Pati Patni Ka Divya Vyvahaar

Author(s): Dada Bhagwan
Publisher: Mahavideh Foundation
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/009598/1

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dAdA bhagavAna prApita pati-patnI kA Adarza vyavahAra vijJAna kI samajha, jIvana Adarza banAye ! yaha akrama vijJAna to dekho| kevala patnI ke sAtha hI 'nahIM, lekina sAre saMsAra ke sAtha jhagar3e baMda ho jaaeN| yaha vijJAna hI aimA hai| pragaDe baMda e arthAta hama mukta he| apane ghara meM to 'vyavahAra sundara kara denA caahie| patnI ke mana meM aisA lage ki aisA ( acchA ) pati kabhI nahIM milegA aura pati ke mana meM aisA lage ki aisI ( acchI ) 'pAnI' bhI kabhI nahIM milegI! emaa| hisAvalA deM taba hama macce khlaaye| agara aisI samajha phittkr| leM to sArA jIvana bahuta acchI taraha vyatIta ho| dAdAzrI THENRBANTARY OSHIYA

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dAdA bhagavAna prarUpita prakAzaka : ajita sI. paTela mahAvideha phAunDezana dAdA darzana, 5, mamatApArka sosAyaTI, navagujarAta kaoNleja ke pIche, usmAnapurA, ahamadAbAda-380014, gujarAta phona - (079) 27540408, 27543979 E-Mail: info@dadabhagwan.org pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra All Rights reserved - Shri Deepakbhai Desai Trimandir, Simandhar City, Ahmedabad-Kalol Highway, Post - Adalaj, Dist.-Gandhinagar-382421, Gujarat, India. prathama saMskaraNa : prata 3000, mArca 2009 mUla gujarAtI pustaka 'pati-patnI no divya vyavahAra' (saMkSipta ) kA hindI anuvAda bhAva mUlya : 'parama vinaya' aura _ 'maiM kucha bhI jAnatA nahIM', yaha bhAva! dravya mUlya : 20 rupaye lesara kampojha : dAdA bhagavAna phAunDezana, ahamadAbAda | mUla gujarAtI saMkalana : DaoN. nIrUbahana amIna anuvAda : mahAtmAgaNa mudraka : mahAvideha phAunDezana (priMTiMga DivIz2ana), pArzvanAtha caimbarsa, naI riz2arva baiMka ke pAsa, usmAnapurA, ahamadAbAda-380 014. / phona : (079) 27542964, 30004823

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trimaMtra dAdA bhagavAna kauna? jUna 1958 kI eka saMdhyA kA karIba cha: baje kA samaya, bhIr3a se bharA sUrata zahara kA relve sTezana, pleTaphArma naM. 3 kI beMca para baiThe zrI aMbAlAla mUlajIbhAI paTela rUpI dehamaMdira meM kudaratI rUpa se, akrama rUpa meM, kaI janmoM se vyakta hone ke lie Atara 'dAdA bhagavAna' pUrNa rUpa se prakaTa hue| aura kudarata ne sarjita kiyA adhyAtma kA adbhuta aashcry| eka ghaNTe meM unako vizvadarzana huaa| 'maiM kauna? bhagavAna kauna? jagata kauna calAtA hai? karma kyA? mukti kyA?' ityAdi jagata ke sAre AdhyAtmika praznoM ke saMpUrNa rahasya prakaTa hue| isa taraha kudarata ne vizva ke sanmukha eka advitIya pUrNa darzana prastuta kiyA aura usake mAdhyama bane zrI aMbAlAla mUlajIbhAI paTela, gujarAta ke carotara kSetra ke bhAdaraNa gA~va ke pATIdAra, kAnTrekTa kA vyavasAya karane vAle, phira bhI pUrNatayA vItarAga puruSa! unheM prApti huI, usI prakAra kevala do hI ghaNToM meM anya mumukSu janoM ko bhI ve AtmajJAna kI prApti karavAte the, unake adbhuta siddha hae jJAnaprayoga se| use akrama mArga khaa| akrama, arthAta binA krama ke, aura krama arthAta sIr3hI dara sIr3hI, kramAnusAra Upara cddh'naa| akrama arthAt liphTa mArga, zaoNrTa kaTa! ve svayaM pratyeka ko 'dAdA bhagavAna kauna?' kA rahasya batAte hue kahate the ki "yaha jo Apako dikhAI dete hai ve dAdA bhagavAna nahIM hai, ve to 'e.ema.paTela' hai| hama jJAnI puruSa haiM aura bhItara prakaTa hue haiM, ve 'dAdA bhagavAna' haiN| dAdA bhagavAna to caudaha loka ke nAtha haiN| | ve Apa meM bhI haiM, sabhI meM haiN| ApameM avyakta rUpa meM rahe hue haiM aura 'yahA~' hamAre bhItara saMpUrNa rUpa se vyakta hue haiN| dAdA bhagavAna ko maiM bhI namaskAra karatA huuN|" _ 'vyApAra meM dharma honA cAhie, dharma meM vyApAra nahIM', isa siddhAMta se unhoMne pUrA jIvana bitaayaa| jIvana meM kabhI bhI unhoMne kisI ke pAsa (se paisA nahIM liyA balki apanI kamAI se bhaktoM ko yAtrA karavAte the|

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AtmajJAna prApti kI pratyakSa liMka 'maiM to kucha logoM ko apane hAthoM siddhi pradAna karanevAlA huuN| pIche anugAmI cAhie ki nahIM cAhie? pIche logoM ko mArga to cAhie na?" - dAdAzrI parama pUjya dAdAzrI gA~va-gA~va, deza-videza paribhramaNa karake mumukSu janoM ko satsaMga aura AtmajJAna kI prApti karavAte the| ApazrI ne apane jIvanakAla meM hI pUjya DaoN. nIrUbahana amIna (nIrUmA~) ko AtmajJAna prApta karavAne kI jJAnasiddhi pradAna kI thiiN| dAdAzrI ke dehavilaya pazcAt nIrUmA~ vaise hI mumukSujanoM ko satsaMga aura AtmajJAna kI prApti, nimitta bhAva se karavA rahI thii| pUjya dIpakabhAI desAI ko dAdAzrI ne satsaMga karane kI siddhi pradAna kI thii| nIrUmA~ kI upasthiti meM hI unake AzIrvAda se pUjya dIpakabhAI deza-videzo meM kaI jagahoM para jAkara mumukSuoM ko AtmajJAna karavA rahe the, jo nIrUmA~ ke dehavilaya pazcAt Aja bhI jArI hai| isa AtmajJAnaprApti ke bAda haz2AroM mumukSu saMsAra meM rahate hue, jimmedAriyA~ nibhAte hue bhI mukta rahakara AtmaramaNatA kA anubhava karate haiN| graMtha meM mudrita vANI mokSArthI ko mArgadarzana meM atyaMta upayogI siddha hogI, lekina mokSaprApti hetu AtmajJAna prApta karanA z2arUrI hai| akrama mArga ke dvArA AtmajJAna kI prApti kA mArga Aja bhI khulA hai| jaise prajvalita dIpaka hI dUsarA dIpaka prajvalita kara sakatA hai, usI prakAra pratyakSa AtmajJAnI se AtmajJAna prApta kara ke hI svayaM kA AtmA jAgRta ho sakatA hai| nivedana AtmavijJAnI zrI aMbAlAla mUlajIbhAI paTela, jinheM loga 'dAdA bhagavAna' ke nAma se bhI jAnate haiM, unake zrImukha se adhyAtma tathA vyavahAra jJAna saMbaMdhI jo vANI nikalI, usako rikaoNrDa karake, saMkalana tathA saMpAdana karake pustakoM ke rUpa meM prakAzita kiyA jAtA haiN| jJAnIpuruSa saMpUjya dAdA bhagavAna ke pAsa Ae kaI daMpatiyoM ne apanI sAMsArika samasyAoM ke samAdhAna paae| unake klezamaya jIvana meM dAdAzrI kI bodhakalA ne divyatA bhara dI, jo saMkSipta rUpa meM Apake sAmane prastuta hai| yahA~ dAdAzrI ne divya dAmpatya ke anuThe rahasya khole haiM, jise AtmasAt karane se Apake dAmpatya jIvana meM ni:saMdeha divyatA prakAzamAna hogii| prastuta anuvAda meM yaha vizeSa dhyAna rakhA gayA hai ki vAcaka ko dAdAjI kI hI vANI sunI jA rahI hai, aisA anubhava ho| unakI hindI ke bAre meM unake hI zabda meM kaheM to "hamArI hindI yAne gujarAtI, hindI aura aMgrejI kA miksacara hai, lekina jaba 'TI' (cAya) banegI, taba acchI bnegii|" jJAnI kI vANI ko hindI bhASA meM yathArtha rUpa se anuvAdita karane kA prayatna kiyA gayA hai kintu dAdAzrI ke AtmajJAna kA sahI Azaya, jyoM kA tyoM to, Apako gujarAtI bhASA meM hI avagata hogaa| jinheM jJAna kI gaharAI meM jAnA ho, jJAna kA sahI marma samajhanA ho, vaha isa hetu gujarAtI bhASA sIkheM, aisA hamArA anurodha hai| prastuta pustaka meM kaI jagahoM para koSThaka meM darzAye gaye zabda yA vAkya parama pUjya dAdAzrI dvArA bole gaye vAkyoM ko adhika spaSTatApUrvaka samajhAne ke lie likhe gaye haiN| jabaki kucha jagahoM para aMgrejI zabdoM ke hindI artha ke rUpa meM rakhe gaye haiN| dAdAzrI ke zrImukha se nikale kucha gujarAtI zabda jyoM ke tyoM rakhe gaye haiM, kyoMki una zabdoM ke lie hindI meM aisA koI zabda nahIM hai, jo usakA pUrNa artha de ske| hAlAMki una zabdoM ke samAnArthI zabda artha ke rUpa meM diye gaye haiN| anuvAda saMbaMdhI kamiyoM ke lie Apa se kSamAprArthI haiN|

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prastAvanA nigoda meM se ekendriya aura ekendriya se paMcendriya taka ke utkramaNa aura usameM se manuSya kA pariNamana huA taba se yugalika strI aura puruSa sAtha meM janme, byAhe aura nivRta hue... aise udaya meM AyA manuSya kA patipatnI kA vyavahAra ! satyuga, dvApara aura tretAyuga meM prAkRtika saralatA ke kAraNa pati-patnI ke bIca jIvana meM samasyA zAyada hI AtI thii| Aja, isa kalikAla meM pratidina kleza, jhagar3e, aura matabheda pati-patnI ke bIca bahudhA hara jagaha dekhane meM Ate haiN| isameM se bAhara nikala kara pati-patnI kA Adarza jIvana kaise jI sakeM, isakA mArgadarzana isa kAla ke anurUpa kisa zAstra meM milegA? aba kyA kiyA jAe? Aja ke logoM kI vartamAna samasyAe~ aura unakI bhASA meM hI una samasyAoM ke hala, isa kAla ke prakaTa jJAnIpuruSa hI de sakate haiN| aise prakaTa jJAnIpuruSa, parama pUjya dAdAzrI ko unakI jJAnAvasthA ke tIsa varSoM meM pati-patnI ke bIca hue gharSaNa ke samAdhAna ke lie pUche gae hajAroM praznoM meM se saMkalita kara yahA~ prastuta pustaka meM prakAzita kie jA rahe haiN| pati-patnI ke bIca kI anekoM jaTila samasyAoM ke samAdhAna rUpI hRdayasparzI aura sthAyI samAdhAna karanevAlI vANI yahA~ sajJa pAThaka ko unake vaivAhika jIvana meM paraspara deva-devI jaisI dRSTi nizaMka hI utpanna kara degI, mAtra hRdayapUrvaka par3hakara samajhane se hii| zAstroM meM gahana tattvajJAna milatA hai, para vaha zabdoM meM hI milatA hai| unase Age zAstra nahIM le jA skte| jo zabda hai, vaha bhASAkIya dRSTi se sIdhe-sAde hai kintu 'jJAnIpuruSa' kA darzana nirAvaraNa hai, isalie unake pratyeka vacana AzayapUrNa, mArmika, maulika aura sAmanevAle ke vyu poinTa ko ekjaikTa (yathArtha) samajhakara nikalane ke kAraNa zrotA ke darzana ko suspaSTa khola dete hai aura adhika UMcAI para le jAte hai| vyavahArika jIvana ke paMkcara ko jor3anA to usake eksaparTa (nipuNa) anubhavI hI sikhA sakate haiM ! saMpUrNa AtmajJAnI dAdAzrI, patnI ke sAtha Adarza vyavahAra ko pUrNa anubhava kara anubhavavANI se samAdhAna karate haiM, jo prabhAvapUrNa rIti se kAma karatA hai| yaha isa kAla ke akrama jJAnI kI vizva ko bejor3a bheMTa hai, vyavahAra jJAna kI bodhakalA kI! saMpUjya dAdAzrI ke pAsa kaI pati patnI aura yagala ne apane duHkhamaya jIvana kI samasyAe~ prastuta kI thIM; kabhI akele meM, to kabhI sArvajanika satsaMga meN| jyAdAtara bAteM amarIkA meM huI thIM, jahA~ phrIlI, opanalI (khule Ama, muktatA se) sabhI nijI jIvana ke bAre meM bolate the| nimittAdhIna parama pUjya dAdAzrI kI anubhava vANI nikalI, jisakA saMkalana par3hanevAle pratyeka pati-patnI kA mArgadarzana kara sakatA hai| kabhI pati ko ulAhanA dete, to kabhI patnI ko jhakajhorate, jisa nimitta ko jo kahane kI jarUrata ho use ArapAra dekhakara dAdAzrI sAra nikAla kara vacana bala se roga nirmUla karate the| sujJa pAThakoM se nivedana hai ki ve galata tarIke se anartha na kara baiThe ki dAdA ne to striyoM kA hI doSa dekhA hai athavA patipane ko hI doSita ThaharAyA hai ! pati ko patipanA kA doSa dikhAtI vANI aura patnI ko usake prAkRtika doSoM ko prakaTa karatI vANI dAdAzrI ke mukha se pravAhita huI hai| use sahI artha meM grahaNa kara svayaM ke zuddhikaraNa hetu manana, ciMtana karane kI pAThakoM se namra vinatI hai| - DaoN. nIrubahana amIna

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saMpAdakIya byAhate hI milI, misarAnI phrI oNpha kosTa meM, jhADUvAlI, poMchevAlI aura dhobina muphta meM ! caubIsa ghaNTe narsarI, aura pati ko sinsiyara, apanAyA sasurAla chor3a mA~-bApa, svajana pIhara ! mA~ge kabhI na tanakhAha - bonasa kamizana yA bakSisa ! kabhI mA~ge agara sAr3I, taba kyoM pati ko Ae rIsa ? AdhA hissA baccoM meM, para DilIvarI kauna kare? usa para pIche nAma pati kA, phira kyoM dete ho tAne? dekho kevala do bhUleM strI kI, caritra yA ghara kA nukasAna, namaka jyAdA, ki phor3e glAsa, choTI bhUloM ko do kSamAdAna ! patnI Ter3hI cale taba, dekho guNa, gino balidAna, ghara - bahU ko saMbhAla, usI meM puruSa terA bar3appana ! pati ko samajhegI kahA~ taka, bholA kamaakla ? dekha-bhAla kara lAI hai tU, apanA hI manapasaMda ! pasaMda kiyA, mA~gA pati, umra meM tujhase bar3A, uThaka-baiThaka karatA lAtI jo godI meM choTA ! rUpa, par3hAI, U~cAI meM, mA~gA supIriyara, nahIM calegA baur3ama, bAvaracI, cAhie supara! zAdI ke bAda, tU aisA tU vaisA kyoM kare? samajha supIriyara aMta taka, to saMsAra sohe ! pati sUramA ghara meM, khU~TI ba~dhI gAya ko mAre, aMta meM biphare gAya to bAghina kA veza dhare ! pacAsa sAla taka, kutte jaisA bhauMke vaha dinarAta ! vasUlI meM phira pille kareM, kutiyA kA pakSapAta ! 'apakSa' hokara rahA muA, gharavAloM kI khAye mAra, sIdhA hojA, sIdhA hojA, pAle 'mukti' kA mArga ! moTA pati khoje phigara, sundarI kA jo rakhe rauba, sarAhate jo patnI ko, mana se lete haiM ve bhoga ! prathama guru skUla meM, phira banAyA patnI ko guru, pahale pasaMda nahIM the cazme, phira banAI 'ainaka bahU' ! manapasaMda kI DhUMDhane meM ho gaI bhArI bhUla, zAdI karake pachatAye, Thage gae bahuta ! kleza bahuta ho patnI saMga, to kara do viSaya baMda, barasa bAda pariNAma dekha, khule dRSTi viSaya aMdha ! brahmacarya ke niyama rakhanA, zAdI-zudA terA lakSya, davAI pIyo tabhI jaba car3he, bukhAra donoM pakSa ! mIThI hai isalie davAI, bAra-bAra pInA nahIM, pIyo niyama se jaba donoM ko ho bukhAra yA sardI / eka patnIvrata jahA~, dRSTi bAhara na bigar3e, kaliyuga meM hai yahI brahmacarya, jJAnIpuruSa dAdA kaheM! Ter3hI bIvI, maiM sIdhA, donoM meM kauna puNyavAna ? Ter3hI tere pApa se, puNya se pAyA sIdhA kaMtha! kisakA gunAha? kauna hai jaja? bhugate usI kI bhUla, kudarata kA nyAya samajha lo, bhUla hogI nirmUla ! saMbhAle mitra aura gA~va ko, ghara meM laThThabAz2I, saMbhAlA jisane jIvana bhara, vahIM cUka gayA pAjI !

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anukrama peja naM. bAhara bacAye AbarU, beAbarU ghara meM magara! dekho ulTA nyAya, madhura bhojana meM DAle kaMkara! 'merI bIbI merI bIbI' kaha, DAle mamatA ke peca, 'nahIM merI, nahIM merI' kaha, kholo aMtar ke peca! zAdI kara ke kahe pati, tere bina kaise jIe~? marane para na huA 'satA', na hI koI satI dikhe! yaha to Asakti pudgala kI, nahIM yaha saccA prema ! na dekhe doSa, na apekSA, na dveSa vahIM zuddha prema! tU aisA, tU vaisI, abhedatA meM AyA bheda, huA zAMti kA aMta jo, huA z2arA-sA bheda! eka A~kha meM prema, aura dUsarI meM sakhtI jahA~, dekhe isa prakAra patnI ko, jIte saMsArI vahA~ ! vana phemilI hokara jIyo, karo nahIM merI-terI, sudhArane patnI ko calA, kyA apanI jAta sudhArI ? Arya nArI ke mAthe para biMdI, eka pati kA dhyAna, sArA mu~ha aura bhAla bhara jAye, agara lagAye paradezana ! eka dUje kI bhUla nibhAlo, vahI premamaya jIvana, ghaTe-bar3he nahIM kabhI jo, vahI saccA prema darzana ! -- DaoN. nIrubahana amIna 1. vana faimili (eka kuTumba) 2. ghara meM kle za 3. pati-patnI meM matabheda 4. bhojana ke samaya kiTa-kiTa 5. pati cAhie, patipanA nahIM 6. dUsaroM kI bhUla nikAlane kI Adata 7. gAr3I kA garama mUDa 8. sudhAranA yA sudharanA? 9. komanasensa se 'eDajasTa evarIvhera' 10. do DipArTamenTa alaga 11. zaMkA jalAye sone kI laMkA 12. patipane ke gunAha 13. dAdAI dRSTi se calo, patiyoM... 14. 'merI-merI' kI lapeTeM ukaleMgI aise 15. paramAtma prema kI pahacAna 16. zAdI arthAt 'promisa Ta pe' 17. patnI ke sAtha taqarAra 18. patnI lauTAye taula ke sAtha 19. patnI kI zikAyateM 20. pariNAma, talAqa ke 21. saptapadI kA sAra 22. pati-patnI ke prAkRtika paryAya 23. viSaya baMda vahA~ prema sambandha 24. rahasya, RNAnubaMdha ke... 25. Adarza vyavahAra, jIvana meM...

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pati patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra jJAna hai? hamAre hindustAna meM 'hAu Tu oNrganAiz2a faimili' usa jJAna kI kamI haiN| faoNrina vAle to 'phaimili' samajhate hI nhiiN| ve to jemsa bIsa sAla kA ho gayA to, usake mAtA-pitA, viliyama aura merI, jemsa se kaheMge ki, tU alaga aura hama totA-mainA alaga! unheM phaimili oNrganAiz2a karane kI Adata hI nahIM hai na! aura unakA phaimili to spaSTa hI kahatA hai| merI ke sAtha viliyama ko acchA na lage to 'Divorsa' (talAka) kI hI bAta! aura hamAre yahA~ 'Divorsa' kI bAta kahA~? hameM to sAtha-sAtha rahanA hai, takarAra karanI hai aura phira sAtha meM vahIM eka hI kamare meM hI sonA bhI hai| yaha jIne kA tarIkA nahIM hai| ise faimili nahIM kahate! aura apane deza meM to loga faimili DaoNkTara bhI rakhate haiN| are, abhI faimili to haI nahIM, vahA~ faimili DaoNkTara kahA~ rakhatA hai? ye loga faimili DaoNkTara rakhate haiM, para yahA~ patnI hI faimili nahIM! aura kahate hai, 'hamAre faimili DaoNkTara Ae haiM!' unake sAtha koI takarAra nahIM krte| DaoNkTara ne bila jyAdA banAyA ho taba bhI takarAra nahIM krte| taba kahate hai, 'hamAre faimili DaoNkTara haiM na!' ve mana meM aisA samajhate haiM ki hamArA rauba jama gayA, faimili DaoNkTara rakhate haiM isalie! vana faimili (eka kuTumba) jIvana jIne jaisA kaba lagatA hai ki sArA dina upAdhi nahIM ho. jIvana zAMti se vyatIta ho, taba jIvana jInA acchA lagatA hai| yaha to ghara meM gar3abar3a hotI rahatI ho taba jIvana jInA kaise anukUla lage? yaha to pusAyegA hI nahIM na! ghara meM gar3abar3a nahIM honI caahie| gar3abar3a zAyada par3osI ke sAtha ho yA bAhara ke logoM ke sAtha ho. magara ghara meM bhI? ghara meM faimili kI taraha lAipha (jiMdagI) jInI caahie| phaimili lAipha kaisI hotI hai? ghara meM prema aura prema hI chalakatA ho| aba to faimili lAipha hI kahA~ haiM? dAla meM namaka jyAdA ho to sArA ghara sira para uThA le| 'dAla khArI hai' kahatA hai! aMDaraDivelapDa (ardhavikasita) log| Divelapa (vikasita) kise kahate hai ki jo dAla meM namaka jyAdA ho, to use eka ora rakhakara bAkI bhojana khA le| kyA yaha nahIM ho sakatA? dAla eka ora rakhakara dUsarA saba nahIM khA sakate? 'disa ija faimili lAipha (ye hai pArivArika jiivn)|' bAhara takarAra karo na ! mAI faimili (merA parivAra) kA artha kyA? ki hamAre bIca takarAra nahIM ho, kisI bhI taraha kii| hameM eDajasTamenTa lenA caahie| apane faimili meM eDajasTa honA AnA hI caahie| eDajasTa evarIvheyara (hara jagaha anukuul)| tumhAre pAsa 'faimili oNrganAiz2ezana' (pArivArika dekha-bhAla)kA phaimili ke sadasya kA aise hAtha laga jAe to hama usake sAtha jhagar3ate haiM? nahIM! eka faimili kI taraha rahanA, banAvaTa mata krnaa| loga jo dikhAvA karate haiM, aisA nhiiN| eka faimili... tumhAre binA mujhe acchA nahIM lagatA, aisA khnaa| vaha hameM DA~Tena, usake thoDI dera bAda kaha denA, 'tU cAhe kitanA bhI DA~Te magara mujhe tere bagaira acchA nahIM lgtaa|' aisA khnaa| itanA guru maMtra bolnaa| aisA kabhI bolate hI nahIM na! tumheM bolane meM koI harja hai ki tumhAre bagaira acchA nahIM lagatA? mana meM prema z2arUra rakhanA para thor3A-bahuta bolakara bhI dikhaanaa| ghara meM kle za kabhI ghara meM kleza hotA hai? tumheM kaisA lagatA hai? ghara meM kleza hotA hai to acchA lagatA hai?

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pati patnI kA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : kleza binA to duniyA nahIM cltii| dAdAzrI : taba to vahA~ para bhagavAna raheMge hI nhiiN| jahA~ kleza hai vahA~ bhagavAna nahIM rhte| praznakartA : vaha to hai para kabhI-kabhI to aisA kleza honA cAhie na? pati patnI kA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : oho... aise gharavAloM ke sAtha. bAharavAloM ke sAtha. vAipha (patnI) ke sAtha TakarAe~ to use kleza kahate haiN| manamuTAva ho aura phira thor3I dera alaga raheM usakA nAma klesh| do-tIna ghaNTe lar3eM aura phira sAtha meM ho jAe~ to harja nhiiN| para TakarAkara dUra raheM vaha kleza kahalAtA hai| bAraha ghaNTe dUra raheM to sArI rAta kleza meM kaTatI hai| praznakartA : Apane jo kleza kI bAta kahI vaha puruSa meM jyAdA hai ki strI meM jyAdA hai? dAdAzrI : nahIM, kleza honA hI nahIM caahie| manuSya ko yahA~ kleza kisa lie ho? aura kleza hone se acchA lagegA? kleza ho to tumheM kitane mahIne acchA lagegA? dAdAzrI : vaha to strI meM jyAdA hotA hai, klesh| praznakartA : usakI vajaha kyA? dAdAzrI : aisA hai na, kabhI jhagar3A ho jAtA hai, taba kleza ho jAtA hai| kleza honA arthAt jhaTa se sulaga kara bujha jaanaa| puruSa aura strI meM kleza ho gayA taba puruSa hai vaha chor3a degA, para striyA~ use jaldI nahIM chor3atI aura kleza meM se kaz2iyA (jhagar3A) khar3A ho jAtA hai| phira ve mu~ha phulAkara ghUmatI rahatI haiM, mAnoM hamane use tIna dina se bhUkhI rakhI ho! praznakartA : yaha qaz2iyA dUra karane ke lie kyA kareM? praznakartA : bilakula nhiiN| dAdAzrI : eka mahInA bhI acchA nahIM lagegA, nahIM? majedAra khAnA, sone ke gahane pahananA aura Upara se kleza krnaa| yaha to jIvana jInA hI nahIM aataa| jIvana jIne kI kalA nahIM AtI, usakA hI yaha kleza hai| hama to kauna-sI kalA ke mAhira haiM ki DaoNlara kisa taraha kamAyeM! basa usake hI vicAra meM rahate haiN| para jIvana kaise jIe~ usakA vicAra nahIM krte| usake bAre meM nahIM socanA cAhie? praznakartA : socanA cAhie, lekina hara eka kA tarIkA alaga alaga hotA hai| dAdAzrI : nahIM, sabakA tarIkA alaga-alaga nahIM hotA, eka hI taraha kaa| DaoNlara, DaoNlara, ddoNlr| aura phira hAtha meM Ane para hajAra DaoNlara vahA~ sTora meM kharca kara DAlatA hai| cIjeM ghara meM lAkara rakhatA hai| phira jaba purAnA ho jAe to dUsarA le AtA hai| sArA dina tor3a-joDa, tor3ajor3a, duHkha, duHkha aura duHkha, parezAnI-parezAnI aura preshaanii| are, yaha jIvana hai kyA? aisA jIvana kaise jiyeM? aisA manuSya ko zobhA detA hai? kleza-jhagar3e nahIM hone caahie| praznakartA : lekina kleza kise kahate haiM? dAdAzrI : hama kleza nahIM kareMge taba kaz2iyA nahIM hogaa| vAstava meM hama hI kleza karake sulagAte haiN| Aja khAnA acchA nahIM banAyA, Aja to merA mu~ha bigar3a gayA, aisA karake kleza khar3A kareM to phira vaha takarAra karatI hai| praznakartA : mukhya vastu yaha ki ghara meM zAMti rahanI caahie| dAdAzrI : magara zAMti kaise rahe? lar3akI kA nAma zAMti rakheM phira bhI zAMti na rhe| usake lie to dharma samajhanA caahie| ghara ke sabhI sadasyoM se kahanA cAhie ki, 'hama sabhI ghara ke sadasyoM meM koI kisI kA bairI nahIM, kisI kA kisI se jhagar3A nhiiN| hameM matabheda karane kI koI jarUrata

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6 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra nahIM haiN| Apasa meM bA~Takara zAMtipUrvaka khAo-pIo aura AnaMda karo, mauja kro|' isa prakAra hameM soca-samajhakara saba karanA caahie| gharavAloM ke sAtha kleza kabhI bhI nahIM karanA caahie| usI ghara meM par3e rahanA hai phira kleza kisa kAma kA? kisI ko parezAna karake khuda sukhI hoM aisA kabhI nahIM hotaa| hameM to sukha dekara sukha lenA hai| hama ghara meM sukha deM tabhI sukha mile aura vaha cAya-pAnI bhI ThIka se banAkara de, varnA cAya bhI ThIka se nahIM bnaayegii| yaha to kitanI ciMtA-saMtApa! matabheda z2arA bhI kama nahIM hotA phira bhI mana meM samajhate haiM ki maiMne kitanA dharma kiyA! are, ghara meM matabheda TalA? kama bhI huA hai? ciMtA kama huI? kucha zAMti AI? taba kahatA hai ki nahIM, para maiMne dharma to kiyA na? are, tu kise dharma kahatA hai? dharma se to bhItara zAMti hotI hai| Adhi-vyAdhi-parezAnI nahIM ho, usakA nAma dharma ! svabhAva (AtmA) kI ora jAnA dharma kahalAtA hai| yaha to kleza pariNAma bar3hate hI rahate haiM! vAipha ke hAtha se agara paMdraha-bIsa itanI bar3I kA~ca kI Diza aura glAsa-veyara (kA~ca ke bartana) girakara phUTa jAe~ to? usa vakta tumheM koI asara hotA hai kyA? pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra vaha sophA to dasa-bIsa haz2Ara kA hogA, usake lie jhagar3A kaisA? jisane phAr3A ho usake prati dveSa hotA hai| are mue, pheMka aa| jo cIz2a ghara meM jhagar3A khar3A kare, usa cIz2a ko bAhara pheMka aa| jitanA samajha meM AtA hai utanI zraddhA baiThatI hai| utanA hI vaha phala detI hai, madada karatI hai| zraddhA nahIM baiThe to vaha madada nahIM krtii| isalie samajhakara calo to apanA jIvana sukhI ho aura unakA bhI sukhI ho| are! ApakI patnI Apako pakaur3e aura jalebiyA~ banAkara nahIM detI? praznakartA : banAkara detI haiM na! dAdAzrI : hA~ to phira? usakA upakAra nahIM mAnanA cAhie? vaha hamArI pArTanara (ardhAMginI) hai, usameM usakA kyA upakAra aisA kahate haiN| hama paise lAte haiM aura vaha yaha saba kara detI hai, usameM donoM kI pArTanarazipa (sAjhedArI) hai| bacce bhI pArTanarazipa meM haiM, usa akelI ke thor3e haiM? usane janma diyA to kyA usa akelI ke haiM? bacce donoM ke hote haiN| donoM ke haiM yA usa akelI ke? praznakartA : donoM ke| dAdAzrI : haaN| kyA puruSa bacce ko janma denevAle the? arthAt yaha jagata samajhane jaisA hai! kucha mAmaloM meM bilakula samajhane jaisA hai| aura jJAnIpuruSa vaha bAta samajhAte haiN| unheM kucha lenA-denA nahIM hotaa| isalie ve samajhAte haiM ki bhAI, yaha apane hita meM hai| phira ghara meM kleza kama hotA hai, tor3aphor3a bhI kama hotI hai| kRSNa bhagavAna ne kahA hai, buddhi do prakAra kI hai, avyabhicAriNI aura vybhicaarinnii| vyabhicAriNI arthAta dakha hI detI hai aura avyabhicAriNI buddhi, sukha hI detI hai| du:kha meM se sukha khoja nikAlatI hai| aura yaha to bAsamatI cAvala meM kaMkara milAkara khAte haiN| yahA~ amarIkA meM khAne kA kitanA acchA ! aura zuddha ghI milatA hai, dahI milatA hai, kitanA acchA bhojana ! z2indagI sarala hai phira bhI jIvana jInA nahIM AtA, isalie mAra khAte haiM na loga! khuda ko du:kha hotA hai isalie kucha bar3abar3Aye bagaira rahatA nahIM na! yaha reDiyo baje bagaira rahatA hI nahIM ! duHkha huA ki reDiyo zurU, isalie use (vAipha ko) duHkha hotA hai| taba phira vaha kyA kahegI? hA~, jaise tumhAre hAthoM to kabhI kucha TUTatA hI nahIM! yaha samajhane kI bAta hai ki hamase bhI DizeM gira jAtI haiM na! use hama kaheM ki tU phor3a DAla to nahIM phodd'egii| phor3egI kabhI? vaha kauna phor3atA hogA? isa varlDa meM koI manuSya eka Diza bhI phor3ane kI zakti nahIM rkhtaa| yaha to saba hisAba barAbara ho rahA hai| Dize TUTane para hameM pUchanA cAhie ki tumheM lagA to nahIM hai na? agara sophe ke lie jhagar3A hotA ho to sophe ko bAhara pheMka do|

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra hamAre lie hitakArI kyA hai itanA to socanA cAhie na ! byAhe usa dina kA AnaMda yAda kareM, vaha hitakArI yA vidhura hue, usa dina kA zauqa yAda kareM, vaha hitakArI ? hameM to byAha ke samaya hI vidhura hone kA vicAra AyA thA ! taba vyAhate samaya nayA sAfA bA~dhA thaa| bAda meM sAphA khisakA to aMdara vicAra AyA ki yaha byAhane to lage haiM, donoM kA milana ho rahA hai lekina do meM se eka ko vaidhavya AegA hI! praznakartA utanI umra meM Apako aise vicAra Ae the? : dAdAzrI : hA~, kyA aisA vicAra nahIM AegA? eka pahiyA to TUTegA na? zAdI huI hai to vaidhavya Ae bagaira nahIM rhegaa| praznakartA: para vyAhate samaya to sira para zAdI kA joza savAra hotA hai, kitanA moha hotA hai! usameM aisA vairAgya kA vicAra kahA~ AtA hai ? dAdAzrI : para usa samaya vicAra AyA ki vivAha huA aura bAda meM vaidhavya to aaegaa| do meM se eka ko to vaidhavya AegA, yA to unako AegA yA to mujhe aaegaa| sabhI kI maujUdagI meM, sUryanArAyaNa kI sAkSI meM, paMDitajI kI sAkSI meM zAdI kii| usa samaya paMDitajI ne kahA thA ki 'samaya varte sAvadhAna', taba tujhe sAvadhAna honA bhI nahIM AtA? samaya ke anusAra sAvadhAna honA caahie| paMDitajI kahate haiM ki 'samaya varte sAvadhAna', taba paMDitajI samajhatA hai, magara zAdI karanevAlA kyA samajhegA? sAvadhAna kA artha kyA hai? bIvI ugra ho jAe taba tU ThaMDA ho jAnA, sAvadhAna ho jaanaa| 'samaya varte sAvadhAna' yAnI jaisA samaya Ae vaisA hokara sAvadhAna rahane kI z2arUrata hotI hai| tabhI saMsAra meM zAdI karanI caahie| vaha uchale aura hama bhI uchalane lageM to asAvadhAnI khlaaegii| vaha uchale taba hameM zAMta rahanA hai| sAvadhAna rahane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai? hama to sAvadhAna rahe the| darAra par3ane nahIM dii| darAra hone lage to turaMta velDiMga kara dete the / 8 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra praznakartA: kleza hone kA mUla kAraNa kyA hai? dAdAzrI : bhayaMkara ajJAnatA ! use saMsAra meM jInA nahIM AtA, lar3ake kA bApa honA nahIM AtA, patnI kA pati honA nahIM aataa| jIvana jIne kI kalA hI nahIM aatii| ye to sukha hone para bhI sukha nahIM bhoga skte| praznakartA: para kleza paidA hone kA kAraNa svabhAva mela nahIM khAtA, isalie? dAdAzrI : ajJAnatA hai isalie saMsAra kA artha hI yahI ki kisI kA svabhAva kisI se milatA hI nhiiN| yaha jJAna prApta ho usake pAsa eka hI rAstA hai, 'eDajasTa evriivheyr'| jahA~ kleza hotA hai vahA~ bhagavAna kA vAsa nahIM rhtaa| isalie hama loga hI jaise bhagavAna se kahate haiM, 'sAhaba, Apa maMdira meM rahanA, mere ghara mata aanaa| hama maMdira jyAdA banavAyeMge para hamAre ghara mata aanaa|' jahA~ kleza nahIM ho vahA~ bhagavAna kA nivAsa nizcita hai, isakI maiM tumheM 'gAranTI' (jamAnata ) detA huuN| kleza huA ki bhagavAna cale jAte haiN| aura bhagavAna cale jAe~ to loga hameM kyA kaheMge, dhaMdhe meM kucha barakata nahIM rhii| are, bhagavAna gae isa kAraNa barakata nahIM aatii| bhagavAna agara raheM to dhaMdhe meM acchI barakata AtI hai| tumheM kleza pasaMda hai ? praznakartA: nhiiN| dAdAzrI : phira bhI ho jAtA hai na? praznakartA kabhI kabhI / : dAdAzrI : vaha to divAlI bhI kabhI kabhI hI AtI hai na, hara roz2a thor3e AegI? praznakartA: bAda meM paMdraha minaTa meM zAnta ho jAtA hai, kleza baMda ho jAtA hai| dAdAzrI : apane meM se kleza nikAla do| jinake yahA~ ghara meM kleza

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra hai vahA~ se manuSyatA calI jAtI hai| vaise bar3e puNya se manuSya jIvana prApta hotA hai, vaha bhI hindustAna kA manuSya! kitane puNyavAna ho! lekina isa puNya kA bhI phira durupayoga hotA hai| apane ghara meM kleza rahita jIvana jInA cAhie, itanI kuzalatA to hama meM honI caahie| dUsarA kucha nahIM Ae to unheM samajhAnA cAhie ki 'kleza hogA to hamAre ghara meM se bhagavAna cale jaaeNge| isalie tU ThAna le ki hameM kleza nahIM karanA hai|' aura hama (ghara ke sadasya) bhI taya kareM ki kleza nahIM karanA hai| taya karane ke bAda kleza ho jAe to samajhanA ki yaha hamArI sattA ke bAhara huA hai| isalie vaha kleza karatA ho to bhI hameM or3hakara so jAnA hai| vaha bhI thor3I dera bAda so jaaegaa| lekina agara hama bhI unase bahasa kareM to? kleza nahIM ho aisA nizcaya karo na ! tIna dina ke lie to nizcaya karake pariNAma dekho! prayoga karane meM kyA harja hai? tIna dina kA upavAsa karate haiM na svAsthya ke khAtira? vaise yaha bhI taya karake dekho| ghara meM hama saba milakara taya kareM ki 'dAdA bAta karate haiM vaha bAta hameM pasaMda AI hai, isalie hama Aja se kleza chor3a deN|' phira dekho| praznakartA : yahA~ amarIkA meM aurateM bhI naukarI karatI haiM na, isalie auratoM ko z2arA jyAdA pAvara (rauba) A jAtA haiM, isalie hasabanDa-vAipha meM jyAdA kiTa-kiTa hotI hai| pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra dIvAra se ttkraaegaa| vaha aisA rauba mAre aura vaisA rauba mAre para hameM kucha asara na ho to usakA sArA pAvara dIvAra se TakarAkara phira usako hI vApisa lgegaa| praznakartA : Apake kahane kA matalaba hai ki hameM auratoM kI aisI bAtoM ko sunanI hI nahIM caahie| dAdAzrI : suno, saba dhyAna se suno, hamAre hita kI bAta ho to saba suno aura pAvara kA TakarAva ho usa vakta mauna dhAraNa kara lo| hama dekha leM ki kitanA pAvara kA nazA kiyA hai| usa naze ke anusAra hI pAvara istemAla karegI na? praznakartA (strI): ThIka hai| usI prakAra jaba puruSa bhI vyartha pAvara dikhAe~ taba? dAdAzrI : taba hameM z2arA dhyAna rakhanA hai| Aja thor3e bahake haiM aisA mana meM kahanA, mu~ha para kucha mata khnaa| praznakartA : hA~... nahIM to jyAdA bhkeNge| dAdAzrI : 'Aja bahaka gaye hai', aisA kahatI haiM... sacamuca aisA nahIM honA caahie| kitanA sundara... do mitra Apasa meM aisA karate haiM kyA? aisA kareM taba maitrI TikegI kyA? isa prakAra ye strI-puruSa donoM mitra hI kahalAte haiM arthAt maitrI bhAva se ghara calAnA hai aura yaha dazA kara DAlI! kyA isalie loga apanI lar3akiyA~ byAhate hoMge, aisA karane ke lie? kyA yaha hameM zobhA detA haiM? tumheM kyA lagatA haiM? yaha hameM zobhA nahIM detaa| saMskArI kise kahate haiM? ghara meM kleza ho, ve saMskArI kahalAte haiM yA kleza nahIM ho ve? pahale to ghara meM kleza hI nahIM honA cAhie aura agara hotA ho to use roka lenA caahie| thor3A ho aisA ho, hameM lage ki abhI Aga bhar3akegI usase pahale pAnI chir3aka kara ThaMDA kara denaa| pahale kI taraha klezayukta jIvana jie to usameM kyA lAbha? usakA artha hI kyA? dAdAzrI : pAvara Ae to acchA hai na, hameM to yaha samajhanA hai ki ahoho! binA pAvara ke the, aba pAvara AyA to hameM phAyadA huA! bailagAr3I ThIka se calegI na? bailagAr3I ke baila DhIle hoM to acchA yA pAvaravAle hoM to? praznakartA : para galata pAvara kare taba galata calatA hai na? pAvara saccA karatI ho to ThIka hai| dAdAzrI : aisA hai na, pAvara mAnanevAlA nahIM ho to usakA pAvara

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 11 klezayukta jIvana nahIM honA cAhie na? kyA le jAnA haiM? ghara meM sAtha meM khAnA-pInA phira taqarAra kisa bAta kI? agara koI dUsarA, Apake pati ke lie kucha kahe to burA lagatA hai ki mere pati ke bAre meM aisA kahate haiM aura khuda pati se kahatI haiM ki tuma aise ho, vaise ho, aisA nahIM honA caahie| pati ko bhI aisA nahIM karanA caahie| tumhAre kleza se baccoM ke jIvana para asara hotA hai| komala bacce, una para asara hotA hai| isalie kleza jAnA caahie| kleza miTe tabhI ghara ke bacce bhI sudharate haiN| yaha to bacce bhI bigar3a gae haiN| hameM to yaha jJAna huA taba se, bIsa sAla se to kleza hai hI nahIM, para una bIsa sAloM se pahale bhI kleza nahIM thaa| pahale se kleza to hamane nikAla bAhara kiyA thaa| yaha jagata kisI bhI hAlata meM kleza karane jaisA nahIM hai| aba Apa soca kara kArya karanA aura 'dAdA bhagavAna' kA nAma lenA / maiM bhI 'dAdA bhagavAna' kA nAma lekara sabhI kArya karatA hU~ na ! 'dAdA bhagavAna' kA nAma loge to turanta hI tumhArI dhAraNA anusAra ho jaaegaa| pati-patnI meM matabheda hameM to mUlataH krodha- - mAna-mAyA lobha jAe~, matabheda kama hoM, aisA caahie| hameM yahA~ pUrNatva prApta karanA hai, prakAza phailAnA hai| yahA~ kahA~ taka aMdhere meM rahanA ? Apane krodha mAna-mAyA-lobha jaisI nirbalatAe~, matabheda dekhe haiM? praznakartA: bahuta / dAdAzrI : kahA~, korTa meM? praznakartA: ghara para korTa meM, saba jagaha.... dAdAzrI : ghara meM kyoM? do-cAra pA~ca beTiyA~ aisA to kucha hai nahIM / Apa tIna jane, vahA~ matabheda kyoM? 12 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra praznakartA: nahIM, para tIna janoM meM hI anekoM matabheda haiN| dAdAzrI : tIna meM bhI? aisA ! praznakartA: agara jindagI meM kaoNnphalikTa (jhagar3e) nahIM hote, to jindagI kA majA nahIM AtA ! dAdAzrI : ahoho maz2A isase AtA hai? taba to phira roz2AnA hI karo nA ! yaha kisakI khoja hai? yaha kisa dimAg2a kI khoja hai? phira to roz2a matabheda honA cAhie, kaoNnphalikTa kA maz2A lenA ho to / praznakartA: roz2a to acchA nahIM lgtaa| .... dAdAzrI : aisA to loga khuda ke bacAva ke lie kahate haiN| matabheda sastA hotA hai yA maha~gA ? kama mAtrA meM yA adhika mAtrA meM? praznakartA: kama bhI hotA haiM aura adhika bhI hotA hai| dAdAzrI : kabhI divAlI aura kabhI holI ! usameM maz2A AtA hai yA maz2A jAtA hai? praznakartA: vaha to saMsAra cakra hI aisA hai| dAdAzrI : nahIM, logoM ko bahAne banAne ke lie yaha acchA hAtha lagA hai| saMsAra cakra aisA hai, aisA bahAnA banAte haiM para yU~ nahIM kahate ki merI kamaz2orI hai| praznakartA: kamaz2orI to hai hI / kamaz2orI hai tabhI to takalIpha hotI hai na! haiM na! dAdAzrI : hA~ basa, loga saMsAracakra kahakara use DhakanA cAhate haiN| isalie Dhakane ke kAraNa vaha kamaz2orI vaisI hI rahatI hai| vaha kamaz2orI kyA kahatI hai ? jaba taka mujhe pahacAnoge nahIM, taba taka maiM nahIM jAnevAlI / praznakartA: para ghara meM matabheda to hotA rahatA hai, yahI to saMsAra

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : apane loga to hara roz2a jhagar3e karate haiM, phira bhI kahate haiM ki aisA to jIvana meM calatA rahatA hai|' are, magara usase DivelapamenTa (pragati) nahIM hotaa| jhagar3A kyoM hotA hai? kisa lie hotA hai? aisA kyoM bolate haiM? kyA ho rahA hai? usakA patA lagAnA pdd'egaa| ghara meM kabhI matabheda hotA hai taba kyA davAI lagAte ho? davAI kI botala rakhate ho? praznakartA : matabheda kI koI davAI nahIM hai| dAdAzrI : he! kyA kahate ho? taba phira Apa isa kamare meM cupa, patnI usa kamare meM cupa, aise rUTha kara soye rahanA? bagaira davAI lagAye? phira vaha kisa taraha miTa jAtA hogA? ghAva bhara jAtA hogA na? mujhe yaha batAo ki davAI lagAye bagaira ghAva kaise bhara jAegA? yaha to subaha taka bhI ghAva nahIM bhrtaa| savere cAya kA kapa dete samaya aise paTakatI hai| Apa bhI samajha jAte ho ki abhI rAta kA ghAva bharA nahIM hai| aisA hotA hai ki nahIM hotA? yaha bAta kucha anubhava se bAhara kI thoDI hai? hama sabhI samAna hI haiN| arthAt aisA kyoM huA ki abhI (subaha taka) bhI matabheda kA ghAva bharA nahIM? para roja roja vaha ghAva vaisA hI rahatA hai, bharatA hI nhiiN| isalie ghAva nahIM hone dene caahie| kyoMki abhI use dabAyA ho, to jaba hameM bur3hApA AyegA taba patnI hameM dbaayegii| abhI to socatI hai ki isameM zakti hai, isalie thor3e samaya calA legii| phira usakI bArI AI taba hameM samajhA degii| isake bajAya vyavahAra aisA rakhanA ki hameM prema kare, hama use prema kreN| bhUlacUka to sabhI kI hotI hI hai n| bhUlacUka nahIM hotI? bhUlacUka hone para matabheda kyoM kareM? matabheda karanA ho to kisI balavAna se jAkara jhagar3anA tAki hameM turanta javAba mila jaae| yahA~ para turanta javAba nahIM milegA kbhii| isalie donoM samajha lenA aura matabheda mata hone denaa| yadi matabheda khar3A ho to kahanA ki dAdAjI kyA kahate the? aisA kyoM bigAr3ate ho? mata hI nahIM rakhanA caahie| are! donoM ne zAdI kI phira mata alaga kaisA? donoM ne zAdI kI, phira bhI mata alaga rakhate hoMge? praznakartA : nahIM rakhanA cAhie para rahatA hai| dAdAzrI: taba hameM (apanA mata) choDa denA hai| alaga mata rakhA jAtA hai kahIM? varnA zAdI nahIM karanI thii| zAdI kI hai to eka ho jaao| yaha jIvana jInA bhI nahIM AyA! vyAkulatA se jIte ho! akele ho? pUche to kahatA hai, 'nahIM, zAdI-zudA huuN'| vAipha hai phira bhI terI vyAkulatA nahIM miTI! kyA vyAkulatA nahIM jAnI cAhie? yaha saba maiMne soca liyA thaa| yaha saba logoM ko nahIM socanA cAhie? bahuta bar3A vizAla jagat hai para yaha jagat apane rUma ke andara hai aisA hI mAna liyA hai, aura vahA~ para bhI agara jagat mAnatA ho to acchA, para vahA~ bhI vAipha ke sAtha laTThabAjI karatA hai! praznakartA : do bartana hoM to AvAz2a hotI hI hai aura phira zAMta ho jAtI hai| dAdAzrI : AvAz2a ho to maz2A AtA hai? 'z2arA bhI akla nahIM' aisA bhI kahatI hai| praznakartA : vaha to phira yaha bhI kahatI hai na ki mujhe Apake sivA dUsarA kucha acchA nahIM lgtaa| dAdAzrI : hA~, aisA bhI bolatI hai! praznakartA : para bartana ghara meM khar3abar3eMge (TakarAyeMge) hI na? dAdAzrI : roz2a roz2a bartana khar3abar3e to kaise acchA lagegA? vaha to samajhatA nahIM hai isalie calatA hai| jAgrata ho use to eka hI matabheda ho to rAtabhara nIMda nahIM Aye! ina bartanoM (manuSyoM) ko to spaMdana haiM, isalie rAta ko sote-sote bhI spaMdana hote rahate haiM ki 'ye to aise haiM. Ter3he haiM, ulaTe haiM, nAlAyaka haiM, nikAla bAhara karane jaise haiN|' aura una

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra bartanoM ko kucha spaMdana haiM? hamAre loga binA samajhe 'hA~' meM 'hA~' milAte haiM ki do bartana sAtha meM hoMge to khar3abar3eMge! hama kyA bartana haiM ki hama TakarAyeMge? isa 'dAdA' ko kisI ne kabhI TakarAva meM nahIM dekhA hogA! sapanA bhI nahIM AyA hogA aisA!! TakarAva kyoM? TakarAva to apanI jimmedArI para hai| kyA yaha dUsare kI jimmedArI hai? cAya jaldI nahIM AI ho aura hama Tebala tIna bAra ThokeM isakI jimmevArI kisakI? isake bajAya hama cupacApa baiThe rheN| cAya milI to ThIka varnA hama to cale oNphis| kyA galata hai? cAya kA bhI koI samaya hogA na? yaha saMsAra niyama ke bAhara to nahIM hogA na? isalie hamane kahA hai ki 'vyavasthita' (sAITiphika sarakamasTenziyala eviDansa)! samaya hogA to cAya milegii| tumheM ThokanA nahIM pdd'egaa| tuma spaMdana khar3e nahIM karoge to bhI cAya AyegI aura spaMdana khaDe karoge taba bhI aaegii| para spaMdanoM kA hisAba vAipha ke bahIkhAte meM jamA hogA ki usa dina Apa Tebala Thoka rahe the na ! ghara meM vAipha ke sAtha matabheda ho taba usakA samAdhAna karanA nahIM AtA, baccoM ke sAtha matabheda ho taba usakA samAdhAna karanA nahIM AtA aura ulajhatA rahatA hai| praznakartA : pati to aisA hI kahegA na ki 'vAipha' samAdhAna kare. maiM nahIM kruuNgaa| dAdAzrI : arthAt 'limiTa' (maryAdA) pUrI ho gii| 'vAipha' samAdhAna kare aura hama nahIM kareM taba hamArI limiTa pUrI ho gii| (saccA) puruSa to aisA kahe ki 'vAipha' khuza ho jAe aura aisA karake apanI gAr3I Age le jaae| aura Apa to paMdraha-paMdraha dina, mahInA-mahInA bhara gAr3I vahIM kI vahIM, Age hI nahIM bddh'tii| jaba taka sAmanevAle ke mana kA samAdhAna nahIM hogA taba taka tumheM muzkila rhegii| isalie samAdhAna kara lenaa| aise ghara meM matabheda ho yaha kaise calegA? strI kahe 'maiM tumhArI hU~' aura pati kahe ki 'maiM terA hU~' phira matabheda kaisA? tumhAre donoM ke bIca 16 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 'problama' (samasyA) bar3heMge to alagAva paidA hogaa| 'problama' 'saoNlva' (hala) hoM to phira alagAva nahIM hogaa| judAI ke kAraNa duHkha haiN| aura sabhI ko problama khar3e hote hI haiM, tumhAre akele ko hI hote hoM aisA nhiiN| jitanoM ne zAdI kI utanoM ko problama khar3e hue binA nahIM rhte| pati ko vAipha ke sAtha matabheda hotA hai| rAta ko sote samaya usake sAtha jhagar3A ho aura lAta mAre taba kyA ho? praznakartA : nIce gira jaae| dAdAzrI : isalie usake sAtha ekatA rakhane kii| vAipha ke sAtha bhI matabheda hogA, vahA~ bhI ekatA nahIM rahegI taba phira aura kahA~ rakhoge? ekatA mAne kyA ki kabhI bhI matabheda nahIM ho| yahA~ patnI ke sAtha taya karanA ki tumhAre aura mere bIca matabheda nahIM hogA, utanI ekatA honI caahie| tumhAre bIca aisI ekatA hai? praznakartA : aisA kabhI socA nahIM thaa| Aja pahalI bAra soca rahA dAdAzrI : hA~, yaha socanA par3egA na? bhagavAna kitane soca-vicAra ke bAda mokSa meM gae! bAtacIta karo na! isameM kucha khulAsA hogaa| yaha to saMyogavaza ikaTThA hue haiM, varnA ikaTThA nahIM hote ! isalie kucha bAtacIta karo ! isameM harja kyA? hama saba eka hI haiM, tumheM judAI lagatI haiN| kyoMki bhedabuddhi se manuSya ko bheda lagatA hai, bAkI saba eka hI haiN| manuSya ko bhedabuddhi hotI hai na! vAipha ke sAtha bhedabuddhi nahIM hotI na? praznakartA : hA~, vahIM ho jAtI hai| dAdAzrI : yaha vAipha ke sAtha bheda kauna karavAtA hai? buddhi hI! aurata aura usakA pati donoM par3osI ke sAtha jhagar3A karate haiM taba kaise abheda hokara jhagar3ate haiM ! donoM aise aise hAtha kara ke tuma aise aura

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra tuma vaise karate ho| donoM yU~ hAtha hilAte haiM to loga samajhate haiM ki ahoho! ina donoM meM itanI ekatA! yaha inakA 'korporezana' (saMgaThana) abheda hai, aisA hameM lagatA hai| aura bAda meM ghara meM jAkara donoM jhagar3ane lageM taba kyA kaheMge? ghara meM ve donoM jhagar3ate haiM ki nahIM jhagar3ate? kabhI to jhagar3ate ho na? vaha kaoNrporezana (pati-patnI) andara-andara jaba jhagar3ate haiM na, 'tU aisI aura tuma vaise, tU aisI aura tuma vaise...' phira ghara meM lar3AI zurU, taba to kahatA hai, 'tU calI jA, yahA~ se| apane ghara calI jaa| majhe terI z2arUrata hI nahIM hai|' aba yaha nAsamajhI nahIM hai kyA? Apako kyA lagatA hai? abhedatA TUTa gaI aura bheda utpanna huaa| arthAt vAipha ke sAtha bhI 'tU tU, maiM maiM' ho jaae| 'tU aisI hai aura tU vaisI hai !' taba vaha kahegI, 'tuma kahA~ sIdhe ho?' arthAt ghara meM bhI 'tU tU, maiM maiM' ho jAtA hai| to aise hI cillAte haiN| jAne do, pati cunane meM merI bhUla ho gaI lagatI hai| aisA pati kahA~ se milA?' para aba kyA kareM? khUTe se ba~dhe haiM ! videza meM 'merI' ho to dUsare dina calI jAe, para inDiyana (bhAratIya) kisa taraha calI jAe? khUTI se bNdhii| jahA~ jhagar3A hI nahIM ho, aisI jagaha jhagar3A kareM to phira jhagar3A karane jaisI jagaha para to mAra hI DAleM ye loga! are, agara pAsa-pAsa meM baiga rakhe hoM taba bhI kahegA, 'uThA le tU apanA baiga yahA~ se|' are mue, zAdI-zudA hai, zAdI kI hai, eka ho ki nahIM? aura phira likhe kyA? ardhAMginI likhatA hai| are! kisa jAti kA hai tU? hA~, taba ardhAMginI kyoM likhatA haiM? usameM AdhA aMga nahIM baiga meM sAmAna rakhate vakta? yaha kisakA maz2Aka ho rahA hai, puruSoM kA yA striyoM kA? aisA nahIM kahate, ardhAMginI nahIM kahate? praznakartA: kahate haiM na! jo pahale eka the, 'hama donoM eka haiM, hama aise haiM, hama vaise haiN| yaha hamArA hI hai| usakA 'maiM aura tU' huA! isalie khIMcAtAnI hotI hai| vaha khIMcAtAnI phira kahA~ pahu~catI hai? Akhira haldIghATI kI lar3AI zurU ho jAtI hai| sarvanAza ko nimaMtrita karane kA sAdhana, yaha khIMcAtAnI ! isalie khIMcAtAnI to kisI ke sAtha mata hone denaa| rojAnA 'merI vAipha, merI vAipha' kahatA hai aura eka dina usane apane kapaDe pati ke baiga meM rakha diye taba dUsare dina pati kyA kahegA? 'mere baiga meM tUne sAr3iyA~ rakhI hI kyoM?' ye AbarUdAra kI aulAda! usakI sADiyA~ ise khA gaI! lekina unakA alaga astitva hai na, isalie vAipha aura hasabaiMDa, ve to biz2anesa (rizte) kI vajaha se eka hue, kaoNnTrekTa (karAra) hai yaha / vaha alaga astitva kyA miTa jAtA hai? astitva alaga hI rahatA hai| 'mere sandUka meM sAr3iyA~ kyoM rakhatI ho' aisA kahate haiM yA nahIM kahate? praznakartA : hA~, kahate haiN| dAdAzrI : yaha to cillAtA hai ki mere baiga meM terI sAr3iyA~ rakhIM hI kyoM? isa para patnI kahatI hai, 'kisI dina usake baiga meM kucha rakhA dAdAzrI : aura aise mukara jAe~ phir| striyA~ dakhala nahIM krtii| striyoM ke baiga meM yadi hamAre kapar3e rakhe hoM to vaha daqhala nahIM krtii| aura yahA~ to bhArI ahaMkAra ! bicchU kI taraha yoM DaMka maare| jarA chUe to mAra de turnt| yaha merI ApabItI kahatA hU~ tAki Apa sabakI samajha meM Ae ki ina para aisI bItI hogii| Apa aise hI sIdhe kabUla nahIM karoge, para maiM kabUla kara letA huuN| praznakartA : Apa bole isalie hameM apanA saba yAda A jAtA hai aura kabUla kara lete haiN| dAdAzrI : nahIM, tuma qabala nahIM karoge lekina maiM qabUla kara la~gA ki mujha para bItI hai| ApabItI nahIM bItI? are! DaMka mAre taba kaisA mAratA hai, ki 'tU apane ghara calI jA' kahatA hai| calI jAegI taba terI kyA dazA hogI? vaha to karma se baMdhI hai| kahA~ jAe becArI? para yaha jo tU bolatA hai vaha vyartha nahIM jaaegaa| yaha dAg2a usake dila meM hogA,

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 19 bAda meM vahI dAg2a tujha para lagegA, mue| ye karma bhugatane hoNge| vaha to mana meM samajhatA hai ki aba kahA~ jAnevAlI hai ?! aisA nahIM bolanA caahie| agara aisA bolate hoM to vaha bhUla hI khlaaegii| sabhI ne thor3e bahuta tAne to diye hoMge ki nahIM? praznakartA: hA~, diye the| sabhI ne diye haiM, unameM apavAda nahIM / kama-jyAdA ho para apavAda nahIM hogaa| dAdAzrI : aisA hai saba / aba ina sabako sayAne banAne haiN| bolie ab| ye kisa prakAra sayAne hoMge? dekho fajIhata, fajIhata! mu~ha jaise eraMDI kA tela piyA ho aisA ho gayA ho ! majedAra dUdhapAka aura acchI-acchI rasoI khAe~ phira bhI mu~ha eraMDI kA tela piyA ho, aisA lagatA hai| eraMDI kA tela to maha~gA ho gayA hai, kahA~ se lAkara piyeM? yaha to yU~ hI, eraMDI kA tela piyA ho aisA mu~ha lie phiratA hai ! praznakartA : ghara meM matabheda dUra karane ke lie kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : pahale matabheda kyoM hotA hai, isakA patA lgaao| kabhI aisA matabheda hotA hai ki, eka lar3akA aura eka lar3akI hai, donoM lar3ake kyoM nahIM, aisA matabheda hotA hai ? praznakartA: nahIM, vaise choTI-choTI bAtoM meM matabheda hotA hai| dAdAzrI : are, vaha to igoiz2ama (ahaMkAra) hai| isalie vaha kahe ki 'aisA hai', taba kahanA, 'ApakI bAta ThIka hai|' phira kucha nahIM hogaa| lekina hama phira apanI akla bIca meM lAte haiN| akla se akla lar3atI hai, isalie matabheda hotA hai| praznakartA : 'ApakI bAta ThIka hai' aisA mu~ha se bolane ke lie kyA karanA cAhie? aisA bola nahIM pAte, vaha aham kaise dUra kareM ? dAdAzrI : aisA bola nahIM pAte, satya kahate ho| isake lie thor3e dina prekTisa karanI hogii| yaha jo meM karatA hU~ vaha upAya karane ke lie pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 20 thor3e dina prekTisa karo na! phira vaha phiTa ho jAegA, ekadama se nahIM hogaa| praznakartA : matabheda kyoM hote haiM? isakI vajaha kyA ? dAdAzrI : matabheda huA arthAt vaha samajhatI hai ki maiM aklamaMda aura yaha samajhatA hai maiM aklamaMda huuN| akla ke ThekedAra Ae ! becane jAe~ to cAra Ane bhI nahIM Ae~! isake bajAya hama sayAne ho jAe~, usakI akla ko hama dekhA kareM ki ahoho... kaisI aklamaMda hai ! taba vaha ThaMDI ho jaaegii| para hama bhI aklamaMda aura vaha bhI aklavAlI, akla hI jahA~ lar3ane lage vahA~ kyA ho? tumheM matabheda jyAdA hotA hai ki unheM jyAdA hotA hai? praznakartA: unheM jyAdA hotA hai| dAdAzrI : matabheda yAnI kyA? matabheda kA artha tumheM samajhAtA huuN| yaha rassA-kazI kA khela hotA hai na, dekhA hai tumane ? praznakartA: haaN| dAdAzrI : do-cAra AdamI isa ora khIMcate haiM aura do-cAra AdamI usa ora khIMcate haiN| matabheda arthAt rssaakshii| isalie hameM dekhanA hai ki ghara meM bIvI bahuta z2ora se khIMca rahI hai aura hama bhI z2ora se khIMceMge taba phira kyA hogA ? praznakartA TUTa jaaegaa| dAdAzrI : aura TUTa jAne para gA~Tha lagAnI par3atI hai| taba gA~Tha lagAkara calAnA par3atA hai, isase to sAbuta rakheM, usameM kyA harja hai? isalie jaba vaha bahuta khIMce na, taba hameM chor3a denA hai| praznakartA: do meM se chor3e kauna? dAdAzrI samajhadAra, jisameM akla jyAdA hai vaha chor3a de aura

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22 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra kamaakla khIMce bagaira rahegA hI nahIM! isalie hameM, aklamaMda ko chor3a denA hai aura vaha bhI ekadama nahIM chodd'naa| ekadama chor3ane se sAmanevAlA gira pdd'egaa| isalie dhIre-dhIre, dhIre-dhIre se chodd'naa| isalie mere sAtha koI khIMcane lage taba maiM dhIre-dhIre chor3a detA huuN| varnA gira par3egA becaaraa| aba tuma chor3a doge aise? aba chor3anA AegA? chor3a doge na? varnA rassA gA~Tha mArakara calAnA pdd'egaa| roz2a roz2a gA~Tha lagAnA yaha kyA acchA lagatA hai? aura phira rassA to calAnA hI par3egA na? tumheM kyA lagatA hai? ghara meM matabheda hotA hogA? z2arA-sA bhI nahIM honA cAhie! ghara meM agara matabheda hotA hai to yU Ara anaphiTa (Apa ayogya ho)| agara hasabainDa (pati) aisA kare to vaha anaphiTa phora hasabainDa (pati hone ke lie lAyaka nahIM hai) aura vAipha (patnI) aisA kare to anaphiTa phora vAipha (patnI hone ke lie lAyaka nahIM hai)| praznakartA : pati-patnI ke jhagar3oM kA saMtAnoM para kyA asara hotA pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 'kyA dikkata hai tumako? mujhe batAo ki tumheM aurata pasaMda hI nahIM haiM? vAstavikatA kyA hai mujhe btaao|' taba ve kahate haiM, 'nahIM, hameM zAdI nahIM krnii|' maiMne pUchA, 'kyoM?' taba bole, 'zAdI meM sukha nahIM hai, yaha hamane dekha liyA hai|' maiMne kahA, 'abhI tumhArI umra nahIM huI hai aura byAhe bagaira tumheM kaise mAlUma huA, kaise anubhava haA?' taba kahate haiM, 'hamAre mAtApitA kA sukha(!) hama dekhate Ae haiN|' hama ina logoM kA sakha jAna gae! ina logoM ko hI sukha nahIM hai, to hama zAdI kareMge to jyAdA duHkhI hoNge| yAnI aisA bhI hotA hai| aisA hai na, abhI maiM kahU~ ki bhAI, isa samaya bAhara aMdherA ho gayA hai| isa para yaha bhAI kahe, 'nahIM, ujAlA hai|' taba maiM kahU~, 'bhAI, maiM Apako vinatI karatA hU~, Apa phira se dekhiye n|' taba kahe, 'nahIM, ujAlA hai|' taba maiM samajheM ki inheM jaisA dikhatA haiM vaisA kahate haiN| manuSya kI khada kI dRSTi se Age dRSTi nahIM jA sktii| isalie phira maiM use kaha dU~ ki Apake vyu poInTa (dRSTikoNa) se Apa ThIka kahate haiN| aba mere lie koI dUsarA kAma ho to btaao| itanA hI kahU~, 'yasa, yu Ara karekTa bAya yora vyu poInTa !' (hA~, Apa apane dRSTikoNa se sahI ho|) kahakara maiM Age bar3ha jaauuN| inake sAtha kahA~ sArI rAta baiThA rahU~? ve to vaise ke vaise hI rahanevAle haiN| isa taraha matabheda kA hala nikAla lenaa| mAno ki yahA~ se pA~ca sau phUTa dUra hamane eka suMdara sapheda ghor3A khar3A kiyA hai aura yahA~ para pratyeka ko dikhAkara pUche ki vahA~ kyA dikha rahA hai? koI gAya kahe, taba hameM usakA kyA karanA? hamAre ghor3e ko koI gAya kahe usa ghar3I hama use mAreM yA kyA kareM? praznakartA : mAranA nhiiN| dAdAzrI : kyoM? praznakartA : usakI najara meM gAya dikhAI dii| dAdAzrI : hA~, usakA cazmA aisA hai| hameM samajha lenA hai ki isa dAdAzrI : ahoho! bahuta burA asara hotA hai| itanA sA bAlaka ho vaha bhI aise dekhatA rahatA hai| pApA merI mammI ke sAtha bahuta jhagar3A karate haiN| pApA hI kharAba haiN| para vaha bolatA nhiiN| vaha samajhatA hai ki bolUMgA to mAreMge mujhe| mana meM yaha saba 'noTa' karatA hai, para ghara meM aisA tUphAna dekhatA hai to phira mana meM gA~Tha bA~dha letA hai ki 'bar3A hone para pApA ko piiyuuNgaa|' hamAre lie abhI se taya kara letA hai| phira baDA hone para piTAI karatA hai| aise pITane ke lie maiMne tumheM bar3A kiyA?''taba Apako kisane bar3A kiyA thA?' kahegA javAba meM! 'are, mere bApa taka pahu~cA?' taba kahegA, 'Apake dAdA taka phuNcuuNgaa|' hamane aisA bolane kA avasara diyA isalie na? aisI gA~Tha bA~dhane deM taba hamArI hI bhUla hai na! ghara meM jhagar3anA kisalie? isalie jhagar3anA hI mata tAki bacce bhI dekheM to kaheM ki pApA kitane acche haiM! lar3ake zAdI ke lie 'nA, nA' kyoM kahate haiM? maiMne unase pUchA ki

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 24 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra becAre ko naMbara Ae haiN| isalie usakA kasUra nhiiN| isalie hama use DA~Ta nahIM skte| usase kaheM ki bhAI, sahI hai ApakI baat| phira dUsare se pache ki kyA dikhAI detA hai? taba kahe. ghoDA dikhatA hai| taba hama samajheM ki inheM naMbara nahIM hai| aura tIsare se pUche ki kyA dikhatA hai? vaha kahe, 'bar3A baila ho aisA lagatA hai|' taba hama usake cazme kA naMbara jAna jaaeN| nahIM dikhe arthAt naMbara hai aisA samajha lenaa| tumheM kyA lagatA hai? AMtarika matabheda jo hote haiM, ve bIhevIara (vartana) meM pariNamita hote haiM, vaha to bahuta bhayaMkara kahalAtA hai na? dAdAzrI : AMtarika matabheda na? ve to bahuta bhayaMkara! para maiMne patA lagAyA ki isa AMtarika matabheda kA koI upAya haiM? para kisI zAstra meM nahIM milaa| phira maiMne khuda saMzodhana kiyA ki isakA upAya itanA hI hai ki maiM apanA mata chor3a dU~, taba koI matabheda nahIM rhegaa| merA abhiprAya hI nahIM, ApakA abhiprAya hI merA abhipraay| aba ekabAra merA hIrAbA (dAdAjI kI dharmapatnI) se matabheda ho gyaa| maiM bhI pha~sa gyaa| merI vAipha ko maiM 'hIrAbA' kahatA huuN| hama to jJAnIpuruSa hameM to sabhI (umra meM bar3I strIyoM) ko 'bA' kahanA par3e aura bAkI saba lar3akiyA~ kahalAyeM! yAnI bAta sunanA cAho to khuuN| yaha bahuta lambI kahAnI nahIM hai, choTI bAta hai| praznakartA : hA~, kahie na! dAdAzrI : eka dina matabheda ho gayA thaa| usameM unakA kasUra nahIM thA, merI hI bhUla thii| praznakartA : vaha to unakI huI hogI para Apa kahate ho ki merI bhUla huI thii| dAdAzrI : hA~, para unakI bhUla nahIM thI, merI bhUla / mujhe hI matabheda nahIM cAhie, unako to ho to bhI harja nahIM aura nahIM ho to bhI harja nhiiN| mujhe matabheda nahIM karanA, isalie merI hI bhUla kahalAegI na! yaha aise kiyA (kursI para hAtha mArA) to kursI ko lagA ki mujhe? praznakartA : aapko| dAdAzrI : isalie mujhe samajhanA cAhie na! taba phira eka dina matabheda huaa| maiM pha~sa gyaa| mujhase vaha kahatI hai, 'mere bhaiyA kI cAra lar3akiyA~ byAhanI haiM, unameM yaha pahalI kI zAdI hai| hama zAdI meM kyA deMge?' vaise aisA nahIM pUchatI to cltaa| jo bhI de usakI maiM 'nA' nahIM krtaa| mujhe pUchA isalie merI akla ke anusAra claa| unake jaisI akla mujha meM kahA~ se hotI? unhoMne pUchA isalie maiMne kahA ki isa alamArI meM cA~dI ke choTe-choTe bartana par3e haiM ve de denaa| naye banavAne ke bajAya unameM se ekAdha-do de denaa|' isa para unhoMne mujhe kyA kahA jAnate ho? hamAre ghara meM 'ta-ta maiM-maiM' jaisA zabda nahIM nikalatA thaa|'hm-hmaaraa' aisA hI bolate haiN| aba ve aisA bolI ki 'tumhAre mAmA kI lar3akiyoM kI zAdI meM to itane bar3e-bar3e cA~dI ke thAla dete ho na!' usa dina 'merAtumhArA' bolii| vaise hamezA 'hamArA' hI khtiiN| mere-tumhAre ke bheda se nahIM khtiiN| maiMne (mana hI mana) kahA, 'Aja hama pha~sa ge|' maiM turanta samajha gyaa| isalie isameM se nikalane kA rAstA DhU~Dhane lgaa| aba kisa prakAra ise sudhAra luuN| khUna nikalane lagA, aba kisa prakAra paTTI lagAe~ ki khUna banda ho jAe! arthAt usa dina tU-tU, maiM-maiM huI! Apake mAmA ke lar3ake' kahA! yaha dazA haI, merI nAsamajhI ke kAraNa ! maiMne socA. yaha to Thokara lagane jaisA huA Aja to! isalie maiM turanta hI palaTa gayA! palaTane meM harja nhiiN| matabheda ho isase palaTanA acchaa| turanta hI badala gayA sArA kA saaraa| maiMne kahA, 'maiM aisA nahIM kahanA caahtaa|' maiM jhUTha bolA, maiMne kahA, 'merI bAta alaga hai, Apa ulTA samajhI ho| mere kahane kA matalaba yaha nahIM thaa| taba kahe, 'to kyA kahate ho?' taba maiMne kahA, 'yaha cA~dI kA choTA bartana denA aura dUsare pA~ca sau rupaye naqada denaa| ve unheM kAma meM aaeNge|'

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 'tuma to bhole ho| itanA sArA koI detA hai kahIM?' isa para maiM samajha gayA ki hama jIta gae! phira maiMne kahA, 'taba tumheM jitane dene ho utane denA, cAroM lar3akiyA~ hamArI beTiyA~ haiN|' taba ve khuza ho giiN| phira 'deva jaise haiM' aisA kahatI haiM! dekho, paTTI lagA dI (bAjI saMbhAla lI) na! maiM jAnatA thA ki maiM pA~ca sau kahU~gA to ve de deM aisI nahIM haiM ! isalie hama unheM hI adhikAra sauMpa deM na! maiM svabhAva pahacAnatA thaa| maiM pA~ca sau = to ve tIna sau de aaeN| isalie bolie, sattA sauMpane meM mujhe kyA harja hogA? bhojana ke samaya kiTa-kiTa praznakartA : kar3hI khArI ho to khArI kahanA hI par3egA na? dAdAzrI : phira jIvana khArA ho jAegA na! tuma 'khArI' kahakara dUsare kA apamAna karate ho| use phaimili (parivAra) nahIM khte| praznakartA : apanoM ko hI kahate haiM na, parAye ko thor3e hI kahate ghara meM kisa lie yaha dakhala dete ho? manuSya kI bhUla nahIM hotI kyA? karanevAle se bhUla hotI hai ki nahIM karanevAle se? praznakartA : karanevAle se| dAdAzrI : taba 'kar3hI khArI hai' aisI bhUla nahIM nikAla skte| usa kar3hI ko alaga rakhakara, dUsarA jo kucha hai vaha khA lenA hai hmeN| para unakI Adata hai ki aisI koI galatI nikAla kara unheM dhmkaanaa| yaha unakI Adata hai| para yaha bahana bhI kucha kaccI mAyA nhiiN| yaha amarIkA aisA kare taba raziyA vaisA kre| arthAt amarIkA-raziyA jaisA ho gayA yaha to, kuTumba meM, faimili meN| isalie niraMtara andara kolDavora (zItayuddha) calatA rahatA hai| aisA nahIM, phaimili banA do| maiM tumheM samajhAU~gA ki faimili banakara kaise rahanA! yahA~ to ghara-ghara kleza hai| 'kar3hI khArI huI', aisA hama na kaheM to nahIM calegA? opiniyana (abhiprAya) nahIM deM to kyA una logoM ko patA nahIM caleM yA hameM kahanA hI par3e? hamAre yahA~ mehamAna Ae hoM na, to mehamAnoM ko bhI khAne nahIM deN| hama aise kyoM baneM? vaha khAyegI to kyA use patA nahIM calegA yA hameM hI use kahanA par3e? dAdAzrI : to kyA apanoM ko Thesa pahu~cAnA? praznakartA : kaheM to dUsarI bAra ThIka se kareMge islie| dAdAzrI : vaha ThIka banAye yA nahIM banAye ve bAteM saba gapa haiN| kisa AdhAra para hotA hai, yaha maiM jAnatA huuN| banAnevAle ke hAtha meM sattA nahIM hai aura tumhAre kahanevAle ke hAthoM meM bhI sattA nahIM hai| ina sabhI sattA kA AdhAra kyA hai? isalie eka akSara bhI bolane jaisA nahIM hai| tU aba thor3A-bahuta samajhadAra huA ki nahIM huA? samajhadAra hogA na? pUrNarUpa se samajhadAra honA hai| ghara meM vAipha kahe, 'are! aisA pati bAra-bAra mile|' mujhe Aja taka kevala eka bahana ne kahA, 'dAdAjI, pati mile to yahI kA yahI mile|' varnA jyAdAtara to mu~ha para (acchA) kahatI haiM, para pIche se itanI gAliyA~ detI haiN| 'mere dila meM Aja bhI vaha ghAva hai', aisA kahanevAlI bhI eka aurata milI! bAkI strI ko bAra-bAra TokaTAka, TokaTAka nahIM karanA caahie| 'sabjI ThaMDI kyoM ho gaI? dAla kA chauMka ThIka kyoM nahIM kiyA?' aisI kiTa-kiTa kyoM karate ho? bAraha mahIne meM ekAdha dina ekAdha zabda kahA ho to ThIka hai para yaha to roz2AnA? 'sasura maryAdA meM to baha lAja meN|' hameM maryAdA meM rahanA caahie| dAla ThIka nahIM huI ho, sabjI ThaNDI ho gaI ho, vaha saba to (apane karmoM ke adhIna) niyamAnusAra hotA hai| agara bahuta jyAdA ho jAe aura kisI vakta kahanA par3e to dhIre se kahanA ki 'yaha sabjI roz2a garma hotI hai taba bahuta maz2A AtA hai| isa prakAra kaheM to vaha izArA samajha jaaegii|

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra hamAre yahA~ to ghara meM bhI kisI ko mAlUma nahIM ki 'dAdA' ko yaha pasaMda nahIM hai aura yaha pasaMda hai| yaha rasoI banAnI kyA rasoI banAnevAle ke hAtha kA khela hai? yaha to khAnevAle ke 'vyavasthita' ke hisAba se thAlI meM AtA hai| usameM dakhala nahIM karanI caahie| pati cAhie, patipanA nahIM 27 zAdI karane se pahale lar3akI dekhate haiM, usameM harja nahIM, dekho para sArA jIvana vaisI kI vaisI rahanevAlI hai to dekho| vaisI rahegI kyA? jaisI dekhI hai vaisI? parivartana hue binA rahegA? phira parivartana honA vaha sahana nahIM hogA, vyAkulatA hone lagatI hai| phira kahA~ jAnA? A pha~se bhAI, A pha~se / taba zAdI kisa lie? hama bAhara se kamA lAe~, vaha ghara kA kAma kare aura hamArA saMsAra cale, sAtha hI dharma kara sakeM isake lie zAdI karanI hai| aura bIvI kahatI ho ki eka-do bacce to cAhie, to utanA nibaTArA lA do, phira rAma terI mAyA ! para yaha to phira svAmI hone jAte haiM (bIvI para svAmitva jatAte haiN)| are, svAmI hone kyoM calA hai? tere meM barakata to hai nahIM aura svAmI hone calA ! 'maiM to svAmI hU~' kahatA hai ! bar3A AyA svAmI! mu~ha to dekho inakA, para loga to svAmitva rakhate haiM na? gAya kA svAmI ho baiThatA hai, bhaiMsa kA bhI, para gAyeM bhI tumheM svAmI ke rUpa meM svIkAra nahIM krtii| vaha to tuma mana meM samajhate ho ki yaha gAya merI hai| tuma to kapAsa ko bhI merA kahate ho, 'yaha merA kapAsa hai|' kapAsa ko to mAlUma bhI nahIM becAre ko tumhAre hote to tumheM dekhate hI bar3hate aura tuma ghara jAo to nhiiN| para yaha kapAsa to rAta ko bhI bar3hatA haiN| kapAsa rAta ko bar3hatA hai ki nahIM bar3hatA ? praznakartA bar3hatA hai| dAdAzrI : usako tumhArI z2arUrata nahIM, use to barasAta kI z2arUrata hai| barasAta nahIM hotI taba sUkha jAtA hai becArA ! 28 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra praznakartA: lekina unako hamArA saba khyAla nahIM rakhanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : ahoho ! bIvI khyAla rakhane ke liye lAye hoMge? praznakartA: isIlie to bIvI ko ghara lAye haiM na ! dAdAzrI : aisA hai na, zAstrakAroM ne kahA hai ki svAmitva jatAnA nhiiN| vAstava meM tuma svAmI nahIM, tumhArI pArTanarazipa ( sAjhedArI) hai| yaha to yahA~ vyavahAra meM bolA jAtA hai ki patnI aura pati, dhanI dhanIyAnI ! magara vAstava meM pArTanarazipa ( sAjhedArI) hai| svAmI ho isalie tumhArA haqa-dAvA nahIM hai| dAvA dAyara nahIM kara skte| samajhA-samajhA kara saba kAma kro| praznakartA : kanyAdAna kiyA, dAna meM kanyA dI, isalie phira hama usake svAmI hI ho gae na ? dAdAzrI : yaha susaMskRta samAja kA kAma nahIM haiM, yaha vAIlDa (asaMskRta) samAja kA kAma hai| hameM, susaMskRta samAja ko, yaha dekhanA cAhie ki strI (patnI) ko z2arA bhI takalIfa na ho / varnA tuma sukhI nahIM hoge| strI (patnI) ko duHkha dekara koI sukhI nahIM huA / aura jisa strI (patnI) ne pati ko kucha duHkha pahu~cAyA hogA, vaha strI bhI kabhI sukhI nahIM huI! svAmitva bhAva ko lekara to vaha (pati) sira para car3ha baiThatA hai| vAipha ke sAtha usakI pArTanarazipa hai, mAlikI nahIM hai| praznakartA: agara vAipha bosa (mAlika) bana baiThatI hai usakA kyA karanA? dAdAzrI : usameM harja nahIM, vaha to jalebI, pakaur3e banA kara detI hai na / hama kaheM ki ahoho ! tUne to pakaur3e jalebI banAkara khilAye na ! aisA karo to khuza ho jAegI, phira dUsare dina ThaMDI par3a jAegI, apane Apa / isakI ghabarAhaTa mata rkhnaa| vaha hama para savAra kaba hogI? agara

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra usakI mUMche nikaleM taba savAra hogii| para kyA mUMche nikalanevAlI hai? kitanI bhI samajhadAra ho phira bhI mUMche nikaleMgI? bAqI eka janma to tumhArA hisAba hai utanA cukAnA hogaa| dUsarA lambA-lambA hisAba honevAlA hI nhiiN| eka bhava kA hisAba to nizcita hI hai, taba phira hama kyoM na zAMta cita hokara raheM? kacha loga to mala meM hI klezaparNa svabhAva ke hote haiN| para kacha loga to aise pakke hote haiM ki bAhara jhagar3A kara Ae~, para ghara meM bIvI ke sAtha jhagar3A nahIM krte| pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra acchA kamAyeM, aisI bhAvanA bhI thii| aura vaha du:kha mukta hokara sukhI hove, aisI bhAvanA! maiMne kahA, 'kyoM nahIM AU~gA? tere yahA~ pahale aauuNgaa|' taba kahane lagA, 'mere yahA~ to eka hI rUma hai, Apako kahA~ biThAU~gA?' taba maiMne kahA, 'maiM kahIM bhI bailUMgA, mujhe to eka kursI hI cAhie, nahIM to kursI nahIM hogI taba bhI mujhe clegaa| terI icchA hai isalie maiM z2arUra aauuNgaa|' phira maiM to gyaa| hamArA kaoNnTrekTa kA vyavasAya, isalie hama usake ghara bhI gaye, vahA~ cAya bhI pii| hamArA kisI se bhedabhAva nahIM hotaa| maiMne kahA, 'are, yaha eka hI rUma bar3A hai aura dUsarA to saMDAsa ke barAbara hI choTA hai|' taba kahe, 'sAhaba, kyA kare? hama garIba ke lie itanA bahuta hai|' maiMne kahA, 'terI vAipha kahA~ sotI haiM?' taba kahA, 'isI rUma meM, ye beDarUma (zayanakakSa) kaho, ye DAInIMga rUma (bhojana kakSa) kaho, saba ye hii|' maiMne kahA 'ahamada miyA~, aurata ke sAtha kucha jhagar3Avagar3A hotA nahIM hai kyA?' 'yaha kyA bole? kabhI nahIM hotaa| maiM aisA markha AdamI nhiiN|' 'matabheda?' taba kahe. 'kyA kahate ho? nahIM. matabheda aurata ke sAtha nhiiN| bIvI ke sAtha merI takarAra nahIM hotii|' maiMne kahA, 'kabhI bIvI gussA kare taba?' to kahane lagA, 'pyArI, vahA~ sAhaba parezAna karatA hai aura Upara se tU parezAna karegI to merA kyA hogA? to cupa ho jAtI hai|' eka dina hama eka miyA~bhAI ke vahA~ gae the taba miyA~bhAI bIvI ko jhUlA jhulA rahe the! isa para maiMne pUchA ki, 'Apa aisA karate ho isase vaha Apa para savAra nahIM ho jAtI?' taba usane kahA ki 'vaha kyA savAra hogI, usake pAsa kucha hathiyAra to nahIM, kucha bhI nhiiN|' maiMne kahA ki, 'hameM to Dara lagatA hai ki bIvI savAra ho jAegI to kyA hogA? isa lie hama jhUlA nahIM jhulaate|' taba miyA~bhAI ne kahA ki 'yaha jhalA jhalAne kI vajaha Apa jAnate ho?' vaha to aisA huA ki 1943-44 meM hamane gavarmenTa kAma kA kaoNnTrekTa rakhA thA, usameM cinAI kAma kA lebara kaoNnTrekTa thaa| usane kaoNnTrekTa le liyA thaa| usakA nAma ahamada miyA~, vaha bahuta dinoM se kahate the ki, sAhaba mere ghara Apa AIe, merI jhopar3I meM aaiie| jhoMpar3I kahatA becaaraa| bAtacIta meM bar3e samajhadAra hote haiM, vyavahAra meM alaga bAta hogI yA nahIM bhI hogI, para bAtacIta meM jahA~ svArtha nahIM hotA vahA~ acchA lagatA hai| vaha ahamada miyA~ eka dina kahane lagA, 'seThajI, Aja hamAre ghara Apa tazarIfa laayeN| mere yahA~ padhArie tAki mere bIvI-bacce sabhI ko AnaMda ho|' taba jJAna-bAna to nahIM thA para vicAra bahuta sundara, sabhI ke prati acchI bhAvanA thii| apane yahA~ se kamAtA ho to usake lie, kaise maiMne kahA, 'matabheda nahIM hotA isalie jhaMjhaTa nahIM na?' to bolA, "nahIM, matabheda hogA to vaha kahA~ soyegI aura maiM kahA~ soU~gA? yahA~ dotIna maMz2ileM hoM to maiM jAnU~ ki tIsarI maMjila para calA jaauuN| para yahA~ to isI rUma meM sonA hai| maiM isa karavaTa so jAU~ aura vaha usa karavaTa so jAe phira kyA maz2A AegA? sArI rAta nIMda nahIM aaegii| para aba seThajI maiM kahA~ jAU~? isalie isa bIvI ko kabhI du:kha nahIM detaa| bIvI mujhe pITe taba bhI duHkha nahIM duuNgaa| maiM bAhara saba ke sAtha jhagar3A karake AU~gA, para bIvI ke sAtha 'kliyara' rakhane kaa| vAipha ko kucha parezAna

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 31 nahIM krnaa| khujalI AtI ho taba bAhara jhagar3A karate haiM para ghara meM nhiiN|" bIvI ne sulemAna se miThAI lAne ko kahA ho, aba sulemAna ko tanakhvAha kama milatI ho, isalie vaha becArA miThAI kahA~ se lAye ? sulemAna se bIvI mahIne bhara se kahatI rahatI ho ki 'ina sabhI baccoM ko, becAroM ko bahuta icchA hai| aba to miThAI le aao|' phira eka dina bIvI mana meM bahuta akulAye to vaha kahatA hai, 'Aja to lekara hI AU~gA, usake pAsa javAba naqada hotA hai, jAnatA hai ki javAba udhAra rakhU~gA to gAliyA~ degii| taba phira kahatA hai ki 'Aja laauuNgaa|' aisA kahakara TAla detA hai| agara javAba nahIM de to jAte samaya bIvI kiTakiTa kregii| isalie turanta pojiTiva (sakArAtmaka) javAba de detA hai| ki ' Aja le aauuNgaa|' isalie bIvI samajhatI hai ki Aja lekara AeMge, para vaha AtA hai aura khAlI hAtha dekhakara bIvI cillAtI hai| sulemAna yU~ to samajha meM bar3A pakkA hotA hai, isalie bIvI ko samajhA detA hai ki, 'merI hAlata maiM hI jAnatA hU~, tuma kyA smjho|' eka-do vAkya aise kahatA hai ki bIvI kahegI, acchA bAda meM laanaa| para dasa-paMdraha dina bAda bIvI phira se kahatI hai to, 'merI hAlata maiM jAnatA huuN|' aisA kahatA hai aura bIvI to mAna jAtI hai| vaha kabhI jhagar3A nahIM krtii| aura kaI loga to usI samaya kahate haiM ki 'tU mujha para roba jamAtI hai ?' are, aisA strI ke pAsa nahIM bolte| usakA matalaba, tU svayaM bolatA hai, 'tU dabA huA hai|' aura mAnA ki Aja roba jamAtI hai to hameM zAMta rahanA caahie| jisameM nirbalatA ho vaha cir3hatA hai| auraMgAbAda meM eka hakIma kA lar3akA AyA thaa| usane sunA hogA ki dAdA ke pAsa kucha adhyAtma jJAna jAnane yogya hai| isalie vaha lar3akA aayaa| taba maiMne satsaMga kI sArI bAteM btaaii| vaijJAnika tarIke se bAta kI, isalie usake mana meM huA kiyaha vaijJAnika paddhati acchI hai, hamAre sunane lAyaka hai| Aja taka calA, vaha jamAne ke anusAra likhA gayA hai| jaisA jamAnA thA aisA varNana kiyA hai| arthAt jamAnA jaise-jaise badalatA hai vaise 32 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra varNana badalatA jAtA hai| aura paigaMbara sAhaba yAnI kyA? khudA kA paig2Ama yahA~ lAkara sabako pahu~cAye usakA nAma paigaMbara | phira maiMne usakA maz2Aka kiyA, maiMne pUchA ki 'are, zAdI-vAdI kI hai yA aise hI ghUma rahA hai?' 'zAdI kI hai' kahatA hai| maiMne kahA, 'kaba kI? mujhe bulAyA nahIM tUne?' 'dAdAjI merI Apase pahacAna nahIM thI varnA bulAtA usa dina, zAdI hue chaha mahIne hI hue haiM abhii|' usane btaayaa| 'namAz2a kitanI bAra par3hatA hai?' 'sAhaba, pA~coM bAra' kahane lgaa| are, rAta ko kisa prakAra namAz2a par3hanA anukUla hogA tIna baje ? 'karane kI hI, usameM calegA hI nahIM, tIna baje uThakara adA karane kii| choTI umra se hI karatA AyA hU~ / mere phAdara haqIma sAhaba bhI karate the|' phira maiMne pUchA, 'aba to bIvI AI, aba kaise karane degI, tIna baje?' 'bIvI ne bhI mujhase kahA hai, tuma namAz2a adA kara lenaa|' taba maiMne pUchA, 'bIvI ke sAtha jhagar3A nahIM hotA?" "yaha kyA bole ? yaha kyA bole ?' maiMne kahA, 'kyoM?' 'ohoho bIvI to mu~ha kA pAna ! vaha mujhe DA~Te to calA lU~, saahb| bIvI kI vajaha seto jItA hU~, bIvI mujhe bahuta sukha detI hai| bahuta acchA-acchA bhojana pakAkara khilAtI hai| use duHkha kaise diyA jAe?' aba itanA samajhe to bhI ganImata / bIvI para jora nahIM claate| hameM nahIM samajhanA cAhie? bIvI kA kucha gunAha hai ? 'vaha gAlI de taba bhI kucha harja nhiiN| dUsarA koI gAlI de to dekha luuN|' dekho! aba ina logoM ko kitanI qImata hai ! dUsaroM kI bhUla nikAlane kI Adata praznakartA: bhUla nikAleM taba use burA lagatA hai| aura nahIM nikAleM taba bhI burA lagatA hai| dAdAzrI : nahIM, nahIM, burA nahIM lagatA hai| hama bhUla nahIM nikAleM to vaha kahegI, 'kar3hI khArI thI phira bhI nahIM kahA!' taba hama kaheM, 'tumheM patA calegA na, maiM kyoM kahU~?' para yaha to kar3hI khArI huI to mu~ha bigAr3e, kar3hI bahuta khArI hai ! are ! kisa birAdarI ke manuSya ho? ise pati ke rUpa meM kaise rakha sakate haiM? aise pati ko nikAla bAhara karanA caahie| aise

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24 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 33 kamajora pati ! kyA patnI nahIM samajhatI ki tU use samajhAne nikalA hai! usake sAtha mAthApaccI karatA hai! phira usake hRdaya para ghAva nahIM hogA kyA? mana meM kahegI, 'kyA maiM yaha nahIM samajhatI? yaha to mujha para tIra calAtA hai| yaha kalamu~hA hara roz2a merI galatiyA~ nikAlatA rahatA hai|' to hamAre loga jAna-bUjhakara ye bhUleM nikAlate haiM, isase saMsAra jyAdA bigar3atA jA rahA hai| tumheM kyA lagatA hai? isalie thor3A hama soceM to kyA harja hai? praznakartA : galatiyA~ nikAleM to phira unase phira se galatI nahIM hogI na? dAdAzrI : ahoho, arthAt upadeza dene ke lie! taba bhUla nikAlane meM harja nahIM, maiM Apase kyA kahatA hU~ bhUleM nikAlo, para vaha use upakAra samajhe taba bhUla nikaalo| vaha kahe ki acchA huA Apane merI bhUla btaaii| mujhe to mAlUma hI nhiiN| bahana, tuma inakA upakAra mAnatI ho? meM zakkara DAlo sAhaba!' taba dAdA (bhAva se) DAla dete haiN| (cAya mIThI hai, mIThI hai aisA bhItara rakhakara eDajasTamenTa le lete haiN|) arthAt bagaira zakkara cAya Ae taba pI jAte haiM bs| hameM to kucha bakheDA hI nahIM na! aura phira ve zakkara lekara aae| maiMne pUchA, 'bhAI, zakkara kyoM lAyA? ye cAya ke kapa-pleTa le jA!' taba bolA, 'cAya phIkI thI phira bhI Apane zakkara nahIM mA~gI!' maiMne kahA, 'maiM kyoM kahU~? tumhArI samajha meM Ae aisI bAta hai|' eka bhAI se pUchA, 'ghara meM kabhI patnI kI bhUla nikAlate ho?' taba bolA, 'vaha hai hI bhUlavAlI, isalie bhUla nikAlanI hI par3egI na!' dekho, yaha akla kA borA ! becane jAe~ to cAra Ane bhI nahIM Ae aura mAna baiThA hai ki merI patnI bhUlavAlI hai, lo! praznakartA : kaI loga apanI bhala samajhate haiM, para sudhArate nahIM hoM taba? dAdAzrI : ve kahane se nahIM sudhrnevaale| kahane para to aura ulTA calate haiN| vaha to kisI samaya jaba soca rahA ho taba hama batAyeM ki yaha galatI kaise sudharegI! Amane-sAmane bAtacIta karo, aise phrenDa kI trh| vAipha ke sAtha phrenDazipa (mitratA) rakhanI caahie| nahIM rakhanI cAhie? dUsaroM ke sAtha phrenDazipa rakhate ho na! phrenDa ke sAtha aisA kleza karate ho roz2a-roja? usakI bhUleM DirekTa (pratyakSa rUpa se) nahIM btaate| kyoMki phrenDazipa TikAnI hai| aura yaha to (usake sAtha) zAdI kI hai, kahA~ jAnevAlI hai? aisA hameM zobhA nahIM detaa| jIvana aisA banAo ki bagIcA lge| ghara meM matabheda nahIM ho, kucha nahIM ho, ghara bagIcA samAna lge| aura ghara meM kisI ko thor3I bhI daqhala nahIM hone deN| choTe bacce kI bhI bhUla, agara vaha jAnatA ho to nahIM dikhA skte| nahIM jAnatA ho to hI bhUla dikhA sakate haiN| vaha to vyartha pAgalapana thA, svAmitva siddha karane kaa| arthAt svAmitva nahIM dikhAnA caahie| svAmitva to taba kahalAegA jaba sAmanevAlA praznakartA : nhiiN| dAdAzrI : taba phira usakA kyA artha? jo bhala vaha jAnatI ho, tumheM vaha bhUla use batAne kA kyA artha hai? unheM striyA~ kalamu~hA kahatI haiM, ki 'kalamu~hA jaba dekho taba bolatA rahatA hai|' jisa bhUla ko vaha jAnatI ho, usa bhUla ko hameM nahIM nikAlanA caahie| dUsarA kucha bhI huA ho, yA kar3hI khArI huI ho yA phira sabjI bigar3a gaI ho, jaba vaha khAyegI taba use patA calegA yA nahIM? isalie hameM kahane kI z2arUrata nahIM rahatI para jo bhUla use mAlUma nahIM ho vaha hama batAyeM taba vaha upakAra maanegii| bAqI vaha jAnatI ho vaha bhUla dikhAnA to gunAha hai| hamAre loga hI nikAlate haiN| maiM to sAMtAkruja meM tIsarI maMjila para ghara meM baiThA hoU~ aura cAya AtI hai| taba kisI dina jarA zakkara DAlanA bhUla gae hoM taba pI jAtA hU~ aura vaha bhI dAdA ke nAma pr| bhItara dAdA se kahatA hU~ ki 'cAya

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35 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pratikAra nahIM kare taba samajhanA ki svAmitva hai| yaha to turanta pratikAra karate haiN| ghara meM to strI ke sAtha hara koI kiTa-kiTa karatA hai, yaha vIra kI nizAnI nhiiN| vIra to kauna kahalAtA hai, jo strI ko athavA saMtAnoM ko, kisI ko bhI takalIpha nahIM detaa| baccA jarA ulTA bole para mAtApitA bigar3eM nahIM taba sahI khlaae| baccA to Akhira baccA hai| tumheM kyA lagatA hai? nyAya kyA kahatA hai? kisa bAta ke lie hameM TokanA par3atA hai, jisakI use samajha nahIM ho| isalie hameM use samajhanA caahie| use apanI samajha hai| use hama kahate haiM taba usakA Igoijama (ahaMkAra) ghAyala hotA hai| aura phira vaha maukA DhUMDhatA hai ki merI pakar3a meM Ane do eka din| mauke kI tAka meM rahatA hai| to phira hameM aisA karane kI z2arUrata kyA? arthAt vaha jinajina bAtoM ko samajha sake aisA hai, usake lie Tokane kI jarUrata nahIM hotii| 36 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra caahie| itanA parivartana lAo to acchA hai| kleza to honA hI nahIM caahie| hameM jitane DaoNlara prApta hoM utane meM gujArA kara lenaa| aura tumheM jaba paisoM kI vyavasthA na ho, taba sAr3iyoM ke lie jaldI nahIM karanI caahie| tumheM bhI socanA cAhie ki pati muzkila meM ho to parezAna nahIM karanA caahie| jyAdA ho to kharca krnaa| gAr3I kA garama mUDa yaha to rAta ko kisI vakta pati ko ghara lauTane meM derI ho jAe, kisI saMyogavaza, 'haM... itanI dera se kyoM Ae?' to ve nahIM jAnate ki dera ho gaI hai? unake bhItara bhI khaTakatA hogA ki bahuta dera ho gaI, bahuta dera ho gii| usameM phira yaha vAipha aisA kahe ki itanI dera se koI AtA hogA? becArA! aisI mIniMgalesa (arthahIna) bAtoM se kyA phAyadA? aisA terI samajha meM AtA hai? arthAt ve ghara dera se lauTeM usa dina hama dekha leM ki mUDa kaisA hai? isalie phira turanta kahanA ki pahale cAya-vAya pIo, phira bhojana ke lie baittho| aisA kahane se acche mUDa meM A jAtA hai| mUDa ulTA ho to hama unheM cAya-pAnI pilAkara khuza kreN| jaise pulisavAlA AyA ho, hamArA mUDa nahIM ho, phira bhI cAya-pAnI nahIM karAte? yaha to apanA hai, use khuza nahIM karanA cAhie? apane haiM, isalie khaza karanA caahie| bahutoM ko mAlUma hogA ki kabhI gAr3I mUDa meM nahIM hotI, aisA nahIM hotA? garama ho gaI ho taba kyA use lAThI mAranI cAhie? use mUDa meM lAne ke lie ThaMDI karanI par3atI hai thor3I, reDIyeTara phirAnA, paMkhA claanaa| nahIM karate? praznakartA (strI) : unheM brAnDI pInA kisa tarIke se baMda karAe~? dAdAzrI : ghara meM tumhArA prema dekheMge to saba chor3a deNge| prema ke khAtira sabhI cIjeM chor3ane ko taiyAra haiN| prema naz2ara nahIM AtA isalie zarAba se prema karatA hai, kisI aura se prema karatA hai| nahIM to bIca (samadra taTa) para hamalA karatA hai| bhaiyA, yahA~ tere bApa ne kyA gAr3a rakhA haiM, ghara para jA na! taba kahegA, 'ghara para to mujhe acchA hI nahIM lgtaa|' jyAdA kar3avA ho to hameM akele pI jAnA hai para striyoM ko kaise pIne deM? kyoMki AphTara oNla (Akhira meM) hama mahAdevajI haiN| hama mahAdevajI nahIM haiM ? puruSa mahAdevajI samAna hote haiN| adhika kar3aA ho to kaho, 'tU so jA maiM pI lU~gA!' striyA~ bhI saMsAra meM sahayoga nahIM detI becArI? phira unake sAtha anabana kaisI? use kucha duHkha ho gayA ho taba hameM pazcAtApa karanA cAhie ekAnta meM ki aba du:kha nahIM dUMgA, merI bhUla ho gii| ghara meM kisa prakAra ke duHkha hote haiM, kisa prakAra ke jhagar3e hote haiM, kisa prakAra matabheda hotA hai, yaha saba donoM likhakara lAo na, to eka ghaNTe meM sabhI kA nibaTArA lA duuN| matabheda nAsamajhI kI vajaha se hI hote haiM, dUsarA koI kAraNa nhiiN| hamAre ghara kI bAta ghara meM rahe aisA faimili kI taraha jIvana jInA

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra jAegI kise mAlUma? hama sIdhI kareM aura agale janma meM jAe dUsare ke hisse meM! khuda sIdhA huA ho vahI dUsare ko sudhAra sakatA hai| prakRti DA~TaDapaTa se nahIM sudharatI, na hI vaza meM AtI hai| DA~Ta se to saMsAra khar3A huA hai| DA~Ta-DapaTa se to usakI prakRti aura bigdd'egii| sudhAranA yA sudharanA? yaha saMbaMdha rileTiva hai| bahuta loga kyA karate haiM ki jorU ko sudhArane ke lie itanI z2ida para Ate haiM ki prema kI Dora TUTa jAtI hai vahA~ taka jida pakar3ate haiN| ve samajhate haiM ki ise mujhe sudhAranA hI hogaa| are ! tU sudhara na! tU pahale sudhara jaa| aura yaha to riyala nahIM, rileTiva hai! alaga ho jaaegii| isalie hameM jhUTha-mUTha nATaka karake bhI gAr3I paTarI para car3hA denI hai| yahA~ se paTarI para car3ha gaI to sTezana pahu~ca jAegI, saTAsaTa / arthAt yaha rileTiva hai, samajhA-bujhAkara nirAkaraNa kara denaa| praznakartA : prakRti nahIM sudharatI, para vyavahAra to sudhAranA cAhie na? dAdAzrI : vyavahAra to logoM ko AtA hI nhiiN| agara kabhI vyavahAra AtA, are! AdhA ghaNTA bhI vyavahAra karanA AtA taba bhI bahuta hotA! vyavahAra to samajhe hI nahIM hai| vyavahAra yAnI kyA? Upara-Upara se| vyavahAra matalaba satya nhiiN| yaha to vyavahAra ko hI satya mAna liyA hai| vyavahAra-satya yAnI rileTiva sty| isalie yahA~ ke noTa asalI hoM yA jAlI hoM, donoM 'vahA~' mokSa ke sTezana para kAma nahIM aaeNge| isalie hama apanA kAma nikAla leM! vyavahAra yAnI diyA thA vaha vApasa lenaa| abhI koI kahe ki 'tujha meM akla nhiiN|' to hama samajheM ki yaha to diyA thA vaha vApasa aayaa| yaha jo samajha lo to vaha vyavahAra khlaaegaa| Ajakala vyavahAra kisI ko hai hI nhiiN| jisakA vyavahAra vyavahAra hai, usakA nizcaya nizcaya hai| koI kahegA ki, 'bhAI, use sIdhI kro|' are! use sIdhI karane (sudhArane) jAegA to tU Ter3hA ho jaaegaa| isalie vAipha ko sIdhI karane mata jAnA, jaisI hai vaisI use 'karekTa' (sahI) smjho| hameM usake sAtha kAyamI lena-dena ho to alaga bAta hai, yaha to eka janma ke bAda phira kahA~ ke kahA~ bikhara jaaeNge| donoM kA maraNakAla bhinna, donoM ke karma bhinn| kucha lenA bhI nahIM aura denA bhI nahIM! yahA~ se vaha kisake vahA~ sAmanevAle ko sudhArane ke lie tumheM dayA ho to DA~TanA mt| use sudhArane ke lie to usakI barAbarI kA use mila hI jaaegaa| jo hamAre rakSaNa meM ho, usakA bhakSaNa kaise kara sakate haiM? jo apane Azraya meM AyA usakA rakSaNa karanA to mukhya dhyeya honA caahie| usane gunAha kiyA ho taba bhI usakI rakSA karanI caahie| ye videzI sainika yahA~ (apane deza meM) abhI sabhI kaidI haiM phira bhI apane sainika unakI kaisI rakSA karate haiM! taba ye to apane gharavAle hI haiM na? bAharavAloM ke pAsa (bhIgI billI kI taraha) myAU~ ho jAte ho, vahA~ jhagaDA nahIM karate aura ghara para hI saba-kucha karate haiN| komanasensa se 'eDajasTa evarIvhera' (sAmAnya buddhi se hara jagaha anukUlana) kisI ke sAtha matabheda honA aura dIvAra se TakarAnA donoM samAna haiN| una donoM meM pharka nhiiN| jo dIvAra se TakarAtA hai vaha nahIM dikhatA isalie TakarAtA hai| aura jo matabheda hotA hai vaha bhI nahIM dikhane se matabheda hotA hai| Age kA use naz2ara nahIM AtA, Age kA use solyuzana (hala) nahIM milatA, isalie matabheda hotA hai| yaha krodha hotA hai, vaha bhI nahIM dikhane se krodha hotA hai| ye krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha sabhI karate haiM vaha nahIM dikhane para karate haiN| to bAta ko aise samajhanI cAhie na ! jisako lage usakA doSa hai na, kyA dIvAra kA koI doSa hai? aba isa jagata meM sabhI dIvAreM hI haiN| dIvAra se TakarAne para hama usake sAtha kharI-khoTI karane nahIM jAte ki yaha merA sahI hai| aise lar3ane kI jhaMjhaTa nahIM karate na?

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra jo TakarAte haiM na, samajho ve saba dIvAreM hI haiN| phira daravAjA DhUMDhanA to aMdhere meM bhI daravAjA milegaa| aise hAtha se TaTolate TaTolate jAe~ to daravAjA milatA hai ki nahIM milatA? mile to vahA~ se phira nikala jaanaa| TakarAnA nahIM hai, isa niyama kA pAlana karake dekho ki 'kisI se Takkara lenI hI nahIM hai|' do DipArTamenTa alaga puruSa ko strI ke mAmale meM hastakSepa nahIM karanA cAhie aura strI ko puruSa ke mAmale meM hastakSepa nahIM karanA caahie| pratyeka ko apaneapane 'DipArTamenTa' (vibhAga) meM hI rahanA caahie| praznakartA : strI kA DipArTamenTa kauna-sA? kina-kina meM puruSoM ko hastakSepa nahIM karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : aisA hai, khAnA kyA pakAnA, ghara kaise calAnA, yaha saba strI ke DipArTamenTa haiN| gehU~ kahA~ se lAtI hai, kahA~ se nahIM yaha jAnane kI hameM kyA z2arUrata? vaha kahatI ho ki geha~ lAne meM takalIpha hotI hai to alaga bAta hai| para hameM vaha kahatI nahIM ho, rAzana dikhAtI nahIM ho, taba hameM usake 'DipArTamenTa' meM hAtha DAlane kI z2arUrata hI kyA hai? 'Aja khIra banAnA, Aja jalebI bnaanaa|' aisA bhI kahane kI kyA jarUrata? TAima (samaya) hogA taba vaha rkhegii| usakA 'DipArTamenTa' usake adhIna ! kabhI bahuta icchA huI to kahanA, 'Aja laDDu bnaanaa|' kahane ke lie manA nahIM karatA, para binA vajaha dUsarI idhara-udhara kA ho-hallA karo ki 'kaDhI khArI ho gaI, khArI ho gaI', yaha saba nAsamajhI kI bAteM haiN| pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra bhI hotI rahatI hai| para yaha binA bAta hI jyAdA aklamaMda banatA hai| usake rasoI DipArTamenTa meM hAtha nahIM DAlanA caahie| hameM bhI zurU meM tIsa sAla taka thor3I jhaMjhaTa huI thii| phira cuna cuna kara saba nikAla pheMkA aura DivIz2ana (vibhAga) alaga kara diye ki rasoI-khAtA tumhArA aura kamAI-khAtA hamArA, kamAnA hai hmeN| tumhAre khAte meM hameM hAtha nahIM DAlanA hai| hamAre khAte meM tuma hAtha nahIM ddaalogii| sAga-sabjI tumheM lAne kii| para hamAre ghara kI paraMparA Apa dekheM to bahuta sundara lgegii| hIrAbA kA zarIra calatA thA, taba taka bAhara mohalle ke nukkar3a para sabjImaMDI thI vahA~ khuda sabjI lene jaatiiN| taba hama baiThe hoM to hIrAbA mujhase pUchatI, 'kyA sabjI lAU~?' taba maiM kahatA, 'tamheM jo ThIka lage vaha laanaa|' phira ve le aatiiN| para aise hI roja calatA rahe to kyA ho? isalie pA~casAta dina pUchanA baMda ho gyaa| phira eka dina maiMne kahA ki 'karele kyoM lAyI?' taba ve kahane lagIM, 'maiM jaba pUchatI hU~ taba kahate ho, tumheM jo ThIka lage vaha le AnA aura Aja galatI nikAla rahe ho?' taba maiMne kahA, "nahIM, hameM aisI paraMparA rakhane kI, tuma mujhe pUchogI, 'kyA sabjI lAU~?' taba maiM kahU~gA, 'tumheM jo ThIka lage vaha', yaha apanI paraMparA mata chodd'naa|" yaha paraMparA unhoMne aMta taka nibhaaii| isameM dekhanevAle ko bhI zobhanIya lage ki vAha ! isa ghara kI paraMparA! arthAt hamArA vyavahAra bAhara acchA dikhanA caahie| eka taraphA nahIM honA caahie| mahAvIra bhagavAna kaise pakke the! vyavahAra aura nizcaya donoM alg| eka pakSIya nhiiN| loga vyavahAra nahIM dekhate? loga nahIM dekhate roz2a roz2a kA vyavahAra? 'rojAnA Apase pUchate haiM?' maiMne kahA, 'hA~, rojAnA pUchate haiN|' 'thaka nahIM jAtI?' kahate haiN| maiMne kahA, 'kyoM thakeMgI? kyA maMjileM car3hanI haiM yA pahAr3a car3hane haiM?' hama donoM kA vyavahAra loga dekheM aisA kro| praznakartA : strI ko puruSa kI kina bAtoM meM hAtha nahIM DAlanA cAhie? saccA puruSa to ghara ke mAmale meM hAtha hI nahIM DAlatA, use puruSa kahate haiM! varnA strI jaisA hotA hai| kacha marda to ghara meM jAkara masAle ke Dibbe dekhate haiM ki, 'ye do mahIne pahale lAye the. itanI dera meM khatma ho ge|' aise kaise nipaTArA hogA? vaha to jisakA 'DipArTamenTa' hai use ciMtA nahIM hogI kyA? kyoMki vastu to istemAla hotI rahatI hai aura naI kharIda

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : puruSa kI kisI bhI bAta meM dakhala nahIM karanI caahie| 'dukAna meM kitanA mAla AyA? kitanA gayA? Aja dera se kyoM Ae?' phira unako kahanA par3e ki 'Aja nau baje kI gAr3I cUka gyaa|' taba patnI kahegI ki, 'aise kaise ghUmate ho ki gADI chUTa jAtI hai?' phira vaha pati gussA kare, use mana meM ho ki agara bhagavAna bhI aisA pachatA, to usako phttkaartaa| para yahA~ kyA kareM aba? binA vajaha dakhala dete haiN| acche bAsamatI cAvala banAte haiM aura kaMkar3a DAlakara khAte haiN| usameM kyA svAda AegA? strI-puruSa ko paraspara helpa (madada) karanI caahie| pati ko ciMtA rahatI hoM to use ciMtA nahIM ho aise patnI ko bolanA cAhie aura pati ko bhI patnI ko musIbata na Ae aisA dhyAna rakhanA caahie| pati ko bhI samajhanA cAhie ki patnI ko ghara para bacce kitane parezAna karate hoMge? ghara meM kucha TUTa-phUTa jAe to puruSa ko zora nahIM macAnA caahie| para ye to cIkhane lagate haiM ki 'pichale sAla acche se acche darjana kapa-rakAbI lAyA thA, ve sAre ke sAre kyoM phoDa DAle? saba khatama kara diye|' isase patnI ko mana meM hotA hai ki 'maiMne tor3a DAle? mujhe kyA ve khAne the? TUTa gae so TUTa gae usameM maiM kyA karU~?''mI kAya karU~?' khegii| kucha lenA bhI nahIM, kucha denA bhI nhiiN| jahA~ jhagar3ane kI koI vajaha nahIM vahA~ bhI lar3ane lage! Diviz2ana (vibhAga) to maiMne pahale se, choTA thA taba se kara diye the ki, yaha rasoI khAtA usakA aura dhaMdhA khAtA meraa| bacapana se majhase ghara kI strI dhaMdhe kA hisAba mA~ge, to merA dimAga haTa jaae| kyoMki maiM kahatA, tumhArI lAina nhiiN| tuma vidAuTa enI kanekzana (binA koI saMdarbha) pUchatI ho, kanekzana (saMbaMdha) sameta honA caahie| vaha pUche 'isa sAla kitanA kamAye?' maiMne kahA, 'aisA tuma nahIM pUcha sktii| yaha hamArI parsanala meTara (nijI bAta) huii| tuma aisA pUchatI ho to kala subaha agara maiM kisI ko pA~ca sau rupaye de AU~gA, taba tuma merA tela nikAla logii|' kisI ko paise de AyA taba kahogI, 'aise logoM ko paise bA~Tate phiroge to paise khatma ho jaaeNge|' aise tuma merA tela nikAlogI, isalie parsanala meTara meM tumheM hastakSepa nahIM karanA hai| zaMkA jalAye sone kI laMkA ghara meM jyAdAtara takarAreM Ajakala zaMkA kI vajaha se hotI haiN| yaha kaisA hai ki zaMkA kI vajaha se spaMdana uThate haiM aura ina spaMdanoM se lapaTeM nikalatI haiM aura agara ni:zaMka ho jAe~ na to lapaTeM apane Apa hI zAMta ho jaaeNgii| pati-patnI donoM zaMkAzIla hoMge taba lapaTeM kaise zAMta hoMgI? eka ni:zaMka ho to hI chuTakArA ho sakatA hai| mA~-bApoM kI takarAra se baccoM ke saMskAra bigar3ate haiN| baccoM ke saMskAra nahIM bigar3e isalie donoM ko samajhakara nibaTArA lAnA caahie| yaha zaMkA nikAle kauna? apanA yaha 'jJAna' to saMpUrNa ni:zaMka banAye aisA hai ! eka pati ko apanI vAipha para zaMkA huii| vaha baMda hogI? nhiiN| vaha lAipha TAima (AjIvana) zaMkA kahalAtI hai| kAma ho gayA na, puNyavaMta (!) puNyavaMta manuSya ko hotI haiM na! isI taraha vAipha ko bhI pati para zaMkA huI, vaha bhI lAipha TAima (AjIvana) nahIM jaatii| praznakartA : nahIM karanI ho phira bhI hotI haiM, yaha kyA hai? dAdAzrI : apanApana, svaamitv| merA pati hai! pati bhale ho, pati kA harja nhiiN| merA kahane meM harja nahIM hai, mamatA nahIM rakhanI caahie| 'merA pati' aisA bolanA para mamatA mata rkhnaa| isa duniyA meM do cIjeM rkhnii| Upara Upara se vizvAsa khojanA aura Upara Upara se zaMkA krnaa| gaharAI meM mata utrnaa| aura aMta meM to, vizvAsa khojanevAlA meDa (pAgala) hogA, menTala haoNspiTala (pAgalakhAne)meM loga dhakela deNge| isa patnI se eka dina kaheM, 'tU zuddha hai isakA kyA pramANa hai?' taba vAipha kyA kahegI, 'mue ye to jaMgalI hai|' ye lar3akiyA~ bAhara jAtI hoM, par3hane jAtI hoM taba bhI aisI zaMkA! 'vAipha' para bhI zaMkA ! aise saba dagA! ghara meM bhI dagA hI hai na, isa samaya ! isa kaliyuga meM khuda ke ghara meM hI dagA hotA hai| kaliyuga arthAt do kA kaal| kapaTa aura dagA, kapaTa aura dagA, kapaTa aura dagA! usameM sukha

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra ke lie kyA karate haiM? vaha bhI binA samajha, mUrchA meM! nirmala buddhimAna ke yahA~ kapaTa aura dagA nahIM hote| yaha to 'phaliza'(murkha) manuSya ke yahA~ philahAla dagA aura kapaTa hote haiN| kaliyuga meM 'phUliza' hI jamA hue haiM na! logoM ne kahA ho ki yaha nAlAyaka AdamI hai. phira bhI hameM usako lAyaka khnaa| kyoMki nAlAyaka nahIM bhI ho aura use nAlAyaka kahoge to bhArI gunAha hogaa| satI ho use yadi 'vaizyA' kaha diyA to bhayaMkara gunAha hai! usake pariNAma svarUpa kitane hI janmoM taka bhugatanA hogaa| isalie kisI ke bhI cAritra ke bAre meM mata bolnaa| kyoMki vaha galata hogA taba? logoM ke kahane para hama bhI kahane lageM taba usameM hamArI kyA qImata raha gaI? hama to aisA kabhI bhI kisI ke bAre meM bolate nahIM, aura kisI ko kahA bhI nahIM, maiM to hAtha hI nahIM DAlana! vaha jimmevArI kauna legA? kisI ke caritra ke bAre zaMkA nahIM karanI caahie| usameM bhArI joqhima hai| zaMkA to hama kabhI karate hI nhiiN| hama kyoM jokhima uThAyeM? eka AdamI ko usakI vAipha para zaMkA hotI thii| usase maiMne pUchA ki zaMkA kisa kAraNa hotI hai? tUne dekhA isalie zaMkA hotI hai? kyA tUne nahIM dekhA thA, taba nahIM ho rahA thA? hamAre loga to pakar3A jAe use 'cora' kahate haiN| para jo pakar3e nahIM gae ve saba bhItara se cora hI haiN| para yaha to pakar3A gayA use 'cora' kahate haiM, are ! use kyoM cora kahatA hai? vaha to DhIlA hai, choTA cora hai isalie pakar3A gyaa| bar3A cora pakar3A jAtA hogA? isalie jise patnI ke caritra saMbaMdhI zAMti cAhie, use to bilakula kAlI badarUpa bIvI lAnI cAhie ki jisakA koI kharIdAra hI nahIM ho, koI use pUchatA bhI na ho| aura vaha bhI aisA kahe ki, 'mujhe koI apanAnevAlA nahIM haiM, yaha eka pati milA usane mujhe apanAyA hai|' vaha tumheM sinsiyara (vaphAdAra) rahegI, pUrI sinsiyara rhegii| bAkI sundara hogI use loga bhogeMge hii| sundara ho, isalie logoM kI dRSTi bigar3egI hii| koI sundara patnI lAye taba hameM yahI vicAra AtA hai ki isakA kyA hAla hogA! kAlI dAgavAlI hogI tabhI sephasAiDa (salAmatI) rhegii| patnI bahuta sundara huI to vaha bhagavAna ko bhUlegA na! aura pati svarUpavAna hogA taba vaha strI bhI bhagavAna bhUla jaaegii| isalie pramANa se saba acchaa| hamAre buDhDhe to aisA kahate the ki 'kheta rakhanA samatala aura aurata mata rakhanA ati sundr|' ye loga to kaise haiM ki 'jahA~ hoTala najara Ae vahA~ khAnA khAte haiN|' (vijAtIya vyakti ko dekhate hI usa para dRSTi bigAr3ate haiN|) isalie zaMkA karane jaisA jagata nahIM hai| zaMkA hI duHkhadAyinI hai| aura ye loga to, vAipha jarA dera se Ae taba bhI zaMkA karane lagate haiN| zaMkA karane jaisA nahIM hai| RNAnubaMdha ke bAhara kucha bhI honevAlA nahIM hai| vaha ghara Ae taba samajhAnA lekina zaMkA mata krnaa| zaMkA to adhika bar3hAvA detI hai| hA~ sAvadhAna z2arUra karanA, para kisI prakAra kI zaMkA mata krnaa| zaMkA karanevAlA mokSa kho detA hai| isalie hameM agara chuTakArA pAnA ho, mokSa meM jAnA ho to hameM zaMkA nahIM karanI caahie| koI dUsarA AdamI tumhArI 'vAipha' ke gale meM hAtha DAla kara ghUmatA ho aura tumhAre dekhane meM AyA, taba kyA hama jahara khA leM? kisI bhI bAta meM zaMkA ho, taba hameM jAgRta rahanA hai magara dUsaroM para zaMkA nahIM rakhanI hai| zaMkA hameM mAra DAlatI hai| usakA to jo honA hogA vaha hogA para hameM to vaha zaMkA hI mAra ddaalegii| kyoMki zaMkA to manuSya kI mRtyu ho taba taka use chor3atI nhiiN| zaMkA ho to manuSya kA prabhAva bar3hatA hai kyA? manuSya murde kI taraha jI rahA ho aisA lgegaa| patipane ke gunAha praznakartA : kucha loga strI se Ubakara ghara se bhAga jAte haiM, vaha kyA hai?

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- pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : nahIM, bhagor3e kyoM baneM? hama paramAtmA hai| hameM bhAgane kI kyA AvazyakatA hai? hameM usakA 'samabhAva se nikAla (nipaTArA)' kara denA hai! praznakartA : nikAla karanA ho to kisa prakAra kareM? mana meM bhAva karanA ki yaha pUrva janma kA hai? dAdAzrI : utane se nikAla nahIM hogaa| nikAla arthAt sAmanevAle ke sAtha phona jor3anA par3egA, usakI AtmA ko khabara denI pdd'egii| usa AtmA ke pAsa hamArI bhUla huI hai aisA qabUla (eksepTa) karanA hogaa| arthAt pratikramaNa bar3A karanA hogaa| praznakartA : dUsarA hamArA apamAna kare phira bhI hameM usakA pratikramaNa karanA hai? dAdAzrI : apamAna kare tabhI pratikramaNa karanA hai, hameM sammAna de taba nahIM karanA hai| pratikramaNa karane se usa para dveSabhAva to hogA hI nahIM, Upara se usa para acchA asara hogaa| hamAre prati dveSabhAva nahIM hogA yaha samajho pahalA sTepa, para bAda meM use khabara bhI pahu~catI hai| praznakartA : khabara usakI AtmA ko pahu~catI hai kyA? dAdAzrI : hA~, z2arUra phuNcegii| phira vaha AtmA usake pudgala ko bhI dhakelatI hai ki 'bhAI phona AyA teraa|' apanA yaha pratikramaNa hai vo atikramaNa ke Upara hai, kramaNa ke Upara nhiiN| praznakartA : bahuta pratikramaNa karane hoMge? dAdAzrI : jitanA spIDa meM hameM makAna banAnA hai, utane maz2adUra hameM bar3hAne hoNge| aisA hai, ki bAhara ke logoM ke prati pratikramaNa nahIM hoMge to calegA, para apane irda-girda ke aura pAsavAle-gharavAle haiM, unake pratikramaNa jyAdA karane hoNge| gharavAloM ke lie mana meM bhAva rakhanA ki eka hI parivAra meM janme haiM, sAtha rahate haiM, isalie kisI dina isa mokSamArga meM aaeN| pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra eka bhAI mere pAsa Ae the| ve mujhase bole, 'dAdA, maiMne zAdI to kI para mujhe merI bIvI pasaMda nhiiN|' maiMne kahA, 'kyoM, pasaMda nahIM Ane kA kyA kAraNa hai?' taba kahatA hai, 'vaha thoDI laMgaDI haiM, laMgaDAtI hai|' 'taba terI bIvI ko tU acchA lagatA hai ki nahIM?' to bolA, 'dAdA, maiM to acchA lagUM aisA hU~ na! khUbasUrata hU~, par3hA likhA hU~, kamAtA hU~ aura apAhija nahIM huuN|' taba usameM bhUla terI hI hai| terI aisI kaisI bhUla huI ki tujhe laMgar3I milI aura usane kitane acche puNya kiye the ki tU itanA acchA use milA? are, yaha to apanA kiyA hI apane sAmane AtA hai, usameM sAmanevAle kA doSa dekhatA hai? dekha terI bhUla bhugata le aura phira se nayI bhUla mata krnaa| taba vaha bhAI samajha gayA aura usakI 'lAipha' phrekcara hote-hote raha gaI, sudhara gii| dAdAI dRSTi se calo, patiyoM... praznakartA : vAipha aisA kahe ki tumhAre perenTsa (mA~-bApa) ko apane sAtha nahIM rakhanA hai ki nahIM bulAnA hai, taba kyA karanA? dAdAzrI : taba samajhAkara kAma lenaa| DemokreTika (lokatAMtrika) paddhati se kAma lenaa| usake mA~-bApa ko bulAkara unakI bahuta sevA kara ke dikhAnA... praznakartA : mAtA-pitA vRddha hoM, bar3I umra ke bujurga hoM, eka ora mAtA-pitA haiM aura dUsarI ora vAipha hai, taba una do meM se pahale kisakI bAta suneM? dAdAzrI : vAipha ke sAtha aisA acchA saMbaMdha kara denA ki vAipha hameM aisA kahe ki tumhAre mAtA-pitA kA khyAla rakho na ! aisA kyoM karate ho? vAipha ke sanmukha mAtA-pitA ke bAre meM thor3A ulTA bolnaa| hamAre loga to kyA kahate haiM? merI mA~ jaisI koI mA~ nahIM hai| tuma aisA mata krnaa| phira jaba vaha ulTI cale taba hameM kahanA cAhie ki mA~ kA svabhAva kucha aisA hI ho gayA hai| inDiyana mAinDa (bhAratIya dimAg2a) ulTA calane kI Adata hotI hai| inDiyana mAinDa hai na!

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra tU jAnatA hai ki loga vAipha (patnI) ko guru banAe aise haiM? praznakartA : hA~ jI, jAnatA huuN| dAdAzrI : use guru karane jaisA nahIM. varnA mAtA-pitA aura sArA kuTumba musIbata meM A jaaegaa| aura guru karane para khuda bhI musIbata meM A jaaegaa| use bhI khilaune kI taraha nAcanA par3atA hai! para mere pAsa AnevAle ko aisA nahIM hotaa| mere pAsa saba-kucha olarAITa (barAbara)! hiMsaka bhAva hI ur3a jAtA hai| hiMsA karane kA vicAra hI nahIM AtA hai| kaise sukha pahu~cAU~ yahI vicAra AtA hai| praznakartA : ye leDIja (aurateM) kAma karake thaka bahuta jAtI haiN| kAma batAyeM to bahAne banAtI haiM ki maiM thaka gaI hU~, sira darda rahA hai, kamara duHkhatI hai| dAdAzrI : aisA hai na, to use subaha se kaha denA cAhie ki 'dekha tujha se kAma nahIM hogA, tU thaka gaI hai|' taba vaha joza meM A jAegI aura kahegI ki nahIM tuma baiThe raho cupacApa, maiM kara luuNgii| arthAt hameM catarAI se kAma lenA AnA caahie| are! sabjI kATane meM bhI caturAI nahIM ho to yahA~ khUna niklegaa| praznakartA : hama jaba gAr3I meM jAte haiM taba vaha mujhe kahatI rahatI hai, gAr3I kahA~ mor3anA, kaba breka lagAnA aisA gAr3I meM mujhe kahatI rahatI hai arthAt gAr3I meM TokatI hai, aise calAo, aise calAo ! dAdAzrI : taba use sauMpa denA, gAr3I use sauMpa denaa| jhaMjhaTa hI nhiiN| samajhadAra AdamI ! kiTa-kiTa karatI ho taba use kahanA, 'le, tU calA!' praznakartA : taba vaha kahegI, 'merI himmata nahIM hai|' dAdAzrI : kyoM? taba kahanA, 'usameM tumheM kyA harja hai? taba kyA tumheM Upara laTakA rakhA hai ki TokatI rahatI ho?' gAr3I use sauMpa denaa| DrAIvara ho to patA cale Tokane para, yaha to ghara kA AdamI hai isalie TokatI rahatI hai| pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : patnI kI taraphadArI na kareM to ghara meM jhagar3e hote haiN| dAdAzrI : patnI kI hI taraphadArI krnaa| patnI kA pakSa lenA, usameM kacha harja nhiiN| kyoMki patnI kI taraphadArI karo to hI rAta ko caina se so sakoge varnA kaise sooge? vahA~ kAjI mata bnnaa| praznakartA : par3ausI kI tarafadArI to karanI hI nahIM na? dAdAzrI : nahIM, hameM hamezA vAdI kA hI vakIla honA hai, prativAdI kA nahIM honaa| hama jisa ghara kA khAte hai usakA hI... ye to khAyeM isa ghara kA aura vakAlata sAmanevAle ke ghara kI kreN| isalie usa vakta sAmanevAle kA nyAya nahIM karanA cAhie! apanI vAipha anyAya ke pakSa meM ho to bhI hameM usake kahe mutAbika hI calanA hai| vahA~ nyAya karane mata jAnA ki 'tere meM akla nahIM hai isalie aisA huA...' kyoMki kala bhojana usake sAtha hI khAnA hai| praznakartA : sAmanevAle kA samAdhAna huA kaise kahalAegA? sAmanevAlA kA samAdhAna ho, para usameM usakA ahita ho to? dAdAzrI : yaha tumheM nahIM dekhanA hai| sAmanevAle kA ahita ho vaha to use hI dekhanA hai| tumheM sAmanevAle kA hitAhita dekhanA ho para tumhAre pAsa zakti kahA~ hai? tuma apanA hita hI nahIM dekha sakate ho, to dUsaroM kA hita kaise dekha sakoge? saba apanI-apanI zakti ke anusAra hita dekhate haiM, utanA hita dekhanA caahie| para dUsare ke hita ke lie TakarAva khar3A nahIM karanA caahie| praznakartA : sAmanevAle kA samAdhAna karane kA hama prayatna kareM para pariNAma viparIta AnevAlA hai yaha jAnate hoM, taba kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : pariNAma kucha bhI ho magara hameM to 'sAmanevAle kA samAdhAna karanA hai' itanA taya karanA hai| 'samabhAva se nikAla' karane kA nizcita karane ke bAda nikAla (nipaTArA) hotA hai yA nahIM, yaha pahale se nahIM dekhanA hai| aura nikAla hogA! Aja nahIM to kala hogA, parasoM hogaa|

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra sA~vale haiN| phira usane bhI taya kiyA ki yaha merI patnI aaii| taba se 'merI-merA' kI jo lapeTeM lagIM, ve lapeTeM lagatI hI rahI haiN| vaha paMdraha sAla kI philma hai, use tuma 'nahIM hai merA. nahIM haiM merA' karegI. taba ve lapeTeM khuleMgI aura mamatA chuuttegii| yaha to zAdI huI tabase abhiprAya hue haiN| prijyuDisa (pUrvAgraha) ho gayA ki 'ye aise haiM, vaise haiN|' pahale kucha thA? aba to hameM mana meM nizcaya karanA hai ki 'jo hai so yaha haiM' aura hama khuda pasaMda karake lAye haiN| aba kyA pati badala sakate haiM? paramAtma prema kI pahacAna isa saMsAra meM agara koI pUche ki, 'yaha strI kA prema prema nahIM hai kyA?' taba maiM samajhAU~ ki jo prema bar3hatA hai, ghaTatA hai vaha prema saccA prema hI nahIM hai| tuma hIre ke TaoNpsa lAkara do usa dina prema bahuta bar3ha jAtA hai aura nahIM lAe to prema ghaTa jAtA hai, yaha prema nahIM hai|| pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra gAr3ha RNAnubaMdha hone para do sAla, tIna sAla yA pA~ca sAla bhI laga sakate haiN| vAipha ke sAtha RNAnubaMdha bahuta cikane hote haiM, saMtAnoM se cikane hote haiM, mAtA-pitA se cikane hote haiN| vahA~ para thor3A jyAdA samaya lgegaa| ye sabhI hamAre sAtha hI sAtha hone se nikAla dhIre-dhIre hogaa| lekina hamArA nizcaya hai ki hameM samabhAva se nikAla karanA hai, isalie eka dina vaha hokara rahegA, usakA aMta aaegaa| 'merI-merI' kI lapeTeM ukaleMgI aise vivAha ke samaya maMDapa meM baiThate haiM na! maMDapa meM baiThane para aise dekhate haiN| hA~, yaha merI vAipha yAnI pahalI lapeTa lgaaii| merI vAipha, merI vAipha, merI vAipha, merI vAipha... byAhane baiThA tabhI se hI lapeTa lagAtA rahatA hai lgaataar| abhI taka lapeTa lagAtA hI rahA hai to kitanI lapeTeM laga gaI hoMgI aba taka? aba kisa prakAra ve lapeTeM ukaleMgI? mamatA kI lapeTeM lagI haiM! aba 'nahIM hai merI,''nahIM hai merI' aise bolate rho| 'yaha strI merI nahIM haiM, nahIM haiM merI' isase lapeTeM khula jaaeNgii| pacAsa hajAra bAra 'merImerI' kahakara lapeTeM lagAIM hoM, ve 'nahIM merI' kI pacAsa haz2Ara lapeTeM lagAne para chUTegI! eka AdamI kI patnI ke mRtyu ko dasa sAla ho gaye the, phira bhI vaha use bhUla nahIM pAyA thA aura rotA rahatA thaa| maiM ne use 'nahIM hai merI,''nahIM hai merI' bolane ko khaa| bAda meM usa vyakti ne kyA kiyA? tIna dina taka 'nahIM hai merI, nahIM hai merI' bolatA hI rahA aura raTatA rhaa| bAda meM usakA ronA baMda ho gayA! ye sabhI lapeTeM hI haiM aura usakI hI yaha phajIhata huI hai| yaha saba kalpita hai| merI bAta tumhArI samajha meM AI? aba aisA sarala rAstA kauna dikhAyegA? sArA dina kAma karate-karate pati kA pratikramaNa karate rhnaa| eka dina meM cha: mahIne kA baira kaTa jaaegaa| aura AdhA dina ho to samajho na tIna mahIne kA khatma ho jAtA hai| zAdI se pahale pati ke sAtha mamatA thI? nhiiN| taba mamatA kaba se baMdhI? zAdI ke samaya maMDapa meM Amane sAmane baiThe, isalie tUne taya kiyA ki yaha mere pati aae| thor3e moTe haiM aura praznakartA : saccA prema ghaTatA-bar3hatA nahIM, to usakA svarUpa kaisA hotA hai? dAdAzrI : vaha ghaTatA-bar3hatA nhiiN| jaba dekho taba prema vaisA kA vaisA hI dikhatA hai| yaha to usakA kAma kara do, taba taka usakA tumhAre prati prema rahatA hai aura kAma nahIM karo to prema TUTa jAtA hai, use prema kaise kaha sakate haiM? arthAt jahA~ svArtha nahIM hotA vahA~ para zuddha prema hogaa| svArtha kaba nahIM hotA hai? merA-terA nahIM hotA taba svArtha nahIM hotaa| 'jJAna' ho to merA-terA nahIM hotaa| 'jJAna' bagaira to merA-terA hotA hI hai na? ye to sabhI 'roMga bilIpha' (galata mAnyatAe~) haiN| maiM candubhAI hU~' yaha roMga bilIpha hai| phira ghara jAne para hama pUche ki 'yaha kauna hai?' taba vaha kahatA hai 'mujhe nahIM pahacAnA? isa aurata kA maiM svAmI (pati) huuN|' ohoho! bar3e svAmI Ae! mAno svAmI kA svAmI hI nahIM ho aisI bAteM karatA hai! svAmI kA svAmI hogA ki nahIM? taba phira Apake UparavAle svAmI kI svAminI Apa hue aura ApakI svAmInI yaha huii| isa dhA~dhala

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 52 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra aura jahA~ Asakti hai vahA~ AkSepa Aye binA nahIM rhte| vaha Asakti kA svabhAva hai| Asakti ho to AkSepa hote hI rahate haiM ki 'tuma aise ho aura tuma vaise ho! tU aisI aura ta vaisI!' kyA aisA nahIM bolate? tumhAre gA~va meM bolate haiM ki nahIM bolate? aisA bolate haiM vaha Asakti ke kaarnn| ye lar3akiyA~ pati pasaMda karatI haiM, aise dekha-dAkha kara pasaMda karane ke bAda kyA nahIM jhagar3atI hoMgI? jhagar3atI haiM kyA? taba use prema hI nahIM kaha sakate! prema to sthAI hotA hai| jaba dekho taba vahI prem| vaisA hI naz2ara Aye vaha prema kahalAtA hai aura aisA prema ho vahA~ AzvAsana le sakate haiN| yaha to hameM prema AtA ho aura usa dina vaha rUThakara baiThI ho, taba yaha kaisA tumhArA prema! DAla gaTara meM! mu~ha phulAkara ghUmatI ho aise prema ko kyA karanA hai? Apako kyA lagatA hai? jahA~ bahuta prema AtA hai vahIM arUci hotI hai, yaha manuSya svabhAva meM kyo par3e? svAmI hI kyoM hoM? hamAre 'kampeniyana' (sAthI) hai kahe to kyA harja hai? praznakartA : dAdA ne bahuta 'maoNDarna' (Adhunika) bhASA kA prayoga kiyaa| dAdAzrI: taba kyA? Tasala (TakarAva) kama ho jAe na! hA~, eka rUma meM do 'kampeniyana' (sAthI) rahate hoM, taba eka vyakti cAya banAye aura dUsarA vyakti pIye aura dUsarA usake lie kAma kara de| aisA karake 'kampeniyana' bane rheN| praznakartA : 'kampeniyana' meM Asakti hotI hai yA nahIM? dAdAzrI : usameM Asakti hotI hai para vaha Asakti agni samAna nahIM hotii| ye to zabda hI aisI gAr3ha AsaktivAle haiN| 'svAmitva aura svAminI' ina zabdoM meM hI itanI gAr3ha Asakti bharI hai ! aura 'kampeniyana' kahane para Asakti kama ho jAtI hai| eka AdamI kI vAipha 20 sAla pahale mara gaI thii| taba eka bhAI ne mujhase kahA ki, 'isa cAcA ko rulAU~?' maiMne pUchA, 'kaise rulAoge?' taba vaha kahatA hai, 'dekho, ve kitane sensiTiva (bhAvaka) haiM!' phira ve bole, 'kyoM cAcA. cAcI kI to bAta hI mata pUcho, kyA unakA svabhAva thA!' vaha aise kaha rahA thA ki cAcA sacamuca ro par3e ! kaise haiM ye ghanacakkara, sATha sAla ke hue to bhI abhI patnI kA ronA AtA hai! loga to vahA~ sinemA meM bhI rote haiM na? usameM koI mara jAe taba dekhanevAle bhI rone lagate haiM! praznakartA : vaha Asakti kyoM nahIM chUTatI? dAdAzrI : vaha nahIM chUTatI, kyoMki aba taka 'merI-merI' kahate rahe aura aba 'nahIM haiM merI, nahIM haiM merI' kahoge to baMda ho jaae| vaha to jo jo lapeTeM lagI hoM, use chor3anI hI paDegI! arthAta yaha to kevala Asakti hai| cetana jaisI cIz2a hI nahIM hai| ye to sabhI cAbI bhare hae patale haiN| yaha to sinemA jAte samaya Asakti kI dhuna meM jAtA haiM aura lauTate samaya bIvI ko 'binA akla kI hai' kahatA hai| taba vaha kahatI hai ki 'tumhAre meM kahA~ DhaMga hai?!' aise bAteM karate karate ghara Ate haiN| yaha akla DhUMDhatA hai, taba vaha DhaMga dekhatI hai! yaha saba sudhAranA ho, to prema se sudharatA hai| ina sabhI ko maiM sudhAratA hU~, vaha prema se hI sudhAratA huuN| hama prema se hI kahate haiM isalie bAta nahIM bigdd'tii| aura z2arA bhI dveSa se kaheM to bAta bigar3a jaaegii| dUdha meM dahI DAlA na ho aura z2arA-sI vaise havA laga gaI ho, phira bhI dUdha kA dahI ho jAtA hai| praznakartA : isameM prema aura Asakti kA bheda z2arA smjhaaiye| dAdAzrI : jo vikRta prema hai usakA nAma hI aaskti| isa saMsAra meM hama jise prema kahate haiM, vaha vikRta prema kahalAtA hai aura use hI Asakti kahate haiN|

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54 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra yaha to sUI aura cuMbaka meM hotI hai vaisI Asakti hai| usameM prema jaisI vastu hI nahIM hai| prema hotA hI nahIM kisI jgh| yaha to sUI aura cuMbaka ke khiMcAva ko lekara tumheM aisA lagatA hai ki mujhe prema hai, isalie maiM khiMcatA huuN| para vaha prema jaisI vastu hI nahIM hai| jJAnIpuruSa kA 'prema' hI prema kahalAtA hai| _ isa duniyA meM zuddha prema hI paramAtmA hai| usake sivA dUsarA paramAtmA duniyA meM koI huA nahIM hai aura hogA bhI nhiiN| aura vahA~ dila ThaharatA hai aura taba dilAvarI ke kAma hote haiN| varnA dilAvarI ke kAma nahIM hote| do prakAra se dila lagatA hai| adho gati meM jAnA ho taba kisI strI meM dila lagatA hai aura urdhva gati meM jAnA ho taba jJAnIpuruSa meM dila lagatA hai| aura ve to tumheM mokSa meM le jaaeNge| donoM jagaha dila kI jarUrata par3egI, taba dilAvarI prApta hotI hai| arthAt jisa prema meM krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha kucha bhI nahIM, jo prema samAna, ekarUpa rahatA hai, aisA zuddha prema dekheM taba manuSya ke dila meM ThaMDaka hotI hai| maiM prema svarUpa ho gayA huuN| usa prema meM hI tuma masta ho jAoge to jagata bhUla hI jAoge, phira tumhArA saMsAra acchA calegA, AdarzarUpa se clegaa| zAdI arthAt 'promisa Tu pe' 1943 meM hIrAbA kI eka A~kha calI gii| unheM jhAmara kA darda thaa| DaoNkTara jhAmara kA ilAja karane gae taba A~kha para asara huA aura use nukasAna huaa| isalie logoM ke mana meM huA ki 'nayA dUlhA' taiyAra huaa| phira se zAdI karavAo, byaaho| kanyAe~ bahuta thI aura kanyA ke mAtA-pitA kI icchA aisI ki kaise bhI karake, use kue~ meM DAlakara bhI ThikAne lgaayeN| usa samaya bhAdaraNa ke eka pATIdAra aae| unake sAle kI lar3akI pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra hogI, isalie Ae the| maiMne kahA, 'kyA hai Apako?' taba ve kahane lage, 'yaha Apake sAtha aisA huA?' aba una dinoM 1944 meM merI umra 36 sAla kii| taba maiMne kahA, 'kyoM Apa aisA pachane Ae ho?' taba usane kahA, 'eka to hIrAbA kI A~kha gaI, dUsare bacce bhI nhiiN|' maiMne kahA, 'prajA nahIM hai para mere pAsa koI baroDA 'sTeTa' (rAjya) bhI nahIM hai ki mujhe usako denA hai| sTeTa hotA to lar3ake ko dete| yaha koI ekAdha jhoMpar3A hai aura thor3I jamIna hai, jo hameM kisAna hI banAye na! agara sTeTa (rAjya) hotA to mAno ThIka thaa|' phira maiMne unase kahA ki 'aba Apa kisa lie yaha kahate ho? aura hIrAbA ko to hamane promisa kiyA hai, zAdI kI tb| isalie eka A~kha gaI to kyA, dUsarI jAe taba bhI hAtha pakar3akara rAstA dikhaauuNgaa|' praznakartA : merI zAdI hone ke bAda hama donoM eka-dUsare ko pahacAna gaye haiM aura lagatA hai ki pasaMda meM bhUla ho gaI hai| donoM kA svabhAva Apasa meM mela nahIM khaataa| aba donoM meM mela kaise ho aura kisa prakAra ho? kyA karane se sukhI ho sakate haiM? dAdAzrI : yaha Apa jo kahate ho, usameM eka vAkya bhI satya nahIM hai| pahalA vAkya, zAdI hone ke bAda donoM vyakti eka-dUsare ko jAnate haiM, para nAma kI bhI pahacAna nahIM hai| agara pahacAna hotI to yaha jhaMjhaTa hI nahIM hotii| z2arA bhI jAnate nahIM ho| maiMne to kevala buddhi ke DivIz2ana (vibhAjana) se sAre matabheda samApta kara diye the| para hIrAbA kI pahacAna majhe kaba haI? mujhe sATha sAla hue taba hIrAbA kI pahacAna huI! 15 sAla kA thA taba zAdI kI, 45 sAla taka usakA nirIkSaNa karatA rahA taba jAkara mujhe pahacAna huI ki ve aisI haiN| praznakartA : arthAt jJAna hone ke bAda pahacAnA? dAdAzrI : hA~, jJAna hone ke bAda phcaanaa| varnA pahacAna hI nahIM

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56 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra hotii| manuSya pahacAna hI nahIM sktaa| manuSya khuda ko nahIM pahacAna sakatA ki maiM kaisA hU~! arthAt yaha vAkya 'eka dUsaroM ko jAnate haiM ye saba bAtoM meM kucha rakhA nahIM aura pasaMda karane meM bhUla huI nahIM hai| praznakartA : yaha samajhAiye ki kisa prakAra pahacAnanA? pati apanI patnI ko dhIre-dhIre sUkSmatA se prema dvArA kisa taraha pahacAne, yaha smjhaaiye| dAdAzrI : pahacAna kaba hotI hai? pahale to samAnatA kA sthAna deM tb| unheM spesa (jagaha) denI caahie| jaise hama bAjI khelane baiThate haiM Amane-sAmane, usa vakta samAnatA kA dA~va hotA hai, taba khelane meM majA AtA hai| para ye to samAnatA kA dA~va kyA deMge? hama samAnatA kA dA~va dete haiN| praznakartA : prekTikalI (vyAvahArika dRSTi) se kisa prakAra dete pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : hA~, hIrAbA se maiM Aja bhI kahatA hU~ na! maiM bhI, isa umra meM bhI hIrAbA se kahatA hU~, ki tumhAre bagaira maiM bAhara jAtA hU~ para mujhe acchA nahIM lgtaa| aba vaha mana meM kyA samajhatI hai, mujhe acchA lagatA hai aura unheM kyoM acchA nahIM lagatA hogA? aisA kahane para saMsAra bigar3a nahIM jaayegaa| aba t ghI DAlanA, nahIM DAlegA to khAne meM rUkhApana AegA! DAlo sundara bhAva! hIrAbA mujhe kahatI haiM, 'maiM bhI Apako yAda AtI hU~?' maiMne kahA, 'loga yAda Ate haiM taba Apa kyA nahIM yAda AogI?!' aura vAstava meM yAda Ate haiM bhI, nahIM yAda Ate aisA nahIM! Adarza hai hamArI lAipha (jIvana)! hIrAbA bhI kahatI haiM, 'Apa jaldI ghara aanaa|' strI kA pati honA AyA aisA kaba kahalAegA? ki strI niraMtara pUjyatA kA anubhava karatI ho! svAmI to kaisA ho? kabhI bhI strI aura saMtAnoM ko musIbata na Ane de aisA ho| aura strI kaisI ho? kabhI bhI pati ko musIbata nahIM Ane de, usake hI vicAra meM jItI ho| patnI ke sAtha taqarAra (pati-patnI) do jane mastI-Udhama macAte hoM, lar3e-jhagar3e para ekadUsare para mukadamA dAyara nahIM krte| aura hama bIca meM par3eM to ve apanA kAma nikAla lete haiM aura ve loga to phira Apasa meM mila jAte haiN| dUsare ke ghara rahane nahIM jAte, ise 'totA mastI' kahate haiN| hama turanta samajha jAte haiM ki donoM ne totA mastI zurU kI hai| ___ eka ghaNTe taka naukara ko, baccoM ko yA patnI ko bAra bAra dhamakAyA ho to phira vaha (agale janama meM) pati hokara athavA sAsa hokara tumheM sArA jIvana parezAna karegA! nyAya to hogA ki nahIM hogA? yahI bhugatanA hai| tuma kisI ko duHkha doge taba tumheM sArA jIvana du:kha bhugatanA hogaa| kevala eka ghaNTA duHkha doge to phala svarUpa sArA jIvana dAdAzrI : mana se unheM alaga samajhane nahIM dete| ve ulTA-sIdhA kaheM phira bhI samAna hoM usa prkaar| arthAt prezara (dabAva) nahIM laate| arthAt sAmanevAle kI prakRti ko pahacAna lenA ki isakI prakRti aisI hai| phira aura tarIke DhU~Dha nikaalnaa| maiM alaga taraha se kAma nahIM letA, logoM ke sAtha? saba merA kahA mAnate haiM ki nahIM mAnate? mAnate haiM kAraNa yaha nahIM ki kuzalatA hai, para maiM alaga taraha se kAma letA ghara meM baiThanA pasaMda nahIM ho para phira bhI kahanA ki tere binA mujhe acchA nahIM lgtaa| taba vaha bhI kahegI ki tumhAre binA mujhe acchA nahIM lgtaa| taba mokSa meM jA skoge| dAdA mile haiM na, isalie mokSa meM jA skoge| praznakartA : Apa hIrAbA se kahate haiM?

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 58 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra du:kha milegaa| phira cillAoge ki 'patnI mujhe aisA kyoM karatI hai?' patnI ko aisA ho ki, 'isa pati ke sAtha mujhase aisA kyoM ho rahA hai?' use bhI du:kha hotA hai, para kyA kara sakate haiM? phira maiMne unase pUchA ki, 'patnI tumheM khoja lAI thI ki tuma patnI ko khoja lAye the?' taba ve bole, 'maiM DhUMDha lAyA thaa|' taba usa becArI kA kyA doSa? le Ane ke bAda Ter3hI nikale, usameM vaha kyA kare, kahA~ jAe phira? praznakartA : cupa rahakara bAta TAlane se usakA nipaTArA ho sakatA praznakartA : taba phira use kucha kahanA hI nahIM? dAdAzrI : kahanA z2arUra, lekina samyak kahanA agara kahanA AtA ho to| varnA kutte kI bhA~ti bhauM bhauM karane kA kyA artha? isalie samyak khnaa| praznakartA : samyak kisa taraha se? dAdAzrI: ohoho! tumane isa bacce ko kyoM girAyA? kyA kAraNa usakA? taba vaha kahegI ki, 'jAna-bUjhakara maiM thor3e girAU~gI? vaha to mere hAtha se saraka gayA aura gira par3A ' praznakartA : vaha jhUTha bolatI hai na? dAdAzrI : nahIM ho sktaa| hameM to sAmane mile to 'kaise ho? kaise nahIM?' aisA kahanA caahie| sAmanevAlA z2arA cIkhe-cillAye taba hameM dhIre se 'samabhAva se nikAla (nipaTArA)' karanA hai| usakA kabhI na kabhI nikAla to karanA par3egA na? na bole to samAdhAna thor3e hI ho jAtA hai? vaha nikAla nahIM hotA isalie to abolA (kisI mAmale meM matabheda hone ke kAraNa Apasa meM bAtacIta na karanA) khar3A hotA hai| abolA hone se jisa bAta kA nikAla nahIM huA usakA bojha lagatA hai| hameM to turanta use rokakara kahanA hai, 'rUkie, hamArI kucha galatI ho to btaaie| merI bahuta galatiyA~ hotI haiM Apa to bahuta hoziyAra, par3he likhe haiN| Apase galatI nahIM hotI, para maiM kama par3hA-likhA hU~, isalie merI kaI galatiyA~ hotI haiN|' aisA kaheM to vaha khuza ho jaaegaa| praznakartA : aisA kareM to bhI vaha narama nahIM par3e to kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : narama nahIM par3e to hameM kyA karanA? hameM kahakara chUTa jAnA hai, phira kyA upAya? kabhI na kabhI kisI dina narama pddegii| dhamakAkara narama karoge to bilakula narama nahIM hogii| Aja narama dikhegI para vaha mana meM likhakara rakhegI aura jaba hama narama hoMge. usa dina phira saba nikaalegii| arthAt jagata bairavAlA hai| kudarata kA kAnUna aisA hai ki pratyeka jIva bhItara baira rakhatA hI hai| bhItara aise paramANuoM kA saMgraha karatA hai| isalie hameM pUrNa rUpa se kesa ko pUrA kara denA hai| dAdAzrI : vaha jhUTha bole yaha hameM nahIM dekhanA hai, jhUTha bole ki saca bole vaha usakI jimmedArI hai, vaha hamArI jimmedArI nahIM hai| praznakartA : kahanA nahIM Ae to phira kyA kareM? cupa baiThe? dAdAzrI : mauna raho aura dekhate raho ki 'kyA hotA hai?' sinemA meM bacce ko girAte haiM taba hama kyA karate haiM? sabhI ko kahane kA adhikAra hai para kleza bar3he nahIM isa prakAra kahane kA adhikAra hai| bAkI jo bAta kahane se kleza bar3hatA ho, to vaha mUkhoM kA kAma hai| praznakartA : hameM jhagar3A nahIM karanA ho, hama kabhI jhagar3A karate hI nahIM hoM phira bhI ghara ke sabhI sAmane se jhagar3A karate ho taba kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : hameM 'jhagar3AprUpha' (kisI se bhI jhagar3A nahIM ho aisA) ho jAnA hai| 'jhagar3AprUpha' hoMge tabhI isa saMsAra meM raha paaeNge| hama tumheM 'jhagaDAprapha' banA deNge| jhagar3A karanevAlA bhI Uba jAe aisA hamArA svarUpa honA caahie| pUre 'varlDa' meM koI hameM 'Dipresa' (udAsa) nahIM kara sake aisA honA caahie| hama 'jhagar3AprUpha' ho jAe~, phira jhaMjhaTa hI nhiiN| logoM ko jhagar3e karane hoM, gAliyA~ denI hoM taba bhI harja nahIM aura phira bhI bezarma nahIM kahalAegA, ulaTe jAgRti bahuta bddh'egii|

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pUrva meM jo jhagar3e kiye the unake baira ba~dhe hote haiM aura ve Aja jhagar3e ke rUpa meM cukatA hote haiN| jhagar3A karate haiM usI kSaNa baira kA bIja par3a jAtA hai, vaha agale janma meM ugegaa| praznakartA : vaha bIja kisa taraha dUra ho? / dAdAzrI : dhIre-dhIre samabhAva se nikAla' karate raho taba phira dUra ho jaaegaa| bahuta bhArI bIja par3A ho to dera lagegI, zAnti rakhanI pdd'egii| pratikramaNa bahuta karane hoNge| apanA koI kucha nahIM letaa| do vakta kA khAnA mile, kapar3e mile phira kyA cAhie? kamare ko tAlA lagAkara jAte haiM magara hameM do vakta khAnA milatA hai yA nahIM, itanA hI dekhanA hai| hameM ghara meM baMda karake jAe~ taba bhI harja nahIM hai| hama so jaaeNge| pUrva janma ke baira aise baMdhe haiM ki hameM tAlA lagAkara baMda karake jAe~! baira aura vaha bhI nAmasajhI meM baMdhA huA! samajhapUrvaka ho to hama mAna leM ki yaha samajhapUrvaka hai, taba bhI hala nikala aataa| aba nAsamajhI ho vahA~ hala kaise nikale? isalie vahA~ bAta ko chor3a denaa| aba sabhI baira chor3a dene haiN| ho sake to kabhI hamAre pAsa Akara 'svarUpa jJAna prApta kara lenA tAki sabhI baira chUTa jaaeN| isa janma meM hI sabhI baira chor3a denaa| hama tumheM rAstA dikhaaeNge| khaTamala kATate haiM, ve to becAre bahuta acche haiM para yaha pati bIvI ko kATatA hai aura bIvI pati ko kATatI hai vaha bahata asahya hai| kyoM? kATate haiM yA nahIM? praznakartA : kATate hai| dAdAzrI : taba vaha kATane kA baMda karanA hai| khaTamala kATate haiM, ve to kATa ke cale jaaeNge| ve becAre to bhItara tRpta hoM to cale jAte haiM para bIvI to hamezA kATatI hI rahatI hai| eka AdamI to mujhe kahatA hai, 'merI vAipha mujhe sA~pina kI taraha kATatI hai!' taba mue tumane zAdI kyoM kI sapina ke sAtha? taba kyA vaha sA~pa nahIM huA? aise hI sA~pina milatI hogI? sA~pa ho to hI sA~pina AtI hai| hama to itanA samajhate haiM ki jhagar3ane ke bAda 'vAipha' ke sAtha vyavahAra hI nahIM rakhanA ho to alaga bAta hai para phira se bolanA hai isalie bIca meM jo vyavahAra (bigAr3ate) hai vaha sArA galata haiN| hameM yaha lakSya meM hI rahanA cAhie ki do ghaNTe ke bAda phira se bolanA hai, isalie usakI kica-kica nahIM krte| agara tumheM abhiprAya phira se badalanA nahIM ho to alaga bAta hai| hamArA abhiprAya badale nahIM taba hamArA kiyA huA sahI hai| phira se 'vAipha' ke sAtha baiThanevAle nahIM ho, to phira jo jhagar3A kiyA vaha sahI hai! para yaha to kala phira se sAtha meM baiThakara bhojana karanevAle ho| taba phira Aja nATaka kiyA usakA kyA? yaha socanA cAhie na? sabase pahale pati ko patnI kI mAfI mA~ganI caahie| pati udAra mana hotA hai| bIvI pahalI mAfI nahIM maaNgtii| samajha meM AyA na, kyA kahA? praznakartA : pati ko udAra mana kA kahA, isalie ve khuza ho ge| dAdAzrI : nahIM, vaha udAra manavAlA hI hotA hai| usakA vizAla mana hotA hai aura striyA~ sAhajika hotI haiN| sAhajika hone se bhItara udaya Ane para mAphI mA~ga leM, nahIM bhI maaNgeN| para yadi tuma mA~goge, taba vaha turanta mA~ga legii| aura tuma udaya karma ke adhIna nahIM rahoge, tuma jAgRti ke adhIna rhoge| aura vaha udaya karma ke adhIna rahatI hai, vaha sahaja kahalAtI hai na! strI sahaja kahalAtI hai| tumhAre meM sahajatA nahIM aaegii| yadi Apa sahaja ho jAe to bahuta sukhI ho jaaeN| praznakartA : yaha aham jhUThA hai, aisA hameM kahA jAtA hai aura saba jagaha sunate haiM, kaI saMta puruSa bhI aisA kahate haiM, phira bhI aham kyoM nahIM jAtA? dAdAzrI : aham kaba jAegA? aham jhUThA hai, aisA hama eksepTa (svIkAra) kareM taba jaaegaa| vAipha ke sAtha takarAra hotI ho taba hameM samajha lenA cAhie ki yaha merA aham galata hai| isalie hama pratidina usa aham (ahaMkAra) se hI phira bhItara mAfI maMgavAte raheM, to vaha aham calA jaaegaa| kucha upAya to karanA cAhie na?

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra hama yaha sarala aura sIdhA rAstA dikhA dete haiM aura yaha TakarAva thor3e roja-roja hotA hai? vaha to jaba hamAre karma kA udaya hogA taba hotA hai, utanA samaya hameM eDajasTa (anukUla) honA hai| ghara meM vAipha ke sAtha jhagar3A huA ho taba jhagar3A hone ke bAda vAipha ko hoTala meM le jAkara bhojana karavAkara khuza kro| aba pakar3a nahIM rahanI caahie| isalie 'yaha' jJAna ho to phira vaha jhaMjhaTa nahIM rhtii| jJAna ho taba to hama savere hI vAipha ke bhItara bhI bhagavAna (zuddhAtmA) ke darzana karate hI haiM na? vAipha meM bhI dAdA dikhAI de to kalyANa ho gayA! vAipha ko dekheM to ye 'dAdA' dikhAI dete haiM na! usake bhItara zaddhAtmA dikhate haiM na! usase kalyANa ho gayA! isalie jaise bhI ho 'eDajasTa' (anukUla) hokara vakta gujAra denA tAki karja cukatA ho jaae| kisI kA paccIsa sAla kA, kisI kA paMdraha sAla kA, kisI kA tIsa sAla kA, cAho yA na cAho hameM karja to cukAnA pdd'egaa| pasaMda nahIM ho phira bhI usI kamare meM usake sAtha rahanA pdd'egaa| yahA~ bichaunA bAI sAhaba kA aura yahA~ bichaunA bhAI sAhaba kA! mu~ha ulaTA karake so jAe~ to bhI bAI sAhaba (patnI) ko vicAra to bhAI sAhaba (pati) ke hI Ate haiM na! isase chuTakArA nahIM, yaha saMsAra hI aisA hai| usameM bhI hameM hI vaha pasaMda nahIM aisA nahIM hai, usako bhI hama pasaMda nahIM hote| arthAt isameM AnaMda uThAne jaisA nahIM hai| 'DaoNnTa sI laoN, plIja seTala' (kAnUna mata dekho samAdhAna karo) sAmanevAle ko 'seTalamenTa (samAdhAna)' karane ko khnaa| 'tuma aisA karo, vaisA karo' aisA kahane ke lie vakta hI kahA~ hai? sAmanevAle kI sau galatiyA~ hoM to bhI hameM to hamArI hI galatI kahakara Age nikala jAnA hai| isa kAla meM 'laoN (kAnUna)' kahI dekha sakate haiM? yaha jagata to aMtima caraNa meM A gayA hai! pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : samajhadAra AdamI ho na, to lAkha rupaye deMge phira bhI takarAra nahIM karatA hai| aura yaha to binA paise takarAra karatA hai taba vaha anAr3I nahIM to kyA? bhagavAna mahAvIra ko karma khapAne (purA karane) ke lie sATha mIla paidala anAr3I kSetra meM jAnA par3A thA, aura Aja ke loga puNyavAna haiM isalie ghara baiThe anAr3I kSetra hai! kaisA aho bhAgya! karma khapAne ke lie yaha to AtyaMtika lAbhadAyI hai, agara sIdhA cale to| ghara meM koI pUche, salAha mA~ge tabhI javAba denaa| binA pUche, salAha dene baiTha jAe, usako bhagavAna ne 'ahaMkAra' kahA hai| pati pUche ki ye gilAsa kahA~ rakhane haiM? taba patnI javAba de ki 'phalA~ jagaha rkho|' taba hameM vahA~ rakha dene haiN| isake bajAya vaha kahe ki 'tujhe akla nahIM, yahA~ rakhane ko phira tU kyoM kahatI hai?' isa para patnI kahegI ki mere meM 'akla nahIM hai isalie maiMne aisA kahA, aba tumhArI akla se rkho|' aba isakA niber3A kaise ho? yaha to saMyogoM kA TakarAva hI hai kevala! ye laTTa khAte samaya TakarAte hI rahate haiN| laTTa phira TakarAte haiM, chilate haiM aura khana nikalatA hai! yaha to mAnasika khUna nikalatA hai na! vaha rakta nikalA ho to acchA, paTTI bAMdhane para ThIka ho jaae| yaha mAnasika ghAva para paTTI bhI nahIM lagatI koI! ghara meM kisI ko bhI, patnI ko, baccI ko, kisI bhI prANI ko duHkha dekara mokSa nahIM pA skte| jarA-sI bhI dutakAra hogI, vahA~ mokSa kA mArga nahIM hogaa| praznakartA : tiraskAra aura dutakAra, ina donoM meM kyA pharka hai? dAdAzrI : dutakAra aura tiraskAra meM tiraskAra to kabhI mAlUma nahIM bhI pdd'e| dutakAra ke Age tiraskAra bilakula mAilDa (phIkI) vastu hai, jaba ki dutakAra to bar3A hI ugra svarUpa hai| dutakAra se to turanta hI rakta nikale aisA hai| usase isa zarIra se rakta nahIM nikalatA, para mana kA rakta nikalatA hai| dutakAra aisI bhArI vastu hai| eka bahana haiM, vaha mujhase kahatI haiM, 'Apa mere phAdara haiM aisA lagatA praznakartA: kaI bAra ghara meM bhArI takarAra ho jAtI hai, taba kyA kareM?

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64 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra hai, pichale avatAra ke|' bahana bahuta acchI, bahuta saMskArI thii| phira bahana se pUchA ki, 'isa pati ke sAtha tumhArA kaise mela baiThatA hai?' taba kahatI hai, 've kabhI kucha nahIM bolate, kucha nahIM khte|' taba maiMne kahA, 'kisI dina kucha to hotA hogA na?' taba kahe, 'nahIM kabhI-kabhAra tAnA dete haiN|' 'hA~', isa bAta para se maiM samajha gyaa| taba maiMne pUchA ki, 'vaha tAnA deM taba tuma kyA karatI ho? tuma usa vakta DaMDA uThA lAtI ho yA nahIM?' taba vaha kahatI hai, 'nahIM, maiM unheM aisA kahatI haiM ki karma ke udaya se maiM aura Apa ikaTThA hue haiN| maiM alaga, Apa alg| aba aisA kyoM karate ho? kisa lie tAne dete ho aura yaha saba kyA hai? isameM kisI kA bhI doSa nahIM hai| yaha saba karma ke udaya kA doSa haiN| isalie tAne dene ke bajAya hamAre karma cukatA kara DAlo na!' vaha takarAra acchI kahalAegI na! Aja taka to bahuta sArI striyA~ dekhI, para aisI U~cI samajhavAlI yaha strI pahalI hI dekhii| merI prakRti mUlataH kSatriya prkRti| hamArA kSatriya blaDa (khUna), isalie UparI (apane se upara vAloM) ko dhamakAne kI Adata aura anDarahenDa (nIce vAloM) kI rakSA karane kI Adata / yaha kSatriyadharma kA mUla guNa hamAre meM thaa| isalie vAipha, bacce, apane sabhI anDarahenDavAloM kA rakSaNa karane kI aadt| ve ulaTA-sulaTA kareM phira bhI rakSaNa karane kI aadt| naukara ho una sabakA rakSaNa karanA, unakI bhUla ho gaI ho phira bhI una becAroM se kucha nahIM kahatA aura UparI ho to usakI khabara le luuN| aura sArA jagata anDarahenDa ke sAtha kica-kica karatA hai| hama byAhakara ghara meM lAyeM aura bIvI ko DA~Tate raheM, yaha kaisA vyavahAra hai ki gAya ko khUTI se bA~dhakara phira use mArate rho| khUTI se bA~dhakara use mArate raheM taba? yahA~ se mAro to usa ora jAegI becArI ! yaha eka khuMTI se baMdhI kahA~ jAnevAlI hai? yaha samAja kI khaTI aisI hai ki vaha becArI patnI bhAga bhI nahIM sktii| khUTI se baMdhI ko mAreM to bahuta pApa lgegaa| khUTI se na baMdhI ho to hAtha hI na Ae na! yaha to samAja kI vajaha se dabI rahatI hai varnA kaba kI bhAga jaatii| Divorsa (talAka) lene ke bAda mArakara dekho, taba kyA hogA? 'minaTa' ke lie bhI patnI ke sAtha jhaMjhaTa nahIM ho, usakA nAma pati / mitra ke sAtha jaise bigar3ane nahIM dete ho, usa prakAra smhaalnaa| mitra ke sAtha yadi nahIM samhAlate to mitratA Ta jAtI hai| maitrI yAnI maitrii| unako zarta batA denA ki tUne maitrI meM hamArA sAtha chor3a diyA to gunAha lgegaa| eka hokara maitrI nibhaanaa|' phrenDa ke prati sinsiyara (mitra ke prati vaphAdAra) rahatA hai, jaise phrenDa (mitra) dUra rahakara bhI kahatA hai ki 'merA phrenDa aisA hai| mere bAre meM kabhI burA nahIM socegaa|' isa prakAra patnI ke lie bhI burA nahIM soca skte| vaha phrenDa se bar3hakara nahIM hai? patnI lauTAye taula ke sAtha aba rAta ko patnI ke sAtha ApakI jhaMjhaTa huI ho taba usakA tA~tA (taMta) subaha taka rahegA, isalie savere cAya aise paTakakara rkhe| Apa samajha jAte ho ki tA~tA hai abhI bhI, ThaMDaka nahIM huI hai| aise jhaTakA detI hai paTakakara, usakA nAma taaNtaa| _ 'vaha kisalie aisA karatI hai? tumheM dabAnA cAhatI hai| aura tU krodhita ho gayA taba vaha samajhegI ki hA~, calo, narama par3a gyaa| aura gussA nahIM kareM to phira vaha jyAdA zoragula kregii|' aise zoragula ke bAda bhI agara vaha gussA nahIM karatA, taba phira andara jAkara do-cAra bartana jora se giraayegii| usakI khananana.... AvAja ho to vaha ciddh'egaa| phira bhI agara nahIM cir3hA to beTe ko cimaTA lekara rulAyegI tAki pApA cir3ha jaae| 'tU beTe ke pIche kyoM par3I hai, bacce ko bIca meM kyoM lAtI hai? aisA vaisA...' isalie vaha jAna jAegI ki yaha ThaMDA par3a gyaa| puruSa ghaTanAe~ bhUla jAte haiM aura striyoM ko usakI noMdha (kisI ghaTanA ko rAga-dveSa se laMbe samaya taka yAda rakhanA) sArI jindagI rahatI haiN| puruSa bhole hote haiM, bar3e dilavAle hote haiM, bhadrika hote haiM, isalie

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra ve bhUla jAte haiM becaare| striyA~ to kahatI bhI haiM ki usa dina tuma aisA bole the, jo mere kaleje meM lagA hai| are! bIsa sAla hue to bhI noMdha tAjI! lar3akA bIsa sAla kA byAhane yogya ho gayA to bhI Aja taka vaha bAta yAda rakhatI hai! sabhI cIjeM sar3a jAe~ para inakI cIjeM (noMdha) nahIM sar3atI! hamase kucha ulaTA-sIdhA vyavahAra ho gayA ho to strI use apanI asalI jagaha para rakha detI hai, kaleje ke bhiitr| isalie hameM usake sAtha aisA kucha bhI vyavahAra nahIM karane jaisA hai aura sAvadhAna rahane jaisA hai| strI se jitanA tuma kahoge usakI jimmevArI hamezA AegI, kyoMki vaha jaba taka hamArA zarIra taMdurusta (svastha) hogA na, taba taka bardAzta karatI rahegI aura mana meM kyA kahegI? jor3a DhIle par3ane do taba inheM ThikAne lA duuNgii| ina sabhI ko jinake jor3a DhIle paDa gaye unheM, ThikAne lA diyaa| maiMne aise dekhe bhI haiN| isalie maiM logoM ko salAha detA hU~, bIvI ke sAtha takarAra mata krnaa| bIvI ke sAtha baira mata rakhanA, nahIM to parezAna ho jaaegaa| hamArI strI jAti mUlataH saMskAra meM Ae na, to vaha to devI hai| para yaha to bAharI saMskAra chUne ke pariNAma svarUpa biphara gaI hai abhii| isalie zAstrakAroM ne kahA, 'strI ko aise samajhA denA sarala haiM kintu biphara gaI to phira samhAlanA mahAmuzkila hai|' aura hamAre loga vaha biphara jAe aisA karate haiN| use ulaTA-sIdhA kahakara ukasAte haiM aura phira vaha biphare to bAghina jaisI ho jAtI hai| hameM isa hada taka nahIM jAnA cAhie, maryAdA rakhanI caahie| aura hama strI ko parezAna karate raheM to kahA~ jAegI vaha becArI? isIlie vaha pahale vakra (Ter3hA) calatI hai aura phira biphara jAtI hai ! vaha bipharI to sArA bigar3a gayA ! isalie use cher3anA mata, leTa go karanA (chor3a denaa)| aura strI jaba bipharegI taba tumhArI buddhi kAma nahIM degI, tumhArI buddhi use nahIM bA~dha skegii| isalie biphare nahIM aise bAteM krnaa| A~kho meM prema bharapUra rkhnaa| agara vaha aisA-vaisA kahe taba vaha to strI jAti hai, samajhakara pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra leTa go krnaa| arthAt eka A~kha meM saMpUrNa prema rakhanA, dUsarI A~kha meM thor3I sakhtI rakhanA, usa prakAra rahanA caahie| vaha to eka A~kha meM sakhtI kI taraha aura eka A~kha meM devI kI taraha mAnanA, jisa samaya jisakI jarUrata lage vaisA krnaa| hara roz2a jyAdA sakhtI mata krnaa| samajha meM AyA? praznakartA : eka A~kha meM sakhtI aura eka A~kha meM prema, ve donoM eTa-e-TAima (eka samaya) kaise rahegA? dAdAzrI : aisA to puruSa ko saba AtA hai ! maiM tIsa-paitIsa sAla kA thA, taba ghara AtA na, usa vakta hIrAbA akelI nahIM, AsapAsa kI sabhI striyA~ mujhe dekhtiiN| taba eka A~kha meM sakhtI dekheM aura eka A~kha meM pUjanIyatA dekheN| sabhI striyA~ sira para or3hakara baiThatIM aura sabhI caukannI ho jaatiiN| aura hIrAbA to hamAre bhItara Ane se pahale hI bhar3akatIM, jUte kI AhaTa huI ki bhar3aka jaatiiN| eka A~kha meM sakhtI, eka meM nrmii| usake bagaira strI nahIM sNbhltii| isalie hIrAbA kahatI thIM na, dAdA kaise haiM? praznakartA : tIkhe bha~vare jaise| dAdAzrI : tIkhe bha~vare jaise haiM aisA kAyama rkhte| vaise unheM jarA bhI dhamakAte nhiiN| ghara meM praveza karate ki cuppii| saba barpha jaisA ThaMDA ho jAtA, jUte kI AhaTa hote hI turanta ! sakhtI kisa lie ki vaha Thokara nahIM khA baiTheM, isalie sakhtI rkho| isalie eka A~kha meM sakhtI aura eka A~kha meM prema rkhnaa| praznakartA : isalie saMskRta meM kahA hai, 'yatra nAryastu pUjyaMte ramaMte tatra devatA!' dAdAzrI : hA~! isalie maiM jaba aisA kahatA hU~ na, taba sabhI mujhe kahate haiM, 'dAdA! Apa striyoM ke tarafadAra haiM, pakSapAtI haiN|' aba maiM jaba kahatA hU~ ki, striyoM kI pUjA karo, isakA artha aisA nahIM hai ki savere jAkara AratI utaarnaa| aisA karane para to vaha terA kacUmara kara degii| isakA artha kyA hai? eka A~kha meM prema aura eka A~kha meM sakhtI

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67 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra rkhnaa| arthAt pUjA mata krnaa| (Ajakala) aisI yogyatA nahIM hai| isalie mana se pUjA krnaa| 68 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra aura yaha pati ! pati kA tujhe Dara nahIM lgtaa| usa pati ko Upara se tU dhamakAtI rahatI hai! bAgha jaise pati kA kacUmara kara detI hai! isalie patnI se kahanA ki 'tujhe mujhase jitanA lar3anA ho utanA ldd'naa| mujhe to dAdA ne lar3ane ko manA kiyA hai, dAdA ne mujhe AjJA dI hai| maiM yahA~ baiThA hU~, tujhe jo kucha kahanA ho kaha ddaal|' aisA use kaha denaa| praznakartA : lekina bolegI hI nahIM na phir| dAdAzrI : dAdA kA nAma Ate hI cupa ho jaae| dUsarA koI hathiyAra istemAla mata krnaa| yahI hathiyAra istemAla krnaa| eka bahana ne to mujhe batAyA thA ki, 'zAdI huI taba ve bar3e akar3ate the|' maiMne pUchA 'aba?' taba kahe, 'dAdAjI, Apa sArA strI caritra jAnate ho, mujhase kyoM kahalavAte ho?' unheM mujhase koI sukha lenA ho taba maiM unase kahatI hU~, 'bhAIsAba khie|' arthAt vaha usase bhAIsAba kahalavAtI taba (viSaya ke lie lAcArI karavAtI)! 'usameM merA kyA doSa? pahale ve mujhase bhAIsAba kahalavAte the aura aba maiM usase bhAIsAba kahalavAtI huuN|' ye amaladAra bhI oNphisa se thakakara ghara Ae~ na, taba bAIsAhaba kyA kahatI haiM? ki 'Der3ha ghaNTA leTa hae, kahA~ gae the?' dekho! usakI bIvI eka bAra usako dhamakAtI thii| taba aisA zera jaisA AdamI, jisase sArA gujarAta DaratA, use bhI DarAtI thI dekho na ! sAre gajarAta meM jisakA koI nAma nahIM le sakatA, usakA usakI bIvI hI nahIM sunatI aura use dhamakAtI rahatI thI! phira maiMne use eka dina pUchA, 'bahana, tumhArA pati hai vaha tujhe akelI chor3akara dasa-paMdraha dina bAhara jAe taba?' taba bole, 'mujhe to Dara lagatA hai|' 'kisakA Dara lagatA hai?' taba kahatI hai, 'bhItara dUsare rUma meM gilAsa khar3ake na, taba bhI mere mana meM aisA lagatA hai ki bhUta AyA hogA!' eka cuhiyA gilAsa khar3akAye taba bhI Dara lagatA hai eka vyakti tIna hajAra kI ghor3I lAyA thaa| rojAnA to vaise ghor3I kI savArI bApa karatA thaa| usakA caubIsa sAla kA beTA thaa| eka dina beTA ghor3I para savArI karake tAlAba para le gyaa| usa ghor3I ke sAtha z2arA cher3akhAnI kI! aba tIna hajAra kI ghor3I, usake sAtha cher3akhAnI karanA kitanA yogya hai! usake sAtha cher3akhAnI nahIM kara skte| usako usakI cAla se hI calane denA pdd'e| usane ghor3I kI cher3akhAnI kI taba ghor3I tejI se agale dono pairoM para khar3I ho gaI aura vaha lar3akA gira pdd'aa| aba vaha ghara Akara kyA kahane lagA ki 'isa ghor3I ko beca do, ghor3I kharAba hai|' use baiThanA nahIM AtA aura ghor3I kI galatI nikAlatA hai! dekho, yaha usakA mAlika! phira maiMne kahA, 'hA~, vaha ghor3I kharAba thI, yaha tIna hajAra kI ghor3I!' are, tujhe savAra honA nahIM AtA, isameM ghor3I ko kyoM badanAma karatA hai? ghor3I para savArI karanA nahIM AnI cAhie? ghor3I ko badanAma karate ho? eka bAra pati yadi patnI kA pratikAra karegA to usakA prabhAva hI nahIM rhegaa| hamArA ghara ThIka se cala rahA ho, bacce acchI taraha se par3ha rahe hoM, kisI bAta kI jhaMjhaTa nahIM ho aura hameM patnI kA ulTA dekhane meM AyA aura binA vajaha pratikAra kareM, taba hamArI akla kA nApa strI nikAla letI hai ki isameM kucha barakata nahIM hai| tumheM striyoM ke sAtha 'DIliMga (vartana)' karanA nahIM aataa| tuma vyApAriyoM ko yadi grAhakoM ke sAtha DIliMga karanA nahIM Ae to ve tumhAre pAsa nahIM aayeNge| isalie hamAre loga kahate hai na ki 'selsamena acchA rkho|' acchA, hoziyAra selsamena ho to loga thor3I jyAdA qImata bhI de deNge| isa prakAra hameM strI ke sAtha 'DIliMga' karanA AnA caahie| yaha to strI jAti kI vajaha se jagata kA yaha saba nUra hai varnA ghara meM sAdhu se bhI burA hAla ApakA hotaa| savere jhAr3a hI nahIM nikalA hotA!

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 69 cAya kA bhI ThikAnA nahIM hotA !! yaha to vAipha hai isalie usake kahane para savere jaldI-jaldI nahA lete ho, usakI vajaha se sArI zobhA hai! aura unakI zobhA ApakI vajaha se hai| strI arthAt sahaja prkRti| pA~ca karor3a kA nukasAna huA ho, to pati sArA dina ciMtA karatA ho, dukAna meM nukasAna hotA ho to ghara Akara khAtA-pItA bhI nahIM para patnI to pati ke ghara Ane para usase kahegI, 'lo, uTho, aba itanI hAya-hAya mata karo, cAya pIo aura ArAma se bhojana kro|' aba AdhI pArTanarazipa usakI hone para bhI use ciMtA kyoM nahIM hotI, kyoMki vaha sAhajika hai| isalie isa sahaja (prakRti) ke sAtha raheM taba jI pAe~, varnA nahIM jI paate| aura donoM puruSa hote to mara jAte Amane-sAmane TakarA TakarAkara ) / ataH strI to sAhajika hai, isalie yaha ghara meM AnaMda rahatA hai thor3A-bahuta / strI to daivI zakti hai para agara puruSa ko samajha Ae to kAma bana jaae| strI kA doSa nahIM, hamArI ulTI samajha kA doSa hai| striyA~ to deviyA~ haiM, unheM devI pada se nIce nahIM utaarnaa| 'devI hai,' kahate haiM na / aura uttara pradeza meM to kahIM kahIM 'Aie devI' kahate haiM, Aja bhI kahate haiM, 'zAradA devI AI, sItA devI aaiiN|' kucha pradezoM meM nahIM kahate ? aura cAra puruSa sAtha-sAtha rahate hoM, eka AdamI khAnA pakAye, eka AdamI saphAI kare, usa ghara meM barakata nahIM hotii| eka puruSa aura eka strI raheM (pati-patnI) taba ghara sundara dikhatA hai| strI sajAvaTa bahuta sundara karatI hai| praznakartA: Apa akelI striyoM kA hI pakSa mata liyA kIjie / dAdAzrI : maiM striyoM kA pakSa nahIM letA, ina puruSoM kA pakSa letA huuN| vaise striyoM ko lagegA hI hamArA pakSa lete haiM, para taraphadArI puruSoM kI karatA huuN| kyoMki phemilI ke mAlika Apa haiN| She is not owner of family, you are owner ( vaha kuTuMba kI mAlika nahIM, Apa mAlika haiN)| loga bambaI meM mujhe kahate haiM na, 'Apa puruSoM kA pakSa nahIM pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra lete aura striyoM kA pakSa kyoM lete haiM?' maiMne kahA, 'unakI kokha se mahAvIra paidA hue haiM, tumhArI kokha se kauna paidA huA hai? binA vajaha tuma usakI bAta le baiThe ho ?' 70 maiM puruSoM ko aisI samajha detA hU~ ki bAda meM striyA~ unakA sammAna karatI haiN| isalie donoM ke sAtha kaise vyavahAra karanA usake tarIke hameM Ane caahie| donoM ko saMtoSa honA caahie| mujhe to (vyavahAra meM to) striyoM ke sAtha bhI bahuta anukUla hotA hai aura puruSoM ke sAtha bhI utanA hI anukUla hotA hai| para vAstava meM hama na to striyoM ke pakSa meM hote haiM aura na hI puruSoM ke pakSa meM hote hai / donoM ThIka se saMsAra claao| patnI nahIM ho to terA ghara kaise calegA? patnI kI zikAyateM tU zikAyata karegA to tU fariyAdI ho jaaegaa| maiM to jo fariyAda lekara Ae use hI gunahagAra samajhatA hU~ / tujhe fariyAda karane kA vakta hI kyoM AyA? fariyAdI z2yAdAtara gunahagAra hI hote haiN| khuda gunahagAra hai, isalie zikAyata lekara AtA hai| tU fariyAda karegA to tU fariyAdI ho jAegA aura sAmanevAlA AropI ho jaaegaa| isalie unakI dRSTi meM tU AropI tthhregaa| isalie kisI ke viruddha fariyAda mata krnaa| vaha bhAga karatA ho to hama guNA kareMge tAki raqama (zUnya ho jaae| sAmanevAle ke lie aisA socanA ki usane mujhe aisA kahA, vaisA kahA vahI gunAha hai| rAste para calate samaya per3a se TakarAo to usase jhagar3A kyoM nahIM karate? per3a ko jar3a kaise kaha sakate haiM? jinase coTa lagatI hai ve sabhI hare per3a hI haiM na? gAya kA paira hama para par3e to hama use kucha kahate haiM? aisA ina sabhI logoM kA hai| 'jJAnIpuruSa' sabhI ko mAfI kaise dete haiM? ve jAnate haiM ki ye sabhI (loga) per3a kI taraha hai| samajhadAra ko to kahanA hI nahIM par3atA, vaha to bhItara turanta pratikramaNa kara letA hai| pati apamAna kare, taba kyA karatI ho phira? dAvA dAyara karogI?

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : aisA thor3e hI kareMge? aisA kabhI hotA hogA? dAdAzrI : taba kyA karatI ho? mere AzIrvAda haiM. kahakara so jAnA! bahana, tU so jAegI yA mana meM gAliyA~ detI rahegI? mana meM hI gAliyA~ detI rahatI hai| aura phira patnI tIna hajAra kI sAr3I dekhe to ghara Akara mu~ha phUla jAtA hai| aisA dekhakara hama pUche, 'mu~ha kyoM aisA ho gayA?' vaha sAr3I meM kho gaI hotI hai| jaba sAr3I lAkara deM taba chor3atI hai, varnA taba taka kleza karanA nahIM chodd'tii| aisA nahIM honA caahie| patnI kahegI ki, 'yaha hamAre sophe kI DijAIna ThIka nahIM hai| Apake mitra ke vahA~ gae the, usakI DijAIna kitanI sundara thI!' are, isa sophe meM tujhe sukha nahIM milatA? taba kaheM ki, 'nahIM, maiMne vahA~ jo dekhA vaha acchA lagA hai|' bAda meM pati ko usake jaisA sophA lAnA par3atA hai! nayA sophA Aye aura kisI dina lar3akA bleDa se kahIM kATa de to bhItara mAno AtmA kaTa jAe! bacce aise sophA kATa dete haiM yA nahIM? aura usa para kUdate haiM yA nahIM? aura kUdate haiM taba mAno usakI chAtI para kUda rahA ho aisA lagatA hai| yaha usakA moha hai| vaha moha hI kATa-kATakara tumhArA kacUmara kara degaa| 72 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : trAgA to striyA~ nahIM, puruSa bhI karate haiN| (ajJAna dazA meM) maiMne bhI kiye the| aba to loga jyAdA trAge nahIM krte| trAgA mAne kyA? khuda ko kucha cAhie to sAmanevAle ko dhamakAkara le lenA, apanI manamAnI karanA ! praznakartA : saba jagaha auratoM kA hI doSa kyoM dekhA jAtA hai aura puruSoM kA kyoM nahIM dekhA jAtA? dAdAzrI : striyoM kA to aisA hai na, puruSoM ke hAtha meM kAnUna thA, isalie striyoM ko nukasAna huA hai| yaha to pustakeM puruSoM ne likhii| isalie puruSoM ko Age kiyA hai, striyoM ko ur3A diyA hai| una logoM ne usameM usakI velyu (mUlya) ur3A dI hai| pariNAma svarUpa mAra bhI utanI hI khAI hai| narka meM bhI ve hI jAte haiN| yahA~ se narka meM jAte haiN| striyoM ko aisA nahIM hotaa| bhale hI strI kI prakRti alaga ho, usakI prakRti ke anusAra use phala milatA hai aura puruSa ko usakI prakRti ke anusAra phala milatA hai| strI kI ajAgRta prakRti hai| ajAgRta arthAt sahaja prkRti| praznakartA : kaba taka hameM aise sahana karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : sahana karane se to zakti aura bar3hatI hai| praznakartA : to aisA sahana hI karate raheM? dAdAzrI : sahana karane ke bajAya usa para socanA acchA hai| vicAra se usakA solyuzana (hala) nikaalo| bAqI sahana karanA gunAha hai| bahuta sahane se phira spriMga kI taraha uchalakara sArA ghara tahasa-nahasa kara DAlatI hai| sahanazIlatA to spriMga hai| spriMga para loDa (bojhA) mata rakhanA kabhI bhii| vaha to thor3e samaya ke lie ThIka hai| rAste meM Ate-jAte kisI ke sAtha kucha huA ho taba, vahA~ yaha spriMga istemAla karanI hai| yahA~ ghara ke logoM para 'loDa' (vajana) nahIM rakha skte| ghara ke logoM kA sahana karoge taba kyA hogA? spriMga uchalegI vaha to| isa moha meM to janma bigar3a jAte haiM aura dUsarA, bahanoM se kahatA hU~ ki (jarUrata se jyAdA) zopiMga mata krnaa| zopiMga baMda kara do| yaha to DaoNlara Ae ki.... are, jarUrata nahIM hai to kyoM lete ho, yajalesa (binA vajaha)? kisI bhI sahI rAste para paisA jAnA cAhie ki nahIM jAnA cAhie? kisI faimili ko paisoM kI muzkila ho. una becAroM ke pAsa nahIM ho aura pacAsa-sau DaoNlara deM to kitanA acchA lage! aura zopiMga meM fijUla kharcI karate ho aura ghara meM saba bharA par3A rahatA hai| praznakartA : phira striyA~ trAgA (apanI manamAnI/bAta manavAne ke lie kie jAnevAlA nATaka) karatI haiM!

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : kaisA DijAIna karanA cAhie, dAdA? hAtha meM Ane ke bAda kyA? pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : sahanazIlatA kI maryAdA kitanI rakheM? dAdAzrI : vaha to eka hada taka sahana krnaa| phira socakara patA lagAo ki isameM vAstavikatA kyA hai| socane para patA calegA ki isake pIche kyA hai! kevala sahate hI rahoge to spriMga uchlegii| socane kI z2arUrata hai| vicArahInatA ke kAraNa sahanA par3atA hai| socoge taba patA calegA ki isameM bhUla kahA~ ho rahI hai! usase isakA saba samAdhAna nikala aaegaa| bhItara anaMta zakti hai, anaMta zakti ! tuma mA~go vaha zakti mile aisI hai| yaha to bhItara zakti khojate nahIM aura bAhara zakti khojate haiN| bAhara kaunasI zakti hai? ghara-ghara sahana karane se hI visphoTa hote haiN| maiM kitanA sahana karU~, mana meM aisA hI samajhate haiN| lekina usakA socakara rAstA nikAlanA caahie| jo saMjoga mile haiM, ve dekh| saMjoga kudarata kA nirmANa haiM aura tU aba kisa prakAra usameM se chUTa pAyegA? naye baira ba~dhe nahIM aura purAne baira chor3a dene hoM to usakA rAstA nikAlanA caahie| yaha janma baira chor3ane ke lie hai, aura baira chor3ane kA rAstA hai, 'pratyeka ke sAtha samabhAva se nikAla!' phira dekho tumhAre bacce kitane saMskArI hoMge! praznakartA : merI sahelI kA prazna hai ki, usake pati usa para gussA karate haiM, isakA kyA kAraNa hogA? dAdAzrI : vaha to acchA hai| loga gussA kareM, isake bajAya pati kare vaha acchaa| ghara ke AdamI haiM na! aisA hai, lohAra bhArI lohA ho aura use mor3anA ho taba use garama karate haiN| kyoM karate haiM? aise ThaNDA nahIM mur3egA, isalie garama karake phira mor3atA hai| taba phira do hathaur3iyA~ mAreM, utane meM mur3a jAtA hai| pratyeka vastu garama hone para mur3atI hai hmeshaa| jitanA garama utanA kamaz2ora hotA hai aura kamajora isalie eka-do hathaur3I mArate hI hameM jaisA DijAIna cAhie vaisA banA sakate haiN| isI prakAra patnI bhI aisI kamajorIvAle (gussaila) pati ko apanI Diz2AIna ke mutAbika banA sakatI hai| dAdAzrI : hama jaisA banAnA cAheM vaisA Diz2AIna bne| pati ko tote jaisA banA de| 'AyA rAma' patnI bolegI taba vaha bhI kahegA, 'AyA raam'| 'gayA rAma' bole to vaha bhI kahegA, 'gayA raam|' vaisA tote jaisA bana jaaegaa| para logoM ko hathaur3I mAranA bhI nahIM AtA na ! ve sabhI kamajoriyA~ haiN| gussA karanA kamajorI hai| Apa Ate hoM aura makAna para se sira para eka patthara gire, aura khUna nikalA, to usa vakta kyA bahuta gussA karoge? praznakartA : nahIM, vaha to 'ho gayA' hai| dAdAzrI : nahIM, magara vahA~ para gassA kyoM nahIM karate? koI mAranevAlA dikhatA nahIM, isalie gussA kaise Ae? praznakartA : kisI ne jAna-bUjhakara mArA nhiiN| dAdAzrI : arthAt hamAre pAsa krodha kA kaMTrola (niyaMtraNa) hai| ata: yadi hama samajheM ki jAna-bUjhakara koI mAratA nahIM, to vahA~ kaMTrola (niyaMtraNa) kara sakate haiN| kaMTrola to hai hii| aura phira kahate haiM, 'mujhe gussA A jAtA hai|' are, vahA~ kyoM nahIM AtA, pulisavAle ke sAtha? jaba pulisavAlA dhamakAtA hai, usa vakta kyoM gassA nahIM AtA? use baha para gussA AtA hai, baccoM para gussA AtA hai, paDosI para gassA AtA hai, 'anDara heNDa' (hAtha ke nIcevAle) para gussA AtA hai para 'baoNsa' (mAlika) para kyoM nahIM AtA? gussA manuSya ko A nahIM sktaa| yaha to use apanI manamAnI karanI hai| praznakartA : ghara meM yA bAhara phrenDsa meM, saba jagaha, pratyeka ke mata alaga-alaga hote haiM aura vahA~ hamArI manamAnI nahIM ho to phira hameM gussA AtA hai, taba kyA kareM?

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76 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : sabhI loga apanI manamAnI karane lage, taba kyA hogA? aisA vicAra hI kaise Ae? turanta hI aisA vicAra AnA cAhie ki sabhI yadi apanI manamAnI karane jAeMge, to yahA~ para Amane-sAmane bartana tor3a deMge aura khAne ko bhI nahIM rhegaa| isalie manamAnI kabhI mata krnaa| aisI dhAraNA hI nahIM karanI, to galata hogA hI nhiiN| jise garaz2a hogI vaha dhAraNA karegA, aisA rkho| praznakartA : hama kitane bhI zAnta rahe lekina puruSa gussA ho jAte haiM to hameM kyA karanA? dAdAzrI : ve gussA kareM aura jhagar3A karanA ho to hama bhI gussA kareM, varnA baMda kara do| bAta khatma karanI ho to ThaMDI ho jAnA aura bAta khatma nahIM karanI ho to sArI rAta calane denaa| kauna manA karatA hai? acchI lagatI hai yaha bAta? praznakartA : nahIM, acchI nahIM lgtii| dAdAzrI : gussA karake kyA karanA hai? manuSya khuda gussA nahIM krtaa| yaha to mikenikala eDajasTamenTa (yAMtrika anukUlana) gussA karatA hai| khuda gussA nahIM hote| khuda ko phira mana meM pachatAvA hotA hai ki gussA nahIM kiyA hotA to acchA hotaa| praznakartA : use ThaNDA karane kA upAya kyA? dAdAzrI : vaha to mazIna garama ho gaI ho. use ThaNDI karanI ho to thor3I dera rahane do, to apane Apa ThaNDI ho jAtI hai| hAtha lagAyeM aura use cher3akhAnI kareM to hama jala jaaeNge| praznakartA : mere aura mere pati ke bIca gassA aura bahasa ho jAtI hai| kahA-sunI vagairaha ho jAtI hai to kyA kareM hama? dAdAzrI : gussA tU karatI hai yA vaha? gussA kauna karatA hai? praznakartA : ve karate haiM, phira mujha se bhI ho jAtA hai| dAdAzrI : taba hameM bhItara khuda ko DA~TanA hai, 'kyoM tU aisA karatI hai?' jo kiyA vaha bhugatanA to par3egA na! lekina pratikramaNa (pachatAvA) karane se sabhI doSa khatama ho jAte haiN| varnA dUsaroM ko hamAre diye hue duHkha phira hameM hI bhugatane par3ate haiN| lekina pratikramaNa karane se jarA ThaNDA par3a jAtA hai| praznakartA : kintu pati-patnI ke bIca thor3A gussA to honA hI cAhie na? dAdAzrI : nahIM, aisA koI kAnUna nahIM hai| pati-patnI ke bIca to bahuta jyAdA zAMti rahanI caahie| (eka dUsare ko) du:kha ho, ve pati-patnI hI nahIM hote| saccI phrenDazipa meM aisA nahIM hotaa| phira yaha to sabase bar3I phrenDazipa hai ! yahA~ jhagar3A nahIM honA caahie| yaha to logoM ne mAna liyA hai, khuda ko aisA hotA hai isalie niyama aisA hI hai, kahate haiM ! patipatnI ke bIca to jhagar3A bilakula nahIM honA cAhie, cAhe aura saba jagaha bhale hI ho| praznakartA : hamAre zAstroM meM likhA hai ki strI hai, use pati ko hI paramezvara mAnanA aura usakI AjJA ke anusAra calanA cAhie, to isa samaya meM isakA pAlana kaise karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : vaha to pati yadi rAma jaise hoM, taba hameM sItA bananA caahie| pati Ter3hA huA ho, taba hama Ter3he nahIM hoM to kaise calegA? sIdhe raheM to uttama para sIdhA rahA nahIM jaataa| manuSya ko bAra-bAra parezAna karate rahe to phira kisa prakAra sIdhA raha sakatA hai? phira patnI kyA kare becArI? pati ko pati dharma nibhAnA cAhie aura patnI ko patnI dharma nibhAnA caahie| yadi pati kI thor3I galatiyA~ hoM aura nibhA le vaha 'strI' kahalAtI hai| para vaha itanI gAliyA~ dene lage, taba patnI kyA kare becArI? praznakartA : pati hI paramAtmA hai, yaha kyA jhUTha hai? dAdAzrI : Aja ke patiyoM ko paramAtmA mAneM, to pAgala hokara phire aise haiM!

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77 78 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : hA~, pahale ke pati 'rAma' the aura abhI ke 'marA' haiN| praznakartA : yaha kahatI hai jamarA (ymraaj)| praznakartA : pati ke prati patnI kA kartavya kyA hai, yaha smjhaaie| dAdAzrI : strI ko hamezA pati ke prati sinsiyara (vaphAdAra) rahanA caahie| pati ko patnI se kahanA cAhie ki 'tuma sinsiyara nahIM rahogI to merA dimAga bigar3a jaaegaa|' use cetAvanI denI caahie| 'bIvera' (sAvadhAna) karanA, lekina Agraha nahIM kara sakate ki sinsiyara rho| kintu use 'bIvera' rahane ko kaha sakate haiN| sArI jindagI sinsiyara rahanA caahie| rAta-dina sinsiyara, unakI hI ciMtA honI caahie| tumheM unakI ciMtA rakhanI cAhie tabhI saMsAra ThIka se clegaa| pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : pati ko paramezvara kahanA cAhie? unake pratidina darzana karane cAhie? unakA caraNAmRta pInA cAhie? dAdAzrI : use paramezvara kaheM, magara vo maranevAle na hoM taba to paramezvara / mara jAnevAle haiM, ve kAhe ke paramezvara ! pati paramezvara kAhe kA? isa samaya ke pati paramezvara hote hogeM? praznakartA : maiM to pratidina pati ke caraNa sparza karatI huuN| dAdAzrI : aisA karake pati ko banAtI hogii| pati yAnI pati aura paramezvara yAnI paramezvara / vaha pati bhI kahA~ kahatA hai ki 'maiM paramezvara hU~? 'maiM to pati hU~' aisA hI kahatA hai na? praznakartA : hA~, 'pati hU~' aisA hI kahate haiN| dAdAzrI : haM..., aise to gAya kA bhI pati (mAlika) hotA hai. sabake pati (mAlika) hote haiN| AtmA akelA hI paramezvara hai, zuddhAtmA! praznakartA : caraNAmRta pI sakate hai? dAdAzrI : Aja ke durgandhavAle logoM kA caraNAmRta kaise pI sakate haiM! yaha manuSya gaMdha mArate haiM, aise baiThe hoM taba bhI gaMdha mArate haiN| vaha to pahale sugaMdhavAle loga the taba kI bAta alaga thii| Aja to sabhI manuSya gaMdha mArate haiN| hamArA sira phaTane lge| jaise-taise karake dikhAvA karanA hai ki hama pati-patnI haiN| praznakartA : aba saba aurateM par3hI-likhI haiM na, isalie sabhI ne vaha paramezvara pada haTA diyA hai| dAdAzrI : pati paramezvara bana baiThe haiM, dekho na ! unake hAtha meM kitAba likhane kI sttaa| isalie kauna pUchanevAlA thA! eka tarapha kara DAlA na? aisA nahIM honA caahie| praznakartA : Ajakala kI aurateM apane pati ko pahale kI auratoM ke jaisA sammAna nahIM detii| praznakartA : patideva sinsiyara nahIM rahe, taba phira patnI kA dimAga kharAba ho jAe to pApa nahIM lagatA na? dAdAzrI : ApakA dimAga kharAba ho to vaha svAda cakhatA hai na! pati bhI svAda cakhatA hai na bAda meM! aisA nahIM karanA caahie| eja phAra eja posibala (jahA~ taka ho ske)| pati kI icchA nahIM ho aura bhUlacUka ho jAtI ho taba pati ko usakI kSamA mA~ga lenI cAhie, ki 'maiM kSamA cAhatA hU~, phira se aisA nahIM hogaa|' sinsiyara to rahanA cAhie na manuSya ko? sinsiyara nahIM rahe to kaise calegA? praznakartA : mAphI mA~ga le pati, bAta-bAta meM mAphI mA~ga le para phira vaisA hI karate hoM taba? dAdAzrI : pati mAphI mAMge to Apa samajheM na ki becArA kitanI lAcArI kA anubhava karatA hai! isalie leTa go krnaa| use usakI 'hebiTa' (Adata) nahIM par3I hai| 'hebicyaTeDa' (AdI) nahIM huA hai| usako bhI pasaMda nahIM hotA magara kyA kare? barabasa aisA ho jAtA hai| bhUlacUka tabhI hotI hai na!

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80 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra manabheda se kyA hotA hai? manabheda hone para 'Divorsa' (talAqa) le lete haiM aura tanabheda ho taba arthI nikalatI hai ! praznakartA : vyavahArika mAmaloM meM matabheda ho vaha vicArabheda kahalAtA hai yA matabheda kahalAtA hai? pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : pati ko hebiTa (Adata) ho gaI ho, taba kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : karanA kyA? kyA use nikAla deMge? nikAleM to phajIhata hogI bAhara! isalie Dhakakara rakhanA, aura kyA kara sakate haiM taba! gaTara ko Dhakate haiM yA kholate haiM? ye gaTaroM kA Dhakkana baMda rakhanA hotA hai yA khulA rakhanA hotA hai? praznakartA : baMda rakhane par3ate haiN| dAdAzrI : varnA kholane para bU AegI, hamArA sira ghUma jaae| praznakartA : amarIkA kI bahuta-sI aurateM hameM pUchatI haiM ki tuma loga yahA~ TIkA kyoM lagAtI ho? dAdAzrI : hA~, TIkA isalie ki hama Arya striyA~ haiM na islie| hama anArya nahIM haiN| Arya striyA~ TIkevAlI hotI haiN| arthAt pati se cAhe kitanA bhI jhagar3A ho, phira bhI vaha ghara chor3akara jAtI nahIM aura binA TIkevAlI to dUsare dina hI calI jaae| aura yaha to sTeDI (sthira) rahatI hai, ttiikevaalii| yahA~ (kapAla meM do bhakaTI ke bIca bhItara) sakSma mana kA sthAna hotA hai, vaha eka pati meM mana ekAgra rahe islie| praznakartA : striyoM ko kyA karanA cAhie? puruSa kA to Apane batAyA, magara striyA~ donoM A~kho meM kyA rakheM? dAdAzrI : striyoM ko to, unheM cAhe jaisA pati milA ho, vaha apane hisAba kA hai| pati milanA vaha koI gapa nhiiN| isalie jo pati milA usake prati eka pativratA banane kA prayatna krnaa| aura agara aisA nahIM ho sake taba usakI phira kSamApanA kro| para terI dRSTi aisI honI caahie| aura pati ke sAtha pArTanarazipa (sAjhedArI) meM kaise Age bar3ha sakate haiM, apanI urdhvagati ho, kisa prakAra mokSa prApta ho, aise vicAra karo! pariNAma, talAqa ke matabheda pasaMda haiM? matabheda hoM to jhagar3e hote haiM, ciMtA hotI hai, taba dAdAzrI : vaha matabheda kahalAtA hai| yaha jJAna liyA ho to use vicArabheda huA khlaae| varnA phira matabheda khlaae| matabheda se to jhaTakA lagatA hai! praznakartA : matabheda kama raheM to vaha acchA hai na? dAdAzrI : manuSya ko matabheda honA hI nahIM caahie| yadi matabheda hai taba vaha mAnavatA hI nahIM khlaatii| kyoMki matabheda meM se kabhI kabhI manabheda ho jAtA hai| matabheda se manabheda ho jAe to 'tU aisI hai aura tU apane ghara calI jA' aisA kahane lagatA hai| isameM phira majA nahIM rhtaa| jaise-taise nibhA lenaa| praznakartA : abhI to aMtima matabheda taka pahu~ca gayA hai| dAdAzrI : yahI kahatA hU~ na, yaha saba acchA nahIM lgtaa| bAhara acchA nahIM dikhtaa| isakA koI artha nahIM hai| abhI bhI sudhAra sakate haiN| hama manuSya haiM, isalie sudhAra sakate haiN| kisa lie aisA honA caahie| mue fajIhata kiyA karate haiM? kucha samajhanA to par3egA na? samajhe Apa? ina sabhI meM suparaphluasa (Upara-Upara kA) rahane kA hai, taba yahA~ to strI ke pati (svAmI) bana baiThe haiM, kucha loga to! are! svAmitva kyoM jatAtA hai? yaha to yahA~ jIyA taba taka svAmI aura kala Divorsa (talAqa) na le, taba taka svaamii| kala bIvI DivaoNrsa le, taba tU kisakA svAmI? praznakartA : Ajakala sabhI DivaoNrsa lete haiM, talAqa lete haiM, taba choTe-choTe baccoM ko chor3akara talAqa lete haiM to unakI hAya nahIM lagatI? dAdAzrI : lagatI hai na magara vaha kare kyA? vAstava meM talAqa nahIM

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra lene caahie| saca pUcho to saba nibAha lenA caahie| bacce hone se pahale liyA hotA to harja nahIM thA, lekina yadi bacce hone ke talAqa bAda leM to baccoM kI hAya lagatI hai| praznakartA : lar3ake ke bApa kA jarA bhI dimAga calatA nahIM ho, kucha kAmakAja karate nahIM ho, moTela calAnA nahIM AtA ho aura cAra dIvArI ke bIca ghara meM baiThA rahatA ho taba kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : kyA kareMge lekina? dUsarA sIdhA milegA ki nahIM isakA kyA bharosA? praznakartA : vaha to cAhie hI nhiiN| dAdAzrI : dUsarA usase bhI bar3hakara (kharAba) mile taba kyA kareMge? kaIM striyoM ko milA hai aisaa| pahalA pati thA vaha acchA thaa| are, cakkara! phira jahA~ thI vahI para rahanA thA na! mana meM yaha samajhanA cAhie yA nahIM? praznakartA : dAdA ke havAle kara deM phira dUsarA sIdhA milegA na? dAdAzrI : acchA milA aura tIna sAla bAda use eTeka AyA taba kyA karogI? nire bhayavAle saMsAra meM yaha saba kisa lie? jo huA vahI karekTa (sahI) kahakara calA lo yahI acchA hai| pahalA pati sadaiva acchA nikalatA hai, lekina dUsarA to AvArA hI hogaa| kyoMki vaha bhI aisA hI DhU~DhatA hogaa| AvArA khojatA ho aura vaha khuda bhI AvArA ho, tabhI donoM ikaTThA hoMge na! tabhI donoM bhaTake hue mila jAte haiN| isase to pahalAvAlA acchaa| apanA jAnA-pahacAnA to hai na! are! aisA to nahIM hogA na! vaha rAta ko galA to nahIM dabA degA na! aisA tumheM bharosA rahegA na! jabaki vaha dUsarAvAlA to galA bhI dabA de! baccoM kI khAtira bhI khuda ko samajhanA caahie| eka yA do bacce hoM magara ve becAre besahArA hI ho jAe~ge na! besahArA nahIM kahalAe~ge? praznakartA : besahArA hI kahalAe~ge na! dAdAzrI : mA~ kahA~ gaI? pApA kahA~ gae? eka bAra khuda kA eka pA~va kaTa gayA ho, taba eka janma gujArA nahIM karate yA AtmahatyA karate haiM? pati burA nahIM lagatA aisA lagegA taba kyA karogI? phira pati kA dimAga jarA Ar3A-Ter3hA ho, lekina zAdI kI yAnI hamArA pati, arthAt hamArA sabase acchA-besTa, aisA khnaa| ata: bure jaisA kucha duniyA meM hotA hI nhiiN| praznakartA : besTa (uttama) kaheM taba to pati sira para car3ha jaaeNge| dAdAzrI : nahIM, sira para nahIM cddh'eNge| ve sArA dina becAre bAhara kAma karate rahate haiM ve kyA sira para car3heMge? pati to jo Apako prApta huA ho vahI nibAha lenA hogA, dUsarA thor3e hI lene jAe~ge? bikAU milate haiM? kucha ulaTA-sIdhA karo aura Divorsa (talAqa) lenA par3e, vaha to ulaTA galata dikhe| vaha bhI pUchegA, DivorsavAlI (talAqazudA) hai, taba aura kahA~ jAe~? eka patnI jo milI hai usake sAtha rahakara nibhA lo| arthAt saba jagaha aisA hotA hai| aura usakI hamase banatI nahIM ho, para vaha kyA kare? aba jAe~ kahA~? isalie yahIM nikAla kara denaa| hama inDiyana (bhAratIya), kitane pati badaleM? yaha eka kiyA vahI... jo milA vaha shii| isa taraha nibAha lenaa| aura puruSoM ko strI jaisI milI ho, kleza karatI ho phira bhI usake sAtha nibAha lenA acchaa| vaha kyA peTa meM kATanevAlI hai? vaha to bAhara zora macAtI hai athavA mu~ha para gAliyA~ de, peTa meM kATe taba hama kyA kareM? usake jaisA hai yaha sb| yaha jo bolatI hai vaha reDiyo hI hai| para yaha Apako patA nahIM calatA ki yaha vAstava meM kauna kara rahA hai? Apako to aisA hI lage ki yaha saba sacamuca vahI kara rahI hai| phira usako bhI pachatAvA hotA hai, ki are, mujhe nahIM kahanA cAhie thA aura mu~ha se nikala gyaa| to phira vaha karatI hai ki reDiyo karatA hai? eka strI kA saMsAra muMbaI meM phrekcara hone (TUTane) jA rahA thaa| pati

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84 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra ne dUsarA gupta nAtA rakhA hogA aura strI ko patA cala gyaa| isalie jabaradasta jhagar3e hone lge| phira usa aurata ne mujhe batAyA ki 'aisA hai, maiM kyA karU~? mujhe bhAga jAnA hai|' maiMne kahA, eka patnIvrata kA kAnUna pAlatA ho aisA mile to bhAga jaanaa| varnA dusarA kauna acchA milegA? vaise to eka hI rakhI hai na? taba kahe, 'hA~, eka hI hai|' taba maiMne kahA, acchaa| leTa go kara (calA le), bar3A dila kara de| tujhe isase acchA dUsarA nahIM milegaa| kaliyuga meM to pati bhI acchA nahIM milatA aura patnI bhI acchI nahIM miltii| yaha sabhI mAla hI kUr3A-karakaTa jaisA hai na! mAla pasaMda karane yogya hai hI nhiiN| isalie yaha tujhe pasaMda nahIM karanA hai, yaha to tujhe hala nikAlanA hai| yaha karmoM kA hisAba cukatA karanA hai isalie nibttaao| taba loga ArAma se mAnoM sacamuca pati-patnI hone jAte haiM ! mue, nibaTArA lA iskaa| kisI bhI taraha se kleza kama ho, usa prakAra hala nikAlanA hai| pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : kaliyuga meM jo bemela jor3A huA ho to vaha bemela jor3A hI Upara jAegA athavA ekadama adhogati meM jaaegaa| do meM se eka kAryakArI hotA hai aura sajor3A (acchI jor3I) kAryakArI nahIM hotaa| bemela jor3A hai, isalie ucca gati meM le jAegA aura sajor3A to bhaTakAtA hai| bemela jor3e meM vaha bigar3e taba hameM zAMta rahanA cAhie, yadi hama samajhadAra hoM to| lekina vaha bigar3e aura hama bhI bigar3e usameM rahA kyA? praznakartA : kaise saMyoga hone para Divorsa lenA cAhie? dAdAzrI : yaha Divorsa to abhI nikale haiN| pahale Divorsa the hI kahA~? praznakartA : abhI to ho rahe haiM na? arthAt kina saMyogoM meM vaha saba karanA? dAdAzrI : kahIM bhI mela nahIM khAtA ho taba alaga ho jAnA acchaa| eDajasTebala (anukUla) ho hI nahIM to alaga ho jAnA behatara / varnA hama to eka hI bAta kahate haiM ki 'eDajasTa evarIvhera' (saba jagaha anukUla bno)| dUsare do ko kahakara guNA mata karanA ki, 'aisA hai aura vaisA hai|' praznakartA : isa amarIkA meM jo Divorsa lete haiM vaha kharAba hai yA Apasa meM banatA na ho aura Divorsa lete haiM vaha? dAdAzrI : Divorsa lene kA artha hI kyA hai! ye kyA kapa-pleTa haiM? kapa-pleTa alaga-alaga bA~Ta nahIM dete| unakA Divorsa nahIM kara sakate, taba ina manuSyoM kA to Divorsa hotA hogA? una logoM ko. videziyoM ke lie ThIka hai, kintu tuma to inDiyana (bhAratIya) ho| jahA~ eka patnIvrata aura eka pativrata ke niyama hote hai| eka patnI ke alAvA dUsarI strI kI ora dekhU bhI nahIM aise vicAra the| vahA~ DivaoNrsa ke vicAra zobhA dete haiM? DivaoNrsa mAne jhUThe bartana bdlnaa| bhojana ke bAda jhUThe bartana dUsare ko denA phira, bAda meM tIsare ko denaa| nire jhUThe bartana badalate rahanA usakA nAma ddivors| tujhe Divorsa pasaMda hai? praznakartA : dAdA, unheM aisA saMyoga huA vaha bhI hisAba se hI huA hogA na? dAdAzrI : binA hisAba to aisA milatA hI nahIM na! saMsAra hai isalie ghAva to hoMge hI na! aura bAI sAhaba bhI kaheMgI ki aba ghAva bharegA nhiiN| lekina saMsAra meM magna hue ki phira ghAva bhara jAtA hai| mUrchitaavasthA hai na! moha ke kAraNa marchitaavasthA hai| moha ke kAraNa ghAva bhara jAte haiN| yadi ghAva nahIM bharatA taba to vairAgya hI A jAtA na! moha kise kahate haiM? sabhI anubhava hue hoM para bhUla jAte haiN| Divorsa' (talAqa) lete samaya taya karate haiM ki aba zAdI nahIM karanI, lekina phira bhI vApisa kUda par3ate haiM! praznakartA : maiM unase kaha rahA thA ki hamAre vivAhita jIvana meM ninyAnave pratizata bemela jor3e haiN|

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ha pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra aura mana phariyAda kare ki 'kitanA sArA bola gae!' taba mana se kaho, 'so jA, ve ghAva abhI bhara jAe~ge' ThIka ho jAe~ge turanta... kaMdhA thapathapAyeM to so jaae| tere ghAva bhara gaye na saba, nahIM? jo ghAva par3e the ve? praznakartA : jhagar3A ho taba bhI (bhItara) bharA huA mAla nikalatA pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra kutte, jAnavara sabhI DivorsavAle haiM aura ye phira manuSya bhI usameM Aye to phira pharka kyA rahA? phira to manuSya bIsTa (jAnavara) jaisA hI ho gyaa| hamAre hindustAna meM to eka zAdI ke bAda dUsarI zAdI nahIM karate the| yadi patnI kI mRtyu ho to phira dUsarI zAdI bhI nahIM kareM, aise manuSya the! kaise pavitra manuSya janme the! are, talAqa lenevAle kA maiM ghaNTebhara meM mela karA dUM phira se! talAqa lenA ho, use mere pAsa lAo to maiM eka ghaNTe meM ThIka kara duuN| phira ve donoM sAtha rheNge| Dara mAtra nAsamajhI kA hai| kaI alaga huoM kA ThIka ho gyaa| ye to hamAre saMskAra haiN| lar3ate-jhagar3ate donoM ko assI sAla ho jAe~, phira bhI marane ke bAda terahaveM dina zaiyyAdAna karate haiN| zaiyyAdAna meM cAcA ko yaha bhAtA thA aura yaha pasaMda thA, cAcI saba bambaI se ma~gAkara rakhatI haiN| eka lar3akA assI sAla kI cAcI se kahatA hai, 'cAcIjI, cAcA ne to Apako chaha mahIne pahale girA diyA thaa| usa vakta to Apa cAcA ke bAre meM ulaTA bolatI thiiN|' 'phira bhI, aise pati nahIM mileMge' kahatI hai| aisA kahA usa buDhiyA ne| sArI z2indagI ke anabhava meM se ha~Dha nikAlatI hai ki 'para ve dila ke bahuta acche the| yaha prakRti Ter3hI thI para bhItara dila ke acche the...' loga dekheM aisA hamArA jIvana honA caahie| hama inDiyana haiM, hama videzI nahIM haiN| hama strI ko nibAha leM aura strI hameM nibAhe. aisA karate karate assI sAla taka cle| jabaki vaha (paradezana) to eka ghaNTA bhI nahIM nibhAye aura vaha (paradezI) bhI eka ghaNTA nahIM nibhaaye| saba sabakI prakRti ke paTAkhe phUTa rahe haiN| ye paTAkhe kahA~ se Ae? praznakartA : sabakI apanI prakRti ke haiN| dAdAzrI : hama samajheM ki 'yaha phUTegA' taba phusa ho gayA ho! phussa.... phusa ho jAtA hai| dAdAzrI : (ajJAnatA meM) jhagar3A ho taba bhItara nayA mAla ghusa jAtA hai lekina yaha hamArA jJAna milane ke bAda bharA huA mAla nikalatA hai| praznakartA : pati jhagar3A karatA ho usa samaya maiM pratikramaNa karU~ to? dAdAzrI : to harja nhiiN| praznakartA : taba bharA huA mAla nikala jAegA na saba? dAdAzrI : taba to saba mAla nikala jaae| pratikramaNa jahA~ ho vahA~ mAla nikala jAtA hai| isa jagata meM pratikramaNa hI eka upAya hai| aba pati DA~Te taba kyA karogI? praznakartA : samabhAva se nikAla (nipaTArA) kara dene kaa| dAdAzrI : aisA! calI nahIM jAogI aba? praznakartA : nhiiN| dAdAzrI : aba ve cale jAe~ taba kyA karegI tU? mujhe tumhAre sAtha nahIM jamegA taba? praznakartA : mAfI mA~gakara pA~va par3akara vApasa bulA laauuNgii| dAdAzrI : hA~, bulA laanaa| samajhA-bujhAkara sira para hAtha rakheM, sira para hAtha pherakara ... aisA bhI karanA ki ve cupa ho jAe~ phir|

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 87 akla se kAma hotA ho to akla istemAla krnaa| phira dUsare dina hama se kahe, 'tUne mere paira chue the na?' taba kahanA vaha bAta alaga thii| tuma kyoM bhAga rahe the, nAsamajhI kA kArya kara rahe the, isalie chue ! vaha samajhe ki isane sadA ke lie chue, vaha to usa samaya ke lie, ona da momenTa (tatkSaNa) thA ! saptapadI kA sAra jIvana jIne kI kalA isa kAla meM nahIM hotii| mokSa kA mArga to jAne do, magara jIvana jInA to AnA cAhie na? bAta hI samajhanI hai ki isa rAste para aisA hai aura isa rAste para aisA hai| phira taya karanA ki kisa rAha jAnA? samajha meM nahIM Aye to caurAhe para 'dAdA' se pUcha lenA, taba 'dAdA' tumheM dikhAe~ge ki ye tIna rAste joqhimavAle haiM aura yaha rAstA binA jokhimavAlA hai, usa rAha hamAre AzIrvAda lekara calanA hai| zAdI-zudA ko lage ki hama to pha~sa gaye ulaTe ! kuMvAroM ko lagatA hai ki ye loga maz2e kara rahe haiM! ina donoM ke bIca kA aMtara kauna dUra karegA? aura isa duniyA meM byAhe bagaira cale aisA bhI nahIM hai ! taba to phira zAdI kara ke duHkhI kisa lie honA? ye loga duHkhI nahIM hote, ve to eksapIriyansa (anubhava) le rahe haiN| saMsAra sahI hai ki galata, sukha hai yA nahIM? yaha sAra nikAlane ke lie saMsAra hai| Apane nikAlA kucha hisAba apane bahIkhAte kA ? sArA saMsAra kolhU ke samAna hai| puruSa baila kI jagaha para hai aura striyA~ telI kI jagaha para vahA~ telI gAye aura yahA~ strI gAye ! aura baila A~kha para Dhakkana lagAye tAna meM hI calatA rahatA hai! gola-gola ghUmatA rahatA hai| aise hI sArA dina yaha bAhara kAma kare aura samajhe ki kAzI pahu~ca gae hoMge! aura paTTI kholakara dekhe to bhAIsAhaba vahIM kevahIM ! phira usa baila ko kyA karatA hai telI? phira thor3I khalI baila ko khilAye to baila khuza hokara phira se zurU ho jAtA hai| vaise isameM aurata bhelapurI khilAye ki bhAI ArAma se khAkara vApisa daur3ane lagatA hai! pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra bAkI yahA~ to dina kaise guz2AreM yaha bhI muzkila ho gayA hai| pati Akara kahegA ki, 'mere hArTa meM darda hai|' lar3akA Akara kahegA ki 'maiM phela huaa|' pati ke hArTa meM darda ho taba patnI ko vicAra AtA hai ki 'hArTa phela' ho gayA to kyA hogA, sabhI taraha ke vicAra ghera lete haiM aura caina nahIM lene dete| 88 byAhane kI qImata kaba hotI? lAkhoM logoM meM se ekAdha AdamI ko byAhane ko milatA ho taba yaha to sabhI byAhate haiM usameM nayA kyA? strI-puruSa kA ( zAdI ke bAda) vyavahAra kaise karanA, isakA to bahuta bar3A kaoNleja karane jaisA hai| yaha to isa kaoNleja meM par3he binA byAha lete haiM / eka bAra apamAna ho, to apamAna sahana karane meM harja nahIM, para sAtha hI apamAna ko lakSya meM rakhane kI z2arUrata hai ki kyA apamAna ke lie jIvana hai? apamAna kA harja nahIM, para mAna kI bhI z2arUrata nahIM aura apamAna kI bhI z2arUrata nahIM hai| lekina kyA hamArA jIvana apamAna ke lie hai? itanA to lakSya meM honA cAhie na ? bIvI rUThI huI ho taba taka bhagavAna ko yAda karatA hai aura bIvI bAta karane AI taba bhAI vApisa lar3ane ke lie taiyAra! phira bhagavAna aura dUsarA saba kucha eka ora ! kaisI ulajhana ! kyA aise duHkha miTa jAnevAle haiM? saMsAra yAnI kyA? jNjaal| yaha zarIra milA hai, vaha bhI jaMjAla hai! jaMjAla kA bhI kahIM zauqa hotA hogA? isake prati rUci rahatI hai yaha bhI eka Azcarya hai na ! machalI kA jAla alaga aura yaha jAla alaga! machalI kA jAla kATa kara nikala sakate haiM para isa saMsAra rupI jAla meM se nikala hI nahIM skte| aMta meM arthI uThe tabhI nikala sakate haiM! 'jJAnIpuruSa' isa saMsAra jAla se nikalane kA rAstA dikhAte haiM, mokSamArga dikhAte haiM aura sahI rAha para lA dete haiM aura hameM lagatA hai ki hama isa jaMjAlo se mukta hue!

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra ise jIvana kaise kaheM? jIvana kitanA suzobhita hotA hai ! eka-eka manuSya kI sugandha AnI caahie| saba tarapha usakI kIrti phailI haI ho ki kahanA hogA, yaha seThajI haiM na, ve kitane acche haiM, unakI bAteM kitanI sundara, unakA vartana kitanA sundara ! aisI kIta sabhI jagaha dikhAI detI hai? logoM kI aisI sugandha AtI hai? praznakartA : kabhI-kabhI, kisI-kisI kI sugandha AtI hai| dAdAzrI: kisI-kisI manuSya kI, para vaha bhI kitanI? aura agara unake ghara jAkara pUcho to durgaMdha hotI hai| bAhara sugandha AtI ho para ghara jAkara pUcho to kaheMge ki, 'unakA nAma hI mata lo, unakI to bAta hI mata krnaa|' ataH yaha sugandha nahIM khlaatii| jIvana to dUsaroM kI madada ke lie hI honA caahie| yaha agarabattI sulagatI hai, usameM khuda kI sugandha letI hai vaha? yaha saMsAra jo hai vaha myujiyama (saMgrahAlaya) hai / myujiyama (saMgrahAlaya) meM zarta kyA hai? praveza karate hI likhA hai ki tumheM jo khAnA-pInA ho, jo dekhanA ho dekho. usakA jo majA lenA ho lo, magara kucha bhI bAhara lekara nikalanA nahIM aura lar3anA nhiiN| kisI ke prati rAga-dveSa mata krnaa| khAnA-pInA saba-kucha magara rAga-dveSa nhiiN| para yaha to andara jAkara zAdI racAtA hai| are, zAdI kahA~ racAI?! bAhara jAte samaya phajIhata hogI! taba kahegA ki maiM baMdha gyaa| kAnUna ke anusAra bhItara jAe~ aura khAe~-pIyeM, zAdI kareM to harja nhiiN| strI (patnI) se kaha denA, dekho yaha saMsAra eka saMgrahasthAna hai, usameM rAga-dveSa mata krnaa| jaba taka ThIka lage taba taka ghUmanA-phiranA, lekina Akhira meM hameM binA rAga-dveSa nikala jAnA hai| usa para dveSa bhI nhiiN| kala savere dUsare ke sAtha ghUma rahI ho taba bhI usa para dveSa nahIM, yaha saMgrahasthAna aisA hai| phira hameM sudharane ke lie jitanI-jitanI yukti karanI ho utanI kreN| aba saMgrahasthAna dUra nahIM kara sakatA, jo huA vahI sahI aba to| hama saMskArI deza meM janme haiM na, isalie mereja-bereja (zAdI-byAha) sabakucha rIti se honA cAhie! pati-patnI ke prAkRtika paryAya praznakartA : auratoM ko AtmajJAna ho sakatA hai yA nahIM? samakita ho sakatA hai? dAdAzrI : vAstava meM nahIM ho sakatA, para hama yahA~ karavAte haiN| kyoMki prakRti kI kakSA hI aisI hai ki AtmajJAna pahu~catA hI nhiiN| kyoMki striyoM meM kapaTa kI graMthi itanI bar3I hotI hai, moha aura kapaTa kI do graMthiyA~ AtmajJAna ko chUne nahIM detii| praznakartA : arthAt vaha to vyavasthita kA anyAya huA na? dAdAzrI : nahIM, vaha to dUsare avatAra meM puruSa hokara bAda meM mokSa meM jaaegii| ye sabhI zAstrakAra kahate haiM ki striyA~ mokSa meM nahIM jAtI vaha bAta ekAMtika nahIM hai| bAda meM puruSa hokara phira jAtI haiN| aisA koI kAnuna nahIM haiM ki striyA~ strI hI rheNgii| ve paruSa ke samAna kaba hoMgI. jaba ve puruSa ke sAtha spardhA meM rahI hoM aura ahaMkAra bar3hatA jAe, krodha bar3hatA hI jAe taba vaha strIpana ur3a jAtA hai| ahaMkAra aura krodha kI prakRti puruSa kI aura mAyA aura lobha kI prakRti strI kI. aisA karake calI hai gaadd'ii| para hamArA yaha akrama vijJAna aisA kahatA hai ki striyoM kA bhI mokSa ho sakatA hai| kyoMki yaha vijJAna AtmA jagAtA hai| AtmajJAna kI anubhava dazA nahIM ho taba bhI harja nahIM para AtmA pratIti ke rupa meM jagAtA hai| kitanI striyA~ aisI haiM ki dAdA niraMtara caubIsoM ghaNTe yAda rahate haiM! hindustAna meM kitanI aura amarIkA meM kitanI hoMgI ki dAdA caubIsoM ghaNTe yAda rahate haiM! praznakartA : ataH AtmA kI koI jAti hI nahIM hai na? dAdAzrI : AtmA kI jAti hotI hI nahIM na! prakRti kI jAti hotI hai| ujalA mAla bharA ho to ujalA nikle| kAlA bharA ho taba kAlA nikle| prakRti bhI bharA huA mAla hai| jo mAla bharA hai vaha prakRti aura vaise pudgala kahalAtA hai| arthAt pUraNa kiyA usakA galana hotA rahatA hai|

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 92 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra bhojana kA pUraNa kiyA usakA saMDAsa meM galana hogaa| pAnI pIyA isalie pezAba meM, zvAcchozvAsa saba pudgala prmaannu| puruSa honA ho to ye do guNa chUTeM taba ho, moha aura kptt| moha aura kapaTa do taraha ke paramANu ikaTe hoM to strI hotI hai aura krodha aura mAna ikaTThA hoM to puruSa hotA hai| paramANa ke AdhAra para yaha saba ho rahA hai| eka bAra bahanoM ne mujhe pUchA ki hamAre kucha viziSTa doSa hote haiM, unameM jyAdA nukasAnadAyaka doSa kauna-sA hai? taba maiMne kahA, 'vaha apanI manamAnI karAnA cAhatI hai|' sabhI bahanoM kI icchA aisI hotI hai ki apanI marajI ke mutAbika krvaayeN| pati ko bhI ulaTI rAha para le jAkara usake pAsa apanA manacAhA krvaayeN| arthAt yaha galata, ulTA rAstA hai| maiMne unase likhavAyA hai ki yaha rAstA nahIM honA caahie| marajI ke mutAbika karavAne kA artha kyA hai? bahuta hI nukasAnadAyaka! praznakartA : parivAra kA bhalA hotA ho, aisA hama karavAyeM to usameM galata kyA? dAdAzrI : nahIM, vaha bhalA kara hI nahIM sakatI na! jo marajI ke mutAbika karate hoM, ve kabhI parivAra kA bhalA nahIM krte| parivAra kA bhalA kauna kare ki sabhI kI marajI ke mutAbika ho isa taraha se ho to acchA, aisA rakheM vaha parivAra kA bhalA kara sakatA hai| kisI kA bhI mana nArAja nahIM ho isa prakAra ho tb| apanI marajI ke mutAbika karavAnA cAheM vaha to parivAra kA bhArI nukasAna karatA hai| vaha takarAra aura jhagar3A karane kA sAdhana hai| marajI ke mutAbika na ho to phira khAye bhI nahIM, du:khI ho kara baiThI rhe| kise mArane jAe, mana mArakara baiThI rhe| lekina dUsare dina phira kapaTa kregii| vaha kucha jAegA thor3e? maraz2I ke mutAbika karanA cAhe para nahIM ho taba kyA ho? aisA saba nahIM karanA caahie| bahanoM, aba Apa udAra dila ke ho jaao| praznakartA : striyA~ apane A~suoM ke sahAre puruSoM ko pighalA detI haiM aura apanA galata hai use bhI satya ThaharAtI haiN| isa bAre meM ApakA kyA kahanA hai? dAdAzrI : bAta saccI hai| usakA gunAha use lAga hotA hai aura aisA Agraha rakhatI hai na, isalie vizvAsa uTha jAtA hai| kaI striyA~ akele meM mujhe kaha detI haiM, 'hamAre pati bhole haiN|' yaha iTaselpha (svayaM) sUcita karatA hai ki yaha to striyA~ pati ko nacAtI haiN| mAla kapaTa kA bharA huA hai isalie parantu aisA nahIM bola sakate, kyoMki burA dikhe| usake dUsare guNa bahuta sundara haiN| praznakartA : strI ko eka aura to lakSmI kahate haiM aura dUsarI ora kapaTavAlI, mohavAlI kahA, aisA kyoM? dAdAzrI : lakSmI kahate haiM to kyA vaha kucha aisI-vaisI hai? jaba pati nArAyaNa kahalAe to vaha kyA kahalAe? arthAt usa jor3e ko lakSmInArAyaNa kahate haiM ! to kyA ve kucha nimna kakSA kI haiM? strI to tIrthaMkara kI mAtA haiN| jitane tIrthakara hue na, caubIsa, unakI mAtA kauna thI? praznakartA : striyaaN| dAdAzrI : taba ve nimna kakSA kI kaise kahalAyeM? strI hone kI vajaha se moha to hotA hI hai hmeshaa| para janma kise diyA? bar3e bar3e tIrthaMkaroM ko, sabhI ko... bar3e logoM ko janma ve hI detI haiN| unheM hama kaise badanAma kara sakate haiM? lekina phira bhI hamAre loga striyoM ko badanAma karate haiN| praznakartA : hama sadaiva strI se hI kahate haiM ki tumheM maryAdA rakhanI cAhie, hama puruSa se nahIM khte| dAdAzrI : vaha to apane manuSyapana kA galata upayoga kiyA hai| sattA kA durupayoga kiyA hai| sattA ke do upayoga ho sakate haiM; eka sadupayoga aura durupyog| sadupayoga kareM to sukha mile lekina abhI durupayoga karate ho, isalie du:khI hote ho| jisa sattA kA durupayoga kareM vaha sattA hAtha

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra se calI jAtI hai aura yadi vaha sattA kAyama rakhanI ho, tumheM hamezA ke lie puruSa hI rahanA ho, taba sattA kA durupayoga mata karanA, varnA sattAdhIzoM ko agale janma meM strI honA par3egA! sattA kA durupayoga kareM to sattA calI jAtI hai| pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra puruSa kahate haiM usameM galata kyA hai| apane Apa nahIM mAna letii| tumane kahA ho ki tU bahuta acchI hai, tere jaisI aura koI nahIM, tU rUpamatI hai| taba vaha rUpamatI mAna letI hai apane aapko| ina puruSoM ne strI ko strI ke rUpa meM hI rakhA hai| aura strI mana meM samajhatI hai ki maiM puruSoM ko mUrkha banAtI huuN| puruSa aisA karake bhogakara alaga ho jAte haiN| kucha bhI ho, pati nahIM ho, pati calA gayA ho, phira bhI dUsare ke pAsa nahIM jaae| vaha kaisA bhI ho, yadi khuda bhagavAna puruSa banakara Ae, to bhI nhiiN| 'mujhe merA pati hai maiM pativratA hU~' vaha satI khlaae| isa samaya satI kaha sakeM aisA hai ina logoM kA? hai hI nahIM aisA nahIM lekina z2amAnA hI alaga taraha kA hai! satyuga meM aisA TAima kabhI hI AtA hai, satiyoM ke lie hii| isalie satiyoM ko yAda karate haiM na hamAre loga! praznakartA : haaN| praznakartA: aisA nahIM ki strI to lambe arase taka strI ke avatAra meM rahegI, aisA nizcita nhiiN| lekina unako usakA patA nahIM calatA, isalie usakA ilAja nahIM hotaa| dAdAzrI : upAya ho to strI, puruSa hI hai| usa graMthi ko jAnatI hI nahIM hai becArI aura vahA~ para inTaresTa (ruci) AtA hai, vahA~ maz2A AtA hai| isalie vahIM par3I rahatI hai aura koI aisA rAstA jAnatA nahIM isalie use dikhAtA nhiiN| kevala satI striyA~ hI samajhatI haiM, satiyA~ pati ke sivA dUsare kisI kA vicAra kisI hAla meM bhI nahIM karatIM / usakA pati turanta oNpha ho jAe (mara jAe), calA jAe phira bhI nhiiN| usI pati ko pati samajhatI hai| isase una striyoM kA sArA kapaTa khatma ho jAtA hai| dAdAzrI : vaha to satI hone kI kAmanA se| usakA nAma liyA ho to eka dina satI hogI aura viSaya to Ajakala cUr3iyoM ke bhAva bika rahA hai| yaha Apa jAnate haiM? merA kahanA ApakI samajha meM AyA? praznakartA : hA~, cUr3iyoM ke bhAva bikatA hai| dAdAzrI : kisa bAz2Ara meM? kaoNlijoM meM! kisa mola bikatA hai? sone ke mola cUr3iyA~ bikatI haiN| vahA~ hIroM ke mola cUr3iyA~ bikatI hai ! saba jagaha aisA hotA hai, nahIM hotA? sarvatra aisA nahIM hai| kitanI to sonA do to bhI na le| cAhe kucha bhI do to bhI nahIM letii| lekina kacha to bika jAtI haiM, Aja kI aurteN| sone ke mola nahIM to dUsare bhAva para bika jAtI haiM! satItva rakhe to apane Apa hI kapaTa jAne lgegaa| tumheM kucha kahanA nahIM hogaa| mUla satI janma se hI satI hotI hai| use pahale ke koI dAg2a nahIM hote| jabaki tumheM pahale ke dAg2a hai, ve khatma hone ke bAda puruSa hoNgii| lekina puruSoM meM bhI sabhI eka samAna nahIM hote| kucha puruSa striyoM jaise bhI hote haiN| thor3e strI ke lakSaNa raha jAte haiM aura bAda meM saMyoga se satItva prApta ho to kapaTa khatama ho jAtA hai| paruSa ho to satI kI taraha usake sAre doSa khatama hote jaaeN| satItva ke kAraNa sAre doSa khatama ho jAte haiN| jitanI satiyA~ huI unake sAre doSa khatama ho jAte haiM aura ve mokSa meM jAtI haiN| kucha samajha meM AtA hai? mokSa meM jAne ke lie satI honA pdd'egaa| hA~, jitanI satiyA~ huIM ve mokSa meM gaIM, varnA puruSa honA par3atA hai| puruSa bhole hote haiM becAre, jaise nacAye vaise nAcate haiM becaare| puruSoM ko striyoM ne hI nacAyA hai| striyoM meM kevala satI strI akelI hI puruSoM ko ataH isa viSaya ko lekara puruSa strI huA hai, kevala eka viSaya ke kAraNa hI aura puruSa ne bhogane ke lie strI ko enakareja (protsAhita) kiyA aura becArI ko bigaadd'aa| barakata nahIM hotI ho phira bhI khuda meM barakata hai aisA mana se mAna letI hai| taba pUche ki kaise mAna liyA? puruSoM ke bAra bAra kahane para samajhane lagatI hai| isalie vaha jAne ki ye jo

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra haiN| samajhate nahIM hai na! koI cArA nahIM ho tabhI aisI hiMsA ho aisA honA caahie| lekina aisI samajha nahIM taba kyA kareM? pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra nahIM ncaatii| satI to pati ko paramezvara (bhagavAna) samajhatI hai! praznakartA : aisA jIvana bahuta kama logoM kA dekhane ko milatA hai| dAdAzrI : isa kaliyuga meM kahA~ se ho? satayuga meM bhI bahuta kama satiyA~ hotI thIM, to isa kaliyuga meM kahA~ se ho? ataH striyoM kA doSa nahIM hai, striyA~ to deviyA~ jaisI haiN| striyoM meM aura puruSoM meM AtmA to AtmA hI hai, kevala paikiMga kA pharka hai| 'Dipharansa oNpha paikiMga!' strI eka prakAra kA 'iphekTa' (pariNAma) hai| isalie AtmA para strI kA iphekTa rahatA hai| isakA 'iphekTa' hama para nahIM ho to acchaa| strI to zakti hai| isa deza meM kaisI-kaisI striyA~ rAjanIti meM ho gaI! aura dharmakSetra meM jo strI jur3I ho vaha kaisI ho? isa kSetra se jagata kA kalyANa hI kara de! strI meM to jagata kalyANa kI zakti bharI par3I hai! usameM khuda kA kalyANa karake dUsaroM kA kalyANa karane kI zakti hai| viSaya baMda vahA~ prema sambandha vivAhita jIvana kI zobhA kaba bar3he? jaba (viSaya sambandha meM) donoM ko bukhAra car3he tabhI davAI piieN| binA bukhAra davAI pIte haiM yA nahIM? binA bukhAra davAI pIne para vivAhita jIvana kI zobhA nahIM rhtii| donoM ko bukhAra car3he tabhI davAI piio| disa ija oNnlI meDisina (yaha kevala davAI hai)| meDisina (davAI) mIThI ho to bhI hara roja pIne jaisI nahIM hotii| vivAhita jIvana kI zobhA bar3hAnI ho to saMyamI puruSa kI AvazyakatA hai| ye sabhI jAnavara asaMyamI kahalAte haiN| hamArA to saMyamI jIvana caahie| Age jo rAma-kRSNa Adi ho gae, ve sabhI puruSa saMyamavAle the| strI ke sAtha saMyamI! yaha asaMyama kyA daivI gaNa hai? nahIM, vaha pAzavI guNa hai| manuSyoM meM aisA nahIM hotaa| manuSya asaMyamI nahIM honA caahie| jagata samajhatA hI nahIM ki viSaya kyA hai? eka bAra ke viSaya meM pA~capA~ca lAkha jIva mara jAte haiM, usakI samajha nahIM hone se yahA~ mauja ur3Ate sabhI dharmoM ne ulajhana paidA kI ki striyoM kA tyAga kro| are, strI kA tyAga kara ke maiM kahA~ jAU~? majhe khAnA kauna pakA kara degA? maiM apanA vyApAra samhAlU~ ki ghara meM cUlhA phUMkU? zAstrakAroM ne vivAhita jIvana kI sarAhanA kI hai| una logoM ne vivAhita jIvana kI niMdA nahIM kI hai| vivAha ke sivAya dUsarA vyabhicAra hai usakI niMdA kI hai| praznakartA : viSaya putra prApti ke lie hI honA cAhie yA phira bartha kaMTrola karake viSaya bhoga sakate haiM? dAdAzrI : nahIM, nhiiN| vaha to RSi-muniyoM ke samaya meM, pahale to pati-patnI kA vyavahAra aisA nahIM thaa| RSimuni vivAha karate the, taba pahale to zAdI karane kI hI nA kahate the| taba RSi patnI ne kahA, ki Apa akele! ApakA saMsAra ThIka se calegA nahIM, pravRti ThIka se hogI nahIM, isalie hamArI pArTanarazipa (sAjhedArI) kIjie, striyoM kI, taba ApakI bhakti bhI hogI aura saMsAra bhI clegaa| taba una RSi-muniyoM ne eksepTa (svIkAra) kiyA, lekina kahA ki 'hama tumhAre sAtha saMsAra nahIM bsaayeNge|' taba ina striyoM ne kahA ki 'nahIM, hameM eka patra dAna aura eka patrI dAna, do dAna denA kevl| taba usa dAna jitanA hI saMga, dUsarA koI sarokAra nhiiN| bAda meM hamArI Apase saMsAra meM phrenDazipa (mitrAcArI) rhegii|' isalie una logoM ne eksepTa kiyaa| aura phira ve mitra kI bhA~ti hI rahatI thIM, patnI ke rUpa meM nhiiN| vaha ghara kA saba kAma dekhatI aura yaha bAhara kA kAma dekhte| bAda meM donoM sAtha-sAtha bhakti karane baitthte| lekina aba to basa yahI kAma raha gayA hai sArA! isase saba bigar3a gayA hai| RSimuni to niyamavAle the| abhI agara eka putra yA eka putrI ke lie zAdI ho taba harja nhiiN|

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 97 bAda meM mitrAcArI se rheN| phira duHkhadAyI nahIM hogaa| yaha to sukha khojate haiM isalie aisA hI hai na! dAvA dAyara karate haiM na ! RSimuni bahuta alaga taraha ke the| eka patnIvrata kA pAlana karoge na? yadi kaho, 'pAlana karU~gA' taba tumhArA mokSa hai aura agara dUsarI strI kA jarA bhI vicAra AyA to mokSa gayA, kyoMki vaha binA haqa kA hai| haqa kA hogA vahA~ mokSa aura binA haqa kA vahA~ pazutA / viSaya kI limiTa (maryAdA) honI caahie| strI-puruSa kA viSaya kahA~ taka honA cAhie? parastrI nahIM honI cAhie aura parapuruSa nahIM honA caahie| aura yadi usakA vicAra bhI Ae taba use pratikramaNa se dho denA caahie| bar3e se bar3A jokhima hai to itanA hI, parastrI aura parapuruSa ! khuda kI strI jokhima nahIM hai| aba hamArI isameM kahIM koI galatI hai? kyA hama DA~Tate haiM kisI prakAra ? isameM koI gunAha hai? yaha hamArI sAyanTiphika (vaijJAnika) khoja hai! varnA sAdhuoM ko yahA~ taka kahA gayA hai ki strI kI kASTha kI pratimA ho usakI ora bhI mata dekhanA / strI baiThI ho usa jagaha baiThanA nhiiN| para maiMne aisA-vaisA bakher3A nahIM kiyA hai na? isa kAla meM eka patnIvrata ko hama brahmacarya kahate haiN| aura tIrthaMkara bhagavAna ke samaya meM jo brahmacarya kA phala milatA thA, vahI phala prApta hogA, usakI hama gAranTI dete haiN| praznakartA: eka patnIvrata kahA vaha sUkSma se bhI yA kevala sthUla ? mana to jAe aisA hai na? dAdAzrI : sUkSma se bhI honA cAhie aura yadi mana jAe taba mana se alaga rahanA caahie| aura unake pratikramaNa karate rahanA pdd'egaa| mokSa meM jAne kI limiTa kyA? eka patnIvrata aura eka pativrata / agara tU saMsArI hai taba tere haqa kA viSaya bhoganA / lekina binA haqa kA viSaya to bhoganA hI mt| kyoMki usakA phala bhayaMkara hai| pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra patnI ko chor3akara dUsarI jagaha viSaya bhoga hogA taba vaha strI jahA~ jAegI vahA~ use janma lenA pdd'egaa| vaha adhogati meM jAe to use bhI vahA~ jAnA hogaa| Ajakala bAhara to sabhI jagaha aisA hI ho rahA hai| kahA~ janma hogA isakA ThikAnA hI nahIM! binA haqa ke viSaya jinhoMne bhoge unheM to bhayaMkara yAtanAe~ bhoganI pdd'eNgii| ekAdha janma meM unakI beTI bhI caritrahIna hotI hai| niyama aisA hai ki jisake sAtha binA haqa ke viSaya bhoge hoM vahI phira mA~ yA beTI banakara AtI hai| binA haqa kA liyA taba se manuSyapana calA jAtA hai| binA haqa kA viSaya to bhayaMkara doSa kahalAtA hai| khuda dUsaroM ko bhogeM taba khuda kI beTiyoM ko loga bhogate haiN| lekina usakI ciMtA hI nahIM hai na! 98 binA haqa ke viSaya meM sadaiva kaSAya hote haiM aura aise kaSAya hoM to narka meM jAnA par3atA hai| para yaha logoM ko mAlUma nahIM hai| isalie phira Darate nahIM, kisI prakAra kA bhaya bhI nahIM hotaa| isa janma meM manuSya jIvana to pichale janma meM acchA kiyA usakA pariNAma hai| viSaya kI utpati Asakti se hotI hai aura phira usameM se vikarSaNa hotA hai| vikarSaNa hotA hai isalie baira baMdhatA hai aura baira ke phAunDezana ( buniyAda) para yaha jagata khar3A huA hai| lakSmI kI vajaha se baira baMdhatA hai, ahaMkAra ke kAraNa baira baMdhatA hai, lekina viSaya kA baira bahuta z2aharIlA hotA hai| viSaya meM se paidA huA caritramoha, jJAna Adi sabhI ko ur3A detA hai| arthAt Aja taka viSaya ke kAraNa hI saba rukA huA hai| mUla viSaya hai aura usameM se lakSmI para rAga huA aura usakA ahaMkAra hai| arthAt yadi mUla viSaya calA jAe, taba saba calA jaae| praznakartA: taba bIja ko sekanA AnA cAhie, magara use kisa prakAra sekeM? dAdAzrI : vaha to apane isa pratikramaNa se, AlocanA, pratikramaNa - pratyAkhyAna se|

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra praznakartA : vahI! dUsarA upAya nahIM hai? dAdAzrI : dUsarA koI upAya nahIM hai| tapa karane se puNya baMdhatA hai aura bIja sekane se nirAkaraNa hotA hai| yaha samabhAva se nikAla karane kA kAnUna kyA kahatA hai, tU kisI bhI rAste aisA kara de ki unase baira baMdhe nhiiN| baira se mukta ho jaa| praznakartA : usameM baira kaise baMdhatA hai? anaMta kAla kA baira bIja par3atA hai vaha kisa prakAra? dAdAzrI : aisA hai na ki yaha mare hue puruSa yA marI huI strI ho, mAna lijie usameM davAiyA~ bhareM aura puruSa puruSa jaisA hI aura strI strI jaisI hI rahatI ho to harja nahIM, unake sAtha baira nahIM bNdhegaa| kyoMki ve jIvita nhiiN| aura ye to jIvita haiN| ataH yahA~ baira baMdhatA hai| praznakartA : vaha kisa kAraNa baMdhatA hai? pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra isa samaya to mujhe bahuta se loga kaha jAte haiM ki, 'mujhase viSaya ke lie AjijI karavAtI hai|' taba maiMne kahA, 'terA prabhAva kahA~ gayA, lAcArI kare phira kyA karavAegI? samajha le abhI bhI, aba bhI yogI ho jA (viSaya kI bhIkha chor3a do)!' aba inheM kaise pahu~ca pAe~? isa duniyA ko kaise pahu~ca pAe~?! eka aurata usake marda ko viSaya ke lie cAra bAra sASTAMga karavAtI hai, taba eka bAra chUne detI hai| aisA karane ke bajAya samAdhi le letA to kyA burA hotA? dariyA meM samAdhi le to dariyA sIdhA to hai ! jhaMjhaTa to nahIM! viSaya ke khAtira cAra bAra sASTAMga! praznakartA : pichale janma meM hama usase TakarAye hoMge, tabhI isa janma meM vaha hamase TakarAtI hai| magara usakA rAstA to nikAlanA hogA na? solyuzana (hala) to nikAlanA hogA na? dAdAzrI : usakA solyuzana to hotA hai, lekina logoM kA manobala kaccA hotA hai na! vikArI bhAga baMda kara denA to apane Apa saba baMda ho jaaegaa| usako lekara sadA ke lie kiTakiTa calatI rahatI hai| praznakartA : aba yaha kaise kiyA jAe? dAdAzrI : viSaya jItanA hogaa| praznakartA : viSaya nahIM jItA jAtA, isalie to hama ApakI zaraNa meM Ae haiN| dAdAzrI : kitane sAloM se viSaya... bar3e hone ko Ae phira bhI viSaya? jaba dekho taba viSaya, viSaya aura viSaya!!! praznakartA : yaha viSaya baMda karane para bhI TakarAva nahIM Talate isalie to hama Apake caraNoM meM aae| dAdAzrI : TakarAva hotA hI nhiiN| jahA~ viSaya baMda haiM vahA~ maiMne dekhA, dAdAzrI : abhiprAya alaga haiM islie| tuma kahoge ki, 'mujhe abhI sinemA dekhane jAnA hai|' taba vaha kahegI ki. 'nahIM, Aja to majhe nATaka dekhane jAnA hai|' arthAt TAimiMga (samaya) samAna nahIM hotaa| yadi ekjekTa TAimiMga ke sAtha TAimiMga mila rahA ho tabhI zAdI krnaa| aisA hai na, isa avalaMbana kA jitanA bhI sukha hamane liyA vaha saba udhAra liyA huA sukha hai, lona pr| aura lona (RNa) 'rI pe'(cukatA) karanA par3atA hai| AtmA se sukha nahIM lete aura pudgala se sukha mA~gA aapne| AtmA kA sukha ho vahA~ harja hI nahIM hai, lekina padagala ke pAsa bhIkha mA~gI vaha lauTAnI hogii| vaha lona (udhAra) hai| jitanI miThAsa AtI hai, utanI hI kar3avAhaTa bhugatanI hogii| kyoMki pudgala se lona liyA hai| isalie use 'rI pe' (lauTAte) karate samaya utanI hI kar3avAhaTa aayegii| pudgala se liyA hai, isalie pudgala ko hI 'rI pe' karanA hogaa|

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 101 jitane jitane puruSa majabUta mana ke haiM, unakI strI to bilakula unake kahe anusAra rahatI hai| usake (pati yA patnI) sAtha viSaya baMda karane ke sivA aura koI upAya hI nhiiN| kyoMki isa saMsAra meM rAga-dveSa kA mUla kAraNa hI viSaya hai| maulika kAraNa yahI hai| yahA~ se hI sabhI rAga-dveSa janme haiN| saMsAra sArA yahA~ se hI khar3A huA hai| isalie saMsAra baMda karanA ho to yahA~ se hI viSaya baMda kara denA pdd'e| jise kleza nahIM karanA, jo kleza kA pakSa nahIM letA, use kleza hotA hai, para dhIre-dhIre bahuta kama hotA jAtA hai| ye to jo kleza karanA hI cAhie aisA mAnate haiM, taba taka kleza jyAdA hogaa| kleza ke pakSa meM hameM nahIM honA caahie| kleza karanA hI nahIM hai aisA jisakA nizcaya hai, use kleza kama se kama hotA hai| aura jahA~ kleza hai vahA~ bhagavAna nahIM rahate! 102 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 'usane mujhe bhoga liyaa|' aura yahA~ para (isa jJAna milane ke bAda) ve nikAla karate haiM, phira bhI vaha DiscArja (nikAlI) kica-kica to rahatI hI hai| hameM to vaha kica-kica bhI nahIM thI, aisA kisI prakAra kA matabheda nahIM thaa| vijJAna to dekho! saMsAra ke sAtha jhagar3e baMda ho jaaeN| patnI ke sAtha to nahIM jhagar3e, lekina sAre saMsAra ke sAtha bhI jhagar3e baMda ho jaaeN| yaha vijJAna hI aisA hai aura jhagar3e baMda hue arthAt mukta huaa| rahasya, RNAnubaMdha ke... zAdI to vAkaI baMdhana hai| bhaiMsa ko bADe meM baMda kareM aisI dazA hotI hai| isa phaMde meM nahIM pha~se vaha uttm| phaMsane ke bAda bhI nikala jAe~ to bahuta uttm| varnA Akhira phala cakhane ke bAda nikala jAnA caahie| AtmA kisI kA pati, strI yA puruSa yA kisI kA lar3akA ho nahIM sakatA, kevala sabhI karma pUre ho rahe haiM! AtmA meM to kucha bhI parivartana nahIM hotaa| AtmA to AtmA hI hai, paramAtmA hI hai| ye to hamane mAna liyA ki yaha hamArI strI (ptnii)| Dabala beDa kA sisTama baMda karo aura siMgala beDa kA sisTama rkho| aba to sabhI kahate haiM, 'Dabala beDa banAie, Dabala beDa....' pahale to hindustAna meM koI manuSya aise sotA nahIM thA, koI bhI kSatriya nhiiN| kSatriya to bahuta sakhta niyamavAle hote haiM lekina vaizya bhI nhiiN| brAhmaNa bhI isa prakAra nahIM sote, eka bhI manuSya nahIM! dekhie kAla kaisA vicitra AyA hai! yaha cir3iyA suMdara ghoMsalA banAtI hai, use kauna sikhAne gayA thA? yaha saMsAra calAnA to apane Apa Ae aisA hai| hA~, svarUpa jJAna prApta karane ke lie puruSArtha karane kI AvazyakatA hai| saMsAra calAne ke lie kucha bhI karane kI z2arUrata nahIM hai| ye manuSya akele hI z2arUrata se jyAdA aklamaMda haiN| ina pazu-pakSiyoM ko kyA bIvI-bacce nahIM haiM? unakI zAdI racAnI par3atI hai? yaha to manuSyoM ko hI bIvI-bacce hue haiM, manuSya hI zAdI racAne meM lage haiN| jaba se hIrAbA ke sAtha merA viSaya baMda huA, taba se maiM unako 'hIrAbA' kahatA huuN| tatpazcAt hameM koI khAsa muzkila nahIM aaii| pahale jo thor3I-bahuta nokajhoMka hotI thI vaha viSaya ke saMga ke kaarnn| vaha totAmastI hotI thii| loga samajheM ki tote ne totI ko mAranA zurU kiyA! magara ho totaamstii| lekina jaba taka viSaya kA DaMka hai, taba taka yaha saba nahIM jaataa| vaha DaMka nikale tabhI jaaegaa| hamArA nijI anubhava batAte haiN| yaha jJAna hai usako lekara ThIka hai varnA jJAna nahIM ho to DaMka mArate hI rahate haiN| usa samaya to ahaMkAra thA n| usameM eka hissA bhoga ahaMkAra kA hotA hai ki usane mujhe bhoga liyaa| aura patnI kahegI, ye gAya-bhaiMsa bhI byAhate haiN| unheM bhI bacce hote haiN| lekina hai vahA~ pati kA riztA? ve bhI sasura hue hote haiM, sAsa huI hotI hai, lekina ve buddhimAnoM kI taraha kucha vyavasthA khar3I karate haiM? koI aisA kahatA hai ki maiM isakA sasura hU~? phira bhI hamArI taraha hI sArA vyavahAra hai na?

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 103 vaha bhI dUdha pilAtI hai, bachar3e ko cATatI hai na! hama aklamaMda nahIM cATate / Apa khuda zuddhAtmA haiM aura ye sabhI vyavahAra Upara-Upara se arthAt 'suparaphluasa' karane kA hai| khuda 'homa DipArTamenTa' (Atma svarUpa ) meM rahanA aura 'phorina' (vyavahAra) meM 'suparaphluasa' rhnaa| 'suparaphluasa' yAnI tanmayAkAra vRtti nahIM, kevala 'DrAmeTika' (naattkiiy)| kevala 'DrAmA' (nATaka) hI khelanA hai| DrAme (nATaka) meM ghATA Ae isa para bhI ha~sanA hai aura munAphA ho taba bhI ha~sanA hai| 'DrAmA' meM abhinaya karanA hai, ghATA Aye to vaisA dikhAvA krnaa| mu~ha se kaheM z2arUra ki bhArI nukasAna huA hai, lekina usameM tanmayAkAra nahIM hote| hameM 'laTakatI salAma' (nimna z2arUrI vyavahAra) rakhanI hai| kaI loga nahIM kahate ki bhAI inase merA sambandha 'laTakatI salAma' jitanA hai? isa prakAra sAre saMsAra ke sAtha rahanA hai| jise isa taraha sAre saMsAra ke sAtha rahanA A gayA vaha jJAnI ho gyaa| isa zarIra ke sAtha bhI 'laTakatI salAma'! hama niraMtara sabhI ke sAtha 'laTakatI salAma' rakhate haiM, phira bhI saba kahate haiM ki 'Apa hamAre para bahuta acchA bhAva rakhate haiN|' maiM vyavahAra sabhI nibhAtA hU~, magara AtmA meM rahakara / praznakartA: aisA hotA ki patnI ke puNya se puruSa kA kAma banatA ho ? kahate haiM na ki aurata ke puNya se yaha lakSmI hai yA saba acchA hai, aisA hotA hai? dAdAzrI : vaha to hamAre logoM ne koI apanI patnI ko pITatA hogA, use samajhAne ke lie kahA ki are terI aurata kA nasIba to dekh| kyoM cillA rahA hai? usakA puNya hai to tU khAnA khA rahA hai! aise zurU ho gyaa| sabhI jIva apane puNya kA hI khA rahe haiN| ApakI samajha meM A gayA na? saba apane puNya kA hI bhogate haiM aura apanA pApa bhI khuda hI bhugatate haiN| dUsare kisI kA kucha lenA-denA hI nhiiN| usameM eka bAla jitanI bhI kisI kI jhaMjhaTa nahIM hai| praznakartA: koI zubha kArya kareM, jaise ki puruSa dAna kare, lekina pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 104 strI kA bhI usameM sahayoga ho, taba donoM ko phala milatA hai? dAdAzrI : hA~, milegA na! karanevAle karavAnevAle aura anumodana karanevAle tInoM ko puNya milegaa| Apako jisane kahA ho ki yaha karanA, karane yogya hai, vaha karavAnevAlA hai, Apa karanevAle hai aura virodha nahIM kare vaha anumodanA karanevAlA, sabhI ko puNya milegaa| lekina karanevAle ke hisse meM pacAsa pratizata aura dUsare pacAsa pratizata una donoM meM ba~Ta jAe~ge / praznakartA: pUrva janma ke RNAnubaMdha se mukta hone ke lie kyA karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : hamArA jinake sAtha pUrva janma kA RNAnubaMdha ho aura hameM vaha pasaMda hI nahIM ho, usakA sahavAsa pasaMda hI nahIM ho, phira bhI usake sahavAsa meM rahanA hI par3atA ho, taba kyA karanA cAhie ki, usake sAtha bAhara kA vyavahAra z2arUra rakhanA cAhie magara bhItara usake nAma ke pratikramaNa karane caahie| kyoMki hamane pichale janma meM atikramaNa kiyA thA usakA yaha pariNAma hai| kyA koz2ija kiye the? taba kahate haiM ki usake sAtha pUrva janma meM atikramaNa kiyA thA usakA isa janma meM pariNAma aayaa| isalie usakA pratikramaNa karane para vaha khatma ho jaaegaa| arthAt bhItara usase mAphI mA~ga lo| kSamA mA~gate raho ki maiMne jo doSa kiye ho, unakI kSamA cAhatA huuN| kisI bhI bhagavAna ko sAkSI rakhakara mAphI mA~ga lo, to saba samApta ho jaaegaa| varnA phira kyA hotA hai? usake prati jyAdA doSa dRSTi rakhane se, jaise ki kisI puruSa ko strI bahuta doSita dekhe to tiraskAra bar3hegA aura tiraskAra ho to bhaya lgegaa| Apako jisakA tiraskAra hogA, usakA bhaya rhegaa| use dekhane se Apako ghabarAhaTa hogI, isase samajha lo ki yaha tiraskAra haiN| isalie tiraskAra haTAne ke lie hameM bhItara mAfI mA~gate rahanA caahie| do hI dina meM vaha tiraskAra baMda ho jaaegaa| use mAlUma nahIM ho ki Apa bhItara usake nAma kI mAfI mA~gA karate ho ! 'usake prati jo jo doSa kiye hoM, 'he bhagavAna, maiM kSamA

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106 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 105 cAhatA huuN| yaha mere doSa kA pariNAma hai|' kisI bhI manuSya ke prati jo jo doSa kiye hoM aura bhItara Apa mAfI mA~gate raho bhagavAna ke pAsa, to saba dhula jaaegaa| praznakartA : hameM dharma kI rAha para calanA ho, to ghara saMsAra chor3anA pdd'e| yaha dharmakArya ke lie acchA hai parantu ghara ke logoM ko du:kha ho, kintu apane lie ghara saMsAra chor3eM vaha acchA hai? pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra Apake sAtha merA janma hogA lekina aisA kucha nahIM hotaa| yaha to saba bAvalApana hai| (riala meM) pati-patnI aisA kucha hai nhiiN| yaha to buddhimAna logoM ne vyavasthA kI hai| praznakartA : bhAI kahate haiM, yadi kisI prakAra kI takarAra nahIM ho, to agale janma meM phira sAtha meM raha sakeMge? dAdAzrI : nhiiN| gharavAloM kA hisAba cukatA karanA hI hogaa| unakA hisAba cakatA ho jAe to ve sabhI khaza hokara kaheMge ki 'Apa jAie' taba koI harja nhiiN| lekina unheM duHkha ho aisA mata krnaa| kyoMki egrImenTa (karAra) kA bhaMga nahIM kara skte| dAdAzrI : isa janma meM hI rahA nahIM jAtA, isa janma meM hI DivaoNrsa ho jAte haiM, taba phira agale janma kI kahA~ bAta karate ho? aisA prema hI nahIM hotA na! agale janma ke premavAloM meM to kleza hI nahIM hotaa| vaha to IjI lAipha (sarala z2indagI) hotI hai| bar3e pyAra kI jindagI hotI hai| kisIkI bhUla hI nahIM dikhtii| bhala kare to bhI naz2ara nahIM AtI. aisA prema hotA hai| praznakartA : bhautika saMsAra chor3ane ko jI karatA hai, to kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : bhautika saMsAra meM ghusane ko jI karatA thA na, eka dina? praznakartA : taba to jJAna nahIM thaa| aba to jJAna hai isalie usameM pharka par3atA hai| praznakartA : taba aisI premabharI z2indagI ho to phira agale janma meM phira ve hI ikaTThe hoMge yA nahIM hoMge? dAdAzrI : hA~, hote haiM na, kisI kI aisI z2indagI ho to hote haiN| sArI z2indagI kleza nahIM huA ho to hote haiN| Adarza vyavahAra, jIvana meM... dAdAzrI : z2indagI ko kisa prakAra sudhAreM? praznakartA : sacce mArga para jaakr| dAdAzrI : hA~, usameM pharka par3egA lekina usameM ghuse haiM, isalie nikalane kA rAstA khojanA pdd'egaa| yoM hI bhAga nahIM skte| praznakartA : pratyeka dina kama hotA jA rahA hai| dAdAzrI: 'merA' kahakara maranA hai| asala meM merA hai nhiiN| vaha jaldI cala base to hameM akele baiThe rahanA pdde| satya ho to donoM ko sAtha hI jAnA cAhie na? aura agara pati ke pIche satI ho to bhI vaha kisa rAha gaI ho aura yaha pati kisa rAha gayA hogA! kyoMki sabakI apane karmoM ke hisAba se gati hotI hai| koI jAnavara meM jAe, koI manuSya meM jAe, koI devagati meM jaae| usameM satI kahe ki maiM Apake sAtha mara jAU~ to dAdAzrI : kitane sAla taka sudhAranA? sArI jindagI? kitane sAla, kitane dina, kitane ghaNTe, kisa prakAra sudharegA vaha saba? praznakartA : mujhe mAlUma nhiiN| dAdAzrI : haM.... isIlie sudharatA nahIM na! aura vAstava meM do hI dina sudhArane ke haiM, eka varkiMga De (kAma para jAne kA dina) aura eka

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 107 108 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra dAdAzrI : usameM bIvI kA kyA doSa? vahA~ lar3akara AyA ho taba bIvI samajha jAtI hai ki Aja mUDa meM nahIM hai| maDa meM nahIM hotA na? hai to holI De (chuTTI kA din)| do hI dina sudhArane ke, savere se lekara zAma tk| do meM parivartana lAye to sabhI parivartana ho jaaeNge| do kI vyavasthA kara dI ki hara dina usa prakAra calatA rahe phir| aura usa prakAra caleM to yaha saba sulajha jaae| lambA parivartana karanA hI nahIM hai| ina do kI vyavasthA kI ki sabhI dina unameM samA ge| praznakartA : vaha vyavasthA kaise karane kI? praznakartA : haaN| dAdAzrI : ataH aisI vyavasthA eka dina kI kara do, varkiMga De kI aura eka holI De kii| do hI taraha ke dina Ate haiN| tIsarA dina koI AtA nahIM na? isalie do dinoM kI vyavasthA kI, usake anusAra calatA rahe phir| praznakartA : aba chuTTI ke dina kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : chuTTI ke dina taya karanA ki Aja chuTTI kA dina hai, bAla-bacce, vAipha, sabhI ko kahIM ghUmane ko nahIM milatA hai, isalie Aja bhojana ke bAda ghumAne le jaaeNge| acche-acche bhojana banAne caahieN| bhojana ke bAda ghumAne le jAnA caahie| phira ghUmane meM kharca kI maryAdA rakhane kI ki holI De ke dina itanA hI kharca! kisI vakta ekasTrA (jyAdA) karanA par3e taba hama bajaTa banAyeMge, varnA itanA hI khrc| hameM yaha saba taya karanA caahie| vAipha ke pAsa hI taya karavAnA caahie| dAdAzrI : kyoM? pahale to savere jaldI uThane kA rivAz2a rakhanA caahie| kyoMki manuSya ko qarIba pA~ca baje uThanA caahie| AdhA ghaNTA apanI ekAgratA kA sevana karanA caahie| savere uThane para pahale to bhagavAna kA smaraNa jo karanA ho vaha kara lenaa| kisI iSTadeva yA jo bhI ho, unakI bhakti Adhe ghaNTe jitanI karanI caahie| phira aisA roja calatA rhe| bAda meM braza Adi saba kara lenaa| braza meM bhI sisTama (praNAlI) kara dene kii| hama khuda hI braza leM, saba-kucha khuda hI kareM, anya kisI ko (madada ke lie) nahIM kahanA caahie| agara bImAra-vImAra hoM to bAta alaga hai| phira cAya-pAnI Ae taba takarAra nahIM karanI cAhie aura jo AyA vaha pI lenA cAhie, aura bAda meM cAya pIne ke bAda unase kahanA ki thoDI zakkara kama par3atI hai to kala se jarA jyAdA DAlA kro| unako cetAvanI denI hai hmeN| takarAra mata krnaa| cAya ke sAtha nAztA-vAztA jo karanA ho vaha kara liyA aura phira khAnA khAkara jaoNba (kAma) jaanaa| jaoNba para hameM farja adA karanA hotA hai| ghara se takarAra kie bagaira nikalane kaa| phira jaoNba karake vApasa Ae~ taba jaoNba para baoNsa (mAlika) ke sAtha jhaMjhaTa ho gaI ho, use rAste meM zAMta kara denaa| isa breIna (dimAg2a) kI naTa dabA denA, agara vaha rez2a (garama) ho gaI ho to| zAMta hokara ghara jAnA tAki ghara meM kucha takarAra nahIM ho| baoNsa ke sAtha lar3atA hai, usameM bIvI kA kyA doSa becArI kA? terA baoNsa ke sAtha jhagar3A hotA hai yA nahIM hotA? praznakartA : hotA hai| praznakartA : ve kahate haiM ki ghara meM pUranapUrI (mIThI roTI) khAnI caahie| pIjjA khAne bAhara nahIM jAnA caahie| dAdAzrI : khuzI khuzI se pUranapUrI khAoM, pakor3e khAo, jalebI khAo, saba khaaoN| jo cAhe so khaao| praznakartA : lekina hoTala meM pIjjA khAne mata jaanaa| dAdAzrI : pIjjA khAne? vaha hamase kaise khAyA jAe? hama to Arya prjaa| phira bhI zauqa ho to do-cAra bAra khilAkara phira dhIre-dhIre chur3avA denaa| dhIre-dhIre chur3avA denA, ekadama se hama baMda kara deM vaha galata hai| praznakartA : vAipha ko kucha acchA banAne kA zauqa nahIM ho to hameM kyA karanA cAhie?

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pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra 109 dAdAzrI : hameM dUsarA zauqa krnaa| hamAre yahA~ dUsarI bahuta-sI cIjeM haiN| zauqa badala denaa| rAI methI ke tar3akevAlA nahIM bhAtA ho to dAlacInI aura kAlI mIrca kA tar3akA dilavAnA tAki acchA lge| pIjjA meM to kyA khAne jaisA hai? vyavasthA kareM to sArA jIvana acchI taraha vyatIta ho aura ve kucha AdhA ghaNTA bhagavAna kI bhakti kareM to kAma DhaMga se cle| tujhe to jJAna prApta ho gayA isalie aba tU to samajhadAra ho gyaa| lekina dUsaroM ko jJAna nahIM milA ho, unako kucha bhakti karanI cAhie na ! terA to saba ThIka se calane lagA na? yaha akrama vijJAna vyavahAra ko cher3atA nahIM hai| pratyeka jJAna, vyavahAra ko dutakAratA hai| yaha vijJAna vyavahAra ko kicit mAtra dutakAratA nahIM hai aura apanI 'riyAlITI' meM saMpUrNa rahakara vyavahAra ko dutakAratA nahIM hai / vyavahAra ko dutakAre nahIM vahI saiddhAMtika vastu hotI hai| saiddhAMtika vastu kise kahate haiM ki jisakA kabhI bhI asaiddhAMtikatA meM pariNAmana na ho vaha siddhaaNt| koI aisA konA nahIM hai jahA~ asiddhAMta ho| arthAt yaha 'riyala sAIMsa' (vAstavika vijJAna) hai, 'kampalITa sAIMsa' (pUrNatayA vijJAna) hai| vyavahAra ko kiciMtmAtra nahIM dutakAratA ! kisI ko z2arA-sA bhI duHkha nahIM ho, vaha AkharI 'lAiTa' (prakAza) hai| virodhI ko bhI zAMti ho| hamArA virodhI ho para aisA kahe ki 'bhAI, inakA aura merA matabheda hai para unake prati mujhe bhAva hai, Adara hai' aisA kahe Akhira ! hamezA virodha to rahanevAlA hI hai| 360 DigrI kA aura 356 DigrI kA bhI virodha hotA hI hai| isa prakAra virodha to hotA hI hai| eka hI DigrI para sabhI manuSya nahIM A skte| eka hI vicAra zreNI para sabhI manuSya nahIM A skte| kyoMki manuSya kI vicAra zreNI kI caudaha lAkha yoniyA~ haiM / bolie, apane ko kitane 'eDajasTa' ho sakate haiM? kucha hI 'eDajasTa' ho sakate haiM, sabhI nahIM ho skteN| ghara meM to sundara vyavahAra kara denA caahie| 'vAipha' ke mana meM aisA 110 pati-patnI kA divya vyavahAra lage ki aisA (acchA) pati kabhI nahIM milegA aura pati ke mana meM aisA lage ki aisI (acchI) 'vAipha' bhI kabhI bhI nahIM milegI ! aisA hisAba lA deM taba hama sacce ! praznakartA: adhyAtma meM to ApakI bAta kA kahanA hI kyA para vyavahAra meM bhI ApakI bAteM 'TaoNpa' (zreSTha) haiM ! dAdAzrI : aisA hai na, ki vyavahAra meM 'TaoNpa' kA samajhe binA koI mokSa meM nahIM gayA hai| cAhe bahuta hI U~cA AtmajJAna kyUM na ho lekina vyavahAra ko samajhe bagaira koI mokSa meM nahIM gayA hai| kyoMki vyavahAra chor3anevAlA hai na? vyavahAra Apako nahIM chor3egA to Apa kyA kareMge? Apa 'zuddhAtmA' hI haiM lekina vyavahAra Apako chor3eM taba na? Apa vyavahAra ko ulajhAte rahate ho / usakA jhaTapaTa hala lA do na ! - jaya saccidAnaMda pati-patnI ko eka dUsare ke doSa naz2ara Ae taba dAdAzrI dvArA sUcita pratikramaNa vidhi pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM, phAila naM. do ke mana-vacanakAyA ke yoga, bhAvakarma-dravyakarma-nokarma se bhinna aise he zuddhAtmA bhagavAna, | ApakI sAkSI meM, Aja dina taka mujhase jo jo doSa hue haiM, usake lie kSamA mA~gatA hU~ / hRdayapUrvaka bahuta pazcAtApa karatA hU~ / AlocanA| pratikramaNa - pratyAkhyAna karatA huuN| mujhe kSamA karo, kSamA karo, kSamA kro| aura phira se aise doSa kabhI bhI nahIM karU~, aisA dRr3ha nizcaya karatA huuN| he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe aisA koI bhI doSa na karane kI parama zakti do zakti do, zakti do| viSaya kaSAya Adi se kisI bhI prakAra kA duHkha pahu~cAyA ho, una doSoM ko mana meM yAda kreN| //////

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* vItarAga zAsana devI-devatAoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| * niSpakSapAtI zAsana devI-devatAoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| * caubIsa tIrthaMkara bhagavaMtoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA * zrI kRSNa bhagavAna ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| prAtaH vidhi * zrI sImaMdhara svAmI ko namaskAra karatA huuN| * vAtsalyamUrti 'dAdA bhagavAna' ko namaskAra karatA huuN| (5) * prApta mana-vacana-kAyA se isa saMsAra ke kisI bhI jIva ko kiMcitmAtra bhI duHkha na ho, na ho, na ho| * kevala zuddhAtmAnubhava ke alAvA isa saMsAra kI koI bhI vinAzI cIja mujhe nahIM caahie| * prakaTa jJAnI puruSa dAdA bhagavAna kI AjJA meM hI niraMtara rahane kI parama zakti prApta ho, prApta ho, prApta ho| jJAnI puruSa 'dAdA bhagavAna' ke vItarAga vijJAna kA yathArtha rUpa se, saMpUrNa-sarvAMga rUpa se kevala jJAna, kevala darzana aura kevala cAritra meM pariNamana ho, pariNamana ho, pariNamana ho| namaskAra vidhi pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM, vartamAna meM mahAvideha kSetra meM vicarate tIrthaMkara bhagavAna zrI sImaMdhara svAmI ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| (40) pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM, vartamAna meM mahAvideha kSetra aura anya kSetroM meM vicarate OM parameSTI bhagavaMtoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM, vartamAna meM mahAvideha kSetra aura anya kSetroM meM vicarate paMca parameSTI bhagavaMtoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM, vartamAna meM mahAvideha kSetra aura anya kSetroM meM viharamAna tIrthaMkara sAhiboM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| * bharata kSetra meM hAla vicarate sarvajJa zrI dAdA bhagavAna ko nizcaya se atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| dAdA bhagavAna ke sarva samakitadhArI mahAtmAoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| * sAre brahmAMDa ke samasta jIvoM ke riyala svarUpa ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| * rIyala svarUpa hI bhagavat svarUpa hai, isalie sAre vizva ko bhagavat svarUpa se darzana karatA huuN| * rIyala svarUpa hI zuddhAtma svarUpa hai, isalie sAre vizva ko zuddhAtma svarUpa se darzana karatA huuN| * rIyala svarUpa hI tattva svarUpa hai, isalie sAre vizva ko tattvajJAna rUpa se darzana karatA huuN| nau kalameM 1. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA kA kiMcitmAtra bhI aham na dubhe (du:khe), na dubhAyA (du:khAyA) jAye yA dubhAne (duHkhAne) ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do| mujhe kisI dehadhArI jIvAtmA kA kiMcitmAtra bhI aham na dubhe, aisI syAdvAda vANI, syAdvAda vartana aura syAdvAda manana karane

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kI parama zakti do / 2. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dharma kA kiMcitmAtra bhI pramANa na dubhe, na dubhAyA jAye yA dubhAne ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do| mujhe kisI bhI dharma kA kiMcitmAtra bhI pramANa na dubhAyA jAye aisI syAdvAda vANI, syAdvAda vartana aura syAdvAda manana karane kI parama zakti do / 3. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI upadezaka sAdhu, sAdhvI yA AcArya kA avarNavAda, aparAdha, avinaya na karane kI parama zakti do / 4. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA ke prati kiMcitmAtra bhI abhAva, tiraskAra kabhI bhI na kiyA jAye, na karavAyA jAye yA kartA ke prati na anumodita kiyA jAye, aisI parama zakti do / 5. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA ke sAtha kabhI bhI kaThora bhASA, taMtIlI bhASA na bolI jAye, na bulavAI jAye yA bolane ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do / koI kaThora bhASA, taMtIlI bhASA boleM to mujhe mRdu-Rju bhASA bolane kI zakti do / 6. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA ke prati strI, puruSa yA napuMsaka, koI bhI liMgadhArI ho, to usake saMbaMdha meM kiciMtmAtra bhI viSaya-vikAra saMbaMdhI doSa, icchAe~, ceSTAe~ yA vicAra saMbaMdhI doSa na kiye jAyeM, na karavAye jAyeM yA kartA ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do| mujhe niraMtara nirvikAra rahane kI parama zakti do / 7. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI rasa meM lubdhatA na ho aisI zakti do / samarasI AhAra lene kI parama zakti do / 8. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA kA pratyakSa athavA parokSa, jIvita athavA mRta, kisI kA kiMcitmAtra bhI avarNavAda, aparAdha, avinaya na kiyA jAye, na karavAyA jAye yA kartA ke prati anumodanA na kI jAyeM, aisI parama zakti do / 9. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe jagata kalyANa karane meM nimitta banane kI parama zakti do, zakti do, zakti do / (itanA Apa dAdA bhagavAna se mA~gA kreN| yaha pratidina yaMtravat par3hane kI cIja nahIM hai, hRdaya meM rakhane kI cIz2a hai| yaha pratidina upayogapUrvaka bhAvanA karane kI cIz2a hai| itane pATha meM samasta zAstroM kA sAra A jAtA hai|) zuddhAtmA ke prati prArthanA he aMtaryAmI paramAtmA ! Apa pratyeka jIvamAtra meM birAjamAna ho, vaise hI mujha meM bhI birAjamAna ho| ApakA svarUpa hI merA svarUpa hai| merA svarUpa zuddhAtmA hai| he zuddhAtmA bhagavAna ! maiM Apako abheda bhAva se atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| ajJAnatAvaza maiMne jo jo doSa kiye haiM, una sabhI doSoM ko Apake samakSa z2Ahira karatA huuN| unakA hRdayapUrvaka bahuta pazcAtApa karatA hU~ aura Apase kSamA yAcanA karatA huuN| he prabhu! mujhe kSamA karo, kSamA karo, kSamA karo aura phira se aise doSa nahIM karU~, aisI Apa mujhe zakti do, zakti do, zakti do / he zuddhAtmA bhagavAna ! Apa aisI kRpA karo ki hameM bhedabhAva chUTa jAye aura abheda svarUpa prApta ho| hama Apa meM abheda svarUpa se tanmayAkAra raheM / jo jo doSa hue hoM, ve mana meM z2Ahira kreN| // // dAdA bhagavAna ke asIma jaya jayakAra ho (pratidina kama se kama 10 minaTa se lekara 50 minaTa taka jora se boleM)

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