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towards her. When a man marries a good-looking girl, 'we think about what is going to happen to that poor man. There is a safe side only if she is not good-looking
A man will forget God when his wife is very beautiful and a woman will forget God when her husband is good looking. That is why it is good if everything is average. Our elders used to say, 'Keep your farm barren and have an ugly wife.' Why did they say that? If your wife is beautiful, some man will have bad intentions towards her and that is why it is better to have an ugly wife. They were saying this from a different perspective, not from a religious perspective. 'We are telling you from the religious perspective. You do not have to worry about anything if your wife is ugly. If she goes out, no one will have bad intentions towards her. Our elders were very smart, but that is not what 'we' are telling you; it is quite different. If she is ugly, then it will not bother you; you will not be drawn and preoccupied by her.
What a betrayal this is
What kind of people do you find today? Wherever they see a 'hotel (woman, sexual outlet), they will 'dine (indulge in lustful fancy or more). Suspicion is the cause of all misery. Both men and women 'dine' wherever they see a 'hotel.' A man does not think about what his wife is doing. He thinks she is a good woman, but he does not realize that she is cheating on him. Men cheat on their wives, and the wives cheat on their husbands. The women, however will win because men do not have as much kapat - deceit. That is why men are easily deceived by women.
This worldly life was worth enjoying when there was sincerity and morality in it. Nowadays there is tremendous betrayal. If 'we' were to tell men about their wives, they would not even go to them. 'We know everything about everybody but 'we' would not do anything about it. Men are not angels either, but a woman is a factory of sheer deceit. A warehouse of deceit is not to be found anywhere except in a woman.
How can there be illusionary attachment towards such betrayal?
The toilets that we have, are they used by many or just one person?
Questioner: Everyone uses them.