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THE BIRTH OF A BEAUTIFUL HOME
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The pattern of surging emotions and thoughts in each individual undergoes a continuous change, which makes it difficult to keep intact the union of two persons. The ‘all or none' approach has brought us to the brink of total annihilation; hence the concept that there is no single absolute interpretation of 'truth' and that a non-absolutist approach in thought, word and deed is the only way before us. Believing in pluralism--the existence of many perceptions about the same reality-and being open to discussions and arguments about different viewpoints provides a strong ground to hold different people together without conflict. Only a person with awareness about the validity of multiple views and opinions can accept others without grudge and remorse. Surely, a shared vision and an open attitude is needed to make familial or social life healthy and beautiful. The application of the philosophy of non-absolutism can fulfil this need.
AUTONOMY The first principle of the philosophy of non-absolutism is freedom. Here, freedom does not mean merely a nation's independence or political freedom, but the autonomy of upholding one's choices while being intimately connected with every individual and without violating interpersonal relations. If you give value to your own freedom as well as that of others, then you already possess a building block of the vast mansion that is a happy family.
Know that every individual likes freedom. If you like freedom, can you not relinquish the mentality of enslaving others? For a congenial family life, it is imperative that there is an agreement between husband and wife, father and son, and brothers and sisters regarding the extent of freedom each should enjoy.
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