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How to Dissolve Challenges
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5 - Being Attractive
Challenge: To be attractive to others
To have an attractive body To be accepted To avoid ugliness and lack of appeal - now and as we get older -
Range:
Stage 1 to 13
What impression we give others has little to do with cosmetics, clothing, hairstyle, accessories, fluency of expression or the kind of car we drive.
Our current appeal - or lack of it - is the visual and tactile mirror of all our desires, dreads, ideals, attitudes and also of the energy we use to project them into action.
Our physical body - its radiance, dynamism, abilities, potential and strengths - is essentially formed by how we think, feel, act and speak right now, which - in a nutshell - also mirrors everything we ever did before.
Attempts to camouflage embarrassing traits or previous conduct only deceive the simplest of our fellow people. Even the intention to hide something invariably shows up in our facial
