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Dadashri: When you see inappropriate conduct-sexual affairs in someone, was it not there before? Do you think it has come about all of a sudden? So you should understand that this is what the world is all about. You should never judge anyone's character in these times of kaliyug. It is like this everywhere in the current time cycle. It may not be visible-openly evident but the mind will become ruined for sure. In all this, a woman's character is a museum filled with illusion moha and deceit kapat, and that is why they are born as women. The best way amidst all this is for one is to become free from all sexuality.
Questioner: We realize that is the way it is in sexual conduct, nevertheless, when the mind becomes suspicious, one becomes engrossed (tanmayakar) in it. What adjustment should one take there?
Dadashri: After becoming the Self, do not get involved in anything. This belongs to the foreign department' (non-Self). You should remain in the 'home department' (the Self). Stay in your real Self! You will not find Gnan such as this again and again, so get your work done. One man constantly used to be suspicious of his wife. 'We asked him why he had suspicions about his wife. Was he suspicious because he saw something? And if that was the case, was the same thing not going on before he witnessed it? People call the person who gets caught stealing, a thief, but those who do not get caught are thieves from within, are they not? Here people only lable those who get caught as thieves. Why are you calling them thieves? Infact they are minor thieves because they get caught. Do you think those who steal on a regular basis are likely to get caught?
Questioner: But it is when one is caught stealing, that he is called a
thief.
Dadashri: No, the ones who steals occassionaly are the ones who get caught. And because they are caught, people call them thieves. The real thief is the one who does not get caught, but this is how the world is.
So this man understood our' whole Vignan. Then he tells me, 'From now I will not be alarmed even when someone puts his arm around my wife.' Yes, that is how it should be if you want to go to moksha! Otherwise, you will keep quarreling with your wife. Your wife can never be your wife in this current time cycle of dushamkad , the time of lack of unity in