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The collection of yogic perspectives is presented. In the entire world, the love between men and women is considered primary. Among them, the love of a woman for a man is considered even more primary. And among that, the love of a devoted wife for her husband is considered primary even within the primary. Why is this love considered primary within the primary? The one who has strongly presented the principle, the proponent of the principle, says that we consider this love primary within the primary because even while doing all other household (and other) tasks, the mind of that devoted woman remains absorbed in her husband, with love, remembrance, attention, and desire. But the proponent of the principle says that the cause of this love is worldly, and here we are talking about making it non-worldly, therefore this love is absorbed, loving, remembering, attentive, and desiring.
Where it is appropriate, where this love attains non-worldly results, we say that. This love, the same way that a seeker who is devoted to their husband, should act towards the teachings, etc., of the knowledgeable one, which are in the form of listening; and the way that the being acts towards them, then we know that the being is situated in the perspective of "kanta," which is related to the same kind of love.
There are two such words that are complete in this sense. Those words are the primary of devotion. x x x By acting in the state of the primary of devotion, the defects of the being, such as attachment, etc., easily dissolve, this is the primary intention of the knowledgeable person. Even a small amount of selfless devotion that arises in a being, even that is suitable for removing defects. Such knowledge or the state of the primary of knowledge is attained towards the non-suitable meaning, towards the defects of attachment, etc., or towards the change related to the object. This happens a lot. Even in this time, it is considered appropriate to worship the state of the primary of devotion for a long time, even for a lifetime, this is the decision that the knowledgeable ones have made. (We think so, and it is so.) – Shrimad Rajchandra, Letter 320 (394)
Furthermore, "Even if the mind holds firm, the one who has attained knowledge," on this word, they, Shrimad Rajchandraji, shed light, doing a further, extremely profound, and insightful analysis:
The one who has attained knowledge without distraction, the one who is a seeker of self-welfare, the one who has heard from the mouth of the knowledgeable one, the one who holds firm in their mind the self-welfare-like dharma, this is the word for the above states. In order to establish this principle in the results of the being, the author knows that a suitable example is needed, so in the world, in the world, the love that a woman has for a man, which is free from the feelings of attachment, etc., is the primary love...