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may tell you to come home whenever you like, but their mind will not leave them alone. The mind will show them all kinds of things. How can you hurt them at all? These are all laws and rules and you have to abide by.
If you get up at two o'clock in the morning and pray to the Soul, is anyone likely to say anything? No they will not.
Pure interactions : Right interactions
Questioner: What is shuddha vyavahar (pure interaction) and sada vyavahar (right interaction)?
Dadashri: Pure interaction begins only after SelfRealization and until then it is considered right interactionsada vyavahar.
Questioner: What is the difference between the two?
Dadashri: Right interaction is associated with the ego. Pure interaction is egoless, without any ego. Pure interaction gives you complete dharma dhyana, absence of negative meditative states of arta and raudra dhayana and right interaction gives you only a small fraction of dharma dhyana.
As long as there is pure interaction, there is also shuddha upyoga, i.e.pure awareness. Pure awareness means You (the Self) remain the Knower and the Observer, of the pure interaction.
Krapududev has said, 'Collective sectarian opinions and imagination is not right worldly interaction.'
In all sects and divisions of religion, there are only talks of the imagination of the real. When they do not even have the right interaction, how can there ever be pure interaction there? Pure interaction is the egoless state. Pure
interaction is devoid of competition. If you enter a competition then you will create raag-dwesh (attachment-abhorrence). I tell everyone they are fine where they are but if they feel there is something missing, then they can come to me. Here the only thing you get is love. If someone comes here with a lot of abhorrence, we still give him love.
Kramic, the traditional religious path, means that first you have to purify your worldly interactions and then you become the pure Self. In the Akram path you become the pure Self first and then you make your interactions pure. In pure interaction, there may be interaction of every kind, but there is no attachment in it. Pure interaction begins one or two life times prior to one's final liberation.
Nischaya, The state of the Self, is unaffected by interactions. Where no interactions touch or influence, that is nischaya. Fulfill all your worldly interactions to the point where they do not affect nischaya, regardless of what their interaction may be.
There is a difference between a clear, right interaction and pure interaction. That which keeps an interaction good is called manavdharma (religion of man) and pure interaction takes you to moksha. When you do not quarrel at home or outside, it is considered good interaction. What is an ideal interaction? It is one, which spreads the aura of the worldly
self.
Once you attain ideal interaction and the state of the pure Self, what more is there to do? Just this much can change the whole universe.
Ideal interactions link with Liberation Dadashri: What kind of interactions do you want?
