Book Title: Aptavani 09
Author(s): Gnani Purush Dadashri
Publisher: Gnani Purush Dadashri

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________________ recognize a vitarag from his eyes. When there is no agitation, fidgety sign in the eyes it means that nothing has been noted within. Where there is love, there is no nondha - intense mental note The love that arises should be such that it neither increases nor decreases; this is the kind of love that is needed. Real love is love that will not decrease for the person who insults you or curses you. The love that increases or decreases is really an attraction-repulsion aaskakti. If any love begins to increase and decreases, then it becomes an attraction-repulsion aasakti . In health too, when health goes up or down, it is referred to as disease. When the son comes home after earning good money, he is praised, 'Hey son, you did a great job!' and when he loses money a few years later, the father will say, 'He is crazy. I have told him so many times that I am tired of telling him. It has given me a headache!' This is the attraction repulsion aasakti! Instead the opinion that we have of our college- Akram Vignan' is preferable. It remains with us for ever, the same. Questioner: It is the so between husband and wife. They say, 'I love you. I need you and then they fight. Dadashri: That is the attraction-repulsion aasakti. There is no telling where it is and where it will end up. Oho! The great lovers! A man with true love will not let go of her until she dies. There cannot be deep mental notes nondha where there is love. It is not possible to have both love and a 'mental notebook'. When you make a note of, 'You did this... You did that', there is no love there any more. 'We have so many mahatmas here but 'we do not make a note of anybody, even when they do distressful things. There is neither an external note nor an internal one. If an inner mental note nondha is made then, tension will arise even when there is no cause for it. You will see 'us' tension free, no matter when you see me, day or night. And that is why there is no hassle anywhere. Even when our health is not good they all say, “Dada is smiling' There is a smile because there is no tension! So do enter into one's affairs. Even if you become concerned about your physical health, 'I have this problem and that problem', then tension will arise, will they not? Questioner: 'Where there is love there is no nondha intense mental note,' this is an important statement.

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