Book Title: Second Edition
Author(s): Udayvallabhvijay
Publisher: Pragna Prabodh Parivar

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________________ therefore entrust their child to the maids. Often their grandmother also plays the role of a nanny. Some-times four or five such orphans are being looked after by someone as the entire friend-circle is busy at a party. Many parents bring home a wide variety of toys and games for the child, so that the child is so engrossed in them that he does not need to remember his parents at all. The banking system works on a fundamental principle :" You cannot withdraw unless you deposit". Those parents who invest time for their children will be able to get that much time from their children easily when they need. The rest will find it very difficult. Those children who have spent more time with maids and toys during the first 3 - 4 years of their lives, then went to a distant school for their education under a supervisor / guardian, have stayed at a hostel for acquiring their higher education would prefer to stay at a distance from their parents. These children when they are grown-up, find the smallest of instructions from their parents to be a big interference. Some-times when the child comes late or is sad and is inquired about the same by his parents, he immediately comes with a repartee : "Do you know how we have grown-up in these years ? Now it is of no need for you to question. We will manage our problems." And on the other hand the parents feel that : “My son has become very impudent. We did so much for him and he back answers like this ?” A child who has been raised through such a distant learning program will not even prefer to have dinner with his father on the same table. If there is no facility for a separate table, then he will change his time. Despite working in the ma Second Edition

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