Charge kare Zindage

Author(s): Chandraprabhsagar
Publisher: Jityasha Foundation
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/003876/1

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zrI candraprabha cArja kaveM z2iMdagI CHARGE YOUR DAILY LIFE www.jainelibrarycorg Jain Educationa international Fon Personal and Private Use Only

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charging RA cArjakareM jiMdagI zrI candraprabha

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cArja kareM jiMdagI zrI candraprabha prakAzana varSa : janavarI 2011 prakAzaka : zrI jitayazA phAuMDezana bI-7 anukampA dvitIya, ema.AI.roDa, jayapura (rAja.) AzISa : gaNivara zrI mahimAprabha sAgara jI ma. mudraka : hindustAna presa, jodhapura mUlya : 25/

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Charging lA~ga lAipha cArja karane vAlI pustaka jIvana Izvara ke ghara se milA huA vaha dahez2a hai jise pAne ke lie hameM kucha karanA nahIM par3A, balki upahAra kI taraha hama yaha qhaz2AnA apane sAtha lAe haiN| Izvara ne hameM yaha jIvana isa AzA ke sAtha diyA hai ki hama isakA acche se acchA upayoga kreNge| jIvana ke dina bIta rahe haiM aura yaha dina-ba-dina DiscArja ho rahA hai| hameM ise cArja karanA hai - acche lakSya ko lekara, acche rAstoM kI ora qadama bddh'aakr| hameM

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apanA jIvana isa taraha jInA hai ki hamArA hara dina hamAre lie haippI barthaDe bana jaae| mahAna jIvana-draSTA pUjya zrI candraprabha ke hara vacana hamAre jIvana kI baiTarI ko cArja karate haiM, eka naI dizA, eka nayA joza bharate haiN| hameM apanA jIvana isa taraha jInA hai ki gurudeva dvArA dI gaI isa pustaka kA hara pannA hamAre jIvana meM saMskAra aura samRddhi kI ela.AI.sI. nirdhArita karatA hai| prastuta pustaka hamArI pIr3hI-dara-pIr3hI ke lie sIr3hI-dara-sIr3hI kI taraha hai| jaba bhI Apako lage ki Apa nakArAtmaka bhAvoM se ghire haiM, jiMdagI kI thakAvaTa se ghire haiM, basa pustaka kA koI bhI pATha par3ha ddaalie| Apako lagegA ApakI z2idaMgI cArja ho gaI hai| yaha pustaka Apake lie kisI mIla ke patthara kA kAma karegI jo dikhAegI Apako Age bar3hane kA raastaa| isa pustaka kA hara vacana Apake lie cArjara kA kAma karegA jo degA Apako jiMdagI kI UrjA bharI lA~ga lAifa baittrii| prakAza daphtarI

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cArja kane ke sTepsa 9-13 14-19 20-24 25-28 29-32 33-36 1. ghara ko banAe~ apanA maMdira 2. kaise sudhAreM baccoM kA bhaviSya 3. baccoM ke lie kyA kareM? 4. strI rahie, istrI mata banie 5. patnI gRhalakSmI to pati gRhapati 6. kucha aisA kareM ki ... 7. munnA bhAI ! lage raho lagana se 8. kahIM Apa asaphala to nahIM 9. kismata kI jamIna para mehanata kA per3a lagAie 10. sIkheM ki kaise pAe~ saphalatA 11. Arthika ciMtAoM se chuTakArA pAne ke 14 niyama 12. zakti pAne ke 12 niyama 37-41 42-45 46-49 50-54 55-59 60-63

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13. Apake vyavahAra se kisI ko asaMtoSa to nahIM? 64-67 14. kaisA kareM vyavahAra karmacAriyoM se 68-71 15. krodha Ane para kyA kareM? 72-76 16. jIvana meM khilAe~ ha~sI ke phUla 77-79 17. bAteM kAma kI, jJAna kI aura jubAna kI 80-83 18. kyoM jie~ dharma ke usUla ? . 84-87 19. kyA prArthanAoM kA javAba milatA hai ? 88-91 20. sA~soM ke samudra meM DUbate jAe~ 92-95 21. kyA mAMgeM prabhu se? 96-99 22. aisA ho saMkalpa 100-104

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ghara ko banAe~ apanA maMdira - WASINIDHAARENTINES FaMIS T ANI-06MADA - parivAra prabhu kA maMdira hai| mAtA-pitA usa brahmAviSNu-maheza kI taraha haiM jo hameM janma dete haiM, pAlana karate haiM, hameM apane pA~voM para khar3e rahane ke yogya banAte haiN| * hamAre bhAI-bahina una devadUtoM kI taraha hote haiM jo hamAre lAlana-pAlana aura ha~sI-khuzI meM hamArA sahayoga karate haiN| - parivAra kA matalaba hai: Family aura phemilI kA matalaba hai: F=Father, A= AND, M = Mother, I = I, L= Love,

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Y= YOU arthAt phAdara eNDa madara AI lava yuu| jisa ghara meM mAtA-pitA se prema aura unakA sammAna hotA hai, usI kA nAma parivAra hai| - kitanA acchA ho ki hama do bhAiyoM ke bIca 1X1, 1+1, 1-1 karane kI bajAya vaira-virodha aura svArtha ke sAre x + - haTA deM to yahI do bhAI 11 (gyAraha) kI tAkata naz2ara Ane laga jaaeNge| jisa ghara meM bhAI-bhAI, sAsa-bahU, devarAnI-jeThAnI ke prati prema aura samarasatA hotI hai vaha ghara maMdira kI taraha hotA hai, para jahA~ bhAI-bhAI, pitA-putra Apasa meM nahIM bolate, vaha ghara kabristAna kI taraha hotA hai| kabristAna kI kabroM meM bhI loga to rahate haiM, para ve Apasa meM bolate nahIM, agara ghara kI bhI yahI hAlata hai to kabroM aura kamaroM meM farka hI kahA~ raha jAtA hai| - prema hI parivAra kI tAkata hai, prema hI samAja kA dharma hai aura prema hI rASTroM ko jor3ane vAlA setu hai / prema hameM

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sikhAtA hai: galatI ho gaI to do qadama Age bar3hAkara mAfI mAMgo aura gale lgaao| atIta jo bhI rahA, bhaviSya ko miThAsa se bhara lo / # Ajakala makAna to bahuta bar3e hote jA rahe haiM, para makAna meM rahane vAloM ke dila choTe ho rahe haiN| hama apanA dila itanA to bar3A kara hI sakate haiM ki hamAre mAtA-pitA ko kisI vRddhAzrama meM zaraNa lene kI z2arUrata na rahe / eka sampanna vyakti hone ke nAte samAja meM caMdA likhAne se pahale apane usa sage bhAI kI madada kIjie jo kevala sAr3he cAra haz2Ara kI naukarI karatA hai aura jisake pAsa apane baccoM ko ucca zikSA dilAne kI vyavasthA nahIM hai| # vaha bhAI kaisA, jo bhAI ke kAma na aae| rAma kA pitA

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ke kAma AnA, sItA kA rAma ke kAma AnA, lakSmaNa kA bhAI-bhAbhI ke kAma AnA aura bharata kA bar3e bhAI ke lie miTa jAnA - yaha hai dharma, parivAra kA dharma, gRhastha kA dhrm| pati-patnI ke sukhamaya jIvana ke lie cAra phArmUle haiM :1. vizvAsa 2. vArtAlApa 3. samaya kA bhoga aura 4. eka-dUsare se pyaar| Apa ina cAra phArmUloM ko apanAie aura apane gRhastha-jIvana ko khuzahAlI kA z2AmA phnaaie| socie, sAtha kyA jAegA? jaba saba yahIM chor3a nikalanA hai to phira kyoM na pyAra se boleM, svArtha chor3eM, eka-dUsare ke kAma Ane kI bhAvanA vikasita kreN| * ghara meM bar3e ve nahIM haiM jinakI umra bar3I hai, ghara meM bar3e ve hote haiM jo vaqta par3ane para apanI kurbAnI dekara apanA bar3appana nibhAte haiN| * beTI lakSmI hai aura bahU gRhlkssmii| lakSmI caMcalA hai aura -

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1 13 gRhalakSmI sthAyI / gRhalakSmI ko itanA pyAra dIjie ki ghara se gaI lakSmI kI yAda na satAe / subaha uThane para mAtA-pitA ke caraNa sparza kIjie aura bhAI-bhAI gale milie, yaha Ida kA tyauhAra bana jaaegaa| dopahara meM devarAnI-jeThAnI sAtha-sAtha khAnA khAie, yaha holI kA parva bana jaaegaa| rAta ko bar3e-bujurgoM kI sevA karake soie, Apake lie AzIrvAdoM kI dIvAlI ho jaaegii| parivAra meM agara dhana kA ba~TavArA ho to Apa z2amIna-jAyadAda kI bajAya, mAtA-pitA kI sevA ko apane hisse meM liijiegaa| dhana to unake AzIrvAdoM se svataH calA aaegaa|

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kaise sudhAreM baccoM kA bhaviSya * ApakA baccA Apake ghara kA kuladIpaka hai, Apake bhaviSya kA sahArA hai aura Apake bur3hApe kI baizAkhI hai| vaha Apake parivAra kI kilakArI, samAja kA setu aura deza kA bhaviSya hai| # eka pitA sau adhyApakoM kI pUrti karatA hai| vaha apane baccoM ko saMskAroM kI sampadA sauMpakara unheM dasa pAThazAlAoM se adhika jIvana ke pATha par3hA sakatA hai| yadi hama baccoM ke moha meM aMdhe hokara dhRtarASTra bana baiThe, 14

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to sAvadhAna ! hameM bhI duryodhana aura duHzAsana jaisI kulaghAtI saMtAnoM kA sAmanA karanA par3a sakatA hai / bacce usa kaccI miTTI kI taraha hote haiM jinheM hama jaisA cAheM vaisA DhAla sakate haiN| unake vikAsa meM bhAgya kI bhUmikA kevala 30% hotI hai, para prayAsa kA pariNAma 70% AyA karatA hai| prayAsa 100% hoM to 30% vAle bhAgya ko bhI anukUla banAyA jA sakatA hai| yadi Apa eka pitA haiM to apanI saMtAna ko itanA yogya banAe~ ki vaha samAja kI prathama paMkti meM baiThane ke kAbila bane aura yadi Apa kisI ke putra haiM to itanA acchA jIvana jie~ ki loga Apake mAtA-pitA se pUchane lageM ki Apane kauna-se puNya kiye the jo Apake ghara aisI saMtAna paidA huii| 15 ARE BEST BOOKS, Jain Educationa International FRIENDS OF CHILDREN. For Personal and Private Use Only

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* TIvI ke yuga meM aba bacce mA~-bApa para nahIM, koI kArTUna TIvI para jA rahA hai to koI jI TIvI para, to koI phaizana TIvI para / yadi hamane isa TIvI ke Dibbe para calane vAle cainaloM se apane baccoM ko na bacAyA to ye Dibbe hamAre ghara-parivAra ke saMskAroM para lAdena ke hamaloM se kahIM adhika qhataranAka hamale kara baittheNge| baccoM ko sahI dizA mila jAe to ye kisI abdula kalAma ke vyaktitva ko caritArtha kara sakate haiM, nahIM to g2alata dizA milane para ye hI osAmA lAdena kA nakAba pahana baittheNge| baccoM kI acchI paravariza ke lie apane parivAra kA mAhaula acchA banAe~, kyoMki parivAra hI bacce kI vaha pahalI pAThazAlA hai jahA~ use jIvana ke hara kSetra kA pahalA pATha tathA pahalA saMskAra upalabdha hotA hai|

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# apane baccoM ko acche vidyAlayoM meM par3hAe~, para aise vidyAlayoM meM na par3hAe~ jahA~ para saMskAroM kI kurbAnI denI par3atI ho| * apane baccoM ko lAifa mainejameMTa ke gura sikhAe~ tAki ve kaba uThanA, kyA pahananA tathA kaise khAnA jaisI z2arUrI bAtoM kA prabaMdhana pahale sIkha skeN| # apane baccoM meM pratidina bar3oM ko praNAma karane kI Adata ddaaleN| praNAma to duzmana ko bhI kareMge taba bhI badale meM duAoM kI daulata hI upalabdha hogii| 17 baccoM ko unake jIvana meM sahI lakSya cunane meM madada kreN| binA lakSya kA jIvana to usa kaTI pataMga kI taraha hotA hai jise koI bhI rAhagIra kaMTIlI jhAr3I meM pha~sA sakatA hai| 'arjuna kI A~kha' hI hara saphalatA taka pahu~cane kI sIr3hI hai|

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apane baccoM meM AtmavizvAsa jgaaeN| unheM preraNA va protsAhana deN| preraNA aura prazaMsA pAkara to cIMTI bhI pahAr3a lA~gha jAyA karatI hai aura andhI-gUMgI-baharI baccI bhI mahAna cintaka helana kelara bana jAyA karatI hai| apane baccoM ko dAdA-dAdI ke chA~va tale palane diijie| Apa to, bacce skUla jAte haiM taba taka soye rahate haiM aura Apa ghara lauTakara Ate haiM taba taka bacce so jAte haiN| isalie dAdA-dAdI ke anubhavoM se baccoM ko saMskArita hone diijie| bujurga phala bhale hI na de pAte hoM, para apane anubhavoM kI chA~va to avazya deNge| baccoM ko kahAniyA~ priya haiN| unheM rAmAyaNa, mahAbhArata, zravaNakumAra, pyAsA kauA, zera aura cUhA, kachuA aura kharagoza kI kahAniyA~ sunAyA kreN| eka acchI kahAnI sau upadezoM se kahIM adhika prabhAvI hotI hai|

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baccoM ke abhadra vyavahAra, burI Adata aura galata saMgata para aMkuza rkheN| kahIM aisA na ho ki Apa unheM mahAvidyAlaya bheja rahe hoM, para ve galata saMgata ke kAraNa kisI taraha ke aparAdhI yA balAtkArI bana jAe~ aura kArAgAra meM cakkI pIsane ke alAvA unake pAsa koI bhaviSya hI na bce| bacce Apake kahe para gaura kareM yA na kareM, para ve ApakI bhASA, Adata tathA taura-tarIkoM ko jIvana meM DhAlane se nahIM cuukeNge| Apa apane se choToM kA bhI sammAna kreN| apanI patnI aura apane naukara taka ko bhI 'Apa' tathA nAma ke sAtha 'jI' lagA kara boleM tAki ApakA baccA 'sammAna' kI mAna-maryAdA sIkha ske|

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baccoM ke lie kyA kareM ? # dAdA-dAdI aura nAnA-nAnI eka aise saghana vRkSa kI taraha haiM jisakI chA~va tale bacce Anandita, saMskArazIla aura AzAvAdI hote haiM / # dAdA anubhavoM ke qhaz2Ane haiM jinake sAtha rajAI meM baiThakara roz2a naI-naI kahAniyA~ sunane ko milatI haiN| dAdI baccoM ko sabase z2yAdA lAr3a-pyAra karatI hai / nAnI baccoM kI sabase. priya mitra hotI hai jo ki usakI hara bAta sunatI hai| jabaki nAnA ve haiM jo kahA karate haiM, 'Ajakala dubalA hotA jA rahA hai / cala, jUsa pI le| ' 20

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# bacce to pyAra, ha~sI, samaya, kahAnI aura khela ke bhUkhe hote haiM aura buz2urgoM ke pAsa ina cIz2oM kA bhaMDAra hai / ve bacce kismata vAle haiM jinheM dAdA-dAdI aura nAnA-nAnI se yaha qhaz2AnA milatA hai / # baccoM kA ghara baccoM ke lie sabase priya maMdira hotA hai / ghara kA svarUpa aisA banAe~ jisase unheM prakRti, paramAtmA aura acche saMskAroM kI sahaja preraNA mila ske| # ghara kI dIvAroM para hamezA preraka aura prabhAvI citra TA~gie, kyoki bacce nakalacI baMdaroM kI taraha hote haiN| agara ve ghara meM vivekAnaMda kA citra dekheMge to vaisA banane kI koziza kareMge, vahIM yadi cArlI caipalina kA citra dekheMge, to vaisI nakala karanA zurU kara deMge / 21 baccoM ko khelane kA bhI avasara diijie| jo qhataroM se nahIM khelegA, vaha jIvana meM Age kaise bar3hegA ?

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baccoM para samaya kA niveza bhI kiijie| Apa unheM 20 sAla taka saMskAra dIjie, ve Apako 80 sAla taka sukha deNge| baccoM ko dharma kA jJAna karAe~ tAki ve g2alata rAha para jAne se baca skeN| hara subaha ghara ke bujurgoM va abhibhAvakoM ke pA~va chUne ke lie prerita kareM tAki mehamAnoM ko praNAma karane ke lie bAra-bAra Tokane kI z2arUrata na rhe| patnI, bahu aura ghara ke sevakoM se bhI pyAra se boleM, nAma ke sAtha 'jI' lagAkara pukAreM, bacce apane-Apa adaba kI bhASA sIkha jaaeNge| baccoM ko ghara kA banA bhojana karane ke lie utsAhita karate. rheN| khAne kI cIz2oM ke baccoM ke manapaMsada nAma rakheM jaise : aMkurita mUMga ko pU~cha vAlI dAla kaha sakate haiM aura missI roTI ko pAvara praatthaa| baccoM se kaheM ki pU~cha vAlI dAla se pAvara parAThA khAkara tuma supara maina aura hairI paoNTara bana sakate ho|

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- baccoM ko miThAiyA~, caoNkaleTa, cipsa, zItala peya vizeSa avasaroM para deN| inakA roz2AnA sevana karane se baccoM kI bhUkha mara jAegI aura dA~ta bhI kharAba hoNge| baccoM ko phala, jUsa, salAda kI ora khiiNceN| unheM batAe~ ki phala khAne se tuma 'zaktimAna' banoge aura dUdha pIne se hnumaan'|| khAnA khAte samaya TI.vI. baMda rkhie| TI.vI. calAne ke lie zAma kA eka samaya nirdhArita kara liijie| dinabhara TI.vI. dekhane se baccoM kI A~kheM kamaz2ora hotI haiM aura par3hAI bhI kama ho pAtI hai| baccoM ke lie citrakathAe~ z2arUra kharIdate rhie| kahAniyA~ aura citra donoM hI baccoM ko pasaMda hote haiN| jo preraNA eka choTI-sI kahAnI se milatI hai, vaha bar3e-bar3e upadezoM se bhI nahIM mila paatii| Homen

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baccoM para pyAra bharA anuzAsana rkheN| unheM eka svataMtra mukta paudhe kI taraha bar3hane deN| z2yAdA TokA-TokI karake yadi hama paudhe kI TahaniyA~ kATane kI koziza kareMge to ve eka svastha paudhe kI bajAya baunA paudhA banakara raha jaaeNge| baccoM ko lAr3a kareM, para itanA bhI nahIM ki ve bigaDaila aura jiddI bana jaaeN| baccoM ko gussA A jAe, to burA na maaneN| ve bAla-buddhi haiM, unheM batAe~ ki gussA karane se dimAg2a aura bhAgya donoM kamaz2ora ho jAte haiN| unheM pyAra se samajhAe~, ve samajha jaaeNge| / baccoM kI pratibhA Apake jIvana kI sabase bar3I daulata hai| Apa apane baijU bAvarA kI pratibhA pahacAneM aura usa pratibhA ko nikhArane meM use pUrA-pUrA sahayoga aura AzIrvAda deN| 10/NEPAL 107 10

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strI rahie istrI mata banie * Apake pati Apake jIvana-ratha ke sArathI aura saMcAlaka haiN| ve Apake mAthe ke siMdUra, jIvana ke saubhAgya, karavA cautha kA vrata aura dila ke devatA haiN| apane pati ke dila ko jItanA utanA hI z2arUrI hai, jitanA bhakta ke lie bhagavAna ke dila ko jItanA / apane pati kI dUsaroM se tulanA mata kiijie| ve jaise bhI haiM ApakI bhAgya rekhA ke hisse haiM / una para saMtoSa aura gaurava kIjie | Aqhira koI bhI do aMguliyA~ eka jaisI nahIM hotIM /

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- Apa apane pati kI titalI nahIM, eka acchI saciva banie / titalI kevala phUloM para maMDarAtI hai, jabaki Apa unakI saciva aura preraNA-srota banakara unheM phUloM kI taraha khilane meM madada kIjie / apane pati kI kamiyA~ mata nikaalie| yadi Apa aisA kareMgI to ve Apake lie kA~TA banakara Apako hI bIMdheMge, para yadi Apa unakI gardana U~cI karane meM madada kareMgI, to ve aura adhika U~ce ho jAe~ge / apane pati para jhallAie mt| ve dUsaroM se sau-sau lar3AiyA~ jhela sakate haiM, para ApakI roz2a-roz2a kI TI-TIM bardAzta nahIM kara sakate haiN| pati kA dila jItanA hai, to unheM apanA pyAra, sammAna aura qhuziyA~ bA~Tate rahie / apane ghara ko prema aura zAMti kA maMdira banAie / pati sA~jha ko ghara lauTe to unake sAmane dinabhara kI zikAyatoM kA 26

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puliMdA kholane kI bajAya muskurAte hue unake ghara Ane para qhuzI jAhira kiijie| unheM apanI bAta tahaz2Iba se kaheM aura vaha bhI taba jaba ve ArAma kara cuke hoN| apane ghara ko toDie mata, TUTe hue diloM kA Apasa meM jor3ie / kulavadhu aura gRhalakSmI banakara paraspara prema aura saMpa bar3hAne kI preraNA deM aura sAsa-sasura kI sevA ko apane mAtA-pitA kA sammAna smjheN| apane pati ko dhana kamAne kI preraNA dIjie, para beImAna banane kI nhiiN| beImAnI karake ve Apake lie hIroM kI cUr3iyA~ to banA deMge, para kahIM aisA na ho ki unake hAthoM meM lohe kI hathakar3iyA~ A jaaeN| yadi Apake mitra kRSNa jaise hoM, to saubhAgya ! ve sudAmA ke kAma Ae~ge, para yadi maMtharA jaise hoM to Aja hI unase

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mukti pA lIjie, nahIM to ve kabhI bhI Apake lie musIbata kI talavAra bana sakate haiM / yadi Apake pati guTakhA, tambAkU, zarAba kA sevana karate haiM to unase jhagar3ane kI bajAya apanI zreSTha buddhi kA istemAla karate hue ina cIz2oM ke doSa samajhAie | unheM batAie ki ve eka aise pati kI bhUmikA nibhAe~, jina para unake bacce garva kara sakeM / Apa apane pati ke sAtha isa taraha vyavahAra kIjie ki jaise rAniyA~ mahArAjAoM ke sAtha kiyA karatI thIM / vizvAsa rakhie taba Apake pati bhI Apake sAtha vahI vyavahAra kareMge jaise Apa unakI nUrajahA~ ho / 28 R

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patnI gRhalakSmI to pati gRhapati ApakI patnI Apake dila kI devI, manamIta aura jIvana ke hara qadama para sukha-duHkha kI sahadharmiNI hai| Apa deva haiM yA nahIM, yaha Apa jAneM, para vaha ApakI devI avazya hai| kahane ke nAma para vaha Apake jIvana kA bA~yA hissA hai, para haqIqata meM usake irda-girda hI saMsAra kA svarga hai| - patnI mAtra patnI nahIM hotI, usameM triveNI saMgama hai| khAnA . khilAte vaqta vaha mA~ kI bhUmikA adA karatI hai, sneha kI bauchAra luTAte vaqta vaha bahina kI bhUmikA nibhAne laga jAtI

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hai, para jIvana ke sukha-duHkha meM sahabhAgitA nibhAte vaqta vaha ardhAMginI bana jAtI hai| * patnI Apake lie apane mAtA-pitA, bhAI-bahina, jAti aura pahacAna taka kA tyAga kara sakatI hai| vaha subaha kI banI sabjI bhI Apako punaH zAma ko parosanA pasaMda nahIM krtii|aap soceM ki Apa usakI khuziyoM ke lie kitanI kurbAniyA~ dete haiN| - patnI ke agara saradarda ho to use kevala 'sara kA bAma' mata dIjie, do pala usake pAsa baiThakara usake sira ko shlaaie| ApakI yaha qarIbI usake lie kisI IzvarIya sparza se kama nahIM hogii| * pIhara se lauTa kara Ane para yadi Apa apanI patnI kA do qadama Age bar3hakara svAgata karate haiM to yaha usake lie eka bezaqImatI kAra bheMTa dene ke samAna sukUnadeha hogii| # yaha saca hai ki patnI ko sadAbahAra qhuza rakhanA saMsAra kA sabase bar3A cunautIpUrNa kArya hai, para yAda rakhie patnI qhuza hai to hI Apa qhuza haiM, nahIM to vaha ApakI qhuzI ko grahaNa lagA degii|

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Apa apanI patnI se bar3e haiM to bar3appana dikhAie - g2alatI ApakI hai yA usakI, Apa saoNrI kahanA siikheN| mAnA ki g2alatI patnI kI hai, para usake nArAz2a hone para nukasAna to ApakA hI hogaa| patnI ke kAryoM kI prazaMsA kiyA kreN| isase Apako fAyadA hogA aura Apako kisI ko nijI saciva banAne kI z2arUrata nahIM hogii| patnI ke dvArA g2alatI hone para use sabake sAmane DA~Tane kI bajAya ekAMta meM use usakI g2alatI kA ahasAsa krvaaeN| sabake sAmane DA~Tane para vaha qhuda ko apamAnita mahasUsa karegI vahIM akele meM karavAe gae ahasAsa se vaha Apa para garva kregii| patnI ko sunane kI Adata Ama hotI hai, para kabhI patnI ko burA laga sakatA hai aura vaha Apa para jhallA sakatI hai| vaha jo kahanA cAhatI hai use ugalane diijie| Apa basa zAMta orammarwaamaiawinawwamrammarmaweiwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwunik

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rahie, ArAma se sunie| mahilAoM kI Adata hotI hai ki pahale vaha bhItara se bharatI hai, phira ugalatI hai, phira rotI hai, bazarte Apa zAMta rahate haiM to| * patniyA~ choTe baccoM kI zarArateM aura gharelU parezAniyA~ akelI hI jhelatI haiN| jaba Apa rAta ko ghara dera se vApasa Ate haiM to vaha ise bardAzta nahIM kara paatii| taba vaha ApakI choTI-sI g2alatI para bhI barasa par3atI hai| plIz2a! Apa usake gusse kI ora dhyAna na deM, prezara kUkara meM bhApa jyAdA bar3ha jAegI to bAhara to AegI hii|aap apane mu~ha ke cUlhe ko baMda kIjie, thor3I dera meM saba sAmAnya ho jaaegaa| * apanI patnI ko 'tU' yA 'tuma' kahane kI Adata sudhaarie| apanI jIvana-saMginI ko sabake bIca 'Apa' kahakara apane lie sammAna kI zAzvata vyavasthA kiijie| - patnI ke sAtha samajhautAvAdI najariyA apanAie / yadi kabhI aMgada ke pA~voM kI taraha aDiga rahanA ho to dhyAna rakheM ki hama kevala rAjA ke lie hI lar3eM, pyAdoM ko bhale hI kurbAna kara deN|

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kucha aisA kareM ki... Pos - socie vahI jise bolA jA sake aura bolie vahI jisa para hastAkSara kie jA skeN| - apanI vANI ko vINA kI taraha madhura banAie, bANa kI taraha nukIlA nahIM, tAki vaha madhura saMgIta kI taraha sabako priya lge| qhuda se g2alatI ho jAe to bejhijhaka mAfI mAMga lIjie aura dUsaroM se galatI ho jAe to mAfa karane kA bar3appana dikhaaie| tana-mana ko svastha aura sakArAtmaka banAe rakhane kA yahI rAz2a hai| - Apa apane baccoM ko burI najara se bacAkara rakhate haiM, para burI

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saMgata se ? baccoM ko burI saMgata se bacAie, nahIM to kala Apa para unakI burI naz2ara ho jaaegii| * bAlaka parivAra kI kilakArI samAja kI zobhA aura deza kA bhaviSya hai / usa para Apa behatarIna saMskAra, zikSA aura samaya kA niveza kIjie, vaha Apake yaza aura sukha kA sAdhana bnegaa| bujurgoM ke sAye meM rhie| ve usa bUr3he vRkSa kI taraha hote haiM jo phala bhale hI na de pAe~, para chAyA to avazya dete haiM / # ghara ko itanA vyavasthita aura sApha-sutharA rakheM ki svarga ke devatAoM ko bhI Apake ghara meM rahane kI icchA ho / * jaba hamane jIvana kI pahalI sA~sa lI thI, taba mAtA-pitA hamAre qarIba the, jaba ve jIvana kI AqhirI sA~sa leM, taba hama unake qarIba avazya hoM / yadi Apako gussA karanA hai to kisI puSya nakSatra meM amRta-siddhi yoga meM kIjie, para dhyAna rakhie yaha saMyoga sAla meM kevala do bAra hI AtA hai / - 34

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iMsAna kI eka lakSmI dukAna ke gullaka meM rahatI hai aura dUsarI lakSmI ghara ke A~gana meN| yadi ghara kI lakSmI kA sammAna na kiyA to yAda rakhanA dukAna kI lakSmI se hAtha dho baiThoge / 35 bujurga loga ghara meM TokATokI kI Adata chor3a deM, to koI bhI saMtAna aisI nahIM hai jo mA~-bApa se alaga hone kI soce| # jo roz2AnA kucha-na-kucha dete rahate haiM, ve hI devatA kahalAte haiM aura jo kevala baTorakara rakhate haiM ve hI rAkSasa hote haiM / z2arA Apa batAie ki Apa devatA bananA pasaMda kareMge yA...? # muskAna ko kisI baiMka meM epha. DI. mata kraaie| ise kareMTa ekAuMTa kI taraha hara roz2a khUba lena-dena karate rahie / eka AtaMkavAdI ko ahiMsAvAdI banAnA aura eka

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mAMsAhArI ko zAkAhArI banAnA ar3asaTha tIrthoM kI yAtrA kara Ane ke samAna hai / # hAtha meM likhI bhAgyarekhA nIlama aura motI pahanane se nahIM bdltii| roz2AnA kucha-na-kucha dAna dene kI pravRti ho, to yaha qhuda hI sa~vara jAtI hai / * jaba jo kAma karane ke bhAva uTheM, use zurU karane kA vahI sabase acchA muhUrta hai| isa samaya amRta siddhi yoga hai, DhilAI chor3ie aura kAma zurU kara dIjie / bijalI to hara kisI ke bhItara hotI hai, z2arUrata hai sirfa use cArja karane kI / duniyA to geMda kI taraha hai khelane vAlA ho to isa duniyA ko jiMdagI bhara khelA jA sakatA hai| hama apanI icchAzakti kA haoNrliksa dugunA kareM, khelane kI tAqata khuda-ba-qhuda bar3ha jaaegii| 36

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munnA bhAI! lage raho lagana se - - - jIvana meM samasyAoM kA AnA dhUpa-chA~va ke khela kI taraha hai| bahatI nadiyoM ko bhI Akhira caTTAnoM kA sAmanA to karanA hI par3atA hai| jinheM hama caTTAna samajhate haiM vAstava meM unhIM se nadI meM eka anokhe saMgIta kA janma hotA hai| * hamAre sAmane jaba bhI koI samasyA Ae to hatAza hone kI bajAya eka hI siddhAMta yAda rakheM : hAra nahIM mAnU~gA, hAra mAnane kI z2aldabAz2I nahIM kruuNgaa|

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agara samasyA eka tarIqe se na sulajhe to dUsarA tarIkA apanAe~, dUsarA tarIqA kAragara na ho, to tIsare aura cauthe tarI kA istemAla kreN| koziza taba taka jArI rakheM jaba taka jIta ApakI jholI meM na A jaae| muzkileM pahAr3InumA hai to kyA huA ? hama mAnasika rUpa se itane U~ce uTha jAe~ ki havAI jahAz2a banakara muzkiloM ke usa U~ce parvata ko bhI lA~gha skeN| # apane utsAha ko ThaMDA mata hone diijie| hAra mAnanA pUrNa parAjaya ko nyautA denA hai| aura pUrNa parAjaya taba taka mata mAnie jaba taka z2igara meM sA~sa hai| aneka bAra hama hAra mAnane kI jaldabAz2I kara baiThate haiN| yaha sAla bekAra gayA to kyA huA, z2indagI abhI bAkI hai| ugate sUraja ke sAtha vyAyAma aura prANAyAma karake qhuda meM UrjA kA saMcAra kIjie aura 'AdhA maTakA pAnI 38

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tathA pyAse kauve' kI kahAnI se preraNA lekara phira se juTa jaaie| yAda rakhie : jUjhane meM hI jIta kA rAz2a chipA hai| mAnA ki hamane lakSya banAyA, saMgharSa kiyA, prArthanA kI, para rAha kaThina hone kI vajaha se jaldI hI maidAna chor3a diyaa| kAza, hama thor3A-sA aura dhIraja rakhate aura lagana se thor3e samaya aura juTe rahate, to vaha camatkAra ghaTita ho sakatA thA, jisakI hameM cAha thii| - isa vAkya para gaura kIjie : 'yadi mai ThAna lU~ to kucha bhI kara sakatA huuN|' basa, ise TaoNnika kI taraha pI lIjie aura phira Az2amAkara dekhie| hamArA vyaktitva UrjA 39

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aura utsAha se bhara uThegA, hamAre qadama svataH jujhArU banakara saphalatA kI ora bar3hane lgeNge| sikkA uchalegA to yA to khuzI vAlA pahalU Upara AegA yA phira nAqhuzI vaalaa| nAqhuzI ke 'nA' ko haTAe~ aura hamezA khuza tathA UrjAvAna bane rheN| jIta hamezA jUjhane se hI milatI hai, maidAna chor3akara bhAgane se nhiiN| ai purAne khilAr3I! hAro mata, himmata bttoro| sInA tAnakara qadama bddh'aao| vizvAsa rakho : Izvara ke AzIrvAda hamAre bhAgya ke baMda dvAra avazya kholeNge|

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- jIvana kisI sA~pa-sIr3hI ke khela kI taraha hai| kabhI sA~pa ke z2arie hama Upara se nIce lur3haka Ate haiM to kabhI sIr3hI ke jarie nIce se Upara pahu~ca jAte haiN| eka bAra nahIM, dasa bAra bhI sA~pa nigala le, taba bhI hama isa ummIda se pAsA khelate rahate haiM ki zAyada agalI bAra sIr3hI car3hane kA avasara avazya mila jaae| nirAzA mRtyu kA dUsarA nAma hai| hama kabhI nirAza na hoM, para agara ho bhI jAe~, taba bhI usa nirAzA meM bhI kAma avazya karate rheN| lagAtAra Tapakate pAnI se to patthara bhI ghisa jAyA karatA hai| - sabake lie eka hI preraNA hai: munnA bhAI! lage raho lagana se| basa, lagAtAra juTe rheN| Ane vAlA kala tumhArA hogaa| ric

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kahIM Apa asaphala to nahIM hue! - - - - - - jo parIkSAoM meM saphala hue, unheM badhAI hai| jo asaphala hue unheM hatAza hone kI bajAya usa sUrya se preraNA lenI cAhie jo kala asta hone ke bAvajUda Aja phira se udita huA hai| mana ke hAre hAra hai aura mana ke jIte jiit| mana ke TUTate hI jiMdagI TUTa jAtI hai| Apa apane dila kI z2amIM para phira se utsAha aura umaMga ke bIja boe~, ApakI kar3I mehanata Apake jIvana ko phira se camana kara degii|

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. vaha 85 pratizata aMka lAkara bhI duHkhI hai jaba ki usake par3ausI 60-70 pratizata aMka lAkara bhI miThAI bA~Ta rahe haiN| saphalatA kA pATha sIkhie ki jiMdagI yahIM qhatma nahIM hotI hai| 'maiM aura dila lagAkara par3hAI karU~gA' - yaha saMkalpa lete hue apane agale safara ke lie abhI se laga jaaie| jIvana kI saphalatA kA eka hI gurumaMtra hai : 'lage raho munnA bhAI lagana se|' dila kI lagana aura kar3I mehanata se kaThina-se-kaThina lakSya ko bhI AsAna banAyA jA sakatA hai| vaha pharsTa aura Apa saikaMDa Ae to kyA huA, kachue aura kharagoza kI kahAnI se preraNA lIjie aura apanI gati ko puraz2ora nirantaratA dete hue kachue kI taraha bAz2I maarie| - bIja aura phala kabhI alaga-alaga nahIM hote| Apako

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phala vahI mile haiM jaise Apane bIja boe the| acche pariNAmoM ke lie hameM mahAn lakSya aura mahAn puruSArtha ke bIja bone hoNge| Apake mAmA yadi sI.e. haiM to talAza kIjie ki unakI isa saphalatA kA rAz2a kyA hai? Apa bhI una mApadaMDoM ko apanAe~ aura hara roz2a dasa ghaMTe kar3I mehanata karate hue kAmayAbI kI naI ibArata likheN| g2alata sAthiyoM kI sohabata chor3ie aura apane samaya kI qImata smjhie| Apa Aja jaisI nIMva banAe~ge, Apake Ane vAle 50 varSoM kI saphalatA kA mahala usa para vaisA hI Tika paaegaa| * binA par3he-likhe Apa eka maz2adUra yA mistrI bana sakate haiM, para isase adhika kucha banane ke lie zikSA ke prati Apako utanA hI gaMbhIra honA hogaa| yAdadAzta ke lie thrI Ara kA phArmUlA apanAie - 1. rimembariMga, 2. rivAijiMga, 3. raaittiNg| yAnI yAda 4

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kIjie, doharAie, likhakara use aura pakkA kIjie / # hauMsaloM ko bulaMda kIjie / girakara bhI phira se khar3A ho jAne vAlI jApAnI gur3iyA hamase yahI kahatI hai ki z2iMdagI hAra kA nAma nahIM, jIta kA nAma hai| hAranA gunAha nahIM hai, lekina hAra mAna baiThanA avazya gunAha hai| # saphalatA koI maMz2ila nahIM, eka safara hai| maiTrika meM meriTa Akara koI baiTha jAtA to vaha ema. bI. e. nahIM bana pAtA, karor3apati hokara saMtoSa kara letA to vaha dhIrUbhAI aMbAnI nahIM bana pAtA aura vizva suMdarI banakara hAzie para calI jAtI to vaha aizvaryA kI taraha mahAn abhinetrI nahIM bana pAtI / # Aie hama phira se zurU karate haiM z2iMdagI kI kahAnI, saphalatA kI j'ubaanii| 45

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... kismata kI z2amIna para mehanata kA per3a lagAie Regusand - - OM saphalatA kisI saMyoga yA kismata kA pariNAma nahIM hai| dRr3ha icchA, kar3I mehanata aura U~ce lakSya kA nAma hI saphalatA hai| bIjiMga olaMpika meM bhArata ne 3 svarNa padaka pAe aura cIna ne 100, socie isakI vajaha kyA hai? - jisa tarIke se jo kAma Apa aba taka kara rahe the, yadi vaisA hI karate rahe, to Apako pariNAma bhI vahI milegA jo Aja taka milatA rahA hai| - prakRti kA niyama yAda rakhie : phasala kATane ke lie pahale

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bIja bonA par3atA hai aura bIja ko ugAne ke lie mAlI kI taraha sIMcanA par3atA hai| aisA kabhI nahIM hotA ki Aja bIja boo aura kala usameM se per3a uga Ae aura Apa phala khAne ke lie hAtha bar3hA baitthe| kisI bhI saphalatA kA pahalA dvAra hai : Apako kyA cAhie isakA nirnny| ApakA lakSya Apake sAmane jitanA sApha hogA, ApakA kAma aura pariNAma utanA hI asaradAra hogaa| lakSya spaSTa aura nizcita hogA to atyaMta kaThina rAste para bhI pragati kreNge| lakSyahIna vyakti to sarala rAste para bhI calegA, taba bhI kahIM nahIM phuNcegaa| - jisa cIz2a ko Apa pAnA cAhate haiM, use pAne ke lie dIvAne ho jaaie| prabhu unakI madada avazya karate haiM jinake bhItara jItane kA pUrA z2ajbA hai|

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jItane ke lie sabase pahale jisa tAqata kI z2arUrata hai vaha hai jItane kI soca, jItane kA vizvAsa / hArane kI soca lekara kabhI bhI jIta hAsila nahIM kI jA sktii| # mana meM uThane vAle jaharIle vicAra, jIvana meM milane vAle z2aharIle loga aura hAthoM meM Ane vAlI jaharIlI pustakoM se vaise hI bacie jaise jaharIle sA~pa se bacate haiM / vizvAsa cAhe rAI ke dAne jitanA rakhie, para vaha pUrNa aura maz2abUta rkhie| hama rAI jitane vizvAsa se bhI hara muzkila ke pahAr3a ko lA~gha sakate haiM / # saphala hone ke lie 6 niyama apanAie - 1. taya kIjie Apako kyA caahie| 2. jo cAhie use oNphisa kI Tebala para bhI likhakara rakhie aura gaharAI se mana meM bhii| 3. lakSya ko hAsila karane kI samaya-sImA nirdhArita kIjie / 4. lakSya ko hAsila karane kI yojanA taiyAra kIjie / 48

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5. dera mata kIjie, tatkAla kAma meM laga jaaie| 6. roz2a kucha-na-kucha avazya kiijie| yAda rakhie : maiM kevala daravAjA kholatA hU~, kadama to Apako hI bar3hAnA hogaa| yadi Apako dhana kamAnA hai to yaha mata socie ki paisoM ke binA kaise zurU karU~? balki yaha socie ki yadi Apa zurU hI nahIM kareMge, to paise kahA~ se aaeNge| - rAstA mata dekhie, basa zurU kiijie| nikamme baiThe raheMge to dimAga ko bhI jaMga laga jaaegaa| calanA zurU kara deMge to dimAga bhI calane lagegA aura isa taraha Apa saphalatA kI ora bar3hate jaaeNge| hAlAta badalate vaqta nahIM lgtaa| anukUla hAlAta hoM to Izvara ke prati zukrAnA adA kIjie, para pratikUla hAlAta hoM to nirAza mata hoie| phira se naye bIja boie| vizvAsa rakhie : havAoM ke sAtha bAdala z2arUra aaeNge| wamDOOT

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sIkheM ki kaise pAe~ saphalatA MOST saphalatA jIvana kI sabase madhura upalabdhi hai, para yaha na to AsamAna se TapakatI hai, na yaha jAduI yA rahasyamayI hai| saphalatA to taba milatI hai jaba hamArI sA~sa meM saphalatA kA sapanA basa jAtA hai| saphalatA lakSya kI ora kie jAne vAle niraMtara puruSArtha kA pariNAma hai| apane jIvana ko hama jaisA banAnA cAhate haiM, vaisA bananA hI saphalatA hai| yaha saphalatA kaise hAsila kI jAe, jIvana ke kurukSetra meM yaha raNanIti taya karanA hI hamArI 50

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pahalI saphalatA hai| bIjiMga olampika meM cIna ne sau padaka hAsila kie, amarIkA ke mAikala phelpsa ne akele 8 svarNa padaka pAe, para saMpUrNa bhArata ne kevala tIna padaka, yaha saphalatA yA viphalatA mAtra saMyoga yA kismata kA pariNAma nahIM hai| - saphalatA pAne ke lie mAtra AdhA darjana cIjeM caahie| jaise acchI phasala pAne ke lie miTTI, bIja, pAnI, dhUpa, khAda aura dekhabhAla cAhie vaise hI saphalatA kA Ananda lene ke lie spaSTa lakSya, kar3I mehanata, behatara kAryayojanA, zreSTha buddhimAnI, prabala AtmavizvAsa aura samaya ke samucita prabaMdhana kI z2arUrata hotI hai| * viphala se viphala vyakti saphala ho sakatA hai / isake lie eka hI tAqata cAhie aura vaha hai aatmvishvaas| ma. SINAGEM E N T

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AtmavizvAsa saMkaTa-mocaka hanumAna kI taraha hai / bajaraMga balI kI jaya bolie aura kaThinAiyoM kA sAgara lA~gha jaaie| kisI golDa meDalisTa chAtra se pUchie ki TaoNpa Tena meM Ane ke lie usane kyA kiyA ? to usakA javAba hogA - gurujanoM kA mArgadarzana, khuda kI mehanata, bulaMda hauMsale, U~cA lakSya, takanIkI jJAna aura bar3e-bujurgoM kA AzIrvAda / # isa varSa ke lie Apa bhI apane lakSya taya kIjie phira cAhe ve lakSya bhautika hoM yA AdhyAtmika, zikSAparaka hoM yA svAsthyaparaka / jisake pAsa lakSya nahIM hai usake pAsa jIvana jIne kA na joza hai, na utsAha / vaha jIvana ke nAma para kevala 'TAima pAsa' kara rahA hai / bagaira lakSya ke kiyA gayA maMtra - jApa, auSadhi - nirmANa, dhyAna-sAdhanA aura vyApAra hameM kisI Dagara taka nahIM pahu~cA skte| pahale apanA lakSya taya kiijie| apane lakSya Jain Educationa International - For Personal and Private Use Only 52

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ke lie Apa apanI jitanI pratizata tAqata jhoMkeMge, Apa utane pratizata saphala ho paaeNge| 100 pratizata saphalatA ke lie 100 pratizata UrjA lgaaie| saphalatA cAhie to pahale ekAnta meM baiThakara lakSyonmukha yojanA banAie aura usa yojanA kI kriyAnviti ke lie khuda ko saqhtI se anuzAsita kiijie| binA anuzAsana kA vyakti bola to khUba sakatA hai, para saphalatA ke sapanoM ko khola nahI sktaa| - agara Apa g2arIba haiM to amIra banane kI yojanA bnaaie| bImAra haiM to Arogya kI, azikSita haiM to zikSA kI aura bujurga haiM to bur3hApe ko sArthaka karane kI taiyArI kiijie| nepoliyana se preraNA lIjie ki manuSya cAhe to asaMbhava kucha bhI nhiiN| patthara tabIyata se uchAlA jAe to AsamAna meM bhI cheda ho sakatA hai|

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- jo paidA nahIM kara sakatA, vaha bA~jha kahalAtA hai aura jo kucha kAma nahIM karatA, vaha nikammA kahalAtA hai| kyA Apa apane mu~ha para isa lebala kI kAlikha potanA cAheMge? eka burA vyakti bhI acchI bAteM par3hakara acchA banane kI zuruAta kara sakatA hai| basa, z2arUrata hai pahalA kadama uThAne kii| pUrI tAqata se pragati kI dizA meM dhakkA mArie aura jaise hI gAr3I cala par3e kUdakara car3ha jaaie| phira lIjie jIvana kA jI-bhara aanNd| purAnI nirAzAoM aura upekSAoM ko DasTabIna meM ddaalie| mana kI darAz2oM ko sAfa kiijie| preraNAdAyaka sIDI sunie, khuda ko UrjAvAna banAie aura lambe samaya se peMDiMga par3e kAmoM ko pUrA kara ddaalie| yaha sAbita kara dIjie ki iMtaz2Ara kI ghar3iyA~ aba samApta huiiN| jaisehI utsAha aura udyamadostI kara leMge, 1 aura 1 sIdhe 11 ho jaaeNge|tb ApahI kaheMge- saphalatAaba taya hai|

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Arthika ciMtAoM se chuTakArA pAne ke 14 niyama sukhazAMti jIvana kI sabase bar3I daulata hai| ciMtAe~ hamArI isa daulata ko ghuna kI taraha caTa kara jAtI haiM / paisA jIvana kI sukha-suvidhAoM ko sa~jotA hai| Arthika ciMtAoM se ubarane ke lie 14 niyama apanAe~1. hara saptAha ke aMta meM, saptAhabhara meM kharca hue paise kA hisAba-kitAba likhane kI Adata ddaaleN| isase Apako patA rahegA ki ApakA paisA kahA~ jAtA hai aura Apako ApakI AvazyakatAoM kI pUrti ke lie hara mahine kitane baz2aTa kI 55

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z2arUrata hai / 2. jo loga baz2aTa ke anusAra calate haiM, ve sukhI rahate haiM / Apa apanA baz2aTa aisA banAe~ jo vAstava meM ApakI AvazyakatAoM ke sA~ce meM Dhala jaae| baz2aTa banAne kA uddezya hai : mAnasika zAMti tathA ciMtArahita jIvana / 3. apanI pU~jI ko sahI jagaha niveza kreN| nijI kampaniyoM kI bajAya sarakArI baiMkoM evaM posTa oNphisa meM dhana kA niveza adhika bharosemaMda hai| kahIM aisA na ho ki z2yAdA byAja ke lAlaca meM hama mUla se bhI hAtha dho baiTheM | 4. apane dhana se hamezA uttama vastue~ khriideN| jaise : sone ke AbhUSaNa aura z2amIna-jAyadAda / AbhUSaNa Apako zrRMgArita kareMge aura dhana ko surakSita bhii| z2amIna para kharca kiyA gayA dhana una bIjoM ko bone kI taraha hai jo Apako bhaviSya meM sau gunA karake lauTAe~ge / Jain Educationa International 40% 50% 60% 70% For Personal and Private Use Only 56

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5. AmadanI ko lekara apanA saradarda mata bddh'aaie| kharcoM kI cAdara utanI hI phailAie jisase mAnasika sukhazAMti ke pA~va Dhake raha skeN| 6. baccoM kI zAdI para itanA bhI kharca mata kIjie ki ApakI dasa sAla kI kamAI kevala do dina kI zAno-zaukata meM kharca ho jaae| dUsaroM kI barAbarI mata kIjie, apanI aukAta ko dhyAna meM rakhakara hI vyavasthAoM ko aMjAma diijie| 7. karz2a na lenA zreSTha hai, para yadi saMkaTa kI ghar3I meM karja lenA hI par3a jAe to apanI sAkha mata girane dIjie aura roz2a kI bacata karake, taya samaya ke bhItara karz2a cukA diijie| agara Apane aisA na kiyA to Apa byAja ke bojha se kabhI ubara na paaeNge| 8. jIvana meM kaba kisa sthiti kA sAmanA karanA par3a jAe isakI koI bhaviSyavANI nahIM kI jA sktii| roga, Aga tathA Rem bhAratIya rijarva baiMka RVEHUDPER PME RRORED RUPEES go PME HUNDRED MUFEES HVE HUNDRED RIPELE U - FIVE HUTORE RUPEES NEHLATED SUPEES

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ApAtakAla ke lie hara mahine apanI kamAI kA eka hissA baiMka yA bImA kampanI meM 'bhaviSya nidhi phaMDa' ke rUpa meM jamA karAte rhie|sNktt kI ghar3I meM Apa svayaM ko surakSita pAe~ge / 9. sevAnivRtti para eka muzta milane vAlI peMzana ko binA soce-samajhe apanI saMtAnoM ko mata dIjie, nahIM to ApakI 30 sAla kI bacata 3 mahine meM hI halAla ho jAegI / 10. aisI vyavasthA avazya kIjie ki Apake nidhana ke bAda ApakI vidhavA patnI ko hara mahine mAsika bhattA milatA rahe tAki ApakI jIvanasaMginI ko bAda meM sukha ke lie mohatAz2a na honA par3e / 11. apane baccoM ko paise kI ijjata karanA sikhAie / unakA baiMka khAtA khulavAie aura unameM bacata kI Adata DAlie / apanI bacata pUMjI ko dekhakara ve svayaM ko surakSita aura AnaMdita mahasUsa kareMge aura isa taraha ve fiz2UlakharcI kI burI lata se baca skeNge| 58

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12. yadi ApakI mAsika AmadanI se ApakA gharelU kharcA na calatA ho to bar3abar3Ane aura ciMtA pAlane kI bajAya atirikta AmadanI kI tarakIba ddhuuNddhie| jaise Apa kampyUTara jaoNba kara sakate haiM, ApakI patnI mehaMdI mA~Da sakatI hai, ApakA bar3A beTA yA bar3I beTI choTe baccoM kI TyUzana kara sakate haiN| 13. sigareTa, guTakhA yA zarAba jaisI unmAdaka cIz2oM ko apane pAsa phaTakane mata diijie| inase ApakA svAsthya bhI duSprabhAvita hogA aura ApakI niraMkuza fijUlakharcI bhI bar3ha jaaegii| 14. juA yA zeyara ke saTTe meM hAtha mata ddaalie|ho sakatA hai inase kabhI fAyadA bhI hotA ho, para jaba nukasAna hotA hai to hara taraha kI sukhazAMti caupaTa ho jAtI hai| t HavinmamiwwwvoriamoulodinamainaviamwiviaNiwownlawdiawwwitoonwan SHRI CHANDPRABH m anmammeenawinter ROMANIMA Ge's good Arthika vitAoM ke chuTakArA pAne ke 14 jivana 500

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zakti pAne ke 12 niyama # sUrya kA mukAbalA karane kI bajAya usakI rozanI kA apane hitoM ke lie istemAla kiijie| jo Apase variSTha haiM, unheM darakinAra karane kI bajAya unakI pahacAna aura pratiSThA kA upayoga karate hue apane lie vikAsa ke dvAra kholie / # apane lAbha ke lie mitroM kA hI nahIM, duzmanoM kA bhI upayoga kIjie / buddhimAna vyakti duzmanoM se bhI lAbha uThAtA hai jabaki mUrkha vyakti mitroM se bhI hAni uThA baiThatA hai / 60

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- apane uddezya, yojanAe~ aura pragati ko pragaTa karane kI z2aldabAz2I na kreN| unheM taba taka chipAe~ jaba taka Apa jIta hAsila na kara leN|smjhdaar senApati yuddha kI ghoSaNA hone se pahale hI vijaya hAsila kara letA hai| kama bolanA adhika phAyademaMda hai| z2yAdA bolate samaya hamAre mu~ha se koI-na-koI mUrkhatApUrNa bAta nikala sakatI hai| mahAn loga kama zabdoM meM hI apanI zaktizAlI bAta kahakara dUsaroM ko prabhAvita karate haiM, mAno unake zabda kisI siddha yogI yA devI kI bhaviSyavANI ho| - pratiSThA kisI mUlyavAna qhaz2Ane kI taraha hai| ise sAvadhAnIpUrvaka hAsila kIjie aura prANa nyauchAvara karake bhI usakI rakSA kiijie| eka bAra pratiSThA para dAg2a laga gayA to sar3aka calatA iMsAna bhI hama para aMgulI uThA sakatA hai| - hara qImata para Apa sabako AkarSita kreN| jo dikhatA nahIM hai, eka taraha se usakA astitva hI nahIM hotaa| apane kAryoM CURRESHERSINES

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ko itanA bar3A aura dilacaspa banAe~ ki rozanI sadA Apa para hI kendrita rhe| bahasa mata kIjie; pariNAma para gaura kiijie| kisI taraha kI cA~-cU~ kie bagaira apane kAryoM se dUsaroM ko prabhAvita karanA z2yAdA kAragara hotA hai| yAda rakhie : satya vaha nahIM hotA jo bolA jAtA hai| satya vaha hotA hai jo dikhAI detA hai| duHkhI aura badaqismata logoM ke sAtha rahane kI bajAya sukhI aura khuzakismata logoM ke sAtha raheM, nahIM to Apake saubhAgya ko bhI unakI badakismatI kA sUrya-grahaNa laga jaaegaa| agara Apa kaMjUsa haiM to udAra logoM ke sAtha raheM aura nirAzAvAdI haiM to ha~samukha logoM ke sAtha rahanA zurU kreN| acche aura sakArAtmaka logoM ke sAtha rahane se ApakI kamaz2oriyA~ dUra hoMgI aura unakI acchAiyA~ Apake jIvana kA anivArya hissA bana jaaeNgii|

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# kahIM bhI bahuta z2yAdA Ane-jAne se hamArI qImata ghaTatI hai / sammAna pAne ke lie dUrI banAnA bhI siikhie| sUraja usa dina kucha z2yAdA hI suhAvanA lagatA hai jaba vaha bAriza ke dinoM meM kaI dina bAda naz2ara AtA hai| isa svArtha bharI duniyA meM patA nahIM calatA ki kaba kauna kisake kAma A jAe / isalie bhUlakara bhI kisI kA apamAna mata kIjie / g2alatiyoM ko to mAfa kiyA jA sakatA hai, para apamAna ko nahIM bhulAyA jA sakatA / # svayaM ko ghara yA kile kI cAradivArI meM kaida na kreN| kile meM rahanA surakSA ke lihAz2a se acchA hai, para aisA karane se duniyA kI virATatA se vaMcita raha jaaeNge| sabhI se mileMjuleM, mitra khojeM aura sabase judd'eN| isase tAqata aura qhuziyA~ donoM meM bar3hotarI hogI / 63

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Apake vyavahAra se kisI ko asaMtoSa to nahIM? - - - hamArA vyavahAra hamAre vyaktitva, caritra evaM kulInatA kA AInA hai| vyavahAra yadi madhura aura zAlInatApUrNa hai to Apa binA dhana kharca kie bhI sabake diloM meM rAja kara sakate haiN| mahAn loga zatru ke sAtha bhI mahAn vyavahAra karate haiM, para oche loga mitra ke sAtha bhI dagAbAjI kara baiThate haiN| apane vyavahAra kA mUlyAMkana kiijie| yadi usameM kisI bhI taraha kA ochApana ho to use Aja hI apane jIvana se haTAne kA saMkalpa liijie|

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* caurAhe para baiThe kisI netrahIna vyakti ne AdamI kI bhASA aura vyavahAra ke AdhAra para hI yaha nirNaya diyA thA ki kauna vyakti sainika hai, kauna senApati aura kauna raajaa| apanI bhASA aura prastuti ko itanA zAlIna banAie ki sar3aka calatA koI netrahIna bhI Apako prema se rAjan kaha ske| cehare ko raMga denA kudarata kA kAma hai, para jIvana ko sahI DhaMga denA hamArA svayaM kA dAyitva hai| patnI yadi sA~valI ho, para svabhAva aura vyavahAra se dila ko jItane vAlI ho to svarga kA sukUna usa sA~valepana ke sAnnidhya meM bhI mila sakatA hai| bAkI gorA to cUnA bhI hotA hai, para yadi vaha dila ko cIratA hai to usa gorepana ko kaba taka jhelA jA skegaa| - hameM auroM ke sAtha itanI ziSTatA aura sabhyatA se peza AnA cAhie ki hamArA vyavahAra hI hamArI lokapriyatA kA rAz2a MAM

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bana jAe / hama sAlI ke sAtha to tahajIba se peza Ate haiM phira gharavAlI ke sAtha akar3apana kyoM rakhateM haiN| * pITha thapathapA karake to hama gadhoM aura kuttoM se bhI kAma le sakate haiM phira naukara yA karmacAriyoM se kAma lene ke lie usI miThAsa bhare mijAja kA upayoga kyoM nahIM karate? are, zAbAsI kI bAta sunakara hAthI to kyA, cIMTI bhI pahAr3a lA~gha jAyA karatI hai| kisI kAma ke lie bar3oM ko apane pAsa bulAne kI bajAya hameM unake pAsa jAnA caahie| sAsa, pitA, guru yA bar3e bhaiyyA z2amIna para baiThe hoM to hameM unake sAmane sophe-kursI para nahIM baiThanA caahie| koI cIz2a hameM khAnI-pInI ho, to sAmane baiThe logoM se manuhAra karane ke bAda hI hameM upayoga karanA caahie| yaha jIvana kI pAThazAlA kA sabase pahale sIkhA jAne vAlA pATha hai|

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* bolate samaya hameM zabdoM kA cayana sAvadhAnI se karanA caahie| hara bAta socane kI to hotI hai, para bolane kI nahIM hotii| buddhimAna socakara bolate haiM, para buddhU bolakara socate haiN| kisI dUsare ke citra meM kamiyA~ nikAlanA hara kisI ke lie AsAna hotA hai, para una kamiyoM ko haTAkara svayaM ke dvArA vaisA citra banAnA lagabhaga hara kisI ke lie nAmamukina hotA hai / jaba duniyA meM dUdha kA dhulA koI nahIM hai phira dUsaroM kI kamiyoM ko nikAlane kA kamInA kAma kyoM kareM? - rAvaNa ke bIsa A~kheM thIM, para naz2ara sirpha eka aurata para thI jabaki apane do A~kheM haiM, para naz2ara hara aurata para hai| phira soco ki asalI rAvaNa kauna hai ? vizvAsa hai Apa apanI pUrva g2alatiyoM ke lie apane Apa se saoNrI kaha rahe haiM aura kala se kaise peza Ae~ge isakA sahIsakArAtmaka phaisalA kara rahe haiN|

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kaisA kareM vyahAra karmacAriyoM se se - - S IMINARomaniawww mmar - twimwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww wwer SU - karmacArI aura mAlika kA riztA utanA hI z2avAbadeha hotA hai jitanA bhakta aura bhagavAna kaa| karmacArI mAlika ke lie tabhI taka apanA pasInA bahAegA, jaba taka mAlika kI ora se use pUrA pArizramika aura protsAhana milatA rhegaa| Apa apane karmacArI ko kevala kAma mata dIjie varana kAma ke sAtha use lakSya bhI diijie| mahAn lakSya ke pUrNa hone para karmacAriyoM kI AtmA utanI hI gauravAnvita hoMgI jitanI saphalatA kA svAda milane para Apako huA karatI hai|

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apane karmacAriyoM para vyartha ke ho-hallA karane kI bajAya unheM kAma karane kI sahI TreniMga deN| kisI bhI vyakti se g2alatI tabhI taka huA karatI hai jaba taka vaha azikSita rahatA hai| ApakI miThAsa aura muskAna Apake gusse se z2yAdA prabhAvazAlI haiN| Apa apane gusse ko thUkie aura kucha aisA karane kA faisalA kIjie jisase Apake karmacAriyoM ke diloM meM Apake prati prema aura sammAna kA jajbA jaga ske| karmacArI kI prazaMsA sabake sAmane kareM, para phaTakAra akele meM lgaaeN| prazaMsA se kArya adhika karane kA protsAhana milatA hai jabaki phaTakAra se kArya ko sAvadhAnI se karane kI nasIhata milatI hai| karmacArI ko kabhI aisI phaTakAra na lagAe~ ki vaha ApakA duzmana bana jaae| agara usane Apase duzmanI nikAlane kI ThAna lI to usakA to kucha qhAsa na bigar3egA, para Apako itanA bar3A khAmiyAjA bhugatanA par3a sakatA hai ki Apa usase jiMdagI bhara bhI ubara na paaeN| -

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# apane karmacArI ke kAma meM kabhI Apa qhuda bhI hAtha ba~TAne kI Adata rakheM tAki usake dvArA hone vAlA kAma use halkA na lage, balki Apako apane sAtha kAma karate dekhakara use bhI kAma karane kI preraNA aura utsAha mila ske| # dasa meM se pA~ca kAma karake to hara koI naukarI kara sakatA hai, para pA~ca kI bajAya dasa kAma karake koI bhI vyakti apanI unnati kA dvAra khola sakatA hai / karmacArI se g2alatI hone para DA~Ta tabhI lagAie jaba usase acchA kAma hone para Apa use bonasa bhI dete hoM / yadyapi karmacArI aura mAlika kA riztA eka parivAra jaisA riztA hotA hai / hama pitA banakara usa para gAlI-galauca to kara baiThate haiM, para kyA use eka putra kI taraha apanA pyAra bhI dete haiM ? holI - divAlI para apane karmacAriyoM ko miThAI kA paikeTa denA na bhUleM / 70

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mAlika kI qhuzahAlI karmacAriyoM kI acchI mehanata para TikI hai, to karmacAriyoM kI qhuzahAlI mAlika ke dvArA die jAne vAle acche mehanatAne para TikI hai| Apa apane karmacAriyoM se mahine meM 30 dina kAma karavAie, para 1 tArIkha ko subaha kI pArI zurU kareM usase pahale unheM unakA vetana de deN| * Apa apane karmacArI ko vetana cAhe jitanA deM, lekina bataura mAnavIya sahayoga ke rUpa meM use usake ghara meM lagane vAlA ATA aura cikitsA - sevA apanI ora se muhaiyA karavAe~, tAki Apake karmacArI ke sAtha ApakA dAtA aura dayAlu kA saMbaMdha bhI bana sake / 102t 71

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krodha Ane para kyA kareM? SEARCH - - - krodha tAtkAlika pAgalapana hai| kauna bevakUpha hogA jo yaha pAgalapana dohraaegaa| - krodha ha~sI kI hatyA karatA hai aura khuzI ko kh'tm| yaha buddhi ke daravAje para caTakanI lagA detA hai aura viveka ko ghara se bAhara nikAla detA hai| - krodha se sehata para kuThArAghAta hotA hai, rizte TUTate haiM aura kairiyara caupaTa ho sakatA hai| gusse se sAvadhAna rahie palabhara kA gussA ApakA pUrA bhaviSya bigAr3a sakatA hai| 72

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* patnI agara gusse meM kaha baiThe - tuma to jAnavara ho, jAnavara / to patnI kI bAta kA burA mata mAni / sakArAtmaka javAba dete hue kahie - tumane ThIka kahA / tuma merI jAna ho, maiM terA vr| donoM milakara ho gae jaanvr| yadi Apa krodha se parezAna haiM to sadA muskurAne kI Adata ddaaleN| krodha kA nimitta khar3A ho jAe to pahale muskurAe~, phira krodha kareM : krodha kama AkrAmaka hogaa| - gusse meM patnI ganne ko uThAkara ApakI pITha para de mAre to muskurAte hue jhaTa se kaha DAlie - acchA huA tUne do Tukar3e kara die, lA, eka maiM khA letA hU~ aura eka tuu| - agara dUdha uphanane lage to hama pAnI kA chIMTA DAlate haiN| Apa isI nuskhe kA istemAla kiijie| jaise hI lage ki

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ApameM uphAna A gayA hai, tatkAla do gilAsa ThaMDA pAnI pI liijie| udhara uphanatA dUdha zAMta, idhara ApakA ubAla shaaNt| krodha meM banAyA gayA bhojana aura baccoM ko pilAyA gayA dUdha z2ahara kI taraha nukasAnadAyaka hotA hai| krodha paidA ho jAe to pahale 15 minaTa so jAe~, tana-mana ko rileksa kareM, usake bAda hI koI kArya nipttaaeN| krodha meM eka bAra apanA ceharA AIne meM dekhane kI taqalIfa utthaaeN| Apako apane Apa se nafarata hone lgegii| taba Apa anAyAsa hI apane krodha ko vaise hI thUka deMge jaise ki mu~ha se kph'| koziza kIjie ki krodha ko hamezA dhairyapUrvaka prakaTa karane kI Adata ddaalie| thor3A-sA dhairya bhI Apake Minute

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krodha kA aMtaramaMthana kara DAlegA aura taba Apa jo bhI kaheMge, vaha makkhana kI taraha sAra rUpa hogA / 75 dhIraja se socane para kaI dafA lagatA hai ki maiM vyartha hI krodhita huA / apane isa prAyazcita se preraNA lIjie aura nirNaya kIjie ki maiM bhaviSya meM Age-pIche kA socakara hI krodha karU~gA / z2arA soceM ki kaba taka yU~ hI uphanate aura phuphakArate rheNge| agara marakara sA~pa yA sA~Da banane kI cAha ho to pUrI Az2AdI se krodha kIjie / jIvana meM kabhI bhI krodha ko nyautA mata dIjie, anyathA vaha lobhI jaMvAI kI taraha AegA aura Apako karja meM Dubo jAegA / # kRpayA bar3e sAiz2a kA eka kAg2az2a lIjie aura usa para likha dIjie- 'he jIva zAMta raha / kaba taka yU~ hI ho

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hallA karatA rahegA' basa, isa kAgaz2a ko ghara ke AMgana meM cipakA dIjie aura jaise hI gussA Ae to ise par3ha ddaalie| ApakI aMtarAtmA meM tatkAla zAMti kI rozanI khila utthegii| saptAha meM eka dina cAra ghaMTe kA akhaMDa maunavrata rakhane kI Adata ddaalie| mauna se jahA~ vacanasiddhi sadhegI, vahIM krodha ke tevara kA tIkhApana kama hogaa| - subaha uThate hI eka minaTa taka tabIyata se muskuraaie| jIvana meM jyoM-jyoM muskAna ke phUla khileMge, ciMtA, krodha, tanAva ke kA~Te svataH niSprabhAvI hote jaaeNge| hara mahine kI pahalI tArIkha ko upavAsa karane kI Adata ddaalie| yaha upavAsa bhojana na karane kA ho, balki krodha na karane kA ho| bhalA, krodha na karane se bar3hakara aura kyA tapasyA hogii|

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jIvana meM khilAe~ ha~sI ke phUla ha~sI TaoNnika kI taraha hai jo Apako UrjAvAna banAtI hai| yadi Apa viparIta paristhiti meM apanI ha~sI ko surakSita rakhate haiM to isakA matalaba hai krodha, ciMtA, tanAva aura avasAda jaisI bImAriyA~ Apase cAra kosa dUra haiN| ha~sane se hoMTha gulAbI hote haiM aura gAla suhAvane, jabaki rone se hoMTha sUkha jAte hai aura gAla murajhA jAte haiN|

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Izvara ne iMsAna ko ha~sane kA janmajAta guNa dekara suMdaratA bar3hAne kA rAz2a de diyA hai| sadAbahAra ha~sI Apako usa lakSya taka pahu~cA sakatI hai jise pAne ke lie loga vanavAsI aura saMnyAsI banate - ha~sanA aura ha~sAnA eka cunautI bharA kArya hai| jaba Izvara ne apana logoM ko yaha guNa diyA hai to phira ha~sane meM hama kaMjUsI kyoM baratate haiM ? * iMsAna rotA huA bhale hI paidA ho, para jIvana kI dhanyatA isI meM hai ki vaha ha~satA huA dharatI se jaae| hama ha~seM aura duniyA roye - yaha kabIra kI vANI hai vahIM hama roe~ aura duniyA ha~se yaha jIte-jI marane ke samAna hai| * dUsaroM para Apa to kyA, eka mUrkha bhI ha~sa sakatA hai, para khuda para ha~sane vAle to koI maharSi hI hote haiN|

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* jaba bhI ha~seM, dila se hNseN| mana se ha~sane vAle zarAratI hote haiM aura hoMTho se ha~sane vAle aupcaarik| hRdaya se ha~sane vAle AtmA se ha~sa rahe hote haiN| - ha~samukha iMsAna se milakara hara koI prasanna hotA hai| koI bhI iMsAna na to murajhAe hue phUla pasaMda karatA hai, na hI murajhAe cehre| - phoTo kI suMdaratA ke lie hara phoTogrAphara kA pahalA sujhAva hotA hai - smAila plIz2a / kAza, isa sujhAva ko hama caubIsoM ghaMToM ke lie apanA leM to binA byUTI pArlara ke hI hama suMdaratA kI U~cAiyA~ chU sakate haiN| dina meM kama-se-kama tIna bAra khulakara hNsie| dina meM dasa bAra unmukta ha~sI ha~sane vAle jiMdagI meM kabhI Diprezana aura hArTa-aTaika ke zikAra nahIM ho skte|

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bAteM kAma kI, jJAna kI aura z2ubAna kI - - prabhu kA kAma hai hamAre du:kha-darda ko dUra krnaa| yadi hama prabhu kI sevA karanA cAhate haiM to hama bhI kisI dIna-dukhI kI madada karake prabhu ke kAma ko Age bar3hA sakate haiN| kisI bhI bindu para socie zAMti se, para jaba use mUrta rUpa denA ho to kIjie tejI se| / kisI qhAsa avasara para rupayoM kA lifAfA yA phUloM kA guladastA bheMTa dene kI bajAya aisI vastu kA upahAra dIjie jo avasara ke bIta jAne ke bAda bhI upayoga meM AtI rhe|

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8 mahAn vicAra aura preraNAoM se eka zreSTha pustaka kisI ko denA aMdhere meM khar3e iMsAna ko rozanI bharA dIpaka thamAne ke samAna hai| jo mana meM Ae vaha na to bolie aura na kiijie| vANI, vyavahAra aura karma vahI kIjie jisake pIche Apake zreSTha ciMtana aura buddhi kI rozanI ho| jubAna para miThAsa gholie| jIvana kI AdhI samasyAe~ to kevala z2ubAna ko ThIka karake hala kI jA sakatI haiN| vidyAlayIya jIvana meM hara varSa naye zikSakoM se saMbaMdha jur3ate haiM, para vidyAlaya-jIvana se mukta hone ke bAda...? Apa viveka ko apanA zikSaka banAie, yaha hara kSetra meM ApakA behatara mArgadarzana karatA rhegaa| koI Apase salAha mA~ge to usake sAtha nyAya kiijie| use usake hita kI salAha dIjie, na ki apane hita kii|

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khAte hue mata calie, bolate samaya mata ha~sie, bIta gaI bAta ke bAre meM mata socie, kie gae upakAra kA smaraNa mata kIjie aura do logoM kI bAta ke bIca meM mata jAie, kyoMki yahI ve pA~ca kAraNa haiM jisake calate Apa mUrkha kahalA baittheNge| koI acchI bAta batAe to use mAnie, yaha mata dekhie ki vaha qhuda use jI pAtA hai yA nhiiN| Aqhira halavAI kI dukAna se miThAI lete vaqta hama yaha kahA~ dekhate haiM ki vaha qhuda usa miThAI ko khAtA hai yA nhiiN| vaha upadeza uttama nahIM hotA jise sunakara loga vAhavAhI kare, varan vaha uttama hai jise sunakara loga gaMbhIratApUrvaka vicAra kreN|

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# Apa aisA vyavahAra kIjie ki saqhta dila TUTa jAe aura TUTe hue dila Apasa meM jur3a jAe~ / bhASaNa dete samaya itanI dera taka mata bolate rahie ki Apako sunane ke lie iMsAnoM kI bajAya moma kI mUrtiyA~ baiThAnI par3e / # apanI bAta ko sarasa aura prabhAvI banAne ke lie usameM eka-Adha udAharaNa, kahAnI aura pustaka kA samAveza avazya kIjie / bAta kA vaz2ana cAra gunA bar3ha jAegA / 83 10 Q Jain Educationa International 17 12 th For Personal and Private Use Only 2 A

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kyoM jie~ dharma ke usUla isa saMsAra - sAgara meM dharma hI zaraNa hai, gati hai, pratiSThA hai| ahiMsA, satya, acaurya, aparigraha aura zIla kA pAlana dharma ke pA~ca caraNa haiM / dharma karane vAloM kI to rAtriyA~ bhI saphala hotI haiM jabaki adharma karane vAloM ke to dina bhI niSphala cale jAyA karate haiM / # ahiMsA sAre saMsAra kI surakSA kA AdhAra hai / jaise duHkha hameM priya nahIM hai vaise hI kisI bhI jIva ko duHkha priya nahIM hai| yaha jAnakara hameM sabake prati prema aura mitratA kA hAtha bar3hAnA

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cAhie / # satya meM vrata, tapa, saMyama aura samasta guNoM kA nivAsa hai| hama satya-dharma kA AcaraNa kareM / satyavAdI vyakti mA~ kI taraha vizvasanIya, guru kI taraha pUjya aura svajana kI bhA~ti sabako priya hotA hai / corI, rizvata yA milAvaTa karake kamAyA gayA dhana vinAza ke rAste kholatA hai| parAye dhana para g2alata naz2ara DAlane kI baz2Aya mA~gakara khAnA kahIM z2yAdA acchA hai / # prANI akelA AtA hai, akelA jAtA hai, jaba yahI saca hai taba phira saMcita dhana, vastu aura z2amIna para Asakti kI jaMz2Ira kyoM DAlI jAe / zIla kA pAlana zreSTha vrata aura tapa hai / para strI aura para-puruSa kI to kalpanA karanA bhI pApa hai, hameM svayaM kI patnI athavA pati ke sAtha bhI saMyama se jInA cAhie / hue he jIva ! aba to zAMta raha / kaba taka yoM hI krodha karate apanI AtmA ko girAtA rahegA aura dUsaroM ke diloM ko jalAtA rahegA ? 85

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krodha yamarAja hai, lobha vaitaraNI nadI hai, jJAna kAmadhenu hai aura saMtoSa nandana-vana hai| gussA thUkie aura kSamA kara diijie| aisA karake dekhie, Apa para prabhu kI rahamata barasegI aura dila ko sukUna bhI milegaa| - prema dharatI ko svargaloka banAne kA rAstA hai| hama hara kisI ko apane prema kA pAtra banAe~ phira cAhe vaha kahIM kA bhI ho, koI bhI ho| vinamratA usa beMta kI taraha hai jo mur3akara bhI nahIM ttuutttii| vinamratA ko jIne ke cAra caraNa haiM - 1. par3ausI kA bhI sammAna kIjie, 2. kar3avI bAta kA miThAsa se javAba dIjie, 3. krodha Ane para cupa rahie aura 4. aparAdhI ko daMDa dete samaya bhI komalatA rkhie| jIvana meM jo kucha hotA hai, usake pIche niyati kI eka vyavasthA kAma karatI hai, yaha socakara hAni ho jAne para ciMtita na hoM aura lAbha ho jAne para ahaMkArI na hoN| 861

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mRtyu jIvana meM eka bAra AtI hai aura vaha vaqta se pahale kabhI nahIM aatii| phira bhaya kaisA? vizvAsa rakhie, Izvara Apake sAtha hai| - bolanA agara cA~dI hai to mauna rahanA sonA hai| bolane se rizte banate yA bigar3ate haiM, para zAMti ke phala to mauna ke vRkSa para hI lagate haiN| bacapana meM kiyA gayA jJAnArjana jIvana kI nIMva hai| koziza kIjie hara dina kucha pala acchI kitAbeM par3hI jaaeN| taba bhI, jaba mauta Ae; tAki agale janma meM bhI hamAre lie jJAna kI dhArA banI rhe|

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kyA prArthanAoM kA javAba milatA hai? - parama pitA paramezvara para vizvAsa kiijie| ve hamAre jIvana ke AdhyAtmika saMrakSaka haiN| musIbata par3ane para ve hamArI madada karate haiM aura hameM sadA sahI dizA dikhAte haiN| * prabhu se prArthanA karane ke lie kisI taraha kI aupacArikatA kI z2arUrata nahIM hotii|aap jaba cAheM, jahA~ cAheM prArthanA kara sakate haiM ki he prabhu! hamArI madada kiijie| - kisI maMdira yA pUjAghara meM jAkara prabhu se prArthanA karane meM koI

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- * Apa kahIM bhI, kabhI bhI prabhu se saMvAda kara sakate haiM, para itanA z2arUra qhayAla rakhanA cAhie ki prabhu se kI gaI prArthanA mahaz2a zabdoM kA khela na ho / Lian burAI nahIM hai, para prabhu kA saccA nivAsa to hama sabake hRdaya meM hai / Apa apane bhItara base prabhu ke Age apanA AtmasamarpaNa kIjie / 89 prabhu se apane lie kucha mA~ganA svArtha nahIM hai| prabhu se kucha kahanA yA mA~ganA svArtha kaise ho sakatA hai ? apana loga to prabhukI putra-putriyA~ haiM / prabhu sarvatra haiN| ve apanI hara saMtAna ke sAtha haiM / Apa jaba cAheM, prabhu se nAtA jor3a sakate haiM / basa, phona uThAe~ aura naMbara milA leN| prabhu cAhate haiM ki Apa apanA ha~satA- khilakhilAtA bharapUra jIvana jie~ / ve hamAre bhAgya meM koI ror3A nahIM aTakAte, balki hamAre bhAgya ko anukUla banAne meM hamArI madada karate haiM /

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- yaha kitanI khUbasUrata bAta hai ki sukha meM prabhu hamAre sAtha calate haiM, para duHkha Ane para ve hameM apanI goda meM uThA lete haiN| * jIvana meM kisI camatkAra kI ummIda tabhI kIjie jaba Apa prabhu se saccA prema karate haiN| bhUkampa, jvAlAmukhI aura sunAmI-laharoM kA sAmanA karate hue yaha qhayAla AtA hai ki prabhu! tumhArI sahAyatA ke binA hama kitane asahAya haiN| // saMkaTa kI ghar3I Ane para bhI dhIraja rakhanA prabhu para dRr3ha AsthA __ rakhane ke samAna hai| dimAg2a meM bAra-bAra uThane vAlI cetAvaniyoM aura antarapreraNAoM para gaura kreN| kyoMki mumakina hai ki prabhu hamArI antarAtmA meM prakaTa hokara hameM kucha saMketa de rahe hoN| vizvAsa rakhie, prabhu jo karate haiM hamAre hita ke lie karate 190

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haiN| hama unake prati zikavA - zikAyata na pAleM / Aja nahIM to kala, hameM unake kArya kA rahasya samajha meM A jAegA / # prabhu kA dhyAna aura prArthanA karate hue muskurAie aura AbhAra prakaTa kiijie| una qhuziyoM aura varadAnoM ke lie jo prabhu ne hameM dI haiM / 91 I prabhu ke samakSa z2yAdA minnateM mata kIjie / ve sarvajJa haiM / ve hamAre hita-ahita kA pUrA qhayAla rakhate haiN| Apa to basa dila se tAra jor3ate hue apanI prArthanA kIjie aura use pUrA karane kA dAyitva prabhu para chor3a dIjie / # jIvana meM kucha sapane aura lakSya banAie / prabhu kA saMdeza hai ki kAma kitanA bhI kaThina kyoM na ho, kar3I mehanata aura saccI lagana se manacAhI saphalatA pAI jA sakatI hai /

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sA~soM ke samudra meM DUbate jAe~ - W wwanimoong svayaM kI AdhyAtmika saccAiyoM se rU-ba-rU hone kA mArga hai dhyaan| dhyAna dharma bhI hai, vijJAna bhii| yaha vrata bhI hai aura vikAsa kA dvAra bhii| - dhyAna vaha vijJAna hai jisase azAMti, udvega, Akroza aura vikAroM se ghire mana kA samAdhAna nikala sakatA hai| dhyAna kriyA nahIM hai| yaha sArI kriyAoM ke zAnta hone para ghaTita hotA hai| - sacetana prANAyAma dhyAna kA praveza dvAra hai| sA~soM ko zAMta gati se gaharAI dete calanA prANAyAma hai| 921

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# prANAyAma karate samaya sA~soM kA mUlyAMkana mata kIjie / basa, gaharI sA~sa lIjie, lete rahie / sA~soM ke samudra meM DUbate jaaie| sA~sa dhIre-dhIre svataH layabaddha aura zAMta hotI jAegI / zvAsarahita sthiti ghaTita hote hI dhyAna kI antara- dazA pragaTa ho jAegI / sA~sa setu hai svayaM kI antas- cetanA taka pahu~cane kA / cetanA svayaM sA~sa letI hai / sA~sa, zarIra aura mana meM ekalayatA lAne ke lie sacetana sA~sa lIjie yA soham - bhItara utaratI sA~sa ke sAtha so aura bAhara nikalatI sA~sa ke sAtha 'ham kI smRti banAe rakhie / # citta kI zAMta aura nirmala sthiti hI dhyAna hai| dhyAna kaba, kisa kSaNa ghaTita hogA, kahA nahIM jA sktaa| jyoM-jyoM dhyAna kA abhyAsa gaharA hotA jAegA, dhyAna hamArA sahacara hotA jAegA /

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kA prayAsapUrvaka kiyA gayA dhyAna ekAgratA hai, anAyAsa ghaTita hone vAlI ekAgratA dhyAna hai| dhyAna eka taraha kA mauna hai, zAMti hai, AnaMda hai, bodha hai| jaba hama AnaMda meM hote haiM, taba hama apane astitva meM hI hote haiN| kA dhyAna buddhi kI guphA meM praveza hai| hama buddhi kI guphA meM praveza karane se pUrva hRdaya ke dvAra kholeM / hRdaya satya kA dvArarahita dvAra hai| hama sA~soM ke jarie hRdaya meM utarate jAe~, donoM kAkhoM ke madhya kSetra meM vyApta hote jaaeN| hRdaya zAMti kA dhAma hai| vahA~ svarga jaisI zAMti hai| svarga kA rAstA vAstava meM hRdaya se hI khulatA hai| kA dhyAna AnaMda, AhlAda aura ahobhAva kA anubhava hai| yaha phUloM kI khilAvaTa kI taraha hai| sAkSItva dhyAna kI AtmA hai| dhyAna meM hama thor3e-thor3e nahIM jA skte| isameM jaba bhI praveza hotA hai samagratA se hotA hai|

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- dhyAna meM jIne vAle mahala meM raheM yA jaMgala meM, isase unheM koI farka nahIM pdd'taa| ve saMsAra ke prati prema aura karuNA se bhara uThate haiN| ve jahA~ hote haiM unakI zAMti aura divyatA se vAtAvaraNa cArja rahatA hai| dhyAna ko saralatA se jIne ke lie kyoM na apane hara kArya ko dhyAnapUrvaka karane kI Adata DAlI jaae| dhyAnapUrvaka khAie, dhyAnapUrvaka kAra calAie, dhyAnapUrvaka dAr3hI banAie aura dhyAnapUrvaka soie| dhyAna ko hara kriyA ke sAtha joDie, dhyAna hameM hara kriyA kA AdhyAtmika pariNAma degaa| - dhyAna kI eka baiThaka 30 minaTa kI kIjie, ekAMta-zAMta vAtAvaraNa meM baiThie, bAhara-bhItara se mauna aura antaralIna hote jAie, dhyAna kA AbhAmaNDala Apako svataH AnaMdita aura satyabodha se bharatA jaaegaa|

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kyA mA~geM prabhu se? - * paramapitA paramezvara kA yaza aura usakI AbhA sarvatra vyApta hai| use kevala maMdira-masjida taka hI mata dekhie| - mAtA-pitA, gurujana, kilakArI bharatA baccA aura ghara AyA atithi - bhagavAna kI hI abhivyaktiyA~ haiN| Apa inase pyAra kIjie, inheM sammAna dIjie aura jo kucha Apake pAsa hai inake sAtha mila-bA~Takara usakA upabhoga karane kA Ananda liijie| * prabhu ko isa bAta se koI prayojana nahIM hai ki Apa use kisa paMtha aura patha se pAnA cAhate haiM, prabhu ko sirpha isa bAta se sarokAra hai ki Apa use kitanA pAnA cAhate haiN| 96 wmummmmmmmmm rit

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w maanananesammemaramananemiamommmmmmmmon annawwanmkarinamumemamaruminiuminumanumaniramine - Izvara itanA mahAn hai ki sArA svargaloka bhI usake siMhAsana ke lie choTA par3atA hai aura itanA sarala hai ki hama sabake choTe se aMtaraghaTa meM samA jAtA hai| = prabhu-bhakti kA matalaba yaha nahIM hai ki Apa rAta-dina usake maMdira meM baiThe rheN| prabhu-bhakti kA artha hai ki Apa hara subaha prabhu ko yAda kareM aura apane vyAvahArika jIvana meM prabhu kI AjJAoM kA pAlana kreN| hara samaya dila meM prabhu ko yAda rakhie tAki saMkaTa kI ghar3I Ane para hamAre dila meM usakA sAmanA karane kA Atmabala banA rhe| vaha sukha kI ghar3I meM hamAre pIche calatA hai, para duHkha Ane para hameM apanI goda meM uThA letA hai| - Izvara hamameM hai, agara hama bhI Izvara meM ho jAe~ to hamAre jIvana kI samasyAoM kA khuda-ba-khuda aMta ho jaae| womeomanamanorainer sernmenawhnarmananemonitoranakam wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwmomaamanan e ws

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dina meM caubIsa ghaMTe hote haiN| hara vaqta hama vyApAra, gharagRhasthI aura mela-milApa meM hI vyasta rahate haiN| jo hameM hara dina 24 ghaMTe detA hai, kyA hama usa prabhu ke lie 24 minaTa bhI nikAla pAte haiM? prabhu ko mAika para nahIM, mana meM pukaarie| mAika para uThI pukAra bhIr3abhAr3a ke zora meM kho jAtI hai, para mana meM uThI pukAra sIdhe prabhu se lau lagAtI hai| prabhu ko dila meM bhI basAie, ghara meM bhI rakhie aura dukAna meM bhI usakI chavi virAjamAna kIjie tAki dila se pApa na ho, bhojana bhI prabhu kA prasAda bane aura grAhaka bhI prabhu se riztA jor3ane kA AdhAra bne| mehamAna ko acchI cIjeM dI jAtI haiN| beTI-jaMvAI ko bezakImatI vastra die jAte haiN| netA aura nyAyAdhIza ko bahumUlya upahAra die jAte haiM, phira prabhu ke Age cavannIaThannI car3hAnA hamArI kisa mAnasikatA kA sUcaka hai|

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prabhu ke nAma para hama hara subaha-zAma prArthanA kareM, apanI kamAI kA DhAI pratizata dIna-dukhiyoM ke lie lagAe~, mahIne meM eka dina vrata rakheM aura saMbhava ho to varSa meM eka bAra tIrthayAtrA ke lie avazya jaaeN| prArthanA karate samaya prabhu ko apane ve pApa aura prAyazcita ke A~sU avazya samarpita kIjie, jinheM Apane apane ajJAna, uttejanA aura mUrchA meM kara DAle haiN| prabhu se mA~ganA hai to mA~gie - 1. acchA svabhAva 2. mehanata kI kamAI 3. paropakAra meM kharca kiyA jA sake aisA dhana 4. bhAI-bhAI meM saMpa aura 5 kaSToM ko jhelane kI taak't| he prabhu ! isa jagata ko sudhAranA, para usakI zubha zuruAta mujhase krnaa| 00

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aisA ho saMkalpa navavarSa kI pahalI kiraNa hameM isa bAta kI preraNA de rahI hai ki hama karabaddha hokara Aja se koI aisA saMkalpa avazya leM jo hamAre jIvana kI miThAsa aura qhuzahAlI meM adhika bar3hotarI kre| jo tAlA cAbI ko eka ora ghumAne se baMda hotA hai, vahI dUsarI ora ghumAne se khula bhI jAtA hai / hama apane vicAra, vANI aura vyavahAra ko isa taraha ghumAe~ ki riztoM ke baMda par3e tAle phira se khula jAe~ / 100

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- thor3A-sA itra bhI vAtAvaraNa ko tarotAz2A kara detA hai aura halkI-sI muskAna bhI vAtAvaraNa kI bojhilatA ko dUra kara detI hai| kyA Apa abhI se muskurAne kA nirNaya leMge? muskurAne se cehare kI suMdaratA bar3hatI hai aura mana kI sthiti sakArAtmaka banatI hai| krodha ko jIvana se 'oNla AuTa' karanA hai, to hara samaya muskurAne kI Adata ddaaleN| hama apane svAsthya aura mana kI zAMti ke prati jAgarUka rheNge|behtr svAsthya ke lie sAtvika aura saMyamita bhojana leMge, rAta ko samaya para soeMge aura mana kI zAMti ke lie krodha, ciMtA aura atiparizrama se bceNge| yadi Apa dayA-dAna meM vizvAsa rakhate haiM to eka dayA aura kIjie ki isa varSa se apane karmacArI ko hara mAha tanakhvAha 101

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ke sAtha 11 kilo ATA bhI dene kA nirNaya leNge| sambhava hai, ApakA karmacArI roz2a dUdha bhale hI na pI pAe, para kama-sekama bhUkhA to nahIM soegA / navavarSa para saMkalpa lIjie ki Apa roz2AnA 20 minaTa eka acchI qitAba par3heMge aura usameM se jo bAta sabase acchI lagegI, use apane kisI mitra ko esaemaesa karake use bhI lAbhAnvita kareMge / apane baccoM kI par3hAI-likhAI kI z2avAbadArI to hara koI nibhAtA hai, Apa saMkalpa lIjie ki maiM apanI z2iMdagI meM kisI eka g2arIba mahilA kI prasUti, kisI eka g2arIba baccI kA kanyAdAna aura isa varSa kisI eka g2arIba bacce kI par3hAI kA puNya avazya kamAU~gA / 102

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# saMkalpa lIjie ki isa varSa Apa apanI patnI ke lie jo bhI sAr3I yA gahanA kharIdeMge vahI apanI mA~ ke lie bhI khriideNge| phira cAhe mA~ use pahane yA kisI g2arIba ko dAna kare / 103 yadi Apa samartha haiM to hara roz2a kisI bhikhArI ko pA~ca rupaye kA nAztA karavA dIjie aura kisI gAya ko pA~ca rupaye kI ghAsa khilA diijie| isa puNya se Apake navagrahoM ke doSa dUra hoMge / kucha saMkalpa aura leM :- 1. pratidina subaha mAtA-pitA ko praNAma kara AzIrvAda lU~gA, 2. hara ravivAra ko AdhA ghaMTA

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dhyAna aura prArthanA karU~gA, 3. hara mAha eka dina vrata karU~gA, 4.jIvana meM raktadAna avazya karU~gA aura 5. kisI paricita / ke guz2ara jAne para usa dina miThAI kA upayoga nahIM kruuNgaa| ye pA~ca saMkalpa Apake lie naye varSa ke paMcAmRta kA kAma kreNge| * yadi kisI svajana yA parijana kI mRtyu ho jAe to use netradAna kI preraNA deNge| kisI kA netradAna karanA apane lie aura usake lie sau janmoM taka netroM kI vyavasthA karanA hai| 104

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cArja kaveM jiMTagI jIvana Izvara ke ghara se milA huA vaha daheja hai jise pAne ke lie hameM kucha karanA nahIM par3A, balki upahAra kI taraha hama yaha qhajAnA apane sAtha lAe haiM / Izvara ne hameM yaha jIvana isa AzA ke sAtha diyA hai ki hama isakA acche se acchA upayoga kreNge| jIvana ke dina bIta rahe haiM aura yaha dina-ba-dina DiscArja ho rahA hai / hameM ise cArja karanA hai - acche lakSya ko lekara, acche rAstoM kI ora kadama bar3hAkara / hameM apanA jIvana isa taraha jInA hai ki hamArA hara dina hamAre lie haippI barthaDe bana jAe / mahAna jIvana-dRSTA pUjya zrI candraprabha ke hara vacana hamAre jIvana kI baiTarI ko cArja karate haiM, eka naI dizA, eka nayA joza bharate haiN| hameM apanA jIvana isa taraha jInA hai ki gurudeva dvArA dI gaI isa pustaka kA hara pannA hamAre jIvana meM saMskAra aura samRddhi kI ela.AI.sI. nirdhArita karatA hai| prastuta pustaka hamArI pIr3hI-dara-pIr3hI ke lie sIr3hI-dara-sIr3hI kI taraha hai| jaba bhI Apako lage ki Apa nakArAtmaka bhAvoM se ghire haiM, jiMdagI kI thakAvaTa se ghire haiM, basa pustaka kA koI bhI pATha par3ha ddaalie| Apako lagegA ApakI jiMdagI dubArA cArja ho gaI hai| Rs 25/