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a small child ?" and if a small child falls down while running, he gets two slaps and is also reprimanded thus : "don't you have any common-sense? Why are you running around like this for nothing ?" Before scolding or hitting children, you should take into account their age.
After getting upset with the child or hitting him, the mother's conscience often pricks her. Very often she mentally vows, but suddenly loses her balance and hits her child again and repents again. If such parents understand child psychology, their vows will become meaningful and it shall become more easy to materialise the vows.
After getting angry with the child in haste, they are heard uttering the following in self-defense :" we also have our own limitations! If they don't understand we are bound to lose our temper!” Instead of explaining their limitations to others, they should calmly understand the child's limitations :
Children cannot contain their emotions.
The intellect of elders works more than their heart. Whereas children's heart is more active than their intellect. Hence before implementing their emotions or thoughts, it is natural that they do not think more.
Although he feels like crying, an elderly person may contain his tears in the presence of outsiders. Due to the presence of guests, often you may be angry with the member of a house, but remain calm for some time. Though he feels like playing, a high school student will contain his desire to play, keeping his exam in mind.
Small kids have their limitations. If he feels like crying, he will immediately start crying. If he is denied something, he
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