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The one who tries to be laghuttam in the relative, will become guruttam in the real; his state will become absolute. You do not have to do anything in order to become guruttam. So in your worldly interactions, when you want to say anything, just keep in mind, 'there is no jive being smaller than myself. I am the smallest. If you maintain this awareness, it is more than enough. If you become laghuttam then only then will you attain the main state and only then will the state of absolute Self Paramatam become yours. Therefore, the state of the Lord is to become complete laghuttam. So when you attempt to become laghuttam in the relative life, then you will naturally become guruttam and absolute. The absolute state of the Self will manifest naturally; it will become 'exact' naturally.
The goal of becoming laghuttam
Have you ever seen a laghuttam Purush in this world?
Questioner: Dada is laghuttam, no?
Dadashri: Yes, that's it, all you need to do is observe this laghuttam Purush. And you have to become like him, what else? You do not have to learn anything else from here.
Our mahatmas have understood that Dada has taught laghuttam the state of ultimate humility. Now Dada Himself has become laghuttam, so the others have no choice but to become laghuttam, no? And that is the only goal one should decide. If one wants to attain eternal bliss then, nothing else needs to be done in this world. We are sitting in the laghuttam state the ego-less state, in the relative world, and 'we' are telling you all to become that. 'We are not saying anything else, are 'we'? 'We' estimate that it is going to take you a year or so to become laghuttam?!
Questioner: But to become laghuttam, is no ordinary feat
Dadashri: No, It is not that big a feat. Once You have decided, 'I want to become laghuttam.' then the mind, intellect, chit, and the ego all will keep going in that direction only. Thus they will proceed in the direction of the decided goal. If You say, 'I want to go Santa Cruz right now, then itthe non-Self complex will go there. Therefore decide the goal.