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was alright but the family where guests are treated and served by the servants not by the host himself then what he should do to engage the girl who had not guided for doing hard work inspite of being depending on the servants. She would also follow the habits of her parents while treating the guests. He told him that there was no lack of prosperity at his home but he wanted that a daughter-in-law should serve and care the family with her own hands. He also told that when he goes to engage a girl, he examines the breedings of the girl first and then the prosperity. The manners and behaviour of the girl will depend on her family breedings. It is necessary for a girl to be accustomed of hard work.
Don't think of what complexion or colour of your face you have got. If it is fair, don't be proud. Black, dark or fair complexion is God gifted. You have no role in it. To colour the face is the duty of nature but to give way to the life, is duty of yours. You can not change the colour or complexion of your face but you can change the way of your living. Our former President Mr. Kalam is not of any fair complexion but he is a great scientist and pride of our country. The first President of America, Mr. Lincoln was of dark complexion. The face of the Greek Saint and Philosopher Mr. Socrates was full of spots of chicken pox, the great poet Malik Mohmmad Jaysi was also one eyed person, the famous film singer and musician Rajendra Jain is also blind, the famous composer of hymns Soordas whose psalms we keep on reciting lovingly was also blind. An ideal of all kinds of handicapped, Miss Hellen Keller was also deaf, dumb and blind. But no physical handicapness or shortcoming becomes an obstacle in the progress of any person. Make such shortcomings a source of your strength.
Remember, colour, complexion and beauty appeal us for a short time only. The rest important things are your values
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