Book Title: Ghar ko Kaise Swarg Banaye
Author(s): Chandraprabhsagar
Publisher: Jityasha Foundation
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/003879/1

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Page #1 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ gharako kaise / svarga banAe~ hamAre ghara-parivAra aura riztoM meM miThAsa booloo gii huk lokapriya pustaka _ ... zrI candraprabha Page #2 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ pyAra apanoM se... For Personal & Private Use Only Page #3 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ Full form of FAMILY FATHER AND MOTHER I LOVE YOU For Personal & Private Use Only Page #4 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ AThavA~ vAra : parivAra ghara ko kaise svarga banAe~ zrI candraprabha manoja pablikezansa For Personal & Private Use Only Page #5 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ (c) sarvAdhikAra prakAzakAdhIna - prakAzaka : manoja pablikezansa 761, mena roDa, burAr3I, dillI-110084 phona : 27611116, 27611349, phaiksa : 27611546 mobAila : 9868112194 Imela : info@manojpublications.com vebasAiTa: www.manojpublications.com zorUma: manoja pablikezansa 1583-84, darIbA kalAM, cAMdanI cauka, dillI-110006 phona : 23262174, 23268216, mobAila : 9818753569 bhAratIya kaoNpIrAiTa ekTa ke aMtargata isa pustaka kI sAmagrI kI prastuti tathA rekhAcitroM ke adhikAra 'manoja pablikezansa, 761, mena roDa, burAr3I, dillI84' ke pAsa surakSita haiM, isalie koI bhI sajjana isa pustaka kA nAma, TAiTalaDijAina, aMdara kA maiTara va citra Adi AMzika yA pUrNa rUpa se tor3a-maror3akara evaM kisI bhI bhASA meM chApane va prakAzita karane kA sAhasa na kareM, anyathA kAnUnI taura para harje-kharce va hAni ke jimmedAra ve svayaM hoNge| kisI bhI prakAra ke vAda-vivAda kA nyAyakSetra dillI hI rhegaa| ISBN : 978-81-310-1540-7 prathama saMskaraNa : 2012 Rs 80 saMpAdana zrImatI latA bhaMDArI 'mIrA' zrImatI sImA daphtarI mudraka : jaya mAyA oNphaseTa jhilamila iNDasTriyala eriyA, dillI-110095 ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM : zrI candraprabha For Personal & Private Use Only Page #6 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ prastuti unako bhI z2arUrata hai apane lie to hara koI jiyA karatA hai, para jisakI rozanI auroM ko bhI jIne kA rAstA de de vaha iMsAna nahIM devatA hai| zrI candraprabha eka aise devapuruSa haiM jinhoMne apanI zAMti, AnaMda aura sAdhanA ko kevala apane taka sImita nahIM rakhA hai, anaginata logoM ko apanI snehila divyatA kA svAda diyA hai| gurudeva kA sAnnidhya, unakA satsaMga, unake vacana kisI kamala ke phUla kI taraha hamArI A~khoM ko jIvana kA AdhyAtmika sauMdarya de jAte haiM, tanamana ko naI tAz2agI, naI UrjA saMcArita kara dete haiN| prasaMga cAhe sAdhanA kA ho yA ArAdhanA kA, keriyara kA ho yA ghara-parivAra kA, unakI mahAna jIvana-dRSTi hameM svastha, tanAva-mukta aura UrjAvAna banA detI hai| ___ 'ghara ko kaise svarga banAe~' pustaka pUjya zrI candraprabha ke ve pyAre aura rasabhIne pravacana haiM jo ki hamAre ghara-parivAra ke mAhaula ko hara taraha se qhuzanumA banAte haiM / IMTa, cUne, patthara se makAna kA nirmANa to ho sakatA hai, para ghara For Personal & Private Use Only Page #7 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ SOMETIMES FOR FAMILY parivAra kA nirmANa jina cIz2oM se hotA hai, yaha pustaka hamAre sAmane unhIM saba bAtoM ko peza karatI hai| zrI candraprabha kahate haiM ki apane ghara kA mAhaula isa taraha banAe~ ki ApakI hara subaha Ida ho, hara dopahara holI aura hara rAta divAlI kI ho / pitA ke cehare meM sadA Izvara ke darzana kareM aura mA~ ke caraNoM meM svarga kA AnaMda leN| apane ghara ko apanA maMdira samajheM aura usakA svarUpa utanA hI pavitra aura qhuzanumA rakheM, jitanA ki Apa paramapitA paramezvara ke maMdira ko rakhanA pasaMda karate haiM / ko yaha behatarIna pustaka hamAre ghara-parivAra qhuzanumA banAtI hai, hamAre riztoM ko eka naI miThAsa detI hai, baccoM kA bhaviSya sa~vAratI hai, javAnI meM saphalatA kA vizvAsa detI hai aura bur3hApe kI sArthakatA ke damadAra gura sikhAtI hai / yaha pustaka apane Apa meM ghara ke A~gana meM khilA huA vaha kalpavRkSa hai, jisakI chAyA meM Apa apane ghara kA mAhaula svarga jaisA sukhadAyI banA sakate haiM / Apa sabhI ke pAsa pUre caubIsa ghaMTe haiM, unameM se thor3A samaya seviMga ekAuMTa meM DAlie aura usakA upayoga apane mAtA-pitA, bhAI, bahina aura bIvI-baccoM ke lie phiksa kIjie / For Personal & Private Use Only Page #8 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ | aMdara kyA hai.. 1. ghara ko kaise svarga banAe~ 2. riztoM meM gholeM prema kI miThAsa 3. kaise sa~vAreM baccoM kA bhaviSya 4. mA~ hI maMdira, mA~ hI pUjA 5. ciMtA chor3eM, sukha se jie~ 6. bur3hApe kI sArthakatA ke zAnadAra nuskhe 7. kaise deM rogoM ko mAta 8. zaha bhI ApakI, saphalatA bhI ApakI 9. sakArAtmaka soca kI camatkArI zakti 9-22 23-36 37-51 52-74 75-86 87-108 104-119 120-137 138-144 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #9 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ be alert for YOUR FAMILY For Personal & Private Use Only Page #10 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM ? &0000MARA-NAMAR qhuzahAla parivAra dharatI kA svarga hai| yadi koI pUche ki svarga kA sukUna kahA~ hai to z2avAba hogA - vahA~, jahA~ bhAI-bhAI hila milakara rahate haiN| agara koI yaha jAnanA cAhe ki duniyA kA naraka kahA~ hai to z2avAba hogA - vahA~, jahA~ bhAI-bhAI kutte-billI kI taraha Apasa meM lar3ate-jhagar3ate haiN| mAtA-pitA ke jIte-jI saMtAnoM kA alaga ho jAnA pArivArika dRSTi se pApa kA udaya hai, para mAtA-pitA kI sevA meM saMtAnoM ke dvArA apane svArthoM kA tyAga karanA nizcaya hI puNya kA udaya hai| khuzahAla parivAra aura ghara sabhI ko acchA lagatA hai| hara ghara aura parivAra kA vAtAvaraNa aisA ho ki subaha Ida kA tyauhAra, dopahara meM holI kA phAlgunI parva aura DhalatI sA~jha meM dIvAlI kA sukha-sukUna ho| alasubaha bhAI-bhAI, devarAnI-jeThAnI Apasa meM gale milate haiM aura mAtA-pitA ke caraNa chUne kA AnaMda lete haiM unakI subaha Ida kA tyauhAra hai| jisa ghara meM dopahara ke samaya sAsa-bahU, pitA-putra, bhAI-bahina, devarAnI-jeThAnI eka sAtha baiThakara bhojana karate haiM, apanA prema eka dUsare ko samarpita karate haiM, unakI dopahara holI kA utsava hai| jahA~ sA~jha Dhalane para, ghara se bAhara gae 19 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #11 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ loga ha~sI-khuzI ke sAtha ghara meM praveza karate haiM, aura eka sAtha hila milakara, eka dUsare ko dekhakara apane jIvana meM sukUna aura Ananda lete haiM to unakI sA~jha aura rAta bhI divAlI kI taraha sukhadAyI ho jAtI hai| bhAI ke prema aura bar3oM ke AzIrvAda se bar3hakara bhalA aura kaunasI divAlI hogii| IMTa, cUne, patthara se jisakA nirmANa hotA hai, use ghara nahIM, makAna kahate haiN| jisa makAna meM patnI, bacce aura patideva rahate haiM, use ghara kahate haiM, para jisa ghara meM mAtA-pitA aura bhAI-bahina ke lie bhI sammAna kA sthAna hotA hai jI hA~, use hI parivAra kahate haiM, use hI svarga kahate haiN| hama kucha aisI pahala kareM jisase hamArA ghara makAna nahIM balki parivAra bane, dharatI kA svarga bne| ___parivAra to sAmAjika jIvana kI rIr3ha hai| sAmAjika jIvana kA pahalA maMdira parivAra hI hai| parivAra baccoM kI pahalI pAThazAlA hai aura sAmAjika jIvana kA pahalA mNdir| parivAra kA mAhaula jitanA sundara hogA, naI koMpaleM utanI hI saphala aura madhura hoNgii| skUla meM pustakIya zikSA to prApta ho jAtI hai, lekina susaMskAroM kI pAThazAlA to usakA apanA ghara hI hai| sAmAjika caritra ke nirmANa ke lie, garimApUrNa samAja ke nirmANa ke lie, ahiMsaka aura vyasanamukta samAja ke nirmANa ke lie parivAra kA ahiMsaka, vyasanamukta aura garimApUrNa honA Avazyaka hai| ___ eka saptAha meM sAta vAra hote haiN| maiM eka AThavA~ vAra' batAtA hU~ aura vaha vAra hai 'parivAra' / jahA~ ghara ke sAre sadasya eka hI chata ke nIce mila-jula kara rahate haiM vahA~ parivAra hotA hai| jahA~ sAtoM dina ikaTThe hote haiM use saptAha kahate haiN| isa rahasya se Apa samajha sakate haiM ki ApakI ekatA, sadbhAvanA aura samarasatA Apake parivAra kA AdhAra banatI hai| sAta dinoM ko eka kara do to vaha saptAha banatA hai aura saptAhoM ko eka karo to mahinA aura mahinoM ko saMyojita karo to varSa nirmita hotA hai| yahI mela-milApa parivAra ke sAtha bhI lAgU hotA hai| bhAI-bahina, sAsa-bahU, devarAnIjeThAnI jahA~ milate haiM, vaha parivAra hai| parivAroM kI ekatA samAja banAtI hai| samAjoM se hI dharma, rASTra aura vizva apanA astitva rakhate haiN| alaga-alaga bhAgoM meM ba~TA huA deza, alaga-alaga bhAgoM meM ba~TA huA dharma, alaga-alaga bhAgoM meM ba~TA haA samAja aura parivAra kucha bhI nahIM hotaa| na parivAra, na samAja, na dharma aura na desh| eka sUtra meM rahanA hI parivAra ko eka rakhane kA rAjamaMtra hai| eka-dUsare ke prati tyAgaparAyaNatA rakhane se hI kisI kA bhI ghara eka raha sakatA hai| eka sUtra meM ba~dhe ghara se bar3hakara koI maMdira yA makAna nahIM hotA aura na svarga yA madhuvana hotA hai| jahA~ ghara ke 10 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #12 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ sabhI sadasya sAtha rahate haiM aura eka hI cUlhe kA bhojana karate haiM, yaha usa ghara kA puNya hai kintu jaba eka hI mAtA-pitA kI saMtAneM alaga-alaga ghara banA letI haiM aura eka dUsare kA mu~ha dekhanA bhI pasanda nahIM karatIM to yahI kAraNa unake pArivArika pApa' kA bIja bana jAtA hai| mAtA-pitA ke rahate hue agara beTe alaga ho jAe~ to yaha mA~bApa ke pApa kA udaya hai, aura unakA sAtha rahanA donoM ke puNyoM kA udaya hai| tyAga parivAra kI eka sUtratA kA mUlamaMtra hai| bacapana meM Apane vaha kahAnI jarUra sunI hogI jisakA zIrSaka thA sUkhI ddaalii| vaha kahAnI yaha thI ki eka parivAra jo prAcIna paramparAoM kA saMvAhaka thA, usameM eka Adhunika par3hI-likhI lar3akI bahU banakara AtI hai| ghara ke saMskAra aura vahA~ kA vAtAvaraNa kucha isa taraha kA hotA hai ki baha usameM Dhala nahIM paatii| vaha apane pati ko samajhA-bujhA kara apanA ghara, apanA makAna alaga banAne kA nirNaya kara letI hai| jaba ve dampati apanA sAmAna bA~dhakara jAne ke lie taiyAra hote haiM to ghara ke bujurga dAdAjI pUchate haiM, kyA bAta hai beTA, kahIM bAhara jArahe ho?' ___ bahU Adhunika thI, para maryAdita thii| use ghara ke purAne sophe, purAnI Tebala, kursiyA~, dIvAroM kA raMga-rogana Adi pasanda nahIM thaa| vaha to dAdA ke sAmane kucha na bolI, para usakI nanada ne kahA, 'bhAbhI apanA ghara alaga basA rahI hai|' dAdAjI cauMka par3e, 'are, aisI kyA bAta ho gaI? mere jIte jI ghara kA koI sadasya kyA alaga ghara basAegA? mere hote hue isa vaTavRkSa kI DAlI kyA alaga ho jAegI? Akhira kyA kAraNa hai ki bahU ko isa ghara se alaga hone kA socanA par3A?' nanada ne batAyA ki bhAbhI ko dIvAroM kA raMga, purAnI zailI ke sophe, Tebala-kursI Adi acche nahIM lgte| dAdA ne socA aura tatkAla nirNaya lete hue apane beTe se kahA, 'beTA, kyA tuma itanI choTI-sI bAta ke lie vaTavRkSa se alaga huI DAlI bananA cAhate ho? unhoMne apane putra ke sira para hAtha pherate hue kahA, 'beTA, mere pAsa itanA dhana to nahIM hai ki maiM ghara kA pUrA parivartana kara sakU~ phira bhI tuma yaha cAbI lo aura mere pAsa jo thor3A-sA sonA hai use becakara jaisA baharAnI ko pasaMda ho, vaisA ghara meM parivartana kara lo para kama-se-kama ghara ko to TUTane mata do|' ghara kA abhibhAvaka hone ke kAraNa bujurga kA yaha dAyitva banatA hai ki vaha bar3e-se-bar3A tyAga karake bhI ghara ko hamezA prema, AtmIyatA, bhAIcArA aura sahabhAgitA se eka banAe rkhe| ghara ke bujurgoM ke rahate hue bhI agara ghara TUTa rahA hai to isameM naI pIr3hI se adhika bujurgavAra doSI haiN| purAnI pIr3hI ko bhI naI pIr3hI ke |11 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #13 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ anurUpa DhalanA hogA aura naI pIr3hI ko bhI purAnI pIr3hI ko samajhate hue ghara ke mAhaula meM samajhaute ke hAlAta banAne hoNge| na to hama purAnI pIr3hI ko inkAra kareM aura na hI naI pIr3hI ke prati hI asvIkAra kA bhAva lekara aaeN| eka-dUsare ke prati rahane vAle tyAga ke bhAva meM hI parivAra kI AtmA samAI rahatI hai / rAmAyaNa tyAga kA Adarza hai| maiM to kahU~gA ki hara ghara meM 'rAmAyaNa' z2arUra honI caahie| gItA, Agama, piTaka, bAibila, kurAna Adi saba zAstroM kA mUlya rAmAyaNa ke bAda hai kyoMki rAmAyaNa batAtI hai ki ghara aura parivAra ko kisa taraha se tyAga aura AtmIyatA ke dharAtala para rakhA jA sakatA hai| rAmAyaNa hamAre lie Adarza hai| maiM mahaz2a rAma-rAma raTane kI preraNA nahIM duuNgaa| maiM rAma se, rAmAyaNa se gharaparivAra meM kucha sIkhane kI preraNA duuNgaa| maiMne bhI rAma aura rAmAyaNa se sIkhA hai| mere mAtA-pitA ne apane jIvana meM saMnyAsa dhAraNa kiyaa| unakI tahe dila kI icchA thI ki ve apane bur3hApe ko prabhu ke lie samarpita kreN| hama bhAiyoM ne maMtraNA kI ki agara mAtA-pitA saMnyAsa lete haiM to hama bhAiyoM meM se koI na koI bhAI unakI sevA ke lie saMnyAsa dhAraNa karegA aura taba hama do bhAiyoM ne, maiMne aura lalitaprabha jI ne dIkSA lii| mAtA-pitA kI sevA ke lie to eka bhAI paryApta thA para bhAI akelA na par3a jAe isalie do bhAiyoM ne saMnyAsa kA mArga akhtiyAra kiyA / yaha hai hamAre ghara kI rAmAyaNa / rAmAyaNa iMsAna ke lie pahalI dhArmika preraNA hai jaba ki kuraAna aura gItA dUsarI preraNA, piTaka tIsarI preraNA aura Agama cauthI preraNA hai| rAmAyaNa kuMjI hai ghara ko svarga banAne ke lie| ho sakatA hai ki rAmAyaNa meM kucha aise pahalU bhI hoM jo hameM ThIka na lageM, para duniyA kI koI bhI cIja Akhira hara dRSTi se 100% sahI yA phiTa ho bhI to nahIM sktii| hara yuga kI apanI dRSTi aura maryAdA hotI hai, para rAmAyaNa meM bhI 90% tathya aise haiM jo hamAre yuga ko, hamAre jIvana aura samAja ko prakAza kA puMja pradAna kara sakate haiN| unhIM se hameM yaha preraNA milatI hai ki eka beTA apane pitA ke vacanoM kA mAna rakhane ke lie vanavAsa taka le letA hai| eka patnI apane pati ke padacihnoM kA anusaraNa karatI hue vana-gamana karatI hai to eka bhAI apane bhAI kA sAtha dene ke lie vanavAsa svIkAra kara letA hai| eka bhAI rAjamahala meM rahakara bhI bhAI ke duHkha kA smaraNa kara rAjamahala meM bhI vanavAsI kA jIvana vyatIta karatA hai| yaha saba pArivArika tyAga kI parAkASThA hai| isase bar3hakara dUsarA zAstra kyA hogA ? zAyada rAjamahala meM rahate hue rAma ko itanA bhrAtR-sukha nahIM milatA jitanA vana meM rahate hue 12 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #14 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ unheM lakSmaNa aura bharata se milA thaa| rAma aura sItA ko vanagamana karate hue dekha kara lakSmaNa apanI mA~ sumitrA ke pAsa jAte haiM aura kahate haiM - 'mA~, bhAI rAma aura bhAbhI sItA vana kI ora jA rahe haiN| unake jAne se pahale maiM bhI tumase eka vacana (AjJA) cAhatA huuN|' sumitrA ne kahA, 'beTA, sautelepana ke kAraNa eka nArI ne, eka dIdI ne jo vacana mA~gA thA usakA yaha duSpariNAma huA ki rAma jaise putra ko vanavAsa jhelanA par3a rahA hai aura dazaratha jaise samartha samrATa kI patnI ho kara bhI hameM ghora saMkaTa kA sAmanA karanA par3a rahA hai| beTA, isa samaya tuma mujhase kaunasA vacana mA~ganA cAhate ho? tumheM mA~ se koI vacana cAhie to bhI isa ghaTita ghaTanA kI velA ko gujara jAne ke bAda kucha bhI mAMga lenaa|' lakSmaNa ne kahA, 'mA~, vacana mA~gane kA yahI samaya hai| Apane eka minaTa kI bhI dera kara dI to mere pAsa jIvanabhara prAyazcita karane ke alAvA kucha na bcegaa|' vyathita hokara sumitrA ne kahA, 'jaba sArA ghara hI ujar3a cukA hai, taba tU bhI apanA vacana mAMga le| jaba ujar3anA hI hai to yaha bhI ujar3ane meM eka aura nimitta bana jaaegaa|' taba lakSmaNa ne kahA, 'mA~, bar3e bhAI rAma aura bhAbhI sItA jisa vanagamana ke lie tatpara haiM, maiM bhI unakI sevA ke lie caudaha varSa kA vanavAsa svIkAra karanA cAhatA huuN|' 'mA~ sumitrA gadgad ho gii| usane lakSmaNa ko hRdaya se lagA liyA aura bolI, beTA, tumane aisA kahakara mA~ aura kula kA gaurava bar3hA diyA hai| jo bhAI, bhAI ke kAma A gayA, vahI vAstava meM bhAI hotA hai| Ane vAle samaya meM loga jitane Adara se rAma kA nAma leMge utane hI Adara se tumhArA nAma bhI leNge|' samaya gavAha hai ki lakSmaNa bhI rAma ke samAna AdaraNIya ho ge| rAma to saMbhavata: pitA ke vacanoM kA pAlana karane ko maz2abUra rahe hoMge, para lakSmaNa aura bharata to aisA karane ke lie bilkula bhI vivaza nahIM the| para yahI to pArivArika bhAvanA hai aura yahI to sAmAjika caritra aura mUlya haiN| saccAI to yaha hai ki inhIM mUlyoM se bhAratIya saMskRti kA nirmANa huA hai| yaha saMskRti jisake bhI ghara meM hai, vahI bhAratIya hai| yadi aisA nahIM hai to Apa Adhe bhAratIya aura Adhe paradesI haiN| hara vyakti apanAapanA kartavya smjhe| ___ parivAra meM pitA apane aura putra apane karttavya smjheN| sAsa agara adhikAra rakhatI hai to vaha apane kartavya samajhe, bahU bhI apane kartavya nibhaae| bhAI-bhAI apane kartavya jAneM to devara-bhAbhI bhI apane kartavyoM kA nirvAha kreN| parivAra to yajJa ke samAna hai jisameM sabhI sadasya yadi apane-apane kartavyoM kA pAlana karane ke lie 13 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #15 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ Ahuti dete rahate haiM to hI parivAra saMyukta raha sakatA hai| parivAra ko saMyukta rakhanA parivAra ke hara sadasya kA pahalA karttavya aura dharma hai| alaga-alaga rahane vAle kA to namaka bhI maha~gA par3atA hai| eka sAtha rahane vAloM meM agara cAra haiM to 'caudharI' aura pA~ca haiM to paMca kahalAte haiN| yadi cAra bhAI sAtha rahate hoM aura unameM se kisI eka kI kismata bigar3a jAe aura use hara ora se ghATA uThAnA par3e to anya tInoM bhAI milakara usake kaSToM kA nivAraNa kara deMge jaba ki akele rahane vAle ko vipatti ke samaya meM dara-dara kI ThokareM khAne ko majabUra honA pdd'egaa| jo bhAI bhAI kA nahIM ho sakatA vaha mitra kA bhI nahIM ho sktaa| jo bhAI mitra kA nahIM ho sakatA, vaha samAja kA bhI nahIM ho sktaa| yadi tuma kisI kA sAtha nahIM de sakate to tumhArA sAtha kauna degA? ___ agara Apa pAMca bhAI haiM to unameM se tIna zahara meM aura do gA~va meM raha sakate haiN| yadi zahara meM tInoM bhAI alaga-alaga rahate hoM aura pratyeka bhAI DhAI hajAra rupaye kirAyA detA hai to sAr3he sAta hajAra rupaye laga gae kintu agara sAtha meM rahate to cAra hajAra meM hI acchA-sA makAna mila jaataa| isase kharcA bhI kama hotA aura ekadUsare ke sAtha sahabhAgitA bhI adhika hotii| Apa jaba bImAra ho jAoge to par3osI nahIM apitu ApakA bhAI hI kAma aaegaa| eka aura eka gyAraha hote haiM, para agara eka aura eka ke bIca iMTu, plasa, mAinasa lagAte rahe to yahI eka aura eka do ho sakate haiM yA jIro raha sakate haiN| mere-tere aura svArtha ke iMTu, plasa, mAinasa haTA diye jAe~ to isI eka aura eka ko gyAraha hone se koI roka nahIM sktaa| bhAI-bhAI kA to eka hI nArA ho - hama saba sAtha-sAtha haiN| ____ z2arA hamArI bAta sunie / jaba hamAre pitA ne saMnyAsa liyA to apane baccoM se (hama bhAiyoM se) kahA thA, 'bacco, tumheM jaisA jInA ho vaisA jiinaa| maiM koI dakhala nahIM dUMgA lekina jaba taka hama saMta mAtA-pitA jIvita raheM, tuma loga alaga-alaga mata honaa| isake atirikta jo tumheM karanA ho, karate rhnaa|' hameM saMnyasta hue satAIsa varSa ho gae haiM, para hameM yAda nahIM par3atA ki ina sattAIsa varSoM meM hama bhAiyoM ke bIca kabhI 'tU-tU-maiM-maiM' huI ho| are, bhAI-bhAI lar3ane ke lie nahIM hote| hamAre mAtA-pitA ne hameM koI lar3ane ke lie thor3e hI paidA kiyA hai| jo unhoMne kahA vaha hameM maMjUra aura jo hamane kahA vaha unheM maMjUra, bhAI-bhAI ke bIca prema ko akhaMDa banAye rakhane kA yahI mUlamaMtra hai| 14/ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #16 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ eka ke kArya meM dUsarA hastakSepa na kre| tumane agara galata kiyA hai to usakA pariNAma bhI sAmane A jAegA aura acchA kiyA hai to usakA pariNAma bhI chipane vAlA nahIM hai| AvazyakatA par3ane para eka-dUsare kI salAha le lo| hama donoM bhAI to tIna sau paiMsaTha dina eka hI pAtra meM eka sAtha bhojana karate haiN| eka bhAIroTI cUratA hai to dUsarA bhAI use AnandapUrvaka khAtA hai| bhAI ke hAtha se cUrI huI roTI kA svAda hI anerA hotA hai| bhAI-bhAI kA prema to svarga ke AnaMda se bhI bar3hakara hotA hai| ____dharma vaha nahIM hai jo zAstrokta hai balki dharma to vaha hai jise vyAvahArika jIvana meM dhAraNa kiyA jA ske| pahale kartavya to mAtA-pitA ke haiM apanI saMtAnoM ke prati, dUsare kartavya saMtAnoM ke haiM apane mAtA-pitA ke prati / maiM cAhatA hU~ ki Apa logoM kA ghara svarga kA praveza-dvAra bana jaae| mAtA-pitA, bujurga sabhI apane-apane dAyitva nibhaaeN| na jAne kitanI Asa, ArajU se ghara meM bacce kA janma hotA hai, use mAreM-pITeM nahIM, apane TITU ke kAna na mrodd'eN| vaha ApakA TITU hai, TaTU nhiiN| apazabdoM kA prayoga na kreN| zarAba, sigareTa jaise durvyasana na kreN| aisA kucha bhI na kareM aura na kaheM jinase baccoM meM galata saMskAra pdd'eN| baccoM ko eka kAra z2arUra dIjie, para vaha kAra kisI mAruti yA hoMDA kI na ho balki saMskAroM kI kAra ho / apane baccoM ko saMskAroM kI kAra diijie| baccoM kA jIvana AIne jaisA hotA hai| vaha jo jaisA dekhegA, vaisA hI puna: Apako dikhaaegaa| bacce kaimare kI bhA~ti hara cIja ko apane aMdara utAra lete haiM aura samajha Ane para vApasa use hI dikhA dete haiM ekadama calacitra kI taraha ! isalie baccoM ke sAtha acchA kIjie aura acchA paaie| unheM lAyaka banAie, para aisAlAyaka bhImata banAie kivo Apake prati nAlAyaka bana jaae| yAda rakhie, samAja kA adhyakSa bana kara samAja kA saMcAlana karanA AsAna ho sakatA hai lekina ghara kA abhibhAvaka hokara apane ghara ke baccoM kA pAlana-poSaNa karanA kaThina hotA hai| deza ke pradhAnamaMtrI ke lie zAyada deza kA saMcAlana karanA sahaja ho, para apane hI beTe ko susaMskArita karanA deza ko saMcAlita karane se bhI muzkila kAma hai| pitA isIlie to AdaraNIya hote haiM kyoMki ve hameM apane pA~voM para khar3A honA sikhAte haiN| kevala upadezaka na baneM, kartA bneN| jo zikSAprada bAteM Apane apane baccoM, nAtI, potoM se kahI haiM unake udAharaNa svayaM bneN| jaba bacce Apako vaisA hI karatA huA dekheMge to ve svayaM bhI vaisA hI anukaraNa kreNge| baccoM ke lie sirpha paisA hI kharca na kareM, una para apane samaya kA bhI niveza kreN| Apa unheM aise saMskAra dIjie ki sabhI usa para garva kara skeN| baccoM ko itanA yogya banAie ki ve | 15 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #17 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ samAja kI agrima paMkti meM baiThane ke lAyaka hoM / hA~, agara Apako lagatA hai ki baccA bhaTaka rahA hai to use latAr3ane kA bhI haqa rakheM / galata kAryoM ke lie baccoM ko saMrakSaNa ndeN| aisA huA ki eka amIra vyakti ke ghara para AdhI rAta ke samaya pulisa ne dastaka dii| makAna-mAlika uThA aura usane ghara ke bAhara pulisa ko khar3A dekhaa| vaha cauMka gayA ki usake ghara para pulisa kA kyA kAma? usane daravAz2A kholA aura pUchA, 'kisalie AnA huA?' pulisa iMspekTara ne eka phoTo dikhAte hue pUchA, 'kyA Apa ise jAnate haiM?' makAna-mAlika ne kahA, 'yaha to merA hI beTA hai| kyoM, kyA huA?' iMspekTara ne batAyA, 'Aja ApakA beTA iMDiyA geTa ke pAsa kucha lar3akiyoM se cher3akhAnI karate hue pAyA gayA, aura usane unake sAtha badatamIjI kii| isalie hama use giraphtAra karane Ae haiN| usake sAtha anya do lar3ake bhI the jinheM hama pakar3a cuke haiM aura aba Apake beTe kI bArI hai| __ pitA ne saba sunA, gaharI lambI sA~sa bharI aura vaha beTe ke kamare meM gyaa| usane beTe se pUchA, 'saca-saca batAo, kyA tumane kinhIM lar3akiyoM ke sAtha cher3akhAnI kI thI? bAhara pulisa khar3I hai, saca-saca batA do|' beTe ne zarma se gardana jhukA dii| pitA ne phira doharAyA, 'maiM pUcha rahA hU~ beTA, kyA tumane aisA kiyA?' beTe ne kucha z2avAba na diyaa| pitA samajha gyaa| vaha bAhara AyA aura iMspekTara se bolA, 'merA beTA kamare meM hai| jAie, use giraphtAra kara liijie|' beTA giraphtAra ho gyaa| beTe ke mana meM krodha bhara gayA ki yaha kaisA pitA hai jo mujhe bacAne kI bajAya mujhe jela bheja rahA hai| iMspekTara ke mana meM bhI vicAra Arahe the ki yaha ajIba AdamI hai jo apane hI putra ko giraphtAra karavA rahA hai| lagatA hai, bApa-beTe meM anabana hai| lekina vaha kyA kare ! le calA vaha apane mujarima ko ki tabhI pitA ne AvAz2a lagAI, 'tthhro| iMspekTara sAhaba Apa jarA aMdara aaie|' apanI alamArI se usane pAMca hajAra ru. nikAle aura iMspekTara ko dete hue kahA, 'ye rupaye maiM apane beTe ko chur3Ane ke lie nahIM, balki isa bAta ke lie de rahA hU~ ki Aja Apa isakI itanI piTAI kareM ki Aja ke bAda yaha phira se kisI bhI lar3akI para galata naz2ara DAlane kA sAhasa na kara ske|' yaha patA calane para ki beTA bigar3a rahA hai, mAtA-pitA hone ke nAte, ghara kA bujurga aura abhibhAvaka hone ke nAte ApakA bhI yaha dAyitva hai ki Apa use puna: sahI rAste para laaeN| 161 ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM-1 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #18 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ jaise mAtA-pitA ke dAyitva haiM baccoM ke prati, vaise hI baccoM ke bhI kucha karttavya haiM apane mAtA-pitA ke prati / mAtA-pitA to kisI pavitra maMdira kI taraha hote haiM jinake caraNoM meM hI svarga hotA hai| jo apane mAtA-pitA kI upekSA karate haiM, ve bhUla jAte haiM ki una para mAtA-pitA kA kitanA RNa hai| isalie maiM kahA karatA hU~ ki jo vyakti ATha ghaMTe apanI patnI ke sAtha bitAtA hai, vaha itanA naitika dAyitva z2arUra rakhe ki do ghaNTe apane mAtA-pitA ke sAtha bhI rahe, unake sAtha bhI do ghaMTe bitaae| patiyo, Apa yaha jAna lo ki Apa para kisI bhI patnI kA RNa nahIM hotA aura patniyo, Apa bhI samajha lo ki Apa para bhI kisI pati kA RNa nahIM hotA lekina hara puruSa aura mahilA para mAtA-pitA kA RNa avazya hotA hai| ___ mAtA-pitA ne hamameM apanA bhaviSya dekhA hai| unhoMne hamArI racanA ko sundaratama banAne kA prayatna kiyA hai| kyA vaha racanA itanI niSThura hogI ki racanAkAra ko hI dutkAra baiThe ? jisane hameM apanA bhaviSya samajhA, kyA hama unakA vartamAna nahIM banAe~ge? oha, dharatI para to eka hI Izvara hai, aura vaha Izvara hamAre apane mAtApitA haiN| jitanA unhoMne hamAre lie kiyA, usakA 25% bhAga bhI Apa unake lie kara dIjie to Apa unakI puNyavAnI aura AzISoM ke uttarAdhikArI ho jaaeNge| kaisI vicitra bAta hai ki bacapana meM hama apane mAtA-pitA kA bichAvana gIlA karate the aura Aja unakI A~khoM ko gIlA kara rahe haiN| yAda karo jaba taka hama ThIka se calane lAyaka na hue, ve hamArI aMgulI pakar3a kara hameM calAte rahe, aMgulI pakar3a kara hameM skUla le jAte rhe| ve taba hamArA sahArA bane hue the aura Aja jaba ve azakta haiM to hama bhI unheM aMgulI thAmakara kisI maMdira athavA kisI tIrtha sthAna meM z2arUra le jaaeN| isI bahAne zAyada unakA thor3A-sA RNa utara jaae| aisA karanA jahA~ Apake lie sukhadAI hogA, vahIM Apako thor3A-sA uRNa bhI kregaa| mA~, tUne tIrthaMkaroM ko janmA hai| saMsAra tere hI, dama se banA hai| tU hI pUjA hai, mannata hai merii| tere hI caraNoM meM jannata hai merii|| he mA~, tumane tIrthaMkaroM ko janma diyA hai| devarAja bhI tumheM praNAma karate haiN| tumhAre hI dama se saMsAra hai| tU hI hamArI pUjA hai, tU hI hamArI manautI hai| tere hI kadamoM meM hamArI jannata hai| jo bhI mAtA-pitA ke prati apane dAyitvoM ko, kartavyoM ko nibhAtA hai, unheM subaha uThakara praNAma karatA hai, unake sAtha bhojana karatA hai, rAtri meM 17 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #19 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ sone se pUrva unakI caraNa-sevA karatA hai, usakA putra honA bhI dhanya hai| ____ maiM, mahilAoM se kahanA cAhU~gA ki ve apane pati ko usake mA~-bApa se alaga nakareM, alaga na hone deN| agara vaha alaga hI honA cAhe to Apa unheM samajhAe~ ki vaha mAtA-pitA se alaga na ho| hara mahilA kA kartavya hai ki agara usakA pati zravaNakumAra kI bhUmikA adA karanA cAhatA hai to vaha usakA avazya hI sahayoga kre| yadi Apa zravaNa kumAra kI mA~ bananA cAhatI haiM, to kRpayA apane pati ko zravaNa kumAra banane kI preraNA deN| use aisA karane kA protsAhana deN| mAtA-pitA ke prati apane kartavyoM kA pAlana kreN| ___ ghara meM sabhI samAna rUpa se apane-apane kartavyoM kA nirvahana kareM,tabhI ghara svarga bana skegaa| sAsa-bahU paraspara na ldd'eN| maiMne abhI kucha dina pahale eka bahU se pUchA, 'Apako hAtha-kharca kauna detA hai? usane batAyA, 'sAsa detI hai|' acchA huA, usa baha ne sArI sAsuoM kI lAja rakha lii| sAsa-bahU mA~-beTI ke samAna hotI haiN| sAsa hamezA yahI samajhe ki bahU, bahU nahIM balki beTI hai aura bahU bhI sAsa ko mA~ hI smjhe| ghara ke sabhI sadasya agara tarIke se jInA sIkha leM to duniyA kI koI bhI tAqata ghara ko nahIM tor3a sktii| bApa-beTe alaga nahIM ho skte| sAsa aura bahU ke bIca vaicArika saMtulana nahIM bana pAne ke kAraNa hI ghara TUTA karate haiN| maiM sAsuoM se kahanA cAha~gA ki Apa apanI bahaoM ko itanA prema. itanA sneha deM ki bahae~ apane pIhara ke phona nambara taka bhUla jaaeN| kabhI pIhara jAnA bhI par3a jAe to use sAsa rUpI mammI kI yAda AtI rahe, aura use vahA~ se jaldI hI vApasa Ane kI icchA ho| abhI to hAlata ulaTI hai| yadi baha sasurAla meM hai to vaha hamezA aisA avasara talAzatI rahatI hai ki use pIhara jAne kA maukA mile| kucha bhI nahIM to vaha apane bhAI ko phona para kahegI, 'beTe kA janma-dina manA lo, tAki mujhe pIhara Ane kA maukA mila jaae| sAsuo, Apa apanI bahuoM ko itanA sneha deM ki ve pIhara jAne ko itanI bAvalI na hoN| unake mAtA-pitA ne apanI lar3akI ko Apake ghara bheja diyA hai to unheM pratAr3ita mata kro| kyA Apa bahU ko apane ghara meM lar3ane-jhagar3ane ke lie lAe haiM? vaise bhI Ajakala to lar3akiyA~ kama ho gaI haiM isalie lar3ake mAre-mAre ghUma rahe haiN| tumane kitanoM se samparka kiyA hogA, kitanoM se kahA hogA taba vaha bahU bana kara tumhAre ghara meM AI hai aura aba Apa usase saMtulana nahIM biThA pA rahe haiN| sAsa aura bahU kA saMbaMdha pavitra saMbaMdha hai| ghara meM agara do jIva sahI DhaMga se, saMtulita tarIke se raha leM, 18/ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #20 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ to ghara apane-Apa svarga bana jaaegaa| loga gaile hote haiM jo lar3ake-lar3akI kI janma kuMDalI milAte haiM / are bhAI agara kuMDalI milAnI hI hai to lar3ake-lar3akI kI kyA kuMDalI milAnA ? milAnA hI hai to sAsa-bahU kI janma kuMDalI milAo kyoMki ina donoM kI paTarI ThIka baiTha gaI to sAre ghara kI paTarI ThIka baiTha gaI smjho| lar3akAlar3akI to jaise bhI haiM goTI phiTa kara hI leNge| sAsa-bahU ke saMbaMdhoM meM hI ghara ko svarga banAne kI buniyAda sthita hai / isalie kRpAkara Apa eka dUsare ke prati premapUrNa, samajhautA bharA, vizvAsa bharA vyavahAra kreN| bahue~ apanI sAsa ke sammAna meM kabhI kamI na Ane deN| jaba ve maryAdA meM raheMgI tabhI gRhalakSmI aura kulavadhu kahalAe~gI / sAsa-bahU ko itanI svataMtratA avazya de ki vaha bhI apane mana se kucha kara sake / vaha bAta-bAta meM dakhala aMdAjI na kare / agara ghara ke gArjiyana bAta-bAta meM TokA TokI aura hastakSepa karanA baMda kara deM to duniyA ke koI beTe-bahU aise nahIM hoMge jo apane mA~-bApa yA sAsa-sasura se apanA ghara alaga basAne kI soce bhI / gosvAmI tulasIdAsa jI kI caupAI kA eka sundara pada hai : sAsa-sasura pada paMkaja pUjA / - yA sama nAri-dharma nahIM dUjA // sAsa-sasura mAtA-pitA hI hote haiN| ye hI ve saubhAgyadAtA haiM jo nArI ko usakA pati pradAna karate haiN| jisa ghara meM bahU ko gRhalakSmI mAnakara iz2z2ata dI jAtI hai aura sAsa-sasura ko mAtA-pitA mAnakara sammAna diyA jAtA hai, vaha ghara anAyAsa svarga hI hotA hai / jisa ghara meM sAsa-bahU Apasa meM 'tU-tU, maiM-maiM' karate rahate haiM, vaha ghara tinakoM kI taraha kabhI bhI bikhara sakatA hai / saMbodhi dhAma ke adhyakSa pArasamalajI bhaMsAlI batA rahe the ki unakI patnI aura mA~ ke bIca saMtulana kA eka sabase bar3A rAz2a yaha hai ki agara merI patnI ko sabjI bhI banAnI hai to vaha apanI sAsa se pUchakara banAtI hai aura mA~ kI qhAsiyata yaha hai ki merI patnI jo karanA cAhe, banAnA cAhe, usameM sahaja sahamati de detI hai| kyA Apa samajhe ki sAsa-bahU ke bIca kaisA eDajesTameMTa honA caahie| bahU sAsa se pUchakara kare aura sAsa bahU ke kAryakalApoM meM jyAdA hastakSepa na kre| sAsa kaMTrola rakhe, para eksTrA kaMTrola bhI nahIM / eka sAsa ne mujhe batAyA ki bahU ke sAtha usakI kAphI kalaha rahatI hai| koI samAdhAna batAe~ / bahU bhI sAtha thii| maiMne bahU ko do nuskhe diye| pahalA yaha ki sAsa ke For Personal & Private Use Only | 19 Page #21 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ sAmane mata bolo aura dUsarA yaha ki vaha jo kahe, kara do / basa, ho gaI zAnti / Apa bhI isa nuskhe ko apanAe~ aura lAbha uThAe~ / pati-patnI ke bIca bhI saMtulana rkheN| donoM ke bIca vizvAsa aura prema kI AtmA kAyama ho / jahA~ donoM ke bIca 'tU-tU, maiM-maiM' calatI rahatI hai, vahA~ donoM hI eka-dUsare se duHkhI rahate haiM / eka pati saMtAsiMha apanI patnI baMtA se itanA adhika parezAna thA ki usane apane ghara meM leTa AnA zurU kara diyaa| usakI patnI ne use sabaka sikhAne kI socI aura vaha kAle kapar3e pahana kara tathA cur3aila kA mekaapa kara ghara ke rAste meM par3ane vAle kabristAna ke pAsa khar3I ho gaI / jaise hI udhara se usakA pati AyA to usane bhayAnaka AvAz2a nikAlate hue kahA, kauna ho ? kahA~ jA rahe ho ? Thahara jAo / ' saMtAsiMha ne pUchA, 'kahie, maiM ApakI kyA sevA kara sakatA hU~? baMtA ne bhayAnaka AvAz2a meM kahA, 'kyA tumheM mujha se Dara nahIM laga rahA hai? maiM cur3aila hU~ / ' pati ne kahA, 'isameM Darane jaisI kyA bAta hai? ApakI hamArI to riztedArI hai| ' cur3aila ne pUchA, 'kaise ?' saMtAsiMha ne z2avAba diyA, 'daraasala merI zAdI ApakI hI bar3I bahana se huI hai / ' jhagar3oge to donoM hI parezAna hooge| prema se rahoge to donoM hI sukhI jIvana jI skoge| pati-patnI kA saMbaMdha to eka pavitra sambandha hotA hai / yaha sambandha cAra bAtoM para hI jiyA jA sakatA hai: 1. TrasTa, 2 . TAima, 3. TaoNkiMga aura 4. Taca / yAnI eka-dUsare para bharosA rkhie| eka-dUsare ke lie samaya kA bhoga diijie| Apasa meM premapUrvaka bAtacIta kA silasilA jArI rakhie aura eka dUsare ko sahayoga dete rahie / hara pati yA patnI meM cAra kamiyA~ to hotI hI haiN| yadi ApakA pati koI saMta hI hotA to Apase zAdI thor3e hI karatA / aura hA~, patnI kI AvazyakatAoM aura bhAvanAoM kA Apa bhI dhyAna rkhie| strI kA mana komala hotA hai| usake sira meM darda ho to mAthe ko sahalAe~, sira kA bAma lagAe~, vaha itane se hI abhibhUta ho jAegI / TaoNlasTAya ne marane se pahale kahA thA ki merI patnI ko taba taka qhabara na dI jAe, jaba taka maiM mara na jaauuN| kyoMki agara vaha mere sAmane hogI, to vaha zAMti se mujhe marane 20 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #22 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ bhI na degii| jisane mujhe zAMti se jIne na diyA, vaha zAMti se mujhe marane kaise degI? yaha jhagar3AlUprakRti ke dampati kI kahAnI hai| vahIM mArka Tvela ne patnI ko zraddhAjaMli dete hue likhA hai ki vaha mere sAtha jahA~ bhI hotI, mere lie vahIM svarga hotaa| Apa eka aisI mahilA baniye ki Apake pati bhI Apake lie yahI naz2ariyA banAe ki tuma jahA~ ho, vahIM svarga hai| ____abhI devara-bhAbhI ke saMbaMdha bace haiM, bhAI-bhAI ke saMbaMdha bace haiN| ye sabhI loga milakara jaba parivAra ko saMcAlita karate haiM to koI prema, koI tyAga, koI AtmIyatA, koI sahabhAgitA kA avadAna detA hai tabhI parivAra ekajuTa rahakara Adarza banatA hai| kyA Apako bhAratIya saMskRti kI maryAdA kA smaraNa hai ? jaba sItA jI kA apaharaNa ho jAtA hai to rAma ko vana meM unake AbhUSaNa milate haiN| rAma sItA kA hAra lakSmaNa ko dikhAkara pUchate haiM, kyA tuma ise pahacAnate ho?' lakSmaNa kahate haiM, kSamA kareM bhaiyA, maiM ise nahIM pahacAna pA rahA huuN|' 'kyA yaha saca hai ki tuma nahIM pahacAna rahe ho?' lakSmaNa kahane lage, 'bhaiyA, maiMne to jaba bhI dekhA, bhAbhI ke caraNoM ko hI dekhA hai| hA~, Apa bhAbhI ke pairoM kI pAyala le Ae~ to maiM pala bhara meM pahacAna luuNgaa| maiMne pA~voM se Upara bhAbhI ko naz2ara uThAkara kabhI nahIM dekhA hai|' kaise batalAU~ kSamA karo, bhaiyA yaha hAra na dekhaa| maiMne jaba bhI dekhA, bhAbhI ke caraNoM ko hI dekhaa| ve lAla varaNa, bhAbhI ke caraNa, mere tIrtha dhAma khlaae| zrI rAma lakhana le vyAkula mana, kuTiyA meM lauTa jaba aae|| ye saba maryAdAe~ haiM, jinameM ghara-parivAra ke svarga kA rahasya chipA hai| devarabhAbhI, bhAbhI-nanada, devarAnI-jeThUtI - sabake bIca meM prema bharA, pArasparika sauhArdapUrNa vyavahAra ho| cAra-dIvAroM kA makAna ghara nahIM hotA, pAsparika prema, tyAga aura maryAdA kA nAma ghara hai| ghara kA nirmANa, parivAra kA AdhAra bhAvanAoM kI IMToM se hotA hai| bhAvanA aura kartavya ye do zaktiyA~ milakara hI ghara ko nandanavana banAtI ___ghara meM subaha sadA jaldI utthe| sUraja uge usase pahale jaga jaaeN| ghara ko avazya sjaayeN-sNvaareN| patnI kA svAsthya ThIka nahIM hai to usakI ora paryAptadhyAna deN| yaha nahIM ki DaoNkTara bulAyA, patnI ko dikhAyA aura apane kAma-dhaMdhe para ravAnA ho gye| nahIM, use kucha samaya jarUra deM, bhAvanAtmaka saMbala pradAna kreN| zAyada Apake dhana se adhika use Apake pyAra, Apake dila aura ApakI AtmIyatA kI z2yAdA |21 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #23 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ z2arUrata hai| sA~jha ko jaba ghara pahu~co, to apanI jeba kI taraha apane dimAga kA kacarA jo Apa dukAna yA daphtara se lekara Ae haiM, use bhI kacare kI peTI meM pheMka deM taba ghara meM praveza kreN| thor3A-sA cir3acir3Apana, kucha-kucha khIjha, thor3I-thor3I IrSyA jo dukAna para grAhakoM se sirapaccI karate vaqta Apake dimAga meM ghusa AI hai aura Apa use apane sAtha le Ae haiM pahale usI ko kacarApeTI meM pheMka deM, taba hI ghara meM jaaeN| nahIM to isa kacare ko Apa gharavAloM para DAleMge aura azAMti kA vAtAvaraNa paidA kreNge| ghara vAle ApakI pratIkSA karate rahate haiN| Apa eka acche beTe, acche pati, acche pitA banakara ghara jaaeN| gharavAloM ko ApakI bahuta z2arUrata hai| lekina vaha z2arUrata taba acchI banegI jaba Apa acche iMsAna banakara ghara phuNceNge| ___ ghara ke sabhI sadasya saptAha meM kama-se-kama eka dina avazya hI sAtha baiThakara bhojana kreN| isase Apasa meM prema aura AtmIyatA bddhegii| parivAra se hI samAja kA nirmANa hotA hai, samAjoM se deza kA nirmANa hotA hai| parivAra pahalI sIr3hI hai, pahalI nIMva hai| jaba hara parivAra sukhI hogA to pUrA nagara bhI sukhI hogaa| nagara kI khuzahAlI Ida kI taraha hogI, holI-divAlI kI taraha hogii| Aja ke lie basa itanA hii| mere premapUrNa namaskAra svIkAra kreN| 22/ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #24 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ riztoM meM gholeM prema kI miThAsa Aja hama eka aise bindu para carcA kara rahe haiM jo jIvana meM sukha, saundarya aura mAdhurya gholatA hai| vaha bindu hai : prema / prema mAtA-pitA se ho to vaha prema sevA bana jAtA hai| prema saMtAna se ho to vaha prema mamatA aura vAtsalya bana jAtA hai| prema pati-patnI se ho to vaha prema jIvana kA rasa bana jAtA hai| prema prabhu se ho to vahI prema bhakti aura samarpaNa bana jAtA hai| mere lie to prema svayaM eka sAdhanA hai, vrata hai, dharma hai, jIvana jIne kA rAstA hai| prema hamArI sAdhanA hai, prema hamArA paMtha hai| jo bhI bharA hai prema se, vo hI hamArA saMta hai|| maiM prema kA pathika hU~ aura apanI ora se sabhI ko premapUrvaka jIvana jIne kA pATha par3hAtA huuN| prema eka aisA tattva hai jo gUMge ko bhI samajha AtA hai, bahare ko bhI usakA ahasAsa ho jAtA hai aura eka netrahIna vyakti bhI prema ke sukhada aura madhura sparza kA anubhava kara letA hai| eka navajAta zizu bhI prema kI bhASA avazya samajha jAtA hai| bAkI sAre sambandha jor3ane ke lie bhASA, zabda aura |23 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #25 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ abhivyakti ko mAdhyama banAnA par3atA hai, para na jAne prakRti ne prema meM aisI kauna-sI miThAsa ghola dI hai ki prema kI gaharAI meM bhASA, zabda aura abhivyakti ko mAdhyama banAnA par3atA hai, para na jAne prakRti ne prema meM aisI kauna-sI miThAsa ghola dI hai ki prema kI gaharAI meM bhASA, zabda aura abhivyakti tInoM hI mauna ho jAte haiM / hRdaya meM jaba prema kA sAgara umar3atA hai to do premI Apasa meM mauna ho jAte haiM aura kevala prema meM DUbanA aura kho jAnA cAhate haiN| prema kI yahI sabase bar3I khAsiyata hai| eka dArzanika apane darzana ke aMdAz2a meM bolatA hai| eka tattva-ciMtaka apane ciMtana ko paribhASita karatA hai| eka vaijJAnika aura manovaijJAnika mana kI gutthiyA~ sulajhAne meM ulajha jAte haiM, para premI hRdaya sArI duniyA se bekhabara hokara prema ke bhAva meM bika jAtA hai| kabhI bharata ne rAma se prema kiyA thA, to bharata apane prema kA mola lie bagaira rAma ke caraNoM meM samarpita ho gayA aura unake khar3AU ko rAja-siMhAsana kA mAlika banA diyaa| kabhI kRSNa ne sudAmA se prema kiyA to sudAmA ke cAvala ke sattu ke badale rAjamahala kA nirmANa karavA diyaa| kabhI mIrAM ne kRSNa se prema kiyA to rAjamahala ke sukha chor3akara vRMdAvana kI rasika bana gii| mAno mIrAM kRSNa ke hAthoM bika aura kaSNa mIrAM ke hAthoM bika gae hoN| so kahane lagI-mAI rI maiMne govinda lInhoM mol| koI kahe sasto koI kahe mohaMgo, liyo re tarAjU meM taul| mAI rI maiMne govinda lInhoM mol| prema to jIvana meM rasa gholatA hai| yaha nIrasa ko bhI sarasa banA detA hai| jIvana ke jisa kisI kSetra meM prema kA rasa ghula jAe to usa kSetra meM bar3hane kA use jIne kA Ananda hI anerA ho jAtA hai| kAma vahI kiyA jAnA cAhie jisa kAma ko karane meM Ananda AtA ho| bagaira Ananda ke kiyA gayA vyApAra, sevA, dharma-karma, yoga-sAdhanA bahuta jaldI bojha lagane laga jAte haiN| AdamI Uba jAtA hai| jisa kAma kA pariNAma AnandadAyI ho usa kAma ko lambe samaya taka sahajatayA kiyA jA sakatA hai| Ananda tabhI AegA jaba kie jAne vAle kArya ke prati prema ho, rasa ho| ___maiMne kabhI kahA thA ki agara tuma eka ghaMTA ke lie Anandita rahanA cAhate ho to jahA~ baiThe ho vahIM jhapakI le lo| eka dina kA Ananda pAne ke 24 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #26 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ lie oNphisa se avakAza le lo| saptAha bhara kA Ananda pAne ke lie kisI hila sTezana para mauja mastI kara aao| eka mahine ke Ananda ke lie kisI se zAdI racA lo| agara pUre varSa bhara Ananda-sukUna pAnA cAhate ho to kisI amIra AdamI ke goda cale jAo, para yadi jIvana bhara Anandita rahanA cAhate ho to apane kAma se pyAra kro| pyAra se kiyA gayA kAma kAmadhenu aura kalpavRkSa bana jAtA hai, vahIM bemana se kiyA gayA kAma bojha aura bandhana kI ber3I bana jAtA hai| __maiM prema se jItA hU~ aura jisa kArya ko bhI karatA hU~ bar3e prema aura Ananda bhAva ke sAtha karatA huuN| isalie mere lie na to holI sAla meM eka bAra AtI hai aura na divaalii| maiM jaise hI A~kheM kholatA hU~ mere sAmane divAlI ke dIpa jala jAte haiM aura jaise hI kisI se milatA hU~ holI ke raMga ubhara Ate haiN| mere dvArA kiyA gayA hara kAma gItA kA karmayoga aura Izvara kA yajJa-havana bana jAtA hai| kyoMki maiM jo kucha karatA hU~ vaha bar3e prema se karatA hU~, akartA-bhAva se karatA huuN| mujhe lagatA hai jIvana Izvara kA prasAda hai aura jIvana meM kiyA gayA hara kArya prabhu kI pUjA hai| jitane pavitra bhAva se Apa Izvara kI pUjA karate haiM, maiM utane hI pavitra bhAva se apanA karma karatA huuN| Apa Izvara ko kevala maMdira, carca aura gurudvArA meM dekhate haiM, maiM Izvara, allAha aura arihanta ko hara ora dekhatA huuN| unakI sarva vyApakatA kA ahasAsa mujhe hara tarapha hotA hai| pahacAna sake to pahacAna, kaNa-kaNa meM chipA hai bhgvaan| agara Apake pAsa dRSTi hai to sarvatra usakI sRSTi hai| Apake lie purI aura pAlItanA meM, haridvAra aura badrInAtha meM hI usakA tIrtha hai, mujhe to sArI pRthvI hI usakA tIrtha naz2ara AtA hai| jaise sUraja, cA~da, sitAroM kA nUra pUrI pRthvI se naz2ara AtA hai, unheM cAhe jisa kone se dekha lo, vaise hI usa mahAn divyazakti kA teja bhI, usakA astitva bhI pRthvI ke hara kone se naz2ara aaegaa| jinake pAsa kevala buddhi ke tarka haiM unheM ye bAta jaldI se samajha nahIM AegI, para jinake pAsa prema bharA hRdaya hai ve to sarvatra usakA ahasAsa kara lete haiM, usakA Ananda le lete haiN| A~kheM kholo to bAhara usakI vyApakatA naz2ara AtI hai aura A~kheM baMda karo vaha aMtaraghaTa meM samAhita lagatA hai| | 25 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #27 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ vaise bhI prabhu ko jJAna se nahIM, prema se pAyA jAtA hai| bhakti prema kA hI nirmala rUpa hai| maiM jJAna kA prakAza phailAne kA samarthaka huuN| bagaira zikSA aura jJAna kA vyakti netrahIna iMsAna kI taraha hotA hai, para bagaira prema aura bhAvanA ke jJAna nIrasa aura kaMTilA jhAr3a-jhaMkhAr3a bhara hotA hai| jJAna pahalA caraNa hai aura prema dUsarA crnn| prema jJAna ko amRta banAtA hai, prema jIvana ko sarasa banAtA hai| prema marate hue iMsAna meM bhI prANa phUMka detA hai| prema upacAra kA AdhAra bana jAtA hai| eka marIja ko agara prema kA sahArA mila jAe to roga se laDane kI usakI tAqata dugunI ho jAtI hai| prema ke pAsa Ate hI marIz2a ko eka saMbala mila jAtA hai| use lagatA hai ki koI hai jo usake duHkha-darda ko bA~Ta sakatA hai, usakI pIr3A ko halkA kara sakatA hai| jisase vyakti prema karatA hai agara vaha pAsa hotA hai to aise lagatA hai jaise Izvara usake pAsa hai| sacamuca prema rogoM kA ilAja karatA hai| jo prema detA hai, prema usakA bhI ilAja karatA hai aura jo prema pAtA hai prema usakA bhI upacAra karatA hai| eka vyakti kaiMsara se pIr3ita thaa| use kaiMsara kI bImArI ho gii| yaha sunakara vaha mAnasika avasAda se grasta ho gyaa| vaha Diprezana meM calA gyaa| usa Diprezana ke dabAva ke kAraNa usake dimAga kI koI sUkSma nAr3I prabhAvita ho gaI aura use lakavA mAra gyaa| lakave ke kAraNa usakA sArA zarIra sunna ho gyaa| eka dina usa vyakti kA beTA mere pAsa aayaa| apane pitA ke ilAz2a ke silasile meM / usane mujhase samAdhAna caahaa| maiMne use prema aura prArthanA kA rAstA sujhaayaa| merI bAta, na jAne kyoM, usake gale utara gii| vaha roja subaha apane pitA ke palaMga ke pAsa jAtA, hAtha jor3atA,A~kheM baMda karatA aura mana hI mana Izvara se apane pitA ke svastha hone kI prArthanA kiyA krtaa| prArthanA pUrI hone para vaha apane pitA ko dekhakara muskurAtA aura apane leTe hue pitA ke gale lagatA aura mu~ha se kahatA, AI lava yU paapaa| cU~ki pitA ko lakavA thA so ve vApasa javAba meM kucha bola nahIM paate| ve bolanA cAhate the, para unake gale se AvAz2a nahIM nikala paatii| ve bhAvuka ho uThate, unakA galA bhara aataa| unakI A~khoM se A~sU Tapaka par3ate, para beTe ne to mAno yaha krama hI banA liyaa| roja subaha pApA ke pAsa jAnA, Izvara se prArthanA karanA aura pApA ke gale lagakara unheM 'AI lava yU' khnaa| 26/ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #28 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ isa taraha karIba tIna mahine bIta ge| Aja beTe kA janmadina thaa| ghara meM khuziyoM kA mAhaula thA, para beTA apanI roja kI dinacaryA ke mutAbika apane pitA ke pAsa gayA, prArthanA kI aura gale lagakara pyAra bhare aMdAz2a meM kahA'pApA! AI lava yU', 'AI lava yU', 'AI lava yU pApA' / 'patA nahIM prema aura prArthanA kA kyA camatkAra huaa| beTe ne dekhA ki pApA kA jo hAtha lakave ke kAraNa sunna ho gayA thaa| Aja usameM na jAne kauna se prANa kA saMcAra ho uThA ki pApA ne apanI sArI tAqata lagAkara palaMga para niDhAla par3e apane hAtha ko U~cA uThAyA, beTe kI pITha aura mAthe para rakhA aura AzIrvAda diyA aura TUTe phUTe svara meM hI sahI, para pApA ke mu~ha se nikala par3A- beTA ! AI lava yU, beTA AI lava yuu| beTA khuzI ke mAre jhUma utthaa| use lagA ki usake prema aura prArthanA kA pariNAma use mila gyaa| pApA ke sunna hAtha meM jAna A gaI aura ruMdhe gale meM AvAz2a lauTa aaii| use lagA ki Izvara ne use usake haippI bartha De kA sabase anamola upahAra de diyaa| prema ke sAtha prArthanA aura prArthanA ke sAtha prema jur3a jAe to vaha prema paramAtmA kA prasAda bana jAtA hai| maMdira meM jAkara pujArI se cAra makhAne khAnA Izvara kA prasAda nahIM hai, vaha to kevala hamArI zraddhA kI abhivyakti hai| prabhu se prema karanA, unase ikatAra ho jAnA, prabhu kI divyatA ko apane meM sAkAra kara lenA Izvara kA saccA prasAda hai| acchA hogA hama pratidina 15 minaTa prArthanA kareM aura 15 minaTa apane hRdaya-kSetra meM dhyAna kreN| hRdaya meM dhyAna dharane se jIvana meM nirmala prema kA udaya hotA hai| hRdaya meM svayaM kI sattA to hai hI, sAre brahmAMDa ko bhI hRdaya meM AmaMtrita kara leM, isase ApakA prema vyakti-vizeSa taka sImita nahIM rhegaa| ApakA prema virATa ho jAegA, mana meM rahane vAlI vairavirodha kI jaMjIreM svataH TUTa jaaeNgii| prArthanA aura hRdaya para dhyAna-ye donoM milakara hamAre prema ko divya banA deNge| isase svArtha aura kSudra vRttiyA~ bikhreNgii| hama hRdaya meM, hRdayezvara se judd'eNge| taba hamArA prema mIrAM ke cU~gharUoM kI chana-chanahATa degA, taba hRdaya se sUra ke gIta phUTeMge, pA~voM meM caitanya mahAprabhu kA nRtya sAkAra kregaa| taba hameM yaha sArI dharatI, sArA brahmAMDa premamaya naz2ara aaegaa| | 27 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #29 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ dharatI para prema hai, isIlie yaha dharatI jIne ke kAbila hai| agara dharatI para se prema kA pAnI sUkha jAe to saMsAra meM cAra dina jInA bhI dUbhara ho jaaegaa| jIvana meM agara prema kI sarasatA, prema kI madhuratA hai, prema kA Ananda hai to saMsAra meM jiI jAne vAlI sau sAla kI jiMdagI bhI choTI hai| prema hI vaha tattva hai jo saMsAra meM svarga kA dvAra kholatA hai| pati-patnI meM prema ho to svarga dharatI para hI hai, bhAI-bhAI meM prema ho to rAmAyaNa kA rasa yahIM z2amIna para hI hai / pitA-putra meM prema ho to yaha dharatI hI baikuMThadhAma hai| prema yAnI yoM samajho jaise svargaloka se koI parI utara AI ho, kisI gaMgA ne avatAra le liyA ho / prema se hI prArthanA kA janma hotA hai| prArthanA se mauna aura zAMti sAkAra hotI hai / zAMti se hI Ananda kI niSpatti hotI hai aura Ananda Izvara kA nija svabhAva hai| Izvara ke tIna guNa haiM - sat + cit + Ananda = sccidaannd| parivAra meM, samAja meM, deza meM, yahA~ taka ki pUre vizva meM prema caahie| vizvazAMti kA AdhAra vizva - prema hai| prema parivAra ko jor3atA hai| samAja meM ekatA ke bIja botA hai| do rASTroM ke bIca setu kA kAma karatA hai| lar3ane kA kAma hama logoM ne apanI nAsamajhI ke calate aba taka qhUba kara liyaa| parivAra, samAja aura deza meM lar3AI kI nahIM, paraspara prema aura bhalAI kI z2arUrata hai| rukhasata kI nahIM, mohabbata kI z2arUrata hai| pichale 2500 sAloM se hama lar3ate hI to Ae haiN| eka rAjA dUsare rAjA ke sAtha pAnI aura nadI ke nAma para, dhana-saMpatti - qhaz2AnA lUTane ke nAma para, adhikAra - kSetra bar3hAne ke nAma para / hama kevala 25 sAloM ke lie saMgharSa kI bajAya agara bhAI-bhAI aura saccAI se mohabbata karanA zurU kara deM to hamArI isa sArI duniyA kA kAyAkalpa ho jaae| duniyA ko Apasa meM jor3ane ke lie hI vibhinna dharmoM kA janma huA / dharmoM ne duniyA ko jor3A bhI hogA, lekina dharma ke nAma para die gae upadeza jaba Agraha aura durAgraha kA rUpa le baiThe to dharma ne iMsAniyata ko tor3ane kA kAma zurU kara diyaa| jo dharma pA~va kI pAyajeba thA vaha ber3I bana gyaa| jo hAthoM kA cirAga thA vaha hAthoM kI hathakar3I bana gyaa| Aja z2arUrata kisI nae dharma kI nahIM hai balki Apasa meM TUTe hue ina dharmoM ko jor3ane kI hai / Aja z2arUrata usa dhAge kI hai jo mAnavatA ke phaTe hue veza ko Apasa meM sA~dha sake, jor3a sake, iMsAniyata ke lie apanA svarUpa upayogI banA sake 28 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #30 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ hamAre deza kI guptacara ejeMsI ko sIAIDI kahate haiN| maiM sIAIDI ko dharmoM ko jor3ane ke lie upayoga kruuNgaa| hamAre deza ke tIna mukhya tyauhAra haiM-krisamisa, Ida aura divaalii| sI phaoNra krisamisa, AI se jur3I hai Ida aura DI se banegA divaalii| krisamisa, Ida aura divAlI-isI kA zaoNrTaphaoNrma bnaasiiaaiiddii| jor3ane kA dRSTikoNa hogA, to vaise sakArAtmaka pahalU mila jAe~ge, tor3ane kA dRSTikoNa rakhoge, to vaise nakArAtmaka pahalU mila jaaeNge| iMsAna ke pAsa darjI kI taraha kaiMcI aura suI-dhAgA donoM hI haiN| jinake pAsa sakArAtmaka dRSTikoNa hai ve suI-dhAge kA kAma kareMge, jinake pAsa nakArAtmaka dRSTikoNa hai ve kaiMcI calAne kA kAma kreNge| basa, itanA-sA dhyAna rakho ki kaiMcI kATatI hai, suI-dhAgA jor3atI hai| yaha Apa socie ki iMsAniyata kI bhalAI paraspara kATane meM hai, yA kaTe-phaTe Tukar3oM ko jor3ane meM hai| hama loga hindu-muslima ke nAma para, rAmanavamI-tAjiye ke nAma para Apasa meM galiyoM ko bA~Tate phirate haiN| are, kahIM ina kabUtaroM ko to dekho jo kabhI maMdiroM para bhI saira kara Ate haiM, to kabhI masjidoM para bhI gUTaragUM kara lete haiN| musalamAna kA artha hai : eka meM hai ImAna, vaha hai muslmaan| aba isameM kyA farka par3atA hai ki hamane mAlika ko Izvara kA nAma diyA yA allAha kaa| Izvara hiMdI kA zabda hai, allAha urdU kA zabda aura gaoNDa iMgliza kA, para artha aura saMketa to tInoM kA eka hI hai| jaina zabda kA artha hai jItane vaalaa| jo auroM ke diloM ko jIta le, usI ko jaina kahate haiN| bhAI! acchA naz2ariyA rakhoge, to sacamuca tuma auroM ke diloM ko jItane meM saphala ho jaaoge| bAkI 36 kA A~kar3A kAma kA nahIM hai| 36 ko ulTA kro| inheM yA to 33 banAo yA 66 / bhagavAna mahAvIra ne kabhI anekAnta kA siddhAnta dekara mAnavatA ko yaha samajhAne kI koziza kI thI ki tuma apanI bAta prema se kaho, bejhijhaka, para apanI hI bAta saca hai isa 'hI' ke durAgraha ko haTA deM aura 'hI' ke sthAna para 'bhI' ko le aaeN| aisA karane se ApakI bAta meM bhI saccAI kI saMbhAvanA naz2ara AegI aura dUsaroM kI bAtoM meM chipI saccAI kI sugandha bhI Apako ahasAsa hogii| mujhe jaba-jaba bhI maukA milA hai maiMne hara dharma sabhA meM iMsAniyata ko Apasa meM jur3ane kI preraNA dI hai| TUTe hue bhAiyoM aura parivAroM ko sAtha-sAtha | 29 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #31 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ prema se rahane kA pATha par3hAyA hai| hamane IMTa-patthara ke maMdira to kama banAe haiM, para ghara-ghara ko maMdira avazya banAyA hai, haz2AroM gharoM ko maMdira-sA sundara banAyA hai| merA mAnanA hai jo samAja ko jor3e usI ko saMta kahate haiM aura jo iMsAnoM ko Apasa meM tor3e mAnavatA ke maMdira meM vahI zaitAna hotA hai| bhAI! hama loga saMta baneM, zaitAna nhiiN| zaitAna vidhvaMza karatA hai, saMta sRjana karatA hai| maiM to prema kA pATha par3hAtA hU~ jahA~ bhI rahatA hU~ usa hara vAtAvaraNa meM prema kA rasa gholatA huuN| hamArI bAteM logoM ke jehana meM isalie jaldI se utara jAtI haiM kyoMki unameM prema, zAMti aura bhAIcAre kI miThAsa hotI hai| maiM na to koI bahuta bar3A vidvAna hU~ aura na hI koI bahuta bar3A pNddit| maiM to kevala prema kA pATha par3hAtA huuN| Apa logoM se prema karatA hU~, so eka kalyANa-mitra banakara Apako premapUrvaka jIne kA pATha par3hA detA huuN| maiM to kahU~gA ki Apa kevala apane parijanoM aura gaira iMsAnoM se hI prema-mohabbata na kareM, balki pazu-pakSiyoM se bhI prakRti kI kalA kRtiyoM se bhI prema kareM, sUraja-cA~da aura sitAroM se prema kreN| are, maiM to kahU~gA ki apane AlocakoM aura duzmanoM se bhI prema kreN| jisa dina bhI hama apane zatru se bhI prema karane laga jAe~ge to samajha lenA ki ApakA prema sAdhAraNa prema na rahA, usakI asmitA asAdhAraNa ho gii| Apa DivAIna lava ke mAlika ho ge| hama soceM aisI bAteM jina bAtoM meM ho dm| duzmana se bhI hama pyAra kareM, duzmanI ho jisase km|| jisa ghara meM tUne janama liyA, vo maMdira hai teraa| prabhu kI mUrata haiM mAta-pitA, unase na judA hoM hm|| bhAI-bhAI kI tAqata hai, bhAI se kaisA baira, mAfI mA~geM aura gale mileM, isameM kyoM rakheM shrm|| mahAbhArata hamane khUba lar3A, aura khUba lar3e hm-tum| vo rAma-lakhana kA prema tyAga, kyA apanA nahIM dhrm|| duniyA meM aisA kauna bhalA, jo dUdha se dhulA huaa| kamiyA~ to hara iMsAna meM, phira kyoM na rakheM sNym|| hamase sabako sammAna mile, sabako hI bA~TeM pyaar| boleM to pahale hama taule, mizrI gholeM hrdm|| 30 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #32 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ patthara se aisA kareM madhuram / madhuram // kA~ToM meM se hI phUla khile, aura hama bhI to apane jIvana meM, kucha adharaM madhuraM nayanaM madhuram, hRdayaM kara lo candraM madhuraM lalitaM madhuraM jIvana kara lo hameM una bAtoM para vicAra karanA cAhie jo bAteM hamAre vaira-virodha ko kama karatI hoM, kaiMcI kA nahIM, balki sUI-dhAge kA kAma karatI hoM / mahAbhArata aba taka qhUba lar3a liyA / mahAbhArata se bhArata kA bhalA nahIM hone vaalaa| zakuni aura maMtharAe~ to hamAre gharoM ko tor3eMgI hI, ujAr3eMgI hI / hameM kevala rAma-lakSmaNa-sItA kI pUjA hI nahIM karanI hai, balki rAma-lakSmaNa, bharata ke prema, tyAga aura maryAdA ko bhI jIvana meM jInA hai / kevala pUjA karanA sAntvanA puraskAra hai aura AdarzoM ko jIvana meM jInA saccA adhyAtma hai| hama loga prema ke upAsaka baneM jinake prati vaira-virodha kI gA~TheM haiM unheM kholeM, kSamA mA~geM yA kSamA kareM aura phira se apane TUTe hue riztoM meM miThAsa kA amRta gholeM / Aja-kala apana logoM para vyaktivAda kA prabhAva bar3ha rahA hai| eka mAtA-pitA kI agara tIna saMtAneM haiM to tInoM hI svataMtra rahanA pasaMda karatI haiN| jinhoMne janma diyA, pAlA-posA bar3A kiyA, loga unake prati apane dAyitvoM se vimukha hote jA rahe haiN| ve saMtAneM puNyazAlI haiM jo apane mAtA-pitA kI sevA aura dAyitva jimmedArI ke sAtha saMbhAle hue haiN| kisI bhI vyakti ke lie saMnyAsI honA AsAna ho sakatA hai, para zravaNakumAra honA kaThina hai| mAtApitA kI sevA svayaM hI apane Apa meM eka tapasyA hai, tyAga hai, vrata hai, anuSThAna hai| mahAvIra aura arihaMta bAda meM bananA, pahale rAma aura zravaNakumAra to bana jaao| yadi hama mAtA-pitA se jur3e apane kartavyoM se vimukha ho jAte haiM to isakA artha yaha huA ki hama apane para car3he mAtR-RNa aura pitR RNa se uRNa hue bag2aira hI jie aura uRNa hue bag2aira hI mare / pAnI / karama // prema ko agara jInA hai to prema kI pahalI preraNA hai : tuma apane svajanoM se, parijanoM se prema kro| sAsa-bahU se, bahU - sAsa se prema kre| sAsa bahU meM beTI kA, beTI sAsa meM mA~ kA rUpa nihAre / aba tumhArI koI sasurAla gaI beTI to tumheM saMbhAlane ke lie bAra-bAra Ane se rahI / bahU ko hI beTI banA lo, tAki tuma usake sukha-dukha kA qhyAla rakha sako aura vaha tumhAre sukha-dukha kA / maiM For Personal & Private Use Only | 31 Page #33 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ - I apanI choTI bahinoM se kahU~gA sAsa-sasura pada paMkaja pUjA yA sama nArI dharma nahIM dUjA, sAsa-sasura kI sevA prabhu kI pUjA hai, sAsa-sasura kA sammAna Apake apane kula aura dharma kA sammAna hai / yaha sAsa hI ApakI vaha devI hai, jisakI kokha meM ApakA suhAga palA hai / jaise Apa apane suhAga kI rakSA ke lie karavA cautha kA vrata rakhatI haiM, aise hI jinakI kokha meM ApakA suhAga palA hai, jinhoMne Apake suhAga ko pAla-posakara bar3A kiyA hai, unakI sevA karanA, unakI iz2z2ata karanA Apa apane lie vrata hI samajheM / I hamane dekhA : eka mahilA hamAre pAsa AI aura kahane lagI- gurujI ! thor3A pAnI milegA ? hamane kahA - avazya / usane do bAlTI pAnI liyA aura hamAre sthAna ke bAhara jAkara eka bUr3hI mA~jI ke kapar3e badalane lgii| usake kapar3e gaMde ho gae the| usane kapar3e badale aura gaMde kapar3e dhone lagI / usane batAyA ki mA~jI kI tabiyata ThIka nahIM hai / unheM dasta laga jAtI hai, unheM patA bhI nahIM calatA / usa bahina ko mA~jI kI tabiyata se sevA karate hue dekha hamane pUchA - bahina ! kyA yaha ApakI mA~ hai ? usane kahA - mA~ se bhI bar3hakara hai / hamane pUchA- mA~ se bar3hakara se matalaba ? kahane lagI- yahI vaha devI hai jisakI kokha se merA suhAga palA hai / hamane bahina ke naz2ariye ko sAdhuvAda diyaa| kyA Apa apanI sAsa ke lie, apane sasura ke lie aisA koI sakArAtmaka dRSTikoNa banA sakatI haiM ? jaba hama prema kI bAta kara rahe haiM to prema kI pahalI anivAryatA hai ki Apa eka-do-pA~ca jitane bhAI haiM, una bhAiyoM meM paraspara prema ho / eka bhAI ke do hAtha hote haiM, dUsare bhAI ke bhI do hAtha hote haiM, agara do bhAiyoM meM prema ho to unake cAra hAtha mahaja cAra hAtha nahIM hote, balki unake cAra hAtha cArabhujA nAtha ho jAyA karate haiN| bhAI agara jude - jude hoM to eka aura eka do hote haiM, para do bhAI sAtha hoM, sukha dukha meM sahayogI hoM, to vahI do bhAI eka aura eka gyAraha ho jAyA karate haiN| agara do bhAI Apasa meM bolabartAva bhI na karate hoM to bhale hI eka chata ke nIce kyoM na rahate hoM unakA ghara-ghara nahIM rahatA, zmazAna aura kabristAna bana jAyA karatA hai / jaise kamaroM meM loga rahate haiM aise hI kabroM meM bhI loga rahate haiM, para kabroM meM rahane vAle loga Apasa meM bolate nahIM, ekadUsare ke kAma Ate nahIM / agara yahI hAlata kamaroM meM rahane vAle logoM kI hai to phira soco ki kamaroM meM aura kabroM meM farqa hI kyA raha jAtA hai ! 32 ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM - 2 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #34 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ kabristAna bana jAyA karatA hai| jaise kamaroM meM loga rahate haiM aise hI kabroM meM bhI loga rahate haiM, para kabroM meM rahane vAle loga Apasa meM bolate nahIM, eka-dUsare ke kAma Ate nhiiN| agara yahI hAlata kamaroM meM rahane vAle logoM kI hai to phira soco ki kamaroM meM aura kabroM meM farka hI kyA raha jAtA hai ! bhAI-bhAI ke bIca prema ho / loga Ida ke dina gale milate haiM, bhAIcArA ko gale lagAte haiN| maiM to kahU~gA - Apa roja subaha uThakara bhAI-bhAI gale milA kro| agara roja milate zarma AtI ho to holI-divAlI, janmadina - usa dina to avazya gale milA kro| bhAIcAre kA paig2Ama Ama iMsAna ke lie hai, para usakI zuruAta ghara se ho, bhAI-bhAI ko gale lagAne se ho| hama bhAI-bhAI bahuta pyAra se rahate haiM, eka-dUsare kI bahuta iz2z2ata karate haiN| bhAIcArA koI upadeza dene ke lie nahIM hai, jIne ke lie hai| Apa isI zahara kI ghaTanA lIjie - jodhapura kii| oNla iMDiyA zeyara mArkeTa ke ceyaramaina rahe haiM - Ananda jI raatthii| bar3e acche sajjana puruSa haiN| nIMva se zikhara taka pahu~ce haiN| unhoMne apanI naI koThI bnaaii| gRha-praveza kA kAryakrama thaa| bar3A Ayojana rakhA thaa| gRha-praveza meM sammilita hone ke lie unakA choTA bhAI sureza jI rAThI mumbaI se jodhapura aae| sureza jI ija dA greTa maina / bar3e acche vyaktitva haiN| hamAre vicAra aura sAhitya ko jana-jana meM phailAne meM inakI bar3I ullekhanIya bhUmikA hai| sureza jI bar3e bhAI ke gRhapraveza meM zAmila hone aae| koThI dekhI, unheM bar3I pasaMda aaii| choTe bhAI ne bar3e bhAI AnaMda jI se kahA - bhAI sAhaba! makAna bar3A joradAra bnaayaa| merA to makAna para jI lubhA gayA hai| bar3e bhAI ne jaise hI choTe kI aisI sakArAtmaka TippaNI sunI, to bar3e bhAI vApasa gRha-dvAra para aaye| jisa cAbI se gRha-praveza ke samaya tAlA kholA, usase cAbI kA jhUmakA nikAlA aura choTe bhAI ke hAtha meM thamAte hue kahA - sureza! agara tujhe ye makAna pasaMda A gayA to le yaha makAna tujhe hI diyaa| choTe ne kahA - are, maiMne to bhAI sAhaba kevala maz2Aka kiyA thaa|aap to....! AnaMdajI ne kahA - koThI meM tU rahe yA maiM rahU~, isase kyA farka par3atA hai| Aja se yaha terA huaa| ise kahate haiM bhAI-bhAI kA prema / sureza jI Aja bhI usI makAna meM rahate | 33 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #35 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ bharata-zatrughna bhI barAbara bhoge| bhAI-bhAI kA matalaba hai : sukha meM bhI sAtha, duHkha meM bhI saath| ghara meM pati-patnI bhI prema se rheN| eka-dUsare paraspara manovinoda bhale hI kareM, para talkha TippaNiyA~ na kreN| pati-patnI donoM hI eka-dUsare kA sammAna kreN| donoM hI eka-dUsare kI javAbadArI nibhAe~, eka-dUsare kI dekhabhAla kreN| pati ko paramezvara kA dUsarA rUpa mAnA gayA hai, patnI pati kI iz2z2ata kare, para jitanA z2arUrI yaha hai utanA hI jarUrI yaha bhI hai ki pati bhI patnI kI pUrI sAra-samhAla rkhe| donoM eka-dUsare para vizvAsa rkhe| zaMkA-saMdeha Apasa meM dUrI bar3hAte haiM, takarAra karavAte haiN| bhAI! takarAra karake kahA~ jAoge! Ajakala to pahalI bhI muzkila se milatI hai, agara takarAra karoge, to sAvadhAna ! DhU~Dhe bhI dUsarI nahIM milane vaalii| aba z2arA pati-patnI kI TippaNiyA~ suno to shii| eka patnI apane pati se bolI-kyA Apa sacamuca mujhe bahuta pyAra karate haiM? pati ne javAba diyA-hA~! patnI bolI-agara maiM mara jAU~ to kyA Apa roe~ge? pati ne phira javAba diyA- hA~! patnI ne kahA-mujhe rokara batAie, Apa kitanA roe~ge? pati ne jhaTa se kahA-pahale tuma marakara to dikhaao| isI taraha talAka ke mukadame meM saMtAsiMha ne patnI para Aropa lagAte hue kahA-'jaja sAhaba! merI icchA thI ki maiM lar3ake kA pitA banU~, para isane mujhe lar3akI kA pitA banA diyaa|' patnI gusse meM bolI-yaha to merA ahasAna maano| tumhAre bharose to lar3akI bhI nahIM hotii| eka patideva garmI se parezAna hokara gaMje ho ge| sAre bAla kaTavA lie, ustarA phiravA liyaa| patnI ne isa hAlata meM dekhA, to cauMkakara bolI-he bhagavAna! Apane sira ke sAre bAla sApha kyoM karavA lie? pati ne javAba diyA-devIjI! Ajakala zahara meM saphAI abhiyAna cala rahA hai| kRpayA eka-dUsare para chIMTAkasI mata kro| bhagavAna ne ApakI jor3I biThAI hai to ise pyAra se jio| eka-dUsare kI iz2z2ata karo, vinamra bhASA bolo, eka-dUsare kI sAra-samhAla karo aura dUsare kI pIr3A ko apanI pIr3A samajho-yahI cAra sUtra haiM jinase pati-patnI kA riztA svarga kA sukUna de sakatA hai| 34 || For Personal & Private Use Only Page #36 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ prema ko jIne ke lie dUsarI bAta : svadharmI se prema karo, unakA sahayoga kro| agravAla agravAla baMdhuoM ke lie kareM / osavAla osavAloM ke lie kreN| Apa agara samartha haiM to apane samAja ke z2arUratamaMda bhAiyoM ko U~cA uThAne ke lie sahayoga kreN| mAthura jI ne apane mAthura bhAiyoM ko U~cA uThAne ke lie pUrA zAstrI nagara mAthuroM ke nAma alaoNTa kara diyA / svarUpa kauna-sA hogA, yaha Apa jAneM, para apanI jAta vAloM ke lie, apane samAja ke lie, apane sahadharmI ke lie avazya kreN| jaise : pAThya pustakeM do, chAtravRtti do, U~ce stara kI par3hAI karavAo, apane samAja meM Ara.esa., AI.e.esa. taiyAra karo / vidhavAoM, vRddhoM ke lie hailpa karo / prema ko jIne ko tIsarA caraNa hai : g2airoM se prema kro| unase prema karo jinakA duniyA meM koI nahIM hai / jinase ApakA koI saMbaMdha yA svArtha nahIM hai, phira bhI Apa usakI madada kara rahe haiM, to yaha iMsAniyata kI sevA huI, mAnavatA kI sevA huI / manuSya hokara manuSya ke kAma AnA isase bar3A koI dharma nahIM hai / kisI ke anajAna aparicita hone ke bAvaz2Uda bhUkhe ko roTI khilAnA, pyAse ko pAnI pilAnA yaha sabase bar3A dharma hai| hamAre apane hI zahara meM eka sajjana hue the - mANakajI saMcetI / bar3e acche mArvalasa AdamI / apane saMpanna sahadharmI bhAiyoM se sahayoga lekara una logoM kI ve madada kiyA karate the jo vipanna aura abhAvagrasta the / pratimAha 700 parivAroM ke bharaNa-poSaNa kA ve prabaMdha karate the / sacamuca yaha saba daivIya kArya hai / isI taraha suzIlA jI boharA haiN| devI mahilA haiM / pati gujara gae : pati kA abhAva khalane lgaa| dUsarI zAdI kI nahIM / unhoMne apane Apako mAnava sevA ke kArya meM lagA diyaa| Aja ve jodhapura meM 500 netrahIna vidyArthiyoM ke bharaNapoSaNa aura par3hAI-likhAI kI z2avAbadArI nibhA rahI haiM / isI taraha bhagavAnasiMha jI parihAra lavakuza Azrama ke mAdhyama se anAtha baccoM ko pAla rahe haiM, saMta puruSa haiN| AzulAla jI vaDerA AsthA ke jariye pratidina 2 hajAra marIjoM ke lie bhojana kA prabaMdha karate the, rAjakumAra jI bhaMDArI 'divya loka' ke jarie vidhavA mAtAoM ke lie saMbala bane hue haiN| inake nAma maiM isalie le rahA hU~ tAki Apa bhI preraNA le sakeM aura yathAzakti Apa bhI iMsAniyata ke pujArI bana skeN| lAyansa klaba, roTarI klaba, mahAvIra iMTaranezanala, bhArata vikAsa pariSada For Personal & Private Use Only 35 Page #37 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ jaisI saMsthAoM ke jariye bhI Apa apanI sevAe~, jarUratamaMda logoM taka pahu~cA sakate haiN| hama chAtra-chAtrAoM ke lie prativarSa Adhe lAgata mUlya para kaoNpIrajisTara upalabdha karavAte haiM, garIboM aura z2arUratamaMda logoM ko hArTa, kiDanI, kaiMsara, DAyalAsisa kavAne ke lie davAiyoM meM 40 pratizata kI rAhata dilavAte haiN| mArga koI bhI apanAyA jA sakatA hai, jo Apake samajha meM aae| iMsAniyata kI sevA ko maiM to Izvara kI hI sevA mAnatA huuN| prema ko jIne kA aMtima caraNa hai : usa prabhu se prema karo jo sabakA pAlanahAra hai| sabakA mAlika ek| jo sabakA mAlika hai, use sadA yAda rakho, dila meM basAkara rkho| gItA kI ghoSaNA hai : yoga-kSemaM vhaamyhm| vaha hamAre samasta kuzala-kSema kA saMvAhaka hai| Izvara se agara prema karanA hai to prANImAtra se prema karo, kisI kI hiMsA mata karo-ahiMsA paramo dharmaH / liva eMDa leTa liva-khuda bhI sukha se jio aura dUsaroM ko bhI jIne kA adhikAra do| na kevala adhikAra do, apitu unakI madada bhI kro| yahI dharma hai, yahI sArasaMdeza hai| 36 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #38 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ Amma - m kaise sa~vAreM baccoM kA bhaviSya pratyeka vyakti ke jIvana ke tIna mahattvapUrNa par3Ava hote haiM-(1) bacapana, (2) yauvana aura (3) buddh'aapaa| bacapana jJAnArjana ke lie hai, yauvana dhanArjana ke lie hai aura bur3hApA puNyArjana ke lie hai| jisane apane bacapana meM paryApta jJAnArjana kiyA hai usake bhAvI jIvana kI nIMva maz2abUta ho jAtI hai| jisane yuvAvasthA meM dhana aura sampadA arjita kara lI hai, usakA bur3hApA sukhI ho jAtA hai aura jisane bur3hApe meM puNyapatha para calakara puNya kA arjana kiyA hai, usakA paraloka sudhara jAtA hai| jinake pAsa Aja kevala bur3hApA bacA hai, ve vRddha aura bujurga aba apane bacapana ko to nahIM sudhAra sakate, kintu apane ghara ke pote-potI, nAtI-nAtina ko to avazya hI saMskArita kara sakate haiN| parivAra meM bAlaka kA janma gaNapati-vaMdanA jaisA hai aura usakI eka kilakArI ghara ko, bagIce meM cahacahAne vAlI cir3iyA jaisA AnaMda detI hai| jisa ghara meM bacce nahIM hote vahA~ zAMti to raha sakatI hai, para kilakAriyoM kA Ananda nahIM mila paataa| baccoM ke janma para 37 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #39 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ manAyA jAne vAlA utsava, unake hone se hI ghara ko Anandita kara detA hai| ghara meM janmA eka baccA bhI ghara ko AnaMdamaya-svargamaya banA detA hai| bAlaka to parivAra kI AtmA hai| vaha samAja kA merudaNDa hai| bAlaka vizva kI sabase choTI kintu sabase mahattvapUrNa ikAI hai| jo loga apane jIvana meM, bAla-sulabhatA rakhate haiM ve bhale hI bUr3he hI kyoM na ho jAe~, bacce hI bane rahate haiN| prabhu yIzU ne kahA thA, 'bhagavAna ke rAjya meM ve hI praveza pA sakate haiM, jo apane svabhAva ko bAlaka jaisA banAe rakhate haiN|' yaha isalie kahA ki baccoM meM jo sahajatA, saralatA, nizchalatA, dUsaroM ke kAma Ane kI sahabhAgitA hotI hai aura jo jaz2bA, jijJAsA, samarpaNa aura sadbhAva hotA hai, vaha dUsaroM ke pAsa nahIM hotaa| smaraNa rakheM, baccA honA kalyANakArI hai, lekina bacakAnApana bevakUphI hai| svabhAva meM mAsUmiyata sukUna kI bAta hai, lekina bacakAnApana mUr3hatA aura mUrkhatA kA paryAya hai| bacce to Ane vAle kala ke bhaviSya haiN| ve bhaviSya ke nirmAtA haiN| ve bhArata ke bhAgyavidhAtA haiN| hama kyoM bhUla jAte haiM ki maMdiroM meM hama jisa bhagavAna kI pUjA karate haiM vaha to mUla rUpa se baccoM meM hI vidyamAna hotA hai| janmASTamI ko hama bhagavAna kRSNa kA janmotsava manAte haiN| zAyada saMsAra meM kRSNa hI eka aise bhagavatpuruSa haiM jinake bAlagopAla rUpa kI pUjA hotI hai| kRSNa bAlarUpa meM hI sabako lubhAte haiN| bar3e hone para to ve rAjanIti aura karmanIti ke rAste apanAte haiM, para kRSNa kA bAlarUpa lIlAdhara kI lIlA hai| paryuSaNa ke dinoM meM bhagavAna mahAvIra kA janmavAcana hotA hai| usa dina lAkhoM loga mahAvIra kA pAlanA jhulAte haiN| kyoM? kyoMki bAlarUpa manohArI hai| aise hI bhagavAna rAma kA bAlarUpa mana ko lubhAtA hai| bAlarUpa AhlAdakArI hai| vaha hameM adhika rijhAtA hai| hamArA apanA baccA bhI bIsa varSa kI Ayu meM hameM utanA Anandita nahIM karatA, jitanA ATha varSa kI Ayu meM karatA thaa| naciketA, dhruva, prahlAda aura atimukta jaise baccoM ne to mAtra ATha-dasa varSa kI Ayu meM hI Izvaratva ko upalabdha kara liyA thaa| __agara koI bAlaka apane jIvana meM kucha kara gujarane kA saMkalpa le le to usakI garIbI yA mAtA-pitA kA na honA bhI usakI rAha nahIM roka sktaa| budhiyA jaisA bAlaka bhI 65 kimI. kI lambI daur3a lagAkara vizva meM apanA 38 / For Personal & Private Use Only Page #40 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ kIrtimAna sthApita kara sakatA hai / ciMgArI bhale hI tuccha hotI hai, lekina vahI dAvAnala kA rUpa bhI dhAraNa kara sakatI hai| choTA ghAva bhI nAsUra bana sakatA hai| bIja choTA hotA hai lekina jamIna meM utara jAne para vahI vizAla vRkSa bana jAtA hai| aNu aura paramANu jaba vidhvaMsaka rUpa akhtiyAra kara lete haiM to hirozimA aura nAgAsAkI ko dhvasta karane meM saphala ho jAte haiN| zivAjI ne mAtra 16varSa kI Ayu meM apanI z2iMdagI kA pahalA kilA fataha kara liyA thA aura akabara ne mAtra 13 varSa kI Ayu meM samrAT pada pA liyA thaa| bAlaka sacamuca tabhI taka bAlaka hai jaba taka usake bhItara kucha kara gujarane kA jajbA paidA nahIM ho jaataa| jaz2bA paidA ho jAe to yAda rakho Aga sabake bhItara chipI hai| basa use jagAne kI z2arUrata hai / Apake bhItara jaba taka kucha kara pAne kA hauMsalA jAgrata nahIM ho jAtA taba taka Apa pacapana ke hokara bhI bacapana meM hI hote haiN| umra se kabhI vyakti kA mUlyAMkana nahIM kiyA jA sktaa| usake karma, guNa, mahAnatA, bhItarI vizvAsa hI use Age bar3hAte haiM / Aja ke daura meM bAlakoM kI buddhi itanI prakhara, tarkayukta, vaijJAnika aura itanI vikAsazIla hai ki pichale paccIsa sau varSoM meM jitanA vikAsa huA hogA, usase sau gunA jyAdA vikAsa vartamAna pIr3hI ke pAsa hai / Aja bAraha varSa kA baccA bhI Apako salAha dene meM samartha hai| usakA mastiSka kampyUTarAijDa hai / use to janma se hI aisA vAtAvaraNa mila jAtA hai ki Apane jo caudaha varSa kI Ayu meM jAnA, vaha use cAra sAla kI Ayu meM hI jAna letA hai| samaya badala gayA hai / hama apanI vartamAna pIr3hI para gaurava kara sakate haiM ki vaha badale hue jamAne ke sAtha qadama milAkara calane meM sakSama hai| Aja kI pIr3hI z2abardasta pratibhAzAlI hai, vaha nita - navIna zikSA, samRddhi aura saphalatA kI ora bar3ha rahI hai / hama jisa yuga meM paidA hue haiM hamAre lie vahI zreSTha hai / vartamAna meM rahakara atIta kI duhAI dene se kAma na clegaa| rAma kA samaya mahAn hogA, mahAvIra kA samaya zreSTha aura behatara rahA hogA, para hamAre lie to yahI yuga behatara hai, jisa yuga meM hamArA janma huA hai| kucha dazakoM pUrva taka to kanyAoM ko zikSA se vaMcita rakhA jAtA thaa| sAtavIM-AThavIM kakSA taka par3ha lIM to bahuta ho gayA, lekina Aja kanyAe~ AkAza ke kSitija chU rahI haiM, hara kSetra meM puruSoM kI hama 39 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #41 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ qadama hokara nae-nae kIrtimAna raca rahI haiN| vikAsa kI teja daur3a meM hara vyakti sukha aura samRddhi kI ora bar3ha rahA hai| vijJAna ne bahuta tarakqI kI hai aura usakA prabhAva hameM apane roz2amarrA ke jIvana meM bhI dikhAI detA hai| para maiM baccoM ko eka bAta ke lie sAvadhAna karanA cAhU~gA mAnA ki dhana-daulata, sukha-sAdhana bahuta ho gae haiM lekina kucha ghaTa gayA hai to vaha hai baccoM ke saMskAra, jIvana ke sAMskRtika aura mAnavIya muuly| makAna to bar3e hote jA rahe haiM lekina unameM rahane vAle loga bahuta choTe ho gae haiN| baccoM kA vaijJAnika aura bhautika vikAsa to khUba huA hai para pArivArika mUlya kSINa ho gae haiN| agara kisI bacce ko yaha kaheM ki subaha uThakara apane mAtA-pitA ke paira chuA karo to use aisA karate hue zarma A jAegI, jhijhaka lgegii| are bhAI, jo vyakti apane mA~-bApa ko praNAma karane meM saMkoca karegA, use phira apanI bIvI ke hI pA~va chUne pdd'eNge| jIvana meM sabase bar3I bhUmikA hI mAtA-pitA kI hai| ve hI sarjaka haiM, ve hI pAlanahAra haiM aura ve hI uddhAraka haiN| usako nahIM dekhA hamane kabhI para usakI z2arUrata kyA hogI? he mAM, terI sUrata se alaga, bhagavAna kI sUrata kyA hogI? dharatI kA bhagavAna to ghara-ghara meM hai, hamAre apane hI mAtA-pitA ke rUpa meM haiN| kRpayA apane mAtA-pitA kI ijjata kIjie, zravaNakumAra ko sadA apanI A~khoM meM rakhie aura apane karttavya pUre kiijie| z2yAdA na sahI, para utane varSa to mAtA-pitA ke z2arUra kAma A jAe~, jitane varSa ve hamAre kAma aae| pahale gharoM ke bAhara likhA rahatA thA, 'atithi devo bhv|' bAda meM vaqta bdlaa| loga likhane lage-'svAgatam', 'velakama' aura aba likhA milatA hai- 'kutte se saavdhaan|' hamAre saMskAroM ko yaha kyA ho gayA hai ? eka pitA ne socA ki mujhe yaha jAna lenA cAhie ki merA beTA bar3A hokara kyA banegA? usane cAra sAdhana apnaae| eka tarapha zarAba kI pyAlI rakhI, dUsarI tarapha kalama rakhI, tIsarI ora rAmAyaNa-gItA rakhI aura cauthI 40 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #42 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ ora kisI abhinetrI kA phoTo rakhA / cAroM cIz2eM eka palaMga para rakha dIM aura apane putra se kahA, 'jA beTA, jo tujhe pasaMda ho vaha tU le A / ' beTA gayA, usane cAroM cIz2oM ko dhyAna se dekhA / phira sabase pahale usane pyAlI uThAI aura pI gyaa| pAsa meM dekhA ki abhinetrI kA phoTo hai- use uThAyA aura jeba meM rakha liyaa| kalama bhI jeba ke havAle kara dI aura rAmAyaNa aura gItA ke guTake hAtha meM uThAkara calA gayA / pitA ne dekhA aura jAna liyA ki yaha to bar3A hokara netA hI banegA / netA pIte bhI haiM, jarUrata par3ane para rAmAyaNa aura gItA kA upayoga bhI kara lete haiM, abhinetriyoM ko bhI ikaTThA kara lete haiM aura kalama bhI jhUThI - saccI calAte rahate haiM / Aja baccoM kI jo naI paudha taiyAra ho rahI hai vaha kucha isI prakAra kI hai| maiM ina taiyAra hotI huI koMpaloM ko kucha aise karttavya aura farz2a nivedana kara rahA hU~ jisase ve apanA bhAvI jIvana sudhAra sakeM, sa~vAra skeN| kucha karttavya aura farz2a bar3oM se bhI nivedana karU~gA tAki donoM pIr3hiyA~ eka-dUsare ke naz2adIka A sakeM / Aja baccoM aura bujurgoM meM jo vaicArika aura vyAvahArika dUriyA~ A gaI haiM unheM dUra karanA pahalI AvazyakatA hai| donoM hI jaba apane karttavyoM ke prati gambhIra hoMge tabhI ve Ane vAle kala kA behatara nirmANa kara skeNge| sabase pahale bujurgoM ko hI apane karttavya samajhane caahie| bujurga atIta ke upasaMhAra haiM aura bacce vartamAna kI bhUmikA haiN| bujurga apane anubhavoM se baccoM ke jIvana meM rozanI gholeM aura bacce bujurgoM ko ghara kA baragada samajhakara unakI chAyA meM qhuda ko pallavita kareM / nizcaya hI, paMchI ko ur3anA to hai hI, Az2AdI kA jazna to manAnA hI hai / para Az2AdI kI ora vaha apane qadama bar3hAne ke pahale bujurgoM kI chatrachAyA meM itane paripakva ho jAe ki kaThinAiyoM se jUjhanA sIkha sake, muzkiloM se hAra na khA baitthe| yahA~ alagaalaga skUloM se Ae hue bacce bhI baiThe haiM ataH maiM baccoM se bhI kucha bAteM nivedana karU~gA, para pahale bujurgoM se / bujurgoM ko merI nasIhata hai ki ve apane baccoM ko jitanA paripakva kara sakate haiM, avazya kreN| baccoM ko ghara kA gamalA na banAe~ ki eka dina pAnI na mile to ve sUkha jaaeN| baccoM ko aisA pahAr3I paudhA banAe~ ki ve khuda apane balabUte para apane Apako khar3A kara sakeM / Aja agara koI baccA g2alata 41 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #43 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ nikala jAtA hai, to isakA matalaba hai ki baccoM ke prati pitA lAparavAha rhaa| pApA ne bacce kI pUrI TreniMga nahIM dii| kevala ho-hallA karane se bacce nahIM sudhrte| baccoM ke sAtha khuda ko baccA bananA par3atA hai| baccoM ke guru hI nahIM, mitra banakara bhI unakI koMpaloM ko, unakI kaliyoM ko puSpita karanA hotA hai| bacce jahAz2oM kI taraha hote haiN| jaba taka ve kinAre para rahate haiM, hameM unakI nigarAnI karanI par3atI hai para jaba ve samudra meM utara jAte haiM to unheM khuda hI apanA dhyAna rakhanA hotA hai| baccoM ko acchI se acchI zikSA z2arUra dilAie, para unheM sadA isa bAta kI bhI preraNA denI cAhie ki ve apane jIvana meM aisA kucha na kareM jisase unheM zarmiMdA honA pdd'e| bhale hI Apa apane baccoM ke sAtha raheM yA alaga, para jaba bhI baccoM ke pA~va lar3akhar3Ae~ to unheM sahArA dene ke lie hameM jarUra maujUda rahanA caahie| baccoM ke mana meM yaha vizvAsa avazya rahe ki aba jaba kabhI hamArI A~khoM meM A~sU hoMge to unheM pauMchane ke lie hamAre mAtA-pitA avazya hamAre pAsa hoNge| maiM eka khAsa preraka prasaMga kA jikra karU~gA, jisameM amerikI nau senA kA pramukha eDamirala jApAnI senA se Takkara lene ke lie apane ber3e ko prazAMta mahAsAgara meM bhejatA hai| ber3e ke ravAnA hone ke bAda vaha apane beDarUma meM baiThA huA ArAma se sustA rahA hotA hai ki tabhI riporTaroM ne usase pUchA ki vaha aise samaya meM ArAma kaise kara pA rahA hai jabaki usake sainika to bhISaNa samudrI yuddha meM jUjha rahe haiN| isa para eDamirala ne eka vijayI aMdAz2a meM kahA ki maiMne apanI kSamatA ke anurUpa apane sainikoM ko behatarIna prazikSaNa diyA hai| Adhunikatama hathiyAra sauMpe haiM aura hara hAlAta kA sAmanA karane ke lie z2arUrI hidAyata bhI dI hai| maiMne vaha saba kucha kiyA hai jo maiM kara sakatA thaa| mujhe apane sainikoM ke lie ciMtA karane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| ciMtA unheM karanI par3atI hai jinakI TreniMga aura TIciMga kamajora hotI haiN| kucha sIkhane ke lie bar3e bujurgoM ko yaha ghaTanA paryApta hai| bar3e logoM ko dekhanA cAhie ki unakA baccA kisI g2alata sohabata ke kAraNa durvyasana yA g2alata AdatoM kA zikAra to nahIM ho gayA hai| apane baccoM ko galata logoM se bcaaeN| g2alata loga aura g2alata AdateM jIvana meM naraka kA 42 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #44 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ pahalA dvAra haiN| g2alata sohabata kisI bhI insAna ko zaitAna banAne ke lie paryApta hai| g2alata AdateM g2alata sohabata ke kAraNa hI paDatI haiN| janma se koI burA nahIM hotA aura na hI usameM durvyasana hote haiN| vaha to saMgata kA asara hotA hai| ghara meM koI sigareTa yA zarAba pI rahA hai to baccA kaise achUtA raha sakatA hai? jhUTha bolanA, corI karanA, vyabhicAritA, cher3akhAnI karanA ityAdi saba dargaNa g2alata sohabata ke kAraNa hote haiN| eka g2alata sohabata ghara meM kaMTIle babUla ke bIja bone ke samAna hai| ye bIja hamAre ghara ke upavana ko jaMgala aura ujAr3a banA sakate haiN| bIja aise boe jAe~ jo hameM yaza, gaurava aura samRddhi de skeN| yAda kIjie mahAbhAratakAlIna kauravoM aura pAMDavoM ko| kaurava aura pAMDava eka hI ghara meM paidA hue, lekina kauravoM ko zakuni kI sohabata milatI hai aura pAMDavoM ko kRSNa kI mitratA milatI hai| zakuni kI sohabata duryodhana aura duHzAsana banAtI hai aura kRSNa kI sohabata yudhiSThira aura arjuna banAtI hai| yadi duryodhana aura duHzAsana ko kRSNa kI sohabata milatI to ve bhI suyodhana aura suzAsana banate aura itihAsa kucha aura hI hotaa| Apako vaha kahAnI yAda hogI jisameM do tote hote haiN| eka totA DAkuoM kI saMgata meM to dUsarA saMta kI kuTiyA meM rahatA hai| jaba ve donoM hI kisI baheliye ke dvArA pakar3a liye jAte haiM to eka hI AdamI dvArA kharIda liye jAte haiN| vaha donoM totoM ko eka hI piMjare meM rakhatA hai| subaha hone para eka totA bolatA hai 'lUTo-lUTo-lUTo' aura dUsarA kahatA hai-'svAgatam-svAgatam maMgala prbhaatm|' kharIdadAra Azcarya meM par3a jAtA hai ki eka hI bahelie se maiMne donoM tote kharIde haiM lekina donoM meM kitanA aMtara hai| vaha taphtIza karatA hai to patA calatA hai ki eka totA DAkuoM ke kheme se AyA hai aura dUsarA saMta kI kuTiyA se| ___sohabata hI sudhAratI hai aura sohabata hI bigAr3atI hai| isalie bujurgoM kA dAyitva hai ki ve dhyAna rakheM ki unake baccoM kI mitratA kaise logoM se hai ? ve kahA~-kahA~ Ate-jAte haiN| bujurga svayaM baccoM ke mitra baneM aura unheM acche mitra talAzane meM madada kreN| aisA mitra na banAe~ jo sarovara ke kinAre AyA, dAnA-pAnI cugA aura ur3a gyaa| mitra aisA banAo jo jala meM machalI kI taraha sAtha rhe| mUrkha aura g2alata vyakti ko mitra banAne kI bajAya akele rahanA | 43 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #45 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ z2yAdA zreSTha hai| yadi Apako patA calatA hai ki ApakA baccA g2alata logoM kI saMgata meM hai to kRpAkara use vahA~ se alaga kara liijie| agara Apane use vahA~ se nahIM haTAyA to usake bhaviSya aura parivAra ke lie Apa qhatarA paidA kara rahe haiN| bujurgoM kA dUsarA dAyitva hai ki Apa kevala upadezaka hI na baneM, balki apane baccoM ke lie Adarza bneN| jaisA ghara kA mAhaula hogA, jaisA ghara kA vAtAvaraNa hogA, baccA vaisA hI vikasita hogaa| jo Apa kahanA cAhate haiM, vaisA karanA zurU kara diijie| gAMdhIjI ne dekhA ki unake pitAjI sigareTa pIte haiM to unake mana meM bhI sigareTa pIne kI lalaka paidA huii| isalie jaba pitAjI ne sigareTa pIkara jo Tukar3A pheMka diyA use uThAkara unhoMne eka kaza lgaayaa| saMyoga se Upara khar3e pitAjI ne unheM aisA karate dekha liyaa| ve tamatamAte hue nIce utare aura unhoMne gAMdhIjI kI piTAI kara dii| taba gAMdhI jI ne unase kahA-'Apa bhI to sigareTa pIte haiN|' ___Apa jhUTha bolate haiM to baccA bhI jhUTha bolanA siikhegaa| hama kitanA bhI kaheM ki jhUTha nahIM bolanA cAhie, corI nahIM karanI cAhie, sadA saca bolanA cAhie lekina baccA pratidina dekha rahA hai ki pApA jaba dekho taba jhUTha bolate rahate haiM aura mujhase apekSA rakhate haiM ki maiM jhUTha na boluuN| ApakA AcaraNa hI bacce ke lie sabase bar3A prabhAvI upadeza hai| aisA huA-phona kI ghaMTI bajI, bacce ne phona uThAyA to dUsarI ora se pUchA gayA ki viSNugopAla jI haiM! bacce ne pUchA-'sara Apa kauna haiM ?' 'maiM rAmagopAla hU~'- uttara milaa| bacce ne kahA-'sara, maiM dekhakara batAtA hU~ ki pApA haiM yA nhiiN|' baccA pApA ke pAsa gayA aura unheM sArI bAta btaaii| pApAjI ne socA, 'are, yaha vahI rAmagopAla hai jisase maiMne dasa hajAra rupae lie the, vApasa mAMgatA hogA, aura unhoMne beTe se kahA, 'kaha do pApA ghara meM nahIM haiN|' beTe ne risIvara uThAyA aura kahA-'sara, pApA kaha rahe haiM ki ve ghara meM nahIM haiN| jaise hI pitAjI ne yaha bAta sunI, unheM gussA A gyaa| ve tamatamA kara sIdhe bacce ko cAMTA rasIda karate hue bole, 'bevakUfa, maiMne tujhase kyA yaha kahane ko kahA thA ki pApA kaha rahe haiM ki pApA ghara meM nahIM haiM ?' aba bacce ko isase kyA preraNA milegI? vaha to dekhegA ki saca bolane 44/ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #46 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ para cA~TA milatA hai aura jhUTha bolane para zAbAsI / pariNAma svarUpa baccA apane Apa jhUTha bolanA sIkha jAtA hai / agara Apa cAhate haiM ki ApakA baccA jhUTha na bole to Apa dinabhara bAta-bebAta meM jhUTha bolanA, bahAne gar3hanA baMda kara deN| jaoNrja vAziMgaTana ne likhA hai ki unhoMne apanI z2iMdagI meM kabhI jhUTha nahIM bolA / taba saMvAdadAtAoM ne unase pUchA - ' Apa eka rAjanetA haiM aura Apane kabhI jhUTha nahIM bolA, yaha kaise sambhava hai ?' unhoMne batAyA ki jaba ve choTe the to kisI bAta para mA~ ke sAmane jhUTha bola gae the / unakI jhUTha pakar3I gaI aura mA~ ne do cAMTe mArate hue kahA thA ki 'tuma jaise jhUTha bolane vAle beTe kI mA~ kahalAne kI bajAya maiM bA~jha kahalAnA z2yAdA pasaMda kruuNgii'| taba jaoNrja ko preraNA milI ki jhUTha bolanA mA~ kA apamAna karane ke samAna hai| isalie maiM kabhI jhUTha nahIM bolaa| jahA~ aise Adarza hote haiM vahA~ bacce apane-Apa satyavAdI hote haiM, naitika aura ImAnadAra hote haiM / isalie baccoM ko jhUTha, corI aura durvyasanoM se bacAe rakhane ke lie svayaM Apa ke lie satyapriya, naitika aura vyasanamukta honA pahalI anivAryatA hai / tIsarI bAta, apane baccoM ko Az2AdI dIjie lekina itanI bhI nahIM ki ApakA una para aMkuza na rhe| baccoM ko lAyaka banAe~, para sAvadhAna ! unheM itanA lAyaka bhI na banAe~ ki ve Apake prati hI nAlAyaka sAbita ho jAe~ / unheM itanI hI Az2AdI deM ki ve ApakI bAta bhI suna sakeM / mArane-pITane se bacce nahIM sudharate haiM / jaba taka A~kha kI zarma hai, baccA maryAdA meM ba~dhA rahatA hai aura jisa dina A~kha kI zarma gaI, usI dina se ucchRMkhalatA zurU ho gii| pitA, putra, sAsa-bahU meM jaba taka A~kha kI zarma bAkI hai tabhI taka maryAdA hai, anyathA jaba hara bAta meM roka-Toka, hastakSepa aura z2arUrata se z2yAdA apekSAe~ rakheMge to donoM Amane-sAmane khar3e ho jAe~ge / isalie A~kha kI maryAdA rakhanI cAhie aura yaha tabhI sambhava hogA jaba Apa eka sImA taba baccoM ko Az2AdI deN| baccoM ko pyAra kiyA jAnA cAhie, unheM sammAna bhI diyA jAnA cAhie, lekina baccA bigar3a jAe to use rAste para lAne ke lie sakhtI karane meM bhI saMkoca nahIM karanA caahie| abhI maiM eka ghara meM thA to vahA~ pitA apanI vyathA sunA rahA thA ki unakA baccA unake vaza meM nahIM hai / vaha apanI mA~ kI 45 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #47 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ bilkula nahIM sunatA hai| usake sAtha abhadra vyavahAra karatA hai| yahA~ taka ki vaha mArapITa bhI kara detA hai| maiMne kahA, 'isameM ApakI hI bhUmikA hai|' ve cauMka pdd'e| maiMne kahanA jArI rakhA ki jisa pahale dina beTe ne hAtha uThAyA thA usI dina unheM usakA hAtha pakar3a lenA cAhie thA aura use aisA daNDa denA cAhie thA ki phira vaha dubArA hAtha uThAne kI himmata na krtaa| jisakA hAtha apane mAtA-pitA para uTha gayA vaha hAtha nahIM, hathaur3A hai| beTe kA hAtha bApa para uTha jAe, beTe kA hAtha mA~ para cala jAe, to usa hAtha ko maror3ane kI Apa meM tAqata bhI honI cAhie aura agara vaha tAqata nahIM hai to kRpayA saMtAna paidA hI mata kiijie| usa dina apanI puNyavAnI samApta samajhanA jisa dina ApakA beTA yaha kaha de ki vaha alaga ghara basAnA cAhatA hai| mA~-bApa ke jIte jI unakA khUna Apasa meM ba~Ta jAe to mA~-bApa ke lie isase bar3I puNyahInatA aura kyA hogI? jIvana meM acchI santAna, acchI patnI aura acchA mitra, ye tInoM bar3e nasIba se milate haiN| bahano, Apane apane pati se kaI bAra jhagar3A bhI kiyA hogaa| aba mere kahane se unakI g2alata AdatoM ke lie bhI unase jhgdd'o| zarAba, sigareTa, juA, saTTA, guTakA, tambAkU, jhUTha bolanA jaisI AdateM hoM to eka martabA jhagar3a hI lo| kaha hI DAlo-apanI burI AdateM chor3a deM, varanA ghara meM yA to ve raheMge yA aap| jisa tarIke se Apa sudhAra sakatI haiM vahI apnaaeN| Apa pati kI ardhAMginI kahalAtI haiN| vahI ardhAMginI vAstavika ardhAMginI hai jo apane Adhe aMga ko sahI rAste para le aae| jisakA AdhA aMga kharAba ho aura AdhA sahI, to vaha vikalAMga hI kahalAtA hai| Apa socie ki kyA Apa vikalAMginI kahalAnA pasaMda kareMgI? dharma patnI vahI kahalAtI hai jo pati ko dharma ke rAste para le jaae| agara patnI aisA nahIM karatI to patnI vaha hai jo patana kI ora le jaae| apane beTe ko sahI rAste para lAnA mAtA-pitA kA bhI farz2a hai| aisA huA ki AdhI rAta ko pulisa ne eka ghara para dastaka dii| gRhasvAmI ne daravAjA kholA to pulisa ne eka tasvIra dikhAte hue pUchA- kyA Apa ise pahacAnate haiM ?' gRhasvAmI ne kahA-'hA~, yaha to mere hI beTe kA citra hai| kyA huA?' 'huA kyA! are Aja tumhAre lar3ake ne samudra ke kinAre kisI lar3akI se cher3akhAnI kI thii| 46. For Personal & Private Use Only Page #48 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ cAra lar3ake pakar3e jA cuke haiN| pA~cavA~ tumhArA beTA thA, hama use pakar3ane Ae haiM' pulisa ne batAyA / pitA ne phira pUchA- 'kyA mere lar3ake ne zarArata kI hai ?' pulisa ne kahA - 'hA~' / pitA sIdhe apane beTe ke kamare meM gayA, use jagAkara khar3A kiyA aura pUchA - 'kyA tumane Aja kinhIM lar3akiyoM se cher3akhAnI kI ?' putra cauMkA aura usane zarma se gardana nIce jhukA lii| pitA samajha gae ki usane aisA kiyA thaa| ve bAhara Ae aura pulisa se kahA- 'merA beTA aMdara hai, jAkara use pakar3a liijie|' beTe ko Azcarya huA ki pitA hI apane putra ko giraphtAra karavA rahA hai| pitA to apane beTe ko chur3avAne kI koziza karatA hai / yaha kaisA pitA hai jo apane hI beTe ko pulisa ko sauMpa rahA hai ? jaise hI pulisa putra ko le jAne lagatI hai tabhI pitAjI pIche se AvAz2a dekara iMspekTara ko bulAte haiM, aura pA~ca hajAra rupae usake hAtha meM rakhate haiM / isalie nahIM ki beTe ko chur3AnA hai balki isalie ki pulisa usakI aisI khabara le ki Age se vaha lar3akiyoM ko cher3anA bhUla jaae| pitA ne iMspekTara se kahA, 'ye pA~ca hajAra rupae isalie haiM ki Apa mere beTe kI aisI piTAI kareM ki bhaviSya meM vaha kabhI aisA galata kAma na kara pAe / ' pitA vaha nahIM hai, jo mAtra saMtAna ko janma de yA use apanI saMpatti kA uttarAdhikArI bnaae| asalI to pitA vaha hai jo baccoM ke saMskAroM ke prati vafAdAra rhe| Apa baccoM ke prati sajaga rahie, unheM behatara zikSA aura saMskAra diijie| ghara meM acchA mAhaula diijie| eka-dUsare ke sAtha AdarabhAva ke sAtha peza Aie / atithi kA prasannatA se svAgata kiijie| baccoM ko preraNAspada kahAniyA~ sunaaiye| unheM kahiye ki jaba bhI jIvana meM musIbata Ae to usase ghabarAnA nahIM apitu apanI zreSTha buddhi kA zraddhA ke sAtha prayoga karanA jaisA pyAse kaue ne kiyA thaa| eka pyAse kaue ne dekhA ki ghar3e meM pAnI hai, lekina usakI coMca usameM nahIM DUba rahI hai| usane ghar3e meM kaMkar3a DAlane zurU kiye vaha eka-eka kaMkar3a DAlatA rahA / aMtata: pAnI Upara A gayA aura kaue ne apanI pyAsa bujhA lii| Apa unheM paMcataMtra kI khUbasUrata kahAniyA~ sunAie, jisameM buddhi kA qhaz2AnA bharA par3A hai| baccoM meM grAhyatA bahuta adhika hotI hai / ve zIghra hI bAteM samajha lete haiM, unheM grahaNa kara lete haiM / unheM aisI kahAniyA~ sunAie ki viparIta paristhitiyoM meM bhI unheM sAhasa ke sAtha sAmanA karane kI I | 47 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #49 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ preraNA mile, jisase bacce jiMdagI meM aTakeM nahIM, bhaTakeM nahIM aura ve sadA Age bar3hate raheM, yazasvI hoM, saphala hoM / unake jIvana meM sArthakatAe~ phalatI phUlatI naz2ara aaeN| Apa apane baccoM ko khUba AzIrvAda deN| Apake AzIrvAda unakI pragati kI kuMjI bana jaaeN| aba bacco, maiM Apase bhI kahU~gA, jo yuvA haiM, kizora haiM, vidyAlaya yA mahAvidyAlaya meM bhI par3hate haiM yA nahIM par3hate haiM / Apa apane jIvana kA behatara lakSya nirdhArita kreN| U~ce lakSya, U~ce sapane aura kaThora parizrama karane kA jinameM jajbA aura sAhasa hotA hai, ve hI loga bhaviSya ke hastAkSara hote haiM / mere pyAre bacco, tuma U~ce sapane dekhanA sIkho arthAt U~ce lakSya banAo, U~ce vicAra rakho aura unheM pUrA karane ke lie kaThina mehanata kro| ApakI sArI saphalatA ApakI mehanata para hI TikI hai / arjuna kI taraha lakSya para hI ApakI nigAha rahe / jisa taraha lakSyasaMdhAna ke lie arjuna ko kevala cir3iyA kI A~kha hI dikhAI de rahI thI usI taraha Apa bhI apane lakSya ko prApta karane ke lie juTa jAe~ / lagAtAra mehanata karane se patthara bhI ghisakara gola ho jAte haiM, phira Apa to buddhimAna haiM, lagana se kyA kucha hAsila nahIM kiyA jA sakatA ? dUsarI bAta kahU~gA ki Apa svAvalambI bneN| apanA kAma qhuda karane kI Adata ddaaleN| jo loga apanA kAma qhuda nahIM karate unheM hI yogAsana karane kI z2arUrata hotI hai, qhuda ko menTena karane ke lie jima meM jAnA par3atA hai| Apa jAnate haiM ki maz2adUra ko sone ke lie kabhI nIMda kI golI nahIM khAnI pdd'tii| jinheM do kadama calanA bhI ga~vArA nahIM hotA, unhIM ke lie bar3e-bar3e aspatAla haiN| subaha jaldI uTheM, sUryodaya ke pUrva jageM / Avazyaka kArya nipaTAkara sabase pahale ghara meM bikhare hue sAjo-sAmAna ko vyasthita kareM, ghara ko sNvaareNsjaaeN| lar3akiyA~ ghara ke kAma-kAja meM apanI mA~ kI madada kreN| Apa par3hIlikhI haiM to bhI khAnA banAnA to AnA hI cAhie n / jaba Apa acchA khAnA banA sakeMgI tabhI to naukara ko nirdeza dekara Apa unase khAnA banavA skeNgii| sabhI kizora aura yuvA samajha leM ki par3hAI ke sAtha-sAtha jIvana meM unake kucha aura bhI dAyitva haiM, jinheM avazya hI pUrA kiyA jAnA cAhie / khAna-pAna, rahana-sahana kA salIkA honA caahie| maiM dekhA karatA hU~ ki ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM - 3 48 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #50 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ bAjAravAda kA prabhAva gharoM meM ghusa AyA hai, jisase yuvA pIr3hI bhaTakana ke rAste para jA rahI hai| tana para vastroM kI kamI ne vyabhicAra ko bar3hAvA diyA hai| Ajakala lar3akiyoM aura mahilAoM ke Upara ke vastra nIce hote jA rahe haiM aura nIce ke vastra Upara Ate jA rahe haiM / biTiyAe~ TAiTa jIMsa aura TAiTa TI zarTa pahanakara calAe~gI skUTara, aura ye hindustAna kI sar3akeM, Thaura-Thaura para gaDDhe! aba dikhane meM kitanA oNDa lagatA hai| vastra pahanie garimApUrNa, maryAdApUrNa / Apa videzI saMskRti kA bhale hI anusaraNa kIjie para kapar3oM ke mAmale meM unakA anusaraNa Apake lie ghATe kA saudA sAbita hogaa| ApakA sadAcAra kama hogA, eDsa jaise roga bar3heMge aura sAMskRtika patana hogA so alg| ___Ajakala yauna-zikSA kA bhI pracalana bar3ha rahA hai| baccoM ko abhI to pA~cavIM kakSA se hI yauna-zikSaNa milanA zurU ho rahA hai, phira ela.ke.jI.. yU.ke.jI. se bhI zurU ho jaaegaa| hindustAna kA hAla to dekho| sunA hai, dillI meM katlakhAnA, kasAIkhAnA calAne kI TreniMga sIkhane ke bhI kaoNleja khula rahe haiN| choTe baccoM ko yauna-zikSA dI jA rahI hai jabaki unheM to jIvanavikAsa kI zikSA dI jAnI caahie| para... jo netA ye kAma kara rahe haiM, jarA unase pUcho ki gadhe-ghor3oM ko koI yauna-zikSA detA hai kyA? tumhAre athavA hamAre mA~-bApa ko kisI ne yaha TreniMga dI thI kyA? umra ke vikAsa ke sAtha yaha jJAna to svataH hI ho jAtA hai| Ane vAlA kala qhataranAka mor3a le rahA hai| maiM baccoM se kahU~gA ki ve zikSA ke prati gaMbhIra hoM aura behatarIna zikSA arjita kreN| jo loga tharDa klAsa pAsa hokara zikSA ke rAste para Age bar3hanA cAhate haiM usase to kucha pariNAma nahIM nikalane vAlA hai, para yadi Apa zikSA ke prati gaMbhIra ho jAte haiM to apane keriyara ke nirmANa kI bahuta bar3I bhUmikA svayaM hI banA cuke hote haiN| acchI zikSA aura pratibhAe~ jitanI Aja Age bar3ha rahI haiM vaha apane Apa meM Aja svAgatayogya hai| acche kaoNleja se lar3akA pAsa hokara bAda meM nikalatA hai usase pahale hI naukarI ke lie bar3I-bar3I kampaniyoM ke oNphara taiyAra rahate haiN| kitane bar3e Azcarya kI bAta hai ki keTa yA pI.ema.TI. athavA sI.e. yuvaka ko zuruAtI caraNa meM hI paccIsa-paccIsa aura pacAsapacAsa lAkha ke paikeja mila rahe haiN| aba aMtarrASTrIya kampaniyoM ke mAlika aura zeyara holDarsa bhI isa bAta ko samajhane laga gae haiM ki yadi apanI kampanI ko 49 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #51 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ Age bar3hAnA hai, to bhale hI unake pAsa pratibhA na hoM, para pratibhAvAna logoM ko apanI kampanI sauMpa kara usake dUragAmI vizAla pariNAma prApta kiye jA sakate haiN| baccoM ko cAhie ki ve behatarIna zikSA prApta kareM, apanI pratibhA ko nikhAreM, kaThora TreniMga leN| Ane vAlA kala ApakA hogaa| maiMne kahA ki Apa behatarIna zikSA leM to isakA matalaba yaha nahIM hai ki Apa kitAbI kIr3e bana jaaeN| behatarIna zikSA vyakti ke vikAsa kA eka caraNa hai| jIvana ke anya pahaluoM para bhI gaura kreN| acchA vyavahAra, acchI prastuti, acchI bhASA, vinamratA, lAipha maiMnejameMTa, karmaThatA-kriyAzIlatAprejenTezana, svAsthya, ghara aura parivAra ke sAtha sahabhAgitA aura milanasAritA jaise Dhera sAre ve bindu haiM jo Apake vyaktitva aura keriyara ko banAte aura prabhAvita karate haiN| sadA ha~samukha rheN| ApakI muskAna ApakI pahacAna bane aura ApakI khilakhilAhaTa se ghara kA vAtAvaraNa AnandadAyaka ho jaae| Apa apanI korsa kI kitAboM ke alAvA bhI dUsarI acchI kitAbeM z2arUra pddh'eN| Apa merI kitAbeM to par3hate hI haiM, duniyA meM aura bhI acche citaMka loga haiM, unake gAiDeMsa se bhI lAbhAnvita hoN| sveTa mArDana, helana kelara, jemsa ailana, ozo, ravizaMkara, AcArya sudhAMzu, AcArya mahAprajJa, muni taruNasAgara, pramoda batrA, zivakher3A jaise bahuta se lekhaka aura pravaktA haiN| Apa unheM bhI pddh'eN| acchI kitAboM ko par3hane se jJAna ke prati pyAra panapatA hai, mastiSka kA vikAsa hotA hai| jJAna ke prati lagAva hI yuvA mastiSka ke Aveza aura vyasanoM se bacane kI gAraMTI hai| bagaira qitAboM kI z2indagI to bilkula vaisI hI Umasa bharI hotI hai, jaise binA khir3akI ke koI kmraa| Apa zAlIna aura saMskArita parivAroM ke bacce haiN| Apako aisA kucha bhI nahIM karanA cAhie jisase Apake parivAra kI ora aMgulI utthe| Apa vahI kareM, jisase ApakI aura Apake parivAra kI maryAdA banI rhe| subaha pratidina mAtA-pitA, dAdA-dAdI ko praNAma kara unake AzIrvAda z2arUra leN| yaha Apake jIvana kI bahuta bar3I pU~jI hogii| kabhI kisI se IrSyA na kareM, svayaM para vizvAsa rkheN| koI Age bar3ha rahA hai to IrSyA kI apekSA svayaM para bharosA 50 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #52 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ rakhakara aura adhika mehanata kreN| bar3I lAina ko miTAkara choTI karane kI koziza na kareM balki apanI lAina bar3I khiiNceN| ___ yAda rakheM ki Izvara ne hamAre Upara mahatI kRpA kara hameM mAnava-janma diyA hai| jIvana kA vikAsa, vyaktitva kA nirmANa, saphalatA aura samRddhi, saba Apake puruSArtha kA pariNAma hai| prArabdha prabhu ke hAtha meM hai aura puruSArtha Apake hAtha meM hai| hamezA isa bAta ko yAda rakheM ki prArabdha unhIM ko milatA hai, jo use prApta karane ke lie puruSArtha karate haiN| acchI taqadIra + acchI tadabIra arthAt acchA bhAgya + acchA puruSArtha = saphalatA, zreSThatA, saubhaagy| | 51 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #53 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ maoN hI maMdira, mA~ hI pUjA 3015 apanI bAta kI zuruAta eka pyAre-se prasaMga ke sAtha kara rahA huuN| eka bahuta caMcala aura khUbasUrata lar3akI thii| lar3akI apanI mA~ se bahuta pyAra karatI thI, para g2alata sohabata meM par3a jAne ke kAraNa lar3akI apane sadAcAra se vimukha ho gii| logoM ke bahakAve meM Akara usane apane ghara kA tyAga kara ddaalaa| vaha ghara se bhAga gaI, para bAda meM ghara se dUra rahakara use pachatAvA huaa| jIvana meM hone vAle anAcAra se duHkhI hokara jIvana meM apanAe gae pApa ke mArga se vaha AtmaglAni se bhara gii| usane apane Apako khatma karane kA irAdA kara liyaa| jina logoM ke bIca vaha phaMsa cukI thI, vahA~ se chipatechipAte nikala gaI aura khudakuzI karane kA tarIkA socane lagI ki tabhI usake mana meM bhAva AyA ki maiM marane se pahale janma dene vAlI mA~ kA mu~ha jarUra dekha luuN| vaha apane mauhalle kI ora cala pdd'ii| mauhalle meM aura koI use pahacAna na le, isalie vaha aMdhere meM apane ghara kI galI meM phuNcii| use lagA ki usake bhItara itanA sAhasa nahIM hai ki vaha 52 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #54 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ apanI mA~ ke sAmane jA ske| Akhira koI bhI apanA kaluSita ceharA lekara apane mAtA-pitA ke sAmane nahIM jAnA caahegaa| lar3akI mana-hI-mana soca hI rahI thI ki mA~ subaha pA~ca baje jagatI hai, maiM ghara kI caukhaTa ke pAsa chipakara baiTha jAtI hU~ aura jaise hI mA~ ghara se bAhara AegI to maiM dUra se hI usake darzana kara lUMgI aura yahAM se vApasa ravAnA ho jaauuNgii| lar3akI madhya rAtri ke bAda galI meM pahu~cI thii| galI meM jaise hI praveza kiyA to ghara para najara par3ate hI lar3akI cauMka pdd'ii| ghara kA daravAjA khulA huA thaa| lar3akI ko kucha anahonI kA andezA haa| usane socA ki Akhira rAta ke eka baje daravAjA khulA kyoM hai? kahIM merI mA~ saMkaTa meM to nahIM hai? kahIM koI cora-ucakke to mere ghara meM to nahIM ghusa gae? apanI mA~ ko saceta karane kI bhAvanA se usane cillAkara kahA-'mA~!' tabhI andara se AvAja AI- 'beTA, Aqhira tuma A gii|' mA~ andara se cirAga lekara bAhara aaii| usane kahA- beTA, mujhe pUrA vizvAsa thA ki tuma eka-na-eka dina jarUra lauttogii| jo dUra se hI mA~ ko dekhanA cAha rahI thI, mA~ ko apanI A~khoM ke sAmane dekhakara vaha apanA dhIraja na rakha paaii| daur3akara apanI mA~ ke A~cala meM apane Apako chipAne lgii| donoM kI A~khoM se A~sU Tapaka rahe the| lar3akI ne pUchA'mA~, rAta ko eka baje ghara ke daravAje khule hone kA rahasya kyA hai ?' mA~ ne kahA- 'beTA, mujhe pUrA-pUrA yaqIna thA ki eka-na-eka dina tuma lauTakara ghara z2arUra aaogii| jisa dina se tuma gaI ho usa dina se Aja taka ye ghara ke daravAje banda nahIM hue haiM tAki jaba bhI tuma ghara lauTakara Ao to ina khule daravAjoM ko dekhakara tumheM yaha ahasAsa ho ki tumhArA isa ghara meM sadA svAgata hai| hara pala tumhArI pratIkSA hai| ___ beTI ne kahA 'mA~, tumane itanI bar3I bAta kahI dI, kintu aba maiM tumhArA pavitra prema pAne ke kAbila nahIM rahI huuN|' yaha kahate hue vaha phaphaka pdd'ii| mA~ ne kahA-'beTA, kisI mA~ kI santAna cAhe sanmArga para jAe yA kumArga para, cAhe santAna ke saubhAgya kA udaya ho yA durbhAgya kA, mA~ kA A~cala to apane baccoM ke lie hara samaya bichA rahatA hai| usakI bAMheM to haradama baccoM ko gale lagAne ke lie phailI rahatI haiN|' . 'mA~' to saMsAra kA sabase khUbasUrata zabda hai| duniyA~ ke sAre zabda koSoM | 53 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #55 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ meM mA~ yA madara se jyAdA pyArA zabda aura koI nahIM hai| mA~ zabda to bIja kI taraha choTA hai, aura baragada kI taraha vishaal| mA~ apane Apa meM saMsAra kA sampUrNa zAstra hai jisameM duniyA~ bhara ke sAre zAstra aura unakA satya Akara samAhita ho jAtA hai| mA~ to apane Apa meM majahaboM kA majahaba hai ki jisameM duniyAM bhara ke sAre sAre paMtha aura paramparAe~ Akara sukha aura sukUna pAyA karatI haiN| __mA~ to mamatA kA mahAkAvya hai| mA~ se hI pahalI tutalAtI bolI zurU hotI hai aura mA~ hI pIr3A kA pahalA alphAz2a hotA hai| vaha kaisI z2abAna jisa para mA~ kI cAsanI na lagI ho, vaha kaisI kitAba jisameM mA~ zabda kA upayoga na huA ho, vaha kaisI pIr3A jisakI gaharAI se 'o mA~' na nikalA ho| saca to yaha hai ki mA~ se hI jIvana kI zurUAta hai| mA~ hI jIvana ke hara duHkha darda kA par3Ava hai aura mA~ hI antima zaraNa sthalI hai| jaba duniyAM meM koI kahIM bhI panAha na pAe taba dharatI para eka akelI mA~ hI use zaraNa detI hai| apane rAha bhUle thake hAre bacce ko apanI komala aMguliyoM ke sparza se usakI thakAna ko dUra karane vAlI pahalI aura AkhirI zaraNa mA~ hI hotI hai| 'mA~' rAhata kI sAMsa hai| mA~ to apane Apa meM jIvana kA mahAvrata hai| yogI loga to koI eka vrata yA koI eka anuSThAna karate hoMge para mA~ kA to sampUrNa jIvana hI yogoM kA yoga, anuSThAnoM kA anuSThAna aura pUjanoM kA mahApUjana __mA~ apane Apa meM eka anokhA vrata hai| jIvana meM kisI ke lie bhI ekAdazI ke vrata ko gyAraha sAla taka karanA AsAna hai, saMvatsarI parva para tIna dina ke upavAsa karane sarala haiM, cAturmAsa ke daramyAna eka mahine kA upavAsa karake mAsakSamaNa karanA sahaja hai, para kisI ke dvArA bhI 'mA~' honA aura mA~ ke dAyitvoM ko nibhAnA una samasta vratoM, upavAsoM va mAsakSamaNa karane se bhI jyAdA duSkara tapa hai| mA~ kI mamatA, usake tyAga, usake ahasAna, apane Apa meM eka mahAtapa aura kurbAnI kI dAstAna hai| ___ mA~ to hamAre ghara ke kumakuma kI raMgolI hai| mA~ to hara roja sUrya bhagavAna ko diyA jAne vAlA AsthA kA arghya hai| yaha mA~ hI hai jo ki dhairya aura zAnti rakhane vAle candramA kA kArya karatI hai| sabhI devI-devatAoM ke svataMtra 54 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #56 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ mandira haiM, para mA~ to vaha mandira hai jisameM brahmA, viSNu, maheza kudaratI taura para pratiSThita haiM, jisakI vANI meM satyam hai, jisakI A~khoM meM zivam hai aura jisake hAthoM meM sundaram hai| ____ kahate haiM brahmA kA kArya sRjana karanA hai| hamArA sRjana mA~ ne kiyA isalie mA~ brahmA hai| hamArA pAlana-poSaNa mA~ karatI hai isalie mA~ viSNu hai| apanI chAtI kI amRta bUMdeM mA~ ne hamAre z2igara meM utaarii| mA~ hI hamArA uddhAra karatI hai| mA~ hI hameM saMskAra detI hai aura mA~ hI hameM apane pA~voM para khar3A karatI hai| isalie mA~ mahAdeva hai| tIna devatAoM kI agara eka sAtha pUjA karanI hai to mA~ ko puujie| __jIvana meM mA~ kA honA hI kAphI hai| mA~ hai to jIvana meM pUrNatA hai| jisa dina vyakti ke jIvana se usakI mA~ dUra ho jAtI hai usI dina se usakA jIvana apUrNa ho jAtA hai| patnI ko ardhAMginI banAkara vyakti apane jIvana ko pUrNatA dene kI koziza avazya karatA hai kintu mA~ ke bagaira koI bhI vyakti apane jIvana kA daivIya upasaMhAra nahIM kara sktaa| mA~ hai to jIvana kI kavitA kA artha hai, para mA~ hI agara calI jAe to jIvana kI kavitA ke koI mAyane nahIM haiN| yAda rakhie patnI ApakI pasanda hai para mA~ paramAtmA kA anugraha hai| kahIM aisA na ho ki hama apanI pasanda ke cakkara meM paramAtmA ke anugraha ko ThukarA baitthe| jisane aba taka mA~ ke prema ko na pahacAnA, mA~ ke vAtsalya aura mamatA ko mahasUsa na kiyA vahI vyakti kahatA hai ki pRthvI sahanazIlA hai| jisane mA~ kI vatsalatA ko na samajhA vahI yaha kahane kI jurrata kara sakatA hai ki sAgara athAha hai| jisane mA~ ke hRdaya ko na jAnA vahI kahegA ki AkAza ananta hai| jisane mA~ kI mamatA ko jAna liyA, anubhava kara liyA vaha jAnatA hai ki sAgara kI thAha phira bhI pAI jA sakatI hai, para mA~ kI mamatA to sAgara se bhI z2yAdA athAha hai| ___mA~ ke vAtsalya aura tyAga ko samajheMge to hI samajha pAeMge ki AkAza kA anta phira bhI DhUMDhA jA sakatA hai, para mA~ kI sahRdayatA kA anta nahIM pAyA jA sktaa| jahA~ meM jisakA aMta nahIM, use AsamAM kahate hai aura saMsAra meM jisakA aMta nahIM use mA~ kahate hai| mA~ pRthvI kI taraha sahanazIlA hai, usakI 55 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #57 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ mamatA sAgara kI taraha athAha hai, usake ahasAna AkAza kI taraha antahIna haiN| mA~ apane Apa meM pUrNa hai / 'mAtR devo bhavaH' ke puNya jApa se to deva, dAnava aura manuja sabhI tira gae / zravaNakumAra ne isI maMtra ke jApa se aneka siddhiyA~ hAsila kara lI thIM / mA~ to jaba taka jIvita rahatI hai taba taka saravara, taruvara aura saMta kI taraha apane baccoM para apanA hara sukha, zAMti, prema, vAtsalya luTAtI rahatI hai aura jaba zarIra chor3akara paraloka sidhAra jAtI hai to vahA~ baiThe-baiThe hI apane baccoM ko apane AzIrvAda luTAtI rahatI hai isalie mA~ mahaja mA~ nahIM varana hara mA~ eka jagadambA hai| mA~ jaba taka hamArI A~khoM ke sAmane hai taba taka hamako IzvarIya chAyA kA sukUna detI hai aura jisa dina hameM chor3akara calI jAtI hai to apane devadurlabha AzIrvAdoM kA kavaca pahanA jAtI hai / vaha dUra rahakara bhI apane baccoM ke lie maMgala kAmanAe~ kiyA karatI hai / mA~ sacamuca dhanya hai, vaha yajJa kI vedI hai, vaha mandira kI pratimA hai, hara tIrtha kI devI hai / mA~ ke kadamoM meM hI jannata hai / mA~ ke AMcala meM hI kAmadhenu kA AzIrvAda hai / mA~ ke hoThoM meM jIvana kA gulAbI sukha hai / mA~ ke hAthoM meM jAduI sparza hai, jo detA hai hameM eka anokhA sukha, santuSTi, tRti aura mukti / 1 1 yaha mA~ hI hai jo hameM janma dene ke lie eka avyakta, aghoSita prasUti kI bhayaMkara vedanA sahana karatI hai / yaha mA~ hI hai jo hamAre dharatI para Ane kA hameM pahalA ahasAsa karAtI hai / mA~ hI apanI kokha meM hamArI pahalI AhaTa pAtI hai aura vahI hameM pahale padacApa kA ahasAsa karAtI hai| janma lete hI apane pyAra bhare cumbanoM se svAgatam svAgatam kI jhar3I lagA detI hai / hamAre lie Dhera sArI zubhakAmanAe~ sAgara kI laharoM kI taraha hama para ulIca detI hai| kyA hama mA~ ke RNoM ko cukA pAeMge ? agara koI vyakti yaha soce ki maiM mA~ ke RNa se uRNa ho sakatA hU~ to aisA socanA bhI mA~ ke prati ghRSTatA hogI / bhalA hama kisa-kisa RNa ko utAreMge ? kyA hama usa RNa ko utAra pAe~ge jo mA~ ne hameM nau mAha taka garbha meM rakhakara pIr3Ae~ sahana kI thIM? jaba mA~ hameM apanI koqha meM lekara samAja meM AtI jAtI hogI, jahAM loga use tirachI naz2aroM se dekhate hoMge, para usane lAja kA tyAga karake bhI hameM peTa meM rkhaa| yadi 56| For Personal & Private Use Only Page #58 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ prakRti yaha adhikAra puruSoM ko de de ki tumheM nau mahine taka apanI saMtAna ko peTa meM rakhakara, phira use paidA karanA hogA to duniyAM ke 90 pratizata puruSa saMtAna ko janma denA svIkAra hI nahIM kreNge| sacamuca mA~, yaha terI hI tAqata hai ki tU isa saMsAra ko janma detI hai| hamArA pAlana karatI hai| hameM apane pAMvoM para khar3A karatI hai / hameM behatara saMskAra detI hai| nizcaya hI kisI deza kI sarakAra ko calAnA AsAna ho sakatA hai para kisI saMtAna ko zreSTha saMskAra aura zikSA dekara use behatara iMsAna banAnA sarakAra calAne se bhI z2yAdA kaThina kAma hai / kyA Apa isa mahatva ko samajha sakate haiM? bhale hI koI kahe isa saMsAra kI racanA karanevAlA koI Izvara yA khudA hai, para khulI A~khoM se agara saca ko kahA jAe to isa khUbasUrata duniyA~ aura duniyA~ kI hara racanA ko banAne vAlI mA~ hai / bhale hI mA~ kA nirmANa Izvara ne kiyA hogA, para saMsAra kA nirmANa to mA~ ne kiyA hai| Izvara ko jabajaba bhI apane apane Apako vyakta karanA hotA hai taba-taba vaha mA~ ke rUpa meM janma letA hai / jaba kabhI Izvara ko isa duniyA~ kA sRjana karanA hotA hai taba vaha mA~ ke hRdaya meM utaratA hai aura mA~ kI komala koqha kA sparza karate hue isa saMsAra kA sRjana kiyA karatA hai / hamameM se koI bhI vyakti mA~ ke RNa ko nahIM utAra sktaa| isa garbhapAta ke yuga meM bhI mA~ ne hameM janma diyA hai| kyA unakA yaha ahasAna bhI kama hai yAda kIjie apane bacapana ko / hameM naz2ara na laga jAe, isalie mA~ hamAre mAthe para kAjala kI kAlI biMdI lagAtI thI / kyA hamameM se koI bhI vyakti una biMdiyoM kA RNa utAra pAegA? hamAre pA~voM meM paiMjaniyA~ bA~dhI jAtI thIM aura hama Thumaka Thumaka kara calate the| kyA hama una paiMjaniyoM kA RNa utAra pAe~ge ? yAda karo ki Apane apane nanhe nanhe pairoM se apanI mA~ ko jaba-taba kitanI lAte mArI thiiN| mA~ phira bhI hamAre gAloM ko pyAra se sahalAtI rahatI / kyA hama usa pyAra kA RNa utAra paaeNge| bacce loga ghara meM sAmAna ko eka jagaha nahIM rahane dete / hama apane bacapane svabhAva ke kAraNa mA~ ke sajAe hue sAmAnoM ko bhI bikhera dete the| mA~ hameM isa para eka mIThI DAMTa z2arUra detI thI para phira khuda hI sAmAna sajA detii| kyA hama una sAmAnoM ko sameTane kA RNa cukA pAe~ge ? jaba hama bImAra par3a jAte to mA~ mAthe para rAI kI poTalI rakhA karatI, tAki hama For Personal & Private Use Only | 57 Page #59 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ jaldI se ThIka ho jaaeN| mA~ ne hamAre sirahAne rAI kA eka-eka dAnA hamAre jIvana ke kalyANa ke lie, svAsthya aura Arogya ke bhAva ke sAtha rkhe| kyA hama rAI ke una dAnoM kA RNa utAra paaeNge| jaba hama bukhAra meM tapa rahe hote taba mA~ hI vaha zakti hotI jo hamAre mAthe para gIlI paTTiyA~ rakhatI aura apanI komala-komala aMguliyoM se sahalAtI huI kahatI, 'beTA, so jA ro mata, bImArI hAthI ke cAla se AtI hai aura cITI ke cAla se jAyA karatI hai| maiM manA nahIM karatI thI ki ThaNDe pAnI meM mata nahA, para tU mAnatA kahAM hai, aba ho gae nA biimaar| thor3A dhIraja rakha, saba ThIka ho jaaegaa|' kyA hama mA~ kI isa bhAva dazA kA ahasAsa kara pAeMge? __mA~ kI una mIThI-mIThI loriyoM ko kyUM bhUla jAte haiM jo vaha hameM sone ke lie sunAyA karatI thii| mA~ kI una pyAra bharI loriyoM ko jarA yAda kIjie, jinase philma saMsAra ne bhI apane ko sajAyA aura saMvArA hai| mA~ gAtI thI candA hai tU merA sUraja hai tuu| hA~ merI A~khoM kA tArA hai tuu| candA hai tU merA sUraja hai tuu| mA~ ke mana kI manautiyA~ to dekhie ki vaha hamameM hI dharatI kA phUla dekhatI hai aura hamameM hI AsamAna kA cA~da aura sUraja dekhatI hai| mA~ kI loriyoM ke sambodhana to dekhie tujhe sUraja kahUM yA ca~dA, tujhe dIpaka kahUM yA tArA, merA nAma karegA rozana, jaga meM merA raaj-dulaaraa| kitanI maMgala-bharI uchAmaNI hai, kitanI pyArabharI hilora hai yh| beTe ko rAjadulArA kahanA, use ghara kA cirAg2a kahanA mA~ kI antarabhAvanAoM ko samajhane aura samajhAne kA eka tarIqAbhara hai| z2arA apane bacapana ke 'barthaDe' ko yAda kIjie kisa taraha mammI hamAre lie kaika banAtI khIra aura lApasI bnaatii| barthaDe manAte hue gAyA karatI o nanhe se pharizte, kaisA ye tujhase nAtA, kaise ye dila ke rizte, nanhe se pharizte! haippI barthaDe TU yU ..... haippI bartha De TU yU! 58 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #60 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ yaha to mA~ kI maMgalakAmanA kI bAta hai, para hamAre nakharoM kI bAta ! jarA apane una nakharoM ko yAda kareM ki mA~, mujhe to Aja ajavAIna vAlI roTI hI khAnI hai| mujhe to bhiMDI ke bhAje aura TamATara kI khaTTI mIThI sabjI hI caahie| bhiMDI ke bhAjoM se lekara makkI ke garama-garama bhuTTe aura vo dahI kI mAkhaniyA~ lassI aura ThaNDA-ThaNDA zrIkhaNDa, hamameM se kauna aisA hai jo ina nakharoM kA RNa utAra paae| oha, maiM kyA-kyA kahUM, kyA-kyA ginAU~ ? eka bAta taya hai jinake jIvana meM mA~ hai, ve dhanya haiM / unakA jIvana pUrNa hai| jise apanI mA~ kA ahasAsa hai, vahI zravaNa kumAra kI bhUmikA adA kara sakatA hai| jisane mA~ kI upekSA kara DAlI usane kevala janmadAtrI mA~ kI hI nahIM, mA~ ke nAma para dharatI ke bhagavAna kI bhI upekSA kara ddaalii| ___ maiMne mA~ kI mamatA ko samajhA hai, jAnA hai| isIlie jaba-jaba mA~ kI mamatA kA bakhAna karatA hU~ taba-taba mujhe lagatA hai ki maiM mA~ para nahIM dharatI para janma dene vAle paramAtmA para bolatA huuN| jaba-jaba mujhe paramAtmA ke caraNoM meM cAra phUla car3hAne hote haiM taba-taba mA~ ke zrIcaraNoM ko paramAtmA kA mandira samajhakara vahIM matthA navA letA huuN| hama mA~ kI mamatA ko, usake ahobhAva ko, usake avaDhara dAna ko smjheN| eka bar3I pyArI ghaTanA hai| hama eka sthAna para Thahare hue the| hama baiThe the ki merI najara eka gilaharI para gaI jo apane baccoM ke sAtha egjosa phena ke Ale meM rahatI thii| kisI ko bhI isa bAta kI qhabara na thii| vahAM eka samAroha thaa| kAryakrama meM Der3ha ghaNTe taka egjosa phena calatA rhaa| kAryakrama pUrNa hone para merI naz2ara usa egjosa phena ke Ale kI ora gii| maiMne dekhA ki usa egjosa phena ke banda hote hI andara se eka gilaharI bAhara nikalakara aaii| maiM cauMka pdd'aa| maiMne Izvara ko sAdhuvAda diyA ki terA lAkha-lAkha zukra hai ki Aja yaha gilaharI surakSita baca gii| vaha gilaharI vahAM se nikalI aura kucha hI paloM meM ghuma-ghAmakara usane eka aura nae Ale ko talAza liyaa| gilaharI vApasa usa egjosa phena meM calI gii| maiMne bagala meM khar3e logoM ko saceta kiyA ki isameM gilaharI gaI hai, bhUlakara bhI paMkhA mata claanaa| | 59 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #61 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ do minaTa bAda usa Ale kI lohe kI jAlI meM se khaTakhaTa kI AvAja aaii| maiMne dekhA ki usameM se gilaharI ne pahale apanI pUMcha bAhara nikAlI aura apanI pIche kI donoM TAMgeM aura phira Age kI donoM TAMgeM bAhara nikaaliiN| phira usane apanA ceharA bAhara nikaalaa| jaba ceharA bAhara nikalA to maiM cauMka par3A ki usa gilaharI ke mu~ha meM usakA baccA thaa| maiMne socA ki yaha gilaharI kahIM gira na jAe isalie maiM jhaTa se cadariyA phailAkara khar3A ho gayA tAki gilaharI yA usakA baccA agara gire to sIdhA maiM apanI cadariyA meM le luuN| ___ para vaha bar3I sAvadhAnI se ulTe calate-calate dhIre-dhIre usa surakSita Ale taka pahu~ca gii| vahAM jAkara usane apanA baccA rkhaa| taba mujhe rAhata mahasUsa huI, sukUna milaa| gilaharI vApasa bAhara nikalakara AyI to maiMne AdhI roTI maMgavAI aura usa gilaharI kI tarapha DalavA dii| magara gilaharI ne usa roTI para dhyAna na diyaa| AI, sUMghI aura vApasa usI egjosa phena vAle Ale meM calI gii| phira eka minaTa meM bAhara nikalakara aaii| eka baccA aura usake mu~ha meM thaa| usako bhI usane surakSita phuNcaayaa| tIsarA baccA phira vaha nikAlakara lAI aura use bhI phuNcaayaa| cauthI bAra usase cUka ho gii| cUka yaha huI ki aba taka usane pUMcha ko bAhara nikAlA thA, para isa bAra usane bacce ko liye hue pahale mu~ha ko bAhara nikAla diyaa| ___gilaharI ke mu~ha bAhara nikAlate hI vaha baccA hilA-DulA, calAyamAna huA ki baccA usake mu~ha se girane lgaa| gilaharI jAlI ke choTe cheda meM se apane zarIra ko bAhara nikAlane ke lie saMgharSa kara rahI thii| maiMne apanI cadariyA pUrI taraha se phailA dI ki kahIM koI cUka na ho jaae| jAlI kA cheda choTA thA isalie gilaharI usa bacce ko vApasa bhItara nahIM le sakatI thii| gilaharI saMgharSa karatI rhii| Aqhira usase baccA chiTakane vAlA thA, magara gilaharI ne bacce kI pU~cha pakar3a lii| maiMne dekhA ki bar3I jaddojahada ke bAda Aqhira vaha bAhara Ane meM kAmayAba ho gii| usane cauthe bacce ko bhI surakSita Ale meM phuNcaayaa| phira vaha AI usa roTI ke Tukar3e ke lie tAki apane bhUkhe-pyAse baccoM ko bhojana de ske| jaba usane apane mu~ha meM roTI uThAI to mere mu~ha se nikala paDA- ise kahate haiM mA~! gilaharI jaise choTe-se prANI ke bhItara bhI mamatA kI yaha udAtta bhAvanA! 60/ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #62 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ z2arA hama apanI jananI janmadAtrI ko yAda kareM aura pahacAneM ki hamArI ora se mA~ ke prati jitanI tyAga-bhAvanA rahI, mA~ kI ora se usase hajAra gunA adhika tyAga-parAyaNatA hamAre prati rhii| aba taka hama maMdiroM meM jAne ke AdI rahe haiM, para hama yaha bhUla jAte haiM ki hara kisI insAna ke ghara meM eka maMdira hai, aura vaha kI mamatA kA maMdira / agara hama pahale mA~ kI mamatA ke maMdira meM dhoka lagAkara mahAdeva ke maMdira meM jAeMge to vahAM jAnA sArthaka hai / agara mA~ ke maMdira kI upekSA karake mahAdeva, mahAvIra aura mohammada kI pUjA kara bhI leM to ve usa pUjA ko kabhI svIkAra nahIM kreNge| Apake bujurga mAtA-pitA jo ki apane hAthoM se snAna nahIM kara pA rahe haiM, agara Apane unako nahalA diyA to kyA yaha duniyAM ke kisI rudrAbhiSeka se kama nahIM hai ? mA~ ke caraNoM kI dhUla kyA kisI mandira ke candana kI cuTakI kI taraha nahIM hai ? mahAvIra ke maMdira meM jAkara anuSThAna karane vAle loga apanI mA~ ke prati unake dAyitvoM ke anuSThAna ko kyoM bhUla jAte haiM ? mAtA-pitA ke caraNoM kI dhUla ko apane mAthe para lagAne se kyoM katarAte haiM ? mAtA-pitA ke caraNoM kI raja to duniyA~ ke kisI bhI guru aura paramAtmA kI caraNa-raja se jyAdA asarakArI hotI hai / jisa kisI ke nau graha bure cala rahe hoM, vaha jAe apanI mA~ ke pAsa aura zraddhApUrvaka mA~ kI tIna parikramA lagAkara unake caraNoM kI mATI ko rojAnA apane mAthe se lgaae| zAyada hama kisI aupacArikatA ke nAte guru ke pA~va chUte hoMge, para agara mA~ ke pA~va hama aupacArikatA se bhI chU leMge, taba bhI mA~ kA kalejA to hameM duAoM se sarAbora kara degA / jisa kisI beTe-bahU ne apane bujurga dAdA-dAdI aura mAtA-pitA kI sevA kI hai, maiM dAve ke sAtha kahatA hU~ ki usa vyakti kI Ane vAlI pIr3hI phalI - phUlI hai| mAna lo tumhAre sAsa-sasura yA mAtA-pitA garIba haiM para agara tumane unakI dila se sevA kI hai to yAda rakhanA mAitoM kI sevA kabhI-bhI niSphala nahIM jaatii| yaha puNyAI tumhAre sAta janma kAma aaegii| ve jIte jI hameM AzIrvAda deMge hI, marakara bhI ve devaloka se hameM AzIrvAdoM ke amRta phala dete rheNge| nizcaya hI, eka gaMgA vaha thI jise bhagIratha dharatI para lekara Ae the 61 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #63 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ aura dUsarI gaMgA vaha mA~ hai jo devaloka meM rahate hue bhI hama baccoM ke lie vahIM se duAoM kI gaMgAe~ bahAyA karatI hai / yAda rakho, rahanA hai to bhAiyoM ke bIca raho, bhale hI paraspara vaira hI kyoM na ho / baiThanA ho to hamezA chAyA meM baiTho phira cAhe vaha kaira hI kyoM na ho ? jaba bhI khAnA ho to mA~ ke hAtha se khAo, phira cAhe vaha z2ahara hI kyoM na ho ? kama se kama yaha to sukUna rahegA ki mujhe z2ahara bhI usane diyA hai jisane mujhe janma diyA thA / are, mA~ ke hAtha se to z2ahara bhI amRta bana jAtA hai| yogiyoM ke yoga kI bhI mAtR - sattA ke Age koI bisAta nahIM hai| hama sAdhu- - sAdhviyoM ke, saMta- mahantoM ke, siddha arihantoM ke kitane bhI guNa kyoM na bakhAna lie jAe~ para mA~ kI mahimA ko kisI se kama nahIM kiyA jA sktaa| yaha mA~ hI hai jo rAma, kRSNa, mahAvIra aura buddha ko janma dene kA sAmarthya rakhatI hai| yadi duniyA~ meM isa bAta kA sarvekSaNa karavAyA jAe ki duniyA~ kA sabase pyArA zabda kaunasA hai ? to javAba hogA - mA~ / yaha saca hai ki rAma mahAn ho sakate haiM, para janma denevAlI mA~ kauzalyA se bar3e nahIM ho sakate / gaNeza prathama pUjanIya aura kArtikeya jJAna ke dAtA ho sakate haiM para apanI mA~ pArvatI se ve donoM hI bar3e nahIM ho sakate / candraprabha ne jisa dharma meM saMnyAsa grahaNa kiyA hai, usa dharma kI vyavasthA hai ki sAdhvI kitanI bhI bar3I kyoM na ho vaha sAdhu-saMta se choTI hI hotI hai, para maiM zraddhApUrvaka kahanA cAhUMgA ki mujhe isa bAta kA gaurava hai ki maiM aise mAtA-pitA kI saMtAna hU~ jo svayaM bhI saMta haiM aura jinhoMne mujhe bhI virAsata meM saMta jIvana hI pradAna kiyA hai / merI mA~ bhale hI sAdhvIjIvana meM ho, para maiM unheM sadA apane paMcAMga namana samarpita karatA hUM / mA~ kI sevA ko mahAvIra aura mahAdeva kI sevA mAnatA hU~ / mere lie pahalA maMdira mA~ hai aura dUsarA maMdira mahAvIra aura mahAdeva haiN| jo vyakti isa bAta ko apane jIvana meM samajha sakegA vaha apane jIvana meM mA~-bApa ke prati rahane vAle farz2a adA karane meM saphala ho sakegA / yahI kAraNa hai ki bhale hI prakRti ne mujhe saMta yA guru kyoM na banA diyA ho para maiM Aja bhI hajAroM kI bhIr3a meM bhI mA~ sAmane AtI dikha jAe to bag2aira kisI saMkoca ke hajAroM logoM ke bIca bhI apanA mAthA mA~ ke sAmane jAkara jhukAtA huuN| jo vyakti apanI mAtA yA apane pitA ko bharI pablika ke bIca 62 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #64 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ dhoka lagAtA hai to isase mA~-bApa kA nahIM, beTe kA gaurava bar3hatA hai| yadi lAhoTI jI ne suprIma korTa ke mukhya nyAyAdhipati hone kI zapatha lekara sabase pahale korTa meM mA~ ke caraNa chue to isase mA~ kA nahIM varana beTe kA gaurava bar3hA ki insAna mA~ ke caraNa chUkara duniyA~ ko yaha sandeza de rahA hai ki Aja maiM jo kucha hU~ mA~ kI badaulata huuN| jo sara mA~ ke Age na jhuka sakA, vaha z2indagI meM kabhI 'sara' na bana skegaa| vaha aura kisI ke Age jhukane kA adhikArI nahIM ho sktaa| jo mAthA mA~ ke Age na namA, vaha gurugrantha sAhaba ke Age namakara bhI sacce artha meM kahA~ nama pAyA! ___ mA~ ke dina kI zuruAta cAhe 'namo arihaMtANaM' se ho, cAhe 'OM asya zrIrAma rakSA stotra' mantra se ho, athavA 'lA-ilAhe-illalAhu' se ho yA phira cAhe 'o-gaoNDa' se ho, para mA~ ke hRdaya se duAoM kI sadA eka hI zItala dhArA bahatI rahatI hai- he mere prabhu, merI santAna yazasvI ho, cirAyu ho, vaibhavazAlI ho| vaha apanI z2indagI meM kabhI thake nahIM, ruke nahIM, cUke nhiiN| kisI bhI sunahare avasara se vaMcita na raha jaae| he prabhu, mere baccoM ko sahI-salAmata rkhnaa| merA baccA phale-phUle, dUdho nahAe pUto phle| ___ mA~ kI hara prArthanA kA sAra saMtAna kA hita hotA hai| jisakA kaNa-kaNa, rakta kI hara bUMda, hara roma-roma apane saMtAnoM ke hita se jur3e rahate haiM, usa mA~ kI tulanA meM Akhira hama kise rakha sakate haiN| usako nahIM dekhA hamane kabhI, para usakI jarUrata kyA hogI? he mA~, terI sUrata se alaga, bhagavAna kI sUrata kyA hogI? bhagavAna ko agara dekhanA hai to mA~ meM dekho| mA~ to bhagavAna kI jItIjAgatI tasvIra hai| jisane mA~ ko pUjA usane bhagavAna ko puujaa| jisane mA~ ko naz2araaMdAz2a kiyA usakI sArI prArthanAe~ aura namAz2a naz2araaMdAja ho giiN| he kudarata, tumane mA~ ko na jAne kaisI zakti de DAlI hai ki mA~ kevala mA~ nahIM hai| mA~ jIvana kA brahmA hai| jisa taraha brahmA meM brahmANDa aura brahmANDa meM brahmA samAe hue haiM, usI taraha mA~ meM putra aura putra meM mA~ samAI huI hai| mA~ brahmA bhI hai, 163 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #65 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ mA~ viSNu bhI hai, mA~ maheza bhI hai| brahmA janma dete haiM, viSNu pAlana karate haiM aura maheza uddhAra karate haiN| mA~ bhI janma detI hai, pAlana karatI hai aura behatara saMskAra dekara jIvana kA uddhAra bhI karatI hai, isalie pyAra se bolo- mA~ merI brahmA bhI hai, mA~ merI viSNu bhI hai, mA~ merI mahAvIra aura mahAdeva bhI hai| barasoM pahale merI mA~ ne varSItapa kiyA thA arthAta eka varSa ke upavAsa kI tapasyA, eka dina AhAra lenA aura dUsare dina nirAhAra rhnaa| ar3atAlIsa ghaMToM meM se bAraha ghaMTe AhAra ke lie aura zeSa chattIsa ghaMTe pUrNata: upavAsa meM rhnaa| varSItapa kI pUrNAhuti se pUrva hamArI sAdhvI mA~ ne hameM likhA ki hAlAMki Apa loga mujhase bahuta dUra haiM aura itanI dUra AnA Apake lie duSkara, kaSTadAyI yAtrA hogii| para raha-rahakara mere bhItara eka hI bhAva uThatA hai ki maiM apane isa lambe tapa kI pUrNAhuti apane saMtaputroM ke hAthoM se kruuN| __hamane apanI sIdhI-sarala mA~ ke qhata ko do-tIna bAra pddh'aa| apane bacapana ko yAda kiyaa| hamane usI samaya phaisalA kara liyA ki hama apanI mA~ kI bhAvanAoM ko pUrA kreNge| hamane apane pUrva nirdhArita sAre kAryakrama kaiMsala kara die| taba hama loga eka hajAra kilomITara kI padayAtrA kara apanI sAdhvI mA~ ke pAsa pahu~ce aura unheM apane hAthoM se varSItapa kA pAraNA krvaayaa| mAtAjI mahArAja ko hamAre Ane se behada prasannatA thI aura hameM unakI bhAvanA ko pUrNa karane kI prasannatA thii| hama sabhI Anandita aura bhAvavihvala the| isa kAryakrama meM hamAre sAtha zere hinda dArAsiMha jI bhI zAmila hue| mA~ ke tapa kI pUrNAhuti ke karIba eka saptAha bAda maiM apanI mA~ ke pAsa akelA baiThA thaa| maiMne mA~ se apanA bacapana jAnanA caahaa| maiMne pUchA- sAdhvI mA~, mujhe batAo merA vaha bacapana, ve biphikrI ke dina kaise bIte? ___mA~ ko jitanA jo yAda AtA gayA ve sunAtI rhiiN| unhoMne to kaI ghaTanAe~ sunAIM, unhIM meM se eka ghaTanA hai| mA~ ne batAnA zurU kiyA, yaha ghaTanA taba kI hai jaba tU Der3ha varSa kA thaa| hama saba loga nanihAla meM the, koI vizeSa mahattva kA dina thaa| isa para nanihAla vAloM ne apanI sArI bAI-beTiyoM ko bulAyA thaa| khIra paka rahI thii| rasoiyA khIra banAne meM lagA thaa| bhaTThI para kar3AhI ke nIce cAra choTe-choTe IMTa ke Tukar3e rakhe hue the| rasoIyA jora-jora se khIra hilA rahA thA tAki khIra paiMde meM cipaka na jaae| kudarata kA sNyog| tumhAre 64 ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM-4 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #66 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ jIvana meM aisI koI honI honI thI ki acAnaka una IMTa ke Tukar3oM meM se eka Tukar3A khisaka gayA aura kar3hAI meM rakhI huI khIra bAhara chalaka pdd'ii| tuma pAsa hI leTe hue the| vaha khIra sIdhI tumhArI chAtI para Akara girii| maiM mA~ ke yaha kahate hI cauMka pdd'aa| mA~ ne kahA-beTA tumhAre pUre hAtha, tumhArA peTa, tumhArI chAtI jala gii| tatkAla tumheM aspatAla le jAyA gyaa| usa samaya hama jahA~ rahate the vahA~ itanI acchI cikitsA-vyavasthA nahIM thI ki jisase ucita upacAra mila ske| sAdhvI mA~ ne kahA- beTA, usa samaya maiMne do sAla taka tumheM apane hAthoM meM rkhaa| DaoNkTara ne kaha diyA thA ki agara bacce kA eka bhI phapholA phUTa gayA to z2indagI bhara ke liye dAga raha jaaeNge| beTA, usa daurAna maiM so nahIM pAI, DhaMga se khA nahIM paaii| lambe arse taka kevala tumheM hI sahejatI rhii| haradama yahI khyAla rahatA thA ki mere beTe kI chAtI para kahIM dAga na raha jaae| beTA, phira bhI kucha phaphole phUTa hI ge| tumhArI chAtI aura peTa para choTe-choTe dAga raha hI gae haiN| agara ho sake to beTA una dAgoM ke lie mujhe mApha krnaa| o mA~, terI bhI kyA mahAnatA hai ki tU beTe ko bedAg2a rakhane ke lie isa taraha khuda ko kurbAna karatI rhii| o mA~, o mA~, tU kitanI suMdara hai, tU kitanI zItala hai, tU pyArI-pyArI hai, o mA~, o maaN...| ye jo duniyA hai, jIvana hai kAMToM kA tu phulavArI hai, o mA~, o mA~ .... / duHkhane lagI mA~ ye terI a~khiyA~, mere lie jAgI hai tU, sArI-sArI rtiyaaN| merI niMdiyA pe, terI niMdiyA hai, tU balihArI hai, o mA~, o maaN...| apanA nahIM tujhe sukha-dukha koI, maiM muskAyA, tU muskAI, maiM royA, tU roI, mere haMsane se, mere rone se, tU bahalAtI hai, o mA~, o maaN...| 165 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #67 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ mA~ baccoM kI jAM hotI hai, ve hote haiM kismata vAle jinake mA~ hotI hai, tU kitanI sundara hai, tU kitanI zItala hai, tU pyArI-pyArI hai, o mA~, o maaN...| acchI kismata unhIM kI hai, jinakI kismata meM mA~ kI lakIra hai| saccI maskAna unhIM kI hai jinakI muskAnoM meM mA~ kI duAe~ haiN| jInA usI kA jInA hai jinake mAthe para mA~ kI chAyA hai, maranA unhIM kA maranA hai jinakI jAM mA~ ke caraNoM meM haiM / sAMsa cAhe Ae, cAhe jAe, sAMsa ke hara suratAla meM eka tAla jarUra honA cAhie aura vaha hai maaN| mA~ tUne tIrthaMkaroM ko janmA hai, yaha saMsAra tere hI dama se banA hai, tU pUjA hai, mannata hai merI, tere hI caraNoM meM jannata hai merI, mA~ tU dhanya hai, kRtapuNya hai, tUne tIrthaMkaroM ko janmA hai, avatAra aura paig2ambaroM ko paidA kiyA hai| rAma aura rahIma tumase haiM, kRSNa aura kabIra bhI. tumase haiM, mahAvIra aura mohammada bhI tumhIM se haiN| sacamuca, svarga agara kahIM hai to mA~ ke caraNoM meM haiN| mohabbata kA agara kahIM koI saccA cirAg2a jalatA hai to vaha mA~ ke A~cala meM hai| mA~ ke A~cala meM saraja kI rozanI hai. cA~da kI cA~danI hai, tAroM kI TimaTimAhaTa hai, phUloM kI khuzbU hai, jharanoM kA kalarava hai, koyala ke gIta haiM, himAlaya kI zItalatA hai, sAgara kI gaharAI hai, dharatI kI sahanazIlatA hai| mA~ sacamuca tU mA~ hai| tujhase hI nArIjAti dhanya hai| soco agara duniyA~ meM mA~ na hotI! tuma aura hama kahA~ se hote| isa garbhapAta ke yuga meM bhI mA~ ne apana saba logoM ko janma diyA hai, he mA~ tumhArI isase bar3I hamAre lie daulata aura amAnata kyA hogI? tumhArA dhana hamArI virAsata nahIM hai, tumhArI sampatti hamArI amAnata nahIM hai varana hama svayaM hI tumhArI virAsata haiM aura tumhArI amAnata hai| isIlie tuma hamArI mohabbata bhI ho aura ibAdata bhii| tuma hamArI khudA bhI ho aura qhidamata bhii| tuma hamArI Izvara bhI ho aura hamArI prArthanA bhii| mA~ to hamAre jIvana ko janma dene vAlI kevala jananI aura kokha meM dhAraNa karane vAlI dharitrI hI nahIM hai, varan vo to hamAre jIvana kI guru aura 66 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #68 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ zikSikA bhI hai| apane baccoM ko behatara saMskAra dekara unheM behatara iMsAna banAnA kisI bhI deza kI sarakAra ko calAne se bhI adhika cunautIpUrNa hai| cAhe paurANika kAla kI pArvatI ho yA tretA yuga kI sItA athavA dvApara yuga kI kuMtI yA yazodA, cAhe rAjA-mahArAjAoM ke yuga kI jIjAbAI yA ahilyAbAI ho athavA hamAre yuga kI madara TeresA ho athavA merI aura ApakI mA~ ho, apane dvArA dI jAne vAlI mamatA, mohabbata, behatara saMskAra aura behatara jIvana ke kAraNa hI sadA-sadA pUjanIya rahatI hai, jaoNrja vAziMgTana ne likhA hai ki maiM apane jIvana meM jhUTha kabhI bhI isalie nahIM bola pAyA kyoMki bacapana meM eka bAra jhUTha bolane para mA~ ne yaha kahate hue jhannATedAra cAMTA mArA thA ki maiM jhUThe beTe kI mA~ kahalAne kI bajAya bAMjha kahalAnA jyAdA pasaMda kruuNgii| mA~ to mamatA kI mahAdevI hai| mA~ to sahanazIlatA kI pratimUrti hai| mA~ basa mA~ nahIM, saMskAroM ko dene vAlI zikSikA aura guru bhI hai| mA~ apane Apa meM tyAga kA yajJa hai, kurbAnI kA z2ajbA hai| hamane aba taka sAdhanA-kendra to dekhe hoMge, magara samatA aura samAdhi kA aisA mandira nahIM dekhA hogA jo ki mA~ ke rUpa meM Apake ghara meM hai| eka saccI ghaTanA hai| eka ha~satA-khilatA parivAra thaa| parivAra bahuta prema se raha rahA thA ki kudarata kA kahara brpaa| pitAjI kA asamaya nidhana ho gyaa| pIche baca gaI mA~ aura usakA akelA bettaa| pitA kI yaha tahedila kI icchA thI ki usakA beTA DaoNkTara bne| pitA ke dehAvasAna ke pazcAta mA~ para apane bacce kA sArA dAyitva A gayA thaa| use raha-rahakara apane pati kI khvAhiza yAda aatii| mA~ sotI taba bhI use apane pati ke zabda yAda A jaate| usane ThAna liyA ki maiM pati kI icchA pUrI karU~gI aura bacce ko DaoNkTara bnaauuNgii| beTe kA bhaviSya banAne ke lie vaha logoM ke yahA~ kAma karane ke liye jaatii| jo AmadanI hotI usase apane bacce ko pddh'aatii-likhaatii| jo thor3A bahuta gahanA thA use becA, makAna bhI beca DAlA, eka jhuggI-jhopar3I meM Akara rahane laga gii| para jaise-taise usane apane beTe ko antataH DaoNkTara banA hI diyaa| samaya bItA, beTe kI zAdI huii| bahU bhI DaoNkTara milii| phira zurU huA purAnI aura naI pIr3hI ke bIca asantulana kA silsilaa| sAsa ko bahU kA | 67 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #69 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ rahana-sahana rAsa na AyA to kabhI mA~jI kaha diyA karatI thI- beTA, sira Dhaka lo| bahU ko yaha TokATokI pasanda na AI aura bahU ne taba yaha phaisalA kara liyA ki vaha apanI sAsa se alaga ho jaaegii| ___bahU ne apane pati se kahA- maiM aba kisI bhI hAlata meM isa ghara meM nahIM rhuuNgii| Apa yA to mA~jI ko alaga karo yA mujhe| beTe ne patnI ko samajhAne kI koziza kI ki- kucha to soco merI mA~ ne mere lie kitanI kurbAniyA~ dI haiM, kitanI kaThinAiyoM se mujhe pAlA-posA aura DaoNkTara banAyA hai| Aja merI jo bhI haisiyata hai usameM merI mA~ kA hI hAtha hai, para bahU na maanii| beTe ko Aqhira bahU ke Age jhukanA par3A, bIvI kA gulAma jo tthhraa| mA~ ko 'apanA ghara' meM pahu~cAyA gyaa| bahU bhI sAtha meM chor3ane aaii| beTe ne mA~ se kahA- mA~, tuma yahIM vRddhAzrama meM rho| yahAM aura bhI bUr3he loga haiN| yahAM tumhArA mana bhI laga jaaegaa| maiM jaba-taba AtA rhuuNgaa| tumheM koI takalIfa na ho, isalie maiM tumheM pA~ca sau rupae hara mahine bhijavAtA rhuuNgaa| ___ mA~ ne apanA ghara' ko dekhaa| socane lagI ki jisa ghara meM paidA huI thI vaha bhI apanA na bana paayaa| jisa beTe ko par3hA-likhAkara taiyAra kiyA, vaha bhI apanA beTA na raha paayaa| jisa bahU ko itanI manautiyA~ karake lAI, vaha bhI apanI bahU nahIM bana paaii| aba to yahA~ jo antima zaraNa milI hai yahI merA apanA ghara ho jaae| mA~ ne vRddhAzrama ko dekhA, phira beTe ko eka naz2ara dekhA aura kahA- ThIka hai beTA, jisameM tuma logoM ko sukha mile, vaisA hI kro| bur3hiyA vRddhAzrama meM rahane lgii| hara mahine pAMca sau rupae Ate rhe| beTA cha: mahine meM eka bAra milane ke lie A jAtA to kabhI-kabhAra bahurAnI loka-lAjavaza vahAM calI jaatii| isa taraha koI DhAI varSa bIta ge| eka dina vRddhAzrama ke saMcAlaka kA beTe ke pAsa phona AyA- DaoNkTara sAhaba, ApakI mA~ nAjuka hAlata meM hai| Apa tatkAla yahA~ pahu~ca jaaie| ApakI mA~ jAne se pahale Apase milanA cAhatI hai| beTe ne kahA- mere pAsa kucha marIja haiM / basa, unheM nipaTA kara AtA huuN| usI mA~ kI beTI amerikA meM rahatI thI, usako bhI sUcanA milii| vaha to agale dina pahu~ca gii| agale dina beTA apanI patnI aura apane do baccoM ko sAtha lekara vRddhAzrama meM phuNcaa| dekhA ki vahAM para pUrA gamagIna mAhaula hai| 68 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #70 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ sAmane bahina ko khar3e pAyA to aura cauMkA / usane pUchA- mA~ kahA~ hai ? sabake cehare laTake hue the| cehare bayAM kara rahe the ki mA~ nahIM rhii| beTe ko apanI g2alatI kA ahasAsa huaa| use apanA atIta yAda ho aayaa| use lagA ki usane apanI mA~ ke sAtha ThIka vyavahAra nahIM kiyaa| Age bar3hA to dekhA ki sAmane sapheda cAdara meM lipaTI mA~ kI lAza par3I thii| bahana ne TokA- bhaiyA, tumhAre hAtha isa kAbila nahIM haiM ki tuma divaMgata mA~ ke pA~va chuo| jo vyakti jIte jI apanI mA~ ke kAma na AyA vaha mA~ ke marane ke bAda usake hAtha lagAne ke bhI kAbila nahIM rhtaa| bahina kI isa kaTAkSa bharI bolI ko sunakara Akroza bharI naz2aroM se bahina ko dekhaa| usane vRddhAzrama ke saMcAlaka se pUchA- kyA AkhirI sAMsa lene se pahale mA~ ne mujhe yAda kiyA thA? saMcAlaka ne dardabharI AvAja meM kahA- DaoNkTara, pichale DhAI sAloM meM tumhArI mA~ kevala tumheM hI yAda karatI rhii| marane se pahale bhI usakI yahI antima icchA thI ki vaha marane se pahale apane beTe kA mu~ha dekha le, lekina tuma na Ae to na hI aae| hA~ tumhArI mA~ ne jAne se pahale tumhAre lie ye do liphAphe die haiN| usane dekhA ki eka liphAphA patalA thA aura dUsarA mottaa| usane liphAphe hAtha meM liye aura patalA liphAphA kholaa| usameM mA~ kA likhA eka qhata thaa| likhA thA ___ "mere pyAre beTe, Aqhira tuma A ge| mujhe vizvAsa thA ki tuma z2arUra aaoge| jaba maiM yaha qhata likhavA rahI hU~ to maiM apanI antima bhAvanA vyakta kara rahI hU~ ki maiM marane se pahale tumhArI zakla jarUra dekhuu| beTe, tuma kitane acche beTe the ki tumane hara mahine mujhe pA~ca sau rupae bhijvaae| tumane merI dekhabhAla krvaayii| mujhe isa ghara meM koI taqalIpha nahIM huii| jitanA sukha mujhe sasurAla yA pIhara meM nahIM milA, usase jyAdA sukhazAnti mujhe 'apanA ghara' meM milI hai| beTA, mujhe yahAM eka paisA bhI kharca karane kI z2arUrata hI nahIM pdd'ii| maiM jo sAr3iyA~ apane sAtha lAI thI usI meM hI mere DhAI varSa nikala ge| khAnA-pInA mujhe yahA~ para muphta meM milatA thA to eka paisA bhI kAma na aayaa| beTA, tumane hara mahIne pA~ca sau rupae bheje jo DhAI varSa meM pandraha hajAra rupae ho ge| maiM marane se pahale ye pandraha hajAra rupae isa | 69 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #71 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ liphAphe meM DalavAkara jA rahI huuN| beTA, jaise maiM bUr3hI huI hU~ aise hI eka dina tuma bhI bUr3he ho jaaoge| tuma to mere bahuta acche, bahuta pyAre beTe ho jo tumane pA~ca sau rupae hara mahIne mujhe bheja die| lekina beTA, z2amAnA badala rahA hai| eka dina tuma bhI bUr3he hooge, ho sakatA hai tumheM bhI aise hI kisI 'apanA ghara' meM rahanA pdd'e| mujhe nahIM patA usa samaya tumhArA beTA tumheM pA~ca sau rupae bhI bheja pAegA yA nhiiN| usa samaya tamheM paisoM kI darakAra rhegii| ye pandraha hajAra rupae maiM tumhAre usa samaya ke lie chor3akara jA rahI huuN|" mA~, tuma sacamuca mA~ ho| tyAga kA yajJa ho| mA~ isa tyAga ke yajJa ko pUrA karanA tumhArI hI tAqata ke balabUte para hai / hama putroM ke bala para yaha tyAga kA yajJa pUrA nahIM kiyA jA skegaa| zAyada duniyA~ kA bar3e se bar3A karor3apati bhI rojAnA dAna nahIM detA hogA para mA~ to rojAnA dAna detI hai| saravara, taravara aura saMtajana kI taraha niSpRha dAna detI hai| jitanA usane hamase liyA hai usase kaIkaI gunA adhika usane hameM lauTAyA hai| mAtA-pitA dina-bhara meM beTe kI cAra roTiyA~ khAte hoMge, para ve dinabhara tumhAre baccoM ko saheja-sambhAlakara saMskAra dete rahate haiN| mA~-bApa to ghara ke muphta ke caukIdAra haiN| bUr3he mA~-bApa to usa baDhe peDa kI taraha hote haiM jo phala bhale hI na de para jo bhI unake pAsa Akara baiThate haiM unheM apanI zItala sukhada chAyA to dete hI haiN| mAtA ke to bahuta sAre avar3hara dAna haiN| lekina aba jarUrata A par3I hai ki hama apanI ora se mA~ ke prati rahane vAle dAyitvoM ko kisa taraha nibhAte haiM, yaha soco| soca-socakara soco| jo mA~ ke sAtha haiM vaha soceM, jo mA~ se alaga haiM vaha soceM, jinakI mA~ Upara jA cukI hai ve bhI soceM ki hamane apanI ora se unake prati kitane dAyitva aura farz2a adA kie haiM, yA adA kara rahe haiM athavA adA kreNge| mA~ ke prati apane farz2a adA karane haiM to pahalA karttavya yaha nibhAo ki subaha uThate hI apane mAtA-pitA ko praNAma avazya kro| hamArI A~kha khule to sabase pahale mA~ ke caraNoM ke darzana hoN| unase milI huI duAe~ jagadambA se milI huI duAe~ haiN| mA~ ke caraNoM meM jAkara apanA matthA ttekeN| paMcAMga namana kreN| do ghuTane, do hAtha, cAroM z2amIna para TikAkara, karabaddha hokara mastaka unake pA~voM meM jhukAkara unake hAtha ko apane mAthe para rkhaao| mA~ ke hAtha se 70 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #72 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ jo AbhAmaNDala, jo kiraNeM hamArI pITha aura hamAre mAthe para baraseMgI vo hamAre lie prakAza kA, rakSA kavaca kA, bhAgyodaya kA kAma kregaa| subaha - subaha mAtA-pitA ko kiye jAne vAle praNAma ke sAtha apane dina kI zuruAta karanA zreSTha puruSoM kA, zreSTha bahu-beTiyoM kA pahalA saMskAra hai| yadi Apa apane mA~bApa ko praNAma kareMge to Apake bacce Apako bhI praNAma kareMge, isa taraha Apake pUre parivAra ke hara dina kI zuruAta premabhAva se, praNAmabhAva se, zubhakAmanAoM se hogI / bAsI muMha bar3e-bujurgoM ke AzIrvAda lenA kulIna ghara-gharAnoM kI bahu-beTiyoM kA, kulIna baccoM kA pahalA dAyitva hai| mA~ ke prati farz2a adA karane ke lie dUsarA kAma yaha kareM ki caubIsa ghaMToM meM se eka samaya bhojana mAtA-pitA ke sAtha baiThakara avazya kareM, tAki hameM yaha vizvAsa rahe ki merI mA~ ko Aqhira vahI bhojana mila rahA hai jo maiM, mere bacce, merI patnI aura mere bhAI loga svIkAra karate haiM / abhI kucha dina pahale kI ghaTanA hai / hamAre pAsa eka mahAnubhAva Aye / unhoMne batAyA ki eka dina maiM khAnA khAne baiThA to maiMne apane beTe kI bahU se kahA-- Aja thor3A dahI de do| bahU ne kahA- pApA, dahI to nahIM hai| khaira jo kucha bhI thA, maiMne khAyA aura ghara se nikala gyaa| amumana khAnA khAne ke bAda maiM ghara lauTakara nahIM AtA, para usa dina patA nahIM kyA saMyoga thA ki maiM lauTakara AyA to dekhA ki mere beTe kI thAlI meM dahI kI kaTorI rakhI thI / aisI ghaTanA na ghaTe isake lie hI yaha hidAyata de rahA hU~ ki caubIsa ghaMTeM meM eka bAra mAtA-pitA ke sAtha baiThakara khAnA avazya khaaeN| isase eka-dUje ke prati mohabbata bhI bar3hegI, mA~-bApa baccoM ke sAtha khAnA khAkara khuza hoMge aura bacce, bhI mA~-bApa ke sAtha khAnA khAkara sukUna pAe~ge / tIsarA kAma yaha kareM ki rAta ko sone ke lie jAne se pahale mAtA-pitA ke pAsa jAkara itanA-sA pUcha leM ki mammI-pApA koI sevA kI z2arUrata hai ? agara koI kAma ho to kara dIjie / phira apane kamare meM jaaeN| agara unake zarIra ke kisI bhAga meM darda hai to unake hAtha-paira - kamara dabA deN| darda se rAhata pAte-pAte unakI hamAre lie jo duAe~ nikaleMgI vahI hamAre lie muskAna kA kAma kreNgii| cauthA kAma yaha kareM ki alasubaha apanI buz2urga mA~ ko maMdirajI ke 71 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #73 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ darzana karAne le jaaeN| zAyada isI bahAne sahI, mA~ ke thor3e karz2a utArane kA avasara mila jaae| mAtA-pitA ke marane ke bAda jImaNavArI karanA yA haridvAra jAkara unake phUloM ko visarjita karanA mahaz2a rUr3hatA kI lakIroM ko pITane kI taraha hai, mA~ ke jIte-jI tuma kucha aisA karo ki tumhAre kAraNa unakI sadgati kA prabaMdha ho jaae| aura isakI zurUAta karane ke lie hara roz2a apanI mA~ ko maMdira darzana karAne le jaao| mA~ kI aMgulI pakar3akara utane sAla to mandira avazya le jAe~ jitane sAla taka mA~ hamArI aMgulI pakar3akara hameM vidyAlaya lekara gii| ____ maiMne sunA hai ki bhAratIya saMskRti meM putroM kA janma isalie mahatvapUrNa hotA hai ki ve apane mAtA-pitA kA tarpaNa kara ske| unakI gati sadgati kara ske| marane ke bAda to hama brAhmaNoM ko bhoja de deMge, unake nAma se pyAU bhI banA deNge| mujhe nahIM patA ki yaha kitanA sArthaka tarpaNa hotA hai| agara hama jIte-jI unakI gati aura sadgati kI vyavasthA karate haiM to yahI putra hone kI sArthakatA hai| maranA taya hai, sabake zarIra yahIM chUTa jAne vAle haiM, para mAtA-pitA mareM, usase pahale hama unakI sadgati kI vyavasthA kreN| bhale hI hama kahIM anyatra apanA alaga ghara kyoM na basA cuke hoM para mA~ kI antima sAMsa jaba nikale, taba hama unake pAsa z2arUra hoN| mere mitra, Izvara se itanI prArthanA avazya karanA ki mAtA-pitA ke jaba prANa nikale to hama sAre putra unake qarIba hoM, unheM kaMdhA dene vAle hoM, unheM tarpaNa dene vAle hoM, unakI mukti kA prabaMdha karane vAle hoN| hA~, eka aura karttavya yaha hai ki sAla meM eka daphA apanI ghara-gRhasthI yA bijanesa se chuTTI lekara apane bujurgoM ko sAta dina ke lie tIrthayAtrA ke lie z2arUra le jaaeN| merI bahanoM, apane pati ko kevala pati hI mata banAo, apane pati ko zravaNa kumAra banane kI bhI preraNA do| Apa kisI ghara kI patnI hI nahIM usa ghara kI kulavadhu bhI bneN| kulavadhu vaha nahIM hotI jo apane pati ko lekara ghara alaga basA letI hai| kulavadhu vaha hai jo marate dama taka apane sAsa-sasura kI sevA kiyA karatI hai| bahino, yadi Apa apane bUr3he sAsa-sasura kI sevA kareMgI to nizcaya hI Apake pati ke navagraha anukUla hoMge aura ApakI sAta pIr3hiyAM phleNgii-phuleNgii| bahU cAhe gorI ho yA sAMvalI isase kyA 72 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #74 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ farka par3atA hai| ThIka hai, gorI bahU A~khoM ko acchI lagatI hai para tuma use Akhira kitanA cAToge ? jIvana meM raMga kA nahIM jIne ke DhaMga kA mahattva hai| ghara meM bahu kA Adara raMga ke kAraNa nahIM varana usake guNoM ke kAraNa hotA hai| Apa eka bar3e bApa kI beTI haiM aura eka bar3e ghara kI bahu / svayaM ko eka acchI kulavadhu sAbita kIjie / Apa sAla meM eka bAra apane sAsa-sasura ko tIrthayAtrA karAne ke lie avazya le jAe~ aura bhAiyo, ho sake to Apa mahine meM jitanA kamAte haiM, usakA eka aMza apane mAtA-pitA ko le jAkara avazya deN| unase kaheM ki Apa dharma meM kharca kareM, gauzAlAoM ke lie upayoga kareM, dIna-dukhiyoM kI madada kreN| jisa prakAra hama apane baccoM kI phIsa, bIvI kI sAr3I, ghara kA sAmAna, ghara kA kirAyA cukAte haiM to kyA hama kucha hissA mAtA-pitA ko nahIM de sakate ? Akhira bhAI unakI bhI kucha qhvAhizeM haiM, ve bhI dharma meM kucha kharcA karanA cAhate haiM, apane pote-potiyoM aura dohite - dohitiyoM kA lAr3a karanA cAhate haiN| aura yaha saba tabhI saMbhava hogA jaba tuma apanI kamAI kA eka cArAnA unheM doge| jaba hama asahAya the to unhoMne hameM thAmA thA aura aba jaba ve bujurga ho cuke haiM to hamArA farz2a banatA hai ki hama unakI aMgulI thAmeM unhoMne hamameM apanA bhaviSya dekhA / hama unameM apane vartamAna ko sajAeM -saMvAreM / yAda rakhiegA jo apane mA~-bApa kA na ho sakA vo kisI bIvI yA dosta kA kyA hogA / I mAtA-pitA ke prati apane farz2a adA karane ke lie bhAI-bhAI saba sAtha raho / roTI do ho aura khAne vAle cAra, taba bhI saba mila - bAMTa kara khAo / bhAiyoM ko haMsate-khilate dekhakara hI mAitoM ko khuzI hotI hai| saccAI to yaha hai ki mA~-bApa ke A~cala meM hI duAoM kA vaha qhaz2AnA bharA huA hai jise tuma jitanA lUTanA cAho, lUTa lo / yAda rakho, mA~-bApa ko bhUkhA rakhakara agara vRddhAzrama meM dAna bhI doge to aisA karanA dAna kA apamAna khlaaegaa| mA~-bApa ke bhojana kI vyavasthA na karake agara koI kabUtaroM ko dAnA bhI DAlatA hai to kabUtara bhI aise dAnoM ko svIkAra karane se parahez2a rkheNge| maMdira kI devI ko cunarI or3hAne se pahale kRpayA apanI devI mA~ kI phaTI huI cunariyA ko badalo tabhI jagadambA maMdira meM car3hAI gaI cunariyA ko svIkAra karegI / For Personal & Private Use Only 73 Page #75 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ mere bhAI jIvana meM eka aisA maMdira avazya banAnA jisake garbha gRha meM paramAtmA kI pratimA ho aura jisake praveza dvAra para karabaddha avasthA meM do mUrtiyA~ aura hoM jo sadA yAda dilAtI raheM Apako apane mA~-bApa kii| merI duniyA hai mA~ tere A~cala meM, zItala chAyA tU dukha ke jaMgala meN|| merI rAhoM ke dIye, terI do aMkhiyA~, mujhe gItA se bar3I, terI do btiyaaN| yuga meM milatA jo vo milA hai pala meM, merI duniyA hai mA~ tere A~cala meN|| maineM A~sU bhI die para tU roI nA, merI niMdiyA ke lie barasoM soI naa| mamatA gAtI rahI g2ama ke halacala meM, merI duniyA hai mA~ tere A~cala meN| kAhe nA dhoke piyeM, ye caraNa tere mA~, devatA pyAlA lie tarase khar3e maaN| amRta chalakA hai, isI gaMgAjala meM, merI duniyA hai mA~ tere A~cala meN|| 74/ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #76 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ 4? ciMtA chor3eM, sukha se jie~ mAre jIvana ke do prabala zatru haiM - krodha aura ciMtA / ye donoM bhAI-bahina kI taraha hamAre sAtha rahate haiM / jinake jIvana meM krodha aura ciMtA nahIM haiM unakA dina to caina se bItatA hI hai unakI rAteM bhI maMgalamaya hotI haiN| krodha se jahA~ vyakti apane Ape meM nahIM rahatA, usake svAsthya para burA asara hotA hai aura ApasI riztoM meM khaTAsa AtI hai vahIM ciMtA mAnasika saMtulana ko AghAta pahu~cAtI hai, svabhAva ko cir3acir3A banAtI hai, vyApAra aura vyavasAya ko prabhAvita karatI hai, mAnasika zAMti aura keriyara donoM hI kSatigrasta hote haiM / krodha se to dUsaroM para burA asara adhika hotA hai lekina ciMtA se svayaM para hI ghAtaka prabhAva par3atA hai / krodha se zAMti kA nAza hotA hai to ciMtA se saundarya kA / krodha se viveka kA vinAza hotA hai to ciMtA se manobala kA / kula milAkara ye donoM hI hamAre dilodimAg2a ke duzmana haiM, rogoM ke janaka haiM / vaise sabhI ko kabhI-na-kabhI krodha bhI AtA hai aura ciMtA bhI satAtI hai / | 75 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #77 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ ye donoM aise roga haiM jo na kevala dhArmika ko balki nAstika ko bhI parezAna karate haiN| dharma alaga-alaga ho sakate haiM, lekina ciMtA aura krodha manuSya mAtra ko hote haiN| chAyA kI taraha ciMtA aura krodha vyakti ke sAtha lage rahate haiM / sAsa ko bahU kI, bahU ko sAsa kI, pati ko patnI kI, patnI ko pati kI, pitA ko putra kI, putra ko pitA kI ciMtA kisI-na-kisI rUpa meM lagI rahatI hai| bacce ke janma ke sAtha hI mAtA-pitA kI ciMtA zurU ho jAtI hai / baccA thor3A-sA bar3A huA ki skUla bhejane kI ciMtA, skUla jAne lage to par3hAI kI ciMtA, par3hane lage to parIkSA kI ciMtA, parIkSA ho jAe to parIkSAphala kI ciMtA / baccA thor3A-sA bar3A ho jAe to kyA viSaya lekara Age par3hanA hai, kisa kaoNleja meM eDamIzana lenA hai isakI ciMtA / manapasaMda viSaya mila jAe to phIsa kI, chAtravRtti kI ciMtA / kaoNleja kI zikSA pUrNa ho jAe to keriyara banAne kI ciMtA, naukarI kI ciMtA / naukarI mila jAe to zAdI kI ciMtA, zAdI ho gaI to baccoM kI ciMtA yAnI ciMtA kA cakra anavarata gati se calatA rahatA hai| sar3aka para cale to skUTara pAne kI ciMtA, kAra pAne kI ciMtA, ciMtAoM kA jAla phailatA calA jAtA hai| bur3hApA Ane para bacce sevA kareMge yA nahIM aura marane para svarga milegA yA naraka, isakI ciMtA bhI satAtI rahatI hai / 1 isa mugAlate meM na raheM ki Apa patnI yA pati ke sAtha jI rahe haiM, Apa sirfa krodha aura ciMtA ke sAtha jIte haiM vahI ApakA pati yA patnI hai / Apa svayaM apanI ora dekhie aura apanA mUlyAMkana kIjie ki kisa taraha Apako ciMtA satAtI hai| ciMtA kA pahalA duSprabhAva vyakti ke mana aura sehata para hotA hai| manuSya kA dimAg2a usake jIvana kI sabase bar3I pU~jI hai / lekina ciMtAoM ke bar3hane ke sAtha tanAva bar3hatA hai aura mana asthira hotA calA jAtA hai| jisake jIvana meM tanAva ne apanA sthAna banA liyA hai usakA mana usa miTTI kI taraha ho jAtA hai jo tAlAba kA pAnI sUkha jAne para miTTI kA hotA hai / garbhavatI strI yadi ciMtita rahe to garbhastha zizu meM qhUna kI kamI ho jAegI / ciMtA se vyakti kI smaraNa-zakti prabhAvita hotI hai, netra - jyoti kramazaH kama ho jAegI, svAdagraMthi kI kriyAzIlatA kama ho jAegI, usake bolane ke tarIke para prabhAva par3egA, bolane meM asambaddhatA aaegii| gale meM hamezA kharAsa banI rahegI / ciMtA ke kAraNa brena hemareja ho sakatA hai, ciMtA se svAsthya ke sAtha-sAtha vyApAra I 76 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #78 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ vyavasAya, parivAra-samAja meM ApasI saMbaMdhoM para bhI duSprabhAva par3atA hai| isIlie vyakti ko cAhie ki vaha sabase pahale apane krodha aura ciMtA para vijaya prApta kre| jo krodha aura ciMtA se lar3anA nahI jAnate, jinheM ina para vijaya prApta karane kI kalA nahIM AtI, ve akAla-mRtyu ke zikAra banate haiN| __bhagavAna mahAvIra ne dhyAna ke cAra rUpa kahe the-Arta-dhyAna, raudra-dhyAna, dharma-dhyAna aura shukl-dhyaan| jo vyakti lagAtAra ciMtA se ghirA rahatA hai vaha Arta-dhyAna kA zikAra hotA hai aura jo satata krodha karatA rahatA hai vaha raudradhyAna meM mazagUla rahatA hai| lekina jo ciMtA kI bajAya ciMtana karatA hai vaha dharma-dhyAna kA anuyAyI hotA hai, para jisake mana meM na ciMtA hai aura na hI ciMtana, jo citta kI hara uThA-paTaka se mukta hotA hai vaha zukla dhyAna kA adhikArI hotA hai| Arta aura raudra dhyAna se ghirA vyakti jIvana bhara inhIM ke cakravyUha meM pha~sA rahatA hai| bAhara se to lagatA hai ki vaha maMdira jA rahA hai, sAmAyika kara rahA hai lekina patA nahIM citta meM kitanI udher3abuna calatI rahatI hai| na to dAna dene se svarga milatA hai aura na hI corI karane se naraka, balki apane mana ke zubha aura azubha pariNAmoM ke anusAra vyakti svarga yA naraka kA adhikArI banatA hai| __hama sabhI apane mana ko dekheM ki vahA~ kaisI udher3abuna cala rahI hai| ciMtA ghuna hai aura ciMtana dhun| jaise ghuna gehU~ ko bhItara-hI-bhItara khokhalA kara detI hai, vaise hI ciMtA jise laga jAtI hai vaha use citA ke rAste le jAtI hai| ciMtA aura citA meM mAtra eka biMdI kA farka hai lekina citA to eka bAra hI jalAtI hai aura ciMtA jIvanabhara jalAtI rahatI hai| eka bAra maranA AsAna hai lekina roz2a-roz2a kA maranA aura jalanA vyakti ke lie AtmaghAtaka hai| koI bhUtakAla kI bAtoM ko lekara ciMtita hai to kisI ko bhaviSya kI bAtoM kI ciMtA hai| ciMtA se ubaranA hai to apane vartamAna-jIvana ke mAlika banie, isI kA AnaMda liijie| jo bIta gayA so bIta gyaa| kyA Apa bIte hue samaya ko lauTA sakate haiM? hA~, aura jo AyA nahIM hai usake lie bhI kaisI ciMtA! jo kala dikhAegA vaha usakI vyavasthA bhI degaa| jisane coMca dI hai vaha cuggA bhI degaa| jise na kisI bAta kI ciMtA hai, na kisI bAta kI cAha aura na kisI | 77 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #79 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ bAta kA Dara hai use hI rAta meM caina kI nIMda aaegii| vaha sahaja jIegA aura sahaja soegaa| kahate haiM: cAha gaI ciMtA miTI, manavA beprvaah| jinako kachu na cAhie, te zAhana ke shaah|| jisakI koI talaba nahIM, tar3apha nahIM, lAlasA nahIM, vahI to jIvana kA bAdazAha hai| jo AyA nahIM usake bAre meM kyA socanA? jaba AegA, taba soceMge, sAmanA kreNge| loga prAya: mujhase pUchate haiM, 'Apako ciMtA nahIM staatii|' taba maiM kahA karatA hU~-'ciMtA satAtI thI, lekina jaba se jIvana kI samajha vikasita huI, jIvana kI samajha milI taba se ciMtA gAyaba ho gii|' aura yahI samajha agara Apa apane jIvana se jor3a leM to Apake pAsa se bhI ciMtA kA Temprecara DAuna ho sakatA hai| sau pratizata nahIM to assI pratizata to Apa ciMtAoM se mukta ho hI sakate haiN| Apa jAnate haiM baccA bAda meM janmatA hai usake pahale mA~ kA A~cala dUdha se bhara jAtA hai| vaha vidhAtA sArI vyavasthAe~ karatA hai| Apa kala ke lie bahuta-sA jamA karake rakhate ho, lekina agara usane kala hI na diyA to! use agara kala denA hogA to kala kI vyavasthA bhI degaa| ___mere paricita eka sarakArI adhikArI haiM, unakI sevA-nivRtti chaha mAha bAda hone vAlI thii| isI bIca dIpAvalI A gaI, cU~ki bar3e adhikArI the, so hara varSa kI taraha isa bAra bhI unheM logoM ne upahAra aura miThAiyA~ dI thiiN| ve khAnA khA rahe the, unakI nigAheM upahAra aura miThAiyoM ke Dhera para gaI aura acAnaka udAsa ho ge| patnI ne udAsI kA kAraNa pUchA to kahane lage ki abhI to vaha aphasara haiM lekina agalI dIpAvalI ke pahale hI riTAyara ho jAe~ge taba bhI kyA loga isI taraha miThAiyA~ aura upahAra deMge? aisI ciMtA karanA vyartha hai, jo bhaviSya kI ciMtA meM vartamAna ko naSTa kara detA hai vaha mUrkha hI hotA hai| Apa Aja jo hai usakA Ananda liijie| Aja iMsAna ke pAsa pahanane ko to DAyamaMDa seTa hai, baiThane ko sophAseTa hai, dekhane ko TI.vI. seTa hai, para mAiMDa apaseTa hai| dimAg2a meM ciMtA kA mahAbhArata cala hI rahA hai| vaha nirAza aura hatAza z2yAdA hai| thor3A-sA bhI nukasAna vaha baradAzta nahIM kara paataa| usakI bajAya jo kho gayA, usakI ciMtA 78 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #80 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ na kreN| jo hai, usakA AnaMda leN| are, agara do dA~ta TUTa bhI gae, to kyA huA, tIsa to bAkI haiN| do aMgulI kaTa gaI to kyA huA? ATha to bAkI haiN| do kI yAda meM zeSa ko darakinAra karanA bAkiyoM kA apamAna hai| ciMtA kI vajaha kyA? z2yAdA paisA, jaldI paisA, kisI bhI z2ariye se paisaa| yahI hai duHkha aura ciMtA kA kaarnn| z2yAdA hAya-hAya mata kro| zAMti se jio| kamAI karo, para galAI mata kro| ciMtA agara karanI hI hai to qhuda ke kalyANa kI kro| prabhu-bhakti kI ciMtA karo, dharma-ArAdhanA kI ciMtA kro| baccoM kI z2yAdA ciMtA mata kro| bIvI kI z2yAdA ciMtA mata kro| ve koI laMgar3e-lUle nahIM hai, jo hama unake lie aisI-vaisI ciMtA karate rheN| hamase bIbI-baccoM kI jo sevA sahaja meM bana jAe, kara lo, bAkI masta rho| ciMtA ko kama karane ke lie hame cAra praznoM para vicAra karanA cAhie - 1. samasyA kyA hai ? 2. samasyA kI vaz2aha kyA hai? 3. samasyA ke sabhI saMbhAvita sAdhana kyA hai ? 4. samasyA kA sarvottama samAdhAna kyA hai ? ye ve cAra prazna haiM, jina para ciMtana karane se ciMtA ko kama yA dUra kiyA jA sakatA hai| vaise kaI dafA sUrya bhI bAdaloM se DhaMka jAtA hai| bar3oM ko bhI kaI dafA saMkaTa se guz2aranA par3atA hai| vizvAsa rakhie, prabhu Apake sAtha hai| kahate haiM tAo kA eka ziSya thaa-cuaNgtsii| eka bAra usakI patnI mara gii| huitse milane gyaa| jaba vaha milane gayA to vaha gIta bhI gA rahA thA aura apanA bAjA bhI bajA rahA thaa| logoM ne usase pUchA-zoka kI velA meM yaha gAnA-bajAnA kaisA? huitse ne kahA-RtuoM kI taraha colA badala jAtA hai| isameM ronAdhonA kaisA? jIvana kI yaha dRSTi hI zAMti aura mukti kI dRSTi hai| jo ho gayA vaha honA hI huaa| honI meM kaisA hastakSepa! hamArI vaz2aha se samasyA huI hai to usakA samAdhAna kara lo, jo prabhu-pradatta hai, prakRti aura niyatikRta hai, usaka lie ronA kaisA? ciMtA kaisI? sahaja raho, masta rho| muskurA kara jinako g2ama kA yUMTa pInA A gayA, yaha haqIqata hai, jahAM meM unako jInA A gyaa| jinako g2ama kA cUMTa pInA AtA hai unakI chAtI hamezA chattIsa iMca caur3I hotI hai| maz2abUta dila ke loga kamaz2ora nahIM hote| unakA AtmavizvAsa bulaMda | 79 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #81 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ hotA hai| ve ciMtA nahIM krte| ciMtA kI vaz2aha ko samajhate haiM aura usakA sAmanA karate haiN| ve ciMtana karate haiM, ciMtana kI cetanA ko upalabdha hote haiN| maiM ciMtAmukta hone ke kucha sUtra sujhAva ke rUpa meM de rahA hU~, jinheM apanAkara Apa aura hama avazya hI ciMtAmukta ho sakate haiM - pahalI bAta kahU~gA-sahaja jIvana jiyeN| na to kuTila, na kRtrima aura na Aropita-apanA sahaja jIvana jIne kA prayAsa kareM - sahaja mile so dUdha sama, mA~gA mile so pAnI, kaha kabIra vaha rakta sama, jAme khiiNcaataanii| jo sahaja meM milatA hai vaha dUdha ke samAna zreSTha hai| mA~gane se agara dUdha mile to vaha pAnI ke samAna hai, para jo kalaha karake, manamuTAva karake, z2abaradastI hAsila kiyA jAe vaha to rakta ke samAna hI hai| sahaja meM jo mila gayA vaha Ananda bhAva se premapUrvaka svIkAra kara leN| majhe koI batA rahA thA ki unakI dukAna ke sAmane hI eka anya dukAnadAra hai jisakI kisI dina kama grAhakI hotI hai to usa dina bahuta khIjatA huA rAta meM zaTara girAtA hai| maiM socatA hU~ jisa dina adhika kamAyA usa dina to prasanna nahIM hotaa| basa kama kamAyA usakI ciMtA meM nIMda z2arUra qharAba kara letA hai| are bhAI, hAni kA hI socate rahoge to lAbha kA Ananda nahIM uThA skoge| jo lAbha kA Ananda uThA sakatA hai vaha hone vAlI hAni ke lie adhika ciMtA nahIM krtaa| vaha socegA ghATA laga gayA, to kyA kamAI bhI to isI se ho rahI hai| aisA vyakti sahaja jIvana jI skegaa| prakRti-pradatta deha ko anAvazyaka kRtrima rUpa se zRMgArita na kreN| isase ApakI tvacA, nakha, bAla, ceharA qharAba hotA hai-sahaja raheM / khAnapAna para bhI dhyAna rkheN| samaya se khaayeN-piyeN| yaha kyA ki dera rAta taka khA rahe haiM, maTaragaztI kara rahe haiN| aisA karake Apa svayaM ko nukasAna pahu~cA rahe haiN| dina-rAta bhAgamabhAga meM na lage rheN| Apa adhika jamA kara bhI leMge to kyA? bhAgya se adhika Apake pAsa TikegA nhiiN| ___ dazaratha ke bhAgya meM saMtAna nahIM thii| lekina z2ida pakar3a lI ki yajJa karake hI sahI, saMtAna avazya prApta kruuNgaa| yajJa kiyA, saMtAna bhI ho gaI, lekina unheM kabhI bhI saMtAna kA sukha prApta na ho skaa| hamAre paricaya meM eka 80 | ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM-5 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #82 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ suzrAvikA hai| hamase sneha rakhatI haiM, Adara bhI karatI haiN| unheM vivAha ke pazcAt sudIrgha samaya taka saMtAna prApti nahIM huii| ve hamase basa eka hI bAta kahatIM ki unheM saMtAna ho jAe aisA hI AzIrvAda caahie| unheM antataH putra huA aura vaha bar3A hone lgaa| caudaha varSa kA ho gayA aura use DeMgU bukhAra ho gyaa| tabIyata z2yAdA bigar3I, use dillI le jAyA gayA aura kucha samaya bAda samAcAra AyA ki aspatAla meM usakA dehAnta ho gyaa| mujhe usa samaya kevala eka hI vicAra AyA ki jisa cIz2a ko bhagavAna nahIM denA cAhatA use tuma kisI taraha prApta bhI kara lo to bhI usakA sukha tumheM nahIM mila sktaa| isalie sahaja meM jo mila jAe usameM Ananda aura na mile to bhI g2ama nhiiN| prApta ho jAe to bhI prasanna aura prApta na ho to bhI prsnn| jisameM isa taraha jIne kI kalA A gaI vahI ciMtAmukta aura nizcita jIvana jI sakatA hai| sammAna mile to ThIka aura koI apamAna de de to use apane sammAna kI kasauTI smjhiye| viparIta vAtAvaraNa meM Apa apane citta kI sahajatA ko banAe rakhane meM saphala ho jAte haiM to yahI Apake jIvana kI vAstavika saphalatA hai| agara Apa svayaM ko zAMta aura sthira citta samajhate haiM to maiM cAhU~gA ki kabhI-kabhI Apake sAtha aisA ghaTita hotA rahe jisase ApakI zAMti, samatA, sahajatA aura samarasatA kI kasauTI hotI rhe| aisA haA, eka saMta hue bhiikhnnjii| ve pravacana kara rahe the ki bhIr3a meM se eka yuvaka khar3A huA, unake pAsa AyA aura unake sira para do-cAra Thole mAra die| sAre loga hakke-bakke raha ge| yuvaka ko pakar3a liyA aura pITane ko udyata ho ge| bhIkhaNajI ne kahA-use chor3a do| logoM ne kahA-yaha Apa kyA kaha rahe haiM? bhIkhaNajI ne kahA-jo ho gayA so ho gayA, Apa loga use chor3a deN| bhIr3a ne kahA-'are, isane Apako pITA hai, hama ise sabaka sikhAkara rheNge|' taba unhoMne kahA-isane merI piTAI nahIM kI thI, yaha to merA ziSya banane AyA thA aura ThoMka bajAkara parakha rahA thA ki yaha AdamI guru banAne lAyaka hai bhI yA nhiiN| are, bAjAra meM cAra Ane kI haMDiyA lene jAte haiM to use bhI ThokabajAkara dekhA jAtA hai ki kAma kI hai yA nhiiN| aura jaba guru banAnA hai to yaha sAdhAraNa kAma nahIM hai, jIvana bhara kI bAta hai| isane merI kevala parakha bhara kI hai| 81 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #83 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ yaha kasauTI hai| saMta kI kasauTI samatA kI kasauTI, zAMti kI kasauTI, sakArAtmakatA kI ksauttii| jo kasauTI meM qharA utarA, vahI kh'raa| bAkI saba sAntvanA puraskAra bhara hai| ciMtAmukta jIvana jIne ke lie dUsarI bAta hai -prakRti aura paramAtmA kI vyavasthAoM meM vizvAsa rkhiye| vyakti ke kie hI saba kucha nahIM hotaa| prakRti bhI kucha vyavasthAe~ karatI hai aura prakRti kA dharma hai privrtnshiiltaa| yahA~ Rtue~ badalatI haiM, mausama badalate haiM, dina-rAta badalate haiM, hAni-lAbha badalate haiN| saMyoga-viyoga badalate haiM, janama-maraNa badalate haiN| duniyA meM kucha bhI aisA nahIM hai jo nahIM bdltaa| kalakattA meM eka prasiddha maMdira hai| vaha maMdira kalakattA ke darzanIya sthaloM meM se eka hai| usakA nirmAtA eka arabapati vyakti thaa| usameM sabhI cIjeM AyAtita vastuoM se nirmita haiN| usake bAre meM kahA jAtA hai ki jaba vaha nyAyAlaya meM kisI makadame ke silasile meM jAtA to vakIloM ko phIsa ke bataura hIre detA thA aura kahatA apanI phIsa lekara bAkI bace hIre usake ghara pahu~cA denaa| Aja usakI pA~cavIM-chaThI pIr3hI ke loga usa maMdira ke phoTo becakara apanA jIvana-yApana kara rahe haiN| yaha saba parivartanazIlatA kA pariNAma hai| maiMne yaha bhI dekhA hai ki jo vyakti pratimAha bamuzkila pA~ca sau rupaye kamAtA thA vaha Aja deza kA mahAn udyogapati hai| vaha udyogapati dhIrUbhAI aMbAnI ke nAma se jAnA jAtA hai| jI.DI. biralA alpazikSita the, lekina deza ke sarvocca udyogapati bana ge| jo kala g2arIba thA Aja amIra ho jAtA hai| prakRti sabako detI hai aura sabakA parivartana karatI hai| isIlie prakRti aura paramAtmA meM vizvAsa rakhie ki vaha vahI karatA hai jo use karanA hotA hai| lAbha milA usakI kRpA, hAni ho gaI usakI kRpA kyoMki isameM bhI usakI koI-na-koI vyavasthA hai| hama nahIM jAnate prabhu hamase kyA cAhate haiM, kyA kahanA aura kyA karanA cAhate haiM? sukha-duHkha donoM rahate jisameM, jIvana hai vo gaaNv| kabhI dhUpa to kabhI chaaNv| kabhI sukha to kabhI duHkha! Upara vAle ke pAsoM ko hama nahIM samajha skte| hama kevala zikavA aura zikAyate karate rahate haiN| eka bAra bAdazAha 82 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #84 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ akabara rAjasabhA meM baiThe hue the ki bole-Aja bahuta burA ho gayA, maiM subaha Ama aura tarabUja kATa rahA thA ki a~gulI meM cAkU laga gayA aura khUna nikala gayA, are a~gulI hI kaTa gii| darabAriyoM ne kahA-bahuta hI burA ho gayA, mahArAja! bIrabala cupa hI rahA to akabara ne pUchA-bIrabala, tumane kucha nahIM khaa| bIrabala ne kahA-mahArAja, maiM kyA kahU~? maiM to itanA hI jAnatA hU~ ki jo hotA hai acche ke lie hotA hai| bAdazAha ne kahA-kyA? yahA~ to merI a~gulI kaTa gaI, darda ke mAre chaTapaTA rahA hU~ aura tuma kaha rahe ho yaha acche ke lie huA, 'mahArAja, maiM isa bAre meM kyA kahU~, maiMne to abhI taka yahI jAnA hai ki jo hotA hai acche ke lie hotA hai,' bIrabala ne khaa| samrATa krodhita ho gayA aura use kArAgAra meM DAlane kA hukma de diyaa| kucha dina bIta ge| akabara apane aMgarakSakoM ke sAtha zikAra para gyaa| vaha apane sAthiyoM se Age nikala gayA ki vahA~ use AdivAsiyoM ne ghera liyA aura pakar3akara apane rAjapurohita ke pAsa le gae kyoMki unheM battIsa lakSaNoMyukta kisI bhadra iMsAna kI bali apanI kuladevI ke samakSa denI thii| rAjapurohita ne akabara kA pUrA parIkSaNa kiyA to patA calA ki usakI eka a~gulI kaTI huI hai| rAjapurohita ne AdivAsiyoM se kahA ki yaha vyakti bali ke yogya nahIM hai| kyoMki isakI eka a~gulI kaTI huI hai| samrATa ko chor3a diyA gyaa| bAdazAha ko yAda AyA ki bIrabala ne ThIka hI kahA thA ki jo hotA hai acche ke lie hotA hai| bAdazAha vApasa nagara meM pahu~cA aura baMdIgRha meM kaida bIrabala ko mukta kara diyaa| lekina pUchA-bIrabala, mere saMdarbha meM to yaha acchA huA ki merI aMgulI kaTI thI aura merI bali nahIM ho skii| lekina maiMne jo tujhe kaidakhAne meM DAla diyA yaha tumhAre lie kaise acchA huA? bIrabala ne kahA-mahArAja, yaha to bahuta hI acchA huA ki Apane mujhe kArAgAra meM DAla diyaa| varanA Apa zikAra para jAte hue mujhe bhI sAtha meM le jAte aura a~gulI kaTI hone ke kAraNa Apa to baca jAte, para bali kA bakarA maiM bana jaataa| viparIta sthitiyoM ke banane para Arta aura rau-dhyAna na kareM, balki prakRti kI vyavasthA mAnakara svIkAra kara liijie| honI hokara rahatI hai, anahonI kabhI hotI nhiiN| yAda rakhie-jaba jo jaisA hotA hai taba vo vaisA honA hotA | 83 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #85 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ hai, tabhI aisA huA karatA hai| isalie na to kisI ko zreya dIjie, na hI upAlaMbha diijie| bar3e-bar3e paMDita-purohitoM se janma-patrI milavAkara Apane apane lar3akI kI zAdI kI thI, lekina DhAI varSa ke anaMtara vaha vidhavA ho gii| Apa kyA kara sakate haiM? kyoMki aisA honA thA, huaa| ___ eka bAta aura smaraNa rakheM, jaba koI kArya apane kie pUrA nahIM ho pA rahA hai to use bhI Izvara para, vaqta para chor3a deN| Apane apanI ora se pUrI koziza kara lI, aba use bhagavAna para chor3a deN| vaha apanI vyavasthA ke anurUpa saba kucha kregaa| eka vRddha mahilA ko jJAta huA ki use kaiMsara ho gayA hai| DaoNkTaroM ne kahA ki cAra dina bAda oNparezana kiyA jaaegaa| usane apane donoM baccoM ko bulaayaa| apanI vasIyata taiyAra kI aura baccoM ko batA diyA ki itanA dhana baiMka meM hai aura amuka-amuka sthAna para makAna vagairaha haiN| baccoM ne pUchA, 'mammI, Aja acAnaka Apako kyA ho gayA?' usane kahA, 'beTA, jiMdagI kA kyA bharosA, kaba taka rahU~, isalie sAre kAg2ajAta taiyAra kara die|' baccoM ne socA, jaisI mammI kI mrjii| ve loga eka dina ruke aura vApasa cale ge| cAra dina bAda vaha mahilA aspatAla pahuMca gaI aura DaoNkTara se kahA- oNparezana kara diijie| DaoNkTara cakita huaa| itanA bar3A oNparezana aura parivAra kA koI vyakti sAtha nhiiN| DaoNkTara ne kahA-Apa apane parivAra ke sage-saMbaMdhI kisI ko to bulavA liijie| usa mahilA ne kahA-bulA liyaa| DaoNkTara ne pUchA-kise? usane batAyA-UparavAle ko| usane kahADaoNkTara sAhaba, Apa mere beTe kI taraha hI haiM, Apa mere sAtha haiM n! Apa oNparezana kiijie| DaoNkTara ne socA zAyada isakA koI riztedAra nahIM hai so usane apane Upara oNparezana kI sArI jimmedArI le lii| mahilA jaba oNpareza thiyeTara meM jAne lagI to usane hAtha jor3e, Izvara ko yAda kiyA aura kahA'he prabhu! maiM apane Apako tumheM samarpita kara rahI huuN|' batAte haiM mahilA kA oNparezana saphala rhaa| pandraha dina bAda jaba use aspatAla se chuTTI milane vAlI thI to DaoNkTara ne kahA - tumhArA koI dUra kA riztedAra bhI ho to batA do, use bulavA lete haiM, vaha Akara le jaaegaa| mahilA ne kahA, dUra ke riztedAra kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| merA apanA lar3akA aura lar3akI haiN| DaoNkTara cauMkA-to tumane oNparezana se pahale unheM kyoM nahIM bulaayaa| 84 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #86 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ mahilA ne kahA - usakI z2arUrata nahIM thii| khaira, donoM baccoM ko bulAyA gyaa| jaba unheM mAlUma par3A ki mA~ ke stana kaiMsara kA oNparezana ho cukA hai, donoM bahuta nArAz2a bhI hue| para mA~ ne kahA-beTA, maiMne svayaM ko; tuma logoM ko nahIM, prabhu ko supurda kiyA thaa| tuma loga mujhe bahuta priya ho, lekina sacAI yaha hai ki tIsa sAla pahale jaba tumhArA janma hone vAlA thA, merI hAlata bahuta bigar3a gaI thii| DaoNkTara ne tumhAre pitA se kahA-mA~ yA baccA donoM meM se kisI eka ko hI bacAyA jA sakatA hai| taba tumhAre pitA ne kAg2az2oM kI khAnApUrti karate hue kahA thA jise bhI bacA sakate hoM bacA leN| aura maiM oNparezana thiyeTara meM le jAI jA rahI thii| beTA, mujhe lagA aba bhI eka sahArA bacA hai aura taba maiMne Izvara ko yAda kiyA aura kahA-he prabhu! maiM svayaM ko tumheM samarpita kara rahI huuN| maiM bhI baca jAU~ aura merA baccA bhI baca jaae| beTA, taba Upara vAle ke bharose tu bhI bacA aura maiM bhI bcii| taba bhI UparavAle ke bharose maiM bacI aura Aja bhI usI ne jIvanadAna diyA hai| UparavAle ke hAtha haz2Ara haiM, usake naina haz2Ara haiM-vaha kisa rUpa meM Akara hameM thAma legA kahA nahIM jA sktaa| ciMtAmukta jIvana jIne kA eka sarala mArga yaha bhI hai ki -bItI tAhi bisAra de| jo ho gayA so ho gayA aba vaha lauTakara Ane vAlA nahIM hai| bIte kA ciMtana na kara, chUTa gayA jaba tIra, anahonI hotI nahIM, hotI vaha tk'diir| agara hameM yAda rakhanA hai to acchI cIz2oM ko yAda rakheM aura burI cIz2oM ko bhUla jaaeN| ___ bhItara AtI sA~sa acchI yAdoM ko andara lene kI preraNA detI hai, bAhara nikalatI sA~sa burI yAdoM ko bAhara ulIcane kA bodha detI hai| sA~sa ke sAtha acchAiyoM ko aMdara lo, sA~sa ke sAtha burAiyoM ko bAhara chodd'o| mIrA to viparIta vAtAvaraNa ke bAvajUda yU~gharU bA~dhakara nAca uThI, phira hama hI kyoM ber3I bA~dhakara baiThe rheN| bacapana meM sunA huA vo gIta sadA apane palle bA~dha leM-samajhautA g2amoM se kara lo, jiMdagI meM g2ama bhI milate haiN| patajhar3a Ate hI rahate haiM, ki madhubana phira bhI khilate haiN| samajhautA g2amoM se kara lo...| jiMdagI meM samajhautAvAdI naz2ariyA honA caahie| prakRti kI vyavasthAoM meM rAz2I rahane kI Adata honI | 85 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #87 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ caahie| hama jaisA cAhate haiM, hamArI niyati hameM vaisA hI nahIM detii| taba phira nirAza hone kI bajAya kyoM na jo niyati aura prakRti hameM detI hai, hama usameM rAz2I honA sIkha jaaeN| jIvana meM zAMti lAe~, naI ummIda jagAe~, nayA utsAha jagAe~, naI UrjA ke sAtha zAMti, saphalatA aura mukti ke rAste para apanA qadama bddh'aaeN| 86 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #88 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ bur3hApe kI sArthakatA ke zAnadAra nuskhe 25000 M iMsAna ke bur3hApe kA saMbaMdha usake tana kI apekSA mana ke sAtha adhika hotA hai| agara usake mana meM AzA, utsAha, UrjA aura umaMga ho to vaha sattara varSa kI Ayu meM cAlIsa varSIya vyakti kI taraha kriyAzIla raha sakatA hai| nahIM to nirAzA aura kuMThA se ghirA huA vyakti cAlIsa varSa kI umra meM hI sattara ke tulya ho jAtA hai| maz2abUta mana kA vyakti umra ko jIta letA hai| nabbe baMsata dekhakara bhI pikAso citrakArI kiyA karate the| mahAn dArzanika sukarAta sattara varSa kI umra meM bhI mAnavajAti ke samakSa apane darzana kA prarUpaNa kiyA karate the| bahattara varSa kI Ayu meM bhagavAna mahAvIra lagAtAra caubIsa ghaMTe taka upadeza aura dharma mArga kA prarUpaNa karane meM samartha the| mana kA yuvA honA z2arUrI hai| mana DUbA to nAva DUbI / jo loga bur3hApe ko kArAgAra samajhate haiM yA cAradIvArI meM rahakara damaghoMTra saMgharSa samajhate haiM unase anurodha hai ki ve bur3hApe ko jIvana kA svarNa-zikhara smjheN| prakRti kI | 87 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #89 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ vyavasthA ke mutAbika jinakA janma huA hai unheM mRtyu ke dvAra se gujaranA hI par3atA hai, jo phUla khilatA hai use murajhAnA bhI par3atA hai| dharatI para Aja taka koI aisA dina nahIM AyA jaba sUraja ugA to ho, para asta na huA ho| saMyoga ke sAtha hI viyoga bhI hai| agara vyakti prakRti kI isa vyavasthA ko prema se svIkAra kara le to usake jIvana kI ApAdhApI qhuda-ba-qhuda samApta ho jaae| __vyakti kI assI pratizata samasyAe~ to prakRti kI vyavasthA ko svIkArate hI kama ho jAtI haiN| jisa per3a para koMpala lagatI hai, patte hare hote haiM, pIle par3ate haiM aura jhar3a jAte haiM, para isake bAvajUda per3a ko koI zikAyata nahIM hotI, tApa aura saMtApa nahIM hotaa| agara hama isa tathya ko samajha leM to kisI kA prema hamAre lie rAga aura moha kA anubaMdha na banegA aura kisI kA virodha hamAre lie dveSa kA AdhAra nahIM bnegaa| anukUlatA, pratikUlatA meM jIvana sthira rhegaa| jIvana kI asalI sAdhanA yahI hai ki vyakti anukUla aura pratikUla donoM hI sthitiyoM meM sahaja rahe / yahA~ mitra hI zatru aura zatru hI mitra bana jAte haiN| prakRti ke sAtha tAlamela karake jIne se jIvana bahuta hI sahajatA se jIyA jA skegaa| jIvana ko sahajatA se jInA hI jIvana kI sArthakatA aura saphalatA kA maMtra hai| ____ hama sabhI jAnate haiM ki gaI huI javAnI aura AyA huA bur3hApA lauTAyA nahIM jA sktaa| bAloM ko raMgakara bur3hApe ko chipAyA to jA sakatA hai, para haTAyA nahIM jA sktaa| bur3hApA jIvana kA janma jaisA hI satya hai| rAma ho yA rahIma, kRSNa ho yA kabIra, mahAvIra ho yA mohammada hara kisI ko janma, yauvana, roga aura bur3hApA ina cAroM galiyAroM se guz2aranA par3atA hai| bur3hApe kA koI apavAda yA vikalpa nahIM hai| isalie bur3hApe ko samasyA na smjheN| yaha to haqIqata hai| yauvana haqa hai to jarA hk'iik't| hama haqIqata ko svIkAra kreN| agara ha~sakara svIkAreMge to mRtyu dasa varSa dUra rahegI aura rote-bilakhate kATeMge to mRtyu dasa varSa pUrva hI A jaaegii| hama pUcha sakate haiM : kyA mauta ko AgepIche kiyA jA sakatA hai ? nahIM, yaha to saMbhava nahIM hai, lekina qhuza rahakara Apa hara ora qhuziyA~ bikhera sakate haiN| taba saba Apake sAtha hoMge aura ApakA jIvana khuzanumA rahegA aura mRtyu dUra hI dikhAI degI anyathA vilApa 88 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #90 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ karane se Apa to du:khI hoMge hI, sabako du:khI kara DAleMge aura pratipala mRtyu kI kAmanA karate hue use naz2adIka bulA leNge| mRtyu cAhe jaba Ae, jisa jIvana kA prAraMbha huA hai usakA samApana to hogA hii| duniyA meM sAta hI vAra hote haiN| inhIM meM kisI eka dina jIvana kI zuruAta hotI hai aura inhIM meM se kisI eka dina jIvana kA samApana hotA hai| somavAra ko hama janma lete haiM to maMgalavAra ko skUla jAte haiN| budhavAra ko keriyara banAte haiM to guruvAra ko zAdI karate haiM, zukravAra ko bacce hote haiM to zanivAra ko bUr3he ho jAte haiM aura isa taraha ravivAra ko kahAnI qhatma ho jAtI hai| ina sAta dinoM meM se hama kisI bhI dina apane jIvana kI yAtrA prAraMbha kara sakate haiM aura kisI bhI dina bur3hApe ke satya se rU-ba-rU ho sakate haiN| ___hama bur3hApe ko samasyA na smjheN| hamane apanI lAparavAhI aura asajagatA se bur3hApe ko samasyA banA liyA hai| bur3hApA samasyA nahIM hai, yaha naisargika zArIrika prakriyA hai| vyakti jyoM-jyoM bUr3hA hotA hai usake aMdara azAMti, udvega, tanAva aura asurakSA kI bhAvanA hAvI hotI jAtI hai| bacapana meM ajJAna aura abodhatA rahatI hai| yuvAvasthA meM azAMti aura unmAda car3ha jAtA hai to bur3hApe meM parigraha aura asurakSA sabase adhika rahatI hai| merI samajha se bur3hApA azAMti aura asurakSA kA par3Ava nahIM hai, varan zAMti kA dhAma hai| Apane apanA jIvana kaisA jIyA, bur3hApA usakI parIkSA hai| agara Apa bur3hApe ko samasyA samajheMge to hara umra eka samasyA hai| bacapana bhI, yauvana bhI aura bur3hApA bhI, para agara ise prakRti kI vyavasthA samajheM to bur3hApA na koI roga hai, na abhizApa / bur3hApA to zAMti, mukti, samAdhi aura kaivalya kA dvAra hai| apane ghara aura AsapAsa rahane vAle bujurgoM ko dekheM ki eka bUr3hA-bujurga vyakti to paripakvatA kI nizAnI hai| vaha jJAna aura anubhava kA vizAla bhaMDAra hai| vaha to jIvana ke upanyAsa kA sAra hai, upasaMhAra hai| bur3hApe se vahI vyakti ghabarAegA jisane bacapana aura yauvana donoM ko kacarApeTI meM DAla diyaa| aba bhalA skUla jAne se Akhira vahI baccA to DaregA n jisane apanA homavarka pUrA nahIM kiyaa| Ayakara adhikAriyoM se vahI vyApArI ghabarAegA jisake bahI-khAte ThIka nahIM hoMge aura mauta ko qarIba Ate dekhakara vahI roegA-dhoegA jisane kevala bhoga kiyA, para yoga kA dvAra na kholaa| jisane | 89 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #91 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ jIvana kI dhanyatA ke lie kucha na kiyA, usakA bur3hApA sUnA hai, para jo maMdira-darzana, guru-sAnnidhya, satsaMga-prema aura dUsaroM kI bhalAI ke lie samarpita rahA usakA to bur3hApA bhI sonA hI hai| bur3hApe meM bAla sapheda ho jAte haiN| sapheda bAla nivRtti ke pratIka haiM / bAla sapheda ho gae, yAnI bhoga aura bhojana pUrA huaa| aba naI yAtrA zurU kreN| aba prabhu ke rAste para cale aao| aba gAr3I chaTane vAlI hai| aba saMsAra ke pacaDe chor3o aura svAdhyAya, satsaMga, prabhu-bhajana aura Atma-dhyAna meM khuda ko samarpita kro| soco, agara aba bhI na kiyA to kyA marane ke bAda karoge? do muTThI rAkha hone ke bAda? bur3hApA tUne liyA re jkdd'ii|| hAtha meM A gaI lkdd'ii|| bacapana khelA rAga-raMga meM, car3hI z2avAnI aMga-aMga meN| bhoga aura bhojana ke saMga meM, ulajha gaI re mkdd'ii|| kor3I-kor3I damar3I jor3I, magara dharama se mamatA todd'ii| aba to hAtha-pA~va bhI kA~peM, kamara gaI hai akdd'ii|| roTI khAU~ to pacatI nahIM hai, khicar3I khAU~ to rucatI nhiiN| roga ne gherA, moha anerA, ciMtA bar3ha gaI tkdd'ii|| dina meM chore karate hA~sI, rAta-rAta bhara calatI khaaNsii| dA~ta bhI TUTe, moha na chUTe, khA na sake aba kkdd'ii|| prabhu ko bhUlA, adhara meM jhUlA, moha-mAyA meM pakar3akara phuulaa| para aba bAjI jAe hAtha se, jama ne coTI pkdd'ii|| jisa palane meM khele vo lakar3I, kursI, mAcA, pherA lkdd'ii| hAtha meM lakar3I, sAtha meM lakar3I, arthI hogI lkdd'ii|| gAr3I chUTa rahI hai pagale, car3hanA hai to aba bhI car3ha le| prabhu ko bhaja le, satsaMga kara le, chor3a de pcdd'aa-pcdd'ii|| rAma nAma hI eka satya hai, bAkI sArI bAta khapata hai| 'candra' prabhu ke caraNa-kamala meM, rakha lo apanI pgdd'ii|| apane bUr3he tana meM bhI mana ko maz2abUta karo aura zeSa jIvana ko pUrA 90 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #92 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ sArthaka aura AnaMda-bhAva se jIkara jaao| bur3hApe ko lekara roo mata, bur3hApe ko sArthaka kro| z2yAdA laphar3oM meM hAtha mata ddaalo| kucha aisA karo ki bur3hApA dhanya ho| hamArA bur3hApA svastha bhI ho, sArthaka bhI ho, surakSita bhI ho aura auroM ke lie Adarza bhI ho, yaha nihAyata z2arUrI hai| bur3hApe meM hameM kina-kina samasyAoM kA sAmanA karanA par3atA hai, isakI taiyArI abhI se kara lo| apana nabbe varSa kI umra meM bhI yuvA raha sakate haiM bazarte saMyamita jIvana jieN| saMtulita AhAra, ucita vyAyAma aura prAta:kAlIna bhramaNa karate hue Apa hara Ayu meM svastha evaM yuvA bane raha sakate haiN| mana kabhI bUr3hA nahIM hotaa| svayaM ko bUr3hA mAnanA chor3a do| jaba taka jIe~ge UrjA ke sAtha jiieNge| jIvana ke aMtima kSaNa taka UrjA, utsAha aura umaMga banAe rkheNge| jo aisA nahIM jI pAte haiM unheM hI bur3hApe kI samasyAoM kA sAmanA karanA par3atA hai| bur3hApe meM sabase pahalI samasyA zArIrika hotI hai| smaraNa-zakti kama ho jAtI hai, dRSTi kamaz2ora ho jAtI hai, zravaNa-kSamatA bhI kama ho jAtI hai, dA~ta girane lagate haiM, camar3I meM jhurriyA~ par3ane lagatI haiM, bolanA cAheM to ThIka se bolA na jAe, raktacApa asAmAnya rahane lagatA hai, sA~sa phUlane lagatI hai| pAcanakSamatA ghaTa jAtI hai| kamara bhI jhukane lagatI hai, hAtha meM lAThI A jAtI hai, ghuTane darda karane lagate haiN| bahuta prakAra kI bImAriyA~ ghara karane lagatI haiN| dUsarI samasyA mAnasika hotI hai| bUr3he vyakti kI cAha bar3hatI jAtI hai| ciMtAe~ aura cir3acir3AhaTa bhI bar3hane lagatI hai| vaha choTI-se-choTI cIz2a bhI sameTane lagatA hai ki kAma aaegii| unheM ciMtA satAtI hai ki jaba ve bUr3he ho jAe~ge to unheM kauna saMbhAlegA! unake hAtha-pA~va nahIM caleMge to kauna unakI dekhabhAla karegA! Aja ke yuga kI saMtAnoM se mAtA-pitA kA vizvAsa uTha gayA hai| ciMtA kyoM karate ho? pazu-pakSiyoM kI sevA kauna karatA hai? hA~, agara tumhArI sevA ho jAe to samajha lenA puNyAI abhI taka bacI huI hai| bUr3he loga koI-na-koI ciMtA avazya pAlakara rakhate haiN| kucha nahIM to yahI fikra ki agara ve bImAra ho gae to unakI sevA, cikitsA ThIka se hogI yA nahIM, cikitsA ho jAe to ThIka, na ho pAe to fikra kaisI? kyoMki prakRti kA niyama hai ki hara harA pattA pIlA par3atA hai aura phira jhar3a jAtA hai| janma ke 91 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #93 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ sAtha hI mRtyu taya ho gaI hai phira Apa janmate hI mara jAte haiM yA sattara varSa ke hokara marate haiM koI farka nahIM pdd'taa| ApakA janma lenA hI marane ke lie paryApta hai| bUr3he vyakti kA svabhAva bhI cir3acir3A ho jAtA hai, kyoMki aba usake niyaMtraNa meM kucha nahIM rhtaa| choTI-choTI bAtoM para jhuMjhalA uThate haiN| bUr3hoM ko jitanA gussA AtA hai utanA javAnoM ko nahIM aataa| kyoMki unake hAtha-pA~va calate nahIM, mastiSka kI zakti kSINa ho gaI, sahanazIlatA rahatI nahIM hai, to eka minaTa meM hI pArA car3ha jAtA hai| ve cAhakara bhI apanA moha chor3a nahIM paate| hama sabhI ko rAjA yayAti kI kahAnI mAlUma hai jisane apane jIvana ke sau varSa pUrNa kara lie the| ina sau varSoM meM sau rAniyoM ke sAtha aizvarya kA upabhoga kiyA thaa| unake sau-sau rAjamahala aura sau hI putra the| jaba sau sAla pUrNa ho gae to mRtyu unheM lene A pahu~cI aura yamarAja bole, 'calo yayAti, tumhArA AyuSya pUrNa ho gyaa|' yayAti ne kahA, 'are, mRtyu tuma to bahuta jaldI A gii| abhI tuma jAo, thor3e dina bAda A jaanaa| abhI to jIvana ke kaI indradhanuSa dekhane bAkI haiN| ' mRtyu kisI ke dvAra A jAe to khAlI hAtha vApasa nahIM jAtI, so mRtyu ne kahA, rAjan agara tumhAre sthAna para tumhAre parivAra kA koI vyakti marane ko taiyAra ho jAe to tumheM sau varSa kI Ayu aura mila sakatI hai| rAjA ne apane putroM kI ora dekhaa| ninyAnaveM putroM ne to marane se iMkAra kara diyA, para sabase choTA putra marane ko taiyAra ho gyaa| usane kahA, 'mere marane se agara mere pitA ko sau varSa kI Ayu milatI hai to maiM yaha kurbAnI dene ko taiyAra huuN|' mRtyu choTe putra ko le jAtI hai| yayAti do sau varSa kI Ayu pA letA hai| punaH sau varSa bAda mRtyu kA padArpaNa hotA hai, puna: vahI nATaka hotA hai, punaH sabase choTA beTA apanI Ahuti detA hai| isa taraha dasa bAra rAjA bAra-bAra beTe kI qImata para eka haz2Ara varSa jI letA hai, lekina usakI kAmanAe~-tRSNAe~ apUrNa hI rahatI haiN| vaha cAhatA hai ki kucha aura upabhoga kara le, rAjasattA bhoga le|maut kahatI hai rAjan bahuta jI lie, para rAjA ne kahA, tuma agara mere beTe se khuza ho jAtI ho to mere sau beTe haiN| ninyAnaveM se kAma calA luuNgaa| dasavIM bAra 92 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #94 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ phira sabase choTA beTA taiyAra hotA hai, mRtyu use le jAne ke lie Age bar3hatI hai to vaha kahatA hai, mauta! basa eka minaTa ke lie Thaharo, tuma to jAnatI ho maiM kauna hU~ ? maiM vahI beTA hU~, jo dasa bAra isa ghara meM janma lekara bacapana meM hI maratA rahA hU~ lekina Aja marane se pahale pitA se eka savAla z2arUra karanA caahuuNgaa| taba usane pitA se pUchA, 'pitAjI! Apane eka hajAra varSa kA jIvana jiyA hai, lekina kyA abhI taka tRpta ho pAe haiM ?' pitA ne kahA, 'beTA, yaha jAnane ke bAda ki tuma hI vaha mere putra ho jisane dasa bAra apanA jIvana gaMvAyA, yahI kahU~gA ki saccAI to yaha hai ki eka hajAra varSoM ke bhogopabhoga ke bAda bhI svayaM ko atRpta adhUrA hI samajhatA huuN|' choTe beTe ne kahA, 'mRtyu, mujhe mere prazna kA uttara mila gyaa| aba maiM tumhAre sAtha ArAma se cala skuuNgaa| yadyapi pahale bhI nau bAra jA cukA hU~ lekina taba mere mana meM thor3I duvidhA rahatI thI ki maiM to jIvana jI bhI na pAyA aura jAnA par3a rahA hai, lekina Aja mana meM saMtoSa hai ki jo pitA eka haz2Ara sAla kA jIvana jIkara bhI asaMtuSTa aura atRpta rahA to maiM sau sAla jIvita rahakara bhI kauna-sA tRpta ho jAU~gA? aba maiM tumhAre sAtha binA zaMkA-saMdeha ke prema se calU~gA' aura kahate haiM taba mRtyu ne yuvA beTe ko chor3a diyA aura yayAti ko lekara calI gaI, kyoMki jo vyakti tRpti kA ahasAsa kara cukA hai mauta use chU nahIM paatii| ___ vRddhAvasthA meM tIsarI samasyA pArivArika hotI hai, kyoMki parivAra meM bUr3he logoM kI iz2z2ata karane vAle kama hI loga hote haiN| jaise baila ke bUr3he hone para kisAna use kasAIkhAne bheja detA hai usI taraha Ajakala loga apane bujurgoM ko vRddhAzrama bhejanA pasaMda karate haiM, kyoM? kyoMki buz2urga ghara meM hada se z2yAdA hastakSepa zurU kara dete haiN| bAta-bAta meM TIkA-TippaNI, TokA-TokI karate rahate haiN| maiM kahanA cAhU~gA ki agara bujurga loga adhika bolane kI Adata se chuTakArA pA leM, jubAna ko niyaMtrita kara leM to ghara kA koI bhI sadasya unheM avAMchita nahIM smjhegaa| dhana ke kAraNa nahIM apitu parivAra meM ucita saMtulana na hone se parivAra TUTa jAyA karate haiN| isalie pArivArika saMtulana banAe rkheN| buz2urga parivAra ke sAtha sAmaMjasya banAe rakheM, samasyAe~ svayaM sulajha jaaeNgii| bUDhe-bujurgoM ko cAhie ki ve napA-tulA boleM athavA mauna rheN| beTe-bahU ke - 93 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #95 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ bIca meM z2yAdA TokA-TokI karoge to ve tumase piMDa chur3AnA caaheNge| vahIM agara tuma unheM kevala AzIrvAda doge to ve tumheM sira para biThAkara rkheNge| bacce bhI ghara meM bujurgoM ke sAtha sahayoga kreN| bUr3hoM kI kevala eka hI khvAhiza hotI hai ki bur3hApe meM beTA unakA sahArA bana jaae| jaise jaba beTA baccA thA to unhoMne hAtha thAmA thA aura Aja jaba ve bUr3he ho gae haiM to beTA hAtha thAma le| bur3hApA to bacapana kA punarAgamana hotA hai| tabhI to yuvA aura buz2urga eka-dUsare ke lie sArthaka ho sakeMge aura isI bahAne unakA hamAre Upara rahane vAlA farz2a kucha kama ho skegaa| kama-se-kama utane varSa taka to unakI a~gulI thAmeM jitanI unhoMne hamAre bacapana meM thAmI thiiN| yaha na samajheM ki Apa kevala apanI mehanata ke balabUte para panapa rahe haiM, jitanI ApakI mehanata hai usase kahIM adhika Apake mAtA-pitA ke AzIrvAda haiM jo Apa pragati kI sIr3hiyA~ car3ha rahe haiN| unhIM kI duAoM se agalI sAta pIr3hiyA~ bhI phalatIphUlatI haiN| jinheM mA~-bApa kI duAe~ nahIM milatIM ve taqadIra ke kitane bhI sikaMdara kyoM na hoM, para kabhI-na-kabhI to ve viDambanA aura nirAzA ke garta meM girate hI haiN| __maiM eka parivAra se paricita huuN| bAta taba kI hai jaba usa ghara meM naI-naI zAdI huI bahU AI thii| vaha apanI dAdI sAsa ke pAsa baiThI huI thI, usake lie jo khAnA AyA usameM kucha rUkhI-sUkhI-sI kar3aka roTiyA~, patalI-sI dAla aura dikhane meM besvAda-sI sabjI thii| bahU ko bahuta aTapaTA lagA ki bUr3hI dAdI jisake mu~ha meM dA~ta bhI nahIM haiM unheM aisA khAnA ! dUsarI bAra jaba sAsa roTI dene AI to usane dekhA ki bahU roTiyA~ ulaTa-palaTa kara dekha rahI hai| sAsa ne pUchA, 'kyA dekha rahI hai ?' usane kahA, 'kucha nahIM mammIjI, basa dekha rahI hU~ ki Apake ghara kA rivAz2a kyA hai ? jaba merI zAdI huI to vidAI ke vaqta mere pApA ne kahA thA isa ghara meM jo rivAz2a calate the unheM bhUla jAo aura jahA~ jA rahI ho vahA~ ke rivAz2a apanAnA, vahI sIkhanA, unhIM ko nibhaanaa| to maiM dekha rahI hU~ ki jo Apa dAdI mA~ ke sAtha nibhA rahI haiM, vahI mujhe Age nibhAnA hai|' sAsa ne pUchA 'mtlb'| bahU ne kahA, 'matalaba kyA, rivAz2a sIkha rahI huuN| mammIjI maiM kucha nahIM kara rahI sirpha isa ghara kA saMskAra sIkha rahI huuN|' sAsa ne kahA 'yAni tU mujhe aisI roTiyA~ khilaaegii|''nhiiN mammIjI maiM to Apako 94 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #96 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ dekhakara isa ghara kI paramparA nibhAU~gI / ' use dhakkA lagatA hai aura vaha itanA hI kahatI hai, 'tujhe narma roTI khilAnI hai to tU banAkara khilA de |''koii bAta nahIM mammIjI maiM banAkara khilA duuNgii| jaba mujhe banAnA hai to apanI bUr3hI dAdI sAsa ke lie bhI khAnA banAne meM kahA~ taqalIfa hai / ' eka samajhadAra bahU ke kAraNa agale dina se bUr3hI dAdI ko narma roTI milanI zurU ho gii| dUsare dina jaba vaha dAdI kI thAlI ulaTa-palaTa kara dekhatI hai to sAsa pUchatI hai, kyA dekha rahI hai / bahU javAba detI hai, 'dekha rahI hU~ jaba Apa bUr3hI ho jAe~gI to sTIla kI thAlI lagAnI hai yA miTTI kI / '' to " kyA tU mujhe miTTI ke ThIkaroM meM khAnA khilAegI ?' 'maiM kahA~ khilAU~gI, maiM to basa Apake ghara kA rivAz2a sIkha rahI hU~ / thAlI badalatI hai| bUr3hI dAdI ke faTe-purAne, maile-kucaile vastra bhI badala jAte haiM, TUTI-phUTI cArapAI kI jagaha acchA palaMga aura bistara laga jAte haiN| kamarA suvyavasthita ho jAtA hai aura jaba usakA aMta samaya nikaTa AtA hai to vaha apane pote kI bahU ko itanA AzIrvAda dekara jAtI hai ki Aja bhI bahU apanI dAdI sAsa ko yAda kara azru bahAtI hai, zraddhA samarpita karatI hai ki unake AzIrvAda se hI Aja parivAra dina-ba-dina sukha-samRddhi kI ora niraMtara pragati kara rahA hai / jo iMsAna apane baccoM kI qhuzI ke lie apanI pAI-pAI luTA detA hai, vahI bacce apane bUr3he mA~-bApa ko katarA bhara rozanI dene se kyoM katarAte haiM ? jina kaMdhoM para baiThakara hamane kabhI z2iMdagI ke mele dekhe the Aja jaba ve kaMdhe jhuka gae haiM to mere bhAI, unheM apane kaMdhe kA sahArA dene se kyoM bacate phirate ho ? nizcaya hI Aja kI pIr3hI bahuta samajhadAra ho gaI hai, para jitanI samajhadAra huI hai utanI hI qhudagarz2a bhI / mA~-bApa ke sAtha aisA vyavahAra karate haiM mAno unake sAmane ve nire-buddha hoN| baccoM ko lagatA hai ki jo unhoMne kaha diyA vaha apa-TU-DeTa hai, mA~-bApa jo kahate haiM vo to AuTa-oNpha-DeTa hai| bhAI yAda rakho, jo bur3hApA Aja unheM hai, kala vaha tumheM bhI hogA / bur3hApA sabhI ko Ane vAlA hai| agara Apa cAhate haiM ki bur3hApe meM ApakI sevA ho sake to kRpA kara apane buz2urgoM kI upekSA na kareM / prakRti kI vyavasthA to hama sabhI jAnate haiM ki hama para vApasa vahI AegA, jo hama kareMge yA karane vAle haiN| acchA karo, acchA pAo; sevA karo, sevA pAo / For Personal & Private Use Only | 95 Page #97 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ bur3hApe meM cauthI samasyA Arthika hotI hai| bUr3he AdamI ke pAsa dhana hai to bacce bhI sevA kareMge aura bacce na bhI kareM to dhana ke dvArA vaha khuda apanI vyavasthA baiThA sakatA hai| Ajakala vRddha logoM ke rahane ke lie deza meM aneka zaharoM meM kAfI behatara ArAma talaba sthAna bane hue haiN| jayapura meM bhI hai, haridvAra meM bhI hai, koyambatara meM bhI hai, jodhapura meM bhI bana rahA hai aura bhI zaharoM meM haiN| vyakti ko cAhie ki vaha apane bur3hApe kI surakSA ke lie apanI Aya kA eka hissA z2arUra baiMka meM rkhe| baccoM ke moha meM par3akara sArA dhana unhIM ke lie na luTA deN| kisI ne mujhe eka philma kI kahAnI sunAI hai| kahAnI bar3I dilacaspa hai, iMsAna ko socane ke lie majabUra karatI hai| philma kA nAma hai : baagvaan| yAni eka pitA ne kisa taraha apane baccoM ko par3hAne-likhAne meM apanA sArA dhana kharca kiyA, para vahI bacce kisa taraha mA~-bApa kA hI ba~TavArA kara lete haiN| mA~ eka beTe ke pAsa rahegI aura pitA dUsare beTe ke paas| jabaki vyakti ne kisI anAtha bacce ko madada dI, to vahI bar3A hokara unako pitA yA saMrakSaka nahIM, sAkSAt bhagavAna mAnatA hai| ___maiM AgAha karanA cAhU~gA ki bAgavAna kI vaha ghaTanA kahIM Apake sAtha hI ghaTita na ho jAe isalie apane sukhI aura surakSita bur3hApe ke lie abhI se jAgarUkatA brteN| dhyAna rakheM apanA sArA dhana kevala baccoM ko hI na deM, varan usakA kucha hissA usa skUla meM jAkara z2arUra DoneTa kareM jisameM kabhI Apa par3he haiN| usa aspatAla meM bhI z2arUra deM, jahA~ Apane svAsthya-lAbha liyA hai| una garIboM ke lie bhI DoneTa kareM jo bhUkhe-pyAse-naMge azikSita haiN| hama apane bur3hApe ko kaise Arogyamaya banA sakate haiN| use kaise sArthakatA kA AyAma deM aura kisa taraha z2iMdAdila iMsAna kI taraha jI sakate haiM, isa hetu kucha sUtra nivedana kara rahA huuN| bur3hApe ko dUra karane kA pahalA maMtra : bur3hApA svasthya aura nirogI ho| hama zarIra aura mana se svastha raheM-isake lie z2arUrI hai-sadA sAtvika, saMtulita aura sImita AhAra liijie| saMtulita AhAra Apako nirogI bnaaegaa| aba yaha ApakA peTa hai, koI koThI nahIM ki usameM kucha bhI DAlate jaaeN| jaisA bhojana Apa kareMge vaisA hI rakta, vaisA hI bhAva, vaisI UrjA utpanna hogii| jaise-jaise umra bar3hatI hai pAcana-kSamatA kama hotI jAtI hai, lekina khAne kI 96 ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM-6 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #98 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ cAhata meM peTa para atirikta bhAra par3atA hai aura bImAriyoM kA AkramaNa zurU ho jAtA hai| yAda rakhie : bImAriyoM kA rAstA peTa se hokara guz2aratA hai| Apa eka kAma kareM-Apa eka suvyavasthita cArTa banAe~ jisameM pauSTika AhAra kI pradhAnatA ho| khanija, lavaNa, viTAmina se bharapUra bhojana kareM, harI sabjiyoM kA, phaloM aura dUdha kA prayoga kreN| kabhI-kabhI svAda badalane ke lie caTakhAre le sakate haiM, para sAvadhAna ! ise Adata na bnaaeN| subaha halke nAzte ke sAtha eka gilAsa dUdha leN| gyAraha baje ke AsapAsa sAdA bhojana kareM, para miThAI se paraheja rkheN| do-tIna phulakoM ke sAtha harI sabjiyA~, dAla khAie, thor3A-sA cAvala bhI le sakate haiN| khAnA khAne ke bAda chAcha z2arUra piijie| dopahara meM phala yA phaloM kA rasa liijie| cAya-kAphI kI Adata se nijAta paaie| ye mIThe z2ahara haiN| sUraja Dhalane ke pUrva bhojana karane kA prayAsa kIjie tAki sone se pUrva Apako cAra ghaMTe pAnI pIne ke lie mila skeN| agara khAnA khAkara turaMta so jAe~ge to bhojana kaise paca pAegA aura natIz2A? dUsare dina apaca ho jaaegaa| khaTTI DakAreM Ae~gI, gaisa bnegii| hA~, agara rAta meM bhUkha kA ahasAsa ho to gAya kA dUdha athavA AdhA-pauna gilAsa malAI utarA dUdha piyA jA sakatA hai| isase Apa svastha rheNge| gA~dhIjI bakarI kA dUdha lete the| bakarI kA dUdha halakA hotA hai| jaldI paca jAtA hai| vaise gAya kA dUdha sahaja upalabdha ho jAtA hai| Apa gAya kA dUdha liijie| prANAyAma avazya kiijie| prANAyAma ke lie zyAsa lene kI sahI vidhi siikhie| Apane kisI bacce ko zvAsa lete hue dekhA hogA aura na dekhA ho to use gaura se dekheN| zizu peTa se sA~sa letA hai| zvAsa lete samaya usakA peTa Upara nIce hotA rahatA hai| zvAsa lene kA yahI sahI tarIqA hai| hama eka minaTa meM 16 sA~sa lete haiN| agara hama g2alata sA~sa lete haiM to dhyAna rakhie ki hama hara dina meM teIsa haz2Ara bAra galatI karate haiM / sA~sa ko kabhI jaldI yA jhaTake se na chodd'e| balki usameM layabaddhatA banI rhe| zAMta, lambI aura gaharI sAMsa hI zvAsa lene kI sahI vidhi hai| subaha-subaha khAlI peTa uSApAna kIjie arthAt rAta ko tAMbe ke loTe meM yA miTTI ke ghar3e meM pAnI bharakara rakha dIjie aura subaha uThakara do-tIna 97 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #99 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #100 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #101 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ jaaeN| vahA~ saptAha-do saptAha z2arUra rheN| aba inhIM ko dekhie- rAmagopAla jI rAThI ko| bayAsI varSa ke bujurga haiN| para roja dasa-bIsa ki.mI. cala sakate haiN| prabhu kI bhakti meM thirakane zurU ho jAe~ to tIna ghaMTe taka nRtya karate rahate haiN| inakA bur3hApA yAnI baccoM kI taraha khilakhilAtA huA, gunagunAtA huA, thirakatA huaa| Apa bhI apane bur3hApe ko aise hI gAte-jhUmate-nAcate hue jIne kA mAnasa banA leN| bur3hApe ko banAie zAMti, mukti aura kaivalya kA dvaar| himmata na hArie, prabhu nA bisArie, ha~sate-muskurAte hue z2iMdagI gujaarie| ha~sate-muskurAte hue jInA jisako A gyaa| TUTe hue diloM ko sInA jisako A gyaa| aise devatAoM ke caraNa pkhaarie| ha~sate-muskurAte hue z2iMdagI gujaarie| kAma aisA kIjie jisase ho sabakA bhlaa| bAteM aisI kIjie jisameM ho zahada ghulaa| mIThI vANI bola sabako gale se lgaaie| ha~sate-muskurAte hue z2iMdagI gujaarie| muzkiloM-musIbatoM kA karanA ho jo qhAtmA, hara samaya kahate rahie : zukra hai prmaatmaa| gile-zikave karake apanA hAla nA bigAr3ie, ha~sate-muskurAte hue z2iMdagI gujaarie| jIvana meM himmata rkhie| duniyA meM sArA camatkAra himmata kA hI hai| himmata hai to jIvana hai, himmata TUTI ki bAz2I hAtha se gii| jIvana meM himmata rakho aura sadA ha~so aura ha~sAo, na pha~so, na phNsaao| qhuza raho, qhuzI baaNtto| na dukhI raho, na dukhI karo, na dukha baaNtto| jaba Apa qhuda qhuza raheMge to Apake pAsa Ane vAle sabhI qhuza hokara jaaeNge| jIvana meM eka niyama to sabake hI honA cAhie ki maiM hara roz2a kama-se kama cAra logoM ko to avazya hNsaauuNgaa| bur3hApA A gayA hai to dhaMdhA-pAnI chodd'o| apana koI dhaMdhA karane ke lie hI paidA nahIM hue haiN| pacAsa yA sATha varSa kI umra taka vyApAra kara lIjie, phira vyApAra baccoM ko saMbhalAkara qhuda hari-bhajana meM laga jaaie| jaise jIvana 100 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #102 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ ke zuruAtI paccIsa varSoM ko zikSA-dIkSA ke lie lagAyA, vaise hI agale paccIsa-tIsa varSa ghara-gRhasthI aura vyApAra meM lagAie, para jisa dina 60 varSa kI umra ho jAe, ghara-gRhasthI se moha - mamatA kama karane laga jAe~ aura taba saMsAra meM bhI saMtoM kI taraha jie~ / na koI cAha, na koI ciMtA / basa masta raheM / sabase prema kareM, sabako prema bA~TeM / basa, yahI ApakA svabhAva bana jaae| sATha kI umra ke bAda bhI yadi ghara-gRhasthI aura dhaMdhe meM ulajhe raheMge to jIvana kI qhuzI china jAegI aura ApakA bur3hApA azAMtimaya ho jaaegaa| ApakI z2iMdagI kevala ghasITArAma hokara raha jAegI / are bhAI, jIvana to prabhu kA prasAda hai| isa prasAda kA prasAda - bhAva se bhI kucha AnaMda lo| Aqhira kaba taka hama cakkI meM pisate rheNge| thor3I qhuda kI bhI sudha liijie| qhuda kA bhI kalyANa kIjie / bacapana jJAnArjana ke lie sauMpie, javAnI dhanArjana ke lie aura bur3hApA puNyArjana ke lie| Apa do qadama prabhu kI ora bar3hAte jAie, prabhu cAra qadama Apake qarIba Ate jAe~ge / maiM eka deva- - puruSa kA ullekha karU~gA / nAma hai : dharmapAla jI jain| hAI levala ke eDavokeTa rahe haiN| pichale karIba 15 varSoM se vAnaprastha jIvana jIte haiM, lagabhaga 50 varSa kI umra meM hI yaha saMkalpa le liyA thA ki ve jisa dina 60 varSa ke hoMge, prekTisa chor3a deMge / basa, 61 veM varSa meM praveza karate hI ve mukta ho ge| pahale vakAlAta kI prakTisa chor3I, dhIre-dhIre satsaMga aura svAdhyAya kA zauka lagA, saMtoM ke sAnnidhya meM jAne laga ge| Aja ve saMsAra meM rahate hue bhI saMta haiM / zAMti, vinamratA aura AnaMda kI pratimUrti / mujhe to ve devatulya hI naz2ara Ate haiN| aisA jInA bhI dhanya hai / bacapana diyA jJAna ke lie, yauvana diyA gRhasthI aura dhana ke lie aura aba bur3hApA samarpita kara raheM svayaM ke mokSa ke lie| dharma, artha, kAma aura mokSa - cAroM puruSArtha pUre hue| 50-60 varSa kI umra taka artha aura kAma- puruSArtha ThIka hai| 60 ke bAda to dharma aura mokSapuruSArtha hI sabakA dhyeya ho / Aja ve do mAha ghara para rahate haiM, do mAha haridvAra rahate haiM, do mAha hamAre pAsa saMbodhi-dhAma meM satsaMga-sAdhanA karate haiN| pUrI taraha Atmasamartha, Atmanirbhara / bur3hApe kI vyavasthA ke lie dhana kI pUrI vyavasthA kara rakhI hai| para 31 mArca taka jitanA baiMka - byAja AyA, use AnA - pAI sahita qhuda para aura paropakAra para lagA dete haiM / For Personal & Private Use Only | 101 Page #103 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #104 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #105 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ :2aSEBEER kaise deM rogoM ko mAta svastha rahanA jIvana kI sabase bar3I daulata hai| svAsthya zAMti aura samRddhi kA AdhAra hai| jaisA tana hogA vaisA hI mana hogaa| ise viparIta bhI kahA jA sakatA hai ki jaisA mana hogA vaisA tana hogaa| svastha tana meM hI svastha mana kA nivAsa hotA hai aura eka svastha mana hI svastha tana kA AdhAra hotA hai| mAnasika rUpa se sadA ciMtita rahane vAle kA blaDa prezara hAI aura lo hotA rahatA hai| jo cir3acir3e aura gussaila svabhAva ke vyakti hote haiM, unake hArTa meM jaba taba darda uTha AtA hai| mAnasika tanAva jIvana meM sabhI rogoM kA kAraNa banatA hai| isake viparIta agara mana meM prema, zAMti, Ananda aura muskAna bhAva rahe, to tana kI 80 pratizata bImAriyA~ apane Apa hI kaTa jAtI haiN| deha kI svasthatA ke lie dimAg2a aura mana kI svasthatA anivArya hai| hamArA jIvana vINA ke tAroM kI taraha hai jinheM yadi saMtulana ke niyama ke AdhAra para calAyA jAe to vINA ke tAra adbhuta sukUna aura saMgIta de sakate haiN| tAroM ko adhika kasa diyA jAe to karkaza saMgIta-dhvani nikalegI aura DhIlA chor3a 104 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #106 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ dene para bhI besurI AvAz2a hI aaegii| insAna ko vINA ke tAroM se preraNA lenI cAhie aura vINA ke tAroM ke samAna hI vyakti ko apane tana aura mana ko bhI sAdhanA caahie| hamArI deha kevala nazvara nahIM hai balki nUra kI taraha jagamaga hai aura Izvara yA raba yA allAha ke rahane kA sthAna bhI hai| jaise maMdira yA masjida meM sigareTa car3hAnA pApa samajhA jAtA hai usI taraha vyakti apane zarIra ke prati bhI maMdira kA bhAva rakhe to usake lie isa zarIra ko g2alata cIz2oM kA AdI banAnA dUbhara ho jaaegaa| yaha hamAre g2alata naz2arie kA pariNAma hai ki hamane bhagavAna ko maMdira, masjida, giraz2A aura gurudvAre taka hI sImita kara diyA hai, jabaki hara prANI meM, prANimAtra meM, sampUrNa prakRti meM hI Izvara virAjamAna hai / jaba maMdiroM meM patthara kI prabhu-pratimA ko mAkhana-mizrI car3hAnA 'bhoga' kahalAtA hai to apane hI ghara meM kAma karane vAle naukara ko mAkhana-mizrI car3hAnA kyA yaha bhoga nahIM hogA? jo maMdira meM jAkara to bhoga lagAte haiM lekina ghara pahu~cakara apane beTe kI choTI-sI g2alatI para use mAfa na karake thappar3a jar3a dete haiM to yaha thappar3a usa bacce ko nahIM maMdira meM rahane vAle kAnhA ko lagatA hai| jarUrI hai ki vyakti apane zarIra ke prati thor3A-sA jAgarUka ho jAe to vaha apane svAsthya ke lie behatara iMtaz2Ama kara sakatA hai| hama sabhI jAnate haiM ki paMcatattvoM se isa deha kA nirmANa hotA hai| pRthvI, jala, agni, vAyu aura AkAza-jIvana aura jagata ke mUla buniyAdI pA~ca tattva haiN| inakA milana aura saMtulana hI jIvana hai aura inakA bikharanA yA bigar3anA hI vyakti ke lie roga aura mauta hai| jo loga roz2a-ba-roz2a bImAra par3ate haiM, jinake kabhI ghuTanoM meM, kabhI kamara meM, kabhI pITha meM darda rahatA hai yA kisI ko gaisa Trabala hai, hArTa pezeMTa hai, dimAg2a bojhila rahatA hai, ve loga zarIra ke ina pA~ca tattvoM ke asaMtulana kA zikAra hote haiN| vyakti ina pA~ca tattvoM kA saMtulana sthApita karake apanA upacAra kara sakatA hai| isalie rugNa vyakti ko cAhie ki vaha sabase pahale prakRti ke sAnnidhya meM jaae| jaba Apako ahasAsa hotA hai ki Apa bImAra ho rahe haiM to sabase pahale Apa apanA khAnapAna badaleM aura havA-pAnI badalane ke lie kisI dUsare sthAna | 105 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #107 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #108 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #109 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ agara Apako lagatA hai ki Apake ghuTane dukhate haiM yA kamara darda karatI hai to jala tattva kI zaraNa meM jaaie| eka bAlTI pAnI garama kIjie, eka bAlTI ThaMDA pAnI bhI rakhie aura jo bhAga darda karatA hai use tIna minaTa pahale garama pAnI meM rakhie aura phira tIna minaTa ThaMDe pAnI meM rkhie| pA~ca bAra isa kriyA ko dohraaie| garama-ThaMDe pAnI ke sAhacarya se nasoM meM rukA huA khUna phira ThIka se calane lagegA aura zarIra kA darda zanaiH zanaiH ThIka ho jaaegaa| hama snAna kyoM karate haiM ? jala tattva ke samparka meM rahane ke lie| pratidina sAbuna bhI na lgaaeN| saptAha meM eka yA do bAra hI sAbuna kA prayoga kreN| gIle tauliye se zarIra ko thor3A ragar3ate hue pauNchie| eka to isase raktapravAha acchI taraha hogaa| dUsarA jo roma-chidra dhUla aura pasIne se avaruddha ho gae haiM, ve khula jaaeNge| pasInA to nikalanA hI cAhie tabhI to dUSita tattva bAhara nikleNge| snAna karane se tAz2agI AtI hai aura zarIra kI uttejanAeM, vikAra tathA doSa apane Apa zAMta ho jAte haiN| sarovara meM snAna karane ke bajAya, bahate pAnI meM snAna karanA adhika lAbhadAyaka hai| pAnI ke vega se vidyuta utpanna kI jA sakatI hai, to aisA vegavAna pAnI jaba hamAre zarIra se TakarAtA hai to UrjA utpanna hotI hai| yaha UrjA hamAre zarIra ko Urjasvita karatI hai| dasa bAlTI pAnI se snAna karane kI apekSA nadI meM eka bAra DubakI lagAnA z2yAdA lAbhadAyaka hai| zarIra ke zailsa ko cArja karane ke lie jala-tattva Avazyaka hai| hamAre zarIra meM tIsarA tattva hai : agni| agni-tattva ko apane zarIra ke sAtha jor3ane kA sabase behatarIna mAdhyama sUrya hai| hamameM se pratyeka ko prabhAtakAlIna sUrya ke samakSa kama-se-kama pandraha minaTa taka avazya hI baiThanA caahie| Apane dekhA hai ki hamAre deza meM sUrya ko arghya diyA jAtA hai, kyoM? isIlie ki isa bahAne hI sahI, kama-se-kama tIna minaTa to sUrya ke sAmane khar3e raha skeNge| saura-UrjA se to Aja cUlhe jala rahe haiM, gAr3iyA~ cala rahI haiM, pavanacakkiyA~ apanA kAma kara rahI haiN| yAnI sUrya agni kA piMDa hai| agni hI khAnA pakAtI hai, iMjana calAtI hai| zarIra meM grahaNa kiyA gayA bhojana bhI jaTharAgni meM hI pacatA hai| Apa bhI zarIra kI jagar3ana aura zarIra ke doSoM ko 108 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #110 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ dUra karane ke lie sUrya yA USNatApradhAna tattvoM kA upayoga kara sakate haiM / kaI dafA aise bhI prayoga dekhane ko mile haiM ki kamara, pITha yA gardana meM darda hone jAne para, canaqa par3a jAne para yA lacaka par3a jAne para bistara ko teja dhUpa meM rakha diyA jAtA hai aura phira usa para Adhe ghaMTA leTa jAne kI salAha dI jAtI hai / dhUpa meM bistara kI ruI garma ho jAtI hai aura usa para sone se zarIra kI sikAI ho jAtI hai| Apane dekhA hai ki maignIphAiMga glAsa dvArA jaba sUrya kI rozanI ko phokasa kara kAg2az2a para DAlA jAtA hai to vaha kAg2az2a jala uThatA hai / hamArI deha to use apane saMpUrNa rUpa meM grahaNa karane meM sakSama haiN| eka gujarAtI bhAI haiN| unake zarIra kA to sUrya kI kiraNoM ke sAtha aisA tAlamela hai ki ve mAtra sUrya kI Adhe ghaMTA AtApanA lekara caubIsa ghaMTe nirAhAra rahate haiM aura aisA ve pUre sAlabhara kara sakate haiM / ve jaba mujhase mile to mujhe batAyA gayA ki unhoMne pichale do sAla se sUrya razmiyoM ke alAvA anya kisI bhI prakAra ke annajala kA upayoga nahIM kiyA hai| himAlaya meM bhI saMta loga niyamita sUrya - AtApanA liyA karate haiM / eka saMta hue haiM : svAmI vizuddhAnaMda jI / ve apanI kuTiyA ke bAhara baiThe hue the / tabhI dekhA ki eka ghAyala cir3iyA jamIna para girI hai| unhoMne usa cir3iyA ko apane pAsa maMgavAyA / unake pAsa taraha-taraha ke maignIphAiMga glAsa the| unhoMne una vibhinna glAsoM se cir3iyA ke vibhinna aMgoM para sUrya kI rozanI ko phokasa kiyaa| thor3I dera meM vaha cir3iyA phar3aphar3Ane lagI aura jaba usakI coMca meM do bUMda pAnI DAlA to cir3iyA meM jAna A gaI aura vaha pharra se ur3a gaI / Apane videziyoM ko dekhA hogaa| ve hamAre yahA~ Ate haiM aura govA ke samudrataTa para dhUpa meM par3e rahate haiM, 'sana bAtha' lete haiM / ve pratidina cAra-chaH ghaMTe dhUpa meM bitAte haiM / isase unake tvacA saMbaMdhI roga ThIka ho jAte haiN| pRthvI aura agni tattva ke sAhacarya se vyakti kA lakavA roga bhI ThIka kiyA jA sakatA hai / rAjasthAna ke registAna meM jo bAlU reta pAI jAtI hai usake ATha-dasa bore maMgavA liijie| use dhUpa meM tIna-cAra ghaMTe rakhie, phira lakavAgrasta vyakti ko 109 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #111 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #112 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ For Personal & Private Use Only Page #113 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ prANAyAma ko saralatApUrvaka karane ke lie Apa kriyAyoga kIjie yA sudarzana kriyA kIjie / Ajakala kapAla bhAti kA bhI qhUba pracalana ho rahA hai| prANAyAma karavA kauna rahA hai, yaha kama mahatvapUrNa hai / prANAyAma Apa kitane mana se kara rahe haiM yaha qhAsa hai / pahale dina Apa pA~ca minaTa se zuruAta kIjie / dhIre-dhIre usameM eka-eka minaTa kA samaya baThAte rahie / jisa dina Apa sahaja meM pandraha minaTa taka pahu~ca jAe~, Apa apane tana-mana kA nirIkSaNa kara sakate haiN| Apa pAe~ge ki Apake tana-mana meM pUrvApekSA kAfI sudhAra huA hai, tana-mana ke vikAra kama hue haiM, tAz2agI milI hai| Apa UrjAvAna hue haiM / aMtima tattva hai : AkAza / ise sAdhane ke lie hama dhyAna karate haiM / dhyAna meM hama vicAra nahIM krte| jaise AkAza khAlI, vaise hI apane mana ko pUrNarUpeNa khAlI karane kA prayAsa karate haiM aura kevala eka hI bodha rakhate haiM ki maiM apane mana ko, dimAga ko zUnya aura zAMtimaya banA rahA hU~ / 'aMtaramana ko zAMtimaya banA rahA hU~' yaha dhAraNA rakhate hue hama pahale dina tIna minaTa, dUsare dina cAra minaTa, isa taraha kramazaH eka-eka minaTa bar3hAte hue ar3atAlIsa miniTa taka pahuMcate haiM aura svayaM ko AkAza tattva ke sAtha jor3ate haiM / dhyAna dharanA yAnI bhItara se AkAza ho jAnA hai| hAlAMki AkAza meM bhI bAdala ghumar3ate haiM, A~dhI-tUfAna calate haiM, ausa- koharA ghiratA hai, para isake bAvaz2Uda aisA vaqta bhI AtA hai jaba AkAza sabase niSpRha aura mukta hotA hai| hameM hamArI aMtas- sattA meM bhI AkAza kI taraha hI vicAra aura kalpanAoM kI dhUla ur3atI naz2ara AtI hai, para dhIre-dhIre, jyoM-jyoM hama dhairya dhAraNa karate haiM, bhItara meM dhyAna aura zAMti donoM hI sAkAra hote cale jAte haiM / to pRthvI, jala, agni, vAyu aura AkAza - ye ve pA~ca tattva haiM jinake jarie hama svastha aura AnaMdamaya rahate haiM / inase hamAre dila, dimAga aura zarIra kA saMtulana sthApita hotA hai| zarIra kA pratyeka aMga mahattvapUrNa hai| deha kI dRSTi se hara vyakti karor3apati hai / agara eka A~kha kI kImata dasa lAkha hai to dUsarI A~kha bhI dasa lAkha kI hai| eka gurdA dasa lAkha kA to dUsarA gurdA bhI dasa lAkha kA hai| isa prakAra cAlIsa lAkha se Apa lakhapati ho ge| are, zarIra kA hara aMga bezaqImatI hai| ise nazvara mata samajho, vyartha mata smjho| yaha ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM - 7 112 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #114 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ to kudarata kA bahuta bar3A karizmA hai, bahuta bar3I daulata hai| ise saMjoie aura ise svastha rkhie| loga lAla battI vAloM ke pIche ghUmate rahate haiM, jabaki sAre maMtrAlaya hamAre pAsa haiN| pA~va yAtAyAta-maMtrI haiM, hAtha zrama maMtrI hai, peTa khAdya-maMtrI hai, hRdaya gRha-maMtrI, zvAsa svAsthya-maMtrI, A~kheM dUrasaMcAra maMtrI, jIbha sUcanAprasAraNamaMtrI, kAna kAnUna-maMtrI, dimAga zikSA maMtrI, prANa pradhAna-maMtrI aura AtmA rASTrapati hai| sabhI to hamameM samAyA huA hai| Apa apane zarIra ke qhaz2Ane ko smjheN| zarIra ko nazvara kahanA chodd'eN| jinakA zarIra beDaula ho gayA hai, peTa bAhara A gayA hai, kUlhe nikala rahe haiM, ve apane zarIra ke prati thor3e saceta ho jAe~ to sabhI svastha, nirogI aura charahare ho sakate haiN| hamAre svAsthya kA sIdhA saMbaMdha hamAre rasoIghara se bhI hai| dekha lIjie ki Apake rasoIghara meM kahI chipakalI to nahIM cala rahI hai| khiDakI, daravAjoM meM maccharajAliyA~ lagI haiM yA nahIM lagI haiM? macchara, makkhiyA~ to nahIM bhinabhinA rahI haiM? sambhava hai rasoIghara meM jo sAmAna rakhA hai, usake AsapAsa kaoNkaroca calate hoN| rasoIghara hamAre svAsthya kA niyaMtraNakakSa hai| rasoIghara apane Apa meM sampUrNa cikitsAlaya hai, ArogyazAstra hai| rasoIghara agnideva ko pUjita poSita karane kA maMdira hai| cAhe zrAvaNa kI tIja ho yA dIpAvalI kI amAvasa, holI kA dina ho yA rakSAbaMdhana kI pUnama, hara tyauhAra ko manAne kI vahI zaraNasthalI hai| hama kitanI bhI jImaNavAriyoM meM jIma kara kyoM na A jAe~, para antataH apane hI ghara kI rasoI kI zaraNa meM AnA hotA hai| Aqhira sabase bar3A devatA to anna devatA hI hai| isa anna devatA kA nivAsa hamAre rasoIghara meM hotA hai| rasoIghara meM jo cIja jisa bhAva se banegI, Age vaisA hI pariNAma niklegaa| zubha bhAva se rasoI banAne kA pariNAma bhI acchA niklegaa| rote, jhIMkate, jaise-taise khAnA banAoge to usakA pariNAma bhI vaisA hI aaegaa| ApakA baccA cir3acir3a karatA hai, dina bhara rotA rahatA hai to yaha na samajheM ki usakA svabhAva cir3acir3A hai balki use khAnA hI usa taraha kA mila rahA hai| khAnA banAne meM mana nahIM lagatA, devarAnI-jeThAnI meM jhagar3A hai, ukhar3e mana se khAnA banAyA jA rahA hai to usakA prabhAva bhI vaisA hI hogaa| ghara meM milajulakara khAnA banAe~ to ghara vAloM 113 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #115 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ meM bhI prema kA saMcAra hogA / ha~sate - khilakhilAte khAnA banAe~ / kahate haiM n 'jaisA khAve anna vaisA rahe mana' / jaise Apake mana ke bhAva hoMge vaisA hI khAne kA pariNAma AegA aura vaisA hI prabhAva tana aura mana para hogA / rasoIghara meM saphAI rkheN| subaha, dopahara, zAma ko klIniMga kareM tAki jIva-jaMtu - kITANu paidA na hoN| saphAI pahalI AvazyakatA hai to sAmagrI dUsarI AvazyakatA / Dibbe bhare hue rakheM, para Upara Dhake hue rkheN| gRhalakSmI vahI hai jo rasoIghara ko bharapUra rkhe| jisa ghara meM khAnA khAne se pahale atithiyoM ko khAnA khilAyA jAtA hai usa ghara kI mATI bhI maMdira ke caMdana ke tulya hotI hai / jisa ghara meM atithiyoM kA sammAna nahIM hotA, mehamAnoM kI Avabhagata nahIM hotI, vahA~ kama-se-kama hama jaise loga to AhAra lenA pasaMda nahIM karate / pahale gharoM meM 'atithi devo bhavaH' likhA jAtA thA, jamAnA badalA 'svAgatam yA velakama' likhane lage, aura jamAnA badalA, aba likhA jAtA hai ' kuttoM se saavdhaan|' yaha hamArI saMskRti kI girAvaTa hai / rasoIghara meM svAsthya ke lie jo upayogI aura z2arUrI sAdhana haiM, unheM avazya rkhiyegaa| sabase pahale, ajavAina z2arUra rakheM aura kisI-na-kisI bahAne roz2AnA eka cuTakI ajavAina z2arUra khA lIjiegA / jinheM gaisa kI praoNblama rahatI hai, ve adhakacarI AdhI cammaca ajavAina meM eka cuTakI kAlA namaka milAkara phA~ka leM, Upara se gunagune pAnI meM nIMbU DAlakara piileN| gaisa kI praoNbalma meM rAhata milegii| apane bhojana meM lauMga kA prayoga bhI z2arUra kareM kyoMki lauMga se pitta kA prakopa naSTa hotA hai| z2yAdA pitta par3ate hoM to rAta meM dasa lauMga pAnI meM bhigo dIjie aura subaha unheM pIsakara mizrI kA pAuDara milAe aura zarbata banAkara pI liijie| lagAtAra tIna dina taka isakA sevana kareM, pitta giranA baMda ho jaaegaa| sAbuta dhaniye meM kailziyama aura anya khanija lavaNa hote haiM / ataH isakA prayoga karanA bhI na bhUleM / kAlImirca kA bhI upayoga kreN| kAlImirca kapha kI bImArI meM fAyademaMda hotI hai| galA bhArI ho jAe to khola detI hai / jaba bhI khA~sI -: - z2ukAma ke kAraNa galA baiTha jAe to jhaTa se do kAlImirca aura mizrI kA eka Tukar3A mu~ha meM rakha lIjie / galA saaph'| 114 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #116 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ bhojana banAe~ to baghAra meM hIMga bhI DAleM / isa taraha kI cIz2eM zarIra meM upasthita vAyu, pitta aura kapha nAzaka hotI haiM / pratidina dAla bhI banAe~ / Alasya yA kaMjUsI na kareM ki kauna banAe, kucha bhI khA leNge| nahIM, kevala peTa hI nahIM bharanA hai, balki pUre zarIra ko enarjI denI hai| khAne meM dAla, sabjI, salAda z2arUra banAe~, khAne meM dahI bhI leM yA khAnA khAkara eka gilAsa chAcha z2arUra piieN| bhojana ke bAda chAcha pInA amRta ke samAna hai para khAnA khAte hI pAnI pInA z2ahara ke samAna hai / khAnA khAne ke eka ghaMTA bAda hI pAnI pIne kI Adata DAleM / subaha-subaha dUdha pIe~ / khAlI peTa cAya na piieN| cAya pInA hI hai to dopahara meM eka kapa pIe~ / sUkhe mevoM kA prayoga kareM - agara sambhava ho to / garmI ke dinoM meM mevA pahale pAnI meM do-cAra ghaMTe bhigokara rkheN| bAda meM upayoga kreN| vaise hara roz2a dasa bAdAma rAta ko bhigokara subaha cabA-cabAkara yA pIsakara khAnA dimAg2I sehata ke lie fAyademaMda TaoNnika hai / bhojana hI brahma hai, anna hI prANa hai, jIvana kA AdhAra hai| sau kAma chor3akara bhojana kIjie aura haz2Ara kAma chor3akara snAna kIjie / yahA~ apane deza meM khUba garmI hotI hai ataH loga roz2AnA nahA lete haiM, kintu videzoM meM jahA~ ThaMDa z2yAdA par3atI hai, sunA hai ki sAta-sAta dina taka loga nahAte hI nahIM haiM / vaise snAna kara lene se kevala zarIra zuddhi hI nahIM hotI hai, apitu zarIra kA pramAda dUra hotA hai aura tana - mana meM tAz2agI AtI hai / T isake alAvA, ghara meM sAmUhikatA banAe rakheM, milajulakara kAma kareM I eka para hI sArA vaz2ana na ddaaleN| yadi eka para hI bhAra rahegA to usakI kamara TUTa jaaegii| milajulakara khAnA banAne se kAma bhI jaldI qhatma ho jAegA aura khAne kA pariNAma bhI acchA nikalegA / jina bhAvoM se bhojana banAe~ge, bhojana bhI apanA vaisA hI pariNAma degA / Apa yadi hiMsA kA bhAva lie hue bhojana banAe~ge to bhojana khAne vAlA hiMsaka pravRtti kA ho jAegA, vahIM yadi prema, zAMti athavA prabhu- sumirana karate hue bhojana banAe~ge to ApakA bhojana bhI logoM para vaisA hI raMga laaegaa| aisA huA, eka dina sItAjI khAnA banA rahI thIM aura hanumAna jI se 115 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #117 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ kahA, 'A jA, khAnA khilA duuN|' hanumAna ne kahA, 'rahane do maaNjii|' sItAjI bolI, 'nahIM, nahIM, A jA, Aja maiM qhuda khAnA banA rahI hU~, tU A jA? hanumAna jI ne socA, patA nahIM kaba sItA maiyA ke hAtha kA khAnA mile, to baiTha gae khAne ke lie aura khAte gae, khAte hI cale ge| sAre naukara thaka gae, cAra logoM ke lie jo khAnA banAyA thA vaha qhatma huA hI, rasoI khAlI ho gii| sItA jI bhI banAte-banAte thaka gaIM, para hanumAna the ki ruke hI nhiiN| aba to sItA jI daur3I-daur3I rAma jI ke pAsa gaIM, sArA hAla sunaayaa| rAma ne pUchA, 'tumane unheM kyA khilAyA?' sItAjI bolIM 'khaanaa'| rAma ne ha~sate hue kahA, 'are unheM to prasAda khilaao| vaha khAnA khilAne ke kAbila nahIM haiN| use to basa prasAda do| yaha lo tulasI ke cAra patte, kahanA rAmajI kA prasAda hai|' sItA ne tulasI unheM de dii| hanumAna tRpta ho gaye aura bole, 'arI mA~, ye prasAda pahale kyoM nahIM khilAyA?' apane ghara ke bhojana ko bhI prasAda banA lo aura jaba pahalA kaura khAo to yaha na soco ki maiM khA rahA hU~, soco ki bhItara jo bhagavAna baiThe haiM, unheM bhoga car3hA rahA huuN| maMdira ke bhagavAna ko Apa gaMdI cIjeM nahIM car3hAte haiM phira bhItara ke bhagavAna ko kaise car3hA sakate haiM ? hama sabhI ke bhItara bhI to bhagavAna virAjamAna haiN| agara Apa yaha mAnasikatA banA leM to Apase bhI taMbAkU, jardA, sigareTa, zarAba, guTakhA apane zarIra ko car3ha na paaegaa| patA nahIM, zivabhakta zivarAtri ko bhAMga ghoTa-ghoTa kyoM car3hAte haiM ? are, qhuda ko pInA hai to ziva ko bIca meM kyoM lAte ho? agara car3hAnA hI hai to apanI pIne kI lata ko car3hA do| yaha burI lata bhagavAna ko car3hAo ki 'he prabhu, hama jo bhAMga pIte rahe haiM, Aja tumhAre dvAra para AyA hU~ aura Aja se isa burAI kA tyAga karatA huuN'| yaha hogI asalI zivarAtri athavA shivbhkti| bhojana bhI do prakAra kA hotA hai-1. preyakArI aura 2. shreykaarii| jo bhojana khAne meM priya lage vaha preyakArI aura jo pariNAma meM sukhadAyI hotA hai vaha zreyakArI / z2yAdA tela, mirca, masAle kA bhojana priyakArI to hotA hai, para zreyakArI nahIM hotaa| Ajakala loga zAdI-vivAha meM itane AiTama banAte haiM ki agalA ukatA jAtA hai ki kise khAe aura kise chodd'e| eka to khAnA 116 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #118 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ rasoiyoM ke hAtha kA banA huA / Upara se DAlate haiM z2abaradasta ghI - tela - mircamasAle / rar3hA huA dUdha, panIra, kAjU-kizamiza, na jAne sabjiyoM meM Ajakala kyA-kyA DAlanA zurU kara cuke haiM ? are bhAI, na to khilAne vAlA rAjAmahArAjA hai aura na hI khAne vAlA / Ajakala vaise bhI loga mehanatI kama haiN| saba kAroM meM ghumane vAle haiN| aba aisA rAjazAhI bhojana karoge to zarIra kI AMtarika vyavasthA caramarAegI nahIM to aura kyA hogaa| ina rasoiyoM ke hAtha kA bhojana agara AdamI lagAtAra sAta dina kara le to kailorI itanI bar3ha jAegI ki usakA asara hArTa para kaba par3a jAe kucha kahA nahIM jA sakatA / bhAI, DaoNkTara sAdA bhojana karane kI salAha de usase pahale hI Apa apane bhojana ko sAdA kara liijie| jo AdamI namaka kama khAtA hai, miThAI se parahez2a rakhatA hai, talI huI cIz2oM kA bhUla kara bhI upayoga nahIM karatA, apanA dAvA hai ki vaha AdamI bhojana ke kAraNa kabhI bhI bImAra nahIM pdd'egaa| bhojana bhI aise karo ki jaise bhajana karate ho / qhUba dhIraja se, zAMti se, pavitratA se / bhojana jitanA sAtvika aura supAcya hogA, Apa utane hI svastha aura tadurusta raheMge / bhojana sadA sAtvika kareM / thAlI meM utanA hI khAnA leM jitanA khA skeN| jUThA chor3anA anna devatA kA apamAna hai| yadi khAnA banAne meM koI kamI raha jAe to usameM mIna-mekha nikAlane kI bajAya yA to zAMtipUrvaka apanA sahaja bhojana le lIjie yA phira namaka kama hai to namaka DAla lIjie aura yadi namaka z2yAdA hai to sabjI meM eka ghU~Ta pAnI yA dahI milA liijie| bhojana karate vaqta na to apanA 'bhejA' qharAba kIjie aura na hI apanI gharavAlI kA / saudA to pyAra aura zAMti kA hI acchA hotA hai / acchA hogA maunapUrvaka bhojana kreN| khAnA khAte samaya na TI.vI. dekheM aura na hI akhabAra par3heM / khAnA khAte samaya kevala khAnA khAeM, dimAg2a meM dUsarA kacarA grahaNa na kreN| eka kAma, eka mana / jaba bhI koI kAma kareM, pUrI tanmayatA aura ekAgratA se kareM / hamAre dezavAsiyoM kI yaha burI Adata par3a gaI hai ki hama subaha kI cAya pIte vaqta aqhabAra par3hate haiM aura zAma ko khAnA khAte vaqta TI.vI. dekhate haiN| aba aqhabAroM meM acchI cIz2eM to AtI nahIM haiN| vahI rAjanIti, vahI jhUTha |117 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #119 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ sA~ca, vahI durghaTanAe~, vahI hatyAe~, vahI balAtkAra / roz2a isa taraha ke samAcAra hI akhabAra meM bhare rahate haiM aura isI taraha TI.vI. meM acchI cIjeM to kama AtI haiN| isa Dibbe meM kacarA kucha z2yAdA hI Ane laga gayA hai| TI.vI. meM risarca kama, saiksa jyAdA hai| preraNA kama, khUnakharAbA z2yAdA AtA hai| aba agara Apa TI.vI. ke saiksI sIna dekhate hue bhojana kareMge, to mAnasikatA para saiksa hI hAvI hogaa| balAtkAra kA samAcAra par3hate hue subaha kI cAya pIeMge, to dimAga kI taraMgeM bhI vaisI hI prabhAvita hoNgii| are, subaha kI zuruAta to prabhu kI prArthanA se kIjie, aura rAta kI zuruAta mA~-bApa, bhAI-bahina aura baccoM ke sAtha Amoda-pramoda meM bitaaie| par3hanA hai to acchI kitAbeM paDhie aura dekhanA hai to acche dhArAvAhika dekhie, para sAvadhAna ! khAte-khAte na par3hie aura na dekhie| svAsthya ke lie AhAra-zuddhi kA pUrA-pUrA dhyAna rkheN| jaba bhI bAjAra se cIjeM lAeM, unakI sApha-saphAI kA, svacchatA kA dhyAna rkheN| dharmazAstra tIna prakAra kI zuddhi kA ullekha karate haiM : eka vicArazuddhi, dUsarI bhAvazuddhi aura tIsarI aacaarshuddhi| maiM cauthI zuddhi kI bAta karatA hU~ vaha hai aahaarshuddhi| jo vyakti tAmasika, gariSTha bhojana karegA vaha saMyamita na raha skegaa| svAda ke lie khAnA nAsamajhI hai, jIne ke liye khAnA samajhadArI hai| saMyama kI rakSA ke lie bhojana karanA sAdhanA hai isalie AhArazuddhi aura zarIrazuddhi kA viveka rkheN| hAtha-dhokara hI khAnA khAne baiTheM, nAkhUna bar3he hue na hoN| jaba khAnA pakAe~ taba bhI dhyAna rakheM ki nAkhUna kaTe hue hoM anyathA nAkhUnoM meM jamA kacarA aura gaMdagI bhojana meM jAegI, khAte vaqta bhI aura banAte vaqta bhii| yaha gaMdagI rogoM ko AmaMtraNa degii| khAnA khAne ke AdhA ghaMTe pUrva aura eka ghaMTe bAda hI pAnI pInA caahie| bhojana ke bAda pAnI na piieN| yadi pIne kI z2arUrata par3e to eka gilAsa chAcha piieN| vaha bhojana ko pacAne meM sahAyaka hogii| saMtulita bhojana kreN| bhojana ke dvArA hI hameM Avazyaka poSaka tattva milate haiM, jo zarIra kA nirmANa karate haiM va UrjA pradAna karate haiN| isIlie hamAre bhojana meM proTIna, kailziyama, khanija lavaNoM kI pracuratA vAle khAdya padArtha zAmila hoN| carbIyukta padArthoM kA sevana na kreN| dinabhara khAte na rheN| 118 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #120 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ jaba bhUkha lage, taba hI khaaeN| bhUkha se thor3A kama bhojana kreN| adhika khAne se pramAda hotA hai, Alasya AtA hai| peTa bhI qharAba hogA aura jeba bhii| kyoMki yadi hama bImAra par3e to DaoNkTara ke pAsa bhI jAnA pdd'egaa| ata: DaoNkTara se bacane kA eka hI upAya hai zuddha, sAtvika aura saMyamita aahaar| svastha rahane ke gura Apake apane pAsa haiN| svAsthya kI kuMjI, svAsthya kI cAbI Apake apane sAtha hai| upayoga kIjie aura svAsthya ke baMda tAle kholie| prakRti ke sAtha judd'ie| pA~ca tattvoM se bane hue isa zarIra ko pA~ca tattvoM ke sAtha jor3akara rkhie| pA~ca tattvoM kA saMtulana hI svAsthya kA AdhAra hai| sAtvika bhojana lIjie aura apane rasoIghara ko sApha, svaccha aura saumya rkhie| saMyamita aura saMtulita AhAra hI svAsthya kA rAz2a hai| | 119 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #121 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ zaha bhI ApakI, saphalatA bhI ApakI pRthvI-graha para kisI kA bhI janma niruddezya nahIM hotaa| pratyeka ke janma kI ahamiyata evaM sArthakatA hai| hamArA jIvana kIr3e-makor3oM kI taraha arthahIna nahIM hai| hamArA janma aura jIvana donoM uddezyayukta haiN| jIvana ke prati uddezyapUrNa aura sakArAtmaka dRSTi apanAne para vyakti apane pratyeka dina ko sArthaka aura dhanya karane ke lie prayatnazIla ho jAtA hai| vyakti kI mAnasikatA ke anusAra hI jIvana aura jIvana jIne ke mArga nirdhArita hote haiN| mAnasikatA vicAroM ko prabhAvita karatI hai aura vicAra hI vyaktitva kA nirmANa karate haiM / vyaktitva-nirmANa hI jIvana kA dhana hai| behatara vicAroM se hI behatara mAnasikatA aura behatara vyaktitva nirmita hotA hai| yaha z2arUrI hai ki hama sabhI apanI mAnasika zakti ko phcaaneN| asAdhAraNa vyakti apanI mAnasika zakti aura AdhyAtmika zakti kA prayoga karake hI asAdhAraNa banate haiN| zArIrika kamaz2orI to cala jAegI, lekina mAnasika kamaz2orI jIvana meM kAmayAbI ke patha para na pahu~cA skegii| 120 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #122 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ kamaz2ora zarIra aura maz2abUta mana to cala jAegA, lekina kamajora mana aura baliSTha zarIra kisI kAma kA na rhegaa| jIvana ke vikAsa ke rAste zarIra se nahIM, mana se taya hote haiN| kasaratI zarIra vAle dekheM ki zarIra ko maz2abUta karane ke sAtha hI kyA ve mana ko bhI maz2abUta banA rahe haiM? jIvana meM kAmayAbI ke lie cehare kI sundaratA to 15 pratizata upayogI hai, jabaki maz2abUta mana to 85 pratizata kAragAra huA karatA hai| mana kI maz2abUtI se to iMsAna bar3e-se-bar3e roga ko, bar3I-se-bar3I bAdhA ko, apAhija ho cukI jiMdagI ko bhI jIta sakatA hai| ____ mujhe yAda hai, eka yuvatI jisakI umra mAtra unnIsa varSa thI, taba usakI mA~ kI mRtyu ho gaI aura cha: mAha bAda hI usake pitA bhI cala bse| usake cAcA-cAcI ne usakI zAdI kI aura Der3ha varSa bAda hI usakA pati eka beTI dekara darghaTanA meM mArA gyaa| sasurAla vAloM ne use manahUsa kahakara usakA tiraskAra kiyA aura use ghara se bAhara nikAla diyaa| usa yuvA strI ne svayaM jIne ke lie tathA baccI ke pAlana-poSaNa ke lie prAiveTa skUla meM caparAsI kI naukarI svIkAra kara lii|aajiivikaa kamAne ke sAtha hI vikaTa paristhitiyoM meM usane apanI par3hAI bhI zurU kii| usane iMTara se Age kI bhI par3hAI kii| bI.e. kiyA tIna sAla meM aura use TIcara kI naukarI mila gii| usane par3hAI jArI rakhI aura ema. e. kiyaa| hAI skUla meM usakI padonnati ho gii| dhIredhIre usane pI.eca.DI bhI kara lI aura kaoNleja meM lekcarAra ho gii| usa mahilA kA punarvivAha bhI ho gyaa| Aja usake do bacce haiN| kalpanA kIjiye ki agara vaha apane ko nirAza kara letI to zAyada AtmahatyA hI krtii| mana ko maz2abUta banAkara, Atma-vizvAsa ke sahAre Aja vaha mahilA sammAnapUrvaka jIvana jI rahI hai| kanyA kA janma lenA koI abhizApa nahIM hai aura na hI strIjAti isase kamaz2ora hotI hai| apAhija aura vikalAMga bhI apane mana ko apAhija aura vikalAMga na hone deN| jIvana meM mahAn logoM ko Adarza banAe~ aura jIvana meM kucha-na-kucha kara dikhAne kA jaz2bA saMjokara rkheN| apanI g2arIbI kA afasosa mata kiijie| pA~va meM jUte nahIM haiM to mana choTA mata kIjie kyoMki duniyA meM haz2AroM loga aise haiM jinake pA~va hI nahIM haiN| Aja yadi Apake pAsa khAne ko | 121 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #123 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ harI sabjI nahIM thI, to isakA gama mata kIjie, kyoMki duniyA meM aise bhI loga haiM, jinheM Aja khAne ko sUkhI roTI bhI nasIba na huI ho| ApakI sthiti unase to behatara hai| mana ko choTA nahIM, vizvAsa bharA bnaaie| apanI hara sA~sa ko AzA aura vizvAsa se lIjie / prakRti ne hameM kucha karane ke lie janma diyA hai, isaliye apane mana ko kabhI kamajora aura apAhija na hone diijie| haivI veTa uThAne vAle do pahalavAnoM kahA jAtA hai aura dUsarA jIta jAtA hai| kyA kabhI Apane isakA kAraNa socA hai ? donoM apanI kalA meM mAhira hote haiM, donoM kA zarIra baliSTha hotA hai phira bhI jIta kisI eka ko hI milatI hai| jItatA vaha hai jisake mana meM jItane jaba hotA hai| apane zarIra ke balavAna hone kA jise sirfa ahasAsa hotA hai vaha mana kI maz2abUtI ke bag2aira hAra jAtA hai / Aja hamAre sAmane zArIrika aura sAmAjika samasyAe~ utanI nahIM hai jitanI ki mAnasika samasyAe~ haiM kyoMki manuSya mana se khinna, nirAza aura napuMsaka hai| maiM aise logoM ko jAnatA hU~ jo bhale hI apAhija aura vikalAMga rahe hoM, para unhoMne jIvana ke vikAsa ke sarvocca zikharoM ko chUA hai| yAda kIjie usa aMdhI, gUMgI aura baharI mahilA ko jisane kanyA ke rUpa meM janma liyA aura jo mAtra do-DhAI varSa kI umra meM nimoniyA se pIr3ita hokara apanI vANI, zravaNa - zakti aura netrajyoti ga~vA baiThI / kyA Apa aisI lar3akI kA kucha bhaviSya dekha sakate haiM ? lekina salIvAna jaisI zikSikA ke milane ke kAraNa vaha aMdhI, gUMgI, baharI lar3akI vikAsa ke aise dvAra kholatI hai ki Aja hama use zraddhA se yAda karate haiM aura usakI likhI huI pustakoM kA adhyayanaadhyApana karate haiN| vaha AdaraNIya mahilA thI helana kelara, jisane janma se jIvana kA koI svAda nahIM cakhA kiMtu usane aisI adbhuta pustakoM kI racanA kI jo mahAn ciMtakoM aura dArzanikoM ke lie bhI preraNAstaMbha haiN| apane hI deza ke eka saMgItakAra netrahIna haiM, lekina jinake saMgIta ne duniyA bhara meM dhUma macA dI hai| unake saMgIta se sajI philmoM aura TI.vI. dhArAvAhikoM kI sarvatra carcA hotI hai / ve haiM ravIndra jaina jinhoMne duniyA ko batA hI diyA ki abhAvoM meM palakara, netrahIna hokara bhI jIvana kI U~cAiyoM kA sparza kiyA jA sakatA hai| jo apane jIvana meM prabala parAkrama aura puruSArtha karatA hai vaha 122 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #124 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ netrahIna hokara bhI mahAn saMgItakAra bana sakatA hai| abhinetrI sudhA candrana kA nAma to Apane sunA hI hai| usake donoM pA~va nahIM haiM phira bhI vaha kuzala nRtyAMganA hai| donoM pA~va kaTa jAne ke bAvajUda bhI usane himmata nahIM hArI aura kRtrima pA~voM se jayapura phuTa ke sahAre nRtya sIkhA aura apane Apako sthApita kiyaa| nRtya sIkhate samaya usake ghuTane chila-chila jAte the, khUna bahane lagatA thA, lekina asahya darda ke bAvajUda usane nRtya sIkhA aura jayapura ke ravIndra maMca para hI aisI pahalI behatarIna prastuti dI ki koI jAna bhI na pAyA ki usake paira kRtrima haiN| bharata-nATyam prastuta karake usane batA diyA ki maz2abUta mana ke sAtha yadi vyakti koI bhI kAma karanA cAhe to use kAmayAbI z2arUra hAsila ho sakatI hai| eka sajana aura haiM jinake donoM hAtha kaTa cuke the| aise javAna apaMga kI parivAra meM kyA hAlata hotI hai, yaha Apa samajha sakate haiN| apamAna, tiraskAra aura nirAzA se bharA huA vaha yuvaka AtmahatyA ke irAde se Trena kI paTariyoM para jAkara leTa gyaa| Trena Ane meM samaya rahA hogA ki usake mana meM vicAra calane lge| usakI AtmA ne use jhakajhorA ki usakA janma kyA yU~ hI mara jAne ke lie, AtmahatyA karane ke lie huA hai ? usake donoM hAtha nahIM haiM to kyA huA, usake pA~va to salAmata haiM ! inhIM pA~voM ke bala para vaha phira uTha kara khar3A ho sakatA hai| usane saMkalpa kiyA aura cala pdd'aa| rAste meM eka gvAlA milA jo dUdha becane jA rahA thaa| usane vinatI kI ki vaha use cAra kilo dUdha udhAra de de, vaha becegaa| gvAle ne Azcarya se kahA, 'para kaise?' yuvaka ne kahA, 'hAtha nahIM haiM to kyA huA, kaMdhe to haiN|' donoM kaMdhoM para do-do kilo kI thailiyA~ laTakA do|' gvAle ne usakA AtmavizvAsa dekhakara usakI sahAyatA kI aura donoM kaMdhoM para do thailiyA~ TA~ga dii| yuvaka cala par3A, dUdha beca-becakara usane bhaiMsa kharIda lii| dhIre-dhIre usakA vyavasAya bar3hane lagA aura aba vaha eka DeyarI kA mAlika hai aura ATha-dasa loga usake kAma meM hAtha ba~TAte haiN| ___ hAla hI meM eka pikcara rilIz2a huI hai : blaik| bhAI zrI saMjaya jI, lIlA bhaMsAlI ne banAI hai| adbhuta philma hai yh| maiM aisI sundara philma ke lie saMjaya jI kA abhinandana karatA huuN| Aja kI kacarA-chApa philmoM meM yaha philma eka Adarza hai| agara mere hAtha meM hotA to maiM isa sundara kArya ke lie | 123 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #125 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ saMjayajI ko nobela puraskAra dilAnA pasaMda krtaa| Apa ise z2arUra dekheM / isa philma kI kahAnI eka aMdhI, gUMgI-baharI aura maMdabuddhi bAlikA para kendrita hai / usake mA~-bApa ne usake sAtha vahI vyavahAra kiyA jo kisI vikSipta vyakti ke sAtha kiyA jAtA hai, para misTara sahAya nAma ke eka TIcara ne Akhira use apane kaThora anuzAsana, kaThora mehanata aura mahAn lakSya ke sAtha use vaha sthAna dilAyA jo ki kisI bhI sampUrNa zikSita vyakti ko milA karatA hai / jaoNna nAma kI vaha baccI saMsAra ko Akhira yahI saMdeza detI hai jisa DigrI ko hAsila karane meM Apako bIsa sAla lagate haiM, use hAsila karane meM mujhe cAlIsa sAla lage, para kudaratI abhAvoM ke bAvaz2Uda yadi vyakti vikAsa karanA cAhe to vaha bhI U~cAiyoM ko chU sakatA hai / loga samajhate haiM ki blaika kA matalaba aNdhkaar| para mere guru ne mujhe batAyA hai ki aMdhApana blaika nesa nahIM hai, varan mana kI hI bhAvanA aura niSkriyatA hI iMsAna kA aMdhApana hai / logoM ne dharatI para Izvara eka hI mAnA hai, para maiMne dharatI para do Izvara dekhe haiM / eka to vaha jisane mere aMdhe hone ke bAvaz2Uda mere patthara ko tarAzA aura mujhe aMdhI - baharI- gUMgImaMdabuddhi bAlikA ko posTa grejueTa hone kA gaurava pradAna kiyaa| usa baccI ne kahA - yadi Izvara mujhase kahe ki tumheM A~kha mila jAe to tuma sabase pahale kyA karogI, to merA z2avAba hogA maiM apane TIcara ke rUpa meM Ae bhagavAna ko dekhanA pasaMda karU~gI / jaba apAhija vyakti apane saMkalpa ke sAtha Age bar3ha sakatA hai to Apake pAsa to sahI salAmata deha hai 1 kaMdhe - kaMdhe mile hue haiM, kadama-kadama ke sAtha haiM, peTa karor3oM bharane haiM, para unase dugune hAtha haiN| I bhagavAna kI ora se peTa to eka hI milA hai para hAtha to do haiM / yadi vyakti apane puruSArtha ko jagA le to kamajora - se- kamajora vyakti bhI amIra bana sakatA hai| hamAre Asa-pAsa hI aise aneka loga mila jAe~ge, jinhoMne saMgharSa karate hue Aja vaha mukAma hAsila kara liyA hai jo preraNA pradAna kara ske| maz2abUta mana kA hI nAma saccA yauvana hai / nirAza, hatAza, khinna yuvA aThAraha varSa kI Ayu meM hI bUr3hA ho jAtA hai aura jo assI varSa kA hai lekina mana utsAha, UrjA, umaMga se bharA hai vaha deha se bUr3hA hokara bhI yuvA mana hai / 124 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #126 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ rAmagopAla jI rAThI ko hI liijie| DokarA bayAsI varSa kI umra meM bhI chokaroM kI taraha nRtya karatA hai| unameM g2az2aba kI phurtI hai, zarIra meM g2az2aba kA loca hai| nAcane kI Adata koI jIvana bhara se nahIM hai| pichale do-tIna varSoM se bhakti kA raMga lagA aura basa bhajanoM ke sAtha thirakane lge| unake jIvana meM bhI kyA mastI hai ! sacamuca, jinake bhItara hauMsalA aura himmata jaga jAtI hai, ve Ane vAle kala ke lie hastI bana jAte haiN| merI samajha se ve bUr3he tana meM bhI nAcate hue yuvA haiM / yauvana kA sambandha tana se nahIM, mana se hai| mana maz2abUta to tana bhI mj'bt| mana marA ki gayA kAma se| aise loga phira AlasI TaTTa ho jAyA karate haiN| jIvana ke vikAsa kA pahalA dvAra hI sAhasa aura Atma-vizvAsa hai| Atma-vizvAsa unnati kI pahalI sIr3hI aura pragati kA dvAra hai; vaha jIvana kI zakti aura bhItara kA mitra hai| AtmavizvAsa se bhare vyakti ke lie kucha bhI asaMbhava nahIM hai| usake lie nAmumakina kucha bhI nahIM hai kyoMki 'nA' ko haTAkara, nakArAtmakatA ko haTAkara usane saba kucha mumakina banA liyA hai| Apa vRddha hone para niSkriya aura akarmaNya na bneN| gItA kA bhI yahI sArasaMdeza hai ki vyakti svayaM ko sadA karttavya-patha para sannaddha rkhe| bhagavAna ne yahI arjuna se kahA thA ki 'tuma apanI napuMsakatA kA tyAga karo aura kartavyoM ke lie khar3e ho jaao| maiM tumhAre sAtha huuN|' karttavyazIla vyakti ke sAtha bhagavAna sadA rahate haiN| apane Atma-vizvAsa ko jgaaie| jo bhI vyakti mahAn bana pAe unake pIche buniyAdI kAraNa rahA unakA aatm-vishvaas| mahaz2a qismata aura bhAgya kA Alambana mata liijie| Apane bhagavAna mahAvIra ke ve citra dekhe hoMge jinameM gvAlA unake kAnoM meM kIleM ThoMka rahA hai yA unheM haMTara aura beMta se pITa rahA hai| jaba devarAja indra ne yaha pratyakSa meM dekhA to usane Akara prabhu se vinatI kI, 'bhagavan Apake sAdhanAkAla meM aneka kaSTa, upasarga aura saMtrAsa AeMge, Apa mujhe AjJA deM ki ApakI nirvighna sAdhanA ke lie maiM ina upasargoM se ApakI rakSA kara skuuN|' taba bhagavAna ne kahA, 'vatsa, vyakti apane jIvana kA vikAsa apane hI balabUte para karatA hai| agara kisI ko AtmajJAna bhI pAnA hai to dUsaroM ke dvArA nahIM, balki apane hI vizvAsa ke bala para vaha kevalajJAna yA AtmajJAna ke zikhara chU | 125 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #127 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ sakatA hai|' mahAvIra indra kI sahAyatA lene se inkAra kara dete haiM aura apane hI balabUte para sAdhanA karate haiN| buddha kI preraNA hai, 'appadIpo bhv'| apane dIpa khuda bno| dUsaroM ke dIye dikhane meM acche hote haiM, kiMtu AqhirakAra to ve hI dIpaka kAma Ae~ge, jo Apane qhuda ne banAe haiM, jalAe haiN| jo apane balabUte para sAdhanA ko phalIbhUta nahIM kara sakate ve hI ghATaghATa bhaTakakara aura guruoM ke pAsa jAkara apanA matthA Tekate rahate haiN| rAma ne rAvaNa ke viruddha yuddha kA zaMkhanAda kiyaa| rAvaNa apAra zaktiyoM kA svAmI thaa| kahate haiM ki eka bAra usane apanI kA~kha meM brahmA, viSNu, maheza ko dabA liyA thaa| kubera usakI sevA meM thA, aise rAvaNa ko cunautI denA kyA sAmAnya bAta thI? rAvaNa ke pAsa rAkSasoM kI senA thI aura rAma ke pAsa baMdaroM kI senA, para isake bAvajUda rAma ko rAvaNa se yuddha karanA thaa| rIcha, bhAlU, bandaroM ko lekara rAma ne rAvaNa kI sone kI laMkA para car3hAI kara dii| z2arA socie ki vaha kyA thA, jisake balabUte para rAma rAvaNa para car3hAI kara sake? vaha thA AtmavizvAsa, jisake AdhAra para, jisakI tAqata ke sahAre rAma rAvaNa para hamalA karate haiM aura vijayazrI kA varaNa bhI karate haiN| jIta unhIM kI hotI hai jinheM bharosA hai ki ve jIteMge aura antataH ve jIta hI jAte haiN| mahaz2a rAma-rAma japane se naiyA pAra nahIM lagatI, balki rAmAyaNa se prerita hokara Atma-vizvAsa jagAne se z2arUra naiyA pAra laga jAtI hai| z2arA Apa soceM ki Apa kisa nAma, kula, gautra aura mAtA-pitA kI saMtAna haiM aura Apane aisA kyA kAma kiyA hai ki ApakA samAja aura Apake mAtApitA Apa para garva kara sakeM? kolambasa naI duniyA kI khoja ke lie nikalA thaa| usake sAre sAthI lambI samudrI yAtrAoM se thaka-Ubakara vApasa cale gye| vaha bhI chattIsa bAra yAtrAe~ kara cukA thA, lekina usane hAra nahIM mAnI aura chattIsavIM bAra vaha bhArata to na khoja sakA, lekina usane amerikA ko z2arUra khoja nikaalaa| yaha kyA thA? kevala sAhasa aura Atma-vizvAsa tathA dRr3ha nizcaya aura khoja nikAlane kA jajbA / vaha kaunasI tAqata hai jisake kAraNa vyakti samudra kI gaharAiyoM meM utara jAtA hai ? Aja to dizAsUcaka yaMtra hai, lekina usa samaya samudrI rAste se kisI deza ko khoja nikAlanA z2abaradasta dussAhasa kA kArya 126 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #128 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ thA / piyare ne uttarI dhruva kI khoja Atma vizvAsa ke sahAre kI thii| gailIliyoM ne jhUlate laimpa kA AviSkAra Atma-vizvAsa ke bala para hI kiyA thaa| Atma-vizvAsa ke bala para hI mAtra solaha varSa kI Ayu meM zivAjI ne pahalA kilA phataha kara liyA thA / unnIsa varSa kI Ayu meM vAziMgaTana amerikA kA senApati bana gayA thaa| jIvana kI hara jIta ke pIche Atma-vizvAsa baMda muTThI kA kAma karatA hai / Atma-vizvAsa se pahalA fAyadA yaha hai ki vyakti apane lakSya kA nirdhAraNa karane meM saphala hotA hai| dUsarA lAbha yaha hai ki vaha apane nirNaya svayaM le sakatA hai| tIsarA phAyadA - vyakti kA prejeMTezana bhI behatara hotA hai| cauthI bAta, vaha logoM ke sAmane dabbU banakara jIne ko majabUra nahIM hotA / pA~cavI bAta, vaha svAbhimAna aura iz2z2ata kI z2iMdagI jI jAtA hai| kauna kahatA hai, AsamAna meM cheda nahIM ho sakatA ? eka patthara to tabIyata se uchAlo yAro ! tumane apanI mAnasikatA, vizvAsa aura AdhyAtmika zaktiyoM ko kamajora kara DAlA to AsamAna meM to kyA z2amIna para kulhAr3I calAne se bhI cheda nahIM hone vaalaa| yadi koI mahAvIra yA buddha, kRSNa yA kabIra, gA~dhI yA nelsana, bila kliMTana yA bila geTsa banate haiM to ve hAtha para hAtha rakhakara baiThane se nahIM banate balki puruSArtha aura Atma-vizvAsa ke bala para banate haiN| vidyut balba ke AviSkAraka thaoNmasa alvA eDIsana lagAtAra solaha varSoM taka asaphala hote rahe / usake sAtha kAryarata vaijJAnika usakA sAtha chor3akara cale ge| patnI ne bhI kaha diyA ki 'pAgala ho gae ho| na jAne kaunasA bhUta savAra hai ki solaha sAloM se prayatna kara rahe ho phira bhI kucha hAsila nahIM huaa|' taba bhI eDIsana nirAza nahIM huaa| usane apanI kozizeM jArI rakhIM aura jaba vaha saphala huA to duniyA dUdhiyA rozanI se nahA uThI / Atma-vizvAsa saMkaTa mocaka hai / Atma-vizvAsa dhairya kI tAqata hai I Atma-vizvAsa antarmana kI UrjA aura jIvana kI camaka hai / yaha vaha zakti hai jisake kAraNa zarIra meM sphUrti hotI hai, AnaMda chA jAtA hai, cehare para teja A jAtA hai, phuTapAtha para rahane vAlA bhI mahaloM taka pahu~ca jAtA hai| AtmavizvAsa rakhane vAlA vyakti avasara ke kSaNa turaMta pakar3akara pragati ke patha para 127 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #129 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ Age bar3ha jAtA hai| vaha unakA sahI prayoga kara DAlatA hai / jisa vyakti ke mana meM AtmavizvAsa hai usako kisI aura zakti yA sAdhana kI AvazyakatA nahIM hai| hRdaya sadA vizvAsa se bharA honA caahie| mujhe prasannatA hai ki loga mujhe itane pyAra se sunate haiM aura apanI kho cukI UrjA ko phira se jIvanta kara lete haiN| yAnI maiM to sela-cArjara hU~ | preraNAdAyaka pustakeM Atma vikAsa meM bahuta sahAyaka hotI haiM / ve Apako Apake AdarzoM aura lakSya kI yAda dilAtI rahatI haiM / Apa jyoM-jyoM svayaM ko pahacAnate jAe~ge, ApakI soI huI zaktiyA~ jagatI jaaeNgii| AtmavizvAsa ko jagAne ke lie Apa apane hara dina kI zuruAta svastha mana aura muskAna ke sAtha kareM, yoga evaM prANAyAma kreN| jo sIkhA hai vaha eka dina ke lie nahIM hai, use apane jIvana meM utaareN| tabhI ApakA pUrA dina UrjAmaya, utsAhamaya aura umaMga se bharA hogA / prAtaH kAla uThane ke sAtha hI deha va mana kI jakar3ana dUra ho jAnI caahie| kAma cAhe thor3A kareM, para pUrI UrjA ke sAtha kreN| pUrI UrjA ke sAtha agara kAma kiyA jAegA to aMbAnI aura Aditya, TATA yA biralA honA kisI eka ke hI hAtha kI bAta nahIM hai / hamameM se hara vyakti vikAsa karake una U~cAiyoM ko chU sakatA hai| jisane bhI vikAsa kiyA hai usake pIche saMgharSa aura Atma-vizvAsa kI kahAnI hotI hai / maiMne kabhI kalekTara lakSmIkAMta bhAratIya kI kahAnI par3hI thIM / kahate haiM unake pitA svataMtratA-senAnI hue haiM - kRSNAnaMda bhAratI / mahAtmA gA~dhI ke Az2AdI-AMdolana se prabhAvita hokara unhoMne apanA jIvana deza ke lie samarpita kara diyaa| apane pitA ke padacihnoM kA anusaraNa karate hue lakSmIkAMta bhAratI ne bhI apane Apako Az2AdI ke samara meM jhauMka diyaa| jaba adAlata kA gherAva karate hue ve pakar3e gae to mA~ ko khabara lagI ki beTA kArAgRha meM DAla diyA gayA hai to vaha ro pdd'ii| vaha kArAgAra meM beTe ke pAsa pahu~cI aura bolI, 'tumhAre pitA ne deza ke lie prANa utsarga kara die| unakI aura merI donoM kI yahI abhilASA hai ki tuma bhI deza ke kAma Ao / merA sapanA thA ki tuma kalekTara banoge lekina tuma to ber3iyoM meM jakar3akara kArAgAra meM A gae ho|' putra ne kahA, 'mA~ ye hathakar3iyA~ deza kI Az2AdI ke lie haiN| aMgrejoM kI hathakar3I se mukta hone ke lie maiMne ye hathakar3I pahanI haiN| mA~, tuma vizvAsa I 128 | ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM - 8 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #130 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ rakho, eka dina tumhArA sapanA z2arUra pUrA hogA, tumhArA beTA kalekTara hI banegA | vaha yuvaka baMdIgRha se mukta hokara apane adhyayana meM juTa jAtA hai aura tatkAlIna AI.e.esa. kI DigrI prApta karatA hai / mA~ ke caraNoM meM praNAma karate hue kahatA hai, 'mA~ maiM kalekTara bana gayA hU~, para parAdhIna bhArata kA nahIM, svataMtra bhArata kA / ' ve svataMtra deza ke pahale kalekTara bane aura unakI pahalI DyUTI madurai meM lagI thii| Apa kisI bhI umra ke kyoM na hoM, basa saMkalpa kareM aura sAhasa aura AtmavizvAsa se juTa jAe~ / saphalatA eka na eka dina Apake qadamoM meM hogii| samaya kitanA bhI laga jAe lekina Apake bhItara kucha banane kA jaz2bA hogA, himmata hogI to Apa vaha bana jaaeNge| janma se koI bhAgya lekara nahIM AtA, puruSArtha ke dvArA bhAgya jagAyA aura banAyA jAtA hai / hama bhI sAhasa aura AtmavizvAsa ke dvArA maz2abUta mana ke mAlika bana sakate haiN| AtmavizvAsa ke mAlika banane ke lie hInabhAvanA dUra kiijie| z2arAz2arA sI bAta para khIjhanA, cir3acir3AnA, bilabilA jAnA, bhayabhIta rahanA ye saba asaphalatA ke lakSaNa haiM / hamezA prasanna rahie, khIjhie aura jhuMjhalAie nahIM / dimAg2a ke Ale meM jame hInabhAvanA ke jAle ko nikAla pheMkie / 'maiM garIba AdamI, choTI jAti kA, maiM kyA kara sakatA hU~, merI kyA aukAta hai, ina saba bAtoM ko mana se haTA dIjie aura socie ki maiM kyA nahIM kara sakatA ? maiM saba kucha, jo cAhU~, kara sakatA huuN| maiM kucha bananA cAhU~ aura na bana sakU~ yaha kaise mumakina ho sakatA hai ? ' apane raMgarUpa ko dekhakara mana choTA na kiijie| sukarAta aura sikaMdara bhI sAMvale the, deza ke mahAn kavi malika mohammada jAyasI bhI kAne the| raMga se kAlA yA sA~valA honA koI bAta nahIM hai / yaha to prakRti kI dI huI cIz2a hai, para Apa apane mana ko to ujalA banA sakate haiN| cehare ko raMga denA prakRti kA kAma hai, para apane mana ko raMga denA to Apa hI ke basa meM hai / maiM eka aise DaoNkTara ko jAnatA hU~ jo hamAre bahuta qarIba samparka meM haiN| maiM isa ghaTanA kA pahale bhI ullekha kara cukA huuN| Aja phira isalie kahanA cAhatA hU~ ki Apa preraNA le skeN| hA~, vaha DaoNkTara ekadama kAlA aura cecaka ke dAgoM vAlA hai| ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM - 9 | 129 1 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #131 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ zAyada use dekhakara hI hama apanI naz2ara ghumA leM, lekina usakI patnI behada khUbasUrata hai| itanI suMdara ki dekhate raha jaaeN| eka bAra maiMne unase pUchA, (bahuta karIbI hai isalie pUcha sakA), bahina, eka bAta btaao|' 'pharamAiye' usane khaa| maiMne kahA, 'eka bAta batAo bahina ApakI pahalI zAdI hai yA duusrii'| 'pahalI hI zAdI hai', kyoM?' usane savAla kiyaa| maiM thor3A cauMkA, 'pahalI zAdI aura itanA badasUrata pti|' maiMne kahA, 'kyA zAdI se pahale mAtA-pitA ne laDake ko dekhA nahIM thA?' 'yaha zAdI mA~-bApa ne nahIM kI, yaha maiMne khuda kI hai, hamArI lava-mairija hai', usane btaayaa| aba to maiM aura adhika cauMka gayA, yaha to g2az2aba ho gayA, phira bhI kahA, 'bahina, bAta samajha meM nahIM aaii| Apa to kaha rahI haiM ki yaha lava-mairija hai, aisA kaise ho sakatA hai?' bahina ne batAyA, 'hama loga kaoNleja meM par3hate the, par3hAI ke daurAna hI maiM inake samparka meM aaii| kaoNleja meM do haz2Ara vidyArthI the, Apa sunakara tAjjuba kareMge ki una do haz2Ara vidyArthiyoM ke bIca yahI eka aise insAna the jinake guNoM ne, sIrata aura svabhAva ne mujhe prabhAvita kiyaa| maiMne mahasUsa kiyA ki vyakti raMga se kAlA hai to kyA huA kintu yaha apane caritra aura guNoM se to mahAn hai aura maiMne zAdI kA prastAva rakha diyaa| yaha merI pasaMda hai, maiMne svayaM hI inase zAdI kI hai| hakIkata to yaha hai ki maiMne inake raMga-rUpa se nahIM balki inake guNoM se zAdI kI hai|' maiMne sunA aura khUba Anandita huaa| thor3I dera bAda usake pati bhI hamAre pAsa aae| bAteM cala rahI thIM, tabhI maiMne unase bhI pUchA, 'eka bAta batAe~ ApakA aisA kAlA raMga hai, moTI nAka aura cecaka ke dAga haiM, kabhI Apako gilTI phIla nahIM huii|' unhoMne kahA, 'bacapana meM galI-mohalle ke sAre bacce mujhe 'kAlUkAlU' kahakara pukArate the| jaba ve mujhe kAlU kahate to mujhe bahuta takalIfa hotI thii| tabhI una dinoM maiMne yaha saMkalpa kara liyA thA - 'e kAlU, tU apanA raMga to nahIM badala sakatA, lekina apane jIne ke DhaMga ko to jarUra badala sakatA hai| basa taba maiM apanI zikSA aura jIvana ke prati gaMbhIra ho gayA aura vaha bhI itanA ki Aja maiM zahara kA sammAnita DaoNkTara mAnA jAtA huuN| loga mere cehare ko nahIM dekhate, varan merI prekTisa, merI pAraMgatatA, mere acche guNoM se prabhAvita hokara mere pAsa AyA karate haiN| 130 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #132 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ yahI bAta maiM Apa logoM se kahanA cAhU~gA ki vyakti ke raMga para na jAe~, usakI g2arIbI kA maz2Aka na banAe~ kyoMki hamAre pradhAnamaMtrI lAla bahAdura zAstrI bhI atyaMta garIbI meM paidA hue the| hamAre vartamAna rASTrapati abdula kalAma bhI garIba ghara meM janme the| g2arIbI jIvana ke vikAsa meM bAdhaka nahIM bntii| isalie maiM kahU~gA ki karor3apati kA beTA agara karor3apati hai to kyA qhAsiyata? hA~, g2arIba kA beTA karor3apati ho gayA to yaha usakI viziSTatA hai| vaha badhAI kA pAtra hai, kyoMki apane balabUte para usane yaha mukAma hAsila kiyA hai| tuma qhuda kucha bane, yaha tumhArI yogyatA kI tArIfa hai| sakArAtmaka soceN| subaha uThakara soceM ki Aja maiM yaha kara sakatA hU~, bilkula kara sakatA huuN| maiM qhuzanasIba huuN| maiM vaha saba kAma kara sakatA hU~ jo ki koI dUsarA kara sakatA hai| basa, mujhe thor3I mehanata karake kAma kA tajurbA lenA hogaa| Apako yaha bhI sakArAtmaka soca vikasita karanI cAhie ki maiM kisI se kama yA kamaz2ora nahIM huuN| merA yaha phaisalA hai ki maiM bhayamukta, ciMtArahita aura tanAva vihIna jiMdagI jiiuuNgaa| dhyAna rakhie manuSya jaisA socatA hai, vaisA hI bana jAtA hai| apanI soca meM sAhasa aura AtmavizvAsa ko jagaha dIjie, Apake jIvana meM hara paristhiti kA sAmanA karane kA sAmarthya qhuda hI A jaaegaa| kisI kampanI meM se eka kampyUTara oNpareTara ko nikAla diyA gyaa| vaha bolA, 'maiM ArAma se apanA istIphA de detA hU~, kyoMki yahA~ rahakara chala, kapaTa, prapaMca, jhUTha kA sahayogI nahIM ho sktaa|' jaba vaha jAne lagA to mainejara ne kahA, 'tuma to aise naukarI chor3akara jA rahe ho jaise amerikA kamAne jA rahe ho| tumhAre lie kyA naukarI taiyAra paDI hai?' bilkula sara, 'jaba maiMne kala istIfA dene ke bAre meM socA thA to yahI nirNaya kiyA ki yahA~ se maiM amerikA hI jaauuNgaa|' 'amerikA! are vahA~ para tumheM rakhegA kauna?' usane kahA, 'prazna yaha nahIM hai ki vahA~ mujhe kauna rakhegA, savAla yaha hai ki vahA~ mujhe rakhane se kauna inkAra karegA? merI yogyatA mere jIvana kA dhana aura pratiSThA hai|' Apa kahA~ rahate haiM, isase adhika mUlyavAna hai Apa apanI pratibhA kA mUlyAMkana karate haiM yA nhiiN| Apake A~khe haiM yA nahIM, isase bhI z2yAdA mahattvapUrNa yaha hai ki ApameM, Apake pAsa ujAlA hai yA nahIM! agara apanI yogyatA kama 131 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #133 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ samajhate haiM to Apa hInabhAvanA se grasta haiN| agara Apako lagatA hai ki Apa kucha nahIM kara sakate to Apa hInabhAvanA se pIr3ita haiN| koziza kAmayAbI kA AdhAra hai| pahale caraNa meM hI hAra na maaneN| pahalA caraNa to Atma-vizvAsa se bharA huA honA caahie| koziza hI kAmayAbI kA dvAra hai| eka bAta aura, apane jIvana meM AlocanA sahane kI Adata ddaaliye| koI ApakI AlocanA kare to paravAha mata kiijie| duniyA meM kisa AdamI kI AlocanA nahIM huI? jo bAtoM se ghabarA jAegA vaha kabhI bhI apanI maulika sthApanA nahIM kara paaegaa| banI huI lakIroM para mata clo| lIka para calanA surakSita to hotA hai lekina usameM apanI maulikatA nahIM hotii| apane puruSArtha se apane rAste qhuda bnaao| kucha alaga karane kI umaMga rakheM, tabhI Apa Age bar3hane meM saphala ho skeNge| dekho ki AlocanA meM kaunasI acchI bAta hai, use apanA lo, lekina apane saMkalpa se pIche mata htto| jo Aja AlocanA kara rahe haiM, kala ve hI jaba Apa lakSya hAsila kara leMge to tArIpha karane ko tatpara ho jaaeNge| jaba taka koI cIja lakSya aura maMjila taka nahIM pahu~ca pAtI hai tabhI taka usakI AlocanA hotI hai aura lakSya hAsila hote hI loga karavaTa badala lete haiM, prazaMsA karane meM juTa jAte haiN| dosta duzmana aura duzmana dosta ho jAte haiN| Aja jo tumheM pacAsa rupaye udhAra dene se katarAte haiM, kala ve hI tumheM mukAma para pahu~cA dekha kara lAkha rupayA lagAne ko tatpara ho jAte haiM kyoMki unheM patA hai ki aba unakI pU~jI to kama se kama surakSita hI rhegii| ___ AlocanA to mahAvIra kI bhI huI thI, nahIM to kAnoM meM kIleM kyoM ThokI jAtIM? AlocanA to rAma kI bhI haI thI, nahIM to sItA jI ko vanavAsa dene kI kyA jarUrata thI? jIsasa kI bhI AlocanA huI thI tabhI to unheM salIba para car3hanA pdd'aa| AlocanA ke kAraNa hI sukarAta ko jahara kA pyAlA pInA pdd'aa| maMsUra kI AlocanA meM unake hAtha-pA~va kATa diye ge| AlocanA se ghabarAe~ nhiiN| caleMge to gireMge bhii| jo girane se DaratA hai vaha kabhI calanA nahIM sIkha sktaa| do mitroM ne saMkalpa liyA ki prativarSa hone vAlI tairAkI pratiyogitA meM ve bhI bhAga leNge| donoM ko tairanA nahIM AtA thaa| phira bhI saMkalpa liyA ki tairanA 132 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #134 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ sIkheMge aura pratiyogitA meM z2arUra bhAga leNge| do mAha bAda jaba ve punaH mile to eka ne dUsare ke hAlacAla puuche| pahale ne kahA, 'maiMne bahuta acchI tairAkI sIkha lI hai| Dhera sAre tairAkI ke gura bhI sIkha lie haiN| mujhe to ummIda ho gaI hai ki maiM tairAkI meM jIta bhI sakatA huuN| tumhArA kyA cala rahA hai ?' dUsare ne kahA, 'maiMne to abhI taka kucha zurU hI nahIM kiyA hai|' 'kyoM?' 'kyoMki Dara lagatA hai kahIM DUba gayA to?' jise DUbane kA Dara hai vaha kabhI ghara se bAhara nahIM nikala sktaa| mana meM AzaMkA rakhakara calane para baccA kabhI calanA hI nahIM sIkha paaegaa| gira-gira kara hI vyakti saMbhalatA hai| Thokara laga-laga kara hI AdamI kA nirmANa hotA hai| koI ghar3A kevala Upara ke pyAra ke kAraNa nahIM bntaa| eka tarapha pyAra hotA hai to dUsarI tarapha thApa hotI hai, taba koI ghar3A banatA hai| apane bacce ko ghara kA paudhA mata bnaao| use jaMgala kA vRkSa banAo tAki use pAnI na bhI mile taba bhI vaha apane balabUte para khar3A rhe| mAtA-pitA apane bacce ko itanA majabUta banAyeM ki vaha sardI, garmI ke thaper3e sahana kara ske| g2arIbI meM rahanA par3e to raha sake yadi bhAI dagA kara jAye to use sahane kA bhI jigara usake pAsa ho| patA nahIM calatA, duniyA meM kaba kisake sAtha kyA ho jAe? baccoM ko Atmanirbhara banAe~, tAki ve apanA kAma qhuda kara skeN| apane baccoM ko par3hAI ke sAtha-sAtha kAma karane kI bhI zikSA deN| ___ kabhI hamArI bhI AlocanAe~ huI thiiN| loga hamAre mu~ha para hamase kahate the ki hamane paMtha badala liyA hai, dharma badala liyA hai, na jAne ve kisa-kisa taraha kI AlocanAe~ karate the? lekina Aja hameM chattIsa kauma mAnatI haiM, chattIsa kauma ke loga hameM sunate haiN| kyA yaha koI mAmUlI bAta hai ki Aja isa zahara meM janamAnasa ko saMbodhita karate hue hameM pUre pacAsa dina ho gae haiM, phira bhI roja dasa hajAra zrotA upasthita rahate haiN| yaha saba virATatA kA pariNAma hai, samanvaya kA pariNAma hai| hAtha meM agara tUlikAe~ acchI haiM aura raMga bhI pUre haiM to phira kainavAsa bhI bar3A hI rakhanA hogaa| lekina jo pahale hI caraNa meM ghabarAkara baiTha gayA vaha jIvana meM kucha nahIM kara sktaa| kucha bananA hai to AlocanAoM ko bhI jhelanA hogaa| yAda rakhie : duniyA meM kisI kA anuyAyI honA sAmAnya bAta hai| koI | 133 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #135 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ lAja bhI kisI kA anuyAyI bana sakatA hai para anuyAyI mArga kA anusaraNa bhI kara sakatA hai, naye mArga kA nirmANa nahIM kara sktaa| lIka lIka gAr3I cale, lIka se cale kpuut| lIka chor3a tInoM cale sAyara, siMha, spuut|| Apa bhI AlocanAoM ko pare rakhakara Age bddh'ie| Izvara sadA satya ke sAtha hai| hAthI ko dekhakara kutte bhauMkate hI haiN| agara hAthI kuttoM kI paravAha karanA zurU kara de to vaha apanI mastI se vaMcita raha jaaegaa| vaha cala hI na skegaa| cunautiyoM kA sAmanA kro| musIbata aura muzkiloM kA sAmanA karanA siikhie| prakRti parivartanazIla hai| hara vyakti ke jIvana meM utAra-car3hAva AyA hI karate haiN| usI vyakti kA vikAsa hotA hai, jo cunautiyA~ jhelane meM samartha hotA hai| maiM to mAnatA hU~ ki jisakI AlocanA na huI, jise cunautiyA~ na milIM vaha vyakti, jIvana meM kucha bana hI nahIM sktaa| thaper3e aura ThokareM khAne se hI insAna kucha bana pAtA hai| kAlidAsa ko cunautI milI, tulasIdAsa ko bhI cunautI milii| candraprabha ko bhI cunautI milii| kAlidAsa kI patnI ne vyaMgya kiyA thA, tAnA mArA thA ki 'viduSI mahilA kA itanA gaMvAra, anapar3ha pati! agara merA pati kahalAnA cAhate ho to eka dina mere sAmane vidvAn banakara Ao, taba maiM gaurava se kaha sakU~gI ki tuma mere pati ho|' kAlidAsa jo eka gar3ariyA thA, patnI ke tAne sunakara ghara se calA jAtA hai aura jaba ghara lauTatA hai to saMsAra kA eka mahAkavi banakara hI lauTatA hai| tulasIdAsa ko bhI patnI ne kahA thA, 'jo prema tuma mujhase karate ho agara zrIrAma se karo to ve tumheM sAkSAt mila jaaeNge|' tulasI bhI patnI kI bAtoM se Ahata hokara cale gae aura jaba lauTe to likhA citrakaTa ke ghATa para, bhaI saMtana kI bhiir| tulasIdAsa caMdana ghiseM, tilaka karai rghuviir|| hara hAlata meM himmata aura sAhasa rkheN| himmata se vyakti svAvalaMbI banatA hai| himmata se hI pA~ca pA~Dava sau kauravoM se yuddha karane kA sAhasa kara sake, nahIM to loga galI ke kutte aura ghara ke cUhe se bhI Darate haiN| mujhe bacapana meM kuttoM se bahuta Dara lagatA thA kintu aba to unheM pyAra karatA huuN| eka dina maiM 134 | For Personal & Private Use Only Page #136 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ chata para khar3A thA, sAmane kI chata para eka kuttA thaa| maiMne socA ki bIca meM galI hai so kuttA mere pAsa to A nahIM sktaa| idhara se maiM, udhara se kattA majhe ghUrane lgaa| hama donoM bahuta dera taka eka-dUsare ko ghUrate rhe| bIca-bIca meM vaha bhauMka bhI letA thA, para kucha kara na skaa| taba mujhe lagA ki jaba taka hama Darate raheMge, kutte pIche par3e rheNge| jaba nirbhaya ho jAe~ge, to kuttoM ko sAiDa kara deNge| jahA~ himmata hai, vahA~ camatkAra hai, jahA~ himmata hai vahIM jIvana meM vikAsa kI krAMti hai| himmata na hAriye, prabhu nA bisAriye, haMsate-maskarAte hae jiMdagI gujaariye| eka pala ke lie bhI mana meM durbalatA kA, parAjaya kA, akarmaNyatA kA, asaphalatA kA bhAva yA vicAra na Ane diijie| yadi Apa hIna-bhAvoM ko mana meM jagaha deMge to ye bhI AzA ko bAhara dhakela deNge| dRr3ha nizcaya kIjiye, saMkalpa kariye ki Apa apane mana meM hInatA kI bhAvanA kabhI nahIM Ane deNge| Apa saMkalpa kIjie ki Apa jo kareMge, vaha zreSThatama hogaa| nirantara yaha vizvAsa rakhiye ki ApakA parizrama saphala hokara rahegA, icchA pUrI hokara rahegI, AzAoM ke phUla khilakara raheMge, AkAMkSAoM ke phala milakara rheNge| prayatna karate jAiye, pUrNa zakti, yogyatA, kuzalatA aura sAmarthya se apane uddezya ke prati niSThAvAna hokara kArya karate rahie, saphalatA nizcaya hI ApakI hogii| ___Apa apanA AtmavizvAsa juTAe~, jIvana meM saphalatA paaeN| AzaMkAoM ke bAre meM kisI prakAra mata socie, unheM bhulAne yA bhagAne kI apekSA mana ko dUsarI ora lagA deN| acchI preraNAspada pustakeM pddh'eN| ghabarAiye nahIM, Apase bhI pahale una logoM ke jIvana meM kaThinAiyA~ AI thIM jo Aja saphalatA ke ucca zikharoM para khar3e haiN| sAhasa ke sAtha Age bar3hate rahie, nirbhIkatApUrvaka, nizcita hokr| AtmavizvAsa meM bar3A camatkAra hai| yahI manuSya kI vAstavika zakti kA bhaMDAra hai| yAda rakhie, jIvana meM sukha, zAMti aura saphalatA ke maMgala gIta tabhI gAe jA sakate haiM jaba ApakA apane Apa para vizvAsa ho| qhuda para hone vAlA 135 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #137 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ vizvAsa hI mere apane jIvana kI tAqata hai| maiM jo kucha Apa logoM se kahatA hU~ vo merI bAteM merI aMtarAtmA kI preraNAe~ haiM aura aMtarAtmA kI preraNAoM ke pIche IzvarIya preraNAe~ kAma kiyA karatI haiN| apane Apa para hone vAlA vizvAsa hI Apako ApakI ojasvitA kA ahasAsa karAtA rahegA / bag2aira ojasvitA ke to iMsAna hAra kI DhalAna para fisalatA rahegA / Apa apane Apa ko utsAha, umaMga aura UrjA se bharie aura jIvana kI saphalatA tathA dhanyatA ke lie prayatnazIla ho jaaie| duniyA kI sArI qhuziyA~ tumhAre lie haiN| 'qhuza raho, hara qhuzI hai tumhAre lie / ' 1 qhuziyoM ko pAne kI sahI vaz2aha yahI hai : jIo zAna se, zuruAta muskAna se / ApakI muskAna hI ApakI jIvantatA kI pahacAna hai / z2iMde aura murde meM yahI to farqa hai ki murdA laTaka sakatA hai para z2iMdA muskurAte hue mastaka U~cA kara sakatA hai / apane jIvana kA upayoga kIjie, usa hara avasara kA jo Apako sukha, sukUna aura qhuziyA~ de ske| ruDayArDa kipaliMga kI ina paMktiyoM ko sadA yAda rakhie -yadi tuma kabhI lauTakara na Ane vAle isa eka minaTa ke sATha saikeMDa sArthaka kara lete ho to yaha samUcI dharA tumhArI hai; isa dharA para vidyamAna sabhI kucha tumhArA hai| vizvAsapUrNa z2iMdagI ke lie, apane hara Aja ko sArthaka banAne ke lie kucha bAteM nivedana kara rahA hU~, jinheM apane jehana meM utAra leM aura inase preraNA bhI lete raheM jo 1. -- huA, kisI-na-kisI dRSTi se acchA hI huA / jo ho rahA hai vaha bhI acchA hI ho rahA hai| jo hogA vaha bhI acchA hI hogA / 2. maiM apane jIvana kA sammAna karU~gA / zarIra se vyAyAma bhI karU~gA aura isakA poSaNa bhii| na maiM isakA durupayoga karU~gA aura na hI isakI upekssaa| 3. maiM apane mana-mastiSka kI zAMti, svasthatA aura prasannatA para dhyAna duuNgaa| gussA aura AvArAgardI nahIM karU~gA / mastiSka kI samRddhi ke lie kucha aisA bhI paDhU~gA jisase mere prayAsa aura vicAra prabhAvazAlI ho / 4. Aja ke dina meM acchA rahU~gA, acchA pahanU~gA, acchA vyavahAra karU~gA / dhairya aura vinamra svara meM bAta karU~gA / auroM kI prazaMsA meM udAratA barahU~gA / dUsaroM kI kamiyoM para TippaNI nahIM karU~gA / 136 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #138 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ ____5. maiM subaha uThate hI dainika kAryakrama zurU karane se pahale kisa ghaMTe meM mujhe kyA karanA hai yaha taya kruuNgaa| jaldabAjI aura anirNaya kI sthiti ko TAlane ke lie hara kArya dhairya aura dRr3hatA ke sAtha kruuNgaa| 6. Aja ke dina maiM AdhA ghaMTA zAMti, sAdhanA aura ArAdhanA ke lie samarpita kruuNgaa| maiM Izvara kA dhyAna karU~gA tAki apane jIvana meM kucha naye arthoM kA bhI samAveza kiyA jA ske| 7. maiM Aja sahaja prasanna rhuuNgaa| vAtAvaraNa viparIta bana jAne para svayaM para saMyama rakhUgA aura pUre dina prema tathA sadvyavahAra kA AnaMda luuNgaa| ApakI yaha sakArAtmakatA aura racanAtmakatA hI Apako utsAha aura vizvAsa se bharI rkhegii| yadi Apa apane 'Aja' se khuza nahIM haiM to duHkhI mata hoie, apanI mAnasikatA badalie, jIvana prabhu kA prasAda hai isakA AnaMda liijie| apanA rAstA khuda talAzie aura qhuda hI usa rAste ke cirAg2a bnie| 1137 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #139 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ sakArAtmaka soca kI cAmatkArI zakti iMsAna kI hara U~cAI ke pIche iMsAna kI sakArAtmaka aura racanAtmaka soca hI sIr3hI kA kAma karatI hai| Apa apanI soca ko paoNz2iTiva aura krieTiva banAkara dekheM to sahI Apa AsamAna meM bhI sIr3hI lagAne meM saphala ho jaaeNge| jahA~ duniyA ke lie sArI khir3akiyA~ baMda ho cukI hoMgI vahA~ Apake lie pragati kI eka khir3akI avazya khula jaaegii| kismata ke bharose mata rahie, karmayoga kA bharosA kiijie| iMsAna kA karma vaha kAmadhenu hai jisase atIta meM kabhI rAjA dilIpa ne varadAna pAyA thA, vartamAna meM Apa usase varadAna pA sakate haiN| iMsAna kI saphalatA kA pahalA pAyadAna sakArAtmaka soca hai| sakArAtmaka soca se jahA~ iMsAna kI mAnasikatA svastha aura prasanna rahatI hai, vahIM usakA kairiyara, vyApAra aura ristoM-nAto meM bhI paoNz2iTiva asara AtA hai| sakArAtmaka soca ke abhAva meM ciMtA aura tanAva meM bar3hotarI hotI hai| sakArAtmaka soca AdamI ke mijAja ko ThIka rakhatA hai, usake vyavahAra ko vinamra banAtA hai, hara samasyA ke bIca samAdhAna kA dIpa jalAtA hai| 138 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #140 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ sakArAtmaka soca ke mAyane haiM : dUsaroM ke prati acchI mAnasikatA, kA~ToM meM bhI phUloM ko DhU~r3ha nikAlane kI klaa| dUsare ke dvArA ochA aura apamAna bharA vyavahAra karane ke bAvaz2Uda hamArI ora se prema aura miThAsa bharA vyavahAra karane kA z2az2bA rakhanA sakArAtmaka soca hai / sakArAtmaka soca hamAre bhItara yaha aMtarapreraNA jagAtI hai ki kamiyA~ dekhanA kamInoM kA kAma hai aura khUbiyA~ dekhanA khUbasUrata logoM kA / viparIta hAlAta meM ciMtita aura adhIra to koI bhI ho sakatA hai, lekina dhairya aura zAMti rakhanA hI vyakti kI Atma-vijaya hai, lekina gAlI ke badale meM g2AlI to koI bhI nikAla sakatA hai, lekina g2AlI ke badale meM bhI gulAba zarabata kA pyAlA pilA denA yahI hai iMsAna kI sahI samajhadArI aura isa samajhadArI kA nAma hai sakArAtmaka soca / mahAnatAe~ na to AkAza se Tapaka kara AtI haiM aura na hI z2amIna ko phor3a kara nikalatI haiM / mahAnatAoM ke dIpa hameM svayaM ko jalAne par3ate haiM / mahAnatA kA matalaba hai vicAra, vANI aura vyavahAra kA mahAn honaa| hAlA~ki yaha koI z2arUrI nahIM hai ki hama saba loga mahAtmA gA~dhI kI taraha mahAn baneM, lekina yaha to z2arUrI ki hama apane mitroM se acchA vyavahAra kareM, kisI ke sAtha duzmanI na rkheN| sAsa-bahU, pitA-putra, bhAI-bhAI agara soca ko sakArAtmaka nahIM rakheMge to naI pIr3hI aura purAnI pIr3hI roz2a TakarAtI rheNgii| Ama iMsAna kI to chor3o, ghara vAloM ke bIca bhI dUriyA~ bar3ha jaaeNgii| yahI vaz2aha hai ki maiM sabako sakArAtmaka soca kI preraNA detA hU~ / mere dekhe sakArAtmaka soca ke jariye jIvana kI nabbe pratizata samasyAoM kA hala nikAlA jA sakatA hai / aura to aura, paoNz2iTiva thiMkiMga ke phArmUle se mAnasika rogoM para bhI vijaya prApta kI jA sakatI hai| parivAra aura bhAI-bhAI ke bIca nirantara A rahI dUriyoM ko pATA jA sakatA hai| aba dUrI kaise banatI hai, so samajhie / Aja kala kI lar3akiyoM ko sAr3I pahananA mAthA-paccI kA kAma lagatA hai| acchA hogA jaba Apa par3hI-likhI bahu ghara lA rahe haiM to nae yuga kI lar3akI ke sAtha naI vicAra - dhArA bhI lekara Ae~ / yadi sAr3I pahanane kA hI Agraha hai to gA~va kI aura kama par3hI-likhI lar3akI lAe~ / apanI par3hI-likhI bahu ko salavAra sUTa aura jiMsa pahanane kI chUTa deN| Apa bahu to lAe haiM ema. bI. e. / ApakI yaha bhI qhvAhiza hai ki vaha kamA kara bhI lAe aura Upara se yaha bhI ki vaha apane sAsa-sasura ke Age ghU~ghaTa nikAle / agara Apa isa taraha kA vyavahAra kareMge to bicArI naI pIr3hI kI bahu kA to dama 139 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #141 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ hI ghuTa jaaegaa| mere jaisA sasura ho to bahu ko sone kI cUr3I bAda meM dilAe pahale usakI manapasaMda jiMsa dilAe / are bhAI! bahu hai to kyA huA, apanI beTI hI hai| aba bacce jisameM rAjI,apana ho jAe~ usameM raajii| ghara ke vAtAvaraNa ko khuzahAla rakhanA apana saba logoM para nirbhara karatA hai| bahu kI khuziyoM kA dhyAna agara sAsa-sasura nahIM rakheMge to kauna rkhegaa| aise hI sAsa-sasura kI sevA aura unake sukha-dukha kA dhyAna bahu nahIM rakhegI to kisI aura se to hone se rhii| vAtAvaraNa cAhe ghara-parivAra kA ho yA kairiyara kA, vAtAvaraNa kabhI bojhila nahIM honA caahie| jaise AsamAna meM indradhanuSa nikala Ae to AsamAna sau gunA z2yAdA sundara ho jAtA hai, aise hI hamAre ghara-A~gana meM bhI saba loga ha~se-khileM, sAtha hilamila kara raheM to hamArA ghara svarga jaisA sundara ho hI jaaegaa| Aie, hama loga apane naz2arie ko ThIka kareM aura aisA karane ke lie hama paoNz2iTiva thikiMga kA maMtra apnaaeN| soca ko paoNz2iTiva banAne ke lie hama pA~ca maMtra apanAte haiN| pahalA hai : AdhA gilAsa bharA dekhie / sakArAtmaka soca kA pahalA usUla hai : hamezA dUsaroM kI khAsiyata dekhie, khAmiyA~ nhiiN| agara kamiyA~ dekhane jAe~ge to duniyA meM aisA kauna vyakti hai jisameM kisI na kisI taraha kI do-cAra kamiyA~ na hoN| agara naz2ariyA kamiyA~ dekhane kA ho to Apako mujhameM bhI cAra kamiyA~ naz2ara A jaaeNgii| mujhe to chor3o, rAmajI aura mahAvIrajI meM bhI kamiyA~ dekhane vAlA to unameM bhI kamiyA~ nikAla hI legaa| kamiyA~ dekhanA kamInoM kA kAma hai| paoNz2iTiva thikiMga kA phalasaphA to yaha hai ki hamezA sabake guNa dekho|ab taka agale ne hama para jo upakAra kiyA hai use yAda rkho| pitA ne Aja agara DA~Ta lagA dI to use lekara ghara meM Aga mata lagAo kyoMki yahI vaha pitA hai jinhoMne aba taka sau bAra hameM saMbhAlA hai| sAsa ne hameM Toka diyA to use lekara apanA ghara alaga mata basAie, kyoMki yahI vaha sAsa hai jo bar3I AzA aura ummIda ke sAtha hameM isa ghara meM byAha kara lAI hai| yahI vaha devI hai jisane hameM hamArA suhAga pAla-posakara Aja hameM sauMpA hai| ___ paoNz2iTiva thikiMga kA siddhAMta hameM batAtA hai ki AdhA gilAsa hamezA bharA 140 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #142 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ huA dekheN| agara hama gilAsa ke khAlI bhAga para gaura kareMge to sAmane vAle kI hamase TIkA-TippaNI hone laga jaaegii| vahIM bhare hue bhAga para gaura kareMge to sAmane vAle kI tArIfa aura abhivaMdanA karane kI cAhata jgegii| mUlya hamezA gulAba ko dIjie, kA~ToM ko nhiiN| Izvara ko yaha kaha kara zikAyateM mata kIjie ki prabhu tumane mujhe kucha nahIM diyA, balki yaha socakara zukrAnA adA kIjie ki zahara meM dasa haz2Ara loga hamase z2yAdA saMpanna hue to kyA huA, eka lAkha loga aise bhI haiM jo mujhase kAfI dIna hAlata meM haiN| paoNz2iTiva thiMkiMga rakhoge to hamezA plasa vAlA bindu naz2ara aaegaa| dUsarA hai : mijAja ko ThaNDA rkhie| paoNz2iTiva thikiMga kA usUla hameM samajhAtA hai ki hameM apanA mUDa nahIM bigAr3anA cAhie aura mijAja ko ugra nahIM hone denA caahie| loga gharoM meM to eyara kaMDizanara lagAte haiM, para dimAga meM hITara phiTiMga kie rahate haiN| are bhAI! ghara se kahIM z2yAdA z2arUrI hai dimAga kA kUla honaa| purAnI kahAvata hai - 'pA~va garama, peTa narama, mAthA jisakA ThaNDA; ghara meM Ae DaoNkTara to mAro usako ddnnddaa|' sira ko garama karane se hI DaoNkTara kI z2arUrata par3atI hai| jo apane dimAga ko sahaja va zItala prakRti kA rakhate haiM unheM kabhI kisI DaoNkTara se cikitsA karavAne kI z2arUrata nahIM pdd'tii| jo bAta Apa taiza meM Akara kahate haiM agara usI ko prema se kahane kI Adata DAla leM to bagaira kisI prayAsa ke Apa apane gusse ko jItane meM saphala ho jaaeNge| mijAja agara garama hogA to AdamI bezarma hogaa| garama mijAja hara samaya AdamI ko AuTa oNpha kaMTrola rakhatA hai| acchA hogA, hama sabhI loga eka khAsa phArmUlA apanA leM - K.E.P. yAnI kyA farka par3atA hai| kabhI koI Ter3hA zabda bola de, taba bhI yahI soco - K.E. P. 'kyA farka par3atA hai|' viparIta vAtAvaraNa bana jAne para K.E. P. kA siddhAMta vyakti kI soca ko sakArAtmaka banAe rakhane meM saphala ho sakatA hai| patnI ne gusse meM Akara pati se kahA tuma to nire jAnavara ho| pati ne muskurAte hue kahA - tumane ThIka kahA, tU merI jAna, maiM terA vr| saMta tukArAma se usakI patnI ne kheta se gannA tor3a lAne ko khaa| tukArAmajI ganne lekara bhI Ae, para caupAla para baccoM ne mA~ga liyA, so unako bA~Ta diyaa| kevala eka gannA lekara ghara phuNce| patnI ko gussA aayaa| gannA | 141 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #143 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ lekara tukArAma kI pITha para de maaraa| ganne ke do Tukar3e ho ge| tukArAma ne paristhiti ko saMbhAlate hue kahA - tU kitanI sAdhvI mahilA hai, so mere binA kahe eka ke do kara die| le, eka tU cUsa le, eka maiM cUsa letA hU~ / isako kahate haiM paristhiti para vijaya, ThaNDA mijAja / apane Apako jaba bhI gussA A jAe to kokA kolA yA thamsa apa kA vijJApana yAda kara liyA karo aura khuda ko hI bhItara se prerita kara liyA karo - kUla-kUla misTara ! kuulkuul| tIsarA maMtra hai : pragatizIla ciMtana ke mAlika bnie| paoNz2iTiva thiMkiMga kA siddhAMta hameM sikhAtA hai ki purANa paMthI aura dakiyAnusI vicAroM se cipake mata rahie / hama pragatizIla yuga meM jI rahe haiM to apanI prekTikala lAipha meM apanI mAnasikatA ko bhI pragatizIla banAie / khAna-pAna, rahana-sahana aura bola - baratAva aura pahanAve ke prati yadi apanI vicAradhArA ko paoNz2iTiva aura pragatizIla banAne meM saphala hote haiM to Apa nizcita taura para naI pIr3hI aura purAnI pIr3hI ke bIca meM A rahe durAva ko kama karane meM samartha hoNge| Apa saMtoM kI bhASA mata bolie, Apa ghara ke abhibhAvaka athavA ghara ke jimmedAra sadasya haiM / ApakI pahalI jimmedArI yahI hai ki ghara kA mAhaula prema bharA aura khuzahAla rahe / choTIchoTI bAtoM ko lekara agara Apa TI.TIM karate raheMge to ghara vAloM kI AjAdI chIna leMge aura ve ghara kI bajAya svayaM ko kArAgAra meM kaida samajhane lageMge / hama jisa yuga meM paidA hue haiM hameM usa yuga kI phitarata ko samajhanA hogA / sau sAla purAne labAde ko Aja or3havAne kI jida karanA ApakI dakiyAnUsI hI klaaegii| maiM to kahU~gA Apa bhI Az2Ada raho aura apane baccoM aura bahuoM ko bhI Az2AdI kA Ananda lene do / Akhira lakSmaNa-rekhAoM kA eka sImA taka hI pAlana ho sakatA hai| aba na Apa rAma rahe haiM, na vaha sItA / Apa bhI pragatizIla yuga meM jI rahe haiM to apane vicAroM aura jIvana-zailI ko bhI pragatizIla rakhie / eka ghara meM sabhI loga purAnI paramparAoM kA nirvAha karate hue jI rahe the / pote ne lava merIja kI / ghara ke kucha sadasyoM ne virodha darja kiyA, para dAdAjI ne kahA, agara merA potA isa bahu se khuza hai to maiM isa naI bahu ko svIkAra karatA hU~ / bahu svIkAra to ho gaI, para ghara kI purAnI DAiniMga Tebala, sophe, bahu ko rAsa na Ae to dAdA ne apane Apako purAtatva - premI banAne kI bajAe ghara ke sophe hI 142 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #144 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ badala die| apanI jamA pU~jI bahu kI khuzI ke lie kharca kara dii| ghara ke kucha sadasyoM ne jaba Apatti karanI cAhI to dAdAjI ne kahA- mujhe yaha jamA pU~jI kaunasI apane sAtha le jAnI hai| jo saMpatti saMtati ke kAma na A sake vo saMpatti kaisI ! jaise usa dAdIjI ne apane ghara ko TUTate hue bacA liyA, vaise hI agara Apa bhI aisI koI sakArAtmaka pahala karate haiM to Apake ghara meM bhI hara roz2a holI, divAlI kI khuziyA~ A sakatI haiN| cauthA maMtra hai : svayaM ko ha~samukha evaM zAMtipriya bnaaeN| paoNz2iTiva thiMkiMga kA phArmUlA hameM isa bAta ke lie prerita karatA hai ki zAMta svabhAva svarga kA janaka hotA hai, azAMta svabhAva naraka kI khAna / zAMta svabhAva kA vyakti to duzmana ko bhI priya lagatA hai| saccAI to yaha hai ki jisake svabhAva meM zAMti ke phUla khile hue rahate haiM usakA koI duzmana bhI nahIM hotA / usakA mUDa aura mijAja hamezA paoNz2iTiva rahatA hai / negeTiva svabhAva vAloM ko hI krodha z2yAdA AtA hai| agara hama loga vizva-zAMti meM vizvAsa rakhate haiM to hameM svayaM ko zAMtipriya banA lenA caahie| maiM to kahU~gA ApakA nAma jo kucha ho, Apa apanA upanAma zAMtipriya rakha leN| zAMta necara kA AdamI burA karane vAloM ke prati bhI zubhakAmanA aura sadbhAvanA se bharA huA rahatA hai| duzmana ke prati bhI sadbhAvanA rakhanA isI kA nAma hai paoNz2iTiva thiMkiMga / sadA sarvadA muskurAte rho| prabhu ke AzIrvAda Apake sAtha haiM / acchA hogA Apa apanI gAr3I ke kA~ca para yaha maMtra likhavA hI lIjie - 'smAila plIja / ' jeba meM bhale hI na ho mobAila para cehare para z2arUra rakhie smAila / z2arA muskurAie to...! dekhA, kaisA gulAba kA phUla khila utthaa| bahuta z2yAdA bhI mata muskurAiegA, nahIM to yaha gulAba kA phUla gobhI kA phUla bana jaaegaa| calie, thor3A muskurA lete haiM / eka AdamI tIna maMz2ile makAna ke nIce se gujara rahA thA ki tabhI usake sira para thor3A-sA pAnI Akara giraa| usa AdamI ne cillA kara kahA - are, pAnI kyoM phaiMka rahe ho? tIsarI maMz2ila para khar3I aurata ne kahA- pAnI kahA~ girA rahI huuN| maiM to pote ko pezAba karavA rahI hU~ / eka lar3akA eka sAtha do-do roTiyA~ khA rahA thaa| yaha dekha dUsare lar3ake ne 143 For Personal & Private Use Only Page #145 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ usase kahA - are! tU eka sAtha do-do roTiyA~ kyoM khA rahA hai? pahale lar3ake ne z2avAba diyA - DaoNkTara ne mujhe Dabala roTI khAne ko kahA hai| aMtima bAta : acche logoM kI saMgata kIjie aura acchI kitAbeM pddh'ie| g2alata logoM kI saMgata meM rahoge to vicAra aura mAnasikatA donoM hI g2alata hoMgI aura acche logoM kI saMgata meM rahoge to vicAra aura mAnasikatA donoM hI acchI rheNgii| una do toto kI kahAnI yAda karo jinameM eka totA DAkuoM ke aDDe meM rahakara lUTa-khasoTa kI bhASA bolane lagA vahIM dUsarA totA pujArI ke ghara rahakara rAma-rAma gunagunAne lgaa| svAbhAvika hai philma haoNla meM jAkara baiThoge to vaisA asara AegA aura yahA~ hameM sunane ke lie Aoge to hamAre jaisA asara pdd'egaa| bhogI kI saMgata se vyakti bhogI banatA hai aura yogI kI saMgata se vyakti yogii| bhogI to hama haiM hI, yogI kI saMgata kro| saMbhava hai unakI saMgata hameM kaMkara na rahane de, kaMkara ko hIrA banA de| acchI kitAbeM pddh'o| eka acchI kitAba iMsAna ke lie guru kA kAma karatI hai| jaise jUte-cappala-kapar3e-namakIna-miThAI kharIdane kI Adata rakhate ho, vaise hI acchI kitAbeM kharIdane kI bhI Adata rkho| zarIra kI pauSTikatA ke lie to hama acche se acchA khAnA khAte haiM, khilAte haiM, para buddhi kI pauSTikatA ke lie hama AlasI aura lAparavAha raha jAte haiN| buddhi kI khurAka hai acchI kitAbeM, acche vicaar| acchI kitAbeM apane ghara lAo, unase Apako hIremotI mileNge| kampyUTara-praNAlI kA siddhAMta hai : guDa ina, guDa AuTa; roMga ina roMga aautt| acchA DAloge to acchA paaoge| g2alata DAlakara sahI ko nahIM pAyA jA sktaa| jIvana ko Ananda-utsava kA parva banAnA hai to eka hI bIja maMtra yAda rakho :bI paoNz2iTiva / ha~sate raho aura sakArAtmaka raho / basa, itanA kAphI hai| sabake lie amRta prema, nmskaar| For Personal & Private Use Only Page #146 -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________ apane baccoM ko kAra nahIM, saMskAra diijie| ghara meM pyAra ke aise paudhe lagAie, jinase ha~sI-khuzI ke Dhera sAre phUla khileN| 'ghara ko kaise svarga banAeM' pustaka pUjya zrI candraprabha ke ve pyAre aura rasabhIne pravacana haiM, jo hamAre ghara-parivAra ke mAhaula ko hara taraha se khuzanumA banAte haiN| IMTa, cUne, patthara se makAna kA nirmANa ho sakatA hai, para ghara-parivAra kA nirmANa jina cIjoM se hotA hai, yaha pustaka hamAre sAmane unhIM saba bAtoM ko peza karatI hai| zrI candraprabha kahate haiM ki apane ghara kA mAhaula isa taraha banAeM ki ApakI hara subaha Ida ho, hara dopahara holI ho aura hara rAta dIvAlI ho| pitA ke cehare meM sadA Izvara ke darzana kareM aura mAM ke caraNoM meM svarga kA AnaMda leN| apane ghara ko apanA maMdira samajheM aura usakA svarUpa utanA hI pavitra evaM khuzanumA rakheM, jitanA ki Apa paramapitA paramezvara ke maMdira kA rakhanA pasaMda karate haiN| ___ yaha behatarIna pustaka hamAre ghara-parivAra ko khuzanumA banAtI hai, hamAre riztoM ko eka naI miThAsa detI hai, baccoM kA bhaviSya saMvAratI hai, javAnI meM saphalatA kA vizvAsa dilAtI hai aura bur3hApe kI sArthakatA ke damadAra gura sikhAtI hai| yaha pustaka apane ApameM ghara ke AMgana meM khilA huA vaha kalpavRkSa hai, jisakI chAyA meM Apa apane ghara kA mAhaula svarga jaisA sukhadAyI banA sakate haiN| ISBN 978-81-310-1470-7 manoja pablikezansa 97881310014707 / / Rs80 For Personal & Private Use Only