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Dealings are of the pudgal and the Self is vitarag
Questioner: I have read in the scriptures about who can be vitarag the detached One and the description about the state of the vitarag, but I have never seen a living vitarag..
Dadashri: You will not find one. You will not be able to do darshan of a vitarag. I failed in this time cycle and that is why I am still wandering. However, that is also why You all are able to do the darshan. Otherwise, you will not even get to do darshan of the one who is very close to the Absolute state of full enlightenment keval gnan! It is because you are able to do the darshan of the vitarag that you can understand vitarag. That is how 'we' remain.
See, do 'we' have any separation due differences of opinion matabheda or problems with anyone even when they say negative things? 'We know how to deal with such people. 'We know how to remain 'vitarag'-detached and deal with them at the same time. The pudgal, the nonSelf complex, does the dealing and 'we' remain vitarag. So people have a chance to see vitarag in this timecycle, that is if they understand this. You will be able to see pure vitarag if You delve deeper. “We never keep a mental note of any events that transpire. Once an incident takes place, it is over; 'we' never keep a mental note of it. "We got rid of our 'notebook'a long time ago.
Questioner: No note of compliments given, being showerd with garlands of flowers or someone hurling insults or stones at You?
Dadashri: Yes otherwise, the notebook will eventually fill up resulting in negativity and then it will change your inner vision drashti towards the other person. When he sees you, he will be able to sense it in the way you look at him. Will the other person not know about the note you have made about him? He will immediately know that you have made note of something he said to you a while ago. These people may not know how to see anything else but they do know how to look in your eyes about the note you made. But in 'our eyes they see vitaragata the detached state and immediately realize that Dada is the same as he was. They see vitaragata in ‘our' eyes. Just as you can recognize a man's immoral intent from his eyes and you can recognize a greedy person from his eyes, similarly you can