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without company asang.Here 'we' have given you the absolute values. You have become a Shuddhatma when Dada gave you the state of Shuddhatma. Otherwise, there was nothing there, not even a penny's worth.
Win in this the world by losing
After Gnan You have the constant meditation dhyan of Shuddhatma, the Self. So every evening You should ask within, 'Are you Chandulal or Shuddhatma? Then the reply, 'Shuddhatma', means that meditation dhyan of Shuddhatma was there the entire day.
Questioner: People will think that we are mad , if we say this.
Dadashri: If they say you are mad, they are saying it to "Chandulal'. Therefore, you can tell Chandulal 'Chandulal if you are mad, they will say so. If they call you mad when you are not, then the responsibility is theirs. It is not your responsibility!' You have to say that to Chandulal.
Questioner: I do not like it when someone calls me mad or senseless.
Dadashri: You cannot have the best of both worlds; you can have one or the other. If you want liberation, then even if people call you crazy or beat you or whatever, you should let go. You should tell them, 'Sir I sit here defeated' I told one man who had come to me, 'You have a desire to defeat 'Dada', don't you? I accept defeat! You got what you want, instead of you losing and going back, I am already defeated so you just have a nice meal and go to sleep.'
So how can one deal with such people and be done with them? All this is nothing but mental wars and entanglements. It is better for the body to suffer but it is a big problem upadhi to take on these stresses on the mind.
One wants to enjoy these transient worldly pleasures and this bliss of the Self too, and that is not possible. If someone comes to defeat you in the world then you should allow yourself to be defeated and sit down
