Life as I have Seen It

Author(s): Urmila S Dholakia
Publisher: Urmila S Dholakia

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=Life - As I've seen it
mistake before making any decisions in future. It became very clear to me that since these students have put full faith in me, I should find out a compromise solution for all future incidents after. openly discussing the matter with all concerned. This will foster and strengthen confidence of both the parties. They would quietly listen to whatever guidance I may give. This would solve any problem amicably. I clearly felt that this is the missing link in "relationship" between youths and elders (these days). Ego also plays its role.
Today when I introspect about incidents of 25 years of my hostel life, I olearly see that the lesson I learned from first incident has taught me how to avoid the mistake-trap. This understanding has always kept me aware and awake to ensure that no injustice is done to any of the thousands girls. The girls on their part were also trying to act truthfully.
Thus, my life's journey with young girls became blissful forever. Date: 19.08.2013
Translation by Shree Harindra Vasavada
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