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1.4..5 Thought shared by monk-25 Dec Pilot has to assure three points while flying airplane Clean sky, Straightness (no disturbance), and Broadness of the sky! Similarly human being should maintain these three points while living - clean mind, straightfordness (simplicity) and broad heart! How can mind/ soul remains clean during the time of struggle of survival? There is a dust of nervousness around! How do one rise in the life? One has to learn ignoring small things and learn to forget & forgive! Children while playing using stones do fight over ownership of those however they throw the stones, forget about ownership issue and their fight once mom calls them for lunch! They think simpler way than grown up guys. What we learn is
• Not to hold the grudges! • Do not spoil anyone's life • Do not shout disturb anyone!
Do not get disturbed by anyone! You might have body of age 55 but let your mind remain in childhood (simple, honest & nonmanipulative) Phase of Life is like mango, when small it remains bitter, when it grows further becomes sour and later becomes sweet. At least try to be like mango. You might be bitter & sour during your early age however during old age, try to be sweet! Whenever someone gets angry, maturity level reduces at that point and one tends to do non-sensible things. Do not decide or act when you are angry! Try to change our mentality. Give up ego else fire keeps on spreading!
1.5.1 Social Networking Content Few of following thoughts have not been penned down himself; Author is just a compiler Courtsy: Unknown authors who penned such beautiful thoughts Believes
• Acknowledgement is the first step towards improvements • Rational has to get followed, Everyone is rational
. You get what you deserve, money follows, it has to follow. Behavior Wonderful technique for articulating communication in difficult situation - BFIR -
Behavior - Feeling - Impact - Request Speak about behavior which you did not like, convey feeling and impact, and then request for correction going forward! Suspect your own judgement always, recheck..assumption you made might be wrong! #Irritation - u call a guy, its engaged or u get no reply, a guy did not call u back again... Highly irritating particularly if u worked with Japanese people..:( .. When would Indians learn good habits, disciplined life style, common behavior ways? People blame to us & advise to learn meditation to have better patience! The value of person depends upon skills attained, money earned, assets build, good deeds executed, relations maintained, love spread, behavior exhibited!
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