Adarsh Kanya

Author(s): Amarmuni
Publisher: Sanmati Gyan Pith Agra
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/003413/1

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amara sanma ti jJA na pI Tha.. AgarA BODeationate For ivatePARonakuse. Onls ww jainelibrary.org

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sanmati sAhitya ratnamAlA kA 10vA ratna - - - - - Adarza kanyA lekhaka upAdhyAya amaramuni sanmati jJA na pITha, AgarA

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pustaka : Adarza kanyA lekhaka : upAdhyAya amara muni prakAzaka : sanmati jJAnapITha lohAmaNDI AgarA-2 prathama san 1950 1100 dvitIya ,, 1954 1100 tRtIya , 1958 2 100 caturtha ,, 1962 2200 paMcama ,, 1965 2200 SaSTama ,, 1968 5200 saptama ,, 1976 3000 aSTama , 1979 3000 na bama ,, 1982 3000 dasam ,, 1985 2200 gyAraha ,, 1988 5200 bArahavA~,, 1994 5200 mudraka : manoja priTiMga presa ahIra pAr3A, rAjAmaNDI, AgarA-2 mUlya : 7.00 (sAta rupaye)

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kisako? una putriyoM ko, jinameM abhI sundarasaMskAra ke boja par3e nahIM haiM, par3a gae haiM, to aMkurita nahIM hae haiM, aMkurita bhI ho gae haiM, to lahalahAe nahIM haiM, lahalahA bho gae haiM, to phUla nahIM Ae haiM, phUla bhI A gae haiM, to phala nahIM Ae haiM, vaha bho A gae haiM, to una phaloM meM rasa nahIM par3A hai| rasa bhI par3a gayA hai, to mIThA rasa nahIM par3a pAyA- unhIM svatantra bhArata ko svatantra aura jAgaraNa-zIla putrayoM aura sunAriyoM ke hAthoM meN| 00

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dUsarI kalama se bhAratIya-saskRti ke mUla svara ko dhvAna pUrvaka sunA jAe, to spaSTa sunAI degA ki nArI pUjya hai, bhagavatI hai, ArAdhya hai aura annapUrNA hai| mAnava-saMskRti kA vaha mUla' boja hai| aura mAnavatA kA vaha mUlabIja hai aura mAnavatA kA mUlAdhAra bhii| Aja kI nAro AtmA kI jar3oM meM phira se usI dhrava dhAraNA ko aMkurita aura pallavita karane ke lie hI AdarzabanyA nAmaka prastuta laghu-nibandha pustaka taiyAra kI gaI hai| yaha pustaka Aja bahuta varSa pahale prakAzita kI gaI thii| taba se aba taka isake bAraha saMskaraNa ho cuke haiN| isa kAlAvadhi ne nibandhoM ko kucha dhUmila-sA kara diyA thaa| aura kucha-kucha kharadugapana bhI paidA kara diyA thaa| ata: unheM inaH savArA sajAyA gayA hai| prastuta prakAzana ko kanyAoM ke lie upayogI banAne kA jitanA prayAsa kiyA jA sakatA thA, kiyA hai| phira bhI prakAzana kaisA hai, yaha pAThakoM ke nirNaya kI cIja hai, aura sabase bar3I cIja hai, una bahanoM ke pasanda kI, jinake lie yaha saba kucha kiyA hai| omaprakAza jaina mantrI sammati jJAna pITha lohAmaNDI, AgayA-2

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anukrama viSaya 1. vicAra-vaibhava ! 2 satya hI bhagavAna hai ! 3. vinaya kA camatkAra ! 4. samaya kI parakha ! 5. asvacchatA pApa hai ! 6. kalaha dUSaNa hai ! 7. aparigraha Avazyaka kyoM! 8. Adarza nArI kauna ! 9. viveka kA dIpaka ! 10. vastu-vyaya paddhati 11. Atma-gaurava kA bhAva ! 12. vyavasthA kI buddhi ! 13. zIla svabhAva! 14. manuSya kA zatru : Alasya 15. nArI kA gaurava lajjA ! 16. saralatA aura sarasatA ! 17. prema ko virATa zakti ! 18. haMsI-dillagI! 16. daridranArAyaNa kI sevA ! 20. koyala ke mIThe bola !

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o 21. bahmacarya kA teja ! 22. bhaya, mana kA ghuna hai ! 23. hRdaya andhakAra : nindA ! 24. vilAsa vinAza hai ! 25. nArI kA pada : annapUrNA ! 26. mAnavatA ke ye amRta kaNa ! 27. ye haiM tapa kI paribhASAe~ ! 28. Adarza sabhyatA! ur or u. . D

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Adarza kanyA - - A~khoM meM ho teja, teja meM satya, satya meM RjutA / vANI meM ho oja, oja meM vinaya, vinaya meM mRdutaa| -upAdhyAya amara muni

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prastuta lekha meM manuSya ke vicAroM ko eka virAT zakti mAnA hai aura lekhaka kA dRr3ha vizvAsa hai ki agara Apake pAsa vicAra zakti hai, to duniyA~ kI hara muzkila, hara vakta AsAna hai| - - vicAra-vaibhava manuSya vicAroM ke dvArA hI saMkIrNatAoM se Upara uThatA hai, aura vicAroM ke dvArA hI saMkIrNatA ke aMdha-kUpa meM yA garta meM giratA hai| vicAra hI utthAna kA mArga hai, aura vicAra ho patana kaa| vicAroM ke dvArA hI manuSya sataha ke Upara tairatA hai, aura vicAroM ke dvArA hI atala meM pahu~ca jAtA hai| manuSya patana ke mArga se bacakara calatA hai, to vaha bhI vicAroM kI mahAzakti ke mAdhyama se hI / ___ kalpanA kIjie, eka vyakti hai aura vaha dukAna para baiThA hai| mAlika abhI-abhI uThakara kahIM calA gayA hai / usakA mana huA ki galle meM se kucha paise uThA lU ! para tatkSaNa vicAra AyA, nahIM !! yaha kAma anaitikatA hai, corI hai, aparAdha hai ! kisI vyakti ne niyama liyA huA hai, ki rAtri meM bhojana nahIM karUMgA / parantu kabhI mana ho AyA thor3A khA pI liyA jAya, to kyA harja hai ? bar3hiyA mAla hai ! khAne ko tatpara hotA hai, hAtha bhI Age bar3ha jAte haiM, parantu tabhI vicAroM kA karaMTa lagA aura vaha ThiThaka gyaa| socane lgaa| niyama maiMne dUsaroM ko dikhAne ke lie thor3e hI liyA hai| niyama, apano ImAnadArI aura saccAI ke lie hotA hai| dUsaroM kI A~khe detA haiM

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2 : Adarza kanyA to amuka kArya na kiyA jAya - yaha vrata nahIM hai, dambha ho sakatA hai ! chala ho sakatA hai ! para satya nahIM / hA~ to vicAra jIvana kA vaibhava hai / basa vaibhava se hama apanI rakSA kara sakate haiM / vicAra zakti : uparyukta donoM udAharaNoM se hama isa nizcita mata para pahu~ce haiM, ki mAnava jIvana ke nirmANa meM vicAroM kA bahuta bar3A sthAna hai / vicAroM kI zakti bhApa aura bijalI se bhI bar3I hai, virATa hai, vyApaka hai | Apako patA hI hai- isa dvitIya vizva yuddha meM paramANu zakti ko kitanA mahatva milA hai ? isa sambandha meM jApAna meM girAe gaye paramANu bama kA udAharaNa suprasiddha hI hai / parantu vicAra zakti ke Age to paramANu bama kI zakti bhI phIkI par3a jAtI hai / Akhira paramANu zakti kA patA kisane lagAyA ? manuSya kI vicAra-zakti ne hI to ! to yaha siddha huA, ki vicAroM kI zakti bahuta bar3I hai / manuSya ko apanI isa mahAna zakti para bahuta adhika dhyAna rakhane kI AvazyakatA hai / jisa prakAra saMsAra meM prApta kI jAne vAlo koI bhI zakti, bhalAI aura burAI donoM meM hI prayukta kI jA sakatI hai, isI prakAra vicAra bhI donoM ora hI apanA kArya barAbara karate haiM neka vicAra manuSya ko U~cA uThAte haiM, aura bure vicAra nIce girAte haiN| isalie unnati patha ke pratyeka pathika ko, cAhe puruSa ho yA nArI - saccI salAha yahI hai, ki vaha apane hRdaya kI tijorI meM sundara vicAroM kA saMgraha kreN| # acche vicAra : maiM isa pustaka kI pAThaka putriyoM se bhI kahanA cAhatA hU~, tuma apane vicAroM kI prabala zakti ko vyartha naSTa na hone do / apane

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vicAra-vaibhava:3 vicAroM para niyantraNa kro| jaba bhI ho acche vicAroM ko sthAna do / bure vicAra mana meM adhika samaya taka sthAna pA jAte haiM, to phira unako nikAlanA asambhava-sA ho jAtA hai| bure vicAra adhika samaya taka mana ko bhUmi meM par3e raheMge, to samaya kA pAnI unako milatA rahegA aura unakI jar3e majabUta hotI jAe~gI / jisa vRkSa kI jar3eM gaharI jama jAtI hai, to vaha sthAyitva pA jAtA hai| phira usa vRkSa kA ulmUlana kaThina ho jAtA hai / ___ dayA, prema, vinaya, komalatA Adi zubha vicAra haiN| ina vicAroM ke dvArA cirakAla se prasupta mAnavatA udbuddha ho jAtI hai / ataH prema vinaya, aura saujanya ko lahalahAtI hariyAlI mAnava mAtra kA mana moha letI hai| vicAroM meM dRr3hatA: ____ kAyara yoddhA yuddha karane se pahale yaha socatA hai ki yadi meM zatru se ghira gayA, to idhara se bhAga jAU~gA, udhara se khisaka jAU~gA / aura jo vIra hai, vaha bhAgane kA vikalpa taka nahIM krtaa| usake sAmane to eka hI dRr3ha saMkalpa hotA hai --zatru ko parAsta kara dUMgA / jIvana bho eka samara bhUmi hai, yuddha kSetra hai / kAyara yoddhA ko taraha yadi Apake mana meM dRr3hatA-vihIna vivAra cakkara kATa rahe hoMge, to usa avasthA meM phira nizcita hI hai, ki Apa jIvana ke kSetra meM yuddha nahIM kara sktii| tumhArA kAma dvitIya vIra yoddhA kI taraha lakSya sthira karanA hai, aura phira usa lakSya kI paripUrti ke lie apanI sArI zakti lagA denI hai| zubha karma karate hue bAdhAe~ tA AyeMgI hii| rukAvaTeM apanA mArga bhI avaruddha kareMgI hii| parantu yadi Apake vicAra meM dRDhatA hai, to saMsAra kI bhArI se bhArI zakti bhI ApakA mArga avaruddha

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4 : Adarza kanyA nahIM kara sakatI haiN| vighnoM kI bar3I-bar3I caTTAneM bhI cUra-cUra ho jaaeNgii| una vicAroM kA mUlya hI kyA hai, jo Apake apane nizcayoM se DigA deN| saMkalpa dRr3ha hI kyA hue, jo bA~dhI meM tinake ke samAna ur3a jaaeN| tyAga aura tapa kI dRr3hatA aura satya kI pratimUrti mahArAnI sItA kA jIvana to tumane par3hA hI hogA ? jisa samaya mahArAnI sItAjI ne apane pati mahArAja rAmacandrajI ke sAtha bhayAnaka vana meM jAne kA dRr3ha saMkalpa kara liyA thA, usa samaya unako vana kI kitanI hI bhayaMkara yAtanAe~ batalAI gaIM, parantu ve apane nizcita saMkalpa se maNamAtra bhI vicalita na huii| bana meM gaIM, bhISaNa saMkaTa sahe, adhika kyA, rAkSasarAja rAvaNa kI kaida meM bhI rahI, para kyA majAla, jo mana meM jarA bhI kSobha ho jAe, satya se patita ho jAya / unhoMne apane vicAroM ko bahuta dRr3ha kara liyA thA, aura yaha nizcaya kara liyA thA ki cAhe prANa bhale hI cale jAe~, parantu maiM apane uddezya se aNumAtra bhI vicalita nahIM houuNgii| ___tuma sItA ke hI pavitra deza kI lAr3alI suputriyA~ ho / ata:: tumheM bhI apane zubha vicAroM meM dRr3hatA kA bhAva rakhanA cAhie Ajakala tuma vidyA par3ha rahI ho, ata: isa samaya yaha nizcita zubha saMkalpa karo, ki cAhe kucha bhI ho, kaisI bhI sthiti kyoM na hoM, hama vidyA-adhyayana meM kabhI bhI pIche nahIM haTeMgI, antima sImA para pahuMca kara hI vizrAma leNgii| yaha hI nahIM, itanA hI nahIM, bhaviSya meM bhI jo satkArya hoM apanA aura para kA kalyANa karane vAle kAma hoM, una sabake lie bhI saMkalpa kI pUrNa dRr3hatA apane hRdaya meM rakho / dekhanA, kahIM sAhasa bIca meM hI na bhaMga ho jAya / saMgati kaisI? aba yaha prazna hai ki, sundara aura zubha vicAra prApta kaise kie

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vicAra-vaibhava : 5 jAeM ? zubha vicAra uttama saMgati se aura,utama pustaka par3hane se prApta hote haiN| manuSya jaisI sagati ma rahatA hai, vaise hI usaka vicAra hAta haiM / phira vaha saMgati, cAha manuSya kI hA, cAhe pustakoM kaa| ____ apane vicAroM ko pavitra Ara utama vanAne ka lie sadA saccaritra suzAla kanyAoM ka sAtha rhaa| jaba kabhA avasara mila, ghara ko bar3I-bUr3hI striyA ka pAsa baiThakara unasa uttama zikSAe~ laa| gA~va meM jaba kabhA gurudeva A jAya, tA unaka pravacanAdi sa bho lAbha utthaao| jaba kabhI sAdhvojA mahArAja AeM to yathAvasara unaka pAsa bhI jAA aura jJAna prApta karA / isaka viparAta bure svabhAva bAAlI AcaraNahIna lar3AkayoM se bacA ora jo striyA~ jhagar3AlU evaM nindA, burAI karane vAlI ho, unase bhI dUra rhaa| sAdhutva ke bheSa meM phirane vAle pAkhaNDI puruSoM sa bhI sAvadhAna rho| patA nahIM, kaba burI saMgati se utpanna bure vicAra tumhAre mana meM ghira Ae~ / eka bAra bhI bure vicAra A gae, to bhale vicAroM ko dabA leMge, unameM dUSaNa padA kara deMge, aura sadA ke lie apanA Asana jamA leNge| tumane kabhA dekhA hAgA thor3I sI khaTAI bhI bahuta sAre uttama dUdha ko phAr3a DAlatA hai / sadava bhalI sagAta ma rahane se hI manuSya ke vicAra acche Ara pAvana hAta hai / ApakI saccI saheliyA~ : zubha vicAroM kA prApta karane kA dUsarA sAdhana acchI pustaka haiM / uttama pustakeM jIvana meM bahuta bar3e jJAna kA prakAza detI hai| pustakeM mUka adhyApikAe~ haiM, jo na kabhI mAratI hai, na kabhI jhir3akatI haiM, na jhujhalAtI hai, kintu cupacApa acchI-acchI zikSAe~ detI rahatI haiN| putriyoM ! tuma acchI cunI huI pustakoM ko bhI apanI sahelI bnaao| jaba kabhI samaya mile, koI acchA sA kisI

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6 : Adaza kanyA satI kA jIvana caritra, mahApuruSoM kA jIvana caritra, yA saMtoM kA dharmopadeza vAlI pustakeM lekara baiTha jAo, tumheM avazya hI zubha vicAroM kA prakAza milegaa| acchI-accho pustakoM se acchoacchI bAteM noTa karo, aura unako AcaraNa meM lAne kA abhyAsa kro| ApakA jIvana avazya hI unnata, pavitra aura maMgalamaya ho jaaegaa| upasaMhAra : kauna manuSya kaisA hai ? yaha usake bAhya raMga rUpa aura jAti Adi se nahIM AMkA jA sakatA / pratyuta usake vicAroM se hI patA lagAyA jA sakatA hai, ki kauna kitanA saccA tathA caritravAna hai / ata: manuSya ko parakhane kI yaha kasauTI hai ki jaise unake vicAra hoMge, vaisA hI unakA AcaraNa bhI hogaa| __ acchI pustakoM se saMgraha kiye gae vicAra, vicAroM kA vebhava hai ! yaha vicAra-sampatti Apake jIvana ke aMdhere, ujAle meM hara samaya kAma Ane vAlI hai|

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satya kI mazAla Apake jIvana ke adhere-ujele ke, sA~jha sakAre ve hara morce para kAma AyegI ! isa lekha meM yaha siddha hai ki satya mAnaH jIvana ke lie sA~soM ke samAna hai Avazyaka hai| satya ho bhagavAna hai satva eka mazAla hai| satya eka zakti hai / satya hI sUrya hai aura satya hI bhagavAna hai / satya jIvana kI jyoti hai / satya jovana patha kA prakAza stambha hai / mAnava, aMdhakAra se bacane ke lie prakAza cAhatA hai / satya, jhUTha ke andhakAra se bacane ke lie prakAza hai, mazAla hai / satya, manuSya ko prakAza ke patha para agrasara karane vAlI zakti hai / sUryodaya hotA hai,to aMdhakAra ekadama samApta ho jAtA hai| prAtaHkAla tumane dekhA hogA, sUrya pUrNatayA AkAza meM AtA bhI nahIM hai, aura usake Ane se kAphI pahale hI aMdhakAra naSTa honA prArambha ho jAtA hai| isI prakAra satya kA sUrya jaba hRdayAkAza para udaya hotA hai, to asatya kA, jhUTha kA aMdhakAra bhI satya se bolane kA saMkalpa karate hI naSTa honA prArambha ho jAtA hai / sUrya se jaise aMdhakAra dUra bhAgatA hai, isI prakAra satya se jhUTha bhI dUra bhAgatA hai / satya kA mahatva : satya ko jaina-dharma ne atyadhika mahatva diyA hai / zRmaNa bhagavAna mahAvIra ne apane Apako bhagavAna kahalAne kA kabhI Agraha nahIM kiyA, unhoMne lo Aja se bagabhaga paccIsa sau varSa pahale kahA thA ____

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8 : Adarza kanyA vastutaH saccA bhagavAna satya hI hai --"taM sacca khu bhagavaM" hamAre ArAdhyadeva bhagavAna kA kahanA akSarazaH satya hai / satya patha kA pathika banakara hI to manuSya bhagavAna banatA hai| mAnava se mahAmAnava banatA hai| satya vaha bhagavAna hai jo apane upAsakoM ko bhagavAna banA detA hai, vaha bhagavAna hI kyA, jo apane bhaktoM ko apane samakakSa sthAna pradAna na kara sakA, to usakI udAratA hI kyA rahI ? sAdhAraNa mAnava se mahAmAnava kI udAratA bhI to mahAna hI honI cAhie bhagavAna mahAvIra ne AcArAMga sUtra meM kahA hai"jo sAdhaka (vyakti) satya kI AjJA meM calatA hai, vaha mRtyu para vijaya prApta kara letA hai / mRtyu para vijaya prApta karanA hI-to bhagavAna bananA hai| satya kA vyAvahArika rUpa : ___ tuma jAnatI ho, satya kise kahate haiM ? jaisA dekhane va sunane meM Aye use vaisA hI aura utanA hI kahanA satya hai / ataH jo bAta jaisI aura jitanI ho, use vaisI aura utanI hI kahanI caahie| apanI ora se raMga lagAkara yA bar3hA-car3hAkara kabhI koI bhI bAta nahIM kahanI cAhie / yadi tumheM bhalI aura sughar3a lar3akI bananA hai tathA sabako dRSTi meM sammAnita honA hai, to asatya kabhI mata bolo| jhUTha bolakara bhUla chipAne kA kabhI prayatna nahIM karanA cAhie / bhUla to choTe-bar3e sabhI se hotI hai, para svIkAra kara lenA bar3I bAta hai| jhUTha se jhUTha bar3hatA hai : __jhUTha se jhUTha bar3hatA hI hai, ghaTatA nahIM / jhUTha bolane para tumhArA eka aparAdha DhaMka bhI gayA to kyA huA? isa taraha to eka bAra

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satya hI bhagavAna hai jhUTha bolakara Age tuma jhUTha bolane kI paramparA hI DAla logI aura jhUTha kA abhyAsa bar3hatA jAyegA / jyoM-jyoM tumhArA jhUTha bar3hegA, tyoMtyoM tumhArA vizvAsa logoM ke dila se uThatA jaaegaa| agara tumane kisI kA jhUThA nAma lagA diyA, to samajha lo doharA jhUTha ho gayA / satya bolane se AtmA sadA prasanna rahatI hai / satya ke upAsaka ke citta meM kisI prakAra kI khinnatA aura duHkha nahIM hotA / satya bolane vAlA sadA nirbhaya rahatA hai / jhUThA vyakti yaha socakara bhayAtura rahatA hai ki merA jhUTha kahIM prakaTa na ho jAya / satyavAdI ke mukha para apUrva teja camakatA hai ora Asa-pAsa ke saba logoM meM vizvAsa bho bar3hatA hai / saMsAra ke jitane bhI kAma haiM, saba paraspara ke vizvAsa se hI calate haiM / jisane satya bolakara janatA se vizvAsa pAyA, usane saba kucha pAyA, satya bolane kI saba jagaha pratiSThA hotI hai, usakA koI bhI kAma kabhI nahIM rukatA / satya kI sIkha : pyArI kanyAo ! tuma sadA satya bolA karo / jo lar3akiyA~ jhUTha bolane vAlI hotI haiM, unakA kAI vizvAsa nahIM karatA / saba lAga unako ghRNA kA dRSTi se dekhate haiM aura jA kanyAeM satya bAlato hai unakA mAtA-pitA Adi bar3e bhI vizvAsa karate haiM, sAtha hI saheliyoM meM bhI unako sammAna milatA hai, pAsa par3ausa ke saba loga unakI prazaMsA karate haiM / aura unase dUsarI choTA lar3akiyo kA bhI zakSA milatI hai / tumane jhUTha bolane vAle gar3ariye kI kahAnI to sunI hI hogI ? jaba vaha lar3akA jaMgala meM bher3eM carAne jAtA to logoM ko ha~sI majAka karane ke lie jhUTha meM hI cillA uThatA thA - " logoM daur3oM-daur3A

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10 : Adarza kanyA bher3iyA A gayA / bacAo ! bacAo !" khetoM meM kAma karane vAle kRSaka bhAgakara use Apatti se mukta karane kI bhAvanA se jAte aura usase pUchate kahA~ hai bher3iyA? to vaha khilakhilA kara haMsa pdd'taa| isa prakAra usane anekoM bAra kisAnoM ko parezAna kiyaa| eka bAra sacamuca hI bheDiyA A gyaa| vaha cillAyA, para saba logoM ne isake isa satya ko bhI jhUTha samajhA aura koI bhI usa kI surakSA ke lie nahIM aayaa| phalata: vaha apanI jarA-sI jhUTha bolane kI pravRti ke kAraNa hI apane jIvana se hAtha dho baiThA ! jindagI kho baiThA / yaha kahAnI yaha zikSA detI hai ki, jhUTha bolakara agara jarA-sI dera ke lie apanA kAma banA bhI liyA, manovinoda kara bhI liyA to kyA huA? kAMTha kI haMDiyA eka bAra hI cUlhe para car3ha sakatI hai jhaTha bahuta kama hI jindA rahatA hai ajara-amara to satya hI hai| jisake pAsa satya hai, use bhaya hI visa bAta kA ho sakatA hai ? satya sAkSAt bhagavAna hI hai|

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kaThora anuzAsana ke dvArA naukara se bhI mana icchita kArya nahIM karAyA jA sakatA / hRdaya jIta lene kA eka hI upAya hai aura vaha upAya hai-vinaya, vinaya guNa jIvana ke hara morce para DhAla kA kAma kara Apako vijayI banAye ! yaha vizvAsa . hRdaya meM sthira kara jaga se yaza kI mAlA pahanie / vinaya kA camatkAra vinaya kA artha bar3oM kA Adara karanA hai| parantu vinaya kA saMkucita artha na kara, jarA vyApaka artha kareM to 'namratA' hai / namratA manuSya kA eka mahAna U~cA guNa hai aura nArI-jAti ke lie to yaha bahuta hI Avazyaka guNa hai / vaha jahA~ bhI rahegI, naraka jase ghara ko svarga banA degii| namratA kA camatkAra : namra vyavahAra aura namra vacana kise priya nahIM ? namratA se zatru bhI mitra bana jAte haiN| purAne itihAsoM se jAnA gayA hai,ki namratA ke dvArA bar3e se bar3e krUra aura jhagar3AnU manuSya bhI anAyAsa hI vaza meM kara lie gae haiN| namra strI ghara bhara meM apanA zAsanA calAtI hai, aura sabako prasanna rakhatI hai| saba parivAra usake kahane meM calatA hai / ataH namratA jAdU kA sA asara rakhatI hai|

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12 : Adarza kanyA prema ko cumbaka zakti! __ abhimAna bar3I bhayaMkara cIja hai| apane ko dhanI sundara, catura aura guNI samajhanA abhimAna hai, aura yaha sAre parivAra ke sukhamaya jIvana ko caupaTa kara detA hai| kanyAoM kA kartavya hai ki apane Apa ko abhimAna ke roga se bacAe~ abhimAna karane vAlI lar3akiyA~ hamezA tanI rahatI haiM, muMha phulAe rahatI haiM, kisI se sIdhe muMha bola tI bhI nahIM / abhimAnI lar3akiyA~ kisI se bhI apanA madhura aura sneha kA sambandha nahIM rakha sakatI, yaha samajhanA ki maiM abhimAna ke dabAva se sabako dabA lUMgI, bilkula bhUla hai| Ajakala kisI para kisI kA ghamaNDa nahIM cltaa| aura to kyA, naukaracAkara bhI vyartha kA abhimAna sahana nahIM kara skte| prema ke dvArA naukara se dasa kAma jyAdA karAe jA sakate haiN| DA~Ta aura abhimAna koI bhI sahana karane ko taiyAra nahIM hai| isalie kahA jAtA hai"prema cumbaka zakti hai / isake dvArA hara insAna ko apane saMketa para calAyA jA sakatA hai|" __ bahuta se strI-puruSa samajhate haiM ki - "ghara ke naukara aura naukarAnI para to kaThora zAsana karanA hI cAhie, anyathA ve gambhIratA se kArya nahIM kreNge| yaha ThIka hai, naukaroM ke sAtha jarA gambhIratA se kAma lenA caahie| parantu yaha gambhIratA aura cIja hai, aura lar3anA-jhagar3anA dUsarI cIja hai| buddhimati aura tejasvI gRha-deviyA~ kA upa zabdoM prayoga kiye binA hI jaisA acchA gRha-zAsana kara sakatI haiM, utanA bAta-bAta para lar3ane-jhagar3ane aura vivAda karane vAlI striyo se nahIM ho sktaa| namratA aura ugratA namratA kA upadeza isalie nahIM hai, ki tuma namratA karate-karate kAyara aura bujadila' bana jaao| namratA aura kAyaratA meM bar3A ___

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vinaya kA camatkAra : 130 1 bhArI antara hai / kabhI-kabhI Apatti ke samaya striyoM ko ugrabhAva bhI dhAraNa karanA par3atA hai| jaba kisI durAcArI aura gunDe se vAstA par3e to vahA~ Atma-sammAna kI rakSA ke lie ugratA se kAma lenA caahie| jaina dharma ahiMsA aura dayA kA bahuta bar3A pujArI hai / vaha jIvana meM namratA va komalatA ko bahuta mahatva detA hai / parantu : vaha yaha kabhI nahIM kahatA, ki koI bhI strI, durAcArI aura asabhya guNDoM ke sAtha bhI namratA kA vyavahAra kare, unako bAjijI kare / " AkramaNakArI nIca guNDo ko ugratA se daNDa denA hI cAhie, aura aisA daNDa denA cAhie, ki ve sadA ke lie sAvadhAna ho jAyeM, phira kabhI kisI strI se anucita harakata na kareM / upasaMhAra : anil bhArata kA gaurava, jAti para avalambita hai / hamAre deza kI kanyAe~, jaba eka sAtha hI lakSmI, sarasvatI aura durgA kA rUpa dhAraNa kareMgI, tabhI deza kA kalyANa hogA / bhAratIya kanyAe~, namratA ke kSetra meM itanI namra hoM, ki ghara aura bAhara sarvatra unakI komalatA kI sugandha phaila jAya aura samaya para guNDoM ke sAmane itanI kaThora bho hoM, ki atyAcArI aura durAcArI thara-thara kA~pane lageM / namratA aura vIratA kA yaha madhura mizraNa hI bhAratIya nArI kA yuga-yugaH taka kalyANa karatA rahegA / D

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/ jo ghaTanA, jo dRzya, jo citra atIta ke parde ke pIche eka bAra le jAte haiM, unheM lAkha prayatna karake bhI manuSya ina carma-cakSuoM ke sammukha na lA skegaa| ataH samaya kA mUlya AMkane kI kalA isa lekha dvArA Apako prApta hai, mUlyAMkana kiijie| samaya kI parakha samaya anamola vastu hai / saMsAra kI anya saba vastuoM kA mUlya AMkA jA sakatA hai, parantu Aja taka samaya kA mUlya na kabhI huA hai, aura na kabhI bhaviSya meM hogA hii| samaya kA mUlya taba hotA jaba ki vaha kisI dUsare padArtha ke badale meM mila sakatA hotaa| samaya kA prabhAva: __samaya vegavAna pravAha hai, aura vaha avirAma gati se baha rahA hai / vaha eka kSaNa ke lie bhI nahIM ruka sktaa| saMsAra meM aneka zaktizAlI mahApuruSa ho gaye haiM parantu aisA koI nahIM huA, jisane samaya ko sthira rakhA ho, rAke rakhA ho, jAne na diyA hA / bhagavAna mahAvIra kA jaba pAvApurI meM nirvANa ho rahA thA, to svarga ke indra ne Akara kahA thA-"bhagavAna kucha dera ke lie jIvana bar3hA liijiye| ApakI Ayu ke kSaNa gujara rahe haiN| inheM jarA-sA dara ke lie roka lojie|" bhagavAna ne uttara diyA thA-'devarAja, yaha asambhava hai| samaya kI gati ko rAkA nahIM jA sktaa| jAvana samApta hone ko hai, maiM use nahIM bar3hA sakatA, nahIM bacA sakatA ! saMsAra kA koI bhI zaktizAlo puruSa yaha asambhava kAma nahIM

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samaya kI parakha : 15 kara sktaa|" vastutaH bhagavAna mahAvIra kA kahanA pUrNa satya hai / samaya kyA hai aura vaha kaise jAtA hai, isakA patA mRtyu ke samaya para lagatA hai| usa samaya sasAra kI sArI sAmagrI aura dhana dene para bho adhika to kyA eka kSaNa bhI nahIM bar3hAyA jA sakatA, rokA nahIM jA sktaa| hA~, to samaya anamola vastu hai isase jitanA bhI lAbha uThAyA jA sake, uThA lo samaya ruka nahIM sakatA hai, vaha calA jaayegaa| jo lAbha usase uThA liyA jAyegA, vahI hAtha me bava rhegaa| bhagavAna mahAvIra kahate haiM-''jo dina-rAta gujarate jA rahe hai| kabhI vApasa lauTakara nahIM A sakate / parantu jA satkAya karatA hai, dharmArAdhana karatA hai, usakA vaha samaya saphala ho jAtA hai / isaka viparIta jisane adharma kiyA hai, samaya ko yoM hI vyatha ke kAryoM meM kharca kiyA hai, usakA vaha samaya niSphala ho gayA hai|" samaya kA sadupayoga : tuma abhI lar3akI ho| ataeva mana lagAkara vidyA pddh'o| khelakUda meM samaya naSTa karanA mUrkhatA haago| aba tuma par3ha lAgo, to bhaviSya meM tumhAre kAma aaygaa| anyathA jIvana bhara kA pachatAvA rhegaa| phira yadi tuma cAhogI, ki par3ha lA / to nahIM par3hA jaaegaa| gayA huA bacapana kahIM lauTakara AtA hai ? par3hane ke lie bacapana ke samaya se bar3hakara dUsarA koI sundara samaya nahIM hotA / tuma dekha sakatI ho-tumheM dharma kI acchI pustake par3hate dekhakara bahuta sI bar3I-bUr3hI striyA~ kisa prakAra pachatAvA karato haiM,-'hama to mUrkha hI raha gaIM, par3ho nhiiN| agara hama par3hI hotI, to Aja bekAra na par3I rahatIM / acche-acche dharmagrantha pddh'tii| aba sunane ke lie bhI dUsaroM kA muMha tAkanA par3atA hai, phira bhI bahuta sI bAteM acchI

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16 / Adarza kanyA taraha samajha meM nahIM aatii|" putriyo ! tuma ina vRddhAoM kI bAtoM se zikSA lo aura apane samaya kA kSaNa bhI vyartha na jAne do| ghar3I kI suI kI taraha eka-eka minaTa ke lie bhI niyamabaddha hokara kAma kro| bahuta sI lar3akiyoM aura striyoM samaya kI kadara nahIM jAnatIM / ve vyartha hI khATa tor3atI rahatI hai, gapazapa mArA karatI haiN| samaya bitAne ke lie muhalle kI striyoM ko bulA letI haiM, yA svayaM unake pAsa pahuMca jAtI haiM / cAra-pA~ca ikaTThI hokara AlocanA Arambha karatI haiM, to basa phira kyA, samUce gAMva bhara ke strI-puruSoM kI AlocanA kara DAlatI haiN| kisI meM kucha doSa nikAlanA, kisI meM kuch| eka tuphAna khar3A kara detI haiN| Apasa kI jhUThI-saccI nindA bAI se mana aura jihvA donoM ko vyartha hI apavitra karane meM patA nahIM, unheM kyA Ananda AtA hai ? aura jaba isa mahilA-mahAsabhA kI riporTa bAhara jAtI hai, to gA~va ke zAnta parivAroM meM mahAbhArata kA-sA yuddha Thana' jAtA hai| jinakI nindA burAI kI gaI hai| bhalA ve kaba cupa baiThane vAlI haiN| nA samajha striyA~ vyartha hI muhalle meM kalaha ke bIja bo detI haiN| yaha hai, samaya kI kadara na karane kA duSpariNAma / yaha hai, Apasa kI gapazapa kA bhayaMkara phala ! durguNa nahIM AyeMge : putriyo ! tuma svayaM catura ho apanA saba hitAhita samajha sakatI ho / samaya cintAmaNi ratna hai, tuma isase mana cAhA phala pA sakatI ho / samaya para vidyA par3ho, samaya para dharmArAdhana karo, samaya para dAna karo, paropakAra karo samaya para ghara meM kisI bImAra kI sevA zuzrUSA karo, samaya para choTe bAla baccoM ko kahAnI sunAkara acchI zikSA do, samaya para ghara meM bar3I-bUr3hI striyoM ko koI dhArmika

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samaya kI parakha 17 pustakeM sunaao| matalaba yaha hai, ki - " khAlI na baiTho, kucha na kucha satkarma karatI raho / " jIvana meM kAma bahuta hai, samaya thor3A hai / ataH dina-rAta barAbara prayatnazIla rahakara hI manuSya samaya kA sadupayoga kara sakatA hai / eka pala bhI vyartha khonA, eka amUlya kohenUra hIre ke khone se bhI bar3hakara hAnikAraka hai| sIne-pirone Adi ke choTe-se-choTe kAma bhI sadAcAra ke sUtra haiN| bekAra samaya meM to Alasya, durvicAra Adi ghera lete haiM / satat kriyAzIla jIvana ke samaya una durguNoM ko Ane kA kabhI sAhasa hI nahIM hotA /

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binA jAne vinA samajhe hI kucha logoM ne dhAraNA banA lI hai, ki jaina dharma gandA rahanA sikhAtA hai| yaha lekha isakA samyak spaSTIkaraNa kara yaha kahatA hai-asvacchatA pApa hai, aura zArIrika va mAnasika donoM hI asvacchatA se bacanA cAhie / yaha jaina-dharma kA mUla / svara hai| asvacchatA pApa hai 'asvacchatA' kA artha gandagI hai / jo manuSya asvaccha rahatA hai, gandA rahatA hai, vaha bhayaMkara bhUla karatA hai| asvaccha rahane se manuSya ke svAsthya kA bhI nAza hotA hai, aura dUsare sAthiyoM ke svAsthya ko bhI hAni pahu~catI hai| jisa manuSya kA svAsthya naSTa ho gayA, samajha lo, vaha eka prakAra se dharma se bhI bhraSTa ho gyaa| isalie jaina dharma meM asvacchatA ko eka durguNa va pApa mAnA gayA hai| batAie, rogI manuSya kyA dharma kara sakatA hai ? asvacchatA se vacie : asvacchatA do prakAra kI hotI hai -mAnasika aura zArIrika apane mana tathA AtmA ko vikAroM se azuddha rakhanA, mAnasika asvacchatA hai aura zarIra tathA Asa-pAsa kI vastuoM ko gaMdI rakhanA, zArIrika asvacchatA hai / manuSya ko donoM hI asvacchatAoM se bacakara rahanA cAhie / mAnasika asvacchatA ko dUra karane ke lie nimna bAtoM para khAsa taura se lakSya rakhanA cAhie

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asvacchatA 5. krodha na karanA ! 2. lobha na karanA ! 3. chala na karanA ! 4. ghamaNDa na karanA ! 5. corI na karanA ! 6. jhUTha na bolanA ! 7. kuvicAra na karanA ! 8. vizvAsaghAta na karanA ! 6. kisI ko nindA na karanA ! 10. moha na karanA Adi, Adi ! dUsarA nambara zarIra kI svacchatA kA hai| isa para bhI bahuta adhika lakSya rakhanA cAhie / jana-dharma jahA~ mAnasika svacchatA para jora detA hai, vahA~ zArIrika svacchatA para bhI jora detA hai| jo loga kahate haiM ki jaina dharma meM gandA rahanA batAyA gayA hai, ve abhI taka jaina-dhama ko tanika bho na par3ha pAye haiM / jana-dharma jaisA svacchatA aura viveka para jora dene vAlA dharma hai, vaisA dUsarA koI dharma nahIM / zArIrika asvacchatA ko dUra karane ke lie nIce likhI bAtoM para khAsataura se lakSya rakhanA caahie| 1. hAtha-muMha zarIra ye gande nahIM rakhanA ! 2. sira gandA nahIM rakhanA ! 3. vastra, ghara, A~gana gandA nahIM rakhanA / bichaunA gandA nahIM rakhanA ! pAnI binA chAnA nahIM pInA ! chalanA gandA, phaTA huA nahIM rakhanA ! 7. ATA bahuta dinoM kA nahI rakhanA ! 8. zAka vagairaha bahuta dinoM ke nahIM khAne !

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20 : Adarza kanyA 6. bhojana bAsI nahIM khAnA ! 10. bartana gande aura dhUla se bhare hue nahIM rakhanA ! 11. bhojana adhika nahIM lenA, jUThana nahIM DAlanA Adi ! 12. pAkhAnA hamezA sApha rakhanA ! svarga aura naraka: tuma gRha-lakSmI ho| tumheM ghara meM devI ke samAna hI svaccha aura pavitra rahanA cAhie / jo catura nAriyAM, zarIra tathA Asa-pAsa ke padArthoM kI svacchatA para barAbara dhyAna detI haiM, ve apanA aura parivAra Adi sabakA maMgala karatI haiM / inake viparIta jo asvaccha rahatI haiM, Asa-pAsa kI vastuoM ko gandA rakhatI haiM, ve apane ko tathA parivAra ko dukhI karatI haiM / itanA hI nahIM, nirdoSa par3osiyoM taka ko bhI taMga karatI haiN| asvacchatA kA burA pariNAma saba par3osiyoM ko, kabhI-kabhI to sAre gA~va taka ko bhoganA par3atA hai| haijA, plega Adi ke bahuta se chuta sambandhI roga asvacchatA ke hI kuphala haiM / dekhie eka manuSya kI jarA-sI asAvadhAnI se vyartha hI asaMkhya jIvoM kI hiMsA ho jAtI hai| hA~ to, asvacchatA naraka hai aura svacchatA svarga / svacchatA se prema karane vAlI kanyAe~, deza ke lie maMgala kAriNI deviyA~ pramANita ho sakatI haiN|

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kalaha ke kAraNa prema kI kar3iyA~ | TUTa-TUTakara gira rahI haiN| bar3e ghara va acche ghara kI beTiyoM ko cAhie una kar3iyoM ko jor3a deM! prema ke paudhe lagAkara ujar3I phulavArI kI zobhA bar3hA deM! zobhA var3hane kA AsAna tarIkA isa lekha se Apako mila jaayegaa| kalaha dUSaNa hai Aja ke bhAratIya parivAra, dina-pratidina durbala aura durbalatara hote jA rahe haiM / Aja ke parivAroM kI prema zRMkhalA majabuta nahIM rahI / prema kI kar3iyA~ TUTa-TUTa kara anudita gira rahI haiN| pArivArika bhAvanAe~ samApta prAyaH hotI jA rahI haiM, ve pahale jale hare-bhare phalate-phUlate ha~samukha parivAra kahA~ ? vaha purAnA svargIya jIvana Aja kevala svapna banakara hI to raha gayA hai| vaha kauna-sA roga hai, jisake kAraNa hama dina-pratidina chojate jA rahe haiN| bhAratIya parivAroM kI jar3oM meM koI bhayAnaka kIr3A avazya lagA huA hai jo isa prema ko khokhalA kara dharAzAyI banAne kA prayatna kara rahA hai / vaha roga, vaha kor3A aura koI nahIM, ekamAtra Apasa kI kalaha hai, jo Aja hamAre sarvanAza kA kAraNa bana rahA hai| kalaha mAnava jAti kA sabase bar3A dUSaNa hai| zAnti Avazyaka kyoM? manuSya ke lie zAnti hI sabase bar3A guNa hai / hA~ to, tuma kaise

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02 : Adarza kanyA hI uttejanA ke vAtAvaraNa meM kyoM na ho, parantu apanI zAnti naSTa na hone do ! yadi tumane jarA bhI apane Apako zAnti se alaga kiyA, to dekha lenA, tumhAre parivAra meM kalaha Asana jamA legI aura Apasa meM prema rUpI kalpa vRkSa ko kSaNa bhara meM jalAkara rAkha kara DAlegI / kaba taka koI Aga ko Dha~kakara rakha sakatA hai ? Aga ko kitanA hI chipAo, phira bhI usakI camaka to bAhara nikalegI hI TIka isI prakAra hRdaya kI durbhAvanAe~ bhI kabhI chipa nahIM sakatI | AsapAsa ke kAraNoM ko lekara hRdaya meM jo aneka prakAra kI durbhAvanAe~ ikaTThI ho jAtI haiM, ve hI bar3hakara kalaha kA rUpa dhAraNa karatI haiM aura eka hare bhare tathA sukhI parivAra ko naSTa-bhraSTa kara DAlatI haiM / basa, apane hRdaya ko sApha rakho, hRdaya meM kisI kI ora se maila na jamane do, phira tumheM kalaha naSTa nahIM kara sakegA / zuddha hRdaya meM kalaha utpanna hI nahIM ho pAtA / hRdaya ko zuddha rakhane ke lie zAnti Avazyaka hai / kalaha ke kAraNa sArA parivAra DA~vADola ho jAtA hai aura pratyeka vyakti ke mukha para udAsInatA aura kaThoratA chA jAtI hai ghara meM se prasannatA aura ha~sI-khuzI ekadama gAyaba ho jAtI hai / jo strI kalaha karatI hai, usase koI bhI prasanna nahIM rahatA / saba loga usase baca kara rahate haiM, aura to kyA usase koI bolanA taka bhI nahIM cAhatA / bacce bhI usase Darakara rahate haiM / vaha jidhara bhI calI jAtI hai, caNDI kA bhayAnaka rUpa dhAraNa kara letI haiM, aura zeranI kI taraha babakAratI hai, ghara bhara meM eka tahalakA macA detI hai / putriyo ! tumheM Age calakara ghara kI rAnI bananA hai / isalie abhI se apane Apako khUba acchI taraha saMbhAla kara rakkho / Apasa ke kalaha se sarvathA dUra rho| mAtA, pitA, bhAI, bahina jo AjJA deM,

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kalaha dUSaNa hai : 23 khuzI-khuzI jhaTa-paTa pAlana kro| agara kabhI tumhArA kahanA na mAnA jAe, to lar3o mata / premapUrvaka apanI bAta manavAne kA prayatna kro| sAtha hI saheliyoM se hamezA milajula kara raho, kabhI bhI Apasa meM jhagar3A na karo / nAro ghara kI rAnI hai : binA nArI ke ghara, ghara nahIM kahalAtA / vaha bhayaMkara zmasAna hai, jisameM nArI kA sAmrAjya nahIM ! binA nArI ke ghara meM ramaNIyatA, sarasatA aura prema kahA~ mila sakatA hai ? parantu nArI ke lie yaha U~cA pada vahana karanA hI bahuta kaThina hai / bahuta-sI nAriyA~ kalaha ke kAraNa svarga ke se ghara ko naraka banA detI haiN| dina bhara unake kalaha kA bAjAra garma rahatA hai / kisI se lar3atI haiM, kisI kI zikAyata karatI haiM, jarA-jarA-sI bAta para muMha car3hA letI haiM, khAnA-pInA chor3a detI haiM, gAliyA~ detI haiM, aura tAnA mAratI haiM / prema se prema milatA hai : tuma abhI ghara meM putrI aura bahana ke rUpa meM ho| tumhAre bhAI kI patnI bhAbhI tumheM sahelI ke rUpa meM milI hai bhAbhI ke sAtha bahuta prema ke sAtha hila-mila kara rho| nanada kA pada, bhAbhI ke sAtha sAthIpana kA hai, sahAyatA pahu~cAne kA hai, khuza rahane kA hai, aura prema se do bAta kahane kA hai taMga karane kA nahIM / bahuta-sI lar3akiyA~ apanI mAmI se bahuta jhagar3A karatI haiM, gAliyA~ detI haiM, bAta-bAta para usakA tiraskAra karatI haiM, aura ghara meM bhAI Adi se zikAyata karatI haiN| bhAbhI ko bhUkhI aura kaMgAlI batAnA tathA parihAsa meM phUhar3a kahanA, bilkula anucita hai| tuma samajhatI ho, bhAbhI ne tumhAre ghara meM janma nahIM liyA hai / parantu dekho vaha bhI kahIM se bahana aura putrI ke rUpa meM rahakara hI to tumhAre yahA~ bahU banakara AI / nayA ghara hai, nayA parivAra hai, nayA vAtAvaraNa hai,

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24 : Adarza kamyA ataH tumase usako sahAyatA milanI cAhie, yA tiraskAra ? samajhalo, tumako bhI dUsare ghara meM jAnA hai, kisI kI bhAbhI bananA hai ? tuma vahA~ kyA karogI? jaba tumhArI nanada ke dvArA tumhArA apamAna hogA, taba tumheM kitanI pIr3A hogI ? jo jaMsA karatA hai, vaisA pAtA hai / tumheM bhI apanI karanI kA phala jarUra milegA ! bhAbhI kI bAta para lambA likhane kA yaha abhiprAya hai- ki prAyaH lar3akiyA~ lar3ane-jhagar3ane kI Adata bhAbhI se hI prArambha karatI haiM, ataH prArambha se hI isa durguNa se bacane kA prayatna karanA cAhie / saMsAra kA yaha niyama hai- prema se prema milatA hai aura dva eSa kI pahacAna : striyA~ prAyaH kAnoM kI kaccI huA karatI haiN| jhUThI saccI kucha bhI kisI ke sambandha meM suna letI haiM aura usI para vizvAsa kara letI haiM, phalataH ghara meM premI se premI vyakti ke sAtha bhI jhagar3A karane ko taiyAra ho jAtA haiM / parantu yAda rakkhA, jo loga tumase kisI kI zikAyata karate haiM aura tumase cikanI-cupar3I bAta banAte haiM, to samajha lo ve tumhAre mitra nahIM, zatru haiM / unakI bAtoM meM kabhI mata AA / jhUThI zikAyata karane vAlI striyoM se sAvadhAna hokara raho / ve tumako krodha me pAgala banAkara tumhAre ghara kA tamAzA dekhanA cAhatI haiM / kalaha varjita hI hai J : bahuta-sI striyoM kA yaha svabhAva hotA hai, ki ve apane doSoM ko chipAne ke lie athavA apane Apako nirdoSa pramANita karane ke lie bhI jhapar3A karane para utArU ho jAtI haiM, ve samajhatI haiM, ki jhagar3A karane se hI loga hamako nirdoSa samajheMge / unakA vizvAsa zatru

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kalaha dUSaNa hai : 25 hai, ki jhagar3A karake ho hama apanA gaurava aura pratiSThA kAyama rakha sakeMgI, parantu yaha unakI bhayaMkara bhUla' hai / loga buddhi-hIna nahIM haiM, jo vAstavikatA ko na samajha sakeM / yadi vastutaH tumane koI doSa kiyA hI nahIM hai to phira kyoM jhagar3atI ho ? satya avazya prakaTa hokara rahegA, aura yadi tumane bAstava meM koI doSa kiyA hI hai, taba bhI jhagar3ane se kyA lAbha ? jhagar3ane se tuma saccI kabhI nahIM ho sakatI, pratyuta kalaha karane ke kAraNa ghara vAloM kI A~khoM se aura adhika gira jaaogii| kalaha karane se kisI kI pratiSThA nahIM bar3hatI / yaha nizcita samajho, ko zAnti se manuSya ko jitanI pratiSThA hotI hai, utanI aura kisI se nahIM / yaza phailAo: adhika kyA kahA jaae| satya kA dharma thor3e se zabdoM meM hI sIkha lenA cAhie / bhale hI thor3I bahuta hAni ho, usako sahale parantu usake lie jhagar3A kabhI bhUla kara bho mata kr| / kalaha se tumhArA prema-pUNa svargIya saMsAra naSTa hA jAegA / zAnti se kalaha para vijaya prApta kro| zAnta aura suzIla nArI hI sasAra meM suyaza prApta karatI hai| nArA lakSmI kA avatAra kahalAtI hai| vaha nahara meM, sasurAla meM, nanihAla meM aura dUsare riztedAroM ke yahA~ vahA~-jahA~ kahIM bhI jAegI, vahA~ prema aura zAnti kI sugandha mahakAtI rhegii| prema se tumhArA jIvana suvAsita ho jAegA, to yaza kI sugandha apane Apa vikIrNa hogii| prema se yaza bar3hatA hai| jyoMjyoM prema bar3hatA hai, yaza ke kSetra meM manuSya adhikAdhika gaharA utaratA hai|

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manuSya kI icchAeM ananta haiM, una sabakI pUrti asambhava hai / icchAeM pUrNa na hone se manuSya dukhI haiMicjAeM caina nahIM lene detI haiM / darzana zAstra ke manasvI vicAraka manijI kA kahanA hai- sukha icchA pUrti se nahIM, santoSa se hI sambhava hai / suvodha zailI meM unake vicAra par3hie, Apako mIThe dUdha kI-sI miThAsa aaegii| aparigraha Avazyaka kyoM ? aparigrahavAda kA siddhAnta, vaise to bahuta gambhIra evaM vyApaka hai / usakI saba bArIkiyAM to purAne dharma-graMthoM ke adhyayana se hI kI jA sakatI hai| parantu tuma abhI baccI hI ho, ataH na tumheM itanI gambhIratA meM utaranA hai aura na abhI isakI itanI AvazyakatA hI hai| hAM, isakI rUparekhA tumheM batalAI jA rahI hai, AzA hai, tuma isa para hI calane kA prayatna karogI aura apane ko sukhI banA skogii| ____manuSya sukha cAhatA hai, yaha nirvivAda hai / ataH aba isa bAta kA patA lagAnA hai, ki sUkha hai kyA cIja? jaba hama sukha kI paribhASA saMsArI padArthoM ko lekara karate haiM. to yaha ThIka nahIM rhtii| kyoMki hama dekhate haiM, ki vibhinna manovRtti ke kAraNa kisI ko koI cIja sukhakara mAlUma hotI hai, to kisI ko koI dukhakara / parantu bhagavAn mahAvIra ne sukha kA vAstavika lakSaNa batAyA hai, ki-"saccA sukha apanI icchAoM ko kama karane meM hai ?' icchAoM

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aparigraha Avazyaka kyoM ? : 27. kA nirodha aparigraha kI maryAdA se ho sakatA hai. ataH aparigraha Avazyaka hai| - acchA tuma saMsAra meM jarA yaha patA lagAo, ki saba loga kyA cAhate haiM ? tuma dhyAna lagAkara saMsArI jIvoM kI gatividhi kA nirIkSaNa-parIkSaNa karogI, to tumheM patA lagegA, ki saMsAra meM saba loga sukha cAhate haiM / kyA koI jIva du:kha cAhatA hai ? nahIM, kabhI nhiiN| lAbha aura lobha meM daur3a : jisa manuSya kI jitanI hI icchA bar3hI huI hogI, vaha utanA hI sukha-hIna hogA / dhana-sampatti, makAna, koThI, kAra, ghor3A, bAga, bagIcA Adi ke mila jAne para hameM sukha mila jAyagA, jo loga yaha samajha baiThe haiM, ve bhUla meM haiM ? manuSya maryAdA-hIna hokara jitane bhI paira phailAtA jAegA, utanI hI apane lie bhI aura dUparoM ke lie bhI azAnti bar3hAtA jAegA / tumane dekhA hai, agni meM jyoM-jyoM ghAsa-phUsa aura lakar3I DAlate jAte haiM, vaha tyoM-tyoM adhikAdhika bar3hatI jAtI hai / kyA kabhI adhika-se-athika lakar3I pAkara Aga kI bhUkha bujhI hai ? mana kI bhI yahI dazA hai / usakI jitanI icchAe~ pUrI karo, vaha utanI hI aura bar3hatI calI jaaeNgii| mana binA taTa kI jhIla hai / kinArA ho to eka dina usake bharane kA svapna bhI pUrA ho jaae| jisakA ki nArA hI nahIM, bhalA, vaha kaba bharegA? bhagavAna mahAvIra ne kahA hai-"sone cA~dI ke lAkhoM pahAr3a bhI lobhI manuSya ke mana ko saMtuSTa nahIM kara sakate / icchA AkAza ke samAna ananta haiM, na vaha kabhI bharI hai aura na kabhI bhara skegii|" ataH isa prakAra jyoM-jyoM lAbha hogA tyoM tyoM lobha bar3hegA / lAbha aura lobha kI daur3a meM manuSya hAratA hai|

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28 : Adarza kanyA saccA sukha kahA~ hai ? sukha-zAnti kA saccA mArga apanI icchAoM aura AvazyakatAoM ko kama rakhane meM hai / jisako jitanI icchAeM kama hoMgI, vaha utanA hI adhika sukhI aura zAnta raha sakegA / bhagavAn mahAvIra kA aparigrahavAda yahI kahatA hai / manuSya ko cAhie, ki vaha apanA rahanasahana sodhA-sAdhA banAe / sIdhA-sAdhA rahana-sahana sukha-zAnti kA mula hai / sodhe-sAde rahana-sahana kA artha hai--ve kama se kama AvazyakatAe~, jo sAdhAraNa-se-sAdhAraNa avasthA meM bhI bhalI-bhA~ti pUrNa ho sake / AvazyakatAoM ko kama karanA hI saccA sukha hai| sarva-prathama bhojana ko AvazyakatA para niyantraNa karane kI jarUrata hai| bahuta se loga caTapaTe aura mazAledAra bhojana karane ke Ado ho jAte haiN| yadi unake bhojana meM khaTAI, mirca aura mazAle na par3e hoM, to phira unase bhojana ho nahIM diyA jaataa| ve lAga peTa kalara bhAjana nahIM karate, varan jIbha ke lie bhAjana karate haiM / kabho-kabhI to bhojana ke pAche ghara meM lar3AI bhI ho jAyA karatI hai| yaha bhI kyA jindagI hai ki manuSya kabhI kar3I to, kabhI narama do roTiyoM ke lie lar3e aura eka dUsare ko bhalAburA kheN| bhojana ke lie jIvana : tumheM yAda rakhanA cAhie ki khaTAI aura mirca-mazAledAra bhojana nAnA prakAra ke roga utpanna karatA hai| dUSita bhojana se AkheM kamajora ho jAtI haiM / medA bigar3a jAtA hai| zarIra hara vakta rogI rahane lagatA hai / bhojana to zarIra ko svastha aura sabala rakhane ke lie hai, tAki svastha zarIra ke dvArA dharma-sAdhanA bhalI-bhA~ti viveka pUrvaka kI jA sake / bAjAra ko cATeM svAsthya ko caTa kara jAto

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aparigraha Avazyaka kyoM ? : 26 haiM, aura miThAiyoM kA caTorapana to bar3A hI kharAba hai / loga isa khAne-pIne kI cIjoM ke phera meM par3a jAte hai, ve hara taraha se barvAda ho jAte haiM / unakA sArA jIvana khAne kI dhuna meM hI samApta ho jAtA hai / mAnava jIvana kA koI bhI mahatvapUrNa kAma unase nahIM ho pAtA / kyA nyotA khAne vAle mathurA ke paMDoM ko tumane nahIM dekhA ? ve sivAya bhojana karane ke aura kisI kAma ke nahIM rahate ataH hamArA jIvana bhojana ke lie nahIM hai, apitu jIvana ke lie. projana hai / -nArI ke cinha : tuma bhArata kI deviyA~ ho, Age calakara tumheM apane ghara meM gRhalakSmI bananA hai / bhojana ke caTapaTepana ke phera meM par3akara tuma saccI ha-lakSmI nahIM bana sakatI / bhojana meM hamezA sAdagI kA dhyAna kho| ghara meM jaisA bhI rUkhA-sUkhA bhojana banA ho, prasannatA ke sAtha upayoga meM lAo / sAdhAraNa bhojana pAkara nAka-bhauMha car3hAnA acchI ta nahIM hai / isa prakAra anna kA apamAna hotA hai| kisI dUsare ke hA~ bhojana karane jAo jo jaisA bhI mile Ananda pUrvaka upayoga meM Ao yAda rakho, jo kabhI kisI ke bhojana kI nindA aura nuktA nI karatA hai, vaha kabhI AdhyAtmika dRSTi se U~cA nahIM uTha katA / bhagavAn mahAvIra ne 'bhakta kathA' karanA pApa batalAyA hai ka-kathA kA artha hai - "bhojana kI acchAI aura burAI ke nirNaya ke e svAda kI dRSTi se nuktA cInI karanA / " bhojana meM hara prakAra sAdagI kA niyama rakhanA, su-nArI kA sarva prathama cinha hai / | kisa lie haiM : dUsarA nambara vastroM kA hai / vastroM meM jitanI sAdagI rakhoge

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30 : Adarza kanyA utanI hI tuma sukhI rhogii| bahuta se gharoM meM sundara ora mUlyavAna vastroM ke lie striyAM kalaha macAyA karatI haiN| ve sadA apane ghara ke logoM kI tar3aka-bhar3akadAra rezamA aura caTakIle vstr| ko kharIdane ke lie majabUra kiyA karatI haiN| na svayaM caina se rahatI haiM na dUsaroM ko hI caina lene deto haiM to phira bhalA, kalaha ke sivAya aura kyA honA hai ? ___ tuma par3hI-likho viduSI ho tumheM bahuta kImatI aura tar3aka 'bhar3akadAra kapar3o ke phera meM nahIM par3anA caahie| kyA banArasI sAr3I ke binA gujArA nahIM ho sakatA? kyA pApalIna hI tumheM sundA banAegI? kyA nAilona aura TerAlIna hI tumhArI sundaratA bar3hA egii| kyA rezamI vastroM ke binA tuma janatA kI A~khoM meM hI samajhI jAogA? yaha bahuta hatkA khyAla hai| ise jitanA bhI zoghrata se tyAga sako, tyAga do / manuSya kA vAstavika gaurava usake aka gaNoM para hai / yadi guNa hai, to sAde khaddara ke vastra pahana kara manuSya ucita Adara pA sakatA hai aura yadi guNa nahIM hai, to rezA vastra pahanakara kapar3oM kI gur3iyA~ mAtra hI bana jAAgo, aura kyA balki kabhI-kabhI to yaha ha~sA ora majAka kA kAraNa bana jAtI hai vastra to kevala zarIra ko sadoM-gamoM se bacAne ke lie tathA laja nivAraNa ke lie pahane jAte haiM, na ki dUsaroM kA apanI tar3aka-bhar3a dikhAne ke lie| karmaTha jovana kA cinha : vastra moTe aura khaddara ke hI kyoM na hoM parantu ve hone cAhie sApha aura suthare / saundarya komatI vastroM meM nahIM hai vaha hai, vara kI svacchatA aura pavitratA meM / bhAratIya svatantratA ke yuddha hajAroM U~ce gharoM kI deviyoM ne sAdhAraNa khaddara ke vastra pahana /

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aparigraha mAvazyaka kyoM : 31 satyAgraha meM bhAga liyA thA / tuma dekhatI ho-unakI kitanI pratiSThA huI hai / jaina dharma to sodhe-sAde vastroM ke paridhAna ko hI karmaTha jIvana kA pavitra cinha samajhatA hai / sukha tyAga meM hai : aparigraha kA saccA mAdarza to jIvana kI pratyeka sAsArika AvazyakatAoM meM apane ko sAmita karanA hai / kyA gahane, kyA dhana, kyA makAna, kyA naukara-cAkara, kyA tA~gA-moTara, kyA vastra, sarvatra bahuta kama icchAeM rakhanA / bilkula sAdago ke sAtha jIvana bitAnA hI aparigrahavAda kA ucca Adarza hai / jaina dharma kA yaha aparigrahavAda ho to saMsAra meM sthAyI zAnti kA zilAnyAsa karane vAlA hai| jitano icchAeM kama hoMgI, utanI hA mAMga kama hoNgii| jitanI mA~geM kama hoMgI, utanI hI unakI pUrti ke lie cAlabAjiyA~ kama hAMgo, Ara jitako cAlabAjiyAM kama hAMgI, jovana utanA hI sarasa, sarala, eka-dUsare kA vizvAsI hogA aura jahA~ aisA jIvana hogA, vahA~ mAnava-ekatA apane Apa vistRta rUpa dhAraNa kara legii| jaina-dharma kA yaha nArA kabhI asatya nahIM ho sakatA. ki "sukha tyAga meM hai|"

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nArI ke jIvana ko Adarza-jIvana banAne vAle sadguNoM kA citraNa par3hiye ! - - - - Adarza nArI kauna ? jo saundarya ko nahIM, zIla kI upAsikA ho, jisako sAja zRgAra se nahIM, sa svacchatA se prema ho, - vahI Adarza nArI hai| tyAga kI akhaNDa jvAla! aura sevA kI bhAvanA jisake jovana ke, kaNa-kaNa meM, ota-prota ho, -vahI Adarza nArI hai - - mana para, vacana para, tana para, jisakA kaThora niyantraNa ho, jisake zarIra ke kaNa-kaNa para sadAcAra kA akhaNDa teja jhala'katA ho, -vahI Adarza nArI hai| jisake hRdaya-kamala meM, dayA kA amRta ho, jisake mukha kamala' meM, madhura satya kA amRta ho, jisake komala kara kamala meM dAna kA amRta akhaNDa dhArA se pravAhita ho; -vahI Adarza nArI hai| jo prema aura sneha kI jIvita mUrti, madhuratA kI zItala gaMgA, | jo vajra se bho kaThora | aura kUla se bhI komala ho. jo vipatti meM bana banakara aura | sampatti meM phUla banakara, al ___ ww

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Adarza nArI kauna ? 33 darzana detI ho, dhIratA aura komalatA kA yaha abhinaya saMgama, jahA~ ho --vahI Adarza nArI hai pAkhaMDa ke bhrama meM phaMsakara, jo devI-devatAoM ke, nAma para, jahA~-tahA~ IMTa-patthara, pUjatI na phirato ho, jisake ekamAtra, zrI vItarAga arihanta deva hI satya bhagavAna ho, ArAdhya deva ho, jisako apane satkarma, aura sadAcAra para, akhaNDa vizvAsa ho, -vahI Adarza nArI hai ! jaba bole, bahuta thor3A bole parantu usI meM, sarasaamRta barasA de ! jisakI vANI ke, akSara-amara meM, prema aura sneha kA sAgara namaDe, kyA bUr3he, kyA bacce, kyA choTe, kyA bar3e, kyA apane, kyA parAye, jo saba para, apane madhura paricaya ko, akhaNDa amiTa, chApa DAla de, -vahI Adarza nArI hai| jIvana aura maraNa, jisake lie khela ho, svapna meM bhI jisaka, bhaya kA sparza na ho, svarga kA indra bho, jisako apane dharma se, vivalita na kara sake, tathA

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34 : Adarza kanyA jo deza, dharma, aura satItva para, haMsa-haMsa kara, balidAna ho sake, -vahI Adarza nArI hai ? mAdarza nArI kI, pratiSThA to, saralatA aura, sAdagI meM hI hai ! dIpaka kI, jagamagAtI jyoti ne, kauna-se, | vastrAbhUSaNa pahane haiM ? jIvana meM, teja cAhie, teja! jisakA pratyeka zabda, viveka se aMkita ho ! | jisakA pratyeka kArya, viveka meM parilakSita ho| ghara kI pratyeka vastu, jisake viveka kI, camaka kA, mUka paricaya de rahI ho, -vahI Adarza nArI hai !

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nAnA prakAra kI avidyAoM aura saMkalpa-vikalpoM ke andhakAra ma par3A manuSya, apane patha se bhUla-bhaTaka jAtA hai| isa bhUla-bhulaiyA se bacana ke lie manuSya ko prakAza caahie| vaha "viveka ke dIpaka' meM hai| yaha dIpaka jIvana ke aMdhere meM, ghane aMdhere meM, aura jhuTapuTe meM saba jagaha kAma degaa| viveka kA dIpaka jaina-dharma meM viveka ko bahuta bar3A mahatva diyA gayA hai| viveka dharma kA prANa hai / jahA~ viveka hai, vahA~ dharma hai / jahA~ viveka nahIM, vahA~ dharma nahIM / zAstroM meM viveka zUnya manuSya ko pazu ke samAna batalAyA hai / na vaha ahiMsA pAla' sakatA hai, aura na satya kI hI ArAdhanA kara sakatA hai, tabhI to bhagavAn mahAvIra ne AcArAMgasUtra meM kahA hai-"dharma viveka meM hai|" pApa se bacane kI kalA : .. putriyo ? tuma gRhastha jIvana meM sakriya bhAga lene vAlI nArI ho| tumheM adhika se adhika viveka aura vicAra se kAma lenA caahie| ghara kA pratyeka kAma viveka aura vicAra se karo / viveka, pApa se bacane kI eka mahAn kalA hai| kisI bhI kAma meM pramoda aura masAvadhAnI rakhanA aviveka kA sUcaka hai| viveka rakhane vAlo nArI mahasthI ke dhandhoM meM bhI vizeSa hiMsA se baca sakatI hai aura kabhIkamo to hiMsA ke sthAna meM ahiMsA kA mArga bhI khAja nikAlatI

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36 : Adarza kanyA hai| bhagavAn mahAvIra ne aise hI viveka-zIla jIvana ke sambandha meM kahA hai-"vivekI sAdhaka pApa ke sAdhanoM ko bhI dharma ke sAdhana banA sakatA hai, aura avivekI sAdhaka dharma ke sAdhanoM ko bhI pApa ke sAdhana banA letA hai|" viveka kA vyAvahArika rUpa : viveka ke lie sarba-prathama jala-ghara (pareMDA) para lakSya rakhane kI mAvazyakatA hai| pAnI ke ghar3e yA kalaza bahuta sApha aura pavitra rahane cAhie / pAnI ke kalaza yadi barAbara na dhoye jAeM aura yoM hI gande par3e rahe, to jovotpatti hone kI sambhAvanA hai| ghar3hoM meM pAnI binA chanA kabhI nahIM bharanA caahie| binA chanA pAnI jana-dharma kI dRSTi se niSiddha hai| pAnI meM aneka sUkSma jantu hote haiM / binA chAne pAnI ke upayoga karane se sUkSma jantuoM kI hiMsA kA pApa hotA hai| pAnI chAnate samaya yadi koI jIva nikale to unako yoM hI nahIM DAla denA cAhie, pratyuta jalAzaya Adi ke sthAna meM hI DAlane kA viveka rakhanA caahie| jala-ghara kA sthAna bilkula sApha rakhanA caahie| jala-ghara ke pAsa kUr3A kacarA aura dhala rahane se kAI ho jAtI hai| jala ghara ke Upara makar3iyoM ke jAle na lagane pAeM, isake lie pahale se hI nirantara sAvadhAna rahanA cAhie / ghar3oM se pAnI nikAlane kA aura pAnI pone kA pAtra, alaga-alaga honA cAhie / pAnI pIne kA pAtra hI ghar3e meM DAla denA, aviveka kA sUcaka hai| __ pAnI chAnane kA vastra sApha aura jarA moTA honA caahie| bahata se gharoM meM dekhA gayA hai ki chalanA bar3A gandA, phaTA huA aura bahata bArIka hotA hai / vaha chalanA kevala nAma mAtra kA hI chalanA hotA hai| chalanA nitya prati dhokara sApha rakkho, aura use yoM hI

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viveka kA dIpaka : 37 idhara-udhara na par3A rahane do, eka nizcita sthAna meM rakha chodd'o| pAnI chAnane ke sambandha meM chalane kA pariNAma batAte hue eka dhArmika AcArya kahate haiM "kama-se-kama tIsa aMgula lambA aura tIsa aMgula caur3A vastra chAnane ke lie upayukta hotA hai|" pAnI hI jIvana hai : pAnI, prakRti kI anamola vastu hai| pAnI, sasAra kA jIvana hai| garmI ke dinoM meM tumheM jaba kabhI nala se, avyavasthA ke kAraNa pAnI prApta nahIM hotA hai, to kitano becainI hotI hai| prati varSa hajAroM jIvana to, pAnI ke abhAva meM naSTa ho jAte haiM / ataeva pAnI ke upayoga meM lAparavAhI mata rakkho pAnI ko vyartha hI nAlo meM mata DAlo, aura na idhara-udhara pharza para hI pheNko| aisA karane se pAnI ke jIvoM kI hiMsA to hotI hI hai, aura udhara ghara meM sIla bar3ha jAne se asvacchatA bhI bar3ha jAtA hai| viveka kA prathama caraNa : ghara ke daravAje ke Age, gandA mata rakho / bahuta se ghara aise dekhe haiM jinake daravAje para kuraDI-kI-sI gandagI hoto hai - jUThana, mala-mUtra, kUr3A-karakaTa-saba daravAje para jamA kara diyA jAtA hai| yaha kitanA bhaddA aura aviveka kA kAma hai ! isase ghara ke Age durgandha rahatI hai, Ane-jAne vAle lAga ghRNA karate hai aura jIvotpatti hone ke kAraNa jIvoM kI jo vyartha hiMsA hotI hai; vaha alaga / astu, kisI ekAnta sthAna meM hI kUr3A vagairaha yatanA se DAlane kA dhyAna rakhanA caahie| viveka kA dvitIya caraNa : bhojana banAte samaya bhI viveka kI bar3I AvazyakatA hai / ATA bahuta dinoM kA nahIM honA cAhie / ATA bahuta dina rakhane se sar3a

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38 : Adarza kanyA jAtA hai, aura usameM jIva par3a jAte haiN| isa prakAra vaha jIva hiMsA kA bhI kAraNa hotA hai aura svAsthya kA nAza bhI karatA hai / sAgabhAjI bhI dekhakara kAma meM lAnI caahie| sar3I huI sAga-bhAjI meM bhI jIva par3a jAte haiM / cUlhe meM par3I huI Aga ke lie bar3I yatanA kI AvazyakatA hai / bhUla se yadi kabhI yatanA nahI kI jAtI hai, to kabhI-kabhI bar3A anartha ho jAtA hai, ghara-kA-ghara bhasma ho jAtA hai| kitanI bhayaMkara hiMsA hotI hai, usa avasthA meM ? jalAne ke lie lakar3iyA~ acchI taraha dekha bhAla kara lenI caahie| jo lakar3iyA~ sar3I huI golI hotI haiM, unameM ghuna par3a jAte haiN| aura binA vicAre lakar3I jalAne se una jIvoM ke lie to holI dI ho jAtI hai / lakar3iyA~ jhADa kara ! tathA ulaTa-palaTa kara dekho| kahIM aisA na ho, ki koI jIva-jantu lakar3iyoM ke sAtha Aga meM bhasma ho jAya / lakar3iyA~ AvazyakatA se adhika nahIM jalAnI caahie| yaha bhI viveka hI hai: ghara meM ghI, tela, pAnI Adi ke pAtra kabhI khule mata rkkho| ghI Adi ke pAtra khule rahane se jIvoM ke gira jAne kI sambhAvanA haiM / ataeva bhUlakara bhI ughAr3e bartana na rakhane cAhie / anna ke saMsarga vAle jUThana ke pAnI ko bhI morI meM DAlane se jIvotpatti hotI hai, durgandha bar3hatI hai aura isase janatA ke svAsthya ko bhI bahuta hAni pahu~catI hai| __ bAsI bhojana karane kI icchA kabhI mata karo / bAsI anna khAne se aneka roga ho jAte haiM, aura buddhi manda par3a jAtI hai / yadi bAsI anna adhika kAla kA huA to jIva-hiMsA kA pApa bhI lagatA haiM / bahuta sI bahineM idhara-udhara se AI huI miThAI jamA

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vibeka kA dIpaka : 36 karatI jAtI haiM / yaha Adata ThIka nahIM hai / adhika dinoM taka miThAI khAne se trasa, sthAvara jIvoM kI hiMsA hotI hai-isase pApa lagatA hai aura roga bhI ho jAte haiM / eka jainAcArya kA upadeza hai.-"sardI meM eka mahInA, garmI meM bIsa dina aura comAsA meM pandraha dina se adhika dinoM kI miThAI nahIM khAnI caahie|" ataeva jaba bhojana vagairaha baca jAya, to use ThIka samaya para khuda kAma meM le lenA cAhie, athavA kisI garIba anAtha ko de denA caahie| bAsI bhojana karane ke vicAra se use vyartha hI ghara meM nahIM sar3AnA caahie| isa choTe kAma meM bhI viveka hai : ghara meM jhAr3a dene ke lie jhAr3a-buhArI bahata komala sana Adi kI rakhanI cAhie / kyoMki komala-hRdayA nArI ko to pratyeka kArya komala bhAva tantuoM ko joDakara hI karanA cAhie, yoM hI begAra TAlane ke lie agara jhADa lagAI jAtI hai, to yaha spaSTa hai, ki tumhAre hRdaya meM pratyeka prANI se anurAga nahIM hai tathA jIva dayA ke prati lAparavAhI hai, jabaki prANI mAtra para anukampA honA manuSya kA pahalA dharma hai / yaha choTA kArya bhI viveka ke antargata hai| __adhika kyA, ghara kA pratyeka kArya viveka aura vicAra se ho honA cAhie / nahAnA dhonA, jhAr3anA-poMchanA Adi saba kAma yadi viveka se kie jAe~, to sahaja hI jIva-hiMsA se bacAva ho sakatA hai| jaina-dharma viveka meM hai| jisameM jitanA adhika viveka hogA vaha utanA hI jainatva ke adhika nikaTa hogaa| nArI-jIvana meM kada paH kadama para viveka kI AvazyakatA hai| vivekavato nArI ghara ko svarga banA detI hai aura apane lie mokSa kA mArga prazasta karatI hai / bhagavAna mahAvIra kA ucca Adarza vivekI jIvana hI prApta kara sakatA hai|

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sukha kA koI bhI sAmAna juTAnA ho, paisA dene ko hAtha pahale bar3hAnA par3egA / kucha na kucha vyaya hotA haiM / apanA jAtA hai taba kucha sAmane AtA hai / vyaya ho jAne meM vivazatA jAhira hai| vyaya kiyA jAe-para vicAra pUrvaka isameM vRddhi kA yoga honA caahie| vastu-vyaya paddhati yadi dekhA jAya to ghara ko vAstavika svAminI strI hai| gRhasthI calAne kA bhAra adhikatara striyoM para hI rahatA hai / isalie pratyeka strI kA kartavya hai, ki vaha ghara ke hara eka kharca meM paisA bacAne kA prayatna kre| strI cAhe to ghara ko ujADa de, aura cAhe to ghara ko bharA-pUrA bhI banA de, yaha usake hAtha ko sAdhAraNa sI bAta hai| yadi strI samajhadAra hogI, yadi vaha nirarthaka kharca na kara bahuta soca-samajhakara kAma karegI, to usakA ghara thor3I-sI AmadanI meM bhI pUrA rhegaa| vaha kisI bhI cIja ko vyartha naSTa na kregii| anna kA eka-eka dAnA aura vastra kA eka-eka dhAgA bhI vaha sAvadhAnI se bacAkara kAma meM laaegii| jaina-dharma meM ise yatanA kahA hai| jaina-dharma pAnI taka ke anAvazyaka kharca kA doSa mAnatA hai / jaina-dharma meM gRhasthI kA Adarza hai, ki "AvazyakatA hone para ati lobha na karo, aura AvazyakatA na hone para ati udAra hokara vastU kA apavyaya bhI na kro|"

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vastu vyaya paddhati : 4.1 bArI gRha lakSmI hai : mitavyayI aura parizramI catura striyoM ko kabhI daridratA kA sAmanA nahIM karanA par3atA hai / ve nirdhana avasthA meM bhI sukhI aura bharI-pUrI dikhAI detI haiN| unheM dhana sambandhI prAya: koI bhI Apatti nahIM satAtI / kabhI-kabhI to ve apanI bacAI huI sampatti se saMkaTa kAla meM pati ke vyApAra taka meM sahAyatA pahu~cA detI haiM / isI bhAvanA ko lakSya meM rakhakara bhArata ke kaviyoM ne strI ko gRha-lakSmI kahA hai / 1 barca aura gRha vyavasthA : bahuta-sI lar3akiyA~ bar3I kharcIlI prakRti kI hotI haiM / ve kama kharca karanA to jAnatI hI nhiiN| kyA bhojana, kyA vastra - sabhI meM kharca kA tUphAna khar3A kara detI haiM / prAyaH dekhA jAtA hai, ki lar3akiyA~ kisI bhI sundara vastu ko dekhate hI usako kharIda lenA cAhatI haiM / ve isa bAta kA dhyAna nahIM rakhatIM, ki isa vaktu kI jarUrata bhI hai yA nahIM hai ? kisI cIja ko kharIdane kA kAraNa usakI sundaratA nahIM hai, kintu usakI upayogitA aura vizeSakara apanI AvazyakatA hai / astu jisa vastu kI jarUrata nahIM hai, use kadApi mata kharIdo / yaha phijUla kharca kI jo Adata hai, vaha Age calakara taMga karatI hai / I bhagavAn mahAvIra ke samaya meM jaina zrAvaka aura zrAvikAoM kI gRha-vyavasthA kI paddhati bar3I sundara thA / ve loga kharcIlo Adata ke gulAma nahIM the / bahuta vicAra pUrvaka gRhastha-jovana calAte the / ve apane dhana ke vAra bhAga karate the, isameM se eka bhAga koSa meM jamA karake rakhA jAtA thA, tAki kisI samaya para kAma A sake / tuma bhA AmadanI kA coyA bhAga alaga jamA rakkhA, usa apana nityatrati ke khaca meM mata lAo, kyoki kabhI-kabhI ghara meM acAnaka hA aisA kAma A jAtA hai, jisase paisA kharca karane kA atyadhika AvazyakatA hAtA

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42 : AdaH kanyA hai| usake lie yadi tuma pahale se taiyAra na hogI, to samaya par3ane para bar3I hAni uThAnI pdd'egii| sAsa se bar3hakara bahU : . bahuta-sI lar3akiyoM meM sughar3apana nahIM hotA ve lAparavAhI se upayogI vastuoM ko jaldI kharAba karake pheMka detI haiM / khAne-pIne Adi kI sAmagrI meM bhI kiphAyata se kAma nahIM letI / eka seTha ke yahA~ kI bAta hai, ki sAsa phahar3apana se bhojana meM adhika kharca karatI thii| aura to kyA, namaka bhI pratidina yoM hI idhara-udhara beparavAhI se jyAdA DAla diyA karatI, ataH vyartha hI naSTa ho jAtA thaa| ghara meM bahU AI / parantu vaha thI catura, gRha kArya meM sAsa se bar3hakara, to usane mitavyayitA kI dRSTi se namaka kA hI saMgraha karanA zurU kiyaa| sAla bhara meM usa bacAe hae namaka kI kImata pAMca rupaye hue / ghara vAle apane apavyaya ko jAnakara Azcarya carita ho gye| putriyo ! tumheM ghara gRhasthI calAne ke lie usa bahU jaisA Adarza pakar3anA cAhie / kisI bhI cIja ko lAparavAhI se kharca mata karo, aura vyartha hI idhara-udhara cIjeM DAlakara naSTa bhI na kro| prakRti kA bhaMDAra naSTa-bhraSTa karane ke lie nahIM hai, upayoga karane ke lie hai|

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11 pratyeka nArI meM sItA, dropadI tathA lakSmI aura durgA kA pratibimba hai, apane Atma gaurava ko samajhane ke lie yaha nibandha par3hie........! Atma-gaurava kA bhAva manuSya mAtra meM Atma-gaurava kA bhAva honA atIva Avazyaka hai| jisa manuSya meM Atma-gaurava nahIM, vaha manuSya, manuSya nahIM pazu hai| mAtma-gaurava kA artha hai-"apane prati apanA Adara / " vizeSa vyAkhyA meM utarA jAya, to kahA jA sakatA hai ki apane ko tuccha maura hIna na samajhanA, Atma-gaurava hai|" putriyo ! tuma svapna meM bhI apanA Atma-gaurava mata bhUlo, tuma kabhI bhI apane ko tuccha na samajho / tama AtmA ho, tuma meM ananta zakti chupI huI hai / tuma bhUmaNDala para kisa bAta meM kama ho? tumhAre andara apanA aura dUsaroM kA kalyANa karane vAlI mahatI zakti nivAsa karatI hai| pratyeka nArI sItA hai : - tuma sItA aura draupadI kI bahina ho / patA hai, Aja saMsAra meM sItA aura draupadI kA kyoM mahatva hai ? hajAroM loga pratidina inake mAma kI mAlA japate haiM / sItA kI mahattA to itanI bar3ha-car3ha kara hai ki, rAma se pahale sItA kA nAma liyA jAtA hai / tumane sunA hogA, loga 'sItA-rAma' kahate haiM, na ki "rAma-sItA' / sItA ko itanA mahatva kyoM prApta huA? isalie ki vaha apanA Atma gaurava nahIM bhUlI thI / vana meM jAte samaya use kitanA DarAyA gayA? parantu vaha saMkaTa sahane ke lie prasanna mana se taiyAra ho gii| usane kahA-"jaba patideva saMkaTa sahana kara sakeMge, to maiM kyoM na sahana kara sakeMgI ? maiM kyA moma kI putalI hUM, jo dhUpa lagate hI

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44 : Adarza kanyA pighala jAUgI / " putriyoM ! tuma bhI kisI se kama nahIM ho / "bhI saMkaToM se jUjha kara una para vijaya prApta kara sakatI ho| ji jAti meM lakSmI aura durgA jaisI nAriyA~ huI haiM, vaha jAti hIna ki prakAra ho sakatI hai ?" ataH pratyeka nArI meM sItA kA bIja hai, aMkurita karane kI AvazyakatA hai / hIna bhAvanA pApa hai : kheda hai, ki nArI jAti ne apanA Atma gaurava bhulA diyA hai| sadiyoM se use yaha sikhAyA gayA hai, ki "nArI to kucha kara hI naha sakatI / ' tumheM yaha galata saMskAra apane mana se nikAla denA cAhie jaina-dharma nArI jAti ke mahatva ko bahuta U~cA mAnatA hai| vaha kahata hai ki - " puruSa ke barAbara hI strI jAti kI bhI pratiSThA hai| gRhastha dharma kI gAr3I ke donoM pahiyoM meM kisakA mahatva kama hai, au kisakA adhika hai ? strI bhI puruSa ke samAna hI kevala jJAna pAka sarvajJa pada pA sakatI hai / mokSa meM pahu~cakara paramAtmA bhI ho sakatI hai ? " tuma jaina ho / basa, tumheM to apane Apako hIna samajhanA ha na caahie| vaha jaina hI kyA, jo utsAha ke sAtha vijaya patha pa agrasara na ho apane mana meM hInabhAva lAnA pApa hai / hInatA nahIM vIratA dharma hai / jisa manuSya ne apane Apako girA liyA hai, jisane yaha sama liyA hai ki -- maiM tuccha hU~, merA kyA ho sakatA hai ? usane sva hI apane ananta Atma bala kI jAnabUjha kara hatyA karalI hai / yA saMsAra kA aTala niyama hai, ki jisa manuSya kA mana saba ora dIna-hIna bana cukA hai, vaha dhana, jana, vidyA Adi meM cAhe kitanA kyoM na bar3hA-car3hA ho, kabhI koI sAhasapUrNa va kalyANakArI kA nahIM kara sakatA ! jo cAho so bano : jaba taka tuma apane donoM pairoM ko sthira rakhatI ho, tabhI va

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Atma-gaurava kA bhAva : 45 bar3A raha sakatI ho / yadi pairoM ko thara tharA do, to zIghra hI gira kara jamIna para A jaaogii| isI taraha, jisane apane Apako halkA samajha liyA hai, usakI saba kriyAyeM halkI hI hotI haiN| aura jo yaha samajhatI haiM, ki hama saba kucha haiM hama bahuta kucha kara sakatI hai. usakI saba kriyAeM pUrNatayA saphala hotI haiM / apane ko hIna samajhane vAlA hIna ho jAtA hai aura apane Apako mahAna samajhane vAlA mahAn / manuSya kA nirmANa usake apane vicAroM ke anusAra hI hotA hai, ataH vaha jo cAhe jaisA cAhe bana sakatA hai| hama saba kucha haiM : isakA yaha abhiprAya nahIM hai, ki tuma ahaMkAra karane lago, apane ko rAnI mahArAnI mAna baiTho / balki isakA artha yaha hai, ki tuma apane ko kaThina se kaThina kArya ko kara DAlane kI zakti rakhane vAlI AtmA smjho| tumhArA hRdaya upajAU bhUmi kI taraha hai, usa para sadA gaurava aura utsAha ke phalaprada bIja boo| vidyA lAbha karane meM apanI bahuta UMcI tathA agrazIla dRSTi rakkho / acchA kAma cAhe kitanA hI kaThina kyoM na ho, usako pUrA karane kA apane mana meM adamya sAhasa rkkho| tuma choTI ho to kyA hai ? tumhArA lakSya aura tadanukUla sAhasa, choTA nahIM honA cAhie / isa saMsAra meM jitane bhI mahApuruSa hue haiM, ve pahale hama tuma jaise sAdhAraNa manuSya hI to the / parantu Atma bala ko bar3hAne ke kAraNa hI ve saMsAra meM ajara amara pada prApta kara mahAn ho gae haiN| tuma saba kucha ho| pArI putriyo ! tuma bhI saba kucha ho, jarA apane Atma-balaH

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46 : Adarza kanyA se kAma lo| apane ko hIna na samajho, apane gaurava meM vizvAsa rkho| saMsAra meM kauna-sA aisA kaThina kAma hai, jise tuma nahIM kara sakatI ho| isake lie aura kucha nahIM, basa apane karane yogya kAmoM ko khUba lagana aura parizrama se karanA siikho| bacapana meM gur3iyA se khelane, aura bar3I hone para thor3e-bahuta ghara ke dhandhe kara lene meM hI apane ucca nArI jIvana ke gaurava ko naSTa mata kro| tuma apane ko bar3e-bar3e dhArmika aura laukika kArya karane ke yogya banAo himmata mata hAro / saba kucha acche kAma karane ke yogya bana jaaogii|

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pratyeka vicAraka ko yaha svI kAra hai ki vyavasthita kArya, vyavasthita buddhi kA pratoka hai| tuma apane Apako buddhimati sAvita karanA cAhatI ho, to usakA AsAna tarIkA isa nibandha meM mila jaaegaa| vyavasthA kI buddhi mAnava jIvana meM saMyata aura vyavasthita jIvana kA bahuta adhika mahatva hai jo bhI kAma karanA ho, vaha pUrNa rUpa se vyavasthita honA cAhie / ucchRkhala aura amaryAdita avasthA meM kisI bhI kAma kI koI bhI acchI vyavasthA ho hI nahIM sktii| avasthA kauzala : nArI kA jIvana ghara-gRthasthI kI raMga-biraMgI duniyA kA jIvana hai / ghara tathA bAhara ke bahuta se kAma strI ko karane hote haiM / ghara meM choTI-moTI saikar3oM cIjeM hotI haiM / una sabakI dekha-bhAla rakhane kA bhAra strI para hotA hai / strI yadi catura hai, to ghara kI choTI se choTI cIjoM ko bhI AvazyakatAnusAra sambhAla kara rakhatI hai / aura yadi vaha mUrkha hotI hai, to phira ghara kA kucha patA nahIM rhtaa| canda dinoM meM svarga-sA samRddha ghara avyavasthita aura ujAr3a ho jAtA hai|

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48 : Adarza kanyA .. catura kauna : .. putriyo ! tumheM isa ora bahuta bArIka lakSya dakhanA caahie| tumhArA pratyeka kArya vyavasthita aura surucipUrNa honA caahie| ghara kI pratyeka cIja yathAsthAna rakhanI cAhie, tAki jaba bhI, jisa bhI cIja kI AvazyakatA ho vaha usI samaya mila jAe / saba vastuoM ko ThIka ThIka sthAna para sajAkara rakhane se kAma meM bar3I suvidhA hotI hai| jisa ghara meM isa bAta kA dhyAna nahIM, vahA~ ghara vAloM ko bar3A kaSTa hotA hai| ___kauna sI cIja kahA~ rakhane se kArya meM suvidhA hogI, jisa cIja kI bahuta jarUrata rahatI hai, kauna cIja kaba kAma meM AtI hai, ityAdi bAtoM para dhyAna rakhakara jo strI ghara kI cIjoM ko yathAsthAna rakhane kA prayatna karatI hai, vaha catura strI kahalAtI hai| vyavasthita buddhi : - kauna cIja kahA~ rakhI huI hai, isa bAta kA smaraNa rakhanA ati Avazyaka hai / eka cIja yahA~ par3I hai, to dUsarI vhaaN| eka hI cIja kala eka sthAna para par3I thI, to Aja vaha dUsarI hI jagaha par3I hai, aura kala yA parasoM vahA~ bhI nahIM hai, isa taraha kI avyavasthA se bar3I hAni hotI hai / isake atirikta vaznu khojane meM eka to zrama bahuta adhika karanA par3atA hai, aura sAtha hI Avazyaka kAma bhI bigar3a jAtA hai / yadi AvazyakatAnusAra samaya para cIja na mile to batAie phira usa cIja ke saMgraha karane se lAbha hI kyA hai ? avyavasthita buddhi se kabhI kArya nahIM karanA caahie| jhaMjhaTa kyoM bar3hatI hai : __ eka ghara meM eka bAra kisI choTe lar3ake ko baraM ne DaMka mAra diyaa| usa samaya ghAva para diyAsalAI ragar3ane kI jarUrata pdd'ii| DhUr3hate DhUr3hate sArA ghara hairAna haiM, para diyAsalAI kA kahIM patA nhiiN|

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vyavasthA kI buddhi : 46 idhara lar3akA cillA rahA hai, udhara ghara kI saba striyA~ diyAsalAI DhUMDhane meM lagI haiN| cillAte hue lar3ake ke pAsa koI yaha bhI kahane ko nahIM hai ki beTe ! cupa raho, abhI acche ho jaaoge|" striyAM Apasa meM jhagar3atI haiM, eka-dUsare para gajaMtI haiM cillAtI haiM, parantu isase lAbha kucha bhI nhiiN| eka choTI-sI bAta ke lie loga itane hairAna haiM, ki kucha kahA nahIM jA sakatA / koI pUche to uttara bho kyA deM, ki diyAsalAI nahIM miltii| yadi pahale se hI sAvadhAnI ke sAtha diyAsalAI rakkhI gaI hotI, yadi diyAsalAI rakhane ke lie koI sthAna niyata hotA, to itano jhaMjhaTa kyoM bar3hatI? sthAna nizcita kIjie? jisa ghara meM saba cIjoM ko rakhane ke lie alaga-alaga sthAna niyata hai, vahA~ jhaTa-paTa yaha mAlUma ho jAtA hai, ki kauna-sI cIja ghara meM hai, aura kauna-sI cIja nahIM hai ? kauna coja bAjAra se maMgAnI hai aura kyA nhiiN| jahA~ yaha vyavasthA nahIM hoto, vahA~ bahuta burA pariNAma hotA hai / kitanI hI cIjeM bAra-bAra maMgAkara adhika se adhika saMkhyA meM bharalo jAtI haiM aura kitano hI jarUrI kAma kI cojeM eka bhI Ane nahIM paatii| ghara kyA, kaMjar3I kA gallA ho jAtA hai| isa prakAra ke nipaTa a~dhere meM dhana kA kitanA adhika apavyaya hotA hai ? jarA vicAra kho kIjie ? isalie maiM kahatA hU~. ki tuma cIjoM ke rakha rakhAne meM bahata adhika buddhi aura sphati rakcho / saba cIjoM ko ThIka-ThIka sthAna para rakhane kA prayatna kro| apane kapar3e-late, gahane Adi kI bAtoM meM bhI yahI vyavasthA rakhanI caahie| adhika kyA, khAne-pIne, sone, bolane, uThane-baiThane, aAdi sabhI kAmoM meM saMgama aura vyavasthita hone kI AvazyakatA hai| mana ko hamezA sulajhA huA ekAgra rakhanA caahie| mana kahIM hai, cIja kahIM rakha rahI hai, yaha apavasyA paidA

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50 : Adarza kanyA karane vAlI Adata hai| jo kAma manoyoga pUrvaka kiyA jAegA, vahA~ yaha jhaMjhaTa kadApi paidA nahIM hogaa| udbodhana : avyavasthA httaao| pratyeka kArya meM vyavasthA aura suruci kA paricaya do| ye bAteM Upara se sAdhAraNa-sI dIkhatI haiM, parantu bhaviSya meM ye hI jIvana nirmANa kiyA karatI haiN| dekhanA, tumhArI avyavasthita buddhi para kisI ko yaha kahane kA avasara na mile ki-"thAlI kho jAne para ghar3e meM DhUMr3hI jAtI hai / " kama-se-kama apane ghara kI cojoM ke lie to tumheM sarvajJa honA caahie| tuma sarasvatI ho ataH itanI bhulakkar3a aura avyavasthita mata bano !

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zIla-svabhAva, yaha vaha mantra hai, jisake dvArA itihAsa meM anekoM vyaktiyoM ne dUsaroM ko apanA banA liyaa| isa mantra ko aitihAsika mahApuruSoM taka sImita kyoM rahane diyA jAya ? jIvana meM isakA prayoga karake dekhie| zIla-svabhAva zIla-sva mAva, komala aura zAnta prakRti ko kahate haiN| isase bar3hakara manuSya kA koI dUsarA sundara bhUSaNa nahIM haiM / kahA hai- 'zIla viraM bhUSaNam / ' komala aura zAnta prakRti dUsare logoM para turanta hI apanA prabhAva DAlatI hai| ghamaNDI AdamI bhI zIla svabhAva ke sAmane apanA mastaka jhukA detA hai| zIla-svabhAva manuSya kI udAratA aura ucca bhAvanAoM ko sUcita karane vAlA eka ujjvala pratIka hai| vazIkaraNa maMtra : - zIla-svabhAva bar3A acchA vazIkaraNa maMtra hai| zIlavAna rAha calate bhogoM ko apanA mitra banA letA hai| vaha ghara aura bAhara bharvatra prema evaM Adara pAtA hai| zrI rAmacandra jI ko vanavAsa meM ajJAna vAnara jAti ne kyoM sahAyatA do ? vAnara jAti ke lAkhoM bora, kyoM apane Apa rAvaNa ke virUddha yuddha meM marane ko taiyAra ho gae ? uikA svayaM kA kyA svArtha thA? rAmacandra jI ke ekamAtra zIla-svabhAva ne hI to unheM moha liyA thaa| yudhiSThara Adi pA~coM pAMDavoM meM kyA vizeSatA thI, jo bhISma ne apane marane kA upAya bho unheM mahAbhArata ke yuddha meM batA diyA ? zrIkRSNa arjuna kA

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52 : Adarza kanyA' ratha hA~kane ko kyoM taiyAra hue| yaha saba pAMDavoM ke zIla svabhA kA prabhAva thA / zIlavatI kanyAyeM : pyArI patriyo ! tumheM zIla-svabhAva kA sacce hRdaya me Ada karanA caahie| zIlavatI kanyAoM para mAtA, pitA, bhAI, baha Adi kA bahuta adhika prema hotA hai / jo kanyAe~ zIlavatI haiM, kro aura ghamaNDa se dUra rahatI haiM, komala haiM, mRdula haiM, namra haiM, milanasA - unakA kyA ghara aura kyA bAhara sarvatra Adara hotA hai, sAtha ka saheliyoM meM bhI pratiSThA hotI haiN| pAThazAlA meM tuma dekha sakatI ki- yadi dhanI ghara kI lar3akI ghamaMDI hai, akar3akara bolatI hai, sAtha kI laDakiyA~ usakA kucha bhI sammAna nahIM rakhatIM / isa viparIta sAdhAraNa ghara kI laDakI bhI apane komala aura namra svabhA ke kAraNa sabakA prema aura Adara prApta kara letI haiM / saba lar3aki usake kahane meM calane lagatI haiN| saMsAra meM dhana kA Adara nahIM, zI kA Adara hai / tumhAre pAsa acche gahane aura kapaDe hoM to unheM pahana iThalAo nahIM / yathAvasara baDhiyA kapar3e pahana kara bhI gambhIra ba aura garIba laDakiyoM kI kabhI haeNmI mata karo / yadi kabhI ga laDakiyA~ tumase mileM aura kucha pUcheM, to bar3e prema se milo, Adara sAtha-sAtha ThIka-ThIka uttara do| garIba lar3akiyoM ke sAtha tuma ji hI adhika sahAnubhUti rakkhogI, tumhArA utanA hI adhika Ahe sanmAna hogA / kyA na karo jaba koI garIba ghara kI lar3akI tumhAre ghara para aaye| usakA saba prakAra se Adara karo, khAne-pIne ke lie avazya pUrva

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zIla svabhAva : 53 usase isa prakAra kA prazna kabhI mata pUchA ki-"tumhAre pAsa kyA yA vastra aura gahane haiM ?" tathA apane vastra aura gahanoM kA bhI jikra na karo-- "mere pAsa amuka-amuka sundara vastra aura mUlyavAna pahane haiM ? maiM aba aura naye gahane banavAU~gI?' isa prakAra apane r3appana kA pradarzana karane se garIba lar3akiyoM ke mana meM bar3I pIr3A hotI hai| tanA bar3A lAbha hai : jaba kabhI kisI bar3I-bUr3ho-strI se mile, to hamezA koI na koI dI, tAI, buA Adi ucita zabda prayoga kiyA karo : sAtha hI nI' zabda avazya lagAyA karA / yadi tuma nanihAla meM ho, tA vahA~ ne apane se choTI yA barAbara kI kanyAoM ko bahanajI, tumhArA patA kI vaya bAlI hoM, to mausIjA, nAno kI umra vAlI hA tA nIjI, kahA karo ! vahA~ kI chATI vahU ho tA bhAbhIjI, aura di bar3I ho, to mAmIjI Adi Adara sUcaka zabdAM se bolA ! bhAra kyA dhobina, nAina aura kahArina Adi sa bhI isI prakAra koI koI ucita riztA lagAkara bAlA / puruSoM ne sAya bhA Ane yahA bAjI, cAcAjI, tAUkhI, bhAIjI Adi Ara nanihAla meM nAnAjI, mAjI, bhAIjI Adi yathAyAgya dara sUcaka zabdoM kA prayoga ro| komala aura Adara sUcaka zabdoM se tumhArA kucha kharca nahIM tA, aura una logoM kA citta prapanna ho jAtA hai--kitanA bar3A ke bano, neka bno| bahuta-sI lar3akiyoM ko bAta-bAta para tAne dene aura dUsaroM ko sine kI Adata hotI hai| yaha bahuta kharAba Adata hai| cAhe kaitI kSiAbha kI pravasthA hoM, muha se kamo mo gAnI nahIM nikAlanI hie aura na kisI ko kosanA caahie| yadi kabhI dUsaro lar3ako jJAnatA se tumheM yA kisI aura ko gAlI de to prema se samajhAne kA

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54 : Adarza kanyA prayatna karo / prema se samajhAyA huA vyakti jaldI hI zAnta hotA aura apanI burI Adata ko chor3a detA hai| kucha kanyAe~ Upara se bar3I sIdhI-sAdI mAlUma hotI haiM, para andara bar3A krodha karatI haiN| apane ko jabAna se to prakaTa nahIM kara paranta muMha phulA letI haiM aura udAsa hokara cupa ho jAtI haiM / yI koI unako samajhAtA hai, yA bAta-cIta karatA hai, to upakA utta hI nahIM detii| yaha Adata bar3I kharAba hai, aura yaha bar3I hone para / taMga kregii| ataH suzIla kanyAoM ko isa avaguNa se hamezAta rahanA caahie| __tumane dekhA hogA, ki bahuta-sI lar3akiyoM meM tAnA dene kI Ada par3a jAtI haiM / lar3ake to krodha ko mArapITa Adi ke rUpa meM nikA DAlate haiM, parantu lar3akiyA~ apane krodha ko kaTu vacanoM aura tAnoM dvArA prakaTa karatI haiM / parantu yAda rakhanA cAhie-kaTu va vanoM aM tAnoM kA pariNAma vahuta burA hotA hai / bANoM kA ghAva to ri jAtA hai, parantu tAnoM kA ghAva janma bhara nahIM miTatA / mahAbhA ke yuddha kA mUla kAraNa Apasa ke tAne hI to the| ataH tumheM cA tuma acchI bAtoM ko grahaNa karo tathA jovana ko, aura neka banAI sabake sAtha prema bhAva rakhanA eka bananA hai / aura jo mana meM ho| vANI para bhI ho-yaha neka bananA haiN|

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14 Alasya mAnava jAti kA bhayaMkara zatru hai| isane manuSya para hamalA kara diyA hai / isa zatru para vijaya prApta karane kI kalA isa lekha meM sahasA hI mila jAegI ! manuSya kA zatra : Alasya Alasya mAnava jAti kA sabase bar3A bhayaMkara zatru hai / AlasI AdamI kisI kAma kA nahIM rahatA / vaha na ghara kA ho kAma kara sakatA hai, aura na bAhara kA hI / Alaso manuSyoM kI saMsAra meM bar3I durdazA hotI hai / AlasiyoM kA hRdaya nAnA prakAra kI cintAoM kA ghara bana jAtA hai / unake hRdaya meM aneka prakAra ko durbhAvanAoM kA vizAkta pravAha nirantara bahatA rahatA hai / 1 zarIra kAma cAhatA hai| binA kAma ke kiye bhajabUta se majabUta zarIra bhI durbala ho jAtA hai aura aneka prakAra ke rogoM kA ghara bana jAtA hai / dina-rAta idhara-udhara khATa para par3e rahanA, kAma se jI carAte phiranA, kahA~ kI manuSyatA hai ? jo manuSya kAma nahIM karatA hai, aura khAne ke lie taiyAra rahatA hai, usase bar3hakara dUsarA aura kauna pApI hogA ? eka AcArya kahate haiM-binA parizrama kiye, binA lokopakAra kA kAma kie, jo vyakti vyartha hI parivAra kI chAtI kA bhAra banakara khAtA hai, vaha agale janma meM ajagara banatA hai / " mAlatI na bano : putriyoM ! tuma kabhI bhI Alasya mata karo - kAma se jI na

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56 : Adarza kanyA curAo / agara abhI se tuma meM yaha burI Adata paidA ho gaI, to isakA Age calakara bar3A bhayaMkara pariNAma hogA / Alasya ke kAraNa na tuma mAtA ke yahA~ pIhara meM Adara pA sakogI; aura na sAsa ke yahA~ sasurAla meM / jaba bhI kabhI kAma par3egA, tuma bar3abar3AtI jhIkatI jhuMjhalAtI rahogI aura yaha eka nArI ke lie bar3I ghAtaka bAta hai / saubhAnya se tumheM agara acche ghara meM janma mila gayA hai, mAtApitA ke pAsa dhana-sampatti khUba hai, kAma karane ke lie naukaranaukarAniyAM haiM, parantu tuma garva meM Akara apane hAtha se kAma karatA phira bhI na chor3o / bhaviSya kA kucha patA nahIM hai, kyA ho ! Aja dhana hai, kala na ho / sambhava hai, sasurAla meM jahAM jAo vahAM sthiti ThIka na ho, naukaroM se kAma karA kara jI curAne kI Adata DAla lainA, bhaviSya meM bure dinoM meM bahuta duHkhadAyaka ho jAtI hai / bahutasI bar3e gharoM kI striyA~ rAta dina palaMgoM, jhUloM aura masana va gaddoM para hI par3I rahA karatI haiM / unakA peTa bar3ha jAtA hai, hAjamA kharAba ho jAtA hai, zarIra dubala aura pIlA par3a jAtA hai / phira ve kisI bhI parizrama ke yogya nahIM rahatI. ataH tumheM ca hie tuma alasI na bano ! prema kA bhojana : nArI annapUrNA kahalAtI hai| bhojana kA sucAra prabandha karanA usake hAtha kI bAta hai / bahuta-so dhanI ghara kI lar3akiyAM bhojana banAne se jI curAtI haiN| aura ve socatI haiM--jaba nokara yA naukarAnI bhojana banAne vAle haiM, taba hama kyA cUlhe meM jaleM - yaha manovRtti bar3I kharAba hai| bhojana banAkara khilAnA, yaha pratyeka nArI kA kartavya hai / bhalA phira usameM lajjA yA Alasya kA kya kAma ? bhAratIya dRSTi se vaha ghara, ghara hI nahIM, jisameM bhojana,

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manuSya kA zatru Alasya : 57 gRha daviyA~ na banAtI hoM / na svayaM bhojana banAnA aura na parosanA, isase pArivArika prema kA abhAva sUcita hotA hai / yadi gRha-deviyA~ bhojana banAtI haiM, to usameM kyA lAbha hai - ( 1 ) bhojana svAdiSTa bnegaa| kyoMki nArI apane hAthoM se bhojana banAegI, to usame apanatva hogA ! apanatva apanoM ko hI ho sakatA hai, naukaroM ko nahIM / (2) bhojana pavitra hogA - zuddha hogA / (3) nArI prema ke sAtha bhojana parosegI, to usameM nesargika rUpa se miThAsa utpanna ho jAegI / ( 4 ) nArI svayaM bhojana banAegI, to gurujano ke A jAne para unheM vidhi-pUrvaka guru-bhakti se bhAjana de sakatI hai / ina saba bAtoM kI apekSA naukara se nahIM kI jA sakatI hai| nArI bhAjana banAegI, to usake pratiphala meM pase kI apekSA nahIM karegI / nArI ke dvArA banAyA gayA bhojana, prema kA bhojana hai / AlAya tyAgo : bahuta-sI lar3akiyA~ kAma se jI curAyA karatI haiN| mAtA yA ora koI jaba kisI kAma ke lie kaha dete haiM, to bar3abar3Ane lagatI haiM / kitanI hI bAra to kAmA ko isalie lar3akiyA~ bigAr3a bhI detI haiM, ki phira hamase koI kAma karane ke lie na kaheM, acchI lar3akiyoM kA kAma to yahI hai, ki ve jo bhI kAma kare, rasa lekara kareM, ghara ke choTe-moTe kAma ko svayaM kara lenA kucha burA nhiiN| isase bar3hakara aura sukha kyA ho sakatA hai, ki tumheM ghara kI sevA karane kA lAbha milatA hai| kAma karanA koI nindA kI bAta nahIM hai / sItA aura drApadI jaMsI mahArAniyA~ bhI ghara kA kAma khuda kiyA karatI thiiN| tumheM bhI unhIM ke kadamoM para calanA cAhie / ghara kA koI bhI bar3A vyakti tumase kAma karane kI kahe, to saharSa usakA kArya kara do ! manuSyatA na khoo : anta meM maiM phira kaha denA cAhatA hU~, ki - Alasya, mAnaba jAti

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58 : Adarza kanyA kA sabase bar3A bhayaMkara zatru hai / Ajakala hamAre bhAranIya parivAroM meM jo aneka prakAra ke kaSTa tathA roga dIkha par3ate haiM, una sabakA mUla kAraNa eka prakAra se Alasya hI hai| Aja gharoM meM mAtA aura putriyo lar3atI haiM, bhAbhI aura nanada lar3atI haiM, sAsa aura bahU lar3atI haiM / yaha laDAI kA bAjAra kyoM garma hai ? isakA kAraNa mere vicAra meM to Alasya hI hai / kyoMki jo manuSya koI kAma nahIM karatA, jo cupacApa niThallA baiThA apanA samaya vyatIta karatA hai, usakA svabhAva durbala ho jAtA hai, vaha dUsaroM ko dekha kara kur3hA karatA hai. aura dUsare usako dekhakara kar3hate hai| basa, jhagar3ane ke lie aura kisa bAta kI jarUrata hai ? yaha kuDhana hI manuSya me manuSyatA chIna letI hai / dvibhujA paramezvara : isake viparIta jisa ghara meM saba striyAM apane-apane kAma meM lagA rahatI haiM, kAma karane se jI nahIM carAtI haiM, eka kAma karane ko dRsarI taiyArI rahatI hai, aura pratyeka kAma meM paraspara prema tathA sne kI dhArAe~ vahatI haiM, usa ghara meM kisI prakAra kA duHkha nahIM hotA usa ghara kA kalaha eka bAra hI dUra ho jAtA hai| aura parivA bilkula harA-bharA, sukhI evaM samRddha ho jAtA hai| eka AcArya va kahanA hai-"do hAtha vAlA manuSya paramezvara hotA hai" dvibhujA para zvaraH / " hA~ to jisa ghara meM tuma jaisI do hAthoM vAlI aneka bhagava ho, vahA~ kyA kamI raha sakatI hai ? jarUrata hai hAthoM se kAma lene ke

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16 bhAratIya nArI kA gaurava lajjA meM surakSita hai yaha eka svara meM sabako svIkAra hai| parantu nirI lajjA mUrkhatA meM pariNita na ho jAe ! isakI vivecanA isa lekha meM hai| nArI kA gaurava lajjA nArI jAti kA pradhAna guNa lajjA hai : lajjA ke samAna striyoM kA dUsarA koI Avazyaka va sundara bhUSaNa nahIM hai-'lajjA para bhUSaNam / ' lajjA hI strI ke zIla aura saMyama kI rakSA karatI hai / strI meM cAhe aura sabhI guNa hoM, parantu yadi lajjA na rahe, to ve saba vyartha ho jAte haiN| Ajakala bIsavIM zatAbdI cala rahI hai saba ora phaizana kA bola-vAlA hai / kAlija Adi kI zikSA kA prabhAva, phaizana kI vRddhi para bahuta adhika par3a rahA hai bhArata kI saMyamazIla deviyA~ bhI isase nahIM baca sakI haiM / usameM bhI phaizana Adi vilAsatA kA prabhAva bar3ha rahA hai / isa kAraNa Aja ke yuga meM lajjA kA mahatva bahuta kama ho gayA hai| bastroM kA upayoga : Ajakala' bar3e-bar3e nagaroM meM kapar3e bahuta bArIka pahane jAte haiM, itane vArIka ki jinameM se sArA zarIra sApha-sApha dikhAI detA rahatA hai / isa prakAra jAlIdAra aura rezamI vastra pahanakara zRgAra

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'60 : Adarza kanyA karanA, bhArata kI sabhyatA ke sarvathA pratikUla hai / vastra kA artha tana DhA~panA hai, vaha svaccha to honA cAhie, parantu itanA bArIka nahIM honA cAhie, ki jisase apanI lajjA bhI na bacAI jA sake / lajjA sAdhaka yA bAdhaka ? hara kisI ke sAtha bAta-cIta karane meM thor3A saMkoca rakhanA caahie| adhika bolane se aura idhara-udhara kI gapa-zapa karane se kucha zobhA nahIM hotI hai / strI ke lie to kama bolanA aura samaya para AvazyakatA par3ane para hI bolanA acchA mAnA gayA hai / jo kanyAe~ prArambha se hI isa guNa ko apanAtI haiM ve ve bhaviSya meM yogya gRhai-lakSmI pramANita hotI haiM / jo nArI eka akSara bhI nahIM jAnatI aura lajjAvatI haiM. unakA 'jitanA Adara samAja ma hotA hai, utanA una viduSI, parantu lajjA" hIna striyoM kA nahIM hotA / astu, pratyeka lar3akI aura strI ko cAhie ki baha lajjA ko apanA bhUSaNa banAe / parantu dhyAna rahe ki lajjA meM ati na hone paae| saba jagaha ati karane se hAni hotI hai| bahuta sI lar3akiyA~ lajjAzIla itanI adhika hotI haiM, ki ve lajjA ke kAraNa kucha kAma bhI nahIM kara sakatIM / hara samaya sikur3e - simaTe rahanA aura ghara ke kone meM dubake rahanA, koI acchI bAta nahIM hai / bahuta-sI lar3akiyA~ to lajjA ke kAraNa kisI bar3IbUr3hI strI se, tathA kisI paricita bhale AdamI se bAta-cIta bhI nahIM kara sakatI, yaha lajjA kI paddhati, nArI jAti kI unnati meM bAdhaka hai / kucha salAha : hasanA burA nahIM hai / vaha mAnava prakRti kA eka viziSTa guNa

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nArI kA gaurava : lakhjA : 61 hai / parantu lar3akiyoM ko ThahAkA lagAkara tathA kahakahA mArakAra ha~sanA ucita nahIM haiM / jora se ha~sanA, lajjA kA abhAva sUcita karatA hai| lar3akiyoM ko bahuta dhIre, manda hAsya se ha~sanA cAhie / mandahAsya nArI ke saundarya ko bar3hAtA hai| vivAha Adi prasaMgoM para bahuta saMyama se kAma lenA cAhie / bahata-sI lar3akiyA~ aura vayaska striyA~ aise prasaMgoM para apanI mayAMdA se sarvathA bAhara ho jAtI haiN| bagatiyoM se cher3achAr3a karanA, gandegande gAne gAnA, gAliyA~ denA, acchI bAta nahIM hai / isase bhAratIya striyoM ko mUrkha aura phUhar3a Adi zabdoM se sambodhita kiyA jAne lagA hai| ataH apanI pratiSThA apane hAtha se hai| lajjAzIla rahane meM hI bhAratIya strI kI pratiSThA hai / cUMghaTa kyA hai : bahuta se dezoM meM lajjA kA sabase bar3A pratIka cUMghaTa samajhA jAtA hai| parantu Upara se lekara nIce taka sAre zarIra ko kapar3oM se chupAkara aura hAtha bhara kA lambA ghu ghaTa nikAla kara bAhara AnA. jAnA bhArata kI apanI sabhyatA nahIM hai| yaha paramparA mugalakAla se bhArata meM AI hai| bhAratIya strI ke lie to lajjA hI ghUghaTa hai / A~khoM meM lajjA hai, to saba kucha hai aura yadi yaha nahIM hai, to ghaMghaTa karane se kyA lAbha ? lambA ghaMghaTa majAka kI cIja hai| bahuta-sI striyAM apane ghara vAloM se to lambA cUMbaTa DAla kara pardA karatI haiM, unase bolatI bhI nahIM haiM, parantu bilka la aparicita logoM ke sAmane dhar3alle se bAta kara letI haiM, patA nahIM, parde ko yaha kaisI vyavasthA hai ? Ajakala kucha par3hI likhI striyA~ lajjAlutA ko dabbUpana kahakara manAka kiyA karatI hai ! vastutaH lajjA aura dabbUpA meM pharka hai /

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'62 / Adarza kanyA dabbUpana mana kI hIna bhAvanA, asaMskAritA evaM ajJAna kA sUcaka hai jaba ki lajjA nArI kI kulInatA, sabhyatA, ziSTatA aura suzikSA ko vyakta karatI hai| lajjA kA artha hI hara bAta meM sabhyatA aura ziSTatA kA dhyAna rakhanA hai| adhika kyA, putriyoM ! tuma lajjA kA sadaiva khyAla rkho| koI bhI kAma aisA na karo jisase tumhArI nirlajjatA prakaTa ho / jainadharma meM lajjA ko hI pardA mAnA hai, cUMghaToM ko nahIM / yadi cUMghaTa kA sahI artha samajhakara jIvana meM isa rahasya ko sAkAra kara sako, to nArI jAti kA gaurava tuma avazya bar3hA skogii| al

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16 I saralatA aura sarasatA vizvAsI manuSya kA saMsAra meM bar3A Adara hotA hai| jisa para samAja kA vizvAsa hotA hai, vaha apane kAmoM meM logoM se bar3I sahAyatA prApta karatA hai / tuma jAnatI ho, yaha vizvAsa kaise paidA kiyA jA sakatA hai ? uttara- " saralatA se, sarasatA se / " to jo manuSya sabakA vizvAsa pAtra bananA cAhatA ho, usako sabase pahale jIvana meM sarasatA tathA saralatA lAnI hogI aura kapaTa - kuTilatA kA parityAga karanA par3egA / | nArI sarala hRdaya haiM, to vaha detrI hai| sarala hRdaya hai, to vaha mAtRtva se bhUSita hai / jinameM donoM guNa haiM vaha bhagavatI hai aba ApakI pasanda hai ApakA cunAva hai / saralatA kA guNa prANi-mAta ke lie upayogI hai / kyA strI, kyA puraSa, kyA bUr3he, kyA naujavAna sabhI usase lAbha uThA sakate haiM aura pratiSThA bar3hA sakate haiM / parantu striyoM ke lie to yaha atIva mAvazyaka guNa hai| binA paraspara vizvAsa ke gRhasthI eka kSaNa bhI nahIM cala sakatI / Apasa kA vizvAsa hI gRhastha jIvana ko sukhamaya banAtA hai / aura yaha vizvAsa binA saralatA ke ho hI nahIM sakatA / darpaNa bano putriyoM ! tumheM sarala aura nizchala rahanA cAhie mana meM taraha :

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64 : Adarza kabhyA taraha kI udher3a-buna karanA, kAMTa-chA~Ta karanA, bar3A kharAba kAma hai / mana ko tuma jitanA hI kuTila aura bahamI banAogI, utana hI ghara meM kleza aura dveSa bddh'egaa| tumhArA mana darpaNa ke samAna samatala ho, khojane para bhI usameM kahIM Ubar3a-khAbar3apana evaM bA~kI Ter3hI rekhA na mile / mAyA mana kA andhakAra hai : apane aparAdhoM ko chipAnA yA chipAne ke lie jhUTha bolanA mahA pApa hai hai / isakA hI dUsarA nAma kuTilatA hai, mAyA hai / yaha durbala hRdaya kA cinha hai / jisakA hRdaya durbala ho jAtA hai, vaha apane lie hI bhAra ho jAtA hai / bhagavAn mahAvIra ne jaina-dharma meM IsIlie pratikramaNa karane ko bahuta mahatva diyA hai| pratikramaNa meM apanI bhUloM ko svIkAra kiyA jAtA hai aura isa prakAra mana kA daMbha nikAlakara use sarala evaM sUdRr3ha banAyA jAtA hai / mAyA mana kA andhakAra hai ise dUra karane ke lie prakikramaNa kA prakAzamAna sUrya avazya hai / kalpanAoM kA kendra : mana / bahuta-sI lar3akiyAM, apane doSa chipAne ke lie apane bar3oM se yahA~ taka ki mAtA-pitA se bhI jhUThA bahAnA banAtI haiN| bAra-bAra pUchane para bhI satya bAta nahIM batAtI / parantu kyA yaha ucita hai ? chipAne vAlI kabho bho doSoM se apanA piMDa nahIM chor3A sakatI / doSa dUra tabhI hoMge jabaki ve apane bar3oM ke sAmane sApha-sApha prakaTa kara diye jAe~ge / aparAdha, chipAkara mana ko zAnti nahIM milatI hai / mana meM sadA bhaya banA rahatA hai, ki kahIM merI bAteM prakaTa na ho jAeM ? aparAdha chipAne vAle kA mana, bhayaMkara kalpanAoM

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saralatA aura sarasatA : 65 kA kendra bana jAtA hai / aura usake mana kI upala-puthala kabhI bhI zAzta nahIM hotii| kAma se pahale socie : pyArI putriyo ! tuma kabhI bhI koI aparAdha chipAkara mata rakkhA karo / insAna hai, bhUla' ho jAtI hai| bhUla ho jAnA, koI bar3I bAta nahIM hai, 'saMsAra ke bar3e-bar3e AdamI bhI bhUla kara gae haiM / parantu pApa hai bhUla ko pAnA, manA karanA, tumhArA samasta vyavahAra sarala ho, tumhArA bacana aura mana sarala ho, tuma andara aura bAhara eka banakara raho / mana ke andAra taraha-taraha ke parde acche nahIM lagate / jaba tuma kisI taraha kA kAma karane lago, kisI se milo, kisI se bAlacIta karo, to usake pahale apane hRdaya meM isa bAta kA avazyaM vicAra karalo ki "isa bAta athavA kAma ke prakAzita hone meM hameM koI bhaya to.nhiiN| samaya Ane para hameM isa bAta yA kAma ko binA kisI saMkoca ke sabake sAmane prakAzita to karA sakate haiM " yadi isa prakAra pratyeka kArya karane se pahale, apane hRdaya meM vicAra kara liyA. karo, to tumheM isakA madhura phala zIghra hI mAlUma ho me lagegA / usa samaya tuma jAna sakogI, ki hama koI bhUla nahIM kara rahI haiM, mAyA nahIM raca rahI haiM, aparAdha nahIM chipA rahI hai / usa samaya tunako mAlUma hogA, tuma para logoM kA kitanA adhika vizvAsa bar3hA hai aura tumhArA hRdaya kitanA adhika pavitra huA hai vaha saba tuma tabhI prApta kara sakogI, jaba tumhArA mana darpaNa ke samAna sApha hogaa| saralatA aura caturatA: paralatA kA yaha artha nahIM hai, ki tuma bilkula buddha banakara rho| saralatA kA virodha chala-kapaTa se hai caturatA se nahIM, kapaTI

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66 : Adarza kanyA hon| eka bAta hai, aura catura honA dUsarI bAta / tuma catura raho jhaTa-paTa kisI kI bAtoM meM na Ao, apane kAma ko hara taraha se saphala banAne kA prayatna karA / isameM koI pa.pa nahIM hai| pApa haideza meM mAyAcAra meM / basa mAyA se bco| gopanIyatA kyA hai : ___ apanI bAta prakaTa karane kA yaha artha nahIM hai, ki gRhastho kI jo bhI gopanIya bAta ho, saba prakaTa kara do| ghara kI bahuta-sI bAteM aisI hotI haiM, jo chipAne kI hI hotI haiM / hara jagaha ghara kA bheda khola dene se bhArI anartha ho jAne kI sambhAvanA hai / tuma svayaM buddhiH matI ho, samaya aura asamaya kA khyAla rakho / koI samaya chipAne kA hotA hai, aura koI samaya chipAne kA nahIM bho hotA hai| __ yahA~ hamAre kahane kA abhiprAya itanA hI hai, mAtA-pitA ke sAmane tathA Age calakara sAsa, sasura yA pati ke sAmane haradama chipAkara kAma karanA, aura pUchane para sahI-sahI na batAnA yaha gRhajIvana ke lie nitAnta patana kA mArga hai / ataeva isase bacane kA prayatna karanA pratyeka nArI kA vizuddha kartavya hai /

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prema eka virATa zakti hai, isa zakti kA saMcaya hRdaya kI vizAlatA para nirbhara karatA hai| vaha vizAlatA Apa meM hai, to sArA vizva ApakI muTThI meM hai| aura muTThI kholakara dikhA dIjie ki prema meM kitanI zakti hai| ma ko virATa zaktiH yaha do akSaroM kA zabda 'prema' kaisA madhura hai ? mukha se prema zabda kalate ho kahane vAle kI jIbha aura sunana vAle ke kAna madhura hA The haiM / aura sabase madhura ho jAtA hai-hRdaya, jA kabhA isa madhuratA bhUlatA hI nhiiN| prema kA sukhaprada aMkura, pazu pakSiyAM taka me pAyA jAtA hai| hiMsaka hamAdi pazu bho aphnA santAna se prema karate haiN| tumane dekhA hai ? bAra zerano bhI apane baccoM ko kisa prema ke sAtha dUdha pilAtI / tumane kamo kutiyA kA apane baccoM ko dUdha pilAte hue dekhA hai| dha pilAte samaya kutiyA leTa jAtI hai, saba pille ikaTThe hokara sakI jora dor3ate hai, koI idhara se dUdha pAtA hai to, koI udhara se, I-koI to peTa para bhI car3ha baiThate hai / parantu kutiyA Ananda se kheM banda kie leTI rahatI hai aura dUdha pilAtI hai| isI prakAra ya kA apane bacce ke prati kitanA prema hai ? vaha apane bacce ko ma se cATatI jAtI hai aura sAtha hI dUdha pilAtI jAtI hai| katanA madhura aura mahAna hai-prema kA rAjya ? ___

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68 : Adarza kanyA prema kA mUlyAMkana : putriyo ! pazuoM kI bAta chodd'o| tuma apane ghara meM hI dekho tumhArI mAtA tuma se kitanA prema rakhatI hai ? jaba tuma bahuta cho baccI thI, cArapAI para leTI rahatI thI, mAlUma hai taba tuma ka karatI thI taba tumhA karatI thI ? kapar3oM ko gandA kara diyA mAtA hI vaha saba gandagI sApha karatI thI / mAtA, kitane prema apane bacce ko pAlatI hai ? tumase yadi prema na hotA, to kyA ? Aja itanI bar3I hotI ? nahIM, kabhI nahIM / 1 aba tuma itanI sayAnI ho gayI ho aura apanA bhalA burA samajhane laga gaI ho, taba bhI vaha tumako kitanA pyAra karatI hai ? tuma ghara para nahIM hotI, taba bhI vaha tumhAre lie khAne pIne a pahanane Adi kI cIjeM kisa prakAra bacAkara rakha chor3atI hai / yaha prema kI mahimA hai| pazuoM kA prema ajJAna- mUlaka hotA hai, ba mAnava jAti kA jJAna-mUlaka / manuSyoM meM bhI bahuta prema karane vAle hai / parantu yadi viveka aura jJAna kA sahaya liyA jAya, to prema, saMsAra ke lie eka anamola dena ho jA hAM, to prema kI itanI AvazyakatA hai, ataH prema kA mUlyAMkana kare sIkho / *** se ajJAna ma x $ 1 prema se taraMgita raho : prema mAnava jAti ke lie eka mahAn viziSTa guNa hai / vi pUrvaka prema kI upAsanA karane vAlA vyakti kabhI kisI prakAra duHkha nahIM pA sakatA / jo lar3akiyA~ dUsaroM ko duHkhI dekhakara sa duHkha kA anubhava karatI haiM, unake duHkha ko dUra karane ke lie jha taiyAra ho jAtI haiM, samAja meM unakA gaurava kitanA bar3A bar3A ho yaha kucha likhakara batalAne kI bAta nahIM hai| prema kA pra /

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prema ko virATa zakti : 66 Apa vizva para prakAzita ho jAtA hai| AvazyakatA hai, prema se gata rahane kii| karo prema milegA: yaha saMsAra eka prakAra kA darpaNa hai / tuma jAnatI ho, darpaNa yA hotA hai / darpaNa ke Age yadi tuma hAtha jor3ogI, tA vahA~ pratibimba bhI tumheM hAtha jodd'egaa| aura yadi tuma darpaNa ko cA~TA ogI, to vaha apane pratibimba ke dvArA tumheM cA~TA dikhaa|| vaha to gumvada ko AvAja hai, jaisA kahe vaisA sune / yadi sabake sAtha prema kA vyavahAra karAgI, to ve saba bhI tumase prema hI vyavahAra kreNge| aura yadi tuma ghamaNDa meM Akara kisI prakAra durvyavahAra karogI, tA badale meM tumheM bhI vahI abhadra vyavahAra gaa| tuma dekhatI ho prema ke badale meM ve bhI tumase hAdika prema jI haiM / aura jinase tuma ghRNA karatI ho badale meM ve bhI tuma se 'prakAra ghRNA karatI haiM / burAI aura bhalAI bAhara nahIM, tumhAre ke hI bhItara hai| bhagavAn mahAvIra kA yaha divya sandeza sadA rakkho ki-"apane andara dekho|" jaba tuma kisI garIba lar3akI ko dekhakara usase prema karatI to vaha tumhArA Adara karatI huI tuma para dugunA sneha prakaTa ratI hai| aura jaba use garIba jAnakara ghRNA kI dRSTi se khatI ho, taba vaha bhI tamhArI burAI karatI huI tumase napharata karatI hai| yaha eka nizcita siddhAnta hai ki jaba bhI tuma kisI ke prati apane mana meM vaira aura DAha karogI, taba usake mana meM bhI usI prakAra kA vaira aura DAha tumhAre lie utpanna ho jAegA / yAda rakkho-saMsAra eka darpaNa hai| yahA~ jo prema karatA hai, usI ko prema milatA hai|

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70 : Adarza kanyA svarga kA nirmANa karo : dha pyArI putriyo ? aba tuma prema kI mahimA samajha gaI hogI pAThazAlA kI jitanI bhI lar3akiyA~ hoM, una sabake sAtha prema-pUrva vyavahAra karo, tathA sabako apanI bahana ke samAna samajho, para mAtA pitA bhAI, bahana sabake sAtha prema pUrvaka bartAva ka yahA~ taka ki ghara ke naukara cAkaroM ke sukha-dukha kA bhI khyA rakkho | muhalle kI lar3akiyoM ke sAtha bhI khUba hila-milakara rahe muhalle kI bar3I-bUr3hI striyoM kA bhI yathAyogya Adara-sammAna karo saba ora apane prema kI sugandha phailA do / nArI prema kI sAkSAta mu hai ghRNA aura dveSa naraka hai, prema aura sadvyavahAra svarga hai / apane prema ke bala para ghara ko, muhalle ko, gA~va ko aura deza svarga banA do, svarga ! sAkSAta svarga !!

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18 hAsya kI madhurimA nArI ke sondarya va svAsthya kI abhivRddhi karatI hai / sabhI ne yaha svIkAra kiyA hai, kintu unakA kahanA haiM, hAsya kI sImArekhA avazya honI cAhie | ha~sI - dillagI ha~sanA koI burA kAma nahIM hai / manuSya kI jindagI meM ha~sanA, eka bar3A guNa hai / itane bar3e virAT saMsAra meM ha~sanA eka manuSya ko hI AtA hai, aura kisI pazu-pakSI ko nhiiN| kyA tumane kabhI kisI gAya-bhaiMsa Adi pazu ko ha~sate dekhA hai ? nahIM dekhA hogA / pazu-pakSI ha~sanA jAnate hI nhiiN| prakRti kI ora se yaha anupama bheMTa eka mAtra manuSya ko hI milI hai / vaha manuSya hI kyA jisakA mu~ha hamezA udAsa rahatA hai / jo bAta-bAta para muMha car3hA letA hai - bar3abar3Ane lagatA hai, vaha manuSya nahIM rAkSasa hai / jisake mukha para sadA manda- hAsya aThakheliyA~ karatA rahatA hai, vahI manuSya saccA manuSya hai / vaha jahA~ bhI rahegA, vahAM nirantara Ananda-maMgala kI varSA karatA rahegA / ha~sI kI sImA : ha~sane kI bhI sImA hai / ha~sane ke sAtha kucha viveka aura vicAra, kI bhI AvazyakatA hai / jisa ha~sane meM viveka na ho, vicAra na ho vaha kabhI-kabhI mahAn anartha kA kAraNa bana jAtA hai / saMsAra ke itihAsa meM bahuta-sI ghaTanAeM isI viveka rahita haMsI ke kAraNa huI -

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72 : Adarza kanyA haiN| mahAbhArata yuddha kI pRSThabhUmi meM yadi sUkSma nirIkSaNa se dekhA jAe, to bhImasena aura draupadI kI anucita ha~sA hI chipI milegii| andhe ghRtarASTra ke putra, duryodhana kI draupadI ne haMso meM yahI kahA thA, ki andhe ke andha hI paidA hue / basa, usI se mahAbhArata + khUna ko nadiyA~ baha gaI ! ataH ha~sI manuSya ke lie Avazyaka hai, yaha sahI hai| parantu isa kI bhI eka sImA honI caahie| hA~, to putriyo ! kisI kI haMsI-dillagI karate samaya samajha-bUjha se kAma lo / tumhAro ha~sI-dillago zuddha ho / usameM gandApana na ho, usase kisI ko hAni na hA / ha~sI-dillagI svayaM koI kharAba cIja nahIM hai / yaha jIvana ke lie lAbhadAyaka guNa hai / parantu ha~sI-dillagI sImA ke andara rahakara hI karanI cAhie / sImA se bAhara koI bhI kAma kyoM na ho, usase hAni hI hotI hai| ha~sI kA samaya : haMsI-dillagI Ananda ke lie kI jAtI hai / ataH ha~sI ke lie samaya, aura asamaya kA dhyAna rakhanA Avazyaka hai| kabhI aisA hotA hai ki sabake sAmane ha~sI karane se manuSya lajjita ho jAtA hai aura apane mana meM gAMTha bAMdhakara rakha letA hai| Age calakara usakA bhayaMkara pariNAma nikalatA hai| sammukha sAthI prasanna hoM acchI sthiti meM ho, tabhI ha~sI-dillagI Ananda paidA karatI hai / yadi vaha kisI kharAba sthiti meM ho, to usa asamaya kI ha~sI-dillagI ke Ananda ke badale krodha hI utpanna hogaa| bahuta-sI lar3akiyAM adhika culabulI hotI haiM / ve apanI sAthina lar3akiyoM kI hamezA ha~sI ur3AyA karatI haiN| kisI ke raMga-rUpa kI ha~sI karatI haiM, to kisI ke cAla-DhAla kI ha~sI karatI haiN| kisI kI capaTI nAka para ha~satI haiM, to kisI kI U~cI nAka kI Alo

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ha~sI-dillagI : 73 banA karatI haiN| yaha Adata acchI nahIM hai| kisI ke kAle rUpa kI to kisI kI capaTI nAka Adi kI ha~sI karanA bahuta asabhyatA kA lakSaNa hai / tuma nahIM jAnatI tumhArI ha~sI se usake dila ko kitanI adhika coTa lagatI hogI ? kisI kA dila dukhAnA bahuta burA hai / haMsI meM kyA vajita hai : haMsI meM bhI kisI ke gupta doSoM ko mata prakAzita karo, agara kisI se koI bhUla ho gaI hai, aparAdha ho gayA hai, to tumheM kyA adhikAra hai, ki use nocA dikhAne ke lie ha~sI kro| aisI haMsI mamRta ke bajAya jahara bana jAtI hai, ha~sI-dillagI meM kisI se kabhI koI kar3avI bAta mata kho| tumhArI haMsI madhura ho, usa meM prama kI khuzabU ho / dekhanA, usameM kahIM dvaSa aura ghRNA kI durgandha na chupI ____ adhika ha~sanA bhI acchA nahIM hai| bahuta sI lar3akiyA~ hamezA hara kisI ke sAmane haMsI-dillagI ki yA karatI haiM / na ve samaya kA dhyAna rakhatI haiM, aura na vyakti kA / parantu nArI jIvana meM isa prakAza amaryAdita ha~sanA zobhA nahIM detaa| isa taraha hamezA hara kisI ke sAtha haMsI karane se gambhIratA jAtI rahatI hai| adhika ha~sor3a lar3akI sabhya samAja meM Adara nahIM paatii|

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sevA mAnava kA mUlyavAna gUNa hai| aura phira daridranArAyaNa kI sevA to sarvAdhika mUlyavAna hai| jisa nArI ko yaha avasara prApta ho gayA-samajha lo, vaha yogiyoM kI samAdhi se bhI bar3hakara hai| daridranArAyaNa kI sevA mevA parama dharma hai / sevA ke barAbara na koI dharma huA, aura na kabhI hogA / jo manuSya rogI kI sevA karatA hai, vaha eka prakAra se bhagavAn kI sevA karatA hai| bhagavAna mahAvIra se eka bAra gautama svAmI ne pUchA ki --- "bhagavAna eka bhakta ApakI sevA karatA hai aura dUsarA dIna-dukhI rogI kI sevA karatA hai, donoM meM kauna dhanya hai|" bhagavAna mahAvIra ne uttara diyA- 'gautama / jo dIna-dukhI, rogI kI sevA karatA hai, vaha dhanya hai| jitendra bhagavAn kI sevA unakI mAjJAoM ke pAlana meM hai / aura unakI AjJA duHkhita janatA kI sevA karatA hai|" sevA prabhu kI yA rogI ko ? bhagavAna mahAvIra ke ukta kathana se siddha ho jAtA hai, ki rogI kI sevA, bhagavAva kI sevA se bhI bar3hakara hai| dayA manuSya kA

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daridranArAyaNa kI sevA : 75 cinha hai / jisake hRdaya meM dayA nahIM, vaha manuSya nahIM, pazu hai| aura phira ghara ke bImAroM kI sevA karanA, to dayA hI nahIM; kartavya hai / jisa manuSya ne samaya para apane Avazyaka kartavya ko pUrA nahIM kiyA vaha jIvana meM aura bhalA kyA kAma karegA ? bahata-sI lar3akiyAM rogI kI sevA se 'jI carAtI haiM / jaba kabhI koI ghara meM bImAra par3a jAtA hai, taba dUra-dUra rahatI haiM pAsa taka nahIM AtI haiN| yaha Adata bar3I kharAba hai, jaina-dharma meM isa prakAra sevA karane se jI curAne ko pApa batAyA hai / jaina-dharma kA bhAdarza hI sevA karanA hai / vaha to apane par3ausI aura sAdhAraNa pazu-pakSI taka kI sevA aura rakSA ke lie padeza detA hai| bhalA jo manuSya kI, aura vaha bhI apane ghara vAloM kI sevA nahIM kara sakatI, vaha paDausI aura pazu-pakSiyoM kI kyA rakSA karegI ? unakI dayA kaise pAlegI ? rogoM kI sevA to prabhU kI sevA se bhI bar3hakara hai| sevA kI vidhi jaba bhI samaya mile rogI ke pAsa baiTho / samaya kyA mile, samaya nikaalo| yadi rogI ghabarAtA ho, to use mIThe vacanoM se tasallI do| jaba dekho, ki rogI bahuta ghabarA rahA hai. to koI acchA-sA dhArmika viSaya cher3a do, koI acchI-sI dhArmika kathA sunAo / dhArmika bAteM sunane se AtmA meM zAnti aura bala bar3hatA hai, tathA rogI kA mana bhI apanI vyAdhi para se haTakara acche vicAroM meM laga jAtA hai| rogI ke lie svacchatA kA bahuta dhyAna rakkho ! rogI ke Asa-. pAsa jarA bhI gandagI nahIM rahanI caahie| kapar3e gande aura maile hoM, Asa-pAsa gandagI ho, to roga dUra hone ke bajAya adhika bar3ha

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76 : Adarza kanyA jAtA hai, aura pAsa meM Ane-jAne vAle vyakti va DAkTara Adi sajjanoM ko bhI ghRNA hotI hai / auSadhi kA prabandha : auSadhi kA barAbara dhyAna rakhanA cAhiye / auSadhi ko khUba yatna se svaccha sthAna meM rakhane kA aura niyamita samaya para dene kA dhyAna rkho| kauna auSadhi kaisI hai, kisa samaya para denI hai, kisa paddhati se denI hai ?- ityAdi saba jAnakArI likhakara apane pAsa rkho| auSadhi kI zIzI para auSadhi kA nAma likha lo, aura khurAkoM kI saMkhyA cinhita kara do| bahuta-sI bAra auSadhiyoM kI ulaTa-palaTa se bar3A anartha ho jAtA hai| eka gA~va kI ghaTanA hai, ki eka lar3akA bImAra par3A, gale para gilTI nikalI aura jvara bhI ho AyA / DAkTara ne donoM rogoM ke lie do alaga-alaga auSadhiyA~ de dI / anapar3ha mAtA bhUla gii| usake gilTI para lagAne vAle tela ko pilA diyA aura pIne kA arka gilTI para cupar3a diyaa| tela' meM viSa thA, eka hI ghanTe meM lar3akA paralokavAsI ho gyaa| jarA-sI bhUla ne kitanA anartha kara diyaa| sevA ke patha para calie : _rogI kI sevA karate-karate yadi bahuta dina ho jAe~, to bho ghabarAnA ucita nahIM hai| rogI kI sevA hI manuSya ke dhairya kI parIkSA kA aMvasara hai / yadi lambI bImArI ke samaya tuma dhIraja kho baiThI aura rogI kI sevA se jI curAne lagI to phira tuma sevA kA mUlyavAna kArya na kara sakogI / tumhArA hRdaya prema ke abhAva meM sUkha jaaygaa| phira vaha kisI kAma kA na rhegaa| taba tuma praima kisI bhare pUre parivAra meM gRha-lakSmI banakara na raha skogii| sevA hI nAro jIvana kI saphalatA kA mUla maMtra hai / ataH nArI ko kama se kama sevA

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daridranArAyaNa kI sevA : 77. ke kSetra meM to asIma dhairya aura lagana se laga kara rogI kI sevA karanI cAhie / gaMgA kitanI zAnta gati se bahatI hai| usameM dhairya kA gambhIratA kA, kahIM abhAva dRSTigata hotA hai ? nahIM ! to phira tumheM bhI.,gaMgA ko taraha zAnta mana se dhIre-dhIre sevA para avirAmaH gati se bahate rahanA cAhie, calate hI rahanA caahie|

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'koyala ke mIThe bola' bahuta saMbhava hai, tumheM bhI koyala jaisA mIThA bolane kI preraNA de jAe~, tumhArI vANI kI vINA se sambhava hai, hamezA ke lie mIThe hI svara nikalane lge| koyala ke moThe bola saMsAra kI saba kalAoM meM bolane kI kalA sabase bar3I aura mahatvapUrNa hai / Aja taka kA itihAsa hameM yahI kahatA hai, jisake pAsa bolane kI kalA thI, usane saMsAra meM Adara pAyA aura saMsAra ko apane kadamoM para claayaa| yahAM bolane kI kalA kA matalaba sabhA meM bhASaNa dene se nahIM hai, apitu mIThA bolane se hai, eka vyakti aisA bolatA hai, ki sAmane vAle vyakti kA hRdaya jIta letA hai, aura eka aisA bolatA hai, ki apanA bhI gaira ho jAtA hai, yahA~ taka ki usake dvArA kahI gaI hita kI bAta bhI burI lagatI hai| __ koyala hI sabako pyArI kyoM lagatI hai / kyA vaha tumheM kucha de detI hai ? aura kauA burA kyoM lagatA hai / kyA vaha tumase kucha chIna letA hai ? uttara spaSTa hai-na kaumA chInatA hai aura na koyala kucha de hI deto hai / eka kavi ne isa bAta ko yoM rakhA hai -- kAgA kisakA dhana hare ? koyala kisako deya? madhura vacana ke kAraNe, jaga apanA kara leya ? ___

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koyala ke mIThe bola : 76 madhura bhASaNa : 1 uparyukta koyala aura kauve ke udAharaNa se yaha siddha huA, ki tuma bhArata mAtA ko santAna hA deza kI suputriyoM meM sumhArI gaNanA hai | ataH tumhAre lie madhura bhASaNa ko bar3I AvazyakatA hai / manuSya ke hRdaya kI anamola vastu prema hai aura isa prema ko dUsare para prakaTa karane kA sAdhana hai - madhura bhASaNa ! ziSTa bhASA manuSya, jo kArya bAtoM se nikAla lete haiM, vaha dUsare paisA kharca karake bhI nahIM nikAla sakate / isakI tulanA meM saMsAra ko koI bhI kalA nahIM Thahara sakatI / prema kA vistRta kSetra : madhura bhASaNa karane vAlI lar3akI se, usake saba sambandhoM, tathA milane vAle par3ausI Adi sabhI prasanna rahate haiM / bAsa-pAsa ke gharoM kI bAlikAe~ bAra-bAra usake pAsa AtI haiM ora usake sukha-dukha meM sahAnubhUti dikhalAtA hai| eka bAra jo vyakti usase mila letA hai, phira jIvana bhara use nahIM bhuultaa| aisI lar3akI jahA~ jAtI hai, sammAna pAtI hai| kyA strI aura kyA puruSa, sabake saba usase pyAra karate haiM, usakI prazaMsA karate haiM aura unnati kI kAmanA karate haiM / vaha barAbara apane prema aura sneha kSetra ko 'vistRta karatI calI jAtI hai / madhura vANI kI vINA : jisa nArI ke kaNTha meM mAdhurya hotA hai, usake ghara meM sadA zAnti kA rAjya rahatA hai / aura yadi kabhI kisI kAraNa azAnti hotI bhI hai, to jyoMhI nArI kI madhura vANI kI vINA bajanI prArambha hotI hai, tyoM hI vaha azAnti lupta ho jAtI hai, aura usake sthAna meM sukha zAnti kA samudra hiloreM mArane lagatA hai / bhagavAn

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80 : Adarza kanyA mahAvIra kI mAtA kitanA madhura bolatI thI ? bhagavAna mahAvIra kI ziSyA candanavAlA kI vANI meM kinanI adhika miThAsa thI ? usane chattIsa hajAra sAdhviyoM ke saMgha para zAsana kiyA thA, usakI madhura vANI virodhiyoM ke hRdaya ko bhI madhura banA detI thii| vANI mizrI kI DalI ho: karkaza aura kaThora bhASaNa karane vAlI striyA~, ThIka isake viparIta hotI haiM-ve .sadA. muMha car3hAe bhUkhI zeranI kI taraha jhuMjhalAtI phirA karatI haiM, aura kyA baccoM se aura kyA. bar3oM se, saba logoM se durvacana bolatI haiM, phalataH apane nikaTa ke premiyoM ko zatra banA letI haiN| unase koI bolanA nahIM caahtaa| unake pAsa koI jAnA nahIM caahtaa| usakI karkaza vANI ke kAraNa prAyaH ghara aura bAhara bAle, usakI amaMgala kI kAmanA kiyA karate haiN| aura usake sambandha meM nizcita, dhAraNA banA lete haiM, ki kaThora bolane vAlI amuka strI. sUrpanakhA hI hai| adhika kyA kahA jAya? saMkSepa meM miSDa bhASI aura kaThora bhASI lar3akI meM itanA hI anta ra hai, ki jahA~ eka apane ghara ko nandana-vana banAkara usameM madhura manorama tAna bharato haiM, to dUsarI ghara ko ujAra banAkara use lar3AI-jhagar3e kA akhAr3A banA detI hai| kaho putriyo| tama kisa prakAra kI honA cAhatI ho ? tumhArI AtmA nandana-bana meM rahanA cAhatI hai, yA ujAr3a meM nandana-vana ko cAhatA ho to madhura bolo ! eka dama sadA madhura ! jo bAta ho sahI ho, acchI ho aru bhalI ho / ' kar3avI na ho, na mUTho, misarI kI-sI DalI ho|| bhUmaNDala para tIna ratna haiM, jala, - anna, subhASita knno| . patthara ke Takar3oM meM karate, ratna kalpanA phAma prApI 4k.

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brahmacarya hI bhAratIya-saMskRti kA Adi, anta aura madhya hai / jisakA jIvana isa alaukika teja se dIpta hai, vaha insAna se bhagavAn kI ora hI bar3hatA jAtA hai / pUjya munijI ke Atma-vizvAsa bhare zabdoM meM par3hie " ....! brahmacarya kA teja tumhAre sAmane eka bahuta bar3A gahana aura gambhIra viSaya upasthita hai / jIvana kA saccA Adarza eka prakAra se isI viSaya meM hai / yadi tuma Thoka-ThIka isa viSaya ko samajha sakI aura AvaraNa meM lA sakI, to tuma nArI jIvana kI uccatama pavitratA ko bhalI-bhAMti surakSita rakha sakogI aura bhaviSya meM eka mahAn Adarza gRha-lakSmI bana skogii| ___ manuSya kA jIvana apUrva puNya ke udaya se prApta huA hai / svarga aura mokSa kA saccA dvAra yahI mAnada jIvana hai / jo manuSya, mAnava jIvana ko saphala banAtA hai, vahI vizva ke raMga-maMca para saphala abhinetA mAnA jAtA hai / mAnava jIvana kA lakSya hai-AdhyAtmika jIvana, sadAcAra kA jIvana, brahmacarya kA jIvana / abhI tuma vidyA par3hatI ho, ataeva brahmacAriNI ho / vidyA lA karane ke lie brahma parya-brata kA pAlana karanA atyanta Avazyaka hai / brahmacAriNI ke pavitra kaNTha para sarasvatI devI bar3e prema se Akara mAsana jamAtI hai, aura jJAna ke prakAza se sArA jIvana Alokita

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82 : Adarza kanyA kara detI hai / brahmacarya kA vrata, saba rogoM ko kosoM dUra bhagAkara zarIra meM bala buddhi kA vikAsa karatA hai, aura mukha maNDala para apUrva saundarya evaM teja kA prakAza DAlatA hai / brahmacarya kA mahatva : bhagavAn mahAvIra ne brahmacarya kA mahatva bahuta U~ce zabda meM varNana kiyA hai / " brahmacarya kA pAlana atIva kaThina kAma hai / jo sAdhaka brahmacarya kA pAlana karatA hai, usake caraNa kamaloM meM deva, rAkSasa, mAnava aura dAnava Adi sabhI namaskAra karate haiM / jaina dharma meM brahmacayaM kI gaNanA muniyoM ke pA~ca mahAvratoM meM cauthe nambara para hai / aura gRhastha ke pA~ca avaguNoM aura bAraha vratoM meM bhI cauthA nambara hai / brahmacarya ke prabhAva se viSa bhI amRta ho jAtA hai, dhadhakatI huI agni zItala bana jAtI hai / mahArAnI sItA ne apane satItva se jalate hue agnikuNDa ko jala kuNDa banA diyA thA, yAda hai na AkhyAna ! brahmacarya pAlana kA prakAra : brahmacarya do prakAra se pAlana kiyA jAtA hai - eka pUrNa rUpa se aura dUsare deza rUpa se / pUrNa rUpa se brahmacarya pAlana kA artha hainiyama dhAraNa karane ke bAda jIvana bhara ke lie mana, vacana aura karma se viSaya vAsanA se alaga rhnaa| jaina muni aura jaina sAdhviyoM yahI prathama nambara ke pUrNa brahmacarya kA pAlana karatI hai / jaina sAdhu-strI ko, cAhe vaha eka dina kI baccI hI kyoM na ho, usakA bhI sparza nahIM karatA / jaina - sAdhvI bhI puruSa ko cAhe vaha dUdha pIne vAlA baccA hI kyoM na ho, sparza nahIM karatI / brahmacarya kA isa prakAra akhaNDa pAlana brahmacarya mahAvrata kahalAtA hai / deza rUpa se brahmacarya pAlana kA artha hai- deza se yAnI khaNDa se

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brahmacarya kA teja : 83 brahmacarya pAlana | yaha gRhastha ke lie hai / gRhastha avasthA meM brahmacaryaM kA pAlana pUrNa rUpa se jarA azakya hai, ataH deza brahmacarya kA vidhAna kiyA hai| jaba taka gRhastha dazA meM strI-puruSa vivAha nahIM karate haiM / taba taka unheM brahmacarya kA pUrA pAlana karanA caahie| aura jaba vivAha bandhana meM baMdha jAe, taba strI apane pati ke sivAya aura puruSa apanI patnI ke sivAya, brahmacarya kA pAlana karatA hai / jaina-dharma kA yaha brahmacarya vibhAjana, manovijJAna kI nizcita zailI para AdhArita hai / jaina-dharma meM sabhI vratoM kA manovaijJAnika vidhAna kiyA gayA hai / brahmacarya-sAdhanA ke niyama : hA~ to pyArI putriyo ! tumhAre hAtha bar3A amUlya avasara hai / jaba taka tumhAre mAtA-pitA tumhArA vidhivata vivAha saMskAra na karadeM, taba taka brahmacarya vrata kA pUrA pAlana karo / saMsAra ke jitane bhI puruSa haiM sabakA pitA va bhAI ke samAna samajho / bar3oM ko pitA aura barAbara kI Ayu vAloM ko bhAI / apane hRdaya ko sadaiva nirmala rakkho / burI bAtoM ko tathA vAsanAoM ko kabhI pAsa na Ane do, aura pUrNa brahmacAriNo raha kara vidyA par3ho | brahmacarya vrata ko dRr3ha rakhane ke lie nIce likhI bAtoM ko tyAga dene kI AvazyakatA hai - 1. gande sinemA dekhanA | 2. gando kitAbeM par3hanA / 3. bhAMr3a ceSTAe~ Adi karanA / 4. puruSoM ke bIca meM vyatha ghUmanA / 5. gande gajala Adi ke gAne gAnA | 6. rUpa-raMga ke banAva zRMgAra meM rahanA / 7. kisI puruSa kI ora bAra-bAra dekhanA |

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84 : Adarza kanyA strI kA AbhUSaNa lajjA hai / yaha yAda rakkho-jo lar3ako bacapana meM nirlajja ho jAtI hai, usa para phira sadAcAra kA raMga car3hanA kaThina hai| motI kI Aba eka bAra utara jAne ke bAda phira kabho vApisa nahIM AtI ! brahmacarya kA dUsarA nambara vivAha saMskAra hone ke pazcAt AtA hai / mAtA-pitA jisake sAtha vidhivat vivAha kara deM, vaha pati hai| sadaiva pati kI AjJA meM rahanA, pati kI sneha bhakti karanA, pratyeka suzIla lar3akI kA kartavya hai / yadi bhAgyavaza pati meM kucha truTi ho, to hatAza aura udAsa nahIM honA cAhie, bar3I gambhIratA aura caturatA se truTiyoM ko dUra karane kA prayatna karanA cAhie / eka pati ke atirikta saMsAra ke jitane bhI puruSa haiM, sabako pitA, bhAI aura putra ke samAna samajhanA caahie| vivAhita hone ke bAda sItA, draupadI aura aMjanA Adi mahAsatiyoM ke Adarza apane sammukha rakhane caahie| patnI ke guNa : vivAhita jovana meM strI ko kisa prakAra rahanA cAhie, isa sambandha meM kucha subhASitoM para cintana-manana karanA lAbhaprada hogaa| vai subhASita jIvana para gaharI chApa DAlate haiM, aura jIvana bhara Adarza sUtroM kA kAma dete haiN| patnI aura dAsI kA kitanA sundara vibhAjana hai| 1. jo pati kI sahAyaka ho, vaha patnI ! 2. jo pati kI sahacAriNI ho, vaha patnI ! 3. jo pati ke jIvana ko sukhI kare, vaha patnI ! 4. jo pati ke jIvana ko ucca banAe, vaha patnI / 5. jo pati ke doSoM ko namratA se sudhAre, vaha patnI! 6. jo pati ke sukha-duHkha meM barAbara bhAga le ?

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brahmacarya kA teja : 55 kucha aura bhI: 1. alaMkAra aura ThATa-bATa kI jo icchA kare, vaha dAsI ! 2. zarIra ke bhoMgoM kI jo icchA kare, vaha vezyA ! 3. pati ke sukha kI jo kAmanA kare, vaha patnI ! 4. pati kI unnati ke lie jo Atma-bhoga de, vaha devo

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bhaya kA bhUta, dhuna kI taraha manuSya ke vizvAsa ko khAtA rahatA hai / jisa nArI meM vizvAsa nahIM bolatA, vaha kara hI kyA sakatI hai? bhaya vizvAsa ko khatma kara detA hai| bhaya, mana kA ghana hai jo vyakti bAta-bAta para bhaya karatA hai, DaratA hai, samajha lo, usane apane jIvana meM koI bar3A kAma nahIM ho sktaa| bhaya to manuSya ke mana kA ghana hai / yaha ghana andara hI andara manuSya ke utsAha zarIra aura sevA Adi acche guNoM ko cabA DAlatA hai / phira vaha manuSya saMsAra meM kisI bhI kAma kA nahIM rhtaa| puruSoM kI apekSA striyoM meM bhaya kI bhAvanA adhika hai| jarA. jarA sI bAta para striyA~ bhaya se kAMpane lagatI haiN| aura dhIraja kho baiThatI haiN| jaba koI lar3akA DaratA hai; to kahA karate haiM. kiare yaha lar3akA hai yA laDakI ? itanA DaratA hai ? tUne to lar3akiyoM ko bhI mAta kara diyaa|" isakA matalaba yaha huA, ki-lar3akiyAM DarA karatI haiM, DaranA unakA svabhAva ho gayA hai| astu, pUtriyo ! tamheM nArI jAti para se isa kalaMka ko dUra karanA hogA, nirbhaya bananA hogaa| jaba taka bhArata mAtA kI lAr3akI putriyA~ nirbhaya nahIM baneMgI, taba taka bhArata mAtA kA gaurava kisI bhI prakAra nahIM bar3ha skegaa| andhakAra tumheM nahIM DarAtA : bahuta sI lar3akiyAM bar3I Darapoka hotI haiN| rAtri ke samaya

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bhaya mana kA ghuna hai : 87 ghara meM eka kamare se dUsare kamare meM jAne se DaratI haiM, akelI sone se bhI DaratI haiM, dIpaka bujha jAne para DaratI haiM, kuttA mauMke to bhI DaratI haiM, aura to kyA, cuhiyA ke bacce se bhI DaratI haiM bhalA aisI Darapoka lar3akiyAM, apane jIvana meM kyA kabhI koI sAhasa kA kAma kareMgI? bAta-bAta para DaranA aura ronA jinakA svabhAva banatA jA rahA hai, ve saMkaTa kAla meM apane parivAra kI aura apanI rakSA kara sakeMgI? yaha sarvathA asambhava hai| ____ maiM Darapoka lar3akiyoM se kaha denA cAhatA hUM, ki 'tuma jaldI se jaldI Darapokapana kI Adata chor3a do| agara tumane DaranA nahIM choDA aura niDara na banI to yAda rakkho Aja kI duniyA meM tuma kisI kAma kI na rhogii| ghara meM bhIgI-billI bana kara duvake rahanA kyA koI acchI jindagI hai ?" maiM nahIM samajhA-"Akhira Darane kI kyA bAta hai? cUhiyA bar3I hai yA tuma baDI ho ? koDe makor3e meM adhika bala haiM yA tuma meM ? kutte billI meM adhika buddhi hai yA tuma meM ? kisI samaya dIpaka bujha gayA to isase kyA huA ? aMdherA tumheM khA to nahIM jAtA? phira tuma itanI Darapoka kyoM ho| aMdherA tumheM nahIM DarAtA; apitu tumhArA Darapoka mana hI tamheM DarAtA hai / kinase DarA jAe : bhAratavarSa kI deviyA~ bar3I niDara aura bahAdura huI haiN| rAnI durgA ne AkramaNakArI yavana-rAkSasoM ko mAra bhagAyA thaa| jhA~pI kI rAnI ne yuddha meM aMgrejoM ke dAMta khaTTe kara diye the / sItAjI aura draupadI ko apane pati ke sAtha kaise bhayAnaka sUne vanoM meM rhiiN| sItAjI ko jaba rAkSasa rAvaNa curAkara le gayA, taba vaha kitanI niDara rahI thIM? rAvaNa ne bahata DarAyA dhamakAyA phira bhI sItAjI use khule dila se phaTakAra batAtI rhiiN| bhArata kI putriyoM dharma para

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88 : Adarza kanyA apane prANa nichAvara karatI rahI haiN| cittaur3a kI vIra nAriyoM ne Aga meM jindA jala kara mara jAnA acchA samajhA, parantu musalamAna guNDoM ke dvArA apanA dharma naSTa nahIM hone diyA / tuma jAnatI ho, jena-dhama meM bhaya karanA, kitanA burA batAyA gayA hai ? jA nAdamI bAta-bAta para DaratA hai, bhaya khAtA hai, vaha jaina kahalAne kA adhikArI nahIM hai| bhagavAna mahAvIra ne kahA hai-"na tuma bhUta-preta se Daro, jaba taka tumhArA jIvana hai, taba taka tumhArA koI kucha nahIM bigAr3a sktaa|" jaina kA artha hI jItane vAlA hai, vaha DaregA kisase ? saccA jaina aura kisI cIja se nahIM DaratA / vaha DaratA hai, kevala pApa se burAI se / tuma hamezA lar3akI hI to na rahogI, bar3I banogI na ! jaba tuma bar3I banogI, taba tuma para bahuta javAbadAriyA~ Ae~gI ! kabhI ghara para akelI bhI rahanA hogA, ka bhI bAhara dUra deza kI yAtrA bhI karanI pdd'egii| kabhI kisI saMkaTa kA bho sAmanA karanA hogaa| agara tuma nirbhaya aura bahAdura rahAgI, to saMkaToM aura jhaMjhaToM ko pAra kara jAogI / bhayabhIta ho-ho kara va ro-ro kara AMsU bahAne kI Adata tumheM kucha bhI kAma, samaya para na karane degii| tuma kyA banogI: jo lar3akiyA~ dabbU aura Darapoka hotI hai, guNDe lar3ake unheM cher3ate haiM / jo lar3akI niDara, bedhar3aka aura vIra hotI haiM, una se guNDe bhI Dara jAte haiM, aura dUra rahate haiN| yadi kabhI koI guNDA abhadra vyavahAra karatA hai, to bahAdura lar3akiyA~ usakI vaha marammata karatI haiM, ki guNDe ko akala ThikAne A jAtI hai| phira vaha kabhI, kisI bhalI lar3akI ko cher3ane kA sAhasa nahIM krtaa| tuma vAra bno| durgA aura jhA~sI kI rAnI bano ! sItA aura dropadI bano ! tuma jahA~ bhI raho vahIM bar3oM ke Age bholI-mAlI bano aura virodhI guNDoM ke Age bhayaMkara zeranI banakara rho||

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23 | hRdaya kA andhakAra nindA kisI bhI vyakti kI anupasthiti meM usakI nindA karanA, eka bhayaMkara pApa hai / zAstrIya zabdoM meM kahA jAya to "kisI bhI vyakti kI nindA karanA eka prakAra se usakI pITha kA mAMsa hI noMca-noca kara khAtA hai / " saMsAra meM jitane bhI pApa haiM, sabameM bar3A pApa nindA hai / nindaka manuSya vyartha hI dUsaroM kI nindA karatA hai, aura isameM apanA amUlya samaya gaMvAtA hai, aura vaha isa taraha japane hRdaya kA kaluSita karatA hai / bhagavAna mahAvIra ne kahA ki - " nindA bahuta kharAba cIja hai / nindA karane vAlA, manuSya kI pITha kA mA~sa khAtA hai / arthAt kisI kI pITha pIche nindA karanA, eka prakAra se usakI pITha kA mA~sa hI noca-noca kara khAnA hai / " putriyoM, kitanA jaghanya pApa hai vaha / eka jainAcArya ne nindA kI atIva kaThora zabdoM meM bhartsanA kI hai| unakA kahanA hai ki - "nindA karane vAlA sUara kA sAthI hAtA hai / jisa prakAra sUara uttama miSThAna ko chor3akara viSThA khAkara prasanna hotA hai, usI prakAra nindA karane vAlA manuSya bhI hajAra guNoM ko chor3akara kevala durguNoM ko hI apanI jihvA para letA hai|

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60 : Adarza kamyA yaha eka prakAra se dUsare kI anya mahApuruSoM ke bacanoM se gahanatama andhakAra hai / viSThA kA hI khAnA huA / " isa taraha hI yaha siddha hai, ki nindA hRdaya kA huA Ajakala nArI jAti meM yaha durguNa vizeSa rUpa se phailA | kyA zahara, kyA gA~va, kyA ghara, kyA dharma sthAna Adi sthAnoM para striyA~ jaba kabhI eka sAtha milakara baiThatI haiM, to ve kiso acchI bAta para vicAra carcA nahIM karatIM / kyA zubha kArya karanA cAhie, kisakI kyA sahAyatA karanI cAhie, kisakA sadguNa apanAnA cAhie, kauna-sA kAma karane se bhalAI hogI - ina bAtoM ko ve bhUla kara bhI nahIM socatI / bhAjakala nArI kI dRSTi, dUsaroM ke guNoM para nahIM, durguNoM para hai / vaha khare sone meM bhI khoTa ho khojA karatI haiN| guNa-kIrtana ke sthAna meM doSodghATana karanA hI, unakI vizeSatA hai / amuka strI phaDa, jhagaDAlU hai / usakA cAlacalana ThIka nahIM hai, usakI nAka baiThI huI hai / dekho na vaha amuka strI bana-Thana kara rahatI hai / use koI salIkA nahIM hai, vaha to roTI bhI nahIM banA sakatI / isa taraha binA matalaba kI bAteM ghanToM baiThakara kiyA karatI haiN| mAlUma nahIM, ina binA sira paira kI bAtoM se kyA lAbha hotA hai ? nindA kalaha kI zRMkhalA hai : striyoM kA hRdaya choTA hotA jA rahA hai / prAyaH ve kisI sunI huI bAta ko apane hRdaya meM nahIM rakha sktiiN| jaba koI strI kisI kI AlocanA karatI hai, to sunane vAlI strI usase jAkara kaha detI hai - " vaha tumhAre sambandha meM amuka strI yoM kaha rahI thI / " basa phira kyA hai, kalaha kA sUtrapAta ho jAtA hai| isase Apasa meM vaha jamakara lar3AI hotI hai, ki sArA muhallA unake sadguNoM se paricita

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hRdaya kA bhandhakAra : nindA 61 ho jAtA hai / Apasa meM marma khulate haiM, pIr3hiyoM kI kIcar3a uchAlI jAtI hai, aura isa prakAra kalaha ko eka majabUta zRMkhalA kAyama ho jAtI haiN| nindA kI mAga : putriyo ! tuma abhI jIvana-kSetra meM praveza hI kara rahI ho / tuma abhI se ina duguNoM kI burAI ko samajha lo aura inase bacakara rho| apane hRdaya ko isa choTe stara se UMcA uThAne kA prayatna kro| jo laDakiyAM isa prakAra nindA-burAI ke phera meM par3a jAtI haiM, unake hRdaya kI unnati nahIM ho sktii| ve kabhI koI acchI bAta soca hI nahIM sktiiN| apane premI se premI vyakti meM bhI ve doSa hI hu~dA karatI haiN| mAtA ho, pitA ho, bhAI ho, bahana ho, bhAbhI ho, sahelI ho, koI bhI kyoM na ho, ve saba doSa khojatI haiM aura nindA karatI hai| Age calakara sasurAla meM unakA yaha durguNa aura bar3ha jAtA hai / rAta-dina sAsa, sasara, nanada, devarAnI, jeThAnI Adi ke doSa dekhanA aura unakI zikAyata karanA hI unakA kAma ho jAtA hai / aisI lar3akiyoM se sArA parivAra taMga A jAtA hai / ataH kisI kI niMdA mata karo, kisI me ghaNA aura dveSa bhI mata karo ! nindA hRdaya ko jalAne vAlA duguNa hai / yaha donoM ora Aga lagAtI hai / isa Aga meM Aja bhAratIya parivAra jala rahe haiN| AlocanA kA siddhAnta : agara kabhI tumheM patA lage, ki amuka strI meM yA amuka vyakti meM koI doSa hai, to usakI sahaNa nindA mata kro| yadi tuma apane ko isa yogya samajho, to usake pAsa jAkara yA use apane pAsa bulAkara, ekAnta meM use samajhA do / doSa dUra karane kA prayatna ho, na ki kisI ko badanAma karane kA / aisA karane se tumhArA hRdaya

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62 : Adarza kanyA unnata hogA, samAja meM tumhArI pratiSThA bddh'egii| ataH sabakI kalyANa kAmanA karanI caahie| AlocanA karane ke sambandha meM eka siddhAnta hai, ki yadi kabhI kisI se koI bhUla ho gaI ho, to usakI to nindA mata karo, apitu sambandhita vyakti se kaha do--"tumane aisA kAma kiyA hai, yaha aisA nahIM honA caahie|" jisameM Atma-zodhana kI buddhi hogii| to vaha tumhArI bAtoM para avazya vicAra karegA, aura apanI bhUla ko svIkAra karegA, tathA mAge na karane ke sambandha meM pratijJA bhI kregaa|

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24 | vilAsa vinAza hai : vilAsitA se mAnavatA kA balapUrvaka apaharaNa kiyA hai, atIta kI ora jhA~ka kara dekheM, to vaha spaSTa ho jAtA hai / ata: vilAsa hamArA binAzaka na bana jAe, isakA vicAra karanA Avazyaka hai / samaya ke sAtha-sAtha bhArata kI gatividhi meM parivartana A rahe haiM / Aja vaha tapa aura tyAga kA jIvana kahA~, jo bhArata ke lie sadaiva se garva kA viSaya rahA hai / Aja na vaha pahale sonikA hai aura na vaha sIdhA-sAdA sarala jIvana hI / lipisTika kI muskAna : Aja deza meM vilAsitA kA bar3A bhayaMkara jora hai / jivara bho dRSTi DAlie, udhara hI vilAsitA kA naMgA nAca dikhAI par3atA hai / kyA bAlaka, kyA yuvA, kyA bUr3he saba vilAsitA ke prabhAva meM bahe jA rahe haiM / vilAsitA kA sabase adhika prabhAva bhAratI kI nArI jAti para par3A hai / vaha sItA aura draupadI jaisA karma jIvana Aja kahA~ hai ? 5 Aja bhArata ke caturdika meM lipisTika ko muskAna dikhAI de rahI hai, nArI kA naisargika saundarya isase naSTa ho rahA hai, parantu nArI phira bhI kRtrimatA kA ho pallA pakar3e hue haiM / vaha isa deza

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64 : Adarza kanyA kI devI bananA nahIM cAhatI hai| prakRti ke svayaM siddha saundarya para use vizvAsa nahIM rhaa| bar3e-bar3e zaharoM meM Aja kA nArI jovana "dekhakara kauna kaha sakatA hai, ki yahAM kI nArI gRha devI hai, pratyuta aisA bhAna hotA hai, ki Aja kI bhAratIya nArI kA AdazaM bAjArU bana gayA? putriyo ! tumheM nArI jIvana ke isa vinAzakArI pravAha kA zIghra hI rukha mor3anA pdd'gaa| tuma apane sIdhe-sAde karmaTha jovana se vilAsitA kA parityAga kara sAdagI kA sundara Adarza upasthita kara sakatI ho / jaina-dharma kA Adarza zarIra nahIM hai, zarIra kA kAlAgorApana nahA hai, raga-biraMge vastra nahIM hai aura na sone-cAMdI ke jar3AU gahane hI haiM / jaina dharma kA Adarza tapa aura tyAga hai / sevAmaya sIdA-sAdA kamaTha jIvana hI nArI kA Adarza hai| jo nArI svacchatA, sundaratA, zuddhatA se prema karegI, vaha vAsanA bar3hAne vAle phazana ko kadApi mahatva nahI degii| kAma pyArA hai cAma nahIM : kyA tuma samajhatI ho, ki bhar3akIle kapar3e pahanakara dUsarI sAdhAraNa sthiti kI striyoM ko nIcA dikhA sakogI ? yadi tuma aisA samajhatI ho to kahanA par3egA ki tuma mUrkha ho| isa prakAra amaryAdita zRMgAra karanA kabhI nArI ke mahatva kA kAraNa nahIM ho sakatA / yaha nizcita samajho, ki kisI kA gaurava isa kAraNa nahIM hotA, ki usake pAsa acche-acche kapar3e haiM aura vaha acchA sugandhita tela lagAtI hai / gaurava ke lie acche guNoM kA honA Avazyaka hai / saMsAra meM sadA se sadAcAra aura sarala jIvana kA ho Adara tathA gaurava hotA AyA hai, kyoMki manuSya ko kAma pyArA hai cAma nhiiN| vilAsitA svayaM eka mahAn durguNa hai| yaha mana meM vAsanAoM ko bar3hAtA hai / brahmacarya aura satItva kI bhAvanAoM ko kSINa kara

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vilAsa vinAza hai : 65 detA hai / vilAsitA ke sAtha dUsare aneka doSa bhI utpanna ho jAte haiM / vilAsI striyA~ prAyaH akarmaNya hA jAtI haiM / kapar3e maile na ho jAe~, banAyA humA zrRMgAra na bigar3a jAya, isI kI cintA unheM sadA banI rahatI hai / ataH koI bhI acchA sevA kA kArya ve nahIM kara sakatIM / jo apane saundarya ke bahama meM sadaiva banAva zRMgAra karane meM ho lagI rahI haiM, ve dUsarI bholI-bhAlI striyoM ke jIvana meM bhI DAha aura IrSyA paidA kara detI haiM / eka jagaha kI Aga dUsarI jagaha phailA detI haiM / vilAsI striyoM ke svabhAva meM ahaMkAra ghara kara hI jAtA hai / tumhArA saundarya aura bar3hegA : mAnava jIvana meM abhyAsa kA bar3A mahatva hai / manuSya jaisA abhyAsa karatA hai, vaisA hI bana jAtA hai / yadi tuma jIvana meM karmautA kA tapa aura tyAga kA abhyAsa karogI, to tuma usI rUpa meM Dhala jAogI / agara tuma nAjuka mijAjo meM par3akara vilAsI jovana apanA logI, usI rUpa meM nAjuka banakara raha jAogI / parantu yaha yAda rakho, vilAsitA jIvana kA sthAyI aMga nahIM hai / yadi kabhI tumheM kisI vipatti kA sAmanA karanA par3e to usa samaya kyA tuma apane kartavya kA pAlana kara sakogI ? vilAsI jIvana vipatti kI coTa ko jarA bhI sahana nahIM kara sakatA / mana me AvazyakatA se adhika bhoga, buddhi rakhanA, apanI sthiti se bar3hakara bAhya pradarzana karanA, anAvazyaka bhoga-sAdhanoM kI ora jhukAva rakhanA, yaha saba vilAsitA hI hai / yadi tuma hRdaya se apanI, apane deza kI, apane samAja kI aura apane parivAra kI bhalAI cAhatI ho, to zIghra hI isa vilAsitA rAkSasI ko apane mana se nikAla kara bAhara karado | mana ko pavitratA tana para avazya jhalakegI, aura isase tumhArA saundarya bar3hegA /

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25 nArI ko saccA sukha, sabako khilA kara khAne meM hai / Aja yaha Adarza dhUmila par3a rahA hai / ataH hameM svIkAra karanA hI par3egA, isa dhUmilatA meM nArI kA mAtRtva bhI dhUmila ho rahA hai / nArI kA pada : annapUrNA itihAsa, gavAhI de rahA hai- eka svara se, eka rAga se, pratipala pratikSaNa ki nArI kA pada annapUrNA hai / nArI sAkSAt sneha aura prema kI jIvita mRrti hai / nArI kA prema rasa se sarAbora hRdaya, apane ghara ke sadasyoM ko prema pUrvaka bhojana parosa cukane para, una sabake khA cukane para jo sukhAnubhUti karatA hai, usakA vyAkhyAna nArI kA hRdaya hI kara sakatA hai / usa samaya jo prasannatA use anubhava hotI hai, usakA yathAtathya varNana usakI vANI svayaM bhI nahIM kara sktii| usa apUrva prasannatA kI anubhUti to anubhUtazIla manuSya kA hRdaya hI kara sakatA hai / akele khAnA pApa hai : agara tumheM acchI nArI bananA hai aura ijjata kI jindagI se jInA hai, to pahale choTe-bar3e bhAI-bahinoM ko bA~Takara pIche se bacA huA khuda khAo / bhagavAn mahAvIra ne kahA hai, ki jo akele khAtA hai, sAtha

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hai, vahamata hotA hai| rahane vAle lo zrIkRSNa jI nAro kA pada annapUrNA : 67 vAloM ko bauTakara nahIM khilAtA hai, vaha kabhI mokSa prApta nahIM kara sktaa|" __bhAratavarSa ke prasiddha karmayogI zrIkRSNa jI ne bhI kahA hai jo bhojana, Asa-pAsa meM rahane vAle logoM ko bA~Takara khAyA jAtA hai, vaha amRta hotA hai / jo AdamI bA~Takara nahIM khAtA hai, akelA khAtA hai, vaha pApa khAtA hai / bA~Takara khAne vAle ke saba epa naSTa ho jAte haiM, aura vaha paramAtmA ke pada ko pA letA hai|' ____jAnatI ho, tumako zAstroM meM ghara kI lakSmI kahA hai / lakSmI kA mana udAra honA caahie| agara lakSmI kA mana choTA ho jAe, to kitanA anartha ho jAegA? strI ko cauke kI mAlakina bananA hai, annapUrNA bananA hai, apane hAthoM bhojana bana nA hai aura sabako binA kisI bhedabhAva ke eka jaisA parosanA hai / bhojana parosane vAlI nArI ko yaha khyAla nahIM rakhanA cAhie, ki mere lie bho kucha bacatA hai yA nahIM ? vaha to eka dAnA bhI rahegA, taba taka cauke meM bhojana karane vAloM ko prasannabhAva se-gadgad hRdaya se parosatI hI rhego| vaha saccI gRhalakSmI kahalAtI hai / isalie tuma prArambha se hI mana ko udAra rakhane ko Adata DAlo, jo mile use bA~Ta kara khaao| kabhI bhI chupAkara yA corI se akele khAne kA vicAra mana meM mata laao| nArI kA sneha isase vikasita tathA vistRta hotA hai, ki vaha sabako bhojana apane hAthoM se parosa kara khilaae| lakSmI ke lie dvAra kholo : kisI ghara meM dhana-vaibhava kA bhaNDAra aura lakSmI kA nivAsa tabhI hotA hai, jaba usa ghara kI lar3akiyA~ aura bahue~ dila kI udAra hotI haiM / jaba ghara kI nAriyoM kA dila choTA ho jAtA hai, to hAtha bA~Tate samaya kAMpane lagatA hai, aura isase chupA-curAkara khAne kA bhAva bar3ha jAtA hai, usa avasthA meM ghara kI lakSmI kA nAza hokara garIbI aura

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18 : Adarza kanyA bhukhamarA kA rAjya ho jAtA hai| hAtha khulA rahane se hI lakSmI kA dvAra khula jAtA hai / aura muTaThI banda se,lakSmI kA dvAra banda ho jAtA hai ataH hAtha mulA rahane kI Adata ddaalo| ___ bahuta-sI lar3akiyA~ bar3I bhukkar3a hotI haiM / jaba kabhI pitA, bhAI yA koI riztedAra ghara meM khAne-pIne kI cIja lAtA hai, to bhukkar3a lar3akiyA~ pIche par3a jAtI haiN| sabase pahale daur3akara mA~ganA, apane hirase se jyAdA mA~gA, na milane para ronA, cillAnA, lar3anA, jhagaDanA, gAlI denA Adi bahata kharAba bAta haiN| mana meM santoSa rakhanA cAhie / jaba saba bhAI bahinoM kA cIja bA~TI jAe, tabhI lenI cAhie aura apanA himsA lekara bhI sabako bA~Takara yA lene ke lie kaha kara ho khAnA caahie| jaba kabhI pAThazAlA meM athavA ghara meM koI khAne kI cIja kharIdo to sabake sAmane akelI mata khaao| khAne se pahale sAtha kI lar3akiyoM ko khAne ke lie Agraha karo / bahuta-sI lar3akiyA~ socA karatI haiM, ki-"jaba dUsarI lar3akiyA~ hameM nahIM detI haiM to hama hI unheM kyoM da?'' yaha socanA ThIka nhiiN| tuma apanA pharja adA kro| unakI ve jAne / tuma kyoM aisI choTI bAta khyAla meM lAtI ho? jo cIja kharIdo, yA khAo, bar3e Adara ke sAtha aura namra zabdoM meM sAtha kI lar3akI ko bhI khAne ke lie Agraha karo / bahuta-sI lar3akiyA~, garIba lar3akiyoM kA cir3hAne ke lie dikhA dikhAkara khAyA karatI haiM-yaha Adata bar3I kharAba hai| aisA karane se usake dila ko kitanA du:kha hogA, jarA vicAra kro| tumhAre pAsa dhana hai, to dUsaroM ko madada karane ke lie hai, na ki unheM cir3hAne ke lie| tumheM to bhArata kI sannArI annapUrNA devI bananA caahie|

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kaNa-kaNa se sAgara bana jAtA hai| mAnavatA ke ina amuta kaNoM kA saMcaya kIjie, mAnavatA kA mahAna sAgara chalachalA utthegaa| 26 mAnavatA ke ye amRta kaNa"! jIvana meM jo hRdaya aura buddhi kA vikAsa kare, vahI deva hai ! jIvana meM jo icchAoM kA gulAma hAtA hai, vahI nArako hai ! jIvana meM jo viveka kA AcaraNa nahIM rakhatA, vahI pazu hai ! jIvana meM jo duHkho ke prati sahAnubhUti rakhatA hai, vahI manuSya hai. x jo apanA svAbhimAna nahIM rakhatA, vaha manuSya nhiiN| jo apanI buddhi para vizvAsa nahIM rakhatA, vaha manuSya nahIM ! jo hitaSiyoM kA parAmarza nahIM mAnatA, vaha manuSya nahIM ! mAhAra ke bar3hane se bImArI hotI hai ! nidrA ke bar3hane se buddhi kA nAza hotA hai ! bhaya ke bar3hane se bala ko hAni hAtI hai ! kAma-vAsanA ke bar3hane se manuSyatva kA nAza hotA hai| AhAra, nidrA, bhaya aura kAma-vAsanA bar3hAne se bar3hatI hai ? + + mAna kI cAha se mAna dUra bhAgatA hai ! mAna dene se mAna milatA hai / prAmANika bAtoM se mAna milatA hai ! namra svabhAva se mAna milatA hai !

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100 : Adarza kanyA Teka banAe rakhane se mAna milatA hai ! buddhi-bala se mAna milatA hai! tIna bAteM kuTumba jAgaraNa kI haiM : kuTumbI manuSyoM ke sukha-duHkha kA vicAra karanA ! kuTumba-sudhAra ke ucita upAyoM kA vicAra karanA ! kuTumba ke pratyeka manuSya kI AvazyakatA kA vicAra karanA ! dharma-sambandhI vicAra karanA, dharma jAgaraNa hai| Atma-sambandhI vicAra karanA, Atma-jAgaraNa hai| apane kAryoM aura vicAroM kI jAMca karanA, antarjAgaraNa hai| vaibhava para mohita honA, akarmaNyatA hai / ucca kula para mohita honA, andhApana hai| acche guNoM para mohita honA, manuSyatva hai / xx duniyA~ anubhava kI pAThazAlA hai| apanA ghara bhI vidyAlaya hai| bhale-bure prasaMga tumhAre zikSaka haiN| tIna bAtoM se yaza bar3hatA hai : 1. apanI prazaMsA na karane se / 2. zatru kI nindA na karane se / 3. dUsaroM kA duHkha dUra karane se /

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tIna A~sU pavitra haiM : 1. prema ke / 2. karuNA ke / tIna se sadA baco : mAnavatA ke ye amRta kaNa : 101 3. sahAnubhUti ke / 1. apanI prazaMsA se / 2. dUsaroM kI nindA se / 3. dUsaroM ke doSa dekhane se / tIna A~sU apavitra haiM : 1. zoka ke / 2. krodha ke / tIna prakAra ke vacana volo ! 3. dambha ke / 1. satya vacana / 2. hita vacana / 3. madhura vacana | cAra prakRtiyA~ satyavAdI kI haiM : 1. adhika bAteM na karanA / 2. soca-vicAra kara bolanA / 3. apanA bacana pUrA karanA / 4. apanA denA - lenA sApha rakhanA / cAra prakRtiyA~ mithyAvAdI haiM : 1. jhUThI gavAhI denA / 2. jhUThI saugandha khAnA / 3. bharosA dekara kAma na karanA / 4. Apta-puruSoM para zraddhA na rakhanA /

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102 : Adarza kanyA cAra prakatiyA~ pazuoM kI haiM : 1. nIcA zabda bolanA / 2. binA kAraNa jhagar3anA / 3. adhika bhojana karanA / 4. bar3oM kA Adara na karanA / cAra prakRtiyA~ bahuta acchI haiM : 1. nirlajja / honA / 2. udAra hRdaya rakhanA / 3. kisI me kabhI kucha na mA~ganA / 4. apane hisse kA bhI bA~Takara khAnA / X X cAra prakRtiyA~ vinayI kI haiM : 1. dInoM para dayA karanA / 6. sajjanoM kA Adara karanA / 3. manuSya mAtra se prema karanA / 4. vidvAnoM kA satsaMga karanA / O

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tapa agni hai, AtmA kA svarNa tapa ke dvArA nikharatA hai| tapa ho jIvana meM tyAga kI jyoti prajjvalita karatA hai / yahA~ par3hie tapa kI pribhaassaaeN| ce lapa ko paribhASAe~ : jahA~ ahiMsA, saMyama aura tA hai, vahA~ dharma hai| mana, vacana, zarIra se kisI ko duHkha na denA, ahiMsA hai| bhoga kI lAlasAoM ko vaza meM rakhanA, saMyama hai| mana kI vAsanAoM ko bhasma karane kA udyoga, tapa hai| lAlasAoM ko bhasma karane vAlI AdhyAtmika agni, yaha tapa hai| pUrva kamoM ko jalAne vAlI AdhyAtmika agni, yaha tapa hai| upahAsa, mitAhAra, parizrama karake AhAra karanA, yaha tapa hai| zarIra ko mArAma talaba na banAkara sAdagI se rahanA, yaha tapa hai| guru-janoM kI vinaya-bhakti karanA, sevA karanA, yaha tapa hai| X X X thor3A bolane kA abhyAsa karanA, yaha bhI tapa hai / vicAra kara bolane kA abhyApa karanA, yaha bhI tapa hai| dIna-dukhI kI sevA, paropakAra karanA, yaha bhI tapa hai| apanI bhUloM ko svIkAra karanA, yaha bhI tapa hai| sadaiva jJAnAbhyAsa karanA, jJAna kI vRddhi karanA, yaha bhI tA hai| bhagavatsvarUpa kA dhyAna cintana karanA, yaha bhI tapa hai|

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104 : Adarya kanyA apanI zakti aura sAmarthya se bAhara upavAsa nahIM karanA cAhie / dUdha pote bAlaka ko mAtA ko upavAsa nahIM karanA caahie| durbala kSINa-kAya rogI ko upavAsa nahIM karanA caahie| garbhavatI strI ko upavAsa nahIM karanA caahie| lar3a-jhagar3a kara kalaha meM upavAsa nahIM karanA caahie| upavAsa meM krodha nahIM karanA / upavAsa meM ahaMkAra vahIM karanA / upanAsa meM nindA burAI nahIM karanA / xxx upavAsa meM brahmacarya avazya pAlanA caahie| upavAsa meM svAdhyAya avazya karanA cAhie / upavAsa meM Atma svarUpa kA vicAra karanA caahie| upavAsa meM pApoM kI AlocanA karanI cAhie / upavAsa ke dina anAva-zrRMgAra nahIM karane caahie| upavAsa ke dina sinemA Adi nahIM dekhane caahie| upavAsa ke dina gande upanyAsa nahIM par3hane caahie| xxx upavAsa karane se pahale gariSTha bhojana nahIM krnaa| upavAsa karane se pahale adhika bhojana nahIM karanA / upavAsa karane se pahale caTapaTA susvAda bhojana nahIM karanA / ___

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ye tapa ko paribhASAe~ / 105 brata kholane ke dina halakA aura thor3A bhojana krnaa| vrata kholane ke dina eka prakAra se ardha-upavAsI rhnaa| svarga Adi ke lAlaca meM upavAsa nahIM krnaa| devI-devatAoM kI manautI ke lie upavAsa nahIM krnaa| yaza-kIrti pAne ke lie bhI upabAsa nahIM krnaa| jIvana-zodhana ke lie hI tapa karanA caahie| AtmA ko ujjvala banAne ke lie hI tapa karanA caahie| tapa AtmA kA pauSTika bhojana hai| tapa se tana aura mana donoM kI zuddhi hotI hai|

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106 / Adarza kanyA AdazaM sabhyatA jisa vyakti se jisa kAma ke lie jitane paise ThaharA lie hoM, use utane hI paise do, usase kucha bhI kama dene kI icchA na kro| kisI ke makAna meM praveza karane se pahale usakI anumati avazya le lenI cAhie / rela, tAraghara, DAkaghara, sabhA, pustakAlaya, kArakhAne Adi kisI bhI, sArvajanika sthAna kI likhI huI sUcanAoM kA ullaMghana kadApi na kro| xxx yadi idhara-udhara Ate jAte yA uThate-baiThate kisI puruSa athavA strI se tumhArA paira chu jAe to usase hAtha jor3akara jhaTa-paTa vinamratApUrvaka kSamA mAMganI caahie| X X X nAka kA mala, kapha yA thUka Adi dIvAroM para, ghara ke konoM meM, kivAr3oM ke pIche yA anya kisI sArvajanika sthAna para nahIM DAlanA caahie| xxx kisI kI khoI huI yA girI huI vastu Adi -

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Adarza sabhyatA : 107 Adarza sabhyatA kabhI Apako mila jAe, to Apa usake mAlika ko lauTA do / yadi mAlika kA patA na lage, to use apane pAsa na rakhakara pulisa oNphisa meM yA kisI prAmANika saMsthA meM jamA karA do, tAki ve use usake mAlika ke pAsa pahu~cA deN| yadi mAMgI huI pusraka yA anya koI vasra kho jAe athavA kharAba ho jAya, to usake mAlika ko badale meM nayI maMgavAkara do / yadi maMgAkara dene kI sthiti na ho, to isake lie sacce hRdaya se kSamA maaNgo| + + + mArga meM calate hue yadi koI Thokara khA jAe aura gira par3e, to tuma usakI durdazA para ha~so mata / balki sahRdayatA se usake prati saMvedanA prakaTa karo, aura usako sa~bhalane meM sahAyatA phuNcaao| + + + yadi kabhI kisI dUsare kI pustaka par3hane ko mAMgakara lI jAe, to usa para apanA nAma patA Adi kucha na likho, yAda rakho ki pRSThoM ke kone na mur3a jAe~ aura vaha pustaka jaisI lI hai vaisI hI pahu~ce / + + +

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108 : Adarza kabhyA Adarza sabhyatA (] kele ke chilake yA aurabhI koI aisI hI cIja sar3aka para cAhe jahA~ mata DAlo / kele ke chilake para paira phisala jAtA hai, aura kabhIkabhI pathika sadA ke lie ghAtaka coTa khA baiThatA hai / + + + bhASaNa sunane ke lie kisI sabhA meM pahu~co; to eka dama bIca meM uThakara na calI jAo / yAda rakho, vaktA ke lie yaha apamAnajanaka vyavahAra hai / yadi Avazyaka kAryavaza jAnA hI ho, to cAlU bhASaNa pUrA hone para aura dUsarA bhASaNa prArambha hone se pahale hI cupacApa dhIre se calI jAo / + + + andhA, lUlA, laMgar3A, kahanA athavA aura bhI koI kisI prakAra kA aMga-hIna yA pAgala mile to usakI ha~sI na ur3Ao, majAka na karo, jahA~ taka ho sake usake sAtha adhika se adhika AtmIyatA kA vyavahAra kro| + + + kisI se bAta-cIta karate samaya 'ho' yA 'na' ke sthAna para 'jI' hA~, jI nahIM Adi bahuta madhura aura ziSTa zabdoM kA prayoga karo / + + +

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Adarza sabhyatA : 106 Adarza sabhyatA - jaba kabhI gurudeva yA koI apane se bar3A pUjya puruSa tathA sAdhvI Adi Apake yahA~ Ae~ to usako jhaTapaTa khar3e hokara sammAna do aura yathA-yogya vidhi se vandana yA namaskAra kro| + + + kapar3e hamezA sApha-suthare pahano / kama kImata ke aura moTe bhale hI hoM, kintu sApha hoN| adhika tar3aka-bhar3aka se rezamI yA makhamalI kapar3e ucita nahIM haiN| + + + kisI se koI vastu lekara majAka meM bhI use lauTAte samaya pheMkanA nahIM caahie| jisa prema aura sadbhAvanA se vastu lI gaI thI, usI prema aura sadbhAvanA se lauTAo bhii| + + + likhate samaya kalama, hAtha aura kapar3oM ko syAhI se lathapatha na hone do| kalama ko sApha karane ke lie apane hAtha pairoM se aura sira ke bAloM se mata poMcho / kalama meM syAhI adhika bhara jAe, to idhara-udhara mata chotto| ina saba kAmoM ke lie eka alaga vastra kA Tukar3A rkho| + + +

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110: Adarza kanyA Adarza sabhyatA do AdamiyoM kI bAtoM meM bolanA, anAdhikAra ceSTA hai| ye saba bhayaMkara durgula haiN| inase dhyAnapUrvaka chuTakArA pAne kA prayatna kro| + + + sote hue manuSya ke pAsa itane jora se paira paTaka kara na calo, phiro, jisase usako nIMda ucaTa jaae| sone vAle ke pAsa baiThaka ra U~cI AvAja se ha~sanA yA bolanA bhI nahIM caahie| + + + jisa kisI AdamI se jo cIja mAMgakara lAo ThIka samaya para use vApasa lauTA do| cIja, usake bAra-bAra mAMgane para yadi vApisa lauTAI, to tumhArI saccAI kahA~ rahI?

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