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Dadashri: Yes, love that keeps mental notes, is not love. The love of this world is one which has mental notes. A woman will make a note of, 'He said this to me today. Now how can you call that love? If it is love then there is no need to make any notes, otherwise it will become attractionrepulsion. Love that increases or decreases is not love. The world will not refrain from making notes. They may not tell you on your face but in their mind they will say, 'he told me off a few days ago.' Would she not keep that on her mind? Therefore, does she not keep a note? The one who does not keep notes has real love. I do not have notebook, how can there even be such a book? There can be a notebook only if you make a mental note. Now you must throw away your mental notes. It is not worth keeping. Give it away to some other businessman. It is not something worth keeping.
Questioner: When someone makes an intense mental note, 'You said this to me and you said that, then that love is broken.
Dadashri: Yes, but one cannot refrain from making an intense mental note. Would even the wife not do that? Will your wife not be doing that?
Questioner: Dada everyone does it, but can we not erase it through Gnan and pratikraman?
Dadashri: No matter how much you try to erase it, you will not succeed. Once you make an intense mental note nondha, you cannot get rid of it by attempting to erase it. The intense mental note will weaken a little but one cannot not refrain from making a comment, can one? Whatever this brother here may do, or whatever may changes occur in you, 'we' will not make any note. Therefore, there is no interference or its effects for 'us' at all. Have you ever seen Dada making a note about you?
Questioner: Never.
Dadashri: Yes, there is no note on anyone.
Questioner: So is that pure love?
Dadashri: Yes, it is pure love. So you will never be unloved by 'us', you will always be dear to 'us'. 'We have no concern with what you said to ‘us' two days ago. If 'we' keep mental notes, then 'we' would have
