Gharshala

Author(s): Udayvallabhvijay
Publisher: Pragna Prabodh Parivar
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/006099/1

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darazALA s khstialc IIIGAB (t viSaya | sadAcAra phela guNaka - paMnyAsa udayavallabhavijaya '

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gharazALA -paMnyAsa udayavallabhavijaya prakAzaka prajJA prabodha parivAra clo. zrI samakita yuvaka maMDaLa ravikuMja, grAunDa phlora, dolatanagara roDa naM. 7, borIvalI (isTa), muMbai-400 066. phona : 3252 2509

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bhuM saMskaraNa : vi.saM. 2071 mUlya : 2 30.00 prApti sthAna : zrI samakita yuvaka maMDaLa ravikuMja, grAunDa phlora, dolatanagara roDa naM. 7, borIvalI (isTa), muMbai-400 066. phona : 3252 2509 milanabhAi AnaMda TreDa liMka prA.li. 401, spAna TreDa senTara, kocaraba Azrama sAme, pAlaDI, amadAvAda-380 006. mo. 9375035000 navabhArata sAhitya maMdira 143, prinsesa sTrITa, muMbai-400 002. phona : 22017213 phatAsAnI poLanI sAme, gAMdhIroDa, amadAvAda. phona : 2213 9253 zazIbhAi arihaMta kaTalarI sTora, AMbA cokanI pAchaLa, bhAvanagara-364 001. mo. 9825105528 ketanabhAi DI. saMgoi 1/12, vaibhava epArTamenTa, zreyasa sinemA lena, sAMghANI esTeTa, ela.bI.esa. mArga, ghATakopara (vesTa), muMbai-400 086. mo. 92246 40070. mudraka : zubhAya ArTas mo. 98205 30299

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prastAva keTalIkavAra zALAonA nAma bahu arthasabhara hoya che. jema ke saMskAra jyota, vidyAmaMdira vagere...bhAvanagara zaheramAM eka zALAnuM nAma che gharazALA ! "zALAmAM paga mUkamAM ja ghara jevuM vAtAvaraNa lAge. tevI zALA eTale gharazALA' evuM hArda A nAma pAchaLa haze. vAstavamAM 'ghara' svayaM eka evI zALA che jyAMthI bahAra paga mUkatAM ja mANasane kaMika zIkhIne nIkaLyAno ahesAsa thAya. gharazALA eTale gharanuM ghara ne zALAnI zALA ! A zabda to hajI vAmaNo lAge, ghara eTale eka saMskAra yunivarsiTI che, jyAMthI snAtakanI DigrI laine bahAra nIkaLelAne bahArano pavana asara na kare ! . Aje A yunivarsiTI thoDI nabaLI paDI che. navI peDhInuM saMskaraNa e vartamAnano paDakAra janaka viSaya banyo che. thoDo prayAsa ahIM paNa thayo che. junA Adarzo, vartamAna pravAho, zAstrasaMdarbho, vaijJAnika ane manovaijJAnika tAraNone saMmilitarUpe eka auSadhIya svarUpamAM ahIM raju karavAno Azaya che. vaDIla, AtmIya pU. paMnyAsa zrI muktivallabhavijayajI ma.sA. e lakhANane sArdhata tapAsIne upakRta karela che. garbhasaMskaraNa aMgenA temanA maulika vicArone AmAM vaNI levAyA che. AthI lakhANanI samRddhimAM paNa vadhAro thayo. mAnuM chuM. AnAthI kartavyapAlanano dharma bajAvI sva-para samAdhi ane jIvana unnatino pAyo racAya to basa ! temAM vAlIone madadarUpa thavAnuM hArda A lakhANamAM che, paNa prayAsa, sAme kinArethI thayo che, mATe aMgulinirdeza vAraMvAra vAlIo tarapha thAya te sahaja che. vAcako. e ja daSTie vAMcaze tevI AsthA che. jinavacanathI virUddha kAMi paNa lakhAyuM hoya to aMtaHkaraNathI. micchAmidukkaDaM... muni udayavallabhavijaya vi.saM. 2062, caitrasuda-1, ajAharAtIrtha.

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RRNa smaraNa be kAMThe vahetI snehasaritAnA kAMThe mAro uchera thayo che. zaizavanA kyArAmAM bharapUra samaya ane saMskAranuM khAtara nAMkhIne mamatAbhInI mAvajata jemaNe karI che te mArA jIvananA mALI samA saMsArI pitAzrI A pU. gurUmahArAja pU. munirAjazrI meghavallabhavijayajI ma.sA. ane saMsArI mAtuzrI pU. sAdhvIjIzrI nirvANaprabhAzrIjInuM RRNa-arpaNa to azakya che, RRNa-smaraNa karavA kAje A nAnakaDuM puSpa e mALInA caraNe... muni udayavallabhavijaya.

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kartavya kaliMka puttaM pai puNa uciyaM piuNo lAlei bAlabhAvaMmi | ummIliyabuddhiguNaM kalAsu kusalaM kuNai kamaso ||1|| guru-ddeva-mU-juri-sayA parivaye rAve nivaeNpi uttamaloehiM samaM mittIbhAvaM rayAvei ||2|| giNhAvei ya pANiM samANa-kula-jamma-rUva kannANaM / gihabhAraMmi nijuMjai, pahuttamaM viyarai kameNa ||3|| paccakkhaM na ya saMsai vasaNe vahayANa kahai dukkhatthaM / AyaM vayamavasesaM ca, sohae sayamimAhiMto ||4|| daMsei nariMdasabhaM desaMtara bhAvapayaDaNaM kuNai / iccAi avaccAgaya uciyaM piuNo muNeyara ||5|| (hitopadezamAlA) putra pratye vAlInuM kartavya * bAlyakALamAM tene snehAdi ApavA pUrvaka tenuM lAlana-pAlana kare. * buddhithI paripakava thAya pachI tene vividha rIte pratibhAsaMpanna banAve. * deva-gurU-dharma-sukhI ane svajano sAthe teno nitya paricaya karAve. uttama loko sAthe mitratA karAve. * saMyama levA asamartha evA putrane yogya pAtra sAthe pANigrahaNa karAve. * kharIdI, levaDa-devaDa jevA gRhakAryAmAM joDe ane krame karIne gharano mAlika paNa banAve. * tenI hAjarImAM vadhu paDatI prazaMsA na kare (avasarocita pITha thAbaDe). * tenA vyApArAdimAM thatI Avaka-jAvaka vagerenuM dhyAna rAkhe. * anAcAra, vyasanAdimAM te phasAya nahI tenuM dhyAna rAkhe ane chatAM koi kupaMthe caDI jAya to vyasana-anAcAranI cuMgAlamAM phasAyelAnI durdazAnuM varNana karIne (ane anya upAyothI paNa) tene pAcho vALe. * rAjasabhA dekhADe tathA deza-dezAMtaranI mAhitIothI vAkepha kare. TUMkamAM, jIvana vyavahAranA dareka kSetre saMtAnanA ghaDataranI javAbadArI adA karavI e vAlI tarIkenI ucita pharaja che.

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anukramaNikA kramAMka viSayAnuMkramA pRSThoka saMskaraNaH mAnavanI monopolI bIja, dharatI ne AbohavA mAvajatanI mosama garbhasaMskaraNa: ratnaprasUtA banavAnI sAdhanA huMphanuM bASpIbhavanA pappAH grasta, vyasta, ne masta anuzAsanaH vyaktitvanuM surakSAcakra dhAkane dhAkamAM rAkho vArasAmAM ApavA jevo vaibhava bALaka to "bALaka" ja hoya ! 11. pappA-mammI khovAyA che ! 12. saMskAra bole che 13. kuTuMbasaMskRtinuM najarANuM: bALasaMskaraNa 14. saMyukta vImo

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~ ~-- ~~~ ~~ saMskaraNa : mAnavanI monopolI kriyA" ane "kaLA" A be zabdo samAnArthI nathI. There is a qualitative difference beteween Action and Art. banne vacce guNAtmaka pharaka che. kriyAmAM koI cokkasa prakAra ke paddhati bhaLe che, kriyAne suMdaratAno opa Ape che pachI te kriyA kaLAno darajjo pAme che. kriyA badhA pAse hoi zake, kaLA badhe nathI hotI. kriyA, vizeSa prayatna sAdhya nathI hotI, kaLAmAM vizeSa prayAsa ane satata abhyAsa jarUrI che. zvAsozvAsa ane prANAyAma vacce pharaka che. sUi javuM ane zabAsana karavuM be judI bAbata che. havAtiyAM ane nRtya zabdo vacceno arthaphera ApaNane samajAya che. hAtha-paga baMnemAM halatA hoya che ane chatAM eka kriyA che, bIjI yoga kaLA kahevAya che. lITA tANavA e kriyA che, lekhana e kaLA che. citaraDA ane morDana ArTa vacce kaMika phera to che ja ! "khaDakavuM" ane "goThavavuM' vacce 'DhagalA' ane " Diple' jeTalo pharaka che. gADIne UbhI rAkhavI ane pArka karavI' mAM paNa phera che. harazALA

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cetanAthI samAna hovA chatAM paNa mAnava ane pazu vacce khAsso pharaka che. mAtra hAtha-paganI saMkhyAno pharaka ke ziMgaDA ne pUMchaDAnI uNapano pharaka e bahiraMga bheda che. aMtaraMgabheda mAnavane maLelI anekavidha vizeSatAone AbhArI che. pazuo pAse kriyA che. mAnava pAse kaLA che. saMskaraNa kaLA e mAnavane maLeluM eka anUThuM varadAna che. pazuo pAse zarIra che, mANasa pAse phigara che. pazu pAse "phesa' che, mANasa pAse phIcarsa che. pazu pAse vALa che, herasTAila nathI. pazu pAse jIvana che, phezana nathI. ekanI eka kriyA pazu kare ane mANasa kare temAM pharaka rahevAno. pazunA snAnamAM DUbakI sivAya kAMi na hoya, mANasanA bAtha ne kaLAno Taca maLe che. pazu bhojana kare che, mANasa vAnagI Aroge che. pazuonA avAja mATe ApaNe tyAM judAM judAM aneka zabdo che. jema ke kUtaro bhase che, gAya bhAMbhare che, sAvaja garje che, gadheDo bhUke che, ghoDo haNahaNe che, mora TahUke che. ahIM vizeSatA e che ke pazuo pAse vANI che, vaividhya nathI. dhvaninuM vaividhya mANase vikasAvyuM che. mANasa kyAreka bole che, kyAreka babaDe che, kyAreka bAkhaDe che, kyAreka vaktavya Ape che to kyAreka gIta lalakAre che. pazu pAse spaSTa avAja che, paNa vyakta bhASA nathI. bhASA ane bhASAMtaranI kaLA e mAnavanI vizeSatA che. potAnI saMskaraNa kaLAno jAdui sparza ApIne bolavAnI kriyAnuM teNe moDiphikezana karyuM che. pazu mAtra nirakSara che, sAkSaranA e mANasanI oLakha che. pazu pAse avAja che paNa akSara nathI. paMkhInA kalaravamAM kyAMya kakkAvArI nathI. mANasa pAse akSara che. akSaranA AdhAre bhASA vijJAna vikasyuM sAthe teNe lekhana kaLA ane vAMcanakaLA vikasAvI. pachI koi lekhaka bane, koI kavi bane, koi cAraNa bane, koi paMDita bane, koi vaktA bane, koi zrotA bane, koI vidyArthI bane,koi snAtaka bane. gharazALA

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AnA anusaMdhAnamAM TAiparAiTiMga, TAipa seTiMga, karasponDansa ane konpharansiMga sudhI teNe bhASA saMskaraNano jAdu calAvyo che. AvuM dareka kriyAomAM che. cAlavuM, doDavuM ane kUdavuM e mANasa ane pazu baMnemAM samAna che, chatAM mANasa pAse temAM paNa verAiTIjha ghaNI che. te kyAreka cAle che, te kyAreka doDe che, kyAreka jampampiMga to kyAreka jogiMga kare che, to kyAreka skeTiMga kare che. koi paMkhI kathaka na karI zake, koi pazu bhArata nATyam raju na karI zake. vAMdaro kUdakA lagAve che paNa mANasa pAse loMga enDa hAi jampanI gemsa che. kudakAmAM gati hoya, gemsamAM gatinI sAthe paddhati hoya che. pazuo doDI zake paNa pakkaDadAva ke laMgaDI ramatA nathI. pazune chupAtA AvaDe che paNa chupAchupI ramI zakatuM natI. pazu pAse baLa che paNa kabaDDI to mANasanI ramata. cAlavAnI kriyAne saMskaraNano kamAnDa ApIne mANase cAlavAnI, doDavAnI, nAcavAnI ane ramavAnI keTalIya zailIo vikasAvI che. vAhanavyavahAra paNa Ama to gativyavahArano ja mAnavakRta tIvra saMskAra che. mANase evA sAdhano vikasAvyA che ke te beTho hoya chatA doDato hoya ne UMghato hoya chatAM UDato hoya. AhAracaryA paNa jIvamAtra pAse che. paNa saMsakAracaryAthI mANase tyAM paNa potAnuM levala jALavI rAkhyuM che. koi pazu khorAkane saMskArita karIne khAtuM nathI. je ane jevuM maLe te temano khorAka. pazuo pAse kAThiyAvADI, ke paMjAbI, cAinIjha ke baMgALI jevI Diza nathI. mANasa kyAreya sIdhA ghauM ke cokhA khAto nathI. mANasanA zarIra para raheluM zarTa e mAtra paheraNa nathI paNa mANasanI saphaLa saMskaraNayAtrAnI sUcaka patAkA che. koi khetaramAM paheraNa pAkatuM nathI. mAnava saMskaraNa kaLA dvArA tene meLavI le che ane eTale ja mAnava sivAyanI koi prANI sRSTimAM vastra paridhAna nathI. gharazALA 3

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bagIco mAtra phUla Ape che, guccho ke hAra mAnavakRta che. vADImAMthI phaLo maLe, jyusa ke cAsaNI nahIM. gAya, bheMsa dUdha Ape che, dUdhapAka nahIM. mANasa te dUdhane bALIne ke phADIne DajhanabaMdha vAnagIo meLave che. mANasa sivAya koi svayaM dahIM, chAza ne ghI meLavI zakatuM nathI. pazu sRSTimAM kyAMya athANA nathI, vasANA nathI, masAlAnA DabbA nathI. jIvananA vividha tabakke jarUramAM AvatI aDhaLaka cIjone mANasa saMskArIne upayogamAM le che. makAna e mATInA saMskAra che. pharnicara e lAkaDAnA saMskAra che, vAsaNa e dhAtuno saMskAra che, roTalI e ghauMno saMskAra che, pINuM e pANIno saMskAra che, zarTa e kapAsano saMskAra che ane masotuM e zarTano aMtima saMskAra che. purUSonI bahoMtera kaLA ane strIonI cosaTha kaLAo, zAstromAM prasiddha che. A dareka kaLA koi ne koi vastu ke vyavahArane saMskArita kare che. Ama A badhI alaga alaga prakAranI saMskaraNa paddhatio che. A dareka saMskaraNa paddhatione amalamAM muktI vakhate mANase tenI mAnasikatA paNa pheravavI paDe che. eka ja mAnasikatAthI badhA kAma thatA nathI. kyAreka AkarA thavuM paDe, kyAreka kuNA paDavuM paDe, kyAreka dhIraja dharavI paDe to kyAreka taka sAdhavI paDe. khetaramAM vAvaNI karavAmAM dhIraja na cAle, dUdhamAM meLavaNa nAMkhI dIdhA pachI utAvaLa na cAle, maracA khAMDatI vakhate haLavA hAthe kAma nathI Apato ane mATaluM TIpatI vakhate kuMbhAre hAtha haLavo rAkhavo paDe che. ' saMskaraNazaktinA kAraNe koi pazue nathI meLavyA tevA bhautika pariNAmo sudhI mANasa pahoMcI zakyo che. tarasa lAge tyAre pazuoe hajI taLAve javuM paDe che jyAre mANase pANInI jarUriyAta samajIne "taLAva' gharabheguM karyuM che. pazusRSTi ane mAnavasRSTi vacce A eka maulika pharaka che. menyuphekyariMga, prosesiMga, prinTIMga, phiniziMga na pharnizIMga jevI kriyAo gharazALA

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pazuonA kriyAkozamAM kyAMya nathI. kAco mAla ane pAko mAla jevI vyavasthA mAnava pAse ja che. pazuo kudaratI jIvana jIve che, mANasa kudaratanA niyamo jANIne kuMdarata pAsethI paNa kAma karAvI le che. mANasanI A saMskaraNazakti ja tene samagra prANI sRSTimAM kaMika alaga sthAna Ape che. jo ke atyAre mANasanI saMskaraNa zaktino vaparAza moTA pAye ane moTA bhAge jaDa kSetre ane bhautika stare thai rahyo che. aNumAM chupAyelI zaktine bahAra lAvavA te abajo Dolarsa ane lAkho kalAko kharcI rahyo che. mAnavanI A zakti jo jIvakSetre vaLe to caitanyamAM purAyelI anaMta zaktino AvirbhAva paNa te karI zake che. manuSya potAnI saMskaraNa zaktine sAdhanAnA vizeSa kSetre prayoje to potAnI aMdara paDeluM suSupta siddhatva jhaMkRta ane jAgrata thAya. kartavyanA kSetre jo potAnI A saMskaraNa zaktine prayoje to potAnA AzritavarganI aMdara rahelI zubhatA ane zuddhatAne kaMika AkAra maLI zake. mahAsatI madAlasAnuM saMskAra samRddha hAlaraDuM pracalita che H zudghoLasa, vudghosa, nitaMbanosa, saMsAramAyAparivarjito'si / jenI AsapAsanI havAmAM AvA bhAvo guMjatA hoya tenI AvatIkAla samRddha che. anaMtanI yAtrAno koi yAtrika jyAre uccakuLanI hoTa sITa para sthAna meLavavAmAM saphaLa thayo hoya, tyAre te jIva potAne maLelI svarNima takano pUro phAyado UThAvI zake. te mATenA ucita saMyogo pUrA pADavAthI mAMDIne te yAtrikane hUMpha, hiMmata, sneha ane saMskArono pUrato pravAha maLI zake te aMgenuM uttaradAyitva vAlIoe nibhAvavAnuM che. A kartavyane niSThA pUrvaka bajAvanAra eka Adarza saMtAna, nItimAn nAgarika, snehala svajana ane guNIyala sajjananuM sarjana kare che. AvatIkAlanA samrATnA pAraNAnI rezamadorI tamArA hAthamAM che. je kara jhulAve pAraNuM, te jagata para zAsana kare ! gharazALA

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bIja, dharatI ne AbohavA koi sajjanano suputra thoDo 'ADo phATyo tyAre tenA svajanoe sva. pU. jainAcArya zrI vijayabhuvanabhAnusUrIzvarajI mahArAjane pUcheluM: "AMbAmAMthI AMbo pAke, bAvaLamAMthI bAvaLa pAke to pachI sajanano sapUta kharAba kema pAke ?'' tyAre pUjyazrIe gajabano tarkazuddha javAba Apelo : "e ja AMbAmAMthI phikkA pAMdaDA pAke che, e je bAvaLamAMthI sAro guMdara tathA dAMta sApha karanArA sArA dAMtaNa paNa pAke che ne ! je taLAvamAMthI kamaLa janme che, te ja taLAvamAMthI kIDA paNa janme che ne ! to sArAmAMthI sAruM ja pragaTe evo ekAMta niyama kyAM rahyo ?'' pachI vadhu spaSTata karatA jaNAvyuM "kharI rIte juo to AMbAmAMthI AMbo pAke e eka jAtanuM samAna zarIra che. ema ahIM paNa pitAnuM mAnava zarIra che to putra paNa mAnavazarIra rUpe ja janmyo che eTale e aMzanI samAnatA (Physical Similarity) to che ja. je asamAnatA jaNAya che te to jIvanagata guNa-doSo aMge jaNAya che ane te ~~~~~ ~~~ gharazALA

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guNa-doSo zarIrane nahIM paNa AtmAne sApekSa (Soul Related) che. putrano AtmA ane AtmAnA e guNa-doSo kAMi pitAnA AtmA ke zarIramAMthI nirmita thayela nathI ke jethI samAnatAno prazna Ubho thAya. pUrvabhavonA kerI phoravarDa thayelA saMskAro ane vartamAna bhavanA saMyogomAMthI e guNa-doSo svayaM AkAra lai le che." eTale TUMko phalitArtha e thayo ke saMtAnanuM vyaktitva e pUrvanA saMskAro ane vartamAnanA saMyogono saravALo che. saMskAro te svayaM laine Ave che ane saMyogo tene ahIM pUrA pADavAmAM Ave che. A DeTA phiksa che. jAtivaMta bIjamAM ghaTAdAra vRkSanI virATatA rahelI che. jarUra che tene be sahakArI kAraNo maLavAnI. mATI ane mALI. phaLadrupa jamIna ane kuzaLa mALI e bIjanI aMdara paDelI virATatAne pRthvI para chatI kare che. tema saMtAnamAM paNa anekavidha zakyatAo chupAine aMdara paDelI che. uccakuLa ane ucita ghaDavaiyA eka nAnakaDA bhUlakAmAMthI bhavyatAnuM nirmANa karI zake che. jIvanuM avataraNa kayA kuLamAM thaze A vyavasthAnA nirmANamAM tenA karma mukhya bhAga bhajave che. paraMtu te pachInI avasthAnuM nirmANa karavAmAM potAne maLatA saMyogo ane potAno puruSArtha bhAga bhajave che. Ama vyaktinA jIvananirmANamAM traNa paribaLo mahattvanA sthAne raheze. * pUrvakRta karmasaMskAro. * maLelA saMyogo. * sva-puruSArtha AmAMthI nirNAyaka paribaLa te raheze, je prabaLa haze. kyAreka junA saMskAronI prabaLatA nirNAyaka banIne vartamAna saMyoga ane puruSArthane sAiDalAina karI de tevuM paNa banI zake. kyAreka saMyogonI prabaLatA sArA puruSArthane vega ApavA dvArA junA azubha saMskAro para sarasAI meLavI le che. Ama traNe paribaLo agatyanA hovAthI tene samajI levA jarUrI che. gharazALA

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pUrvakRta karmasaMskAro mobAila TekanolojImAM memarI cipsanuM mahattva badhA jANe che. kamyuTara TekanolojImAM phlopInuM sthAna zuM che te samajAya che. tema pUrvanI vRtti-pravRtti dvArA upArjita thayelA saMskAro AtmAno jANe ke paDachAyo banIne tenI sAthe Ave che. ekAunTsamAM kerI phoravarDanuM je mahattva che eTalI ja asarakAritA pUrvanA saMskAronI samajavI. bALakanI umara bhale nAnI hoya paNa tenI bALakAyAmAM rahelI cetanA pUrvanA saMskArothI vAsita thaine AvelI hoya che ane tene ahIM jevA nimitto maLe che, tevI tenI dizA ane dazA nakkI thAya che. kAle yuge A vAtane bahu mahattvanI gaNI che. manovijJAnanI duniyAnuM eka prasiddha nAma eTale kArla gusleva yuga. Ama to manovijJAnanA pitA samA simaMDa phroiDanA eka vakhatanA sAthI ziSya. paraMtu vicArabhedathI thoDAka varSomAM tenAthI yuga alaga paDI gayelA. yuganA khyAlono bahu pracAra thayo nahIM kAraNa ke yuganI mAnyatAmAM pUrvanA dezonI dhArmika mAnyatAo, alaga alaga dharmonI paurANika kathAo ane aneka gUDha vidyAo jevI bAbatonI chAMTa sArA pramANamAM jovA maLatI ane mATe ja pazcimI vizvane te "kama manovijJAnI aura jyAdA tattvajJAnI" ke "rahasyavAdI' jevo lAgato. yuganI eka vAtane yAda karIeH janmelA bALakane jANe magaja ja nathI athavA to tenuM magaja sAva blenka, tadana khAlI, korI pATI jevuM che, kuladAnImAM jema pasaMdagInA kulo goThavI zakAya tema bALakanA magajamAM dhAro te bharI ja zakAya evuM hotuM nathI. yuga kahe che ke bALaka janme che tyAre tenA magajamAM badhuM ja che. te hajI jAgrata nathI paNa badhI ja guMjAiza tyAM paDI che. saMyogo maLatA badhuM pragaTa thai zake che. jainadarzana to mAne ja che ke anaMtano yAtrI evo A jIva janma dhAraNa kare tyAre te sAva blenka hoto ja nathI. pUrvakRta kriyAo dvArA upArjita zubhAzubha saMskArone te laine Avelo hoya che. temAMthI keTalAka saMskAro jAgrata thAyakeTalAka naSTa thAya, koi saMvRddha bane to koi hIna thAya ne hazALA

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keTalAka suSupta paDyA paNa rahe. jIvane ahIM maLatA vAtAvaraNanI asara heThaLa A saMskAro ekTiva bane che. saMyoga vyaktinA vicAra upara sarvAdhika asara vAtAvaraNanI hoya che. mIThAinI dukAna pAsethI pasAra thatA mIThAino vicAra sahaja Ave che. zopiMga senTaranA zorUma para najara paDatA vicAra te dizA pakaDe che. koi philmI posTara paNa vyaktinA vicArane AkAra Ape che ne paramAtmAnI chabI paNa vicArone ghaDI zake che. Ama vicAra ane vAtAvaraNa vacce sIdhI linka che. vicAra e AcAranI pUrvabhUmikA che ane vAtAvaraNa e vicAranuM purvacaraNa che. ahIM prabaLa kakSAnA sArA saMyogo sarjIne mA-bApa saMtAnanA upakAraka banI zake che. bALaka pAse rahelI saraLatA ane sahajatA tenA saMskaraNa mATenuM pleTaphorma pUruM pADe che. bAlyakALamAM badhA saMskAro kAryarata banatA nathI mATe te vakhate saMskaraNa vadhu saraLa bane. te vakhate maLatA saMyogone te pUrA dilathI apanAvI le che. bALakanI pravAhitA ane pAradarzakatA pANI jevI hoya che. pANI mATe hiMdImAM eka majAnuM muktaka cheH pAnI repanI! terA raMga kaisA? jisameM milA do, vala, 3 naisA ! bALakane nAnI uMmaramAM ramatagamatanA sAdhano ApatI vakhate, moja majA karAvatI vakhate tenAthI bALakane kevo raMga caDaze te jAgrata vAlIe cakAsI levuM ! bAlamAnasa ane kizoramAnasa para sarvAdhika asara be cIjonI hoya che. (1) tene maLatuM sAhitya ane saMgata (2) TelivijhananA dazyo. khAsa karIne vartamAnamAM prinTa miDiyA ane prasAra mAdhyamonI tenA para kharAba asara na paDe te jovuM jarUrI che. asabhya sAhityathI laine vartamAna patronI raMgIna pUrtio sudhI kai bAbatothI tenA mana para kevo raMga caDase te vAlI vicAre ! hazALA

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abhadra sAhitya bALakone mAnavIya starathI nIce paTakI nAMkhavA sivAya koi kAma karatuM nathI. amerikAmAM baLAtkAra jevA gunhAomAM saMDovAyelA gunhegAronA mukhethI maLatA riporTsa chapAyA che temAM jaNAvyuM che ke '86 TakA gunhegAro azlIla sAhityanA baMdhANI hatA ane moTA bhAganAe kabUlyuM hatuM ke aghaTita kArya karavAmAM temanA manamAM jAgelo azlIla dRzyonuM anukaraNa karavAno unmAda kAma karI gayo !'' Aje bALako mA-bApa ane mitro pAsethI nathI zIkhatA eTaluM badhuM te Telivijhana pAsethI zIkhe che. jIMdagInA prAraMbhika doDha dAyakAmAM Azare eka bALaka Telivijhana para pUrA paMdareka hajA2 kalAkanA progrAmsa joi cUkyo hoya che. jemAM aMdAje paMdareka hajA2 hatyAo, ethI vadhAre hiMsaka humalAo, hajAro baLAtkAro ne lAkho cenacALAo joi cUkyo hoya che. AmAnuM mAtra 1 Tako paNa te apanAve to kyA vAlI te calAvI levA taiyA2 haze ? kumaLA bAlamAnasa upara TIvI para AvatI jAherakhabaro dvArA hajAro vAra evA vaicArika humalAo thai rahyA hoya che ke zarAba to mastI lAve che ! sigAreTa phUMkavI e to zAna che ! tamAku tamArI jAnamAM jAna reDe che ! bAkI rahyuM che te puruM karavAnI kasama khAdhI che rojiMdI sIriyaloe ! phemilI dazyo batAvavAnA nAme phemilI lAipha para sahuthI viparIta asara pADanArI A behudI paTakathA vaLI lAMbI lacaka sIriyalo bindhAstapaNe anaitika saMbaMdhone raju kare tyAre kizo2vaya ane yuvAvayanI vacce rahelA mAnasa 52 AnI zuM asara paDaze te sarakAra ke miDiyA kadAca na vicAre. zuM saMtAnanA vAlI paNa nahIM vicAre ? vAlIjano ! bhUlatA nahIM ke tamArA saMtAno potAnA jIvana dhoraNa ane Adarzo rUpe2I paDadA parathI sIdhA upADI letA hoya che. A dRzyonI kAtila asa2 eTalI badhI jalada hoya che ke bicAro bALaka pote paNa je banavA nathI mAMgato, e ja banI bese che ! (chatAM kharA gunhegArane kyAreya sajA thatI nathI.) saMtAnane saMskArI banAvavA icchatA pratyeka mA-bApa A vAtane khUba ja gaMbhIratAthI le tevI bhalAmaNa. (vAstavamAM cetavaNI !) 10 gharazALA

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kamyuTara kSetre eka siddhAMta che. GIGO (Garbage in, Garbage out) saMtAnanA saMskaraNa kSetre paNa A siddhAMta eTalo ja sacoTa che. je aMdara nAMkhavAmAM Ave che te ja bahAra Ave che. pRthvIne pATale avatAra lenAra pratyeka mAnavanI pAse juno skepa ane navo skopa bane che. tene kevuM vAtAvaraNa maLe che tenA para badho ja madAra che. A rIte jotA pharI ekavAra dareka bALaka mATe tenA mA-bApano rola khUba ja nirNAyaka banI rahe che. dUdhamAMthI zuM maLI zake ? A zakyatA tapAsatA pUrve dUdhamAM zuM bhaLaze te jovuM paDe. dUdhamAM pANI bhaLe to ukALo banI zake, meLavaNa bhaLe to dahIM jAmI zake, esensanA cAra TIpA bhaLatA svAdiSTa pINuM taiyAra thai zake ane tejAbanA be TIpA paDe to A badhI zakyatAo dharAvatuM dUdha phATI paNa jAya ! - puruSArthaH saMskAra pUrvanA sAthe Ave che. mA-bApa taraphathI sArA saMyogo maLyA hoya te pachI paNa saphaLa saMskaraNa prayoga mATe eka paribaLa saMtAna tarapha mITa mAMDIne beThuM che ane te che teno potAno puruSArtha. mAtA roTalI banAvI zake, khavarAvI zake, saMtAnanA dAMta halAvI na zake ! eTalI kAmagIrI to tenA pakSe rahe che. Ama traNa paribaLo bhegA maLIne saMskaraNayajJano sAmagrIthALa bane che. ahIM saMskAra poSaka vAtAvaraNa ApavAno bhAravAlInA khabhe che. zarUAtanA varSomAM sajjaDa saMskaraNa thayuM na hoya ane pUratuM dhyAna apAyuM na hoya tyAre moTA bhAganA gharomAM banatuM hoya che ke moTA thaine chokarAo bagaDI jAya che, nAnA hatA tyAre kevA sArA hatA !" saMskArahIna vAtAvaraNanI jalada asara heThaLa AvuM ghaNA gharomAM banatuM haze. AvI uthalapAthalamAM koi ekano hAtha hoto nathI. zarUAtanA saMskaraNanI thoDI nabaLAi, saMtAnanI uMmara tathA manodazA ane pradUSita vAtAvaraNanI sinDikeTa kAma karI jatI hoya tevuM lAge che. sUraja Uge eTale Aja UgI, saMtAna Ave eTale AvatI kAla UgI. gharazALA

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UgatI peDhIne UgatA sUraja sAthe sarakhAvI zakAya : pRthvI para paDato varasAda paNa sUrajanA taDakAne AbhArI che. pRthvI para UgatuM anAja paNa sUrajanA taDakAmAMthI kaMika meLave che. sUraja vanaspatimAM viTAminsa janmAve che, mANasane viTAminsa Ape che. aDhaLaka prakAza ane puSkaLa UrjAno alTImeTa sorsa paNa sUraja ! samagra jIvasRSTinI Aja ane AvatIkAlano AdhAra che sUraja. sUrajano koi paryAya hoi na zake ! sUraja mATe aMgrejImAM zabda che, Sun. samAna uccAra ane bhinna varSAvalI vALo Avo bIjo zabda che, son. Sun eTale sUraja, Son eTale dIkaro. sUrajane aMdhakAra, anAcArane ALasano vairI kahyo che. sUryano udaya prakAza phelAve che, ALasa khaMkherIne lokonA zarIramAM sakriyatAno mAhola sarje che ane cora, kAmI tathA hanavargane niSkriya banAve che. sana eTale bhAi sana ! sUraja hoya ke saMtAna ! jenA astitvamAM aMdhakAra, ALasa ne anAcAra na hoya tenuM nAma "sana" ! gharazALA

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mAvajatanI mosama tamAre have kAMi kahevuM che kharuM ?''cukAdo ApatA pUrva jaja sAhebe corane pUchyuM. hA core kahyuM: "mArI evI icchA che ke mArA mAtA- . pitAne mArI sAthe jelamAM mokalavAmAM Ave." kAMi kAraNa?" Azcarya sAthe jaja sAhebe pUchyuM. bahu majabUta kAraNa che'-core kahyuM: "nAnapaNamAM skulamAMthI eka pensila corIne lAvyo hato tyAre temaNe mane kAMi ja na kahyuM. ekavAra penaseTa sAtheno kaMpAsaboksa UThAvI lAvyo, tyAre paNa mArI pITha thAbaDavAmAM AvI hatI. pachI kyAreka pADozIne tyAM hAtha ajamAvI leto tyAre paNa temaNe AMkha ADA kAna karyA hatA. ekAda be vakhata svajanonA ghare hAtha saphAi karI hatI. aMdarakhAne teo tyAre paNa khuza thayA hatA. pachI to corI mArI Teva banI gai. jaja sAheba ! huM cora nathI, huM saMskArI chuM. corI e mArI Adata nathI, mArA saMskAra che. ane AvuM saMskaraNa, ApanArA, mArI burAine uttejana ApanArA zuM sAva nirdoSa hoi zake ? mAtra cha varSanI umare meM pensilanI corI EzALA

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ka2I hatI. te ja vakhate mArI zAna ThekANe lAvavAnI javAbadArI, adhikAra ane tAkAta badhuM ja hovA chatAM temaNe tyAre mane vAryo nahIM tyAre ja huM AgaLa vadhyo ne ! mATe emane paNa sajA thAya tevI mArA mAMgaNI che. kAyadAne bhale maryAdA hoya paNa kALajAmAM paDaghAya evA A zabdomAM bacAva ocho hato, haiyAvarALa vadhu hatI. protsAhana e gatino hetu che. protsAhana kai dizAmAM che tenA AdhAre gatinI AgaLa'pra' athavA 'adho' zabda umerAya che. saMtAne AgaLa jaine zuM karavAnuM che te vAta tenA vAlIo dvArA agAuthI ja nakkI thai zakatI hoya che. A zakyatAno saMdarbha haMmezA najara sAme rAkhIne bALakane protsAhita karavo joie. ''sIDeDa ! hI ijha gona !'' ilekTronika gemsa ramatA koi AkhI gADIne uDAvI denAra bALaka bole che. 'hAu smArTa !' kahIne pappA tenI pITha thAbaDe che. tyAre A pappAne khyAla haze kharo ke A smArTanesa bhaviSyamAM kevI ghAtaka banI zake che ? 'luka moma !' meM pelA eliyana (paragrahavAsI)ne harAvI dIdho. Ai kilDa hima !' muThThI vALane dAMta kacakacAvI potAnuM zaurya batAvatA lAlane 'verI guDa !' kahIne protsAhana ApatI mAtA jANatI haze kharI ke A hiMsakavRttine apAi raheluM uttejana AgaLa 52 zuM pariNAma lAvI zake che ? raziyana tattvajJa TolsaToyane eka lokhaMDano TukaDo batAvIne koie pUcheluM: 'AnuM mUlya zuM AMkI zakAya ?' 'DipenDsa' TolsaToye kahyuM 'tame AmAMthI khIlI banAvo to kaMika upaje, koi moMghI mazInarInA sperapArTasa banAvo to kadAca thoDuM vadhAre upaje ane Ama ja bhaMgAramAM javA dezo to khAsa kAMi nahIMupaje. jevuM ghaDatara tevI paDatara !'' A thIyarI lokhaMDanA TukaDAthI mAMDIne lADakA dIkarA sudhI sTrecebala che. potAnA dIkarAne nAnI uMmaramAM ja brAiTa cAilDa ke vijha kiDanuM lebala lagADI devAnI lhAyamAM mA-bApa svayaM bALakanA saMskArI bhAvine najara aMdAja kare che. 14 gharazALA

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mobAila ane kamyuTara para mA bApe jIMdagImAM joi ke sAMbhaLI paNa na hoya evI phAsTa ane hiMsaka gemsa ramatA AjanA TAbariyAo ekasTrA smArTa hoya che. cAvI dIdhelA ramakaDAo have temane sAva rabizuM lAge che. TeDIbersa, bArbIDola ke raMgIna nAnakaDI gADIono kAphalo to temane AuTaDeTeDa lAge che. laMgaDI ke lakhoTI, saMtAkukaDI ke AmalI-pIpaLIne moidAMDI jevI ramato aMge temane pUcho to AjanuM baccA janarezana eTaluM badhuM inTelijanTa che ke ghaDIkamAM ja InTaraneTanA gUgalanA sarca enjinamAM jaine jANI lAvaze. aDhI varSano rucita hAthamAM rimoTa laine dhaDAdhaDa cenalo pheravavA lAge ane potAne je kArTuna neTavarka jovuM hatuM te lAvIne ja jaMpe tyAre tenA mAbApa dIkarAnI A kAbeliyatano garva letA hoya che. je bhAre to tyAre paDe che jyAre ekAda dAyakA bAda moDI rAtre badhA sUI gayA pachI paNa, rucita hAthamAM rimoTa laine sUtA sUtA cenalo pheravato hoya. - traNa varSano mihira hAthamAM mobAila laine vAta kare tyAre tenI smArTanesa je mA-bApane game che temane ja baLatarA to tyAre thAya che ke jyAre esa. esa. sI. mAM bhaNato mihira koi vicitra ane vAMdhAjanaka emaemaesanI klipiMgsa ane bIjuM paNa aNachAjatu ghaNuM badhuM potAnA mobAilamAM sTora karI beTho che tevo temane zaka jAya. - sabhya gaNAtA parivAranuM bALaka nAnI uMmare kyAMkathI sAMbhaLIne zIkhI lAvelo apazabda bole to tarata tene TokavAmAM Ave che ane AvA DarTI vasa nahIM bolavAnI kaDaka sUcanA apAya che. A vAta khUba game evI che. jo ke nAnuM bALaka game te bole tenuM khAsa mahattva hotuM nathI ane te zuM bole che tenI tene paNa kAMI gatAgama hotI nathI. chatAM tene TokavAnuM kAraNa eka ja che. "pachI Teva paDI jAya to !" AvI sAdI samaja badhe rAkhavI joie. moTA thatA je vAta saMtAna mATe jokhamI pUravAra thai zakatI hoya te vAta bAlyakALe jokhamI na hovA chatAM paNa jokhamI che. kAraNa ke pachI Teva paDI jAya to !' gharazALA

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dIkarI moTI thatA kaMika ochA sArA kahevAya tevA vesTarna AuTaphiTsa paheratI thAya tyAre keTalAka saMskArI parivAranA ko'ka mobhIno jIva cokkasa baLato hoya che. paNa A ja dIkarI jyAre sAva nAnI hatI tyAre tene TUMkA ne slIvalesa vastro koNe paherAvyAM hatA.? nAnapaNamAM kadAca e eTaluM kharAba nahotuM ane chatAM kharAba hatuM. kAraNa ke pachI Teva paDI jAya to ! bALaka moTuM thayA pachI je pravRtti kare nahIM evI je bAbate mA-bApa icchA dharAvatA hoya te badhI ja bAbatothI bALakone pahelethI vegaLA rAkhavAnuM DahApaNa mA-bApe rAkhavuM jarUrI. temAM paNa je kALe bALako bahu nAnI uMmaramAM ja moTA thai jatA hoya te kALe A sAvadhAnI rAkhavI khUba ja anivArya bane che. poSaka khorAka maLavAthI zarIranuM baMdhAraNa evuM nakkara bane che ke sAmAnya havAphera ke vAirasa jaladI asara karI zakatA nathI. AvuM ja bAlamAnasa aMge samajavuM. poSaka vicAro e manano pauSTika khorAka che. kunimitto ane kusaMganA vAirasa sAme TakI rahevAnI pratikAra zakti bALakanA manamAM pahelethI UbhI karI dIdhI hoya tevA mA-bApane moTA thatA bALakanA saMskAra svAthya aMge ciMtA ochI rahe. ziyALAmAM khAdhelA khajura varSabhara asara Ape che. zaizavakALa eTale jIvanano ziyALo. ziyALAmAM jaTharAgni vadhu pradIpta rahe tethI je Apo tenuM pariNamana thai jAya che. paraMtu Aje jIvanano ziyALo vItI jAya tyAM sudhImAM bALaka sAthe pUratA pramANamAM poSaka vArtAlApa thato nathI. bALaka sAthe jene arthapUrNa vArtAlApa (Meaningful Dialogoue) kahevAya tevo samaya kadAca AkhA aThavADiyAmAM pUro aDadho kalAka paNa thato haze ke kema te eka savAla che. bAlyakALa eTale kharo grahaNakALa. mANasa jIvanamAM jeTalA zabdo zIkhe che temAMthI teno moTA bhAgano zabdakoza umaravarSa traNa thI chanI vacce taiyAra thAya che. moTA thaine bALako je kAMi kare che. tenuM ghaNuM kharuM progrAmiMga paNa lagabhaga traNathI cha varSanI vacce taiyAra thAya che. uMmaramAM AgaLa vadhatA ja 16 gharazALA

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pachI te dareka vAtamAM lojika zodhavA mAMDe che. te vakhate samajAvavAmAM vadhu hetupUrvaka samajAvavuM paDe. jyAre traNa thI cha varSanI vacceno samaya eTale nirbheLa grahaNakALa. A samayagALAmAM bALaka kahyAgaruM paNa hoya che, je saMskaraNanA yajJane vadhu phaLadAyI banAve che. vAvaNInI veLA cUkI janArA kheDute pAkanI AzA choDI devI paDe che. bALakanA saMskaraNa aMge mA-bApe kheDuta jeTalA satarka rahevuM paDe. khetaramAM hariyALI taiyAra thAya che tenI pAchaLa kevala "vAvaNI" thI kAma nathI thatuM, niMdAmaNa"nI paNa eka agatyanI bhUmikA hoya che. (niMdAmaNa zabdano arthabodha na thAya temaNe potAnAmAM saMskAronI "vAvaNI karanAra pAsethI te zabdArtha jANI levo !) . A mATe keTalAka saMrakSaNAtmaka ane racanAtmaka pagalA levA joie. A mATe mA-bApa bAjavRtti ane kAkavRttine amalamAM mUkI zake cheH - bAjavRttiH UMcA AkAzamAM UDatuM bAja paMkhI ati tINa najara dharAvatuM hoya che. hajAro phuTa nIce raheluM kalevara tenI najare tarata ja caDI jAya ane cIla jhaDape nIce UtarIne tene UMcakIne pAchuM upara jatuM rahe. tenI najaramAM cokkasAi che ane tenI gatimAM capaLatA hoya che. saMtAna upara A rIte bAjanajara rAkhavI. zaMkAnA kAraNe thatI A koi jAsusI nathI. saMtAnanA saMrakSaNanI bhAvanA sAthe saMkaLAyelI tenI yogakSemanI A eka paddhati che. saMtAno najarathI aLagA jatA avanavuM ne ajugatuM zIkhavA lAgyA che tevo ahesAsa thatA amerikAmAM AjakAla zAlAne badale gharamAM ja bALakone abhyAsa karAvavAnI praNAli jora pakaDI rahI che. aMdAje daseka lAkhathI paNa vadhu bALako A rIte homa skulamAM bhaNe che. A paddhatinA kAraNe bALako parivAra sAthe saMkaLAyelA rahevA uparAMta bahArathI dhumrapAna, Dragsa ane bIjA aneka duSaNothI paNa bacI jAya che evA phAyadAnI tyAM noMdha levAya che. agAsImAM vaDI ke pApaDataDake mUkyAM hoya to tenA para najara rAkhavAnI paraMparA jALavanArA (Aje che ?) saMtAno para najara na rAkhI zake ? gharazALA

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TI.vI., rimoTa, mobAila, kamyuTara, inTaraneTa jevA sAdhanono binajarUrI upayago saMtAna na kare athavA khUba maryAdita upayoga kare. mitravartuLa ke pADozIvargamAMthI kaMika "avanavuM' te zIkhI na lAve tenI kALajI rAkhavI. vicitra citrovALA vartamAnapatro, megejhinsa ke anya koi vAMdhAjanaka sAhitya sAthe saMtAnane dostI na thai jAya. vANImAM, vartanamAM, vezamAM ke vyavahAranA koi paNa kSetre saMskAritA ane sabhyatAnI sarahada bahAranuM kAMi paNa pravezI na jAya tenI bAjanajaretakedArI rAkhavI ane evuM kaMika AveluM lAge to te khAmI sthAyI bane te pUrve ja bAjanI cIla jhaDape tene dUra paNa karI devI. kAkavRttiH varNa kALo paNa kAgaDo keTalIka gajabanI guNavattA dharAve che. bephikara koyala potAnA iMDA mUkIne jatI rahe che. tenuM sevana karavAnuM paropakArI kRtya kAgaDo kare che. saMtAnanA saMskaraNamAM sajAga rahIne bALakanA jIvanamAM mUlyo ane saguNonuM prAgaTyathAya te rIte kaMika racanAtmaka pagalA levA e kAkavRtti che. A mATe be asarakArI paddhatione ajamAvI zakAya. vArtA dvArA vicAra paddhati : bALaka ravabhAve vArtApriya hoya che. roja thoDo samaya kADhIne ekAda navI, nAnI ane sAttvika vArtA bALakane kahI zakAya. sAthe vArtAnA mULatattva upara thoDA ane saraLa zabdomAM preraNArUpe prakAza pADI zakAya. A mATe mA-bApe kathAkAra tarIke thoDA taiyAra thavuM paDe. kathA sAragarbhita hoya, bALayogya hoya ane rajuAta bALabhogya hoya to vizeSa lAbhakArI banI zake. A saMskaraNapaddhatine ApaNe "vArtA dvArA vicAra paddhatitarIke oLakhazuM. bALakane vArtA kahenAro mAtra vArtA nathI kaheto. vArtAnA mAdhyamathI eka nakkara ane poSaka tattvothI bharelo tAjo vicAra ApI rahyo che. mAtA jIjAbAie rAmAyaNanA araNyakAMDanI kathA vastuonA rasALa zravaNathI saMskArelo bALaka AgaLa jatA chatrapati zivAjI thayo hato. mAtra be ja varSa jo A kAryakrama cAle to bALakamAM sattva, dayA, karuNA, naitikatA, paropakAra, udAratA, satyaniSThA, zaurya, vinaya ane viveka jevA 18 gharazALA

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keTalAya saguNonA bIjAropaNa karI zakAya. A asarakArI cAilDa veksinezana che. tenI asara jIvanaparyata rahI zake. jhalaka dvArA jyota paddhati : vArtA paddhatinA eka saMlagna anya prakAra rUpe AvuM paNa karI zakAya. potAnA paricita vartuLamAMthI koie (khAsa karIne bALake) karelA satkAryonI athavA te bALakonI saMskAritAnI jhalaka ApavA dvArA paNa bALakane ispAyara karI zakAya. A paddhatine ApaNe 'jhalaka dvArA jyota' paddhati tarIke oLakhazuM. AmAM mAtA pitAne bAlamAnasanI be vizeSatAono phAyado maLe che: (1) sarakhe sarakhAnuM joine bALaka jhaDapathI utsAhita thAya che. (2) bALakanI sAme je vastune gauravarUpe, parAkramarUpe, AdarzarUpe ke prazaMsanIyarUpe raju karAya tene apanAvavAnuM bALakane khUba tAna caDatuM hoya che. AjanA vijJApana bajAramAM bAlamAnasanI A baMnne vizeSatAono bharapUra lAbha uThAvavAmAM Ave che, potAno mAla padharAvavA ! to A paddhatinI asarakArakatAne saMskaraNanA sacoTa upAyarUpe ajamAvI zakAya. vArtA ke jhalaka dvArA eka mUlyavAna vicAra ke sArA narasAno khyAla bALakane AdarzarUpe pIrasavAmAM Ave che, ane Adarza e AcaraNanI dizA nakkI kare che. Ama bALakanA bhAvinuM progrAmiMga karavAnI taka jhaDapI levI joie. A paddhati pAchaLa kadAca sarerAza rojanI paMdarathI vIsa miniTa ja phALavavAnI rahe. AmAM samaya karatA sAtatya vadhu mahattvanuM che. je mA-bApa be traNa varSa mATe A rIte rojanI viza miniTa phALavI zake tene kadAca AgaLanA varSomAM AkhI rAtonA ujAgarA nahIM karavA paDe. gharazALA

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garbhasaMskaraNaH ratnaprasUtA banavAnI sAdhanA parama pavitra jainAgama zrI kalpasUtra. zramaNa bhagavAna zrI mahAvIradevanA alaukika jIvananA tamAma pAsAonI temAM suMdara chaNAvaTa thai che. prabhunA janmano adhikAra varNavatA granthakAre prayojelI paMktiomAMthI eka majAnI vastu jANavA maLe che. tIrthaMkaradevo, cakravao, baLadevo ke vAsudevo jevA puruSarano kAyama uttama kuLamAM ja avatare che. * teo tucchakuLamAM janma letA nathI. (rAjIvuM hito) * teo daridrakuLamAM janma letA nathI. (5rihitI) * teo kRpaNakuLamAM janma letA nathI. (ravivaMhiMto) UMco pAka ApatI khetaranI mATI paNa UMcI ja hoya che. sAco hIro mUlyavAna che to tenuM jaDatara kyAreya elyuminiyama riMgamAM nathI ja thatuM. bhAMgelI patarALImAM gharazALA gharazALA

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ucca bhojana dravyo lagabhaga pIrasAtA nathI. halako ane nabaLo mANasa lagabhaga rAjasiMhAsana para sthAna pAmato nathI. tema uttama jIvonuM avataraNa paNa ucca kuLomAM thAya che. cakravartI, vAsudeva, baLadeva eTale sarvocca kakSAnI rAjapATa ! tIrthakaro eTale sarvocca kakSAnI dharmapATa ! viziSTa puNya ane apratima sAdhanAnuM sAmarthya laine avataratA jIvo tene samucita sthaLe ja sthAna grahaNa kare che. AnA parathI eka vAtano aMdAja mAMDI zakAya - je kuLamAM AstikatA ane AryatvanA Adarzo rahelA hoya. - je kuLamAM saguNo, mUlyo ane saMskAritAno Adara karAto hoya. tevA kuLamAM AvanAra bALakanI kakSA paNa sAva kaMgALa to na ja hoi zake. - eka karoDano phaleTa, paccIsa lAkhanuM inTiriyara ane paMdara lAkhanI gADI kharIdanArA sajjananI Arthika sthiti sAdhAraNa na ja hoya te samajI zakAya che. meDikala kolejamAM meriTsa para eDamizana meLavI lenAra vidyArthInuM bauddhika stara nIcuM na ja hoi zake. tema uttamakuLamAM janma dhAraNa karanAra vyakti koI atipuNyavAna AtmA ja hoya te sahaja che. puSkaLa puNyarAzino ceka vaTAvIne te AvA kuLamAM Avyo hoya che. eTalI puNyanI mUDI vaTAvatA pUrve teNe te kamAi haze ane te mATe teNe agAunA bhavomAM satkAryonI zreNI ane sadgaNonI zRMkhalA UbhI karI haze. tenI A kAryavAhImAM kyAMka samayano pUravaTho khUTI paDatA te tyAM adhUro rahyo. ahIM Avyo che, te adhUruM kArya pUrNa karavA, te na bhUlavuM joie. TesTa-mecanA bIje divase savAre koi beTsamena 184nA vyaktigata skorathI potAnI iniMgsa AgaLa dhapAve tyAre tenA AgalA divasanI satata ane sakhata ramata, je divasa pUro thaI javAnA kAraNe adhUrI rahelI, tene pUro nikhAra maLe tevI icchA ane AzA kone na hoya ? tema uttamakuLamAM AvanAra saMtAna eka rIte pUrvano koi sAdhaka hoya che. gharazALA

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gItAnuM arthapUrNa vidhAna ahIM TAMkavAnuM mana thAya evuM che : "zucInAm zrImatAm gehe yogabhraSTo'bhijAyate." potAnA udaramAM garbha rUpe bALaka avataratAnI sAthe, mAtRtvanI mahAna padavInA prAMgaNamAM UbhelI dhanya nArIne e vAtanI to khAtrI ja hoya che, mArA udaramAM avatarelo A AtmA koi sAmAnya jIva nathI, asAdhAraNa che.. . te bhogabhraSTa na hoi zake, yogabhraSTa che.. te tucchakakSAno nahi paNa jANe koi bhUlo paDelo avadhUta che. te ukaraDAmAM pheMkI devA jevuM azucimaya jIvana jIvavA ahIM nathI Avyo. te astitvanA jaMgamAM homI devA jevuM mAtra peTIyuM raLavA ahIM nathI Avyo. te to umadA ane Adarza vyaktitvanuM nirmANa karIne aMjali jevuM bhavya jIvana jIvavA Avyo che. A bALaka to... hemacaMdrAcArya ke haribhadrAcAryanuM... kumArapALa, zrIpALa ke vastupALanuM.. jagaDuzA ke bhAmAzAnuM vikrama ke vivekAnaMdanuM sulasA ke revatInuM... raoN maTIriyala che ! A mAtra koi kAyapiMDa nathI. uccastarano saMskArapiMDa che. A mAtra koi bhavamAM bhamato rakhaDuM romiyo nathI... anaMtanI yAtrAe nIkaLelo eka pavitra yAtrika che. A mAtra gatAnugatika cAlI janAruM koi gADara nathI... aneka mATe AlaMbanarUpa bananAra koi pathadarzaka che. gharazALA

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Avo koi mahAna AtmA jyAre potAnI kukSine alaMkRta karI rahyo hoya tyAre te dhanya mAtAnA AnaMdano skela keTalo UMco hoya ! ane, sAthe ja potAnI saMskAradAtrI mAvaDI tarIkenI javAbadArIo pratyenI tenI sabhAnatA paNa keTalI hoya ! saMskArasiMcana e bAladImAM pANI bharIne kyArAmAM DhoLI devA jevI saraLa ane sAdI prakriyA nathI. saMskaraNa e to eka viziSTa sAdhanA che ane A sAdhanA sArI rIte pAra pADanArA mAtA-pitAne sAdhakano darajjo Apavo ghaTe. je uttama yogyatAo ane unnata zakyatAo laine A divyAtmA kukSimAM avataryo che. te tamAma yogyatAono ughADa karavAnuM ane zakyatAone sAkAra karavAnuM kaparuM uttaradAyitva mAtA-pitAnA zire che. ' temAM paNa vizeSa javAbadArI mAtAnI che. saMskaraNanI bhagIratha sAdhanA mATeno zreSThakALa eTale bALakano garbhakALa ! garbhAvasthA eTale mAtA ane bALaka vacce ghaNuM-kharuM dehika tAdAbhya. A tAdAtma ane naidya saMskaraNanI AkhI ya prakriyAne khUba saraLa ane saphaLa banAve che. pazcimI jagatanA jIneTika vijJAnIo paNa cheka have temanA risarca riporTsa AgaLa dharIne e tAraNa para AvyA che ke garbhastha bALaka ane tenI mAtAnI zArIrika ane mAnasika sthiti vacce sIdho saMbaMdha hoya che. bALakanuM saMpUrNa astitva ane vyaktitva jyAre mAtAnA ja astitvano ane vyaktitvano eka aMza hoya tyAre mAtA potAnA bALaka upara dhAre tevI asara upajAvI zake. mAtAnI pratyeka kriyAnI tadanurUpa ane tvarita pratikriyA bALaka upara upasatI hoya tyAre A mAvaDI eka kuMbhakAranI kalAsUjha vAparIne A mITAnA piMDane dhAre te AkAra ane opa ApI zake ! bALakanA zarIra vikAsanI kudaratI prakriyAnI sAthe ja susaMskAronA divya rasAyaNono asarakAraka puTa apAto jAya tyAre ema lAge ke A mAtAnuM udara eka evI ratnazAlA banI che. jemAM dharatInuM eka uttama ane aNamola AbhUSaNa ghaDAI rahyuM che. gzALA

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zrI kalpasUtra graMthanA trIjA-cothA pravacanamAM mAtA-trizalAdevIdvArA thatA garbhaparivahanano saMpUrNa adhikAra pratyeka garbhavatI nArIe najara samakSa rAkhavA jevo che. te Adarzane anusarIne garbhanA saMvardhana, saMrakSaNa ane saMskaraNanI prakriyA je mAtA Adare te mAtra avataranArA bALaka upa2 ja nahIM paNa kadAca samagra parivAra, samAja, rASTra ane vizva u52 paNa jANe ajANe mahAna upakAra karI rahI che. mAtAnA udara jevuM zreSTha gurukuLa A vizvamAM bIjuM koi na hoi zake. ahIM bhaNelA pATha raktanAM buMdabaMdamAM ane asthi-mAMsanA kaNakaNamAM evA ghUMTAi gayA hoya che ke jANe pATaNanA paToLAnI bhAta ! ''yathA rAjA tathA prajA'' no subhASita saMdarbha bALaka ane mAtA vacce paNa eTalo ja arthapUrNa ane akabaMdha che. garbhastha bALaka eka evo Ayano che, jemAM tenI janetAnA AcAra, uccAra, vicAra, manana, maMthana ane badhA ja hAvabhAvanA spaSTa ane AbehUba pratibiMba jhIlAya che. mAtAnI dareka vRtti-pravRttinA kendrasthAne tenuM garbhastha bALaka hoya ! UThavA-besavAnI, sUvA cAlavAnIpravRttimAM rAkhavAmAM AvatI darakAra jo bIjA paNa keTalAka kSetramAM hoya to zizunA saMskaraNamAM koi uNapa na rahe. bhojana saMyama bhojana saMyama e saMskaraNa ane saMvardhananI prAthamika zarata che. bhojana daramyAna koipaNa rasano atireka varjya che. * ati tIkhuM na khavAya. * ati khATuM ke khArUM na khavAya. * ati turuM ke kaDavuM na khavAya. 24 * ati madhu2 paNa na khavAya. ati uSNa paNa na khavAya. * * ati zIta paNa na khavAya. gharazALA

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* ati snigdha paNa na khavAya. * ati rUkSa paNa na khavAya. garbhakALanuM taMdurasta tAdAbhyaH amerikA ane yuropanA dezomAM paNa tabIbo garbhAvasthAnA nava mahinA daramyAna to khAsa zAkAhArI, sAdA khorAkanI himAyata kare che. kAraNa ke temanuM paNa dRDhapaNe evuM mAnavuM che sagarbhAnA khorAka ke vyasananI asaranuM kSetra bALakanA zarIrathI laine tenA svabhAva sudhI vistareluM che. mAMsAhAra ane marI masAlAvALA khorAka bALakanA mAnasane anukaMpA vagaranuM ane amAnavIya lAgaNIovALuM banAve che. tenAmAM sAttvikatA paNa ochI jovA maLe che. mahilAomAM sigAreTa ke dArUnuM vyasana hoya to garbhastha bALakamAM sIdhI ja bhAvi bimArI thAya te rIte tenA koSonuM phormezana kare che. TUMkamAM, garbhakALa daramyAna AiskrIma, ThaMDApINA, bajAruM khorAka, halakA, abhakSya ke apeya padArtho, tathA prakRtithI viparIta dravyonuM sevana na karAya. Arogya ane bhojana vivekanA sAmAnya niyamo ane maryAdAonuM acUka pAlana karavuM jarUrI. bALakanA zArIrika, mAnasika ane bauddhika traNeya prakAranA vikAsa upara mAtAnI AhAracaryAnI khUba gherI ane UMDI asara che H khUba prasanna vAtAvaraNamAM, kuTuMbanA saMskArI ane snehALa mAholamAM, prasannamudrAe mAtA bhojana kare. bhojana kriyA zarU karatA pUrve traNa navakAra gaNIne evI bhAvanAthI bhAvita bane "mArA bALakanuM zreya thAo, kalyANa thAo, maMgala thAo.' indriya saMyama : . bhojana saMyama jeTalo ja mahattvano che indriya saMyama. mAtAnI pravRttinuM sIdhuM pratyAropaNa garbhastha bALakamAM thatuM hoya che. ApaNe tyAM "koThA sUjha' jevo zabda paNa garbhastha bALaka je grahaNa kare che, tenA AdhAre utarI Avyo che. AvanAra bALakanA saMskaraNa kSetre sajAga rahevA icchanArI mAtA aTaluM khAsa karI zake. gharazALA 25

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* atyaMta maryAdApUrNa vyavahAra ane vezabhUSA. * vilAsI vAtAvaraNa, vartaNUMka, saMvAdo, saMgIta ane sAhityathI dUra rahevuM. * zarIranI vadhu paDatI TApaTIpa na karavI. * tAmasI bhojananI jema tAmasI pravRtti ke vAtAvaraNathI dUra rahevuM. *vadhu paDatA zarIrazramanI jema vadhu paDatA ALasa ke pramAda paNa na karavA. * savAre moDA UThavAnuM ne rAtre moDA sUvAnuM TALavuM. ApaNe tyAM A vAta sadIo purANI che, je AuTaDeTeDa gaNAtI hatI paNa paraMparAgata vastu ja jyAre risarca ke saMzodhanano sikko laine apaDeTeDa thaine Ave che tyAre jANe dharamanA kAMTe vastunuM vajana thayuM gaNAya che. bela phAsTanA eka vijJAnI rojaropare to judA-judA prakAranA saMgIta saMbhaLAvI tenA dvArA garbhastha zizu paranI asaranuM adyatana sAdhanothI nirIkSaNa karyuM hatuM. tenA tAraNa pramANe jema zAMta sugama ane sAttvika saMgIta bALaka para sArI asara upajAve che. tema jhaDapI bITavALA saMgItanI asarUpe saMtAnomAM uzkerATa, utAvaLa, bahirmukhI dRSTi ane tanAvanuM levala paNa jovA maLatuM hatuM. sagarbhA mAtA jyAre kauTuMbika kaleza, kAvAdAvA sabhara kathAvastu dharAvatI siriyalo jotI hoya ke vikRti poSaka anya kAryakramo nihALavAmAM ke hiMsApracUra philmo jovAmAM rojanA kalAko gALatI hoya tyAre tenI atyaMta jalada asara mAtAnA hormonsa dvArA garbhastha bALaka para paNa paDe che. te bhUlavuM na joie. garbhAvasthA daramyAna pattA ramIne divasonA kalAko kADhyA hoya tevI mAtAnA saMtAnomAM jugAra ane pattAno krejha jovA maLato hoya tevA dAkhalA paNa noMdhAyA che. vANI saMyamaH * jarA paNa krodha ke kleza karavo nahIM. * koinI paNa niMdA ke TIkA karavI nahIM. ~ gharazALA

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* koi bAbate ati jIda karavI nahIM. * apazabdo ke maryAdA bahAranA zabdo bhUlathI paNa bolavA nahIM. * moTA avAje bolavuM nahIM. * vadhu paDatuM bolavuM nahIM. * khoTuM bolavuM nahIM. * koine ToNA-meNA mAravA nahIM. * risAi na javuM, abolA na levA. vicAra saMyamaH * koi paNa vyakti mATe durbhAvanA ke pUrvagraha rAkhavo nahIM. * koi paNa vyaktinuM manathI paNa azubha ciMtavavuM nahIM. * svArtha ane irSAnA bhAvothI khAsa dUra rahevuM. * koi vAtamAM khoTuM lagADavuM nahIM. * mAnasika ciMtA, udvega, ukaLATa ane uzkerATathI dUra rahevuM. * amaMgaLa ke azubha kalpanAo na karavI. * nabaLA ke hIna vicAro na rAkhavA. khUba saraLa rahevuM. garbhakALa daramyAna mAtA zuM pravRtti karI zake ? garbhakALamAM paNa bALakanI grAhakatA ne lakSyamAM rAkhIne pravRtti karavI joie. vartamAna vijJAna paNa te kALe bALakanI grahaNa zaktinI sakriyatAne svIkAre che. vIra abhimanyune cakravyuha bhedanItinuM jJAna garbhAvasthAmAM ja tenI mAtA dvArA maLyuM hatuM ema kahevAya che. bAbubhAI kaDIvAlAnuM nAma jena jagatamAM atyaMta prasiddha ane paricita che. navakAra ane navapadane zvAsa prANanI jema jIvanamAM temaNe vaNI lIdhA hatA. temanA jIvananI navapadamayatAnuM rahasya paNa jANavA jevuM che. ~ ~~~~~ ~~~ ~ ~~ ~ gharazALA 27

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keTalAkane zubha saMskAro gaLathuthImAM maLe che. zrI bAbubhAine navapadanI sAdhanA to garbhakALe ja maLI gayelI. mAtAnI kukSImAM hato te daramyAna temanI mAtA jAsudabene te nava mAsa daramyAna ja navapadanA nava AMbelanI nava oLIo 81 AMbela sAthe navapadanI viziSTa sAdhanA karI hatI jenI sIdhI asara jANe garbhastha bALaka para paDI. ane pachI pU.paM. zrI bhadraMkaravijayajI jevA yogI puruSanI kRpA UtarI, pachI bAkI zuM rahe ! . garbhakALa eTale kharo saMskaraNakALa. garbhakALa eTale kharo mahattvano kALa. garbhakALa eTale atyaMta agatyano kALa. AvanAranI AvatIkAlanuM AkhuM sophaTavera e samaya daramyAna kALajIpUrvaka taiyAra karI zakAya che. skulamAM bhaNato vidyArthI varSamAM sarerAza nava mAsa hAjarI Ape che. A navamAsanuM bhaNataratenuM zaikSaNika dhoraNa UMcuM lai jAya che. garbhakALanA nava mAsa daramyAna bhakti, maitrI ane zuddhinI sAdhanA karavA dvArA AvanArA bALakanA jIvananA UMcA saMskAra dhoraNanI taiyArI A rIte thai zake. * khUba bhAva vibhora banIne izvaropAsanA karavI. * zakaya bane to prabhujInI ravadravyothI pUjA, aMgaracanA, AratI karavI. * navapada vagere ArAdhya tattvonA kAyotsarga kare, jApa kare. * roja ekAda kalAka maMdasvare bhAvavAhI stuti-stavano gAvA. * zakya bane to nitya nava smaraNano athavA traNa ke pAMca smaraNano pATha karavo. * maitrI bhAvanuM pavitra jharaNuM...arihA zaraNaM siddhA zaraNe jevA bhAvuka pado tanmaya banI roja trikALa bolavA. * khUba bhAvathI zubhakSetromAM yathAzakti dAna ApavuM. gharazALA 28 gharazALA

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* dIna, duHkhI, garIba ane nokaravargane khuza karavA. * vaDIla janono khUba vinaya jALavavo. * manamAM khUba prasannatA jALavI rAkhavI. aprasannatAnA kAraNothI dUra rahevuM. * maitrI, pramoda, karuNA ane mAdhyastha bhAvothI manane bharyuM bharyuM rAkhavuM. * sAttvika sobata rAkhavI. sAtvika vAMcana dvArA saMskaraNa : " tIrthakara devo ane anya mahApuruSonA caritro vAMcavA (triSaSTizalAkA puruSa caritra) kumArapALa, vastupALa, zrIpALa, mayaNA, saMprati mahArAjA, pethaDa maMtrI, jagaDuzA, bhAmAzA jevA mahApuruSonI gauravavaMtI jIvanakathAonuM, sAttvika ane saguNapoSaka vAMcana karavuM. - Avo eka suMdara saMskArayajJa nava mAsa daramyAna niraMtara cAlato rahe to bhAgyanI devI rUmajhUma karatI doDI Ave. ane, eka ratnakukSI dhanyamAtA banavAnA parama saubhAgyanuM kumakuma tilaka A dhanya nArInA lalATe karI jAya. anekhAtarI pUrvaka kahI zakAya ke.. AvI saMskAradAtrI jAgrata janetAnI kukSie avataranAruM bALaka, AgaLa jatA sRSTino zaNagAra bane. dharatIno dhabakAra bane. avaninuM alaMkAra bane. pRthvInuM pAnetara bane. garbhazrImaMta hovA karatA garbhasaMskArI hovuM e jIvananuM UMcuM saubhAgya gharazALA

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30 hUMphanuM bASpIbhavata "mane jarA vAgyuM che, lohI nIkaLyuM che. tame mane jarA madada karI zako ?'' "mAruM mana bhaNavAmAM jarA paNa coMTatuM nathI, huM zuM karuM ?'' ''tame mane eka vArtA kahezo ? koi paNa vArtA.' "mAre kaMika kahevuM che, mArI vAta sAMbhaLazo ? plIjha !'' kevA lAge che A DAyalogsa ? dareka DAyaloganI pAchaLa kAma karI rahelI mAnasikatAno abhyAsa karI juo. muMbai jevA mahAnagaramAM dasathI cauda varSanI vaccenI vayanA bALako 1098 (cAilDalAinano naMbara) lagADIne phona upa2 AvA prazno pUchIne javAbo meLavatA hoya che. mahAnagaramAM AvA traNeka senTarsa che, jemAMnA mAtra eka senTa2 52 ja mahine lagabhaga AvA aDhIthI traNa hajAra phonakolsa maLe che. gharazALA

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phona karanArAomAMthI koine khorAkI ciMtA ke raheThANanI asuvidhA nathI. koine davAnI ke anya koi jarUra nathI. roTI, kapaDA ne makAna sivAyanA prazno, jeno ukela lAgaNI, hUMpha ane sAhacaryanA anubhavathI lAvI zakAtA hoya, lagabhaga tevA ja prazno hoya che. cAilDa helpalAinavALAnA kahevA pramANe ghaNAkharA phonakolsa mAtra mArgadarzana ane sahAnubhUti meLavavA mATenA ja hoya che. keTalIkavAra to phona karanAra bALaka phona karI dIdhA pachI ya Darano mAryo sAva cUpa rahe che. vAraMvAra pUchavA chatAM paNa te kAMi bolato ke bolI zakato nathI. - i.sa. 1996mAM sAmAjika nyAya aMgenI minisTrI dvArA covIsa kalAka mATenI niHzulka phona tatkAla suvidhArUpe "cAilDa lAina' zarU karavAmAM AvelI. mukhya to zoSaNa pAmatA, guma thayelA, gharethI bhAgI gayelA athavA cikitsAnI jarUravALA bALakone madadarUpa banavAno temAM Azaya hato. paNa Aje to cAilDalAina eTale jANe mammI-pappA ! ' ahIM jaNAvelI vAta jarA paNa kalpita nathI paraMtu kalpI paNa na zakAya te hade vAstavika che. - zaherI zikSita zrImaMtavargamAM A vyavasthA (!) vadhu kAma Ave che. prophezanala pappAo ane mammIo e kadAca AvI kamanasIba saMtAnonI sauthI duHkhada upalabdhi haze. AvA bALakone joine kyAreka evuM lAge ke - gulAbanA goTA jaMgalamAM kema khIlatA haze ? AjanA kALamAM be moTI pArivArika samasyAo eTale mA-bApane . sAthe rAkhavA mATe saMtAnonI taiyArI nathI ane saMtAno mATe mA-bApa pAse pUrato samaya nathI. A keTalAka gharomAM mA-bApa gharamAM sAthe rahe che chatAM vRddhAzramanI tamAma savalato gharamAM ja meLavatA hoya che tema keTalAka bALako e hade garbhazrImaMta hoya che ke temane anAthAzramanI tamAma savalato paNa gharamAM ja maLI rahe che. A dezamAM bALaka pAse majurI karAvI na zakAya tevo kAyado kadAca banI jaze paNa majuranA bALakane paNa tenA mA-bApa pAsethI maLI rahe tevuM harazALA 31

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snehALa sAMnidhya dareka bALakane maLI zake te aMge kAyado mona che. A dezamAM bALakone pharajiyAta prAthamika zikSaNa ApavA aMgeno kAyado che paNa dareka bALakane mA-bApa taraphathI sneha, samaya ne saMskAra maLe te aMge kAyado cUpa che. bALakonA bharaNapoSaNa sivAyanI ghaNI agatyanI bAbatone kAyadAnuM kavareja nathI maLatuM. kAyadAnI maryAdA gaNo ke lAcArI kaho. kAyadAthI deza cAle, ghara nahIM. ghara to kALajAthI ane kALajIthI cAlatI vastu che. kAyadA pAse hAtha, paga ne AMkha hoya che, kadAca buddhi paNa kharI, paraMtu hRdaya nathI hotuM ane ghara hRdayathI cAle che. dakSiNa gujarAtanA dahANu, golavaDa, valasADanI AsapAsa ane uttaramAM unA, mahuvA AsapAsanA vistAromAM vihAra daramyAna lIlIchama vanarAjIo joi hatI. roDanI baMne bAju lacI paDelA AMbA ane unnata nALiye2IothI vyApta moTI vADIo che. jenA mAliko kadAca dUra paNa vasatA hoya, kyAreka ja te loko A sthaLonI mulAkAta letA hoya che. vADI lIlIchama hoya, vADImAM sarvatra chAMyaDo hoya, vADImAM sarvatra ThaMDo mITho pavana hoya, vADImAM paMkhIono madhura kalarava saMbhaLAtA hoya, vADIne satata pANI, khAtara ane badhI ja suvidhA maLI rahetI hoya che. paNa vADImAM vADIno mAlika bhAgye ja Ave che kyAreka to dUra rahetA mAliko varSe mAMDa ekAda vAra A potAnI (!) vADImAM padhAratA haze. A zrImaMto vArSika konTrekTathI vADI calAvavA ko'kane ApIdetA hoya che. A lokone vADI paravaDe che. paNa tenI mAvajata mATe samaya ke sUjha hotA nathI. vADImAMthI te loko rUpiyAno pAka laNe che. AvA mAlikane vADI pAsethI paisA pUrA ane phaLa bahu ochA maLe che. keTalAya zrImaMtaputronuM pratinidhitva karI rahyA che A AmravRkSo. vADInI killola karatI lIlIchama zrImaMtAi vaccenI anAthatAnuM araNya-rudana sAMbhaLatA jene AvaDe tene ja AvA zrImaMtaputronI vyathAvAcA saMbhaLAze. atizaya zramita thayelAne AhAra karatA ArAmanI utAvaLa hoya che. atizaya tRSAturane mIThAinA thALanI nahIM, pANInA glAsanI talapa hoya 32 gharazALA

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che. vyaktine kaMika ApatA pahelA tenI jarUrIyAta samajI zake te kharo dAtA che. kevala udAratAthI dAtA nathI thaI zakAtuM, sAthe samajaNa paNa jarUrI che. bALakone saMbhALanAra karatA sAMbhaLanAranI vadhu jarUra hoya che. puSkaLa sAmagrInA khaDakalA ane tamAma anukULatA paNa vAlInA eka hUMphALA kallAkanI barAbarI karI zakatA nathI. mANasa pavanathI nahIM, zvasanathI jIve che. vAlInuM snehala sAMnidhya e bALakanI zvasanakriyA che. vAlIono samayAbhAva keTalAya bALakone guMgaLAve che. gharamAM rahelA phUlachoDa paNa niyamita voTariMga ane mAlika pAsethI mAvajata mAMge che. pALelo kUtaro paNa mAlikano samaya mAMge che. to potAnuM bALaka samaya ApyA vagara hUMphALuM kaI rIte rahI zake ? keTalAka pappAne kUtarA sAthe pharavAno ane ramavAno TAima maLe che, bALaka sAthe nahIM. AvA kissAmAM kUtarAnI irSA karatAM bALakanI dayA vadhu Ave. " kyAreka to evI kaDavI vAta karavAnuM mana thai jAya ke AvA zrImaMta bApane tyAM janma maLe tevA bALaka jevI daridratA koinI nahIM. AvA bALakanA pappAno kalAka eTalo badho moMgho hoya che ke tenA nabIrAne tenI jarUra hovA chatAM paNa pappAno eka kalAka kharIdI zakavAnI kharIdazakti te bALaka pAse hotI nathI. potAnI kaMpanInA sTAphanA prophAila ane progresa riporTa rAkhanArA pappAne bALaka kyA dhoraNamAM bhaNe che? ke kevuM bhaNe che ? te konI sAthe phare che ? te zuM kare che? e jovAnI'ya kurasada hotI nathI. ema lAge ke teno putra dIkarA tarIke gharamAM dAkhala thavAne badale yuna tarIke kaMpanImAM dAkhala thayo hota to kadAca tenA pappAe tenAmAM vadhu rasa lIdho hota ! AvA bALakone pharavA mATe gADI maLe che je pappA nAmanA dUranA pradeza pahoMcI zakatI nathI. temane covIsa kalAka sAcavanArI eka AyA maLe che paNa mammInI mAyA ochI maLe che. AvA bALakonI sagavaDanI duniyA puSkaLa che paNa sneha ane hUMphanI duniyA sAva pokaLa hoya che. gunho eTalo ja ke A bALake "ati dhanADhya ghara' nAmanA nirjana TApu para janama lIdho ! AvA saMtAnonA mAnasapaTa para potAnA pappA-mammInuM citra upasatuM hoya gharazALA 33

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che. nIce eka kezana hoya che : "guma thayela che. bhALa meLavI ApanArane yogya badalo ApavAmAM Avaze". AvA bALakonA haiyAM sukAM hoya che. AMkho bhInI hoya che. AvA parivAra jIvana para koie eka camacamato kaTAkSa karyo che : "tuM mane pAlavanuM aMgrejI pUcha mA, ahIM to dIkarAnA AMsu paNa Tisyu peparathI lUchAya che.' kabUla ke dareka gharomAM A paristhiti nathI hotI. paNa A TrenDa paDI rahyo che. khAsa karIne je gharomAM mUDIvAda ane upabhoktAvAdanuM sAmrAjya hoya che tyAM A paddhatinuM parivArajIvana (!) pravarte che. Aje keTalAka bALako mAtra dasa varSanA thAya tyAM to gharathI seMkaDo mAila dUra beMglora, UTI ke daherAdUna jevA taddana aparicita sthaLe zALAkIya zikSaNa lai rahyA che. UMcI guNavattAnuM zikSaNa ApavAnI ADazamAM mA-bApanI thoDA chuTTA ane haLavA rahevAnI dAnata paNa thoDI kAryarata hoi zake. ucca zaikSaNika mALakhuM ane sarvottama savalato sAthenI resIDenzIyala skulamAM bhaNatA bALako pAse mAtAno hAlasoyo khoLo nathI hoto. tyAM kadAca "phAdhara' haze paNa pitAnuM hUMphALu sAMnidhya nathI maLatuM, je ghaNA bALakone korI khAya che. bauddhika draSTie temano vikAsa thato hoya to paNa mAnasika draSTie temanAmAM "samathiMga lekiMga" no laghutAbhAva rahelo hoya che. AvA bALakone potAnuM ghara to jANe vekezana spoTa banI jAya che. chokarAo vekezanamAM mAmAne ghera jAya e vAta dUranI thai gai, AjakAla to chokarAo vekezanamAM mammInA ghare jAya che. varSe doDha lAkhanI phI bharavI paravaDe paNa potAnA vhAlasoyA pAchaLa samaya kADhavo na posAya tevI daridratA koi mA-bApane na paDo ! jenI pAse paisA nathI e to garIba che ja paNa jenI pAse paisA sivAya kAMi ja nathI e bahu UMcA garIba che. bALakonI kharI bAbAgADI che mA-bApa, tenA badale A bAbAgADI jyAre vizALakAya vAhana bane che tyAre tenA arthopArjana ane sukhopArjananA bhArekhama paiDAo taLe biccAruM zaizava kacaDAya che. mA-bApane potAnI jIMdagI 34 gharazALA

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mANavAmAM eTalo badho rasa hoya che ke potAnuM ja bALaka potAnI jIMdagIno hisso ane hetu lAgavAne badale kyAreka aDacaNarUpa lAge che. moDI rAta sudhI pArTIomAM ne pikacaromAM moja mANavAnI icchA na rokI zakatA peraTsa pote "cAilDa phrI rahevA mATe bALakane AyAnA bharose soMpI detA hoya che. kyAreka gharamAM dAdI paNa A kAmagirI bajAve che. kyAreka AvA cAra-pAMca anAtho ne eka sAthe ko'ka sAcavatuM hoya che, kAraNa ke AkhuM phrenDa sarkala koi pArTImAM masta hoya che. keTalAka mA-bApa gharamAM evI vividha ramato ne sAdhano bALako sAme khaDakI de che jenI sAthe ramatA bALakane potAnA mammI-pappA bilakula yAda ja na Ave !. benkiMga sisTamano eka pAyAno niyama cheH You cannot withdraw unless you deposit. saMtAna pAchaLa peranTasa jeTalo samaya invesTa kare che, teTalo samaya teo saMtAno pAsethI potAnI jarUriyAta vakhate AsAnIthI meLavI zake che. bAkInAne khUba kheMca paDavAnI ! zarUAtanA traNa cAra varSamAM mA karatA AyA ane ramatanA sAdhano sAthe jeNe vadhAre samaya kADhyo hoya, pachI koi dUranA sthaLe zikSaNa levA gayelo bALaka gRhapatinI najara heThaLa rahyo hoya che, pachI kolejanA varSomAM saMgIna abhyAsa mATe teNe dUranA sthaLe koi hosTelamAM thoDA varSo gALyA hoya che, tevA saMtAna pachI mA-bApathI thoDA aMtare rahevAnuM ja vadhu pasaMda kare che. thoDA moTA thayelA dIkarA pachI potAnI jIMdagImAM mA-bApanI thoDI paNa daramyAnagirIne inTaraphIyaransa gaNe che. kyAreka bahu moDA AvelA ke udAsa cahere beThelA dIkarAne kaMika pUchavA jAya ke cokakhI copaDAvatA bhAisAheba kahI deze "ATalA varSo kai rIte moTA thayA tenI tamane khabara kyAM che ? pachI have pUchavAnI koi jarUra nathI. amAruM ame joi lezuM." pachI mAbApane ema lAge che ke "chokaro bahu uddhata thai gayo che ApaNe enA mATe keTaluM badhu karyuM ane kevA javAba Ape che ?" gharazALA 35

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AvI DisTanTa uchera paddhatithI uchareluM bALaka moTA thatA eka Tebala para pappA sAthe jamavAnuM paNa pasaMda nahIM kare. jyAM judA TebalanI sagavaDa na hoya tyAM samaya judo haze. eka ja ophIsamAM besavAnuM hovA chatAM AvA bApa-dIkarA bhAgye ja eka kAramAM sAthe jatA haze. TAima menejamenTamAM mAnanArA A mahArathIo e vAta bhUlI jAya che ke pAMca miniTa bagADIne paNa dIkarA ke pappAe eka bIjAnI rAha jovI enA jevuM TakAu TAima menejamenTa bIjuM koi nathI. pAchaLanA varSomAM mA-bApane acAnaka evuM mahesusa thavA lAge che ke dIkaro amArAthI aLago ja rahe che. tene mana bijhanesa ane phresa ja che, phemilI jevuM kAMI che ja nahIM. jarUra jaNAtA kyAreka dIkarAne potAno banAvavAnA maraNiyA prayAso paNa thAya che, je saphaLa thatA nathI kAraNa ke koi paNa strI bALakanA janama pachI paMdara ke vIsa varSa bAda mA banI zakatI nathI. mAtRtvanI padavI janma agAu nava mahinethI meLavI levI joie. je mA-bApoe saMtAnane zarUAtanA varSomAM sevako, sagavaDo ke sAdhanone havAle soMpIne nirAMta mANI hoya che te mA-bApane vArasadAro maLaze, dIkaro kyAreya nahIM maLe. lIjha upara ApelA makAno pAchA maLatA haze, saMtAno pAchA nathI maLatA. iMglenDanA bhUtapUrva vaDApradhAna vinsTana carcilanA khaMDamAM Tebala para rahelI phoTophrema sAme joine koie kaheluM: "tamArI mAtA kevA sarasa lAge che !' tyAre carcile kaheluM: mArI mAtA to AnAthI ghaNI suMdara hatI. A to mArI AyA hatI, teno phoTo che. mArI mAtA pAse sauMdaryanA pramANamAM sneha ane samaya ochA hatA. mArA zaizavakALamAM mane apAra hUMpha apanArI AyA hatI ane te AyAne huM kyAreya bhUlI zakato nathI.' carcilanA javAba upara manana ane maMthana karI le AjanA vyasta vAlIo. ane dIkarAnA Tebala para potAnI chabI ThassAthI rahI zake tevo prayAsa kare ! 36 gharazALA

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gharazALA pappA: grasta, vyasta te masta prasaMga thoDA vakhata pahelAno che paNa sAco che. potAnI lADakI dIkarI uMmaralAyaka thatA tenA aMge gharamAM vAtacIta cAlatI hatI tyAre te dIkarIe potAnA pitAne kahelA zabdo sAMbhaLavA jevA che : ''rUpa ke rUpiyAmAM kaMika kacAza haze to tevI vyakti sAthe mane jarA paNa vAMdho nahIM Ave paNa teno svabhAva to pappA ! bilakula tamArI jevo ja hoya te khAsa jozo. tamArI pAse vyaktine barAbara samajavAnI sUjha paNa che ane vyaktine sudhAravAnI zista paNa che. tame sagavaDa ane saMskAra banne ApI zakyA cho. amane moja paNa karAvI che. chatAM maryAdAnA pATha paNa zikhavyA che. bahu ochAne maLe tevA pappA mane maLyA che, mATe svabhAvamAM tamArI sAtha sAmya dharAvatuM pAtra pasaMda karazo.'' pitA mATe saMtAna pAsethI AnAthI vadhu UMco abhiprAya kayo hoi zake... ? pitRtva eka evI hUMphALI chatrI che jenI nIce rahelA saMtAnane rakSaNa ane poSaNa banne maLI rahe. dareka saMtAnanA pitA hoya che paNa dareka pitAnuM pitRtva sarakhuM nathI 37

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hotuM. nALiyerI paramIThA phaLa pAke che paNa te chAyA ApI zakavAmAM asamartha che. vaDalA nIce hUMphALI chAyA maLe paNa tyAM mIThA phaLa nathI hotA. AMbAnA vRkSa pAse banne ApavAnI kSamatA che. pitRtvanA nikhArane A rIte najaramAM rAkhIne pappAonuM vargIkaraNa traNa kakSAmAM thai zake. (1) grasta pappA (2) vyasta pappA (3) masta pappA grasta pappAH kAmanA boja nIce ke tanAva heThaLa jemanA jIvanano samaya ane saMvedanAo sAva nAmazeSa thai gayA hoya. capaTI vagADIne lAkha rUpiyA kamAi zake tevuM takadIra hoya paNa saMtAnane eka kalAka ApavA jemaNe rItasarano parasevo pADavo paDato hoya. saMtAna sAthe mahine eka vAra nirAMte vAta karavAnI paNa jemane phurasada na hoya. saMtAnanA abhyAsa, svAstha, svabhAva ane tenI khAmIo, khUbIothI je ghaNAkharAM ajANa hoya. (alabatta ajANa rahyA hoya). "tamAro bAbo kayA sTAnDarDamAM bhaNe che' Avo prazna pUchAya tyAre keTalAka pappAe javAba ApatA pahelA bAbAnI mammIne kansalTa karavA paDe che ! AvA prasaMge pappAnA sTAnDarDano paNa khyAla AvI jAya che. * saMtAnanA sAMskArika ghaDatara mATenI jemanI pAse koi dRSTi na hoya, * saMtAnonI sobata ane nobata aMge vicAravAnuM jyAM magaja na hoya, * sneha ane samaya meLavavA mATenA potAnA pyArA saMtAnonuM avyakta Akranda sAMbhaLI zake tevA jemanI pAse kAna na hoya, * potAnA saMtAnane hUMphALu heta ApI zake tevuM jyAM hRdaya na hoya, je che, chatAM nathI jevA che, rAhuthI grasta candra jevA pappA eTale grasta pappA ! AvA pappA pAse potAnA saMtAnonA ghaDatara mATenI mAhitI ke mahenata bemAMthI ekeya hotA nathI. pRthvI para keTalAka evA vRkSo paNa hoya che jenI pAse pAMdaDA ke phaLa kAMi ja nathI hotuM ! 38 gharazALA

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vyasta pappA : potAnA vyavasAyI jIvanamAMthI jeo saMtAna mATe khAsa samaya phALavavA mAMge to paNa phALavI zakatA nathI. saMtAnanI kharI jarUriyAta samajavA chatAM samayanI kheMca hovAnA kAraNe tene bIjI pUraka sAmagrIothI pUrI karI de che. keTalAka tagaDA invesTaro moTA supara mola bAMdhIne dukAno veMcI detA hoya che athavA bhADethI calAvavA ApI detA hoya che. tema saMtAna mATe AyA, mANasa, gADI, DrAivara, TIcarathI laine manoraMjaka sAmagrIono Dhagalo khaDakI daine saMtAnano uche2 karyAno mithyA ahesAsa karI letA hoya che. saMtAnane janma ApI de ane janmadivase pArTI ApI de. tene paraNAvI de ane kAme lagADI de eTale basa chuTTA ! kartavyanI dizA kadAca temanI pAse hoya che paNa paga te dizAmAM mAMDI zakatA nathI. vyastatAnI sAMkaLa temane satata bAMdhelI rAkhe che. AvA pappA ghare AvIne paNa potAnA kampyuTara, kelkayulezansa, phona ane dhaMdhAkIya sAhityamAMthI bahAra AvI zakatA nathI. AvA pappAne vyasta pappA kahI zakAya. keTalAka lokonA naMbara hovA chatA phona lagabhaga lAgatA nathI. temanI lAina satata bijhI hoya che ! masta pappA : vastunI poSakatA tenA ghaTakatattvo (Ingredients) ne AbhArI che. ane vyaktinI poSakatA tenI guNavattA (Credentials)ne AbhArI che. masta pappA pAse traNa vastu hovI jarUrI che. * samaya * sneha * zista samaya : saMtAna hovuM e pitAnuM saubhAgya che, saMtAna mATe samaya hovo e pitAnuM kartavya che. A samaya ja pitA ane putra vacce snehano setu ane AtmIyatAno hetu bane che. kalAkanI kasaratathI saMtAnanA zarIrane lAbha thaze. kalAkanA TyUzanathI tenI buddhine lAbha thaze, paNa tenA mana ane jIvanane haryuM bharyuM ane AnaMdamaya rAkhavAnI tAkAta tene maLatA pitAnA eka kalAkamAM rahelI che. samaya premathI Apavo ane parANe Apavo e be bAbata vacceno bheda paNa bhUlAvo na joie. gharazALA 39

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snehaH samaya hovo ane sneha hovo e be paNa alaga bAbato che. AIDala (IPLE) ane AiDiyala (Ideal) zabdo vacce Ama bahu ocho pharaka che. ane chatAM ghaNo badho pharaka che. pappAnuM vyaktitva evuM sohAmaNuM hoya ke vinA saMkoce Azrita game tyAre pappAno aproca karI zake. muMjhavaNa vinA koI paNa bAbata pUchI zake. salAha mAMgatA saMkoca na thAya ane bhUla kabUlatA bhaya na lAge tevuM nirbhaya sthAna eTale masta pappA ! jenI pAse chAMyaDo paNa maLe ne AMbA paNa maLe tevuM AmravRkSa eTale masta pappA ! zista sneha hovo ane zista hovI A banne bAbato paraspara virodhI nathI paNa paraspara pUraka che. paramAtmA pAse karuNA hoya che. polisa pAse kaDapa hoya che. pitA pAse bannenuM kombinezana joie. keTalAka mA-bApa pAse lADano atireka hoya che. keTalAka pAse dhAkano atireka hoya che. A banne "ati' saMtAna mATe panotIrUpa sAbita thai zake che. AzritonA suyogya ghaDatara mATe ghaDavaiyA pAse hovA jarUrI evA be mahattvanA guNo upara jaina darzane sarasa prakAza pADyo che. (1) bhIma guNa. (2) kAMta guNa jenAthI Azrita sahaja rIte thoDI AmanyA jALave, uparavaTa jatA pahelA vicAre, jenAthI Azritane thoDo phaDaka rahe, ane tene kaheluM asara kare tevuM vyaktitva eTale bhImaguNa. jenAthI Azritane potAnA tarapha sahaja kheMcANa thAya, potAnI hAjarI mATe e satata talasato rahe ane vagara sAMkaLe paNa te baMdhAyelo rahe tevuM vyaktitva eTale kAMtaguNa. alaga zabdomAM kahIe to eka AMkhamAM ratAza ane bIjI AMkhamAM bhInAza eTale bhIma ane kAMta guNa. A banne guNonuM kombinezana AzrayadAtAne samartha ane saphaLa banAve che. vadhu paDatI dhAka eTale philTarezana 40 varazALA

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vagarano bhImaguNa. te eka hevI sTImarolara banIna AzritanA manane kacaDI nAMkhe che ane tene sAva zuSka ane rUkSa banAvI de che. vadhu paDatA lADa eTale kAMtaguNanI relamachela, je saMtAna mATe uddhatAika ane ucchaMkhalatAnI khAI tarapha dhakelato DhALa bane che. zarIra, mana ane saMtAna A traNe ya ati lADane pAtra nathI. anilADathI zarIra zithila bane che, mana niHsattva bane che ane saMtAna uddhata bane che. ghaNA varSe AvelA athavA be dIkarI upara AvelA dIkarAne vadhu paDatA lADa laDAvIne ghaNA mA-bApo Aje pastAya che. AvA prasaMge vaDIlo khAsa eka kahevata prayojatA hoya che : "sonAnI kaTArI peTamAM na posAya !" Ama atiloDa ane atidhAka banne bALasaMskaraNa mATe kupacya samAna che. mATInA ramakaDA banAvanAro mATIne pANIthI bhInI banAve nahIM tyAM sudhI te mATI icchita AkArane pakaDatI nathI, paNa pANI jo pramANathI vadhu paDI jAya to te AkAra Takato paNa nathI. mizraNa ekaluM kAma natI karatuM. praporzanalI paraphekaTa hoya tevuM mizraNa ja kAma kare che. apramANa saMmizraNa thayuM hoya to ja AkAra ApI zakAya che. zrI hemacaMdrAcAryae vItarAga stotramAM kombinezanano phAyado batAvatuM sarasa udAharaNa TAMkyuM che. guDo hi kaphahetu syAt, nAgaraM pittakAraNaM / dvayAtmani na doSo'sti, guDa-nAgarabheSaje / / ekalo goLa e kyAreka kaphanuM kAraNa banI zake, ekalI suMTha kyAreka pittakAraka bane. paNa goLa ane sUMThane mizrita karIne taiyAra karelI goLIto auSadharUpa banIne parasparanA doSonI mAraka banavA uparAMta guNakAraka paNa bane che. Ama to A zlokajaina darzananA anekAMtavAdanI vibhAvanAne samajavA mATe mUkAyo che. chatAM kombinezana thIyarInuM sAmya jotA A saMdarbhamAM paNa te eTalo ja saMgata che. zlokagata goLa ane pitta zabdanA sthAne bhIma ane gharazALA 41

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kAMta zabda prayojIne sAmAnya pheraphAra sAthenI rajuAta AvI hoi zake. bhImo hi bhayahetuH syAt, kAnto hyavajJatAgRham / dvayAtmani na doSo'sti, bhImakAntaikabheSaje / / je vadhu paDato kaDapa rAkhe tevA vAlI AgaLa jatA saMtAna gumAve che. ane je vadhu paDatA lADa laDAve te saMtAna paranuM niyaMtraNa gumAve che. paraMtu AvuM kombineTeDa peranTahUDa bajAvatA AvaDe tenA saMtAno saMskAra ane saphaLatAnA sopAno caDavAmAM hAMphatA nathI. A vAtane vadhu saraLatAthI samajavI hoya to cAkaDe mATIcaDAvIne mATalA banAvatA kuMbhArane ekavAra joi levo joie. "bhItara hAtha saMvArada, upara mAre coTa.." kuMbhAra eka hAtha mATalAnI aMdara rAkhe, bIjA hAthe upara TapArato jAya ne ghaDo ghaDAto jAya. uparathI TapAre nahi to AkAra-nakhare nahi, ane TapAratI vakhate aMdarahAthano Teko na hoya to AkAra besI jAya athavA kANuM paDI jAya. bahArathI te kuMbhArano eka ja hAtha kAma karato dekhAya che chatAM banne hAthanuM kambAinDa phaMkazaniMga hoya che temAM be mata nathI. A rIte samaya, sneha ane zistanA TAMkaNe saMskAritAnuM manohara zilpa ghaDanArA che masta pappA. grasta, vyasta ane masta darekanA phijhikasamAM ane bAyolojImAM khAsa pharaka hoto nathI. chatAM, tenI kemisTrImAM ghaNo pharaka hoi zake che. golavaDanA cIku, nAgapuranI nAraMgI, ratnAgirinI kerIne kAzmIrI sapharajana jema potAnA samAna jAtIya phaLonI duniyAmAM rAjA gaNAya che, kAraNa ke anya phaLo karatAM temanI kemisTrI tulanAtmaka rIte kaMika UMcI che. tema ahIM paNa masta pappA eTale basa, masta pappA ! masta saMtAna meLavavA mATe masta pappA banavAnI sAdhanA anivArya che. jemanA pappA grasta, temanA saMtAno trasta ! jemanA pappA vyasta, temanA saMtAna susta ! jemanA pappA masta, temanA saMtAno alamasta ! 42 zazALA

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atuzAsanaH vyaktitvanuM surakSA cakra "saMtAna vagaranA loko karatAM saMtAno dharAvatA lokone mAnasika tanAva vadhu hoya che... pahelI najare A sTeTamenTa Azcarya upajAvaze. "putrae gatiti'nA uccAraNo je dezamAM rahetA hoya ane savAzera mATInI khoTa e jIMdagIno moTo abhizApa manAto hoya tevA dezamAM A sTeTamenTa hajI apAyuM nathI chatAM ciMtAjanaka ane vicAraNIya to cokkasa che. phaloriDA sTeTa yunivarsiTInA saMzodhakoe thoDA varSo pUrve eka abhyAsa hAtha dharelo. jemAM purA tera hajAra vyaktiono abhyAsa karAyo hato. jemAM niHsaMtAna daMpatI karatA bALako dharAvatA daMpatInA sAmAjika saMbaMdho vadhu dRDha banI zakavAnI sakArAtmaka bAbata jaNAvyA bAda eka vicitra lAge tevuM tAraNa paNa nIkaLyuM hatuM. "saMtAno dharAvatA loko vadhu DiprezanathI pIDAtA jovA maLyA hatA." saMzodhakonA mate saMtAno dharAvatA lokone bALako aMgenI bhAvAtmaka, sAmAjika, svAcya bAbatanI temaja Arthika viSayone lagatI ciMtAo khUba satAvatI hoya che GrazALA 43

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je lagabhaga ochI thatI nathI. "nAnA bALako nAnI samasyA UbhI karatA hoya che ane moTA bALako moTI samasyA utpanna karanArA hoya che'' tevuM paNa eka tAraNa nIkaLyuM hatuM. - temAM paNa bALako jyAre bahAra gayelA hoya, moDe sudhI bahAra rahetA hoya ke dUra hosTela vageremAM rahetA hoya tyAre ciMtAnuM pramANa ghaNuM vadhI jatuM hovAnuM jaNAvyuM hatuM. amerikana soziyolojikala esosiezananA mukhapatramAM A abhyAsa prasiddha thayo hato. jemAM saravALe saMtAnonA ucherane, mA-bApanA mAnasika svAsthaya mATe eka paDakArUpa prakriyA tarIke jaNAvela che. jeno janma AnaMdanA AMdolano jagAvanAro hoya, jeno janma peMDAnA pekeTonuM vitaraNa karAvanAro gaNAya, jeno janma abhinaMdananI varSA kheMcI lAvanAro manAya ane samagra gharamAM ne parivAramAM utsavanuM vAtAvaraNa sarjanAro hoya teno uchera tenA ja janaka ane janetAnA mAnasika svAthya mATe paDakArarUpa kai rIte bane ? je ghaDapaNanI lAkaDIgaNAya te ciMtAnI cinagArIbane ? je AvatIkAlano AdhAragaNAya te AvatIkAlano paDakAra bane ? potAno ja aMza ne potAno ja vaMza zuM potAne ja paDakAre ? je dezanI jIvanazailImAM bALasaMskaraNanI havA ane anuzAsananI davA na hoya, temaja tene pUraka sAmAjika mALakhuM na hoya tyAMnI A gavAhI che. bhArata mATe kadAca AgAhI kahI zakAya.' koipaNa dezanA sAmAjika mALakhAnI guNavattAno AdhAra be vastu para rahe che. (1) dezanI paraMparAgata saMskRti. (2) dezanuM vartamAna kAyadAkIya mALakhuM. pazcimanA aneka mUDIvAdI dezomAM Aje kuTuMbavAda paNa bacyo nathI. tenuM eka kAraNa e che ke tyAMnA kalcaramAM ane kAyadAomAM svAtaMtrya' zabdane ghaNuM badhuM svAtaMtra maLeluM che. amerikAmAM saMtAnone bagaDavAnI tamAma savalato 44 gharazALA

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arpe tevuM phrI kalyara che ane pAchuM te kalcarane kavaca Ape tevuM kAnUnI paDa paNa che. mAtra be thI traNa varSanI umare pahoMcelo bALaka potAnA alaga rUma mATe hakadAra bane che. AvA parivArane siMgalarUma kicanano phleTa na maLe. teNe bALaka mATe alaga rUmanI jogavAi karavI joie kAraNa ke bALakane potAnI jIMdagI hoya che ane prAivasIne te loko jIMdagIno eka bahu ja agatyano mAmalo gaNe che. tAkAta hoya to potAnA saMtAna sAthe pappA kaDaka valaNa akhatyAra karI jove. gaNatarInI ja miniTomAM ghara nIce polisavena AvI zake che ane pappAne kaDaka zabdomAM cetavaNI ApI zake che "tamArA chokarA sAthe sarakhI rIte vartatA zIkho !" eTalI zIvAtamAM potAnA rUmamAMthI potAnA phona parathI polisane DAyala karIne potAnA pappAne giraphatAra karAvI devA sudhInI sattA je dezanA bALakone maLatI hoya te dezanI khAjo dayA, te bALanI khAjo dayA ! bALako para vadhu kaDapa rAkhavAthI cAilDa rAiTasano bhaMga thato hoya to potAnA saMtAno para anuzAsana rAkhavAno vAlIono paNa koI adhikAra kharo ke nahIM ? bALakonA svAtaMtryane vadhu vyApa ApavAthI peranTsa rAiTano bhaMga thayo kahevAya ke nahIM ? vAsvatamAM bALako para anuzAsana rAkhavuM e perenTsano mAtra haka nahIM, pavitra pharaja che. - bAlyakALa ane kizorAvasthAmAM samajaNanI ane anubhavanI maryAdA hovAthI koi khoTI Teva ke khoTI sobatano bhoga bane te saMtAna mATe saMbhavita che. AvI sthitimAM samajAvavA chatAM na mAne to kaDakAino sAtha laine paNa tene "ku'nI cuMgAlamAM phasAto aTakAvavAnI javAbadArI konI ? bALakane potAnI jIMdagI hoya che tenI nA nathI, paNa tenI jIMdagI ghaDavAnI ko'kanI javAbadArI paNa hoya che. aMgrejImAM vAlI mATe majAno zabda vaparAya cheH "gArDiyana.' gArDiyana eTale "hI hu gAsa'. bALakanI jIMdagInuM rakhopuM karavAnI pavitra pharaja karatA eka vAlI tarIke bIjI kai caDiyAtI kAryavAhI hoi zake ? gharazALA 45

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anuzAsana zabda Aje potAno arthaprabhAva khoi beTho che ane AjhAdI zabdano arthaprabhAva jhanUne caDyo che. rastA paranA vAhana cAlako badhA ja potapotAnA manasvI niyamo banAvIne vAhana haMkAre temAM rastA para koinI surakSA nathI, tenI potAnI paNa nahIM. AjhAdI ane avyavasthA vacceno bheda khUlavo joie tema anuzAsana ane AjhAdI vacceno bheda khilavo joie. tattvajJa epITeTasa vecchAcAranA niyaMtraNane AjhAdI kahe che. tenuM majAnuM 9134 E9. Freedom is not procured by a full enjoyment of what is desired, but controlling the desire. AkAzamAM UMce UDato pataMga uparanI havAmAM Take che zenAthI ? dorIthI ja te Take che. upalaka dRSTie kadAca evuM lAgaze ke A dorI to tene upara jatA roke che, paNa ekavAra dorIchUTI thayA pachI pataMganuM zuM thAya che te joi lejo. game teTalA UMce gayelA pataMganI surakSA nIcenI dorI sAthe baMdhAyelA rahevAmAM che. anuzAsanane A arthamAM samajavAnuM che. je pragatine roke nahIM, pragatine sthAyI ane surakSita banAve. vRkSanI pharatI pAMjarAnI vADa e tenuM baMdhana nathI paNa tenI surakSA che. e vADa eTalI badhI sajjaDa na hoya ke jethI vRkSano vikAsa ja ruMdhAi jAya paNa sAthe te eTalI zithila ke dUra paNa na hoya ke jethI vRkSa ADuM phATI zake ! anuzAsana A arthamAM vyaktine surakSArUpa che. navI peDhInI mAnasika tAsIra jo ke Aje judI jaNAya che. Aje che dAyakA pachI pharI ekavAra A dezamAM svAtaMtryano pavana phUMkAi rahyo che. i.saM. sana 1947 pUrve svAtaMtryanI caLavaLa upaDelI. Aje svAtaMtryanI caLa upaDI che. navI peDhInI vicAradhArA blanTa ane phranTa banatI jAya che. Telivijhana upara cAlatI phemilI sirIyalono rola A tabakke khUba ja ghAtaka che. A sirIyalo haLave hAthe navI peDhImAM eka baLavAkhora mAnasa ghaDe che je anuzAsakanI sAme paDI zake. anuzAsananA nAme jANe ke ApaNI svataMtratA chInavI levAya che, ApaNA upara badhA nirNayo jANe ke ThokI besADavAmAM ja Ave che. ApaNI 46 gharazALA

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jIMdagIno nakazo ApaNe jAte taiyAra karavAno che, temAM koinI dakhalagirI zA mATe ?'' AvI baLavAkhora mAnasikatA navI peDhI dhAraNa karI rahI che. AnuM pariNAma eTaluM jalada AvatuM dekhAya che ke navI peDhI atyaMta svacchaMdI ane svecchAcArI banI rahI che. temane koInI bIka lAgatI nathI. skulanA zikSako hajI prinsipAlathI gabharAya, prinsipAla menejamenTa borDathI gabharAya, menejamenTane TuDanTanA vAlIonuM sAMbhaLavuM paDe. vAlIo saMtAnothI gabharAya, saMtAno koithI na gabharAya ! taddana nirbhIka, bindhAsta ane "hU kersa" vAdI ! niyaMtraNa ane baMdhana vacceno bheda A loko samajI zakyA nathI. kolejamAM presakoDa lAgu karavAmAM Ave eTale vidyArthIo jANe yuniyana banAvIne batAvI devAnA mUDamAM AvI jAya ane nArAbAjI zarU karI de. muddo eka ja ke amAre kevA kapaDA paheravA e bIjA zI rIte nakkI karI zake ? mAMdA mANase zuM khAvuM ane zuM na khAvuM e aMge DokTara niyamana kare che te koinA AhArasvAtaMtrya uparanI tarApa na gaNI zakAya. eTalI saraLa vAta svIkArI na zakatI navI peDhInI bauddhika kSamatAnI A eka uNapa gaNAya. kolejamAM aghaTita banAvo banatA aTakAvavAnA hetuthI paNa jo koi asabhya kahI zakAya tevA surucibhaMga karanArA De nI ujavaNI para pratibaMdha mUkAya eTale jANe vidyArthI AlamanI svataMtratA para tarApa mAravAmAM AvI hoya tevo hobALo mace che. vinaya ane saMskAritAnI chAMTa vagaranI tIkhI pratikriyAo ApI zakAya evI AjhAdI kyo sabhya samAja maMjUra rAkhI zake ? anuzAsana atirekI na hovuM joie te samajI zakAya che. jene eka cheDe sattAno kepha hoya ane bIje cheDe nakaruM zoSaNa hoya tevAM anuzAsananI ahIM vAta paNa nathI. vAstavamAM te anuzAsana paNa na kahevAya. paraMtu je satuM ane zubhanuM sarjaka, rakSaka, poSaka ane pradarzaka hoya tevuM anuzAsana sarvatra, sarvadA ane sarvathA anivArya che. varALA

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Ajano zikSita gaNAto amuka varga paNa eka navI ja havA prasarAve che. "navI peDhIne have bahu kanTrolamAM rAkhavAno prayatna na karavo joie. have samaya badalAyo che. badalAyelA samaya mujaba darekane have chUTa ane mokaLAza joie che.'' kabUla, paNa A te nidAna thayuM, upAya nathI. dardIne davA kaDavI lAge eTalA mAtrathI davA radda na thai zake. vyaktinI jema samAjanuM paNa eka zarIra hoya che, tenuM paNa eka Arogya hoya che, tenA paNa keTalAka roga hoya che ane tenI keTalIka davAo paNa hoya che. sajAthI laine nAnA moTA sahu anuzAsaka upAyo e sAmAjika taMdurastInI helthakera phormyulA che. TIneja2 dIkaro moDI rAta sudhI gharanI bahAra pharato hoya tyAre pUchaparacha karavAnI pharaja dareka mA-bApanI che ane e pUcha-parachamAM pUro sahakAra ApavAnI pharaja dIkarAnI paNa che ja. aThavADiyAmAM hajAreka rUpiyA uDAvI denArA kolejiyanane tenA vAlI hisAba pUche temAM khoTuM zuM che? dIkarInA mobAila 52 satata ko'kanA meseja AvyA karatA hoya to zuM saMskArI mAtA te aMge koi Takora paNa na karI zake ? peranTsa orthoDoksa hoya che tevuM ochI jagyAe bane che. vAstavamAM navI peDhI vadhu paDatI AjhAdI icche che. A tathyane vAlIonA junavANIpaNAnA paDadA pAchaLa DhAMkavAno prayAsa navA samAja sudhArako paNa kyAreka karatA hoya che je ciMtAjanaka hakIkata che. jIvanamAM AnaMdavAda hoi zake paNa mojamastI ane maryAdA vacceno bheda bhUMsAi jAya te hade jhanUne caDelo AnaMdavAda e vAstavamAM AnaMdavAda nathI, sAmAjika AtaMkavAda che. AnaMdanA nAme aparAdhanA rAjamArgo racAi na jAya te jonArA jIvatA haze to ja samAja svaccha raheze. tAjeta2mAM amerikAnA samAja zAstrIoe cetavaNInA rUpamAM eka tAraNa ApyuM che. jeno sArAMza kaMika A pramANe che. ''je mA-bApo potAnA saMtAnone uMma2nI maryAdAthI kaMika vadhu paDatI chUTachATa ane samaja ApavAmAM mAne che e lokonA saMtAno anaitika rastAo pakaDI le che. A mA-bApone 4. gharazALA

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ema lAge che ke e amArA saMtAnone khuza karIe chIe, vAstavamAM te loko potAnA saMtAnone khatama kare che.' keTalAka peranTsanA sTAilisTa DAyaloga sAMbhaLyA cheH "amAre mana saMtAnanI khuzI sauthI mahattvanI che te jo khuza raheto hoya to pachI te zuM kare che tenI sAthe amAre bahu nisbata nathI." A kartavyanA medAnamAM ramavA UbhelA mA-bApanI eka jAtanI bhAgeDuvRtti (escapism) che. bALakane je bhAvatuM hoya paNa tenI hojarIne phAvatuM na hoya tevo khorAka mA ApatI nathI. bALakanA svAda karatAM bALakanA svAthyane vadhu mahattva ApanArA saMtAnanA moja AgaLa tenI mAvajatane gauNa karI de e eka rIte sAmAjika aparAdha gaNAya. A udAratA nathI, upekSA che. ' AvI upekSAvRttithI kizoravayamAM svecchAcAra vadhI jatA kyAreka aparAdhanA phATako khullA thai jAya che. jene pachI baMdha karavA ghaNA agharA che. samAjanuM kAyadAkIya mALakhuM jo aparAdhone aMkuzamAM rAkhI zakatuM hoya to kuLa ane kuTuMbanA anuzAsana emAM vizeSa pUraka na banI zake ? TInejarsamAM AjakAla vadhI rahelA aparAdhIkaraNanI pAchaLa vAstavamAM kyA kAraNo bhAga bhajave che tenuM taTasthabhAve nidAna ane cikitsA baMne thavA jarUrI che. to AjanA tabakke anuzAsananI anivAryatA samajAze. A saMdarbhamAM egara hovara nAmanA samAjazAstrInuM sTeTamenTa spaSTa, 241 24441 Bir E9. "If discipline is Practiced in every home Juvenile delinquency would be reduced by 95%. kevI majAnI vAta ! lokala davA dvArA globala iphaTa ! pratyeka ghara jo anuzAsanadharmanI ArAdhanA mATenuM upAsanA maMdira banI jAya to Aje yuvApeDhI dvArA thai rahelA aparAdhomAM 95% sudhIno kApa mUkI zakAya che. elgara hovaranuM uparokta sTeTamenTa vAstavamAM cikitsA sUtra che. jemAM garbhita rIte nidAna tarapha paNa AMgaLI cIMdhaNuM che. A sUtrano amala AvatI kAlanA svaccha ane svastha samAjanI geraMTI ApI zakaze. gharazALA

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'navI peDhI samajavA taiyAra ja nathI' evo nirAzAvAda paNa asthAne che. navI peDhInI pratibhA ane pAradarzakatA gajabanAka che. navI peDhIne anuzAsananuM mahattva yogya keLavaNI dvArA samajAvI zakAya che. zista ane anuzAsanane parsanAliTI DevalapamenTanA mahattvanA pAsA tarIke varNavI zakAya ane te dvArA paNa dardI pAse davAnuM mArkeTiMga thai zake. mArkeTiMga e DimAnDa UbhI karavAnuM sakSama mAdhyama to che ja. jarUra che anuzAsanane sTeTasa simbola banAvavAnI. anuzAsana e davA che ane koi paNa davAno ovaraDojha ke hAiDojha ADaasaro sarjI zake che. vadhu paDatuM ke jalada anuzAsana saMtAnanA manamAM virodhanI athavA vidrohanI lAgaNI janmAvI zake che. anuzAsana svIkAravAnI saraLatA ane pAtratAno saMtAnamAM vikAsa thAya te paNa jovuM joie. dareka beTsamena krIjhanuM mahattva samaje che. dareka DrAivara gADImAM brekanuM ane roDa para signalanI jarUriyAta samaje che. navI peDhIe navA vizvamAM UbhA rahevAnuM che. jemAM kevaLa bauddhikatA kAma nahIM Ape. mUlyo ane saMskAronA kavacanI A vizvamAM TakavA mATeI anivAryatA che ane navI peDhIne te samajAya te atyaMta jarUrI che. jirApha nAmanA lAMbA prANIne sahu oLakhe che. mAtA jirApha UbhA UbhA ja baccAne janma Ape che. ekAeka baccu kaDaka jamIna para paDe che ne paDyuM rahe che. pachI mAtA jirAphanI kAmagirI jovA jevI hoya che. te baccAnI pAchaLa jaine potAnA pagathI potAnA baccAne eka joradAra lAta mAre che. lAta paDatAM ja baccuM tarata ja UbhuM to thai jAya che paNa paganI kamajo2Ine kAraNe pAchuM jamIna 52 besI jAya che. jirApha mAtA pharIthI baccAnI pAchaLa pojhizana le che. pharIthI eka lAta lagAve che. jyAM sudhI UbhuM thaine te baccuM potAnA page cAlavA na lAge tyAM sudhI mAtA potAnI lAta prakriyA cAlu rAkhe che. mAtAnI A krUratA nathI paNa saMskaraNanI eka paddhati che. 50 gharazALA

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ahIMlAta mAravI e pazutA nathI, mAnavatA che. jirAphamAtAne jaMgalI vAtAvaraNano anubhava che. potAnA paga para cAlI ke doDI na zake to baccAne kyAMka ko'kano zikAra banI jatA vAra na lAge evo nItarato mAtRsneha ahIM vyakta thAya che. je vakhate vizvanA pavanamAM saMskAritAnI maheMka sarvathA nAbUda thatI lAgatI hoya. kolejamAM thaI janArI khoTI sobata potAnA dIkarAnI jIMdagI barabAda karI de tevI zakyatA hoya. vadhu paDatI chUTamAM pRthvInA cIkaNA pATalA para dIkarI kyAMka lapasI jaze evI dahezata rahetI hoya. mobAila ke inTaraneTano DhALa kyAMka jokhamI jaNAto hoya tyAre gharanA rakSako AMkha ADA kAna kare te saMtAnanA bhAvaprANanI hatyA che. navI peDhInA vhAlA pharajaMdone khUba lAgaNIthI kahevAnuM mana thAya che ke plIjha, zilpanI kAmanA hoya to zilpInA TAMkaNA khAvAnI taiyArI rAkho. mAtA ke pitAnI zista ane maryAdA aMgenI AgrahavRttine pelI jirAphamAtAnI kikatherApInA aMdAjathI svIkArazo. tamArI dareka halacala pAchaLa jhINavaTathI koi dhyAna rAkhatuM hoya te zaMkA prerita nathI, nehaprerita che. AvuM spezyala aTenzana maLavuM e saMtAnanI jIMdagImAM khalela nathI, tenuM saubhAgya che. anuzAsana e mAtA-pitA ane kuTuMbanI saMtAna pratyenI karUNAnuM sakriya svarUpa che. . * * * * * gharazALA 51

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dhAkate dhAkamAM rAkho "A vRkSa kevuM bhAgyazALI che ke AvI suMdara latA tene vIMTaLAi che !" "nA, nA, kharI bhAgyazALI to A latA che jene AvA ghaTAdAra ane majabuta vRkSano Azraya maLyo che.' "chatAM paNa A latAnA kAraNe A vRkSanI zobhA kaMika judI ja nathI lAgatI ?" "lAge ja che ne ! ane A vRkSa pharate vIMTaLAvAnA kAraNe ja to A vanalatA paNa AvI zobhI rahI che !' rAma ane sItA vacce A saMvAda cAlI rahyo hato. vanavAsa daramyAna koi manohara sthaLe eka lIlIchama latAthI vIMTaLAyelA vRkSane joine banne jaNA potAnA abhiprAya jaNAvatA hatA. chelle toDa kADhavA rAmacandrajIe lakSmaNajI para choDatA kahyuM: "te taTastha che, nirNaya te ja karaze.' - lakSmaNajI bannenA haiyAnA bhAvo samajI gayA hatA chatAM temaNe to kaMika alaga ja dizA kholIH "na to A vRkSa bhAgyazALI che, na to A vanalatA bhAgyazALI che.'' ' para gharazALA

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saheja aTakIne pachI umeryuMH ''bhAgyazALI to te jana che jene AnI zILI chAyA maLe che.'' rAma ane sItA eka bIjAnA caherA vismayabhAve joi ja rahyA. lakSmaNajIe hasIne javAbanA marma uparathI paDado uThAvyo. 'na to A rAmacandrajI evA bhAgyazALI che ke na to A sItAmaiyA evA bhAgyazALI che. kharo bhAgyavAna to A sumitrAno naMdana che jenuM jatana A bannenI chatrachAyAmAM thai rahyuM che.'' koi saubhAgyavaMta puruSane ja maLe tevo Azraya potAne maLyAno kepha lakSmaNajInA javAbamAM spaSTa chato thAya che. Aje keTalA saMtAno potAne maLelA Azraya aMge Avo abhiprAya ApI zakaze ? Aje moTA bhAganA saMtAnonA manamAM mA-bApa pratye nakArAtmaka abhiprAya hoya che. je mA-bApe saMtAnonA nAma pADyA hoya che te saMtAno kyAreka potAnA mammI ane pappAnA nAmo pADavA lAge che. koi potAnA mammIne 'hiTalara' ke 'haMTaravAlI' kahe che to koi potAnA pappAne 'osAmA' ke 'saddAma' kahe che. A nAmanuM calaNa mananI aMdara ane gharanI bahAra thatuM hovAthI mammI ke pappA potAnA nAmathI ajANa hoya che. sAthe ja potAnI AvI AgavI oLakha UbhI thavAmAM potAnI vartaNuMka paNa kaMika aMze javAbadAra hatI ke bAbata paNa teo pakaDI zakatA nathI. potAnA ja hitastrI vaDIlo mATenI AvI avagaNanA karatI navI peDhI pratye to dayA upaje, sAthe bALakonA ucheramAM kALajI rAkhanArA mA-bApane kahevAnuM mana thAya ke saMtAnanA dilamAM tamArI mA-bApa sivAyanI koi oLakha na thAya eTalI kALajI khAsa rAkhazo. keTalIka vAra bALakanI amuka sAmAnya bhUla ke harakata gaLI khAvI te paNa eka prakAranI temanI kALajI ja che. nAnapaNathI ja bALako sAthe binajarUrI tiraskArI valaNa, vAta-vAtamAM temane utArI pADavAnI Teva, bALako para vadhu paDatI ThapakAzAhI jevI vartaNuMka bALakonA manamAM mA-bApa pratye eka nakarAtmaka mAnasikatA UbhI kare che. nakArAtmaka mAnasikatA e rastA paranA baMdha thayelA phATaka jevI manodazA che. gharazALA 53

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pharaka eTalo ke peluM phATaka badhI gADIone aTakAve che. A phATaka amuka vyaktionA pravezane ja aTakAve che. temAM paNa keTalAka mA-bApa jabAnanI sAthe hAthane paNa bolavA de che, tyAre A phATaka vadhu sajjaDa bane che. temanA mate bALakane tarata ja sIdhA karavAnuM e hAthavaguM sAdhana che. uMmara ane baLanI maryAdAne kAraNe te vakhate bALako sIdhA thai jatA hoya tevuM paNa bane paNa mA-bApe AvA TUMkAgALAnA lAbhane mahattva ApavuM joie nahIM. be peDhIo vacceno saMbaMdha e koi mAtra be pAMca varSano karAra nathI. zakti ke baLaprayogathI koi vyakti upara kAmacalAu asara pADI zakAya. kAyamI asarakAritA e taMdurasta saMbaMdhone sApekSa che. taMdurasta saMbaMdhonI AdhArazilA che taMdurasta mAnasikatA. saMtAnone mArapITa karavAthI saMbaMdhanI AdhArazilA calita thAya che. ghavAyelI mAnasikatA e zarIra paranA gumaDA jevI che. temAM sAmAnya sparza paNa jema asahya pIDAkArI lAge tema tevA saMtAnone pachI mA-bApa taraphathI maLatI sAmAnya sUcanA paNa arucikara lAgavA mAMDe che. saMtAnanI bhUla thavI e ghaTanA che. mArapITathI te durghaTanAmAM pariName che. saMtAnone anuzAsana zIkhavavAnA aneka rastAo che, mArapITa emAMno koi rasto hoina zake. saMtAnane dhiTTAi tarapha dhakelato DhALa eTale mArapITa. mArapITathI bALaka sudharato nathI, samasame che. tenAmAM hiMsakavRtti ane AkramakatA vadhe che. saravALe te sudharavAne badale potAnI jIda saMtoSavA vadhu jhanUnI bane che. vAstavamAM, mArapITa eka evI vicitra davA che jenI kAyamI asara lagabhaga thatI nathI ane lAMbAgALAnI ADaasara kAyama thAya che. jene vAraMvAramAra paDe che tevA bALako lAMbAgALe potAno AtmavizvAsa gumAvI de che ane gamagIna rahetA hoya che. eka rasaprada saMzodhane gajabanuM tAraNa ApyuM cheH "je bALakone khUba mAra paDyo hoya te bALako AgaLa vadhavAno utsAha dharAvatA hotA nathI ane ghaNuM karIne ochA pagAravALI nokarI karatA hoya che." gharazALA 54.

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bALakane avasare kahetA rahIne, premathI samajAvavA dvArA, tenI AvI Teva tenA vikAsamAM keTalI avarodhaka banI zake e vAta tenA gaLe utAravAnI mahenata karavAmAM keTalAka mAnatA nathI hotA ane sAmI vyaktimAM tatkAla sudhAro lAvI Ape tevI tamAca" therApI apanAve che. AvA vAlIomAM dhIraja nathI hotI ane dhIraja gumAvanAra haMmezA jarUra karatAM vadhu nukasAnI veThato hoya che. gujarAtanA eka zaheramAM banelI eka pArivArika ghaTanA vAMcavA maLelI savAre gharamAM phonanI riMga vAgI. Ama to gharanA vaDIlazrI DroiMgarUmamAM ja beThA hatA. paraMtu temaNe aMdara rasoi banAvI rahelI putravadhUne phona levA bUma pADI. eka hAthamAM sANasI sAthe bahAra AvelI gRhiNIe phona lIdho. phonanI vAtacItamAM ene koinaMbaralakhavAnI jarUra paDI eTale pena ApavA chokarAne bUma pADI. dIkarAe pena ApI paNa e barAbara cAlatI na hotI ane sAme cheDethI phona para pelA bhAi naMbara phaTAphaTa bole jatA hatA eTale mammIe gussAmAM pena pAchI mukavA kahyuM. dIkarAe paNa sAme kaMika dalIla karI emAM to mammIno pAro sAtamAM AsamAne pahoMcI gayo. hAthamAM rahelI sANasIno eNe chokarA para sIdho ghA karyo, chokarAnuM nAka phuTI gayuM. Ane ApaNe "ghara" kahIzuM...? jyAM pena cAlatI na hoya ane sANasI UDatI hoya ! vAta keTalI ne nukasAna keTaluM ? A nukasAna aTakI zakyuM hoya, jo * DroiMgarUmamAM ja beThelA vaDIlazrIe gRhakAryamAM vyasta putravadhUne bUma na mAratA jAte UbhA thavAnI tasdI lIdhI hota to, * phonanI bAjumAM ja kAgaLa pena hota to, * "dIkarAe kahetAveMta pena to ApI ja hatI. te pena na cAlI temAM dIkaro zuM kare ?' ATalI samaja mammIe rAkhI hota to, * naMbara lakhAvanAre lakhanAranA saMjogo samajIne thoDIka ochI utAvaLa karI hota to, GzALA 55

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* dIkarAe pena cakAsIne ApI hota to, * mammInA saMjogo samajIne dIkarAe bIjI pena ApI dIdhI hota to, * gharanA bIjA koi sabhya tarata ja naMbara lakhavA hAjara thai gayA hota to, nukasAna nivArI zakAya tevA ATalA badhA vikalpo jo ane to vacce ja laTakatA rahyA ane sANasI chuTI gai ! kAraNa ke dhIraja khUTI gai ! saMtAnanA ghaDavaiyAe paNa ghaDAvuM paDatuM hoya che. kyAreka DokaTaranI AMkha paNa kamajora hoi zake. jAta sudhAraNA mATe peraTsa ATaluM karI zakeH saMtAnane jyAre jyAre mArI beThA hoya te prasaMgonI eka noMdha rAkhIne tenuM enAlisisa karavuM joie. (1) saMtAnane kayA kAraNe mAryo ? (2) e kAraNa bALaka mATe sahaja hatu ke asahaja? . (3) nAnapaNamAM ApaNe AvuM ja karatA hatA ke nahIM ? (4) A aMge tene agAu kyAreya sUcanA ApI hatI ke nahIM ? (5) mAravA sivAyano bIjo koI vikalpa hato ke nahIM? (6) e vakhate kharekhara bALakanI ja bhUla hatI ke bIjA koi uparano roSa bALaka para UtarI gayo hato ? ' vAdaLAM kyAMka baMdhAya che ane kyAMka varase che evuM ja kyAreka parivAromAM paNa banatuM hoya che. kyAreka ophisamAM baMdhAyeluM vAdaLa gharamAM varase che, kyAreka rasoDAmAM baMdhAyeluM vAdaLa bahAra varase che. sANasIvALuM udAharaNa dhyAnathI vAMcatA khyAla Avaze ke rasoDAnI vyastatAmAM vikSepa paDavAthI putravadhUnuM magaja dhuMdhavAyeluM hatuM tenuM ja A pariNAma hatuM. Aje moTA bhAganA cAilDa kAunselarsa ke sAikiyATrisTa bALakanI phariyAda laine AvanArA peraTsane be salAha khAsa Ape che: dhIraja vadhu rAkho, apekSA ochI rAkho. pada gharazALA

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mArapITa e eka rIte to bALakanI nirbaLatAno eka prakArano geralAbha uThAvyo gaNAya. ghaNIvAra bALakane paNa khabara paDatI nathI ke tene kyA kAraNathI ATalI AkarI sajA karAi che. AvA keTalAka kissAo jANavA maLelA. (1) eka bahena potAnA dIkarAne jyAre paNa bhaNAve tyAre mArajhUDa e emano rojIMdo krama hato. AnI ADaasaro vadhatA chokaro sAva gumasuma rahevA lAgyo tyAre koi manocikitsakanI madada levAi, UMDI pUchaparachane aMte evuM tathya khUlyuM ke te bahenanA patine vyavasAyArthe ghaNo vakhata paradezamAM ja rahevuM paDatuM, ghare mAtra nAma pUratI avarajavara rahetI. pativiyogathI nIpajatA nirAzA ane roSa bicArA chokarA para UtaratA hatA. (2) rojanI mA2pITa chatAM chokarAmAM sudhAro na thatA tene eka cAilDa kAunsela2 pAse lai jaMvAyo AgaLa pAchaLanI vAto sAMbhaLIne je tAraNa nIkaLyuM e coMkAvanAruM hatuM. derANI sAthe mekaapathI mAMDIne sADI, paisA vagere bAbatamAM satata sarakhAmaNI karatI pelA chokarAnI mammI eka prakAranI laghutAgraMnthi anubhavatI hatI. ane enI ADaasararUpe badho gusso chokarA 52 kADhatI hatI. (3) banyuM evuM ke e bahenane savA2mAM ja sAsu sAthe koi mudde caDabhaDa thai hatI. misTare thoDI daramyAnagirI karI paNa temAM teNe potAnI mAtAno pakSa lIdho hato AthI te gRhiNI vadhu ghavAyelI hatI. brIphakesa laine misTara ophise jatA rahyAM tyAM ja skulethI Avelo chokaro thoDo ramate caDyo ane pelA bahenano pitto gayo ane chokarAnuM AvI banyuM. chokaro hebatAi gayo paNa tene khyAla na Avyo ke nAnI zI vAtamAM ATaluM badhuM kema thai gayuM ? pemenTanI jema panizamenTanA paNa havAlA paDatA hoya che, jene moTAo rokI zakatA nathI, nAnAo samajI zakatA nathI. gharanI ke gharanA sabhyonI paristhiti samajI zakavAnI kSamatA na hoya tyAre bALakonI A akSama sthitine mA-bApe samajavI joie. paripakvatA ane TharelapaNuM vAlIomAM na vase to pachI kyAM vase ? gharazALA 57

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thoDAka varSo pUrve paradezanI dharatI parabanI gayelo prasaMga A saMdarbhamAM khUba upayogI che. e bhAie potAnI sAta varSanI nAnakaDI dIkarIne te divase khUba mArI chokarIno vAMka eTalo ja hato ke pappAe veMcavA mATe lAvelA sonerI kAgaLamAMthI eka moTo TukaDo phADIne te kaMika banAvI rahI hatI. devuM, maMdI ane Arthika saMkaDAmaNathI thoDA trasta hatA tethI chokarI kaMI kahe to paNa sAMbhaLavAnI dhIraja pappA rAkhI zakyA nahotA. dIkarI raDatI raDatI sUi gai. bIjA divasanI savAra paDI ane AgalA divasano mAra bhUlIne pelI parI hAthamAM sonerI giphaTa boksa laine hasatI hasatI UbhelI tenI AMkho thoDI sUjelI hatI. pappA ! hepI barthaDe Aje tamAro janma divasa che ! "kahIne teNe te boksa pappAne ApyuM. gaLagaLA thai gayelA pappAe boksa svIkAryuM ane kholIne joyuM to sAva khAlI ! kema ?' pappAe pUchyuM. tyAre thoDA udAsa cahere pelI bolI "gaikAle tame khUba vasyA tethI kAMi bharavAnI hiMmata na karI zakI. paNa..paNa chatAM e bhareluM che. barAbara juo pappA ! AkhuM boksa chalochala che. khUba premathI cumIo bharIne A boksa ApyuM che. aMdara mAro cikkAra prema bharyo che. kyAreya khAlI na thAya eTalo badho !' have raDavAno vAro pappAno hato. AgalA divasanI samagra ghaTanA AMkha sAme khaDI thai gai. potAnI utAvaLa ane ugratA badala pArAvAra duHkha thayuM aMtara bharAI gayuM. "AI ema verI sorI' kahIne dIkarIne gaLe lai lIdhI. TrejeDI to e thai ke thoDAka mahinAo bAda eka vAhana akasmAtamAM pelI dIkarInuM Akasmika mRtyu thaI gayuM. pappA pAse be cIja rahI gaI. jIMdagI bharano pastAvo ne boksabhara prema ! pachI rAtre sUtI vakhate pappA kAyama A boksane potAnA ozikA pAse rAkhatA. A udAharaNa be vAra dhyAnathI vAMcIne pachI tAkAta hoya to saMtAna para hAtha upADI jo jo ! zAka sudhAravuM ane saMtAnane sudhAravuM e be vacce ghaNo taphAvata che. pa8 gharazALA

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~~ ~~~ ~ ~ ~ vArasAmAM ApavA jevo vaibhava Airiza kavi mUra koi sabhAmAM lekTara ApavA gayelA. lekTara asarakAraka rahyuM. samAraMbha pUrNa thayA bAda mUra potAnI kAramAM besavA jatA hatA tyAM ja temano koi kaTTara virodhI mANasa kyAMkathI TapakI paDyo. "tamArA bApA to mIThuM-maracuM veMcatA hatA ne tame ATaluM badhuM bolatA kyAMthI zIkhI gayA ?" praznano marma pAmI javA chatAM jarA paNa vicalita thayA vagara mUre sarasa javAba Apyo. "ema to tamArA pitAzrI paNa kevA sajjana hatA chatAM Apa AvA kema..?'' mUranA sTeTamenTamAM tenI hAjarajavAbI pratibhA ane ghaTanAthI aprabhAvita rahevAnA mijAjano khyAla to Ave ja che. te sivAya paNa ahIMvArasAvijJAnano eka pATha chato thAya che. vAlInA guNadoSanI AnuvaMzika anuvRtti cAlatI hoya che. vArasAno vyApa rogothI laIne Tevo ane AvaDato sudhI, khAsiyato ane khAmIo sudhIno hoya che. oDiyo karatA viDiyonuM mAdhyama vadhu zaktizALI eTalA mATe gaNAya che ke : Verbal effect karatA Visual gharazALA pa9

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effect vadhu hoya che. mANasa sAMbhaLIne jeTaluM zIkhe che tenA karatA joine anekagaNuM zIkhe che ane anekagaNI jhaDape zIkhe che. A vAta bALako mATe vadhu sAcI che kAraNa ke bAlyakALamAM dareka vyaktinI grAhakatA (Receptivity) atyaMta hAi phrikvansIvALI hoya che. dIkaro yuvAnImAM AvatA pahelA ja koi vyasanane ravADe caDI gayo hoya to temAM lagabhaga bemAMthI koI eka paribaLa kAma karI gayuM hoi zake (1) kusaMga (2) kuTuMba. keTalIka vAra vyasanI ke allaDa mitratene DhIMcatA zIkhavADe che to kyAreka vyasanI pappA tene pheMkatA ke thuMkatA zIkhave che. mAvo, mANekacaMda ke simalA, guTakA khAnArA pappA mAtra potAnI ja bArabAdI kare che evuM nathI. potAnA dIkarA pAse golaphalekanA pekeTsa maMgAvanArA pitAzrIo sigAreTanI sAthe saMtAnanA taMdurasta bhaviSyane paNa kAMDI cAMpe che. devuM, roga ane vyasana A traNa cIjano vAraso koi saMtAnane na maLo ! vyasananI jema vacanapaddhati paNa vArasAgata hoya che. saMtAnono aDadho aDadha zabdakoza gharamAM taiyAra thayelo hoya che. gharamAM cAlatI bolAcAlIthI laine gALAgALI sudhInuM badhuM ja saMtAna nAmanI sI.DImAM jhIlAya che. A sI.DImAM rekorDiMga tvarita thAya che ane DabiMga khUba ja muzkela hoya che. gharanI aMdara chUTathI apazabdono prayoga karanArA potAnA kuLane bhUlI jatA haze ? gharamAM mANasa sivAya koi rahetuM na hovA chatAM "kUtarA" ne "gadheDA'nA saMbodhano kema saMbhaLAtA haze ? nokarane khakhaDAvatI vakhate zeTha bhUlI jAya che ke "AvatIkAlanA zeTha" A badhuM joI rahyA che ane zIkhI rahyA che. gharamAM rahelA vRddha vaDIla mATe "buDhiyo' ke 'DosI" zabda vAparanAre vicArI levuM ke potAnA ghaDapaNa vakhate AvA zabdo potAne mATe pasaMda paDaze ke kema ? pADozI sAthe jhaghaDatI vakhate bolAtA zabdo ane samagra saMgharSazailInuM kociMga ko'ka ne apAi rahyuM che tevo khyAla ghaNIvAra kocane paNa hoto nathI. pati ane patnI vacce behudI bhASA ke AkSepa pratiAkSepa ~~~~ gharazALA

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cAle tyAre temanA vArasane teo zuM ApavA mAMge e bAbata kadAca khyAla bahAra jatI rahetI haze. zabdakozamAM kyAMya na hoya tevA keTalAka (apa) zabdo vyaktigata kozamAM rAkhanArA ane vAparanArA loko bIjAnA kAna upara to julama kare ja che, sAthe potAnA bALakanI jIbha upara paNa sitama gujAre che, je vyakta nathI hoto. bALaka bolI zakto na hoya te kadAca kamanasIbI gaNAya. paNa bALakane sabhya ane saumya vANIkozalya zIkhavavAmAM mA-bApane niSphaLatA maLe e to karUNAMtikA che. jIvanavyavahAranI ghaNI paddhatio paNa bALaka ghare ja zIkhI le che. acAnaka ko'kano phona AvatAM ja pappA dIkarAne kahI de che "kahI de, pApA ghare nathI" tyAre pappAne kadAca ema haze ke meM dIkarAne javAba ApatA zIkhavyuM. vAstavamAM temaNe dIkarAne juThuM bolatA zIkhavyuM che. potAnA mAmUlI lAbha khAtara saMtAnanA jIvanamUlyo para asara kare tevuM jo vAlI ja zIkhave to saMskArano srota bIje kyA maLaze ? saMtAnonA jIvanamAM sauthI vadhu riphalekazana potAnA mA-bApanuM paDe che. kAraNa ke potAnA ghaDavaiyAnI jIvanazailI, bhASAzailI, kAryazailI sAthe satata te saMparkamAM rahe che. , lAMbo pagapALA pravAsa karI rahelA eka pathike eka vRkSa nIce rAtavAso karyo. savAre UThyo paNa zarIramAM skUrti nahotI. sAMdhA pakaDAi gayelA ane cAlavAmAM khUba takalIpha paDatI hatI. AgaLanA gAme eka vaidyano saMparka karIne teNe dardanI rajuAta karI. vaidya pUchaparacha karIne pachI nidAna karyuM. tame rAtre je vRkSa nIce ArAma karyo te AmalInuM jhADa hovuM joie. jamIna nIce rahelA tenA mULiyAnI khaTAza asara karI gai che tethI tamArA sAMdhA akkaDa thai gayA che." AzrayasthAnanI Azrita upara kevI asara hoya che te ahIM barAbara jANavA maLe che. gharazALA

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aMgrejImAM majAnuM vAkya che : Example is better than Precept. upadeza karatA udAharaNa vadhu asa2kA2I bAbata che te bhUlavuM na joie. vinAyanA pATha bhaNAvanA2 pappAnA zabdo ochA asa2 kare che, dAdA sAtheno pappAno vyavahA2 vadhu asara kare che. saccAi ane nItino upadeza ApavA karatA teno Adarza Apavo e vadhu sakSama upAya che. sadAcAranI salAha ApanArA mA-bApa Telivijhana para salAha viruddha kAryakramo nihALatA hoya tyAre pelA upadezanA volTeja keTalA hoi zake ? jabAna karatA jIvana haMmezA vadhu bolatuM hoya che. mA-bApa vaccenA vArtAlApa ane vartaNuMkanI bALaka u52 sauthI gaherI asara paDe che. bALaka nAnuM hoya tyAre jANe ke te che ja nahIM ema mAnIne chUTathI thato vartanavilAsa paNa bALakanA magajamAM avaLA saMskAra to nAMkhe ja che. vAlIo saMtAnanI hAjarIne sasarAnI hAjarI samajIne cAle ! vilAsanI jema kaMkAsanI paNa bALakanA mana para avaLI asara paDe che. bALakanA magajamAM zuSkatA ane zUnyatA sarjavAmAM sauthI prabaLa nimitta che, bALakanI hAjarImAM thato gRhakaMkAsa. ghara e saMskAra bhUmi che, yuddhabhUmi nathI. A vAtanuM kyAreka zIrSAsana thai jAya che tyAre bALakanA saMskArone zabAsana lAgu paDe che. pappAnA AkramaNane vAraMvAra joi rahelo bALaka chupI rIte mammI pratye sahAnubhUti vadhArI de che. kyAreka mammInA jhaMjhAvAtI spela sAme lAcAra beTsamenanI adAthI UbhelA pappAne jotA bALakane mammI pratye aNagamo thavA lAge che. ko'ka gharamAM badhA ja olarAunDarsa bhegA thayA hoya tyAM bALakanI zuM dazA thatI haze te to pharIthI bALaka banIe to ja khabara paDe ! ekavAra eka nAnakaDI bALakIe potAnA bhailAne hAthamAM velaNa ApIne kahyuM ke cala, ApaNe pappA mammInI jema phAiTiMga karIe ane zo zarU thai gayo. mahemAnonI hAjarImAM banelA A prasaMgamAM gharanuM nAgarikazAstra khulluM thai gayuM. phoTogrApha ane eksa-re vacce pharaka hoya che. ema 62 gharazALA

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kahevAnuM mana thAya ke For God's Sake nahIM to chevaTe For Child's Sake. gharamAM zAMti jALavo ! gharamAM thatI dareka hilacAla e bALakanI AvatIkAlanI pravRtti che. mAtA-pitAnI bhASAzailI e bALakanI jabAnano riMgaTona che. mAtApitAnI jIvanazailI e bALakano abhyAsakrama che, jene e pUrA dilathI bhaNe che. bALakanA ghaDataramAM mA-bApanA potAnA aMgata jIvanano paNa khAsso hisso hoya che. kAraNa ke pharIthI yAda karI laie e vAtane ke bALaka joine jeTaluM jhaDapathI zIkhe che teTaluM e bIjI koI rIte zIkhato nathI. tapelInuM dUdha tAjuM hovA chatAM paNa jo phATI jAya to mAno ke je tapelImAM A dUdha bharyuM che te tapelImAM agAunA dahIMnI rahI gayelI khaTAza kAma karI gai ! bALako pAse be mahAnazaktio rahelI che. (1) grahaNa zakti (2) anukaraNazakti. bALako ane yogI banI grahaNazakti sateja hoya che paNa bannenI grAhakatAmAM eka asamAnatA paNa che. yogInIgrahaNa zailI darpaNa jevI che jyAre bALakanI grahaNa zailI kemerA lensa jevI che. darpaNamAM pratibiMba dareka vastunuM paDI zake che paNa darpaNa tene mAtra jhIle che, teno saMgraha karatuM nathI ke tenI koi asara letuM nathI. vastu khaseDatA ja tenI koi asara darpaNamAM rahetI nathI. kemerAlensanI grAhakatA AthI taddana viparIta che. sAme AvatA dRzyane te jhIle che ne pachI kacakaDAnI paTTI para tene saMgrahe che. vastu sAmethI gAyaba thai gayA pachI paNa tenI amITa chApa tenI aMdara keda thai gayelI hoya che. kAyamI asara choDIne te jAya che. yogI kevaLa jJAtA ane dRNa rahI zake che. bALaka tenA jJAna ane darzanane smaraNa ane anukaraNa sudhI laMbAve che. dareka zakti varadAna paNa banI zake che, abhizApa paNa. emAM bALakanI banne zaktio paNa apavAda na hoi zake. zakti taTastha hoya che. pariNAmano AdhAra teno prayoga karanAra para rahe che. bAlamAnasanI A be viziSTa ane virala zaktino jo varazALA

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racanAtmaka rIte zubhakSetre upayoga karatA AvaDe to camatkArika pariNAmo lAvI zakAya che. blenka keseTa jevA che bALako, jenuM dhAro tenuM rekorDiMga thai zake che, saraLatAthI ane sahajatAthI. bhInI mATIne je AkAra Apo te pakaDI le che. "kumaLA choDane vALo tema vaLe" A kahevata ko'kanI karaNI bane te mATe banI che. "pAkA ghaDe kAMThA na caDe' nI vAta ADakatarI rIte bALapaNanA zIghragrahaNane sarTiphAya kare che. ahIMgharanA vAtAvaraNano rola khUba agatyano banI jAya che. gharanuM paryAvaraNa jo pradUSita haze to bALakanA saMskAra svAcya sAme moTuM jokhama ! taMdurasta kauTuMbikatA ane poSaka saMskAritAno zuddha prANavAyu Aje keTalA gharomAM haze ? zikSAnI bIka ke inAmanI AzAthI bALaka zIkhe kharo, saMgatathI te bALakane sAruM zIkhavavA mATe ekalI inAmI yojanAo pUratI nathI ane bALakane khoTuM karatA aTakAvavA mATe ekalI zikSApraNAlI pUratI nathI. AlaMbana ApavAmAM vAlIe pAchA na paDavuM joie. cAla calagatane amuka raMga caDhe kharo, samajaNa ApavAthI tenA vicAra ghaDAya kharA, paraMtu mA-bApa ke anya vaDIlonA khudanA AcaraNa AgaLa e badhAnI asara koi visAtamAM nathI. ekavAra potAnI mAtAne koinA para dayA varasAvatI joine bALaka dayAno guNa jeTalA saMpanna kare eTalo sAta hajAra copaDIthI paNa nahIM kare ! ucca Adarza e vArasAmAM ApavA jevo sarvocca vaibhava che. 64 gharazALA

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bALaka to "bALaka" ja hoya ! eka DokaTaranA klinikamAM gulAbanA goTA jevA hasatA khitalA bALakanuM raMgIna citra hatuM. nIce majAno saMdezo lakhelo hato. "moTAonI vAta samajI zakAya tevI buddhi amArI (bALako) pAse nathI. AmArI vAto samajI zake tevuM hRdaya tamArI pAse nathI." peluM citrastha bALaka jo sahI jhuMbeza Adare to kadAca duniyAnA karoDo bALakonI sahI tene maLI rahe. kyAreka koi moTI uMmarano yuvAna koi bAbate jIda kare to tene kahevAmAM Ave che ke "have tuM nAno nathI ke jIdda kare che." ane jo koi nAnuM bALaka jIdda kare to be tamAcA mArIne tene kahevAmAM Ave che ke "samajato nathI ? bola, jIdda karIza ?' utAvaLe doDato kolejiyana lapasI jAya to tene kahevAmAM Ave che ke "zuM nAnA TAbariyAnI jema doDAdoDa kare che ? ane nAnuM bALaka doDAdoDI karatA paDI jAya to tene uparathI be khAvI paDe ane pachI sAMbhaLavuM paDeH gharazALA 65

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"ATalI akkala nathI ? zuM kAma khoTIdoDAdoDa kareche ?'' bALakone ThapakAratA ke ThokatA pahelA bALapaNanA lakSaNo jANI levA joie. bALako u52 gusse thai gayA pachI ke hAtha upADI dIdhA pachI mAtAnuM mAtRtva ghaNIvAra aMdarathI ja tene DaMkhatuM hoya che. ghaNIvA2 saMkalpo ka2vA chatAM acAnaka ja kamAna chaTakI jAya che ne hAtha upajI jAya che ane pachI pharIthI pastAvo paNa thAya che. AvA vAlIo svastha citte bALakonI sAyakolojIne thoDI samajI le to temano saMkalpa ciraMjIvI banI zakaze. : utAvaLe saMtAna para gusso thai gayA pachI potAnA ja bacAvamAM pote ja bolatA hoya che H ''amArI paNa kAMi limiTa hoya ne ! samaje ja nahIM to pachI magajanI kamAna chaTake ne !'' potAnI limiTa bIjAne samajAvavAnI koziza karavAne badale svasthatApUrvaka vAlIe bALakonI keTalIka maryAdAo (Child Limitations) ne jANI levI joieH * bALako potAnI lAgaNIone rokI zakatA nathI : moTAonI buddhi temanA hRdaya karatA vadhu kAma karatI hoya che. jyAre bALakonI buddhi karatA temanuM hRdaya vadhu sakriya hoya che. AthI potAnI lAgaNIo ke vicArone amalamAM mUkatAM pahelAM te pukhta vicAraNA na kare te sahaja che. raDavAnI lAgaNI utpanna thavA chatAM lokonI hAjarIno khyAla hovAthI vayaska vyakti pote kyAreka raDavAnuM rokI paNa zake che. gharamAM mahemAnonI upasthitino khyAla hovAthI keTalIka vAra gharanI vyakti para gusso AvavA chatAM te tatkALa to zAMta rahI zake che. 2mavAnuM mana thavA chatAM paNa parIkSAno khyAla hovAthI moTo vidyArthI kadAca icchAne aMkuzamAM rAkhI paNa zake. nAnAonI ahIM maryAdA hoya che. tene raDavAnuM mana thAya eTale tarata raDI paDe. koi cIjanI nA pADo to tarata rIsAi jAya. ramavAnuM mana thAya to tarata ja te zaruM thai jaze. tenA ramavAthI tyAre gharamAM koinA ArAmamAM khalela paDaze evo aMdAja tene AvI zakato nathI. gharamAM koi lapasI paDe 66 gharazALA

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tyAre hasavuM AvavA chatAM samajaNapUrvaka moTAo hAsyane rokI zake, nAnao to khaDakhaDATa hasI ja paDe. tene bhaNavAno mUDa hoya to homavarka enuM potAnuM ane tene ramavAno mUDa hoya to te homavarka mammInuM ! bALako potAnI lAgaNIne rokI zakatA nathI. * bALako vastu ke vyaktinI kiMmata AMkI zake eTalA taiyAra nathI : koi prauDhane dUdhapAkano Agraha mAphaka na Ave to te tenI nA pADaze. bALakane jamavAno mUDa na hoya ne parANe Apazo to te thALI UMghI vALI deze. bhAre kapaDA ane sAmAnya kapaDA vacceno pharaka moTAo samajI zake che. nAnAo to game te kapaDA melA paNa karI de ne bhInA paNa karI deze. kAcanA vAsaNanA takalAdIpaNAno khyAla hovAthI moTAo tene javAbadArIpUrvaka upADI ke mUkI zake che. nAnAono bharoso nahIM. eTale ja to koi paNa DelikeTa ke mUlyavAna cIja bALakanA hAthe caDe ke tarata ja siphatapUrvaka te choDAvI levAya che. moTI ke kAmanI vyakti sAthe kai rIte bolavuM ke vartavuM te aMgeno viveka moTAo pAse hoi zake. nAnAone chaNakA karavAnA koi cokkasa sthAna nathI hotA. mahemAna mATe pUraNapoLI banAvI hoya tyAre mahemAnanA AvatA pahelA ja koka'ka AvIne pUraNa khAvA mAMDe tyAre e 'mAnavaMtA mahemAna'nI lAgaNIpradhAnatAne samajI zakavA jeTalI buddhipradhAnatA moTAo na rAkhI zake ? bALako paristhitine samajI zake eTalA pukhta nathI : gharamAM jagyAnI saMkaDAza hoya to pahoLo pathAro na karAya athavA koinI avara javaranA raste besAya nahIM Avo khyAla rAkhavA jeTalI pukhtatA bALako pAse hotI nathI. * koika cIja gamI javA chatAM paNa gharanI madhyama paristhitine lakSyamAM laine moTAo potAnI icchAne hajI aMkuzamAM rAkhI zake. potAnI icchA ane pappAnA khissAno meLa bese che ke nahIM te cakAsavAnI pukhtatA bALaka pAse hotI nathI. gharazALA 67

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* mahemAno mATe parAtharelA gAdalAmAM kudakA marAya nahIM, * ozikAnI pheMkApheMka karI gharane mAthe levAya nahIM, * divAla para cokathI ke penathI kAMi cItarAya nahIM, * koi hAthamAM meMdI raMgatuM hoya tyAre tene dhakko marAya nahIM, * peinTiMganA raMga bhInA hoya tyAM sudhI tene hAtha lagADAya nahIM, * be jaNAnI vAtamAM vacce bolAya nahIM, AvI aDhaLaka vastuonI bALakane khabara paDatI nathI. ATalI vAtanI khabara tenA vAlIne hovI joie. to pachI "ATalI khabara nathI paDatI !' nA phemasa DAyaloga sAthe thato lAThIcArja svayaM zista pALaze. govardhanarAma tripAThIe taiyAra karelA nATaka "sarasvatIcaMdranA pAnAomAMthI tenI dIkarIe majAno pataMga banAvI te cagavavA lAgI hatI. gamatAno gulAla kare tenuM nAma bALaka ane aNagamatuM karanArane halAla na kare tenuM nAma vAlI ! samaMdara kinAre beThelA ramaNalAlanI pAse doDatAM doDatA koi sajjana AvyA ane tADukyA: "are ! tame dariyA kinAre A rIte ArAma karo cho, paNa jarA tamAro dIkaro zuM kare che enuM to dhyAna rAkho !' kema bhalA ! kAMi takalIpha che?' takalIphanI vAta karo cho ? mArA kapaDA juo, badhA retIthI bharI dIdhA che. kyArano mArI para retI uDADe che. jarA chokarAone kAbumAM rAkho.' ramaNalAle ThaMDe kaleje javAba ApyAH bhAi ! chokarA che te AvuM kare. ApaNe ya AvuM karatA'tA. ATalA badhA akaLAzo nahIM.' pelA sajjana to vipharyA : are ! chokarA hoya, paNa AvA tophAnI ! thoDAka to samaju hovA joie ne !" ramaNalAle ThAvakAithI javAba Apyo : juo, A chokaro to mAro sahuthI zAMta ane DAhyo chokaro che. tamAre tophAna ja jovA hoya to pelA chokarAne juo. e to tamArI chatrI toDI rahyo che. 68 darazALA

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huM ? zuM ? gajaba karI nAMkhI !' ramaNalAla kahe: "have e badhu choDo, ajaba ne gajaba badhuM baMdha karo. chokarA che te AvuM kare. ApaNe ya AvuM karatA'tA. emAM akaLAzo nahIM samajyAM ?' samaje zuM ? pelA uchaLyA. ramaNalAle kahyuM juo, tame mane phariyAda karavA AvyA tyArathI mAro trIjo dIkaro tamArUM Tiphina kholIne bhojana Aroge che. bhAi ! chokarA che te AvuM kare. ApaNe ya AvuM.." pUruM sAMbhaLyA vagara ja paga pachADatA pelA to doDyA. paNa tyAM to Tiphina sApha thai gayeluM ne chokaro AMgaLA cATato ane hasato hato, zuM thAya ? "chokarA che te AvuM kare." - chokarA kone kahevAya? cALA jenuM nAma ne aTakacALA jenI aTaka, dhamAla jenuM gAma ne naTakhaTa jenI oLakha ! alabatta, koinI vastu toDI nAMkhe, bagADI nAMkhe ke jhApaTI jAya teno bacAva na thaI zake paNa ko'ka evI tophAnI ghaTanA bane tyAre te vAlI hAtha ane jabAnane upADatA pahelA mAtra eTaluM vicAre ke "bhAI ! chokarA che te AvuM kare...ApaNe ya AvuM karatA'tA" e mAravAthI nahIM, moTA thavAthI sudharaze. vastuno jema svabhAva hoya che. vyaktino jema svabhAva hoya che. tema vayano paNa eka svabhAva hoya che. gharazALA 69

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~ ~-- pappA-mammI khovAyA che ! "e divasomAM jyAre mArI pAse ekeya bALaka na hotuM tyAre bALa uchera aMgenI cAra thIyarI hatI. Aje jyAre cAra bALako che tyAre ekeya thIyarI nathI." A zabdo kadAca koi ekanA haze paNa anubhava ghaNAno che. gharamAM ko'kanuM zubha Agamana thavAnA paDaghama vAge tyArathI ja tenA lAlana, pAlana, poSaNa ane uchera aMgenI svapnasRSTi racAvA mAMDe che. tenI taMdurastIthI laine tenI sarvAgINa pratibhAno vikAsa karavA mATenuM mAnasika mALakhuM taiyAra thai jAya che. eka Adarza mAnavInI AkhIya blaprinTa taiyAra hoya che. paraMtu jyAre kharekhara uchera thAya che tyAre te badhI ja thIyarI, Akho ya plAna badhu ja kyAMka - alopa thai jAya che. neTsamAM lAjavAba pradarzana karanArA keTalAka khelADIo meca vakhate te pradarzanane doharAvI zakatA nathI. tevA khelADIone mATe ahIM thoDuM (thoDAmAM ghaNuM) prastuta che : vAlIo pote cAra bAbate teyAra thai zake. 90 gharazALA

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(1) Be Available: bALakanI najaranI pahoMcamAM raho. Aje ghaNA bALakonA mAtA-pitA hayAta che, hAjara nathI hotA. mAtA-pitA e bALakanI hAthavagI helpalAina che ane A helpalAina sAthe bALaka onalAina rahI zake tevI sthitinuM sarjana thavuM joie. ativyasta mA-bApa saMtAnanA jIvanane astavyasta karI nAMkhe che. muMbainA eka parA vistAramAM thayelo anubhava ahIM TAMku chuM. eka paricita kizora roja maLato. eka divasa sahaja rIte tene pUchyuM: "tArA pappA kema dekhAtA nathI ?' tarata ja teNe hasIne javAba Apelo : "le, pappA to mane paNa kyAM dekhAya che !' ane hasato hasato te cAlyo gayo. AnA javAbamAM ghaNAno anubhava samAyelo che. AjakAla A rIte ghaNA bALakonA pappA guma thayela che !' * kauTuMbikatA vagaranA jIvanathI pazcimIo have trAsI gayA che. te loko have saphALA jAgyA che. kuTuMba bhAvanAne uttejana ApavAnA hetuthI pazcimanA sAmAjika vaijJAniko phemilI DinaranA lAbhathI mAhitagAra kare che. saptAhamAM traNathI pAMca vAra badhAe sAthe maLIne bhojana karyuM hoya tevA parivAronI saMkhyA amerikAmAM vadhatI jAya che. saMkhyAbaMdha abhyAsamAM evuM jaNAvAyuM che ke "parivAranI sAthe bhojana karatA kizoronA jIvanamAM anya bALakonI sarakhAmaNImAM Dragsa vagerenI lata lAgavAnI zakyatA ochI thAya che, temanI bauddhika kSamatA paNa sArI rahe che, tANa ghaTe che ane te bALako sArI rIte jamI zake che. amerikAnA ghaNA kharA rAjyomAM sapTembara mahinAnA cothA divase parivAra bhojanane protsAhana apAya che. pazcimamAM tenA De ujavAya che. paNa A havA have ahIM paNa prasaravA lAgI che. gharamAM badhA bhegA maLIne jame tyAre jANe koI prasaMga hoya tevuM lAge e bhArata mATe navAi kahevAya !' darazALA

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thoDA vakhata pahelA muMbai mahAnagara pAlikAe relve sTezano para horDiMgsamAM meseja Apyo hato "saptAhamAM ekavAra to saMtAno sAthe besIne, avazya bhojana karo." AvA saMdeza kyA saMjogomAM prasAravA paDe teno abhyAsa koi karaze to tene kauTuMbikatAno kATamALa najare caDaze. gAmaDAomAM bALako pANI meLavavA dUra jatA hoya che. zaheromAM bALako prema meLavavA mATe dUra jAya che. je gharamAM ja chalochala che tene sitheTika snehamATe kyAMya phAMphA mAravA paDatA nathI. (2) Be Approachable bALakanA mananI pahoMca bahAra jatA na raho. bALakanI najaramAM AvI zake te peraTsa Available che. bALakanI smRtimAM zIgha Ave te peraTsa Approachable che. A muddAne gaMbhIratAthI samajavo jarUrI che. hayAtI ane hAjarI vacce jema pharaka che tema hAjara hovuM ane hAjara thavuM A be muddA vacce paNa pAtaLI bhedarekhA rahelI che. gustAkhora mijAja, ThapakAzAhI tiraskArI valaNa, bhUla batAvatI vakhate binajarUrI AkramaNa, potAnA kAmamAM khalela paDatA ukaLI UThavAnI Teva, A badhI bAbatone laine saMtAnonA dilamAM ane dimAgamAM potAnA ja mA-bApa mATenI eka mAnasika dUrI sarjAya che. pachI kyAreka jarUra hovA chatAM paNa saMtAna mA-bApa sudhI pahoMcatA acakAya che. athavA mA-bApanI madada levA karatA bIjA koinI salAha ke sahAya levA prerAya che. jenI hAjarImAM saMtAnane seipha enDa sAunDa hovAno anubhava thAya tevA mA-bApathI ja teo bane tyAM sudhI seipha DisTansa rAkhIne cAle e kevI karUNatA ! AvA peraTsane anuaprocebala kahI zakAya. AvA mA-bApa gharanI bahAra na hoya tyAre paNa saMtAnanI pahoMcanI bahAra hoya che. yAda rAkho ke mAtA ke pitA e koi saMkaTa samayanI sAMkaLa nathI ke badhA ja upAyo niSphaLa nIvaDyA pachI ja lAcAra saMtAna sahAyanI bhIkha mAMgato Ave !mAtApitA to jIvananA dareka tabakke saMtAna mATenuM reDIrekanara che ! ra gharazALA

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jIvananA prAraMbhika tabakkAmAM evI ghaNI nAjuka paLo AvI jatI hoya che jyAre saMtAnane hUMpha ane hiMmatanI jarUra hoya che. kyAreka koi varSo junA mitra sAthe takarAra thavAthI dostI tUTI hoya ane te apaseTa hoya. koleja ane klAsisanA varSabharanA paisA ane seMkaDo kalAko para pANI pheravI AvegamAM te koi bhUla karI beTho hoya ane pachI khUba saMkocAto hoya tyAre tene upara lAvavAnA dhyeya sAthe hUMpha ane hiMmatanI jarUra hoya che. mAtA e hUMphanuM pratika che ane pitA e hiMmatanuM pratika che. koie bahu sarasa kahyuM cheH "khoLo Ape te mA, khabho Ape te bApa !'' eka hUMphALo khoLo saMtAnanA jIvananI rUkSatAonI bhekhaDone ogALI nAMkhe che. thoDI'ka hiMmata tenI zuSkatAne khaMkherIne tene korI khAtI ekalatA ke hatAzAne paDakAre che. ''tamAro TomI jarA ya bhaNI zake tema nathI, tene AvatI kAlathI skulamAM mokalaso nahIM'' vargazikSakanI AvI noTa laine raDatA raDatA ghe2 AvelA bALakane tenI mAtAe hiMmata ApIne mAthe vahAlathI hAtha pheravatA kahyuM : mAro chor3o bhaNI zakaze ke nahIM te tArA zikSakane zuM khabara paDe ! ciMtA na karato. kAlathI huM tane ghe2 bhaNAvIza, A chokaro pachI ghe2 ja bhaNyo ane AgaLa jatAM thomasa AlvA eDisananA nAme jANIto vaijJAnika banyo ! kalpanA karI juo ke pelA TIcaranI noTa vAMcI tenI mAtAe tene hUMpha ane hiMmata ApavAne badale Thapako Apyo hota to ? to kadAca pelA zikSakanuM lakhANa sAcuM puravAra thayuM hota ! thoDA varSo pahelA muMbaimAM cothA dhoraNanA eka vidyArthI mATe tenA zikSake evo abhiprAya Apyo hato ke 'tuM jarAya AgaLa nahIM vadhI zake kAraNa ke tuM barAbara lakhI zakato nathI.' tenA akSara khUba ja kharAba hatA te hakIkata jANavA chatA hiMmatathI tenI mAtAe satata cha mahinA sudhI teno hAtha pakaDIne rojanA kalAko sudhI tenI pAse surekha Alekhana mATe akSaro ghuMTAvyA. satata gharazALA 73

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teno progresa thai rahyo che te rIte tenI pITha thAbaDatI jAya ane teno utsAha vadhAratI jAya. A chokaro Aje traNa DigrIo laine beTho che ane aMgrejI ane akAunTsanA kalAsisa calAve che. keTalIka davAo lAipha seviMga Dragsa tarIke oLakhAya che. hUMpha ane hiMmata AvA prakAranI davA che. jIvanamAM nAjuka paLo kadAca kyAreka ja AvatI haze. tyAre salAha ane sUcano e paryApta davA nathI. tyAre samayasaranA hUMpha ane hiMmata tenA mATe oksijana silinDaranI garaja sAre che. muMjhavaNanI paLomAM mA-bApano saMparka karatA saMtAna acakAya nahIM evA phrenDa, philosophara enDa gAiDanI bhUmikAvALA peranTsa haMmezA aprocebala rahe che. be hAtha bhegA thatA dostI thai jAya che, AMkho maLatA prema thai jAya che paNa Avo khoLo ane khabho maLatA to tenI jIMdagI banI jAya che ! Be Approachable. (3) Be Reasonable : geravyAjabI na bano. bALakanA ghaData2 mATe salAha ane zikSAno vyAjabI dare vaparAza karo. bAtharUmamAM pUrI devAthI koi dIkarAnuM lesana puruM thayuM nathI. bhUkhyA rAkhavAthI koi bALakane pATha jaladI yAda rahI jato nathI. dareka bAbate bALakane salAha gamatI paNa nathI hotI, jarUrI paNa nathI hotI. mA-bApanA salAha ApavAnA abAdhita adhikAranI rakSA mATe ane potAnA dvArA apAtI salAha rucikara lAge te mATe paNa Ano ovaraDojha na thai jAya te jovuM jarUrI che. khetaramAM thanArA pAka mATe varasAda anukUlana sarje che, jo te va2sAda mApasarano hoya ane samayasarano hoya to. ativRSTi pAse pramANabhAna hotuM nathI. mAvaThuM mApasaranuM hoya to paNa nakAmuM che, kAraNa ke tenI pAse samayasUcakatA nathI. saMtAno paNa phaLadrupa jamIna jevA che. kaMika saphaLatAo ane siddhionA pAka ahIM pAkI zake che. te mATe ucita khAtara pANI ne kheDANa sAthe thoDI vRSTi paNa apekSita che paNa be bAbate ativRSTi thai javAthI A jamInanuM ja dhovANa thai jAya che. 74 gharazALA

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(1) zikhAmaNano varasAda. (2) ThapakAno varasAda. rasoimAM je sthAna sAkara ane maracAnuM che te sthAna saMtAnanA ghaDataramAM salAha ane ThapakAnuM che. vadhu paDatI sAkarathI moM bhAMgI jAya che. vadhu paDatA maracAthI jIbha saLagI jAya che. ApaNA anubhava parathI saMtAnane thai zakanArA anubhavanuM anumAna thai zake. kyAreka apAtI salAha vadhu grAhya bane che. salAhanA zabdo jeTalA ochA teTalI tenI asara vadhu ! ekanI eka vAtane sTreca karavAne badale TUMkuM ne Taca ijha mora dhena maca ! Takora ane TakaTaka vacce khAsso phera che. ghaDiyALanA kalAkanA kAMTA ane sekanDa kAMTA jeTalo ! kalAkanA TakorAnI noMdha levAya che. sekanDano kAMTo to bhAi ! vAgyA kare, tene to Teva paDa ! AvuM ja ThapakA mATe paNa che. bhUla thavI e nAnakaDI phollI ke gumaDuM thavA jevI bAbata che. teno ilAja jarUrI che. ilAjamAM pIDA paNa thaze, chatAM thoDI kALajI rAkhI zakAya. ThapakAnA lagabhaga be kAraNo hoya che. (1) bhUla (2) niSphaLatA. bhUla jo sAmAnya hoya to muzaLadhAra na varasavuM!bhUla kadAca thoDI gaMbhIra hoya to paNa satata helInI mAphaka varasatA na rahevuM ! bhUla kyA kAraNosara thai che te khAsa jovuM. bhUla keTalIvAra thai che te paNa jovuM. jaina zAstromAM AzritanA aparAdha vakhate tene sudhAravA aMgenA zikSAtmaka cAra kramika tabakkAnI bahu sarasa vAta jaNAvavAmAM AvI che. (1) smAraNA (2) vAraNA (3) preraNA (4) pratipreraNA. kyAreka mAtra Takora karavAthI kAma thai jAya. kyAreka sAmAnya kaDakAi karavI paDe, kyAreka vizeSa kaDakAi ane keTalAka prasaMge zikSAtmaka pagalA paNa levA paDe. saMtAna ane sthiti bannenuM mUlyAMkana karIne vAlIe vartavuM. gharazALA 75

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jyAM eka nAnI goLIthI kAma thai zakatuM hoya tyAM DaoNkTara iMjekazananI jarUra jotA nathI ane jarUra paDe tyAre sarjarI karatA paNa acakAtA nathI. niSphaLatA vakhate paNa kaThoratA tene dAjhayA para DAma jevI lAge che. tenA badale thoDuM mIThAzathI prayAsa karavAne badale keTalAka mA-bApa bIjAnI saphaLatAnI sAthe tene sarakhAvyA kare che. tenAthI koI artha sarato nathI. AvA prayAsothI je nApAsa thayelA haze, te nAsIpAsa paNa thaze. darekanA bhaNavAnA rasa ane zakti sarakhA nathI hotA. haMmezA renjarsanA rijhalTa sAthe potAnA saMtAnanI mArkazITane sarakhAvIne tene ATalA mArka Ave to tane kema na Ave"no cIpiyo pachADatA pahelA pitAzrI jAtane pUchI le ke tamArA bosa ATaluM kamAi zake to tame kema na kamAI zako' A kaDavo pratitarka phAve evo che kharo ? pAMce ya AMgaLA sarakhA nathI hotA' A kahevata para mAtra vaDIlonI ijArAhI nathI. je saMskaraNanuM pAtra che tenA nAnapaNa ane nabaLAino upayoga karI tene kevala potAnA ahaM puSTinuM nimitta na banAvazo. Be Reasonable. (4) Be practical : vAstavavAdI bano. saMtAna kyAreka bAlya umaranI sahaja caMcaLatAthI tophAna kare tyAre te nathI ramatuM, tenI umara rame che. kizorAvasthAmAM kyAreka sAme bolI jAya tyAre tarata ja tenA staranI kalpanA karI levAne badale kyAreka pote karelA saMskaraNanuM stara paNa cakAsI levuM. potAnA nabaLA AlaMbano laine te kaMika zIkhI le to tene sudhAravAnA eka hissA rUpe paNa potAnAmAM sudhAro karatA acakAvuM nahIM. saMtAna mA-bApane sIdhuM moDhA para temanI bhUla batAvI de ane jo te sAcI hoya to saMtAnanA avinayane dUra pachI karajo, pahelA potAnI bhUlamAM sudhAro lAvI dejo. thoDA moTA thayA pachI saMtAnone AMkha, jIbha ne magaja badhuM ja AvI jAya che. tame tamArA kartavyamAM kyAM ane keTalA TUMkA paDo cho te vAta mA-bApa banyA vagara te samajI zake teTalo bauddhika vikAsa teno 76 gharazALA

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thayelo hoya ane tevA tabakke tenA dvArA koi Takora ke cApako phaTakAravAmAM Ave te bAbata vinaya ane aucityanA daSTikoNathI kadAca eTaluM samucita nathI. te vakhate bacAva, dalIla, bahAnAbAjI ke AkSepabAjIno Azraya levAne badale kheladilI sAthe saraLa rahevAnuM zaurya vikasAvajo. vadhu paDato kaDapa saMtAnane khoTuM bolIne kAma karato kare tyAre kAryazailImAM pheraphAra paNa AvakArya bane. dhyeya karatA paddhati kyAreya UMcI na hoi zake ! borDanI parIkSA pUrNa thayA bAda eka chokaro potAnA rUmamAM kaMika vAMcato hato. mammI ne Azcarya thayuM. be traNa divasa roja Ama cAlyuM eTale ekavAra mammI acAnaka tenA rUmamAM jai caDyA. pelAe copaDI baMdha karI ozikA nIce sarakAvI dIdhI. mammIe pUchyuM : "zuM vAMce che ?' paNa sarakho javAba na maLyo. mammIe parANe pustaka kheMcI lIdhuM. tenuM nAma hatuM : "Adarza mAtApitA banatAM zIkho." kSaNavAra to stabdha thai gayelA mammIe tene koi kAraNa pUchyuM nahIM. paNa e pachInA divasomAM mammInA vartAvamAM ghaNo pharaka jovA maLyo. pachI kyAreya te chokarAne tevuM koI pustaka vAMcatA paNa joyo nathI. AMtaranirIkSaNa ane pravRttiparIkSaNathI potAnAmAM thoDA jarUrI pheraphAro karavAnI mA-bApanI sajjatA, e paNa saMtAnanA saMskaraNano eka bhAga 64-11 2127 89. Be practical. gharazALA 7 7

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saMsakAra bole che keTalIka vyaktio khUba ja sArI hoya che kAraNa, mAtA pitA pasAya ! keTalIka vyaktio eTalI sArI nathI hotI kAraNa, mAtApitA pasAya ! koi paNa vyakti potAnA svabhAvathI ja lokahaiye vase che. zarIranI jema svabhAvanuM ghaDatara paNa jIvananA prAraMbhika tabakkAmAM ja thAya che. pachI temAM sudhAro karavo kaThaNa che. zarUAtamAM ati lADa dvArA ucharelA jIddI svabhAvI banI jAya che. mA-bApa paNa tenI phariyAda karyA kare che. paNa AvuM svabhAva ghaDatara kema thayuM te vicAratA nathI. zaizava e vyaktitvano kyAro che. temAM jevuM siMcana thaze tevuM phaLavAna ane baLavAna e vyaktivRkSa banaze. saMtAnane barAbara bolatA na AvaDe to mA-bApa tarata ilAja karAve che paNa kAcI jIbhanI mAphaka kaDavI jIbhano ilAja thato nathI. teno zArIrika vikAsa pramANasara na hoya to mA-bApa saciMta rahe che. bALakanI bauddhika kSamatA vadhAravAmAM dareka vAlIne rasa che. tenI pratibhA sarvakSetre 9 gharazALA

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khIlI UThe tevuM dareka mAtApitA icche che paNa saMtAnanA svabhAva ghaDatara aMge sUjha ke zrama pramANamAM ochA hoya che. saMtAnanA saMskaraNamAM be mahattvanA pAsA AvarI levAnA hoya che. (1) cAritrya ghaDatara (2) svabhAva ghaDatara cAritrya ghaDatarathI sva-rakSA thAya che, svabhAva ghaDatarathI sarvarakSA thAya che. saMtAna e bhaviSyamAM kuTuMba, jJAti, samAja e rAjyano eka hisso banavAno che. ko'kano svajana, ko'kano mitra, ko'kano pADozI to ko'kano jIvanasaMgAthI bananAra che. A dareka tabakke tenI svasthatA ane sukhAkAritAnI AdhArazilA haze, teno potAno svabhAva ! je dIkarIe bhaviSyamAM ghara badalavAnuM hoya te dIkarImAM bIjAne potAnA banAvI zake tevI premALa prakRtinuM sarjana koNe karavAnuM ? vaDIlono vinaya cUkI javAya nahIM, kAmamAM ALasa thAya nahIM, kuTuMbanI saMvAditA khoravAya nahIM, A badhI bAbatonA khyAlane tenA vyaktitva sAthe sAMkaLI levI joie. dIkarIne sAsaruM kevuM maLaze, te kahI zakAya nahIM paNa sahiSNutA ane sahAyakatAnA kariyAvara sAthe vaLAvelI dIkarIne haMmezA sAruM sAsaruM maLe che. dareka mA-bApa dIkarInA mAdhyamathI potAnA ja saMskArane pArake ghera mokale che. nAnapaNamAM bhAio vacce ke bhAi bahena vacce mIThA jhaghaDA thatA hoya tyAre bannene chuTA pADI devA ke jenI bhUla hoya tene sajA karI devI eTaluM ja pUratuM nathI. parasparanA valaNane samajatA zIkhavAnI thoDI zIkha (jo saMtAno samajaNA hoya to) tyAre ApavI joie. A saMskAro tenA bhaviSyano khorAka bane che. potAnA laMca boksamAMthI dIkarAe thoDA sakkarapArAno nAsto potAnA dostane karAvyo hoya to.te bAbate tene protsAhita karavAthI tenAmAM udAratA ane AtithyanI bhAvanA sahaja khIlI UThe che. nokarathI laine dIna duHkhI, rogI sAthe kevo vyavahAra, vartAva rAkhavo te aMge paNa AlaMbana ane gharazALA

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zikhAmaNa banne ApI zakAya ana te dvArA tenI aMdara karUNA, paropakAritA, saujanyatAnI khIlavaTa karI zakAya. kizoravaya sudhImAM vyaktinuM AkhuM nAgarikazAstra taiyAra thai jAya che. keTalAka kuTuMbomAM eka khAsa prakArano apasaMskaraNa prayoga thai rahyo hoya che. sAsu sAthe jene na jAme te tenA dIkarAne dAdIthI aLago rAkhe che. derANI ke jeThANI sAthe kaMika bane eTale saMtAna AgaLa tenI kAkIno Akho kArDiyogrAma raju karavAmAM Ave. potAnA aMgata mAmalAnI chAyA potAnA saMtAno para paDavA devAthI temanA bhaviSyanA sudRDha saMbaMdho pahelethI ja zithila bane che. bhUlathI paNa potAnI kauTuMbika kaTutAne koi AgaLanI peDhImAM pAsaona na kare ! gulAbanA choDane esiDa pIvaDAvavA jevuM A hIna kRtya che. navI peDhIne premanA pATha bhaNAvIne e rIte taiyAra karavAnI hoya ke kuTuMbanI koi paNa vyaktinuM duHkha ke ciMtA sahu prathama tene aDe ! saMvedanazIlatA ane kauTuMbikatAnA asa2kA2I pATha jarUra paDe to bhajavIne dekhADavAnA hoya tenA badale tenA lAgaNI taMtrane lakavA lAgu paDe tevuM kociMga ApavuM, e vAstavamAM saMtAnanI ja pAMkha kApavA jevuM che. dhImuM jhera lAMbA gALA sudhI asa2 Ape che. ghaDataranA mAmale Aje zArIrikatAne jeTaluM mahattva maLe che teTaluM mAnasikatAne nathI maLatuM ane mAhitIne jeTaluM mahattva maLe che teTaluM saMvedanAne maLatuM nathI. prANI saMgrahAlayamAM jaine athavA DiskavarI pa prANIo aMgenI mAhitI saMtAna meLave temAM sahu khuza che. kyAreka pAMjarApoLanI mulAkAte lai jaine prANI jagatanA mAMdagI ane mAvajata aMge thoDI Tipsa na ApI zakAya zuM ? AvA prayogathI jonAranA dilamAM bhInAza ane kumAza sahaja pragaTe che. na keTalAka mA-bApa TIvIno upayoga bebIsiTIMga mATe kare che. nAnuM bALaka jame nahIM to mAtA tene TIvI sAme besADIne jamADe che. (jo ke keTalAka 80 gharazALA

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kissAmAM bALakane jamADatI vakhate mAtAne ja TIvI jovAnI Teva hoya che !) 'TIvI sAme jotAM jotAM bALaka jaldIthI koLiyo gaLe utArI leze eTale chUTA thavAya' A mAnasikatA tyAM kAma karatI hoya che. AvA vakhate saMtAnanA zarIra sAthe tenA manane paNa kaMika khorAka maLI rahyo che te vAtano kadAca tenI mAtAne paNa khyAla nathI. jamatI vakhate bALaka grahaNapariNAmI (Receptive) banyuM hoya che. AhAranI sAthe adhyavasAyanA kSetre paNa A grahaNazIlatA kAryarata rahe che. levAtA koLiyAnI sAthe dekhAtA dRzyanI asarane paNa te aMdara lai le che ane pachI te asararUpe jANe lohImAM vaNAi jAya che. A adazya koLiyo (invisible intake) dekhAto nathI paNa tenI asara cokkasa vartAze. svabhAve A saMtAnamAM krUratA, vikAritA ke unmAda jAgI zake che. te dareka vyaktinA jIvana vyavahAramAM tenI mAnasikatA mahattvano bhAga bhajave che. saMtAnane sAttvika jIvana vyavahAranA svAmI banAvavuM hoya to tene taMdurasta mAnasikatAnI bheTa ApavI joie. koinI pragati joine tene irSyA na thAya, saMkucitatA ke svArtha bhAvanAnI udhai tenA hRdayakASThane pholI na khAya, niMdA TIkA ne halakI vAto e tenA jIvananA rasano viSaya banI na jAya evo royala enDa rIyala, svabhAve rAjjA dilano eka mAnavI pakavavAno che te dareka vAlIe yAda rAkhavAnuM che. mA-bApa mRtyu pachI paNa saMtAnanA svabhAvamAM jIvatA hoya che. "vaDa evA TeTA ne bApa evA beTA'nI kahevatamAM dama che. gharazALA

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82 kuTuMbasaMskRtinuM najarANuM: bALasaMskaraNa marIna DrAivanI dariyAi pALa pAse eka gADI AvIne UbhI rahI. eka sAthe be bAjunA daravAjA khUlyA ane be TAbariyA nIce UtaryA. pachI ko'ka muddA para caDasAcaDasI karavA lAgyA. jonArAne bIjuM to kAMi samajAya tevuM na hotuM, mAtra eTaluM saMbhaLAtuM hatuM : 'nA, huM !...' 'nA, huM !' vAta ema hatI ke dAdAjIne darzanArthe lai gayA bAda vaLatAM thoDIvAra dariyAkinArAnI phuTapAthe bAkaDA para besADavAnA hatA. gADImAMthI dAdAjIne utAravA mATe banne bhAio mITho jhaghaDo karI rahyA hatA. chevaTe bannenA pappAe nyAya toLyo : 'eka kAma karo. ravine atyAre cAnsa Apo. pAchA gADImAM besADatI vakhate rAjano vAro ! khuzakhuzAla thai gayelA ravie be hAthe dAdAjIne gADImAMthI nIce utAryA. pachI haLavethI dAdAjIne hAthamAM lAkaDI pakaDAvI ane rAja tarapha AMkho nacAvato te dAdAjIne bAkaDA sudhI dorI gayo ane barAbara besADI dIdhA. gharazALA

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paryaTana mATe nIkaLeluM eka videzI kapala gaLAmAM kemero laTakAvIne A dazya joi rahyuM hatuM. samagra ghaTanAmAMthI bhASAne bAda karatA badho bhAva temane samajAI gayo. bhAre acarija sAthe khabhA UMcakatA Tipikala sTAilamAM puruSa bolyo : "voTa a plejhara ! jenA banne dIkarAo potAnI ja kanTrI ane siTImAM rahevA chatAM pote kyAreya AvI bhInAza anubhavI na hoya, ke potAnA pradezamAM AvA pArivArika snehalatA joi na hoya tene AmAM Azcarya na lAge to ja Azcarya ! kuvInsa nekalesanA nAme jANItA narImana poinTanA vidyut jhagArAne jhAMkho pADI de tevo A bhAratIya jIvana praNAlino kharo jhagamagATa hatoH kuTuMbabhAvanA. AvuM dRzya jonArA dareka, vRddhadAdAjInA nasIbane ane saMskArI pautronI zuzruSAbhAvanAne joine stabdha thai jAya paNa ahIM vacalI peDhIne najara aMdAja karI zakAya nahIM. jemaNe vaDIla sevA ane vinayanA UMcA Adarzo ane samRddha saMskArono bhavya vAraso potAnA vArasadAro sudhI laMbAvyo che. citra jo surekha che, to te citrakAranI kamAla che ! pazcimanA dezonI jIvanazailImAM mAtRbhaktinA UMcA Adarzo ane saMtAnonA saMskaraNanA uddezone koi sthAna nathI. vakarelA bhautikavAda ane sajjaDa sAmrAjyavAdanA mUDIvAdI vAtAvaraNamAM ucharatI tyAMnI peDhIne gaLAkApa spardhA ane AkaMTha bhoga sivAyanI koi phaLazruti dekhAtI nathI. temanI eka ja bhASA che, paisAnI. A vAta mAtra amerikAnonI ja nathI. tyAM jaine vaselA bhAratIya mULanA lokonI paNa A ja dazA che. amerikano have saphALA jAgyA che. AkhA dezane bharaDo lai rahelI A vikarALa samasyAnA ukela svarUpe eka saMsthA tyAM kAryarata thai che. A saMsthAnuM nAma che nepI" (nezanala iphekTiva perenTiMga inizIyeTIva). nepIno uddeza saphaLa mAtA-pitA banatAM zIkhavavAno che. zreSTha bALauchera mATe A saMsthA Thera-Thera varkazopa ane klAsIsa calAve che. gharazALA

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nepInA vaDA, phAunDara ane ekjhIkyuTIva Do. karmI. TI. alvI dvArA dAyakAo sudhInA saMzodhana para AdhArita, taiyAra thayelA kAryakramane vhAiTa hAusamAM ane amerikana koMgresamAM raju karavAmAM Avaze. uparAMta jANItI zALAomAM ane ghaNIkharI korporeTa saMsthAomAM A korsa dAkhala karAze. zALAmAM bhaNatA bALakonA peranTsane ane korporeTa ekajhIkyuTIvsane TreiniMga apAze. TUMkamAM, A ane AvA kAryakramane "amerikAnA bhAvi' tarIkenI imejathI jovAmAM AvI rahyo che. bALa uchera ane saMtAnanA saMskArI ghaDataranI paraMparAgata vizeSatAo ane khUbIo, je saikAothI bhArata sAcavatuM AvyuM che tene jo gumAvI nahIM deto bhAratane AvA kAryakramanI jarUra paDe tema nathI. (jo ke AvA kAryakramomAM saMskAritAnuM nahIM, sukhAkAritAnuM ja mahattva raheluM hoya che !) pazcima ane pUrvanA dezonI raheNIkaraNI aMgeno A buniyAdI pharaka jovA maLe che. ahIM kuTuMbo cAle che, tyAM te aMgenA klAsisa cAle che. kuTuMba bhAvanAnA kSetre bhArata pAse mAsTarsa DigrI che jyAre pazcimanA dezo hajI ghUMTaNiye cAle che. pazcimanI jIvanazailIno vyApa ahIMvadhato gayo ane Aje AvA ja kaMika paDaghama ahIM paNa vAge che. Aje navI peDhImAM svecchAcAra vadhato dekhAya che, sadAcAra ghaTato jAya che. tenuM mitravartuLa khAsuM moTuM hoya che paNa kuTuMbabhAvanA osaratI jAya che. AmAM kALano paNa thoDo prabhAva haze sAthe mA-bApanI saMskaraNakSetre upekSAvRttino paNa thoDo hAtha che. saMskaraNa nabaLuM paDe eTale kevaLa eka vyakti nabaLI nathI paDatI. eka kuTuMba, eka jJAti, eka samAja, eka rAjya, eka rASTra ane samagra vizvabharamAM tenI sthUla ke sUkSma asara hoya che. kAraNa ke dareka vyakti e vizvanI virATa mazInarIno eka jhINo sperapArTa che. ghaNA varSo agAu keliphorniyA yunivarsiTInA DaoN. cArlsa. vAhalee eka kolejamAM pravacana ApyuM hatuM. temaNe temanA pravacanamAM eka suMdara vAta kahI gharazALA

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hatI ke "jo sarva mA-bApa potAnAM bALakone yogya rIte saMskArI ucherathI moTA kare to AkhuM vizva eka ja peDhImAM parivartana pAmI zake.' gharamAM gRhiNI rasoi karavAnI mAMDavALa kare enI asara AkhA ghara para paDI zake to pachI hajAro mAtApitA potAnI kartavyaniSThAmAM thoDA UNA Utare tenI asara AvatI AkhI peDhI para paDavAnI ja ! abhinaya ekano bagaDe emAM nATaka to AkhuM ja bagaDe. hAlanA samaye keTalAka kSetro je upekSAno bhoga banyA che temAM saMtAnonA saMskaraNane agrasthAna maLI zake. dharatI para uSNatAmAna vadhavAthI dhruvacheDenI himazilAo pIgaLI rahI che, samudranI sapATI vadhI rahI che ane samayasaranA pagalA nahIM levAya to AvanArA dAyakAmAM A samagra pRthvI para eka cIjano prabhAva haze ane te haze jokhama ! tevI ja rIte AjanI navI peDhInI saMskAra vimukha banavAnI ghaTanAne bhAvi durghaTanA tarIke levI joie. peTALamAM pANInA taLa nIcAM jatAM rahe tenA karatA paNa vyaktimAM saMskAranA taLa nIcAM jatAM rahe te vadhu ciMtAjanaka bAbata che. pANI dvArA paDatA duSkALa karatAM saMskArano duSkALa ati bhayAnaka che. pANIno duSkALa eka varSane asara kare che, saMskArano duSkALa AkhI peDhIne asara kare che. vartamAna yuga eTale saMskAranA mahAduSkALano kaparo kALa ! kusaMga, Telivijhana vagere pracAra mAdhyamo, pazcimI pavana vagere vAdaLomAMthI kusaMskAronI ativRSTi thaI rahI che, jenA upadravathI vartamAna navI peDhI grasta banI che. to, bIjI bAju saMskAranA sarovariyAM sUkAi gayA che. bALakane aMdarathI taMdurasta banAve tevA traNa mahattvanA paribaLo che. zikSaNa, vaDIla ane vAlI. Adhunika zikSaNa mUlyanirapekSa hovAthI ane kevaLa mAhitI pradhAna banavAthI saMskaraNanA dhyeyathI ghaNuM dUra khasI gayuM che. Urdu, zikSaNanA mAdhyamathI keTalAya kusaMskAro ane miththAmAnyatAonuM AropaNa thatuM jovA maLe che. vibhakta kuTuMbavyavasthAne kAraNe dAdA dAdI vagere vaDIlajano dvArA maLatuM poSaNa baMdha thai gayuM che. atyaMta vyasta ane gharazALA

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kyAMka upekSita rahetA mAtA-pitA paNa saMtAnonA saMskaraNanI javAbadArI supere bajAvI zakatA nathI. Ama saMtAna nAmanA khetaramAM siMcAi duSkara banI che. koi paNa benkanI nonaparphomiMga eseTsa jyAre vadhI jAya che tyAre te benkanI keTegarI nIce utArI daine chelle tene DIlisTa karI devAmAM Ave che. saMtAna e mA-bApanI aseTa che ane manuSya jIvana e saMtAnane maLelI aseTa che. saMtAnanuM jIvana saMskaraNa nabaLuM paDe eTale A aseTa nona-parphomiMga bane che. bhaviSyamAM ekane saMtAna vagaranI dazA maLe, anyane manuSyatarabhava maLe ! kartavya vismaraNa e nAno aparAdha nathI. zrI prabhAnaMdasUri kRta hitopadezamAlA nAmanA graMthamAM saMtAna pratyenI tenA mAtApitAnI kartavyasUci varNavAmAM AvI che. * saMtAnane zArIrika dRSTie sudaDha banAvavo, * Arthika dRSTie saddhara banAvavo, * vyavahArikatAmAM kuzaLa banAvavo, * bauddhika dRSTie prauDha banAvavo, * sAmAjika rIte taMdurasta banAvavo, * mAnasika rIte paripakva banAvavo, ane, AdhyAtmika dRSTie unnata banAvavo. saMtAnane AvuM surakSita saMskAra chatra ApavAnuM kartavya tenA mAtApitAnuM che. dIkaro janme e to eka ghaTanA mAtra che. mA-bApa banavuM e eka sAdhanA che. zrI dharmadAsa gaNi mahArAja racita upadezamAlA prakaraNamAM AzritanA suyogya ghaDataranI upekSA karanAra, tenA yogakSemanuM pUrNarUpe vahana nahIM karanArA mATe bahu bhArekhama zabda vaparAyo che : "kasAi' ! gharazALA

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saMyukta vImo ~ ~~ ~~ sukhI jIvana eTale moTuM makAna nahIM ! sukhI jIvana eTale tagaDuM benka belensa nahIM! sukhI jIvana eTale aphATa akyAmato nahIM ! sukhI jIvana eTale taMdurasta zarIra nahIM ! A badhuM hovA chatAM ke na hovA chatAM paNa svastha mana eTale sukhI jIvana ! citta samAdhi jevuM koi dhana nathI. game te bhoge tene sAcavavI ja paDe ane tenA bhoge to kAMi ja nahIM ! - vartamAna gRhasthajIvanamAM A cittasamAdhinI sAme aneka paDakAro UbhA thayA che. kyAreka saMpattinuM surakSAcakra gAyaba thai jAya che, kyAreka ArogyanI AdhArazilA kaMpe che, to kyAreka potAnA ja parivAranA AdhArastaMbho calita thAya che. jenA para AvatI kAlano madAra bAMdhyo hoya tevA saMtAno ja ciMtA ane pIDAnuM nimitta bane che. AvI koi paNa ghaTanAmAM pelI nAjuka citta samAdhine bhAre ijA pahoMce che. jenI pIDA mukha para taravare che, vANI dvArA paNa vyakta thAya che, kriyA ane pratikriyAthI paNa jaNAya che. gharazALA

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mananI vyagratA, jIvananI zAMti-samAdhine to haNe ja che sAthe manane dharmakaraNImAM sthira thavAmAM aDacaNa rUpa bane che. dharmaprApti mATenA ekavIsaguNo zrIdharmaratnaprakaraNamAM darzAvyA che temAM "supakSayukta' (anukULa parivArayukta) ne paNa lakSamAM lIdho che. je parivAramAM saMskAranI saurabha maheMkatI hoya, sneha, saMpa, sahiSNutA ane sahAyaka bhAvanAnI raMgoLIo pUrAtI hoya tevo parivAra eTale supakSa ! gRhastha jIvanamAM samAdhino eka mahattvano strota che saMtAna ! saMtAna mATe saMskArano eka mahattvano strota che. mA-bApa ! banne srota jyAre potAnI asarakAritA gumAve che tyAre ghara e ghara maTIne nirAzritonI chAvaNI bane che. A eka sAmAjika aparAdha paNa che. manuSyajIvana ane ucca kuLane pAmyA pachI AvuM bane tyAre Ane eka AdhyAtmika durghaTanA paNa gaNI zakAya. navI peDhInuM saMskaraNa e vartamAnano pecIdo prazna banI gayo che. A bAbate have jAgatika jAgrati pravarte che. potAnA vArasane koi vAirasa na lAge te jovAnI pavitra pharaja tenA mA-bApanI che. A kartavyanuM pAlana karavAno dharma jyAM siddha thAya tyAM be mahAna lAbho paNa thAya che. (1) mA bApanI samAdhino eka mahattvano AdhAra che, saMtAna. tenuM saMskaraNa eTale mA-bApanI samAdhinI sikyorITI. (2) jIvananI AdhyAtmika unnati mATenuM grAunDa che manuSyabhava ! tene pAmIne AvelA eka jIvane yogya saMskaraNa maLe eTale tenuM paNa kAma thai jAya che. saMskaraNa eka evo mahAyajJa che, jemAM yajamAna ane mahemAna bannene A rIte phaLa maLe che. manuSyabhavanI hoTa sITa para sthAna meLavavAmAM saphaLa thayelo AtmA avazya nasIbadAra ja hoya ! jIvana utthAna mATe teno have pachIno badho ja amadAra tenA mA-bApa para rahevAno. temanA hAthamAM eka vikAsazIla tattva 88 zALA

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AvyuM che. bIjamAM vRkSa chupAyeluM che. tenI vikAsazIlatAne ujAgara karanAra mALI maLe eTale basa ! makarANA mArbalano TukaDo jo koi pAnavALAnA gallA pAse paDyo hoya to lokonA paga ane picakArIo khAine potAno asala raMga paNa khoi bese che. A ja mArbala pIsa jo koi kuzaLa kArIgaranA hAthe caDI jAya to manohara zilpAkRti taiyAra thai jAya. patthara to enA e ja che chatAM tenI dazA dayanIya banaze ke darzanIya, te bAbata tene ghaDavaiyA kevA maLe che, tenA para avalaMbita che. jevuM Arasa mATe che, tevuM ja vArasa mATe che. hitopadezamAM kartavyabhraSTa mAtApitAne mATe bhArekhama zabdo vaparAya che : "mAtA zatru: pitA vaipI, vAno pavita:' saMtAnanA saMskaraNa pratye udAsIna ke upekSita rahenArI mAtA e bALakanI zatru banI kahevAya ane evA pitA e bALakanA verI thayA gaNAya ! - mAvajatanI uNapa eka suMdara majAnA bagIcAne ukaraDAmAM pheravI zake che. mAvajatanI mahenata ukhara bhUmine paNa kaMika lAyaka banAvI zake che. khAlI paDelA ploTa para ArkiTekTanA plAna mujaba koi bilDara bAMdhakAma prAraMbhe che pachI thoDA ja vakhatamAM tyAM uttuMga imArata UbhelI joi zakAya che. vizALa bAMdhakAmano skopa dharAvato ploTa eTale manuSya bhava ! gujarAtanA gAmaDe gAmaDe aitihAsika tathyonI noMdhaNI karavAnA irAdA sAthe koi Deligezana pharI rahyuM hatuM. temanA sarve peparamAM eka kalama hatI "A gAmamAM koI mahApuruSano janma thayo che ? uttaragujarAtanA eka gAmamAM A lokone jabaro anubhava thayo. pelA praznanA javAbamAM gAmanA vRddha "nA" lakhI dIdhI. te gAmanI khyAti, vasatinuM pramANa jotA A javAbathI DeligeTsa AzcaryamAM paDI gayA. chevaTe sIdhuM ja pUchI lIdhuM: "tamArA gAmamAM koi mahApuruSano janma thayo nathI ?" "nA ja vaLI." pAkI khAtarI sAthe kaho cho tame ?' pharI pUchI lIdhuM. darazALA

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hAsto. amAre tyAM to mAtra bALakono ja janma thayo che. pachI te kevA ghaDAya che ane kevA taiyAra thAya che te to janma pachInI vAta thai." vRddhanA javAbamAM koi tarkazAstrIno mijAja chato thAya che. mAthA paranA jitharAne herasTAilano darajajo ApavAmAM mukhya phALo kAMsakAno che. gharazALA

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dasa - dasa varSa sudhI eka zALAmAM bhANIne S.S.C. uttIrNa thayelo vidyArthI jyAre zALAnI bahAra paga mUke che. tyAre tenA hAthamAM rahelI mArkazITa tenI have pachInI karIara mATe atyaMta nirNAyaka banI rahe che. 'ghara' nAmanI saMskArazALAnAM kauTuMbika paryAvaraNamAM mAtA-pitAnI otha nIce. bAlyakALanAM kiMmatI bAra-paMdara varSa pasAra karIne eka kizora duniyAdArInI duniyAmAM praveze che tyAre, tenA hAthamAM paNa eka sadezya mArkazITa hoya che jemAM tenAM cAritryanuM guNAkana thayeluM hoya che, tenA vyaktitvanAM nirmANa mATe A mArkazITa atyaMta nirNAyaka banI rahe che.