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emergency fund safe in lock and keep the key of the safe with you. Your children may not serve you with the parental feeling but certainly they will serve you for the greed of money. It is well known that the heaven is there only with the blessings of parents. They are always ready to shower their blessings. I have seen the families which were earlier very poor but they became prosperous with the blessings of their parents. If wife is a result of your liking then parents are result of your virtues. Today we have ignored our virtues for the cause of our liking.
We never saw Him, But what need will there be of Him. O Mother! What different form will be of Him,
than the form of you. Perform your duties well for the sake of happiness of your family. Every member of the family should reciprocate respects and regards to each-other. Give so much loving treatment to your daughters-in-law that they forget even the telephone number of their parental house. All the members of family should care the feelings of one-another. If there is a proper understanding between the mother-inlaw and the daughter-in-law, the happiness will automatically appear in the family. I would like even to suggest you now to match the horoscopes of mother and daughter-in-law inspite of a boy and a girl for successful wedlock. The adjustment between both of them is very necessary. A lady should not become an enemy of the other lady because the males have ego whereas the ladies have jealousy. A lady should get rid of jealousy as well as a man should avoid ego. It will create happiness everywhere.
Once a lady came to me and began complaining against her daughter-in-law and told that she was very much puzzled due to the ignoring and aggressive behaviour of her daughter-in-law. She further added that even it was
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