Life without Conflict

Author(s): Dada Bhagwan
Publisher: Dada Bhagwan Foundation

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life without Conflict
life without Conflict
the son? Children will come and tell me about all their wrong doings, they will even confess to stealing. Confession is to be made only to a great spiritual master. There will be some extraordinary changes in India.
The Aura Of Fire: The Aura Of Respect
Questioner: Dada graces us so that there will be peace in our home and that we may progress in our spirituality.
Dadashri: Yes, not just for peace in your homes but also so that your children will learn high moral value by observing you, such is this Gnan. Children have become mad from watching their parents' madness. Parents do not have appropriate thoughts or conduct. Husband and wife behave inappropriately in front of their children. So what do you expect from the children? What kind of impression does that have on them? Surely you need to maintain boundaries. What kind of an aura does fire have? Even small children respect fire, do they not? The parents need to have such aura of respect.
get on the wrong path?
Dadashri: When they get on the wrong path, you have to remain as an observer and a knower. Keep a prayerful attitude for their welfare. Pray to the Lord to grace them.
You have to understand and accept whatever happens is correct. The fault decidedly is of the sufferer. The Lord has said, 'If you improve, then everything else will in your presence.
You should explain to your young children that every morning after their bath they should worship the Sun Lord and ask and pray for right intellect for themselves and the world and for the salvation of the world. If they do this much, they will be instilled with right values. This way and the parents become free from their karmic bondage with them.
Everything in life is mandatory. You have no choice in the matter. Even if you borrow money for your son's education, if he behaves insolently towards you, you cannot remind him of the sacrifices you have made for him, because you are duty-bound and obliged to do so. You did what was mandatory. You should carry out all your duty. [5] Understanding Brings Radiance To Your Home
Life How to Resolve Differences of Opinions
A very strange time is coming. There will be storms after storm. Therefore be vigilant. Just as we have hurricanes and storms in the atmosphere, there will be many natural catastrophes. Human beings will have to face tremendous difficulties. As such people have so many difficulties in life;
The minds of parents today have become confused and broken. They speak as they please; their words are hurtful. That is why children have become bad. The husband speaks hurtfully to his wife and vice versa. A puzzle has arisen. This should not be so in India. But this is one of the effects of the current time cycle of Kaliyug and so it will always be this way. In all this, it is indeed a wonder that such a phenomenal Science has arisen. Whoever encounters it, will attain liberation.
Deep Inner Intent Is The Final Key Questioner: What should we do when our children