Brahamacharya Celibacy with Understanding

Author(s): Dada Bhagwan
Publisher: Dada Bhagwan Foundation

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Celibacy
Celibacy
husband has died even then she does not give in to another man. No matter what the other man is, even if God himself comes down as a man, she will still say no, "I have a husband, he is my Lord". This is called a sati. Can any one be considered a sati these days? It is not always like this, is it? Times are different now days aren't they? In Satyug times there were some satis.
the blemishes of sexual misconduct of this life remain and therefore you have to attain liberation by becoming a man again in the next life. Everything ends right here when one becomes a sati. All the women who become satis attained liberation directly. Can you understand this a little? You will have to become a sati, pure, to attain moksha. Otherwise you will have to come back as a man.
Questioner : Yes. Therefore it is not a fact that a woman would remain as a woman for a long time in multiple lives. But because the women do not know this knowledge they do not find solution for it.
This is for one who wishes to be a sati. This way they can one day become a sati. Today, do you know that sex is being sold at the price of bangles? Do you not understand what I am saying?
Questioner : Yes, it is being sold at the price of bangles.
Dadashri : At which market? In colleges? At what price is it being sold? Sex is sold at the price of gold. Some is sold at the price of diamonds. Not everywhere. Some do not even accept gold. No matter what you offer them, they will not accept it. But other women sell sex these days, if not at the price of gold then at some other price.
A sati is a chaste woman. Sati is a woman who has one husband. Through mind, body and speech other man does not attract her. One may not be a sati to begin with, but she too can become a sati, even if she has been corrupted by sex before, from the moment she makes a firm decision to be so.
Dadashri : If they find solution then women are actually men. These poor women do not understand this tuber of sexuality and deceit within them is part of their nature. They derive pleasure from it. And they remain stuck in sexuality. No one knows the subtle way out and no one shows the way out. Only the satis know it. Apart from her husband, she never thinks of anyone else. If her husband dies suddenly or goes away, even then she would not. To her, he is the only husband. All the deceit of these satis dissolves.
People suspect their daughters who are just going out to school. They even suspect their own wives. These types of treacheries exist. Isn't there treachery even in the homes today? In this kaliyug there is treachery in one's own home. Kaliyug means the time of treachery. There is nothing but deceit and treachery. For what gratification do they do all this? Even that is senseless and done in gross unawareness.
Questioner : Will the deceit begin to dissolve as that chastity and the resolve for it is preserved?
Dadashri : Once the chastity through thoughts, speech and acts begins, the deceit begins to leave. You do not have to do anything. Those traditional satis were so from birth. They did not have a blemish as far as sex was concerned. And, for you
Questioner : What adjustments does one have to make where tubers of suspicion have already been formed in one's mind?