Aptavani 09

Author(s): Gnani Purush Dadashri
Publisher: Gnani Purush Dadashri

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alive! What happens when there is suspicion about the daughters when they go study? That suspicion creates constant restlessness. It is painful to one's own self only.
It is tremendously risky to have suspicion about someone's character. How can such a risk be taken? One can be suspicion free as long as one does not see. But was it not there before? Did this happen overnight? No. Therefore, if there is a suspicion, one should conciliate that this was there from before. This world is only an illusion. The Soul has no wife and no daughter. Those who don't want to miss out on the progress in the path to final liberation should not dwell deeper into any place other than the Soul.
In the effect of Kaliyug, bad times, where the morality and sincerity are broken down between husband and wife, where lies any meaningful pleasure? In Kaliyug, the wife will not be your own. There are tendencies for sheer deceit and fraud flowing in there! Then, where is the place for suspicion? The best character is in taking the vow, of only one wife or one husband, otherwise, it will only be called a toilet, no? The toilet is where everyone goes!! Is it not true that the insatiable desire for sex gives rise to suspicion? Once there is freedom from sex, freedom from suspicion will be there. If not freed from the suspicion that arises as a consequence of sexual indulgences, this life will be ruined and infinite lives will be ruined! The one on the path of liberation should be without suspicion.
Once there is suspicion, there is separation from the other person. The echoes of suspicion are cast on the other person. Therefore, there should be no suspicion, and as soon as suspicion occurs, it should be removed with awareness.
When the daughters go to college and the parents suspect their character, what happens then? Only unhappiness is created then! Because there is no love given at home, the children try to find love from outsiders and slip. This result can be avoided by living as friends with for love each other. However, if the daughter takes a wrong step, can you kick her out of the house? One must give protection with love and avoid the losses! Caution in the beginning is welcome, but one should never be suspicious!
Where there is no suspicion, there is no unhappiness of any kind.