Pati Patnicha Divya Vyavhar

Author(s): Dada Bhagwan
Publisher: Dada Bhagwan Aradhana Trust
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/030129/1

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dAdA bhagavAna kathita pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra (saMkSipta) Socca nibhAvUna ghyA cUkA ekamekAMcyA, tara banela vivAhita jIvana sukhamaya. 'vana phaeNmilI' banUna rahA premAne, tara hoNAra nAhI jIvana duHkhamaya.

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dAdA bhagavAna kathita pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra (saMkSipta) muLa gujarAtI saMkalana : DaoN. nIrUbahana amIna anuvAda : mahAtmAgaNa

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trimaMtra vartamAnattIrthaMkara zrIsImaMdhara svAmI namo arihaMtANaM namo siddhANaM namo AyariyANaM namo uvajjhAyANaM namo loe savvasAhUNaM eso paMca namukkAro, savva pAvappaNAsaNo maMgalANaM ca savvesiM, paDhamaM havai maMgalam // 1 // OM namo bhagavate vAsudevAya // 2 // OM namaH zivAya // 3 // jaya saccidAnaMda

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dAdA bhagavAna koNa? jUna 1958 saMdhyAkALacI aMdAje sahAcI veLa, surata sTezanavara aloTa gardI hotI. pleTaphArma naMbara tInacyA relvecyA bAkAvara basalele zrI. aMbAlAla muLajIbhAI paTela rupI dehamaMdirAta naisargika svarUpAta kityeka janmAMpAsUna vyakta hoNyAsAThI AtUra asalele 'dAdA bhagavAna' saMpUrNapaNe pragaTa jhAle ANi nisargAne sarjana kele adhyAtmAce adbhuta Azcarya! ekA tAsAta vizvadarzana lAbhale! ApaNa koNa? bhagavaMta koNa? jaga koNa cAlavata Ahe ? karma mhaNaje kAya? muktI kazAlA mhaNatAta? ityAdI jagAtIla sarva AdhyAtmika praznAMce saMpUrNa nirAkaraNa kele! ANi jagAtIla sarva AdhyAtmika praznAMcA saMpUrNa ulagaDA jhAlA. azA prakAre nisargAne vizvAlA pradAna kele eka advitIya, saMpUrNa darzana ANi hyAce mAdhyama banale aMbAlAla mULajIbhAI paTela, je hote gujarAtace carotara jilhyAtIla bhAdaraNa gAvace pATIla, kaMTrAkTacA vyavasAya karaNAre ANi tarIhI pUrNa vItarAga puruSa. tyAMnA jJAna prApti jhAlI tyAca pramANe te phakta dona tAsAta itara mumukSunAM suddhA AtmajJAna prApti karUna deta hote, tyAMcyA siddha jhAlelyA adbhUta jJAna prayogAdvAre. tyAlA akrama (kramavirahIta) mArga mhaNatAta. akrama mhaNaje kramAzivAyacA ANi krama mhaNaje pAyarI pAyarIne, kramAkramAne vara caDhAyace! akrama mhaNaje liphTa mArga! zaoNrTa kaTa!! te svataH pratyekAlA 'dAdA bhagavAna koNa?' hyAbaddalacI phoDa karUna detAnA mhaNAyace kI, "he disatAta te 'dAdA bhagavAna' nAhIta. he tara e.ema. paTela Aheta. AmhI jJAnIpuruSa Ahota ANi Ata pragaTa jhAle Aheta te dAdA bhagavAna Aheta. te caudalokace nAtha Aheta, te tumacyAta paNa Aheta, sarvAMmadhye Aheta! tumacyAta avyakta rupAta basalele Aheta ANi 'ithe' saMpUrNapaNe vyakta jhAlele Aheta! mI svataH paramezvara nAhI. mAjhyA Ata pragaTa jhAlele 'dAdA bhagavAna' tyAMnA mI paNa namaskAra karato." vyApArAta dharma asAvA paraMtu dharmAta vyApAra nasAvA. hyA siddhAMtAne te saMpUrNa jIvana jagale. tyAMnI jIvanAta kadhIhI koNAkaDUnahI paise ghetale nAhIta, ulaTa svata:cyA vyavasAyAtUna jhAlelyA phAyadyAtUna bhaktAMnA yAtrA karavIta asata.

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AtmajJAna prApticI pratyakSa lIMka mI tara, kAhI lokAMnA mAjhyA hAtUna siddhi prApta karUna deNAra Ahe. mAjhyA naMtara koNI tarI pAhije kI nAhI! naMtara lokAMnA mArga (dAkhaviNArA) havA kI nAhI? - dAdAzrI parama pUjya dAdAzrIMnA je jJAna prApta jhAle, te adbhuta AtmajJAna, tyAMnI deza-videza paribhramaNa karUna, dusar2yA lokAMnA suddhA dona tAsAta prApta karUna dile hote, tyAlA jJAnavidhi mhaNatAta. dAdAzrIMnI ApalyA jIvanakALAtaca pUjya DaoN. nIrUbahana amIna (nIrUmA)yAnAM AtmajJAna deNyAcI jJAnasiddhi pradAna kelI hotI. dAdAzrIMcyA dehavilaya pazcAt nIrUmA AtAparyaMta mumukSujanAMnA satsaMga ANi AtmajJAnAcI prApti, nimittabhAvAne karata hotyA. tyAcabarobara pUjya dIpakabhAInAMhI dAdAzrIMnI satsaMga karaNyAcI siddhi pradAna kelI hotI. pUjya nIrUmAMcyA upasthitItaca tyAMcyA AzIrvAdAne pUjya dIpakabhAI deza-videzAta kitItarI ThikANI jAUna mumukSUnA AtmajJAna prApti karUna deta hote, je pUjya nIrUmAMcyA dehavilaya pazcAt Aja paNa cAlU Ahe. hyA AtmajJAna prApti naMtara hajAro mumukSu saMsArAta rAhUna, sarva jabAbadAr2yA sAMbhALUna suddhA mukta rAhUna AtmaramaNatecA anubhava karata Aheta. pustakAta lihilelI vANI mokSArthIlA mArga dAkhaviNyAcyA hetUne atyaMta upayogI siddha jhAlI Ahe. paraMtu mokSa prAptisAThI AtmajJAna prApta karaNe jarurI Ahe. akrama mArga dvArA AtmajJAnAcI prApti Aja paNa cAlU Ahe. tyAsAThI pratyakSa AtmajJAnIlA bheTUna AtmajJAnAcI prApti karela tevhAca he zakya Ahe. prajvalita divAca dusarA divA prajvalita karU zakato.

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nivedana AtmajJAnI zrI aMbAlAla muLajIbhAI paTela, jyAMnA sarvajaNa 'dAdA bhagavAna'hyA nAvAne oLakhatAta. tyAMcyA zrImukhAtUna AtmatattvAsAThI jI vANI nighAlI, tI rekaoNrDa karUna saMkalana va saMpAdana karUna graMtharupAne prakAzita karaNyAta AlI Ahe. hyA pustakAta parama pUjya dAdA bhagavAnAMcyA zrImukhAtUna nighAlelyA sarasvatIcA marAThI anuvAda kelA Ahe. hyAta tyAMce uttama vyavahArajJAna ANi AtmavijJAna samAviSTa Ahe. sujJa vAcakAne adhyayana kelyAvara tyAlA AtmasAkSAtkArAcI bhUmikA nizcita hote, ase kityekAMce anubhava Aheta. te 'dAdA bhagavAna' tara tyAMcyA dehAta asalelyA paramAtmAlA mhaNata hote. zarIra he paramAtmA hovU zakata nAhI. kAraNa zarIra vinAzI Ahe. paramAtmA tara avinAzI Ahe ANi je pratyeka jIvamAtracyA Ata Ahe. prastuta anuvAdAmadhye vizeSa lakSa Thevalele Ahe kI pratyeka vAcakAlA pratyakSa dAdAMcI vANIca, aikata Ahota asA anubhava vhAvA. jJAnIMcyA vANIlA marAThI bhASeta yathArthapaNe anuvAdita karaNyAcA prayatna kelA Ahe. paraMtu dAdAzrIMcyA AtmajJAnAcA kharA uddeza 'jasA Ahe tasA' ApalyAlA gujarAthI bhASeta avagata hoIla. jyAMnA jJAnAcA gahana artha samajUna ghyAyacA asela, jJAnAcA kharA marma jANAyacA asela, tyAMnI hyA hetUne gujarAtI bhASA zikAvI, asA AmacA anurodha Ahe. anuvAdAsaMbaMdhI uNIvAMsAThI Apale kSamAprArthI Ahota.

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prastAvanA nigodAtUna ekeMdriya ANi ekeMdriyApAsUna paMceMdriyAparyaMtacyA utkrAMtIcyA pariNAmI manuSyAce pariNamana jhAle, tevhApAsUna yugalika strI va puruSa doghehI ekatra janmale, lagna kele ANi nivRtta jhAle.... azAprakAre udaya jhAlA patI-patnIcyA vyavahArAcA ! satyuga, dvApara ANi tretAyugAmadhye prAkRtika saraLatemuLe pati-patnIcyA jIvanAta samasyA kvacitaca yeta asatAta. Aja hyA kaliyugAta pati-patnI madhye dararoja kleza, kaTakaTI ANi matabheda bahudhA sarvatra disatAta!!! hyAcyAtUna bAhera nighUna patI-patnIne Adarza jIvana kase jagAve, yAce mArgadarzana hyA kALAnusAra koNatyA zAstrAtUna miLela ? tevhA AtA kAya karAve? AjacyA lokAMcyA vartamAna samasyA ANi tyA samasyAMce tyAcyAMca bhASeta samAdhAna karaNyAce sAdhe-saraLa upAya tara hyA kALAce prakaTa jJAnIca deU zakatAta. ase prakaTa jJAnI puruSa, parama pUjya dAdAzrIMnA tyAMcyA jJAnAvasthecyA tIsa varSA daramyAna pati-patnImadhye hoNAr2yA gharSaNAcyA samAdhAnasAThI vicAralelyA hajAro praznAMtUna saMkalana karUna, yethe prastuta pustakAta prakAzita karaNyAta yeta Ahe. pati-patnImadhye hoNAr2yA aneka jaTIla samasyAMcye samAdhAnarUpI hRdayasparzI ANi kAyama samAdhAna karaNArI hI vANI yethe sujJa vAcakAMnA tyAMcyA vaivAhika jIvanAta ekamekAMnA devI-devatA sArakhe pAhaNyAcI acUka dRSTi utpanna karUna deIla azI Ahe, mAtra manApAsUna vAcUna samajalAta taraca! zAstrAta gUDha tatvajJAna upalabdha hota asate, paraMtu te tatvajJAna zabdAtaca miLata asate. zAstrAdvAre tyAhUna puDhe jAtA yeta nAhI. dAdAMce je zabda Aheta, te bhASecyA dRSTIne sAdhe-saraLa Aheta paraMtu jJAnI puruSAMce darzana nirAvaraNa Ahe, mhaNUna tyAMce pratyeka vacana AzayapUrNa, mArmika, maulika taseca samoracyAcyA dRSTIkonAlA taMtotaMta samajata asalyAmuLe zrotyAMcyA darzanAsa suspaSTapaNe kholUna tyAMnA adhika uMcIvara neUna pohacavitAta. vyAvahArika jIvanAta paDalele paMkcara kase joDAve (ThIka karAyace)

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he tara tyAce eksaparTa anubhavIca zikavU zakatIla. saMpUrNa AtmajJAnI pUjya dAdAzrI, svata:cyA patnIsobatacyA Adarza vyavahArAlA pUrNapaNe anubhavUna, anubhavavANI dvArA tyAce samAdhAna karatAta, je atyaMta prabhAvIpaNe kAma karate. saMpUjya dAdAMzrIkaDe kitItarI patI, patnI ANi joDapyAMnI svata:cyA duHkhamaya jIvanAtIla samasyAMce vivaraNa kele, kadhI khAjagImadhye tara kadhI jAhIra satsaMgAta! hyA vizeSa goSTI jAsta karuna ameriketa jhAlyA hotyA. jithe sarva phrIlI, manamokaLepaNAne svata:cyA khAjagI jIvanAbaddala bolU zakatAta. nimittAdhIna parama pUjya dAdAMzrIcI anubhavavANI nighAlI jyAce saMkalana pratyeka vAcaNAr2yA pati-patnIlA mArgadarzaka Tharela, he nizcita Ahe! kadhI patIlA TokaNe tara kadhI patnIlA jhaTakaNe, jyA nimittAlA je sAMgaNe Avazyaka asela tyAlA te ArapAra baghUna niSkarSa kADhUna dAdAzrI ApalyA vacanabaLAne roga nirmulana karata hote. sujJa vAcakAMnA hica vinaMtI kI gairasamajutIne durupayoga karu nakA kI dAdAMnI tara striyAMceca doSa dAkhavile Aheta, kiMvA patIcyA mAlakIpanAlAca doSita Tharavale Ahe! mAlakAcyA mAlakIpaNAce doSa dAkhavaNArI vANI ANi patnIlA patnIcyA prAkRtika doSAMnA darzavaNArI vANI dAdAMcyA zrImukhAtUna pravAhita jhAlI Ahe. tI yogya rItIne grahaNa karuna svata:cyA zuddhIkaraNa hetU manana, ciMtana karAve hIca pAThakAMnA namra vinaMtI! DaoN. nIrubahana amIna

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saMpAdakIya lagna karatAca miLAlI, phrI oNpha kaoNsTa svayaMpAkINa, jhADUvAlI, lAdIpusaNArI ANi dhobINa phukaTacI! covIsa tAsa narsarI, ANi patIlA sinsiyara, svikArale sAsara, soDale AI-vaDIla, bhAvaMDa mAhera! mAMge nA kadhI pagAra-bonasa-kamizana kiMvA bakSIsa! mAgitalI sADI jara kadhI, tara kA yete patIlA cIDa? ardhA hissA mulAMmadhyehI, paNa DilivarI karata koNa? tyAvara mAge nAva patIce, maga kA ho detA tAne? pahA kevaLa donaca cUkA striyAMcyA, caritrya kiMvA gharAce nukasAna, kaDhI khAraTa kiMvA phoDalI kAca, choTyA cUkAMnA dyA kSamAdAna ! patnI cAlela ulaTa tevhA, pahA tice guNa, mojA balidAna, ghara-patnIlA sAMbhALaNe, tyAtaca mardA tujhe moThepaNa! kuThaparyaMta samajAla patIlA, bhoLA-bina akkalecA? nirakhUna pArakhUna ANalesa tU, ApalyAca pasaMtIcA! pasaMta kele, mAgitalA patI svataHhUna vayAne moThA, uThaka-baiThaka karaNArA, jara ANalA asatA choTA! rUpa, zikSaNa, uMcIta, mAgitale supiriyara, veDapaTa, bAvaLaTa nako paNa havA Ahe supara! lagnA naMtara, 'tu asA, tU tasA' kA ase karatA? samajAla supiriyara zevaTaparyaMta, tara hoIla saMsAra suMdara! gharAta patI zUra, khuMTIlA bAMdhalelyA gAyIlA mAre, zevaTI bephAma hote gAya tevhA dharate vAghiNIce rupa dharate! pannAzIparyaMta Tokata rAhatAta pUrNa divasa-rAtra, maga mule karatAta vasulI, hotAta AIcyA pakSAta ! 'apakSa' hoUna rAhatosa murkhA, gharAtalyAMce khAto mAra, AttA tarI saraLa ho, miLava muktIcA mArga!

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jADa patI paNa zodhato 'phigara', sauMdaryAcA rubAba, jyAne kelI stutI patnIcI, toca manAne bhogUna gheNAra! pahile kele guru zALeta, naMtara kele patnIlA guru, pahile pasaMta navhate caSme, naMtara jhAlI 'cazmAvadhU'! manapasaMta zodhaNyAta, jhAlI moThI cuka, lagna karuna pastAvaleta, phasale geleta bharapUra ! jAsta kleza patnI saMga, tara kara viSaya baMda, varSAnaMtara rijhalTa pahA, jIvanAta sukha - AnaMda ! brahmacarya ce ThevA niyama, heca vivAhitAMce lakSa, auSadha pyAve tevhAca jevhA tApa caDhela donhI pakSAta ! auSadha goDa mhaNUna, roja roja piU nakA, pyA niyamAne jevhA tApa caDhela doghAMta ! eka patnIvrata jithe, dRSTi suddhA bighaData nAhI, bAhera kadhI, kaliyugAta Ahe heca brahmacarya, jJAnI puruSa dAdA sAMge ! tirasaTa bAyako nI mI zahANA, doghAta koNAcI puNyAI ? tirasaTa tujhyA pApAne nI puNyAne miLAle zahANe patI ! gunhA koNAcA ? jaja koNa ? ithe tara bhogato tyAcI cuka, nisargAcA nyAya samajUna ghyA, tara uDela cUkAMce mULa ! sAMbhALatA mitrAMnA ANi gAvAlA, gharAta mAtra laThThebAjI, are! jine sAMbhALale jIvanabhara, titheca cukalAsa pAjI ! sAMbhALatosa bAhe abrU, gharAta mAtra beabrU, pahA ulaTA nyAya, suMdara jevaNAta ghAlisI khaDe ! 'mAjhI bAyako, mAjhI bAyako' bolUna mAralesa mamatece ATa! 'nAhI mAjhI', boletAca ulagaDatIla AtIla duHkhAce ATe ! lagnAnaMtara patI mhaNato, tujha vina jagU kasA ? ! melyAvara nAhI jhAlA satA, nAhI koNI satI disata ! hI tara Asakti pudgalAcI, nAhI he khareprema ! dise nAhI doSa, nAhI apekSA, nAhI dveSa, titheca zuddha prema ! 10

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tU asA nI tU azI, abhedateta AlA bheda ? jhAlA zAMtIcA aMta, jara jhAlA jarAsA bheda ! ekA DoLyAta prema nI, dusar2yA DoLyAta saktI jithe, donhI DoLyAne pAhile patnIlA, jiMkAla saMsAra tithe ! ekA phaeNmilIsArakhe jagA, karu nakA mAjhe-tujhe, patnIsa cAlalAsa sudhAraNyAsa, sudhAralesa kA tujhe ? Arya nArIcyA kapALAvara kuMkU, dhyAna ekAca patIce, raMgAve lAgela pUrNa toMDa, kapALa jara asela paradezI nArI ! eka dusar2yAMcyA cukA nibhAUna ghyA, heca premamaya jIvana, ghaTata-vADhata nAhI kadhI je, teca khare prema darzana ! - DaoN. nIrubahana amIna 11

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anukramaNikA 1. vana phaeNmilI (eka kuTuMba) 2. gharAta kleza (bhAMDaNa) 3. pati-patnIta matabheda 4. jevatAnA kiTa-kiTa 5. mAlaka pAhije, mAlakIpaNA nako 6. samoracyAMcI cuka kADhaNyAcI savaya ! 7. 'gADI' cA garama mUDa 8. sudhArAve kI sudharAve 9. kaoNmanasensa ne eDajasTa evarIvhera 10. dona DipArTamenTa vegaLe 11. saMzaya jALela sonyAcI laMkA 12. patIpaNAcA gunhA 13. dAdAMcyA dRSTine calA, patIMno... 14. 'mAjhI' ce ATe ulagaDatIla ase 15. paramAtma premAcI oLakha 16. lagna kele mhaNaje 'promisa TU pe' 17. patnIsobata bhAMDaNa 18. patnI paratapheDa karate tolUna mApUna 19. patnIcyA takrArI 20. pariNAma ghaTasphoTAce 21. saptapadIce sAra... 22. pati-patnIce prAkRtika paryAya 23. viSayavikAra baMda tithe prema saMbaMdha 24. rahasya RNAnubaMdhAce...... 25. Adarza vyavahAra, jIvanAta.....

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 1. vana phaeNmilI (eka kuTuMba) jIvana jagAvese kevhA vATate kI jevhA pUrNa divasa kAhIhI upAdhI (bAheruna yeNAre duHkha) nasela tara. jIvanAta zAMtatA asela, tevhA jagaNe AvaDela. jara kA gharAta kaTakaTI (bhAMDaNa) hota asatIla, tara jIvana jagaNe kazA prakAre AvaDela?! he tara jamaNAraca nAhI na! gharAta kaTakaTa nAhI asAyalA nako. ekhAdyA veLesa zejAr2yAMbarobara vAdavivAda hoIla bAheracyA lokAMbarobara hoIla, paNa gharAtahI? gharAta phaeNmilIsArakhe lAIpha jagale pAhije. phaeNmilI lAIpha kazI asate? gharAta prema, prema va prema ca asaNAra, AtA tara azI phaeNmilI lAIpha rAhilIca kuThe? DALa khAraTa jhAlI kI boMbAboMma karuna ghara DokyAvara ghetAta. maga DALa khAraTa Ahe ase hI baDabaDatAta! aMDara DevalapDa (avikasita) prajA DevalapDa mANasa kazI asatAta kI DALa khAraTa jhAlI asela tara te bAjUlA ThevUna detIla ANi dusare sAre jevUna ghetIla. ase nAhI kA karu zakata?! DALa bAjUlA sAruna bAkIce nAhI jevatA yeNAra? hI azI Ahe phaeNmilI lAIpha. bAhera vAdAvivAda karA nA! mAya phaeNmilIcA artha kAya kI ApalyAta koNatyAhI prakaracI bhAnagaDa nAhI. aiDajasTamenTa ghetalI pAhije svata:cyA phaeNmilIta aiDajasTa hotA Ale pAhije, aiDajasTa aivarIvhera. phaeNmilI oNrgenAijhezana' (kuTuMba vyavasthA) ce jJAna Ahe kA tumacyAkaDe.ApalyA hindusthAnAta 'hAu TU oNrgenAijhezana phaeNmilI' hyA jJAnAcIca kamI Ahe. phorenavAle tara phaeNmilI sArakhe kAhI samajataca nAhI. he tara jemsa vIsa varSAcA jhAlA tara tyAce AI vaDila, viliyama ANi

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pati- patnIcA divya vyavahAra merI, jemsa lA bolatAta kI, tU vegaLA ANi AmhI doghe popaTa ANi mainA vegaLe! tyAMnA phaeNmilI oNrgenAija karaNyAcI jAsta savayaca nAhI nA ? ANi tyAMcI phaeNmilI tara spaSTaca bolate merI barobara viliyamalA jamata nasela tara DAyavorsacIca vArtA! ANi ApalyA ithe tara DAyavorsacI goSTa nasate. ApalyAkaDe tara ekatraca rahAyace. bAcAbAcIhI karAyacI nI parata jhopAyace paNa ekatra tyAca rumamadhye ! hA jIvanAcA mArga nAhI. hyAlA phaeNmilI lAIpha nAhI mhaTale jAta. ANi hyA iMDiyAmadhye tara loka phaeNmilI DaoNkTara paNa ThevatAta. are, ajUna phaeNmilIca jhAlI nAhI, tithe tU kA DaoNkTara Thevato Ahesa ? he loka phaeNmilI DaoNkTara ThevatAta paNa patnIca phaeNmilI nAhI ? moThyA tor2yAta sAMgatAta, Amace phaeNmilI DaoNkTara Ale ! tara tyAMcyAsobata takrAra nAhI karata. DaoNkTara ne bila moThe dile tarI vAda nAhI karata. Amace phaeNmilI DaoNkTara Aheta na! te manAta ase samajatAta kI phaeNmilI DaoNkTara Thevale Ahe mhaNUna tara AmacA rubAba vADhalA Ahe ! phaeNmilIcyA mANasAMcA jarA hAta lAgalA tara ApaNa tyAMcyAbarobara bhAMDato kA ? nAhI nA. ekA phaeNmilI sArakhe rahAve. banAvaTa nAhI nA karAyacI, he tara loka banAvaTa karatAta, tase nAhI karAyace. eka phaeNmilI....... tujhyA zivAya malA karamata nAhI ase bolAyace. jarI ApalyAvara te rAgAvale, tarIpaNa thoDyA veLAne sAMgA kI, tU kitIhI rAgava paNa tujhyA zivAya malA karamata nAhI. ase bolA. itakA gurumaMtra bolA. ase kadhIhI bolataca nAhI nA! tujhyA zivAya caina paData nAhI nA! ase bolaNyAta kAhI harakata Ahe kA tumhAlA ? manAta tara prema jarura ThevA paNa thoDe phAra bAhera paNa dAkhavA. 2. gharAta kleza (bhAMDaNa ) gharAta kadhI kleza hoto kA ? tumhAlA kase vATate, gharAta kleza jhAlelA AvaDela kA ? praznakartA : kaTakaTI zivAya tara duniyA cAlata nAhI.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : tara maga paramezvara tara tithe rAhaNAraca nAhI. jithe kleza Ahe tithe paramezvara rahAta nAhI. praznakartA : ho te tara Ahe. paNa adhUnamadhUna tara vhAyalA havI na azI kaTakaTa. dAdAzrI : nAhI, hI kaTakaTa vhAyalAca nako. kaTakaTI kA vhAyalA havI mANasAmadhye! bAcAbAcI kazAlA karAyalA havI? ANi kleza hota asela tara jamela kA? tumhAlA kitI mahine AvaDela kleza hota asela tara? praznakartA : muLIca nAhI. dAdAzrI : eka mahinAbhara paNa nAhI jamaNAra, nAhI kA? chAna chAna jevAyace, sonyAce dAgine ghAlAyace ANi varuna bAcAbAcI karAyacI. arthAt jIvana jagatA yeta nAhI, tyAcI hI kaTakaTa Ahe. jIvana jagaNyAcI kalA samajata nAhI, tyAcI hI bhAnagaDa Ahe. DaoNlara kase miLavAyace hica kalA ApaNAsa mAhita Ahe. tyAcAca sArakhA vicAra karato. paNa jIvana kase jagAve yAcA vicAra nAhI kelA. vicAra kelA pAhije kI nAhI? praznakartA : vicAra kelA pAhije. paNa sagaLyAMcI paddhata vega-vegaLI asate nA? dAdAzrI : nAhI, sagaLyAMcI paddhata vega-vegaLI nAhI, ekaca paddhata asate. DaoNlara, DaoNlara ANi jevhA DaoNlara hAtAta yetAta tevhA hajAra DaoNlara tithe sToramadhye jAuna kharcuna TAkaNAra. ANi vastU kharedI karuna gharI ANUna ThevaNAra. paNa maga tyA ANalelyA vastUMnA kAya baghata rahAyace asate? te parata june hoUna jAtAta maga parata navIna ANAyacyA. pUrNa divasa toDa-joDa, toDa-joDa, duHkha, duHkha ANi duHkha, trAsa trAsa ANi trAsa, are jaLo, ase kase jIvana jagAyace? he zobhate kA mANasAMnA? kleza nAhI jhAlA pAhije, bhAMDaNaM nAhI jhAlI pAhije. kAhIca nAhI jhAle pAhije. praznakartA : paNa kleza mhaNaje kAya? dAdAzrI : oho.... jase gharAtalyAMsobata, bAheracyAMsobata, bAyakosobata

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra jo vAdavivAda (saMgharSa) hoto tyAsa kleza bolatAta. mana dukhAvale gelyAmuLe ekamekAMzI thoDA veLa vegaLe rAhatAta, tyAce nAMva kleza. dona-tIna tAsa vAdavivAda jhAlyAvara lageca eka vhAla tara harakata nAhI. paNa saMgharSa jhAlyAvara vegaLe vhAla tara to kleza mhaTalA jAIla. bArA tAsa vegaLe rAhilAta tara pUrNa rAtra klezAtaca jAIla. praznakartA : haM...... hI klezacI goSTa kelI tI puruSAMmadhye jAsta Ahe kI striyAMmadhye jAsta Ahe? dAdAzrI : kleza tara... striyAMmadhye jAsta asato. praznakartA : hyAce kAraNa kAya? dAdAzrI : ase Ahe nA, kAhIveLA vAdAvivAda hoto tyAmuLe tevhA kleza nirmANa hoto. kleza hoNe mhaNaje paTakana jaLUna vijhUna jANe. puruSa ANi strImadhye kleza jhAlyAvara puruSa tara soDUna deNAra paNa strI tyAlA paTakana soData nAhI ANi klezAtUna kalaha karuna TAkate ANi maga tI toMDa phugavUna phirata rahAte jase kI ApaNa tilA tIna divasa upAzI ThevalyA pramANe vAgate. praznakartA : tara maga hA kalaha dUra karaNyAsAThI kAya karAve? dAdAzrI : ApaNa kleza nAhI kele tara kalaha hoNAra nAhI, vAstavAta ApaNaca kleza karuna Aga lAvata asato. Aja jevaNa cAMgale nAhI jhAle, Aja tara mAjhyA toMDAcI cavaca gelI, ase kAhItarI bolUna kleza ubhA karatA ANi maga tI kalaha karate. praznakartA : mukhya goSTa tara hI Ahe kI gharAta zAMtI rahAyalA havI. dAdAzrI : paNa zAMtI rAhila kazI? mulIce nAMva jarI zAMti Thevale tarI paNa zAMtI rAhaNAra nAhI. tyAsAThI tara dharma samajAvA lAgela, gharAtalyA sagaLyA sadasyAMnA sAMgitale pAhije kI, ApaNa sarva gharAtalI mANase koNI koNAce vairI nAhI. koNAce koNA barobara bhAMDaNa nAhI. ApalyAlA matabheda karaNyAcI kAhIca garaja nAhI. miLUna-misaLUna zAMtIpUrvaka khA-pyA AnaMdI

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra rahA, majA karA, azAprakAre ApalyAlA sarvakAhI vicArapUrvaka kele pAhije. gharAtalyA mANasAMbarobara kleza kadhIhI nAhI kelA pAhije. tyAca gharAta rahAyace tara bAcAbAcI karaNyAta kAya artha Ahe? koNAlA trAsa deUna tumhI sukhI vhAla he zakyaca nAhI. ApalyAlA tara sukha deUna sukha ghyAyace Ahe. ApaNa gharAta sukha dile taraca sukha miLela. tI cahA-pANI paNa nITa banavUna deIla, nAhItara cahA paNa nITa banavaNAra nAhI. hI tara kitI ciMtA-saMtApa! jarA paNa matabheda kamI hota nAhIta. tarI suddhA manAta mAnato kI mI kitI dharma kele! are, gharAta matabheda TaLalA kA? kamI tarI jhAlA Ahe kA? ciMtA kamI jhAlI? thoDI phAra zAMtI AlI? tevhA bolatAta, nAhI, paNa mI dharmAce tara keleca na? are, tyAlA tU dharma mhaNato? dharma tara aMtarazAMtI deto, Adhi-vyAdhI-upAdhI hoU deta nAhI, tyAsa dharma mhaNatAta! svabhAvA (AtmA) kaDe jANe yAsa dharma mhaNatAta. he tara kleza pariNAma sArakhe vADhataca jAtAta! patnIcyA hAtAtUna evaDhyA moThyA paMdharA-vIsa kAcecyA Diza ANi glAsa vera (kAce cI bhAMDI) paDUna phuTale tara. tyAveLI ApalyAvara kAhI pariNAma hoto kA? duHkha jhAle, mhaNUna baDabaDalyA zivAya rAhata nAhI nA! hA reDiyo vAjalyA zivAya rahAtaca nAhI. du:kha jhAle kI reDiyo suru, maga tilA paNa duHkha hote. tyAvara tI paNa kAya bolate, haM.... jase kAya tumacyA hAtUna kadhI kAhI phuTataca nAhI. hI samajaNyAcI goSTa Ahe kI Diza paDatAta nA? ApaNa sAMgitale kI te tu phoDUna TAka tara phoDela kA tI? nAhI phoDaNAra. maga he koNa phoData asela? hyA varlDa madhye koNatAhI manuSya ekahI Diza phoDaNyAcI zakti TheU zakata nAhI. hA tara sarva hizoba pUrNa hoto Ahe. Diza phuTela tevhA ApaNa tilA vicArale pAhije tulA lAgale tara nAhI nA?! jara sophyAvaruna bhAMDaNa hota asela tara sophyAlA bAhera phekUna dyA. hA sophA tara dahA-vIsa hajArAMcA asela. mUrkhA, tyAsAThI bhAMDaNa kasale?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra jyAne phADalA tyAcyAvara dveSa hoto. are murkhA! phekUna ye. jyA vastUmuLe gharAta bhAMDaNa lAgale, tI vastU bAhera phekUna dyA. jitake samajela titakI zraddhA basata jAIla. titakeca phaLa deIla. helpa (madata) karela. zraddhA basalI nAhI tara te helpa paNa karaNAra nAhI. mhaNUna samajadArIne cAlalAta tara Apale jIvana sukhI hoIla, ANi tice jIvana paNa sukhI hoIla. are, tumacI patnI tumhAlA garamAgarama bhajI ANi jilebI banavUna deta nAhI kA?! praznakartA : banavUna dete nA? dAdAzrI : ho tara maga? tice upakAra mAnata nAhI, kAraNa kI tI ApalI pArTanara Ahe. tyAta tice kasale upakAra? ase mhaNatAta. ApaNa paise ANato ANi tI ApalyAlA he sarva banavUna dete, azI doghAMcI pArTanarazIpa cAlate. mule paNa pArTanarazIpa madhye yetAta, kAya ticyA ekaTIcI thoDeca Aheta?! tine mulAMnA janma dilA Ahe mhaNUna ticyA ekaTIcIca Aheta? doghAMcI Aheta mule, doghAMcI kI ekaTIcI? praznakartA : doghAMcI. dAdAzrI : haM mulAMnA janma kAya puruSa deNAra hote? arthAt he jagata samajaNyAsArakhe Ahe! kAhI bAbatIta samajaNyAsArakhe Ahe. ANi te jJAnI puruSa samajAvatAta, tyAMnA kAhI gheNe-deNe nasate, mhaNUna te samajAvatIla kI, bhAU, he evaDhe ApalyA hitAce Ahe, tevhA maga gharAta kAhI kleza kamI hotIla, toDa-phoDa kamI hotIla. kRSNa bhagavAnAMnI sAMgitale Ahe, dona prakAracI buddhi, avyabhicAriNI ANi vyabhicAriNI. vyabhicAriNI mhaNaje duHkhaca dete ANi avyabhicAriNI buddhi sukhaca dete, duHkhAtUna sukha zodhUna kADhate. ANi he tara bAsamatI tAMduLAta khaDe ghAlUna khAtIla maga. ithe amerikAmadhye khAyace sAmAna kitI cAMgale, zuddha tUpa miLate, dahI miLate kitI chAna jevaNa miLate, jIvana saraLa Ahe, tarIhI jIvana jagatA yeta nAhI mhaNUna mAra khAtAta nA loka. ApalyA hitAce kAya Ahe tyAcA tarI vicAra karAyalA havA nA!

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra lagna jhAle tyA divasAcA AnaMda AThavaNe hitakArI kI, vidhura jhAlo tyA divasAcA zoka AThavaNe hitakArI ! AmhAlA tara lagnAcyA veLesaca vidhura hoNyAce vicAra Ale hote nA !! lagnAcyA veLesa navIna pheTA bAMdhalA hotA. tyA divasAta pheTe ghAlata asata. paNa naMtara pheTA sarakalyAvara manAta vicAra AlA kI lagna karAyalA tara basalo Ahe, doghAMce milana hota Ahe, paNa AtA doghAMpaikI eka tara vidhura hoNAraca nA ! praznakartA : tyA vayAta tumhAlA ase vicAra Ale hote ? dAdAzrI : kA nAhI yeNAra ? eka cAka tara moDaNAraca nA? lagna kele mhaNaje vaidhavya AlyAzivAya rAhaNAra nAhI. praznakartA : paNa lagnAcyA veLesa tara joza caDhalelA asato, kitI moha asato, azAveLI vairAgyAcA vicAra kuThUna yeIla ? dAdAzrI : paNa tyAveLI vicAra AlA kI lagna jhAlyAnaMtara vidhurapaNA tara yeNAraca. doghAMpaikI ekAlA tarI vaidhavya yeNAraca. tilA tarI yeIla nAhItara malA yeIla. sarvAMcyA upasthitIta, sUryanArAyaNAcyA sAkSIne brAhmaNAcyA sAkSIne lagna kele tevhA brAhmaNAne sAMgitale kI samaya varte sAvadhAna (zubha maMgala sAvadhAna) tara tulA sAvadhahI hotA yeta nAhI ? veLenusAra sAvadhAna vhAyalA have, bhaTajI bolatAta kI samaya varte sAvadhAna te tara bhaTajInAMca samajate, paNa lagna karaNAr2yAlA kase samajela ? sAvadhAnacA artha kAya ? tara mhaNatAta, bAyako ugra (krodhIta) jhAlI asela tara tU thaMDa houna jA, sAvadha ho. samaya varte sAvadhAna arthAt paristhitI anusAra sAvadha rAhaNe Avazyaka Ahe. taraca saMsArAta lagna karAve. tI jara saMtApalI asela ANi ApaNahI saMtApalo tara tyAlA besAvadhapaNA mhaNAyacA. tI jevhA saMtApela tevhA ApalyAlA zAMta rahAyace. sAvadha rAhaNyAcI garaja nAhI kA ? AmhI tara sAvadha hoto, phaTa paDU dilI nAhI. matabheda paDAyalA lAgale kI lagecaca velDiMga karuna deta hoto. praznakartA : kleza hoNyAce mukhya kAraNa kAya Ahe ?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : bhayaMkara ajJAnatA! tyAmuLe saMsArAta jagatA yeta nAhI. mulAcA bApa hotA yeta nAhI. patnIcA patI hotA yeta nAhI. jIvana jagaNyAcI kalAca yeta nAhI. he tara sukha asUna suddhA sukha bhogU zakata nAhI. praznakartA : paNa vAda hoNyAce kAraNa svabhAva nAhI juLata tyAmuLe ? dAdAzrI : ajJAnatA Ahe tyAmuLe. saMsAra tyAceca nAMva kI jithe koNAce svabhAva koNAbarobara juLataca nAhI! he jJAna jyAnAM miLAle tyAMcyAkaDe tara ekaca rastA Ahe, eDajasTa evarIvhera. jithe kleza Ahe tithe bhagavaMtAcA vAsa rahAta nAhI. mhaNUna ApaNa bhagavaMtAlA sAMgato kI, sAheba tumhI maMdirAtaca rahA, mAjhyA gharI yeU nakA! AmhI maMdira banavU paNa tumhI gharI yevU nakA. jithe kleza nAhI tithe bhagavaMtAcA vAsa nakkI Ahe tyAcI tumhAlA mI gaeNrenTI deto. kleza jhAlA kI bhagavaMta nighUna jAtAta. ANi bhagavaMta nighUna gelyAvara loka ApalyAlA kAya sAMgatAta kI dhaMdyAta kAhI barakata hota nAhI, are bhagavaMta nighUna gele tyAmuLe barakata hota nAhI. bhagavaMta joparyaMta Aheta toparyaMta dhaMdyAta phAyadA vaigere sarva kAhI hota asato. tumhAlA AvaDato kA kleza? praznakartA : nAhI. dAdAzrI : tarI paNa hoUna jAto nA? praznakartA : kadhI-kadhI. dAdAzrI : tara hI divALI paNa kadhI kadhIca yete nA, dararoja thoDI yete! praznakartA : naMtara paMdharA miniTAta thaMDa hoUna jAte. vAdavivAda baMda hoUna jAtAta. dAdAzrI : ApalyAtUna kleza kADhUna TAkA. jyAMcyA gharAta kleza Ahe, tithUna manuSyapaNA nighUna jAto. khUpa puNyAIne manuSyajIvana prApta hote. te hI hindusthAnAtIla manuSyapaNA, ANi te hI punhA ithe (ameriketa), hindusthAnAta zuddha tUpa zodhatAta tarI suddhA miLata nAhI ANi tumhAlA tara

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra roja zuddha tUpaca miLata asate. azuddha zodhale tarI miLata nAhI. kitI puNyazAlI AhAta! paraMtu puNyAcA paNa, durupayoga hoto maga. ApalyA gharAta klezarahIta jIvana jagale pAhije. itakI tara kuzalatA yAyalA havI nA. dusare kAhI nAhI Ale tarI ApaNa tyAMnA samajAvale pAhije kI, kleza jhAlA tara ApalyA gharAtUna paramezvara nighUna jAtIla. tyAsAThI tU nakkI kara kI ApalyAlA kleza karAyace nAhIta. ANi tumhI paNa nakkI karA kI kleza karAyace nAhIta. nakkI kelyA naMtara hI kleza hoUna jAta asela tara samajAve kI, he ApalyA satte bAherace ghaDale Ahe. tevhA maga to kleza karata asela tarI hI ApaNa pAMgharuna gheUna jhopUna jAve. tara tohI thoDyAveLAnI jhopUna jAIla. paNa jara ApaNahI samora vAda ghAlU lAgalo tara? kleza nAhI hoNAra ase nakkI karA nA! tIna divasAsAThI tarI nakkI karuna baghA nA! prayoga karaNyAta kAya harakata Ahe? tIna divasAMce upavAsa karatA nA tabbetIsAThI? taseca he paNa nakkI karuna tara baghA. gharAta sarvAMnI ekatra miLUna nakkI karA kI, dAdAzrI je sAMgata hote, tI goSTa malA AvaDalI Ahe. mhaNUna ApaNa AjapAsUna kleza karaNyAce soDUyA! maga pahA. praznakartA : ithe ameriketa bAyakA paNa nokarI karatAta tyAmuLe striyAMnA jarA jAsta pAvara AlI Ahe, mhaNUna hasabaMDa-vAIpha (pati-patnI) madhye jAsta kIcakIca hote. dAdAzrI : pAvara AlI Ahe he tara cAMgale jhAle nA ulaTa, ApaNa tara samajAve kI ohoho! tase maga pAvara vinAce hoto tara pAvara AlI te cAMgaleca jhAle ApalyAsAThI ! saMsAragADA cAMgalA cAlela nA? hyA gADyAMce baila Dhile asalele bare kI pAvaravAle? praznakartA : paNa khoTI pAvara dAkhavalI tara kharAbaca hoNAra nA? pAvara cAMgalyAsAThI vAparata asela tara ThIka Ahe. dAdAzrI : ase Ahe, jara pAvaralA mAnya kele nAhI, tara ticI pAvara

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra bhiMtIvara jAUna AdaLela. asA rubAba mArate ni tasA rubAba mArate paNa ApalyAvara tyAcA kAhI pariNAma jhAlA nAhI tara ticI pAvara bhiMtIvara AdaLUna parata tilAca lAgela. praznakartA : ApalyA bolaNyAcA artha asA Ahe kI AmhI bAyakAMce aikAyace nAhI. dAdAzrI : aikA, sarva cAMgalyAprakAre aikA, ApalyA hitAcI goSTa asela tara sarva kAhI aikA ANi pAvara jara ApaTata asela, tara tyAveLI mauna rahAcaye. te ApaNa pAhUna ghyAyace kI kitI pyAlelI (bhaDakalelI) Ahe. pilyA pramANe pAvara vAparela nA? praznakartA : barobara Ahe. tyAca pramANe puruSa paNa khoTI pAvara dAkhavata asela tara? dAdAzrI : tevhA ApaNa samajUna jAyace. haM.... Aja jarA binasalele Ahe paNa he manAta bolAve. toMDAvara kAhI bolU naye. praznakartA : haM.... nAhItara ANakhIna binasatIla. dAdAzrI : mhaNe, Aja binasale Ahe, ase nAhI vhAyalA pAhije. kitI suMdara... dona mitra asatIla, tara te ApApasAta ase vAgatIla kA? maga tyAMcI maitrI kazI TikaNAra? ase kelyAne tyAMcI maitrI TikaNAra kA? strI-puruSa mhaNaje maitrIpUrNa ghara cAlavAyace Ahe ANi kAya hI hAlata karuna TAkalI Ahe. kAya hyAsAThIca loka ApalyA mulIMce lagna grInakArDavAlyAMbarobara karata asatIla kA? tara maga he zobhate kA ApalyAlA? tumhAlA kase vATate? nAhI nA zobhata ApalyAlA! saMskArI koNAlA mhaNAve? jyAMcyA gharAta kleza asela tyAMnA saMskArI mhaNAve kI kleza nAhI hota tyAMnA? eka tara gharAta kadhI kleza nAhI jhAlA pAhije ANi hota asela tara vaLavUna ghetalA pAhije. jara kleza hoIla ase asela, ApalyAlA vATale kI AtA peTaNAra Ahe tyA AdhIca pANI TAkUna thaMDa karUna TAkAve. pUrvIsArakhe klezamaya jIvana jagaNyAta kAya phAyadA. yAcA arthaca kAya?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra klezamaya jIvana nAhI asale pAhije nA? sobata kAya gheUna jANAra Ahe. gharAta ekatra khAyace pyAyace ANi kaTakaTa kA mhaNUna karAvI? jara itara koNI navar2yAbaddala kAhI bolale tara bAyakolA rAga yeto kI mAjhyA navar2yAlA ase bolatAta ANi svata: navar2yAlA bolata asate kI tumhI ase AhAta nI tumhI tase AhAta. ase asAyalA nako. navar2yAne hI ase nAhI kele pAhije. tumacyAta kleza asela, tara mulAMcyA jIvanAvara pariNAma hoIla. cimukalI mule, tyAMcyAvara duSpariNAma hoto mhaNUna kleza nasAvA. kleza jAIla tevhA maga gharAtalI mule paNa cAMgalI hotIla. hI tara mule sarva bigaDUna gelI Aheta! AmhAlA tara jJAna prApta jhAle tevhApAsUna, vIsa varSAMpAsUna tara kleza hotaca nAhI paNa tyAAdhI vIsa varSApUrvIhI kleza navhatA. pahilyApAsUna AmhI klezalA tara kADhUnaca TAkale hote, kuThalyAhI paristhitIta kleza karaNyAsArakhe he jagata nAhI. AtA tumhI vicArapUrvaka kArya karA nA! kiMvA dAdA bhagavAnAMce nAMva ghyA. mI suddhA dAdAMce nAMva gheUna sarva kArya karata asato. dAdA bhagavAnAMce nAMva ghyAla tara lageca tumacyA manApramANe hoUna jAIla. 3. pati-patnIta matabheda ApalyAlA tara mukhyataH krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha jAtIla, kamI hotIla ase pAhije. ApalyAlA ithe pUrNatA prApta karAyacI Ahe, prakAza karAyacA Ahe. ithe aMdhArAta kuThaparyaMta rahAyace? tumhI krodha-mAna-mAyAlobhacI nirbalatA, matabheda pAhilI Ahe kA? praznakartA : khUpaca. dAdAzrI : kuThe? korTAta? praznakartA : gharAta, korTAta, sarva ThikANI. dAdAzrI : gharAta tara kAya asela? gharAta tara tumhI tighejaNa, tithe matabheda kasale? dona-cAra, kivAM pAMca, mulI Aheta ase tara kAhI nAhI. tumhI tighejaNa tyAta kuThale Ale matabheda?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : nAhI, paNa tighAtaca bharapUra matabheda Aheta. dAdAzrI : hyA tighAtapaNa?! ase! praznakartA : jIvanAta jara kaoNnphalikTa (matabheda) nasatIla, tara jIvanAcI majAca yeNAra nAhI! dAdAzrI : ohoho.... ase hoya. tyAmuLe majA yete kA? tara maga rojaca ase karA nA! he koNI zodhUna kADhale? kuThalyA buddhivaMtAcA zodha Ahe hA? kaoNnphalikTacI majA ghyAyacI asela tara maga rojaca matabheda kele pAhije! praznakartA : he tara nAhI AvaDaNAra. dAdAzrI : he tara lokAMnI svata:ce rakSaNa kele Ahe ! matabheda svasta paDela kI mahAga? thoDyA pramANAta hotAta kI jAsta pramANAta? praznakartA : thoDyA pramANAta paNa hotAta ANi jAsta pramANAtahI hotAta. dAdAzrI : kadhI divALI ANi kadhI hoLI, hyAta majA yete kI majA nighUna jAte? praznakartA : he tara saMsAra cakra ase Ahe. dAdAzrI : nAhI, yA lokAMnA bahANe banaviNyAsAThI chAna bheTale Ahe. saMsAra cakra ase Ahe asalA bahANA banavatAta paNa he bolata nAhI kI mAjhI nirbalatA Ahe. praznakartA : nirbalatA tara Aheca. nirbalatA Ahe mhaNUna tara trAsa hota Ahe nA! dAdAzrI : ho basa, mhaNUna loka saMsArAce cakra sAMgUna hyAvara pAMgharUna ghAlatAta. ANi jhAkalyAmuLe he taseca ubhe rAhile Ahe. hI nirbalatA kAya sAMgate kI joparyaMta malA oLakhaNAra nAhI, toparyaMta mI jANAra nAhI. saMsAra kuThehI sparzata nAhI. saMsAra nirapekSa Ahe. sApekSa paNa Ahe ANi nirapekSa

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra paNa Ahe. he ApaNa ase kele tara ase ANi ase nAhI kele tara kAhI hI nAhI, kAhI gheNe-deNe nAhI. matabheda hI tara kevaDhI moThI nirbalatA Ahe. praznakartA : paNa gharAta matabheda tara hotaca asatAta, hA tara saMsAra Ahe nA! dAdAzrI : ApalI loka tara basa, roja bhAMDaNe hota asatIla tarI mhaNatAta, he tara cAlAyaceca! paNa azyAne DevalapamenTa (pragatI) hota nAhI. kazAne hote? kazAne hote? ase kA bolatAta. kAya hota Ahe ? he sarva zodhUna kADhAyalA have. kAhI veLA gharAta jara matabheda jhAle tara koNate auSadha lAvatA? auSadhAcI bATalI ThevalI Ahe kA? praznakartA : matabhedAce kAhI auSadha nAhI. dAdAzrI : are, kAya bolatA? maga tumhI hyA rumamadhye bolata nAhI, patnI tyA rumamadhye bolata nAhI, tara ase abolA ThevUna jhopUna rahAyace ? auSadha lAvalyA zivAyaca? maga he kazyA paddhatIne miTata asela ? ghAva bharata asatIla kA? malA he sAMgA kI auSadha lAvalyAzivAya ghAva bare kase hoNAra? sakALaparyaMta suddhA he ghAva bare hota nasatAta. sakALI cahAcA kapa ThevatAnA ase jorAne ApaTela. tevhA tumhIhI samajAla kI rAtrIcA ghAva ajUnahI bharalelA nAhI. hote kI nAhI hota ase ? tazI hI goSTa kAhI ApalyA anubhavAbAheracI nAhIca Ahe? ApaNa sarve sArakheca Ahota! arthAt ase kA jhAle kI ajUnaparyaMta matabhedAce ghAva taseca paDale Aheta. paNa rojacyA roja hA ghAva tasAca rahAto. khAca paDalyAmuLe ghAva jAta nAhI nA, ghAva paDalelA tara rAhatoca nA! mhaNUnaca khAca paDU deU naye. kAraNa kI AtA ApaNa khAca pADalI (trAsa dilA) asela nA, tara mhAtArapaNI bAyako ApalyAlA khAca pADela! AtA manAtalyA manAta mhaNela kI to balavAna Ahe mhaNUna kAhI kALAparyaMta cAlavUna gheIla. naMtara ticI veLa AlI kI ApalyAlA cAMgalyAprakAre samajAvUna deIla. tyAkaratA vyavahAra asA ThevA kI tI ApalyAlA prema karela. ApaNahI ticyAvara prema karAve.

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14 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra bhulacUka tara sarvAMcIca hota asate nA! bhulacUka hota nAhI kA? bhulacUka jhAlI tara tyAta matabheda kA karAyace? matabheda karAyace asela tara balavAnAsobata bhAMDAyace jyAne ApalyAlA lageca uttara miLUna jAIla. ithe tara lageca uttara kadhI miLataca nAhI. mhaNUna doghAMnI samajUna ghyAyace. ase matabheda karu nakA. koNI matabheda pADale tara ApaNa mhaNAve dAdAjI kAya sAMgatAta, maga ase kA bigaDavAyace? mataca nAhI Thevale pAhije. are! doghAMnI lagna kele maga mata vegaLe kazAsAThI? doghAMnI lagna kele maga mataM vegaLe ThevayAce asatAta kA? praznakartA : Thevata nAhI, paNa Thevale jAtAta. dAdAzrI : te ApaNa kADhUna TAkAve. vegaLe mata ThevAyace nAhI. nAhItara lagnaca navhate karAyace. lagna kele tara eka vhA. arthAt he jIvana jagatA hI Ale nAhI! vyAkuLatene jIvana jagata AhAta! tU ekaTA Ahesa kA? ase vicArale tara sAMgela, nAhI, vivAhIta Ahe. are murkhA! vAIpha Ahe tarIhI vyAkuLatA nAhI miTalI! vyAkuLatA miTAyalA nako kA! hyA sarvAMcA vicAra tara mI AdhIca kelA hotA. lokAMnI paNa hyAcA vicAra karAyalA nako kA? khUpa moThe vizAla jagata Ahe. paNa svata:cyA kholIcyA Ata Ahe itakeca jagata mAnale Ahe. are tithe hI jagata Ahe ase mAnata asela tarIhI Thika Ahe. paNa tithehI vAIphasAbata laThebAjI cAlUca asate. praznakartA : bhAMDyAlA bhAMDe lAgale tara AvAja hoNAraca paNa naMtara zAMtatA hote! dAdAzrI : AvAja AlyAvara majA yete kharI! 'akkala' cA theMba suddhA nAhI asehI bolatAta. praznakartA : tI tara parata asehI bolate kI tumacyAzivAya itara kuNIhI malA AvaData nAhI. dAdAzrI : ho, tase hI bolate!

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : paNa gharAta tara bhAMDI vAjaNAraca nA? dAdAzrI : roja-roja bhAMDyAlA bhAMDe lAgale tara kase cAlela? he samajata nAhI mhaNUna tara he sarva cAlale Ahe. jAgRta asela tyAlA tara eka jarI matabheda jhAle tarI rAtrabhara jhopa yeNAra nAhI! hyA bhAMDyAMnA (mANasAMnA) tara spaMdane Aheta, mhaNUna rAtrI jhopatA jhopatA hI spaMdana karata asatAta kI he tara vAkaDe Aheta, ulaTe Aheta, nAlAyaka Aheta, kADhUna TAkaNyAsArakhe Aheta. ANi tyA bhAMDyAMnA azI kAhI spaMdane Aheta kA ? Apale loka tara samajalyAzivAya ho lA ho karuna bolatIla kI dona bhAMDI ekatra Aheta mhaNUna tara vAjatIla! are ghanacakkara, ApaNa kAhI bhAMDI Ahota kA ase vAjU? hyA dAdAMnA koNIhI, kadhIhI vAjatAnA (vAda karatAnA) pAhile nasela! svapna hI Ale nasela tase!! vAjaNe kasale? vAjaNe kAhI itara koNAcI jokhImadArI Ahe? he tara ApalyA svata:cyA jokhImadArI vara Ahe. cahA lavakara nAhI AlA tara ApaNa Tebalavara tIna veLA Thokato hI jokhImadArI koNAcI? tyApekSA ApaNa bAvaLaTA sArakhe gappa basUna rahAve. cahA miLAlA tara Thika, nAhItara nighA oNphisasAThI. tyAta kAya vAITa Ahe ? cahAcA paNa kAhI kALa tara asela nA? he jagata niyamAcyA bAhera tara nasela nA? mhaNUna AmhI mhaTale Ahe kI '*vyavasthita zakti'! cahAcI veLa hoIla tevhA cahA miLela. tumhAlA ThokAve nAhI lAgaNAra tumhI spaMdana ubhe nAhI kele tarI cahA yeUna UbhA rAhila ANi spaMdana ubhe karAla tarI hI cahA yeIla. paraMtu spaMdanAne tara vAIphacyA vahIkhAtyAta hizoba jamA hoIla kI tumhI tyAveLelA Tebala ThokalA hotA nA! gharAta vAiphasobata matabheda jhAle tara tice samAdhAna karatA yeta nAhI, jAsta mulAMbarobara matabheda jhAle tara tyAMce samAdhAna karatA yeta nAhI mhaNUna tumhI guMtata jAtA. praznakartA : navarA tara aseca mhaNela nA, kI 'vAipha' samAdhAna karela, mI karaNAra nAhI! dAdAzrI : haMa, mhaNaje limiTa pUrNa jhAlI, 'vAipha' samAdhAna karela *vyavasthita zakti = rIjhalTa oNpha sAyanTiphika sarakamasTenziyala eviDansa. mhaNajeca vaijJAnika saMyogika purAve ekatra hovUna AlelA pariNAma.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra ANi ApaNa nAhI karaNAra tara maga ApalI 'limiTa' jhAlI pUrNa. puruSa asela tara to ase bolela kI 'vAipha' khuza hoIla ase karuna gADI pUDhe cAlU karuna deIla ANi tumhI tara paMdharA-paMdharA divasa, mahinA-mahinAparyaMta gADI tazIca ThevAla, he nAhI cAlAyace. joparyaMta samoracyAcyA manAce samAdhAna nAhI hota toparyaMta tumhAlA aDacaNa yeNAra mhaNUna samAdhAna karAve. gharAta ase matabheda hota asatIla tara kase cAlela? bAyako mhaNela kI 'mI tumacI Ahe' ANi navarA bolela kI 'mI tujhA Ahe' maga matabheda kA? jasa-jase tumacyA doghAta 'problema' vADhata jAIla tase tumhI vegaLe hota jAla. 'problema' 'saoNlva' jhAlyAvara vegaLe hoNAra nAhI. vegaLepaNAta du:kha Ahe. 'problema' tara sarvAMnAca hoNAra, tumhAlA ekaTyAlA hota Ahe ase nAhI. jevaDhyAMnI lagna kele, tyAM sarvAMnA 'problema' ubhe jhAlyA zivAya rahAta nAhI. bAyakosobata matabheda hota asato, murkhAlA! jicyA barobara.... Dabala beDa asato kI eka aMtharuNa asate? praznakartA : nAhI, mApha karA. ekaca asate. dAdAzrI : tara maga ticyA barobara bhAMDaNa jhAle ANi tine rAtrI lAtha mAralI tara kAya karazIla? praznakartA : khAlI.(paDela) dAdAzrI : tara maga ticyAbarobara ekatA ThevAvI. vAiphabarobara paNa matabheda jhAle, tithe paNa ekatA rAkhalI nAhI tara maga ANakhI kuThe rAkhaNAra? ekatA mhaNaje kAya kI kuThehI matabheda hoNAra nAhI! hyA ekA vyaktIsobata nakkI karA kI tujhyAta ni mAjhyAta matabheda asaNAra nAhIta, itakI ekatA rAhilI pAhije. evaDhI ekatA ThevalI Ahe kA tumhI? praznakartA : asA vicAra kadhI kelA navhatA. pahilyAMdA asA vicAra karato Ahe. dAdAzrI : ho, asA vicAra karAvA lAgela nA? khUpa khUpa vicAra kelyAnaMtara bhagavAna mokSalA gele!

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pati- patnIcA divya vyavahAra bAtacIta karA nA! tyAne kAhI khulAsA hoIla. he tara yoga AlA Alo mhaNUna ekatra Alo, nAhItara ekatra Alo nasato !! mhaNUna kAhI bAtacIta karA na! tyAta kAya harakata Ahe ? ApaNa sarva ekaca Ahota. tumhAlA vegaLepaNa vATate, kAraNa kI bhedabuddhi Ahe tyAmuLe mANasAMnA vegaLepaNA vATato bAkI sarva ekaca Ahota. mANasAMnA bhedabuddhi asate nA ! vAiphasobata tara bhedabuddhi hota nAhI nA ? praznakartA : ho, titheca hota asate! dAdAzrI : vAiphasobata bheda koNa pADato ? tara buddhica ! bAyako ANi navarA doghe jevhA zejAr2yAMsobata bhAMDatAta tevhA kase abheda hoUna bhAMDatAta ? doghejaNa ase hAta karuna, tumhI ase ANi tumhI tase. doghejaNa ase hAta karatAta. tevhA ApalyAlA vATate kI, ohoho ! hyA doghAta kevaDhI ekatA ? hI kaoNrporezana abheda Ahe, ase ApalyAlA vATate. ANi naMtara gharI jAUna bhAMDatIla tevhA kAya bolatIla ? gharAta doghe bhAMDatAta kI nAhI bhAMData ? kadhI tarI tara bhAMData asatIla kI nAhI ? he kaoNrporezana AtalyA Ata jevhA bhAMDatIla nA, tU azI nI tumhI ase. tU azI nI tumhI ase, maga gharAta joradAra bhAMDaNa hote nA ! tevhA tara sAMgatA tU jA, ithUna jA, ApalyA gharI (mAherI) jA, malA nakoca Ahesa tU! AtA hA gairasamaja nAhI kA? kAya vATate tumhAlA ? tyAMcyAtalI abhedatA tuTUna gelI ANi bheda utpanna jhAlA. arthAt patnIsobatahI tujhe-mAjhe hoUna jAte. tU azI Ahesa nI tU tazI Ahesa! tevhA tI mhaNela tumhI kuThe saraLa AhAta ? arthAt gharAta hI tU ANi mI hoUna jAte. 17 mI ANi tU, mI ANi tU, mI ANi tU ! je pahile eka hote, AmhI doghe eka Ahota, AmhI ase Ahota, AmhI tase Ahota. Amaceca Ahe he, tyAtUna tU ANi mI jhAle. AtA tU ANi mI jhAle mhaNUna oDhAtAna suru hote. hI oDhAtAna kuThaparyaMta pohacate ? theTa haLadIghATIcI laDhAI suru hote. sarvanAzAlA nimaMtrita karaNyAce sAdhana mhaNaje hI oDhAtAnI ! mhaNUna oDhAtAnI tara koNAbarobarahI hoU deU nakA. roja mAjhI vAipha, mAjhI vAipha bolata asato ANi eke divazI

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pati - patnIcA divya vyavahAra vAiphane Apale kapaDe patIcyA baeNgata Thevale. tara dusar2yA divazI patI kAya bolela ? mAjhyA baeNgeta tU sADyA ThevalyAca kA ? ! he AbarudArAMcI mulaM ! ticyA sADyA hyAlA khAtAta kA! paNa tyAce svataHce vegaLe astitva Ahe nA! arthAt vAipha ANi hajabaMDa, te tara bijhanesamuLe (lagnAmuLe) eka jhAle, kaoNnTrekTa Ahe hA. tara vegaLe astitva miTUna jAIla kA ? astitva vegaLeca rAhate. 'mAjhyA peTIta sADyA kA Thevatesa' ase bolatA kI nAhI bolata ? 18 praznakartA: bolato, bolato. dAdAzrI : hA tara kalaha karato kI mAjhyA baeNgamadhye tujhyA sADyA ThevalyAca kA? hyAvara patnI bolate kI, kadhItarI hyAMcyA baeNgamadhye kAhI Thevale tara ase oraDatAta. jaLo, navarA nivaDaNyAta mAjhIca cuka jhAlI vATate. asA patI kuThUna miLAlA ? paNa AtA kAya karaNAra ? khuMTIlA bAMdhale gelo Ahe! 'merI' (paradezI strI) asatI tara dusar2yA divazI nighUna gelI asatI, paNa iMDiyana kazI kAya jANAra? khuMTIlA bAMdhalelyA ! jithe bhAMDaNa karaNyAcI jAgAca nAhI, spesaca nAhI, azyA ThikANI bhAMDaNa kele tara bhAMDaNa karaNyAcyA jAgevara tara mArunaca TAkatIla na hI loka! are, nAhI tara javaLa-javaLa baeNgA ThevalelyA asatIla tarI mhaNatIla, tU tujhI baeNga ithUna ucala. are melyA, vivAhita Ahesa, lagna kele Ahesa, mhaNaje eka AhAta kI nAhI ? ! ANi punhA lihaNAra kAya ? ardhAMginI. murkhA, Ahesa tU?! maga ardhAMginI kazAlA lihItosa ? hyAta ardhA aMga nAhI ? yA baeNgamadhye ! ApaNa koNAcI maskarI karata Ahota, puruSAMcI kI striyAMcI ? ase bolatA na ? ardhAMginI nAhI mhaNata ? praznakartA : bolato na. dAdAzrI : ANi bolUna punhA ase palaTatAta. striyA dakhala karata nAhI. striyAMcyA baeNgeta jara kadhI Apale kapaDe Thevale asela, tara dakhala nAhI karata ANi hyAlA tara khUpa ahaMkAra, nehamI tor2yAtaca asato. ekadama viMcUsArakhA, jarA kAhI jhAle kI paTakana nAMgI mArUna deIla.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 19 hI tara mAjhI ApabItI sAMgato Ahe haM. mAjhI ApabItI sAMgitalI tara tumhA sarvAMnA samajela kI hyAMcyAvara suddhA hI paristhitI AlI hotI. tumhI tara ase saraLa saraLa kabUla karaNAra nAhI, he tara mI kabula karato. praznakartA : ApaNa bolatA, tevhA sagaLyAMnA svata:cehI AThavate ANi te kabUlahI karatAta. dAdAzrI : nAhI tumhI kabUla karata nAhI, paNa mI tara kabUla karato kI mAjhyAvara hI paristhitI AlI hotI, ase ghaDale hote kI nAhI? are, nAMgI mAratA tara kazI mAratA, kI tU tujhyA gharI cAlatI ho. ase bolatA. are melyA, tI gelI tara tujhI kAya dazA hoIla? tI tara hyA karmAne bAMdhalelI Ahe. kuThe jAIla bicArI? paNa he je tU bolato Ahesa te vyartha nAhI jANAra, tyAne ticyA hRdayAvara ghAva paDatIla, naMtara to ghAva tujhyAvara paDela. murkhA, hI karme bhogAvI lAgatIla. he tara tU ase samajato kI AtA kuThe jANAra Ahe tI? ase bolU naye. ANi ase bolata asAla tara tI cukaca mhaTalI jAIla nA! thoDephAra TomaNe tara tumhI sarvAMnI mAralele kI navhate mArale? praznakartA : ho mArale Aheta, sarvAMnI mArale Aheta. hyAta apavAda nAhI. pramANa kamI-jAsta asela, paNa apavAda nasela. dAdAzrI : tara ase Ahe sAre, AtA hyA sagaLyAMnA zahANe banavAyace Ahe, bolA AtA he kase zahANe banatIla? pahA phajitI, phajitI ! eraMDela tela pyAleta azI toMDa jhAlI Aheta! chAna chAna bAsuMdI ANi chAna chAna jevaNa jevatAta, tarIhI eraMDela tela pilyAsArakhe toMDa disata Ahe. eraMDela tela tara mahAga jhAle Ahe, kuThUna ANUna piNAra? paNa he tara aseca, eraMDela tela pyAyalAsArakhe toMDa disatAta. praznakartA : gharAta matabheda saMpavaNyAsAThI kAya karAve? dAdAzrI : matabheda kA hotAta, yAcA AdhI zodha ghyAvA. kadhI ase matabheda hotAta kA kI, eka mulagA Ahe ANi eka mulagI Ahe, tara maga donhI mulage kA nAhIta, hyAvara matabheda hotAta kA?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : nAhI, tase tara choTyA choTyA goSTIvaraca matabheda hotAta. dAdAzrI : are, choTyA choTyA goSTIvara matabheda hotAta, hA tara igoijhama (ahaMkAra) Ahe. mhaNUna jevhA tI bolela kI 'ase Ahe. tevhA tumhI bolA, 'barobara Ahe.'ase bolalAta tara maga kAhI hoNAra nAhI. paNa ApaNa tithe ApalI akkala vAparato. akkalazI akkala bhAMDate mhaNUna matabheda hotAta. praznakartA : 'barobara Ahe' ase toMDAne bolaNyAsAThI AmhI kAya karAyalA have? AmhI ase bolU zakata nAhI, hA aham kasA dUra karAvA ? dAdAzrI : ase bolU zakata nAhI, khare Ahe tumace. hyAsAThI kAhI divasa prekTisa karAvI lAgela. mI sAMgitalele upAya karaNyAsAThI thoDe divasa prekTisa karA nA! tyAnaMtara te phiTa hoNAra. ekadama nAhI hoNAra. praznakartA : matabheda kA hotAta? hyAce kAraNa kAya? dAdAzrI : matabheda hotAta, tevhA hA samajato kI mI akkalavAlA ANi tI samajate kI mI akkalavAlI, akkalece bAradAna! vikAyalA gelAta tara cAra ANe paNa miLaNAra nAhI! tyApekSA ApaNa zahANe hoUna jA, ticyA akkalelA ApaNa baghAve kI ohoho.... kitI akkalavAlI Ahe ! tevhA maga tI paNa zAMta hoUna jAIla. paNa he tara ApaNa hI akkalavAle ANi tI hI akkalavAlI, akkalaca jithe bhAMDU lAgela, tithe kAya hoNAra maga?! tumhAlA matabheda jAsta hotAta kI tyAMnA jAsta hotAta? praznakartA : tyAMnA jAsta hotAta. dAdAzrI : ohoho! matabheda mhaNaje kAya? matabheda yAcA artha tumhAlA samajAvato. hA rassI-kheca cA kheLa hoto na, to pAhilAya tumhI ? praznakartA : ho. dAdAzrI : dona-cAra jaNa hyA bAjUlA khecatIla tara dona-cAra jaNa tyA bAjUlA khecatIla. matabheda mhaNaje rassIkheca. arthAt ApalyAlA he

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 21 pahAyace Ahe kI gharAta bAyako jAsta khecate Ahe ANi ApaNa paNa jorAta khecaNAra, doghehI khecaNAra tara maga kAya hoNAra? praznakartA : tuTUna jANAra. dAdAzrI : ANi tuTalyAvara gATha bAMdhAvI lAgate. tara gATha bAMdhUna cAlavAve, lAgela tyApekSA akhaMDa ThevAla tara kAya vAITa Ahe ? arthAta tine jAsta khecale tara ApaNa soDUna dyAve. praznakartA : paNa doghAMpaikI soDaNAra koNa? dAdAzrI : samaMjasa, jyAlA akkala jAsta Ahe to soDUna deNAra ANi kamI akkalavAlA khecalyAzivAya rAhaNAraca nAhI nA. mhaNaje ApaNa akkalavAle soDUna deU. soDAyace, paNa ekadama nAhI soDUna dyAyace. ekadama soDUna dile tara samoracA paDela. tyAsAThI haLU haLU haLU haLU soDAyace. mAjhyA barobara jara koNI khecAkhecI kelI tara mI haLU haLU soDUna deto, nAhItara paDUna jAIla bicArA. AtA tumhI soDUna dyAla ase? AtA soDatA yeIla na? soDUna dyAla na? soDUna dyA, nAhItara rassIlA gATha bAMdhUna cAlavAve lAgela. roja roja gATha bAMdhaNe he kAya bare vATate? gATha tara bAMdhAvIca lAgela na! tI rassI tara cAlavAvIca lAgate na! tumhAlA kAya vATate? gharAta matabheda karAyace asatAta kA? eka aMza paNa jhAle nAhI pAhije!! gharAta jara matabheda hota asatIla tara yU Ara anphiTa (ayogya), jara hajabaMDa ase karela tara to aphiTa phaoNra hajabaMDa ANi vAipha ase karata asela tara tI anphiTa phaoNra vAipha. praznakartA : pati-patnIcyA bhAMDaNAMce mulAMvara kAya pariNAma hotAta ? ___ dAdAzrI : ohoho! khUpa vAITa pariNAma hotAta. itakese lahAna bALa asela, te paNa ase pahAta rahAte. pappA mAjhyA mammIlA khUpa oraDatAta. pappAca kharAba Aheta. paNa to bolata nAhI. tyAlA mAhita Ahe kI bolalo tara mAratIla malA. manAta noMda karato to, noTeDa iTsa kanTenTsa paNa gharAta ase tuphAna (bhAMDaNa) baghato ANi manAta gATha bAMdhato kI moThA jhAlyAvara

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pati - patnIcA divya vyavahAra mI pappAMnA mAraNAra! ase ApalyAsAThI AtApAsUna TharavUna Thevato. maga moThA jhAlyAvara mArato. tara kAya mAraNyAsAThI mI tulA moThe kele ? tara tumhAlA koNI moThe kele? ase bolela to. are, mAjhyA bApAparyaMta pohacalAsa ? tevhA bolela tumacyA AjobAparyaMta pohacela. tumhI bolaNyAcA skopa (saMdhI) dilA tyAmuLeca na ?! azI gATha bAMdhAyalA dilI tara tI ApalIca cuka mhaNAvI lAgela na ! gharAta bhAMDaNa kazAlA ? jara tilA oraDalAta nAhI tara mule paNa baghatIla kI pappA kitI cAMgale Aheta ! 22 mulAMno, tumhI lagnAsAThI kA nAhI mhaNatA ? mI tyAMnA vicArale kAya harakata Ahe tumhAlA, te malA sAMgA na ? tumhAlA strI AvaDataca nAhI kI kAya ? vAstavikatA kAya Ahe te malA sAMgA. tevhA bolatAta, nAhI AmhAlA lagna nAhI karAyace. mI vicArale kA ? tevhA mhaNAle, lagnAta sukha nAhIca he AmhI pAhile Ahe. mI sAMgitale, ajUna tumace vaya nAhI jhAle, ANi lagna kelyAzivAya kase mAhita jhAle, kasA anubhava AlA ? tevhA mhaNatAta, AmacyA AI-vaDilAMce sukha (!) AmhI pahAta Alo Ahota. AmhI jANato hyA lokAMce sukha hI lokaca jara sukhI nAhIta, tara AmhI lagna kele tara jAsta du:khI hoNAra. mhaNaje ase paNa hote. ase Ahe na, AtA jara kA mI bolato kI he pahA bhAU, AtA bAhera aMdhAra jhAlA Ahe. tevhA to bhAU mhaNela nAhI ujeDa Ahe. tevhA mI mhaNAra kI bhAU, mI tumhAlA rikvesTa (vinaMtI) karato, tumhI punhA pahA na! tevhA bolato nAhI ujeDa Ahe. tevhA mI samajato kI tyAMnA jase disale tase te bolaNAra. mANUsa svata:cyA dRSTI palikaDe pAhU zakata nAhI . tevhA mI tyAMnA sAMgato kI tumacyA vyU poinTane tumhI khareca AhAta. AtA mAjhyAsAThI dusare kAhI kAma asela tara bolA. evaDheca bolato, 'yasa, yU Ara karekTa bAya yora vyU poinTa' ! (ho, tumhI tumacyA dRSTIkonAne khare Ahata.) bolUna, mI puDhe vaLato. hyAMcyAbarobara rAtrabhara kA mhaNUna mI basUna rahAyace? he tara ase nI aseca rAhaNAra. azAprakAre matabhedAvara samAdhAna miLavAyace Ahe. samajA kI ithUna pAcaze phuTa aMtarAvara ApaNa eka suMdara sapheda ghoDA ubhA kelA Ahe ANi ithe asalelyA pratyekAlA vicArale kI tumhAlA tithe

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 23 kAya disate? tevhA koNI bolela gAya, tevhA ApalyAlA tyAce kAya kele pAhije? ApalyA ghoDyAlA koNI gAya mhaTale, tara ApaNa tyAlA mArale pAhije kI kAya kele pAhije? praznakartA : mArAyace nAhI. dAdAzrI : kA? praznakartA : tyAcyA dRSTIne tyAlA tI gAya disalI. dAdAzrI : ho. tyAcA caSmA asA Ahe. ApaNa samajUna jAve kI tyA bicAr2yAlA naMbara Ale Ahe tyAmuLe tyAcA doSa nAhI. mhaNUna ApaNa rAgavAyace nAhI. tyAlA sAMgAve kI bhAU tumhI mhaNatA te barobara Ahe. maga dusar2yAlA vicArAve tulA kAya disate? tevhA to bolela ghoDA disato Ahe. tevhA ApaNa samajUna jAve kI hyAMnA naMbara nAhI. maga tisar2yAlA vicArAve tulA kAya disata Ahe ? tara to mhaNela, moThA baila disato Ahe. tara maga ApaNa tyAcyA caSyAcA naMbara samajUna jAla. nAhI disata arthAt naMbara Ahe. ase ApaNa samajAve. tumhAlA kAya vATate? AMtarika matabheda je asatAta te vartanAta suddhA disUna yetAta tara te phAra bhayaMkara mhaTale jAIla nA? dAdAzrI : AMtarika matabheda na? te tara phAra bhaMyakara! paNa mI zodhakhoLa kelI kI hyA AMtarika matabhedAce kAhI upAya Ahe kA? paraMtu upAya kuThalyAhI zAstrAta miLAle nAhI. mhaNUna maga mI svataHca zodhakhoLa kelI kI hyAcA upAya hAca kI jara mI mAjhe mataca kADhUna TAkale tara matabheda rAhaNAraca nAhI. mAjhe mataca nAhI, tumace mata heca mAjhe mata. ekadA mAjhe hIrAbAbarobara matabheda jhAle. mI paNa phasalo gelo. mAjhyA vAiphalA mI hIrAbA bolato. AmhI tara jJAnIpuruSa, AmhI tara sagaLyAMnA 'bA' bolato ANi bAkI sarvAMnA mulI bolato. jara tumhAlA aikAyace asela tara bolato, hI kAhI lAMba goSTa nAhI, choTIzI goSTa Ahe. praznakartA : ho, tI goSTa sAMgA nA! dAdAzrI : ekadA matabheda jhAle hote. tyAta mAjhIca cuka hotI. tyAMcI cuka navhatI.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : tI tara tyAMcIca cuka jhAlI asela, paNa tumhI bolata AhAta kI mAjhI cuka jhAlI hotI. 24 dAdAzrI : ho, paNa tyAMcI cuka navhatI. mAjhIca cuka. malAca matabheda hoU dyAyace nAhI. tyAMnA tara matabheda jhAle tarI kAhI harakata nAhI ANi nAhI jhAle tarI kAhI harakata nAhI. malAca hoU dyAyace nAhI, mhaNUna mAjhIca cuka jhAlI nA ! he ase kele tara khurcIlA lAgela kI malA ? praznakartA : ApalyAlA. dAdAzrI : tara maga malAca samajale pAhije nA ? eke divazI matabheda jhAle. mI phasalo. malA hIrAbA mhaNAlyA mAjhyA bhAvAcyA cAra mulIMce lagna vhAyace Ahe. tyAta hyA pahilyA mulIce lagna Ahe, tara ApaNa lagnAta kAya (Ahera ) deNAra. tase tara tyAMnI ase nAhI vicArale asate tarI cAlale asate. je kAhI deNAra tyAlA mI nAhI mhaNaNAra naNhato. malA vicArale mhaNUna mI mAjhyA akkalepramANe cAlalo. tyAMcyA sArakhI akkala mAjhyAta kuThUna asaNAra ? tyAMnI vicArale mhaNUna mI sAMgitale kI, navIna kAhI banavaNyApekSA hyA kapATAta cAMdIce je kAhI Ahe tyAtale kAhItarI dyA nA! hyAvara tyAMnI malA kAya sAMgitale mAhitI Ahe kA ? AmacyA gharI mAjhe-tujhe sArakhe zabda nighata navhate. ApaNa, Apaleca aseca bolale jAta hote. AtA tyA azyA bolalyA kI, 'tumacyA mAmAcyA mulAcyA mulIce lagna hote, tevhA tara moThe-moThe cAMdIce tATa detA nA?' tyAdivazI mAjhe- tumace bolalyA, nehamI Apaleca mhaNata asata. mAjhe - tumace asA bheda karuna bolata navhatyA. mI vicAra kelA, Aja ApaNa phasalo, mI lagecaca samajUna gelo. mhaNUna hyAtUna bAhera nighaNyAcA rastA zodhU lAgalo. AtA kazyAprakAre he sudhArAyace, rakta nighU lAgale, AtA kazyAprakAre paTTI bAMdhAvI kI, rakta baMda hoIla, te AmhAlA mAhita hote. arthAt tyA divazI mAjhe-tujhe jhAle. 'tumacyA mAmAcA mulagA' mhaTale! ithaparyaMta pahocale. mAjhI samaja kitI ulTI ! mI vicAra kelA he tara Thokara lAgaNyAsArakhe jhAle, Aja tara ! tevhA mI lagecaca palaTalo. palaTaNyAta

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 25 kAhIca harakata nAhI, matabheda karaNyApekSA palaTaNe cAMgale. lagecaca palaTUna gelo pUrNa...... mI sAMgitale, 'mI ase nAhI sAMgU icchita' mI khoTe bolalo, mI sAMgitale 'mI vegaLe bolato Ahe ApalyA samajaNyAta jarA pharaka jhAlA Ahe. mI ase nAhI sAMgata hoto.' tevhA mhaNAlyA, tara kAya sAMgata hotAta ? tevhA mI mhaNAlo, 'he cAMdIce choTe bhAMDe dyA ANi tyAsobata pAcaze rupaye nagada dyA.' te tyAMcyA upayogI yetIla. tyAvara hIrAbA mahNAlyA 'tumhI tara bhoLe AhAta. itake sAre deto koNI?' hyAvara mI samajalo kI, jiMkalo ApaNa! maga mI sAMgitale 'tumhAlA jitake dyAyace asela titake dyA. cArIhI bhAcyA ApalyAca mulI Aheta!' tevhA tyA khuza jhAlyA maga 'tumhI tara devAsArakhe AhAta' ase bolU lAgalyA! baghA, paTTI bAMdhalI nA! malA mAhita hote kI, mI pAcaze bolalo tara tyA tevaDhe detIla azyA nAhIta tyA! tara ApaNa tyAMnAca adhikAra deUna TAkA na! mI svabhAva oLakhata hoto. mI pAcaze dile tara tyA tInaze deUna yetIla. tara maga bolA, sattA sopavAyalA harakata Ahe kA malA? 4. jevatAnA kiTa-kiTa gharAta kaTakaTa kazyAsAThI karatA? kA? mANasAMkaDUna cuka nAhI hoU zakata? jo karato tyAcI cuka kI jo karata nAhI tyAcI cuka? praznakartA : karato tyAcI. dAdAzrI : tara maga kaDhI khAraTa' Ahe azI cuka kADhAyalA nako. tyA kaDhIlA bAjUlA sArUna, bAkI je kAhI Ahe te jevUna ghetale pAhije. kAraNa tyAMnA savaya Ahe kI azI kAhI cuka kADhUna patnIlA dhamakAvAyace. hI savaya Ahe tyAMcI. paNa hyA tAI paNa kAhI kaccyA nAhIta. amerikA ase karato tara, raziyA tase karato. arthAt he tara amerikA ANi raziyAsArakhe jhAle Ahe, kuTuMbAta, phamilita, mhaNaje maga Atamadhye kaoNlDavaoNra (zItayuddha) niraMtara cAlataca rahAto. ase nAhI, phaeNmili banavUna TAkA. phaeNmilita kase vAgAve te mI tumhAlA samajAvela. ithe tara gharogharI kleza Ahe.

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pati - patnIcA divya vyavahAra 'kaDhI khAraTa jhAlI' ase ApaNa nAhI bolalo tara nAhI kA cAlaNAra ? opiniyana nAhI dile tara kAya tyA lokAMnA nAhI mAhita paDaNAra? kI maga ApalyAlAca bolAyalA have. maga tara ApalyAkaDe pAhuNe Alele asatIla, tara tyA pAhuNyAMnA paNa khAU deNAra nAhI. tara maga ApaNa ase kA bolAve? tI khANAra tevhA tilA kaLaNAra nAhI kA ? kI ApalyAlAca tilA sAMgAve lAgela ? praznakartA: kaDhI khAraTa asalI tara 'khAraTa' bolAveca lAgela nA ? dAdAzrI : maga jIvana khAraTaca hoUna jAIla nA! tumhI khAraTa bolUna samoracyAcA apamAna karatA. tyAlA phaeNmili bolata nAhI! 26 praznakartA : Apale asatIla tyAMnAca sAMgato nA, parakyAMnA thoDIca sAMgU zakato ? dAdAzrI : tara ApalyAnAMca kAya dukhavAyace ? praznakartA : sAMgitale tara dusar2yAveLesa nITa banavatIla nA, tyAsAThI. dAdAzrI : tI nITa banavaNAra kI nAhI banavaNAra, hyA sarva goSTI gappA Aheta. kazAcyA AdhArAvara hota asate ? te malA mAhita Ahe. banavaNAr2yAMcyA hAtAtahI sattA nAhI ANi tumhI sAMgaNAr2yAMcyA hAtAtahI sattA nAhI. he sarva koNatyA sattecyA AdhArAvara cAlata Ahe ? mhaNUna akSarahI bolaNyAsArakhe nAhI. thoDA tarI zahANA jhAlAsa kI nAhI tu ? hozIla nA zahANA ? pUrNapaNe zahANe vhAyace. gharI vAipha bolela. 'are, asA navarA punhA punhA miLo. ' malA AjaparyaMta ekAca strIne sAMgitale. 'dAdAjI, navarA havA tara asAca havA.' nAhItara jAstakaruna toMDAvara cAMgale bolatAta, paraMtu pAThUna kitI tarI zivyA detAta mAjhyA manAta AjahI noMda Ahe. ase bolaNArI eka tarI bAI miLAlI! bAkI striyAMnA sArakhe Tokale nAhI pAhije. bhAjI thaMDa kA jhAlI ? DALIlA phoDaNI barobara kA nAhI dilI ? azI kaTa kaTa kA karatA? bArA mahinyAta ekhAdyA divazI ekhAdA zabda bolalAta tara Thika Ahe. paraMtu he tara rojaceca ? 'navarA maryAdeta tara bAyako lAjeta. '

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra ApalyAlA maryAdeta rahAyalA have DALa cAMgalI jhAlI nasela, bhAjI thaMDa jhAlI asela te sarva tara niyamAMcyA AdhIna hota Ahe. tyAtUna vATalyAsa haLUca bAtacIta karAvI kI 'hI bhAjI tara roja garama asate, tevhA khUpa chAna vATate.' azAprakAre bolalAta tara tI lagecaca izArA samajUna jAIla. AmacyAkaDe tara gharAtahI koNAlA mAhita nAhI kI 'dAdAMnA' he AvaDate kI nAhI AvaData. svayaMpAka banavaNe he kAhI banavanAr2yAcyA hAtAcA kheLa Ahe kA? te tara khANAr2yAMcA tATAta vyavasthita zakticyA' hizobAne yeta asate, tyAta takrAra nAhI kelI pAhije. 5. mAlaka pAhije, mAlakIpaNA nako lagnakaraNyApUrvI mulagI pAhatA, tyAta kAhI harakata nAhI, pahA paNa tI pUrNa AyuSyabhara jazIcyA tazIca rAhaNAra asela tara pahA. tazIca rAhaNAra Ahe kA? jazI pAhilI hotI tazIca? parivartana jhAlyAzivAya rAhila ? naMtara jevhA parivartana hoIla, tevhA sahana nAhI hoNAra, vyAkuLatA hoU lAgela. maga jANAra kuThe? phasalo re bAbA, phasalo.. __ tara maga lagna kazyAsAThI? tara ApaNa bAherUna kamAvUna ANAyace, tI gharakAma karela ANi ApalA saMsAra cAlela, ANi dharma hI cAlela, hyAsAThI lagna karAyace Ahe. ANi bAyako bolata asela kI eka-dona apatya tara pAhije, tara maga tevaDhe nirAkaraNa karA, maga rAma tujhI mAyA! paraMtu to tara maga mAlaka banAyalA jAto. are murkhA, mAlaka banAyalA kA cAlalA Ahesa? tujhyAta barakata nAhI tarI mAlaka banAyalA cAlalA Ahesa! 'mI tara mAlaka Ahe' ase bolato! moThA AlA mAlaka! toMDa tara pahA hyA mAlakAce! paraMtu lokaM tara mAlakI hakka gAjavatAta nA? gAyIcA mAlaka banUna basalA Ahe, mhazIcA paNa, paraMtu gAya paNa tumhAlA mAlakAcyA rupAta svikArata nAhI. he tara tumhI manAta samajatA kI hI gAya mAjhI Ahe. tumhI kApasAlA paNa mAjhe bolatA, 'hA kApUsa mAjhA Ahe.' kApasAlA tara mAhitahI nAhI bicAr2yAlA. kApUsa tumace asate tara tumacyA hajerItaca vADhale asate, tumhI gharI gelyAvara vADhale nasate. paraMtu hA kApUsa tara rAtrI paNa vADhato. kApUsa rAtrI vADhato kI nAhI vADhata?

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28 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : vADhato, vADhato. dAdAzrI : kApasAlA tumacI garaja nAhI, tyAlA tara pAvasAcI garaja Ahe. jevhA pAUsa paData nAhI, tevhA sukUna jAto bicArA! praznakartA : paNa, tyAMnI AmacI pUrNa kALajI ghyAyalA nako? dAdAzrI : ohoho! bAyako kALajI ThevaNyAsAThI ANalI Ahe kA? praznakartA : hyAsAThIca tara bAyakolA gharI ANale Ahe nA? dAdAzrI : ase Ahe kI, zAstrajJAMnI sAMgitale Ahe kI mAlikatva (svAmitva) dAkhavAyace nAhI. vAstavAta tumhI mAlaka nAhI, tumacI pArTanarazipa (bhAgIdArI) Ahe. he tara vyavahArAta bolale jAte kI vara ANi vadhU, mAlaka ANi mAlakINa! paNa kharokhara pArTanarazipa Ahe. mAlaka AhAta, mhaNUna tumacA hakka-dAvA nAhI, dAvA karu zakata nAhI. samajAvUnaumajAvUna sarva kAma karA. praznakartA : kanyAdAna kele, dAnAta kanyA dilI, tara maga AmhI tyAMce mAlaka jhAlo nA? dAdAzrI : he susaMskRta samAjAce kAma nAhI, he vAIlDa samAjAce kAma Ahe. ApalyA, susaMskRta samAjAne, he pahAyalA have kI patnIlA jarAhI aDacaNa hoU naye. patnIlA duHkha deUna koNI sukhI jhAlA nAhI. ANi jyA strine patIlA jarApaNa du:kha dile asela, tI strI paNa kadhI sukhI jhAlI nAhI! mAlakIpaNAmuLe tara to DokyAvara caDhUna basato. mAlakIpaNA he, bhogaNaM Ahe. vAiphasobata tyAcI pArTanarazipa Ahe, mAlakI nAhI. praznakartA : jara vAipha baoNsa banUna basalI tara tice kAya karAve ? dAdAzrI : kAhI harakata nAhI, patnI tara jilebI, bhajI banavUna dete nA. ApaNa tilA sAMgAve vAha! vAha! mAjhyAsAThI bhajI, jilebI banavalI ! ase karAla tara khuza hoUna jAIla, maga dusar2yA divazI ApoApa zAMta

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra hoUna jAIla. tyAcI bhItI nakA TheU. tI ApalyA DokyAvara kevhA caDhela? jara ticI mizI ugavela tara tI caDhUna basela. paNa mizI ugavaNAra Ahe kA? kitIhI huzAra jhAlI, tarI mizI ugavaNAra? bAkI, eka janma tara tumacA jitakA hizoba asela titakAca pheDAvA lAgela. itara kAhI lAMbalacaka hizoba hoNAraca nAhI. ekA janmAcA hizoba tara nizcitaca Ahe, tara maga ApalyAlA zAMtatA ThevAyalA kAya harakata Ahe? hiMdU tara muLAtaca klezI svabhAvace. mhaNUna tara ase mhaNatAta kI hiMdU klezamaya jIvana jagatAta. musalamAna loka tara ase pakke asatAta kI bAhera bhAMDaNa karuna yetAta. paraMtu gharAta bAyakosobata bhAMDaNa karata nAhIta. tase AtA tara muslima lokahI hiMduMsobata rAhilyAmuLe bighaDale Aheta. paNa tarIhI hyA bAbatIta hiMdupekSA muslima loka malA-zahANe vATatAta. are kAhIjaNa tara ApalyA bIbIlA (patnIlA) helakAve suddhA deta asatAta. praznakartA : te helakAve deta hote, miMyAbhAI! tI goSTa sAMgA nA! dAdAzrI : hA, eke divazI AmhI ekA miMyAbhAIkaDe gelo hoto. te miMyAbhAI bAyakolA jhopALyAvara jhulavata hote. tyAvara mI tyAMnA vicArale kI, ApaNa ase karatA tyAmuLe tI ApalyA DokyAvara caDhUna nAhI basata ? tevhA te mhaNAle, tI kAya caDhUna basaNAra, ticyAjavaLa tara kAhI zastrahI nAhI. AmhA hiMdUnA tara bhItI vATate kI tI caDhUna basalI tara kAya hoIla ? tyAmuLe AmhI jhoke deta nAhI. tevhA miMyAbhAI bolale kI 'he jhoke deNyAce kAraNa tumhAlA mAhita Ahe kA? tara te ase jhAle kI, 1943-1944 madhye AmhI gavarmenTa kAmAce kaoNnTrekTa ghetale hote, tyAta eka gavaMDI kAmAce lebara kaoNnTrekTa hote. tyAne AmacyA hAtAkhAlI kaoNnTrekTa ghetale hote. tyAce nAMva hote ahamadamiMyA, he ahamadamiMyA kityeka divasApAsUna bolata hote kI, 'sAheba mAjhyA gharI tumhI yA, mAjhyA jhopaDIta yA,' jhopaDI bolata hotA bicArA. bolaNyAta cAMgale samajUtadAra hote, vartanAta asatIla kiMvA nasatIlahI, tI goSTa vegaLI paNa bolaNyAta jithe svArtha nAhI, tithe cAMgale vATate.

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30 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra tara te ahamadamiyA eke divazI malA bolU lAgale, seThajI, Aja AmacyA gharI pAhulaM karAve. tumhI mAjhyA gharI AlAta tara mAjhyA bAyakomulAMnA AnaMda hoIla.' tevhA AmhAlA jJAna-bina tara navhate paNa vicAra khUpa suMdara. sagaLyAMsAThI bhAvanA hotI khUpa suMdara. ApalyAkaDUna to kamavata Ahe tara ANakhIna jAsta kase kamavela, azI paNa bhAvanA hotI. ANi to duHkhAtUna mukta hoUna sukhI vhAvA azI bhAvanA! mI mhaNAlo, kA nAhI yeNAra? tujhyAkaDe tara hamakAsa yeNAra.' tevhA miMyAbhAI bolU lAgale, 'mAjhyA gharI tara ekaca rUma Ahe, ApalyAlA kuThe basavU?' tevhA mI sAMgitale, mI kuThehI basena, malA tara phakta eka khurcI pAhije. jarI khurcI nasalI tarI malA cAlela. tujhI icchA Ahe, mhaNUna mI nakkI yeNAra.' maga mI tara gelo. AmacA kaoNnTrekTacA vyavasAya asalyAmuLe AmhAlA musalamAnAMcyA gharI suddhA jAve lAgata, tithe cahA suddhA gheto! AmacyAsAThI koNI parake nAhI. mI bolalo, 'are, hI ekaca moThI rUma Ahe ANi dusarI tara saMDAsAitakI choTI Ahe.' tevhA mhaNe, sAheba kyA kare? hamAre garIba ke lie itanA bahata hai.' mI vicArale, 'tujhI vAipha kuThe jhopate?' tevhA mhaNAlA, hyAca rUma madhye, hyAlA beDarUma mhaNA, DAiniMga rUma mhaNA, sarva kAhI heca Ahe.' mI vicArale, 'ahamadamiMyA aurata ke sAtha kucha jhagaDAbigaDA hotA nahI kyA?' 'he kAya bolalA?' mI vicArale, 'kA?' tevhA to mhaNAlA, 'kadhIca nAhI hota. mI asA mUrkha mANUsa nAhI.' paraMtu matabheda ?! tevhA mhaNAlA, kAya bolata AhAta? nAhI, bAyako sobata matabheda nAhI. bAyakosobata mAjhe bhAMDaNa nAhI hota. mI vicArale 'kadhI bAyako rAgAvalI tara' tevhA bolU lAgalA, 'priye, eka tara bAhera sAheba hairANa karato ANi tU suddhA hairANa karU lAgalIsa tara mAjhe kAya hoIla?' tevhA maga cUpa hoUna jAte! mI vicArale, 'matabheda hota nAhIta mhaNUna maga kAhI bhAnagaDaca nAhI nA?' tevhA bolalA, 'nAhI, matabheda jhAle tara tI kuThe jhopela ANi mI kuThe jhopaNAra? ithe dona-tIna majale asatIla tara mI samajela kI tisar2yA majalyAvara nighUna jAve. paraMtu ithe tara hyAca rUma madhye jhopAyace Ahe. mI hyA bAjUlA toMDa karuna jhopAve ANi tine tyA bAjUlA toMDa karuna

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 31 jhopAve, hyAta kAya majA yeNAra? rAtrabhara jhopa yeNAra nAhI. paNa AtA tara mI kuThe jAU zeThajI?! mhaNUna hyA bAyakolA mI kadhIhI duHkha nAhI deta. bIbIne malA mArale tarIpaNa tilA du:kha nAhI deta. mI bAhera sarvAMna barobara bhAMDaNa karuna yeIla, paNa 'bAyakobarobara mI kliyara rAhato. bAyakolA kAhIhI nAhI kele pAhije.' mhaNaje tyAlA jara khAja yeta asela, tara to bAhera bhAMDaNa karuna yeNAra paNa gharAta nAhI.' bAyakone sulemAnalA miThAI ANAyalA sAMgitale asela, ANi sulemAnalA pagAra kamI miLata ase, tara to bicArA miThAI kuThUna ANaNAra? bAyako eka mahinyApAsUna sulemAnalA sAMgata asate kI hyA sarva mulAMnA, bicAr2yAMnA khUpa IcchA Ahe. AtA tarI miThAI gheUna yA. maga eke divazI bAyako khUpa ciDalI tevhA to bolalA, 'Aja tara gheUna yeto,' miMyAbhAI javaLa uttara rokaDa Ahe, tyAlA mAhita Ahe kI, uttara udhAra Thevale tara zivyA deIla. mhaNUna sAMgato kI Aja gheUna yeto. ase bolUna suTakA karato. jara uttara nAhI dile tara jAte veLI bAyako kaTakaTa karela. mhaNUna lagecaca pojiTiva uttara (hokAra) deto kI Aja gheUna yeto, kuThUnahI gheUna yeto. tevhA bAyakolA vATate kI Aja gheUnaca yeNAra, paraMtu jevhA to yeto tevhA khAlI hAta baghUna bAyako oraDate. sulemAna tasA catura asalyAmuLe bAyakolA samajAvato kI, 'yAra merI hAlata mai hI jAnatA hUM, tuma kyA samajho!' ase eka-dona vAkya bolato kI bAyako mhaNate, 'ThIka Ahe naMtara kadhItarI ANA.' parata dahA-paMdharA divasAMnI bAyako takrAra karate tara, 'mAjhI hAlata malAca mAhita.' ase bolato ANi bAyako khuza hoUna jAte. to kadhIhI bhAMData nAhI. ANi ApalI loka tara tyAveLelA mhaNatIla kI, 'tU mAjhyAvara dabAva ANatesa?' are, strIlA ase bolU nako. tyAcA artha asA, tu svata:ca bolatosa kI, 'tU dabalelA Ahesa.' lagna karateveLI suddhA tujhAca hAta vara asato, maga tI tulA kazI dabavaNAra? tyAtUna Aja tine dabavale tara ApaNa zAMta rahAve, jo nirbala Ahe toca ciDaNAra. auraMgAbAda madhye eka hakImacA mulagA AlA hotA. tyAne aikale asela kI dAdAMkaDe kAhI adhyAtma jJAna samajaNyAsArakhe Ahe. tyAsAThI

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra to mulagA AlA, paMcavIsa varSAcA hotA to. tevhA mI satsaMgacyA, yA duniyAcyA sarva goSTI kelyA. kAraNa kI hI vaijJAnika paddhata cAMgalI Ahe, ApalyAlA aikaNyAsArakhI Ahe. AtAparyaMta je cAlata hote te kALAnusAra lihile gele Ahe. jasA kALa hotA tase varNana kelele Ahe. arthAt jaga jasa-jase badalata jAte, tase varNana badalata jAte. ANi paigaMbara sAheba mhaNaje kAya? khudAce paigAma ithe ANUna sarvAMnA pohacavato tyAce nAMva paigaMbara sAheba. mI tara thaTTA kelI tyAcI, mI vicArale kI, 'are, lagna-bigna kele kI nAhI, kI asAca phirato Ahesa?' to mhaNAlA 'lagna kele Ahe.' mI vicArale, 'kevhA kele? malA bolAvale nAhIsa tU?' tara to mhaNAlA 'dAdAjI mAjhI ApalyAbarobara oLakha navhatI, tyAveLI nAhItara bolAvale asate, AtA lagna hoUna sahA mahineca jhAle Aheta.' mI thoDI gammata kelI, mI vicArale 'namAja kitI veLA paDhatosa?' mhaNe 'sAheba, pAcahI veLA,' are, rAtrI tIna vAjatA namAja kazI jamate? tevhA to mhaNAlA, 'karAvIca lAgate, tyAta cAlataca nAhI, rAtrI tIna vAjatA uThUna adA karato. lahAnapaNApAsUnaca karata Alo Ahe. mAjhe vaDila hakIma sAheba paNa karata hote.' maga mI vicArale, 'AtA tara bAyako AlI, AtA kazI karu deNAra, tIna vAjatA?' 'bIbIne paNa malA sAMgitale Ahe kI, tumhI namAja paDhUna ghyAvI.' tevhA mI vicArale, 'bAyakobarobara bhAMDaNa hota nAhI kA?' 'he kAya bolatAta? he kAya bolatAta?' mI vicArale 'kA?' tevhA to mhaNAlA 'ohoho, bAyako tara toMDAce pAna! tI malA oraDalI tarI mI cAlavUna gheIla, sAheba. bIbImuLeca tara mI jagato Ahe, bIbI malA khUpa sukha dete. khUpa chAna chAna jevaNa banavUna dete. tilA duHkha kase dyAyace?' AtA itake samajalAta tarI khUpa jhAle. bAyakovara rubAba tara karaNAra nAhI. ApalyAlA samajAyalA nako? bAyakocA kAhI aparAdha Ahe kA? tI tara 'toMDAtale pAna' tine zivI dilI tarI kAhI harakata nAhI. koNI dusar2yAne zivI dilI tara mI baghUna gheIla. baghA AtA! hyA lokAMnA bAyakocI kitI kiMmata Ahe. 6. samoracyAMcI cuka kADhaNyAcI savaya! praznakartA : cuka kADhalI tara vAITa vATate tyAMnA ANi nAhI kADhalI tarIpaNa vAITa vATate.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 33 dAdAzrI : nAhI, nAhI, vAITa nAhI vATata. ApaNa cuka nAhI dAkhavalI tara, tI bolela, 'kaDhI khAraTa hotI, tarIhI nAhI sAMgitale.' tevhA tumhI sAMgA, 'tulA mAhita paDela nA, mI kazAlA sAMgU.' paraMtu he tara kaDhI khAraTa jhAlI tara toMDa vAkaDe karatAta, 'kaDhI khAraTa Ahe !' are! kasA mANUsa Ahesa? hyAlA patI mhaNUna kase ThevAve? azyA patIlA bAhera kADhUna TAkale pAhije. asA durbaLa patI! are patnIlA samajata nAhI kA kI tumhI tilA samajavayAlA nighAlA AhAta? ticyAbarobara DokephoDI karatA! maga ticyA hRdayAvara ghAva paDaNAra nA! manAta bolela, 'he kAya malA samajata nAhI ? he tara mAjhyAvara tIra soData Aheta. hA kALamukhA tara dararoja mAjhyA cUkAca kADhata rAhato.' ApalI lokaM jANUna-bujhUna cUkA kADhata asatAta. ANi tyAmuLe saMsAra jAstaca bighaData jAto. kAya vATate ApalyAlA? tara maga ApaNa thoDA vicAra kelA tara kAya harakata Ahe ? praznakartA : ApaNa cUkA dAkhavalyA tara punhA tyAca cUkA hoNAra nAhIta nA? dAdAzrI : ohoho, arthAt zikavaNa deNyAsAThI! ho, tara maga cuka kADhaNyAsa harakata nAhI, mI tumhAlA sAMgato kI cUkA kADhA, paNa tI tyAsAThI tumace upakAra mAnata asela tara cUkA kADhA. tI bolela bare jhAle tumhI mAjhI cuka dAkhavalIta. malA tara mAhitaca navhate. ase tumhI upakAra mAnatA? tAI, tumhI hyAMce upakAra mAnatA kA? praznakartA : nAhI. dAdAzrI : tara maga hyAcA arthaca kAya? jyA cUkA tilA mAhita Aheta, tyA sAMgaNyAta kAhI artha Ahe kA? tyAMnA striyA kALamukhA bolatAta, kI jevhA baghAve tevhA bolata rAhato. jyA cUkA tilA mAhita Aheta, tyA cUkA ApaNa dAkhavU naye. itara kAhIhI ho, kaDhI khAraTa jhAlI aso, kiMvA bhAjI bighaDalI aso, paNa jevhA tI khANAra tevhA tilA kaLaNAra kI nAhI? tara maga ApalyAlA sAMgaNyAcI garaja nAhI! paNa jI cuka tilA mAhita nasela, tI ApaNa tilA sAMgitalI tara tI upakAra mAnela.

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34 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra bAkI, jyA tilA mAhita Aheta, tyA cUkA dAkhavaNe hA tara aparAdha Ahe. ApalI iMDiyana lokaMca cUkA kADhatAta. mI sAMtAkrujalA tisar2yA majalyAvara gharAta basalo asela tevhA cahA yeto. tara ekhAdyA divazI jarA sAkhara ghAlAyalA visarale asatIla, tarI piUna TAkato ANi tehI dAdAMcyA nAvAMne! Atamadhye dAdAMnA sAMgato kI cahAta sAkhara ghAlA sAheba! tevhA dAdA ghAlatAta. arthAt binasAkharecA cahA yeto tevhA piUna TAkato basa. AmacI kAhI takrAra nasate nA! ANi maga te sAkhara gheUna dhAvata yetAta. mI vicArale, bhAU sAkhara kazAlA ANalIsa? hI cahAcI kapa-bazI gheUna jA! tevhA bolatAta, cahA phikI hotI tarIhI ApaNa sAkhara nAhI mAMgitalI! mI mhaNAlo 'mI kazAlA sAMgU? tumacyA lakSAta yeIla azI goSTa Ahe hI.' ___ ekA mANasAlA mI vicArale, gharAta kadhI bAyakocyA cUkA kADhatosa kA? tevhA bolalA, 'tI tara Aheca cUkA karaNArI, tyAmuLe cUkA kADhAvyAca lAgatAta nA! baghA, he akkalece bAradAna! vikAyalA gelo tara cAra Ane paNa nAhI miLaNAra hyA bAradAnAce, tarI samajato kI, mAjhI bAyako cUkA karaNArI Ahe, ghyA! praznakartA : kAhIMnA ApalyA cUkA mAhita asatAta, tarIhI sudhArata nAhI maga? dAdAzrI : te bolUna nAhI sudhAraNAra. bolaNyAne tara jAsta ulTe cAlatAta. to jara kadhI tyAvara vicAra karata asela tara tyAveLI tumhI tyAlA sAMgAve kI, hI cuka kazI sudhArAyacI! samorAsamora bAtacIta karA, phrenDa (mitrA)sArakhe. vAipha barobara phrenDazipa ThevalI pAhije, nAhI ThevalI pAhije ? mitrAMbarobara azI kaTakaTa karatAta kA? tyAcI cuka DAyarekTa sAMgatA kA? nAhI nA! kAraNa phrenDazipa TikavAyacI Ahe. ANi hI tara lagnAcI, kuThe jANAra Ahe ? ase ApaNAsa zobhata nAhI. jIvana bAgesArakhe banavA. gharAta matabheda vhAyalA nakota, kadhIhI nAhI, ghara bAgesArakhe vATAve. gharAta DhavaLADhavaLa karu nakA. choTyA mulAlAhI, jara tyAcI cuka tyAlA disata asela tara dAkhavAyacI nAhI. disata nasela tara cuka dAkhavU zakatA.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 35 hA tara vyartha veDepaNA hotA, mAlakatva siddha karaNyAcA. arthAt mAlakatva nAhI dAkhavale pAhije. mAlaka tara kevhA mhaTale jAIla kI, jevhA samoracA pratikAra karata nasela tara, tevhA samajA kI mAlaka Ahe. he tara legecaca pratikAra karatAta. gharAta tara strI vara sarvaca kiTakiTa karatAta, hI vIra puruSAMcI nizANI nAhI. vIra tara koNAlA mhaNatAta kI, jo gharAta strI athavA mulAMnA, koNAlAhI trAsa deta nAhI. mulagA jarI ulaTe bolalA, tarI paNa AI-vaDIla mulAvara bighaDaNAra nAhI, tevhA khare bolAve. mulaM tara zevaTI mulaMca Aheta tumhAlA kAya vATate? nyAya kAya sAMgato. koNatyA goSTIsAThI TokAve lAgate kI, jyAcI tilA samaja nasela. tyAsAThI ApaNa tilA samajAvale pAhije. tilA svata:cI samaja Ahe. tarIpaNa ApaNa tilA sAMgitale, tevhA maga ticA igoijhama dukhAvalA jAIla. ANi maga tI suddhA saMdhI zodhate kI, mAjhyA tAvaDIta yeU de eka divasa. saMdhIcyA zodhAta rAhate. tara maga ase karaNyAcI kAya garaja Ahe? arthAt jyA-jyA goSTI tI samajU zakela azA asatIla tyAta tilA TokaNyAcI garaja nAhI ApalyAlA. jAsta kaDU asela tara ApaNa ekaTyAneca piUna ghyA, paNa striyAMnA kase pyAyalA dyAla? kAraNa AphTara oNla (zevaTI) ApaNa mahAdevajI Ahota. ApaNa mahAdevajI nAhI Ahota? puruSa mahAdevajI samAna asatAta. adhika kaDU asela tara tilA sAMgA. tU jhopUna jA, mI piUna gheIla! striyA suddhA saMsArAta sahakArya nAhI kA deta? maga tyAMnA kA duHkhavAyace? tilA jara kAhI duHkha jhAle asela, tara ApaNa manAtalyA manAta pazcAtApa kele pAhije kI AtA duHkha nAhI deNAra, mAjhI cuka jhAlI hI. gharAta kuThalyA prakArace duHkha asate? kazyAvaruna bhAMDaNa hota asatAta? kuThalyA prakArace matabheda asatAta? he jara doghAMnI lihana ANale nA, tara ekA tAsAtaca sarvAMce nisarana karuna deU. he sarva samaja nasalyAmuLeca hota asate, bAkI kAhI kAraNa nAhI. ApalyA gharAtalI goSTa gharAtaca rAhila azAprakAre phaeNmilIsArakhe

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36 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra jIvana jagAyalA have. itake pheraphAra kele tarI cAMgale Ahe. kleza tara jhAlAca nAhI pAhije. tumhAlA jitake DaoNlara miLatIla, tyAta gujArA karuna ghyA. ANi tAI tumacyAjavaLa jevhA paizAMcI soya nasela, tevhA tumhI sADyA ghyAyacI ghAI karu nakA. tumhI paNa vicAra kelA pAhije kI, navar2yAlA saMkaTAta TAkAyace nAhI. paizAMcI soya asela tara kharca karA. 7. 'gADI' cA garama mUDa he tara rAtrI kadhI navar2yAlA gharI paratAyalA uzIra jhAlA, kAhI kAraNAstava, haM.... itakyA uzirA gharI yetAta kA? tara kAya tyAMnA mAhita nAhI kI uzIra jhAlA Ahe. tyAMcyA manAta paNa khaTakata asate kI, khUpa uzIra jhAlA. tyAtUna hI vAipha ase bolate kI itakyA uzirA koNI gharI yete kA? bicArA! azA mIniMgalesa (vyartha) goSTI kelyA pAhije kA? tujhyA lakSAta yete ase? arthAt jevhA te gharI uzirA yetIla, tyA veLI pAhUna ghyA kI mUDa kasA Ahe? naMtara lageca sAMgA kI AdhI tumhI cahA-pANI pyA, naMtara maga jevAyalA basA. ase bolaNyAmuLe cAMgalyA mUDamadhye yeNAra. mUDa bighaDalelA asela tara ApaNa tyAMnA cahA-pANI pAjUna khuza karA. jase pulisavAlA AlA asela, ANi ApalA mUDa nasela, tarIpaNa cahA-pANI nAhI kA karata? maga he tara Apale Aheta, tyAMnA khuza karAyalA nako? Apale Aheta mhaNUna khuza karAyalA nako? bahuteka tumhA sarvAMnA mAhita asela kI kadhI gADI mUDamadhye nasate, hote nA ase? gADI garama jhAlI asela ANi ApaNa gADIlA kAThIne mArata rAhilo tara kAya hoIla! tilA mUDamadhye ANaNyAsAThI thaMDa karAvI lAgate. reDiyeTara phiravAvA, paMkhA cAlavAvA ase karatA yete nA? praznakartA (strI) : brAMDI kazI soDavAyacI? dAdAzrI : gharAta jara tumace prema pAhile tara sarva kAhI soDUna detIla. premAsAThI sarva kAhI soDaNyAsa tayAra Aheta. prema disata nAhI mhaNUna brAMDIvara prema karatAta, itara kazAvara tarI prema karatAta. nAhI tara bIca (samudra kinAr2yAvara) vara phirata rAhatAta. tujhyA bApAne kAhI Thevale Ahe kA ithe ? gharI jA nA! tevhA bolato, 'gharI tara malA karamata ca nAhI.'

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 37 8. sudhArAve kI sudharAve he saMbaMdha rileTiva (sApekSa) Aheta. kAhI lokaM kAya karatAta patnIlA sudhAraNyAsAThI itake haTTa karatAta kI premAcI dorI tuTUna jAIla evaDhA haTTIpaNA pakaDUna ThevatAta. te samajatAta kI malA sudhArAvIca lAgela hilA. are! tU sudhara nA! tU svataH sudhara ekadAcA. ANi he tara riyala nAhI, rileTiva Ahe. vegaLe hoUna jAIla. mhaNUna ApalyAlA khoTe tara khoTe paNa ticI gADI paTarIvara caDhavAyacI. ithUna paTarIvara caDhalI tara sTezana vara pohacela, saTAsaTa. arthAt he rileTiva Ahe. ANi samajAvUna UmajAvUna nivADA karAvA. praznakartA : prakRtI nAhI sudharata, paNa vyavahAra tara sudhAralA pAhije nA? dAdAzrI : vyavahAra tara lokAMnA karatAca yeta nAhI. jara kadhI vyavahAra karatA Ale asate tarI khUpa jhAle! vyavahAra tara samajaleca nAhIta. vyavahAra mhaNaje kAya? varacyA vara. vyavahAra mhaNaje satya nAhI. he tara vyavahArAlAca satya mAnUna ghetale Ahe. vyavahArAce satya mhaNaje rileTiva satya. mhaNUna ithalyA noTA khar2yA aso athavA nakalI aso donhI tithe (mokSacyA) sTezanavara upayogI paDaNAra nAhIta. mhaNUna tyAMnA soDA ANi ApaNa Apale kAma sAdhUna ghyA. vyavahAra mhaNaje dilele parata karAyace, teca. AtA koNI mhaTale kI, tujhyAta akkala nAhI. tara samajUna jA kI he mI dile hote, te parata Ale. he ase jara samajalAta tara tyAlA vyavahAra mhaNatAta. AjakAla asA vyavahAra koNAcAca nAhI. jyAcA vyavahAra vyavahAra Ahe. tyAcA nizcaya nizcaya Ahe. koNI mhaNela kI, bhAU, tyAlA saraLa karA, 'are!' tilA saraLa karAyalA jAzIla tara, tUca vAkaDA hozIla. mhaNUna vAiphalA saraLa karAyalA jAU nakA, jazI Ahe tazI tilA 'karekTa' mhaNA. ApalyAlA ticyAbarobara kAyamace deNe-gheNe asela tara tI goSTa vegaLI Ahe. he tara ekA janmAnaMtara kuThalyAkuThe vikharuna jAtIla. doghAMcA maraNakALa bhinna, doghAMce karma bhinna. kAhI gheNe paNa nAhI ANi deNe paNa nAhI. ithUna naMtara tI koNAkaDe jAIla

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pati - patnIcA divya vyavahAra koNAsa mAhita? ApaNa tilA saraLa karAve ANi puDhalyA janmI tI jAIla dusar2yAcyA hissyAta ! 38 jo svataH saraLa jhAlA asela, toca itarAMnA saraLa karu zakato. prakRtI damadATIne sudharata nAhI, vazamadhye paNa yeta nAhI. damadATIne tara saMsAra ubhA jhAlA Ahe. damadATIne tara tyAMcI prakRtI adhika bigaDela. samoracyAlA sudhAraNyAsAThI jara tumhI dayALU asAla tara oraDU nakA. tyAlA sudhAraNyAsAThI tyAcyA barobarIcA tyAlA miLelaca. jyAMce ApaNa rakSaNa karato, tyAce bhakSaNa kase karAyace ? jo ApalyA AzrayAta AlA tyAce rakSaNa karaNe, heca mukhya dhyeya asale pAhije. tyAne aparAdha kelA asela tarIhI tyAce rakSaNa kele pAhije. he paradezI sainika ithe ( bhAratAta) AtA kaidI Aheta, tarIhI Apale sainika tyAMcI kazI rakSA karata Aheta, tevhA he tara ApalyA gharAtaleca Aheta nA! bAheracyAMsobata mAMjara banUna rAhatA, tithe bhAMDaNa nAhI karata ANi gharAtaca sarvakAhI karatAta. 9. kaoNmanasensa ne eDajasTa evarIvhera koNAbarobara matabheda hoNe ANi bhiMtIlA ApaTaNe donhI samAna Ahe, hyA donhImadhye pharaka nAhI. bhiMtIvara ApaTalA, te na disalyAmuLe ApaTato. ANi je matabheda hotAta, te suddhA na disalyAmuLeca hotAta. puDhace tyAlA disata nAhI, puDhace solyuzana tyAlA miLata nAhI, tyAmuLe matabheda hotAta. krodha hoto to paNa na disalyAmuLeca hoto. he je krodha - mAna-mAyA - lobha vaigare karatA, te paNa na disalyAmuLeca karatAta. tara hyA goSTilA samajale pAhije nA ! jyAsa lAgale tyAcA doSa, tyAta bhiMtIcI kAhI cuka Ahe kA ? AtA hyA jagAta sagaLyA bhiMtIca Aheta. bhiMtIlA ApaTalyAvara ApaNa ticyA barobara khare-khoTe karAyalA nAhI nA jAta kI, he mAjheca barobara Ahe. asA vAda ghAlUna bhAMData tara nAhI nA ? je ApaTale jAtAta tyA sarva bhiMtIca Aheta ase jara ApaNa samajUna ghetale asela tara maga daravAjA zodhAyacA asela tara aMdhArAtahI daravAjA sApaDela. ase hAtAne cAcapaData - cAcapaData jAla tara daravAjA sApaDato.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra sApaDato kI nAhI ? maga tithUna nisaTUna jA. asA niyama pALalA pAhije kI, koNAsobatahI saMgharSAta paDAyace nAhI. 10. dona DipArTamenTa vegaLe 39 puruSAMnI striyAMcyA bAbatIta hastakSepa kele nAhI pAhije ANi striyAMnIhI puruSAMcyA bAbatIta hastakSepa nAhI kele pAhije. pratyekAMnI ApApalyA DipArTamenTa madhye rAhile pAhije. praznakartA : striyAMce DipArTamenTa koNate ? koNatyA koNatyA bAbatIta puruSAMnI hastakSepa karU naye. dAdAzrI : ase Ahe kI, jevaNa kAya banavAve, ghara kase cAlavAve, he sarva striyAMce DipArTamenTa Aheta. tI gahU kuThUna ANate, kuThUna ANata nAhI he ApalyAlA jANUna gheNyAcI kAya garaja Ahe ? tI jara tumhAlA sAMgela kI gahU ANAyalA trAsa hota Ahe tara tI goSTa vegaLI Ahe. paraMtu tI ApaNAsa sAMgata nasela, rAzana dAkhavata nasela, tara ApalyAlA ticyA DipArTamenTa madhye DhavaLADhavaLa karaNyAcI garajaca kAya Ahe ? Aja khIra banava, Aja jilebI banava, he hI ApalyAlA sAMgaNyAcI kAya garaja Ahe ? TAIma yeIla tevhA tI banavUna vADhela. tyAMcA 'DipArTamenTa' tyAMcyAsAThI svataMtra Ahe ! tyAtUna kadhI khUpa icchA jhAlI tara sAMgA, 'Aja lADU banavA. ' sAMgaNyAsa manAI nAhI, paNa vinAkAraNa azI - tazI boMbAboMma karatA kI, kaDhI khAraTa jhAlI, khAraTa jhAlI, hyA sarva nirarthaka goSTI Aheta. jo puruSa gharAtalyA bhAnagaDIta hAta ghAlata nAhI, tyAlA kharA puruSa mhaNatAta. anyathA to strI sArakhAca asato. kAhI puruSa tara ( svayaMpAka) gharAta jAUna masAlyAce Dabbe tapAsatAta, kI ' he dona mahinyApUrvI ANale hote, ANi itakyA lavakara saMpale, are, ase sarva pAhatosa, tara kase pAra paDela ? jyAMce he 'DipArTamenTa' Ahe, tyAMnA ciMtA nasela ? kAraNa vastU tara vAparalyA jAtAta ANi navIna ANalyAhI jAtAta. paNa hA tara vinAkAraNa ati zahANA banAyalA jAto. tyAMcyA svayaMpAkagharAce DipArTamenTamadhye hAta ghAlU naye.

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40 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra AmhAlA suddhA suruvAtIlA tIsa varSAparyaMta jarA trAsa jhAlA hotA. paNa naMtara nivaDUna nivaDUna sarva nikAla kele ANi Divijana karuna dile kI svayaMpAkaghara khAte tumace ANi kamavAyace khAte Amace, kamavAyace AmhI. tumacyA khAtyAta AmhI dakhala karaNAra nAhI ANi AmacyA khAtyAta tumhI dakhala karAyacI nAhI. bhAjIpAlA tyAMnI gheUna yAyace. AmacyA gharacI paddhata tumhI pAhilIta tara khUpa suMdara vATela. joparyaMta hIrAbAMcI tabbeta cAMgalI hotI, toparyaMta gallIcyA nAkyAvara bhAjIvAlA hotA tethUna tyA svataH bhAjI ANAcyA. tevhA AmhI basalele asU, tara hIrAbA AmhAlA vicArAyacyA, 'kAya bhAjI ANU?' tevhA AmhI sAMgata asU kI, 'tumhAlA je yogya vATate te ANA.' maga tyA gheUna yeta. paNa rojacyA roja aseca cAlale tara kAya hoNAra? tevhA maga vicArAyace baMda karaNAra, jaLo, nehamI he kAya bolatAta, tumhAlA ThIka vATela te ANA. mhaNUna pAca-sAta divasa hIrAbAMnI vicAraNe baMda kele. tevhA maga eka divasa mI vicArale kI, 'kArale kA ANale?' tevhA tyA mhaNAlyA, mI jevhA vicArate tevhA tumhI mhaNatA, 'tumhAlA je Thika vATela te ANA, ANi Aja Thika vATale te ANale tara tumhI cuka kADhatA?' tevhA mI mhaNAlo, 'nAhI, ApaNa azI paddhata ThevAyacI, tumhI malA vicArAyace kAya bhAjI ANU? tevhA mI mhaNela, tumhAlA je Thika vATela te ANA,' ApalI hI paddhata cAlU ThevA. ANi tyAMnI hI paraMparA zevaTaparyaMta TikavalI. hyAta pAhaNAr2yAMnA paNa zobhese vATela kI, vAha ! kAya hyA gharacI paddhata ! arthAt ApalA vyavahAra bAhera cAMgalA disAyalA havA. ekapakSI jhAle nAhI pAhije. mahAvIra bhagavAna kase pakke hote ! vyavahAra ANi nizcaca donhI vegaLe, ekapakSI nAhI. loka pAhata nAhI kA vyavahAra? rojaca pAhata hote. 'roja hyA bAbatIta hIrAbA tumhAlA vicAratAta?' mI mhaNAlo, 'ho rojaca vicAratAta.''tara maga thakata nAhIta?' mI mhaNAlo, 'are, kA thakaNAra ? tyAMnA kAhI majale caDhAyace hote kI DoMgara caDhAyace hote?' 'arthAt ApalA doghAMcA vyavahAra asA asAvA kI loka pAhataca rAhatIla.' praznakartA : striyAMnI puruSAMcyA koNatyA bAbatIta dakhala karu naye ?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : puruSAMcyA kuThalyAhI bAbatIta DhavaLA DhavaLa karu naye. 'dukAnAta kitI mAla AlA? kitI gelA? Aja uzirA kA AlAta?' tevhA maga tyAMnA sAMgAve lAgela kI, 'Aja naUcI gADI cukalI' tevhA patnI mhaNela kI, 'ase kuThe phirata hotA kI gADI cukalI?' maga te ciDatAta, tyAMcyA manAta yete kI, jara devAne paNa ase vicArale asate tara tyAlA paNa mArale asate, paraMtu ithe kAya karaNAra AtA? arthAt vinAkAraNa bAcAbAcI karatA. masta bAsamatI bhAta banavatA ANi tyAta maga khaDe ghAlUna khAtAta, tyAta kAya cava yeNAra? strI-puruSAMnI ekamekAMnA 'helpa' kelI pAhije. patIlA kAhI ciMtA hota asela, tara patnIlA ase bolale pAhije kI, patIcI ciMtA dUra hoIla. ANi patIne paNa patnIlA trAsa hoNAra nAhI, yAcI dakSatA ghyAyalA havI. patIlAhI paNa samajale pAhije kI, patnIlA gharI mulaM kitI hairAna karata asatIla? gharAta kAhI tuTale-phuTale tara puruSAMnI takrAra karAyalA nako. paNa tarIhI te oraDatAta kI, 'gelyA varSI cAMgalyAtale Dajhanabhara kapa-bazI ANale hote, te sarva tumhI kase kAya phoDUna TAkale? sarva saMpavUna TAkale.' maga patnI manAta mhaNela kI, 'mI phoDUna TAkale? malA kAya te khAyace hote, phuTale tara phuTale tyAta mI kAya karu?' AtA tyAvara hI bhAMDatAta, jithe kAhI gheNe-deNe nAhI, jithe bhAMDaNyAsArakhe kAhIca kAraNa nAhI tithehI bhAMDatAta? Divijana (vibhAjana) tara mI AdhIca, lahAnapaNIca karuna dile hote kI, he svayaMpAkaghara khAte tyAMce ANi dhaMdyAce khAte mAjhe. lahAnapaNApAsUna gharAtalyA strIne jara dhaMdyAtalA hizoba vicAralA kI mAjhe Doke phirAyace. kAraNa hI tumacI lAIna nAhI, ANi tumhI vidhAuTa enI kanekzana vicAratA? kanekzana (anusaMdhAna) sahita asale pAhije. tyAMnI vicArale 'hyA varSI kitI kamavale?' mI mhaNAlo, 'ApalyAlA ase nAhI vicArale pAhije. he Amace parsanala meTara jhAle. tumhI ase vicArata AhAta? jara mI udyA koNAlA pAcaze rupaye deUna Alo tara tumhI mAjhe tela kADhAla.' koNAlA tarI paise deUna Alo tara mhaNAla, ase lokAMnA paise vATata phiralAta tara paise saMpUna jAtIla. ase tumhI mAjhe tela kADhAla. mhaNUna parsanala meTara madhye tumhI hAta ghAlU naye.

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42 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 11. saMzaya jALela sonyAcI laMkA AjakAla gharAta bhAMDaNa jAsta karuna saMzayAmuLe hota asatAta. tyAce ase Ahe kI, saMzayAmuLe spaMdana uDatAta ANi tyAmuLe bhaDakA uDato. ANi jara nisaMzaya jhAlo tara bhaDakA ApoApaca zAMta hoUna jAIla. patipatnI doghehI saMzayI asatIla tara bhaDakA kasA zAMta hoNAra ? doghAMpaikI ekAlA tara nisaMzaya vhAyalAca have, tevhAca suTakA hoU zakate. AIvaDilAMcyA bhAMDaNAmuLe mulAMvarIla saMskAra bigaDatAta. mulAMce saMskAra bighaDU naye yAsAThI doghAMnI samaMjasapaNe nikAla ANalA pAhije. hA saMzaya kADhaNAra koNa? Apale he 'jJAna' tara saMpUrNa nisaMzaya banavela ase Ahe ! ekA patIlA ApalyA patnI vara zaMkA jhAlI. tara he baMda hoIla? nAhI. hI tara AyuSyabharAcI zaMkA mhaTalI jAte. kAma jhAle nA, puNyazAlI(!) puNyazAlI mANasAMnAca hote nA ! azyAcaprakAre patnIlA paNa patIvara zaMkA jhAlI, tara tI hI AyuSyabhara jAta nAhI. praznakartA : zaMkA karAyacI nasate tarIhI hoUna jAte tyAce kAya ? dAdAzrI : ApalepaNA, mAlakIpaNA (svAmitva). mAjhA patI Ahe ! patI bhale asela, patI asaNyAta harakata nAhI. 'mAjhA' bolaNyAtahI harakata nAhI, mamatA ThevAyacI nAhI. 'mAjhA patI' ase bolA, paNa mamatA ThevU nakA. yA jagAta dona goSTI ThevA. varavara vizvAsa zodhA ANi varavara saMzaya karA. kholAta jAU nakA. ANi zevaTI, vizvAsa zodhaNArA 'meDa' hoUna jAto. menTala haoNspiTalamadhye lokaM pAThavUna detIla. he patnIlA ekhAdyA divazI bolatAta, 'tU zuddha Ahesa hyAcI khAtrI kAya?' tevhA vAIpha kAya bolela, 'jaMgalI kuThalA.' hyA mulI bAhera zikAyalA jAtAta, tyAMcyAvarahI zaMkA! vAIpha vara suddhA saMzaya! asA sarva vizvAsaghAta, dagAphaTakA ! AtA gharAtahI vizvAsaghAtaca Ahe nA! hyA kaliyugAta svata:cyA gharAtaca vizvAsaghAta hoto. kaliyuga mhaNaje vizvAsaghAtAcA kALa. kapaTa ANi vizvAsaghAta, kapaTa ANi vizvAsaghAta ! hyAta koNatyA sukhAsAThI kAya karata Ahota ? hyAcehI bhAnaca rahAta nAhI, bebhAnapaNe ! nirmaLa buddhivAlyAMkaDe kapaTa ANi

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra vizvAsaghAta nasato. kapaTa ANi vizvAsaghAta he tara 'phuliza' (mUrkha) lokAMkaDe asato. kaliyugAta 'phuliza'ca ekatra jhAle Aheta nA ! lokaM mhaNata asatIla kI, hA nAlAyaka mANUsa Ahe, tarIhI ApaNa tyAlA lAyaka mhaNAve. kAraNa kadAcita nAlAyaka naselahI ANi tyAsa nAlAyaka mhaNAla tara to moThA doSa Tharela. satI asela ANi jara vezyA mhaNAla tara bhayaMkara gunhA Ahe, ANi tyAsAThI kitItarI janma bhogAve lAgatIla. mhaNUna kuNAcyAhI cAritryAbaddala bolU nakA. kAraNa kI te khoTe nighAle tara? lokAMcyA bolaNyAne ApaNahI bolU lAgalo tara, tyAta ApalI kAya kiMmata rAhilI? AmhI tara ase kadhIhI koNAcyA bAbatIta bolata nAhI, ANi kuNAlAhI bolalo nAhI, mI tara hyAta hAtaca ghAlata nAhI nA ! tI jAbabadArI koNa gheNAra? koNAcyAhI cAritryAvara zaMkA karu naye. tyAta moThI jokhIma Ahe. AmhI tara zaMkA kadhIhI karata nAhI. ApaNa jokhIma kazAlA ghyAyacI? ekA mANasAlA tyAcyA vAIphavara sArakhI zaMkA yeta hotI. mI tyAlA vicArale kI kazAvaruna zaMkA hote? tU pAhilesa tyAmuLe zaMkA ghetosa? jevhA pAhile navhatesa, tevhA ase ghaData navheta kA? loka tara jo pakaDalA jAto tyAlAca cora mhaNatAta, paNa je pakaDale gele nAhI te sarva AtUna coraca Aheta. paraMtu he tara, jo pakaDalA gelA tyAlAca cora mhaNatAta. are! tyAlA cora kazAlA mhaNatA? to tara bhoLA hotA, lahAna-sahAna corI kelI mhaNUna pakaDalA gelA, moThI corI karaNArA pakaDalA jAto kA? arthAt jyAMnA patnIcyA cAritryasaMbaMdhI zAMtI havI asela, tara tyAMnI ekadama kALI kurupa bAyako kelI pAhije, mhaNaje tice koNI grAhakaca nAhI banaNAra, koNI tilA vicAraNAraca nAhI.... ANi tI svata:ca ase mhaNela kI, malA koNI vicAraNAraca nAhI. hA eka navarA miLAlA Ahe toca sAMbhaLato. mhaNaje tI tumacyA pratI sinsiyara rAhila, khUpa sinsiyara rAhila. jara, suMdara patnI asela tara, tilA loka bhogatIlaca. suMdara Ahe mhaNUna lokAMcI dRSTi bigaDaNAraca! koNI suMdara dekhaNI bAyako kelI asela tara, AmhAlA vicAra yeto kI kAya dazA hoNAra tyAcI ! kALI kurupa asela, taraca sepha sAiDa rAhila.

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44 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra patnI khUpa suMdara asela, tara to bhagavaMtAlA paNa visarela nA! ANi patI dekhaNA asela tara strI paNa bhagavaMtAlA visarela! mhaNUna sarvakAhI ritasara asalele bare. Amace vaDiladhArI lokaM tara ase bolata kI, 'zeta ThevA sapATa ANi patnI ThevA kobADa (kurupa).' loka tara kase Aheta kI, jithe 'haoNTela' disela tithe 'jevatAta' arthAt zaMkA karaNyAsArakhe jagata nAhI. zaMkAca duHkhadAyI Ahe. he loka tara 'vAIpha' jarA uzirA gharI AlI tarI zaMkA karatAta. zaMkA karaNyAsArakhe nAhI. RNAnubaMdhAcyA bAhera kAhIhI hoNAra nAhI. tI gharI AlyAvara tilA samajavA, paNa zaMkA karu nakA. zaMkA kelyAne ulaTa adhika bighaDate. ho cetAvaNI jarura dyA, paNa manAta zaMkA gheU nakA. zaMkA karaNAre mokSa gamavUna basatAta. mhaNUna ApalyAlA jara suTAyace asela, mokSAlA jyAce asela tara zaMkA karu nakA. koNI parakyA mANasAlA tumacyA bAyakocyA gaLyAta hAta ghAlUna phiratAnA tumhI jara pahile, tara kAya ApaNa viSa khAyace? / arthAt, kuThalyAhI bAbatIta zaMkA hoU lAgalI tara zaMkA ThevU nakA. ApaNa jAgRta rahA, paNa samoracyAvara zaMkA karu nakA. zaMkA ApalyAlA mAruna TAkate. samoracyAce je vhAyace asela te hoIla, paNa ApalyAlA tara zaMkAca mAruna TAkela. kAraNa kI hI zaMkA tara mANasAlA mareparyaMta soData nAhI. zakA kelyAne mANasAMcA prabhAva vADhato kA? mANUsa jivaMtapaNI melyAsArakhA jagU lAgato. ase hota asate. 12. patIpaNAcA gunhA praznakartA : kitItarI lokaM striyAMnA kaMTALUna gharAtUna paLUna jAtAta, te kA? dAdAzrI : nAhI, paLapuTe kazAlA banatA? ApaNa paramAtmA Ahota. tara maga ApalyAlA paLaNyAcI kAya garaja Ahe ? ApaNa ticA samabhAve nikAla karAyacA. praznakartA : samabhAve nikAla karAyacA tara kazyAprakAre karAyacA? tyAsAThI manAta asA bhAva dharAyacA kI he mAgacyA janmAce Ale Ahe?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 45 dAdAzrI : evaDhyAne nikAla hoNAra nAhI. nikAla arthAt samoracyAlA phona kelA pAhije. tyAcyA AtmyAlA kaLavAve lAgela. tyA AtmyAkaDe, ApalI cuka jhAlI Ahe ase kabula karAve lAgela. arthAt khUpa moThe pratikramaNa karAve lAgela. praznakartA : koNI ApalA apamAna kelA, tarIhI ApalyAlA tyAce pratikramaNa karAve lAgela? dAdAzrI : mAna deNAra tevhA nAhI karAyace, apamAna karela taraca pratikramaNa karAyace Ahe, pratikramaNa kelyAne ApalyAlA apamAna karaNAr2yAvara dveSa hotaca nAhI, evaDheca nAhI, tara tyAcyAvara cAMgalA pariNAmahI hoNAra, arthAta tyAlAhI ApalyAvara dveSabhAva bhAva hoNAra nAhI, hI tara jhAlI pahilI sTepa, paNa tyAnaMtara tyAlA bAtamI suddhA pohacate. praznakartA : tyAcyA AtmAlA bAtamI pohacate kA? dAdAzrI : ho, jarura pohacate. maga to AtmA tyAcyA pudgalalA suddhA kaLavato kI, 'bhAU, tujhyAsAThI phona AlA Ahe.' Apale he pratikramaNa, atikramaNAsAThI Ahe, kramaNAsAThI nAhI. praznakartA : khUpa pratikramaNa karAve lAgatIla? dAdAzrI : jitakyA spIDane ApalyAlA ghara bAMdhAyace Ahe, titake kAmagAra ApalyAlA vADhavAve lAgatIla. tyAce ase Ahe kI, bAheracyA lokAMce pratikramaNa nAhI kele tarI cAlela, paNa ApalyA AjU-bAjUce ANi gharAtIla javaLacyA vyaktIMce pratikramaNa khUpa karAve lAgatIla. gharAtalyA lokAMsAThI manAta azI bhAvanA ThevA kI, ekAca gharAta janmalo, ekatra rahAto, tara yA sarvAMnAhI kadhItarI mokSa mArgAvara yAve. __ eka bhAU mAjhyAkaDe Ale hote. te malA sAMgU lAgale, 'dAdA, mI lagna tara kele, paNa malA mAjhI bAyako AvaData nAhI.' mI mhaNAlo, 'kA bare? na AvaDaNyAce kAya kAraNa Ahe?' tevhA to mhaNAlA, 'tI jarA laMgaDI Ahe, laMgaDate.' 'tara maga tujhyA bAyakolA tU AvaDatosa kI nAhI?' tevhA to mhaNAlA, 'dAdA, mI tara AvaDela asAca Ahe nA ! mI dekhaNA Ahe,

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra zikalo-savaralelo, paise kamAvato, ANi zarIrAnehI sudRDha Ahe.' tara maga hyAta cuka tujhIca Ahe. tu azI koNatI cuka kelI hotIsa kI tulA laMgaDI bAyako miLAlI, ANi tine kitI cAMgale puNya kele asatIla kI tilA tujhyAsArakhA itakA cAMgalA navarA miLAlA? are, he tara Apale keleleca ApalyA samora yete, tara tyAta samoracyAce doSa kA pAhatosa? jA, kelelI cuka tu bhogUna ghe, ANi punhA azI cuka karu nakosa. to samajUna gelA ANi tyAcI lAIpha phrekcara hotA hotA sudharalI. 13. dAdAMcyA dRSTine calA, patIMno... praznakartA : mAjhI vAIpha ase sAMgate kI, tumacyA AI-vaDIlAMnA ApalyA sobata ThevAyace nAhI ANi bolavAyacehI nAhI, tara kAya karAve? dAdAzrI : tara samaMjasapaNe kAma ghyA, DemokreTika (lokasattAka) paddhatIne kAma karAve. ApaNa ticyA AI-vaDilAMnA ApalyA gharI bolavAve, ANi tyAMcI khUpa sevA karAvI..... praznakartA : AI-vaDila vRddha asatIla, vayaskara asatIla, mhaNaje ekIkaDe AI-vaDila Aheta ANi dusarIkaDe vAIpha Ahe, tara yA doghAMta AdhI koNAce aikAve? dAdAzrI : vAIpha barobara itake cAMgale saMbaMdha ThevA kI, tI svataH ApalyAlA ase mhaNela kI, tumhI jarA tumacyA AI-vaDilAMcI kALajI ghyA nA! ase kA vAgatA? patnI samora AI-vaDilAMbaddala jarA ulaTa-sulaTa bolA. paNa ApalI lokaM tara kAya mhaNatAta? mAjhyA AI sArakhI koNAcIhI AI nAhI, tU baDabaDa karu nakosa. maga jevhA tI ulaTa phirela, tevhA tumhI paNa bolA kI, AIcA svabhAva AjakAla asAca jhAlA Ahe. inDiyana mAiMDalA ulaTa cAlAyacI savaya asate. inDiyana mAiMDa Ahe nA! tulA mAhita Ahe, lokaM tara vAIphalA guru banavatAta ase Aheta? praznakartA : ho, mAhita Ahe. dAdAzrI : tilA guru karaNyAsArakhe nAhI, nAhItara AI-vaDIla ANi

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 47 sAre kuTuMba aDacaNIta yeIla ANi guru kelyAvara svataHsuddhA aDacaNIta yeIla. tyAlA paNa kheLaNyAsArakhe kheLAve lAgate nA?! paNa mAjhyAkaDe yeNAr2yAMce ase hota nAhI. mAjhyAkaDe oNla rAiTa ! hiMsakabhAvaca uDUna jAtAta nA ! hiMsA karaNyAcA vicArahI yeta nAhI. dusar2yAMnA kase sukha detA yeIla hAca vicAra yeto ! navIna navarIsobata paNa nITa vAgAve lAgate. sarvakAhI navIna navIna asela tara sAMbhALUna ghyAyalA have. pahilyAca divasI patnI rusalI ANi tumhI suddhA rusalAta tara kevhA pAra yeNAra. kadAcita patnI rusalI asela tara tumhI haLUca tilA sAMgA, 'ghAbaru nakosa, ApaNa doghe ekaca Ahota.' kasehI karuna samAjAvUna umajAvUna samAdhAna karA. tI paNa rusela ANi tu paNa rusalAsa maga kAya urale ? kAma ghetA tara Ale pAhije nA! praznakartA : yA striyA kAma karuna khUpa thakUna jAtAta. kAhI kAma sAMgitale, tara bahANe banavatAta kI, mI Aja khUpa thakale Ahe, mAjhe Doke dukhata Ahe, kaMbara dukhata Ahe. dAdAzrI : ase asela nA, tara ApaNa tilA sakALIca sAMgAyace kI, he bagha tujhyAne kAma hoNAra nAhI, tU thakalI Ahesa. tevhA tilA joza yeIla kI nAhI, tumhI cupacApa basA mI karuna gheIla. arthAt tumhAlA kalene kAma ghetA Ale pAhije. are! bhAjI ciraNyAcIhI kalA nasela nA, tara rakta nighela. praznakartA : AmhI jevhA gADIne jAto tevhA tI malA sArakhI baDabaDa karata rAhate kI, gADI kuThUna vaLavAvI, breka kevhA lAvAvA, ase gADIta malA bolataca rAhate, satata Tokata rAhate. gADI azI cAlavA, tazI cAlavA! dAdAzrI : tara maga ticyAca hAtAta dyA nA, gADI tilA sopavUna dyA. bhAnagaDaca nAhI, zahANA mANUsa! kiTa-kiTa karata asela tara tilA mhaNAve, ghe bAI, tu cAlava! praznakartA : tevhA tI mhaNela, 'mAjhyAta tara himmata nAhI.' dAdAzrI : tevhA vicArA, kA? tyAta tulA kAya harakata Ahe ? tulA

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra kAya varatI bAMdhUna Thevale Ahe je tU ase Tokata rAhatesa ! gADI tilAca sopUna dyAyacI. DrAIvara asatA tara TokalyAvara kaLale asate, hA tara gharacA mANUsa Ahe mhaNUna Tokata rAhate. praznakartA : patnIcI bAjU nAhI ghetalI tara, gharAta bhAMDaNe hotIla 48 nA ? dAdAzrI : patnIcIca bAjU ghyAyacI. patnIcI bAjU gheNyAsa kAhI harakata nAhI, kAraNa patnIcI bAjU ghyAla taraca rAtrI nivAMtapaNe jhopU zakAla, nAhItara jhopAla kase ? tithe kAjI banU nakA. praznakartA : zejAr2yAMcA pakSa tara nAhIca ghetalA pAhije nA? dAdAzrI : nAhI, tumhI nehamI vAdIceca vakIla banA prativAdIce vakIla hoU nakA. tumhI jyA gharAce khAtA tyAceca.... samoracyAcyA gharAcI vakIlI karatA, ANi khAtA mAtra hyA gharace. mhaNUna tyAveLI samoracyAcA nyAya mApU nakA ! ApalI vAIpha anyAyAta asela tarIhI tumhI ticyA pramANe cAlA. tithe nyAya karaNyAsArakhe nAhI kI, tujhyAta akkala nAhI mhaNUna tara.... vagere. kAraNa udyA jevAyace itheca Ahe, tu tujhyAca kaMpanIta vakIlAta karatosa ! mhaNUna prativAdIcA vakIla jhAlAsa. praznakartA : samoracyAce samAdhAna jhAle he kazAvarUna samajAve ? samoracyAce samAdhAna jhAle, paNa tyAta tyAce ahita hota asela tara ? dAdAzrI : te tumhAlA pahAyace nAhI. samoracyAce ahita hota asela tara te tyAlA pahAyace Ahe. tumhI samoracyAce hita pahA paNa hita-ahita pAhaNyAcI zakti Ahe kA tumacyAta ? tumhI svata:ceca hita pAhU zakata nAhI, tara maga dusar2yAMce hita kase pAhU zakAla ? sarva ApApalyA kSamatenusAra hita pAhata asatAta, tevaDhe pAhile hita pAhije. paraMtu samoracyAcyA hitAsAThI vAdavivAda ubhe hotIla, ase vhAyalA nako. praznakartA : samoracyAce samAdhAna karaNyAcA ApaNa prayatna karato paraMtu pariNAma viparIta yeNAra Ahe, ase ApalyAlA mAhita asela, tevhA kAya karAve ?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 49 dAdAzrI : pariNAma kasAhI yevo, ApalyAlA tara 'samoracyAce samAdhAna karAyace Ahe.' itake nakkI karA. 'samabhAve nikAla' karaNyAce nakkI karA, maga nikAla ho agara na ho te AdhIca pahAyace nAhI, ANi nikAla tara hoIla. Aja nAhI tara udyA hoIla, paravA hoIla, jAsta cikaTa asela tara dona varSa, tIna varSa kiMvA pAca varSAnehi hoIla. 'vAIpha' sobatace RNAnubaMdha khUpaca cikaTa asatAta, mulAMce paNa cikaTa asatAta, AIvaDilAMcehI cikaTa asatAta, tithe jarA jAsta veLa lAgela. he sarva nehamI tumacyA barobaraca rAhata asatAta tithe nikAla haLU-haLU hoIla. paNa tumhI nakkI kele Ahe kI, kasehI karuna ApalyAlA 'samabhAve nikAla karAyacA Ahe' tara maga eka nA eka divasa nikAla hoUnaca rAhila, tyAcA aMta yeIla. 14. 'mAjhI' ce ATe ulagaDatIla ase lagnAcyA veLI maMDapAta basatA nA? maMDapAta basatA tevhA ase pAhatA, haM, hI mAjhI vAIpha, mhaNaje pahilA ATA basalA. mAjhI vAIpha, mAjhI vAIpha, mAjhI vAIpha..... lagnAsAThI basalyApAsUnaca ATe phiravAyace suru karato, te AjaparyaMta ATe phiravataca Ahota tara AtAparyaMta kitI ATe basale asatIla ! AtA te kazyAprakAre ulagaDatIla. mamatece ATe lAgale ! AtA, 'nAhI mAjhI, nAhI mAjhI' ase satata ajapAjapa karA! 'hI strI mAjhI nAhI, nAhI mAjhI' bolA mhaNaje ATe ulaTe phiratIla. pannAsa hajAraveLA mAjhI-mAjhI mhaNUna je ATe phiravale Aheta, te 'nAhI mAjhI' ce pannAsa hajAra ATe ulaTe phiravA tevhA ulagaDatIla ! ekA mANasAcyA patnIcyA maraNAlA dahA varSa jhAlI hotI, tarIhI to tilA visaru zakata navhatA ANi satata raData rahAyacA. he kasale bhUta Ahe? mI tyAlA 'nAhI mAjhI, nAhI mAjhI' bolaNyAsa sAMgitale. tevhA tyAne kAya kele? tIna divasa 'nAhI mAjhI, nAhI mAjhI' bolataca rAhilA, satata bolataca rAhilA. tevhA maga tyAce raDAyace thAMbale! he sarva tara ATeca phiravale gele Aheta ANi tyAmuLeca hI phajitI jhAlI Ahe. mhaNaje he sarva kalpita Ahe. malA kAya sAMgAyace Ahe te tumhAlA samajale? AtA asA saraLa rastA koNa dAkhavaNAra?

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50 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra divasabhara kAma karatA-karatA patIce pratikramaNa karata rahAyace. ekA divasAta sahA mahinyAce vaira suTUna jAIla, ANi ardhA divasa kele tara, tIna mahinyAce vaira tarI suTela. lagnApUrvI navar2yAvara mamatA hotI? nAhI nA. maga hI mamatA kevhApAsUna bAMdhalI gelI? lagnAcyA veLI maMDapAta samorAsamora basalAta tyAveLI tu nakkI kele kI, 'he mAjhe patI Ale. jarA jADa Aheta ANi sAvaLe hI Aheta.' maga tyAnehI nakkI kele kI, 'hI mAjhI patnI AlI.' tevhApAsUnaca je 'mAjhe-mAjhI'ce ATe phirale gele te ATe phirataca rAhile. hI paMdharA varSAcI philma Ahe arthAta tU tyAlA 'nAhI mAjhA, nAhI mAjhA' karazIla tara te ATe ulagaDatIla ANi mamatA suTela. he tara lagna jhAle tevhApAsUna abhiprAya bAMdhalA gelA, 'prijyuDIsa' (pUrvagraha) nirmANa jhAlA kI, 'he ase Aheta, tase Aheta.' paNa tyA pUrvI ase kAhI hote kA? AtA tara tumhAlA manAta nakkI karAyace Ahe kI, 'je Ahe te heca Ahe.' ANi ApaNa svataH pasaMta karuna ANale Ahe. AtA patI badalatA yeIla kA? 15. paramAtma premAcI oLakha hyA saMsArAta jara koNI mhaNela kI, hyA strIce prema, he prema nAhI ? tevhA mI tyAMnA samajAvela kI, je prema kamI-jAsta hote te khare prema nAhI. tumhI hir2yAMcyA kuDyA ANUna dilyA tara tyA divazI tice prema khUpa vADhate, ANi jara kuDyA nAhI ANalyA tara prema kamI hote, he khare prema mhaNata nAhI. praznakartA : khare prema vADhata-ghaTata nAhI, tara tyAce svarupa kase asate? dAdAzrI : te vADhata-ghaTata nAhI. jevhA pahAla tevhA prema jasecyA taseca disate. he tara tumhI tyAMce kAma karuna dile tara tyAMce tumacyAvara prema rAhate. ANi kAma kele nAhI tara prema rAhata nAhI. yAsa prema kase mhaNAyace? arthAt jithe svArtha nAhI tithe zuddha prema asate. svArtha kevhA nasato, tara jevhA tujhe-mAjhe hota nAhI tevhA. 'jJAna' asate tevhA mAjhe-tujhe hota nAhI. 'jJAna' zivAya tara mAjhe-tajhe hoteca nA?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 51 hI tara sarva rA~ga bilIpha (ajJAna mAnyatA) Ahe. 'mI caMdubhAI Ahe' hI rA~ga bilIpha Ahe. maga gharI gelyAvara ApaNa vicArAle kI he koNa Aheta? tevhA te bolatAta, malA nAhI oLakhale? yA bAIcA mI mAlaka (navarA-dhanI) Ahe. ohohoho ! AlA moThA mAlaka ! jaNU hyA mAlakAcA koNI mAlakaca nasela, ase bolato? mAlakAcA koNI mAlaka asela kI nAhI ? tara maga varacyA mAlakAcI patnI tumhI jhAlAta ANi tumacI patnI hI jhAlI. hyA goMdhaLAta kazAlA paDAyace? mAlaka vhAyaceca kazAlA? Amace 'kampeniyana' (sahacArI) Aheta, ase mhaNAyalA kAya harakata Ahe? praznakartA : dAdAMnI khUpa 'maoNrDana' bhASA vAparalI. dAdAzrI : tara kAya maga? tyAmuLe Tasala (saMgharSa) kamI hoNAra nA ! ho, ekA rumamadhye dona 'kampeniyana' rAhata asatIla, tara eka jaNa cahA banavaNAra ANi dusarA piNAra ANi dusarA tyAbadalyAta tyAce kAma karuna deIla. ase karuna 'kampeniyana' cAlata asate. praznakartA : 'kampeniyana'madhye Asakti (moha) asate kI nAhI ? dAdAzrI : hyAta Asakti Ahe paNa hI Asakti agnI sArakhI nasate. he tara zabdaca atizaya AsaktivAle Aheta. mAlaka ANi mAlakINa hyA zabdAtaca itakI gADha Asakti bharalI Ahe nA kI, 'kampeniyana' mhaNAla tara jarA Asakti kamI hoIla. ekA gRhAsthAMcI bAyako 20 varSAMpUrvI vAralI hotI. tara ekajaNa malA mhaNAlA kI, 'hyA kAkAMnA mI raDavU kA?' mI vicArale, 'kase raDavazIla?' hyA vayAta tara te nAhI raDAyace. tevhA to mhaNAlA, 'pahA, te kitI sensiTiva (bhAvUka) Aheta?' maga to kAkAMnA mhaNAlA, 'kAya kAkA, kAkIMcyA bAbatIta tara vicAruca nakA! kAya tyAMcA svabhAva hotA!' to ase bolataca hotA kI, kAkAMnA kharokharaca raDU yeU lAgale! are, kase ghanacakkara! sAThAvyA varSI suddhA bAyakosAThI raDU yete! he tara kasale ghanacakkara Aheta? he loka tara sinemAta paNa raDatAta nA? tyAta koNI mele asela tara pAhaNAr2yAMnA paNa raDU yete!

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : hI Asakti kA suTata nAhI? dAdAzrI : tI tara nAhI suTaNAra, kAraNa 'mAjhI-mAjhI' mhaNata, bAMdhale nA! AtA 'nAhI mAjhI, nAhI mAjhI' ase japa kelyAvara, suTatIla. he tara jitake ATe phiravale asatIla, titake ATe soDavAve tara lAgatIlaca nA ! arthAt hI tara phakta Asaktica Ahe. cetana sArakhI vastUca nAhI. he sarva tara cAvI bharalele putaLe Aheta. ANi jithe Asakti Ahe tithe AkSepa AlyAzivAya rahAtaca nAhI. hA AsakticA svabhAva Ahe. Asakti Ahe mhaNUna AkSepa karaNAraca kI, 'tumhI ase AhAta nI, tumhI tase AhAta ! tumhI ase nI tu azI' ase nAhI kA bolata? tumacyA gAvI ase bolatAta kI nAhI bolata? ase bolatAta te AsaktimuLe. hyA mulI navarA pasaMta karatAta, nITa pArakhUna-nirakhUna pasaMta karatAta maga tyAnaMtarahI bhAMData nasatIla? bhAMDatAta khare? tara maga hyAlA prema mhaNataca nAhI nA ! prema tara kAyamace asate. jevhA baghAla tevhA taseca prema, taseca disela, tyAsa prema mhaNatAta ANi tithe AzvAsana gheU zakatA. he tara tumhAlA prema rAhata asela, ANi tI rusUna basalI asela tara, tevhA mhaNAla, jaLo he kasale tujhe prema! tyAsa pheka ithUna gaTArIta! toMDa phugavUna phirata asela tara azyA premAce kAya karAyace? tumhAlA kAya vATate? jithe khUpa prema asate, titheca nAvaDa hote, hA manuSya svabhAva Ahe. hI loka tara sinemA pahAyalA jAtAnA pUrNataH AsakticyA dhuMdItaca asatAta paNa parata yetAnA 'tu bina akkalecI Ahe' ase bolatAta. tevhA tI suddhA mhaNate, 'tumacyAta tarI kuThe lAyakI Ahe ?!' azI baDabaDa karata karata gharI yetAta. to akkala zodhato, tara hI lAyakI badhate ! premAne sudharatAta, he sarva sudharavAyace asela, tara premAneca sudharela. hyA sarvAMnA mI sudhArato nA, te premAne sudhArato. AmhI premAneca bolato tyAmuLe goSTa bigaData nAhI. ANi jarApaNa dveSAne bolAla tara tI goSTa bigaDUna jAIla. dudhAta dahI ghAtale nasela ANi azIca jarA havA lAgalI, tarI paNa tyA dudhAce dahI banUna jAte.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 53 praznakartA : prema ANi Asakti yAtIla pharaka jarA samajavA. dAdAzrI : je vikRta prema Ahe, tyAceca nAMva Asakti. yA jagAta ApaNa jyAlA prema mhaNato, te vikRta prema mhaTale jAte ANi yAlAca Asakti mhaNatAta. ___ he tara suI ANi cuMbakAmadhye jazI Asakti asate, tazI hI Asakti Ahe. hyAta premAsArakhI vastUca nAhI. prema nAhIca kuThehI. he tara suI ANi cuMbakAcyA AkarSaNAmuLe tumhAlA ase vATate kI, malA prema Ahe ANi tyAmuLe mI oDhalo jAta Ahe. paNa hI premAsArakhI vastUca nAhI. prema tara, jJAnI puruSAce 'prema' heca prema mhaTale jAte. yA duniyeta zuddha prema hAca paramAtmA Ahe, hyAcyA vyatirikta dusarA koNI paramAtmA hyA duniyeta jhAlAca nAhI, ANi hoNArahI nAhI, ANi titheca dila (hRdaya) prasanna hote ANi tevhA dilAvarI kAma hote. nAhItara dilAvarI kAma hoU zakata nAhI. dona prakArene hRdaya prasanna hote. adhogatIta jAyace asela tara ekhAdyA strIvara hRdaya ovALUna TAkAve, ANi UrdhvagatIta jAyace asela tara jJAnIvara hRdaya ovALUna TAkAve ANi he jJAnI puruSa tara tumhAlA mokSAlA gheUna jAtIla. donhIhI jAgI dilacIca (hRdayAcI) jarurata paDela, tevhAca dilAvarI prApta hote. arthAt jyA premAta krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha kAhIhI nAhI, strI nAhI, puruSa nAhI, je prema samAna, ekasArakheca rahAte ase zuddha prema pAhilyAvara, mANasAce hRdaya prasannatene bharuna yete. mI prema svarupa jhAlo Ahe. hyA premAtaca tumhI magna vhAla tevhA jaga visarunaca jAla. jaga pUrNa vismRta hoIla. premAta magna jhAlyAvara tumacA saMsAra uttama prakAre cAlela. Adarzamaya cAlela. 16. lagna kele mhaNaje 'promisa TU pe' hIrAbAMcA eka DoLA 1943 madhye gelA. tyAMnA jhAmaracA trAsa hotA, tyAvara upacAra karatAnA DaoNkTarAMnI jarA ase kAhI kele kI tyAcA duSpariNAma DoLyAMvara jhAlA ANi tyAmuLe nukasAna jhAle.

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54 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra mhaNUna lokAMcyA manAta ase Ale kI, hA 'navIna' vara tayAra jhAlA. punhA lagna lAvA. mulIhI puSkaLa hotyA nA! ANi mulIMcyA AIvaDilAMcI icchA paNa azI kI, kasehI karuna, vihirIta DhakalUnahI mulIMcA nivADA karA, tevhA bhAdaraNa gAvace eka pATIla Ale. tyAMcyA mevhaNyAMcI mulagI asela. mhaNUna Ale hote. mI vicArale, 'kAya kAma Ahe Apale?' tevhA te mhaNAle, 'ApalyA sobata ase ghaDale?' tyAveLI 1944 madhye mAjhe vaya 36 varSa hote. tevhA mI mhaNAlo, 'tumhI he vicArAyalA AlAta kA?' tevhA te mhaNAle, 'eka tara hIrAbAMcA DoLA gelA, ANi dusare ase kI prajA (mulaM) hI nAhI.' mI mhaNAlo, 'prajA nAhI paNa mAjhyAjavaLa koNate sTeTahI (rAjya) nAhI. baDodA sTeTa nAhI kI malA tyAMnA dyAyace Ahe. sTeTa asate tara mulAMnA dilele bare. paNa he tara mAjhyAkaDe ekhAde ghara kiMvA thoDIzI jamIna asela. paNa te hI parata ApalyAlA zetakarIca banavaNAra nA !' jara sTeTa asate tara samajA kI ThIka hote. maga mI tyAMnA vicArale kI, AtA he sarva tumhI kazAlA vicArata AhAta? lagna kele tevhA AmhI tara hIrAbAMnA promisa dile Ahe. tara maga eka DoLA gelA mhaNUna kAya jhAle ! donhI gele tarI mI tyAMnA hAta dharuna cAlavena. praznakartA : mAjhe lagna jhAlyAnaMtara AmhI doghe ekamekAMnA oLakhU lAgalo ANi AtA ase vATate kI nivaDaNyAta AmacI cuka jhAlI, doghAMcyAhI svabhAvAta kAhI meLa basata nAhI. tara doghAMcA meLa basela ase kase ANi kazyAprakAre karAve jeNe karuna sukhI hotA yeIla? dAdAzrI : he je kAhI tumhI bolata AhAta nA, tyAtale ekahI vAkya satya nAhI. pahile vAkya, lagna jhAlyAnaMtara donhI vyakti ekamekAMnA oLakhU lAgatAta, paNa khare tara jarA suddhA oLakhata nAhI. jara oLakhata asate tara hI bhAnagaDaca ubhI rAhIlI nasatI nA! arthAta ajibAta oLakhata nAhI. mI tara phakta baddhicyA 'Divijanane'(vibhAjanAne) sarva matabheda saMpavUna TAkale hote. paNa hIrAbAMcI oLakha malA kevhA jhAlI? vayAcyA sAThavyA varSI malA hIrAbAMcI kharI oLakha paTalI ! 15 varSAcA hoto tevhA lagna kele, 45 varSAparyaMta sAtatyAne nirIkSaNa kele, tevhA tyAMnA oLakhale kI tyA azyA Aheta!

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 55 praznakartA : arthAt jJAna jhAlyAnaMtara tyAMnA oLakhale. dAdAzrI : ho, jJAna prApta jhAlyAnaMtara oLakhUca zakalo. nAhItara oLakhUca zakalo nasato, manuSya oLakhU zakata nAhI. manuSya svataHlAca oLakhU zakata nAhI kI, mI kasA Ahe! arthAta ekamekAMnA oLakhato, hyA vAkyAta kAhIhI tathya nAhI. ANi pasaMda karaNyAta cUkahI jhAlelI nAhI. praznakartA : he samajavA kI oLakhAyace kase? patI ne ApalyA patnIlA haLU haLU, sUkSmapaNe, premAne kase oLakhAve, he samajavavA. dAdAzrI : oLakhAla kevhA? ekatara samAnatecI saMdhI dyAla tevhA. tyAMnAhI spesa (mokaLIka) dilI pAhije. jase soMgaTyAne bAjI kheLAyalA samorAsamora basato, tevhA samoracyAlA paNa kheLAyacI samAna saMdhI (DAva) dilI pAhije. taraca kheLaNyAcI majA yete. paNa he tara samAna saMdhI kasalI detAta? AmhI deto samAna saMdhI. praznakartA : ApaNa samAnatecI saMdhI kazAprakAre detA? paeNkTikalI kazAprakAre detA? dAdAzrI : manAne tyAMnA vegaLe samajU deta nAhI. tI ulaTa-sulaTa bolalI tarIpaNa samAna Ahota azAprakAre, arthAta mI dabAva ghAlata nAhI. arthAt samoracyAcI prakRtI oLakhAyacI kI, hI prakRtI azI, azI Ahe. naMtara maga dusar2yA kAhI paddhatI zodhUna kADhAvyA. mI lokAMkaDUna dusar2yA paddhatIne kAma nAhI gheta kA? mI sAMgitalele sarva karatAta kI nAhI? karatAta. kAraNa mAjhyAta tase kauzalya hote mhaNUna nAhI, paNa mI dusar2yA paddhatIne kAma gheto, mhaNUna. gharAta basaNe AvaData nasela, tarI paNa ase bolA kI, tujhyAzivAya malA karamata nAhI! tevhA tI paNa mhaNela kI tumacyA zivAya malA paNa karamata nAhI. tara mokSAlA jAU zakAla. AtA tara dAdA bheTale Aheta nA, tara mokSAlA jAtA yeIla. praznakartA : tumhI hIrAbAMnA ase bolatA kA ?

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56 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : ho, hIrAbAMnA mI ajUnahI sAMgato nA ! ho| mI suddhA, hyA vayAtahI hIrAbAMnA ase sAMgato kI 'mI tumacyAzivAya bAheragAvI jAto te malAhI AvaData nAhI.' tyA manAta vicAra karatAta, kI malA tara AvaDate tara maga hyAMnA kA AvaData nasela? paNa mI ase mhaTale tara saMsAra viskaTaNAra nAhI. tAtparya heca kI AtA tU ithUna tRpa ota nA bAbA! nAhI otale tara zuSkapaNA yeIla! ota nA suMdara bhAva! mI kadhI basalo asela tevhA hIrAbA malA vicAratAta, tumhAlA mAjhI suddhA AThavaNa yete? mI mhaNato nehamIca yete, jithe itara loka AThavatAta tara tithe tumacI AThavaNa kA nAhI yeNAra? ANi kharokhara AThavaNa yetahI asate, yeta nAhI ase nAhI. AmacI lAIpha Adarza Ahe, hIrAbAhI mhaNatAta, 'tumhI lavakara yA.' strIcA patI jhAlo kevhA samajAve tara jevhA strI patIsAThI niraMtara pUjyabhAva anubhavata asela tevhA! patI tara kasA asAvA? kadhIhI strIlA, mulAMnA kuThalIhI harakata yeU deNAra nAhI, asA asAvA. ANi strI kazI asAvI? kadhIhI patIlA aDacaNIta TAkaNAra nAhI ANi tyAcyAca vicArAta jagaNArI. 17. patnIsobata bhAMDaNa doghejaNa tuphAna-mastI karata asatIla, te laDhatIla-bhAMDatIla paNa Ata (manAta) dAvA nAhI mAMDaNAra. ANi ApaNa jara madhye paDalo tara te ApalyAkaDUna svata:ce kAma karavUna ghetIla ANi te doghe punhA ekaca hotIla. dusar2yA gharI rahAyalA nAhI jAta yAlA popaTamastI mhaNatAta, AmhI lageca samajUna jAto hyA doghAMnI popaTamastI suru kelI Ahe. eka tAsa nokarAlA, mulAMnA kiMvA bAyakolA khUpa dhamakAvale asela tara maga te puDhacyA janmI patI banUna kiMvA sAsU hoUna tumhAlA AyuSyabhara pAyAkhAlI tuDavatIla! nyAya tara asAyalA havA kI nAhI? heca bhogAyace Ahe. tumhI koNAlA duHkha dyAla tara AyuSyabhara tumhAlAhI duHkhaca miLela. ekaca tAsa jarI duHkha dile tarI tyAce phaLa AyuSyabhara bhogAve lAgela. naMtara maga bolAla kI 'bAyako mAjhyAbarobara azI kA

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 57 vAgate?' bAyakolAhI ase vATate kI 'navar2yAsobata mAjhe vartana ase kA hote Ahe ?' tilA paNa duHkha hote, paNa kAya karaNAra? maga mI tyAMnA vicArale kI 'bAyakone tumhAlA zodhUna ANale hote kI tumhI bAyakolA zodhUna ANale?' tevhA to mhaNato kI, 'mI zodhUna ANale.' tara maga ticA bicArIcA kAya doSa? ANalyAnaMtara vAITa nighAlI, tyAta tI kAya karaNAra, kuThe jAIla maga? praznakartA : abolA gheUna, goSTa TALalyAne tyAcA nikAla hoU zakato? dAdAzrI : nAhI hoU zakata? ApalyAlA jara te samora bheTale tara, ApaNa tyAMcI vicArapUsa karAyacI, tumhI kase AhAta? kase nAhI?' ase vicArAyace. samoracA jara boMbAboma karata asela tara ApaNa jarA zAMta rAhUna samabhAve nikAla karAvA, kadhI nA kadhI tyAcA nikAla karAvAca lAgela nA? abolA dharalA mhaNUna kAya tyAcA nikAla lAgalA? hA nikAla lAgalA nAhI mhaNUna tara abolA dharuna ThevalA. abolA mhaNaje ojhe. jyAcA nivADA jhAlelA nAhI tyAce ojhe. ApaNa tara lagecaca tyAlA thAMbavUna mhaNAve, 'thAMbA nA! mAjhI kAhI cuka asela tara malA sAMgA. mAjhyAkaDUna khUpa cUkA hotAta. tumhI tara khUpa huzAra-zikalele, mhaNUna tumacyAkaDUna cuka hoNAra nAhI, paNa mI tara kamI zikalelo Ahe mhaNUna mAjhyAkaDUna khUpa cUkA hotAta.' ase bolAla tara tI khuza hoUna jAIla. praznakartA : ase bolalyAnaMtarahI narama paDalI nAhI tara kAya karAve? dAdAzrI : narama paDalI nAhI tara kAya karAve? ApaNa sAMgUna mokaLe vhAyace ANakhI kAya upAya? kadhI nA kadhI ekhAdyA divazI narama paDela. damadATIne narama karAla tara tyAne kAhI narama hoNAra nAhI. Aja narama vATela, paNa tI manAta noMda Thevela ANi jevhA tumhI narama vhAla tyA divazI sarva ukaruna kADhela. arthAt jagata vairabhAvavAle Aheta. nisargAcA niyama asA Ahe kI, pratyeka jIva Atamadhye vaira bAMdhatoca. Ata vairabhAvAce paramANu sAThavUna ThevatAta. mhaNUna ApaNa tyA prakaraNAcA pUrNapaNe nikAla lAvAvA.

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58 pati- patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : tara maga kAhI bolAyaceca nAhI ? dAdAzrI : bolAyace, jara bolatA yeta asela tara samyak bolA, nAhItara kutryAsArakhe bhuMkata rAhaNyAta kAya artha Ahe ? mhaNUna samyak bolAve. praznakartA : samyak mhaNaje kase ? dAdAzrI : ahoho ! tumhI yA mulAlA kA pADale? tyAce kAraNa kAya? tevhA tI sAMgela kI, mI jANUna-bujhUna pADale kA ? to tara mAjhyA hAtAtUna nisaTalA ANi paDalA. praznakartA : he tara tI khoTe bolate nA ? dAdAzrI : tI khoTe bolate he ApalyAlA pahAyace nAhI. khoTe bolela kI khare bolela te ticyA AdhIna Ahe. te ApalyA AdhIna nAhI. praznakartA : bolatA yeta nasela tara maga kAya karAve, gappa basAve ? dAdAzrI : mauna rahA ANi pAhata rahA kI 'kyA hotA hai?' sinemAta mulAlA phekatAta tevhA tumhI kAya karatA ? bolaNyAcA adhikAra sarvAMnA Ahe. paNa kleza vADhaNAra nAhI azAprakAre bolaNyAcA adhikAra Ahe. jyA bolaNyAne kleza vADhela te tara mUrkhAce kAma Ahe. praznakartA : ApalyAlA bhAMDaNa karAyace nasela, kiMvA ApaNa kadhI bhAMDataca nasU tarI suddhA gharAtIla sarva samorUna rojaca bhAMDaNa karu lAgale tara tyAveLI kAya karAve ? dAdAzrI : ApalyAlA bhAMDaNaprUpha vhAyalA pAhije. bhAMDaNaprUpha jhAlAta taraca yA saMsArAta rAhatA yeIla. AmhI tumhAlA bhAMDaNaprUpha banavU. bhAMDaNa karaNArAhI kaMTALUna jAIla ase Apale svarUpa asAyalA have. 'varlDa' madhye koNIhI ApalyAlA Dipresa karu zakaNAra nAhI, ase vhAyalA pAhije. ApaNa bhAMDaNa prUpha jhAlyAvara kAhI bhAnagaDaca uralI nAhI nA ? lokAMnA bhAMDaNa karAyace asela, zivyA dyAyacyA asatIla tarI ApalI kAhI harakata nAhI, ANi tarIhI ApaNa nirlajja nAhI samajale jANAra, ulaTa ApalI jAgRti vADhela.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 59 pUrvI je bhAMDaNa kele hote tyAce vaira bAMdhale gele hote ANi te Aja bhAMDaNAcyA rupAne pheDale jAta Ahe. bhAMDaNa hote tyAca kSaNI vairabhAvAce bIja paDate. ANi te puDhalyA janmI ugavate. praznakartA : tara te bIja kazAprakAre dUra hotIla. dAdAzrI : haLU haLU samabhAvAne nikAla karata rahAla tara dUra hotIla. khUpa bhArI bIja paDale asatIla tara veLa lAgela, zAMtI ThevAvI lAgela. pratikramaNa khUpa karAve lAgatIla. Apale koNI kAhI gheta nAhI, dona TAImace jevaNa miLate. kapaDe miLatAta, maga ANakhI kAya have? gharAlA kulUpa lAvUna jAtAta, paNa ApalyAlA dona veLace jevaNa miLate, kI nAhI miLata tevaDheca pahAyace Ahe. ApalyAlA Ata baMda karuna gele tarI harakata nAhI. ApaNa jhopUna jAve. pUrva janmAce vaira ase bAMdhale gele Aheta kI, ApalyAlA kulUpa lAvUna Ata koMDUna jAtAta! vaira, ANi tehI asamaMjasapaNe bAMdhale gelele! samaMjasapaNe asela tara ApaNa samajU kI he samaMjasapaNe Ahe, tara tyAce nivAraNa hoIla. paNa AtA asamaMjasapaNe asela tara nivAraNa kase hoIla? arthAta tithe tI goSTa soDUna dyAvI. AtA sarva vairabhAva soDUna dyAyace. mhaNUna kadhItarI AmacyAkaDUna 'svarUpa jJAna' prApta karUna dyA mhaNaje sarva vaira suTUna jAtIla. hyA janmAtaca sarva vaira soDUna dyA. AmhI tumhAlA mArga dAkhavU. DhekUNa cAvatAta, te tara bicAre khUpa cAMgale Aheta. paNa pati-patnIlA cAvAyalA dhAvato ANi patnI patIlA cAvAyalA dhAvate, te tara khUpa asahya Ahe. kAya? cAvatA kI nAhI cAvata ? praznakartA : cAvato. dAdAzrI : he cAvA ghAlaNe baMda karAyace Ahe. DhekUNa cAvatAta, paNa te cAvUna nighUna jAtAta. te bicAre AtUna tRpta jhAlyAvara nighUna jAtAta. paNa bAyako tara satata cAvataca rAhate. eka jaNa tara malA mhaNAlA, mAjhI vAIpha tara malA sarpiNI sArakhI cAvate! tara murkhA maga lagna kA kele tyA sarpiNI barobara? maga kAya to svataH sApa nasela? murkhA ?! azIca kA sarpiNa miLela? sApa asela taraca sarpiNa yeIla nA?

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pati - patnIcA divya vyavahAra AmhI tara itakeca jANato kI, jara bhAMDaNAnaMtara 'vAIpha' sobata vyavahAraca ThevAyacA nasela tara tI goSTa vegaLI Ahe. paNa punhA bolAyace asela tara maga madhalA sarva vyavahAraca khoTA Ahe. AmacyA he dhyAnAtaca asate kI, dona tAsAnaMtara punhA bolAyace Ahe tyAnuLe AmhI tyAta kiTakiTa karata nAhI. tumacA abhiprAya punhA badalaNAra nasela tara goSTa vegaLI Ahe. tumacA abhiprAya badalalA nAhI tara, tumhI kelele khare Ahe. punhA 'vAIpha' barobara rahAyace nasela tara bhAMDaNa kele te barobara Ahe, paraMtu he tara udyA punhA ekatra basUna jevaNAra Aheta. maga kAla je nATaka kele tyAce kAya ? yAcA vicAra karAvA lAgela nA ? 60 sarva prathama patIne bAyakocI mAphI mAgatalI pAhije kAraNa patI moThyA manAce asatAta. bAyako AdhI mAphI mAgata nAhI. praznakartA : patIMnA moThyA, udAra manAce mhaTale mhaNUna te khuza jhAle. dAdAzrI : nAhI, he tara moThyA manAceca asatAta. tyAMce mana vizAla asate ANi striyA sAhajika asatAta, ANi sAhajika asatAta mhaNUna AtUna udaya AlyA vara tyA mAphI mAgatIla kiMvA nAhI paNa mAgaNAra. paNa tumhI jara mAphI mAgitalI tara tyA suddhA lageca mAphI mAgatIla. ANi tumhI puruSa udayakarmAcyA AdhIna nAhI rAhata, tumhI tara jAgRtIcyA AdhIna rAhatA ANi hyA udaya karmAcyA AdhIna rAhaNAr2yA, mhaNUna tara tyAMnA sahaja mhaNatAta! striyAMnA sahaja mhaNatAta. tumacyAta sahajatA yeta nAhI. sahaja jhAlAta tara khUpa sukhI vhAla. praznakartA : hA aham khoTA Ahe, ase ApalyAlA sAMgitale jAte, AmhI he sarva aikata asato, saMta mahAtmA suddhA ase sAMgatAta, tarIhI hA aham kA jAta nAhI ? dAdAzrI : aham kevhA jAIla ? tara to aham khoTA Ahe ase ApaNa jevhA svikAru tevhA jAIla. patnIsobata bhAMDaNa hota asela tara ApaNa samajUna jAve kI ApalA aham khoTA Ahe. mhaNaje ApaNa roja tyAca ahamne AtUna ticI khUpa mAphI mAgata rAhilyAsa, to aham nighUna jAIla. kAhI upAya tara karAvAca lAgela nA ?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra AmhI tara hA sAdhA saraLa rastA dAkhavUna deto. ANi he bhAMDaNataMTe kAhI roja-roja hotAta? jevhA ApalyA karmAcA udaya asela, tevhA hotAta, tevaDhyApurate 'aiDajasTa' houna jAyace. gharAta vAIphasobata bhAMDaNa jhAle asela, tara bhAMDaNa jhAlyAnaMtara vAIphalA haoNTelAta neUna khAU-piU ghAlUna khuza karAyace. AtA kuThalAhI taMta nAhI rAhilA pAhije. mhaNUna he jJAna asela tara hI bhAnagaDaca uraNAra nAhI. jJAna asela, tara ApaNa sakALacyA paharI (zuddhAtmAce) darzanaca karaNAra nA? vAIphacyA AtahI bhagavaMtAce darzanaca karAveca lAgaNAra nA? vAIphacyA AtahI 'dAdA' disale tara kalyANa jhAle. vAIphalA pAhilyAvara dAdA disatIla nA! ticyAta zuddhAtmA disato nA! tara maga kalyANa jhAle. arthAta jase-tase karuna, 'aiDjasTa' karuna TAIma pasAra kADhAvA, mhaNaje udhArI pheDalI jAIla. koNAce paMcavIsa varSAce, koNAce paMdharA varSAce, tara koNAce tIsa varSAce, icchA aso athavA naso tarIhI deNe tara pheDAveca lAgate. AvaData nasela tarIhI tyAca kholIta ekatra rahAve lAgate. ekIkaDe bichAnA, 'bAIsAhebAMce' ANi dusarIkaDe 'bhAUsAhebAMce'! toMDa phiravUna jhopale tarIhI bAIsAhebAMnA vicAra tara bhAUsAhebAMceca yetAta nA! suTakAca nAhI! hA saMsAraca asA Ahe. phakta tumhAlAca te AvaData nAhIta ase nAhI, tara tyAnAMhI tumhI AvaData nasatA! arthAt hyAta majA gheNyAsArakhI nAhI. 'DonTa sI laoNja, plIja seTala' (kAyadA baghU nakA, samAdhAna karA). samoracyAlA seTalamenTa (samAdhAna)karAyalA sAMgAve. 'tumhI ase karA, tase karA.' ase bolAyalA veLaca kuThe asato? samoracyAcyA zaMbhara cUkA asatIla tarI paNa tumhAlA tara ApalIca cuka Ahe ase samajUna puDhe cAlata rahAyace. hyA kALAta 'laoN' (kAyade) baghAyace asatAta kA? he tara AtA zevaTacyA pAyarI vara pohacale Ahe! praznakartA : kityekaveLA gharAta joradAra bhAMDaNa hoUna jAte, tevhA kAya karAve? dAdAzrI : zahANA mANUsa asela, tara lAkho rupaye dile tarI bhAMDaNa

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pati- patnIcA divya vyavahAra karaNAra nAhI! ANi hA tara binapaizAce bhAMDato, maga tyAlA anADI nAhI tara dusare kAya mhaNAve ? bhagavAna mahAvIrAMnA Apale karma saMpavaNyAsAThI sATha maila cAlUna anADI kSetrAta jAve lAgata hote, ANi hyA kALAtale loka tara kitI puNyazAlI Aheta kI, gharacyAgharAta anADI kSetra Ahe ! kase ahobhAgya ! karma saMpavaNyAsAThI he tara atyaMta lAbhadAyI Ahe. paNa saraLa rAhile tara... 62 gharAta koNI vicArale, sallA mAgitalA taraca uttara dyAve. vicAralyAzivAya sallA deta basato tyAlA bhagavaMtAne ahaMkAra mhaTale Ahe. patIne vicArale kI, he glAsa kuThe ThevAyace Ahe ? tevhA patnI uttara dete kI, amakyA jAgI ThevA. tevhA tumhI tithe TheUna dyAve. paNa tyA aivajI to mhaNato, 'tulA akkala nAhI, ithe kuThe ThevAyalA sAMgatesa?' tevhA patnI mhaNate kI, 'akkala nAhI mhaNUna tara mI tumhAlA ase sAMgitale, AtA tumacyA akkalenusAra ThevA.' hyAcA aMta kadhI yeNAra ? hI kevaLa saMyogAMcI AdaLa-ApaTa Ahe ? mhaNaje bhavare, khAtAMnA, uThatAMnA ApaTataca rAhatAta! maga Tecale, jAtAta solale jAtAta ANi rakta nighU lAgate!! paNa hyAta tara mAnasika rakta nighate nA! te rakta nighata asela tara ThIka, tithe paTTI bAMdhalyAvara thAMbela. paraMtu hyA mAnasika ghAvAvara tara kuThalIca paTTI nAhI nA! gharAta koNAlAhI, patnIlA, lahAna mulIlA, koNatyAhI jIvAlA jhiDakAruna mokSAlA jAU zakata nAhI. koNAlA jarA suddhA jhiDakArale tara to mokSacA mArga nAhI. praznakartA : tiraskAra ANi jhiDakAraNe hyA doghAta kAya pharaka ? dAdAzrI : jhiDakArane ANi tiraskArAta tara, tiraskArAcI tara kadAcita mAhitIhI paDaNAra nAhI. jhiDakAraNyAsamora tiraskAra hI tara ekadama mAIlDa (choTI) vastU Ahe. paraMtu jhiDakAraNe he tara atizaya ugra svarUpa Ahe. jhiDakAralyAvara lagecaca rakta nighela ase Ahe. hyA dehAce rakta nAhI nighaNAra, paNa manAce rakta nighela, ase jhiDakAraNe hI bhArI vastU Ahe.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra eka tAI Aheta, tyA malA sAMgata, hotyA 'gelyA janmAta tumhI mAjhe vaDIla hotA ase malA vATate' tAI khUpa cAMgalI, saMskArI hotI. maga mI tyA tAInAM mhaTale kI, hyA navar2yAsobata kase juLavUna ghetesa? tevhA tI mhaNAlI, 'te kadhI kAhI bolata nAhI. kAhIhI bolata nAhI.' tevhA mI vicArale, 'kadhItarI, kAhItarI hota asela nA?' tevhA mhaNAlI, 'nAhI, tase adhUna-madhUna TomaNe mAratAta.' ho, hyAvaruna mI samajUna gelo. tevhA mI vicArale 'te TomaNe mAratAta tevhA tU kAya karatesa? tevhA tU kAThI gheUna yetesa kI nAhI?' tevhA tI mhaNAlI, 'nAhI, mI tyAMnA ase mhaNate kI karmAcyA udayAne tumhI ANi mI ekatra Alo. mI vegaLI, tumhI vegaLe. tara AtA ase kA vAgatA? kazAsAThI TomaNe mArAyace? he sarva kAya Ahe? hyAta koNAcAhI doSa nAhI. he sarva karmAcyA udayAce doSa Aheta. mhaNUna TomaNe mAraNyApekSA ApaNa karma pheDUna TAkUyA nA! asale bhAMDaNa tara cAMgale mhaNAve nA!' AtAparyaMta bar2yAca bAyakA pAhilyA paNa itakI samaMjasa hI ekaca bAI pAhilI. mAjhA mULa svabhAva kSatriya, Amace rakta kSatriya, tyAmuLe uparI (mAlaka-variSTha)lA dhamakAvaNyAcI savaya ANi aMDara henDalA (hAtAkhAlacI mANasaM, nokara) sAMbhALaNyAcI savaya. he kSatriyAMce mULa guNa, mhaNaje hI vAIpha ANi itara sarva aMDara henDa Aheta mhaNUna malA tyAMce rakSaNa karaNyAcI savaya hotI. tyAMnI ulaTa-sulaTa kAhIhI kele tarI rakSaNa karaNyAcI savaya. nokara asatIla tyA sarvAMce rakSaNa karata hoto, tyAMcI kAhI cUka jhAlI asela tarI tyA bicAr2yAMnA kAhIhI bolata navhato paNa uparI koNI asela tara tyAce Doke phoDUna TAkata hoto. ANi he sarva jagata tara aMDara henDasobata kaTakaTa karate. ___ ApaNa lagna karuna bAyakolA gharI ANale ANi tilA sArakhe oraData rAhilo, tara he kase Ahe kI gAIlA khuMTIlA bAMdhUna, tilA mAraNe. khuMTIlA bAMdhUna mAra-mAra kele tara kAya hoIla? ithUna mArale tara tyAbAjUlA jAIla bicArI! tI ekA khuMTIlA bAMghalelI kuThe jANAra?! hyA samAjAcI khuMTa azI jabaradasta Ahe kI tilA paLUna jAtAhI yeNAra nAhI. khuMTIlA bAMdhalI Ahe ANi tilA mArale tara khUpa pApa lAgela. khuMTIlA bAMdhalelI

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64 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra nasela tara hAtAtaca yeNAra nAhI nA! tI tara samAjAmuLe dabUna basalI Ahe, nAhItara kevhAca paLUna gelI asatI. DAyavorsa ghetalyAnaMtara mAruna tara pahA, kAya hoIla maga? eka miniTa suddhA bhAnagaDa hoNAra nAhI tyAce nAMva patI. mitrAMsobata jase bigaDavU deta nAhI tyAcapramANe japAve. maitrI japalI nAhI tara maitrI tuTUna jAte. maitrI mhaNaje maitrI. tilA aTa sAMgUna dyAyacI, 'kI tU maitrIta AuTa oNpha maitrI jhAlIsa (maitrI nAhI nibhAvalI) tara gunhA lAgela. eka hoUna maitrI nibhAvAyacI!' phreMDa (mitrA)sAThI itake sinsiyara rAhatA kI, phreMDa dUra rAhata asela tarI to bolato, mAjhA phreMDa tara asA. mAjhyAsAThI vAITa vicAra karaNAraca nAhI. tyAcapramANe patnIsAThIhI vAITa vicAra karu naye. phreMDapekSA tI adhika nAhI kA? 18. patnI paratapheDa karate tolUna mApUna jara rAtrI patnIsobata tumace bhAMDaNa jhAle asela, tara tyAcI taMta (pakaDa) tilA sakALaparyaMta rAhate, mhaNUna sakALI cahA detAnA cahAcA kapa ase jorAta ApaTate. tyAvara tumhI samajUna jA kI haM.... taMta ajUna Ahe, zAMta jhAlI nAhI. ase AdaLa-ApaTa karate tyAce nAMva taMta. he tI kA karate, kazAsAThI karate? tara tI tumhAlA dAbU pahAte. ANi tU ciDalAsa kI tI samajUna jAte, calA AtA narama paDalA. paNa jara ciDalA nAhI tara tI jAsta karela, itakI kaTakaTa karuna suddhA patI jara rAgavata nasela tara maga Ata jAUna dona-cAra bhAMDI ApaTate. ApaTaNyAce khaNakhaNa.... AvAja aikUna patI ciDato. tarIhI jara to ciDalA nAhI tara mulAlA cimaTA kADhUna raDavate, tevhA mAtra to pappA ciDato, 'tU mulAcyA pAThI kA lAgalI Ahesa? tU mulAlA kA madhye ANatesa?' ase tase.... mhaNaje tI samajate kI, hAM, AtA hA narama paDalA. puruSa ghaTanA visaruna jAtAta ANi striyAMcI noMda tara saMpUrNa AyuSya rahAte. puruSa khUpa bhoLe asatAta, moThyA manAce asatAta. bhadrika asatAta,

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra mhaNUna te sarva visaruna jAtAta, striyA tara bolUnahI dAkhavatAta, 'kI tyA divazI tumhI je kAhI bolalAta, te mAjhyA kALajAlA lAgale Ahe.' are, vIsa varSe jhAlI tarI tyAcI noMda tAjI!! mulagA vIsa varSAcA jhAlA, lagnAcA jhAlA tarI tI goSTa sAThavUna Thevatesa?! sarva vastU saDatIla paNa, hyAMcI vastU saDaNAra nAhI! strIlA ase kAhI dile asela tara te tI kALajAta japUna Thevate. mhaNUna deU nakA. deNyAsArakhI vastU nAhI hI. sAvadha rAhaNyAsArakhe Ahe. nehamIca, strIlA jevaDhe tumhI sAMgAla, tyAcI jabAbadArI yete. kAraNa kI tI joparyaMta tumace zarIra cAMgale majabUta Ahe, toparyaMta tI sahana karela ANi manAta kAya mhaNela? sAMdhe Dhile paDatIla tevhA barobara dAkhavUna deIla. hyA sarvAMce sAMdhe Dhile jhAle Aheta tyA sarvAMnA barobara dAkhavUna dile Ahe. he sarva mI pAhile suddhA Ahe. mhaNUna mI lokAMnA sallA deto kI bAyakozI bhAMDaNa karu nakA. bAyakosobata vaira bAMdhU nakA. nAhItara melyA bhArI paDela. _ bhAratIya strI jara ApalyA mULa saMskArAta AlI, tara tI devI Ahe, paNa he tara bAherace saMskAra lAgale Aheta, tyAmuLe tI AtA bharakaTalI Ahe. mhaNUna zAstrakArAMnI mhaTale Ahe, 'ramA ramADavI sahela che, vipharI to mahAmuzkela thaI jAya' ANi Apale loka tara tI bharakaTela ase vAgatAta. ulaTa tilA ajUna DivacUna ukasavatAta ANi jevhA tI ukasavalI jAte tevhA vAghiNI sArakhI hote. mhaNUna ApalyAlA svata:cyA maryAde bAhera jAyalA nako, maryAdA ThevalI pAhije. ANi ApaNa jara strIlA Divacata rAhilo tara tI bicArI kuThe jAIla? mhaNUna maga tI ugra hote, AdhI ugra hote maga bekAbU ! ANi tI jara bekAbU jhAlI kI tara maga jhAle! arthAta tilA DivacU nakA. leTa go karA. ANi jara kA strI bekAbU jhAlI tara tujhI buddhI nAhI cAlaNAra, tujhI buddhI tilA bAMdhU zakaNAra nAhI. mhaNUna tI bekAbU hoNAra nAhI azArItIne ticyAzI bolA. DoLyAta bharapUra prema ThevA. kadhI ulaTa-sulaTa bolalI, tara strI jAtI Ahe ase mAnUna leTa go karA. arthAt ekA DoLyAta bharapUra prema ThevA ANi dusar2yA DoLyAta jarA saktI ThevA, azAprakAre rAhile pAhije.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra jyAveLI je garajece asela tase, mhaNaje dararoja phakta saktIne vAgale nAhI pAhije, tara ekA DoLyAta saktI ANi dusar2yA DoLyAta devI pramANe ase mAnale pAhije, samajale nA? praznakartA : ekA DoLyAta saktI ANi dusar2yA DoLyAta devI, he donhI aiTa ye TAIma (ekAca veLI) kase rAhU zakate? dAdAzrI : puruSAMnA tara ase sarva yete. mI tIsa-pastIsa varSAcA hoto. tyAveLI mI jevhA gharI yAyaco tevhA hIrAbA ekaTayAca nAhI, tara AjUbAjUcyA sarva striyA mAjhyA ekA DoLyAta saktI ANi dusar2yA DoLyAta pUjyatA pAhata asata. sarva striyA DokyAvara padara gheUna basata ANi lageca sartaka hota asata. ANi hIrAbA tara gharAta praveza karaNyA AdhIca dhassa hoUna jAta asata. buTAMcI cAhUla lAgalyAvara ghAbaruna jAta, ekA DoLyAta saktI, ANi ekA DoLyAta naramAI. hyAzivAya strIlA sAMbhALatAca yeNAra nAhI. mhaNUna hIrAbA sAMgata ase nA, 'dAdA kase Aheta?' praznakartA : tikhaTa bhovar2yAsArakhe. dAdAzrI : tikhaTa bhovar2yAsArakhe kAyama rAhata hoto. tase tyAMnA kadhIhI ghAbaravata navhato. gharAta Alo... kI cUpa, sarva barphAsArakhe thaMDagAra hoUna jAta ase. buTAMcI cAhUla lAgalI kI lagecaca! saktI kazAsAThI tara tyAMnA kuThe Thokara lAgU naye, mhaNUna sakhtI ThevA. tyAsAThI ekA DoLyAta saktI ANi ekA DoLayAta prema ThevAve. praznakartA : mhaNUna saMskRta madhye mhaTale Ahe, 'yatra nAryastu pujyaMte ramaMte tatra devatA!' dAdAzrI : ho, basa! mhaNUna mI jevhA ase bolato nA, tevhA sarva lokaM mhaNatAta kI, dAdA tumhI striyAMcI bAjU ghetA. pakSapAtI AhAta? paraMtu mI kAya sAMgato kI, striyAMnA pUjA, yAcA artha asA nAhI kI sakALI uThUna tyAMcI AratI karAvI, ase karAla tara tI tumace cAMgaleca tela kADhela. yAcA artha kAya ? ekA DoLyAta prema ANi ekA DoLyAta saktI ThevA.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 67 arthAt pUjA karu nakA. tazI yogyatA nAhI. mhaNUna manAne pUjA karA. tumhI patnIlA sAMgA kI 'tulA mAjhyAbarobara jitake bhAMDAyace Ahe titake bhAMDa. malA tara dAdAMnI bhAMDAyace nAhI ase sAMgitale Ahe. dAdAMnI malA AjJA kelI Ahe. hA mI basalo Ahe, tulA je kAhI bolAyace Ahe te bola AtA, ase tilA sAMgAve.' praznakartA : paNa maga tI bolaNAraca nAhI nA. dAdAzrI : dAdAMce nAMva yetAca cUpa hoUna jAIla. dusare kuThale hatyAra vAparu nakosa. heca hatyAra vApara. ___ eka tAI tara malA mhaNAlyA hotyA, lagna jhAle tevhA he khUpa kaDaka hote.' mI vicArale, 'AtA?!' tevhA mhaNAlI, 'dAdA, tumhI tara sarva strI cAritrya oLakhatA, mAjhyA kaDUna kA bolavUna ghetA!' tyAMnA mAjhyAkaDUna kAhI sukha have asela, tevhA mI tyAMnA sAMgate kI, 'bAIsAba bolA.' bAIsAba mhaNavUna gheta hotI. tyAta mAjhI kAya cuka? AdhI te mAjhyAkaDUna bhAIsAba mhaNavUna gheta hote tara AtA mI tyAMcyAkaDUna bAIsAba mhaNavUna ghete. samajale? __ he amaladAra hI oNphisAtUna trAsUna gharI Ale nA, tevhA bAI sAheba kAya mhaNatAta kI 'diDha tAsa uzIra jhAlA? kuThe gelelAta?' ghyA!! ekadA tyAcI bAyako tyAlA khaDasAvata hotI, asA siMhAsArakhA mANUsa, jyAlA sarva gujarAta ghAbarato tyAlA hI ghAbaravata hotI, pahA nA! pUrNa gujarAtamadhye jyAlA koNI eka zabdahI bolU zakata nAhI tyAlA tyAcI bAyako aikataca navhatI, ulaTa tyAlA khaDasAvata hotI! maga eke divazI mI, tilA mhaNAlo, 'tAI' tujhA patI Ahe to jara tulA ekaTIlA soDUna dahA-paMdharA divasa bAheragAvI gelA tara? tevhA mhaNAlI, 'malA tara bhItI vATela.' kazAcI bhItI vATate? tevhA mhaNU lAgalI, 'Ata dusar2yA kholIta pelyAMcA jarI khaDakhaDATa jhAlA tarIhI malA vATate kI bhUta Ale asela!' ekhAdyA uMdarAne dekhIla pyAlA khaDakhaDAvalA tarI malA bhItI vATate. ANi asA hA dhanI! jyA dhanImuLe tulA bhItI nAhI vATata, tyAca dhanIlA tU khaDasAvata rAhate. vAghAsArakhyA dhanIce tela kADhatesa!

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra eka mANUsa tIna hajArAMcI ghoDI gheUna AlA hotA. tase tara roja tyA ghoDIvara bApa basata ase. tyAcA mulagA covIsa varSAcA hotA. ekadA mulagA ghoDIvara basUna talAvAvara gelA. tyA ghoDIcI jarA cheDakhAnI kelI! AtA ghoDI tIna hajArAMcI, ticI cheDakhAnI kA karAvI! ticI cheDakhAnI karu naye, tilA ticyA cAlI pramANeca cAlU dyAve lAgate. tara tyAne cheDakhAnI kelyAvara ghoDI dona pAyAvara ekadama ubhI rAhilI. ghoDI ubhI rAhilyAvara to mulagA khAlI paDalA! gAThoDA khAlI paDalA! to gharI AlyAvara kAya mhaNAlA kI, 'hyA ghoDIlA vikUna TAkA. ghoDI kharAba Ahe.' tulA basatA yeta nAhI ANi ghoDIce doSa kADhato?! baghA, hA mAlaka!! he sarva mAlaka!! maga mI mhaNAlo, 'ho kAya? tI ghoDI kharAba hotI (tIna) hajArAMcI ghoDI! murkhA, tulA basatA yeta nAhI, tyAta ghoDIlA kazAlA badanAma karatosa?' ghoDIvara basatA tara Ale pAhije kI nAhI? ghoDIlA badanAma karatosa? ekadA jara patIne patnIcA pratikAra kelA tara patIcA kAhIhI prabhAva rAhata nAhI. Apale ghara cAMgalyA ritIne cAlata asela, mulaM vyavasthita zikata asatIla, kAhIca bhAnagaDa nasela ANi tarIhI tumhI vinAkAraNa cUkA kADhUna ticA virodha kelA tara tI tumacI akkala mApUna gheNAra kI hyA navar2yAta kAhI barakata nAhI. tumhAlA striyAMbarobara 'DIliMga' (vyavahAra) karatA yeta nAhI. tumhA vyApAr2yAMnA jara grAhakAMsobata DIliMga karatA Ale nAhI tara te tumacyAkaDe yeNAra nAhIta. mhaNUna lokaM mhaNatAta nA kI 'selsamena' cAMgalA ThevA? cAMgalA, huzAra, dekhaNA selsamena asela tara lokaM jarA jAsta kiMmata paNa deUna TAkatAta. azAprakAre tumhAlA striyAMbarobara DIliMga karatA yAyalA havI. hyA strI jAtI muLeca tara sarva jagAce nUra Ahe. nAhItara gharAMta buvAM pekSAhI vAITa hAla jhAle asate. strI nasela tara gharAta sakALI jhADU mAralelA nasela! cahAcA kAhI ThikANA hI nasela!! vAIpha Ahe mhaNUna tara tI tumhAlA sAMgate, tevhA maga tumhI sakALI lavakara lavakara uThUna AMghoLa karatA, ticyAmuLe tara sArI zobhA Ahe. ANi ApalyAmuLe tyAMcI zobhA Ahe.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra strI mhaNaje sahaja prakRtI, patIlA pAca karoDace nukasAna jhAle asela, tara to pUrNa divasabhara ciMtA karata rAhato. dukAnAta kAhI nukasAna jhAle asela tara gharI yeUna kAhI khAta-pIta nAhI, paNa patnI tara to gharI AlyAvara mhaNela, uThA ANi cahA ghyA, AtA jAsta hAya-hAya karu nakA. tumhI cahA ghyA ANi khA nivAMtapaNe. ardhI pArTanarazipa asUnahI tilA ciMtA kA hota nAhI? kAraNa ticI prakRti sAhajika Ahe. mhaNUna yA sahaja prakRtisobata rahAla, tara jagatA yeIla nAhItara jagatA yeNAra nAhI. ANi jara dona puruSa ekatra rAhata asatIla tara maruna jAtIla samorAsamora. arthAta strI tara sahaja Ahe, mhaNUna tara gharAta AnaMda rAhato thoDAphAra. strI tara daivI zakti Ahe paNa he jara kA puruSAMnA samajale tara kAma phatte hoUna jAIla. strIcA doSa nAhI, tara ApalyA cukIcyA samajUtIcA doSa Ahe, striyA tara devI Aheta, tyAMnA devI padAvaruna khAlI utaravU nakA. devI Ahe ase bolA. uttara predazAta kityeka ThikANI tara 'yA devI' ase bolatAta. AjahI bolatAta, 'zAradA devI AlyA, sItAdevI AlyA!' amuka kAhI pradezAta nAhI kA mhaNata? ANi jara cAra puruSa ekatra rAhata asatIla, tara eka jevaNa banavato, eka dusarA kAhI karato... tyA gharAta kAhI barakata nasate. eka puruSa ANi eka strI rAhata asatIla, tara te ghara suMdara disate. strI (gharAcI) sajAvaTa khUpa cAMgalI karate. praznakartA : tumhI phakta striyAMcAca pakSa gheta jAU nakA. dAdAzrI : striyAMcA pakSa gheta nAhI. puruSAMcAca pakSa gheto. striyAMnA tase vATate kI AmacA pakSa ghetAta, paNa taraphadArI puruSAMcIca karato. kAraNa phaeNmilIce mAlaka tumhI AhAta. zI ija naoNTa onara oNpha phaeNmilI. yu Ara onara. lokaM muMbaIta mhaNatAta nA, 'kI tumhI puruSAMcA pakSa kA gheta nAhIta phakta striyAMcAca pakSa kA ghetA?' mI mhaNAlo, 'tyAMcyA poTI mahAvIra janmAlA Ale Aheta, tumacyA poTI koNa janmAlA Ale? vinAkAraNa vAda karata rAhatA?' praznakartA : tarIhI, tumhI striyAMcA khUpa pakSa ghetA, ase AmhAlA vATate.

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pati - patnIcA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : ho, hA jarA mAjhyAvara AkSepa Ahe. sagaLIkaDeca ase hote. hA AkSepa lokAMnI mAjhyAvara lAvalA Ahe. paNa tyAca barobara mI puruSAMnAhI azI samaja deto kI jeNe karuna striyA naMtara puruSAMnA mAna detAta. azI tajavIja karato. disaNyAta mAtra ase disate kI striyAMcA pakSa gheta Ahota paNa AtUna tara puruSAMcA pakSa gheta asato. mhaNaje he sarva tajavIja kazI karAvI hyAce mArga asale pAhije. doghAMnA saMtoSa jhAlA pAhije. 70 mAjhe tara striyAMsobatahI jamata hote, ANi puruSAMsobatahI titakeca jamata hote. paNa vAstavAta AmhI tara striyAMcyAhI pakSAta navhato ANi puruSAMcyAhI pakSAta navhato. saMsAra-gADA doghAMnI miLUna cAlavA. striyA tara helpiMga (sahAyaka) Aheta. tyA jara nasatIla tara tumace ghara kase cAlela ? 19. patnIcyA takrArI tU phiryAda karazIla tara tU phiryAdI hozIla. mI tara, jo phiryAda karAyalA yeto tyAlAca gunhegAra mAnato. tujhyAvara phiryAda karaNyAcI veLaca kA AlI? phiryAdI bahuteka karuna gunhegAraca asatAta. svataH gunhegAra AhAta mhaNUna tara phiryAda karAyalA yetA. tU phiryAda karazIla tara tU phiryAdI TharazIla ANi samoracA AropI banela. mhaNaje tyAcyA dRSTIne tU AropI TharazIla mhaNUna koNAcyAhI viruddha phiryAda karu nakA. ekajaNa jara bhAgAkAra karata asela tara dusar2yAne guNAkAra karAvA mhaNaje rakkama zUnya hoIla. samoracyAsAThI asA vicAra karAvA kI tyAne malA ase mhaTale, tase mhaTale, hAca gunhA Ahe. bhiMtIzI ApaTalyAvara ticyAvara kA nAhI oraData ? rastyAne cAlatAnA jara jhADAlA ApaTalAta tara tyAcyAvara kA nAhI oraData ? jhADAlA jaDa kase mhaNAla? je ijA karatAta tI sarva hiravI jhADeca Aheta nA ? ase hyA sarva lokAMce Ahe. 'jJAnI puruSa' kase sarvAMnA mApha karatAta ? tyAMnA mAhita Ahe kI he samajata nAhIta bicAre, jhADAsArakhe Aheta nA! samajUtadArAlA tara bolAveca lAgata nAhI nA, te tara Ata lagecaca pratikramaNa karuna ghetAta. patIne apamAna kelA tara maga kAya karatA ? dAvA mAMDatA ?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : ase kase karaNAra? ase koNI karata asela? dAdAzrI : tara maga kAya karatA? mAjhA AzirvAda Ahe, ase bolUna jhopI jA! kAya tAI, tU jhopaNAra nA kI manAta zivyA deta rAhaNAra? manAtalyA manAtaca zivyA deta rAhate. ANi tine (bAjArAta) tIna hajArAMcI sADI pAhilI asela tara gharI yeUna toMDa phugavUna basate. ase pAhilyAvara ApaNa vicArale, 'kAya jhAle?' tara tyA sADIta haravalelyA asatAta. jevhA ANUna dyAla, tevhA (rusavA) soDatIla, nAhItara toparyaMta kaTakaTa karaNe soDaNAra nAhI. ase jhAle nAhI pAhije. patnI mhaNela kI hyA ApalyA sophyAcI DijhAIna cAMgalI nAhI. 'tyA tumacyA mitrAkaDe gelo hoto, tithe kitI chAna DijhAIna hotI!' are, yA sophyAta tulA sukha nAhI miLata? tevhA mhaNela kI, 'nAhI, mI tithe je pAhile tyAta sukha miLela.' maga patIlA tasAca sophA ANAvA lAgato! AtA navIna ANalyAvara jara kadhI mulAne bleDane cIra mAralI tara jaNU AtUna AtmA kApalA jAto! mulaM sophyAlA cIra mAratIla kI nAhI? ANi tyAcyAvara (sophyAvara) uDyA mAratIla kI nAhI? ANi jevhA uDyA mAratIla tevhA ase vATate jaNU kAhI chAtIvara uDyA mArata Aheta ase vATate! mhaNaje hA moha Ahe. hA mohaca tumhAlA cAvUna cAvUna tumace tela kADhUna TAkela! hyAta tara vinAkAraNa janma bighaDUna jAIla, ANi dusare mhaNaje hyA bAyakAMnA ase sAMgU icchito kI, 'zaoNpiMga karu nakA.' zaoNpiMga baMda karA. he tara DaoNlara Ale mhaNUna... are, jarurata nAhI tara kA ghetA. yujhalesa. kAhI cAMgalyA kAmAsAThI paise vAparale pAhije kI nAhI? koNAcyA phaeNmilIta aDacaNa AlI asela, ANi tyA bicAr2yAMkaDe (paise) nasatIla, tyAMnA jara pannAsa-zaMbhara DaoNlara dile tara kitI bare vATela! zaoNpiMgamadhye vAyaphaLa kharca karatA ANi gharAta te sarva sAmAna aseca paDUna rAhate. praznakartA : maga striyA trAgA (manamAnI) karatAta!

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72 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : trAgA tara striyA nAhI, puruSahI karatAta. AtA tara jAsta trAgA nAhI karata. trAgA mhaNaje kAya? svata:lA kAhI have asela tara samoracyAlA dhamakAvUna upabhoguna ghetAta. svata:ce khare karatAta, manamAnI karatAta! praznakartA : sagaLIkaDe bAyakAMcAca doSa kA pAhilA jAto ANi puruSAMcA kA nAhI pAhilA jAta. dAdAzrI : striyAMce tara ase Ahe kI, puruSAMcyA hAtAta kAyadA hotA, mhaNUna striyAMce nukasAna jhAle Ahe. he sarva pustaka tara puruSAMnI lihile Ahe, mhaNUna puruSAMnAca puDhe Thevale Ahe, striyAMnA haTavUna dile Ahe. tyAta tara hyA lokAMnI striyAMcI velyUca nAhIzI kelI Ahe. AtA mAra paNa titakAca khAta Aheta, narakAta hI teca jAtAta, ithUnaca narakAta jAtAta. striyAMmadhye ase nAhI. bhale strIcI prakRtI vegaLI Ahe paNa ticyA prakRtI pramANe tasehI phaLa miLate ANi he suddhA phaLa miLate, strIcI ajAgRta prakRtI Ahe. ajAgRta mhaNaje sahaja prakRtI. praznakartA : kuThaparyaMta AmhI ase sahana karAve? dAdAzrI : sahana kelyAmuLe tara khUpa zakti vADhate. praznakartA : mhaNaje ase sahanaca karata rahAyace? dAdAzrI : sahana karaNyApekSA tyAvara vicAra karaNe cAMgale. vicAra karuna tyAce solyuzana (upAya) kADhA. bAkI sahana karaNe hA gunhA Ahe. sahanazIlatA khUpa jhAlI kI maga spriMgasArakhI usaLela ANi sarva ghara sairAvairA karuna soDate. sahanazIlatA tara spriMga Ahe. spriMgavara kadhIhI loDa (dabAva) ThevU naye. thoDyAveLA purate Thika Ahe. rastyAne jAtA-yetA jara koNAsobata kAhI jhAle tara tevhA hI spriMga vAparAvI. ithe gharAtalyA lokAMvara loDa ThevAyacA nAhI. gharacyA mANasAMce sahana kele tara kAya hoIla. tara tI spriMga uDela. praznakartA : sahanazIlatecI limiTa kitI ThevAvI?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : tyAlA ekA haddIparyaMta sahana karAve. naMtara vicAra karuna tapAsa karAvA kI vAstavika Ahe tarI kAya. vicAra karAla tara kaLela kI hyAcyA mAge kAya kAraNa Ahe ! phakta sahana karAla tara spriMga uDela. vicAra karaNyAcI garaja Ahe. avicArAmuLe sahana karAve lAgata Ahe. vicAra kelyAvara samajela kI hyAta kuThe cukate Ahe ! tyAmuLe tyAce samAdhAna hoIla. Ata anaMta zakti Ahe. anaMta zakti. tumhI mAgAla tI zakti miLela ase Ahe. he tara Ata zakti zodhata nAhIta ANi bAhera zakti zodhatAta. bAhera koNatI zakti Ahe ? 73 sahana kelyAmuLeca gharAta visphoTa hotAta. manAta aseca mAnatAta kI mI kitI sahana karu. bAkI, vicAra karuna rastA kADhalA pAhije. je saMjoga miLAle Aheta, je saMjoga nisarga nirmita Aheta hyAtUna AtA tU kasA nisaTazIla? navIna vaira bAMdhAyace nasatIla ANi june vaira soDAyace asatIla tara, tyAsAThI mArga kADhalA pAhije. hA avatAra vaira soDaNyAsAThI Ahe. ANi vaira soDaNyAcA mArga Ahe, pratyekAsobata samabhAve nikAla ! maga pahA tumacI mule kitI saMskArI hotIla! praznakartA : mAjhyA maitriNIcA asA prazna Ahe kI, ticA navarA dararoja ticyAvara rAgAvato, tara tyAce kAya kAraNa asela ? dAdAzrI : te tara cAMgale Ahe, lokaM ApalyAlA rAgAvatIla tyApekSA patI rAgavela te cAMgale Ahe, gharacA mANUsa Ahe nA ! ase Ahe, hyA lohArAkaDe, jADa lokhaMDa asela te jara tyAlA vAkavAyace asela tyAveLI tyAlA garama karatAta. kA garama karatAta ? thaMDa vAkU zakata nAhI mhaNUna lokhaMDAlA garama karuna naMtara vAkavatAta. naMtara maga dona hAtoDe mArale kI lageca vAkate. ApalyAlA jase have asela tase banate. nehamI pratyeka vastU garama jhAlyAvaraca vAkate. jitakI garama titakI kamajora ANi kamajora mhaNaje maga eka-dona hAtoDI mArUna ApalyAlA havI tazI DijhAIna karuna ghyAyacI tyA patIcI. praznakartA: kazI DijhAIna kelI pAhije, dAdA ? hAtAta AlyAnaMtara karAve ?

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74 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : tumhAlA jazI havI tazI DijhAIna banavUna TAkatAta. ApalyA navar2yAlA popaTAsArakhA banavatAta. patnI mhaNela, 'AyA rAma' tevhA to paNa bolela, 'AyA rAma.' 'gayA rAma' tevhA to paNa bolela, 'gayA rAma'. asA popaTAsArakhA banUna jAIla, paraMtu lokAMnA hAtoDI mAratA dekhIla yeta nAhI nA! hI sarva kamajorI Ahe, rAga yeNe hI sarva nirbaLatA Ahe. tumhI rastAne jAta asAla tevhA hyA gharAvaruna eka dagaDa tumacyA DokyAvara paDalA, ANi rakta nighU lAgale, tara tyAveLI kAya khUpa rAgavAla? praznakartA : nAhI, he tara 'hepana' (ghaDUna gele) Ahe. dAdAzrI : nAhI, paNa tithe kA rAgavata nAhI? mhaNaje tumhI tithe koNAlA pAhileca nAhI tara rAgAvaNAra kase? praznakartA : koNI jANUna-bujUna mAralA navhatA. dAdAzrI : arthAt krodhAvara Apale kaMTrola Ahe. jevhA ApalyAlA he mAhita Ahe kI jANUna-bujUna koNI mAralele nAhI. mhaNUna tithe kaMTrola TheU zakatA. kaMTrola tara Aheca. maga mhaNatA, 'malA krodha yeto.' murkhA, maga tithe kA krodha yeta nAhI? polIsavAlyAbarobara, polIsavAlA dhamakAvato tyAveLI krodha kA yeta nAhI? ANi patnIvara krodha hoto, mulAMvara krodha hoto, zejAr2yAMvara, nokarAvara vara krodha yeto nI 'baoNsa' (sAheba) vara kA nAhI yeta? krodha mANasAlA yeU zakata nAhI. hI tara tyAlA svata:cI manamAnI karAyacI Ahe. praznakartA : gharAta athavA bAhera phreMDsamadhye pratyekAMce mata vegavegaLe asate ANi tethe jara ApalyA manApramANe jhAle nAhI, tara maga ApalyAlA krodha yeto? tevhA kAya karAyace? dAdAzrI : sarvajaNa svata:cI manamAnI karAyalA lAgale tara kAya hoIla? asA vicAraca kasA yeIla? lagecaca asA vicAra yAyalA havA kI sarva jara svataHcI manamAnI karu lAgale, tara ithe samorAsamora bhAMDI toDatIla, ANi khAyalA dekhIla miLaNAra nAhI. mhaNUna svata:cI manamAnI

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra kadhI karu naye. svata:ce mataca ThevU naye jara tumhI mataca Thevale nAhI tara tumace khoTe paDaNAraca nAhI. jyAlA garaja asela to mata Thevela, ase asAyalA have. praznakartA : ApaNa have titake zAMta rAhilo, paNa puruSa rAgAvale tara AmhI kAya karAve? dAdAzrI : te rAgAvatIla ANi jara tumhAlAhI bhAMDaNa karAyace asela tara tumhI dekhIla rAgavA, anyathA tase karaNe baMda karA. philma baMda karAyacI asela tara zAMta hoUna jA. philma baMda karAyacI nasela tara maga rAtrabhara cAlUca rAhU dyA, koNa nako sAMgato tumhAlA? AvaDate kharI, philma? praznakartA : nAhI, philma nAhI AvaData. dAdAzrI : rAgavAyace kazyAsAThI? mANUsa svataH rAgavata nAhI, he tara mikenikala eDjasTamenTa rAgavata asate. svata: nAhI rAgavata. naMtara svata:lA manAta pazcAtApa hoto kI rAgavalo nasato tara bare jhAle asate. praznakartA : tyAMnA thaMDa karaNyAcA upAya kAya? dAdAzrI : he tara mazIna garama jhAlI asela, ANi tilA thaMDa karAyace asela tara thoDyAveLesAThI tazIca rAhU dyA. mhaNaje mazIna ApoApa thaMDa hoIla. hAta lAvAla, cheDakhANI karAla tara ApaNa bhAjUna maru. praznakartA : AmhA pati-patnImadhye rAgavaNe ANi caDhAoDha hota asate, vAdavivAda vagaire sarva paNa hoUna jAtAta, tara mI kAya karu? dAdAzrI : tU rAgavatesa kI to? koNa rAgavato? praznakartA : paNa maga mAjhyAne paNa hoUna jAte. dAdAzrI : tevhA ApaNa svata:ca svata:lA Ata oraDAyace, kA tU ase karatesa? je (karma) kele te bhogAve tara lAgelaca nA! paNa he pratikramaNa (pazcAtApa) kele tara sarva doSa saMpUna jAtIla. nAhItara ApaNa dusar2yAMnA

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pati- patnIcA divya vyavahAra dilele duHkha ApalyAlAca bhogAve lAgela. paNa tyAMtara pratikramaNa kelyAne jarA zAMta hoIla. 76 praznakartA : paraMtu pati-patnImadhye jarA rusaNe-rAgavaNe tara jhAleca pAhije nA ? dAdAzrI : nAhI, asA kAhI kAyadA nAhI. pati - patnImadhye tara khUpa zAMtI rAhilI pAhije. duHkha hota asela, tara te pati - patnIca nAhIta. phreMDazipamadhye tase hota nAhI, khar2yA phreMDazipamadhye nAhI hota. maga hI tara sarvAta moThI phreMDazipa Ahe ! ithe ase vhAyalA nako, he tara lokAMnI ase basavale Ahe. svata:lA rAga yeta asato mhaNUna tara lokAMnI mArUna muTakuna ase basavale, kI niyamaca asA Ahe. pati-patnImadhye tara ase ajibAta jhAle nAhI pAhije. bAkI itaratra bhale ho. praznakartA : ApalyA zAstrAta lihile Ahe, kI striyAMnI patIlAca paramezvara mAnAve ANi tyAMcyA AjJAnusAra cAlAve. tara AtA hyA kALAta hyAce pAlana kase karAve ? dAdAzrI : he tara patI jara rAmAsArakhA asela tara ApaNa sItA jhAle pAhije. patI jara vAkaDe vAgata asela ANi tumhI vAkaDe na vAgUna kase hoNAra ? saraLa rAhilAta tara uttama, paNa saraLa rahAvata nAhI nA! mANUsa saraLa kasA rAhU zakela, satata hairANa karata rAhila maga! maga patnI kAya karaNAra bicArI ? arthAta patIne patIdharma pALalA pAhije ANi patnI ne patnIdharma pALalA pAhije. kadAcita patIcyA thoDyAphAra cUkA hota asalyA tarI nibhAvUna gheIla, tilA patnI mhaNAve. paNa hA tara gharI yeUna zivIgALa karu lAgalA tara hI patnI bicArI kAya karaNAra ? praznakartA : patI heca paramezvara he kAya khoTe Ahe ? dAdAzrI : AjacyA patIMnA paramezvara mAnale tara te veDe hoUna phiratIla ase Aheta ! praznakartA: patIlA paramezvara mhaNAve ? tyAce dararoja darzana karAve ? tyAMce caraNAmRta pyAve?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : tI tyAMnA paramezvara mhaNela paNa tyAMnA maraNa yeNAra nasela tara te paramezvara. maraNa yeNAra asela tara kasale paramezvara ? ! patI paramezvara kase asaNAra?! hyAkALAtIla patI paramezvara asU zakatAta kA ? praznakartA : mI tara roja navar2yAcyA pAyA paDate. 77 dAdAzrI : ase karuna phasavata asela navar2yAlA. ase pAyA paDUna navar2yAlA phasavatAta. patI mhaNaje patI ANi paramezvara mhaNaje paramezvara. he patI tarI kuThe bolatAta kI, 'mI paramezvara Ahe!' 'mI tara patI ( mAlaka, dhanI) Ahe.' evaDheca mhaNatAta nA ? praznakartA : ho, 'mAlaka Ahe' aseca bolato. dAdAzrI : haM.... ase tara gAyIce paNa mAlaka Aheta, sagaLyAMce mAlaka Aheta. phakta AtmAca paramezvara Ahe, zuddhAtmA. praznakartA : caraNAmRta pivU zakato kA ? dAdAzrI : AjacyA hyA, durgaMdhI suTalelyA mANasAMce caraNAmRta kase piU zakatA? hyA mANasAMcI durgaMdhI yete, ase basale asatIla tarI durgaMdhI yete. pUrvIce loka sugaMdhavAle hote, tevhAcI goSTa nirALI hotI. AtA tara sarva lokAMnA durgaMdha yeto. Apale Doke dekhIla dukhU lAgate. jase-tase karuna dikhAvA karAyacA kI AmhI navarA-bAyako Ahota. praznakartA : AtA tara sarvAMnI te zabda khoDUna TAkale Ahe, dAdA. AtA sarva bAyakA zikalyA-savaralyA nA, mhaNUna sarvAMnI he paramezvara pada radda karuna TAkale Ahe. dAdAzrI : patI paramezvara banUna basale Aheta, baghA nA! hyAMcyAca hAtAta pustaka lihiNyAcI sattA, mhaNUna maga tyAMnA koNa bolaNArA ! ekapakSI karuna TAkale nA? ase jhAle nAhI pAhije. praznakartA : pUrvIcyA bAyakAMpramANe, AjakAlacyA bAyakA ApalyA navar2yAlA mAna deta nAhIta. dAdAzrI : ho, AdhIce patI 'rAma' hote ANi AttAce 'marA' Aheta.

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78 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : hyA tara mhaNatAta 'yamarAja'. praznakartA : patI pratye patnIce kartavya kAya Ahe, te samajavUna sAMgA. dAdAzrI : strIne nehamI patIzI sinsiyara (pramANika) rAhile pAhije. patIne patnIlA sAMgitale pAhije kI, jara 'tU sinsiyara nAhI rAhilIsa tara mAjhe Doke phirela.' tyAMnA tara cetAvaNI dilI pAhije. 'bivera' (sAvadha) karA, paNa Agraha dharu nakA kI sinsiyaraca rahA. tyAMnA bivera bolU zakatA. pUrNa AyuSyabhara sinsiyara rahAyalA have. rAtraMdivasa sinsiyara, tyAcIca kALajI asAyalA havI. tumhI tyAMcI kALajI ghyAyalA havI, taraca saMsAra cAMgalA cAlela. praznakartA : patIdeva sinsiyara rAhile nasalyAmuLe bAyakoce Doke phirale. tevhA pApa tara lAgata nAhI nA? dAdAzrI : Doke phiralyAvara svAda cAkhatAta nA! maga patI dekhIla svAda cAkhatAta nA! zakyato ase nAhI kele pAhije. patIcI icchA nasela tarI bhUlacUka hota asela tara tyAsAThI patIne mAphI mAgitalI pAhije kI mI mAphI mAgato. mAjhyAkaDUna punhA ase ghaDaNAra nAhI mANasAne sinsiyara tara rAhile pAhije nA? sinsiyara nAhI rAhilAta tara kase cAlela? praznakartA : patI mAphI mAgatAta, ghaDI ghaDI mAphI mAgatAta, paNa punhA taseca karata asatIla tara? dAdAzrI : patI mAphI mAgato tara nAhI samajata kI to bicArA kitI lAcArI anubhavato Ahe! mhaNUna leTa go karAve (soDUna dyAve)! hI kAhI tyAlA 'hebiTa' (savaya) nAhI jhAlI Ahe. 'hebIcyuTeDa'(AdhIna) nAhI jhAlA Ahe. tyAMnA dekhIla AvaData nAhI, paNa karaNAra kAya? nAIlAjAstava ase ghaDate. tevhAca tara bhUlacUka hote nA! praznakartA : patIlA tazI savaya jhAlI asela, tara kAya karAve? dAdAzrI : maga kAya karAve? gharAbAhera karaNAra kA tyAMnA! gharAbAhera kADhale tara bAhera phajitI hoNAra. tyApekSA jhAkUna Thevale pAhije. dusare

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 79 karaNAra tarI kAya? gaTaralA jhAkatAta kI ughaDe ThevatAta. hyA gaTArIMvara jhAkana ThevatAta kI ughaDe ThevatA? praznakartA : baMda Thevato. dAdAzrI : nAhItara maga ughaDalyAvara durgaMdha yeIla, ANi Apale Doke dukhU lAgela. praznakartA : he kuMkU kA lAvatAta? ameriketIla bar2yAca striyA AmhAlA vicAratAta kI tumhI kapALAvara kuMkU kA lAvatA? dAdAzrI : ho, AmhI Arya striyA Ahota mhaNUna kuMkU lAvato. AmhI anArya nAhI. Arya striyA kuMkU lAvatAta. mhaNUna tara navar2yAbarobara have tevaDhe bhAMDaNa jhAle tarIhI tyA ghara soDUna jAta nAhIta ANi kuMkU na lAvaNArI tara dusar2yAca divazI ghara soDUna nighUna jAIla. kuMkUvAlI tara sTeDI (ThAma) rAhate. jithe kuMkU lAvatAta tyA jAgI manAce sthAna Ahe, te ekA patImadhye mana ekAgra rahAve mhaNUna. praznakartA : puruSAMce tara tumhI sAMgitale paNa striyAMnI kAya karAyalA have? striyAMnI dona DoLyAta kAya ThevAve? dAdAzrI : striyAMnI tara, jara kasAhI patI miLAlA asela tarI to ApalyA hizobApramANe miLAlA Ahe. navarA miLaNe hI kAhI thApa nAhI. mhaNUna jo patI miLAlA tyAcyApratI eka patIvratA rAhaNyAcA prayatna karAvA, ANi jara ase nAhI hoU zakale tara tyAcI kSamApanA karA. arthAt tujhI dRSTI azI asAyalA havI. ANi patIsobata pArTanarazipamadhye kazyAprakAre pragatI karatA yeIla, UrdhvagatI hoIla, kazyAprakAre mokSa prApta hoIla, ase vicAra karAve. 20. pariNAma ghaTasphoTAce matabheda jhAlele AvaDatAta? matabheda asatIla, tara bhAMDaNe hotIla, ciMtA hoIla, tara maga manabheda ne kAya hoIla? manabheda jhAlyAvara 'ghaTasphoTa' ghetAta ANi tanabheda jhAlyAvara arthI nighate!

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80 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : vyAvahArika bAbatIta je matabheda hotAta tyAMnA vicArabheda mhaNatAta kI matabheda mhaNatAta? dAdAzrI : tyAMnA matabheda mhaNAyace. he jJAna ghetale asela tara tyAMnA vicArabheda mhaNAve, nAhItara matabheda mhaNAve. matabhedAne tara jhaTakA lAgato! praznakartA : matabheda kamI asatIla, tara te cAMgale nAhI kA? dAdAzrI : mANasAMnA matabheda tara nasaleca pAhije. jara matabheda asatIla tara tI mANusakIca mhaNatA yeNAra nAhI. kAraNa kI matabhedAmuLe tara kAhIveLA manabheda hoUna jAto. matabhedAtUna manabheda hoto mhaNUna 'tU azI Ahesa, tU tujhyA mAherI nighUna jA' ase je hota asate tyAta maga majA rahAta nAhI. arthAta jase-tase karuna nibhAUna ghyAyace. praznakartA : AtA tara theTa matabhedAparyaMta pohacale Ahe. dAdAzrI : heca tara sAMgato Ahe nA, he sarva cAMgale disata nAhI. bAhera zobhata nAhI. tyAta kAhI artha nAhI. ajUnahI sudhAratA yeIla ase Ahe. ApaNa manuSya Ahota mhaNUna sudhAratA yeIla. kazAsAThI ase jhAle pAhije? mUlno, phajitI kA karuna ghetA? kAhItarI samajAve tara lAgela nA? hyA sarvAta suparaphlusa (varapAMgI) rahAyace Ahe, nAhItara hyA strIce mAlaka hoUna basale Aheta hI mANase tara. are melyA, mAlakIpaNA kazAlA bajAvato Ahesa? he tara ithe jagatAya toparyaMta mAlaka ANi DAyavorsa gheta nAhI toparyaMta mAlaka. udyA bAyakone DAyavorsa ghetalyAvara tU kasalA mAlaka? praznakartA : AjakAla sagaLeca DAyavorsa ghetAta. ghaTasphoTa gheta Aheta, te lahAna-lahAna mulAMnA soDUna ghaTasphoTa ghetAta, tara tyAMcI hAya nAhI lAgata? dAdAzrI : lAgate nA, paNa te kAya karaNAra? vAstavika ghaTasphoTa nAhI ghetalA pAhije. khare tara sAre nibhAUna ghetale pAhije. mulaM hoNyA AdhI ghaTasphoTa ghetalA asela tara harakata nAhI, paNa he mulaM jhAlyAvara ghetAta, tara mulAMcI hAya lAgate nA!

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : mulAMcyA bApAce Doke ajibAta cAlata nasela, kAhIca kAmakAja karata nasela, moTala cAlavatA yeta nasela, ANi gharAta cAra bhiMtIcyA Ata basUna rahAta asela, tara kAya karAve? dAdAzrI : paNa maga karAyace tarI kAya?! dusarA cAMgalA miLela kI nAhI yAcI kAya khAtrI? praznakartA : te tara nAhIca... dAdAzrI : dusarA tyAhUna kharAba miLAlA, tara kAya karazIla? bar2yAca striyAMnA asA miLAlA Ahe. pahilA hotA to cAMgalA hotA. are, soDanA jhaMjhaTa, maga titheca paDUna rahAyace hote nA! manAta he sarva samajAyalA nako kA? praznakartA : dAdAMvara sopavile tara dUsarA cAMgalA miLela nA? dAdAzrI : cAMgalA miLAlA ANi tIna varSAnaMtara tyAlA aTaeNka AlA, tara kAya karazIla? kevaLa bhItIdAyaka hyA saMsArAta kazAsAThI he sarva....! je ghaDale teca karekTa ase mAnUna cAlavUna ghetale tara bare. nAhI kA? nehamI, pahilA navarAca cAMgalA asato, paraMtu dusarA tara bhaTakyAca asela. kAraNa to dekhIla azyAca zodhAta bhaTakata asato. ANi tIhI bhaTakata asate. tevhA doghe ekatra yetAta nA! bhaTakaNAre dona Dhora ekatra yetAta. tyApekSA tara pahilA hotA to cAMgalA! ApaNa tyAlA jANata tara asato nA! to rAtrI gaLA tara nAhI dAbaNAra nA! asA tumhAlA bharosA tara asato nA? ANi dusarA tara gaLA dekhIla dAbUna deIla! mulAMsAThI tarI svata:lA samajale pAhije. eka kiMvA dona mule asatIla paNa tI bicArI nirAdhAra hoUna jAtIla nA! nirAdhAra nAhI mhaTalI jANAra? praznakartA : nirAdhAraca mAnale jANAra nA! dAdAzrI : AI kuThe gelI? pappA kuThe gele? ekadA svata:cA eka

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra pAya kApalA gelA asela, tara janmabhara nibhAUna nAhI gheta kA, kI maga AtmahatyA karatA? patI vAITa vATata nAhI! vAITa vATela tevhA kAya karaNAra? maga jarI patIce Doke jarA veDe-vAkaDe asela, tarI paNa lagna kele Ahe mhaNUna mAjhe patI, arthAt mAjhA patI sarvAta uttama-besTa ase bolAve. tAtparya yA duniyeta vAITa ase kAhI nAhI. praznakartA : besTa, ase bolalo tara patI DokyAvara caDhUna basatIla. dAdAzrI : nAhI, te DokyAvara caDhUna basaNAraca nAhIta. pUrNa divasabhara bAhera kAma karata asatAta te bicAre kAya caDhUna basaNAra? ApalyAlA jo patI miLAlA Ahe tyAlAca nibhAUna ghyAve, dusarA patI thoDeca nA ANaNAra AhAta? vikata miLatAta kA? kAhI ulaTa-sulaTa karAla, DAyavorsa (ghaTasphoTa) ghyAvA lAgalA, te ulaTa kharAba disela. to paNa vicArela kI DAyavorsavAlI Ahe ? tevhA maga dusarIkaDe kuThe jAla?! tyApekSA jyA ekA barobara lagna kele Ahe tyAlAca nibhAUna ghyA. sagaLIkaDe aseca asate. ApalyAlA tyAcyAzI jamata nasate, paNa kAya karaNAra? AtA jANAra kuThe? mhaNUna tyAcA nikAla lAvA. Apale bhAratIya kitI navare badalatAta? hA ekaca kelA toca...... jo miLAlA to kharA. tyAlAca nibhAvUna ghyA. ANi puruSAMnI dekhIla jazI strI miLAlI asela tazI, kaTakaTa karata asela, tarI paNa ticA nivADA karuna TAkalele bare. tI kAhI tumacyA poTAta ziruna cAvaNAra Ahe? tI tara bAhera boMbAboMma karela kiMvA toMDAne zivyA deIla, paNa poTAta zirUna cAvalI tara kAya karAla tumhI? ase Ahe he sarva. reDiyoca (bolata) Ahe. paNa tumhAlA samajata nAhI kI he vAstavAta koNa karata Ahe ? tumhAlA tara aseca vATela kI he sarva tara kharokhara tIca bolata Ahe. maga tilAhI pazcAtApa hoto kI arere, malA ase bolAyace navhate ANi tarIhI bolale gele. tara maga tI karate kI reDiyo karato? ekIcA saMsAra muMbaIta phrekcara hoNAra hotA. patIne dusarA gupta saMbaMdha ThevalA asela ANi tyA bAIlA te mAhita paDale, mhaNUna jabaradasta bhAMDaNa

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra hoU lAgale. maga tyA bAIne malA sAMgitale kI 'he ase Aheta, mI kAya karu? malA paLUna jAyace Ahe !' mI mhaNAlo, eka patnIvratAcA kAyadA pALata asela asA bheTalA tara paLUna jA, nAhItara dusarA koNa cAMgalA miLaNAra Ahe? tase tara patIne ekaca ThevalI Ahe nA? tevhA mhaNAlI, 'ho ekaca Ahe.' tevhA mI mhANAlo, 'khUpa cAMgale. leTa go kara (cAlavUna ghe). moThe mana kara. tulA hyAhUna cAMgalA dusarA nAhI miLaNAra.' kaliyugAta tara patIhI cAMgalA miLata nAhI. ANi patnIhI cAMgalI miLata nAhI. hA sarva kacarA mAlaca Ahe nA! mAla pasaMda karaNyAsArakhA nAhIca. mhaNUna tulA te pasaMta karAyace nAhI, tara tulA tyAcA nikAla lAvAyacA Ahe. karmAcA hA hizoba pheDUna TAkAyacA Ahe mhaNUna yA sarvAcA nikAla lAva. tevhA lokaM tara khuzAla mAlaka-mAlakIna banAyalA mAgatAta. are murkhA, ithUnaca nikAla lAva nA. kasehI karuna kleza kamI hoIla, azyAprakAre nikAla lAvAyacA Ahe. praznakartA : dAdAjI, tyAMnA ase saMyoga miLAle, tehI hizobAnusAraca miLAle asatIla nA? dAdAzrI : hizobAzivAya tara he miLaNAraca nAhI nA! saMsAra Ahe tara ghAva tara paDaNAraca nA? ANi bAIsAhebahI mhaNatIla kI AtA he ghAva bharaNAra nAhIta paNa saMsArAta magna jhAlo mhaNUna he ghAva rujale jAtAta. mUrcchitaavasthA Ahe nA hI! mohAmuLe mUrcchitaavasthA Ahe. mohAmuLeca ghAva bharale jAtAta. ghAva jara bharale nAhI tara vairAgyaca yeIla nA?! moha kazAlA mhaNatAta? sarva anubhava ghetale asatIla tarIhI visarUna jAtAta. DAyavorsa ghetAnA nakkI karatAta kI AtA kuThalyAhI strIzI lagna karAyace nAhI, tarIhI punhA bastAna mAMDatAta! praznakartA : mI tyAMnA sAMgata hoto kI ApalyA vaivAhika jIvanAta navyANNava Takke vijoDa (asA joDA jo ekamekAMnA anurUpa nAhI) Aheta. dAdAzrI : kaliyugAta jyAMnA vijoDa mhaTale jAte nA tI joDI ekatara uccagatilA jAte kiMvA ekadama adhogatita jAte. doghAMpaikI eka

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pati- patnIcA divya vyavahAra kAryakArI asato. ANi sajoDa (ekamekAMnA anurUpa joDI) kAryakArI nasato. vijoDa asela tara uMca gatIta gheUna jAIla. ANi sajoDa tara bhaTakavato ekatra! 84 vijoDamadhye kase asale pAhije kI te bighaDatIla tevhA ApaNa zAMta rAhile pAhije, jara svata: samajUtadAra asU tara. paraMtu tehI bighaDatIla ANi ApaNahI bighaDalo tara rAhile kAya ? praznakartA : Divorsa, he koNatyA paristhitIta ghetale pAhije ? dAdAzrI : jaLo, he Divorsa tara AtA nighAle. pUrvI Divorsa hoteca kuThe ? praznakartA : AtA tara hota Aheta nA ? tara te kuThalyA paristhitIta karAve ? dAdAzrI : kuThehI juLata nasela tara vegaLe jhAlele bare. eDajasTebala hoNAraca nasela tara vegaLe jhAlele bare. nAhItara AmhI ekaca goSTa sAMgato 'eDajasTa aivarIvhera'. kAraNa kI dusar2yAMnA sAMgUna guNAkAra karAyalA jAU nakA kI, ' asA Ahe nI tasA Ahe. ' praznakartA : he ameriketIla lokaM Divorsa ghetAta te vAITa mhaNAve kI, maga jyAMce ekamekAMsobata jamata nAhI mhaNUna Divorsa ghetAta te cAMgale mhaNAve ? dAdAzrI : Divorsa gheNyAcA arthaca kAya Ahe! te kAhI kapa-bazI Aheta kA? kapa-bazIlA vegaLe karata nAhI, tyAMce Divorsa karata nAhI, tara hyA mANasAMce, striyAMce Divorsa kase karatA yeIla ?! tyA amerikana lokAMsAThI ThIka Ahe, paNa tumhI tara iMDiyana AhAta nA. jithe eka patnIvrata ANi eka patIvratace niyama hote. ekA patnIzivAya dusar2yA strIlA pAhU nakA ase mhaNata, ase vicAra hote, tithe Divorsace vicAra zobhA detAta ? Divorsa mhaNaje uSTI bhAMDI badalaNe, jevaNAnaMtara uSTe tATa dusar2yAMnA deNe, naMtara tisar2yAlA deNe, nustI uSTI bhAMDI badalata rAhaNe, tyAce nAMva Divorsa, Divorsa tulA pasaMta Ahe ?

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra kutre, janAvara sarva DivorsavAle Aheta ANi heca jara manuSya paNa karU lAgale tara maga doghAta pharaka kAya rAhilA? mANUsa bIsTa (janAvara) sArakhA jhAlA Ahe. ApalyA hiMdusthAnAta tara eka lagna kelyAnaMtara dusare lagna karata navhate. bAyako melI tarI paNa dusare lagna na karaNArehI kityeka hote. kase pavitra loka janmale hote! are, ghaTasphoTa gheNAr2yAMnA tara mI tAsAbharAta juLavUna deIla! jyAMnA ghaTasphoTa ghyAyacA asela, tyAMnA mAjhyA javaLa gheUna AlAta tara mI ekA tAsAta sarva ThIka karUna deIla. tyAnaMtara te doghe ekatraca rAhatIla. samaja nasalyAmuLeca bhItI vATata asate. kityeka vegaLe jhAlelyA joDapyAMnA punhA ekatra ANale. he tara Apale saMskAra Aheta. doghAMnA bhAMDatA-bhAMDatA aiMzI varSa jhAlI, tarIhI melyAnaMtara terAvyA divazI zrAddha karatAta. zrAddhAta kAkAMnA he AvaData hote, te AvaData hote, ase bolUna kAkI sarva kAhI muMbaIhUna mAgavUna Thevata hotI. tevhA eka mulagA, tyA aiMzI varSAcyA kAkIMnA mhaNAlA, 'kAkI, hyA kAkAMnI tara sahA mahinyAMpUrvI tumhAlA pADale hote. tevhA tara tumhI kAkAMbaddala khUpa ulaTa-sulaTa bolata hotyA.' tyAvara kAkI mhaNAlyA tarI suddhA asA navarA punhA nAhI miLaNAra.' ase bolalI tI mhAtArI. saMpUrNa AyuSyAcyA anubhavAtUna zodhUna tine kADhale kI te manAne khUpa cAMgale hote. prakRti jarA vAkaDI hotI, paNa manAne.... loka pAhataca rAhatIla ase Ardaza Apale jIvana asAyalA have. ApaNa iMDiyana Ahota. ApaNa kAhI amerikana nAhI. ApaNa ApalyA patnIlA nibhAvUna ghyAyace ANi patnIne ApalyAlA nibhAvUna ghyAyace, ase karatA karatA aiMzI varSa hotAta. ANi tI (phaoNrenavAlI) eka tAsa suddhA nibhAvUna gheNAra nAhI ANi to suddhA eka tAsa nibhAvU zakaNAra nAhI. pratyekAcyA ApApalyA prakRtIce phaTAke phuTata asatAta. he phaTAkaDe Ale kuThUna? praznakartA : ApApalyA prakRtIce Aheta.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : ANi jevhA ApalyAlA vATate kI 'hA tara nakkIca phuTaNAra, tevhA phUsa hoUna jAto! phurrara... phUsa hoto. nAhI hota ase?' ANi mana oraDato kI 'kitI jAsta bolalAta, atI jhAle he.' tevhA manAlA sAMgAve, 'jhopa nA AtA, he ghAva tara lageca bharale jAtIla.' tvarIta bharalehI jAtAta..... ho kI nAhI, khAMdyAlA thopaTavA mhaNaje jhopela. tujhe ghAva bharale gele nA sarva! nAhI? je ghAva paDale hote te? praznakartA : bhAMDaNa hote tevhAhI bharalelA mAlaca nighata asato? dAdAzrI : tase tara bhAMDaNa hote tevhA Ata navIna mAla bharalA jAta asato. paNa he Apale jJAna ghetalyAnaMtara bharalelA mAla khAlI hoto. praznakartA : navarA jara mAjhyAzI bhAMData asela ANi tyAveLI mI pratikramaNa kele tara? dAdAzrI : kAhI harakata nAhI. praznakartA : tara tevhA sArA bharalelA mAla khAlI hoUna jAIla nA? dAdAzrI : tevhA tara sarva nighUna jAIla. jara pratIkramaNa hota asela tara sarva mAla khAlI hota jAto. pratIkramaNa hA ekaca upAya Ahe yA jagAta. patIne oraDale tara AtA tU kAya karazIla? praznakartA : samabhAvAne nikAla karAyacA. dAdAzrI : ase hoya! nighUna tara jANAra nAhI AtA? praznakartA : nAhI. dAdAzrI : ANi jara to nighUna gelA, tara maga tU kAya karazIla? 'mAjhe tujhyAbarobara jamaNAra nAhI' ase to bolalA tara? praznakartA : parata bolAvUna ANela. mAphI mAgUna, pAyA paDUna parata bolAvUna ANena. dAdAzrI : ho parata bolAvUna ANAyace. samajAvUna-umajAvUna

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra DokyAvara hAta TheUna, DokyAvara hAta phiravUna...... ase kAhItarI karAve kI hoUna jAtIla. maga cUpa 87 jara akkalene kAma hota asela tara akkala vAparAvI. maga dusar2yA divazI to tumhAlA mhaNela, 'bagha, mAjhyA pAyA paDalI hotIsa nA ?' tevhA tumhI bolA, tI goSTa vegaLI hotI, tyA divazI tumhI paLUna jAta hotAta, veDepaNA karata hotAta mhaNUna pAyA paDale! tyAMnA ase vATate kI nehamIsIThIca pAyA paDela, paNa te tara tAtpurateca hote. oNna di momenTa (tAtpurate) hote! 21. saptapadIce sAra... jIvana jagaNyAcI kalAca hyA kALAta upalabdha nAhI, mokSa mArga tara jAU dyA paNa jIvana jagatA tarI Ale pAhije nA ? itakeca samajAyace Ahe kI hyA mArgAvara ase Ahe ANi tyA mArgAvara ase Ahe. ANi naMtara nakkI karAyace kI koNatyA mArgAne jAyace ? ANi samajata nasela tara, 'dAdA' nAM vicArAce, tara 'dAdA' tumhAlA dAkhavatIla kI, he tIna raste jokhamIce Aheta ANi hA rastA binajokhamicA Ahe. maga dAkhavalelyA rastyAvara AmacA AzIvArda gheUna cAlAyace Ahe. vivAhIta lokAMnA ase vATate kI AmhI tara ulaTa, phasalo ! avivAhItAMnA vATate kI hyAMce tara cAMgale cAlale Ahe ! hyA doghAMmadhIla gairasamaja koNa dUra karaNAra ? ANi lagna kelyAzivAya cAlela asehI nAhI hyA jagAta! lagna karUna tarI duHkhI kazAlA vhAyace ? tevhA sAMgatAta, te duHkhI nAhI hota paNa, eksapiriyaMsa (anubhava) gheta Aheta. saMsAra kharA Ahe kI khoTA Ahe, sukha Ahe kI nAhI ? ! hA hizoba kADhaNyAsAThI saMsAra Ahe. tumhI tumacyA vahI-khAtyAcA thoDAtarI hizoba kADhalA Ahe kA ? saMpUrNa saMsAra telAcyA ghANI sArakhA Ahe. puruSa bailAMcyA jAgI Aheta tara striyA tela kADhaNAr2yAcyA telIcyA jAgI Aheta. tithe telI gANI gAta asato tara ithe striyA gAta asatAta ! ANi baila DoLyAvara paTTI bAMdhUna svata:cyA dhuMdhItaca cAlata asatAta ! gola gola phirata rAhatAta. aseca te divasabhara bAhera kAma karatAta ANi ase samajatAta kI AtA ApaNa

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra kAzIlA pohacalo asU!! ANi jevhA paTTI kholUna pAhatAta tara kAya! bhAUsAheba tithalyA titheca asatAta!! maga telI tyA bailAlA kAya karato! thoDAsA cArA khAyalA deto mhaNaje baila khuza hoUna punhA gola gola phiru lAgato. taseca hyA bAyakA cAMgale jevaNa khAU-piU ghAlatAta tara Apale bhAU sAheba ArAmAta khAUna-piUna punhA suru! AtA jIvana jagaNe kaThINa jhAle Ahe. navarA gharI yeUna mhaNela kI, 'mAjhyA hArTamadhye dukhata Ahe.' mulagA yeUna bolato kI, 'mI nApAsa jhAlo Ahe.' navar2yAcyA chAtIta dukhataya tara tyAveLI tilA asA vicAra yeto kI, 'hArTa phela' jhAle tara kAya hoIla. tahe ta-hece vicAra phirata rAhatAta. caina paData nAhI. lagnAcI kiMmata kevhA vATela? lAkho mANasAta jevhA ekAlAca lagna karaNyAcI savalata miLAlI asatI tevhA. he tara sarvaca lagna karatAta, tyAta kAya vizeSa? pati-patnIne (lagnAnaMtara) vyavahAra kase karAve, hyAce tara khUpa moThe kaoNleja Ahe. he tara na zikatAca lagna karatAta. ekadA apamAna jhAlA, tara to apamAna sahana karAyalA kAhI harakata nAhI. paraMtu apamAna lakSAta ThevaNyAcI garaja Ahe kI, kAya apamAnAsAThI Apale jIvana Ahe. apamAnAcI harakata nAhI, mAnAcIhI garaja nAhI ANi apamAnAcIhI garaja nAhI. paNa ase tara lakSAta asale pAhije nA kI Apale jIvana kAya apamAnAsAThI Ahe? bIbI rusalI asela toparyaMta 'yA allAha paravaradigAra' ase karato ANi bIbI bolAyalA lAgalI kI bhAU taiyAra! maga allA ANi bAkI sagaLe rAhile bAjUlA! kitI goMdhaNa! azyAne kAhI duHkha miTaNAra Aheta? saMsAra mhaNaje kAya? jaMjALa (sApaLA). he zarIra miLAle Ahe, te suddhA sApaLA Ahe! sApaLe AvaDatAta kA kadhI? paNa tehI AvaDatAta heca kitI ajaba Ahe nA! mAzyAMce jALe vegaLe ANi he jALe vegaLe ! mAzyAMcyA jALyAlA tara kApUna suddhA suTatA yete, hyA saMsArarupI jALyAtUna mAtra suTatA yeta nAhI arthI nidhAlyAvaraca suTakA hote.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 89 'jJAnI puruSa' hyA saMsAra jALyAtUna bAhera paDaNyAcA rastA dAkhavitAta, mokSacA mArga dAkhavitAta ANi mokSa mArgAvara ANatAta tevhA ApalyAlA vATate kI hyA upAdhItUna suTalo! yAlA jIvana kase mhaNAve? jIvana kase suzobhita asate! eka-eka mANasAce sugaMdha yAyalA have. AjUbAjUlA jyAcI azI kIrtI pasaralelI asela tara tevhA mhaNAve lAgela kI, 'he je seThajI Aheta, nA, te kitI cAMgale Aheta! tyAMce bolaNe kItI suMdara!! tyAMce vartana kitI saMdara! sagaLIkaDe disate kA azI kIrtI ? lokAMcA asA sugaMdha yeto?' praznakartA : kadhIkadhI kAhI lokAMce sugaMdha yetAta.. dAdAzrI : kAhI kAhI mANasAMce, paNa te hI kitI? ANi tyAta jara tyAMcyA gharI jAUna vicArale tara tyAcI durgaMdhI kaLate, bAhera sugaMdha yeto paNa tyAMcyA gharI jAUna vicArale nA tara gharace mhaNatIla, 'tyAMce tara nAMvaca gheU nakA, tyAMcI goSTaca karU nakA.' arthAt yAlA sugaMdha nAhI mhaNata. jIvana tara madata (helpiMga) karaNyAsAThIca asale pAhije. hI agarabattI jevhA jaLate, tara tyAta tI svata:cA sugaMdha svata: ghete kA? hA saMsAra jo Ahe te eka myujiyama Ahe. hyA myujiyamamadhye aTa kAya Ahe ? praveza karatAca lihile Ahe kI, bhAU tulA je kAhI khAyace-pyAyace Ahe, kAhI bhoga bhogAyace Ahe te Ataca bhoga. yethUna kAhIhI bAhera gheUna jAyace nAhI ANi bhAMDAyace nAhI. koNA sobatahI rAga-dveSa karAyacA nAhI. khAyace-pyAyace sarva kAhI paNa rAga-dveSa nAhI. karAyace, ANi he tara Ata jAUna lagna karatAta. are murkhA, lagna kA kelesa?! bAhera nighatAnA saMkaTAta sApaDazIla! tevhA maga mhaNazIla, 'mI bAMdhalo gelo.' tera kAyadyApramANe Ata jAUna khAyace-pyAyace, bAyako kelI tarI harakata nAhI. bAyakolA sAMgUna dyAve kI he saMgrahasthAna Ahe, yAta rAga-dveSa nAhI karAyace. joparyaMta anukUla Ahe toparyaMta phirAyace, paNa zevaTI rAga-dveSa na karatAnA bAhera nighUna jAyace. tyAvara dveSa suddhA nAhI. udyA jara tI dusar2yA koNAsobata phirata asela tarI tyAvara dveSa nAhI! he saMgrahasthAna ase Ahe. maga ApalyAlA jitakyA yuktyA karAyacyA

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra asatIla tevaDhyA karA. AtA saMgrahasthAna dUra karatA yeta nAhI. tara je jhAle-ghaDale te khare. ApaNa saMskArI dezAta janmalo nA! mhaNUna lagnabigna sarva kAhI ritasaraca. 22. pati-patnIce prAkRtika paryAya praznakartA : striyAMnA AtmajJAna hoU zakate kI nAhI? samakIta hoU zakate? dAdAzrI : khare tara nAhI hoU zakata. paNa AmhI ithe karavato. kAraNa kI strIcyA prakRticA stara asA Ahe kI AtmajJAna pohacU zakata nAhI. kAraNa kI striyAMmadhye kapaTacI graMthI itakI moThI asate, moha ANi kapaTa hyA donhI graMthI AtmajJAnAlA sparza dekhIla karu deta nAhIta. praznakartA : arthAt hA tara 'vyavasthitazakticA' anyAyaca jhAlA nA? dAdAzrI : nAhI, tI tara puDhacyA janmI puruSa hoUna maga mokSAlA jAte. he sarva je mhaNatAta kI striyA mokSAlA jAU zakata nAhI. tara tI kAhI ekAMtika goSTa nAhI. puruSa hoUna maga mokSAlA jAte. asA kAhI kAyadA nAhI kI striyA (puDhacyA janmI) striyAca rAhaNAra. tI puruSAsArakhI kevhA hoIla tara jevhA tI puruSAMbarobara spardheta utaralI asela, ahaMkAra vADhata asela krodha vADhataca asela, tevhA strIpaNA nighUna jAIla. ahaMkAra ANi krodhacI prakRtI puruSAMcI ANi mAyA ANi lobhacI prakRtI striyAMcI, azAprakAre cAlate hI gADI. paNa Amace he akrama vijJAna ase Ahe kI, striyAMcehI mokSa hoU zakato. kAraNa he vijJAna AtmA jAgRta karato. AtmajJAna nAhI hoU zakale tarI kAhI harakata nAhI, paNa AtmyAlA jAgRta karato. kityeka striyA azA Aheta kI tyAMnA covIsa tAsa dAdA niraMtara AThavatAta! hiMdusthAnAta kityeka asatIla ANi ameriketahI kityeka asatIla kI jyAMnA dAdA covIsa tAsa niraMtara AThavatAta! praznakartA : arthAt AtmyAlA kuThalIhI jAtIca nAhI nA? dAdAzrI : AtmyAlA jAtI asataca nAhI nA! prakRtIlA jAtI

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 91 asatAta. pAMDharA zubhra mAla bharalA asela tara pAMDharA zubhra nighela. kALA bharalA asela tara kALA nighela. prakRtI dekhIla bharalelA mAlaca Ahe. jo mAla bharalelA Ahe tyAce nAMva prakRtI, ANi tyAlAca pudgala mhaNatAta. pudgala mhaNaje je puraNa kele tyAce galana hotaca rAhate. jevaNAce purana kele, tara tyAce saMDAsAta galana hote. pANI pIle, tara tyAce laghavIta, zvAsozvAsa he sarva pudgala paramANu Aheta. puruSa vhAyace asela tara, moha ANi kapaTa he dona guNa suTale kI kAma hoIla. moha ANi kapaTa he dona prakArAce paramANu ekatra Ale kI strI banate. ANi krodha ANi mAna he dona paramANu ekatra Ale kI puruSa banato. arthAt paramANucyA AdhArAne he sarva ghaData asate. ___ ekadA striyAMnI malA vicArale kI, AmacyAta kAhI vizeSa prakArace doSa asatAta, tyApaikI jAsta nukasAnakAraka doSa koNatA? tevhA mI mhaNAlo, svataHce khare (manamAnI) karavUna ghetA to. sarva striyAMcI icchA azI asate kI, ApalyA marjInusAra karAyacI. patIlA dekhIla ulaTa mArgAvara neUna, tyAMcyAkaDUna svata:ce khare karavUna ghetAta. hA khoTA, ANi ulaTA mArga Ahe. mI tyAMcyAkaDUna lihUna ghetale Ahe kI hA rastA nasAvA. manamAnI karaNyAta kAya artha Ahe! khUpa nukasAnakAraka Ahe! praznakartA : jyAta kuTuMbAce bhale hota asela, ase ApaNa jara karavUna ghetale tara hyAta kAya cukIce Ahe? dAdAzrI : nAhI, tyA bhalaM karuca zakata nAhI nA! jyA svata:cyA marjInusAra karavUna ghetAta, tyA kadhIhI kuTuMbAMce bhale karuca zakata nAhI. kuTuMbAce bhale koNa karu zakate tara 'sagaLyAMcyA marjInusAra jhAle tara te yogya' asA vicAra karela tIca kuTuMbAce bhale karu zakate. ekAcehI mana dukhAvaNAra nAhI azAprakAre jhAle tara. jyA manamAnI karAyalA jAtAta tyA tara kuTuMbAce khUpa nukasAna karatAta. ANi heca tara vAdavivAda ANi bhAMDaNAce sAdhana Ahe. parata svataHcyA marjInusAra karatA yeta nAhI mhaNUna tara khAta nAhI, duHkhI hoUna mana mArUna basUna rAhate. koNAlA mArAyalA jANAra, mana mArUna basUna rAhate. paNa maga dusar2yA divazI parata kapaTa karate.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra hA kuThalA prakAra! manamAnI karAyalA jAte paNa nAhI karU zakalI tara maga kAya hoIla? ase sagaLe nAhI kele pAhije. striyAMno, AtA moThyA manAcyA vhA. praznakartA : striyA svata:cyA aNUMnI puruSAMnA viraghaLUna TAkatAta ANi svata:ce je khoTe asale te hI khare karUna ghetAta, yA bAbatIta Apale kAya mhaNaNe Ahe. dAdAzrI : goSTa kharI Ahe. hyAcA gunhA tyAMnA lAgato ANi ase khoTe Agraha karatAta nA tyAmuLe vizvAsa tuTUna jAto. jyAMce patI bhoLe Aheta tyAMnI boTa vara karA pAhU. jyAMnI boTa varatI kele nA, tyA malA yeUna khAjagIta sAMgatAta, kI Amace 'patI bhoLe Aheta, sarvaca bhoLe Aheta.' he iTaselpha sucavatAta kI, hyA striyA tara patInA kheLaNyA pramANe nAcavatAta. paNa he jara jAhIra kele tara kharAba disela. kharAba nAhI disaNAra?! jAsta bolaNyAsArakhe nAhI. khAjagIta striyAMnA vicArale kI. 'tAI, tumace patI bhoLe Aheta?' tara mhaNela 'khUpaca bhoLe.' kapaTacA mAla bharalelA Ahe tyAmuLe. paraMtu ase bolU naye, kharAba disela. tyAMcyAta itara guNa khUpa suMdara Aheta. praznakartA : striyAMnA ekIkaDe lakSmI bolale jAte, ANi dusar2yA bAjUlA kapaTavAlI, mohavAlI..... dAdAzrI : lakSmI mhaNatAta, tara kAya tI azI-tazI Ahe? jara patIlA nArAyaNa mhaTale jAte tara maga tilA kAya mhaNAla? arthAt tyA joDIlA lakSmI nArAyaNacA joDA mhaNatAta! tara maga strI kAhI khAlacyA darjAcI Ahe? strI tara tIrthaMkarAMcI mAtA Ahe. jevaDhe covIsa tIrthaMkara jhAle, tyAMcI mAtA koNa? praznakartA : striyA. dAdAzrI : tevhA tyAMnA khAlacyA darjAcI kase bolU zakatA? strI jhAlI arthAta moha tara asaNAraca paNa janma koNAlA dilA, tara sarva moThamoThyA tIrthaMkarAMnA janma dilA, sarvaca mahAna lokAMnA janma tineca dilA Ahe

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra tara ApaNa ticI niMdA, avahelanA kazI karU zakato? tarIhI Apale loka avahelanA karatAta. praznakartA : ApaNa sadaiva strIlAca maryAdA ThevaNyAsa sAMgata asato, puruSAMnA mAtra ase sAMgata nAhI. dAdAzrI : hA tara svata:cyA manuSyapaNAcA durupayoga kelA Ahe. sattecA durupayoga kelA Ahe. sattece dona upayoga hoU zakatAta. eka sadupayoga hoU zakato ANi dusarA durupayoga. sadupayoga kelA tara sukha vartela, paraMtu ajUnahI durupayoga karatA, mhaNUna duHkhI Ahe. jara sattecA durupayoga kelA tara tI sattA hAtAtUna nighUna jANAra paNa jara tI sattA tumhAlA kAyama ThevAyacI asela, jara nehamI puruSa banUnaca rahAyace asela, tara sattecA durupayoga karu nakA, nAhItara sattAdhIzAMnA, puDhalyA janmI strI banAve lAgela. sattecA durupayoga kelA tara sattA nighUna jAte. ____ kAhIhI hoU deta, patI nasela, patI (soDUna) nighUna gelA asela, tarI suddhA parapuruSAkaDe jANAra nAhI. maga to kasAhI asela, jarI sAkSAt devasuddhA puruSa hoUna samora AlA asela tarI nAhI jANAra, 'mAjhA navarA Ahe, mI patIvratA Ahe' tilA satI mhaNatAta. AjacyA kALAta satI mhaNaNyA sArakhe guNa Aheta kA hyAMcyAta? nAhIca Ahe. AtA kALa vegaLyA tahecA Ahe nA! paNa satyugAta kadhItarI asA yoga yeta asato satIMsAThIca mhaNUna tara AjahI Apale loka satIMce nAMva smaraNa karatAta!! praznakartA : ho. dAdAzrI : te satI hoNyAcyA icchemuLe. tyAMce (satIMce) nAMva ghetale tara kevhAtarI satI hoIla ANi viSayavikAra tara bAMgaDyAMcyA bhAvAne vikalA jAta Ahe. he tumhAlA mAhita Ahe ? tumhAlA mAjhyA bolaNyAcA artha samajalA kI nAhI? praznakartA : ho, bAMgaDyAMcyA bhAvAne vikalA jAta Ahe. dAdAzrI : kuThalyA bAjArAta? kaoNlemadhye! kAya darAta vikalA jAto? sonyAcA bhAvAne bAMgaDyA vikalyA jAtAta. AdhI hir2yAcyA bhAvAne

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94 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra bAMgaDyA vikalyA jAta hotyA! sagaLIkaDe aseca hota asate kA? nAhI hota, sarvatra ase nAhI hota? kityeka tara sone dile tarIhI gheta nAhIta. kAhIhI dyA tarI nAhI gheta! paNa itara striyA tara vikalyA jAtAta, AjacyA striyA. sonyAcyA darAne nAhI tara dusar2yA darAne vikalyA jAtAta! arthAt hyA viSayavikArAmuLeca strI jhAlI Ahe. phakta viSayavikArAmuLeca ANi puruSAMnI striyAMnA bhogaNyAsAThI enakareja (uttejIta) kele ANi bicArIlA bigaDavale. ticyAta barakata nasela tarIhI barakata Ahe ase svataH mAnUna ghete. tevhA vicArale, tine ase kA mAnUna ghetale ? kazyA prakAre mAnale? tara puruSa tilA tase satata sAMgata rAhile, tyAmuLe tI samajate kI to je bolata Aheta tyAta kAya cukIce Ahe. tI svata:hUna tase mAnata nAhI. paNa tumhI mhaNAlAta kI, tU khUpa cAMgalI Ahesa, tujhyAsArakhI tara dusarI koNI asUca zakata nAhI. tumhI tilA mhaNAlAta kI tU khUpa suMdara Ahesa, tevhA maga tI svataHlA suMdara mAnU lAgate. hyA puruSAMnI strIlA strI rUpAtaca Thevale Ahe. ANi strI manAta mAnate kI mI puruSAlA mUrkha banavate. ase karuna puruSa tilA bhogUna mokaLA hoto. praznakartA : yAcA artha asA kI, striyA bar2yAca janmAta strI mhaNUnaca janma ghetIla he kAhI nakkI nAhI. paNa he tyA striyAMnA mAhita nAhI mhaNUna tyAvara upAya hota nAhIta. dAdAzrI : upAya kele tara strI hI puruSaca Ahe. tyA graMthIlA oLakhataca nAhI bicArI ANi tithe iMTaresTa yeto, majA vATate mhaNUna tyAtaca aDakUna rAhate ANi (hA) rastA koNAlA mAhitaca nAhI mhaNUna dAkhavalAhI jAta nAhI. te kevaLa satI striyAMnAca mAhita hote, (lagnAnaMtara) lagecaca patI mRtyu pAvalA, nighUna gelA tarI satI striyA svata:cyA patI zivAya anya kuThalyAhI puruSAcA kadhIhI vicAra suddhA karata nAhIta. tyAca patIlA patI mAnatAta. tara ase tyA striyAMce sarva kapaTa viraghaLUna jAte. satItva asela tara kapaTa ApoApaca nighUna jAte. tumhAlA kAhI bolAve lAgata nAhI. tI mULa satI tara janmApAsUnaca satI asate. mhaNaje

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 95 ticyAvara pUrvIce kAhIca DAga nasatAta. ANi tumacyAvara tara pUrvIce DAga rAhilele asatAta ANi parata tumhI puruSa banatA. paNa puruSAtahI, je puruSa jhAle Aheta te sarva sArakheca nasatAta. kityeka puruSa striyAMsArakhe asatAta. mhaNaje tyAMcyAta thoDI striyAMcI lakSaNe rAhUna jAtAta, paNa maga tyAMcyAtalA kapaTa viraghaDato ANi tyAnaMtara jara kA tyAMcyAta satItva sArakhe guNa Ale kI maga kapaTa pUrNapaNe nighUna jAto. puruSa asela tara satI pramANe tyAce sarva doSa saMpatAta. satItvamuLe sarva doSa saMpatAta. jitakyA satI jhAlyA, tyAMce sarva doSa saMpatAta ANi tyA mokSAlA jAtAta. thoDephAra kaLale kA? mokSAlA jANyAsAThI satI vhAve lAgela. ho, jitakyA satI jhAlyA tyA mokSAlA gelyA, kiMvA maga tyAMnA puruSa deha ghyAve lAgate. puruSa bhoLe asatAta, jase nAcavU tase nAcatAta bicAre. sarva puruSAMnA striyAMnI nAcavale Ahe. phakta satI striyAca puruSAMnA nAcavata nAhIta. satI striyA tara patIlA paramezvara mAnatAta! praznakartA : ase jIvana tara khUpaca kamI lokAMce pahAyalA miLate. dAdAzrI : hyA kaliyugAta kuThUna asaNAra? satyugAtahI kvacita satI asatAta, tara hyA kaliyugAta kuThUna asaNAra? arthAt hyAta striyAMce doSa nAhI, striyA tara devIsArakhyA Aheta! striyAta ANi puruSAta AtmA tara AtmAca Ahe, phakta khokyAMcA pharaka Ahe. 'Dipharansa oNpha paeNkiMga!' strI hI eka prakAracI 'iphekTa' (pariNAma) Ahe. mhaNaje tyA AtmyAvara strIpaNAcI 'iphekTa' rahAte. tI 'iphekTa' ApalyAvara nAhI rAhilI tara uttama. strI tara zakti Ahe. hyA dezAta rAjanItImadhye kasalyA kasalyA striyA hoUna gelyA! ANi hyA dharmakSetrAta strI AlI tara tI kazI asela?! hyA kSetrAtUna tara jagAce kalyANaca karUna TAkela ! strImadhye tara jagata kalyANacI zakti khUpa bharalelI Ahe ! ticyAta svata:ce kalyANa karuna itarAMce kalyANa karaNyAcI zakti Ahe! 23. viSayavikAra baMda tithe prema saMbaMdha vaivAhika AnaMdamaya jIvana kevhA zobhuna disela tara jevhA doghAMnA tApa caDhalyAvara auSadha ghetIla tevhA. tApAzivAya auSadha piNAra nAhI. jara

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pati- patnIcA divya vyavahAra ekAlA tApa nasela ANi auSadha pyAyale tara vaivAhika jIvana zobhuna disaNAra nAhI. doghAMnA tApa caDhalyAvaraca auSadha ghyAve. dhisa ija da onlI meDisina (he mAtra auSadha Ahe). auSadha goDa Ahe, mhaNUna roja roja pyAyace nasate. vaivAhika jIvana ujvala karAyace asela tara, saMyamI puruSAcI garaja Ahe. hyA sarva janAvarAMnA asaMyamI mhaTale jAte. manuSya jIvana tara saMyamI asAyalA have! pUrvI je rAma-kRSNa ityAdI hoUna gele, te sarva saMyamI puruSa hote. strI sobata saMyamI ! tara asaMyama hA kAya daivIguNa Ahe ? hA tara pAzavI guNa Ahe. manuSyAta ase guNa nasatAta. manuSya asaMyamI nasavA. jagAtalyA lokAMnA samajataca nAhI kI viSayavikAra kAya Ahe ! ekA viSayabhogAta, ekAca veLI pAca-pAca lAkha jIva maratAta, paNa hyAcI samaja nasalyAmuLe tyAta majA ghetAta. samajaca nAhI nA ! jevhA nAIlAjAneca azI hiMsA hoIla, ase asale pAhije. paNa tazI samajaca nasela tara kAya karaNAra ? 96 sarva dharmAMnI jaTIla samasyA nirmANa kelI Ahe kI striyAMcA tyAga karA. are, strIcA tyAga kelA tara mI kuThe jANAra? malA jevaNa koNa banavUna deNAra? mI mAjhA vyApAra dhaMdA karu kI gharI cUla peTavu ? vaivAhika jIvanAcI tara prazaMsA kelI Ahe. zAstrakArAMnI vaivAhika jIvanAcI niMdA kelelI nAhI. lagnAzivAya itara je bhraSTAcAra hota Aheta tyAcI niMdA kelI Ahe. praznakartA : viSayabhoga saMtAnaprAptI purateca asAyalA have kI, bartha kaMTrola (kuTuMba niyojana) karuna viSayabhoga karu zakato ? dAdAzrI : nAhI, nAhI. te tara RSimuniMcyA kALAta, pUrvI tara patipatnIcA vyavahAra asA navhatA. RSimuni lagna karata hote, paNa AdhIcyAkALI te lagnAsAThI nAhIca bolata asata. mhaNUna maga RSipatnIne tyAMnA sAMgitale, kI tumhAlA ekaTyAne cAMgalyApaNI saMsAra karatA yeNAra nAhI, prakRtI nITa rAhaNAra nAhI mhaNUna AmhA striyAMcI pArTanarazIpa (bhAgIdArI) ThevA, tyAmuLe tumacI bhaktI hI hoIla ANi saMsAra dekhIla nITa cAlela. mhaNUna hyA lokAMnI ( RSimuniMnI) mAnya kele

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra ANi sAMgitale kI AmhI tumacyA sobata saMsAra mAMDaNAra nAhI. tyAvara tyA mhaNAlyA kI, tase nAhI, AmhAlA phakta eka putradAna ANi eka putrI dAna dyA. arthAt hyA dona dAnApurateca sobata, tyAnaMtara kuThalIhI saMgata nAhI. tyAnaMtara saMsArAta AmacI tumacyAsobata phakta phreMDazIpa (maitrI). mhaNUna tyAMnI he svIkArale. ANi tyA mitrAsArakheca rahAta hotyA, patnI banUna rahAta navhatyA. RSipatnI gharAtIla sarva kAme sAMbhALata ANi te bAherIla kAme zAMbhALAyace, naMtara doghehI ekatra bhaktI karaNyAsAThI basata asata. paNa AtA tara (viSayavikAra) hA sarva dhaMdAca jhAlA Ahe mhaNUna bighaDale Ahe sarva. RSimuni tara niyamavAle hote. AtA eka putra kiMvA eka putrIsAThI lagna kele tara harakata nAhI. tyAnaMtara mitrAsArakhe rAhilAta, tara te du:khadAyI hoNAra nAhI. paNa he tara sukha zodhatAta tara maga aseca hoNAra nA! dAvAca karatAta nA! RSimuni khUpa vegaLyA prakArace hote. eka patnIvrata pALaNAra nA? tevhA mhaNatAta, 'pALaNAra'. tevhA tumacA mokSa Ahe ANi jara kA dusar2yA strI baddala jarAsAhI vicAra AlA tara mokSa TaLalA. kAraNa kI te binahakkAce Ahe. hakkAce tithe mokSa ANi hakkAzivAya asalele tI pazutA arthAta janAvaragatI. viSayavikArAcI paNa maryAdA asAyalA havI. strI-puruSAta viSayavikAra kuThaparyaMta asAyalA havA? tara parastrI nako ANi parapuruSahI nako. ANi tyAtUna kadhI tyAMcA tasA vicAra AlA tara te lagecaca pratikramaNane dhuvUna TAkAyalA have. sarvAta moThI jokhIma asela tara hIca, parapuruSa ANi parastrI! svata:cI strI jokhIma nAhI. AtA hyAta AmacI kAya cuka Ahe? AmhI oraDato kA kadhI? hyAta kAhI gunhA Ahe kA? hI AmacI sAyanTiphika zodhakhoLa Ahe ! nAhItara sAdhUMnA tara itaparyaMta sAMgaNyAta yete kI, strIcA lAkaDI putaLA asela tyAlA dekhIla pAhU nakA. strI basalI asela tyA ThikANI basU dekhila nakA. paNa mI tasA Agraha kelA nAhI nA? hyA kALAta ekapatnIvratalA AmhI brahmacarya mhaNato ANi tIrthaMkara

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra bhagavAnAMcyA kALAta brahmacaryace je phaLa miLata hote teca phaLa AjahI miLela yAcI AmhI gaeNreMTI deto! praznakartA : eka patnIvrata mhaTale te sUkSmapaNe kI phakta sthUla? mana tara jANAraca nA? dAdAzrI : sUkSma suddhA asAyalA have ANi jara mana bhaTakata asela tara manApAsUna vegaLe rahAyalA have ANi tyAce satata pratikramaNa karata rahAve lAgela. mokSAlA jANyAcI limiTa koNatI? tara eka patnIvrata ANi eka patIvrata. jara tU saMsArI Ahesa tara tujhyA hakkAce viSaya tU bhoga, paraMtu binahakkAce viSaya tara bhogUca nakosa kAraNa tyAce phaLa bhayaMkara Ahe. hakkAce soDUna dusar2yA jAgI viSayabhoga jhAlA tara, tI strI jithe jithe jAIla tithe tumhAlA janma ghyAvA lAgela. tI adhogatIta jAIla tara tumhAlAhI tithe jAve lAgela. Aja-kAla bAhera sarva aseca cAlU Ahe. kuThe janma hoIla yAcA kAhI nema nAhI. binahakkAce viSaya jyAne bhogale tyAlA tara bhayaMkara yAtanA bhogAvI lAgate. ekhAdyA janmI tyAcI mulagI dekhIla cAritryahIna banate. niyama asA Ahe kI jicyA barobara binahakkAcA viSaya bhogalA asela tIca AI kiMvA mulagI banUna yete. binahakkAce bhogale tevhApAsUnaca manuSyapaNa nighUna jAte. binahakkAcA viSaya tara bhaMyakara gunhA Ahe. svataH dusar2yAMce bhogale tara svata:cyA mulIMnA itara bhogatIla. paraMtu tyAcI ciMtAca karata nAhI nA! binahakkAcyA viSayavikArAta nehamI kaSAya asatAta, ANi kaSAya asalyAmuLe narakAta jAve lAgate. paNa lokAMnA he mAhitaca nasate! mhaNUna tara ghAbarata nAhI, kuThalyAhI prakAracI bhItI dekhIla vATata nAhI. AjacA manuSya janma, hA tara mAgacyA janmAta kAhI cAMgale kele tyAce phaLa Ahe. viSayavikAra AsaktImuLe utpanna hotAta ANi tyAtUna maga vikarSaNa hoto. vikarSaNa jhAle tara tyAtUna vaira bAMdhale jAte ANi vairacyA 'phAunDezana' vara he jagata ubhe Ahe.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra paNa lakSmImuLe vaira bAMdhale jAtAta, ahaMkArAmuLe vaira bAMdhale jAtAta, he viSayavikArAce vaira tara khUpa viSArI asate. 99 viSayAtUna nirmANa jhAlelA cAritramoha, te tara jJAna vagaire sarva uDavUna TAkato. arthAt AtAparyaMta viSayavikArAmuLeca sarva aDale Ahe. mULAta viSaya Ahe ANi tyAtUna maga lakSmIvara rAga (moha/AsaktI) basalA Ahe, ANi tyAcA ahaMkAra Ahe. arthAt mULa viSaya jara nighUna gelA, tara sarva kAhI nighUna jAIla. praznakartA : mhaNaje bI lA bhAjatA yAyalA have, paNa bI lA kase bhAjAve ? dAdAzrI : te tara ApalyA pratikramaNane, AlocanA-pratikramaNapratyAkhyAnane. praznakartA : heca ? dusarA kuThalA upAya nAhI ? dAdAzrI : dusarA kuThalA upAya nAhI. tapa kelyAne puNya bAMdhAla ANi bI zekalyAvara nirAkaraNa hoIla. samabhAvAne nikAla karaNyAcA kAyadA kAya sAMgato kI, tU kuThalyAhI prakAre ase nikAla kara kI tyAcyAzI vaira bAMdhale jANAra nAhI. vairapAsUna mukta hoUna jA. praznakartA : hyAta vaira kase bAMdhale jAte ? anaMtakALAce je vaira ce bI paDate te kazyA prakAre hota asate ? dAdAzrI : tyAce ase Ahe, kI melelA puruSa athavA melelI strI asela ANi samajA tyAta kAhI auSadha bharale ANi puruSa puruSA sArakhAca rAhilA ANi strI strI sArakhIca rAhilI tara kAhI harakata nAhI, tyAMcyA sobata vaira bAMdhale jANAra nAhI. kAraNa te jivaMta nAhIta. ANi he tara jivaMta Aheta mhaNUna vaira bAMdhale jAtAta. praznakartA : paNa te kazyAmuLe bAMdhale jAtAta ? dAdAzrI : abhiprAya 'Dipharansa' (bhinna) Aheta mhaNUna. tumhI mhaNAla kI, 'AtA malA sinemA pahAyalA jAyace Ahe.' tyAvara tI mhaNela

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pati - patnIcA divya vyavahAra kI, 'nAhI, Aja malA nATaka pahAyalA jAyace Ahe.' arthAt TAImiMga juLata nAhIta. jara ekjekTa TAImiMgalA TAImiMga juLata asela taraca lagna kara. 100 hyA avalaMbanAce jitake sukha ApaNa ghetale te sarva udhAra ghetalele sukha Ahe. lona vara. ANi lona mhaNaje 'rI pe' (paratapheDa) karAve lAgate. tumhI AtmyAce sukha upabhogata nAhI ANi pudgalajavaLa sukha mAgatA. AtmyAce sukha asela tara kAhI harakataca nAhI, paNa pudgalakaDe bhIkha mAgitalI, tI parata pheDAvI lAgela. he lona Ahe. jitake goDa vATale asela, titakeca tyAtUna kaDUpaNA bhogAve lAgela. kAraNa pudgalakaDUna lona ghetale Ahe. mhaNUna tyAlA paratapheDa karate veLI titakeca kaDU vATela. pudgalakaDUna ghetale mhaNUna pudgalalAca 'rI pe' karAve lAgela. AtA tara Apale kityeka mahAtmA yeUna sAMgatAta kI, 'viSaya sukhAsAThI AmhalA vinavaNyA karAyalA lAvate.' tevhA mI mhaNAlo, 'tujhA prabhAva paData nAhI mhaNUnaca tI ase karAyalA lAvate nA! AtA tarI samaja nA, AtA tarI yogI ho !' AtA hyA vAvaTaLAtUna kase bAhera paDAyace ? hyA duniyecyA vAvaTaLAtUna bAhera paDatA yeIla ? ! eka bAI ApalyA patIlA cAra veLA sASTAMga namaskAra karAyalA lAvate, tevhA kuThe eka veLA sparza karu dete. are murkhA ! hyA aivajI samAdhI ghetalI asatI tara kAya vAITa jhAle asate ? ! samudrAta samAdhI ghe, to samudra tarI saraLa Ahe! maga bhAnagaDaca nAhI nA! viSayasukhAsAThI cAra veLA sASTAMga ! praznakartA : gelyA janmI AmhI ticyAzI saMgharSa (bhAMDaNa, kleza) kelA asela, tevhA AtA hyA janmAta tI AmacyAzI saMgharSa karate. paNa hyAcA kAhI mArga tara kADhAvA lAgela nA ? solyuzana tara zodhAve lAgela nA ? dAdAzrI : hyAce solyuzana tara Ahe, paNa lokAMce manobaLa kacce Ahe nA !

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 101 viSayavikArI bhAga baMda kelA tara ApoApaca sAre kAhI baMda hoUna jAIla. tyAcyAmuLeca satata kITa-kITa cAlU rAhate. praznakartA : AtA te kase karAve? te baMda kase karAve? dAdAzrI : viSayavikAra jiMkAyacA. praznakartA : viSayavikAra jiMkatA yeta nAhI, mhaNUna tara tumhAlA zaraNa Alo Ahota.. dAdAzrI : kitI varSApAsUna viSayavikAra.. mhAtArapaNa Ale tarI viSaya? jevhA pahAve tevhA viSayavikAra, viSayavikAra ANi viSayavikAra! praznakartA : hA viSayavikAra baMda kelyAvara suddhA kleza, nAhI TaLata mhaNUna tara AmhI tumacyA caraNI Alo Ahota. dAdAzrI : kleza hoNAraca nAhI. jithe jithe viSayavikAra baMda Ahe tithe, mI pAhile Ahe kI je je puruSa majabUta manobaLAce, sAmarthyavAna Aheta tyAMcyA patnI tyAMcyA sAMgaNyAnusAra cAlatAta. ticyAzI viSayavikAra baMda kelyAzivAya dusarA kAhI upAyaca sApaDalA nAhI. kAraNa kI hyA jagAta rAga-dveSAce mULa kAraNaca he Ahe, maulika kAraNaca he Ahe. hyAtUnaca rAga-dveSAcA janma jhAlA. ithUnaca saMsAra ubhe jhAle Aheta. mhaNUna jara saMsAra baMda karAyacA asela tara to ithUnaca baMda karAvA lAgela. jyAlA kleza karAyacA nasela, jo klezAcA pakSa gheta nasela tyAlA jara kleza hota asela tara te haLU haLU kamI hota jAIla. he tara, kleza kelAca pAhije ase mAnatAta toparyaMta kleza jAsta hotAta. klezAce pakSadAra ApaNa hotA kAmA naye. kleza karAyacAca nAhI asA jyAMcA nizcaya Ahe, tyAMcA kleza ghaTataca jAto. ANi jethe kleza Ahe tithe bhagavaMta ubheca rAhaNAra nAhI nA! Dabala beDacI sisTama baMda karA ANi siMgala beDacI sisTama ThevA. he tara sarvaca bolatAta, 'Dabala beDa banavA, Dabala beDa....' pUrvI hiMdusthAnAta

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pati- patnIcA divya vyavahAra kuThalAhI manuSya ase jhopataca navhatA. kuThalAhI kSatriya nAhI. kSatriya tara khUpa kaDaka hote paNa vaizya dekhIla nAhI. brAhmaNa dekhIla azyAprakAre jhopata nasata, ekahI manuSya nAhI ! pahA, kALa kasA vicitra AlA Ahe ? 102 jevhA pAsUna hIrAbA sobata mAjhA viSayavikAra baMda jhAlA tevhApAsUna AmhI tyAMnA hIrAbA bolU lAgalo. tyAnaMtara AmhAlA khAsa kAhI aDacaNa AlI nAhI. AdhI thoDI viSayAmuLe ( aDacaNa ) hotI, tyAMcyA sobata thoDIphAra popaTamastI dekhIla hota ase. paNa phakta popaTamastI. loka samajata kI hyA popaTAne popaTInalA mArAyalA suruvAta kelI ! paraMtu hote phakta popaTamastI. paNa joparyaMta viSayacA DaMkha Ahe toparyaMta tI jAta nAhI. jevhA hA DaMkha suTela tevhA jAIla. hA AmacA svataHcA anubhava sAMgata Ahota. he tara Apale jJAna Ahe mhaNUna ThIka Ahe. jJAna nasate tara DaMkha mArataca rAhilo asato. tevhA tara ahaMkAra hotA nA ! ahaMkArAcA eka bhAga bhoga asato kI tyAne malA bhogale. ANi hA paNa sAMgaNAra tine malA bhogUna ghetale. ANi naMtara (jJAna ghetalyAvara) AtA nikAla karate tI, tarIhI tI DiscArja kica kica tara rAhateca. AmhAlA tara tI kica kica suddhA navhatI. asA kuThalyAhI prakAracA matabheda navhatA. he vijJAna tara pahA! phakta patnIsobatacI navhe tara saMpUrNa jagA sobatacI bhAMDaNe baMda hoUna jAtAta. he vijJAnaca ase Ahe ANi bhAMDaNe baMda jhAlI arthAta mukta jhAlAta. 24. rahasya RNAnubaMdhAce...... lagna tara kharokhara eka baMdhanaca Ahe. mhazIlA (relagADIcyA) DabyAta baMda kelyAsArakhI dazA hote. hyA phasavaNukIta nAhI phasalAta tara uttama, phasale gele asAla paNa tarIhI tyAtUna nighatA Ale tara ati uttama. nAhItara zevaTI phaLa cAkhalyAnaMtara nighAle pAhije. bAkI, AtmA strI kiMvA puruSa, koNAcA patI, kiMvA koNAcA mulagA hoU zakata nAhI, phakta hI sarva karme pUrNa hota Aheta. AtmyAmadhye tara kAhI pheraphAra hota nAhI. AtmA tara AtmAca Ahe, paramAtmAca Ahe. he tara ApaNa mAnUna basalo kI hI mAjhI patnI !

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 103 hyA cimaNyA suMdara gharaTe guMphatAta, tara te tyAMnA koNI zikavAyalA gele hote? he saMsAra cAlavAyace (jJAna) tara ApoApaca hota asate. ho, 'svarUpajJAna' miLavaNyAsAThI puruSArtha karaNyAcI jarurata Ahe. saMsAra cAlavaNyAsAThI kazAcIca jarurata nAhI. phakta he manuSyaca jAsta diDazahANe Aheta. hyA pazu-pakSyAMce bAyakA-mule nAhIta? tyAMce lagna lAvAve lAgate? he tara manuSyAlAca bAyako-mule jhAlI Aheta, manuSyaca lagna lAvaNyAta guMtale Aheta. gAya-mhaisa yAMcyAtahI lagna hotAta. mulaM bALa sarva asatAta paNa Ahe kA tithe patI? te paNa sAsare hotAta, sAsU hotAta, paraMtu tyAMnI buddhivaMtAsArakhI kAhI juLavAjuLava kelI Ahe kA? tithe koNI ase bolato kA kI mI hyAcA sAsarA Ahe? tarIhI ApalyA sArakhAca sarva vyavahAra Ahe nA, tIhI vAsarAlA dudha pAjate. vAsarAlA cATata asate nA! Apale akkalavAle cATata nAhI. tumhI svataH zuddhAtmA AhAta ANi he sarva vyavahAra varakaraNI vara vara arthAt 'suparaphluasa' karAyacA Ahe. svataH 'homa DipArTamenTa'madhye rahAve ANi 'phorina'madhye 'suparaphyulUsa' rahAyace. 'suparaphyulUsa' mhaNaje tanmayAkAra vRttI nAhI, tara phakta 'DrAmeTika.' phakta nATakaca karAyace Ahe. 'DrAmA'madhye toTA jhAlA tarI hasAyace ANi naphA jhAlA tarI hasAyace. 'DrAmA'madhye tasA abhinaya karuna dikhAvA paNa karAvA lAgato, toTA jhAlA asela tara tasA abhinaya karAvA lAgato, tethe toMDAne bolatAta dekhIla kI, khUpa nukasAna jhAle, paNa Ata tanmayAkAra hota nAhIta. ApaNa 'laTakate salAma' (varakaraNI) ThokAve. kityeka jaNa nAhI bolata kA kI bhAU, mAjhA hyAMcyAzI 'laTakate salAma' sArakhA saMbaMdha Ahe ?! azyAca prakAre sarva jagAsobata rahAve. jyAMnA sarva jagAzI 'laTakate salAma' ThevatA Ale te jJAnI jhAle. hyA dehAsobata paNa 'laTakate salAma, AmhI sarvAMsobata niraMtara 'laTakate salAma' Thevato tarIhI sarva bolatAta kI, 'tumhI AmacyAsAThI khUpa cAMgalI bhAvanA ThevatA' mI vyavahAra sarva karato paNa AtmyAta rAhUna. praznakartA : patnIcyA puNyAne patIce sarva cAlate he sarva khare Ahe

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pati- patnIcA divya vyavahAra kA ? bolatAta nA kI bAyakocyA puNyAne hI lakSmI Ahe ANi sarva ThIka cAlale Ahe, ase khareca asate kA ? 104 dAdAzrI : te tara koNI ApalyA patnIlA mArata asela tara tyAlA samajavaNyAsAThI Apale loka ase mhaNatAta kI, are murkhA, hyA tujhyA bAyakoce nasIba tara bagha ! kazAlA oraDatosa ? tice puNya Ahe mhaNUna tara tU khAto-pito Ahesa, azAprakAre he suru jhAle. sarva jIva svata:cyA puNyAceca khAtAta. tumhAlA samajale nA ! he tara ase sarva bolale pAhije taraca te saraLa vAgatIla nA! sarva ApApalyA puNyAceca upabhogata Aheta ANi svata:ce pApa dekhIla svataHca bhogata Aheta. hyAta koNAce kAhIhI deNegheNe nAhI. kiMcita, ekA kesA itakI suddhA bhAnagaDa nAhI. praznakartA : koNI zubha kArya karato, udAraNArtha, puruSa dAna karato ANi tyAta patnIce suddhA sahakArya asate, tara tyAce phaLa doghAMnA miLela ? dAdAzrI : jarura. karaNArA ANi sahakArya deNArA mhaNaje karaviNArA athavA kartA pratye anumodanA karaNArA mhaNaje tighAMnAhI, karaNArA, karaviNArA ANi kartA pratye anumodanA, karaNArA hyA sarvAMnA puNya miLate. tumhI jyAMnA sAMgitale asela kI he karA, he karaNyAyogya Ahe tyAlA karaviNArA mhaNAyace, tumhAlA karaNArA mhaTale jAte ANi patnI virodha nAhI karata, tara tilA anumodanA karaNArI mhaTale jAte. sarvAMnA puNya miLate. paraMtu karaNAr2yAcyA hisyAta pannAsa Takke ANi uralele pannAsa Takke tyA doghAMmadhye vATale jAtAta. praznakartA: pUrvajanmAcyA RNAnubaMdhAtUna suTaNyAsAThI kAya kele pAhije ? dAdAzrI : jyAMcyAzI Apale pUrvIce RNAnubaMdha Aheta ANi tI vyaktI ApalyAlA AvaDataca nasela, tyAcA sahavAsa dekhIla AvaData nasela ANi kartavya mhaNUna tyAcyAsobata rahAveca lAgata asela tevhA kAya karAve! tara tyAcyAsobata bAheracA vyavahAra jarura karAyacA paNa AtUna tyAce pratikramaNa karata rahAyace. kAraNa ApaNa mAgacyA janmAta atikramaNa kele hote tyAcA hA pariNAma Ahe. kaoNjhIsa kAya kele hote ? tara mhaNe,

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 105 pUrva janmAta atikramaNa kele hote, tyAce hyA janmAta phaLa Ale Ahe arthAt AtA tyAce pratIkramaNa karAla tara vajA-berIja hoIla. mhaNUna AtA Ata tyAMcI mAphI mAgA, punhA punhA mAphI mAgata rahA kI mI je je doSa kele asatIla tyAbaddala mAphI mAgato. koNatyAhI bhagavaMtAcyA sAkSIne mAphI mAgA, tara sarva doSa saMpUna jAtIla, anyathA kAya hoIla kI tyAMce jAsta doSa pAhilyAne, jase kI koNI strI ekhAdyA puruSAlA jara khUpaca doSita mAnata asela tara tyAmuLe ticA tiraskAra vADhela, ANi tiraskAra asela tara bhItI vATela. jyAcyApratI tiraskAra Ahe tyAceca tumhAlA bhaya vATate. tyAMnA pAhile kI bhItI vATate. hyAvaruna samajUna jAyace kI hA tiraskAra Ahe. arthAt hA tiraskAra soDaNyAsAThI Ata satata mAphI mAgataca rahA. tara maga dona divasAtaca hA tiraskAra baMda hoIla. tyAMnA mAhitahI nasela kI tumhI AtUna tyAMcI mAphI mAgata AhAta. tyAMcyApratI je je doSa kele Aheta, 'he bhagavAna, mI tyAMcI mAphI mAgato.' hA mAjhyAca doSAMcA pariNAma Ahe. koNatyAhI vyaktI pratI je je doSa kele asatIla, tara tyAsAThI AtUna bhagavaMtAkaDe tyAcI punhA punhA mAphI mAMgitalI tara sarva doSa dhutale jAtIla. praznakartA : ApalyAlA dharmAcyA mArgAne jAyace asela tara ghara-saMsAra soDavA lAgato. te dharmAsAThI cAMgale Aheta, paNa tyAmuLe gharAtIla lokAMnA duHkha hote. tara svata:sAThI ghara-saMsAra soDAvA he cAMgale mhaNAve? dAdAzrI : nAhI. gharAtIla lokAMcA hizoba pheDAvAca lAgato. tyAMcA hizoba pheDalyAnaMtara, tyA sarvAMnI khuza hoUna sAMgitale kI 'tumhI jAvU zakatA' tara kAhI harakata nAhI. paNa tyAMnA du:kha hoIla ase kAhI karu naye. kAraNa kI tyA egrImenTa (karAra)cA bhaMga karuna kAhI karu zakata nAhI. praznakartA : bhautika saMsAra soDaNyAce manAta yeta asate mana hote, tara kAya karAve? dAdAzrI : eke divazI, bhautika saMsArAta ghusaNyAce mana karata hote nA!

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106 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : tevhA tara jJAna navhate, AtA tara he jJAna miLAle mhaNUna pharaka paDalA Ahe. dAdAzrI : ho hyAta pharaka paDela paNa AdhI saMsArata je ghusalA AhAta tyAtUna bAhera nighaNyAcA mArga zodhAvA lAgela. aseca paLUna jAtA yeNAra nAhI. praznakartA : pratyeka divasa eka eka karUna kamI hota Ahe. dAdAzrI : 'mAjhe' mhaNUna marAyace. khare tara mAjhe nAhIca, tI lavakara nighUna gelI tara tumhAlA ekaTyAlA basAve lAgela. khare tara doghAMnI ekatraca gele pAhije nA? ANi samajA tI jara patI (melyA) naMtara satI jhAlI, tarI paNa tI koNatyA mArgAne gelI asela ANi patI koNatyA mArgAne gelA asela? sarvAMcI ApApalyA karmAcyA hizobApramANe gatI hote. koNI janAvarAta jAto tara koNI manuSyAta jAto, tara koNI devagatIta jAto. tyAta jara satI bolU lAgalI kI, mI tumacyAsobata marena tara tumacyAsobata janma gheU zakela. paNa ase kAhI hota nAhI. hA tara sarva veDepaNA Ahe. he patipatnI ase kAhIca nasate nAhI. hyA buddhivaMta lokAMnI azI juLavA-juLava karuna ThevalI Ahe. praznakartA : he bhAU ase sAMgatAta kI, jara doghAMta kuThalyAhI prakAracI takrAra nasela, tara puDhacyA janmAta parata ekatra rAhU zakato? dAdAzrI : hyA janmAtaca rAhU zakata nAhI. hyA janmAtaca DAyavorsa (ghaTasphoTa) hotAta, tara maga puDhalyA janmAcI kAya vArtA karatA? ase prema asataca nAhI nA? yetyA janmI ekatra yeNAr2yA premavAlyAMmadhye tara klezaca nasato. tI tara iji lAipha (saraLa jIvana) asate. khUpa premamaya jIvana asate. cuka disataca nAhI. cuka jhAlI tarI disata nAhI. ase prema asate. praznakartA : tara maga ase premamaya jIvana asela tara yetyA janmAta teca punhA ekatra yetAta kI nAhI? dAdAzrI : ho ekatra yetAta nA, koNAce ase jIvana asela tara ekatra janma ghetAta. pUrNa jIvanabhara kleza kelA nasela tara te ekatra yetAta.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 107 25. Adarza vyavahAra, jIvanAta..... dAdAzrI : jIvana kase sudhArAve? praznakartA : khar2yA mArgAne gelyAne. dAdAzrI : kitI varSAparyaMta sudhArAyace? pUrNa jIvana? kitI varSa, kitI divasa. kitI tAsa, kazyAprakAre sudharela he sarva? praznakartA : mAhIta nAhI malA. dAdAzrI : haM... mhaNUna tara sudharata nAhI nA! khare tara donaca divasatara sudhArAyace Ahe. eka tara varkiMga De (kAmAvara jANyAcA divasa) ANi dusarA, holI De (suTTIcA divasa). sakALapAsUna saMdhyAkALaparyaMta he donaca divasa sudhArAyace Aheta. hyA donhImadhye pheraphAra kelA mhaNaje sarvAta pheraphAra hoIla. doMghAcIca seTIMga (Ayojana) kelI kI maga bAkI sarva tyA pramANe cAlela. ANi tyAnusAra cAlalyAvara tara sarva nITa hoIla. lAMba lacaka pheraphAra karAyacAca nAhI. he sarva paNa kAhI dararoja pheraphAra karata nAhIta. hyA donhImadhye seTIMga karAyacI Ahe. hyA dona divasAcI vyavasthA kelI kI tyAta sarva divasa samAvaleta. praznakartA : hI seTIMga kazI karAvI? dAdAzrI : kA? sakALI uThalAta tara uThalyAvara jyA bhagavaMtAce smaraNa karAyace asela te karUna ghyAve. eka tara sakALI lavakara uThaNyAcI paddhata ThevalI pAhije. kAraNa kI mANasAMnI sAdhAraNa pAca vAjatA uThAyalA have. tyAta ardhAtAsa svata:cyA ekAgratece sevana karAyalA have. koNI iSTadeva vagaire je koNI asatIla, tyAMcI bhaktI paNa ardhAeka tAsa karAvI. mhaNaje maga rojaca cAlela ase. naMtara maga uThUna braza vaigere sarva karUna ghyAve. braza karaNyAcI paNa zista asAvI. ApaNa svata:ca braza ghyAve ANi svata:ca karAve, itara koNAlA sAMgU naye. AjArI asAla tevhAcI goSTa vegaLI Ahe. naMtara maga cahA-pANI yeNAra. tyAta kaTakaTa nAhI karAyacI, je kAhI samora yeIla te piUna ghyAve. sAkhara kamI asela tara cahA pilyA naMtara tyAMnA sAMgAve kI, sAkhara jarA kamI hotI, udyApAsUna

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108 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra jarA jAsta ghAlA. tumhAlA tyAMnA phakta sAMgAyace Ahe. bhAMDaNa karU nakA. cahAsobata nASTA-vagaira je kAhI karAyace asela te karUna maga jevaNa karUna kAmAvara jAyace. jevaNa karUna kAmAvara vara gelAta kI tithale kartavya pUrNa karA. gharUna kaTakaTa kelyAzivAya nighA. maga jaoNba varUna parata yAve. jara jaoNba vara baoNsasobata bhAnagaDa jhAlI asela, tara tI rastyAtaca zAMta karUna ghyA. hyA brenacA (DokyAce) ceka naTa garama jhAlA asela tara to naTa dAbUna dyA. ANi zAMtapaNe gharI yA, arthAta gharAta kAhI bAcAbAcI karu nakA. tumhI baoNsabarobara bhAMDatA tyAta bAyakocA bicArIcA kAya doSa? tujhe baoNsabarobara bhAMDaNa hote kI nAhI? praznakartA : hote nA! dAdAzrI : maga tyAta bAyakocA kAya doSa? tithe bhAMDaNa karuna AlA asAla, tara patnI samajUna jAte kI svArI Aja cAMgalyA mUDamadhye nAhI. tevhA mUDamadhye nasatA nA? praznakartA : ho. dAdAzrI : arthAt azI vyavasthA ekA divasAcI karUna dyA, varkiMga De cI. ANi dusarI holI De cI. donaca prakArace divasa yetAta. kAmAcA ANi suTTIcA tisarA kuThalA divasa yetaca nAhI nA? arthAta dona divasAMcI yojanA kelI kI maga tyA pramANe cAlata rahANAra. praznakartA : AtA suTTIcyA divazI kAya karAve? dAdAzrI : suTTIcyA divazI nakkI karAve kI Aja suTTIcA divasa Ahe mulaM-bALa, patnI, sarvAMnA phirAyalA miLata nAhI mhaNUna jevaNAnaMtara tyA sarvAMnA phirAyalA gheUna jA. suTTIcyA divazI chAna chAna jevaNa banavA. jevaNA naMtara phirAyalA gheUna. phiraNyAcyA kharcAcI maryAdA ThevAvI kI holI DecyA divazI itakAca kharca! ekhAdyA veLesa eksTrA (jAsta) kharca karAvA lAgalA tara ApaNa bajeTa banavU, nAhItara itakAca kharca. ase sarva tumhI nakkI kele pAhije. vAIphakaDUnaca tumhI TharavUna ghyAyace.

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pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra 109 praznakartA : he sAMgatAta kI gharI pUraNapoLI khAllI pAhije. pijhjhA khAyalA bAhera nako jAyalA? dAdAzrI : khuzAla puraNapoLI khA, DhokaLe khA, jilebI khA, sarva kAhI khA. je AvaDate te sarva khA. praznakartA : paNa haoNTelamadhye pijhjhA khAyalA jAU naye? dAdAzrI : pijhjhA khAyalA?! te tumhI kase khAU zakatA? ApaNa tara Arya prajA. tarIhI rucI asela tara dona tIna veLA khAU ghAlUna naMtara haLU haLU soDavA. haLU haLU soDavA. ekadama baMda kelAta tara te cukIce Tharela. tumhI dekhIla tyAMcyAbarobara khAyalA lAgA ANi naMtara haLU haLU soDavA. praznakartA : bAyakolA ase padArtha banavaNyAcI AvaDa nasela tara ApaNa kAya karAve? dAdAzrI : tumhI AvaDa badalUna TAkA. dusar2yA bar2yAcazA vastu Aheta ApalyAkaDe. AvaDa badalUna TAkA. rAI ANi methIcI phoDaNI AvaData nasela tara dAlacinI ANi kALImirIcI phoDaNI dayAyalA sAMgA. mhaNaje maga caviSTa lAgela. pijhjhyAta khANyAsArakhe Ahe tarI kAya? arthAt seTIMga karAla tara saMpUrNa jIvana suraLIta jAIla ANi sakALI ardhA tAsa devAcI bhaktI karAla tara sarva kAhI vyavasthita cAlela. tulA tara jJAna miLAle, mhaNaje tU tara AtA zahANA jhAlAsa. paraMtu jyAMnA jJAna miLAle nAhI, tyAMnI thoDI bhaktI karAyalA havI nA! tujhe tara AtA sarva vyavasthita cAlale Ahe nA! he 'akrama vijJAna' vyavahArAlA kiMcitamAtra bAdhArUpa hota nAhI. pratyeka 'jJAna' vyavahArAcA tIraskAra karata asate. he vijJAna vyavahArAcA kiMcitahI tiraskAra karata nAhI svata:cyA 'riyAliTI' madhye saMpUrNa rAhUna vyavahArAlA tiraskArata nAhI! vyavahArAcA tiraskAra nAhI hIca siddhAMtika vastU Ahe. siddhAMtika vastU kazAlA mhaNatAta tara je kadhIhI asiddhAMtika rityA pariNamana karata nAhI. tyAsa siddhAMta mhaNatAta, asA koNatAhI koparA

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110 pati-patnIcA divya vyavahAra nAhI kI jo asiddhAMtika ase. arthAt he 'riyala sAyansa' Ahe, 'kamplITa sAyansa' Ahe. vyavahArAlA kiMcitamAtra tiraskArata nAhI! __ koNAlA kiMcitahI duHkha hoNAra nAhI, yAsa zevaTacI 'lAiTa' mhaNAve. virodhakAlA hI zAMtI hoIla. tumacA virodhakahI zevaTI ase bolela kI 'bhAU, hyAMcyAta ANi mAjhyAta jarA matabheda Aheta, paraMtu tyAMcyAsAThI malA cAMgalI bhAvanA Ahe, Adara Ahe! virodha tara hotAtaca. virodha tara nehamI rAhaNAraca Ahe. 360 DigrIta ANi 356 DigrItahI virodha hotoca! taseca hyA sarvAMta suddhA virodha tara hotoca. ekAca DigrIvara sarva manuSya yeU zakata nAhIta. ekAca vicAraNasaraNI vara sarva manuSya nAhI yeU zakata. kAraNa kI manuSyAcyA vicArasaraNIcyA caudA lAkha yonI Aheta. sAMgA AtA, ApalyAlA kitI eDajasTa hoU zakatIla? amukaca yonI eDajasTa hoU zakatAta, sarva nAhI hoU zakaNAra! ___ gharAtIla ApalA vyavahAra suMdara karAyalA havA. patnIlA manApAsUna ase vATU lAgela kI ase (uttama) patI kadhIca miLaNAra nAhIta. ANi patIlA suddhA manApAsUna ase vATela kI azI (uttama) patnI kadhIca miLaNAra nAhI asA hizoba jara juLavUna ANalA tara maga ApaNa samajAve kI ApaNa khare Tharalo! praznakartA : ApalyA AdhyAtmika goSTI tara evaDhyA utkRTa Aheta kI tyAya kAhI bolANyAsArakhe nAhIca paNa vyavahArAta suddhA Apale bolaNe agadI 'TaoNpa' ce Ahe. dAdAzrI : ase Ahe nA, kI TaoNpacA vyavahAra samajalyAzivAya koNI mokSAlA gele nAhI. have titake, bArA lAkhAce AtmajJAna aso, paraMtu vyavahAra samajalyAzivAya koNIhI mokSAlA gele nAhIta! kAraNa kI vyavahAraca soDavaNArA Ahe nA? vyavahArAne tumhAlA soDale nAhI tara tumhI kAya karAla? tumhI 'zuddhAtmA' AhAtaca, paNa vyavahAra soDela tevhA nA? tumhI vyavahArAcIca guMtAguMtI karata rAhatA na. tyAcA jhaTapaTa nivADA ANA nA! jaya saccidAnaMda

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