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normality? If you wake up in the middle of the night and roam around the house, will people not ask you why you wake up so early? That too is not within normality. Normality is one where it is acceptable to everyone around. You need normality even in your eating habits. If you overeat, you will feel sleepy. You should observe the normality in my eating and drinking. There is normality in all my actions, sleeping, waking, etc. If someone puts a little extra desert on my plate, I will adjust and decrease intake of other food accordingly. I am aware "There is extra desert on the plate so I will not eat the vegetables'. You do not have to do all this. If you get up late, you have to keep telling your file No. 1, 'Chandulal you are not able to remain within normality. You have to keep yourself in check. Tell Chandulal, 'You should wake up early. Cautioning yourself this way will become beneficial. This is your real effort. By forcing yourself to wake up early, you will ruin your mind.
Dissipation Of Human Energy Questioner: "The husband is the Lord.' What is wrong in this statement?
Dadashri: If women went around believing husbands of today to be Lords, the husbands will become increasingly mad through their intoxication of 'I am something
One husband told his wife, 'Put hot coals on your head and cook your bread on it.' As it is he has the traits of a monkey so what would happen if you give him alcohol?
A real man is one who has an aura, which commands the respect of thousands of women. Just the mere sight of such a man makes the women tremble. But the men of today are such that if Salia was holding his wife's hand, he will
plead, Please Salia, let go of her hand. She is my wife. She is my wife'. You idiot! Why are you pleading to Salia? What kind of a fool are you? You need to hit him, grab hold of his throat and bite him. Salia is not one to leave your wife alone because of your pleading. But instead, the husband then calls out, 'Police, police! Please help me!' You fool, after becoming a husband why are you calling out to the police? What are you going to do with the policeman? Are you living or are you dead? If you are going to depend on the police for help then do not become a husband.
You cannot be a "half-round' man and be a husband. You need to be 'all around'. There are six requirements to be called a man: 1. He should have the ability to write. 2. He should be able to cook, so that he is not dependent upon others for his nourishment. 3. He should be skilled in being able to protect. 4. He should have the ability to convince others in order to get his work done. 5. He should have the art of survival 6. He should have the art of stealing or pilfering. A man unable to carry out these six tasks is not a man. A true man knows how to adjust with the other person even if that person is the most devious and debased. To not lose your mind when dealing with such a person is what really counts, it is of no use if you become angry and aggravated.
A man who has absolute faith in himself will have everything, but alas men have lost faith in themselves! Some men have lost faith even in their wife and have doubts about whether his wife will remain with him. 'Will she put up with me for even five years or not?' You fool! You do not have confidence even in this matter? Once a person loses faith, it is the end of him. There is tremendous strength in faith, even if that faith is in the form of ignorance. Once a person worries,
