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wealth, if you want a taste of her sex. Why don't you wise up for this one life? Why are you doing all this? You have done this for endless lives. Why not behave for this one life? There is no other choice if you want true bliss. Does a snake straighten up or remain crooked when entering its burrow?
Questioner : It straightens first. I understood only today that it is wrong to have a woman other than my wife. Until now, I did not see anything wrong in this.
Dadashri : Nobody, in any of your past lives, has made you experience that this is wrong, otherwise who would fall into this hell? This brings on hell.
After acquiring this Akram Vignan of ours, if you repent heartily then all such serious errors of your past would be destroyed. With true repentance even those who have not received this Gnan, will be freed, but not completely. For you, who have received this Gnan, if you continuously repent heavily, over all elements of sexuality, then you will be free from all your errors and their future consequences. added
Questioner: Recently, you spoke about man becoming a source of encouragement for a woman perpetuating her deciet, in matters of sex. The advances of the man deceive the woman. In our worldly dealings, if I am at all responsible for worsening her original deceit that is part of her nature as a woman, please do a vidhi (special blessing) for me so that I may be freed from this responsibility.
Dadashri : Yes, I will do the vidhi for you. Men are responsible for increase in deceitfulness of women. Many men are unaware of their responsibility in this. Even while he is following my Agnas in every way, what does he tell the woman when trying to enjoy her sexually? He would tell her that there
is nothing wrong in what they are doing. So the poor woman gives in and succumbs. She does not want to have sex and wasn't going to do so. Yet her prakruti, her nature as a woman is such that it is difficult for her to rise above sex, so she becomes excited at that time. But who is responsible for this result? The man is.
All these women have slipped into womanhood; become women, because of this. If someone says something sweet to her, she surrenders to him. This is very subtle. This is difficult to comprehend.
It is only because of sex that one has become a woman. Man has perpetuated the state of the woman in order to enjoy sex. He encourages her, showers compliments on her and thus corrupts her. Even when she may not have any beauty or charm, she believes she has. What makes her believe so? She has been brainwashed by men, into believing, "What is wrong in it?' She has not believed that on her own. Man has always told her, "You are very beautiful, there is no other woman like you' and she believes it. Man has kept a woman as a woman, in their womanhood, life after life by this falsehood for his own pleasure. And the woman believes that she is making a fool of the man. A man enjoys her and moves on. You do not seem to understand much, do you? May be a little?
Questioner : I can understand it completely. So far I had the understanding that, men were free from any faults in the matters of sex. But from today's talk, I realize that men become very responsible in this way.
Dadashri : Only men are. To keep a woman as a woman is a man's doing.
Whatever happens, if the husband is not there, if the
