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unhappy with his haste and thoughtlessness and was very penitent with his own bad behavior. "I am very sorry!" he apologized and hugged his daughter. Tragedy further overtook them when the loving daughter was killed in an accident a few months later. The father was left with only two things. A life full of repentance and a box filled with love! Now the father would always keep that box next to his pillow while going off to bed.
Read this example twice and then see if you can ever raise your hand on your child. There is a difference between beating and breathing a child.
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BE SITUATIONAL, NOT SENSATIONAL
When children are at their worst and seem to give you the most griet, they are absolutely the most difficult ever to handle, you feel like screaming or giving up and the hardest to ever love at. That point, is exactly when children need your warmth very most.
The most effective way to respond them who least deserve love is to give them exactly what they need the most. That's your unconditional warmth. Love and praying for them when you feel it is the most impossible to do so is the very time they need it the most.
It's like they are screaming out in their souls I'm hurting...I'm confused about life and I can't handle all of this that is called life. So I will take it out on you, the Parent. Be Patient, handle with care and excell your situtational quality.
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