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will be that you dig a deeper hole for yourself. They linger on for a much longer time. You will not be able to crawl out of it.
Even if it is true do not harbor suspicion
All these miseries are caused by suspicions. When suspicion arises about someone, it will show you all kinds of things 'He did this. That suspicion will then eat you away from the inside. Even if the other person has done it and suspicion shanka still bother you, tell the suspicion, "hey shanka, you leave. He is my brother."
Questioner: If a man swears at me, how can I believe that he did not swear at me? How can I convince my mind of this?
Dadashri: You cannot say that anyway! How can you when infact he did swear at you. There is no question about it. But what am I saying? Do not be suspicious of him.
Suspicion even after entrusting someone?
If you ask someone on the train to take care of five thousand rupees for your so can you can use the restroom, what should you do when a suspicion arises while you are in the restroom, 'what if he runs away with the money? You should tell the suspicion, 'Go away, I have given the five thousand rupees. What done is done! If the money is meant to go, it will go and if it is meant to stay, it will stay'. Suspicion makes you create unnecessary bondage by seeing the fault of the other. And if a person were to give money to someone like me for safekeeping, what would become of that person if he were to have suspicions about me? Therefore, this world is not worth being suspicious about, over anything.
When you remember what you loaned.
When you are in bed and suddenly, at eleven o'clock in the night, you get a thought, 'I forgot to get an official document for five lakh rupees I had loaned. What if he does not sign it tomorrow? That is it! Then you become like a living corpse.
