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cannot do as you wish either. Such is this world. So if you get a husband without commonsense, come and tell me immediately and I will ‘repair' him and I will give you the keys to have a harmonius life.' That is how I solved her problem.
Your worldly interactions are at their best when your ego is down
A man without commonsense will not have even an hour of harmony with his wife! Problems arise because there is no commonsense. What happens when such a man gets married? Today he will get a wife, they get together at night and separate within an hour. To begin with they do not know how to deal with each other. They do not even know where to begin. Should one not have an art of how to live in harmony?
Questioner: One definitely has to have that. He cannot do without it.
Dadashri: The husband should have commonsense, should he not? If the wife makes a mistake, he starts fighting with her. You fool, the mistake did not happen for you to have a fight.
A man with commonsense is able to settle differences with an understanding even with a street vendor. What kind of people get into fights? A person who has no sense ruin things everywhere he goes. Are there any benefits in fighting with people without knowing the facts; without knowing the circumstances that caused the poor man to make a mistake?
Questioner: No it does not; it causes harm.
Dadashri: So those who do not have commonsense, fight. And when they fight, that is the end. It brings an end to the relationship between the two.
So decrease your ego to such an extent that you can get along with everyone. Does the ego have threads that you can turn or twist inorder to reduce it? So is this something you do with or without an understanding? There is no problem with the ego that has understanding but what good is the ego that lacks understanding?
Commonsense increases with a mixing nature
