jamaNuM paDakhuM duHkha Ape che. sUvAne badale 100 pagalAM jeTaluM cAlI paNa zakAya.

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DIET ra9 mArI vhAlI, This is the right diet, This is the food science. tArI pappAnI eka nAnakaDI bheTa sAcavIne rAkhIza ne?

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MAKEUP 30

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MAKE-UP 31 beTA, hamaNAthI huM joI rahyo chuM. ke tArI parsanAliTI-AuTaluka mATenI sabhAnatA vadhI gaI che. bAtharUmamAM pahelA eka ja sAbu raheto, have likviDa zaoNpa, zempa, kanDiznara vagerenI lAIna dekhAya che. arIsA pAse tAruM meka-apa boksa, skIna kera ane paraphyumsa to hoya ja che. paNa e badhAMno upayoga karI lIdhA pachI paNa arIsAnI sAme tuM khAsso samaya vItAve che. zaramAM nahIM beTA, huM tane ToMTa paNa nathI mArato, ane tAre AvuM badhuM na karavuM joIe evuM paNa nathI kaheto. A to eka uMmara sahaja vartaNUMka che. A uMmare "sArA dekhAvAnI lAgaNI vizeSa thAya. huM to tane e kahevA mAMguM chuM, ke sArA dekhAvuM eTale zuM? tArI koI bahenapaNI philmI eksesane paNa Takkara mAre evI rUpALI hoya, paNa eno Nature sAva ja Daccara hoya, sAcI-khoTI niMdA-kuthalI karyA karavAno ene zokha hoya, nAnI vAtamAM ya ene gusso AvI jato hoya, gussAmAM e zuM bolI rahI che, enuM bhAna ene na rahetuM hoya, koInA mATe eka rUpiyo ya na kharce evI e kaMjUsa hoya, to zuM e tane gamaze kharI? tuM ene "sArI' kahIza kharI ? nA ne ? basa, have tuM "sArA"ne samajI rahI che. kharuM sauMdarya sadguNo che. saguNo vinAnuM bAhya-rUpa khUba ja kadarUpuM banI jAya che.

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32 lava yu DoTara tArI ja vAta karuM, to tuM hasatI, gAtI, koIne madada karatI sArI lAge che. paNa jyAre tuM gussAmAM hoya, dalIla karatI hoya, ke paga pachADIne UMce avAje bolatI hoya, tyAre jarAya sArI nathI lAgatI. mArI vahAlI, vAta phakta tArI nathI, badhAMnI che, mANasa gussAmAM hoya, tyAre potAno cahero arIsAmAM joI le, to te jarUra zaramAI jAya. mANasa meka-apanA abhAvamAM kadarUpo nathI lAgato, sadgaNonA abhAvamAM kadarUpo lAge che. tethI ja, "sArA" ke "suMdara' banavA mATe byuTI pArlaranI nahIM, paNa saguNa pArlaranI jarUra che. ApaNA dezanI lAkho varSanI saMskRtimAM mAtA, pitA ane guru A kArya karatAM rahyAM che. bhItaranA sauMdaryane soLe kaLAe khIlavavAnuM kArya. jarUra eTalI ja che, ke ApaNane hakIkatamAM zenI jarUra che, e ApaNane samajAI jAya. I don't Say, ke tAre bAhya dekhAva mATe sAva lAparavA ja banI javuM, ke eka paNa sauMdaryaprasAdhanano upayoga ja na karavo. mArI vAta to e ja che. ke ApaNA mATe vadhu mahattvanI

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33 MAKE-UP ane vadhu dhyAna ApavA jevI kaI vastu che e vastu sAva ja bhUlAI jAya. ane najIvI vastu sarvesarvA banI jAya. tyAre ApaNe jiMdagIno jugAra khelI nAMkhIe chIe. hakIkatamAM mUrkha banIe chIe. My dear, A viSayamAM eka khAsa vAta, kyAreka koI khAsa tahevAra ke koI khAsa prasaMge tuM meka-apa kare, to enuM maTiriyala necarala ja hoya, eno khAsa khyAla rAkhaje. Natural means jeno sorsa vanaspati vagere hoya, pazu-paMkhI vagere nahIM. mArI vhAlI, kadAca tane khabara nahIM hoya, hela mAchalIne mArIne tene pIsIne lisTika banAvAya che, teno prayoga vAMdarAo para karAya che, temAM teo taDapI taDapIne marI jAya che. moDhA para lagAvAtA lozana vageremAM vAMdarAnI AMkha ane vAMdarAnA hRdayane pIsIne nAMkhavAmAM Ave che. temAM kAcabAnuM tela paNa nAMkhavAmAM Ave che. seTsa, paraphyumsa ane DioDoranTa banAvavA mATe haraNa, kastUrImRga, bIvara vagerenI karapINa hatyA karavAmAM Ave che. zempa IMDAmAMthI bane che. teno prayoga karavA mATe sasalAMo para bhayaMkara atyAcAra karavAmAM Ave che. jemAM sasalAMo aMdha bane che ane marI paNa jAya che.

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34 lava yu DoTara sUvarone jIvatA zekIne temanA vALamAMthI meka-apa braza banAvAya che. beTA, meM pote e phoTAo joyA che. joyA che, ema kahevA karatAM ema kahevuM bahetara thaze ke huM e phoTAo joI na zakyo. e divase huM jamI na zakyo. mane khyAla che ke A proDakTsanA proDakzana ane risarcanI philma paNa Ave che. jenA hRdayamAM thoDI paNa mANasAI hoya, e A philmsa joyA pachI e proDakTsano yujha karavAno vicAra suddhAM na kare. mArI vhAlI, bIjAne pIDA ApIne bIjAne ribAvI ribAvIne mArIne suMdara dekhAvAnI vRtti kadI mANasanI hoI zake kharI ? A to amAnuSI aparAdha che. A to DAkaNa ke rAkSasI ja karI zake tevuM kAma che. mArI dIkarI, bIjAne raDAvIne... tuM svapnamAM paNa evI nahIM banatI, tAre to 'devI' banavAnuM che. dayA ane karuNAnI devI. Itself beauty. Natural beauty. I tell you a logic. eka chokarIe zaeNmpUno upayoga karyo che, dekhAvaDI haeNrasTAila karIne e koI lagnamAM gaI che. enI sAthe eka moTo Alabama che. phula sAijhano. emAM e zaeNmpUnuM proDakzana vagere batAvyuM che.

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3pa MAKE-UP kaI rIte polTiphArmamAM maraghIonI cAMco ane pAMkho krUratAthI kApI nAMkhavAmAM AvI, kaI rIte eka-eka pAMjarAmAM traNa-cAra gaNI maraghIone berahamIthI pUrI devAmAM AvI, kaI rIte emane kRtrima prakAzathI trAsa apAyo, kaI rIte emane kacarA jevo hAnikAraka khorAka apAyo, kaI rIte emanA nara-mAdA paMkhIone alaga rakhAyA, kaI rIte emane jokhamI ijekzano apAyA, kaI rIte emane divasa-rAta emanI ja hagAramAM nAhavAnI ane e ja hagAra khAvAnI pharaja paDAI, kaI rIte emane kRtrima prasUti karAvI karAvIne IMDAonuM utpAdana karAyuM. kaI rIte emanI pharTiliTI pUrI thatAM emanI karapINa hatyA karAI, IMDA, jene pakSIno garbha kahevAya, emAMthI kaI rIte zaimpa banAvavAmAM Avyo, kaI rIte sasalAMone pakaDI lAvavAmAM AvyA, kaI rIte emane mazInomAM phITa karI devAmAM AvyA, kaI rIte teo emanI AMkho baMdha na karI de, e mATe emanI pAMpaNone liTaralI sIvI devAmAM AvI, kaI rIte zempano emanI AMkhomAM TesTiMga karAtAM karAtAM teo asahya vedanA bhogavIne AMdhaLA thaI gayAM, kaI rIte emane mArI nAkhIne rebiTa cikana tarIke hoTelsamAM sarva karAyAM ke kUtarA jevA prANIonuM bhojana banAvI devAyA.. A badhI ja prosijara e AlabamamAM pratyakSa batAvavAmAM AvI che.

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36 lava yu DoTara e chokarI ene vIMTaLAyelA lokone A badhuM ja batADe che, ane kahe che A zaeNmpU meM vAparyo che. Tell me my daughter, What will people feel for her ? lokone enA mATe mAna thaze ? ke pachI napharata chUTI jaze ? koNa ene jovI pasaMda ka2ze ? AlabamanI vAta javA de, je krUratA maraghIo para, IMDAo 52 ane sasalAMo para karavAmAM AvI, e ja krUratAno bhAva jo enA caherA para haze, ke enI vANI ke vartanamAM e krUratAnI chAMTa haze, to e koIne ya 'sArI' lAgaze kharI ? This is the fact. dekhAtuM sauMdarya... dekhAvanuM premALa smita... prastuta karAtI AtmIyatA. A badhuM ja chaLa che. prapaMca che. so bALakonuM khUna karIne Avelo guMDo ekaso ekamAM bALakane premathI cUmI bharato hoya, evuM A nATaka che. mArI vhAlI, A badho pardAphAza thAya, to duniyA je hIroino ne maoNDelonI pAchaLa doDe che, temanA para thUMke paNa nahIM. This is clearly dual character beTA, tuM nakkI karI le, ke tAre kevA thavuM che ? tane Transperancy game che ne ? prema ane karuNA game che ne ?

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MAKE-UP to tuM Totaly evI ja thA. AkhA caherA para Non veg. copaDIne Veg. dish khAnAra vyakti duniyAne pachI chetare che. pahelA to e pote ja mUrkha banatI hoya che. phoreinamAM mAtra phUDa proDakTasa para ja nahIM, bIjA paNa proDaksa para Suitable/not-suitable for vegeterians sUcanA lakhavI kampalasarI hoya che. ApaNe tyAM evuM nathI. sUcanA hoya, e ya sAcI hoya e jarUrI nathI. keTalIya prANIja vastuone ApaNe tyAM Non veg.mAM gaNavAmAM AvI nathI. zuddha utpAdananuM paNa atyAcArI risarca thayuM hoya, to te jANI zakAtuM nathI. koDavarDsano yujha karIne kanTeinsamAM ApaNane sareAma chetaravAmAM Ave che. mArI vhAlI, khAvAmAM ke sauMdarya prasadhAnomAM jeTalI gharanI vastuo haze, emAM ApaNA sadguNonI rakSA che, e sivAya 37 'hatyArA' banI javAthI na ja bacI zakIe evuM olmosTa eTamosphiyara che. Do you know my dear ? Lux jevA sAbunI AddmAM je selibriTIsa dekhAtI hoya che,

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32 lava yu DoTara teo kadI LuxthI Bath letI nathI hotI, They live on the skin. They are the most concious for it. They know very well, Most soaps are not good for the skin. tethI teo sAbunI badale haLadara vagereno upayoga kare che. Why are you laughing ? I'm not joking, tuM pote tapAsa karI zake che. paNa LuxvALAe lAkho rUpiyAthI temanuM moTuM bharI dIdhuM hoya che. eTale emanI pAsethI tene sAco javAba na maLI zake. This is also a froud. mArI dIkarI, tuM samajadAra che ne? to samajI le. Soap etc. is not for skin & not for beauty, But for buisiness, Just to earn money. mane ghaNI vAra vicAra Ave che. ke mArI pautrInI pautrI barAbara evI rIte jIvatI haze, jevI rIte mArA dAdInA dAdI jIvatA hatAM. kadAca tyAM sudhImAM A badho ja pardAphAza thaI jaze ane eka cakra pUruM thaze. paNa tAruM zuM beTA? tuM icche, to Aje paNa bacI zake che.

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MAKE-UP tuM khAvAnI bAbatamAM Health-carenA purposethI ke sauMdaryanI bAbatamAM Skin-carenA purposethI paNa bacI zake, paNa mane tArA mATe tyAre garva thaze, jyAre tuM prema ane karuNAnA Issue para bacIza. mArI vhAlI, Ama juo to bacavAnI vAta eka ja che, chatAM ya bacavA-bacavAmAM AsamAna-jamInano pharaka che. beTA, Now I come to the third point of view. I don't know. tane khabara che ke nahIM, paNa kaoNlejamAM bhaNatI keTalIya chokarIone gharethI kaoNlejanI phIsa ane TeksTa-buksanA paisA maLe che. basa-TrenanuM bhADuM ke peTrolanA paisA maLe che. paNa emanA moMghA paraphyumsa ane meka-apanA paisA ApavA e temanA pitA mATe zakya nathI. emanAmAMthI keTalIka chokarIoe A kharco kADhavA mATe rasto kADhI lAdhI che. ne e rasto sAva ja nIca che. I think you can understand. keTalIka chokarIonI vRtti evI che, ke meka-apa karavo che chokarAone impresa karavA mATe, chokarAone impresa karavA che durAcAra mATe, 39

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lava yu DoTara ane durAcAra karavo che meka-apa vagerenA bajeTa mATe, che ne mAthuM pharI jAya evI dAstAna. beTA, mane khabara che, A badhuM sAMbhaLatA ya tane emanA para dhRNA thaI AvI che. My point is this - koI paNa vastunI jIvanamAM evI AvazyakatA UbhI thavA na devI ke e vastu ApaNA para rAja kare. ane ApaNA Principals toDavA mATe ApaNane majabUra karI de, ApaNane Boundaries cross karavA mATe lAcAra karI de, ne ApaNane ApaNA CharacterthI patita karI de. mArI vhAlI, cAritra e ApaNo AtmA che. That's our self. enuM khUna karIne je sukha maLe e hakIkatamAM maDadAM parano zaNagAra che. Which is actualy meaningless or horrible. Always beware of it. beTA, ApaNI saMskRtimAM to je strI khUba ja rUpALI hoya, te strI potAnA zIlanI rakSA mATe pIThanA bhAge evI poTakI bAMdhatI ke jenAthI jonArAne evuM lAge ke e kubbA (kubaDI) che. ApaNane tyAM dareka strI lAja kADhatI.

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MAKE-UP 41 e baMdhana nahIM paNa surakSA hatI. Aje vesTarna kalcaranA AMdhaLA anukaraNamAM lAja to gaI, mAthuM DhAMkavAnuM paNa gayuM, kapaDAMo yA to TUMko thatAM gayAM, ane yA to custa thatAM gayAM. A badhI rAmAyaNamAM eka samAMtara ghaTanA e banI ke je je bhAga ughADo thato gayo, ene samAravAnI-zaNagAravAnI upAdhio vadhatI gaI. arIsAnI sAme UbhA rahevAno samaya vadhato gayo. hisAba karAya to khabara paDe ke ApaNI eka nAnakaDI jiMdagInA amUlya varSo A badhI TApaTIpa pAchaLa veDaphAI jAya che. chagane chApuM vAMcatA vAMcatA enI patnIne kahyuM, "have evA phona Avaze, ke risIva karatAnI sAthe ekabIjAno cahero dekhAya." vAipha kahe : "to to phona upADatA pahelA meka-apa karavA doDavuM paDaze." lAkha rUpiyAno prazna e che, ke A badhuM konA mATe ? I mean, kone dekhADavA mATe ? gAma AkhA mATe ? AkhA zahera mATe ? jenuM saudarya AkhA nagara mATe hoya, evI strIne ApaNe tyAM "nagaravadhU" kahevAtI. jeno paryAya zabda che vezyA. eka kulIna strInuM sauMdarya mAtra enA pati mATe hoya che.

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42 lava yu DoTara A svAgrahanI vAta nathI, sAhajika vAta che. nirmaLa prema, sahaja AtmIyatA ane svastha dAmpatyanI A eka mahattvanI AdhArazilA che, jene gumAvIne Aje lAkho ghara bhAMgyA che. ane lAkho koDabharI kanyAonI kiMmata phUTI koDInI paNa rahI nathI. mArI vhAlI, duniyA zuM karI rahI che, e tuM be miniTa mATe bhUlI jA, ane nyUTralI vicAra karI ke vesTarna Dresa paherIne, meka-apa karIne, paraphyumsa chAMTIne jAhera rastA para potAne pradarzita karIne kaoNlejanA pAMcaso-hajAra chokarAMo potAne TIkI-TIkIne jue evuM kAma karIne pAMca-paccIza chokarAo sAthe vAto-majAka-mazkarI karanArI chokarI hoya, enA cAritryanI bhUmikA kayA prakAranI kahI zakAya? beTA, je badhAnI hoya che, e koInI nathI hotI. jhAkajhamALa ane jIvanamAM ghaNo pharaka hoya che. chagana eka vAra philma-siTImAM jaI caDyo. Ama to vaoNcamaeNna ene aMdara javA na deta,

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MAKE-UP 43 paNa koI presa-riporTara jato hato, enI sAthe sAthe e ya ghusI gayo. riporTara eka ekTresane maLyo. inTaravyu cAlu thayo, chagana traNa phUTa pAchaLathI jovA lAgyo. saMvAda cAlu hato tyAM eksesa pAse koI vyakti AvI. eksese riporTarane kahyuM, "Amane maLo, e mArA pati che." riporTare kahyuM, "tamArA dareka patine maLIne mane khUba ja AnaMda thAya che." amerikana ke yuropiyana leDI je enA cothA patinI AThamI patnI che, enA jIvananI yAtanAone tuM jANI zake, to mArI vAta tane barAbara samajAI jaze. ApaNe tyAM e sthiti nathI, paNa ApaNe e sthitinI dizAmAM AgaLa vadhI rahyA chIe. beTA, tyAM strI jevI strI sigAreTa, dArU ane DragsanI baMdhANI thaI jAya, citra-vicitra rogono bhoga banI jAya, ane mAnasa-cikitsakanI mulAkAto letI thaI jAya, e badhuM ja kahevAtA nArI-svAtaMtryanI kiMmata hoya che. khUba ja bhAre kiMmata. jenA AkharI haptAomAM pAgalapaNuM ane AghAta paNa hoI zake che.

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DRESS 45 mArI vhAlI, je vAta meka-apanI che, te ja vAta DresamAM paNa lAgu paDe che. pharaka eTalo ja ke DresamAM A meTara vadhu siriyasa thAya che. oNlTaraneka kapaDAM, TUMkA skarTa, belI Topa, laoN-vesTa jinsa.. A badhuM ApaNA manamAM ane bIjAnA manamAM amuka khAsa prakAranA vicAro janmAve che. thoDuM spaSTa kahuM to A badhuM ApaNA para ane bIjA para mAnasika baLajabarI kare che. TUMkA vastro ke custa vastro dvArA dehapradarzana karIne sAmenI vyaktine uzkeravAnI A AkhI mAnasikatA e pazcimanI dena che. beTA, huM joI rahyo chuM, ke AjanI navI peDhI pazcimane ravADe TUMkA raste AgaLa vadhavAnI mAnasika tANano bhoga banI che, AMdhaLuM anukaraNa, ayogya paheraveza, anicchanIya chUTa-chATo ane lakSmaNarekhAnuM ullaMghana e badhuM ja A "tANanuM pariNAma che. mArI vhAlI, yauvanane AMbatI dIkarI jyAre vesTarna Dresa paherIne gharanI bahAra nIkaLe, tyAre enA pitA kevI vyathAmAMthI pasAra thatAM hoya che eno tane aMdAja AvI zake tema nathI. I don't think, e vyathA mota jevI hoya che."

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46 lava yu DoTara mota to kadAca enA karatAM ghaNuM sastuM haze. e vyathA enA karatAM paNa bhAre hoya che. Dress-point para mAtA-pitA sAthe dalIlo karatI jamAnAnA havAlA ApatI, 'badhI phrenDsa'nuM bahAnuM rajU karatI, Fashion ke ComfertnA nAme vAta uDAvI detI chokarIone A vyathAno koI ja khyAla hoto nathI. beTA, siMha jevo paNa bApa hoya ne, e ya dIkarInA lagnanA mAMDave vidAyanI veLA Ave, tyAre sAva ja bhAMgI paDato hoya che. AvA samaye dhrusake ne dhrusake raDI paDatAM pitAone meM sagI AMkhe joyAM che. anilabhAI joSInI pelI paMktio yAda Ave - dIkarIno mAMDavo jo sUrajane ghera hota, to jANata aMdhAruM zI cIja che ? mArI vhAlI, meM evA pitAne joyAM che, jemanI pAse baMgalo ne gADI che, dIkarIo TharIThAma che. premALa parivAra che ne Arogya sAruM che, chatAM ya teo duHkhI che, kAraNa ke emanI dIkarI du:khI che. mAro kahevAno Azaya e ja che, ke dIkarInI sAthe AvuM snehAdvaita anubhavatA ane dIkarIne kendramAM rAkhIne jIvatA pitAnI vyathA

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DRESS e dIkarInI potAnI vyathA na banI javI joIe ? You don't know my dear, mAtA-pitA saMtAnonI keTa-keTalI vAtomAM mana manAvatA hoya che... kompromAijha karatAM hoya che. paNa je vAta gaMbhIra hoya, je vAtamAM kompromAijha karavuM bilakula yogya na hoya, e vAtamAM emane kompromAijha karavAnI pharaja pADavAmAM Ave, tyAre emanA mana para zuM vItatI haze ? beTA, ame tArA duzmana nathI. tArA duHkhe duHkhI thanArA tArA sukha mATe jhaMkhanA karanArA ane tArA hitanI ja vAta karanArA chIe. je ekTresa, maoNDela ke phrenDane joIne tuM evo Dresa paheravA mAMge che, emanAmAMthI koI tArA hitanI javAbadArI levAnuM nathI. tAruM bhaviSya, tArI surakSA, tAruM sukha enI paLe paLa ciMtA amane satAve che, emane nahIM. beTA, ame jamAno joyo paNa che, ane ame jamAnAne joI paNa rahyA chIe, TI.vI. ane chApAomAM kayAM samAcAro Ave che ane ApaNI AjubAju zuM thaI rahyuM che, eno amane barAbara khyAla che. 47

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48 lava yu DoTara A sthitimAM tAro anucita paheraveza, tAruM ekalA bahAra javuM ke rAte gharanI bahAra hovuM e badhuM ja amArI aDadhI katala jevuM che. tuM samaje che ne? aDadhI katala. jemAM mANasa marato paNa nathI. ane jIvato paNa nathI. mArI vhAlI, kadAca ame tene orthoDoksa lAgatA hoIzuM Aje kayo samaya cAlI rahyo che, ne ame kayAM samayanI vAta karI rahyA chIe, evuM lAgatuM haze. paNa jo tuM sUmadaSTithI jue, to tane khyAla Avaze. ke jUnA samayamAM je maryAdAnI jarUra hatI enA karatAM sogaNI maryAdAnI jarUra Aje che. e samaye mANasanI nabaLI lAgaNIone uzkere evuM mIDiyAtaMtra na hatuM, TI.vI., sinemA, inTaraneTa, mobAila. kazuM ja na hatuM. AjanuM vAtAvaraNa Dagale ne pagale sArA mANasane paNa uzkerI mUke evuM che, A sthitimAM so gaNI maryAdAnuM pAlana thAya, to kadAca bacI zakAya,

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DRESS paNa AjanI vAstavikatA e che ke maryAdA somA bhAgathI ya nIce jatI rahI che. You may ask, "So what ? Indian Government crime beuro answers here. A dezamAM dara 4 miniTe strI-saMbaMdhI zArIrika ke mAnasika trAsa ApavAno eka guno noMdhAya che. dara 12 miniTe eka cheDa-chADano guno noMdhAya che. dara 29 miniTe eka baLAtkAra noMdhAya che. dara pa6 miniTe eka jAtIya zoSaNanI phariyAda noMdhAya che. dara 77 miniTe eka strInI hatyA noMdhAya che. mArI vhAlI, Mark this - 'noMdhAya che.' They don't say - 'thAya che.' tuM A vAMce che, tyAM sudhImAM A AMkaDAo vadhu ne vadhu bhayajanaka banI gayA che, noMdhAyelA keso vadhyA che ane 90% keso to noMdhAtA ja nathI. samagra vizvamAM 15 thI 44 varSanI strIonA jeTalA mota thAya che, 49 temAM akasmAta ke roganuM kAraNa ochuM che, jAtIya satAmaNInuM kAraNa vadhu che. vikasita deza hoya ke vikAsazIla strIzoSaNa badhe ja sAmAnya che. strI eka vAra enA maryAdAkavacamAMthI bahAra nIkaLI

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pa0 lava yu DoTara eTale khalAsa. zikArIo ane zikAra banAvavAmAM koI ja kasara nahIM choDe. vizva Arogya saMsthAe vizvanA 15 dezonI 29,000 strIono sarve karela. tenA coMkAvanArA tAraNo A mujaba hatAM.. 75% strIonuM zArIrika/mAnasika jAtIya zoSaNa karavAmAM Avela. 20% strIo para kama se kama eka vAra baLAtkArano prayAsa karavAmAM Avela. 70%thI vadhu strIo cheDatIno bhoga banela. mArI vhAlI, mAtA-pitAne mAthAno dukhAvo thaI jAya eTalI badhI chUTa-chATo letI AjanI dIkarIo mAtA-pitAne, sAMtvanA (!) ApatI hoya che, ke "huM koI evuM kAma nahIM karuM jenAthI tamAre zaramAvuM paDe." beTA, prAmANikapaNe AvuM vacana ApyA pachI paNa A vacana pALavuM e lagabhaga zakya hotuM nathI. chatAM kadAca zakya bane. to ya potAnA taraphathI jANI joIne lakSmaNarekhA oLaMgavAmAM nahIM Ave' ATalo ja eno artha thAya che. Do you know my dear ? zaheromAM kama se kama pa% yuvatIo vikRta mAnasikatAthI pIDAtA pIchAkhorothI parezAna che. A sthitimAM zuM thAya, e viSe ApaNI saMskRtimAM sacoTa vAta karI che - icchamaNicche dosA u|

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DRESS strI jo e vAsanAlaMpaTone vaza thAya, to enuM cAritra, eno ghara-saMsAra, enI sukha-zAMti A badhAMno satyAnAza vaLI jAya. phoTA-philmonI dhamakIo ene kAyama mATe Arthika rIte ane zArIrika rIte blekameila karatI rahe. ane jo strI emane vaza na thAya, to e zikArIo enA para baLAtkAra kare, zArIrika humalAo kare, enA para eNsiDa chAMTI de, enI hatyA karI de ke chevaTe kAMI nahIM to enI badanAmI karI de. mArI vhAlI, maryAdAkavacano koI ja vikalpa nathI. kAyado, daMDanI jogavAI, polIsa, vumana helpalAina A badhuM ja pAMgaLuM che. moTA bhAganA keso noMdhAtA nathI, noMdhAya to aparAdhIo pakaDAtAM nathI, pakaDAya to sahelAIthI chUTI jAya che, kadAca emane koI nAnI-moTI sajA thaI paNa jAya, paNa strIne je nukasAna thayuM, emAM zuM pharaka paDaze ? mANasa kadAca kUtarAne mArI paNa nAkhe, to ya e karaDyo che e to karaDyo ja che, ene mArI nAMkhavAthI tamane thayela 'ghA' radabAtala thaI jato nathI. mArI dIkarI, AvA kissAomAM gunegArano guno sAbita karavAno bAkI hoya che, 51

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52 lava yu DoTara jyAre strI to pote phariyAda kare tyArathI ja jANe gunegAra thaI jAya che. badhI rIte zoSAvAnuM to strIne ja. This is the cost of the freedom. beTA, duniyAnA raste UMdhuM ghAlIne doDavAnA badale eTalo vicAra kara ke A cost tane posAya evI che ? I tell you the truth my daughter ! A duniyA tuM mAne che eTalI sArI nathI. ahIM sArI vyakti paNa kAyama mATe sArI rahI zakatI nathI. nirdoSa mitratA kaI kSaNe kevo vaLAMka leze ane jIvanamAM kevo dharatIkaMpa lAvaze e kahevuM muzkela che. Dress jyAre anucita hoya, tyAre evI zakyatA anekagaNI vadhI jAya che. That's but natural. beTA, badalAtA samayanI sAthe have maMdiromAM borDsa lAgavA mAMDyA che. "A dhArmika sthAna che. ahIM abhadra veSa paherIne AvavuM nahIM.' What do you think over this? zuM A borDsa barAbara che ? mane to barAbara nathI lAgatAM. Why in temples only ? rastA 52, mArkeTamAM, kaoNlejamAM ke jAherasthaLomAM abhadra veza cAle ? hakIkata to e che

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pa3 DRESS ke anucita vezano bahiSkAra gharathI ja cAlu thaI javo joIe. saMskArI vezanI jarUriyAta jeTalI bahAra che, teTalI ja ghare paNa che. beTA, mAro eka mitra thoDA samayathI bahu udAsa raheto hato, meM ene gayA aThavADiye Agraha karIne pUchyuM, to e rItasara raDI ja paDyo. huM stabdha thaI gayo. meM dhIme dhIme enI pITha para hAtha pheravyo. enA AMsu lUkyA, ene pIvA mATe pANI ApyuM. meM ene pharI pUchavAnuM mAMDI vALyuM, paNa eNe pote ja dila kholIne mane vAta karI. enI dIkarInA vastro evA hatAM, ke enI potAnI ya najara enA para bagaDavA lAgI hatI. ene vAraMvAra evA vicAro AvyA karatA hatA, ke e enI patnI hoya to sAruM. eka vAra ene enA para baLAtkAra karavAnuM paNa mana thaI AvyuM hatuM. beTA, pitRtvanI hatyA e pitAnI ja hatyA che. AjanI lAkho ke karoDo dIkarIo ajANapaNe paNa ochA-vattA aMze A hatyA karI rahI che. pitA hoya, bhAI hoya, kAkA ke mAmA hoya ke pachI diyara ke sasarA hoya,

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54 lava yu DoTara Akhare e badhAM paNa "puruSa' che. puruSasahaja vRttio temanAmAM paDelI ja hoya che. tene anurUpa nimitta maLe eTale e vRttio sateja na thAya to ja navAI. chokarIonI cheDatI karanArA chAkaTA chokarAone DAhyA mANaso kahetAM, ke tArA ghare mA-bahena che ke nahIM? bhAIlA tAre bahena che vAru? beTA tAre mADI che vAru? gharamAM tAre che vahu vAru? paNa Aje jyAre evA samAcAro chapAtAM hoya ke "sagAM bApe dIkarI upara... "sagAM bhAIe bahena para.' najIkanA sagAe...' tyAre uparokta prazno paNa vyartha lAge che. haiyAne cIrIne eka prazna bahAra Ave che, Why ? Akhare zA mATe AvuM thAya che? eka prAcIna prAkRta-kathAmAM be ja zabdamAM A praznano javAba ApI dIdho che - juvai nva susNvuddNgii| kathAnA prAraMbhamAM ja eka nagarInuM varNana Ave che. judAM judAM pAsAothI judI judI upamAothI e nagarInuM svarUpa samajAvatAM samajAvatAM lekhaka lakhe che - e nagarI yuvatInI jema susaMvRtAMgI che.

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DRESS jema yuvatInuM zarIra mAthAthI paga sudhI barAbara rIte DhaMkAyeluM ja hoya, tema e nagarI paNa killA dvArA sArI rIte AvRta (covered) che. vAta nagarInI che, paNa emAM sahaja nArIdharmane bahu ja sahajatAthI varaNI lIdho che. Mark karavAnI vastu e che, ke lekhaka ema nathI lakhatAM ke yuvatIe saMpUrNa zarIrane yogya vastrothI barAbara DhAMkIne rAkhavuM joIe. lekhaka to ema kahI rahyA che. ke jema yuvatI, koI paNa yuvatI, barAbara DhaMkAyelI ja hoya, tema te examplethI A nagarIne paNa tame samajo. jovI ya na game evI vRddhAnA vastro kadAca thoDA asta-vyasta thayAM hoya, temAM vAMdho na Ave evuM bane. paNa yuvatI ? e jo thoDI paNa ughADI che, to bhayaMkara jokhama che. beTA, ApaNI lAkho varSanI saMskRti kahe che, ke yuvatIno poSAka enA saMpUrNa zarIrane DhAMkI de evo ja hoya, 55

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pa6 lava yu DoTara You may argue, sADImAM pUruM zarIra na DhaMkAtuM hoya, ane amuka vesTarna DresamAM DhaMkAI jatuM hoya, to? But my daughter, tuM DhaMkAvAno artha barAbara samajI nathI, jemAM aMgonI noMdha suddhAM na laI zakAya, ene DhaMkAvuM kahevAya. vesTarna Dresano sIdho artha che - chate vacce nirvastra jevA hovuM. beTA, badhAM khAvA lAge, to ya jhera 'jhera' tarIke maTI nathI jatuM. e to jhera ja che. e mAraze ja. bhAratIya paheravezamAM maryAdA che, saMskAra che, suzIlatA che, zarama che ane svastha pArivArika jIvana che. yauvanamAM maryAdAyIna paheraveza eka ja strIne posAya ema che, te che vezyA. ene koI ja jokhama nathI, kAraNa ke eNe kazuM ja gumAvavAnuM nathI, kAraNa ke enI pAse "zIlajevuM kazuM che ja nahIM. e ApaNane nA posAya beTA, ApaNe to ApaNI khAnadAnIno vAraso jALavavAno che, koInuM AMdhaLuM anukaraNa karatAM pahelA tuM tArA hRdayane eka ja prazna karaje, ke A vastro ApaNI paraMparAne, ApaNI saMskRtine

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DRESS ApaNe dezane ane ApaNA samAjane zobhe evA che kharAM ? mAro ema kahevAno bilakula Azaya nathI, ke vesTarna badhuM ja kharAba ane inDiyana badhuM ja sAruM. sArA-narasA tattvo to badhe ja rahevAnAM. pazcima pAsethI paNa ApaNe amuka vastu zIkhavA jevI che, e che emanI zista. emanI niyamitatA. emanI potAnI bhASA mATenI lAgaNI, emano deza mATeno prema. enA badale ApaNe e zIkhIe chIe, jeNe pazcimane DiprezanamAM dhakelI dIdhuM che. e badhI bAbatomAM pazcimanuM anukaraNa karIne ApaNe gaurava anubhavIe chIe e kadAca ApaNI sauthI moTI Tragedy che. mArI dIkarI, A bAbatamAM huM tane eka Book sUcavuM chuM - 'amerikA jatAM pahelAM' vesTarna kalcara zuM che ? ane enuM rijhalTa zuM che ? e A BookmAM To the point Clear karela che. My daughter, navo jamAno ane sudhArAvAdIo ApaNI saMskRti ane paraMparAne bhAMDatA hoya che, 57

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58 lava yu DoTara ene gALo ApavAmAM ane ene badanAma karavAmAM emane rItasara AnaMda Avato hoya che. emanA hAtha eTalA lAMbA che. ke kaoNlejanA amuka pAThyapustakomAM paNa temaNe emanuM jhera pIrasyuM che. zAstrI ane hitaciMtakonI upekSA karavAnI temaNe spaSTa salAha ApI che. teo eka managamatI vAta rajU kare che. "zAstranA koTezanano zo artha che? tamAro anubhava zuM kahe che, enA para dhyAna Apo. tamArI buddhi jene svIkAre, ene apanAvo." Very nice, paNa mArA bhAI ! A vAta zAstranA anukaraNanI bAbatamAM ja lagADavI ? ke pachI vesTarna kalcaranA anukaraNanI bAbatamAM paNa lagADavI ? pazcimanA lokone zarIranuM ane bhautika jarUriyAtonuM ghaNuM imporTansa hoya che. eka vAstavikatAthI teo kadAca bilakula ajANa che, ke mAtra zarIrathI jIvI zakAtuM nathI. mATe ja tyAM 10mAMthI 7 jaNa sAikiyATrisTa pAse javA lAgyA che. ApaNe emanA anukaraNanI lahAyamAM bahAranI camaka-damaka, bAhya sauMdarya ane jhAkajhamALamAM aMjAvA lAgyA chIe, mATe ja AjanI sicuezana evI che ke TI.vI.nI 10mAMthI 8 jAherAto

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DRESS deha sauMdarya, svAda ane dekhAva vizenI hoya che. AnuM pariNAma ciMtAjanaka ane bhayajanaka che. mArI vhAlI, kadAca A badhuM sAMbhaLIne tane ciMtA thatI haze, ke Ano amala karavA jatAM tuM badhAMthI ekalI paDI jaIza. badhAM vacce tuM kevI lAgIza ? paNa beTA, evuM na thaI zake, ke tuM jamAnAthI dorAya, enA badale tuM pote jamAnAne dore ? chagana ane magana baMne vAte vaLagyA hatAM. magane chaganane pUchyuM, "saphaLa rAjakAraNI kone kahevAya ?" chagane tarata javAba Apyo, "je pahelAthI jANI zake ke ToLuM kaI dizAmAM jaze ane je doDIne enI AgaLa cAlI zake." beTA, jema khoTA anukaraNano koI artha nathI, ema khoTI netAgirIno paNa koI artha nathI, hA, sAcuM hoya, to e baMne prazaMsanIya che. mArI vAta A che, tuM jamAnAthI na badalAya 59

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lava yu DoTara paNa jamAno tArAthI badalAya. Yes my daughter, That's possible. tane kadAca khabara haze. amerikAmAM eka Women club che. jenI eka Basic identity che AkhuM zarIra barAbara DhaMkAI jAya evo paheraveza. mAruM A svapna che. tArA jevI samajuM chokarIo AvuM grupa banAve. enTI jinsa grupa. enTI TI-zarTa grupa. no baoNyaphrenDa grupa. etc. beTA, jo anukaraNanI bAliza bhUmikAthI ApaNe upara uThI zakIe, to ApaNo anubhava ane ApaNI samajaNa to ApaNane AvuM ja karavAnI salAha Ape che. yAda rAkhaje beTA, grupanI zarUAta vyaktithI thAya che. paheluM pagathiyuM e che, ke tArA jIvanamAM A badhAM sadguNo Ave. tArI potAnI dRSTimAM parivartana Ave. bahenapaNIe zuM paheryuM che, enuM badhuM ja AkarSaNa ogaLI jAya, ane eNe keTalA ane kyAM pustako vAMcyA che enI sahaja jijJAsA uThe. enI pAse keTalA paisA che enuM koI ja imporTansa na rahe, enI pAse keTaluM jJAna che e vAta khUba mahattvanI banI jAya. eNe potAnA jalasA mATe keTalo kharca karyo,

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DRESS 61 e badhI vAto zaramajanaka bane. ane eNe garIbone keTaluM Donezana ApyuM, e vAta enI presTija banI jAya. mane vizvAsa che beTA, tuM A kAma karI zakIza. e divase mAruM A svapna sAkAra thaze. ane mArI AMkhomAM harSanA AMsu Avaze. mane tArA mATe Already garva che, paNa e divase A garvanA guNAkAro thaI jaze. That will be the best gift for me my daughter ! DressnI bAbatamAM Another point of view che jAtibheda, Can you imagine ? koI chokarI sADI ke salavAra kamIjha paherIne bahAra nIkaLe to e kevo lAge? lokomAM e keTalo hAsyAspada ane niMdAspada thAya ? to jema chokaro chokarIno Dresa na paherI zake, tema chokarI paNa chokarAno Dresa zI rIte paherI zake ? upahAsapAtratA ane niMdApAtratA to baMne bAju samAna ja che, paNa ApaNe eka bAju khoTI rIte evo Dresa svIkArI lIdho che ne enAthI ghaNA badhAM Problems UbhA thayA che. chagana eka lagnaprasaMge gayo hato. varaghoDAmAM benDa vAgI rahyuM hatuM. koI vicitra rIte nAcI rahyuM hatuM.

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lava yu DoTara chagane enI bAjumAM Ubhela vyaktine sahajapaNe kahyuM, "A chokaro to keTalI behudI rIte nAce che !" e vyakti to gusse thaIne kahe, moTuM saMbhALIne bolo, e chokaro nathI, mArI dIkarI che." bicAro chagana, tarata mAphI mAMgato bolyo, "saoNrI, mane khabara nahIM ke tame enA pappA cho." "huM enA pappA nahIM, enI mammI chuM." beTA, yuropanA zaheromAM puruSo lAMbA lAMbA vALa ne coTalA suddhAM rAkhavA lAgyA che, ane strI vALane eTalA nAnA kapAve che, jene oLavAnI ja jarUra na paDe. A badhI vRttine eka prakArano mAnasika roga gaNavo joIe. pote je nathI te thavAnI ghelachAno roga. e lokone khabara nathI ke mAnavanA tana ane mana upara paheravezanI keTalI UMDI asara thatI hoya che ! eka chokarI jinsa pahere, eTale enA manamAM UMDe UMDe puruSatvanI saMvedanA jAgavA lAge che. pachI baMgaDI paheratAM ke biMdI lagAvatA ene zarama AvavA lAge che. A lAgaNIone samAMtara ja zArIrika rAsAyaNika parivartano cAlu thaI jAya che, A parivartana enA strItvanuM parivartana hoya che.

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DRESS pachI nAnA-moTA strIrogo ane vaMdhyatva sudhInA doSo e strIne gherI vaLe che, jenA mULamAM paheraveza vagerenI pasaMdagInI bhUla hoya che. videzamAM be chokarAM paraNe ke be chokarIo paraNe ne kAyadAe ene mAnyatA paNa ApavI paDe, enA mULamAM AvI bhUlo paNa rahelI hoya che. mArI vhAlI, eka strI mATe 'mA' bane ne ? tyAre e enA saMtAnane dhavaDAve tyAre to ThIka, e ene aDe to ya enuM mAtRtva sateja thaI jAya, ane enI chAtImAMthI dUdha jharavA lAge, enAthI paNa AgaLa vadhIne enA saMtAnane mAtra jue ke ene yAda kare to ya vAtsalyanI A pratikriyA thaI zake. Aje ghaNI moDarna mammIo dhAvaNA bALakane DhoranA dUdhane havAle karI de che, emane koI kAraNa pUche to sAva sAco javAba Ape che - 'dhAvaNa AvatuM nathI.' jUnA mANasone Azcarya thAya che, AvuM banI ja zI rIte zake ? sagAM dIkarAne dhavaDAvatAM ya dhAvaNa na Ave...??? paNa eno javAba saraLa che. A badhI kriyA-prakriyA eka 'mA'nI ja thaI zake, 63

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lava yu DoTara ane "mA" eka strI ja banI zake. pUrNa strI. beTA, This is the genetic maths. jinsano umero thAya eTale strItvanI bAdabAkI thAya che. My daughter, Now you can see, A dress is not only a dress, But much more than it. | come to the third point of the view. ApaNA zarIramAM eka khAsa prakAranuM hormona hoya che, jenuM nAma che TesTa sTorama custa kapaDAM paheravAthI A hormona DisTarba thaI jAya che. gall 24242 Blood circulation ane Blood pressure para paDe che. tane khabara haze, ke be peDhI pahelAM je goLIo 70-80 varSeya na'tI levAtI, te goLIo Aje 30-40 varSanI uMmarathI zarU thaI jAya che. 30 varSe B. P. ane 35 varSe eTeka A paristhitimAM paheravezano phALo paNa nAnosUno nathI. A sivAya, custa vastro zArIrika vikAsane avarodhe che.

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DRESS Arogyane paNa hAni kare che. keDa paranA custa vastrothI peTano bhAga dabAyelo rahe che, enAthI pAcanakriyA barAbara thatI nathI. chAtI paranA custa vastrothI chAtI ane phephasA dabAya che tethI zvAsocchvAsanI kriyA barAbara thatI nathI. mArI vhAlI, strI ane puruSa baMne mATe custa vastronI A samasyA Common che. videzanA saMzodhaka vijJAnIo ane DaoNkTaro emanA dardIone khulatA vastro paheravAnI salAha kyAranA ya ApavA mAMDyA che. dhotiyAthI dhotiyA sudhInI A yAtrAmAM atyAre kadAca ame vacce UbhA chIe. A saMdarbhamAM tane eka sarasa udAharaNa ApuM. English toilet. hasaje pachI beTA, pahelA samajI le. vijJAnIoe pramANita karyuM che ke zauca javAnI ApaNI pAraMpArika mudrA Asana e sarva zreSTha che. kAraNa ke e AsanamAM utsarga-avayavone maLanikAla karavAmAM mahattama saraLatA rahe che. vAyuno pracAra paNa anukUla rIte thaI zake che. tane khabara haze ApaNA zarIranuM dareka sarakyulezana vAyunA kAraNe thAya che. ApaNe jene prezara ke mozana kahIe chIe, 65

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66 lava yu DoTara e paNa vAyunuM ja kAryakSetra che. paNa ApaNane e zreSTha mudrA pachAta lAgavA mAMDI, ApaNe English - nA ravADe caDyA Lul English toilet. emAM je mudrAthI zauca javAya e mudrA to zaucanI dRSTie -gradenI mudrA che. pariNAma? kabajiyAta, apaco, gesa ane jAta-jAtanA rogo. to have zuM karavuM? Please note this question-mark. A prazna ema nathI kaheto ke English toiletnuM zuM karavuM? ene to koI AMca na AvavI joIe, nahIM to ApaNe pachAta thaI jaIe. prazna to ema kahe che, ke A kabajiyAta ne gesa vagerenuM zuM karavuM? DaoNkTara A praznakAra mahAzayone goLI lakhI Ape che. e goLIthI bahu pharaka na paDe, to hAI-Dojha.. paisA bhale veDaphAya, zarIra bhale mAMduM paDe, jate dA'De bhale oNparezansa karAvavA paDe, paNa ApaNe Modern tarIke TakI rahevuM joIe. Tell me my daughter, hakIkatamAM kone jaDa kahevA joIe? jUnA mANasone ke pachI AvA Modernsne? mArI vhAlI, There is the same story of the dress also.

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DRESS zArIrika dRSTie, mAnasika dRSTie, pArivArika dRSTie, sukha-zAMtinI dRSTie badhI ja rIte vesTarna Dresa nukasAnakAraka che. chatAM ya ApaNe ene pakaDI rAkhavo hoya, to e ya English toilet jevuM ja thayuM ne ? I know my daughter, You are Inteligent. tuM kadI evI jaDatAno bhoga nahIM bane. I'm really proud of you. Love you very much.

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LOGIC

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beTA, saMtAna jema jema moTuM thAya che, tame tema mAtA-pitA mATeno teno Opinion badalAto jAya che. cAra varSano chokaro kahe che - mArA pappA khUba mahAna che, cha varSe kahe che mArA pappA badhuM ja jANe che. mArA pappA khUba sArA che. - pappA dareka vAtanI nA pADe che. ATha varSe kahe che daza varSe kahe che - bAra varSe kahe che cauda varSe kahe che soLa varSe kahe che - pappAne kAMI khabara ja paDatI nathI. pappA bevakupha jevA che. pappA to jANe mArA virodhI banI beThAM che. - pappAne Tekala karavA khUba muzkela banI jAya che. - - aDhAra varSe kahe che mArI vhAlI, LOGIC = paNa enA jIvanamAM eka divasa evo Ave che, jyAre enuM potAnuM saMtAna 8... 10.... 12 varSanI vayamAMthI pasAra thaI rahyuM hoya che. tyAre ene yAda Ave che e divaso ne enuM aMtara bole che. mArA pappA sAcA hatAM. mArA pappA kharekhara sAcA hatAM. emaNe amane 3-4 bhAI-bahenane keTalI kuzaLatAthI ucheryA hatA, amane paNa emanA mATe keTaluM mAna hatuM, jyAre mAro dIkaro to mane Stupid samaje che. kharekhara, vadhatI uMmare meM emanA mATe je vicAryuM e badhuM khoTuM hatuM. mArA pappA kharekhara mahAna che. 69

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lava yu DoTara beTA, vAta phakta spIcanI nathI, philiMgsanI che. Teen-agemAM AvatAM chokarAM-chokarIo mAtA-pitA sAthe dalIlabAjI karatAM hoya, e ghara gharanI Story che. mammI-pappAne khoTA pADavAnI emane majA AvatI hoya che. dalIlabAjImAM chelluM vAkya potAnuM ja hoya, e vAtanI temane ghaNI kALajI hoya che. mammI-pappAnI vAta sAcI che, evuM kadAca emanI samajamAM AvI jAya, to ye ekAda dalIla karI levAno lobha teo jato karI zakatAM nathI. mArI vhAlI, AjanI navI peDhInI A kadAca sauthI moTI karuNatA che. hada tyAre Ave che jyAre vaDIlonI vAtane vinA vicAre kApI nAMkhavAnI rItasara eka Teva ja paDI jAya che. beTA, vANI ke vicAra e vyaktinuM ja eka svarUpa che, jyAre ApaNe koInI vAtane kApIe chIe, tyAre hakIkatamAM ApaNe te vyaktine kApIe chIe. vinaya kone kahevAya? e viSe puSpamAlA nAmanA graMthamAM eka sarasa majAnI ghaTanA che. vRkSa nIce guru ane ziSya beThA che. ziSya guru pAsethI jJAna laI rahyo che. vRkSanI DALa para eka kAgaDo AvIne bese che.

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71 LOGIC guru ziSyane e kAgaDo dekhADe che. ne kahe che - "A kAgaDo dhoLo che." ziSya hAtha joDIne kahe che - "jema Apa kaho cho. tema ja che." abhyAsa AgaLa cAlyo. sAMja paDI. ziSya gurune vaMdana karIne pUchyuM, "savAre Ape kAgaDAne dhoLo kahyo, e ema ja che. emAM koI ja zaMkA nathI, paNa huM mArI buddhi alpa hovAthI enuM rahasya samajI zakato nathI. Apa kRpA karIne mane samajAvazo?" gurue premapUrvaka kahyuM, "vatsa, mana ane AtmAne vAMcavAnI mArI zaktithI meM joyuM hatuM, ke e kAgaDAnI bhAvanA zuddha hatI, eno AtmA zubha hato, e dRSTikoNathI - bhItarI nirmaLatAnI apekSAe meM ene dhoLo kahyo hato." ziSya natamastaka thaIne kahyuM, "jema Ape kahyuM tema ja che." graMthanA zabdo che - jai seyaM vAyaM vae pujjA, taha vi ya se navi kUDe / This is vinaya. Can you imagine ? 2 Plot uz szell Options edi ? (1) are, gurujI ! tamAruM mAthuM to ThekANe che ne ? kAgaDAne dhoLo kaho cho?

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lava yu DoTara (2) Apane gerasamaja thaI che. e haMsa nathI, kAgaDo ja che. ane kAgaDo to kALo ja hoya. (3) ApanI bhUla thatI lAge che. Apa pharIthI barAbara juone ! zuM? kAgaDo dhoLo? zuM vAta karo cho? kaI rIte ? (5) Apa kaho cho, to mAnI lauM chuM. bAkI mane to kALo ja dekhAya che. (6) bhale bhale, Apane je lAgyuM te kharuM. (7) jI gurujI, Apa jema kaho cho tema ja che. (4) e ziSya 7th option chose karyo hato. jyAre gurunI vAtane ziSya potAnA mana pAse Aproved karAve, ne pachI e vAta mAne, tyAre Actualy e ziSya gurunuM nathI mAnato, potAnA mananuM mAne che. mArI vhAlI, I know very well, Your generation lives on HOW & WHY. That's good, I like it. paNa jyAre A badhuM vinayanI sImAone cross karI jAya. tyAre kalaMka banI jAya che. You may argue paNa A to Blind faith thaI gayo. je nathI dekhAtuM e mAnavAnuM thayuM, are, je dekhAya che, enAthI ulaTuM mAnavAnuM thayuM. How can it be possible. No, I can't keep blind faith." tuM je kahI rahI che,

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LOGIC temAM tamArI AkhI janarezananuM pratibiMba che. paNa huM tane e kahevA mAMguM chuM, ke tamArI A ja janarezana keTalI keTalI jagyAe Blind faith rAkhe che. lojika para jIvatI vyakti DaoNkTara 52 Blind faith mUkIne enesthesiyA laIne bebhAna thaIne oNparezana Tebala para sUI jAya che. vakIla para Blind faith mUkIne ene potAno case soMpI de che, vimAna ane pAyaloTa 52 Blind faith mUkIne hajAro phITa addhara musApharI karI le che. Barber 42 Blind faith enA dhAradAra astrA pAse mAthuM jhukAvI de che. mArI vhAlI, tamArI sAthe jene koI ja saMbaMdha nathI evA e dhaMdhAdArI mANaso karatAM to tamArA mAtA, pitA, dAdA, dAdI vagere lAkha gaNA vizvasanIya che. on the spot, emanI vAta toDIne, ApaNe koI ja kamANI karatAM nathI, balke ghaNuM badhuM gumAvIe chIe. mArI vhAlI, tuM Aje eka prayoga kara, amuka cokkasa bAbatomAM tArA je vicAro hoya, 73

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lava yu DoTara je abhiprAyo hoya, e tuM eka kAgaLamAM lakhI de. e kAgaLane eka kavaramAM mUkI de. daza varSa pachI e kavara tuM kholaje. e kAgaLa vAMcajo ane tArA manane eka prazna karaje, ke tuM A vicAro ane abhiprAyo sAthe sammata che kharI ? tuM mArI vAta samajI rahI che ne? daza varSa pachI e ja bAbatomAM tArA vicAro ne abhiprAyo sAva ja badalAI gayA hoya, e zakya che. beTA, samayamAM mAtra samaya nathI hoto. navuM jJAna, navA anubhavo, navI samajaNa... A badhuM paNa hoya che. je ApaNA manane prauDha banAve che. vadhu vikasita banAve che. cAlIza varSanI uMmare amArA mananI je sthiti che ke sAiTha varSanI uMmare tArA dAdA-dAdInI je vicAra-prauDhatA che, te tArAmAM bAra-tera varSe na ja hoya ne? amAruM ane tAruM maMtavya eka ja hovuM joIe, evo amAro koI ja Agraha nathI, balka, huM to tyAM sudhI kahuM chuM, ke evuM thavuM zakya paNa nathI. huM to eTaluM ja kahuM chuM. mArI vhAlI, ke amAruM maMtavya rajU thAya ne tuM tarata ene kApI nAMkhe, e yogya kharuM?

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75 LOGIC mANasa jyAre sAcI vAtane kApato hoya che. tyAre hakIkatamAM e potAnI jAtane kApato hoya che. beTA, e sAcI vAta paNa jyAre koI hitecchu dvArA kahevAI hoya, tyAre tenuM mUlya lAkhogaNuM vadhI jAya che. ane e hitecchu paNa jyAre ghaNA upakAro karanArI vyakti hoya, tyAre e vAtanuM mUlya duniyAbharanA sonA, cAMdI ne hIrAothI paNa thaI zakatuM nathI. tane jayAre vaDIlonI vAta para vizvAsa nathI hoto, tyAre e avizvAsa paNa e vAtanI satyatAnA aMze ja hoya che. vaDIlonI hitecchatA ane upakAritA - A be aMze to tyAre paNa avizvAsa nathI ja hoto. barAbara ne beTA? to have mane eTaluM ja kahe, ke ApaNA hitecchuM ane ApaNA upakArI pratye ApaNuM vartana kevuM hovuM joIe? emane prasannatA Ape evuM? ke emane AghAta Ape evuM ? eka vAta haMmezA yAda rAkhaje beTA, ke ghara e kadI paNa satyAgraha karavAnI jagyA nathI. e to prema, lAgaNI, AtmIyatA, vinaya ane kRtajJatAnuM maMdira che. eka mA mATe kadI eno dIkaro

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76 lava yu DoTara sAco ke khoTo nathI hoto. dIkaro hoya che. tuM nAnI hatI. tyAre keTalI badhI evI harakato karatI, je bauddhika rIte sAva ja khoTI hatI, kyAreka gharane ke amane nukasAnakAraka paNa hatI. tuM kAlI-ghelI bhASAmAM je gAMDuM-gheluM bolatI ene ame kadI paNa toDavAno prayAsa nathI karyo. tArI bAliza ceSTAo sAme ame kadI gusse nathI thayAM. mArI vhAlI, tuM jema Aje amane game che, ema tyAre ya gamatI ne eTale ja tAruM badhuM ja amane gamatuM. je game enuM badhuM ja game. dIkarI, tuM to ghaNI sArI che, paNa Aje duniyAnA lAkho saMtAno evA che jemane khyAla nathI, ke teo jemanI sAme satyAgraha karI rahyA teo emanA hajAra asatyone gaLI cUkyA che. tarka ane vitarka to korTamAM hoya beTA, ghara to tarpaNa, arpaNa ane samarpaNano puNyaprayAga che. dalIlabAjI ne AkSepabAjI A prayAgamAM korTanuM kurukSetra khaDuM karI de che, jenA pariNAmamAM trAsa ane vinAza sivAya bIjuM kazuM ja nathI.

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LOGIC mArI vhAlI, "satya" eTale zuM khabara che? ApaNane lAgyuM e satya - evuM nathI. je hoya e satya - evuM paNa nathI. vyAkaraNa AdhArita vyutpattizAstramAM satyanI adbhuta vyAkhyA karI che. sadbhyo hitam - satyam je hitakAraka hoya te satya. mATe ja yogazAstramAM kahyuM che - tat satyamapi no satyamapriyaM cAhitaM ca yat / te satya paNa satya nathI, je apriya ke ahitakara che. mArI vhAlI, vaDIlo pratye ApaNo Adara jaLavAI rahe, e hitakara che. upakArI pratye ApaNI kRtajJatA akabaMdha rahe, e hitakara che. koInA hRdayane ApaNAthI Thesa na lAge, e hitakara che. gharanuM vAtAvaraNa taMga na thaI jAya, e hitakara che. bIjAnA hRdayamAM ApaNuM sthAna jaLavAI rahe, e hitakara che. You can see my daughter, Logic is logically false. duniyAnA zreSTha vicArakoe kahyuM che, "vAgyuddhamAM hArI janAra ja jItato hoya che." "tamane jo duzmano joItA hoya, to tame tamArA mitro karatAM caDhiyAtA thajo . paNa jo tamane mitro joItA hoya, to tamArA mitrone tamArA para sarasAI meLavavA dejo."

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78 jha lava yu DoTara tane khabara che beTA ? mANasa dalIla kema kare che ? potAne sArA ane mahAna sAbita karavAnI bhItarI sUkSma vRtti mANasane dalIla karavA prere che. paNa dalIla karanAra kadI sAro ke mahAna nathI lAgato, ulaTAno kharAba lAge che. hA, jo e nikhAlasatAthI kahI zake, ke "huM ghaNI vAra bhUla karato houM chuM. banI zake ke mArI bhUla thatI hoya ane tame sAcA ho." to e Definately sAro ane mahAna lAge. hakIkata e che mArI vhAlI, ke je sAro ane mahAna hoya che, e ja A zabdo bolI zake che. chagana rastA parathI jato hato. rastAmAM eNe eka ToLuM joyuM. chagane najIka jaIne joyuM, to ToLAnI AgaLa eka gadheDo hato, e gadheDAnI pUMchaDI eka chokarAe pakaDI hatI. ne gadheDo e chokarAne dhaDAdhaDa lAto para lAto mArato hato. loko thoDA dUrathI bUmAbUma karatAM hatAM. chagana jarA hiMmata karIne thoDo najIka gayo ane chokarAne kahevA lAgyo, "alyA, choDI de gadheDAnI pUMchaDI."

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LOGIC 79 "nahIM choDuM." chokarAe dhaDa daIne javAba ApI dIdho. "ATalo lohIluhANa to thaI gayo che... kema nahIM choDe ?" "mArA pappAe kahyuM che." "zuM kahyuM che ?" "jIvanamAM kadI kAMI pakaDavuM nahIM ane kAMI pakaDyuM hoya, to ene choDavuM nahIM." My dear, Agraha e haMmezA gadheDAnI pUMchaDI jevo hoya che, tame ene choDI na zako to tamArA mATe lAto khAvAno eka ja vikalpa bAkI rahe che. paMcasUtramAM "muni'nuM eka majAnuM vizeSaNa kahyuM che - nniatt'gghdukkhe| Agraha - duHkhathI rahita. keTalIka adbhuta vAta.... Agraha e pote ja duHkha che. sukhI thavA mATe Agraha karavo, e jIvavA mATe jhera khAvA barAbara che. mAtra amArI sAthenA vyavahAramAM ja nahIM, beTA ! tArA jIvananA dareka vyavahAramAM tuM A vAtane yAda rAkhaje. enAthI tAruM sammAna eTaluM vadhI jaze, ke tAre kadI Agraha ke dalIla karavAnI jarUra ja nahIM paDe. name te saune game ane je game tenuM badhuM game.

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MODESTY manusmRtimAM vinayanA cAra phaLa batAvyA che. abhivAdanazIlasya nityaM vRddhopasevinaH / catvAri tasya varddhante AyurvidyA yazo balam // 2-121 // jeno svabhAva namra che ane je haMmezA vaDIlono vinaya kare che tenuM AyuSya vadhe che. jJAna vadhe che, yaza vadhe che ane baLa vadhe che. beTA, jyAre vAvAjhoDuM Ave ne, tyAre eka vilakSaNa ghaTanA bane che. moTA-moTA majabUta vRkSo tUTI jAya che. ne nAnA nAnA kUmaLA choDo bacI jAya che. Do you know why ? kAraNa ke moTA vRkSo akkaDa rahe che. ane nAnA choDo namI jAya che. mArI vhAlI, I tell you one top secret. akkaDatA e mUrkhatA che. jaDatA che. akkaDatAthI mANasane je apekSita hoya che. e kharekhara to namratAthI ja maLI zake che. kevI sarasa che ApaNI paraMparA !!! roja savAre gharanA vaDIlone praNAma karavAnI paddhati... praNAma eTale zuM ? samarpaNanI abhivyakti. pAMca sekanDa mATe jhUkIne 81

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82 lava yu DoTara pachI pAMca kalAka taDAphaDI karI zakAtI hoya. e praNAma nathI. 'praNAma' to kahe che ke Apa mArA mATe haMmezA sammAnanIya cho. 'praNAma' to kahe che ke Apa mArA karatAM vadhu jJAnI cho. 'praNAma' to kahe che ke ApanuM vacana mArA mATe AdaraNIya che. beTA, jyAM judAM judAM maMtavyo hoya. tyAM sukha-zAMti pAmavA mATe eka ja zarata che, ke koI ekanA maMtavyane mAna ApavAmAM Ave, have prazna e che ke konA maMtavyane mAna ApavuM ? koNa kharA arthamAM praNAma kare ? aucitya, satya ane nItinI dRSTie vicArIza, to javAba khUba ja sahelo che. You will find my daughter. duniyAbharanuM The art of living, duniyAbharanuM Life science ApaNI saMskRtimAM pahelAthI ja hAjara che. pharaka eTalo che, ke duniyAnI dRSTi mAtra tAtkAlika lAbha ane svArtha para che, ApaNI saMskRti e ja kaLAne aucitya ane kRtajJatAnI lAgaNIothI prAkRtika ane jIvaMta banAve che. beTA, muMbaI - borIvalImAM eka sosAyaTI che - puSpA pArka. emAM eka parivAra rahe che. mAtA-pitA che, 40-42 varSanA be putra che,

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MODESTY putravadhUo che, pautro che. A parivAramAM eka vizeSatA che. mAtA-pitA karatAM koI UMce to na ja bese. emanI equal-levelmAM paNa koI na bese. pitAjI bahArathI ghare Ave eTale baMne bhAIo sophA parathI UbhA thaI jAya. pitAjI sophA para bese ane baMne bhAIo nIce jamIna para besI jAya. pachI to putravadhUo, pautro badhAM ja jamIna para. mArI vhAlI, I don't expect you to do so. I am just showing you the modesty. New generation will ask. 'What's the need to do so ?' Well, Very nice question. My dear, eka mAM enA bALakane chAtI sarasuM cAMpe emAM zuM jarUra' hoya che ? eka premI enI premikAne snehathI cUmI bhare emAM zuM 'jarUra' hoya che ? lAgaNIne 'jarUra'nA gaNita AvaDatAM ja nathI. cokkasa vyakti pratye tamArI cokkasa lAgaNIo hoya che. ane e lAgaNIonI cokkasa abhivyakti hoya che. vaDIloe ApaNA para je upakAro karyA, enAthI ApaNA hRdayamAM je kRtajJatAnI saMvedanAo janmI enI A badhI sahaja abhivyakti che. eka ajANI vyakti sAthe ke jenA ApaNA para koI ja upakAra nathI,

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84 lava yu DoTara evI vyakti sAthe ApaNe je rIte vartIe barAbara e ja rIte jo vaDIlonI sAthe paNa vartIe, to eno artha e ja thayo ne, ke ApaNA mATe e baMne sarakhA ja che. It means, ApaNA para jANe vaDIlono koI upakAra ja nathI. beTA, Ane apalApa, apanava ke nihanava kahevAya. eka mANasane koInI pAsethI 1 Lac Rs. lIdhAM hoya, ane pelo mAMge, tyAre e ajANa banI jAya, ne pote Rs. lIdhAno ja inkAra karI de, enA jevI A ghaTanA che. This is a type of theft my daughter ! This is a type of curruption. More horrible curruption. Honesty ene kahevAya ke ApaNA upakArI sAthenA dareka vyavahAramAM emanA upakAronI sabhAnatA. kRtajJatA.. sahaja rIte ubharI Ave. puSpA pArkanA e familynA e baMne bhAIone nIce besavAmAM loss zuM thAya che ? emane to AnaMda thAya che... kRtajJatAnI abhivyaktino. emanA mAtA-pitAne AnaMda thAya che, putrono vinaya joIne.

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MODESTY AkhA gharamAM AnaMdanA vAibrezansa spreDa thaI jAya che. AkhuM vAtAvaraNa ja pharI jAya che. praphullita... khuzanumA suprasanna... My dear, science says, AvA vAtAvaraNamAM rogo na thAya, rogapratikAraka zakti vadhe, mananI zaktio paNa vadhe, kadAca koI roga thAya, to ya hAya-voya na thAya. jaldI maTI jAya. ApaNI saMskRtimAM Ane AziSa ke duA kahI che. AthI ulaTuM, kRtajJatAnI saMvedanA nahIM hoya, namratA ne vinaya nahIM hoya, uddhRtatA ne akkaDatA haze, to mAtA-pitAnA hRdayamAM kAyamI ajaMpo raheze. emanI vedanAnA vAdaLo AkhA gharane gherI vaLaze. ApaNI paraMparA Ane 'hAya' kahe che. 85 beTA, A 'hAya' khUba kharAba. saMta tulasIdAsa kahe che tulasI hAya garIba kI, kabahu na khAlI jAya / mUA Dhora ke cAma se, lohA bhasama ho jAya // kadAca sAyansa eka divasa AnA sAyanTiphika eksTenezansa ApI deze. paNa ApaNe tyAM sudhI kema rAha jovI joIe ?

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lava yu DoTara eka bAju AnaMda che ne bIjI bAju ajaMpo che, evuM to ApaNo anubhava ja kahe che ne? muMbaInA copATInA kinAre eka videzI vRddha yugala beThuM hatuM. e samaye eka kAra AvIne tyAM UbhI rahI, be bALako emAMthI nIce utaryA. kAramAM beThelAM dAdA-dAdIno hAtha pakaDIne emaNe emane nIce utAryA. baMne jaNa paDApaDI karavA lAgyA. "huM dAdA-dAdIne dorIne laI jaIza.." "huM laI jaIza." emanA mammI-pappA kAramAMthI bahAra AvyA. emaNe kahyuM, "beTA, tamane na phAve. ame emano hAtha pakaDIe chIe.." "nA, mane phAvaze..." bALako emanI jidda pUrI karavA lAgyA. A dazya joIne pelA videzI daMpati hibakA bharI bharIne raDavA ja lAgyA. Ama to AmAM raDavA jevuM kazuM hatuM ja nahIM. lokonuM dhyAna emanI tarapha gayuM. eka jaNe emane kAraNa pUchyuM. emaNe javAba Apyo ke "amArA traNa putro che, paNa emane amArI sAthe koI saMbaMdha ja nathI. eka penamAM rahe che, bIjo phrAnsamAM rahe che.

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MODESTY 29 ane trIjo nyuyorkamAM rahe che. teo kadI amArI khabara paNa pUchatAM nathI. amane amArI ekalavAyI jiMdagI naraka jevI lAge che. 241 Indian family gisht amane." My dear, This is India. sAre jahAM se acchA... New generation pAse Logic che. ke amAre amArI jiMdagI amArI rIte kema nahIM jIvavAnI ? amAre ParentsnI UndermAM ja rahevAnuM? amAre emanI sevAmAM amArA moja-zokhanI AhUti ApI devAnI ? But they don't know my daughter, ke jo emanA Parents emanI jiMdagI emanI rIte ja jIvyA hota ne, to yA to emano janma ja na thayo hota. ne yA to teo anAthanI jema moTA thayA hota. Point no. 2 - UndermAM rahevAnuM. e to ulaTuM sAruM che. dhomadhakhatA tApamAM chatrachAyA maLe enAthI rUDuM bIjuM zuM? duniyAnI koI skUla, kaoNleja ke yunivarsiTI je jIvanopayogI zikSaNa nathI ApI zakatI, te mAtA-pitA ane dAdA-dAdI sahaja rIte ApatA hoya che. Aje bhAratamAM lAkho parivAro evA che, jemAM paraMparAgata DozImAnuM vaidu kliniksa ane haoNspiTalanI hADamArIone

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88 lava yu DoTara saraLatAthI haTAvI rahyuM che. mugdhAvasthA ane yuvAvasthAnI aparipakvatA ane vaDIlonI chatrachAyAno abhAva A be viSamatAoe pazcimanA dezomAM samasyAonI hAramALAo sarjI che. DragsathI mAMDIne khUnA-marakI sudhInI tyAMnI moTA bhAganI samasyAonA mULamAM A ja viSamatAo rahelI che. bhAratanA lAkho varSono itihAsa kahe che ke vaDIlonA bahumukhI vyaktitva Azritone adbhuta surakSAkavaca pUruM pADyuM che. temaNe polIsanuM kAma karyuM che. korTanuM kAma karyuM che. yunivarsiTInuM kAma karyuM che. DaoNkTaranuM kAma karyuM che. prasUtigRhanuM kAma karyuM che. bebI sITaranuM kAma karyuM che. narsanuM kAma karyuM che. homa gArDanuM kAma karyuM che. A lisTa to ghaNuM lAMbuM che... Aje paNa bhAratamAM jyAM jyAM bhArata jIvI rahyuM che, tyAM tyAM vaDIlo A kAryo karI ja rahyA che. e paNa anekagaNI sArI rIte. pUrNa premALa ane niHsvArthabhAve.

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MODESTY 89 A snehachatrane phagAvIne mANase hakIkatamAM enA seMkaDo sukhone phagAvI dIdhAM che. vaDIlonI gerahAjarImAM te te kArya mATe te te dhaMdhAdArI vyaktinA panAre paDIne mANasa zArIrika rIte, mAnasika rIte ane Arthika rIte keTalo duHkhI thayo che, te ApaNe ApaNI AjubAju joI ja rahyA chIe. mArI vhAlI, vaDIlo jyAre zarIrathI sAva ja lAcAra thaI jAya, ne koI ja kAma na karI zake ne, tyAre paNa teo eka mahAna kAma karI rahyA hoya che. Do you know what is it ? duniyAnI koI mA potAnA dIkarAne AzIrvAda ApatI vakhate evuM nathI kahetI, ke beTA, mane sukhI karaje. e ema ja kahe che - beTA, sukhI thaje. dIkaro ene page lAge ke na lAge. mAnuM aMtara satata enA para zubhecchA varasAvyA ja kare che. A amRtavarSA putranA mATe ane samasta parivAra mATe jIvana-saMjIvanI banI rahe che. bhAvanA ane vicAronI zakti vize vaijJAnikoe je saMzodhano karyA che. temanA tAraNo BlessingsnA A principalne prove kare che.

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9O lava yu DoTara | suggest you a book - BizS12 ABCD emAM A viSayanA sAyanTiphika risarcanI vAta che. mArI vhAlI, bhAratIya samAjajIvana e samAjajIvananuM zreSTha udAharaNa che. yauvanamAM potAnA mAtA-pitAne haDadhUta karanAra ane emanAthI chUTTo thaI janAra potAnA ghaDapaNamAM potAnA putro pAse apekSA rAkhI zake kharo? rAkhe to enI apekSA pUrI thAya kharI? pazcimI jIvana paddhati svArthI, svakendrita ane lagabhaga uddhata prakAranI che. A rIte ja sukhI thaI zakAya evI bhramaNAno teo bhoga banyA che. temane khabara nathI, ke je vastu samAjanA hitamAM na hoya, te vyaktinA hitamAM paNa na ja hoya. kAraNa ke vyakti paNa samAjano ja eka aMza che. nItivAkyAmRtanuM eka divya sUtra che - vRkSapAtanena phalAvAptiH sakRdeva / vRkSane pADIne phaLanI prApti phakta eka ja vAra thaI zake che. beTA, zAMtithI A sUtra para vicAra karaje. jIvananA ghaNA rahasyo A sUtramAM chupAyelAM che. Let's come to the last point - mojamajA. to enuM sIdhuM samAdhAna e che, ke moja-majA e mananI vyAkhyA para AdhArita hoya che.

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MODESTY 91 tamAruM mana jene moja-majA mAne e tamArA mATe moja-majA che. unALAnA vaeNkezanamAM khullA medAnamAM bhara taDake cAra kalAka sudhI paraseve rebajheba zarIre doDAdoDa karIne hAMphI jatI vyakti paNa ene "moja-majA mAne che. I'm talking about the cricket. We saw in the chowpaty-example. dAdA-dAdInI sevA e bALako mATe eka moja-majAnI vastu hatI. eka mA enA saMtAna mATe jeTalI ghasAya, jeTalI aDadhI-aDadhI thAya, e badhuM ja enI moja-majA ja hoya che ne ? My dear, There are 2 types of the fun. (1) sAttvika (2) tAmasika ApaNA saMskArone zobhe evI moja-majA e sAttvika moja-majA che. enAthI ulaTI hoya e tAmasika moja-majA che. tAmasika moja-majA e evI vAnagI jevI che, jemAM jhera bheLaveluM che. e khAtAM AnaMda Ave e zakya che. paNa pachI e motanI vedanA Ape che. puSpA pArkanA e parivAranA bALakoe potAnA pitAmAM je vinaya joyo

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92 lava yu DoTara e vagara upadeze apanAvI lIdho che. e have sahaja jIvana zailI banaze ane ModestynI A Cycle AgaLa cAlaze. lAkho varSonI A svastha ane masta paraMparA para Aje jAtajAtanA mAdhyamo dvArA Western attacks thaI rahyA che. jema jema paraMparA tUTe che tema tema lokonI parezAnIo vadhatI jAya che. ApaNA jIvanamAM A paraMparAne tUTavA devI ke atUTa rAkhavI e ApaNA hAthanI vAta che. paraMparAe vinayanuM sUkSma svarUpa samajAvyuM che. * trizasthya namanakriyA 0 zvetasyAropitasya tu * abhyutthAnAdiyogazca * tadante nirbhRtAsanam 0 vanapratipatti * nAvarNazravaNaM kvacit * tyAgazca tadaniSTAnAm * tadiSTeSu pravartanam * mAtA-pitA-vaDIlo-upakArIone divasamAM traNa vAra praNAma karavA. : teo hAjara na hoya, to temane manathI yAda karIne praNAma karavA. : teo Ave tyAre AdarathI UbhA thaI javuM, temane besADIne temanA karatA nIcA Asane besavuM. : teonI pAse evI rIte AdarapUrvaka besavuM ke temanI AmAnyA jaLavAya. : temanI vAtano ullAsapUrvaka svIkAra karavo. : kadI paNa temanI niMdA karavI nahIM, temanI niMdA sAMbhaLavI paNa nahI. : temane na game, tevuM na karavuM. : temane game, tevuM karavuM.

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MODESTY 93 * sIRIUMAM yathAzavita nivem: ApaNI pAse je vastra, AbhUSaNa, cIja-vastu sArI hoya, te emane ApavI. * nAmagrahazca nAsthAne : ApaNe gaMdakIvALI jagyAe hoIe tyAre temanuM nAma na levuM. * paratnoksiyA 2U: temane samAdhi ane sadgati maLe tevI dharma ane adhyAtmanI pravRttimAM temane premapUrvaka joDavA ane jAte paNa joDAvuM. * tadAsanAdyabhogazca : emanI cIja-vastuo pote na vAparavI. * tIrthe tadvittayojanam : temanA mRtyu bAda temanI saMpatti puNya-kAryamAM ApI devI, paNa jAte na vAparavI. jAte vAparavAthI temanuM mRtyu thayuM to sAruM thayuM, ke A saMpatti maLI" Avo duSTa vicAra AvI zake che. * tavizvAsasaMznara: temanI mUrti karAvIne teno haMmezA satkAra karatA rahevuM. mArI vhAlI, upakArIonA upakArane samaje, ene AmAM kazuM ja vadhu paDatuM na lAge balka ochuM lAge. atharvaveda kahe che - pitA kevI - mAtA-pitA e sAkSAt devatA che. taittirIyopaniSaddhAM kahyuM che - mAtRdevo bhava - mAtA e tArA ISTadevatA ho. pitRdevo bhava - pitA e tArA ISTadevatA ho. skandapurANanuM vacana che - mAtApitrostu yaH pAdau, nityaM prakSAlayet sutaH / tasya bhAgIrathIsnAna-mahanyahani jAyate //

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84 lava yu DoTara je putra mAtA-pitAnA caraNanuM haMmezA prakSAlana kare che te pratidina gaMgAsnAnanuM phaLa pAme che. My dear, Do you know, How can I tell you all these things ? tAre AvI AvI rIte mAro satkAra karavo joIe, evuM huM tane kahI zako kharo? A to mArA mATe zaramanI vAta thaI. But I have other points of view. (A) tArAmAM A saMskAro haze, to tArI After marriage life khUba ja sukhI thaI jaze, Just like heaven. (B) tAro yaza thaze, tAruM sanmAna vadhaze. (C) tArA saMtAnomAM A saMskAro sahaja rIte AvI jaze. (D) mArI lADalI haMmezA rANI ane devInI jema jIvaze. Can you understand my daughter ? All this is for you & not for me. hA, tArA sukhathI huM sukhI thaI javAno, eTalA aMze AmAM mAro svArtha kharo.

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lava yu DoTara irAnanA tattvajJa lukamAna eka vRkSa nIce beThAM che. keTalAMka jijJAsuo AvIne emane prazna kare che, "ApaNA zarIranuM zreSTha aMga kayuM che?" lukamAne javAba Apyo - "jIbha." "ane sauthI kharAba aMga ?" temaNe bIjo prazna karyo. "jIbha." lukamAne e ja adAthI javAba Apyo. jijJAsuo eka-bIjAnI sAme jovA lAgyAM. lukamAne kahyuM, "zreSTha aMga jIbha che, kAraNa ke e maDadAMne paNa beThAM karI zake che, sauthI kharAba aMga paNa jIbha che, kAraNa ke e jIvatAne paNa UbhA ne UbhA carI zake che. This is a fact my daughter, The tongue is the instrument of the greatest good & the greatest evil that is done in the world. mahAbhAratanuM mULa zuM hatuM? "AMdhaLAnA dIkarA AMdhaLA" ATaluM eka ja vAkya ne ? kauravono yuddhamAM vinAza thayo, e sAcuM, paNa draupadIe ya potAnA pAMca putrone gumAvyA. zuM phAyado thayo draupadIne ? mArI vhAlI, zabda e zastra karatAM paNa vadhu bhayaMkara thaI zake che.

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SPEECH mahAbhAratamAM lakhyuM che - rohate sAyakairviddhaM vanaM parazunA hatam / vAcA duruktaM bIbhatsaM na saMrohati vAkkSatam // kuhADAo ane bANothI chinna-bhinna thaI gayeluM jaMgala pharIthI ugI zake che, paNa kaDavA ane tIkhA zabdothI je ghA paDI jAya che, te rujhAI zakatAM nathI, keTalA varaso gayAM e bhUMsavAmAM! krodhamAM je zabda be-cAra bolyA. My dear, there are eight secrets of a good speech. (1) madut Speak sweet. mIThI vANI e vazIkaraNa maMtra che. jema ApaNane mIThuM vacana sAMbhaLavuM game che, tema bIjAne paNa e ja sAMbhaLavuM game che. badhAMne priya thavAno A saraLa ne sacoTa upAya che - bolavuM to mAtra ne mAtra madhura. (2) nirUpa Speak smart. je viSe pAkI khabara hoya, e ja bolavuM. jyAre tamArI vAta khoTI paDe che, tyAre hakIkatamAM tame pote khoTA paDo cho. eTaluM jhaDapathI ke eTaluM dhImethI na bolavuM ke sAMbhaLanArane samajAya ja nahIM. hasatAM-hasatAM bolavAthI paNa ApaNI vAta bIjAne samajAtI nathI. (3) tho Speak slight. ochuM bolavuM. sweet n smart paNa over thaI jAya, to koI paNa kaMTALI jaze. ochuM bole, enuM gaurava ane sanmAna vadhe che, enI vAta badhAM dhyAnathI sAMbhaLe che. e vyakti ochuM jANatI hoya, to paNa skolara lAge che. bahu bolanAra skolara hoya to ya bhoTa lAge che.

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98 (4) jnAvaDiya (5) alviyaM (6) atuo (7) puvvi mai saMkaliyaM (8) dhammasaMnutta - lava yu DoTara Speak for purpose. kAma pUratuM bolavuM. nakAmuM na bolavuM. Words are gems, Don't waste those. Speak ego-free. game teTalI sArI ke game teTalI sAcI vAtamAM paNa jyAre abhimAnanI chAMTa dekhAya, tyAre e vAtanuM koI ja imporTansa rahetuM nathI. Ego e bhale UMcA hovAnI philiMga che, paNa enAthI mANasa haMmezA nIco ja lAgato hoya che. game teTalo mahAna mANasa paNa jyAre pote potAnA vakhANa kare, tyAre e potAnI mahAnatA gumAvI de che. hRdayane sAMkaDuM ane tuccha banAvyA vinA je zabdo na bolI zakAya, te zabdo kadI na bolavA. koInI nabaLI vAta, koInI duHkhatI nasa, koInuM marmasthAna e kadI paNa bolavAnI vastu che ja nahIM. e to gaLI javAnI vastu che. koIne halakA cItarIne kharekhara to ApaNe ja halakA banI jatAM hoIe chIe. Think before you speak. vicArIne bolavuM. jyAM sudhI ApaNe bolIe nahIM, tyAM sudhI ApaNe mAlika hoIe chIe ane zabdo gulAma hoya che. eka vAra ApaNe bolI gayA eTale zabdo mAlika banI jAya che ane ApaNe gulAma thaI jaIe chIe. zANo mANasa haMmezA bolatA pahelA vicAra kare che, mUrkha bolyA pachI vicAra kare che, ke 'huM zuM bolyo ?' vicAryA vagara bolavAno sIdho artha che - nizAna tAkyA vinA tIra calAvI devuM. Speak suitable to religion. ApaNA dharmane zobhe tevuM bolavuM. krodhamAM ke majAka-mazkarImAM kadI evuM na bolavuM, jenAthI ApaNo dharma lAje. samaju DrAivara vAMkA-cUkA raste haMmezA kAra parano kenTrola

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SPEECH vadhArI deto hoya che. saMyogo asAmAnya hoya, tyAre vANI upara vizeSa kAbU rAkhavAmAM ja samajadArI che. mArI vhAlI, kyAMka eka ghaTanA vAMcI hatI. bahenanA lagnane hajI to aThavADiyuM ja thayuM hatuM, tyAM bhAI u52 phona Avyo, "tArI bahenane pAchI laI jA, ame badhAM enAthI kaMTALI gayA chIe.' bhAI doDato Avyo. khAnagImAM bahenane maLyo, ne vAta karI. "dhaMdhAmAM khUba nukasAnI gaI che. jyotiSIe kahyuM ke tArI bahena Akho divasa moDhAmAM sonAnI ceina rAkhe, to barakata Ave. paNa mArAthI tane AvuM zI rIte...' bahenane to AMkhamAM pANI ja AvI gayA, "mArA bhaIlA, tArA mATe ceIna to zuM ? sAMkaLa paNa moDhAmAM rAkhavA taiyAra chuM." vevAIne bhAIe mAMDa mAMDa manAvI lIdhAM. "aThavADiyuM juo, pachI cokkasa laI jaIza...' aThavADiyA pachI phona karyo, 22 "kema che have ? levA AvuM ?' "nA re nA, tArI bahena to devI che devI, eNe to A gharane svarga banAvI dIdhuM che."

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1OO lava yu DoTara AkhuM sAsaruM A vAte ekamata hatuM. My dear, keTalIka strIo potAnA saMsAranI kabara potAnI jIbhathI khodatI hoya che. amerikAmAM eka zrImaMta oNpha thaI gayo. eNe enI milakata enI patnIne ApI to kharI paNa enA mATe wilmAM eka zarata rAkhI hatI - mArI dara vArSika zraddhAMjalie eNe zaheranA tamAma vartamAnapatromAM jAherakhabara ApavI ke - "jo meM mArI jIbha TUMkI rAkhI hota, to mArA pati ghaNuM lAMbu jIvyA hota." What did she achieve my daughter ? jUnA samayamAM cUlA saLagAvavA mATe phUMkaNIno upayoga thato hato. niraMkuza vANI e evI phUMkaNI che, je AkhA ghara-saMsArane saLagAvI de che. TolsToyanI DAyarImAM eka pAnA para lakheluM hatuM - eka divasa paNa mArI patnIe mane mIThA zabdo kahyA hota, to enA smaraNathI huM jIvanabhara AnaMda mANI zakyo hota. chaganane eka divasa zAMtinI khUba ja jarUra hatI, paNa enI patnI levA-devA vagara basa bole ja jatI hatI...

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101 SPEECH mane eka vAtano javAba Apo ne ? DaoNkTaromAM Eye specialist hoya che. Ear specialist ane Teeth specialist hoya che. Heart specialist ane Skin specialist hoya che, tema Tongue specialist kema nathI hotA?" chagane ThaMDe kaleje javAba Apyo, "jIbhanI Treatment zakya ja nathI, enA DaoNkTarane apayaza ja maLe."

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SILENCE 103 beTA, bola bola karatI A duniyAne khabara nathI, ke maunamAM keTalo AnaMda che ! zeksapiyare lakhyuM che - Silence is the perfectest herald of joy, I were but little happy, If I could say how much. mArI vhAlI, mauna e AtmAnI mAtRbhASA che. emAM AtmAne jeTalI suvidhA ane anukULatA rahe che, eTalI bIje kyAMya rahetI nathI. mANasa potAnI bhUlo DhAMkavA mATe ke potAnI adhurapa chupAvavA mATe paNa bola bola karato hoya che, paNa eka vAta e bhUlI jAya che, ke vAcALapaNuM e paNa eka prakAranI bhUla ane adhurapa ja che, nItizAstramAM lakhyuM che - maurya snAyavara - bola bola karavAnI TevathI nAmozI thAya che. maunamunativAram - maunathI unnati thAya che. muvRtta nUpura pAve - jhAMjhara bolakaNuM che, tethI pagamAM paherAya che. rAte virAjate - hAra mauna che, tethI gaLAmAM zobhe che. mArI lADalI, ramaNa maharSie sAcuM ja kahyuM che "mIna e sarvottama bhASA che." mUrkha mANasa

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104 lava yu DoTara je avasare uchaLI paDe che. tUTI paDe che. bephAma zabdono mAro calAve che. evA avasare zANo mANasa khAsa mauna rahe che. mArI vahAlI, evI nabaLI paLomAM mauna rAkhavuM, e sAmA mANasane kharIdI levA barAbara che. maunano Max. benifit e samaye thato hoya che. duniyAnI koI paNa vyakti khUba ja saraLatAthI samajI jAya che, ke evA samaye mauna rAkhI zakanAra mANasa keTalo mahAna haze ! eka hindI kahevata che - eka cupa sau ko harAve / cANakya to AnA karatAM paNa AgaLanI vAta kare che - maune ca kalaho nAsti / mauna hoya, to yuddha ke vivAdanI zakyatA ja rahetI nathI. beTA, duniyA kahe che, ke eka strI mATe cUpa rahevuM khUba muzkela che. zeksapiyare eka nATakIya-saMvAdamAM lakhyuM che. Don't you know? I'm a woman. When I think, I must speak. paNa mane zraddhA che, tuM A vAtane khoTI pADI batAvIza.

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SILENCE 105 My dear, tArA saMparkamAM AvanArI strIne tuM saraLatAthI svIkArI zake, e mATe tuM e vAtane haMmezA yAda rAkhaje. ane aNagamatA zabdone lAiTalI leje. paNa jyAre tArI potAnI bAbata hoya, tyAre e vAtanuM koI ja vajUda rahevA na detI Let Silence be your power my daughter. Love you very much.

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SOCIETY beTA, samAjamAM haju paNa keTalIka evI vyaktio hoya che. je rAmAyaNanA dhobIno rola karatI hoya che. sAva nirdoSa strIne paNa teo vagovI zakatA hoya, to pachI je chokarI chUTachATapUrvaka vartatI hoya, tenA mATe to zuM na thaI zake ??? je chokarInuM eka vAra nAma bagaDe, pachI tene sAro chokaro maLavo muzkela thaI jAya che. satyA vA yadi vA mithyA, prasiddhirjayinI nRNAm / prasiddhi sAcI hoya ke khoTI, enI cokkasa asara jarUra hoya che. mArI vhAlI, vAta mAtra 'dhobI'e nathI aTakatI. ApaNI Aju-bAju rAvaNo ane duHzAsano paNa che. AjanuM mIDiyA pUrI zaktithI AvA mANasone pakavavA mATe jANe maraNiyuM banyuM che. jyAre eka durghaTanA ghaTe che, tyAre emAM strInA pakSe bIjA paNa kAraNo bhAga bhajavatA hoya che. jema ke enuM vartana, eno vyavahAra, eno pozAka, vAtacItanI chUTachATa, puruSa-saMparko, haravA-pharavAnI vadhu paDatI chUTachATa vagere vagere. skUla-kaoNlejomAM keTalAMka chAkaTA yuvAno hoya che. jemanI pahelI pasaMda AvI kanyAo hoya che. 107

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108 lava yu DoTara teo temane lagnanuM vacana Ape che, pachI emanI sAthe saMbaMdha kare che ne pachI zeraDInA kUcAnI jema ene tarachoDI de che. chokarI sAmAjika rIte badanAma thaI jAya che ane jIvanabharanuM duHkha enA mAthe AvI paDe che. pelo chokaro zrImaMta gharano hoya, ke kamAto hoya, to ene potAnI dIkarI paraNAvavA mATe loko taiyAra hoya che, paNa je kanyA vagovAI ene paraNanAra koI ja maLatuM nathI. mArI vhAlI, A bAbata ja eTalI gaMbhIra che, ke AmAM e chokaro vaMThela ke chAkaTo nathI, e sAro che, e maryAdAzIla che, He is just a friend. AvI badhI vAto bilakula arthahIna banI jAya che. tuM atyAre evA Time-PeriodmAMthI Pass thaI rahI che ke A samaye te karelI nAnI paNa bhUla tane ane mane jIvanabharanuM rudana ApI zake che. Will you believe my daughter ? chokarAnI vAta to dUranI che,

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109 SOCIETY A uMmare samAnavayanI chokarIo sAthenuM paNa vadhu paDatuM maLavuM ke ekAMtamAM maLavuM e sAruM nathI ja. Aje paNa jApAnIjha mAtA potAnI dIkarIne lagnadine eka zIkha Ape che. ke tuM bhale Young che, paNa tuM yuvatIonI ToLImAM nahIM besatI, paNa vRddhAo pAse ja besavAnI Teva rAkhaje. beTA, strI koI kAraNasara gharanI bahAra jAya, to enI mAtA jevI strIonI sAthe ja jAya. evuM ApaNI saMskRtimAM kahyuM che. maryAdAthI chaTakavuM khUba saheluM che, paNa maryAdAthI chaTakavAnA pariNAmathI chaTakavuM, e saheluM nathI. saMskRti para hasanArA, enI chaDe coka mazkarI uDAvanArA, ane maryAdA phagAvI devA mATe strIne uzkeranArA tattvo eka paNa strIne enA duSpariNAmathI bacAvI zakyA che kharA ? zakyA' A to ghaNA sArA zabdo che beTA, bAkI, bhUkhyA varUonI vacce bhIMsAtI, pIsAtI ane raheMsAtI kUmaLI kanyAonI e tattvone kazI ja darakAra hotI nathI. hota,

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110 lava yu DoTara to teo evo dhaMdho ja na karatA hota. mArI vhAlI, tArI maryAdA koIne pasaMda na paDe, ne e loko tane maNibahena kahe eTalA mAtrathI tAre tArI lAipha-sTAilamAM cenja karI devo, e jarUrI nathI. tAre tAruM rimoTa emanA hAthamAM zA mATe ApI devuM joIe? eka maNibahena meDonA banyA bAda je duHkho bhogavatI hoya che, enI emane khabara hotI nathI, ane khabara hoya, to enI emane phikara hotI nathI. Use your own brain my daughter, chokarI evI komenTsane mana para le, ane eno Dresa, enuM biheviyara - badhuM cenja karI de, eTale pachI e loko ja ene "cAlu'no ilkAba ApI detA hoya che. beTA, ApaNo paheraveza ane ApaNI vartaNUMka samAjamAM eka cokkasa imeja UbhI kare che. AmAM chUTachATa letI chokarI aMgata jIvanamAM-khAnagImAM anicchanIya chUTa-chATo letI haze. evI sahaja kalpanA lokone thatI hoya che. A sthitimAM

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SOCIETY e chokarInI badanAmI thAya ane chATakA chokarAo dvArA ene phasAvavAno prayAsa thAya. A baMne sahaja che. banI zake ke e chokarI aMgata jIvanamAM sArI paNa hoya, paNa enA koI pramANapatro hotA nathI. As a result, She has to suffer. She has to fight a horrible life-war. mArI vhAlI, samAjanI apekSA che ke tame tamArI maryAdAmAM raho. pUrNa maryAdAmAM. ane emAM kazuM khoTuM nathI. maryAdA e samAjanA paNa hitamAM che, vyaktinA potAnA paNa hitamAM che. ane vyaktinA parivAranA paNa hitamAM che. beTA, samAjane kadI vakhoDatI nahIM, ApaNI paraMparAnI samAja-vyavasthA mAnavasvabhAvane ane sukhI jIvanane khUba ja anukULa che. Aje gAmaDAMno bhaNelo varga zahe2mAM jAya tyAre samAja-jJAtithI aLagA thavA mATe havAtiyA mAre che. paNa jyAre prazna tyAM ja AvIne Ubho rahe 111

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112 lava yu DoTara tyAre e samAjane zodhe che. Aje paNa evA aDhaLaka samAjo che, jeo Arogya, zaikSaNika, surakSA, nyAya vagere ghaNI badhI bAbatomAM sarakArI ke khAnagI saMsthAo karatAM anekagaNI sArI sevAo Ape che, e paNa niHsvArthabhAve. A sevAonA lobhathI samAjane apanAvavo, evuM huM nathI kaheto, A to samAjanA yogadAnonI vAta che. mArI vhAlI, hakIkatamAM to samAjanI zarama mAnavane dAnava thatAM roke che, ane vyaktigata-samaSTigata ghaNI badhI honAratothI bacAvI le che. A ja samAjanuM sarvotkRSTa yogadAna che. samAjanA abhAve pedA thayelA dAnavoe videzamAM kevo hAhAkAra macAvyo che ! e tuM jANIza to kharekhara coMkI jaIza. hakIkatamAM parivAra ane samAja vinA be ja vyakti sukhethI jIvI zake. eka - pAgala ane bIjo - yogI. beTA, eka bAju ApaNI pAse

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SOCIETY 113 sadIonI paraMparAthI Avelo svastha samAja che ane bIjI bAju navI vicAraNAonA pUra che. mane tArA para vizvAsa che beTA, ke tuM emAM taNAI nahIM jAya. tuM kadI paNa chATakI chokarIonI jema Just for fun Enjoy and forget majA khAtara majA ane pachI bhUlI javAnuM, AvI chIcharI vRttino bhoga nahIM bane. je vastu gaMbhIratAno ane javAbadArIno viSaya che ene tuM e rIte ja samajIza. Am I right my dear ? O my wise daughter. navI vicAraNAnuM eka pUra A che - Live in relationship Adhunika yuvatIne lagna ane pati nathI joItA She argues - 'Why Responsibility ?' javAbadArI na joIe, enA karatAM Live in Relationship zuM khoTI ? eka chata nIce pati-patnI tarIke sAthe rahI zakAya. koI rivAja zaratanuM pAlana nahIM karavAnuM. AnuM paNa vadhu Adhunika rUpa che -

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114 lava yu DoTara Marriage live apart arrangement. alaga alaga rahevAnuM. WeeknA thoDA divasa sAthe vitAvavAnA. Long term commitment paNa nahIM. paNa beTA, AmAM strInuM zoSaNa nahIM thAya enI khAtarI che ? saMtAna nahIM thAya ? saMtAnanuM bhAvI zuM ? mArI vhAlI, A paddhatithI videzamAM parivAra, samAja, deza - badhuM ja khADe gayuM che. ApaghAto vadhyA che, pAgalapaNuM ane mAnasika bImArIo vadhyA che ane aparAdho paNa khUba khUba vadhyA che. beTA, choDa ukheDAyA kare, to mULa UMDA na jAya, na phaLa-phUla Ave, na choDa svastha rahe, e jaladIthI sUkAI jAya. eka vAta haMmezA yAda rAkhaje, ke mAnavasvabhAva mazInanI jema navA pAtro sAthe seTa thavA ane jUnAne bhUlavA TevAyo nathI. videzamAM svastha ane TakAu lagnajIvananI achata sauthI vadhu kone pIDe che, khabara che ?

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1 15 SOCIETY e che strI. 60-65 varSanI uMmare ya e majUrI kare che. pharajiyAta ghara-kharca Ape che ane satata asalAmatI anubhave che. puruSa ene jyAre kADhI mUke tyAre eNe nIkaLI javuM paDe. nIkaLIne javuM kyAM? e praznano enI pAse koI ja javAba nathI. kadAca enI jiMdagI pUrI thaI jAya, to ya A savAlano javAba maLato nathI. kAraNa ke e jyAM paNa jAya tyAM asalAmatInI talavAra enA para laTakatI ja rahetI hoya che. Adhunika nArIne khabara nathI, ke parAvalaMbI hovuM e jema puruSa mATe kalaMkarUpa che ema svAvalaMbI hovuM e strI mATe kalaMkarUpa che. bIjA zabdomAM kahuM, to eka strI mATe parAvalaMbana e ja kharA arthamAM svAvalaMbana hoya che. jaoNba karato mANasa baoNsane AdhIna rahe che, ane tenA dvArA Arthika lAbha meLave che.

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116 lava yu DoTara tema strI paNa patine AdhIna rahIne zIlanI surakSAno lAbha meLavatI ja hoya che. jaoNba karatAM mANasane jema "AdhInatA nathI dekhAtI hotI, paNa 'lAbha' ja dekhAto hoya che, barAbara te ja rIte A bAbatamAM paNa samajavuM joIe, mArI vhAlI, te avAra-navAra evA News jANyA haze, ke kaoNlejanI chokarIne koI narAdhamoe AMtarI, eno baoNyaphrenDa bhAgI gayo. ne e bicArI emano zikAra banI gaI. Why did he run away ? Yes my daughter, find out the answer. kAraNa ke e baoNyaphrenDane e chokarInI javAbadArI jevo koI ahesAsa ja na hato. AnI sAme evA thousands of examples che, jemAM patie patnInI surakSA mATe potAnI jAnanI paNa bAjI lagAvI dIdhI hoya ke potAno jAna suddhAM ApI dIdho hoya. lagna e baMdhana nathI beTA. e baMdhana che, to narAdhamo mATe, e emane strInuM zoSaNa karatA aTakAve che. strI mATe to lagna e surakSA che. pUrNa surakSA.

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SOCIETY 117 pati potAno jAna paNa jenA mATe ApI devA taiyAra hoya, enA para e thoDo-ghaNo Adhipatyano bhAva rAkhe, to emAM khoTuM zuM che ? evuM hoya, to ya strI ja plasamAM che. patine paramezvara mAnavAnI ApaNI saMskRti jemane samajAtI nathI. temanuM aNasamajanuM kSetra ghaNuM moTuM che. khoTA gumAnamAM teo lAkhogaNI gulAmI svIkArI letA hoya che. mArI vhAlI, lagna e mahattvapUrNa arthasabhara saMbaMdha che, ene saphaLa banAvI zakAya che. tane kadAca khabara nahIM hoya, lagna e to jyotiSazAstrano muhUrta-saMbaMdhI zabda che. ApaNe jene "lagna' kahIe chIe, enA mATeno kharo zabda che "vivAha." vi + ved dhAtuthI A zabda banyo che. jeno artha che vizeSathI vahana karavuM - upADavuM. A saMdarbhamAM pati mATeno samAnArthI zabda che - vivoDhA, jeno artha che vizeSathI vahana karanAra. eka puruSa eka strInI badhI ja javAbadArIone potAnA mAthe laI le enuM nAma che vivAha. Adhunika strI jene svataMtratA samaje che.

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118 lava yu DoTara enI kiMmata e A badhI ja javAbadArIone mAthe laIne cUkave che. je javAbadArIne upADavI enA mATe hakIkatamAM zakya ja nathI hotI. beTA, lagnajIvana e strInuM svarga che. sAdhvI/saMnyAsinIne bAda karIe to apariNItA strI narakanI yAtanAo bhogavatI hoya che. videzamAM AnA lAkho udAharaNo che. "A bhAra koNa upADe ? evI menTAliTIthI tyAMnA puraSo paraNatA nathI. premanA bhAvAvezamAM kyAreka koI enI garlaphrenDane maeNreja mATe prapojha karI de tyAre e chokarI harSanI kikiyArIo karI mUke che. keTakeTalI udAsIonuM pratika hoya A harSa. tuM samajI rahI che ne beTA? ApaNe tyAM vicitra paristhitie paga-pesAro karavAnuM zarU karI dIdhuM che. lagnacchuka puruSo hovA chatAM pazcimanI AMdhaLI doTamAM evI dalIlo karanArI strIo dekhA de che. ke "lagnanI zuM jarUra che ?' paNa A praznano kharo javAba temane maLI jAya.

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119 SOCIETY tyAM sudhImAM ghaNuM moDuM thaI cUkyuM hoya che. eka sukhI ane svastha lagnajIvana zarU karavAnI lAyakAta te strIo gumAvI cUkI hoya che.

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1 21 CHARACTOR beTA, UMcuM cAritra e saphaLa lagnajIvananuM sopAna che. je kanyAne A vAta moDe moDe samajAya che te kanyA mAtA-pitA mATe DuMgaro banIne rahe che. hatyA.. koI kenAlamAM bhUsako... koI phleTathI kUdako.. gADInA pATe ApaghAta... phAMso... jherI davA... A badhuM ja moTA bhAge strI-puruSanA cAritranA praznone kAraNe uddabhavatuM hoya che. mArI vhAlI, eka sUtra tuM jIvanamAM haMmezA yAda rAkhaje If Wealth is lost, nothing is lost. If Health is lost, something is lost. But, If charactor is lost, everything is lost. beTA, AjanA samayamAM keTalIka evI yuvatIo hoya che jemane 'mahattvAkAMkSA' nAmano roga thayo hoya che. temane jhaTapaTa maMjhila joIe che, ghaNA badhAM rUpiyA, prasiddhi ane sTeTasa joIe che, ane cAritranA mUlyo karatAM emane manamAM gharabAyelA eza-ArAma, kArakirdI, sagavaDa ne paisAnuM mUlya vadhAre hoya che. kaMIka meLavavA mATe kaMIka gumAvavuM paDe evI emanI jIvananI philasUphI hoya che.

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122 lava yu DoTara teo bahu sahajatAthI vicAre che - Give & take emAM khoTuM zuM che ? dAdaro caDhIne upara javuM enA karatAM A seksa-eskeleTara zuM khoTuM ? My dear, They don't know, what's not wrong here. khoTA raste maLelI saphaLatA ke saMpatti haMmezA TUMkA gALAnI hoya che. kArakirdI pAchaLa doDatAM kadAca gADI ane baMgalo maLI jAya che, paNa parivArathI... zAMtithI... svasthatAthI ane sAcA sukhathI vikhUTA paDI javAya che. mArI vhAlI, saphaLa ane paisAdAranI vyAkhyA roja badalAya che. sauthI vadhu saMpatti dharAvanArAonA lisTamAM dara varSe pheraphAra thAya che. Aje philmomAM suparasTAra koI eka che, to kAle koI bIjo che. je A badhI resamAM utare che. ene jIvanabhara doDyA ja karavuM paDe che, e paNa keTakeTalA anicchanIya samAdhAno sAthe. to evI resamAM utaravA karatAM sArA ane sAcA banavuM, e ja vadhu sAruM nahIM ? kharI rIte to Ane ja saphaLatA kahevI joIe. ane Ane ja saMpatti kahevI joIe.

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CHARACTOR 1 23 zIlaM hi viduSAM dhanam / zIla e ja vidvAnonuM dhana che. jeo samajadAra che. temane to kerekTara e ja veltha lAge che. Tell me my daughter, What's the beauty of a woman ? You may say, je game te sauMdarya, Well, mANasane zuM game ? zuM lisTika e sauMdarya che? No, jo evuM ja hota, to lisTika lagADavAthI dareka vyakti suMdara banI jatI hota. zuM papha pAuDara, byuTI krIma, phesiyala ke Aibro TrITa e sauMdarya che? nA, jo evuM ja hota, to regyulara A badhuM yujha karanAra sAthe koI DAyavorsa na letuM hota. zuM javelarI ane vesTarna Dresa e sauMdarya che? nA, jo evuM ja hota, to vesTarna karisamAM ATalA badhAM marDarsa ane ATalI badhI haiyAhoLIo na hota. ApaNe pharIne tyAM ja AvIne UbhA chIe, What's beauty ? evuM kayuM tattva che, jenI gerahAjarI suMdarane paNa asuMdara banAvI de che? evI kaI vastu che, je nArInA soLa zaNagAra karatAM paNa caDiyAtI che.

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124 lava yu DoTara evuM zuM hoI zake, je nArIne kharA arthamAM zaNagAre che? My dear, e che zIla ane lajjA. bRhatkalpa AgamamAM kahyuM che - Na bhUsaNaM bhUsayate zarIraM vibhUsaNaM sIla hirI ya itthIe / hakIkatamAM AbhUSaNa zarIrane nathI zaNagAratuM. zIla ane lajjA zaNagAre che. strInuM kharuM AbhUSaNa A ja che - zIla ane lajjA. mana, vANI ane dehanI pavitratA e zIla che ane sahaja zarama e lajjA che. je strI pAse A be zaNagAra nathI e duniyAbharanA zaNagAro kare to ya kharA arthamAM e kadarUpI ja raheze. mArI vhAlI, tuM je samayamAM jIvI rahI che. e samayamAM saMskRti para vikRtinuM AkramaNa thayuM che. zIla ane lajjAnA phurace phuracA uDAvI devAnI jANe spardhA cAlI che. ne enI sAthe sAthe ja duniyA enA duSpariNAmone bhogavI rahI che. mArI vhAlI,

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CHARACTOR ApaNI sAMskRtika jIvanazailImAM zIla ane lajjA jIvatAM hatAM, sauMdarya ane zaNagAra jIvatA hatAM ane sacoTa zabdomAM kahuM, to strItva jIvatuM hatuM. beTA, 10mAMthI 10 jAya to 0 bAkI rahe che. paNa jo strImAMthI strItva jatuM rahe, to honArata bAkI rahe che. eka kaDavuM satya e che ke Adhunika loko jene nArI-svAtaMtrya kahetA hoya che, e actualy nArInI smazAnayAtrA hoya che. ne pachI kahevAto vikAsa e maDadAMnA zaNagArathI vadhu kazuM ja raheto nathI. strItvanI hiMsAmAM mane vartamAna samayano sauthI moTo aparAdha dekhAI rahyo che. jenAthI kadAca ApaNo samagra samAja sarvanAzanA khapparamAM homAI jaze. mArI vhAlI, 'strItva' e ja samAjajIvananI saMjIvanI che. e jIvaze to samAja jIvI jaze. 125

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11 SECRETS 1 27 My dear, I tell you 11 secrets to protect our charactor. (1) ekAMta tyAga : zIla mATe Most dangerous che ekAMta. ApaNI bhItaranA pazuo bahAra AvavA mATe ekAMtanI rAha jotA hoya che. ekAMtamAM manane pavitra rAkhavAno prayAsa karavo e kolasAnA koThAramAM jaIne cokhA-caTa rahevAno prayAsa karavA barAbara che. That's almost difficult or impossible. mArI vhAlI, bAIbalamAM to spaSTa zabdomAM kahyuM che ke jyAre parastrI ane parapuruSa ekAMtamAM bese che, tyAre e baMne vacce zetAna AvIne bese che. ApaNI saMskRti kahe che - manigisama nArI, - nArI e agnikuMDa samAna che. pR thvasano nara: - nara e ghInA kuMDa samAna che. saMga vitnIta, - saMsarga thAya eTale e pIgaLe ja. tasmAt ta vivat - mATe saMgano tyAga karavo. dhamilacaritra nAmanA graMthamAM to tyAM sudhI kahyuM che ke - sastAM parapumA yUnA parapuruSanI vAta to javA do, paNa potAnA pitrA prAtrI surena vI ! yuvAna pitA-bhAI-putra paNa pravAhanA sadaivIne ekalA hoya, tyAre temanI sAthe ekAMtamAM sthAtivya zustriyI | kulIna strIe na rahevuM joIe.

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128 lava yu DoTara mArI vhAlI, satya e satya che, 'emAM zuM thaI gayuM ?' evI lAkha dalIlo paNa satyane asatya karI zakatI nathI. satya e sUraja che. enI sAme dhULa uDADo to ya e to 'e' ja rahe che. mATe ja puruSane uddezIne paNa prAcIna zAstroe spaSTa kahyuM che ke. mAtrA svastrA hitrA vA na viviktA''sano bhavet / balavAnindriyagrAmo vidvAMsamapi karSati / (manusmRti 2-215) This is the fact my daughter. pavitrathI ya pavitra saMbaMdhone sagI mAtA, bahena ke dIkarI sAthe paNa ekAMtamAM na besavuM. indriyo eTalI badhI baLavAna che ke samajadArane paNa khoTe raste tANI jAya che. ekAMta raphe-daphe karI zake che, to pachI bIjI vyaktio sAthenuM ekAMta to keTaluM khataranAka kahevAya ! kadAca 'khataranAka' zabda enA mATe ocho paDe. mahAkavi kAlidAsane eka vAra rAjAe pUchyuM, 'sauthI kharAba zuM che ?' kAlidAsa vicAramAM paDI gayA, javAba ApavA mATe samaya mAMgyo.

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129 11 SECRETS ghare AvyA. ciMtAmAM garakAva thaI gayA. rAjAno savAla javAba zodhI lAvyA vinA chUTako nahIM. pitAjIne ciMtAmAM joIne dIkarIe Agraha karIne kAraNa pUchyuM. kAlidAse vAta karI. dIkarI kazuM na bolI. rAta paDI. kAlidAsa emanA kakSamAM ekalA hatAM. emanI dIkarI soLe zaNagAra sajIne tyAM AvI. soLe kaLAe khIlelI mohakatA. phATa phATa thatuM enuM rUpa ane emAM ya ekAMta. kAlidAsa mUDha banI gayAM. dIkarIne bAthamAM laI levA e doDyA. e ja samaye dIvo bujhAvI devAyo. dIkarI doDIne tyAMthI jatI rahI. savAra paDI. kAlidAsa potAno cahero DhAMkIne AMsunI dhArA vahAvatA hatAM. tyAM dIkarI AvI. pitAjIne praNAma karIne bolI, "raDo nahIM pitAjI ! kazuM ja thayuM nathI. A to meM phakta ApanA savAlano javAba zodhI Apyo che. sauthI kharAba che ekAMta. kAraNa ke e sArI vyaktine paNa kharAba banAvI de che."

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130 lava yu DoTara mArI vhAlI, puruSa ke strInuM koI puruSa sAthenuM ekAMta paNa kharAba che. koI strI sAthenuM ekAMta paNa kharAba che. ane vyakti sAva ekalI ja hoya, e ekAMta paNa kharAba che. pavitratAne jokhamamAM mUkIne pachI ene sAcavavAno prayAsa karavo enA karatAM lAkhagaNuM bahetara e che ke pavitratAne jokhamamAM ja na mUkavI. beTA, amuka niyamomAM tame bAMdha-choDa na ja karo to zIlapAlana sahelAmAM saheluM che ane nahIM to enA jevuM agharuM bIjuM kazuM ja nathI. (2) sAttvika vAMcana : vAMcana evuM ja karavuM ke je ApaNA saMskArane zobhe ane ApaNI pavitratAne poSe. AjanA News papers, Magazines, Novels etc. moTA bhAge saMskAra ane pavitratAnA enemies hoya che. mArI vhAlI, vAMcavuM evuM, jene ApaNe sabhya lokomAM jAhera karI zakIe. athavA jene koI jAhera kare

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11 SECRETS to ApaNe bilakula zaramAvuM na paDe. beTA, ApaNuM gaurava to e bhUmikA sudhI pahoMcavAmAM che, ke jemAM ApaNA badhA ja vicAro jAhera thaI jAya, to ya ApaNA sanmAnane koI AMca na Ave, balke ApaNuM sanmAna vadhI jAya. paNa e bhUmikA kyAre maLe ? jyAre ApaNI badhI pravRtti sArI hoya. sArI pravRtti e sArA vicAronI eka mAtra AdhArazilA che. Aje paNa evA seMkaDo pustako maLe che, je ApaNA sadguNonuM jatana kare, ApaNA doSone dUra kare, jIvana jIvavAnI ApaNane navI ja UrjA Ape ane ApaNA AtmAno kharo vikAsa sAdhI Ape. My dear, Good books are the nector on the earth & bad books are the most dangerous poison. Always beware of those. nabaLuM vAMcana manane asthira ane caMcaLa banAve che. prasannatAne corI le che. nakArAtmaka vicArone janma Ape che. ane pariNAme jIvananA dareka kSetramAM mANasane pAcho pADe che. tyAM sudhI, ke enuM zarIra paNa mAMdu paDe che. 131

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132 lava yu DoTara My dear, Nagetive is nagetive. Actually ApaNe je lekhakanuM lakhANa vAMcIe chIe tene ApaNuM ghaDatara karavAnuM kAma soMpIe chIe. ApaNe jema jema vAMcatA jaIe chIe, tema tema pustaka anusAra ghaDAtA jaIe chIe. je te vAMcavuM, te eka rIte potAnI jAtano jugAra ramavA barAbara che, jemAM hAra nizcita che. vAMcavAnI preraNAo ane jhuMbezo ApaNe tyAM ghaNI cAle che, paNa mAtra "vAMcavuM e pUratuM nathI. Important matter e che, ke tame zuM vAMco cho ? kevuM vAMco cho? pustako zreSTha mitra che, A vAta Half truth che. Full truth e che. ke sArA pustako zreSTha mitra che. ane AmAM "sArA"nI vyAkhyA khAsa samajavA jevI che. It doesn't mean - ApaNane game te sAruM. It doesn't mean - ApaNI phrenDane game te sAruM. It doesn't mean - Best seller hoya te sAruM. It doesn't mean - jenuM Super marketing hoya te sAruM. My dear, I give you a simple & perfect defination.

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133 11 SECRETS je ApaNane "sArA" banAvI de, te sAruM. je AvuM na hoya, e kAM to nakAmuM che ane kAM to kharAba che. e kAM to ApaNane nakAmAM banAvaze, ne kAM to kharAba banAvaze. My dear, So read the best & be the best. (3) sAttvika zravaNa : sAruM sAMbhaLavuM. sAruM ja sAMbhaLavuM. "sArA"nI Dephinezana hamaNA ja kahI te ja. mArI dIkarI. DhaMgadhaDA vagaranA myujhiksa jemane AnaMda Ape che. teo yA to pote DhaMga-dhaDA vagaranA hoya che, ne yA to DhaMga-dhaDA vagaranA thaI jAya che. je myujhika koI paNa DAhyA mANasanuM mAthuM dukhADI de, e myujhika jene game... phAve... ene kevo mANasa gaNavo joIe? kAnamAM iyara-phona nAkhIne pharatA lokono Aje toTo nathI, paNa lAkha rUpiyAno prazna A che - What do you hear ? My dear,

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134 lava yu DoTara Perhaps you don't know, bhAratanA zAstrIya saMgItanA dareka rAgamAM amuka khAsa kSamatA che. RtumAM pheraphAra karavAnI capacity, vAtAvaraNa badalI devAnI capacity, manane praphullita karI devAnI capacity, tanane nIrogI karI devAnI capacity. eka eka rAga kayA kayA rogone maTADI zake che, enuM AkhuM lisTa meM jAyeluM che. zAstrIya rogono cikitsA tarIke upayoga paNa cAlu thaI cUkyo che. mArI hAlI, jema zAstrIya paddhatisaranA rAgo... paddhatisaranuM saMgIta rogone maTADI zake che ane manane prasanna karI zake che. e paddhati sAthe jene koI ja levA-devA nathI, evuM saMgIta rogo pedA karI zake che, ane mAnasika sthitine DisTarbaDa paNa karI zake che. gharanuM badhuM AuTa oNpha DeTa... nakAmuM.. nIrasa zaramajanaka ane bahAranuM badhuM sarasa ane suMdara AvI gerasamajano jeo bhoga banyA che, temane khabara nathI ke videzI risarco ja zAstrIya ane azAstrIya saMgItanI A asarone pramANita karI rahyA che.

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11 SECRETS 135 beTA, I know, New generation Aje Western MusicnI pAchaLa pAgala che. paNa ene khabara nathI. ke videzamAM Aje pAgalakhAnAo ubharAya che. temAM A DhaMgadhaDA vagaranA nAca-gAna ane valgara zabdovALA gItono paNa phALo che ja. A vastu ja eTalI vikRta che. ke e vikRta mAnasane janma Ape che ane pachI manocikitsakonA klIniksa ubharAvA lAge che, gunAo vadhe che ane zaramajanaka nIca kRtyo paNa vadhavA lAge che. Music hoya, speech hoya ke Live - face to face talk hoya. emAM spirituality hovI khUba ja jarUrI che. tuM eno Agraha rAkhIza. to ghaNI honAratomAMthI bacI jaIza. mArI vhAlI, AmAMthI ghaNI badhI vastuo evI che, je sArA Friend-CirclethI khUba saraLa thaI jAya che. jevI tArI bahenapaNIo haze, evI ja tuM thaIza. sAttvika vAMcananI bAbatamAM meM je kahyuM, te badhuM ja sAttvika zravaNanI bAbatamAM paNa lAgu paDe che.

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136 (4) sAttvika darzana : As above. lava yu DoTara je ApaNane 'sArA' banAvI de I mean, te sAttvika darzana. dezI-videzI TI.vI. caeNnalo, sinemA, vIDiyo, inTaraneTa ane moDarna DrAmA vagere Most of AnAthI bilakula UMdhuM kAma kare che. mArI vhAlI, AjanI duniyAmAM eka bALaka moTo thAya tyAM sudhImAM hajAro ke lAkho vAra khUna, corI, baLAtkAro ane atyAcAro joI cUkyo hoya che. Can you imagine ? A badhAM ja tAmasI dazyo enA para keTalI kharAba asara pADatAM haze ? amerikAnI skUlsamAM hajAro chokarAo gana laIne jAya che, kyAre konA magajanI kamAna chaTake ne ADedhaDa goLIo chUTI jAya eno tyAM koI ja bharoso nathI, AnuM kAraNa TI.vI. che. yuropanI skUlsamAM ja eNborzana ane bebIsITarsanI vyavasthAo karavI paDI che, tenuM kAraNa TI.vI. che. AjanA mANasane vadhu ne vadhu egresIva banAvavAmAM hada bahArano grIDI banAvavAmAM ane svabhAvano vicitra banAvavAmAM TI.vI.no ghaNo moTo hAtha che.

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11 SECRETS amerikano TI.vI.ne iDiyaTa boksa' kahe che. TI.vI., kompyuTara vagereno upayoga jema jema vadhe che, tema tema mANasanI vicArazakti, kalpanAzakti ane sarjanAtmaka zakti ghaTatI jAya che. In short, e iDiyaTa banato jAya che. moTAbhAganI duniyA jene jovAmAM potAnA jIvananA lAkho kalAkone veDaphI nAkhe che. enA tarapha kharAM inTelijanTa loko najara suddhAM karatAM nathI. 'epala' kaMpanInA phAunDara sTIva jobse Ai phona, Ai peDa vagere dvArA kaoNmyunikezananA kSetre gajaba parivartana karyuM hatuM. tenA ghare janArA evI kalpanA karIne jatAM, ke tenI dIvAlo Taca-skrInavALI haze ne TAilso AI poDanI banelI haze, paNa tenA gharanI sAdAI joIne teo stabdha thaI jatAM hatAM. sTIva jobsanA saMtAnoe kadI paNa te sAdhanono upayoga karyo na hato. enI kaMpanInA risarca DipArTamenTanA moTA moTA enjiniyaro emanA bALakone evI skUlamAM bhaNavA mUkatA, jyAM kompyuTara hoya ja nahIM. A badhAM sAdhanonA bhayasthAnone 137

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138 lava yu DoTara teo barAbara samajatAM hatAM. TI.vI.nuM-inTaraneTanuM sauthI moTuM bhayasthAna che kerekTaranuM satyAnAza. jAhera rastA para je dazyane jotAMnI sAthe eka sajjana mANasa zarama sAthe AMkho DhALI de, e ja dRzyone e ja mANasa parivAra sAthe ThaMDe kaleje joto rahe evI sAva ja kaDhaMgI paristhitinuM nirmANa TI.vI.e karyuM che. mANasapAtranuM mana saMvedanazIla che, e dRzyane jhIle che. ne enI cokkasa asarane anubhave ja che. A asara jyAre mAnasika vyabhicAranuM svarUpa dhAraNa kare tyAre mANasa potAnI amUlya saMpatti potAnuM kerekTara gumAvI cUkyo hoya che. mArI vhAlI, mananI pavitratA mATe AMkhanI pavitratA khUba ja jarUrI che. je dazyo A pavitratAnA phurace phuracA uDADI de, e dazyonA vAhaka tamAma sAdhanonA phurace phuracA uDAvI devAmAM ja kharuM zANapaNa raheluM che. 'e sAdhanono vivekapUrvaka upayoga karavo,' AvI sUphiyANI vAtono mane koI ja artha lAgato nathI. ja

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11 SECRETS 139 jyAM kSaNe kSaNe paDI javAnI zakyatA che, evI jagyAe jaIne sAvadhAnI rAkhavI evuM kahevA karatAM evI jagyAe na ja javuM, ema kahevuM ja bahetara che. "mana" khUba ja caMcaLa che. nabaLA tarapha DhaLI paDavAno eno svabhAva che. smArTa phona khissAmAM ja hoya ane be ja sekanDamAM gaMdavADa dekhADavAnI kSamatA dharAvato hoya, A sthiti ja vivekane ogALI nAMkhe tevI che. koNa bacI zake ? Better che - smArTa phona rAkhavo ja nahIM. smArTa phona breina-kaeNnsara lAve che e hakIkata eTalI horibala nathI, jeTalI horibala A hakIkata che, ke A badhAM sAdhano kerekTaranuM kaeNnsara lAve che. eka vAra hiMmata karIne TI.vI. phoDI nAkhavuM saheluM che. paNa ApaNI sabhyatAne lajave evuM dRzya AvatAM caeNnala caeNnja karI devI agharI che. smArTa phona kADhI nAMkhavo e saheluM che, paNa eno vivekapUrvakano upayoga e Almost impossible che. thiyeTaramAM gaTara-phUlo cAlu thaI jAya tyAre baMdha AMkhe paramAtmAnuM dhyAna karavuM muzkela che,

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14) lava yu DoTara paNa "huM kadI thiyeTaramAM jatI ja nathI.' AvI 'Teka' TakAvI rAkhavI e saheluM che. My dear, meM eka bukamAM vAMcyuM hatuM, sTAra TI.vI.no mAlika rUparTa maraDoka potAnA saMtAnone kadI sTAra TI.vI. jovA deto nathI. AvI vAto ghaNI vAra mAruM lohI ukaLAvI detI hoya che. Suppose tuM koI DaoNkTara pAse gaI che. DaoNkTaranI dIkarIne paNa Same problem thayo che. Case badhI rIte same hovA chatAM e DaoNkTara tane judI davA Ape ane potAnI dIkarIne judI davA Ape, to e DaoNkTara tene kevo lAgaze? eNe ApelI davA tane kevI lAgaze? Now you can realise star T. V. have tane samajAze, ke e badhAM potAnA svArtha khAtara ApaNane mUrkha banAvI rahyA che. ApaNane aneka rIte lUMTI rahyA che. beTA, Aje ghaNAM peranTsa evA hoya che, jeo pote TI.vI. sAthe cITakIne beThAM hoya che ane saMtAnone dhamakAve che. jato rahe aMdaranA rUmamAM.

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141 11 SECRETS tArI ekjhAma che. tAruM homavarka bAkI che. kevuM lAgaze saMtAnane ? kevuM thaze gharanuM vAtAvaraNa? kevAM banaze pArivArika saMbaMdho ? iDiyaTa baoNksa kharekhara iDiyaTa che. Aje mANasa raDatAM bALakane TI.vI. sAthe besADI de che. cenala ke TI. vI. jevA zabdo hajI saMtAnane AvaDatAM na hatAM, tyArathI DIsa enTinA lagADI de che. paNa pachI e ja saMtAna jyAre rAtanA bAra vAge e DIsa enTinAno pUrepUro upayoga karato thaI jAya. tyAre enA paga taLethI dharatI sarakI jAya che. saMtAnanuM zarIra sApha thaI jAya ne mana ukaraDAMthI bharAI jAya emAM mAtra saMtAnano ja doSa nathI hoto. mArI hAlI, tArA saMtAnane badhI rIte nisteja banAvavo ke badhI rIte tejasvI banAvavo e tArA hAthanI vAta che. sauthI vadhAre jarUrI e che, ke tAruM potAnuM teja safe hoya Totaly safe. beTA,

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142 lava yu DoTara raziyAnI eka chokarI. nAma to atyAre yAda nathI, paNa ghaTanA barAbara yAda che. eka divasa enI bahenanA jIvanane keTalAMka narapizAcoe pIMkhI nAMkhyuM. e divase e chokarI khUba raDI. eNe manomaMthana karyuM ke AvuM kema thayuM? AnA mATe kharekhara koNa javAbadAra? javAba maLyo - T.V. e chokarIe T.V. sAme jaMga cheDyo. hajAro lokone eNe Tv.nA dUSaNamAMthI haMmeza mATe mukta karI dIdhAM. mArI vhAlI, ApaNA koI svajana sAthe evuM kaMI thAya, to ApaNane T.V. pratye napharata chUTI jaze. kadAca gunegAra ema kahe, e amuka siriyalamUvI joIne mane je Aveza Avyo, emAM meM A aparAdha karyo che. to ApaNane e siriyala,mUvI para enA hIro-hIroina para keTalo gusso Avaze ! gaI kAla sudhI e kadAca ApaNane gamatAM hoya, to ya Aje ApaNe emanA para thUkazuM, e ApaNane hatyArA lAgaze. nIca ane adhama lAgaze. kadAca pelI chokarInI jema

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11 SECRETS ApaNe T.V. - Cinema sAme AMdolana na karIe to ya kama se kama ApaNe to A gaMdavADathI mukta thaI ja jaIzuM. to lAkha rUpiyAno prazna e che, ke AjanI tArIkhamAM A ja gaMdavADa lAkho chokarIonA jIvanane barabAda karI ja rahyo che, emanA mATe ApaNane koI ja lAgaNI nahIM ? e badhAM ApaNA svajana nahIM ? zuM kahe che ApaNA dezapremanA saMskAra ? badhAM bhAratIyo mArA bhAI-bahena che.' A vAta mAtra pAThyapustakonI ja pratijJA ? ke ApaNI paNa pratijJA ? mArI vhAlI, zuM ApaNe evA svArthI chIe ? ke je vastu lAkho nArIonuM jIvana ujADI detI hoya, emAM ApaNe ApaNuM manoraMjana zodhIe, ane tALIo vagADIne enuM svAgata karIe ? beTA, tane khabara nathI, Ajano mANasa sukha mATe TI.vI. ne mUvInA cakkaramAM paDe che. Wife force karI karIne sinemAno progrAma goThavaDAve che. traNa kalAka sudhI pati-patnI e dazyone jue che. patine hIroina gamI jAya che. 143

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144 lava yu DoTara patnIne hIro game che. have je gamI che, te kadI maLavAnI nathI ane maLI che, te kadI gamavAnI nathI. Result ? rAmAyaNa ane mahAbhArata. When love is thin, faults are thik. nAnI nAnI vAte jhaghaDA, vagara kAraNe jhaghaDA. gRhakleza, mAnasika trAsa, mArapITa, korTa-kesa, chUTAcheDA... ApaghAta. karoDo gharanI sukha-zAMtine saLagAvI devAnuM kAma A gaMdavADe karyuM che. lAkho chUTAcheDAonA mULamAM A gaMdavADa che. jyAre jyAre koI sajjana A gaMdavADane sApha karavA mATe AgaLa Ave, tyAre tyAre keTalAMka pharela mAthAvALA abhivyakti - svAtaMtryane nAme eno virodha kare che, "mAre zuM jovuM ? e mAre nakkI karavAnuM che." AvI allaDa vAto kare che, temane khabara nathI hotI ke teo khUnIo ane baLAtkArIone pedA karavAnuM pApa karI rahyA che, je tAttvika dRSTie khUna ane baLAtkAra karavA karatAM paNa vadhu hicakAruM nRtya che.

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11 SECRETS 145 mArI vhAlI, vyakti ane samaSTi baMnenuM sukhakAraka ane hitakAraka sAttvika darzana ja che. e che paramAtmAnuM darzana. satsaMganuM darzana. kudaratanA preraNAdAyI dazyonuM darzana. beTA, tArA saMgathI tArI be-pAMca bahenapaNI paNa TI.vI., mUvI, neTa ne mobAilathI mukta thaI jaze, to mane tArA mATe gaurava thaze. kama se kama tuM pote A badhI gaMdakIothI dUra rahIza, to e paNa mArA mATe eka aNamola bheTa haze. jIvanabharanA hAzakArAnI ane eka UMDA AtmasaMtoSanI. chagana polIsa cokImAM phariyAda lakhAvavA gayo. corI thayela vastuonuM lAMbu-lacaka lisTa lakhatAM lakhatAM polIsa thAkI gayo. eNe TUMkamAM lakhAvavA kahyuM, chagana kahe, T.V. sivAya bIjuM badhuM corAI gayuM che. polIse sahaja prazna karyo - TV kema na corAI gayuM? chagana kahe - e to huM joto hato.

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146 lava yu DoTara vAta mAtra chagananI nathI, duniyAbharanI che. T.V. para konsanTeTa thavAne kAraNe keTakeTalI jagyA parathI tenuM dhyAna haTI gayuM che, teno ene khyAla ja nathI, e kharekhara lUMTAI rahI che, e pariNAmone bhogave che, kyAreka kadAca enA kAraNone samaje paNa che, paNa guTakhAnA vyasanInI jema ene choDI zakatI nathI. enTaraTeinamenTanA nAme AvI horibala TrejeDIno bhoga AjanI moTAbhAganI duniyA banI che. ane avanavA sAdhanonA pravezathI A TrejeDI vadhatI ja jAya che. lAkho loko jemane Like karatAM hoya che. teo kadI Like Comment karavA besatAM nathI. sAdhAraNa loko jyAre A mUrkhAmI karI rahyAM hoya che, tyAre asAdhAraNa loko potAnA kAmamAM vyasta hoya che. Uplift yourself my daughter, bhItarano sahaja AnaMda ane sAttvikatAnI sahaja saMvedanA je sukha ApI zake che, te duniyAbharanI caeNnalsa ke mUvI vagere ApI zake tema nathI.

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11 SECRETS (5) sAttvika bhojana : tamAkuM, gAMjo, aphINa, dArU jevA nazIlA padArthothI mAMDIne cA-kaoNphI jevA kaeNphI padArthomAM vikAraka tattvo hovAthI teo zarIranI sarva dhAtuone vikArI kare che. eTaluM ja nahIM paNa temanuM sUkSma tattva cheka mana sudhI paNa pahoMce che ane mana ane AtmAne paNa vikArI kare che. A padArtho eka prakAranA jhera che. A padArthone khAnArA kadI paNa zArIrika, mAnasika ke Atmika Arogyane pAmI zakatA nathI. zuddha AhAra paNa vadhu paDato khAvo ke barAbara cAvyA vinAno khAvo e jheranuM utpAdana karavA barAbara che. khAMDa-ghI-tela-masAlAno vadhu paDato upayoga zArIrika ane mAnasika svasthatA mATe jokhamarUpa bane che. bhAre miSTAnna ane taLelI vastuo sphUrtilA zarIra ane svastha-pavitra mananA duzmano che. sAttvika bhojana aMge zarUAtamAM je vAto kahI te badhI ja ahIM paNa dhyAnamAM levA jevI che. That's the way to protect our character. (6) sAttvika veza : I told you so many points about good dress. My dear, to paNa A eTalI Important matter che, 147

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148 lava yu DoTara ke haju paNa A bAbatamAM kaMIka kahevA mAMguM chuM. eka chokarI gharathI kaoNleja sudhI jAya, tyAM sudhImAM roja keTalAMka chokarAo enI sAme komenTsa kare, sITI vagADe. chokarIe pappAne phariyAda karI. pappAe polIsa inspekTarane phariyAda karI. inspekTare potAnA mANasone sAdA kapaDAMmAM On the way UbhA rAkhI dIdhAM. e mANasoe te chokarAone pakaDI lIdhAM. polIsa sTezanamAM temane hAjara karAyA. inspekTare temane sakhata cetavaNI ApI ane daMDa vasUla karIne choDI dIdhAM. bIjA divase pharI e ja sthiti UbhI thaI inspekTare e chokarInA pappAne kahyuM ke, tamArI dIkarI je kapaDAM paherIne kaoNlejamAM jAya che, te ja kapaDAMmAM tene ahIM bolAvo." chokarI AvI. inspekTare ene joI ane potAnI sAthe emane kAraNa samajAI gayuM. chokarInA pappAne emaNe kahI dIdhuM, ke, "tamArI dIkarI kaoNlejamAM jAya che? ke phezana zaoNmAM? jo e Avo ja Dresa paherIne kaoNleja javAnI hoya, to pachI je paNa ghaTanA ghaTe enA mATe phariyAda karavAno koI ja artha nathI raheto."

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11 SECRETS mArI vhAlI, baLAtkAranA AvA ja eka kesamAM jaje yuvatIne doSita TheravI hatI ane tene daMDa karyo hato. jaje kahyuM hatuM, ke "jo A yuvakanI jagyAe huM hota, to kadAca huM paNa AvuM ja karI beTho hota.'' beTA, vAta mAtra doSAropaNanI nathI, CharacternI che. jAherasthAnomAM ADedhaDa mazInagana calAvatA AtaMkavAdI ane vAsanA-uttejaka Dresa paheranAra chokarI A be vacce hakIkatamAM koI ja pharaka nathI. kadAca e AtaMkavAdI karatAM paNa vadhu doSita ane vadhu bhayaMkara che e chokarI. je svajanothI mAMDIne samagra samAjanI AMkhomAM vAsanAnuM jhera notare che. ne emanI bhAva-hatyA kare che. hatyAthI mAtra vyakti mare che, bhAvahatyAthI samagra saMskRti mare che, e saMskRti je karoDonI sukha-zAMti hatI. Shameless dress e mAtra potAnA ja characternuM Risk nathI, AkhA samAjanA characternuM Risk che. 149

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150 lava yu DoTara A eka akSamya aparAdha che jenA daMDanI jogavAI kudaratanA kAyadAmAM che ja. (7) sAttvika lajjA : lajjA be prakAranI hoya che. pahelI - khoTI lajjA. je lajjA tamane maryAdAsabhara vartana karatAM ne maryAdAsabhara veza paheratA zaramAve e khoTI lajjA che. Aje ghaNA sArA gharanI sArI chokarIone A lajjA satAve che. badhI chokarIo DressthI laIne Behaviour sudhImAM jAta-jAtanI chUTachATa letI hoya ane huM jo badhI bAbatamAM LimitmAM rahIza to huM kevI lAgIza? badhAM mArI kevI majAka uDAvaze ? kadAca mane cIDavaze. A badhI khoTI lajjA che. zuM AkhuM gAma coronuM hoya. to eka prAmANike zaramAIne cora banI javuM? ke gauravapUrvaka potAnI prAmANikatAne sAcavI rAkhavI? banI zake ke coro enI majAka uDAve, ene "bhagata' kahIne enI mazkarI kare, paNa prAmANika mANasa barAbara samaje che, ke A eka jAtano potAnI corIno bacAva che.

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eka jAtanI IrSyA che. bIjAnA sadguNa pratyenI asahiSNutA che. koInI caDavaNIthI ApaNe saMpattine choDI detA nathI, to sadguNone kema choDI devA joIe ? e to saMpatti karatAM paNa lAkhogaNA mUlyavAna che. khoTI lajjAne ApaNA zAstromAM 11 SECRETS kudAkSiNya kahyuM che. jenA kAraNe sArI vyaktinuM jIvana paNa khAnA-kharAba thaI jAya che. My dear, When a little voice inside you says No. Firmly say No. a zaramano viSaya ja nathI A to nizcalatA ane nirbhayatAno viSaya che. AvI bAbatamAM koInI paNa zeha-zaramamAM taNAvuM na joIe. e zeha-zarama e khoTI lajjA che. mArI vhAlI, kyAreka te rastA parathI jatAM hAthIne joyo haze, kUtarAo game teTaluM bhase hAthI enI rIte cAlato raheze, jANe kAMI banyuM ja nathI. hAthI cale baz2Ara, bhau haz2Ara / kUtarAne koI ja jAtanI dAda ApavAnI ene koI ja jarUra nathI. kAraNa ke e kUtarAM che ne e hAthI che. 151

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152 lava yu DoTara durjano bhale bhale beTA, tuM hAthI banI raheje. AMkha ADA kAna karaje, upekSA karaje, paNa khoTI zaramamAM taNAIne tArA sadgaNone nahIM choDatI. bIjI lajjA che sAttvika lajjA - sAcI lajjA. je ApaNane khoTuM kAma karatAM roke, je ApaNane ApaNI sabhyatAomAM surakSita rAkhe. beTA, sAcI lajjA e ApaNI jIvana-mUDI che. e ApaNuM sarvasva che, je phrenDa, je buka, je caeNnala, je sAiTa, je eTamosaphiyara A lajjAne toDI de, enAthI tuM haMmezA 100 phUTa dUra raheje. bRhatkalpa AgamamAM kahyuM che - lajjAviNAse va sa kiM Na kujjA ? eka vAra A lajjAno vinAza thaI gayo, pachI e vyakti kayuM khoTuM kAma nahIM kare ? mArI vhAlI, duniyA jene Bold kahetI hoya che, tenA jIvanamAM A sAcI zaramanuM pUrepUruM devALuM nIkaLI cUkyuM hoya che. tenA jIvanamAM tamAme tamAma nimna saMbhAvanAo khullI hoya che.

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mane ghaNI vAra evuM lAge che. ke AjanA loko zabda-chaLamAM phasAI gayAM che. jo dareka vastu ke vyakti mATe sAcA zabdono upayoga cAlu thaI jAya to keTakeTalI Misunderstanding dUra thaI jAya ! beTA, lajjA e strInuM bhUSaNa che, ethI paNa AgaLa vadhIne lajjA e strInuM svarUpa che. 11 SECRETS lajjA jAya eTale strI 'strI' tarIke maTI jAya che. cANakyanItimAM kahyuM che - asantuSTA dvijA naSTA : bRhaddharmapurANamAM kahyuM che gRheSu tanayA bhUSA, bhUSA saMsatsu paNDitAH // - asaMtuSTa dvijo nAza pAme che. santuSTAzca mahIbhujaH / - saMtuSTa rAjAo nAza pAme che. salajjA gaNikA naSTA, zaramALa vezyAo nAza pAme che. nirlajJAza julAAnAH 58-75 - nirlajja kulIna strIo nAza pAme che. - 153 - saMtAno gharanI zobhA che. - vidvAno sabhAnI zobhA che. subuddhiH puMsu bhUSA syAt, - sarbuddhi puruSonI zobhA che. strIju bhUSA sabhannatA // 4-30aa- lajjA strIonI zobhA che. sahito mRto vipro, je vipramAM vidvattA nathI, te maDadAM jevo che. mRto yajJo dakSiNa: / - je yajJamAM dakSiNA nathI, te maDadAM jevo che.

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154 mRtA sabhA sudhIhInA, mRtA nArI gatatrapA 118-3811 lava yu DoTara - je sabhAmAM vidvAna nathI, te maDadAM jevI che. - je strImAM lajjA nathI, te maDadAM jevI che. mATe ja nItizAstromAM strIne nadIkAMThe nAhavA-dhovA na javAnI salAha ApI che. kAraNa ke tevuM karavAthI lajjAnuM nAmo-nizAna rahetuM nathI. hitazikSA-chatrIzImAM kahyuM che - nAvaNa dhovaNa nadIkinAre jAtAM nirlajja thaIe re. mArI vhAlI, je vAta nadIkinArAne lAguM paDe che te ja vAta svimiMga pUla, vaoNTara pArka, Tenisa klaba, ane bIjA paNa tevA sthAnone lAgu paDe che. A evA sthAno che, jyAM lajjA lUMTAI jAya che. I mean 'strI' lUMTAI jAya che. Always beware of those. (8) sAttvika prArthanA : saMskRtamAM pra + artha dhAtuthI prArthanA zabda banyo che. jeno artha thAya che prakRSTa yAcanA. yAcanAmAM tuccha vastuonI mAMgaNI hoya che. prakRSTa yAcanAmAM zreSTha vastuonI mAMgaNI hoya che.

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11 SECRETS sauMdarya ke saMpattinI mAMgaNI e yAcanA che. sadguNo ke satkAryonI mAMgaNI e prArthanA che. roja savAra-sAMja kama se kama daza miniTa mATe sAttvika prArthanA karavI joIe. prArthanA e sAttvika ja hoya che, paNa keTalAMka mugdha loko prArthanAne dunyavI mAMgaNIthI kaluSita karI detAM hoya che. mATe 'sAtvika prArthanA' ema kahyuM che. My dear, prArthanA eka divya UrjA che. eka apUrva zakti che. UMDA dhyAnamAM utarI gayeluM mana jeTaluM zAMta hoya che, eTaluM ja prArthanA vakhate paNa zAMta hoya che. sTresa, Tenzana, Diprezana, engara, grIDa A badhAMthI mananuM jaLa DahoLAya che, prasAra mAdhyamo ene vadhu kaluSita kare che. jyAre prArthanA ene svaccha ane zAMta karI de che. prArthanA e zArIrika, mAnasika ane pArivArika ArogyanI saMjIvanI che. samUha prArthanA ane samUha bhojana e parivArane lAMbA samaya sudhI joDatI sAMkaLa che. bahAranA vikaTa saMyogomAM paNa 155

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156 lava yu DoTara ApaNI pavitratAne ane ApaNA cAritrane jALavI rAkhavAnI zakti prArthanA Ape che. bane to samUhamAM, nahIM to ekalA, prArthanA is must. Really must. (9) sAttvika samarpaNa : ApaNI jAtane yogya vyaktionA tAbAmAM rAkhavI e sAttvika samarpaNa che. e vyakti pitA ke pati hoI zake, sAsu ke jeThANI paNa hoI zake. ApaNuM vyaktitva, ApaNo vinaya, ApaNI namratA. A badhuM evuM ja hoya ke teo ApaNane sahajatAthI ApaNI bhUla kahI zake ane ApaNe eno AnaMdapUrvaka svIkAra karIne sahaja amala karI zakIe. upadezamAlAmAM kahyuM che igadivasamma bahuA suhA asuhA jIvapariNAmA / eka vyaktine eka divasamAM aneka sArA ane kharAba vicAro AvatAM hoya che. sArI vyakti dareka samaye sArI ja hoya evo koI niyama nathI. kaI vyaktine kayA samaye kevo vicAra Ave ane e vicArane AdhIna thaIne -

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11 SECRETS 1pa7 e vyakti zuM karI nAMkhe, eno hakIkatamAM koI ja bharoso nathI. A sthitimAM ApaNA cAritranI surakSA sAttvika samarpaNathI ja thaI zake ema che. samarpaNa e gulAmI nathI, surakSA che, sAttvika samarpaNanuM bIjuM nAma che vRddhopajIvana. vaDIlonA Azrita thaIne rahevuM. vaDIlone Azraya banAvIne rahevuM. je karIe te temane pUchIne karavuM. temanuM mArgadarzana levuM. teo kaDavA zabdomAM kahe, to paNa saharSa svIkAra karavo. chagana eka dukAnamAM selsamenanI nokarIe lAgyo. magana e ja dukAnamAM kharIdI karavA gayo. zeThe chaganane "e bevakupha !" ema kahIne koI vastu lAvavA kahI. chagane hasatAM hasatAM vastu ApI. sAMje magane chaganane phona karyo. tArA zeThe tane bevakupha kahyuM, ne te sAMbhaLI lIdhuM ?" chagane javAba Apyo - "sAMbhaLI ja lauM ne. huM kAMI bevakupha thoDo chuM?"

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158 lava yu DoTara mArI vhAlI, jo saMpatti mATe samarpaNa rAkhI zakAya che, to zIla mATe kema na rAkhI zakAya? zeThanI sAme paDato nokara Arthika lAbha gumAvI de che, mUrkha tarIke jAhera thAya che ane potAnA parivAramAM-samAjamAM apamAna pAme che, barAbara e ja rIte vaDIlonI sAme thanAra vyakti sAttvika sukha-zAMtino lAbha gumAvI de che, kharA arthamAM mUrkhAmI kare che, ane chevaTe apamAnita ja thAya che. beTA, Art of earning karatAM paNa Art of dedicating e khUba ja important che. banI zake ke vaDIlono Nature... emanI Style ApaNane match na thAya. So what? ApaNe emane Match thaI javuM. A ja to sAttvika samarpaNa che. mArI lADalI, ApaNI lifemAM ApaNe badhe ja ApaNI choice ke wish nathI jotAM, paNa Plus-Minus joIe chIe. I mean lAbha-nukasAna.

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11 SECRETS 159 159 lokala TrenonI hADamArIo veThIne roja 50-100 ki.mI.no pravAsa karatAM muMbaIgarAo je kAma kare che e zuM emanI choice che? zuM e emanuM Fun che? But they saw their benifit in that activity. jo koI ema kahe, ke "A zuM? mAre roja AvA DhasaraDA ja karavAnAM? majUrI karavAnI? AmathI Ama bhaTakavAnuM ? mAthe kAmano bhAra rAkhavAno? zeThanI veTha karavAnI? na joIe mAre A nokarI." to enuM pariNAma zuM Ave? eno parivAra yA bhIkha mAMge yA bhUkhe mare. mArI dIkarI, Avo zorTa Tempara ane zorTa vijhanavALo mANasa vizvanA mahAna - sauthI mahAna mUrkha gaNAya. keTalIka allaDa chokarIo AvI mUrkhAmI kare che ane potAnA cAritranI ne chevaTe potAnA AkhA ya ghara-saMsAranI kabara khodI nAkhe che. stheyaM vRddhAnuvRttyA ca jIvananA A saMgrAmamAM

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16) lava yu DoTara vaDIlo e ApaNuM kavaca che. kavaca jarAka kheMce ke jarA ghasarako karI de e zakya che. paNa eTalA mAtrathI ene pheMkI na devAya. e dUra thAya eTale zastronA maraNatola prahAro ApaNane pIMkhI nAkhyA vinA na rahe. banI zake ke zeThane AdhIna rahevAmAM kyAreka zeThane vadhu lAbha thato hoya. vaDIlo pratye samarpita rahevAmAM ApaNA pakSe ja vadhu lAbha che. kAraNa ke A samarpaNa ApaNane je cAritrano upahAra dhare che je sukha-zAMtinuM svarga Ape che enuM mUlyAMkana karavuM zakya ja nathI. AgamomAM kahyuM che - evAyariyaM uvaciTThaejjA mavitanALovo vi saMto | dazavaikAlika sUtra | ziSya kadAca asIma jJAna pAmI jAya, to ya eNe gurunA pratye pUrNa samarpita banI rahevuM joIe. kAraNa ke samarpaNamAM ja cAritranI surakSA che. mArI vhAlI, saMsAramAM vaDIlo e gurujano hoya che. ApaNe kadAca temanAthI vadhAre samajadAra,

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11 SECRETS 161 vadhAre zikSita ane vadhAre AvaDatavALA hoIe, to paNa temanA pratyenuM samarpaNa e ja ApaNA hitamAM che. jo ApaNe nAnA thaIne paNa temane samarpita na thaI zakIe to teo moTA thaIne ApaNane samarpita thaI jAya evI AzA rAkhavAno savAla ja kyAM Ave che? pariNAma ? kheMcatANa... vyartha vAdavivAda... gRhakleza... taMga vAtAvaraNa... sukhanuM satyAnAza. ane vahelA ke moDA cAritrano paNa nAza. beTA, vaDIlo e chatra che, chatrano lAbha tamane tyAre ja maLe, jyAre tame enI nIce raho. chatranI upara caDavAno prayAsa e bevakuphI che. 'bhale amAre taDako khamavo paDe, bhale varasAdamAM palaLIne mAMdA paDavuM paDe, ame koInI UndemAM nahIM rahIe.' AvA svAbhimAna(!)ne tuM zuM kahIza? banI zake ke chatrImAM kyAMka kANuM hoya, enA koI saLiyAmAM kATa lAgyo hoya, kadAca evuM kazuM na hoya, to ya chatrIne satata addhara hAthe pakaDI rAkhavI paDe e kaSTa to kharuM ja.

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162 lava yu DoTara paNa AkhI duniyAe eno Plus point ja joyo che, ene apanAvI che, ne enI nIce UbhA rahevuM khuzIthI svIkAryuM che. Smart you are my daughter. huM je kahevA mAMguM chuM, te tuM samajI gaI hoIza. (10) sAttvika kAryazIlatA : ApaNe tyAM eka kahevata che - navaro beTho nakhkhoda vALe. Ane maLatI eka videzI kahevata paNa che - An empty mind is devil's workshop. ApaNI bhItaranA doSo e devil che. jayAre ApaNe phurasadamAM hoIe chIe, navarAM hoIe chIe tyAre teo bahAra nIkaLe che. ne potAnuM kAma zarU karI de che. e doSo kAme lAge eTale ApaNuM kAma tamAma thaI jAya che. emanAthI bacavAno eka ja upAya che. Always be buisy in good activities. jeo kAma karatAM rahetA nathI, temanA zarIra para carabInA thara bAjhe che ane mana para melanA thara bAjhe che. A baMne thara svastha jIvanane khedAnamedAna karI nAMkhe che. mArI vhAlI,

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11 SECRETS 163 ApaNe atyAre evA samayamAMthI pasAra thaI rahyA chIe, jemAM mANasa UrjAnA khoTA vikalpomAM kharAba rIte phasAI gayo che. Ama e bAika ane kAra vagara kyAMya jaI zakato nathI ane Ama roja savAre bagIcAmAM goLa goLa phare che. Ama e kapaDAM dhovAnA mazIna para nabhe che ane Ama jigneziyamamAM jaIne kasarato kare che. A rIte Dabala UrjA veDaphAya che. paryAvaraNa raphedaphe thAya che. rogo vadhe che. kharcA vadhe che. moMghavArI mAjhA mUke che. ne saravALe mANasa herAna-parezAna thaI jAya che. mArI lADalI, jigneziyamanA badhAM ja mazIno ane sAdhano para Micro Research karavAmAM Ave to khyAla Ave ke te badhI ja vastuo ApaNe tyAM judAM judAM rUpe hatI ja. paththaranI ghaMTI rUpe... valoNAnA ravaiyA rUpe.. kapaDAM dhovAnA dhokA rUpe... jhADuM ke potA rUpe... roTalI vaNavAnA velaNa rUpe... caTaNI vATavAnA paththara rUpe... pANInA beDA rUpe... gAyane dohavAnI paddhati rUpe... sAMbelA rUpe... khAMDaNiyA rUpe... cUlo phUMkavAnI phUMkaNI rUpe... roTalA TIpavAnI paddhati rUpe... vagere vagere...

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164 lava yu DoTara A badhI vastuonA yAMtrika vikalpo ja apanAvavA, ne pachI zarIrane jarUrI kasarato pUrI pADavA mATe jImamAM jaIne bIjA yAMtrika vikalpono upayoga karavo ane emAM potAnI AdhunikatA samajavI e AjanA vizvanI bahu moTI gerasamaja che. A rIte ArthikataMtra, sAmAjikataMtra ke zArIrikataMtra lAMbuM cAlI ja na zake. Aje amerikAnI 90% prajA devAdAra che. whi 241 Wrong sytembahu moTo phALo che. eka divasa evo jarUra Avaze je divase Traka ane TrekTaranuM sthAna pharI baLadagADuM laI leze. paNa A to vaizvika staranI vAta che, ApaNA jIvanamAM vyaktigata stare e divasa Aje paNa AvI zake che. mArI vhAlI, Aje arthataMtranA prazno ke UrjAsrotonA prazno vikaTa che. paNa ethI paNa vikaTa che cAritrano prazna. yaMtro ane nokarone badhuM ja kAma soMpIne navarI paDela vyakti cAritranuM nakhkhoda vALe che. A evI sthiti che jemAM zarIra to tUTe che gharanI sukha-zAMti paNa tUTe che. paisA to khUTe che, pArivArika prema paNa khUTe che. chUTA-cheDAnI nobata vAgavA lAge che. ne bALako sAva ja rajhaLI paDe che.

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165 11 SECRETS zeThANI thaIne T. V. sAme beThA rahevAthI ke Shoping ane Party celebrations karyA karavAthI ApaNe sukhI thaI gayA chIe evuM mAnavuM e narI bhramaNA che. Ultimately A duHkhano rasto che. sukhano rasto che sAtvika kAryazIlatA. pUratAM ane sAcI dizAnA zramano bIjo koI ja vikalpa nathI. My dear, gujarAtano eka pradeza che - kAThiyAvADa. emAM kAThI samAja vase che. A samAjamAM jyAre dIkarIne vaLAvavAnI hoya tyAre mAtA dIkarIne eka khAsa zIkha Ape che - "beTA, roja sUraja vaMdanA karyA pachI tuM be hatheLIone joje ane eka prazna karaje ke tArI A be hatheLI gaI kAla jevI ja che? ke vadhu ghasAyelI che? jo gaI kAla jevI ja hoya to gaI kAla karatAM Aje thoDuM vadhu kAma karaje." mArI vhAlI, zArIrika rogonA upacAro mAnasika mUMjhavaNonA samAdhAno sAsu-derANI-jeThANI-naNaMda sAthenA madhura saMbaMdho ane taMdurasta cAritrano upAya A badhuM ja e kAThI "mA'nI A eka ja zIkhamAM samAI jAya che.

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166 lava yu DoTara "mAre zA mATe ghasAvAnuM?" A praznano javAba che - ujaLA rahevA mATe. je ghasAya che, te ujaLA rahe che. je paDI rahe che, te kATa khAI jAya che. skUlamAM vijJAnanA zikSake prazna karyo, "Aje ghaNA badhAM yaMtronI zodha karavAmAM Ave che. tame moTA thaIne kayA yaMtranI zodha karazo ? bola piMTu." huM evA yaMtranI zodha karIza, jenuM baTana dabAvo ane homavarka thaI jAya." "bhAre ALasuM che tuM to. ane tuM ciMTa ?" huM evA yaMtranI zodha karIza je piMTue zodhelA yaMtranuM baTana dabAvI Ape." ekane homavarka ja nathI karavuM. ne bIjAne baTana dabAvavA jeTalI ya tasdI levI nathI. AlasyaM hi manuSyANAM zarIrastho mahAripuH / nAstyudyamasamo bandhuM kRtvA yaM nAvasIdati / ALasa e manuSyonA zarIramAM rahelo mahA-zatru che. udyama samAna koI svajana nathI. jenAthI manuSya sukhI thAya che. beTA, jyAM kAmanI vaheMcaNI hoya te oNphisa che. jyAM kAmanI samajaNa hoya e parivAra che. kArakunI paddhatithI gharamAM badhAMnAM mana jhaDapabhera UMcA thAya che.

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11 SECRETS 167 A ucATa cheka vibhakta kuTuMba sudhI laI jAya che, ne vAta tyAM paNa aTakatI nathI. vibhakta thayA pachI paNa A viSANuo dekhA de che. pati ane bALako sAthe, zistanA nAme. zista sArI che paNa tenA nAme mana sAthe chaLa thAya ane parasparanuM aMtara vadhatuM ja jAya e to sAruM nahIM ja ne? badhuM ja dhAryuM thaI jAya paNa pariNAme ApaNe duHkhI duHkhI thaI jaIe to e dhAryuM thavAno zuM artha ? mArI vhAlI, sAttvika kAryazIlatA e zarIra ane mananuM amRta che. saMyukta ane svastha parivAranI A saMjIvanI che. character HE Bal oxygen . (11) sAttvika titikSA : zarIra ane mananA stare samyapha sahana karavAnI vRtti. pocI gAdI, suMvALA vastro, senTsa ane paraphayumsa A. C. ane Coolers, sijhanala phUTsa... In short badhI ja rIte badhI ja anukULatA bhogavavI ane mAnasika stare koInuM ya kazuM ya

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168 lava yu DoTara sAMbhaLavAnI bilakula taiyArI na hovI AvI sthiti e moTuM jokhama che. eka LevelnI Luxury jemanA mATe jarUriyAta banI jAya che. teo parivartita saMyogomAM yA to ApaghAta karI le che ne yA to emanuM zeSa jIvana naraka banI jAya che. jIvanamAM karkazatAne veThavAnI ane pratikULatAne sahevAnI Teva hovI e khUba ja Avazyaka che. badhuM ja anukULa hoya, to huM sukhI." AvI jenI sukhanI vyAkhyA che, enI Most of life duHkhamAM pasAra thatI hoya che. kAraNa ke badhuM ja anukULa hoya evI paristhiti yA to AvatI ja nathI ne kyAreka AvI jAya to TakatI nathI. mArI vhAlI, ApaNI kuzaLatA ane ApaNI mahAnatA to emAM che. ke tamAma pratikULa saMyogonI vacce ya zArIrika roganI sAthe sAthe ya koInA kaDavA zabdone sAMbhaLatA sAMbhaLatA ya ApaNe sukhI ja hoIe. hakIkatamAM kaSTa bahAra hotuM ja nathI. kaSTa e ja che jene ApaNe mana para laIe chIe. jene A rahasyanI jANa nathI, e dekhItI rIte kaSTothI dUra bhAgato hoya che. paNa kharA arthamAM e kaSTo tarapha ja jato hoya che.

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11 SECRETS TolsToye majAnI vAta karI che - If you want to be happy, be. ApaNA AnaMdane koIne AdhIna banAvavo e ja moTuM Ignorance che. mArI vhAlI, phADI nAMkhavuM... toDI nAMkhavuM... kApI nAMkhavuM choDI devuM... nIkaLI javuM A badhuM to eka mUrkha paNa karI zake che. kharI ne sArI vAta to che TakI rahevuM ane nibhAvavuM. A ja icchanIya che. beTA, jenI pAse sAttvika titikSA nathI e eka bhavamAM ghaNA bhava kare che, ane emAM enA sAcA sukhano enA cAritrano kharekhara kaccaraghANa nIkaLI jAya che. My dear, jIvanamAM kadAca tuM bIjuM badhuM ja bhUlI jAya, to ya A 11 secrets ne yAda rAkhaje, A jJAna ja tArI kharI zobhA banaze. tAruM gaurava banaze ane tAruM svarga banaze. Give me promise my dear, Love you so much. 169

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EARNING vhAlI dIkarI, kamANI ka2vA vize strIonA vyaktigata abhiprAyo levAmAM Ave, to kadAca seMkaDonI saMkhyAmAM judAM-judAM abhiprAyo maLe. paNa ApaNe sau prathama madhyastha vicAraNA karavI che. jarUriyAtavALA parivAramAM strI-puruSa ane bALako paNa kamANI karavAmAM joDAya e saMyoganI vAta che. paNa vagara jarUrate mAtra Arthika svAtaMtryanA khyAlane saMtoSavA ke bacata mATe ke UMcA jIvanadhoraNa mATe strI kAme jAya, to eka jarUratavALA parivArano nirvAha aTakI jAya. kAraNa ke zikSito mATe kAmagIrInI tako ochI che. tako karatAM kAma karanArAo khUba vadhAre che. jo zikSita strInI badale eka zikSita bekAra puruSa kAma kare to eno parivAra sukharUpa nirvAha karI zakaze. kadAca kAmagIrInI bahoLI tako hoya to ya strI bahAra jAya tyAre parivAranI zI dazA thaze ? pati kAma-dhaMdhethI thAkyo-pAkyo ghare Avyo che. gharanI sthiti asta-vyasta che. be-traNa kAmo penDiMga paDyA che. bhUkha kakaDIne lAgI che paNa rasoInA koI ThekANA nathI. patine badhI khabara che, 171

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172 lava yu DoTara ke jema pote thAkI-pAkIne Avyo che, tema patnI paNa thAkI-pAkIne AvI che ke AvavAnI che. chatAM ya patinI je je apekSAo tUTI che te tUTI ja che. pariNAma ? Home-war. najIvA kAraNe ke vinA kAraNe gusso, tIkhAM ane kaDavA zabdo, ajaMpo ane azAMti, paraspara satata doSAropaNa, taMga vAtAvaraNa. mArI vhAlI, gharamAM pagAranA be ceka Ave e badhAMne sAruM lAge che, paNa e bIjA cekanI kiMmata gharane posAtI nathI. bALaka skUlamAMthI ghare Ave eTale ene "mAno khoLo joIto hoya che. ene koI TIcaranI ke TuDanTanI kapleina karavI che. ene eNe karelA koI parAkramanI vAta karavI che. ene kaMIka vAgI gayuM che, to ene "mA" pAse raDavuM che. ene sahAnubhUti ane hUMphanI jarUra che, paNa ghara je kAraNathI ghara hatuM e kAraNa ja gerahAjara che. bALaka mUMjhAya che... khAlIpo anubhave che... thoDo narvasa thAya che... thoDo gusse thAya che...

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EARNING dhIme dhIme eno svabhAva cIDiyo ane vicitra banato jAya che. have e nAnI nAnI vAtamAM ukaLI jAya che. koInuM kAMI mAnato nathI. enI saMvedanazIlatA buDhI thatI jAya che ane kaThoratA vadhatI jAya che. beTA, parivAra e bIjA ceMkanI kiMmata che. sukha-zAMti ane AnaMda e bIjA caeNkanI kiMmata che. svastha ane premALa saMtAna e bIjA ceMkanI kiMmata che. satata sauhArdabharyuM vAtAvaraNa e bIjA ceMkanI kiMmata che. pahelA A badhI kiMmata cUkavavI paDe che, ne pachI bIjo caeNka maLe che. vAta phakta bIjA mATe potAnA kaeNriyarano ane kamANIno bhoga ApavAnI nathI. strI pote A bevaDI bhUmikA bhajavavAmAM je duHkha veThe che, tene e ja samajI zake che. e game teTalI kAryaniSThAthI ghara ane vyavasAyane sAcavavA jAya. to ya badhAM asaMtuSTa rahe che. vyavasAyamAM baoNsanI apekSA pUrI karavAnI ane gharamAM parivAranI A bevaDI javAbadArImAM strI raheMsAya che. jANe potAnI pAchaLa koI jaMgalI jAnavara paDI gayo hoya tema nAsatAM-bhAgatAM rahevuM 173

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174 lava yu DoTara satata Tenzanano bhAra sAthe rAkhavo ane satata badhAMnA asaMtoSa vacce jIvavuM A strI uparano eka atyAcAra nahIM to bIjuM zuM che? My dear, vyavasAyamAM strI jema jema saphaLa bane che, tema tema aMgata jIvanamAM tenI samasyAo vadhatI jAya che. eka patnI tarIke ane eka mA tarIke jyAre te niSphaLa jAya che, tyAre bahAranI saphaLatAno koI ja artha raheto nathI. vyavasAyamAM saphaLa thayelI strI sahajapaNe evuM icche che ke enA patideva ghara ane bALakonI saMbhALa rAkhI le. bIjI bAju pati sahaja puruSa svabhAvane kAraNe patnInI vyavasAyika saphaLatAthI igo harTa anubhave che. pariNAme patnI sAthenuM enuM aMtara ane gharSaNa baMne vadhatAM jAya che. beTA, Never say - AvuM na thavuM joIe. eno koI artha nathI. je che e che. tame ene sAva ja khoTuM sAbita karI do to ya e che. svabhAvo hyaparyanuyojyaH / Nature e evI vastu che

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175 EARNING jene tame Why? kahI zakatA nathI. Fire hot che to che. Why not? eno koI ja javAba nathI, hakIkatamAM Avo savAla ja na pUchI zakAya. svabhAvane phakta samajavAno hoya che ane samajIne yogya vartana karavAnuM hoya che, strInI vyavasAyika kArakirdI e jema puruSanA Nature suit nathI karatI ema strInA potAnA Naturene paNa suit nathI karatI. A evI Duty che jemAM strIne khabara paNa na paDe e rIte enA prakRtidatta strI-tattvo lupta thatAM jAya che. ane pauruSI lakSaNo enA vartanamAM vyApI jAya che. beTA, strInI outdoor dutythI ene keTalA paisA maLe che, e vAtanuM koI ja vajUda nathI rahetuM kAraNa ke e Duty ja ene self-cost para maLatI hoya che. I mean, e DutynI cost rUpe eNe potAnI jAta potAnuM strItva ApI devAnuM hoya che. mArI vhAlI, koI ApaNane karoDo rUpiyA ApI de e zarate ke ApaNe marI javAnuM to ApaNe e zarata maMjUra karazuM kharAM ?

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176 lava yu DoTara jo ApaNuM Existence ja na rahevAnuM hoya, to zuM karavAnuM e karoDo rUpiyAnuM ? strInuM astitva e ja parivAranuM astitva che. strI nAbUda thAya eTale Akho parivAra nAbUda thayA vinA raheto nathI. na gRhaM gRhamityAhuH gRhiNI gRhamucyate / ghara e ghara nathI, gRhiNI e ghara che. samasta rASTrano koI pAyo hoya to e gRhiNI che. hiTalarane A satya sArI rIte samajAyuM hatuM. eNe sattA para AvatAnI sAthe ja strIone nokarImAMthI rajA ApI hatI ane kahyuM hatuM ke tame tamArA patine khUba prema Apo. tamArA saMtAnanuM tame zreSTha ghaDatara karo. A ja tamArI sauthI moTI deza-sevA che. jarmanIne vizvamAM sarvocca sthAne pahoMcADavA mATe tamArI A ja sevAnI jarUra che. beTA, strI e kAMI TI.vI. seMTa nathI, je jarUra mujaba tarata caeNnala badalI zake, gharamAM bahAra karatAM judAM guNanI jarUra hoya che, aMdara-bahAranI A kheMcatANa

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EARNING 177 chevaTe yA kajiyAmAM pariName che. yA DiprezanamAM Convert thAya che. mArI vhAlI, eka-be varSanuM bALaka ghoDiyAgharamAM AyA dvArA mAra mArI mArIne parANe sUvADI devAtuM hoya, pAMca varSanuM bALaka satata ekalavAyapaNAne anubhavatuM hoya, ATha varSanA bALakanI mA phrIjha hoya ane bApa TI.vI. hoya, daza varSanA bALake Aja sudhI kadI paNa prema ane hUMphano anubhava ja na karyo hoya, bAra varSanuM bALaka duniyA AkhIne dhikkAravA lAgyuM hoya, A sthitie amerikA jevA dezomAM cauda varSanA hatyArA ane AtaMkavAdIo pedA karyA che. skUlomAM goLIbAro thavA ane hatyAkAMDa sarjAvo e tyAMnI eka niyamita ghaTanA che. mArI vhAlI, ghoDiyAgharanI AyA ke gharanA nokara-nokarANI kadI "mA"nuM sthAna na laI zake. 'mA'no prema... vAtsalya... hUMpha... AtmIyatA e bALaka mATe oNksijana hoya che. videzamAM karoDo bALapaNa A oNksijananA abhAve gUMgaLAIne marI rahyA che.

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178 lava yu DoTara strInuM kartavya uttama gRhiNI banavAnuM che. A sivAyanI enI badhI ja Duties, jenA kadAca International level 52 vakhANa thatAM hoya, to paNa, e badhuM Wrong number paranI Talk jevuM che. e Talk game teTalI Smart hoya, game teTalI Inteligent hoya, Actually eno koI ja Meaning nathI. gItAnA zabdo yAda Ave - padhA~ mayAvadaH paradharma bhaya lAvanAra che. nArI nArIdharma choDIne puruSadharma apanAvavA jAya e kharekhara Danger che. mArI lADalI, saMpattinuM sarjana sukha mATe thatuM hoya che, jo AvA sarjana pAchaLa sukha ja raheMsAI jatuM hoya, to pachI e sarjana karavAno zuM Purpose raheze ? A to jIvavA mATe jhera khAvAnI ghaTanA che. jaoNba ke bijhanesa karatI nArI potAnI badhI ja zakti lagADIne A badhAM ja cheDAMone meLavavA mATe prayAsa kare, eTale eTalI badhI kheMcatANa thAya ke enuM sIdhuM Result zArIrika rogo ane mAnasika tANa rUpe maLe. baeNka paeNinathI mAMDIne DAyAbiTIsa sudhI bI.pI.thI mAMDIne eNTeka sudhI

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EARNING 179 TenzanathI mAMDIne Diprezana sudhI. have ? davA... TrITamenTa,.. kharcA... paisA khAtara A badhI upAdhio UbhI karI. have e upAdhione sulajAvavA mATe badhAM ja paisA verI devAnA. kadAca uparathI devuM paNa karI devAnuM. sudhIrhi sarvaM pariNAmaramyaM vicArya gRhNAti, cirasthitIha / buddhimattA emAM che ke ApaNe lAMbo vicAra karIe, mAtra "sAruM na joIe paNa ResultmAM sAruM joIe. dekhItI rIte sArI vastunuM paNa jo Result bhayaMkara hoya, to e vastune sArI kahevAya ke kharAba karatAM ya vadhAre kharAba kahevAya ? eka duzmana jyAre dostanA rUpe maLe che, tyAre e pahelA karatAM paNa vadhAre khataranAka banI jAya che. beTA, chellA lAkho varSamAM na Avyo hoya, evo kalcarala eTeka AjanA samayamAM Avyo che. bhalabhalA sArA mANasane paNa sAva nIca kakSAe mUkI de evo eTamosaphiyara Aje kriyeTa thayo che.

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180 lava yu DoTara pariNAme mANasa jyAM jAya tyAM enI vAsanApUrtinuM sAdhana gote che. e jAhera rastA hoI zake. rikSA, basa ke Trena hoI zake. dukAna ke oNphisa hoI zake. ghara ane parivAranA surakSAcakramAMthI nIkaLIne nArI jyAM paNa jAya che, tyAM enI surakSAnI koI ja geraMTI hotI nathI. giradIno lAbha uThAvanArAothI mAMDIne ekAMtano lAbha uThAvanArA sudhInA badhAMnI vacce nArI ekalI hoya che. vAsanAbhUkhyA varUonI vacce e ekalI nArInI surakSAnuM zuM? A praznano nArIvikAsavAdIo ane nArI svAtaMtryavAdIo pAse koI ja javAba nathI. durghaTanAono dora bhayajanaka rIte vadhI rahyo che. nArI tUTatI jAya che. parivAro bhAMgatA jAya che. mArI vhAlI, jyAre TI.vI., inTaraneTa, mobAila, sinemA, valgara nyUjha peparsa-AmAMthI kazuM ja na hatuM, tyAre paNa eka nArI koI puruSa sAthe vAta karavAmAM sakhata saMkoca anubhavatI, ene potAnA aMgo to zuM, potAno cahero suddhAM dekhADavAmAM pApa samajatI,

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181 EARNING A hatI ApaNI svarNima saMskRti jemAM jAtIya gaMdakIo, baLAtkAro, chUTAcheDAo vagerenI saMbhAvanA lagabhaga zUnya hatI. Aje eka bAju mIDiyA dvArA vAsanAne bhaDake bALavAmAM Ave che ane bIjI bAju nArIne seMkaDo-hajAro puruSonI vacce maryAdAyIna vezamAM UbhI karI devAnI himAyato cAle che. peTrolano varasAda karIne phAyara gana calAvavA jevI A paristhiti che. jenuM pariNAma duniyA AkhI jANe che. mArI vhAlI, duniyA ApaNA hAthamAM nathI, ApaNI jAta ApaNA hAthamAM che, ApaNI sAthe kadAca bIjo koI ja durvyavahAra na thAya, to ya kama se kama hajAro mANaso ApaNA upara najara bagADavAnA eTaluM to nizcita che. zuM A ya ApaNane maMjUra che? A evI sthiti che jemAM vezyA rAjI thAya ne khAnadAna nArI AghAta ane vajAghAta anubhave. dhULa paDI e rUpiyAmAM je ApaNI khAnadAnIne ApaNA cAritrane... ApaNA saMskArane

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182 lava yu DoTara ApaNA aMtarAtmAnA avAjane... ApaNI lajjAne sAva ja cUMthIne raphedaphe karI de. beTA, eka mahattvanI vAta e che ke nArI Arthika bAbata mATe mAtra enA patine ja AdhIna hovI joIe. AjanI nArIne AmAM gulAmI lAgI eTale e jAte paiso kamAvA gaI. AmAM ene baoNsanI AdhInatA svIkAravI paDI. pati sivAyanI vyaktine parAdhIna hovuM, enAthI moTuM jokhama bIjuM kayuM hoI zake ? koI ja jAtanA saMbaMdha vinA paNa nArInuM zoSaNa karanArA puruSono toTo na hoya e samaye baoNsa tarIke rahelo puruSa A Arthika saMbaMdhano geralAbha nahIM UThAve ? ene rAjI rAkhavo e nArInI nokarIno eka bhAga nahIM banI jAya ? More clear kahuM, to e enI nokarIno AdhAra nahIM banI jAya ? beTA, satya ghaNuM kaDavuM che, satya dIvA jeTaluM cokhyuM che, paNa duniyA pote ja AMkha ADA kAna karIne pote ja potAnI AMkhamAM dhULa nAMkhIne motanA raste doDavA mAMDI che.

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EARNING A sthitimAM je thAya e thaI ja rahyuM che. mArI dIkarI, tAre samajaNanA raste cAlavAnuM che. AMkha ADA kAna karavA paDaze evA devAze' karavuM 'have to evuM badhuM cAle' karavuM A badho samajaNano rasto paNa nathI ane sukhano rasto paNa nathI. thoDA divaso pahelA suratamAM eka ghaTanA ghaTI. vIsa varSanI eka kanyAe agiyAramA mALathI jhaMpalAvIne ApaghAta karyo. Why ? e jyAM nokarI karavA jatI hatI, tyAM kAma karatA eka yuvaka sAthe ene prema thaI gayo hato. enA pitAe ene be Options ApyA hatAM. yA A saMbaMdha choDI devo. yA cAra varSa rAha jovI. eNe trIjo vikalpa pasaMda karyo. beTA, ApaNo svabhAva evo che, ke je najIka hoya, enA pratye ApaNe DhaLavA lAgIe. Ane prema na kahevAya. prema to UMDI samajaNa che. 183

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184 lava yu DoTara A to hoya che kSaNika Avega. e bahu jaladI osarI jAya che. pachI judI jJAti-judo samAjajudAM saMskAra-judI rItabhAta-judAM rivAja A badhI judAI dhIme dhIme baMnene judAM karatI jAya che. ane chUTAcheDAnI nobata AvIne UbhI rahe che. pachI 2nd hand banelI e nArI bIjI vAra jyAM paraNe tyAM eNe samAdhAna ja karavAnuM hoya che. suratanA e pitAno koI ja doSa na hato, huM to kahuM chuM, ke e kanyAno paNa koI doSa na hato, e je sthitimAM hatI tyAM AvuM thavuM sahaja ja hatuM. badho ja doSa A systemno hato. jyAM vAsanAnA ghoDApUromAM juvAna strI ekalI gharanI bahAra nIkaLe, puruSo vacce musApharI kare, temanI sAthe kAma kare, temanI sAthe haLe-maLe, koNa bace ? A sthitimAM je strI ke puruSa pUrepUrA bacI jAya, jemanuM mana suddhAM na bagaDe, emane A samayanA bhagavAna mAnavA joIe.

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EARNING 185 nIrakhIne navayauvanA, leza na viSaya nidAnA gaNe kASThanI pUtaLI, te bhagavAna samAna che Let me say my daughter, bhagavAnane ya abhaDAvI de evo A TAima che. Aje nArIne pahelA karatAM ya Double covernI ane Double SecuritynI jarUra che, tyAre e More open ane More insecured banI che. e joIne samajadAra lokonuM haiyuM cirAI jAya che. teo A bAbatamAM kAMI paNa bolavA jAya, to emane vikAsavirodhI gaNavAmAM Ave. pachAta ane junavANI gaNavAmAM Ave ne nArIvAdI saMsthAo ja temanA virodhamAM saraghasa kADhe ene ajJAna ane karuNatAnI eka sImA gaNavI joIe. mArI vhAlI, nArIne gharanI jarUra hoya che ane gharane nArInI jarUra hoya che. gharanI rANI, jyAre koInI nokarANI thavA gharanI bahAra nIkaLe che tyAre te pote ya herAna-parezAna thaI jAya che ane AkhuM ghara paNa herAna-parezAna thaI jAya che. RgvadanI eka RcAmAM lagna vakhate kanyAne ApavAnA AzIrvAda lakhelA che - "tArA gharanI rANI thaIne rAja karaje."

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186 lava yu DoTara saphaLa ane sukhI strInA ghaNA badhAM rahasyo A eka ja vAkyamAM samAI gayAM che. beTA, sAra eTalo ja che ke eka strI jyAre kamAtI hoya che, tyAre anekagaNuM gumAvatI hoya che. In other words Earning Woman is like a Burning Woman. ApaNI saMskRtimAM strIne Arthika svataMtratA hatI ja. pati enI kamANI patnInA hAthamAM mUkI deto. bahAragAma javAnuM thAya tyAre pati patnI paisA mAMgato. patnI pUchatI ya kharI "kema ATalA badhA rUpiyA ?'' patinI kamANIne potAnI ja kamANI samajIne gharanI rANI thaIne rahetI Aje ya karoDo gRhiNIo che. A Burning Woman emane joI zake to kharekhara emanI IrSyA karatI thaI jAya.

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187 EARNING AmAM chello prazna e hoI zake ke AjanI moMghavArImAM be jaNe kAma karyA vagara chUTako ja nathI, to enuM saraLa samAdhAna e che, ke A rIte - badhI rIte duHkhI thaIne kerekTaranuM riska laIne kamAvAno prayAsa karavo enA karatAM sAdAI ane saMtoSapUrvaka jIvavAno prayAsa karavo e lAkhagaNo bahetara che. A kaLA AvaDI jAya, to moMghavArI kadI naDatI nathI. videzIo ahIMyA ja thApa khAI gayA che. pahelA emaNe jIvanadhoraNo khUba ja UMcA apanAvI lIdhAM pachI mAtra be jaNa nahIM ghara AkhuM kAme lAge che, ne to ya pUruM paDatuM nathI, uparathI badhAM lonamAM phasAI gayA che. huM to kahIza ke A pUrepUrI mUrkhAmI che. A AkhI sisTama ja khoTI che, Always remember my daughter, jemanI ApaNA karatAM aDadhI ja kamANI che, teo paNa jIve che, jemanI temanA karatAM paNa aDadhI ja kamANI che, teo paNa jIve che. mahAbhAratanA vidurajI yAda Ave - sahasriNo'pi jIvanti, hajAra rUpiyAvALA ya jIve che. jIvanti zatino'pi hi| ne so rUpiyAvALA ya jIve che.

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188 dhRtarASTra ! vimugvecchA, na kathaJcinna jIvyate // lava yu DoTara he dhRtarASTra ! tame tRSNAne choDI do. koI rIte nathI jIvAtuM evuM nathI. icchA ane tRSNA ghaNA prakAranI hoI zake... amuka ja sITI... amuka ja eriyA... amuka prakAranuM ja ghara... amuka ja kapaDAM... amuka ja ghareNAM... amuka ja pharnicara... amuka ja rAcaracIluM... amuka khAsa sagavaDo... mArI vhAlI, mANasa kadI sicyuezansathI du:khI hoto ja nathI. e duHkhI hoya che enI icchAo ane tRSNAothI ane enA AgrahothI. tRSNA e evI rAkSasI che, je mANasanA badhA ja sukhone gaLI jAya che. tRSNA na hoya to parivAra sAthe besIne AnaMdathI roTalo ne maracuM khAto majUra paNa sukhI che. tRSNA hoya to moTo udyogapati paNa duHkhI che. bhartRharie sAcuM ja kahyuM che -- sa tu bhavatu daridro yasya tRSNA vizAlA garIba e che jene tRSNA ghaNI che, zeksapiyare bIjA cheDAnI vAta karI che. A poor & content is rich

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EARNING 189 & rich enough. My dear, pahelA icchA karavI ne pachI e icchA pUrI karavA mATe jAta ghasI nAMkhavI, enA karatAM icchAthI mukta thaI javuM e ja sAruM nathI lAgatuM? paMcasUtramAM sukhanuM A ja rahasya jaNAvyuM che - aNicchecchA icchA icchA eka ja karo ke mane koI ja icchA na rahe. Desire to be desireless. beTA, A badhAM jIvanasUtro che. jIvanabhara yAda rAkhavA jevA. jIvanamAM Dagale ne pagale lAgu karavA jevA. icchAonA pahADa nIce kacaDAI maravA karatAM icchAone phagAvI devI e ja zreyaskara che. pelI kavitA yAda Ave - keTalA haLavA phUla jevA thaI gayA, eka icchAne meM phaMgoLI pachI. Yes my daughter, Desire is Weight, Desire is Death. saMsAramAM keTalIka mUrkha nArIo hoya che. jeo nita-navI mAMgaNI karIne

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190 lava yu DoTara patinA hAla-havAla karI nAkhe che. temane khabara nathI hotI ke teo je DALa upara beThI che tene ja kApI rahI che. gajA uparAMtanuM kAma ane Tenzana patine mAMdalo banAve... udAsa ane cIDiyo banAva... ane akALe gharaDo banAve... A badhI ja patnIne thayelI eka prakAranI kaThora sajAo ja che ne ? chagana ne magana baMne bhegA thayAM. be ya sAva udAsa hatAM. dIvela pIdhAM jevA baMnenA caherA hatA. chagana maganane pUchyuM, tuM kema udAsa che ?" magana kahe, "mArI patnInI AMkhamAM retInI kaNI ghusI gaI. TrITamenTamAM 50OOnI uThI." chagana kahe, "tAre to sastAmAM patI gayuM, mArI patnInI AMkhamAM to paDozaNano nekalesa ghusI gayo. 5 lAkhanI uThI." My dear, icchAone pUrI karavA mATe kamAnAra para dabANa karavuM ke jAte kamAvA javuM e nArI mATe zobhAspada nathI.

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EARNING nArInuM to kartavya e ja che ke pati jeTalA rUpiyA lAve emAMthI kuzaLatApUrvaka ghara calAvavuM. That's possible my daughter. A ja sAruM che ane A ja icchanIya che. 191

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ENGAGEMENT 193 eka samaya evo hato jyAre vaDIlo pote lagnanuM nakkI karI AvatAM. ane cheka lagnanA divasa sudhI vara-kanyAe eka bIjAne joyAM suddhAM na hoya. koI vaLI bahAdurI karIne chupI rIte dUrathI joI Ave, ke konI sAthe mAruM goThavAyuM che, to e paNa eka moTI upalabdhi gaNAtI. Laugh my daughter, laugh... No problem. vaDIlo ja goThavatAM. ane goThavatAM pahelAM badhuM ja jotA... vahunaM ra zanaM ra sAthatA - kula... zIla... sanAthatA... vida vitta vapurvayazca - jJAna... saMpatti... zarIra... uMmara vare muIT: sata vitnonIyA- - A sAta guNo varamAM jovA. ptataH para mAgyavaza di nyA// - pachI to jevuM kanyAnuM bhAgya... vaDIlo saMskAro ane rUDhio jotA, rItarivAjo ane AjIvikAnuM sAdhana jotA, kuTuMbanA sabhyo ane sAsu-sasarAnuM vartana paNa jotAM. A badhuM joIne teo lagna nakkI karatAM. ane temanuM Disijana phAInala gaNAtuM. chokarA-chokarIne pUchavAno ya rivAja na hato ane temane koI cUM-cA karavAno paNa avakAza na hato. kadAca AjanI jaranezanane A "julama lAgaze. paNa beTA, Mark karavAnI vastu e che ke te samayanA lagno pUre pUrA TakAu hatA.

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194 lava yu DoTara For life time. eka vAra saMtAno paraNyA eTale vAta pUrI. jIvanabharanI nirAMta. svastha pArivArika jIvananA mULiyAM satata ne satata UMDA utaratA ja jAya, e vRkSa vadhu ne vadhu ghaTAdAra banatuM jAya, ne enA para madhurA phaLo Ave. AjanuM citra ghaNI rIte juduM paDe che. paheluM to pUrI pukhtatA vinA, pUratA jJAna ane anubhava vinA thoDI ghaNI mitratA ke kahevAtA premanA kSaNika AvegomAM, paiso ke skIna joIne chokarA-chokarIo jAte pasaMdagI kare che e ja khoTuM pagaluM bharAI jAya che. prema karatAM yuvaka-yuvatIonuM paraspara pratyenuM vartana juduM hoya che, paNa jyAre teo sAthe rahevA lAge, tyAre paristhiti badalAI jAya che. badalAyelI paristhiti pasaMdagInI AkhI ya prakriyAne khoTI TheravI de che. mArI vhAlI, koI ApaNane pasaMda kare e mATe AkarSaka dekhAvAno prayAsa, sArA vastro ane meka-apano zo karavAno prayAsa e badhuM moTuM Risk levA jevI vAta che. kAraNa ke zo e kadI jIvana nathI hotuM ane jIvana e kadI zo nathI hoto.

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ENGAGEMENT 195 prema karatAM yuvaka yuvatIo eka bIjAne game tevuM dekhADavAno prayAsa kare che, paNa e temano mULabhUta svabhAva nathI hoto. mATe e TakI zakato nathI. samaya jatAM kharI oLakhANa thAya ne sAco cahero bahAra Ave, tyAre rAInA bhAva rAte vItI gayA hoya che. kadAca koI kanyA kharekhara rUpALI hoya, e rUpa joIne koI ene paraNe. ne pachI kadAca koI roga ke akasmAtathI enuM rUpa murajhAI jAya tyAre eno vara zuM karaze? enA lagna e kanyA sAthe nahIM, paNa enA rUpa sAthe ja thayA hatAM. e ja rIte paisAnI relamachela joIne paraNelI kanyA koI kAraNasara pati "khAlI thaI jAya, tyAre zuM karaze? eno saMbaMdha to paisA sAthe ja baMdhAyo hato. My dear. All this is a stupid measurement. 24107 CLLLL Love marriages DivorcemAM Convert thAya che.

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196 lava yu DoTara tenuM Secret A che. pahelAnA samayamAM thatAM lagnono AdhAra vaDIlo pratyeno samarpaNa bhAva hato, mATe e lagno TakAu ane saphaLa nIvaDatA. Aje lagno jarA-tarAmAM tUTI jAya evA ane niSphaLa nIvaDe che, tenuM kAraNa e che ke AjanA lagnono AdhAra vara-kanyAnuM potAnuM mana che, ane mana jevuM caMcaLa bIjuM kazuM ja nathI. Weather you look beauty or wealth or your choice. After all you are following your mind. only your mind. chagane maganane kahyuM, "tuM to joI joIne paraNyo'to ne ? A cAra mahinAmAM to chUTAcheDAnI nobata vAgavA lAgI.' magane ThAvakAIthI kahyuM, "mAro cazmAno naMbara khoTo hato.' This is the fact my daughter, navayauvanano Avega... aparipakva avasthA... bAhya dekhAvanuM aMjAmaNa A badhuM khoTA naMbaranA cazmA che. enAthI koI sAcuM joI zake e zakya ja nathI. eka vAta haMmezA khyAlamAM rAkhaje

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197 ENGAGEMENT ke A uMmaranuM gamavuM e prema nathI ja. ilekTrisiTImAM jema negeTiva-pojhiTiva ekabIjA tarapha kheMcAya tevuM A sahaja vijAtIya AkarSaNa hoya che. Ane prema kahenArA actual premane samajyA ja nathI hotAM. A AkarSaNa niSphaLa premalagnamAM pariName tyAre Mostly kanyAe ja zoSAvuM paDe che. I don't say ke A bAbatamAM tAre amArI ja nirNaya mAnya rAkhavo. huM to mAtra tane vAstavikatA kahI rahyo chuM. mArI vhAlI, A badhI vAta eTalA mATe ja che, ke tArI eka nAnakaDI bhUla tArA ane amArA mATe jIvanabharanI sajA na banI jAya. ApaNuM jIvana Aga nahIM paNa bAga bane. tuM haMmezA sukhI rahe ane tArA sukhathI ame sukhI rahIe. A sivAya Adhipatyano ke Agrahano amAro koI ja irAdo nathI. beTA, gayA varSe

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198 lava yu DoTara muMbaInA eka bahu moTA vepArIe dIkarInA lagna goThavyA. khuda mukhyapradhAna paNa jenA ghare vagara bolAve Ave eTaluM moTuM e nAma hatuM. ekanI eka dIkarI hatI. karoDo karoDo rUpiyA pappAe enA lagnamAM lagAvI dIdhA hatAM, paNa lagnanA AgalA divase ja e dIkarI gAyaba thaI gaI. zodhAzodha karI karIne Akho parivAra thAkI gayo. lagna mokupha rahyA, spaSTa zabdomAM kahIe to phoka thayAM. sagAM-saMbaMdhI-AmaMtrita mahemAno badhAMne javAba Apavo bhAre paDI gayo. koIne moDhuM batADavuM paNa muzkela thaI gayuM. mArI vhAlI, Can you imagine ? e pappAnA hRdayane keTalo AghAta lAgyo haze ? kALajAnA kaTakA jevI AMkhonA tArA jevI lADalI dIkarInI pAchaLa bAvIsa-bAvIsa varSo sudhI aDadhA-aDadhA thaI gayelA bApane dIkarI AvI lapaDAka lagAvIne jatI rahe e keTalI marmavedhaka ghaTanA che ! Aje agaNita mA-bApo evA che.

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ENGAGEMENT jemane dIkarI jIvanabharanuM duHkha ApIne gaI che. agaNita pitAoe dIkarIe uThAvelA galata kadamathI zaramiMdA thaIne ApaghAta karyo che. thoDA samaya pahelA kAMkariyAnA taLAvamAMthI eka maDaduM kADhavAmAM AvyuM, enI Death-note maLI AvI emAM A ja kAraNa lakheluM hatuM. tane kadAca khabara nahIM hoya beTA, hajI to dIkarI DhIMgalIthI ramatI hoya ne, tyArathI enA pitAne enA mATe sAro vara zodhavAnI enA mATe svarga jevuM ghara zodhavAnI ciMtA satAvatI hoya che. rAta ane divasa mArI dIkarI kema sukhI thAya e ja vicAradhArAmAM taNAtA pitAnI A lAgaNInI koI ja kiMmata nahIM ? New generationnI pAse A common logic hoya che. "amAre AkhI Life Spend karavAnI che. A bAbatamAM amArI ja choicenuM Importance hovuM joIe." Well, paNa e choice para Mostly AkhI lAipha spenDa na thatI hoya, 199

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200 lava yu DoTara ke sArI rIte sTenDa na thatI hoya to zuM karavAnuM ? beTA, A huM nathI kaheto. AjanuM sUkSma sarvekSaNa kahe che. kaoNlejanA baTakabolA ke dekhAvaDA chokarA sAthe jidda karIne ke bhAgI jaIne paraNI janAra AjanI kanyAone jyAre saMskArabhedanI saccAIno sAmano karavAno Ave tyAre paLe paLe AMkhe pANI AvI jatAM hoya che. jIvananA je sukha mATe hitecchuo ane upakArIonI lAgaNIone ThukarAvI, sAmAjika nItine kacaDI, dharmasaMskArone abharAIe caDAvI dIdhAM, e sukha ja jo svapna banI jatuM hoya, to pachI ATa-ATalA aparAdho zA mATe ? hAthe karIne duHkhI thavA mATe ? mArI vhAlI, 'mA-bApa tamArA duzmana che' AvuM yuvA-peDhInA magajamAM ThasAvatI philmI lava-sTorIo paNa A honArato mATe javAbadAra che. kadAca AjanI duniyAnuM sarvotkRSTa duzmana AjanuM prasArataMtra che.

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ENGAGEMENT je karoDonI AMkhamAM, kAnamAM ane manamAM jhera reDI rahyuM che. mANasane khabara paNa na paDe e rIte mIDiyA enuM Brain wash kare jAya che. pachI e mANasane mitra duzmana lAge che ne duzmana mitra lAge che. sAcI vAta khoTI lAge che ne khoTI vAta sAcI lAge che. yAda Ave mahAbhArata na kAlo daNDamudyamya, ziraH kRntati kasyacit / kAlasya balametAvad, viparItArthadarzanam // ApaNe kahIe chIe - kAla ruThyo. Ano artha zuM che ? kALa kAMI zastra laIne - koInuM mAthuM nathI kApI nAMkhato. kALanuM baLa to ATaluM ja che, ke e mANasane badhuM UMdhuM dekhADe che. eka vAra enI buddhi bhraSTa thaI jAya eTale kALanuM kAma pUruM. pachI to mANasa pote ja potAnI barabAdI noMtarI de che. beTA, thoDA samaya pahelA muMbaInA eka pratiSThita samAjanI dIkarI kaoNlejathI bArobAra enA baoNyaphrenDa sAthe bhAgI gaI. 201

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202 lava yu DoTara rAtorAta lagna thaI gayA. mAtA-pitAnI jANe aDadhI katala thaI gaI. thoDA divasa to e chokarAe ene rAkhI, pachI e pharavAnA bahAne ene dubaI laI gayo. kyAMka ene mUkIne pharAra thaI gayo. enI rAha joI joIne e chokarI thAkI tyAre ene kahevAmAM AvyuM ke ene 17 lAkha rUpiyAmAM veMcavAmAM AvI che. enA mAthe jANe AkAza tUTI paDyuM. raDI raDIne enI AMkho sUjhI gaI. ene mAra-pITa karIne vezyA banAvavAmAM AvI. rAkSasa jevA mANaso enA para kALI yAtanA gujAravA lAgyA. e eka jAtanI jelamAM hatI. trAsa asahya banyo, ne eka divasa e lAga joIne bhAgI, guMDAo ene pakaDI pADe e pahelA e phakta eka kaoNla karavAmAM saphaLa thaI. "mammI, I'm very sorry. meM je bhUla karI enI khUba sajA huM bhogavI cUkI chuM. have mArAthI vadhu sahana thAya tema nathI. A ApaNI chellI mulAkAta che. have huM susAIDa karI rahI chuM. I'm realy very sorry." beTA, ghare lasaNa paNa na khAnAra kanyAne

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203 ENGAGEMENT jyAre mAchalAMno Topalo laIne pharavuM paDe tyAre e kahevAto Love Life timey Death banI jAya che. piyaramAM eka kIDIne paNa na mAranAra kanyAne jyAre eno pati jabaradastI maTana zopamAM besADIne pote jyAM-tyAM bhaTakyA kare, tyAre e kanyA pAse ApaghAta karavAno eka ja mArga bAkI rahe che. hamaNA muMbaI pAse thANAmAM barAbara AvI ja eka ghaTanA ghaTI che. mArI hAlI, thoDI judI jJAti hoya, eno paNa saMskArabheda paraNetarane seTa thavAmAM nava neje pANI utarAvI deto hoya, to pachI sAva ja uttara-dakSiNa jevo bheda hoya enI to zuM vAta karavI ? eka bAju lAkho lagnajIvananI samasyA che. ne bIjI bAju ApaNI saMskRtinuM eka ja vAkya badhuM ja samAdhAna ApI de che - sunazItasa: sArdha to dAhoDotrajaiH yogazAstram | lagna enI ja sAthe karavAM jemanuM kuLa ApaNI samAna hoya, jemanA rItarivAja-saMskAro-dharma ane cAritra paNa ApaNI samAna hoya.

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204 lava yu DoTara ane jemanuM gotra juduM hoya. (jethI dUranA bhAI-bahenanA bhUlathI lagna na thaI jAya.) zrAddhavidhi graMthamAM kahyuM che - samAnakulasadAcArAdizIlarupavayovidyAvibhavaveSabhASApratiSThAdiguNaireva sArddham / kulazIlAdivaiSamye hi mitho'vahIlanA kuTumbakalahakalaGkAdyApattiH // kula samAna hoya, sadAcAra vagere samAna hoya, svabhAva ane cAritra samAna hoya, rUpa, uMmara ane vidyA samAna hoya, vaibhava, veza ane bhASA samAna hoya, ane pratiSThA vagere paNa samAna hoya, enI ja sAthe lagna karavA, jo A badhAMmAM samAnatA na hoya, to paraspara avagaNanA-apamAna thAya, pArivArika jhaghaDA thAya ane Arthika bAbatamAM ke jAtIya vagere bAbatamAM kalaMka paNa lagADavAmAM Ave. beTA, AMtarajJAtIyathI mAMDIne AMtararASTrIya sudhInA lagnone protsAhana ApatA tattvone khabara nathI ke teo sukhI ane svastha jIvananuM dhanotapanota kADhI rahyA che. uparachallIe umadA ane udAra dekhAtI A pravRttinuM

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205 ENGAGEMENT bhItarI citra keTaluM bihAmaNuM hoya che enI tapAsa karavAmAM Ave to kharekhara cIsa paDI jAya. mArI vhAlI, philma e philma che. ane jIvana e jIvana che. philmamAMthI bodhapATho laIne jIvanamAM ene lAgu karavA e plAsTikanI vAnagIone cAvIne gaLe utAravA jevI ceSTA che. jenA pariNAmamAM duHkha sivAya bIjuM kazuM ja nathI. jAte jIvanasAthInI pasaMdagI karavA javAmAM eka bahu moTI karuNatA e sarjAI che ke apekSAono pahADa laIne beThelA mUratiyAo 25-50-100-150-200 sudhI ya miTiMgo karatAM thayA che. ATaATalI miTiMgsa pachI paNa kAMI phiTiMga thaI ja jAya evuM Fix nahIM. thAya, to keTaluM Take eno bharoso nahIM. eka kanyAne maLyA pachI e mUratiyo ene dhArI dhArIne jue, ene ekalAmAM maLe, ene citra-vicitra prazno pUche, A badhI ja behudInI hada vaTAvI jAya evI pravRtti che.

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206 lava yu DoTara ane A badhI ja prosijara pUrI thayA pachI chellI vAta 'No'nI Ave, eTale e kanyA mAnasika stare vidhavA thavAnI lAgaNI anubhave. enA A AghAtanI koNe paravA karI che? mArI vhAlI, A miTiMga ja evI che, jemAM dareka jaNa potAne badhI rIte zreSTha dekhADavA mATe prayAsa kare che. ziSTAcAra ane saujanya dAkhavavA mATe baMne pakSo paraspara spardhAmAM utarI paDe che. A spardhAmAM saccAI ke sahajatA nahIM paNa sArA lAgavAnI sArA kahevaDAvavAnI prabaLa AMtarika icchA ja hoya che. A rIte jotA e AkhI ya miTiMga eka jAtano mAyA-prapaMca ja banI jAya che. evI miTiMgano zo artha? miTiMganA nAme ekalAmAM Boundry-line cross karIne pachI e kanyAne rajhaLatI mUkI denArA ne pharI navI miTiMgomAM bijhI thaI janArA chokarAMo A miTiMga sisTamane ja sAva khoTI muva karI rahyA che.

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207 ENGAGEMENT keTaluM jUThuM ne keTaluM bihAmaNuM che A badalAyeluM citra ! sAcI sisTama e ja hatI. jemAM vaDIlo ja aMdarakhAnethI kula-zIla-saMskAra vagere badhI bAbatone nizcitarUpe jANI letA, ane pachI ThIka lAge to pote ja jaIne lagna nakkI karI detAM. A sisTama samasta samAjane satata sArA rahevAnI preraNA ApatI rahetI. khoTuM kAma karatAM loko DaratAM. saMskAro jaLavAI rahetA ane paraspara saMskArI pAtra maLavAthI eka sukhI jIvananA zrIgaNeza thaI jatAM. vaDIlo e ApaNA duzmana nathI beTA, emanA jevA hitecchu ApaNA mATe bIjA koI ja nathI. AjanI janarezana emanA jJAnano, emanA anubhavano ane emanI hitecchatAno lAbha levAne badale emano virodha karatI ne emano sAmano karatI thaI gaI che, e A janarezananuM bahu moTuM kamanasIba che. mArI vhAlI, ApaNe tyAM suthArano dIkaro suthAra banato. luhArano dIkaro luhAra banato.

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208 lava yu DoTara kuMbhArano dIkaro kuMbhAra banato. majabUta jJAtivyavasthAnA kAraNe AvanArI peDhIomAM AnuvaMzika guNadharmo barAbara utarI AvatA. darekane potapotAnA vepAra-udyoganI kuzaLatA janmajAta maLI jatI. e kuzaLatAno samAja ane dezane lAbha maLato. rojagAranA avakAzo badhAM mATe taiyAra ja rahetA, bAra-cauda varSano dIkaro to kamAvA ya lAgato. Aje je moMghavArI, bekArI ane maMdImAM Akho deza bhIMsAI rahyo che, emAM A jJAtivyavasthA ane lagnavyavasthAnI avagaNanAno paNa bahu moTo phALo che. eka bAju A vyavasthAone toDI pADavI ane bIjI bAju bekArI bhaththA jevI vyavasthA karavI A badhuM hAsyAspada to che ja. gaMbhIratAthI vicAra karavA jevuM paNa che. mArI vhAlI, ApaNI prAcIna varNavyavasthAmAM rojagAranI surakSA hatI tema sadguNo ane svAsthyanI paNa surakSA hatI. lAMca ane bhraSTAcAramAM Aje Akho deza kharAba rIte sapaDAI gayo che

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ENGAGEMENT ane chellA hajAra varSamAM na hatAM evA citra-vicitra rogoe bharaDo lIdho che, enuM eka kAraNa A prAcIna suvyavasthita paraMparAmAM karelI dakhaliMgarI paNa che. prAcInano koI durAgraha nathI, hovo paNa na joIe. paNa AdhunikatA e jo eka jokhamI akhataro ja banI raheto hoya. sukhI ane svastha jIvana mATe eka abhizApa ja banI raheto hoya saptaraMgI paDadAM pAchaLanuM citra sAva kALuM dhabba hoya, to zuM karavAnuM ? eka sajjana mATe hathoDA laIne ene toDI pADavA sivAya bIjo koI vikalpa ja na hoI zake. beTA, AMtarajJAtIya vivAha karavA e bIjI jJAtinI kanyAnI eka jAtanI katala karavA barAbara che. kAraNa ke eka bahAranI kanyA je jJAtimAM paraNI jAya che, te jJAtinI aMdaranI eka kanyA rajhaLI paDe che. AMtarajJAtIya vivAha e potAnA bhAvi saMtAna sAthe karelo ghora anyAya che. 209

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210 lava yu DoTara kAraNa ke e saMtAna varNasaMkara banaze. enA zarIrano bAMdho, enuM Arogya, eno vila pAvara, enI brAiTanesa, enI memarI, enuM kerekTara, enI skilsa A badhAM sAthe khelelo A jugAra che. duniyAbharanI hospiTalo, yunivarsiTIo ane pustako bhegA thaIne paNa na pUrI zake evI A khoTa che. mArI vhAlI, A samagra citrano sAra e ja che ke potAnA maeNrejanuM Disijana potAnA hAthamAM rAkhavAmAM sAra nathI. kadAca vaDIlo pUche, ke tArA mATe kevo chokaro chokarI jouM, tyAre smArTa-eTrekTiva-rica-DigrIdhArI AvI koI paNa choice kahyA vinA zANI vyaktie potAnI jJAtinuM paNa suzIla ane saMskArI pAtra ja pasaMda karavA mATe kahevuM joIe, kAraNa ke jo jIvanane kharekhara sukhI karavuM hoya, to bIjA badhAM ja mApadaMDo khoTA che. beTA, jIvanano kharo khela jyAre cAlu thAya che tyAre phera skIna ke phera luka kAma nathI AvatA,

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ENGAGEMENT tyAre vaoNka sTAila ke TaoNka sTAila paNa kAma nathI AvatA, e samaye myujhiyama pIsa jevA pAtro potAnuM pota prakAze che ane mANasane duHkhI duHkhI karI de che. I suggest you a book - tame sagAI karo te pahelA There are 8 live stories. That may be a complete engagement guide. 211

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Purposely my daughter ! I don't say Joint family. Because Family itself means Joint family. When you asks some-one for a pot, No one gives you a broken pot. Because actually that's not a pot. By the Same Way, Broken family is not a family. My dear, lagnano artha FAMILY mAtra pati sAthe ja nahIM paNa pUrA kuMTuMba sAthenuM joDANa che. keTalIka chokarIo evI hoya che, jemane pati ane putra sivAyanI duniyA sAva ja Meaningless lAge che. emanI dRSTimAM vaDIlo e eka bojAthI vizeSa kazuM ja nathI hotA. yA teo pahelAthI ja Demand kare che. 'mane separeTa phleTa joIe.' ne yA to aDadhI aDadhI rAta sudhI sAcI-khoTI vAtothI patinuM mAthuM khAI khAIne parivArane bhAMgI nAkhe che. paNa AvuM karavuM e hakIkatamAM potAnA ja paga upara 213

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214 lava yu DoTara kuhADo mAravA jevuM che. saMyukta parivAra e gheghura vaDalo che. enA vinA saMsArano taDako vadhu lAge che. e eka chatra che beTA. kadI paNa chatrabhaMga na thavA detI. 2015 sis22 Children specialist 9. varSothI practice kare che. emaNe potAno experience lakhyo che. pahelA mAre tyAM pezanTanI sAthe enA mammI ane dAdI AvatAM. mammIne mAtRsahaja lAgaNIthI bALakanI bahu ja ciMtA thatI hoya, tyAre enA sAsu ene samajAve, ke "nAnI uMmaramAM AvuM badhuM to thAya, dAMta AvatA hoya to jhADA ya thAya, pavana lAgI jAya to zaradI ya thAya, ne Rtu badalAya eTale tAva paNa Ave. kyAreka sthaLa badalAya eTale sustI jevuM lAge. emAM ATalI ciMtA karavAnI jarUra nathI. tuM eka kAma kara, ghare jaIne ArAma kara. mane Ama paNa UMgha ochI Ave che. rAte munno uThaze to huM saMbhALI laIza. ujAgarAthI tArI tabiyata bagaDaze to nAhaka muzkelI thaze." saMyukta parivAranI A madhuratAne huM mANI raheto. paNa have citra badalAyuM che.

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FAMILY 215 bALaka sAthe enA mammI-pappA Ave che. mammI khUba ciMtA karatI hoya to pappA ene kahe che - DaoNkTara sAheba kahe che ne, sAruM thaI jaze. bahu vevalAveDA nahIM karavAnA." patnIne dhamakAvIne pati oNphise jato rahe che. patnI amAruM mAthuM khAya... . sAheba, mArA dIkarAne zuM thayuM che? ene sAruM to thaI jaze ne ? enuM nidAna to barAbara thayuM che ne.." nathI enI pAse anubhava. nathI enI pAse anubhavI. ciMtAmAM ne ciMtAmAM amArA para avizvAsa mUkIne e bALakane laIne bIjI haoNspiTalamAM laI jAya. cAlu sAravAra adhUrI rahe eTale bALakane svastha thavAmAM vilaMba thAya." AcArAMga-vRttimAM lakhyuM che - ekaM hi cakSuramalaM sahajo vivekastadvadbhireva saha saMvasatidvitIyam / etadadvayaM bhuvi na yasya sa tattvato'ndhastasyApamArgacalane nanu ko'parAdhaH ? // eka nirmaLa netra che sahaja viveka ane bIjuM che vivekInI sobata.

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216 lava yu DoTara jenI pAse A be nathI te hakIkatamAM aMdha che e khoTuM pagaluM bhare emAM eno zo vAMka ? My dear, BamboonI jhADI hoya ne ? emAM eka vizeSatA hoya che. kadAca koI Bamboo nIcethI tUTI jAya, to paNa e paDI na jAya kAraNa ke AjubAjunA Bamboono ene Support hoya che. veNurvilUnamUlo'pi vaMzagahane mahIM naiti / jIvana eka War che beTA, AmAM navA-jUnInI koI ja navAI nathI. sArA-narasA prasaMgo, kaSTo, takalIpho A badhuM eka pachI eka AvatuM ja rahevAnuM ema ja samajIne cAlavAmAM zANapaNa che. A sthitimAM sAthe koNa? hiMmata ApanAra ane paDakhe rahenAra koNa ? "ame chIe ne ? zuM ciMtA karo cho ?' Ama kahenAra koNa ? paristhitine kAraNe jyAre ApaNe bhAMgI paDyA hoIe tyAre saMyukta parivAra ApaNane strong support Ape che. My dear,

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FAMILY 217 Unity is strengh. pAMca AMgaLI bhegI thAya tyAre muThThI bane che. Joint family is the biggest & perfect social security. kadAca bahAranuM koI ja kaSTa na hoya, tyAre paNa pati oNphise gayA hoya ne juvAna strI gharamAM ekalI hoya e ja moTI Insecurity nahIM ? beTA, Aje duniyAmAM evA DhagalAbaMdha patio che. jemanA manamAM patnI pratye zaMkAno kIDo saLavaLyA kare che. jUnA kaoNleja-mitro... selaphona... phesabuka... gharamAM ekalI strI... pachI ? jhaghaDA... sAmasAme dalIlabAjI... tuM tuM - meM meM ne sukha-zAMtinuM satyAnAza. duniyAmAM Aje hajAro patio evA che. jemaNe dhaMdhAdArI jAsUsone patnInI jAsUsI karavAnuM kAma soMpyuM che. hajAro patnIo patinI ya jAsUsI karAve che. selaphona kaMpanI pAse regyulara evI DimAnsa Ave che. "A naMbara upara jeTalA calls Ave enI TAP mAre joIe che." kadAca patnI sAcI ane sArI paNa hoya,

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218 lava yu DoTara to ya enI saccAInuM sAkSI koNa? kadAca koInuM mana caMcaLa banyuM hoya, to ya jenI zarama ene roke evuM gharamAM koNa? mArI vhAlI, saMyukta parivAramAM surakSita patnI mATe patine je vizvAsa hoya che, teno somA bhAgano vizvAsa paNa ekalI patnI mATe nathI hoto, ane te sahaja paNa che, cAre bAjunuM vAtAvaraNa... AsapAsamAM banatI ghaTanAo... ekAMta ane anukULatAnI lapasaNI bhUmi... ane caMcaLa mana. A badhuM jANato pati koI nabaLI saMbhAvanA kare emAM eno koI ja doSa nathI. beTA, sukhI dAmpatyajIvananuM mULa vizvAsa che. vibhakta parivAramAM A vizvAsano zvAsa satata addhara hoya che. pariNAme parasparano prema satata ghaTato jAya che ane jIvana eka saharAnuM raNa banIne rahI jAya che. ekalI strI kadAca badhI rIte sArI hoya to ya ene soft target banAvIne koNa kyAre zuM karI nAMkhe eno zuM bharoso?

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FAMILY 219 sAsu-sasarA-naNaMda-derANI-jeThANI A badhAnI vacce rahelI nArI sAme koI AMkha uThAvIne jotA paNa vicAra kare e sahaja che. A sthitimAM nArI pote paNa nizcita rahe che. enuM mana zAMta ane prasanna rahe che. pariNAme navA rogothI ya mukti maLe che. gharamAM tanAva chavAto nathI ane svastha nArI dvArA svastha parivAra killola kare che. juvAnInA jozamAM jyAre pati - patnInuM paraspara gharSaNa thAya. patnI ke bALakonI mArapITa jevo prasaMga bane tyAre sAsu-sasarA sattAvAhI rIte e jozane zAMta karI detA hoya che. Aveza osarI jAya pachI to badhAM zAMta paDI jatA hoya che ane pastAtA hoya che. paNa pachI pastAvAno zuM artha ? sArthaka to pahelAthI ja zAMti hoya te che. ane te saMyukta parivAramAM ja zakya bane tema che. suratano eka parivAra pati jamavA beTho che. patnI pIrasI rahI che. eka koLiyo letAnI sAthe pati tADUkyo. "dALamAM mIThuM ja nathI. ame ATalI mahenata karIne kamAie, ne tame sarakhA dALa-bhAta paNa jamADI zakatA nathI ?"

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220 lava yu DoTara tyAM to sAsue ThaMDI zaktithI dIkarAne kahI dIdhuM, "dhIru, Aje dALa meM banAvI che. bola, kahevuM che kAMI ?" vAta pUrI. dhIrubhAI dhIrA paDI gayAM. saMyukta parivAra bALakono hUMpha Ape che. saMvAda ane sauhArda Ape che. bALaka jue che ke mammI-pappA vaDIlono kevo vinaya kare che ! emanI kevI kevI sevA kare che ! dAdA-dAdInI hAjarImAM mammI-pappAnuM bolavuM-cAlavuM e keTaluM badhuM maryAdAsabhara thaI jAya che. ! kAkA pappA sAthe kevo zAlIna vyavahAra kare che ! dAdInI tabiyata sArI nathI to AkhuM ghara kevuM emanI pAchaLa lAgyuM che ! mammIne Aje jarA sustI hatI to kAkIe kevA emane kicanamAMthI bahAra kADhIne sophA para sUvADI dIdhAM ! my dear, Aje bALakone visual education ApavAnI himAyato cAlI che. School Hi Smart boord 14 te School forward gaNAya che. But let me say joint family is the great smart board. jemAMthI bALakone moTA bhAganuM jIvanopayogI zikSaNa Not only visual Form Hi

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FAMILY 221 paNa Live Form mAM maLI rahe che. bALaka jeTaluM lakhI-vAMcIne zIkhe che. enA karatAM vadhu joI-sAMbhaLIne zIkhe che. Joint family mAM je zIkhavA maLI zake te duniyAnI koI zaikSaNika saMsthAmAM zIkhavADavuM zakya ja nathI. eka nArI jyAre ahaMkAranI ke svArthanI bhAvanAthI separeTa thAya che. tyAre tAttvika daSTie e enA bALakone vinaya-vivekathI, sevAbhAvathI, paropakAravRttithI ane sahiSNutAthI separeTa karI rahI hoya che. jenI kiMmata e nArIe pote ja cUkavavAnI hoya che. mArI vhAlI dareka "mA"nI eka icchA hoya che. ke eno dIkaro kAyama mATe eno banI rahe. e kadI enI najarathI dUra na thAya. e enI sevA kare. ene hUMpha Ape. enA pratye pUrNa vinIta banI rahe. paNa "mA" mATe Avo upadeza Apavo zakya hoto nathI. kadAca e Avo upadeza potAnA saMtAnane Ape to ya eno koI artha hoto nathI. bALaka to AcaraNanI bhASA samaje che. potAnA pitAe emanA mammInI keTalI sevA karI?

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2 2 2 lava yu DoTara emanI samakSa keTalo vinaya karyo? emane keTalI hUMpha ApI ? emaNe bIjAnuM keTaluM hasatA hasatA sahana karyuM? jo A Visual education che, to upadezanI jarUra nathI ane jo e nathI, to upadezano artha nathI. mArI lADalI, mA-bApanI svArthI vRtti saMtAnone evA ja saMskAra Ape che. videzamAM saMyukta parivAra jevI koI vastu ja rahI nathI. to tyAMnI navI peDhI taddana svakendrita banI gaI che. koIno vicAra karavo... koInA mATe kaMIka jatuM karavuM... koInuM kaMIka khamI khAvuM... koInI Under mAM jIvavuM A badhuM enA mATe Just like impossible thaI gayuM che. This is the result of breaking a family. jenI AkarI kiMmata jIvanabhara sudhI cUkavavI paDe che. You may ask my daughter, ke sAsuno Nature ApaNane set na thAya to ? naNaMdanuM Behaviour sAruM na hoya to? derANI sAthe ApaNuM na jAmatuM hoya to ? I say so what? zuM eka "mA"ne enA dIkarAthI chUTI pADI devAnA A badhA pUratAM kAraNo che? Think nutraly my dear. suppose e sAsu tuM pote che. tyAre A bAbatamAM tAro opinion kevo haze ? beTA,

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FAMILY AjanI navapariNIta kanyAo sAsune sAthe rAkhavA taiyAra nathI. rAta-di be pAsA bhegA karato puruSa mahilAonI A takarAre trAsI jAya che. Tell me my daughter, tAro dIkaro tArI old-age mAM tArI sevA kare evuM tuM icche che ? Then understand. By the same way patinA mammI-pappA paNa evuM ja icche che. A mAtra emanI icchA ja nathI. emano adhikAra paNa che. jene chInavI levAno koIne koI ja adhikAra nathI. mArI vhAlI, Age jyAre 45-50 ne vaTAve tyAre more than 99 % Ladies no Nature badalAto hoya che. That's but natural A badhI paristhiti... enI pIDA.... ene je anubhave e ja samajI zake. A samaye ApaNe bIjAne anukULa thavAno - hUMpha ApavAno - khamI levAno - gaLI khAvAno prayAsa karavo ? ke chUTA thavA dvArA ghA upara mIThuM bhabharAvavAno prayAsa karavo ? zuM kahe che ApaNI mAnavatA ? e vyakti ApaNane set thaI jAya, evo Agraha rAkhavo 223

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224 lava yu DoTara e eka ja jAtanI niSpharatA ja nahIM? beTA, huM to mAnavatAthI paNa AgaLa vadhIne tane AtmIyatAnI vAta karavA mAMguM chuM. suppose, door close karatAM tArI finger emAM AvI gaI. UMDo ghA paDI gayo. ghA pAkyo..pIDA dhIme dhIme vadhatI ja gaI... vAta labakArA sudhI pahoMcI... Now the pain is unbarrable. Who give you such pain ? Finger no ? why don't you cut-off it ? Tell me why not? Because it's yours. Well my dougater, Now return to the point. sAsuno Nature ApaNane match na thAya, emanI koI bolavA-cAlavAnI rItathI ApaNane takalIpha thAya eTale emane cut-off karI devA Ano zuM Meaning ? That means emanI sAthe ApaNane koI ja jAtanI AtmIyatA nathI. Finger sAthe AtmIyatA che. "mArA" paNAno bhAva che. to mANasa asahya vedanA ApatI Finger ne paNa

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FAMILY 2 25. kApI nathI nAMkhato. enI sAthe thoDo paNa pratikULa vyavahAra karavAno vicAra suddhA nathI karato. uparathI ene anukULa thavAno ja prayAsa kare che. Can You understand my dear ? Real question Natureno che ja nahIM, Real matchingno paNa nathI. dIkarAno Nature kharAba hoya, to duniyA AkhI nabhAvI le che. Real question to che AtmIyatAno. You may ask sAsu sAthe zI rIte AtmIyatA hoI zake ? Well, first you answer me pati sAthe AtmIyatA kharI ? If yes, than understand, ke emAM ja sAsu sAthenI AtmIyatA samAI jAya che. relve sTezana parathI be mahilAo pasAra thatI hatI. emAMthI moTI uMmaranA eka bahenane lujha mozana jevuM thaI gayuM. bIjA bahena emane najIkanA eka gharamAM laI gayAM. emanA kapaDAM potAnA hAthe premathI dhoI dIdhAM. emane ArAma karAvyo. jonArAone thayuM ke nakkI e enI mA haze.

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226 lava yu DoTara dhIme rahIne pUchyuM. e bahena hiMdIbhASI hatAM. Smile sAthe emaNe javAba Apyo'yh vo strI hai, jisakI kokha meM 9 mahine taka merA suhAga palA thA / ' 'm talking about AtmIyatA. jo sAsu sAthe ke sAsarAnA bIjA sabhyo sAthe AtmIyatA nathI. to samajI levuM ke hakIkatamAM pati sAthe paNa AtmIyatA nathI ja. beTA, After your marriage jo tane khabara paDe ke tArI mammI sAthe tArA bhAbhInuM vartana sAruM nathI. ke e temane dhikkAranI dRSTithI jue che. to tane kevuM lAgaze? tArA bhAbhI aDadhI aDadhI rAta sudhI tArA bhAIne judA thavA mATe samajAvI rahyA che. AvA News tane maLe tyAre tArA hRdayane kevo dhakko lAgaze? je divase tane Massage maLe ke tAro bhAI mammI-pappAthI alaga thaI gayo che. tAro e divasa kevo jaze? 0424 my dear, 2011 g 6441 Points of view ApaNI sidemAM paNa lagADavA jevA che.

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eka vAta samajI leje beTA, nyAya anyAya tarka - vitarka sAcuM - khoTuM cAle - na cAle - = FAMILY A badhuM gaNita prema ane AtmIyatAmAM hotuM ja nathI. premane gaNita AvaDatuM ja nathI. pelI kavitA te sAMbhaLI haze - rUpiyA AnA pAino tuM choDa saravALo have, A to premano vepAra che haMmezA khoTa karaze. kharekhara mArI vhAlI, premanA vepAramAM khoTa e ja kamANI hoya che. tuM ja vicAra kara beTA. bIjAnI nabaLI sthitimAM tarkanI bhASAmAM taDAphaDI karatI vyakti potAnI jarUra vakhate khoLo pAtharIne lAgaNInI mAMgaNI kare e kevuM lAgaze ? Always remember the example of the finger, bhale ghavAyelI che. pAkelI che. labakArA mAre che, asahya vedanA Ape che. paNa mArI che. 227

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228 vAta Finish. mArI vhAlI, lava yu DoTara AtmIyatA e amRta che je sAmI vyaktine kharIdI le che. nabaLI sthitimAM sAcavI lIdhelI Finger, tamane AkhI jiMdagI Service ApavAnI ja che. sAmI vyaktine tame anukULa thAo, emanI koI icchA ke jarUriyAta pUrI karI do, emano thoDo Ego hoya to tame sAme cAlIne Fullfill karI do eTale vyakti tamArI thaI jAya che. vahelA ke moDA A pariNAma Avaze ja. 'AtmIyatA' to AnAthI paNa AgaLanI vAta kare che ke potAnI vyakti mATe ApaNe je kaMI paNa bhoga ApIe enAthI ApaNane on the spot AnaMda maLe ja che. beTA, AtmIyatA haMmezA AnaMdamaya ja hoya che. ApaNe tyAM eka sarasa kahevata che - ghI DhoLAyuM khIcaDImAM. DhoLAyuM, paNa waste nathI thayuM. khIcaDImAM ja gayuM che. Successfull ja che. jyAM AtmIyatA che, tyAM tanathI, manathI, dhanathI -

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FAMILY je rIte paNa bhoga ApavAno Ave tyAre A ja kahevata lAgu paDatI hoya che - ghI DhoLAyuM khIcaDImAM. beTA, sAsu-sasarA-naNaMdonA ya aramAno hoya che. dIkarA ane bhAI pAsethI temane paNa apekSAo hoya che. pote je gha2mAM varSothI rahetA hoya, tenA pratye temane AdhipatyanI lAgaNIo jAge e paNa sahaja che. Ama paNa strIsvabhAva lAgaNIpradhAna hoya che. eTale bauddhika rIte emanuM vartana ucita ane ApaNane phAve evuM ja hoya evo Agraha rAkhI zakAya ema nathI ja. A sthitimAM je nArI kajiyA karI karIne vAtAvaraNane taMga kare ane patine mUMjhavI de te kharekhara mUrkha Thare che. samaju strI haMmezA patinA mAtA-pitA ane bhAI-bahena pratye AdaranI lAgaNIthI jue che ane emane samajavA prayAsa kare che. e barAbara samaje che. ke tarko, dalIlo ane kheMcatANothI paristhiti bagaDe che. ne mana khATA thAya che. 229

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23) lava yu DoTara aham choDIne pote bhUla na karI hoya to ya premathI potAnI bhUla svIkArI levAthI vAtAvaraNa svargIya banI jAya che. ApaNe tyAM eka lokagItamAM A AkhuM ya sAyansa eka ja paMktimAM ApI dIdhuM che. bahenI bA sAsariyAmAM nIcI najare hAlajo. My dear, This is the top secret of a happy married life. svarganuM mUlya ATaluM ja che - nIcI najara. dazavaikAlika Agama kahe che - NIyaM sejjaM gaI ThANaM NIyaM ca AsaNANi ya / NIyaM ya pAe vaMdijjA NIyaM kujjA ya aMjaliM // ziSya guru karatAM nIcI bhUmie sUvuM, gurunI pAchaLa cAlavuM, guruthI nIce rahevuM. guruthI nIce besavuM, namIne gurucaraNomAM vaMdana karavuM ane namIne gurunI samakSa aMjali karavI. sAdhanAjIvanane saphaLa karavAnuM samagra rahasya A eka ja zlokamAM samAyeluM che.

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A ja zlokane saMsArajIvanamAM paNa FAMILY vaDIlonA vinayanA saMdarbhamAM lAgu karavAmAM Ave to lAkho gharabhaMga thatA aTakI jAya tema che. ApaNe tyAM A badhI paraMparA parApUrvathI cAlI ja AvatI hatI, paNa Aje mANase pote ja A jJAnasrotonI avagaNanA karI che. e phI daI daIne je bhaNI rahyo che e Education A jIvanopayogI bAbatomAM abhaNa banAve tevuM che. beTA, AjanA kALe moTA bhAganA lokone pajavato koI prazna hoya, to e Arthika prazna che. bajAra tUTatA jAya che. rojagArInI tako ochI thatI jAya che. ane dareke dareka kSetromAM moMghavArI vadhatI ja jAya che. A samasyAnuM vyaktigata Level para koI samAdhAna hoya to e che Joint family. Naturaly emAM kharco ghaNo ocho Ave che. ghaNI badhI bAbatomAM to kharca aDadhAthI paNa ocho thaI jAya che. judA thavAmAM to bhADA ane meinTenansathI mAMDIne 231

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232 lava yu DoTara rAcaracIlA sudhInA kharcAo kharekhara kamara toDI nAkhe che. juduM ghara, judo dhaMdho, judo vyavahAra, judI kharIdI A badhuM jyAre potAnuM pota prakAze tyAre mANasane potAnI bhUla samajAya che. paNa pachI miyA paDyA paNa taMgaDI UMcI - A nyAye badhI ja hADamArI veThIne paNa mANasa potAnA "aham ne akabaMdha rAkhe che. yAda Ave hitazikSA chatrIzI - nAti sagAMnA ghara chAMDIne ekalaDAM nava vasIe. There are so much benifits of the joint family. But I know tuM kAMI evI svArthI nathI ke A Benifits mATe ja Joint familyne pasaMda kare mArI dIkarI, eka sannArI mATe to Joint familyne ja pasaMda karavA mATe A eka japoint enough che. ke eka "mA"ne enA dIkarAthI alaga karI devI e eka nIca kakSAno aparAdha che. duniyAnuM koI bahAnuM A aparAdhane sAco TheravavA mATe sakSama nathI.

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FAMILY 233 My Dear. pArivArika AtmIya saMbaMdhothI jeo cheDo phADI le che temane evA pArakA sAthe panAro pADavAno vAro Ave che jeo dhaMdhAdArI, lobhiyA ane dhUtArA hoya che. jeo kadI e AtmIya saMbaMdhonI jagyA laI zakatAM nathI. e khoTa haMmeza mATe khoTa ja rahe che. I hope, A vAta tArA mind mAM sajjaDa rIte besI gaI haze. Enioy the joy of the joint family my daughter. Love you very much.

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HOME lADalI dIkarI, I ask you a question what's a home ? tame ghara kone kaho cho ? jyAM TapAlI patra lAve e ghara ? jenuM badhAne nAma-ThekANuM ApI zakAya e ghara ? No my daughter, That's not enough. ghara e che jyAM tame badho ja bhAra utArIne 'hAza' kahI nirAMta anubhavI zako. beTA, ghara e iMTa, cUno, simenTa nathI. gharano artha che kuTuMba... svajano. gharano artha che sneha ane samarpaNanI zALA. pRthvI jema paryAvaraNathI Take che. tema ghara bhAvAvaraNathI Take che. bhAvAvaraNa. jyAM AtmIyatA che, potIkApaNuM che, samajadArI che, udAratA che, svArpaNa che. Home is sweet and only sweet where there is every one we like to meet. keTalAMka loko evA hoya che. jemanA mATe ghara paNa eka jAtanI doDadhAma 235

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236 lava yu DoTara ane kharI-khoTI pravRttiono dhasamasato pravAha hoya che. parivAra sAthe besavAnI temane bilakula phurasada hotI nathI. sahu potapotAnI pravRttimAM mazagUla hoya che. jemanA mATe ghara eTale phakta sUvAnuM. AmAM, sahavAsa to che paNa sahajIvana nathI. mArI vhAlI, saMvAditA e gharanI zobhA che samajaNa e gharanI salAmatI che. prema e gharano tulasIkyAro che bALaka e gharanuM hRdaya che. saMtoSa e gharanI suvAsa che gRhiNI e khuda ghara che. tane A badhI vAto kahetAM kahetAM gaurAMgabhAI ThAkaranI paMktio yAda Ave che. "kevI rIte makAna ghara thaze, dIkarIne e rIto huM jaNAvuM chuM." chagana ne magana ghaNA samaye bhegA thayAM. magane chaganane kahyuM, "alyA, tuM to cha-ATha mahinA bahAra pharI Avyo. bahAra badhe pharavAthI ghaNuM jANavA-zIkhavA maLatuM hoya che. te zuM jANuM ?"

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HOME 237 chagane tarata javAba Apyo, e ja ke ghara jevuM uttama sthAna bIjuM koI ja nathI." eka kahevata che - dharatIno cheDo ghara. bIjI kahevata che - ghara e ghara, bIjA badhAM dara. zarata eTalI ja ke ApaNI koI bhUlathI ghara pote ja dara na banI jAya. gharane "hAya" banAvavuM ke hAza' banAvavuM e vAta nArInA hAthamAM hoya che. samaju nArI gharane evuM svarUpa bakSe che jyAM A kAvyano sAkSAtkAra thAya che. baLyo jhaLyo huM Avyo ghare mAMDave madhumAlatI - muralI ThAkora

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ART My daughter There are so many types of the art. rAITIMga, ekAunTiMga, DroiMga, svimiMga, progrAmiMga, DijhAiniMga, mArkeTiMga...etc...etc.. ahIM je vAta che te Life art nI che. bIjAne duHkha ApyA vinA sukhI thavAnuM Art. bIjAne taDako ApyA vinA chAyo mANavAnuM Art. bIjAne pAchaLa karyA vinA AgaLa rahevAnuM Art. bIjAne harAvyA vinA jItatA rahevAnuM Art. bIjAne azAMta karyA vinA zAMti pAmavAnuM Art. mArI vahAlI, jene Life art nathI AvaDatuM enuM bIjuM badhuM ja Art phogaTa che beTA, eka strI mATe Most important life art hoya to e che navA kuTuMbanA sarovaramAM bhaLI javAnI kaLA. patinA mA-bApa-bahena sAthe snehabharyA saMbaMdha... pati-sAsu-sasarA icche evuM vartana... prasanna mauna vyaktitva... AtmIyatAnI maghamaghatI suvAsa... koI paNa vAtamAM pUrNa nirAgrahitA... bIjAne moTA karavAnI Teva... bIjAne yaza ApI devAnI sahaja vRtti... 239

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24) lava yu DoTara bIjAnA only plus points upara ja dRSTi. bIjAnA points of view ne sammAna ApavAnI taiyArI My dear, this is the life art. jene vAte vAte ochuM AvI jatuM hoya, je potAnA duHkhanA rodaNA rovAmAMthI ja UMcI AvatI na hoya, je potAnA vakhANanI lAMbI lAMbI vAto karatI hoya, sAcI-khoTI vAtanI bAbatamAM je kheMcatANa para utarI AvatI hoya, jatuM karavuM, khamI khAvuM, nAnA banavuM, bIjA mATe ghasAvuM AmAMthI kazuM jene phAvatuM na hoya, sAmAnya paristhitimAM paNa jene gRhaklezano muddo maLI raheto hoya, thoDuM kAma karIne paNa jene moTuM kAma karyAnI sabhAnatA hoya, evI strI pAse cAhe game teTalI DigrIonA sarTiphikeTa hoya, hakIkatamAM ene abhaNa gaNavI joIe. mArI vhAlI, kharA Life artne samajI na zakanAra loko dalIla karatAM hoya che - zuM amAre kacaDAtA ja rahevAnuM ? bIjA dabAve tema dabAtA ja rahevAnuM? amAre amArI jiMdagI A DhasaraDAmAM veDaphI devAnI ? zuM amane amAruM svamAna nathI? bIjuM badhuM sahana thaI jAya paNa kaDavA zabdo ane meNA-ToNA zI rIte sahana thAya ? paNa mArI vAta sAcI che to huM e vAta kema jatI karuM? kAma mAre karavAnuM che. to huM mArI rIte ja karuM ne ?

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ART 241 beTA, AvI dalIlo to eka mUrkha mANasa paNa karI zake che. | say clearereka mUrkha mANasa ja AvI dalIlo kare che. satya-asatya ane nyAya-anyAya A badhAM ja points ne mALiye caDAvIne eka hoMziyAra selsamena gharAkane sAcavI le che, ne tenA dvArA potAnA ProfitnA AMkane vadhu ne vadhu UMco lAvI de che. selsa - varlDamAM moTA moTA varlDa rekorsa karanArAoe eka mAtra A ja kuzaLatAnA AdhAre karoDo DolarsanI kamANI karI lIdhI che. My dear, we have to earn life-pleasure ane A kamANI meM hamaNAM kahyuM te life art thI ja thaI zake che. gharAkane juThTho sAbita karIne enI vAta ane phariyAda kaI rIte khoTI che e puravAra karIne pote sAva sAco che evuM ThasAvavA mATe maraNiyo banato selsamena hakIkatamAM gharAkane gumAve che. ane As a result potAnI kamANI gumAve che. mArI vhAlI,

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242 ghara e dukAna nathI ja. svajano e gharAka nathI ja. lava yu DoTara huM to tane e kahevA mAMguM chuM ke jo rUpiyA jevI nAcIjha vastu mATe paNa jatuM karavuM, khamI khAvuM ane bIjAne moTA karavA A badhuM saraLatAthI..hoMze hoMze... ane AMtarika AnaMdapUrvaka thaI zakatuM hoya, to jIvananA kharA AnaMdane mANavA mATe svastha ane masta pArivArika jIvana mATe ane lAMbA gALAnA nakkara sArA pariNAmo mATe A badhuM kema na thaI zake ? beTA, bhasI to kUtaro paNa zake che ane lAta to gadheDo paNa mArI zake che. AvuM karIne e kUtaro ane gadheDo aMte du:khI ja thatA hoya che. bajAramAM be paisA kamAvA mATe paNa jo Art jarUrI che to samajI leje ke jIvanane AnaMdanuM upavana banAvavuM hoya to sIdhe sIdhuM dhAryuM karavA javuM, potAnI apekSAne sarvotkRSTa gaNI levI, bIjAnI vAta kApavI, moTAI meLavavA mATe dhamapachADA karavA e bilakula UMdho rasto che.

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ART 243 A raste upavana nahIM paNa ukaraDo Ave che. dhIrajapUrvaka, lAgaNIpUrvaka, AtmIyatApUrvaka ane hRdayapUrvaka A Art lAgu karavAmAM Avaze to upavana khuda AvIne ApaNane phUlono upahAra dharaze. e phUlo jemanI pAMkhaDIe pAMkhaDIe prasannatA haze. hiMdImAM eka sarasa kahevata che - tyAge usake Age, mAMge usase bhAge pratiSThA e evI cIja che ke je eno tyAga kare ene e sAmethI AvIne maLe che. je enI mAMgaNI kare che enAthI e dUra bhAgI chUTe che. beTA, selsamenazIpanA je je sikreTsa che. te badhAM ApaNe saphaLa pArivArika jIvana mATe lAgu karavA hoya, to enA mATe ApaNe koI bijhaneza-buka vAMcavAnI ke seminAra aTenDa karavAnI jarUra nathI. Logic, modesty B47 Speech A 3 points mAM ApaNe je saguNo joyA te sadguNone hRdayapUrvaka Active banAvavA e ja kartavya banI rahe che. AmAM vadhu samajavAnuM eTaluM che

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244 lava yu DoTara ke lohInI sagAImAM bedarakArI posAya che. mA-dIkarI eka bIjAne game te kahI le, paNa baMne jANe che. ke hRdayano prema akabaMdha che. anyanA AMgaNe saMbaMdhonI mAvajata karavI paDe che. kALajIthI saMbaMdhonA uchera thAya e khUba jarUrI banI jAya che. saMbaMdhonA ucheranI bAbatamAM eka great secret e che ke saMbaMdho sAcavavA hoya to kSatriyavRtti nahIM paNa raNachoDavRtti ja upayogI che. gharanI bahAra paNa yuddha karavuM sAruM nathI ja. to pachI gharanI to zuM vAta karavI ? AtmasammAna ane abhimAna A benI bhedarekhAmAM bhalabhalA thApa khAI jatAM hoya che. A gUMcavADAne ukelavA karatAM bIjAnA AtmasammAnane pramoTa karavAnuM lakSya bAMdhI levAya, to AkhI dizA ane dazA ja pharI jAya. koI mane cAhe ne samaje, mANasano eka ja abhilASa. mArI vhAlI, mArka Tveine kahyuM hatuM - "koI mArI ke mArI kRtinI prazaMsA mane saMbhaLAve

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to huM ATha divasa sudhI khAdhA vinA calAvI zakuM." mANasamAtranI A bhUkha hoya che. ene saMtoSatA AvaDI jAya to saMbaMdho sohAmaNA banyA vinA na rahe. potAnI bhUla na hovA chatAM ya saharSa svIkArI levI ane bIjAnI bhUlane ya potAnA nAme caDAvI devI e sAmAnya mANasanA gajA bahAranI vAta hoya che. eka mahAna vyakti ja A kAma karI zake che. ane e vyaktine potAnI mahAnatAnuM phaLa vahelA ke moDA maLe ja che. koInA svabhAvanI Thesa ApaNane lAge ART tyAre ene moTA ghAmAM pheravI devI e duHkhI thavAnI kaLA che. ane AvI Thesa lAge tyAre potAnI jAtane Take it easy kahIne saMbhALI levI, e sukhI thavAnI kaLA che. ApaNI jIda du:khI thavA mATenI ja hoya, to e mATe bIjAne doSa ApavAno koI artha ja raheto nathI. My dear, eka sarasa ghaTanA vAMcI hatI. upAzrayamAM guru beThAM che. koI mANasa AvIne 245

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246 lava yu DoTara emanI pAse koI samasyA raju kare che. guru premapUrvaka enuM sarasa samAdhAna Ape che. e mANasa Aveza sAthe pharI e ja samasyA raju kare che. guru e ja heta sAthe ene vadhu sArI rIte samAdhAna Ape che. e mANasa pharI ne pharI e ja samasyAne doharAve che. guru ene pUrNa vAtsalyabhAve suMdara samAdhAna ApatA ja rahe che. doDha kalAka sudhI A saMvAda cAlyo. chevaTe e mANasa gayo. eka ziSya kyAranA ya A dRzyane joI rahyA hatAM. AMkhamAM phariyAdanA bhAva sAthe e guru pAse AvyA. dila kholIne gurune vAta karI, "A mANasane Ape ATaluM sarasa samajAvyuM, to ya e ApanuM mAthuM khAdhA kare ? Apane ATalA herAna kare ?" gurue smita karIne javAba Apyo. "eno svabhAva evo hato emAM e zuM kare ?" ziSya kahe, "paNa ApanI sAthe ya Avo vartAva ?" guru ziSyanI sAme joI rahyA,

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ART 247 thoDI kSaNo ema ja vItI gaI. jANe vAta badalatA hoya, e rIte gurue kahyuM, "ApaNe roja savAre derAsara jaIe chIe ne, tyAre eka mANasa potAnA gharamAMthI nIkaLIne ApaNane page lAge che. tane khyAla che ne ?" "pelA laMgaDA bhAI ne ?" "hA, e keTalAM vAMkAcUkA cAlatA hoya che ! te mark karyuM haze ne?" "hA, paNa e bhAI laMgaDA che, to ema ja cAle ne?" e barAbara, paNa mArI sAme ya evI rIte cAle? eka mArI sAme sIdhA na cAlI zake ?" "Apa AvuM kema kaho cho ? emano paga laMgaDo che to e ema ja cAle ne ?" "basa vatsa, tane ATalI vAta samajAya che ne? to samajI le ke hamaNA je mANasa gayo. enI jIbha laMgaDI hatI." My dear mANasamAtra adhuro hoya che.

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248 lava yu DoTara enI koIne koI Limit hoya che. koI ne koI bAbatamAM enuM laMgaDApaNuM hoya che. e bAbatamAM enI pAse pUrNatAnI apekSA rAkhavI e evI ja niSpharatA che. jevI niSpharatA eka laMgaDI vyakti pAse e Normal rIte cAle evI apekSA rAkhavAmAM che. beTA, A apekSA eka jAtanI mUrkhatA che. kAraNa ke enI pUrti thavI zakya ja nathI. laMgaDA mANasa pratye jema koI paNa mANasane sahAnubhUtinI lAgaNI thAya che. barAbara te ja rIte koIno svabhAva gussAvALo hoya, ahaMkAravALo hoya, tIkhuM-kaDavuM bolavAno hoya ke irSyA karavAno hoya, A badhuM ja eka prakAranuM laMgaDApaNuM che, je hakIkatamAM bahAranA laMgaDApaNA karatAM paNa vadhu dayApAtra che. ApaNI mANasAI ApaNane enA pratye sahAnubhUtinI lAgaNI rAkhavAnuM ja zIkhave che.

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249 ART pArivArika bhAvanA ane AtmIyatA to AnAthI paNa AgaLa vadhIne sahune potAnAmAM samAvI levA ane laMgaDAtA dehane potAnA taraphathI saporTa ApavAnuM zIkhave che. jaMgalamAM be vyakti che. eka aMdha che. bIjo paMgu (vikalAMga) che. jaMgalamAM acAnaka Aga lAgI gaI che dhIme dhIme Aga phelAI rahI che. paMcuM joI zake che. paNa cAlI nathI zakato. aMdha cAlI zake che. paNa joI nathI zakato. have ? Ama to e baMne AgamAM baLIne rAkha thaI jAta, paNa emaNe eka TekanIka karI. aMdhanA khabhA para paMgu besI gayo. paMgunA DAyarekzana mujaba aMdha cAlavA lAgyo. baMne salAmata rIte jaMgalamAMthI bahAra nIkaLIne zaheramAM pahoMcI gayA. Avazyaka niryukti graMthamAM A vAta kahI che - aMdho ya paMgU ya vaNe samiccA te saMpattA Nayare paviThThA //

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25) lava yu DoTara mArI vahAlI, jIvananI sArthakatA eka-bIjAnI adhurapane bhAMDavAmAM nahIM paNa eka-bIjAnI adhurapane pUrI karavAmAM che. This the life - art my daughter Never forget it.

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252 lava yu DoTara mahAbhAratanA vana parvanI eka ghaTanA che. eka yakSa yudhiSThirane prazna kare che - "saMsArI puruSano ghaniSTha ane sAco mitra koNa ?' yudhiSThira javAba Ape che - "patnI." Yes my daughter, she is a nearest true friend. je AvI hoya. te ja kharA arthamAM patnI che. bAkI to upAdhi che. sAcI mitra kone kahevAya ? jenAmAM svArthano chAMTo na hoya. je pUrNa hitakAmI hoya. jene potAnI - vyaktigata AkAMkSA na hoya. = je tamArA sukhamAM ja potAnuM sukha mAne. je badhI rIte tamAruM bhaluM ja icche. je pote ghasAIne tamAruM sAruM karavA prayAsa kare ane A badhuM ja karyA pachI ya jene A badhuM potAnA mATe ja karyuM hoya evo ahesAsa thAya. mArI vhAlI, sukha mATe raDIne... rajhaLIne... rokkaLa karIne je maLe che e hakIkatamAM sukha nathI hotuM, sukhanI bhramaNA hoya che.

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WIFEHOOD tuM kyAre paNa nirIkSaNa karaje evI vyakti tane Almost du:khI ja dekhAze. beTA, ApaNe jemane potAnA mAnyA hoya ne emanA mATe ghasAvAno emanI anukULatA mATe pratikULatA veThavAno je AnaMda hoya che. enI sAme kahevAtA sukho mAtra eka sAdhana ke sagavaDa banIne rahI jAya che. e AnaMda nathI beTA, jaDa vastuo kadI AnaMda na banI zake. AnaMda to caitanyanI abhivyakti che. chagananI patnIe prazna karyo. "Aja-kAla tamArA mitro kema bahu ochA Ave che ?' chagana kahe, "vAta phelAze to atyAre Ave che eTalA paNa nahIM Ave.' "kaI vAta ?'" "dhaMdhAmAM bahu moTI nukazAnI gaI che. kadAca devALuM kADhavuM paDaze." "ema ? to to huM ya jAuM chuM mAre piyara, mArA pappA sAcuM ja kahetA'tA ke AnI sAthe mereja karavA jevA nathI." 253

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254 lava yu DoTara saMsAramAM keTalIka nArIo AvI hoya che. svakendrita... svArthodha... svArtha mATe gharSaNa karanAra svArtha tUTatA taDa ne phaDa karanArI AvI nArIo gharane naraka banAvI de che. A naraka phakta emanA hasabanDa mATe ja nathI hotuM. emanA potAnA mATe paNa hoya che. unfortunately ApaNe tyAM upayogI strI-zikSaNanA nAme zUnyAvakAza che. prI-skulathI mAMDIne yunivarsiTI sudhInA silebasamAM jIvana-jarUrI strI-zikSaNa che ja nahIM. AnI sajA strI-sahita Akhe-AkhuM ghara bhogavatuM hoya che. chagananA dIkarAe homavarka karatAM karatAM prazna karyo, "pappA, hasabanDa eTale zuM?" chagane pahelA Aju-bAju joI lIdhuM, ne pachI dhImethI javAba Apyo, "jenuM hasavAnuM baMdha thaI jAya, e hasabanDa." homavarka AgaLa cAlyuM, dIkarAe bIjo prazna karyo. pappA, daMpati eTale ?" chagane evA ja dhImA avAje javAba Apyo, jemAM patino dama nIkaLI jAya e daMpati."

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WIFEHOOD 255 My dear I want to tell you the perfect wifehood. pAMDavo jayAre vanavAsamAM hatAM. tyAre eka vAra zrIkRSNa emane maLavA gayAM. eka bAju zrIkRSNa ane pAMDavonI maMtraNA cAlI rahI che ane bIjI bAju satyabhAmA ane draupadInuM milana thayuM che. satyabhAmA thoDA saMkoca sAthe draupadIne eka prazna kare che - "tame pAMce patine eka sarakhI rIte priya cho. to enA mATeno koI maMtra-taMtra ke koI vrata-vidhi...?" draupadInA caherA para eka haLavuM hAsya patharAI jAya che. satyabhAmA vismaya ane jijJAsA sAthe joI rahe che ne draupadInA hoTha phaphaDe che. "pati potAne AdhIna rahe evI icchA ke prayatna je patnI kare enuM patithI aMtara (Distance) vadhe che. enA patinuM mana enA parathI uThI jAya che. gharamAM sApa bharAyo hoya ane mANasa jevo bhayabhIta thaI jAya, evo ucATa ene paNa thAya che. patino prema meM jItyo che. tenA kAraNo judA che. huM gharanA daravAjA para vAraMvAra UbhI rahetI nathI.

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256 lava yu DoTara pati vinA kyAMya haravA-pharavA jatI nathI, patinA mitrono huM satkAra karuM chuM, paNa temanI sAthe hasI hasIne majAka-mazkarI karatI nathI. huM ahaMkAra ke krodhane mArA para kabajo jamAvavA detI nathI. savAre huM vahelI uThuM chuM. ane rAte badhuM gharakAma ATopAI jAya pachI zayanakakSamAM jAuM chuM. patie mArA para vizvAsa mukIne je vAta kahI hoya. te vAta huM kadI bIjAne kahetI nathI. koI mArA pati viSe ghasAtuM bole, to huM ene sAMbhaLatI nathI ane patinA sthAnane khaMDita kare evI koI vAta huM koIne karatI nathI. naitAdRzaM daivatamasti satye ! sarveSu lokeSu sadevakeSu / yathA patistasya ta sarvakAmA namyA : prasAvAt, pitaRR haeNncAt // // mahAbhArata - vanaparva 234-2 // sampreSitAyAmatha caiva dAsyA mutthAya sarvaM svayameva kAryam / he satyabhAmA ! pati jevA deva AkhI duniyAmAM koI nathI, emanI kRpAthI sarva icchAo pUrI thAya che ane emanA kopathI iSTa vidyAta thAya che. pati dAsIne koI kAma Ape tyAre UbhA thaIne te kAma jAte ja karavuM.

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WIFEHOOD jAnAtu kRSNastava bhAvametaM, sarvAtmanI mAM maLatIti satye ! | 257 satyabhAmA ! zrIkRSNane e khyAla Avavo joIe, ke tame pUrNapaNe emane bhajo cho. mahAbhutanAmarapApifma : jeo mahAna kuLanI hoya, trIfma : satIfmartava samaktA pApiNI na hoya, vaUgza zaunAza mahAzanA evI satI strIo sAthe tame mitratA karajo . caurAzca duSTAzcapalAzca vA : // jeo gussAvALI ane hiMsaka hoya, khAudharI ke cora hoya, duSTa ke caMcaLa hoya emano saMga tame kadI na karatAM. My dear, for a happy wifehood management draupdi is very essential. I know my daughter, AmAM jyAM jyAM samarpaNanI vAta Ave che. tyAM tyAM Adhunika nArIne pUre pUro vAMdho che. AnuM anusaraNa to bahu dUranI vAta che. AnuM zravaNa paNa ene kaSTadAyaka banatuM haze. mArI vhAlI, prAcIna vyavasthAmAM A rIta pracalita hatI. eTale ApaNe AMkha mIMcIne A ja rIte svIkArI levI, evo mAro koI Azaya nathI. A vyavasthAmAM rahelI vaijJAnikatA ane vyavahArutAne samajavAno prayAsa karavo joIe. prakRtie strIne je sahaja svabhAva Apyo che, te aMtarmukha svabhAva che.

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258 lava yu DoTara sneha, samarpaNa, tyAga, bAMdhachoDa ane sahanazIlatA A badhAM tenA mahattvanA pAsA che. puruSane prakRtie bahirmukha svabhAva Apyo che. temAM ahaMkAra, mahattvAkAMkSA, jIda, gurutAgraMthi ane AdhipatyanI bhAvanA hoya che. strI mAthuM uMcake e kSaNe enAmAM pauruSa pragaTe che puruSa mAthuM TekavI de tyAre enAmAM strItva pragaTe che. A svabhAvaviruddha ceSTA che jenAthI zArIrika, mAnasika, pArivArika ane sAmAjika samasyAo janme che. navI vicAraNAonA pUramAM tarka che. sAmyatAno Agraha che. uparachallI dRSTie badhAMnA magajamAM besI jAya evI rajUAta che. | say welcome. No objection. zarata eTalI ja, ke enAthI badhAnuM bhaluM thatuM hovuM joIe. enAthI duniyA sukhI thatI hovI joIe. paNa evuM to thayuM nathI. ulTa paristhiti bagaDI gaI che. niSphaLa lagno ane chUTAcheDAonuM pramANa bhayajanaka rIte vadhI rahyuM che. ghara gharamAM gharSaNa, kheMcatANa ane jhagaDAM eka common problem banI rahyA che.

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WIFEHOOD bALakone parivAramAMthI saMskAronuM zikSaNa maLavuM joIe. tenI badale teo azAMti zIkhI rahyA che. taMga vAtAvaraNa, enAthI taMga magaja, enAthI zArIrika-mAnasika rogo, enAthI vadhatA kharcA, ane ghaTatI Avaka. pariNAme azAMti, Aveza ane ajaMpo... Adhunika vicAronuM A sArvatrika pariNAma che. mArI vhAlI, I tell you the top secret of a married life puruSa ane strInAM ja mereja TakI zake. be puruSanAM nahIM. Adhunika vicAro strIne puruSa banavA mATe prerita kare che. Adhunika vicAroe evo menia sarjyo che. jemAM strInI jagyA ja nathI bacatI. 'strI' jANe kacaro hoya. ema teo vALI-jhUDIne ene sApha karI rahyA che. kyAMka ko'ka strI bacelI dekhAya, to enI mazkarI karavAthI mAMDIne eno virodha karavA sudhInI bhUmikAe utarI AvavA sudhI teo taiyAra ja hoya che. 259

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260 lava yu DoTara My dear, biskITa krimavALA che. eTrekTIva che. TesTaphUla che. jotAnI sAthe moDhAmAM pANI AvI jAya tevA che. paNa ene khAvAthI phakta be ja kalAkamAM mota AvI jAya tevuM che. Tell me, What will we do ? tamAro TesTa ne tamArI eTrekTIvanesa tamane mubAraka... ema ja kahezuM ne ApaNe ? By the same way my daughter ModernismmAM kaMIka AvI ja vAta banI che. you are a woman my dear, Always maintain your womanhood. Wifehood can be maintained by womanhood only. bahu majAnI vAta e che ke tIkSNa tarka ane Agraha para nabhatA A modernism ne je nArIo apanAve che, teo ghara sivAyanI ghaNI badhI jagyAe badhAM ja tarkone ane Agrahone choDIne samAdhAna karI zakatI hoya che

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WIFEHOOD ane sahanazIla paNa banI zakatI hoya che. emanA manamAM evI gAMTha baMdhAyelI hoya che. ke 'bIje badhe mAthuM TekavavuM paDe to vAMdho nahIM, hAtha joDavA paDe ke lAcArI batAvavI paDe to paNa vAMdho nahIM. paNa ahIM gharamAM to koI hisAbe...koI kompromAijha nahIM. haragIjha nahIM. tArI bhalI thAya. zA mATe hAthe karIne duHkhI thAya che ? kadAca e nArI = bahu samAdhAnavRttivALI na hoya. to ya jo e eTalo saMkalpa kare, ke gharamAM to huM namra ane sahanazIla ja banIza. to ya enuM jIvana sukhI thaI jAya. paNa kA...za. eka bALakane chAno rAkhavA mATe ke ene khuza rAkhavA mATe nArI enA svabhAvane anukULa thAya che. ane pote khuda 'bALaka' banI javA sudhInI taiyArI rAkhI zake che. barAbara te ja rIte 261

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26 2 lava yu DoTara jo lagnajIvanane sukhI banAvavuM hoya to puruSanA svabhAvane anukULa thavA sivAya bIjo koI vikalpa ja nathI. mArI vhAlI, bALakapaNuM e kAMI nArIno svabhAva nathI. chatAM ane te keLavI zake che. to pachI puruSanA ahaMkArane anukULa thavuM, e to strIno potAno svabhAva che. prakRtie enAmAM evA sahaja guNo mukyA che. to emane to e sutarAM keLavI zake. hajI vadhu spaSTa kahuM to emane keLavavAnI jarUra ja nathI. nArIe mAtra eTaluM ja jovAnuM che ke Adhunika vicAro enI sahaja prakRtine khalela na pahoMcADe. yAda Ave peluM gadya-kAvyaprakRtidatta adhikArone uvekhyA vagara gamatuM kAma karavAthI huM thoDI gulAmaDI banI javAnI chuM? pati sAthenA haryA-bharyA saMsArane adhikAronI kheMcatANamAM vikheravo nathI. huM nArI nakhazikha nArI." mArI vhAlI, evI cenala. evI siriyala..evI buka..

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WIFEHOOD evI sahelI..evo Dresa..evo vicAra... je tArI bhItaranI A 'nArI'ne khatama karI de enAthI haMmezA dUra ja raheje. jyAM jyAM bhItaranI nArInuM mRtyu thAya che. tyAM tyAM supara vumana banavAnI lhAya janma le che. A lhAya ene ghara ane kuTuMbanA kendramAMthI nIkALI de che. pariNAme e vyakti bAhya jagatamAM phaMgoLAI jAya che. tyAM ene zuM maLyuM ? eno javAba ene jIvanabhara maLato nathI. paNa eTalo khyAla ene jarUra AvI jAya che. ke zAMta-prasanna-snehasabhara gRhajIvananI adhiSThAtrI tarIkeno eno je saMtoSa hota, je sukha ane AnaMda hota, ene teNe gumAvI dIdhAM che. beTA, levaDa-devaDanuM gaNita saMbaMdhonA saundaryane naSTa karI de che. adhikArano vicAra suddhA premamAM bAdhaka hoya che. kadAca tane khabara haze. prAcIna samayamAM amuka khAsa samAjamAM satI thavAnI prathA hatI. 263

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264 lava yu DoTara patinuM mRtyu thAya tyAre patnI potAnI icchAthI patinI sAthe jIvatI baLI maratI. e prathA sArI hatI ke kharAba, enI vAta mAre nathI karavI, huM to tane e kahevA mAguM chuM. ke wifehood mAM keTalI hadano abheda AtmasAt thaI gayo hoya tyAre A vastu zakya bane ! AvI ghaTanAne jonArAoe lakhyuM che ke jIvatI baLI rahelI e nArInA caherAnI rekhA paNa badalAtI na hoya eTalI e svastha hoya. enI e prasannatAne jonArA loko stabdha banI jatAM. vizvAsa ane vaphAdArInAM A pavitra saMbaMdhane hajAro loko natamastake vaMdI rahetAM. Aje paNa bhAratamAM Thera Thera satI mAtAnA pALiyA ane satImAnA maMdiro che. jeo samarpaNanA e kALajayI saMgItane relAvI rahyA che. eka spaSTatA karI lauM mArI dIkarI, pati pAchaLa jIvatA baLI maravuM joIe evuM huM nathI mAnato. eTale tuM koI gerasamaja na karatI. A vAto to abhedanI e asmitAnA saMdarbhamAM kahI che. My dear, lagnano artha che

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WIFEHOOD 265 ekamekamAM bhaLI javAnI ghaTanA. uMdara ke vAMdAne joIne paNa cIsa paDI uThatI gabharu nArI saLagatI citAmAM javALAonI vacce pUrNa svasthatA ane pUrNa prasannatA sAthe jIvate jIva baLI zake emAM abhedanI asmitA sivAya bIjuM koI ja rahasya nathI. mArI vahAlI, ApaNe tyAM "mA'no sneha sarvotkRSTa kahevAya che. paNa "satInI A ghaTanA jonArA kavioe evA kAvyo banAvyA che ke samarpita prema e kharekhara adbhuta tattva che. janma ApanArI mA phakta raDI le che. ne patnI pati pAchaLa jIvate jIva baLI mare che." beTA, thoDA nIcA namavAmAM je nArIno ghamaMDa ghavAya che e nArI original wifehood ne samajI ja nathI. potAno rasto zodhIne cAlatI pakaDanAra strIne khabara ja nathI ke eka patnIne potAno rasto ja hoto nathI.

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266 lava yu DoTara prema vahAM duvidhA nahIM re... mArI vahAlI, je nArI chUTAcheDA letI hoya che. enA hakIkatamAM lagna ja thayA hotA nathI. phorenamAM Aje paNa evA mereja thAya che, jemAM mereja pahelAM evA lekhita karAra karavAmAM Ave che. ke "jo chUTAcheDA thAya to patie patnIne ATalA DaoNlarsa ApavA." hasavuM Ave che ne beTA? zuM kahIza tuM AvA lagnane ? kevo haze emAM pati-patnIno parasparano prema ? kevo haze emano ghara-saMsAra ? kevA haze emanA saMtAno? I mean sanAtha ke anAtha ? gAmaDAnI galImAMthI eka jyotiSI pasAra thaI rahyA che. eka gharamAM emanI najara paDI. garIbAI che. bhAMgyuM jhUMpaDuM che. pati mAMdalo che. khATale paDyo paDyo khAMsI khAI rahyo che. patnI kaMIka gharakAma karI rahI che. jyotiSIe kahyuM,

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WIFEHOOD 'lAva buna, tAro hAtha joi dauM.' nIcI najare e nArIe javAba Apyo. "hAtha jovo hoya to emano joI do.' jyotiSInA manamAM je ghoLAtuM hatuM. e hoThe AvI gayuM... "enuM bhaviSya to eno dedAra ja kahe che, tAro hAtha lAva, tAruM bhAvi joI dauM.' e strIe vaLatI ja paLe javAba Apyo, "je samaye amAro hastameLApa thayo hato ne ? e ja samaye mArA hAthanI badhI ja rekhAo emanI rekhAomAM bhaLI gaI hatI. have to je emanuM bhaviSya e ja mAruM bhaviSya. jovo hoya to emano hAtha juo. mAro hAtha jovAno koI ja artha nathI.'' This is India my daughter, This is the cause why I love India so much. bhAratane maraNatola phaTakAo ghaNAM paDI rahyA che, paNa chatAM Still it's living. badhe nahIM to ghaNI jagyAe. mArI vahAlI, eka strIno eksIDenTa thaI gayo. 267

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268 lava yu DoTara haoNspiTalamAM e eDamITa thaI. TrITamenTa cAlu thaI. e bhAnamAM AvI tyAre badhAMne khyAla Avyo ke enA mAthAmAM thayelI ijAne kAraNe enI smRti pUrepUrI jatI rahI che. roja eno pati enuM jamavAnuM Tiphina laIne Avato. oNphisa TAIma sivAya to pati hAjara hoya ja. paNa oNphisa TAIme paNa roja e jAte Tiphina laIne Ave. e joIne narsane bahu Azcarya thatuM. eka divasa eNe pUchI ja lIdhuM, "tame koI mANasane kema nathI mokalI detA ? Ama paNa tamArI Wife nI Memory to jatI ja rahI che. Tiphina tame lAvo ke mANasa lAve enA mATe to equal ja che ne ?'' e patie javAba Apyo. "enI smRti jatI rahI che. eTale e mane enA pati tarIke na oLakhI zake, e sAcuM paNa mArI to smRti che ja ne, ke e mArI patnI che." My dear, westurn culture Hi pati ke patnI

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WIFEHOOD e zarIranI bhUkha saMtoSavAnuM eka sAdhana hoya che. comodity hoya, job hoya ke marriage hoya, use & throw culture tyAM vyApaka che. bhAratamAM tame 'cho'-nuM Importance che. pazcimamAM tame 'upayogI cho'nuM Importance che. nakAmI vyaktine tyAM eka ja second mAM pheMkI devAmAM Ave che. We have to decide my daughter, where we have to go ? To east or to west ? My dear, The essense of my knoledge says East or West India is the best. ravizaMkara mahArAja gujarAtanA eka gAmaDAmAM gayA hatAM. eka nAnakaDA gharamAM temaNe praveza karyo. oDa jAtinA pati-patnI e gharamAM rahetA hatAM. koI akasmAtmAM patnInA baMne paga DhIMcaNathI kapAI gayA hatAM. ravizaMkara mahArAje temane khabara-aMtara pUchyAM. patnI kahe, "mArI A sthitimAM ya mArA patie mane kazuM ja ochuM AvavI dIdhuM nathI. 269

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27) lava yu DoTara mane jAtrA karavAnI bhAvanA thaI to mane emanA khabhe besADIne cAra dhAmanI jAtrA karAvI che." ravizaMkara mahArAjanI AMkhomAM jhaLahaLiyAM AvI gayA. emaNe patinI sAme joyuM, to e kahe, "zuM huM ja enI sevA karuM chuM? e mAruM kAMI nathI karatI? A mIThAM roTalA banAve che. mArI pathArI karI Ape che, kUve jaIne mArA kapaDAM ya dhoI de che. ene paga nathI enI koI khoTa eNe paDavA dIdhI nathI." bhAratanuM A madhura dAMpatya joIne mahArAjanI AMkhomAMthI rItasara AMsu vahI gayAM. mArI vhAlI, Aje ApaNane enI bisenTa, jaoNna oNpha Arka ke phlorensa nAiTIMgelanuM eTrekzana thAya che. paNa hakIkatamAM ApaNe anupamA, aMjanA, sonala, madAlasA, sItAjI ane mayaNA mATe gaurava levuM joIe. strItvanuM aizvarya emanAmAM soLe kaLAe khIlI uTheluM. wifehoodnI teo jIvaMta pratimAo hatI.

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WIFEHOOD mArI vhAlI, aMgrejoe potAnA zAsanakALamAM ApaNA dezane khUba khUba lUMTyo. eka cokkasa samayamaryAdAmAM phakata baMgALamAMthI temaNe 15,000 abaja pAunDa jeTalA mUlyanI lUMTa karI hatI. Imagine my daughter, emanA kula zAsanakALamAM AkhA dezamAMthI emaNe keTalI lUMTa karI haze ! paNa beTA, hajI paNa jo ApaNe ApaNI saMskRtine ane ApaNA saMskArone sAcavI zakIe, to ApaNe kazuM ja gumAvyuM nathI. ApaNI kharI saMpatti to A ja che. We were talking about management draupadi. draupadIe satyabhAmAne je vAta kahI e mAtra 'vAta' na hatI. draupadIe potAnA jIvanamAM enuM AcaraNa karIne batAveluM. mahAbhAratanI eka ghaTanA che. vanavAsa daramiyAna arjuna indra pAsethI zastravidyA levA mATe prasthAna kare che. emane vidAya ApatI vakhate draupadI kahe che - "he mahAbAhu dhanaMjaya ! ApanA janma samaye mAtA kuMtIe ApanI pAsethI je apekSAo rAkhI hoya, 271

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272 lava yu DoTara emanI e badhI ja apekSAone Apa pUrI karo. A uparAMta ApanA manamAM paNa je kaMI manoratho hoya. te badhAM pUrNa thAya evI mArI maMgalakAmanA che." Mark my dear, draupadI potAnI koI ja icchAnI koI ja vAta karatI nathI. pati potAnI mAtAnI apekSAo pUrNa kare ane potAnI manokAmanAone pUrI kare emAM draupadInuM badhuM ja sukha samAI jAya che. Ane kahevAya ekamekamAM bhaLI javAnI ghaTanA. AnuM nAma wifehood. nIti-zatakamAM A ja vAta karI che - sartane khuza kare pitu te ja putra, te patnI je hita cahe patinuM pavitra; te mitra Apada-sukhe sarakho rahe je, che puNyazALI jagamAM traNa meLave je. (60) zrIkRSNanI bhAvanA hatI ke yuddha na thAya, e mATe emaNe dhRtarASTra ane duryodhana sAthe vATAghATo karI, paNa e vATAghATo niSphaLa gaI. yuddhanA bhaNakArA vAgavA lAgyA. hastinApurathI vidAya letA pahelA

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zrIkRSNa kuMtI pAse AvyA. badhI vAta karI ane pUchyuM, WIFEHOOD "ApanA putrone koI saMdeza Apavo che ?' kuMtIe je javAba Apyo te Aje paNa mahAbhAratanA udyogaparvanA 137mA adhyAyanA vIzamA zlokamAM aMkita che - "he putro ! tame sahu draupadI je kahe tenI upara pUratuM dhyAna Apajo ane enI je kAMI icchA hoya, e pramANe karajo.'' te patnI je hita cahe patinuM pavitra. kuMtIne khabara hatI ke draupadI kharA arthamAM patnI che. pUrNa patnI. putronI sauthI nAjuka paLomAM kuMtI emane je saMdeza Ape che. temAM draupadInuM complete wifehood jhaLakI uThe che. enA abhedano A pratibhAva hato. jo ke ene pratibhAvanI koI ja apekSA na hatI. abhedamAM kadI apekSA hotI ja nathI. lakSmaNajInI patnI urmilA. eka vAra e dhyAnamAM beThI hatI. 273

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274 lava yu DoTara koI devatA enI samakSa pragaTa thayA. kaMIka varadAna mAMgavA kahyuM. urmilAne kazuM ja joItuM nathI. devatAno Agraha vadhato jAya che. chevaTe urmilA eka anokhuM varadAna mAMge che. jaMgalamAM mArA pati emanA moTAbhAInI sevA karatAM karatAM mane yAda na karI bese evuM karajo' patine anukULa thavA mATe urmilAe vanavAsamAM sAthe javAno Agraha na rAkhyo e to hajI kadAca samajAya che. paNa patine anukULa thavAnI ATalI parAkASThAnI vRtti...!!! kadAca eka patnI ja ene samajI zake. AnuM nAma abheda. strIne lakSmI kahevAya che. te AvA guNonA kAraNe ja. dakSasmRtimAM kahyuM che - anuvakUnA vaivIvuI, je anukULa hoya, nirdoSa vANI dharAvatI hoya, rakSA sAthvI pativratA kuzaLa hoya, satI hoya ane pativratA hoya, ebhireva guNairyuktA evA guNovALI strI lakSmI ja che strI zrIrava ra saMzaya: che emAM koI ja zaMkA nathI. || 4-1ra //

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WIFEHOOD 275 bhAratanA pUrva pradhAnamaMtrI lAla bahAdura zAstrI. eka vAra patrakAroe emano inTaravyu lIdho. emAM eka prazna e pUchavAmAM Avyo ke tame tamArI kArakirdIno yaza kone Apo cho?' zAstrIjIe javAba Apyo - 'mArI patnI lalitAne." tane kadAca khyAla nahIM hoya beTA, lalitAdevI kadI zAstrIjInI oNphisamAM na'tA AvatA. kadI cUMTaNI pracAra na'tA karatAM. zAstrIjI cAhata to emane koI maMtrInuM pada apAvI zakata paNa temaNe tevuM ya na'tuM karyuM. lalitAdevI nirakSara hatAM. emane gAmaThI hiMdI ja AvaDatuM hatuM. Ama chatAM svataMtra bhAratanA sarvazreSTha pradhAnamaMtrIe potAno saMpUrNa yaza emane ApI dIdho hato. kAraNa ke nirakSara kahevAtI e mahilAe Adarza patnInI bhUmikAne zreSTha rIte adA karIne emane pArivArika javAbadArIothI mukta karI dIdhA hatAM. patnIe potAnuM je hatuM e patine samarpita karI dIdhuM. patie potAnuM je hatuM e patnIne samarpita karI dIdhuM.

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276 lava yu DoTara Aje paNa ApaNA dezamAM Thera Thera AvA udAharaNo jovA maLe che ja. je patnI evuM vicAre ke huM to samarpaNa karI dauM, paNa pachI mane eno badalo nahIM maLe to ? e kharA arthamAM patnI ja nathI. patnIno artha ja samarpaNa che. jyAM badalAnI thoDI paNa AzA hoya tyAM samarpaNa nathI, sodo che. ziSya guru pAse eka prazna laIne Ave che - "Ape to kahyuM hatuM, ke je pratiSThAno tyAga kare - enAthI dUra bhAge enI pAchaLa pratiSThA doDatI Ave. huM 25 varSathI pratiSThAthI dUra bhAguM chuM. paNa hajI sudhI mane pratiSThA maLI nathI. AvuM kema thayuM?" guru smita karIne ziSyanI sAme joI rahyA. ane premapUrvaka bolyA, "vatsa, tuM pratiSThAthI dUra bhAge che e vAta sAcI. paNa tArI najara haMmezA e jovAmAM lAgI hoya che

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WIFEHOOD ke pratiSThA pAchaLa Ave che ke nahIM.'' ziSyane potAnI bhUla samajAI ke hakIkatamAM e pratiSThAthI dUra bhAgyo ja na hato. ene pratiSThA na maLI enAthI gurunI vAta akSaraza : sAcI ja paDI hatI. mArI vhAlI sodA ane badalAnI durgaMdha ApaNA svArpaNa ane samarpaNane kharaDI na nAMkhe e khUba ja jarUrI che. sAmI vyakti ApaNo geralAbha na uThAvI jAya, e vadhu na kamAI jAya, ApaNane nukazAna na thaI jAya, e mATe sodo karavAmAM Avato hoya che. paNa jyAre sAmI vyakti paNa ApaNe pote ja hoIe tyAre zuM ? abhedamAM kazuM gumAvavAnuM nathI beTA, AmAM to tame jeTalA lUMTAo eTalI ja kamANI che. AjanI nArIne sAyansamAM eDamizana levAnI jeTalI jarUra che enA karatAM lAkha gaNI jarUra A abheda-sAyansa samajavAnI che. 277

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208 lava yu DoTara kAraNa ke Ane samajyA vinA enuM jIvana sukhI thAya evI koI ja zakyatA nathI. chagananI patnIe eka vAra chagana upara kesa karyo. patnInI dhAradAra dalIloe korTamAM chagananA chotarAM uDAvI dIdhAM. chagananI hAra thaI. jaje chaganane oNrDara karyo, 'tamAre tamAro aDadho pagAra tamArI patnIne Apavo paDaze.' A sAMbhaLIne chagana to khuzakhuzAla thaIne nAcavA ja lAgyo. lokoe ene kAraNa pUchyuM to e kahe, 'have mane aDadho pagAra to maLaze. pahelA to patnI ja pUro pagAra laI letI hatI.' beTA. jIvanavanamAM mAyAvI suvarNamRga hoya che. eka vAtano haMmezA khyAla rAkhavo ke ApaNe jene jIvanasAthI rUpe cAhIe. enI ane ApaNI vacce suvarNa na AvI jAya. suvarNamRga to vyartha caLakATa che mArI vhAlI, e meLavavA jatAM sAcuM suvarNa hAthamAMthI sarI jatuM hoya che.

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WIFEHOOD 279 suvarNamRganI kathA haMmezA dardanAka rahI che, ene pAmavA jatAM lakSmaNarekhA oLaMgavI paDe che. ane jIvanamAMthI sukha ane AnaMda gumAvavA paDe che. paisA ane paisAthI maLatI sagavaDo pAchaLa doDavuM e khUba jokhama bhareluM che. sagavaDo jema jema Adata bane tema tema mANasa mazIna banato jAya che. vadhu-nI e jhaMkhanA ene ekalatAmAM laI jAya che. Western countriesmAM A ja kAraNathI loko DiprezananA ane DragsanA gulAma banI gayA che. My dear, sagavaDa ApatI e badhI ja vastuo vinA paNa cAlaze. paisA nahIM hoya to ya cAlaze. paNa lAgaNI vinA, hUMpha vinA ane parivAranA prema vinA to nahIM ja cAle. hakIkata jayAre A ja che tyAre haka ane adhikAra mATe laDavAnI vAta saMpatti ke sAdhano mATe kaMkAsa karavAnI vAta sAva ja vAhiyAta banI jAya che. bhAratIya nArInuM samagra patnItva A eka ja vAkyamAM samAI gayuM che. kulADganAnAM patireva deva : /

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280 lava yu DoTara khAnadAna nArIo mATe to emanA pati e ja deva che. beTA, Aja paNa ApaNe tyAM A wifehood ekadama practical ane Active che. vikRtionI jhapaTamAM AvI gayelAone bAda karIe, to Aje paNa A dezanI nArIo patine "tuM" kahIne bolAvatI nathI. pati jarA dUra hoya ane emanuM dhyAna doravAnI jarUra hoya to e nArI emanA saMtAnanA nAme bUma mAraze, ane je vAta kahevAnI hoya e karI leze. Point bahu ja nAno che. paNa emAM bhAratIya saphaLa lagnajIvananA himAlaya jeTalA rahasyo samAyelA che. nArI AmAM nArI ja rahe che. puruSa AmAM puruSa ja rahe che. ane pariNAme eka prasanna dAMpatyane khIlavAno avasara prApta thaI jAya che. mArI vhAlI, ghaNAno prazna e hoya che.

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WIFEHOOD 281 ke ame to A svArpaNa, samarpaNa, wifehood badhuM ja karIe paNa sAme evI pAtratA na hoya to? khoTI jagyAe vadhu paDato vinaya na thaI jAya ? ane enA kAraNe e ApaNane dabAve ane anyAya kare evuM na thaI jAya? to beTA, Ano javAba bahu saraLa che, khoTA pAtra sAthe baMdhAvuM ja nahIM. Engagement-il pointhi vaDIlo dvArA pasaMdagInI je vAta karI. temAM A savAlano javAba AvI ja jAya che. pahelAM paisA ke rUpanA khoTA mApadaMDone laIne cAlavuM ne pachI e pAtra samarpaNane lAyaka ja nathI ema kahevuM e hAthe karIne duHkhI thavAno rasto che. vaDIloe sakhatapaNe saMskAro ane saguNono ja Agraha rAkhavo ane evuM ja pAtra pasaMda karavuM e ja saMtAnonA jIvanabharanA sukhonuM rijharvezana che. mArI vhAlI, duniyAno A juno rivAja che. je je vastunI mAMga thAya, eno pUravaTho thaze ja.

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282 lava yu DoTara Demand creats production. rUpa ane paisAnI mAMga haze to loko enI pAchaLa paDaze ane saMskAro ane sadguNonI mAMga haze to ene pAmavA mATe paNa paDApaDI thaze. I Suggest you again tame sagAI karo te pahelA. A engejamenTa gAiDa jo vyApaka banI jAya to AkhA samAjanI zakala badalAI jAya. alabatta ApaNuM potAnuM bhaviSya sudhAravuM e to ApaNA hAthamAM ja che. eka sarasa saMskRta graMtha che - zrIcandrakevalicaritra. emAM wifehood nA 6 factors batAvyA che (1) abhyutthAnamupAgate gurupatau (2) tanmASaLe namratA ( 3 ) tatvAvapittavRtti: ( 4 ) AsanavidhistasyopacArya: svayam / (5) supte tatra zayIta ( 6 ) tatprathamato mugve zayyApi, proa : putri ! nivevitA : kulavadhU-siddhAntadharmA amI - - vaDIlo ke pati Ave tyAre UbhA thavuM. - temanI sAthe namratAthI vAta karavI. - ApaNI najara temanA paga upara rAkhavI. ApaNe svayaM temane besavAnI vyavasthA karavI. - teo sUI jAya pachI sUvuM. - temanI pahelA pathArI choDI devI. dIkarI ! khAnadAna nArInA A saiddhAntika svadharmo che.

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WIFEHOOD 283 mArI vahAlI, patnInuM bhAvasauMdarya kevuM hoya. enuM eka adbhuta zabdacitra rAmAyaNamAM che. patha pafthavapUmi : sArAM pRcchImAnA.... jaMgalamAM keDI che. keDI parathI zrIrAma, sItAjI ane lakSmaNajI pasAra thaI rahyA che. bIjA paNa keTalAMka musApharo sAthe thaI gayA che. temanI patnIo dhImethI sItAjInI najIka Ave che. ane Adara sAthe pUche che... kuvalayadalanIlaH ko'yamArye ! taveti ? he pUjyA ! A je AgaLa jAya che... jemanA zarIranI kAMti nIlakamaLanI pAMkhaDIo jevI che e ApanA zuM thAya? smitavikasitagaNDaM vIDavibhrAntanetraM, mukhamavanamayantI spaSTamAcaSTa sItA // A prazna sAMbhaLatAnI sAthe ja sItAjInA gAla smitathI vikasita thaI gayA, AMkhomAM zarama ubharAI AvI ane mAthuM nIce namI gayuM. A rIte sItAjIe spaSTa javAba Apyo. My dear, 'He is my husband' A eka cheDo che ne sItAjIno javAba e bIjo cheDo che.

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284 lava yu DoTara baMne bAjunI 'pati'nI vibhAvanAmAM AsamAna-jamInano pharaka che. eka bAju ramakhANo sudhInI karuNatA che ane bIjI bAju prasanna ane madhura dAMpatya che. beTA, nArIe nArI banIne kazuM ja gumAvavAnuM nathI. balke jItI javAnuM che. sItAjInA samarpaNe emanI zrIrAma karatAM paNa vadhu pUjanIya banAvI dIdhAM e ApaNe sahu joI ja rahyA chIe. 'sItA-rAma' - A rIte bhagavAnanI ya AgaLa emanuM nAma AvI gayuM emAM Reason A ja hatuM. Perfect wifehood. beTA, A SubjectnI eka chellI vAta. pati jyAre bahAragAma hoya tyAre patnIe amuka vastuo na karavI joIe. jema ke yAjJavalkya smRtimAM kahyuM che krIDAM zarIrasaMskAraM, samAjotsavadarzanam / hAsya pavRddhe yAnaM, tyanet proSitamatRA // -4 // ramata-gamata, zarIranuM samArakAma (meka-apa vagere), samAjanA utsavonuM darzana, hAsya, bIjAnA ghare javuM,

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WIFEHOOD 285 - ATalI vastuo jenA pati bahAragAma gayA hoya te nArIe na karavI joIe. A vidhAnanI pAchaLa rahelI vaijJAnikatA samajavA jevI che. pati jyAre dUra che. e samaye jo nArI A mujaba varte to enA potAnA mananI pavitratA paNa jaLavAI rahe. ane koInuM mana enA para na bagaDe. A baMne lAbhathI e nArInuM zIlapAlana saraLa thaI jAya : trIjo lAbha e paNa che. ke patinI gerahAjarImAM paNa banI-ThanIne pharatI strI joIne koIne paNa tenA cAritramAM zaMkA paDI zake, uparokta saMyamapAlanathI evI badanAmImAMthI paNa e bacI zake. mArI vhAlI, eka khAnadAna nArInuM sauMdarya, eno zaNagAra e badhuM ja enA patinA mATe hoya che. Make-up nA PointmAM ApaNe A vAta joI ja gayA chIe. mATe ja jayAre naLano viyoga thayo. tyAre damayaMtIe AvI ja pratijJA lIdhI hatI. vikRtI raktavAsAMsi, tAmbUlaM ca vilepanam / bhUSAM ca na gRhISyAmi, nalasya milanAvadheH //

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286 lava yu DoTara jayAM sudhI naLanuM milana nahIM thAya tyAM sudhI huM dUdha, dahIM, ghI, tela, goLa ane taLelI vastuo nahIM khAuM, raMgIna kapaDAM nahIM paheruM. pAna nahIM khAuM, meka-apa nahIM karuM ane alaMkAro nahIM paheruM. hitazikSA-chatrIzImAM A ja vAta kahI che. nija bharatAra gayo dezAvara tava zaNagAra na dharIejI, jamavA nAti vacce nava jaIe durjana dekhI DarIejI. (DarIe = enAthI khAsa dUra ja rahIe.) dalapatta piMgalanA zabdo che. zazi ! zA zaNagAra have sajavA? guNavaMta pati paradeza gayA. mArI vhAlI, khAnadAna nArInI A evI vizeSatA che jenAthI enA patino enA parano prema anekagaNo thaI jAya che. eka nArI mATe enA patinA premanA guNAkArono sIdho artha enA sukhanA guNAkAro ja che.

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WIFEHOOD 287 "to pachI amArA sukhanuM zuM ?' evo prazna jo Adhunika nArI kare, to eno javAba AmAM ja AvI jAya che. My dear, mAtra AgaLa vadhavAthI cesamAM vijetA banI zakAtuM nathI. keTalIka vAra pAchaLanA be sTepa ApaNane vadhAre AgaLa laI jAya che. jIvananI paNa kaMIka AvI ja vAta che. ApaNA pUrvajo pAse A jIvanavijJAnanI sUkSma mAhitI hatI. emaNe ene prAyogika rIte lAgu paNa kareluM. ane tethI ja teo sukhI hatAM. ghaNI rIte sukhI. I hope, have tuM paNa evI ja thaIza. Love you very much.

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FREEDOM 289 Music teacherat chagananA chokarAne Question karyo. "tane kayAM Instrument no avAja sauthI vadhAre game che?" eNe dhaDu daIne Answer ApI dIdho. "skulamAM chuTTIno Bell vAge te." Every one likes freedom my daughter, But ghaNIvAra AjhAdI e phakta nAmanI AjhAdI banI jAya che. eka zeTha jayAre nokarane chuTTI ApI de, tyAre e nokara khuza nathI thato, kAraNa ke chuTTIno artha e barAbara samaje che. mArI vhAlI, svataMtratAno uddezya paNa hakIkatamAM to sukhanA uddezyane pUro karavA mATe hoya che. je svataMtratA mANasane sukhathI dUra laI jAya. evI svataMtratAnuM koI ja mUlya rahetuM nathI. beTA, Aje jeno khUba ja menia cAlyo che e nArI-svAtaMtryanI bAbatamAM paNa kaMIka AvuM ja banyuM che.

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290 lava yu DoTara svaira vihArane kAraNe ApaNI prAcInatama vyavasthAnA moMghA saMskAronuM hanana thayuM che. jemAM Akhare zoSaNa strInuM ja thAya che. svataMtratAnA nAme svacchaMdatA AcaranAra strI chevaTe to du:khI du:khI ja thAya che. AjanI nArIne ghumaTAmAM baMdhana lAgyuM, eNe ghumaTo phagAvI dIdho. paNa e ghumaTo to enI surakSA hatI, e enA vikAsamAM avarodhaka na hato. paNa enA para najara bagADanArAo mATe avarodhaka hato. jema jema ghumaTAo ghaTatA gayA. tema tema nArI vadhu ne vadhu parezAna thatI gaI. enI satAmaNInA AMkaDA bhayajanaka rIte vadhatA gayA ane Aje sthiti e AvI che, ke gharanI bahAra nIkaLelI strI dararoja thoDI thoDI vadhu asalAmata thatI jAya che. roja sUraja uge enI pahelA hajAro nArI koI narAdhamonA hAthe cUMthAI gaI hoya che. This is the cost of the freedom. mArI vhAlI, inDipenDensa na ja hovuM joIe evuM nathI.

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291 FREEDOM phakta eno mana phAvato artha na karavo joIe. svataMtratAno artha che. sva"ne niyaMtrita karavAnI zakti. bIjAnA kAbunI jarUra na rahe ane pote potAne kAbumAM rAkhe e svataMtratA. ApaNI paraMparAnI nArI kharA arthamAM svataMtra hatI. kAraNa ke e potAnI maryAdAone barAbara samajatI hatI. ane e rekhAone oLaMgavAno vicAra suddhA karatI na hatI. beTA, lagAma ghoDAne hoya che, gadheDAne nahIM. prakRtimAM je je zreSTha prajAtio che. teo potapotAnI khAsa maryAdAone pALe che. halakI jAtinuM Dhora koInA khetaranI vADa toDIne aMdara ghUsI jAya ane pAkane nukazAna karIne caravA lAge. jyAre khAnadAna jAtinuM pazu potAnI maryAdAne samajIne anuzAsanamAM rahe che. govALiyAo ane kheDUtonA A rojanA anubhavanI vAta che. have

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292 lava yu DoTara ApaNI khAnadAnInuM jatana karavuM ke ene phagAvI devI e ApaNe nakkI karavAnuM che. My dear, prakRtinA dareka tattva tyAM sudhI ke caMdra, sUrya ane tArA paNa koI ne koI 'niyama' mujaba cAle che. niyama vinAnuM jIvana e jIvana nathI. beTA, krikeTa, phUTabola, pakaDApakaDI vagere koI paNa ramatamAM cokkasa niyamo hoya che. jemanuM pAlana karyA vagara te te 2mata ramavI azakya banI jAya che. jo ramatamAM paNa niyamanI jarUra hoya. to jIvananI zuM vAta karavI ? mArI vhAlI, AjanI duniyA jene Freedom kahe che. e strI ke puruSa baMne mATe jokhamI che. emAM paNa strI mATe vadhAre jokhamI che. kAraNa ke enAmAM raheluM sahaja saundarya ane enAmAM rahelI komaLatA

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FREEDOM 293 A benA kAraNe e kahevAtI svataMtratA ene pIMkhI nAkhe evI pUre pUrI zakyatA che. ApaNI samAjavyavasthAmAM nArIne utkRSTa sammAna ApavAmAM AvyuM che. ane enI A paristhitino vicAra karIne ja enI surakSA sahaja thaI jAya evI goThavaNa karavAmAM AvI che. manusmRtimAM kahyuM che - pitA rakSati kaumAre, kaumAryamAM pitA rakSA kare, bhartA rakSati yauvane / pati yauvanamAM rakSA kare, rakSanti sthAvire putrA, ane putra ghaDapaNamAM rakSA kare. na strI svAtinyamati strI mATe svataMtratA ucita nathI. che 2-3 bhAratanI A sajjaDa strI-surakSAthI vaMcita thaIne Aje amerikA jevA dezonI strIo badhI ja rIte trAhimAma pokArI gaI che. kaumAryamAM enuM chatra banI rahenAra pitA nathI. yauvanamAM enI paDakhe UbhA rahenAra patino patto nathI ne enuM ghaDapaNa Ave e pahelA to eno dIkaro kyArano ya alaga thaI gayo hoya che. sAva ja alaga. badhI rIte alaga.

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294 lava yu DoTara mArI vhAlI, paraMparAnA hArdane samajyA vinA lAbha-nukazAnano vicAra karyA vinA relIo kADhavI, svataMtratAnA nArA lagADavA ane manusmRtinI nakalo bALavI e khUba ja saheluM che. agharuM ane kaThina to che paraMparAne phagAvavAnA pariNAmono sAmano karavo. Aje lAkho nArIo A kaThinAIne bhogavI rahI che. beTA, paraMparAe evuM kahyuM ja nathI ke nArIe pitA vagerenA paga nIce kacaDAtA rahevuM ke emanA gulAma rahevuM. jene thoDuM paNa saMskRta AvaDatuM hoya e samajI zakaze ke A zloka dvArA ema ja kahevAyuM che ke judI judI vaya-avasthAmAM strInuM rakSaNa karavAnI saMpUrNa javAbadArI enA pitA, pati ane putranI che. kAraNa ke strI prakRti svayaM svasurakSA karI zake e zakya nathI. enI svataMtratA - enuM ekalA hovuM, chuTTA hovuM, surakSA vinA hovuM, niyama vinA - maryAdA vinA hovuM e atyaMta jokhamI hovAthI ucita nathI.

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FREEDOM 295 na strIH svAtantryamarhati / vAstavikatA sUraja jevI spaSTa che. TanabaMdha dhULa uDADI do to ya sUraja e sUraja ja che. vAstavikatA e vAstavikatA ja che. Western culture nA aMdha-anusaraNamAM A vAstavikatAnI upekSA karavI e potAnI jAte ja potAnA paga upara kuhADo mAravA jevuM che. beTA, kUtarAne mAratA pahelA ene haDakAyo jAhera karavo paDe che. e rIte bhAratIya mULabhUta saMskRtine khatama karavA mATe enA evA doSonA DhaMDhero pITAyA je hakIkatamAM emAM hatA ja nahIM. bhAratIya saMskRtie nArIne je kharA arthanuM gaurava ApyuM che, eka surakSAsabhara jIvana jIvavAnI je vyavasthA ApI che, enI AkhI duniyAmAM joDa maLe tema nathI. mArI vahAlI, jo ApaNI paraMparA nArIne thoDI paNa tiraskAradRSTithI ke hInadRSTithI jotI hota

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296 lava yu DoTara to nArI mATe je jabaradasta gauravaprada vidhAno ApaNI paraMparAmAM jovA maLe che, te na ja maLatA hota. paraMparAnA virodhaka tattvone khabara nahIM hoya. ke A ja manusmRtie nArI-sammAnanI kevI udAtta garimA dAkhavI che ! jema ke yatra nAryastu pUjyante ramante tatra devatA: / yatraitAstu na pUjyante sastitrAtA: yiA // rU-6|| zocanti jAmayo yatra vinazyatyAzu tatkulam / na zocanti tu yatraitA vate taddhi sarvanA // rU-17 // jAmayo yAni gehAni zapantyapratipUjitAH / tAni kRtyAhatAnIva vinazyanti samantataH // rU-1 // tasmAdetAH sadA pUjyA bhUSaNAcchAdanAzanaiH / bhUtikAmairnarairnityaM, sArepUtsaveSu ca // rU-1 // jyAM nArInuM sammAna thAya che tyAM devatAo prasanna thAya che. jyAM nArInuM sammAna nathI thatuM tyAM badhI kriyAo niSphaLa thAya che. jyAM kanyAo zoka kare che te kuLa jaldIthI vinAza pAme che. jyAM kanyAo zoka nathI karatI te kuLa haMmezA vRddhi pAme che. je gharamAM kanyAnuM sammAna nathI thatuM. tethI kanyAo je gharane zApa Ape che. te gharane jANe rAkSasI bharakhI gaI hoya, tema te ghara badhI rIte nAza pAme che. mATe je manuSyone samRddhinI icchA hoya, temaNe satkAromAM ane utsavomAM AbhUSaNa, vastra ane bhojana ApavA dvArA haMmezA nArInuM sammAna karavuM joIe.

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FREEDOM 297 mahAbhAratanA udyogaparvamAM kahyuM che - pUjanIyA mahAbhAgAH strIo pUjanIya che. mahAbhAgyavAna che. puNyAzca gRhadIptayaH / pavitra che. gharano prakAza che. striyaH zriyo gRhasyoktA- svaye gharanI lakSmI che. tasmAn razya vizeSatA e rU-12 / mATe temanuM khAsa rakSaNa karavuM joIe. skaMdapurANanA brahmakhaMDamAM kahyuM che - bhAryA mUlaM gRhasthasya mAryA mUrta suvarya ra aa patnI e gRhasthanuM mULa che. patnI e sukhanuM mULa che. mArI vahAlI, gRhiNI gRhamucyate AvuM kahIne ApaNI paraMparAe parivAramAM sarvocca sthAna nArIne ApyuM che. rAdhAkRSNa...sItArAma...umAmaheza... lakSmInArAyaNa..ardhanArIzvara... A zabdomAM sAgara karatAMya vadhu UMDuM nArIsammAna samAyeluM che. nArI tuM nArAyaNI' jevuM vAkya hoya je kara jhulAve pAraNuM te jagata para zAsana kare." - AvI kAvyapaMkti hoya, ApaNI paraMparAe nArIne pUrNa AdaranI dRSTie joI che.

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298 lava yu DoTara phakta nArInI surakSAnI dRSTie enI zarIrasaMracanA ane svabhAvanI dRSTie paraMparAe enA sukhI jIvana mATe jarUrI je maryAdAono upahAra Apyo ene baMdhana ke julamamAM khatavI paraMparAne ja khatama karI devAno prayAsa e vAstavamAM nArIne ja khatama karI devAno prayAsa che. mArI vhAlI, kama se kama tArI bAbatamAM A prayAsane kadI saphaLa thavA na detI. Let real freedom make you happy. Love you very much.

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300 lava yu DoTara samAnatA. samovaDiyApaNuM. samakakSatA. jyAre A zabdone strI-puruSanI tulanAmAM prayojavAmAM Ave, tyAre A zabdo khUba jaTila banI jAya che. jaTila eTalA mATe ke A zabdonI uparachallI AkarSakatA bhalabhalA mANasone bhUlAvAmAM nAkhI de che. My dear, Most of girls of your age have a same question - bhAI rAtanA sADA agiyAra vAgyA sudhI ghare na Ave, to ya ene mammI-pappA kAMI kahetA nathI. ane mane phakta sADA ATha-nava thaI jAya to ya kahevAmAM kAMI bAkI rAkhatA nathI. Avo pakSapAta zA mATe ? amArA baMne mATe samAna niyama kema nahIM ? Here is your answer my daughter, samAna niyama tyAre lAgu karI zakAya. jyAre be vyakti samAna hoya. UMTa ane mAchalI -- A baMne vyakti alaga che.

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EQUALITY samAna nathI. to e baMne mATenA niyama samAna na ja hoI zake. UMTanI Lifestyle jo mAchalI para ThokavAmAM Ave. to mAchalIe taraphaDIne marI javuM paDe. My daughter, zarIramAM paga paNa che ane AMkha paNa che. baMnenuM potapotAnuM kAryakSetra che. potapotAnI khUbIo che. potapotAnuM sthAna che. e bemAMthI ekeyanuM mahattva ochuM nathI. amuka kSetramAM evuM lAge ke puruSa pradhAna che. paNa e zoSaNa nathI. vyavasthA che. je strInA potAnA bhalA mATe ja che. popaTa jo moranA pIMchA bherave ne morane jo maracAM khAvAno zokha thAya to e baMnee du:khI ja thavuM paDe. mArI vhAlI, strI-puruSanI samAnatAnI vAta karanArA ja hakIkatamAM strInuM apamAna karI rahyA che. samAnatAnI temanI paribhASA A ja hoya che. ke strI e puruSanI samakakSa bane. 301

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302 lava yu DoTara A paribhASAmAM ja evo chUpo svIkAra che ke puruSa e strI karatA mahAna che. Can you understand my dear ? to samAnatA mATe jema jema prayAso karavAmAM Ave tema tema vAta pAchI tyAM ja AvIne UbhI rahe che. kharuM tattva to e ja che ke judA judA guNadharmo dharAvatI vyaktio vacce samAna kAryakSetra ane samAna jIvanazailIno Agraha e ja bahu moTI bhUla che. kyAreka AvI samakakSa thavAnI spardhA aprAkRtika dhoraNe halakAInI hariphAI banI jAya che. Aje hajAro koleja kanyAo potAne chokarAnI samakakSa dekhADavA mATe dhUmrapAna ane madyapAna sudhInI nIcI bhUmikAe pahoMcI gaI che. puruSaveSa' paheravAno roga Aje khUba ja vyApaka banato jAya che. tenA mULamAM paNa A ja vAyarasa kAma kare che. samakakSatAnA bhramanuM A puSTikaraNa che. hakIkatamAM koI puruSa strIno veza pahere enA jevuM A ajugatuM che. beTA,

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EQUALITY 303 koI puruSane baMgaDI paherAvavAmAM Ave to e jema enuM apamAna karyuM gaNAya, ema jo strIne paNa puruSa yogya vastu ke kArya ApavAmAM tenuM apamAna karyuM gaNAya to ja kharA arthamAM samAnatA AvI kahevAya. strI hoya ke puruSa darekanI potapotAnI bhUmikA che. puruSanI jema bAIka calAvIne oNphise jaIne rUpiyA raLI lAve e strI mahAna AvI avadhAraNA Indirectly puruSane ja mahAna citarI rahI che. Aje jayAre koI nArIne prazna karavAmAM Ave, ke "tame zuM karo cho ?" tyAre e nArI praznakAranA Azayane barAbara samaje che ke emano prazna vyavasAyika dizAno che. ane jo e nArI koI vyavasAya nahIM karatI hoya. to e thoDI nAnama sAthe javAba Apaze - "kAMI nahIM." to zuM hakIkatamAM e nArI kAMI nathI karatI ? parivAramAM enuM mahAna yogadAna nathI? saMtAnonuM sAttvika ghaDatara karavuM e sarvocca rASTrasevA nathI?

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304 lava yu DoTara ane A parama kartavyane choDIne nArI bIjAno Role bhajavavA jAya, to ja eNe kAMIka karyuM kahevAya ? AMdhaLe beruM kUTAya e AnuM nAma. bIjAno Role karavA javAmAM pratyakSa ke parokSa asaro ke ADaasaro bhogavavI ja paDatI hoya che. eka nArI jyAre 50nI Speed para Bike calAvIne kyAMka pahoMcI jAya che. tyAre enuM Balance barAbara rahyuM, eNe Turns barAbara lIdhAM, eNe koIne aDapheTamAM na lIdhAM, eno Accident na thayo, e paDI na gaI, ATaluM thayuM eno artha e nathI ke e barAbara pahoMcI gaI. barAbara pahoMcI gaI evuM tyAre kahI zakAya. jyAre ene koI ja nukazAna na thAya. e rIte e pahoMcI gaI hoya. paNa hakIkata evI nathI. rastA parathI A rIte saDasaDATa

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EQUALITY Full speed mAM nIkaLI javuM. ene prAgatsya kahevAya. e eka prakAranuM puruSAtana che. nArI AvuM puruSAtana batAve emAM puruSanuM kAMI ochuM nathI thaI jatuM. paNa nArInA potAnAmAM amuka vijAtIya guNadharmo bhaLe che. je enA potAnA guNadharmone khalela pahoMcADe che. pariNAma ? zArIrika ane mAnasika parivartano, dAMpatyajIvananI samasyAo ane pArivArika prazno. This is just one example my daughter, AvI to seMkaDo bAbato che. hajAro samasyAo che. jemanuM mULa 'samakakSatA'nI vibhAvanAmAM che. mArI vhAlI, A eka mAnasika hInatAnI abhivyakti che. jene laIne AjanI nArIe taddana khoTI dizAnI doTa lagAvI che. A avaijJAnika doTamAM eNe meLavavAnuM kazuM ja nathI ane gumAvavAnuM ghaNuM ghaNuM che. sAmAjika dRSTie paNa A ataMdurasta abhigama che. A duHkhano mArga che beTA, 305

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306 sukhI thavuM hoya to eno e ja upAya che lava yu DoTara ke tame je cho, te pUrNa bano. tamArAmAM koInI bheLaseLa na karo. puruSa pUrNa puruSa bane, strI pUrNa strI bane, ene kharA arthanI samAnatA kahI zakAya, bAkI bhramaNA sivAya bIjuM kazuM nathI. mArI vhAlI, svastha pArivArika jIvanamAM strI ane puruSa eka-bIjAnA pratispardhI nathI paNa eka-bIjAnA pUraka che. baMne eka-bIjA vinA adhurAM che. Always remember this truth my daughter, Love you very much.

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308 lava yu DoTara chagana Market mAMthI moTuM Box laI Avyo. dIkarAne bolAvyo ane Box kholIne kahyuM. "jo A huM navo roboTa lAvyo chuM. have khyAla rAkhaje. jo tuM khoTuM bolIza ne, to A roboTa tane lApho mArI deze." dIkaro bolI UThyo, "pappA, tame khoTuM nathI bolatAM?" chagane makkamatAthI javAba Apyo, "tArI uMmare to khoTuM nato ja bolato." roboTe dhADa daIne chaganane lApho lagAvI dIdho. This happens my dear ! dareka mAtA-pitAnI eka icchA hoya che. ke emanuM saMtAna sarvazreSTha bane. sarvaguNasaMpanna bane. enAmAM eka paNa apalakSaNa na hoya. e jIvanamAM khUba AgaLa vadhe. paNa A icchA rnational school i Admit karAvI devAthI ja pUrI thaI jatI nathI. mArI lADalI, saMtAnomAM sArA saMskAro siMcavA mATe

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309 PARENTING jAte joDAvuM paDe che ane ghaNI rIte joDAvuM paDe che. zreSTha saMtAna pAmavA mATe svayaM zreSTha banavuM jarUrI che. je mAtA-pitAnA potAnA jIvanamAM saMskAronI suvAsa na hoya, teo potAnA vartana dvArA saMtAnone kuTevonuM ja zikSaNa ApatA hoya che. pariNAme saMtAnonuM ane temanuM potAnuM bhAvi dukhamaya banI jatuM hoya che. je mA pote ja zemalesa Dresa paheratI hoya, zopiMga ane byuTIpArlaranI zokhIna hoya, TI.vI.ane mobAIlanI baMdhANI hoya, sahanazIlatA, vinaya, viveka vagere sadguNonI bAbatamAM daridra hoya, teNe saMtAna pAsethI koI ja AzA rAkhavAno koI ja artha nathI. mArI vhAlI, pahelA naMbaranI vAta e che ke mA-bApanuM potAnuM jIvana atyaMta sAttvika hovuM joIe. je kAMI paNa asat che. kharAba-gaTuM che. teno temanA jIvanamAM ochAyo paNa na ja hovo joIe.

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310 lava yu DoTara Number 2 temaNe saMtAnonA saMskaraNa mATe pUrato samaya Apavo joIe. Aje mAtA-pitA potAnA yauvananA samayamAM sukha-bhogamAM ane paisA kamAvavAmAM vyasta hovAthI saMtAnone samaya ApI zakatA nathI. pariNAme jyAre DhaLatI uMmare temane saMtAnonI jarUra anubhavAya, tyAre saMtAno temanA hAthamAMthI nIkaLI gayA hoya che. emanA saMtAnonI paNa A ja kathA haze. phakta thoDI vadhu karuNa. A eka viSacakra che beTA, ApaNe icchIe to ene toDI zakIe chIe. ApaNe tyAM eka gIta Famous che. bhUlo bhale bIjuM badhuM mA-bApane bhUlazo nahIM, agaNita che upakAra emanA eha visarazo nahIM. be divasa pahelAM enA jevuM eka bIjuM gIta mArA jovAmAM AvyuM hatuM. bhUlo bhale bIjuM badhuM saMtAnone bhUlazo nahIM, agaNita che pha2jo ApaNI e kadI visarazo nahIM. je mA-bApa

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PARENTING 311 saMtAnane sArI vArtA kahevAne badale cokaleTa-AiskrIma ApI de che. temane bhaviSyamAM Adarane badale upekSA maLe che. raDatA bALakane prema ane hUMpha ApavAne badale TI.vI. sAme besADI devo ke enA hAthamAM mobAIla pakaDAvI devo e sAcA mA-bApanuM lakSaNa nathI. AvuM saMtAna chate mA-bApe anAtha jevuM hoya che. bhaviSyamAM e mA-bApanI sevA kare evI zakyatA nahIMvat che. kAraNa ke kharA arthamAM eNe mA-bApano anubhava ja karyo nathI. TI.vI., mobAIla, AyA, nokara, bebIsITara, skula Ticara, klAsa Ticara, TaTyuzana Ticara - A badhAM kadI paNa mAtA-pitAnuM sthAna na laI zake. jamAnAnA jherathI saMtAna pUre-pUruM bacI jAya, enA saMskAronuM jatana thAya ane enuM mAvajatabharyuM ghaDatara thAya evA prayAso karavA e mAtA-pitAnuM parama kartavya che.

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312 lava yu DoTara A kartavyanuM pAlana jAte ja thaI zake che. sAcA mA-bApa e che jeo saMtAnane jIvananAM ucca dhyeyanI dizAmAM dorI jAya. dIkaro dunyavI DigrI laI le, aDhaLaka paisAmAM ALoTe ke nAnI-moTI prasiddhi meLavI le, enAthI rAjInA reDa thanArA mAtA-pitAonI samaja adhurI hoya che. ghaNA DigrIdharo bekAra rakhaDe che, ghaNA zrImaMto ApaghAta kare che ane ghaNI prasiddha vibhUtio aMgata jIvanamAM khUba du:khI hoya che. mA-bApe devuM karIne lohI-pANI eka karIne je saMtAnone bhaNAvyA hoya, te ja saMtAno jyAre temanuM apamAna karI bese tyAre temane paga taLethI dharatI sarakatI lAge che. AjanA moTA bhAganA gharonI evI sthiti che, ke mA-bApo saMtAnone bhaNAvI gaNAvIne eTalA lAyaka (?) banAvI de che. ke pachI temane mA-bApa ja nAlAyaka lAge che. This is my point my dear, ke duniyA jene zikSaNa samaje che, e pUratuM nathI ja,

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313 PARENTING eTalA mAtrathI saMtoSa mAnavA jevuM nathI ja, kharuM zikSaNa to tAre jAte ApavAnuM che. e che saMskAronuM zikSaNa, saMskRtinuM zikSaNa, naiitika zikSaNa ane jIvanasUtronuM zikSaNa. mArI vhAlI, tAruM potAnuM jIvana enA mATe eka ucca zikSaNa haze ane A badhAM zikSaNo e zikSaNane sajjaDa banAvaze. keTalAMka vAlIo evA hoya che jeo mohavaza thaIne saMtAnano dareka zabda jhIlI letA hoya che. teo saMtAnone paripakvatAne badale bejavAbadArInuM zikSaNa Ape che. Art of parentingnA saMdarbhamAM cANakyanItimAM eka sacoTa zloka che - lAlayet paJca varSANi, daza varSANi tADayet / prApte ca SoDaze varSe, putraM mitramivAcaret // pAMca varSa sudhI putranuM lAlana karavuM - ene lADa laDAvavA bIjA daza varSanA gALAmAM putrane sAcuM zikSaNa ApavuM,

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314 lava yu DoTara ne enuM ghaDatara karatAM karatAM jarUra paDe to ene mAra paNa mAravo. ane jayAre dIkarAne soLamuM varSa bese tyAre enI sAthe eka mitra jevo vyavahAra karavo. My dear, kharA samaye jeo gADI cUkI gayA hoya temane AkhI jiMdagI raDavAnuM ane pastAvo karavAnuM ja bAkI rahe che pAMca varSathI uparanA saMtAnane lADa laDAvavA ane ene saMskArazikSaNa ApavAmAM upekSA karavI e eka jAtanI AtmahatyA karavA barAbara che ane karAvavA barAbara che. cANakya kahe che - lAlanAd bahavo doSA - stADanAd bahavo guNAH / tasmAt putraM ca ziSyaM ca, tADayenna tu lAlayet // lADa laDAvavAthI ghaNAM nukazAna thAya che ane mAra mAravAthI ghaNAM lAbho thAya che. mATe putrane ane ziSyane mAra mAravo paNa lADa na laDAvavAM.

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PARENTING 315 mArI lADalI, eka vAra keTalAka Ticarsa sAthe mArI miTiMga thaI hatI, emaNe kahyuM ke ApaNe tyAM evI kahevata hatI - soTI vAge cama cama vidyA Ave dhama dhama. paNa have evo kAyado che ke ame koI chokarAne phakta eka TapalI mArIe, to ya amane jelanI sajA thaI zake. to pachI amane ya zuM paDI che? chokarAone bhaNavuM hoya to bhaNe ne na bhaNavuM hoya to kAMI nahIM." Understood my daughter ? pachI mAstara mAre ya nahIM ne bhaNAve ya nahIM evo ghATa ghaDAya. beTA, kaDavI davA mA pAya, bAkI badhA caNAnA jhADa para caDAve. jo mA paNa mIThI thavA jaze sArI lAgavA jaze sAruM lagADavA jaze

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316 lava yu DoTara ne mohavaza thaIne jarUrI saMskArasiMcananI upekSA karaze. to kharA arthamAM e saMtAnanI duzmana ja banaze. mAtA zatruH pitA vairI, yena bAlo na pAThitaH / na zobhate sabhAmadhye, haMsamadhye bako yathA // te mAtA zatru che ane te pitA verI che, jemaNe bALakane sAcuM zikSaNa nathI ApyuM. jema haMsanA ToLAmAM kAgaDo na zobhe tema te bALaka sabhAmAM zobhato nathI. beTA, ApaNe zrImaMta hoIe to bALakane zrImaMtAIno aNasAra na Avavo joIe. zrImaMta saMtAno ghaNI vAra khUba ja urphekhala, bekhabara, aucityanA apAlaka, jAtIya vAsanAthI pIDita, labADa ane mavAlI jevA thaI jatA hoya che. mahaMmada begaDAnI eka begama hatI - sarAI. eno dIkaro AbAjAnA vadhAre paDatA lADakoDamAM vaMThI gayo hato. eka vAra eNe eka kheDUtanI dIkarI para julama karyo. kheDUta rAjadarabAramAM Avyo.

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PARENTING dhrusake dhrusake raDI paDyo. badhI vAta karI. mahaMmada begaDAe AbAjAnane bolAvyo. sarAIne paNa bolAvI. bharasabhAmAM ene jherano pyAlo pI javAnI sajA pharamAvI. sarAIe potAnA hAthe ene jherano pyAlo pIvaDAvavo evo Adeza karyo. kAraNa ke khoTA lADa karIne dIkarAne eNe ja bagADI dIdho hato. beTA, dIkaro rUpiyAmAM ALoTe evA sapanAM jonArA mA-bApone khabara nathI, ke jApAnamAM nAnI uMmare zrImaMta thaI janArA saMtAnone temanA mA-bApa have jovA ya gamatA nathI. nAnI nAnI vAte teo mA-bApanuM apamAna kare che. A sthitimAM mA-bApane sakhata AghAta lAge che jenA pariNAme Aje jApAnamAM moTI saMkhyAmAM hArAkIrI (ApaghAta) karavAmAM Ave che. mArI vhAlI, ati lADa ane ati dhAka baMne kharAba che. dharAIne sneha na maLe to dIkarI bhAgI jAya che ane dIkaro dArU ane DragsanA ravADe caDI jAya che. kuMbhAra jyAre mATaluM banAve tyAre uparathI coTa lagADe che 317

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318 lava yu DoTara ne e coTathI mATaluM tUTI na jAya e mATe aMdara hAtha rAkhe che. ghaDataranuM A sAyansa dareka peranTsane AvaDatuM hovuM joIe. keTalIka vAra peranTsa potAnA bIjA kAraNonA gussAne bALako para ThAlavatA hoya che. jemAM temane asabhya zabdo saMbhaLAvavAthI mAMDIne temanI mArapITa suddhA karavAmAM Ave che. Because they are soft target. ApaNI saMskRtimAM Ane khUba ja adhama kRtya gaNavAmAM AvyuM che. je je soft hoya emane to vizeSa vAtsalya ApavAnuM hoya, emanI to vizeSa sevA karavAnI hoya, enI badale emanI Softnessno misuse karavo e to khUba ja zaramajanaka kAma che. hitazikSA chatrIzImAM kahyuM che - bAra varasa bALaka surapaDimA, e be sarikhA kahIe jI, bhakti kare sukha lIlA pAme, kheda kare duHkha lahIe jI. bAra varSa sudhInI uMmaranuM bALaka ane devanI pratimA e baMnene samAna gaNavA. je enI sevA kare tene sukha samRddhi maLe che

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PARENTING ane je ene du:kha Ape e duHkhI thAya che. putranA ghaDatara mATe ene zikSA karavI e judI vAta che ane A enAthI judI vAta che. mArI vhAlI, meM evI mammAo joI che. jemane zokha che saMtAnone svimiMga zIkhavavAno, skeTIMga ane Aisa-skeTIMga zIkhavavAno, DAnsiMga ane DrAiviMga zIkhavavAno, paNa Life-car ne kema Drive karavI, e zikSaNa ApavAnI emane koI ja paDI hotI nathI. bALako bhayaMkara jiddI hoya, nAnI vAtamAM khUba gusse thaI janArA hoya, khAvA-pIvAmAM behada nakharAbAja hoya, badhuM ja Top-classnuM vAparavA mATe TevAyelA hoya, koI jAtanuM kazuM sahana karavA taiyAra na hoya ne koInuM kAMI sAMbhaLI zake tema na hoya, A sthiti pedA karavAmAM mAtA-pitAno ghaNo moTo phALo hoya che. dIkarAne regyulara resToranTamAM ke AIskrIma pArlaramAM laI jatI ke ghare ya AcaDa-kUcaDa banAvIne Force karI karIne khavaDAvatI mammAne khabara nathI 319

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320 lava yu DoTara ke e bALakanA zArIrika ane mAnasika Arogyane dhakko pahoMcADI rahI che Aje khabara nahIM paDe paNa jyAre dIkarAne paccIsa varSe B.P. Problem thaze. trIza varSe DAyAbiTiza thaze. pAMtrIza varSe Cheast pain thaze. ane betAlIza varSe eka ja eTekamAM bhukko bolAI jaze. tyAre e badhI resipIonI original cost cUkavavI paDaze. A cUkavaNI phakta dIkarAe nahIM, AkhA ghare karavI paDaze. beTA, bALapaNamAM paDelI khoTI Tevo AkhA jIvanane khedAna medAna karI mukatI hoya che. mAtA-pitA taraphathI saMtAnone saMpatti ke sagavaDo na maLe to hajI kadAca cAle, paNa saguNo na maLe e to haragIjha na cAle. saMkalpazakti, nirNayazakti, vicArazakti, zAMtatA, sahanazIlatA, udAratA, vinaya, viveka, saMtoSa, saraLatA,

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PARENTING 321 tyAgazIlatA, zramazIlatA, svAvalaMbitA, saMyama, karuNA, pavitratA, prAmANikatA A badhAM saguNo bALakanA jIvananI kharI saMpatti banI rahe che. jIvanamAM jeTalI jarUra khorAka, pANI ane havAnI che eTalI ja jarUra sadgaNonI che. My dear, sau prathama tArA potAnA jIvanamAM A saguNone jIvaMta banAvavA mATe prayAsa kara ane pachI tArA saMtAnamAM e saguNo utare e mATe tArI badhI ja zakti lagADI de je. sAcI mA saMtAnanA phakta zarIrano ja nahIM mana ane AtmAno paNa vicAra kare che. enI sagavaDono ja nahIM. enA saguNono paNa vicAra kare che. enA vartamAnano ja nahIM enA bhaviSyano paNa vicAra kare che. mArI vhAlI, A rIte ja saMtAno paNa sukhI thaI zake ane mAtA-pitA paNa sukhI thaI zake.

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322 lava yu DoTara nahIM to baMne pakSe duHkhI thavuM nizcita che. I know my daughter, AjanuM miDIyA..Ajano esaphiyara badhuM ja A saguNonuM virodhI che. AjanA mAtA-pitAo mATe A paristhitimAM saMtAnonuM sAttvika ghaDatara karavuM e eka moTI celenja che. A kAma agharuM jarUra che. paNa azakya to nathI ja. jo mAtA-pitAnI prabaLa icchA hoya to Aje paNa tapovana saMskAra dhAma jevI keTalIka saMsthAo A kAryane saraLatAthI karI rahI che. jemAM potAnA saMtAnane eDamiTa karavA mATe seMkaDo mAtA-pitAo paDApaDI kare che. Aje mAtA-pitAo pAse be ja vikalpa che. yA yogya cakAsaNI karIne sArI saMskAradAyaka saMsthAmAM saMtAnane eDamiTa karI devo ne yA ghare ja evI saMsthAnuM vAtAvaraNa UbhuM karI devuM. saMtAnane ane potAne bacAvavA mATe A be sivAya trIjo koI ja vikalpa nathI.

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PARENTING mArI vhAlI, vizvanA keTalAya mahApuruSoe kahyuM che - 'All that I am, My mother made me. I hope, tAruM saMtAna paNa enA vyaktitvathI prabhAvita thanArAo samakSa A ja khulAso karaze. e kSaNe tArI AMkhomAMthI AnaMdanA azruo vahetA haze ne mArI chAtI gajagaja phUlatI haze. wish you all the best. 323

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325 FEEDING eka lekhaka - dinakarabhAI joSI. emaNe eka sarasa jAta-anubhava lakhyo che. saurASTranA eka nAnA gAmamAM eka ghare e mahemAna tarIke gayA hatA. moTuM saMyukta kuTuMba hatuM. kuTuMbanA vaDA sAthe dinakarabhAI vAta karI rahyA hatA. parivAranI eka bALakI tyAM AvI ane pUchyuM - "dAdA, rasoI thaI gaI che. mammI pUche che ke bhANuM mAMDI daIe ?" dAdAe sammati ApI. pahelA mAtra puruSonI paMgata beThI. parivAranI strIo pIrasavA lAgI. dinakarabhAIe joyuM ke jamatA jamatA je vastu khUTe e vastu mAMgavI paDatI na hatI. have basa ema kahI zakAya, paNa kaDhI lAvo, zAka lAvo AvuM kAMI kahevAnI jarUra ja nahIM. dinakarabhAIe jIvanamAM eka apUrva anubhava karyo. puruSonI paMgata jamI rahI eTale pachI strIo jamavA beThI. 90 varSanA e kuTuMbanA vaDIlane

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326 lava yu DoTara dinakabhAIe AnuM rahasya pUchyuM. emaNe kahyuM, "A paddhatinA cAra phAyadA che. (1) pIrasAtI thALIone badale potAnA bhANAmAM dhyAna rahe. (2) rasoI banAvanArano AnaMda kuTuMbIjanone hoMze hoMze khAtA jovAno hoya. (3) tame mAMgIne meLavo enA karatA mAMgyA vinA ja tamArI jarUriyAta samajI koI pIrase e bemAM ghaNuM aMtara che. (4) saMyukta parivAramAM judI judI vahuo sAthe ja jamavA bese eTale manamAM vAro-tAro na rahe. mArA pitAjIe mane A vAta samajAvela jene huM potAnA anubhavathI barAbara samajI zakyo chuM." mArI vhAlI, potAnA hAthe banAvelI rasoI svajanone pIrasavAno ne temane jamatA joIne apUrva AtmasaMtoSa anubhavavAno je AnaMda che tene nArI ja samajI zake che. hitazikSA chatrIzImAM strIne saMbodhIne kahyuM che sahune jamADI jamIejI. beTA, evI strI saraLatAthI sahuno prema jIte che. pote vahelA jamI lenAra strI vadhu jame che tevuM nathI.

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327 FEEDING e sonuM-rUpuM khAya che tevuM paNa nathI. paNa evI strInI chApa khAudharI tarIkenI paDe che. evI strI bIjAne aruci janmAve che. badhAne jamADIne jamatI strI bhUkhI rahe che tevuM nathI. ulTa badhAne jamADyAno AtmasaMtoSa ane prasannatA enA bhojanane amRtabhojana banAvI de che. sadbhAvanA ane prema sAthe svajano mATe rasoI karatI nArI, vAtsalyapUrvaka svajanone rasoI pIrasatI nArI ane badhAne jamADIne UMDA AtmasaMtoSapUrvaka svayaM bhojana karatI nArI e ApaNI saMskRtinI anerI asmitA che. phrIjhamAMthI rasoI kADhIne jAte garama karIne kuTuMbanA eka eka sabhya potapotAnI rIte khAI le AvI selpha sarvisa.. AvuM bhAvanAzUnya bhojana.. Avo zuSka vyavahAra.... AvuM c grade nuM poSaNa A badhI pazcimI dezonI viDaMbanA che.

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328 lava yu DoTara tyAMnI nArIne loTa bAMdhavAthI mAMDIne pIrasavA sudhInI jhaMjhaTa maTI gaI che paNa bIjI bAju tenuM AkhuM jIvana jhaMjhaTa banI gayuM che. dazathI bAra kalAka sudhI ghara bahAra rahevuM ane satata kaMTALAjanaka kAma karavuM koI bosanI veTha karavI ane TrAnsaporTezananI hADamArIo bhogavavI, A badhI jhaMjhaTa ja enuM jIvana che. enI sAme vAryeSu maMtrI - khAsa kAma vakhate mastrI mogyeSu mAtA - jamADatI vakhate mAtA zayaneSu rAma - zayanakhaMDamAM raMbhA A ApaNI saMskRtinI nArI zuM khoTI ? AdhunikatAnI lhAyamAM lAkho strIo jyAre gharanI ciMtA sAthe oNphisanA kAmamAM parovAyelI hoya che, tyAre ApaNI A gharanI rANI jamaNathI paravArIne phula paMkhA nIce ArAma pharamAvatI hoya che. mArI vhAlI, vAsI, bahAranuM, jevuM-tevuM ane nokaronA hAthanuM khAIne parivAra mAMdo paDe eTale enI davAonA kharcA karavA

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FEEDING 329 ane A kharcAone pahoMcI vaLavA rasoDuM reDhuM mukIne kamAvA javuM, AvI karuNatA tArI kathA na banI jAya. e jovAnI javAbadArI tArI che. My dear kitchen is not a duty, But a power jenA dvArA nArI badhAnA mana jItIne jIvanabhara rAja kare che. Enjoy it my daughter, Love you very much.

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MIS-UNDERSTANDING 331 beTA, ApaNe tyAM eka gerasamaja bahu ja vyApaka che ke puruSa strI para khUba ja julama kare che. ene zArIrika ane mAnasika trAsa Ape che. patinA paga nIce kacaDAtA rahevuM e ja patnInuM jIvana che. A gerasamajathI strIomAM evI mAnasagraMthi baMdhAvA lAge che. ke puruSo emanA duzmana ja che. A mAnasagraMthi nakArAtmaka dRSTine janma Ape che. pariNAme gRhaklezathI mAMDIne gRhabhaMga sudhInI vedanAone sahana karavI paDe che. Do you know my dear, What's the truth here? Let's listen to the National Crime bearo. 2007nA enA Report mujaba patnInI satAmaNIthI 57,593 puruSoe AtmahatyA karI hatI. jyAre puruSanA atyAcArano bhoga banelI 30,064 pariNIta strIoe AtmahatyA karI hatI. nezanala krAima rekarDsa byuroe 1650 zaherI puruSonuM online sarvekSaNa karyuM. temanAmAMthI 98% puruSo patnI dvArA AcaravAmAM AvatI

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332 lava yu DoTara hiMsAnA bhoga banyA hatAM. daheja dhArA ane ghareluM hiMsA dhArAno durupayoga karIne saMkhyAbaMdha strIo puruSane herAna kare che. seva inDiyA phemilI phAunDezananA kAunselara jaNAve che ke temanI saMsthA para ghareluM hiMsAno bhoga banelA puruSonA vArSika eka lAkha phona Ave che. eka saMsthA che - svAcetana. dara varSe patnInI satAmaNIno bhoga banelA 350 puruSonuM teo kAunseliMga kare che. temAM keTalAka kissAomAM patnIo temanA patione gaMbhIra zArIrika ijAo pahoMcADatI hoya evuM jovA maLyuM che. suprIma korTanA eka dhArAzAstrI che. Ara.pI.caga. emanI eka saMsthA che - krAima ageinsTa mena. A saMsthAmAM patnIpIDita 40,000 puruSa sabhyo che. A saMsthA jaNAve che ke Arthika garaja vinAnI strI koI vAte pati ke parivArajanonI paravA karatI nathI.

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333 MIS-UNDERSTANDING patnIo je julama kare che, tenuM moTuM kAraNa paisA che. patnInI vastra ane AbhUSaNanI mAMga pati pUrI na karI zake eTale jhagaDo thAya che. patnInI icchA evI hoya che ke pati emanA mAtA-pitA ke bhAI-bahenone Arthika sahAya na kare. AvI anucita icchA paNa ghaNI vAra atyAcAramAM pariName che. mArI vhAlI. have tuM ja kahe, puruSa strI para atyAcAra kare che AvI ekAMgI mAnyatA e gerasamaja nahIM to bIjuM zuM che? chagana ekavAra krikeTarano Dresa paherIne koI sTeDiyama para pahoMcI gayo. tyAMnA lokone gerasamaja thaI. emaNe chaganane beTiMga karavA ApI. sAme phAsTa bolara hato. lAMbo rana-apa laIne eNe gajabanAka boliMga karI. chagana jevo beTsamena hato evI eNe beTiMga karI. bola sajjaDa rIte

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334 lava yu DoTara enA mAthAmAM vAgI gayo. sijhana bola hato. joradAra mAra vAgyo hato. badhAM bhegA thaI gayA. chagana to evo ne evo svastha Ubho hato. badhAMnA Azcaryano pAra na rahyo. emaNe chaganane pUchyuM, "tame vagara helmeTe Avo mAra zI rIte sahana karI zakyAM ?'' chagane javAba Apyo. "AnuM zreya mArI patnInA velaNane jAya che.' beTA, velaNa-kathA ghaNI dardanAka che. ahIM je AMkaDAo kahyA, te to ghaNA ochAM che. ghareluM hiMsAnI phariyAda karavI e strI mATe jeTalI saraLa che. eTalI ja puruSa mATe Thina che. keTalAMya puruSo jorU kA gulAma banIne mUMge moDhe sahana kare che. paNa puruSatvanuM gaurava na haNAya tethI bahAra kahetA nathI.

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MIS-UNDERSTANDING 335 vAta strIo para doSAropaNa karavAnI nathI. paNa mAtra khoTI gerasamajone kAraNe paraMparAgata mUlyonI avagaNanA karIne patine nakArAtmaka dRSTithI ja joine pArivArika sukho para kAyamI pUrNavirAma na mukAI jAya, tenI vAta che. gunegAra koNa? puruSa ke strI? AnA javAbamAM huM to eka ja vAta kahIza, ke doSo gunegAra che. doSone kAraNe ja badhI upAdhio thAya che. jo dareka mANasa prAmANikapaNe guNone meLavavAno prayatna karavA lAge to pachI A dharatI ja svarga banI jAya. Try for it my dear, wish you all the best.

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LAW 339 chagane eka vAra maganane phona karyo... "korTamAM tamAro kesa cAlato hato. enuM zuM thayuM? tamane baMne bhAIone tamArA pappAnI milakata sarakhe bhAge maLI gaI ?" magane ThaMDA avAje javAba Apyo. hA, amArA baMnenA vakIlone sarakhe bhAge maLI gaI." This is the law of the law my daughter, korTa, polisa, helpalAina A badhAnuM Result Almost nirAzAjanaka hoya che. khAsa karIne jyAre potAnA svajananI ja phariyAda karavAnI hoya, tyAre tame jIto ke hAro be ya rIte tamAre sahana ja karavAnuM Ave che. For example Domestic Violence Prevention Act & RL patnI, mAtA, bahena ke dIkarI vagere phariyAda noMdhAvI zake che. temAM puruSa doSita puravAra thAya to ene 1 varSa sudhInI sajA ane 20, 000 rU. no daMDa thAya che.

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338 lava yu DoTara AmAM kadAca strI jItI jAya, to gharanI kamAnArI vyakti eka varSa sudhI jelamAM rahe tenI sajA AkhA ghare bhogavavAnI rahe. gharamAM strI-sabhyonI surakSA vagerenA prazno UbhA thAya te judA. vAta ATalethI patatI nathI. jelamAMthI pAchA AvyA pachI potAne jelamAM mokalanAra ane daMDa karAvanAra strI sAthe e puruSano vyavahAra kevo haze? e strInuM bhaviSya kevuM haze? Can you imagine my daughter ? A to jIta pachInI vAta che, bAkI to kAyadAnA Azare dIkarIne nyAya apAvavA jatA koI paNa bApane AMkhe pANI AvI jAya che. pahelA to kAyadAnA durupayoganA nAme polisa sTezanathI ja kesa raphedaphe thato jovA maLato hoya che. kyAreka phariyAda vadhu majabUta hoya, to vakIlo ADA avaLA vaLAMke caDAvI de che. lAMbA samaye kesa cAle

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339 LAW tyAre keTaluM to bhUlI javAyuM hoya che. sAmo vakIla ADA-avaLA prazno pUchIne DakhA nAkhato hoya. badhuM tatpaNa yAda na Ave e svAbhAvika che. ExammAM 95% lAvanAra Bright studentne paNa 5 varSa pachI keTaluM yAda hoya che ? nyAyika nirNayo purAvA-sAkSI AdhArita hoya che, jemano AvI bAbatomAM moTA bhAge abhAva hoya che. chevaTe aMgreja prathA mujaba zaMkAno lAbha ApIne AropIne choDI mukAya che. tyAM sudhImAM korTanA dhakkA khAI khAIne phariyAdI thAkI gayo hoya che. mArI vhAlI, sarakArano Azaya sAro hovA chatAM kAyadAnI gUMco ene saphaLa thavA detI nathI. phemilI korTomAM nikAla thayA vinAnA keTalAya keso paDatara hoya che. A rIte jIta ke hAra baMne bAju nArIe ane AkhA parivAre sahana ja karavAnuM hoya emAM Lawno koI ja artha raheto nathI. beTA, ApaNI paraMparAnI sAmAjika vyavasthA e sAco rasto che.

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340 lava yu DoTara tenA anusAra sauthI asarakAraka kAma hAlamAM keTalAMka paMco karI rahyA che. jevo mANasa - jevo guno ene lakSamAM laIne paMca nirNaya kare che. A to Just AnuSaMgika vAta che, bAkI eka guNasaMpanna nArIne korTa ke paMcanuM koI ja kAma paDatuM nathI. My dear, Original wifehood che, to korTanI koI jarUra nathI. ane jo e nathI. to korTano koI phAyado nathI. duniyAbharanA kAyadA, korTa, polisa ne helpalAinsa eka bAju che. ne bIjI bAju che pure and real wife-hood. Let it be your protection, Let it be your pleasure. Let it be your peace. Have an ever happy life my daughter, Love you very much.

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342 lava yu DoTara mArI vhAlI, A vAta che duniyAnI sauthI nIca krUratAnI, jemAM eka mAtA eka kasAI karatAM paNa vadhu krUra bane che. ane potAnI kUkhamAM rahelA nirdoSa ane mAsUma saMtAnanI karapINa hatyA karAvI de che. My daughter, A mAtra saMtAnanI hatyA nathI, A mAnavatAnI hatyA che, mAtRtvanI hatyA che. mArI tane hArdika vinaMti che beTA, kadI paNa A pApathI tArA jIvanane abhaDAvatI nahIM. A viSayamAM tArI sAthe vadhu koI vAta nahIM karI zakuM. paNa keTalIka vastuo evI che. jenI tane jANa hovI khUba ja jarUrI che. e mATe A sAthe 2 Articles mukyA che. zAMtithI ene vAMcaje. cAlo eborzana kendramAM garbhapAtanI keTalIka vaijJAnika mAnya anya svIkRta DaoNkTarI paddhatio je Aje bhAratamAM pracalita che, te joIe. mana jarA makkama karo ane pachI cAlo eborzana kendramAM. DI. enDa. sI. oNparezana: dAktarI sAdhano vaDe sagarbhA strInA garbhAzayanuM mukha pahoLuM karavAmAM Ave che. pachI e sAdhana vaccethI eka cappa athavA kAtara jevuM

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CRUELTY u43 hathiyAra aMdara nAkhIne jIvatA bALakane te vaDe vIMdhI nAkhavAmAM Ave che. garbhamAM taraphaDatuM bALaka lohIluhANa thaI, asahya vedanA bhogavI mRtyune zaraNa thAya che. pachI eka camacI jevA sAdhananI madadathI bALakanA TukaDeTukaDA bahAra kADhavAmAM Ave che. khImo thaI gayeluM magaja, lohI dadaDatAM AMtaraDAM, bahAra nIkaLI paDelI AMkho, duniyAmAM jeNe pahelo zvAsa nathI lIdho tevA phephasAM, dhabakatuM nAnakaDuM hRdaya, hAthapaga badhuM jaldI jaldI bAladImAM DaoNkTare pheMkI devuM paDe che. kemake bahAra garbhapAta mATenA umedavAra bahenonI lAMbI lAIna hoya che. eTale DaoNkTare A badhuM jaldI jaldI patAvavuM paDe che, tethI ghaNI vakhata bALakane aMdara taraphaDIne marI javA mATe pUrato samaya paNa apAto nathI. aMdhArAmAM tIra mAravA jevuM A oNparezana che. hathiyAra garbhamAMhenA bALakanA mAthAmAM, chAtImAM, peTamAM ke hRdayamAM na vAgatAM hAtha, paga ke sAthaLamAM ghocAya to bALaka jaldI maratuM nathI. 70, 80 ke 90 varSa jIvavA mATe kudarate je choDa taiyAra karyo hoya che, tenI jijiviSA khUba prabaLa hoya che. tethI utAvaLe garbhamAMthI bahAra kADhIne bAladImAM pheMkI dIdhelAM dhabakatAM hRdaya joIne DaoNkTaro, nasa ane svIparo suddhAM bIjI bAju AMkho pheravI le che. A hathiyAra kyAreka utAvaLamAM ane kyAreka anubhyasta hAthe garbhAzayane paNa nukazAna karI de che. tevA kissAmAM lAMbA samaya sudhI lohI vahe che, aMdara cAMdu paDe che, kAyamanuM pradara thAya che. jAtIya Avego ThaMDA paDI jAya che, pariNAme dAmpatyajIvana khAruM bane che ane kyAreka to evI strI pharI kadI mAtA banI zakatI nathI. cUsaNa paddhatiH garbhAzayamAM eka polI naLIno cheDo dAkhala karavAmAM Ave. e naLI sAthe eka paMpa besADelo hoya che ane naLIne bIje cheDe moTI baoNTala joDelI hoya che. naLIno eka cheDo garbhAzayamAM barAbara goThavyA pachI paMpane ughADa-vAsa karavAthI garbhamAMhenuM jIvatuM bALaka garbhamAMthI pachaDAya che. kasAIo bakarAne eka jhATake halAla kare che. jyAre A paddhatimAM kyAreka bALakanAM judAM judAM aMgo naLImAM kheMcAI Ave che. DoLA phATIne bahAra AvI jAya che, sakzanane lIdhe peDhuM, chAtI, peTa, magajanAM polANomAM AvelA avayavo phATIne veravikhera thaIne bahAra Ave che ane jo koI jIva vadhu gaThIlo ane baLiyo hoya to AkheAkho jIvato sAMgopAMga bahAra Ave tyAre chevaTe baMdha baoNTalamAM jorathI pachaDAIne tenA bhukkA bolI jAya che. keTalIka vAra sudhI bALaka e baoNTalamAM taraphaDatuM rahe che ane pachI zvAsa rUMdhAtAM te ThaMDuM paDI jAya che. A paddhatimAM kyAreka AkhuM garbhAzaya bahAra kheMcAI Ave che. tevI strIone jiMdagIbhara aneka takalIpho thAya che. kamarano duHkhAvo to kAyamI ja banI

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u44 lava yu DoTara jAya che. pachInuM garbhAdhAna uthalo mAre che ane raktasrAvane kAraNe strI naMkhAI jAya che. * hisTaroTomI (nAnuM sIjheriyana) : peDhune cIrI, sagarbhA strInAM AMtaraDA bahAra kADhI, garbhAzayane kholI, jIvatuM bALaka bahAra kADhavAmAM Ave che. pachI tene bAladImAM pheMkI devuM paDe che. hAtha paga halAvatuM, havAtiyAM mAratuM, raDatuM, bALaka bAladImAM ja marI jAya che. temAM paNa keTalAka jabarA jIvo kalAko sudhI maravAnI nA pADe che ane oparezana thIeTaramAM bIjo kesa turata ja dAkhala karavAno hoya che, tethI bAladImAM jIvatA bALakane tIkSNa hathiyAra vaDe vIdhI nAMkhavAmAM Ave che athavA moTA phaTakAthI teno kaccaraghANa kADhI nAkhavAmAM Ave che. jo kAtila khUnIo, DAkuo, mArAo ane AdatanA nara-hatyArAo AvAM be-cAra oNparezano joI le to kadAca teo potAno dhaMdho choDIne sAdhu banI jAya athavA AvuM kAma karanArAonuM khUna karI bese. * jherI kSAravALI paddhatiH eka lAMbo soyo garbhAzayamAM bhoMkavAmAM Ave che, temAM pIcakArI vaDe kSAranuM drAvaNa choDavAmAM Ave che. cAre taraphanA drAvaNathI gherAyeluM bALaka thoDo kSAra gaLI jatAM jotajotAmAM bALakane garbhAzayamAM heDakI upaDe che. jhera khAdhuM hoya evA mANasanI jema te garbhAzayamAM AmaLAvA-kheMcAvA lAge che. kSAranI dAhaka asarathI tenI cAmaDI kALI paDI DAya che. aMte gUMgaLAIne bALaka garbhamAM marI jAya che. pachI tene bahAra kADhI levAmAM Ave che. ghaNI vAra utAvaLamAM kADhavAmAM Ave to bALaka thoDuM jIvatuM hoya che. A vakhate tenI cAmaDI vAdaLI hoya che. bahAra te thoDI ja vAramAM mRtyu pAme che. AvA garbhapAtamAM jo bALaka joDiyuM hoya to eka mareluM avatare ne bIjuM jIvatuM Ave, paraMtu tene paNa TUMka samayamAM ja anya ghAtakI rIta vaDe maraNane zaraNa karavAmAM Ave che. * nikAlanI AgavI rIto : eka oNparezanamAM 7 mAsanuM bALaka jIvatuM nIkaLyuM. potAne A duniyAmAM jIvavAno adhikAra che ema vyakta karavA mATe te jorazorathI raDavA lAgyuM. DaoNkTare tene mahetarane ApI devA mATe AyAne sopyuM. jIvatA bALakane dATI devA mATe mahetare asvIkAra karyo. AyA ane mahetara vacce jhaghaDo thayo. aMte AyAe bALakane bhoyataLiye pachADyuM. thoDIvAra taraphaDIne te mRtyu pAmyuM. te pachI mahetare tenA mAsUma zabano svIkAra karyo. AyA (moTIveTara) ne dasa rUpiyA maLyA, DaoNkTarane tathA tenA madadanIzane pAMca rUpiyA maLyA, narsane eka rUpiyo maLyo ane potAnA ja bALakanI hatyArI mAtAne pUrA ekaso rUpiyA maLyA. (197rathI bhArata sarakAra puraskAra Ape che.) garbhapAtanA kissAmAM keTalIka

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CRUELTY 345 kanyAo ane mAtAo ajJAnavaza che jANI joIne khoTI mAhitI Ape che ane te kahe che te karatAM bALaka vadhu paripakva nIkaLe che. keTalAka kesomAM bALaka maravAnI nA pADe che ane koI dayALu AtmA tene dattaka paNa laI le che. eka vakhata eka paripakva garbhanuM mastaka ja cUsaNa paddhatimAM alaga thaI gayuM ane bAkInuM dhaDa zvAsa levA ardhA kalAka sudhI havAtiyAM mArI rahyuM. divasane aMte oNparezana thieTaranA tamAma mAnava eMThavADathI ubharAtI bAladIomAM mRtyu pAmelAM ane TaLavaLatAM manu-saMtAno hoya che. jemane dATI devAmAM Ave che athavA bhaThThImAM nAMkhIne bALI nAkhavAmAM Ave che. jethI sAmAnya nAgarikonI najare A lIlA kadI caDhatI nathI. A dezamAM maraghInuM IDuM, mAMsAhAra pApa gaNAya che. ahIM loko kabUtarane caNa nAMkhe che, kIDIonAM dara para kIDIAruM pUre che, mAchalIone talanA lADu khavarAve che ane sarpa suddhAMne dUdha pAya che. je bakarInA garbhamAM bacyuM hoya te bakarInI katala karavAnI "dIna' manAI pharamAve che. loko potAnA sagarbha pazuone kasAIkhAne vecatAM nathI. prayogazALAonA prayoga mATe vAMdarAonI videzomAM nikAsa thatI hatI te lokonA AgrahathI A sarakAre baMdha karavI paDI che. have kabUtaronI nikAsabaMdhI thavAnI che. ahIM morane mAravo guno che. siMha-vAgha-cittAnA zikAranI manAI pharamAvavAmAM AvI che. gharaDI, lUlI, laMgaDI, pAMkhaDI gAyo mATe aneka pAMjarApoLo A dezamAM sukhI dAtAo calAve che. govaMzanI katala baMdha karAvavA dezanA AcAryo, saMto ane mahaMto upavAsa para utare che, tyAre gAMdhInA A dezamAM mAnavavaMzanI krUratApUrvaka katala karavA mATe sarakAra protsAhana Ape che, jAherAto Ape che, AMkaDA jAhera kare che, te badala gaurava anubhave che ane A khUnI kAvatarAmAM sAmela AkhI mizanarIne biradAve che. * pracAra-jALa : "bole tenA bora vecAya" evI jAherAtonA A jamAnAmAM sarakAra lokone phasAvavA mATe lobhAmaNAM sUtro cItare che - "prasUtinivAraNa e strIno adhikAra che." A sUtra vAMcIne koI binaanubhavI mahilA kuTuMba kalyANa kendranI mulAkAte jAya to temane garbhapAtanI salAha ApavAmAM Ave che, salAha ApanAra pote athavA tenI sAMkaLamAMheno koI bIjo mANasa hoya che, je moTI saMkhyAmAM mahilAone garbhapAta mATe taiyAra karavAmAM pAvaradhA hoya che. teo sagarbhA strIone aneka rIte samajAve che ke tamane bALakanI hamaNAM jarUra nathI. tamAruM yauvana, tamAruM sauMdarya, tamArI dehayaSTi tamAre akabaMdha rAkhavI hoya to garbhapAta karAvI nAkho. tamAre nokarI karavI che, tamAre patine kaMpanI ApavI che, tamAre

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346 lava yu DoTara videza javuM che, tamAre mojamajA karavI che, bALaka temAM bAdhaka banaze. pAMca-daza varSa thobhI jAva. hamaNAM garbhapAta karAvI nAkho. eborzana have kAyadAnI daSTie mAnya che. temAM kaMI vAMdho Avato nathI, takalIpha thatI nathI. uparathI rUpiyA maLe che. nokarI karatAM ho to cAlu pagAre rajA maLe che. e..yane ghera sUI, ArAma karo, sarakArI paise zIro khAI, tAjAmAjA thaIne phulaphaTAka thaIne pharI zako cho. eka vAra bhUla karI, tevI bIjI vAra na thavA dejo, paraMtu A vakhate to nikAla karAvI ja nAkho ! tema chatAM dharmabhIru bhAratIya strI hajAro varSanA saMskAronA baLe garbhapAtanuM pApa karatAM khacakAya tyAre tene samajAvavAmAM Ave che ke 'haju to zarUAta ja che. temAM haju jIva nathI. e to mAMsano loco ja hoya che. tene kADhI nAkhavAmAM kazuM pApa jevuM nathI, khAsa darda thatuM nathI. aThavADiyAmAM UbhAM thaI jazo. koIne khabare nahIM paDe. - ane bhoLI strIo A pracArajALamAM bharamAI jAya che. temane khabara nathI ke trIje mahine to bALaka peTamAM pharakavA mAMDe che ane jIva to garbhAdhAna vakhate ja temAM dAkhala thaI jAya che. maithuna vakhate ja puruSavIryanA zukrANu ane strIbIjanA milana vakhatathI ja jIvana dhabakatuM hoya che. jIva ja jIvane janma ApI zake. mRta padArthamAMthI kadI jIvana na saMbhave. vastI ghaTADavA mATenI A nIca ane khUnI cAla che. jemAM jIvanano inkAra karavA mATe juThThANuM phelAvavAmAM Ave che, e juThThANAnI janaka svayaM sa2kA2 che, darekane kAma, rojI-roTI ApavAne azakta evI sarakAra juThThA pracAra dvArA mAnavInAM katalakhAnAM calAve, e dezamAM duSkALa paDe, dharatIkaMpo thAya, Aga lAge, moMghavArI vadhe, manuSyo cAritrabhraSTa thAya ane chevaTe yAdavAsthaLIthI e dezanuM satyAnAza nIkaLI jAya to temAM Azcarya pAmavA jevuM zuM che ? janma vinA DaeNvalapameMTa garbhamAM jIvanuM astitva zarUAtathI ja hoya che saMbhavita ja nathI. = * kAyado ane kudaratI nyAya H sa2kA2I ane khAnagI davAkhAnAonAM lapharAka bAraNAMo pAchaLa AvAM mAnava-katalakhAnAM kAyadAne AdhAre Aje cAlI rahyAM che. DaoNkTaro, madadanIza, narso, svIparo, moTIveTaro ane saMtati niyamana vibhAganA karmacArIo potAnA vaLatara mATe, bhautika samRddhinI bhUkha bhAgavA mATe vadhune vadhu mahilAone garbhapAta karAvavA A katalakhAnAomAM hArabaMdha lAvI rahyA che. Arogya maMtrI je AMkaDA bolyA che te to davAkhAnAonA che. aMdhArI galIomAM suyANIo ane UMTavaidyonA hAthe je bhrUNahatyA ane sAthesAthe sagarbhA mAtonAM chAne khUNe mota thatAM haze tenA AMkaDA to koIne kadI maLe tema nathI.

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CRUELTY 347 kuMvArI mAtAo lokalAje garbhapAta karAve che tenA karatAM ghaNI moTI saMkhyAmAM pariNIta mAtAo kAyadAne AdhAre chaDecoka potAnAM bALakonI hatyA kare che. bALako nahotAM joItAM to lagna zA mATe karyA ? moja mANavA ja lagna karyA hoya to saMyama kema na rAkhyo ? bhUla thaI ja gaI hoya to bhogavatAM kema nathI ? garbhAzayamAMthI akALe kADhIne dATI devAtAM bALako jo mAbApa sAme korTamAM jaI zakatAM hota to ! teone sarakArI vakIlanI sahAya maLatI hota to ! ApaNAM ja mA-bApe e rIte ApaNo nikAla karI nAkhyo hota to ! samasyA : vaNajoItAM bALakono samayasara nikAla karavAne rASTrIya sevA mAnanArAo evI dalIla kare che ke anicchanIya bALakane jIvavAnI pharaja pADavA karatAM mArI nAkhavuM sAruM. A dalIlane AgaLa calAvIe to anicchanIya patnIone je loko bALI nAMkhe che e paNa eka divasa rASTrasevaka lekhAze, pachI AMdhaLAM, lUlAM, laMgaDA, bADAM, bobaDAM, maMda-buddhivALAM bALako ane bojArUpa banelA vRddhone paNa vadhatI janasaMkhyA rokavAne bahAne jheranuM injekazana daIne mArI nAkhavA mATe kAyado karI zakIzuM. lokazAhImAM bahumatIne phAvatuM Ave tene kAyado banAvatAM koI rokI zake che ? sattAsthAne besanArAone paNa bahumatInA mata meLavavA paDe che ne ? bahumatI samAja bIDI-bhAMga pIe to niyamAnusAra kalyANa rAjyamAM e ziSTAcAra gaNAya. garbhapAta karIne ApaNe keTalA rAma, kRSNa, buddha ane anya mahAnlR vibhUtione dharatI para AvatAM pahelAM ja mArI nAkhIe chIe. A dayAhIna kAyado sareAma bALahatyA ja che. duniyAnA aneka dezomAM phAMsInI sajA rada thaI che. khUnIone paNa phAMsI ApavAmAM AvatI nathI. kAraNa ke jIva levAno manuSyane hakka ja nathI. garbhapAta e phAMsInI sajA karatAM vadhAre krUra AcaraNa che. phAMsI jene ApavAmAM Ave che tenuM tatkAla mRtyu thAya che, jyAre garbhapAtamAM bALako kalAko sudhI taraphaDIne mare che. phAMsImAM ochI pIDA che, garbhapAtamAM jIvane bhayaMkara yaMtraNA thAya che. phAMsI gaMbhIra gunAnI sajA rUpe ApavAmAM Ave che, jyAre garbhapAtamAM bALakano kazo guno hoto nathI. anyanI salAmatI mATe gunegArane phAMsI apAya che, jyAre potAnA mojazokha, zarIrasukha ane taraMga khAtara A lokazAhI samAja potAnAM saMtAnonI garbhamAM hatyA kare che. phAMsInI sajA khamanArAoe to thoDAM varSa pRthvI para vItAvyAM hoya che, jyAre garbhamAMhenA bALake to haju dharatI para zvAsa paNa lIdho hoto nathI. gaeNsa cembaramAM hajAro yahUdIone mArI nAkhanAra hiTalarane duniyA jaghanya aparAdhI gaNatI hoya to potAnAM saMtAnone motane ghATa utAranArAM daMpatI nirdoSa kevI rIte lekhAya ?

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348 lava yu DoTara 1980nA varSe ja ApaNe bALavarSa ujavyuM. e varSamAM ja ApaNe keTalAM bALakonI hatyA karI e AMkaDA ArogyamaMtrI jaNAve to ApaNA bALaprema ane jIvadayAno sAco AMka jANavA maLe. A duniyAmAM traNa vyaktioe garbhapAta sAme potAno avAja bulaMda karyo che. svAmI vivekAnaMda, mahAtmA gAMdhI ane khristI dharmanA vaDA nAmadAra popa. anya keTalAke mArI jema potAnA vicAro pragaTa karavAno prayatna karyo haze. paraMtu bhautikavAdI nagArakhAnAmAM amArI tUtI koNa sAMbhaLe ? IzvarIya nyAya jevI koI vastu haze to tyAM amAro virodha jarU2 noMdhAze. yAda rAkho. garbhAdhAna vakhate ja vyaktinI UMcAI, buddhino AMka ( / . Q) cAlavAnI Dhaba, AMgaLAMnA nizAna, lohInuM grupa ane moTA bhAganI vizeSatAo nakkI thaI jAya che. garbhamAMhenuM bALaka saMpUrNa vyaktitva dharAve che. pachInI uMmaramAM mAtra teno ughADa ja thAya che. jo garbhapAta kAyadesara gaNAya to duniyAmAM corI, khUna, baLAtkAra paNa AgaLa jatAM kAyadesara thaze. mAre enI talavAra e jaMgalano kAyado che. sabhya samAja tene svIkAre to jaMgAliyata jIvananA hara kSetre jhaDapabhera pravezI jaze. dAkataronA pitA hipokreTikanI sogaMdavidhimAM spaSTa jaNAvavAmAM AvyuM che. - 'huM DaoNkTara banyo chuM jIvana bacAvavA mATe, jIvanano nAza karavA mATe nahi.' ane AjanA DaoNkTaro nAzavaMta jIvananA sukhacena mATe potAnI pratijJA toDIne hajAro jIvonA nAza kare che. sarakArI samarthana sAthe kaLiyuganA aMtima caraNanI A balihArI che. thaI zake mAtra eTaluM ja ke jemano AtmA na svIkAre tevA sajjana A doTAdoDamAM na joDAya. (janasattA parivAra pUrtimAMthI sAbhAra) dha sAIlenTa skrIma garbha bolyo; o mA ! marI gayo ! (samakAlIna 17 jUna' 85mAMthI eka hRdayavidAraka lekha ahIM prastuta karyo che. tamArA magajane thoDo ArAma ApIne pachI AgaLa vadho.) sanDe objharvaranA gaIkAlanA aMkamAM dhIrena bhagate eborzanane yogya pariprekSyamAM mUkatI dha sAIlenTa skrIma nAmanI DokyumenTarI philmanI karelI nukatecInI samAjanI ane zAsakonI AMkho ughADanArI banI rahevI joIe. garbhapAta 70 rUpiyAmAM evI asaMkhya jAherakhabaro ApaNe upanagaronI lokala TrenomAM agaNya vakhata joIe

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CRUELTY chIe. zaheronA zikSitoe phemilI plAnIMgane apanAvI lIdhuM che. dezamAM vasativadhAro khALavo jarUrI che eTale ApaNA zAsakoe kuTuMbiniyojana ane eborzana pratye atizaya udAra valaNa dAkhavyuM che. TI.vI. ke akhabAro dvArA ApaNAM bALako roja nirodhanI jAherakhabaro vAMce che. hakIkatamAM vasati vadhI tema pArivArika Avaka ane rASTrIya Avaka vadhI ja che. e badhAM bhUlI jAya che ane Arya prajAno vinAza karavAnA A patryaMtramAM badhAM phasAI jAya che. 349 saraLa, salAmata ane soMghuM eborzana karI ane tamane be kalAkamAM ghera mokalI ApIzuM, evI jAherakhabaro sattAvAra kalIniko kare che. binasattAvAra kalIniko pAra vinAnAM che. evo pracAra thAya che ke eborzana to baccAMnA khela che. eka nAnakaDA nAjuka sakazana paMpa (naLImAMthI havA kADhI nAkhIne te dvArA koI cIjane cUsI ke kheMcI levAnuM kArya karatuM sAdhana) dvArA bhrUNa ke nAnA kAcA garbhane ghaDInA chaThThA bhAgamAM DaoNkTara kheMcI le che, jANe mAthAmAM jU vINI lIdhI. kazI vADhakApa nahi. AvI vAto, nAnA bALakane paTAvavAmAM Ave e rIte, vahetI mUkAI che, tyAre A viSayamAM dhIrena bhagate nyuyorkanA gAyanekolojisTa DaoNkTara barnArDa nethenasananI dastAvejI philma dha sAilenTa skrIma (mUMgI cIsa ke zAMta kolAhala)nuM kareluM varNana saune vicAratA karI mUke evuM che. eborzana e zuM hatyA che ? evo buniyAdI prazna bhagate upasthita karyo che. dhIrena bhagatane DaoN. nethenasane paeNrisamAM hamaNAM kahyuM ke, sAIlenTa skIma nAmanI A philma huM bhAratamAM batAvavA taiyAra chuM. alTrAsAunDa TeknIka vaDe nethenasane A philmamAM bAra saptAhano garbha eborzana vakhate kevI rIte varte che tenI spaSTa, vijhyuala rajuAta karI che. amerikA ane yuropamAM A philma jonArAoe eborzananA kAyadAo badalavAnI jhuMbeza zarU karI che. atyAra sudhI tabIbIzAstra 16 saptAhanA bhrUNane kAkaDA ke tala ke masA ke nakha karatAM bhinna gaNatuM na hatuM. tenAmAM sAccA mANasano sAcco jIva che evuM dha sAilenTa skrIma philma pUravAra karyuM che. darzakoe TI.vI.upara joyuM ke eborzana pUrveno 16 saptAhano bhrUNa pUrNapaNe mANasa che. DaoNkTaro tabIbI sAdhanonI madadathI bALakanI pharatA AvaraNane paMkcara kare che, teo garbhanA TukaDA karI nAkhe che. khoparIvALuM moTuM mAthuM ghaNIvAra samasyA ubhI kare che. tabIbo bhrUNanA taratA mAthAne phorasepanI madadathI jorathI dAbIne toDI nAMkhe che ane chevaTe enA magajamAM kUNAM hADakAnI kaTakIo karIne sakzana paMpa dvArA tene zoSIne cUsIne bahAra kADhI le che.

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350 lava yu DoTara jemano paga kuMDALAmAM paDI gayo hoya evI lAkho apariNIta taruNIo mATe Ano vikalpa nathI hoto. DaoNkTara nethenasananI philmanI parAkASThA to tyAre Ave che jayAre peluM kAcuM bALaka ke pelo bhUNa tenI hatyA karavA tenI najIka AvatA tabIbI sAdhana pratye potAnA nAjuka pratyAghAta (riekzana) vyakta kare che. jagadIzacaMdra bojha kahyuM hatuM-pAMdaDAM toDazo mA, tenAmAM jIva che. jagadIzacaMdra dha sAIlenTa skIma joI hota to kadAca teo behoza thaI jAta. sakzana paMpa bhUNanI najIka jAya che tyAre bALakanA hRdayanA dhabakArA miniTe 14) hoya che, jevo paMpa tenI vadhAre najIka jAya che tyAre kAcA bALakanA hRdayanA dhabakArA vadhIne miniTe 200 thaI jAya che. te bApaDuM samaje che ke mArI upara jIvaleNa AkramaNa thaI rahyuM che. teno jIvanadIpa olavavA AvatA sAdhanathI bacavA te thoDuMka pAchuM haTI jAya che. tenI AjubAjunI nALa ane tenuM AvaraNa tabIbI sAdhanathI chidravALuM bane te pachI tene jhapaTamAM levAmAM ane cUMthavAmAM, toDavAmAM Ave che. bALakanA mAthAthI tenA dhaDane jhATakA sAthe chUTuM karavAmAM Ave che tyAre te vedanAthI moTuM khole che. A che sAIlenTa skIma (mUMgI cIsa). mAthuM toDatI vakhate enesthiziyA ApanAra vyakti tabIbane kahe che, have bAkI rahyuM che A naMbara vana ! pachI phorasepathI dabAvIne kaDaka mAthAne toDI ke visarjita karI nAkhavAmAM Ave che. eka jIvatA, rakSaNavihoNA (Diphensalesa) TacUkaDA mAnavInI hatyA karanArane pInala koDanI 30mI kalama nIce marDara mATe pakaDavAmAM Avato nathI ! ronAlDa reganane dha sAIlenTa skIma gamI ane temaNe dareka koMgresamenane (amerikana saMsada sabhyane) e philma jovAnI bhalAmaNa karI hatI. regana eborzanano kAyado badalavA Atura hatA. briTanamAM keTalAka tabIboe kahyuM che ke A philma atizayokti kare che, temAM spezyala iphekTasa che. temAM vikRtio che. paNa jyAre philmanirmAtA temane pUche che ke bhAI, AmAM kaI Tekanikala kSati che? tyAre pelA vAMdhAvacakA kADhanAra mANasa kAMI bolI zakato nathI, kAraNa ke dha sAIlenTa skIma eka sAcI philma che. satya haMmezA kalpanA karatAM, vArtA karatAM vadhu coMkAvanAruM hoya che. bhAratamAM saMsadasabhyo dha sAIlenTa skIma joI le, te pachI eborzanane maMjUrI Apato kAyado radabAtala karavo sahelo thaI paDaze. eborzana e hatyA kahevAya evI jogavAI pInala koDamAM sAmela thaI jAya, e divasa mAnavatAnA mahotsava jevo thaI jaze.

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CRUELTY 351 beTA, For more intormation I suggest you some books. (1) citkAra (2) ghera ghera problema (3) bahanA tuma pavitra rahanA (4) garbhamAM kamakamATIbharI hatyA. I know my daughter AvuM hicakAruM kAma tuM kadI karI ja na zake. chatAM koI aNasamajamAM ke koI gerasamajamAM bhUlathI paNa tArAthI AvuM khataranAka pApa na thaI jAya e mATe ja A vAta karI che. tArAthI bane to tArI paricita strIomAM-sahelIomAM tuM A jJAnano prasAra karaje ane A hatyAkAMDane aTakAvavAmAM tAruM paNa yogadAna Apaje. Wish you all the best.

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FOURTH BIRTH beTA, paMkhInuM eka nAma che dvija. dviH jAyate iti dvijaH / be vAra janma le te dvija. pahelI vAra iMDA rUpe. bIjI vAra baccA rUpe. brAhmaNane paNa dvija kahevAya che. pahelo janma mAtA Ape. bIjo janma guru Ape. I'M Talking about a woman. enA cAra janmo hoya che. pahelo - jyAre e bALakI rUpe janme. bIjo - jyAre e paraNe = patnI rUpe janme. trIjo - jyAre e mAtA bane = mA rUpe janme. cotho - jyAre eno putra paraNe ahIM vAta che 4th birthnI. My dear, kadAca tuM tArA sAsumAM keTalIka vastu mArka karIza. jemAM sudhAro jarUrI hoya. e emanI vANI hoI zake. = sAsu rUpe janme. e emanuM vartana ke valaNa hoI zake. e sudhArAone tuM jAgRtipUrvaka tArA potAnAmAM Apply karaje. 353

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354 lava yu DoTara ApaNe A duniyAmAM phakta eka ja vyaktine sudhArI zakIe chIe. je ApaNe pote chIe. bIjAnA vartana ke vANI sAthe ApaNI jAtane set na karI levI ane bIjAne sudhAravAnI pravRtti karavA javuM e khoTI dizAno prayAsa che. In other words e wrong number paranI vAto che. jeno koI ja artha nathI. My dear, sAcI dizAno prayAsa eka ja che potAne pUrNa banAvavAno prayAsa. tArA 4th birthmAM pUrNatA kaI rIte Ave enI A vAta che. eka gharamAM putravadhUnI vIMTI khovAI gaI. ghaNI zodhI, paNa na maLI. putravadhU khUba ja TenzanamAM AvI gaI. bIjA divase Bed-roomnI cAdara parathI e vIMTI maLI gaI ne ene hA..za thaI gayuM. trIjA divase eka akalpita ghaTanA banI. kabATamAM kapaDAMo vaccethI

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FOURTH BIRTH 355 barAbara evI ja bIjI vIMTI maLI AvI. baMne vIMTI ekadama sarakhI. vahu gharanA sabhyone e batAve che ne kahe che A kevo camatkAra thaI gayo !" sAsu paNa kahe che - "kharekhara camatkAra kahevAya.' sAMje phonanI ghaMTaDI vAgI. vahue phona upADyo. sAmethI avAja Avyo. "nIlAbahena che?" "nA, kema? zuM kAma hatuM?" "kAle emaNe 70 hajAranI vIMTI kharIdI, tenA pemenTamAM 500nI eka noTa vadhAre AvI gaI che. laI jAya." sAsu derAsarathI AvyA ne vahu emanA khoLAmAM mAthuM rAkhI dhrusake dhrusake raDI paDI... "mammI, tame mArA mATe....sittera hajAranI...." sAsue premathI kahyuM, "emAM kaMI ja nathI beTA. e sittera hajArathI to A gharamAM sittera varSa sudhI divALI thavAnI che.

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356 lava yu DoTara karoDothI paNa jenI kiMmata na thAya evI mArI dIkarI ciMtAmAM hoya enI sAme sittera hajAranI zuM kiMmata che?" My dear, pharI e kavitA yAda Ave che. rUpiyA AnA pAIno tuM choDa saravALo have, A to premano vepAra che haMmezA khoTa karaze. A eka jarUrI khoTa che, e na hoya to bIjI hajAro khoTa mANasane gherI vaLe che. Aje paNa evI putravadhU che. jenA pati dhaMdhAnA kAme cha mahinA sudhI videzamAM rahe che. patnIne sAthe AvavA mATe Agraha kare che. paNa eno eka ja javAba che. jyAM sudhI bA che, tyAM sudhI emanI sevA mATe huM ahIM ja rahIza." mArI vhAlI, vahunI vizeSatA AmAM cokkasa che. paNa enI sAthe sAthe sAsunI paNa vizeSatA che. sAsu jo kharA hRdayathI vahune dIkarI samaje.

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FOURTH BIRTH to vahu paNa emane kharA hRdayathI mammI samajavAnI ja. eka gharane svarga banI javA mATe AthI vadhu bIjI kaI apekSA hoI zake ? I have full faith on you, tuM A apekSAne pUrI karIza ja. Love you very much. 357

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GOOD-BYE 3pa9 mArI vhAlI, dizAone kaMThe Dumo bAjha ne havAnI AMkhamAM jhaLajhaLiyA AvI jAya evo avasara che dIkarInI vidAya. dIkarInI vidAya pitAnuM puruSatva mAtRtvane prApta kare che. dIkarAne paraNAvatA bApa vadhu juvAna bane che. paNa dIkarIne paraNAvatA e acAnaka ja gharaDo thaI jAya che. pratyeka pitAnI A parIkSA hoya che. A avasare pitAnI chAtIe jhIlelA dIkarInA AMsumAM jhAkaLabindu jevI akhilAI hoya che. ane dIkarInA pAlava para paDela pitAnuM eka AMsu jhuratA vAtsalyano abhiSeka hoya che. prabhune kadI prArthanA nahIM karanAra eka pitAe roja prArthanA karavAnI zarU karI hatI... "prabhu, A duniyAnA sarve puruSone tuM sArA banAvaje kAraNa ke emAMthI koIka mArI dIkarIno pati thavAno che,

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360 lava yu DoTara A duniyAnI sarva strIone tuM sArI banAvaje kAraNa ke emAMthI koIka mArI dIkarInA sAsu ane naNaMda thavAnA che. prabhu, jarUra paDe to tuM AkhI duniyAnuM punanirmANa karaje. paNa mArI dIkarIne duHkha na paDe enuM dhyAna rAkhaje." mArI vahAlI, A evo avasara hoya che. jyAre pitAnuM roma roma bolatuM hoya che. beTA, tArI pAnIthI jharajo kumakuma raMga tArA banne hoTha para rahejo hAsya abhaMga beTA, tuM ama bAgano maghamaghato che choDa jagajananI pUrI raho tArA saghaLA koDa (hasamukhabhAI maDhIvALA) basa beTA, bhAvukatAnI A bharatIne bahu laMbAvavI nathI. huM to tane eTaluM ja kahevA mAMgato hato. ke eka pitA mATe "putrI" zuM hoya che? ne e pitA

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GOOD-BYE 361 potAnA kALajAnA A TukaDAne jayAre vidAya Ape tyAre kevI kevI upayogI zIkha ApatA hoya che. ApaNA lAkho varSanA itihAsamAM dIkarI - vidAyanI jeTalI ghaTanAo banI emAMthI keTalIka ghaTanAonA keTalAka khAsa udgAro ahIM tArA mATe prastuta che. yAda rAkhaje beTA, eka premALa haiyuM chelle chelle potAnA premapAtrane potAnA UMDA jJAna ane lAMbA anubhavano nicoDa ApatuM hoya e tArA mATe paNa khUba khUba upayogI che. nRpa rANI beTIne bhAkhe hita-zikhAmaNa sArajI sasarA sAsuno vinaya karajo, deva samo bharathArajI deva-gurunI bhakti karajo, pALajo vrata-niyamajI rAjA ane rANI dIkarIne sAra (cream) hita-zikhAmaNa Ape che ke sasarA ane sAsuno vinaya karajo . patine deva samAna gaNajo. bhagavAna ane gurunI bhakti karajo . ane vrata-niyamanuM pAlana karajo - zrIcaMdrakevali rAsa --X --X --X --X --

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362 lava yu DoTara pati ANAe rahejo re, lajA nirvahejo re sAsu-sasarAnI sevA karajo pare re rAe mAnI te rANI re bahena sarakhI jANI re naNaMdI derANInAM mana sAcavo re guru vinaya karajo re, samatAmAM rahejo re dAnaguNe dIpAvajo, ama kula vaMzane ema kahI nija beTI re, hAMDAbhara bheTI re, thaI cheTI valyAM nijaghara AMsu bharyA re. beTA, tame patinI AjJAne anusAra rahejo. lajjA guNane barAbara sAcavI rAkhajo. sAsu-sasarAnI sevA sArI rIte karajo . rAjAne je gamI te rANI. tame enI IrSyA na karatAM, paNa ene tamArI bahena samAna mAnajo. (A vAta bahupatnItvanA kALanI che.) naNaMda ane derANInA manano khyAla rAkhajo. vaDIlono vinaya karajo . samatAmAM rahejo. dAnaguNathI-udAratAthI ApaNA kuLa-vaMzane dIpAvajo. Ama kahIne rAjA-rANIe potAnI dIkarIne chAtI sarasI cAMpI. dIkarIe vidAya lIdhI ane teo AMsu bharelI AMkhe rAjamahelamAM pAchA pharyA. - dharmilakumAra rAsa -4 -4 -4 -4-

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GOOD-BYE * zuzrUSasva gurUn kuru priyasakhI - vRttiM sapatnIjane, bharturviprakRtA'pi roSaNatayA, mA sma pratIpaM gamaH / bhUyiSThaM bhava dakSiNA parijane, bhogeSvanutsekinI, yAntyevaM gRhiNIpadaM yuvatayo, vAmA kulasyAdhaya : // zakuMtalAne vidAya ApatA kaNva RSi kahe che - vaDIlonI sevA karajo zokyanI priya sakhI banIne rahejo. patithI kyAreka nArAja thAya to paNa gussAthI emanuM kAMI pratikULa na karatI. emano virodha na karatI. parivAra pratye khUba snehALa banaje sukhabhogamAM pAgala na banatI. beTA, A rIte ja yuvatIo gRhiNI bane che. AnAthI viparIta hoya e to gharanI Adhio (Diseases) ja bane che. X X abhijJAna zAkuMtala (mahAkavi kAlidAsa) X X tatprasAde'pyanutsekaH tadanyairaprajalpanam / paravezmanyayAnaM cA - laGkRtiryoSitAmiyam // = zrISeNa rAjA potAnI dIkarI kanakavatI rAjakumArIne vidAya ApatA kahe che - beTA, 363 X

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364 lava yu DoTara pati tArA para khuza hoya. to paNa tuM abhimAna na karatI. pati sivAyanA puruSo sAthe vAto na karatI. ane bIjAnA ghare nahIM jatI. beTA, A traNa guNo alaMkAro che je nArIne kharA arthamAM zaNagAre che. - dhammilacaritra X - X _ - _ - X - kuladvayocitaM karma vidheyaM duhitaH sadA // madhuraM vacanaM loke, sarvaprItikaraM smRtam / tasmAt kaTUktirna kvApi, gaditavyA kadAcana // pitRvacchvazuro mAnyaH, zvazrUrmAtRvadanvaham / mAnanIyA nanAndrAdyAH, satkAryAH svajanAstathA // mArI dIkarI, tuM haMmezA evuM ja kAma karaje je tArA piyarakuLa ane sAsarAkuLane ucita hoya. duniyAmAM badhAM lokone madhuravacana AnaMda Ape che. mATe tuM kadI ya kyAMya kaDavuM vacana na bolatI. beTA, sasarAne haMmezA pitAnI jema

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GOOD-BYE 365 _ _ x . ane sAsune haMmezA mAtAnI jema mAnaje. naNaMda vagerenuM sammAna karaje ane svajanono satkAra karaje. - zrIyandravaliyaritra __ _x jaMpejja piyaM viNayaM karejja vajjejja putti ! paraniMdaM / vasaNe vi mA vimuMcasu dehacchAya vva niyanAhaM // mArI dIkarI, tuM priya vacana bolaje, vinaya karaje, bIjAnI niMdA kadI na karatI. game tevI ApattinA samayamAM paNa tArA patino tyAga na karatI. haMmezA emano paDachAyo banIne emanI sAthe ja raheje. - siriyarAyazyi - x - x - x x pagaicaurAe vacche ! jai vi na te sikkhaNijjamiha kiMci / taha vi hu avaccaneho, balA vi muharIkarei mamaM // vacche ! sarIrakicce paiNo pANIyabhoyaNappamuhe / avamanniyapahubhAvA sayameva sayA jaijjAsu // mA kaiyA vi hu majjasu, piyaeNa viyAriyA vacche ! / paipaNaeNa sunnA, mahilAo dhuvaM viNassaMti // loyaThiimettaM ciya vibhUsaNaM kaNayarayaNamaIehiM / sIlAlaMkAro cciya pasAhaNaM kulapasUyANaM //

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366 lava yu DoTara anaMgasiMha rAjA potAnI dIkarI ratnavatI rAjakumArIne vidAya ApatA kahe che - mArI dIkarI, tuM pote ja naisargika rIte kuzaLa che. mATe jo ke mAre tane kaMI zIkhavavAnuM na hoya. chatAM paNa saMtAna tarIke tArA parano mAro sneha mane parANe bolAvaDAve che. beTA, patinI je kAMI paNa sevA hoya... emane pANI ApavuM, jamADavuM vagere. A badhAmAM te pote ja joDAje. A badhuM karavAmAM tArA rANIpaNAno vicAra bilakula na karatI. pati tane sammAna Ape enAthI kadI tuM akkaDa na thatI. kAraNa ke enAthI patino prema ocho thaI jAya che ane ethI strIo nakkI nAza pAme che. beTA, sonAnA ke ratnanA AbhUSaNo e to kahevA pUratA ja AbhUSaNo che. bAkI

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GOOD-BYE 367 khAnadAna nArIonuM kharuM AbhUSaNa to zIla ja che. enAthI ja teo zobhe che. - nemicaritra - 8 - 8 - 8 beTA, jApAnamAM jyAre dIkarInA lagna thAya, tyAre e divase pitA potAnI dIkarIne 11 zIkha Ape che - 1. "Aje lagna pachI tuM mArI putrI nahi rahe. Aja sudhI tuM je prakAre mArI ane tArI mAtAnI AjJA pALatI rahI che, te ja pramANe have tuM tArA sasarA ane sAsunI AjJAnuM pAlana karaje. 2. lagna pachI mAtra eka pati tAro svAmI thaze. tenI sAthe haMmezAM namratA ane moTuM mana rAkhaje. potAnA patinI AjJAnuM akSaraza: pAlana karavuM e strIono sarvazreSTha dharma che. 3. tArA sAsariyAmAM haMmezAM vinaya ane sahanazIlatA rAkhaje ane kAryakuzaLa banaje. 4. temanI sAthe aNabanAva na karIza, nahi to patino prema khoIza. 5. kadI krodha na karIza. pati kaMI ayogya kare tyAre mauna rAkhaje ane pachI pati zAMta thAya tyAre namratAthI temane kharI hakakIta samajAvaje. 6. bahu vAto na karIza, juThuM na bolIza ane paDozInI niMdA na karIza. 7. hAtha jonAra joSI vagerene tArA bhAgyanI hakIkata na pUchIza. 8. tAruM gRhakArya karakasarathI calAvaje ane sAvadhAnIpUrvaka badhI vyavasthA karaje. 9. tArA pitAnI ucca padavI athavA gRhasthAIno phAMko na rAkhIza. pati samakSa tArA pitAnI dhanADhyatAnA zrImaMtAInA) vakhANa na karIza. 10. tuM yuvAna hoIne paNa yuvatIonI ToLImAM nahi besatAM vRddhA pAse ja besavAnI Teva rAkhaje.

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u68 lava yu DoTara 11. haMmezAM svacchatA ane lajjA jaLavAya evAM kapaDAM paheraje. bahu bhapakAdAra raMganA ane phezanavALAM kapaDAM na paherIza. mArI hAlI, eka dIkarA mATe maratAM bApanuM vacana jeTaluM mUlyavAna che eTaluM ja mUlyavAna eka dIkarI mATe pitAe vidAya vakhate kaheluM vacana che. ghaTanA bhale judI che. pAtro bhale alaga che. paNa jo tuM samajI zake to A ApaNI ja vAta che. TakaTaka kadAca duniyAmAM haze. mAtA-pitAnA to TAMkaNA hoya che. kacakaca kadAca bIje haze. mAtA-pitAnI to kotaraNI hoya che. hiTalara koI bIjo haze. mAtA-pitA to haMmezA hitakara ja hoya che. amRtAdapyadhikA zikSA mAturpiturgurujanasya / mAtA, pitA ane guru A traNanI zIkha amRta karatA paNa caDiyAtI hoya che. mArI hAlI, tane Good-bye kahetA mAro jIva cAlato nathI.

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GOOD-BYE eka pitA mATe A Bye kadI Good hotI nathI. But, jo tArI Life good haze, jo tuM sukhI hoIza, to tAruM sukha mAro jIvanabharano saMtoSa banI jaze. mane khAtarI che beTA, tArA jIvanamAM jo A jJAna jIvaMta banaze to tuM 100% sukhI thaIza thaIza ne thaIza ja. paristhiti kadAca game tevI haze. paNa tuM sukhI ja hoIza. That's what I want. My dear, eka pitAne enI dIkarI pAsethI bIjI kaI apekSA hoI zake ? sivAya enuM sukha. dIkarI sukhI to pitA parama sukhI. Please follow this real knoledge my daughter, Be happy in your life. with a warm love your pasents 369

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Usefull books for your daughter na haiyAnI vAta ne hRdayanI vyathA jhera jayAre nItarI jAya che lakhI rAkho ArasanI takatI para kuTambe snehabhAva * o jIjAmaiyA jaldI zivAjInA darzana do sItAjInA pagale pagale 21414514 the path of the pleasure saphaLa thavuM che? jo je amRtakuMbha DhoLAya nA amerikA jatA pahelA rAte khAtA pahelA tame sagAI karo te pahelA citkAra - benaDI tuM saMskRtinA raste pAchI pharI ne ghera ghera problema 370

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Thanks to kanyA padharAvo sAvadhAna vhAlI AsthA vhAlI dIkarIne dIkarI mArI dosta dIkarI vhAlano dariyo dIkarI eTale tulasI kyAro dIkarI kariyAvara dIkarI eTale dIkarI strIo mATe kartavyabodha zivadAna gaDhavI kAjala ojhA jayavatI kAjI nIlama dozI vinoda paMDyA, kAMti paTela dinakara joSI hitena AnaMdaparA dilipa bhaTTa kAnti paTela jayadayAla gauyandakA 371

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0 larna enDa arna 0. Aje je ghara-gharanI asahya jarUrIyAta che. e zikSaNa Tyuzana/kalAsa dvArA ApavA mATe ghera beThA phrImAM zIkho ane mahinAnA lAkha rUpiyA sudhI kamAo. zIkhavA mATe phrI i-buka -lava yu DoTara Hudal HI2 Email : ahoshrut.bs@gmail.com zIkhyA bAda karavAnI jAherAta... Contact : Date : A che tamArI dIkarInuM jIvanabharanuM sukha ane tamArI jIvanabharanI hAza Time : Place : 'lAIpha spIca lAipha lAiTa lAipha ArTa skUla, koleja, Tyuzana klAsa ke mIDiyA je kadI nahIM ApI zake paNa tamArI dIkarI mATe je khUba khUba jarUrI che evo lAIpha korsa, \lAipha sephaTI M0W Les Special plejhara lAipha phana lAipha sIkyurITI lAipha saksesa (12 thI 24 varSanI rAjakumArIo mATe phakta 30 kalAkano lAipha korsa, jeo deza, samAja / dharma mATe kAMIka sAruM karavA mAMge che. tevA bahenoe/nArI utkarSanI saMsthAoe/mahilA maMDaLoe so kAma mUkIne sau prathama A kAma karavA jevuM che. nArI bacaze, to deza, samAja ane dharma badhuM ja bacI jaze. You Just Can't miss it jo Apa icchatA ho ke tamArI lADalI sAsarAmAM sthira ane sukhI thAya, enuM jIvana svarga bane, ane enA mAtA-pitA tarIke chAtI gaja gaja phUle to tamArA mATe A svarNimaavasara che. ane chello avasara che. cUkazo to peTa bharIne pastAzo."

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PRIYAM'S - the joy of the reading Books for the General Public 1. divALI ujavo te pahelA (guja.-hiMdI) - utsavanI kamplITa gAIDa lAIna 2. rAte khAtA pahelA (guja.-aMgrejI) - DinaranI ArapAra 3. amerikA jatA pahelA - 58 poInTsa opha vyuthI amerikA 4. rAmAyaNam - sukhI jIvananI zailI mAnavatA - komeDI ane TrejeDI 6. saphaLa thavuM che ? - saphaLa jIvananI saphaLa cAvI 7. hepI akhAtrIja - akSayatRtIyAnuM sikreTa 8. hepI hoLI - hoLInA raMgonI bhItaramAM 9. hepI uttarAyaNa (guja.-aMgrejI) - "kApyo che'nuM posTamorTama 10. saMskAra ABCD (guja.-aMgrejI-hiMdI) - saMtAnanuM svarNima bhaviSya 11. hepI rAmanavamI - zrIrAmajanmanI sAcI ujavaNI 12. smArTa phuDa (guja.-hiMdI) - vaijJAnika ane dhArmika dRSTie bhojana 13. satya - mahApuruSonI dRSTimAM satya 14. prAmANikatA - graMthonI godamAM prAmANikatA 15. camatkAronI diladhaDaka dAstAna - sAyanTiphika rilijIyana 16. ArSa vizva (guja.-hiMdI) - RSionI amara vANI 17. karuNA - sarva dharmonuM AbhUSaNa 18. lava yu DoTara (guja.-hiMdI) - dIkarI mATe ola Ina vana lAIphakorsa HEART TO HEART SERIES phriI I-buka mATe ahoshrut.bs@gmail.com

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je 4. PRIYAM'S - the joy of the reading Books for the Jains 1. AdinAthane vaMdana amArA - bhaktithI mukti-kamplITa gAIDa 2. ora na cAhuM re kaMta - dha DivAIna lava cattAri saraNe pavazvAmi - paramane saMpUrNa zaraNa bhagavatIsUtra saMvedanA - ziSyatvanuM saundarya 5. zrAvakanuM saundarya 1,2 - dha rIyala byuTI-pArlara 6. navapada saMvedanA - dhArAvAhI pravacano 7. prasannatAnI paraba - jJAnano likviDa phlo 8. bujhikra tiuTTA - aDhAra pApasthAnaka 9. vedanAnA zikhare sAkSAt naraka 10. sun n Fun - bALazibira-pravacanadhArA (gujarAtI) 11. guru amRta kI khAna - sagurunA sAnnidhyanI paLo 12. dha mejika vidhIna - pratikramaNanI jAduI prakriyA 13. savi jIva karuM zAsanarasI - prayAsa ane pariNAma 14. Agama-asmitA - 45 Agama ahobhAvayAtrA 15. varSItapanI rahasyayAtrA - prabhunA 13 prakAranA varSItapa 16. nArI in Jainism (hiMdI) - jinazAsanamAM "strI'nuM gaurava 17. Jainism in my Eye - varlDa-selibriTIsanI dRSTimAM jenIjhama 18. God mahAvIra in my Eye - varlDa-selibriTIsanI dRSTimAM mahAvIra 19. pAlItANA Avo tyAre (gu.+hiM.) - eka kamplITa yAtrA gAIDa 20. AgamanI AchI jhalaka - 45 Agama - TUMka paricaya ra1. TesTa jenIjhama - jainIjhamanI simpala TesTa buka 22. jenIjhama (guja.+hiMdI) - zorTa enDa svITa jenIjhama 23. e ahIM ja che - prabhuno sAkSAt ahesAsa 24. ApanA mATenI bhaviSyavANI - no yora phyucara DephineTalI 25. varaghoDAmAM jatAM pahelAM - sAmaiyuM - varaghoDo gAIDa lAIna ra6. dAna ApatAM pahelAM - jyAM rUpiyo ugI nIkaLaze ra7. bhaNatA pahelAM - jJAna prAptinI soLa yogyatAo 28. vilaMba karatAM pahelAM - sukRta-sAphalyanI pagadaMDI ra9. sagAI karatAM pahelAM (guja.+hiMdI) - kamplITa engajamenTa - gAIDa 30. prejhanTa philosophI - AgamanA darpaNamAM navA darzano 31. prabhu vIranI vANI - sarva zAstrono sAra 32. Agama amRta zreNI - 24 pokeTa buksamAM Agama sudhA 33. AjJAyoga - mokSamArganuM parama rahasya 34. A che saMsAra - pUro pardAphAza (gu.hiM.) 35. saMyama kaba hI mile ? (gu.hiM.) - mumukSunA haiyAnI vAta mAtA-pitAnA haiyAne

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36. apahiyaM kAyavuM 37. Dile Isa Denjarasa 38. jIrAvalIyam 39. brahma Easy 40. Imozansa 41. samAdhAnanI aMjali 42. sTAra sTorI 43. AcAranI aMjali 44. adhyAtmanI aMjali 45. dhyAnayoga 46. svapna jinazAsana 47. AtmAnI aMtaryAtrA 48. sadA magana meM rahanA 49. anubhUtigItA 50. hepI paryuSaNa 51. samatA para. sukhopaniSad pa3. sAmyopaniSad 54. dharmopaniSa 55. pUrvopaniSad pa6. magnopaniSad 57. vIropaniSa 58. AI AI re aMjazalAkA 59. tripadIzatakam 60. saMdarbhasaMcaya 61. AnaMdaghananI AtmAnubhUti 62. phIliMgsa 63. upamitinI aMjali 64. saMtAnone gumAvatA pahelA 65. vinaya 66. aMtaranI aMjali 67. lAIpha korsa 68. spIricyuMala korsa 69. saMyamInI aMjali 70. Let me say (guja.) - dIkSA mATe zAstrIya mArgadarzana (hiMdI) - abhI nahIM to kabhI nahIM (gu.+hiM.) - jIrAvalAnI abhuta kathA (hiMdI) - brahmacarya - mArgadarzana - hRdayanI vAta zramaNAdi dvArA pUchAyela praznonA uttaro - bALa-vArtA AcArapuruSa sUri premanA guNagAna - adhyAtmasAra AdhArita pravacanonI jhalaka - paMdara prekTikala meDiTezansa - svarNima svapnonuM vizva - Ina dha sarca opha dha selpha - sAcA sukhanuM sAcuM saranAmuM - mastIno masta mahotsava - paricaya ane pariNati - jIvanmuktinI anubhUti - sukhanuM sAcuM rahasya (guja.-hiMdI-aMgre.-saM.) - samatAnA saMge - sarva dharmonuM rahasya (saM. hiMdI-aMgre.) - pUrNatAnI pagathAre (guja.-hiMdI-aMgre.-saM.) - magnatAnI mastIe (guja.-hiMdI-aMgre.-saM.) - vIratAnI vATaDIe (guja.-hiMdI-aMgre.-saM.) - sTeja progrAma raniMga skrIpTa - so pravacano-samarI - vINelA motIo - AdhyAtmika padonI bhItarI yAtrA (1 thI 41) - jinazAsana mATenI aMtaranI urmio pravacana-jhalaka - ejyukezana gAIDa - uttarAdhyayana-pravacana-jhalaka - vividha viSayaka aMtaranI vAto - prekaTIkala ejyukezana - sAttvika ejyukezana - dIkSotsava pravacano - aganavarSA w w w w w w w w w HEART TO HEART SERIES phrI I-buka mATe ahoshrut.bs@gmail.com

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PRIYAM'S - Common List Agama-TIkA sAhitya Agama upaniSad zreNi 1-24 (saMskRta sAra saMcaya) aMgacUlikA-1, ra maraNavibhaktiprakIrNaka-1 mahApratyAkhyAnaprakIrNaka RSibhASita-1, 2 candrAvedhyakaprakIrNaka vargacUlikA anya TIkA sAhitya upadezaratnakoSa duHSamagaMDikA vAdopaniSad jIvadayAprakaraNa nAnAcittaprakaraNa vedopaniSad jJAnapaMcakavivaraNa prArthanopaniSa zikSopaniSad tattvopaniSad lokatattvanirNaya stavopaniSa AdhyAtmika saMskRta sAhitya avadhUtagItA Ibdopadeza mokSopaniSad aSTAvakragItA upaniSat sarvasvam mohopaniSad AtmAvabodha jJAnasAra upahAra vimukyupaniSad AnaMdopaniSad mahopaniSa saddhodhacandrodaya samAdhitaMtra samAdhisudhA saMskRta anuvAda sAhitya taraMgalolA samAsa dhyAnopaniSa paMcasUtropaniSad vicArabindu gujarAtI anuvAda sAhitya aspRzadgativAda gautamASTaka dharmopaniSad AgamapratipakSanirAkaraNa dAnAdiprakaraNa pUrvopaniSad karmasiddhi devadharmaparIkSA magnopaniSa dezanAzataka zaMkhezvarastotra moharAja parAjaya 1,ra saMbodhasamati 1,2 stotropaniSad hiMsASTaka hitazikSAchatrIzI vizeSazataka alaMkAra + chaMda sAhitya chaMdoDalaMkAranirUpaNam nUtana kAvya sAhitya jIrAvalIyam premamaMdiram bhuvanabhAnavIyam dezanopaniSa siddhAnta mahodadhi samatAsAgara paramapratiSThA dArzanika anuvAda sAhitya Atmatattvaviveka sarvadarzanasaMgraha 1,2 pAparipatra

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AcAropaniSad zamopaniSad samayasAra bhuvanabhAnavIyavArtika pravrajyAvidhAna bhartRharinirveda sukhopaniSad karuNA smArTa phuDa enjoya jenIjhama yogopaniSad zrutamahApUjanam brahmopaniSad AI AI re aMjanazalAkA nUtana prakaraNa sAhitya hitopaniSad sAmyopaniSad samatA nUtana vArtika sAhitya yogabiMduzlokavArtika dAnaviMzikA paMcasUtravArtika saMyamajIvanopayogI sAhitya anubhUtigItA AnaMdaghananI AtmAnubhUti (pada 1 thI 41) sadA magana meM rahanA AdinAthane vaMdana amArA cattAri saraNe pavAmi bujhi ttiuddeznA zrAvakanuM saundarya 1,2 varSItapanI rahasyayAtrA AzAtanopaniSad prathamopaniSad pravacanaprasUpaniSad zrAmaNyopaniSad saMzopaniSad di rAITa DAyaTa upadezapadopaniSad comAsuM karatA pahelA zramaNa abhyAsakrama zrAmaNyasaMvAda sTeja progrAma sAhitya jIvanalakSya - lAIva lAIpha sTAIla sAra saMcaya sAhitya prAmANikatA svAdhyAyayAtrA hiMdI bALa sAhitya DAyamaMDa DAyarI AdhyAtmika (gujarAtI) sAhitya brahma Easy sattvopaniSad sUktopaniSad zAlibhadra - lAIva satya sTorI sTorI Agama amRta zreNi (1-24) AjJAyoga AtmAnI aMtaryAtrA dhyAnayoga vIropaniSad paramopaniSad pravacana sAhitya ora na cAhuM re kaMta mAnavatA navapada saMvedanA prasannatAnI paraba bhagavatIsUtra saMvedanA vedanAnA zikhare saMskAra ABCD (guja.+hiM.+aM.) saphaLa thavuM che ? saMtAnone gumAvatAM pahelAM

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hepI .. phIliMgsa Imozansa vinaya rAmAyaNam mArgAnusAritA-1 tripadIzataka-1,2 navapada pradakSiNA saMdarbhasamUha saMdarbhasaMcaya saMdarbhasaMdoha saMdarbhasaMgraha saMdarbhasaMkalana saMdarbhasAgara saMdarbhasindha ArSa vizva ArSa vizva Sun n Fun Let me say svapna jinazAsana saMyamanI aMjali upamitinI aMjali AcAranI aMjali aMtaranI aMjali adhyAtmanI aMjali prakIrNa sAhitya camatkAronI diladhaDaka dAstAna nArI In Jainisim divALI ujavo te pahelA Jainism In my eye guru amRta kI khAna rAte khAtA pahelA divAlI manAne se pahale pAlItAnA Ao taba 5uclugu Avo tyAre God mahAvIra In my eye dha mejika vidhIna amerikA jatA pahelA savi jIva karuM zAsana rasI hepI akhAtrIja hepI uttarAyaNa AgamanI AchI jhalaka hepI rAmanavamI hepI holI e ahIM ja che hepI paryuSaNa jenIjhama nainIjhama ApanA mATenI bhaviSyavANI varaghoDAmAM jatA pahelAM TesTa jenIjhama Agama asmitA prejhanTa philosophI prabhu vIranI vANI lava yu DoTara (gu. hi.) dAna ApatA pahelAM AjJAyoga spIricyuMala korsa sTAra sTorI samAdhAnanI aMjali boTikopaniSad lAIpha korsa sAhitya vizvamAM svAgata mumukSu sAhitya A che saMsAra saMyama kaba hI mile ? appahiyaM kAyavvaM yaha hai saMsAra saMyama rad hI mile ? Dile Isa Denjarasa Dile isa Denjarasa vilaMba karatA pahelAM bhaNatAM pahelAM bhakti sAhitya annAmasahasrasamuccaya jIrAvalA juhArIe upAsanopaniSad stavanA pemphaleTa sAhitya jaina dharma aura bhagavAna mahAvIra The art of the parenting Do you know | vayAM mApa nInate hai / zuM tame jANo cho ? Jainism's Social output Jainism vizvanI badhI samasyAonuM samAdhAna guru prema