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went on seeing through the Gnan, and He remained untouched from all effects.
Questioner: How can one remain unaffected?
Dadashri: All the bhaavako are inside you. When you yourself (self) become bhaavya, you will have bhaav, and so you become trapped. You are Parmatma (Supreme Soul). So 'know' the inner intent. And if You remain the Knower-Seer (Gnata-Drashta) of the inner intent (bhaav), You will not get trapped. If there were no bhaavak, then you are truly the Parmatma. Who is this bhaavak? It is the mistakes from the past life that are the bhaavak, and the seeds are sown because of them. When the bhaavak and bhaavya become one, the seed drops into the yoni (a seed gets planted). And from that, the worldly life (sansar) emerges. If the bhaavak and bhaavya do not become one, if You remain 'strong'; You do not become bhaavya, then although the 'discharge' karmas come into fruition, they will dissipate (discharge) without creating any new bondage.
When I give you this Gnan, I place a ‘chetak' (vigilant one who alerts) within you. All you have to do is to make ‘him' strong. "There is joy in sex." - This is where you will need help from the chetak. Surrendering to sexuality (vishay) should be like something is being forced upon you by threats from a policeman. That is how strong this chetak should become. Only then he will stand up to that bhaavako. Otherwise the chetak will become weak. This 'k' (of sexuality) is very strong and oppressive.
Chetak will caution You against the obstacles in the worldly life (sansar). After attaining the knowledge of the Self, new "stations" of alochana, pratikraman and chetak, etc., are established and the generations of the families of the 'k's will automatically begin to leave.