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Anger
Anger
punyas (positive karma), because he is thinking about the welfare of his children. Anger is accompanied by the ego. When you get annoyed, do you feel bad from within?
the answer to this. They do not know who the 'knower' is. This is what one needs to discover. If one can find the *knower', then all the weaknesses will go. It can only be called true knowledge, when all the weaknesses are destroyed.
There are two kinds of krodh, maan, maaya and lobh (anger, pride, attachment and greed).
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One kind you can divert - nivarya. If you get angry with someone then from within you divert that anger and calm it down. If one were able to reach this stage, his worldly interactions would become very pleasant.
The other kind of anger is one that cannot be diverted - anivarya. One tries very hard but from within the explosion still occurs. Such anger is anivarya. This anger injures the person himself as well as others.
God has allowed a certain level of anger for the sadhus (sages, monks) so that they may uphold the austerity of their conduct, as long as it does not hurt anyone. My anger can hurt only me and not anyone else. That much anger has been permitted.
Questioner: I still become angry even though I know that it is wrong to become angry. What is the solution?
Dadashri : Who is it that knows? If you had the real knowledge just once, there would be no anger. But because you still become angry, it means that you do not know. There is ego in your saying that you know.
Questioner : After getting angry I realize that I should not get angry.
Dadashri : No, but after you know who the knower is, there would be no anger. Let us say, there are two identical bottles standing side by side and you are told that one has medicine in it and the other has poison in it. Now if you mistake one for the other, then you can conclude that you did not know. If you do not mistake the one for the other, then one can say that you do know. This would apply to anger as well. The reason you become angry is because you do not know. You are merely going around with ego when you say that you know. In darkness you are likely to bump into things, but when there is light and you can see clearly, you will not have any accidents. When we confuse the darkness with light, it is our own mistake. So come and sit in the Satsang with me and acquire the real knowledge. Then only will anger, pride, attachment and greed go away.
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Questioner: We all know that anger is bad, but still...
Dadashri : It is like this: The one, who is angry, is not aware of the anger. The one, who is greedy, is not aware of his greed and the one who is arrogant is not aware of his pride. The 'knower' is completely separate from all these weaknesses. All these people feel that although they are aware of their weakness, then why do the weaknesses still occur?
Now, who is it that says 'I know'? They do not know
