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your wedding day. From the time you got married, up until now, you have continuously turned and twisted the knots of attachment of 'my, my, my...' This has created a mental effect; a psychological effect. You will create a psychological effect even by saying it just once, whereas this is a ten years worth of effect.' He replied, 'Yes I do agree that a psychological effect has occurred on me. How can I get rid of it now?' I told him, 'Now keep saying, ‘not mine...not mine...not mine...' and thus unwind the knots exactly the way you had wound them! This is the only solution.'
In reality there is no bondage. It is merely a psychological effect that takes place. Then when the wife dies leaving three children behind, the poor man cries. He became happy after I explained things to him this way. As such there is no relation. It is all because one believes 'she is my wife...she is mine... mine that the attachment mamata takes hold. And this effect will go away simply by saying, she is not mine, not mine....' This 'we' guarantee you!
Anything that you get attached to by saying ‘my or mine,' can be removed by saying 'Not mine, not mine.' And if you want to get attached again, then instead of saying 'not mine', say 'mine' and you will get attached. Do you understand that? You do not need any glue for this; it will stick without glue.
Achieve everything even without mamata
This is just a ghost of mamata that has possessed you. It will go away if I remove it for you. Mamata is the witch and I am the exorcist for it. So if you move around in this world without mamata, you will get a lot of respect. But no one lets go of his myness mamata. I ask people, 'what do you want?' What do you crave for?' and they say, 'I have a craving for respect maan.' What else? Then they will say, 'Something to eat and drink.' So then let go of this myness mamata and you will get whatever you need. But people tell me, 'If I let go, I will lose whatever I do have.' And so they will not let go.
Entrapment is the consequence of insatiable greed - lalacha
Insatiable greed lalacha makes a monkey force his hand through the narrow opening of a pot that has been covered with mud all around underground, thinking 'I will take out some nuts'. He forces his hand through, grabs the nuts in a fist but cannot pull out his hand because his fist
