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You must remain calm and try to resolve the matter but if in your mind you think, 'I am not at fault and yet why does he speak to me this way?' then you will stay awake for hours at night and finally tire and fall asleep.
Those who have become a superior over God have attained something, but those who have tried to become superiors over their wives have been doomed. The one who tries to become the superior will be doomed for sure. But what does God say? 'If you become my superior, I will be happy. I have enjoyed being your superior for so long but now if you become my superior, it would be good.
The understanding that the Gnani gives you will liberate you. What can you possibly achieve without the understanding? The religion of the Vitarag Lords will liberate you from all miseries.
At home you should turn things around. The atmosphere in your home should be wonderful. A wife should feel as though she would never be able to find another husband like hers and the husband should feel as though he would never be able to find a wife like his. If you are able to bring about such changes, then truly you are worthy.
[6] Business with Principles
The Goal Of Life Dadashri: Why do you conduct your business? Questioner: To earn money. Dadashri: Money for what? Questioner: That I do not know. Dadashri: Let me give you an analogy. A man runs
an engine all day long, but for what? Nothing, he just lets the engine run idle. He does not use the energy from the engine; your situation is like that. What do you live life for? Just for earning money? Every living being is in search of happiness. Your life is meant for searching a path whereby you attain freedom from all miseries.
Think Constructively But Do Not Worry
Questioner: I have a lot of worries about my business. I am faced with a lot of difficulties.
Dadashri: Understand this much. Understand that the moment you start to have worries, your work is going to be ruined. If you do not worry a lot, then your work will not be ruined. Worries are obstructions towards any work or business. Worries will bring death to a business. The nature of a business is that it increases and decreases; it becomes full and then it empties. Discharge is inevitable after a charge in the relative realm. In all this, that is filling and emptying, nothing hurts or affects that which is your own, the Self. This is exact.
Are your wife, and children, your son and his wife, partners in your business?
Questioner: They help share in my happiness and my sorrow
Dadashri: You are the guardian of your wife and your children. Why should the guardian be the only one to worry? Your family members tell you not to worry, and yet you do.
Questioner: What is the nature of worries? The worries are not present when we are born so where do they come from?
