________________
Don't feel if someone has misbehaved with you. He has no understanding of peace, no control over himself, therefore he misbehaved and used abusive language and mis conducted. Will any sensible person use abusive language to anyone? Abusing by someone means that he has no sufficient wisdom to use proper words. Abusing words, anger, and ego - all these are symbols of stupidity. The fool get angry while the wise win over the circumstances.
Make yourself positive. Negativity increases restlessness, jealousy and bad conduct together with anger and aggravation. On the other hand, positivity creates peace, politeness and prosperity. It makes us to behave properly with a vast amount of love and enables us to get over unfavourable situations. The first weapon to win the battle of life is positivity. Positivity is the solution of every problem. The whole life is an austere meditation for me. To live life under severe circumstances is more austere meditation. It is not lesser than meditation to honour the enemy, to welcome the critics, to return smile to the people who insulted us and to live in a balanced way even at loss. Therefore do not get angry at others' mistakes. Occurrence of mistakes is the first mistake but to get angry at the mistake is the second mistake. Will we be repeating the history of committing mistakes or sow the seeds of goodness and good deeds? .
Don't care much what the people will say. Don't become a doll of others' hands. This tendency will not let you survive happily. Use your own wisdom and perform that you think proper. The misguidance of people will push you into the state of quick in fix. Don't make yourself so misguided that you seem neither on the earth nor in the sky. You may have a look at the Moon and at the stars but keep your feet touched on the earth. Fix your eyes always at the Sun so that you might not see even your own reflection.
| 51
Jain Education International
For Personal & Private Use Only
www.jainelibrary.org
