Kaise kare Vyaktitva Vikas

Author(s): Chandraprabhsagar
Publisher: Jityasha Foundation
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/003900/1

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kaise kareM vyaktitva vikAsa bAla-manovijJAna para zreSTha pustaka zrI candraprabha Forersonale ale Use Only www.jane bral your

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jaise bIja hoMge, vaise hI phala phaleMge / jaise vicAra hoMge, vaisI vANI banegI / vANI ke anurUpa vyavahAra hogaa| vyavahAra Adata kA nirmANa karatA hai aura Adata caritra kA / caritra vyaktitva kA AdhAra hai / mAtra vicAroM ko sArthaka aura sakArAtmaka dizA dekara vyaktitva ke sabhI pahaluoM ko behatara banAyA jA sakatA hai| For Personal & Private Use Only

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bhItara ke pRSThoM meM ... 1. vyavahAra aura svabhAva : vyaktitva-vikAsa kA pahalAAdhAra 2. bAlaka : janma, vikAsa aura samAyojana 3. saphala jIvana ke lie jarUrI : sakriya bacapana 4. baccoM ko sikhAe~ behatara bhASA niyaMtraNa kareMpratikUla saMvegoM para 6. saMyama rakheM, krodha ke saMvega para prema kI pavitra bhAvanA 8. baccoM kA sAmAjika vikAsa bauddhika vikAsa ke mApadaNDa 10. baccoM kA mAnasika vikAsa 11. mUla pravRttiyoM ko dIjie behatara dizA 12. cintana-zakti kA tArkika vikAsa 13. sujhAvadIjie premapUrvaka 14. baccoM ko dIjie behatarIna bhASA 15. caritra-nirmANa : zreSTha vyaktitvakI pUMjI 16. dhArmika mUlyoM kA vyaktitva-nirmANa se sambandha 17. vyaktitva-vikAsa kI maulika saMbhAvanAe~ :: :: :: :: :: :: :: :: For Personal & Private Use Only

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kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa [bAla manovijJAna para eka behatarIna pustaka ] zrI candraprabha For Personal & Private Use Only

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prakAzakIya hamAre prakAzana-saMsthAna ke lie yaha gauravavardhaka hai ki sthitaprajJasaMta zrI candraprabha jI kI behatarIna pustaka 'kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa' ke punarprakAzana kAsukhada saMyoga prApta huA hai| unake pravacana aura AlekhoM meM vyAvahArika evaM manovaijJAnikajIvanadarzana kAvahaamRta ghulArahatA hai jisakA rasapAna kara hama mAnasikazAMti, vyaktitva-vikAsa evaM AdhyAtmika cetanA kA sukUna prApta karate haiN| prastuta pustaka aise jie~, 'behatara jIvana kebehatara samAdhAna', 'bAteM : jIvana kI, jIne kI', 'lakSya banAe~, puruSArthajagAe~ jaisI behada carcita pustakoM kI kar3I meM hI eka aura mIla kA patthara sthApita kara rahI hai| lakSya-nirmANa, sakArAtmaka soca aura AtmavizvAsajaise udAtta viSayoM para zrI candraprabhajI kA ciMtana Aja naI pIr3hI meM nayA utsAha aura UrjA pradAna kara rahA hai| kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa' bhale hI eka bAla manovaijJAnika pustaka ho, para jIvana ke bahuAyAmI vikAsa meM dIpazikhA kA kAma kregii| pustaka bhinna-bhinna zIrSakoM se kaI adhyAyoM meM vibhakta hai jisakI viSaya-sAmagrI vyaktitva-vikAsa ke aMtarvartI binduoMsejur3I huiihai|shriicndrprbhne sarvaprathama vyavahAra aura svabhAva ko vyaktitva-vikAsakA pahalAAdhAra mAna kara bAlaka ke janma aura For Personal & Private Use Only

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vikAsa ke jina tattvoM kA pArasparika samAyojana kiyA hai, vaha manovaijJAnika stara para pratiSThita hai / ve saphala jIvana ke lie 'sakriya bacapana' aura mAtA-pitA evaM abhibhAvakoM kI sAmAjika bhUmikA para vizeSa dhyAna dete hue susaMskAroM ko hI vyaktitva - vikAsa kI nIMva mAnate haiM jisa para cAritrika guNoM kA bhavya bhavana nirmita kiyA jA sakatA hai| baccoM ko behatara bhASA sikhAne aura jIvana meM saMyama baratane ke aneka udAharaNa dekara unhoMne baccoM ke sAmAjika, bauddhika aura mAnasika vikAsa ke jo 'mAnadaNDa' nirdhArita kiye haiM, ve 'mUla pravRttiyoM ko dizAe~' dikhA sakate haiN| unhoMne ciMtana-zakti ke tArkika vikAsa ko bhI vyaktitva vikAsa kI eka khAsa kar3I mAnA hai| bAlakoM ke vyaktitva ko unnata aura vyApaka banAne ke lie unhoMne prema kI pavitra bhAvanA ko 'behatarIna preraNA' mAna kara yahI siddha karane kI ceSTA kI hai ki bAlakoM ke caritra-nirmANa aura vyaktitvavikAsa kI dizA meM usakA yogadAna sarvopari samajhA jAnA caahie| ve mAnavIya dharAtala para dhArmika mUlyoM kA vizleSaNa karate hue unheM vyaktitva vikAsa kA eka aisA susaMskArita sAdhana svIkAra karate haiM jisa para jIvana kA udAtta svarUpa pratiSThApita kiyA jA sakatA hai| pustaka kA pratipAdya bAla- zikSaNa aura bAla vikAsa kI manovaijJAnika vivecanA para AdhArita hai jise prAcIna ciMtakoM kI vicAradhArAoM aura Adhunika manovizleSakoM kI prayogazAlAoM ke pariNAmoM ko eka sAtha jor3a kara prabuddha ciMtaka ne jo niSkarSa nikAle haiM ve atyanta vicArottejaka evaM prAsaMgika haiN| zrI candraprabha jI jaise dhyAnayogI AdhyAtmika manISI bAlavijJAna aura Adhunika manovizleSaNa kI navIna upalabdhiyoM zikSA jagat ke sAtha jor3ane aura unheM vyaktitva - vikAsa kI zrRMkhalA meM gUMthane ke kArya meM kitane siddhahasta haiM, isakI guNavattA to pustaka ke manoyogapUrvaka samagra adhyayana aura anuzIlanadvArA hI pramANita kI jA sakatI hai| nizcaya hI yaha pustaka gAgara meM sAgara bharane kI lokokti kA pratyakSIkaraNa hai jisameM vyaktitva-vikAsa ke sabhI bindu eka hI sthAna para samAyojita kiye gaye haiM / vizvAsa hai yaha pustaka hameM vyaktitva vikAsa se sambandhita eka aisA Atmabodha pradAna karegA jisake Aloka meM hama buniyAdI siddhAMtoM ke saMbala juTA kara apane jIvana ke zreSTha- sArthaka lakSya kI ora agrasara ho skeNge| - For Personal & Private Use Only - DaoN. veMkaTa zarmA - prakAza daphtarI

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*pi vyavahAra aura svabhAva : vyaktitva-vikAsa kA pahalA AdhAra Aja kA yuga naI pIr3hI kA yuga hai| bAlyAvasthA jIvana kA vaha caraNa hai jisameM sampUrNa jIvana kI AdhAra-bhUmikA taiyAra hotI hai| Aja kA bAlaka kala ke vizva kA bhaviSya hai| vaha samAja kA bhAvI karNadhAra aura rASTra kA bhAvI nAgarika hogaa| rASTra ke saMskAra aura vikAsa kI bahuvidha saMbhAvanAe~ bAla-jagat se jur3I huI haiN| parivAra kI sArI AzAe~ aura apekSAe~ usa parivAra meM janma lene vAle bAlaka para hI kendrita hotI haiN| vaMza-paramparA kA nAma pIr3hI-dara-pIr3hI Age bar3hAne ke lie bhI hara parivAra kI yaha abhilASA rahatI hai ki usake ghara meM kama-se-kama eka putra to avazya ho| bAlyakAla jIvana kI prArambhika avasthA hai jisameM usakI zArIrika aura mAnasika kSamatAoM kA janma aura vikAsa hotA hai| manuSya ko apane vyavahAra aura svabhAva : vyaktitva-vikAsa kA pahalA AdhAra For Personal & Private Use Only

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jIvana meM jo kucha honA hotA hai, usakA bIjAropaNa usakI ATha sAla kI umra taka ho jAtA hai jise hama zaizava yA bAlyakAla kahate haiN| saca to yaha hai ki jIvana kA pUrA rUpa usa avasthA meM taiyAra ho jAtA hai| phrAyaDa to yaha mAnate the ki manuSya cAra-pA~ca sAla kI umra meM jo banane ko hotA hai, bana jAtA hai| bAlyakAla vAstava meM jIvana kA 'zikSaNa-kAla' hai| mAtR-bhASA kA sahaja AviSkAra isI vaya meM hI hotA hai| manuSya apane bAlyakAla meM bhASA aura kauzala kA jaisA abhyAsa karatA hai aura jaisA sAmAjika jJAna sIkhatA hai, vahI Age calakara vizva-jJAna meM pariNata hotA hai| yadi bAlyakAla meM jIvana kI sahI pagaDaNDI hAtha laga jAe to vyaktitva ke vikAsa meM kahIM koI khatarA nahIM hai| bAlaka kaisA hai, yaha eka alaga bAta hai| use kaisA honA cAhie, yaha jIvana kA mUla muddA hai| bAlavikAsa kA mUla sambandha usakI zArIrika aura mAnasika kSamatAoM ke vikAsa se hai| bAlaka ke vyaktitva kA hara dRSTi se samucita vikAsa honA caahie|shaariirik, mAnasika, sAmAjika, naitika aura cAritrika pahaluoM ko hameM bAla-vikAsa ke sAtha mukhyatayA jor3anA caahie| vikAsa ke ye dvAra taba taka khule rahane cAhie jaba taka vaha 'bAlaka' hai| bAlyAvasthA se abhiprAya janma se bAraha varSa taka hI nahIM hai, varana taba taka hai, jaba taka usake zArIrika aura mAnasika udvegoM meM parivartana aura vikAsa saMbhAvita hai| bAlaka kA vikAsa to garbha se hI prArambha ho jAtA hai aura TheTha kizorAvasthA taka cAlU rahatA hai| isalie garbhakAla se lekara ikkIsa varSa kI umra taka jIvana kI mUla buniyAda sthApita hotI hai, para pandraha varSa se ikkIsa varSa kI umra taka kizorAvasthA eka aisI mahattvapUrNa avasthA hai jo hamAre sampUrNa jIvana aura vyaktitva ko prabhAvita karatI hai| isa umra meM hamAre yauna-kendroM kA jisa DhaMga se vikAsa hotA hai, usake calate hamArI kriyA-pratikriyAoM meM, manovRttiyoM meM, jIvana-paddhati meM - - - - - kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa - - - - - - - - - - - - - - For Personal & Private Use Only

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eka Akasmika parivartana ho uThatA hai / isa avasthA meM bala aura utsAha bhI kAphI adhika hotA hai to tanAva aura saMgharSa / virodha kI bhI kamI nahIM hotii| kizorAvasthA vAstava meM jIvana kA uThatA huA tUphAna hai| - bAla-manovijJAna manuSya ke usa bAlyakAla para dhyAna detA hai jisase jIvana kI mUla bhittiyA~ jur3I haiN| bAla manovijJAna kA saMbaMdha isa bAta se bAlaka kyA hai yA kaisA hai ? nizcita taura para bAla manovijJAna kI vaijJAnika aura vyAvahArika AvazyakatA hai| jIvana - vijJAna isase do kadama aura Age rakhatA hai| isake upayoga kA uddezya yaha hai ki bAlaka ko kaisA honA cAhie? bAla manovijJAna se jIvana - vijJAna kA mArga vAstava meM vidhAyaka vijJAna se niyAmaka vijJAna kI ora gatizIla hotA hai| hameM vidhAyaka aura niyAmaka donoM vijJAnoM kA bAlaka ke vyaktitva-vikAsa meM upayoga karanA caahie| yadi hama bAla manovijJAna ko manovijJAna ke virAT artha ke sAtha samAyojita kareM to vahI jIvana-vijJAna bana jaaegaa| jisa manovijJAna meM cetanA, mana aura vyavahAra kI samIkSA kI jAtI hai, vahI jIvana - vijJAna hai / jIvana - vijJAna vAstava meM AtmA kA vijJAna hai| manovijJAna ko sAikolaoNjI kahA jAtA hai / 'sAiki' kA artha AtmA hai aura 'logasa' kA artha vijJAna hai / isa prakAra sAiki+logasa arthAt AtmA kA vijJAna hI sAikolaoNjI/ manovijJAna hai / - bAla manovijJAna kA mUla uddezya bAlaka ke abhiyojanAtmaka vyavahAra kI jA~ca-par3atAla karanA hai| use samajhane ke lie hama use 'anubhUti' aura 'vyavahAra' kheNge| hamArI mAnasika kriyA anubhUti hai aura zArIrika kriyA vyavahAra hai| saMvedanA, sAkSAtkAra, sIkhanA, cintana karanA ye saba anubhUtijanya mAnasika kriyAe~ haiM, jabaki calanA-phiranA, likhanAbolanA Adi vyavahArajanya kriyAe~ haiM / vyakti ke zArIrika aura mAnasika vyApAroM kA vijJAna hI manovijJAna hai| vyavahAra aura svabhAva : vyaktitva vikAsa kA pahalA AdhAra - For Personal & Private Use Only 3

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bAla-manovijJAna ke vibhinna pahaluoM ko mukhyatayA abhibhAvakoM ko dhyAna meM rakhanA caahie| bAlaka kI hara gatividhi aura vyavahAra ko unheM samajhanA caahie|aakhir vyavahAra hI to vaha mAdhyama hai jisake dvArA hama usake svabhAva ko samajha sakate haiN| manuSya ke vyaktitva kA nirmANa mukhyatayA usake svabhAva para hI AdhArita hai| kisakA svabhAva kaisA hai, agara yaha jAnanA hai to pahale hama yaha jAneM ki usakA vyavahAra-bartAva kaisA hai? hama isa bAta para dhyAna deM ki bAlaka apanI bAta na mAne jAne para cIkhatA-cillAtA hai, yA samajhAne para mAna jAtA hai; hAtha meM Aye hue paise kI bacata karatA hai yA phijUla-kharcI meM usakA upayoga kara baiThatA hai| kitAboM se prema karatA hai yA unheM phAr3ane kI koziza karatA hai| kucha bacce izAre mAtra se samajha jAte haiM, to kucha pITe jAne para bhI nahIM sudhrte| bacce kA isa hara taraha kA upakrama hameM usake svabhAva kA ahasAsa karAtA hai| ____ vAtAvaraNa, zikSA aura anubhava-ye tIna tattva hI bAlaka ke vyaktitva ke AdhAra banate haiN| bAlaka kA sabase jyAdA sambandha vAtAvaraNa aura paryAvaraNa se hotA hai| vaha vAtAvaraNa se prabhAvita hokara hI saMvedanA kI pratIti karatA hai| saMvedanA usakI utsukatA ko jagAtI hai| usI se pratyakSIkaraNa kI kriyA hotI hai jisase use vAtAvaraNa kA jJAna hotA hai| isa jJAna se use sukha yA duHkha kI anubhUti hotI hai| vaha usa jJAna kI smRti evaM punarAvRtti karatA hai jise usane prApta kiyA hai| vaha nayI vastu kI kalpanA karatA hai aura prApta jJAna ke bAre meM khuda-ba-khuda cintana karatA hai| vaha cintana usake bhItara taka zakti kA saMcAra karatA hai| isa sArI prakriyA se gujarane ke bAda vaha jisa niSkarSa para pahu~catA hai, vahI nirNaya kahalAtA hai| yahI usakI anubhUtijanya mAnasika kriyA hai| bAlaka kA sahI mAnasika vikAsa ho, abhibhAvaka aura parivArajanoM ko isakA pUrA khyAla rakhanA caahie| pratyeka bAlaka apane vikAsa kI AkhirI U~cAI ko chU sakatA hai| bAlaka ke lie usakA parivAra, vAtAvaraNa -- ------------- kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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aura paryAvaraNa hI usakA sabase nikaTatama aMga hai| Akhira jaisA parivAra hogA, bAlaka vaisA hI to vyavahAra, bhASA aura niyama-kAyadoM ko dhAraNa kregaa| cUMki bAlaka kI grahaNa-zakti tIvra hotI hai, isalie vaha jisa ghara-parivAra meM rahatA hai, usakA sarvAdhika sIdhA asara usa para par3atA hai| bAlaka ke zreSTha nirmANa ke lie parivAra kA zreSTha honA jarUrI hai| eka bAlaka se pUchA gayA ki tuma itanI gAlI-galauca kyoM karate ho? Akhira tumane ye gAliyA~ kahA~ sIkhIM? bAlaka kA javAba thA-gAlI to mere mA~-bApa bhI dete haiN| yAnI bacce para usake abhibhAvakoM kA pUrA asara par3atA hai| aisA hI eka prazna baccI se pUchA gayA-'beTI, tuma sabake sAtha itanI vinamratA, madhuratA aura sammAna ke sAtha peza AtI ho, Akhira isakA kAraNa kyA hai?' baccI ne kahA, 'isameM koI naI bAta nahIM hai| mere ghara ke sAre sadasya sabake sAtha aise hI peza Ate haiN|' bAlaka kI vinamratA, madhuratA aura ziSTatA ke pIche ghara-parivAra ke vAtAvaraNa kA pUrA-pUrA asara par3atA hai| parivAra kI hara gatividhi usake saMvegoM aura mAnasika kriyAoM ko anivAryata: prabhAvita karatI hai| parivAra kA galata saMskAra use mAnasika roga aura unmAda se ghera sakatA hai| yadi koI bAlaka bahuta jyAdA bhulakkar3a hai to isakA artha yaha huA ki yA to usake zarIra kA Antarika vikAsa paripUrNa nahIM huA yA phira usake svAbhAvika saMvega, cintana aura abhivyakti ko damita kiyA gayA hai| phrAyaDa, eDalara, baica aura juMga ke anusAra to bahuta-sI bImAriyoM kA kAraNa mAnasika hI hotA hai| Ama zArIrika roga kA prabhAva do-cAra dina kA rahatA hai, para mAnasika roga bAlaka ko yA to cir3acir3A yA jhakkI banA detA hai yA phira use aparAdha-bhAvanA se grasta kara detA hai| acchA to yaha hai ki bAlaka ko DA~Tane-phaTakArane aura pITane kI bajAe use prema se samajhAe~ aura use acchA vAtAvaraNa deN| bAlaka kI hara kriyA vAstava meM hamAre vyavahAra kI hI pratikriyA hai| khelakUda aura manoraMjana usakI naisargika pravRtti hai| parivAra ke sadasyoM ko cAhie ki ve usakI isa svAbhAvika ----------------- vyavahAra aura svabhAva : vyaktitva-vikAsa kA pahalA AdhAra For Personal & Private Use Only

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pravRtti kA damana na kreN| ve usakI par3hAI para jitanA dhyAna dete haiM, usake samAna hI usake khela-kUda aura manoraMjana para bhI dhyAna deN| bAla-manovijJAna kA ApagharelU jIvana meM bhI upayoga kara sakate haiN| Apa yaha jAnane kA prayAsa kareM ki hamAre baccoM meM kina-kina vastuoM ke prati abhiruci hai ? ve kinase milanA-julanA pasanda karate haiM aura kisa prakAra kA khela khelate haiM ? ve udAsa hai yA milanasAra haiM, yA ve kina vastuoM se bhaya khAte haiM? bAlaka ke svabhAva ne jina mArgoM ko cunA hai, yadi ve vyAvahArika yA naitika haiM to unheM una mArgoM para bar3hane ke lie aura adhika protsAhana denA caahie| unakI AdateM, vyavahAra yA zauka galata mahasUsa hoM to unheM sudhArane ke lie itanA sauhArda aura saujanyapUrNa parAmarza denA cAhie ki unheM ApakA sudhAra-abhiyAna Atma-damana na lge| hara bAlaka kA vikAsa honA cAhie, para usI dizA meM, jo pragatizIla ho| ___ bAlakoM ko apane vikAsa ke lie sahI mArga mile, isake lie hameM unakA mArgadarzana karanA cAhie aura unakI burI Adata na par3a jAe isalie una para niyaMtraNa bhI rakhanA caahie| usake amuka vyavahAra yA svabhAva ko dekhakara hI yaha bhaviSyavANI kI jA sakatI hai ki isa bAlaka kI Age calakara cintaka, cikitsaka, vaijJAnika, vyApArI yA amuka vyakti banane kI saMbhAvanA hai| __kucha bAlaka aise hote haiM jinakA vikAsa anAyAsa ho jAtA hai| kucha ke lie parizrama karanA par3atA hai, para kucha aise bhI hote haiM jina para mehanata bhI raMga nahIM laatii| yaha saba bAlaka-vizeSa para hI nirbhara karatA hai| yadi zrama karane ke bAvajUda bacce meM sudhAra yA vikAsa na A sake to abhibhAvakoM ko cAhie ki ve cikitsakoM yA bAlamanovaijJAnikoM se samparka kara unase parAmarza leN| Tarmana ne apane anusandhAna kA jo niSkarSa nikAlA, vaha kAphI mahattvapUrNa hai| Tarmana ke anusAra jo bacce teraha mahIne meM calanA-phiranA kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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sIkha lete haiM, ve kuzAgra buddhi vAle hote haiN| sAmAnya buddhi ke bacce caudaha mahIne meM calanA-phiranA sIkhate haiN| mUrkha baccoM ko calanA-phiranA sIkhane bAIsa mahIne se tIsa mahIne laga jAte haiM / calanA-phiranA aura bolanAsIkhane meM kucha pharka hai| kuzAgra buddhi ke bAlaka 11 mahIne meM aura sAmAnya buddhi ke 16 mahIne meM evaM mUrkha bAlaka janma ke bAda 34 mahInoM se lekara 51 mahInoM meM bolanA sIkhate haiN| yahA~ eka bAta kA vizeSa ullekha karanA cAhU~gA ki lar3akoM kI apekSA lar3akiyoM kA zArIrika aura mAnasika vikAsa zIghra hotA hai| mAnasika vikAsa kI dRSTi se lar3akiyoM kI grahaNa-zakti pahale vikasita ho jAtI hai| zArIrika dRSTi se yauna-sambandhI paripakvatA lar3akiyoM meM lar3akoM se eka varSa pUrva A jAtI hai| T pratyeka bAlaka apanI zaizava - avasthA meM apane-Apa se pyAra karatA hai jabaki bAlyAvasthA meM vaha apane mAtA-pitA ke prati prema darzAtA hai / bAlaka ko apanI mammI se jyAdA pyAra hotA hai jabaki bAlikA ko apane pitA se / kizorAvasthA meM sahavargI prema hotA hai| lar3ake lar3akoM se maitrI rakhate haiM aura lar3akiyA~ lar3akiyoM se / para kizorAvasthA Dhalate-Dhalate, bAlaka apanI caturtha avasthA meM paravargI (apojiTa - saiksa) ke prati AkarSita hone lagatA hai, yAnI lar3akA lar3akI ke prati prema kI abhivyakti karatA hai aura lar3akI lar3ake ke prati / bAlaka kI svAbhAvika pravRttiyoM meM avarodha utpanna karanA to use mAnasika roga se grasta karanA hai| vikAsa kA pravAha to nirantara bahatA rahanA caahie| para hA~, jahA~ gAr3I paTarI se nIce utarane kI saMbhAvanA ho, abhibhAvakoM ko prema aura niSThA ke sAtha apane karttavya nibhAne cAhie / bAlaka para garbhAvasthA se lekara taba taka dhyAna rakhanA cAhie, jaba taka paripakvatA na A jaae| hameM sadaiva yaha prayAsa karanA cAhie jisase hamAre bacce kA zArIrika, mAnasika, sAmAjika, naitika, cAritrika, saundaryAtmaka aura dhArmika vikAsa ho / usakI ruci, smRti, cintana, tarka aura nirNaya ke vikAsa ke lie bhI use sazakta aura sakriya banAnA vyavahAra aura svabhAva : vyaktitva vikAsa kA pahalA AdhAra For Personal & Private Use Only 7

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caahie| khela, aMtAkSarI, manoraMjana aura vyAyAma ke prati use saceSTa karanA caahie| vAstava meM una sabhI pahaluoM para dhyAna denA cAhie jinase bAlaka ke vyaktitva para sakArAtmaka prabhAva par3atA ho| isake lie jarUrI hai ki hama usake sAtha sahI vyavahAra kareM, use sahI vAtAvaraNa deM aura usakA zikSaNa-prazikSaNa bhI sahI ho / use zuddha vAyu aura prakAza mile, aura sAtha hI mile eka svacchaMda pArivArika paryAvaraNa / 1 8 kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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pap 101010100 401010101010 bAlaka : janma, vikAsa aura samAyojana jIvana ke nirmANa kI bahuta bar3I saMbhAvanA garbhastha zizuyA janmakAla meM hI sAkAra ho jAtI hai| manuSya to mAtra jIvana kA eka vistAra hai| usakA mUla urvIkaraNa to mAtA ke garbha meM hI hotA hai| isalie mA~ ke saMvegAtmaka vyavahAroM kA asara bacce para par3e, yaha svAbhAvika hai| ____ manuSya ke mUla zarIra aura zarIra se jur3e samasta aMgoM kA nirmANa to mA~ ke garbha meM hI hotA hai| janmase pUrva mA~ ke garbha meM kisI ke jur3ave hAtha yA pA~va ho sakate haiN| A~kha do kI bajAe tIna-cAra ho sakatI haiN| mastaka kI bhI koI anya saMbhAvanA svIkAra kI jA sakatI hai| para garbha se bAhara nikalane ke bAda kisI aMga-vizeSa kA nirmANa nahIM kiyA jA sktaa| zalyacikitsAzarIra ke kisI aMgakA vyavaccheda kara sakatI hai, usakA nirmANa nhiiN| yadi bacce meM kisI prakAra kI janmajAta zArIrika virUpatA AtI hai to sabase pahale yaha adhyayana kiyA jAtA hai ki kahIM mAtA-pitA kI bAlaka : janma, vikAsa aura samAyojana For Personal & Private Use Only

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anta:-granthiyoM meM koI vikRti to nahIM hai, koI virUpa jIvANu to nahIM hai / garbhastha zizu ke vikAsa para mA~ ke roga aura svAsthya kA sarvAdhika prabhAva par3atA hai| sujAka se pIr3ita mahilAoM ke yA to garbhapAta ho jAtA hai yA phira zizu meM buddhihInatA, andhApana yA baharApana A jAtA hai| tapedika yA madhumeha ho to garbhastha zizu kA vikAsa ThIka DhaMga se nahIM ho paataa| eka svastha bacce ke janma ke lie mA~ kA svastha honA aparihArya hai| mAtA ko cAhie ki vaha bhojana bhI itanA santulita aura saMyamita kare ki garbhastha zizu ko kisI prakAra ke kupoSaNa kA zikAra na honA par3e / santulita AhAra kI kamI ke kAraNa hI garbhastha zizu kA vajana aura kada donoM hI kama ho jAte haiN| itanA hI nahIM, usakI haDDiyA~ bhI kamajora ho jAtI hai| garbhastha zizu para mAtA kI mAdakatA tathA vyasanazIlatA kA sabase burA prabhAva par3atA hai| jo mahilAe~ dhUmrapAna karatI haiM, unheM yaha nahIM bhUlanA cAhie ki sigareTa meM 'nikoTIna' hotA hai| yaha eka aisA viSailA padArtha hai jisake upayoga se raktacApa / blaDa prezara bar3ha jAtA hai| tambAkhU kA sevana karane se hRdayagati meM bAdhA AtI hai| eka svastha bacce ke janma ke lie mAtA-pitA kA svastha evaM vyasanamukta honA anivArya zarta hai / gA~voM meM choTI umra meM hI zAdI-vivAha ho jAte haiN| maiMne isa sandarbha meM jaba jA~ca-par3atAla kI to yaha bAta spaSTa ho gaI ki paripakva umra ke mAtApitA ke bacce kaccI umra ke mAtA-pitA ke baccoM kI apekSAkRta adhika buddhimAna hote haiN| mAtA ke saMvegoM aura vyavahAroM kA bhI garbhastha zizu para bahuta adhika asara par3atA hai| mAtA kA krodhita, cintita ya tanAva grasta honA bacce ke mastiSka kI saMracanA ko kamajora karatA hai / krodha aura cintA ke kAraNa garbhastha zizu ko saMkucita AhAra milatA hai| mAtA kA rakta hI usakA bhojana hotA hai aura nizcita taura para eka krodhita mA~ kA rakta uttejanApUrNa hI hogaa| eka cintita mA~ kA rakta supta aura zithila hogA / usakI gati kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa 10 For Personal & Private Use Only - -

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avaruddha aura kamajora hogii| natIjatana zizu meM kaI taraha kI asamAnatAe~ / asAmAnyatAe~ vikasita ho uttheNgii| zizu ke samucita vikAsa ke lie mAtA kA prasannacitta rahanA anivArya pahalU hai / mAtA kA jIvana aura usake sAre aMga- upAMga bar3e santulita hone caahie| mAnasika santulana para to vizeSa taura para dhyAna denA cAhie kyoMki garbhastha zizu ke samasta aMgoM meM sabase pahale sira kA nirmANa hotA hai aura usake bAda A~kha, kAna, nAka tathA mu~ha Adi kA / hRdaya kI racanA bhI sira kI racanA ke bAda hI hotI hai| isalie mAtA ke mana aura mastiSka kA zizu ke sira para anivAryata: prabhAva par3egA / pratyeka mAtA ko yaha dhyAna rakhanA cAhie ki use vaisA hI AcAravicAra karanA cAhie jisase garbhastha zizu ke zArIrika vikAsa aura jJAnendriya-vikAsa para acchA prabhAva par3e / yadyapi bacce ko kisI prakAra pIr3A kI anubhUti nahIM hotI, gandha kI bhI anubhUti nahIM hotI, para usameM saMvedanA to hotI hI hai| saMvedanazIlatA sabase pahale sira se prArambha hotI hai aura phira sampUrNa zarIra meM vyApta ho jAtI hai| jIvana kSamatA to taba AtI hai jaba zizu sAta candramAsa kA ho jaae| para vaha mUla jIvANu to zurU se hI rahatA hai jo zarIra - nirmANa kI vibhAjana - prakriyA ke pariNAmasvarUpa aneka bhAgoM aura upavibhAgoM meM vibhAjita hotA hai| yaha eka pUrva mAnyatA rahI hai ki garbhastha zizu meM jIvana - kSamatA Ate hI use apane pUrvajanma kI bAteM yAda ho AtI haiN| para isa bAta meM adhika vaijJAnikatA nahIM hai| bhalA garbhastha zizu ko ve saba bAteM yAda bhI kaise Ae~gI jabaki usakI smRti kI cetanA abhI taka avikasita hai| vikAsa to dhIre-dhIre hotA hai| janma ke bAda bAlaka kA jaise - jaise vikAsa hotA hai, usake mastiSka aura smRti kI kSamatA bhI majabUta hotI calI jAtI hai| hA~, garbhastha zizu ko pUrva janma - vizeSa kI kisI taraha kI dhu~dhalI-sI jhalaka yAda raha sakatI hai| usakI smRti niSkriya kiMcit bhI nahIM hotI, para pUrNatayA sakriya hone meM samaya to lagatA hI hai| bAlaka : janma, vikAsa aura samAyojana - For Personal & Private Use Only 11

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kucha bacce aise hote haiM jo apane garbhastha kAla meM bhI kAphI sakriya hote haiN| unakI sakriyatA kA ehasAsa unake halana-calana se svayaM mA~ ko bhI hotA hai| kahA jAtA hai ki mahAvIra jaba garbhastha zizu the, unakI gatyAtmakatA aura karmaThatA kA ehasAsa tabhI se mA~ ko hone laga gayA thaa| ve mA~ ke peTa meM hI kAphI hilA-DulA karate the| kahate haiM ki unhoMne eka dina yaha socakara apanI halana-calana banda kara dI ki unake hilane-Dulane se zAyada mA~ ko takalIpha hotI ho| para mahAvIra ke isa kArya se unakI mAtA para burI pratikriyA huii| pariNAmasvarUpa mahAvIra punaH sakriya ho ge| yaha saba mAtA aura garbhastha zizu kA saMvegAtmaka vyavahAra hai| hama jise saMvega-vyavahAra kahate haiM, mahAvIra ne use 'saMjJA' kahA hai| mahAvIra ke anusAra hara bacce meM cAra saMjJAe~ hotI haiM-AhAra, bhaya, saMgraha aura maithun| vaise nidrA bhI eka saMjJA hai| zizu jaba garbha meM rahatA hai taba bhI AhAra karatA hai aura bAhara nikalane para bhI AhAra karatA hai| AhAra-pAnI ke lie hI vaha cIkhatA-cillAtA hai, hAtha-pA~va mArakara saMgharSa bhI karatA hai| yaha cIkhanA kevala AhAra ke lie hI nahIM hotA hai| saca to yaha hai ki usake cIkhane aura sA~sa lene se hI usakI zravaNazakti kA pardA khulatA hai| ___ janma ke dasa dina bAda taka zizu meM kevala AhAra evaM nidrA-saMjJA hI rahatI hai| bhaya, saMgraha aura maithuna-saMjJA dhIre-dhIre vikasita hotI hai| kisI pena-peMsila ko pakar3ane ke lie macalanA saMgraha-saMjJA hai| A~kha dikhAne yA kisI cIja ke girane se huI U~cI AvAja ke kAraNa Dara jAnA bhaya-saMjJA hai| kAma-pravRtti se jur3I maithuna saMjJAM kA svAbhAvika vikAsa to kizorAvasthA meM hotA hai, kintu bacce ke dvArA apane aMgUThe ko cUsakara Ananda-prApti kI anubhUti karanA bhI maithuna-saMjJA hai| ina saMjJAoM aura saMvegoM ke atirikta navajAta zizu meM krodha aura prema ke saMvega bhI hote haiN| jaba zizu kI svAbhAvika kriyA yA zArIrika halanacalana meM kisI taraha kA avarodha hotA hai to usameM krodha utpanna hotA hai| krodha kI abhivyakti vaha cIkha-cillAkara, hAtha-paira calAkara yA zarIra se ---- kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 12 For Personal & Private Use Only

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kapar3e utArakara karatA hai| prema-saMvega kI utpatti taba hotI hai jaba use koI thapathapAtA hai, sahalAtA hai yA gudagudAtA hai| prema-saMvega kI abhivyakti ke rUpa meM yA to navajAta zizu muskarA uThatA hai yA galagalA uThatA hai| bacce kI ina sArI pravRttiyoM ko eka prakAra se saMvegAtmaka pratikriyAe~ na kahakara uttejanA-kI-pratikriyA kheNge| ____ yahA~ yaha ullekhanIya hai ki navajAta zizuoM ke vyaktitva meM kucha vyaktigata antara hotA hai| bahuta-se zizu janma se hI zAnta prakRti ke hote haiM to kucha tUphAnI hote haiN| zizu kI isI prakRti ke AdhAra para usake bhAvI vyaktitva kI saMbhAvanA kI jA sakatI hai| navajAta zizu ke vyaktitva meM usakI jo sabase bar3I vizeSatA hotI hai vaha hai smaayojnshiiltaa| garbha se bAhara Ane ke bAda baccA naye vAtAvaraNa ke sAtha bahuta jaldI apane Apako samAyojita/eDajasTa kara letA hai| baccoM meM jaise saMskAra DAle jAte haiM, ve unhIM ko AtmasAt karane meM laga jAte haiN| pratyeka bacce meM Atma-nirbharatA kA guNa janma lete hI dikhAI dene lagatA hai| gAya kA bachar3A paidA hone ke kucha samaya bAda hI chalAMga bharane lagatA hai| mRgazAvaka to janma lete hI uchalane-kUdane lagate haiN| murgI kA baccA utpanna hone ke bAda coMca mArane laga jAtA hai| yaha vAstava meM samAyojanazIlatA ke prati usake utsAha kI abhivyakti hai| sacamuca bacce dvArA svayaM ko hara vAtAvaraNa meM samAyojita kara lenA vizva ke lie eka ullekhanIya preraNA hai| bacce kI samAyojana-kSamatA eka vayaska se adhika hotI hai| use jisa DhaMga ke saMskAra aura vAtAvaraNa se samAyojita karanA cAheMge, vaha apane Apako vaise hI DhAla legaa| isalie mAtA-pitA ko cAhie ki ve apane navajAta zizu ko aisA mAhaula deM jisase usakA sahI vikAsa ho aura Age calakara vaha eka sabhya aura saMskArita vyakti siddha ho ske| 000 -- - - - - - - - - - bAlaka : janma, vikAsa aura samAyojana - ----- - - - - - -- For Personal & Private Use Only

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saphala jIvana ke lie jarUrI : sakriya bacapana vaTa-vRkSa kA bhaviSya Akhira bIja meM hI samAyA hotA hai| bIja kA aMkuraNa aura usake vikAsa para dhyAna diyA jAe to usake sukhada aura saphala pariNAma kI AviSkRti sahaja saMbhava hai| kevala phUloM aura pattoM ko sIMcane se kucha nahIM hone vAlA hai| bAhara kA sArA phailAva jar3oM para kendrita hai| jar3oM ko majabUta aura siMcita karane vAlA hI jIvana ke zreya aura lakSya ko upalabdha kara pAtA hai| ___ kahate haiM ki pUta ke pA~va to pAlane meM hI dikha jAyA karate haiN| jIvana kA vijJAna jIvana ke AvirbhAva se jur3A huA hai| jo vyakti janmajAta jhagar3AlU prakRti kA hai, cir3acir3e svabhAva kA hai, usake bhAvI jIvana meM zAnti ke lahalahAte devadAra kI kalpanA nahIM kI jA sktii| eka ha~satAmuskarAtA baccA prasannatA bhare jIvana kA saMketa hai| kucha bacce kevala prakRti se zAnta aura prasanna nahIM hote, bhAgyavaMta bhI hote haiN| ve apanI khuziyA~ kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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apane sAtha lekara Ate haiM aura sAre ghara-parivAra ko apanI khuziyoM meM zarIka kara lete haiM / bAlaka kA vikAsa usakI sakriyatA se jur3A huA hai| bAlaka ko bAlaka ke yogya sakriya kiyA jAe to bAlaka meM antarnihita yogyatAoM aura kSamatAoM kA AviSkAra ho jAtA hai| bAlaka kA kriyAtmaka vikAsa nizcaya hI jitanA adhika prabala hotA hai, usakI zArIrika aura mAnasika sthiti utanI hI sudRr3ha hotI hai| apanI kriyAtmakatA aura karmaThatA meM zithila honA AtmavizvAsa kI hI kamI hai| jo loga apane baccoM ke kriyAtmaka vikAsa ke lie saceta rahate haiM, ve unheM Atma-nirbhara, sakriya aura sazakta banAne kI pahala karate haiN| bacce ko gamalA saMskRti kI bajAya kyArIsaMskRti se jor3anA caahie| gamale meM kevala eka akelA paudhA rahatA hai| pAnI DAlo to vaha phalatA hai varanA kumhalA jAtA hai| kyArI meM lagA paudhA sabase jur3A rahatA hai| use usake naisargika vikAsa kA maukA milatA hai| kyArI meM lage paudhe kI sakriyatA adhika hotI hai| jo vyakti apane bAlyakAla meM sakriya ho uThatA hai, vaha jIvana meM avazyameva anUThI saphalatAe~ arjita karatA hai / baccoM meM kriyAtmaka yogyatAoM kA vikAsa sAmAnya se vizeSa kI ora hotA hai| unake vikAsa kI yAtrA sira se pA~va kI ora hotI hai| janma ke samaya bAlaka kA mastiSka samasta kriyAe~ nahIM kara pAtA hai / mastiSka hara kriyA-prakriyA meM sakSama ho, isake lie use 20 varSa to laga hI jAte haiN| janma ke samaya bAlaka ke mastiSka kA bhAra lagabhaga 350 grAma hotA hai / bAda meM vahI bar3hate-bar3hate 1200 se 1400 grAma ho jAtA hai| yaha bAta sahI hai ki bAlakoM ke mastiSka kA vikAsa bAlyAvasthA meM tIvragati se hotA hai, para bAda meM vahI gati manda par3a jAtI hai| choTI umra meM bAlaka ke vyavahAra mastiSka ke nicale kendroM aura suSumnA nAr3I dvArA saMcAlita hote haiM, magara bar3e hone ke bAda ve vRhat mastiSka jaise ucca kendroM ke dvArA saphala jIvana ke lie jarUrI : sakriya bacapana For Personal & Private Use Only 15

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saMcAlita hone lagate haiN| cAhe mastiSka kA nimna-kendra ho yA ucca, kriyAtmakatA kI pahala kA nirdezaka to mastiSka hI hai| bAlaka kA jitanA jaldI kriyAmUlaka vikAsa hogA, vaha vAtAvaraNa ke sAtha apane-Apako utanI hI tIvratA ke sAtha samAyojita kara legaa| kriyAtmaka vikAsa aura vAtAvaraNa ke sAtha samAyojana hI usake karmakauzala ko sahAyatA pradAna kregaa| vaha apane pA~voM ke bala para khar3A honA siikhegaa| hara prakAra kI zArIrika gatividhiyoM kA vaha svayaM saMcAlaka hogaa| pahale to vaha kevala hAtha-pA~va pheMkegA, para bAda meM vaha anya kriyAtmaka kuzalatAoM ko bhI sahajatayA prApta kara legA, jaise svayaM bhojana karanA, khuda vastra pahananA, geMda pheMkanA/pakar3anA, daur3anA, kUdanA, sIr3hiyoM para car3hanA, TrAisikala calAnA aura likhanA aadi| jaba taka kriyAtmaka yogyatAoM meM pragati na ho, bAlaka bilkula asahAya evaM parAzrita hotA hai, phira cAhe vaha eka mahIne kA ho yA dasa varSa kaa| kriyAtmaka yogyatAoM kA vikAsa hI use Atma-nirbhara banAtA hai| Atma-nirbharatA apane hI hAtha se kAma-kAja karane se upalabdha hotI hai, isalie ghara ke sadasyoM ko cAhie ki vaha choTe bacce ko dhIre-dhIre yaha protsAhana deM ki ve apanA kAma svayaM karane laga jaaeN| svAvalambI bAlaka apekSAkRta adhika svastha aura sajaga hote haiN| kriyAtmaka vikAsa kA sabase bar3A lAbha yaha hotA hai ki bacce ko apanI hI kriyAoM ke dvArA Ananda prApta hone lagatA hai| khelanA bacce kI svAbhAvika pravRtti hai| yadi baccA khela ke prati rucizIla na ho to use khela ke prati protsAhana denA caahie| khelane se Ananda bhI milatA hai aura zArIrika sAmarthya bhI bar3hatA hai| kriyAtmaka yogyatAoM se mAtra khelane kI zakti hI utpanna nahIM hotI, varan kriyAtmaka yogyatAe~ bhI usake sahayoga se vikasita ho jAtI haiN| __ khela-khela meM hI to bacce kA dUsaroM ke sAtha ha~sate-khelate samparka ho jAtA hai| eka bacce se dUsarA baccA milatA hai| do se cAra milate haiM, - - - - - - - - kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 16 For Personal & Private Use Only

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baccoM kI TolI ho jAtI hai aura isa prakAra dhIre-dhIre unakA sAmAjika vikAsa hone lagatA hai| ___ bacce kA vidyAlaya meM jAnA, likhanA, par3hanA, citra banAne ke lie lakIreM khIMcanA, daur3anA, kUdanA, khelanA, ye saba kriyAtmaka yogyatAoM ke vikAsa ke hI pariNAma haiN| dhIre-dhIre baccA apanI Atma-upalabdhiyoM se prasanna hone lagatA hai| vaha svayaM hI asmitA ko samajhane aura svIkAra karane lagatA hai aura isa prakAra apane hamaumra sAthiyoM kI tulanA meM kucha adhika kara dikhAnA cAhatA hai| vaha apanI yogyatAoM ko dUsaroM kI yogyatAoM se adhika paripakva karanA cAhatA hai| vaha unheM pradarzitabhI karanA cAhatA hai| dUsare sahapAThI ko kakSA meM prathama zreNI se uttIrNa huA dekhakara usakI suSupta kriyAtmaka yogyatA jagajAtI hai| natIjana vaha bhI apane-Apako Age bar3hAne ke lie sakriya ho jAtA hai| use dekhakara auroM ko preraNA milatI hai| vaha auroM kA Adarza banatA hai| kriyAtmaka yogyatAoM ke vikAsa meM yadi vilamba hotA hai to usakA mukhya kAraNa zArIrikahInatA, buddhihInatA, bhayaprada-vAtAvaraNa aura protsAhana kA abhAva hai| bAlaka ko koI roga ho, vaha janma se andhA yA badhira ho, usakI granthi-praNAlI meM doSa ho yA vaha apekSAkRta adhika moTA yA patalA ho to usakI kriyAtmaka yogyatAoM kA santulita rUpa se vikAsa nahIM ho paataa| yadi bacce ko ghara meM yA vidyAlaya meM choTI-choTI sI bAta meM bhI DarAyA-dhamakAyA jAtA hai to usakI kriyAtmaka yogyatAoM ke vikAsa meM bAdhAe~ AtI haiN| usakI yogyatAe~ kuNThita aura avaruddha ho jAtI haiN| isalie bAta-bebAta meM baccoM ke sAtha rokA-TokI na kreN| unheM apanI galatI sudhArane kA avasara deN| kriyAtmaka yogyatA aura usake kauzala ke vikAsa meM abhyAsa, prazikSaNa aura protsAhana ina tIna cIjoM kI sarvAdhika bhUmikA rahatI hai| bAlaka ko apekSita kriyA kA samucita abhyAsa karanA cAhie, usakA --------- saphala jIvana ke lie jarUrI : sakriya bacapana 17 - For Personal & Private Use Only

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prazikSaNa denA cAhie aura use saphalatApUrvaka karane kA protsAhana bhI denA caahie| abhyAsa, prazikSaNa aura protsAhana, bAlyAvasthA ke ve sabase kAragara upAya haiM jinake calate use thakAna bhI kama mahasUsa hotI hai , bArabAra galatiyA~ nahIM hotI aura nirarthaka gatividhiyoM se chuTakArA milatA hai aura kAma karane kI gati aura kSamatA bhI bar3hatI hai| truTiyoM kI punarAvRtti na hone ke kAraNa kriyAtmakatA meM vizuddhatA bhI AtI hai| ___bAlakoM ko apane vikAsa ke lie agara protsAhana milatA rahe to ve apekSAkRta jaldI kuzAgra aura saphala ho sakate haiN| yadi bAlaka ko kisI kArya meM saphala hone ke bAda use logoM ke bIca puraskRta bhI kiyA jAe to isase usakA utsAha bddh'egaa| isakA pariNAma yaha hogA ki vaha apane adhyayana aura lakSya ke lie aura adhika jAgarUka bnegaa| vaha apanI saphalatAoM ko vistAra degA aura Age jAkara apanI kAryazailI meM aura adhika prakhara hogaa| tejomayatA hogI usake kriyAkalApa meM, bola-bartAva meN| eka sakriya aura saphala jIvana ke lie jarUrI hai eka sakriya aura saphala bcpn| 000 18 kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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baccoM ko sikhAe~ behatara bhASA bhASA hamAre sAmAjika sambandhoM ko paraspara jor3ane vAlA setu hai| manuSya buddhimAna prANI hai, para bagaira bhASA ke usakI buddhimattA kI koI abhivyakti nahIM ho sktii| bhASA to bhASA hI hai, phira cAhe vaha vyakta ho yA avykt| avyakta bhASA cintana kahalAtI hai aura vyakta bhASA abhivykti| bhASA kA prathama saMskAra manuSya ke zaizavakAla meM hI niSpanna ho jAtA hai| vaha bhASA bacapana kI bhASA kahalAtI hai| usa samaya usakA svarUpa spaSTa nahIM, varan babalAtA, tutalAtA hotA hai| koI vyakti kisI vizvavidyAlaya kA kulapati bhI kyoM na bana jAe, para bacapana meM to vaha bhI tutalAtA hI thaa| Ayu kA vikAsa, bhASA ko vistAra denA hai| baccA jyoMjyoM bar3A hotA hai, usakA zabda-bhaNDAra bar3hatA calA jAtA hai aura usakI bhASA paripakva hotI calI jAtI hai| Der3ha varSa kI Ayu meM bAlaka mAtra dasabAraha zabdoM ko bola pAtA hai para do-DhAI varSa kA hote-hote use kama-se baccoM ko sikhAe~ betahara bhASA For Personal & Private Use Only

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kama do sau se tIna sau zabdoM kA jJAna ho jAtA hai| 3 varSa kI Ayu meM to usakI pahu~ca hajAra zabdoM taka ho jAtI hai| bhASA kI paripakvatA aura zabdoM kA bAhulya vAstava meM bacce ke vidyAlaya jAne ke bAda hI prArambha hotA hai| pAThya-pustakoM ko par3hane se, kahAniyoM athavA samAcAra-patroM ko vA~cane yA reDiyo aura TelIvijana ke jarie use anekAneka naye-naye zabdoM kA jJAna hotA hai| vaha bola-bartAva meM unakA saMgIna prayoga karane lagatA hai| mekarthI aura smitha ne jo manovizleSaNAtmaka adhyayana kiyA, vaha to bar3A cauMkAne vAlA hai| unake anusAra prathama kakSA meM bIsa-paccIsa hajAra, chaThI kakSA meM pacAsa hajAra aura hAI skUla meM bAlaka ko assI hajAra zabdoM kA jJAna ho jAtA hai| vaha unheM samajhane laga jAtA hai athavA bAtacIta meM unakA upayoga bhI karane laga jAtA hai| pUrNa vikasita manuSya ko eka samaya meM pA~ca lAkha zabda yAda rahate haiN| jIvana meM bhASA-vikAsa ke lie kevala zabda-bhaNDAra hI paryApta nahIM hai apitu vyavahAra meM unakA samucita prayoga bhI Avazyaka hai| eka mRdu bhASI vyakti jitanA sAmAjika ho sakatA hai, utanA anargala saMvAdI nhiiN| saMskRti aura sabhyatA kA vikAsa vAstava meM bhASA ke samyak vyavahAra kI bhitti para hI AdhArita hai| isalie bhASA ke vikAsa kA itihAsa vAstava meM saMskRti aura sabhyatA ke vikAsa kA hI itihAsa hai| ise hama dUsare zabdoM meM buddhi-vikAsa kA itihAsa kaha sakate haiN| parIkSaNa se to yaha patA calatA hai ki bhASA au sabhyatA donoM kA vikAsa sAtha-sAtha hotA hai| bhASA kA jaise-jaise samyak vikAsa hotA hai, jIvana meM mAnavIya sabhyatA usI tvarA se abhivardhita hotI hai| Akhira hamArI sabhyatA hamArI bhASA meM hI to vyakta hotI hai| hamArI bhASA hI hamArI sabhyatA kA paricaya detI hai| yadi kisI vyakti kI bauddhika yogyatA ko parakhanA hai to bhASA aura bhASA-zailI hI usakA kAragara mApadaNDa hai| ---------------- kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa - 20 For Personal & Private Use Only

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bhASA ke calate hI manuSya ke sAmAjika vikAsa kI saMbhAvanA ko sabalatA milatI hai| bhalA eka gUMge yA bahare bacce kA kyA sAmAjika rUpa hogA! yadi hogAbhI to bar3A hI kuNThita, saMkIrNa aura sNkucit| sAmAjika sambandhoM kA sampAdana to bhASA ke samucita vikAsa evaM usake samyaka vyavahAra se hI sambhava hai| ve loga dUsaroM kA dila jIta lete haiM jo zAnti, saumya, santulita aura madhura bhASA kA upayoga karate haiN| vANI meM madhuratA aura cehare kI prasannatA hI dUsaroM ko prabhAvita karane kA rAjamArga hai| ___ vicAroM aura bhAvanAoM ko vyakta karane vAle sAre pratIka aura arthabodhaka rUpabhASA ke aMga haiM jinakA upayogasAmAjika saujanya aura samparka prApta karane ke lie kiyA jAtA hai| hamAre cehare ke bhAva, iMgita, saMketa, abhinaya yA likhanA-bolanA Adi saba bhASA ke hI aMga haiM jo dUsaroM kI sahadharmitA nibhAte haiN| ____ bhASA ke mukhyatayA do kArya haiN| prathama to hai cintana aura dUsarA hai abhivykti| cintana AtmakriyA-kendrita hotA hai, jabaki abhivyakti kA sambandha sadaiva dUsaroM ke sAtha hotA hai| bhASA ke kAraNa hama eka dUsaroM ko samajhate haiM, apane vicAra vyakta karate haiN| jo loga dUsaroM se apanA samparka aura sambandha kama-se-kama banAe rakhanA cAhate haiM, ve loga mauna svIkAra karate haiN| bhASAparaka dRSTi se hamArI hara pratikriyA sAmAjika hotI hai| manovaijJAnikoM ke anusAra bacce meM vidyAlaya jAne se pUrva jo pratikriyAe~ hotI haiM, unakA anupAta 96 pratizata sAmAjika hotA hai| bhASA kA mukhya uddezya sUcanA pAnA, apane bhAvoM ko vyakta karanA aura auroM ko preraNA denA hai| sAmAjIkaraNa kI prakriyA meM sahakAritA nibhAnA bhI bhASA kA mukhya dhyeya hai| eka bAlaka kA jIvana to mAno pUrI taraha se parAzrita hI hotA hai| vaha apanI AvazyakatAoM kI abhivyakti bolakara hI kara pAtA hai| bhASA bolakara yA sunakara bacce meM jahA~ sAmAjika saMskAra saMcArita hote haiM, vahIM baccoM ko sikhAe~ betahara bhASA - - - - - - - bhASA 21 For Personal & Private Use Only

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kaI prakAra ke sAmAjika mUlyoM, vicAroM aura AdarzoM ko bhI vaha AtmasAt karatA hai| jaba bAlaka 13-14 mahIne kA hotA hai, to vaha bolane kI taiyArI karane lagatA hai| isase pahale vaha apanI kisI bhI jarUrata ko ro-cIkhakara yA hAtha-paira paTakakara hI vyakta karatA hai| choTA baccA bhUkha, vedanA, Avega yA khuzI jAhira karanA cAhatA hai to vaha rotA hai yA babalAtA hai yA aMgavikSepa karatA hai| janma ke samaya bacce kA cillAnA bhASA ke AvirbhAva aura usake vikAsa kA pahalA kadama hai| yadi janma ke samaya zizu ne rote samaya rone kI dhvani / AvAja na kI to isakA matalaba hai vaha bAlaka bhASA kI vikalAMga hogA / - - bhASA-kA- bacapana aura bacapana kI bhASA eka-dUsare ke kAphI karIba haiN| bhASA kA vikAsa mAnava-jAti ke itihAsa se jur3A hai, para bhASA kA vaiziSTya aura vyavahAra vyakti kA nijI vyaktitva hai / mAnava-jAti ke vikAsa tahata hI bhASA kA vikAsa hai| agara kisI dina saMsAra meM pralaya ho gayA to bhASA ko mAno AtmahatyA karanI pdd'egii| saMsAra kA vinAza bhASA kA vinAza hai; saMsAra kA vikAsa bhASA kA vikAsa hai / bhASA kI zuruAta janma se hai aura janma kI sArthakatA bhASA se hai / baccA janma lete hI sA~sa letA hai / sA~sa ke sAtha oNksIjana bhItara jAtI hai, jisase phephar3oM meM gati hone lagatI hai, pariNAmasvarUpa dhvani utpanna hotI hai| bhASA ke AviSkAra kI yahI mUla bhitti hai| tAlu, kaNTha Adi ke kucha vikasita hone para zizu unhIM dhvaniyoM ko zabdoM ke rUpa meM uccArita karane lagatA hai / jaise-jaise vaha bhASA ko arjita karatA hai, hAtha-pA~va paTakane kI kriyA kama ho jAtI hai / bhASA kI anupasthiti meM hI aMgavikSepa kI kriyA huA karatI hai| baccoM meM bhASA kA vikAsa dhIre-dhIre hotA hai| zuruAta meM bacce ke mu~ha se jo dhvani IjAda hotI hai, vaha vyaMjana kI bajAe svara hI hotI hai| pahale svara phira vyaMjana aura usake bAda svara aura vyaMjana kA saMyukta prayoga / 22 kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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bacce kI rudana - kriyA meM jo dhvani hotI hai, vaha 'svara' hotI hai / phira baccA babalAne lagatA hai aura usI babalAne meM kucha aisI vyaMjanAtmaka AvAja hotI hai, jise hama bhASAtmaka abhivyakti kaha sakate haiM / jaise -mA... mA..., bA...bA...bA..., nA...nA... nA..., dA...dA... dA... Adi / yaha babalAnA bhASA aura jJAna kI zuruAta hai| isa babalAne kA yoM to koI artha nahIM hotA, para yadi mAtA-pitA isa babalAne ke samaya bacce ko vizeSa prakAra kI dhvani nikAlane ke lie protsAhita kareM to vaha sArthaka dhvaniyA~ bhI nikAlane laga jAtA hai| jaise- mA~, pA-pA, dIdI, bA-bA, jI-jI, nA - nA, dAdA Adi / isa prakAra yadi mAtA-pitA bacce ko sArthaka abhivyakti ke lie utsAhita karate raheM to bAlaka bhASA aura usake zabdoM ko apekSAkRta jaldI pakar3a sakatA hai, samajha sakatA hai, bola sakatA hai| mAtA-pitA bacce ke zaizava aura bAlyakAla ke 'pahale guru' haiM / unakA kartavya hai ki ve apane bacce ko adhika-se-adhika zabdabodha karAe~, unakA ThIka-ThIka uccAraNa karAe~ aura usake sAtha sadaiva isa prakAra kA vyavahAra kareM jisase vaha sadaiva prasanna rhe| aisA na karane para usake sAmAjika samAyojana meM kamI A jaaegii| bacapana meM hI aisA bhASA-saMskAra de denA cAhie ki vaha usake prati Adara - bhAva pradarzita kare aura Adara - sUcaka zabdoM kA prayoga kare / 'Apa', 'jI', 'Aiye', 'baiThiye' 'zrI' jaise Adara-sUcaka zabdoM se use bhalIbhA~ti paricita karA denA caahie| mAtA-pitA tathA adhyApakoM ko cAhie ki ve baccoM meM aisI Adata DAleM ki ve cillAkara yA U~cI AvAja meM na boleN| bacce kA jyAdA jora se bolanA usake dhvani - aMgoM para burA prabhAva tA hai aura Age jAkara unakI AvAja jyAdA moTI yA jyAdA patalI ho jAtI hai / dhvani aura bhASA kA santulita honA apekSita hai / jahA~ baccA anukaraNa se bhASA sIkhatA hai, vahIM prayAsa se bhI vaha bhASAtmaka yogyatA prApta karatA hai / baccoM ko sikhAe~ betahara bhASA For Personal & Private Use Only 23

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bacce kA madhura bolanA aura prasanna rahanA pArivArika jIvana meM ha~sIkhuzI bharA mAhaula utpanna karanA hai| eka ha~satA-khilatA parivAra dharatI kA svarga hai| ghara meM bacce kA janma lenA hI paryApta nahIM hai, usake jIvana ke vikAsa ke lie harasambhava prayAsa karanA bhI jarUrI hai| hamArI santAna agara hamase zreSTha sAbita hotI hai to yaha hamAre prayAsoM kA abhivAdana hai| hamArI santAna sabhya aura saMskArita ho, yaha hamArI mahAn upalabdhi hai aura mahAna saubhAgya bhii| santAna ko janma denA hI paryApta nahIM hai, yA unake lie dhanasampatti kI vyavasthA baiThAnA hI kAphI nahIM hai, unheM acche saMskAra aura bhASA kA Adara-adaba denA bhI jarUrI hai| hama apane baccoM ko aisAsvarUpa pradAna kareM ki ve hamArI sukha-zAnti ke to AdhAra hoM hI, hama una para garva bhI kara sakeM, aise prayAsa unake janma ke sAtha hI zurU kara dene caahie| 000 24 kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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niyaMtraNa kareM pratikUla saMvegoM para manuSya ke bhAvanAtmaka saMvega hI kisI bhI kArya ko mUrtarUpa dene ke lie sabase jyAdA preraNA dete haiN| mAnA ki jIvana eka kartavya hai aura apane kartavyoM ke lie mara-miTanA vyakti kI jIvanta jAgarUkatA hai, kintu manuSya apane kartavyapAlana ke lie taba taka utsuka nahIM hogA jaba taka usakI bhAvanAtmaka taiyArI na ho| saMvega vaha bhAvanAtmaka tIvratA hai jo vyakti ko apanA kArya aura kartavya pUrA karane ke lie kRtasaMkalpa banAtI hai| manuSya ke jIvana meM jo pravRttiyA~ hotI haiM, unameM kucha kA sambandha to jJAna se hotA hai to kucha kA saMvega se| kucha pravRttiyA~ aisI bhI hotI haiM jo kriyAtmaka hotI haiN| jJAna, saMvega aura kriyAkI abhivyaMjanAe~ bhale hI hoM, para jo bAta saMvega se banatI hai, usake calate to jJAna kA prazikSaNa aura kriyA kI preraNA tathA paripakvatA sambhava hotI hai| manuSya apane bhAvoM kA sahacara hai| jaba taka vaha bhAvanAtmaka rUpa se niyaMtraNa kareM pratikUla saMvegoM para 25 For Personal & Private Use Only

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prastuta nahIM hotA, kisI bhI kArya ko karane ke lie vaha apane Apako utsuka aura sakriya nahIM kara paataa| jIvana basa eka bhAvanA hai| bhAvoM meM aura bhAvoM ke anurUpa jInA hI jInA lagatA hai| bhAvAtmaka hrAsa jahA~ vyakti kI antazcetanA ko kuNThita karatA hai, vahIM usakA vikAsa jIvana ko sadAbahAra tarotAjagI se sarAbora kara detA hai| saMvega agara caitanya-anubhUti yA bhAvanAtmaka prastuti hai taba to ThIka hai| yadi saMvega uttejana banakara mukhara hue haiM to ve vyakti ke lie tanAva, kuNThA, IrSyA aura krodha kA kAraNa banate haiN| natIjana ve saMvega vyakti ke lie kaSTakArI ho jAte haiM, jabaki unheM honA cAhie khush-mijaaj| aannddaayk| saMvega vyakti kI mAnasikatA kA to pratinidhitva karate hI haiM, zArIrika parivartana tathA pratikriyAoM kA netRtva bhI karate haiN| vaha zArIrika kriyAoM kI cetana-anubhUti hai| vuDavartha kA vacana hai ki saMvega prANI kI uttejita yA tIvra avasthA hai| 'imozana ija e mUvDa oNrasTIrarDa apa sTeTa oNpha aargenijm'| vAstava meM saMvega vyakti kI utpreraNA hai jo use kArya karane ke lie prerita karatI hai| saMvega vAstava meM kriyAzIlatA kA preraka hai| ____ yadyapi saMvega kA sambandha bhAvAtmaka hai, para saMvega vyakti ko uttejita karate haiM aura bhAva use utsaahit| eka bAlaka meM saMvegAtmaka vyavahAra kI saMbhAvanA jyAdA hai| bAlakoM aura vayaskoM ke saMvegAtmaka vyavahAroM meM kAphI kucha pharka hotA hai| bAlaka saMvega ke janma lete hI use hara hAlata meM prakaTa kara detA hai jabaki vayaska una para niyaMtraNa bhI kara sakatA hai| vayaska vyakti ke saMvega sthAyI bhI raha sakate haiM, parantu bacce ke saMvega to cinagArI kI taraha uThate haiM aura usI tIvratA ke sAtha manda bhI par3a jAte haiN| jahA~ jIvana ke prArambha meM saMvegAtmaka vikAsa jarUrI hote haiM, vahIM vayaska yA pakkI umra ke hone para una para niyaMtraNa karanA bhI Avazyaka hai| __cU~ki bAlaka apane saMvegoM kA niyaMtraNa nahIM kara pAtA, isalie unameM ugratA kA anupAta apekSAkRta jyAdA hotA hai| baccA jisa cIja ko cAhatA ------------- 26 For Personal & Private Use Only

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hai yadi usakI prApti meM thor3I-sI bhI dera hotI hai to vaha tatkSaNa vidroha kara baiThatA hai| vaha krodhase tamatamA uThatA hai aura AkrAmaka tevara apanA baiThatA hai| vaha tilamilAkara hAtha-paira paTakane lagatA hai, cIkhane-ciMghAr3ane lagatA hai| bAlaka ke isa saMvegAtmaka vyavahAra meM kaI tIvra pratikriyAe~ ho uThatI haiN| jaise-jaise bAlaka kI Ayu meM vRddhi hotI jAtI hai, vaise-vaise usake saMvegoM kI ugratA narama hone lagatI hai| ___ bAlakoM ke saMvegoM meM parivartana bhI itanA jaldI ho uThatA hai mAno yaha koI chU-mantara kA khela ho| cU~ki bAlaka meM chadma, svArtha Adi nahIM hote jo ki usake saMvegoM ko sthAyitva dilAne meM ahama bhUmikA nibhAte haiN| isIlie paristhiti ke anusAra ve saMvega eka rUpa se dUsare rUpa meM badalate rahate haiN| cU~ki bAlakakA apane para koIAtma-niyaMtraNa nahIM hotA, isalie usake saMvegoM kI zArIrika pratikriyA ho uThatI hai| A~kheM taka lAla ho jAtI haiN| Ananda paidA huA hai, to muskarA uThatA hai, hAtha paira DulAne lagatA hai, khuzI se uchalane-kUdane lagatA hai| bacce jaise-jaise bar3e hone lagate haiM, paristhitiyoM ko samajhane lagate haiN| vAtAvaraNa ke sAtha unakA samAyojana-sambandha sthApita ho jAtA hai| phalasvarUpave uttejita aura udvigna kama hone lagate haiN| yadighara kA vAtAvaraNa santulita, samAyojita aura madhura hai to bAlaka ke saMvegAtmaka vyavahAra, uttejita hone ke bajAe, vinamra aura sauhArdapUrNa hoNge| eka kuNThAgrasta yA klezamaya vAtAvaraNa meM jIne vAle parivAra, bAlaka ke saMvegAtmaka vikAsako viparIta dizA meM le jAte haiM jisase vaha jiddI aura becaina rahane lagatA hai| bAlaka meM kucha sAmAnya saMvega janmajAta hote haiN| Age calakara una sAmAnya saMvegoM meM bhI vibhAgIkaraNa ho jAtA hai aura eka saMvega se dUsarA aura dUsare se tIsarA saMvega utpanna hotA rahatA hai| bacce meM sabase pahale jina saMvegoM kA udaya hotA hai, ve prema, krodha aura bhaya haiN| janma ke tIna mahIne taka kevala do prakAra kI hI saMvegAtmaka pratikriyAe~ hotI haiM- pahalA kaSTa niyaMtraNa kareM pratikUla saMvegoM para - - - - - - - - - - - - - 27 For Personal & Private Use Only

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aura dUsarA aannd| kaSTa kA anubhava karate samaya zizu rotA hai aura usakI mAMsa-peziyoM meM tanAva A jAtA hai, jabaki Ananda kA ahasAsa hone para vaha prasanna hotA hai, muskurAtA hai aura usakI mAMsa-peziyA~ sahaja aura zithila ho jAtI haiN| chaha mahIne kI Ayu meM bacce meM krodha aura bhaya ke saMvega utpanna hote dikhAI dete haiN| bAraha mahIne kI Ayu taka usameM kaSTakara aura Anandaprada kaI saMvega utpanna hone lagate haiN| Ananda ke rUpa meM khuzI, AzA, prema, ullAsa Adi utpanna hote haiM, jabaki kaSTa ke rUpa meM cintA, IrSyA, bhaya, krodha, becainI, nirAzA Adi kriyaaeN| anya bAlakoM ke prati prema lagabhaga aThAraha mahIne kI Ayu meM hone lagatA hai| pA~ca varSa kI umra hone taka bAlaka meM kaI prakAra ke saMvegAtmaka vikAsa ho jAte haiN| paripakva avasthA Ane taka use apanI saMvegAtmaka prakriyAoM meM sArthakatA aura nirarthakatA kA spaSTa bheda jJAta ho jAtA hai| vaha saundaryAtmaka anubhUti karane lagatA hai aura sAtha hI karane lagatA hai apane saMvegoM para niyNtrnn| _____ saMvegoM kA vikAsa aura niyaMtraNa donoM hI jarUrI hai| una saMvegoM kA vikAsa honA cAhie, jinase hameM zArIrika svAsthya aura mAnasika tandurustI prApta hotI hai; jabaki una saMvegoM kA niyaMtraNa honA cAhie jo hamArI mAnasikatA ko udvigna aura asantulita karate haiN| jahA~ krodha, cir3acir3Apana yA bhaya hone para hamArI pAcana-praNAlI bigar3a jAtI hai, vahIM Ananda aura prema kA saMvega utpanna hone para zArIrika svAsthya kI vRddhi hotI hai| saMvegAtmaka asthiratA hI mAnasika roga kA kAraNa banatI hai| saMvegoM ke nizcita taura se Antarika aura bAhya prabhAva par3ate haiM aura hamAre vicAra evaM vyavahAra meM anivAryata: parivartana AtA hai| lakSya yahI rakhanA cAhie ki ve prabhAva aura parivartana pratikUla dizA meM na hoN| 000 28 - kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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DAAS saMyama rakheM, krodha ke saMvega para mAnavIya saMvegoM ke kaI rUpa hote haiM - karkaza bhI aura madhurima bhii| krodha, bhaya, IrSyA, cintA, prema, karuNA ye saba saMvegoM ke hI khaTTe-mIThe anubhava haiN| jIvana meM saMvegoM kI apanI AvazyakatA hai, kintu aniyaMtrita saMvega vyakti ke lie vaise hI ahitakara hote haiM, jaise kisI sArathI ke lie belagAma ghodd'aa| ___ yadyapi saMvega apanI kaI mukhAkRtiyA~ lie hue haiM, para saMvega kI carcA calate hI usakA krodha se hI sapATa sambandha jur3a jAtA hai| krodha aura kAmAturatA meM hI saMvega kI vAstavika tIvratA kA ehasAsa hotA hai| kAmasaMvegoM kA vikAsa to jIvana meM eka khAsa umra Ane para hotA hai, para krodha to mAno tabhI se pichalaggU ho jAtA hai jaba dharatI para vaha apanI pahalI aMgar3AI bharatA hai| manuSya ke janmate hI krodha bhI janma jAtA hai, yA ise hama yoM kaheM ki jIvana-kSamatA ke sAtha hI krodha ke saMvega bhI vikasita aura uddIpta hone laga jAte haiN| - - - - - - - - saMyama rakheM, krodha ke saMvega para - - - - - - - - -- For Personal & Private Use Only

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eka vayaska kI apekSA eka bAlaka kAkrodha adhika spaSTa hotA hai| bar3A to apane krodha para kAbU bhI pA legA, para choTA to usakA hAtho-hAtha bhugatAna kara detA hai| baccA kitanA bhI krodha kyoM na kare, para usameM sthAyitva nahIM hotaa| cinagArI kI taraha kSaNabhaMgura hotA hai, usake krodha kA astitv| krodha apekSAoM kI upekSA hai| bacce kI apekSAe~ aura AvazyakatAe~ koI jyAdA tAdAda meM nahIM hotIM, para jitanI hotI haiM, vaha usakI ApUrti meM kiMcitbhI vilambayA kaTautI pasanda nahIM krtaa| usakA cAhanA yA kahanA, mAno kisI samrATkA Adeza ho| cAherAja-kopa ho yA bAlakopa, pariNAma meM pharka ho sakatA hai, para usakI utpatti aura prakRti eka jaisI hotI hai| eka bar3A vyakti krodha isalie karatA hai kyoMki vaha jaisA cAhatA hai vaisA svIkAra nahIM kiyA gyaa| galatI kA ahasAsa karAne ke lie yA usa ehasAsa ke nAma para sudhArane ke lie vaha DA~TatA-DapaTatA hai, jabaki baccA apanI icchA ko manavAne ke lie krodha karatA hai| baccA krodha ko apanI icchAoM ko manavAne kA sAdhana samajha baiThatA hai| vaha yA to apanI bAta manavAne ke lie yA kisI taraha kI bAdhA mahasUsa kie jAne para krodhita hotA hai| aisA nahIM hai ki kevala bar3e loga hI anyAya yA anadhikAra ceSTAoM ke khilApha hote haiM, balki bacce to svabhAva se hI anyAya ko sahana karanA nahIM caahte| saca to yaha hai ki zizu meM sahana karane kI kSamatA hI nahIM hotii| use jaise hI yaha mahasUsa hotA hai ki usake sAtha nyAya nahIM ho rahA hai, vaha tatkAla krodhita ho jAtA hai, mAno vaha kisI vidroha para utArU ho gayA ho| usameM svArtha-bhAva bhI itana pragAr3ha hotA hai ki vaha apanI koI bhI cIja, binA apanI icchA se kisI dUsare bacce ko denA bardAzta nahIM karatA hai| yaha svArtha vAstava meM usake svAmitva-bhAva kI puSTi karatA hai| eka bAta taya hai ki astitva kA koI bhI aMga apane svAmitva-bhAva meM dakhalaMdAjI nahIM caahtaa| vaha use apanA apamAna samajhatA hai| natIjana usake cehare para krodha-saMvega ubhara AtA hai| - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 30 kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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bAlaka jo kucha karatA hai, vaha usI ko karanA cAhatA hai / vaha khela rahA hai to vaha vAstava meM khelanA hI cAhatA hai| usake kisI kriyA-kalApa kisI bhI prakAra kA avarodha upasthita honA, bacce ke lie krodha-kAkAraNa hai| hA~ agara baccA thaka gayA hai, kamajorI mahasUsa karatA hai yA kisI roga se AkrAnta hai taba bhI vaha choTI - choTI-sI bAta para bhI krodhita ho jAtA hai| para ise spaSTa rUpa meM krodha na kahakara, cir3acir3Apana kahanA jyAdA ThIka hai / prAya: yaha bhI dekhA jAtA hai ki baccA usa samaya bhI cir3acir3A uThatA hai jaba use cir3hAte haiM / jaise bAla utAra die jAne ke bAda 'moDA' yA 'gaMje lAla' kahanA, kAle raMga kA hone para 'kAliyA' kahanA, dUdha-mu~heM dA~ta gira jAne para yaha kahA jAnA ki isake dA~ta to cuhiyA khA gaI hai| cir3hAne kA yaha kAma yA to usake bhAI-bahina karate haiM yA usake saMgI-sAthI / cir3hAne se cir3acir3AnA vAstava meM krodha kI hI abhivyakti hai / bAlaka yaha bhI nahIM cAhate ki unheM koI aisA kAma karane kA nirdeza mile jo yA to unakI kSamatA se pare ho yA unakI ruci ke anukUla na ho / mAtA-pitA, abhibhAvaka yA adhyApaka Adi unheM kabhI-kabhI aisA kAma karane kA nirdeza de dete haiM / svAbhAvika hai ki baccA isase krodhita hogA, phira cAhe vaha apane krodha kI abhivyakti mu~ha para kare yA phira usa krodha kA ghU~Ta pIkara raha jaae| vAstava meM baccoM meM apanI khuda kI kamajoriyoM evaM kaThinAiyoM ke kAraNa prAya: kar3avAhaTa evaM cir3acir3AhaTa A jAtI hai| prArambha meM to bacce krodha kI sthiti meM rote haiM, hAtha-paira paTakate haiM, dA~ta pIsane lagate haiM, pachAr3a khAkara jamIna para loTane lagate haiM, ghU~seM aura lAteM mArane lagate haiM magara jaise-jaise bAlaka kI umra meM vRddhi hotI jAtI hai, krodha kI abhivyakti ke svarUpa meM antara Ane lagatA hai / bAda meM vaha tabhI krodha karatA hai, jaba krodha karane kA avasara upasthita hotA hai / > mAtA-pitA yA bar3e bujurgoM ko cAhie ki ve apane baccoM kI svAbhAvika kriyAoM meM bAdhA na ddaaleN| ve unakI AvazyakatAoM aura saMyama rakheM, krodha ke saMvega para For Personal & Private Use Only 31

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bhAvanAoM kA dhyAna rkheN| unase unakI kSamatA se jyAdA kAma bhI nahIM lenA cAhie aura na hI bevajaha jarUrata se jyAdA daNDita karanA caahie| ghara ke premapUrNa vAtAvaraNa se bacce kI antazcetanA meM akrodha kA bhAva banatA hai / bacce ko krodha - mukta rakhane ke lie paristhitiyoM ko pratikUla na hone denA behatara hai| ghara-parivAra kI prasannatA bacce ko khuza mijAja rakhatI hai aura bacce kI khuza mijAjI ghara-parivAra ko ha~satA - khilatA camana banAtI hai| krodha kI utpatti kA kAraNa jo bhI ho, usakA hamAre mana, mastiSka, zarIra aura vyavahAra para hamezA burA asara hI pdd'egaa| choTI-choTI-sI bAtoM para cir3acir3A uThanA, Aga babUlA ho jAnA yA ho-hallA karane laganA jahA~ hamAre vyaktitva kI qhAmI hai, vahIM ye hamArI vyAvahArika lokapriyatA ko bhI AghAta pahu~cAte haiN| yaha bAta sahI hai ki kabhI-kabhI vizeSa paristhitiyoM ke sAtha samAyojana sthApita karane meM krodha se kucha madada milatI hai / anyAya ke virodha meM bhI krodha apanI kucha bhUmikA nibhA sakatA hai| kaThina aura pratikUla paristhitiyoM meM kabhI-kabhI krodha bhI sAhasa aura zaktivardhaka ho jAtA hai, kintu Amataura para to krodha aura usakI kisI bhI abhivyakti kI prabuddha mAnavatA dvArA bhartsanA hI kI jAtI hai| mAnasika krodha kabhI-kabhI acchA phala bhI de detA hai, para use acchA kaise kahA jAe jisase vyakti apanA ApA kho baitthe| jIvana ke lie AtmavismRti se bar3A jaghanya aparAdha kyA hogA, aura saca to yaha hai ki apanA ApA khonA vAstava meM Atma vismRti se hI sAkSAtkAra hai| yadi Apa cAhate haiM ki ApakA aura Apake bacce kA hRdaya aura mastiSka svastha tathA surakSita rahe, to krodha se bcie| krodha ke samaya mA~ agara bacce ko dUdha pilAtI hai to vaha dUdhapAna bhI viSa ke samAna hotA hai| krodha se bacanA, svabhAva ko zAnta aura mRdu rakhanA apanI Atma - UrjA ko bacAne kA sahaja-sarala upAya hai / I m 32 - 000 kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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prema kI pavitra bhAvanA prema jIvana kA vaha pavitra saMvega hai jisase mitratA aura bhAIcArA jaise vizva-kalyANakArI mArga ni:sRta hote haiN| zastra, hiMsA aura AtaMka ke bhayAvaha vAtAvaraNa se ghire hue vizva kI samasyAoM ko sulajhAne ke lie manuSya kI prema-bhAvanA sarvAdhika kAragara sAbita ho sakatI hai| vizvabandhutva aura vizva-zAnti kI AvazyakatA kI ApUrti prema se hI sambhAvita hai, bazarte vaha prema, 'vizva-prema' kI rasadhAra se abhisiMcita ho| saMkucita prema vyakti ko saMkucita karatA hai aura vizvaprema hara saMkucitatA ke pAra hai| vahI prema vizva-bandhutva kA praveza-dvAra bana pAtA hai jo vyakti, samAja yA pradeza-vizeSa se Upara uThakara sampUrNa mAnavatA se apane hAtha milAnA cAhatA hai| prema manuSya kA sabase behatarIna saMvega hai| yadi mAnasika saMvegoM meM se prema ko sevA-nivRtta kara diyA jAe to jIvana meM krodha, cintA aura IrSyA ke sivA bacegA kyA? sivA prema ke jIvana kI koI paribhASA nahIM ho prema kI pavitra bhAvanA For Personal & Private Use Only

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sktii| vaha dama ghoTU jindagI bhI koI jindagI hai jisameM jindagI ke nAma - para tanAva aura kuNThAe~ poSita - pallavita hotI haiN| prema hI to jIvana kA camana hai, jahA~ phUla khilate haiM, gulazana gulazanA mausama hotA hai sadAbahAra | rizte hote haiM khuza - mijAja / hamAre deza kI soca prema ke prati aisI saMkIrNa rahI hai, jahA~ prema kI carcA bhI amaryAdita lagane lagatI hai jabaki prema pavitratA hai jIvana kI / prema-bhAvanA ko bar3hAvA denA vizva ko eka-dUsare ke karIba lAnA hai| jahA~ prema meM lailA-majanUM kI vyathA kathA, hIra kA pyAra, rAMjhA kA zRMgAra, zIrIM ke andAja aura pharahAda ke khvAba haiM, vahIM yazodA kA vAtsalya, rAdhA kI lIlA, kRSNa-sudAmA kI mitratA, rAma-lakSmaNa kA bhrAtRtva, humAyUM - karmAvatI kA rAkhI - riztA, rAjula kI viraha vedanA aura mIrA ke samarpaNa kI sadbhAvanA hai| prema koI dikhAvA nahIM hai, kintu dila kA bayAna hai / usa prema ke sadA madhura pariNAma hoMge jo vyakti vizeSa se Abaddha na hokara sRSTi samagratA se jur3ane ko taiyAra hai / prema kA mUlya hai| jIvana mUlyoM kI AdhAra zilA prema hI hai| prema kI virATatA se hI naitikatA aura mAnavatA ke pATha race gae haiN| bagaira prema kA jIvana jaMgala meM khar3A miTTI kA makAna hai| prema kA vistAra ho / janma se mRtyu taka prema kA svIkAra ho / kisI ko kucha do to prema se, lo to prema se| kahIM jAo to prema se, kisI ko bulAo to prema se / prema se thor3AsabhI karoge to vaha use bhara degaa| kisI ko bahuta diyA to kyA diyA agara be-mana se diyA / < * 34 prema se diyA gayA viSa bhI amRta ho jAtA hai aura be-mana se diyA yA amRta bhI jahara ho jAtA hai / lakSya to amRta kA hI honA caahie| amRta na pilA sakeM, kama-se-kama kisI ke lie viSa-pAna kI naubata to na lAe~ / prema jIvana kA pahalA saMvega, pahalA saMgIta hai| isake tAra na jyAdA kaseM, na jyAdA DhIle chor3eM, sAdhe hue rakheM, buddha ke paramajJAna meM nimitta banane kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa - For Personal & Private Use Only

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vAlI vINA ke tAroM kI trh| hamAre yahA~ prema kA artha dene vAle usake kaI jur3avezabda haiM-sneha, AtmIyatA, mamatA, vAtsalya aadi| hama ina zabdoM ke artha aura unake stara meM bhI pharka samajhate haiN| bhalA ho aMgrejI ko jisane prema kI AtmA ko eka banAye rakhA aura sabako 'lava' kI 'keTegarI' meM upasthita kara diyA hai| khaira, cAhe hama prema kaheM yA sneha athavA mamatA, janma kI pahalI kilakArI ke sAtha hI isa saMvega kI pau phUTa par3atI hai aura sAmAjika vAtAvaraNa ke dvArA isakA adhikAdhika upArjana hotA hai| baccA jaba pA~ca-chaha mahIne kA hotA hai taba taka usakA prema parivAra ke una sadasyoM ke sAtha hotA hai jo usakA vizeSa dhyAna rakhate haiN| baccA sabase jyAdA prema to mA~ se karatA hai, kyoMki mA~ hI usakI sabase jyAdA dekhabhAla karatI hai| isalie mA~ bacce kA jIvana hai, usakI muskarAhaTa hai| bagaira mA~ kA baccA anAtha hai| ___ baccA pitA ko bhI cAhatA hai, parantu mA~ jitanA nhiiN| prema kA kSetra to bacce ke bar3e hone para bar3A hotA hai aura choTe rahane para chottaa| asalI vistAra to vidyAlaya ke dAkhile ke bAda hI hotA hai| kakSA bacce ke lie eka 'kamyUna' hai, jahA~ usakI eka mitra-maNDalI bana jAtI hai| pahale usakA jo prema mA~ aura parivAra ke prati rahatA thA, vahI mitroM ke prati rahane laga jAtA hai| baccA apane jIvana ke prArambhika varSoM meM to apane prema kI abhivyakti gale lagAkara karatA hai, parantu vidyAlayIya jIvana meM vaha apane mitroM se hAtha milAtA hai| unake pAsa baiThakara gappe-sappe hA~katA hai aura anya kriyAkalApoM meM sahabhAgI hotA hai| bAlyAvasthA taka prema kI abhivyakti meM koI liMgagata bheda nahIM hotA, parantu kizora-avasthA meM 'viparIta liNg'| 'apojiTa seksa' ke prati prema kA rujhAna ho jAtA hai| __ yaha umra aisI hai jaba yuvaka-yuvatiyoM meM mitratA ke bIca svastha soca apekSita hai| unheM apanI mitratA itanI vyAvahArika, kintu itanI santulita banAe rakhanI cAhie ki unheM kisIazobhanIya TippaNI kA zikAra na honA pdd'e| luka-chipakara milanA sandehAspada sthiti ko janma detA hai| yadi - - - - - - prema kI pavitra bhAvanA - - - - - - - - - - - - - For Personal & Private Use Only

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mAnasikatA svastha hai to chipakara milanA kyoM ? yadi yuvaka-yuvatiyA~ apane mAtA-pitA aura bhAI-bahinoM kI upasthiti meM mileM to hamAre prema kI abhivyakti aura usakI svasthatA meM koI bhI prazna-cihna nahIM lagAegA / Aja vAstava meM isa bAta kI jarUrata hai ki mAtA-pitA yA ghara ke abhibhAvaka apane baccoM kI mAnasikatA ko paripakka karane meM sahayogI bneN| unheM apanA mitra mAnakara ucita sneha, sahayoga, protsAhana aura mArga - darzana deN| yuvA varga ko bhI cAhie ki vaha sinemA ke raMgIna aura camakate ghere se bAhara nikaleM tathA apanI svastha mAnasikatA se prema aura mitratA ke pavitra bandhana ko nibhAe~ / isameM koI sandeha nahIM hai ki prema samAja kA setu hai, jIvana kI bhAvanAtmaka zakti hai, parantu isake kSetra kA sImita rahanA prema kA damana hai / natIjA yaha nikalatA hai ki baccA apane mAtA-pitA yA bhAI-bahina se prema karane lagatA hai, parantu anya AyAmoM ke prati upekSita aura udAsa rahatA hai| usameM vizva bandhutva ke komala bhAva aMkurita aura praphullita nahIM ho pAte jisakI pratyeka se AzA kI jAtI hai / hamArA prema aise vyakti, vastu yA vicAra ke prati bhI giravI nahIM honA cAhie jo samAja -virodhI ho / hamArA saMvega yA bhAva cAhe prema ke rUpa meM ho yA kisI anya rUpa meM, isakI sArthakatA, saMdigdhatA ke ghere me na aae| prema kI virATatA ko sAkAra karane ke lie hI baccoM ko yaha pratijJA aura bhAvanA pradAna kI jAtI hai ki bhArata merA deza hai aura sabhI bhAratIya mere bhAI-bahina hai| mAtA-pitA, abhibhAvaka va zikSakoM kA parama kartavya ho jAtA hai ki ve apane bacce ko aise prema, mitratA aura bhAIcAre ke lie protsAhana deM tAki vaha eka suyogya nAgarika banakara sampUrNa mAnavatA kA himAyatI ho, vizva bandhutva evaM vizva - prema kA anumodaka ho / vaha sampUrNa vizva ko eka vRhat parivAra samajhe, sAtha hI sakriya yogadAna de sake mAnavasamAja ke kalyANa meM, vizva - zAnti ke abhiyAna meM / 36 - - For Personal & Private Use Only 000 kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa

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INDI baccoM kA sAmAjika vikAsa manuSya kA janma samAja meM hotA hai aura usakA vikAsa bhI samAja meN| manuSya se hI samAja kA nirmANa hotA hai aura samAja ke kAraNa hI vaha apane bahumukhI svabhAva ko gauravAnvita karane kA avasara upalabdha kara pAtA hai| samAja sAmUhika jIvana hai| vyakti samUha kI ikAI hai| vyaktiyoM kI paraspara pratibaddhatA ke kAraNa hI samAja kA astitva hai| ___sAmAjika sabhyatA aura saMskRti manuSya ko mAno eka virAsata ke rUpa meM prApta hotI hai| sabhyatA se sAkSAtkAra hI sAmAjika dharohara kI surakSA hai| koI bhI manuSya samAja-nirapekSa hokara jInA cAhe to usakA jIvana vyakti-sApekSa hI khlaaegaa| manuSya sAmAjika ikAI hai| usakA janma samAja meM hotA hai, kintu vaha janmajAta sAmAjika nahIM hotaa| isakA abhiprAya yaha bhI nahIM hai ki vaha koI asAmAjika hotA ho| janmanA to manuSya samAja-nirapekSa hI hotA hai| sAmAjika sApekSatA aura usakI pratibaddhatA to Atma-vikAsa ke sAtha-sAtha phalIbhUta hotI hai| - - - - - - - - baccoM kA sAmAjika viAkasa - - - - - - - - - - - - - - For Personal & Private Use Only

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manuSya eka sAmAjika prANI isa artha meM hai ki usake vyaktitva ke samasta AyAma samAja-sApekSa hote haiN| usakI AvazyakatAoM kI ApUrti ke sAdhana aura usakA svabhAva samAja se hI pratibaddha hotA hai| janma se to baccA pUrI taraha parAzrita hotA hai| vaha bagaira kisI sahAyatA ke apanI kisI bhI AvazyakatA kI pUrti nahIM kara sktaa| apanA astitva banAe rakhane ke lie samAja usakI AvazyakatA hai| bagaira samAja ke baccA apUrNa hai| janma se mRtyu taka vyakti samAja meM rahatA hai aura samAja ke bIca milane vAlI ijjata ko vaha svayaM ke lie Atma-sammAna samajhatA hai| samAja hI to vaha ghaTaka hai jo use sAmUhika jIvana vyatIta karane kA avasara pradAna karatA hai| manuSya kucha jaivikIya AvazyakatAoM ko lekara zizu ke rUpa meM samAja aura vizva meM praveza karatA hai| janma se usameM koI sAmAjika cetanA nahIM hotii| apanI AvazyakatAoM kI pUrti meM jo loga sahabhAgitA nibhAte haiM, vAstava meM unhIM ke kAraNa bacce meM sAmAjika cetanA kA AvirbhAva hotA hai| mA~ dvArA dUdha pilAne, pitA dvArA sahalAne, bhAI-bahinoM dvArA khilAne Adi se zizu ke mana meM sAmAjikatA ke bIja panapate haiN| bacce ke sAmAjika svarUpa kA sahI vikAsa to usake vidyAlayIya jIvana se jur3ane ke bAda hI prArambha hotA hai| isase pahale to usakI pahacAna ghara-parivAra vAloM taka hI sImita rahatI hai| vidyAlaya jAne para ve dAyare aura vistRta ho jAte haiN| dhIre-dhIre usameM naitikatA aura dhArmikatA ke prati bhI niSThA hone lagatI hai| vidyAlaya meM hI baccoM ke jIvana meM sahayoga, AjJApAlana, satkAra, zraddhA, netRtva, sneha jaise sAmAjika guNoM ko arjita karane kA avasara milatA hai| sabake sAtha-sAtha uThane-baiThane se pratiyogitA aura pratidvandvitA jaisI sAmAjika zaktiyoM kA vikAsa hone lagatA hai jo manuSya ke maulika vikAsa meM preraNAtmaka zakti sAbita hotI haiN| teraha se unnIsa varSa kI 'TIna eja' meM yauna-cetanA kA bhI kramika vikAsa hotA hai| phalasvarUpa lar3ake -- - - - - - - - - 38 kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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aura lar3akiyoM kI sAmAjika cetanA kA alaga-alaga vikAsa hone lagatA hai / yadyapi sAmAjika maryAdAoM ke kAraNa apane varga meM hI unheM sImita rahanA par3atA hai, tathApi unakA pArasparika AkarSaNa bar3hatA jAtA hai aura ve eka-dUsare se milakara mAnasika Ananda kI anubhUti karate haiM / umra ke bar3hane ke sAtha lar3ake-lar3akiyA~ sthAyI rUpa se jIvana-sAthI kI AvazyakatA mahasUsa karane lagate haiN| unakI vahI AvazyakatA vivAha ke rUpa meM pariNata ho jAtI hai| vyAvasAyika saMlagnatA evaM pArivArika pratibaddhatA vyakti kI sAmAjika sthitiyoM ko aura majabUta banAtI haiN| vibhinna logoM se maitrI yA duzmanI ho jAne ke kAraNa usakI sAmAjika cetanA meM kaI utAra-car3hAva bhI Ate haiN| yoM zikSaNa, mela-milApa, protsAhana aura mAnasika saMvegoM ke kAraNa jIvana meM sAmAjika bhAvanAoM evaM dAyitvoM kI prANa-pratiSThA hotI hai| nizcita taura para gyAraha se ikkIsa varSa taka kI Ayu jIvana kI vaha avasthA hai jisameM bAlaka ke zArIrika, saMvegAtmaka, gatyAtmaka tathA mAnasika pahaluoM meM bar3e hI krAntikArI aura Azcaryajanaka parivartana hote haiN| ina parivartanoM ke calate hI vyakti ke sAmAjika vAtAvaraNa kA kSetra vyApaka ho jAtA hai| pustakoM ke adhyayana se sAmAjika jJAna bhI khUba phala-phUla jAtA hai| kaI loga to aise hote haiM jinake sAmAjika vikAsa kA kSetra itanA vizada ho jAtA hai ki ve parivAra, jAti, dharma, varga Adi kI zRMkhalAoM ko tor3akara vizva bandhutva aura vizva - prema kI sarvocca mAnavIya bhAvanA se ota-prota ho jAte haiN| yadyapi kaI loga akelepana ke bhI zikAra ho jAte haiM, para eka umra - vizeSa meM ve bhI vizvabhAvanA kA sammAna karane laga jAte haiM / Atma-sammAna aura Atma- gaurava hI ve pahalU haiM jo vyakti ko dUsaroM ke lie sakriya hone ko samprerita karate haiN| bar3oM ko hI kyoM, agara hama baccoM kI bhI kriyAoM kA avalokana kareM to yaha sApha jAhira ho jAegA ki ve apanI buddhi, zakti aura yogyatA kA dUsaroM ke sAmane pradarzana karanA baccoM kA sAmAjika vikasa For Personal & Private Use Only 39

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cAhate haiN| burA-bhalA kahane para ve ruSTa ho jAte haiM aura unameM dUsaroM ke sAtha sambandhoM ke prati jugupsA paidA ho jAtI hai| koI unakI prazaMsA kare to ve bar3e prasanna ho uThate haiN| prazaMsA Atma-sammAna kA ahasAsa karAtI hai| yaha Atma-sammAna kI bhAvanA hI to anya logoM evaM kAryoM ke sAtha samparka jor3ane ke lie protsAhana detI hai| bAlakoM ke kArya kI thor3I-sI bhI sarAhanA yA prazaMsA kI jAe to ve apane sAmarthya ke anusAra na kevala apane sabhI kArya karane ke lie utsAhita hote haiM, varan dUsaroM ke lie bhI sahabhAgitA nibhAte haiN| __ abhibhAvakoM tathA zikSakoM ko cAhie ki ve baccoM meM sahayoga kI bhAvanA ko vikasita karane ke lie una bAtoM se baceM jo unameM asahayoga kI bhAvanA paidA kara sakatI hoN| baccA apane kisI bhI kArya meM thor3I-sI bhI saphalatA pA le to usakI sarAhanA kI jaae| yaha sarAhanA vAstava meM use aura adhika saphalatA prApta karane ke lie protsAhana denA hai| protsAhana se hI baccoM meM adhika sakriyatA AtI hai| sakriyatA kI vyApakatA hI vAstava meM usakA sAmAjika vikAsa hai| sAmAjika vAtAvaraNa se prabhAvita hokara sAmAjika guNoM ko upArjita karanA hamAre vyaktitva kA karmayoga hai| 000 40 kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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. -:. ::512 bauddhika vikAsa ke mApadaNDa jIvana kI saphalatA jIvana kI pragati para nirbhara hai| pragati kA sahI mApadaNDa to yaha hai ki hamArI bauddhika kSamatAoM kA kitanA adhika vikAsa huA hai| buddhi ho to manuSya buddhimAna prANI kahalAtA hai, buddhi agara baunI ho to vahI buddha kahalAtA hai| buddhi ke vikAsa ke sAtha jIvana kA vikAsa hotA hai aura usakI paripUrNatA meM buddhatva ke surabhita phUla khilate haiN| manuSya ke pAsa bauddhika kSamatA hI to vaha mIDiyA' hai jo vyakti ko pazubanane se bacAtA hai| manuSya, manuSya hai| vaha apanI prakRti kI badaniyatI meM pazu jaisA to ho sakatA hai, para pazu nahIM ho sktaa| buddhi manuSya kI sampUrNa gatividhiyoM ko pazutva se Upara uThA letI hai| vaha vyakti apane jIvana aura samAja ke prati saceSTa kahA jAegA, jo apane evaM anya logoM ke bauddhika vikAsa para pUrNa dhyAna detA hai| usakI sambhAvanAoM para pahAr3a TUTa jAtA hai jo bauddhika dRSTi se apaMga hai| cAhe vijJAna ho yA vyavasAya, vyakti kI bauddhika sampadA hI usake - - - - - - - bauddhika vikAsa ke mApadaNDa 41 - - - - - - - - - - - For Personal & Private Use Only

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lie saphalatA kA AdhAra-sUtra bana pAtI hai| yadi manuSya yaha cAhatA hai ki usakI saMtati sabhya, saMbhrAnta aura saMskArita ho to use sabase pahale usakI bauddhika kSamatAoM ko ujAgara evaM paripuSTa karane kA prayAsa karanA caahie| aneka maukoM para vRddhajanoM se yaha sunane ko milatA hai ki hamAre jamAne meM jJAna aura zikSA para itanA adhika bala nahIM diyA jAtA thA isIlie hameM Aja ar3acaneM mahasUsa hotI haiM aura usa jamAne kI kamI khaTakatI hai| eka saphala jIvana ke lie bauddhika vikAsa pahalI anivAryatA hai, yaha bAta sabako apane vyAvahArika jIvana meM mahasUsa hone laga gaI hai| yahI kAraNa hai ki eka anapar3ha aura ga~vAra pitA bhI apane bacce ko par3hAne ke lie sakriya hai| vaha cAhatA hai ki usakA beTA jaise-taise par3ha-likha le aura samAja meM jIne aura kucha kara dikhAne lAyaka bana jAe; bhale hI isake lie use koI kaSTa hI kyoM na uThAnA pdd'e| . Ama taura para yaha dekhA jAtA hai ki apanI buddhimAna santAna para hara vyakti ko garva hotA hai| vyakti ko apane lar3ake ke najanmane yA mara jAne para itanA gama nahIM hotA, jitanA usake buddhihIna raha jAne para hotA hai| jaba koI lar3akA skUla jAtA hai to mA~ prasanna hotI hai aura jaba vaha apanI parIkSAoM meM 'pharsTa Divijana' se pAsa hone kA pramANa-patra lekara ghara lauTatA hai to gharavAloM ko itanI khuzI hotI hai ki usakI tulanA anya kisI khuzI se nahIM kI jA sktii| __buddhimAna vyakti kabhI asaphala nahIM ho sktaa| jahA~ taka rojagAra yA berojagAra kA savAla hai, yaha samasyA unhIM ke sAmane upasthita hotI hai, jo hakIkata meM buddhimAna to nahIM hote, magara svayaM kI buddhimattA kA pramANapatra dikhAte phirate haiN| buddhimAna AdamI kaur3I ke vyavasAya se karor3oM kamA legaa| bAkI ke pramANa-patra vAle to karor3oM ke khvAba hI dekheNge| aise logoM ko to ghara baiThe-baiThAe pakI-pakAyI roTI caahie| khuda ke balabUte para mehanata karanA koI cAhate hI nahIM haiN| sabako to kevala sarakArI naukariyA~ caahie| sarakArI naukarI meM AdamI ko phAyade najara Ate haiN| sAla meM cAra - - - - - - - - - - - 42 kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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mahIne to aise-vaise hI chuTTiyA~ ho jAtI hai, bace dinoM meM do-cAra ghaNTe kAma kara lo aura selerI' pkkii| yaha socavyakti kI kamajora mAnasikatA hai| natIjA yaha hotA hai ki sarakArI naukarI se hone vAlI Aya se utanA kucha sadha nahIM pAtA jitane ki vaha maMsUbe bA~dhatA hai| phira vaha yA to rizvatakhorI yA gaphalebAjI karegA, yA koI anya galata sAdhanoM kA sahArA legaa| buddhimAna vyakti karmaThatA meM vizvAsa karatA hai| akarmaNyatA usake lie nA-iMsAphI hai| usake prayAsa ImAnadAra hoMge aura vaha apane prayAsoM ke pariNAma bhI ImAna bhare caahegaa| yaha saba to bAta huI buddhi aura rojagAra ke sandarbha meN| satya to yaha hai ki jIvana kA hara kSetra bauddhikatA kI apekSA rakhatA hai| kucha chAtra apanI yogyatA ke bala para uttIrNa honA cAhate haiM, jabaki kucha chAtra nakala karake Age bar3hanA cAhate haiN| Akhira nakala, nakala hai aura akala, akl| maulika vikAsa nakala se nahIM, akala se sambhAvita hai| gaNita aura vijJAna ke sAre AyAma aura anusaMdhAna-parIkSaNa bhI hamAre bauddhika vyaktitva kI hI apekSA rakhate haiN| buddhi manuSya kI sarvazreSTha upalabdhi hai| buddhimAna prANI hone ke nAte hI vaha anya prANiyoM se apanI zreSThatA kI alaga pahacAna rakhatA hai| buddhi vaha pratyaya hai jisase samasta arthavattAe~ prabhAvita haiN| Akhira yaha buddhi hai kyA? buddhi vAstava meM hamAre mana aura mastiSka se jur3I huI eka amUrta zakti hai| isa zakti-vizeSa kA hrAsa hI bauddhika ayogyatA hai aura isakA vikAsa hI usakI yogyatA kA mApadaNDa hai| buddhi vidyut ke samAna hai| adRzya hote hue bhI usakA sazakta astitva hai| buddhi hI to vaha tattva hai jo nayI paristhitiyoM se samAyojana karatA hai| buddhi atIta anubhavoM kA prayoga karatI hai aura vibhinna kAryoM ko vizAla dRSTikoNa se dekhatI hai| buddhi eka yogyatA hai vAtAvaraNa ke prati abhiyojana kI, sIkhane kI, amUrta cintana kii| hara prakAra kI jaTilatA, amUrtatA, soddezyatA, sAmAjika mahattA tathA maulikatA buddhi ke dvArA hI sampAdita bauddhika vikAsa ke mApadaNDa 43 For Personal & Private Use Only

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hotI haiN| vyaktitva kA kendrIkaraNa evaM saMvegAtmaka prabhAvoM kA santulana bauddhika vikAsa evaM usakI paripakvatA se bhI sambhAvita hai| buddhi eka janmajAta evaM svAbhAvika zakti hai| prAcIna kAla meM vidyA yA jJAna ke AdhAra para buddhi kI parIkSA lI jAtI thii| jisake pAsa jitanA jJAna, vaha utanA hI buddhimaan| madhyakAla meM zArIrika saMracanAoM ke AdhAra para bhI buddhimattA kI parIkSA hotI rahI hai| jaise-'kvacit daMtarbhaved muurkhH|' jabaki saca to yaha hai ki buddhi kA sambandha aisI kisI banAvaTa se nahIM hai| yaha zakti manuSya ko svabhAvata: janma se hI prApta hotI hai aura dhIre-dhIre isakA vikAsa hotA hai| ____ vyakti kI mAnasika yogyatA usakI Ayu ke AdhAra para nahIM, varana usake vikAsa ke AdhAra para A~kI jAtI hai| kaI bAra aisA hotA hai ki bacce kI umra to dasa sAla hotI hai kintu mAnasika umra usase pA~ca sAla kama hotI hai yA pA~ca sAla adhika hotI hai| yadi pA~ca varSa kA bAlaka buddhi-parIkSaNa ke lie nirdhArita praznoM kA uttara apanI umra ke mutAbika detA hai to usakI mAnasika umra bhI pA~ca sAla kahI jaaegii| nahIM to kama yA jyaadaa| pA~ca varSakA bAlaka yadi apane se adhika umra vAloM ke lie nirdhArita praznoM kA javAba bhI detA hai, to vaha lar3akA kuzAgra hai, tIvrabuddhi sampanna hai| bacce kI mAnasika umra jitanI adhika hogI, usakI bauddhika kSamatA utanI hI samartha aura sazakta khlaaegii| __buddhi-parIkSaNa ke lie zAbdika evaM kriyAtmaka donoM hI paddhatiyA~ haiN| zAbdika praNAlI ke antargata baccoM se prazna pUche jAte haiN| jaise do varSa kI avasthA ke bAlakoM ke lie tumhArI A~kha kahA~ hai? tumhArA nAma kyA hai? tuma lar3akI ho yA lar3akA? bAlaka ko pena-peMsila yA paisA dikhAkara pUche ki yaha kyA hai? tIna varSa kI avasthA ke bAlakoM ke lie eka jaisI do sandUkoM meM kucha sAmAna bhara kara yaha pUche ki batAo donoM meM kisa sandUka kA vajana jyAdA hai| lAla, pIlA, harA AdiraMgoM kI --- --- -------- kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa 44 For Personal & Private Use Only

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pahacAna puuche| kursI aura ghor3emeM yA Aga aura pAnI meM kyA pharka hai? AjJAoM kA pAlana karanA-ise meja para rakha do| daravAjA banda kara do| yaha DibbI mere pAsa le aao| pA~ca varSa kI avasthA ke bAlakoM ke lie hAtha meM aMguliyA~ kitanI haiM? dUsare hAtha meM kitanI haiM? aura donoM ko milAkara kula kitanI haiM? citra meM kyA hai yA kisake bAre meM hai? makkhI aura titalI meM kyA antara hai? aadi-aadi| buddhi-parIkSaNa kA jo dUsarA rUpa hai, vaha kriyAtmaka buddhi-parIkSaNa hai| yaha parIkSaNa vAstava meM gUMge, bahare, andhe yA anapar3ha ke lie hai| isa parIkSaNa meM bhASA yA zabda ke sthAna para mUrta vastuoM, citroM yAjyaoNmitIya AkRtiyoM Adi kA prayoga kiyA jAtA hai| jo baccA ina praznoM meM se jisa avasthA ke uttara dene meM sakSama hotA hai , usakI mAnasika yA bauddhika umra yA yogyatA utanI hI tIvra hotI hai| bauddhika kSamatA se hI jIvana meM jJAna kI vizadatA arjita hotI hai| svabhAva, sujhAva, hArdikatA evaM saMvegAtmakatA para bhI bauddhika vikAsa kA prabhAva par3atA hai| manuSya kA mastiSka to janma se korA kAgaja hai| aba yaha hama para nirbhara karatA hai ki hama usakA kaisA upayoga kareM aura usa para kyA likheM? racanAtmaka kAryoM meM apanI abhiruci evaM sakriyatA jor3anA hamAre bauddhika vyaktitva kA sRjana-dharmI upayoga hai| buddhi, anubhava, zikSA aura prayatna se hI astitva kI sabhI upalabdhiyA~ haiN| baccoM ke bauddhika vikAsa ke lie jisa khAsa sAvadhAnI kI jarUrata hotI hai, vaha yaha hai ki unheM tanAva aura cintA se dUra rakhA jaae| tanAva manuSya ke mastiSka kI UrjA ko jalAtA hai, snAyuoM ko kamajora karatA hai| cintA dimAgI vyavasthA ko caupaTa kara detI hai| tanAva aura cintA se bacAne ke lie baccoM ko hamezA atipIr3A vAle vAtAvaraNa se mukta rakhA jaae| unake dila meM kisI taraha kA sadamA nalage, yaha nihAyata jarUrI hai| - - - - - - - - - - - - bauddhika vikAsa ke mApadaNDa - - 45 For Personal & Private Use Only

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baccoM ko khela-kUda aura manoraMjana ke sAdhana bhI upalabdha karavAe jaaeN| par3hAI kA jarUrata se jyAdA usa para bojha na pdd'e| yadi sambhava ho to usake lie kampyUTara kI bhI vyavasthA kI jaae| isase usakI buddhi dasa gunA jyAdA tvarita hogI / baccoM ko yoga aura prArthanA ke lie bhI prerita kreN| isase unameM ekAgratA, icchAzakti aura AtmavizvAsa kA udaya hogaa| jIvana ke viparIta mArgoM para kadama cale jAne ke bAvajUda unakI AtmA meM naitika bala banA rhegaa| sAtha hI varSa meM eka-do bAra unheM yAtrA bhI krvaaeN| isase vAtAvaraNaparivartana hogaa| ghUmane-phirane se mana ke tanAva kama hoMge aura deha - bala bddh'egaa| naI-naI cIjoM ko dekhane se naI-naI jijJAsAoM kA janma hogA, jo ki jJAna-prApti kA mahattvapUrNa pahalU hai| bauddhika vikAsa ke lie jitanA hameM sajaga rahanA cAhie, utanA hI svayaM bacce ko bhI / 46 000 kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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prabaMdhana baccoM kA mAnasika vikAsa hamAre udbhava aura vikAsa ke sAtha hI hamAre cintana tathA cintanamaNDala kA udbhava aura vikAsa honA zurU ho jAtA hai / hamAre cintanamaNDala meM svAbhAvika rUpa se vikAsa evaM parivartana hotA hai| janma ke bAda bAlaka kA vAtAvaraNa ke sAtha samAyojana aura prakRti ke niyamoM ke sAtha sAkSAtkAra karanA Avazyaka hai / samAyojana aura sAkSAtkAra kI gati aura usakI tIvratA para hI hamAre mAnasika saMvega tathA cintana-maNDala kA vikAsa nirbhara karatA hai / umra kI bar3hotarI ke sAtha hI cintana-maNDala bhI phailatA calA jAtA hai| antarikSa kI taraha virAT hotA hai manuSya kA cintana-maNDala / hamAre jIvana meM citta, buddhi, mana aura cintana jaisI amUrta zaktiyA~ itanI vizadatA aura virATatA ko sameTe haiM ki unhIM ke calate mAnava-samAja kI samasta sabhyatAe~ evaM saMskRtiyA~ nirmita aura parivartita hotI haiM / mAnava-samAja ko ve yuga bhI dekhane par3ate haiM jinake smaraNa - mAtra se hI napharata ke mAre roMgaTe baccoM kA mAnasika vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only 47

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khar3e ho jAte haiN| itihAsa una udAharaNoM se bhI abhisiMcita hotA rahA hai, na kevala jinakI yAda sukhada hai, varan carcAoM meM unakA jikra kara hama unake Adarza svarUpa ko khuzI se ijahAra bhI karate haiN| __ manuSya kI adha:patita huI soca usakA kuNThita saMvega hai| vahIM usa soca kA nikhAra aura parisaMskAra hI cintana hai| jaba hama mAnasika-vikAsa kI bAta karate haiM to usakA abhiprAya cintana-vikAsa hI hai| teiyAra-de-zArdaina' aura 'bernAdskI ' ne cintana-maNDala ke bAre meM apanA jo vijJAna prastuta kiyA hai, usake anusAra manuSya ke antarikSa meM praveza karane aura graha ke andara gaharAI taka pahu~cane ke badaulata cintanamaNDala meM avirAma rUpa se phailate rahane kI pravRtti hotI hai| janmata: to manuSya kA mastiSka 'korI-sleTa' kI taraha hotA hai| jona laoNka ne ise 'TebulA rasA' kI saMjJA dI hai| manuSya apane jIvana ke zaizava meM jo kriyAe~ karatA hai, ve vAstava meM mastiSka kI gatividhiyA~ na hokara svAbhAvika aura pratyAvartita pratikriyAe~ haiN| inhIM kriyAoM ke dvArA mAnasika-vikAsa kI zuruAta hotI hai| teja AvAja kiye jAne para bacce kA cauMka jAnA, hAtha meM dI huI vastu kA dabA lenA, zarIra ko hilAnADulAnA, hicakI lenA, bhojana yA mala visarjana karanA ye saba ve kriyAe~ haiM, jo svAbhAvika aura pratyAvartita pratikriyA hokara bhI bacce ko naye vAtAvaraNa ke prati saceta karatI haiM aura samAyojana ke lie prerita bhii| dhIre-dhIre yaha sacetatA, preraNA aura sakriyatA hI bacce ke mAnasika aura bauddhika vikAsa kI AdhArabhUmikAe~ banatI haiN| bAlaka ke mAnasikavyavahAra kA vikAsa samaya kI apekSA rakhatA hai| janma ke prathama saptAha meM jo zizu camaka aura jora se kisI bhI zabda yA AhaTa ko pasanda nahIM karatA hai, vahI eka varSa kA hone para khuda zabdoM kA uccAraNa karanA prArambha kara detA hai| vaha mammI-pApA kI kriyAoM kA anukaraNa karane lagatA hai| vaha samajhane lagatA hai ki caoNkaleTa para cipakA huA kAgaja kaise alaga kiyA jAtA hai| cintana kA vikAsa bacapana kI ----------------- kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa 48 For Personal & Private Use Only

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Dyor3hI para itanI tIvragati se hotA hai ki sAta-AThavarSakA bAlaka tulanA aura samAnatA ko samajhane lagatA hai| vaha kaI bAtoM kA kAraNa batA detA hai| bAraha varSa kA hone para to usakI bauddhika kSamatA aura cintanazakti itanI samartha ho jAtI hai ki vaha mauke-be-mauke sahI salAha taka de sakatA hai| cintana-maNDala evaM mAnasika-vyavahAra kI sazaktatA kA prAyogika sAkSAtkAra to jIvana kI kizorAvasthA meM hotA hai| vaha cintana, vicAra, nirNaya, tarka, vizvAsa- hara dRSTi se sakSama hotA hai| jahA~ eka kizora ke mana meM pratiSThita huA Atma-vizvAsa usake jIvana ke cahuMmukhI vikAsa kA nimitta banatA hai, vahIM hIna-bhAvanA se saMtrasta baccA apane AtmavizvAsa ke sabhI mArgoM ko avaruddha kara baiThatA hai| kizorAvasthA vAstava meM jIvana kA zaizavakAla hai| yahI vaha kAla hai jaba kizoroM ke jIvanavikAsa, saMskAra aura unake Atma-sammAna para pUrA dhyAna diyA jAe, kyoMki eka kizora ke lie Atma-sammAna aura Atma-vizvAsase bar3hakara anya koI mahattvapUrNa pahalU nahIM hai| manuSya apane mAnasika-vikAsa kA mArga kizorAvasthA taka bahuta kucha pAra kara letA hai| cintana kA vikAsa to yuvA hone ke bAda hI hotA hai, parantu buddhi kA vikAsa tabhI taka hotA hai jaba taka zarIra kA vikAsa cAlU rahatA hai| paripakvatA A jAne para buddhi kA vikAsa ruka jAtA hai| usake bAda to cintana aura jJAna kA vikAsa prArambha hotA hai| tAlIma kI AkhirI sarahadoM taka pahu~cane ke lie jahA~ mAnasika yogyatA cAhie, vahIM usakI kasauTI aura prakharatA ke lie soca aura cintana Avazyaka hai| cintana kI racanAtmaka saphalatA hI jIvana kI saphalatA hai| manuSya ke mAnasika aura bauddhika vikAsa kI zuruAta to zaizava jIvana meM prArambha ho jAtI hai aura isakI gati prAthamika vidyAlayIya jIvana taka hI tIvra rahatI hai, parantu bAlyAvasthA meM vikAsa kI gati meM ekarasatA ho AtI hai yAni taba vikAsa kI dara eka-sI rahatI hai| para hA~, zaizava kI - - baccoM kA mAnasika vikAsa 49 - - - - - - - - - - - - For Personal & Private Use Only

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apekSA to usakI gati manda hI hotI hai| hamAre mastiSka aura usase jur3I vibhinna zaktiyoM kA asalI vikAsa to kizorAvasthA meM hI hotA hai| usa samaya vikAsa kI dara bar3I pukhtA aura AzcaryakArI hotI hai| kizorAvasthA hI jIvana kI vaha urvarA bhUmi hai jisameM rope gaye saMskAroM kA prabhAvakArI pariNAma niSpAdita hotA hai| ____manuSya kA mAnasika aura bauddhika vikAsa adhikAdhika ho, hamAre cintana majabUta aura sulajhe hue hoM, isake lie jarUrI hai ki baccoM ko hIna-bhAvanA se grasita na hone diyA jaae| unake Atma-vizvAsa, utsAha aura vicAroM kI hatyA na hone dI jaae| unakI jijJAsAoM, icchAoM evaM bAtoM para dhyAna dene kA prayAsa kiyA jAnA caahie| unheM AhAra-zuddhi, vicAra-zuddhi aura AcAra-zuddhi ke prati sajaga rahane kI preraNA dI jaae| vinaya aura anuzAsana ke prati unakI abhiruci banAI jaae| ___ bauddhika-vikAsa ke lie jarUrI hai ki baccA svastha evaM niroga rahe aura use ha~sate-khilate vAtAvaraNa meM jIne kA avasara mile| vyAyAma yA yogAsana karane se usakI tandurustI meM sudhAra hogaa| mAnasika ekAgratA ke liedhyAna kA upayoga kiyA jAnA caahie| cintana-dvAra para kI gaImAnasika ekAgratA manuSya kI soI huI cintana-zakti ko sakriya banAtI hai| cintanazakti kA udaya hI vAstava meM jIvana ke AMgana meM jJAna kA sUryodaya hai| cintana, jJAna aura prayoga kI sAmUhikatA hI jIvana ke dvAra para saphalatA kI dastaka hai| 000 kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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- - mUla pravRttiyoM ko dIjie behatara dizA hamArA mAnavIya jIvana puruSArtha kA upakrama hai| jIvana meM jahA~ kAmayAbI baTorane ke lie mehanata karanI par3atI hai, vahIM kucha mUla pravRttiyA~ aisI haiM jinakI upalabdhi anAyAsa hotI hai| jahA~ pratibhA janmajAta hotI hai, vahIM pravRttiyoM kA sambandha bhI janma se hI hotA hai| jIvana meM naI pravRttiyA~ bhI upArjita hotI haiM, parantu jIvana kA sArA phailAva janma se prApta pravRttiyoM para hI kendrita hotA hai| prAya: yaha pAyA jAtA hai ki manuSya meM jo janmajAta pravRttiyA~ hotI haiM, manuSya ke sAre saMvega aura parivartana unhIM se sambandhita rahate haiN| mUla pravRttiyoM kA janma bAlaka ke janma ke sAtha hI ho jAtA hai parantu unakA vikAsa zarIra aura umra ke vikAsa ke anusAra hotA hai| __hamAre bAlyajIvana meM kucha kriyAe~ itanI naisargika hotI haiM ki unheM sIkhane ke lie kisI bhI prakAra ke prazikSaNa kI jarUrata hI nahIM hotii| baccA apanI jaivikIya evaM prANI-zAstrIya AvazyakatAoM ko pUrA karane mUla pravRttiyoM ko dIjie behatara zikSA ----- 51 For Personal & Private Use Only

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ke lie khuda-ba-khuda ve kriyAe~ karane lagatA hai| stana cUsanA, mala-mUtra tyAganA, krandana karanA, palakeM jhapakAnA, sonA Adi kriyAe~ bacce ko koI sikhAtA nahIM hai, yaha usakI mUla zArIrika pravRtti hai| naye vAtAvaraNa ke sAtha samAyojana karane kI pravRtti bhI bAlaka kI svAbhAvika kriyA hai| baccA janma se hI kaI prakAra kI kriyAe~ sIkhakara AtA hai jisakI pRSThabhUmi meM vAstava meM usakI janmajAta pravRttiyA~ hI hotI haiN| khelane ke lie bacce kI utsukatA itanI svAbhAvika pravRtti hai ki vaha hoza Ate hI khelanA zurU kara detA hai| khilaune hI usake sAthI bana jAte haiN| vaha apane khela meM itanA tanmaya ho jAtA hai ki mAtA-pitA ke rokane para bhI nahIM rukatA, bhUkha-pyAsa taka kI bhI paravAha nahIM krtaa| baccA abodha hai, para khelanA usakI mUla pravRtti hai|. bhUkha lagane para baccA mA~ se dUdha yA bhojana ke lie bAra-bAra kahanA zurU kara detA hai| agara usakI koI vastu chIna lI jAe to vaha lar3anejhagar3ane aura dahAr3e mArane laga jaaegaa| yAnI apanI cIja para kisI kA adhikAra yA hastakSepa karane para virodha pradarzita karanA bacce kA naisargika guNa hai| bacce kI isa pravRtti ko agara sahI dizA mile to usakI yahI pravRtti usake lie Atma-rakSA, acaurya aura ImAnadArI kI ora use abhimukha kara sakatI hai| bhAganA yA palAyana karanA bhI bacce kI mUla pravRtti hai| jaise hI kisI vastu, sthAna yA vAtAvaraNa se bacce ko khatarA mahasUsa hotA hai, vaha vahA~ se tatkAla bhAga jAtA hai| vahIM agara use nirbhayatA kI preraNA mile to bacce kI dUsarI pravRtti use palAyana karane kI bajAya jijJAsA kI ora samprerita kregii| kisI naI vastu ko dekhakara vaha jijJAsA karane laga jAtA hai tAki use usa vastu kA jJAna ho| sAmAjikatA ke prati bacce kI naisargika pravRtti dekhakara bar3A sukhada Azcarya hotA hai| khilaune yA vastuoM kA saMcaya karanA, miTTI ke khilaune -- ------- ----- - kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa 52 For Personal & Private Use Only

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yA reta ke gharauMde banAnA, mitra- maNDalI banAnA Adi pravRttiyA~ bAlaka ke naisargika vyaktitva kI abhivyaMjanAe~ haiM / kizora ho jAne para baccA hara taraha kI pravRtti karane laga jAtA hai| vAtsalya kI pravRttiyA~ to cAlU rahatI hI haiM, svataMtratA kI AkAMkSA aura kAma-saMlipta mAnasikatA jaisI pravRttiyA~ bhI usameM anAyAsa vikasita jAtI haiN| manuSya kI ye sArI pravRttiyA~ usakA janmajAta aura prAkRtika vyavahAra hai| janma ke samaya meM hI ye sArI pravRttiyA~ bacce meM upasthita rahatI haiN| jaise-jaise umra bar3hatI jAtI hai, usakI ve pravRttiyA~ umra ke mutAbika apane Apa prakaTa hone lagatI haiN| manuSya kI janmajAta zaktiyA~ hI usakI mUla pravRttiyA~ haiM / vaha bAlaka ke rUpa meM jaise hI isa virAT vizva meM avatIrNa hotA hai, kucha-na-kucha vyavahAra karanA prArambha kara detA hai| bar3e hone ke sAtha hI usake vyavahAra ke dAyare bhI bar3hate cale jAte haiN| usake samasta vyavahAroM ko saMcAlita karane kA kAma usakI janmajAta zaktiyoM aura mUla pravRttiyoM ke jarie hotA hai| bacce kI pratyeka mUla pravRtti ke tIna pahalU hote haiM jinakI anubhUti aura abhivyakti jJAnAtmaka, saMvegAtmaka aura kriyAtmaka rUpa meM hotI hai| jJAnAtmaka pahalU ke mutAbika vyakti sabase pahale vastu- vizeSa, jJeyapadArtha yA uttejaka se prabhAvita hotA hai| jJAnAtmaka pahalU ke bAda kisI saMvega kA anubhava karanA usakA saMvegAtmaka pahalU hai / kriyA athavA pratikriyA to jJAnAtmaka aura saMvegAtmaka pahalU kA hI pariNAma hai| manuSya kI mUla pravRttiyA~ hI usake samasta vyavahAroM ko saMcAlita karatI haiN| hara vyakti kI pravRttiyA~ usakI maulikatA hai / saMsAra meM mAnavIya svabhAva meM rahI huI vibhinnatAe~ vAstava meM ina janmajAta pravRttiyoM kI vividhatA ke kAraNa hI haiN| pravRtti usakI zakti hai jo prakRti pradatta aura janmajAta hotI hai| manuSya kI jo mUla pravRttiyA~ haiM, ve samasta prANiyoM meM kisI meM kama, kisI meM jyAdA Amataura para pAyI hI jAtI haiN| para hA~, ye pravRttiyA~ aparivartanazIla hoM, aisA bhI nahIM hai| pravRttiyA~ vikasita to mUla pravRttiyoM ko dIjie behatara zikSA For Personal & Private Use Only 53

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hoMgI hii| pahAr3a se phUTA jharanA to bahegA hii| yaha alaga bAta hai ki use aura bar3hane ke lie kaisI rAha milegii| rAha sIdhI bhI mila sakatI hai, Ter3hI-mer3hI bhI / vaha use vikRta bhI kara sakatI hai aura saMskArita bhI / yadi use rokane aura dabAne kA prayAsa kiyA gayA to vaha damita bhI ho sakatI hai / para eka bAta taya hai ki kisI pravRtti kA damana usake prakaTana se jyAdA khauphanAka hai| yadyapi manuSya kI janmajAta pravRttiyA~ mana: zArIrika hotI haiM, para isakA artha yaha nahIM hai ki buddhi aura cetanA kA unameM pUrNatayA abhAva rahatA hai| mUla pravRtti kA vikAsa aura usakI abhivyakti hamAre zArIrika vikAsa para AdhArita hai| mUla pravRtyAtmaka kArya vAstava meM Ayu aura vAtAvaraNa para AdhArita hote haiM / prAya: yaha dekhA jAtA hai ki manuSya kI mUla pravRtti jaba taka apane lakSya ko prApta nahIM kara letI hai, taba taka samApta nahIM hotI hai| cAhe usakA nirodha kiyA jAe yA virodha, vaha Aja nahIM to kala apane uddezya ko prApta karanA hI caahegii| para hA~, agara una pravRttiyoM kA zodhana kara diyA jAe to na kevala ve parivartita ho jAtI haiM, balki usa pravRtti kI zakti se koI ucca koTi kA kArya bhI sampanna ho sakatA hai| pravRttiyA~ to manuSya aura pazu saba meM eka-sI hI rahatI haiM, para manuSyoM kI mUla pravRttiyoM meM parivartana sambhAvita hai| pazu kI pravRttiyoM kA damana to kiyA jA sakatA hai, para parivartana nhiiN| mAnavIya pravRttiyA~ pazuoM kI apekSA adhika parivartanazIla hotI haiN| manuSyoM aura pazuoM kI mUla pravRttiyoM kI carcA ke daurAna yaha tathya bhI ullekhanIya hai ki manuSya kI pravRttiyoM kI apekSA pazuoM kI pravRttiyoM kA vikAsa jaldI hotA hai / mAnavIya zizu jahA~ eka sAla kA hone para calane meM sakSama hotA hai, vahIM gAya kA bachar3A eka saptAha meM hI / isa vikAsa-bheda kA pramukha kAraNa manuSya aura pazu kA AyuSya-bheda hai| yadi kisI pazu kA sampUrNa AyuSya hI dasa sAla kA hai to usakI pravRttiyA~ bhI usI gati ke sAtha vikasita hoNgii| cU~ki pazuoM meM 54 kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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bauddhika kSamatA paripakva nahIM hotI isalie unakI pravRtti aura vyavahAra meM viveka-santulana nahIM hotaa| eka bauddhika prANI apanA pravRtyAtmaka vyavahAra andhe kI taraha nahIM krtaa| ___ hamAre mAnavIya jIvana meM mUlata: tIna pravRttiyA~ hotI haiM-AtmarakSA, jAti-rakSA aura sAmUhika jiivn| kaI manovaijJAnikoM ne to yaha mAnA hai ki manuSya kI utanI hI mUla-pravRttiyA~ hotI haiM, jitane prakAra kA vaha vyavahAra karatA hai jabaki aneka manovaijJAnika manuSya meM kevala eka hI mUla pravRtti svIkAra karate haiM aura vaha pravRtti hI usake sAre vyavahAroM ko prerita aura saMcAlita karatI hai| phrAyaDa ke anusAra kAma-pravRtti hI mUla pravRtti hai| eDalara ne usa pravRtti ko Atma-pradarzana kI saMjJA dI hai| vargasana ke matAnusAra vaha prANa-zakti hai jabaki sophena hAvara ne usa mUla pravRtti ko jijIviSA / jIne-kI-icchA kahA hai| manuSya ke jIvana se jur3I huI samasta pravRttiyoM kA adhyayana karane para maiMne yaha niSkarSa nikAlA ki prema aura udvega manuSya kI ve mUlabhUta pravRttiyA~ haiM, jinake Irda-girda manuSya kA jIvana aura usakI sArI pravRttiyoM kA vAtAyana khulA huA hai| prema aura udvega jahA~ hamAre mUlabhUta saMvega haiM, vahIM hamArI mUlabhUta pravRttiyA~ bhI haiN| hamAre mAnavIya jIvana meM vibhinna pravRttiyoM kA jo vistAra hai, unameM bhojana kA anveSaNa, palAyana, yuyutsA, nivRtti, zaraNAgata, hrAsa, jijJAsA, Atma-gaurava, sAmUhikatA, saMgraha, racanA, dainya-bhAvanA, kAma-pravRtti pramukha haiN| bhojana ke anveSaNa se usakI mUla pravRtti cAlU hotI hai| caudaha varSa kI umra hona para usakI kAma-pravRtti suSupta avasthA ko tyAga kara jAgrata avasthA ko prApta kara letI hai| putrakAmanA jaisI pravRttiyA~ yuvAvasthA meM utpanna hotI hai| dharmAcaraNa kI pravRtti ina pravRttiyoM ke saMskAra yA sudhAra se yA Atma-sammAna kI rakSA ke lie udita huI dekhI jAtI hai| pravRttiyA~ jo bhI hoM, unheM samyak dizA prApta honA nitAnta jarUrI hai| ve manuSya kI janmajAta zaktiyA~ haiM, isalie inameM manuSya kI yogyatAoM mUla pravRttiyoM ko dIjie behatara zikSA For Personal & Private Use Only

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kA sampUrNa vyaktitva samAyA huA hai| pravRttiyA~ cU~ki naisargika haiM, isalie unakA AvirbhAva aura vikAsa bhI naisargika rUpa se anivAryata: hotA hai / ina pravRttiyoM meM behada tUphAnI tAkata hotI hai| yadi jIvana ke nirmANa aura vikAsa meM ina pravRttiyoM kA samucita upayoga kiyA jAe to na to ve kabhI pAzavika rUpa dhAraNa kareMgI aura na hI unakA nirodha yA virodha karanA pdd'egaa| unheM vAMchita dizA meM rUpAntarita karanA hI mUla pravRttiyoM kI sahI upayogitA hai| - jo manovaijJAnika yaha mAnate haiM ki baccoM kI mUla pravRttiyoM kA anudamana kara denA cAhie, lagatA hai ki ve una pravRttiyoM ke mUla svarUpa se pUre paricita nahIM haiN| saca to yaha hai ki agara kisI bAlaka kI mUla pravRtti ko dabAyA jAegA to ve bacce ke acetana mana meM rahakara use anaisargika tathA asvAbhAvika vyavahAra karane ke lie vivaza kara deMgI / jaise pravRttiyoM kA damana ucita nahIM hai, vaise hI unakA nirodha aura virodha bhI upayukta mArga nahIM hai| vAstava meM na to mUla pravRttiyoM kA damana karanA cAhie aura na hI unheM svataMtra chor3anA cAhie, balki mUla pravRtyAtmaka zakti ke pravAha ko samyak dizA kI ora mor3a denA caahie| yaha vAstava meM pravRttiyoM kA svastha mArgAntarIkaraNa aura rUpAntaraNa hai| yadyapi baccoM ko mUla pravRttiyoM ke prakAzana kA avasara milanA cAhie, parantu unako hI, jinheM sahI mArga-darzana prApta huA ho, anyathA yaha svataMtratA sAmAjika jIvana ke lie ghAtaka siddha ho sakatI hai| 56 kaise kareM vyaktitva vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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- cintana-zakti kA tArkika vikAsa mAnasika kSamatAoM kA vikAsa hamAre astitva aura vyaktitva kA vikAsa hai| vyakti kI kuNThita mAnasikatA jahA~ vyakti ko saMkIrNa aura tanAva grasta banAtI hai, vahIM vikasita mAnasikatA hameM vAtAvaraNa ke sAtha samAyojana sthApita karane meM apanI sazakta sakriyatA darzAtI hai| vyakti samasyAoM ko bar3I bArIkI se samajha letA hai| usakA hara cintana samAdhAna kI ora vikAsazIla tathA kriyAzIla hotA hai / 988. mAnasika yogyatAoM ke bala para hI manuSya, manuSya kahalAtA hai| prANa-zakti to astitva ke hara aMza meM hai / koI dopAyA hai to koI caupAyA / sukhapUrvaka jIne kI icchA sabameM hai / mAnasika prakriyAoM ke AvirbhAva aura vikAsa ke calate hI manuSya sAre jIva jagat kA gaurava - mukuTa hai| - mAnasika prakriyAoM ke vikAsa ke daurAna mukhyata: hamArI saMvedanA, smRti, kalpanA, cintana, tarka, nirNaya Adi kA vikAsa hotA hai / vibhinna mAnasika pahaluoM meM cintana aura tarka kA vikAsa anya sabhI mAnasika ciMtana zakti kA tArkika vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only 57

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prakriyAoM kA netRtva kara letA hai| cintana aura tarka ke balabUte para hI vyakti apanI AvazyakatAoM aura samasyAoM ko bhalI-bhA~ti samajhatA hai, unakI thAha letA hai / jIvana yA astitva se jur3I kisI bhI prakAra kI samasyA kyoM na ho, samAdhAna ke lie cintana aura tarka kA hI istemAla kiyA jAtA hai / kheta-khalihAna kI paidAiza hala para TikI hai aura samasyAoM ke hala ke lie cintana aura tarka haiN| bagaira hala ke jIvana kI pragatiyA~ kuNThita aura nAmarda haiN| samasyAoM ke astitva se iMkAra nahIM kiyA jA sakatA / vyakti, samAja, rASTra yA vizva kisI-na-kisI samasyA ke dabAva se ghirA - dabA hai| zAyada hI dharatI para koI aisA kSetra ho jise pUrNatayA samasyA - mukta ghoSita kiyA jA ske| kahIM pAnI kI samasyA hai, to kahIM bAr3ha kI / kala abhAva kI samasyA thI, Aja svabhAva kI samasyA hai| nirakSaratA samasyA hai to sAkSaroM kI berojagArI bhI samasyA hai| kala taka jo yaha kahakara ImAna ko becane se katarAte the ki unake bAla-baccoM kA anartha ho jAegA, ve hI loga yaha kahate hue pAe jAte haiM ki ImAnadArI rakhakara kyA bAlabaccoM ko bhUkhoM mAranA hai? ImAnadArI aura beImAnI donoM hI samasyA bana gae haiN| daMgA-phasAda karAne vAloM ke lie dharma to samasyA hai hI, aba to dharma-nirapekSatA bhI eka samasyA hai| lagatA hai vyakti-vyakti, samAjasamAja, deza-deza to kyA sArA jahAna hI samasyAoM ke kAMTedAra rAstoM para cala rahA hai| Aja mAnA ki samasyAe~ Dhera sArI haiM, para samAdhAna bhI kama nahIM haiN| iMsAniyata lambe itihAsa meM manuSya ke kadama samAdhAna kI ora nirantara prayatnazIla haiM / samAdhAna kI jitanI sambhAvanA thI, nizcita taura para ve utane nahIM DhU~Dhe sake, para pUrI taraha asaphalatA bhI nahIM milii| jaba taka isa dharatI para iMsAna rahegA, samasyAe~ paidA hotI raheMgI, samAdhAna DhU~Dhe jAte rheNge| aMdhakAra ko prakAza kI cunautiyA~ milatI rheNgii| kucha samasyAe~ aisI hotI haiM jinakI paidAiza hama karate haiM, para ve 58 kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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samasyAe~ bhI bezumAra haiM jinakI barasAta kudaratI hotI hai| samasyAe~ cAhe svata: niHsRta hoM yA arjita-Aropita, Akhira unakA samAdhAna to hamako hI DhU~DhanA hogaa| hameM hI cintana karanA hogAuna samasyAoM ke pIche chipe hue kAraNoM kaa| kamajora cintana ke bala para samasyAe~ miTatI nahIM haiM, AsamAna chUtI haiN| cintana ho tArkika, anubhavagamya, abhyAsajanya, abhiyojnkrne-meN-smrth| saca to yaha hai ki cintana kA janma hI samasyAoM ke kAraNa hotA hai| samasyAoM ko sulajhAne ke lie vyakti cintana karatA hai aura samAdhAna milate hI cintana kA pravAha ruka jAtA hai| vAstava meM kisI samasyA kA samAdhAna karane vAlI mAnasika prakriyA hI cintana hai| cintana vAtAvaraNa ke prati cetanAgata samAyojana hai| isakI sampUrNa bhUmikA vicAraparaka hotI hai| vyakti apane pUrva pratyakSIkaraNa evaM anubhavoM ke dvArA saMkhyA, mudrA, dizA, samaya, dUrI, AkAra, bhAra, jIvana, mRtyu, saundarya Adi ke sambandha meM pratyaya banA letA hai aura unhIM pratyayoM se vaha sambandhita sUtroM para TippaNI karatA hai| pratyaya vAstava meM vyakti ke pUrva anubhavoM kA yoga hai jo naI paristhitiyoM ko samajhane meM sahAyaka hotA hai| cintana kA janma, janma se nahIM hotA, ATha-nau varSa kI Ayu ke bAda hI cintana kI dhArA phUTatI hai| AyukI bar3hotarI ke sAtha cintana kI kSamatA meM bhI bar3hotarI hotI hai| baccoM ke jIvana meM pAyA jAne vAlA cintana prAya: 'svagata bhASaNa' hotA hai| ve anya vyaktiyoM yA padArthoM para cintana na kara apane hI viSaya meM karate haiM mAno ve apane Apasa hI bAta kara rahe hoN| cU~ki baccA kArya-kAraNa sambandha se aparicita hotA hai, isalie usake cintana meM tArkika saMgati nahIM hotii| usake cintana aura tarka meM kaI bAra gur3a-gobara jaisA UTapaTAMga mela ho jAtA hai| para kevala baccA hI kyoM, vayaska bhI kaI bAra asaMgata cintana kara baiThatA hai| nizcita taura para sahI nirNaya ke lie cintana aura tarka meM saMgati baiThanI Avazyaka hai| ciMtana zakti kA tArkika vikAsa 59 For Personal & Private Use Only

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- anubhUtijanya cintana hI hamArI tarka zakti ko pauSTikatA detA hai| tarka atIta ke anubhavoM ko isa prakAra milAtA hai ki samasyA kA samAdhAna ho jAe / tarka cintana ko pariNAma ke aura najadIka le jAtA hai| tarka ke lie soca jarUrI hai| smRti aura nirIkSaNa ke dvArA tarka samasyA kA samAdhAna nikAlane meM kAragara hotA hai| cintana to mAtra vicAra karanA hai, jabaki tathyoM meM pArasparika mela baiThAnA tarka kA kAma hai| jisakI buddhi jitanI kuzAgra hogI, usakA cintana aura tarka utanA hI prakhara hogA / cU~ki bacce kA bauddhika vikAsa paripUrNa nahIM ho pAtA hai isalie yaha svAbhAvika hai ki vayaska kI apekSA usakI tArkika aura vaicArika zakti sImita hogii| bacce kA cintana Atma- kendrita hotA hai jabaki vayaskoM kA cintana bhI vastugata hotA hai aura usakA sambandha bhI sAre vAtAvaraNa se hotA hai / cintana ke stara meM bhI donoM meM pharka hotA hai| samasyA ko hala karane kI pravRtti bhI bacce kI apekSA vayaska kI jyAdA tIvra hotI hai| bacce kI cintana- kSamatA kI jo sabase bar3I kamI hotI hai, vaha yaha hai ki usakI soca kA sambandha kevala vartamAna se hotA hai, jabaki bar3e hone para vaha bhUta aura bhaviSya kA bhI cintana aura kalpanA kara sakatA hai| vayaska hone para usakA cintana sUcanA, anubhava tathA jJAna para AdhArita hotA hai| zikSA, vAtAvaraNa aura anubhava - cintana-zakti ke vikAsa meM sarvAdhika mahattvapUrNa bhUmikA nibhAte haiN| isalie bacce kI zreSTha zikSA ke lie hameM bharapUra prayAsa karanA caahie| Aja kA zikSita bAlaka kala ke parivAra aura samAja kA zikSita AdhAra hogA / behatara hogA ki ghara-parivAra kA vAtAvaraNa hama itanA prema aura sammAna se bharA rakheM ki bacce ke cintana para kabhI dUSita prabhAva na pdd'e| hama bhAI-bahina, pati-patnI yadi Apasa meM jhagar3eMge, gAlI-galauca kareMge yA galata AdatoM ke zikAra hoMge to yaha mAna kara caliye ki bacce para bhI usakA asara par3e binA na rhegaa| eka prasaMga meM adhyApaka ne chAtra ko DA~Tate kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa 60 For Personal & Private Use Only

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hue kahA, 'badatamIja ! corI karatA hai? bacce ne kahA, 'mere pApA corI karate haiM to maiM to karU~gA hI / ' dUsare prasaMga meM adhyApaka ne baccI se pUchA, 'tuma sabake sAtha itanI AtmIyatA, sammAna aura vinamratA se peza AtI ho, Akhira isakA kAraNa kyA hai ?" baccI ne kahA, 'yaha koI naI bAta nahIM hai / mere parivAra meM sabhI loga eka-dUsare ke sAtha aise hI peza Ate haiN|' jaisA vAtAvaraNa, vyakti kI mAnasikatA evaM cintana para vaisA hI prabhAva / Akhira use tadanurUpa hI anubhava bhI hoMge jo ki usakI cintana- dhAra ko prabhAvita karane ke lie paryApta AdhAra bana jAte haiM / vyakti yA bacce meM cintana aura tarka kA bhalI-bhA~ti vikAsa evaM samanvaya ho, isake lie prayatna aura sAvadhAnI apekSita hai| bacce ke kisI samasyA para khuda socane ke lie avasara diyA jaae| usake mastiSka meM vaijJAnika, gaNitIya aura vyAvahArika vikAsa ho, aisA prayatna kiyA jaae| usase prazna - pratiprazna kie jAe~, samaya-samaya para usase salAha mAMgI jAe, tAki vaha khuda socane meM sakSama ho sake, cintana meM nirantaratA A ske| samasyAoM ke samAdhana ke lie vaha svayaM mauke-be-mauke apanA nirNaya le ske| bacce dvArA kI jAne vAlI jijJAsA kI upekSA na kreN| bacce kI jijJAsA cintana kA udaya hai| hama usakI jijJAsA kA santoSajanaka samAdhAna kareM / cintana-zakti kA vikAsa saphala vyaktitva zreSTha AdhAra hai| ciMtana zakti kA tArkika vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only 000 61

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sujhAva dIjie premapUrvaka jIvana-mUlyoM kI prApti evaM niSThA hamAre cintana, jJAna aura hamArI sAmAjika mAnasikatA kA pariNAma hai| mAnavIya jIvana-mUlyoM ke lie vyakti ko AjIvana prayAsa karane hote haiN| yadi kisI vyakti ko apane bacapana se hI jIvana-mUlyoM ke lie behatarIna preraNA aura sahI sujhAva prApta hote raheM to usake jIvana-mUlyoM se haTane kI kahIM koI guMjAiza hI nahIM rhtii| ___ eka vyakti anaitika mArga kI ora bar3ha calatA hai| usakA mukhya kAraNa yahI hai ki use yA to sahI mArgadarzaka nahIM milA yA aisI sohabata milI jisane usakI mAnasikatA aura vRttiyoM ko ucchRkhala banA diyaa| bacce ko preraNA cAhie, sujhAva cAhie, kyoMki vaha saMsAra aura prakRti ke svabhAva se paricita nahIM hai, galata aura sahI kI use samajha nahIM hai| kyA karanA cAhie aura kisase paraheja rakhanA cAhie, usakI A~khoM meM aisI koI kasauTI nahIM hai| jIvana meM mAnavIya mUlyoM kI upalabdhi ke - - - - - - - - - - - -- - - - kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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lie abhibhAvakoM yA gurujanoM ke sujhAva hI sabase jyAdA kAragara sAbita hote haiN| mAnavIya mUlya Aja bhI jIvita haiM kyoMki ina mUlyoM kI preraNA hara kauma, hara tabake meM pratiSThita hai / vyakti kI mitra - maNDalI hI usakA parAmarzamaNDala hai| use jaise parAmarza aura sujhAva prApta hote haiM, vaha unase prabhAvita hokara unheM svIkAra bhI karatA hai| galata sujhAva vyakti ko galata mArga kI ora le jAte haiM aura acche sujhAva acche mArga kI ora / duniyA meM bure logoM kI kamI nahIM hai to acche logoM kI bhI kamI nahIM hai| eka ora jahA~ mAnavIya jIvana meM krUratA, nRzasatA aura barbaratA kA bekhaupha nRtya ho rahA hai to vahIM dUsarI ora karuNA, sahRdayatA va ni:svArtha sevA ke udAharaNa bhI bharapUra maujUda haiN| Akhira mAnavIya mUlyoM kI isa UThApaTaka kA kAraNa kyA hai? javAba hai - usakI prerakavRtti kA galata honA yA use vAtAvaraNa se galata sujhAva prApta honaa| hara parivAra cAhatA hai ki usakA hara sadasya naitika, anuzAsita aura yazasvI ho / nizcita taura para usakI yaha apekSA Avazyaka aura sArthaka hai parantu vyakti ko sArthakatA taba taka upalabdha nahIM hotI, jaba taka vaha usake lie sArthaka prayAsa nahIM krtaa| zAyada hI koI mAtA-pitA aise hoM jo apane bacce kA bhaviSya khatare meM DAlanA cAhate hoN| isalie baccoM ko bhI cAhie ki ve apane mAtA-pitA ke sujhAvoM ko svIkAra kareM, unakA AcaraNa kreN| sujhAvoM ko mAnane se na kevala baccA naye vAtAvaraNa ke sAtha samAyojana sthApita karane meM sahayoga prApta karatA hai, balki use mAnasika, sAmAjika aura cAritrika vikAsa meM bhI madada milatI hai| sujhAva ko svIkAra karanA vAstava meM manovaijJAnika dRSTi se mAnasika prakriyA hai / yahI kAraNa hai ki eka vyakti dUsare ke vicAroM ko atArkika hote hue bhI vizvAsa ke sAtha svIkAra kara letA hai| yaha prakriyA vAstava meM eka sandezAtmaka pratikriyA hai / sujhAva dIjie premapUrvaka For Personal & Private Use Only 63

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kucha sujhAva to aise hote haiM jo hamAre mastiSka meM apane Apa paidA hote haiN| aise sujhAvoM ko hama Atma-prerita sujhAva kaheMge / mastiSka ke jJAna-tantuoM meM aise Atma-prerita sujhAva utpanna huA karate haiM jo hamAre acetana mana meM nivAsa kara unheM prabhAvita karate haiM / dUsare prakAra ke sujhAva vyakti ko mAtA-pitA, gurujana yA anya kisI pratiSThita vyakti se prApta hote haiN| ina sujhAvoM kA pAlana hara vyakti prAya: kara hI letA hai| pradhAnAcArya dvArA diyA gayA sujhAva baccA anivAryata: pAlatA hai / kabhI-kabhI vyakti ko samUha yA samAja - vizeSa dvArA bhI sujhAva prApta hote haiN| jaba koI vyakti sujhAva ke viparIta kArya karatA hai to use sujhAvoM kA pratiSedha karane ke kAraNa daNDita bhI kiyA jAtA hai / prabhAvapUrNa sujhAva dene ke lie kucha mahattvapUrNa muddoM ko samajhanA jarUrI hai / sujhAva dete samaya hamezA yaha dhyAna rakhanA cAhie ki sujhAva hamezA apane se kama umra vAle ko denA caahie| bar3oM ko diyA gayA sujhAva, ho sakatA hai, unheM burA lage / ve use hamArA sujhAva na samajhakara kahIM upadeza na mAna baittheN| ulTA ve hameM hI kaheMge, 'choTA mu~ha, bar3I bAta / ' agara bar3oM ko sujhAva dene kI naubata Ae to unheM nivedana kI bhASA meM sujhAva denA cAhie / sujhAva hamezA vizvAsapUrNa svara meM diyA jAnA cAhie tAki usakA usa para kisI prakAra kA tarka yA avizvAsa utpanna na ho / sujhAva usI ko denA cAhie jo jJAna kI dRSTi se khuda se kamajora ho / bar3I prasiddha lokokti hai- 'sIkha usI ko dIjie, jisako sIkha suhAya / ' sIkha yA sujhAva hamezA dUsaroM ko sudhArane ke lie diyA jAtA hai| aise-vaise ko yadi sujhAva dene laga gae to hamArA sujhAva hamAre lie hI maha~gA par3a jaaegaa| hameM lene ke dene par3a jaaeNge| bandara - prakRti ke logoM ko diyA gayA sujhAva bayA ke lie AtmaghAtaka hI siddha hotA hai / hameM apanI zAnti ke ghoMsale se hAtha dhonA par3atA hai| isalie sujhAva dete samaya yaha jarUrI hai ki usa para hamArA adhikAra yA maitrI - sambandha ho / 64 kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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sujhAva paristhitiyoM ke anukUla honA caahie| aisA sujhAva kabhI bhI hitakArI nahIM ho sakatA jo vyaktiko udvigna yA vikRta kre|thkaavtt yA bhaya kI avasthA meM sujhAva hamezA samajhapUrvaka honA caahie| bhAvAveza meM diyA gayA yA svIkAra kiyA gayA sujhAva kaI bAra ghAtaka siddha ho jAtA hai| cAhe koI bar3A ho yA baccA, hara kisI meM sujhAva prApta karane kI pravRtti yA kSamatA hotI hai| ve apane mArga-darzaka zikSakoM kI bAtoM ko dhyAna se sunate haiM, isalie aisI koI bAta nahIM kI jAnI cAhie jo usake lie anargala sAbita ho| baccoM ko cAhie ki ve sujhAvoM kA sammAna kareM kyoMki sujhAvoM ke kAraNa hI ve naye vicAroM evaM samAdhAnoM se paricita hote haiN| zikSakoM evaM abhibhAvakoM ko cAhie ki ve aisA Adarza vAtAvaraNa banAe rakheM jisase unake sujhAvoM ko svIkAra karane ke lie bacce sadA utsuka aura prerita rheN| nakArAtmaka sujhAvoM ke bajAya vidheyAtmaka sujhAva hI jyAdA manovaijJAnika hote haiN| prema aura sahAnubhUti ke sAtha diyA gayA sujhAva hara vyakti ke lie svIkArya hotA hai| jaise-mAna lIjie baccA jarUrata se jyAdA caoNkaleTa khAtA hai| Apa use DA~Tiye mt| use batAiye ki caoNkaleTa meM amuka doSa hai| jyAdA khAne se dA~ta kharAba hoMge aura peTa meM kIr3e par3a jaaeNge| Apa premapUrvaka sujhAva dIjie, baccAAdarapUrvaka svIkAra kregaa| ___ sambhava hai, baccA jiddI ho, gussA karatA ho, yA usakI anya koI galata Adata par3a cukI ho| sIdhA nirdeza dene kI bajAya use pyAra se, sahAnubhUti se samajhAe~ ki kyA bhalA hai, kyA burA hai| jamAnA baccoM kA hai, kampyUTara kA jamAnA hai, sahI bAta ko, sahI preraNA ko vaha sIdhe grahaNa kara letA hai| tArkikatA Aja ke yuga kI vizeSatA hai| Apa apane sujhAva isa taraha deM ki usameM tarka ho, damana yA dabAva na ho, ApakI bAta sahaja dila ko chUne vAlI ho, Apa pAeMge Apake sujhAva kisI Adarza preraNA kA kAma kara rahe haiN| 000 ----- .---- - sujhAva dIjie premapUrvaka For Personal & Private Use Only

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baccoM ko dIjie behatarIna preraNA manuSya kI samasta vRttiyoM evaM kriyAoM kA koI-na-koI prerakatattva avazya hai|| jahA~ manuSya ko kisI prabuddha yA pratiSThita vyakti ke dvArA preraNA prApta hotI hai, vahIM usake jIvana meM samAyA huA svayaM kA prerakatattva use vibhinna kriyAoM evaM samAyojanoM ke lie protsAhana detA hai| aisI preraNA ko hama Atma-preraNA kahate haiN| ___ hamArI vibhinna vRttiyoM meM eka vRtti aisI bhI hai jo hameM vividha prakAra ke kArya karane ke lie prerita karatI hai| preraNA isI vRtti kA nAma hai| yaha anta:vRtti hai| kriyAnvayana vasamAcaraNa kI sthiti vAstava meM isa preraNAvRtti ke kAraNa hI utpanna hotI hai| manuSya kI anta:preraNA vRtti jaba use kisI kArya ko karane ke lie prerita karatI hai to vyakti apanI kriyA ko taba taka jArI rakhatA hai, jaba taka usake uddezya kI pUrti na ho jaae| preraNA-vRtti ke mukhyata: tIna hI kArya haiM-kriyA ko utpanna karanA, usa kriyA ko jArI rakhanA aura uddezya-pUrti na hone taka use samApta na hone ------------- 66 - For Personal & Private Use Only

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denaa| vuDavartha ne ThIka hI likhA hai- 'preraka-vRtti vyakti kI vaha avasthA athavA tatparatA hai jo use kisI vyavahAra ko karane ke lie evaM kinhIM uddezyoM ko prApta karane ke lie nirdezita karatI hai|' preraka vRttiyA~ vAstava meM do prakAra kI hotI haiM, jinameM ekatojanmajAta hotI hai aura dUsarI samAja dvArA arjita kI jAtI hai| janmajAta prerakavRttiyoM se abhiprAya una vRttiyoM se hai jo vyakti meM janma se pAyI jAtI haiN| aisI vRttiyoM kI tRpti vyakti anivAryata: cAhatA hai kyoMki ye zArIrika vRttiyA~ hotI haiN| jaise bhUkha, pyAsa, nIMda, kAma, mala-mUtra visarjana aadi| vRttiyA~ vAstava meM jIvana kI ati-Avazyaka zarIrajanita preraka vRttiyA~ haiM jinakI pUrti ke abhAva meM jaivikIya prazna-cihna laga jAtA hai| bhUkha vaha vRtti hai jisakA janma na kevala manuSya meM, varan prANimAtra meM hotA hai| bhojana manuSya kI AvazyakatA hai, prANimAtra kI AvazyakatA hai| zarIra ke vibhinna aMgoM dvArA lagAtAra kArya karate rahane para zarIra kI jo zakti naSTa ho jAtI hai, use dubArA prApta karane ke lie AhAra kI jarUrata ho jAtI hai, use dubArA prApta karane ke lie AhAra kI jarUrata par3atI hai| ___bhUkha kI pravRtti eka bar3e vyakti kI apekSA eka bacce meM jyAdA hotI hai| eka vyakti apanI bhUkha ko kaI ghaNToM taka bardAzta kara sakatA hai, kaI dinoM taka upavAsa kara sakatA hai, para bacce ke lie yaha saba saMbhava nahIM hai| bacce meM bhUkha kI pravRtti bar3I ugra hotI hai| use thor3I-thor3I dera meM hI bhUkha laga jAyA karatI hai| kaI mAtA-pitA bacce kI isa pravRtti se taMga ho uThate haiM jabaki bacce ko usakI bhUkha ke mutAbika premapUrvaka khAnA-pInA denA caahie| agara bacce ke lie yaha niyama banA diyA jAe ki use cAra-pA~ca bAra bhojana denA hai to aura bhI acchA rhegaa| isake dvArA usake zArIrika tathA mAnasika svAsthya ke sAtha-sAtha niyama aura anuzAsana kI pravRtti bhI jAgRta ho sakatI hai| ___pyAsa hamArI dUsarI preraka-vRtti hai| isa vRtti ke kAraNa hI vyakti jala cAhatA hai| hama jo jala pIte haiM vaha pasInA, pezAba aura zvAsa ke dvArA baccoM ko dIjie behatarIna preraNA 67 For Personal & Private Use Only

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niSkAsita ho jAtA hai| pAnI ke abhAva meM vyakti becainI aura vyagratA mahasUsa karane lagatA hai| ucita to yaha rahatA hai ki hama vaisA AhAra kareM jisameM pAnI kI mAtrA yA ArdratA paryApta ho| pAnI ke atirikta dUdha aura vibhinna sabjiyoM evaM phaloM meM bhI pAnI kI paryApta mAtrA hotI hai| bhUkha aura pyAsa kI taraha nIMda bhI hamArI eka janmajAta zArIrika vRtti hai| nIMda prANI-mAtra ke lie utanI hI jarUrI hai jitanA jIne ke lie bhojn| yaha hara prANI kI prAkRtika AvazyakatA hai| zArIrika aura mAnasika thakAna dUra karane ke lie nIMda lI jAtI hai| vayaskoM kI apekSA bacce jyAdA nIMda liyA karate haiN| navajAta zizu bIsa se bAIsa ghaNTe taka sote haiN| ve jaise-jaise bar3e hote haiM, vaise-vaise unake nIMda lene kA samaya kama hotA jAtA hai| eka varSa kI Ayu vAlA bAlaka pratidina caudaha se pandraha ghaNTe sotA hai| sAta varSa kA bAlaka gyAraha ghaNTe, dasa varSa kA nau-dasa ghaNTe jabaki aThAraha varSa ke bAlaka ko sAta-ATha ghaNTe sone kI AvazyakatA hotI hai| jo baccA apanI ucita mAtrA meM nIMda le letA hai, use zArIrika yA mAnasika thakAna mahasUsa nahIM hotI aura usake jIvana meM svAsthyakara pragati hotI hai| manuSya kI janmajAta preraka vRttiyoM meM kAma-pravRtti bar3I prabala hotI hai| phrAyaDa ne to ekamAtra isI pravRtti ke AdhAra para jIvana ke sampUrNa manovijJAna kA vizleSaNa kiyA hai| unake anusAra bacce dvArA mA~ kA stana yA apanA aMgUThA cUsanA bhI usakI kAma-pravRtti kA hI paricAyaka hai| umra kI bar3hotarI ke sAtha kAma-pravRtti kI abhivyakti meM bhI pharka A jAtA hai| bacapana meM mA~ se prema karane vAlA bAlaka kizora hone para viparIta liMga ko apane prema kA pAtra banA letA hai| kabhI-kabhI kizora mAnya prathAoM tathA paramparAoM kA atikramaNa kara gupa-cupa eka-dUsare se milakara apanI becainI dUra kara lete haiN| prema-patroM, prema-sandezoM yA premopahAroM dvArA bhI vyakti apanI kAma-pravRtti kI tRpti kara letA hai| manovaijJAnikoM ke anusAra kAma-pravRtti kA damana hamAre mAnasika aura zArIrika svAsthya ke lie ------------- 68 For Personal & Private Use Only

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ucita nahIM hai| acchA to yaha hai ki manuSya ko apanI yaha pravRtti sAhitya, saMgIta, kalA aura samAja-sevA kI ora mor3a denI caahie| ina janmajAta preraka-vRttiyoM ke atirikta kucha arjita preraka vRttiyA~ bhI hotI haiM jinake kAraNa vyakti meM icchA, abhiruci evaM lakSya kA vikAsa hotA hai| arjita pravRttiyoM meM kucha vyaktigata hotI haiM to kucha samAjajanya / vyaktigata preraka vRttiyA~ hara vyakti kI alaga-alaga hotI haiM / yaddhapi vRtti kA mUla to lagabhaga sabameM eka jaisA hotA hai, parantu usake stara meM pharka A jAtA hai| nizcita taura para hara vyakti apanI AkAMkSAoM se abhibhUta hotA hai kintu kucha loga bar3e mahattvAkAMkSI huA karate haiN| AkAMkSA ke stara meM pharka hone ke kAraNa hI eka vyakti to do-cAra hajAra rupaye kI naukarI meM saMtuSTa ho jAtA hai, vahIM anya vyakti apanI AkAMkSA kI tRpti ke lie lAkhoM-karor3oM kA vyavasAya karanA cAhatA hai / koI lar3akA bI. e. pAsa karanA cAhatA hai to koI zikSA kI AkhirI U~cAI ko chue bagaira paritRpta nahIM hotA / yaha bheda vAstava meM AkAMkSA ke stara meM hone vAle bheda ke kAraNa hai / pratyeka vyakti kA jIvana-lakSya bhI bhinna hotA hai| manuSya kI AtmA use jaisA banane kI preraNA degI, usakA lakSya vaisA hI ghaTita hotA calA jaaegaa| koI to vakIla bananA cAhatA hai to koI ddoNkttr| kisI kA lakSya oNphisara banane kA hotA hai to kisI kA vyApArI banane kA / jIvana-lakSya ke ina vividha rUpoM ke alAvA kucha aura bheda bhI najara Ate haiN| DaoNkTara bananA eka lakSaNa huA, kintu kucha loga isalie DaoNkTara bananA cAhate haiM ki ve ise janasevA kA upakrama mAnate haiN| kucha kA uddezya yaha hotA hai ki DaoNkTara banakara ve khUba paisA kmaaeNge| kucha loga isalie bhI DaoNkTara banate haiM tAki ve apanA aura apane parivAra kA svAsthya durusta rakha skeN| yaha bhI saMbhava hai ki koI bAlaka ina sabhI tathyoM se prerita hokara DaoNkTara banane ke baccoM ko dIjie behatarIna preraNA For Personal & Private Use Only 69

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lie prayatnazIla hotA hai| vAstava meM jIvana-lakSya hamArI anta:vRtti kI hI preraNA hai| preraka vRttiyoM ke calate hI vyakti meM kaI taraha kI AdateM bhI par3a jAtI haiN| preraka vRtti kA kAma vyakti ko kisI kArya-vizeSa ko karane ke lie utsAhita karanA hai| kisI kArya ko bAra-bAra karate rahane se usakI Adata par3a jAtI hai| thor3A samaya gujarane para to vaha Adata jIvana kI jar3oM meM isa kadara paiTha jAtI hai ki vaha eka prabala preraka vRtti kA rUpadhAraNa kara letI hai| yadi koI lar3akI rojAnA subaha uThate hI AIne meM apanA ceharA dekhatI hai to Adatavaza kisI dina AInA na milane para vaha taba taka becaina rahatI hai jaba taka vaha apane cehare ko AIne meM na dekha le| yadi kisI bacce kI Adata sigareTa yA zarAba pIne kI ghara kara jAe, to vyakti ke lie yaha preraka vRtti bar3IbhayAnaka sAbita hotI hai| koI bhI lar3akA yA vyakti zurU meM to isalie madyapAna yA madyavyasana karatA hai tAki vaha apane damana kA darda yA asaphalatAoM kI nirAzA se chuTakArA pA ske| para dhIre-dhIre usakA yaha prayAsa usakI Adata bana jAtI hai aura vaha Adata phira usakI majabUrI! __ hamAre jIvana kI jo sabase mahattvapUrNa vRtti hai, vaha hai abhiruci| jisakI jisa kSetra yA vastu ke prati ruci hotI hai, vaha usI ke prati jyAdA sakriya rahatA hai| ruci kI pragAr3hatA vAstava meM mana kI ekAgratA hai| saMbhava hai, kisI bacce ke lie gaNita kA viSaya bar3A bhArabhUta ho, parantu vahIM koI dUsarA baccA gaNita meM jyAdA ruci hone ke kAraNa usameM bar3A rasa letA hai| vAstava meM abhiruci vaha preraka vRtti hai jisameM sukha kA bhAva rahatA hai| usameM vAMchita vastuko prApta karane yA usake bAre meM kucha karane kI jJAnajanita pravRtti chipI rahatI hai| manovaijJAnikoM ke anusAra hara bacce meM anukUla aura pratikUla donoM taraha kI manovRttiyA~ hotI haiN| gharelU vAtAvaraNa ke sAtha samAyojana ho jAne ke kAraNa vyakti, jAti, samAja, deza aura dharma ke prati bacce ke mana meM kucha-na-kucha manovRtti to rahatI hI haiN| jinake prati bacce kI anukUla - - - - - 70 ---- kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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manovRtti ho jAtI hai, unako ve sabase zreSTha mAnane laga jAte haiM aura jinake prati unakI pratikUla manovRtti hotI hai, unako vegalata aura nikRSTa sAbita karane kI koziza karate haiN| eka muslima bacce dvArA kuraAna ko zreSTha yA rAmAyaNa ko sAdhAraNa kahane athavA kisI hindU bacce dvArA rAmAyaNa ko zreSTha yA kuraAna ko sAdhAraNa batAnA vAstava meM isa anukUla-pratikUla manovRtti kA hI pariNAma hai| para ye saba vyaktigata preraka vRttiyA~ haiN| kucha vRttiyA~ aisI hotI haiM jo sArvabhauma hone ke kAraNa sAmAjika kahI jAtI haiN| astitva ke hara aMza meM sAmudAyikatA yA sAmAjikatA kA spaSTa vyavahAra najara AtA hai| bacce ke mana meM isa preraka vRtti kA janma AzritatA ke phalasvarUpa hotA hai| sAmudAyikatA ke vikAsa kA sUtrapAta mA~ se hotA hai aura dhIre-dhIre samudAya yA samAja usake jIvana kI vaha anivArya kar3I bana jAtA hai jisake sAtha mila-julakara kAma karanA use suhAtA hai| sAmAjika pariveza meM jIne ke kAraNa manuSya ke mana meM yaha preraNA utpanna hotI hai ki vaha auroM ke bIca apanI sthApanA kaise kare? manuSya kI vaha vRtti hI vAstava meM Atma-gaurava kahalAtI hai| isa vRtti se Andolita hokara hI vyakti dUsaroM para apanA adhikAra jamAnA cAhatA hai, samAja kA netRtva karanA cAhatA hai aura auroM ke bIca apanI pratiSThA kAyama karanA cAhatA hai| hamAre mana meM jagane vAlI preraka vRttiyoM ke anekAneka vyAvahArika lAbha bhI haiN| preraka vRtti ke prabhAva-svarUpa hI samasta zArIrika tathA mAnasika kriyAe~ sampanna hotI haiN| apane uddezya kI ApUrti ke lie manuSya kI preraka vRttiyA~ jahA~ usameM zakti kA saMcAra karatI haiM, vahIM saphala hone para ve use gauravAnvita bhI mahasUsa karavAtI haiN| vyakti yA baccA jo bhI kriyAe~ karatA hai, vaha nizcita taura para kisI-na-kisI AvazyakatA se anuprerita hokara hI karatA hai| AvazyakatA kI pUrti hI vAstava meM uddezya kI pUrti hai| Akhira AvazyakatA ke kAraNa hI to usake vyavahAroM evaM kAryoM kA uddezya baccoM ko dIjie behatarIna preraNA 71 For Personal & Private Use Only

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taya hotA hai| kabhI-kabhI to preraka vRttiyA~ manuSya ko itanA adhika uttejita aura Andolita kara detI haiM ki vaha sAhasapUrvaka bar3I-se-bar3I jokhima uThAne ko taiyAra ho jAtA hai| preraka vRttiyA~ hameM apane kAma ke prati bar3I tatparatA pradAna karatI haiN| bhale hI koI baccA sAla bhara mauja-mastI manAtA ho, para parIkSA kA samaya najadIka Ate hI preraka vRttiyA~ use itanI adhika prerita karatI haiM ki vaha parIkSA kI taiyArI meM rAta-dina eka kara detA hai| preraka vRttiyoM ke kAraNa hI jahA~ vyakti kI sakriyatA sarvatobhAvena samagra hone lagatI haiM, vahIM usakI ApUrti na hone taka becainI bhI barakarAra rahatI hai| yadyapi becainI yA utAvalepana para bacce ko niyaMtraNa karanA cAhie, magara yaha bhI saca hai ki becainI vyakti ko usakI sakriyatA se mu~ha nahIM mor3ane detI hai| jinheM sahI nirdezana aura acchI zikSA prApta hotI hai, unameM preraka vRttiyoM kA vikAsa bhI utanA hI sazakta aura paripUrNa hotA hai| mArgadarzana yA ucita zikSA ke abhAva meM preraka vRttiyA~ to svabhAvata: jageMgI hI, parantu taba ve anaitika, asAmAjika yA avyAvahArika bhI ho sakatI haiN| eka bAta taya hai ki asAmAjika preraka vRttiyA~ jahA~ svayaM ke lie nukasAnadeha haiM, vahIM parivAra, par3osa aura samAja ke lie bhI avAMchita kadama haiN| 000 72 kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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caritra-nirmANa : zreSTha vyaktitva kI pUMjI cAhe koI bAlaka ho yA vayaska athavA bujurga, usakA caritra hI usake vyaktitva kA AdhAra aura sAmAjika sammAna kA kAraNa banatA hai| saphalatA-asaphalatA kA dyotaka caritrahI hai| yadi vaha saphala hai to jIvana saphala hai| yadi vaha viphala hai to jIvana asaphala hai| binA caritra kA iMsAna binA chata kA makAna hai| jahA~ vyaktitva ke nirmANa meM vyakti kI caritrazIlatA sabase mahattvapUrNa hai, vahIM isakI icchA-zakti aura sthAyI bhAvoM ke sampAdana meM bhI usakI aham bhUmikA hai| eka prabhAvazAlI vyaktitva ke lie jIvana meM mAnavocita guNoM kA sAkSAtkAra anivArya hai| mAnavIya guNoM kI carcA hote hI sahajatayA usakA sambandha cAritrika vikAsa ke sAtha jur3a jAtA hai| vyaktitva ke kAraNa vyakti kI pUjA hotI hai aura vyaktitva kA nirmANa mAnavIya tathA cAritrika guNoM ke kAraNa hotA hai| vyaktitva cAhe pArivArika ho yA sAmAjika, bagaira caritrazIlatA ke usakI na to vizvasanIyatA rahatI hai aura na hI prtisstthaa| ----------- caritra-nirmANa : zreSTha vyaktitva kI pUMjI 73 For Personal & Private Use Only

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cAritrika guNoM meM naitikatA aura dhArmikatA bhI sahajatayA pratiSThita rahatI haiN| cAritrikatA aura naitikatA kA vikAsa hI usakA vyaktitvavikAsa hai| yA isa yoM bhI kahA jA sakatA hai ki vyakti kA naitika vikAsa hI usakA cAritrika vikAsa hai| jIvana meM cAritrika upalabdhiyA~ naitika pratimAnoM se hI arjita hotI haiN| caritra svayaM meM eka mAnasika saMracanA hai| isI ke calate vyakti usa sAmAjika paramparA ke anukUla AcAra-vyavahAra karatA hai jisake bIca usakA astitva hai tathA usake vyaktitva kA vikAsa huA hai| caritra kevala icchA-zakti kA pariNAma, sthAyI bhAvoM kA nirmANa yA AdatoM kA samUha hI nahIM hai, varan tInoM kA sammilita prayAsa hai| icchA-zakti, zreSTha sthAyI bhAva va acchI AdateM hI vyakti ke caritra ko sarvatobhadra pUrNatA pradAna karatI hai| hara manuSya ke caritra ke tIna rUpa hote haiN| eka to vaha jaisA ki vaha, apane Apako samajhatA hai, dUsarA vaha, jaisA ki loga use samajhate haiM aura tIsarA vaha, jo ki vaha vAstava meM hai| Atma-pradarzana kI bhAvanA ke calate vyakti apane caritra ko bar3hA-car3hA kara bhI prastuta kara sakatA hai, para logoM kI pArakhI najara antata: usake vAstavika caritra ko pahacAna letI hai| caritra vahI mUlyavAn hotA hai, jo ki vAstavika ho| jahA~ bhItara-bAhara, kathanI-karanI meM pavitra ekarUpatA ho, vahI prAmANika caritra banatA hai| jhUThana bolanA, corI na karanA, galata dRSTi na DAlanA, jIvana meM niSThA, ImAna aura prAmANikatA rakhanA caritra ke prathama sopAna haiN| vyakti kI cAritrazIlatA kA sabase bar3A prabhAva yaha hotA hai ki samAja ke lie vaha vizvasta banA rahatA hai| saccaritra vyakti ke lie mauke-bemauke hara koI yaha dAvA karate hue dekhA jAtA hai ki hama usake prati nizcinta raheM kyoMki usase hameM koI khatarA nahIM hai| eka saccaritra vyakti apane irAdoM evaM lakSyoM ke prati na kevala neka hotA hai apitu apanI jimmedAriyoM ke prati ekaniSTha aura sAvaceta bhI hotA hai| - - - - - - - - 74 kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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jInA to vahI hai jo ijjata se jiyA jAe / beijjatI jIte-jI AtmahatyA hai| aisA caritra yA vyavahAra kisa kAma kA jisake kAraNa AdamI ko sau logoM ke bIca nIcA dekhanA pdd'e| vyakti kA caritra to itanA nirmala ho ki loga use apanI A~khoM meM basAnA caaheN| sammAna aura pratiSThA vAstava meM cAritra - vRkSa kI chAyA hai| caritra ke prati niSThA rakhane vAle loga sadA sakriya hote haiM, niSkriya nhiiN| saccaritra - puruSa apanI mehanata kI kamAI khAnA pasaMda karate haiM, kisI kI meharabAnI kI nhiiN| unakI nigarAnI ke lie cAhe koI 'suparavAijara' rakhA jAe yA nahIM, vaha apane karttavya ke prati kabhI lAparavAha nahIM hogA / usase jaba bhI milo, vyavahAra meM prasannatA jhalakatI dikhAI degii| cAhe nukasAna bhI kyoM na ho jAe, vaha nirAza nahIM hogA, varan usake uparAnta bhI apane kartavya ke mArga para DaTA rhegaa| nizcita taura para caritra kA mukhya sambandha hamAre sAmAjika vyavahAroM se hai, parantu isake sAtha hI Atma-sammAna ke sthAyI bhAva se bhI hai| samAja cAhe usake vyavahAra ko dekhe yA anadekhA rakhe, para vaha apanI saccAI aura ImAnadArI ko kabhI giravI nahIM rakhegA / caritra kA yaha stara naitika dRSTi se atyanta mahattvapUrNa upalabdhi hai / manuSya kA navajAta zizu - rUpa na sAmAjika hotA hai, na asAmAjika / vaha to hotA hai samAja - nirpekss| samAja ke bIca palane - bar3hane ke kAraNa usameM sAmAjika sApekSatA sAkAra hone lagatI hai| dhIre-dhIre vaha mAtApitA aura bhAI-bahina kI jarUrata aura vyAvahArikatA samajhane lagatA hai / vaha samajhane lagatA hai ki usake dvArA kisa prakAra kI kriyA karane se loga usase aprasanna yA prasanna hoNge| vaha apanI kriyAoM meM badalAva yA sudhAra karane lagatA hai aura naye vyavahAroM ko sIkhane lagatA hai / umra ke bar3hane ke sAtha usakI samajha meM bhI bar3hotarI hone lagatI hai| tIna varSa ke bAda usakI samajha-zakti durusta hone lagatI hai| vaha una kAmoM ko karanA adhika pasanda karatA hai jinake karane se use zAbAsI milatI hai| vaha usa pravRtti kI caritra-nirmANa : zreSTha vyaktitva kI pUMjI For Personal & Private Use Only 75

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punarAvRtti nahIM karanA cAhatA jisake kAraNa use pahale gandA yA zarAratI baccA kahA gayA ho / yadyapi apanI zarArata para baccA duHkha to prakaTa kara detA hai, para usake lie pazcAttApa nahIM hotaa| usakA jhUTha bolane kA koI irAdA nahIM hotA / vaha ImAnadArI aura beImAnI ke pharka ko bhI nahIM samajhatA / yaha isa umra kI anokhI dena hai| bAlyAvasthA ke uttarArddha meM bacce kA cAritrika vikAsa apanI gati pakar3a letA hai / ATha-nau varSa ke bacce ko yaha bhalI-bhA~ti samajha A jAtI hai ki use kyA karanA cAhie aura kisase paraheja rakhanA cAhie? galatI yA zarArata ho jAne para vaha cAhatA hai ki use usa zarArata ke lie mApha kara diyA jaae| daNDa use kataI acchA nahIM lgtaa| usake mana meM yaha icchA to prabala rahatI hai ki usake kAryoM kI sarAhanA kI jAe hAlAMki vaha samajhane lagatA hai ki kisI ko pIr3A denA, jhUTha bolanA, corI karanA, dhokhA denA yA tor3a-phor3a karanA ThIka nahIM hai, phira bhI nAdAnIvaza vaha yaha saba kara baiThatA hai| dasa varSa ke bacce meM kSobha aura pazcAttApa donoM kA vikAsa ho jAtA hai / acche-bure kA jJAna hone ke bAvajUda bAlyAvasthA meM sadAcAra-saMhitA kA pUrA vikAsa nahIM ho pAtA hai| kizorAvasthA jIvana kI vaha kar3I hai jo cAritrika guNoM ko eka prabala AdhAra detI hai| yahI to vaha umra hai jisameM Atma-sammAna kA sthAyI bhAva vikasita ho jAtA hai| isI se prerita hokara vaha aise kAmoM se paraheja rakhatA hai jo usake nirdhArita lakSya ke viparIta hoN| vaha naitika AdarzoM ko tarka kI kasauTI para kasane meM sakSama hotA hai / isa avasthA meM bacce meM rASTra-prema, paropakAra, sahAnubhUti aura anuzAsana jaise cAritrika guNoM ke saMskAra diye jAe~ to vyaktitva vikAsa aura sAmAjika vyavahAroM meM bar3e mahattvapUrNa parivartana ghaTita ho sakate haiN| aise saMskAroM ke dUragAmI sukhada pariNAma hote haiM / vyakti yA bacce meM sAmAjika AdarzoM, niyamoM evaM mAnyatAoM ke viruddha aisA kucha bhI vikasita nahIM honA cAhie jo use mAnavIya mUlyoM se 76 kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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vaMcita kre| bar3oM ko cAhie ki ve apane baccoM ke prati vAtsalyabharA vyavahAra kareM aura caritra - nirmANa ke lie ucita mArga-darzana bhI pradAna kareM / baccoM ke samucita cAritrika vikAsa ke lie pArivArika vAtAvaraNa aura pArivArika sambandhoM kA sauhArda aura saujanyapUrNa honA bhI Avazyaka hai| yadi mAtA-pitA Apasa meM kalaha karate haiM yA apane baccoM ko doharI dRSTi se dekhate haiM to baccoM ke caritra para isakA pratikUla asara hI hogaa| pArivArika vAtAvaraNa kI pratikUlatAoM ke kAraNa hI bacce meM krodha, jhUTha, corI, bhaya, palAyana, aparAdha jaise durguNoM kA prAdurbhAva ho jAtA hai| bacce ke svastha caritra ke lie parivAra ke sadasyoM meM paraspara sahayoga, prema aura apanApana honA cAhie / jahA~ parivAra kA svastha- saumya vAtAvaraNa Avazyaka hai, vahIM par3ausI kA sabhya honA bhI prabhAvakArI hai| parivAra kA vAtAvaraNa kitanA bhI svastha kyoM na ho, dUSita par3ausa usakI cAritrikatA ko prabhAvita aura kuNThita kie binA nahIM rahatA / zikSAlaya aura mitra - maNDalI kA bhI cAritrika vikAsa para acchA aura burA asara par3atA hai| buddhi ekAnta meM vikasita hotI hai aura caritra saMga-sAtha se| acche zikSArthI ke lie zikSakoM kA acchA honA bhI aparihArya hai / zikSAlaya zikSA aura jJAna-arjana karane kA kendra hai aura zikSaka una zikSAoM ke pratipAdaka / abhibhAvakoM ko cAhie ki ve apane baccoM ko aise skUla meM praveza dilAe~ jisase unake baccoM ko cAritrika aura naitika vikAsa kA sahI avasara prApta ho ske| abhibhAvakoM ko yaha bhI dhyAna rakhanA cAhie ki unake bacce aise mitroM ke sAtha khAnA - khelanA na kareM jinakI pravRttiyA~ dUSita hoN| acche cAritrika vikAsa ke lie acche mitroM kA saMsarga vAMchanIya hai / isake sAtha hI baccoM ko aisI pustakeM par3hane ke lie dI jAnI cAhie jo rocaka hone ke sAtha mAnavIya bhAvanAoM ko bhI sikhAe~ / dUradarzana yA caritra-nirmANa : zreSTha vyaktitva kI pUMjI For Personal & Private Use Only 77

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AkAzavANI se prasArita hone vAle ve kAryakrama bhI dikhAe~ jo baccoM ke cAritrika vikAsa meM sahayoga deN| dhyAna rakheM, vyakti kI AdateM hI usakA caritra banAtI haiM isalie behatara mAnasikatA aura AdatoM ke lie sajaga rahanA caahie| acche caritra ke lie kRpayA acchA vyavahAra kIjie, acche vyavahAra ke lie acchI AdateM ddaalie| acchI AdatoM ke lie acchI soca rkhie| acchI soca ke lie acchI pustakeM, acchA vAtAvaraNa, acchI sohabata ko mahattva diijie| Akhira jIvana kI bagiyA meM caritra ke vahI phUla khileMge jaisA hama usameM bIja boeNge| acche phaloM ko pAne ke lie acche bIja boiye| 000 78 kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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S thArmika mUlyoM kA vyaktitva-nirmANa se sambandha __ mAnavIya mUlyoM ke prati AsthA jIvana meM naitikatA kA vikAsa hai| cAhe naitikatA ho yA dhArmikatA, yaha janmajAta guNa na hokara samAja aura vAtAvaraNa se upArjita zreSTha mUlya hai| vizvasanIyatA, caritrazIlatA, karmaThatA, kAryadRr3hatA, prasannatA aura AzAvAditA naitikatA ke pragatizIla caraNa haiN| yadyapi ye naitika tathya dharma kI vyAvahArika abhivyaktiyA~ haiM, kintu jIvana meM dhArmika vikAsa kA sambandha usa vikAsa se hai jisameM vyaktikA AtmA-paramAtmA, svarga-naraka, pApa-puNya, devI-devatA, pUjApATha Adi ke prati vizvAsa hotA hai| inake alAvA dhairya, kSamA, icchAdamana, indriya-vijaya, satya, acaurya Adi sadguNoM kA vikAsa bhI dhArmika vikAsa kahalAtA hai| naitikatA caritrazIlatA ke prati AsthA hai| caritra-vikAsa kI zurUAta to jIvana ke zaizavakAlasehI ho jAtI hai, parantudhArmika vikAsa ke lie bAlaka kA kama-se-kama do varSa kA honA jarUrI hai| yadyapi dhArmika mUlyoM kA vyaktitva-nirmANa se sambandha ---- ----79 - - For Personal & Private Use Only

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dhArmikatA ko vyakti kA janmajAta guNa mAnA jAtA hai, tathApidhArmikatA kAbhAva janmajAta na hokara yA to pArivArika vAtAvaraNa se arjita hotA hai yA phira anubhava se| dhArmika vikAsa ke silasile meM eka mahattvapUrNa tathya yaha bhI hai ki bAlaka kA parivAra jisa dharma ko mAnane vAlA hotA hai, bAlaka ke mana meM unhIM dhArmika pratimAnoM kA vikAsa hotA hai| ___ jIvana meM dhArmika vikAsa dhIre-dhIre kramaza: hotA hai| janma se do varSa taka kI avasthA meM dhArmika tattvoM ko samajhanA bAlaka ke lie bahuta kaThina hai| isa umra meM baccA jyAdA-se-jyAdA Izvara kI prArthanA se sambandhita kucha gine-cune zabda hI doharA sakatA hai| svarga-naraka yA pApapuNya usake lie koI artha nahIM rkhte| bhagavAna kI prArthanA kA prema aura sukha to use taba mahasUsa hone lagatA hai jaba vaha pA~ca varSa kA ho jAtA hai| sunI-sunAyI yA raTI-raTAyI prArthanA ko nitya-prati bolane se use bar3A Ananda milatA hai| cUMki isa avasthA meM naitikatA kA eka sImA taka hI vikAsa ho pAtA hai, isalie vaha bhagavAna se eka acchA 'bAlaka' banane kI prArthanA karatA hai| prArthanA ke samaya pA~ca-chaha varSa kA bAlaka yaha mAnatA hai ki bhagavAna AkAza meM rahate haiN| ve vahIM se hI hamAre acche aura bure kAryoM kA nirIkSaNa karate haiN| vaha yaha mAnA karatA hai ki acchA kArya karane para bhagavAna use acchA phala deMge aura bure kArya ke lie daNDa deNge| kaThinAI mahasUsa hone para yA daNDa milane para baccA yaha mahasUsa kiyA karatA hai ki bhagavAna usase ruSTa haiM, tabhI to use yaha daNDa bhoganA par3a rahA hai| natIjana vaha galatiyoM ke lie mana-hI-mana bhagavAna se mAphI mAMgatA hai| ____baccA mAtA-pitA ke sAtha pUjA-pATha ke lie mandira meM jAtA hai, satsaMga ke lie unake sAtha gurujanoM ke pAsa jAtA hai| mAtA-pitA mandira meM jaisA karate haiM, baccA unheM yA to cupacApa dekhatA rahatA hai yA unakA anukaraNa karatA hai| bacce ke mana meM aise kSaNoM meM maTha-mandira, devI-devatA, pUjA-pATha yA svarga-naraka ke bAre meM jijJAsA utpanna hotI hai| vaha mAtA-------------- kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa 80 For Personal & Private Use Only

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pitA se aneka prazna pUchatA hai aura isa prakAra bacce meM dhArmika tattvoM evaM kriyAoM ke prati eka vizeSa dhAraNA kA nirmANa hotA hai| dasa-bAraha varSa kI avasthA meM bacce kA dhArmika vikAsa bar3I tIvragati se hotA hai| cUMki taba taka usakI buddhi, jJAna aura anubhava kA vikAsa ho jAtA hai, isalie vaha anukaraNa kI bajAya khuda apane Apa hI prArthanA yA anya dhArmika vyavahAra karatA hai| isa umra meM agara bAlaka ko rocaka dhArmika pustakeM dI jAe~ to vaha dhArmika bhAvanAoM ko aura jyAdA drutagati se pakar3a sakatA hai| dhArmika vikAsa ke kAraNa baccA galata kAryoM se paraheja rakhatA hai, acche kAryoM meM dilacaspI letA hai kyoMki vaha jAna letA hai ki acche karmoM kA phala acchA hotA hai aura bure kA buraa| dhArmika vikAsa kA sabase bar3A phAyadA yahI hai ki baccA dhArmika aura naitika AdarzoM ke prati AsthA rakhatA hai, sAtha meM Adarza jIvana ko vyatIta karane kA prayatna karatA hai| dhArmika vicAra aura kriyAoM meM krAntikArI parivartana to kizorAvasthA meM hote haiN| isa avasthA meM bAlaka jahA~ apanI hI bAlyAvasthA meM arjitadhArmika anubhavakI saccAI para zaMkAe~ karane lagatA hai, vahIM usake dimAga meM naye-naye prakAra ke prazna bhI paidA hote haiN| janmamRtyu, svarga-mokSa, AtmA-paramAtmA yAaucitya-anaucitya ke bAre meM vaha praznavAcaka dRSTi se khuda bhI socatA hai aura samAdhAna mile bagaira vaha santuSTa nahIM hotaa| vaha dhArmika tattvoM aura vyavahAroM ko tarka kI kasauTI para bhI kasanA cAhatA hai| ata: jarUrI hai ki kizorAvasthA meM bAlaka ko dhArmika vyavahAroM kI vAstavikatA va upayogitAko vaijJAnika aura bauddhika dRSTi se samajhAyA jaae| agara santoSajanaka javAba na milA to vaha dhArmika vicAroM ko kapola-kalpita aura managaMr3hata samajha baitthegaa| vaha unakI anupAlanA ke prati utsAhita nahIM hogaa| bahudhA aisA bhI hotA hai ki apane beTe ko dhArmika vyavahAroM ke prati prazna yA saMdeha karane para mAtA-pitA use 'nAstika' kahane kI bhUla kara dhArmika mUlyoM kA vyaktitva-nirmANa se sambandha 1 - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - For Personal & Private Use Only

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baiThate haiN| pariNAma yaha hotA hai ki usakI jijJAsA kA damana ho jAtA hai aura vaha dharma - vimukha hokara dhArmika vyavahAroM ko korA pAkhaNDa mAnane lagatA hai| vAstava meM baccoM ko DA~Ta nahIM, varan apane praznoM kA samAdhAna caahie| ucita to yaha hai ki dhArmika jJAna ke abhAva meM mAtA-pitA yadi unheM saMtoSajanaka uttara na de sakeM to unheM prabuddha logoM se prazna pUchane kI salAha deN| baccoM ko unake praznoM ke dhArmika samAdhAna ke lie kucha sambandhita pustakeM dI jAe~ tAki ve khuda chAnabIna kara svayaM santuSTa ho sakeM / dhArmika dRSTi se bAlakoM kI pandraha se satraha varSa kI avasthA aura bAlikAoM kI caudaha-pandraha varSa kI avasthA vAstava meM antardvandva kI avasthA hai| ve bhaTakAva kI sthiti se gujareM, usase pahale dhArmika vikAsa eka nizcita aura Adarza rUparekhA taiyAra ho jAnI cAhie tAki jIvana kA mArga niSkaMTaka aura prazasta hone meM suvidhA rhe| vaijJAnika aura buddhigamya dharma hI Acarita ho pAtA hai| isalie dharma ke kisI bhI vicAra, siddhAnta yA dRSTi ko sthApita karane se pahale usakI vaijJAnikatA aura vyAvahArikatA avazya tola lenI caahie| aMdhazraddhA prabuddha mAnavatA ke dvArA sambhava nahIM hai| iMsAna hokara iMsAna ke kAma AnA, dInaduHkhiyoM kI sevA karanA dharma kA vyAvahArika svarUpa hai to mana ke doSoM va vikAroM ko dUra karanA dharma kA mUla svarUpa hai| jIvana meM zreSThatA, zuddhatA arjita karane ke lie hameM dharma ke ina donoM mApadaNDoM ko jInA caahie| 000 82 kaise kareM vyaktitva - vikAsa For Personal & Private Use Only

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vyaktitva - vikAsa kI maulika saMbhAvanAe~ jIvana - vikAsa kA sambandha vyakti ke vyaktitva vikAsa se hai / jIvana kA udAtta svarUpa hI usakA vyaktitva hai / jisa vyakti kA apanA koI vyaktitva nahIM hotA, nizcita rUpa se usake jIvana kI koI pahacAna nahIM bana pAtI hai| vyaktitva jIvana kI prabhAvI abhivyakti hai| vyaktitva ke nirmANa aura vikAsa ke lie jIvana ke Antarika aura bAhya pahalU ke bIca gatyAtmaka samanvaya sthApita karanA hotA hai / yadyapi vyaktitva kA stara bAhya guNoM ke dvArA AMkA jAtA hai, kintu vyaktitva jIvana kI mAtra bAhya abhivyakti nahIM hai, apitu usakA antarjagat bhI usakA pramukha hissA hai| manuSya kevala zarIra yA mana nahIM hai| vaha mana aura zarIra kA saMgaThana hai| Antarika aura bAhya saMgaThana ke kAraNa hI vyakti ko 'mana: zArIrika prANI kahA jAtA hai / vyaktitva vikAsa ke lie zArIrika, gatyAtmaka, saMvegAtmaka, mAnasika, sAmAjika, cAritrika, naitika Adi vibhinna pahaluoM kA samagra vyaktitva vikAsa kI maulika saMbhAvanAe~ 83 - For Personal & Private Use Only

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vikAsa karanA hotA hai| manuSya jaba isa virAT saMsAra meM janma letA hai to mUla pravRttiyoM ke rUpa meM vaha apane avikasita vyaktitva ko sAtha lekara paidA hotA hai| vyakti apane jIvana ke vikAsa-kAla meM jahA~ apanI janmajAta vilakSaNatAoM ke AdhAra para vAtAvaraNa se samAyojana sthApita karatA hai, vahIM anukUla evaM pratikUla paristhitiyoM ke prati pratikriyAe~ bhI vyakta karatA hai| vyaktitva kevala janmajAta guNa nahIM hai, varan sAmAjika sandarbho meM vyakti apane guNoM kA parimArjana evaM abhivardhana bhI karatA hai| vyakti kA eka vyaktitva vaha hotA hai jise janmajAta vyaktitva kahanA cAhie aura dUsarA vyaktitva kA vaha rUpa hai jo samAja evaM vAtAvaraNa se samAyojita hone ke bAda arjita hotA hai| janmajAta vyaktitva aura arjita vyaktitva meM paraspara pragAr3hasambandha hotA hai| eka prakAra se vyakti samAja se unhIM guNoM ko upArjita karane ke lie rucizIla hotA hai jinakA janmajAta vyaktitva ke sAtha tAlamela ho| vAstava meM vyaktitva eka gatyAtmaka saMgaThana hai| gatyAtmaka hone ke kAraNa hI vyaktitva meM parivartana A jAyA karate haiN| eka DAkU kA vyaktitva rAmAyaNa-racanAkAra kA bana jAtA hai, vahIM eka brahmajJAnI kA vyaktitva sItA-haraNa karane vAlA bana jAtA hai| vyaktitva kI agara sahI paribhASA karanI ho to yahI kahanA upayukta hogA ki janmajAta aura arjita vilakSaNatAoM evaM Antarika aura bAhya pahaluoM kA gatyAtmaka samanvaya hI vyaktitva hai| vyaktitva jIvana kA vaha viziSTa saMgaThana hai jise hama dUsare zabdoM meM arjita saMskAroM va pravRttiyoM kA yoga kaha sakate haiN| yahI tovaha mana:zArIrikataMtra hai jo vyakti ke vAtAvaraNa se abhiyojana ko nirdhArita karatA hai| janmajAta saMsthAnoM, AvegoM, pravRttiyoM, ruciyoM, mUlapravRttiyoM, anubhavoM, saMskAroM evaM yogyatAoM kI saMyukta kAryavAhI hI vAstava meM vyaktitva kI AdhAra-bhUmikA banatI hai| ___vyaktitva ke nirmANa meM mukhyata: zArIrika, mAnasika aura sAmAjika guNoM kA samAveza kiyA jAtA hai| zArIrika guNoM ke antargata vyakti ke - kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa 84 For Personal & Private Use Only

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zarIra kI lambAI-caur3AI, gaThana, AvAja, cehare kI abhivyakti, raMga, pozAka Adi cIjeM zAmila hotI haiN| jina vyaktiyoM meM svAsthyakara aura uccakoTi ke zArIrika guNa pAe jAte haiM, ve dUsaroM ko apane vyaktitva se prabhAvita karane meM jaldI saphala ho jAte haiN| mAnasika guNoM ke vikAsa ke lie jJAna, icchA evaM kriyA ke dvArA buddhi, svabhAva va caritra kA nirmANa kiyA jAtA hai| vyaktitva ke sahI vikAsa ke lie buddhi kA sahI vikAsa honA jarUrI hai| maMda buddhi ke vyakti kA vyaktitva bhI maMda hI hotA hai| buddhU kyA khAka prabhAvita karegA! utkRSTa vyaktitva ke lie utkRSTa buddhi hI pahalA caraNa hai| icchA mana kA dUsarA bhAga hai| icchA se udvega kA nirmANa hotA hai aura udvega se svabhAva kaa| svabhAva ke AdhAra para hI vyakti ke cAra rUpa dikhAI dete haiM AzAvAdI, nirAzAvAdI, cir3acir3e aura sthir| icchA kI taraha kriyA bhI mana kI hI eka prakriyA hai| kriyA kA svarUpa caritra hai| cAritrika-vikAsa vyaktitva-vikAsa kA atyanta anivArya caraNa hai| caritrahIna vyakti ke kArya meM na to dRr3hatA hotI hai aura na hI vishvsniiytaa| gAMdhIjI jaise loga apane saccaritra-vyaktitva ke bala para hI vizva dvArA samAdRta hote haiN| ___vyaktitva ke nirmANa meM sAmAjika guNoM kI upalabdhi vAstava meM hamAre vyaktitvako sarvAdhika vyAvahArika aura prabhAvaka banAtI hai| cUMki vyakti kA janma aura vyaktitva kA vikAsa sAmAjika vAtAvaraNa ke bIca hotA hai, isalie sAmAjika guNoM ko AtmasAt karanA pratyeka vyakti ke lie Avazyaka hai| bahuta sAre loga to samAja se kaTe-kaTe hI rahate haiM to kaI milanasAra bhI hote haiN| kucha loga aise bhI hote haiM jo AkrAmaka svabhAva ke hote haiN| vAstava meM hara vyakti meM sAmAjikatA kI alaga-alaga mAtrA hotI hai| zArIrika, mAnasika evaM sAmAjika guNoM ko arjita kara lenA hI paryApta nahIM hai| unameM dRr3hatA honI bhI jarUrI hai| lakSya ke prati dRr3hatA ke vyaktitva vikAsa kI maulika saMbhAvanAe~ For Personal & Private Use Only

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kAraNa hI mauhammada gaurI, mahArANA pratApa, zivAjI, nepoliyana, svAmI vivekAnanda, subhASacanda bosa Adi apane-apane kSetra meM vijayI aura yazasvI hue| vAstava meM dRr3hatA hamAre vyaktitva kA hI eka abhinna guNa hai| hamArI mAnasika dRr3hatA hI hamameM nirNaya-zakti kA vikAsa karatI hai| jIvana kI saphalatA meM jisa icchA-zakti, AtmavizvAsa aura sAhasa kI jarUrata hotI hai, vaha vAstava meM hamArI mAnasika dRr3hatA kA hI pariNAma hai| ____ yadi hama vargIkaraNa kI dRSTi se vyaktitva kA nirIkSaNa kareM to mUlyoM kI dRSTi se jJAnAtmaka, saundaryAtmaka, Arthika, dhArmika, rAjanItika aura sAmAjika vyaktitva hote haiN| yadi hama zArIrika racanA kI dRSTi se vicAra kareM to kucha vyaktitva aise bhI hote haiM jo ArAmapriya, sAmAjika aura unmAda-viSAdayukta hote haiN| kucha vyaktitva suDaula, tandurusta, vyavahArakuzala aura sAmAjika kriyAzIla hote haiN| kucha vyaktitva aise bhI hote haiM jo dubale-patale, svapnadarzI, bhAvuka, utsAhahIna aura ekAntapriya hote haiN| aise vyaktitva bhI hote haiM jinameM saba prakAra ke guNoM kA mizraNa hotA hai| svabhAva kI dRSTi se bhI vyaktitva-bheda pAyA jAtA hai| svabhAva ke anusAra mukhyata: tIna prakAra ke vyaktitva hote haiM - (1) ArAmadAyaka, bhojanapriya, premAbhilASI (2) spaSTabhASI, karmaTha, pratiyogI, zaktizAlI, adhikArapriya, sAhasI, uccabhASI (3) saMvedanazIla, saMkocazIla, ekAntapriya, mndbhaassii| manovaijJAnikoM ne vyaktitva para vibhinna dRSTiyoM se anuzIlana kiyA hai| yadi hama vistAra se bacanA cAheM to vyaktitva ke sAra rUpa meM do bheda kiye jA sakate haiN| unameM eka to antarmukhI vyaktitva hai aura dUsarA bahirmukhI vyktitv| vyaktitva kA yaha vargIkaraNa vayaskoM para to pUrI taraha lAgU hotA hI hai, bAlya-jIvana meM bhI ise lAgU kiyA jA sakatA hai| do-tIna varSa ke bacce meM bhI antarmukhI va bahirmukhI vyaktitva ke lakSaNa pAe jAte haiN| --- kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa 86 For Personal & Private Use Only

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antarmukhI vyaktitva kA sambandha bAhara se bhItara kI ora mur3anA hai jabaki bahirmukhI vyaktitva bhItara se bAhara kI or| antarmukhI vyakti apanI jIvana-zakti ko andara kI ora prerita karate haiM, vahIM bahirmukhI use bAhara kI or| ___ antarmukhI loga prAya: kamabolate haiN| unakI prakRti bhI kucha zarmilI hotI hai aura bhAva va vicAroM meM khoye rahanA mAno unakA svabhAva hotA hai| khela kI apekSA inakI ruci par3hane-likhane meM jyAdA hotI hai| dUsare loga unase prasanna raheM, isa viSaya meM unakA koI vizeSa prayAsa nahIM rhtaa| isIlie vebhIr3a-bhAr3a meM rahanA pasanda nahIM krte| vyAvahArika jIvana kI apekSA ve saiddhAntika jIvana kI ora jyAdA unmukha hote haiN| antarmukhI vyaktitva meM jo sabase bar3I vizeSatA pAyI jAtI hai vaha yaha hai ki isa guNa ke dhanI hara kArya ko bar3e soca-samajhakara karate haiN| eka acche lekhaka, dArzanika, kalAkAra yA vaijJAnika banane ke lie vyakti kA antarmukhI vyaktitva eka asAdhAraNa bhUmikA adA kara sakatA hai| bahirmukhI vyakti jIvana-zakti ko bAhara kI ora prerita karate haiN| bahirmukhI logoM meM jahA~ kriyAzIlatA hotI hai, vahIM vyAvahArikatA bhI pAyI jAtI hai| Atma-pradarzana kI bhAvanA hone ke kAraNa aise vyakti yA bacce phainsI kapar3e pahanate haiM aura bar3hA-car3hA kara bAteM bhI karate haiN| ve AtmaprazaMsA to karate hI haiM, dUsaroM se bhI prazaMsA karAnA cAhate haiN| khelanA yA manoraMjana ke anya kArya-kalApa bahirmukhI vyaktitva kI pahacAna hai| naitika evaM cAritrika AdarzoM ke prati inameM koI dRr3ha yA saiddhAntika AsthA nahIM hotii| sAmAjika kAryoM ko karane meM unakI dilacaspI jarUra hotI hai, para inakA parama dhyeya to yahI hotA hai ki jIvana ko ArAma aura AnaMda se aizvaryapUrvaka bitAyA jaae| bahirmukhI vyaktitva hI prAya: kara acche vaktA, rAjanItika yA samAja-sudhAraka banate haiN| ___ jIvana evaM vyaktitva ke Antarika evaM bAhya pahaluoM ke bIca eka . santulana aura samAyojana apekSita hai| vyaktitva kA kevala antarmukhI vyaktitva vikAsa kI maulika saMbhAvanAe~ --- For Personal & Private Use Only

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honA yA kevala bahirmukhI honA vyakti kA sArvabhauma vikAsa nahIM hai| vyaktitva ke sampUrNa vikAsa ke lie jahA~ kriyAzIlatA, vyAvahArikatA, sAmAjikatA evaM lokapriyatA Avazyaka hai, vahIM kartavyoM kA pAlana karate hue saiddhAntika jIvana kI ora unmukha rahanA bhI aparihArya hai| __ vyakti ko jahA~ anAvazyaka hiMsA, jhUTha aura saMgraha se bacanA cAhie, vahIM paropakAra, karuNA aura sevA ke lie bhI prayatnazIla rahanA caahie| eka acchA vaktA honA eka acchI bAta hai, parantu apane vaktavya ke viruddha AcaraNa karanA vyakti kI galata manodazA hai| eka spaSTavAdI vyakti ke lie yaha gauratalaba hai ki vaha aisA koI saMbhASaNa na kare, jo apriya yA ahitakara ho| eka spaSTabhASI hone ke bajAya vivekabhASI honA behatara hai| adhikArapriya honA galata nahIM hai kintu dUsaroM ke adhikAroM kA hanana karanA galata hai| saMkoca karane kI bajAya saMyama baratanA acchA hai| cUMki vyaktitva kA nirmANa kaI tattvoM ke milane se hotA hai isalie yaha jarUrI hai ki una sabhI pahaluoM para dhyAna diyA jAe jo vyaktitva ko prabhAvita karate haiN| vyakti ko apane jIvana meM zArIrikatA, kriyAtmakatA, mAnasikatA, saMvegAtmakatA, sAmAjikatA, naitikatA aura dhArmikatA kA samucita vikAsa karanA caahie|shriir-sausstthv, karmaThatA, anudvignatA, mana kI nirmalatA, pArasparika AtmIyatA, saccaritratA, vyavahAra-kuzalatA Adi ke prati vyakti ko nirantara saceSTa evaM sakriya rahanA caahie| bAlya jIvana meM eka bAta vizeSa dhyAna rakhanI cAhie ki bAlaka bhagnAzA yA hInatA kI bhAvanA se grasita na hone paae| hInatA kI bhAvanA se hI baccoM meM lajjA, cintA, bhaya, becainI, AkrAmakatA Adi pravRttiyA~ ghara kara letI haiN| ___mAtA-pitA ke bIca Adarza santulana honA bhI Avazyaka hai| baccoM ke vyaktitva para mAtA-pitA ke vyavahAra kA vizeSa prabhAva par3atA hai| bacce keyogya vyaktitva ke lie mAtA-pitA ke jIvana ke AdarzavalakSya pratikUla nahIM honA caahie| baccoM ko usa par3ausa, mitra yA vAtAvaraNa se dUra rakhanA --- -------- kaise kareM vyaktitva-vikAsa - - 88 For Personal & Private Use Only

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cAhie jo usameM aparAdha pravRttiyoM ko bar3hAvA deN| sabase acchA to yaha rahatA hai ki mAtA-pitA, abhibhAvaka yA zikSaka kizora tathA kizoriyoM kI samasyAoM ko sAmane rakhate hue unake prati soca-samajhakara vyavahAra kareM aura unheM bhAvI jIvana meM saphalatA pAne ke lie yathocita mArgadarzana bhI pradAna kareM / - svAsthya, bauddhikatA evaM AtmavizvAsa vyaktitva ke sabase behatara AyAma haiN| jIvana meM inakA pUrNatayA vikAsa ho, vyakti ko isake lie nirantara prayatnazIla rahanA caahie| zikSA, saMskAra aura abhyAsa dvArA janmajAta pravRttiyoM ko bhI vAMchita dizA kI ora parivartita kiyA jA sakatA hai / isa prakAra vyaktitva ke nirmANa evaM vikAsa meM naitikatA evaM sAmAjikatA ko bar3hAvA dene vAlI pravRttiyoM ko pramukhatA dI jAnI caahie| hama apane vyaktitva se dUsaroM ko prabhAvita karane kA prayAsa kareM, isakI bajAya hamArA vyaktitva hI aisA ho ki dUsare sahajatayA hamase prabhAvita hoN| hamArA vyaktitva itanA sazakta aura saphala ho ki dUsare loga bhI hamAre jaisA apanA vyaktitva banAne ke lie prerita hoM / padmazrI yA padma vibhUSaNa hI nahIM, hara vyakti rASTra-ratna ho / hamArA saphala vyaktitva hI vAstava meM hamArI samasta saphalatAoM kA sUtradhAra hai / - 000 vyaktitva vikAsa kI maulika saMbhAvanAe~ For Personal & Private Use Only 89

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dharma aura jIvana-sApekSa ciMtana-pradhAna viziSTa sAhitya (alpamolI sAhitya,lAgata se bhI kama mUlya para) aise jie~ : zrI candraprabha jIne kI zailI aura kalA ko ujAgara karatI vizva-prasiddha pustaka / svastha, prasanna aura madhura-jIvana kI rAha dikhAne vAlI prkaash-kirnn| paSTha 110, mUlya 15/dhyAnayoga : vidhi aura vacana : mahopAdhyAya lalitaprabha sAgara dhyAna-zivira meM diye gae pravacana evaM anubhavoM kA amRta Akalana; sAtha hI dhyAna-yoga kI vistRta vidhi / eka carcita pustaka / pRSTha 148, mUlya 30/ika sAdhe saba sadhe : zrI candraprabha jIvana ko naI cetanA aura dizA pradAna karane vAlA jIvana-sApekSa AdhyAtmika cintana / dhyAna-sAdhakoM ke lie vizeSa upayogI / pRSTha 148, mUlya 30/jAgo mere pArtha : zrI candraprabha gItA para diye gae viziSTa AdhyAtmika aThAraha pravacanoM kA anUThA saMkalana / gItA kI samaya-sApekSa jIvanta vivecanA / bhAratIya jIvana-dRSTi ko ujAgara karatA prasiddha graMtha / eka bAra avazya pddh'e| pRSTha 250, mUlya 40/mahAjIvana kI khoja : zrI candraprabha dharma aura adhyAtma kA samanvaya sthApita karatA ekasampradAyAtIta grantha / AcArya kuMdakuMda, yogIrAja AnaMdaghana evaM zrImad rAjacandra ke sUtroM evaM padoM para diye gaye atyanta gahanagaMbhIra pravacana / pRSTha 140, mUlya 25/samaya kI cetanA : zrI candraprabha samaya aura kAla kA hara dRSTi se mUlyAMkana karate hue samayabaddha jIvana jIne kI preraNA dene vAlI paThanIya pustaka / pRSTha 128, mUlya 15/prema kI jhIla meM, dhyAna ke phUla : zrI candraprabha prema kI rasamayatA aura dhyAna kI gaMbhIratA- donoM ko eka hI pAtra meM ur3elatI eka pyArI pustaka / ___ pRSTha 90, mUlya 15/paMchI lauTe nIr3a meM : zrI candraprabha antara-sAdhanA evaM vyaktitva-vikAsa ke sUtroM ko manovaijJAnika tarIke se ujAgara karatA eka paThanIya grantha / pRSTha 160, mUlya 30/ For Personal & Private Use Only

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saMbodhi: zrI candraprabha hamArA hara kadama hoza aura bodhapUrvaka sampAdita ho, saMbodhi-sAdhanA kI yaha pahalI aura aMtima preraNA hai / saMbodhi-sAdhanA ke mahattvapUrNa pahaluoM para udbodhana / sarvajana hitAya; sarvajana sukAya / pRSTha 100, mUlya 15/prAkRta sUkti koza : zrI candaprabha prAkRta-bhASA evaM Agama-sAhitya kI sUktiyoM kA vizvakoSa; sandarbha evaM hindI anuvAda sahita / zrI nAkor3AtIrtha kA prakAzana / ___pRSTha 330, mUlya 40/jie~ to aise jie~ : zrI candraprabha hamArI soca aura zailI me hI chipA hai jIvana kI hara saphalatA kA rAja / svastha, prasanna aura madhura jIvana kI rAha dikhAne vAlIanUThI pustk| pustaka mahala, dillI kA abhinava prakAzana / pRSTha 128, mUlya 30/vyaktitva-vikAsa : mahopAdhyAya candraprabha sAgara jIvana aura vyaktitva ke bahuAyAmI pahaluoM para eka behatarIna bAla-manovaijJAnika prakAzana / pRSTha 112, mUlya 15/mAraga sA~cA mila gayA : mahopAdhyAya candraprabha sAgara adhyAtma-puruSa zrImad rAjacandra ke pramukha padoM para mAnaka pravacana / AtmabhAvI pAThakoM ke lie svAdhyAya kI zreSTha sAmagrI / pRSTha 100, mUlya 15/paryuSaNa-pravacana : zrI candraprabha paryuSaNa-parva ke pravacanoM ko ghara-ghara taka pahu~cAne ke lie eka pyArA prakAzana; bhASA sarala, prastuti vaijJAnika / par3heM, kalpasUtra ko apanI bhASA meM / pRSTha 112, mUlya 20/jina-sUtra : zrI candraprabha bhagavAna mahAvIra kI amRta vANI ke nitya paThana evaM preraNA ke lie taiyAra kiyA gayA viziSTa saMkalana; samaNasuttaM kA saMkSipta/saMzodhita rUpa / adhika pratiyAM maMgavAe~ aura apanI ora se vitarita kreN| pRSTha 80, mUlya 3/Atmadarzana kI sAdhanA : zrI candraprabha Atma-sAdhanA ke mArga ko prazasta karate viziSTa udbodhana / aSTapAhur3a ke viziSTa sUtroM para navInatama vizleSNa / / pRSTha 112, mUlya 12/satyam zivam suMdaram : zrI candraprabha zrI candraprabha ke viziSTa jIvana-sUtroM kA saMkalana / bAteM choTI, bhAva gahare / jIvana ke hara kadama para kAma Ane vAlI pustaka / pRSTha 160, mUlya 30/ For Personal & Private Use Only

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mahAguhA kI cetanA : mahopAdhyAya lalitaprabha sAgara saMbodhi kA prakAza AtmasAt karane ke lie mumukSuoM ko diyA gayA amRta mArgadarzana / adhyAtma kI amara racanA saMbodhi-sUtra' para mAnaka pravacana / pRSTha 112, mUlya 15/dhyAna kA vijJAna : zrI candraprabha dhyAna kI sampUrNa gaharAiyoM ko prastuta karatA eka samagra grantha / antararASTrIya stara para bahucarcita / pRSTha 124, mUlya 25/na janma, na mRtyu : zrI candraprabha makti aura amaratA kI khoja meM tatpara antardRSTi / aSTAvakra-gItA para die gae adbhuta, anubhava-siddha AdhyAtmika pravacana / pUjyazrI kI zreSTha kRti| pRSTha 160, mUlya 30/aba bhArata ko jaganA hogA : zrI candraprabha usa mAnava cetanA ke jAgaraNa kA AhvAna jo Aja kAyara aura napuMsaka bana baiThI hai, bhAratIya dRSTi evaM mUlyoM ko naye sire se samajhane kA nayA upakrama / prabuddha pAThakoM ke lie vizeSa upyogii| pRSTha 150, mUlya 30/jharai dasahU~ disa motI : mahopAdhyAya lalitaprabha sAgara dharma, adhyAtma aura jIvana-siddhAntoM ke bIca sthApita kiyA jAne vAlA eka anUThA sAmaMjasya / bhASA sarala, bhAva gaMbhIra / jo utare, so pAve / pRSTha 224, mUlya 30/svayaM se sAkSAtkAra : zrI candraprabha mana-mastiSka kI granthiyoM ko kholane ke lie dhyAna-zivira meM diye gaye amRta pravacana / jIvana aura jagat se sIdhA saMvAda / pRSTha 140, mUlya 20/dharma, Akhira kyA hai ? : mahopAdhyAya lalitaprabha sAgara mahAvIra ke sanAtana saMdezoM para die gae amRta-pravacana, jo hameM vartamAna sandarbho meM jIvana jIne kI kalA pradAna karate haiN| pRSTha 160, mUlya 30/jyoti kalaza chalake : mahopAdhyAya lalitaprabha sAgara jIvana-mUlyoM ko Upara uThAne vAlI eka pyArI pustaka / bhagavAn mahAvIra ke sUtroM para pravacana / pRSTha 160, mUlya 30/sivA prema ke : zrI candraprabha jiMdagI aura jahAna ke raMga hajAroM, para sivA prema ke kahIM kyA hai ? prema-patha ko prazasta karatI eka sundara pustaka / pRSTha 102, mUlya 10/so parama mahArasa cAkhai: zrI candraprabha Anandaghana ke adhyAtma-rasika pada Aja bhI gAe-gunagunAye jAte haiM, para una para itane behatarIna maulika pravacana AkaMTha pIne jaise haiM / par3hiye, aMdhere se prakAza meM le jAtI isa pustaka ko| pRSTha 134, mUlya 25/ For Personal & Private Use Only

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pRSTha 102, mUla zrI candraprabha kI kahAniyA~ : mahopAdhyAya lalitaprabha sAgara mahAn ciMtaka zrI candraprabha ke kahAnIkAra svarUpa ko darzAtI eka bhAvabhInI pustaka jisameM atIta kI ghaTanAoM ko navya aura bhavya zailI meM prastuta kiyA gayA hai / eka aisI pustaka jo sampUrNa deza meM par3hI jA rahI hai / pRSTha 102, mUlya 20/satya kI ora : mahopAdhyAya lalitaprabha sAgara vyakti apane jIvana meM kisa satya kI khoja kare aura kisa satya kA anupAlana, prastuta pustaka meM isI pahalu para prakAza DAlA gayA hai| pRSTha 100, mUlya 15/preraNA : mahopAdhyAya lalitaprabha sAgara saMsAra meM samAdhi ke phUla kaise khila sakate haiM, AdhyAtmika saMtoM ke jIvana se jur3e sacce ghaTanAkramoM ke dvArA usI kA sahaja vinyAsa / pRSTha 100, mUlya 15/jIvana, jagata aura adhyAtma : mahopAdhyAya lalitaprabha sAgara jIvana-jagata kI samasyAoM ke samAdhAnoM ko DhUr3hane kA prayAsa / saTIka pravacana, zreSTha pustaka / pRSTha 180, mUlya 30/aisI ho jIne kI zailI : zrI candraprabha jIvana aura dharma-patha ko punarparibhASita karate hue jIne kI sApha-svaccha rAha dikhAtI pustaka / ghara-ghara meM paThanIya / __ pRSTha 160, mUlya 30/bhomiyA bhAvAMjalI : prakAzakumAra daphtarI adhiSThAyaka deva zrI bhomiyAjI ke lokapriya bhajanoM kA anUThA saMkalana / bhaktipriya mahAnubhAvoM ke lie upyogii| pRSTha 64, mUlya 7/saMbodhi-dhyAna-mArgadarzikA : suzrI vijayalakSmI jaina saMbodhi-dhyAna-zivira kI prAyogika mArgadarzikA; dhyAnayoga-vidhi kI takanIkI bArIki ko liye hue eka mahattvapUrNa pustaka / pRSTha 56, mUlya 7/antara ke paTa khola : zrI candraprabha dhyAna-sAdhakoM ko satya, zAMti aura AnaMda kI rAha dikhAne vAlI abhinava pustk| maharSi pataMjali ke mahattvapUrNa yogasUtroM kA bhI upyog| pRSTha 96, mUlya 15/ A~gana meM AkAza : mahopAdhyAya lalitaprabha sAgara tIsa pravacanoM kA anUThA AdhyAtmika saMkalana, jo Ama AdamI ko prabuddha karatA hai aura jor3atA hai use astitva kI satyatA se / pRSTha 200, mUlya 40/zrI agaracanda nAhaTA : vyaktitva evaM kRtitva : DaoN. zAradA gosvAmI prAcIna sAhitya evaM itihAsa ke mUrdhanya vidvAna zrI agaracanda nAhaTA ke jIvana-vRtta evaM kRtitva para likhA gayA zodha-prabaMdha / sAtha hI zrI nAhaTA ke likhe-chape pA~ca hajAra se adhika lekhoM kA sUcI-patra / pRSTha 300, mUlya 40/ For Personal & Private Use Only

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sAkSI kI A~kha : zrI candraprabha jIvana-jyoti se sAkSAtkAra karavAtI pustaka / jIvana ke rahasyoM evaM satyoM se paricita karavAte AdhyAtmika pravacanoM kA saMkalana / AyAra-suttaM : zrI candraprabha bhagavAna mahAvIra kI divyavANI kA prathama dharma-zAstra / mUla, hindI anuvAda evaM pratyeka adhyAya para samaya-sApekSa viziSTa cintana / pRSTha 240, mUlya 30/prArthanA : zrI candraprabha bhagavAn RSabhadeva se lekara mahAvIra taka ke caubIsa tIrthaMkaroM kI prArthanA, bhajana ke sAtha bhaktAmara, pArasa ikatIsA aura gautama ikatIsA kA saMkalana / pRSTha 70, mUlya 7/mahAsati paTThAna-sutta : zrI candraprabha bhagavAna buddha dvArA vipazyanA-sAdhanA kI maulika prastuti / mUla vANI evaM hindI-anuvAda / Atma-sAdhanA meM sahayogI mArgadarzana / pRSTha 48, mUlya 7/varlDa rinAunDa jaina pilagrimejeja : rivareMsa eNDa ArTa : lalitaprabha sAgara kalA aura zraddhA ke kSetra meM vizva-prasiddha jaina tIrthoM kI raMgIna citroM ke sAtha nayanAbhirAma prastuti / aMtararASTrIya stara para bahucarcita graMtha / apane videzI mitroM ko upahAra-svarUpa pradAna karane ke lie anupama graMtha / pRSTha 160, 300/ vizeSa :- apanA pustakAlaya apane ghara meM banAne ke lie phAuMDezana ne eka abhinava yojanA banAI hai / isake antargata Apako sirpha eka bAra hI phAuMDezana ko pandraha sau rupaye denA hogA, jisake badale meM phAuMDezana apane yahA~ se prakAzita hone vAle pratyeka sAhitya ko Apake pAsa Apake ghara taka pahu~cAegA aura vaha bhI AjIvana / isa yojanA ke tahata eka aura vizeSa suvidhA Apako dI jA rahI hai ki isa yojanA ke sadasya banate hI Apako rajisTarDa DAka se phAuMDezana dvArA prakAzita sampUrNa upalabdha sAhitya' ni:zulka prApta hogA / sAhitya vahI bhejA jA sakegA jo usa samaya sTaoNka meM hogaa| rajisTrI cArja eka pustaka para 20/- rupaye, nyUnatama do sau rupaye kA sAhitya ma~gAne para DAka vyaya saMsthA dvArA deya / dhanarAzi zrI jitayazAzrI phAuMDezana kolakAtA ke nAma para baiMka-DrAphTa yA maniArDara dvArA bhejeM / vI.pI.pI. se sAhitya bhejanA zakya nahIM hogaa| Aja hI likheM aura apanA oNrDara nimna pate para bhejeM - jitayazA phAuMDezana 9 sI-esplAneDa ro IsTa bI-7, anukampA, dvitIya rUma naM. 28, dharmatallA mArkeTa __ ema.AI. roDa kolakAtA-700069 jayapura-302 001 (rAja.) 3220-8725 2364737 For Personal & Private Use Only

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saMbodhi-dhAma [dharma aura jIvana-darzana kA vyAvahArika svarUpa] yoga aura sAdhanA ke kSetra meM saMbodhi-dhAma kisI pavitra tIrtha ke samAna hai / dharatI para ve sthAna kisI zreSTha mandira kI taraha hI hote haiM, jahA~ mana kI zAnti aura AdhyAtmika satya kI sAdhanA hotI hai / saMbodhi-dhAma jodhapura kI kAyalAnA jhIla aura akhayarAja sarovara ke samIpa parvatamAlAoM kI goda meM sthita eka aisA sAdhanA - kendra hai, jahA~ aba taka bIsa hajAra se adhika logoM ne satya, zAnti aura mukti kI sAdhanA kI hai| hara vyakti zAnta mana kA svAmI bane, bodhapUrvaka jIvana jie aura mukti ko AtmasAt kare, saMbodhisAdhanA kI sabake lie yahI pAvana preraNA hai / saMbodhi-dhAma meM prati saptAha ravivAra ko niyamita dhyAnayoga satra Ayojita hote haiM aura varSa meM cAra bAra saMbodhi-sAdhanA ke viziSTa zivira Ayojita kie jAte haiM / saMbodhi-sAdhanA ke dvAra prANImAtra ke lie khule haiN| yahA~ na jAti kA bheda hai aura na paMtha kA aagrh| sarva dharmoM kA sammAna aura 'mAnava svayaM eka mandira' kI sadbhAvanA ko lie saMbodhi-dhAma jana-jana kI sevA ke lie samarpita hai / saMbodhi-dhAma kA harA-bharA vAtAvaraNa, yahA~ kI zAnti aura naisargikatA sAdhaka ko sAdhanA kI anukUlatA pradAna karatI hai / saMbodhi-dhAma ke unnata zikharoM para nirmita dhyAna-mandira aura aSTApada- mandira hameM himAlaya aura mAuMTa AbU kA ahasAsa dete haiN| mana-mastiSka ke rogopacAra ke lie yahA~ manas cikitsAlaya bhI hai, jisameM jarmanI aura iMglaiNDa se AyAtita 'puSpa- arka' ke dvArA saphala upacAra hotA hai / sAdhakoM ke niyamita upayoga ke lie yahA~ sAhitya kendra, pustakAlaya, AvAsa-kakSa, bhojanazAlA, parNa kuTIra, ekAnta-kakSa Adi upalabdha haiN| mana kI zAMti, svAsthya lAbha evaM AdhyAtmika sAdhanA hetu Apa yahA~ sAdara AmaMtrita haiM / zrI candraprabha dhyAna nilayam saMbodhi-dhAma, kAyalAnA roDa, jodhapura - 4 (rAja.) phona : 2629812 For Personal & Private Use Only

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jinayazA phAuMDezana kA lokapriya prakAzana Jain Education inational For Personal & Private Use Only