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team reached to riot affected place. The people of that place were furious and their anger was at full swing. One of them spat on the face of S.P. seeing this, the Inspector took out his revolver and aimed at him. He was about to shoot him, the S.P. told him to stop and asked whether he had a handkerchief. The inspector replied positively and told that he had a handkerchief. The S.P. told the inspector to give him the handkerchief. When the S.P. got the handkerchief, wiped his face and threw it aside. He told the inspector never to use a revolver when it is possible to complete a work with a handkerchief.
It is the first and foremost formula to win over anger that the work which can be done with a polite and affectionate words why we should get angry for the completion of the same. You can get angry when there is no other option than to get angry. Scold your subordinates, sons, daughters, daughters-in-law, servants etc. when there is no other alternate of it.
Never dismiss your servant in anger even if you are compelled to leave him. He may be dangerous for you. You have dismissed him in anger from your house or shop; certainly he is also angry at your action. He can show his anger at you. He can make a fatal attack on you. Therefore, Be aware! Whenever you dismiss or discontinue any servant, do it in a polite way. Give him a reward and thank him at the time of his departure for his devoted services. Even if a brother has to be separated from his brother, or father has to be separated from his son, perform this task with such a polite way that after separation there remains no problem of meeting in future if required and mutual help can be given or taken at the time of requirement. If you get separated in anger, the ignored son and his wife will condemn you before others. The wisdom of any person is visible how he gets over the unfavourable circumstances.
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