Mata Pita Aur Bachho Ka Vyvahaar

Author(s): Dada Bhagwan
Publisher: Mahavideh Foundation
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/009593/1

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dAdA bhagavAna prarUpita mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra DA~Ta kara nahIM, prema se sudhAro mA~-bApa baccoM ko sudhArane ke lie saba phrekcara kara DAlate haiN| hameM baccoM ke lie bhAva karate rahanA hai ki baccoM ko sadbuddhi prApta ho| aisA karate karate asara hae binA nahIM rhtaa| ve to dhIme-dhIme smjheNge|tum bhAvanA karate rho| una para jabaradastI karoge to ve ulaTe cleNge|aur baccoM ko kabhI mAranA mt|koii bhUlacUka ho to dhIre se sira para hAtha phera kara unheM samajhAnA j'ruur| prema deM to baccA samajhadAra hotA hai, taraMta samajha jAtA hai| tAtparya yaha ki yaha saMsAra jaise-taise nibhAlene jaisA hai| - dAdAzrI ISEANPTER-WIL.160 ONSTISAhe.

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dAdA bhagavAna prarUpita prakAzaka : ajita sI. paTela mahAvideha phAunDezana 'dAdA darzana', 5, mamatApArka sosAyaTI, navagujarAta kaoNleja ke pIche, usmAnapurA, ahamadAbAda - 380014, gujarAta phona - (079) 27540408, 27543979 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra All Rights reserved - Shri Deepakbhai Desai Trimandir, Simandhar City, Ahmedabad-Kalol Highway, Post - Adalaj, Dist.-Gandhinagar-382421, Gujarat, India. prathama saMskaraNa : prata 3000, apraila, 2009 mUla gujarAtI pustaka 'mAbApa chokarAMno vyavahAra' (saMkSipta ) kA hindI anuvAda bhAva mUlya : 'parama vinaya' aura 'maiM kucha bhI jAnatA nahIM', yaha bhAva! dravya mUlya : 20 rupaye lesara kampojha : dAdA bhagavAna phAunDezana, ahamadAbAda mUla gujarAtI saMkalana : DaoN. nIrUbahana amIna anuvAda : mahAtmAgaNa mudraka : mahAvideha phAunDezana (prinTiMga DivIz2ana), pArzvanAtha caimbarsa, naI riz2arva baiMka ke pAsa, usmAnapurA, ahamadAbAda-380 014. phona : (079) 27542964, 30004823

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trimaMtra samarpaNa anAdi kAla se, mA~-bApa baccoM kA vyavahAra, rAga-dveSa ke baMdhana aura mamatA kI mAra / na kaha sakeM, na saha sakeM, jAe~ to jAe~ kahA~? kisa se pUche, kauna batAye upAya yahA~? ulajhe the rAma, dazaratha aura zreNika bhI, zravaNa kI mRtyu para, mA~-bApa kI cIkha nikalI thii| zAdI ke bAda pUche 'guru' patnI se bAra-bAra, isa trikoNa meM kyA karU~, batalAo tAraNahAra ! Aja ke bacce, ulajheM mA~-bApa se, bar3A aMtara par3A, 'janare zana gepa' se| mokSa kA dhyeya hai, karanA pAra saMsAra, kauna bane khivaiyA? naiyA hai majhadhAra ! aba taka ke jJAniyoM ne, batalAyA bairAga, aulAdavAle par3e soca meM, kaise baneM vItarAga? dikhalAyA nahIM kisI ne, saMsAra saha mokSamArga, kalikAla kA Azcarya, 'dAdA' ne diyA akramamArga! saMsAra meM rahakara bhI, ho sakate haiM vItarAga, khuda hokara dAdA ne, prajvalita kiyA ciraag| usa cirAga kI rauzanI meM mokSa pAe~ mumukSu, saccA khojI pAe yahA~, nizcaya hI divyacakSu / usa rauzanI kI kiraNeM, prakAzita haiM isa graMtha meM, mAtA-pitA baccoM kA vyavahAra sulajhe paMtha meN| dIpaka se dIpaka jale, pratyeka ke ghaTa-ghaTa meM, jaga ko samarpita yaha graMtha, prApta karo aba jhaTa se|

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dAdA bhagavAna kauna ? jUna 1958 kI eka saMdhyA kA karIba chaH baje kA samaya, bhIr3a se bharA sUrata zahara kA relve sTezana, pleTaphArma naM. 3 kI beMca para baiThe zrI aMbAlAla mUlajIbhAI paTela rUpI dehamaMdira meM kudaratI rUpa se, akrama rUpa meM, kaI janmoM se vyakta hone ke lie Atura 'dAdA bhagavAna' pUrNa rUpa se prakaTa hue| aura kudarata ne sarjita kiyA adhyAtma kA adbhuta Azcarya / eka ghaNTe meM unako vizvadarzana huaa| 'maiM kauna? | bhagavAna kauna ? jagata kauna calAtA hai? karma kyA? mukti kyA?' ityAdi jagata ke sAre AdhyAtmika praznoM ke saMpUrNa rahasya prakaTa hue| isa taraha kudarata ne vizva ke sanmukha eka advitIya pUrNa darzana prastuta kiyA aura | usake mAdhyama bane zrI aMbAlAla mUlajIbhAI paTela, gujarAta ke carotara kSetra ke bhAdaraNa gA~va ke pATIdAra, kAnTrekTa kA vyavasAya karane vAle, phira bhI pUrNatayA vItarAga puruSa ! unheM prApti huI, usI prakAra kevala do hI ghaNToM meM anya mumukSu janoM ko bhI ve AtmajJAna kI prApti karavAte the, unake adbhuta siddha hue jJAnaprayoga se use akrama mArga khaa| akrama, arthAt binA krama ke, aura krama arthAt sIr3hI dara sIr3hI, kramAnusAra Upara car3hanA / akrama arthAt liphTa mArga, zaoNrTa kaTa ! ve svayaM pratyeka ko 'dAdA bhagavAna kauna?' kA rahasya batAte hue kahate the ki "yaha jo Apako dikhAI dete hai ve dAdA bhagavAna nahIM hai, ve to 'e. ema. paTela' hai| hama jJAnI puruSa haiM aura bhItara prakaTa hue haiM, ve 'dAdA bhagavAna' haiM dAdA bhagavAna to caudaha loka ke nAtha haiN| ve Apa meM bhI haiM, sabhI meM haiN| ApameM avyakta rUpa meM rahe hue haiM aura 'yahA~' hamAre bhItara saMpUrNa rUpa se vyakta hue haiN| dAdA bhagavAna ko maiM bhI namaskAra karatA huuN|' 'vyApAra meM dharma honA cAhie, dharma meM vyApAra nahIM, isa siddhAMta | se unhoMne pUrA jIvana bitaayaa| jIvana meM kabhI bhI unhoMne kisI ke pAsa ( se paisA nahIM liyA balki apanI kamAI se bhaktoM ko yAtrA karavAte the| 5 AtmajJAna prApti kI pratyakSa liMka maiM to kucha logoM ko apane hAthoM siddhi pradAna karanevAlA huuN| pIche anugAmI cAhie ki nahIM cAhie? pIche logoM ko mArga to cAhie na?" - dAdAzrI parama pUjya dAdAzrI gA~va-gA~va, deza-videza paribhramaNa karake mumukSu janoM ko satsaMga aura AtmajJAna kI prApti karavAte the / ApazrI ne apane jIvanakAla meM hI pUjya DaoN. nIrUbahana amIna (nIrUmA~) ko AtmajJAna prApta karavAne kI jJAnasiddhi pradAna kI thiiN| dAdAzrI ke dehavilaya pazcAt nIrUmA~ vaise hI mumukSujanoM ko satsaMga aura AtmajJAna kI prApti, nimitta bhAva se karavA rahI thI / pUjya dIpakabhAI desAI ko dAdAzrI ne satsaMga karane kI siddhi pradAna kI thii| nIrUmA~ kI upasthiti meM hI unake AzIrvAda se pUjya dIpakabhAI deza-videzo meM kaI jagahoM para jAkara mumukSuoM ko AtmajJAna karavA rahe the, jo nIrUmA~ ke dehavilaya pazcAt Aja bhI jArI hai| isa AtmajJAnaprApti ke bAda haz2AroM mumukSu saMsAra meM rahate hue, jimmedAriyA~ nibhAte hue bhI mukta rahakara AtmaramaNatA kA anubhava karate haiN| graMtha meM mudrita vANI mokSArthI ko mArgadarzana meM atyaMta upayogI siddha hogI, lekina mokSaprApti hetu AtmajJAna prApta karanA z2arUrI hai| akrama mArga ke dvArA AtmajJAna kI prApti kA mArga Aja bhI khulA hai| jaise prajvalita dIpaka hI dUsarA dIpaka prajvalita kara sakatA hai, usI prakAra pratyakSa AtmajJAnI se AtmajJAna prApta kara kehI svayaM kA AtmA jAgRta ho sakatA hai| 6

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prastAvanA nivedana AtmavijJAnI zrI aMbAlAla malajIbhAI paTela, jinheM loga 'dAdA bhagavAna' ke nAma se bhI jAnate haiM, unake zrImukha se adhyAtma tathA vyavahAra jJAna saMbaMdhI jo vANI nikalI, usako rikaoNrDa karake, saMkalana tathA saMpAdana karake pustakoM ke rUpa meM prakAzita kiyA jAtA haiN| mAtA-pitA aura baccoM ke bIca vartamAna tanAvapUrNa vyavahAra ko sahajatA pradAna karane hetu, saMpUjya sarvajJa dAdAzrI ke pAsa Ae zreyArthiyoM ko jo mArgadarzana diyA gayA usakA saMkalana, jagatkalyANa ke lie, isa saMkSipta graMtha meM kiyA hai| dAdAzrI ne jo kucha kahA, carotarI grAmINa gujarAtI bhASA meM khaa| ise hindI bhASI zreyArthiyo taka pahu~cAne kA yaha yathAmati, yathAzakti naimitika prayatna hai| 'jJAnIpuruSa' ke jo zabda hai, vaha bhASAkIya dRSTi se sIdhe-sAde hai kintu 'jJAnIpuruSa' kA darzana nirAvaraNa hai, isalie unake pratyeka vacana AzayapUrNa, mArmika, maulika aura sAmanevAle ke vya poinTa ko ekjaikTa (yathArtha) samajhakara nikalane ke kAraNa zrotA ke darzana ko suspaSTa khola dete hai aura adhika U~cAI para le jAte hai| jJAnI kI vANI ko hindI bhASA meM yathArtha rUpa se anuvAdita karane kA prayatna kiyA gayA hai kintu dAdAzrI ke AtmajJAna kA sahI Azaya, jyoM kA tyoM to, Apako gujarAtI bhASA meM hI avagata hogaa| jinheM jJAna kI gaharAI meM jAnA ho, jJAna kA sahI marma samajhanA ho, vaha isa hetu gujarAtI bhASA sIkheM, aisA hamArA anurodha hai| prastuta pustaka meM kaI jagahoM para koSThaka meM darzAye gaye zabda yA vAkya parama pUjya dAdAzrI dvArA bole gaye vAkyoM ko adhika spaSTatApUrvaka samajhAne ke lie likhe gaye haiN| jabaki kucha jagahoM para aMgrejI zabdoM ke hindI artha ke rUpa meM rakhe gaye haiN| dAdAzrI ke zrImukha se nikale kucha gujarAtI zabda jyoM ke tyoM rakhe gaye haiM, kyoMki una zabdoM ke lie hindI meM aisA koI zabda nahIM hai, jo usakA pUrNa artha de ske| hAlAMki una zabdoM ke samAnArthI zabda artha ke rUpa meM diye gaye haiN| anuvAda saMbaMdhI kamiyoM ke lie Apa se kSamAprArthI haiN| mAtA-pitA baccoM kA huA vyavahAra, anaMta kAla se, na AyA to bhI paar| 'maiMne pAle, par3hAye' na kaha sakeM; 'tumheM kisa ne par3hAyA?' taba kyA kaheM? anivArya hai pharja baccoM ke prati sabhI; kiyA thA pitA ne hI tumhArA bhI sbhii| yUM hI DA~Ta-DapaTa kara, nA denA saMtApa; bar3e hokara ye bacce, deMge duganA tApa! mere bacce aise hoM, aisA sadA cAheM; khuda donoM kaise jhagar3e yaha nA kabhI soceN| mA~ mUlI aura bApa ho gAjara! bacce phira seba hoMge kyoM kara? eka bacce kI paravariza kI jimmedArI; hai bhArata ke pradhAnamaMtrI se bhI bhaarii| tujha se adhika maiMne dekhI dIvAlI: bacce kaheM, 'Apa dIye miTTI ke, hama haiM bijlii|' mAtA-pitA ke jhagar3e, bigAr3e bAla mana, par3e gAMTheM, samajheM unako bogasa, mana hI mn| DA~Tane se nahIM sudharate Aja ke bacce kabhI, prema se hI hai prakAzamAna ikkIsavIM sdii| mArane-DA~Tane para bhI ghaTatA nahIM prema jahA~, prema ke prabhAva se bacce bane mahAvIra vhaaN| nayI pIr3hI hai haildI mAiNDavAlI; bhogavAdI to hai, magara nahIM kssaayvaalii|

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gusse kI mAra ko bAlaka na bhUleMge; pitA se bhI savAye gussaila bneNge| ghara-ghara prAkRtika kheta the satayuga meM; bhinna bhinna phUloM ke bAg2a haiM kaliyuga meN| mAlI bano to, bAga ye sundara saje; varnA bigar3akara kaSAyoM ko bhje| karanA nahIM kabhI bhI beTI para zaMkA, varnA sunanA par3egA, barabAdI kA ddNkaa| uttarAdhikAra meM baccoM ko deM kitanA? apane pitA se milA ho hameM jitnaa| phijUlakharca banegA jo doge jyAdA; hokara zarAbI chor3a degA mryaadaa| karoge baccoM para rAga jitanA, badale meM hogA dveSa phira utanA! rAga-dveSa se chUTane ko ho jAo vItarAga; bhavapAra karane kA basa eka yahI mArga! mokSa hetu niHsaMtAna honA mahApuNyazAlI; goda nahIM khAlI parantu hai bahI khAlI! kisa janma meM, janme nahIM bacce? aba to zAMta ho, bano mumukSu scce| mAtA-pitA saMtAna ke saMbaMdha haiM saMsArI; vasIyata meM diyA nahIM kucha, AI korTa kI baarii| DA~To do hI ghaNTe to TUTe yaha saMbaMdha! ye to haiM smazAna taka ke saMbaMdha! nahIM hote kabhI apanI naz2ara meM bacce eka samAna rAga-dveSa ke baMdhana kA yaha hai sirpha len-den| AtmA sivA saMsAra meM koI nahIM hai apanA, duHkhe deha aura dA~ta, hisAba apnaa-apnaa| hisAba cukAne meM joza na hove maMdA, samajhakara cukA de, varnA hai phA~sI kA phaMdA! kahate haiM, mA~ ko to bacce sabhI samAna; rAga-dveSa haiM magara, lena-dena ke prmaann| mAtA-pitA eka, para bacce alaga-alaga; varSA to hai samAna para bIja anusAra phsl| kudarata ke kAnUna se eka parivAra meM milApa; samAna paramANu hI khiMceM apane hI Apa! milate haiM, dravya-kSetra-kAla aura bhAva; ghaTanA ghaTe 'vyavasthita'kA vahI svabhAva! zreNika rAjA ko putra ne hI DAlA jela meM; putra ke Dara se hI hIrA cUsakara mare ve! AtmA kA koI nahIM putra yahA~; chor3akara mAyA parabhava sudhAro yahA~!

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saMpAdakIya kisa janma meM bacce nahIM hue? mAtA-pitA ke bagaira kisakA astitva saMbhava hai? sabhI bhagavAna mA~ ke peTa se hI janme the! isa prakAra mAtApitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra anAdi anaMta hai| yaha vyavahAra Adarza kisa prakAra bane, isake lie saba dina-rAta prayatna karate dikhate haiN| usameM bhI isa kaliyuga meM to hara bAta para mAtA-pitA aura baccoM ke bIca jo matabheda dekhane meM Ate haiM, unheM dekhakara loga ghabarA jAte haiN| satyuga meM bhI bhagavAna rAma aura lava-kuza kA vyavahAra kaisA thA? RSabhadeva bhagavAna se alaga saMpradAya calAnevAle marIci bhI to the| dhRtarASTra kI mamatA aura duryodhana kI svacchaMdatA kyA anajAnI hai? bhagavAna mahAvIra ke samaya meM zreNika rAjA aura putra koNika mugaloM kI yAda nahIM dilAte kyA?! mugala bAdazAha jagaprasiddha hue, unameM eka ora bAbara thA, jisane humAyU~ ke jIvana kI khAtira, apanA jIvana badale meM dene kI allAha se duA kI thI, taba dUsarI ora zAhajahA~ ko kaida meM DAlakara auraMgajeba gaddIzIna huA thaa| bhagavAna rAma pitA ke kAraNa hI banavAsa gae the| zravaNa ne mAtA-pitA ko kAvar3a meM biThAkara yAtrA karavAI thI (mukhpRsstth)| aise rAga-dveSa ke bIca jhalatA huA mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra pratyeka kAla meM hotA hai| vartamAna meM dveSa kA vyavahAra vizeSa rUpa se dekhane meM AtA hai| aise kAla meM samatA meM rahakara Adarza vyavahAra ke dvArA mukta hone kA rAstA akrama vijJAnI parama pUjya dAdA bhagavAna (dAdAzrI) kI vANI ke dvArA yahA~ prarUpita huA hai| Aja ke yuvAvarga kA mAnasa, pUrNa rUpa se jAnakara, use jItane kA rAstA dikhAyA hai| videza meM sthita bhAratIya mAtApitA aura baccoM kI, do dezoM kI bhinna bhinna saMskRtiyoM ke bIca, jIvana jIne kI kaThina samasyA kA saMdara nirAkaraNa prasaMgAnusAra bAtacIta karake batAyA hai| ye sujhAva variSTha pAThakoM ko aura yuvAvarga ko bahuta-bahuta upayogI siddha hoMge, eka Adarza jIvana jIne ke lie| prastuta pustaka do vibhAgoM meM saMkalita hokara prakAzita ho rahI hai| pUrvArdha : mAtA-pitA kA baccoM ke prati vyavahAra utarArdha : baccoM kA mAtA-pitA ke prati vyavahAra pUrvArdha meM parama pUjya dAdAzrI ke kaIM mAtA-pitA ke sAtha hue satsaMgoM kA saMkalana hai| mAtA-pitA kI kaIM manovyagratAe~ parama pUjya dAdAzrI ke samakSa aneka bAra pradarzita huI thiiN| jinake saTIka hala dAdAzrI ne diye haiN| jinameM mAtA-pitA ko vyavahArika samasyAoM ke samAdhAna milate haiN| unake apane vyaktigata jIvana ko sudhArane kI cAbiyA~ milatI haiN| usake alAvA baccoM ke sAtha dainika jIvana meM AnevAlI muzkiloM ke aneka samAdhAna prApta hote haiM, jisase saMsAra vyavahAra sukhamaya rUpa se paripUrNa ho| mAtA-pitA aura baccoM ke bIca jo pArasparika saMbaMdha haiM, tAtvika dRSTi se jo jo vAstavikatAe~ haiM, ve bhI jJAnIpuruSa samajhAte haiM, jisase mokSa mArga para Age bar3hane meM mAtA-pitA kI mUrchA dUra ho jAe aura jAgRti A jaae| jaba ki uttarArdha meM parama pUjya dAdAzrI ke baccoM aura yavA laDakelar3akiyoM ke sAtha hue satsaMgoM kA saMkalana hai, jisameM baccoM ne apane jIvana kI vyaktigata manovyagratAoM ke samAdhAna prApta kie haiN| mAtA-pitA ke sAtha kaisA vyavahAra karanA cAhie, vaha samajha prApta hotI hai| zAdI karane saMbaMdhI aisI uttama samajha prApta hotI hai ki yuvA pIr3hI apane jIvana meM saccI bAta samajhakara, vyavahAra meM pUrNarUpa se nirAkaraNa lA ske| bacce apane mAtA-pitA kI sevA kA mAhAtmya aura pariNAma smjheN| mAtA-pitA kI samasyAe~ jaise ki baccoM ke lie itanA kucha kiyA, phira bhI bacce avajJA karate haiM, isakI kyA vajaha hai? bacce bar3e hokara aise saMskArI hoMge, vaise hoMge vagairaha vagairaha sapane jaba naSTa hote dekhate haiM, taba jisa AghAta kA anubhava hotA hai, usakA samAdhAna kaise kareM? kucha bacce to mAtA-pitA ke pariNita jIvana kA sukha (!) dekhakara zAdI se inkAra kara dete haiM taba kyA kareM? mAtA-pitA saMskAroM kA siMcana kaise kareM? khuda usakA jJAna kahA~ se prApta kareM? kaise prApta kareM? bigar3e baccoM

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ko kisa prakAra sudhAreM? bAtoM-bAtoM meM mAtA-pitA aura baccoM ke bIca hotA TakarAva kaise Tale? baccoM ko mAtA-pitA baoNsIz2ama karate lagate haiM aura mAtA-pitA ko bacce pathabhraSTa hote lagate haiM: aba isakA rAstA kyA? baccoM ko acchA sikhAne ke lie kucha kahanA par3e aura bacce use kiTakiTa samajhakara sAmane tarka kareM taba kyA kareM? choTe bacce aura bar3e baccoM ke sAtha kisa prakAra alaga-alaga vyavahAra kareM? ghara kI bhinna-bhinna prakRtiyoM kA saccA mAlI kisa prakAra baneM? usakA lAbha kisa samajha se uThA pAe~? koI lobhI, to koI phijUlakharca, koI cora, to koI auliyA (santa-svabhAvI), ghara ke baccoM kI aisI bhinna bhinna prakRtiyA~ hoM to, ghara ke variSTha kyA samajheM aura kyA kareM? pitA ko zarAba, bIr3I kA vyasana ho to usase kisa prakAra chuTakArA ho, jisase baccoM ko unake bure asara se bacA sakeM? bacce dina aura rAta dera taka TI.vI.-sinemA dekhate raheM to, usase unheM kisa prakAra bacAyeM? nayI pIr3hI (janarezana) kI kauna-sI acchI bAtoM ko dhyAna meM rakhakara unakA lAbha kaise uThAyeM? kala kI kaSAyapUrNa aura vartamAna kI bhogavAdI pIr3hiyoM ke aMtara ko kisa prakAra dUra kareM? eka ora Aja kI pIr3hI kA haildI mAInDa (taMdurusta dimAga) dekhakara gardana jhuka jAe, aisA lagatA hai aura dUsarI ora viSayAMdha dikhate haiM, vahA~ kyA ho sakatA hai? dera se uThanevAle baccoM ko kisa prakAra sudhAreM? par3hane meM kamajora baccoM ko kisa prakAra sudhAreM? unheM par3hane ke lie kisa prakAra protsAhita kareM? baccoM ke sAtha vyavahAra karate samaya saMbaMdha TUTa jAe~ to kisa prakAra unheM kAunTara pulI ke dvArA jor3eM? bacce bhItara hI bhItara lar3eM, taba taTastha rahakara nyAya kisa prakAra kareM? bacce rUThe taba kyA kareM? baccoM kA krodha zAMta karane ke lie kyA kareM? baccoM ko kyA galatI mahasUsa karavA sakate haiM? kyA baccoM ko DA~TanA jarUrI hai? DA~TeM yA mahasUsa karavAe~, kisa prakAra se? baccoM ko DA~TeM to 13 kauna-sA karma baMdhatA hai? unako duHkha ho to kyA upAya hai? baccoM ko pITanA cAhie? pITa diyA to kyA upAya hai? kA~ca ke samAna bAlamAnasa ko kisa prakAra se haiNDala kareM? mAtA-pitA kaThora parizrama karake kamAI kareM aura bacce phijUla kharca karate hoM to kyA eDajasTamenTa (samAdhAna) leM? baccoM ko svataMtratA denI cAhie? agara denI cAhie to kisa hada taka? lar3akA zarAbI ho to kyA kadama uThAyeM? bahuta gAliyA~ de to kyA kareM? mokSa kA dhyeya rakhakara adhyAtma evaM mAtA-pitA aura baccoM ke vyavahAra kA kisa prakAra samanvaya kareM? mAtA-pitA lar3ake se alaga hoM to kyA karanA cAhie? lar3akiyA~ rAta ko dera se Ae~ to? kusaMgatI ho gaI ho taba kyA kareM? lar3akI ne vijAtIya se zAdI kI ho to kyA kareM? lar3akI para zaMkA rahA karatI ho to kyA karanA cAhie? vila-vasIyatanAmA karanA cAhie? kaisA karanA cAhie? kise kitanA denA cAhie? marane se pahale deM yA bAda meM? lar3ake paisA mA~ge taba kyA kareM? gharajavAI rakhane cAhie yA nahIM? baccoM para kitanA moha rakheM? lagAva, mamatA kA kyA rahasya hai? ye kitane phAyademaMda haiM? guru (patnI) Ate hI beTA badala jAe to kyA kareM? jise bacce na hoM unake karma kaise haiM? bacce nahIM hoM to, zrAddha kara ke mukti kauna dilAyegA? choTI umra meM baccoM kI mRtyu ho to mAtApitA kisa prakAra sahana kareM? unake lie kyA kareM? jaba dAdAzrI ke bacce mara gae taba unhoMne kyA kiyA thA? rilezana (saMbaMdha) Ta rahe hoM to kisa taraha jor3eM ? jJAnI kisa jJAna se bhava sAgara ko pAra karane kA rAstA dikhAte haiM? kalI ko khilAne kI kalA jJAnI kI kaisI hotI hai, vaha yahA~ dekhane ko milatI hai| yahA~ para do sAla se lekara bAraha sAla ke baccoM ko khilate dekhate haiM, taba bahuta-kucha sIkhane ko milatA hai, prema, samatA aura AtmIyatA ke raMga se|

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baccoM ko kisa prakAra par3hAnA-likhAnA cAhie aura gar3hanA cAhie? bacce zAdI karane yogya hoM, taba bar3A prazna Akara khar3A hotA hai, pAtra kauna ho aura kisa prakAra pasaMda kareM? dAdAzrI laDake aura lar3akiyoM ko bahata hI sundara mArgadarzana dete haiM, jisase mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kI sahamati se pAtra kA cunAva ho| ___ lar3akiyoM ko sasurAla meM sabako prema se vaza meM karane kI sundara cAbiyA~ dAdAzrI ne pradAna kI haiN| mAtA-pitA kI sevA, vinaya se unake AzISa prApta karane kA mahatva kyA hai aura vaha kaise prApta ho? aMta meM, vRddhoM kI vyathA aura use hala karane ke lie vRddhAzrama kI AvazyakatA aura AdhyAtmika jIvana kaise jIe~, isakA sundara mArgadarzana yahA~ saMkalita huA hai| jise par3hakara samajhane se mAtA-pitA aura baccoM donoM kA vyavahAra Adarza hogaa| - DaoN. nIrubahana amIna sUcipRSTha peja naM. mAtA-pitA kA baccoM ke prati vyavahAra (pUrvArdha) 1. siMcana, saMskAra ke... 2. pharz2a ke gIta kyA gAnA? 3. nahIM jhagar3ate, baccoM kI upasthiti meM... 4. anasarTiphAiDa phAdarsa eNDa madarsa 5. samajhAne se sudhareM, bacce 6. prema se sudhAro nanhe munnoM ko 7. 'viparItatA aise chUTa jAya' 8. nayI janarezana, heldI mAInDavAlI 9. mAtA-pitA kI zikAyateM 10. zaMkA ke zUla 11. vasIhata meM baccoM ko kitanA? 12. moha ke mAra se mare anekoM bAra 13. bhalA huA jo na baMdhI jaMjAla... 14. nAtA, rileTiva yA riala? 15. vaha hai lena-dena, nAtA nahIM baccoM kA mA~-bApa ke prati vyavahAra (utarArdha) 16. 'TInejarsa' (yuvA umravAloM) ke sAtha 'dAdAzrI' 17. patnI kA cunAva 18. pati kA cayana 19. saMsAra meM sukha kI sAdhanA, sevA se

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra mAtA-pitA kA baccoM ke prati vyavahAra ( pUrvArdha) 1. siMcana, saMskAra ke... praznakartA : yahA~ amarIkA meM paisA hai, lekina saMskAra nahIM haiM aura AsapAsa kA vAtAvaraNa hI aisA hai, to isake lie kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : pahale to mAtA-pitA ko saMskArI honA caahie| phira bacce bAhara jAe~ge hI nhiiN| mAtA-pitA aise hoM, ki unakA prema dekhakara bacce vahA~ se dUra hI na jaaeN| mAtA-pitA ko aisA premamaya honA caahie| baccoM ko agara sudhAranA hai to tuma jimmedAra bno| baccoM ke sAtha tuma pharja se baMdhe hue ho| hameM baccoM ko ucca stara ke saMskAra dene caahie| amarIkA meM kaI loga kahate haiM ki hamAre bacce mAMsAhAra karate haiM aura aisA bahuta kucha karate haiN| taba maiMne unase pUchA, 'tuma mAMsAhAra karate ho?' to bole, 'hA~, hama karate haiN|' taba maiMne kahA, 'taba to bacce kareMge hii|' hamAre hI saMskAra! aura agara hama nahIM karate hoM to bhI ve kareMge, magara dUsarI jagaha para jA kr| agara hama unheM saMskArI banAnA cAhate haiM to hameM apanA pharja nahIM cUkanA caahie| aba baccoM kA hameM dhyAna rakhanA cAhie ki aisA-vaisA, yahA~ kA khAnA na khaaeN| aura yadi hama khAte hoM to aba yaha jJAna prApta hone ke bAda hameM saba baMda kara denA caahie| ataH ve hamAre jaise saMskAra dekheMge vaisA kreNge| pahale hamAre mAtA-pitA saMskArI kyoM kahalAte the? ve bahuta mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra niyamavAle the aura taba unameM saMyama thaa| aura Ajakala ke mAtA-pitA to binA saMyamavAle hote haiN| praznakartA : bacceM bar3e hoM taba hameM unheM dharma kA jJAna kisa taraha denA cAhie? dAdAzrI : hama dharma svarUpa ho jAe~, to ve bhI ho jaaeNge| hamAre jaise guNa hoMge, bacce vaisA hI siikheNge| isalie hameM hI dharmiSTha ho jAnA hai| hameM dekha-dekha kara siikheNge| yadi hama sigareTa pIte hoMge to ve bhI sigareTa pInA siikheNge| hama zarAba pIte hoMge to ve bhI zarAba pInA siikheNge| mA~sa khAte hoMge to mA~sa khAnA siikheNge| jo hama karate hoMge vaisA hI ve siikheNge| ve soceMge ki hama inase bhI bar3hakara kreN| praznakartA : acche skUla meM par3hAne se acche saMskAra nahIM Ate? dAdAzrI : lekina, ve saba saMskAra nahIM haiN| baccoM ke saMskAra to mAtA-pitA ke sivA kisI aura se nahIM aate| saMskAra mAtA-pitA aura guru ke hI hote hai aura thor3e-bahuta saMskAra mitroM tathA AsapAsa ke logoM se milate hai| sabase adhika saMskAra mAtA-pitA se milate hai| mAtA-pitA saMskArI hoM, to bacce bhI saMskArI hote haiM varanA saMskArI nahIM hote| praznakartA : hama baccoM ko par3hAI ke lie 'inDiyA' bheja deM, to hama apanI jimmedArI nahIM cUka jAte? dAdAzrI : nahIM, hama nahIM cuukte| hama unakA saba kharca de deN| vahA~ para to aise skUla haiM ki jahA~ hindustAna ke loga bhI apane baccoM ko par3hAI ke lie bhejate haiN| khAnA-pInA vahA~ aura rahane kA bhI vahA~, aise bahuta se acche skUla haiN| praznakartA : dAdA, ghara-saMsAra zAMtipUrNa rahe aura aMtarAtmA kA bhI jatana ho aisA kara diijie| dAdAzrI : ghara-saMsAra zAMtipUrNa rahe itanA hI nahIM, bacce bhI hameM dekhakara jyAdA saMskArI hoM, aisA ho sakatA hai| yaha to mAtA-pitA kA

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra pAgalapana dekhakara bacce bhI pAgala ho gae haiN| kyoMki mAtA-pitA ke AcAra-vicAra upayukta nahIM hai| pati-patnI bhI, bacce baiThe hoM, taba maryAdAhIna ceSTAe~ karate haiM, phira bacce bigar3eM nahIM to aura kyA hogA? baccoM para kaisA asara par3egA? maryAdA to rakhanI cAhie na / yaha agni kA kaisA prabhAva hai? choTA baccA bhI agni kA sammAna rakhatA hai na? mAtA-pitA ke mana phrekcara ho gae haiN| mana vivhala ho gae haiN| dUsaroM ko duHkhadAyI ho aisI bhASA bolate haiN| isase bacce bigar3a jAte haiN| patnI aisA bolatI hai ki pati ko duHkha ho aura pati aisA bolatA hai ki patnI ko duHkha ho / hindustAna ke mAtA-pitA kaise hone cAhie? ve baccoM ko sikhAkara, isa prakAra taiyAra kareM ki sabhI saMskAra unheM paMdraha sAla kI umra taka de deN| praznakartA : aba yaha jo saMskAra kA stara hai vaha nIcA jAne lagA hai| isI kI yaha saba samasyA hai| dAdAzrI : nahIM, nhiiN| saMskAra hI khatma hone lage hai| isameM aba dAdA mile isalie phira se mUla saMskAra laayeNge| satyuga meM the, aise saMskAra phira se laayeNge| isa hindustAna kA eka baccA sAre vizva kA bojha uThA sake, itanI zakti kA dhanI hai| kevala use puSTi dene kI z2arUrata hai| ye to bhakSaka nikale ! bhakSaka yAnI apane sukha ke lie jo dUsaroM ko sabhI taraha se lUTa leN| jo apanA sukha tyAga kara baiThA hai, vahI dUsaroM ko samasta sukha de sakatA hai| lekina yahA~ to seThajI sArA dina kevala lakSmI ke hI vicAroM meM rahate haiN| taba mujhe seThajI se kahanA par3atA hai ki 'seTha, tuma lakSmI ke pIche par3e ho aura yahA~ ghara bikhara gayA hai!' lar3akiyA~ moTara lekara eka tarapha jAtI haiM, lar3ake dUsarI tarapha aura seThAnI kahIM aura hI gaI ho ! seTha, tuma to hara taraha se luTe jA rahe ho! taba seTha ne pUchA, 'maiM kyA karUM?' maiMne kahA, 'bAta ko samajho aura kisa prakAra jIvana jInA hai, yaha smjho| kevala paisoM ke pIche mata pdd'o| zarIra kA dhyAna rakho, nahIM to hArTa phela ho jaaegaa| zarIra kA dhyAna, paise kA dhyAna, lar3akiyoM ke saMskAra kA dhyAna, sabhI kone sAfa karane ke hai| tuma eka konA buhArate rahate ho / 4 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra aba baMgale kA eka konA sAfa kareM aura bAkI saba jagaha kUr3A par3A rahe to kaisA lage? saba kone sAfa karane haiN| isa taraha to jIvana kaise jI sakate haiM? isalie unake sAtha acchA bartAva karo, ucca saMskAra do| ina lar3akoM ko ucca saMskArI bnaao| khuda tapa karo, para unheM saMskArI bnaao|' praznakartA: hama unheM sudhArane ke prayatna to sabhI karate haiM, phira bhI ve nahIM sudhareM to phira kyA Adarza pitA ko use prArabdha mAna kara chor3a denA cAhie? dAdAzrI : nahIM, lekina prayatna to tuma apanI taraha se karate ho na? tumhAre pAsa sarTiphikeTa hai? mujhe btaao| praznakartA : hamArI buddhi ke anusAra prayatna karate haiM / dAdAzrI : tumhArI buddhi arthAt, eka manuSya khuda jaja ho, khuda hI gunahagAra ho aura vakIla bhI khuda ho, to vaha kaisA nyAya karegA? baccA apane saMskAra lekara hI AtA hai| usameM tumheM madada kara ke una saMskAroM ko raMga dene kI z2arUrata hai| use chor3a nahIM denA cAhie kabhI bhI unakA dhyAna rakhate rahanA caahie| chor3a deM to phira saba khatma ho jAtA hai| praznakartA: hA~, aisA karate haiM, para Akhira meM kyA unheM prArabdha para chor3a denA cAhie? dAdAzrI : nA, nahIM chor3a skte| aise chor3anA par3e taba mere pAsa laanaa| maiM oNparezana karake sudhAra duuNgaa| aise chor3a nahIM sakate, jokhima hai / eka lar3akA bApa kI mU~cheM khIMca rahA thA, to bApa khuza ho gyaa| kahane lagA, 'kaisA beTA! dekho, merI mU~cheM khIMcI!' lo, aba usakA kahA kareM to lar3akA mU~cha pakar3e aura bAra-bAra khIMce taba bhI vaha kucha na bole to pariNAma kyA ho phira ? aura kucha nA kareM to bacce ko jarA cimaTI bhara leM, cimaTI bharane se vaha samajhegA ki yaha galata bAta hai| maiM jo kara

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra rahA hU~, vaha galata hai, aisA use jJAna hogaa| use bahuta mAranA mata, sirpha dhIre se cimaTI bhrnaa| bApa ne bacce kI mammI ko bulAyA, taba vaha roTI bela rahI thii| usane kahA, 'kyA kAma hai? maiM roTI bela rahI huuN|' 'tU yahA~ A, jaldI A, jaldI A, jaldI A!' vaha daur3atI daur3atI Akara pUchatI hai, 'kyA hai?' taba vaha bolA, 'dekha, dekha, beTA kitanA hoziyAra ho gayA hai ! dekha, paira kI eDiyA~ U~cI kara ke jeba meM se paccIsa rupaye nikaale|' baccA yaha dekhakara socatA hai, 'are! maiMne Aja bahuta acchA kAma kiyaa| aisA kAma maiM Aja sIkha gyaa|' aura phira vaha cora huA, taba kyA ho? use 'jeba se paise nikAlanA acchA hai' aisA jJAna prakaTa ho gyaa| tumheM kyA lagatA hai? kyoM bolate nahIM? kyA aisA karanA cAhie? aise ghanacakkara kahA~ se paidA hue? ye bApa bana baiThe haiM! zarma nahIM AtI? isase bacce ko kaisA protsAhana milA, yaha samajha meM AtA hai? usane dekhA ki maiMne bahuta bar3A parAkrama kiyA! isa prakAra luTa jAnA kyA hameM zobhA detA hai? kyA bolane se baccoM ko 'enkarejamenTa' (protsAhana) milegA aura kyA bolane se nukasAna hogA, itanI samajha to honI cAhie na? ye to 'anaTesTeDa phAdara' (ayogya pitA) aura 'anaTesTeDa madara' (ayogya mAtA) haiN| bApa mUlI aura mA~ gAjara, bacce phira seba thor3e hI hoMge? isalie kaliyuga ke ina mAtA-pitAoM ko yaha saba AtA hI nahIM aura galata 'enkarejamenTa' dete haiN| kucha to unheM le lekara ghUmate haiN| patnI kahatI hai, 'isako uThA lo,' to pati bacce ko uThA letA hai| kyA kare? yadi vaha akar3avAlA ho aura na le to patnI kahegI, 'kyA mere akelI kA hai? milakara rakhane haiN|' aisA vaisA kahe to pati ko bacce ko uThAnA par3atA hai, kyA isase chuTakArA hai? kahA~ jAe vo? baccoM ko uThA uThAkara sinemA dekhane jAnA, daur3adhUpa krnaa| phira baccoM ko saMskAra kisa taraha mileM? eka baiMka menejara ne mujhase kahA, 'dAdAjI, maiMne to kabhI bhI vAipha yA baccoM ko eka akSara bhI bolA nahIM hai| cAhe kitanI bhI bhUla kareM, mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra kucha bhI kare para maiM bolatA nahIM huuN|' vaha aisA samajhA hogA ki dAdAjI merI bahuta tArIpha kreNge| vaha kyA AzA karatA thA samajha meM AyA na? aura mujhe usake Upara bar3A gussA AyA ki tumheM kisa ne baiMka kA mainejara banAyA? tumheM bAla-bacce samhAlanA nahIM AtA aura bIbI samhAlanA nahIM AtA! taba vaha to ghabarA gayA becaaraa| ulTA maiMne use kahA, 'tuma aMtima kakSA ke bekAra manuSya ho! tuma isa duniyA meM kisI kAma ke nahIM ho!' vaha AdamI mana meM samajhatA thA ki maiM aisA kahU~gA to 'dAdA' mujhe bar3A inAma deNge| pagale, isakA inAma hotA hogA? baccA galata karatA ho taba hameM 'tUne aisA kyoM kiyA? phira aisA mata krnaa|' isa taraha nATakIya rUpa se kahanA cAhie; nahIM to baccA samajhegA ki vaha jo kucha kara rahA hai vaha 'karekTa' (sahI) hI hai, kyoMki pitA ne 'eksepTa' (svIkAra kiyA hai| aisA nahIM bolane ke kAraNa hI gharavAle mu~ha phaTa ho gye| sabakucha kahanA, magara nATakIya! baccoM ko rAta ko biThAkara samajhAo, bAtacIta kro| ghara ke sabhI konoM se kUr3A buhAranA par3egA na? baccoM ko thor3A hilAne kI jarUrata hai| vaise saMskAra to hote hI haiM, para hilAnA par3atA hai| unako hilAne meM kucha gunAha hai? nanheM beTe-beTiyoM ko samajhAnA ki subaha nahA-dhokara bhagavAna kI pUjA karo aura roz2a saMkSipta meM bolo ki 'mujhe aura sAre jagat ko sadbuddhi do, jagat kA kalyANa kro|' itanA boleM to unako saMskAra mile haiM, aisA kahalAegA aura mAtA-pitA kA karma-baMdha chUTa jaaegaa| dUsarA, tumheM baccoM se 'dAdA bhagavAna ke asIma jaya jayakAra ho' hara roz2a bulavAnA caahie| hindustAna ke bacce to itane sudhara gae haiM, ki sinemA bhI nahIM jaate| pahale do-tIna dina thor3A aTapaTA lagegA para bAda meM do-tIna dina ke bAda abhyasta hone para, aMdara svAda utarane para, ulTe khuda yAda kreNge| 2. pharz2a ke gIta kyA gAnA? svaicchika kArya kA inAma hotA hai| eka bhAI pharz2a ke taura para kie gae kArya kA inAma khojanA cAhate the! sArA saMsAra inAma khoja rahA hai

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra haiM ki merA gulAba, lekina gulAba to yahI samajha rahA hai ki maiM khuda hI huuN| kisI aura kA nahIM huuN| sabhI apane khuda ke svArtha se prerita haiN| ye to hama pagalA ahaMkAra karate hai, pAgalapana karate haiN| praznakartA : yadi hama gulAba ko pAnI na deM, to gulAba to murajhA jaaegaa| mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra ki 'maiMne itanA-itanA kiyA, tumheM patA nahIM? tumheM merI kImata nahIM hai'| are mue, kyoM kImata khojatA hai? yaha jo kucha kiyA vaha to pharja nibhAyA! eka AdamI apane lar3ake ke sAtha bahasa kara rahA thA, bAda meM maiMne use ddaaNttaa| vaha kahatA thA, 'karja kara ke maiMne tujhe pddh'aayaa| agara maiM karja na letA to kyA tU par3ha sakatA thA? bhaTakatA rhtaa|' mue, binA vajaha bakavAsa kyoM kara rahA hai? yaha to tumhArA pharja hai, aisA nahIM kaha skte| yaha to lar3akA samajhadAra hai| agara Apako kisa ne par3hAyA?' aisA pUchatA to kyA javAba dete? aisA pAgala kI taraha bolate rahate haiM na loga? mUrkha loga, nAsamajha, kucha patA hI nhiiN| ___baccoM ke lie saba kucha karanA caahie| lekina bacce kaheM ki 'nahIM pitAjI aba bahuta ho gyaa|' to bhI pitA use chor3atA nahIM, taba kyA kareM? bacce lAla jhaMDI dikhAyeM to hameM samajhanA nahIM cAhie? tumheM kaisA lagatA hai? phira vaha kahe ki mujhe vyavasAya karanA hai, to hameM vyavasAya ke lie kucha rAstA kara denA caahie| isase jyAdA gaharAI taka jAnevAlA pitA mUrkha hai| yadi vaha naukarI meM laga gayA ho to apane pAsa jo kucha ho, use gAMTha bA~dhakara rakha denA caahie| kisI vakta musIbata meM ho, taba haz2Arado haz2Ara bhejanA caahie| kintu yaha to hamezA pUchatA hI rahatA hai| taba lar3akA kahatA hai 'Apako manA karatA hU~ na ki merI bAta meM dakhala mata krnaa|' taba yaha kyA kahatA hai, 'abhI usameM akla nahIM hai, isalie aisA kahatA hai|' are, yaha to Apa nivRtta ho gae; acchA hI huA, jaMjAla se chuutte| lar3akA khuda hI Apako manA kara rahA hai na! __ praznakartA : sahI rAstA kauna-sA? hama vahA~ bacce saMbhAleM yA hamAre kalyANa ke lie satsaMga meM Ae~? dAdAzrI : bacce to apane Apa saMbhala rahe haiN| baccoM ko tuma kyA saMbhAloge? apanA kalyANa karanA vahI mukhya dharma hai| bAkI ye bacce to saMbhale hue haiM na! baccoM ko kyA tuma bar3e karate ho? bAga meM gulAba ke paudhe lagAye hoM to rAta meM bar3hate haiM yA nahIM bar3hate? vaha to hama mAnate dAdAzrI : na deM aisA hotA hI nahIM na! lar3ake ko acchI taraha na rakheM to lar3akA kATane ko daur3egA yA to DhelA maaregaa| aba sAMsArika pharja nibhAte samaya dharma kArya kA samanvaya kisa prakAra ho? lar3akA ulTA bola rahA ho to bhI hameM apanA dharma cUke bagaira, pharja pUrA karanA caahie| ApakA dharma kyA? lar3ake ko pAla-poSa kara bar3A karanA, use sahI rAste para claanaa| aba vaha TeDhA bola rahA hai, aura Apa bhI Ter3hA bolo to pariNAma kyA hogA? vaha bigar3a jaaegaa| isalie Apako prema se use phira se samajhAnA cAhie ki baiTho bhAI, dekho, aisA hai, vaisA hai| yAnI sabhI pharjI ke sAtha dharma honA caahie| dharma nahIM hogA to usakI jagaha adharma A jaaegaa| koTharI khAlI nahIM rhegii| abhI yahA~ hamane koThariyA~ khAlI rakha chor3I hoM to loga tAlA kholakara ghusa jAe~ge ki nahIM ghusa jAe~ge? ghara meM striyoM kA saccA dharma kyA? AsapAsa ke sabhI loga aisA kaheM ki vAha ! kyA kahanA! pharz2a aisA nibhAyeM ki AsapAsa ke loga khuza ho jaaeN| isalie strI kA saccA dharma hai ki baccoM kI paravariza karanA, unheM acche saMskAra denA; pati meM saMskAra kama hoM to saMskAra siiNcnaa| sabakucha apanA sudhAranA, isakA nAma dhrm| sudhAranA nahIM par3atA? kucha loga to kyA karate haiM? bhagavAna kI bhakti meM to tanmaya rahate haiM, magara baccoM ko dekhakara cir3hate haiN| jinameM bhagavAna prakaTa hue aise baccoM ko dekhakara cir3hatA hai aura vahA~ bhagavAna kI bhakti karatA rahatA hai, usakA nAma bhagata ! ina baccoM para cir3hanA cAhie kyA? are ! inameM to bhagavAna prakaTa hai!

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra Thoka kara kahatA hai ki 'kar3hI khArI kara dI hai|' are! sIdhA hokara khAnA khA le na! ghara kA mAlika, vahA~ koI usake Upara nhiiN| vaha khuda hI baoNsa, isalie DaoNTa-DapaTa zurU kara detA hai| bacce Dara jAte haiM ki pApA aise pAgala kyoM ho gae? para bola nahIM skte| kyoMki becAre dabe hue haiM, lekina mana meM abhiprAya bAMdha lete haiM ki pApA pAgala lagate haiN| mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 3. nahIM jhagar3ate, baccoM kI upasthiti meM.. agara hama mAMsAhAra na kareM, zarAba na pIyeM aura ghara meM patnI ke sAtha jhagar3A na kareM to bacce dekhate haiM ki pApAjI bahuta acche haiN| dUsaroM ke pApA-mammI jhagar3ate hai, mere mammI pApA nahIM jhgdd'te| itanA dekheM to phira bacce bhI sIkhate haiN| roz2AnA pati patnI ke sAtha jhagar3e to bacce yoM dekhate rahate haiN| yaha pApA hai hI aise' kheNge| kyoMki bhale itanA choTA-sA ho phira bhI isakA nyAya karanevAlI nyAyAdhIza buddhi usameM hotI hai| lar3akiyoM meM nyAyAdhIza buddhi kama hotI hai| lar3akiyA~ hara vakta unakI mA~ kA hI pakSa letI haiN| lekina ye lar3ake to nyAyAdhIza buddhivAle, jAnate haiM ki pApA kA doSa hai ! phira do-cAra vyaktiyoM ko pApA kA doSa batAte-batAte, nizcaya bhI karatA hai ki bar3A hokara sikhAU~gA! bAda meM bar3A hone para vaisA karatA bhI hai| terI hI amAnata tujhe vApasa! baccoM kI maujUdagI meM lar3anA nahIM caahie| hameM saMskArI honA caahie| tumhArI galatI ho to bhI patnI kahe, 'koI bAta nhiiN|' aura usakI galatI ho to tuma kaho, 'koI bAta nhiiN|' bacce aisA dekhate haiM to oNlarAiTa (acche) hote jAte haiN| aura agara laDanA ho to intajAra karanA, jaba bacce skUla jAe~ taba jitanA lar3anA ho utanA ldd'naa| lekina baccoM kI upasthiti meM aisA lar3AI-jhagar3A ho, to ve dekhate haiM aura phira unake mana meM bacapana se pApA aura mammI ke lie virodha bhAvanA banane lagatI hai| unakA sakArAtmaka bhAva chUTakara nakArAtmaka zurU ho hI jAtA hai| arthAt baccoM ko bigAr3anevAle isa samaya mAtA pitA hI haiM! ata: hameM lar3anA ho to ekAMta meM lar3eM, baccoM kI maujUdagI meM nhiiN| ekAMta meM daravAjA baMda karake donoM Amane-sAmane lar3anA hai to ldd'o| mahaMge Ama lAye hoM aura usa Ama kA rasa, sAtha meM roTiyA~ taiyAra kara ke saba patnI ne parosA hoM, aura bhojana kI zurUAta huii| thor3A khAyA aura jaise hI kar3hI meM hAtha DAlA, thor3I khArI lagI ki DAikanaga Tebala ata: bacce saba Uba gae haiN| ve kahate haiM ki phAdara-madara zAdIzudA haiM, unakA sukha (vyaMga meM) dekhakara hama Uba gae haiN| maiMne pUchA, 'kyoM? kyA dekhA?' taba ve kahate haiM ki rojAnA kleza hotA hai| isalie hama samajha gaye hai ki zAdI karane se du:kha milatA hai| aba hameM zAdI nahIM krnii| 4. anasarTiphAiDa phAdarsa eNDa madarsa eka bApa kahatA hai, 'ye sAre bacce mere virodhI ho gae haiN|' maiMne kahA, 'tumhAre meM yogyatA nahIM yaha spaSTa ho jAtA hai| tamhAre meM yogyatA ho to lar3ake kyo virodha kareM? isalie isa prakAra apanI Abaru mata bigaadd'naa| aura baccoM ko DA~Tate raheM to bigar3a jAte haiN| unheM sudhAranA ho to hamAre pAsa bulAkara kucha bAtacIta karavAyeM to ve sudhara jAe~! isalie maiMne pustaka meM likhA hai ki 'anakvAliphAiDa phAdarsa eNDa anakvAliphAiDa madarsa' (binA yogyatAvAle mAtA-pitA) taba bacce bhI vaise hI ho jAegeM na! isalie mujhe kahanA par3A, phAdara banane kI yogyatA kA sarTiphikeTa lene ke bAda zAdI karanI caahie| inheM to jIvana jInA bhI nahIM AtA, kucha bhI nahIM AtA! yaha saMsAra-vyavahAra kisa taraha calAnA, yahI nahIM aataa| isalie phira baccoM kI dhulAI karatA hai! are unheM pITatA hai to kyA ve kapar3e haiM, jo dhulAI karatA hai? baccoM ko isa taraha sudhAreM, mArapITa kareM, yaha kahA~ kI rIta hai? jaise pApaDa kA ATA gUMdha rahe hoM! magarI se pApar3a kA ATA gUMdhate haiM, isa taraha eka AdamI ko dhulAI karate maiMne dekhaa|

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 11 mAtA-pitA to ve kahalAyeM ki agara lar3akA burI lAIna para calA gayA ho, phira bhI eka dina jaba mAtA-pitA kaheM, 'beTA, yaha hameM zobhA nahIM detA, yaha tUne kyA kiyA?' to dUsare dina saba baMda ho jaae| aisA prema hI kahA~ hai? yaha to bagaira prema ke mAtA-pitA ! yaha jagat prema se hI vaza hotA hai| ina mAtA-pitA ko baccoM para kitanA pyAra hai? gulAba paudhe para mAlI ko jitanA hotA hai utanA ! inheM mAtA - pitA kaise kaha sakate haiM? praznakartA : baccoM kI par3hAI ke lie yA saMskAra ke lie hameM kucha vicAra hI nahIM karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : vicAra karane meM harja nahIM / praznakartA : par3hAI to skUla meM hotI hai lekina saMskAra - cAritra kaise deM? dAdAzrI : gar3hAI sunAra ko sauMpa do| unake gar3hanevAle hoM, ve gddh'eNge| lar3akA pandraha sAla kA ho taba taka use kaha sakate haiM, taba taka hama jaise haiM, vaisA use banA deN| bAda meM usakI patnI use gddh'egii| yaha to bacce ko gar3hanA AtA nahIM phira bhI loga gar3ha rahe haiM! isase gar3hAI ThIka se nahIM hotii| mUrti acchI nahIM bntii| nAka DhAI iMca ke bajAya sAr3he cAra iMca kI kara DAleM ! bAda meM jaba beTe kI patnI AyegI, vaha usakI nAka ko kATakara ThIka karane jAegI, taba beTA bhI usakI nAka kATane jaayegaa| isa taraha donoM Amane-sAmane A jAte haiN| praznakartA: 'sarTiphAiDa phAdara - madara kI paribhASA kyA hai? dAdAzrI : 'sarTiphAiDa' mAtA-pitA, arthAt khuda ke bacce khuda ke kahane ke mutAbika caleM, apane bacce apane para zraddhA rakheM, mAtA-pitA ke parezAna na kreN| aise mAtA-pitA 'sarTiphAiDa' hI kahalAe~ge na? varnA bacce aise hote hI nahIM, bacce AjJAkArI hote haiN| ye to mAtApitA kA hI ThikAnA nhiiN| z2amIna aisI hai, jaisA bIja hai mAla (phala) 12 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra bhI vaisA hai! Upara se kahatA hai ki 'mere bacce mahAvIra honevAle haiN|' mahAvIra hote hoMge? mahAvIra kI mA~ to kaisI ho !! bApa aisA-vaisA ho to calegA, para mA~ to kaisI ho? ! hai| isameM se koI bAta tumheM pasaMda AI ? praznakartA : yaha bAta pasaMda AtI haiM, taba usakA asara ho hI jAtA dAdAzrI : bahuta se loga lar3ake se kahate haiM, 'tU merA kahA nahIM maantaa|' maiMne kahA, 'tumhArI vANI use pasaMda nahIM hai, agara pasaMda ho to asara ho hI jaae|' aura bApa kahatA hai, 'tU merA kahA nahIM maantaa|' are !, tujhe bApa honA nahIM aayaa| isa kaliyuga meM logoM kI dazA to dekho ! nahIM to satayuga meM kaise mAtA-pitA the ! maiM yaha sikhAnA cAhatA hU~ ki tuma aisA bolo ki baccoM ko tumhArI bAtoM meM inTaresTa (ruci) Aye, taba ve tumhArA kahA huA kareMge hii| tumane mujhase kahA na ki merI bAta tumheM pasaMda AtI hai| to tuma se itanA hogA hI / praznakartA: ApakI vANI kA asara aisA hotA hai ki jisa pajala (pahelI) kA buddhi hala nA khoja sake, usakA hala yaha vANI lA sakatI hai| dAdAzrI : hRdayasparzI vaannii| vaha madaralI (mAtRtvavAlI ) kahalAtI hai / hRdayasparzI vANI yadi koI bApa apane beTe se kahe, to vaha sarTiphAir3a phAdara (sakSama pitA) kahalAe ! praznakartA: itanI AsAnI se bacce nahIM mAnate ! dAdAzrI : to kyA hiTalarIz2ama ( jabaradastI) se mAnate haiM? yadi hiTalarIz2ama kareM to vaha helpaphula (sahAyaka) nahIM hai| praznakartA: ve mAnate haiM para bahuta samajhAne ke bAda /

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 13 dAdAzrI : usameM koI harja nahIM vaha nyAyasaMgata hai| bahuta samajhAnA par3atA hai, isakA kAraNa kyA hai? ki tuma khuda samajhate nahIM, isalie jyAdA samajhAnA par3atA hai| samajhadAra manuSya ko eka bAra samajhAnA par3atA hai vaha hama hI na samajha jAe~? bahuta samajhAte ho, para bAda meM samajhate haiM na? praznakartA: haaN| dAdAzrI : vaha sabase acchA rAstA hai| yaha to mAra Thoka kara samajhAnA cAhate haiN| yU~ bApa bana baiThA, jaise aba taka duniyA meM kabhI koI bApa hI nahIM huA ho! arthAt jo samajhA-bujhAkara isa taraha kAma lete haiM, unheM mujhe ankvAliphAiDa (akSama) nahIM kahanA / 'bApa honA' vaha sadvyavahAra kaisA honA cAhie? lar3ake ke sAtha dAdAgIrI to nahIM, kintu sakhtI bhI nahIM honI cAhie, vaha bApa kahalAtA hai| praznakartA: bacce parezAna kareM taba bApa ko kyA karanA cAhie? taba bhI bApa ko sakhtI nahIM baratanI cAhie? dAdAzrI : bacce bApa ke kAraNa hI parezAna karate haiN| bApa meM nAlAyakI ho, tabhI bacce parezAna karate haiN| isa duniyA kA kAnUna aisA hI hai| bApa meM yogyatA na ho to bacce parezAna kie bagaira nahIM rhte| praznakartA lar3akA bApa kA kahA na mAne to kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : 'apanI bhUla hai' aisA samajhakara chor3a denA! apanI bhUla ho taba nahIM mAnate na! bApa honA AyA ho, usakA lar3akA bAta na mAne aisA hotA hogA? para bApa honA AtA hI nahIM na ! praznakartA: eka bAra phAdara bana gaye to pille chor3eMge kyA ? dAdAzrI : chor3ate hoMge kyA? pille to sArA jIvana 'DaoNga' aura 'DaoNgIna' donoM ko dekhate hI rahate haiM ki ye bhauM bhauM kare aura yaha (DaoNgIna ) kATatI rhe| 'DaoNga' bhauM bhauM kie binA nahIM rhtaa| para Akhira meM doSa usa 'DaoNga' kA hI nikalatA hai| bacce unakI mA~ kI ora hote haiN| isalie 14 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra maiMne eka AdamI se kahA thA, 'bar3e hokara ye bacce tujhe maareNge| isalie gharavAlI ke sAtha sIdhA hokara rhnaa|' yaha to bacce dekhate haiM usa samaya, unake basa meM na ho taba taka aura jaba basa meM ho taba koTharI meM banda kara ke piTAI karate haiN| logoM ke sAtha aisA huA bhI hai ! lar3ake ne usa dina se mana meM ThAna liyA hotA hai ki bar3A hokara maiM bApa ko vApasa lauTAU~gA / merA kucha bhI ho lekina unako to sabaka sIkhAU~gA hI aisA ThAna letA hai| yaha bhI samajhane jaisA hai na? praznakartA : arthAt pUrA doSa bApa kA hI? dAdAzrI : bApa kA hI! doSa hI bApa kA hai| bApa meM bApa banane kI yogyatA na ho, tabhI usakI patnI usake sAmane ho jAtI hai| bApa meM yogyatA nahIM ho tabhI aisA hotA hai na! ye to bar3I muzkila se jaisetaise apanA saMsAra nibhAte haiN| lekina patnI kaba taka samAja ke Dara se Dara kara rahe? - praznakartA : kyA hamezA bApa kI hI bhUla hotI hai ? dAdAzrI : bApa kI hI bhUla hotI hai| use bApa honA nahIM AyA, isalie yaha saba bigar3a gayA hai| ghara meM yadi bApa bananA ho, to usakI strI usake pAsa viSaya kI bhIkha mA~ge, aisI dRSTi ho taba bApa bana sakatA hai| praznakartA: bApa ghara meM ruAba na rakhe, bApapanA na rakhe taba bhI usakI bhUla kahalAtI hai ? dAdAzrI : taba to saba ThIka ho jaae| praznakartA: phira bhI bacce bApa kA kahA mAneMge, isakI kyA gAraMTI hai? dAdAzrI : hai na! apanA 'kerekTara' (caritra) acchA ho, to sArA saMsAra kerekTaravAlA (caritravAna) hai|

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra praznakartA : bacce nimna-koTi ke nikaleM, usameM bApa kyA kare? dAdAzrI : mUla doSa bApa kA hI hotA hai| vaha kyoM bhagata rahA hai? pahale se AcaraNa bigAr3e haiM, usakI vajaha se yaha dazA huI hai na? jisakA apane AcaraNa kA kaMTrola (aMkuza) kisI janma meM bigar3A na ho usako aisA nahIM hotA, hama yaha kahanA cAhate haiN| pUrva karma kaise hue? apanA mUla kaMTrola nahIM hai tabhI na? arthAt hama kaMTrola meM mAnate haiN| kaMTrola mAnane ke lie tumheM usake sabhI niyama samajhane caahie| ye bacce apanA AInA haiN| hamAre baccoM para se mAlUma hotA hai ki apanI kitanI galatiyA~ haiM! jo hama meM zIla nAmaka guNa ho to bAgha bhI hamAre vaza meM raheM, to baccoM kI kyA majAla? hamAre zIla kA ThikAnA nahIM hai, usakI yaha saba gar3abar3a hai| zIla samajha gae na? praznakartA : zIla kise kahanA? usake bAre meM jarA vistAra se saba samajha sakeM, isa prakAra kahie na! dAdAzrI : kiMcitmAtra duHkha dene ke bhAva na hoN| apane duzmana ko bhI jarA-sA duHkha pahu~cAne kA bhAva na ho| usake andara 'sinsiyAriTI' (niSThA) ho, 'morAliTI' (naitikatA) ho, sAre guNa sammilita ho| kiMcit mAtra hiMsaka bhAva na ho, vaha 'zIlavAna' kahalAtA hai| praznakartA : Aja-kala ke mAtA-pitA aisA saba kahA~ se lAyeM? dAdAzrI : to bhI hameM usameM se thoDA bahata, paccIsa pratizata cAhie ki nahIM cAhie? lekina hama kAla (samaya) ke kAraNa AIsakrIma khAte raheM aise mauz2I ho gae haiN| praznakartA : pitA kA caritra kaisA honA cAhie? dAdAzrI : bacce roja kaheM ki pApA, hameM bAhara acchA nahIM lgtaa| Apake sAtha bahuta acchA lagatA hai| aisA caritra honA caahie| 16 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra praznakartA : yaha to ulTA hotA hai, bApa ghara meM ho to lar3akA bAhara jAe aura bApa bAhara jAe to lar3akA ghara meM ho| dAdAzrI : lar3ake ko pApA ke bagaira acchA na lage aisA honA caahie| praznakartA : to aisA hone ke lie pApA kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : jaba mujhe bacce milate haiM na, to baccoM ko mere bagaira acchA nahIM lgtaa| buDDhe milate haiM, to buDDhoM ko bhI mere bagaira acchA nahIM lgtaa| javAna milate haiM to javAnoM ko bhI mere bagaira acchA nahIM lgtaa| praznakartA : hameM bhI Apake jaisA hI honA hai| dAdAzrI : hA~, yadi Apa mere jaisA karo to vaise ho jaaogeN| Apa kaheM, 'pepsI laao|' to ve kaheMge, 'nahIM hai|' koI harja nahIM, pAnI le aao| ye to kaheM, 'pepsI kyoM lAkara nahIM rakhI?' ye huI gar3abar3a phira se| hameM to dopahara ko bhojana kA samaya huA ho aura kaheM ki 'Aja to khAnA nahIM bnaayaa'| to maiM kahU~gA ki 'ThIka hai, lAo thor3A pAnI pI leM, bs|"tumne kyoM nahIM pakAyA?' kahA ki phaujadAra ho jAte haiN| vahA~ para phaujadArI karane lagate hai| 5. samajhAne se sudhareM, bacce yaha kiTa-kiTa karane ke bajAya mauna rahanA acchA, nahIM bolanA acchaa| bacce sudharane ke bajAya bigar3ate haiM, isalie eka akSara bhI mata khnaa| bigar3e usakI jimmedArI apanI hai| yaha samajha meM Aye aisI bAta hai na? hama kaheM ki aisA mata karanA, taba vaha ulTA hI karatA hai| karU~gA, jAie jo karanA hai kro|' ulTA vaha jyAdA bigar3atA hai| bacce apanI AbarU miTTI meM milA dete haiN| ye bhAratIyoM ko jInA bhI nahIM AyA ! bApa honA nahIM AyA aura bApa bana baiThe haiN| isalie aise-vaise mujhe samajhAnA

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra par3atA hai, pustakeM prakAzita karanI par3atI haiN| varnA jisane apanA jJAna liyA hai, ve to baccoM ko bahuta acchA banA sakate haiN| use biThAkara, hAtha pherakara pUcho ki 'beTA, tujhe, yaha bhUla huI, aisA nahIM lagatA!' yaha inDiyana philaoNsaoNphI (bhAratIya tAtvika samajha) kaisI hotI hai? mAtA-pitA meM se eka DA~Tane lage taba dUsarA, bacce kA bacAva karatA hai / isalie vaha kucha sudhara rahA ho, to sudharanA to eka ora rahA, upara se lar3akA samajhatA hai ki 'mammI acchI hai aura pApA bure hai, bar3A hoU~gA taba unheM maaruuNgaa|' baccoM ko sudhAranA ho to hamArI AjJAnusAra clo| baccoM ke pUchane para hI bolanA aura unheM yaha bhI kaha denA ki mujhe nahIM pUcho to acchaa| baccoM ke saMbaMdha meM ulTA vicAra Aye to turanta usakA pratikramaNa kara ddaalnaa| kisI ko sudhArane kI zakti isa kAla meM qhatama ho gaI hai| isalie sudhArane kI AzA chor3a do| kyoMki mana-vacana-karma kI ekAtmavRti ho, tabhI sAmanevAlA sudhara sakatA hai| mana meM jaisA ho, vaisA vANI meM nikale aura vaisA hI vartana ho, tabhI sAmanevAlA sudhregaa| isa kAla meM aisA nahIM hai| ghara meM pratyeka ke sAtha kaise vyavahAra ho, usakI 'normAliTI' (samAnatA) lA do| AcAra, vicAra aura uccAra meM sIdhA parivartana ho to khuda paramAtmA ho sakatA hai aura ulTA parivartana ho to rAkSasa bhI ho sakatA hai| loga sAmanevAle ko sudhArane ke lie saba phrekcara kara DAlate haiN| pahale khuda sudhare to hI dUsaroM ko sudhAra sakatA hai| para khuda ke sudhare bagaira sAmanevAlA kaise sudharegA ? hameM baccoM ke lie bhAva karate rahanA hai ki baccoM kI buddhi sIdhI ho| aisA karate karate bahuta dino ke bAda, asara hue binA nahIM rahatA / ve to dhIme-dhIme samajheMge, tuma bhAvanA karate rho| una para jabaradastI karoge to ulTe cleNge| tAtparya yaha ki saMsAra jaise-taise nibhA lene jaisA hai| mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra lar3akA zarAba pIkara Aye aura tumheM duHkha de, taba tuma mujhe kaho ki yaha lar3akA mujhe bahuta duHkha detA hai to maiM kahU~ ki galatI tumhArI hai, isalie zAMti se cupacApa bhugata lo, binA bhAva bigaadd'e| yaha bhagavA mahAvIra kA niyama hai aura saMsAra kA niyama to alaga hai| saMsAra ke loga kaheMge ki 'lar3ake kI bhUla hai|' aisA kahanevAle tumheM A mileMge aura tuma bhI akar3a jAoge ki 'lar3ake kI hI bhUla hai, yaha merI samajha sahI hai|' bar3e Aye samajhavAle! bhagavAna kahate haiM, 'terI bhUla hai|' 18 tuma phrenDazipa (mitratA) karoge to bacce sudhreNge| ApakI phrenDazipa hogI to bacce sudhreNge| lekina mAtA-pitA kI taraha rahoge, rauba jamAne jAoge, to jokhima hai| phrenDa (mitra) kI taraha rahanA caahie| ve bAhara phrenDa khojane na jAe isa prakAra rahanA caahie| agara Apa phrenDa haiM, to usake sAtha khelanA cAhie, phrenDa jaisA saba karanA cAhie! tere Ane ke bAda hama cAya piyeMge, aisA kahanA caahie| hama saba sAtha milakara cAya piyeNge| tumhArA mitra ho isa prakAra vyavahAra karanA cAhie taba bacce tumhAre rheNge| nahIM to bacce tumhAre nahIM hoMge, sacamuca koI baccA kisI kA hotA hI nhiiN| koI AdamI mara gayA, usake pIche usakA lar3akA maratA hai kabhI? saba ghara Akara khAte-pIte haiN| ye bacce bacce nahIM haiM, ye to kevala kudarata ke niyamAnusAra (saMbaMdha ke taura para) dikhAI dete haiM itanA hii| 'yora phrenDa' (tumhArA mitra) ke taura para rahanA caahie| tuma pahale taya karo to phrenDa ke taura para raha sakate ho| jaise phrenDa ko burA lage aisA nahIM bolate, vaha ulTA kara rahA ho to hama use kahA~ taka samajhAte haiM ki vaha mAna jAe taba taka aura na mAne to phira use kahate haiM ki 'jaisI terI marajI / ' phrenDa hone ke lie mana meM pahale kyA socanA cAhie? bAhya vyavahAra meM maiM usakA pitA hU~, paraMtu aMdara se mana meM hameM mAnanA cAhie ki maiM usakA lar3akA huuN| tabhI phrenDazipa hogI, nahIM to nahIM hogii| pitA mitra kaise hogA? usake levala (stara) taka Ane para usa levala taka kisa prakAra Ae~ ? vaha mana meM aisA samajhe ki 'maiM isakA putra huuN|' yadi aisA kahe to kAma nikala jaae| kucha loga kahate haiM aura kAma ho bhI jAtA hai|

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra praznakartA: Apane kahA ki solaha sAla kI umra ke bAda bacce kA phrenDa honA, to kyA solaha sAla pahale bhI usake sAtha phrenDazipa hI rakhanI cAhie? dAdAzrI : taba to bahuta acchaa| lekina dasa-gyAraha sAla kI umra taka hama phrenDazipa nahIM rakha skte| taba taka usase bhUlacUka hotI hai| isalie use samajhAnA caahie| ekAdha capata bhI lagAnI par3atI hai, dasagyAraha sAla tk| vaha bApa kI mUMcha khIMca rahA ho to capata bhI lagAnI par3atI hai| bApa banane gae the na, ve to mAra khAkara mara ge| pratyeka manuSya ke dvArA apane baccoM ko sudhArane ke sabhI prayatna hone caahie| lekina prayatna saphala hone caahie| bApa huA aura bacce ko sudhArane ke lie vaha bApapanA chor3a sakatA hai? 'mai pitA hU~' kyA yaha chor3a detA hai? praznakartA : agara vaha sudharatA hai to aham bhAva, dveSa, saba chor3akara use sudhArane ke prayatna karane cAhie? dAdAzrI : tumheM bApa hone kA bhAva chor3a denA hogaa| praznakartA : 'yaha merA putra hai' aisA nahIM mAneM aura 'maiM bApa hU~' aisA nahIM mAneM? dAdAzrI : to usake jaisA to aura kucha bhI nhiiN| merA svabhAva prema bharA isalie aise do-cAra loga the, ve mujhe prema se 'dAdA' kahate the| aura anya sabhI to 'dAdA kaba se Aye ho?' aisA Upara-Upara se puuchte| maiM kahU~ ki parasoM aayaa| usake bAda kucha bhI nahIM, dikhAvaTI salAma! lekina ve to 'regyulara' (niyama se) salAma karate the| maiMne khoja nikAlA ki ve mujhe 'dAdA' kaheM taba maiM mana se unheM 'dAdA' maanuuN| ve mujhe jaba 'dAdA' kaheM taba maiM mana se unheM 'dAdA' kahU~ arthAt plasamAinasa karatA rahU~, bheda ur3AtA rhuuN| maiM unheM mana se dAdA kahatA isalie merA mana bahuta acchA rahane lagA, halakA hone lgaa| vaise vaise unheM 'aTrekzana' (lagAva) z2yAdA hone lgaa| mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra ___maiM unheM mana se 'dAdA' mAnatA isalie unake mana ko merI bAta pahu~catI na! unheM lage ki 'ahoho! unheM mujha para kitanA bhAva hai!' yaha gaura se samajhane yogya bAta hai| aisI sUkSma bAta kabhI hI nikalatI hai, to yaha Apako batA detA huuN| yadi tumheM aisA karanA Ae to kalyANa ho jAe aisA hai| phira kyA kiyA? aisA vyavahAra hamezA calatA isalie unake mana meM aisA hI lagatA ki dAdA jaisA koI aura nahIM milegaa| praznakartA : bApa aisA socatA hai ki lar3akA eDajasTa (anukUla) kyoM nahIM hotA? dAdAzrI: yaha to usakA bApapanA hai islie| bhAna hI nahIM hai| bApapanA yAnI bebhaan-pnaa| jahA~ 'panA' zabda AyA vahA~ behozI hai| praznakartA : yaha to ulTA bApa kahatA hai ki 'maiM terA bApa hU~, tU merA kahA nahIM mAnatA? merA mAna nahIM rakhatA?' dAdAzrI : 'tujhe mAlUma nahIM, maiM terA bApa lagatA hU~?' eka AdamI ko to maiMne aisA kahate sunA thaa| ye to kisa taraha ke ghanacakkara paidA hue haiM? aisA bhI kahanA par3atA hai? jo bAta sArA saMsAra jAnatA hai, vaha bAta bhI kahanI par3atI hai? praznakartA : dAdA, usake Age kA DAyaloga (saMvAda) bhI maiMne sunA hai ki tumheM kisa ne kahA thA ki hameM paidA karo! dAdAzrI : aisA kaheM taba hamArI AbarU kyA raha gaI phira? 6. prema se sudhAro nanhe munnoM ko praznakartA : unakI bhUla hotI ho to TokanA to par3egA na? dAdAzrI : taba hameM unase aisA pUchanA cAhie ki yaha saba tuma jo karate ho, vaha tumheM ThIka lagatA hai? tumane yaha saba soca-samajha kara kiyA hai? taba yadi vaha kahe ki mujhe ThIka nahIM lgtaa| to hama kaheM ki beTA to phira hameM vyartha kyoM aisA karanA cAhie? aisA soca-vicAra kara kaho

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22 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra jaise aMgAre ke lie hama kyA karate haiM? cimaTe se pakar3ate haiM na? cimaTA rakhate ho na? aba yoM hI hAtha se aMgAre pakar3eM to kyA hogA? praznakartA : jala jaaeNge| dAdAzrI : isalie cimaTA rakhanA par3atA hai| praznakartA : taba kisa prakAra kA cimaTA rakhanA cAhie? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra na! sabhI samajhate haiN| sabhI khuda hI nyAya karanevAle hote haiM, galata ho rahA ho to khuda samajhatA to hai hI! 'tUne aisA kyoM kiyA?' aisA kaheM to ulTA pakar3atA haiN| maiM karatA hU~ vahI sahI hai|' aisA kahatA hai aura ulTA karatA hai phir| kaise ghara calAnA vaha nahIM aataa| jIvana kaise jInA yaha nahIM aataa| isalie jIvana jIne ke sabhI gara yahA~ batAye haiM ki kisa prakAra jIvana jInA cAhie! sAmanevAle kA ahaMkAra khar3A hI nA ho| hamArI sattApUrNa AvAja nahIM ho| arthAt sattA nahIM honI caahie| baccoM se tuma kucha kaho to AvAz2a sattApUrNa nahIM honI caahie| praznakartA : saMsAra meM rahate haiM to kitanI hI jimmedAriyA~ nibhAnI par3atI haiM, aura jimmedAriyA~ nibhAnA eka dharma hai| yaha dharma nibhAte hue kAraNa-akAraNa kaTu vacana bolane par3eM to yaha pApa yA doSa hai? dAdAzrI : aisA hai na, kaTu vacana bolate samaya hamArA mu~ha kaisA ho jAtA hai? gulAba ke phUla jaisA? apanA mu~ha bigar3e to samajhanA ki pApa lgaa| apanA ceharA bigar3e aisI vANI nikale taba samajhanA ki pApa huaa| kaTu vacana mata bolnaa| thor3e zabda kaho para AhistA se samajhakara kho| prema rakho to eka dina jIta skoge| kaDuvAhaTa se nahIM jIta skoge| ulTA vaha viruddha jAegA aura pariNAma viparIta hogaa| vaha lar3akA ulTe pariNAma ke bIja DAlatA hai| 'abhI to maiM choTA hU~, isalie DA~Tate ho lekina bar3A hokara dekha luuNgaa|' aisA abhiprAya andara banA legaa| isalie aisA mata karo, use smjhaao| eka dina prema kI jIta hogii| do dina meM hI usakA pariNAma nahIM aayegaa| dasa dina, paMdraha dina, mahInA bhara usake sAtha prema rakhate rho| dekho, isa prema kA kyA natIjA AtA hai, yaha to dekho! praznakartA : hama aneka bAra samajhAyeM para vaha nA samajhe to kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : samajhAne kI jarUrata hI nhiiN| prema rakho, phira bhI dhIraja se Apa use smjhaao| apane par3ausI ko bhI hama aise kaTu vacana bolate haiM kabhI? dAdAzrI : apane ghara kA eka AdamI cimaTe jaisA hai, vaha khuda jalatA nahIM aura sAmanevAle ko, jalate hae ko pakaDatA hai. hameM use bulAkara kahanA cAhie ki 'bhaiyA, maiM jaba isake sAtha bAta karU~ taba tU sAtha denaa|' isake bAda vaha saba ThIka kara degaa| kucha rAstA nikAlanA caahie| khAlI hAtha aMgAre pakar3ane jAe~ to kyA hAlata hogI? apane kahane kA pariNAma na AtA ho to hameM cupa ho jAnA caahie| hama mUrkha haiM, hameM bolanA nahIM AtA, isalie cupa ho jAnA caahie| apane kahane kA pariNAma na ho aura ulTA apanA mana bigar3e, AtmA bigar3e aisA kauna karegA? praznakartA : mAtA-pitA apane baccoM ke prati jo lagAva rakhate haiM. usameM kaI bAra lagatA hai ki kucha jyAdA hI hotA hai| dAdAzrI : vaha saba imozanala (bhAvuka) hai| kama dikhAnevAlA bhI imozanala hai| normala (sAmAnya) honA caahie| normala yAnI sirpha dikhAvA, 'DrAmeTika' (naattkiy)| 'DrAmA' (nATaka) meM, kisI aurata ke sAtha DrAmA karanA par3e, to vaha vAstavika, ekjekTa ho aisA logoM ko lagatA haiM, ki 'riala' (saca) hai| lekina kalAkAra bAhara nikala kara kaheM ki 'cala mere sAtha to?' vaha sAtha meM nahIM jAtI, kahegI ki yaha to DrAme taka thaa| samajha meM AyA na? isa saMsAra ko sudhArane kA rAstA hI prema hai| saMsAra jise prema kahatA hai vaha prema nahIM, vaha to Asakti hai| isa baccI se prema karate ho, lekina

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 23 vaha gilAsa phor3e taba prema rahatA hai? taba to tU cir3hatA hai| isalie vaha Asakti hai| bacce prema khojate haiM, lekina prema milatA nhiiN| isalie phira unakI muzkileM ve hI jAneM, na kaha sakeM, na saha skeN| Aja ke javAnoM ke lie hamAre pAsa rAstA hai| isa jahAja kA sukAna (mastUla) kisa taraha saMbhAlanA, isakA mArgadarzana mujhe bhItara se milatA hai| mere pAsa aisA prema utpanna huA hai ki jo bar3he nahIM aura ghaTe bhI nhiiN| bar3he-ghaTe, vaha Asakti kahalAtI hai| jo bar3he-ghaTe nahI vaha paramAtma-prema hai| sabhI prema ke vaza rahA karate haiN| jise saccA prema kahate haiM na, vaha to dekhane ko bhI nahIM miltaa| prema jagat ne dekhA hI nhiiN| kisI samaya jJAnIpuruSa athavA bhagavAna hoM taba prema dekha pAte haiN| prema kama-jyAdA nahIM hotA, anAsakti hotI hai| vahI prema hai, jJAniyoM kA prema hI paramAtmA hai| choTe baccoM ke sAtha hamArI khUba jamatI hai| mere sAtha phrenDazipa (mitratA) karate haiN| abhI jaba yahA~ andara A rahe the na, taba eka itanAsA baccA thA, vaha lene AyA aura bolA ki 'clie'| yahA~ Ate hI lene aayaa| hamAre sAtha phrenDazipa kii| tuma to lAr3a lar3Ate ho| hama lAr3a nahIM lar3Ate, prema karate haiN| praznakartA : yaha z2arA samajhAie na dAdAjI, lAr3a-lar3AnA aura prema krnaa| kucha udAharaNa dekara smjhaaie| dAdAzrI : are, eka AdamI ne to apane bacce ko chAtI se aisA dabAyA! do sAla se use milA nahIM thA aura uThAkara aise dabAyA! taba baccA bahuta daba gayA to usake pAsa koI cArA nahIM rahA, isalie usane kATa liyaa| yaha to koI tarIkA hai? ina logoM ko to bApa honA bhI nahIM AtA! praznakartA : aura jo premavAlA ho, vaha kyA karatA hai? dAdAzrI : hA~, vaha aise gAla para hAtha pheratA hai, aise kaMdhA thapathapAtA hai| isa prakAra khuza karatA hai| para kyA use aise dabA dene cAhie? phira vaha becArA sA~sa na le pAe taba kATa hI legA na! nahIM kATegA, sA~sa ruke to? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra aura baccoM ko kabhI mAranA mt| koI bhUlacUka ho to samajhAnA z2arUra, dhIre se mAthe para hAtha pherakara unheM samajhAnA j'ruur| prema deM to baccA samajhadAra hotA hai| 7. 'viparItatA aise chUTa jAya' kyA kabhI DriMksa (zarAba) vagairaha lete ho? praznakartA : kbhii-kbhii| jaba ghara meM jhagar3A hotA hai tb| yaha maiM satya kahatA huuN| dAdAzrI : baMda kara denaa| usase paravaza ho gayA! apane ko yaha saba nahIM calatA, hameM yaha saba nahIM caahie| lenA mata ta, chanA bhI mata tuu| dAdA kI AjJA hai, isalie aisI cIjoM ko chanA mt| tabhI terA jIvana acchA vyatIta hogaa| kyoMki aba tujhe usakI z2arUrata nahIM hogii| yaha caraNa vidhi Adi saba par3hegA to tujhe usakI z2arUrata nahIM par3egI aura AnaMda bharapUra rahegA, bahuta AnaMda rhegaa| samajha meM AyA ki nahIM? praznakartA : vyasana se mukta kisa prakAra raheM? dAdAzrI : vyasana se mukta hone ke lie 'vyasana burI cIz2a hai' aisI hameM pratIti honI caahie| yaha pratIti DhIlI nahIM honI caahie| apanA nizcaya hilanA nahIM caahie| aisA ho to manuSya vyasana se dUra rahatA hai| 'isameM koI harja nahIM' aisA kahA to vyasana aura maz2abUta ho jAtA hai| praznakartA : lambe arase taka kisI ne zarAba pI ho athavA 'Dragsa' (nazIle padArtha) lie hoM, to kahate haiM usakA asara usake dimAga para par3atA hai| phira baMda kara deM to bhI usakA asara to rahatA hai| taba una asaroM se mukta hone ke lie Apa kyA kahate haiM? kisa prakAra bAhara nikaleM, usake lie koI rAstA hai? dAdAzrI : bAda meM riekzana AtA hai uskaa| jo sabhI paramANu haiN| ve sabhI zuddha to hone cAhie na ! pInA baMda kara diyA hai na? aba use

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra kyA karanA hai? 'zarAba pInA burA hai aisA hamezA kahate rahanA hai| hA~, chor3ane ke bAda bhI aisA kahate rhnaa| magara 'acchI hai' aisA kabhI mata khnaa| nahIM to phira se asara ho jaaegaa| 25 praznakartA: zarAba pIne se dimAga para kisa prakAra nukasAna hotA hai? dAdAzrI : eka to sudha bhulA detA hai| usa samaya bhItara kI jAgRti para AvaraNa A jAtA hai| phira sadA ke lie vaha AvaraNa nahIM jaataa| hameM mana meM aisA lagatA hai ki haTa gayA, magara nahIM htttaa| aisA karate karate AvaraNa Ate Ate phira...... manuSya pUrA jar3a jaisA ho jAtA hai| phira use acche vicAra bhI nahIM aate| jo Devalapa (vikAsazIla ) hue haiM, unakA isameM se bAhara nikalane ke bAda brena (dimAga) bahuta acchA Devalapa hotA hai| use phira se bigAr3anA nahIM caahie| praznakartA: zarAba pIne se dimAga jo Demeja (nukasAna) huA ho, dimAga ke paramANu jo Demeja hue hoM, to vaha Demeja hissA phira se ripeyara (ThIka) kisa prakAra ho? dAdAzrI : usakA koI rAstA hI nhiiN| vaha to samaya ke sAtha dhIre dhIre calA jAyegA / piye bagaira jo TAima vyatIta hogA, vaise-vaise saba nirAvaraNa hotA jaaegaa| ekadama se nahIM hogaa| zarAba aura mAMsAhAra se jo nukasAna hotA hai, zarAba aura mAMsAhAra meM se jo sukha bhogatA hai, vaha sukha 'rIpe' karate (cukAte) vakta pazu yoni meM jAnA par3atA hai| ye jitane bhI sukha tuma lete ho, unheM 'rIpe' karane par3eMge, aisI apanI jimmedArI hameM samajhanI caahie| yaha jagat gappa nahIM hai|' yaha cukatA karanA par3e aisA jagat hai! kevala yaha AMtarika sukha hI 'rIpe' (cukate) nahIM karane par3ate / anya sabhI bAhara ke sukha 'rIpe' karane ke hai| jitanA hameM jamA karanA ho vo karanA aura phira vApasa denA par3egA ! praznakartA: agale janma meM jAnavara hokara 'rIpe' karanA par3egA, vaha to ThIka, lekina isa janma meM kyA hogA? isa janma meM kyA pariNAma haiM? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra dAdAzrI : isa janma meM use khuda ko AvaraNa A jAte haiM, isalie jar3a jaisA, jAnavara jaisA hI ho jAtA hai| logoM meM 'presTija' (ijjata) nahIM rahatI, logoM meM sammAna nahIM rahatA, kucha bhI nahIM rahatA / 26 aNDe hoM aura bacce hoM, donoM eka hI haiN| kisI kA aNDA khAnA aura kisI kA baccA khAnA usameM pharka nahIM hai| tujhe bacce khAnA pasaMda hai kyA? tujhe kisI ke bacce khA jAnA pasaMda hai ? praznakartA: aNDoM meM bhI zAkAhArI aNDe hote haiM aisI logoM kI mAnyatA hotI hai| dAdAzrI : nahIM, vaha to galata mAnyatA hai| jina aNDoM ko nirjIva aNDe kahate haiM, ve binA jIva kI cIz2a hai| jisameM jIva na ho, vaha cIz2a nahIM khA skte| praznakartA : yaha bAta kucha alaga lagatI hai| kRpayA vistAra se samajhAiye | dAdAzrI : alaga hai lekina bAta 'ekz2ekTa' (yathArtha) hai| yaha to 'sAyanTisToM' (vaijJAnikoM) ne bhI kahA thA ki nitAMta nirjIva cIz2a nahIM khAI jA sakatI aura jIvita hI khAI jAtI hai| usameM jIva to hai, magara bhinna prakAra kA jIva / yaha to logoM ne galata lAbha uThAyA hai| use to chUnA bhI nahIM cAhie aura lar3akoM ko aNDe khilAne se kyA hotA hai? zarIra itanA Avezamaya ho jAtA hai ki kaMTrola meM nahIM rhtaa| apanA 'vejITeriyana phUDa' (zAkAhArI bhojana) to bahuta acchA hotA hai, kaccA bhale ho| DaoNkTaroM kA isameM doSa nahIM hotaa| ve to unakI samajha aura buddhi ke anusAra kahate haiN| hameM apane saMskAra kI rakSA karanI hai na hama saMskArI gharoM ke loga haiN| praznakartA: amarIkA meM dAdA ne kaI lar3akoM ko ekadama 'Tarna' (badala) kara diyA hai| dAdAzrI : hA~, unake mAtA-pitA zikAyata lekara Aye the ki hamAre

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra lar3ake bigar3ate jA rahe haiM, unakA kyA kareM? maiMne kahA, 'tuma kaba sudhare the ki lar3ake bigar3a gae ! tuma mAMsAhAra karate ho?' taba bole, 'hA~, kabhI kbhii|'' zarAba pIne kA?' to bole, 'hA~, kabhI kbhii|'| isalie ye lar3ake samajhate haiM ki hamAre pitAjI kara rahe haiM isalie yaha karane jaisI cIja hai| hitakara ho vahI hamAre pitAjI karate haiM na? yaha saba tumheM zobhA nahIM detaa| phira una lar3akoM se mAMsAhAra chur3avA diyaa| una lar3akoM se kahA ki 'kyA yaha AlU tU kATa sakatA hai? kyA yaha papItA tU kATa sakatA hai? kyA ye 'eppala' (seba) kATa sakatA hai? ye saba kATa sakatA hai ?" 'hA~, saba kATa sakatA huuN|' maiMne kahA, 'kaddU itanA bar3A ho to?' 'are ! use bhI kATa sakatA huuN|' "kakar3I itanI bar3I ho to use bhI kATa sakatA huuN|'' usa vakta 'hArTa' (hRdaya) para asara hogA?' taba bolA, 'nhiiN|' phira maiMne pUchA, 'bakarI kATa sakatA hai?' taba bolA, 'nhiiN|' 'murgI kATa sakatA hai?' taba bolA, 'nahIM, mujhase nahIM kttegii|' isalie jo terA hArTa kATane ko 'eksepTa' (svIkAra) kare, utanI hI cIjeM tU khAnA terA hArTa eksepTa na karatA ho, hArTa ko pasaMda na ho, ruce nahIM ve cIz2e mata khAnA nahIM to unakA pariNAma viparIta hogA aura ve paramANu tujhe hArTa para asara kreNge| pariNAma svarUpa, lar3ake saba acchI taraha samajha gae aura chor3a diyaa| 27 (prasiddha lekhaka) 'barnADa zaoN' se kisI ne pUchA, 'Apa mA~sAhAra kyoM nahIM karate?' taba bole, 'merA zarIra kabristAna nahIM hai, yaha murgImurgoM kA kabristAna nahIM hai|' lekina usakA kyA phAyadA? taba unhoMne kahA, 'AI vaoNnTa Tu bI e sivilAijDa mena' (maiM susaMskRta insAna honA cAhatA huuN)| phira bhI kahate haiM, kSatriyoM ko yaha adhikAra hai, lekina usameM kSatriyatA ho to adhikAra hai| praznakartA: ina choTe baccoM ko magadale (eka prakAra kI adhika ghI vAlI miThAI) khilAyA karate hai, vaha khilA sakate haiM? dAdAzrI : nahIM khilA sakate, magadala nahIM khilA skte| choTe baccoM ko magadala, goMdapAka, pakavAna z2yAdA mata khilaanaa| unheM sAdA bhojana denA mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 28 aura dUdha bhI kama denA caahie| baccoM ko yaha saba nahIM denA caahie| hamAre loga to dUdha se banI cIjeM bAra-bAra khilAte rahate haiN| aisI cIjeM mata khilaanaa| Avega bar3hegA aura bAraha sAla kA hote hI usakI dRSTi bigdd'egii| Avega kama ho aisA bhojana baccoM ko denA caahie| yaha saba to vicAra meM hI nhiiN| jIvana kaise jInA, isakI samajhadArI hI nahIM hai na! praznakartA: hameM kucha kahanA na ho, lekina mAna lIjie ki hamArA lar3akA corI karatA ho to kyA corI karane deM? dAdAzrI : dikhAve ke lie virodha karo, para aMdara samabhAva rakho / bAhara dekhane meM virodha aura vaha corI kare usa para nirdayatA jarA bhI nahIM hone denI caahie| yadi andara samabhAva TUTa jAegA to nirdayatA hogI aura sArA jaga nirdaya ho jAtA hai| use samajhAo ki 'jisake vahA~ corI kI, usakA pratikramaNa aise karanA aura pratikramaNa kitane kie yaha mujhe batAnA / taba phira ThIka ho jaae| bAda meM tU corI nahIM karane kI pratijJA kara dubArA corI nahIM karU~gA aura jo ho gaI usakI kSamA cAhatA huuN|' aise bAra-bAra samajhAne se yaha jJAna phiTa ho jAtA hai| isalie agale janma meM phira corI nahIM hogI / yaha to sirpha iphekTa (pariNAma) hai, dUsarA nayA hama na sikhAyeM to phira nayA khar3A nahIM hogaa| yaha lar3akA hamAre pAsa saba bhUleM kabUla karatA hai| corI kare vaha bhI kabUla kara letA hai / AlocanA to gaz2aba kA puruSa ho vahIM ho sakatI hai| agara aisA saba hogA to hindustAna kA Azcaryajanaka parivartana ho jAegA! 8. nayI janarezana, heldI mAInDavAlI dAdAzrI : ravivAra ke dina najadIka meM satsaMga hotA hai, to kyoM nahIM Ate? praznakartA: ravivAra ke dina TI.vI. dekhane kA hotA hai na, dAdAjI !

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 29 dAdAzrI : TI.vI. aura tumhArA kyA saMbaMdha? yaha cazmA A gayA hai phira bhI TI.vI. dekhate ho? hamArA deza aisA hai ki TI.vI. dekhanA na par3e, nATaka dekhanA na par3e, vo saba yahIM kA yahIM rAstoM para hotA rahatA hai na! praznakartA: usa rAste para pahu~ceMge taba banda hogA na? dAdAzrI : kRSNa bhagavAna ne gItA meM kahA hai ki manuSya vyartha samaya bigAr3a rahe haiN| kamAne ke lie naukarI para jAnA anartha nahIM khlaataa| jaba taka vaha dRSTi nahIM milatI taba taka yaha dRSTi nahIM chUTatI / loga bhI jAnavara kI taraha badana para badabUvAlA kIcar3a kaba malate haiM? unheM jalana ho tb| ye TI.vI., sinemA, saba badabUvAle kIcar3a jaise haiN| usameM se kucha sAratatva nahIM nikltaa| hameM TI.vI. kA koI virodha nahIM haiN| pratyeka cIz2a dekhane kI chUTa hotI hai para eka ora pA~ca bajakara dasa miniTa ko TI.vI. kA kAryakrama ho aura dUsarI ora pA~ca bajakara dasa minaTa para satsaMga ho, to kyA pasaMda karoge? gyAraha baje parIkSA ho aura gyAraha baje bhojana karanA ho to kyA karoge? aisI samajha honI caahie| praznakartA: rAta dera taka TI.vI. dekhA karate haiM, isalie phira sote hI nahIM na? dAdAzrI : lekina TI.vI. to tuma kharIda lAe taba dekhate haiM na? tumane hI ina saba baccoM ko bigAr3A hai| ina mAtA-pitA ne hI baccoM ko bigAr3A hai, Upara se TI.vI. lAye ghara meM! pahale hI kyA kama musIbata thI, jo eka aura bar3hAI ? nayI penTa pahana kara bAra-bAra zIzA dekhate haiN| are, AinA kyA dekha rahA hai? yaha kisakI naqala karate ho, yaha to samajho! adhyAtmavAloM kI naqala kI yA bhautikavAloM kI naqala kI? jo bhautikavAloM kI naqala karanI ho to ve AphrIkAvAle haiM, unakI naqala kyoM nahIM karate? lekina yaha to sAhaba jaise lagate haiM, isalie naqala karanI zurU kii| para tujha meM yogyatA to nahIM hai| kAhe kA sAhaba banane phiratA hai? para sAhaba mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 30 hone ke lie aise zIze meM dekhatA hai, bAla sa~vAratA hai aura samajhatA hai ki aba 'oNlarAiTa' ho gayA hai| Upara se patalUna pahanakara pIche aise thapathapAtA phiratA hai| are, kyoM binA vajaha thapathapAtA hai? koI dekhanevAlA nahIM hai, saba apane-apane kAma meM lage haiM! saba apanI-apanI ciMtA meM par3e haiM! tujhe dekhane kI phurasata kise hai? saba apanI-apanI jhaMjhaTa meM par3e haiN| lekina apane Apako na jAne kyA samajha baiThe haiM ? purAnI pIr3hI vAle bacce ke sAtha agara jhikajhika karate hoM to maiM unase pUchUM ki Apa choTe the taba Apake bApa bhI Apako kucha kahate the ? taba kahate haiM ki, ve bhI jhikajhika karate the| unake bApa se pUcheM ki Apa choTe the taba ? taba kaheMge hamAre bApa bhI jhikajhika karate the| isalie yaha 'Age se calI AI hai|' lar3akA purAnI bAteM svIkAra karane ko taiyAra nhiiN| isalie ye parezAniyA~ khar3I huI haiN| maiM mA-bApa ko maoNDarna (Adhunika) hone ko kahatA hU~ to ve hote nhiiN| aura kaise hoM ? maoNDarna honA koI AsAna bAta nahIM hai| hamArA deza yUjalesa (nikammA) ho gayA hai! kucha jAtiyoM kA bahuta tiraskAra karate haiN| eka-dUsare ke sAtha nahIM baiThate, bhedabhAva rakhate haiN| Upara hAtha rakhakara prasAda detA hai! lekina yaha naI pIr3hI haildI mAInDavAlI hai, bahuta acchI hai! baccoM ke lie acchI bhAvanA karate rho| sabhI acche saMyoga A mileNge| nahIM to ina baccoM meM koI sudhAra honevAlA nhiiN| bacce sudhareMge para apane Apa kudarata sudhaaregii| bacce acche se acche haiN| kisI kAla meM nahIM the aise bacce haiM Aja ! ina baccoM meM aise kauna se guNa hoMge ki maiM aisA kahatA hU~ ki kisI kAla meM nahIM the aise guNa ina baccoM meM haiM! becAroM meM kisI prakAra kA

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra tiraskAra nahIM hai, kucha bhI nahIM hai| kevala mohI haiN| usI kAraNa sinemA meM aura dUsarI jagaha bhaTakA karate haiN| pahale to itanA tiraskAra ki brAhmaNa kA laDakA dUsaroM ko chue taka nhiiN| kyA aba hai aisI mAthApaccI? praznakartA : aisA kucha nhiiN| jarA-sA bhI nhiiN| dAdAzrI: saba mAla zuddha ho gayA aura lobha bhI nahIM hai. mAna kI bhI paravAha nhiiN| aba taka to saba azuddha mAla thA, mAnI-krodhI-lobhI! aura ye to mohI becAre haiM! praznakartA : Apa kahate haiM ki vartamAna janarezana 'haildI mAinDavAlI' hai aura dUsarI ora dekheM to saba vyasanI ho gaye haiM, aura na jAne kyA kyA haiM? dAdAzrI : bhale ve vyasanI dikhate hoM para una becAroM ko rAstA nA mile to kyA kareM? unake mAInDa haildI haiN| praznakartA : haildI mAInDa yAnI kyA? dAdAzrI : haildI mAInDa yAnI merI-terI kI bahuta paravAha nahIM karate aura hama to choTe the taba, bAhara kisI kA kucha par3A ho, kucha dekheM to le lene kI icchA hotI thii| kisI ke vahA~ bhojana karane gae hoM to ghara meM khAte hoM usase thor3A jyAdA khA lete the| choTe baccoM se lekara buDDhoM taka saba mamatAvAle hote the| are! ye 'Dabala beDa' kA sisTama hindustAna meM hotA hogA? kisa prakAra ke jAnavara jaise loga haiM? hindustAna ke strI-puruSa kabhI sAtha meM eka rUma (kamare) meM nahIM hote! hamezA alaga rUma meM rahate the! isake badale Aja yaha dekho to sahI! vartamAna meM to bApa hI beDarUma banA detA hai, 'Dabala beDa' kharIdakara! isase bacce samajha gae ki yaha duniyA isI prakAra calatI hai shaayd| tumheM mAlUma hai ki pahale strI-puruSoM ke bistara alaga rUmoM meM rahate the| tumheM mAlUma nahIM? vaha saba maiMne dekhA thaa| Apane apane z2amAne meM Dabala beDa dekhe the? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 9. mAtA-pitA kI zikAyateM eka bhAI mujhase kahatA hai, merA bhatIjA hara roz2a nau baje uThatA hai| ghara meM koI kAma nahIM krtaa| phira ghara ke sabhI sadasyoM se pUchA ki yaha jaldI nahIM uThatA yaha bAta Apa sabako pasaMda nahIM kyA? taba sabhI ne kahA, 'hameM pasaMda nahIM, phira bhI vaha jaldI uThatA hI nhiiN|' maiMne pUchA, 'sUryanArAyaNa Ane ke bAda uThatA hai ki nahIM uThatA?' taba kahA, 'usake bAda bhI eka ghaNTe ke pazcAt uThatA hai|' isa para maiMne kahA ki 'sUryanArAyaNa kI bhI maryAdA nahIM rakhatA, taba to vaha bahuta bar3A AdamI hogA! nahIM to loga sUryanArAyaNa ke Ane se pahale khuda jAga jAte haiM, lekina yaha to sUryanArAyaNa kI bhI paravAha nahIM krtaa|' phira una logoM ne kahA, Apa use thor3A ddaaNtto| maiMne kahA, 'hama DA~Ta nahIM skte| hama DA~Tane nahIM Aye, hama samajhAne Aye hai| hamArA DA~Tane kA vyApAra hI nahIM haiM, hamArA to samajhAne kA vyApAra hai|' phira usa lar3ake se kahA, 'darzana kara le aura roz2a bolanA ki dAdA mujhe jaldI uThane kI zakti do|' itanA usase karAne ke bAda ghara ke sabhI logoM se kahA, aba vaha cAya ke samaya para bhI uThe nahIM to usase pUchanA ki, 'bhaI, ye or3hA dU~ tujhe? jAr3e kI ThaMDa hai, or3hanA ho to or3hA duuN|' isa prakAra majAka meM nahIM, para sahI meM use or3hA denaa| ghara ke logoM ne aisA kiyaa| pariNAma svarUpa kevala chaha mahine meM vaha lar3akA itanA jaldI uThane lagA, ki ghara ke sabhI logoM kI zikAyata calI gii| praznakartA : Aja ke lar3ake par3hane ke bajAya khelane meM jyAdA ruci rakhate haiM, unheM par3hAI kI ora le jAne ke lie unase kaise kAma liyA jAe, jisase lar3akoM ke prati kleza utpanna na ho? dAdAzrI : inAmI yojanA nikAlie na! lar3akoM se kaho ki pahalA naMbara AyegA use itanA inAma dUMgA aura chaThA naMbara AyegA, use itanA inAma aura uttIrNa hogA use itanA inaam| kucha unakA utsAha bar3he aisA kro| use turanta phAyadA ho aisA kucha dikhAo, taba vaha cunautI sviikaaregaa| dUsarA kyA rAstA karane kA? varnA una para prema rkho| prema ho

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 33 to lar3ake saba kucha mAnate haiN| merA kahA saba laDake mAnate haiN| maiM jo kahU~ vaha karane ke lie taiyAra haiM, yAnI hameM unheM samajhAte rahanA caahie| phira jo kare vaha shii| praznakartA : mUla samasyA yaha hai ki par3hane ke lie laDakoM ko hama kaI taraha se samajhAte haiM lekina hamAre kahane para bhI ve loga samajhate nahIM, hamArI sunate nhiiN| dAdAzrI : aisA nahIM ki ve nahIM sunate, para tumheM mA~ honA nahIM AyA islie| agara mA~ honA AtA to kyoM nahIM sunate? kyoM beTA nahIM mAnatA? kyoMki 'apane mAtA-pitA kA kahA khuda usane kabhI mAnA hI nahIM thA na!' praznakartA : dAdA, usameM vAtAvaraNa kA doSa hai ki nahIM? dAdAzrI : nahIM, vAtAvaraNa kA doSa nahIM hai| mAtA-pitA ko sahI mAno meM mAtA-pitA honA AyA hI nhiiN| mAtA-pitA kI sabase bar3I jimmedArI hai| pradhAnamaMtrI honA bhI usase kama jimmedArI hai| praznakartA : vaha kaise? dAdAzrI : pradhAnamaMtrI hone meM to logoM kA oNparezana hai| yahA~ to apane laDake kA hI oNparezana honA hai| ghara meM dAkhila hoM to bacce khuza ho jAe~ aisA honA cAhie aura Ajakala to bacce kyA kahate haiM? 'hamAre pitAjI ghara meM na AyeM to acchaa|' are, aisA ho taba phira kyA ho? isalie hama logoM se kahate haiM, 'bhaiyA, baccoM ko solaha sAla ke hone bAda 'phrenDa' (mitra) ke rUpa meM svIkAra lenA'. aisA nahIM kahA? 'phrenDalI Tona' (maitrIpUrNa vyavahAra) meM ho na, to apanI vANI acchI nikale, varnA hara roz2a bApa banane jAe~ to koI sAra nahIM nikltaa| lar3akA cAlIsa sAla kA huA ho aura hama bApapanA dikhAe~ to kyA ho? praznakartA : lekina dAdA, buDDhe loga bhI hamAre sAtha aisA vyavahAra kareM, unake vicAra purAne ho gae hoM, to hameM unheM kaise hainDala karanA cAhie? 34 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra dAdAzrI : yaha gAr3I aina vakta para, jaba jaldI meM ho taba. paMkcara ho jAe, to kyA hama usake 'vhIla' (pahiyA) ko mArate haiM? praznakartA : nhiiN| dAdAzrI : aina vakta para, jaldI ho aura TAyara paMkcara ho gayA to vhIla ko mAranA cAhie? taba to phaTAphaTa sambhAlakara apanA kAma kara lenA caahie| gAr3I meM paMkcara to hotA hI rahatA hai| vaise buDDhe logoM ko paMkcara hotA hI hai| hameM sambhAla lenA caahie| paMkcara ho to gAr3I ko mArapITa kara sakate haiM? praznakartA : do beTe Apasa meM lar3a rahe hoM, hama jAnate haiM ki donoM meM se koI samajhanevAlA nahIM, to taba hameM kyA karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : eka bAra donoM ko biThAkara bola denA ki Apasa meM jhagar3ane meM phAyadA nahIM, usase lakSmI calI jAtI hai| praznakartA : lekina ve mAnane ko taiyAra na hoM to kyA kareM, dAdAjI? dAdAzrI : jaisA hai vaisA rahane do| praznakartA : lar3ake Apasa meM lar3eM aura vaha mAmalA bar3A svarUpa le le, to hama kahate haiM ki yaha aisA kaise ho gayA? dAdAzrI : unheM bodha hone do na, Apasa meM lar3ane para unheM khuda mAlUma hogA, samajha AyegI na? aise bAra-bAra rokate rahane para bodha nahIM hogaa| jagat to kevala nirIkSaNa karane yogya hai! ye saMtAne kisI kI hotI hI nahIM, yaha to sira para A par3I jaMjAla hai! isalie inakI madada z2arUra karanA para andara se DrAmeTika rhnaa| pahale zikAyata karane kauna AtA hai? kaliyuga meM to jo gunahagAra ho, vahI pahale zikAyata lekara AtA hai aura satyuga meM jo nirdoSa ho vaha pahale zikAyata lekara AtA hai| isa kaliyuga meM nyAya karanevAle bhI aise ki jisakA pahale sune usake pakSa meM baiTha jAte haiN|

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra ghara meM cAra saMtAneM hoM, unameM do baccoM kI kucha bhUla nA ho to bhI bApa unheM DA~TatA rahatA hai aura dUsare do bhUla karate raheM to bhI koI unheM kucha nahIM khtaa| usake pIche jo rUTa koz2a (mUla kAraNa) hai, usIke kAraNa hai| apane ghara meM do saMtAneM hoM, to donoM samAna laganI caahie| yadi hama kisI ke pakSa meM hoM ki 'yaha bar3A dayAlu hai aura nanhA kaccA par3a jAtA hai|' to saba bigar3a jAtA hai| donoM samAna lagane caahie| praznakartA : beTA bAta bAta meM jaldI rUTha jAtA hai| dAdAzrI : maha~gA bahuta hai na! bahuta maha~gA, phira kyA ho? beTI sastI hai, isalie becArI rUThatI nhiiN| praznakartA : ye rUThanA kyoM hotA hogA, dAdAjI? dAdAzrI : yaha to manAne jAte haiM na, isalie rUThate haiN| mere pAsa rUThe to jAnU~! mere sAtha koI nahIM ruutthtaa| phira se bulAU~ hI nahIM na! khAye yA na khAye, phira se nahIM bulaauuN| maiM jAnatA hU~, isase burI Adata ho jAtI hai, jyAdA burI Adata par3atI hai| nahIM, nahIM, beTA khAnA khA le, beTA khAnA khA le, are, bhUkha lagegI to beTA apane Apa khA legA, kahA~ jAnevAlA hai? vaise to mujhe dUsarI kalAe~ bhI AtI haiN| bahuta Ter3hA huA ho to, bhUkhA ho to bhI nahIM khaayegaa| aisA ho taba hama usakI AtmA ke sAtha andara vidhi karate haiM, tumheM aisA nahIM karanA hai| tuma jo karate ho, vahI kro| bAkI mere sAtha nahIM rUThate aura yahA~ mere pAsa rUThakara bhI kyA phAyadA nikAleMge? praznakartA : dAdAjI, vaha kalA sikhA do n| kyoMki yaha rUThanAmanAnA to sabako roz2AnA ho gayA hai| agara aisI ekAdha cAbI de do to saba kA nirAkaraNa ho jaae| dAdAzrI : yaha to hameM bahuta garaz2a ho to vaha aise ruThatA hai| itanI sArI garaz2a kyoM phira? 36 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra praznakartA : isakA matalaba kyA, maiM samajhA nahIM, bahuta garaja ho to rUThate hai? kise garaz2a hotI hai? dAdAzrI : sAmanevAle ko garaz2a ho| taba rUThanevAlA sAmanevAle ko usakI garaz2a ho, to rUThatA hai| praznakartA : arthAt hameM garaz2a hI nahIM dikhAnI? dAdAzrI : garaja honI hI nahIM caahie| kisa lie garaja? karma ke udayAnusAra jo honevAlA ho vaha hogA, phira usakI garaja kyoM rakhanI? aura phira karma kA udaya hI hai| g2araz2a dikhAne para jida para car3hate haiM ultte| praznakartA : choTe baccoM kA gussA dara karane ke lie unheM kaise samajhAe~? dAdAzrI : unakA gussA dUra kara ke kyA phAyadA? praznakartA : hamAre sAtha jhagar3A na kreN| dAdAzrI : usake lie koI dUsarA upAya karane ke bajAya unake mAtA-pitA to isa prakAra rahanA cAhie ki unakA gussA bacce na dekheN| unheM gussA karate dekhakara baccoM ko lagatA hai ki mere pitAjI karate haiM, to maiM unase savA gunA gussA kruuN| agara tuma baMda kara doge, to (unakA) apane Apa hI baMda ho jaaegaa| maiMne baMda kiyA hai, merA gussA baMda ho gayA hai to mere sAtha koI gussA karatA hI nhiiN| maiM kaha~, gassA karo to bhI nahIM krte| bacce bhI nahIM karate, maiM mArU~ taba bhI gussA nahIM krte| ___ praznakartA : baccoM ko sahI mArga para lAne ke lie mAtA-pitA ke pharja to adA karanA cAhie na, isa lie gussA to karanA par3atA hai na? dAdAzrI : gussA kyoM karanA par3e? vaise hI samajhAkara kahane meM kyA harja hai? gussA tuma karate nahI hoM, tuma se ho jAtA hai| kiyA haA gussA, gussA nahIM khlaataa| Apa khuda gussA karate haiM, Apa use dhamakAyeM use gussA nahIM khte| lekina tuma to gussA ho jAte ho|

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra praznakartA : gussA ho jAne kA kAraNa kyA? dAdAzrI : 'viiknes'| yaha 'vIkanesa' (kamajorI) hai! arthAt vaha khuda gussA nahIM karatA, vaha to gussA hone ke bAda khuda ko mAlUma par3atA hai, ki yaha galata ho gayA, aisA nahIM honA caahie| isalie aMkuza usake hAtha meM nahIM haiN| yaha mazIna garama ho gayA hai, isalie usa samaya hameM jarA ThaMDA rahanA caahie| apane Apa ThaMDA ho, taba hAtha ddaalnaa| bacce para tuma cir3hate ho taba vaha nayA karja lene jaisA hai, kyoMki cir3hane meM harja nahIM, para tuma jo 'khuda' cir3hate ho vaha nukasAna karatA hai| praznakartA : baccoM ko jaba taka DA~Te nahIM taba taka zAMta hI nahIM hote, DA~TanA to par3atA hai na! dAdAzrI : nahIM, DA~Tane meM harja nhiiN| magara 'khuda' DA~Tate ho isalie tumhArA mu~ha bigar3a jAtA hai, isalie jimmedArI hai| tumhArA mu~ha bigar3e nahIM aise DA~To, mu~ha acchA rakhakara DA~To, khUba ddaaNtto| tumhArA mu~ha bigar3atA hai arthAt tumheM jo DaoNTanA hai vaha tuma ahaMkAra kara ke DA~Tate ho| praznakartA : taba to lar3akoM ko aisA lagegA ki ye jhUTha-mUTha kA DA~Ta rahe haiN| dAdAzrI : ve itanA jAne to bahuta ho gyaa| to unako asara hogA, nahIM to asara hI nahIM hogaa| tuma bahuta DA~To to ve samajhate haiM ki ye kamajora AdamI haiN| ve loga mujhe kahate haiM, hamAre pitAjI bahuta kamajora AdamI haiM, bahuta cir3hate rahate haiN| praznakartA : hamArA DA~TanA aisA nahIM honA cAhie ki hameM hI mana meM vicAra Ate raheM aura khuda ko asara hotA rahe? dAdAzrI : vaha to galata hai| DA~TanA aisA nahIM honA caahie| DA~TanA UparI taura para jaise ki nATaka meM lar3ate haiM, usa prakAra kA honA caahie| nATaka meM lar3ate haiM, 'kyoM tU aisA karatA hai aura aisA vaisA' saba bolate haiM para andara kucha bhI nahIM hotA, aise DA~Tane kA hai| 38 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra praznakartA : baccoM ko kahane jaisA lagatA hai taba DA~Tate haiM, taba unheM duHkha bhI hotA ho taba kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : phira hama bhItara mAphI mA~ga leN| isa bahana ko bahuta jyAdA bola gae hoM aura use du:kha haA ho to tuma isa bahana se kaho ki kSamA cAhatA huuN| agara aisA bola nahIM sakate to atikramaNa huA isalie bhItara pratikramaNa kro| tuma to 'zuddhAtmA ho' isalie tuma candubhAI se kahanA ki 'pratikramaNa kro|' tamheM donoM vibhAga alaga rakhane haiN| akele meM bhItara apane Apase kaho ki 'sAmanevAle ko duHkha na ho' aisA bolnaa| phira bhI lar3ake ko du:kha ho to candubhAI se kahanA, 'pratikramaNa kro|' praznakartA : lekina apane se choTA ho, apanA beTA, ho taba kSamA kaise mA~ge? dAdAzrI : bhItara se kSamA mA~ganA, hRdaya se kSamA maaNgnaa| bhItara dAdA dikhAI deM aura unakI sAkSI meM AlocanA-pratikramaNa-pratyAkhyAna usa lar3ake ke kareM to turanta use pahu~ca jAte haiN| praznakartA : hama kisI ko DA~Te, magara usakI bhalAI ke lie DA~Tate hoM, jaise baccoM ko hI DA~Te to kyA vaha pApa kahalAegA? dAdAzrI : nahIM, usase puNya bNdhegaa| lar3ake kI bhalAI ke lie DA~TeM mAreM taba bhI puNya ba~dhatA hai| bhagavAna ke ghara anyAya hotA hI nahIM! lar3akA ulTA kara rahA hai isalie lar3ake kI bhalAI ke lie khuda ko AkUlatA huI aura use do capata lagA dI, to bhI usakA puNya ba~dhatA hai| use agara pApa ginA jAtA ho to ye kramika mArga ke sabhI sAdhuAcAryoM meM se kisI kA mokSa nahIM ho sktaa| sArA dina ziSya ke prati akulAte rahate haiM, para usase puNya ba~dhatA hai| kyoMki dUsaroM kI bhalAI ke lie vaha krodha karatA hai| apanI bhalAI ke lie krodha karanA pApa hai| kitanA sundara nyAya hai! kitanA nyAya pUrNa hai! bhagavAna mahAvIra kA nyAya kitanA sundara hai! yaha nyAya to dharma-kAMTA hI hai na!!

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40 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra ___ ata: baccoM ko usakI bhalAI ke lie DA~Tate hoM, mArate hoM, taba puNya ba~dhatA hai| paraMtu 'maiM pitA hU~, use thor3A mAranA to par3egA na?' aisA bhAva andara praviSTa huA to phira pApa bNdhegaa| isa taraha agara sahI samajha nahIM hogI to phira usameM aisA vibhAjana ho jAtA hai! ata: bApa lar3ake para usake hita ke lie akulAye usakA kyA phala ho? puNya bNdhegaa| ___ praznakartA : bApa to akulAtA hai para lar3akA bhI sAmane akulAye to kyA hotA hai? dAdAzrI : lar3akA pApa bA~dhatA hai ! kramika mArga meM jJAnIpuruSa' ziSya para akulAyeM to usakA jabaradasta puNya ba~dhatA hai, puNyAnubaMdhI puNya ba~dhatA hai| vaha AkulatA vyartha nahIM jaatii| ye ziSya nahIM haiM unake bacce, nahIM kucha lenA-denA, phira bhI ziSya para akulAte haiN| yahA~ hamAre pAsa DA~Ta-DapaTa bilkula nahIM hotI! DA~Tane para manuSya spaSTa nahIM kaha sakatA, kapaTa karatA hai| ye saba kapaTa isa vajaha se saMsAra meM paidA hue haiM ! jaga meM DA~Tane kI jarUrata nahIM hai| laDakA sinemA dekhakara AyA ho aura hama use DA~TeM to dUsare dina bahAnA banAkara, 'skUla meM kucha kAryakrama thA' kaha kara sinemA dekhane jAtA hai! jisake ghara meM mA~ sakhta ho, usake lar3ake ko vyavahAra nahIM aataa| praznakartA : kolDa DriMksa z2yAdA piye, caoNkaleTa jyAdA khAye, usa vakta DA~TatI huuN| dAdAzrI : usameM DA~Tane kI kahA~ jarUrata hai ! use samajhAnA cAhie ki jyAdA khAne se kyA nukasAna hogaa| Apako kauna DA~TatA hai? yaha to bar3appana kA jhUThA ahaMkAra hai ! 'mA~' hokara baiThI hai, bar3I! mA~ honA AtA nahIM aura sArA dina lar3ake ko DA~TatI rahatI ho! agara tumheM sAsa DA~TatI ho to mAlUma pdd'e| lar3ake ko DA~TanA zobhA detA hogA? lar3ake ko bhI aisA lage ki yaha to (mA~) dAdI se bhI burI hai| isalie lar3ake ko DA~TanA mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra chor3a do| dhIre se samajhAnA ki yaha saba nahIM khAnA cAhie, usase terA zarIra bigdd'egaa| vaha galata karatA ho to bhI use bAra-bAra mata piitto| galata karatA ho aura bAra-bAra pITeM to kyA hogA? eka AdamI to jaise kapar3e dho rahA ho, usa prakAra bacce kI dhulAI kara rahA thaa| mue, bApa hokara lar3ake kI yaha kyA dazA karatA hai? usa samaya laDakA mana meM kyA taya karatA hai, jAnate ho? sahana nahIM ho to mana meM socatA hai, 'bar3A hone para tuma ko mArU~gA, dekha lenaa|' bhItara ThAna letA hai| bar3A hokara phira use mAratA bhI hai| mArane se jagat nahIM sudhrtaa| DA~Tane se yA ciDhane se bhI koI nahIM sudhrtaa| sahI karake dikhAne se sudharatA hai| jitanA boleM utanA pAgalapana hai| eka bhAI the| ve rAta do baje na jAne kyA-kyA kara ke ghara Ate the! usakA varNana karane yogya nahIM hai| Apa samajha jaao| phira ghara ke logoM ne taya kiyA ki isako DA~Te yA phira ghara meM ghusane nahIM deM, kyA upAya kareM? bAda meM ve loga isakA anubhava kara aaye| usake bar3e bhaiyA kahane gae to unase kahane lagA, 'tumako mAre bagaira nahIM chodd'eNgaa|' phira ghara ke saba loga mujhe pUchane Aye ki 'isakA kyA kareM? yaha to aisA bolatA hai|' taba maiMne gharavAloM se kaha diyA ki 'koI use eka akSara bhI kahe nhiiN| boleMge to vaha jyAdA udaMDa ho jAegA, aura ghara meM Ane nahIM doge to bagAvata kregaa| use jaba AnA ho taba Ae aura jAnA ho taba jaae| hameM 'rAiTa' (sahI) bhI nahIM kahanA aura 'roga' (galata) bhI nahIM kahanA hai| rAga bhI nahIM karanA, dveSa bhI nahIM karanA hai| samatA rakhanI hai, karuNA rakhanI hai|' tIna-cAra sAla bAda vaha bhAI sahI rAste para A gayA! Aja vaha vyApAra meM bahuta madada karatA hai| duniyA bekAra nahIM hai, para kAma lenA AnA caahie| sabhI ke bhItara bhagavAna haiM aura sabhI bhinnabhinna kArya lekara baiThe haiM, isalie nApasaMda jaisA mata rkhnaa| eka AdamI saMDAsa ke daravAje ko lAteM mAra rahA thaa| maiMne pUchA,

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41 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 'lAteM kyoM mArate ho?' to bolA, 'bahuta saphAI karatA hU~ phira bhI badabU A rahI hai|' bolie, aba yaha kitanI bar3I mUrkhatA kahalAegI ! saMDAsa ke daravAz2e ko lAta mAreM to bhI badabU AtI hai ! isameM bhUla kisakI ? kitane hI loga to lar3ake ko bahuta mArate rahate haiM, yaha kyA mArane kI cIz2a hai? yaha to 'glAsa veara' (kA~ca ke baratana ) ke jaise haiN| 'glAsa veara' ko jatana se rakhane caahie| 'glAsaveara' ko aise pheMke to? 'henDala vitha keyara / ' arthAt sAvadhAnI rkho| aba aise mArate mata rhnaa| aisA hai, isa janma ke baccoM kI ciMtA karate ho lekina pichale janmoM meM jo saMtAneM thI unakA kyA kiyA? pratyeka janma meM saMtAna chor3akara Aye haiM, jahA~ bhI janma lie una sabameM bacce chor3a-chor3a kara Aye haiM / itane choTe-choTe ki becAre bhaTaka jAe~, aise baccoM ko chor3akara Aye haiM / vahA~ se AnA nahIM cAhatA thA, phira bhI yahA~ aayaa| bAda meM bhUla gayA aura phira isa janma meM dUsare bacce Ae ! isalie baccoM saMbaMdhI kleza kyoM karate ho? unheM dharma ke mArga para le jAo, acche ho jAe~ge / eka lar3akA to aisA Ter3hA thA ki kar3avI davAI pilAye to pItA hI nahIM thA, gale se nIce utAratA nahIM thA, para usakI mA~ bhI pakkI thii| baccA itanA Ter3hA ho to mA~ kaccI hogI kyA? mA~ ne kyA kiyA, usakI nAka dabAI aura davAI phaTa se gale meM utara gii| pariNAma svarUpa lar3akA aura bhI pakkA ho gayA ! dUsare dina jaba pilA rahI thI aura nAka dabAne gaI to usane phUUUU kara ke mA~ kI A~khoM meM ur3AyA ! yaha to vahI 'kvaoNliTI !' mA~ ke peTa meM nau mahIne binA bhAr3e ke rahe, vaha munAphA aura Upara se phUUUU karatA hai ! eka bApa mujhe kahatA thA ki 'merA tIsare naMbara kA lar3akA bahuta kharAba hai| do lar3ake acche haiN|' maiMne pUchA, 'yaha kharAba hai to tuma kyA karoge?' taba bolA, 'kyA karU~? do lar3akoM ko mujhe kucha nahIM kahanA par3atA aura isa tIsare lar3ake ke kAraNa merI sArI jiMdagI barbAda hone lagI hai|' maiMne kahA, 'kyA karatA hai tumhArA lar3akA ?' taba vaha bolA, 'rAta Der3ha mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra baje AtA hai, zarAba pIkara AtA hai muaa|' maiMne pUchA, 'phira tuma kyA karate ho?' taba bolA, 'maiM dUra se dekhatA hU~ use, agara merA mu~ha dikhAU~ to gAliyA~ detA hai| maiM dUra rahakara khir3akI meM se dekhatA rahatA hU~ ki kyA taba maiMne kahA, 'Der3ha baje ghara Ane ke bAda kyA karatA hai?' karatA hai?" taba bolA, 'khAne-pIne kI to koI bAta hI nahIM, usake Ane para usakA bistara lagA denA par3atA hai| Akara turanta so jAtA hai aura kharrATe lene lagatA hai|' isa para maiMne kahA, 'to ciMtA kauna karatA hai?' taba bolA, 'vaha to maiM hI karatA huuN|' 42 bAda meM kahe, 'usakA yaha hAla dekhakara mujhe to sArI rAta nIMda nahIM aatii|' maiMne kahA, 'isameM doSa tumhArA hai, vaha to ArAma se so jAtA hai| tumhArA doSa tuma bhugatate ho| pichale janma meM use zarAba kI Adata DAlanevAlA tU hI hai|' usako sikhAkara khisaka gyaa| kisa kAraNa sikhAyA ? lAlaca kI khaatir| yAnI pichale janma meM use bigAr3A thA, ulaTI rAha para car3hAyA thaa|' vaha sikhAne kA phala AyA hai aba / aba usakA phala bhugato ArAma se ! jo bhugate usI kI bhuul| dekho, vaha to so gayA hai na ArAma se ? aura bApa sArI rAta ciMtA karate-karate Der3ha baje taka jAgatA hai ki kaba Aye, lekina use kucha bola nahIM sktaa| bApa bhugatatA hai, isalie bhUla bApa kI hai| bahU samajhatI hai kI sasura dUsare kamare meM baiThe haiN| isalie vaha dUsare ke sAtha bAta karatI hai ki 'sasura z2arA kama akla hai|' aba usa samaya hama vahA~ khar3e hoM to hameM yaha sunane meM Aye, to hameM bhItara asara hotA hai| taba vahA~ kyA hisAba lagAnA cAhie ki agara hama dUsarI jagaha meM baiThe hote to kyA hotA? taba koI asara nahIM hotA / arthAt yahA~ Aye, isa bhUla kA yaha asara hai! hama isa bhUla ko sudhAra leM, aisA samajha kara ki hama kahIM aura baiThe the aura hamane yaha sunA hI nahIM thaa| isa prakAra isa bhUla ko sudhAra leN| mahAvIra bhagavAna ke pIche bhI loga ulTA bolate the| loga to boleMge

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra jaisI nahIM hai, kleza karane ke bajAya mauna rahanA uttama hogaa| kleza se to khuda kA aura sAmanevAle kA bhI dimAga bigar3a jAtA hai| ve tumheM burA kaheM, tuma unheM burA kaho! phira vAtAvaraNa dUSita hotA jAtA hai aura visphoTa hotA hai| isalie tuma unheM acche se khnaa| kisa dRSTi se? eka dRSTi mana meM rakha lo ki 'AphTara oNla hI ija e guDa mena (AkhirakAra to vaha acchA AdamI hai)|' praznakartA : TakarAva ho taba baccoM ke sAtha kaisA bartAva karanA cAhie? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra hI, hama apanI bhUla khatma kara deN| usako ThIka lagA vaisA bolaa| hamAre bure karmoM kA udaya ho tabhI aisA ulTA usase bolA jAtA hai| baccoM kA ahaMkAra jAgRta ho, usake bAda use kucha nahIM kaha sakate aura hama kaheM bhI kyoM? unheM Thokara lagegI to siikheNge| bacce pA~ca sAla ke hoM, taba taka unheM kahane kI chuutt| aura pA~ca se solaha sAlavAle bacce ko zAyada kabhI thappar3a bhI lagAnI pdd'e| magara bIsa sAla kA javAna hone ke bAda aisA nahIM kara skte| use eka akSara bhI nahIM bola skte| use kucha bhI bolanA gunAha hogaa| varnA to kisI dina Apako bandUka bhI mAra de| 'bina mA~gI salAha mata denA' aisA hamane likhA bhI hai! agara koI hamase kucha pUche, taba hameM salAha denI cAhie aura usa samaya jo ThIka lagatA ho vaha kaha denaa| salAha dene ke bAda yaha bhI kahanA ki tumheM ThIka lage vaisA krnaa| hama to tumheM yaha kaha cuke| isalie phira unheM burA lage aisI koI bAta nahIM rhtii| ataH hameM jo kucha bhI kahanA hai, usake pIche vinaya rakhanA hai| isa kAla meM kama bolane jaisA dusarA kucha bhI nahIM hai| isa kAla meM bola paththara lageM, aise nikalate haiM aura sabake aise hote haiN| isalie mitabhASI ho jAnA acchA hai| kisI ko kucha kahane jaisA nahIM hai| kahane se aura bigdd'eNge| usase kaheM ki 'gAr3I para jaldI jaa|' taba dera se jAegA aura kucha nahIM kahoge to samaya para jaaegaa| hama nahIM hoM to bhI saba cale aisA hai| yaha to khuda kA galata ahaMkAra hai| jisa dina se baccoM ke sAtha tumhArI jhikajhika baMda hogI, usa dina se bacce sudharane lgeNge| tumhAre zabda acche nikalate nahIM, isalie sAmanevAlA akulAtA hai| tumhAre zabda svIkAra nahIM hote aura ulTe ve zabda palaTakara vApasa Ate haiN| hama to baccoM ko khAnA-pInA banAkara deM aura hamArA pharja nibhAyeM, dUsarA kucha kahane jaisA nahIM hai| kahane se phAyadA nahIM, aisA Apako lagatA hai? bacce bar3e ho gae haiM, ve kyA sIr3hiyoM se gira par3eMge? tuma apanA Atmadharma kyoM cUka rahe ho? ina baccoM ke sAtha to rileTiva dharma hai| vahA~ bhejAphoDI karane dAdAzrI : rAga-dveSa nahIM honA caahie| usane kucha bigAr3A ho, kucha nukasAna kiyA ho, taba bhI usa para dveSa nahIM honA caahie| use 'zaddhAtmA' ke rUpa meM dekhanA caahie| arthAt rAga-dveSa nahIM huA to saba nirAkaraNa ho gayA aura apanA jJAna rAga-dveSa na hone de aisA hai| apane mana meM jarA-sI bhI duvidhA ho to vaha dUsare kisI kI nahIM, hamArI hI hai, isalie hameM samajha lenA hai ki yaha duvidhA hamArI hai| duvidhA kyoM huI? hameM dekhanA nahIM AyA, islie| hameM 'zuddhAtmA' hI dekhanA hai| ulajhaneM khatma karanI haiM 'maiM zuddhAtmA hU~', bAkI saba 'vyavasthita' hai| aisA 'solyuzana (hala)'maiMne diyA hai| beTe kI zAdI hone ke bAda parezAna hoM to nahIM calegA, usase pahale saMbhala jaao| sAtha meM rakhoge to kleza hogaa| usakA jIvana bigar3egA aura sAtha meM hamArA bhI bigdd'egaa| agara prema pAnA cAhate ho to usase alaga rahakara prema rakho, varanA jIvana bigAr3oge aura isase prema ghaTa jaaegaa| usakI patnI AI taba unako sAtha meM rakhanA cAho to sadaiva vaha patnI kA kahA mAnegA, tumhArA nahIM sunegaa| usakI patnI kahegI, 'Aja to mAtAjI aisA kaha rahI thIM, vaisA kaha rahI thiiN|' taba beTA kahegA, 'hA~, mA~ aisI hI haiN|' aura phira calA tuuphaan| dUra se saba acchA rahatA hai ! praznakartA : bacce videza meM haiM unakI yAda AtI rahatI hai, unakI ciMtA hotI hai|

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra dAdAzrI : ve bacce vahA~ khA-pIkara majA kara rahe hoMge, mA~ ko yAda bhI nahIM karate hoMge aura mA~ yahA~ ciMtA karatI rahatI hai, yaha kaisI bAta? praznakartA : ve lar3ake vahA~ se likhate haiM ki tuma yahA~ A jaao| dAdAzrI : hA~! para jAnA kyA apane hAtha meM hai? usake bajAya hama hI jaisA hai vaisA baMdobasta kara leN| vaha galata hai kyA? ve unake ghara, hama apane ghara ! isa kokha se janma huA isalie kyA hamAre ho gae saba? hamAre hoM to hamAre sAtha AyeM lekina koI AtA hai isa saMsAra meM? ghara meM pacAsa vyakti hoM, lekina hameM pahacAnanA nahIM AyA isalie gar3abar3a hotI rahatI hai| unheM pahacAnanA cAhie na? yaha gulAba kA paudhA hai ki kisakA paudhA hai, yaha patA nahIM lagAnA cAhie? pahale kyA thA? satyuga meM eka ghara meM saba gulAba aura dUsare ghara meM sabhI mogarA, tIsare ghara caMpA! abhI kyA huA hai ki eka hI ghara meM mogarA hai, gulAba hai, caMpA hai! gulAba hogA to kA~Te hoMge aura yadi mogarA hai to kA~Te nahIM hoMge, mogare kA phala sapheda hogA, gulAba gulAbI hogA, lAla hogaa| isa samaya aise alaga-alaga paudhe haiN| yaha bAta ApakI samajha meM AI? satyuga meM jo kheta the, Aja kaliyuga meM ve bagIce jaise ho gae haiM! para unheM dekhanA nahIM AtA, usakA kyA kareM? unheM sahI dekhanA na Aye to duHkha hI hogA na? isa jagat ke logoM ke pAsa yaha dekhane kI dRSTi nahIM hai| koI burA hotA hI nhiiN| yaha matabheda to apanA-apanA ahaMkAra hai| dekhanA nahIM AtA usakA du:kha hai| dekhanA Ae to duHkha hI nahIM! mujhe sAre saMsAra meM kisI ke bhI sAtha matabheda hI nahIM hotaa| mujhe dekhanA AtA hai ki yaha gulAba hai yA mogarA hai| vaha dhatUrA hai ki kar3avI turaI kA phUla hai, aise sabako phcaaneN| prakRti ko pahacAnate hI nahIM isalie maiMne pustaka meM likhA hai, 'Aja ghara bagIcA huA hai| isa lie kAma nikAla lo isa samaya meN|' mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra jo khuda 'nobala' (udAra) ho aura lar3akA kaMjUsa ho to kahegA, 'merA beTA bilakula kaMjUsa hai|' use vaha mAra-pITa kara 'nobala' karanA cAhe to nahIM hogaa| vaha mAla hI alaga hai| jabaki mAtA-pitA use apane jaisA karanA cAhate haiN| are, use khilane do, usakI zaktiyA~ jo haiM unheM khilaao| kisakA svabhAva kaisA hai, vaha dekha lenA hai| mue, kisa lie unase jhagar3ate ho| isa bagIce ko pahacAnane jaisA hai| 'bagIcA' kahatA hU~ taba loga samajhate haiM aura phira apane lar3ake ko pahacAnate haiN| prakRti ko pahacAna ! eka bAra lar3ake ko pahacAna le aura usake mutAbika vyavahAra kr| usakI prakRti ko dekhakara vyavahAra kareM to kyA ho? mitra kI prakRti ko 'eDajasTa' hote haiM ki nahIM? aise prakRti ko dekhanA par3atA hai, prakRti ko pahacAnanA par3atA hai| pahacAna kara caleM to ghara meM TaMTA-phasAda nahIM ho| yahA~ to mAra-pITa kara mere jaise bano,' aisA kahate haiN| aise kisa prakAra ho sakate haiM? sArA saMsAra aise vyavahAra jJAna kI khoja meM hai, yaha dharma nahIM hai| yaha jJAna saMsAra meM rahane kA ilAja hai| saMsAra me eDajasTa hone kA upAya hai| vAipha ke sAtha kaise eDajasTamenTa kareM, lar3ake ke sAtha kaise eDajesTamenTa kareM, usake upAya haiN| ghara meM khiTapiTa ho, taba isa vANI ke zabda aise haiM ki sabakI takalIpha miTa jaae| isa vANI se saba acchA hotA hai| jisase duHkha cale jAe~ aisI vANI loga khojate haiN| kyoMki kisI ne aise upAya hI nahIM batAye na ! sIdhe kAma AnevAle hoM aise upAya hI nahIM haiM na! 10. zaMkA ke zUla eka AdamI mere pAsa AtA thaa| usakI eka lar3akI thii| usako maiMne pahale se samajhAyA thA ki 'yaha to kaliyuga hai, isa kaliyuga kA asara lar3akI para bhI hotA hai| isalie sAvadhAna rhnaa|' vaha AdamI samajha gayA

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47 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra aura jaba usakI lar3akI dUsare ke sAtha bhAga gaI, taba usa AdamI ne mujhe yAda kiyA aura mere pAsa Akara mujhase kahane lagA, 'Apane kahI thI vaha bAta saccI thii| agara Apane mujhe aisI bAta nahIM batAI hotI to mujhe jahara pInA pdd'taa|' aisA hai yaha jagat, polamapola ! jo hotA hai use svIkAra karanA cAhie, usake lie kyA jahara piyeM? nahIM, taba to tU pAgala khlaaegaa| yaha to kapar3e DhA~kakara Abaru rakhate haiM aura kahate haiM ki hama khAnadAnI haiN| eka hamArA khAsa saMbaMdhI thA, usakI cAra lar3akiyA~ thiiN| vaha bahuta jAgRta thA, mujhase kahatA hai, 'ye lar3akiyA~ bar3I huI, kaoNlija gaI, lekina mujhe ina para vizvAsa nahIM hotaa|' usa para maiMne kahA, 'kaoNlija sAtha meM jAnA aura ve kaoNlija se nikaleM taba pIche-pIche aanaa|' isa prakAra eka bAra jAegA para dUsarI bAra kyA karegA? bIvI ko bhejegA? are, vizvAsa kahA~ rakhanA aura kahA~ nahIM rakhanA, itanA bhI nahIM samajhatA? hameM lar3akI se itanA kaha denA cAhie, 'dekho beTI, hama acche ghara ke loga, hama khAnadAnI, kulavAna haiN|' isa prakAra use sAvadhAna kara denaa| bAda meM jo huA so 'karekTa', usa para zaMkA nahIM karane kii| kitane zaMkA karate hoMge? jo isa mAmale meM jAgRta haiM, ve zaMkA karate rahate haiN| aisA saMzaya rakhane se kaba anta AyegA? isalie kisI bhI prakAra kI zaMkA ho to utpanna hone se pahale hI ukhAr3a kara pheMka denaa| yaha to lar3akiyA~ bAhara ghUmane-phirane jAtI haiM, khelane jAtI haiM, usakI zaMkA karatA hai aura zaMkA utpanna huI to hamArA sukha-caina TikatA hai? nhiiN| ata: kabhI lar3akI rAta dera se Aye to bhI zaMkA mata krnaa| zaMkA nikAla do to kitanA lAbha ho? binA vajaha DarAkara rakhane kA kyA artha hai? eka janma meM kucha parivartana honevAlA nhiiN| una lar3akiyoM ko binA vajaha duHkha mata pahu~cAnA, baccoM ko duHkha nahIM denaa| basa itanA z2arUra kahanA ki, 'beTI, tU bAhara jAtI hai para dera mata karanA, hama khAnadAnI logoM meM se haiM, hamAre lie yaha zobhanIya nahIM, isalie jyAdA dera mata krnaa|' isa taraha saba bAta karanA, smjhaanaa| lekina zaMkA karanA ThIka nahIM hogA ki 'kisa ke sAtha ghUmatI hogI, kyA karatI hogI?' aura kabhI rAta bAraha mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra baje Aye, taba bhI dUsare dina kahanA ki, 'beTI, aisA nahIM honA caahie|' use agara ghara se bAhara kara deM to vaha kisa ke vahA~ jaaegii| usakA ThikAnA nhiiN| phAyadA kisa meM hai? kama se kama nukasAna ho usameM phAyadA hai na? kama se kama nukasAna ho vaha phaaydemNd| isalie maiMne sabhI se kahA hai ki 'rAta ko dera se Ae~ to bhI lar3akiyoM ko ghara meM Ane denaa| unheM bAhara mata nikAla denaa|' varnA ye to bAhara se hI nikAla deM, aise ugra miz2Aja ke loga haiM! kAla kaisA vicitra hai! kitanA duHkhadAI kAla hai!! aura Upara se yaha kaliyuga hai, isalie ghara meM biThAkara unheM smjhaanaa| __ praznakartA : aba sAmanevAlA koI hamAre Upara saMzaya rakhe to usakA nirAkaraNa khuda kaise kareM? dAdAzrI : vaha saMzaya rakhatA hai, aisA mata socanA, aisA hameM jo jJAna hai, vaha jJAna bhulA denaa| praznakartA : use hama para saMzaya huA, to hameM pUchanA cAhie ki kyoM saMzaya huA? dAdAzrI : pUchane meM maz2A nahIM hai, aisA pUchanA hI mt| hameM turanta samajha lenA cAhie ki apanA kucha doSa hai, varnA use zaMkA kyoM huI? 'bhugatatA hai usI kI bhUla' yaha vAkya samajha liyA ki nirAkaraNa A gyaa| zaMkA karanevAlA bhugata rahA hai yA phira zaMkA jisa para ho rahI hai, vaha bhugata rahA hai? yaha dekha lenaa| 11. vasIhata meM baccoM ko kitanA? praznakartA : puNyodaya se jarUrata se jyAdA lakSmI prApta ho taba kyA karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : taba acche kArya meM kharca kara denaa| baccoM ke lie bahuta rakhanA mt| unheM par3hA-likhAkara kAma-dhaMdhe para lagA denaa| kAma para laga gae, bAda meM jyAdA lakSmI rakhanA mt| itanA khyAla rakhanA ki jitanA apane sAtha AyA utanA hI hmaaraa|

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 50 praznakartA : yahA~ se sAtha meM le jA sakate hai kyA? dAdAzrI : aba kyA lekara jAe~ge? sAtha meM jo thA vaha saba yahA~ kharca karake pUrA kiyaa| aba kucha mokSa saMbaMdhI mere pAsa se yahA~ Akara pAe~ to dina bdle| aba bhI jIvana bAkI hai. aba bhI jIvana badala sakate haiM, jaba jAge taba sveraa| vahA~ (agale janama meM) le jAne meM kyA kAma AtA hai? yahA~ jo tumane kharca kiyA, vaha saba gaTara meM gayA, tumhAre mauja-maz2A ke lie, tumhAre rahane ke lie jo kucha bhI karate ho vaha saba gaTara meM gyaa| kevala dUsaroM ke lie jo kucha kiyA utanA hI tumhArA ovaraDrAphTa (jamA) hai| eka AdamI ne mujhe prazna kiyA ki baccoM ko kucha nahIM deM? maiMne kahA, 'baccoM ko denA, magara Apake pitA ne Apako jitanA diyA ho, utanA denaa| bIca meM jo kamAyA, vaha hama jahA~ cAheM, kisI acche kArya meM kharca kara deN|' praznakartA : hamAre vakIloM ke kAnUna meM bhI aisA hai ki bApa-dAdA kI proparTI (sampatti) ho, use baccoM ko denI hI cAhie aura sva-upArjita dhana kA bApa jo karanA cAhe kara sakatA hai| dAdAzrI : hA~, jo karanA cAhe kre| apane hAthoM se hI kara lenA caahiye| apanA mArga kyA kahatA hai ki terA apanA mAla ho, vaha alaga kara ke kharca kara, to vaha tere sAtha aayegaa| kyoMki yaha 'jJAna' prApta karane ke bAda abhI eka-do janma bAkI rahe haiM, isalie sAtha meM jarUrata par3egI na? dUsare gA~va jAte haiM taba sAtha meM thor3I roTiyA~ le jAte haiN| taba yahA~ bhI sAtha meM kucha honA cAhie na? isalie lar3ake ko to kevala kyA denA cAhie, eka 'phlaiTa' (makAna) denA, hama rahate hoM vaha / vaha bhI ho to denaa| use kaha denA ki, 'beTe, hama na hoM usa dina yaha saba terA, taba taka mAlikI hamArI ! pAgalapana karegA to tujhe terI bahU ke sAtha nikAla bAhara kruuNgaa| hama haiM taba taka terA kucha bhI nhiiN| hamAre jAne ke bAda saba kucha teraa|' vila kara ddaalnaa| mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra Apake bApa ne diyA ho utanA Apako use denA hai| vaha utanA haqadAra hai| Akhira taka lar3ake ke mana meM aisA rahe ki 'abhI pitAjI ke pAsa pacAsa hajAra aura haiN|' hamAre pAsa to lAkha hoN| vaha mana meM samajhe ki 40-50 hajAra deNge| use isa lAlaca meM Akhira taka rkhnaa| vaha apanI bahU se kahe ki, 'jA, pitAjI ko pharsTa klAsa bhojana karA, cAya-nAztA laa|' hameM rauba se rahanA hai| arthAt hamAre pitAjI ne jo kucha koTharI (makAna) dI ho vaha unheM de do| koI kacha sAtha meM le jAne nahIM detaa| hamAre jAne ke bAda hamAre zarIra ko jalA dete haiN| taba phira lar3akoM ke lie adhika chor3a kara kyA kareM? lar3akoM ke lie jyAdA chor3a jAe~ to lar3ake kyA kareMge? ve soceMge ki 'aba naukarI-dhaMdhA karane kI z2arUrata nhiiN|' bacce zarAbI bana jaaeNge| kyoMki phira unheM saMgata aisI mila jAtI hai| ye zarAbI hI hue haiM na saba! ata: lar3ake ko to hameM soca-samajhakara maryAdA meM denA caahie| agara jyAdA deM to durUpayoga hogaa| hamezA jaoNba (kAma) hI karatA rahe aisA kara denA caahie| bekAra baiThe to zarAba piye na? koI bijanesa (dhaMdhA) use pasaMda ho to karavA denaa| kauna-sA vyavasAya pasaMda hai vaha pUchakara, use jo vyavasAya ThIka lage vaha karavA denaa| paccIsa-tIsa haz2Ara baiMka se lona para dilavAnA, tAki apane Apa bharatA rahe aura thor3e bahuta apane pAsa se de denaa| use z2arUrata ho usameM se AdhI rakama hameM denI hai aura AdhI rakama baiMka meM se lona dilavA denaa| isa lona kI kizteM tU bharanA, aisA kaha denaa| kizteM bharatA rahe aura vaha lar3akA samajhadAra hotA hai phir| ata: lar3ake ko niyama se, niyama se jitanA denA cAhie utanA dekara, bAkI sArA logoM ke sukha ke lie acche rAste kharca kara denaa| logoM ko sukha kaise mile? unake hRdaya ko ThaMDaka pahu~ce taba! to vaha sampatti tumhAre sAtha aayegii| aise naqadI nahIM AtI para ovaraDAphaTa (jamArAzi) ke rUpa meM AtI hai| naqadI to le jAne hI nahIM dete na ! yahA~ para isa taraha ovaraDrAphaTa karo, logoM ko khilA do, sabake diloM ko

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 51 ThaMDaka phuNcaao| kisI kI muzkila dUra kro| yaha rAstA hai Age DrAphaTa bhejane kA / isalie paisoM kA sadupayoga kro| ciMtA mata kro| khAopIo, khAne-pIne meM kaMjUsI mata kro| isalie kahatA hU~ ki 'kharca DAlo aura ovaraDrAphaTa lo / ' maiMne unake lar3akoM se kahA ki tumhAre bApa ne yaha saba sampatti tumhAre lie ikaTThA kI hai, dhotI pahanakara (kaMjUsI karake ) / taba bole, 'Apa hamAre bApa ko jAnate hI nahIM ho|' maiMne pUchA, 'kaise?' taba kahA, 'agara yahA~ se paisA le jA sakate na to merA bApa to logoM se karja lekara dasa lAkha le jAe aisA pakkA hai| isalie yaha bAta mana meM rakhane jaisI nahIM hai|' usa lar3ake ne hI mujhe aise samajhAyA aura maiMne kahA ki, 'aba mujhe saccI bAta mAlUma huI ! maiM jo jAnanA cAhatA thA, vaha mujhe mila gyaa|' ikalautA lar3akA ho, use vArisa banAkara sauMpa diyaa| kahate haiM ki 'beTA, yaha saba terA, aba hama donoM dharmadhyAna kreNge|' 'aba yaha sArI sampatti usI kI hI to hai', aisA bologe to phajIhata hogii| kyoMki use sArI sampatti de dI to kyA hogA? bApa sArI sampatti ikalaute beTe ko de de to lar3akA mAtA-pitA ko kucha dina to sAtha rakhegA lekina eka dina lar3akA kahegA, 'tumheM akla nahIM, tuma eka jagaha baiThe raho, yahA~ para / ' aba bApa ke mana meM aisA ho ki maiMne isake hAtha meM lagAma kyoM sauMpI ? ! aise pachatAvA ho, usake bajAya hameM lag2Ama apane pAsa hI rakhanI caahie| eka bApa ne apane lar3ake se kahA ki, 'saba sampatti tujhe denI hai|' taba usane kahA ki, ApakI sampatti kI maiMne AzA nahIM rakhI hai| use Apa jahA~ cAho vahA~ istemAla kro| aMta meM kudarata jo pariNAma de vaha alaga bAta hai| lekina usakA aisA nizcaya, apanA abhiprAya de diyA na! isalie vaha sarTiphAiDa ho gayA aura aba mauja- zauka kucha rahA nahIM / 12. moha ke mAra se mare anekoM bAra praznakartA : bacce bar3e hoMge, phira apane raheMge yA nahIM yaha kise mAlUma hai? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra dAdAzrI : hA~, apanA kucha rahatA nhiiN| yaha zarIra hI apanA nahIM rahatA to! yaha zarIra bhI bAda meM hamase le lete haiN| kyoMki parAyI cIz2a hamAre pAsa kitane dina rahe? 52 bacca mohavaza 'pApA, pApA' bolatA hai, to pApAjI bahuta khuza ho jAte haiM aura 'mammI mammI' bolatA hai to mammI bhI bahuta khuza hokara havA meM ur3ane lagatI hai| pApAjI kI mU~cheM khIMce to bhI pApA kucha bolate nahIM / ye choTe bacce to bahuta kAma karate haiN| agara pApA-mammI ke bIca jhagar3A huA ho, to vaha baccA hI madhyasthI ke rUpa meM samAdhAna karatA hai| jhagar3A to hamezA hotA hI hai na! pati-patnI ke bIca vaise bhI 'tU-tU, maiM-maiM' hotI hI rahatI hai, taba beTA kisa prakAra samAdhAna karatA hai? savere ve cAya na pIte hoM jarA sA rUThe hoM, to vaha strI bacce se kyA kahegI ki, beTA, jA, pApAjI se kaha, 'merI mammI cAya pIne bulAtI hai, pApAjI calie / ' aba lar3akA pApAjI ke pAsa jAkara bolA, 'pApAjI, pApAjI' aura yaha sunate hI sabakucha bhUla kara turanta cAya pIne AtA hai| isa taraha saba calatA hai| beTA 'pApAjI' bolA ki oho! na jAne kauna-sA maMtra bolaa| are, abhI to kahatA thA ki mujhe cAya nahIM pInI ! aisA hai yaha jagat ! isa duniyA meM koI kisI kA lar3akA huA nhiiN| sArI duniyA meM se aisA lar3akA DhUMDha lAo ki jo apane bApa ke sAtha tIna ghaNTA jhagar3A kiyA ho aura bAda meM kahe ki, 'he pUjya pitAzrI, Apa cAheM jitanA bhI DA~Te phira bhI Apa aura maiM eka hI haiN|' aisA bolanevAlA khoja lAoge? yaha to AdhA ghaNTA 'TesTa' para liyA ho to phUTa jaae| bandUka kI Tikar3I phUTate dera lage, para yaha to turanta phUTa jAtA hai| jarA DA~TanA zurU kareM, usake pahale hI phUTa jAtA hai ki nahIM phUTatA ? lar3akA 'pApAjI-pApAjI' kare taba vaha kar3avA laganA caahie| agara mIThA lage to vaha sukha udhAra liyA aisA kahalAtA hai / phira vaha duHkha ke rUpa meM lauTAnA hogaa| lar3akA bar3A hogA, taba tumheM kahegA ki, 'Apa meM akla hI nahIM haiN|' taba hameM lage ki aisA kyoM? tumane jo udhAra liyA thA, vaha

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra vasUla kara rahA hai| isalie pahale se sAvadhAna ho jaao| hamane to udhAra kA sukha lene kA vyavahAra hI chor3a diyA thaa| aho ! khuda ke AtmA meM anaMta sukha hai ! use chor3akara isa bhayAnaka gaMdagI meM kyo par3eM? eka sattara sAla kI bur3hiyA thii| eka dina ghara se bAhara Akara cillAne lagIM, 'Aga lage isa saMsAra ko, kar3avA jahara jaisA, mujhe to yaha saMsAra jarA bhI nahIM bhAtA ! he bhagavAna! tU mujhe uThA le|' taba koI lar3akA vahA~ se guz2ara rahA thA usane kahA, 'kyoM mAI hara roja to bahuta acchA kahatI thI, hara roja to mIThA a~gUra jaisA lagatA thA aura Aja kar3avA kaise ho gayA?' taba kahane lagI, 'merA putra mere sAtha kalaha karatA hai| isa bur3hApe meM mujhase kahatA hai, calI jA yahA~ se|' pahale upakArI khojane bAhara jAnA par3atA thA aura Aja to upakArI ghara baiThe janme haiN| isalie zAMti se lar3akA jo sukha-duHkha de, use svIkAra kara lenA / mahAvIra bhagavAna ko bhI upakArI nahIM milate the| Arya deza meM upakArI nahIM mile to unheM phira sATha mIla dUra anArya deza meM vicaranA par3A, aura hameM to ghara baiThe upakArI mile haiN| lar3akA kahe, 'hameM dera ho jAe to Apa jhika-jhika mata krnaa| Apako sonA ho to so jAnA cupcaap|' bApa socatA hai, 'aba so jAU~gA cupcaap| yaha saba maiM nahIM jAnatA thA, varnA saMsAra zurU hI nahIM krtaa|' aba jo huA so huaa| hameM pahale aisA mAlUma nahIM hotA na, isalie zurU kara dete haiM aura bAda meM pha~sa jAte haiM! praznakartA : nApasaMda mile to use AtmA hetu upayoga meM lenA, aisA artha huA? dAdAzrI : nApasaMda mile vaha AtmA ke lie hitakArI hI hotA hai| vaha AtmA kA viTAmina hI hai| dabAva AyA ki turanta AtmA meM A jAte haiM na? abhI koI gAlI de usa ghar3I vaha saMsAra meM nahIM rahatA aura apanI AtmA meM hI ekAkAra ho jAtA hai lekina jise AtmA kA jJAna huA hai vahI aisA kara sakatA hai| mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra praznakartA: bur3hApe meM hamArI sevA kauna karegA? dAdAzrI : sevA kI AzA kyoM rakheM? hameM parezAna na kareM to bhI acche haiN| sevA kI AzA mata rkhnaa| zAyada pA~ca pratizata acche mila jAe~, bAkI to paMcAnave pratizata to havA nikAla deM aise haiN| 54 are! lar3ake to kyA karate haiM? eka lar3ake ne usake bApa se kahA ki 'Apa mujhe merA hissA de do, rojAnA khiTapiTa karate ho aisA nahIM 'clegaa|' taba usake bApa ne kahA, 'tUne mujhe itanA parezAna kiyA hai ki maiM tujhe kucha bhI hissA nahIM denevAlA / ' 'yaha merI khuda kI kamAI hai, isalie maiM tujhe isa sampatti meM seM kucha nahIM duuNgaa|' taba lar3ake ne kahA, 'yaha saba mere dAdA kA hai isalie maiM korTa meM dAvA dAyara kruuNgaa|' maiM korTa meM laDUMgA para choDUMgA nahIM / arthAt saca meM ye saMtAneM apanI nahIM hotiiN| yadi bApa lar3ake ke sAtha eka ghaNTA lar3e, itanI bar3I bar3I gAliyA~ de, taba lar3akA kyA kahatA hai ? 'Apa kyA samajhate ho ?' pArivArika sampatti ke lie adAlata meM dAvA bhI dAyara kare aisA hai| phira usa lar3ake ke lie ciMtA hogI kyA? mamatA chUTa gaI ki ciMtA bhI chUTa gii| aba mujhe vaha lar3akA nahIM caahie| ciMtA hotI hai na, vaha mamatAvAloM ko hotI hai| usakA sAr3ha bImAra ho na, to bAraha daphA aspatAla milane jAe aura bApa ho taba tIna hI bAra milane jAtA hai| aisA tU kisa AdhAra para karatA hai? ghara meM bIbI cAbI ghumAtI hai, ki 'mere bahanoI se milate AnA !' ataH bIvI ne kahA ki turaMta taiyAra ! aise bIbI ke AdhIna hai jagat / vaise to lar3akA acchA hotA hai, para jo usako guru (patnI) nahIM milanevAlA ho tb| para guru mile binA rahatI nahIM na! maiM kyA kahanA cAhatA hU~ ki phira cAhe guru paradezI ho ki inDiyana ho, kAbU apane hAtha meM nahIM rhtaa| isalie lagAma paddhatinusAra apane hAtha meM rakhanI caahie| praznakartA: pichale janma meM kisI ke sAtha baira baMdhA ho, to vaha

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra kisI na kisI janma meM usase milakara cukAnA par3atA hai na? dAdAzrI : nahIM, aisA nahIM hai| isa taraha badalA nahIM cukAyA jaataa| baira baMdhane para bhItara rAga-dveSa hotA hai| pichale janma meM lar3ake ke sAtha vaira ho gayA ho to hama soceM ki kauna se janma meM parA hogA? isa prakAra phira kaba ikaTThA hoMge? vaha lar3akA to isa janma meM billI hokara aae| tuma use dUdha do, to bhI vaha tumhAre mu~ha para nAkhana mAre! aisA hai yaha saba! aise tumhArA baira cukatA jAtA hai| paripAka honA kAla kA niyama hai isalie thor3e samaya meM hisAba pUrA ho jAtA hai| kucha to bairabhAva se milate haiM, aisA lar3akA mile to bairabhAva se hamArA tela nikAla de| AyA samajha meM? zatru-bhAva se Aye to aisA ho ki na ho? praznakartA : merI tIna beTiyA~ hai, unakI mujhe ciMtA rahatI hai| unake bhaviSya ke bAre meM? dAdAzrI: hama bhaviSya ke bAre meM vicAra kareM usase acchA Aja kI sephasAiDa (salAmatI) karanA, pratidina sephasAiDa karanA acchaa| Age ke vicAra jo karate ho na, ve vicAra kisI bhI taraha 'helpiMga' (sahAyaka) nahIM haiM, balki nukasAnadAyaka haiN| usake bajAya hama pratidina sephasAiDa karate raheM yahI bar3e se bar3A ilAja hai| Apako beToM-beTiyoM ke abhibhAvaka hokara, TrasTI hokara rahanA hai| unakI zAdI kI ciMtA nahIM karanI caahie| kyoMki ve apanA hisAba lekara Ae hote haiN| lar3akI ke bAre meM ciMtA tumheM nahIM karanI hai| lar3akI ke tuma pAlaka ho| lar3akI apane lie lar3akA bhI lekara AI hotI hai| hameM kisI ko kahane jAne kI z2arUrata nahIM ki hamArI lar3akI hai, usake lie lar3ake ko janma denaa| kyA aisA kahane jAnA par3atA hai? arthAt apanA sabakucha lekara AI hotI hai| taba bApa kahegA, 'yaha paccIsa sAla kI huI, abhI bhI usakA ThikAnA lagatA nahIM, aisA hai, vaisA hai, 'yUM sArA dina gAtA rahatA hai| are! vahA~ para lar3akA sattAIsa kA huA hai para tujhe milA nahIM, kyoM zora macA rahA hai? so jA cupacApa! vaha lar3akI apanA TAimiMga (samaya) saba seTa karake AI hai| ciMtA karane se to aMtarAya karma hotA hai| vaha kArya vilaMbita hotA hai| hameM kisI ne batAyA ho ki phalA~ jagaha para eka lar3akA hai, to hameM prayatna karanA hai| ciMtA karane ko bhagavAna ne 'nA' bolA hai| ciMtA karane se to eka aMtarAya aura par3atA hai aura vItarAga bhagavAna ne kyA kahA hai ki 'tuma ciMtA karate ho to tuma hI mAlika ho kyA? tuma hI duniyA calAte ho?' ise aise dekheM to patA cale ki apane ko to saMDAsa jAne kI bhI svataMtra zakti nahIM hai| agara baMda ho jAe to DaoNkTara bulAnA par3atA hai| taba taka aisA lagatA hai ki yaha zakti hamArI hai, parantu yaha zakti hamArI nahIM hai| yaha zakti kisake adhIna hai yaha saba jAnanA pdd'egaa| yaha to aMta samaya meM khaTiyA meM par3A ho, taba bhI choTI lar3akI kI ciMtA karatA hai ki, isakI zAdI karanI raha gii| aisI ciMtA meM aura ciMtA meM mara jAe to phira pazu yoni meM jAtA hai| pazu yoni meM janma niMdya hai, kintu manuSya janma pA kara bhI sIdhA na rahe taba kyA ho? 13. bhalA huA jo na baMdhI jaMjAla... dAdAzrI : kisI dina ciMtA karate ho? praznakartA : ciMtA bahuta nahIM, paraMtu kabhI kabhI aisA lagatA hai ki, vaise to saba kucha hai para bAlaka nahIM hai| dAdAzrI : ahoho! arthAt khAnevAlA koI nahIM hai| itanA sabakucha hai phira bhI, khAne kA sabakucha hai parantu khAnevAlA koI nahIM taba bhI phira ciMtA hI ho na! kisI janma meM jaba bahuta puNyavAna hoM, taba baccA nahIM hotaa| kyoMki bacce honA-na honA saba apane karmoM kI khAtA-bahI kA hisAba hai| isa janma meM mahAna puNyavAna ho ki tumheM baccA nahIM huaa| aise loga bahuta puNyavAna kahalAte haiN| mue, tujhe kisa ne aisA sikhAyA? taba kahA, 'merI patnI hara roz2a khiTapiTa karatI hai| maiMne kahA, 'maiM AU~gA vahA~ pr|' bAda meM usakI bIvI ko samajhAyA to samajha gii| maine kahA ki dekho, inako

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra to koI parezAnI nahIM hai| tumhArI bahI meM khAtA hI nahIM hai, hai, nahIM? isalie parama sukhI hI ho aap| bahuta acchA eka bhI saMtAna nahIM ho aura lar3ake kA janma ho to vaha lar3akA bApa ko bahuta khuza karatA hai, use bahuta AnaMda karavAtA hai| lekina jaba vaha jAe taba rUlAtA bhI utanA hI hai| isalie hameM itanA jAna lenA hai ki vaha AyA hai, to jAe taba kyA kyA hogA? isalie Aja se ha~sanA hI mata, to bAda meM muzkila hI nahIM Ae na! bacce to hamAre rAga-dveSa kA hisAba hote haiN| paise kA hisAba nahIM, rAga-dveSa ke RNAnubaMdha hote haiN| rAga-dveSa kA hisAba cukAne ke lie ye bacce bApa kA tela nikAlate haiN| kolhU meM pelate haiN| zreNika rAjA kA bhI beTA thA aura vaha unheM roja phaTakAratA thA, jela meM bhI DAla diyA thaa| kahate haiM ki mere bacce nahIM haiN| baccoM kA kyA karanA hai? aise bacce hoM jo parezAna kareM ve kisa kAma ke ? usake bajAya to sera mITTI na ho vaha acchA aura kisI janma meM tujhe sera mITTI nahIM thI? aba yaha manuSya janma bar3I muzkila se milA hai, to mue, sIdhA mara na ! aura kucha mokSa kA sAdhana khoja nikAla aura apanA kAma nikAla le| praznakartA: pichale sAla inakA eka baccA guz2ara gayA na, taba kahate haiM ki mujhe bahuta du:kha huA aura mAnasika rUpa se bahuta sahana karanA pdd'aa| isase hameM aisA jAnane ko mana karatA hai ki pichale janma meM hamane aisA kyA kiyA hogA, ki jisakI vajaha se aisA huA ? dAdAzrI : aisA hai na ki jisakA jitanA hisAba utanA hI hamAre sAtha vaha rahatA hai, phira hisAba pUrA hote hI hamArI bahI meM se alaga ho jAtA hai| basa itanA hI isakA niyama hai| praznakartA: koI baccA paidA hone ke bAda turanta mara jAe, taba kyA usakA utanA hI lena-dena hotA hai? dAdAzrI : mAtA-pitA ke sAtha jitanA rAga-dveSa kA hisAba hai, utanA 58 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra pUrA ho gayA, pariNAma svarUpa mAtA-pitA ko rulAkara jAtA hai, bahuta rulAtA hai, sira bhI tur3avAtA hai| lar3akA DaoNkTara kA kharca bhI karavAtA hai, saba kucha karavA kara calA jAtA hai! baccoM kI mRtyu ke bAda unake lie ciMtA karane se unako duHkha jhelanA par3atA hai| hamAre loga ajJAnatA ke kAraNa aisA saba karate haiN| isalie tumheM yathArtha rUpa se samajhakara zAMti se rahanA caahie| Akhira bevajaha mAthApaccI kareM usakA kyA artha hai? bacce kahA~ nahIM marate ? yaha to sAMsArika RNAnubaMdha haiN| hisAbI lena-dena hai| hamAre bhI baccA-baccI the, para ve mara ge| mehamAna AyA thA vaha mehamAna gayA, vaha apanA kahA~ hai? kyA hameM bhI eka dina nahIM jAnA? hameM to jo jIvita haiM unheM zAMti denI hai| jo gayA so to gayA / use yAda karanA bhI chor3a do| yahA~ jIvita hoM, jitane hamAre Azrita hoM, unheM zAMti deM, utanA hamArA pharja yaha to gae hue ko yAda karate haiM aura yahA~ vAloM ko zAMti nahIM de sakate, yaha kaisA ? ataH Apa sabhI pharz2a bhUla rahe haiN| tumheM aisA lagatA hai? gayA so gyaa| jeba meM se lAkha rupaye kahIM gira jAe~ aura phira hAtha na AyeM taba hameM kyA karanA cAhie? kyA sira paTakanA cAhie? praznakartA: use bhUla jaaeN| dAdAzrI : hA~, ataH yaha saba nAsamajhI hai| sacamuca hama bApa-beTe hI nhiiN| beTA mara jAe taba ciMtA karane jaisA hai hI nhiiN| vAstava meM saMsAra meM ciMtA karane jaisI ho to vaha mAtA-pitA kI mRtyu ho, tabhI mana meM ciMtA honI caahie| lar3akA mara jAe to lar3ake ke sAtha hamArA kyA lenA-denA? mAtA-pitA ne to hama para upakAra kiyA thaa| mAtA ne to hameM nau mahIne peTa meM rakhA, phira bar3A kiyaa| pitA ne par3hAI ke lie fIsa dI haiM aura bahuta kucha diyA hai| Apako merI bAta samajha meM AtI hai? isalie jaba yAda Aye taba itanA bolanA ki 'he dAdA bhagavAna, yaha lar3akA Apako sauMpa diyA!' isa se Apako samAdhAna hogaa| tumhAre beTe ko yAda kara ke usakI AtmA

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra kA kalyANa ho aisA mana meM bolate rahanA, A~kha meM pAnI mata Ane denaa| Apa to jaina thIari (siddhAMta) samajhanevAle AdamI ho| Apa to jAnate ho ki kisI ke mara jAne ke bAda aisI bhAvanA karanI cAhie ki, 'usakI AtmA kA kalyANa ho| he kRpAludeva, usakI AtmA kA kalyANa kro|' usake badale hama mana meM DhIle hoM yaha to acchA nhiiN| apane hI svajana ko du:kha meM DAleM yaha apanA kAma nhiiN| Apa to samajhadAra, vicArazIla aura saMskArI loga ho, isalie jaba-jaba mRta beTA yAda Aye taba aisA bolanA ki, 'usakI AtmA kA kalyANa ho| he vItarAga bhagavAna, usakI AtmA kA kalyANa kro|' aise bolate rhnaa| kRpAludeva kA nAma loge, dAdA bhagavAna kahoge to bhI ApakA kAma hogaa| kyoMki dAdA bhagavAna aura kRpAlu deva AtmasvarUpa meM eka hI haiN| deha se alaga dikhate haiN| A~khoM se alaga dikhate haiM, para vAstava meM eka hI haiN| isalie mahAvIra bhagavAna kA nAma doge, to bhI vahI kA vahI hai| usakI AtmA kA kalyANa ho' itanI hI bhAvanA niraMtara hameM rakhanI hai| hama jinake sAtha niraMtara raheM, sAtha meM khAyA-pIyA, to hama unakA kisI prakAra kalyANa ho aisI bhAvanA karate rheN| hama auroM ke lie acchI bhAvanA karate haiM, to phira ye to apane khuda ke loga, unake lie kyoM bhAvanA na kareM? hamane pustakoM meM likhA hai ki tujhe 'kalpa' ke aMta taka bhaTakanA pdd'egaa| usakA nAma 'klpaaNt|' kalpAMta kA artha aura kisI ne kiyA hI nahIM hai na? tumane Aja pahalI bAra sunA na? praznakartA : hA~, pahalI bAra sunaa| dAdAzrI : ataH isa 'kalpa' ke aMta taka bhaTakanA par3atA hai aura loga kyA karate haiM? bahuta kalpAMta karate haiN| are mue, kalpAMta kA artha pUcha to sahI ki kalpAMta yAnI kyA? kalpAMta to koI ekAdha manuSya karatA hai| kalpAMta to kisI kA ikalautA beTA ho, usakI acAnaka mRtyu ho jAe usa sthiti meM kalpAMta ho sakatA hai| praznakartA : dAdAjI ke kitane bacce the? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra dAdAzrI : eka lar3akA aura eka lar3akI thii| 1928 meM putra janmA taba maiMne mitroM ko per3e khilAye the| bAda meM 1931 meM guz2ara gyaa| taba maiMne phira sabako per3e khilaaye| pahale to sabane aisA samajhA ki dUsarA putra janmA hogA, isalie per3e khilAte hoNge| peDe khilAye taba taka maiMne spaSTIkaraNa nahIM diyaa| khilAne ke bAda maiMne sabase kahA, 've 'gesTa' (mahemAna) Aye the na, ve gae!' ve sammAnapUrvaka Aye the, to hama unheM sammAnapUrvaka vidA kreN| isalie yaha sammAna kiyaa| isa para sabhI mujhe DA~Tane lge| are, DA~To mata, sammAnapUrvaka vidA karanA caahie| bAda meM 'biTiyA' AI thii| use bhI sammAnapUrvaka bulAyA aura sammAnapUrvaka vidA kiyaa| isa duniyA meM jo Ate haiM, ve sabhI jAte haiN| usake bAda to ghara meM aura koI hai nahIM, maiM aura hIrAbA (dAdAjI kI dharmapatnI) do hI haiN| (1958 meM) jJAna hone se pahale hIrAbA ne kahA, 'bacce mara gae aura aba hamAre bacce nahIM haiM, kyA kareMge hama? bur3hApe meM hamArI sevA kauna karegA?' unheM ulajhana huI! ulajhana nahIM hotI? taba maiMne unheM samajhAyA, 'Aja-kala ke bacce ApakA dama nikAla deNge| bacce zarAba pIkara AyeM taba tumheM acchA lagegA?' taba unhoMne kahA, 'nahIM, vaha to acchA nahIM lgegaa|' taba maiMne kahA, ye Aye the ve gae, isalie maiMne per3e khilaaye|' usake bAda jaba unheM anubhava huA, taba mujhase kahane lagI, 'sabhI ke bacce bahuta du:kha dete haiN|' taba maiMne kahA, 'hama to pahale hI kaha rahe the, para Apa mAnatI nahIM thiiN|' jo parAyA hai, vaha apanA hotA hai kabhI? binA vajaha hAya-hAya krnaa| yaha deha jo parAyA hai, usa deha ke ve sage-saMbaMdhI! yaha deha parAyA aura usa parAye kI yaha sArI smptti| kabhI apanI hotI hogI? praznakartA : kyA kareM? ikalautA beTA hai| vaha hamase alaga ho gayA hai| dAdAzrI : vaha to tIna hoM, to bhI alaga ho jAte haiM aura agara vo alaga na hoM to hameM jAnA pdd'egaa| phira cAhe saba ikaTThe raheM to bhI

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra eka dina hameM jAnA par3egA sabakucha chodd'kr| chor3akara nahIM jAnA par3egA? to phira hAya-hAya kisalie? pichale janma ke bacce kahA~ gae? pichale janma ke bacce kahA~ rahate haiM? praznakartA: vo to Izvara jAne! dAdAzrI : lo! pichale janma ke baccoM kA patA nahIM, isa janma ke baccoM kA aisA huaa| ina sabakA kaba niber3A AyegA? mokSa meM jAne kI bAta karo na, varnA nAhaka adhogati meM cale jaaoge| parezAniyoM se jaba Uba jAe, taba usase kauna-sI gati hogI? yahA~ se phira manuSya gati meM se kisa gati meM janma hogA? jAnavara gati, ati niMdanIya kArya kie ho to narka gati meM bhI jAnA par3a sakatA hai| narkagati-pazugati pasaMda hai? eka-eka janma meM bhayaMkara mAra khAI hai, lekina pahale kI khAI mAra bhUlatA jAtA hai aura nayI mAra khAtA rahatA hai| pichale janma ke bacce chor3a AtA hai aura naye, isa janma ke bacce gale lagAtA hai| 14. nAtA, rileTiva yA riala? yaha rileTiva saMbaMdha hai! saMbhala saMbhalakara kAma lenA hai| yaha rileTiva saMbaMdha hai, isalie Apa jitanA rileTiva rakheMge utanA rhegaa| Apa jaisA rakheMge vaisA rahegA, isakA nAma vyavahAra hai| __ Apa mAnate haiM ki lar3akA merA hai, isalie kahA~ jAnevAlA hai? are! ApakA lar3akA hai, magara ghar3Ibhara meM virodhI ho jaaegaa| koI AtmA bApa-beTA nahIM hotaa| yaha to pArasparika lena-dena kA hisAba hai| ghara jAkara aisA mata kahanA ki Apa mere pitA nahIM hai| vaise ve vyavahAra se to, pitA haiM hI na! ___ saMsAra meM DrAmeTika rahane kA hai| 'AIe bahana jI' Ao beTI,' aise, yaha saba supara phalyuasa (Upara-Upara se) vyavahAra karane kA hai| taba ajJAnI kyA karatA hai ki beTI ko godI meM biThAyA karatA hai. beTI bhI usa para cir3hatI hai jaba ki jJAnIpuruSa vyavahAra meM supara phalyuasa rahate haiN| isalie sabhI una para khuza rahate haiM, kyoMki loga supara phalyuasa 62 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra vyavahAra cAhate haiN| jyAdA Asakti logoM ko pasaMda nahIM hotii| isalie hameM bhI supara phalyuasa rahanA hai| isa saba jhaMjhaTa meM par3anA nahIM hai| jJAnI kyA samajhate haiM? beTI kI zAdI haI. vaha bhI vyavahAra aura beTI becArI vidhavA huI, vaha bhI vyvhaar| yaha 'riala' nahIM hotaa| ye donoM hI vyavahAra haiM, rileTiva haiM aura kisI se palaTA nahIM jA sakatA aisA hai! aba ye loga kyA karate haiM? dAmAda mara jAe, usake pIche sira phor3eM, taba ulTA DaoNkTara bulAnA par3atA hai| ulTA vaha rAga-dveSa ke adhIna hai na! vyavahAra, vyavahAra hai aisA samajha meM AyA nahIM hai isIlie na! baccoM ko DA~TanA par3e, bIvI ko do zabda kahane par3eM to nATakIya bhASA meM, ThaMDA rahakara gussA krnaa| nATakIya bhASA yAnI kyA ki ThaMDe kaleje se gussA krnaa| isako kahate haiM nATaka! 15. vaha hai lena-dena, nAtA nahIM bIvI-bacce agara apane hote na, taba isa zarIra ko kitanI bhI takalIfa hotI to usameM se thor3I vAipha le letI, 'ardhAginI' kahalAtI hai na! lakavA mAra gayA ho to lar3akA le legA? nahIM, koI letA nhiiN| yaha to saba hisAba hai! bApa ke pAsa jitanA tumhArA mA~gane kA hisAba thA, utanA hI tumheM milA hai| eka lar3ake ko usakI mA~, kucha galata nahIM kare to bhI mAratI rahatI hai aura eka lar3akA bahuta Udhama macAtA ho, phira bhI use lAr3a karatI rahatI hai| pA~coM lar3ake usI mA~ ke haiM lekina pA~coM ke prati alaga alaga bartAva hotA hai, isakI kyA vajaha? praznakartA : unameM se pratyeka ke karma ke udaya bhinna hoMge? dAdAzrI : vaha to hisAba hI cuka rahA hai| mA~ ko pA~coM lar3akoM para samAna bhAva rakhanA cAhie, para rahegA kaise? aura phira lar3ake kahate haiM, merI mA~ isakA pakSa letI hai| aise cillAte haiN| isa duniyA meM aise jhagar3e

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 63 praznakartA : to usa lar3ake ke prati usa mA~ ko aisA baira bhAva kyoM hotA hai? dAdAzrI : vaha usakA kucha pUrvabhava kA baira hai| dUsare lar3ake ke prati pUrvabhava kA rAga hai| isalie rAga jatAtI hai| loga nyAya khojate haiM ki pA~coM lar3ake usake lie samAna kyoM nahIM? kucha lar3ake apane mAtA-pitA kI sevA karate haiM, aisI sevA karate haiM ki khAnA-pInA bhI bhUla jaaeN| sabake lie aisA nahIM hai| hameM jo milA hai saba apanA hI hisAba hai| apane doSa ke kAraNa hama ikaTThA hue haiN| isa kaliyuga meM hama kyoM Aye? satyuga nahIM thA? satyuga meM saba sIdhe the| kaliyuga meM saba Ter3he mila Ate haiN| lar3akA acchA ho to samadhI Ter3hA mile aura vaha lar3AIjhagar3e karatA rhe| bahU jhagar3AlU mile aura jhagar3atI hI rhe| koI na koI aisA mila jAtA hai aura ghara meM lar3AI-jhagar3e calate hI rahate haiM lagAtAra / praznakartA : 'vanaspati meM bhI prANa haiM' aisA kahate haiN| aba Ama kA per3a ho, usa per3a ke jitane bhI Ama hoM, una sabhI AmoM kA svAda eka-sA hotA hai, jaba ki ina manuSyoM meM pA~ca lar3ake hoM to pA~coM lar3akoM ke vicAra - vANI - vartana alaga-alaga, aisA kyoM? dAdAzrI : AmoM meM bhI alaga-alaga svAda hotA hai, ApakI samajhane kI zakti nahIM hai, lekina pratyeka Ama kA alaga-alaga svAda, pratyeka patte meM bhI pharka hotA hai| eka se dikhate haiM, eka hI prakAra kI sugandha ho, para kucha na kucha pharka hotA hai| kyoMki isa saMsAra kA niyama aisA hai ki 'spesa' ( jagaha) badalane para pharka hotA hI hai| praznakartA: Ama taura para kahate haiM na ki ye saba parivAra hote haiM na, ve eka vaMza paraMparA se ikaTThA hote haiN| dAdAzrI : hA~, ve sabhI hamArI jAna pahacAnavAle hI hote haiN| apanA hI sarkala, saba sAtha rahanevAle, samAna guNavAle haiM, isalie rAga-dveSa ke kAraNa vahA~ para janma lete haiM aura hisAba cukAne ke lie ikaTThA hote haiN| vAstava meM A~khoM se aisA dikhAI detA hai, para vaha bhrAMti se hai aura jJAna se aisA nahIM hai| 64 haina? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra praznakartA : yaha jo janma lenevAlA hai, vaha apane karmoM se janma letA dAdAzrI : nizcaya hI, vaha gorA hai yA kAlA hai, nATA hai yA lambA hai, vaha usake karmoM se hai| yaha to logoM ne ina A~kho se dekhA ki beTe kI nAka to ekz2ekTa vaisI hI dikhatI hai, isalie pitA ke guNa hI putra meM utare haiN| taba bApa saMsAra meM kRSNa bhagavAna hue, to kyA beTA bhI kRSNa bhagavAna ho gayA? aise to kaIM kRSNa bhagavAna ho ge| sabhI prakaTa puruSa kRSNa bhagavAna hI kahalAte haiN| lekina unakA eka bhI lar3akA kRSNa bhagavAna huA ? ataH yaha to nAsamajhI kI bAteM haiM !! agara pitA ke guNa putra meM Ate hoM, taba to sabhI baccoM meM samAna rUpa se Ane caahie| yaha to pitA ke jo pUrva janma ke pahacAnavAle haiM, sirpha unake guNa milate haiN| tumhArI pahacAnavAle saba kaise hote haiM? tumhArI buddhi se milate haiM, tumhAre Azaya se milate haiN| jo tumase milate-julate hoM, ve isa janma meM phira bacce hoNge| arthAt unake guNa tumase milate haiM, para vAstava meM to unake apane guNa hI dhAraNa karate haiN| sAyanTisToM (vaijJAnikoM) ko aisA lagatA hai ki ye guNa paramANu meM se Ate haiM lekina vaha to apane khuda ke hI guNa dhAraNa karatA hai| phira koI burA, nAlAyaka ho to zarAbI bhI nikalatA hai| kyoMki jaise jaise saMyoga usane jamA kie haiM, aisA hI hotA hai| kisI ko virAsata meM kucha bhI nahIM miltaa| arthAt virAsata kevala dikhAvA hai| zeSa, pUrvajanma meM jo unakI pahacAnavAle the, ve hI Aye haiN| praznakartA : yAnI jo hisAba cukatA karane ke haiM, RNAnubaMdha cukAne haiM, ve hisAba cukatA karake pUre ho jAte haiM? dAdAzrI : hA~, ve sabhI cukatA ho jAte haiN| isalie mujhe yahA~ para yaha vijJAna kholanA par3A ki are ! usameM bApa kA kyA doSa hai? tU krodhI, terA bApa krodhI, magara yaha terA bhAI ThaMDA kyoM hai? agara tujha meM tere bApa kA guNa utpanna huA ho to terA yaha bhAI ThaMDA kyoM hai? yaha saba nahIM

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baccoM kA mA~-bApa ke prati vyavahAra (utarArdha) 16. 'TInejarsa' (yuvA umravAloM) ke sAtha 'dAdAzrI' praznakartA : Adarza vidyArthI ke jIvana meM kina-kina lakSaNoM kI mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra samajhate, isalie loga binA vajaha jhaMjhaTa karate haiM aura jo Upara se dikhAI detA hai, use hI satya mAnate haiN| bAta gaharAI se samajhane lAyaka hai| yaha jo maiMne batAI utanI hI nahIM hai, yaha to bahuta gahana bAta hai! ye to hisAba se hI lete haiM aura cukAye jA rahe haiM! AtmA kisI kA beTA nahIM hotA aura na hI kisI kA pitA hotA hai| AtmA kisI kI patnI nahIM hotA, na hI kisI kA pati hotA hai| yaha saba RNAnubaMdha haiN| karma ke udaya se ekatra hue haiN| abhI (isa janma meM) logoM ko yaha pratIta hotA hai| lekina hameM bhI yaha pratIta ho rahA hai aura yaha kevala pratIta hotA hai itanA hI, vAstava meM dRzyamAna bhI nahIM hotaa| vAstavika hotA na, to koI lar3atA hI nhiiN| yaha to eka ghaNTe meM hI jhamelA ho jAtA hai, matabheda ho jAtA hai, taba lar3a par3ate haiM ki nahIM lar3a par3ate? 'merI-terI' karate haiM ki nahIM karate? praznakartA : karate haiN| dAdAzrI : isalie kevala AbhAsa hai na, 'ekjekTa' (vAstavika) nahIM hai| kaliyuga meM AzA mata krnaa| kaliyuga meM AtmA kA kalyANa ho aisA karo, varnA samaya bahuta vicitra A rahA hai, Age bhayAvaha vicitra samaya A rahA hai| aba ke bAda ke hajAra sAla acche haiM, lekina tatpazcAt bhayAvaha kAla AnevAlA hai| phira kaba maukA milegA? isalie hama AtmArtha kucha kara leN| jarUrata hai? dAdAzrI : vidyArthI ko ghara ke jitane vyakti hoM, una sabako khuza rakhane kI jarUrata hai aura phira skUla meM jina logoM ke sAtha hoM, hamArI jo TIcara hoM, una sabako khuza rakhane kI jarUrata hai| hama jahA~ jAe, vahA~ sabako khuza rakhanA cAhie aura apanI par3hAI meM bhI dhyAna lagAnA caahie| dAdAzrI : tumane kabhI jaMtu mAre the? praznakartA : haaN| dAdAzrI : kahA~ mAre the? praznakartA : bagIce meM, pIche bAr3e meN| dAdAzrI : kauna-se jaMtu the? kokroca vagairaha the? praznakartA : sabhI ko mArA thaa| dAdAzrI : manuSya ke bacce ko mAra DAlatA hai kyA? praznakartA : nhiiN| dAdAzrI : kisI ke bacce ko nahIM mArate? yaha kisI kA baccA ho to mAra nahIM sakate?

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra praznakartA : nhiiN| dAdAzrI : aisA kyoM? aba tUne jisa jaMtu ko mArA, vaisA eka tU mujhe banA kara degA? lAkha rupaye inAma duuNgaa| yadi koI eka jIva banAkara degA, to use lAkha rupaye inAma duuNgaa| tU banA degA? nahIM banegA? praznakartA : nhiiN| dAdAzrI : taba phira hama kaise mAra sakate haiM? kyA isa duniyA meM koI eka bhI jIva banA sakatA hai? ye sAinTisTa loga banA sakate haiM? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra praznakartA : lagatA hai| dAdAzrI : hA~, taba aisA use bhI lagatA hai| binA hakka kA gaDDA to bahuta gaharA! phira se Upara A hI nahIM skte| isalie caukannA rahakara calanA acchaa| isalie tU saMbhala jaanaa| abhI to javAnI hai, jise bur3hApA AnevAlA ho, unheM hama kucha nahIM khte| yaha bhaya signala tujhe dikhAte haiN| praznakartA : hA~, hA~, nahIM le jAU~gA, dUsare kI bIbI nahIM le jaauuNgaa| praznakartA : nhiiN| dAdAzrI : hA~, ThIka hai| le jAne kA vicAra bhI mata krnaa| kisI strI ke prati AkarSaNa ho to bhI 'he dAdA bhagavAna! mujhe kSamA karo' khnaa| dAdAzrI : to phira jo banA sakate nahIM, use hama nahIM mAra skte| yaha kursI banAte haiM, ye saba cIjeM banAte haiM, usakA nAza kara sakate haiN| terI samajha meM AyA? praznakartA : haaN| dAdAzrI : aba kyA karegA? praznakartA : kisI ko nahIM maaruuNgaa| dAdAzrI : usa jaMtu ko marane kA Dara lagatA hai? hama mArane jAe~ to bhAgatA hai? praznakartA : haaN| dAdAzrI : to phira kaise mAra sakate ho? aura isa gehU~, bAjarA ko bhaya nahIM lagatA, use harja nahIM, kyA? gehU~, bAjarA, laukI ye saba bhAgate haiM kyA? hama cAkU lekara jAe~ to laukI bhAga jAtI hai? praznakartA : nhiiN| dAdAzrI : taba usakI sabjI banAkara khA sakate haiN| tujhe marane kA Dara lagatA hai ki nahIM? baccoM ke lie mAtA-pitA ko kyA karanA cAhie? bacce bAhara kahIM mAna khoje nahIM aisA rkhnaa| ve mAna ke bhUkhe nahIM hoM aura bAhara mAna kI hoTaloM meM mAna khAne nahIM jaaeN| isake lie kyA karanA? ghara AyeM to aise bulAnA, 'beTA, tU to bar3A sayAnA hai, aisA hai, vaisA hai,' use thor3A sammAna denA arthAt usake sAtha phrenDazipa (mitratA) jaisA bhAva rakhanA caahie| usake sAtha baiThakara usake sira para hAtha phirA aura kahanA, 'beTe, calo hama bhojana kara leM, hama sAtha meM nAztA kareM' aisA honA caahie| taba vaha bAhara prema nahIM khojegaa| hama to pA~ca sAla kA baccA ho, usake sAtha bhI prema rakhate haiN| usake sAtha phrenDazipa rakhate haiN| praznakartA : pApA yA mammI mere para gussA kareM taba kyA karU~? dAdAzrI : 'jaya saccidAnaMda, jaya saccidAnaMda' bolnaa| aisA bologe na, to vaha zAnta ho jaaegii| ___pApA, mammI ke sAtha jhagar3A karane lageM, taba bacce sabhI 'saccidAnaMda, saccidAnaMda' kaheM to isase saba baMda ho jaae| donoM zarmA jAeMge becAre! bhaya kA alArma khIMce to turanta baMda ho jAte haiN|

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra ___ aba ghara ke sabhI logoM ko tere kAraNa AnaMda ho aisA rkhnaa| tujhe inake kAraNa du:kha ho to usakA samabhAva se nibaTArA karanA aura tujha se una sabako AnaMda ho aisA rkhnaa| phira una logoM kA prema dekhanA tU, kaisA prema hai? yaha tU prema brekaDAuna kara (tor3a) DAlatA hai| una logoM kA prema ho aura usa para tU patthara DAlatA rahe to sArA prema TUTa jaaegaa| praznakartA : bujurga hI kyoM z2yAdA garama ho jAte haiM? dAdAzrI : yaha to gAr3I khaTArA ho gaI ho, gAr3I purAnI ho gaI ho taba roz2a garama ho jAtI hai| agara nayI gAr3I ho to garama nahIM hotii| isalie bujurga becAroM ko kyA ....(umra hone ke kAraNa naI pIr3hI ke sAtha eDajasTamenTa nahIM le pAte aura TakarAva hotA rahatA hai|) gAr3I garama ho jAe to use hameM ThaMDI nahIM karanI par3atI? bAhara kisI ke sAtha kucha anabana ho gaI ho, rAste meM pulisavAle ke sAtha, taba ceharA imozanala (bhAvuka) ho gayA ho, taba tuma ceharA dekho to kyA kaho? 'tumhArA mu~ha jaba dekho taba utarA huA rahatA hai, hamezA laTakA huaa|' aisA nahIM bolanA caahie| hameM samajha lenA hai ki kisI mazkila meM haiN| isalie phira hama yU~ hI gAr3I ko ThaMDA karane ke lie nahIM rokate? bujurgoM kI sevA karanA to sabase bar3A dharma hai| yuvAoM kA dharma kyA? taba kahe, bujurgoM kI sevA krnaa| purAnI gAr3I ko dhakelakara le jAnA aura tabhI jaba hama buDDhe hoMge taba hameM dhakelanevAle mileNge| yaha to dekara lenA hai| hama vRddhoM kI sevA kareM to hamArI sevA karanevAle yuvA A mileMge aura hama vRddhoM ko dhamakAte phireM to hameM dhamakAnevAle A mileNge| phira Apako jo karanA ho, karane kI chUTa hai| 17. patnI kA cunAva jo yojanA banI hai, usameM koI parivartana honevAlA nahIM hai ! jo zAdI karane kI yojanA huI hai aura abhI hama taya kareM ki mujhe zAdI nahIM karanI mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra hai to vaha arthahIna bAta hai| usameM ApakA kucha calegA nahIM aura zAdI to karanI hI pdd'egii| praznakartA : isa janma meM hamane jo bhAvanA kI ho, vaha agale janma meM phalegI na? dAdAzrI : hA~, isa janma meM bhAvanA kareM to agale janma meM phalatI hai| para abhI to usakA chuTakArA hI nahIM! vartamAna meM usameM kisI kA nahIM calatA na! bhagavAna bhI rokane jAe~ ki zAdI mata karanA, taba bhagavAna kI bhI vahA~ para nahI calegI! pichale janma meM zAdI karane kI yojanA kI hI nahIM, isIlie zAdI kA saMyoga AtA nhiiN| jo yojanA kI hogI vahI aayegii| jaise saMDAsa gae binA kisI ko nahIM calatA, vaise hI zAdI kie binA cale aisA nahIM hai ! terA mana ku~ArA hai, to harja nahIM hai| lekina jahA~ mana zAdI-zudA hai, vahA~ zAdI kie binA nahIM calatA aura kisI ke sahAre ke binA manuSya nahIM raha sktaa| sahAre ke binA kauna raha sakatA hai? 'jJAnIpuruSa' akele hii| dUsarA koI nahIM ho vahA~ para bhii| kyoMki khuda nirAlaMba hue haiN| kisI avalaMbana kI unheM jarUrata hI nahIM hai| ___ manuSya becAre binA sahAre ke nahIM jI skte| bIsa lAkha rupaye kA bar3A baMgalA ho aura rAta ko akele sone ko kaheM to? use sahArA caahie| manuSyoM ko sahArA cAhie, isalie to zAdI karate hai na! zAdI kI praNAlI kucha galata nahIM hai| yaha to kudarata kA niyama hai| isalie zAdI karane meM sahaja prayatna rakhanA, mana meM bhAvanA rakhanA ki acchI jagaha zAdI karanI hai, phira vaha sTezana Ane para utara jaanaa| sTezana Ane se pahale daur3a-dhUpa kareM to kyA ho? tujhe pahale daur3a-dhUpa karanI hai? praznakartA : nahIM, sTezana Aye tb| dAdAzrI : hA~, sTezana ko hamArI garaja hai aura hameM sTezana kI garaja

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72 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 71 hai| 'hama' (dAdAjI ko) akele ko hI sTezana kI garaja nhiiN| sTezana ko bhI hamArI garaja hai ki nahIM? praznakartA: Apake saMgha meM sammilita honevAle yavaka-yavatiyA~ zAdI kI nA kaheM, taba Apa unheM akele meM kyA upadeza dete haiM? dAdAzrI : maiM akele meM unheM zAdI karane ko kaha detA hU~ ki bhAI, Apa zAdI karoge to thor3I-bahuta lar3akiyA~ ThikAne laga jaaegii| mujhe to Apa vivAhita hokara Ao to bhI koI parezAnI nahIM hai| yaha hamArA mokSa mArga zAdI-zudA logoM ke lie hai| maiM to unheM kahatA hU~ ki zAdI karo to lar3akiyA~ kama hoM aura yahA~ mokSa zAdI karane se aTake aisA nahIM hai| lekina unhoMne kyA patA lagAyA ki zAdI karane se jhaMjhaTa bahata hotI hai| ve kahate haiM, 'hamane apane mAtA-pitA kA sukha (!) dekhA hai| isalie vaha sukha (!) hameM acchA nahIM lgtaa|' yAnI ve hI mAtA-pitA ke sukha kA pramANa dete haiN| Ajakala mAtA-pitA ke lar3AI-jhagar3e bacce ghara meM dekhate hI hai aura unase Uba gae hote haiN| lar3ake para dabAva mata DAlanA varnA tumhAre sira para AyegA ki mere pitA ne bigaadd'aa| unheM calAnA nahIM AtA usase bigar3atA hai aura nAma hamArA AtA hai| use bulAkara kahanA, 'hameM lar3akI pasaMda AI hai, aba tujhe pasaMda ho to bola aura pasaMda nahIM ho, to hama rahane deN|' taba yadi vaha kahe, 'mujhe pasaMda nahIM,' to use rahane do| lar3ake ke pAsa svIkRti avazya karavAnA, varnA lar3akA bhI viruddha ho jaaegaa| praznakartA : yaha lava mairija (prema vivAha) pApa ginA jAtA hai? dAdAzrI : nahIM, TempararI (asthAyI) lava mairija ho to pApa mAnI jaaegii| paramAnenTa (sthAyI) lava mairija ho to nhiiN| arthAt lAipha loMga (jIvanabhara) lava mairija ho to harakata nhiiN| TempararI lava mairija arthAt eka-do sAla ke lie| byAhanA ho to eka ko hI byAhanA caahie| patnI mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra ke alAvA aura kisI se phrenDazipa bahuta nahIM karanI cAhie varnA narka meM jAnA pdd'egaa| ___ pahale jaba pitAjI ne kahA ki, 'yaha laphar3A kyoM karane lagA hai?' taba beTA ulTA-sIdhA bolane lgaa| isalie usake pitA ne samajhA ki 'use apane Apa anubhava hone do! hamArA anubhava lene ko taiyAra nahIM hai| taba use apanA anubhava hone do|' vaha use dUsaroM ke sAtha dekhegA na! taba anubhava hogA! taba pachatAyegA ki pitAjI kahate the, vaha bAta sahI hai| yaha to laphar3A hI hai| praznakartA : moha aura prema kI bhedarekhA kyA hai? dAdAzrI : yaha pataMgA hai n| pataMgA dIpaka ke pIche par3akara 'yA homa' ho jAtA hai na? vaha apanI jindagI khatama kara detA hai| yaha 'moha' kahalAtA hai| jaba ki prema hamezA TikatA hai, yadyapi usameM bhI thor3I Asakti ke darda hote haiN| jo moha hotA hai, vaha TikAU nahIM hotaa| yahA~ bAraha mahIne taka itanA phor3A huA ho na, to mu~ha bhI nahIM dekhatA, moha chUTa jAtA hai| yadi saccA prema ho to eka phor3A to kyA, do phor3e hoM to bhI prema nahIM jAtA hai| isalie aisA prema DhUMDha nikaalnaa| varnA zAdI hI mata krnaa| nahIM to pha~sa jaaoge| vaha mu~ha car3hAegI taba kahoge, 'mujhe isakA mu~ha dekhanA acchA nahIM lgtaa|' jaba dekhA taba acchA lagA thA, isalie to tujhe pasaMda AyA thA aura aba yaha pasaMda nahIM? yaha to mIThA bolate ho taba taka pasaMda AtA hai aura kar3avA bole to kahe, 'mujhe tere sAtha acchA nahIM lgtaa|' praznakartA : 'DeTiMga' zurU ho gayA ho, aba use kaise baMda kareM? dAdAzrI : baMda kara denaa| isI vakta taya karo ki yaha baMda kara denA hai| hama kaheM ki yahA~ tU chalA jA rahA haiM, to phira chalA jAnA baMda kara de| naye sire se Thage jAnA bNd| jaba jAge taba sveraa| jaba samajha meM AyA ki yaha galata ho rahA hai to baMda kara denA caahie|

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73 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra vAilDa lAipha (asaMskRta jIvana) nahIM honI cAhie, inDiyana lAipha (saMskRta jIvana) honI caahie| tuma acche hoge taba tumheM patnI bhI acchI milegii| usakA nAma hI 'vyavasthita,' jo ekjekTa hotA hai| (vyavasthita zakti yAnI sAiMTiphika sarakamasTenziyala eviDansesa, jo hameM hamAre karmoM ke anusAra saMyoga ikaTThe karake detI hai|) praznakartA : koI bhI laDakI clegii| maiM kacha kalara-valara meM nahIM maantaa| jo lar3akI acchI ho, amarikana ho ki inDiyana ho, to bhI harja nhiiN| dAdAzrI : para aisA hai na, yaha amarikana Ama aura hamAre AmoM meM pharka hotA hai, yaha tU nahIM jAnatA? kyA pharka hotA hai hamAre AmoM meM? praznakartA : hamAre mIThe hote haiN| dAdAzrI : hA~, taba phira dekhnaa| vaha mIThe cakhakara to dekha, hamAre inDiyA ke| praznakartA : abhI cakhA nhiiN| dAdAzrI : nahIM, magara isameM pha~sanA nahIM! amarikana meM pha~sane jaisA nahIM hai| dekha, terI mammI aura pApA ko tUne dekhA na? kyA una donoM meM kabhI matabheda hotA hai yA nahIM hotA? praznakartA : matabheda to hotA hai| dAdAzrI : hA~, lekina usa vakta terI mammI ghara chor3akara calI jAtI hai kabhI? praznakartA : nahIM, nhiiN| dAdAzrI : aura vaha amarikana to 'yU yU' karatI yU~ bandUka dikhAkara calI jAtI hai aura yaha to sArA jIvana rahatI hai| isalie hama tujhe samajhAte mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra haiM ki bhAI, aisA mata karanA, isa tarapha mur3ane ke bAda pchtaaoge| yaha inDiyana to Akhira taka sAtha rahatI hai, hA~... rAta ko jhagar3A karake savere taka ripeyara (durasta) ho jAtI hai| praznakartA : bAta sahI hai| dAdAzrI : isalie aba taya kara le ki majhe bhAratIya laDakI ke sAtha zAdI karanI hai| inDiyana meM tujhe jo pasaMda ho vaha, brAhmina, baniyA jo tujhe acchI lage, usameM harja nhiiN| praznakartA : apanI birAdarI meM hI zAdI karane ke kyA lAbha hai, yaha z2arA btaaie| dAdAzrI: hamArI komyuniTI (jAti) kI patnI ho to hamAre svabhAva ke anukUla hogii| hameM kaMsAra parosA ho aura hama logoM ko ghI jyAdA caahie| yadi kisI aisI jAti kI lar3akI lAyA ho, to vaha parosegI nahIM, aisA nIcA hAtha karake DAlane meM hI usake hAtha duHkheNge| isalie usake bhinna svabhAva ke sAtha sArA dina TakarAva hotA rahegA aura apanI jAtivAlI ke sAtha kucha nahIM hotaa| samajha meM AyA na? vaha dUsarI to bhASA bole na, to vaha bhI bar3I saphAI ke sAtha bolatI hai aura hamArA doSa nikAlatI hai ki tumheM bolanA nahIM aataa| usakI tulanA meM hamArI acchI ki kucha kahe to nahIM, hameM DA~TegI to nhiiN| praznakartA : Apa kahate haiM ki apanI jAti kI ho vahA~ jhagar3A nahIM hotA, para apanI jAti kI ho, vahA~ para bhI jhagar3A hotA hai, isakI kyA vajaha? dAdAzrI : jhagar3A hotA hai magara usakA samAdhAna ho jAtA hai| usake sAtha sArA dina acchA lagatA hai aura dUsarI (vijAtIya) ke sAtha acchA nahIM lgtaa| ekAdha ghaNTA acchA lagatA hai aura phira Uba jAte haiN| vaha Aye aura jhuMjhalAhaTa AtI hai| apanI jAti kI ho to pasaMda AtI hai, varnA pasaMda hI nahIM aatii| ye saba jo pachatAye haiM, unake udAharaNa kahatA huuN| ye saba loga burI taraha pha~sa gaye the| aba to aMtarajAtIya zAdI karane meM harja nahIM hai, pahale thor3I takalIpha thii|

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 75 praznakartA: apane hAtha meM kahA~ hai? apane hAtha meM nahIM hai na, amarikana patnI AyegI yA nahIM? dAdAzrI : hAtha meM nahIM, phira bhI aise anadekhI thor3e kara sakate haiM? kahanA to par3egA na, 'eya! usa amarikana lar3akI ke sAtha tuma mata ghUmanA ! apanA kAma nahIM hai|' aise kahate raheM taba apane Apa hI asara hogaa| varnA vaha samajhegA ki isake sAtha ghUmate haiM, vaise hI usake sAtha bhI ghuumeN| kahane meM kyA harja hai? yadi muhallA kharAba ho, taba vahA~ borDa lagAte hai, 'biveara oNpha thIvsa' (coroM se sAvadhAna ) aisA kyoM karate haiM? ki jinheM saMbhalanA ho vaha saMbhale / ye zabda, kAma Ate haiM ki nahIM Ate? pitRpakSa kula kahalAtA hai aura mAtR pakSa ko jAti kahate haiN| jAti kula kA mizraNa ho to saMskAra Ate haiN| akelI jAti ho aura kula nahIM ho taba bhI saMskAra nahIM hote| akelA kula ho, jAti nahIM ho taba bhI saMskAra nahIM hote| jAti aura kula donoM kA mizraNa, ekz2ekTanesa ho tabhI saMskArI loga janmate haiN| ye donoM pakSa acche jamA hue hoM to bAta Age bar3hAnA, dUsarI bAtoM meM maz2A nahIM hai| ataH mAtA jAtivAna honI cAhie aura pitA kulavAna honA caahie| unakI saMtAna bahuta umdA hogii| jAti meM viparIta guNa nahIM hote aura pitA meM kulavAna prajA ke guNa hote haiN| kula ke ThATha sahita dUsaroM ke lie ghisa jAte haiN| logoM ke lie ghisa jAte haiM, bahuta U~cA kulavAna kauna ? donoM ora se nukasAna sahana kre| Ate samaya bhI kharca kare aura jAte samaya bhI kharca kre| varanA saMsAra ke loga kaise kulavAna kahalAe~ ? lete samaya pUrA leM para dete samaya thor3A z2yAdA deM, tolAbhara jyAdA deN| loga cAlIsa tole deM, lekina khuda ikatAlIsa tole deN| Dabala kulavAna kauna ? khuda unatAlIsa tole leM, eka tolAbhara vahA~ kama leM aura dete samaya eka tolAbhara z2yAdA deM, vaha Dabala kulavAna kahalAte haiN| donoM tarapha se nukasAna uThAyeM arthAt vahA~ para kama kyoM lete haiM? vaha unakI jAtivAlA duHkhI hai, usakA duHkha dUra karane ke lie! yahA~ bhI bhAva, vahA~ bhI bhaav| maiM aise logoM ko dekhatA taba kyA kahatA thA, ye dvApara yugI aaye| mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra aba ucca kula ho aura kula kA ahaMkAra kare, to dUsarI bAra use nimna kula milatA hai aura namratA rakheM to ucca kula meM jAtA haiN| yaha apanI hI zikSA hai, apanI hI phasala hai| ve guNa hameM prApta nahIM karane par3ate, sahaja hI prApta hote haiN| vahA~ ucca kula meM janma hone para, hameM janma se hI sabhI acche saMskAra prApta hote haiN| 76 ye sabhI vyavahAra meM kAma kI bAteM haiM, ye jJAna kI bAteM nahIM haiN| vyavahAra meM cAhie na ! praznakartA: dAdAjI, Apane ThIka kahA hai| jJAna kI coTI taka pahu~cane taka hama vyavahAra meM haiM, to vyavahAra meM ye jJAna kI bAteM bhI kAma meM AtI haiM na? dAdAzrI : hA~, kAma meM AtI haiM na! vyavahAra bhI acchA calatA hai| 'jJAnIpuruSa' meM vizeSatA hotI hai| 'jJAnIpuruSa' ke pAsa bodhakalA aura jJAnakalA donoM kalAe~ hotI haiN| bodhakalA sUjha se utpanna huI hai aura jJAnakalA jJAna se utpanna huI hai isalie vahA~ (jJAnIpuruSa ke pAsa) para hamArA nirAkaraNa A jAtA hai| kisI dina aisI bAtacIta kI ho to usameM kyA harja ? isameM hamArA kyA nukasAna hai? 'dAdA' bhI baiThe hote haiM, unakI koI phIsa nahIM hotii| fIsa ho to harja ho / praznakartA : yuvaka aura yuvatiyA~ vivAhita jIvana meM praveza karane se pahale strI athavA puruSa kI pasaMda kisa prakAra kareM aura kyA kareM? kyA dekheM? guNa kisa prakAra dekheM? dAdAzrI : vaha z2yAdA dekhane kI jarUrata nahIM haiN| yuvaka-yuvatiyA~ zAdI ke vakta dekhane jAe~ aura AkarSaNa nahIM ho to baMda rakhanA / dUsarI bAteM dekhane kI jarUrata nahIM hai| AkarSaNa hotA hai yA nahIM, itanA hI dekhanA / praznakartA: kisa prakAra kA AkarSaNa ? dAdAzrI ina AMkhoM kA AkarSaNa hotA hai, bhItara AkarSaNa hotA hai| bAz2Ara meM tumheM koI cIz2a kharIdanI ho, taba usa cIz2a kA eTrekzana (AkarSaNa) nahIM ho to tuma kharIda nahIM skte| arthAt usakA hisAba

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78 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 77 ho to hI AkarSaNa hotA hai| kudarata ke hisAba ke bagaira koI vivAha nahIM ho sktaa| ata: AkarSaNa honA caahie| yaha majAka karane kA yuga hai| isalie striyoM kA maz2Aka ho rahA hai| lar3akI dekhane jAtA hai, taba lar3akA kahatA hai... aise ghUmo, vaise ghuumo| itanA maz2Aka! Ajakala to lar3ake lar3akiyoM ko pasaMda karane se pahale bahuta mInamekha nikAlate haiN| bahuta lambI hai, bahuta choTI hai, bahuta moTI hai, bahuta patalI hai, jarA kAlI hai' eka lar3akA aisA bola rahA thA, to maiMne use dhmkaayaa| maiMne kahA, 'terI mA~ bhI bahU huI thii| tU kisa prakAra kA manuSya hai?' striyoM kA aisA ghora apamAna ! agara loga mujhase kaheM ki jAie, Apako ijAz2ata hai, Apako isa laDake ko jo kahanA ho khie| vaha laDakA bhI kahe ki mujhe jo kahanA cAhe kahie, taba maiM kahU~ ki mue, ye lar3akI bhaiMsa haiM kyA, jo isa taraha dekhatA hai? bhaiMsa ko cAroM ora se dekhanA par3atA hai, isa lar3akI ko bhI? aba isakA badalA kaba letI hai striyA~ yaha jAnate ho? yaha maz2Aka kiyA usakA? isakA pariNAma lar3akoM ko kyA milegA bAda meM? yaha to striyoM kI saMkhyA jyAdA hai, isalie becAriyoM ke dAma ghaTa gae haiN| kudarata hI aisA karavAtI hai| aba isakA riekzana kaba AyegA? badalA kaba milatA hai? jaba striyoM kI saMkhyA kama ho jAtI hai aura puruSoM kI bar3ha jAtI hai, taba striyA~ kyA karatI haiM? svayaMvara! arthAt vaha byAhanevAlI eka aura ye eka sau bIsa puruss| svayaMvara meM sabhI sAfAvAphA pahanakara TAITa hokara Aye hoM aura mUMcho para aise tAva de rahe hoM! usakI rAha dekhate hoM ki kaba mujhe varamAlA pahanAye! vaha dekhatI dekhatI Aye, yaha samajhe ki mujhe pahanAyegI, aise garadana bhI Age kare para vaha ghAsa hI nahIM DAlatI na ! phira jaba usakA dila aMdara se kisI ke prati ekAkAra ho, AkarSaNa ho, use varamAlA phnaaye| phira cAhe vaha mUchoM para tAva detA ho yA nahIM detA ho! vahA~ phira maz2Aka hotA hai| bAkI sAre mUrakha banakara cale jAte haiM phira, aisA aisA krke| taba aisA majAka huA, isa taraha badalA milatA hai! Ajakala to bilakula saudebAjI ho gaI hai, saudebAjI ! prema kahA~ rahA, saudebAjI hI ho gaI! eka ora rupaye rakho aura eka ora hamArA lar3akA, tabhI zAdI hogI aisA kahate hai| eka tarAjU meM rupaye rakhane par3ate the, tarAjU ke tola para nApate the| 18. pati kA cayana paravazatA, nirI paravazatA! jahA~ dekho vahA~ paravaza! pitA sadA ke lie apane ghara meM beTI ko rakhate nahIM haiN| kahate haiM, 'vaha usake sasurAla meM hI zobhA detI hai' aura sasurAla meM to saba kevala DA~Tane ke lie baiThe hote haiN| tU bhI sAsa se kahe ki 'mA~jI, tumhArA maiM kyA karU~? mujhe to kevala pati cAhie thA?' taba kahe, 'nahIM, pati akelA nahIM AtA, vaha to sAtha meM lazkara AyegA hii| lAva-lazkara smet|' zAdI karane meM harja nahIM hai| zAdI karanA magara soca-samajhakara zAdI karo ki 'aisA hI nikalanevAlA hai|' aisA samajhakara bAda meM zAdI kro| ___ koI aise bhAva karake AI ho ki 'mujhe dIkSA lenI hai athavA mujhe brahmacarya pAlanA hai' taba bAta alaga hai| bAkI zAdI se to chuTakArA hI nhiiN| parantu pahale se taya karake zAdI kareM na ki, Age aisA honevAlA hai to jhaMjhaTa nahIM hogI, acaraja nahIM hogaa| taya karake paiThe aura sakha hI mAnakara paiThe, taba phira kevala parezAnI hI lagegI! zAdI to duHkha kA samaMdara hai| sAsa ke ghara meM dAkhila honA koI AsAna bAta hai? aba pati kahIM saMyoga se hI akelA hotA hai, yadi usake mAtA-pitA kA nidhana huA ho| jo sivilAijDa (saMskArI) haiM, ve lar3ate nhiiN| rAta ko donoM so jAte haiM, jhagar3A nahIM krte| jo anasivilAijDa (asaMskArI) haiM na, ve manuSya jhagar3A karate haiM, kleza karate haiN|

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra praznakartA : aba hama amarikana lar3akoM ke sAtha pArTI meM nahIM jaate| kyoMki usa pArTI meM khAnA-pInA (mA~sAhAra-zarAba) saba hotA hai| isalie hama una logoM kI pArTI meM nahIM jAte, para 'inDiyana' lar3ake pArTI rakhate haiM, usameM jAte haiM aura sabako, eka dUsare ke mammI-pApA pahacAnate haiN| dAdAzrI : para isameM phAyadA kyA milegA? praznakartA : enjoyamenTa, maz2A AtA hai| dAdAzrI : enjoyamenTa ! khAne meM bahuta enjoyamenTa hotA hai para khAne meM kyA karanA cAhie? use kaMTrola karanA cAhie ki bhAI, tujhe itanA hI milegaa| phira vaha dhIre dhIre enjoya karate karate khAte haiN| yaha to jyAdA chUTa dete haiM na, isalie enjoya nahIM krte| kisI dUsarI jagaha enjoyamenTa khojate haiN| isalie bhojana meM pahale kaMTrola karanA cAhie ki aba itanA hI milegA, jyAdA nahIM milegaa| praznakartA : hama hamAre lar3ake-lar3akiyoM ko aisI 'pArTiyoM' meM jAne deM? aisI pArTiyoM meM sAla meM kitanI bAra jAne deM? dAdAzrI : aisA hai na, lar3akiyoM ko unake mAtA-pitA ke kahane ke mutAbika calanA caahie| hamAre anubhaviyoM kI khoja hai ki lar3akiyoM ko sadaiva unake mAtA-pitA ke kahane ke anusAra calanA caahie| zAdI ke bAda pati ke kahane ke anusAra calanA caahie| apanI marjI ke anusAra nahIM karanA caahie| aisA hamAre jAnakAroM kA kahanA hai| praznakartA : lar3akoM ko mAtA-pitA ke kahane ke anusAra karanA cAhie yA nahIM? dAdAzrI: lar3akoM ko bhI mAtA-pitA ke kahane ke anusAra calanA hai, para lar3akoM ke lie thor3I DhIla rakho to calegA! kyoMki lar3ake ko rAta bAraha baje jAne ko kaho to akelA jAe, to harja nahIM, kintu tujhe rAta bAraha baje akelI jAne ko kahA ho to akelI jAegI? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra dAdAzrI : aura lar3akA ho to harja nahIM, lar3ake ko chUTa jyAdA honI cAhie aura lar3akiyoM ko chUTa kama honI cAhie, kyoMki tuma bAraha baje jA nahIM sktiiN| arthAt yaha tumhAre bhaviSya ke sukha ke khAtira kahate haiN| bhaviSya ke sukha ke lie yaha tumheM manA karate haiN| abhI tuma isa jhaMjhaTa meM par3ogI na, to bhaviSya bigAr3a dogii| tumhArA bhaviSya kA sukha ur3a jaaegaa| isalie bhaviSya nahIM bigar3e isa kAraNa tumheM kahate haiM ki 'bivera, bivera bivera (sAvadhAna, sAvadhAna, saavdhaan)|' praznakartA : hamAre hindU phemilI (parivAra) meM kahate haiM, 'lar3akI parAye ghara calI jAegI aura lar3akA kamA kara khilAnevAlA hai yA hamArA sahArA honevAlA hai|' aisI apekSAe~ hoM, aisI dRSTi rakheM aura lar3akI ke prati parivAravAle prema na rakheM to vaha ThIka hai? dAdAzrI : prema nahIM rakhate, yaha zikAyata karanevAlI khuda hI galata hai| yaha virodha hI galata hai| yahI nAsamajhI hai! prema nahIM rakheM aise koI mAtA-pitA hI nahIM hote| yaha to unako samajha hI nahIM, to phira kyA ho? prema nahIM rakhate aisA kaheM, to mAtA-pitA ko kitanA du:kha ho ki tujhe bacapana se pAlA-posA kisa lie, agara tujhe prema nahIM karanA thA to? praznakartA : taba phira mujhe aisA phIliMga (bhAva) kyoM huA ki mAtA-pitA prema nahIM karate? mujhe aisI dRSTi kahA~ se AI? dAdAzrI : nahIM, sabhI aise prazna khar3e karate haiM, kyA kareM isakA? choTI ho to er3I se dabA deM, para bar3I ho gaI isalie kareM bhI kyA? aba hameM naz2ara AtA hai, use yaha akla milI hai na, bAhara se buddhi milI hai na vaha viparIta buddhi hai| isalie khuda bhI duHkhI hotI hai aura auroM ko bhI du:khI karatI hai| praznakartA : hA~, Ajakala lar3akiyA~ bhI jaldI zAdI karane ko taiyAra nahIM hotI! praznakartA : nahIM jAU~gI, Dara lagatA hai|

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82 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra dAdAzrI : lar3akiyA~ taiyAra nahIM hotii| ho sake to zAdI jaldI ho jAe to acchaa| par3hAI khatama ho jAe aura idhara zAdI ho jAe, aisA ho sake to behtr| donoM sAtha meM ho jaae| yadi zAdI ke pazcAta ekAdha sAla meM paDhAI pUrI hotI ho to bhI harja nhiiN| lekina zAdI meM baMdha jAe, to 'lAipha' (jiMdagI) acchI guz2are, varnA bAda meM lAipha bahuta duHkhamaya hotI hai| phrenDa para moha yAnI sakhI kI bAta karatI ho yA sakhA kI? praznakartA : nahIM, donoM kii| dAdAzrI : (lar3akI ko) sakhA bhI! mUMchavAlA (puruSa) bhI! praznakartA : hA~, donoN| dAdAzrI : ThIka hai| taba usake sAtha hameM samabhAva se rahanA hai| usa ghar3I terI jAgRti rahanI caahie| usa ghar3I hoza kho denA nahIM caahie| jise brahmacarya kA pAlana karanA hai, jo mokSa cAhate haiM, una striyoM ko puruSoM kA paricaya kama se kama karanA, anivArya hone para hii| jinheM mokSa meM jAnA hai, unheM itanA jatana karanA caahie| aisA tujhe lagatA hai ki nahIM lagatA? tujhe kyA lagatA hai? praznakartA : hA~, karanA caahie| dAdAzrI : mokSa meM nahIM jAnA hai yA abhI cale aisA hai? praznakartA : nahIM, mokSa meM jAnA hai| dAdAzrI : to phira ina dostoM se kyA maitrI karanA? yaha nirA jUThana ! (usa lar3akI se) striyoM ke sAtha ghUmo-phiro, khAo pIo, caina se maz2A karo, puruSo ke saMga nhiiN|| praznakartA : dAdAjI, eka bahana pUchatI hai ki hameM lar3akoM ke sAtha 'phrenDalI rilezana' (maitrI saMbaMdha) hoM, phira bhI mAtA-pitA zaMkA kyoM karate haiM? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra dAdAzrI : nahIM, lar3akoM ke sAtha phrenDalI rilezana rakha hI nahIM skte| lar3akoM ke sAtha phrenDalI rilezana gunAha hai| praznakartA : usameM kyA gunAha hai? dAdAzrI : peTrola aura Aga, donoM sAtha nahIM rakha sakate na? ve donoM (lar3akA aura lar3akI) maukA DhU~Dhate rahate haiN| yaha soce ki kaba merI pakar3a meM Aye aura sAmanevAlA soce ki yaha kaba merI pakaDa meM Aye?! donoM zikAra kI tAka meM rahate haiM, donoM hI zikArI kahalAe! praznakartA : Apane kahA na ki lar3ake aura lar3akiyoM kI dostI nahIM karanI caahie| dAdAzrI : bilakula nahIM karanI caahie| praznakartA : bilakula nahIM karanI cAhie, aisA kahA isase una logoM ko saMtoSa nahIM huaa| dAdAzrI : vaha phrenDazipa Akhira meM poIz2ana (jahara) samAna hogI, Akhira poIz2ana hI hogii| lar3akI ko marane kA samaya AyegA, lar3ake kA kucha nahIM jaataa| isalie lar3ake ke sAtha to khar3A bhI nahIM rahanA caahie| lar3akoM se koI phrenDazipa karanA nhiiN| varnA vaha to poIz2ana hai| lAkha rupaye de phira bhI phrenDazipa mata krnaa| phira aMta meM jahara khAkara maranA par3atA hai| kitanI hI lar3akiyA~ jahara khAkara mara jAtI haiN| isalie umra hone para hameM ghara meM mAtA-pitA se kaha denA hai ki, kisI acche AdamI ke sAtha merA saMbaMdha kara DAlo, phira se TUTe nahIM aisA jor3a do| merI zAdI ke lie aba lar3akA ddhuuNddho| dAdA bhagavAna ne mujhase kahA hai ki 'tuma khnaa|' aise kaha denA, zarma meM mata rhnaa| taba unheM patA calegA ki baccoM kI khuzI hai, calo aba zAdI karavA deN| bAda meM do sAla bAda zAdI kara lenA, Amane sAmane pasaMda karake riztA jor3a denaa| zAdI ho jAne para dUsarA koI hamArI ora dekhegA nhiiN| kahegA, usakA to taya ho gayA!

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra yaha dostI acchI nahIM, loga to chala-kapaTavAle hote haiN| saheliyoM ke sAtha mitrAcArI kara sakate haiN| puruSoM kI mitrAcArI nahIM karanI caahie| dhokhA dekara nikala jAte haiN| koI vizvAsapAtra nahIM hotA, sabhI dgaabaaj| eka bhI asalI nahIM hotaa| bAhara kisI kA vizvAsa mata krnaa| zAdI kara lenA acchA, idhara-udhara bhaTakeM usameM sAra nahIM nikltaa| tere mAtA-pitA zAdI-zudA haiM to hai kucha jhaMjhaTa? aise tujhe bhI zAdI ke nAte se ba~dha jAnA pasaMda nahIM AyA? khUTe se ba~dhanA (zAdI ke rizte se jur3a jAnA) tujhe pasaMda nahIM? mukta rahanA pasaMda hai? lar3akiyoM se kahatA hU~ ki zAdI kyoM nahIM karatI? taba kahatI haiM, 'kyA dAdAjI Apa bhI aisA kahate haiM hameM zAdI karane ko kahate haiM!' maiMne kahA, 'isa saMsAra meM zAdI kie binA nahIM calegA, brahmacarya kA pAlana karanA hai aisA DisAiDa karo aura vaha bhI nizcita, yaqInana honA caahie| aisA na ho to zAdI kara lo, lekina do meM se eka meM A jaao|' taba kahatI haiM, 'kyoM zAdI karane ko kahate haiM?' maiMne kahA, 'kyoM? kyA takalIpha hai? koI acchA lar3akA nahIM milatA?' to bolI, 'acche lar3ake kahA~ haiM? buddha haiM, mue buddha se kyA zAdI karanI?' isa para maiM cauMka pdd'aa| maiMne kahA, 'ye lar3akiyA~ kaisI haiM? dekho to, abhI se inakA itanA pAvara hai, to bAda meM unheM kaise jIne deMgI, becAroM ko?' isalie kaIM lar3ake mujhase kahate haiM, 'hameM zAdI nahIM krnii|' lar3akiyA~ kyA kahatI haiM, 'buddhU se kyoM zAdI karU~?' maiMne kahA, 'aisA mata bolnaa| tere mana meM se, vaha buddha hai, yaha nikAla de| kyoMki zAdI kie binA cArA nahIM hai|' aisA nahIM cltaa| mana meM buddhU hai aisA ghusa jAye to phira sadaiva jhagar3e hote haiN| tujhe vaha buddhU hI lagatA rhegaa| sArA saMsAra mokSa kI ora hI jA rahA hai, para mokSa ke lie yaha saba hailpiMga (sahAyaka) nahIM hotaa| ye to lar3a-jhagar3a kara ulTe breka lagAte haiN| varnA garamI kA aisA svabhAva hai ki bAriza khIMca lAtI hai| jahA~ ho vahA~ se khIMca lAtI hai| garamI kA svabhAva hai, bar3hatI jAtI hai aura bAriza khIMca lAtI hai| yaha saMsAra bhar3aka rakhane jaisA nahIM hai| mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra isa saMsAra kA svabhAva aisA hai ki hameM mokSa kI ora le jAtA hai| mokSa ko khIMca lAtA hai| saMsAra jitanA jyAdA kaThina ho na, utanA mokSa jaldI AtA hai| lekina kaThina ho to hameM bigar3a nahIM jAnA cAhie, sthira rahanA caahie| sacce upAya karane jaisA hai, galata upAya karane para phira se gira par3ate haiN| duHkha AyA taba aisA samajhanA ki mere AtmA ke lie viTAmina milA aura sukha prApta huA to deha kA viTAmina milA, aise smjhnaa| hameM hara roja viTAmina milatA hai, hama to aisA mAnakara bacapana se TesTa karake Age bar3he haiN| Apa to eka hI taraha ke viTAmina ko viTAmina kahate ho, vaha buddhi kA viTAmina hai| jaba ki jJAna donoM ko viTAmina kahatA hai| vaha viTAmina acchA ki bahuta kucha khAne ko ho, phira bhI loga tapa karate haiN| majedAra sAga-sabjI ho, phira bhI loga tapa karate haiN| tapa karate haiM yAnI duHkha sahana karate haiM tAki AtmA kA viTAmina mile| yaha saba tumhAre sunane meM nahIM AyA hai? praznakartA : hA~, AyA hai daadaajii| dAdAzrI : aura yaha tapa to ghara baiThe apane Apa milatA hai| lava mairija pasaMda karane jaisI cIz2a nahIM hai| kala usakA mijAz2a kaisA nikale, kise mAlUma hai? mAtA-pitA pasaMda kareM, use dekhnaa| lar3akA bevakUpha yA DiphekTavAlA to nahIM hai na? bevakUpha nahIM honA cAhie! kyA bevakUpha hote hai? __ hameM kucha pasaMda Ae aisA caahie| thor3A hamAre mana ko bhAye aisA honA caahie| buddhi kI limiTa meM AnA caahie| ahaMkAra eksepTa kare aisA cAhie aura citta ko bhAe aisA cAhie? citta ko bhAe aisA cAhie n| ata: mAtA-pitA khojeM usameM harja nahIM, para hameM bhI khuda dekha lenA caahie| praznakartA : kabhI kabhI mAtA-pitA bhI lar3akA khojane meM bhUla kara sakate haiM?

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra dAdAzrI: unakA irAdA nahIM hai. unakA irAdA to bhalA karane kA hai| phira galatI ho jAe to hamAre prArabdha kA khela hai| kyA karanA? aura tama yadi svataMtra rUpa se khojoge to usameM galatI hone kI jyAdA saMbhAvanA hai| bahuta se udAharaNa haiM, phela hone ke| hamAre eka mahAtmA the, unakA ikalautA beTA thaa| maiMne use pUchA, 'are ! tujhe zAdI karanI hai ki nahIM?' taba kahe. 'karU~gA daadaajii|''kaise lar3akI pAsa karegA?' taba kahe, 'Apa kaheM aisA kruuNgaa|' phira apane Apa kahane lagA, 'merI mammI to pAsa karane meM hoziyAra hai|' ina logoM ne DisAiDa kara liyA hai, to mammI jo pAsa kare so, isa prakAra honA caahie| praznakartA : merI choTI beTI pUchatI hai ki, aise hI kaise zAdI kareM, phira to sArI jiMdagI bigar3a jAe na? pahale lar3ake ko acchI taraha dekha leM aura mAlUma kara leM ki lar3akA acchA hai ki nahIM, bAda meM zAdI kara sakate haiM na! aisA mujhe prazna kiyA karatI hai| to isakA solyuzana kyA hai, dAdAjI? 86 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra dikkata hai?' taba kahe, 'nahIM, aura kucha nhiiN|' isa para maiMne kahA, 'tU hA~ kara de, phira maiM use ujalA kara duuNgaa|' phira vaha lar3akI usake pApA se kahane lagI ki, 'Apa dAdAjI taka zikAyata le gae?' taba kyA kareM phira? zAdI ke bAda maiMne pUchA, 'bahana, ujalA karane ke lie sAbuna ma~gA dU~ kyA?' taba usane kahA, 'nahIM dAdAjI, ujalA hI hai|' binA vajaha blaikiza. blakiza karatI thI! vaha to kucha kAlA lagAyeM to kAlA naz2ara Aye aura pIlA lagAyeM to pIlA dikhegaa| vAstava meM lar3akA acchA thaa| mujhe bhI acchA lgaa| use kaise jAne deM? laDakI kyA samajhI, z2arA-sA DhIlA hai| ThIka kara lenA phira, lekina aisA dUsarA nahIM milegA! __praznakartA : kyA DeTIMga karanA pApa hai? DeTIMga yAnI ye loga lar3ake lar3akiyoM ke sAtha bAhara jAe~ aura lar3akiyA~ lar3akoM ke sAtha bAhara jAe~, to kyA vaha pApa hai? usameM kucha harja hai? dAdAzrI : hA~, lar3akoM ke sAtha ghUmane kI icchA ho to zAdI kara lenaa| phira eka hI lar3akA pasaMda karanA, eka nizcita honA caahie| anyathA aisA gunAha nahIM karanA caahie| jaba taka zAdI na ho jAe, taba taka tumheM lar3akoM ke sAtha ghUmanA nahIM caahie| praznakartA : yahA~ amarIkA meM to aisA hai ki lar3ake-lar3akiyA~ caudaha sAla ke hone para bAhara ghUmane jAte haiN| phira mela ho to usameM Age bar3hate hai| usameM se kucha bigar3a jAe, eka-dUsare kA mela na ho to phira dUsare ke sAtha ghUmate haiN| usake sAtha nahIM jamA to phira tIsarA, aise cakkara calatA rahatA hai aura eka sAtha do-do, cAra-cAra ke sAtha bhI ghUmate haiN| dAdAzrI : deTa ija vAIlDanesa, vAIlDa lAipha! (ye to jaMgalIpana hai, jaMgalI jIvana!) praznakartA : taba una logoM ko kyA karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : lar3akI ko eka lar3ake ke prati sinsiyara (vaphAdAra) dAdAzrI : saba dekhakara hI zAdI karate haiM aura bAda meM mArAmArIdaMgA phasAda hotA hai| jisane dekhe bagaira zAdI kI, unakA bahuta acchA calatA hai| kyoMki kudarata kA diyA huA hai aura vahA~ to apanA sayAnApana dikhAyA hai n| hamAre eka mahAtmA kI lar3akI ne kyA kiyA? apane pitA se kahA ki, 'mujhe yaha lar3akA pasaMda nhiiN|' aba lar3akA par3hA-likhA thaa| aba vaha lar3akA, lar3akI kA mA~-bApa sabako pasaMda AyA thaa| isalie usake pitAjI ko vyAkulatA ho gaI ki bar3I muzkila se aisA acchA lar3akA milA hai aura yaha lar3akI to 'nA' kahatI hai| phira usane mujhase pUchA taba maiMne kahA, 'usa lar3akI ko mere pAsa bulaao|' maiMne kahA, 'bahana, mujhe batA na! kyA harja hai? lambA lagatA hai? moTA lagatA hai? patalA lagatA hai?' taba kahe, 'nahIM, thor3A blaikiza (kAlA) hai|' maiMne kahA, 'vaha to maiM ujalA kara dUMgA, aura kucha tujhe

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88 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra rahanA cAhie aura lar3akA lar3akI ko sinsiyara rahe, aisI lAipha (jiMdagI) honI caahie| inasinsiyara lAipha, vaha roMga lAipha hai| praznakartA : aba isameM sinsiyara kaise raheM? eka-dUsare ke sAtha ghUmate hoM, usameM phira lar3akA yA lar3akI inasinsiyara ho jAte haiN| dAdAzrI : taba ghUmanA baMda kara denA cAhie na! zAdI kara lenI caahie| AphTara oNla vI Ara inDiyana, noTa vAilDa laaiph| (Akhira hama bhAratIya hai, jaMgalI nhiiN|) apane yahA~ zAdI ke bAda donoM sArA jIvana sinsiyaralI (vaphAdArI se) sAtha meM rahate haiN| jise sinsiyaralI rahanA ho, use pahale se hI dUsare AdamI se phrenDazipa nahIM karanI caahie| isa mAmale meM bahuta sakhta rahanA caahie| use kisI lar3ake ke sAtha ghUmanA nahIM cAhie aura ghUmanA ho to eka hI lar3akA nizcita karake mAtA-pitA se kaha denA ki zAdI karU~gI to isake sAtha hI karU~gI, mujhe kisI dUsare se zAdI nahIM krnii| inasinsiyara lAipha ija vAilDa laaiph| (bevaphA jIvana hI jaMgalI jIvana hai|) caritra kharAba ho, vyasanI ho, to bahuta sArI musIbateM hotI haiN| vyasanI pasaMda hai ki nahIM hai? praznakartA : bilakula nhiiN| dAdAzrI : aura caritra acchA ho para vyasanI ho to? praznakartA : sigareTa taka calA sakate haiN| dAdAzrI : saca kahatI ho, sigareTa taka nibhA sakate haiN| phira Age vaha brAMDI ke pega lagAye vaha kaise pusAyegA? usakI hada hotI hai aura caritra to bahuta bar3I cIz2a hai| bahana, tU caritra meM mAnatI hai? tU caritra pasaMda karatI hai? praznakartA : usake bagaira jiyA hI kaise jAe? mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra dAdAzrI : hA~, dekho! agara itanA hindustAnI striyA~, lar3akiyA~ samajheM na to kAma ho jaae| agara caritra ko samajheM to kAma nikala jaae| praznakartA : hamAre itane U~ce vicAra acche vAMcana se hue haiN| dAdAzrI : cAhe kisI bhI vAMcana se, itane acche vicAroM ke saMskAra mile na! vAstava meM to yaha dagA-phaTakA hai| tuma sabhI ko naz2ara nahIM AtA, mujhe to sabakucha dikhatA hai, kevala chala-kapaTa hai| aura dagA ho, vahA~ sukha kabhI bhI nahIM hotA! isalie eka-dUsare ke prati sinsiyara rahanA caahie| donoM kI zAdI se pahale galatiyA~ huI hoM, unheM hama eksepTa karavA deM aura phira egrImenTa (karAra) kara deM, ki sinsiyara rho| dUsarI jagaha dekhane kA nhiiN| jIvanasAthI pasaMda ho yA nahIM ho, phira bhI sinsiyara rahane kaa| apanI mA~ acchI nahIM lagatI ho, usakA svabhAva kharAba ho phira bhI use sinsiyara rahate haiM na! praznakartA : saMsAra vyavahAra meM pUrva jo karma hue haiM, unake udaya anusAra saba calatA hai| usameM kahIM prapaMca mAlama paDe ki hamAre sAtha prapaMca kiyA jA rahA hai, taba usa sthiti meM 'samabhAva se nikAla (nipaTArA)' karane ke lie kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : Ter3hA pati milA ho to use kisa prakAra jItanA? kyoMki prArabdha meM likhA, vaha hameM chor3egA nahIM na! aura yaha saMsAra hamArI dhAraNA ke anusAra hove nahIM aisA hai| taba mujhe batA denA ki 'dAdAjI. aisA pati milA hai|' taba maiM tujhe turanta saba ripeyara kara dUMgA aura tujhe cAbI bhI de auraMgAbAda meM eka muslima lar3akI AI thii| maiMne pUchA, 'kyA nAma hai tumhArA?' taba kahatI haiM, 'dAdAjI, merA nAma mazarUra hai|' maiMne kahA, 'A, yahA~ baiTha mere pAsa, kyoM AI haiM tU?' vaha aaii| Ane para usake mana ko bhaayaa| thor3A dekhane ke sAtha acchA lagA, aMtara meM ThaMDaka huI ki ye khudA ke AsisTanTa (sahAyakartA) jaise to lagate haiN| aisA lagA to phira baitthii| bAda meM dUsarI bAteM niklii|

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90 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra phira maiMne pUchA, 'kyA karatI hai tU?' usane kahA, 'maiM lekcarara (vyAkhyAtA) huuN|' isa para maiMne pUchA, 'zAdI-vAdI kI yA nahIM kI?' to kahA. 'nahIM, zAdI nahIM kI. lekina ma~ganI huI hai| maiMne kahA, 'kahA~ huI hai, bambaI meM?' to kahA, 'nahIM, pAkistAna meN|' 'kaba karanevAlI ho?' taba kahe, 'chaha mahIne meM hii|' maiMne kahA, 'kisake sAtha? pati kaisA khoja nikAlA hai?' to kahA, 'laoNyara hai|' bAda meM maiMne pUchA ki, 'vaha pati banakara tujhe kucha duHkha nahIM degA? abhI tujhe kisI prakAra kA du:kha hai nahIM aura pati karane jAegI aura pati duHkha degA to?' maiMne kahA, 'usake sAtha zAdI karane ke bAda terI kyA yojanA hai? usake sAtha zAdI hone se pahale terI kucha yojanA hogI na ki usake sAtha kaise bartAva karanA? yA phira yojanA nahIM kI? vahA~ zAdI ke bAda kyA karanA usake lie kucha taiyAriyA~ tUne kI hoMgI na, ki zAdI ke pazcAt usa laoNyara (vakIla) ke sAtha terI jamegI yA nahIM isakI?' taba vaha kahatI hai, 'maiMne saba taiyAriyA~ kara rakhI haiN| vaha aise bolegA to maiM aisA javAba duuNgii| vaha aise kahegA to maiM aisA kahU~gI, vaha aisA kahegA to, eka-eka bAta ke javAba mere pAsa taiyAra haiN|' jitanI raziyA ne amarIkA ke sAmane yuddha kI taiyAriyA~ kara DAlI haiM na, utanI taiyAriyA~ kara rakhI thiiN| donoM ora se pUrI taiyAriyA~ ! vaha to matabheda khar3A karane kI hI taiyAriyA~ kara rakhI thiiN| vaha jhagar3A kare, usase pahale hI yaha bama phor3a de! vaha aise sulagAye to hameM aise sulgaanaa| ata: vahA~ jAne se pahale hI hullar3a karane ko taiyAra na! vaha isa tarapha tIra chor3e, taba hameM usa ora raoNkeTa chodd'naa| maiMne kahA, 'yaha to tUne kolDa vaoNra zurU kiyaa| vaha kaba zAnta hogA?' kolDa vaoNra baMda hotA hai? yaha dekho na, bar3e sAmrAjyavAloM kA kahA~ baMda hotA hai, raziyA-amarIkA kA? ye lar3akiyA~ aisA saba socatI haiM, sArA prabaMdha kara de isa trh| ye lar3ake to becAre bhole! lar3ake aisA saba nahIM karate aura usa ghar3I mAra khA jAte haiM, bhole haiM na! mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra yaha Apa jo kahate ho na, prapaMca ke sAmane kyA taiyArI karanI? lekina usa lar3akI ne sArI taiyAriyA~ kara rakhI thI, bombArDiMga kaba aura kaise karU~gI! vaha aisA bole to aTeka, vaise bole to aise aTeka (aakrmnn)| 'sabhI taiyAriyA~ kara rakhI haiM kahatI thI!' phira bIca meM maiMne use kahA, 'yaha saba tujhe kisa ne sikhAyA hai? nikAla bAhara karegA aura talAka de degA!' talAka de degA ki nahIM degA? maiMne kaha diyA ki isa taraha to chaha mahIne meM talAka mileMge, tujhe talAka lene haiM? yaha tarIkA g2alata hai| phira maiMne use kahA, 'tujhe talAka nahIM de, isalie yaha saba maiM tujhe sikhAtA huuN|' isa para mujhase kahatI hai, 'dAdAjI, aisA nahIM karU~ to kyA karU~? varnA to vaha mujhe dabA degaa|' maiMne kahA, 'vaha kyA dabAnevAlA thA? becArA laTTa ! vaha tujhe kyA dabAnevAlA thA?' bAda meM maiMne pUchA, 'bahana, merA kahA mAnogI? tujhe sukhI honA hai yA du:khI honA hai? bAkI jo aurateM saba taiyAriyA~ karake pati ke pAsa gaI thIM, ve aMta meM duHkhI huI haiN| tU mere kahane ke mutAbika jAnA, kisI bhI taiyArI ke bagaira jaanaa|' phira use smjhaayaa| ghara meM hara roz2a kleza hogA to vakIla kahegA, 'jAne do, isase to acchA dUsarI laauuN|' usameM phira yaha TiTa phora TaiTa (jaise ko taisA) hogaa| jahA~ prema ke saude karane haiM, vahA~ aise saude kisake karane haiM? praznakartA : prema ke| dAdAzrI : prema ke! bhale Asakti se ho magara kucha prema jaisA hai na! usa para dveSa to nahIM hotA na! maiMne kahA, 'aisA nahIM krte| tU par3hIlikhI hai isalie aisI taiyAriyA~ kara rakhI hai? yaha to vaoNra (laDAI) hai? yaha kyA hindustAna aura pAkistAna kI vaoNra hai? saMsAra meM sabhI yahI kara rahe haiN| yeM lar3akiyA~, lar3ake sabhI yahI kara rahe haiN| phira donoM kA jIvana naSTa ho jAtA hai|' phira use saba prakAra se smjhaayaa|

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92 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra pati ke sAtha isa prakAra vartana karanA caahie| isa prakAra yAnI vaha Ter3hA ho to tU sIdhe clnaa| usakA samAdhAna honA cAhie, hala nikAlanA caahie| usakI jhagar3ane kI taiyArI ho taba hameM ekatA rakhanI caahie| vaha alagAva rakhe phira bhI hameM ekatA rakhanI caahie| vaha bAra bAra alaga hone kI bAteM kare, usa hAlata meM bhI hameM kahanA hai ki hama eka haiN| kyoMki ye saba rileTiva saMbaMdha haiN| vaha riztA tor3a deM aura hama bhI tor3a deM to TUTa jAe kala svere| arthAt talAka de degaa| taba kahe, 'mujhe kyA karanA hai?' maiMne use samajhAyA, unakA mUDa dekhakara vyavahAra karane ko kahA, jaba mUDa meM nahIM ho taba hama mana meM 'allAha' kA nAma lete rahanA aura mUDa ThIka ho taba unake sAtha bAtacIta zurU krnaa| vaha mUDa meM na ho aura tU cher3egI to Aga laga jaaegii|' tujhe unheM nirdoSa dekhanA hai| ve tujhe ulTA-sIdhA kaheM phira bhI tU zAnta rhnaa| saccA prema honA caahie| Asakti meM to chaha-bAraha mahIne meM phira TUTa hI jaaegaa| prema meM sahanazIlatA honI cAhie, eDajasTebala (samAdhAnI) honA caahie| aise mazarUra ko maiMne par3hA diyaa| maiMne kahA, 'tU kucha bhI nahIM karanA, jaba vaha isa ora tIra calAye taba apanI sthiratA rakhakara 'dAdA, dAdA' karatI rhnaa| phira usa ora tIra calAye taba sthiratA rakhakara 'dAdA, dAdA' krnaa| tU eka bhI tIra mata claanaa|' phira maiMne vidhi kara dii| bAda meM pUchA ki 'tere sasurAla meM kauna-kauna hai?' taba kahe, 'merI sAsa hai|' maine pUchA, 'sAsa ke sAtha tU kaise eDajasTamenTa karegI?' taba kahane lagI, 'usakA bhI maiM sAmanA kara luuNgii|' phira maiMne use smjhaayaa| bAda meM kahatI hai, 'hA~, dAdAjI, mujhe ye saba bAteM pasaMda aaii|' tU isa prakAra karanA to talAka nahIM degA aura sAsa ke sAtha mela rhegaa| bAda meM usane mujhe eka caMdana kI mAlA phnaaii| maiMne kahA, 'yaha mAlA tU le jAnA aura tere sAtha rakhanA mAlA ke darzana karane ke bAda pati ke sAtha apanA vyavahAra calAnA, to bahuta suMdara clegaa| usane vaha mAlA Aja bhI apane pAsa rakhI hai|' mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra usase caritrabala kI bAta kahI thI ki pati kucha bhI bole, tujhe kucha bhI kahe, taba bhI tU mauna dhAraNa kara ke, zAMta bhAva se rahegI, to tujha meM caritrabala utpanna hogA aura usakA usa para prabhAva pdd'egaa| vakIla ho to bhii| vaha kaise bhI DA~Te, taba 'dAdA' kA nAma lenA aura sthira rhnaa| usake mana meM hogA ki yaha kaisI aurata hai! yaha to hAra hI nahIM mAnatI! bAda meM vaha hAra jaayegaa| phira usane aisA hI kiyA, lar3akI hI aisI thii| dAdA jaise sikhAnevAle mileM to phira kyA bAkI raheM? varnA pahale eDajasTamenTa aisA thA, raziyA aura amarIkA jaisaa| vahA~ baTana dabAte hI sulage saba, saTAsaTa / kyA yaha mAnavatA hai? kisa lie Darate ho? jIvana kisalie hotA hai? jaba saMyoga hI aise haiM, taba kyA kareM phira? ve jo jItane kI taiyArI karate haiM na, isase caritrabala 'lUz2a' (kamajora) ho jAtA hai| hama aisI kisI prakAra kI taiyArI nahIM krte| caritra kA upayoga, jise tuma taiyArI kahate ho, para usase tumhAre meM jo caritrabala hai vaha 'lUz2a' ho jAtA hai aura agara caritrabala khatama ho jAegA, taba vahA~ tere pati ke sAmane terI qImata hI nahIM rhegii| isa taraha usa lar3akI kI samajha meM acchI taraha baiTha gyaa| bAda meM majhase kahatI hai ki 'dAdAjI, aba maiM kisI dina hArU~gI nahIM, aisI gAranTI detI huuN|' hamAre sAtha koI prapaMca kara rahA ho aura javAba meM hama bhI vaisA kareM to hamArA caritrabala TUTa jaaegaa| koI kitane bhI prapaMca kare lekina apane prapaMca se khuda hI usameM pha~sa jAtA hai| lekina agara tuma taiyArI karane jAoge, taba tuma khuda usake prapaMca meM phNsoge| hamAre sAmane to bahutere logoM ne prapaMca kie the lekina ve prapaMca karanevAle pha~sa gaye the| kyoMki hameM eka palabhara bhI pratisAda ke vicAra nahIM aate| varnA sAmane taiyArI karane ke vicAra Aye na, taba hamArA bhI caritrabala TUTa jAtA hai, zIlavAnapana TUTa jAtA hai| zIlavAna yAnI kyA? ki vaha gAliyA~ dene AyA ho magara yahA~ Akara cupa baiTha jaae| hama kaheM ki kucha bolie, bolie, lekina vaha

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra vaha eka akSara bhI nahIM bola paae| vaha zIla kA prabhAva hai! agara hama eka akSara bhI sAmane bolane kI taiyArI kareM na, to zIla TUTa jaaeN| isalie taiyArI nahIM krnii| jise jo kahanA ho khe| 'sarvatra maiM hI hU~' khnaa| (AtmasvarUpa se sabake sAtha abheda huuN|) prapaMca ke sAmane taiyArI karane meM hameM naye prapaMca khar3e karane par3ate haiM aura phira hama slipa (phisala) ho jAte haiN| aba hamAre pAsa vaha zastra hI nahIM hai na! usake pAsa to vaha zastra hai, isalie vaha bhale hI calAe! kintu vaha 'vyavasthita' hai na! isalie Akhira usakA zastra use hI lagatA hai, aisA 'vyavasthita' hai! use sabhI samajha aMdara phiTa ho gii| dAdAjI ne DraoNIMga kara diyaa| mujhase bolI, 'aisA DraoNIMga kahanA cAhate ho?' maiMne kahA, 'hA~, aisA ddroNiiNg|' kahanA paDe! phira laDakI ne usake mAtA-pitA se bAta khii| usakI bAta sunakara usake pitA jo DaoNkTara the, ve darzana karane aaeN| dekho, aise dAdAjI ko kucha dera lagatI hai? mazarUra AnI cAhie yahA~! A gaI to oNparezana ho gayA jhaTa-paTa! dekho, vahA~ para kAyama 'dAdAjI, dAdAjI' hara roja yAda karatI hai na! sabake kAma ho jaaeN| hamArA eka-eka zabda turaMta samAdhAna lAnevAlA hai| vaha Akhira mokSa taka le jAtA hai ! Apa sirpha 'eDajasTa evarIvhera' kiyA kro| 19. saMsAra meM sukha kI sAdhanA, sevA se jo manuSya mAtA-pitA ke doSa dekhatA hai, usameM kabhI bhI baraqata nahIM hotii| saMbhava hai paisevAlA ho, para usakI AdhyAtmika unnati kabhI bhI nahIM hotii| mAtA-pitA ke doSa nahIM dekhane caahie| unakA upakAra to bhUla hI kaise sakate haiM? kisI ne cAya pilAyI ho to bhI usakA upakAra nahIM bhUlate, to phira hama mAtA-pitA kA upakAra to kaise bhulA sakate haiM? tU samajha gayA? hA~, arthAt tujhe unakA upakAra mAnanA cAhie, mAtApitA kI bahuta sevA karanI caahie| ve ulTA-sIdhA kaheM to hameM dhyAna para nahIM lenA caahie| ve ulTA-sIdhA kaheM magara ve bar3e haiM na! kyA tujhe bhI ulTA-sIdhA bolanA cAhie? praznakartA : nahIM bolanA caahie| para bola dete haiM usakA kyA? misTeka (galatI) ho jAe to kyA? dAdAzrI : hA~, kyoM phisala nahIM jAtA? kyoMki vahA~ jAgRta rahatA hai aura agara phisala gayA to pitAjI bhI samajha jAyeMge ki yaha becArA phisala gyaa| yaha to jAna-bUjhakara tU aisA karane jAe to, 't yahA~ kyoM phisala gayA?' usakA maiM javAba maaNgeN| sahI hai yA galata? saMbhava ho vahA~ taka hamase aisA nahIM honA cAhie, phira bhI tujhase aisA kucha ho gayA hogA taba sabhI samajha jAe~ge ki yaha aisA nahIM kara sktaa| mAtA-pitA ko khuza rkhnaa| ve tujhe khuza rakhane ke prayatna karate haiM ki nahIM? kyA unheM tujhe khuza rakhane kI icchA nahIM hai? praznakartA : hA~, kintu dAdAjI, hameM aisA lagatA hai ki unheM kicakica karane kI Adata ho gaI hai| dAdAzrI : hA~, lekina usameM terI bhUla hai, isalie mAtA-pitA ko jo duHkha huA, usakA pratikramaNa karanA caahie| unheM duHkha nahIM honA cAhie, 'maiM sukha dene AI hU~' aisA tumhAre mana meM honA caahie| merI aisI kyA bhUla huI kI mAtA-pitA ko duHkha huA aisA laganA caahie| pitAjI bare nahIM lagate? aise lageMge taba kyA karegI? saca meM bure jaisA isa duniyA meM kucha hai hI nhiiN| hameM milIM ve sabhI acchI cIjeM hotI haiN| kyoMki hamAre prArabdha se milI haiN| mA~ milI, vaha bhI acchii| kaisI bhI kAlI-kalUTI ho, phira bhI hamArI mA~ hI acchii| kyoMki hameM prArabdha se jo milI vaha acchii| kyA badala kara dUsarI lA sakate haiM? praznakartA : nhiiN|

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mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 95 dAdAzrI : bAz2Ara meM dUsarI mA~ nahIM milatI ? aura mile taba bhI kisa kAma kI? gorI pasaMda ho phira bhI hamAre lie kisa kAma kI? aba jo hai vaha acchI / dUsaroM kI gorI mA~ dekhakara 'hamArI burI hai' aisA nahIM kahanA caahie| 'merI mA~ to bahuta acchI hai' aisA kahanA caahie| praznakartA: pApA kA kyA mAnanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : pApA kA ? ve jisase khuza rahe aisA vyavahAra unake sAtha rkhnaa| khuza rakhanA nahIM AtA? ve khuza raheM aisA karanA / mAtA-pitA yAnI mAtA - pitA / isa saMsAra meM sarva prathama sevA karane yogya koI ho to ve mAtA-pitA hai| unakI sevA karegA? praznakartA: hA~, sevA jArI hI hai| ghara kAma meM madada karatA hU~ / dAdAzrI : zAnti kA kyA karoge? jIvana meM zAMti lAnI hai ki nahIM lAnI ? praznakartA : lAnI hai| dAdAzrI : lA deM, para kisI dina mAtA-pitA kI sevA kI hai? mAtApitA kI sevA kareM, to zAnti nahIM jaatii| para Aja-kala sacce dila se mAtA-pitA kI sevA nahIM krte| paccIsa-tIsa sAla kA huA aura 'guru' (patnI) Aye, taba kahatI hai ki mujhe naye ghara le jaaie| Apane 'guru' dekhe haiM? paccIsa-tIsa sAla kI umra meM 'guru' mila jAte haiM aura 'guru' milane para saba kucha badala jAtA hai| guru kahe ki mA~jI ko Apa jAnate hI nhiiN| vaha pahalI bAra dhyAna nahIM detaa| pahalI bAra to anasunA kara detA hai, para do-tIna bAra kahe to phira dhIre dhIre bhramita ho jAtA hai| mAtA-pitA kI jo zuddha bhAva se sevA kareM to unheM kabhI azAnti na ho aisA jagat hai| yaha jagat najaraaMdAja karane jaisA nahIM hai| taba loga prazna karate haiM ki lar3ake kA hI doSa hai na! lar3ake mAtA-pitA kI sevA nahIM karate, usameM mAtA-pitA kA kyA doSa? maiMne kahA, 'unhoMne mAtA-pitA mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra 96 kI sevA nahIM kI thI, isalie unheM prApta nahIM hotii|' yaha paraMparA hI galata hai| aba naye sire se paraMparA se haTakara caleM to acchA hogaa| bujurgoM kI sevA karane para hamArA vijJAna vikasita hotA hai| kyA mUrtiyoM kI sevA ho sakatI hai? mUrtiyoM ke paira thor3e hI duHkhate haiM? sevA to abhibhAvaka, bujurgoM athavA gurujana hoM, unakI karanI hotI hai| mAtA-pitA kI sevA karanA dharma hai| hisAba kaisA bhI ho para sevA karanA hamArA dharma hai| hamAre dharma kA jitanA pAlana kareMge, utanA sukha hameM prApta hogaa| bujurgoM kI sevA to hogI hI, para sAtha meM hameM sukha bhI prApta hogaa| mAtA-pitA ko sukha deM, to hameM sukha milegaa| mAtA-pitA kI sevA karanevAlA manuSya kabhI duHkhI hotA hI nahIM / eka bhAI mujhe eka bar3e Azrama meM mila ge| maiMne unase pUchA, 'Apa yahA~ kaise?' taba unhoMne kahA, 'maiM isa Azrama meM pichale dasa sAla se rahatA huuN|' taba maiMne unase kahA, 'Apake mAtA-pitA gA~va meM aMtima avasthA meM bahuta garIbI meM duHkhI ho rahe haiN|' taba unhoMne kahA, 'usameM maiM kyA karU~? maiM unakI aura dhyAna dU~, to merA dharma raha jaayegaa|' ise dharma kaise kaheMge? dharma to vaha ki mAtA-pitA kI khabara rakheM, bhAIyo ko bulAyeM, sabhI ko bulAye / vyavahAra Adarza honA caahie| jo vyavahAra khuda ke dharma kA tiraskAra kare, mAtA-pitA ke saMbaMdha ko bhI dutakAre, use dharma kaise kaha sakate haiM? maiMne bhI mA~ kI sevA kI thii| bIsa sAla kI arthAt yuvAkAla kI umra thii| ataH mAtAjI kI sevA huii| pitAjI ko kaMdhA diyA thA, utanI hI sevA huI thii| phira hisAba samajha meM AyA ki aise to kaIM pitAjI (pichale janmoM) ho ge| aba kyA kareMge? javAba milA, 'jo haiM unakI sevA kr|' phira jo gae vo ge| para abhI jo hai unakI sevA kr| agara aisA koI ho to ThIka, nahIM ho to ciMtA mata krnaa| aise to bahuta ho ge| jahA~ bhUle vahA~ se phira gino| mAtA-pitA kI sevA, pratyakSa hai| bhagavAna kahA~ dikhate haiM? bhagavAna dikhAI nahIM dete, ye mAtA-pitA to dikhAI dete haiN|

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98 mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra mAtA-pitA aura baccoM kA vyavahAra abhI jyAdA se jyAdA agara koI du:khI hai to 65 sAla kI (aura usase bar3I) umravAle manuSya bahuta du:khI haiN| para ve kise kaheM? bacce dhyAna nahIM dete| darAra ho gaI hai| purAne jamAne aura naye z2amAne ke biic| buDDA purAnA jamAnA chor3atA nahIM, mAra khAye to bhI nahIM chodd'taa| praznakartA : pratyeka ko paiMsaTha sAla hone para yahI hAlata hotI hai sammAna ho, vaha kaba taka rahegA? ___ isa saMsAra meM tIna vyaktiyoM kA mahAna upakAra hotA hai| vaha upakAra bhUlane jaisA nahIM hai| mAtA-pitA aura guru kaa| jinhoMne hameM sahI rAste para lagAyA ho, unakA upakAra bhulAyA jAe aisA nahIM hai| - jaya saccidAnaMda prAta dAdAzrI : hA~, aisI kI aisI haalt| yahI kA yahI hAla ! isalie isa z2amAne meM vAstava meM karane jaisA kyA hai? kisI jagaha ina bujurgoM ke lie rahane kA sthAna rakhA ho to bahuta acchaa| aisA hamane socA thaa| phira maiMne socA ki aisA kucha kiyA ho, to pahale hamArA yaha jJAna de deM, phira unake khAne-pIne kI vyavasthA to, dUsarI sAmAjika saMsthAoM ko sauMpa do to kAma clegaa| lekina jJAna diyA ho to phira darzana kiyA kareM to bhI kAma cale! yaha jJAna diyA ho to becAroM ko zAnti rahe, varnA kisake sahAre zAnti rahe? aba Apake ghara meM baccoM para kaise saMskAra par3eMge? Apa apane mAtA-pitA ko namaskAra kro| itanI bar3I umra meM Apake bAla sapheda hone para bhI Apa Apake mAtA-pitA ko praNAma karate ho to baccoM ke mana meM bhI aise vicAra nahIM Ae~ge ki pitAjI lAbha lete haiM to hama kyoM nahIM leM? phira Apake paira chue~ge yA nahIM? praznakartA : Aja ke bacce mAtA-pitA ke paira nahIM pdd'te| unheM saMkoca hotA hai| dAdAzrI : aisA hai, mAtA-pitA ke paira kyoM nahIM par3ate? ve bacce mAtA-pitA ke dUSaNa (galatiyA~-doSa) dekha lete haiM isalie 'pairoM par3ane jaise nahIM haiM' aisA mana meM mAnate haiM, isalie paira nahIM chuute| agara unameM AcAravicAra U~ce, besTa lageM, to hamezA paira chue~ge hii| para Aja ke mAtA-pitA to lar3ake sAmane khar3e hoM, phira bhI donoM jhagar3ate rahate haiN| mAtA-pitA jhagar3ate haiM ki nahIM jhagar3ate? aba baccoM ke mana meM unake prati jo Adara pratikramaNa vidhi pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM, dehadhArI (jisake prati doSa huA ho, usa vyakti kA nAma) ke mana-vacana-kAyA ke yoga, bhAvakarma-dravyakarma-nokarma se bhinna aise he zuddhAtmA bhagavAna, ApakI sAkSI meM, Aja dina taka mujhase jo jo ** doSa hue haiM, usake lie kSamA mA~gatA huuN| hRdayapUrvaka bahata pazcAtApa karatA huuN| mujhe kSamA kreN| aura phira se aise doSa kabhI bhI nahIM karU~, aisA dRr3ha nizcaya karatA huuN| usake lie mujhe parama zakti diijiye| ** krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha, viSaya-vikAra, kaSAya Adi se kisI ko bhI duHkha pahuMcAyA ho, usa doSo ko mana meM yAda kreN|

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* vItarAga zAsana devI-devatAoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| * niSpakSapAtI zAsana devI-devatAoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| * caubIsa tIrthaMkara bhagavaMtoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA * zrI kRSNa bhagavAna ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| prAtaH vidhi * zrI sImaMdhara svAmI ko namaskAra karatA huuN| * vAtsalyamUrti dAdA bhagavAna' ko namaskAra karatA huuN| (5) * prApta mana-vacana-kAyA se isa saMsAra ke kisI bhI jIva ko kiMcitmAtra bhI du:kha na ho, na ho, na ho| * kevala zuddhAtmAnubhava ke alAvA isa saMsAra kI koI bhI vinAzI cIja mujhe nahIM caahie| prakaTa jJAnI puruSa dAdA bhagavAna kI AjJA meM hI niraMtara rahane kI parama zakti prApta ho, prApta ho, prApta ho| jJAnI puruSa 'dAdA bhagavAna' ke vItarAga vijJAna kA yathArtha rUpa se, saMpUrNa-sarvAMga rUpa se kevala jJAna, kevala darzana aura kevala cAritra meM pariNamana ho, pariNamana ho, pariNamana ho| namaskAra vidhi pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM, vartamAna meM mahAvideha kSetra meM vicarate tIrthaMkara bhagavAna zrI sImaMdhara svAmI ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| (40) pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM, vartamAna meM mahAvideha kSetra aura anya kSetroM meM vicarate OM parameSTI bhagavaMtoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| (5) pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM, vartamAna meM mahAvideha kSetra aura anya kSetroM meM vicarate paMca parameSTI bhagavaMtoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM, vartamAna meM mahAvideha kSetra aura anya kSetroM meM viharamAna tIrthaMkara sAhiboM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| * bharata kSetra meM hAla vicarate sarvajJa zrI dAdA bhagavAna ko nizcaya se atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| (5) dAdA bhagavAna ke sarva samakitadhArI mahAtmAoM ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| . sAre brahmAMDa ke samasta jIvoM ke riala svarUpa ko atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| rIyala svarUpa hI bhagavat svarUpa hai, isalie sAre vizva ko bhagavat svarUpa se darzana karatA huuN| rIyala svarUpa hI zuddhAtma svarUpa hai, isalie sAre vizva ko zuddhAtma svarUpa se darzana karatA huuN| rIyala svarUpa hI tattva svarUpa hai, isalie sAre vizva ko tattvajJAna rUpa se darzana karatA huuN| nau kalameM 1. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA kA kiMcitmAtra bhI aham na dubhe (du:khe), na dubhAyA (duHkhAyA) jAye yA dubhAne (duHkhAne) ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do| mujhe kisI dehadhArI jIvAtmA kA kiMcitmAtra bhI aham na dubhe, aisI syAdvAda vANI, syAdvAda vartana aura syAdvAda manana karane

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kI parama zakti do| 2. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dharma kA kiMcitmAtra bhI pramANa na dubhe, na dubhAyA jAye yA dubhAne ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do| mujhe kisI bhI dharma kA kiMcitmAtra bhI pramANa na dubhAyA jAye aisI syAdvAda vANI, syAvAda vartana aura syAdvAda manana karane kI parama zakti do| 3. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI upadezaka sAdhu, sAdhvI yA AcArya kA avarNavAda, aparAdha, avinaya na karane kI parama zakti do| 4. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA ke prati kiMcitmAtra bhI abhAva, tiraskAra kabhI bhI na kiyA jAye, na karavAyA jAye yA kartA ke prati na anumodita kiyA jAye, aisI parama zakti do| 5. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA ke sAtha kabhI bhI kaThora bhASA, taMtIlI bhASA na bolI jAye, na bulavAI jAye yA bolane ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do| koI kaThora bhASA, taMtIlI bhASA boleM to mujhe mRdu-Rju bhASA bolane kI zakti do| 6. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA ke prati strI, puruSa yA napuMsaka, koI bhI liMgadhArI ho, to usake saMbaMdha meM kiciMtmAtra bhI viSaya-vikAra saMbaMdhI doSa, icchAe~, ceSTAe~ yA vicAra saMbaMdhI doSa na kiye jAyeM, na karavAye jAyeM yA kartA ke prati anumodanA na kI jAye, aisI parama zakti do| mujhe niraMtara nirvikAra rahane kI parama zakti do| 7. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI rasa meM lubdhatA na ho aisI zakti do| samarasI AhAra lene kI parama zakti do| 8. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe kisI bhI dehadhArI jIvAtmA kA pratyakSa athavA parokSa, jIvita athavA mRta, kisI kA kiMcitmAtra bhI avarNavAda, aparAdha, avinaya na kiyA jAye, na karavAyA jAye yA kartA ke prati anumodanA na kI jAyeM, aisI parama zakti do| 9. he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe jagata kalyANa karane meM nimitta banane kI parama zakti do, zakti do, zakti do| (itanA Apa dAdA bhagavAna se mA~gA kreN| yaha pratidina yaMtravat par3hane kI cIz2a nahIM hai, hRdaya meM rakhane kI cIz2a hai| yaha pratidina upayogapUrvaka bhAvanA karane kI cIz2a hai| itane pATha meM samasta zAstroM kA sAra A jAtA hai|) zuddhAtmA ke prati prArthanA he aMtaryAmI paramAtmA ! Apa pratyeka jIvamAtra meM birAjamAna ho, vaise hI mujha meM bhI birAjamAna ho| ApakA svarUpa hI merA svarUpa hai| merA svarUpa zuddhAtmA hai| he zuddhAtmA bhagavAna ! maiM Apako abheda bhAva se atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| ajJAnatAvaza maiMne jo jo * * doSa kiye haiM, una sabhI doSoM ko Apake samakSa jAhira karatA huuN| unakA hRdayapUrvaka bahuta pazcAtApa karatA hU~ aura Apase kSamA yAcanA karatA huuN| he prabhu ! mujhe kSamA karo, kSamA karo, kSamA karo aura phira se aise doSa nahIM karU~, aisI Apa mujhe zakti do, zakti do, zakti do| he zuddhAtmA bhagavAna ! Apa aisI kRpA karo ki hameM bhedabhAva chUTa jAye aura abheda svarUpa prApta ho| hama Apa meM abheda svarUpa se tanmayAkAra rheN| ** jo jo doSa hue hoM, ve mana meM jAhira kreN| dAdA bhagavAna ke asIma jaya jayakAra ho (pratidina kama se kama 10 minaTa se lekara 50 minaTa taka jora se boleM)

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