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d. PAHATH - Grapes - Soft outside as well as inside 2. "this is mine" attitude , Close attachment & belonging bother human being, finally everything
would remain here when one dies. 3. Keep cool & calm. Wrong judgment could be possible in excitement, so keep calm. 4. King Ravan could do following
a. He could have brought fragrance in gold b. Fire without smoke C. Ladder from earth to heaven
d. Road within ocean 5. Teaching
a. Do not make decision while you are angry b. Consult elder people if you are going to do wrongful deed C. Do not postpone good assignment on tomorrow, do it now.
1.4..2 Discussion_Monk-2 Dated 14 Aug 2016 Listening to speech of Jain monk (Shamaji m.s. at Amalner) Sub - Anger 1. To make a curd you need boiled milk however can use only if allowed it to cool. Similarly you
need to keep head cool. 2. Life is similar to a Tennis match
a. Service well b. Reply well C. Play cool and
d. Start with a prayer 3. We have an international illness and everyone is suffering rich, poor, child, old man, student,
teacher, spouse, in-laws, parents, employee, employer, etc and that is "anger" 4. Few examples of anger
a. Communication between Son-in-law and mother-in-law, wanting to take his wife back.
Issue was pity, on the same day or next day! Son-in-law saying I will not see her face if not sent her today, whereas mother-in-law says, her son-in-law does not exist for her!
Son-in-law does a suicide, daughter becomes widow forever! b. A son was trying to clean a costly car and let house flies fly using stick. Father
misunderstands and thought he is damaging his costly car, and hits him with the stick. Son loses his hands, gets into coma. After treatment asks him how would he eat, or play
with the friends, or go to school. Finally does the suicide. 5. There are two types of wife.
a. First waits in the morning when earliest would her husband starts for the office? b. And second type of wife waits evening when would her husband return from the office
earliest? Which type of wife do you have?
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