Jain Dharm aur Vidhva Vivaha 01

Author(s): Savyasachi
Publisher: Jain Bal Vidhva Sahayak Sabha Delhi
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/010223/1

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vIra sevA mandira dillI krama saMkhyA kAla naM0 khaNDa c-TeTa 41.5 // sahayaMjA

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haikara naM0 - jainadharma aura vidhavA vivAha (prathama bhAga) lekhaka:zrIyuta "savyasAcI" prakAzaka :daulatarAma jaina, maMtrI jaina bAla vidhavA sahAyaka sabhA darIbA kalA~, dehalI -reer zAnticandra jaina ke prabandha se "caitanya" prinTiGga presa, 'yajanaura meM chpii| prathama vAra ) pauSa mUlya . 2000vIra ni0 sambat 2455 / - - - -

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* dhanyavAda * isa TraikR ke chapavAne ke liye nimna likhita mahAnubhAvoM ne sahAyatA pradAna kI hai, jinako sabhA hArdika dhanyavAda detI hai / sAtha hI samAja ke anya strI puruSoM se nivedana karatI hai ki ve bhI nimna zrImAnoM kA anukaraNa karake aura apanI dukhita bahinoM para tarasa khAkara isI prakAra sahAyatA pradAna karane kI udAratA dikhalAveM : 10) lAlA daulatarAma jaina, kaTarA gaurIzaMkara dehalI / 10) lAlA kesarImala zrIrAma cAvala vAle dehalI / 10) lAlA zikharacandra jaina / 5) lAlA kazmIrIlAla paTavArI badavAle DAkakhAnA chaparolI / 10) musaddIlAla lekharAja kasere meraTha chAvanI / 10) guptadAna ( eka jauharI ) / 10) guptadAna ( eka bAbU sAhiba ) | 10) guptadAna ( eka jauharI ) | 10) gumadAna eka ThekedAra ) | 4 5) guptadAna ( eka sarApha ) / 10) guptadAna ( eka goTevAle ) / 10) lA0 bhannalAla zivasiMharAya jainI, zAdarA dehalI 110 ) kula jor3a

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namra nivedana yaha pAThakoM meM chipA nahIM hai ki vidhavA vivAha kA prazna dina 2 deza vyApI hotA jA rahA hai| eka mamaya thA ki jaba vidhavA vivAha kA nAma lene hI ma loga bhaya khAte the: Aja yaha samaya AgayA hai ki saba se pIche rahane vAle sanAtana dharmI aura jaina dharmA bar3e vidvAna bhI isakA pracAra karane meM nana mana aura dhana meM juTe hue dikhAI par3ate hai / yaha deza ke parama saubhAgya kI bAta hai ki aba sarva sAdhAraNa ko vidhavA vivAha ke pracAra kI AvazyaktA kA anubhava ho calA hai / yadyapi kahI 2 thor3A 2 isakA virodha bhI kiyA jA rahA hai, lekina mabhya aura zikSita samAja ke sAmane usa virodha kA aba koI mUlya nahIM rahA hai| jaina samAja meM bhI yaha prazna jorI meM cala rahA hai| kucha loga isakA virodha kara rahe hai / isa viSaya para nirgaya karane ke liya jaina samAja ke parama vidvAna, agvila bhAratavarSIya sanAtana dharma mahA sabhA dvAga 'vidyA vArgidha kI padavI se vibhUSita zrImAna paM0 campatagaya jI jaina bAra-Ta-lA, haradoI ne jaina samAja ke sAmane kucha prazna hala karane ko zrImAna mAhitya ratna paM0 darabAgelAla jI nyAyAdha dvArA sampAdita muprasiddha patra "jana jagata" ( ajamara ) meM prakAzita karAye the / ina praznoM ko zrIyuta "madhya nAcI" mahodaya ne isI patra meM bar3I yogyatA se hala kiyA hai ki jisakA uttara dene meM loga aba taka asaphala rahe haiN| hama cAhate hai ki samajhadAra jaina samAja pakSapAta ko tyAga kara zrIyuta 'satyamAcI' kI vinA se lAbha uThAye / zrataH

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( 2 ) "zrI bairisTara sAhaba ke praznoM kA uttara" jaiva jagata (ajamera) se uddhata karake kR rUpa meM jaina samAja ke lAbhArtha prakAzita kiyA jAtA hai| jo jainI bhAI vidhavA vivAha ke prazna se Dara kara dUra bhAgate haiM unako cAhiye ki ve kRpA karake isa TraikRko avazya par3ha leveM / zrAzA kI jAtI hai ki jo jaina bandhu jJAnAvaraNI karmoM ke udaya se "vidhavA vivAha" ko burA samajhate haiM aura samAja sudhAra ke zubha kArya meM antarAya DAla kara pApa karma ke bhAgI banate haiM, unako isakI svAdhyAya kara lene para vidhavA vivAha kI vAstavikatA kA saccA svarUpa sahaja hI meM darpaNavat spaTa dIkhane laga jAvegA / ko jaina zrIyuta "savya sAcI" mahodaya dvArA diye hue uttara jagata meM par3hakara kalyANI nAmaka kisI bahana kI isI patra meM eka ciTThI chapI hai| usa ciTThI meM bahana kalyANI ne zrI 'savya sAcI' jI se kucha prazna bhI kiye haiN| ina praznoM kA uttara bhI zrI0 'savyasAcI' jI ne ukta 'jaina jagata' meM chapavAye haiM / lihAz2A, bahana kalyANI kA patra va zrIyuta savya sAcI dvArA diyA huA isakA uttara bhI isI Treka meM 'jaina jagata' se leliyA gayA hai| jo bAteM pUrva meM raha gaI thIM, ve prazna karake bahana kalyANI ne likhavAdI haiM / yaha bAta nahIM hai ki yaha TraikR kevala jainiyoM ke hI liye lAbhadAyaka ho, balki jainaMtara bandhu bhI isameM prakAzita vidhavA vivAha kI samarthaka yuktiyoM se lAbha uThAkara virodhiyoM ko mu~ha tor3a uttara de sakate haiN| kisa uttamatA ke sAtha dharma carcA kI gaI hai, yaha bAta isake svAdhyAya se hI mAlUma hogI / - mantrI

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jainadharma aura vidhavA vivAha prazna ( 1 ) - vidhavA vivAha se samyagdarzana kA nAza ho jAtA hai yA nahIM ? yadi hotA hai to kisakA ? vivAha karane karAne vAloM kA yA pUrI jAti kA ? uttara - vidhavA vivAha se samyagdarzana kA nAza nahIM ho sakatA / samyagdarzana apane zrAtmasvarUpa ke anubhava kA kahate haiM / zrAtmasvarUpa ke anubhava kA, vivAha zAdI se koI tAlluka nahIM / jaba sAtaveM naraka ke nArakI aura pA~coM pApa karane vAle prANiyoM kA samyagdarzana naSTa nahIM hotA taba, vidhavA vivAha to brahmacaryAzuvata kA sAdhaka hai usase samyak darzana kA nAza kaise hogA ? vidhavA vivAha zrapratyAkhyAnA - varaNa kaSAya ke udaya se hotA hai / zrapratyAkhyAnAvaraNa kaSAya se samyagdarzana kA ghAta nahIM ho sakatA / kahA jA sakatA hai ki vidhavA vivAha ko dharma mAnanA to midhyAtva karma ke udaya se hogA, aura mithyAtva karma samyagdarzana kA nAza karadegA / isake uttara meM itanA kahanA basa hogA ki yoM to vidhavA vivAha hI kyoM, vivAha mAtra dharma nahIM hai kyoMki koI bhI pravRttirUpa kArya jaina zAstroM kI apekSA dharma nahIM kahA jA sakatA / yadi kahA jAya ki vivAha sarvathA pravRtyAtmaka nahIM hai kintu nivRtyAtmaka bhI hai, arthAt vivAha se eka strI meM rAga hotA hai to saMsAra kI bAkI saba

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(8) striyoM se virAga bhI hotA hai / virAga zraMza dharma hai, jisakA kAraNa vivAha hai| isa lie vivAha bhI upacAra se dharma kaha lAtA hai| to yahI bAta vidhavA vivAha ke bAre meM bhI hai / vidhavA vivAha se bhI eka strI meM rAga aura bAkI saba striyoM meM virAga paidA hotA hai / isa liye kumArI vivAha ke samAna vidhavA vivAha bhI dharma hai / "" yadi kahA jAya ki zAstroM meM to kanyA kA hI vivAha likhA hai, isa lie vidhavA vivAha, vivAha hI nahIM ho saktA, to isakA uttara yaha hai ki zAstroM meM vivAha ke sAmAnya lakSaNa meM kanyA zabda kA ullekha nahIM hai / rAjavArtika meM likhA hai - " sadvedyacAritramohodayAdvivahane vivAhaH " - sAtA aritr aura cAritra mohanIya ke udaya se "puruSa kA strI ko aura strI kA puruSa ko svIkAra karanA favAha hai / Upara jisa siddhAnta se vivAha dharma-sAdhaka mAnA gayA hai, usI siddhAnta se vidhavA vivAha bhI dharmasAdhaka siddha huA hai 1 isalie caraNAnuyoga zAstra aisI koI AjJA nahI de sakatA jisakA samarthana karaNAnuyoga zAstra se na hotA ho / rAjavArtika ke bhASya meM tathA anya graMthoM meM jo kanyA zabda kA ullekha kiyA gayA hai, vaha to mukhyatA ko lekara kiyA gayA hai / isa taraha mukhyatA ko lekara zAstroM meM saikar3oM zabdoM kA kathana kiyA gayA hai| isI vivAha prakaraNa meM vivAha yogya kanyA kA lakSNa kyA hai, vaha bhI vicAra lIjie / trivarNAcAra meM likhA hai zranyagotra bhaSAM kanyAmanAtaGkAM sulakSaNAm / zrAyuSmatI guNADhyAM ca pitRdattAM varedvaraH //

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arthAt-dusare gotra meM paidA huI, nIgaMga, acche lakSaNa vAlI, AyuSmatI, guNazAlinI aura pitA ke dvArA dI huI kanyA ko varaNa kare / yadi kanyA bImAra ho, yA vaha jaldI mara jAya, no kyA usakA vivAha adharma kahalAyagA? jisa kanyA kA pitA mara gayA ho to use kona degA aura kyA usakA vivAha adharma kahalAyagA ? yadi yaha kahA jAya ki pitA kA tAtparya gurujana se hai to kyA yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA ki kanyA kA tAtparya vivAha yogya strI se hai ? kumArI ke atirikta bhI kanyA zabda kA prayAga hAnA hai| di0 jainAcArya zrIdharasenAna vizvalocana koSa meM kanyA zabda kA artha kumArI ke ani rikta strI sAmAnya bhI kiyA gayA hai / 'kanyA kamArikA nAyaryA gshibhNdossdhiibhidaaH|' ( vizvalocana, yAntavarga, zloka 5 vaaN)| isI taraha padmapurANa meM bhI sugrIva kI strI sunArA ko usa samaya kanyA kahA gayA hai jaba ki vaha do baccoM kI mAM ho gaI thii| 'kenopAyena tAM kanyAM lasya nivRtidAyinI // ' sutArA ko kanyA kahane kA matalaba yaha hai ki sAhasagati vidyAdhara use apanI patnI banAnA cAhatA thA / dharma maMgraha zrAvakAcAra meM devAGganAoM ko bhI kanyA kahA hai-- evaM caturtha cIthISu nRtyazAlAdayaH smRtAH / pagmatra pranatyaMni vaimAnA marakanyakAH / / devAGganAoM kA kanyA isI lie kahA jAtA hai ki ve eka deva ke marane para dUsare deva kI patnI bana sakatI haiN| agara kanyA zabda kA artha kumArI hI rakkhA jAve

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to dIkSAnvaya kriyA meM strI puruSa kA punarvivAha saMskAra kaise hogA? punarvivAha saMskAraH parvaH sarvosya saMmataH / siddhArcanAM puraskRtya palyAH sNskaarmicchtH| -zrAdipugaNa 36 vA~ parva / 60 vA~ zloka / arthAt-jaba koI arjana puruSa jainadharma kI dIkSA le to usakA aura usakI strI kA phira vivAha karanA cAhie / jo loga kanyA kA artha kumArI hI kareMge unake mata se uma puruSa kI patnI kA vivAha kaise hogA ? kyA bhagavajinasenAcArya ke dvArA batAyA gayA punarvivAha bhI adharma hai ? isase sApha mAlUma hotA hai ki zAstroM meM kanyA zabda kumArI ke lie nahIM, kintu vivAha yogya strI ke liye AyA hai| zAstroM meM vivAha kA kathana zrAdarza yA bahulatA ko lekara kiyA gayA hai| sAgAradharmAmRta meM kanyA ke lie nidoSa vizeSaNa diyA gayA hai| nirdoSa kA artha kiyA hai-sAmudrika zAstra ke anusAra doSoM se gahata / parantu aisI bahuta thor3I hI kanyAeM hoMgI jinameM sAmudrika zAstra ke anusAra doSa na ho / to kyA unakA vivAha dharma viruddha kahalAyagA ? isa liye jisa prakAra kanyA ke svarUpa meM usake "aneka vizeSaNa anivArya nahIM hai. usI prakAra vivAha ke lakSaNa meM bhI kanyA kA ullekha anivArya nahIM hai / kyoMki kanyA aura vidhavA meM karaNAnuyAMga kI dRSTi meM koI antara nahIM hai, jisake anusAra kanyA aura vidhavA ke liye judI judI do prAjJAe banAI jAyaM / jo loga kanyA zabda ko anucita

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mahatva denA cAhate hoM unako samajhanA cAhiye ki kanyA zabda kA artha kumArI nahIM, kintu vivAha yogya strI hai / isa taraha bhI vidhavA vivAha Agama kI AjJA ke pratikUla nahIM hai / isa liye usakA mithyAtva ke sAtha koI sambandha nahIM hai jisase vaha samyagdarzana kA nAzaka mAnA jA sake / prazna (2)- punarvivAha karane vAle samyaktvI hone para svarga jA sakate haiM yA nahIM ? / uttara-jA sakate haiM / java punarvivAha brahmacarya aNuvrata kA sAdhaka hai taba usase svarga jAne meM kyA bAdhA hai ? svarga tA mithyAdRSTi bhI jAte haiM, phira vidhavA vivAha karane vAlA to apanI patnI ke sAtha rahakara mamyagdRSTi aura chaTavI pratimA taka dezavatI zrAvaka bhI ho sakatA hai aura pIche munivrata le le to mokSa ko bhI jA sakatA hai / vidhavA vivAha mokSamArga meM utanA hI bAdhaka hai jitanA ki kumArI vivAha ! svarga meM donoM hI bAdhaka nahIM hai| donoM se solahaveM svarga taka jA sakatA hai / rAjA madhune candrAbhA ko rakha liyA thA,phira bhI vaha mara kara solahaveM svarga gaI / pahile prazna ke uttara se isa prazna ke uttara para pUrA prakAza par3a jAtA hai prazna (3)-vidhavA vivAha se niryazca aura naraka gati kA baMdha hotA hai yA nahIM ? uttara-vidhavAvivAha se tiryazca aura naraka gati kA baMdha kadApi nahIM ho sakatA, kyoMki tiryaJca gati aura naraka gati azubha nAma karma ke bhItara zAmila hai| azubha nAma karma ke baMdha ke kAraNa yoga vakratA aura visaMvAdana hai / "yogavakatA

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( ) visaMvAdanaM cAzubhasya nAmnaH' arthAt mana, vacana, kAya kI kuTilatA se azubha nAma karma kA bandha hotA hai / vidhavA vivAha meM mana, vacana, kAya kI kuTilatA kA koI sambandha nahIM hai,balki pratyeka bAna kI saphAI arthAt saralatA hai| isa lie azubha nAma karma kA bandha nahIM ho sktaa| hA~, jo vidhavA-vivAha ke virodhI hai, ve adhikatara narakagati aura niryazcagati kA bandha karane haiM, kyoMki unheM visaMvAdana karanA par3atA hai| visaMvAdana se azubha nAma karma kA bandha hotA hai / gajavArtika meM visaMvAdana kA bulAsA isa prakAra kiyA hai samyagabhyudayani zreyasArthAsu kriyAsu pravartamAnamanyaM kAya vAGmanobhirvisaMvAdayati maicaM kArSIrevaM kurviti kuTilatayA pravartana visaMvAdanaM / arthAt koI manuSya svargamAnopayogI kriyAe~ kara rahA hai use rokanA visaMvAda hai / yaha to siddha hI hai ki vidhavA vivAha aNuvrata kA mAdhaka hone se svargamokSopayogI hai / jo vidhavANa pUrNa brahmacarya kA pAlana nahIM kara sakatI haiM, unheM vidhavA vivAha ke dvArA avirati se haTA kara dezavirati dIkSA denA hai| isa dIkSA ko jo rokate haiM, dharma viruddha batAte haiM, bahiSkArAdi karate haiM, ve pUjyapAda akalaMka deva Adi ke abhiprAya ke anusAra visaMvAda karate hai jisase narakagati aura tiryazcagati kA bandha hotA hai| yadi narakagati aura niyaMcagati se narakAya aura tiryacAyu kI vivakSA ho to inakA bhI bandha vidhavA vivAha se nahIM ho sakatA kyoMki bahuta prAraMbha aura bahuta parigraha se narakAyu kA bandha hotA hai / vidhavA vivAha meM kumArI vivAha

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( hai ) kI basti Arambha aura parigraha adhika hai hI nahIM, taba vaha narakA kA kAraNa kaise ho sakatA hai ? tiryaJcAya ke bandha kA kAraNa hai mAyAvAra / so mAyAcAra to vidhavA vivAha ke virodhI hI bahuta karate haiM - unheM gupta pApa chipAnA par3ate haiM isaliye ve tiryaJcAyu kA bandha avazya hI karate haiM / vidhavA vivAha ke popakoM ko mAyAcArI se kyA matalaba ? isa lie ve tiryaJcAya kA bandha nahIM karate / - hA~ yaha bAta dUsarI hai ki koI vidhavA vivAha karane ' ke bAda pApa kare jisase ina azubha karmoM kA bandha ho jAya / lekina vaha banya vidhavA vivAha se na hogA, kintu pApa se hAgA | kumArI vivAha ke bAda aura munI veSa lene ke bAda bhI to loga bar3e bar3e pApa karate haiN| isase kumArI vivAha aura muniveSa burA nahIM kahA jA sktaa| isI taraha vidhavA vivAha bhI burA nahIM kahA jA sakatA / prazna ( 4 ) - yadi vidhavA vivAha pApa kArya hai to sAdhAraNa vyabhicAra se usameM kucha antara hotA hai yA nahIM ? yadi hAM, to kitanA aura kaisA ? . uttara- jaba vidhavA vivAha pApa hI nahIM hai to sAdhAraNa vyabhicAra se usameM antara dikhalAne kI kyA z2arUrata hai ? khaira ! donoM meM antara to hai, parantu vaha 'kucha' nahIM, 'bahuta' hai / vidhavA vivAha zrAvakoM ke liye pApa nahIM hai aura vyabhicAra pApa hai / vartamAna meM vyabhicAra ko hama tIna zreNiyoM meM bAMTa sakate haiM - ( 1 ) parazrI sevana, 2 ) vezyA sevana ora ( 3 ) vivAha ke binA hI kisI stro ko patnI banA lenA / pahilA sabase bar3A hai; dUsarA usase choTA

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( 10 ) hai| somadeva prAcArya ke mana se vezyAmevI bhI brahmacaryANuvratI ho sakatA hai * parantu parastrI sevI nahIM ho sktaa| isase vazyA mevana halake darje kA pApa siddha hotA hai| kisI strI ko vivAha ke binA hI patnI banA lenA vezyAsevana se bhI kana pApa hai, kyoMki vezyAsevI kI apekSA rakhaila strI vAle kI icchAe~ adhika mImita huI hai| vidhavA vivAha ina tIna zreNiyoM meM se kisI bhI zreNI meM nahIM pAtA, kyoMki ye tInoM vivAha meM koI sambandha nahIM rkhte| kahA jA makanA hai ki vidhavA vivAha parastrI sevana meM hI antargata hai, kyoMki vidhavA parastrI hai / isake liye hameM yaha samajha lenA cAhiye ki parastrI kise kahate haiM aura vivAha kyoM kiyA jAtA hai ? agara koI kumArI, vivAha ke pahale hI saMbhoga kareM to vaha pApa kahA jAyagA yA nahIM ? yadi pApa nahIM hai to vivAha kI z2arUrata hI nahIM rahanI / yadi pApa hai to vivAha ho jAne para bhI pApa kahalAnA cAhiye / yadi vivAha ho jAne para pApa nahIM kahalAtA aura vivAha ke pahilaM pASa kahalAtA hai to isase siddha hai ki vivAha, vyabhicAra doSa ko dUra karane kA eka avyartha sAdhana hai / jo kumArI zrAja parastrI hai aura jo puruSa zrAja para puruSa hai, ve hI vivAha ho jAne para svastrI aura mvapuruSa kahalAne lagate haiM / isase mAlUma hotA hai ki karmabhUmi meM mvastrI aura svapuruSa janma meM paidA nahIM hone, kintu banAye jAte haiN| kumArI ke samAna vidhavA * vadhUvittastriyo mukyA sarvAnyatra'najane / mAtAsvasA tanUjeti manirbahma gRhAzrame // --yazastilaka

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( 11 ) bhI mbastrI banAI jA sakatI hai| vivAha ke pahile vidhavA paramtrI hai, parantu vivAha ke bAda mvamtrI ho jAyagI / taba usa vyabhicAra kaise kaha sakate haiM ? jaba vivAha meM vyabhicAra doSa ke apaharaNa kI tAkata hai aura kanyAoM ke viSaya meM usakA prayoga kiyA jA cukA hai to vidhavAoM ke viSaya meM kyoM nahIM kiyA jA sakatA hai ? kahA jA sakatA hai ki strI ne jaba eka pati (mvAmI) banA liyA taba vaha dUsarA pati kaise banA sakatI hai ? isakA uttara yahI hai ki jaba purupa, eka patnI (svAminI) ke rahane para bhI dRmarA pannI banA letA hai to strI vidhavA hone para bhI kyoM nahIM banA sakatI ? muni na bana sakane para jisa prakAra puruSa dUsarA vivAha kara letA hai, usI prakAra strI bhI AryikA na bana sakane para dRmaga vivAha kara sakatI hai| strI kimI kI sampatti nahIM hai| agara sampatti bhI mAna lI jAya to sampatti bhI mAlika se vazcita nahIM rahatI hai / eka mAlika marane para turanta usakA dUsaga mAlika bana jAtA hai| dRmaga mAlika banAnA yA bananA koI pApa nahIM hai| isase sApha mAlUma hotA hai ki vidhavA vivAha aura vyabhicAra meM dharatI AsamAna kA antara hai jaise ki kumArI vivAha aura vyabhicAra meM hai| prazna (5)-vaizyA aura kuzIlA vidhavA ke Antarika bhAvoM meM mAyAcAra kI dRSTi meM kucha antara hai yA nahIM? uttara- yadyapi mAyAcAra sambandhI ataraMga bhAvoM kA nirNaya honA kaThina hai, phira bhI jaba hama vazyA saMbana aura parastrI saMvana ke pApa meM naratamatA dikhalA sakate hai nA ina donoM ke mAyAcAra meM bhI taratamatA dikhAI jA sakatI

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( 12 ) hai | kuzIlA vidhavA kA mAyAcAra bahuta adhika hai / vezyA vyabhicAriNI ke veza meM vyabhicAra karatI haiM, kintu kuzIlA to pativratA ke veza meM vyabhicAra karatI hai / vezyA ko apane pApa chipAne ke liye vizeSa pApa nahIM karanA par3ate, parantu kuzIlA ko to -choTe moTe pApoM kI bAta chor3iye - bhrUNahatyA sarIkhe mahAna pApa taka karanA par3ate haiN| kahA jA sakatA hai ki vezyA ko to pApa kA thor3A bhI bhaya nahIM hai, parantu kuzIlA ko hai to isa prazna kI mImAMsA karane ke pahile yaha dhyAna meM rakhanA cAhiye ki yahA~ prazna mAyAcAra kA hai - vezyA aura kuzIlA kI taratamatA dikhalAnA nahIM hai kintu mAyAcAra kI taratamatA dikhalAnA hai / so mAyAcAra to kuzIlA vidhavA kA adhika haiM, sAtha hI sAtha bhayaGkara bhI hai } ina donoM meM kauna burI hai aura kauna bhalI, isake uttara maiM yahI kahanA cAhiye ki donoM burI haiN| hA~, hama pahile kaha cuke haiM ki parastrI sevana se vezyA sevana meM kama pApa hai isaliye kuzIlA vidhavA, vezyA se bhI burI khlaaii| kuzIlA ko jAM pApakA bhaya batalAyA jAtA hai vaha pApa kA bhaya nahIM haiM, kintu svArthanAza kA Dara hai / vyabhicAra prakaTa hojAne para lokaniMdA. hogI, apamAna hogA, ghara se nikAla dI jAUMgI, sampatti china jAyagI, yadi vAloM kA Dara hotA hai: yaha pApakA Dara nahIM hai | agara pApakA Dara hotA to vaha aisA kAma hI kyoM karatI ? aura kiyA thA to chipAne ke liye phira aura bhI bar3e pApa kyoM karatI ? khaira ! ina bAtoM kA isa praznase vizeSa sambandha nahIM. hai / hAM, itanA nizcita hai ki kuzIlA vidhavA kA mAyAcAra vezyA se adhika hai aura kuzIlA vidhavA adhika bhayAnaka haiM / -

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prazna (6)-aisI kuzIlA, mAyAcAriNI, bhraNahatyA. kAriNI, vidhavA ko tIvra pApa (narakAyu Adi ) kA bandha hotA hai yA nahIM ? aura usake sahakAriyoM ko bhI kRta kArita anumodana ke kAraNa nIva pApakA bandha hotA hai yA nahIM ? uttara-aise pApiyoM ko tIvra pApa kA baMdha na hogA no kima hogA ? sAtha meM itanA aura samajhanA cAhiye ki vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI bhI aise pApiyoM meM zAmila hote haiM, kyoMki unakI kaThoratAoM aura panapAtapUrNa niyamoM ke kAraNa hI striyoM ko aise pApa karane par3ate haiM / yadyapi vidhavAvivAha ke virodhiyoM meM sabhI loga bhrUNahatyAoM ko pasanda nahIM karate phira bhI unameM phI sadI navce aise haiM jo bhraNahatyA pasanda kareMge, parantu vidhavAvivAha kA nyAyocita mArga pasanda na kreNge| agara hama vRva mvAdiSTa bhojana kareM aura dUsaroM ko eka Tukar3A bhI na khAne deM tA unheM mvAda ke liye nahIM to kSa dhA zAnti ke liye corI karanA hI pdd'egii| aura isakA pApa hameM bhI lgegaa| isI taraha bhrUNahatyA kA pApa vidhavA vivAha ke virodhiyoM ko bhI lagatA hai| prazna (7)-vartamAna samaya meM kitanI vidhavAe~ pUrNa pavitratA se vaidhavya vrata pAlana kara sakatI haiM ? uttara--yoM to bhavyamAtra meM mokSa jAne taka kI tAkata hai, lekina avasthA para vicAra karane se mAlUma hotA hai ki vRddha vidhavAoM ko chor3akara bAkI vidhavAoM meM phIsadI pA~ca hI aisI hogI jo pavitratA se vaidhavya kA pAlana kara sakatI ho / vidhuge meM kitane vidhura jIvana paryanta vidhuratva kA pAlana karate haiM ? vidhavAoM ke liye bhI yahI bAta hai|

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prazna (E)-vyabhicAra se kina 2 prakRtiyAM kA bandha hotA hai aura vidhavA-vivAha se kina kina prakRtiyoM kA bandha hotA hai ? uttara-~vyabhicAra se cAritra mAhanIya kA nIva bandha hAnA hai aura vidhavAvivAha se kumAgavivAha ke mamAna cAritra moha kA alpa bandha honA hai| vyabhicAra saM pugayabandha nahIM hotA, parantu vidhavAvivAha se purAyabandha hotA hai| aura varta. mAna paristhiti meM to kumArI vivAha se bhI adhika pugayavandha vidhavAvivAha se hotA hai, kyoMki vartamAna meM jo vidhavA vivAha karatA hai vaha bhraNahatyA aura vyabhicAra Adi ko rokane kI koziza karatA hai, striyoM ke manuSyAMcita adhikAra dilAtA hai / isa prakAra ke karuNA tathA paropakAra ke bhAvosa use tIvra pugaya kA banya hotA hai, jo ki vyabhicArI ke aura vidhavAvivAha ke virodhiyoM ke nahIM ho sktaa| vidhavAvivAha se darzanamoha kA bandha nahIM ho sakatA, kyoMki vidhavAvivAha dharmAnukUla hai / vidhavAvivAha meM yoga dene vAlA dharma ke marma ko jAna jAtA hai, syAdvAda ke rahasya se paricita ho jAtA hai| yahI to samyakya ke cinha hai| vidhavA vivAha ke virodhI ekAntamithyAtvI haiM, ve zrRta aura dharma kA avarNavAda karate haiM isaliye unheM tIvra mithyAtva kA bandha hotA hai / anya pApa prakRtiyoM kA to kahanA hI kyA hai ? prazna (6)-vivAha ke binA, kAma lAlasA ke kAraNa jo saMkleza pariNAma hote haiM, unameM vivAha hone se kucha nyunatA AtI hai yA nahIM?

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( 15 ) uttara-'kucha' nahIM, kintu 'bahuta' nyUnatA pAnI hai| vivAha ke binA to pratyeka vyakti ko dekha kara pApavAsanA jAgrata hotI hai aura vaha vAsanA sadA hI jAgrata rahatI hai| kiMtu vivAha se to eka vyakti ko chor3akara bAkI sabake viSaya meM usakI vAsanA miTa jAtI hai aura vaha vAsanA bhI sadA jAgrata nahIM rhtii| kahA jA sakatA hai ki jinakI kAma lAlasA atiprabala hai. unakI vivAha hone para bhI zAnta nahIM hotii| aneka vivAhina puruSa aura sazyA striyA~ vyabhicAradUSita pAyI jAtI haiM, yaha ThIka hai| kinnu vivAha to vyabhivAra ko rokane kA upAya hai| upAya, mo meM dasa jagaha asaphala bhI hotA hai, kintu isase yaha nirarthaka nahIM kahA jA sktaa| cikitsA karane para bhI loga marata hai, zAstrI bana karaka bhI dharma ko nahIM samajhate. muni bana karake bhI bar3e 2 pApa karate haiM, isase cikitmA Adi nirarthaka nahIM kaha jA skte| yadi vivAha hone para bhI kinhIM logoM kI kAma vAsanA zAnta nahIM hotI nA isase sirpha vidhavAdhivAha kA hI niSedha kasaM ho sakatA hai ? phira to vivAha mAtra kA niSedha karanA cAhiya aura samAja se kumAra, kumAriyoM ke vivAha kI prathA ur3A denA cAhiye, kyoMki vyabhicAra to vivAha ke bAda bhI hotA hai / yadi kumAra kumAriyoM ke vivAha kI prathA kA niSedha nahIM kiyA jA sakatA to vidhavAvivAha kA bhI niSedha nahIM kiyA jA sktaa| eka mahAzaya ne likhA hai-"vAstava meM vivAhakA udde. zya kAma lAlasA kI nivRtti nahIM hai / vivAha isa jaghanya evaM

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( 16 ) kutimana uddezya se sarvathA nahIM kiyA jAtA hai, kintu vaha mokSa mAgopasaMyI svapara hitakAraka zuddha saMtAna kI utpatti ke liye hI kiyA jAtA hai / isa liye vaha zAstravihita, mokSamArga sA'ghaka, dharma kArya mAnA gayA hai / isa liye vivAha hone para kAma lAlamA ke saMkleza pariNAmoM kI nivRtti utanA hI gauNa kArya hai jitanA kisAna ko bhUse kA lAbha / " jo loga vivAha kA uddezya kAma lAlasA kI nivRtti nahIM mAnate haiM aura kAma lAlasA kI nivRtti ko jaghanya aura kunmita uddezya samajhate haiM unakI vidvattA para hameM dayA AtI hai| aise loga jaba ki jaina dharma kI vargamAlA bhI nahIM samajhate tava kyoM gahana viSayoM meM TAMga aDAne lagate hai ? kyA hama pUcha sakate haiM ki 'kAma lAlammA kI nivRtti' yadi jaghanya aura kunsina hai to kyA kAma lAlasA meM pravRtti karanA acchA hai ? saca hai, jo loga eka ke bAda dUsarI aura dUsarI ke bAda tIsarI zrAdi striyoM ke sAtha mauja ur3A rahe haiM, ve kAma lAlasA ke tyAga ko kutsita aura jaghanya samajha nA isameM zrAzcarya kI kyA bAta hai ? khaira, aba hameM yaha dekhanA cAhiye ki vivAha kA uddezya kyA hai ? vivAha gRhasthAzrama kA mUla hai gRhasthAzrama dharma, artha, kAma tInoM puruSArthoM kA sAdhaka hai| kAma lAlasA kI jitanI nivRtti hotI hai utanA aMza dharma hai: jitanI pravRtti hotI hai utanA kAma hai / artha isakA sAdhaka hai / isase sAfa mAlama hotA hai ki vivAha kAma-lAlasA kI prAMzika nivRtti ke liye kiyA jAtA hai / zAstrakAra kahate haiM

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( 17 ) nyAjyAnajastraM viSayAn pazyato'pi jinaalyaa| mohAttyanuma zaktasya gRhidharmonumanyate // arthAt-jinendra kI prAzA se jo viSayoM ko chor3ane yogya samajhatA hai, kintu phira bhI cAritra mAha karmakI prabalatA se unakA tyAga nahIM kara sakatA, usakI gRhastha dharma dhAraNa karane kI salAha dI jAtI hai / isase sAfa mAlUma hotA hai ki vivAha lar3akoM baccoM ke lie nahIM, kintu muni banane kI asamarthatA ke kAraNa kiyA jAtA hai / hamAre jaina paMDitoM ne jaba se vaidika dharma kI nakala karanA sIkhA hai, taba se ve dharma ke nAma para lar3akoM baccoM kI bAta karane lage haiM / vaidika dharma meM to aneka RNa mAne gaye hai jinakA cukAnA pratyeka manuSya ko zrAvazyaka hai / unameM eka pitR RNa bhI hai| unake khayAla se saMtAna utpanna kara dene ma pitR RNa cukajAtA mAnA gayA hai kintu jaina dharma meM aisA koI pitR RNa nahI mAnA gayA hai jisake cukAne ke liye santAnotpatti karanA dharma kahalAtA ho / vivAha kA mukhya uddezya kAma lAlasA kI ucchakhalatA ko rokanA hai / hAM, aisI hAlata meM santAna bhI paidA ho jAtI hai| yaha bhI acchA hai, paraMtu yaha gauNa phala haiM / santAnotpatti aura kAma lAlasA kI nivRtti, inameM gauNa kauna hai aura mukhya kauna hai, isakA nibaTArA isa taraha ho jAyagA-mAna lIjie ki kimI manuSya meM munivrata dhAraNa karane kI pUrNa yogyatA hai / aisI hAlata meM agara vaha kimI AcArya ke pAsa jAve to vaha use muni banane kI salAha dege yA zrAvaka banakara putrotpatti karane kI salAha deMge? zAstrakAra to isa viSaya meM yaha kahate haiM

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( 18 ) bahuzaH samasta virati pradarzitAM yo na jAnu gRhaNAti / tasyaika deza viratiH kathanIyAnena bIjena // yo yati dharmamakathayannupadizati gRhasthadharma malpamatiH / tamya bhagvatpravacane, pradarzitaM nigrahasthAnaM // akramakathanena yataH protmahamAno'ti dUramapiziSyaH / apade'pi saMpratRptaH pratArito bhavati tena durmatinA // mahAvata kA upadeza dene para jo mahAvrata grahaNa na kara sake use aNuvrata kA upadeza denA cAhiye / mahAvrata kA upadeza na dekara jo aNuvrata kA upadeza detA hai vaha nigrahIta hai| kyoMki agara kisI ke hRdaya meM munivrata dhAraNa karane kA utsAha ho aura bIca meM hI aNuvrata kA upadeza sunakara vaha santuSTa ho jAya to usake mahAdata pAlana karane kA maukA nikala jaaygaa| isase sAfa mAlUma hotA hai ki prAcArya, aNuvrata dhAraNa karane kI malAha tabhI dete haiM jaba koI mahAvrata na pAla sakatA ho / aNuvrata lar3akoM baccoM ke lie nahIM,kiMtu mahAvata pAlana karane kI asamarthatA ke kAraNa kiyA jAtA hai| aNuvata ke sAtha AMzika pravRtti hone se santAna bhI utpanna ho jAtI hai| yaha aNuvrata kA gauNaphala hai, jaise kisAna ke liye bhuumaa| lar3ako baccoM ko jo mukhyatA dedI jAtI hai usakA kAraNa hai samAja kA lAbha / vrata se vatI kA kalyANa hotA hai aura santAna se samAja kA / isa liye vratI ko vrata mukhya phala hai aura santAna gauNa phala hai| dRsare logoM ko santAna hI mukhya hai / jaise-anna kisAna ko mukhya hai bhUsA gauNa / kintu kisAna ke ghara rahane vAle bailoM ko to bhUsA hI mukhya hai aura anna gauNa, kyoMki bailoM ko to

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( 16 ) bhUmA hI milegA, anna nahIM / vratI ke vrata kA lAbha to vRtI hI pAvegA. dUsagai ko nahIM mila saktA, kintu usakI saMtAna se dUsare bhI lAbha uThAveMge, samAja kI sthiti kAyama rahegI isa liye mAmAjika dRSTi se santAna mukhya phala hai, parantu dhArmika dRSTi se vrata hI mukhya phala hai, putrAdika nahIM / dhArmika dRSTi meM 'puttasamo vairiyANanthi' (putra ke samAna koI vairI nahIM hai ) ityAdi vAkyoM se saMtAna kI nindA hI kI gaI hai| isa liye dhArmika dRSTi se saMtAna ke liya vivAha mAnanA anucita hai / vaha kAma vAsanA kA sImita karane ke lie kiyA jAtA hai| isI bAta ko dUsare sthAna para aura bhI acche zabdoM meM kahA hai| vigya viSamAzanAsthita mohajvara janitatoba tRSNamya / niHzAktikasya bhavataH prAyaH payAdya pakramaH zreyAna // "viSaya rUpI apathya bhojana se utpanna huA jo moha rUpI jvara, usa jvara se jisako bahuta hI tez2a pyAsa laga rahI hai, aura usa pyAsa ko sahane kI jisameM tAkata nahIM hai usako kucha pIne yogya zroSadha denA acchA hai| ___ matalaba yaha hai ki umeM pyAsa to itanI lagI hai ki loTe do loTe pAnI bhI pI sakatA hai, parantu vaidya samajhatA hai ki aisA karane se bImArI bar3ha jAyagI / isalie vaha pIne yogya progya detA hai jisase vaha pyAma na baDhane pAye / isI varaha jisakI viSaya kI AkAMkSA bahuta tIva, hai, usako vivAha DAga paMpa auSadha dI jAtI hai jisase pyAma zAMta rahe aura goga na bar3hane pAye / matalaba yaha kI jaina zAstroM ke anusAra vivAha kA mukhya uddazya viSaya vAsanA ko mImita

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( 20 ) karanA hai| yaha bAta vidhavA vivAha se bhI hotI hai| agara kisI vidhavA bAI ko viSaya vAsanA rUpI tIva, pyAsa lagI hai to use vivAha rUpI peya auSadha kyoM na denI cAhiye ? marda to auSadha ke nAma para loTe ke loTe gaTakA kareM aura vidhavAoM ko eka bUMda auSadha bhI na dI jAya, yaha kahA~ kI dayA hai ? kahA~ kA nyAya hai ? kahA~ kA dharma hai ? vivAha meM jisa prakAra puruSoM ke saMkleza pariNAma maMda hote haiM, usI prakAra striyoMka bhI hote haiM / phira puruSoM ke sAtha pakSapAta aura striyoM ke sAtha nirdayatA kA vyavahAra kyoM ? dharma to puruSoM kI hI nahIM, striyoM kI bhI sampatti hai| isa liya dharma aimA pakSapAta kabhI nahIM kara sktaa| prazna (10)-pratyeka bAla vidhavA meM tathA prauDha vidhavA maiM bhI Ajanma brahmacarya pAlane kI zakti kA pragaTa honA anivArya hai yA nahIM ? ucr-nhiiN| yaha bAta apane pariNAmoM ke Upara nirbhara hai / isaliya jina vidhavAoM ke pariNAma gRhasthAzrama se virakta na hue hoM unheM vivAha kara lenA cAhiya / kahA jA sakatA hai ki jaise muniyoM meM vItarAgatA Avazyaka hone para bhI sarAgatA AjAtI hai, usI prakAra vidhavAoM meM bhI hosakatI hai. lekina ye zIlabhraSTa z2arUra khlaayNgii| muni bhI sarAgatA se bhraSTa mAnAjAtA hai|" yaha bAta ThIka hai| zakti na hone se hama adharma ko dharma nahIM kaha skte| parantu yahA~yaha bAta vicAraNIya hai ki jo kArya munidharmase bhraSTa karatA hai kyA vahI zrAvakadharma se bhI bhraSTa karatA hai ? vivAha karane se pratyeka vyakti munidharma se bhraSTa hojAtA hai, parantu kyA vivAha se zrAvaka dharma bhI chUTa jAtA hai ? kyA

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( 21 ) vivAha karane vAle kA aNukta surakSita nahIM raha sakatA ? hamAre qhayAla se to kanyA bhI agara AryikA hokara phira vivAha kare to bhraSTa hai aura vidhavA agara AryikA Adi kI dIkSA na lekara vivAha karale to bhraSTa nahIM hai / yaha ThIka hai ki pati ke marajAne para strI vaidhavyadIkSA le to acchA hai, parantu lenA na lenA usakI icchA para nirbhara hai| yaha nahIM ho sakatA ki vaha to vaidhavyadIkSA lenA na cAhe aura hama z2abara. damtI usake sira TIkSA mddhde| strI ke samAna puruSa kA bhI kartavya hai ki vaha patnI ke mara jAne para dIkSA lele / bRddhoM ko tA vAsakara muni banajAnA caahiye| parantu zrAja kitane vaddha muni banate haiM ? kitane vidhura dIkSA lete hai ? jo loga muni nahIM banate aura damaga vivAha karalete hai ve kyA bhraSTa kahe jAte haiM agara ve bhraSTa nahIM hai, to vidhavAe~ bhI bhraSTa nahIM kahI jaasktii| puruSakA zIlabhaGga tabhI kahalAyagA jabaki ve vivAha na karake saMbhoga kreN| isI taraha vidhavAe~ zIlabhraSTa tabhI kahalAvegI jabaki ve vivAha na kara ke maMbhoga kareM yA usakI lAlasA rkaave| prazna (11)-dharmaviruddha kArya, kisI hAlata meM (usase bhI bar3hakara dharmaviruddha kArya anivArya hone para ) kartavya ho sakatA hai yA nahIM? uttara-jainadharma kA upadeza anekAnta kI apekSAse hai| jo kArya kimI apekSAse dharmaviruddha hai vahI dUsarI apekSA se dharmAnukUla bhI hai / muni ke liye vivAha dharmaviruddha hai, zrAyaka ke liye dharmAnukUla hai / pati ke marane para jisane AryikA kI dIkSA lI hai usake liye vivAha dharmaviruddha hai aura jisa

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( 22 ) vidhavA ke vrata, saptama pratimAse nIce hai usake liye vivAha dharmAnukUla hai / zrAvaka agara zrAhAra dAna de to dharmAnukUla hai aura muni agara aisA kare to dharmaviruddha hai| bhASA gupti kA pAlana karane vAlA (mAnavratI) agara saca bAta bhI bole todharma viruddha hai aura samiti kA pAlana karane vAlA bola to dharmAnukRla hai| matalaba yaha hai ki jaina dharma meM koI kArya sarvathA dharmaviruddha nahIM kahA jAtA / usake sAtha apekSA rahatI hai| yapi jainadharma meM yaha nahIM kahA gayA hai ki eka anartha ke liye damaNa anartha karI: phira bhI itanI zrAzA avazya hai ki bahuta anartha ze gaMkane ke liye thor3e anartha kI zrAvazyaktA ho to usakA prayoga kge| dUsare anartha kA niSedha hai,parantu uma anartha ke kama karane kA niSedha nahIM hai-jaise paka zrAdamI saba taraha ke mAMsa khAtA thA, usane kAka mAMsa chor3a diyA to yadyapi vaha anya mAMsa khAtA rahA, phira bhI jitanA anartha umana rokA utanA hI acchA kiyaa| nAsamajha vyakti jainadharma ke aisa kathana ko yaktipramAgazunya pramatta upadeza samajhate hai,parantu jainadharma ke upadeza meM korI laDhavAz2I nahIM hai-usake bhItara vaitAnika vicAra paddhati mojUda hai / agara koI kaha ki kyA bar3e bar3e pApoM kI apekSA choTe choTe pApa grAhya hai ? to jainadharma kahegA-avazya / saptavyasana kA sevI agara sirpha vyabhicArI rahajAya to acchA (yadyapi vyabhicAra pApa hai) vyabhicArI agara parastrI kA tyAga kara sirpha vezyA saMvI rahajAya to acchA hai ( yadyapi vezyA sevana pApa hai) vazyA sevana kA bhI tyAga karake agara koI sva. strI sevI hI raha jAya to acchA ( yadyapi mahAnata kI apekSA svastrI sevana bhI pApa hai): yaha viSaya itanA spaSTa hai ki jyAdA

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( 23 ) pramANa dene kI z2arUrata nahIM / jainadharma kA mAmUlI vidyArthI bhI kaha sakatA hai ki jo kArya eka vyakti ke liye dharmaviruddha hai vahI dUsare ke liye dharmAnukUla bhI ho sakatA hai / prazna ( 12 ) - choTe 2 dudhamuMhe baccoM kA vivAha dharma viruddha hai yA nahIM ? uttara- dudhamuhe arthAt vivAha ke viSaya meM nAsamajha baccoM kA vivAha nahIM ho sakatA / samAja ke cAra AdamI bhale hI use vivAha mAna leM, parantu dharmazAstra use vivAha nahIM maantaa| jo loga use vivAha mAnate haiM unakA mAnanA dharma viruddha hai / agara aise vivAha ho jAyeM to unheM vivAha na mAnakara ucita avasthA meM unakA phira vivAha karanA cAhiye / anyathA unakI santAna karNa ke samAna nAjAyaz2a santAna kahalAvegI | vivAha ke liye vara kanyA meM do bAteM Avazyaka haiMvivAha ke viSaya meM apane uttaradAyitva kA jJAna aura cAritra mohanIya ke udaya se hone vAle rAga pariNAma arthAt vaha kAmalAlasA jo ki muni, zraryikA zrathavA uccavatI na banane de / ina do bAtoM ke vinA tIna loka ke samasta prANI bhI agara kisI kA vivAha kareM to bhI nahIM ho sakatA / jo loga ina do bAtoM ke binA vivAha nATaka karAte haiM ve dharmadrohI haiN| choTI umara meM zAstrAnusAra niyatavidhi ke anusAra vivAha kA nATaka ho sakatA hai, parantu vivAha nahIM ho sakatA / kyoMki jaba upAdAna kAraNa kA sahayoga prApta nahIM hai taba sirpha nimittoM ke Dhera se kyA hosakatA hai ? vivAha ke liye zAstrAnusAra niyata vidhi kI AvazyakatA anivArya nahIM hai, parantu uparyukta do bAteM anivArya haiM / gAndharva vivAha meM zAstrAnu

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sAra niyata vidhi nahIM hotI, phira bhI vaha vivAha hai aura usa vivAha se utpanna saMtAna mokSagAmI taka hotI hai| isI vivAha se rukmaNIjI kRSNajI kI paTaganI banI thIM aura unase tadbhava mokSagAmI pradyumna paidA hue the| isaliye zAstrAnusAra vidhi ho yA na ho, parantu jahA~ para upayukta do bAteM hogI vahA~ para dharmAnukUlatA hai aura unake binA dharmaviruddhanA hai| prazna (13)-vidhavA hone ke pahile jinhoMne pannInya kA anubhava nahIM kiyA, unheM vidhavA kahanA kahA~ taka ucita hai ? uttara--12 meM prazna ke uttara meM isakA bhI uttara zrA sakatA hai| vahA~ kahI huI do bAtoM ke binA jo vivAhanATaka hojAtA hai usake dvArA una donoM baccoM ko pati patnItva kA anubhava nahIM hotaa| ve nATakIya pati pani kahalAte haiM / aisI hAlata meM agara vaha nATakIya pani marajAya to vaha nATakIya patnI nATakIyavidhavA kahalAyegI / pannItva ke vyavahAra aura pannItva ke anubhava meM bahuta antara hai| vyavahAra ke liye to cAroM nikSepa upayogI ho sakate haiM, parantu anubhava ke liye sirpha bhAvanikSapa hI upayogI hai| bAlavivAha ke pati-patnI vyavahAra meM sthApanA nikSa pase kAma liyA jAtA hai| jo loga use bhAva nikSapa samajha jAte haiM athavA vyavahAra aura anubhava ke antara ko nahIM samajhate, unakI vidvattA (?) dayanIya haiN| prazna (14)-kyA patnI banane ke pahile bhI koI vidhavA ho sakatI hai ? aura patnI banakara vrata grahaNa karane meM vatI ke bhAvo kI z2arUrata hai yA nahIM?

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( 25 ) uttara-patnI banane ke pahile koI vidhavA nahIM ho sktii| isa liye yaha dRr3hatA se kahA jA sakatA hai ki jina bAlikAoM ko loga vidhavA kahate haiM ve vidhavA nahIM haiM kyoMki bAlyAvasthA kA vivAha uparyana do bAto ke na hone se vivAha hI nahIM hai| jisakA vivAha hI nahIM usameM na to patnIpana A sakatA hai na vidhavApana / vUna grahaNa karane meM banI ke bhAvoM kI z2arUrata hai-bhAva ke binA kriyA kisI kAma kI nahIM / zAstrakAra to kahate hai--'yammAkriyAH pratiphalanti na bhAvazanyAH' arthAt bhAvarahita kriyAoM kA kucha phala nahIM hotA / arthAt bhAvazanya kriyAyoM ke dvArA zubhAzubha baMdha aura saMvara Adi nahIM hote| jo loga yaha kahate haiM ki 'aneka saMskAra bAlyAvasthA meM hI karAye jAte haiM isa liye bhAvoM ke binA bhI vrata kahalAyA' ve loga vrata aura saMskAra kA antara nahIM smjhte| vrata kA lakSaNa svAmI samantabhadrAcArya ne yaha likhA hai : abhisandhikRtA viratiH viSayAdyogAvrataM bhavati / arthAt--yogya viSaya se abhiprAya (bhAva) pUrvaka virakta honA vrata kahalAtA hai| vAhAdRSTi se tyAgI ho jAne para bhI jaba taka abhiprAya pUrvaka tyAga nahIM hotA taba taka cUta nahIM kahalAtA hai| saMskAra koI vata nahIM hai, parantu vUtI banane ko yogyatA prApta karane kA eka upAya hai / vRta pATha varSa kI umara ke pahile nahIM ho sakatA, paraMtu saMskAra to garbhAvasthA se hI hone lagate haiN| saMskAra se yogyatA paidA ho sakatI hai ( yogyatA kA honA avazyambhAvI nahIM hai) lekina vrata to yogyatA paidA hone ke bAda isake upayoga hone para

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( 26 ) hI ho sakate haiN| saMskAra se hamAre Upara prabhAva par3atA hai aura vaha prabhAva prAyaH dUsaroM ke dvArA DAlA jAtA hai: paraMtu vrata dUsaroM ke dvArA nahIM liyA jA sktaa| saMskAra to pAtra meM zraddhA, samajha aura tyAga ke binA bhI DAle jA sakate haiM, paraMtu vrata meM ina tInoM kI atyaMta zrAvazyakatA rahatI hai / isa liye bhAvoM ke binA vrata grahaNa ho hI nahIM sakatA | vartamAna meM jo anivArya vaidhavya kI prathA cala par3I haiM, vaha vana nahIM hai, kintu atyAcArI, samartha, nirdaya puruSoM kA zApa hai jo ki striyoM ko unakI kamaz2orI aura mUrkhanA ke aparAdha ( ? ) meM diyA gayA hai 1 prazna ( 15 ) - jisane kabhI apanI samajha meM brahmacaryAvrata grahaNa nahIM kiyA hai usakA vivAha karanA dharma hai yA dharma ? uttara- -jo muni vA zrAyikA banane ke liye taiyAra nahIM hai yA saptama pratimA bhI dhAraNa nahIM kara sakatA use vivAha kara lenA cAhiye cAhe vaha vidhura ho yA vidhavA, kumAra ho yA kumArI / aisI hAlata meM kisI ko bhI faare kI icchA hone para vivAha kara lenA adharma nahIM hai / prazna (16) jisakA garbhAzaya garbhadhAraNa karane ke liye puSTa nahIM huA hai usakA garbha raha jAne se prAyaH mRtyu kA kAraNa ho jAtA hai yA nahIM ? -~ -- uttara- isa prazna kA sambandha vaidyaka zAstra se hai / vaidyaka zAstra to yahI kahatA hai ki 16 varSa kI lar3akI aura bIsa varSa kA lar3akA honA cAhiye: tabhI yogya garbhAdhAna ho sakatA hai| isase kama umara meM agara garbhAdhAna kiyA jAya to

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( 27 ) santAna alpAyu yA rogI hogI athavA garbha sthAyI na rhegaa| bahuta se loga yaha samajhate haiM ki strI ko puSpavati ho jAne se hI garbhAdhAna kI pUrNa yogyatA prApta ho jAtI hai| lekina prAkRtika niyama isake bilakula viparIta hai| aMDa, popaiyA zrAdi phalo ke vRkSoMmeM jaba puSpa aAte haiM ho catura mAlI unheM niSphala hI jhar3A detA hai / koki agara aisA na kiyA jAya tA phala bahuta choTe, besvAda aura rahI hote haiM / zrAma ke vRkSa meM agara saba phUloM ke Ama banane lage to Ama bilakula raddI hoMge,unakA zrAkAra gaI ke dAne se zAyada hI bar3A ho sake / isaliye prakRti phI sadI 6 puSpoM ko niSphala jhar3AdetI hai / taba kahIM acche grAma paidA hote haiM / sabhI vRkSoM ke viSaya meM yaha niyama hai ki agara Apa unase acchA phala lenA cAhate haiM to prArambha ke puSpoM ko phala na banane dIjiye aura mAtrA se adhika phala na lagane dIjiye / nArI ke viSaya meM bhI yahI bAta hai| vahA~ bhI rajodarzana ke bAda turanta hI garbhAdhAna ke sAdhana na milanA cAhiye, anyathA mRtyu Adi kI pUrI sambhAvanA hai| kahA jA sakatA hai-mRtyu bhale hI ho, paraMtu usakA pApa nahIM laga sakatA / lekina yaha bAta ThIka nahIM hai, kyoMki yannA. cAra na karane se pramAda hotA hai aura 'pramatta yAMgAna prANavya. paropaNaM hiMsA' isa mUtra ke anusAra vahA~ hiMsA bhI hai| jaba hama jAnate haiM ki aisA karane se himA ho jAyagI, phira bhI hama vahI kAma kareM to isase hiMsA kA abhiprAya, athavA hiMsA hone se lAparvAhI siddha hotI hai jo ki pApabaMdha kA kAraNa hai / gharameM striyoM ko yaha zikSA dI jAtI hai ki pAnI ko Dhakakara rakkhA karo, nahIM to kIr3e makor3e gira kara mara

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( 28 ) jAyaMge / yadyapi striyoM ke hRdaya meM kIr3e makor3e mArane kA abhiprAya nahIM hai phira bhI prayatnAcAra se jo pramAda hotA hai usakA pApa unheM lagatA hai / jaba isa prayatnAcAra se pApa lagatA hai taba jisa prayatnAcAra se manaSyoM ko bhI prANoM se hAtha dhonA par3e to usase pApa kA baMdha kyoM na hogA? prazna (17)-kisI samAja kI pAMca lAkha auratoM meM eka lAkha tetAlIsa hajAra vidhavAe~ zobhA kA kAraNa ho sakatI haiM yA nahIM ? uttara-jisa samAja meM vidhavAoM ko punarvivAha karane kA adhikAra hai, unakA punarvivAha kisI bhI taraha se hInadRSTi se nahIM dekhA jAtA, striyoM ko isa viSaya meM koI saMkoca nahIM rahatA, usa samAja meM kitanI bhI vidhavAe ho va zobhA kA kAraNa haiM / kyoMki aisI samAjoM meM jo vaidhavya kA pAlana kiyA jAyagA vaha jabardastI se nahIM, tyAgavRtti se kiyA jAyagA aura tyAgavRtti to jainadharma ke anusAra zobhA kA kAraNa hai hI, lekina jisa samAja meM vaidhavya kA pAlana z2abardastI karavAyA jAtA hai, vahA~ para koI bhI vidhavA zobhA kA kAraNa nahIM hai, kyoMki vahA~ koI vaidhavyadIkSA nahIM letA-vaha to bandI jIvana hai / bandiyoM se kisI bhI samAja kI zobhA nahIM ho sktii| aisI samAjoM ke sAkSaroM ko bhI svIkAra karanA par3atA hai ki "eka vidhavA bhI zobhA kA kAraNa nahIM hai--zobhA kA kAraNa to saubhAgyavatI striyA~ haiN"| isase sApha mAlUma hotA hai ki vidhavAoM kA sthAna saubhAgyavatiyoM se nIcA hai| agara aisI samAjoM meM vaidhavya koI vrata hotA to kyA vidhavAoM kA aisA nIcA sthAna rahatA ? unake viSaya meM

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( 26 ) kyA aise apamAnajanaka zabda likhe jAte ? vratI ke Age avatI ko kyI zobhA kA kAraNa kahA jAtA ? vaidhavya dIkSA se dIkSita mahilAe to saubhAgyavatI aura saubhAgyavAnoM se bhI pUjya hai / gRhasthAzrama meM ve vItarAgatA kI eka kiraNa haiM / parantu unako itanA mUlya to taba mile jaba samAja meM vidhavA vivAha kA pracAra ho / tabhI unake tyAga kA mUlya hai / jo vastu z2abardamtI china gaI, jisake Upara adhikAra hI nahIM rahA, usakA tyAga hI kyA ? kahA jA sakA hai ki 'devI Apatti para kauna vijaya prApta kara sakatA hai ? plega, inpanuaiMjA zrAdi se manuSya kSati ho jAtI hai, vahA~ kyA kisI ke hAtha kI bAta hai ? aisI bAta karane vAlo se hama pUchate haiM ki bImArI ho jAne para Apa cikitmA karate haiM yA nahIM ? agara daiva para kucha vaza nahIM hai to auSadhAlaya kyoM khulavAye jAte haiM ? daiva ke udaya se kaMgAla ho kara bhI loga arthopArjana kI ceSTA kyoM karate haiM ? daiva ke udaya se to saba kucha hotA hai, phira puruSArtha kI kucha z2arUrata hai yA nahIM? tathA yaha bAta bhI vicAraNIya hai ki deva ke dvArA jaise vidhavAe~ banatI haiN| usI prakAra vidhura bhI banate haiM / vidhuge ke liye to daiva kA vicAra nahIM kiyA jAtA hai aura vidhavAoM ke liye kiyA jAtA haiyaha andhera kyoM ? yadi kahA jAya ki vidhurapana kI cikitsA bhI deva ke udaya se hotI hai to vidhavApana kI cikitsAbhI deva ke udaya se ho jAyagI aura hone lagI hai| manuSya ko udyoga karanA cAhiye, agara saphala ho jAya to ThIka hai| agara saphalatA na hogI to kyA doSa hai? "yatne kRte yadi na siddhayati ko'tra doSaH"

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( 30 ) agara koI vidhavA vivAha me vaidhavya kI cikitsA karatA hai to hameM umako dhanyavAda denA cAhiye / yahA~ koI zIlabhraSTatA kI sambhAvanA karaM no yaha bhI anucita hai| isakA uttara hama de cuke haiM / devakata vidhuratva ke duHkha ko hama dUra karate haiM aura isase samAja kI zobhA nahIM bigar3atI to baMdhavya duva ko dUra karane se bhI zobhA na bigdd'egii| prazna (18)-jisa taraha jaina samAja kI saMkhyA ghaTa rahI hai usase jaina samAja ko hAni hai yA lAbha ? uttara-gavarnamegaTa ko maImazamArI kI ripArTI ke dekhane meM sAfa mAlama hai ki prativarSa 7 haz2Ara ke hisAba se jainI ghaTa rahe haiN| gavarnameNTa kI riporTa para avizvAsa karane kA koI kAraNa nahIM hai| samAja kA zrAdarza jinanA cAhe UMcA ho, parantu use apanA mAdhyama aisA avazya rakhanA cAhiye jisase samAja kA nAza na hojAya / ucca dharma kA pAlana karanA acchI bAta hai, parantu vaha samAja kA anivArya niyama na honA cAhiye / jinameM zakti ho ve pAlana kareM, na ho to na kreN| samAja kI saMkhyA kAyama rahegI to ucva dharma kA pAlana karane vAle bhI mileMge / jaba samAja hI na rahegI to kauna ucca dharma kA pAlana karegA aura kauna madhyama dharma kaa| isa liye samAja ko koI bhI AtmaghAtaka rivAja na banAnA cAhiye / vartamAna meM anivArya vaidhavya ke rivAja se saMkhyA ghaTa rahI hai aura isase bahuta hAni ho rahI hai| prazna (11)---jainasamAja meM kAphI saMkhyA meM avivAhita haiM yA nahIM? uttara--haiM / paraMtu isakA kAraNa striyoM kI kamI nahIM,

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( 31 ) kintu anivArya vaidhavya kI kuprathA hai| dharma ke veSa meM chipI huI yaha dharmanAzaka prathA baMda ho jAya to avivAhita rahane kA maukA na paave| prazna (20)-eka lAkha tetAlIma haz2Ara vidhavAe~ agara samAjameM na hotI to janasaMkhyA bar3ha sakatI thI yA nahIM? uttara-itanI vidhavAoM ke sthAna meM agara sadhavAe~ hotI to saMkhyA avazya bddh'tii| madumazumArI kI riporToM se mAlUma hotA hai ki jina samAjoM meM vidhavA-vivAha kA rivAja he unakI janasaMkhyA nahIM ghaTa rahI hai, balki bar3ha rahI hai| jA loga aisA kahate hai ki "kyA koI aisI zakti hai jo ki daiva. bala kA avarodhaka hokara vidhavA na hone de ?' aisA kahane vAloM ko buddhi mithyAtva ke udaya se bhraSTa hogaI hai-ve devai. kAMtavAdI bana gaye haiM / kumArapana aura kumArIpana, tathA vidhurapana bhI deva ke udaya se hote haiM, kintu unake dUra karane kA upAya hai| isI prakAra vaidhavya ke dUra karane kA bhI upAya vidhavA-vivAha hai| hAthakaMkaraNa ko pArasI kyA ? sau pacAsa vidhavA-vivAha karake dekha lo| jitane vivAha hoMge utanI vidhavAe~ ghaTa jaayNgii| agara vidhavAoM kA saMsArI jIvoM kI taraha honA anivArya hai to jaise saMsArI jIvoM ko siddha banAne kI ceSTA kI jAtI hai usI taraha vidhavAoM ko bhI sadhavA banAne kI ceSTA karanA cAhiye / chaH mahInA ATha samaya meM 608 jIva saMsArI se siddha bana jAte haiM / agara itane samaya meM itanI hI vidhavAeM madhavA banAyI jAya to saba vidhavAeM na ghaTane para bhI bahuta ghaTa jaavegii| agara koI kahe ki "vidhavA-vivAha se nitya naye utpAta

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( 32 ) aura vizAla anartha hoMge, isIliye saMkhyAvRddhi ke pralobhana meM hameM na par3anA cAhiye" lekina yaha bhUla hai| pratyeka rivAja se kucha na kucha hAni aura kucha na kucha lAbha hotA hI hai / vicAra sirpha itanA kiyA jAtA hai ki hAni jyAdA hai yA lAbha? agara lAbha jyAdA hotA hai to vaha grahaNa kiyA jAtA hai| agara hAni jyAdA hotI hai to choDa diyA jAtA hai| vivAha ke rivAja se hI bAla-vivAha, vRddha-vivAha, kanyA-vikraya, striyoM kI gulAmI Adi kurItiyA~ aura duHparisthitiyA~ paidA huI haiN| agara vivAha kA rivAja na hotA to na ye kurItiyA~ hotI, na vijAtIya-vivAha, vidhavA-vivAha Adi ke jhagar3e khar3e hote / isaliye kyA vivAha prathA burI ho sakatI hai ? manuSya ko bahutasI bImAriyA~ bhojana karane se hotI haiN| to kyA bhojana na karanA cAhiye ? hamAre jIvana meM aimA kauna sA kArya yA samAja meM aisI kaunalo prathA hai jinameM thor3I bahuta burAI na ho ? paraMtu hameM ve saba kAma isa liye karanA par3ate haiM ki unase lAbha adhika hai| vidhavA-vivAha se kitane anartha ho sakeMge, usase jyAdA anartha to zrAja vidhavA-vivAha na hone se ho rahe haiM / vidhavAoM kA nArakIya jIvana, gupta vyabhicAra kA daura daurA, avivAhita puruSoM kA vanagaja kI taraha DolanA aura kasAiyoM ko bhI lajita karane vAle bhra Na-hatyA ke dRzya, ye kyA kama anartha hai ? ina saba anoM ko dUra karane ke liye vidhavA-vivAha eka sarvottama upAya hai / vidhavAvivAha se samAja kSINa nahIM hotI, anyathA yorAMpa, amerikA Adi meM yaha tarakkI na hotii| agara vidhavAvivAha ke virodha se samAja kA uddhAra hotA to hameM pazuoM kI taraha gulAmI kI

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( 33 ) z2aMjIra meM na ba~dhanA par3atA / hamane vidhavA vivAha kA virodha karake striyoM ke manuSyocita adhikAroM ko har3apA, isaliye zrAja hameM duniyA~ ke sAmhane aurata vana ke rahanA par3atA hai / manuSyoM ko zraddhUta samajhA isaliye Aja hama duniyA~ ke achUta bana rahe haiM / hamAre rAkSasI pApoM kA prakRti ne gina ginakara daMDa diyA hai| phira bhI hama unhIM rAkSasI atyAcAroM ko dharma samajhate haiM! kahate haiM-vidhavA vivAha se zarIra kI vizuddhi naSTa ho jAyagI ! jisa deha ke viSaya meM jaina samAja kA baccA baccA jAnatA hai pala rudhira rAdha mala thailI, kIkasa vasAdi te mailI / nava dvAra va ghanakArI, asa deha kare kima yArI // aisI deha meM jo vizuddhi dekhate haiM unakI A~kheM aura hRdaya kina pApa paramANuoM se bane haiM, yaha jAnanA kaThina hai / vyabhicArajAta zarIra se jaba sudRSTi sarIkhe vyakti mokSa taka pahuMce haiM taba jo loga aise vyaktiyoM ko jaina bhI nahIM samajhate unheM kina mUrkhoM kA ziromaNi mAnA jAya ? jaina dharma zrAtmA kA dharma hai na ki rakta, mAMsa aura haDDiyoM kA dharma | camAra rakta, mAMsa meM dharma nahIM dekhte| phira jo loga ina cIz2oM meM dharma dekhate haiM, unheM hama kyA kaheM ? prazna ( 21 ) - va isakA uttara isa meM se haTA diyA gayA hai kyoMki isakA sambandha sampradAya vizeSa ke sAdhu se hai / prazna ( 22 ) - kyA rajasvalA ke rakta meM itanI tAkata hai ki vaha samyagdarzana kA nAza kara sake ? yadi nahIM to kyA samyagdarzana ke rahate avivAhita rajasvalA ke mAtA

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( 34 ) pitA Adi naraka meM jA sakate haiM ? yadi mAna liyA jAya ki usa rakta meM vaisI zakti hai to kyA vivAha kara dene se baha naSTa ho jAtI hai ? agara uttara- - rajasvalA ke rakta meM samyagdarzana naSTa karane kI tAkata nahIM hai / zravivAhita avasthA meM rajodarzana hone se pApa bamdha nahIM, kintu puNya baMdha hotA hai| kyoMki jitane dina taka brahmacarya palatA rahe utane dinataka, acchA hI hai / hA~, koI kanyA vA vidhavA, vivAha karanA cAhe aura dUsare loga usake isa kArya meM bAdhA DAle to ve pApa ke bhAgI hote haiM, kyoMki isase vyabhicAra phailatA hai| garbhadhAraNa kI yogyatA vyartha jAne se pApa kA baMdha nahIM hotA, kyoMki yadi aisA mAnA jAyamA to una rAjAoM ko mahApApI kahanA par3egA jo saikar3oM striyA~ko chor3akara muni bana jAte the aura rajodarzana banda hone ke pahile zrArthikA bananA bhI pApa kahalAyagA / vidhavA vivAha ke virodhI isa yukti se bhI mahApApI kahalAyeMge ki ve vidhavAoM kI garbhadhAraNa zakti ko vyartha jAne dete haiM / jo loga yaha samajhate haiM ki 'rajodarzana ke bAda garbhAdhAnAdi saMskAra na karane se mAtA pitA saMskAralopaka aura janamArgalopI ho jAte haiM" ve saMskAra kA matalaba hI nahIM samajhate / vivAha bhI to eka saMskAra hai; phira jina tIrthakaroM ne vivAha nahIM karAye ve kyA saMskAra lopaka aura jinamArgalopI the ? brAhmI aura sundarI jIvanabhara kumArI hI rahIM to kyA unake pitA bhagavAna RSabhadeva aura mAtA marudevI, bhAI bharata bAhubalI yAdi naraka gaye ? ye loga bhI kyA jinamArgalopI hI the ? garbhAdhAnAdi saMskAra tabhI karanA cAhiye jaba ki strI

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( 35 ) puruSa ke hRdaya meM garbhAdhAna kI tIvra icchA ho, phira bhale hI vaha saMskAra 25 varSa kI umra meM karanA pdd'e| icchA paidA hone ke pUrva aise saMskAra karanA balAtkAra ke samAna paizAcika kArya hai| prazna (23)-caturtha, paMcama, saitavAla Adi jAtiyoM meM vidhavA vivAha kaba se pracalita hai aura ye jAtiyA~ kaba se jaina jAtiyA~ hai ? uttara-jaina samAja kI vartamAna sabhI jAtiyA~ haz2Ara varSa se purAnI nahIM hai / jina logoM ko milAkara ye jAtiyA~ banAI gaI thIM unameM vidhavA vivAha kA rivAja pahile se hI thaa| yaha ina jAtiyoM kI hI nahIM kintu dakSiNa prAnta mAtra kI nyAyocita rIti hai| dakSiNa meM anya ajaina logoM meM bhI joki uccavarNI hai-yaha rivAja pAyA jAtA hai / aitihAsika satya to yaha hai ki uttara bhArata meM parde kA rivAja zrAjAne se yahA~ kI striyA~ makAna ke bhItara kaida ho gaI aura puruSoM ke caGgula meM pha~sagaI / puruSoM ne isa paristhiti kA burI taraha upabhoga kiyaa| unhoMne striyoM ke manuSyocita adhikAra har3apa liye / parantu dakSiNa kI striyA~ ghara aura bAhara donoM jagaha kAma karatI thIM, isa liye svArthI puruSoM kA kucakra unake Upara na cala pAyA aura unake punarvivAha zrAdi ke adhikAra surakSita rahe / hA~, jina gharoM kI striyA~ pArAma talava ho kara ghara meM par3I rahIM una gharoM ke svArthI puruSoM ne maukA pAkara unake adhikAra har3apa liye / isa liye thor3e se gharoM meM yaha rivAja nahIM hai / uttara prAnta meM bhI zUdroM meM vidhavA vivAha kA rivAja hai| isakA kA kAraNa yahI hai ki

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( 36 ) unakI striyAM ghara ke atirikta bAhara kA kAma bhI karatI haiN| aba z2amAnA badala gayA hai / lekina jima z2amAne meM strI puruSoM kA saMgharSa huA thA usa z2amAne meM jahA~ kI striyA~ Arthika dRSTi se puruSoM kI pUge gulAma banI vahA~ kI striyoM ke bahuta se adhikAra china gye| unameM punarvivAha kA adhi kAra mukhya thA: jahA~ striyA~ apane pairoM para khar3I rahIM vahA~ yaha adhikAra bacA rhaa| prazna (24)---vidhavA vivAha se inake kauna kauna me adhikAra china gaye haiM tathA kauna kauna mI hAniyA~ huI haiM ? uttara-vidhavA vivAha se kisI ke adhikAra nahI chinate / adhikAra chinate haiM kamajorI se aura mUrkhatA se / aphrikA, amerikA Adi meM aneka jagaha bhAratIyoM ke sAtha achUta kaisA vyavahAra kiyA jAtA hai / isakA kAraNa bhAra. tIyoM kI kamajorI hai / dakSiNa ke upAdhyAyoM meM vidhavA vivAha kA rivAja hai, ve nirmAlya bhakSaNa bhI karate haiM / phira bhI unake adhikAra sabase jyAdA hai| isakA kAraNa he samAja ko mUrkhatA / uttara prAnta ke dassa agara vidhavA vivAha na kareM to bhI unheM pUjA ke adhikAra nahIM mileMge, parantu dakSiNa ke logoM ko sarvAdhikAra hai| adhikAra chinane ke kAraNa to dUsare hI hote haiN| hA~, dhArmika dRSTi se vidhavA vivAha vAloM kA koI adhikAra nahIM chinatA / svargoM meM bhI vidhavA vivAha hai, phira bhI deva loga naMdIzvara meM, samavazaraNa meM tathA anya kRtrimAkRtrima caityAlayoM meM bhagavAna kI pUjA bandanA Adi karate haiM / vidhavA vivAha, kumArI vivAha ke samAna dharmAnukUla hai: yaha bAta hama pahile siddha kara cuke hai / jaba

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( 37 ) kumArIvivAha se koI adhikAra nahIM chinate to vidhavA vivAha se kai chineMge / kucha loga nAsamajhI se, vidhavA vivAha se una adhikAroM kA chinanA batalAte haiM jo vyabhicAra se bhI nahIM china sakate ! isa sambandha ke kucha zAstrIya udA. haraNa suniye kauzAmbI nagarI ke rAjA sumukha ne vIraka seTha kI strI ko hara liyA: phira donoM ne muniyoM ko AhAra diyA aura marakara vidyAdhara, vidyAdharI hue / inahI se harivaMza calA / pamapurANa aura harivaMzapurANa kI isa kathA se mAlUma hotA hai ki vyabhicAra se munidAna adhikAra nahIM chinatA / rAjA madhu ne candrAbhA kA haraNa kiyA thaa| pIche se donoM ne jinadIkSA lI aura molahaveM svarga gaye / isase mAlUma hotA hai ki vyabhicAra se muni, prAyikA banane kA bhI adhikAra nahIM chinatA / prAyazcita granyoM ke dekhane se mAlUma hotA hai ki AryikA bhI agara vyabhicAraNI ho jAya to prAyazcita ke bAda phira AryikA banAI jAsakatI hai |vybhicaar jAta sudRSTi sunAra ne munidIkSA lI aura mokSa gayA, yaha bAta prasiddha hI hai| isa se mAlUma hotA hai ki vyabhicAra se yA vyabhicAra jAta hone se kisI ke adhikAra nahIM chinate / vidhavAvivAha to vyabhicAra nahIM hai, usase kisI ke adhikAra kaise china sakate haiM ? prazna (25)-~-ina jAtiyoM meM koI muni dIkSA le sakatA hai yA nahIM? yadi le sakatA hai to kyA unake svAnadAna meM vidhavAvivAha nahIM huA aura kyA vidhavAvivAha karane vAle qhAnadAnoM se beTI vyavahAra nahIM huA ? uttara-ina jAtiyoM meM munidIkSA lete haiN| beTI vyava.

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hAra bhI saba jagaha hotA hai / yaha saba dharmAnukUla hai / isakA khulAsA 23 aura 24 ve prazna ke uttara meM ho cukA hai| prazna (26)-vyabhicAra se paidA huI santAna munidIkSA le sakatI hai yA nahIM ? yadi nahIM to vyabhicAriNI kA putra sudRSTi sunAra usI bhava se mokSa kyoM gayA ? kyA yaha kathA mithyA hai? uttara-yadi kathA mithyA bhI ho to isase yaha mAlUma hotA hai ki jina jina zrAcAryoM ne yaha kathA likhI hai unheM vyabhicArajAta santAna ko muni dIkSA lene kA adhikAra strIkAra thA / yadi kathA satya ho to kahanA hI kyA hai ? manuSya kisI bhI taraha kahIM bhI paidA huA ho, vairAgya utpanna hone para use munidIkSA lene kA adhikAra hai / isameM to sandeha nahIM ki sudRSTi sunAra thA, kyoMki donoM bhavoM meM zrAbhUSaNa banAnekA dhaMdhA karatA thA, joki sunAra kA kAma hai / ratnavijJAnika zabda se itanA hI mAlUma hotA hai ki vaha ratnoM ke jar3ane ke kAma meM bar3A hoziyAra thA: vyabhicAra jAtatA to spaSTa hI hai, kyoMki jisa samaya vaha marA aura apanI strI ke hI garbha meM AyA usake pahile hI usako strI vyabhicAraNI ho cukI thI aura jAra se hI usane sudRSTi kI hatyA karavAI thii| vaha apane vIrya se hI paidA huzrA ho, parantu isameM sandeha nahIM ki vIrya vyabhicAriNI ke garbha meM DAlA gayA thaa| itane para bhI jaba koI doSa nahIM hai to vidhavA-vivAha meM kyA doSa hai ? vidhavA vivAha se jo saMtAna paidA hogI vaha bhI to eka hI vIrya se paidA hogii| prazna (27)-varNikAcAra ke gyArahaveM adhyAya meM

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( 36 ) 175 ve zrAdi zlokoM se strI-punarvivAha kA samarthana hotA hai yA nahIM? uttara--hotA hai / traivarNikAcAra ke racayitA somasena ne hindU-smRtiyo kI nakala kI hai, yahA~ taka ki vahA~ ke zloka curA curA kara grantha kA kalevara bar3hAyA hai| hindU smRtiyoM meM vidhavA-vivAha kA vidhAna pAyA jAtA hai isaliye unameM bhI isakA vidhAna kiyA hai / dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki dakSiNa prAnta meM ( jahA~ ki somasena bhaTTAraka hue hai) vidhavA-vivAha kA rivAja sadA se rahA hai| yaha bAta hama teIsaveM prazna ke uttara meM kaha cuke haiN| isaliye bhI somasana jI ne vidhavA-vivAha kA samarthana kiyA hai / saba se spaTa bAta to yaha hai ki unane gAlava RSi kA mata vidhavA-vivAha ke pakSa meM uddhRta kiyA hai lekina usakA khaNDana bilakula nahIM kiyA / pAThaka z2arA nimna likhita zloka para dhyAna deM : kalautu punarudvAhaM varjayediti gAlavaH / kasmizciddeze icchanti na tu sarvatra kaMcana // __"gAlava RSi kahate haiM ki kalikAla meM punarvivAha na kara / parantu kucha loga cAhate haiM ki kisI kisI deza meM karanA caahiye|" isase sAfa mAlUma hotA hai ki dakSiNa prAnta meM usa samaya bhI punarvivAha kA rivAja cAlU thA jisakA virodha bhaTTArakajI bhI nahIM kara ske| isaliye unane vidhavA-vivAha ke virodha meM eka paMkti bhI na likhI / jo AdamI z2arA z2arA sI bAta meM sAta puzta ko naraka meM bhejatA hai vaha vidhavA vivAha ko z2arA bhI niMdA na kare yaha bar3e Azcarya kI bAta hai

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( 40 ) somasena ne gAlava RSi kA mata uddhRta karake usakA khaNDana karanA to dUra, apanI asammati taka z2Ahira nahIM kI / isase sAfa mAlUma hotA hai ki somasena vidhavA-vivAha ke pakSa meM the, athavA vipakSa meM nahIM the / anyathA unheM gAlavaRSi ke manako uddhRta karane kI kyA z2arUrata thI ? aura agara kiyA thA to usakA virodha to krte| isase eka yAna aura mAlama hotI hai ki hindU logoM meM kalikAla meM punarvivAha varjanIya hai mAM bhI, kisI kisI ke mata se nahIM hai ) lekina pahile yugoM meM punarvivAha varjanIya nahIM thaa| zrImAna paM0 jugalakizorajI mukhtAra ne jaina jagat ke 18 va aGka meM parAzara,vasiSTha,manu,yAjJavalkya Adi RSiyoM ke vAkya dekara hindU-dharmazAstroM meM strI-punarvivAha ko bar3e akATya pramANoM se siddha kiyA hai / jo loga "na mRta pravrajite klIve ca patite patau / paJcamvApansunArINAM patiranyo vidhIyate" isa zloka meM patau kA apato artha karate haiM ve bar3I bhUla meM hai / amitagati prAcArya ne isa zloka ko vidhavA-vivAha ke samarthana meM uddhRta kiyA hai| veda meM pati zabda ke pataye Adi rUpa bIsoM jagaha milate haiN| mukhtAra sAhiba ne vyAkaraNa zrAdi ke prakaraNoM kA ullekha karake bhI isa bAta ko siddha kiyA hai| hitopadeza kA nimnalikhita zloka bhI isI bAta ko siddha karatA hai--- 'zazinIva himAAnAm dharmArtAnAm ravAviva / manona ramate strINAM jarAjINendriye patau' // zAntipurANa meM bhI 'pateH' aisA prayoga milatA hai| hindU-dharmazAstroM se vidhavA-vivAha ke poSaNa meM bahuta hI

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adhika pramANa haiM / isa liye yaha bAta siddha hotI hai ki hinduoM meM pahile Amataura para punarvivAha hotA thA / aise vivAhoM kI santAna dharmaparivartana karake jainI bhI banatI hogii| jisa prakAra Aja dakSiNa meM vidhavA-vivAha cAla hai uso taraha usa z2amAne meM uttara prAnta meM bhI rahA hogaa| kauTilIya arthazAstra ke dekhane se yaha bAta bilakula spaSTa ho jAtI hai / trANikya ne yaha grantha mahArAjA caMdragupta ke rAjya ke liye banAyA thA, aura jainagraMthoM se yaha siddha hai ki mahArAjA caMdragupta jainI the| eka jainI ke rAjya meM punarvivAha ke kaise niyama the, yaha dekhane yogya hai ___ "hastra pravAsinAM zuda vaizya kSatriya brAhmaNAnAM bhAryAH saMvatsarottaraM kAlamAkAMkSa ranajAtAH saMvatsarAdhi prajAtAH / prativihitA dviguNaM kAlaM // aprativihitAH sukhAvasthA vibhUyuH paraMcatvArivarzagayaSTauvA zAtayaH // tato yathA datta mAdAya prmunycyuH|| brAhmaNamadhoyAnaM daza varSAraya prajAtA dvAdaza prajAtA rAmapuruSamAyuH kSayAdALeta // savarNatazca prajAtA nApavAda labhet / kuTumbarddhi lope vA mukhAvasthai vimuktA yatheSTaM vindeta jIvinArtham / ' arthAta-thor3e samaya ke liye bAhara jAne vAle zudra vaizya, kSatriya aura brAhmaNoM kI putrahIna striyA~ eka varSa tathA putravatI isase adhika samaya taka unake pAnekI pratIkSA kreN| yadi pati unako zrAjIvikA kA prabandha kara gaye hoM to ve dugune samaya unakI pratIkSA kareM aura jinake bhojanAcchAdana kA prabandha na ho unakA unake samRddha baMdhubAMdhava cAra varSa yA adhika se adhika ATha varSa taka pAlana poSaNa kareM / isake

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( 42 ) bAda prathama vivAha meM diye dhana ko vApisa lekara dUsarI zAdI ke liye prAjJA deve / par3hane ke liye bAhara gaye hue brAhmaNoM kI putrarahita striyA~ daza varSa aura putravatI striyA~ bAraha varSa taka pratIkSA kreN| yadi koI vyakti rAjA ke kisI kArya se bAhara gaye hoM to unakI striyA~ prAyu paryaMta unakI pratIkSA kreN| yadi kisI samAna varNa ( brAhmaNAdi ) puruSa se kisI strI ke baccA paidA hojAya to vaha nindanIya nahIM / kuTumba kI sampatti nAza hone para athavA samRddha bandhubAMdhavoM se chor3e jAne para koI strI jIvana nirvAha ke liye apanI icchA ke anusAra anya vivAha kara sakatI hai| prakaraNa z2arA lambA hai: isaliye hamane thor3A bhAga hI diyA hai / isameM vidhavAvivAha aura sadhavA vivAha kA pUga samarthana kiyA hai / yaha he savA do haz2Ara varSa pahile kI eka jaina nareza kI rAjyanIti / agara candragupta jenI nahIM the nA bhI usa samaya kA yaha zrAma rivAja mAlama hotA hai| zrAcArya somadeva ne bhI likhA hai--vikRta patyUDhApi punarvivAhamahatIti smRtikArAH - arthAn jisa strI kA pati vikArI ho, vaha punarvivAha kI adhikAriNI hai, pesA smRtikAra kahate haiN| sAmadeva prAcArya ne aisA likhakara smRtikAroM kA bilkula khaNDana nahIM kiyA hai, isase siddha hai ki ve bhI punavivAha se sahamata the / isI gati se somasena ne bhI likhA hai-unane gAlava RSi ke bacana uddhRta karake vidhavAvivAha kA samarthana kiyA hai| prazna (28)-agara kisI abodha kanyA se koI balAtkAra kare to vaha kanyA vivAha yogya rahegI yA nhiiN|

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uttara...kayoM na rahegI? yaha bAta to unheM bhI habIkAra karanA cAhiye jo trize ke punarvivAha ke virodhI hai, kyoki una logoM ke mana se vivAha bhAgama kI vidhi se hotA hai| balAtkAra meM pAgama kI vidhi kahA~ hai ? isa liye vaha vivAha to hai nahIM aura avivAhita kanyA ko to sabhI ke mata se vivAha kA adhikAra hai| rahI balAtkAra kI bAta so usakA daMDa balAtkAra karane vAle pApI puruSa ko milanA cAhiye-becArI kanyA ko kyA mile ? kucha loga yaha kahate haiM ki "yadi balAtkAra karane vAlA puruSa kanyA kA sajAtIya yogya ho to usI ke sAtha usa kanyA kA pANigrahaNa kara denA cAhiye; anyathA kanyA jIvanabhara brahmacAriNI rhe|" jo loga balAtkAra karane vAle pApI, nIca, pizAca puruSa ko bhI yogya samajhate haiM unakI dharmavuddhi kI balihArI ! brahmacarya pAlanA kanyA kI icchA kI bAta hai, parantu agara vaha vivAha karanA cAhe to dharma use nahIM rokatA / na samAja ko hI rokanA cAhiye / jo loga punarvivAha ke virodhI hai unameM agara nyAya buddhi kA anaMtavA~ hissA bhI rahegA no ve bhI na rokeMge kyoMki aisI kanyA kA vivAha karanA punarvivAha nahIM hai| prazna (26)-varNikAcAra se talAka ke rivAja kA samarthana hotA hai / kyA yaha ucita hai ? uttara-dakSiNa prAMtameM talAka kA rivAja hai isaliye somasena ne isa rivAja kI puSTi kI hai| ve kisI ko dasava varSa meM, kisI ko 12 ve varSa meM, kisI ko paMdrahaveM varSa meM, talAka dene kI ( chor3a dene kI vyavasthA dete haiM / jisakA bolacAla acchA na ho usako turaMta talAka dene kI vyavasthA

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( 44 ) hai| isa prathA kA dharma ke sAtha koI tAlluka nahIM hai| samAja kI paristhiti dekhakara usI ke anusAra isa viSaya meM vicAra karanA caahie| paraMtu jina kAraNoM se somasena jI ne talAka dene kA upadeza diyA hai unase talAka denA anyAya hai / yo bhI talAka prathA acchI nahIM hai| prazna (30)-kisa kAraNa se purANoM meM vidhavA vivAha kA ullekha nahIM milatA? usa samaya kI paristhiti meM aura Aja kI paristhiti meM aMtara hai yA nahIM ? uttara-purANoM ke TaTolane ke pahile hameM yaha dekhanA cAhiye ki paurANika kAla meM vidhavAvivAha yA striyoM ke punarvivAha kA rivAja thA yA nahIM ? aitihAsika dRSTi se jaba hama isa viSaya meM vicAra karate haiM taba hameM kahanA par3atA hai ki usa samaya punarvivAha kA rivAja z2arUra thaa| 27 prazna ke uttara meM kahA jA cukA hai ki hiMdU dharmazAstra ke anusAra vidhavAvivAha siddha hai / gAlava Adi ke mata kA ullekha somasena jI ne bhI kiyA hai| isase siddha hai ki janasamAja meM yaha rivAja ho yA na ho paraMtu hiMdU samAja meM avazya thA / hiMdU purANoM ke dekhane se yaha bAta aura bhI spaSTa ho jAtI hai / unaka graMthoM ke anusAra sugrIva kI strI kA punarvivAha huA thA; dhRtarASTra pAMDu aura vidura niyoga kI santAna haiN| yadi yaha kahA jAya ki ye kahAniyA~ jhUThI haiM to bhI hAni nahIM, kyoMki isase itanA avazya mAlUma hotA hai ki jina logoM ne ye kahAniyA~ banAI haiM una logoM meM vidhavAvivAha aura niyoga kA rivAja z2arUra thA aura ise ve ucita samajhate the| damayaMtI ne nala ko

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( 45 ) DhUMDhane ke liye apane punarvivAha ke liye svayambara kiyA thA / mAnA ki use dUsarA vivAha karanA nahIM thA, paraMtu isase yaha avazya hI siddha hotA hai ki usa samaya punarvivAha kA rivAja thA aura rAjA loga bhI usameM yoga dete the / uparyu rakta vivecana se itanI bAta siddha huI ki caturthakAla meM ajaina logoM meM striyoM ke punarvivAha kA rivAja thA / aba hama Age bar3hate haiN| caturtha kAla meM deva bhagavAna ke bAda zAMtinAtha bhagavAna ke pahile pratyeka tIrthakara ke aMtarAla meM aisA samaya AtA rahA hai jaba kI jaina dharma kA viccheda ho jAtA thA / aise samaya meM jainoM ke dhArmika vizvAsa ke anusAra vidhavAvivAha, niyoga Adi avazya hote the / dharmaviccheda kA vaha aMtarAla asaMkhya varSoM kA hotA thA / isase karor3oM pIr3hiyA~ isI taraha nikala jAtI thIM aura itanI pIr3hiyoM taka vidhavA vivAha, niyoga Adi kI prathA calatI rahatI thI / phira inhIM meM jainI loga paidA hote the arthAt dIkSA lekara jainI banate the / isa liye jainI bhI isa prathA se achUte nahIM the| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki dIkSAnvaya kriyA ke dvArA prajanoM ko jainI banAyA jAtA thA / isa taraha bhI isa prathA kI chUta lagatI rahatI thii| jaina zAstroM ke anusAra hI jaba itanI bAta siddha ho jAtI hai taba vidhavA vivAha kA prathamAnuyoga meM ullekha na honA sirfa Azcarya kI bAta raha jAtI hai; vizeSa mahatva kI nahIM / paraMtu z2arA aura gambhIra vicAra karane para isakI zrAzcaryajanakatA bhI ghaTa jAtI hai aura mahatva to bilakula nahIM rahatA |

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( 46 ) Ajakala hamAre jitane purANa haiM ve saba zreNika ke pUchane para gautama gaNadhara ke kahe hue batalAye jAte haiM / zrAjakala jo rAmAyaNa, mahAbhArata prasiddha haiM, zreNika ne una saba para vicAra kiyA thA aura jaba vaha caritra unheM na ja~ce to gotama se pUchA aura unane saba caritra kahA aura burAiyoM kI bIca bIca meM nindA kI / lekina isake bIca meM unane kahIM vidhavA vivAha kI nindA nahIM kI / hamAre paMDita lAMga vidhavA vivAha ko parabIsevana se bhI burA banalAte haiM lekina gautama gaNadhara ne itane bar3e pApa (2) ke virodha meM eka zabda bhI nahIM khaa| isase sAfa mAlUma hotA hai ki gautama gaNadhara kI dRSTi meM bhI vidhavA vivAha kI burAI kumArI vivAha se adhika nahIM thI anyathA jaba parastrIsevana kI nindA huI aura mithyAtva kI bhI nindA huI taba vidhavAvivAha kI nindA kyoM nahIM huI ? eka bAta aura hai / zAstroM meM parastrIsaMvata kI nindA jisa kAraNa se kI gaI hai vaha kAraNa vidhavA vivAha ko lAgU hI nahIM hotA / jaise -- yathA ca jAyate duHkhauM ruddhAyAmAtma yAMSati | narAntareNa sarveSAmiyametra vyavasthitiH // "jaise apanI strI ko koI gekale to apane ko duHkha hotA hai usI taraha dUsare kI strI roka lene para dUsare ko bhI hotA hai / " pAThaka hI vicAre, jisakA pani maujUda hai usI strI ke viSaya meM Upara kI yukti ThIka kahI jA sakatI hai| lekina vidhavA kA to pati hI nahIM hai. phira du kha kise hogA ? agara

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kahA jAya ki koI sambandhI to hoMge, unheM to duHkha ho sakatA hai| lekina yaha to ThIka nahIM, kyoMki isa viSaya meM svAmI ko chor3a kara kisI dUsare ke duHkha se pApa nahIM hotaa| hAM agara strI svayaM rAjI na ho to bAta dUmI hai / anyathA rukmaNIharaNa zrAdi bImoM udAharaNa diye jA sakate haiM jinameM mAtA pitA ko duHkha huA thA phira bhI vaha pApa nahIM mAnA gyaa| isakA kAraNa yahI hai ki rukmaNI kA koI svAmI nahIM thA jisake duHrava kI parvAha kI jAtI aura vaha to svayaM gajI thI hI / vidhavA ke viSaya meM bhI bilakula yahI bAta hai| usakA koI svAmI to hai nahIM jisake duHkha kI parvAha kI jAya aura vaha svayaM rAjI hai| hAM, agara vaha rAjI na ho to usakA vivAha karanA avazya pApa hai / paraMtu yaha bAta kanyA ke viSaya meM bhI hai / kanyA agara rAjI na ho to usakA vivAha karanA anyAya hai; pApa hai| isa vivecana se hameM yaha acchI taraha mAlUma ho jAtA hai ki gautamagaNadhara ne vidhavA vivAha kI nindA kyoM nahIM kI ? zAstroM meM vidhavA vivAha kA ullekha kyoM nahIM hai ? isa ke pahale hameM yaha vicAranA cAhiye ki vidhavAoM kA ullekha kyoM nahIM hai ? vidhavAe~ to usa samaya bhI hotI thIM? paraMtu jisa prakAra kanyAoM ke jIvana kA citraNa hai, patnIjIvana kA citraNa hai, usI prakAra prAyaH vaidhavya kA citraNa nahIM hai| itanA hI nahIM balki vaidhavya dIkSA kisI ne lI isakA bhI citraNa nahIM hai / isa kAraNa kyA hama yaha kaha sakate haiM ki usa samaya vidhavAe~ nahIM hotI thIM yA vaidhavya dIkSA koI nahIM lenA thA ? yadi ina citraNoM ke abhAva meM bhI vidhavA

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aura vaidhavyadIkSA kA usa samaya sadbhAva mAnA jA sakatA hai to vidhavAvivAha ke citraNa ke abhAva meM bhI usa samaya vidhavAvivAha kA sadbhAva mAnA jA sakatA hai, kyoMki jo gviAja dharmazAstra ke anukUla hai usake pracAra meM caturthakAla ke dhArmika aura udAra loga bAdhA DAlate hoMge isakI to mvapna meM bhI kalpanA nahIM kI jA sktii| / prathAmAnuyoga zAna koI dinacaryA li vana kI DAyarI nhiiN| unameM unhAM ghaTanAoM kA ullekha hai jinakA sambandha zubhAzubha karmoM se hai| varNana ko sarama banAne ke liye unane marasa racanA avazya ko hai lekina anAvazyaka citraNa nahIM kiyA, balki aneka Avazyaka citraNa bhI raha gaye haiN| dIkSAnvaya kriyA kA jaisA vidhAna AdipurANa meM pAyA jAtA hai, usakA citraNa kisI pAtra ke caritra meM nahIM kiyA, jaba ki saikar3A ajainoM ne jaina dharma kI dIkSA lI hai / isa liye kyA yaha kahA jA sakatA hai ki usa samaya dIkSAnvaya kI vaha vidhi cAlU nahIM thI ? yahI bAta vidhavAvivAha ke bAre meM bhI hai| vivAha-vidhAna ke ATha bheda batalAye haiM, parantu prathamA. nuyoga ke caritroM meM do eka vidhAnoM ke atirikta aura koI vidhAna nahIM milate / lekina isase yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA ki usa samaya vaise vidhAna cAlU nahIM the| isase yaha bAta siddha hotI hai ki vidhavAvivAha koI aisI mahatvapUrNa ghaTanA nahIM thI jisakA citraNa kiyA jaataa| yahA~ zaMkA ho sakatI hai ki 'kumArI-vivAha bhI aisI kyA mahatvapUrNa ghaTanA thI jisakA citraNa kiyA gayA ?' isakA uttara thor3e meM yahI diyA jA sakatA hai ki prathamAnuyoga

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( 46 ) granthoM meM kumArI-vivAha kA ullekha sirpha vahIM huA hai jahA~ para ki vivAha kA sambandha kisI mahatvapUrNa ghaTanA se ho gayA hai| jaise sulocanA ke vivAha kA sambandha jayakumAra arkakIrti ke yuddha me hai, sItA ke vivAha kA sambandha dhanuSa car3hAne aura bhAmaMDala ke samAgama se hai ityAdi / bAkI vivAhoM ko kucha patA hI nahIM lagatA; sirpha striyoM kI ginatI se unakA anumAna kiyA jAtA hai| pracIna samaya meM kumArI vivAhoM meM kimI kisI vivAha kA sambandha kisI mahatvapUrNa ghaTanA se ho jAtA thA isa liye unakA unna kha pAyA jAtA hai| paranta vidhavA vivAha meM ailI mahatvapUrNa ghaTanA kI sambhAvanA nahIM thI yA ghaTanA nahIM huI isa liye una kA ullekha bhI nahIM huA / zAstroM meM sirpha mahatvapUrNa ghaTanAoM kA ullekha milatA hai| mahatvapUrNa ghaTanAeM acchI bhI ho sakatI haiM aura burI bhI ho sakatI haiN| isIliye parastrIharaNa Adi durI ghaTanAoM kA bhI ullekha hai / bure kAryoM ko nindA ora unakA buga phala batalAne ke liye yaha citraNa huyA hai| agara vidhavAvivAha bhI burI ghaTanA hAtI to usakA pApa phala bata. lAne ke liye kyA eka bhI ghaTanA kA ullekha na hotaa| isase mAfa mAlUma hotA hai ki vidhavAvivAha kA anullekha usakI burAI ko nahIM, kintu sAdhAraNatA ko batalAtA hai / jaba zAstroM meM parastrIharaNa aura bApa beTI ke vivAha kA ullekha milatA hai (dekhA kArtikeya svAmI kI kathA-ArAdhanA kathAkoSa meM ) aura unakI nindA kI jAtI hai,kintu vidhavAvivAha kA ullekha usakI nindA karane aura duSphala batAne ko bhI nahIM

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( 50 ) milatA: itane para bhI jo loga vidhavAvivAha ko bar3A pApa samajhate haiM unakI samajha kI balihArI / sArA~za yaha hai ki vidhavA vivAha na to koI pApa hai, na koI mahatvapUrNa bAta hai jisase usakA ullekha zAstroM meM kiyA jAtA / jaba yaha bAta siddha ho cukI ki vidhavAvivAha jainazAstroM ke anukUla aura purAnI prathA hai taba isa bAta kI z2arUrata nahIM hai ki donoM kAloMkI paristhitimeM antara dikhalAyA jAya, phira bhI kucha antara dikhalA denA hama anucita nahIM samajhateH pahile z2amAne meM vivAha tabhI kiyA jAtA thA jaba mAtApitA dekha lete the ki inameM eka taraha kA rAgabhAva paidA ho gayA hai, jisako sImita karane ke liye vivAha zrAvazyaka hai, taba ve vivAha karate the / parantu zrAjakala ke mAtA pitA meM hI binA z2arUrata vivAha kara dete haiM; basa phira unakI balA se / pahile z2amAne meM bhrUNahatyAe~ nahIM hotI thIM / parantu zrAjakala ina hatyAoM kA bAz2Ara garma hai / asamaya 1 pahile z2amAne meM agara kisI strI se koI kukarma ho jAtA thA to bhI vaha aura usakI saMtAna jAti se patita nahIM mAnI jAtI thii| unakI yogya vyavasthA kI jAtI thI / jyeSThA zrarthikA kA udAharaNa kAfI hogA / usa samaya jainasamAja meM janma saMkhyA kI apekSA mRtyusaMkhyA adhika nahIM thI / vidhavA striyoM ke sAthaaise atyAcAra nahIM hote the; jaise ki zrAjakala hote haiM / isa prakAra antara to bahuta se haiM, parantu prakaraNake liye upayogI thoDese antara yahA~ likha diye gaye haiN| prazna (31) - sAmAjika niyama athavA vyavahAra dharma zrAvazyakatAnusAra badala sakatA hai yA nahIM ?

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( 51 ) uttara--sAmAjika niyama athavA vyavahAra dharma, ina donoM zabdoM ke artha meM antara hai, paraMtu sAmAjika niyama, vyavahAra dharma kI sImA kA ullaMghana nahIM kara sakate haiM / isa liye unameM abheda rUpa se vyavahAra kiyA jAtA hai / jo sAmA. jika niyama vyavahAra dharma rUpa nahIM haiM arthAta nizcaya dharma ke poSaka nahIM hai ve nAdirazAhI ke namUne athavA bher3iyodhasAnI markhatA ke cinha haiM / vyavahAra dharma ( tadantagata hone se sAmAjika niyama bhI ) sadA badalatA rahatA hai| vyavahAra dharma meM dravya. netra, kAla, bhAva kI apekSA hai / jaba dravya, kSetra, kAla, bhAvame sadA parivartana hotA hai,taba tadAzrita vyavahAra dharma meM parivartana kayoM na hogA ? vyavahAra dharma meM agara parivartana na kiyA jAya to dharma jIvita hI nahIM raha sktaa| mAkSamArga meM jyoM jyoM uccatA prApta hotI jAtI hai kyoM tyo bheda ghaTate jAte hai| middhoM meM parampara jitanA bheda hai usase jyAdA bheda arahaMto meM hai aura usase bhI jyAdA muniyoM meM aura usase bhI jyAdA zrAvakoM meM hai| UparI gaNa sthAnoM meM karmoM kA nAza, kaMvalajJAnAdi kI utpatti, zukla dhyAna zrAdi kI dRSTi se mamAnatA hai| parantu zukla dhyAna ke viSaya prAdika kI dRSTi se bheda bhI hai / aura bhI bahuta sI bAtoM meM bheda hai| koI sAmAyika saMyama rakhatA hai, koI chedopasthApanA / koI strI vedo hai, koI puvedI, koI napuMsaka vedI / ina jude jude pariNAmoM se bhI sava yathAkhyAta saMyama ko prApta karate haiN| bhagavAna ajitanAtha se lekara bhagavAna mahAvIra taka chedopasthApanA saMgama kA upadeza hI nahIM

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( 52 ) thaa| bhagavAna RSabhadeva aura bhagavAna mahAvIra ne isakA bhI upadeza diyA ! muniyoM ke liye kamaMDalu rakhanA Avazyaka hai, parannu tIrthaGkara aura sapta Rddhi vAle kamaMDalu nahIM rakhate / matalaba yaha ki vyavahAra dharma kA pAlana AvazyakatA ke anusAra kiyA jAtA hai usakA koI nizcita rUpa nahIM hai| zrAvakAcAra meM to yaha antara aura bhI adhika ho jAtA hai / chaTavI pratimA meM koI rAtri bhojana kA tyAga batAte hai to koI dinameM strI sevana kA tyAga ! aSTa mUlaguNa to samaya samaya para badalate hI rahe haiM aura ve isa samaya cAra taraha ke pAye jAte haiN| kisI ke matase vezyAsevI bhI brahmacaryANuvratI ho sakatA hai kisI ke mata se nahIM ! jo loga yaha samajhate haiM ki nizcayadharma eka hai isaliye vyavahAradharma bhI eka honA cAhiye, unheM upayukta vivecana para dhyAna dekara apanI buddhi ko satyamArga para lAnA Avazyaka hai / kaI loga kahate haiM- "aisA koI sAmAjika niyama athavA kriyA nahIM hai jo dharma se zunya hoH sabhI ke sAtha dharma kA sambandha hai anyathA dharmazanya kriyA adharma ThaharegI" / yaha kahanA bilakula ThIka hai / parantu jaba yehI loga kahane lagate haiM ki sAmAjika niyama to badala sakate haiM, parantu vyavahAra dharma nahIM badala sakatA taba inakI akla para ha~sI pAne lagatI hai| ve vyavahAra dharma ke badalane se nizcaya dharma badalane kI bAta kahake apanI nAsamajhI to pragaTa karate haiM, kintu dharmAnukala sAmAjika niyama badalane kI bAta svIkAra karake bhI dharma meM parivartana nahIM mAnate / aisI samajhadArI to avazya hI ajAyabaghara meM rakhane lAyaka hai|

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yahA~ hama isa bAta kA khulAsA kara denA cAhate haiM ki vyavahAradharma ke badalane se nizcaya dharma nahIM bdltaa| davAiyA~ haz2AgeM taraha kI hotI hai aura una sabase bImAra AdamI nigega banAyA jAtA hai / rogiyoM kI paristhiti ke anusAra hI davAI kI vyavasthA hai / eka rogI ke liye jo davAI hai dUsare ko vahI viSa ho sakatA hai| eka ke liye jo viSa hai, dUsare ko vahI davAI ho sakatI hai| pratyeka rogI ke liye auSadha kA vicAra judA judA karanA par3atA hai| isI prakAra pratyeka vyakti ke liye vyavahAradharma judA judA hai| sabhI roga ke liye eka hI taraha kI davAI banAne vAlA vaidya jitanA mUrkha hai usase bhI jyAdA mUrkha vaha hai jo sabhI vyaktiyoM ke liye sabhI samaya ke liye eka hI mA vyavahAra dharma batalAtA hai| isa para thoDAmA vivecana hamane gyArahave prazna ke uttara meM bhI kiyA hai| vidhavA-vivAha saM samyaktva aura cAritra meM koI dUSaNa nahIM pAtA hai isa bAta ko bhI hama vistAra se pahile kahacuke haiM / vidhavA-vivAha me cAritra meM utanI hI aTI hotI hai jitanI ki kumArI vivAha se| aba isa viSaya ko duharAnA vyartha hai| upasaMhAra 31 praznoM kA uttara hamane saMkSepa meM diyA hai phira bhI lekha bar3ha gayA hai| isa viSaya meM aura bhI tarka ho sakatA hai jisakA uttara sarala hai / vicArayogya kucha bAteM rahagaI hai| una sabake ullekha se lekha bar3ha jAvegA isaliye unheM chor3a diyA jAtA hai| iti

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( 54 ) prerita patra zrImAna sampAdakajI mahodaya ! maiM jaina jagat" par3hA karatI hai aura usakI bahutasI bAte mujhe acchI mAlama hotI haiN| lekina zrIyuta savyasAcI jI ke dvArA likhe gaye lekha ko par3hakara maiM bar3I cintA meM par3a gaI / usa lekhameM vidhavAvidhAha kA dharma ke anusAra poSaNa kiyA gayA hai / vaha lekha jitanA jabardasta hai utanA hI bhayA. naka hai / maiM paMDitA to hU~ nahIM, isa lie isa lekha kA khagaDana karanA merI tAkata ke bAhara hai| parantu maiM sIdhI sAdhI do cAra bAte kaha denA ucita samajhatI huuN| pahilI bAta to yaha hai ki mavyasAcIjI vidhavAoMke pIche hAtha dhokara kyoM par3e haiM ? ve becArI jisa taraha jIvana vyatIta karatI hai usI taraha karane dIjie / jisa gulAmI ke bandhana se ve chaTa cukI hai, kyA usI baMdhana meM DAlakara savya. sAcIjI unakA uddhAra karanA cAhate haiM ? gulAmIkA nAma bhI kyA uddhAra hai ? jo loga vidhavAvivAha ke liye eDIme coTI taka pasInA bahAte haiM unake pAsa kyA vidhavAo ne darakhvAsta bhejI hai ? yadi nahIM to isa taraha anAvazyaka dayA kyoM dikhalAI jAtI hai ? phira vaha bhI aisI hAlatameM jabaki striyA~ hI svayaM usa dayA kA virodha kara rahI ho| bhAratIya mahilAe~ isa girI huI avasthAmeM bhI agara sira U~cA kara sakatI haiM to isIliye ki unameM sItA, sAvitrI sarIkhI deviyA~ huI haiM / vidhavAvivAha ke pracAra se kyA sItA sAvitrIke liye aGgula bhara jagaha bhI bacegI ? kyA

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( 55 ) vaha zrAdarza naSTa na ho jAvegA ? zrAdarza bane rahane para unnati ke zikhara se gira par3ane para bhI unnati ho sakatI hai, parantu zrAdarza ke naSTa hojAne para unnati kI bAta hI ur3a jaaygii| sampAdakajI ! maiM dharmake viSaya meM to kucha samajhatI nahIM huuN| na bAlakI khAla nikAlane vAlI yuktiyA~ hI de sakatI hU~ / sambhava hai savyasAcI sarIkhe lekhakoM kI kRpA se vidhavA vivAha dharmAnukula hI siddha ho jAya, parantu mere hRdaya kI jo zrAvAz2a hai vaha maiM zrApake pAsa bhejatI hU~ aura anta meM yaha kaha denA bhI ucita samajhatI hU~ ki zAstroM meM jo ATha prakAra ke vivAha kahe hai unameM bhI vidhavAvivAha kA nAma nahIM hai| zrAzA hai savyasAcIjI hamArI bAtoM kA samucita uttara deNge| ApakI bhaginI-kalyANI / kalyANI ke patra kA uttara / ( lekhaka-zrIyuta 'savyasAcI' ) bahina kalyANI devIne eka patra likhakara merA bar3A upakAra kiyA hai / vairisTara sAhiba ke praznoM kA uttara dete samaya mujhe kaI bAteM chor3anI par3I hai| bahina ne unameM se kaI bAtoM kA ullekha kara diyA hai / AzA hai isase vidhavAvivAha kI sacAI para aura bhI adhika prakAza pdd'egaa| pahilI bAta ke uttara meM meM nivedana karanA cAhatA hU~ ki vidhavAvivAha se striyoM ko gulAma nahIM banAyA jaataahai| hamAre qhayAla se jo vidhavAe~ brahmacarya nahIM pAla sakatIM unake liye patike sAtha rahanA gulAmI kA jIvana nahIM hai / kyA sadhavA jIvana ko striyA~ gulAmI kA jIvana samajhatI hai ? yadi hAM, to

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( 56 ) unheM vidhavA banane ke liye Atura honA cAhiye-pati ke marane para khuzI manAnA cAhiye; kyoMki ve gulAmI se chUTI hai; parantu aisA nahIM dekhA jaataa| hamArI samajha meM striyA~ vaidhavya ko apane jIvanakA sabase bar3A duHkha samajhatI haiM aura patike sAtha rahane ko bar3A mukha | samAja kI dazA dekhakara bhI kahanA par3atA hai ki jitanI gulAmI vidhavA ko karanA par3anI hai utanI sadhavA ko nahIM / sadhavA eka puruSa kI gulAmI karatI hai, sAtha hI meM usase kucha gulAmI karAtI bhI hai: parantu vidhavA ko samasta kuTumba kI gulAmI karanA par3atI hai| usake Upara sabhI A~kha uThAte hai,parantu vaha phisIke sAmhane dekha bhI nahIM sktii| usa ke A~suzrIkA mUlya karIba karIva 'nahIM' ke barAbara hojAtA hai| usakA pavitra jIvana bhI zaMkA kI dRSTi se dekhA jAtA hai| apa. zakuna kI mUrti to yaha mAnI hI jAtI hai / kyA gulAmI kI jajIra TUTane kA yahI zubha phala hai ? kyA svatantratA ke yehI cinha haiM / thor3I dera ke liye mAna lIjiye, ki vaidhavya-jIvana bar3A sukhamaya jIvana hai, parantu vidhavAvivoha vAle yaha kaya kahate haiM ki jo vidhavA-vivAha na karegI vaha naraka jAyagI ? unakA kahanA to itanA hI hai ki jo vaidhavya ko pavitratA se na pAla sake ve vivAha karaleM kyoMki kumArI-vivAha ke samAna vidhavAvivAha bhI dharmAnukUla hai| kintu jo vaidhavya ko nibhA sakatI haiM ve brahmacAriNI bane! pAryikA bane! kauna manA karatA hai ? vidhavA vivAha ke pracAraka koI z2abardastI nahIM krte| ve dharmAnukUla sarala mArga batAte haiM / jisakI khuzI ho cale, na ho na cle| hA~, itanI bAta avazya haiM ki aimI bahine gupta vyabhicAra aura bhrUNa-hatyAoM se dUra rheN|

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dUsarI bAta ke uttara meM merA nivedana hai ki vidhavAoM ne mere pAsa darakhvAsta nahIM bhejI hai| zrAma taura para bhAratavarSa meM vivAha ke liye darakhvAsta bhejane kA rivAja bhI nahIM hai / maiM pUchatA hU~ ki hamAre deza meM jitanI kanyAoM ke vivAha hote haiM unameM se kitanI kanyA vivAha ke liye darakhvAsta bhejatI haiM yadi nahIM bhejatI to unakA vivAha kyoM kiyA jAtA hai ? kyA kanyAoM kA vivAha karanA anAvazyaka dayA hai ? yadi nahIM to vidhavAoM kA vivAha karanA bhI anAvazyaka dayA nahIM hai| dusarI bAta yaha hai ki darakhvAsta sirpha kAgaja para likha kara hI nahIM dI jAtI-yaha kAryoM ke dvArA bhI dI jAtI hai / vidhavA samAja ne bhra Na-hanyA, gupta vyabhicAra Adi kAryoM se samAja ke pAsa z2abardasta se z2abardasta darakhvAste bhejI haiM / isa liye unakA vivAha kyoM na karanA cAhiye ? kanyAe~ na to kAgajoM para darakhvAsta bhejatI hai, na bhraNa hatyA Adi kukAryoM me: phira bhI unakA vivAha eka kartavya samajhA jAtA hai / taba vidhavAoM kA vivAha kartavya kyoM na samajhA jAya ? kucha dinoM se kucha mahApuruSoM ( ? ) ne striyoM ke dvArA bhI vidhavAvivAhakaM virodha kA mvA~ga karAnA zurUkara diyA hai, paraMtu kumArI vivAha ke niSedha ke liye hama kumAriyoM ko khar3A kara sakate haiM / phira kyA kalyANIdevI, kumAriyoM ke vivAha ko bhI anucita dayA kA pariNAma samajhegI ? bAta yaha hai ki zatAbdiyoM kI gulAmI ne striyoM ke zarIra ke sAtha zrAtmA aura hRdaya ko bhI gulAma banA diyA hai| unameM aba itanI himmata nahIM ki ve hRdaya kI bAta kaha ske| amerikA meM jaba gulAmI kI prathA ke viruddha pravAhamalikana ne yuddha cher3A to svayaM gulAmoM

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( 5 ) ne apane mAlikoM kA pakSa liyA, aura jaba ve svatantra ho gaye to mAlikoM kI hI zaraNa meM pahu~ce / gulAmI kA aimA hI prabhAya par3atA hai / z2arA svatantra nAriyoM se aisI bAta kahiye-yogepa kI mahilAoM se vidhavAvivAha ke virodha karane kA anurodha kIjiye - taba mAlUma ho jAyagA ki strI-hRdaya kyA cAhatA hai ? hamAre deza kI lajAlu strI chipe chipe pApa kara sakatI hai| parantu spaSTa zabdoM meM apane nyAyocita adhikAra bhI nahIM mA~ga sakatIM / eka vidhavA se-jisake cinha vaidhavya pAlana ke anukUla nahIM the-eka mahAzaya ne vidhavAvivAha kA z2ikara kiyA to unako pacAsoM gAliyA~ milI, ghara vAloM ne gAliyA~ dI aura becAroM kI bar3I faz2Ihata kI / parantu kucha dinoM bAda vaha eka zrAdamI ke ghara meM jAkara baiTha gaI ! imI taraha haz2AroM vidhavAe~ musalamAnoM ke sAtha bhAga sakatI haiM, bhraNahatyA kara sakatI haiM, gupta vyabhicAra kara sakatI hai, parantu muha se apanA janma siddha adhikAra nahIM mA~ga sktiiN| prAyaH pratyeka puruSa ko isa bAta kA patA hogA ki aise kAryoM meM striyAM muMha se 'nA', 'nA' karatI haiM aura kArya se 'hA~', 'hA~' karatI hai, isa liye striyoM ke isa virodha kA kucha mUlya nahIM hai| bahina kalyANI ne apane patrameM sItA sAvitrI zrAdi kI duhAI dI hai| kyA bahina ne isa bAta para vicAra kiyA hai ki aAja saikar3oM varSoM se uttara prAntake jainiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha kA rivAja banda hai lekina taba bhI koI sItA jaisI paidA nahIM huI hai? bAta yaha hai kipazuoke samAnagulAma striyoM meM sItA jaisIstrI paidA ho hA nahIM sakatI,kyoMki DaMDe ke balapara jo dharma kA DhoMga karAyA jAtA hai vaha dharma hI nahIM kahalAtA hai| bahinakA kahanA

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( 56 ) hai ki "vidhavAvivAha ke pracAra se kyA sItA sAvitrI ke liye aMgula bhara bhI jagaha bacegI?" hamArA kahanA hai ki jahA~ dharma ke liye aMgula bhara bhI jagaha nahIM hai, vahA~ hAtha bhara jagaha nikAla lene vAlI hI sItA khlaatiihai| z2abardastI yA maukA na milane se brahmacarya kA DhoMga karane vAlI yadi sItA kahalAve to vecArI sItAoM kA kaur3I bhara bhI mUlya na rhe| sItA jI kA mahatva isI liye hai ki ve jaMgala meM rahanA pasaMda karatI thIM aura tIna khaMDa ke adhipati rAvaNa kI vibhUtiyoM ko ThukarAtI thIM / jaba sItA jI laMkA meM pahu~cI aura unheM mAlUma huA ki haraNa karane vAlA to vidyAdharoMkA adhipati hai tabhI unheM karIba 2 vizvAsa ho gayA ki aba chuTakArA muzkila hai| rAvaNa jaba yuddha meM jAne lagA aura sItA jI se prasanna hone ko kahA to usa samaya sItA jI ko vizvAsa ho gayA thA ki rAma lakSmaNa, rAvaNa se jIta na sakeMge / isIliye unane kahA ki merA saMdeza vinA sunAye tuma rAma lakSmaNa ko mata mAranA / matalaba yaha ki rAvaNa kI zakti kA pUrA vizvAza hone para bhI unane rAvaNa ko baraNa na kiyA: imIliye sotA kA mahatva hai| Ajakala jo vidhavAra samAja ke dvArA jabardastI bandhana meM DAlI gaI haiM, unheM sItA samajhanA sItA ke caritra kA apamAna karanA hai| vidhavAvivAha ke Andolana se sirpha vidhavAoM ko apane vivAha kA adhikAra milatA hai-unheM vivAha ke liye koI vighaza nahIM krtaa| agara ve cAhe to khuzI se vaidhavya kA pAlana kareM / parantu bahina kalyANI kA kahanA hai ki vidhavAvivAha se sItAka liye aMgula bhara bhI jagaha na bcegii| isakA matalaba yaha hai ki aAjakala kI vidhavAeM punarvivAha ke adhi

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( 60 ) kAra sarIkhA halake se halakA pralobhana bhI nahIM jIta sakatI ! kyA hamArI bahina esI hI striyoM se rAvaNa ke pralobhana jItane kI zrAzA rakhatI haiM ? bahina, sakhI vidhavAe~ to usa samaya paidA hoMgI jisa samaya samAja meM vidhavAvivAha kA khUba pracAra hogaa| vidhavA aura brahmacAriNI meM bar3A antara hai / pati marane se vidhavA hotI hai na ki brahmacAriNI / usake liye tyAga kI z2arUrata hai aura tyAga tabhI ho sakatA hai, jaba prApti ho yA prApti kI AzA ho / 1 anta meM bahina ne kahA hai ki ATha prakAra ke vivAhA meM vidhavAvivAda kA ullekha nahIM hai / parantu ina ATha taraha ke vivAhoM meM kumArI vivAha, anyagotra vivAha, sajAtIya vivAha Adi kA ullekha bhI kahA~ hai ? kyA ye saba vivAha bhI nAjAyaz2a haiM ? bAta yaha hai ki ye ATha bheda vivAha kI rItiyoM ke bheda haiM arthAt vivAha ATha taraha se ho sakatA hai / arthAt sajAtIya vivAha, vijAtIya vivAha, kumArIvivAha, vidhavA vivAha, anuloma vivAha, pratiloma vivAha, Adi sabhI taraha ke vivAha ATha rItiyoM se ho sakate haiN| isIliye kumArIvivAha vidhavA vivAha Adi bhedoM ko rItiyoM meM zAmila nahIM kiyA hai| jaise kumArIvivAha ke ATha bheda haiM usI taraha vidhavAvivAha ke bhI ATha bheda haiN| AzA hai bahina ko hamAre uttaroM se santoSa hogA / agara phira bhI kucha zaMkA rahe to maiM uttara dene ko taiyAra hU~

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jarUrI nivedn| 1-Ajakala hindI "jainagajaTa" meM jo zrIyuta "savyasAcI ke lekha (jo ki "jaina jagata meM nikala cukA hai ) ke uttara meM eka lekha kramazaH nikala rahA hai, usakA muMha tor3a javAba zrIyuta "savyasAcI" jo bhI nayyAra karate jA rahe haiM / vaha zIghra hI hindI "jaina gaz2aTa" meM pUrNa chapa cukane para "vidhavA vivAha aura jaina dharma ke dUsare bhAga ke rUpa meM prakAzita hogaa| 2-"ujale poza badamAza kI bhUmikA meM jo " seTha jI kI kAlI karatRta" ke liye sUcita kiyA gayA thA, vaha pustaka bhI likhI jA rahI hai, zIghra hI prakAzita hogii| nivedk-mNtrii|

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anya upayogI pustakeM 1. zinAprada zAstrIya udAharaNa--legvaka zrI paM0 jugalakizora jI mukhtAra mUlya // 2. vivAha kSatra prakAza- ,, ,. 14) 3. jaina jAti sudazA pravartaka-lekhaka / zrI vAvR mRraja bhAnu vakIla ,, , 4. maMgalAdevI5. kyAroM kI durdazA- , 6. gRhastha dharma7. rAjadulArI8. vidhavAvivAha aura unake saMrakSakoM se apIla-lekhaka va zItalaprasAdajI ,, )" 6. ujalepoza badamAza-legvaka paMDita __ ayodhyApramAda gAyalIya ,, 7) 10. jainadharma aura vidhavAvivAha-legvaka zrI0 savyasAcI ,, / 11. vidhavAvivAha samAdhAna- ... ) milane kA patA : jauharImala sarrApha bar3A darIbA, dehlii|

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Venka PAN jainadharma aura vidhavAvivAha | (dusarA bhAga ) lekhaka :--- zrIyuna "savyasAnI"

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TekTa naM013 jainadharma aura vidhavA-vivAha ( dUsarA bhAga ) lekhakazrIyut "savyasAcI" prakAzakamaMtrI jaina bAlavidhavA-sahAyaka sabhA dIyA kalA~, dehalI __"caitanya prinTiGga presa, bijanaura ( ya0pI0 ) 11 prathamavAra / * 1000 sana 1631 I0 / ) 7

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prakAzakalA. jauharImala jaina sarrAfa mantrI jaina bAla vidhavAsahAyaka mabhA, darIbA kalA, dehalI TREN HANAL 1 Rane mudraka zAnticandra jaina, "caitanya" prinTiGa presa, bijanaura (yU0 pI0)

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zuddhAzuddhi-patra DIpa 20 28 34 paMkti prazaddha zuddha 16 DIpa 16 TIpa TApa 26 padatrAyaM yadatrAyaM 13 vaha puruSa madonmatta ve puruSatva-madonmatta - meM ke liye 17 vRzAla vRSala 4 nimaya niyama 16 mihoM 20 yAtyAnazca yAtyanizca 22 saeSa sa eva 21 svada hI 17 cAhiye aasi 11 chaTTaka chedaka 18 bhoktI moktrI 4 yukti se jItane pr| yukti meM na jItane para 15 sandhera andhera 41 41 siMhI 46 4- 71 182 - nAvatrI navAbI

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zuddha mUlAcAra mUlAcAra malAcAra U C : kumi pRSTa paMkti azuddha 182 23 mUlAkAra 27 mulApAra 6 mUlApAra 1857 kubhi 1885 Adi 1631 vyabhicAra nahI hai 13 apatiranyA 2061 praprAMga 1 vyAkhyAsyAyaH 213 20 mukhAvasthaivimuktA 214 12 cisakA 227 12 saddhA 2268 nigaMga 226 nigaMga anAdi vyabhicAra bhI nahIM de apanignyA prayoga vyAkhyAsyAmaH sukhAvamyaivimuktA jisakA ruddhA nIgaMga nIgaga

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* aAvazyaka nivedana * jaina samAja aura hindu samAja kI ghaTI kA mukhya kAraNa vidhavAvivAha se ghRNA karanA va usako vyabhicAra yA zApa samajhanA hai / lAkhoM ho saMtAna bina vivAhe kumAre raha jAte haiM, kyoMki unako kanyAe~ nahIM miltii| isaliye ve jaba marate haiM taba apane gharoM meM sadA ke liye tAle lagA jAte haiN| udhara vidhura puruSa apana paka jIvana meM kaI 2 bAra zAdiyAM karate haiM. vRddha hone para bhI nahIM cUkate haiN| jisakA phala yaha hotA hai ki bahuna sI yuvAna vidhavAe~ binA saMtAna raha jAtI haiN| koI jo dhanavAna hotI haiM ve goda le letI hai zeSa aneka niHsaMtAna marakara apane gharameM nAlA de jAtI haiM / isa taraha kuvAre puruSoM ke kAraNa va bahusaMkhyaka vidhavAoM ke kAraNa jaina samAja tathA hindU samAja bar3e vaMga se ghaTa rahA hai| jahAM 25 varSa pahale 100 ghara the vahAM aba 40-50 hI ghara pAe jAte hai| jaipura meM 25 va 30 varSa pahale jainiyoM ke 3000 ghara the, aba mAtra 100 hI raha gae haiM / udhara yuvAna vidhavAoM ko anekoM gupta pApoM meM phaMsakara ghora vyabhicAra va hiMsA ke pApa meM sananA par3atA hai / ve brahmacarya ke bhAra ko na saha sakane ke kAraNa patita ho jAtI haiN| yaha saba vRthA hI kaSTa va hAni uThAI jA rahI hai, kevala

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[kha] ima hI vicAra se ki vidhavAvivAha kI iz2Az2ata jaina siddhAMta va hindU zAstra nahIM detaa| hindU zAstroM meM to atharvaveda va smR tiyoM meM punarvivAha kA spaSTa kathana hai / jaina siddhAnta dvArA yaha siddha hai yA prasiddha isa prazna ko mAnanIya bairiTara campatarAya jI ne uThAyA thaa| usakA samAdhAna 'savyasAcI' mahodaya ne bar3I hI akATya va praur3ha yaktiyoM ke dvArA dekara yaha siddha kara diyA thA ki vidhavAvivAha kanyA vivAha ke samAna hai va isase gRhadharma meM koI bAdhA nahIM AtI hai| yaha saba samAdhAna 'jainadharma aura vidhavAvivAha' nAmaka dai kR meM prakAzita ho cukA hai| isa samAdhAna para paNDita zrIlAlajI pATanI alI. gar3ha tathA paM0 vidyAnanda zarmA ne AkSepa uThAe the-unakA bhI samAdhAna ukta savyasAcIjI ne 'jaina jagata' meM prakAzita kara diyA hai / vahI saba samAdhAna isa pustaka meM diyA jAtA hai. jise par3hakara pAThakagaNa niHzaMka ho jAyeMge ki vidhavAvivAha na to vyabhicAra hai aura na pApa hai-mAtra kanyAvivAha va vidhuravivAha ke samAna eka nIti pUrNa lokika kArya hai-itanA hI nahIM-yaha usa abalA ko vyabhicAra va hiMsA ke ghora pApoM se bacAne vAlA hai |srv hI jaina va hiMdU bhAiyoM ko ucita hai ki isa pustaka ko zrAdi se anta taka par3heM / unakA citta bilakula mAnalegA ki vidhavAvivAha niSiddha nahIM hai kintu vidheya hai| pAThakoM ko ucita hai ki bhArata meM jo gupta vyabhicAra va hiMsA vidhavAoM ke kAraNa ho rahI hai usako dUra karAve

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[ga] usakA upAya yahI hai ki hara eka kuTumba apane 2 ghara meM jo koI vidhavA ho jAya usase ekAnta meM bAta kareM / yadi usa kI bAtacIta se va usake rahana sahana ke DhaMga se pratIta ho ki yaha brahmavarya vrata kA pAla lego naba to use vairAgya ke sAdhanoM meM rakha denA cAhiye aura jo koI kaheM ki vaha pUrNa brahmacarya nahIM pAla makanI hai taba jA usake saMrakSaka ho-cAhe pitA ghara vAle cAhe asura ghara vAle-unakA yaha pavitra kartavya hai ki ummako kanyA ke samAna mAnakara usakA vivAha yogya puruSa ke mAtha kara deveM / strI lajjA ke kAraNa apane manakA hAla spaSTa nahIM kahatI hai| usake maMrakSakoM kA kartavya hai ki usakI zakti ke anusAra usake jIvana kA nirNaya karadeM / samAja kI rakSA cAhane vAlA mantrI

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* dhanyavAda * isa Traka ke chapavAne ke liye nimnalikhita mahAnubhAvoM ne sahAyatA pradAna kI hai, jinako sabhA hArdika dhanyavAda detI hai,sAtha hI samAja ke anya strI puruSoM se nivedana karatI hai ki ve bhI nimna zrImAnoM kA anukaraNa karake aura apanI dukhita bahinoM para tarasa khAkara isI prakAra sahAyatA pradAna karane kI udAratA dikha lAva: 25) lA0 dhanakumAra jI jena kAnapura / 25) guptadAna ( eka jaina ; kAnapura / 20) guptadAna ( eka vakIla ) lakhanaU / 10) lA0 rAmajIdAsa madara bAz2Ara dehlii| 10) bA0 ulaphatarAya iMjIniyara dehlii| 10) bA. mahAvIra prasAda dehalI / 10) lA0 kizanalAla dehlii| 10) lA0 gulAbasiMha bajI mala dehlii| 10) lA0 bholAnAtha mukhatAra bulandazahara / 10) bA0 mAIdayAla bI0 e0 zrAnarsa ambAlA / 10) lA0 kezarImala zrIrAma dehalI / 10) lA0 lalatAprasAda jaina shrmghaa| 10) bA0 paMcamalAla jaina tahammIladAra jabalapura / 10) lA0 vizambhara dAsa gArgIya jhaaNmii| 10) guptadAna ( eka bAbU sAhaba ) dehlii| 10) guptadAna ( eka bAbU sAhaba ) keganA / 10) guptadAna (eka ThekedAra sAhaba) dehlii| 10) guptadAna ( eka raIsa sAhaba ) bijanaura / 5) guptadAna ( eka sarrAfa) dehlii| 5) gaptadAna ( eka jaina ) gohAnA /

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vidhavAvivAha aura jainadharma! AkSepoM kA muMha tor3a uttara sabase pahilI aura mudde kI bAta meM pAThakoM se yaha kaha danA cAhatA hU~ ki mere qhayAla se jainadharma pAralaukika unnati ke liye jitanA marvottama hai utanA hI lokika unnati ke liye suvidhAjanaka hai / samAja kI unnati ke liya aura samAja kI rakSA ke liya aisA koI bhI rItirivAja nahIM hai jAki jainadharma ke pratikula ho / jainadharma kisI ghusakhora va anyAyI majisTreTa kI taraha pakSapAta nahIM karanA jisasa puruSoM ke sAtha vaha riyAyata kare aura striyoM ko pIsa DAle / striyoM ke liye aura zudrA ke liye usane vahI suvidhA dI haiM jo ki puruSA ke liye aura dvijoM ke liye / jainadharma kI anaka khabiyoM meM ye - - isa paigamAfa ke pratyeka vAkya ko maiM acchI taraha vicAra kara likha rahA huuN| isameM maiMne uttejanA yA atizayokti se kAma nahIM liyA hai| isake kisI vAkya yA zabda ke liye agara koI nayA zrAndolana uThAnA paDe to maiM usake liye bhI taiyAra huuN| agara koI mahAzaya zrAkSepa karane kA kaSTa kareM to bar3I kRpA hogI, kyoMki isa bahAne se eka Andolana ko khar3A karane kA maukA mila jaaygaa| -lekhaka

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( 2 ) donoM khUbiyA~ bahuta bar3I khUbiyA~ haiM / sAmAjika- rakSA aura unnati ke sAtha zrAtmika rakSA aura unnati ke liye suvidhA denA aura kisIke adhikArako na chInanA, ye donoM bAteM agara jainadharma meM na hoMgI to kisa dharma meM hoMgI ? agara kisI dharma meM ye donoM bAteM nahIM haiM to yaha ina donoM bAtoM kA durbhAgya nahIM hai, kintu usa dharmakA hI durbhAgya hai / yaha smaraNa rakhanA cAhiye ki dharmagranthoM meM na likhI hone se acchI bAtoM kI qImata nahIM ghaTatI, kintu acchI bAteM na likhI hone se dharmagranthoM kI kImata ghaTatI hai / pratyeka strI puruSa ko kizora avasthA se lekara yuvA zravasthA ke anta taka vivAha karane kA janmasiddha adhikAra hai / puruSa isa adhikAra kA upayoga mAtrA se adhika karatA rahe aura striyoMko z2arUrata hone para bhI na karane de; itanA hI nahIM kintu vaha apanI yaha nAdirazAhI dharma ke nAma para usameM bhI jainadharma ke nAma para -- calAve, isa andhera kA kucha ThikAnA hai ! mujhe to unakI nirlajanA para zrAzcarya hotA hai ki jo puruSa apane do do cAra cAra vivAha kara lene para bhI vidhavAoM ke punarvivAhako dharmaviruddha kahane kI dhRSTatA karate haiN| jisa kAmadeva ke zrAge ve naGge nAcate haiM, vRddhAvasthAmeM bhI vivAha karate haiM, eka kasAI kI taraha kanyAe~ qharIdate haiM, usI 'kAma' ke zrAkramaNase jaba eka yuvatI vidhavA dukhI hotI hai aura apanA vivAha karanA cAhatI hai to ye ka ratA aura nirlajjatA ke zravatAra dharmaviruddhatA kA Dara dikhalAte haiM ! yaha kaisI bezaramo hai ! vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI kahate haiM ki puruSoM ko punavivAha kA adhikAra hai aura striyoM ko nahIM / aise atyAcAra

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pUrNa ahaGkAra ke ye loga zikAra ho rahe haiM, jaba ki vidhavA. vivAha ke samarthaka isa viSaya meM striyoM ko puruSoM ke samAna adhikAra denA cAhate haiN| vidhavAvivAha ke samarthaka, puruSa hone para bhI apane vizeSAdhikAra, binA striyoM kI preraNA ke, chor3anA cAhate hai / striyoM ke duHkha se unakA hRdaya dravita hai; isIliye svArthI puruSoM ke virodha karane para bhI ve isa kAma meM lage haiN| apamAna tiraskAra Adi kI bilakula parvAha nahIM krte| vidhavAvivAha samarthakoM kI isa nisvArthatA, udAratA, tyAga, dayA, sahanazIlatA, kartavyapagayaNatA aura dhArmikatA ko vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI koTijanma tapa tapane para bhI nahIM pA makane / ye svArtha ke putale jaba vidhavAvivAha samarthakoM ko svArthI kaha kara "ulTA cora kotavAla ko DA~Te" kI kahAvata caritArtha karate haiM taba inakI dhRSTatA kI parAkASThA ho jAtI hai| zaitAna jaba ulaTa kara Izvara se hI zaitAna kahane lagatA hai taba usa kI zaitAniyata kI sImA prAjAtI hai| vidhavAvivAha ke vigaMdhI zaitAniyata ko aisI hI sImA para pahuMce haiN| samAja ke bhItara chipI huI hama zaitAniyata ko dUra karane ke liye maiMna vidhavAvivAha ke samarthana meM bairiSTara caMpatarAyajI ke praznoM ke uttara diye the| usake khaMDana kA prayAsa jainag2az2aTa dvArA do mahAzayoM ne kiyA hai-eka to paM0 zrIlAla jI alIgar3ha, dUsare paM0vidyAnandajI rAmapura / una donoM lekhoM ko anAvazyaka rUpase bar3hAyA gayA hai / lekha meM vyaktitva ke Upara bar3I sabhyatA ke sAtha AkramaNa kiyA gayA hai| prasabhyatA se peza Ane meM koI bahAdurI nahIM hai / isalie asabhya zabdoM kA uttara meM isa lekha meM na duuNgaa| ___ una donoM lekhakoM se jahAM kucha bhI khaMDana nahIM bana par3A hai vahA~ unhoMne "chichi.", "dhika dhika", "yaha to ghRNita hai",

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prAdi zabdoM kI bharamAra kI hai| aise zabdoM kA bhI uttara na diyA jAyagA / vidyAnanda jI ne mere lekha ke uddharaNa adhare adhUre liye haiM aura kahIM kahIM atyAvazyaka uddharaNa chor3a diyA hai| isa viSaya meM to maiM paM0 zrIlAla jI ko dhanyavAda dagA jinhoMne mere pUre uddharaNa lene meM udAratA dikhalAI / uddharaNa zradhaga hone para bhI aisA avazya honA cAhiye jisame pAThaka ulaTA na smbhle| donoM lekha lambe lambe haiN| unameM bahuta mI aimI bAne bhI haiM jinakA vidhavAvivAha ke prazna se sambandha nahIM hai, parantu donoM mahAzayoM ke sattAdhArtha meM una bAtA para bhI vicAra karUMgA / imase pAThakoM ko bhI itanA lAbha z2arUra hogA ki ve jainadharma kI anyAnya bAtoM se bhI paricita ho jAvege / mega vizvAsa hai ki vaha paricaya anAvazyaka na hogaa| campatagayajI ke 31 praznoM ke uttara meM jo kucha maiMne likhA thA usake khagaDana meM donoM mahAzayoMne jo kucha likhA hai, umakA sAra meMne nikAla liyA hai| nIce unake eka eka prAkSe kA alaga alaga samAdhAna kiyA jAtA hai| pahinte zrIlAlajI ke prAkSepo kA, phira vidyAnandajI ke zrAkSeNa kA samAdhAna kiyA gayA hai ! meM virodhiyoM se nivedana karatA hU~ yA caileja detA hU~ ki unase jitanA bhI zrAkSepa karate bane, khuzIse kreN| maiM uttara dene ko taiyAra huuN| pahalA prazna AkSepa (a)- samyaktva kI ghAtaka sAta prakRtiyoM meM cAra anantAnubandhI kapAyeM bhI zAmila haiN| vidhavAvivAha ke liye jitanI tIna kaSAya kI z2arUrata hai vaha anannAnubandhI ke udaya ke binA nahIM ho sktii| jaise parastrIsevana anantAnubaMdhI

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ke udaya ke binA nahIM ho sktaa| isaliye jaba vidhavAvivAha meM anantAnubandhI kA udaya A gayA to samyaktva naSTa hogyaa| samAdhAna (a)-jaya strI ke mara jAne para, puruSa dUsarA vivAha karatA hai to tIna gagI nahIM kahalAtA, taba puruSa ke mara jAne para strI agara dasaga vivAha kare to usake nIva rAga kAmAndhatA kyoM mAnI jAyagI ? yadi koI purupa eka strI ke rahate hue bhI 66 hajAra vivAha kare yA striyA~ rakkhe to usa kA yaha kAma binA tIvra gagake nahIM hosktaa| lekina 66 haz2Ara paniyoM ke tIvagaga se bho samyanavakA nAza nahIM hotA, balki vaha brahmacayAvatI bhI raha sakatA hai| jaba itanA tIva rAga bhI samyaktva kA nAza nahIM kara sakatA nava pati mara jAne para eka puruSa se zAdI karane vAlI vidhavA kA samyaktva yA aNu. vrata kaisa naSTa hogA? aura aNuvrata dhAraNa karane vAlI vidhavA esI patita kyoM mAnI jAyagI ki jimmama use grahaNa karane vAle kA bhI samyaktva naSTa ho jAve ? vidhavAvivAha se vyabhi. cAra utanA hI dara hai, jitanA ki kumArI vivAha se / jaise vivAha hone ke pahile kumAra aura kumAriyoM kA saMbhoga bhI vyabhicAra hai, kintu vivAha hone ke bAda una dono kA saMbhoga vyabhicAra nahIM kahalAtA, usI taraha vivAha hone ke pahile agara vidhavA sambhoga kare to vyabhicAra hai, parantu vivAha ke bAda hone vAlA sambhoga vyabhicAra nahIM hai| gRhasthoM ke liye vyabhicAra kI paribhASA yahI hai ki-"jisake sAtha vivAha na huA ho usake sAtha sambhoga karanA" / yadi vivAha ho jAne para bhI vyabhicAra mAnA jAyagA to vivAha kI prathA bilakula nikammI ho jAyagI aura Ajanma brahmacAriyoM kA chor3a kara sabhI vyabhicArI sAbita hoge /

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tIvratA mandatA kI dRSTi se sakaSAya pravRtti chaH bhAgoM meM bA~TI gaI hai, jinheM kRSNa, nIla, kApota, pIta, padma, zukra zabdoM se kahate haiN| inameM sabase jyAdA tIvra kRSNa laMzyA hai / lekina kRSNa lezyA ke ho jAne para bhI samyaktva kA nAza nahIM hotaa| isIliye gommaTasAra meM likhA hai ___ "ayadonti cha lessAo" arthAt avirata samyagdRSTi jIva taka chahoM lezyAe~ hotI haiN| agara vidhavAvivAha meM kRSNa lezyArUpa pariNAma bhI hote to bhI samyaktva kA nAza nahIM ho sakatA thaa| phira to vidhavAvivAha meM zubha lezyA rahatI hai, taba samyaktatva kA nAza kaise hogA ? AkSepaka ne parastrIsevana anantAnubandhI ke udaya se batalAyA hai / yaha bAta bhI anucita hai / maiM parastrIsevana kA samarthana nahIM karatA, kintu zrAkSa paka kI zAstrIya nAsa majhI ko dUra kara denA ucita hai / parastrI sevana apratyAkhyAnAvaraNa kapAyake udayase hotA hai| kyoMki apratyAkhyAnAvaraNa kaSAya dezavata-aNuvrata kI ghAtaka hai aura aNuvrata ke ghAta hone para hI parastrI savana hotA hai| prAkSepaka ko yaha jAnanA cAhiye ki aNuvratI, pAMca pApoM kA tyAgI hotA hai na ki avirata smygdRsstti| khaira ! mujhe vyabhicAra kI puSTi nahIM karanA hai / vyabhicAra aura vidhavAvivAha meM bar3A antara hai| vyabhicAra apratyAkhyAnAvaraNa aura vidhavA vivAha pratyAkhyAnAvaraNa kaSAya ke udaya se hotA hai| aisI hAlata meM vidhavA * mere pahile lekha meM isa jagaha apratyAkhyAnAvaraNa chapa gayA hai| pAThaka sudhArakara pratyAkhyAnAvaraNa kara leN| -lekhaka

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(7 ) vivAhako anantAnubandhIke udayase mAnanA aura usase samya. ktva nAza kI bAta kahanA bilakula mithyA hai| AkSepa (zrA)-parastrI sevana sapta vyasanoM meM hai| sabhyaktvI sapta vyasana sevI nahIM hotaa| vidhavAvivAha parastrI. sevana hai / isaliye trikAlameM samyaktvoke nahIM ho sakatA / samAdhAna-parastrI-sevana vyasanoM meM zAmila z2ahara hai, parantu parastrI sevI hone se hI koI parastrI vyasanI nahIM ho jaataa| parastrI-sevana vyasana kA tyAga pahilI pratimAma mAnA jAtA hai, parantu parastrI sevana pahilI pratimA bhI ho sakatA hai, kyoMki parastrIsevana kA tyAga dUsarI pratimA meM mAnA gayA hai| yahAM prApaka ko vyasana aura pApa kA antara samajhanA caahiye| avirata mabhyagdRSTi ko pahilo pratimA kA dhAraNa karanA anivArya nahIM hai| isa liye saptavyasana kA tyAga bhI anivArya na kahalAyA / hA~, abhyAsa ke rUpa meM vaha bahuta sI bAtoM kA tyAga kara sakatA hai, parantu isa se vaha tyAgI yA vatI nahIM kahalA sakatA / saura, mamyaktvI parastrI-sevA rahe yA parastrI-tyAgI: parantu samyakSa kA vidhavA vivAhase koI virodha nahIM homakatA, kyoMki vidhavA-vivAha parastrI sevana nahIM hai / yaha bAta meM "a" nambara ke samAdhAna meM siddha kara cukA huuN| AkSepa (i)-yaha niyama karanA ki sAtaveM naraka meM mamyaktva naSTa nahIM hotA, lekhaka kI pracatA hai| kyA vahA~ sAyika samyaktva ho jAtA hai ? narakoM meM nArakI apane kiye hue pApoM kA phala bhogate haiN| yadi vahAM bhI ve vidhavAvivAha se adhika pApa karane vAle Thahara jAya~ to usa kie hue pApa kA phasta kahA~ bhoge?

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samAdhAna-sAtave naraka meM samyaktva naSTa na hone kI bAta meM niyama karane kI bAta AkSepakane apane manale ghuseDa dI hai| sAtave naraka ke nArakI ke na to samyaktva hone kA niyama hai na sadA sthira rahanekA / vAta itanI hI hai ki sAtaveM naraka kA nArakI auparzAmaka aura tAyopazamika samyaktva paidAkara sakatA hai aura vaha samyaktva (kSA pazAmaka) kucha kama tetIsa sAgara taka raha sakatA hai / tAtparya yaha ki vahA~ kI paramakRSNa lezyA aura rodrapariNAmoM se itane samaya taka usake samyaktva kA nAza nahIM hotaa| usake samya. tvakA kabhI nAza hI nahIM hotA-yaha maiMne nahIM khaa| sAtaveM naraka ke nArakI eka dUsare ko pAnI meM pela dete hai, bhAr3a meM bhuMja dete haiM, Are se cIra DAlate haiM, garama kar3AhI meM pakA DAlate haiM ! kyA aise kara kAmoM se bhI vidhavAvivAha kA kAma darA hai ? kyA unake ina kAmoM se pApa bandha nahIM hotA ? sAtave naraka ke nArakI yadi pApI na hote to ve tiryazcagatimeM hI kyoM jAte ? aura unakA vaha pApa itanA z2abardasta kyoM hotA ki unheM eka bAra phira kisI na kimI naraka meM pAne ke liye bAdhya karatA? tatvArthasArake isa zloka para vicAra kIjiye na labhante manuSyatvaM saptamyA nirgatAH kSiteH / tiryaktve ca samutpadya narakaM yAnti te punaH // 147 // arthAt-sAtaveM naraka se nikalA huA jIva manuSya nahIM ho sakatA / tiryazca gati meM paidA hokara use phira naraka meM hI jAnA par3atA hai| kyA vidhavAvivAha karane vAloM ke liye bhI zAstra meM aisA kahIM vidhAna hai ? zrAkSepaka kI yaha bAta par3ha kara ha~sI zrAtI hai ki sAtaveM naraka ke nArakI yadi z2yAdA pApa kareMge to phala kahA~ bhogeMge ? tanvArthasAra ke upayukta zloka meM bana

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lAyA huzrA vidhAna kyA phala bhogane ke lie kama hai ? hAM to sAtaveM naraka ke nArakI jIvana bhara mAra kATa karate haiM aura unakA pApa yahA~ taka bar3ha jAtA hai ki niyama se unheM tiryazca gati meM hI jAnA par3atA hai aura phira niyama se unheM naraka meM hI loTanA paDatA hai / aina pApiyoM meM bhI samyaktva kucha kama tetIsa sAgara arthAta paryApta hone ke bAda se maraNa ke kucha samaya pahile naka sadA raha sakatA hai / vaha "samyaktva vidhavAvivAha karane vAle ke nahI raha sakanA"! balihArI hai isa samajhadArI kii| AkSepa (I)-nArakiyoMke sapta vyasana kI sAmagrI nahIM hai jisase ki unake samyakta na ho aura hokara bhI chUTa jaave| ataH yaha mAtave naraka kA dRSTAMta vidhavAvivAha ke viSaya meM kucha bhI malya nahIM rakhatA / mamAdhAna-zrAkSepaka ke kahanase yaha tAtparya nikalatA hai ki agara narakoM meM sapta vyasana kI sAmagrI hotI to samya. katva na hotA aura chaTa jAtA (naSTa hojaataa)| vahAM sapta vyasana kI sAmagrI nahIM hai| isalie samyaktva hotA hai aura hokara ke nahIM chUTatA hai ( naSTa nahIM hotA hai ) / naraka meM samyaktva ke naSTa na hone kI bAta jaba hamane kahI thI, taba zrApa bigar3e the| yahA~ vahI vAna Apane svIkAra kara lI hai / kaisI adbhata sata. rkatA hai ! sAtave naraka ke dRSTAMta se yaha bAta acchI taraha siddha ho jAtI hai ki jaba parama kRSNa lezyA vAlA ka ra karmA, ghora pApI nArakI samyaktvI raha sakatA hai to vidhavA-vivAha vAlA- jo ki zraraNuvratI bhI ho sakatA hai--samyaktvI kyoM nahIM raha sakatA? AkSepa ( 3 )-pA~coM pApoM meM eka hai saMkalpI hiMsA,

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' 10 ) sA saMkalpI hiMsA karane vAlA zrAkheTa vAloM kI taraha sapta vyasanI hai| usake kabhI samyaktva nahIM hosakatA / bhattA jahA~ prazama saMvega ho gaye hoM vahA~ saMkalpI hiMsA honA trikAla meM bhI sambhava nahIM hai / samAdhAna- -yahA~ para AkSepaka vyasana aura pApakaM bheda ko bhUla gayA hai / pratyeka vyasana pApa hai, parantu pratyeka pApa vyasana nahIM hai / isaliye pApake sadbhAva se vyasana sadbhAva kI kalpanA karanA AcAra zAstra se anabhijJatA pragaTa karanA he / zrakSepaka agara apanI pArTI ke vidvAnoM se bhI isa vyApya vyApaka sambandhakA samajhane kI ceza karegA to samajha sakegA / zrakSepaka ke matAnusAra saptabhyasana kA tyAga darzana pratimA ke pahile hai, jaba ki saMkalpI hiMsA kA tyAga dUsarI pratimA meM haiM / isase siddha huA ki darzana pratimA ke pahale aura sAticAra hone se darzana pratimA meM bhI saptavyasana ke na hone para bhI saMkalpI hiMsA hai| kyA zrakSepaka itanI moTI bAta bhI nahIM samajhatA ? 'prazama saMvega hojAne se saMkalpI hiMsA nahIM hotI' yaha bhI zrakSepaka kI samajha kI bhUla hai / prazama saMvegAdi to caturtha guNasthAna meM ho jAte haiM, jabaki maMkalpI sahiMsA kA tyAga pA~cave guNasthAna meM hotA hai| isase siddha huA ki caturtha guNasthAna meM - jahA~ ki jIva samyaktvI hotA hai- prazama saMvegAdi hone para bhI saGkalpI trasa hiMsA hotI hai| qhaira, prakSepaka yahA~ para bahuta bhUlA hai / use gommaTasAra Adi granthoM se zraviratasamyagdRSTi aura dezavirata ke antara ko samajha lenA cAhiye / AkSepa (U) - jaba puruSa ke strI veda kA udaya hotA hai, taba vivAhAdi kI sUjhatI hai| bhalA zrapratyAkhyAnAvaraNa kaSAya vedanIya se kyA sambandha hai ?

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samAdhAna-strIveda ke udaya se vivAhAdi kI sUjhatI hai-AkSepaka kI yaha bAta pAThaka dhyAna meM rakkheM kyoMki Age isI vAkya ke virodha meM svayaM AkSepaka ne bakavAda kiyA hai| aura, strIveda ke udaya se vivAha kI nahIM, sambhoga kI icchA hotI hai| sambhoga kI icchA hone para agara apratyAkhyAnA. dharaNa kA udayAbhAvI kSaya hotA hai to vaha aNuvrata dhAraNa kara kisI kumArI se yA vidhavA se vivAha kara letA hai| agara apratyAkhyAnAdharaNa kA udayAbhAvI kSaya na hokara udaya hI hotA hai to vaha vyabhicArI hone kI bhI parvAha nahIM karatA / bheda kA udaya to vivAha aura vyabhicAra donoM ke liye samAna kAraNa hai, paranta apratyAkhyAnAvaraNa kA udayakSaya, athavA pratyAkhyAnAvaraNa kA udaya, vyabhicAra se dUra rakha kara use vivAha ke bandhana meM rakhatA hai| isaliye vivAha ke liye apratyA. khyAnAvaraNake udayAbhAvI kSaya kA nAma vizeSa rUpa meM liyA jAtA hai| becAga AkSepaka itanA bhI nahIM samajhatA ki kisa karma prakRtikA kArya kyA hai ? phira bhI sAmanA karanA cAhatA hai ! Azcarya ! AkSepa (R)-gajavAtikake vivAha lakSaNa meM jaise kanyA kA nAma nahIM he vese hI strI puruSakA nAma nahIM hai / phira strI puruSa kA vivAha kyoM likhA ? strI strI kA kyoM na likhA ? samAdhAna-rAjavArtika ke vivAha lakSaNameM cAritramoha ke udaya kA ullekha hai ! cAritra mAha meM strIcaMda puruSavaMda bhI hai / strIveda ke udaya se strI, strI ko nahIM cAhatI-puruSa kI cAhatI hai| aura purupaveda ke udaya se puruSa, puruSa konahIM cAhatA-strI ko cAhatA hai / isaliya vivAha ke liye strI aura puruSa kA honA anivArya hai| yogyatA kI duhAI dekara yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatAki strIveda ke udaya se kumAra ke ho sAtha ramaNa

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(12 / karane kI icchA hotI hai aura vaha kumArI ko ho hotI hai / isI taraha puruSavada ke udaya se yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA ki puruSa ko kumArI ke mAtha hI gmaraNa karane kI icchA hotI haividhavA ke sAtha nahIM hotii| matalaba yaha ki strIpuruSa vaMdA. daya ke kArya meM strI puruSa kA honA Avazyaka hai, kumAra kumArI kA honA Avazyaka nahIM hai / isIliye gajabArtika ke lakSaNa ke artha meM strIpuruSa kA nAma liyA-kumAra kumArI kA nAma nahIM liyaa| Apa ( la )--ntrI veda ke udaya sa to mtrI mAtra meM bhAMga karane kI nirgala pravRtti hotI hai| vaha vivAha nahIM haivyabhicAra hai| jahA~ maryAdA rUpa kanyA puruSa meM svIkAratA hai vahI vivAha hai| kAmasevana ke liye donoM baddha hote hai / meM kanyA tuma hI purupa me maithuna kA gI aura maiM puruSa tuma hI kanyA me maithuna karUMgA' yaha svIkAratA kisa kI hai ? jabataka ki kumAra zrayasthAmeM donoM brahmacArI haiN| yahA~ samaya kI avadhi nahIM hai, ataH yaha kanyA puruSa kI svIkAratA yAvajjIva hai / samAdhAna-sirpha roveda ke udaya ko koI vivAha nahIM khtaa| usase to kAma lAlasA hotI hai| usa kAma lAlasA ko maryAdita karane ke liye vivAha hai / isaliye strIveda ke udaya ke vinA vivAha nahIM kahalA sakanA aura strovedake udaya hone para bhI kAma lAlasA kA maryAdita na kiyA jAya to bhI vivAha nahIM kahalA sakatA / kAma lAlasA kA maryAdita karane kA matalaba yaha hai ki saMsArako samasta striyoMmeM kAma lAlasA haTAkara kisI eka strImeM niyata karanA / vaha strI cAhe kumArI ho yA vidhavA. agara kAma lAlasA vahIM baddha ho gaI hai no maryAdA kI rakSA ho gaI / saikar3oM kanyAoM ke sAtha vivAha karate rahane para bhI kAma lAlasA maryAdita kahalAtI rahe aura

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samasta striyoM kA tyAga kara ke eka vidhavA meM kAma lAlasA ko baddha karane se bhI kAma lAlasA maryAdita na mAnI jAve, imma nAsamajho kA kucha ThikAnA bhI hai ? zrAkSepaka ke kathanAnusAra jaise kanyA 'tuma hI puruSa' se maithuna karane kI pratijJA karatI hai, usI taraha puruSa bhI nA "tumahI kanyA" se maithana karane kI pratijJA karatA hai| puruSa nA vidhura ho jAne para yA sapatnIka hone para bhI aneka striyoM ke sAtha vivAha karatA rahe-phira bhI usako 'tama hI kanyA kI pratijJA banI rahe aura strI. pati ke mara jAne ke bAda bhI kisI eka purupa se vivAha ko no inane meM hI 'tama hI purUpa' vAlI pratijJA naSTa ho jAve ! bAhare 'mahI'! yaha 'tuma hI' kA 'hI' to bar3A vicitra hai jo eka tarapha to saikar3oM bAra mAre jAne para bhI banA rahatA hai aura damage narapha z2arA mA dhakkA lagate ho mamApta ho jAtA hai ! kyA zrAkSe. paka isa bAta para vicAra karegA ki jaba usake zabdoM ke anu. sAra hI strI aura puruSa donoM kI pratijJA yAvajjIva thI tA punarvivAha se strI, pratijJAcyuta kyoM kahI jAtI hai aura puruSa kyoM nahIM kahA jAtA hai ? yahA~ prAkSepaka ko apane 'yAvajjIva' aura 'hI kA bilakula vyAla hI nahIM rhaa| isIliye apanI dhuna meM masta hokara vaha ika taraphA DigarI detA huA kahatA hai AkSepa ( e ---java yAvajjIva kI pratijJA kanyA karatI hai to phira pani ke mara jAne para vaha vidhavA huI to yadi puruSA. ntara grahaNa karatI hai to akaladeva praNIta takSaraNa se usakA vivAha nahIM kahA jA sakatA / vaha vyabhicAra hai| samAdhAna-ThIka isI taraha yA kSepaka ke zabdAnusAra kahA jA sakatA hai ki jaba yAvajjIva kI pratijJA puruSa karatA haiM to phira patnI ke mara jAne para vaha vidhura huA / so yadi

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vaha dUsarI kanyA grahaNa karatA hai to akalaGka deva praNIta lakSaNa se usakA vivAha nahIM kahA jA sakatA / vaha vyabhicAra hai| yadi itane para bhI puruSa kA punarvivAha vivAha hai, vya. bhicAra nahIM hai, to strIkA punarvivAha bhI vivAha hai, vyabhicAra nahIM haiN| prAkSepaka ke zabda hI pUrvAparaviruddha hone se usake vaktavya kA khaMDana karate haiM / ve kAne kI dRSTi ke samAna ika tarafA to hai hii| AkSepa (ai)--gajavAtika ke bhASya meM vivAha ke lie kanyA zabda kA prayoga kiyA gayA hai| yaha bAta lekhaka svayaM mAnate haiN| samAdhAna-kanyA zabda kA artha 'vivAha yogya strI haivivAha ke prakaraNameM dUsarA artha ho ho nahIM sktaa| yaha bAta hama pahile lakhameM siddhakara cuke haiM, yahA~ bhI Age siddha kreNge| parantu "tupyatu durjanaH" isa nyAya kA avalambana karake hamane kahA thA ki kanyA zabda, kanyA ke anya vizeSaNoM kI bhA~ti zrAdarza yA bahulatA ko lekara grahaNa kiyA gayA hai / isIlie vArtika meM jo vivAha kA lakSaNa kiyA hai umma meM kanyA zabda nahIM hai| TIkA meM kanyA-vivAha kA dRSTAnta diyA gayA hai, isa se kanyA kA hI varaNa vivAha kahalAyegA, yaha bAta nahIM hai / akalaGka deva ne anyatra mI imI zailI se kAma liyA hai| ve vArtika meM lakSaNa karate hai aura usakI TIkA meM bahulatA ko lekara kisI prAntako isa taraha milA dete haiM jaise vaha lakSaNa hI ho| prakalaGka deva kI isa zailI kA eka udAharaNa aura dekhiye saMvRttasya prakAzanam ghobhyAkhyAnaM ( vArtika ) strI puMsAbhyAM ekAnte'nuSThitasya kriyAvizeSasya prakAzanaM yat raho.

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( 15 ) bhyAkhyAnaM tadveditavyaM ( bhASya ) / vArtika meM rahobhyAkhyAna kA artha kiyA gayA hai kisI kI gupta bAta pragaTa karanA' parantu bhASya meM bahulatA kI apekSA likhA gayA hai ki 'strI puruSa ne jo ekAMta meM kArya kiyA ho usakA prakAzita karanA rahobhyAkhyAna hai / bhASya ke anumAra 'strI puruSa' kA ullekha zrAcArya prabhAcandrane ratnakararADakI TIkAmeM,grAzAdharajIne apane sAgAradharmAmRta meM bhI kiyA hai / prAcArya pUjyapAda bhI isI taraha likha cuke haiN| isa vivecanase prAkSa paka sarIkhe loga to yahI artha nikAleMge ki 'strI-purupa' kI gupta vAta pragaTa karanA rahAbhyAkhyAna hai| anya logo kI gupta bAta pragaTa karanA rahAbhyAkhyAna nahIM hai| parantu vidyAnandi svAmI ne zloka vArtika meM jo kucha likhA he usame bAta dUsarI hI ho jAtI hai| ___ "saMvRtamya prakAzanaM ghAbhyAkhyAnaM, strI puruSAnuSThita gupta kriyA vizeSa prakAzanavat' arthAt gupta kriyA kA prakAzana, rahobhyAkhyAna hai / jaise ki strI-puruSa kI gupta bAna kA prakAzana / yahA~ strI puruSa kA nAma udAharaNa rUpameM liyA gayA hai| isasa dUsaro kI gupta bAta kA prakAzana karanA bhI rahAbhyAkhyAna kahalAyA / yahI bAta rAya candra granthamAlA se prakAzita nanvArtha bhASya meM bhI milatI hai-"strI puMmayoH parampareNAnyamyavA" mere kahane kA sAra yaha hai ki jaise rahobhyAkhyAna kI paribhASA meM bahulatA ke kAraNa dRSTAMta rUpa meM strI puruSa' kA unlena kara diyA hai usI taraha vivAha kI paribhASA meM mUlameM kanyA-zabda na hone para bhI, bahulatA ke kAraNa udAharaNa rUpa meM kanyA-zabdakA ullegna huA hai / jisakA anukaraNa rahobhyA. khyAna kI paribhASA ke 'strI purupa' zabda kI taraha dUsaroM ne bhI kiyA hai / parantu vidyAnandi svAmI ke zabdoMse yaha bAta sAfa

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z2Ahira honI hai ki rahobhyAkhyAna kA 'rahaH' strI puruSa meM hI kaida nahIM haiM aura na vivAha kA 'varaNa' kanyA meM hI keda he / isIliye zloka vArtika meM vivAha kI paribhASA meM 'kanyA'zabda kA ullaMkha hI nahIM hai| isa nArAsI bAta ko samajhAne ke liye hameM itanI paMktiyA~ likhanI par3I hai| para kareM kyA ? ye zrAkSa paka loga itanA bhI nahIM samajhate ki kisa grantha kI lekhana zailI kisa DhaGga kI hai| ye loga 'dharma-viruddha, dharma-viruddha' cillAne meM jitanA samaya barabAda karate haiM utanA agara zAstroM ke manana karane meM lagAve to yogyatA prApta hone ke sAtha satya kI prApti bhI ho / parantu inheM satya kI paravAha ho taba to ! Azepa-(zrI) jo dene ke adhikArI haiM ve saba upalakSaNase pitR sadRza hai / unake samAna kanyAke sthAna meM vidhavA jor3anA sarvathA asaMgata haiN| kyoki vidhavA ke dAna karane kA adhikAra kisI ko nahIM hai| agara purupa kisI ke nAma vasIyata kara jAya to yaha kalpanA sthAna pA sakatI haiM / pitA ne kanyA jAmAtA ko dI, agara jAmAtA phira kisI dUsare puruSako denA cAhe to nahIM desakatA hai: phira dumaga kauna de sakatA hai ? samAdhAna-jisa prakAra dene ke adhikArI upalakSaNa se pitR sadRza hai usI prakAra vivAha yogya sabhI striyA~ kumArI sadRza haiM: isa meM na koI viSamatA hai na asnggttaa| prAkSa paka kA hRdaya itanA patita hai ki vaha striyoM ko gAya, bhaisa zrAdi kI taraha sampatti yA dena lene kI cIz2a samajhatA hai| isIlie vaha likhatA hai "kanyA pitA kI hai, pitA na ho to jo kuTumbI ho vehI usake svAmI haiM" lekina jaina zAstroM ke anusAra pitA vagairaha usake saMrakSaka hai--svAmI nhiiN| strI koI sampatti nahIM

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( 17 / hai yahA~ taka ki vaha pati kI bhI sampatti nahIM hai / sampatti, icchAnusAra svAmI ko nahIM chor3a sakatI, jabaki strI apane 'pati' ko chor3a sakatI hai| yahI kAraNa hai ki agniparIkSA ke bAda sItAjI ne rAma ko chor3akara dIkSA lelI / rAmacandra prArthanA karate hI rhgye| kyA sampatti isa taraha mAlika kI upekSA kara sakatI hai ? striyoM ko sampatti kahakara apanI mAM bahinoM kA ghora apamAna karane vAle bhI jainI kahalAte haiM, yaha Azcarya kI bAta hai| ___ yadi striyA~ sampatti hai to svAmI ke marane para una kA dusaga svAmI honA hI cAhiye, kyoMki sampatti lAvArisa nahIM rahatI hai| striyoM ko sampatti mAna lene para to vidhavA. vivAha kI AvazyakatA aura bhI jyAdA ho jAtI hai / hama pUchate haiM ki pati ke mara jAne para vidhavA, lAvArisa sampatti banatI hai yA usakA koI svAmI bhI hotA hai / yadi AkSepaka use lAvArisa sampatti mAnatA hai taba to gavarnamenTa una vidhavAoMko hathiyA legI, kyoMki 'asvAmikasya dravyasya dAyAdo medinI patiH' arthAt lAvArisa sampatti kA uttarAdhikArI rAjA hotA hai| kyA AkSepaka kI yaha manzA hai ki jainasamAja kI vidhavAe~ agrejoMko dedo jAya~ ? yadi ve kisIkI saMpatti haiM to AkSepaka banalAve ki ve kisakI sampatti haiM ? jaise vApa kI anya sampatti kA svAmI usakA beTA hotA hai, kyA usI prakAra vaha apanI mAM kA bhI svAmI bane ? kucha bhI ho, striyoM ko sampatti mAnane para unakA koI na koI svAmI avazya siddha hotA hai aura usI ko adhikAra hai ki vaha usa vidhavA ko kisI yogya puruSa ke liye dede / isa taraha striyoMko sampatti mAnane kA siddhAMta jaMgalI. pana se bharA hone ke sAtha vidhavAvivAha-virodhiyoM ke liye

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( 18 ) zrAmaghAtaka hai| eka tarapha no AkSepaka kahatA hai ki pitAko dI kanyA jAmAtA kI sampatti hai, dUsarI tarapha kahatA hai ki jAmAtA bhI kisI ko denA cAhe to nahIM de sktaa| jaba ki mampatti hai taba kyoM nahIM de sakatA ? kyA isase yaha nahIM siddha hotA ki strI kisI kI sampatti nahIM hai ? striyoM ko sampatti mAnane vAle kanyA vikraya ke sAtha bhAryA vikraya, mAtR-vikraya kI kuprathAoM kA bhI mUtrapAta karate haiM / khaira, striyA~ kisI kI sampatti ho cAhe na ho, donoM hI avasthAoM meM vidhavAoM ko vivAha kA adhikAra rahatA hai / isa taraha vivAha yogya sarbha striyA~ upalakSaNase kumArI sadRza haiM; jaise kanyA ke sabhI saMrakSaka upalakSaNa se pitRsadRza / / prAkSepa (zrI)-kanyA nAma strI sAmAnya kA bhI hai, hama bhI ise svIkAra karate haiM / vizvalocana koSa hI kyA, hema aura medinI koSa bhI aisA likhate hai, parantu jahA~ jaisA sambandha hogA, zabda kA artha bhI vahA~ vaisA mAnanA hogaa| samAdhAna-jaba zrAkSepaka kanyA kA artha mtrI-sAmAnya mvIkAra karatA hai aura vivAha ke prakaraNa meM meM kanyA zabda kA artha 'vivAha yogya strI' karatA hU~ to isameM sambandha-viruddhatA yA prakaraNaviruddhatA kaise ho gaI ? vivAha ke prakaraNa meM vivAha yogya strI ko prakaraNa-viruddha kahanA buddhi kA adbhuta paricaya denA hai| bhojana karate samaya saindhava zabdakA artha ghor3A karanA prakaraNa-viruddha hai, kyoMki ghor3A khAne kI cIz2a nahIM hai, parantu vivAhayogya strI to vivAha kI cIja hai| vaha vivAha ke praka raNa meM prakaraNa-viruddha kaise ho sakatI hai ? AkSepaka kahegA ki vivAha to kumArI kA hI hotA hai. isaliye kanyA kA kumArI artha hI prakaraNa-sar3hata hai| parantu yaha to zrAkSepaka ko mana gaDhaMta vAta hai: jainadharma ke anusAra to kumArI aura vidhavA

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( 16 ) donoM kA vivAha ho sakatA hai / isaliye sudhArakoM ke liye "vivAha yogya strI artha" hI prakaraNa-saGgata hai / zrakSepaka ke samAna sudhAraka loga to jainadharma ko tilAJjali de nahIM sakate / AkSepa ( ) - sAhasagati ke mu~ha se sutArA ko kanyA kahalAkara kavi ne sAhitya kI chaTA dikhalAI hai| usakI dRSTi meM vaha kanyA samAna hI thI / sAhasagati ke bhAvoM meM sutArA kI kAmavAsanA sUcita karane ke liye kavi ne nArI bhAryA zrAdi na likhakara kanyA zabda likhA / yadi aisA bhAva na hotA to kanyA na likhakara grADA likha detA / samAdhAna -- kavine grADA isaliye na likhA ki sutArA taba rA~Da nahIM huI thI / sAhasagati sugrIvase lar3akara yA use mAra kara sutArA nahIM chInanA cAhatA thA- vaha dhokhA dekara chInanA cAhatA thA / isIliye usane rUpa-parivartinI vidyA siddha kI / zrAvazyakatA hone para lar3anA par3A yaha bAta dUsarI hai| qhaira ! jaba taka sugrIva marA nahIM taba taka sutArA ko raoNDa kaise kahA jA sakatA thA / dadhyaucetasi kAmAgnidagdhoM niHsAra mAnasaH / kenopAyetAM kanyAMlapsye nirRtidAyinI // 10 // 14 // yaha zloka hamane yaha siddha karane ke liye uddhata kiyA thA ki kanyAzabda kA 'strI sAmAnya' artha bhI hai aura isake udAharaNa sAhitya meM milate haiM / zrakSepaka ne hamAre donoM zrarthI ko svIkAra kara liyA hai; taba samajhameM nahIM zrAtA ki vaha usa artha ke samarthana ko kyoM asvIkAra karatA hai / yaha zloka vidhavAvivAha ke samarthana ke liye nahIM diyA hai / sirfa kanyAzabda ke artha kA khulAsA karane ke liye diyA hai, jo artha AkSepaka ko mAnya hai / nArI, bhAryA na likhakara kanyA likhane se kAmavAsanA

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kaise mRcina haI ? agA kanyA zabda kA artha kumArI rakkhA jAve taba to bhAryAharaNa kI apekSA kanyAharaNa meM kAmavAsanA kama hI mAlUma hotI hai| asalI bAta to yaha hai ki sAhasagati vidyAdhara do putroM kI mAnA ho jAne para bhI mutAga ko praur3hA nahIM mAnatA thA / usako dRdhimeM umma samaya bhI vaha parama sundarI thii| usa meM vivAha yogya strI ke saba guNa maujuda the / isIliye usane sunArA ko kanyA khaa| sunAga meM isa samaya bhI vivAhayogya strI ke samAna sauMdaryAdi the, isaliye kavine use kanyA kahalA kara yaha bAta aura bhI sAfa karadI hai ki vivAhayogya strIko kanyA kahate haiM / agara kavi ko yaha artha abhimata na hotA to isa jagaha vaha 'bAlA zabda kA prayoga karatA jisama mAhasa. gati kI kAmAturatA kA citra aura adhika khila jaataa|| khaira, z2arA vyAkaraNa kI dRSTise bhI hameM kanyA zabda para vicAra karanA hai / vyAkaraNa meM pulliMga zabdoM ko strIliMga banAne ke kaI tarIke hai| kahIM DIpa, kahIM TIpa, kahIM ina ( hiMdI meM ) zrAdi pratyaya lagAye jAte haiM to kahIM zabdoMkA rUpa bilakula badala jAtA hai| jaise putra putrI zrAdi zabdoM meM pratyaya lagAye jAte haiM jayaki mAtA pitA, bhAI bahina meM zabda hI badala diyA jAtA hai| bhAI aura bahina donoM zabdoM kA eka artha hai| antara itanA hai ki bhAI zabda se puruSa jAnIya kA bodha hotA hai jabaki bahina zabda se strI jAtIya kaa| isI taraha vara aura kanyA zabda haiN| donoM kA artha eka ho hai; annara itanA hI hai ki eka se puruSa kA bodha hotA he dUsare se strI kA / apane vivAha ke samaya pratyeka puruSa vara kahA jAtA hai, cAhe usa kA pahilA vivAha ho, cAhe duusraa|aisaa nahIM hai ki pahile vivAha ke samaya 'vara' kahA jAya aura dUsare vivAha ke samaya vara na

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kahA jAya / tathA hara eka kumAra ko vara nahIM kaha sakate / isI prakAra apane vivAha ke samaya pratyeka strI 'kanyA kahI jAtI hai, cAhe yaha usakA pahilA vivAha ho cAhe isg| aisA nahIM ho sakatA ki pahile vivAha ke samaya vaha kanyA kahI jAya aura dUsare vivAha ke samaya na kahI jAya / manalaba yaha ki vivAha karane vAlo pratyeka stro kanyA hai aura vivAha na karAne vAlI kumArI bhI kanyA nahIM hai / anya prakaraNa meM kanyA zabda ke bhale hI dUsare artha ho, parantu vivAha ke prakaraNa meM arthAt varaNa karane ke prakaraNa meM kanyA zabda kA vivAha karane vAlI strI' artha hI ho sakatA hai / imI artha ko dhyAna meM rakha kara kavi ne sAhasagati ke muMha se sunAga kA kanyA kahalAyA hai| isI prayoga se kavi ne batalA diyA hai ki kavi ko vAcya vAcaka sambandha kA kaisA sUkSma paricaya hai| kavivara ne apane isa sUkSma jJAna kA paricaya anyatra bhI diyA hai ki jisa se siddha hotA hai ki kavivara, kanyA zabda kA artha 'vivAha karAne vAlI strI' yA 'grahaNa ko jAne vAlI strI' karate haiM / yahA~ para kavivara ne kanyA zabda kA prayoga kisI sAdhAraNa pAtra ke muMha se na kagake eka prava. dhijJAnI mani ke maha se karAyA hai| gajA kuNDalamaNDita ne piMgala brAhmaNa kI strI kA haraNa kara liyA thaa| janmAntara kI kathA sunAte samaya ava. dhijJAnI manigaja hama ghaTanA kA ullakha ina zabdoM meM karate haiM praharagilAt kanyAM tathA kuDala mNdditH| padatrAyaM pur| vRttaH sambandhaH parikIrtitaH // 30-133 // arthAt-kuNDalamaNDita ne piGgala brAhmaNa kI strI

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( 22 ) kA haraNa kiyaa| yaha bAta pahile hI ( padmapurANa meM ) kahI (kuNDalamaNDita ne piMgala kI strI kA hI haraNa kiyA thA, kisI kumArI kA nhiiN| yaha bAta pAThaka padma. pugaNa meM dekha sakate haiN| yahAM bhI vaha zloka diyA jAtA hai: bharatamthe vidagdhAkhye pure kugddlmnndditH| adhArmiko'harakAMtAM piMgalasyamanaH priyAM // // 30 / 66 // isa zloka meM jisa kA ullana kAntA zabda se kiyA gayA hai, usI kA 133 ve zloka meM kanyA zabda se kiyA gayA hai| ina ghaTanAoM kI anya bAtoM se hameM koI matalaba nahIM / hameM to AkSepaka ke haTha ke kAraNa ina kA ullekha karanA par3A hai| isa se hameM sirpha yahI siddha karanA hai ki kanyA zabda kA artha 'grahaNa-caraNa-karane yogya strI' he / isa lie "kanyAvaraNaM vivAhaH" aisA kaha kara jo vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha karanA cAhate haiM, ve bhUlate haiN| AkSepa- pra. ) kanyA zabda kA artha nArI bhI hai: isaliye devAGganAoM ke liye 'deva kanyA zabda kA prayoga kiyA gayA hai / yaha nahIM ho sakatA ki jo strI dUsarA pati kare, vahI kanyA kahalAve / vidhavA hokara dUsarA pati grahaNa karane vAlI bhI kanyA kahalAtI ho so sAre saMsAra meM kahIM nahIM dekhA jAtA / jina yoropa Adi dezoM meM yA jina jAtiyoM meM vidhavA-vivAha cAlU hai, una meM bhI vivAha ke pUrva lar3akiyoM ko kanyA mAnA jAtA hai aura vivAha ke bAda badhU Adi / samAdhAna-kumArI ke atirikta anya striyoM ( sadhavA,

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( 23 ) vidhavA ) ko bhI kanyA kaha sakate haiM, yaha bAta zrApa pahile mvIkAra kara cuke haiM aura yahA~ bhI svIkAra kara rahe haiM / yahI bAta hama siddha karanA cAhate haiM / 'jo dUsarA pati grahaNa kare vahI kanyA he' yaha to hamArA kahanA nahIM hai| hama to yaha kahanA cAhate haiM ki vaha bhI kanyA hai| isa artha ko Apa bhI svIkAra karate haiM / hA~ sAhasagati vidyAdhara aura kuNDala. mariData ke dRSTAnta se yaha bAta avazya mAlUma hotI hai ki jaba koI puruSa kisI strI ko grahaNa karanA cAhatA hai, tabhI prAyaH vaha kanyA kahI jAtI hai| anya avasthAnoM meM akumArI ko kanyA kahane ke udAharaNa prAyaH nahIM milte| ina udAha. raNoM se tathA vara aura kanyA zabda kI samAnArthakatA se yaha bAta sApha mAlUma hotI hai ki kanyA kA artha vivAha karane vAlI yA vivAha yogya strI hai| __ yAMgepa kA udAharaNa dekara nA pApa ne apanA hI virodha kiyA hai / zrApa ne kanyA zabda kA artha akumArI strI bhI kiyA hai, jaba ki yoropa kA udAharaNa dekara Apa yaha siddha karanA cAhate haiM ki avivAhitA ko hI kanyA kahate haiM / parantu Apa ne zabdoM kA prayoga aisA kiyA hai, jisa se hamArI vAta siddha hotI hai| zrApa kA kahanA hai ki-yAropa meM vivAha ke pahile lar3akiyoM ko kanyA mAnA jAtA hai| isa para hamArA kahanA hai ki agara koI bAlavidhavA dUsarA vivAha kare to usa vivAha ke pahile bhI vaha kanyA kahalAyagI / yaha to zrApa bilakula hamAre sarIkhI bAta kaha gaye / Apane yaha to kahA nahIM hai ki prathama vivAhake pahile kanyA kahalAnI he aura dUsare vivAha ke pahile kanyA nahIM kahalAtI ! khor| aba isa narka vitarka ke bAda sIdhI bAta para zrAiye / yoropa meM bhAratIya bhASA ke kanyA prAdi zabdoM kA prayoga nahIM hotA /

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agarejI meM kanyA ke badale fiss ( misa ) zabda kA prayoga hotA hai, parantu kanyA zabda kA artha jaba kumArI kiyA jAyagA tabhI usakA paryAya zabda Miss (misa ) hogA; jaba nArI artha kiyA jAyagA taba Miss ( misa ) zabda usakA paryAyavAcI nahIM bana sktaa| asalI bAta to yaha hai ki 'ghara' aura 'kanyA' isakA ThIka hiMdI anuvAda hogA 'dalhA' aura 'dulhn'| jisa prakAra 'dulhA' ko 'ghara' kahate haiM usI prakAra dulhina ko 'kanyA' kahate haiN| vara zabda kA aGgArejI anuvAda hai Bride. groon (brAiDagrama); isaliye kanyA zabda kA anuvAda hogA Bride (braaidd)| vivAha ke prakaraNa meM kanyA zabda kA dulhina arthAt Bride artha lagAnA hI ucita hai / jisa prakAra bhojana ke samaya saindhava zabda kA ghor3A artha karanA pAgalapana hai, usI prakAra vivAha ke prakaraNa meM kanyA zabda kA kumArI artha karanA pAgalapana hai / usa samaya to kanyA zabdakA dulhina artha hI honA cAhiye / vaha dulhina kumArI bhI ho sakatI hai aura vidhavA bhI ho sakatI hai / isaliye kanyA zabdake kAraNa vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha nahIM kiyA jA sktaa| AkSepa-(ka) sabhI deviyoM ko dUsare devoM ke sAtha nahIM rahanA par3atA / devI jise cAhe usI deva ko apanA pati nahIM banA sakatI, parantu apane niyogI ko hI pati banA sakatI hai| deviyoM ke dRSTAnta se vidhavAvivAha kI puSTi na karanA cAhiye / dRSTAnta jisa viSaya kA hai puSTi bhI vaisI kregaa| devAnA dusarI gati hai| rajasvalA nahIM hotI, garbhadhAraNa nahIM karatI, una ke palaka nahIM girate, jaba ki manuSyanI kI ye bAteM hotI haiN| samAdhAna-sabhI deviyoM ko dUsarA pati nahIM karanA par3atA, parantu jina deviyoM kA pati mara jAtA hai ve pati ke

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( 25 ) sthAna para paidA hone vAle anya deva ko pati banA letI haiM, gaha bAta to bilakula satya hai| jaisA ki AdipurANa ke nimna likhita zlokoM se mAlama honA hai| bhImaH sAdhuH pure puDagakirAyAM ghAtighAtanAt / -parva046 / zlo0 34H / ramye zivaMkarodyAne paMcamahAna pUjitaH / tasthivAstaM samAgatya catasro devayoSitaH // 46 // 346 // vaMditvAdharmamAkarArya paapaadmmtptimtH|| trilokezavadAmmAkaM patiH kAnyo bhaviSyati // 46 // 350 // puNDarIkapura ke zivaMkara nAmaka bagIce meM bhIma nAmaka sAdhu ko ghAtiyA karmoM ke nAza karane se kevala jJAna huA / una ke pAsa cAra devAGganAeM aaii| bandanA kI, dharma sunA / phira pUchA-he trilokeza ! pApakarma ke udaya se hamArA pati mara gayA hai, isaliye kahiye ki hamArA damarA pati kona hogA? __ yaha bAta dumarI hai ki bahutaso devAGganAoM ko vidhavA nahIM honA par3atA, isase dUsarA pati nahIM karanA pdd'taa| parantu jinheM karane kI z2arUrata hotI hai ve dUsare pati kA tyAga nahIM kara detI / hA~, devAGganAe~ dUsare deva ko nahIM pakar3atI, apane niyogI ko hI pakar3anI haiM; so yaha bAta karmabhUmi meM bhI hai / madhyaloka meM bhI niyogI ke sAtha hI dAmpatyasambandha hotA hai| hA~, devagati meM niyogI puruSa aura niyoginI strI kA cunAva (niyoga = niyukti) daiva hI kara detA hai jabaki karma. bhUmi meM niyogI aura niyoginI ke liye puruSArtha karanA par3atA hai| so isa prakAra kA puruSArtha vidhavAoM ke liye hI nahIM karanA par3atA, kumAriyoM ke liye bhI karanA par3atA hai| devakRta aura prayatnakRta niyoga kI bAta se hameM kucha matalaba nhiiN| dekhanA yaha hai ki devagati meM deviyA~ eka deva ke marane para

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( 26 ) dUsarA deva prApta kara lenI haiN| itanA hI nahIM, dUsare deva ko prApta karane kI lAlasA itanI bar3ha jAtI hai ki ve thor3I dera bhI zAnta na baiTha kara kevalI bhagavAna ke pAsa pUchane jAtI haiM / kevalI bhagavAna bhI dUsare pati ke viSaya meM uttara dete haiM 1 gara dUsare pati ko grahaNa karanA pApa hotA to vaM deviyA~ dharma zravaNa karane ke bAda kevalI bhagavAn se aisA prazna na karatIM / aura na kevalI bhagavAn ke pAsa se isa kA uttara milatA | jaba kevalI bhagavAn ne unheM dharma sunAyA to usameM yaha bAta kyoM na sunAI ki dusaga pati karanA pApa hai ? kyA isase yaha bAta sAfa nahIM ho jAtI ki jainadharma meM vidhavAvivAha ko vahI sthAna prApta hai jo kumArIvivAha ko prApta haiM / itane para bhI jo loga vidhavAvivAha ko dharmaviruddha samajhate haiM vaha puruSa madonmatta, mithyAdRTi nahIM to kyA haiM ? devAMganA dUsarI gati meM haiM aura unake zarIra meM gsa raktAdi nahIM haiM, to kyA huA ? jainadharma to saba jagaha hai| mithyAtva aura durAcAra zarIra ke vikAra nahIM, zrAtmA ke vikAra haiN| isa liye zarIra kI guNagAthA se zradharma, dharma nahIM bana sakatA | yahA~ dharma adharma kI mImAMsA karanA hai, hAr3a mA~sa kI nahIM / hAr3a mA~sa to sadA pavitra haiM, vaha na to punarvivAha se apavitra hotA hai aura na punarvivAha ke binA pavitra / agara yaha kahA jAya ki 'devagati meM aisA hI rivAja hai, isaliye vahA~ pApa nahIM mAnA jAtA; vidhavA deviyoM ko grahaNa karane vAle bhI kSAyika samyagdRSTi hote haiM aura dUsare deva kA grahaNa karane vAlI deviyA~, strI hone se kSAyika samyaktva to nahIM pA sakatIM, parantu bAkI donoM prakAra ke samyaktva prAptakara sakatI haiN| 'yadi rivAja hone se devagati meM yaha pApa nahIM hai to yahA~ bhI punavivAha ke rivAja ho jAne para pApa nahIM kahalA sakatA /

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( 27 ) AkSepa-( kha ) dIkSAnvaya kriyA meM jo puruSa dIkSA le rahA hai, usakA vivAha umI kI strI ke sAtha hotA hai| isase vidhavAvivAha kaise siddha hogayA? samAdhAna-jo loga kanyA zabda kA artha kumArI karate hai aura kumArI ke sivAya kisI dUsarI strI kA vivAha hI nahIM mAnate, unakI mahatoDa uttara dene ke liye hamane dIkSA. nvaya kriyA kA vaha zloka uddhRta kiyA hai / dIkSita manuSya bhale hI apanI strI ke sAtha vivAha karatA ho, parantu usa kI mtrI kanyA hai ki nahIM? yadi kanyA nahIM hai to 'kanyAvaraNaM vivAhaH' isa paribhASA ke anusAra vaha vivAha hI kaise kahA jA sakatA hai ? lekina jinasenAcArya ne use vivAha kahA hai| agara vaha strI, vivAha hone ke kAraNa kanyA mAno jAsakatI hai to vidhavA bhI kanyA mAnI jA sakatI hai| sadhavA to kanyA kahalA sake aura vidhavA kanyA na kahalA sake-yaha nahIM ho sktaa| AkSepa (ga)-kanyAe~ jisa prakAra zakhinI padminI Adi hotI haiM, usI prakAra puruSa bhii| jaba strI puruSa samAna guNavAle nahIM hotaM tatra vaimanasya, santAnAdi kA prabhAva hotA hai| isaliye sAgAradharmAmRta meM kanyA ke liye nirdoSa vizeSaNa diyA hai| tuma ina mahattvapUrNa zabdoM kA bhAva hI nahIM smjhe| samAdhAna-samAna guNavAle strI puruSa hone se lAbha hai| parantu hamArA kahanA yaha hai ki agara zaGginI Adi bhedoM kI samAnatA nahIM pAI jAya to vivAha dharmaviruddha kaha lAyagA yA nahIM ? yadi dharmaviruddha kahalAyagA taba Ajakala ke phI sadI 1. vivAha dharmaviruddha ThahareMge, kyoMki ina bhedoM kA vicAra hI nahIM kiyA jaataa| anya prakAra ke vRddhavivAhAdi anamela vivAha bhI dharmaviruSa ThahareMge / phira kevala vidhavAvivAha ke pIche

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( 28 ) itanA tUphAna macAnA kisa kAma kA ? yadi anamela Adi vivAha dharmaviruddha nahIM hai to vidhavAvivAha bhI dharmaviruddha nahIM hai / isaliye jisa prakAra 'nirdoSa' vizeSaNa sadoSA ke vivAha ko dharmaviruddha nahIM ThaharA sakatA, usI prakAra 'kanyA' vizeSaNa vidhavA ke vivAha ko dharmaviruddha nahIM ThaharA sktaa| isake liye hamane pahile lekha meM khulAsA kara diyA hai ki 'kanyA aura vidhavA meM karuNAnuyoga kI dRSTi meM kucha antara nahIM hai jisase kanyA aura vidhavA meM judI judI do zrAkSAe~ banAI jaayN'| isa anuyoga sambandhI prazna kA zrApa kucha uttara nahIM de ske| AkSepa (gha)-jaina siddhAnta meM kanyA kA vivAha hotA hai, yaha spaSTa likhA hai / vidhavA ko AryikA hone kA yA vaidhavya dIkSA dhAraNa karane kA spaSTa vidhAna hai| isaliye vidhavAvivAha kA vidhAna vyabhicAra ko puSTi hai| samAdhAna-kanyA zabda kA artha vivAha karAne vAlI strI' yA 'dulhina' hai (strI sAmAnya Apane bhI mAnA hai| ) / dulhina kumArI bhI ho sakatI hai aura vidhavA bhI ho sakatI hai, isaliye jaina siddhAnta ko prAzAse vidhavAvivAha kA kucha virodha nahIM / zAstroM meM to aneka taraha kI dIkSAoM ke vidhAna hai, paranta jo loga dokSA grahaNa nahIM karate. ve dharmabhraSTa nahIM kahalAte / jinameM virakti ke bhAva paidA hue hoM, kaSAyeM zAMta hogaI ho, ve kabhI bhI dIkSA le sakatI haiN| parantu jaba virakti nahIM he, kaSAye zAnta nahIM hai, taba z2abardamtI unase dIkSA nahIM livAI jA sakatI / 'jyoM jyoM upazamata kaSAyA, tyo tyo tina tyAga batAyA' kA siddhAnta Apako dhyAna meM rakhanA caahiye| ila viSaya ko prAyaH sabhI bAte pahile kahI jA cukI haiN| AkSepa (Ga)-prabodhasAra meM likhA hai ki 'kanyA kA

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( 26 ) dubAga vivAha nahIM hotA' / yazastilaka meM likhA hai ki 'eka. bAra jo kanyA strI banAI jAtI hai vaha vivAha dvArA phira dubArA maMtrI nahIM banAI jaatii'| zrAdipugaNa meM arkakIrti kahate haiM ki maiM usa vidhavA sulocanA kA kyA kruuNgaa'| nItivAkyAmRta meM zreSTha zudroM meM bhI kanyA kA ekabAra vivAha mAnA jAtA hai| samAdhAna-jainagaz2aTa meM zloka nahIM chapate, isa kI proTa lekara paNDita loga khUba manamAnI gappaM hA~ka liyA karate haiN| agara zloka dene lage to mArI pola khula jAya / khaira, prabodha. mAra meM to kimI bhI jagaha ke 44 nambara ke zloka meM hameM vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha nahIM milA / yazastilaka ke zloka ke artha karane meM zrAkSepaka ne jAna bUjhakara dhokhA diyA hai / z2arA vahA~ kA prakaraNa aura vaha zloka dekhiye| kisa taraha kI mUrti meM devakI sthApanA karanA cAhiye, isake uttara meM somadeva likhate haiM ki viSNu zrAdikI mUrti meM arahanta kI sthApanA na karanA cAhiye / jaise-jaba taka koI mtrI kisI kI patnI hai taba taka usa meM ( paraparigrahe ) svastrI kA saGkalA nahIM kiyA jA sktaa| kanyAjana meM svamtrI kA saGkalpa karanA caahiye| zuddhavastUni saGkalAH kanyAjana ivocitaH / nAkArAntara saMkrAnte yathA paraparigrahe / / matalaba yaha ki marti kA AkAra dUsaga ho aura sthApanA kisI anya kI kI jAya to vaha ThIka nahIM / hanumAna kI mUrti meM gaNeza kI sthApanA aura gaNeza kI mUrti meM jinendra kI sthApanA anucita hai / parantu mUrti kA AkAra badalakara agara sthApanA ke anurUpa banA diyA jAya taba vaha sthApanA ke pranikUla nahIM rhtii| anya dharmAvalabiyoM meM to pattharoM ke Dhera aura pahAr3oM taka ko devatA kI mUrti mAna lete haiM / isaliye jyA

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( 30 ) pattharoM ke Dhera meM se yA pahAr3a meM se kisI patthara kI jinendra mUrti banA lenA anucita ho jAyagA? sthApanA meM sirpha itanA hI dekhanA cAhiye ki vartamAna meM yaha patthara prAkArAntarasaMkrAnta to nahIM hai| pahile kisa AkArameM thA, isake vicAra kI koI z2arUrata nahIM hai| isI prakAra vartamAna meM jo kisI dUsare puruSa kaustrI hai use svastrI nahIM banAnA cAhiye; jaisai kitibbata meM aneka puruSa eka hI strI ko apanI apanI patnI banAte haiM yA jaise ki hiMdU zAstroM meM dropadI ke viSaya meM prasiddha hai / paranta jo strI vidhavA hogaI hai vaha to kumArI ke samAna kisI kI patnI nahI hai / vaha AkArAntarasaMkAnta arthAt kisI kI patnI thI z2arUra, parantu aba nahIM hai| isaliye usameM svapatnItvakA saGkalpa anu. cita nahIM hai / AkSepaka ne prakaraNa ko chipAkara, kanyA zabdakA artha bhulAkara, z2abaradastI bhUtakAla ke rUpako vartamAna kA rUpa dekara yA to khuda dhokhA khAyA hai yA dRsage ko dhokhA diyA hai| prAcArya somadevakaM vAkyoM se vidhavAvivAha kA virodha karanA duHsAhasa hai / jo prAcArya aNuvatI ko vezyAsevana taka ko khulAsI dete haiM ve vidhavAvivAha kA kyA virodha kareMge ? balki dUsarI jagaha khuda unhoMne strI ke punarvivAha kA samarthana kiyA hai| nItivAkyAmRta meM ve likhate haiM ki-'vikRta patyU. DhApi punarvivAhamahatIti smRtikArAH' arthAt zAstrakAra kahate haiM ki jisa strI kA pati vikArI arthAt sadoSa ho,vaha strI bhI punarvivAha kI adhikAriNI hai| isa vAkya ke uttara meM kucha loga kahA karate haiM ki yaha to dUsaroM kI smRtiyoM kA havAlA haisomadeva jI isase sahamata nahIM haiM / parantu somadeva jI agara sahamata na hote to unheM isa havAle kI z2arUrata kyA thI ? yadi somadevajI ne vidhavAvivAha kA khaMDana kiyA hotA aura khaMDana ke liye yaha vAkya likhA hotA taba to kaha sakate the ki ve

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( 31 ) vidhavAvivAha se mahamata na the; paranta jaba vidhavAvivAha kA ve khaNDana nahIM karate aura vidhavAvivAha Adi ke samarthaka vAkya ko uddhata karate haiM to mUrkha se markha bhI kaha sakatA hai ki somadeva jI vidhavAvivAha ke pakSapAtI the| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki smRti zabda se ajainoM ke dharmazAstra hI grahaNa nahIM kiye jA skte| jainazAstra bhI zrati mmati Adi zabdoM se kahe gaye haiM, jaisAki AdipugaNa ke 44 ve parva meM kahA gayA hai sanAnano'sti mArgo'yam zratismRniSa bhASitaH / vivAhavidhi bhedeSu variSThohi mvayaMvaraH // 44 // 32 // yahA~ para jaina zAstroM kA ullekha ani smRti zabda me huA hai| aura bhI aneka sthAnoM para aisA hI zabda vyavahAra dekhA jAtA hai| matalaba yaha ki nItivAkyAmRta meM jo strI ke punarvivAha kA samarthaka vAkya pAyA jAtA hai usase somadeva jI to punarvivAha samarthaka Thaharate hI haiM, sAtha hI anya jainAcAryoM ke dvAga bhI isakA samarthana hotA hai| aise somadevAcArya ke yazastilaka ke zloka meM vidhavAvivAha kA virodha siddha karane kI kuceSTA karanA duHsAhasa nahIM to kyA hai ? pAThaka aba jaga arkakIrti ke vAkya para vicAra kreN| javasulocanAne jayakumAra ko vara liyA taba arkakInika mitra durmarSaNa ne arkakIrti ko samajhAyA ratnaM gleSa kanyeva natrApyeva kanyakA / tattvAM svagRhamAnIya doSTya pazyAsya durmateH // 44 // 5 // ratnoM meM kanyAratna hI zreSTha hai; usameM bhI yaha kanyA (pAThaka yaha bhI bayAla rakkhe ki jayakumAra kA vara tene para bhI sulocanA kanyA kahI jA rahI hai) aura bhI adhika zreSTha hai / isaliye tuma use apane ghara lAkara usa durbuddhi kI duSTatA dekhA (badalA lo) /

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( 32 ) durmarSaNa kI bAtoM meM prAkara arkakIrti jayakumAra ko mAra kara usakI varamAlA chInane ko utArU ho gayA / isI. liye vaha kahatA hai ki dvidhA bhavatu vA mA vA balaM tena kimaashugaaH| mAlA pratyAnayiSyati jayavakSA vibhidyame // 44 / 64 // arthAt senA do bhAgoM meM baTa jAya cAhaM nahIM, merA usa se kyA ? mere to bANa jayakumAra kA vakSasthala cIrakara vara. mAlA loTA laavege| pAThaka vicAra kareM ki varamAlA ko chIna lenA salAcanA ko grahaNa kara lenA thA, jisake liye akIrti taiyAra huA thaa| niHsandeha yaha kAma vaha jayakumArase IpyAke kAraNa kara rahA thaa| parantu arkakIrti kA anavadyamati nAmakA mantrI jAnatA thA ki sulocanA sarIkhI gajakumArI apanI icchA ke viruddha kisI ko nahIM kara sktii| isIliye tathA anya prApa. ttiyoM kI prAzaGkA se usane arkakIrti ko samajhAyA ki 'tama cakravartI ke putra hokara ke bhI kyA anartha kara rahe ho ? tumhI se nyAya kI rakSA hai aura tumhI aise anyAya kara rahe ho ! tuma isa yaga ke parastrIgAmiyoM meM pahile nambara ke parastrIgAmo mata vano' / paradArAbhilASasya prAthamyaM mA vRthA kRthaaH| avazyamAhatApyeSAna kanyAte bhaviSyati // 44 // 47 // anavadyamati kI bAte sunakara arkakIrti lajjita to hunA, parantu jayakumAra se badalA lene kA aura sulocanA chInane kA usane pakkA nizcaya kara liyA thA, isaliye yaddha kA progrAma na badalA / hA~, apanI naitika saphAI dene ke liye usane apane mantrI ko nimnalikhita vAkya bola kara jhA~sA avazya diyA :

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( 33 ) nAhaM sulocanArthyAmi matsarI maccharaigyam / parAsuradhunaivasyAtki me vidhavayAtayA // mujhe sulocanA kucha matalaba nahIM, yaha ghamaNDI jayakumAra mere bANoM se mara jAya / mujhe usa vidhavA se kyA lenA hai ? | basa, atyAcArI zrarkakIrtikI yaha bAta hI zrIlAlajI ke lie zrAgama bana baiThI hai / AkSepaka prakaraNa ko chipA kara isa prakAra samAja ko dhokhA denA cAhatA hai / durmaNa ne jaba sulocanA ko, kanyAratna kahakara prazansA kI, taba zrakIrti se nahIM kahA gayA ki maiM usa vidhavA kA kyA karU~gA ? usa samaya to mu~ha meM pAnI zrA gayA thaa| anavadyamati kI phaTa kAra se kahane lagA ki maiM vidhavA sulocanA ko grahaNa na karU~gA - maiM to sirpha badalA lenA cAhatA hU~ / arkakIrti kI yaha kAMge cAla thI tathA usase yaha nahIM mAlUma hotA ki vaha vidhavA hone ke kAraNa usako grahaNa nahIM karanA cAhatA thA / usane to parastrIharaNa ke anyAya se nirlipta rahane kI safAI dI thI / prakaraNa ko dekhakara koI bhI samajhadAra kaha sakatA hai ki isase vidhavAvivAha kA khaNDana nahIM hotA / nItivAkyAmRta ke vAkya se vidhavAvivAha kA virodha karanA bar3I bhArI dhokhebAz2I hai| nItivAkyAmRta unhIM somadeva kA banAyA huA hai jo vidhavAvivAha kA anumodana karate haiM / taba somadeva ke vAkya se vidhavAvivAha kA virodha kaisa ho sakatA hai ? jisa vAkya se vidhavAvivAha kA virodha kiyA jAnA hai use zrakSepaka ne samajhA hI nahIM hai, yA samajha kara chipAyA hai| vaha vAkya yaha hai- sakRtpariNayana vyavahArAH sacchUdrAH / arthAt acche zUdra ve haiM jo eka hI bAra vivAha karate

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( 34 ) haiM,arthAt eka hI strI rakhate haiM / yaha niyama uma samaya ke liye thA jaba anuloma vivAha kI pRthA jora para thii| uccavarNI, zUdra kI kanyAe~ lete the, lekina zudroM ko dete na the| aisI hAlata meM zudra puruSa bhI agara bahupatnI rakhane lagate naba to zudroM ke liye kanyAe~ milanA bhI muzkila ho jaataa| iliye unheM aneka patnI rakhane kI manAI kI gii| jo zudra aneka striyA~ rakhate the va asacandra kahe jAte the| eka prakAra se yaha niyama bhaGga karane kA dagaDa thaa| AkSepaka ne striyoM ke punarvivAha na karane kI bAta na mAlama kahA~ se khIMca lI? usa vAkya kI saMskRta TIkA meM AkSepaka kI yaha cAlAkI mpaTa ho jAtI hai TIkA-"ya sacchadrAH zobhanadrA bhavanti te sakRtpari. NyanAH ekavAraM kRtavivAhAH, dvitIyaM na kurvantItyarthaH / tathA ca hArItaH dvibhAryoyAtrazUdraH myAdvRSAlaH sa hivi zrutaH / mahatvaM tamya no bhAvi zudra jAti samudbhAM / " arthAt-jo acche zUdra hote haiM ve eka hI bAra vivAha karate haiM, dUsaga nahIM karate haiM / yahI bAta kahI bhI hai ki do patnI rakhane vAlA zUdra vRSAla kahalAtA hai--use zUdra jAti kA mahattva prApta nahIM hotaa| 'zUdroM ko bahuta patnI na rakhanA cAhiye', esa arthavAla vAkya kA 'kisI ko vidhavAvivAha na karanA cAhiye' aisA artha karanA sagasara dhokhebAz2I hai| yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA ki AkSepaka ko isakA patA nahIM hai, kyoMki trivarNAcAra kI parIkSA meM zrIyana jugalakizora jI mukhtAra ne isakA gvUba khulAsA kiyA hai| isa prakAra pahile zrApaka ke samasta zrApa bilakula nirbala haiN| aba dUsare prakSepaka ke dhAnepoM para vicAra kiyA jAtA hai|

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/ 35 ) AkSepa ( ca )-yadi vivAha zAdI se samyaktva kA koI sambandha nahIM to kyA pArasI, aMgrez2a leDI, yavana kanyA Adi ke sAtha vivAha karane para bhI samyaktva kA nAza nahIM hotA? yadi nahIM honA to zAstroM meM vihita samadattikA kyA artha hogA? samAdhAna pArasI aGrez2a Adi no zrArya haiM: samyaktva kA nAza nA mleccha mahilAoM ke sAtha zAdI karane parabhI nahIM hotA / cakravartI kI 32 hajAra mleccha patniyoM ke dRSTAnta se yaha bAta bilakula spaSTa hai / cakatarniyoM meM zAntinAtha, kunthu nAtha, aranAtha. ina tIna tIrthaGkaroM kA bhI samAveza hai| anya aneka jainI gajAtroM ne bhI mleccha aura anArya striyoM ke sAtha vivAha kiyA hai| hAM vivAha meM itanI bAta kA vicAra yathAsAdhya avazya karanA cAhiye ki strI jaina. dharma pAlane vAlI ho athavA jainadharma pAlana karane lage / isa se dharmapAlana meM mubhItA honA hai| imIliye samadatti meM mAdharmI ke sAtha gaTI beTI vyavahAra kA upadeza diyA gayA hai / agara koI pArasI, arez2a yA yavana mahilA jainadharma dhAraNa karale nA usake sAtha vivAha karane meM koI doSa nahIM haiM / pUrAne jamAne meM to mI ajaina kanyAoke sAtha bhI zAdI honI thI. phira jainakI to bAta hI kyA hai ? prAcAra zAstroM meM laukika aura pAralaukika prAcAroM kA vidhAna rahatA hai| una kA pAlana karanA samyagdRSTi kI yogyatA aura icchA para nirbhara hai| una prAcAra niyamoM ke pAlana karane se samyakva zrAnA nahIM hai aura pAlana na karanesa jAtA nahIM hai / isa lie zrAcAra niyamI ke anukUla yA pratikUla kisI bhI mahilAse zAdI karane se samyaktva kA nAza nahIM hotaa| AkSepa (cha)-sagaga samyaktva kI apekSA vItarAga samyaktva vizeSa grAhya hai / phira bhI vItarAga samyaktvI meM prazama

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( 36 ) saMvega anukampA zrAstikya guNa z2arUra prakaTa hone cAhiyeM / nizcaya aura vyavahAra donoM kA qhayAla rakhanA cAhiye / vyavahAra, nizcayakA nimitta kAraNa nahIM - upAdAna kAraNa hai / T samAdhAna - samyagdRSTimeM prazama samvegAdi honA cAhiye to hai / samyagdRSTividhavAvivAha karate hue bhI prazama samvega anukampA zranikyAdi guNa rakha sakatA hai / prazama se gaga, dveSa kama ho jAte haiM, samvega se saMsAra se bhaya ho jAtA 1 itane parabhI vaha haz2AroM mleccha kanyAzramaM vivAha kara sakatA hai, bar3e 2 yuddhakara sakatA hai aura saraka meM ho to parama kRSNA lezyA vAlA raudrapariNAmI banakara haz2AroM nArakiyoMse lar3asakatA hai ! taba bhI usa ke samyaktvakA nAza nahIM hotaa| usake prazama saMvagAdi bana sakate haiM, to vidhavAvivAha vAle ke kyoM nahIM bana sakate ? vyavahAra nizcaya kA kAraNa hai / parantu vidhavAvivAha bhI to vyavahAra hai / jisa prakAra kumArI vivAha dharma se dRr3ha rahane kA kAraNa hai usI prakAra vidhavAvivAha bhI hai| vyavahAra to dravya kSetra kAla bhAva ke bheda se aneka bheda rUpa hai / vyavahAra ke eka bheda se usI ke dUsare bheda kI jA~ca karanA vyava hAraikAntavAdI bana jAnA hai / nizcaya kI kasauTI banA kara vyavahAra kI parIkSA karanA caahiye| jo vyavahAra nizcaya anukUla ho vaha vyavahAra hai, jo pratikUla ho vaha vyavahArAbhAsa hai / vidhavA vivAha nizcaya samyaktva ke anukUla athavA zraviruddha hai / isaliye vaha saccA vyavahAra hai / vyavahAra samyaktva ke anya cinhoM ke sAtha bhI usa kA koI virodha nahIM hai| 1 vyavahAra ko nizcaya kA upAdAna kAraNa kahanA kArya kAraNa bhAva ke jJAna kI divAlA nikAla denA hai | vyavahAra parAzrita hai aura nizcaya svAzrita / kyA parAzrita, svAdhina kA upAdAna ho sakatA hai ? yadi vyavahAra nizcaya kA upAdAna

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1 37 ) kAraNa hai to vaha siddhoM meM bhI honA cAhiye; kyoMki una ke bhI nizcaya samyaktva hai / parantu siddhoM meM rAgAdi pariNati na hone se sarAga samyaktva ho nahIM sakatA / taba vaha upAdAna kAraNa kaise kahalAyA ? yadi vyavahAra nizcaya ko pUrvottara paryAya mAna kara upAdAna upAdeya bhAva mAnA ho to donoM kA sAhacarya ( sAtha rahanA ) batalAnA vyartha haiN| tathA isa dRSTi se to samyaktva ke pahile rahane vAlI midhyAtva paryAya bhI upAdAna kAraNa kahalAyagI / tatra samyaktva kI upAdAnatA meM mahatva hI kyA raha jAyagA ? khaira, hamArA kahanA to yahI haiM ki vidhavAvivAha nizcaya samyaktva aura vyavahAra samyatra ke prazamAdi guNoM ke viruddha nahIM hai / isaliye vyavahAra samyaktva kI duhAI dekara bhI usa kA virodha nahIM kiyA jA sakatA / AkSepa ( ja ) - vivAhoM kI bhraSTa prakAra kI saMkhyA se vAhya hone ke kAraNa aura isIliye bhagavan pratipAdita na hone ke kAraNa kyA zrAstikya samyagdRSTi vidhavAvivAha ko mAnya ThaharA sakatA hai ? samAdhAna-vivAha ke ATha bhedoM meM to bAlavivAha, vRddha vivAha, yuvatIvivAha, sajAtIyavivAda, vijAtIyavivAha, anulomavivAha, pratiloma vivAha, sagotra vivAha, vigotra vivAha, kumArIvivAha, vidhavAvivAha, zrAdi kisI nAma kA ullekha nahIM hai; taba kyA ye saba zrAstikya ke viruddha haiM ? taba to kumArI vivAha bhI zrAstikya ke viruddha kahalAyA, kyoMki ATha bhedoM meM kumArI vivAha kA bhI nAma nahIM hai / agara kahA jAya ki kumArIvivAha, sajAtIya vivAha zrAdi vivAhoM ke uparyukta ATha ATha bheda haiM to basa, vidhavAvivAha ke bhI uparyukta ATha bheda siddha hue| jaise kumArIvivAha

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( 38 ) ATha taraha kA ho sakatA hai usI prakAra vidhavAvivAha bhI pATha taraha kA ho sakatA hai| AkSepa (jha)-samyagdRSTi jIva meM rAga dveSa kI utkaTatA kA kSayopazama ho gayA hai| usa ke vana nimaya na mahI. parantu mvarUpAcaraNa cAritra nA hai, jo saMmAra se bhayabhIta. madyamAMsa Adi se virata vidhavAvivAha Adi gaga-pravRti se bacAtA hai / yadi usa ke svarUpAcaraNa cAritra na mAnA jAya to vaha duniyA~ bhara ke sabhI gedra karma karake bhI samyaktvI banA rhegaa| samAdhAna-mvarUpAcaraNa no nAgakiyoM ke bhI hotA hai, pA~coM pApa karane vAloM ke bhI hotA hai, kRSNaleNyA vAloM ke bhI hotA hai| taba vidhavAvivAha se hI usa kA kyA virodha hai. ! samyagdarzana, bheda vijJAna, mvarUpAcaraNa cAritra, ye sahacara haiM ? isaliye jo bAta eka ke lie kahI gaI hai vahI tInoM ke liye samajhanA cAhiye / anantAnubandhI ke udaya kSaya se sva. rUpAcaraNa hotA hai / isa viSaya meM lekha ke prArambha meM zrApa nambara 'a' kA samAdhAna dekhanA caahiye| AkSepa (a)-mAnave naraka meM samyaktva naTa na hone kI bAta Apa ne kahA~ se likhI ? samAdhAna-isakA samAdhAna pahile kara cuke haiN| dekhA AkSepa nambara 'i' kA samAdhAna / prAkSepa (Ta)-samyagdRSTi jIva paJca pApopasevI nahIM hotA, kintu upabhogI hotA hai arthAt usako rucipUrvaka paJca pApoM meM pravRtti nahIM hotI / "pApa to sadA sarvathA ghora pApa. bandhana kA hI kAraNa hai / phira to samyaktvI ko bhI ghora pApa bandha siddha ho jAyagA aura samyattavIko bandhakA honA kahane para amRtacandra mUri ke "jisa dRSTi se samyagdRSTi hai usa dRSTi se bandha nahIM hotA" isa vAkya kA kyA artha hogA ?

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/ 36 ) mamAdhAna-hamane samyaktvI ko paJcapApI pasevo nahIM likhA hai,pA~ca pApa karane vAla likhA hai| bhale hI vaha upabhoga ho / usakI macipUrvaka pravRttitA pApa meM hI kyA. purAya meM bhI nahIM hAnI / vaha no donoM ko heya aura zuddha pariNati ko upAdeya mAnatA hai| usakI ruci na no kumArI-vivAha meM hai na vidhavA. vivAha meM, kintu apratyAkhyAnAvaraNAdi kaSAyoM ke udaya se vaha arucipUrvaka jaima kumArgavivAha karatA hai usA prakAra vidhavAvivAha bhI karatA hai| usakI aruci vidhavAvivAha ko geka aura kumArI vivAha kA na roke, yaha kesa hA sakatA hai ? pAkSepaka kA kahanA hai ki "pApa to madA marvathA ghAra pApabandhakA kAraNa hai", naba to samyagdRSTi ko bho ghora pApabandha kA kAraNa hogA, kyoMki vaha bhI pApopamAMgI hai| lekina AkSepaka samyagdRSTiko ghora pApa bandha nahIM mAnatA / taba usa kA 'sadA sarvathA' zabda prApahI jAgiData hA jAtA hai| amRta. candra kA havAlA dekara to zrAkSa paka ne bilakula UTapaTA~ga bakA hai, jisa me vidhavAvivAha virodha kA kAI tAllaka nhiiN| mamyaktva to bandha kA kAraNa he hI nahIM, kintu unake sAtha rahane vAlI kapAya bandha kA kAraNa jarUra hai| yahI kAraNa hai ki avirata samyagdRSTi 77 prakRtiyoM kA bandha karatA hai jina meM bahubhAga pApa prakRtiyoM kA hai / samyaktva aura mvarUpAcaragA hone se usa ke 16+ 2541 prakRtiyoM kA bandha rukatA hai| samyagdRSTi jIva agara vidhavAvivAha kare to usake ina 41 prakRtiyoM kA bandha nahIM hogaa| hAM, bAkI prakRtiyokA bandhaho sakegA / so vaha to kumArI vivAha karane para bhI ho sakegA aura vivAha na karane para bhI ho sakegA / hamAga kahanA to yahI hai ki jaba samyagdRSTi jIva-aruci pUrvaka hI sahI

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( 40 ) pA~coM pApa kara sakatA hai, kumArIvivAha kara sakatA hai, taba vidhavAvivAha bhI kara sakatA hai / AkSepa ( u ) - vidhavAvivAha isIlie adharma nahI haiM ki vaha vivAha hai balki isa lie adharma hai ki zrAgama viruddha hai / "koI pravRtyAtmaka kArya dharma nahI hai" yaha likhanA sarvathA zrasaGgata aura zrajJAnanApUrNa haiM / vivAhako nivRttyAtmaka mAnanA bhI vyartha | agara nivRttyAtmaka hotA to pA~caveM guNasthAna ke bhedoMmeM nivRttirUpa brahmacarya pratimAkI zrAvazyakatAhI kyA thI ? samAdhAna - vidhavAvivAha zrAgamaviruddha nahI hai, yaha hama siddha kara cuke hai aura Age bhI kareMge / yahA~ hamArA kahanA yahI haiM ki agara vivAha adharma nahIM hai to vidhavAvivAha bhI dharma nahIM hai| agara vidhavAvivAha adharma hai to vivAha bhI adharma hai| saca pUchA jAya to jainadharma ke anusAra koI bhI pravRttyAtmaka kArya dharma nahIM hai / kyoMki dharma kA matalaba hai ratnatraya yA samyakcAritra / samyakcAritrakA lakSaNa zAstrakAroM ne " vAhyAbhyantara kriyAoM kI nivRtti" kiyA hai: jaise ki"saMsAra kAraNa nivRttimpratyAgurNasya jJAnavataH vAhyAbhyantara kriyA vizeSAM paramaH samyakcAritram" ( rAjavArtika aura sarvArthasiddhi ) bhavahetu prANAya vahirabhyantarakriyA vinivRttiH paraM samyak cAritram jJAninAM matam / - zloka vArtika / bahiraaMtara kiyA roho bhavakAraNa paNAsaTum / gANissa jaMjiraNuttaM taM paramam sammacAritam // dravyasaMgraha | caraNAnuyoga zAstroM meM bhI isI taraha kA lakSaNa hai --

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hiMsA nRtacoryebhyo maithana sevA parigrahAbhyAMca / pApapraNAlikAbhyo viratiH saMjJasya cAritram // 46 / / -ratnakararADazrAvakAcAra / z2yAdA pramANa dene kI jarUrata nahIM / prAyaH sarvatra cAritra kA lakSaNa nivRtyAtmaka hI kiyA hai| hA~ vyavahAniya se pravRnyAtmaka lakSaNa kA bhI ullekha milatA hai; jaise asuhAdA vigiNa vittI suha pavittIya jANa cArittaM / badasamidi guttirUpa vavahAraNayAdujiNa bhaNiyaM // -drvysNgrh| yahA~ para azubha se nivRtti aura zubha meM pravRtti ko vya. vahAgnaya se cAritra kahA gayA hai| parantu vyavahAranaya se kahA gayA cAritra, vAstavika cAritra nahIM hai / kyoMki vyavahAgnaya kA viSaya abhUtArtha / avAstavika) hai / amRtacandrAcArya ne isa kA bahuta hI acchA khulAmA kiyA hai nizcaryAmaha bhUnAtha vyavahAra varNayantya bhUtArthama / bhUtArtha bordhAvamukhaH prAyaH marvo'pi saMsAraH // abudhamya bodhanArthaM munIzvaga varNayantya bhRtArtham / vyavahArameva kevalamaveti yamtamya dezanA nAsti // mAgavaka pava siMho yathA bhavatyanavagIna siMhasya / vyavahAra ehi tathA nizcayatAM yAtyAnazcayajJasya // vyavahAra nizcayo yaH prabudhyatanvena bhavati mdhysthH| prApnoti dazanAyAH sapaSaphalamavikalaziSyaH // arthAta-vAstavikatA ko viSaya karane vAlA nizcayanaya he aura vAstavikatAko viSaya karane vAlA vyavahAra naya hai / prAyaH samasta saMmAra vAstavikatA ke jJAna se rahita hai / alpa. buddhi vAle jIvoM ko samajhAne ke liye vyavahAranaya kA kathana kiyA jAtA hai| jo vyavahAranaya ko hI pakaDa ke raha jAtA hai

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usako upadeza denA vyartha hai| jaise jisane siha nahIM dekhA vaha karatA zUratA vAle vyakti ko hI siMha samajha jAtA hai, usI prakAra jo nizcaya ( vAstavika) kA nahIM jAnatA vaha vyavahAra ( avAstavika ) ko hI nizcaya samajha jAtA hai / jo vyavahAra ora nizcaya ina donoM ko samajhakara madhyastha hotA hai, vahI upadeza kA pUrNa phala prApta karatA hai| matalaba yaha ki vyavahAra cAritra, vAstava meM cAritra nahIM hai-vaha tA cAritra ke prApta karane kA eka jariyA he, jo ki alpabuddhi vAloM ko samajhAne ke liye kahA gayA hai| hA~, yahA~ para prAcArya yaha bhI kahate hai ki manuSya ko ekAntavAdI na bananA caahiye| yahI kAraNa hai ki hamane anekAnta rUpa se vivAha kA vivecana kiyA hai / arthAt vAstavikatA kI dRSTi se / nizcayanaya me) vivAha dharma nahIM hai, kyoMki vaha pravRttirUpa hai aura upacAra se dharma hai / parantu yaha upacarita dhArmikatA mirpha kumArI vivAha meM hI nahIM hai vidhavAvivAha meM bhI hai / kyoMki donoM meM parastrI arthAt avivAhita strI se nivRtti pAI jAtI hai / pAThaka dekheMge ki hamAga vivaMcana kitanA zAstrasammata aura anekAla se pUrNa hai, jabaki AkSepaka bilkula vyavahAraikAntavAdI bana gayA hai| isIliye "pravRtyAtmaka kArya dharma nahIM haiM" nizcayanaya ke ima kathana ko yaha marvathA (?) asagata samajhatA hai ? hamane vivAha ko upacagni dharma siddha karane ke liye kathaMcinivRtyAtmaka siddha kiyA thaa| jisa prakAra kisI manupya ko zera kahane se vaha zera nahIM hojAtA, kintu zera ke kucha guNoM kI kucha samAnatA usameM mAno jAtI hai, usI prakAra vyavahAra cAritra, cAritra na hone para bhI unameM cAritrako kucha samAnatA pAyI jAtI hai / cAritra meM to zubha aura azubha donoM

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se nivRtti pAyI jAtI haiM aura vyavahAra cAritra meM azubha se hI nivRtti pAyI jAtI haiM / vyavahAra cAritra kI cAritra ke sAtha yahI AMzika samAnatA hai / yahI kAraNa hai ki vyavahAra cAritra bhI cAritra kahA gayA / jaba vivAha, vyavahAra dharma hai to usameM kimI na kisI rUpa meM nivatyAtmakatA honA cAhiye / isIliye hamane kahA hai ki vivAha se parastrIsevana rUpa azubha pariNati meM nivRtti hotI haiM / yaha niyatti kumArIvivAha se bhI hotI hai aura vidhavAvivAha na bhI hAnI hai| __ "vivAha agara nivRtyAnmaka hai to brahmacarya pratimA kyoM banAI !"--aAtaM pakakA yaha kathana to bar3A vicitra haiN| are bhAI vivAha meM jitanI nivatti hai usa se jyAdaH nivatti brahmacarya meM hai / pahalI klAsa meM bhI zikSA dI jAtI aura dUsarI meM bhI dI jAtI hai to kyA yaha kahA jAsakatA hai ki pahilI klAsa meM zikSA dI jAtI hai to dUsarI kyA banAI ? agara koI pUcha ki muni no chaThaveM guNasthAna meM bana jAtA hai, phira mAnavA~ kyoM banAyA ? pA~ca pApI kA tyAga to aguvratoM meM ho jAtA hai phira mahAvrata kyoM banAye ? sAmAyika aura prApadhApavAsa to dUsarI pratimA meM dhAraNa kiye jAte haiM phira ina nAmoM kI tIsarI cauthI pratimA kyA banAI ? vyabhicAra prora parigraha kA tyAga to brahmacaryANuvata aura parigraha parimANa vrata meM ho jAtA hai phira sAtavIM ora dazamI pratimA kyAM banAI ? to ina saba praznoM kA kyA uttara diyA jAyagA? uttara yahI diyA jAyagA ki pahilI avasthAmA meM thor3A tyAga hai aura Age kI avasthAoM meM jyAdaH tyAga hai| yahI uttara vivAha ke viSaya meM hai / vivAha meM thor3A tyAga hai-brahmacarya meM jyAdaH tyAga hai| deva pUjA Adi pravRtyAtmaka haiM parantu jaba ve dharma kahe

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(44) jAta hai naba nivanyAtmaka bhI hote hai| una meM kudevapUjA tathA anya azubha pariganiyoM meM nivRtti pAyI jAtI hai| isI se vagI vyavahAra-dharma kahe gaye hai| isa vivecana ma pAThaka samajha gaye hoMge ki vidhavAvivAha meM kumAgavivAha ke barAbara nivRtti kA aMza pAyA jAnA hai| isaliye donoM eka hI taraha ke vyavahAra dharma hai / AkSepa (Da)-yaha ligvanA mahAjhaTha hai ki vivAha ke mAmAnya lakSaNa meM kanyA zabda kA ullekha nahIM hai| 'kanyA kA hI vivAha hotA haiM kyA isa dalIla ko jhUTha bolakara yoM hI ur3A denA cAhiye ? samAdhAna-hamane kanyA zabda ko ur3AyA nahIM hai, balki hama zabda ke Upara nA hamane bahuta z2AradAra vicAra kiyA hai| gajavAnika tathA anya graMthomeM jo kanyA zabdakA prayoga kiyA gayA hai, usake viSaya meM hama zrIlAla jo ke pApoM ke uttara dete samaya likha cuke haiN| isake liye AkSepa nambara ' kA samAdhAna par3ha lenA caahiye| AkSepa ( 8 )-zrApa trivarNAcAra ko apramANa mAnakara ke bhI usI ke pramANa deta hai, lekina jimma trivarNAcAra meM TahI pezAba jAne kI kriyA para bhI kar3I nigarAnI rakhI gaI hai. usI meM vidhavAvivAha kI middhi kaimma ho sakatI hai ? samAdhAna-trivarNAcAra ko hama apramANa mAnate hai, parantu vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI to pramANa mAnate haiM. isaliye unheM mamajhAne ke liye usakA ullekha kiyA hai| kisI ImAI ko samajhAne ke liye bAibila kA upayoga karanA, musalamAna ko samajhAne ke liye kugana kA upayoga karanA, hindU kA samajhAne ke liye veda kA upayoga karanA jisa prakAra ucita hai, usI prakAra sthitipAlakoM ko samajhAne ke liye trivarNAcAra kA

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( 45 ) upayoga karanA ucita hai / 'TaTTI pezAba kI nigarAnI rakhane vAlA vidhavAvivAha kA samarthana nahIM kara sakatA'-yaha to bilakula hAsyAspada yukti hai| Aja bhI dakSiNa prAnta meM TaTTI pezAba tathA anya kriyA-kAMDa para uttara prAnta kI apekSA kaI guNI nigarAnI rakhI jAtI hai| phira bhI vahA~ vidhavAvivAha aura talAka kA zrAma rivAja hai / khaira, trivarNAcArameM vidhavA. vivAha kA vidhAna hai, yaha bAta 27 ve prazna ke uttara meM siddha kI gaI haiN| ummI prazna AkSepa samAdhAnoM meM isa para vicAra kiyA jaaygaa| ___ AkSepa ( Na)-kanyA zabda kA artha "vivAha yogya strI" kyoM kiyA jAya ? pitA zabda kA artha nA 'gurujana' hotA hai jaimA ki amarakopa meM likhA hai 'myAniSekAdikRdguruH'; para. ntu kumArI ke atirikta kanyA zabda kA prayoga na to hamAre kahIM dekhana meM pAyA hai na sunA hI haiN| dhanaJjaya nAmamAlA meM 'kanyA panirvaraH' likhA hai; strI panirvagaH' kyA nahIM? mamAdhAna-kanyA zabda kA 'vivAha yogya strI' artha kyoM kiyA jAya, isa kA samAdhAna AkSepa 'o' ke samAdhAna meM dekhiye / kanyA zabda kA kumArI ke atirikta artha zrApa ne nahIM dekhA sunA to isa meM hamAga kyA aparAdha hai ? yaha zrApa ke jJAna kI kamI hai / zrApa ke sahayogI 10 zrIlAsta jI ne to yaha artha dekhA hai / una ke kathanAnumAra hI zrApa vizlalocana, hema aura medinI koSa dekha ddaaliye| parantu isake pahile kApa dekhane kI kalA sIkha lIjiye, kyoMki isI prakaraNa meM amarakoSa dekhane meM zrApa ne bar3I galatI kI hai| amarakoSa meM likhA hai ki 'pitrAdiguruH' arthAt pitA, mAtA, bhrAtA, mAmA zrAdi guru hai; parantu zrApa artha karate hai ki pitA mAtA, bhrAtA Adi pitA hai| Apa ko samajhanA cAhiye ki

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pinA Adi ko guru kaha sakate haiM. parantu ma taraha ke gurutrI ko pitA nahIM kaha sakate / kanyA kA vizeSaNa 'pitRdattA' hai na ki 'gurudattA jisase ki amarakopa ke anusAra zrApa vistRta artha kara ske| isaliye yahA~ pitRzabda upalakSaNa hai| isI prakAra kanyA zabda bhI upalakSaNa hai| nAmamAlA meM 'strI patibaigana kahane kA kAraNa yaha hai ki pratyeka strI kA pati vara nahIM kahalAnA, kinta jo kanyA arthAta jo vivAha yogya strI / dalDina ) hotI hai usI ke pati ko vara ( dulhA ) kahate haiN| 'trI patirvagaH kaha dene sa mamI mamtrIka puruSa jIvana bhara ke liye vara arthAta dUlhA kahalAne lgte| AkSepa ( na ---amarakopa meM 'puna ' zabda kA artha kiyA haiM 'bAga vivAha karane vAlI strI' aura kavi samrAT dhanaJjaya naM punarbha zabda ko vyabhicAriNI striyoM ke nAmoM meM DAlA hai| dhanaJjaya, akalaGka aura pUjyapAda kI kATi ke hai. kyoMki nAma: mAlA meM likhA hai "pramANamakalaGkamaya pUjyapAdamya lanaNaM / dvisandhAna kayeH kAvyam ratnatrayama pazcimam" nAmamAlA ke pramANa se siddha haiM ki strI kA punarvivAha vyabhicAra hai| samAdhAna-dhanaJjayajI kavi the, parantu unakA koSa saMskRta sAhitya ke saba kopoM se choTA aura nIce ke darje kA hai| Upara jA ina kI prazaMsA meM zloka uddhata kiyA gayA hai vaha va da hA inhIM kA banAyA hai / isa taraha apane muMha se prazaMsA karane meM hI koI bar3A nahIM ho jaataa| dhanaJjaya ko pUjyapAda yA akala, kI koTi kA kahanA una donoM prAcAryoM kA apamAna karanA hai / dhanaJjaya yadi sarvazreSTha kavi bhI hote to bhI kyA akala dvAdi ke samAna mAnya ho sakate the ? gA~dhI jI maba se ghaI netA hai, gAmA maba se bar3A pahalavAna hai aura gauhara sarva zrRMTha gAyikA hai to kyA gAMdhIjI gAmA aura gauhara kI ijjata

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( 47 ) bagabara ho gaI ? mAnyatA ke liye sirpha sarvazreSThanA nahIM dekhI jAtI, parantu yaha bhI dekhA jAtA hai ki vaha zreSThatA kisa viSaya meM hai| dhanaJjaya eka acche paNDita yA kavi the to kyA ve pUjyapAda aura akalaGka ke samAna prAcArya ora tatva bhI the, jisa se middhAnta ke viSaya meM una kA nirNaya mAnA jAya ? khora! aba hama mUla viSaya para Ate haiN| amarakoSakArane punarbha zabda kA artha kiyA hai "dubAga vivAha karAne vAlI strI" | pUnoM kA damaga nAma didhipU bhI hai| jisa brAhmaNa kSatriya yA vaizya kI strI, punarma hotI hai use agnedidhiSa kahate he ( isa se yaha bhI siddha hotA hai ki pahile z2amAna meM brAhmaNa kSatriya vaizya meM bhI strI punarvivAha hotA thaa)| amarakopakAra ne pUnarbha kA 'dubAga vivAha karane vAlI strI' artha nA kiyA, parantu usa vyabhicAriNI nahIM mAnA / vyabhivAriNI ke unhoMne puMzcalI, dharSiNI, bandhakI, asano, kulaTA, itvarI zrAdi nAma nA batAya parantu puna nAma nahIM btaayaa| jo kopakAra punarbha zabda kA upayakta artha karatA he vaha to vyabhicAriNI usa likhatA nahIM, kintu jimmana ( dhanaJjaya ne ) punarbha zabda kA artha hI nahIM batAyA vaha usa vyabhicAriNI kahatA hai ! isama mAlUma hotA hai ki amarakApakAra ke artha se dhanaJjaya kA artha bilakula judA hai| amarakopakAra ke manase punarbha zabda kA artha hai 'dubAga vivAha karane vAlI strI' aura dhanaJjaya ke mata se punarbhU zabda kA artha hai vybhicaarinnii| ye to eka zabda ke do judaM jude artha hue / isase dubAga vivAha karane vAlI strI vyabhicAriNI kama middha huI ? go zabda kA artha gAya bhI hai, svarga bhI hai, pRthvI bhI hai, ityAdi aura bhI aneka artha haiN| aba koI kahe ki amuka aAdamI mara kara svarga gayA, no kyA isa kA yaha artha hogA ki vaha gAya meM gayA ?

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kyoMki svarga ko go kahate haiM aura go kA artha gAya hai / jisa prakAra go zabda ke 'gAya' aura 'svarga' ye donoM artha hone para bhI 'gAya' ko mvarga nahIM kaha sakate usI prakAra punarbhu zabda ke 'yAga vivAha karAne vAlI' aura 'vyabhicAriNI' ye donoM artha hone para bhI dubAga vivAha karane vAlI ko vyabhicAriNI nahIM kaha sakate / do granthakAga kI dRSTi meM punarbhU zabda ke ye juda judaM artha hai| ina judaM jude arthoM ko paryAyavAcI samajha jAnA akla kI qhabI hai / hA~. agara amara koSa meM likhA huA punabhU zabda kA artha nAmamAlA meM hotA aura phira vahA~ use vyabhicAriNI kA paryAyavAcI banalAyA hotA to dhanaJjaya ke mata se punarvivAha vyabhicAra siddha hotA / athavA amarakozakAra ne hI agara punabhU zabda ko vyabhicAriNI zabda kA paryAya. vAcI likhA hotA to bhI punarvivAha ko vyabhicAra kahane kI guMjAiza hotii| parantu na to amarakozakAra punabhU ko vya. bhicAriNI likhate hai, na nAmamAlAkAra amarakoza sarIkhA punarbhU kA artha hI karate haiM / isaliye punabhU zabda ke viSaya meM donoM lekhakoM ke jude judaM artha hI samajhanA caahiye| dusarI bAta yaha hai ki 'punarbha' tIna taraha kI hoto hai1. akSatayAni,2. natAni, 3. vyabhicAriNI (dakhA minAkSarA zabda kalpadrama. yA hindI zabdamAgara ) / ho sakatA heki dhana aya kavi ne tIsare bheda ko dhyAna meM rakha kara puna ko vyabhicAriNI kA paryAyavAcI likhA ho / isa prakAra choTI choTI g2alaniyA~ nAmamAlA meM bahuta pAI jAtI hai| jaise-dhAnu. kikA artha hai dhanuSa calAne vAlA, parantu nAmamAlAmeM dhAnuSka ko bhIla kA paryAyavAcI zabda likhA hai| lekina na to sabhI bhIla, dhAnuSka ho sakate haiM aura na sabhI dhanuSa calAne vAle bhIla ho sakate hai| agara nAmamAlAkAra ke artha ke anusAra

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{ 46 ) prayoga kiyA jAya to dhanuSa calAne vAle tIrthaGkara cakravartI prAdi sabhI gajA mahArAjA bhIla kahalAyeMge / isI prakAra naukara ke paryAyavAcI zabdoM meM zastra-jIvI likhA hai| lekina sabhI naukara zastrajIvI nahIM hote| zastrajIvI to sirpha sipA. hiyoM aura sainikoM ko kaha sakate haiM parantu sainika aura naukara kA eka hI artha karanA nAmamAtA kI hI vicitratA hai / dUsare koSoM meM na to punarbhU kA paryAya zabda vyabhicAriNI likhA hai, na dhAnuka kA paryAya zabda bhIla likhA hai aura na mainika kA paryAya zabda sevaka likhA hai / isa prakAra kI choTI moTI bhUla ke nAmamAlAmeM darjanoM udAharaNa mila sakate haiN| jo nAmamAlA kI ina truTiyoM para dhyAna na denA cAhate ho va upaktachehaka (paigamAfa ) ke kathanAnusAra punarbhU zabda ke artha karane meM amarakozakAra aura nAmamAlAkAra kA matabheda samajhe / isaliye punarvivAhitA ko vyabhicAriNI nahIM kahA jA sktaa| isa ke bAda zrAkSepaka ne sAhasagati vidyAdhara tathA 'dharma saMgraha zrAvakAcAra' ke kanyA zabda para ajJAnatApUrNa vivacana kiyA hai, jisa kA vistRta uttara AkSepa 'aM' 'a' aura "ka" meM diyA jAcukA hai| isI taraha dIkSAnvaya kriyA ke punavivAha kA vivecana zrAkSepa naM0 'kha' meM kiyA gayA hai| prAkSe. paka ne bakavAda to bahuta kiyA, parantu vaha itanI bhI bAta nahIM samajha pAyA ki dIkSAnvaya kriyA ke punarvivAha kA unlekha kyA kiyA gayA thaa| dIkSAnvaya kriyA punarvivAha se hama vidhavA. vivAha siddha nahIM karanA cAhate, kintu yaha batalAnA cAhate haiM ki vivAhitA strI bhI, agara usakA phira vivAha ho to (bharale hI apane pati ke hI sAtha hI kanyA kahalAtI hai| agara kanyA zabda kA artha kumArI hI kiyA jAyagA to dIkSAnvaya kriyAmeM

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( 50 ) dIkSitA bIkA apane pati ke sAtha punarvivAha kaise ho sakegA, kyoMki zrAkSa paka kanyA kA hI vivAha mAnanA hai| aApa (tha)-jainAcAryoM kI sampUrNa kathanI naya vivakSA para hai| unhoMne (?) vizvalocana meM "kanyA kumArikA nAryaH" likhA hai / yadyapi yaha bilkula sIdhA sAdA hai aura isameM naya pramANa vAge kI kucha aAvazyakatA nahIM hai phira bhI nItikAra na kahA hai-'arthI dApaM na pshyti'| jo ho ! jAni apekSA (gazi bhadopadhAbhidA ) nAri (?) ke mAtha kanyA, kumArI kA prayoga kiyA gayA hai| hamAre artha ko siddha karane vAlA aMza 'jagan' meM bar3e (?) bArIka TAiza meM chApA gayA hai / itanA chala : kucha khopha hai ? samAdhAna--kASa ke strI bAcI kanyA zabda kA jaba kucha bhI khaNDana na ho makA tA uparyana pralApa kiyA gayA hai / AkSapaka kA kahanA hai ki kanyA aura strI kI jAni eka hai. isaliya dAnoM ko mAtha likha diyA hai| ThIka hai, magara bhAryA aura bhaginI bhI nA sajAtIya he, bApa aura beTA bhI no majAnIya hai, no ina saba ke viSaya meM ghuTAlA kara denA cAhiye / isa bakavAda meM prAkSepaka ne apane koSa dekhane kI kalA ke ajJAna kA punaH pradarzana kiyA hai| vizvalocana, eka anekArtha koza hai| anya kAzoM ke samAna usameM paryAyavAcI zabdoM kI lAina naDI nahIM kI jAtI hai| usameM to yaha batAyA jAtA hai ki. eka zabda ke jude juda kitane artha hai| kanyA zabdake kumArI, nArI, gazibheda Adi juda juda artha haiN| agara zrAkSepaka ko kAza dekhane kA z2aga bhI jJAna hotA to vaha inanI bhUla na krtaa| TAipa kI bAta to bar3I vicitra hai / lekhaka, jisa bAna para pAThakoM kA dhyAna z2yAdaH AkarSita karanA cAhatA hai use vaha anDara lAina kara denA hai aura presa vAle use blAka

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[moTe TAipa meM chApate haiN| isa bAta meM prAkSepaka ko chala khopha prAdi aneka bhUta naz2ara A rahe hai / yaha pAgalapana nahIM to kyA hai ? becAga AkSepaka aise aise z2abaradasta (?) narka (!) zastroM se vidhavAvivAha kA khaNDana karane calA hai| kanyA zabdake viSaya meM itanA likhA jAcukA hai ki aba aura likhane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| sAgAradharmAmRta ke nirdoSA vizeSaNa para jo zrApaka ne likhA hai usakA samAdhAna "ga" meM kiyA gayA hai| AkSepa (da)-zAyada satyamAcA ko karuNAnuyoga kA lakSaNa bhI nahIM mAlUma hai / kahI karuNAnuyoga meM gRhastha-cAritra kI prAjJAe~ bhI dekhane meM AI hai| karuNAnuyAMga meM to lokAloka vibhAga Adi kA varNana rahatA hai / karuNAnuyoga aura zrAkSA kA kyA sambandha? samAdhAna-isa AkSepa se mAlUma hotA hai ki prAkSepaka kA zAstrajJAna adhUrA aura tuccha hai| pAThazAlAoM ke choTe 2 bacce jitanA jJAna rakhate hai utanA jJAna becAre zrAkSapakako milA hai aura usI ke bala para vaha apane ko sarvaza samajhatA hai ! AkSepaka ko hama salAha dete hai ki vaha mokSamArgaprakAza ke pATha adhikAra meM karuNAnuyAMga kA prayojana" aura "karuNA nayoga ke vyAkhyAna kI paddhati' nAmaka vivaMcanoM kA svAdhyAya kara jAya / vahA~ ke kucha uddharaNa hama yahA~ nIce dete haiM : "yahari karuNAnuyoga viSe jIvani kI vA karmani kI vizeSatA vA trilokAdi kI racanA nirUpaNa kari jIvana ko dharmavirSe lagAye haiN| je jIva dharmaviSa upayoga lagAyA cAhate jIvani kA gaNamyAna mArgaNA Adi vizeSa ara karmani kA kAraNa avasthA phala kauna kauna ke kaise kesa pAiye, ityAdi

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( 52 ) vizeSa para triloka vipa naraka svargAdika ThikAne pahicAni pApa ne vimukha hoya dharma viSe lAge haiM / "bahuri karaNAnuyAMga virSe chadmasthAna kI pravRtti ke anu. mAra (prAcAraNa) varNana nAhIM / kevala jJAna gamya (zrAtma pariNAma) padArthanikA nirUpaNa hai| jaima-kAI jIva nA dravyAdika kA vicAra kareM haiM vA vratAdikapAle he, parantu aMtaraMga mamyaka cAritra nahIM nAne unako mithyaassttiH| avanI kahiye hai / baddagi kaI jIva dravyAdika kA vA vratAdika kA vicAra-rahina he anya kAryAna vi pravana he vA nidrAdi kari nirvicAra hoya rahe haiM, parantu unake mamyaktAdi zakti kA sadbhAva hai nAte una ko mamyaktI vA vratI kahiye haiN| bahuri koI jIva ke kaSAyani kI pravRtti nA ghanI hai ara vAkaM antaraGga kaSAya-zakti yoga hai nA vAkI mandakAI kahiye haiN| zrara koI jIva ke kapAni kI pravRtti to thArI hai aura vAkai antaraGga kapAya-zani dhanI hai to vAkI tIvra kaSAyI kahiye hai"| "bahuri kahIM jAkI vyakti to kiLU na bhAsai nA bhI mUkSma zakti ke sadbhAvane nAkA nahA~ astitva kahyA / jaise muni ke prabrahma kArya kiTa nAhI nA bhI navama guNasthAna paryanta maithuna majJA khiiN"| 'bahuri karaNAnuyAMga samyagdarzana jJAna cAritrAdika dharma kA nirUpaNa karma prakRnInikA upazamAdika kI apekSA liye mRtma zakti jaisa pAiye naisa guNasthAnAdi virSe nirUpaNa ina uddharaNoM se pAThaka samajha jAya~ge ki karaNAnuyoga meM cAritrAdika kA bhI nirUpaNa rahatA hai| hA~, karaNAnuyogakA jaise dakSiNa ke shaantisaagrjii| -sampAdaka

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( 53 ) vivecana bhAvoM ke anusAra hai aura caraNAnuyoga kA vivecana vAhyakriyA ke anumAra / caraNAnuyoga kA muni va zrAvaka karaNAnuyoga kA mithyAdRSTi ho sakatA hai / bhAvoM ke sudhAra ke liye kriyA hai arthAt karaNAnuyoga ke dharma ke liye caraNAnuyAMga kA dharma hai / vivAha se puruSakI kAma lAlasA anya striyoM se haTa kara eka hI stro meM kendrIbhUta hojAtI hai / isa prakAra icchA kA kendrIbhUta honA kumArI-vivAha se bho hai aura vidhavA vivAha se bhI hai, isaliye karaNAnuyoga kI apekSA kumArI-vivAha aura vidhavAvivAha meM kucha pharka nahIM hai| imaliye kumAga-vivAha aura vidhavAvivAha ke liye judI judI zrAkSAe~ nahIM banAI jAnakatI na banAI gaI hai| agara AkSepaka karaNAnuyoga ke svarUpa ko samajhane kI ceSTA karegA to use acchI taraha yaha bAta samajha meM shraajaaygii| pAkSepa (dha)-vidhavA ke liye prAcAra-zAstra meM spaSTa vaidhavya dIkSA kA vidhAna hai| samAdhAna-isa zrAkSepa kA uttara nambara 'gha' meM diyA gayA hai| isake bAda AkSepaka ne samyaktva bandha kA kAraNa hai yA nahI isa viSaya para anAvazyaka vivecana kiyA hai, jisakA vidhavAvivAhasa koI tAllaka nahIM hai / hA~, yaha bAta hama pahile vistAra se kaha cuke hai ki samyaktvI vidhavA vivAha kara sakatA hai| dUsarA prazna dUsare prazna ke uttara meM koI aisI bAta nahIM hai jisakA uttara pahile prazna ke uttara meM na AgayA ho| isaliye yahA~ para vizeSa na likhA jaaygaa| punarvivAha karane vAlA mamyaktvI

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( 54 ) hone para svarga jA sakatA hai yA nahIM-isa para zrIlAlajI to kahate haiM ki vaha sIdhA naraka nigAMdakA pAtra hai| jabaki vidyA. nanda likhate haiM ki udAsIna vatti rakhane para mvarga jA sakatA haiN| isa taraha dAnoM pApaka eka dUsare ko kATate haiN| donoM AkSepakoMka zrAkSa po para nimna meM vicAra kiyA jAtA hai : prAkSepa ( ka )-punarvivAha karane vAlA mokSa to taba jAya, jaba vaha gaMDa pIchA chor3a / bhAva hI manivrata ke nahIM hote| vidhavAvivAha se saMtAna hogI vaha gaeNDa kA sA~Da phira kisI kA laDaga bnegaa| (zrIlAla) / vidhavAvivAha kI saMtAna mokSa kI adhikAriNI nahIM hai / (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-- gaeNDa, sA~Da, leDaga zrAdi zabdA kA uttara denA vRthA hai / vidhavAvivAha kI santAna mokSa jA sakatI haiN| jaya vyabhicAra jAna sudRSTi mokSa jA sakatA hai, taba aura kI bAta hI kyA hai ? vidhavAvivAha karane ke bAda munivrata dhAraNa kara sakatA hai aura mokSa bhI jA sakatA hai| isameM to vivAda hI nahIM hai| ____ AkSepa ( kha )-punarvivAha karane vAle asacchudra hai / (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna--pahile prazna ke uttara meM isakA samAdhAna kara cuke hai / dekho naM0-(Ga) AkSepa (ga )-sAgAradharmAmRta meM likhA hai ki sva. dAra.saMtApI para-tro kA kabhI grahaNa nahIM krtaa| vidhavA kA parastrItva kisa pramANa se iNttegaa| (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna-isa kA samAdhAna usI sAgAradharmAmRta meM hai| vahA~ likhA hai ki mvadAra saMtoSI parastrI-gamana aura vezyA. gamana nahIM karatA / yahA~ para granthakAra ne kanyA (kumArI) ko bhI parastrI meM zAmila kiyA hai ( kanyAtu bhAvikartRkatvA.

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( 55 ) pitrAdi paratantratvAdvAsanAthetyanyastrI to na viziSyate ) / jaba kanyA bhI parastrI hai aura vivAha dvArA usa kA parastrItva dUra kara diyA jAtA hai taba kanyA ke samAna vidhavA kA bhI para strItva dUra kara diyA jAvegA / athavA jaise vidhura kA parapurutva dUra hotA hai usI prakAra vidhavA kA parastrItva dUra ho jAyagA / qhaira, jaba sAgAradharmAmRta kI bAta cala par3I haiM taba hama bhI kucha likha denA cAhate haiM / vidhavAvivAhavirodhI, apane ajJAna timira ko haTA kara jaga dekheM / lAgAradharmAmRta meM vezyAsevI ko bhI brahmacaryAzuvanI mAnA hai, kyoMki granthakAra ke mana se vezyA, para-strI nahIM hai / unakA kahanA hai ki "yastu svadAgvatsAdhAraNa striyAM'pi vanayitumazaktaH paradArAneva varjayati so'pi brahmAvatISyate" arthAt jo svastrI ke samAna vezyA ko bhI chor3ane meM asamartha hai sirpha parastrI kA hI tyAga karatA hai vaha bhI brahmacaryAvatI hai / isakA matalaba yaha hai ki vezyA, parastrI nahIM hai, kyoMki usakA koI svAmI maujUda nahIM hai / yadi aisI vezyA kA sevana karane vAlA zraNuvratI ho sakatA hai to vidhavAse vivAha karane vAlA kyA aNavatI nahIM ho sakatA ? vezyA, parastrI nahIM hai, kintu vaha pUrNarUpa se svastrI bhI to nahIM hai / parantu jisa vidhavA ke sAtha vivAha kara liyA jAtA hai, vaha tAM pUrNarUpa se svastrI haiN| kAnUna se vezyA svastrI nahIM kahalAtI, jabaki punarvivAhitA svastrI kahalAtI hai| itane para bhI agara vezyAsaMtrI dvitIya zreNI kA zraNutratI kahalA sakatA hai to vivAha karane vAlA prathama zreNI kA ayuvatI kahalA sakatA hai| sAgAradharmAmRta meM jahA~ invarikAgamana ko brahmacaryAzuvrata

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kA aticAra siddha kiyA hai vahA~ likhA hai ki "cAsya bhAryAdinA paraNa kizcitkAla parigRhItAM vezyAM gacchato bhaMgaH katha. cipagdAgtvAtamyA: / lokanu paradAratvArUr3herna bhaMgaH iti bhaMgAbhaMga rUpAnicAra:" | ima vAkya para vicAra kiijiye| jahA~ bhaga hI bhaMga hai vahA~ anAcAra mAnA jAtA hai| jahA~ abhaMga hI hai vahA~ vata mAnA jAtA hai / jahA~ bhaMga aura abhaMga donoM hai vahA~ anibAra mAnA jAtA hai / Upara ke vAkya meM vezyA-saMvana ko bhaMga aura amaGgarUpa mAna kara anicAra siddha kiyA gayA hai| yahA~ dekhanA itanA hI hai ki bhaGga aMza kyA hai aura abhada aMza kyA hai ? aura unameM se konasA aza vidhavAvivAha meM pAyA jAtA hai ? granthakAra kahate haiM ki vezyAsevana meM vana kA bhaGga isaliye hotA hai ki vaha dRmage ke dvArA grahaNa kI jAtI hai| matalaba yaha ki vezyA ke pAsa bahuta meM puruSa jAte haiM aura sabhI paimA de dekara use apanI apanI strI banAte haiM / isaliye vaha parapaggRihonA huI aura usake sevana se vRta kA bhaGga huA / lekina loka meM vaha parastrI nahIM mAnI jAnI ( kyoMki paisA lene para bhI pUrNarUpa se vaha kimI kI strI nahIM banatI) / isaliye uma ke sevana meM vrata kA abhaGga (tA) huzrA / pAThaka dekheM ki vidhavAvivAda meM vana kA prabhaGga (rakSA) hI he, maGga bilakula nahIM hai / loka vyavahAra se kAnUna kI dRSTi se, tathA parastrI sevana meM jo saMkleza hotA hai vaha saMkleza na hone se punarvivAhitA svamtrI hI hai, imaliye isa sevana meM vezyAsevana kI apekSA kaI gaNI vRta. rakSA ( amAMza) hai| sAtha hI cazyA meM to paraparigRhI. tatA hai kintu isa meM nAmamAtra ko bhI paraparigRhItatA nahIM hai / jaba koI manuSya vezyA ke pAsa jAnA hai taba vaha usa kA pUrNa adhikArI nahIM bana sakatA, kyoMki utanA

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( 57 ) adhikAra dUsare puruSoM ko bhI prApta hai / lekina punarvivAhitA ke Upara dRmare kA bilakula adhikAra nahIM rhtaa| isaliye vezyAsevana meM to amana ke sAtha meM bhaGga hai, lekina punarvivAhitA meM abhaGga hI abhaGga hai / isaliye vezyA-sevana ati. cAra hai aura punarvivAha na hai / anAcAra donoM hI nahIM haiN| sAgAradharmAmRta kA yaha kathana vidhavAvivAha kA pUrNa samarthana karatA hai| hama pAThakoM se dRr3hatA ke sAtha kahate haiM ki akele sAgAra. dharmAmRta meM hI kyA, kisI bhI jainagrantha meM-jo ki bhagavAna mahAvIra ke parama pavitra aura uzca siddhAntoM ke anusAra banA ho-vidhavAvivAha kA samarthana hI milegaa| kintu use sama. jhane ke liye viveka aura niHpakSatA kI z2arUrata hai| AkSepa (gha)-candrAbhA apane niMdya kRtya kI jIvana bhara nindA karatI rahI (vidyAnanda ) / jaba usa duSTa kA sAtha chUTa gayA taba zreSThamArga dhAraNa karane se svarga gaI / vaha svecchA se vyabhicAra na karatI thI, kintu usa para madhu balAtkAra karatA thA / (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-madhu ne candrAbhA ke sAtha balAtkAra kiyA thA yA donoM hI isase prasanna the, yaha bAta pradyumnacarita ke nimnalikhita zlokoM se mAlUma ho jAtI hai :cATubhiHsaparihAsabacobhitAM tathA samanunIya sa reme / jAtamamya ca yathA caritArtha yauvanaM va madanA vibhavazca // 7 // 66 // locanAntaka nirIkSaNamantaHkRjitaM ca hasitaM ca ndsyaaH| cumbitaM ca vitutaJca gtazca vyAjahAra suratotsabagagam // 770 // gItanRtyaparihAsyakathAbhirdIrghikAjalavanAnta vihAraiH / tatrato ratisukhAva magnI jazatarna samaya samatItam // 17 // madhu ne candrAmA ko mIThI mIThI aura haMsIlI bAtoM

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se khuza karake ramaNa kiyA jisase usakA yauvana madana aura vibhava saphala ho gayA / candrAbhA kA dekhanA, kilole karanA, haMsanA, cUmA lenA, kAma krIr3A karanA Adi se unakA surato. tsava aMga jamane lgaa| gAnA, nAcanA, ha~sI dillagI karanA, vApikA ke jala meM aura banoM meM bihAra karanA prAdi se ve sukha ke samudra meM magna ho gye| unheM jAtA huprA samaya mAlUma bhI na pdd'aa| pAThaka dekheM ki kyA vaha balAtkAra thA ? khaira, madhu kI bAta AI hai to eka bAta aura suniye| madhu thA to parastrI saMghaka aura usakA yaha pApa vikhyAta bhI ho gayA thA / phira bhI usake yahA~ eka dina vimalavAhana munigaja AhAra lena ke liye bhAye-smaraNa rahe ki isa samayabhI madhu candrAmA ke mAtha rahatA thA to usane muni ko dAna diyaa| prAmukaM nRpatinA vidhipUrva saMyanAya varadAnamadAyi / nena cAntaphalataH sahasaiva citrapazcaka mavApi dugapam // 7 // 65 // gajA madhu ne munigaja ke liye AhAra dAna diyA, jisase turanta hI paMca zrAzcarya hue / pAThaka dekheM ki eka para. mtrIsevI, muni ko AhAra detA hai jisako prAcArya mahArAja varadAna (utkRSTadAna) kahate haiM aura usase turanta paMca-Azcarya bhI hote hai / isase na to muni ko pApa lagatA hai na madhu ko| paJca pAzcarya isakA pramANa hai| itanA hI nahIM, balki usa paramtrIsavI kA anna khAne ke bAda hI vimalavAhana muniko kevala jAna paidA huaa| agara Ajakalake DhoMgI muniyoM ke sAtha aisI. ghaTanA ho jAye to ve durabhimAna ke putale zuddhi ke nAma para anAr3iyA~ taka nikAla nikAla kara dhone kI ceSTA kareMge aura begare dAnAko no naraka nigAMda ke sivAya dUsarI jagaha bhejeMge hI nahIM / svaira, aba bhAge dekhiye / rAjA madhu aura candrAmA

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(56) donoM marakara solahaveM svarga meM deva hue (isa ghaTanA se naraka ke ThekedAra paMDitoko var3A kaSTa hotA hogaa|)| isa para zrAdI. paka kA kahanA hai ki vaha svarga gaI so zreSTha-mArga ke pravalaMbana se gaI', parantu isase itanA to mAlUma hogayA ki parastrIsaMvI ko zreSThamArga avalambana karane kA adhikAra hai-vyabhicAriNI strI bhI sAryikA ke vrata le sakatI hai| usakA yaha kArya dharma: viruddha nahIM hai / anyathA use acyuta-svarga meM devatva kaise prApta hotA? hamAga yaha kahanA nahIM hai ki vivAha karane se hI koI svarga jAtA hai / svarga ke liye to tadanurUpa zreSTha mArga dhAraNa karanA par3egA / hamArA kahanA to yahI hai ki vidhavAvivAha kara lene se zreSTha mArga dhAraNa karane kA adhikAra yA yogyatA nahIM china jAtI / AkSepakoM kA kahanA to yaha hai ki punarvivAha vAlA samyagdRSTi nahIM ho sakatA, parantu madhu ke dRSTAnta se to yaha siddha hogayA ki punarvivAha vAlA to kyA, parastrIsevI bhI samyaktvI hI nahIM, muni taka bana sakatA hai| prazna tIsarA "vidhavAvivAha se niryazca aura narakagatikA baMdha hotA hai yA nahIM" isa nIsare prazna ke uttara meM hamane jo kucha kahA thA usa para zrAkSepakoM ne koI aisI bAta nahIM kahI hai, jisakA uttara diyA jAya ? zrAkSepakoM ne bAra bAra yahI duhAI dI hai ki vidhavAvivAha dharma viruddha hai, vyabhicAra hai, isaliye usa se visaMvAda kuTilatA hai, usase naraka tiryaJcagati kA bandha hai / lekina isa kathanameM anyonyAzraya doSa hai| kyoMki jaba vidhavA. vivAha dharmaviruddha siddha ho taba usase visaMvAdAdi siddha ho /

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jaba visaMvAdAdi siddha ho, naba vaha dharmaviruddha siddha ho / khaira nAmamAtra ke AkSepoM kA uttara denA bhI hama ucita samajhate haiN| AkSepa ( ka )-gajula Adi kI tapazcaryAoM ke dRSTAnta zAstroM meM pAye jAte haiN| agara unheM kAI vivAha kA upadeza detA to unakI unnati meM sandaha thaa| (vidyAnanda) __ mamAdhAna-gajula Adi ke mamAna bAla brahmacAriNI brAhmIdevI, sundarI devI, nIlIvAI Adi ke dRzAnta bhI to zAstroM meM pAye jAte haiN| isaliye kyA yaha nahIM kahA jAsakatA ki agara kumArIvivAha kA upadeza honA to brAhmI zrAdi kI tarakkI kese hotI? agara kumAgIvivAha ke upadeza rahane para bhI bAlabrahmacAriNI mila sakatI haiM to punarvivAha kA upadeza rahane para bhI vaidhavya-dIkSA lene vAlI aura AryikA bana kara ghora tapazcaryA karane vAlI kyoM na mileMgI? AkSepaka ko gajuladevI kI kathAkA pUrA patA hI nahIM hai| jainiyoM kA baccA baccA jAnatA hai ki neminAthake dIkSA lene para rAjula ke mAtA, pitA, sakhiyA~ tathA anya kuTumbiyoM ne unheM kimI dUsare gajakumAra ke sAtha vivAha kara lene ko gvUca hI samajhAyA thaa| phira bhI unana vivAha na kiyA / prAkSapaka ko samajhanA cAhiye ki gajula sarIkhI dRr3hamanasvinI deviyA~ kisI ke upadeza anupadeza kI parvAha nahIM karatIM / agara unheM vivAha karanA hotA to saba loga rokate rahate, phira bhI ve vivAha kara letii| aura unheM vivAha nahIM karanA thA to saba loga Agraha karate rahe phira bhI unane kisI ke kahane kI parvAha nahIM kii| AkSepa (kha)-paMDita loga zreSThamArga kA upadeza dete haiM, imaliye visaMvAdI nahIM haiM / jabarana vyabhicAra kI zikSA dene vAle kucha apaDeTa lIDarma visaMvAdI haiM / (vidyAnanda)

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samAdhAna-zreSTha mArga kA upadeza denA buga nahIM hai. parantu jo usa zreSThamArga kA avalambana nahIM kara sakate unako usase utaranI zreNI ke mArga meM bhI na calane denA matake nAma para matavAlA ho jAnA hai| kyA vidhavAvivAha kA upadeza brahmacaryakA ghAtaka hai ? yadi hA~. no gRhasthadharma kA vidhAna bhI manidharma kA ghAtaka kahalAyagA / pahilI zrAdi pratimAoM kA vidhAna bhI dUmarI prAdi pratimAoM kA ghAtaka kahalAyagA / yadi gRhasthadharma Adi kA upadeza dene vAle, vaJcaka. nAstika, pAkhaMDI, pApopadeSTA, pApa paMtha meM pha~sAne vAle Adi nahIM haiM nA vidhavAvivAha ke pracAraka bhI vaJcaka prAdi nahIM haiN| kyoMki jisa prakAra pUrNa saMyama ke amAva meM avirati se haTAne ke liye gRhasthadharma (vigtAvirata ) kA upadeza hai usI prakAra pUrNa brahmacarya ke abhAva meM, vyabhicAra se dUra rakhane ke liye vidhavAvivAha kA upadeza hai| jaba vidhavA-vivAha zrAgamaviruddha hI nahIMhai taba usameM visaMvAda kaisA ? aura usakA upadeza bhI vyabhicAra kI zikSA kyoM ? vidhavAvivAha ke upadezaka z2abara. dastI Adi kabhI nahIM karate na ye bahiSkAra prAdi kI dhamakiyA~ dete haiN| ye saba pApa to vidhavAvivAha-virodhI paNDitoM ke hI sira para savAra hai| AkSepa (ga)-vidhavAvivAha meM vezyA-sevana kI taraha prArambha bhale hI kama ho, parantu parigraha-mamatva pariNAmakumArI vivAha se asaMkhyAta guNA hai| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna--yadi vidhavAvivAhameM asaMkhyAta guNA mama. tva hai to vidhuravivAha meM bhI asaMkhyAtaguNA mamatva mAnanA pddegaa| kyoMki jisa prakAra vidhavA para yaha doSAropaNa kiyA jAtA hai ki use eka puruSa se santoSa nahIM huA, usI prakAra vidhura ko bhI eka strI se santoSa nahIM huaA isIliye vaha

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( 62 ) bhI doSI kahalAyA / vAstavika bAta to yaha hai ki na vidhura vivAha meM jyAdaH mamanya pariNAma haiM aura na vidhavAvivAha meN| hA~, agara koI strI eka hI samaya meM do pati rakkhe athavA koI puruSa eka hI samaya meM do striyA~ rakhe to mamatva pariNAma (gaga parigati ) z2yAdaH khlaaygaa| agara kisI ne yaha pratikSA lI ki maiM 200 rupaye se jyAdaH na rakkhaMgA aura aba yadi vaha 201) rakkhe to usa kI gagapariNati meM vRddhi mAnI jAyagI / lekina agara vaha 200) meM se eka rupayA kharca kara phira dusarA eka rupayA paidA karake 200 ) karale to yaha nahIM kahA jAyagA ki tU dUsaga nayA rupayA lAyA hai, isaliye terI pratikSA bhaGga ho gaI aura mamatva pariNAma bar3ha gyaa| kisI ne eka ghor3A rakhane kI pratijJA lI, durbhAgya se vaha mara gayA: isaliye usane dusarA ghor3A kharIdA / yahA~ para bhI vaha pratijJA. cyuta yA adhika gagI ( parigrahI ) nahIM kahA jA sktaa| isI prakAra eka pati ke mara jAne para dasaga vivAha karanA, yA eka patnI ke marajAne para dUsaga vivAha karanA adhika gaga ( parigraha ) nahIM kahA jA sktaa| hA~, pati ke yA patnI ke jIvita rahate dUsaga vivAha karanA, avazya hI adhika rAgI honA hai| parantu paNDitoM ke aMdhera nagarI ke nyAyA. nusAra puruSa to eka sAtha haz2Aro striyoM ke rakhane para bhI adhika parigrahI nahIM haiM aura strI, eka pati ke mara jAne para dUsaga vivAha karane se hI, asaMkhyAta guNI parigrahazAlinI haiM ! kaisA adbhuta nyAya hai ? vidhavAvivAha meM prArambha kama hai, parantu isakA kAraNa gugaDo kA tamAzA nahIM hai| tamAze ke liye to jyAdaH prArambha kI z2arUrata hai| vidhavAvivAha tamAzA nahIM hai isaliye prArambha kama hai| asalI bAta to yaha hai ki vidhavAvivAha meM zAmila

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( 63 ) hone vAle puruSa dharmaza, dayAlu, vivekI aura dravya kSetra kAla bhAva ke jJAtA hote haiN| isaliye usameM kisI bhI taraha ke dauMga aura kurUr3hiyoM ko sthAna nahIM miltaa| isIliye usameM prArambha kama honA hai| isa taraha vidhavAvivAhameM vivAharUpatA hai, alpa prArambha hai, adhika parigraha nahIM hai, vezyAsevana jaisA nahIM hai| vezyAsevana yA parastrI-sevana se vidhavAvivAha meM kyA faraka hai, yaha bAta hama pahile patalA cuke haiN| AkSepa (gha )-jaba vidhavAvivAha hone lageMge, taba bar3e bar3e moTe moTe puruSatvahIna puruSoM kI hatyAe~ hogI aura nalAka kA bAjAra garma hogA / (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-AkSepaka ke kathana se mAlUma hotA hai ki samAjameM bahuta se bar3e bar3e moTe moTe puruSa aise haiM jo napusaka hokara bhI strI rakhane kA zauka rakhate haiN| agara yaha bAta saca hai to eka aise kAnUna kI bar3I AvazyaktA hai jisase aise ghaSTa, beImAna, nirlajja aura dhokhebAz2a napuMsako ko Ajanma kAle pAnI kI saz2A dI jA sake, jo napunsaka hote hue bhI eka strI ke jIvana ko barbAda kara dete haiM, usa jIte jI jIvana bhara jalAte haiM-unakA aparAdha to mRtyudaNDa ke lAyaka hai| viSa denA pApa hai, parantu aise pApiyoM ko viSa denA aisA pApa hai jo kSamtavya kahA jAsakatA hai / niHsandeha aise pApI, zrImAnoM meM hI hote haiM / kyoMki pahile to garIbI meM aise napunsaka hote hI nahIM hai| agara koI huprA bhI, to jaba puruSatva hone para bhI garIboM ke vivAha meM kaThinAI hai to puruSatvahIna hone para to vivAha hI kaise hogA ? zrImAn loga to paise ke bala para vivAha karA lete hai| agara ve vivAha na karAve to loga yoho kahane lage ki kyA maiyAsAhiba napusaka haiM ? isaliye ve vivAha karAte haiM aura apane ghara meM darjI, sunAra, lodI

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( 64 ) Adi kisI bhI jAti kA gunDA naukara rakha lete haiM jisasa zrImanIjI kI kAmavAsanA zAnta hotI rahatI hai, tathA una ke to nahIM unake nAma ke bacce paidA hote rahate haiN| aisI hAlata meM viSa dene kI bhI kyA z2arUrata hai ? agara zrImatI jI pativratA nikalI to ye viSa hI kyoM deMgI? vidhavAvivAha hone para talAka kA rivAja calAnA na calAnA apane hAtha meM haiM / zatAbdiyoM se strI jAti ke Upara hama nArakIya atyAcAra karate zrArahe haiN| zrAye dina koTumbika atyAcAroM se striyoM kI prAnmahatyA ke samAcAra milate haiN| unake Upara itane atyAcAra kiye jAte haiM jitane pazuoM para bho nahIM kiye jAte / kasAI ke pAsa jAne vAlI gAya to dasa pandraha minaTa kaTa sahatI hai aura usa samaya use z2yAdA nahIM to cillAne kA adhikAra avazya rahatA hai / lekina nArIrUpI gAyako to jIvanabhara yantraNAe~ sahanA par3atI hai aura use cillAne kA bhI adhikAra nahIM hotA / puruSa to rAta gatabhara raMDI zrIra para striyoM ke yahA~ par3A rahe, varSoM taka apanI patnIkA muMha na dekhe, phirabhI apanI patnIko jIvanabhara gulAma rakhanA cAhe, yaha andhera kabataka calegA? hamAga kahanA to yahI hai ki agara puruSa, apane atyAcAroM kA tyAga nahIM karatA to talAka prathA z2arUra calegI / agara puruSa inakA tyAga karatA hai to talAka prathA na clegii| AkSepa (Ga)-vidhavAvivAha vAloM ko vidhavA kA vivAha karake bhI zaGkA lagI huI hai to pahile se hI vidhavA se kyoM nahIM pUchaliyA jAtA ki terI tRpti kitane manuSyoM se hogI? samAdhAna-hamane kahA thA ki vidhavAvivAha koI pApa nahIM hai| hA~, vidhavAvivAha ke bAda koI dUsarA (hiMsA jhUTha corI kuzIla prAdi ) pApa kare to usa pApa bandha hogA |saa

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to kumArI vivAha ke bAda aura maniveSa lene ke bAda bhI hotA hai / hamAre isa vaktavya ke Upara AkSepaka ne Upara kA (U) behUdA aura aprAsanika AkSepa kiyA hai / khaira, usapara hamAga kahanA hai ki strI to yahI cAhatI hai ki eka ho pati ke sAtha jIvana vyatIta ho jAya / parantu jaba vaha mara jAtA hai to vivaza hokara use dUsare vivAha ke liye taiyAra honA par3atA hai / vivAha ke samaya vaha bicArI kyA batalAe ki kitane puruSoM se tRpti hogI ? vaha to eka hI puruSa cAhatI hai / hA~, yaha prazna to una nirlajoM se pUchA, jo ki eka tarapha to vidhavAvivAha kA virodha karate haiM aura dUsarI tarapha jaba pahilI strIko jalAne ke liye maraghaTa meM jAte haiM to vahIM dUsare vivAha kI carcA karane lagate haiM aura isI taraha cAra cAra pA~ca pA~ca striyA~ haDapa karake kanyAkuraMgI kesarI kI upAdhi prApta karate haiN| athavA una dhRSTayoM se pUchI jo vidhavAvivAhavAloM kA bahiSkAra karane ke liye to bar3A garjana tarjana karate haiM, parantu khuda eka strI ke rakhate hue bhI dUsarI strI kA hAtha pakar3ane meM lajjita nahIM hote / deva ko satAyI huI vicArI vidhavA se kyA pUchate ho ? zarAbiyoM ko bhI mAta karane vAlI ammabhyatA aura kasAiyoM ko bhI mAta karane vAlI karatA ke bala para bicArI vidhavAoM kA hRdaya kyoM jalAte ho| cauthA prazna cauthe prazna ke uttara meM to donoM hI AkSepaka bahuta burga taraha se lar3akhar3Ate haiM / isa prazna ke uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki parastrIsevana, vezyAsevana aura binA vivAha ke patnI banA lenA, ye vyabhicAra kI tIna zreNiyA~ haiN| vidhavAvivAha kisI meM bhI zAmila nahIM ho sktaa| kumArI bhI parastrI hai, lekina

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vivAha se bastrI bana jAtI hai / usI prakAra vidhavA bhI vivAha se svamtrI bana jAtI hai / zrIlAlajI ne vyabhicAra kI upayaka tIna zreNiyA~ svIkAra kI, jaba ki vidyAnanda usa ke viruddha haiN| hara bAna ke uttara meM donoM prAkSepaka yahI kahate haiM ki "vidhavAvivAha dharmaviruddha hai, kanyA kA hI vivAha hotA hai Adi" / ina saba bAtoM kA vRSa vivecana ho cukA hai| AkSepa (ka)-vidhavA kabhI bhI dUsaga pani nahIM karegI jabataka kAmAdhikya na ho / lokalajA zrAdi ko tilAJjalI de jo dUsare pati ko karane meM nahIM hicakatI, vaha usa dUsare kare hue pati meM sanlASa rakkhe, asambhava hai| ataH usakA tImaga cauthA zrIra jAra puruSa bhI honA sambhava hai| ataeva vaha bhI eka prakAra vezyAmaMgama jaisA huA / ( zrIlAla ) / samAdhAna-eka manuSya agara pratidina Adha sera anAja khAtA hai, isa taraha mahIne meM 15 sera anAja khAne para yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA ki yaha bar3A agorI he, pandraha pandraha sera anAja khA jAtA hai / isI prakAra eka strI agara eka samaya meM eka pati rakhatI hai aura usake svargavAsa hone para apanA dUsarA vivAha kara letI hai to use aneka pati vAlI nahI kaha sakate jisase usameM kAmAdhikya mAnA jAve / eka mAtha do pati rakhane meM yA eka sAtha do patnI rakhane meM kAmAdhikya kahA jA sakatA hai / isa dRprise puruSoM meM hI kAmAdhi. kya pAyA jA sakatA hai| dUsarI bAta yaha ki zrAdepaka kAmAdhikya kA artha hI nahIM smjhaa| mAnalIjiye ki eka strI ne yaha pratijJA lI ki mahIne meM sirpha eka dina (Rtu kAla ke bAda ) kAma sevana kA~go / vaha isa pratikSA para dRr3ha rhii| aisI hAlata meM agara vaha vidhavA ho jAye aura phira vivAha karale aura isake bAda

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( 67 ) bhI vaha pUrva pratikSA para dRr3ha rahe to umameM kAmAdhikya ( kAma kI adhikatA ) nahIM kahA jA sakatA / aura dUsarI strI jo madhavA hI banI rahI hai aura pratidina yA do do cAra cAra dina meM kAma sevana karatI hai usameM kAmAdhikya hai| kAma kI adhikatA kAmAdhikya hai, na ki kAma ke sAdhanoM kA privrtn| isaliye pati yA patnIka badala jAne se kAmAdhikya nahIM kahA jA sktaa| lokalajjA ke nAmapara anyAya yA atyAcAra sahanA pApa hai / dharmaviruddha kArya meM lokalajA se DaranA cAhiye, lekina A~kha mUMdakara loka kI bAtoM ko dharmasaMgata mAnanA mUrkhatA hai| jo kAma yahA~ lokalajA kA kAraNa hai vahI anyatra lokalajA kA kAraNa nahIM hai| kahIM kahIM to dharmAnukUla kAma bhI loka. lajA ke kAraNa hojAte haiM jaise, antarjAtIyavivAha, cArasA~ka meM vivAha. striyoM ke dvArA bhagavAna kI pUjA, prakSAla, zUdroMko dharmopadeza denA pardA na karanA, ghastrAbhUSaNoM meM parivartana karanA, nirbhIkatA se bolanA, strIzikSA, atyAcArI zAsaka yA paMca ke viruddha bolanA zrAdi / kisa kisa bAta meM lokalajA kA vicAra kiyA jAyagA ? z2amAnA to aimA guz2ara cukA hai ki jainadharma dhAraNa karane se hI lokanindA hotI thI, digambara veSa dhAraNa karane se nindA hotI thI / to kyA use chor3a denA cAhiye ? aura zrAjakala bhI aise loga par3e hue hai--jinameM AkSepaka kA bhI samAveza hai-jo ki bhagavAna mahAvIra kI jayantI mAnanA bhI nindanIya samajhate haiM / jaba aise dharmAnukUla kAryoM kI nindA karane vAle maujUda haiM taba lokanindA kI kahA~ taka parvAha kI jAya ? isake atirikta dharmaviruddha kArya bhI loka-prazamA ke kAraNa ho jAte haiM yA loka-nindA ke kAraNa nahIM hote| jaise-sIthiyana jAti meM pratyeka puruSa kA pratyeka

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(68) strI para mora pratyeka strI kA pratyeka puruSa para mamAna adhikAra rahatA hai, isase vahA~ saba puruSa apane ko bhAI 2 samajhate haiN| cIna meM bhI phUdhIka rAjatvakAla taka aisA hI niyama thaa| isI taraha prAyaleMgaDa kI kelTika jAti ke bAre meM bhI hai| pheliksa arebiyA meM aura korambA jAti meM bhI aisA hI niyama thA / oNsTreliyA meM vivAha ke pahile mamAgama karanA burA nahIM samajhA jAtA thaa| baibilona meM pratyeka strIko vivAha ke bAda vhInasa ke mandira meM baiThakara kisI aparicita AdamI ke sAtha sahavAsa karanA par3atA thaa| jaba taka vaha aisA na kare, naba taka vaha ghara nahIM jA sakatI thii| armIniyana jAti meM kumArI striyA~ vivAha ke pahile vezyAvRtti taka karatI haiM parantu isameM lokalajjA nahIM samajhI jAtI / prAcIna roma meM vivAha ke pahile yadi koI lar3akI vyabhicAravRtti se paisA paidA nahIM kara pAtI thI to use bahuta lajjita honA par3atA thaa| cipacA jAti meM agara kisI puruSa ko yaha mAlUma ho ki usakI strI kA abhI taka kisI puruSa se samAgama nahIM huzrA to vaha apane ko prabhAgA samajhatA thA aura apanI strI ko isaliye tuccha samajhatA thA ki vaha eka bhI puruSa kA cittA. karSaNa na kara sakI / voTiyAka logoM meM agara kisI kumAge ke pIche navayuvakoM kA dala na cale to usake liye yaha bar3e apamAna kI bAta samajhI jAtI hai| vahA~ para kumArAvasthA meM hI mAtA banajAnA bar3e saubhAgya aura sammAna kI bAta mAnI jAtI hai| isa viSaya meM isI prakAra ke adbhuta niyama ciyave, kemaigmaTa, kakI, kicanaka, reDa inDiyana, cukacI, eskiyo, DakoTA, mauMgolakArena, DoDA, reDa kArena, TehiTiyana, Adi jAniyoM meM tathA isake atirikta kameska Daila,

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( 66 ) alITasa, uttarI eziyA, TahITI, maikaroneziyA, kaieDrona Adi deza aura dvIpoM ke nivAsiyoM meM bhI pAye jAte haiN| isaliye jo loga lokalajA aura lokAcAra kI duhAI dekara kartavyAkartavya kA nirNaya karanA cAhate haiM ve mUrkha haiN| hamAre kUpamaNDUka paNDita bAra bAra cillAyA karate haiM- "kyoMjI, aisA bhI kahIM hotA hai ?" unheM jAnanA cAhiye ki yaha "kahIM" aura 'loka' tumhAre ghara meM hI sImita nahIM haiN| 'kahIM' kA kSetra va loka' bahuta bar3e aura vicitra haiM, aura unheM jAnane ke liye vistRta adhyayana kI z2arUrata hai| lokAcAra, kSetra kAla kI apekSA vividha aura parivartanazIla hai, isaliye usa ko kasoTI banAnA mUrkhatA hai| hama to kahate haiM ki agara vidhavAfaare dharmaviruddha hai to vaha lokalajjA kA viSaya ho yA na ho, vaha tyAgane yogya hai; aura agara vaha dharmaviruddha nahIM hai to logoM ke bakavAda kI cintA na karake use apanAnA cAhiye / dharmAnukUla samAjarakSA aura nyAya ke liye agara lokalajjA kA sAmanA karanA par3e to usako jItanA parigraha-vijaya ke samAna zreyaskara hai / isake bAda punarvivAhitAoM ke viSaya meM zrakSepaka ne jo zabda likhe haiM ve dhRSTatA ke sUtraka haiN| agara punarvivAhitA ke tIsarA cauthA aura jAra puruSa honA bhI sambhava hai to punavivAhita puruSa ke tIsarI cauthI pA~cavIM tathA aneka rakhaila mAzUkAe~ honA sambhava hai| isa taraha punarvivAha karane vAlAAkSepaka ke kathanAnusAra- bha~DuA hai / zrakSepaka kI sambhAvanA kA kucha ThikAnA bhI hai| eka sAtha haz2AroM striyA~ rakhane vAlA puruSa to santoSI mAnA jAya aura punarvivAha karake eka hI puruSa ke sAtha rahane vAlI strI asantuSTa mAnI jAya, yaha AkSepaka ko andhera nagarI kA nyAya hai / pAThaka dekheM ki

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( 70 ) mAkSepaka se jaba vidhavAvivAha ke virodha meM kucha kahate nahIM bana par3A taba usane yaha behUdA bakavAda zurU kara diyA hai| AkSepa ( kha )-vivAha to kanyA kA hotA hai so bhI kanyAdAna pUrvaka / vaha vidhavA na kanyA hai na usakA koI dene vAlA / jisakI thI vaha cala basA..."vaha kisI ke liye vanIyata kara gayA nahIM, aba dene kA adhikArI kauna ? ( zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-ina zrAkSapoM kA samAdhAna prathama prazna ke uttara meM kara cuke haiN| dekho, 'e' 'ai' 'zrI' 'gha' / hamAre vivecana se siddha hai ki strI sampatti nahIM hai / jaba sampatti nahIM hai to usakI vasIyata karane kA adhikAra kise hai / kanyA. dAna bhI anucita hai / yaha jayadastI kA dAna hai; ata kudAna hai| isaliye prAcArya sAmadeva ne kudAnoM kI nindA karane hue likhA hai : hirarAyapazu bhUmInAmkanyAzayyAnnavAsasAm / dAnabahuvidhazcAnyairna pApa mupazAmyati // cA~dI, pazu, z2amIna, kanyA. zayyA, anna, vastra Adi dAnoM se pApa zAnta nahIM hotA / agara vivAha kA lakSaNa kanyAdAna hotA to vaha kudAna meM zAmila kabhI na kiyA jAtA / yaha bAta paNDitoM ke mahAmAnya trivarNAcAra meM bhI pAyI jAtI hai : kanyAhasti suvarNa vAji kapilA dAsI tilAsyandanaM / kSamA gedde pratibaddhamatra dazadhA dAnaM daridrapsitam // northAnte jinazItalasya sutarAmAvizvakAra svayaM / lubdho vastuSu bhUtizarma tanayo-saumuNDazAlAyanaH // kanyA, hAthI, suvarNa, ghor3A, gAya, dAsI, tila, ratha, z2amIna, ye daridroM ko iSTa daza prakAra ke dAna haiM, jina kA,

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( 71 ) zItalanAtha ke tIrtha ke anta meM bhUtizarmA ke putra muNDazAlAyana ne AviSkAra kiyA thaa| isase siddha hai ki kanyAdAna, jainadharma meM nahIM hai| zItalanAtha mvAmI ke pahile kanyAdAna kA rivAja hI nahIM thaa| to kyA usake pahile vivAha na hotA thA ? na to RSabhadeva, bharata, jayakumAra sulocanA Adi kA vivAha na mAnanA pdd'egaa| kanyAdAna ko vivAha mAnane se gAndharva zrAdi vivAha, vivAha na khlaayNge| zrIkRSNa kA rukmaNI ke sAtha jo vivAha huprA thA usameM kanyAdAna kahA~ thA ? kyA vaha vivAha nAjAyaz2a thA ? mmaraNa rahe ki isI vivAha ke phalasvarUpa, rukmaNI jI ke garbha se tadbhavamokSagAmI pradyamna kA janma huzrA thA / khera, isa viSaya meM hama pahile bahuta kucha likha cuke haiM / mukhya bAta yaha hai ki kanyAdAna vivAha kA lakSaNa nahIM hai| AkSepa ( ga )-puruSa bhoktA hai, strI mojya hai| puruSa jaba aneka bhAjyoM ke bhogane kI zakti rakhatA hai taba kyoM nahIM eka bhojya ke abhAva meM dUsare bhojya ko bhaaNge| (zrolAla) samAdhAna-purupa bhoktA hai parantu vaha bhAjya bhI hai| isI prakAra strI bhojya hai parantu vaha bhoktI ( bhogane vAlI) bhI hai| isaliye bhojya-strI ke abhAva meM, puruSa ko adhikAra he ki vaha dUsage bhojya-strI prApta kare; isI prakAra bhojyaparuSa ke prabhAva meM strI ko adhikAra hai ki vaha dUsarA bhojya. paruSa prApta kare / zakti kA vicAra kiyA jAya to paruSa meM jinanI striyoM ko bhogane kI tAkata hai usase bhI jyAdaH puruSoM ko bhogane kI tAkata strI meM hai|| jahAM bhojyabhojaka sambandha hotA hai vahA~ yaha bAta dekhI jAtI hai ki bhoga se bhojaka ko sukhAnubhava hotA hai aura bhojya ko nahIM honA / strI-paruSa ke bhAMga meM to donoM ko

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( 72 ) sukhAnubhava honA hai| isaliye unameM se kisI eka ko bhojya yA kisI eka ko bhojaka nahIM kaha sakate / asala meM donoM hI bhojaka haiN| agara strI ko bhojaka na mAnA jAyagA to striyoM ke liye kuzIla nAma kA pApa hI nahIM rahegA; kyoMki kuzIla karane vAlA (bhojaka) nA puruSa hai na ki strii| isa liye strI kA kyA doSa hai ? hiMsA karane vAlA hiMsaka kahalAtA hai na ki jisakI hiMsA kI jAya vaha / corI karane vAlA cora kahalAtA hai na ki jisakI corI kI jAya vaha / isaliye jo vyabhicAra karane vAlA hogA vahI vyabhicArI kahalAyagA naki jisake sAtha vyabhicAra kiyA jAya vaha / isaliye striyA~ saikar3o puruSoM ke sAtha sambhoga karane para bhI vyabhicAra pApa karane vAlI na kahalAya~gI, kyoMki ve bhojaka ( bhoga karana vAlI) nahIM haiN| agara striyoM ko vyabhicAra kA doSa lagatA hai to kahanA cAhiye ki unameM bhI bhoktRtva hai| bhoktRtva ke lakSaNa para vicAra karane se bhI striyoM meM bhoktRtva mAnanA par3atA hai| dUsarI vastu kI tAkata ko grahaNa karane kI zakti ko bhoktRtva kahate haiM (para dravyavIryAdAna. sAmadhya bhoktRtvlkssnnm-raajvaartik)| strI puruSa ke bhAgama hameM vicAranA cAhiye ki kauna kisakI tAkata grahaNa karatA hai aura kauna apanI zaktiyoM ko jyAdaH barbAda karatA hai| vicAra karate hI hameM mAlUma hogA ki moktRtva strI meM hai na ki puruSa meM, kyoMki sambhoga kArya meM puruSa kI jyAdaH zakti naSTa hotI hai| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki strIke rajako puruSa grahaNa nahIM kara pAtA balki puruSa ke vIrya ko strI grahaNa kara letI hai / rAjavArtika ke lakSaNAnusAra, grahaNa karanA hI bhoktRtva hai| ___ stroko jUMThI thAlIke samAna batalAkara bhojya ThaharAnA anucita hai, kyoMki puruSa ko bhI ganne ke samAna ThaharA kara

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( 73 ) bhojya siddha kara diyA jaaygaa| yadi eka puruSa ke saMgama se strI jUMThI ho jAtI hai to eka strIke saMgama se puruSa bhI jUMThA ho jAtA hai / isaliye agara jUMThI strI ko sevana karane vAlA cAMDAla yA kusA hai to jUThe puruSako sevana karane vAlI cAMDA. lina yA kutiyA hai / agara dUsarI bAta ThIka nahIM to pahilI bAta bhI ThIka nahIM hai| bhojya bhojakake sambandha meM yaha dhyAna meM rakhanA cAhiye ki yaha upabhoga kA prakaraNa hai| bhojana vagairaha to bhoga haiM aura vastra vagairaha upabhoga haiM / strI ke liye puruSa upabhoga sAmagrI hai aura puruSa ke liye strI upabhoga sAmagrI hai / isaliye yahA~ gUMThI thAlI Adi bhoga sAmagrI kA udAharaNa ThIka nahIM ho sakatA hai / upabhoga meM yaha niyama nahIM hai ki eka sAmagrI kA eka hI vyakti upabhoga kre| jisa vistara para eka AdamI so letA hai usI para agara dasaga leTajAve to vaha a~ThA khAnevAlA yA usake samAna na kahalAyegA / paka sAvuna kI baTTI kA cAra prAdamI upayoga kara sakate haiM / isI prakAra kursI, Tebula, palaMga, caukI, moTaragAr3I, relagAr3I, caTAI, sAikila, motI, mANika Adi vastuokA aneka prAdamI upayoga kara sakate haiM, lekina isase koI na~Thana khAne vAle ke samAna nahIM khlaataa| isaliye agara thor3I dera ke liye strI ko bhojya ( upabhoga. sAmagrI) mAna liyA jAya to bhI usake punarvivAha ko ghRNita nahIM kahA jA sktaa| jisa samaya mAtA. apane bacce kI sevA karatI hai, usa samaya mAtA bacce kI upabhoga sAmagrI hai; isaliye kyA mAtA aba dUsare bacce kI sevA nahIM kara sakatI? kyA vaha jUMThI ho gaI ? eka naukara apane mAlika ke hAtha paira Adi dabAtA (saMvAhana karatA) hai to kyA vaha jUMThA hogayA? bhAMga sAmagrI

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aura upabhoga sAmagrImeM bar3A faraka hai, yaha sadA mmaraNa rakhanA cAhiye / upabhoga mAmagrI dusare ke liye ghRNita nahIM hojaatii| hA~, agara ekAdha cIz2a thAr3o bahuta ghRNita kahalAve bhI, to yaha niyama kadApi nahIM gayA jA sakatA ki upabhoga sAmagrI ho jAne se vRNita ho hI gaI / kyoMki paMsA mAnane se kursI naukI zrAdi kA dubAga upayoga karanA bhI ghRNita kahalAne lgegaa| AkSepa (gha)-aimA kahIM na dekhA munA hogA ki eka strI ke zaka purupa ho. jisa prakAra eka purupa ke aneka striyA~ hotI hai: yaha siddhAnta kitanA aTala hai ? (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-pAkSapaka ke siddhAnta kI aTalatA kA tibbata meM-jise prAcInakAlameM triviSTapa yA svarga kahate thedivAlA nikalA huA hai| vahA~ para eka strIka eka sAtha cAra cAra chaH chaH pati hote haiN| aura amerikA, iMgleDa zrAdi dezo meM eka puruSa ko eka se adhika patnI rakhane kA adhikAra nahIM hai| prAkRtika bAta yaha hai ki eka puruSa aura eka strI kA dAmpatya sambandha ho / hA~, agara zaktikA durupayoga karanA ho to eka puruSa aneka strI rakha sakatA hai aura eka strI aneka puruSa rakha sakatI hai| aTala niyama kucha bhI nahIM hai / agara thor3I dera ke liye AkSepaka ko bAta mAnalI jAya ki eka strI eka hI puruSa rakha sakatI hai tAmI usake punarvivAha kA adhi. kAra china nahIM jAtA / eka zrAbhUSaNa eka samaya meM eka hI zrAdamI ke kAma meM zrAmakatA hai| kyA isIliye phira koI usakA upayoga nahIM kara sakatA ? strI to ratna hai / ratna eka samaya meM eka hI zrAdamI kI zobhA bar3hAtA hai, lekina samayAntara meM dUsare ke kAma meM bhI AtA hai / AkSepa( )-eka puruSa aneka striyoM se eka varSa meM

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aneka santAna utpanna kara sakatA hai parantu eka strI, aneka paruSo ko bhI rakhakara eka santAna se adhika paidA nahIM kara sktii| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-yadi aisA hai to striyoM kA punarvivAha turaMta cAlU kara denA cAhiye, bhale hI purupoM kA punarvivAha roka diyA jAya / kyoMki aneka santAna paidA karane ke liye to eka puruSa hI kAphI hai| isaliye bahuta puruSa kumAra yA vidhura raheM to santAna saMkhyA kI dRSTi se koI hAni nahIM hai, kinta strI to eka bhI kumArI yA vidhavA na raha jAnA cAhiye: kyoMki unake vaidhavya yA kaumArya se saMkhyA ghaTa jaaygii| yaha kahA~ kA nyAya hai ki jisakI hameM adhika z2arUrata hai vaha no vyartha par3I rahe aura jisakI thor3I z2arUrata hai usakI z2yAdaH kadara kI jAya / prakRti ne jo strI puruSa ke bIca meM antara utpanna kara diyA hai, usase mAlUma hotA hai ki vidhuravivAha kI apekSA vidhavAvivAha kaI guNA zrAvazyaka hai| AkSepa ( ca )-saba viSaya samAna nahIM huA krte| eka hI sammoga kriyA se strI ko garbhadhAraNa Adi aneka kaSTa sahane par3ate haiM aura puruSa ko kacha nhiiN| ava kahA~ gaye mamAna banAne vAle nyAyanIrtha jI ? ( zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-strI puruSoM meM zArIrika samAnatA nahIM hai isaliye unake adhikAge meM bhI viSamatA honA cAhiye aura usa viSamatA meM puruSoM ko adhika adhikAra milanA cAhiye yaha nahIM kahA jaasktaa| agara koI kahe ki strI paruSa meM zArIrika viSamatA hai, isaliye puruSa ke marane para strI ko bhojana karane kA bhI adhikAra nahIM hai ( use bhUkho raha kara mara jAnA hI ucita hai), to kyA yaha ucita hai ? prakRtiviruddha viSamatA paidA karane kA hameM kyA adhikAra hai ? hA~, agara

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prakRti ne koI aisI viSamatA paidA kI honI jisase punarvivAha kA niSedha mAluma honA to kahane ko guMjAiza thii| agara vidhavA ho jAne se strI kA mAsikadharma ruka jAtA, strItva ke cinha nae ho jAte yA bigar3a jAte to kucha avazya hI strI ke panarvivAha kA adhikAra chInA jaataa| AkSepaka ne jo viSamatA batalAI hai usase to striyoM ko hI vizeSa adhikAra milane cAhiye, kyoMki kartavya aura adhikAra ye eka hI sikke ke do pRSTha ( bAjU) hai| isaliye nyAyocita bAta yaha hai ki jahA~ kartavya adhika hai vAhA~ adhikAra bhI adhika hai santAnotpatti meM striyoM kA jitanA kartavya hai usakA zatAMza kartavya bhI puruSoM kA nahIM hai; isaliye striyoM ko z2yAdaH adhikAra milanA caahiye| mtrI sampatti hai, isake khagaDana ke liye dekho prazna pahilA samAdhAna 'o' / strI yAvajjIva pratikSA karatI hai aura puruSa bhI karatA hai| khulAse ke liye dekhA prazna pahilA samAdhAna e (1-e)| zramara koSa aura dhanaJjayanAmamAlA ke punarbha zabda kA khulAsA 1-ta' meM dekhiye / vivAha pATha prakAra ke haiM; unameM vidhavAvivAha nahIM hai-isakA uttara prAkSapa "1-ja" meM dekhiye| AkSepa (c)--vyabhicAra ko tIna zreNiyA~ ThIka nahIM haiN| rakhaila ke sAtha sambhoga karanA parastrIsevana kI koTi kA ho pApa hai / rakhaila aura vidhavAvivAha meM kucha bheda nahIM hai| parastrIsevana ko vyabhicAra mAna lene se vidhavAvivAha bhI pApa siddha ho gayA: isaliye savyasAcI nigrahasthAna pAtra hai| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-jyabhicAra ko tIna zreNiyA~ zrIlAla jI ne

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( 77 ) mAnI haiM: vidyAnanda nahIM mAnate haiN| khaira, parastrIsevana meM vezyAsevana se adhika pApa hai jabaki rakhaila strI ke sAtha sambhoga vezyAsevana se choTA pApa hai| isakA kAraNa saMkleza kI nyU. natA hai / parastrIsevana meM vezyAsevana kI apekSA isaliye z2yAdA saMklezatA hai ki usameM parastrI ke kuTumbiyoM kA tathA par3osiyoM kA bhaya rahatA hai, aura z2yAdaH mAyAcAra karanA par3atA hai / vezyAsevana meM ye donoM bAteM kama rahatI haiM / khaita strI meM ye donoM bAteM bilakula nahIM rahatI haiM / vyabhicAra ko una donoM dheNiyoM se yaha zreNI bahuta choTI hai, yaha bAta bilakula spaSTa hai| isa tIsarI zreNIko vyabhicAra isaliye kahA hai ki aisI mtrI se paidA hone vAlI santAna apanI santAna nahIM kahalAtI; aura inakA paraspara sambandha samAja kI anumati ke binA hI hotA hai aura samAja kI anumati ke binA hI chUTa jAtA hai / . vidhavAvivAha meM ye doSa bhI nahIM pAye jaate| isase santAna apanI kahalAtI hai| binA samAja ko sammati ke na yaha sambandha hotA hai na TTatA hai| vyabhicAra kA isase koI tAlluka nhiiN| vivAha ke samaya jaise anya kumAriyA~ kanyA (dulahina) kahaH lAtI haiM, usI prakAra vivAha ke samaya vidhavA bhI kanyA kaha. lAtI hai| vyabhicAra kI tIna zreNiyA~ aura vidhavAvivAha kA unase bAhara rahanA itanA spaSTa hai ki vizeSa kahane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai / jaba vidhavAvivAha parastrIsevana nahIM hai naba parastrI. sevanako vyabhicAra mAna lenese vyabhicAra kaise siddha hogayA ? mAkSepaka, yahA~ para anigraha meM nigraha kA prayoga karake svayaM niranuyojyAnuyoga nigrahasthAna meM gira gayA hai| prAkSepa (ja)-jahA~ kanyA aura vara kA vivAhavidhi ke pUrva sambandha ho jAtA hai vaha gAMdharva-vivAha hai| isameM kanyA ke sAtha pravIcAra hotA hai; isaliye vyabhicAra zreNI se halakA

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( 35 ) hai / kuntI kA pArADu ke sAtha pahile gAndharvavivAha ho cukA thA / bAda meM usa adharmadoSa ko dUra karane ke liye nahIM, kiMtu apanI kumArI kanyA kA vivAha karanA mAtA pitA kA dharma hai isa nIti vAkya ko pAlane ke liye unane apanI kamArIkanyA kuntI kA vivAha kiyaa| gAndharva vivAha ke adharma ke doSa ko dUra karane ke liye unheM kuntI kA vivAha nahIM karanA par3A, kintu pAgaDu ko pAtra cunanA par3A / isaliye vivAha vyabhicAra-doSa ko dUra karane kA zravyartha sAdhana nahIM hai| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-AkSepaka ne yahA~ para bar3A vicitra pralApa kiyA hai / hamane kahA thA ki vivAha ke pahile agara kisI kamArI se sambhoga kiyA jAyagA no vyabhicAra kahalAyagA: agara vivAha ke bAda sambhoga kiyA jAyagA to vyabhicAra na kahA jaaygaa| matalaba yaha ki vivAha sa vyabhicAra doSa dUra hotA hai / isa vaktavga kA uttara dhAkSapaka se na banA / isaliye unane kahA ki vivAha ke pahile kisI kamArI ke sAtha saMbhoga karanA vyabhicAra hI nahIM hai| taya to paMDita loga jisa cAhe kumArI lar3akI ke sAtha saMbhoga kara sakate haiM, kyoMki unakI dRSTi meM yaha vyabhicAra nahIM hai| tArIfa yaha hai ki vyabhicAra na mAnane para bhI ise adharma mAnate haiN| vyabhicAra to yaha hai nahIM, bAkI cAra pApoM meM yaha zAmila kiyA nahIM jA sakatA, isaliye aba phonamA adharma kahalAyA ? prAkSepaka ne gAndharvavivAda ke lakSaNa meM bhUla kI hai| pravIcAra karanA vivAha kA anyatama phala hai, na ki vivAha / gAMdharva vivAha meM vara kanyA eka dUsare se pratijJAbaddha hojAte hai, taba pravIcAra hotA hai / vivAha ke pahile pANDu aura kuntI kA jo saMsarga huaA thA vaha vyabhicAra hI thaa| agara vaha vyabhicAra na hotA to usa saMsarga se paidA hone

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( 76 ) vAlI santAna (karNa) chipAkara nadI meM na bahAdI jAtI / hama kaha cuke haiM ki vyabhicAra se jo santAna paidA hotI hai vaha nAjAyaz2a kahalAtI hai aura vivAha se jo santAna paidA hotI hai vaha jAyaz2a kahalAtI hai| karNa nAjAyaz2a santAna the, isaliye ve bahAdiye gaye / aura isIliye pANDu kunto kA prathama saMyoga vyabhicAra kahalAyA na ki gAndharva vivAha / aba hameM dekhanA cAhiye ki vaha konasA kAraNa hai jisase kuntI ke garbha se utpanna karNa to nAjAyaz2a kahalAye, kintu yudhiSThira Adi jAyaz2a kahalAye, arthAt jisa saMsarga sa karNa paidA hue vaha vyabhicAra kahalAyA aura jisase yudhiSThira paMdA hue vaha vya bhicAra na khlaayaa| kAraNa spaSTa hai ki prathama saMsarga ke samaya vivAha nahIM huaA thA aura dvitIya saMsarga ke samaya vivAha ho gayA thA / isase bilakula spaSTa hai ki vivAha se vyabhicAra kA doSa dUra hotA hai / isaliye vivAha ke pahile kisI vidhavA meM saMsaga karanA vyabhicAra hai aura vivAha ke bAda (vidhavAvivAha hone para) saMsarga karanA vyabhicAra nahIM hai| AkSepaka ke kathanAnusAra agara pArADu kuntI kA prathama saMyoga gAndharva-vivAha thA to karNa nAjAyaz2a saMtAna kyoM mAne gaye ? unako chipAne kI koziza kyoM kI gaI ? kRSNa jI ne bhI rukmaNI kA haraNa karake raivataka parvata ke Upara unake sAtha gAndharva vivAha kiyA thA, parantu rukmaNIputra pradyumna to nahIM chipAye gye| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki jaba pANDu kuntIkA gAMdharvavivAha ho gayA thA to unake mAtA pitA ne kuntI kA dUmaga bAra vivAha (punarvivAha) kyoM kiyA ? kyA vivAhitA kA vivAha karanA bhI mAtA pitA kA dharma hai ? aura kyA taba bhI vaha kanyA banI rahI? yadi hA~, to vidhavA kA vivAha karanA

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( 20 ) mAtA pitA yA samAja kA dharma kyoM nahIM ? aura vaha kanyA bhI kyA nahIM? AkSepaka ke hozahavAsa to yahA~ taka bigar3e hue haiM ki eka baccA paidA kara dene ke bAda bhI kuntI ko kumArI kanyA banalA rahe haiN| jaba eka bacce kI mAM kumArI kanyA ho sakatI hai taba becArI vidhavA, kumArI kanyA nahIM, sirpha 'kanyA' kyoM nahIM ho sakatI ? kanyA ke sAtha kumArI vizeSaNa lagA kara AkSepaka ne yaha svIkAra kara liyA hai ki kanyA kumArI bhI hotI hai aura akumArI (vidhavA) bhI hotI hai| AkSepa (jha)-kumArI jaise svastrI banAyI jA sakatI hai usa prakAra vidhavA nahIM banAyI jA sktii| kyoMki kumArI parastrI nahIM hai| Apa kumArI ko parastrI kahane kA sAhasa kyoM kara gaye ? vaha to strI bhI nahIM hai / bhAvI strI hai| samAdhAna--kumArI, strI to avazya hai, kyoMki vaha puruSa athavA napuMsaka nahIM hai / parantu prAkSa paka ne strI zabda kA bhAryA artha kiyA hai / isaliye usI para vicAra kiyA jAtA hai / AcAra zAstroM meM brahmacaryANuvatI ko kumArI ke sAtha sambhoga karane kI manAI hai: isaliye kumArI parastrI hai| apanI strI ke sivAya anya striyoM ko parastrI kahate haiM: isa. liye bhI kumArI parastrI hai| kuntI ko apanI saMtAna chipAnA paDI; isaliye bhI siddha hotA hai ki kumArI paramtrI hai| gaja. niyamoM ke anusAra bhI kamArI parastrI hai| karapanA kara lo, agara pANDu aNuvatI hote to vivAha ke binA kuntI ke sAtha sambhoga karane se unakA aNuvata kyA nae na hotA? jainazAstroM ke anusAra unakA aNuvrata avazya naSTa hotA / lekina vivAha karake agara sambhoga karate to unakA aNuvata naSTa nahIM hotaa| kyA isase yaha nahIM mAlUma hotA ki vivAha ke dvArA parastrI,

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samA ( 1 ) svastrI bana gaI hai| khaira ! agara AkSepaka kI yahI maMzA hai ki kumArIko parastrI na mAnA jAya, kyoMki vartamAna meM vaha kisI kI strI nahIM hai-bhAvI strI hai, to isameM bhI hameM koI aitagaz2a nahIM hai| parantu aisI hAlata meM vidhavA bhI parastrI na kahalA gagI, kyoMki vartamAna meM vaha kisI kI strI nahIM hai / jisakI thI vaha to mara gayA, isaliye vaha to bhUta-strI haiN| isaliye kumArI ke samAna vaha mvamtrI banAI jA sakatI haiN| AkSepa (a)-vivAha kisI apekSA se vyabhicAra ko dUra karane kA kAraNa kahA bhI jA sakatA hai| kintu kahA jA sakatA hai vivAha hI / vidhavA sambandha kI vivAha saMzA hI nhiiN| samAdhAna-zAstroM meM jo vivAha kA lakSaNa kiyA gayA hai vaha vidhavAvivAha meM jAtA hai / yaha bAta hama prathama prazna meM kanyA-zabda kA artha karate samaya likha pAye haiN| loka meM bhI vidhavAvivAha zabda kA pracAra hai, isaliye saMjJA kA prazna nirarthaka haiM / isa AkSepa ko likhane kI z2arUrata hI nahIM thI, parantu yaha isaliye likha diyA hai ki prAkSepaka na yahA~ para vivAha ko vyabhicAra dUra karane kA kAraNa mAna liyA hai / isaliye vidhavAvivAha vyabhicAra nahIM haiN| zrAkSepa (Ta)-vivAha to vyabhicAra kI ora ruja karAne vAlA hai, anyathA bhagavAna mahAvIra ko kyA sUjhI thI jo unhoM ne brahmacaryavrata pAlA ? samAdhAna--vivAha to vyabhicAra kI ora rujU karAne vAlA nahIM hai, anyathA zrIRSabhadeva prAdi tIthaMkaroM ko kyA sUjhI thI jo vivAha karAyA ? sabhI tIthaMkaroM ko kyA sUjhI thI jo brahmacaryANuvrata kA upadeza diyA? prAcAyoM ko kyA sUjhI thI ki purANoM ko vivAha kI ghaTanAoM se bhara diyA aura

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( 2 ) vivAhavidhi ke viSaya meM prakaraNa ke prakaraNa likhe ? vivAha pUrNabrahmacarya kA virodhI hai, brahmacaryANavata kA bAdhaka yA vya. bhicAra kA sAdhaka nahIM hai / agara yaha bAta mAnalI jAya to akelA vidhavAvivAha hI kyA, kumArI vivAha bhI vyabhicAra khlaaygaa| agara vyabhicAra hone para bhI kumArI vivAha vidhaya hai no vidhavAvivAha bhI vidheya hai|| AkSepa / 3)-puruSa isI bhava se mokSa jA sakate haiM. puruSoM ke ucca saMmthAna saMhanana hote haiM, unake zizna mUche hotI hai / striyoM meM ye bAte nahIM haiN| isaliye unheM puruSoM ke samAna punarvivAha kA adhikAra nahIM hai| lakSaNa, prAkRti, svabhAva, zakti ko apekSA bhI mahAn antara he| samAdhAna-Ajakala ke purupa na to mokSa jA sakate haiM, na striyoM se adhika saMhanana rakha sakate haiN| isaliye inheM bhI punarvivAha kA adhikAra nahIM honA cAhiye / saMsthAna to striyoM ke bhI puruSoM ke samAna sabhI ho sakate haiM (dekho gAMmmaTasAra krmkaaNdd)| puruSoM ke zizna mUche hotI hai aura striyoM ke yoni aura stana hote hai / AkSepaka ke samAna koI yaha bhI kaha sakatA hai ki puruSoM ko punarvivAha kA adhikAra nahIM hai, kyoMki unake yoni aura stana nahIM hote| liGga aura bhUche aisI cIz2a nahIM hai jinake Upara punarvivAha kI chApa khudI rahatI ho / davA ke aura tIrthakarAdiko ke mUche nahIM hotI, phira bhI unake adhikAra nahI chinate / dAr3hI ke bAla aura mache no saundarya kI vighAtaka aura utane sthAna kI malInatA kA kAraNa he| unase vizeSAdhikAra milane kA kyA sambandha ? khaira, viSamatA ko lekara striyoM ke adhikAra nahIM chIne jA sakate / saMsAra kA pratyeka vyakti viSama hai| sUkSma viSamatA ko alaga karadeM to sthUla viSamatA bhI bahuta hai| parantu viSamatA

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( 83 ) ke kAraNa adhikAra chInanA anyAya hai / agara yaha niyama banAyA jAya ki jo itanA vidvAna ho use itane vivAha karane kA adhikAra hai aura jo vidvAna nahIM hai use vivAha kA adhikAra nahIM hai, to kyA yaha ThIka hogA ? dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki jisa viSaya kA adhikAra hai usI viSaya kI samatA, viSamatA, yogyatA, ayogyatA kA vicAra karanA cAhiye / kisI ke paira meM coTa A gaI hai to bahuta se bahuta vaha jUtA nahIM pahinegA, parantu vaha kapar3e bhI na pahine, yaha kahA~ kA nyAya hai ? kisI bhI adhikAra ke viSaya meM prAya cAra bAtoM kA vicAra kiyA jAtA hai / yogyatA, zrAvazyaktA, sAmAjika lAbha, svArthatyAga | punarvivAha ke viSaya meM bhI hama inhIM bAtoM para vicAra kareMge / striyoM meM punarvivAha kI yogyatA to hai hI, kyoMki punarvivAha se bhI ve santAna paidA kara sakatI haiN| saMbhogazakti, rajodharma tathA gArhasthyajIvana ke anya kartavya karane kI kSamatA una meM pAI jAtI hai / zrAvazyaktA bhI haiM, kyoMki vidhavA ho jAne para bhI unakI kAmavAsanA jAgrata rahatI hai, jisake sImita karane ke liye vivAha karane kI z2arUrata hai / isI taraha santAna kI icchA bhI rahatI haiM, jisake liye vivAha karanA cAhiye / vaidhavyajIvana bahuta parAzrita, Arthika kaSTa, zoka, cintA aura saMklezamaya tathA nigadhikAra hotA hai, isaliye bhI una ko punarvivAha kI zrAvazyaktA hai / kucha inIginI vidhavAoM ko chor3a kara bAkI vidhavAoM kA jIvana samAja ke liye bhAra sarIkhA hotA hai / vaidhavyajIvana ke bhItara kaida ho jAne se bahuta se puruSoM ko striyA~ nahIM milatIM / isaliye unakA jIvana duHkhamaya yA patita ho jAtA hai| samAja kI saMkhyA ghaTatI hai / vidhavAvivAha se ye samasyAeM adhika zraMzo meM hala ho jAtI hai: isaliye vidhavAvivAda se sAmAjika lAbha

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( 4 ) haiN| svArthatyAga to z2yAdA hai ho, kyoMki striyA~ sevAdharma kA pAlana z2yAdaha karatI haiN| santAnotpatti meM striyoM ko jitanA kapa sahanA par3atA hai, usakA zatAMza bhI puruSoM ko nahIM sahanA pddtaa| vivAha hote hI strI apane pitRgRha kA tyAga kara daMtI hai / matalaba yaha ki he vivAha ke viSaya meM vicAra kIjiye, cAhaM vivAha ke phala ke bAre meM vicAra kIjiye. striyoM kA svArthatyAga puruSoM ke svArthatyAga se kaI guNA jyAdaha hai| striyA meM paruSAM se viSamatA z2arUra hai, parantu vaha viSamatA una bAtoM meM koI truTi upasthita nahIM karatI, jo ki punarvivAha ke adhikAra ke liye Avazyaka hai| balki vaha viSamatA adhikAra bar3hAne vAlI hI hai| kyoki puruSa vidhura ho jAna para no kisI taraha gArhasthyajIvana gaurava ke sAtha bitA sakatA hai, sAtha hI Arthika svAnanya aura suvidhA bhI rakha sakatA he; parantu vidhavA kA to sAmAjika sthAna gira jAtA hai aura usakA Arthika kaSTa bar3ha jAtA hai| isaliya vidhuravivAha kI apekSA vidhavAvivAha kI jyAdaH zrAvazyaktA hai| aura svArthanyAga meM striyA~ jyAdA haiM hI, isaliye vidhuroM ko vivAha kA adhikAra bhale hI na ho, parantu vidhavAoM ko to avazya honA caahiye| AkSepa (Da)-strI paryAya niMdya hai| isaliye upapayAMya ( puruSaparyAya ) prApta karane ke liye tyAga karanA caahiye|| vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-khIparyAya niMdha hai, athavA atyAcArI puruSa samAja ne sahasrAbdiyoM ke atyAcAroM se use niMdya banADAlA hai, isakI mImAMsA hama vicArazIla pAThakoM para chor3a dete haiN| agara mAkSepaka kI bAta mAnalI jAya to puruSoM kI apekSA triyoM ko punarvivAha kI suvidhA yAdaH milanA cAhiye, kyoM.

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(cy) ki puruSoM ko apanI uccatA ke lihAz2a se z2yAdA tyAga karanA cAhiye / munipada zreSTha hai aura zrAvakapada nIcA | aba koI kahe ki muni ucca haiM, isaliye unheM raNDIbAz2I karane kA bhI adhikAra haiM ! gRhastha ko to munipada prApta karanA hai, isaliye use grADIbAz2I na karanA cAhiye ? kyA uccatA ke nAma para muniyoM ko aise adhikAra denA ucita hai ? yadi nahIM, to puruSoM ko bhI uccatA ke nAma para punarvivAha kA adhikAra na rakhanA cAhiye | athavA striyoM kA adhikAra na chInanA cAhiye / isI yukti ke bala para hama yaha bhI kaha sakate haiM ki striyA~ adhika nirbala aura niHsahAya haiM; isaliye striyoM ko puruSoM kI apekSA jyAdaH suvidhA denA cAhiye / AkSepa (Dha) - viSaya-bhogoM kI svacchandatA hara eka ko dedI jAya to vairAgyakA kAraNa bahuta hI kama milA kare / choTo avasthA kI vidhavA kA darzana honA karmavaicitrya kA sUcaka hai, isase udAsInatA zrAtI hai / (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - puruSa to eka sAtha yA krama se haz2AroM striyA~ rakkhe, phira bhI vairAgya ke kAraNoM meM kamI na ho aura strI ke punarvivAha mAtra se vairAgya ke kAraNa bahuta kama raha jAya~yaha to vicitra bAta hai ! kyA saMsAra meM duHkhoM kI kamI hai jo vairAgya utpanna karane ke liye naye duHkha banAye jAte haiM ? kyA aneka taraha kI bImAriyA~ dekhakara vairAgya nahIM ho sakatA ? phira cikitsA kA prabandha kyoM kiyA jAnA hai ? yadi zrAja jainiyoM ke vairAgya ke liye saMsAra ko duHkhI banAne kI z2arUrata hai to jainadharmameM aura AsurIlIlAmeM kyA aMtara raha jAyagA ? yaha to dhyAna kI prakarSatA hai| jinako vairAgya paidA karanA hai unheM, saMsAra vairAgya ke kAraNoM se bharA par3A hai| meghA~ aura bijaliyoM kI kSaNabhaMguratA, dina rAta mRtyu kA daurA, aneka

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( =6 ) taraha kI bImAriyA~ Adi vairAgya kI ora jhukAne vAlI haiM / purANoM meM aise kitane manuSyoM kA ullekha hai jinheM bAlavidha vAoM ko dekhakara vairAgya paidA huA ho ? karmavaicitrya kI sUcanA purAya aura pApa donoM se milatI hai / vidhavA ke dekhane se jahA~ pApa karma kI vicitratA mAlUma hotI hai vahA~ vidhavAvivAha se puNya karma kI vicitratA mAlUma hotI hai / jisa prakAra eka strI mara jAne para puNyodaya se dusarI strI mila jAtI hai, usI prakAra eka puruSa ke mara jAne para bhI puNyodaya se dUsarA puruSa mila jAtA hai| vairAgya ke liye bAlavidhavAoM kI sthiti cAhanA aisI nirdayatA, ka ratA aura rudratA hai ki jisakI upamA nahIM milatI / 2 pA~cavA~ prazna isa prazvA kA sambandha vidhavAvivAha se bahuta kama hai / isa viSaya meM hamane likhA thA ki vezyA aura kuzIlA vidhavA ke mAyAcAra meM antara haiM | kuzIlA vidhavA kA mAyAcAra bahuta hai / hA~, vyaktigata dRSTi se kisI ke antara bhAvoM kA nirNaya honA kaThina hai / isa viSaya meM AkSepakoM ko koI jyAda aitarAz2a nahIM hai, parantu 'virodha to karanA hI cAhiye' yaha soca kara unane virodha kiyA hai I AkSepa (ka) - vezyA, mAyA-mUrti hai / vyabhicAra hI usakA kArya hai / vaha aharniza mAyA-mUrti hai / kintu yaha niyama nahIM hai ki kuzIlA janmabhara kuzIlA rahe / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna yahA~ yaha prazna nahIM hai ki pApa kisakA jyAdA hai ? prazna mAyAcAra kA hai| jo kArya jitanA chupAkara kiyA jAtA hai usameM utanA hI jyAdaH mAyAcAra hai / vezyA isa kArya ko chupAkara nahIM karatI, jabaki kuzIlA ko chupAkara

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( 52 ) 1 karanA par3atA hai / vyabhicAra ke liye nahIM, kintu paisoM ke liye vezyA kRtrima prema karake kisI AdamI ke sAtha mAyAcAra karatI hai jabaki kuzIlA vidhavA apane pApa ko surakSita rakhane ke liye sArI samAja ke sAtha mAyAcAra karatI hai / apane vyabhicAra ko chupAne ke liye aisI nAriyA~ muniyoM kI sevA suzrUSA meM Age Age rahatI haiM, deva pUjA Adi ke kAryoM meM presara banatI haiM, tapa Adi ke DhoMga karatI haiM jisase loga unheM dharmAtmAbAI kaheM aura unakA pApAcAra bhUle raheM / sma rahe ki vyAghra se gomukha vyAghra bhayAnaka hotA hai / vezyA agara vyAghrI hai to kuzIlA gomukhacyAghrI hai / sambhava hai koI strI janmabhara kuzIlA na rhe| parantu yaha bhI sambhava hai ki koI strI janmabhara vezyA na rhe| jaba taka koI kuzIlA yA vezyA hai, tabhI taka usakI zrAtmA kA vicAra karanA hai / AkSepa ( kha ) - prazna meM mAyAcAra kI dRSTi se antara pUchA gayA hai zrataH pApa-kArya kI dRSTi se antara batalAnA prazna ke bAhara kA viSaya hai / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna -- hamane kahA thA ki, "jaba hama vezyA sevana aura parastrIsevana ke pApa meM antara batalA sakate haiM taba donoM ke mAyAcAra meM bhI antara batalA sakate haiN|" isameM anya pApa se mAyAcAra kA patA nahIM lagAyA hai, parantu anya pApa ke samAna mAyAcAra ko bhI apane jJAna kA viSaya batalAyA hai / yaha bhUla to AkSepaka ne svayaM kI hai / unane likhA hai - "vyabhicAra eka pApa-patha hai / usapara jo jitanA zrAge bar3ha gayA vaha utanA hI adhika sarva dRSTi se pApI evaM mahAmAyAvI hai|" pApa ke antara se mAyA kA antara dikhalA kara zrakSepaka svayaM viSaya ke bAhara gaye haiN| AkSepa ( ga ) - savyasAcI ne zrAntarika bhAvoM kA nirNaya

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( == ) kaThina likhA hai phira bhI mAyAcAra kI tulanA kI hai| ye paraspara viruddha bAteM kaisI ? mana kA hAla to mana:paryayajJAnI hI jAna sakate haiM / (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna- mana:paryayajJAnI ko mana kI bAtakA pratyakSa hotA hai lekina parokSa zapti to zrutajJAna se bhI ho sakatI hai| vacana, zrAcaraNa tathA mukhAkRti zrAdi se mAnasika bhAvoM kA anumAna kiyA jAtA hai | zrakSepakane svayaM likhA hai ki "kisa. kA mAyAcAra kisa samaya adhika hai so bhagavAna hI jAneM. parantu vezyA se adhika kabhI kuzIlA kA mAyAcAra yukti pramANa se siddha nahIM hotA / " kyA yaha vAkya likhate samaya AkSepaka ko mana:paryayajJAna thA ? yadi nahIM to bhagavAna ke jJAna kI bAta unane kaise jAnalI ? AkSepa (gha ) - kuzIlA, pativratA ke veSa meM pApa nahIM karatI / jahA~ pati pAnivrata hogA vahA~ to kuzIlabhAva ho hI nahI sakate / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna- zrakSepaka pativratA ke veSa aura pAtivrata ke antara ko bhI na samajha sake / vezyAe~ bhI sotA sAvitrI Adi kA pArTa lekara pativratA kA veSa dhAraNa karatI haiM, parantu kyA ve isI se pativratA hotI haiM ? kyA kuzIlAoM kA koI judA veSa hotA hai ? AkSepa (Ga) - kuzIlA haz2Ara gupta pApa ratI haiM, parantu jina mArga ko dUSita nahIM karatI / isaliye vivAhita vidhavA aura vezyA se kuzIlA kI kakSA U~cI kahI gaI hai| ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna- vivAhitavidhavA aura vezyAse kuzIlA kI kakSA kisa zAstra meM U~cI kahI gaI hai ? z2arA pramANa dIjiye !

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( 6 ) hamane vidhavAvivAha ko dhArmika siddha kara diyA hai, isaliye vivAhita vidhavA jinamArga dUSita karane vAlI nahIM kahI jA sakatI / athavA jaba taka vidhavAvivAha para yaha vAdavivAda cala rahA hai taba taka vidhavAvivAha kI dhArmikatA yA adhArmikatA kI duhAI na denA caahiye| nahIM to anyonyAzraya Adi doSa paayge| isa prAkSepa se yaha bAta acchI taraha siddha hotI hai ki paNDitAU jainadharma ke anusAra koI strI rADI bana jAya yA haz2Ara gupta pApa kare to jinamArga duSita nAhIM hotA aura chinAla banajAya to bhI nahIM hotA. navajAta baccoM ke prANa lene to bhI nahIM hotA, lekina agara vaha kisI eka puruSa ke sAtha dAmpatya bandhana sthApita karale to becAre paMDi. tAU jainadharma kI mauta hI samajhiye / vAstava meM aise jainadharma ko vyabhicAra pantha samajhanA cAhiye / prAkSepa ( ca )-indriyatRpti karane meM hI prasannatA mAnate ho to Apa zokase cArvAka ho jAzrAM! (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-gaNDo banAne ke liye, haz2Age gupta pApa karane ke liye dharmadhurandhara kahalAkara loDebAz2o karane ke liye, mraNahatyA karane ke liye agara koI cArvAka nahIM banatA to vidhavAvivAha ke liye cArvAka banane kI kyA jarUrata hai ? yadi jainadharma meM indriyatRpti ko bilakula sthAna nahIM hai to avirata samyagdRSTi ke liye "No indriyesu vigdA" arthAt 'avirata samyagdRSTi jIva pA~ca indriya ke viSayoM se virakta nahIM hotA' kyoM likhA hai ? jainI loga kAmala bistara para kyoM sote haiM ? svAdiSTa bhojana kyoM karate haiM ? lar3akoM baccoM ke hone para bhI vivAha kyoM karAte haiM ? kyA yaha indriya viSaya nahIM haiM ? athavA kyA aisa saba jainI cArvAka haiM ? puruSa jaba dUsarA vivAha karatA hai to kyA vairAgya kI bhAvanA ke

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( 60 ) liye strI lAtA hai ? yA paNDitoM ke veda vicAra ke anu sAra yoni-pUjA ke liye lAtA hai ? kyA yaha indriya-viSaya nahIM hai ? kyA vidhavAvivAha meM hI ananta indriya-viSaya ekatrita ho gaye haiM? kyA tumhArA jainadharma yahI kahatA hai ki puruSa to manamAne bhoga bhoge, manamAne vivAha kareM, usase vItarAgatA ko dhakkA nahIM laganA, parantu vidhavAvivAha se laga jAtA hai ? isI ko kyA "chor3o chor3o kI dhuna " kahate haiM ? AkSepa (cha) - kuzIlA apane pApoM ko mArga-prema ke kAraNa chipAnI hai | 'vaha bhrUNahatyA karatI hai phira bhI vivAhita vidhavA yA vezyA se acchI hai / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna- - agara mArga-prema hotA to gupta pApa kyoM karatI ? bhraNahatyAe~ kyoM karatI ? kyA inase jinamArga duSita nahIM hotA ? yA ye bhI jainamArga ke zraGga haiM ? cora chipAkara dhana haraNa karatA hai, yaha bhI mArgaprema kahalAyA / aneka dharmadhurandhara lauMDebAz2I karate haiM, parastrI sevana karate haiM. yaha bhI mArgaprema kA hI phala samajhanA cAhiye ! matalaba yaha ki jo manuSya samAja ko jitanA adhika dhokhA dekara pApa kara letA hai vaha utanA hI adhika mArgapremI kahalAyA ! vAhare mArga ! aura bAhare mArgapremI ! vyabhicAriNI strI vezyA kyoM nahIM banajAtI ? isakA uttara yaha hai ki vezyAjIvana sirpha vyabhicAra se hI nahIM zrAjAtA | usake liye aneka kalAe~ cAhiye, jinakA ki durupayoga kiyA jA sake athavA jina kalAoM ke jAla meM aneka zikAra pha~sAe jAsakeM / kucha duHsAhasa bhI cAhiye, kucha nimitta bhI cAhiye, kucha svAvalambana aura nirbhayatA bhI caahiye| jinameM ye bAteM hotI haiM ve vezyAe~ bana hI jAtI hai / Aja jo bhAratavarSa meM lAkhoM vezyAyeM pAI jAtI haiM

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(61 ) unameM se prAdhI se adhika vezyAe~ aisI haiM jo eka samaya kula-vadhue~ thIM / ve samAja ke dharmaDhauMgI narapizAcoM ke dhakke khAkara vezyA banI haiN| vyabhicAriNI strI punarvivAha kyoM nahIM karatI ? isakA kAraNa yaha hai ki punarvivAha to vaha taba kare jaba usameM brahmacaryANuvrata kI bhAvanA ho, jainadharma kA sacA jJAna ho / jo strI naye naye yAra cAhatI ho, use puna. viyAha kaise acchA laga sakatA hai ? athavA vaha taiyAra bhI ho to jina dharmAtmAzrA ne use apanA zikAra banA rakhA he va kaba usakA piMDa chor3eMge ? punarvivAha se to zikAra hI nikala jAyagA / striyoM kI ajJAnatA aura puruSoM kA svArtha hI striyoM ko vidhavAvivAha ke pavitra mArga se haTAkara vyabhicAra kI tarapha le jAtA hai| chaThA prazna kuzIlA bhrUNahatyAkAriNI ko aura kRta kArita anumodanA se usake sahayogiyoM ko pApa-bandha hotA hai yA nahIM ? isake uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki hotA hai aura jo loga vidhavA. vivAha kA virodha karake aisI paristhati paidA karate haiM una ko bhI pApa kA bandha hotA hai| isake uttara meM prAkSapako ne jo yaha likhA hai ki "vidhavAvivAha vyabhicAra hai, usameM akalaMka. deva praNIta lakSaNa nahIM jAtA, Adi" isakA uttara prathama prazna ke uttara meM acchI taraha diyA jA cukA hai| AkSepa (ka)-vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI vyabhicAra ko pApa kahate haiM to pApa karane vAle cAhe striyA~ ho cAhe puruSa, vaha save hI pApI haiN| ( zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-aisI hAlata meM jaba vidhavAvivAha pApa hai to vidhuravivAha bhI honA cAhiye yA donoM hI na honA

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caahiye| kyoMki jaba pApa hai nA 'sarva hI pApI haiM / vyabhicAra meM no zrApa sarva hI pApI batalAve aura pana. vivAha meM vidhuravivAha ko dharma batalAve aura vidhavAvivAha kA pApa, yaha kahA~ kA nyAya hai? AkSepa ( kha )-cora corI karatA hai / gavarnamenTa daNDa detI hai isameM gavarnamenTa kA kyA aparAdha ? (zrIlAla) mamAdhAna-gavarnamenTa ne arthopArjana kA adhikAra nahIM chInA hai| vyApAra se aura naukarI yA bhikSA se manuSya apanA peTa bhara sakatA hai / gavarnamenTa agara arthopArjana ke gaste gaMkada to avazya ho usa corI kA pApa lagegA / vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI, vidhavA ko pati prApta karane ke mArga ke virodhI haiM, isaliye unheM vyabhicAra yA bhrUNahatyA kA pApa avazya lagatA hai| yadi sthitipAlaka loga batalAyeM ki amuka upAya se vidhavA pati prApta karale aura vaha upAya susAdhya ho, phira bhI koI vyabhicAra kare to avazya sthitipAlako ko vaha pApa na lgegaa| parantu jaba ye loga kisI bhI taraha se pati prApta nahIM karane dete to isase siddha hai ki ye loga bhraNahatyA aura vyabhicAra ke poSaka haiN| agara koI sarakAra vyApAra na karane da. naukarI na karane de, bhIkha na mA~gane de aura phira kahe ki"tuma corI bhI mana kage, upavAsa karake hI jIvana nikAla do" to pratyeka zrAdamI kahegA ki yaha sarakAra badamAza hai, isakI manzA corI karAne kI hai| aisI hI badamAza sarakAra ke samAna zrAjakata kI paMcAyate tathA sthitipAlaka loga haiM / isameM itanI bAta aura vicAranA cAhiye ki agara koI sara. kAra cArga kI apekSA vyApAgadi karane meM z2yAda daNDa de to umma sarakAra kI badamAzI bilkula naMgI ho jaaygii| usI prakAra sthitipAlako kI cAlAkI bhI naMgI ho jAtI hai,

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( 63 ) kyoMki ve loga kahate haiM ki vyabhicAra bhale hI karalo, parantu vidhavAvivAha mana kage ! vidhavAvivAha karane ke pahile paMDita udayalAla jI se eka bujurga paNDita jI ne kahA thA ki-"tuma use strI ke rUpa meM yoM hI rakhato, usake sAtha vivAha kyoM karate ho ?" zrApa ke sahayogI vidyAnanda jI ne pA~caveM prazna ke uttara meM likhA hai ki'yadyapi kuzIlA bhra NahatyA karatI hai kintu phira bhI jinamArga se bhaya khAtI hai| usameM svAbhimAna lajA hai| isaliye vaha vidhavAvivAhita yA vezyA se acchI hai"-kyA aba bhI sthitipAlaka loga vyabhicArapopakanA kA kalaMka chipA sakate haiM? usa sarakAra ko kyA kahA jAya jo coge kI prazaMsA karatI hai aura vyApAriyoM kI nindA ? AkSepa ( ga )-yadi kisI ko strI nahIM milatI to kyA dayA dharma ke nAma para dUsare de deM ? vidhavAvivAha ke pracAra ho jAne para bhI sabhI puruSoM ko striyA~ na mila jAya~go to kyA strI vAle loga eka eka ghaNTe ko striyA~ de deNge| mamAdhAna-sudhArakoM ke dharmAnusAra striyoM kA denA lenA nahIM bana sakatA, kyoMki striyA~ sampatti nahIM haiN| hA~, sthitipAlaka paNDitoM ke matAnusAra ghaTe do ghaMTe yA mahInoM varSoM ke liye strI dI jAsakatI hai, kyoMki unake matAnusAra vaha dene lene kI vastu hai, bhojya hai, sampatti hai / puruSa kI icchA ke anusAra nAcane ke sivAya usakA koI vyaktitva nahIM hai| khaira, logoM kA yaha kartavya nahIM hai ki ve striyA~ dedeM. parantu unakA itanA kartavya avazya hai ki koI puruSa strI prApta karatA ho yA koI strI pani prApta karatI ho to unake mArga meM ror3e na aTakAve / yaha kahanA ki "vidhavA apane bhAgyodaya se patihIna huI; koI kyA kare" mUrkhanA aura pakSapAta hai / bhAgyo.

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daya se to vidhura bhI banatA hai aura sabhI vipattiyA~ pAtI haiN| unakA ilAja kiyA jAtA hai / vidhura kA dUsarA vivAha kiyA jAtA hai| isI taraha vidhavA kA bhI karanA cAhiye / isakA uttara hama pahale bhI vistAra se de cuke haiM / "puruSatvahIna puruSoM kI sikAreM hogI" isa zrAkSepa ke samAdhAna ke liye dekho "3 gh"| AkSepa ( gha)-vidhavAvivAha ke virodhiyoM ko pApiyoM kI kakSA meM kisa pAgama yuktitarka ke AdhAra para Apane ghasITa liyA ? (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-isakA uttara Upara ke (kha) nambara meM hai| usase siddha hai ki kArita aura anumodana ke sambandha se vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI bhrUNa hatyAre haiN| AkSepa (Ga)--paNDita loga pAgama kA avarNavAda nahIM karanA cAhate / ve to kahate haiM ki paraloka kI bhI sudha liyA kraa| samAdhAna-jina pagiDatoM ke viSaya meM yaha bAta kahI jArahI hai, ghevacAre ajJAnatamasAvRta jIva Agama ko samajhate hI nahIM 1 ve to rUr3hiyoM ko hI dharma yA pAgama samajhate haiM aura rUr3hiyoM ke bhaMDAphor3a ko zrAgama kA pravarNavAda / paraloka kI sudha dilAne kI bAta to vicitra hai| jo loga khuda to cAra 2 pA~ca pAMca aurateM haz2ama kara jAte haiM aura bAlavidhavAoM se kahate hai ki paraloka kI sudha liyA karo ! una dhRSToM se kyA kahA jAya ? jo 'buda to hU~sa DhUMsa kara khAte ho aura dUsaroM se kahate ho ki "bhagavAn kA nAma lo ? isa zarIra ke popane meM kyA rakkhA hai ? yaha to pudgala hai"---unakI dhRSTatA pradarzanI kI vastu hai / ve ima dhRSTatA se upadeza nahIM dete, Adeza karate hai, z2abardastI dasage kA bhUkhoM rakhate haiM / kyA yaha paraloka kI

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( 5 ) sudha striyoM ke liye hI hai ? mardo ke liye nahIM ? phira jainadharma z2abardastI tyAga karAne kI bAta kahA~ kahatA hai ? usakA to kahanA hai ki "jyoM jyoM upazamata kssaayaa| tyo tyo tina tyAga btaayaa|" AkSepa (ca)-paNDitoM ke kaThoratApUrNa zAsana aura pakSapAtapUrNa upadezoM ke kAraNa striyA~ bhraNahatyA nahIM karatI, parantu jo unake upadeza se nikala bhAgatI haiM ve vyabhicAri. NiyA~ hI yaha pApa karatI haiN| mamAdhAna-isa bAta ke nirNaya ke liye eka dRSTAnta rakhanA cAhiye / cAra vidhavAe~ haiM / do sudhAraka aura do sthitipAlaka / eka sudhAraka aura eka sthitipAlaka vidhavA to pUrNa brahmacarya pAla sakatI hai aura bAkI kI eka eka nahIM pAla sakatI / pahilI se mudhAraka kahate haiM ki 'bahina! agara tuma pavitratA ke sAtha brahmacarya pAlana karane ko taiyAra ho to eka brahmacArIke samAna hama ApakI pUjA karate haiM aura agara tuma nahIM pAla sakatI ho to AjJA do ki hama aApake vivAha kA Ayojana kara deN|" vaha bahina kahatI hai ki abhI meM brahma caya pAlana kara sakatI hU~, isalie apanA punarvivAha nahIM caahtii| jaba maiM apane manako vaza meM na rakha sakegI to punavivAha kA vicAra pragaTa kara duuNgii| dUsarI bahinase yahI bAta kahI jAtI hai to vaha vivAha ke liye taiyAra ho jAtI hai aura usakA vivAha kara diyA jAtA hai| usake vivAha ko paNDita loga ThIka nahIM samajhate-sudhAraka ThIka samajhate hai / parantu jaba vaha bahina vivAha karA letI hai to use saMtAna ko chipAne kI koI z2arUrata nahIM raha jAtI jisase vaha bhraNahatyA kareM / isa taraha sudhAraka pakSa meM no donoM taraha kI vidhavAoM kA pUrNa nirvAha hai| aba sthitipAlako meM dekhiye ! unakA kahanA

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( 66 ) he ki 'vidhavA-vivAha ghora pApa hai, kyoMki striyA~ jU~ThI thAlI ke samAna hai| aba ve kisI ke kAma kI nhiiN'| donoM bahinoM ko yaha apamAna cupacApa sahalenA paDatA hai, jisa meM pahilo bahina to brahmacarya se jIvana bitAtI hai aura dUsarI vaidhavyakA DhoMga karatI haiN| usakI vAsanAe~ pragaTa na ho jAyeM, isaliye vaha vidhavA-vivAda vAloko gAliyA~ detI haiN| isaliye paMDita loga usakI bar3I prazaMsA karate haiM / parantu vaha becArI apanI vAsanAoM ko damana nahIM kara pAtI, isaliye vyabhicAra ke mArga meM calI jAtI hai / phira garbha raha jAtA hai / aba vaha socatI haiM ki vidhavAvivAhavAloM ko maiMne Aja taka gAliyA~ dI haiM, isaliye jaba mere baccA paidA hogA to koI kyA kahegA ? isa liye vaha garbha girAne kI ceSTA karatI hai / gira jAtA hai to ThIka, nahIM giratA hai to vaha paidA hote hI bacceko mAraDAlatI hai / vaha bIca bIca meM punarvivAha kA vicAra karatI haiM, lekina paNDitoM kA yaha vaktavya yAda zrAjAtA hai ki "vidhavAvivAha seto jinamArga dUSita hotA hai lekina vyabhicAra yA bhrUNahatyA meM jinamArga dUSita nahIM hotA", isaliye vaha vyabhicAra aura bhrUNahatyA kI tarapha jhuka jAtI haiM / sudhAraka bahina ko to aisA maukA hI nahIM hai jisase use apanA dAmpatya chipAnA par3he aura bhrUNahatyA karanA par3e / usake agara santAna paidA hogI to vaha harSa manAyagI jabaki sthitipAlaka bahina hAya 2 karegI aura usakI hatyA karane kI tarakIba socegii| isase pAThaka samajha sakate haiM ki hatyAga mArga kauna hai aura dayA kA mArga kauna hai ? hama yahA~ eka hI bAta rakhate haiM ki koI strI vidhavAvivAha aura gupta vyabhicAra meM se kisa mArga kA avalambana karanA cAhatI hai / sudhAraka loga vidhavAvivAha kI salAha

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( 7) dete haiN| aba pariDatA se hama pUchate haiM ki unakI kyA salAha hai ? agara ve gupta vyabhicAra kI malAha dete hai, to usake bhItara bhraNa hatyA kI salAha bhI zAmila hai kyoMki bhraNahatyA na karane para vyabhicAra gupta na raha skegaa| isaliye isa salAha se pariDatoM ko bhraNahatyA kA doSI honA hI pdd'egaa| agara va vidhavAvivAha kI salAha dete hai to bhrUNa hatyA ke pApa se baca sakate hai| yadi ve ima pApa se bacanA cAhate hai to unheM vidhavAvivAha ko vyabhicAra aura bhraNa hatyA se bhI burA kahane kI bAna prAyazcitta ke sAtha vApisa lenA cAhiye / aisI hAlata meM ye paNDita sudhArako se juda nahIM raha sakate / kyoMki sudhAraka loga bhI vyabhicAra Adi kI apekSA vidhavAvivAha ko bAcchA samajhate haiM, pUrNabrahmacarya se vidhavAvivAha ko acchA nahIM samajhate / isa vaktavya se siddha ho jAtA hai ki paNDita loga bhraNa hatyA zrAdi kA pracAra bullamakhullA bhale hI na karate ho parantu unake siddhAnta hI pase hai ki jisase bhraNahatyA kA samarthana to hotA hI hai sAtha hI usako uttejana bhI milatA hai| aura yaha pApa vidhavAvivAha karane vAlI bahinoM ko nahIM karanA paDatA, balki unheM karanA par3atA hai jo pagiDatoM ke kathanAnusAra vidhavAvivAha kA gAliyA~ detI haiM yA usase dUra rahatI haiN| AkSepa (cha)-zrApa lignate hai ki sthitipAlakA meM sabhI bhraNa hatyA pasanda nahIM karane parantu phIsadI navaM karate hai / isa parampara virodhI vAkya kA kyA matalaba? samAdhAna-ima prAkSapa meM prAkSapaka ne apane bhASAvijJAna kA hI nahIM, bhASAzAna kA bhI divAlA nikAla diyA hai| pUNAMza ke niSadha meM alpAMza kI vidhi bhI inheM parampara viruddha mAlUma hotI hai| agara koI kahe ki mere pAsa puga rupayA to nahIM hai, caudaha zrAne haiN| to bhI AkSepaka yahI

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( 1 ) kaheMge ki jaba tumane rupaye kA niSedha kara diyA to caudaha pAna kI vidhi kyoM karate ho ? kyoMki caudaha prAne nA rupaye ke monara ho hai| yaha vigadha nahI. vigadha pradarzana ko bomAge hai| eka ke hAna para do nahIM hai' (kamattve'pi dvayaM nAsti) ke samAna dA na hAne para eka kA bAta bhI parampara viruddha nahIM hai| kheda hai ki AkSepa kA itanA sA bhI bhASAjJAna nahIM hai| AkSepa ( ja )-machalI kI apekSA bakaga grAhya he yA bakaga kI apekSA machalI ? siddhAnna me dAnoM hI nhiiN| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-vidhavAvivAha aura bhra gahatyA ina dAnoM meM mamAnatA nahIM hai kintu nara tamatA hai| bhora mI taratamatA hai jaisI ki vidhavivAha zrAra narahatyA meM hai| imaliye machalo aura bakare kA dRSTAnta viSama hai| jahA~ nagnamanA nahIM vahA~ cunAva nahIM ho sakatA / trAhimA aura sthAvara hisA. aNuH vrata aura mahAvana ke mamAna vyabhicAra aura vizvAvivAha meM cunAva ho sakatA hai jemA ki vidhuravivAha aura vyabhicAra meM hotA hai| prAkSapa (jha)-cANakya ne kahA hai ki gajA aura pagiData eka hI bAra bAlate hai kanyA eka hI bAra dI jAnI he / (vidyAnanda / mamAdhAna-hamane vidhavAvivAha ko nyAyocita kahA hai| umakA virodha karane ke liye Upara kA nInivAzya uddhata kiyA gayA hai| prAkSepaka ne bhUla se nyAya aura nIti kA eka ho artha samajha liyA hai| asala meM nIti zabda ke, nyAya se anirikta tIna artha hai / (1) kAnUna, (2) cAla, Dhaga, paoNlisI, (3) gaini vigaja / ye tInoM hI bAte nyAya ke viruddha bhI ho sakatI hai| dakSiNa ke eka gajya meM aisA kAnUna

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(66 ) hai ki laDakA bApa kI sampatti kA mAlika nahIM hotaa| yaha kAnUna hai parantu nyAya nahIM / prajA meM phUTa DAlakara manamAnA zAsana karane kI pAlisI, nIti hai, parantu yaha nyAya nahIM hai| isI taraha milajula kara paJcoM meM gahiya, prANa A~ya sA~cI nahIM kahiya'' kI nIti hai parantu yaha nyAya nahIM hai| yogapa meM Dayala kA rivAja thA aura kahIM kahIM aba bhI hai, parantu yaha nyAya nahIM kahA jA sakatA, jyoki isameM sabala kA ho nyAya kahalAtA hai| jisakI lAThI usakI bhesa' yaha bhI eka nIti he parantu nyAya nahIM / imaliya nItivAkya kA uddharaNa dekara nyAyAcitatA kA virodha karanA vyartha hai| dumaga bAta yaha hai ki cANakya ne khuda striyoM ke punavivAha ke kAnUna banAye hai jinakA ullekha 27 ve prazna meM kiyA gayA thA / isa lakha meM bhI Age kiyA jAyagA / yahA~ sipha eka vAkya uddhata kiyA jAtA hai-'kuTumbaddhilApa vA sukhAvasthaivimuktA yatheSTa vindena jIvitArtham' / arthAt kuTumba kI sampatti kA nAza hone para athavA samRddha bandhubA~dhavA sa chAr3e jAne para koI strI, jIvananirvAha ke liya apanI icchA ke anusAra anya vivAha kara sakatI hai| cANakyanIti kA ullekha karane vAlA z2arA ima vAkya para bhI vicAra kare / sAtha hI yaha bhI khyAla meM rakkha ki aise aise darjanoM vAkya cANa. kya ne likhe hai| jaba hama donoM vAkyoM kA mamanyaya karate hai taba cANakyanIti ke zloka se punarvivAha kA z2arA bhI virodha nahIM hotaa| usa zloka saM itanA hI mAlUma hotA hai ki bApa ko cAhiye ki vaha apanI putrI eka hI bAra deva / vidhavA hone para yA kuTumbiyoM ke nAza hone para dene kI z2arUrata nahIM hai / usa samaya taka use itanA anubhava ho jAtA hai ki vaha svayaM apanA punarvivAha kara sakatI hai| isaliye pitA ko

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(100) phira kombika adhikAra na banAnA caahiye| agara cANakyanIti ke usa vAkya kA yaha artha na honA nA cANakya ke anya vAkyoM ma mamanvaya hI na ho pAtA / prAkSepa (ba)-prApane kahA ki 'agara hama gkhUba mvAdiSTa bhojana kareM aura damaga ko eka Tukar3A bhI na khAne deM to unheM mvAda ke liya nahI no kSudhAzAMti ke liye corI karanI hI pdd'egii| aura imakA pApa hameM bhI lagegA / isI taraha bhraNa hatyA kA pApa vidhavAvivAha ke vigadhiyoM ko lagatA hai parantu kIna kimma ko kyA nahIM khAne denA? kAnikayAnu prakSA meM likhA hai ki 'upakAra tathA apakAra zubhAzubha karma hI kare hai| (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna-upakAra apakAra nA karma karate hai parantu voM kA udaya nAkarmoM ke binA nahIM thAnA / bAhyanimittoM ko nAkarma kahate hai (dakhA mAmmaTa sAra karmakAgaDa ) / azubha kamo ka nokarma bananA pApa hai| pazu to apane kamodaya ma mAga jAtA hai parantu karmAdaya ke nokarma kamAI kA pApa kA bandha hotA hai yA nahIM ? vidhavA ko pApakarma ke udaya ma pani nahIM milatA, parantu jo lAga pani nahIM milane deta va nA umI kamAI ke samAna usa pApa karma ke nAkarma hai| yadi kAkigAnuprekSA kA aisA hI upayoga kiyA jAya no paNDita loga guTTa bA~dha kara DAkA DAlanA, striyA ke mAtha balAtkAra karanA zrAdi kA zrIgaNeza karade aura jaba kAI pache ki emA kyA karate ho ? to kaha deM-"hamane kyA kiyA ? upakAra tathA apakAra nAM zubhAzubha karma hI kare he'| isa taraha se rAjadaNDa Adi kI bhI kAI z2arUrata nahIM rahegI kyoMki "upakAra apakAra zubhAzubha karma hI kare hai" / gvaira mAhiba aisA hI mhii| naca tA jisa vidhavA kA karmodaya AyagA usakA punarvivAha

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ho jaaygaa| na AyagA na ho jaaygaa| isameM usa dampati ko tathA sudhArako ko komane kI kyA z2arUrata ? kyoMki yaha maba no "zubhAzubha karma hI kare hai"| cAha re ! 'kare haiN| AkSepa (2)-karma kI vicitratA hI tA vairAgya kA kAraNa hai| una cuvAnoM para narama AtA hai isaliye hama unheM zAnti se ima karmakRna vidhiviDambanA ko mahalane kA upadeza dete haiN|" ( vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-jI hA~, aura jaba yaha vidhiviDambanA upa. dezadAtAoM ke sira para AtI hai natra va svayaM kAmadeva ke Age naMge nAcate haiM, maraghaTa meM hI naye vivAha kI bAtacIta karate haiM ! yaha vidhiviDambanA mirpha striyoM ko sahanA caahiye| na mahI jAya no gupta pApa karake Upara se mahane kA DhoMga karanA cAhiye / parantu puruSoM ko isake mahane kI jarUrata nahIM / kyoMki dharma puruSoM ke liye nahIM hai / ve to pApa me bhI mukti prApta kara sakate haiM / athavA yahA~ kI Adata ke anusAra mukti kA jhoTA pakar3a kara use vaza meM kara sakate haiN| unheM pApa puNya ke vicAra kI z2arUrata kyA hai ? / vairAgya ke lie karmavicitratA kI jarUrata hai| isaliye Avazyaka hai ki maikar3oM manuSya bhUkhoM mAre jA~ya, garama kar3AhoM meM pakAe jA~ya, bImAga kI cikitsA banda kara dI jAya / isa se asurakumAroM ke pravanAra pagiDanoM ko aura pazcoM ko vairAgya paidA hogaa| acchA ho, ye loga eka kamAIkhAnA khola de jisa meM kamAI kA kAma ye svayaM kareM / jaba inakI churI khAkara becAre dIna pazu cillAyeMge aura tar3apeMge, taba avazya hI unake khUna meM se vairAgya kA sattva khIMcA jaaskNgaa| agara kisI jagaha vidhavAoM kI kamI ho to puruSoM kI hatyA karake vidhavAe~ paidA kI jA~ya / kyoMki unake karuNa krandana aura

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( 102 ) A~suoM meM se vairAgya kA dohana bahuta acchA hotA hai| yaha vairAgya na mAlUma kaisA aDiyala TaTTU hai ki zrAtA hI nahIM hai ! idhara jainasamAja meM muphtakhoroM kI itanI kamI hai aura jaina samAja ke pAsa itanA dhana hai ki sunA hI nahIM ki kise khilAyeM yA kaise kharca kareM ! sAtavA~ prazna isameM pUchA gayA thA ki Ajakala kitanI vidhavAeM pUrNa pavitratA ke sAtha vaidhavya pAlana kara sakatI haiM / isakA uttara hamane diyA thA ki vRddha vidhavAoM ko chor3akara bAkI vidhavAoM meM se kI sahI pA~ca / yahA~ pUrNapavitratA ke sAtha vaidhavya pAlane kI bAta hai| gaM dhokara vairAgya pAlana karane vAlI to AdhI yA AdhI se bhI kucha jyAdA nikala sakatI hai / zrAkSepakoM ne uttara kA matalaba na samajhakara bakavAda zuru kara diyaa| zrIlAla jI hamase pUchate haiM ki . AkSepaka - Apa ko vyabhicAriNiyoM kA jJAna kahA~ se huA ? kyA vyabhicAriyoM kA koI aDDA hai jo qhabara detA hai yA gavarnamerA riporTa nikalatI hai ? samAdhAna -- mAlUma hotA hai AkSepaka bhUgarbha meM sabilakula tAz2e nikale haiN| anyathA Apa kisI bhI zahara ke kisI bhI mohalle meM cale jAiye aura z2aga bhI gaura se jA~ca kIjiye, ApakI buddhi Apako riporTa dedegii| isa riporTa kI jA~ca kA hamane eka acchA tarIkA batalAyA thA-vidhurge kI jA~ca / striyoM meM kAma kI adhikatA batalAI jAtI hai / agara hama samAnatA hI mAnale to vidhuroM kI kamaz2AriyoM se hama vidha vAoM kI kamaz2oriyoM kA ThIka anumAna kara sakate haiM / vRddha vidhuroM ko chor3akara aise kitane vidhura haiM jo punarvivAha kI

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( 103) koziza na karate ho ? kisI prAnta meM yA zahara meM jA~ca karatI jAya to mAlUma hogA ki cAlIsa paiMtAlisa varSa se kama umara meM vidhura hokara apane punarvivAha kI koziza na karane vAle vidhura fo madI pA~ca se bhI kama hai| jahA~ para vidhuravivAha ke samAna vidhavAvivAha kA bhI pUrNa pracAra hai vahA~ ko riporTa meM bhI isa bAta kA samarthana hogaa| kyA aisI spaSTa jA~ca ko dhRSTatA kahate hai ? ima vaktavya se vidyAnandajI ke zrAkSepI kA bhI uttara ho jAtA hai / hA~ ! unake bahana se AkSepa prakaraNa ke bAhara hAgaye haiM, parantu unakA bhI uttara diyA jAtA hai jisasa kahane ko bhI gujAiza na raha jAve / __ AkSepa ( gva )-kyA prabhavya meM mokSa jAne kI nAkasa nahIM hai ? tA kavala jJAnAvaraNa kA madbhAva kaisa ghaTita hogA? rAjavArtika dakhiyaM ! (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-AkSepaka ne gajavArtika gaura se nahIM dekhaa| gajavArnika meM likhA hai ki dravyArthikanaya se nA abhavya meM valajJAnAdi kI zakti hai, parantu paryAyAthikanaya se nahIM hai| isaliye dravyAthikanaya se nA striyA meM vaidhavya pAlana kI no kyA, kaMvalajJAnAdika kI bhI zakti khlaayii| aisI hAlata meM to prazna kI kAI z2arUrata hI nahIM rhtii| aura jaba prazna kiyA gayA hai nA siddha hai ki paryAyArthi kanaya kI apekSA hai, aura usa naya se abhavya meM muktiyogyatA nahIM hai / z2arA rAjavArtika ke isa vAkya para bhI vicAra kaM jiye-"samyakvAdiparyAyavyaniyAMgAhoM yaH sa bhavyaH tadviparItA'bhavyaH" arthAt jisameM samyaktvAdi ko pragaTa karane kI yogyatA ho use bhavya kahate haiM; usase viparIta kA abhavya / matalaba yaha hai ki prakaTa karane kI zakti prazakti kI apekSA se bhavya abha

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(104 ) vya kA bheda hai| hamane mokSa jAne taka kI bAta kahI hai, zakti rUpa meM maujUda rahane kI nahIM / khera. yahA~ ima carcA me kucha matalaba nahIM hai| agara AkSepaka ko isa viSaya kI vizeSajJatA kA abhimAna hai to ve svatantra carcA kreN| hama unakA samA. dhAna kara deNge| AkSepa ( ga )-aAjakala bhI strIjAti ko paMcama guNa sthAna ho sakatA hai aura puruSoM ko saptama guNasthAna / isaliye avasthA kA bahAnA banAnA adhamatA meM bhI adhama hai| samAdhAna-guNasthAnoM kI carcA uThAkara AkSepaka ne apane paiga para zrApa hI kulhAr3I mArI hai| kyA zrApaka ne vicAra kiyA hai ki manuSyA meM pazcama guNasthAna ke manuSya kitane haiM ? kula manuSya 26 aGka pramANa he aura paJcama guNamthAnavAle manuSyoM kI saMkhyA 6 aGkapramANa / bIsa aGka jyAdA hai / 16 aGka ke dama mahAna hai bIsa aGka ka. 100 saGkha hue| arthAt pA~cave guNasthAna ke manuSyoM se kula manuSya so saGka guNa hai / so saGkha manuSyoM meM eka manuSya paJcama guNasthAnavartI hai / isa carcA se to sau meM pA~ca to kyA eka yA prAdhA bhI nahIM baiThanA ! phira samajha meM nahIM AtA ki pA~ca guNasthAna meM jIva hone se durAcAriyoM kA niSedha kaisa ho gayA ? ananta siddhoM ke hone para bhI unase anantaguNe saMmAge haiM / asaMkhya samyagdRSTiyoM ke hone para bhI anantAnanta mithyASTi haiM / isaliye pA~ca sadAcAriNI striyoM ke hone se kyA 5 dugacAriNI nahIM ho sakatI? phira hamane tA vRddhAoM ko alaga rakkhA hai aura yuvatI vidhavAoM meM bhI 65 ko durAcAriNI nahIM, kintu pUrNa vaidhavya na pAlane vAlI batalAyA hai| - sItA rAjula Adi satiyoM ke dRSTAnta se prAkSepaka kI nahIM, kintu hamArI bAna siddha hotI hai / satItva ke gIta gAne

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( 105 ) vAle batalAyeM ki Aja kitanI striyA~ agni meM baiThakara apane satItva kI parIkSA de sakatI hai? sItA aura rAjula Aja to asAdhAraNa haiM hI, paranta usa z2amAne meM bhI prasAdhAraNa thiiN| AkSepakane jyoti prasAda jI Adi kA udAharaNa dekara sira kiyA hai ki vidhura bhI brahmacarya se rahate haiM / isa siddha karane kI dhuna meM Apa apane asalI pakSa ko kho baiThe / agara jyotiHprasAdajI zrAdi vidhugeM ke rahane para bhI fIsadI 65 vidhura apane punarvivAha kI koziza karate haiM arthAta nidoSa vaidhuyaM kA pAlana nahIM kara pAtaM to zuddha vaidhavya pAlana karane vAlI aneka vidhavAoM ke rahane para bhI fI sadI 5 vidhavAe~ zuddha vaidhavya pAlana nahIM kara paatiiN| mAkSepa (gha )-vidhuge ke samAna vidhavAoM ke vivAha kI prAzA kauna de ? kyA hama chadmastha loga ? zAstroM meM bahuvivAha kA ullekha pAyA jAnA he / zAstrakA puruSa hona sa pakSapAtI nahIM kaha jAsakate, kyoki nyAya aura siddhAnta kI racanAe~ guruparampaga se haiN| yadi unheM puruSatva kA abhimAna hotA to zudroM kA pUjanaprakSAla, mahAvrata grahaNa Adi se baMcita kyA rakhate ? yadi brAhmaNatyakA pakSapAta batAyA jAya to unane hInA. bArI brAhmaNa ko zudroM se bhI buga kyoM kahA ? isaliya pakSa. pAta kA ilz2Ama lagAnA pazutA aura damanIya avicAratA hai| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna--hamAre uttara meM hama viSayakA eka akSara bhI nahIM hai aura na ghumA phigakara hamane kisI para pakSapAta kA ilz2Ama lagAyA hai| yaha hariNa kA sAte zera ko jagAnA hai / prArambha meM hama yaha kaha denA cAhate haiM ki mAdopakana jaina zAstroM kI jaisI AzAe~ samajhI haiM vaisI nahIM haiM / jaina zAstra to pUrNa brahmacarya kI prAmA dene haiM, lekina jo loga pUrNa

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( 106) brahmacarya kA pAlana nahIM kara sakane unake liye kucha nIcI zreNI kA ( vivAha Adi kA) upadeza dete haiN| ina nocI zreNiyoM meM kisa z2amAne ke adhikAMza manuSya kima zreNo kA kisa rUpa meM pAlana kara sakate haiM isa bAta kA bhI vicAra rakhA jAtA hai| bhAratavarSa, nibbata aura vanamAna yAMgara kI paristhitiyoma bar3A pharka hai| bhAratavarSa meM paka pati, aneka patniyA~ rakha makanA hai / tibbata meM paka patnI bhanaka pati rakha sakatI hai| yAropa meM pani, aneka patniyA~ nahIM rakha sakatA, na pannI aneka pati rakha makatI hai / yAgapa meM agara eka pannI ke rahane hue koI dUsarI pannI se vivAha karale nA vaha jela meM bheja diyA jaaygaa| kyA pa.mI paristhiti meM prAcArya, yogapiyana puruSoM ko bahuvivAhako zrAkSA deMge ? jainAcAryoM kI dRSmeiM bhI vahA~ kA bahuvivAha anAcAra kahalAyagA / parantu bhArata ke liya puruSoM kA bahuvivAha anicAra hI haagaa| nibbata ke liye striyoM kA bahuvivAha prati. cAra hogaa| nAparya yaha hai ki pUrNa brahma vaya meM utara kara samAja kA nainika mAdhyama ( 11.hth) jima zreNI kA rahatA hai usI kA prAcArya brahmacaryANavata kahate haiN| yahI kAraNa hai ki sAmadeva aura AzAgharajI ne vezyAmavoM ko bhI aNuvanI mAna liyA hai| isameM zrAzcaya kI kucha bAta nahIM hai kyoki yaha no jude jude samaya aura jude sthAnoM ke samAja kA mAdhyama hai / isa viSaya meM itanI bAna dhyAna meM rakhane kI hai ki mAdhyama cAhe jo kucha rahA ho parantu unakA lakSya pUrNa brahmacarya rahA hai / isa. liye bahupatnIka manuSya ko unane bhanicArI kahA hai / dekhiye sAgAradharmAmRta TIkA "yadA tumvadArasantaSTo viziSTasantApAbhAvAt anyatkala pariNayati tadA'pyasyAyamaticAraH syAn" arthAt viziSTa sannApa na hone ke kAraNa jo dUsaro strI ke sAtha vivAha karatA hai usako brahmacaryANuvana meM doSa lagatA hai|

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(107) ammala bAta to yaha hai ki brahmacaryANuvrata bhI eka taraha kA parigrahaparimANavata hai: parigraha parimANa meM sampatti tathA anya bhAgAMpabhoga kI vastaoM kI maryAdA kI jAtI hai| brahmacarya meM kAma saMbana sambandhI upabhogasAmagrI kI maryAdA kI jAtI hai / paranta jisa prakAra ahiMsA ke bhItara cAge vrata zAmila hone para bhI spaSTatA ke liye unakA alaga vyAkhyAna kiyA jAtA hai usI prakAra brahmacaryANuvrata meM parigraha parimANa bana se alaga vyAkhyAna kiyA gayA hai| parigraha parimANavatameM parigraha kI maryAdA kI jAnI hai, parantu vaha parigraha kitanA honA cAhiye yaha bAta pratyeka vyakti ke dravya kSatrakAlabhAva para nirbhara hai / maryAdA bA~dha lene para samrATa bhI aparigrahANuvratI hai aura maryAdAzunya sAdhAraNa gikhamaMgA bho pUrNa parigrahI hai / brahmacaryANuvrata ke liye prAcArya ne kaha diyA ki apanI kAma vAsanA ko sImita karo aura vivAha kI kAmavAsanA kI sImA niyana kara diyA / jo vaivAhika bandhana ke bhItara rahakara kAma sevana karatA hai vaha brahmacaryANuvatI hai / yaha bandhana kitanA DhIlA yA gAr3hA ho yaha sAmAjika paristhiti aura vaiyaktika sAdhanoM ke Upara nirbhara hai / yahA~ para eka puruSa kA aneka striyoM ke sAtha vivAha hA sakatA hai aura vivAha hI maryAdA hai isaliye vaha brahmacaryANuvatI kahalAyA / tibbata meM eka strI aneka puruSoM ke sAtha eka sAtha hI vivAha kara sakatI hai aura vivAha hI maryAdA hai isaliye vahA~ para aneka pani vAlI strI bhI aNubrahmacAriNI hai / aNubrahmacarya kA bhaMga vahIM hogA jahA~ avivAhita ke sAtha kAmAdi saMbana kiyA jaaygaa| isase sApha mAlUma hotA hai ki aNuvrata ke liye bhAcArya eka aneka kA bandhana nahIM DAlate. ghe vivAha kA bandhana DAlate haiN| sAmAjika paristhiti aura sAdhana sAmagrI se jo jitane vivAha kara sake

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(108) use vahIM aNucUta kI mImA hai / eka pani yA aneka pani kA prazna sAmAjika yA rAjakIya paristhiti kA prazna hai na ki dhArmika prshn| Upara, nibana kA udAharaNa dekara bahupatitva kA ullaMkha kara cukA huuN| aura bhI anaka chATI choTA jAniyoM meM yaha rivAja hai| agara aitihAmika dRSTi ma dekhA jAya to eka dina saMmAra ke adhikAMza dezoM meM bahupanatva kI prathA pracalina thii| bAta yaha hai ki mAnA kA mahatva pinA meM adhika hai| mAtA ko hI lakara kuTumba kI racanA hotI hai| isaliye eka samaya mAtRvaza arthAta mAnA ke hI zAsana kI vidhi pracalina thii| usa samaya bahupanivivAha arthAt eka strI ke kaI pani hAne kI prathA bhI zuru ho gaI / ziyA kI kucha prAcIna jAniyoM meM aba bhI ima prathA ka cinha pAye jAne haiN| kaI paniyoM meM se jA sabase balavAna aura rakSA karana meM samartha hAnA thA dhIre dhIre usakA Adara adhika hAne lagA athAt paTTaganI ke samAna paTTapati kA rivAja claa| jo balavAna aura pannI kA z2yAdA pyAga hAnA thA vahI acchI taraha gharameM raha pAnA thaa| yahI rivAja agarez2o ka hasabaMDa Hushant zabda kA mUla hai| isa zabda kA amalI rUpa hai 11115 y1tamily arthAna ghara meM rahane vaalaa| saba patiyoM meM jo pannI ke sAtha ghara para rahatA thA vahI dhIre dhIre gRhapati yA hasabaMDa kahalAna lagA, aura zakti hAna sa dhIre dhIre ghara kA pUga Adhipatya uma ke hAtha meM AgayA / ghara kI mAlikI ke bAda jaba kimI puruSa kA jAti kI saradArI milI to puruSoM kA zAsana zurU huA, aura bahupanisva ke sthAna para bahupatnItva kI prathA cala pddii| hinda zAstroM meM draupadI ko pAMca pati vAlI kahA haiM aura use mahAsatI bhI mAnA hai / bhale hI yaha kathA kalpina

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(106) ho parantu bhAratavarSa meM bhI eka samaya bahupatinva ke sAtha satI. va kA nirvAha hotA thA, isa bAta kI sUcaka avazya hai| jainasamAja meM thI ki nahIM, yaha judA prazna hai parantu bhAratavarSa meM avazya thii| __ matalaba yaha hai ki bahupatitva aura bahupatnItva kI prathA sAmayika hai| dharma kA usake sAtha koI sambandha nhiiN| dharmanI aNuvratI kA avivAhita ke sAtha saMbhoga karane kI manAI karatA hai| vivAhita puruSa yA strI, eka ho yA aneka, dharma kI dRSTi meM aNuvratanAzaka nahIM hai| hA~, dharma to manuSya ko pUrNabrahmacarya kI narapha jhukAtA hai isaliye bahupatnItva ora bahupatitva ke sthAna meM eka paniva, aura eka patnItva kA acchA samajhatA hai aura jisakA pracAra adhika sambhava ho usI para adhika jAra denA hai| inanA hI nahIM, eka patnItva ke bAda bhI vaha saMbhAga kI gaMkathAma karatA hai| jaisa parva ke dina meM viSaya sevana mana karo ! RtumnAna divasa ke sivAya anya divoM meM mana kage! aadi| muniyoM ke liye jaisA brahmacarya hai prAdhikAoM ke liye bhI vaisA hai| brahmacAriyoM ke liye jaimA hai, brahmacAriNiyoM ke liye bhI vaimA hai / bAko puruSoM ke liye jaimA hai, bAkI triyoM ke liye bhI vaimA hai / sAmayika paristhiti ke anumAra puruSoM aura striyoM ne jima prakAra pAlana kiyA prAcAryoM ne usI prakAra usakA ullekha kiyaa| prAcArya no bahupatnItva aura bahupatitva donoM nahIM cAhate the| ye no pUrNabrahmacarya ke poSaka the| agara vaha na ho sake to ekapanitva aura ekapatnItva cAhate the| z2abaradastI se ho yA aura kisI naraha se ho, triyoM meM bahupatitva kI prathA jaba nahIM thI taba ve usakA ullekha karake pIche khisakane kA mArga kyoM batalAne ? pichale

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( 110 ) z2amAne meM jaba vidhavAvivAha kI prathA na rahI yA kama ho gaI taba isa prathA kA ullekha bhI na kiyA gyaa| yadi isI taraha bahupatnIva kI prathA naSTa ho jAtI to zrAcArya isa prathA kA bhI ullekha na karate / mAdhyama jitanA U~cA hojAya utanA hI acchA hai / agara paristhitiyoM ne striyoM kA brahmacaryaviSayaka mAdhyama puruSoM se U~cA kara diyA thA to isase striyoM ke adhikAra nahIM china jAte / kama se kama dharma to unake adhi kAroM meM bAdhA nahIM DAlatA / puruSa samAja kA mAdhyama tAM strI samAja se nIcA hai / isaliye puruSoM ko to striyoM se kucha kahane kA adhikAra hI nahIM hai / aba yahA~ eka prazna yaha khar3A hotA hai ki vidhavAvivAha kA pracAra karake striyoM kA vartamAna mAdhyama kyoM girAyA jAtA hai ? isake kAraNa nimnalikhita hai / ( 1 ) yaha mAdhyama striyoM ke Upara z2abaradastI lAdA gayA haiM, aura lAdane vAle puruSa haiM jo ki isa dRSTi se bahuta gira hue haiN| isaliye yaha tyAga kA paricAyaka nahIM kintu dAsatA kA paricAyaka hai| isaliye jaba taka puruSa samAja isa mAdhyama para calane ko taiyAra nahIM hai taba taka striyoM se z2abardastI isa mAdhyama kA palavAnA anyAya hai, aura anyAya kA nAza karanA dharma hai / ( 2 ) mAdhyama vahI rakhanA cAhiye jisakA pAlana sahUliyata ke sAtha ho sake / pratidina hone vAlI bhraNahatyAe~ aura prati samaya hone vAle gupta vyabhicAra Adi se patA lagatA hai ki striyA~ isa mAdhyama meM nahIM raha sakatIM / ( 3 ) zrArthika kaSTa, ghora apamAna, tathA anya aneka ApattiyoM se vaidhavya jIvana meM dharmadhyAna ke badale zrartadhyAna kI hI pracuratA hai / (4) strI aura puruSa ke mAdhyama meM itanI viSamatA hai

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ki puruSamamAja kA aura strIsamAja kA adhaHpatana ho rahA hai| isa samaya donoM kA mAdhyama samAna honA cAhiye / isake liye puruSoM ko bahupatnItva kI prathA kA tyAga karane kI aura striyoM kA vidhavAvivAha kI z2arUrata hai| (5) janasaMkhyA kI dRSTi se samAja kA mAdhyama hAni. kAga hai / bhAratavarSa meM striyoM kI saMkhyA kama hai, puruSoM meM bahuvivAha hotA hai, phira fIsadI 17 striyA~ asamaya meM vidhavA ho jAtI hai. imaliya anaka puruSo kA, binA strI ke rahanA par3atA hai| unameM se adhikAMza kumArgagAmI ho jAte haiN| agara vidhavAvivAha kA pracAra ho to yaha kamI pUrI ho sakatI hai tathA aneka kuTumbA kA sarvanAza hAne se bhI bacAva ho sakatA hai| (6) bahupatitva aura bahupatnItva kI prathA, sImita hone para itanI vistRta hai ki umameM viSaya vAmanAoM kA tArAhava ho sakatA hai| sAmUhika rUpameM isakAApAlana hI nahIM hosakanA isaliye ye donoM prathAe~ tyAjya hai / kintu apatitva aura apasnItva kI prathA itanI saMkucita hai ki manuSya umameM paira bhI nahI pasAra makatA / aura sAmUhika rUpameM isakA pAlana bhI nahIM homakatA / isaliye kumAra aura kumAriyoM kA vivAha kara diyA jAtA hai / apanatva kI prathA se jisa prakAra kumAriyo kI hAni ho sakatI hai vahI hAni vidhavAoM kI hA rahI hai isaliye unake liye bhI kumAriyoM ke samAna ekapatitva prathA kI AvazyakatA hai| jabaki bahupatnItva aura bahupatitva naka brahmacaryAyukta kI sImA he taba eka patitvarUpa vidhavAvivAha kI prathA, na so aNuvanakI virodhinI homakatI hai aura na AcAryoM kI prAzAokI prAmAke pratikula ho sakI hai / yahA~ pAThaka vidhavA

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( 112 ) vivAha ko bahupatitva kI prathA na samajhe / eka sAtha aneka patiyoM kA rakhanA bahupatitva hai / eka kI mRtyu ho jAne para dusaga pati rakhanA eka patitva hI hai kyoMki isameM eka sAtha bahupani nahIM hote| pAThaka isa lamba vivaMcana se Uba to gaye hoMge, parantu isameM "vidhavAvivAha kI AjJA kona de ?". "purANoM meM bahu. vivAha kA ullekha pAyA jAtA hai" Adi prAkSepoM kA pUrA samA. dhAna ho jAtA hai / zAstroka kathana kI anakAntatA mAluma ho jAtI hai| sAtha hI brahmacaryAyuvata kA rahasya mAluma ho jAtA hai / Apakane pakSapAta ke ilz2Ama ko pazutA aura damanIya avicAratA likhA hai| khera, jainadharma to itanA udAra he ki usapara binA ilz2Ama lagAye vidhavAvivAha kA samarthana ho jAtA hai / parantu jo loga jainazAstroM ko vidhavAvivAha kA vigaMdhI samajhate hai yA jainazAstroM ke nAma para bane hue. jaina dharma ke viruddha kucha granthoM ko jainazAstra samajhate hai unasaM hama do do bAteM kara lenA cAhate haiN| ye do bAteM hama apanI tarapha sa nahIM, kintu unake vakIla kI haisiyata se kahate hai jinako prAkSapakane pazu batalAyA hai| prAkSepaka kA kahanA hai ki "nyAya aura siddhAntakI raca. nAe~ guru.parampaga se haiM". parantu unameM svakalpita vicAroM kA sammizraNa nahIM huA, yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA / mANikyanaMdi Adi prAcAryAne pramANa ko apUrvAgrAhI mAnA he ora dhArAvAhika jJAnako apramANa / parantu AcArya vidyAnandIne gRhIta. magRhItaM vA svArtha yadi vyavasyAta, tatra loke na zAstrepa vija. hAti pramANatAm-kahakara dhAgavAhika ko apramANa nahIM mAnA hai / aisA hI akala devane likhA hai ( dekho zlokavArtika. laghIyastraya, yA nyAyapradIpa ) dharmazAstrameM to aura bhI jyAdA

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( 113 ) / andhera hai / viSeNa kahate haiM ki sItA janaka kI putrI thI / rAmako banavAsa milA thA / ve ayodhyA meM rahate the / guNabhadra kahate haiM sItA rAvaNa kI putrI thI rAma ko banavAsa nahIM milA thA / ve banArasa meM rahate the| donoM kathAnakoM ke sthUla sUkSma aMzoM meM pUrva pazcima kA sA faraka hai / kyA yaha guruparaparA kA phala hai ? koI lekhaka kahanA hai ki maiM bhagavAna mahAvIra kA hI upadeza kahatA hU~ to kyA isIse guruparamparA siddha hogaI ? yadi guruparamparA surakSita rahI to kathAnakoM meM itanA bheda kyoM ? zrAvakoM ke mUlaguNa kaI taraha ke kyoM ? kyA isa se yaha nahIM mAlUma hotA hai ki aneka lekhakoMne dravya kSetra kA lAdi kI dRSTi aneka taraha kA kathana kiyA hai / anekoM ne jainadharma viruddha aneka lokAcAroM ko jinavANI ke nAma se likha mAga hai; jaise sAMmasena Adi maTTArakoMne yonipUjA Adi kI ghRNita bAteM likhI hai / isIliye to mokSamArgaprakAza meM likhA hai ki " koU satyArtha padanika samUharUpa jaina zAstrani virSe zramatyArthapada milAveM parantu jina zAstra ke padanivitA kaSAya miTAvane kA vA laukika kArya ghaTAvane kA prayojana hai / aura usa pApI ne jo asatyArtha pada milAye haiM tini viSai kaSAya poSane kA vA laukika kArya sAdhane kA prayojana hai| aise prayojana milatA nAhIM, tAteM parIkSA kari jJAnI ThigAvate bhI nAhIM. koI markha hoya sohI jaina zAstra nAma kari ThigAveM haiM / " kahiye ! agara guru parasparA meM aisA kacarA yA viSa na mila gayA hotA to kyoM likhA jAtA ki mUrkha hI jaina zAstra ke nAma se ugAye jAte haiM / tAtparya yaha hai ki guru paramparA ke nAma para baiThe rahanA mUkhatA hai| jainI ko to koI zAstra tabhI pramANa mAnanA cAhiye jaba vaha jaina siddhAnta se milAna jAtA hai / agara vaha milAna na khAye to zruta

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kaMvalI ke nAma meM hI kyoM na likhA gayA ho, use kacare meM DAla denA cAhiye / dhRtoM kI dhUnatA kA chipAnA ghora mithyAtva kA pracAra karanA hai / jaina siddhAntoM ke viruddha jAne para bhI aise zAstroM kA mAnanA ghora mithyAvI banajAnA hai| garu parampaga hai kahA~ ? zvetAmbara kahane hai ki hamAre mRtra bhagavAna mahAvIra ka. kahaM hue hai / digambara kahate haiM ki kunda kunda meM laMkara bhaTTArako ora anya aneka pogApanthiyoM taka ke banAye hue granya vIrabhagavAna kI bANI haiM / aba kahiye ! kisakI garu parampaga ThIka hai ? yo nA mabhI apane bApa ke gIta gAte he paranta itane meM hI satyAnatya kA nirNaya nahIM ho jAtA / yahA~ to garuparampaga ke nAma para makkhI hA~kane baiThA na rahanA pdd'egaa| mamamna mAhitya kI mAkSI lekara apanI buddhi se jainadharma ke mUla siddhAnna khojane par3eMge aura unhA siddhAntoM kA kamauTI banAkara mvarNa aura pItala kI parIkSA karanA par3egI, aura dhRtoM tathA pakSapAtiyoM kA bhaNDAphoDa karanA pdd'egaa| yaha kahanA ki "prAcIna lekhakoM meM pakSapAnI dhRta nahI hue" bilakula dhokhebAz2I yA ajJAnatA hai| mAnA ki bahuta se lekhakoM ne zrApekSika kathana kiyA hai jaisAki imI prakaraNa meM Upara kahA jA cukA hai parantu thor3e bahuna nire pakSa. pAtI, unmatravAdI aura kulajAti mada ke pracAraka ghora mithyAnvI bhI hue haiN| agara kisI lekhaka ne yaha likhA ho ki "puruSa to eka sAtha haz2Age striyA~ rakhane para bhI aNuvratI hai parantu strI, eka pati ke mara jAne para bhI dUsaga pani ra kha to ghora vyabhicAriNI hai usako punarvivAha kA adhikAra hI nahIM hai" to kyA pakSapAna na kahalAyagA ? pakSapAta ke kyA sIga hote haiM ? yaha puruSatva kI unmattatA kA tAMDava nahIM to kyA hai ? puruSoM ne zadra puruSoM ko bhI kucalA hai| isase nA

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( 115 ) sirpha yahI siddha hotA hai ki unameM puruSatva kI unmattatA ke sAtha dvijatva kI unmattatA bhI thI / " unane puruSoM ko bhI kucalA, isaliye striyoM ko nahIM kucalA" yaha nahIM kahA jAsakatA / musalamAna Apasa meM bhI lar3ate haiM, kyA isaliye unakA hinduoM se na lar3anA siddha ho jAtA hai ? kahA jAtA hai ki "unane durAcArI dvijoM kI bhI to nindA kI hai, isaliye ve sirpha durAcAra ke hI nindaka haiM" / yadi aisA hai to durAcArI zUdroM kI aura durAcAriNI striyoM ko hI nindA karanA cAhiye / strImAtra kI ora zui mAtra ko nIcA kyoM dikhAyA jAtA hai ? amerikA meM aparAdhI loga daNDa pAte hai aura bahuta se habzI nAmamAtra ke aparAdha para isaliye jalA diye jAte haiM ki ve habzI hai, to kyA yaha ucita hai ? aparAdhiyoM ko daNDa dene se kyA niraparAdhiyoM ko satAnA jAyaz2a ho jAtA hai ? prAcIna lekhakoM ne agara durAcAriyoM ko kucalA hai to sirpha isIliye unakA zUdroM ko aura striyoM ko kuca lanA jAyaz2a nahI kahalA sakatA / yaha pakSapAta pizAca, usa samaya bilakula nagA ho jAtA hai jaba durAcArI dvija ke adhikAra, sadAcArI zUdra aura sadAcAriNI mahilA se jyAdA samajhe jAte haiM / dugacArI dvija agara jIte bAlakoM ko mAra mArakara khAjAya to bhI usake muni banane kA aura mokSa jAne kA adhikAra nahIM chinatA ( dekhI padmapurANa sodAsa kI kathA ) | parantu zUdra kitanA bhI sadAcArI kyoM na ho, usakA zrAtmavikAsa kitanA hI kyoM na ho gayA ho vaha muni bhI nahIM bana sakatA / jhUThA, coTTA, vyabhicArI aura luccA dvija agara bhagavAn kI pUjA kare to koI hAni nahIM, parantu zUdra ArambhatyAgI yA uddiSTa tyAgI hI kyoM na ho, vaha jina pUjA karane kA adhikArI

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nhiiN| kyA sadAcAra yA cAritra kI yahI prazasA hai ? kyA isI kA nAma nipatatA hai ? strI ho yA zudra ho. pratyeka jIva ko UcA se U~cA dharma pAlane kA adhikAra hai| jo unake adhikAge ko chInate haiM va mirpha pakSapAnI hI nahIM DAka hai| manuSya jAti ke duzmana haiN| ve cAhe pUrva puruSoM ke vaSa meM hA, cAhe prAcArya ke vaMSa meM ho, cAhe aura kisI raMga meM raMge ho, unakA nAma sirpha unake nAma para thUkane ke liye hI lenA caahiye| pAThaka dekheM ki pakSapAna kA doSa lagAnA satya hai yA nahIM hameM yaha vakAlata imaliye karanI paDI hai ki aAja buddhi aura vidhaka se kAma lene vAloM ko adhama pazu kahA jAtA hai| kona adhama pazu hai, isakA nirNaya pAThaka hI kreNge| navamA prazna / "vivAha ke binA, kAmalAlasA ke kAraNa jo sakleza pariNAma hote hai, una meM vivAha hone se kucha nyUnatA pAnI hai yA nahIM ?" isa prazna ke uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki saMkleza pariNAmoM ko kama karane ke liye vivAha kiyA jAtA he aura ima meM bar3I bhArI saphalatA milatI hai / hamane sAgAradhammAmRta aura puruSArthasiddhayapAya ke zlokAse apane pakSa kA sama. rdhana kiyA thaa| AkSepaka kaI jagaha to hamAre bhAva ko samajha nahIM pAya ora bAkI jagaha una se uttara nahIM bana par3A / AkSepa (ka)-jaba brahmacaryAzrama pUrNa kara yuvA 16 varSa kA hotA hai taba pitAdi usa kA vivAha karate hai / aisI avasthA meM na kisI ke vivAhaka binA saMkleza pariNAma hote hai na kucha hotA hai| (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-kAmalAlasA rUpa saMklezake binA kisI kA

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( 117 ) vivAha karanA rAjavArtika ke lakSaNa ke anusAra vivAha hI nahIM kahalA sakatA / jaise ghara na hone para ghara kI auSadhi denA hAnikAraka hai, usI prakAra kAma vAsanAkaM binA usakA vivAha kara denA hAnikAraka hai| usa meM nA navIna kAmajvara paidA ho jaaygaa| khera, agara 16 varSa ke yavA meM kAmavAsanA nahIM hai to kyA 20-30 varSa ke usa vidhura meM bhI nahIM hai, jo vivAha ke liye apanI sArI zaki lagA rahA hai ? vivAha ke hojAne para vaha thor3I bahuta nizcintanA kA anubhava karatA hai yA nahIM? vahI nizcintanA to saMkleza pariNAmoMkI nyUnatA hai| jisa prakAra vidhuvivAhasaM malaza pariNAmA meM nyUnatA hotI hai usa prakAra vidhavAvivAhasa bho makleza pariNAmoM meM nyUnatA hotI hai, isaliye vidhavAvivAha ge vidheya hai / / AkSepa ( gva )-jina puruSoM ke sarvathA vivAha hone kI AzA nahIM hai, una kA kAma naSTa jaisA hojAnA hai| una kI icchA bhI nahIM hotI / jaise kisI ne zrAnU khAnA chor3a diyA tA usakA mana bhAlu prA para nahIM calatA / gatrimeM jalatyAgiyoM ko pyAsa nahIM lagatI / punaH punaH kAma na sevana karane se kAma nae ho jAtA hai / jisa vidhavA kA puruSamA kI AzA nahIM hotI, usakA mana vikRta nahIM honA / samAdhAna-AkSepa kyA hai, pAgala ke pralApa hai / napu. saka ko vivAha aura kAmabhogakI AzA to nahI hotI parantu usakI kAmavaMdanA ko zAstrakAroM ne sabase adhika tIvra batalAyA hai| yadi sAdhana na milane se brahmacarya hone lagatA to vidhura aura vidhavAoM meM vyabhicAra kyA hotA ? bhAlU chor3a denA eka bAta hai aura bhAlU na milanA dusarI bAta hai / brahmAcarya eka bAta hai aura durbhAgyavaza vidhavA yA vidhura ho jAnA dUsarI bAta hai| rAtri meM jalatyAgiyoM ko pyAsa nahIM lagatI,

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( 118 ) isakA kAraNa yaha hai ki ve saMdhyA ko hI loTe do loTe pAnI gaTaka jAyA karate haiM / khaira ! vidhavA hone se jinakI kAma 1 vAsanA naSTa ho jAve unase vivAha kA anurodha nahIM kiyA jAtA parantu jo kAmavAsanA para vijaya prApta nahIM kara sakatI hai unheM avazya hI vivAha kara lenA cAhiye / zrApa ( ga ) - kAma zAnti ko vivAha kA mukhya uddezya batAnA murkhatA hai / zuddha santAnotpatti va gRhastha dharma kA dAnAdikArya yahI mukhya uddezya hai |shrtev kAma gaurA hai, mukhya dharma hI hai / (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna -- zrakSepaka yahA~ itanA pAgala hogayA hai ki use kAma meM aura kAmavAsanA kI nivRtti meM kucha antara hI nahIM mAlUma hotA / hamane kAmavAsanA kI nivRtti ko mukhyaphala kahA hai na ki kAma ko aura kAmavAsanA kI nivRttiko dharmarUpa kahA hai / dharma zragara mukhya phala he to kAmavAsanA kI nivRtti hI mukhya phala khlaayii| isameM virodha kyA hai ? putrAtpatti Adi ko mukhyaphala kahane ke pahile AkSepaka gara hamAre ina zabdoM para dhyAna detA to use isa taraha nirargala pralApa na karanA par3atA " mAna lIjiye ki kisI manuSya meM munivRta dhAraNa karane kI pUrNa yogyatA hai / aisI hAlata meM agara vaha kisI zrAcArya ke pAsa jAve to ve use muni banane kI salAha deMge yA zrAvaka bana kara putrotpatti kI salAha deMge" ? yaha kaha kara hamane amRtacandra zrAcArya ke tIna zloka uddhRta karake batalAyA thA ki aisI avasthA meM zrAcArya muni * vrata kA hI upadeza deMge / munivRta dhAraNa karane se bacce paidA nahIM ho sakate, parantu kAmalAlasA kI pUrNa nivRtti hotI hai / isase mAlUma hotA hai ki jainadharma bacce paidA karane para z2ora nahIM

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( 116 ) detA, kintu kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti para jora detA hai / pUrNa nivRtti meM asamartha hone para prAMzika nivRtti ke liye vivAha haiM / usase santAna Adi kI bhI pUrti ho jAtI hai / parantu mukhya uddezya to kAmavAsanA kI nivRtti hI rahA / amRtacaMdra ke padyoMne yaha viSaya bilakula spaSTa kara diyA hai / phira bhI zrakSepaka ko padyoM kI upayogitA samajha meM nahIM zrAtI / ThIka haiM, samajhane kI akla bhI to cAhiye / AkSepa (gha ) - vivAhako gRhasthAzramakA mUla kahakara dharma, artha, kAma rUpa to niyata kara diyA, parantu isase Apa hAtha thappar3a khAlI / jaba kAma gRhasthAzrama rUpa hai taba usa kI zAnti ko ? kAma zAnti sa to gRhasthAzrama ur3atA hai | kAma nivRttiko dharma aura pravRtti ko kAma kahanA kaisA ? eka viSaya meM yaha kalpanA kyA ? aura artha isa kA sAdhaka kyA ? phala to vivAha ke tIna haiM, ulaTA artha sAdhaka kyoM par3A ? sAdhya kI sAdhaka banAdiyA ? ( zrIlAla ) samAdhAna - yahA~ to zrAkSepaka bilakula hakkA bakkA ho gayA hai / isaliye hamAre na kahane para bhI usane kAma kI gRhasthAzramarUpa samajha liyA hai| kAma kI pUrNarUpa meM zAnti ho jAya nA gRhasthAzrama ur3a jAyagA aura munizrAzrama zrajAyagA / agara kAma kI nivRti z2aga bhI na ho to bhI gRhasthAzrama ur3a jAyagA, kyoMki aisI hAlata meM vahA~ vyabhicArAdi doSoM kA dauradoga ho jAyagA / agara kAma kI prAMzika nivRtti ho arthAt paradAra- viSayaka kAma kI nivRttirUpa svadAra santoSa ho to gRhasthAzrama banA rahatA hai| AkSaM eka aisA jar3abuddhi * * zrAkSepakane aise hI kaTuka aura eka vacanAtmaka zabdoM kA jahA~ tahA~ prayoga kiyA hai: isaliye hameM bhI " zaTham prati

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( 120 ) hai ki vaha abhI taka yaha nahIM samajha pAyA hai ki kAmavAsanA kI AMzika nivattikA matalaba mvadArasantoSa gA mvapatisantoSa hai| jo loga mbadArasantoSa ko vivAha kA mukhya phala nahIM mAnate ve jainadharma se bilakula anabhijJa nire buddha haiN| becAga zrIlAla, kAma nivatti arthAt paradAra nivRtti yA parapuruSanivattiko dharma, aora mbadArapravRttikA kAma kahane meM cakina hotA hai / vAhare zrIlAla ke pANDitya ! gRhasthAzrama, dharma artha kAma tInoM kA sAdhaka hai, parantu una tInA meM bhI parampara sAdhya sAdhakatA ho sakatI hai| jaise- dharma, artha kAma kA mAdhaka hai; artha, kAmakA sAdhaka hai Adi / baiga, hamAga kahanA itanA hI hai ki kumArI vivAha ke jo jo phala haiM ve mava vidhavA vivAhasa bhI milate hai| isaliye vidhavAvivAha bhI vidheya hai / AkSepa (Ga)-jo puruSa viSayoM ko na chor3a sake vaha gRhasthadharma dhAraNa kare / yahA~ viSaya zabda se kaMbala kAma ko hI sUjhI! (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-viSaya no pA~cI indriyoM ke hote hai, parantu una saba meM yaha pradhAna hai| kyoMki isakA jItanA sabase adhika kaThina hai| jisane kAma ko jIta liyA use anya viSayoM ko jItane meM kaThinAI nahIM pdd'tii| isaliye kAma kI maryAdA karane vAlA eka mvatantra aNuvrata kahA gayA hai| anya bhAgAMpanAMga sAmagriyoM ke vrata ko to guNatrata yA zikSAkta meM DAla diyA hai| usakA mAticAra pAlana karate hue bhI tI raha sakatA hai, parantu brahmacaryANuvrata meM aticAra lagane se vana pratimA naSTa ho jAtI hai| kyA isase saba viSayoM meM kAma viSaya kI pradhAnatA nahIM mAlUma hotI ? granthakAge ne isa zAThyamAcaret" isa nIti ke anusAra aisA hI prayoga karanA -svysaacii|

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( 121 ) pradhAnanA kA spaSTa ullekha kiyA hai 'viSayAn-ekAminyAdIn'-sAgAradharmAmRta TIkA / kyA isase kAma kI pradhAnatA nahIM mAlUma hotI ? vivAha ke prakaraNa meM to yaha pradhAnatA aura bhI adhika mAnanIya hai, kyoMki kAma viSaya ko sImita karane (zrAMzika nivRtti) ke liye hI vivAha kI AvazyakatA hai| rasanendriya ghrANendriya Adi ke viSayoM ko sImita karane ke liye vivAha kI z2arUrata nahIM hai / vivAha ke binA anya indriyA~ ucchakhala nahIM hotI, sirpha yahI indriya ucchRkhala hoto hai / isaliye sAgAradharmAmRta TIkA meM paravivAhakaraNa nAma ke aticAra kI vyAkhyA meM patra patrI ke vivAha ko zrAva zyakatA batalAte hue kahA hai ki yadi svakanyAvivAho na kAryate tadA svacchanda cAriNo syAt tatazca kulasamayalokavirodhaH myAt vihinavivAhAtta patiniyanatrItvena na tathA myAt / eSa nyAyaH patre'pi vikalpanIyaH' arthAt 'agara apano putrI kA vivAha na kiyA jAyagA nA vaha svacchandacAriNo ho jAyagI, parantu vivAha kara dene se yaha eka pati meM niyata ho jaaygii| isaliye mvacchandacAriNI na hogI / yahI bAta putra ke liye bhI samajha lenA cAhiye arthAt vivAha se vaha mvacchandacAge na hogaa'| yahA~ putra putrI ke liye jo bAta kahI gaI hai vaha vidhavA putrIke liye bhI lAgU hai| AkSepaka meM agara thor3I bhI akla hogI to vaha ina pramANoM se samajha sakegA ki vivAha kA mukhya uddezya kyA hai, aura vaha vidhavAvivAha se bhI pUrNa rUpameM siddha hotA hai / sAgAra. dharmAmRta ke isa ullekha saMprAkSepa nambara 'ka' kA bhI samAdhAna hotA hai| AkSepa (ca)-samAja kI apekSA se santAnotpatti ko mukhya batalAnA bhUla hai| samAja meM 1-2 lar3ake na hue na

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( 122 ) sahI, parantu vivAha vAle ke na hue to usakA no ghara hI caupaTa hai| mamAdhAna-tyAga ke gIta gAne vAloM kI yahA~ pAla khula gii| unake DhoMgoM kA bhaNDAphoDa hogyaa| are bhAI ! ghara, gRhiNI ko kahate haiM gRhaM hi gRhiNImA:-mAgAradharmAmRta / laDakA na hone se na gRhiNI maregI, na gRhI maregA, na donoM ke brahmacaryANuvana meM bAdhA AyagI, na mahAvata dhAraNa karane kA adhikAra china jAyagA / manuSya jIvana ke jo vAstavika uddezya hai unakA paka bhI sAdhana naSTa na hogaa| kyA isI kA nAma caupaTa ho jAnA hai ? banAvaTI dharma ke vaSa meM raMge hue DhoMgiyA ! kyA yahI tumhAga jIvana savasva hai ? hA~, santAna ke na hone se samAja kI hAni hai, kyoki samAja mAkSa nahI jAnI na muni banatI hai| agara vaha muni bana jAya to nae ho jAya / eka eka do dA milakara hI no samAja hai / santAna ke abhAva meM samAja naTa ho sakatI hai, parantu santAna ke prabhAva meM vyakti nA mAkSa taka jAsakatA hai| zraya mamajho ki santAna kisake liye mukhya phala kahalAyA? kyA itane spaSTa pramANoM ke rahate hue bhI tumhArA mukhya gauNa kA prazna banA huA hai ? AkSepa ( cha )-kumArga aura vidhavA ko strI samAna samajhakara samAna karttavya banalAnA bhUla hai| mAnA bahina vadhU sabhI strI hai, parantu bahina mAnA prabhojya he, vadhU bhAjya hai| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-bhojya-bhojaka sambandha kI nIca aura barbara kalpanAkA hama samAdhAnakara cuke haiN| jo hamArI bahina hai vaha hamAre bahina u kI bahina nahI hai / jo hamArI mAtA hai vaha hamAre pitA ko mAnA nahIM hai| hamArI vadhU dUsare kI vadhU nahIM hai| isaliye yaha bhAjyAbhojyatA ApekSika hai| sarvathA

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( 123 ) abhojyanA kisI meM nahIM hai / yahina mAtA Adi ye nAtedArI ke zabda haiM, isaliye nAtedArI ko apekSA se inakI bhAjyAmI. jyatA kI kalpanA kI hai| kumArI aura vidhavA ye avasthAvizeSa ke zabda haiM, imaliya inakI bhAjyAbhAjyatA avasthA ke Upara nirbhara hai / jabataka kumArI yA vidhavA hai taba taka prabhojya haiM jaba usa kamArI yA vidhavA kA vivAha ho jAyagA taba vaha bhojya hojaaygii| mojya to vadhU haiM, phira bhale hI vaha kumArI rahI ho yA vidhavA / mAtRtva aura bhaganItva sambandha janma se maraNa taka sthAyI hai| kaumArya aura vaidhavya aise sambandha nahIM hai| unako badalakara vadhU kA sambandha sthApita kiyA jAtA hai| strI hone se hI koI bhojya nahIM hojAtI, vadhU hone se bhojya hotI hai| mAtRtva, bhaganItva amiTa hai, kaumArya aura vaidhavya miTa nahIM haiM / isaliye mAnA aura bhaginI ke sAtha vivAha nahIM kiyA jAsakatA kimta kumAgI yA vidhavA ke mAtha kiyA jA sakatA hai / zrApaka ke pakSapako agara hama vidhuravivAha ke niSedha ke liye lagAveM to Apaka kyA uttara daMgA ? dekhiye-AkSepa-"kumAra aura vidhura kA puruSa samAna samajhakara samAna karttavya banalAnA bhUla hai / pitA, bhAI, pati sabhI puruSa hai, parantu bhAI aura pinA abhojya hai, pati bhojya hai"| zrAkSapaka ke pAsa isakA kyA uttara hai ? vahI uttara usa vidhavAoM ke liye lagA lenA caahiye| AkSepa (ja)-vidhavAvivAha ke pakSapAtI bhI apane ghara kI vidhavAoM ke nAma para muMha sakor3a lete haiN| samAdhAna-yaha koI Avazyaka nahIM hai ki pratyeka vidhavA kA vivAha z2arUra karanA cAhiye / agara koI vidhavA vivAha nahIM karanA cAhatI to sudhAraka kA yaha kartavya nahIM hai ki vaha z2abardastI vivAha kara deM / jabardastI vivAha karane kA

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( 124 ) rivAja to nAdirazAha ke avatAra sthitipAlakoM ke ghara meM hotA hai| agara vAstava meM kisI sudhAraka meM apane ghara meM prAvazyaka hone para bhI vidhavAvivAha ko kAryarUpa meM pariNata karane kI zakti nahIM hai to usakI yaha kamajArI hai| vaha naiSThika sudhAraka nahI hai, sirpha pAkSika sudhAraka hai / jisa prakAra pAkSika dhAvakoM ke hone se naiSThika zrAvakoM kA prabhAva nahIM kahA jA sakatA aura na ve niMdanIya ho sakate haiM, usI taraha pAkSika sudhArakA ke hone se naiSThika sudhArakA kA prabhAva nahIM kahA jAsakatA aura na unakI niMdA kI jAsakatI hai| AkSepa (jha)-vidhavAvivAha yUrupiyanoM evaM mohamaDanoM (musalamAnoM ) meM bhI anivArya nahIM hai, kyoMki yaha nIca prathA haiN| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-yogaMpa meM nA kumArI aura kumAroM kA vivAha bhI anivArya nahIM hai / phraoNsa meM to hama kaumArya kA gviAja itanA bar3ha gayA hai ki vahA~ janasaMkhyA ghaTa rahI haiN| dUsare dezoM meM bhI komAya kA kAfI rivAja hai| isaliye vivAha bhI eka nIca prathA kahalAI / AkSepaka ko abhI kucha mAlama hI nahIM hai / vidhavAvivAha anivArya na hone ke kaI kAraNa hai / eka kAraNa yaha hai ki vidhavA aura vidhura hote hote kisI kA AdhA jovana nikala jAtA hai va kisI kA tIna caturthAza yA isase bhI jyAdA jIvana nikala jAtA hai, aise logoM ko isakI AvazyaktA kA kama anubhava hotA hai| isaliye ve loga vivAha nahIM krte| nIcatA ke Dara saMghahA~ vidhavAvivAha nahIM rukte| agara kisI jagaha vidhuravivAha nIca prathA nahIM kahalAtA aura vidhavA vivAha nIca prathA kahalAtA hai to isase sirpha itanA hI siddha

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( 125 ) hotA hai ki vahA~ ke loga tIv mithyAtvI, ghora atyAcArI, mahAn pakSapAtI aura atyanta madAMdha haiM / ina durguNoM kA anukaraNa karake jainiyoM ko aise madAMdha pApI kyoM bananA cAhiye ? - AkSepa (Ja) - laoNrDa gharAnoM meM qataI vidhavAvivAha nahIM hotA / vidhavAvivAha se ucca nIca kA bheda na rahegA / samAdhAna -- laoNrDa gharAne kA matalaba zrImanta gharAne se hai / laoNrDa koI jAti nahIM hai / sAdhAraNa AdamI bhI zrImanta aura maharddhika banakara laoNrDa bana sakate haiM / ina saba meM vidhavA vivAha hotA hai / hA~. sAdhAraNa vidhavAoM kI apekSA laoNrDa gharAne kI vidhavAe~ kucha kama saMkhyA meM vivAha karAnI haiM / yaha uccatA nIcatA kA prazna nahIM, kintu sAmpattika prazna hai / laoNrDa gharAne kI apAra sampatti chor3akara vivAha karAnA unheM ucita nahIM ja~catA / jinheM ja~catA hai ve vivAha karA hI letI haiM / dakSiNa ke Der3ha lAkha jainiyoM meM, AryasamAjiyoM meM, brahmasamA* jiyoM meM, vidhavAvivAha hotA hai parantu ve bhaMgI camAra nahIM kahalAte / AkSepa ( Ta ) - sUrajabhAna kA jIvadayA kI pukAra macAkara vidhavAvivAha ko kartavya banalAnA anucita he / jIvadayA dharma hai, na ki zarIra dayA / mandira banavAnA dharma hai aura pyAU lagavAne se adharma hai| agara koI vyabhicAriNI kAmamikSA mA~ge to vaha nahIM dI jaasktii| jo dayA dharmavRddhi kA kAraNa hai, vahI vAstavika dayA hai / (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna - becArA zrakSepaka dAna ke bhedoM ko bhI na samajhA / use jAnanA cAhiye ki zrAtmaguNoM kI unnati ko lakSya meM lekara jo dAna diyA jAtA hai vaha pAtradAna hai, na ki dayAdAna | dayAdAna to zarIra ko lakSya meM lekara ho diyA

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( 126 ) jAnA hai, phira bhale hI usase dharma kiyA jAya yA na kiyA jAya / AkSepaka pyAU lagavAne ko adharma kahatA hai, parantu sAgAradharmAmRta meM pyAU aura satra ko sthApita karane kA upa deza diyA gayA hai - "satramadhyanukampyAnAM sadanujighRkSayA / satramatra pradAnasthAnaM, apizabdAtprapAM ca" || arthAt-dIna prANiyoM ke upakAra kI icchA se satra ( bhojanazAlA jahA~ garIboM ko muphta meM bhojana karAyA jAtA hai) aura pyAU khole / dAna, gRhasthoM kA mukhya kartavya hai / jaba AkSepaka dAna ke viSaya kA mAdhAraNa jJAna bhI nahIM rakhatA to gRhasthadharma kesaM nibhAtA hogA? jo gRhastha pyAso ko pAnI pilAne meM bhI adharma samajhatA hai vaha nirdaya tathA ka ra jIva jainI kaisa kahalA sakatA hai ? ___ vyabhicAmiNa kA kAma bhikSA nahIM dI jAsakatI, parantu zrAkSapaka ke matAnusAra vyabhicAriyoM kA kAmabhikSA dI jA sakatI hai, kyoMki agara dvitIya vivAha karAne vAlI strI vyabhicAriNI hai, to dvitIya vivAha karAne vAlA puruSa bhI vyabhicArI hai| kyA puruSa kA dUsarA vivAha dharmavRddhi kA kAraNa hai ? yadi hA~, to strI kA dUsarA vivAha bhI dharmavRddhi kA kAraNa hai. jisakI siddhi pahila vistAra se kI jA cukI hai| jo cAra cAra striyoM ko nigala jAne vAle ko to dharmAH tmA samajhanA ho, kintu punarvivAha karane vAlI striyo ko vyabhicAriNI kahatA ho, usakI dhRSTatApUrNa nIcatA kA kucha ThikAnA bhI hai! __ AkSepaka svIkAra karatA hai aura hama bhI kaha cuke haiM ki vivAhakA lakSya kAmazAnti, mvadArasantoSa, sva-patisantoSa arthAt brahmacaryANuvata hai| vivAha kAmabhikSA nahIM haiN| kyA

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( 127 ) AkSepaka apanI bahina beTiyoM ke vivAha ko kAmabhikSA samajhatA hai ? yadi nahIM, no vidhavAoM ke vivAha ko kAma. bhikSA nahIM kaha sakate / vidhavAzrI kA vivAha dharmavRddhi kA kAraNa hai, yaha bAta hama pahile siddha kara cuke hai| AkSepa ( 3 )-vivAha se kAmatAlasA ghaTanI hai, isa kA eka bhI pramANa nahIM diyA / vivAha hAne para bhI kAmalAlasA naSTa nahIM huI, ulTo bar3hA hai, jaise gavaNAdika kii| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-zrAbAla gopAla prasiddha bAtako zAstra pramANoM kI z2arUrata nahIM haatii| phira bhI pramANa cAhiye nA zrAzAdhara jI ke ina zabdoM para dhyAna dIjiye ki agara putra putrI kA vivAha na kiyA jAyagA nA ve svacchandacArI ho jAyeMge (dakhA pAkSapa 'Ga') / vivAha se agara kulasamayalokavirodhI yaha mvacchandAcAra ghaTatA hai to yaha kyA kAmalAlasA kA ghaTanA na kahalAyA ? vivAha hone para bhI agara kisI kI kAma. lAlasA naSTa nahIM hotI to isake liye hama kaha cuke hai ki upAya 100 meM dama jagaha amaphala bhI hotA hai| tIrthaGkaroM ke upadeza rahane para bhI agara abhavya kA uddhAra na ho, sUrya ke rahane para bhI agara ullU ko na dikha no isameM nIrthaGkara kI yA sUrya kI upayAgitA naSTa nahIM hotI hai| isI taraha vivAha ke hAne para agara kisI kA dugacAra na ruke tA isase usakI upayogitA kA prabhAva nahIM kahA jA sakatA / AkSepaka ne yahA~ vyabhicAra doSa dila lAkara nyAyanamitA kA paricaya diyA hai| isa dRSTi se tA nIrthaGkara aura sUrya kI upayogitA mI vyabhicarita kahalAI / zrAkSa paka ko jAnanA cAhiye ki kAraNa ke madbhAva meM kArya ke prabhAva hone para vyabhicAra nahIM honA, kintu kArya ke sadbhAva meM kAraNa ke abhAva hone para vyabhi

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( 128 ) bAra hotA hai / ani kAraNa haiM: parantu usake hone para bhI agara asia nikale to agni aura dhuA~ kA kArya kAraNabhAva vyabhi afta nahIM kahalAtA / hamane isI bAtake samarthana meM kahA thA ki "cikitsA karane para bhI loga marate haiM, zAstrI hone para bhI loga dharma nahIM samajhate" / isa para zrApa kahate haiM ki "vaha cikitsA nahIM, cikitsAbhAsa hai; vaha zAstrI, zAstrI nahIM hai" / bahuta ThIka, hama bhI kahate haiM ki jisa vivAha ke bAda kAmalAlasA zAnta nahIM huI, kintu bar3hI hai, vaha vivAha nahI, vivA hAbhAsa haiM | vAstavika vivAha to kAmalAlasA ko avazya zAMta karegA / isaliye vidhavAvivAha se bhI kAmalAlasA kI zAMti hotI hai| AkSepa (Da) - yaha koI niyama nahIM ki vivAha ke binA pratyeka vyakti ko dekhakara pApavAsanA jAgRta ho jaay| vAsu pUjya akalaGka zrAdi ke vivAha nahIM hue / kyA sabhI zrasaM yamI the ? - - $6 samAdhAna- - kAmalAlasA kI prAMzika zAMti ke lie vivAha eka auSadhi hai / vAsupUjya zrAdi brahmacArI the / unameM kAmalAlasA thI hI nahIM, isaliye unheM vivAha kI bhI z2arU rata nahIM thI / 'zramaka zrAdamI saqhta bImAra hai / agara usakI cikitsA na hogI to marajAyagA " - isa ke uttara meM agara yaha kahA jAya ki vaidya ke pAsa to sau dosau zrAdamI jAte haiM, bAqI kyoM nahIM mara jAte ? to kyA yaha uttara ThIka hogA ? zrare bhAI ! bImAra ko zrauSadhi cAhiye, nIrogako auSadhi nahIM caahiye| isI taraha kAmalAnamA vAle manuSya ko usa kI AMzika zAMti ke lie vivAha kI zrAvazyakatA hai, na ki brahmacArI ko / isase eka bAta yaha bhI siddha hotI haiM ki vivAha kA mukhya uddezya lar3ake bacce nahIM haiM / bAlabrahmacAriyoM ke

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( 126) santAna nahIM hotI, phira bhI ve vivAha nahIM kraate| kyoMki unhoMne vivAha kA makhya uddezya vivAha ke binA hI pUrNa kara liyA hai| mukhya uddezya kI pUrti hone para gauNa uddezya kI pUrti ke liye kArya nahIM kiyA jaataa| prAkSepa (da)-kAmavAsanA ke zAnta na hone ke kAraNa vidhavAvivAha ke vigaMdhI, vidhavAvivAha kA virodha nahIM karate, kintu unase virodha karane kA kAraNa hai bhagavAna mahAvIra kA pAgama / pApa uttara deN| Apake pramANa hameM a~ce to hama Apa ke Andolana meM ApakA hAtha bttaayeNge| samAdhAna-naghamA~ prazna bhagavAna ke prAgama ke vicAra kA nahIM thA / usakA vicAra no pahilaM praznoM meM acchI taraha hogyaa| isameM to yaha pUchAgayA hai ki vivAhase kAma lAlasA ke pariNAmoM meM nyanatA pAtI hai yA nahIM ? yadi zrAtI hai to vidhavAvivAha prAvazyaka aura ucita hai| yadi nahIM pAtI to vidhavAvivAha anAvazyaka hai / isIliye hamane yukti aura zAstra pramANoM se siddha kiyA hai ki vivAha se saMklezatA kamatI hotI hai| yukti aura tarka ke balapara hamAre Andolana meM vahI zAmila hogA jo satyapriya hogA, prAtmoddhAra kA icchuka hogA, dazasamAja kA rakSaka hogA / savyasAcI, Taka ke gulAmo kI parvAha nahIM krtaa| jisa prakAra prAcIna savyasAcI ne kRSNa kA bala pAkara apane gArADIva dhanuSa se nikale hue vANoM se kaurava dala kA avasAna kiyA thA usI prakAra Adhunika savyasAcI bhagavAna mahAvIra kA bala pAkara apane khAna gArADIva se nikale hue takarUpo vANoM se sthitipAlaka dasa kA avasAna kregaa| mAkSepa (Na)-savyasAcI mahodaya ko dRSTi meM vyabhi. cAra ko rokane kA upAya vivAhamAge ko ur3AnA hai| Apako

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kucha hoza bhI hai ki zrApa Upara kyA kucha likha pAye haiM ? pahila ume jalAkara vAka kara DAlo naba dUsarI bAta kahanA ! samAdhAna-hamane kahA thA ki "yadi vivAha hone para bhI kinhIM logoM kI kAmavAsanA zAnta nahIM hotI to isase vidhavAvivAha kA niSetra kaise ho sakatA hai| phira to vivAha mAtra kA niSedha honA caahiye|'' pAThaka dekheM ki hamArA yaha vaktavya kyA vivAha mArga ko ur3Ane kA hai ? hama to vidhavA. vivAha aura kumAge vivAha donoM ke samarthaka hai / parantu jo loga jima kAraNa se vidhavAvivAha anAvazyaka samajhate haiM, unheM usI kAraNa se kunAgavivAha bhI anAvazyaka mAnanA pdd'egaa| amalI bAta to yaha hai ki agara kisI jagaha vivAha (kumArIvivAha yA vidhavAvivAha ) kA phala na mile to kyA vivAhaprayA ur3A denA cAhiye ? hamArA kahanA hai ki nahIM ur3AnA caahiye| jaba ki AkSAka kA kahanA hai ki uDA denA cAhiye, kyoMki zrAkSa paka na vidhavAvivAha kI prathA ur3A dene ke liye usakI niSphalanA kA z2ikara kiyA hai / aisI niSphalatA kumArI vivAha meM bhI ho sakatI hai, isaliye AkSepaka ke kathanAnusAra vaha prathA mI rar3A dene lAyaka tthhrii| pAkSepa (ta)---zrAdipugaNa, mAgAradharmAmRta, paM0 medhAvI, paM0 udayalAlajI, zItalaprasAdajI, dayAcanda goyalIya Adi ne putrotpatti ke liye hI, vivAha kAmabhoga kA vidhAna kiyA hai, kAmavAsanA kI pUrti ko kAmukatA banalAyA hai| samAdhAna-kAmalAlasA kI pUrti kAmukatA bhale hI ho parantu kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti kAma katA nahIM hai / svastrIramaNa ko kAmakanA bhale hI kahA jAya, parantu parastrotyAga kAmakatA nahIM hai| yaha kAmalAlasA kI nivatti hai| hamane zAstrapramANoM se siddha kara diyA hai ki pUrNa brahmacarya pAlana karane kI prasa

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( 131 ) marthatA meM hI gRhastha dharma aGgIkAra karanA cAhiye / amRtacaMdra jI aura pAzAdharajI ke zloka hama likha cuke haiM / phira bhI AkSapaka kA pUchanA hai ki pramANa batAo ! khaira, aura bhI pramANa liijiye| sAgAradharmAmRta ke dvitIya adhyAya kA prathama zloka"tyAjyAnajana' Adi pahile hI likhA jA cukA hai / yadi kanyA vivAho na kAryate' zrAdi uddharaNa prAkSapa (3) meM dekho| 'viSayasukhopabhogenaiva cAritramAhodayodrekamya zazyapratIkAratvAt tadadvAreNeva tasmAdavAtmAnamiva sAdharmikamapi viSayebhyo vyuparamayet / viSayeSu sukhabhrAnnikarmAbhimagnapAka jAm / dvitvAtadupagenavAjayettAmyavatpagan / ' arthAt-cAritramoha kA jaba tIva udaya hotA hai to viSayasukha ke upabhoga se hI usakA pratIkAra (nivatti) ho sakatA hai, isaliye umakA upabhoga karake nivRtta hove aura dUsare ko nivRtta kre| sukhabhrAnti haTAne kA yaha vaktavya vivAha kI zrAvazyaka. nA ke liye kahA gayA hai / saura, aura bhI aise pramANa diye jAsakate haiM / nivRttimArgapradhAna jainadharma meM nivRttiparaka pramANoM kI kamI nahIM hai / yahA~ para mukhya bAta hai mamanvaya kI, arthAt jaba vivAha kA uddezya kAmalAlammA kI nivRtti arthAt AMzika brahmacarya hai taba putrotpatti kA ullekha prAcIna lekhakoM ne kyoM kiyA ? nAsamajha logoM se to kyA kahA jAya, parantu samajhadAra samajhate haiM ki putrotpattikA ullekha bhI kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti ke liye hai| jainadharma prathama to kahatA hai ki pUrNa brahmacarya pAlo / agara itanA na ho sake to vivAha karake prAMzika nivRtti (paradAranivRtti) kro| parantu lakSya to pUrNa nivRtti hai isaliye dhIre dhIre usake nivRtti aMza bar3hAye jAte

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( 132 ) haiM aura usase kahA jAtA hai ki tumheM santAna ke liye hI sambhoga karanA cAhiye / jaba usakI yaha bAta samajha meM zrA jAtI hai taba vaha RtusnAna ke dina hI kAma sevana karanA hai / isa taraha prati mAma 26 dina usake brahmacaryasaM bItane lagate haiM / zrAcAryoM ne paradAranivRtti ke bAda svastrI sambhoga-nivRtti kA bhI yathAsAdhya vidhAna batalAyA hai| isaliye kahA hai "santAnArthamRtAveva" / arthAt santAna ke liye RtukAlameM ho sevana kare / isase pAThaka samajha gaye hoMge ki santAna kI bAta bhI kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti ko bar3hAne ke liye hai / zrAcAryoM ne jahAM santAna ke utpAdana, lAlana pAlana zrAdi kI bAteM likhI haiM usakA prayojana yahI hai ki "jaba tuma AMzika pravRtti aura AMzika nivRtti ke mArga meM Aye ho to paropakAra Adi gauNa udde zo kA bhI khayAla rakho, kyoMki ye kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti rUpa mukhya uddeza ko bar3hAne vAle hai, sAtha hI paropakAra rUpa bhI haiM / " yadi annaprApti kA mukhya uddezya siddha ho gayA hai to bhI bhUmA kI prApti kA gorA uhezya bhI chor3ane yogya nahIM hai / AkSepa (tha) - kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti to vaizyAsevana, parastrIsevana se bhI ho sakatI hai, phira vivAha kI AvazyakatA hI kyA ? samAdhAna- - kAmalAlasA nAke jisa aMzakI nivRtti karanA hai, vaha vezyA sevana aura parastrIsevana hI haiN| isI kAmalAlasA se bacane ke liye to vivAha hotA hai| isase vivAha kA lakSya zrAMzika brahmacarya yA svadAgsantoSa kaise siddha ho sakatA hai ? isase pAThaka samajheMge ki hamAre kathanAnusAra vivAha maz2e ke liye nahIM hai, parantu tIvra cAritra moha ke udaya ko zAMta karane ke liye peyauSadhi ke samAna kucha bhoga bhogane par3ate haiM jaisA

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( 133 ) ki amRtacandra prAcArya aura AzAdharajI ne kahA hai, jo ki hama likha cuke hai / strIpuruSa ke adhikAra bheda ke viSaya meM kahA jA cukA hai| vidhavAvivAha ko jahara Adi kahanA yukti se jItane para gAliyoM para prAjAnA hai| AkSepa (da)-yadi vivAha se hI kAmalAlasA kI nivRtti mAnalI jAya to brahmacarya Adi vanoM kI kyA zrAvazyakatA hai, kyoMki brahmacarya kA bhI nA kAma kI nivRtti ke liye upadeza hai? mamAdhAna-abhI taka zrApa kAmalAlamA kI nivRtti ko vuga samajhate the| isake samarthakoM ko Apane pAgala, mohI, nityanigAMdiyA (nigodiyA), akSAnI, raTTa nAte zrAdi likha mArA thA / yahA~ Apane isa brahmacarya kA sAdhya banA diyA hai| baiMga, kucha nA ThikAne para paae| aba itanA aura samajha lIjiye ki vivAha, brahmacarya aNuvata kA mukhya sAdhaka hai| isaliye vivAha aura brahmacaryatrata ke lakSya meM koI virodha nahIM he / brahmacaryavrata antaraGgasAdhaka hai, vivAha vAhyalAdhaka, isa liye koI nirarthaka nahI haiN| eka sAdhya ke aneka sAdhaka hAte he| prAkSapa (dha)-jinakI kAmalAlasA prabala hai, ve binA upadeza ka hI svayameva isa patha ko pakar3a letI haiN| phira Apa kyoM apanA ahina karate haiM ? samAdhAna-jinakI kAmalAlasA prabala hai, ve abhI svaya. meva vidhavAvivAha ke mArga ko nahIM pakar3atI, ve vyabhicAra ke mArga ko pakar3atI hai / usako nivRtti ke liye vidhavAvivAha ke Andolana kI z2arUrata hai| vivAha na kiyA jAye to kumAriyA~ bhI apanA mArga DhUMDha leMgo, lekina vaha vyabhicAra kA mArga hogA / isaliye loga unakA vivAha kara dene haiM / phala yaha

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( 134 ) hotA hai ki vyabhicAra mArga bahuta kucha ruka jAtA hai / ThIka yahI bAna vidhavAoM ke liye hai| dasavA~ prazna 'kyA vidhavA ho jAne se hI prAjanma brahmacarya pAlana kI zakti pAjAtI hai ?' isake uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki 'nahIM' / dUsare prakSepaka (vidyAnanda ) ne bhI hamArI yaha bAta mvIkAra karalI hai parantu pahile prAkSa paka kahate hai ki yaha dhRSTatA hai| isakA matalaba yaha nikalA ki saMmAra meM jitanI vidhavA huI hai va saba vyabhicAriNI hai| AkSa paka kI isa mUrkhatA ke liye kyA kahA jAya ? pratyeka vidhavA brahmacarya nahIM pAla sakatI hai-imakA to yahI artha hai ki koI kAI pAla sakatI haiM, jinake pariNAma viraktirUpa ho| isaliye hamane likhA thA ki yaha bAta pariNAmoM ke Upara nirbhara hai / parantu zrIlAla, na to pariNAmoM kI bAta samajhA, na usa vAkya kA matalaba / zrIlAla yaha bhI kahatA hai-'magagatA se muni meM bhaTatA nahIM pAtI, na para puruSa se ramaNarUpa bhAva se vidhavA bhraSTa hotI hai| hama apane zabdo meM isakA uttara na dekara AkSa paka ke parama sahayogI paM0 makkhanalAla ke vAkyoM meM likhate haiM : "sagagatA se vidhavAe~ zIlabhraTa jarUra khlaayeNgii| muni bhI sagagatA se bhraSTa mAnA jAtA hai|" aba ye donoM domta Apasa meM nibaTa le|| donoM hI prApakoM ne eka hI bAna para vizeSa jora diyA hai / "vidhavAvivAha adharma hai; usako koI tIsarA mArga nahIM hai: vidhavA kA vivAha nahIM ho sakatA, use vivAha nahIM, karAva yA dharejA kahate haiN| Apa ke pAsa kyA yakti pramANa hai ? Apa apanI icchA se hI vidhavAvivAha kA upadeza kyoM

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( 135 ) karate ho ?" zrAdi / ina saba bAtoM kA uttara pahile acchI taraha diyA jA cukA hai / aba bArabAra uttara dene kI z2arUrata nahIM hai / hA~, zravado AkSepa raha jAte hai jinakA uttara denA hai / inameM anya AkSepoM kA bhI samAveza ho jAtA hai / AkSa epa (ka) - pratyeka manuSya meM to zarAba ke tyAgane kI zakti kA pragaTa honA bhI anivArya nahI hai taba kyA zarAba pI lenA cAhiye ? samAdhAna - vidhavAvivAha kI jaisI aura jitanI upayogitA hai vaisI yadi zarAba kI bhI ho to pI lenA cAhiye / ( 1 ) vidhavAvivAha parastrIsevana yA parapuruSasevana se bacAtA hai / isaliye aNuvana kA sAdhaka hai / kyA zarAba aNuvana kA sAdhaka hai ? ( 2 ) vidhavAvivAha se bhra rAhatyA rukatI hai / kyA zarAba se bhrUNa yA koI hatyA rukatI hai ? ( 3 ) jenazAstroM meM jaise vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha nahIM pAyA jAtA, kyA vaisA zarAba kA niSedha nahIM pAyA jAtA ? (5) puruSasamAja apanA punarvivAha karatI hai aura striyoM ko nahIM karane denA caahtii| kyA isI taraha puruSa samAja zarAba pItI hai aura kyA striyoM ko nahIM pIne denA cAhatI ? ( 4 ) jisa vidhavA ke santAna na ho aura use santAna kI AvazyakatA ho to use vidhavAvivAha anivArya hai / kyA isI taraha zarAba bhI kisI aise kArya ke liye anivArya hai ? ( 6 ) kisI ko vaidhavya jIvana meM Arthika kaSTa hai, isaliye vidhavAvivAha karanA cAhatI haiM, kyA zarAba bhI Arthika kaSTa ko dUra kara sakatI hai ?

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( 136 ) (7) vidhavAvivAha se jo sAmAjika aura dhArmika lAbha hamane siddha kiye haiM, kyA zarAba se bhI ve yA vaise lAbha zrApa siddha kara sakate haiM ? (a) vidhavAe~ jisa taraha hIna dRSTi se dekhI jAtI haiM, kyA umI taraha zarAba na pIne vAle dekhe jAte haiM ? yadi madyapAna meM lAbha ho to jisameM usake tyAga karane kI zakti nahIM hai usako usakA vidhAna kiyA jAsakatA hai, anyathA nhiiN| pUrNa brahmacarya kI zakti pragaTa na honA vidhavAvivAha kA eka kAraNa hai| jaba taka anya kAraNa na mile taba taka vidhavAvivAha kA vidhAna nahIM kiyA jAtA hai| usake anya kAraNa maujUda nahIM haiM isIliye usakA vidhAna kiyA gayA hai / AkSepa (kha)-kAryoM kI bahutasI jAtiyA~ haiM-1) manidharmaviruddha zrAvakAnurUpa (2) gRhasthaviruddha munianurUpa (3) ubhayaviruddha (4) ubhayaanurUpa / vivAha prathama bheda samAdhAna-vidhavAvivAha bhI vivAha hai isaliye vaha manidharma ke viruddha hone para bhI zrAvakAnurUpa hai| zrApa vidhura. vivAha ko vivAha mAnate aura vidhavAvivAha kI vivAha nahIM mAnate-yaha bilakula pakSapAna aura mithyAtva hai / hama pahile vidhavAvivAha ko vivAha siddha kara cuke haiN| balAdvaidhavya kI zikSA jainadharma kI zikSA nahIM ho sktii| prAcAryoM ne vidhavAvivAhakA kahIM niSedha nahIM kiyaa| hA~, dhUrtatA aura mUrkhatA pugane z2amAne meM bhI thii| sambhava hai Ajakala ke paNDitoM ke samAna kAI ajJAnI aura dhUrta huA ho aura usane jainadharma ke viruddha, jainadharma ke nAma para hI kucha aMTa saMTa likha mArA ho| parantu aisI

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( 137 ) kupustakoM ko purAne z2amAne kA jainagaz2aTa hI samajhanA cAhiye / vAstava meM koI jaina grantha vidhavAvivAha kA virodhI nahIM ho makatA aura na koI prasiddha jainagrantha hai hii| nAnA taraha kI dIkSAe~ jo zAstroM meM pAI jAtI haiM ve vizeSa pratiyoM ke liye hI haiM-sAdhAraNa aNuvatiyoM ke liye nhiiN| vRddhoM ko muni banate na dekhakara hama meM calamalina Adi doSa kaise paidA hoMge? isame to yahI siddha hotA hai ki jana vRddha loga brahmacarya se nahIM raha pAte aura unakA brahmacarya se na rahanA itanA nizcita hai ki bhadrabAhu ne pahile se hI kaha diyA hai, taba vidhavAe~ brahmacarya se kaise raheMgI? bhadrabAhu zrutakevalI ne vRddhoM ke muni na hone kI vizeSa bAna to kahI. parantu vidhavAoM ke vivAha kI vizeSa bAta na kahI , isase mAlUma hotA hai ki vidhavAvivAha prAcInakAla saM calA pAtA hai / yaha koI aisI vizeSa aura anucita bAta na thI jisakA ki candragupta ko dumbapana hotA aura bhadrabAhu zratakevalI usakA phala kahate / jo cAhe, jaise cAhe, vicAra karale, use svIkAra karanA par3egA ki gRhasthA ke liye jainadharma meM vidhavAvivAha virodha kI paramANu barAbara bhI gujAyaza nahIM haiN| isa prazna meM yaha pUchA gayA hai ki dharmaviruddha kArya kisI hAlata meM ( usase bar3hakara dharmaviruddha kArya anivArya hona para ) kartavya ho sakatA hai yA nahIM ? isake uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki ho sakatA hai / yaha bAta aneka udAharaNoM se bhI samajhAI thii| vidhavAvivAha vyabhicAra hai prAdi bAtoM kA uttara hama de cuke haiN| AkSepa (ka)-jo kArya dharmaviruddha hai, vaha trikAla meM bhI ( kadApi ) dharmAnukUla nahIM ho sakatA / pA~ca pApoM ko dharmAnukUla siddha kIjiye / ( zrIlAla, vidyAnanda )

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( 13% ) mamAdhAna-yadi isa viSaya meM zAstrArtha kI dRSTi se likhA jAya taba nA jaima ko naimA hI uttara diyA jAmakatA hai| jainazAstroM meM to kisI apekSA ma gadhe ke mAMga kA bhI astitva siddha kiyA gayA hai| parantu hameM pAThakoM kI jijJAsA kA bhI khayAla hai isaliye tadanukUla hI uttara diyA jAnA hai| pA~ca pApA meM hisA mukhya hai / parantu dravya kSetra kAla mAva kI apekSA na vaha dhanukUna arthAt kartavya ho jAtI hai| jema--yuddha meM himA hotA hai, parantu mInA kI dharmarakSA ke liya ganacandra ne agaNita prAriyAM kI hiMmA kgii| zragu. vRtI yuddha meM jAne hai, pa.lA zAstroM meM spaSTa kathana hai / zUkarana muniko rakSA karane ke liye siMha ko mAra DAlA aura khuda bhI maga, pugayabadha kiyA ora mvarga gayA / mandira banavAne meM tathA anya bahuta me pagapakAra ke mAramma kAryoM meM himA hotI hai parantu vaha puNya vandha kA kAraNa kahI gaI hai| jina amRtacandra prAcAya kI duhAI AkSepaka na dI hai, vahI kahate hai avidhAyApi hi hisAM hiMsAphalabhAjanaM bhvtykH| kRtvApyapaga himAM himAphalabhAjanaM na syAt // kamyApi dizati hilA hiMsAphanamekameva phala kAlaM / anyamya seva disA dizatyahi mAphala viphalam // himnAphalamaparamya tu dadAtyahimA ta pariNAma / itarasya punahimA dizatyahisAphalaM nAnyat // eka AdamI hiMsA na karake bhI hiMsAmAgI hAtA hai, dusaga himA karaka bhI hisAbhAgI nahIM hotaa| kisI kI himA, himAphala denI hai, kimI kI hiMsA, ahimAphala denI hai / kisI kI ahiMsA, hiMsA phala detI hai kisI ki ahimA ahiMsAphala detI hai| kyA isase yaha bAta nahIM siddha hotI ki kahI hiMsA bhI

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( 136 ) kartavya ho jAtI hai aura kahI ahiMsA bhI kartavya ho jAtI hai ? zraGgadena pApa he parantu bAlakoM ke kacheda Adi meM pApa nahIM mAnA jAtA | kisI satI ke pIche kucha madamAza par3e haoN to usake satItva kI rakSA ke liye jhUTha bolanA yA use chipA lenA (vAMgI) bhI anucita nahIM hai / paravivAhakaraNa zravana kA duSaNa he parantu apanI santAna kA vivAha karanA yA vyabhicAra kI tarapha jhukane vAloM ko vivAha kA upadeza denA dUSaNa nahIM hai / parigraha pApa hai parantu dharmopakaraNoM kA rakhanA pApa nahIM hai / isa taraha pA~coM hI pApa apekSA bheda se kartavyAkartavya rUpa hai / zrakSepaka eka tarapha to yaha kahate haiM ki dharmaviruddha kArya trikAla meM bhI dharmAnukUla nahIM ho sakatA parantu dUsarI tarapha, trikAla kI bAta jAne dIjiye eka hI kAla meM, kahate haiM ki punarvivAha vidhavA ke liye dharmaviruddha hai aura vidhura ke liye dharmAnukUla hai / kyA yahA~ para eka hI kArya dravyAdi catuSya meM me dravyapekSA vividharUpa nahIM kahA gayA hai / ye hI loga kahate hai ki adravya se jinapUjana dharma hai, parantu aMgI agara aisA kareM to dharma DUba jAyagA 1 yadi jinapUjana kisI bhI taraha adharma nahIM ho sakatA to bhaMgI ke liye adharma kyoM ho jAyagA ? matalaba yaha hai ki dravya kSetra kAla bhAva kI apekSA lekara eka kArya ko vividharUpa meM ye khuda mAnate haiM / isIliye saptama pratimA ke nIce vivAha ( bhale hI vaha vidhavAvivAha hA ) dharmAnukUla haiM / brahmacarya pratimA se lekara vaha dharmaviruddha hai / AkSepa (kha - vivAha kriyA svayaM sadA sarvadA sarvathA dhArmikahI hai| hA~ ! pAtra apAtra ke bheda se use dharmaviruddha kaha diyA jAtA haiM 1

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( 140) mamAdhAna-jahA~ pAtra (dravya ) apAtra kI apekSA hai vahA~ sarvathA zabda kA prayoga nahIM hotA hai / sudhAraka yahI to kahate hai ki dravya (gAtra) kSetra kAla bhAva kI apekSA se kisI kArya kI dharmAnukUlatA yA dharmaviruddhatA kA nirNaya karanA cAhiye / isaliye eka pAtra ke liye jA dharmaviruddha hai dUsare ke liye vahI dharmAnukUla ho sakatA hai| brahmavarya pratimA dhAraNa karane vAlI vidhavA ko vivAha dharmaviruddha hai, anya vidhavAoM ko dharmAnukala hai| yahI nA pAtrAdi kI apekSA hai| AkSepa (ga )-savyasAcI ne vivAha ko dharmAnukUla arthAt dhArmika nA mAna liyA / sAlabhara pahile to use mAmAjika, sAmAjika cillAte the| mamAdhAna-brahmacarya pratimA se nIce kumAra kumArI aura vidhavA vidhura ke liye vivAha dharmAnukUla hai-yaha maiM sadA se kahanA huuN| parantu dharmAnukUla aura dhArmika eka hI bAta nahIM hai / vyApAra karanA, ghUmanA, bhojana karanA, pezAba karanA Adi kArya dharmAnukalatA hai parantu dhArmika nahI haiN| dharma kA aGga honA eka bAta hai aura dharmamArga meM bAdhaka na honA dusarI bAna hai| _ AkSepa (gha)-bahuta anartha ko rokane ke liye thor3A anartha karane kI prAzA jainadharma nahIM denaa| samAdhAna-maiM pahile ho likha cukA hU~ ki eka anartha ko rokane ke liye isaga anartha mata karo parantu mahAna anartha rokane ke liye alpa anartha kara sakate ho / vyabhicAra anartha rokane ke liye hI to vivAha anartha kiyA jAtA hai| jinane pravRtyAtmaka kArya he ve maba anartha yA pApa ke aMza haiN| jaba ve kArya adhika anoM ko rokane vAle hote haiM taba ve anartha yA pApa zabda se nahIM kahe jAte / parantu haiM no ve pApa

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hI / sAdhAraNa pApa kI to bAta hI kyA hai parantu aNuvana naka pApa kahA jAsakatA hai (aNuvana arthAt thor3A vrata arthAt bAkI pApa) jaba aNuvrata kI yaha bAta he naboroM kI to bAta hI kyA hai ? prANadaNDa sagekhA kArya bhI jainasamrATI ne adhika anarthoM ko rokane ke liye kiyA hai / nirvikalpa avasthA ke pahile jitane kArya hai ve saba bahu anayoM ko rokane vAle thor3e anartha hI haiN| prakRta bAta yaha hai ki vidhavAvivAha se vyabhiH cAra zrAdi anarthoM kA nigaMdha hotA hai isaliye vaha grAhya hai| AkSepa (Ga)-jo purAya haiM vaha madA purA pa hai / jo pApa hai vaha madA pApa hai| mapAdhAna-naba to punarvivAha, vidhuge ke liye agara puNya hai to vidhavAoM ke liye bho purAya khlaayaa| AkSepa ( ca )-mvastrIsaMbana pApa nahIM, purAya hai / isI. liye yaha mvadArasaMtoSa aNuvrata kahalAtA hai / mamAdhAna-mvadArasaMvana aura svadArasaMtoSa meM bar3A antara hai / mvadArasaMbana meM ambadAranivRtti kA bhAva hai| saMvana meM sirpha pravRtti hai / svadArasaMtoSa, aNuvratI ko hI hogaa| mvadArasevana nA avirata aura mithyAtvI bhI kara sakatA hai| AkSepa (cha)-apekSAbheda lagAkara to Apa siddhA kI apekSA mnAtakoM ( ahanoM) ko bhI pApI kaheMge / samAdhAna-akula zrAdi ko apekSA pulAka zrAdi pApI kahaM jAsakate haiM kyoMki pulAka Adi meM kaSAye haiN| koI jIva tabhI pApI kahalA sakatA hai jaba ki usake kapAya ho / kaSAyarahita jIva pApI nahIM kahalAnA / ahana kaSAyAnIta hai| mAkSepa ( ja )-yadi dharmaviruddha kArya bhI grAhya svIkAra kiye jA~ya taba tyAjya kona se hoMge? samAdhAna-dharmaviruddha kArya, jisa apekSA se dharmAnu

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( 172 ) kala siddha hAMga umo apekSA se grAhA hai| bAkI apekSAnoM se anAhA / pratyeka padArtha ke sAtha samabhaMgI lagAI jAsakatI haiN| agara nAstibhaMga lagAte samaya koI kaha ki pratyeka padArtha ko yadi nAstirUpa kahAMge to astirUpa kima kahAMge? taba isakA uttara yahI hAgA ki apekSAntara meM yahI padArtha amnirUpa bhI hogA / isI prakAra eka kArya kimI apekSA saM grAhA, kisI apekSA meM agrAhya hai| jo loga pUrNabrahmacarya kA pAlana nahIM kara makane unako vidhavAvivAha grAhya haiM / pUrNa brahmacAriyoM ko agrAhA / bArahavA~ prazna "choTe choTe dudham hai baccoM kA vivAha dharmaviruddha hai yA nahIM" ? isa prazna ke uttara meM hamane aise vivAha ko dharmaviruddha kahA thA, kyoki una meM vivAha kA lanagA nahIM jAnA / jaba vaha vivAha hI nahIM to usane pa~dA duI santAna kA ke mamAna nAjAyaz2a kahalAI / isaliye aise nAmamAtra ke vivAha ke ho jAne para bhI vAstavika vivAha kI AvazyakatA hai| AkSepa (ka)-madrayAhuhitAmeM likhA hai ki kanyA 12 kI aura vara solaha varSa kA honA cAhiye / isase kama aura adhika vikAra hai / ( zrIlAla) samAdhAna-bhadrayAhu nakavalI the / digambara sampra. dAya meM unakA banAyA huA koI grantha nahIM hai / unake do haz2Ara varSa bAda eka ajJAnI dhUta ne unake nAma se eka jAlI grantha banAyA aura usapara bhadrabAhu kI chApa lagAdI / khaira, purANoM meM zAyada hI koI vivAha 12 varSa kI umra meM kiyA huA milegaa| dharmazAstra to yaha kahatA hai ki jitanI adhika umara naka brahmacarya rahe utanA hI acchA / dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki ThIka

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( 143 ) bAraha varSa pUre hone kA niyama pala nahIM sakatA / ye paNDita loga zAradA bila ke virodha meM kahA karate hai ki 14 varSa ko umara rakAnI jAyagI to mAina na milane se 17 varSa kI umara hojAyagI / parantu bAraha varSa ke niyama ke anusAra bhI to sAita na milane para 15 varSakI umara hojaaygii| puruSoM ke liye 16 varSa se z2yAdA umara meM vivAha na karane kA vidhAna kiyA jAya no vidhura vivAha aura bahuvivAha banda hI ho jAyaM, jinake ki ya pariData himAyatI hai| AkSepaH kha )-bAla vivAha ko dharmaviruddha aura nAjA. yaz2a kAra dane meM striyAM chInI jAya~gI / zrIlAla ) samAdhAna ---trigA~ chInI na jAya~gI parantu una donoM kA phira macA vivAha karanA pdd'egaa| isameM koI nAjAyaz2a vivAha (bAlavivAha) ke liye prAyojana na kregaa| AkSepa ga )-agara bhUla se mAtA pitA ne bAlavivAha kara diyA to vaha TUTa nahI sakatA / bhala meM viSa de diyA jAya nA bhI maranA par3egA, dhana corI calA jAya to baha gayA hI kahalAyamA (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-viSa dene para cikitmA ke dvAga uma haTAna kI caMdA kI jAtI hai| cAhAne para cAra ko dagaDa dene kI ora mAna barAmada karane kI koziza kI jAtI hai| bAlavivAha ho jAne para phira vivAha karanA mAno coga kA mAla barAmada karanA hai| prAkSaka ke udAharaNa hamAga hI pakSa samarthana karate haiM / AkSepa gha)-gAMdharva vivAha kA udAharaNa yahAM lAga nahIM honA kyoMki yahA~ brAhmavivAha kA prakaraNa he / (zrIlAla) mamAdhAna-hamane kahA thA ki vivAha meM kisI khAsa vidhiko AvazyakatA nahIM / gAMdharva vivAha meM zAstrIya vidhi

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( 144 ) nahIM hai phira bhI vaha vivAha hai| isa doSa kA nivAraNa zrAkSaMeka na kara sakA to kahatA hai ki yaha brAhmavivAha kA prakaraNa hai / parantu hamArA kahanA yaha hai ki brAhmavivAha ke atirikta bAkI vivAha, zrakSepaka ke matAnusAra vivAha haiM ki nahIM ? yadi a fear haiM aura unameM kisI khAsa vidhikI AvazyakatA nahI haiM to hamArA yaha vaktavya siddha ho jAtA hai ki vivAha meM kisI khAsa vidhi kI AvazyakatA nahIM hai| AkSepa (Ga) choTI AyuvAlI vivAhitA strI se utpanna santAna ko karNa ke samAna kahanA unmatta pralApa hai / ( zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-nyAyazAstra kI varNamAlA se zunya AkSepaka ko yahA~ samAnatA nahIM dIkhatI / yaha usakI mUrkhatA ke hI anurUpa hai / karNa ke janma meM yadi koI doSa thA to yahI ki ve zravivAhitA kI santAna the / bAlavivAha jaba vivAha hI nahIM hai taba usase paidA hone vAlI santAna avivAhitA kI santAna kahalAI isameM viSamatA kyA hai ? AkSepa (ca ) - dudhamuhe kA artha vivAha ke viSaya meM nAsamajha karane se to zaGkarAcArya bhI dudhamu~ hai kahalAye kyoMki isI carcA ke maNDana mizra kI strI se hAre the| agara tatkA lIna samAja unakA vivAha kara detA to ApakI naz2ara meM nAjA yaz2a hotA / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna- -agara zaGkarAcArya vivAha ke viSaya meM kucha nahIM jAnate the to unakA vivAha ho hI nahIM sakatA thA / samAja z2abardastI unakA vivAha karAne kI ceSTA karatI to vaha vivAha to nAjAyaz2a hotA hI, sAtha hI samAja ko bhI pApa lagatA / vivAha ke viSaya meM zaGkarAcArya ko dudhamuhA kahanA anucita nahIM hai| nyAyazAstra meM 'bAlAnAm bAMdhAya ko TIkA

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( 145 ) meM bAla zabda kA yahI artha kiyA jAtA hai ki jisane vyAkaraNa kAvya koSAdi no par3ha liye parantu nyAya na par3hA ho / isI taraha vivAha ke prakaraNa meM bhI samajhanA caahiye| isa viSaya meM prAkSepaka ne zurU meM bhI bhUla khAI hai| vAstava meM zaGkarAcArya vivAha ke viSaya meM anabhijJa nahIM the| ve kAmazAstra meM anabhijJa the aura isI viSaya meM ve pagajita hue the| vivAha meM, kAmavAsanA meM aura kAmazAstra meM bar3A aMtara hai / yaha bAta zrAkSaM paka ko samajha lenA cAhiye / / AkSepa (cha)-pahile garbhastha putrapatriyoM ke bhI vivAha hote the aura va nAjAyaz2a na mAne jAte the| ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna-ima AkSapa se tIna bAteM dhvanita hotI he-(1) purAne jamAne meM aAjakala kI mAnI huI vivAhavidhi pracalita nahI thI kyoki isa vivAhavidhi meM kanyA ke dvAga siddhamaMtra kI sthApanA kI jAtI haiM, saptapadI hotI hai, tathA vara kanyA ko aura bhI kriyAe~ karanI par3atI haiM jo garbhastha vara. kanyA nahIM kara sakate / (2) gabha meM agara donoM tarapha putra hA aura mAtA pitA ke vacana hI vivAha mAne jA~ya aura ve nAjAyaz2a na ho sake to putra putroM meM bhI vivAha khlaayaa| athavA yahI kahanA cAhiye ki vaha vivAha nahIM thaa| mAnA pitA ne sirpha sambhava hone para vivAha hone kI bAta kahI thii| ( 3 ) jaba garbha meM vivAha ho jAtA thA taba garbha meM hI lar3akI sadhayA khlaayii| duryodhana aura kRSNa meM bhI aisI bAna cIta huI thii| duryodhana ke putrI udadhikumArI huI jo garbha meM hI pradyumna kI patnI kahalAyI / parantu pradyumna kA haraNa ho gayA thA isaliye bhAnukumAra ke sAtha vivAha kA Ayojana huA / garbhastha vivAha ko AkSa paka nAjAyaz2a mAnate nahIM hai isaliye yaha udadhikumArI ke punarvivAha kA prAyojana kaha.

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( 146 ) lAyA / isaliye zraya zrAkSaM paka ko yA to bAlavivAha nAjAyaja mAnanA cAhiye yA strI punarvivAha jAyaz2a / bAlavivAha ko nAjAyaz2a siddha karane meM kisI qhAsa pramANa ke dene kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| vivAha kA lakSaNa na jAne se hI vaha nAjAyaz2a ho jAnA ha~ I AkSa epa (ja) - Azcarya hai ki karNa ko zrApa bAlavivAha kI santAna kaha kara nAjAyaz2a kaha rahe haiM / vaha to gAndharva vivAha kI santAna hone se nAjAyaz2a mAnA gayA hai / samAdhAna - kucha uttara na sUjhane para apanI tarapha se jhUTI bAta likhakara usakA khaNDana karane laganA zrakSepaka kI zrAdata mAlUma hotI hai, yA AkSepaka meM hamAre vAkya ko sama ne kI yogyatA nahIM hai / hamane karNa ko avivAhitA kI santAna kahA hai aura bAlavivAha meM vivAha kA lakSaNa nahIM jAnA isaliye usakI santAna bhI avivAhitA kI santAna kahalAyI / karNa meM aura bAlavivAha kI santAna meM avivA hitajanyatA kI apekSA samAnatA huii| isase karNa ko bAlavivAha kI santAna samajha lenA prakSepaka kI akula kI khUbI hai / AkSepaka ko upamA, upameya, upamAna samAna dharma kA bilakula jJAna nahIM mAlUma hotA / karNa agara gAndharva vivAha kI santAna hote to unheM chipAkara vahA dene kI z2arUrata na hotI, athavA pA~coM pAMDava bhI nAjAyaz2a hote / agara yaha kahA jAya ki karNa janma ke bAda kuntI kA vivAha kiyA gayA thA to mAnanA par3egA ki karNa janma ke pahile kuntI kA gAndharvavivAha nahIM huA, athavA karNa janma ke bAda usakA punarvivAha huA aura eka baccA paidA karane para bhI vaha kanyA kahalAI / agara kanyA nahIM kahalAI no vivAha kaise huA ?

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( 147) AkSepa (jha)-vivAha kA cAritra mohanIya ke udaya ke sAtha na to anvaya hai na vyatireka / samAdhAna-yaha vAkya likha kara AkSepaka ne akalaGkAcArya kA virodha to kiyA hI hai sAtha hI nyAyazAstra meM prasA. dhAraNa ajJAnatA kA paricaya bhI diyA hai / zrApaka anvaya vyatireka kA svarUpa hI nahIM samajhatA / kArya kAraNa kA jahA~ avinAbhAva batalAyA jAtA hai vahA~ kAraNa ke sadbhAva meM kArya kA sadbhAva nahIM batAyA jAtA kintu kArya ke sadbhAva meM kAraNa kA sadbhAva batalAyA jAnA hai| kAraNa ke sadbhAva meM kArya kA sadbhAva ho bhI sakatA hai aura nahIM bhI ho sakatA hai| cAritra mAha ke udaya ( kAraNa ) rahane para vivAha ( kArya ) ho sakatA hai aura nahIM bhI ho sktaa| arthAt vyabhicAra vageraha bhI ho sakatA hai / parantu vivAha ( kArya ) ke sadbhAva meM cAritra mAha kA udaya (kAraNa) tA anivArya hai| agara vaha na ho to vivAha nahIM ho sakatA / yaha vyatireka bhI mpaTa hai| cAritramAha ke udaya kA phala saMbhoga kriyA kA jJAna nahIM hai / zAna to zAnAvaraNa ke kSayopazama kA phala hai / cAritra mAhodaya to kAmalAlasA paidA karatA hai| agara use parimita karane ke nimitta mila jAte hai to vivAha hA jAtA hai, anyathA vyabhicAra hotA hai| prAkSa paka ne yahA~ apanI Adata ke anu. sAra apanI tarapha se 'hI' jor3a diyA hai| arthAt 'cAritra moha kA udaya hI' kahakara kharADana kiyA hai, jabaki hamane 'hI' kA prayoga hI nahIM kiyA hai / jaba cAritramAha ke udaya ke sAtha sadvaMdya kI bAta bhI kahI hai taba 'hI' zabda ko z2abardastI ghuser3anA bar3I bhArI dhUrtatA hai| akaladeva ne savedya aura cAritramoha likhA hai| prAkSa paka ne usakA abhiprAya nikAlA hai 'upbhogaantraay'|

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(148 ) kyA gaz2aba kA abhiprAya haiM ! zrAkSapaka ke ye zabda bilakula unmatta pralApa he "vivAha sAtA-vedanIya aora upamAMgAnta. gaya ke kSayopazama se hotA hai-cAritramoha ke udaya se nahIM, imIliye unhoMne cAritramAhodayAt ke pahile sadvedya pada DAla diyA hai / " cAritramAha ke pahila saTedya pada DAla diyA, isama eka ke badale meM do kAraNa hogaye parantu cAritramAha kA niSedha kaise ho gayA aura usakA artha upabhogAntagaya kaima bana gayA ? AkSepa ( a )-vivAha kA upAdAna kAraNa cAritramAha kA udaya nahIM hai kintu para badhu hai| mamAdhAna-hamane vahA~ "cAritramAha ke udaya se hone vAle gagapariNAma" kahA hai| yaha pariNAma hI to vivAha kI pUrva avasthA hai aura pUrva avasthA ko zrApa mvayaM upAdAna kAraNa mAnate haiN| vistRta kAmavAsanA kA parminana kAmavAsanA ho jAnA hI vivAha hai| Apane upacAra meM poraNAmI (vara kanyA) ko upAdAna kAraNa kaha diyA hai, parantu pariNAma ke binA pariNAmI vara kanyA nahIM ho sakate / bAlavivAha meM vara kanyA hote hI nahIM, do bacce hote hai / jaba pariNAma nahIM naba pari. NAmI kaise ? yahA~ AkSepaka anigraha meM apratimA nAmaka nigraha kahakara nignuyojyAnuyAga nAmaka nigrahasthAna meM jAgirA hai / prAkSepa ( Ta )--jaba Apa vivAha ke liye niyata vidhi mAnate haiM taba usake binA vivAha kesA ? niyata vidhi zabdakA kucha qhayAla bhI hai yA nahIM? mamAdhAna-gAMdharvavivAha ko zrApa vivAha mAnate ho / Apako dRSTi meM bhale hI vaha adharma vivAha ho, parantu hai to vivAha hii| isa vivAha meM Apa bhI niyata vidhi nahIM mAnane phira bhI vivAha kahate hai| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki kisI niyana

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( 146) vidhi kA upayoga karanA na karanA icchA ke Upara nirbhara hai| kisI eka nagara me dumare nagara ko yAtrA karane ke liye relagAr3I calatI hai / isa taraha yAtriyoM ke liye relagAr3I niyata karadI gaI hai parantu isakA matalaba yaha nahIM hai ki vahA~ moTara se, ghor3a sa yA apane pairoma yAtrA nahIM ho sknii| relagAr3I kI yAtrA ke sAdhanoM meM mukhyatA bhale hI dedI jAya parantu usa anivArya nahIM kaha skte| isI taraha niyata zAstravidhiko bhale hI koI mukhya samajhe parantu anivArya nahIM kaha sakate / anivArya to cAritramoha zrAdi ho hai / relagAr3I ke abhAva meM yAtrA ke samAna vivAha vidhi ke abhAva meM bhI vivAha ho sakatA hai| AkSapa ( )-pradyumna ko gAMdharva vivAha se paidA huA kahanA dhRSTatA hai| gAMdhavivAha jAna he karNa, ima se ve nAjA. yaja hai| ___mamAdhAna-karNa ke viSaya meM hama pahile likha cuke haiM aura isa prazna ke AkSapa'cha' ke samAdhAnameM bhI likha cuke he / karNa vyabhicAra jAta he gAMdharva vivAhotpanna nhii| rukmiNI kA agara gAMdharvavivAha nahI thA to batalAnA cAhiye ki kauna mA vivAha thaa| prArambha ka cAra vivAhoM meM zrApa loga kanyA. dAna mAnate he| revatakagiri ke Upara kanyAdAna kisane kiyA thA ? vahA~ to rukamaNo, kRSNa aura baladeva ke sivAya aura koI nahI thaa| gAMdharva vivAha meM "svacchayA anyAnya sambandha" hotA hai / rukmaNI ne bhI mAtA pitA Adi kI icchA ke viruddha apanI icchA se sambandha kiyA thaa| gAMdharva vivAha vyabhicAra nahIM hai jisase pradyamna vyabhicArajAta kahalA ske| yahA~ para AkSa paka apane sAthI prApaka ke sAtha bhI bhir3a gayA hai| vidyAnanda kahate haiM--gAMdharva vivAha, vivAhavidhi

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( 150 ) zUnya adharma vivAha hai hama se utpanna saMtAna mokSa nahIM jA. makanI / jabaki zrIlAla jI kahate haiM-"gAMdharvavivAha bhI zAstrIya hai ataH usase utpanna saMtAna kyoM na mokSa jaay| jaba do milate haiM nava isI taraha parampara viruddha vakte haiN| terahavA~ prazna jyA sudhAraka aura kyA bigAr3aka pAjanaka sagI bAla. vivAha ko guhA gur3o kA khela kahate rahe hai / hamane aise vara vadhU ko nATakIya kahA hai / aisI hAlata meM usakA vaidhavya bhI nATakIya rahegA / vAstava meM tA vaha kumArI hI rhegii| isa. liye patnItva kA jabataka anubhava na hA taba taka vaha patnI yA vidhavA nahIM kahalA sktii| AkSepako meM itanI akla kahA~ ki ve patnItva ke anubhava meM aura sambhAMga ke anubhava meM bheda samajha sake / pahilA bhAkSa paka ( zrIlAla ) kahanA hai ki sapta. padI ho jAne se hI vivAha ho jAtA hai| paranta kimI bAlikA se tote kI taraha saptapadI raTavA kara kahanA denA yA usa kI tarapha se bola denA hI to saptapadI nahIM hai / saptapadI kA kyA matalaba hai aura usase kyA z2immedArI pA rahI he isakA anu. bhava to honA cAhiye / yahI to pannItva kA anubhava hai| bAlavivAha meM yaha bAta ( yahI saptapadI ) nahIM ho sakatI isaliye usake ho jAne para bhI na koI pati patnI banatA he na vidhavA vidhura / upayukta patnItva ke anubhava ke bAda aura sambhoga ke pahile vara mara jAya to vadhU vidhavA ho jAyagI, aura usakA vivAha punarvivAha hI kahA jaaygaa| parantu nAsamajha avasthA meM jo vivAha nATaka hotA hai usase koI patnI nahI banatI / prAkSepa (ka)--vivAha ko sthApanA nikSepakA viSaya kahanA sacamuca vidvattA kA nakA nAca hai / taba to vyabhicAra bhI vivAha kahalAyagA / ( vidyAnanda )

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( 151 ) mamAdhAna---jahA~ vivAha kA lakSaNa nahIM jAnA aura phira bhI loga vivAha kI kalpanA karate haiM to kahanA hI par3egA ki vaha vivAha sthApanA nikSepa se hai, jaise ki nATaka meM sthApanA kI jAnI hai| zrApaka kA kahanA hai ki vyabhicAra meM bhI sthApanAnikSepa se parastrI meM myastrI kI sthApanA karalI jaaygii| parantu yahI bAta to hamAga pakSa hai| sthA. panA nA vyabhicAra meM bhI ho sakatI hai parantu vyabhicArI vara badhU nahIM kahalA sakane / isa taraha nAsamajha bAlaka bAli. kAoM meM bhI vara vadhU kI sthApanA ho sakatI hai parantu ve vAstava meM vara badhR nahIM kahalA makane / caudahavA~ prazna isa prazna meM yaha pUchA gayA hai ki patnI banane ke pahile kyA koI vidhavA ho sakatI hai aura vrata grahaNa karane meM vratI ke bhAvoM kI z2arUrata hai yA nahIM? isakA matalaba yaha hai ki aAjakala vivAha nATaka ke dvAga bahutamI bAlikAe~ patnI banA dI jAno haiM parantu vAstava meM ve pannI nahIM hotii| unako ( usa nATakIya pati ke mara jAne para ) vidhavA na kahanA cAhiye / vana grahaNa karane meM bhAvoM kI z2arUrata hai| bAlavivAha meM vivAhAnukala bhAva hI nahIM hote| isaliye uma vivAha se koI kisI taraha kI pratikSA meM nahIM bNdhnaa| zrIlAla ne ve hI purAnI bAteM kahI hai, jisakA dhava ( pani) mara gayA hai vaha vidhavA avazya kahI jAyagI mAdi / parantu yahA~ no yaha kahA gayA hai ki vaha nATakIya pani vAstavika pani hI nahIM hai| phira usakA maranA kyA aura jInA kyA ? usakA pati kyA aura patyantara kyA? AkSepa (ka)-pATha varSa kI umara meM jama vrata liyA

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( 152) jA sakatA hai natra = // yA varSa kI umara meM bhAvapUrvaka vivAha kyoM na mAnA jAye ? (shriilaal)| ___ samAdhAna~isame mAlUma hotA hai ki zrAkSepaka pATha varSa se kama umara ke vivAha ko avazya hI nAjAyaz2a samajhatA hai / vaira, aba hama pUchate haiM ki jaba ATha varSa meM vrata grahaNa kiyA jA sakatA hai taba AkSepaka ke managaDhanta zAstrakAroM ne vivAha ke liye bAraha varSa kI umara kyoM raklI ? aATha varSa kI kyoM nahIM rakhI ? isase mAlUma hotA hai ki sAdhAraNa vrata grahaNa karane kI apekSA vaivAhika vrata grahaNa karane meM vizeSa yogyatA kI AvazyakatA hai / arthAta paripuSTa zarIra, gArhasthya jIvana ke bhAra samhAlane kI yogyatA aura hRdaya meM uThatI huI vaha kAmavAsanA jisake niyamita karane ke liye vivAha zrAvazyaka hai, avazya honA caahiye| agara kisI amAdhAraNa vyakti meM pAThavarSa kI umara meM hI ye bAteM pAI jA~ya to vaha bAlavivAha na kahalAyagA, aura ina bAtoM ke na hone para kitanI bhI umara meM vaha vivAha ho, vaha nAjAyaz2a kahalAyagA / bhale hI tumhAre managaDhanta zAstrakAra 12 varSa kA rAga alApate rhe| eka bAta yaha bhI hai ki zAstroM meM ATha varSa kI umara meM vrata grahaNa karane kI yogyatA kA nirdeza hai / parantu isakA yaha matalaba nahIM hai ki pratyeka pATha varSa kA vAstaka, muni yA zrAvaka ke vana grahaNa kara sakatA hai. yA ATha varSa se adhika umara meM vrata grahaNa karane vAlA manuSya pApI ho jaaygaa| zrATha varSa kI umara meM kevalajJAna taka batalAyA hai parantu kyA isI lie irAka zrAdamI kA isa umara meM kevalajJAnItva manAyA jAne lage ? kahA jAyagA ki alI umara ho jAne se kyA hotA hai ? anya antaraGga bahiraGga nimitta to milanA cAhiye / basa : vivAha ke viSaya meM bhI hamAga yahI kahanA

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.. . ( 153 ) hai ki akelI umara ho jAne se kyA hotA hai, usake liye anya antaraGga bahiraGga nimitta to milanA cAhiye / yadi vivAha ke liye va nimitta 14 varSa kI umara ke pahale nahIM milate to usake pahile hone vAle vivAha (nATaka) nAjAyaz2a haiN| isaliye una vivAhoM ke nimitta se sadhavA vidhavA zabda kA prayoga na karanA cAhiye / Apa (kha)-amarakopakAra ne pANigRhItI ko patnI kahA hai, isaliye pANigRhItA vAlikA cAhe vaha 1 varSa kI kyoM na ho avazya hI pativiyAMga hone para vidhavA kahalA. yagI / (vidyAnanda) mAdhAna-pANigRhInI kA agara zabdArtha ho liyA jAya tara nAM vivAha nATaka ke pahile hI ve sadhavA vidhavA kahalAne lagegI kyoMki choTI 2 bAlikAoM ke hAtha bApa, bhAI aura par3osiyoM ke dvArA pakar3a hI jAyA karate hai| agara pANigRhItI kA matalaba vivAhitA hai to mAtA pitA ke dvArA kisI se hAtha pakar3A dene hI se bAlavivAhitA nahIM kahI jAsakatI hai / isIliye eka varSa kI bAlikA kisI bhI hAlata meM vidhavA yA sadhavA nahIM kahalA sakanI / vidhavAvivAha, dhArmika dRSTi meM vyabhicAra hai-ima bAta kA uttara pahile acchI taraha aneka bAra diyA jA cukA hai| prAkSepa (ga)-vanagrahaNa karane meM vratIka bhAvoMkI z2arU. gata hai bhI aura nahIM bhI hai| chaH varSa ke bacce ko pAnI chAna kara pIne kA vrata dilA diyA aura tIsa varSa ke prAdamI ne bata nahIM liyaa| inameM kona acchA hai ? kyA usa bacce ko purAya. bandha na hogA? samAdhAna--prAkSapaka ne 'vanagrahaNa karane meM bhAvoM kI

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( 154 ) z2arUrata nahIM hai| isake liye koI zAstrIya pramANa nahI diyA / chaH varSa kA bacA agara koI acchI kiyA karatA hai to kyA zrAkSepaka ke matAnusAra vaha banI hai ? kyA prAcAryoM kA yaha likhanA ki ATha varSa se kama umra meM vrata nahIM ho sakatA bhUTha he ? yA zrAkSepaka hI jenadharma meM anabhijJa hai? choTe bacce meM bhI kucha bhAva nA hote hI hai jisame vaha purAyabandha yA pApabandha karatA hai| jaba pakandriya dvIndriya prAdi jIva bhAvarahita nahI he nava yaha to manuSya hai / parantu yahA~ prazna to yaha hai ki usake bhAva, vratagrahaNa karane ke lAyaka hote haiM yA nahIM? arthAt usake va kArya vanarUpa hai yA nahI ? ho sakatA hai ki vaha nIma varSa ke zrAdamI se bhI acchA ho, parantu isase vaha vano nahIM kahalA makanA / kalyANamandira kA jo vAkya ( yasmAkriyA praniphalanni na bhAvazanyAH ) hamane uddhRta kiyA he usake pIche samasta jainazAstroM kA bala hai| vaha hara taraha kI parIkSA se moTazca kA utaratA he / prAkSa paka hameM middhamana ke sadabhiprAya se anabhijJa batalAte hai parantu bAmtava meM Apaka ne svaya kalyAmandira aura viSApahAra ke zlokA kA bhAva nahIM samajhA he / dono zloko ke mArmika vivecana ma paka svatantra lekha ho jaaygaa| vAstava meM siddha. mana kA zloka bhaktimAga kI tarapha pregNA nahIM karatA kintu paNDita dhanajaya kA zloka bhaktimArga kI tarafa preraNA karatA hai| unakA matalaba hai ki binA bhAva ke bhI agara loga bhagavAna ko namaskAra kareMge nA sudhara jAyeMge / middhasena kA zloka paMsI bhakti ko nirarthaka batalAnA hai| siddhasena kahate haiM aisI mAvazUnya bhakti no haz2Age bAra kI hai parantu usakA kucha phala nahIM huaa| siddhasena ke zloka meM tathya hai, vaha samajhadAge ke liye hai aura dhanaJjaya ke zloka meM phusalAnA hai / vaha

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bacoM ( ajJAnI ) ke liye hai| baccoM ko phusalAne kI bAtoM ko jainasiddhAnta ke samajhane kI kuJjI samajhanA mUrkhatA hai| Ajakala zAyada hI kisI ne bhAvazunya kriyA ko vrata kahane kI dhRSTatA kI ho| jo dharma zulkalezyAdhArI nanamapraive. yaka jAne vAle muni ko bhI ( bhAvazUnya hone se ) mithyA dRSTi kahatA hai, usameM bhAvazUnya kriyA se lata batalAnA akSantavya aparAdha hai| AkSepa (gha)yadyapi samantabhadra svAmI ne abhiprAyaH pUrvaka tyAga karanA vata kahA hai kintu isakA yaha artha nahIM ho sakatA ki bAlyAvasthA meM dilAe gaye niyama upaniyama saba zAstraviruddha haiN| bAlyAvasthA meM diye gaye vrata ko akalaGka ne jIvana bhara pAlA / ( vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-mamantabhadra ke dvAga kahe gaye vrata kA lakSaNa jAnate hue bhI AkSepaka samajhate haiM ki binA bhAva ke vana grahaNa ho sakatA hai| isakA matalaba yaha hai ki jAni svabhAva ke anusAra jainadharma aura samantabhadra ke vidrohI haiM yA apanA kAma banAne ke liye jainI veSa dhAraNa kiyA hai| khera, bAlyA. vasthA ke niyama zAstraviruddha bhale hI na ho parantu ve bUtarUpa avazya hI nahIM hai| prakalA ke udAharaNa para to prAkSa paka jaga bhI vicAra nahIM kiyA / akalaGka apane pitA se kahate haiM ki jaba Apane bana lene kI bAta kahI thI taba vaha vrata pATha dina ke liye thor3e hI liyA thA, hamane to janmabhara ke liye liyA thaa| isase sApha mAluma hotA hai ki vRta lete samaya akastaGka kI umara itanI choTI nahIM thI ki vana na liyA jAsake / unale bhAvapUrvaka vRta liyA thA aura usake mahatva ko aura uttaradAyitva ko samajhA thaa| kyA yahI bhAvazanya vana kA udAharaNa hai ?

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prAkSepa (Ga)-na do prakAra ke haiM-nivRttirUpa, pra. ttirUpa / zubhakarma meM pravRtti karanA bhI cUta hai / yadyapi baccoM kI zubhakarma kI pravRtti meM kAI bhAva nahIM rahatA, phira bhI ve vanI kahe jA sakate haiN| (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna-~-jaba ki vana bhAvapUrNaka hote haiM taba vUtoM ke bheda bhAvazUnya nahIM ho sakate / jIva kA lakSaNa cetanA. usake maya bheda prabhedA meM avazya jAyagA / jIva ke prabheda yadi jalacara, thalacara, namabara he nA isasa nAkA, relagAr3I yA vAyuyAna, jIva nahIM kahalA sakate, kyoMki unameM jIva kA lakSaNa nahI jAtA / imaliye bhAvazUnya koI kArya vana kA bheda nahIM kahalA sakatA / jA phala phUla yA jala bhagavAna ko car3hAyA jAtA hai kyA vaha vanI kahalAtA hai ? yadi nahIM, to isakA kAraNa kyA bhAvazanyatA nahIM haiM ? kyA bhAvazanya jinadarza nAdi kAryoM ko na kahane vAlA ekAdha pramANa bhI zrApa de sakate haiM? AkSepa (ca)-saMskAge ko anAvazyaka kahanA jaina siddhAnta ke marma ko nahIM samajhanA hai / idhara Apa saMskArI sa yogyatA paidA karane kI bAta bhI kahate haiN| aisA parampara. viruddha kyoM kahate haiM ? (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-vata aura saskAroM ko eka samajha kara zrAkSepaka ke guru ne ghAra bhUrkhatA kA paricaya diyA thA / hamane donoM kA bheda samajhAyA thA jo ki aba ziSya ne svIkAra kara liyA hai| vana aura saMskAra jude jude haiM isaliye ve saMskAra anAvazyaka haiM' yaha artha kahA~ se nikala pAyA, jisase paramparavirodha kahA jAsakaM ? prAkSa paka yA usake guru kA kahanA to yaha hai ki "ki bAlyAvasthA meM bhI saMskAra hote haiM isa. liye khata kahalAyA" / isI mUvatA ko haTAne ke liye hamane

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( 157 ) kahA thA ki "saMskAra se hamAre Upara prabhAva par3atA hai aura vaha prabhAva prAyaH dUsaro ke dvArA DAlA jAtA hai, parantu vrata dUmaga ke dvAga nahIM liyA jA sktaa| saMskAra to pAtra meM zraddhA, samajha aura tyAga ke binA bhI DAle jAsakate haiM parantu bata meM ina tInoM ko atyanta AvazyakatA rahatI hai"| jaba vrata ora saMskAra kA bheda itanA spaSTa hai taba bAlyAvasthA meM saM. kArAmA astitva banalAkara vanakA astitva batalAnA mUrkhatA aura dhokhA nahI to kyA hai ? saMskAra zrAvazyaka bhale hI ho parantu ve vana ke bheda nahIM haiN| AkSepa( cha )--zubha kArya dUsaroM ke dvArA bhI karAye jA sakate hai, aura unakA phala bho pUrA pUrI hotA hai| zubha kArya meM jabarana pravRtti kaganA adharma nahIM hai| hA~, yadi koI vidhavA kaha ki maiM to vaidhavya nahIM lUMgI taba usa para jabardastI vaidhavya kA 'TIkA' mar3hanA bhI ucita nahIM hai / yadi koI vidhavA kahe ki mega vivAha ga do no vaha bhI bhAgamaviruddha hai| samAdhAna-zubha kArya karAye jA sakate hai / jo kaga. yagA usa kadAcit puNyabandha bhI ho sakatA hai| parantu isase yaha kahA~ middha huaA ki jimase kriyA karAI jA rahI hai vaha bhAvapUrvaka nahIM kara rahA hai| yadi koI karAnA hai aura koI bhAvapUrvaka karatA hai to use purAyabandha kyoM na hogA ? parantu yaha purAyabandha bhAvapUrvakanA kA hai| Upara bhI isa praznakA uttara diyA jA cukA hai| zrApa svIkAra karate haiM ki anicchApUrvaka vaidhavya kA TIkA na mar3hanA cAhiye / sudhAraka bho isase z2yAdA aura kyA kahate haiM ? jaba use vaidhavya kA TIkA nahIM lagA nA vaha prAgamaviruddha kyA ?

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( 150 ) pandrahavA~ prazna / 12, 13, 14 aura 15 veM prazna bAlavivAhaviSayaka haiM / isa meM bAlavivAha ko nAjAyaz2a vivAha siddha kiyA gayA hai / jo loga sabhyagdRSTi haiM ve to vidhavAvivAha ke vigaMdhI kyoM hoMge, parantu jo loga mithyAtva ke kAraNa se vidhavAvivAhako ThIka nahIM samajhate unheM cAhiye ki bAlavidhavA kahalAtI huI striyoM ke vivAha ko svIkAra kareM kyoMki bAlavidhavAe~ vAstavika vidhavAe~ nahIM haiN| ekabAra nyAyazAstra ke eka suprasiddha prAcArya ne ( jo ki digambara jaina kahalAne para bhI tIbra mithyAnva ke udayase yA anya kimI laukika kAraNase vidhavA. vivAha ke virodhI bana gaye haiM ) kahA thA-ki tuma bar3e murkha ho jo bAlavidhavAoM ko bhI vidhavA kahate ho| isI taraha ekabAra gopAladAsa jI ke mukhya ziSya aura dharmazAstra ke bar3e bhArI vidvAn kahalAne vAle pagiData jI ne bhI kahA thA-ki 'akSatayoni vidhavAoM ke vivAha meM to koI doSa nahIM haiN| yahA~ para bhI bAlavivAha ke viSaya meM campatarAya jI sAhaba ne jo tanakiyA~ uThAI haiM unake uttarI se yahI bAta sAbita hotI hai| vivAha kA sambandha brahmacaryAyukta se hai| jinakA bAlyAvasthA meM vivAha hogayA ve brahmacaryANuvrata vAlI kaise kahalA sakatI haiM ? isaliye unakA vivAhAdhikAra to kumArI ke samAna hI rakSita hai| agara ve mahAvata yA saptama pratimA dhAraNa kare taba to ThIka, nahIM to unheM vivAha kara lenA cAhiye / yadyapi hama kaha cuke haiM ki bAlavidhavAe~ vidhavA nahIM haiM parantu koI vidhavA ho yA vidhura, kumAra ho yA kumArI, agara vaha brahmacarya pratimA yA mahAvrata grahaNa nahIM karatA to vivAha kI icchA karane para vivAha kara lenA adharma nahIM hai|

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( 156) AkSepa ( ka )-praznakartA kA prazna samajha kara to uttara dete / jo manuSya brahmacaryANuvrata dhAraNa nahIM karatA usa kA vivAha karake kyA karoge ? vaha to mAtA bahina ko strI samajhatA hai| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-hamAre upayukta vaktavyako par3hakara pAThaka hI vicAreM ki prazna kauna nahI mamajhA hai| jisane brahmacarya aNuvrata nahIM liyA hai, use brahmacayapraNuSana dene ke liye hI to vivAha hai / isa AkSepaka ne vivAha ko brahmacaryavana rUpa mAnA hai / yahA~ kahanA hai ki brahmacaryavanarahita kA vivAha kyoM karanA arthAt brahmacaryavUna kyoM denA ? matalaba yaha ki avUnoko vrata danA nigthaMka hai : kaisA pAgalapana hai ! AkSepa ( kha ) kyA dIkSA aura vivAha yahI do ava. sthAe~ ho sakatI haiN| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-jo dIkSA nahI letA aura vivAha bhI nahIM karanA usase koI z2abardastI nahIM karanA / parantu use vivAha karane kA adhikAra hai / adhikAra kA upayoga karanA na karanA usakI icchA ke Upara nirbhara hai| upayoga karane se vaha pApI na kahA jaaygaa| AkSepa (ga)-jaba zrApa vidhura vidhavA zrAdi jisa kisI ko vivAha karane kA adhikAra dene haiM taba to eka varSa kI bAMdha baccI bhI vivAha karAveM / Apane no bAta, vRddha, anamela vivAha kI bhI pITha tthokii| (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna-isase to yaha bAta kahI gaI hai ki vaidhavya, vivAhameM bAdhaka nahIM hai / 1 varSa kI baccI kA vivAha to ho hI nahIM sakatA yaha hama aneka bAra kaha cuke haiN| bAlavivAha kA jainadharma aura hama vivAha hI nahIM mAnate haiM / vivAha ke anya annA bahiraGga nimitta mila jAne para koI bhI vivAha kara

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sakatA hai| hamArA kahanA to yaha hai ki vaidhavya usakA bAdhaka nahIM hai| solahavA~ prazna "jisakA garbhAzaya garbhadhAraNa ke yogya nahIM huA usa ko garbha raha jAne se prAyaH mRtyu kA kAraNa hojAtA hai yA nahIM ?" isa prazna ke uttara meM vaidyaka zAstra ke anusAra uttara diyA gayA thA / AkSepakoM ko bhI yaha bAta maMjUra hai / parantu usake liye 16 varSa kI avasthA kI bAta nahIM kahate / zrAkSepako ne isapara jora nahIM diyA / hama apane mUla lekha meM jo kucha likha cuke haiM usase z2yAdA likhane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| AkSepa (ka)-santAnotpAdana ke liye dRSTapuSTatA kI AvazyakatA hai, umara kI nhiiN| (zrIlAla, vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-santAnotpAdana ke liye hRSTapuTatAkI zrAva. zyakatA hai aura haNpuratA ke liye umara kI prAvazyakatA hai| hA~, yaha bAta ThIka hai ki umara ke sAtha anya kAraNa bhI caahiye| jinake anya kAraNa bahuta prabala ho jAte haiM unake eka do varSa pahile bhI garbha raha jAtA hai, parantu isase umara kA bandhana anAvazyaka nahIM hotA, kyoMki aisI ghaTanAe~ lAkha meM ekAdha hI hotI haiN| zrIlAla svIkAra karate haiM ki kaI loga 20-24 varSa taka bhI santAnotpatti ke yogya nahIM hote| yadi yaha ThIka hai to zrIlAla ko svIkAra karanA cAhiye ki 12 varSa kI umara meM vivAha kA niyama banAnA yA rajasvalA hone ke pahile vivAha kara denA anucita hai| yadi vivAha aura santAnotpA. dana ke liye haSTapuSTatA kA niyama rakkhA jAya taba 12 varSa kA niyama TUTa jAtA hai aura bAlavivAha mRtyu kA kAraNa hai-yaha bAna siddha ho jAtI hai|

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( 161 ) satrahavA~ prazna "pA~ca lAkha auratoM meM eka lAkha teMtAlIsa haz2Ara vidhavAe~ kyA zobhA kA kAraNa haiM ?" isake uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki--"vaidhara meM jahA~ pAga hai vahA~ zobhA hai anyathA nahIM / jahA~ punarvivAhakA adhikAra nahIM, vahA~ usakA syAga ho kyA ?" isa prazna kA uttara prAtaka nahIM de sake haiN| zrI lAlajI to talAka kI bAta uThA kara yUropa ke nAvadAna sUMghane laga laye hai| 'vidhavAvivAha vAlI U~cI nahIM ho sakatI' use AryikA banane kA adhikAra nahIM, prAdi vAkyoM meM koI pramANa nahIM hai| hama isakA pahile vivecana kara cuke haiM / bhAge bho kreNge| aakssep| ka)-vidhavA gRhamtha hai, isaliye vaha saubhAgyavatiyoM se pUjya nahIM ho paatii| samAdhAna-gRhastha to brahmacarya pratimAdhArI bhI haiN| phira bhI sAdhAraNa logoM kI apekSA usakA vizeSa sanmAna hotA hai| isI prakAra vidhavAoM kA bhI honA cAhiye, parantu nahIM hotaa| isakA kAraNa yahI hai ki unakA vaidhavya tyAgarUpa nahIM hai| agara koI vidhura vidhAhayogya hone aura vivAha ke nimitta milane para bhI vivAha nahIM karAtA to vaha prazaMsanIya hotA hai / isI prakAra punarvivAha na karAne vAlI vidhavAe~ mI prazaM. mApAtra ho sakatI haiM agara unheM punarvivAha kA adhikAra ho aura ve vivAha yogya ho to| hA~. una vidhuge kI prazaMsA nahI hotI jo cAra pA~ca bAra taka vivAha karA cuke haiM athavA vivAha kI koziza karate 2 anta meM 'aMgUra khaTTe hai' kI kahA vata caritArtha karate hue, anta meM brahmacArI parigrahatyAgI Adi bana gaye haiN| vivAha kI pUrNa sAmagrI mila jAne para bhI jo

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( 162 ) vivAha nahIM karate ve hI prazaMsanIya haiM cAhe ve vidhura ho yA vidhavA / AkSepa (kha)-punarvivAha vAlI jAtiyoM meM vaidhavya zomA kA kAraNa hai| kyA imasa middha nahIM hotA ki punarvivAha na karane vAlI zobhA kA kAraNa aura karane vAlI prazAbhA kA kAraNa haiM ? ( vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-upavAma aura bhUkhe marane kA bAhyarUpa ekasA mAlUma hotA hai, parantu donoM meM mahAn amlara hai / upavAsa mvacchApUrvaka hai, isaliye nyAga he, tapa he / bhUkhoM maranA. vivazatA se hai isaliye vaha nArako magakhA saklega hai| eka samAja pemI hai jahA~bAne kI svatantratA hai| eka aisI hai jahA~ sabhI ko bhUkhoM maranA par3atA hai / pahilo mamAja meM jo upa. vAma karate haiM ve prazaMsanIya hAna hai, parantu imIliye bhUkhoM marane vAlA samAja prazamanIya nahIM kahI jAsakatI; phira aimI hAlata meM jaba ki bhUkhoM marane vAle cuga cuga kara khAte ho| punarvivAha karane vAlI jAtima vaidhavya prazaMsanIya hai kyoMki usa meM prApya bhAgoM kA tyAga kiyA jAnA hai. punarvivAhazunya samAja meM esI cIz2oM kA tyAga kahA jAtA hai jA aprApya hai / taba no gadha ke sIMga kA tyAgI bhI bar3A tyAgI kahA jAyagA / jina jAtiyoM meM punarvivAha nahIM honA unakI mabhI striyA~ (bhale hI ve vidhavA hA) punarvivAha karAne vAlI striyA se nIcI hai kyoMki napuMsaka ke bAhya brahmacarya ke samAna unaka vaidhavya kA kAI mUlya nahIM hai| sArAMza yaha ki punarvivAha vAlI jAtiyoM kI vidhadhAmoM kA sthAna pahisA hai ( upacAsI ke samAna): punarvivAhitAoM kA sthAna dusarA hai ( saMyanAhArI ke samAna) punarvivAhazUnya jAti kI vidhavAmoM kA pAna tIsarA hai (bhUtoM marane vAloM ke samAna) /

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( 163 ) AkSepa ( ga ) - vidhura aura vidhavAoM kA agara ekasA ilAja ho to donoM ko zAstrakAroM ne samAna AjJA kyA~ nahIM dI ? (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - jainadharma ne donoM ko samAna AzA dI hai / isa viSaya meM pahile vistArase likhA jA cukA hai| dekhA '7 gha' / AkSepa (gha ) - strIparyAya puruSaparyAya se nidya hai / isa liye jo vidhavAe~ puruSoM ke samAna punarvivAha kA adhikAra cAhatI haiM, ve pahile puruSa banane ke kArya saMgramAtrika pAlakara puruSa bnleN| bAda meM puruSoM ke samAna punarvivAha kI adhikArI bane / (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - agara yaha kahA jAya ki "bhAratavAsI niMdya haiM isaliye agara ve svarAjya cAhate hai to aMgrez2oM kI nisvArtha sevA karake puNya kamAyeM aura marakara aMgrez2oM ke ghara janma laMbe" to yaha jaisI murkhatA kahalAyagI isI taraha kI murkhatA prakSepaka ke vaktavya meM haiN| vartamAna vidhavAeM agara mara ke puruSa bana jAyeMgI to kyA paraloka meM vidhavA banane ke liye paDita loga avatAra leMge ? kyA phira vidhavAe~ na raheMgI ? kyA isase vidhavAoM kI samasyA hala ho jAyegI ? kyA bhrUNahatyAe~ na hogI ? kyA vipattigrasta logoM kI vipatti dUra karane kA yahI upAya hai ki pAralaukika sampatti kI jhUThI zrAzA se unheM marane diyA jAya ? khaira, jina vidhavAoM meM brahma carya ke pariNAma haiM ve to puNyopArjana kareMgI parantu jo vidha vAe~ sadA mAnasika saura zArIrika vyabhicAra karatI rahatI haiM, bhogoM ke abhAva meM dinagata gaMtI haiM aura hAya hAya karatI haiM, ve kyA purAyopArjana kareMgI ? duHkhI jIvana vyatIta karane se hI kyA puNyabandha ho jAtA hai ? yadi hA~, taba sAnaveM naraka ke nArakI ko saba se bar3A tapasvI kahanA cAhiye / yadi

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( 164 ) nahIM, to vartamAna kA vaidhavya jIvana purAyo garjaka nahIM kahalA sakatA / aThArahavA~ prazna isa prazna meM yaha pUchA gayA thA ki jainasamAja kI sakhyA ghaTane se samAja kI hAni hai yA lAbha ? hamane saMkhyAghaTI kI bAta kA samarthana karake samAja kI hAni batalAI thii| zrIlAla to gavarnamenTa kI riporTa kA astitva hI svIkAra nahI karate / kimvadantI ke anusAra kumbhakarNa 6 mahIne sotA thA, parantu hamArA yaha prakSepaka kumbhakarNa kA bhI kumbhakarNa nikalA / yaha janma se lekara buDhApe taka so hI rahA hai| khaira, vidyAnanda ne saMkhyAghaTI kI bAta svIkAra karatI hai| donoM AkSepakoM kA kahanA hai ki saMkhyA ghaTatI hai ghaTane do, jAti rasAtala jAtI he jAne do, parantu dharma ko bacAo ! vidhavAvivAha dharma hai ki adharma- isa bAta kI yahA~ carcA nahIM hai| prazna yaha hai ki saMkhyA ghaTane se hAni yA nahIM ? yadi hai to use haTAnA cAhiye yA nahIM ? haraeka vicArazIla AdamI kahegA ki saMkhyAghaTI rokanA caahiye| jaba vidhavAvivAha dharmAnukUla haiM aura usase sakhyA bar3ha sakatI hai to usa upAya ko kAma meM lAnA cAhiye / AkSepa ( ka ) - jainI loga pApI hogaye isaliye unakI sakhyA ghaTa rahI hai / samAdhAna- bAta bilakula ThIka he / saikaDoM varSoM se jainiyoM meM puruSatva kA mada bar3ha rahA hai| isa samAja ke puruSa yato punarvivAha karate haiM, aura striyoM ko rokate haiM, yaha atyAcAra, pakSapAta kyA kama pApa hai ? isI pApa ke phala se inakI saMkhyA ghaTa rahI hai / pUjA na karane zrAdi se saMkhyA ghaTatI to mlecchoM kI saMkhyA na bar3hanA cAhiye thI /

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( 165 ) AkSepa ( sva )-musalamAna loga to isaliye bar3ha rahe haiM ki unheM naraka jAnA hai| aura isa nikRSTa kAla meM naraka jAne vAloM kI adhikatA hogii| ( zrIlAla ) mamAdhAna-zrApa kaha cuke haiM ki jainiyoM meM pApI ho gaye isaliye saMkhyA ghttii| parantu isa vanavya se to yaha mAlUma hotA hai ki jeniyoM kI saMkhyA pApa se bar3hanA cAhiye jimameM narakagAmI zrAdamI mila ske| isa naraka ke dana ne yaha bhI svIkAra kiyA hai ki "nIca kAma karane se nIca kI jitanA pApa lagatA hai umasa kaI guNA pApa ucca ko lagatA hai", arthAt jainiyoM ko jyAdA pApa lagatA hai| isa siddhAnta ke anusAra bhI jeniyoM kI saMkhyA bar3hanA cAhiye kyoMki isa samAja meM paidA hone se khUba pApa lagegA aura naraka jaldI bhregaa| eka tarapha pApa ma saMkhyA kI ghaTo basalAnA aura dUsarI tarafa pApa ma saMkhyA kI vRddhi batalAnA vicitra pAgastapana he| AkSepa (ga)-vidhavAvivAha zrAdi se, plaMga haijA prAdi se samAja kA saphAvaTa ho jAyagA / ( zrIlAla) samAdhAna-vidhavAvivAha se saphAcaTa hogA isakA uttara to yAropa amerikA Adi ko paristhiti degii| parantu vidhavAvivAha na hone se jainasamAja saphAcaTa ho rahI hai yaha to pragaTa hI hai| AkSepa (gha)- samAja na rahane kA Dara vRthA hai| jainadharma to paMcama kAla ke anta taka rhegaa| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna--vidhavAvivAha ke na hone se saMkhyA ghaTa rahI hai / jainiyoM kI jina jAniyoM meM punarvivAha hai unameM saMkhyA nahIM ghaTa rahI hai| agara punarvivAha kA rivAja cAlU na hogA to saMkhyA naSTa ho jAyagI / parantu jainadharma kA inanA hAsa to

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nahIM ho sakatA isase siddha hai ki vidhavAvivAha kA pracAra jarUra hokara rahegA / athavA jina jAtiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha kA rivAja hai ve hI jAtiyA~ anta taka rhegii| rahI cintA kI bAna so jo puruSa hai use to puruSArtha para hI naz2ara ra sAnA caahiye| korI bhavinamyatA ke bharose para baiThakara prayatna se udAsIna na honA caahiye| tIrthakara avazya mokSagAmI hone haiM phira bhI unheM mokSa ke liye prayatna karanA par3atA hai| isI taraha jainadharma paMcamakAna ke anta taka avazya rahegA parantu use taba taka rahane ke liye vidhavAvivAha kA prayatna avazya karanA caahiye| yaha chUnAchUtavicAra kA prakaraNa nahIM hai / isakA vive. cana kucha ho cukA hai| bahuta kucha Age bhI hogaa| AkSepa ( 3 )-vidhavAvivAha se to bace gvace jainI nAstika ho jAyeMge, kaur3I ke tIna tIna bikeMge / jainadharma yaha nahIM cAhatA ki usameM saMnyAvRddhi ke nAma para kar3AkacarA bhara jAya / (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna-AkSepaka kar3Akacaga kA virodhI hai parantu vidhavAvivAha vAloM ko kar3AkacarA tabhI kahA jAmakatA hai jaba vidhavAvivAha dharmaviruddha siddha ho / pUrvokta pramANoM se vidhavAvivAha dharmAnukUla siddha hai isaliye prAkSepaka kI ye gAliyA~ nirarthaka haiN| vidhavAvivAhotpanna to vyabhicArajAna hai hI nahIM, parantu vyabhicArajAtanA se bhI koI hAni nahIM hai| vyabhicAra pApa hai (vidhavAvivAha vyabhicAra nahIM hai) vyabhicAra jAnatA pApa nahIM hai anyathA raviSeNAcArya aisA kyoM likhate cinhAni viTajAtamya santi nAMgeSa kAnicit / anAryamAcaran kizcijAyate nIcagocaraH //

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( 167 ) vyabhicArajAtatA ke koI cinha nahIM hote / durAbAra se hI manuSya nIca kahalAtA hai / yadi vyabhicArajAta zUdra hI kahalAtA hai to rudra bhI zUdra kahalAye / jaba rudra muni vanate haiM taba Apako zUdra muni kA vidhAna bhI mAnanA par3egA / tadbhavamokSagAmI vyabhicAra jAta sudRSTi sunAra para vivecana to zrAge hogA hI / AkSepa (ca ) - jainadharma nahIM cAhatA ki usameM saMkhyAvRddhi ke nAma para kUr3A kacarA bhara jAya / yadi 608 bar3hate haiN| tA 608 mukti bhI prApta kara lete haiM / jainadharma svayaM apane meM bar3hA huI saMkhyA 608 ko siddhazilA para sadA ke liye sthApana kara detA hai | ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - udAharaNa dene ke liye jisa buddhikI zrAvazyakatA hai usa taraha ko sAdhAraNa buddhi bho AkSepaka meM nahIM mAlUma hotI / zrakSepaka saMkhyAvRddhi ke nAma para kUr3A kacarAga na bharane kI bAta kahate haiM aura udAharaNa kUr3A kacarA bharane kA de rahe haiM / vyavahArarAzi meM se chaH mahIna ATha samaya meM 608 jIva mAkSa jAte haiM aura nityanigoda se itane hI jIva bAhara nikalate haiM / jainadharma agara 608 jIva siddhAlaya kI bhejatA hai to usakI pUrti nigodiyoM se kara letA hai| agara jainadharma ko saMkhyA ghaTane kI parvAha na hotI to vaha siddhAlaya jAne vAle jIvoM kI saMkhyApUrti nigodiyoM sarIkhe tuccha jIvoM se karane ko utArU na ho jAtA / isa udAharaNa se yaha bAta bhI siddha hotI hai ki jainadharma meM kUr3e kacare ko bhI phalaphUla banAne kI zakti hai| vaha kUr3e kacare ke samAna jIvoM ko bhI mukta banAne kI himmata rakhatA hai / jainadharma usa catura kisAna ke samAna hai jo gA~va bhara ke kUr3e kacare kA bAda banAtA hai aura usase saphala khetI karatA

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( 168 ) hai / vaha mokSa bhejane ke liye devaloka meM se prANiyoM ko nahIM cunanA balki usa samaha meM se cunatA hai jisma kA adhika bhAga kUr3e kacare ke samAna hai| kheta meM jitanI miTTI hai utanA anAja paidA nahIM hotA parantu isIliye yadi koI murkha kisAna yaha kahe ki jinanA anAja paidA hotA hai utanI hI miTTo rakto bAkI phaikado to vaha pAgala viphala prayatna kregaa| agara hama cAhate haiM ki dasa lAkha maca jainI ho to hameM jaina samAja meM 10-12 karor3a bhale bure jainI taiyAra rakhanA pdd'eNge| unameM se 10 lAkha saca jainI naiyAra ho skeNge| jainadharma to siddhAlaya bhejane para bho saMkhyA kI truTi nahIM sahanA aura hama kugati aura kudharma meM bheja karake bhI saMkhyAtruTi kA vicAra na kareM to kitanI markhatA hogii| unnIsavA~ prazna jaina samAja meM avivAhitoM kI kAphI saMkhyA hai| isakA kAraNa balAdvaidhavya kI kuprathA hai / jaina samAja meM kumAriyoM kI maMkhyA 1 lAkha 85 hajAra 514 haiM jabaki kumAroM kI saMkhyA 3 lAkha 6 hajAra 265 hai / inameM se 63246 kumAra to aise haiM jinakI umara bIsa varSa se jyAdA hai / isa umara ke ina gine kumAroM ko chor3a kara bAkI kumAra avivAhita rahane vAle hI hai| eka to kumAriyoM kI sakhyA yoM hI kama hai parantu tIna cAra varSa taka ke lar3akoM ke liye vivAha yogya lar3akiyA~ bhAge paidA hogI isa prAzA se kumAriyoM kI saMkhyA santoSaprada mAnatI jAya to 61371 vidhura maujUda haiN| ye bhI apanA vivAha kumA. riyoM se hI karate haiN| phala isakA yaha hotA hai ki 63246 puruSa bIma varSa kI umara ke bAda bhI kumAra rahate haiN| yadi ye 61371 vidhu vidhavAoM se zAdI kareM to 20 varSa se

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( 166 ) adhika umara ke kumAroM kI saMkhyA 63 haz2Ara se adhika ke sthAna meM do haz2Ara se bhI kama raha jAya / jaba taka vidhavAvivAha kI suprathA kA pracAra na hogA taba taka yaha viSamatA dUra nahIM ho sakatI / antarjAtIya vivAha se bhI kucha subhItA ho sakatA hai kyoMki karIba 4200 kumAriyA~ aisI haiM jinakI umara 20 varSa se jyAdA hogaI hai parantu unakA vivAha nahIM huA | choTI jAtiyoM meM gogya vara na milane se yaha paristhiti paidA ho gaI hai / bar3I jAtiyoM ko bhI isa kaThinAI kA sAmanA karanA par3atA hai / antarjAtIya vivAha kA pracAra karane ke sAtha vidhavA vivAha ke pracAra kI bhI z2arUrata hai kyoMki vidhavAvivAha ke binA avivAhitoM kI samasyA hala nahIM hosakatI / zrIlAlajI yaha svIkAra karate haiM ki 'lar3akA lar3akI samAna hote haiM parantu lAMga avivAhita isaliye rahate haiM ki ve g2arIba hai' / isa bhale zrAdamI ko yaha nahIM sUjhatA ki jaba lar3akA laDakI samAna haiM to garIboM ko milane vAlI lar3a. kiyA~ kahA~ calI jAtI haiM ? bhale AdamI ke lar3ake bhI to eka strI rakhate haiM / hA~, isakA kAraNa yaha spaSTa hai ki vidhura loga kumAriyoM ko hajama kara jAte haiM / aise avivAhita kumArga kI saMkhyA bahuta jyAdA hai jinake pAsa pazcIsa pacAsa hajAra rupaye kI jAyadAda bhale hI na ho yA jo haz2Ara do haz2Ara rupaye dekara kanyA kharIdane kI himmata na rakhate ho phira bhI jA cAra zrAdamiyoM kI guz2ara lAyaqa paidA kara lete haiN| lar3akiyoM ko lakhapati lejA~ya yA karor3apati le jA~ya parantu yaha rUpae hai ki vivAhayogya umara ke 63 hajAra kumArge ko lar3akiyA~ nahIM mila rahI haiM / jaba inake liye lar3akiyA~ hai hI nahIM taba ye lakhapati bhale hI bana jA~ya parantu inheM avivAhita rahanA

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( 170 ) ho pdd'egaa| agara inameM meM koI vivAhita ho jAyagA to isake badale meM kimI damA ko avivAhita rahanA pdd'egaa| dhana se lar3akiyA~ mila sakatI hai parantu dhana sa laDakiyA~ bana to nahIM makatI / maniye jaba taka vidhavAvivAha kI suprathA kA pracAra nahIM hotA nayanaka yaha samamyA hala nahIM ho sktii| AkSepa ( ka )- avivAhita rahane kA kAraNa nA hamane karmodaya samajha rakhA hai| yaha ( balAdhavya ) nayA kAraNa to Apane baya hI nikaalaa| ( vidyAnanda ) mamAdhAna-modaya tA anna kAraNa hai aura vaha tApasa hara eka kArya kA nimitta hai| paranta yahA~ nA bAhya kAraNoM para vicAra karanA hai| vidhavAvivAha kA pracAra bhI apana apane karmodaya ke kAraNa hai phira pApa lAga jyA uma varodha meM hA hallA macAte hai ? cAge karanA, svana karanA, balA. kAra karanA Adi anaka abhyAga aura anyAcAga kA nimitta modaya hai phira zAsanavyavasthA kI kyA AvazyakatA ? karmo. daya ma bImAga huA karatI hai phira cikitmA aura saMvA kI kucha z2arUrata hai ki nahIM? karmodaya ma lakSmI milatI he kira vyApAgada kI AvazyakatA hai ki nahIM? manuSyagava deva kI gulAmI ke liye nahIM hai prayatna ke liye hai| isaliye bhale hI ma apanA zani prAjamAva paranta hameM nA apane prayatna sa kAma lenA caahiye| 'vidhavAvivAha kara lene para bhI koI vivAhita na kaha. naa ki nithr'aabir'aahu m ninyaa skaa dy naa aasaa isakA uttara hama de cuke hai, aura vidhavAvivAha ko vivAha siddha kara cuke hai|

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( 171 ) bIsavA~ prazna yahA~ yaha pUchA gayA hai ki ye vizvAe~ na hotI to saMkhyAvRddhi hotI yA nhiiN| bahana jAtiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha hotA hai aura mannAna bhI paidA hotI hai imaliya saMgkhyAvRddhi ko bAna to nizcita hai| jahA~ vidhavAvivAha nahIM hotA vahA~ bhraNahatyA Adi meM tathA dammA vinaikayA zrAdi kahalAne vAlI santAna paidA hone meM vidhavAzrI ke jananItva kA patA lagatA hai| vidyAnanda jI kA yaha kahanA nirarthaka pralApa hai ki agara ve bandhyA hotI nA ? bandhyA hAnI to mantAna na bar3hanI mirpha brahmacaryANuvrata kA pAlana honA / paranta jainamamAja kI maba vidhavA bandhyA hai isakA koI pramANa nahIM hai balki unake prabandhyApana ke bahuta R pramANa hai| zrIlAla kA yaha kAMga bhrama hai ki vidhavAvivAha vAlI jAtiyoM kI saMkhyA ghaTa rahI hai| koI bhI zrAdamI-jisake A~kheM hai-vidhavAvivAha aura santAnavRddhi kI kAryakAraNavyApti kA virodha nahIM kara mAtA / gaMga ma, bhUnA mara kara yA anya kimI kAraNa se kahIM kI mRtyumaMkhyA agara yaha jAya to ima meM vidhavAvivAha kA koI aparAdha nahIM hai| umama tI yathAsAdhya saMkhyA kI pani hI hogii| parantu balAdvaidhavya meM to saMnyA hAni hI hogI / vidhavAvivAha meM vyabhicAranivatti nahIM hotI, isakA khagaDana hama pahile kaI bAra kara cuke haiN| muSTi kI carcA ke liye alaga prazna hai| vahIM vicAra kiyA jAyagA / AkSepa (ka)-mAnA bahina Adi meM mAMga karane meM bho santAna ho sakatI hai / ( zrIlAla) samAdhAna-jima dina mAtAoM aura bahinI ko putra

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/ 172 / aura bhAI ko choDa kara duniyA~ meM aura koI puruSa na milegA zrora puruSoM kA mA~ yahina chor3akara aura koI strI na milegI, bhAI bahana ma ora mA~ beTe meM gupta vyabhicAra kI mAtrA bar3ha jAvagI, bhraNahatyAeM hone lageMgI, unakI kAmavAsanA ko mImita karane ke liye aura koI sthAna na rahaMgA, usa dina mA~ beTe aura vahina bhAI ke vivAha kI samasyA para vicAra kiyA jA sakatA hai| prApaka vidhavAvivAha meM bar3hane vAlI sakhyA ke Upara mAM bahina ke sAtha zAdI karane kI bAta kaha kara jima ghAra nijatA kA paricaya de rahA hai, kyA yaha paricaya vidhuravivAha ka. viSaya meM nahI diyA jAnakatA ? mantAna ke bahAne se apanA punarvivAha karane vAle vidhurA, apanI mA~ bahina meM zAdiyA~ kyoM nahIM karate ? jA uttara vidhuvivAha ke liye hai vahI uttara vidhavAvivAha ke liye hai| isa prazna meM yaha zrApaka anya praznA meM adhika laDa. rana DAyA hai. isaliye kucha bhI na likhakara yaha asabhya kathana nayA leMDaga Adi zabdoM kA prayAga kiyA hai| mAkSepa-( kha ) aThAraha prazna meM Apane kahA thA ki prativarSa jeniyoM kI saMkhyA 7 haz2Ara ghaTa rahI hai| aba kahate hai ki bar3ha rahI hai / ma harajAI ( ripArTa kA hama vicAra nahIM karate / ( vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-prApake vizvAma na karane meM ripArTa kI upayogitA naSTa nahIM hotI, na vastusthiti badala jAtI hai| pazu ka. A~gana mIMcane se zikAge kA astitva nahIM miTa jaataa| jainiyoM ko janasaMkhyA prativarSa sAta hajAra ghaTa rahI hai parantu isakA yaha matalaba nahIM hai ki jainiyoM ke kisI ghara meM janasaMkhyA bar3hatI nahIM hai| ese bhI ghara haiM jinameM do se isa zrAdamI ho gaye hoMge parantu ve ghara kaI guNe hai jinameM dasa se

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( 173 ) do AdamI hI raha gaye haiM / kahIM vRddhi aura kahIM hAni to hotI hI hai parantu suna sAta haz2Ara hAni kA hai / kisI kimI jAti meM saMkhyA bar3hane se jaina samAja kI saMkhyAhAni kA niSedha nahIM kiyA jA sktaa| jina jAtiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha kA rivAja hai unameM saMkhyA nahI ghaTatI hai, yA bar3hatI hai| sAtha hI jina jAtiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha kA rivAja nahIM hai unameM itanI saMkhyA ghaTatI hai ki vidhavAvivAha vAlI jAtiyoM kI saMkhyAvRddhi usa ghaTI kA pUrA nahIM kara pAtI / AkSepa ( ga ) - hamArI dRSTi meM to vidhavAvivAha se bahana vAlI saMkhyA nirjIva hai / (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna ---- isakA uttara tA yugapa amerikA Adi dezoM ka nAgarikoM kI avasthA se mila jAtA hai / prAcInakAla ka vyabhicArajAna sudRSTi Adi mahApuruSa bhI aise AkSepakoM kA mu~ha tor3a uttara dete rahe haiN| vizeSa ke liye dekho (18 Ga) AkSepa (gha) vidhuratva ke dUra karane kA upAya zAstrA meM hai / sAdhya ke liye zravadha vidhAna he zramAdhya ke lie nahIM / eka hI kArya kahI kartavya aura saphala hotA hai, kahI akartavya aura niSphala / samAdhAna-vidhuratva aura vaika liye eka hI vidhAna hai. isa viSaya meM isa laba meM anekavAra likhA jA cukA hai / asAdhya ke liye Apa kA vidhAna nahIM hai parantu asAdhya use kahate haiM jo cikitsA karane para bhI dUra na ho sake / vaidhavya no vidhutva ke samAna punarvivAha se dUra ho sakatA hai, isaliye vaha asAdhya nahIM kahA jA sktaa| eka hI kArya kahIM kartavya aura kahIM kartavya ho jAtA hai isaliye kumAra kumAriyoM ke liye vivAha kartavya aura vidhura vidhavAoM ke liye akartavya honA cAhiye / punarvivAha yadi vidhu ke liye zrakartavya nahIM hai

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( 174 ) to vidhavAoM ke liye bhI akartavya nahIM kahA jA sktaa| AkSepa (Ga)-gAna jAne vAle 608 jIvoM kI saMkhyA meM kamI na pAjAya imaliye hama vidhavAvivAha kA virodha karane hai| ( vidyAnanda ) mamAdhAna-jainadharmAnusAra chaH mahIne aATha samaya meM 60% jIva mokSa jAne kA niyama aTala hai| usakI rakSA ke liye prAnapaka kA prayatna hAmyAmpata hai| phira AkSaka jhaaN| bharata. kSetra meM) prayatna karatA hai vahA~ to mokSakA dvAra abhI banda hI hai| nImarI bAta yaha hai ki vidhavAvivAha se mokSa kA mArga banda nahI hAtA / zAstrI kI prAjJAe~ jo pahile likhI jA cukI hai aura sudRdhi kA jIvana hama bAta ke prabala pramANa hai| / AkSapa (ca)-~-madhyamAcI, tuma oratA kI bhA~ti bilakha bilakha kara kyoM ga rahe ho ? tumheM aurata kona kahatA hai ? tuma apane Apa aurata bananA cAho tA 11 Dabala ke batAzaM bheja do| gahA~ se eka nAvIz2a bheja diyA jaaygaa| tuma to na aurata ho na marda / madhyamAcI (arjuna ) napuMsaka ho / (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna-pAkSepakoM ko jahA~ apanI ajJAnatA kA mAtrAdhika paricaya hogayA hai vahAM unane isI prakAra gAliyA~ dI hai / ye gAliyA~ hamane inake bhaMDapana kI pola kholane ke liye nahIM likhI haiM parantu inake TukaDambAra pana ko dikhAne ke liye likhI hai / zrAdeSaka 1 / paise ke batAzoM meM mujhe strI banA dana kA gA duniyA meM prasiddha kara dene ko taiyAra hai| jo loga zapesa meM marda ko strI banAne ke liye nayAra haiM ve bharapeTa geTiyA~ milane para dharma ko adharma aura adharma ko dharma kahane ke liye tayAra hA jAya to isameM kyA Azcarya hai ! jo loga ina paMDitoM ko Tukar3oM kA gulAma kahate haiM ve loga kucha narama zabdoM kA

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( 175 ) hI prayoga karate haiN| prAkSaka ne tAbIz2a bA~dhane kI bAta kaha. kara apane gupta jIvana kA paricaya diyA hai / tAvIz2a bA~dhane vAle bagalAbhakta ThagoM se pAThaka aparicita na hoNge| rahI napuM. sakatA kI bAta so yadi koravadala ko pApa kA phala cakhAne vAlA aura usI bhava se mokSa jAne vAlA arjuna napuMsaka hai to aisI napuMsakatA gaurava kI vastu hai| uma para anantapAMgA. paziyoM kA puruSatva nyAchAvara kiyA jA sakatA hai| hamane eka jagaha likhA hai ki "hamane vidhavAvivAha kA virodha karake striyoM ke manuSyAcina adhikArI ko har3apA imaliya Aja hama duniyA ke sAmane progta banake rahanA par3atA hai / kabhI 2 eka AdamI ke dvArA 'hama' zabda kA prayoga samAja ke liye kiyA jAtA hai| yahA~ 'hama' zabda kA artha 'jainasamAja' mpaSTa hai| parantu jaba kucha na banA to Apaka ne isI para gAliyA~ denA zurU kara dii| isa taraha ke vAkya to hama bhI zrAkSa paka ke vaktavya meM ma udhRta kara sakate haiN| 18 ve prazna meM zrApaka ne eka jagaha likhA hai ki "hama vidhavAoM ke liye tar3apa rahe haiM, unheM apanI banAne ke liye chaTapaTA rahe hai|" aba isa AkSepaka meM koI pUcha ki 'janAca ! Apa aisI badamAzI kyoM kara rahe hai| zAkSepa (cha)-yadi jainadharma kA sambandha rakta mAMsa meM nahIM hai to umaka bhakSaNa karane meM kyA hAni ? (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna-hAni no malamUtra madhumadya prAdi ke bhakSaNa karane meM bhI hai to kyA jainadharma ke liye ina saba cIjoM ke upayoga kI bhI AvazyakatA hogI ? jima bhakSaNa karane meM bhI hAni hai usako jainadharma kA AdhAra stambha kahanA gajaba kA pANDitya hai| yahA~ to zrAkSapaka ke Upara hI eka prazna

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khar3A hotA hai ki aba Apa rakta mAMsa meM zuddhi samajhate haiM no usake bhakSaNa karane meM kyA doSa? AkSepa (ja)-dravyaveda (strI) pA~caveMnA kyoM ? bhAva. caMda naghameM taka kyoM ? kyA yaha saba vicAra rakta mA~sa kA nahIM hai / (vidyAnanda ) mamAdhAna-veda ko raktamAMsa samajhanA bhI adbhuta pAgiDatya hai / khaira, yaha prazna bhI AkSepaka ke Upara par3atA hai ki eka hI mAtA pitA se paidA hone vAle bhAI bahina kI raktaH zuddhi tA samAna hai phira mtrI pA~ca guNasthAna taka hI kyoM ? gadi striyoM meM rakta mA~ma kI zuddhi kA prabhAva mAnA jAya to kyA unake sahodara bhAiyoM meM unakI kula jAti judI mAnI jAyagI ? aura kyA sabhI striyA~ jAraja mAnI jAya~gI ? mAkSepa (jha)-binA vajra vRSabhanAgaca saMhanana ke mukti prApta nahIM hotii| kahiye zarIra zuddhi meM dharma hai yA nahIM ? samAdhAna--saMhanana ko bhI rakta mAMsa zuddhi samajhanA vicitra pAgiDatya hai / kyA vyabhicArajAtoM ke vajra vRSabhanAgaca saMhanana nahIM hotA? kyA macchoM ke bajra vRSabhanAgaca maMhanana nahIM hotA ? yadi hotA hai to ina jIvoM kA zarIra brAhmI sundarI sItA Adi deviyoM aura paJcamakAla ke anakavastI tathA aneka prAcAryoM ke zarIra meM bhI zuddha kaha. lAyA kyoMki inake vajravRSabhanArAca saMhanana nahIM thA / kahIM rakta zuddhi kA artha kulazuddhi jAtizuddhi karanA, kahIM saMhanana karanA vikSipmanA nahIM to kyA ? AkSepa ( a )--subhaga Adi prakRtiyoM ke udaya se puNyAtmA jIvoM ke saMhanana saMsthAna mAdi itane priya hote haiM ki unheM chAtI se cipaTAne kI lAlasA hotI hai| (vidyAnanda)

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(177 ) mamAdhAna -isIliye to zarIra ke sAtha jainadharma kA kucha sambandha nahIM hai| zarIra ke acche hone se use chAtI se cipaTAne kI lAlasA hotI hai parantu kisI ko chAtI se cipaTAne se mokSa nahIM milatA, mAna dUra bhAgatA hai| dharma aura mokSa ke liye to yaha vicAra karanA par3atA hai ki "pala rudhira gadhamala thailI, kokama bamAdi te mailI / navadvAra bahe ghinakArI, prama daha kareM kima yaarii||" AkSepa ( 2 )-jahA~ rakta mAMsa kI zuddhi nahIM hai, yahA~ dharmasAdhana bhI nahIM hai, yathA mvarga prAdi / (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna-devoM ke zarIra meM raktamAMsa kI zuddhi nahIM hai parantu azuddhi bhI to nahIM hai / yadi zarIra kA dharmasa sambandha honA to davA ko mokSa bahuta jaldI miltaa| mamantabhadra svAmI ne prAtamImAMsA meM tIrthaMkara bhagavAna ko lakSya karake kahA hai ki "bhagavan ! zAgarika mahatva to Apake samAna devoM meM bhI hai isaliye zrApa mahAna nahIM hai"| imase do bAne siddha hotI haiM / pahilI to yaha hai ki paramAtmA banane ke liye yA paramAtmA kahalAne ke liye zarIra zuddhi kI bAta kahanA makhetA hai| dUsarI yaha ki davA kA zarIra bhI zuddha hotA he phira bhI ve dharma nahIM kara paate| agara rakta mAMsa kI zuddhi' zabda ko ho pakar3A jAya to bhogabhUmijoM ke yaha zuddhi hotI hai, phira bhI va dharma nahIM kara pAte haiN| pazubhoM ke yaha zuddhi nahIM hotI kintu phira bhI ina sabase adhika dharma paMcamaguNasthAna aura zukla zyA dhAraNa kara lete haiN| zIgzuddhidhArI bhAMgabhUmija to sirpha cauthA guNasthAna aura pIna lezyA taka hI dhAraNa karapAte haiN| * adhyAtma bahirapyeSa vigrahAdimahAdayaH / divyaH satyo divaukassvapyasti gagAdimatsu sH|

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( 178 ) mleccha aura sudRSTi ke mokSagamana tathA pUjyapAda aura viSaNa Adi prAcAryoM ke pramANoM sa vyabhicArajAna prAdi bhI mAkSa jA sakate hai yaha bAta likhI jA cukI hai / ikkIsavA~ prazna / alAsacyA hAne se muniyoM kA AhAra meM kaThinAI honI hai| yadyapi aAjakala muni nahIM hai, phira bhI agara muni ho to va maba jagaha vihAra nahIM kara sakate kyoMki aneka prAntI me jenI hai hI nahIM aura jahAM he bhI vahAM prAyaH nagarga meM hI hai| maniyoM meM agara itanI zakti ho ki ve jahA~ cAhe jAkara naye jainI banAva aura samAja ke Upara prabhAva DAlakara una naye jainiyoM ko samAja kA ajamvIkAra karAve nA yaha samasyA hala ho sakatI hai| parantu hara jagaha turanta hI naye jainI banAnA aura uhityAgapUrvaka unase AhAra lenA mazkila hai, imaliya jaina samAja kA bahusaMkhyaka hAne kI mAvazyakatA hai| vidhavAvivAha maMzAvRddhi meM kAraNa hai, imaliya vidhavAvivAha munidharma ke astitva ke liye bhI anyatama sAdhana hai| AkSepa ( ka )-jaba mArga meM jaina janatA nahIM taba jo bhakta gRhastha apanA kAma dhandhA chor3akara munisevAmeM lage uma ka samAna dUsaga pugaya nhiiN| muniyoM ko hAtha se gaTI banAkara khAne kI salAha denA dhRSTatA he| samAdhAna-maniyoM ko aisI salAha denA dhRSTatA hogI parantu dogiyoM kI aisI malAha denA parama purAya hai / jenazAstroM ka anusAra uhiSTatyAga ke binA koI mani nahI ho sakatA aura uhaSTatyAga imaliye karAyA jAtA hai ki ve prArambhajanya himA ke pApa se bceN| nimantraNa karane meM vizeSArambha karanA par3anA hai / uhipatyAga meM sAmAnya prArambha hI rahatA hai

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( 176 ) sAmAnya prArambha ke atirikta jitanA prArambha hotA thA usase bacane ke liye uhiSTatyAga kA vidhAna hai| isa z2agase prArambha ke bacAne ke liye agara zrAvakoM ko ghara baTora kara muniyoM ke pIche salanA par3e aura naye naye sthAnoM meM naye taraha se nayA prArambha karanA par3e to yaha kIDI kI rakSA ke nAma para hAthI kI hatyA karanA hai / darjanoM kuTumbI paradeza meM jAkara muniyoM ke liye itanA jyAdA prArambha kareM to isa kArya ko koI mahA. mada miyAdRSTi hI pugaya mamajha sakatA hai / isakI apekSA no mani kahalAne vAlA vyakti hAtha se pakAke vAle to hI acchA hai| AkSepa (kha)-prachatoM ke hAtha lagane se jala apeya ho yaha andhera nahIM hai| ........ .. "upadeza zakyAnuSThAna kA hI hotA hai / gahu~ bAdha hai aura khAta akhAdya ............ jinake hRdaya meM bhI camAra brAhmaNa saba eka hI usa mA kI dRSTi meM saba sandhera hI rahegA / (zrIlAla) mamAdhAna--pagiDanadala kI mar3hatApUrNa midhyAtvavardhaka mAnyatA ke anusAra zadra ke sparza se jalAzaya kA jala bhI apaya hojAtA hai / isapara hamane kahA thA ki jalAzayoM meM nA khayaM zudroM se bhI nIca jalacara rahate haiN| isapara AkSepaka kA kahanA hai ki vaha azakyAnuSThAna hai / svaira ! jalAzayoM ko jala cage ke sparza se bacAnA azakyAnuSThAna sahI parantu sthalacara pazuoM kasparza se bacAnA nA zakya hai / phira svalacara pazuoM saMmparza se jalAzayoM kA jala apeya kyoM nahIM mAnate ? pazuoM ke sparzale apeya na mAnanA aura manuSyoM ke sparza se apaya mAnanA ghora dhRSTatA nahIM to kyA hai ? isakA spaSTa kAraNa nA yahI hai ki jinake Age tuma jAtimada kA nahA nAca kaganA cAhate ho unhIM ke viSaya meM aspRzyatA kI bAta nikAlate ho /

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(10) khAna kA parza gsa gandhra varNa mabhI ghRNina haiM / usameM kRmi prAdi bhI rahate haiM isaliye vaha bhaNAya hai| gehU~ meM ye bugAiyA~ nahIM hai isaliya khAdya hai| kyA AkSepaka batalAyagA ki jIvita prANiyoM ko nigala jAne vAle magara maccho meM tathA anya azunibhAjI pazuoM meM aisI kaunasI vizeSatA hai jisase vaMzUdroM se bhI accha samajha jAta hai| hamAre sAmane no brAhmaNa aura zuddha donoM barAbara hai| jo sadAcArI hai vahI ucca hai| tuma margakha sadAcArazatruzrI aura dharmavaMsiyoM meM hI sadAcAra kA kucha mUlya nahIM hai / tuma loga zaitAna ke pujArI ho imaliye durAcArI kA itanA ghaNita nahI samajhate jitanA zada kaa| hama loga bhagavAna mahAvIra 2. upAsaka haiM isaliye hamArI dRSTi meM zada bhI bhAI ke samAna he / mirpha dugacArganiMdya hai| prAkSepa (ga)-javanaka zarIra meM jIva hai taba taka vada hAr3a mAMsa nahIM ginA jAtA / ( zrIlAla) mamAdhAna-taba to zada kA zarIra bhI hAr3a mAMgana ginA jAyagA / phira usake hAtha ke jala se aura usase chue hupa jalAzaya ka jala taka saM itanI ghRNA kyoM ? vidyAnanda ne hamAre lekha meM bhASA kI galliyAM nikAlane ko amaphAla cepA kI hai| hindI meM vikti cinha kahA~ lagAnA cAhiye, kahA~ nahIM. isake samajhane ke liye bhApaka kA kucha adhyayana karanA par3egA / 'sAna nahIM milatA-yahA~ 'ko' lagAne kI koI bhAvazyakatA nahIM hai| agara 'ko' lagAnA aisA ani. vArya honI meM jAne bhI na pAyA ki usane pakaDa liyA' ima vAkya meM 'jAna' ke mAtha ko lagAnA cAhiye aura jAne ka bhI na pAyA' likhanA cAhiye / 'jAdA' 'yAdaha' 'yAdaha' 'jyAdaH' inameM se kaunasA prayoga Thoka hai isa ko mImAMnA

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(11) kA yaha sthala nahIM hai / aisI aprastuta bAnoM ko uThAkara bhA. paka, arthAntara nAmaka nigrahasthAna meM gira gayA hai| prAkSapa (gha)-noTisabAjI karate karate kisakA dama nikalA jAtA hai / garmI kI bImArI mumbaI meM ho sakatI hai| yahA~ to navAbI ThATha hai / (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna-noTisabAz2I kA garmI kI bImArI se kyA sambandha ? aura garmI kI bImArI ke abhAva kA navAbIDhATha meM kyA sambandha ? ye bImAriyAM to navAyI ThATha vAloM ko hI humA karatI haiN| hA~, isa vaktavya meM yaha bAta z2arUra siddha ho jAtI hai ki AkSepaka, samAjasaMvA kI oTa meM navAbI ThATha se khaba mauja ur3A rahA hai mo jaba taka samAja andhI aura mur3ha hai taba taka koI bhI usake mAla se mauja ur3A sakatA hai| AkSepa (Ga)-duniyA~ dUsaroM ke doSa dekhanI hai parantu dila khojA jAya to apane se buga koI nahIM hai| (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna-kyA isa bAta kA khayAla AkSepaka ne sudhArakA kA kosate samaya bhI kiyA hai ? maniyeSiyoM ke viruddha jo hamane likhA hai vaha isaliya nahIM ki hameM kucha una garIba dIna jantuoM se dveSa hai| ve becAre nA bhUkha aura mAna kAya ke satAye hue apanA peTa pAla rahe haiM aura kaSAya kI pUrti kara rahe haiN| aise nikRSTa jIva duniyA~ meM agaNita haiN| hanAga nA una saba se mAdhyasya bhAva hai| yahA~ jo ina DhoMgiyoM kI mamAlocanA kI hai vaha sirpha isaliye ki ina dAgiyoM ke pocha sapA munidharma padanAma na ho jAya / anAdhavidyA kI bImArI me loga yoM hI mara rahe haiN| isa prapathya sevana se unakI bImArI aura na bar3ha jAya /

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( 182) mAkSepa ( ca (-muniyoM ke sAtha zrAvaka samUha kA calanA nAjAyaz2a majamA nahIM hai| samAdhAna-kevalI ko chor3akara aura kisI ke sAtha zrAvakasamUha nahIM clnaa| hA~, jaba bhaTTArako kI sRSTi huI aura unameM se jaba pichale bhaTTArakoM ne dharmasaMvA ke sthAna meM samAja se pUjA karAnA aura navAbI ThATha se rahanA hI jIvana kA dhyeya banAyA taba avazya hI unane aimI aAjhAe~ gar3ha DAlI jisase unheM nAvabI ThATha se rahane meM subhItA ho / prAcIna logoM ke mahatva bar3hAne ke bahAne unane apane mvArtha kI puSTi kii| pIche bhAle manuSyoM ne use apanA liyaa| mAkSepa (cha)-gaTI nA pAThavI pratimA dhArI bhI nahIM bnaataa| phira muniyoM meM aisI bAta kahanA to pramabhya joza kI carama sImA hai| (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna-jina asabhya DhoMgiyoM ke liye roTI banAne kI bAta kahI gaI hai ve muni. AThavI pratimAdhArI yA pahilI pratimAdhArI nodara, jainI bhI nahIM hai, nikRSTa mithyASTi haiN| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki prArambha tyAga meM prArambhatyAga to honA cAhiye / parantu ye loga peTapUjA ke liye jaisA ghora prArambha karAte haiM use dekhakara eka uddipratyAgI to kyA prArammatyAgI bhI zAmindA ho jAyagA / vizeSa ke liye dekho 21-ka / prakRta ke viSaya meM 21-kha meM vicAra kiyA gayA hai| mAkSepa / ja)-muniyoM ke liye agara kevala aprAsuka bhojana kA hI vicAra kiyA jAtA to mUlAdhAra Adi meM 16 udgama doSa aura 46 antagaya TAlane kA vidhAna kyA hai ? (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-doSa aura antarAya ke bheda prabheda jo malA. dhAra Adi meM ginAye gaye hai ve tIna bAtoM ko lakSya karake /

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( 183 ) 1 bhojana zraprAka to nahIM hai, 2 muni ko koI kaSAya bhAMgAkAMkSA Adi to utpanna nahIM hotI hai, 3 dAtA meM dAtA ke yogya guNa haiM ki nhiiN| bhojana ke viSaya meM to prAsukatA ke sivAya aura koI vizeSaNa DAlane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai / zudra jala se prAsukatA kA bhaGga hojAtA hai yA koI aura doSa upasthita ho jAtA hai, isa bAta kA vidhAna bhI mUlAdhAra meM nahIM hai| bhAMjya ke viSaya meM jitane doSa likhe gaye haiM ve sirpha isIliye ki kisI taraha se vahAka to nahIM hai / jAnimada kA naGgA nAca dikhAne ke liye jasta ke viSaya meM avicArazUnya zarteM to ina madAndha DhoMgiyoM kI hI hai / jainadharma kA inake sAtha kucha bhI sambandha nahIM hai | bAIsavA~ prazna | isa praznakA sambandha bhI bAlavivAha se hai / isa viSaya meM pahile bahuta kucha likhA jA cukA hai| isa viSaya meM zrAkSepakoM kA likhanA bilakula hAsyAspada | prastu AkSepa ( ka ) - vivAha karake jo brahmacarya pAlana kare vaha avazya purA kA hetu hai / (zrIlAla ) samAdhAna- -kyA vivAha ke pahile brahmacarya pApa kA hetu hai ? brahmacarya ko kisI samaya pApa kahanA kAmakITatA kA paricaya denA hai| AkSepa ( kha ) - jinendra kI zrAzAkA bhaGga karanA pApa hai / bArahavarSa meM vivAha karane kI jinendrAzA hai / ( zrIlAla ) samAdhAna - jinendra, vivAha ke liye kama se kama umara kA vidhAna kara sakate haiM, parantu jyAdA se jyAdA umara kA nahIM / 12 varSa kA vidhAna jinendra kI AzA nahIM hai| kucha lekhakoM ne samaya dekhakara aise niyama banAye haiM, aura ye kama se

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( 184 ) kama umara ke vidhAna haiN| anyathA 16 varSa se adhika umara ke kumAra kA vivAha bhI pApa honA cAhiye / aisI tuccha zraura brahmacaryaviruddha AzAoM ko jinendra kI AjJA batalAnA jinandrakA avavAda karanA hai 1 prakSepa ( ga ) - jo brahmacarya bhI na le aura saMskAra bhI samaya para na kare vaha avazya pApI hai| brAhmI zrAdine to jIvana bhara vivAha nahIM kiyA isaliye una kA brahmacarya pApa nahIM hai / ( zrIlAla ) samAdhAna-saMskAra, banAdi kI yogyatA prApta karAneka liye hai / jaba manuSya pUrNa brahmacarya kA pAlana nahIM kara sakatA taba aAMzika brahmacarya ke pAlana karAne ke liye vivAhako zrAvazyakatA hotI hai| vivAha saMskAra pUrNabrahmacarya kI yAgyatA prApta nahIM karAtA isaliye jabataka koI pUrNabrahmacarya pAlana karanA cAhatA hai tabataka use vivAha saMskAra kI AvazyakatA nahIM hai| zAstroM meM aisI saikaDoM kumAriyoM ke ullekha hai jinane baDI umara meM, yuvatI ho jAne para vivAha kiyA hai| vizalyA -- vivAha ke samaya 'zAtodarI diggaja kumbhazobhistadvayAnUtanayauvanasthA' arthAt gajakumbhake samAna stanavAlI thI / padmapurANa 65 - 74 / jayacandrA - sUryapura ke rAjA zakradhanukI putrI jayacandrA ko apane rUpa aura guNoM kA bar3A ghamaNDa thA / isaliye pitA ke kahane para bhI usa ne kisI ke sAtha zAdI na karAI / anta meM vaha hariSeNa ke Upara rokI aura apanI sakhoke dvArA sAMta samaya hariSeNa kA haraNa karA liyaa| phira hariSeNa se vivAda karAyA / vaivAhika svAtaMtrya aura umara ke bandhana ko na mAnane kA yaha acchA udAharaNa hai / padmapurANa 8 parva |

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( 185 ) panA-gAnA, bajAnA mIta rahI thii| zrIkaNThako dekhA nA mAhita hogaI aura mAtA pitAdi kI cAMga se zrIkaNTha ke sAtha cala dii| pitA ne zrIkarAThakA pIchA kiyA kintu lar3AI ke avasara para panA ne kahasA diyA ki maiM apanI icchA ma AI hU~, maiM inhIM ke sAtha vivAha kruuNgii| antameM pitA calA gayA aura isane zrIka rAThama vivAha kara liyaa| parva pmpugnn| aJjanA-vivAha ke samaya kamikambhanibhastanI' gaja kambhaka samAna stana vAlI arthAt pUrNa yavatI thI / padmapurANu 15-17 / kaMkayA-gAnA nAcanA Adi aneka kalA meM pravINa, dazaratha ko yuddha meM mahAyatA danavAlI ke kayA kA varNana jaisA padmapurANa 24 ve parva meM vistAra se milatA hai vaha 12 varSa kI lar3akI ke lie asambhava hai| bhAThakumAriyA~-candravardhana vidyAdhara kI pAThalar3akiyA~ / mInA mvayambara ke samaya inane lakSmaNa ko mana hI mana vara liyA thA parantu vivAha usa samaya na hA paayaa| jaba lakSmaNa gavaNa se yuddha kara rahe the usa samaya mI ye lakSmaNa ko dekhane phuNcii| yuddha ke bAda vivAha huA / ya eka hI mAtA se paidA huI thI isaliye agara choTI kI umara 12 varSa kI ho to bar3I kI umara 16 kI jarUra hogii| phira sItA mvayambara ke samaya jinane mana hI mana sAkSmaNa kA varaNa kiyA umakA usa samaya vivAha na huA, kaI varSa bAda tvaMkAvijaya ke bAda vivAha hubhA, usa samaya taka unakI umara aura bhI jyAdA bar3ha gii| pATha gandhave kanyAe~---eka hI mAtA saM paidA huI isa. liye inakI umara meM antara thA / parantu ve eka sAtha rAmacandra

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( 186) se vivAhI gii| vivAha ke yogya umara ho jAne para icchita vara ke na milane se inheM vATa dekhate rukanA pdd'aa| lahAsandarI-hanumAna ke sAtha isane ghora yuddha kiyaa| pApugaNa ke 53 parva meM isakA caritra par3hane se isakI prodanA kA patA lagatA hai| purANoM meM aise saikar3I ullekha milate haiM jinase yavatI. vivAha kA pUrNa samarthana hAtA hai| kanyAe~ koI pratijJA kara lanI yA kimI khAsa puruSa ko cuna letI jisake kAraNa unheM varSoM bATa dazanI par3atI thI / paMsI avasthA meM 12 varSa kI umara kA niyama nahIM ho sakatA / kanyAoM ke jaise varNana milate haiM unase bhI unake yovana aura paripakvabuddhitA kA paricaya milatA hai jA 12 varSa kI umara meM asambhava hai| ina udAharaNoM se yaha bAta bhI siddha ho jAtI hai ki pugana samaya meM kanyA ko svatantratA tho aura unheM pati pasaMda karane kA adhikAra thA / isa svatantratA mora pasandagI kA vigaMdha karane vAle zAstravirodhI aura dharmalAdI haiN| bhAkSepa ( gha)-yadi brahmacarya kI itanI himAyata karamA hai nA vidhavA ke khiye brahmacarya kA hI vidhAna kyoM nahIM banAyA jAtA! ___ mamAdhAna-cAhe kumAriyA~ ho yA vidhavAeM ho hama dAnoM ke liya balAd brahmacarya mora basAvivAha burA samajhate haiN| jo vidhavAe~ brahmacarya se rahanA cAhe, he / jo vivAha karanA cAheM, vivAha kreN| kumAriyoM ke liye bhI hamArA yahI kahanA he / kumArI aura vidhavA jaba taka bahmacarya se raheMgI nabanaka puNyabandha hogaa| mAkSepa ( 3 )-jo loga yaha kahate haiM ki jitanA brahmacarya pala sake utanA hI acchA hai va brahmacarya kA artha ho

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( 187) nahIM samajhate / brahmacarya kA artha majabUrI se maithuna kA abhAba nahIM hai kintu prAtmA kI ora Rju hone ko brahmacarya kahate haiN| koI kanyA manameM kisI sundara vyakti kA citavana kara rahI hai| kyA Apa use bahmacAriNI samajhate haiM ? (vidyAnanda | samAdhAna-kitanI acchI bAta hai ! mAlUma hotA hai chipI huI sudhArakatA pramAvadhAnI se chalaka par3I hai| yahI bAta to sudhAraka kahate haiM ki vidhavAoM ke maithunAbhAva ko ve brahmacarya nahIM mAnate kyoMki yaha vidhavAoM ko majabUrI saM karanA par3atA hai aura yaha majabUrga nirupAya hai / kamAriyoM ke liye yaha bAta nahIM hai| unheM majabUrga se brahmacarya pAlana nahIM karanA pdd'taa| phira unake liye vivAha kA mArga khulA huA hai / vivAhamAmagrI rahane para bhI agara koI kamAge vivAha nahIM karatI tA ummakA kAraNa brahmacarya hI kahA jAsakatA hai| vidhavAoM ko agara vivAha kA pUrNa adhikAra ho mora phira bhI agara ve vivAha na kareM to unakA vaidhavya brahmacarya kahalAyagA / mAkSepa (ca)-mabako eka ghATa pAnI pilAnA-eka DaMDe se hA~kanA nItiviruddha hai| samAdhAna-eka ghATa se pAnI pilAyA jAtA hai aura eka raNDe se bahuta se pazu hAMka jAte haiN| jaba eka ghATa aura eka Dare se kAma calAnA hai taba usakA vigaMdha karanA phijUla hai| kumAra kumArI aura vidhuge ko jina paristhitiyoM ke kAraNa vivAha karanA par3atA hai va paristhitiyA~ yadi vidhavA ke liye bhI maujUda haiM to ve bhI vivAhaghATa saM pAnI pI sakatI haiN|

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( 18 ) neIsavA~ prazna / isa prazna kA sambandha vijAtIya vivAha se adhika hai| vijAnIya biyAha ke viSaya meM itanA likhA jA cukA hai ki praya jo kucha likhA jAya vaha saba piepaMSaNa hogaa| prAkSepa ( ka)-mAmadeva karate haiM ki jAniyA~ aAdi hai / ( zrIlAla vidyAnanda / mamAdhAna-jAniyA~ dA naraha kI haiM-kalpita, akalpita / pakandriya zrAdi akalpita jAniyA~ hai / bAko brAhmaNa kSatriyAdi kahigna jAtiyA~ haiN| ekandriya prAdi bharipana jAtiyoM anAdi he / kaliyana jAniyA~ anAdi nahI hai, anyathA inakI racanA RSabhadeva ne kI yA bhagna ne kAyaha bAna zAstroM meM kyoM likhI hoto? mAne / na -nAmacandra middhAntacakravartI ne 12 kharaba jAniyAM kahI haiN| ( zrIlAla ) mapAdhAna-mAkSaraka agara kimI pAThazAlA meM jAkara gAmmaTamAra padale nAghaha namicandrakA samajhane lgegaa| nAmacandra ne sirpha pA~ca hI jAtiyoM kA ullekha kiyA / 12 baraba jAniyA kA umkha banAne ke liye hama AkSepaka ko cunautI data hai|2ln koTI kuloM kA ullakha namicandra ne z2arUra kiyA hai parantu una kuloM ko jAti samajha lenA ghora murkhanA kA paricaya denA hai| gAmmaTasAra TIkA meM hI kula bhedAkA martha zarIgatpAdaka vargaNAprakAra kiyA gayA hai| arthAt zagera banane ke liye jitanI taraha kI vargaNAeM lagatI haiM utane hI kuna hai| eka ho yAni me paidA hAna vAle zarIgeke kula lAkhoM hote haiM kyoMki yAnibhedase kulake bheda lAgoMguNe haiM aura eka hI jAni-meM cAhe vaha kalpita hA yA akalipana -lAkhoM

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( 186) taraha kI yAniyA~ hotI haiN| imaliye yoni yA kustakI jAtiyA~ kahadenA bilakula murkhatA hai| zAstrakAroM ne bhI yonibheda aura kulabhedoM ko jAni nahIM kahA / nArgakayoM meM jAtibheda nahIM hai phira bhI lAkhA yAniyA~ aura manuSyoM ko apekSA dugune se bhI adhika kula hai| AkSepa (ga)-kAlakI palaTanAke anumAra jAtiyoM kI saMjJAe~ bhI badala gaI / (vidyAnanda ) mamAdhAna-no pugane nAma milanA cAhiye yA anya kisI rUpa meM inakA ullaMba honA cAhiye / prApa(gha)-jAti eka zabda hai, usakA vAcya pragara guNarUpa hai no anAdi ananta hai| agara paryAyarUpa hai nA dhovya kyA hai| jo dhrauvya ha vahI jAniyoM kA jIvana hai| (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna-mahazatA ko jAti kahate haiM / sarazatA gugNa paryAya Adi sabhI meM ho sakatI haiN| davya guNa kI sarazanA anAdi hai aura paryAya kI sarazatA mAdi hai / vartamAna jAniyA~ (jinameM vivAha kI carcA hai)nA na guNarUpa haiM na pryaayaa| va nA bilakula kalpita haiN| nAmanikSA meM adhika inakA mahantra nahIM hai| yadi inakA paryAyarUpa mAnA jAya to inakA mula jIva mAnanA par3egA / imaliye bhApaka ke zabdAnusAra 'jIvantra jAni khlaaygii| jIva ko eka jAti mAna kara umakA pudgala dharma adharma meM vivAha karane kA niSedha kiyA jAya nA koI Apatti nahIM haiN| jima prakAra kalakaniyA, baMgAlI, bihArI, lakhanavI, kAnapurI mAdi meM anAditva nahIM hai usI prakAra ye jAtiyA~ haiN| yadi mAkSepaka kA dala ina upajAniyoM ko anAdi

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( 160 ) ananta mAnatA hai, chaThe kAla meM bhI ye jAtiyA~ banI rahatI haiM to yaha mAnanA hI par3egA ki vijAtIya vivAha Adi se ina jAtiyoM kA nAza nahIM ho sktaa| jaba jAti kA nAza karanA asambhava hai to usakI rakSA karane kI cintA mUrkhatA hai / prakSepa (Ga) - anumAnataH ina jAtiyoM kA navInatva prasiddha hai / ( vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - mAMgabhUmiyoM meM jAtibheda nahIM thA / RSadeva ne tIna jAtiyA~ banAI / bharata ne cauthI / isase itanA to siddha ho gayA ki ye bharata ke pIche kI hai| isake bAda kisI anya tIrthaMkarAdi ne inakI racanA kI ho aisA ullekha kahIM nahIM hai| hA~, aitihAsika pramANa itanA avazya milatA haiM ki huenasaMga ke z2amAne meM bhArata meM sirpha 38 jAtiyA~ thIM aura Aja karIba 4 haz2Ara haiM / isase mAlUma hotA hai ki pichale Der3ha do haz2Ara varSo meM jAtiyoM kA jvAra zrAtA rahA hai usI meM ye jAtiyA~ banI haiN| aba taka jainiyoM kA sAmAjika bala rahA taba taka ina jAtiyA~ kI sRSTi karane kI z2arUrata ho hI nahIM sakatI thii| bAda meM inakI sRSTi huI hai / caubIsavA~ prazna | isa prazna meM yaha pUchA gayA thA ki vidhavAvivAha se inake kauna kauna adhikAra chinate haiM / yaha bAta hamane aneka pramANoM meM siddha kI hai ki inake koI adhikAra nahIM chinate / parantu zrIlAla ne to bilakula pAgalapana kA paricaya diyA / yaha bAta usake AkSepoM se mAlUma ho jAyagI / hai AkSepa ( ka ) - jo adhikArI hokara adhikAra sambandhI kiyA nahIM karatA vaha dhikkArI bana jAtA hai /

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( 161) samAdhAna--koI isa prAkSepaka se pUche ki tujhe muni banane kA adhikAra hai yA nahIM? yadi hai, to tU muni kyoM nahIM banatA ? aba tujhe dhikArI kahanA cAhiye? kyA prApika inanA bhI nahIM samajhatA ki manuSya ko dharma karane kA pUrNa adhikAra hai parantu dharma utanA hI kiyA jAsakatA hai ki jitanI zakti hotI hai / (vizeSa ke liye jainajagat varSa 4 aGka 7 meM 'yogyatA aura adhikAra' zIrSaka lekha dekhanA cAhiye / .) "gArupavAle mAMsabhakSI haiM isaliye jo hindusthAnI yAMrupa jAte haiM unakA va apamAna karate haiM kyoMki yorupa jAne vAle bhAratIya dharmakarmazUnya hai"| zrIlAla ke ina zabdoM ke viSaya meM kucha kahanA vRthA hai / bhAratIya chUnAkhUna chor3a dete haiM yA pAe pagiDatoM kI prAzA meM nahIM calate isaliye unakA vilAyata ke loga apamAna karate haiM, aisA kahanA jaba. dasta pAgalapana ke sivAya aura kyA kahA jA sakatA hai? AkSepa (sa)-sumukha Adi ke dRSTAnta se vyabhicAra kI puSTi nahIM hotI / ve nA tyAga karake uttama gati gaye / dAnAdi karake uttamati pAI / isameM kaunasA Azcarya hai ? (zrIlAla) mamAdhAna-dharma se ho utsama gati milatI hai, parantu isa siddhAnta ko tuma loga kahA~ mAnate ho| tumhArA to kahanA hai ki aisA prAdamI mani nahIM bana sakatA, dAna nahIM de sakatA, yaha nahIM kara sakatA, vaha nahIM kara sktaa| aba tuma yaha svIkAra karate ho ki vyabhicArI bhI dAna de sakatA hai, muni yA dhAryikA ke dhUta le sakatA hai| yahI to hama kahate hai| vivAha se yA vyabhicAra se mokSa koI nahIM maantaa| tumhAre kahane se bhI yaha siddha ho jAtA hai| jainadharma ke anu

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( 162 ) sAra bhI una jAtiyoM ke koI adhikAra nahIM china sakate | sudhi ke liye alaga prazna haiM / vidyAnandajI kI bahutasI bAnoM kI AlocanA prathama prazna meM ho cukI haiN| AkSepa (ga) vidhavAvivAha kI santAna kabhI mokSA. bhikAriNI nahIM ho sakatI / viSa kA bIja isaliye bhayaGkara nAhIM hai ki vaha viSa bIja he parantu vipabIjotpAdaka hone se bhayaGkara hai| (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna - yaha vicitra bAta hai / viSaboja agara svataH bhayaGkara nahIM hai to usa ke khAne meM koI hAni na honI cAhiye. kyoMki peTa meM jAkara vaha viSabIja paidA nahIM kara sakatA / vyabhicArI to vAstavika aparAdhI hai / usa ke to adhikAra line nahIM aura usa kI niraparAdha santAna kA adhikAra china jAya yaha andhera nagarI kA nyAya nahI to kyA hai ? baira / raviSeNa AcArya ke kathanAnusAra vyabhicArajAna meM koI duSaNa nahIM hotaa| yaha hama pahile likha cuke haiN| suTi ke udAharaNa se bhI yaha bAta siddha hotI hai / AkSepa (gha ) - samyasAcI kA yaha kahanA ki "vidhavAvivAha to vyabhicAra nahIM hai| usase kisI ke adhikAra kaise china sakate haiM" ? yaha bAta siddha karatI hai ki vyabhicAra se adhikAra chinate haiM / samAdhAna - hamArI pUrI bAta udhRna na karake AkSepaka ne pUrI dhUrtatA kI hai| samAja kI A~khoM meM dhUla bhokanA cAhA hai| pUrI bAta yaha hai' vyabhicArajAta sudRSTi sunAra ne muni dIkSA kI aura mokSa gayA / yaha bAta prasiddha ho hai / isase mAlUma hotA hai ki vyabhicAra se yA vyabhicArajAta hone se

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( 193) kisI ke adhikAra nahIM chinate / vidhavAvivAha to vyabhicAra nahIM hai| usase kimI ke adhikAra kaise china sakate haiM?' paccIsavA~ prazna / jina jAtiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha hotA hai una meM koI mani bana sakatA hai yA nahIM? isake uttagmeM dakSiNa kI jAtiyA~ prasiddha hai| zAMtisAgara kI jAti meM vidhavAvivAha kA zrAmataura para rivAja hai| AkSepa ( ka )-jina ghaganoM meM vidhavAvivAha hotA hai una ghaganeke puruSa dIkSA nahIM lete / paTaila gharAnoMmeM vidhavAvivAha biskula nahIM hotaa| koI khaMDelavAla agara vidhavA vivAha karala nA samaga khaMDelavAla jAti dalita nahIM ho sktii| samAdhAna-zAMtisAgara kA bhUThApana bhacchI narahamiddha kiyA jAcukA hai| sAmanA ho jAne para jammA va muMha chipAte hai usase unakI kalaI bilakula khula jAtI hai| paTaila ghaganeka viSaya meM liyA jA cukA hai| gvada zAntimAgara ke bhatIje ne vidhavAvivAha kiyA hai / yaha bAta jaina jagat meM sapramANa nikanna cukI haiN| yaha ThIka hai ki eka khagaDalavAla ke kAryameM baha jAtIya rivAja nahIM bana jAtA hai| parantu agara maikaDo varSAsa hajAge marADelavAla vidhavA-vivAha karAne hoM, ve jAti meM bhI zAmila rahane ho, unakA roTI beTI vyavahAra saba jagaha hotA hA. taba vaha rivAja hI mAnA jAyagA / zAntimAgara jI kI jAti meM vidhavAvivAha aisA hI pracalita hai| bhAkSepa ( kha )-yadi anadhikArI hokara bhI koI dasmAmuni bana jAya to manimArga kA vaha vikRta rUpa upAya kadApi nahIM ho sktaa| (vidyAnanda )

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( 194) samAdhAna-zAntimAgara kA mani bananA agara vikRta rUpa hai nA dammI ko mAna na banane dene vAle zAntisAgara ko mani kyoM mAnane hai ? agara mani mAnate haiM nA kisI kA mani banana kA adhikAra nahI china sktaa| honA aura makanA meM kArya kAraNa bhAva hai| jahA~ honA hai vahA~ makanA avazya hai / agara koI mvarga jAnA hai to isase yaha bAta Aga hI siddha ho jAtI hai ki vaha mvarga jA sakatA hai| jaba zAstroM meM aima maniyoM ke banane kA ullakha hai, unheM mAta naka prAna huA hai taba unheM muni banana kA adhikAra nahIM hai aimA kahanA mRkhatA hai| maze zAstrAmeM kahI kimIkA koI adhikAra nahIM chInA gyaa| acche kAma karana kA adhikAra kabhI nahIM chInA jA makatA / athavA nargapazAca gakSasa hI aisa adhikArI kA chInane kI gumnAmbI kara sakate hai| chabbIsavA~ prazna / vidhavAvivAha ke vigadhiyoM kA yaha kahanA hai ki umama paidA huI mannAna mokSAdhikAriNI nahA hotii| hamAga kathana yaha hai ki vidhavAvivAha se paidA huI mannAna vyabhicArajAna nahIM haiM aura mAkSAdhikArI no vyabhicAra jAna bhI hone hai| AgadhanA kathA kASa meM vyabhicArajAna sudRSTi kA caritra isakA z2abardasta pramANa hai| bhAkSepa (ka)-suraSTi mvayaM apane vIrya se paidA huye the / (zrIkhAla ) vinAhina puruSa meM bhinnArya dvAga jo santAna hA vaha nyabhicArajAta mantati hai / bAlabA, kSatrI, vaizya ina tIna varSoM kI koI strI yadi parapuruSagAminI ho jAya nI parapuruSAtpanna santAna mokSa kI adhikArikhI nahIM

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( 165 ) hai kyoMki vahA~ kulazuddhi kA prabhAva hai / yadi usI stro ke yabhicAriNI hone ke pahale svapati se koI santAna ho to vaha santati trividha karmoM kA kSaya karane para mukti prApta kara sakatI hai / / vidyAnanda) __ mamAdhAna-koI apane vIrya se paidA ho jAya to usako vyabhicArajAnatA nae nahI ho jaatii| koI manuSya vaMzyA ke sAtha vyabhicAra kare aura zIghra hI mara kara apane hI vIrya se umI vezyA ke garbha se utpanna ho jAya to kyA vaha vyabhicArajAna na khlaaygaa| vidyAnanda kA kahanA hai ki parapuruSagAminI hone ke pahila utpanna huI mantati ko mokSAdhi. kAra hai parantu suSTi kI patnI tA umara marane ke pahile hI parapuruSagAminI ho cukI thii| taba vaha mAMsa kyoM gayA ? nimnalikhita zlokoM se yaha bAta bilakula middha hai ki vaha pahile hI vyabhicAriNI ho gaI thI vakrAkhyo dudhIstasyA gRhe chAtraH pravatate / tena mA duganAra mA kati sma paapinaa|" ekadA vimalAyAzca vAkyataH so'pi vakrakaH / surrANa mArayAmAma kurvantaM kAmasaMbanam // 6 // arthAta vimalA ke ghara meM vakra nAma kA eka badamAza chAtra rahatA thA, usa pApI ke sAtha vaha vyabhicAra karatI thii| eka dina vimalA ke kahane meM kAmasevana karate samaya uma vaka ne suhATa kA mAra ddaalaa| isase mAlUma hotA hai ki muTi ke marane ke pahile usakI strI vyabhicAriNI ho cukI thI, muSTi apanI vyabhicAriNI strI ke garbha se paidA hokara mokSa gayA thaa| unake liye najA pAnA cAhiye jo hAr3a mAMsa meM zuddhi azuddhi kA vicAra karate haiM aura jaba una vicAgaM kI puSTi zAstroM se

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nahIM hotI to zAstroM kI bAtoM ko chipAkara logoM ko A~khoM meM dhUla jhAMkate hai| AkSepa ( stra )- sudApa sunAra nahIM thA / ( zrIlAla, vidyaannd)| samAdhAna-gane samaya meM prAyaH jAti ke anusAra hI loga AjIvikA karate the, imaliya AjIvikA ke ullekha ma usakI jAti kA patA laga jAnA hai| agara kimI ko carmakAra na likhA gayA hA parantu jana banAne kA bAta likhI hA, mAtha hI premI koI bAta na liranI hA jisasa vaha camAra middha na ho nA yaha mAnanA hI par3egA ki vaha camAra thA / yahA~ bAta sudRSTi kI hai| usana ganI kA hAra banAyA thA aura marane ke bAda mare janma meM bhI umane hAra bnaayaa| agara vaha sunAra nahI thA nA (1) pahile janma meM vaha hAra kyA banAnA thA ? ( 2) brahmacAga namidatta ne yaha kyoM na likhA ki yaha thA tA vaizya parantu sunAra kA dhandhA karatA thA ? (3) mA janma meM jaba gajakarmacArga maba sunAga ke yahAM cakkara lagA rahe the taba agara vaha sunAra nahI thA tA usake yahA~ kyA prAya ? suraSTi ke munAra hone ke kAphI pramANa hai| zrAja meM 16 varSa pahile jo isa kathA kA anuvAda prakAzita huA thA ora jo sthitipAlako ke guru paM0 dhannAlAla jI kA samarpita kiyA gayA thA umameM bhI sudRSTi ko sunAra likhA hai| usakI vyabhicArajAtanA para nA kisI kA sandeha ho hI nahIM sktaa| hA~, dhAvA dene vAloM kI bAta dusarI hai| sattAIsavA~ prazna / somasana trivarNAcAra kA hama pramANa nahIM mAnate parantu

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( 167 ) vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI paNDita isako pUrNa pramANa mAnate haiM, yahA~ taka ki usa pakSa ke muniveSo loga bhI use pUrNa pramANa mAnate haiM / jisa prakAra kurAna para apanI zraddhA na hone para bhI kisI musalamAna ko samajhAne ke liye kurAna ke pramANa denA anucita nahIM hai usI prakAra vicAra ko na mAnate huye bhI sthitipAlakoM ko samajhAne ke liye usake pramANa denA anucita nahIM hai / trivarNAcAra meM do jagaha vidhavAvivAha kA vidhAna hai aura donoM hI spaSTa haiM garbhAdhAnaM puMsavane sImantonnayane tathA / praveza punarvivAha maMDane // 8-116 // pUjane kuladevyAzca kanyAdAnaM tathaiva ca / karmaveSu vai bhAryA dakSiNe tRpavepayet // 8-117 // garbhAdhAna puMsavana sImantonnayana vadhUpraveza, vidhavAvivAha, kuladevIpUjA aura kanyAdAna ke samaya strI ko dAhinI zrAra baiThAva / isa prakaraNa se yaha bAta bilakula siddha ho jAtI hai ki somasenajI kI strI punarvivAha svIkRta thA / pIche ke lipikAroM yA lipikArakoM ko yaha bAta pasanda nahIM AI isaliye unane 'Da' kI jagaha 'zUdrA' pATha kara diyA hai| paM0 panAlAlajI sonI ne donoM pAThoM kA ullekha apane anuvAda meM kiyA thA parantu pIche se kisI ke bahakAne meM zrAkara chapA huA patra phar3avA DAlA aura usake badale dUsarA patra lagavA diyaa| aba vaha phaTA huA patra mila gayA hai jisase vAsta vika bAta prakaTa ho gaI hai| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki ina zlokoM meM munidAna, pUjana, zrabhiSeka, pratiSThA tathA garbhAdhAnAdi saMskAroM kI bAta AI hai isaliye yahA~ zUdra kI bAta nahIM

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( 168 ) pAsakatI kyoMki granthakAra ke matAnumAra zudroM ko ina kAryoM kA adhikAra nahIM hai| isaliye vAstava meM yahA~ rADA punavivAha' pATha hI hai jaisA ki prAcIna pratiyoM se siddha hai| aba gyArahave adhyAya ke punarvivAha vidhAyaka zlokoM ko bhI dekha lenA cAhiye / 171vaM zloka meM sAdhAraNa vivAhavidhi samApta ho gaI hai parantu ganthakAra ko kucha vizeSa kahanA thA mAM unane 172 veM zloka sa lagAkara 177 ve pratIka naka kahA hai / paranna dumarI prAvRtti meM paNDitoM ne 174 ve zloka meM "atha pagmatammRtivacanam" pemA vAcya aura jora diyA jo ki prathamAvRtti meM nahIM thaa| bairava kahI ke ho parantu sAmasanI unheM jainadharma ke anukUla samajhate haiM iliye una ko udhRta kara bhI unakA bagaDana nahIM karane / imoliya panA. lAla jI ne 172 ve zloka kI utthAnikA meM likhA hai ki"pagmatake anusAra usa viSayakA vizeSa kathana karate haiM jimma kA jainamata ke sAtha koI virodha nahIM hai|" imaliye yahA~ jA pA~ca zloka uddhRta kiye jAte haiM unake viSaya meM kArDa yaha nahI kaha sakatA ki ye nA yahA~ vahA~ ke hai inameM hameM kyA sambandha? dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki momamana jI ne yahA~ vahA~ ke zlokoM se yA no gandhakA prAdhA kalevara bhara rakhA hai, imaliye yahA~ vahA~ ke zlokoM ke viSaya meM sirpha itanA hI kahA jA sakatA hai ki gaha racanA mage kI hai parantu mana to unhIM kA kahalAyagA / maura, una zlAkoM ko dekhiye vivAhe dampatI myAtAM triga brahmacAriNau / alaMkRtA badhUcava saha zayyAmanAzanI // 11-172 // vivAha hojAne ke bAda pati patnI tIna gatri taka brahmacarya se rhe| isa ke bAda badhU alakRta kI jAya aura ve donoM sAtha sAve sAtha baiThe aura sAtha bhojana kreN|

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( 169) vadhvA sahaiva kurvIta nivAsaM shvshuraalye| catarthadinamatratra kaMcidevaM vadanti hi // vara, adhU ke sAtha sasurAla meM ho nivAsa kare parantu koI kAI kahate haiM ki cauthe dina taka hI nivAsa kre| catarthImadhye jJAyante dApA yadi vagmya cet / dattAmapi punardadyAt pitAnyam vibudhAH // 11-174 cauthI gAtri ko yadi varake doSa (napuMsakatvAdi) mAlUma ho jAya~ nA pitA ko cAhiye ki do huI-vivAhI huI-kanyA phira se kisI dUsare vara kA de de arthAt usa kA punarvivAha karade aisA buddhimAnA ne kahA hai| pracaraikpAdidoSAH myuH patisagAdadhA yadi / dattAmapihareddadyAdanyasmA iti kaMcana // 11-175 agara patimAma ke bAda mAlUma par3e ki pani pati ke pravara gAtrAdi kI ekatA hai to pitA apanI dI huI kanyA kimI dUsare ko dd| kalo tu punarudvAhaM varjayaditi gaalvH| kammiMzciddeza icchanti na tu sarvatra kaMcana // 11-176 parantu gAlava RSi kahane haiM ki kalikAla meM punarvivAha na kareM aura koI kAI yaha cAhate haiM ki kahIM kahIM punarvivAha kiyA jAya saba jagaha na kiyA jAya / dakSiNa prAMta meM punarvivAhakA rivAja hone se bhaTTAraka jI ne usa prAnta ke liye yaha chaTa cAhI hai| yoM to unanaM punarvivAha ko Avazyaka mAnA hai parantu yadi dumare prAMta ke soga punarvivAhana calAnA cAhe to bhaTTAraka jI kisI kisI prAnta ke liye khAsakara dakSiNa prAnta ke liye prAvazyaka mamajhate haiN| pAThaka dekheM ina zlokoM meM strIpunarvivAha kA kaisA jabardamta samarthana hai / yahA~ para yaha kahanA ki vaha puruSoM ke punarvivAha

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( 200 ) kA niSedhaka hai ghora amAnatA hai / 174-175 veM zlokoM meM kanyA ke punardAna yA punarvivAha kA prakaraNa hai / 1763 zloka meM punaH vivAha ke viSaya meM kucha vizeSa vidhi batalAI gaI hai| vizeSa. vidhi sAmAnyavidhi kI apekSA rakhanI hai isaliye usakA sababdha Upara ke donoM zloko ma ho jAtA hai jinameM ki strIpunavivAha kA vidhAna hai| kalau na punarudvAha' 'kalikAla meM to punarvivAha' yahA~ para jA 'ta' zabda paDA hai vaha bhI batalAtA hai ki isake Upara punarvivAha kA prakaragA rahA hai jisakA AMzika niSedha gAlava karate haiN| yaha 'tu zabda bhI itanA jabardasta hai ki 17. zalAka kA sambandha 1.75 va kase kara detA hai aura aimohAlanameM puruSa ke panarvivAha kI bAta hI nahIM paatii| imarI bAta yaha hai ki puruSoM ke punarvivAha kA niSedha kimI kAla ke liye kimI prAcIna RSi ne nahIM kiyaa| hA~ eka palIke rahate hue dUsarI patnIkA niSedha kiyA hai / parantu vidhura hojAne para dumarI patnI kA niSedha nahI kiyA haiM na mI pannI ko mAMgapatnI kahA hai / isaliye bhogapatnI ke niSedha ko punarvivAhakA niSedha samajha lenA prakSantavya zAbdika ajJAna hai| matalaba yaha ki na to puruSoM kA panarvivAha niSiddha hai na yahA~ uma kA prakaraNa hai, jisame 171 zlokakA artha badalA jA sake / yaha kahanA ki hindu granthakAga ne vidhavAvivAha kA kahI vidhAna nahIM kiyA hai bilakula bhUla hai / niyAMga ora vidhavAvivAha ke vidhAnosa hinda mmRtiyA~ garI paDI haiN| isa kA lekha amitagati Adi jaina granthakAroM ne bhI kiyA hai| sthitipAlaka pagiDana 175 veM zloka ke 'panimagAdadhA' zandoM kA bhI mithyA artha karate haiN| patisaGgazabda kA pANi pIDana ardha karanA hada dane kI dhokhebAz2I haiN| patimaGga pati

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( 201 ) "mambhoga" yaha mIdhA savA artha hareka prAdamI samajhanA hai| 174 zloka ke caturthI zabda kA bho pANipIr3ana artha kiyA hai aura idhara patimA zabda kA bhI pANipIr3ana artha kiyA jAya nA 175 vA~ loka bilakula nirarthaka hAjAtA hai: isaliye yahA~ para pAgipoDana artha loka, zAstra aura grangaracamA kI dRSTi se bilakula jhUThA hai| adhaH zabda kA artha hai 'poche'. parantu yaM pagiTuna karate hai pahilaM': parantu na to kisI koSa kA pramANa dete hai aura na sAhityika prayoga batalAte haiM / parantu adhaH zabda kA artha gola yA bAda hotA hai| isake udAharaNa to jitane cAhe mileNge| jaima adhAMmata arthAt mosanAnte pIyamAnaM jalAdikama-bhAjana ke anta meM diyA gayA jahAdika / isI taraha "pradholikhita zloka" zabda kA artha hai 'isake bAda likhA gayA loka' na ki 'isake pahile likhA gayA itoka' / isaliye panisamAdadhaH' zabda kA artha huA 'mambhoga ke bAda' / jaba sambhAga ke bAda kanyA dUsare ko do jAsakatI hai taba strIpunarvivAha ke vidhAna kI spaSTatA aura kyA hogI? agara 'adhaH' zabda kA artha 'pahile' bhI kara liyA jAya nA bho 175 meM nAka meM strApunarvivAha kA samarthana hI hotA hai| 'sambhoga ke pahile' zabda kA matalaba huA manapadI ke bAda' kyoMki sammoga saptapadI ke bAda hotA hai| yadi sannapado ke pahile taka hI punani kI pAna unheM mvIkRta hotI to ghe panisA zabda kyoM DAlate? manapadI zabda hI DAlane / saptapadI ke ho jAne para vivAha pUrNa ho jAtA hai aura jaya sapta. padI ke bAda punarzana kiyA jA sakatA hai nA strIpana vAha siddha ho gyaa| trivarNAcAra meM yadi ekAdha zabda hI strIpanarvivAha

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( 202 ) mAdhaka hotA nA bAta marI thI, parantu unanaM to aneka prakaraNoM meM aneka taraha se strIpanarvivAha kA samarthana kiyA hai| isa trivarNAcAra meM aisI bahuta kama bAte haiM jo jainadharma ke anukUla ho| una bahuna thor3o bAloM meM eka bAta yaha bhI hai / isaliye trivarNAcAra ke bhaktoM kA kama se kama vidhavAvivAha kA nA pUrNa samarthaka honA caahiye| itanA likhane ke bAda jo kucha prAkSepakoM ke prAkSepa raha gaye haiM unakA samAdhana kiyA jAnA hai| AkSepa (ka)-gAlava RSi no punarvivAha kA ni. paMdha kara rahe hai| Apa vidhAna kyoM samajha baiThe ? ( zrIlAla, vidyAnanda ) mamAdhAna-gAlava RSi ne sirpha kalikAla ke liye punarvivAha kA niSedha kiyA hai| isaliye unake zabdoM se hI pahile ke yugoM meM panarvivAha kA vidhAna siddha huaa| tathA isI zloka ke uttarArdha se yaha bhI siddha hotA hai ki koI prAcArya kisI kisI deza ke liye kalikAla meM bhI punarvivAha cAhate haiM / isaliye yaha zloka vidhavAvivAha kA samarthaka hai| bhogapatnI Adi kI bAtoM kA kharADana kiyA jA cukA hai| zrIlAlajI ne jo 172 ve prAdi zloko kA artha kiyA hai vaha bilakula bebuniyAda tathA unakI hI pArTI ke paMDita pannAlAla jI sonI ke bhI viruddha hai| ina ilAkoM meM rajasvalA hone kI bAta to eka baccA bhI na khegaa| ___ AkSepa (kha )-manusmRti meM bhI vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha hai| samAdhAna-AkSepaka yaha bAta to mAnate hI haiM ki hindu zAstroM meM paraspara vigaMdhI kathana bahuta hai| isaliye vahAM vidhavAvivAha aura niyoga kA eka jagaha joradAra samarthana

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( 203 / pAyA jAtA hai to dUsarI jagaha brahmacarya kI mahattA ke liye donoM kA niSedha bhI pAyA jAtA hai| agara paristhiti kI dRSTi se vicAra kiyA jAya to ina sabakA samanvaya ho jAtA hai| khaira, manusmRti tathA anya smRtiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha yA strI punarvivAha ke kAphI pramANa pAye jAte haiN| unameM se kucha ye haiM yA patyA vA parityaktA vidhavA vA mbyecchyaa| utpAdayetpunarbhUtvA sa paunarbhava ucyate // manummati:-175 // mA cedakSatayAniH syAd gatapratyAgatApi vaa| ponarbhavana bhI sA puna: saMskAramahati // 6-176 // pati ke dvArA choDI gaI yA vidhavA, apanI icchA se dUsare kI bhAryA ho jAya aura jo putra paidA kare vaha paunarbhava kahalA. ygaa| yadi vaha strI prakSanayAni ho aura dUsare pati ke sAtha vivAha kare to usakA punarvivAha saMskAra hogA / ( paunarbhavana bhI punarvivAhAkhyaM saMskAramahati) athavA apane kaumAra pati ko chor3akara dUsare pati ke sAtha calI jAya aura phira loTakara usI kaumAra pati ke sAtha zrAjAya to unakA punarvivAha saMskAra hogA / ( yadvA kaumAraM patimutsRjyAnyamAzritya punastameva pratyAgatA bhavati tadA tena komAreNa bha punarvivAhA khyaM sNskaarmrhti)| yahAM punarvivAha ko saMskAra kahA hai isaliye yaha siddha hai ki vaha vyabhicAra rUpa yA niMdyanIya nahIM hai| hinduzAstroM ke anusAra kalikAla meM pAgazagmmRti mukhya hai| 'kalo pArAzarAH smRtAH' / pArAzagmmRti meM to punarvivAha bilakula spaSTa hai naTe mRte prabajite kI ca patita ptii| paMcavApatsu nArINAM patiranyA vidhIyate / 4-30 //

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/ 204) pani ke kho jAna para, mara jAna, saMnyAmI hojAne, napuM. maka hone nayA pani hAjAne para striyoM kA dumaga pati kara lene kA vidhAna hai| pati zabda kA pato' rUpa nahI honA-yaha bahAnA nikAla kara zrAlAlajI tathA anya loga 'apano' zabda nikA lane hai aura apani kA artha karate haiM-jimakI sirpha magAI ttuho| parantu yaha kAga bhrama hai / kyoMki isa zloka ko bnaath gmnaan n ginyaaniH k mn maa udhRta kiyA hai| dekhiye dharmaparIkSA - panyo pravatine kA prana patile mRt| paMcambApatsu nAgaraNa paniranyA vidhIyate // 11-12 // imarI bAta yaha hai ki agara yahA~ 'apano' nikalanA honA nA 'pranigyA vidhAyana paMmA pATha rakhanA paDanA jA ki yahA~ nahI hai bhora na chandAmaha ke kAraNa yahA~ prakAra nikAlA jA sktaa| nIsarI bAta yaha hai ki mapani zabda kA artha jisakI sirpha sagAI huI ho aimA pani' nahIM honaa| apani zabda ke rama artha ke liya kAI namanA peza karanA cAhiye / cautho bAta yaha hai ki pati zanda ke rUpa hari magakha bhI calana hai| kyoki pati kA artha jahA~ sAdhAraNata: svAmI mAlika yaha hotA hai vahA~ mamAma meM hI ghi saMhA hotI hai isaliye vahA~ 'patI' aisA rUpa nahIM bana sakatA / parantu jahA~ pati zabda kA lAkSaNika artha pani arthAt 'vivAhita puruSa' artha liyA jAya vahA~ asamAsa meM moghi saMDA ho jAtI hai jisasa panI yaha rUpa bhI banatA hai| pati samAsa eva' isa satra kI tatvabodhinI TIkA meM khulAsA taura para yaha bAna likha dI gaI hai aura usameM pArAzarasmRti kA "pani paloM"

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( 205 ) vAlA zloka bhI uddhRta kiyA gayA hai jisase bhI mAlUma hotA hai ki yahA~ 'apano' nahI hai 'pato' hai| "atha kathaM mItAyAH panaya namaH" ini, 'naTe mRne pravajitaM loke ca patita pto| paMcambApansu nAgaNAM panignyA vidhIyate' iti pArAza. gazca / atrAhuH patiriti prAkhyAtaH patiH natkagani tadAra iti Nici TilApa anna haH ityauNAdikapratyaya paraniTi ini milApa ca niSpanno'yaM paniH "pani samAnaH eva ityatra na gRhyana, laakssnniktvaaditi"| pani zabda ke ghimaMzika rUpoM ke mora bhI namana milane hai nayA vedika saMskRta meM aise prayoga bahulatA se pAye jAne hai / pahile hama yajurveda ke udAharaNa dete haiM namo dAyAtanAyine kSa vAraNA panaya namaH, namaH sUnAyA. hanye vanAnAM pataye namaH / 16 / 18 / isI taraha kakSANAM pataye namaH' 'pattInAM pataye namaH' zrAdi bahuta meM prayoga pAye jAne haiN| svayaM pAgazara na-jinake zloka para yaha vivAda cala rahA hai--anyatra bhI 'pano' prayoga kiyA hai| yathA jAreNa janayadgarbha mRtaM tyakta gane pno| tAM tyajedapare rASTra panitAM pApakAriNIm // 10-31 / / arthAt pani ke mara jAne para yA pani meM chor3o jAne para jo strI vyabhicAra se garbha dhAraNa kare usa pApinI ko deza meM nikAla denA cAhiye / arthAt pArAzarajI yaha nahIM cAhate ki koI strI vyabhicAra kare / vidhavA yA panihIna strI kA naM. vya hai ki vaha punarvivAha karale yA brahmacarya me rahe, parantu vya. bhicAra kabhI na kare / jo striyA~ Upara senA vidhavAvivAhako yA usake pracArakoM ko gAliyA~ detI hai aura bhItara hI bhItara vyabhicAra karatI haiM ve sacamuca mahApApinI haiN|

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hamakoSa meM bhI patA zabda kA prapoga huA hai / 'dhadha dhRta nare patto / yahA~ para dhava aura pati zabda kA paryAyavAcI kahA hai aura pati zabdakA patI rUpa likhA hai| ___yAsa smRti meM bhI panaya prayoga hai / 'dAsIvAdiSTa. kAryeSa bhAryA bhartaH sadA bhavet / tatAMnasAdhanaM kRtvA panaye vinivaMdya tat // 2-27 // ___ yahA~ patike prati bhAryAka kartavya batalAye haiM / yahA~ bhI sagAI vAlA pati artha nahIM kiyA jA sakatA hai| zazinIva himAAnAM gharmAnAnAM gvAviva / manA na ramate strINAM jaga jINendriye ptii|| mitralAbha-hitopadeza / isa zloka ke artha meM apanI nikAlane kI ceTA karake zrIlAlajI ne dhokhA dene kI ceNA kI hai / itanA hI nahIM yahA~ para bhI apanI Adata ke anumAra ulaTA cora kotavAla ko DaoNTa kI kahAvata cAratArtha kI hai| Apa kahate haiM ki 'yahA~ bhI sagAI vAle (apati ) bar3he dUlhe kI bAta hai| tAjjuba yaha hai ki yahIM para yaha bAta bhI kahate jAte haiM ki vivAha to 12-16 kI umra meM huA hogA / jaba vivAha ke samaya vara kI umra prApa 16 batalAte haiM taba kyA vaha janma bhara tI pani banA rahA aura bur3hApe meM bhapati bana gayA ? yalihArI hai isa kalAnA kI! khaira, jaga yaha bhI dekhiye ki zloka kisa prakaraNa kA hai| kauzAmbI meM candanadAsa seTha rahatA thaa| usane bur3hApe meM dhana ke balase lIlAvatI nAma kI eka vaNikaputrI se zAdI karalI, parantu lIlAvatI ko usa bUr3he se santoSa na huaa| isa. liye vaha vyabhicAriNI hokara gupta pApa karane lagI / isI mauke para yaha zloka kahA gayA hai jisameM 'patI' rUpa kA prayoga

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( 207) hai / prazna pAThaka ho soceM ki kyA vaha buDDA sagAI vAlA dUlhA thA ? zrIlAlajI dhonA to dete hI hai parantu usake bhItara kucha maryAdA rahe to acchA hai| khaira, ye saba pramAlA itane jyAdA z2abardasta haiM ki 'patI' rUpa meM kisI ko sandeha nahIM raha sktaa| isaliye pArAzara ne vidhavAvivAha kA vidhAna kiyA hai, yaha spaSTa hai / isake atirikta manusmRti ke pramANa diya gaye hai| AvazyakatA hone para aura bhI pramANa diye jA sakate haiN| jaina vidvAna yaha kaha sakate haiM ki hama hindU mmRtiyA~ nahIM mAnate parantu unheM yaha kamI bhUlakara bhI na kahanA cAhiye ki unameM vidhavAvivAhakA vidhAna nahIM hai / hinda pugaNa aura hindu smRtiyA~ vidhavA. vivAha kI pUrNa samarthaka hai| AkSepa ( ga )nAnyammin vidhavA nArI niyoktavyA dvijAtibhiH / anyasmin hi niya jAnA dharma hanyuH sanAtanaH // nAMdvAhikapa mantreSa niyogaH kIrtyate kvacit / na vivAhavidhAyukta vidhavAvadanaM punaH / / manusmRtika ye donoM zloka vidhavAvivAha viruddha hai| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-hama kaha cuke hai paristhiti ke anusAra aneka taraha kI mAjhA eka hI smRtimeM pAI jAtI haiM / isaliye agara eka pustaka meM eka viSaya meM vidhi niSedha hai to usakA samanvaya karane ke liye apekSA dadanA cAhiye / anyathA jisa manusmRti meM strI punarvivAha kI mAtrA hai aura use saMskAra kahA hai usI meM usakA virodha kesA? svRtiyoM meM samammaya aura mukhyagauNatAkA bar3A mUlya hai| khaira, parantu ina zlokoM ko to zrIlAlajIne ThIka ThIka nahIM samajhA hai anyathA ye znAMka

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/ 20 ) kabhI uddhRta na kiye jAne / pAThaka inake artha para vicAra kareM, pUrvApara sambandha dekheM aura niyoga tathA vidhavAvivAha ke bheda ko smjhe| ye zloka niyogaprakaraNa ke haiN| niyoga meM santAnotpatti ke liye sirpha eka bAra sabhAga karane kI prAkSA hai| niyAMga ke samaya donoM meM sammAMga kriyA bilakula nirtita hokara karanA paDatI hai tathA kisI bhI taraha kI rasikatA se dUra rahanA par3atA hai / dekhiye jyeSThI yavIyasI mAryo yavImAnvAgrajastriyam / patito bhavato gatyA niyuktAvapyanApadi // 4-5%!! agara vidhavA ka santAna ho (anApadi-santAnAmAva binA ) tA upakA jyeSTha yA devara niyAga kare to patita hA jAte haiN| devagAhA sapiMDAdvA striyA smynyuktyaa| prajepsitAdhigantavyA mannAnasya pagniye // 6-56 // santAna ke nAza hAjAne para gurujanoM kI prAzAma vidhi. pUrvaka devara se yA aura sapiMDa se / kuTumbI ma) icchita manAna paidA karanA caahiye| (zrAvazyakatA hone para eka meM adhika santAna paidA kI jAtI hai / hindu purANoM ke anumAra dhRtarASTra pAMDu aura vidura niyAMgaja santAna he ) / vidhamAyAM niyuktamtu ghRtAto pAgyatA nizi / ekamumpAdayetputraM na dvitIyaM kathacana // 6-60 // vidhavA meM (AvazyakatA hone para savAmeM bhI) samAna kaliya niyakta puruSa, sAre zarIra meM ghI kA lepa kare mauna rakve aura eka hI putra paidA kre| vidhavAyAM niyogArthe nivRtta nu yathAvidhi / guruvaca snuSAvazca vataiyAtAM paramparam // 6-62 //

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( 206 ) niyoga kArya pUrA ho jAne para phira bhaujAI yA bahU ke samAna pavitra sambandha rakkhe | T niyatau tau vidhi hitvA varteyAtAM tu kAmataH / tAvubhau patitau syAtAM snuSAgagurutalpagau // 6- 63 // yadi niyoga ke samaya kAmavAsanA se vaha sambhoga kare to use bhaujAI yA bhrAtRbadhU ke sAtha sambhoga karane kA pApa lagatA hai, vaha patita ho jAtA hai / pAThaka dekheM ki yaha niyoga kitanA kaThina hai / sAdhAraNa manuSya isa vidhikA pAlana nahIM kara sakate / isaliye zrAge calakara manusmRti meM isa niyogakA niSedha bhI kiyA gayA hai| vehI niSedhaparaka zloka paMDita loga udhRta karate haiM aura vidhiparaka zlokoM ko sAfa chor3a jAte haiM / hindU zAstra na to niyogake virodhI haiM, na vidhavAvivAha ke / unameM sirpha niyoga kA niSedha, kalikAla ke liye kiyA hai kyoMki kaliyuga meM niyoga ke yogya puruSoM kA milanA durlabha hai / yahI bAta TIkAkArane kahI hai-" zrayaM na svoktaniyAMganiSedhaH kalikAlaviSayaH" / vRhaspati ne tIna ilokoM meM to aura bhI adhika khulAsA kara diyA hai / isaliye hinduzAstroMsa vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha karanA sarvathA bhUla hai / AkSepa (gha ) - vANikyane punarvivAha kI AjJA nahIM dI parantu pati ke pAsa jAne kI AjJA dI hai / bila lAbha kA artha chor3akara dUsarA pati karane kA artha to isa andherI darabAra ko ho sUjhA / samAdhAna-zrIlAlajI jAna bUjhakara bAta ko chipAte haiM anyathA "yathAdastamAdAya pramuJceyuH" Adi vAkyoM se pUrvavivAha sambandha ke TUTa jAnekA sAfa vidhAna hai| qhaira, pahilI bAta to yaha hai ki una vAkyoMkA anuvAda chupI huI pustaka meM

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se liyA gayA hai| hamAre viSaya meM artha badalane kI kukalpanA Apa bhale hI kareM, parantu anuvAdaka ke viSaya meM isa kalpanA kI koI jarUrata nahIM hai / isake anuvAdaka vedaratna vidyAbhA. kara, nyAyatIrtha, sAMkhyatIrtha aura vedAnta vizArada haiN| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki 'vila lAbhe dhAtu kA prayoga vivAha artha meM hotA hai / manummRti meM vindena devaraH kA paryAya vAcya bhartuH modara bhrAtA pariNayet kiyA hai / imI taraha zloka 6-60 meM 'vindata sadRzaM pati' kA 'varaM svayaM vRNona paryAya mAkya diyA hai| khuda koTilIya arthazAstra meM vidla dhAtu kA prayoga varaNa ke artha meM humA hai / jaise-tataH putrArthI dvitIyo vindata arthAt pahilI strI se agara 12 varSa taka putra paidA na ho tA putrArthI dUsarI zAdI karale / yahA~ vindena kA artha zAdI kara hI hai| isI taraha aura bhI bahuta se prayoga haiM / pahile hamane thor3e se pramANa diye the, aba hama z2arA adhika deMge / una meM aise pramANa bhI hoMge jinameM vidla kA artha pAsa jAnA na ho skegaa| ___ "mRte bhattaridharmakAmAtadAnImevAsthApyAbharaNaM zulka zeSaM ca labheta // 25 // lAvA vA vindamAnA savRddhikama mayaM dApyena // 26 // arthAt pati ke marane para brahmacarya se rahane vAlI khatrI, apanA lo dhana aura pravaziSTa zulka (vivAha ke samaya prApta dhana ) le le / agara isa dhana ko prApta kara vaha ( vidhavA ) vivAha kare to usase jyAja sahita vApisa le liyA jaay| pAThaka vicAra ki yahA~ "vindamAnA" kA artha vivAha karane vAlI hai na ki pati ke pAsa jAne vAlI kyoMki pati to mara cukA hai| aura bhI dekhiye 'kuTumbakAmAtuzvasurapatidataM nivezakAle khabheta // 27 //

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( 211) nivezakAlaM hi dIrghapravAse vyAkhyAmyAyaH // 28 // yadi vidhavA dusaga ghara basAnA cAhe arthAt punarvivAha karanA cAhe to zvasura aura pati dvArA dI huI sampatti ko vaha vivAha samaya meM hI pA sakatI hai| vivAha kA samaya hama dIrgha pravAsa ke praka. raNa meM kheNge| imI dIrghapravAsa prakaraNa ke vAkya hamane prathama lekha meM uddhRta kiye the| isase mAlUma honA hai ki vahA~ punarvivAha kA hI z2ikara hai na ki pati ke pAsa jAne kaa| __ "zvasura prAtilomyena vA niviSTA zvasura patidattaM joyata" // 26 // zvasurako icchAke viruddha vivAha karane vAlI yadhU se, zvasura aura pati se diyA gayA dhana le liyA jAya / isase mAlUma hotA hai ki mahAgajA candragupta ke rAjya meM zvasura apanI vidhavA vadhU kA punarvivAha kara detA thA / agara zvasura usakA punarvivAha nahIM karatA thA to vaha badhU hI apanA strIdhana chor3akara punarvivAha kara letI thii| __ zAnihastAdabhimRTAyA jJAtayA yathAgRhItaM dadhaH // 30 // nyAyopagatAyAHpratipattA strIdhanaM gopAyet // 31 // agara usake pIhara vAle ( pitA mAnA Adi ) usake punarvivAha kA prabandha kareM to ve usake liye hue dhana ko de de, kyoMki nyAyapUrvaka rakSArtha prApta huI strI kI rakSA karane vAlA puruSa usake dhana kI bho rakSA kre| patidAyaM vindamAnA jIyeta // 32 // dharmakAmAbhuJjIta // 33 // dUsare pati kI kAmanA vAlI strI ratikA hissA nahIM pA sakatI aura brahmacarya se rahane vAlI pAsakatI hai| putravatI vindamAnAstrIdhanaM jIyeta // 34 // tattu strIdhanaM putrA harepuH // 35 // putrabharaNArtha vA vindamAnA putrArtha sphAtI kuryAt ||36|kaaii strI putra ghAlI hokarakebhI agara punarvivAha

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( 212 ) kare to vaha strI dhana nahIM pAsakatI / usakA strI dhana usake putra le leN| agara putroMke bharaNa poSaNa ke liye hI vaha punavivAha kare to vaha apanI sampatti putroMke nAma likha de | hama nahIM samajhate ki ina prakaraNoM meM koI punarvivAhakA vidhAna na dekhakara pati ke pAsa jAne kA vidhAna dekha sakegA / isa grantha meM paradeza meM gaye hue dIrghapravAsI pati ko to chor3a dene kA vidhAna hai, usake pAsa jAne kI to bAta dUsarI hai / nIcatvaM paradeza vA prasthitAM rAjakilviSI / prANAbhihantA patitastyAjyaH klIyo'pitrA pati / nIca, dIrghapravAsI, rAjadvAhI, ghAtaka, patita aura napuM saka patiko strI chor3a sakatI hai| hameM kheda ke sAtha kahanA par3atA hai ki zrIlAlajI yA unake sAthI kisI bhI viSaya kA na to gaharA adhyayana karate haiM na pUrvApara sambandha dekhate haiM aura manamAnA bilakula bebuniyAda likha mArate haiN| qhaira, aba hama svapravAsa aura dIrghapravAsa ke uddharaNa dete haiM jinake kucha aMza pahile lekha meM diye jA cuke haiN| 'svapravAsinAM zudra vaizya kSatriya brAhmaNAnAM bhAryAH saMva tsagetara kAlamAkAMkSeranaprajAtA, saMvatsarAdhikaM prajAtAH ||26|| prativihitAdviguNaM kAlaM ||27|| zrapranivihitA. sukhAvasthA bibhRpuH paraM catvAri varSANyaSTau vAjJAtayaH / tanAM yathAdattamAdAya pramuceyuH // 26 // thor3e samaya ke liye bAhara jAne vAle zUdra vaizya kSatriya aura brAhmaNoM kI striyA~ agara putrahIna ho to eka varSa aura putravatI isase adhika samaya taka pratIkSA kreN| yadi pati AjIvikA kA prabandha kara gayA ho to isase dUne samaya taka pratIkSA kreN| jinakI AjIvikA kA prabandha nahIM hai, unake baMdhu bA~dhava cAra varSa yA bhATha varSa taka unakA bharaNa poSaNa kareM /

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( 213 ) isake bAda prathama vivAha ke samaya meM diyA huA dhana vApisa lekara dUsarI zAdI ke liye AjJA dedeM / pAThaka dekhe ki yahA~ 'pramuJceyuH' kriyA hai / isakA artha 'chor3a deM' aisA hotA hai| pati ke pAsa bheja deM aisA artha nahIM hotA | pati ke pAsa se pitA ke pAsa, yA pitA ke pAsa se pati ke pAsa Ane jAne meM muJca yA chor3a dene kA vyavahAra nahIM hotA | isaliye sambandha viccheda ke liye hI isa zabda kA vyavahAra huA hai / brAhmaNamadhIyAnaM daza varSANyaprajAtA, dvAdaza prajAtA rAjapuruSamAyuH kSayAdAkAGkSata ||30|| savarNatazca prajAtA nApa vAdaM labheta / / 31 / / par3hane ke liye videza gaye brAhmaNa kI santAnahIna strI dazavarSa taka, saMtAna vAlI 12 varSa taka aura rAjakAryapravAsI kI jIvanaparyanta pratIkSA kare / hA~, agara kisI samAna varNa se vaha garbhavatI hojAya to vaha nindanIya nahIM hai / yahA~ para pratIkSA karane ke bAda pati ke pAsa jAne kI Yi puruSa bAta nahIM laga sakatI / jaba aisI hAlata meM parapuruSa se garbhavatI hojAne kI bAta bhI nindanIya nahIM hai taba unake punarvivAha kI bAta kA to kahanA hI kyA hai| kuTumbaDilAMpe va sukhAvasthaivimuktA yatheSTa vindeta jIvitArtham / / 32 / / kuTumbakI sampatti namra hone para yA unake dvArA chor3e jAne para jIvana nirvAha ke liye icchAnusAra vivAha kare / zrIlAlajI vindeta kA artha karate haiM pati ke pAsa jAye / hama siddhakara cuke haiM ki vindeta kA artha vivAha kareM' hai / sAtha hI isa grantha kA sArA prakaraNa hI strI punarvivAha kA hai yaha bAta pahile uddharaNoM se bhI siddha hai / 'graMthe" zabda se bhI

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( 214 ) vivAha karane kI bAta siddha hotI haiM / icchAnusAra pati ke pAsa jAve - yahA~ icchAnusAra zabda kA kucha prayojana hI nahIM mAlUma honA, jaba ki, icchAnusAra vivAha kare - isa vAkya meM icchAnusAra zabda zrAvazyaka mAlUma hotA hai 1 ApadgatAvAdharmavivAhaskumArI parigRhInAra manAkhyAya prApitaM zrayamANaM satatIrthA nyAkAGkSata ||33|| saMvatsaraM zrUyamANamAkhyAye // 34 // prASitamazrUyamANaM paJcatIrthAnyA kakSeta // 35 // daza zramayANam || 36 || eka dezadatta zulkaM trINItIrthAnyazrayamANam ||37|| zrUyamANam saptatIrthAnyakAGkSata ||38|| datta zulkaM paJcatIrthAnyazrUyamANam || 36 || daza zrUyamANam ||40|| tataH paraM dharmasthairvisRSTrA yatheSTam vindet ||41 || nirdhanatA se prApadmasta kumArI ( zrakSatayoni ) cilakA cAra dharmavivAhoM meM se koI vivAha huA aura usakA pati binA kahe paradeza calA gayA ho to vaha sAna mAsikadharma paryaMta pratIkSA kare | kahakara gayA ho to eka varSa taka | pravAsI pati kI qhabara na milane para pA~ca mAsikadharma taka | qhabara milane para daza mAsikadharma taka pratIkSA kare / vivAha ke samaya pratijJAta dhana kA eka bhAga hI jisane diyA ho aisA pati videza jAnepara agara usakI qhAbara na mile to tIna mAsikadharma taka aura qhabara milane para sAta mAsika dharma taka usakI pratIkSA kre| agara pratijJAta dhana sAga dediyA ho to qhabara na milane para tIna aura qhabara milane para sAna mAsikadharma taka pratIkSA kare / isake bAda dharmAdhikArI kI zrAjJA lekara icchAnusAra dUsarA vivAha kara le ( yahA~ bhI yatheSTa N zabda par3A huA hai | ) | sAtha hI dharmAdhikArI AjJA lene kI bAta kahI gaI hai| punarvivAha ke liye hI dharmAdhikArI kI AjJA kI z2arUrata hai na ki pati ke pAsa jAne ke liye| phira

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( 215 ) jisa pati kI khabara hI nahIM milI hai usake pAsa vaha kaise jA sakatI hai ? dIrghapravAsinaH pravajitasya pretasya vA bhAryAmaptatIrthAnyAkAMkSeta // 43 // saMvatsaraM prajAtA / / 44 / / tataH patisodayaM gacchet / / 45 / / bahuSa pratyAsatraM dhArmikaM bharma samarthaM kaniSThama. bhAyaM vA / tadabhAve'pyasodayaM sapiNDaM kulyaM vAsatram / / 47 / / eteSAM eSa patra kramaH / / 4 / / dIrghapravAsI, saMnyAso yA mara gayA ho to usakI strI sapta mAsikadharma taka ummako pratIkSA kre| agara santAna vAlI ho to eka varSa taka pratIkSA kare, isake bAda pati ke bhAI ke sAtha zAdI karale / jo bhAI patikA naz2adIkI ho, dhAmi kahA, pAlana poSaNa kara make aura patnI rahina ho| agara sagA bhAI na ho to pati ke vaMza kA ho yA gotra kA ho|| yahA~ to zrIlAla jI pati ke pAsa jAne kI bAta na kaheMge? kyoMki pati to saMnyAsI ho gayA hai yA mara gayA hai| phira pati ke bhAI ke pAsa jAne kI AzA kyoM hai? apane bhAI yA pitA yA zvasura ke pAsa jAne ko kyoM nahIM ? phira pati kA bhAI bhI kaimA? jisake patnI na ho| kyA aba bhI zrIlAla jI yahA~ vivAha kI bAta na smjheNge| prAkSepa ( )-prAcArya somadevajI ne jina smRtikAge ke viSaya meM likhA hai vaha saba carcA sagAI bAda kI hai| vaiSNavoM ke kisI pranya meM bhI vidhavAvivAha kI prAkSA nahIM hai| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-"vikRtapatyUDhApi punarvivAhamahaMtIti smR. nikArA" vikRtapati ke sAtha vivAhI gaI nI bhI punarvivAha kara sakatI hai| smRtikAroM ke isa bakavya meM sagAI kI hI dhuna lagAye rahane vAle zrIlAla jI kA sAhasa dhanya hai|

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( 216 ) 'tAvadvivAhA naivasyAdyAyavatsaptapadI bhavet' taba taka vivAha nahIM hotA jaba taka saptapado na ho jAya / isaliye jisa strI ko vivAhI gaI kahA hai vaha abhI taka vAgdattA hI banI huI hai, aisI bAta zrIlAla jI hI kaha sakate haiN| phira punarvivAha zabda bhI par3A huA hai / yaha punarvivAha zabda hI itanA spaSTa hai ki vizeSa kahane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| khaira, zrIlAla jI isa vAkya kA jo cAhe artha kareM parantu unane yaha bAta mAnatA hai ki somadeva jI ko ima vAkya meM kucha Apatti nahIM hai| anyathA unheM isa vAkya ke uddhata karane kI kyA z2arUrata thI, jaba ki kharADana nahIM karanA thaa| vaiSNavoM ke pranthoM meM punavivAha kI kaisI AjJA hai yaha bAta hama isI lekha meM vistAra se siddha kara cuke haiN| prazna aTrAIsavA~ isa prazna meM yaha pUchA gayA thA ki agara kisI abodha kanyA ke sAtha koI balAtkAra kare to phira usakA vivAha karanA cAhiye yA nhiiN| hamane uttara meM kahA thA ki aisI hAlata meM kanyA niraparAdha hai| isaliye vidhavA-vivAha ke virodhI bhI aisI kanyA kA vivAha karane meM sahamata hoge; kyoMki usakA vivAha punarvivAha nahIM hai, Adi / zrIlAla jI kA kahanA hai ki 'usI puruSa ke sAtha usakA vivAha karanA cAhiye yA vaha brahmacAriNo rahe, tIsarA mArga nahIM a~catA / ' jaba taka midhyAtva kA udaya hai taba taka zrIlAlajI ko kucha jaica bhI nahIM sktaa| parantu zrIlAlajI, na a~cane kA kAraNa kucha bhI nahIM batalA sake haiM isaliye unakA yaha baktavya duga. graha ke sivAya aura kucha nahIM hai| prAkSepa ( ka )-aisI kanyA kA vivAha balAtkAra karane

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( 217 ) vAle puruSa ke sAtha hI karanA cAhiye / pANDu aura kuntI ke cAritra se isa prazna para prakAza par3atA hai| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-pANDu aura kuntI kA sambandha balAtkAra nahIM thA jisase hama pANDu ko nIca aura rAkSasI prakRti kA manuSya kaha sake / aura aisI hAlata meM pANDu apAtra nahIM kahA jA sakatA / balAtkAra to zaitAniyata kA ugra aura bIbhatsarUpa hai| balAtkAra sirpha kuzIla hI nahIM hai, kintu vaha ghora gakSasI hiMsA bhI hai / isaliye balAtkAra ke udA. haraNa meM pANDu kuntI kA nAma lenA bhUla hai| hama pUchate haiM ki balAtkAra, vivAha hai yA nahIM ? yadi vivAha hai to phira vivAha karane kI AvazyakatA kyA hai ? agara vivAha nahIM hai to vaha kanyA avivAhitA kahalAI: isaliye usakA vivAha honA caahiye| mAkSepa (kha)-bilAva agara dUdha ko jUThA karade to vaha apeya ho jAtA hai, yadyapi isameM dUdha kA aparAdha nahI hai| isI prakAra balAtkAra se dUSita kanyA bhI samajhanA cAhiye / ( vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-isa dRSTAMta meM aneka aisI viSamatAe~ hai jo dRddha ke samAna kanyA ko tyAjya siddha nahIM krtiiN| pahilI to yaha hai ki dUdha jar3a hai / vaha agara nAlI meM pheMka diyA jAya to dUdha ko kucha duHkha na hogaa| isaliye hama dUdha ke niraparAdha hone para bhI usakI tarapha se lAparvAha raha sakate haiN| parantu kanyA meM sukha duHkha hai| usakI parvAha karanA samAja kA kartavya hai| isaliye kanyA ke niraparAdha hone para hama aisA koI vidhAna nahIM banA sakate, jisase usako duHkha yA usakA apamAna ho| dUsarI viSamatA bhojya bhojaka kI hai| strI ko hama

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( 218 ) bhojya kaheM aura puruSa ko bhojaka, yaha bAta sarvathA anucina hai / kyoMki jisa prakAra strI, puruSa ke liye bhojya hai usI prakAra puruSa, strI ke liye bhojya hai / isIliye strI jUThI ho aura puruSa jUThA na ho, yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA / jaba puruSa jUThA hAkara ke bhI strI ke liye bhojya rahatA hai to strI bhI kyoM na rahegI ? tIsarI bAta yaha hai ki strI puruSa ke sambandha ko zrakSepaka ne gAMga mAna liyA hai jabaki vaha upabhoga hai / bhAMga kA viSaya eka bAra ho mAMgA jAtA hai, isaliye usameM jUThApana zrAjAtA hai: parantu upabhoga anekavAra bhAMgA jAtA hai / sabhya AdamI apanA hI jUThA bhojana dUsare dina nahIM khAnA jabaki eka hI vastra ko anekavAra kAma meM lAtA rahatA hai / agara strI ko bhojya mAnA jAya to jisa strI ko Aja mAMgA gayA usako phira kabhI na bhAganA cAhiye / taba no hara eka puruSako mahIne meM cAra cAra chaH chaH striyoM kI AvazyakatA par3egI anyathA unheM jUThI strI se hI kAma calAnA par3egA / strI aura puruSa ke sambandhameM to donoMhI sukhAnubhava karane haiM, isalie kauna kisakA jUThA hai yaha nahIM kahA jA sakatA / phira bhI jo loga striyoM meM jUThepana kA vyavahAra karate haiM ve mAtA ko bhI jUThA kaheMge, kyoMki eka bacce ne eka dina jisa mAtA kA dUdha pIliyA vaha dUsare dina ke liye jUThI ho gaI / aura dUsare bacco ke liye aura bhI adhika jUThI ho gaI / itanA hI nahIM isa dRSTi se pRthvI, jala, vAyu zrAdi jUThe kahalAya~ge, sArA saMsAra ucchiSTamaya ho jAyagA, kyoMki kisI bhI indriya kA viSaya hone se jaba padArtha ucchiSTa mAnA jAyagA to sparza karane se pRthvI, jala aura vAyu jUThI kahalAyegI aura A~khoM se dekha lene para sArA saMsAra jUThA kahalAyagA / yadi

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( 216) rasanA indriya ke viSaya meM hI ucchiSTa anucchiSTa kA vyavahAra kiyA jAya to kanyAko hama ucchiSTa nahIM kaha sakate, kyoMki vaha cabAne khAne kI vastu nahIM hai, jisase vaha jUThe dudhake samAna samajhI jaay| untIsavA~ prazna / "traivarNikAcAra se talAka ke rivAja kA samarthana hotA hai| yaha bAta hamane saMkSepa meM siddha kI thii| parantu ye donoM AkSepaka kahate haiM ki usameM talAka kI bAta nahIM hai| bhale hI talAka yA (Divorce ) Adi pracalita bhASAoM ke zabda usa grantha meM na ho parantu vaivAhika sambandha ke tyAga kA vidhAna avazya hai aura isI ko talAka kahate haiM aprajAM dazame varSe strI prajAM dvAdaze tyajet / mRtaprajAM paMcadaze sadyamtvapriyavAdinIm // 11-167 // vyAdhitA strIprajA vandhyA unmattA vigatAtaMyA / / aduSTA labhate tyAgaM northatA na tu dharmataH // 11-168 // agara dasa varSa taka koI saMtAna na ho to dasaveM varSameM, agara kanyAe~ hI paidA hotI ho to bArahaveM varSameM. agara saMtAna jIvita na rahatI ho to 15ve varSa meM strI ko chor3a denA cAhiya aura kaThora bhASiNI ho tA turanta chor3a denA cAhiye / / 167 / / gagiNI, jisake kevala kanyAe~ hI paidA hotI ho, adhyA, pAgala, jo rajasvalA na hotI ho aisI strI agara duSTa na ho to usake sAtha saMbhoga kA hI tyAga karanA cAhie; bAkI patnItva kA vyavahAra rakhanA cAhie / / 168 / / isase mAlUma hotA hai ki 167 veM zloka meM jo tyAga banalAyA hai usameM strI kA pattItva sambandha bhI alaga kara diyA gayA hai| yaha talAka nahIM to kyA hai ?

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( 220) zrIlAla jI kahate haiM ki dakSiNa meM talAka kA rivAja hI nahIM hai / saubhAgya se dakSiNaprAnta Aja bhI banA huA hai / koI bhI prAdamI vahA~ jAkara dekha sakatA hai ki caturtha paMcama saMtavAla prAdi digambara jainiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha aura talAka kA rivAja Amataura para cAlU hai yA nhiiN| balki vahA~ para vidhura kumAriyoM ke sAtha zAdI nahIM karate / isaliye kumA. giyoM ke sAtha pahile kisI anya puruSa kI zAdI karadI jAtI hai isake bAda talAka dilAyA jAtA hai phira usa vidhA ke mAtha usa talAka vAlI strI kI zAdI honI hai| isake atirikta anya striyA~ bhI talAka detI haiM, punarvivAha karatI haiN| dakSiNaprAnta meM talAka kA prabhAva batalA kara zrIlAla jI yA no kRpamarADakatA kA paricaya de rahe haiM yA samAja ko dhokhA de rahe haiN| tIsavA~ prazna / purANoM meM vidhavA-vivAha kA ullekha kyoM nahIM milanA, isake kAraNoMkA sapramANa digdarzana kiyA thaa| donoMhI pAle. pako se yahAM para bhI kucha khaNDana nahIM bana sakA hai| parantu hama praznameM vidyAnanda jIne to sirpha apanI anicchAhI jAhira kI hai, parantu paNDita zrIlAlajI ne aNDa barADa likha mAga hai| balki dhRSTatAkA bhI pUrNa paricaya diyaa| jaina jagat mAdi patroM kA kAlA muMha karane kA upadeza diyA hai / khaira, yahA~ hama saMkSepa meM apanA vaktavya dekara AkSepokA uttara deNge| a-purANoM meM vidhavA-vivAha kA ullekha nahIM hai aura vidhura vivAha kA ullekha nahIM hai| parantu yaha nahIM kahA jAsakatA ki pahile z2amAne meM vidhura vivAha nahIM hote the| na yaha kahA jAsakatA hai ki vidhavAvivAha nahIM hote the|

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( 221 ) pA-Ajakala bhI prathama vivAha ke samaya hI vizeSa samAroha kiyA jAtA hai| dvitIya vivAha ke samaya vizeSa samA. gaha nahIM kiyA jaataa| isI taraha pahile z2amAne meM bhI strI puruSoM ke prathama vivAha ke samaya vizeSa samAroha hotA thA; dvitIyAdi vivAhoM ke samaya nahIM / rAmacandra Adi ke prathama vivAha kA jaisA ullekha milatA hai vaisA dvitIyAdi vivAhokA nahIM miltaa| isI taraha striyoM ke bhI prathama vivAhakA ullekha milatA hai dvitIya vivAhoM kA nhiiN| i-puruSoM ke dvitIyAdi vivAhoMkA jo mAdhAraNa ullekha milatA hai vaha una ke bahupatnItva kA mahatva batalAne ke lie hai| purAne z2amAne meM jo manuSya jitanA bar3A vaibhavazAlI honA thA vaha utanI hI adhika striyA~ rakhanA thaa| isIlie cakravartI ke 66 haz2Ara, arddhacakrIka 16000, balabhadra ke...tathA sAdhA. gNa gajAoMke saikar3oM striyA~ hotI thIM / striyA~ apanA punarvivAha to karatI thoM, parantu unakA eka samaya meM eka hI pati hotA thA; isaliye unake bahupatitva kA mahatva nahIM batalAyA jAsakatA thaa| taba unake dUsare vivAhakA ullekha kyoM hotA? I-prAjakala loga apanI lar3akiyoM kA vivAha jahA~ taka banatA hai kumAra ke sAtha karate haiM, vidhurake mAtha nahIM / khAsa. kara zrImAn loga no apanI lar3akI kA vivAha vidhuroke sAtha kadApi nahIM karate / parantu isa parase yaha nahIM kahA jAsakatA ki Aja vidhuravivAha nahIM hotA, yA vivAha karane vAle vidhura jAticyuta samajhe jAte haiM / isI prakAra pugane samaya meM loga yathAzakti kumAriyoM ke sAtha zAdI karate the aura zrImAn loga no vidhavAoM ke sAtha zAdI karanA hI nahIM cAhate the| parantu isase vidhura vivAha ke samAna vidhavAvivAha kA bhI niSedha nahIM ho sakatA / dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki striyoM ko vivAha ke

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( 222 ) bAda eka kuTumba chor3akara dUsare kuTumba meM jAnA par3atA hai / isaliye bhI zrImanta gharAno kI striyA~ punarvivAha nahIM karatI thIM, kyoMki aisI avasthAme unheM garIba gharameM jAkara rahanA par3atA thA / cU~ki zrImAn logoM ko to kumAriyA~ hI mila jAtI thI isaliye ve vidhavAoM se vivAha nahIM karate the / garIba gharAnoM meM hone vAle vaivAhika sambandhoM kA mahatva na hone se zAstroM meM unakA ullekha nahIM hai| u-prAyaH kumAriyA~ ho svayambara karatI thIM aura mva. yambara bar3e 2 vigrahoMka tathA mahatvapUrNa ghaTanAoM ke sthAna the| isalie zAstroM meM mvayambara kA z2ikara pAtA hai / vidhavAoM kA svayambara na hone se vidhavAvivAha kA z2ikara nahIM aataa| U-hindu purANoM meM draupadI ke pA~ca pati mAne gaye haiN| digambara jaina lekhakona draupadIka prakaraNameM isa bAta kA khaNDana kiyA hai| hindu zAstroM ke anusAra mandodarIkA bhI punarvivAha huA thA, parantu mandodarI ke prakaraNa meM usake punarvivAha kA kharADana nahIM kiyA gayA. isase mAlUma hotA hai ki digambara jaina lekhaka bahupatitva (eka sAtha bahuta pati rakhanA) kI prathA ke virodhI the, parantu vidhavAvivAha ke virodhI nahIM the| R-hamAre purANa jisa yuga ke bane haiM usa yuga meM bhArata meM satIprathA z2ora pakar3a rahI thI, vidhavAvivAhakI prathA lupta horahI thii| aisI avasthAmeM digambara jaina lena kone z2amAne kA rukha dekhakara vidhavAvivAha vAlI ghaTanAoko alaga kara diyA, parantu koI AdamI vidhavAvivAha ko jainadharma ke viruddha na samajhale, isaliye unane vidhavAvivAhakA virodha nahIM kiyaa| la-hindU purANoM se aura smRtiyoM se vaidika dharmAva. lambiyoM meM vidhavAvivAha kA rivAja siddha hai / gautama gaNadhara ne hindU purANoM kI bahutasI bAtoMkA khaNDana kiyA, parantu

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( 223 ) vidhavAvivAhakA khaNDana nahIM kiyaa| isase bhI vidhavAvivAha kI jainadharmAnukUlatA mAlUma hotI hai| e-prathamAnuyoga, purAya aura pApakA phala batalAne ke liye hai, isaliye usameM rItirivAjoM kA ullekha nahIM hotA hai| isaliye usameM aise kisI bhI vivAhakA ullekha nahIM hai jo asAdhAraNa puNya yA purAya phala kA dyotaka na ho / Upara hama kaha cuke haiM ki vidhavAvivAha meM aisI asAdhAraNatA na hone se usakA ullekha nahIM huaa| ai-aisI bahuna bAteM haiM jo jainadharma ke anukUla haiM, zAstrokta hai, parantu purANoM meM jinakA ullekha nahIM hai-jaise vivAha meM honevAlI saptapadI, vaidhavyadIkSA, dIkSAnvaya kriyAe~ prAdi / o-parastrIsevana Adi kA jisa prakAra nindA karane ke liye ullekha hai, usa taraha zAstra meM vidhavAvivAhakA khaNDana karane ke lie ullekha nahIM hai|| au-bhagavAna mahAvIra ke dvArA jitanA prathamAnuyoga kahA gayA thA utanA Ajakala upalabdha nahIM hai| sirpha moTI moTI ghaTanAe~ raha gaI hai isalie bhI vidhavAvivAha sarIkhI sAdhAraNa ghaTanAoM kA ullekha nahIM hai / uparyakta bAraha chedakoM meM mere vaktavya kA sArAMza bhAgayA hai aura prAdeSoM kA khaNDana bhI ho gayA hai / phira bhI kucha bAkI na raha jAya, isaliye AkSepakoMka niHsAra AkSepoMkA bhI samAdhAna kiyA jAtA hai / lekhanazailI kI anabhijJatA se zrolAlajI ne jo prAkSapa kiye haiM una para upekSA dRSTi rakkhI jaaygii| AkSepa ( ka )--damayantIne apane pati nalako hU~Dhane ke

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( 224 ) liye svayambara racadiyA to kyA hindu zAstroM meM punarvivAha siddha hogayA? [zrIlAla samAdhAna-damayantI punarvivAha cAhatI thI, yaha hama nahIM kahate; parantu usa samaya hinduoM meM usakA rivAja thA yaha bAna siddha hojAtI hai / damayantI ke svayambara kA nimantraNa pAkara kisIne isakA virodha nahIM kiyA-sirpha damayantI ke pati nala ko chor3akara aura kisI ko isameM Azcarya bhI na huaa| saba rAjA mahArAjA svayambara ke liye Aye / yadi vidhavA. vivAhakA rivAja na hotA to rAjA mahArAjA kyoM Ate ? prAkSepa (kha)-antagala meM cAhe dharma karma uTha jAya parantu sajAtIyavivAha naSTa nahIM huA karatA hai| zriIlAla samAdhAna-antarAlameM dharmakarma uTha jAne para bhI agara sajAtIya vivAha naSTa nahIM huA karatA to isase siddha ho jAtA hai ki sajAtIya vivAha se dharmakarma kA kucha sambandha nahIM hai| aisI hAlata meM sajAtIya vivAha kA kucha mahatva nahIM rhtaa| sajAtIya vivAha kA bandhana tA paurANika yuga meM kabhI rahA hI nhiiN| jAtiyA~ to sirpha vyApArika kSetra ke liye thiiN| bhagavAn RSabhadeva ke samaya se jAtiyA~ haiM aura unake patra samrAT bharatane 32000 vivAha mleccha kanyAoM ke sAtha kiye the| tIrthaGkaroM ne bhI mlecchoM ke sAtha vaivAhika sambandha kiye the / anuloma aura pratiloma donoM taraha ke udAharaNoMse jaina. pagaraNa bhare par3e haiN| vijAtIyavivAha aura mleccha kanyAmo se hone vAle vivAhake phalasvarUpa hone vAlI santAna mutigAmI huI hai isakabhI udAharaNa aura pramANa bahutase haiM / yahA~ vijA. tIya vivAha kA prakaraNa nahIM hai / vijAtIya vivAha kI carcA uThAkara zrIlAla jI dhUpa ke Darase bhaTTI meM kUda rahe haiM / anta.

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( 225 ) rAla meM vijAtIya vivAha rahe cAhe jAya parantu jaba usa samaya jainadharma kI pravRtti nahIM thI taba vaidikadharma ke anusAra vidhavAvivAha kA rivAja avazya thA aura poche ke jainI bhI unhIM kI santAna the| AkSepa (ga)-musalamAnoM meM bhI saiyyada kA saiyyada ke sAtha aura mugala kA mug2ala ke sAtha vivAha hotA hai| (zrIlAla) samAdhAna-vidhavA vivAha ke vigaMdha ke liye aise aise AkSepa karane vAle ke hoza havAsa durusta haiM isa bAta para muzkila se hI vizvAsa kiyA jA sakatA hai| saiyyada saiyyada se vivAha kare isameM vidhavAvivAha kA kharADana kyA ho gayA ? balki isase to yahI siddha huA ki jaisaM musalamAna loga (zrIlAla jI ke matAnusAra) sajAtIya vivAha karate huya bhI vidhavAvivAha karate hai to anyatra bhI sajAtIya vivAha hone para bhI vidhavAvivAha ho sakatA hai / isaliye antarAla meM sajAtIyavivAha ke bane rahane se vidhavAvivAha kA prabhAva siddha nahIM hotA / phira musalamAnA meM vijAtIyavivAha na hone kI bAta to dhRSTatA ke sAtha dhokhA dene kI bAta hai| jahA~gIra bAdazAha kI mA~ hindu aura bApa musalamAna thaa| musalamAnoM meM Adhe se adhika hindaraktamizrita haiN| Aja bhI musalamAna loga cAhe jisa jAti kI strI se zAdI kara AkSepa (gha)-vijAtIya vivAha se eka do santAna ke bAda vinAza ho jAtA hai / banaspatiyoM ke udAharaNa se yaha bAta siddha hai| samAdhAna-AkSepaka ko banaspati zAstra yA prANi zAstra kA z2arA adhyayana karanA cAhiye / prANizAstriyoM ne

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( 226 ) vijAtIya sambandhoM se kaisI vicitra jAtiyoM kA nirmANa kiyA hai aura unakI kaisI vaMzaparampaga cala rahI hai, isa bAta kA patA zrApa ko thor3e adhyayana meM hI lA jAtA / kisI mUrkha mAlI kI adhUrI bAta ke AdhAra para siddhAnta gar3ha lenA zrApa hI sarIkhe kRpamaMDUka kA kAma ho sakatA hai / khaira, mAna lIjiye ki vijAtIya samparka kI vaMza parampaga nahIM calatI, parantu manuSya meM tA vijAtIya vivAha kI vaMzaparampaga calatI hai / jahA~gIra hindu mA~ aura musalamAna bApa se paidA huA thaa| isake bAda ke bhI aneka bAdazAha isI taraha paidA hupa jinakI parampaga Aja taka hai| kaI zatAbdiyoM taka to vaha vaMza rAjya hI karatA rhaa| bAda meM 1857 ke svAtantryayuddha ke bAda mA usI vaMza ke bahuta sa manuSya garIbo kI hAlata meM guz2Ara karate the aura unameM bahuta se Aja bhI bane hue hai| yadi yaha siddhAnta mAna liyA jAya ki vijAtIyavivAha kI mantAna parampaga adhika nahIM calatI to isase vijAtIya vivAha kA niSedha nahI hogA kintu manuSyA meM hAna vAlA vijAtIya vivAha, vijAtIya nahIM hai arthAt manuSyamAtra eka jAni ke hai yahI bAta siddha hogI. kyoMki manuSyoM meM vijA. nIya sambandha se bhI vaza paramparA calatI rahatI hai| ___ AkSepa ( 3 )-kyA zreNika ke samaya meM rAmAyaNa zrAdi grantha bana gaye the ? samAdhAna-ye grantha bahuta prAcIna hai yaha bAta aitihAsika pramANoM siddha hai| sAtha hI apane padmapurANa meM bhI yaha likhA hai| dekhiye padmapurANa dvinIya parvazrUyaMte laukike granthe rAkSasAH rAvaNAdayaH // 230 //

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( 227 ) evaMvidhaM kila granthaM rAmAyaNamudAhRtaM // 237 / / azraddhayamidaM sarva viyuktampapattibhiH / / 248 // ye saba zreNika ke muMha se nikale hue vAkya haiN| rAmA. yaNa kA nAma taka pAyA hai / zreNika ne gamAyaNa ko anya bAtoM kI to nindA kI, parantu vidhavAvivAha ko kahIM bhI nindA na kI, na gotama ne hI nindA kI, isase vidhavAvivAha kI jainadharmAnukUlatA siddha hotI hai| AkSepa (ca)-jaba kucha na banA to eka zloka hI banA kara likha diyA / isa mAyAcAra kA kucha ThikAnA hai ! (zrIlAla ) samAdhAnayathA ca jAyate duHkhaM saddhAyAmAtmayAMSiti / nagantareNa sarveSAmiyameva vyvsthitiH||14-112|| isa zloka meM yaha batAyA gayA hai, ki parastrI ramaNa se parastrI ke pati ko kaSTa hotA hai isaliye parastrI sevana nahIM karanA cAhiye / yaha zloka padmapurANa kA hai jise zrIlAla jI ne merA kaha kara majhe manamAnI gAliyA~ dI haiN| itanA hI nahIM aise acche zloka ke kharADana karane kI bhI asaphala ceSTA kI hai| parantu isase hamArA nahIM padmapurANa kA khaNDana aura prAcArya raviSeNa kA apamAna honA hai| isa zloka se yaha bAta siddha hotI hai, ki parastrI ramaNa se pati ko kaSTa hAtA hai, isaliye vaha pApa hai| isI AdhAra para yaha kahA jAtA hai ki vidhavAvivAha se pati ko kaSTa nahIM hotA, kyoMki pati mara gayA hai isaliye vidhavAvivAha pApa nahIM hai| aisI sIdhI bAna bhI zrIlAla jI na samajhe to balihArI isa samajha kii| zrIlAla jI ne yaha svIkAra kiyA hai ki 'apanI vidhA.

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( 228 ) hinA ko chor3a kara zaMSa mara meM vyabhicAra hai cAhe vaha kumArI ho sadhavA ho yA vidhavA ho' / zrIlAlajI ke ima vaktavya kA hama pUrNa samarthana karate haiM aura imIsaM vidhavA-vivAha kA mamarthana bhI ho jAtA hai / jisa prakAra kumArI ke sAtha ramaNa karanA vyabhicAra hai, kintu kumArI ko vivAhitA banA kara ramaNa karanA vyabhicAra nahIM hai| usI prakAra vidhavA ke sAtha ramaNa karanA vyabhicAra hai parantu vidhavA ke sAtha vivAha kara lene para usake sAtha gmaNa karanA vyabhicAra nahIM hai / vidhavA ke sAtha vivAha karane para use avivAhitA nahIM kahA jA sakatA, jisame yahA~ vyabhicAra mAnA jaave| isa taraha zrIlAla jI ke vaktavya ke anusAra bhI vidhavA-vivAha ucita ThaharatA hai| prAkSepa (cha)-maharSigaraNa pATha vivAha batAne vAloM kI hama mAne yA nImI prakAra kA ye vidhavA-vivAha banAne vAle tumhArI maane| samAdhAna-vidhavA vivAha naghamA bheda nahIM hai kintu jisa prakAra kumArIvivAha ke pATha bheda haiM usI prakAra vidhavA-vivAha ke bhI pATha bheda hai| isa viSaya meM pahile vistAra se likhA jA cukA hai| AkSepa ( ja )-prAcIna samaya meM loga vidhavA honA acchA nahIM samajhate the / yadi pahile samaya meM vidhavAvivAha kA gghiAja hotA to phira vidhavA zabda se itane Darane kI koI zrAvazyakatA nahIM thii| (vidyAnanda ) samAdhAna-prAja musalamAnoM meM IsAiyoM meM yA anya kisI samudAya meM, jisameM ki vidhavAvivAha hotA hai, kyA vidhavA honA acchA samajhA jAtA hai ? yadi nahIM to kyA vahA~ bhI vidhavA vivAha kA prabhAva siddha ho jAyagA? Ajakala yA

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( 226 ) prAcIna z2amAne meM kyA loga apanI strI kA marajAnA acchA samajhate the ? yadi nahIM to vidhura honA bhI burA khlaayaa| taba to vidhura vivAha kA bhI abhAva siddha ho jAnA caahiye| prAcIna z2amAne meM vidhavA ko acchA nahIM samajhate the, isase vidhavAvivAha kA abhAva siddha nahIM hotA balki sadbhAva siddha hotA hai / vidhavA honA acchA nahIM thA, isaliye vidhavA vivAhake dvArA usa sadhavA banAte the| kyoMki jo cIz2a acchI nahIM hotI use haTAne kI koziza hotI hai / nirAga agara rogI ho jAya to use phira nirAMga banAne kI koziza kI jAtI hai| isI prakAra sadhavA agara vidhavA ho jAya to use phira sadhavA banAne kI koziza kI jAtI thI / isa taraha vidyAnanda kA tarka mI vidhavA-vivAha kA samarthana hI karatA hai| isa prazna meM kucha prAkSepa aisa bhA hai jo ki pahile bhI kiye jA cuke hai aura jinakA uttara bhI vistAra se diyA jA cukA hai| isaliye aba unako punarukti nahIM kI jaatii| ikatIsavA~ prazna / 'sAmAjika niyama yA vyavahAra dharma badala sakate haiM yA nahIM isake uttara meM hamane kahA thA ki badala sakate haiM, kyoMki vyavahAra dharma sAdhaka hai| jisa kArya se hameM nizcaya dharma kI prApti hogI vahI kArya vyavahAra dharma kahalAyagA / pratyeka vyakti kI yogyatA aura pratyeka samaya kI paristhiti ekalI nahIM hotii| isaliye sadA aura saba ke liye ekasA vyavahAra dharma nahIM ho sakatA / aneka prakAra ke mUlaguNa, kabhI cAra saMyama, kabhI pAMca saMyama, kisI ko kamaNDalu rakhanA,

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( 230 ) kisI ko nahIM rakhanA Adi zAstrAMta vidhAna vyavahAra dharma kI vividhatA batAte haiM / sAmAjika niyamoM ke viSaya meM vidyAnanda kahate haiM ki " sAmAjika niyama vyavahAra dharma ke sAdhaka haiM ataH unameM tabadIlI karanA mokSa mArga kI hI tabadIlo hai " sAmAjika niyamoM meM raddobadala karane aura mokSamArga meM raddobadala karane kA eka hI artha hai / " parantu inake sahayogI paNDita zrIlAla jI kahate haiM ki "sAmAjika niyama bhinna bhinna dezoM meM aura bhinna bhinna kAloM meM aura bhinna bhinna jAtiyoM meM prAyaH bhinna bhinna huA karate haiM / ...... "laukika vidhi usI rUpa meM karanA cAhiye jaisI ki jahA~ ho" / isa taraha ye dAnoM AkSepaka Apasa meM hI bhir3a gaye haiM / yaha kahane kI z2arUrata nahIM ki vidyAnandajI ne sAmAjika niyama kA kucha artha hI nahIM samajhA aura ve pralApamAtra kara gaye haiM / sAmAjika niyamoM ke viSaya meM zrIlAlajI kA kahanA ThIka hai aura vaha hamAre vaktavya kI TIkA mAtra hai | zrIlAlajI kahate haiM ki sAmAjika niyama dharma kI chAyA meM hI rahate haiM / hamane bhI likhA thA ki sAmAjika niyama dharmapoSaka honA caahiye| aba vyavahAra dharmaviSayaka matabheda raha jAtA hai, isaliye usake zrAkSepoM kA samAdhAna kiyA jAtA / AkSepa ( ka )- -vyavahAra dharma nizcaya kA sAdhaka hai / na saMsArI zrAtmA kI avasthA palaTatI hai na nizcayadharma kI, na usake sAdhaka vyavahAra dharma kI / ( zrIlAla ) samAdhAna - kisI bhI dravya kI zuddhAvasthA do taraha kI nahIM hotI parantu azuddhAvasthA aneka taraha kI hotI hai, kyoMki zuddhAvasthA svApekSa hai aura azuddhAvasthA parApekSa hai / para dravya zrananta haiM isaliye unake nimitta se hone vAlI

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( 231 ) azuddhi bhI ananta taraha kI haiN| isaliye unakA upacAra bhI ananta taraha kA hogaa| loka aura zAstra donoM hI jagaha sAdhya kI ekatA hone para bhI sAdhana meM bhinnatA huzrA karatI hai| zrIlAlajI kA yaha kahanA bilakula jhUTha hai ki saMsArI AtmAoM kI avasthA nahIM plttto| agara saMsArI prAtmA kI avasthA na palaTe to saba saMsAriyoM kA eka hI guNasthAna, eka hI jIvasamAsa aura eka hI mArgaNA honA caahiye| nimnalikhita bAtoM para donoM AkSepakoM ko vicAra karanA caahiye| 1-manuSya agara aNuvrata pAla to vaha pAno chAnakara aura garma karake piyegA, jaba ki aNuvatI pazu aisA na kara skegaa| vaha bahatAhudhA pAnI pIkarakamI aNuvatI bnaarhegaa| vyavahAra dharma agara eka hai to pazu aura manuSya kI pravRtti meM antara kyoM? 2-koI kamaNDalu avazya rakkhagA, koI na rakkhegA, yaha antara kyoM? 3-kisI ke anusAra tIna makAra aura pA~ca phala kA tyAga karake hI [binA aNuvratoMke ] mUlaguNa dhAraNa kiye jA sakate haiM, kisI mata ke anusAra madhu saMvana karate huebhI mUlaguNa pAlana kiye jA sakate haiM kyoMki usameM madhu ke sthAna para dyata kA tyAga batalAyA hai| isa taraha ke aneka vidhAna kyoM haiM ? agara kahA jAya ki isa meM sAmAnya vizeSa apekSA kA bheda hai to kaunasA sAmAnya aura kaunasA vizeSa hai ? auraisa apekSA bheda kA kAraNa kyA hai ? 4-22 tIrthaDDaroM ke tIrtha meM cAra saMyamoM kA vidhAna kyoM rahA ? aura do ne pA~ca kA vidhAna kyoM kiyA? [koI sAmAyikakA pAlana kare, koI chedopasthApanA kA, yaha eka

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bAta hai, parantu chedopasthAna kA vidhAna na honA dUsarI bAta hai| aise aura bhI bahuta se udAharaNa diye jA sakate haiN| parantu ina sabake uttarameM yahI kahA jAsakatA hai ki jisa vyakti meM jitanI yogyatA hotI hai yA jisa yaga meM jaise vyaktiyoM kI bahulatA rahatI hai vyavahAra dharma kA rUpabhI vaisA hI hotA hai / hA~, vyavahAra dharma ho kaisA bhI, kiMtu usa kI dizA nizcaya dhamme kI ora rahatI hai| agara nizcaya sAdhakatA sAmAnya kI dRSTise vyavahAra dharma eka kahAjAya to kisIko vivAda nahIM hai parantu vAhyarUpa kI dRSTi se vyavahAra dharma meM vividhatA avazya hogii| aba isa kasauTI para hama vidhavAvivAha ko kasate haiN| dhArmika dRSTi se vivAha kA prayojana yaha hai ki manuSya kI kAmavAsanA sImita ho jAya / isa prayojanakI siddhi kumArI vivAha se bhI hai aura vidhavAvivAha se bhI hai| nizcaya sAdhakatA donoM meM eka samAna hai / agara donoM prAkSepaka nizcaya sAdhakatA sAmAnya ko ei meM rakhakara vyavahAra dharma ko eka taraha kA mAne to kumAgavivAha aura vidhavAvivAha donoM eka sarIkhe hI rheNge| donoM kI samAnatA ke viSaya meM hama pahilaM bhI bahuta kucha kaha cuke haiN| mAkSepa ( kha )-jo loga ajitanAthase lekara pArzvanAtha taka ke zAsana meM chedopasthApanAkA prabhAva batalAte haiM unakI vidvattA dayanIya hai| (vidyAnanda) samAdhAna-merI vidvattA para dayA na kIjiye, dayA kIjiye una baTTakara svAmI kI vidvattA para jinane mUlAcArameM yaha bAta likhI hai| dekhiye

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( 233 ) bAbIsaM tityayaga sAmAiya saMjamaM upadisanti / cheduva ThAvaNiyaMpuNa mayavaM usaho ya vIroya // 533 // 'arthAt bAIsa tIrthaGkara sAmAyika saMyama kA upadeza dete haiM aura bhagavAn RSabha aura mahAbIra chedopasthApanA kaa| agara zrApa baTTakera mvAmI kI vidvattA para dayA na batalA sake to apanI vidvattA ko dayanIya batalAye, jo kapa-maNDaka kI taraha haMsa ke vizAla anubhava ko dayanIya batalA rahI hai / - AkSepa (ga)-binA vyavahArakA pAlambana liye mokSa mArga ke nikaTa pahuMca nahIM ho sktii| (vidyAnanda) mamAdhAna vyavahAra kA niSedha maiM nahIM karatA, na kahIM kiyA hai| yahA~ to prazna vyavahAra ke vividha rUpoM para hai / kumArIvivAha meM jaisI vyavahAra-dharmatA hai vaisI hI vidhavAvivAha meM bhI hai| yahA~ vyavahAra ke do rUpa batalAye haiM-vyavahAra kA prabhAva nahIM kiyA gyaa| zrAkSepa (gha)-jaba patha bhraSTatA hocukI to lakSya taka pahuMca hI kaise hogI? samAdhAna-mArga kI vividhatA yA yAna kI vividhatA pathabhraSTatA nahIM hai / koI bI0 bI0 sI0 AI0 lAinase dehalI jAtA hai, koI jI0 AI0 pI0 lAina se, koI aiksapresa sa, koI mAmUlI gADI se, koI pharsTaklAsa meM, koI tharDa klAsa meM, parantu ina saba meM paryApta vividhatA hone para bhI koI pathabhraSTa nahIM hai| kyoMki samaya-bheda mArga bheda hone para bhI dizAbheda nahIM hai| vidhavAvivAha, kumArIvivAha ke samAna nirgala kAmavAsanAko dUra karatA hai| isaliye donoMkI dizA eka hai, donoM hI lakSya ke anakUla hai, isaliye use pathabhraSTatA nahIM kaha skte|

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(234 ) isa taraha vidhavAvivAha jainadharma ke anukUla siddha ho gyaa| maiM vidhavAvivAha ke pratyeka bigedhI ko nimantraNa detA hU~ ki use vidhavAvivAha ke viSaya meM agara kisIbhI narahakI zakA hono vaha z2arUra puuche| meM usakA anta taka samA. dhAna kruNgaa|

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* aAvazyaka sUcanA* dehalI meM eka jainabAla-vidhavA-vivAha. sahAyaka sabhA sthApita hai| ve sajana jo vidhavAvivAha ke siddhAnta se sahamata hoM yA jo sabhA ke membara honA cAheM yA jinheM apane lar3ake yA lar3akI kA aisA sambandha karAnA svIkAra ho, vaha nIce likhe pate para patra-vyavahAra kareM: mantrIjaina bAla-vidhavAvivAha sahAyaka sabhA darIbA kalA, dehlii| isa pustaka ke prakAzana meM anyatra prakAzita mahAnubhAvoM ke atirikta zrImAna bAbU gajakRSNa premacandra kola paracenTa ne meM pradAna kiye haiM-dhanyavAda /

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*anya upayogI pustakeM* bl l y t 1. zikSAprada zAstrIya udAharaNa-lekhaka-zrImAn paNDita jugala kizora jI mustAra mUlya // 2. vivAha kSetra prakAza " .. mRlya !) 3. jainajAni sudazA pravartaka-lekhaka-zrImAna bAbU sUrajabhAna jI 4. maMgalA devI5 kuvAroM kI durdazA 6. gRhastha dharma7 rAjadulAgI 8. vidhavA-vivAha aura una ke saMrakSakoM se apIla lakhaka-vra. zItala prasAda jo hai. ujalepoza badamAza-lekhaka-paM0 ayodhyAprasAda goyalIya dehalI ... . 10, abalAoM ke A~sU 11. punarlagna mImAMsA-le0-bAbU bholAnAtha mukhtAra bulandazahara ... 12. vidhavA-vivAha mamAdhAna le0-dhI0 savyasAcI 13. sudhArasaMgItamAnA-le0-50 bhUgamala muzarapha jaipura ... ... // 14. jaina dharma aura vidhavA vivAha ( pahilA bhAga),. | 15. jaina-dharma aura vidhavA vivAha ( dusarA bhAga) ,, / milane kA patA:lAjauharImala jaina sarrApha, darIbA kalA~, dehalI p ly py py l

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iMkana06 vidhavA vivAha samAdhAna lekhaka :zrIyuta "savyasAcI prakAzakaH-- jena vAla vidhavA sahAyaka sabhA / dargavA kalA~, dehlii| zAnticandra jaina ke prabandha se "caitanya" prinTiGga presa bijanaura meM chapI / prathamAvRtti / poSa 2000 ) vIra ni0 samvana 2455 /

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* dhanyavAda * zrImAn paM0 "savyasAcI" jI ne isa apUrva vidvattA pUrNa lekha dvArA jo anekoM yuktiyoM se vidhavA vivAha kA samA. dhAna kiyA hai, yaha sabhA umake upalakSa meM lekhaka mahodaya ke prati atyanta katA hai aura jina nimnAMkita sajanoM ne hamAre uddezya se prema bhAva dhAraNa karake isa rahasya pUrNa niyandha ke chapAne meM hamArI Arthika sahAyatA kI hai yaha mabhA hRdaya me unakI AbhArI hai : - 10) lA0 bholAnAtha jaina (darakhazA~ ) mustAra bulandazahara 10) lA0 kAhanacanda gamalAla paMjAvI amRtasara / 10) rAjakRSNa premacandra kola marceTa dehlii| 30) kula jodd'| mantrI maina bAla vidhavA sahAyaka sabhA dehlii|

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vidhavA vivAha [ lekhaka - eka " savyasAcI" ] vidhavA vivAha ke viSaya meM isa samaya kAphI carcA cala rahI hai| vidhavA vivAha ke pracArakoM kA kahanA hai ki isase dharma meM vizeSa hAni nahIM hai aura vartamAna avasthA ko dekhate hue yaha atyanta Avazyaka hai / virodhI isako hara taraha dharma vi. ruddha kahate haiM, mahApAtaka samajhate haiM aura unheM isa bAta kA dukha hai ki vidhavA vivAha pracArakoM ko bhejane ke liye AThavAM naraka kyoM nahIM hai ? ra ! para sAmAjika dRSTi se vidhavA vivAha kaisA hai isa viSaya maiM isa lekha meM vizeSa vicAra na kruuNgaa| mujhe tAM dhArmika dRSTi se isa viSaya para vicAra karanA hai / yadyapi maiM paMDita nahIM hU~ phira bhI thor3I sI saMskRta jAnatA hU~ / dharma zAstroM kA bhI svAdhyAya kiyA hai / vidvAnoM kI maGgati kA bhI saubhAgya milA hai| isase merI icchA huI ki isa viSaya para maiM bhI kucha apane vicAra pragaTa karU / bar3e bar3e vidvAnoM ke bIca meM mujha sarIkhe kSudra vyakti ke par3ane kI z2arUrata to nahIM hai, balki yaha eka prakAra kI dhRSTatA hai, phira bhI samaya aisA AgayA hai ki cupa rahanA bhI bar3e sAhasa kA kAma 1 mere vicAra se vidhavA vivAha dharma viruddha athavA pApa

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( 2 ) nahIM hai| zrathavA dUsare zabdoM meM ise yoM kahanA cAhiye ki yaha utanA hI bar3A pApa hai jitanA ki kumArI vivAha / jo loga yaha kahate haiM ki vidhavA vivAha prAdarza nahIM hai, lekina... .." unake zabdoM se bhI maiM sahamata nahIM huuN| lekina' 'kintu' 'parantu' lagA kara vidhavA-vivAha ko nIcI dRSTi se dekhanA meM samajha kA phera samajhatA huuN| Adarza to brahmacarya hai, usase utaratI avasthA vivAha he: phira cAhe vaha vidhavA ke sAtha ho yA kanyA ke sAtha / vivAha pApa hone para bhI. jina yuktiyoM aura AvazyakatAoM se hama kumArI vivAha ko ucita samajhate hai, unhIM yuktiyoM aura AvazyakatAoM se vidhavA vivAha bhI ucita hai / kanyA kA vivAha isa liye kiyA jAtA hai ki jisase santAna cale aura kanyA dugacAriNI na ho jaave| yadyapi abhI taka vaha dugacAriNI huI nahIM hai, sirpha dugacAriNI hone kI sambhAvanA hai| isI prakAra vidhavA-vivAha bhI isI liye kiyA jAtA hai jisase ki santAna cale aura vaha durAcAriNI na ho jAva / bhale hI vaha abhI taka durAcAriNI na huI ho, sirpha sambhAvanA hI ho| jo loga yaha kahane lagate haiM ki "vidhavAona kyA Apake pAsa darakhvAsta bhejI hai ?" unakI yaha bhI socanA cAhiye ki kumArI kanyAyeM bhI kyA darakhvAsta bhejanI haiM ? kumAriyoM ke viSayameM to bhrUNahatyA aura gupta vyabhicAra kI bhI zikAyate yahA~ sunane meM nahIM pAtI, phira bhI Apa unakA vivAha kara dete haiM: taba vidhavA samAja tI bhrUNa hatyA, gupta vyabhicAra Adi kAryoM dvArA z2abaradasta darakhvAste bhejatI hai,phira unakA vivAha kyoM na kiyA jAya ? vidhavA-vivAha ke niSedha ke liye loga

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jaldI se sItA aura aJjanA kA nAma lene lagate haiM,parantu sItA aura aJjanA ko vaidhavya kaba bhoganA par3A ? purANoM meM vidha. vAoM kA ullekha nahIM ke barAbara hai aura jo milatI haiM ve ArjikA ke rUpa meN| hama mAnate haiM ki usa samaya bhI aneka vidhavAyeM gRhavAsa karatI thIM, parantu isase bhI unake vivAha kA niSedha nahIM hotA / bhagavAna RSabhadeva kI putriyoM (brAhmI, sundagI) ne akhagaDa brahmacarya pAlA thA / kyA unakA udAharaNa dekara hama kumArI vivAha kA niSedha kara sakate haiM ? aura kyA sItA aJjanAko bhI pApinI kaha sakate haiM? yadi nahIM nA sItA aJjanA kA udAharaNa dekara hama vartamAna meM vidhavA vivAha kA bhI niSedha nahIM kara sakate / jaise brAhmI aura suMdarI kA udAharaNa dekara hama kumArI vivAha aura vidhavA vivAha kA niSedha nahIM kara sakate, usI prakAra pavanaMjaya kA udAharaNa dekara puruSoM ke punarvivAha kA bhI khagaDana nahIM kiyA jaamktaa| pavanaMjaya aJjanA ko vAIsa varSa chor3a rahA / phira bhI usane dUsaga vivAha na kraayaa| Ajakala kitane puruSa bhara javAnI meM bAIsa varSa taka saMyana rakha sakate haiM ? striyoM ke liye to brAhmI, sundarI, sInA Adi Adarza hai. parantu puruSoM ke liya kyA vAsupUjya, mallinAtha, neminAtha, pArzvanAtha mahAvIra, pavanaMjaya zrAdi aAdarza nahIM hai ? bAta yaha hai ki Adarza se hama rAste kA patA lagA sakate haiM, usakI tarapha muMha karake cala sakate haiM lekina samAja kA pratyeka vyakti usake Upara prArUr3ha nahIM hA sktaa| jaba hama dekhate haiM ki apane tIna tIna cAra cAra vivAha karane vAle puruSa vidhavA vivAha kA niSedha karate haiM taba hameM

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unakI bezaramI para tAjjuba hotA hai / are bhAI ! tuma marda hAkara java kAma kI jagasI capeTa nahIM maha sakate,to vicArI niyA~ kaise maheMgI / jisa kAma ko numa svayaM karate ho, umI para tuma dUsaroM ko dagaDa denA cAhate ho / bhalA isa behayAI kA kucha ThikAnA hai| jo vidhavA vivAha ke virodhI haiM, unheM cAhiye ki ve eka alaga samAja sthApita kareM jisameM na to puruSoM kA punarvivAha hotA ho na striyoM kA / bahuta se loga vidhavA-vivAha ke niSedha ke liye striyoM ko zrAga karane lage haiM / parantu hama kumArI vivAha ke niSedha ke liye saikar3oM kanyAoM ko khar3A karadeM no kyA Apa kumArI vivAha banda kara deMge ? bAta yaha hai ki zatAbdiyoM kI gulAmI ne striyoM ke zarIra ko hI nahIM. kintu aAtmA aura hRdaya ko bhI gulAma banA diyA hai / unameM aba itanI himmata nahIM hai ki ve hRdaya kI bAta kaha ske| amerikA ma jaba gulAmI kI prathA ke viruddha abrAhamaliMkana ne yuddha char3A nA svayaM gulAmA ne likana mAhiva ke viruddha apane mAlikA kA pakSa liyA aura jaba ve mvatantra ho gaye to bhI mAlikoM kI zaraNa meM pahu~ce / gulAmI kA aisA hI prabhAva par3atA hai| z2arA svatantra nAriyoM se Apa aisI bAta kahiya, yugapa kI striyAle vidhavA-vivAha ke virodha karane kA anurodha kIjie, taba Apako mAlUma ho jAyagA ki strIhRdaya kyA cAhatA hai ? hamAre deza kI lajAlu strI kArya kara sakatI hai, para kaha nahI sakanI / eka vidhavA sa-jisake cihna vaidhavya pAlana ke anukala nahIM the-eka mahAzaya ne vidhavA-vivAha kA z2ikara

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kiyA to unako pacAsoM gAliyA~ milIM, ghara vAloM ne gAliyAM dI aura vinAgaM kI bar3I phajIhata kI, parantu kucha dinoM bAda vaha eka AdamI ke ghara meM jAkara baiTha gaI / isI taraha kar3I vidhavAe~ ajanoM ke sAtha bhAga sakatI haiM, bhra Na-hatyA kara sakatI hai, gupta vyabhicAra kara sakatI hai, parantu muha se apanA janma siddha adhikAra nahIM mAMga sakatI / prAyaH pratyeka purupa ko isa bAta kA patA hogA ki ema kAryoM meM striyA~ maha se 'nA'nA' karatI haiM aura kArya me 'hAM' 'hAM' karatI haiN| isaliye striyoM ke isa virodha kA koI mUlya nahIM hai| aba hama isa viSaya meM vicAra karate hai ki kyA vidhavA vivAha pApa hai aura agara pApa hai to kaunamA? vidhavAvivAha ke virodhiyoM kA kahanA hai ki yaha vyabhicAra hai / agara pUchA jAya ki vyabhicAra kisa kahate haiM to uttara milegA ki parapuruSa yA parastrI ke sAtha gmagA krnaa| agara pUchA jAya ki parapuruSa aura parastrI kise kahate haiM ? to uttara milaMgA ki purupa kA jima strI ke sAtha vivAha na huA ho vaha para mbI, aura strI kA jima puruSa ke mAtha vivAha nahIM huA, vaha para puruSa hai / vivAha ke pahilaM agara koI puruSa, kimI kumArI ke sAtha anucita sambandha kara, to bhI use vyabhicAra kahaMge: lekina vivAha hone ke bAda vaha sambandha vyabhicAra na kahalAyaMgA ! isa meM yaha bAta sApha mAlama hotI hai ki vivAha meM aisI khUbI hai jo vyabhicAra ke dApa ko apaharaNa kara letI hai| jo Aja parapurupa hai vivAda hone ke bAda vaha mvapurupa bana jAtA hai. jo zrAja parastrI hai vivAha hojAne ke bAda vaha hI svastrI bana jAtI hai / jo vidhavA Aja paramtrI hai vaha vivAha

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ho jAne para svamtrI ho jAvegI: jo puruSa, eka vidhavA ke liye zrAja parapuruSa hai vahI vivAha ho jAne para svapurUSa hojA. yagA / phira aba vyabhicAra kahAM rhaa| kyA mbamtrI aura svapuruSa ke sAtha sambandha karanA bhI vyabhicAra hai ? yadi vivAha ho jAne para bhI hama vyabhicAra vyabhicAra cillAte raheM taba no pUrNa brahmacArI ke sivAya mabhI vyabhicArI kahalAyeMge / kahA jAtA hai ki vidhavA kA to vivAha hI nahIM ho sakatA, phira vaha vyabhicAra kA doSa kame dura hogA ? ThIka hai: agara vidhavA kA vivAha na ho sake tava tA vyabhicAra kA doSa banA hI rhegaa| lekina hameM kAziga to karanI cAhiye ki vidhavA kA vivAha ho sakatA hai yA nahIM ? yadi kara makaMga to ThIka hai, na kara sako to vaza kyA hai / agara vidhavA-vivAha karate hI vajra paDa jAya, strI kA jIvana samApta ho jAya yA puruSa kA jIvana samApta ho jAya, mAsikadharma banda ho jAya, strItva ke cinha naSTa hA jAya taba samajhanA cAhiye ki vidhavA-vivAha ho hI nahI sakatA / agara aisI bAta nahIM hai taba nA pAlasI bana kara par3a rahana ma kyA phAyadA hai ? yadi zrApa mvayaM nahIM kara sakate to jo loga kara sakate hai unheM zAbAzI to dIjiye / jo kAma Apake liye prasambhava hai vaha unhAne sambhava karake dikhA diyA: yaha kyA kama bahAdurI hai ? yadi Apa kaheM ki na karanA cAhiye. isa liye nahIM ho sakatA nA hama pUchate haiM ki kyoM na karanA cAhiye ? jaba vivAha meM yaha tAkata hai ki vyabhicAra kA doSa dUra kara detA hai taba, z2arUrata par3ane para usakA upayoga kyoM na kiyA jAya ?

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aneka bhAI kaheMge ki zAstroM meM 'kanyAdAna vivAhaH' likhA huA hai / isa liye vidhavA kA vivAha nahIM ho sktaa| yadi kanyAdAna vivAha kA lakSaNa mAnA jAvaM taba to gaMdharva vivAha ko vivAha hI na kahanA cAhiye; kyoMki usameM strI aura puruSa paraspara eka dUsare ko svIkAra karate hai-kanyA kA dAna nahIM kiyA jAtA / imase mAlUma hotA hai ki zAstroM meM vivAha ke jo lakSaNa milate haiM ve kisI samaya kI vivAha prathA ke pradarzakamAtra hai| vivAha kA vyApaka lakSaNa hai 'strI puruSa kA eka dUsare ko svIkAra karanA / kanyA zabda ke Upara jaba hama naz2ara DAlate haiM taba hameM isameM aura hI rahamya dIkhatA hai / kanyA zabda kA artha 'bhoga' avivAhitA lar3akI karate haiN| lekina kanyA zabda kA artha putrI bhI hotA hai| vivAhita ho jAne para bhI yaha kahA jAtA hai ki amuka puruSa kI kanyA hai / vivAha meM kanyAdAna (putrIdAna) zabda ke prayoga karane kA matalaba yaha hai ki kanyA dAna karane kA sabase bar3A adhikAra pitA kA hai| pitA ko adhikAra hai ki vaha kamArI kanyA ke samAna vidhavA kA bhI dAna kreN| dRmarga bAta yaha hai ki 'kanyA zabda kA artha "vivAha yAgya strI hai cAhaM vaha kamArI ho yA vidhavA / saikar3oM varSoM se bhAratavarSa meM kumArI vivAha kA hI vizeSa calana rahA hai isa liye kumArI aura kanyA donA hI zabda paryAyavAcI bana gaye haiN| dekhiye koSakAra ne 'kanyA zabda kA artha 'strI sAmAnya' batAyA hai|

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kanyA kumArikA nAryo gazibhedopadhAbhidoH ( vizvalAvana) / imAma mAlUma hotA hai ki kanyA kumArI ko bhI kahate hai aura stromAtra kA bhI kahate hai| isaliye vidhavA ko bhI kanyA kaha sakate haiN| yaha na samajhiye ki yaha artha sirpha kopa meM likhane ke liye hI hai, zAstrakA ne isakA prayoga bhI kiyA hai| isakA udAharaNa bhI lIjiye mugrova kI strI mutAga, do baccI ko mAnA ho gaI thI / phira bhI mAhammagati vidyAdhara usake Upara Asakta thaa| vaha socatA hai ki vaha kanyA ( sutArA ) mujhe kaba mile gI-'phanopAyanatAM kanyAM lampa nivR nidAyinI' / jaba do baccoM kI mAtA ko kanyA kahA A sakatA hai nava vidhavA ko kanyA kyA nahIM kahA jA sakatA? aise vyApaka artha meM kanyA zabda kA prayoga pAra bhI milatA hai: je-'devakanyA' aadi| vivAha ka lannagA ke phara meM paDa kara jA lAga vidhavAvivAha kA niSedha karate haiM, unameM hama kaha denA cAhate hai ki vAstavika vivAha kA lanaNa 'ma yacAritramAhodayA kivahanaM vivAhaH' hai jisameM kanyA aura vidhavA kA koI prazna hI nahIM hai / kanyAzabda kA prayAga eka mAtraya ke gviAja ke anusAra hai| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki zabda kA artha bahuta jyApaka hai| kaI loga kahane lagate haiM ki "kanyA to dane kI cIja hai| jisako vaha dI jAnI hai, vaha usI kI sampani ho jAtI hai: phira kimImara ko lana kA kyA adhikAra hai| isake uttara meM hama pahile yahI nivedana kareMge ki strI kisI kI sampatti nahIM hai / jaina dharma kahatA hai ki mahAvana na pAla sakane ke kAraNa jaise puruSa eka strI ko grahaNa karake aNu

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vrata pAlatA hai usI prakAra strI bhI mahAvata na pAla sakane ke kAraNa eka puruSa ko grahaNa kara aNuvrata pAlatI hai| isameM koI kimI kI sampatti nahIM khlaatii|siitaakii jaba agniparIkSA ho cukI taba rAmacandra ne phira ghara meM rahane ko unase prArthanA kI, parantu sItAne gamacandra kI prArthanA nAmaMjUra kI aura AryikA kI dIkSA lelI / kyA sampatti, mAlika kI icchA ke viruddha canI jA sakatI hai ? aba jaga aura bhI vicAra kIjiyaagara strI, purupa kI sampatti hai to puruSa ke marane ke bAda jara mamamta sampatti kA svAmI ummakA putra hotA hai umI prakAra unakI stro kA arthAta apanI mAtA kA bhI mvAmI putra khlaaygaa| kyA vidhavAvivAha ke virodhiyoM ko yaha pAna iTa hai ? yadi vaha svAmI nahIM hai to mAnanA cAhie ki vaha pitA kI sampatti nahIM thii| usane to aNuvrata pAlana ke liye eka puruSa kA mahAga liyA thaa| aba vahI mahAcata pAlaMgI yA vanya dInA legI athavA chaThavI pratimA ke Age na bar3ha sakaMgA nA narvivAha karegI / usane apanI pratijJA ke anusAra pati ke jIvana bhara sAtha diyA / aba vaha dRmaga pravandha karane ke liye svatantra hai| yadi itane bhara bhI loga tro ko sampatti samajha taba yaha kahanA par3egA ki pati ke marana para usakA dRAlarA pani hAnA hI cAhiyaH kyAki sampatti jAvArisa nahIM raha sktii| agara vaha lAvArima rahagI taba to pratyeka prAdamI usakA mana mAne rUpameM prayoga karegA / taba hamArImA vahina yA vana jaavegii| yaha kalpanA bhI * pagiData nekIgama zarmA ke zabdoM meM Ajakala kI bahuta mo vidhavAra pablika prAparTI-sArvajanika sampatti

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zramA hai| yadi pratyeka prAdamI unakA upayoga na kA sakaMgA to yaha kahanA par3egA ki "ambAmi kamya dravyamya dAmAdo maMdinIpatiH jisakA koI mvAmI nahIM hotA umakA mvAmI gajA honA hai| Ajakala hamAre yahA~ rAjA hai-aMgraz2a loga, tava saba vidhavAnoM ke svAmI va hI ho jaayeNge| striyoM ko sampatti samajhane vAle dAnavoM se hama pUchate haiM ki tuma loga apanI ina gandI kalpanAoM me apanI mAM bahina aura beTiyoM ko kitanA nIce girA dete ho? unakA kaisA apamAna karate ho, unake satItva para kesa AkSepa karate ho. isakI kalpanA karate hI A~khoM meM khUna Tapakane lagatA hai zrora jI cAhatA hai ki............ / kucha logoM kA yaha kahanA hai ki jisa prakAra manuSya aneka thAliyoM meM bhojana kara sakatA hai lekina hamArI jhUThI thAlImai dasaga purupa bhojana nahIM karatA, usI prakAra eka puruSa aneka striyoM kA sevana kara sakatA hai, lekina aneka puruSa eka mtrI kA sevana nahIM kara sakate, kyoMki puruSa bhojaka hai aura mtrI bhojya hai| yadi strI ko thAlI mAna liyA jAya to bhI vidhavAvivAha kA virodha nahIM haataa| kyoMki jisa prakAra mAMjane dhone ke bAda thAlI phira kAma meM lAI jAtI hai aura dumA puruSa ke bhI kAma meM A sakatI hai, usI prakAra mAsika dharma ke bAda dvitIya puruSa ke sAtha maMtrI kA sambandha honA anucita nahIM kahA jA sktaa| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki strI puruSa kA bhojya bhojaka sambandha nahIM hai: yadi hai to donoM hI bhAjaka aura donoM hI bhAjya hai / sIdhI bAta yahI hai ki bhoga ke kArya meM donoM ko bana gaI hai / ghara vAloM se lekara bAhara taka ke sabhI puruSoM kI kudRSTi una para rahatI hai / sa0 jA0pra0 /

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sukha hotA hai: agara bhAjya bhojaka sambandha hotA to bhojya (strI) ko sukha na honA cAhiye thA: agara strI ko bhojya mAnA jAya to strI ko kuzIla ke pApa kA bandha na honA cAhiye: kayoMki bhogane vAlA nA puruSa hai strI ne no bhoga kiyA hI nahIM haiM, phira pApa kamA? tIsarI bAta yaha hai ki vezyA ko bhI hameM nidoSa mAnanA par3egA: kyoMki vaha to bhAjya haiM / jaise thAlI kA eka purupa jhUThA kara yA dama, vaha apavitra hotI hai, kintu isameM unakA doSa nahIM mAnA jAtA / isI prakAra vezyA kA dopa yA apagadha bhI nahIM mAnanA cAhiye / rahI apavitratA kI bAta, mo no madhavA vidhavA aura vezyA masI apavitra hai| kyoki pApaka mata seva bhI jhUThI thAlI ke samAna hai / emI hAlatama hameM sapavA vidhavA aura vezyA bhavakA samAna manmAna aura dhArmika va sAmAjika adhikAra denA par3egA / bara ! bhAktA kima kahate haiM ? aba jaga isa para bhI vicAra kIjiya / gajavArtika meM likhA hai "paradravya vIryAdAna sAmathrya bhoktRtvalakSaNama' sara dravya kI tAkata ko grahaNa karane kI sAmathya ko saMktRitva kahate haiM / strI puruSa ke bhAga meM hameM vicAra karanA cAhiye ki kauna kimakI tAkata ko grahaNa karatA hai / athavA kauna apanI zaktiyoM ko jyAdaha barbAda karatA hai / vicAra karata hI hameM mAlUma hogA ki mAMkanRtya strI meM hai, puruSa meM nahIM / kayAki ima kArya meM pumya kI jitanI ki naTa hotI hai itanI mbI kI nahIM / dRmarI bAta yaha hai ki mbI kI 'raja' ko puruSa grahaNa nahIM kara pAtA balki puruSa ke vIrya ko strI grahaNa kara letI hai| grahaNa karanA hI bhoktRtva hai: yaha bAta gajavArtika

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( 12 ) ke lakSa ga se sAfa mAlUma hotI hai| matalaba yaha hai ki puruSa ko bhojaka aura strI kA bhojya kadApi nahIM kahA jA makatA / thAlI ke udAharaNa ke sthAna para ganna kA udAharaNa rakhane se yaha bAta ora bhI adhika spaSTa ho jAtI hai / puruSa agara strI ko thAlI ke anusAra jhUThI karake pheMka denA cAhate hai to striyAM bhI aisA hI kara sakatI haiN| isa udAharaNa se bahupatnI ko zaMkA kA bhI samAdhAna hojAtA hai| kahA jAtA hai ki puruSa to eka hI samaya meM aneka striyoM ko rakha sakatA hai lekina eka strI aneka puruSoM ko nahIM rakha sakatI / isa taraha striyA~ hIna hai| isakA uttara ganna ke udAharaNa meM hai / aneka vyakti paka ganne ke aneka bhAgoM ko cUsa sakate haiM: isa liye vaha gannA bar3A nahIM ho jAtA aura na kisI kA dRsaga gannA cUsane kA adhikAra china jAnA hai| dUsarI bAta yaha hai ki eka puruSa kI aneka strI hAnA yA eka strI ke aneka puruSa honA yaha deza deza kA rivAja hai / yahA~ eka puruSa aneka strI rakhatA hai: tibbata meM eka strI aneka pati rakhatI hai| zakti saba meM saba taraha kI hai| upayoga honA dezakAla ke Upara nirbhara hai| isaliye thAlI vagairaha ke udAharaNa dekara yA bhojya bhojaka sambandha batA kara vidhavA vivAha kA niSedha karanA nirarthaka haiN| kaI loga kahane lagate haiM ki zAstroM meM brAhma prAjA. patya Adi pATha taraha ke vivAha likhe haiN| unameM vidhavAvivAha kA nAma kyoM nahIM hai ? isakA uttara bilakula sIdhA hai / aise bhAiyoM ko dekhanA cAhiye ki ina bATho bhedoM meM kanyA (kumArI) vivAha kA ullekha kahA~ hai ? tathA sajAtIya vivAha, vijAtIya vivAha, anuloma vivAha, pratiloma vivAha Adi kA bhI ullekha kahA~ hai ? matalaba yaha hai ki jaise kumArI kA

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vivAha ATha taraha kA hotA hai, usI taraha vidhavA kA vivAha bhI pATha taraha kA hotA hai| jaise sajAtIya vivAha pATha taraha hotA hai, usI prakAra vijAtIya vivAha bhI pATha taraha kA hI hotA hai| saba taraha ke vivAhoM meM ye ATha bheda ho sakate haiN| Azcarya hai isa halakI sI bAta ko bhI vidhavA vivAha ke virodhI samajha nahIM paate| kaI loga kahate haiM ki "puruSoM ko prakRti ne hI adhika adhikAra diye haiM aura striyoko thor3e adhikAra diye haiM / dekho! puruSa varSa bhara meM so dau so bacce bhI paidA kara sakatA hai aura strI sirpha eka hI baccA paidA kara sakatI hai" isakA uttara bhI bahuta sarala hai / yadi aisA hai to puruSoM kA punarvivAha turanta geka denA cAhiye aura striyoM ko punarvivAha turanta cAlU kara denA cAhiye, kyoki mI santAna paidA karane ke liye eka puruSa se hI kAma cala sakatA hai| isaliye ninyAnave agara na ho yA kuvAre raheM to bhI koI hAni nahIM hai lekina strI to eka bhI kumArI yA vidhavA ho jAyagI to eka baccA ghaTa jaavNgaa| yaha kahAM taka nyAya hai ki jisa cIz2a kI hameM adhika z2arUrata hai vaha to vyartha par3I raha aura jisakI z2arUrata hameM thor3I hai usa kI jyAdA kadara kI jAya / matalaba yaha hai ki prakRti ne jo strI puruSa meM antara utpanna kara diyA hai usase bhI mAlUma hotA hai ki vidhura vivAha kI apekSA vidhavAvivAha sau gunA adhika Avazyaka hai| kaI sajjana kahane lagate haiM ki vidhavAe~ to pApa karma ke udaya se hotI hai| unheM apane karma kA udaya zAnti se saha lenA cAhiye; vivAha karane kI kyA z2arUrata hai ? bahuta ThIka hai, parantu duHkha itanA hI hai ki yaha sArI karma kI philAsafI mahilAoM ke sira hI mar3ha dI gaI hai / jaise vidhavAe~ pApa

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karma ke udaya se hotI haiM, usI prakAra kyA vidhura pApa karma ke udaya se nahIM hote ? phira logoM ne jaba vidhurapana miTAne kA ilAja ucita samajhA hai taba vedhanya miTAne kA ilAja ucita kyoM nahIM samajhA jAya / jJAnAvaraNa karma ke udaya se manuSya ajJAnI hotA hai taba zikSA kA prabandha kayoM nahIM kiyA jAtA hai| nirbala ko sabala kyoM banAyA jAtA hai ? hama pUchate haiM ki karmoM ke udaya ko saphala banAne kA kyA virodhiyoM ne ThekA le rakkhA hai ? taba to strI veda ke udaya ko saphala banAne ke liye vidhavA kA vivAha karanA atyanta Avazyaka hai / z2arA aura bhI vicAra kIjiye / yadi asAtA vedanIya Adi ke udaya ko saphala banAnA Avazyaka hai, taba Apake ghara meM yadi koI bImAra par3a jAya tava bhUla karake bhI usakA ilAja na karanA cAhiye / pApa karma ke udaya ko sahakara karmoM kI nirjaga karane kA avakAza denA cAhiye / jo loga rogiyoM kI cikitsA karate haiM ve vaise hI pApI haiM, jaise vidhavAvivAha ke pracAraka / agara pAThazAlA kholane vAle, zrAhAra dAna dene vAle, auSadhAlaya kholane vAle, paricaryA karane vAle tathA anya taraha kI ApattiyoM ko dUra karane vAle acche haiM--pApa karma ke udaya ko bhoga kara karmoM kI nirjaga karane kA avakAza chInane kA pApa unheM nahIM lagatA-tava vidhavAvivAha ke pracAraka bhI doSI nahIM kahe jA skte| __asalI bAta to yaha hai ki agara pApakarma ke udaya se manuSya ko koI duHkha uThAnA par3e to use sahanA cAhiye / parantu dUsaroM kA yaha kartavya nahIM hai ki ve pApakarma ke udaya ko sthira rakhane kI koziza kareM aura use z2abardastI sahana karane ke liye vAdhya kreN| usa puruSa ko bhI sahana karane kA DhoMga nahIM karanA cAhiye / aAja samAja meM aisI kitanI

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vidhavAe~ haiM jo svecchA se vaidhavya kI vedanA ko zAntarUpa se sahane ko taiyAra ho ? agara aisI deviyAM haiM to bar3I khuzI kI bAta hai, agara nahIM haiM taba to unase nirjarA kI zrAzA nahIM kI jA sktii| balki dina rAta ke Arta dhyAna se ve nIca gati kA hI baMdha karatI hai| bhraNa hatyA aura gupta vyabhicAra se yaha bAta spaSTa jAhira hotI hai ki vidhavA vivAha kI z2arUrata hai| isa prakAra ke tarka vitarka se yaha bAta sAfa jAhira ho jAtI hai ki vidhavA vivAha dharma viruddha nahIM ho sakatA / aba jarA najIroM para vicAra kIjiye . devagati meM Ama taura para vidhavA vivAha cAlU hai / jina deviyoM kA pati ( deva ) mara jAtA hai, ve apane svAmI ke sthAna para paidA hone vAle deva kI patnI ho jAtI hai / itane para bhI unake samyaktva aura zukla lezyA meM koI antara nahIM paataa| na unake jina darzanAdi sambandhI adhikAra koI chInatA hai / yadi kaho jAya ki unakA zarIra vaikrayika hai jo kabhI apavitra nahIM hotA, to yaha bhI kahA jA sakatA hai ki nAriyo kA zarIra rakta mAMsamaya zrIdArika hai jo kabhI pavitra nahIM rahatA / cAhe vaha avivAhita rahe yA eka bAra vivAhita yA bahu bAra vivAhita / dharma adharma camar3e meM rahane kI vastu nahIM hai| usakA sambandha prAtmA se hai / are bhAI : dharma adharma to carmakAra bhI camar3a meM nahI DhahatA. phira Apa loga kyA usase bhI gaye bIte ho ? gvaira ! jo kucha ho, parantu itanA to siddha huvA ki vidhavAvivAha kA virodha, samyaktva ( jaina dharma ) aura zukla lezyA se nahIM hai / agara tiryaJcagati ke Upara najara DAlI jAya to hameM yaha bhI mAnanA par3atA hai ki dezavirati se bhI isakA virodha nahIM hai| kintu

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saba se bar3I udAratA to hameM apane dharma granthoM meM milatI hai| koI manuSya cAhaM baha kitanA bhI vyabhicArI yA pApI rahA ho, use muni banane kA adhikAra hai| koI strI cAhe vaha kitanI hI vyabhicAriNI rahI ho, use AryikA banane kA adhikAra hai / dekho gajA madhu kA caritra-usakI ramela ganI candrAbhA ne zrAryikA-vrata liye: rudra kI mAtA upeSTA eka muni ke sAtha phaMsa gaI,lar3akA paidA huA bAda meM vaha phira AryikA bana gii| prAyazcita zAstroM meM bhI paMmI bhraSTa AryikAoM taka ko phira pAryikA kI dIkSA de dene kA vidhAna ' hai / mudRSTi munAra to vyabhicAriMgI strI kI santAna hone para bhI mokSa gayA / ina saba udAharaNoM se sApha mAnama hotA hai ki vyabhicAra se bhI manuSya ke adhikAra nahIM china sakate / phira vidhavA vivAha to brahmacaryANu vrata kA mAdhaka hai / usame dharma hAni to kaise ho sakatI hai| yahA~ hamane khAsa khAma bAnoM pA saMkSepa meM prakAza DAlA hai| abhI to vahana sI bAteM haiM jinake Upara prakAza DAlanA hai AzA hai samAja ke prasiddha lekhaka zrora vidvAna isa viSaya para prakAza ddaalaa| anta meM hama jaina jagata Adi patroM ke sampAdakoM se nivedana karate hai ki Apa loga satya ke patha meM bar3ha karake bIca meM hI kyoM raha gaye / / yaha bar3e Azcarya kI bAta hai OMdagbArIlAla jI nyAyatIrtha ke 'dharma aura lokAcAra' zIrSaka lekha meM isa bAta kA khulAsA pramANa dekara kiyA gayA hai / (lekhaka) jisa taraha se hamArI vidhavA vahine atyAcArI puruSa samAja ke bhaya tathA apane saMkoca namAva ke kAraNa

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ki Apa loga "vidhavA-vivAha" sarIkhe dharmAnukala kArya ke bhI virodhI haiN| jaina gajaTa Adi patra ke sampAdakoM se bhI hama nivedana karate haiM ki Apa loga mithyAtva ko chor3o ! dharma kA nivAsa sthAna na to rUr3hiyoM meM hai, na camar3a meM hai, na korI vAha vAhI meM hai, vaha AnmA meM hai| dharma ke liye striyoM para pratyA cAra karane kI jarUrata nahIM hai| hadaya ko patthara banAne kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| jabardastI vaidhavya palavAnA satI prathA se bhI bar3ha kara pApa hai| satI prathA se striyoM ko 10-15 minaTa jalanA par3atA thA, vaidhavya se jIvana bhara jalanA par3atA hai| isaliye satI prathA yadi mithyAtva hai to z2abardastI kA vaidhavya mahA mithyAtva hai| Apa loga mithyAtva me chUTakara mahAmithyAnva meM na phaisiye, balki samyaktva kI ora bhaaiye| samAja ke una vidvAnoM meM bhI hama nivedana karate haiM jinheM ki AjIvikA kI cintA nahIM hai ki zrApa niSpakSa gati se vicAra kIjiye / isa bAta ko bhUla jAiye ki loga kyA kaheMge / satya ke liye, sirpha satya ke liye va jainadharma ke liye niHpakSa hadaya se vicAra kIjiye ki dharma kyA hai / jo loga yaha kahate haiM ki vidhavA vivAha ko bAta sunate hI pRthvI kyoM nahIM phaTa jAtI jisameM hama samA jAte, unase bhI hama prArthanA kareMge ki pRthvI ko phaTane kA nimantraNa dene ke pahile hRdaya ko phAr3iye aura ekAnta meM dekhiye ki usameM dharma prema hai yA jhUThe nAma kA prema / yadi vaha vAhavAhI ke liye mara rahA apane hRdaya ke bhAva jubAna se khullama vullA prakaTa nahIM karatI, sambhava hai usI taraha ye patra bhI kisI bhaya yA lajjA ke vaza satya ke mArga meM bar3hate bar3hate ruka gaye ho / sa0 jA0pra0

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ho yA aura koI aihika svArtha ho to hamArI bAta na suniye parantu usameM sazA dharma prema ho to jaba taka pRthvI phaTe taba taka hamAre lekha para vicAra kIjiye / virodha karanA ho to avazya kIjiye, nahIM to himmata ke sAtha saca boliye| puruSa samAja se hama kaheMge, ki samAja puruSoM kI hI nahIM, striyoM kI bhI hai| pApodaya kI cikitsA puruSoM ke liye hI nahIM,striyoM ke liye bhI hai / rUr3hi ke liye satyakI hatyA mata karo ! kintu satya ke liye rUr3hiyoM ko mittaado| deviyoM se yaha kaheMge ki Apa AjIvana brahmacarya pAlana karanA cAhatI haiM no bar3I khuzIse kareM; hama Apake sAmane sira jhukAte haiM kintu ro ro kara brahmacaryakA pAlana na kareM aura brahma carya kA DhoMga na kreN| vaidhavya kA pAlana isaliye kareM ki Apako pAlana karane kI icchA hai, na ki isaliye ki samAja vidhavA vivAha ko burA samajhatI hai / yadi Apako vaidhavya kI apekSA gArhasthya jIvana hI jyAdA pasanda hai to apane puna: vivAha ke adhikAra kA upayoga karake vizuddha brahmacaryANuvrata pAlana kreN| dharmazAna zUnya svArthI nirdaya puruSoM ko koI hakka nahIM hai ki jisake pAlana meM ve svayaM phisala jAte haiM vahI bAta dUsaroM se jabardastI palavAveM / yAda rakho ! ve svArthI puruSa tumhe manuSya nahIM, jUThI thAlI samajhate hai / isaliye tuma apane gaurava kI rakSA karI / vizvAsa rakkho ki manuSya jAti kI sthiti ke liye puruSoM kI apekSA triyA~ adhika Avazyaka haiN| AzA hai sabhI zreNI ke vyakti isa lekha para vicAra kareMge aura pakSa meM yA vipakSa meM sammati avazya deMge /

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son 666666 (6) hindU jati kI sAmAjika durdazA sudhArane kA eka mAtra upAya vidhavA-vivAha prathama bAra zuka samAja sudhAraka mAlA tRtiya puNya - MAN motIlAla pahADyA, kunAr3I koTA [rAjapUtAnA ] vi0 saMvata 110 sU0 pauNa mAna mAtra 9999999999

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hindU jAti kI sAmAjika durdazA sudhArane eka mAtra upAya vidhavA vivaah| isa deza meM bAla vivAha, vRddha vivAha, anamela vivAha aura kanyA-kama-vikraya prAdi sAmAjika kuprathAyeM bhayaMkara rUpa dhAraNa karatI jA rahI haiN| inhoM kurItiyoM ke dAruNa pariNAma svarUpa san 1921 ko manuSya gaNanA ke anusAra isa deza meM samasta hinda vidhAoM ko saMkhyA 21255554 thiiN| inameM se kevala 25 varSa taka ko Ayu bAlI vidhavAe 1537644 haiM / isa saMkhyA meM 10 varSa se kama umra vAlI vidhavAmI ko saMkhyA 17854 hai ki jina vicAriyoM ko yaha bhI mAlUma nahIM hai ki suhAga aura pati kisa khilaune kA nAma humA karatA hai| mAja inakA suhAga sindUra dho diyA gayA hai aura isake sAtha hI inake nanhe 2 hAthoM ko car3iyA bhI tor3a dI gaI haiM raMgona vastra to ina ghicAriyoM ko dikhAye bho nahIM jAtA pahanane ke liye phaTo duI kAlI sAr3o bichAne ke liyeTI so Mat aura khAne ke liye TaMDo bAso roTo aura 24 roja kI bacI

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khucI sar3I busI mAga ho aba inake bhAgya meM vidhAtA ne likhA hai dasa varSa se kama umra ko vidhavAoM kI saMkhyA meM 5 varSa se kama umra ko 12024 vidhavAra aiso dudha muhI nanhoM 2 bacciyAM haiM jo abhI mAnastana ke dUdha kA svAda bhI nahIM bhUla gaI hai| Age caliye, inameM me 2 varSa taka kI umra vAlI 48 vidhavAeM aisI haiM jo abhI ghuTane ke balahI cala maratI hai aura jo totalo 2 bolI bolatI huI mA~ ko aMgulI pakar3a kara bhI khar3o nahIM ho sakatI haiN| kahA~ naka kahA jAya ? aura bhI z2arA hRdaya ko thAma kara suniye, inameM se 612 vidhavAeM eka varSa se nIce kI umra vAlI haiN| ye zizu vidhavAe abhI mAna stana para ho cipaTI rahatI haiM aura jinake maha meM prabho dudha ke bhI dAMta nahIM pAye haiN| duniyAM ke kiso deza meM bhaumatana itanI vidhavA nahIM hai jitanI ki ima abhAge deza meM aura khAsa kara isa hindU samAja meM hai| muzkila se aisA koI bhAgya zAlIghara pAyA jAvegA ki jisameM koI vidhavA nahIM ho / pratyeka ghara vidhavA pAzrama banA huA hai| hA : rikhate hue hRdaya TUTa jAtA hai ki isa bhArata vasundharA kI 55 varga se nIce umra ko 33000% hita vidhavA putriyAM abhI apane apane patiyoM ke sAtha 2-4 noja tyohAra hI nahIM vyatIta kara sako haiN| ina zIghra ho 'khalane vAlI kusuma katimA para vidhavA pana kA tuSAra paTaka diyA gayA hai| ina bAiyA ke suhAgapo mukuTa ke maNi ko durdeva kIna kara le gayA hai / ghar3I bhara pahale inako 'suhAgana' kahA jAtA thad lekina ghar3I bhara 6Ada hI niI mamAja ne isa vakaSa ko chInA liyA; aba inako hatyArino caMDAlinI aura pati bhakSakA Adi nAmI se pukArA jAtA hai| bhaya mAMgalika prasaMgoM para ina bAiyoM kA mukha dekhanA bho apazakuna mAnA jAtA hai / inake priya vastrAbhUpaNa chIna kara unheM phaTe TUTe maile kucaile kapar3e pahanane ko de diye gaye haiM

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hAsya pilAsa aura tamAma manoraMjana ko sAmagriyAM inake liye manA hai| icchA na hote hue bhI barSa bhara meM inako dama bosa upavAsa karane par3ate haiN| aba inake samasta adhikArA kA haraNa ho cukA hai| na to pIhara ho meM ina bicAriyoM kI kucha kadara hai aura na susarAla ho meM ina prabhAginI ko kucha ijjata hai ! mAnI aba to ina vivAriyoM kA jIvana kucha jIvana hI nahI hai| ghara ke bAla baccoM kA pAkhAnA sApha karanA, jhADU buhArA karanA, gAya bhaiMsa bAMdha denA, ghara bhara ke jUThe baratana mAMjanA tathA sAsu sasura, devara devarAnI, jeTha jeThAnI, ar3osI par3oso ko gAliyAM aura jhir3akiyAM sunanA aura ina sabake muAbaje meM khAne ko bAso roTI aura sar3I busI sAga pAlenA mAtra hI inakA kAma raha gayA hai| vivArI ye donA honA vidhavAe apane jIvana ke samasta prAnanda, yodhana kI samasta vibhUti zrIra hRdaya ko samasta icchAe sadava ke liye samAjake mukhiyA paTela caurdhAgyA kI krUra balivedI para bheMTa kara cukI hai aura Aja ve apanI dagdha pAho se isa hindU samAja ko bure 2 zApa de rahI haiN| inameM se bahuta sI yuvatI vidhavAe to bar3e zaharoM meM apane makAnoM ke jharokhA meM baiTha kara apane saundarya aura manItva ko bAjAra vastuoM ke samAna bacane ko majabUra huI hai aura bahuta so vidhavA aisI bhI haiM jo apane paMca paramezvarA aura hatyAre mAM bApa ko roto huI apanI rAtrI karavaTeM badala 2 kara aura prakAza ke tAre gina 2 kara vyatIta kara rahI haiM / saikaDA vidhavAe aimI hai jo kaI prakAra ke pralobhano ke bazomUta hokara tathA apanI kAmecchAdhA ko roka sakane meM asamartha hone se loka lAja ke kAraNa dina rAta garbhapAna aura bhrUNa hatyAe karatI huI samAja ko kalaMkita kara rahI hai| hajAroM vidhavAeM jagaha 2 aisI bhI haiM / jo vidharmiyoM tathA anyAnya jAtiyoM ke ghara basA 2 kara apanI kokha se hamArI ho jar3a kATane vAlI saMtAne paidA kara rahI haiN| saikar3oM jagaha devara bhojAI aura

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( 4 ) sasura bahU ke bahuta bure 2 kisse bhI sunAI par3ate haiN| yahAM taka bho sunA jAtA hai ki kaI yuvatI vidhavA mAtAeM apane dattaka putroM se anucita sambandha rakhatA haiN| isa vRddha vivAha kI kurIti se deza meM kanyA kraya-vikaya to bahuta hI cala par3A hai| dhanI loga to 50 varSa kI umra taka pahuMca cukane para bhI vivAha kI icchA rakhate haiM aura apanI icchA ko saphala karane ke liye tIna tIna aura cAra cAra zAdiyAM kara cukate hai| pati ke marate hI vidhavAoM ko jo durdazA hotI hai usakA thor3A sA citra Upara khIMcA gayA hai| isake viparIta patnI ke marane para vidhu [raMDavoM ] ke kAranAmeM bhI kisI se chipe huye nahIM hai / strI ke marane para smazAna hI meM sagAiyoM kI caracA calane laga jAtI hai / lar3akI ke bApa ko dene ke liye thailiyoM ke mUMha khula jAte, hai, apanI umra kama dikhalAna ke liye rupayoM ke z2ora se brAhmaNa davatA jI kI nakalI janma patrikA taiyAra karane laga jAte hai| raMDave jI yA tova taka do do mahInoM meM hajAmata banavAte the lekina aba to dusare tIsare dina hI ustarA phirAyA jAtA hai| mUMcheM bhI khasa khasI karAjI jAtI haiM z2arUrata huI to bar3hiyA khijAva bhI lagAyA jAtA hai| kyA kahiye aba to z2amIna meM gar3e huye z2evara bhI nikAla 2 kara pahane jAte hai: garja yaha ki raMDava sAhaba hara taraha se apanA rUpa raMga aura dhana daulata batalAne meM lage rahate haiM aura kisI na kisI taraha kisI choTI sI bAlikA se zAdI karake usake bhAvI suhAga para apanI nIca kAma vAsanA kA khaMjara jhoMka dete haiM / prakRti ke niyamAnusAra lar3ake aura lar3akI barAbara hI paidA hote haiM lekina aisI dazA meM jaba eka puruSa marate 2 bhI tIsarI aura cauthI zAdI kara letA hai yAnI eka puruSa tIna 2 aura cAra 2 lar3akiyoM ko apanI arddhAGginIyAM vanA letA hai to udhara lar3akiyoM kI kamI par3a jAtI hai| isa taraha kuMvAre

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yuvakoM kI saMkhyA bar3hatI hai| yaha bhI koI mAnana ke liye taiyAra nahIM hogA kisAre hI kuvAra brahmacArA bane raha kara zAnti ke sAtha apanA jIvana vyatIta karate hoM / bhastu ! ye loga bhI kaI kisma ke pApAcAra raMcakara samAja meM azAnti kA bIja vapana kara rahe haiN| isa taraha samAja kA patana hI patana najara mArahA hai| isa para yadi vicAra kiyA jAvegA to isa patana kI samasta jimmedAriyAM isa nirdayI puruSa jAti ke hI Upara hai| prakRti kA niyama hai ki manuSya jAti ke sAmane jisa prakAra kA Adarza rakhA jAvegA usI prakAra usake hRdaya meM bhAvoM kI utpatti hogii| jaba ki yaha nirlajja puruSa samAja apanI 40/40 aura 5050 balki kaI maratavA isase bhI adhika 6060 varSa kI prAyumeM apanI pAzavika kAmecchAryo ko pUrNa karane ke liya nirdayI hokara 1010 aura 12 // 12 varSa kI sukumAra ghora abodha bAlikAmoM ke sAtha vivAha karaka ghara para Ate hI vahuta jalda 'rAtI jagA' [ekAnta vAsa] karane meM vyAkuna humA rahatA hai to yaha samajha meM nahIM AtA ki use choTI 2 umra meM hojAne vAlI bAla vidhavAoM ko jabarana sanyAsinIyAM banAkara janma bhara ke niya unase kaThina saMyama ke pAlana kI prAzA rakhane kA adhikAra hI kase ho sakatA hai ? pavitra nArI jAti ke sAmana isa nirlajja puruSa samAja kA kaisA nindanIya aura ghRNita zrAdarza hai| ghara meM eka 15 20 varSa kI yuvata: vidhavA putra badhU kAlI sAr3I noMda kara aura cUr3iyAM phor3hakara sanyAsinI banI beTI hai takina 50 varSa ke sulaga jI thaliyoM ke jora se eka 12 varSa kI baccI ko bandinI banAkara raMga bhavana meM suhAga kI rAta manAte haiN| ghara meM eka 10 varSa kI choTI bahina durbhAgya se raMDApe kI gata kATa rahI hai lekina maujAI ke mAna para 30-35 varSa kI umra meM bar3e dAdA bhAI to tIsarI zAdI kara hI lAte hai Aja tIja kA tyauhAra camar3I ke jaTaka jAne para bhI pacAsa 2

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varSa kI DAkariyAM solaha zRMgArakarato haiM aura dina meM chattIsa martavA kAMca dekha 2 kara camakAlI TikiyAM lagAtI hai, yAMvale nevarI ko jhanakAra macAtA huI idhara udhara phudaka 2 kara uThatI baiThatI hai, meMhadI sa apane hAtha pAMva racAtI hai, mastaka ko goTA aura leMsa Adi se sajAtI hai, phUladAra kAMcalI pahanatI hai, itra meM sanI huI bahuta bar3hiyA pozAka se apana zrApa kI sajAtI haiM aura rAta ko chata para dapta bIsa striyoM meM baiThakara gahare zRMgAra rasa ke gIta gAtI haiN| kucha hI dera bAda bAjAra se bar3ha lakhada pati ke miThAI lekara Ate hI vaha raMgIlI sajIlI bur3hiyA cupake se dahane dAkhila ho jAtI hai, lekina vaha AkAza kA paTakI bhora dharatI kI jheLI huI abhAginI vidhavA putra dhR isa hindU samAja ko gAliyAM dekara phaTI huI caTAI para jA par3atI hai| usa vicArI kA samasta sukha aura samasta mAnanda hamezA ke liye isa saMsAra se uTa gayA hai| hA! phaM ka kara pAMva rakhate huye bhI usakA sa kara bolanA aura bhUla kara kamI 2 acchI sI cIz2a khAne pIne yA pahanane Adana ke liye mAMga lenA mA sandeha kI dRSTi se dekhA jAtA hai| kesA pAzavika dRSya hai| isameM koI zaka nahIM ki nArI jAti para hone vAle puruSa jAti ke atyAcAra eka nippakSa jaja ke ijalAsa meM bilakula bhI kSamA karane ke yogya nahIM hai| agara vAstava meM koI Izvara nAma kI zaki isa duniyAM meM hai mauraM vaha zakti niSpakSa hokara strI banAma puruSa ke mukrama ko samApta karane meM dilacaspI legI to use nissaMdehapuruSa jAtiko eka dama phrarda jurma sunAkara sakhta se sakhta sajA kA phaisalA sunAnA pdd'egaa| vicArI vidhavAe~ prakhaNDa sanyAsa kI mUrtiyAM bana kara apane cAritra ko prAdarza evaM nirmala rakhatI huI cupacApa baiThI rahanA cAhatI

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(7) haiM parantu yaha puruSa samAja isa para bhI saMtuSTa nahIM hotA / yaha ina deviyoM ko zrAdarza se girAne ke liye kaI prakAra ke pralobhanoM ko sAtha meM liye phiratA hai| hA ! kahate hue hRdaya ko bar3A duHkha hotA hai ki isa puruSa jAtine hI hamAre samAja mandira ko grAma saba taraha se vyabhicAra aura atyAcAra ko kutsita lIlAmoM kA ar3A banA rakhA hai| aisI haz2AroM najAre dekhI gaI haiM ki loga kaI prakAra ke pralobhanadekara vidhavAnoM ke sAtha apanA anucita sambandha jor3a kara una ke satItva ko naSTa kara baiThate haiN| vicArI bholI bhAlI vidhavAeM bhI unake jAla meM phaMsa kara una kI premikA vana jAtI hai| jaba saMyoga se una ke garbha raha jAtA hai to ve loga apane ko badanAmo se bacAne ke liye pahale to usa kA garbha giravAne kA kozIza meM rahate haiM aura jahAM taka ho sakatA hai dasa bIsa rupayA khaca kara ke usa kA garbhapAta karavA hI dete haiN| yadi kabhI 2isa meM ve saphala na ho sake to dusaro kozIza unakI yaha rahatI hai ki vaha vidhavA strI kahIM merA nAma najede varanA jAti bAhara honA pdd'egaa| paMcoM ke bulAkara pUchane para koI striyAM to usa puruSa para prAyandA apanA tathA hone bAle bacce kA bharaNa poSaNa hote rahane kA dAbA rakhane ke liye apanA saccA hAla prakaTa kara detI hai aura koI 2 striyAM isa kradara bhajI mAnuSa hotI haiM ki vaha apane premI ko jAti daNDa va lokika tiraskAra sa bacAne ke liye sArA aparAdha apane hI Upara lekara usakA nAma prakaTa nahIM karatI / pasa vaha puruSa to usa vidhA ke garbha dhAraNa hote hI usase aba kosa bhara dara rahane laga jAtA hai aura usesa kisI kisma ke duHkha sukha kI pUchatAchakA nAma bhI nahIM letaa| yA to vaha puruSa dina meM dasa dasa maratabA usake ghara usake pAMva ke talave cATane ke liye jAyA karatA thA lekina aba to vaha usa galI kI tarapha muMha karake bho nahIM jhAMkatA / striyAM pragara saccAhAla prakaTa karake usa puruSa kA

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nAma bhI le deM to vaha puruSa to jAti meM badastUra banA rahane ke liye kabhI bhI apanA aparAdha svIkAra karane ko taiyAra nahIM hotaa| kucha bhI ho, jisa prakAra dudha meM se makkhI nikAla kara mAhara pheMkadI jAtI hai usI taraha vaha strI to phaurana hI jAti meM se sardava ke liye nikAla dI jAtI hai / puruSa miyAM to sirpha 2-4 geja jAtika bAhara rahate hai / vaha hajarata to zIghra hI paMcoM kI zrAkSAnusAra kisI dharmAcArya jI kI vyavasthA likhA lAkara tathA usake anusAra eka do upavAsa karake yA gaumUtrAdi pIkara athavA kahIM najadIqa ko tIrthayAtrA karake aura paMcoM ko kucha tarAvaTa mAla khilAkara pIcha mI jAti meM zrAbeTate hai aura badastUra apanA vyavahAra calAne lagate hai / lekina usa strI kA uddhAra karane ka liMya tarana tArana kahAne vAla paMca paramadevaroM ke pAsa koI niyama nahIM hai| svArthI puruSa samAja ne apane subhIta ke liye sava kucha niyama banA rakhe hai, lekina vicArI bhavalA samAja kI tarapha to vaha apanI phUTI prAMkha se bhI nahIM dekhanA cAhatA / vaha to kevala apanI zvAnavat nIca kAma vAsanA kI tRpti ke samaya hI usake sAmane hAtha jor3a khar3A rahane ko saMyAra rahatA hai| aba vaha patitA kahIjAnevAlI strI java kahIM bhI rakSA tathA udara pAlana kA jariyA nahIM pAtI hai aura na birAdarI ke loga hI usakA uddhAra karane ko taiyAra hote haiM to aisI dazA meM naha avazya hI adhikAdhika gira jAto hai, vezyA bana jAtI hai tathA vidharmiyoM ke gharoM meM baiTha kara apanI gau rakSaka kukSi se gau bhakSaka vidhI saMtAne paidA karane laga jAtI hai / yahI strI apane sAtha do cAra ko bhora bhI le jAtI hai aura jyoM 2 usako avasara milatA hai tyo tyoM vaha apanA FmudAya aura hama jola bar3hAtI rahatI hai pesI eka do nahIM, so do sau aura hajAra do haz2Ara nahIM, balika jAstrona jIre hai aura saba jAnate haiN| susarAla meM to ina prabhA

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( 2 ) ginIyoM kI pUMcha usI dina taka rahatI hai jaba taka ki kamAI karake khilAne vAle unake pati deva jIvita rahate haiN| udhara pIhara meM bhI unakI ijjata usI avasthA taka thI jaba ki unase zAdI karane ke ummedavAra dUra 2 ke bUr3he haz2AroM kI thailiyAM lela kara AyA karate the / jahAM taka ye nirdhana aura bebasa bahine, sadAcAriNIyAM bana kara samAja meM baiThI rahatI hai taba taka to yaha pApI puruSa samAja unakI rakSA ke liye phUTI kaur3I bhI dene ko taiyAra nahIM hotA lekina jaba yI vidhavA bahU beTiyAM vyabhicAriNIyAM ho kara aura apane satItva se gira kara vezyAe~ bana jAtI hai to phaurana hI unakI zAdI ke jamoM meM bulA kara unake liye thailiyoM kA muMha khola diyA jAtA hai| vUr3he ke sAtha lagna racAkara dharma ke sevaka banane vAle brAhmaNa devatA bhI prAjake dina na mAluma kahAM muMha chipAye rahate haiM | kaisA ghRNAspada vyavahAra hai ? samAja sudhAra kA prazna uThate hI dharma ke ThekedAra dharma kI duhAiyAM dene laga jAte he / dina rAta hajAroM hindu vidhavAda hindu samAja meM se nikala 2 kara vighavana rahI hU~ lekina svArtha ke sAMce meM Dhale hue kIDoM ne isa khuda garajI ko chor3a kara tathA apane hRdaya kI cIra kara nahIM dekhaa| dharma kI thothI duhAI dene vAle dharmacAryoM aura cikane cupar3e bane rahane vAle sapheda poza yugale bhakta pApAcAryo ! isa samAja kI hAlata para aba to kucha tarasa lAbho / dharma zAstroM ke sUtoM ko pahacAnoM / dharma zAstra to hamezA dravya kSetra, kAla aura bhAva ke anusAra calane kI AjJA dete hai 1 'samAja aura jAti ke mukhiyA logoM ! tuma kisa ghAra nidrA meM soye hA ? jarA AMkheM to khola kara dekho tumArI jAti kisa durAvasthA ko prApta ho rahI hai / sATa 2 sAla ke buDDhe bAvAjI to 16

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( 10 ) putra pautra hote hue bhI apane kAma bhoga kI tRSNA ko bujhAne ke liye paka sukumArI kanyA se vivAha kara sakate haiN| parantu kitanA anyAya hai, kitanA atyAcAra hai ki samAja una ayodha bhaura nirdoSa bAla vidhavAoM ke prArtanAda kI aura jarA bhI dhyAna nahIM detA hai / buDDhe khusaTa hokara bhI jaba tumhArA vitta viSaya bAsanAnoM kI aura dauDatA hai to kyA tuma samajhate ho ki 15-20 varSa kI ve ayodha taraNiyAM jo prapana kuTumsa ke anya saba strI puruSoM ko sAMsArika bhoga vilAsoM meM nitya prAsakta dekhatI haiM, apane caMcala citta ko kAma rakha saktI haiM ? kyAunakA dilanahIM cAhatA ki ye bhI tumhArI narai mundara vastrAbhUSaNoM ko grahaNa kareM, svAdiSTa padArthoM ko khAyeM, aura anya sAMsArika vastuoM kA upabhoga kare, evaM prAkRtika kAmanAoM ko yathA zakti tRpta kara ?" vidhavAno kI isa durdazA aura hinda jAti ke gahare hAsa ko dastra kara deza ke mudhArakoM ne eka sthara se vidhavA vivAha kI prathA ko apanAne kA Adeza kiyA hai| aura vAstava meM isa marz2a kI yahI TavA ho sakatI hai| lekina kheda hai ki abhI bahuta se loga isa prathA ma sahamata hote hue bhI ' vidhavA vivAha' ke nAma ko samAja ke sAmane rakhate hue ghabarAte haiN| pyAre vIra, samAja sudhAra ko ! vidhavAoM kI bhayaMkara cIna ne isa jar3a prAmAza kI guMjAyamAna kara diyA hai| yadi isa samAja kI ratA hI maMjUra hai to aba apane hRdaya ke bhAvoM ko chipAte rahane kA samaya nahIM rahA hai / hindustAna meM sudhAra kA kArya isI liye rukA hudhA hai ki loga apane vicAroM ko davAye huye haiM, yaha yAda rakhanA ki jo apane vicAroM ko dabAtA hai vaha apanI prAtmA kA x 'nara ho ki nara pizAca 'zIrSaka eka hasta patraka se /

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( 11 ) bhaba khUna karatA hai / vidhavA vivAha ke mizana kA kAma aba vahuta jora se calanA cAhiye ! isa mizana ko kriyAtmaka banAnA par3egA aura isa prathA kA pracAra bahuta tejI ke sAtha karanA par3egA aba yaha viSaya kisI bhI taraha TAla dene yogya nahIM rahA hai / jyaoN 2 isameM Dhola kI jA rahI hai tyo 2 hI hamAre sarva nAza kA samaya nikaTa AtA jAtA hai / dharma ke nAma para zekhI mArane vAle IrSA ke putaloM ko cillone do, khUba gAliyAM dene do, gaharA virodha karana do lekina svayaM eka vIra sudhAraka kI taraha grAsAtmaka bhAvoM ke sAtha apanA kArya karate raho / virodha honA hI saphalatA kA cinha hai, yahI to saphalatA kI laharAtI huI patAkA hai / kisI ikta hue ko tirAnA aura girate hue ko uThAnA mahApuNya kArya hai aura isIdRSTi vindu se yaha vidhavA vivAha kA mizana dharma kA sthiti karaNa aMga hai / isameM dharma kI prabhAvanA ke tatva bhare hue haiN| isameM koI sandeha nahIM ki F - brahmacarya aura zIla ddI manuSya ke liye dharma kA zreSTa mArga hai / parantu acche aura bure kI tulanA karane meM apekSA naya eka pradhAna vastu hai / ataH garbhapAta aura bhrUNa hatyAe~ karane tathA vidharmiyoM ke ghara basA 2 kara apanI kutti se vidhI saMtAna paidA karane kI apekSA vidhavAoM ke liya vidhavA bibAha eka mahAna uttama aura dhArmika kArya hai / yadi isa mizana meM pAMca pIchA rakhA to isa hindU samAja kA mAtama manAne ke liye taiyAra ho jaaiye| yaha khUba yAda rakhane kI bAta hai ki jisa samAja ne paristhiti ke mahatva ko kI hai vaha isa saMsAra meM adhika nahIM Tika sakA hai| yadi yaha prathA pahale na thI to na sahI, prAcIna hone hI se kisI prathA meM sarva zreSThatA nahIM aatii| jo prathA Aja prAcAna ginI jAtI hai vaha eka dina avazya hI navIna thii| naya se nayA parivartana bhI yadi buddhi kI parIkSA meM saphala ho sakatA hai to vahI sarva bhraSTa hai yAja kI navIna, prathA kucha hI samaya pazcAt prAcInatA kA rUpa dhAraNa na samajha kara usakI upekSa kara legI

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( 12 ) aura taba phira usameM koI bhI bAta Apatti janaka na hogii| aba isa vidhavA vivAha ke virodha meM hone vAle prakSepoM kI ora kucha bhI dhyAna na dekara hameM apanI zakti ko isake pracAra meM lagA denA naahiye| dharma ke bane kA bahAnA lekara cillAne vAle loga bAstatra meka kArya nahIM haiM aura na unako samAja sudhAra ke prazna se hI kA dila pI | unase yaha to pUchiye ki Apane kahAM 2 maidAna meM jAkara vUDhoM se kanyAoM kI rakSA kI hai ? ni 2 vidhavAoM ke liye Apana mAsika vRttiyAM nikAla rakhI hai ? kauna sI vidhavAoM ke liye paMcAyatoM ne anna aura kapar3e kA prabandha kara rakhA hai ? do kiror3a aura bAraha lAkha hindu vidhavAoM ke liye ka 2 vidhavA Azvana kAyama kara rakhe haiM ? bUr3hoM kA vyAha rokane vAlI kauna sI saMsthAoM kA apane sahAyatA dI hai? samAja meM bIsa 2 aura pacIsa 2 varSa ke haz2AroM kuMvAra yuvaka binA vyAha apanA jIvana vyatIta kara rahe hai unakI zAdI ke liye kisa 2 ne kitamaH 2 prayatna kiyA hai? bUDhoM ke sAtha apanI choTa 2 kanyAoM ko vyAhane vAle mAtA pitAma ora choTo 2 paccitra ke sAtha vyAha karane vAle bUr3hoM ko Apane paMcAyata se kyA daNDa dilavAyA hai ? vivAha Adi mAMgalika prasaMgo parajAM bahuta sA rupayA mahAvyabhicAriNI aura kuzala racane vAlI bazyAoM kA nAca gAnA karAne meM kharca kara diyA jAtA hai vahAM kyA kabhI Apana dasa bIsa rupayA ina sadAcAriNI asahAyA aura dInA chInA vidhavA ke prati pAlana meM bhI sahAyatA rUpa meM diyA hai ? pasa uttara meM sUkhA aura behUdA sA java ba mila jAtA hai / parantu ye loga isa viSaya para yuktipUrvaka vicArane ko kabhI taiyAra nahIM hote / balki ye dharma kA stambha banAne vAle to ulaTA vidhAvA kA mAla, cATane aura haDapane ko taiyAra rahate haiN| unake patiyo kA nukatA cATakara bAda meM kabhI bhI unakI sAra samhAla nahIM pUcho jaatii| hAM, vezaka pragara unake pAsa kucha paisA huA to usako

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( 13 ) haDapane ke liye giddha ko so najara lagAye rahate haiM inase toyamerikA zrIra yurupa ke ve IsAI acche haiM jo prati varSa karor3oM rupayA ikaTThA kAka hindustAna meM bhejate haiM . aura ina nigarAdhAra vidhavAoM ko khAne . liye anna aura pahanane ke liye kapaDA dete haiM . cAhe ve kisI uddezya se aisA karate ho parantu unake isa dagA dharma ke mAge hamAre dayA dharma ko bolane ke liye kucha gujAyaza nahIM hai * bandhunA ! samAja ko ina niraparAdha vidhavAnoM ko durdazA sudhAranA aura isa hinda jAti kohAsa se bacAnA agara majUra he to vidhavA vivAha kI prathA kA svIkAra karanA par3egA aura jitanA jaldI ho sake utanA hI jaldI isako kriyAtmaka ( Practical ) banAnA pdd'egaa| isa eka prathA ke cala jAne se kaI kisma kI kunathApa eka dama ruka jAvegI . kanyA-kraya-vikraya kI kuprathA , nAza ho jAvegA , pacAsa 2 varSa ko umra meM pahuMca kara bhI apano tandurasto zAdI karane ke yogya batalAna vAle bUr3hA ke liye unake yogya vidhavAe milane laga jAgo to kucAge nyAo kA jIvana naSTa nahIM hogA / vidhurA kA vidhavAzrI se vivAha hone laga jAvegA to kanyAmA kI 'kamI kA savAla hala hojAne se saba sambandha yogya hone laga jAyeMge aura vicAre samAja ke sAMDa kahAne vAle kvAroM ka ghara vasane laga jAveMge vidhavAzrA kA pApamaya jIvana zAnti maya he| jaavegaa| kuvArI kanyAzrI kA vyAha unhoM ke yogya acche aura kaMvAre laDakI se ho sakegA / vyabhigara aura durAcAra, garbha pAta aura mRNa hatyAoM se jo yaha samAja kalakata ho rahA hai vaha bho ruka jAvegA . raMDavoM ko tona tona aura gara cAra maratayA zAdiyAM karane meM jo vAra 2 bahuta rupayA kharca karanA par3atA hai, vaha na karanA par3egA hamArA samAja ko mUla jo ye vidhavA ramaNiyAM, jo hamAre atyAcAroM se ghabarA kara vidharmiyoM ke ghara basAne ko bAdhita

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ho jAtI haiM yaha badastUra samAja meM bano rahemo . jisa hindU jAti kA Aja tejI se hAsa ho rahA hai usakA saumAgya sUrya zIghra hI udaya ho jAyegA . bhalA ho, samAja sudhAra ke kaTara pakSapAtI, suprasiddha samAja sudhAraka ziromaNi sva* Izvara candra vidyAsAgara ko prAtmA kA ki jo baDo mustaidI ke sAtha bhArata sarakAra se vidhavA vivAha kA kAnUna (ekTa naM0 15 saM0 1856 I0 ) ma jUra karA gaye hai| vidhavA vivAha ke virodha meM, vidhavA se vivAha karane vAle puruSa ko, apanA punarvivAha karane vAlo vidhavA ko tathA isa zubha kArya meM sahAyaka hone vAloM ko koI jAtIya daNDa nahIM diyA jA sktaa| balki jo paMca yA mukhiyA vidhavA vivAha ke virodha meM aise logoM ko jAti bAhara kara dete haiM va gaja se daNDa kaM bhAgo banate haiN| meraTha / meM eka vidhavA vivAha ke samaya brAhmaNa jAtike paTela caudhariyoM ne eka paMcAyata karakaM lagabhaga Der3ha saMpAdamiyAMko ekatrita kiyA aura punarvivAha karane vAlI vidhavA putrI ke pitA paM0 rAdhelAla aura unake sahAyaka paM0 ghAsIrAma ko jAti vAhara karake unakA jAtoya vyavahAra baMda kara diyaa| donA bahiNata paMDitA ne spezala majisTara, meraTha ko adAlata meM bigadarI ke paTela caudhariyA ke khilApha daphA 500 hAjI rAta hinda (Feet3011500, Indian penal codle) ke anusAra alaga 2 muqadame dAyara kara diye / lekina bahuna vicAra ke bAda spezala majisTeTa sAhaba ne tA0 3 sitambara 201618 ko donoM mukaddamA meM phariyAdiyoM ko birAdarI ke eka mukhiyA para 300) aura dUsare donA mukhiyAmAM para 200) 200) rupayA juramAne kA hukma diyA / juramAnA adA na karane kI hAlata meM eka hajarata ko cAra mahone ko bhaaura dUsaroM ko tIna 2 mAsa kI kaida kA Adeza kiyaa| aparAdhiyoM ne spezala majisTeTa ke isa phaisale se ruSTa hokara

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ilAhAbAda ke prasiddha vakola misTara satyacandra mukarajo ko sahAyatA se sezana jaja, meraTha kI adAlata meM apIla ko lekina vidvAna aja ne apane 20 navambara san 1918 ke phaisale meM adAlata mAtahata ko tajavIja bahAla rakhI / aparAdhiyoM ne phira hAI korTa, ilAhAbAda meM nigarAnI ke liye prArthanA kI, lekina yaha nigarAnI bho zrIyuta mA~narebala misTara TI. sI. paMgaTa, cIpha jasTisa hAI korTa ilAhAbAda ne tA0 28 mArca san 1918 ko khArija krdii| isase sApha jAhira hai ki vidhavA vivAha kAnUna se bhI jAyaz2a hai / ataH kisI ko bhI yaha dussAhasa na honA cAhiye ki yo ho manamAnI paMcAyateM kara ke kisI puruSa ko jo aise zubha kArya meM sahAyaka hotA hai, birAdarI se bAhara karane kI dhamakI de athavA usako nindA yA apamAna kre| dhanya hai, paMjAva ke usa vora samAja sadhAraka vaizya raIsa sara gaMgA rAma agravAla, rAya vahAdura, ka. TI. sI. AI., I.ema.bo.o. ko ki jisane lAhaura meM vidhavA vivAha sahAyaka sabhA sthApita karake hindU jAti ko isa ghora patana se bacAne kA bIr3A hAtha meM liyA hai| isa sabhA kI ora se hindustAna kI brAhmaNa, kSatriya vaizya aura anyAnya AtiyoM meM hajAroM vidhaSA vivAha ho cuke haiM tathA bar3I tejI se ho rahe haiM aura jagaha 2 prAntoM meM vidhavA vivAha ke pracAra kI zAkhA sabhAeM bhI sthApita hotI jA rahI hai / imeM jahAM taka mAlUma humA hai, dayA premI sara gaMgArAma sAhaba ne isake pracAra ke liye laga bhaga 15-20 hajAra rupayAsAlAnA AmadanI kI acchI jAyadAda nikAla rakhI hai|

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mAsA dharma ke mAnane vAle vaiSNava aura jainI bhAiyoM! zravaSI pApa ho cukA hai| yadi isa pApa ke aparAdha se bacanA cAhate ho to apanI ra samAja meM vidhavA vivAha jArI karake apane pApoM kA prAya zcita kara ddaalo| noTa:-sa TrakTa meM jahAM hindU vidhavAoM kI saMkhyA batalAI hai usameM sanAtana dhamA jainI, Arya samAjI, sikkha, brahmasamAjI aura bauddha vidhavAnoM kI saMsyA bhI zAmila hai jo hindU mahAsabhA ke niyamAnusAra hinda jAti hai| meM mAne gaye haiN| lekhaka zAnti ! zAnti !! zAnti !!! dAmodara presa, rAvatapAr3A praagr|

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jaina samAja kA saubhAgya / vidhavAoM kI saMkhyA jisa kadara ahiMsA dhanuyAyI jaina samAja meM hai utanI hindustAna kI kisI jAti meM nahIM pAyI jAtI / jahA~ sanAtana dharmiyoM meM prati saikar3A 19.1, AryamamAjiyoM meM 14.9 udma sama jiyoM meM 12.8, sivanoM meM 13.5 aura bauddhoM meM 11.5 vidhavA hai vahA jaina samAja meM 25.5 vidhavAeM hai| jaina samAja ke liye yaha bagna hI socane kI bAta hai| lekina yaha bar3I prasannatA kI bAta hai ki dravya, kSetra, kAla aura bhAra ke pArakhI mubAra janA mAhiyoM ne ina vivAoM kI durdazA para dayA lAkara aba vidhavA vivAha sahAyaka sabhAyeM sthApita karanA zuru kara diyA hai / yaha bhA, saMtoSa kI bAta hai ki jaina samAja meM jagaha jagaha isa prathA kI a vazyaktA ko anubhava me lAne vAle dhAra sudhAraka paidA hote jA rahe / jo jenI bhAI apane vidhuH laha aura vidhavA putriyoM kA aisA sambandha karanA cAhe unako nIce ligve poM para patra vyavahAra karanA cAhiye:---- (1) zrIyuta yA phUlacanda jaina, maMtrI, jaina vidhavA vivAha ra hAyaka sabhA motIkaTarA, AgarA (2060) (2) zrIyuta masTara cimmanalAla jaina, riTAyaI iMTezana mAsTara upamaMtrI, jana bAla vidhavA vivaha sahAyaka sabhA galI pa.palavAlI, dharmapurA, deilI hamAra jainI bhAiyoM ko cAhiye ki ve apanI vidhavA bahana moTiyoM kA duHkha nivAraNa kara ke una vivAha karArdai / emaya jIvana vyatIta karane aura karAne kI apekSa, zAntimaya jIvana vyatIna karanA aura karAnA hI jaina dharma kA murUma siddhAta hai / / nivedaka- motIlAla pahADyA jaina, kunaadd'ii|

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gucha upayogI TrekTa (1) mahAga 262 vibhAna-- [3) ru0 saikar3A] ......, (2)ticA jo kAtika dujA- 2) ru0 saikar3A] ......... Sil (3. vizyA vivAda ... . ....[3, ru. saikar3A ] .......... 1) sanI mata .... ... ... [5)6. saiMkar3A ] .... ( IyoM kA ca... . . .. { 2 // ) ru0 saiMkA] ...... // { madA kA sakhA kodavI ........................ 1) milA kA patA ...... yahADyA (kunAr3I) sekreTarI, ghazya sunAraka maMDala, koTA po koTA (rAjapUmAna)

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TraikTa naM0 16 jaina jagata ke isI aGkakA koI patra vidhavA-vivAha prakAza lekhakaraghuvIrazaraNa jaina amarohA -- --- ---- kATAkATakara prakAzaka-- jaina bAlavidhavA vivAha sahAyaka sabhA darIbA kalAM dhlii| SSSS mulya prathamaghAra 2000 * vIra ni0 sambat 2458 ) ) - ---- vikToriyA krAsa presa, dariyAgaMja dehlii|

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mitroM' "vidhavAvivAha" ke virodhI mitroM se namra nivedana zrApa jo vidhavAvivAha" ko burA samajhate haiM, aura samAja sudhAraka isa zubha kArya meM antarAya DAlakara vyathe Apake bhAgI banate hai isakA mujhe atyanta se adhika duHkha hai| kyA Apa mujhe AjJA deMge ki maiM vivAvivAda" kA kucha rahasya dikhalAU~ ? yadi hAM to lIjiye - SALI maiM Apake caraNakamalAM meM yaha "vidhavAvivAha prakAza" nAmaka TreTa bheTa karatA huuN| sAtha hI nivedana hai ki Apa isa para dila vicAra kreN| mujhe AzA hai ki isa para freeaar se vicAra karane para Apako "vidhavA vivAha" kA kucha rahasya jhalaka jAyagA aura Apa apane ko hitamArga para lagA kara apanA kalyANa kreNge| bhAvanA hai ki ApakA kalyANa hA / - lekhaka,

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* vidhavA vivAha prakAza *** * yaha bAta sarva para pragaTa hai ki aAjakala 'vidhavAvivAha" kI carcA dezavyApI hotI A rahI hai| eka samaya vaha thA jaba ki loga "vidhavA vivAha" ko mahA pAtaka samajhate the, aura isake nAma mAtra se kAMpate the; parantu aba vaha samaya nahIM rahA hai, saba isakI AvazyakatA kA anubhava kara rahe haiM, yahAM taka ki sudhAra mArgameM sabase pIche rahane vAle sanAtana dharmI va jaina dharmI bar3e bar3e vidvAna gha netA bhI isake pracAra meM tana mana dhana se agrasara haiN| jainasamAja meM bhI kucha samaya meM yaha carcA cala rahI hai| katipaya rur3hidAsa isakA virodha karate haiM aura isake samarthakoM va pracArakoM ko kosa 2 kara samAja ko bhar3akAne kA prayatna karate haiM; parantu unakA virodha sabhya aura zikSita samAja kI dRSTi meM kucha mUlya nahIM rkhtaa| durbhAgya meM ve abhI taka mithyAtva ke udaya se "vidhavA vivAha" ke rahasya ko nahIM samajha pAye haiM, ve rur3hiyoM ko hI dharma mAna baiThe haiM yahI kAraNa hai ki ve "vidhavA vivAha" ko pApa kaha kara vyartha hI pApa ke bhAgI banate haiN| "khaira ? saubhAgya se jainasamAja ko "sanAtana jaina (vardhA ) va" "jaina jagata (ajamera)" patroM kA darzana hotA rahatA hai jinameM pUjya brazItalaprasAda jI va sAhitya

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( 3 ) likha rahA huuN| bar3e 2 vidvAnoM ke bIca meM mujha jaise kSudra vyakti kA par3anA dhRSTatA hI hai, parantu kyA kiyA jAya, samaya aisA zrAgayA hai ki cupakI sAdhanA bhI eka bar3e sAhasa kA kAma hai / maiM vidvAna nahIM hU~, parantu thor3A sA avazya par3hA huA hU~ / satya kA pujArI hU~. jo bAta vuddhikI kasauTI para ThIka utaratI hai use apanAtA huuN| maiM apane meM galatiyoM kA honA svIkAra karatA hU~, parantu jabataka vaha galatI saMyukti rItisa mere sAmana na lAI jAya, taba taka maiM use svIkAra nahIM kara sakatA / dharmAyoM, pralobhanoM sAmAjikadaMDa va sabhAoM ke kAraNa apanI bAta ko, jise maiM satya samajhatA hU~, vApisa lenA merI zakti se bAhara hai| pAThakoM se saprema nivedana hai ki ve mere lekha para zAMti se vicAra kareM aura asatya kI tilAMjalI dekara satyako apanAveM / 1. vidhavA vivAha vyabhicAra nahI hai / hamAre virodhI mitra "vidhavA vivAha ko vyabhicAra batalAte haiM, ve kahate hai ki "vidhavA vivAha" se vyabhicAra kI nivRtti nahIM hosktii| yahAM maiM pahile yahI vicAra karU~gA ki unakA yaha kahanA kahAM taka satya hai : vyabhicAra kA lakSaNa zAstrakAroM ne yaha batalAyA hai:'nijaM vihAya paraMNatyAkaM bhogattvaM vyabhicAratvaM' arthAta- apane pati ko chor3a kara anya ke sAtha viSaya sevana karanA vyabhicAra hai / " jisake sAtha niyamAnusAra vivAha huA ho vahI svapuruSa yA svastrI hai| aura jisake sAtha niyamAnusAra vivAha na huA ho vahI parapuruSa yA parastrI hai|

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( 2 ) ratna paM0 daravArIlAla jI "vidhavA vivAha" para prakAza DAlane rahate haiM; parantu phira bhI jainasamAjameM "vidhavA vivAha " ke virodhI loga maujUda haiM, isa bAtakA mujhe atyanta zrAzvarya gveda hai| nimitta tAM prathala haiM parantu jJAnAvargIya karma ke parde ne unakI jJAna-zakti ko itanA hIna banA diyA hai ki ve unase kucha lAbha nahIM uThA sake haiM! kheda ! mahA veda !! "vidhavA vivAha" ke virodhiyoM ko isakA nAma mAtra bhayaMkara hai| unake liye "vidhavAvivAha" ThIka aisA hI hai jaisA ki gIdar3a ke liye siNh| unhI meM ke eka pratiSThita mahAzaya "vidhavA vivAha" para apane likhita vyAkhyAna ke prArambha meM fafter zabda kahate haiM, jinase pAThaka anumAna kara sakate hai ki Apako "vidhavA vivAha" kitanA bhayaMkara hai: "sajano ! zrAja jisa viSaya meM sabhApati mahodaya ne mujhako vyAkhyAna dene kI AjJA dI hai usa zabda ke nAma mAtra mujhe atyanta glAni aura pApa hone kI sambhAvanA haiM, parantu zrAjJA kA ulaMghana merI zakti se bAhara hai.... ******** | " aura kahate haiM isa "vidhavAvivAha" ke nAma mAtra se pApa hone kI sambhAvanA hai" bAharI buddhimattA (?) terI isa apUrva gur3ha philAsaphI / philosophy) ko samajhane meM bar3e bar3e buddhimAnoM kI buddhi bhI baMkAma haiN| pAThaka ApakI isa adbhuta philAsaphI para vicAra to kareM / merI rAya meM "vidhavA vivAha" pApa nahIM hai / isase dharma meM koI rukAvaTa va hAni nahIM ho sakatI, aura vartamAna avasthA ko dekhate hue to yaha 'atyanta se adhika Avazyaka hai| maiM isa lekha meM "vidhavA vivAha" para hI vicAra karU~gA / maiM pAThakoM ko vizvAsa dilAtA hU~ ki yaha lekha ucchRMkhalatA se yA kisI samAja va dala ko nIcA dikhAne ke liye nahIM

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isase jJAta hotA hai ki vivAha se do parapuruSa va parastrI, mvapuruSa va svAstrI hojAte haiN| yadi ve vivAha se pahile viSaya mayana kareM to yaha, unakA vyamivAra hogAH parantu yadi ve hI vivAha ke pazcAta viSaya mevana kareM to yaha, unakA vyabhicAra nahIM hogaa| isa taraha vivAha, vyabhicAra doSa ko apaharagA karane kA 'avyartha sAdhana hai| ___jI kumArI Aja parastrI hai, aura jo puruSa Aja parapuruSa hai, va hI vivAha hojAne para svapuruSa va svastrI hojAta haiM, naba jo vidhavA aAja parastrI hai aura jo puruSa Aja parapuruSa hai. ve vivAha ke bAda svarUpa va svastrI kyoM nahIM ho sakate? jabaki vivAha meM vyabhivAra doSaka AharaNa kI zakti hai aura kumAriyAM ke vizyameM isakA prayoga kiyA jAtA hai, to isakA prayoga vidhavAoM ka viSaya meM kyoM nahIM kiyA jA sakatA ? aura bhI dekhie - pUjya jainAcArya zrI svAmI akalaMka deva ne 'gajavArtika' meM vivAha kA lakSaNa isa prakAra batalAyA hai: "sadvedya cAritra mahodayAdvivahanaM vivAha" arthAta --"mAnAvedanIya aura cArikha moha ke udaya se strI puruSa kA eka damare ko svIkAra karanA vivAha hai" vivAha kA ho jAnA mAtA vedanIya kA phala hai; kyoMki imama asantoSI ko saMtApa ho jAtA hai| parantu vivAha karane kI tIvra icchA cAritra mAha ke udaya se hotI hai / vaMda nAma nokaSAya, kAma bhAvanA kA preraka hai| isa kaSAya ke udaya kA jora pratyeka strI puruSa kI huzrA karatA hai / basa jisa prakAra * vidhavA' zabda kA artha hai 'vigato dhavo yasyaH-arthAta jisakA dhava (puruSa) dRra hogayA (mara gyaaho|

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kumArI kA sAtAvedanIya va cAritra ke udaya se vivAha ho sakatA hai, usI prakAra vidhavA kA bhI, jisameM cAritramohake udaya se kAma kI tIvra icchA dhadhaka rahI hai, vivAha ho sakatA hai| isa prakAra hamAre virodhI mitra yaha pAlApa alApate haiM ki jaba strI ne eka pati banA liyA, taba vaha phira dUsarA pati kese banA sakatI hai ? isake uttara meM yaha kahanA hI kAphI hai ki jaba puruSa eka 2 do 2 patniyAM hone para bhI dUsarI patni banA letA hai to phira strI vidhavA hone para bhI arthAta koI pati na rakhate hue bhI dUsarA pati kyoM nahIM banA sakatI ? yadi yaha haTa kiyA jAya ki vidhavAoM ko to pUrNa brahmacarya pAlanA hI cAhiecAhe ve gaM 2 kara pAleM, cAheM khuzI meM pAle-tA yaha vizuddha atyAcAra hai| yadi kisI manuSya meM anupAna tyAga karane kI zakti nahIM hai, phira bhI usakI yaha zrAzA karanA ki tumheM to upavAsa karanA par3egA-cAhe ga 2 kara karA, cAhe rAjI se kage, to usake liye yaha vrata nahIM, daMDa hai / vrata vahI kahalAtA hai jo icchA yA ruci pUrvaka apanI zaktianusAra dhAraNa kiyA jAe / ataH vidhavAoM se, unameM zakti na hote hue bhI jabaradastI vaidhavya palavAnA unake liye vrata nahIM, balki daMDa hai| maiM vigaMdhI mitroM meM pUchatA hU~ ki yaha daMDa kisa aparAdha para unheM diyA jAtA hai ? kyA 'vidhavA ho jAnA' hI unakA aparAdha hai / hameM aisA koI kAraNa va adhikAra nahIM hai ki hama unameM jabaradastI vaidhavya plvaaeN| hamA virodhI mitra yaha bhI AkSepa karate haiM ki "sarvArtha siddhi" meM "kanyAdAnaM vivAhaH' esA kathana AyA hai| isake anusAra vidhavA kA vivAha kesa ho sakatA hai ? ataH vidhavA vivAha vyabhicAra hai ?

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yaha jo "sarvArtha siddhi" meM aisA kathana aAyA hai. sAmAnya rUpa meM hai| kyoMki pracAra meM jaba kabhI vivAha kA vicAra prAtA hai, usa samaya kumAra va kumArI ko hI saMyoga Adarza mAnA jAtA hai, imI bhAva meM sarvArtha siddhi" meM aisA kathana pAyA hai| "kanyAdAnavivAhaH isameM dAna kA artha rupaye paise denaM ke samAna nahIM hai, kintu 'mAtA pitA dvArA kisI yogyavara ke supurda kanyA kA kiyA jAnA hai' aisA artha hai| jise loga pracAra meM kanyAdAna kahate haiM, vaha vAstava meM vivAha hai jo yogya vara ke sAtha kiyA jAtA hai| yadi kanyA dAna kI vastu dAna ke samAna mAnA jAya, to vaha jo kanyAdAna rAtA hai, usI kanyA ko kisI dUsare ko desakatA hai / kyA yaha hamAra virodhI mitroM ko iSTa hogA? yadi "kanyAdAnaM vivAhaH" ke 'kanyA' zabda para sUnmatA se vicAra kiyA jAya. tI nayA hI rahasya dIkhatA hai / 'kanyA zabda kA artha kevala 'kumArI hI nahIM hai balki sAdhAraNa strI dekhiye-zrI vAmana zivarAma ApaTa apane saMskRtaaMgrejI koSa meM pRSTa 333 ke dusare kAlana meM kanyA zabda ke kaI artha dete haiM:1-An unmarrierl girl or laughter ( eka avivA hitA lar3akI yA putrI) A girl ten yeurs (okl. ( dasa varSa kI lar3akI) A virgili, maiden. ( akSata yAMni, yA, avivAhitA) A women in s, eneral. ( eka sAdhAraNa strI) nIce likhe zloka meM bhI 'kanyA' zabda sAdhAraNa strI ke liye prayukta nahIM huA hai:

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( 7 ) ahalyA, dropadI, tArA, kuMtI mandodarI, tathA / paMcakanyAH smarennitya mahApAtaka nAzanam / / yahAM pAMcoM striyAM vivAhitA tathA kSata yoni thIM, phira bhI unheM 'kanyA' kahA gayA hai| "padma purANa meM sugrIvakI strI sutAgako usa samaya kanyA kahA gayA hai jaba ki vaha do baccoM kI mAM hogaI thii| "keno pAyena tAMkanyAM lapsaye nivRttidaayinii|" jarA vicAra kIjiye ki jaba do baccoM kI mAM ko kanyA kahA hai to phira vidhavA ko kyoM nahIM kahA jA sakatA? jisa prakAra vivAha meM kumArI kanyA dI jA sakatI hai usI prakAra vidhavA kanyA bhI dI jA sakatI hai| aura yahI vivAha hai, na ki vyabhicAra / aura bhI dekhiyevidhavA jaba vivAha karatI hai, taba yaha pragaTa rUpa se karatI hai, gupta rUpa se nahIM karatI / jaba isameM kisI prakAra kA guptapanA nahIM, na kisI prakAra kA bhaya, taba yaha kArya kabhI bhI vyabhicAra nahIM kahA sakatA kyoM ki vyabhicAra meM bhaya va lajA pAI jAtI hai| yabhicAra eka jurma hai jisakI sajA gavarnameMTa (Government) se milatI hai| yadi 'vidhavA vivAha" vyabhicAra hotA to yaha bhI eka jurma hotA aura gavarnamenTa isa para sajA lagAtI, parantu gavarnamenTa kA koI kAnuna ( It w ) aisA nahIM jisasa "vidhavA vivAha" karane va karAne vAloM ko sajA dI jAya / isase spaSTa hai ki "vidhavA vivAha" vyabhicAra nahIM hai| yadi yaha vyabhicAra hotA to gavarnamenTa isako jurma karAra detii|

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( 8 ) ata: siddha hogayA ki "vidhavA vivAha" vyabhicAra nahIM hai| yaha kahanA, ki "vidhavA vivAha" meM bhicAra kI nivRtti nahIM ho sakatI, aisA hI satya hai jaisA ki yaha kahanA ki sUrya meM andhakAra kA vinAza nahIM ho sakatA, satya hai ! "vidhavAvivAha kA prAzaya vidhavA kA itvarikA va vyabhicAriNI hone se bacAnA hai usako gRhastha zrAvikA ke aNuvrata meM rakhakara usakA sthiti karaNa karanA hai| ___ vidhaghA kA vivAha karake usako gRhastha zrAvikA ke aNubata meM rakhakara usakA sthiti karaNa karanA kisI prakAra bhI vyabhicAra nahIM kahA jA sktaa| vidhavA ko jabaradastI paMdhavya palavAnA vyabhicAra hai| hamAre virAdhI mitra isama baca huyaM nahIM haiN| va vidhavA vivAha' kA virodha karake becArI asamartha vidhavAzrAma jabaradastI vaidhavya palavAkara unheM vyabhicAriNI banA dete haiM. jo ki 'yabhicAra' meM bhI bar3hakara vyabhicAra hai / basa ! yadi hama vidhavAvivAha" ke virodhiyoM ko .. kaheM to kucha bhI ayukti na hogii| uparoka vivecana meM jJAna huA ki "vidhavA vivAha"aura "vyabhicAra" meM kevala itanA hI antara hai jitanA antara "brahmacarya" va "nyabhicAra" meM hai arthAta "vidhavAvivAha" itanA hI bar3A vyabhicAra ( pApa / hai jitanA bar3A vyabhicAra kumArI-vivAha" hai| 2. kyA kAraNa hai ki purANoM meM "vidhavAvivAha" kA ullekha nahIM miltaa| "vidhavA vivAha" para hamAraM kRpamagaDUka mitra yaha AkSepa bhI karate hai ki "zAstroM meM kumArI vivAhakA to varNana prAtA

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hai, parantu 'vidhavA vivAha" kA varNana kahIM nahIM milatA phira isa dharmAnukUla kaise kahA jA sktaa|" zAstroM meM yadi "vidhavA vivAha" kA ullekha nahIM milatA to yaha kaise kahA jAsakatA hai ki vidhavA vivAha" dharma viruddha hai / usakI ghaTanA kA zAstroM meM na honA usakI prasiddhatA pragaTa nahIM karatA pugaNoM va zAstroM meM vahI ghaTanAe~ ullikhita haiM jo kucha mahatva ( importanc. ) rakhatI haiN| jahAM bhI kumArI vivAha kA varNana pAyA hai / vahAM koI mahatva pUrgA / important ) ghaTanA avazya hai "vidhavA vivAha meM koI mahatva pUrNa ghaTanA kI 'mambhAvanA nahIM thI, athavA koI mahatvapUrNa ghaTanA nahIM huI, isaliye usakA ullekha bhI nahIM huaa| yadi umameM koI mahatva pUrgaghaTanA hotI to isakA ullekha bhI zAstrakAra karate / ghaTanAe~ acchI bhI hotI haiM, aura burI bhii| zAstroM va purANoM meM dAnoM prakAra kI ghaTanAoM kA ullekha milatA hai| zAstrakAroM ne jahAM acchI ghaTanA kA varNana kiyA hai vahAM usakA acchA phala bhI darzAyA hai; aura jahAM kisI burI ghaTanA / pApa / kA varNana kiyA hai vahAM usakA burA phala dikhalAyA hai| buraM kAryoM kI nindA aura unakA buga phala dikhAne ke liye yaha citraNa huA hai / jahAM zAstrakAroM ne para strI haraNa. vezyA mavana zrAdi aneka kukAryoM kA varNana kiyA hai, vahAM 'vidhavA vivAha' kA jarA bhI ghargAna nahIM kiyaa| yadi 'vidhavA vivAha" pApa hotA to zAstrakAroM ne jahAM aneka pApoM kA varNana karaka unakI nindA kI hai| vahAM kama se kama eka bAra to isakA vargAna karake imakI nindA karataM / mAlUma huA ki "vidhavA vivAha kA pugaNAM meM ullekha na milanA isakI bugaI ko prakaTa nahIM karatA balki isakI bhalAI va sAdhAraNatA ko pragaTa karatA hai|

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yadi zAstroM meM "vidhavA vivAha" kA niSedha rUpa me vargAna pAtA taba yaha bAta kucha vicAraNIya ho jAtI aura isakI yukti va pramANa meM buddhi kI kasauTI tarka vitarkase parakhA jAtA aura matya asatya kA nirNaya kiyA jAtA, parantuzAstroM meM kahIM bhI "vidhavA vivAha' niSedha nahIM hai| 3. 'vidhavA' aura 'vivAha' ye do zabda kahAM taka asaMgata hai ? ___ hamAra vigaMdhI mitra 'vidhavA' aura 'vivAha' ina donoM zabdoM ko asaMgata batalAte haiN| yadi yaha donoM zabda asaMgata mAna bhI liya jAya naba bhI 'vidhavA vivAha pAra keme Thahara sakatA hai : bAta yaha hai ki jaba ina donoM zabdoM kA paraspara mala jAtA hai inake chahAM akSagaM ke eka samUha mava becAra chakar3a bhUla jAte haiM. isaliye va ina donoM zabdoM ko asaMgata kahane lagate haiM / khera..........! __ adhikatara sunane meM AtA hai ki amukha vidhavA vyabhicAriNI ho gaI, amuka vidhayA ke garbha raha gayA, amuka vidhavA musalamAna yA ImAI bana gaI. amuka vidhavA vezyA bana gaI. ityAdi 2...... ( vicAra kIjiye, ki yadi 'vidhavA aura 'vivAha' yaha do zabda asaMgata haiM, to 'vidhavA' aura 'vyabhicAra', athavA 'vidhavA' aura 'garbha' ye to inase bhI adhika amaMgata haiN| vidhayA ke dhaba nahIM hotA aura binA dhara puruSa ke garbha nahIM rahasakatA isaliye jaba koI vidhavAlI * "vidhavA' x 'vivAha'"vidhavA vivAha"

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garbhavatI hogaI to vaha sadhavA ho cukI isameM kucha saMdeha nhiiN| jaba 'vidhavA' aura 'garbha' ina do zabdoM kI prakRtti saGgata banAtI hai to phira 'vidhavA' aura vivAha ina do zabdoM kA saGgata honA kitanI bar3I bAta hai ? 4. "vidhavAvivAha" se zarIra kI vizuddhi naSTa ho jAyegI" isa para vicAra: hamAre vigaMdhI mitra "vidhavA vivAha para yaha bhI AkSepa karate haiM ki vidhavA vivAha se zarIra kI vizuddhi naSTa ho jaayegii| isameM mAlUma hotA hai ki ve zarIra ko vizuddha mAnate haiN| duHkha hai ki hamAre mitra ina choTI 2 bAtoM meM bar3I 2 galatiyAM kara baiThate hai, nahIM to ve apavitra zarIra ko vizuddha kabhI nahIM kahataM / zarIrake viSaya meM yaha hara koI jAnatA hai: "palarudhira rAdha mala thailI, kIkasa vasAdi ne mailii| nava dvAra baheM ghinakArI, asa deha kare kima yArI // aisI apavitra deha ko jo vizuddha batalAte haiM, unakI buddhi para haMsI pAtI hai| unakI zrAMkhAM va buddhi kI tIvratA para pAThaka jarA vicAra to kareM ? 5. "strI" "puruSa" meM bhojya bhojaka sambandha nahIM hai| hamAre virodhI mitra yaha AkSepa bhI karate haiM ki jisa prakAra eka manuSya aneka thAliyoM meM bhojana kara sakatA hai, lekina eka thAlI meM kaI puruSa bhojana nahIM kara sakataM, usI

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( 12 ) prakAra eka puruSa aneka striyoM kA sevana kara sakatA hai, lekina aneka puruSa eka strI kA mevana nahIM kara sakataM kyoMki strI puruSa meM bhojya bhAjaka sambandha hai| bhAMga ke kAma meM strI puruSa donoM ko sukha hotA hai, yadi unameM uparokta sambandha honA no strI ( bhojya / ko sukha nahIM honA cAhiye thA, arthAt puruSa bhojaka) ko hI sukha honA cAhiye thA, lekina yahAM strI purura donoM ko sukha hotA hai| imaliye mAlUma huA ki strI puruSa meM bhojya bhAjaka sambandha nahIM hai| ___ hameM isa bAta kA atyanta kheda hai ki hamAre virodhI mitra itanI magala bAtoM meM, jinameM yukti Sa pramANa kI AvazyakatA hI nahIM hai galatI kara jAte haiM khaira.. ! __ yadi 'durjanatApa nyAya' meM strI puruSa meM bhAjya bhAjaka sambandha mAna bhI liyA jAya taba bhI "vidhavA vivAha" meM isameM koI virodha nahIM pAtA / kyoM ki jisa prakAra thAlI ko mAMjha dhokara sApha kara liyA jAtA hai| aura usameM dUsarA puruSa bhojana kara sakatA hai, usI prakAra 'mAsika-dharma ke bAda strI dusaraM puruSa ke kAma meM lAI jA sakatI hai|" 6. adabhuta nyAya ! hamA ghigaMdhI mitra vidhavAoM ke vivAha kA to khUba virodha karate haiM, parantu vidhuroM ke vivAha kA samarthana karate haiM / vAha ! vAha !! kyA acchA nyAya hai| ___ jaba ki puruSa patni rakhate huye bhI dUsarI pani banA latA hai, to vidhavA.pati na rahate huye bhI dUsarA pati kyoM nahIM banA sakatI samajha meM nahIM AtA ki vidhuroM kA vivAha nA ho jAya / parantu vidhavAkA na ho! vidhuroM ko yaha riyAyata kyoM ? striyoM ke liye to puruSoM meM bhI jiyAdA riyAyata

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( 13 ) honI cAhiye kyoMki striyoM meM puruSa kI apekSA kAma kI tIvratA kaI gunI hotI hai| ___ jaba hama dekhate haiM ki "vidhavA vivAha" ke virodhI vidhura ho jAne para bur3hApe meM bhI apanA dUsarA vivAha kara late haiM, parantu bAla va yuvAna vidhavAoM kA vivAha nahIM hone dete haiM to hameM unakI isa karatUta para bahuta krodha pAtA hai aura dila meM prAtA hai ki....|' 7. vartamAna avasthA meM "vidhavA vivAha" kI AvazyakatA vartamAna avasthA meM "vidhavAvivAha' 'atyanta' se adhika Avazyaka hai hamAre rUr3hi premI mitroM kI kRpA (?) se bAla vivAha, vRddha vivAha aura anamela vivAha Adi anaMka kuprathAoM ne aDDA jamA rakkhA hai jisake kAraNa Aja samAja meM hajAroM kI saMkhyA meM vidhavAe~ pAI jAtI hai unakA jIvana bhI unakI dayA (?) me dayanIya bana rahA hai| bahuta me mitra yaha kahate hai ki "kuprathAoM meM vidhavAe~ banatI haiM, isaliye sabase pahile ina kuprathAoM ko rokanA cAhiye, jaba kuprathAe~ naSTa ho jAyagI, taba vidhavA bhI na bneNgii| isaliye "vidhavA vivAha" ke pracAra ko banda rakhakara ina kuprathAoM ko naSTa karane meM apanI zakti lagAnI caahiye|" yadi mAna lIjiye ki ina kuprathAoM kA zrAja hI abhAva hAM jAya to vartamAna samaya hajAroM vidhavAoM ko usase kyA lAbha hogaa| unakA jIvana to saMkaTa maya hI rahegA unakA jIvana jabhI sukhI bana sakatA hai jaba ki unakA vivAha kiyA jAya / isaliye kuprathAzro ko banda karane ke sAtha "vidhavAvivAha" pracAra bhI Avazyaka ThaharatA hai|

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kuprathAzro kA sarvadA prabhAva hone jAne para bhI vidhavAe~ banda nahIM ho makanI--cAhe vaha alpa saMkhyA meM hI baneM-isa liye una vidhavAoM ke vivAha kI bhI AvazyatA rahegI ata. "vidhavAvivAha" kA pracAra kisa taraha banda kiyA jAsakatA hai| kuprathAoM ko rokane ke sAtha sAtha "vidhavAvivAha" kA pracAra bhI atyanta Avazyaka hai, kyoM ki kuprathAoM ke banda hone meM vidhavAe~ bahuta thor3I banaMgI aura vidhavAvivAha meM unakA jIvana sukhI bana skegaa| uparoka vivecana meM mAlUma huA ki binA vidhavAvivaha ke kuprathAoM kA prabhAva bhI adhika lAbhadAyaka nahIM ho sakatA jo dAMpa 'vidhavAvivAha meM apaharaNa ho sakatA hai vaha kuprathAtroM ke abhAva meM sarvathA dUra nahIM ho sktaa| ___ hama cAhate haiM ki tamAma kuprathAzro kA zIghra sarvathA abhAva ho jAya, parantu mitroM ! 'vidhavAvivAha" kI Avazya katA hara samaya hai / saMvara ke sAtha sAtha nirjarA na ho to kama kAma cala makatA hai ? aMtima nivedana aba maiM apanA lekha samApta karatA hai| maiMne yahAM vidhavA vivAha" kI khAsa khAsa bAtoM para saMkSepa meM prakAza DAlA hai| AzA hai ki bar3e 2 vidvAna isa viSaya para prakAza DAla kara sAdhAraNa samAja kA bhrana dUra kareMge / maiM samajhatA hU~ ki buddhimAn manuSya ke liye itanA hI lekha bahuta kAphI hogA, kyoMki buddhimAna ke liye izArA hI kAphI hotA hai / jaisA zaMkhasAdI ne kahA bhI hai 'aklamadAMga izArA kAphIsta" arthAt-buddhimAna ke liye saMketa kAphI hai|" * yaha phArasI ke bar3e uktama kavi ho cuke haiM /

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( 15 ) maiM apane mitroM se nivedana karatA hU~ ki Apa apane hRdaya se isa mithyA vAsanA ko ki "vidhavA vivAha" dharma virudha hai, dUra kara dIjiye / yadi Apa niSpakSa rIti se vicAra kareM to Apako zrAnI galatI jJAta ho jaaygii| Apako cAhiye ki Apa satya ke kahane meM nirbhaya bneN| isa bAta kA bhrama chor3a dIjiye ki isakA phala kyA hogA ? satya bAta ke liga yadi jIvana bhI nyochAvara ho jAya to bhI kucha cintA mata kro| saccA vIra vahI hotA hai jo satya bAta ke kahane meM kucha bhI nahIM bhaya khAtA / yadi usako satya bAta para jAna bhI denI par3e, to vaha vIratA se haMsate hue jAna para khela jAtA hai| saccI bAta ke kahane meM DaranA yA saMkoca karanA mahA pApa hai / jo manuSya haTha pUrvaka apanI jhUThI bAta para jamA rahatA hai aura satya ko grahaNa nahIM karatA, vahI nIca hai| Apako mithyAtva chor3a kara samyaktava kI ora jAnA cAhiye, kyoMki yahI hita kA mArga hai| jhUThI bAta para DaMTe rahanA vuddhimAnI nahIM hai / "dharma DUbA "dharma DUbA " kI AvAja lagA kara vyartha hI apanI jilhA ko na thakAiye / dharma na to rUr3hiyoM meM hai, na rakta mAMsa meM, na haDDI meM, na korI 'zrahA - hUhU' meM, na korI 'dharma DUbA 2' meM, vaha AtmA meM hai| peTa ke liye DhoMga banA kara apanI AtmA kA ghAta na kIjiye sudhArakoM ko burA kaha 2 kara sAdhAraNa samAja kI dhAMka meM na DAliye / vidhavAtroM para atyAcAra karanA chor3a dIjiye unakA vivAha karane meM hI unakA jIvana sukhI bana sakatA hai aura ve vyabhicAra saM baca sakatI haiM, isaliye Apa "vidhavA vivAha" kA virodha chor3a kara isake pracAra meM juTa kara apanI satyatA, vIratA, nirbhayatA tathA manuSyatA kA pramANa dIjiye / striyoM para atyA cAra karanA mahAanartha hai, vidhavAoM meM jabaradastI vaidhavya palavAnA mahA atyAcAra hai / yaha mahA atyAcAra satI prathA

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se bar3hakara pApa hai| kyoMki satI prathA meM strI ko thor3e samaya hI jalanA par3atA hai, parantu Saidhavya se unheM jIvana bhara jalanA par3atA hai| priya mitroM ! rur3hiyoM ke liye 'satya' kA galA mata ghoTo, kintu 'satya' ke liye 'rur3hiyoM' kA galA ghoMTa ddaalo| maiM samasta jaina samAja se bhI nivedana karU~gA ki vaha 'vidhavA vidhAha' ko apanAye, kyoMki "vidhavA vivAha" ke pracAra ke binA jainiyoM kI unnati asambhava hai jaina samAja "vidhavAvivAha" se gahuta dUra hai yahI kAraNa hai ki saMsAra kI anya samasta jAtiyoM meM yaha saba se girI huI jAti ginI jAtI hai / jainasamAja ko "vidhavA vivAha" ke prakAza kI atyanta AvazyakatA hai tAki vaha isake pracAra meM juTa kara apane ko unnata banAye, ataH vidvAnoM ko cAhiye ki ve isa para prakAza ddaaleN| AzA hai ki pAThakagaNa isa lekha para ThaMDe dila se niSpakSa vicAra karane kA kaSTa uThAyeMge aura isa para apanI sammati avazya deMge / jo mahAzaya mere lekha se sahamata na hoM, ve isake viruddha avazya likheM / maiM unake lekha para zAnti se vicAra karU~gA, kyoMki merA Azaya kisI bAta para haTha pUrvaka jamA rahanA nahIM hai / merI nIti to yaha hai:na para khaNDana se kucha matalaba na maNDana muhamA apnaa| satAsata nirNaya karate haiM, karAye jisakA jI cAhe // * samApta

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dhanyavAda isa TraikTa ke chapavAne meM nimna likhita mahAnubhAvoM ne sahAyatA pradAna kI hai, jinako sabhA hArdika dhanyavAda detI hai aura sAtha hI samAja ke anya strI puruSoM se nivedana karatI hai ki ve bhI nimna zrImAnoM kA anukaraNa karake apanI dukhiyA bahinoM para nagsa khAkara isI prakAra sahAyatA pradAna karane kI udAratA dikhAva:10; lAlA bizambaradAsa bajAja jaina jagAdharI 5. lAlA jugalakizora jaina bahAdaggar3ha 4) gumadAna amarohA 2, lAlA mRlacanda amarohA 2) lAlA gdhuAra saraNa amarohA 2 laal| maMgatagama jaina syAdavAdI dhlii|

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* anya upayogI aura krAMtikArI pustakeM ke 1 zikSAprada zAstrIya udAharaNa-laMgvaka zrImAna mUlya giTana jugala kizAra jo mugtAra 2 vivAha kSetra prakAza .. ) 3 jana jAninudazA pravattaka le0 zrI bAba sUrajabhAna jI4 magalA dabI 5 kuvArA kI durdazA 6 gRstha dharma vidhavAvivAha pAra unaka marakSA meM apIla lambaka- zItala pramAda jI 8 ujala pAza badamAza lekhaka adhyApramAda gAyalIya - * avalamA Ama .. .. , / i, enalagna mImAMsA maccAva bhAlAnAtha mukhtAra bulandazahara ! 11 pAyAda AyagAna uda .. ., .- vidhavA vidhAna mamA dhAna lagyakA savyamAcI 13 jana dharma yA vivAha pahilA bhAga jaina dharma apa vidhavA vivAda / dRgsaga bhAga ) ) 15 sudhAra saMgIta mAlA 2.0 60 vRgamana muzarapha jaipura / - tyAga mAmAmA 2060 napacanda jI vargA 3. prAdhanA strAta kara pA zAlA meM vidyAdhiyoM tathA kanyA pATazAntaH - hinAtha 18 13 mA vivAda prakAza raghuvIrazaraNa jena amarohA / milane kA panAjAhargamala jana sarApha darIvA kalAM, dehlii|

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TrakTa naM0 7 'jati prabodhaka' ke isI aGka kA kroDapatra vidhavAoM aura unake saMrakSakoM se apIla | lekhaka - jainadharmabhUSaNa dharmadivAkara brahmacArI zItalaprasAdajI prakAzaka jaina bAla vidhavA vivAha sahAyaka sabhA darIvA kalAM dehalI | saMvat 1685 mudraka- gayAdatta presa, klotha mArakeTa dehalI +

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* mere do zabda * priya pAThakagaNa ! saba ma prathama apanI vidhavA bahinoM kI pakAra maniye aura phira hRdaya para hAtha rakhakara bivAriye ki kyA kabhI Apane unakI pAhA~kA noTisa liyA? nahIM, kadApi nahIM, hAya zoka ! mahAzAMka !! dekhiye yaha apane bhAiyoM se kyA prArthanA karatI hai --- kisa kAma kI jindargA tumhaarii| rakSA na huI agara hmaarii|| tAravAra kA vakta aba nahI hai| kAMTA sA jigara meM jAgajI hai| meM apane ko bar3A hI bhAgyavAna samajhatA hUM ki jaina dharmabharaNa dharmadivAkara brahmacArI zAnalaprasAdajI ne mere andhakAra rUpI parade ko haTA kara mamArga para lgaayaa| maiM isa vidhavAvivAha ke ati vipagata thA ghora maiMne isake vA * jaina lA' ke khilApha hindA jaina gajaTa meM lekha bhI diye, parantu saMyogavaza hamAraM pAragenAijiMga insapaikTara zrImAn ghAba balavatagaya jana kA eka brAhmaNI vidhavA se vivAha nizcita huzrA, usameM mujhe zAmila hone kA saubhAgya prApta huzrA usa samaya pajya brahmacArA jA se kucha dezakA samAdhAna hAna para merA bhrama dUra hogayA aura maiMne mamaya,kAla pAra vyavasthA kA dekhakara yaha praNa kiyA ki jaina jAti kA uddhAra tabhI ho sakatA hai jabaki vidhavA bahinI kI karuNA nAda ke sAmana mastaka jhakAyA jAya aura jaMna zAstroktAnusAra unakA zamavivAha karAte huye jana jAti kA utthAna kiyAjAya aura caudharI caukar3AyanI ke phade aura bhaya se jaina jAti ke saca sapatoM ko bacAyA jaay| maiM adhika na likhate hue 1008 zrI mahAvIra bhagavAna ke darabAra meM prArthanA karatA hUM ki vaha mere navayuvaka bhAiyoM ko esI saddhi pradAna kareM jisase ki vaha chAtI Thoka kara maidAna meM bhAe aura isa zubhakArya meM hamArA hAtha baTAye ki jisa prakAra hama jainajAti kI bhaMvara meM par3I nayyA kA pAra lejaaeN| jyotiSamArtaNDa(paM0 zItalaprasAda jaina,F.A A. rivaadd'ii|

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vidhavAoM aura unake saMrakSakoM se apIla ikkIma karor3a kI hindU jAti kI AbAdI meM jaba 2 do karor3a se adhika vidhavAeM hai taba 11 / / sADhe gyAraha lAkha kI jaina saMkhyA meM 1 // lAkha vidhavAeM haiM jaba ki bidhura mAtra 65 hajAra hai / parantu kumAre puruSa 3 lAkha hai aura kumArI striyAM 185080 athAt do lAgya meM kama hai / jo jaina samAja ko marane se bacAnA cAhane ra unako sana 1651 kI jaina marduma zumArI kI rigaTa ko bhalo prakAra paTa DAlanA cAhiye / usase sApha vidita ho jAyagA ki jaina loga jo 8000 ATha hajAra prati vara ghaTa rahe haiM isakA bar3A bhArI kAraNa yaha hai ki jaina jAni meM kumAriyoM kI saMkhyA kama hone para bhI unakA vivAha kumAgeM aura vidhagaM se karanA hotA hai / pApA kA prabhAva hone meM vaha jisa taraha bananA hai eka daphe vivAha ke pIche strI ke marane para imarI dara kumArI kanyA ko vivAha le| hai / yadi kadAcita yaha sI bhI mara gaI to tImarga dare phira apanI patrI va potI ke samAna kimI kumArI ko jyAda lete haiN| kisI 2 pampa ko jIvana meM 6 yA 7 dara kumArI ko vivAhane kA prasaMga jAtA hai / isa prakArakI vyavasthA kA kaDuvA phala yaha hotA hai ki bahutamI javAna vidhavAyeM jo bar3I umake purupoM ko vivAha dI jAnI haiM apane patike marane para

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mara binA kisI saMtAna ko paidA kiye huye kAma vidhavAyeM rahakara apanA jisa tisa prakAra janma kATatI hai / samAja meM bAla vivAhoM kI bhI kamI nahIM hai| nidAna 15-16 varSa ke bAlaka 11yA12 varSakI kanyA vivAha diye jAte hai / devayoga se yadi yaha bAlaka mara jAtA hai to ye bAla bhI bekAra apanI jindagI vita hai| ye bhI binA saMtAna ke paidA kiye huye mara jAtA hai / udhara kumArI kanyAeM yahI kama hai tisa para unameM se bahuta sI kanyAyoM ko vicura puruSa vivAha lete hai| kumArAM kI saMkhyA bhI adhika hai isaliye adhika kumAre bina vivAha tathA binA kisI satAna ko paidA kiye jAte haiM / sana 1609 kI riporTa batAtI hai ki 20 se 70 varSa va Upara taka ke kumAre 62286 hai / jisa jAni meM 70 hajAra kuSNare vina vivAha raha jAye usa jAti kI saMtAna avazya kama hogI isameM koI saMdeha nahI baddhimAna jaina bhAI tathA vahina vicAra sakate hai ki jaina samAja kI saMkhyA ko sthira rakhane vAlA samAja ke bAlaka va bAlikAyeM hai| jaba inakI utpatti kama hogI taba avazya saMkhyA ghaTegI jo burI dazA marduma zamArI kI riporTa se jhalakatI hai vahI varI dazA pratyakSa jainiyoM kI AbAdI ko dekhane se jhalakatI hai| hama jaba apane bhramaNa meM kisI sthAna kI dazA ko jAMcane lagate hai to varSa

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mAlama hotA hai ki jahAM Aja 50 ghara haiM vahAM 20125 varNa pIche 25 ghara raha jAyage kyoMki ye saba 50 ghara joIvAle nahIM hai inameM kitane gharoM meM mAtra kumAra va vidhura pApa hai va kinane gharoM meM mAtra vidhavAeM hI hai / kisI bhI samAja ke jIvana ko sthira rakhane ke liye pura.pA kA vivAhita hokara maMtAna janma denA ati zaya aAvazyaka hai / nava jaina samAja meM isa AvazyakatA ko kaise paga kiyA jAye / isakA upAya yahI samajha meM zrAnA hai kugarI kanyAya kumAge hI ko vyAhI jAveM pamA pahA niyama kiyA jA / phira bhI yadi avivAhita kumAra rahe nA unakA unakI uma meM choTI vAla vidhavAeM va yuvA vidhavAra vivAhI jAve / tathA va purupa ninako davAga tivAga yA cI bAga vivAha karanA ho ve apanI uma meM kucha choTI vidhavAoM ko hI vivAha / samAja meM isa vyavasthA ko jArI karane meM vinA saMtAna paidA kiye bahuta kama purUpa va mi maregA / isa vyavasthA ke liya yaha ati Avazyaka hai ki vidhavAeM apane jIvana ko maphala kareM / vidhavAoM ko apanA jIvana nyAya mArgI banAnA cAhiye unako kabhI bhI vyabhicAra va gupta pApa meM nahIM phaMsanA cAhiye / yaha nyabhicAra manuSya hanyA Adi grAdi bora anayA kA kAraNa hai / yadi unako isa loka meM madAcAra maya jIvana vitAnA hai aura paraloka meM

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khoTI gati meM nahIM jAnA hai to unako vyabhicAra ke pApa meM apane ko hara taraha bacAnA cAhiye / isa pAra se bacane kA upAya yahI hai ki ve va macarya vrata ke matalaba ko acchI taraha samajha leveN| brahmacarya vana do taraha meM pAlA jAtA hai eka pUrNa yA sarva deza dusare apUrNa yA eka deza / pUrNa va macarya meM pupa ko mana vacana kAyame sarva strI mAtra kA va marca prakAra kAma bhAva kA tyAga hotA hai, isI taraha strI ko mana vacana kAya meM sarva pupa mAtra kA va sarva prakAra kAma bhAva kA tyAga hotA hai / apUNa va eka deza va macarya meM purUpa jima bI ko samAna va nAnika anamAra vivAda leM usa strI ke mipAya usake sA avivAhita va vivAhita striyoM kA tyAga hotA hai imI nagha bI jima puSpa kA samAja va nIti ke anusAra vivAhale uma pulpa kAmavAya use anya vivAhita va avivAhita pApoMkA tyAga hotA vI viyogI purupa ko athAta vimara ko apane bhAvoM ko va apano zarIra kI zakti ko dekhanA cAhiye ki ina do prakAra ke brahmacarya meM se vaha kima ko pAlane kI zakti rakhatA hai / yadi vaha pUrNa brahmacarya pAla sake to usa bramacArI rahakara svapara kalyANa karate hupe mAnava janma ko maphala karanA cAhiye / yadi vaha vidhura apanI zakti pUrNa bramacarya pAlane kI na de ve to use apUrNa yA

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Q. eka deza bramacarya pAlanA cAhiye aura taba usako kisI yogya strI se vivAha karake grahI jIvana saMtoSa se vitAnA cAhiye vezyA va para strI sevana Adi aneka prakAra vyabhicAroM apane ko isa taraha bacAnA cAhiye | isI taraha puruSa viyogI strI ko arthAt vidhavA ko apane bhAvoM kI apanI zarIra kI zakti ko dekhanA cAhiye ki ina do prakAra ke brahmacaryo meM vaha kisa ko pAlane kI zakti rakhatI hai / yadi vaha pUrNa brahmacarya pAla sake to usako brahmacAriNI rahakara svapara kalyANa karanA cAhiye aura apane mAnava janma ko bhale prakAra saphala karanA cAhiye / yadi vaha vidhavA apanI zakti brahmacarya pAlane kI na dekhe to use puruSakI taraha aparNa yA ekadeza brahmacarya pAlanA cAhiye aura taba usa vidhavA ko ucita hai ki vaha kisI yogya puruSase vivAha sambandha karake grahI jIvana saMtoSa se vitAva, saMtAnoM ko janma de aura unheM pAle / sAdhAraNa jaina bhAiyoM ne yaha bhrama banA rakkhA hai ki vidhavA ko punarvivAha karane kA haka nahIM hai| hama jahAM taka jaina zAstra, nIti va tarka ko samajhate haiM usase hama kaha sakta hai ki yaha mAnanA ki vidhavA ko punarvivAha kA adhikAra nahIM hai kisI bhI sutarka se siddha nahIM ho sakatA hai| jo hetu eka vidhura ko punarvivAha karane meM hai -

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vahI hetu eka vidhavA ko panavivAha karane meM hai donoM kI antaraMga kI kAmavAsanA va zArIrika sthiti dvitIya vivAha karane kI preraNA karatI hai| yadi vidhavAoM meM kadAcina kisI kAraNa se rajasvalA honA baMda ho jAtA aura una meM kAma vAsanA hI na rahanI nava to aisA kahA jA satA thA ki jina kAraNoM meM prerita hokara eka vidhura ko punarvivAha karanA par3atA hai ve kAraNa vidhavAma nahIM pAe jAte imaliye unakA vivAha karanA nigthaka hai paranta aisA nahIM hai donoM strI aura pampoM meM samAna kAraNa hai nava jaise vidhura ko punarvivAha karane kA haka hai vaise eka vidhavA ko punarvivAha karane kA haka hai| yaha vidhavA vivAha na vyabhicAra hai na anyAya hai kinna nAni pUNa vivAha sambandha tathA nyAya yakta mAga hai| isameM zrAvikA ke brahmacarya agAvata meM athAta eka deza bramacaya pAlane ke praNa meM koI bAdhA nahIM pAtI hai| bahuna meM purupa yuvaka isa sacce siddhAMta ko samajha gae hai aura isa liye vidhavAoM se lagna karane kI tayyAra hai-isa saMbandha meM unaka patra ninya hI vidhavA vivAha mahAyaka sabhAoM ke maMtriyoM ke pAsa AyA karane ha paraMtu bAla va yuvAna vidhavAoM kI samajha meM abhI taka yaha macA siddhAMna nahIM baiThA hai / vaM vicArI mAlI vidhavAeM vyabhicAra ko punarvivAda se bahuna buga samajhatI

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hai aura mana meM cAhatI bhI hai ki yadi brahmacarya nahIM palatA hai to punarvivAha kara DAleM parantu samAja kI lAja ke bhaya se yA saMgkSakoM ke bhaya se apanA bhAva pragaTa karane se hicakicAtI hai / yaha hicakicAnA unake jIvanakA nAzaka horahA hai udhara lajA vaza va punarvivAha ko tayyAra nahIM hotI haiM ghara kAma bhAva kI preraNA varA gapta pApa meM phaMsa jAtI hai aura apanA ubhaya loka kA jIvana bigAr3a lenI hai iliye hama una asamartha bAla va yuvAna vidhavAoM meM kaha ga ki ve apane ko prathama meM bacAvaM yA to ve puNa brahmacarya pAla mA punarvivAha karake eka deza yA aparNa brahmacarya pAlaM / yamanoM meM phaMsakara apanA amalya mIvana na naSTa kareM / hamArI apIla ina bholI bhAlI vidhavAoM ke saMrakSakoM meM bhI hai-cAhe ve unake mAtA pinA hoM, bhAI bahina hoM yA mAma zvasura jeTha devara hoM va anya koI savadhI ho ki ve vidhavAoM ko yaha saccA siddhAMta samajhA --parNa brahmacarya pAlane ke bhAva hoM to zrAvikAzramoM meM bheja yA vaigagya mAmAnoM meM rakAveM nahIM no unako panarvivAda kagane meM tayyAra karake unake jIyana ko grahI jIvana banavAda jima meM vyabhicAra Adi pApoM se bceN| yadi vidhavAoM ne aura unake maranakoM ne dhyAna

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na diyA to jo khagaviyAM jaina samAja meM haiM ve kabhI bhI dUra na hoMgI-asadAcAra, gupta pApa bar3hatA jAyagA aura samAja kI maMgcyA ghaTanI jAyagI aura yadi unhoMne isa sacce siddhAMta para dhyAna diyA to kumAge kA, vidhugeM kA nathA vidhavAoM kA ina saba kA jIvana maMtopa rUpa ho jAyagA- santAnoM kI vizeSa utpatti hogI, mamAja kI ghaTI avazya dara hogI aura jaina samAja magna meM bacaMgI kyoMki dharma dhamAtmA ke Azraya rahatA hai isameM yadi samAja jItA rahaMgA no dharma bhI dekhane meM aaygaa| iliye jaina dharma kI sthiti aura jaina samAja kI rakSA ke liye vidhavAoM ko apanA bhalA yA vaga svayaM vicAranA cAhiye aura unake saMrakSakoM ko bhrama dara karake unake jIvana ko maMtApI va Ana yAna hita banAnA cAhiye strI samAja vidyA ke vinA apane hakoM ko bilakula bhala baiThI hai / usako parAdhInatA kI bar3I ne bilakula galAma sA banA diyA hai| unakI dazA una pakSiyoM ke anamAra hai jinako piMjaroM meM vahuna kAla banda gkvA jAve-pIche yadi chor3A bhI jAye to ve phira piMjare meM banda hone ko AjAte haiM / imI taraha striyoM ko galAmI meM rahane kI Adata par3a gaI hai ve isa Adata ko chor3a nahIM sakatI hai yahI unako ApattiyoM meM par3ane kA kAraNa hai| hama yahAM strI samAja ko usake kartavya batAte haiM :

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(1) pahilA kartavya to yaha hai ki kha ba vidyA par3heM, zarIra se parizrama karanA sIkheM. ghara ke kAma bar3I khuzI me kara, ATA pIsane kI, jhADU denekI, anna cugane kI, maphAI rakhane kI, pAnI bharane kI, rasoI banAne kI, kapar3oM ko mApha rakhane kI, AdateM banAleM / pyAra se mIThe vacana bolane kI Adata DAleM / vidyA par3hatI huI apane caritra para paga dhyAna rakkheM / jo kanyA caritra para paga dhyAna nahIM detI hai vaha acchI gRhastha mahilA nahIM bana sakatI hai eka kanyA ko zurU se hI nIce likhe ATha pAga meM apanA mana alaga rakhanA cAhiye / (?) jAna bUjhakara kisI manuSya ko yA pazu pakSI ko matAnA na cAhiyaM na usake prANa lenA cAhiye, dayA dhama ko pAlanA cAhiye, kAma kAja karate huye dekhabhAla karake karanA cAhiye jinanI jIvoM kI rakSA hogI utanA bhalA hogA / pAnI madA chAnakara pInA pilAnA cAhiye, dayAbhAva rakhakara jo koI bhakha gargava apAhana bhAI va bahana hI unakA bhojana va vana denA cAhiye bhUkhe jAnavaroM ko, pakSiyoM ko khilAnA cAhiye saba me prema rakhanA cAhiye, gegI AdamiyoM kI sevA Tahala karanI cAhiye parantu yadi koI cora badamAza satAve taba usa para dayA na karanI cAhiye usako mAra bhagAnA cAhiye aura apane jAna mAla ko va apane zIla ko bacAnA cAhiye isaliye

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kanyAoM ko kucha kasarata bhI mIkha lenI cAhiya, lAThI Adi calAnA bhI jAna lenA cAhiye jisase maMkaTa par3ane para apanI kSA kara sakeM isa taraha ahiMmA aAgabana pAlanA caahiye| (2) matya vacana madA bAlanA cAhiye, aimA vacana nahIM kahanA cAhiye jimaga dusare kA nukamAna ho jaaye| para ko barI karane vAlA satya vacana bhI jhaTa hai : kar3ayA bacana, para kI nindA kA bacana, gAnI galauna kA bacana, kaThora bacana, yaha mara jhUTa hai-trI kI mugva kI zobhA matya hinakArI vacanoM se hai jhaTa bolanA mahApApa samajhanA cAhiye / satyavAdIko koI bhaya nahIM rahatA hai| kanyAyoM ko mIThe vacanoM ke dvArA apane ghara vAloM ko apane vaza karalenA cAhiye / mIga hitakArI vacana to jagana bharako vaza kara sakatA hai| (:) kanyAyoM ko kabhI bhI corI karane kI Adana na DAlanA cAhiye / ghara meM khAne pIne kI saba cIz2oM ko mAtA pinA se pUcha kara lenA cAhiye cugakara eka laTa bhI gvAyA jAyagA to yAdana barI ho jaaygii| mAMgakara lenA acchA hai parana corI karanA acchA nahIM hai cAMga se jagana meM vizvAsa uTha jAtA hai / (4) kanyAyoM ko zIlavana kI mahimA sIvanI cAhiye jahAM taka vivAha na ho bahanoM ko paga brahmacarya

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13 mana lagAkara pAlanA cAhiye / apane mana meM kabhI bhI kisI dUsare purupa se milane kA burAbhAva na lAnA cAhiye na Apasa meM vivAha zAdI kI carcA lAnA cAhiye, na gyoTe gIta gAnA cAhiye, na una striyoM kI saMgata karanI cAhiye jo vara cAritra vAlI hai / kabhI lar3akoM se va lar3akiyoM me Apama meM haM.mI mazkarI na karanI cAhiye zIla dhama bar3A dharma hai| jo strI zIla bigAr3a denI hai usakA pApa chipatA nahIM hai / vaha yahAM bhI apanA janma nAza karatA hai aura pagloka ke liye narakAdi gati bAMdha lenI hai jaga meM apayA pAnI hai / kanyA ko ucita hai jaya naka vidA na ho vidyA par3hane meM mana lagAve brahmacarya pAle, vana cAmiNI he. pAna na syAve, gvATa para na move, angArita kapar3e na pahane mAdagI se rahe, gahanoM kA zoka na kara. mane namAzoM meM na jAye, kahAnI kisse na par3e, bAjAra kI cATa na khAvaM, zudra ghara kA bhojana do dapha maMnAe ye karale / mana apanA vidyAlAbha va dharma meM lagAye gana bhagavAna kA dhyAna kare, pUjana kare, zAstra pahe, guru mahAgaja kA kaI viyoM ke mAtha darzana kare, unakA upadeza mane, unako bhakti pUrvaka dAna deve niyama pAkhar3I lene rahe. savere va zAma ko thor3I dera alaga baiTha karake mAmAyika dhyAna karatI rahe / jahAM naka hI dina meM khAve jo kanyA dharma meM cina rakamvegI. satasaMgati meM rahegI vahI

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brahmacarya ko pAla skegii| brahmacaya hI saM kanyA kA zarIra dRr3ha bananA hai| (5) paggriha kI jyAdA lAlasA na ragvanI cAhiye ghara meM jo saMtopa se mile uma khAkara va pahana kara manako Ananda meM gvagve / (6) kabhI mAMsa ko na khAvaM, vaha DAkTaga davA bhI na gvA jina meM mAMsa kA mela ho / mar3I busI bAsI cIna gvAna se bhI mAMsa kA dApa lagatA hai usase bhI jahAM naka ho bce| (7) nazA na pIva, kanyA ko cAhiye ki kabhI bhUla kara bhI zagava na pIva, bhAMga na pIva, kokena na gvAve / nazA pAgala banA denA hai naze kI Adata se prANI nazebAz2a bana jAtA hai jina DAkTarI davAoM meM zagava par3I ho unako bhI na gvAvaM / (8) madha na gvAva-madha mavizvayoM ko kaSTa dekara va unake baccoM ko mArakara va nicor3a kara AtA hai va mAMsa ke samAna umameM kIr3a paidA hote hai va magte hai / / ina ATha bAtoM kA pAlana bhane prakAra karanI gheM jaba taka vidyA paheM aura vivAha na hove / ____ (2) dusarA kartavya yaha hai ki 16vAM varSa jaba zurU ho taba apanA vivAha karAne kA vicAra kareM 16 varSa se pahale vivAha na karAveM mAtA pitA ko samajhAdeM ki jandI

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hama vivAha na kareMge / tathA jisake sAtha mAtA pitA ne vivAha ThIka kiyA ho usa puruSa ko bhI samajha leM ki vara 20 varSa ke anumAna hai yA nahIM, kahIM choTA to nahIM hai yA bUr3hA no nahIM hai javAna sadAcArI kamAU vara ke mAtha vivAha kareM- yadi vara pasaMda nahIM ho to turanta mAnA pinA ko manA karadeM yadi na mAne to z2iTa kareM tathA paropakArga bhAI ho unako apane manakA duHkha kahakara unakI madada se anamela vivAha ko rokaM Aja kala lAbhI mAtA pitA paise ke lobha meM bar3he va nirvala puruSa ke sAtha vivAha pakkA kara dete hai isa julma ko na hone deN| yadi mAtA pinA na pAna to palima meM khabara dekara yA majisTreTa ko livakara isa anyAya se bceN| (3) tImaga kartavya yaha hai ki vivAha ho jAne para kabhI bhI parapurupa kI cAha na kareM apane pati kI hara. nagaha bhakti kareM va yogya mannAna ko paidA kareM mannAna kI acchI Adana migvAvaM / ghara meM saba meM prema rakamva kimI se kaThora bacana bolakara lar3AI jhagar3A na kreN| (4) yadi saMtAna rahita hoM aura vidhavApanA jAne nava apane mana ko dekheM ki saccaM hRdaya se brahmacarya pAlane kI zakti ho tabanA punarvivAha na kareM parantu yadi mana vaza meM na ho to kabhI bhI vyabhicAra meM na par3e aura khuzI se kisI sabhA dvAga punarvivAha karAkara grahI dharma meM raheM /

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(6) yadi kadAcita manAna hone para bhI mana kAva meM na AtA ho to samAja ke vicAravAna bhAiyoM se malAha karake saMtAna kA yogya prabaMdha karake phira punarvivAha kareM parantu vyabhicAra ke naraka meM kabhI na pdd'eN| ___ pyArI bahano-tumhAre hita ke liye Upara kI zikSA dI gaI hai usa para nirbhaya ho calo, pApa meM sadA vaco-yaha bAta acchI taraha yAda rakavA ki jaise vidhara ko punaviyAha kA adhikAra hai vaise hI vidhavA ko hai| donoM ko zrAvikAcAra meM aNuvatI kahate haiM / vidhavA vivAha adharma nahIM hai ise nIti vyavahAra samajho vyabhicAra mahAadharma hai usameM apane ko kabhI na ddaalo| vidhavAoM ke saMrakSakoM ko bhI isa lekha para paga dhyAna dekara vidhavAoM ke jIvana sudhArane cAhiye / - - - Avazyaka sUcanA / dillI meM eka jaina bAla vidhavA vivAha sahAyaka sabhA sthApita huI hai| ve sajjana jo vidhavA vivAha ke siddhAMta se sahamata ho, jo sabhA ke membara honA cAhaM yA jinheM apane lar3ake yA lar3akI kA aisA sambandha karanA svIkAra hove nIce likhe pate para patra vyavahAra kareM: - upamaMtrI-.

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vIra sevA mandira pustakAlaya