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on getting angry whole the life, it is certain to go to hell on the other hand if you keep on showering affection to everybody every time, no one can prevent you enjoying your present time like the paradise. One whose present is hellish how he can go to any heaven.
If a mother-in-law curses her daughter-in-law, if any family member behaves ill way to any other relative of family, how is it possible for them to go to heaven after death? If you perform your deeds full of hellish activities and wish for heavenly pleasure, then how is it possible? We will have to behave heavenly in order to get heaven. It is necessary to sow the sweet seeds in order to get sweet fruits. I have heard from many of daughters-in-law that their father and mother-in-laws are like God. They are so amiable and affectionate that daughters-in-laws never think to get separated from themselves. To get a place in the heart of daughter-in-law, it is necessary to be a mother, not a mother-in-law. It is the time now to perform the role of father not a role of father-in-law. Like good father and mother-in-laws, there are also daughters-in-law, who behave like daughters not like daughters-in-law. Their behaviour and temperament is so respectable and sweet that they make us forget the remembrance of our own daughters. The unfamiliars remain surprised not to find out the reality whether they are daughters or daughters-in-law. They win every heart of their in-laws' by their sweet behaviour. It is the goodness of any relation. If we live together happily, we are able to survive well. If we keep on quarrelling whole the day with each-other, it is not a purposeful survival. I would feel sorry to say that there also live dogs in streets together but it is difficult for them to forecast when they would begin fighting with each-other.
I am a follower of a peaceful life. A life that is full of love and loving deeds, where everybody is affectionate and
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