Sasural Jate Samay Putriko Mataka Updesh

Author(s): Dipchand Varni
Publisher: Digambar Jain Pustakalay
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/032878/1

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// zrI mahAvIrAya nmH|| isa putrIko samaya sasarAla jAtra mAtAkA upadeza --: anuvAda va sampAdaka :-- sva. dharmaratna paM. dIpacaMdajI varNI narasiMhapura nivAsI -: prakAzaka:zaileza DAhyAbhAI kApaDiyA digambara jaina pustakAlaya, gAMdhIcauka, sUrata-3. TAIpa seTIMga evaM oNphaseTa prinTIMga jaina vijaya lesara prinTsa khapATiyA cakalA, gAMdhIcauka, sUrata-3. Te. naM. 427621 mUlya : rU -00 - -

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ladhu vidyAnuvAda (yaMtra, maMtra, taMtra sahita sacitra) yaMtra, maMtra, vidyAkA ekamAtra saMdarbha graMtha A. gaNadhara kunthusAgarajI mahArAja va A. vijayamatImAtAjI dvArA saMgrahIta pRSTha 725 pAMca khaMDomeM mantra sAdhanA karaneke Asrava vidhAna va mudrAoMkI citra sahita batAyA gayA hai| graMthameM aneka kaSTa nivAraNa hetu yaMtra, maMtra va taMtra citroM sahita diye gaye hai, isake alAvA 48 raMgIna kalarameM yakSa yakSiNiyoMke va 16 vidyAdeviyoMke citra bhI diye hai| mU. 400) rupye| - bhairava padmAvatI kalpa (yaMtra, maMtra, taMtra sahita sacitra) A. kunthusAgarajI mahArAja dvArA saMgrahIta yaMtra maMtra taMtrakA mahAna graMtha yaha mahAna graMtha zAstra bhavya jIvoMke lie, saMsArameM bhramaNa karate hue Adhi vyAdhi rogoMke saMkaTase zAMti prApta karAneMmeM tathA mithyAtvase bacAne meM kAryavAhI siddha hogaa| mUlya -200) rupye| tAbeM va kAMseke yaMtra RSimaNDala yaMtra 8" x 8" IMca RSimaNDala 6" x 6" RSimaNDala yaMtra 4" x 4" siddhacakra yaMtra 4" x 4" dazalakSaNa yaMtra 4" kalikuNDa yaMtra kAMsekA 7" x 7" kalikuNDa yaMtra kAMsepara vinAyaka yaMtra 4" x 4" navagraha yaMtra 4" x mAtRkAyaMtra __ 4" x 4" nandIzvara yaMtra 4" x 4" ratnatraya yaMtra 4" x 4" causaTha Rddhi yaMtra 8' x 8" solahakAraNa yaMtra 4" vijaya yaMtra va RddhivRddhi yaMtra 2" x 2" paMcaraMgA jaina jhaNDA 63" x 50" tAMbekA kaDA (paTTI) jisapara NamokAra maMtra likhA hai| lakSmI yaMtra " x 2 mA yatra navrata 4" x 4" liya, lakSmI sUrata-3. w9 k "

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punIko mAtAkA updesh| RROR sanmati pada sanmati kAraNa, vandU zIla nmaay| jA prasAda zikSA likhU, putrinako sukhdaay||1|| (1) byAhA honepara prathama bAra jaba putrIko apane pitAke gharase sasurAlameM jAnekA samaya AyA, arthAt vidAkA samaya huA taba mAtAne putrIko sampUrNa vastrAbharaNa pahirAkara mastakameM rolIkA tilaka lagAyA aura navIna phala zrIphalAdi olImeM dekara kahA-beTI! apane hAtha paira AdikA sampUrNa AbhUSaNa samhAlo aura sukhapUrvaka jaao| (2) mAtAke ye vacana sunakara putrI lajjAsahita nIcA zira karake bolI-"he mAtA! maiM jAtI hU~ merI yAda mata bhuulnaa|" itanA hI kahane pAI thI ki usakA galA bhara AyA aura AMkhoMse TapaTapa AMsU Tapakane lge| vaha isase Age aura kucha bhI nahIM kaha sakI, kiMtu manda svarase mAtA pitAdi svajanoMke premase adhIra hokara rone lgii| ThIka hai, jisa mAtApitAdikI godameM lAlana pAlana pAkara vaha itanI bar3I huI hai, unase ekAeka prema chUTa jAnA sahaja nahIM hai| aura mAtA jisane nava mAsa taka garbha meM dhAraNa karake janma diyA aura tabase aMcalakA dugdhapAna karAkara abataka aneka prakArase

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2] sasurAla jAte samaya wCRECIRCROCEROCHROCHOCHOCHECREECSECREECRECOR lAlana pAlana kiyA hai usakA va pitAdi janoMkA bhI prema putrIse kyA ekadama chUTa sakatA hai? nahIM2, paraMtu yaha anAdikI prathA hai ki putrase apanA aura putrIse parAyA vaMza calatA hai| arthAt putrI paragharake liye hI huI hai, isameM harSa viSAda hI kyA karanA cAhiye? yaha vicAra kara mAtA putrIke mastakapara hAtha rakhakara premAzru TapakAtI aura apane aMcalake chorase putrIke AMsU poMchatI huI madhura gadgad svarase bolI (3-4) "merI pyArI beTI! tU apane manameM kiMcit bhI kheda mata kara aura harSita hokara jaa| aba vilamba mata kara, maiM tujhe zIghra hI rakSAbaMdhanake pavitra parva para bulA luuNgii| uTha! AMsU poMcha manameM kucha bhI ciMtA mata kr| terI sAsUjI bahuta sarala svabhAvavAlI dayAlu aura sAdhvI strI haiN| saMsArameM unake samAna viralI hI striyAM hoNgii| tujhe tere saubhAgyase hI aisI sAsU milI hai," aisA kahatI huI mAtA mAnoM harSase phUlI nahIM samAtI thI, bolI-beTI! vijayAlakSmI! tU bhAgyavAna haiM jA, aura jisa prakAra terI bhakti tathA prema mere upara hai usI prakAra apanI sAsUmeM bhakti tathA prema rakhanA aura unhIMko mAtA samajhakara sadA vinayapUrvaka unakI sevA suzruSA va AjJA pAlana karate rhnaa| (5) beTI! maiMne tujhe janma diyA hai aura tabase abataka lAlana pAlana kiyA hai, isaliye abataka maiM terI mAtA thI, paraMtu abase jIvanaparyaMta terI mAtA to sAsUjI hI haiN| Ajase tere liye jo kucha bhI sukha Adi honahAra hai usa sabakA bhAra terI sAsUjI para hI hai| ve hI aba terI saccI mAtA haiM, aisA samajhakara aba tU hama samasta janoMkA viyogajanita duHkha bhUla jaa|

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza &CREECREACHECREECRECTROCIEOCREACHECREOCHROCEXS (6) beTI! yadyapi Ajakala lokameM prAyaH burI kahAvata cala rahI hai ki-sAsUeM bahuoMko satAnevAle durbuddhinI aura kaThina vacana kahanevAlI karkazA hotI hai| paraMtu vaha bAta sarvathA kalpita (mithyA) hai kyoMki jo puruSa strI apane putroMkA, vaMzakI rakSA va sukhavRddhike artha vivAha karatA hai, so bhalA vaha apanI putravadhUoMko kaise duHkhI karegA? kadApi nhiiN| isIliye tU bhI apane antaHkaraNako aisIra ghRNita bAtoMse malina mata hone denaa| (7) beTI! smaraNa rakha ki mIThe, namra aura vinayayukta vacana bolanese pratyuttara bhI mIThe namra vacanoMmeM hI milatA haiN| aura kaDuve-kaThora vacanokA uttara kaDuve va kaThora vacanoMmeM arthAt apaneko apanI pratidhvanI (jhAMI-ECHO) sunAI par3atI hai| isaliye jo tU vahAM (sasurAlameM) jAkara vinaya viveka hitamita priyavAdise vartAva karegI to terI sampUrNa manokAmanAyeM pUrNa hogI aura jo dUsaroMkA dila dukhAyegI to usake badale tujhe bhI tiraskAra sahanA pdd'egaa| (8) beTI! sasurAlameM jAkara apane kulakI lAja (maryAdA) se rhnaa| aura jo tere kartavya hoM, unheM bhale prakAra pUrA krnaa| sabase hila milakara rhnaa| yaha de do, vaha lAdo, amUka vastu Aja hI lUMgI, vA abhI lUMgI, zIghra maMgA do, ityAdi kabhI bhI kisI prakArakA kucha haTha mata karanA, aura na kabhI apane gharakI koI bAta bAhara kisIse khnaa| kahA bhI hai tulasI para ghara jAyakara, dukha na kahiye roy| nAhaka bharama gamAyake, duHkha na bAMTe koy|| kyoMki isase apane gharakA bheda (bharama) khula jAtA hai, aura gharameM kalaha bar3hatA hai, jisase apanA citta sadaiva vyAkula rahatA hai

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4] sasurAla jAte samaya CHECRECHECREOCHROCHEXSECREECTROSCIENCSEEXICS aura logoMmeM haMsI hotI hai| bhojanake samaya jo kucha bhakSya vastu terI thAlImeM parosI jAya use hI rucipUrvaka grahaNa karanA (jIma lenA) kabhI koI vastu kisIse chipAkara nahIM khAnA, kyoMki aisA karanese AcAra va dharma bigaDatA hai aura gharameM paripUrNatA nahIM hotii| (9) beTI! sabere sabase pahale uThanA aura rAtriko sabake pIche soyA krnaa| gharake bAsana-bartana sadaiva mAMjakara sApha camakate hue sukhAkara rakhanA, nitya cUlheMkI rAkha nikAlakara cUlhA aura caukA miTTIse potanA ki jisase jhUThana na rahane pAve aura jIva jaMtu utpanna na ho paave| gharako jhAr3a buhAra kara sadA svaccha rakhanA, gharake kisI kAmameM kabhI Alasya nahIM karanA aura na kabhI gharakA kAma pUrA hue binA nahIM bAhara jaanaa| niSprayojana gharoM ghara DolanA acchA kahIM hotA hai, isalie jaba gharake dhandese avakAza mile to dharma va nItike uttama graMtha aura prAcIna satI mahilA jaise-sItA, draupadI, aMjanA, rAjula, menA, manoramA Adike caritroMko par3hane meM samaya bitAnA jisase samaya nikala jAve, va manoraMjana ho AtmAke bhAva bhI pavitra hoveN| kriyAkoSa, ralakaraNDa zrAvakAcAra, dravyasaMgraha, arthaprakAzikA, mokSamArga prakAzaka AdikA svAdhyAya karate rahanA tathA nitya prati sote jAgate samaya paMcaparameSThikA smaraNa kiyA karanA, jisase sarva kArya nirvighnatA pUrvaka hove va sadaiva citta bhI prasanna rhe| . (10) beTI! gharake saba kAma harSapUrvaka kiyA karanA kyoMki kahA hai : apane kArajake liye, kharacata haiM saba daam| jagata kahAvata hai bhalI, kAma bhalo nahIM caam||

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza CHOREOSECRECTOOSEXSECREDCREEXSEOCOREOCROR sasurAlake baccoMke yadI ve sonA cAheM to bhale prakAra ur3haunA bichaunA karake sulaanaa| unako sulAte, jhUlanA jhulAte athavA thapathapAte samaya acche acche bAlakopayogI gIta gAyA krnaa| yadi ve jAgate hoM, to unheM bahalAneke liye gharake khela khilaune va anya vastuyeM jinase ki baccoMko uttama zikSA mila sake dikhAnA, paraMtu kabhI bhI baccoMko bhUta pretAdika jhUThA bhaya dikhAkara mata DarAnA, kyoMki isase bacce Darapoka aura kAyara bana jAte haiN| (11-12) yaha baccA hamezA rotA hI rahatA hai yaha bar3A daMgA karanevAlA laDAkU hai, isakI nAkameMse lITa bahatI hai AMkhoMmeM kIcar3a bharA hai, bAra2 cauMka uThatA hai, isake mAthemeM khAr3A hai, yaha godameM nahIM AtA, yaha jora jorase cillAtA hai| ityAdi kaThina aura ghRNita zabda kisI bacceko na khnaa| na kabhI kisI bacceko vyartha dhamakAnA, na mAranA, na usa para cillAnA, kintu mIThe mIThe zabdoMse samajhAkara usakA haTha chuddaanaa| kyoMki premase bacce to kyA deva manuSya, pazu, pakSI Adi sabhI vaza ho jAte haiN| kahA bhI haiM : miSTa vacana haiM auSadhI, kaTuka vacana haiM tiir| zravaNa dvArA ho saMcare, sAle sakala shriir| (13) isaliye nimna prakArase kArya krnaa| suna! apanA sthAna, bhojana, vastra, AbhUSaNa, svazarIra aura bacce ye maile rahanese lokameM niMdA hotI hai, aura aneka prakArake roga bhI Akara ghera lete haiM, kyoMki svacchatA ArogyatAkI jananI hai| bhojanake padArtha bahuta sAvadhAnIse zodha bInakara taiyAra karanA, kyoMki bhojanake padArthomeM bahutase kIr3I, makor3I Adi jIva car3ha jAte haiM, athavA

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sasurAla jAte samaya EXSEOCEROSCOREOCOSEXMORCHESTROTECHKOSHOCTOR laTa (sunDI, illI) Adi jIva utpanna ho jAte haiM, so vinA zodhe bhojana banAnemeM eka to ima bicAre avAk jIvoMkI hiMsA hotI hai dUrase ina jIvoMkA kalevara tathA viSaile malAdika padArtha peTameM pahuMcakara rogAdi paidA karake bahuta hAnI pahuMcAte hai, aura kabhI to inake prANoM taka ghAtakA ho jAtA hai| (14) beTI! prAtaHkAla uThakara prathama hI gharako jhAr3a buhAra tathA lIpa potakara sAmaneke mArgameM svastika (sAthiyAM) nikAlanA, kyoMki yaha dvijo (brAhmaNa, kSatrIya, vaizya Adi uttama varNoM) ke gharoMkA cihna hai| yaha cihna aise sthAnameM banAyA jAya jisase sarvasAdhAraNa logoke dRSTigocara hotA rahe aura jise dekhakara muni Adi satpAtra bhikSAke liye bhI A ske| (15) gRha-caityAlayakI samhAla bhale prakAra rakhanA aura nitya tInoM samaya avakAzAnusAra zrI arhatadevakI mUrtikA darzana, stuti, pUjana va vaMdana Adi bhakti karanA aura svapnameM bhI kabhI anya rAgI dveSI kudevoMkI ArAdhanA nahIM krnaa| kyoMki inake (kudevoMke) ArAdhanase laukika kAryakI to siddhi hotI hI nahIM aura phalasvarUpa paralokameM janma-maraNAdi aneka duHkha bhogane par3ate haiN| (16) beTI! apane mAtheke bAla bikhare mata karanA kiMtu isa prakAra gUMthakara bAMdhanA ki jisase ve TUTakara idhara udhara bhojanAdi padArthomeM na par3e aura terI gaNanA ucca kulAMganAoMmeM kI jaave| apane patimeM zraddhA rakhakara nitya prAtaHkAla snAnAMtara kara mAthemeM kumakumakI TIkI krnaa| yaha saubhAgyavatI striyoMkA

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[7 putrIko mAtAkA upadeza ECTOCHROCHROXOSECRECTROCIRCOTECREOCHROCROCIEOS cihna hai| prAyaH striyAM lalATameM kevala moDala va anya vastuoM kI banI huI TikalI rAlase cipakA letI haiM sau yaha kevala unakA pramAda hai| TIkA kumakuma (rolI) kA hI mAMgalIka mAnA gayA hai| yadi gharameM phulavADI ho aura vaha phUle, to sAMjha samaya phUle huve phUla bInakara unakA hAra Adi bhI gUMtha liyA karanA, aura jhADake nIce zuddha vastra isa prakAra bAMdha diyA karanA ki jisase rAtriko khilakara jhaDanevAle phUla pRthvI para na paDane pAveM, kyoMki isI prakArake pRthvI para na gire huve zuddha prAzuka va jIvAdise rahita phUla hI zrIjIkI pUjAmeM kAma A sakate haiN| (17) beTI! tU saba vastrAbhUSaNa ucca kuMlAMgaNAMoMke anusAra hI pahinanA, ki jisase donoM kulakI lAja rhe| Ajakala prAyaH navIna sabhyatAvAlI uddaNDe striyAM nakalI (gilaTa va mulammevAlA) jevara azuddha rabara, kacakaDA va lAkha AdikI cUr3iyA challA aura mahIna videzI yA rezamake apavitra ( patale jhirajhire) kapar3e pahina kara rahatI va bAhara AtI jAtI haiM, jisase unakA sArA zarIra dikha par3atA hai, jo ki unake pavitra zIlarUpI bhUSaNake liye bar3A bhArI dUSaNa hai| sarvottama aura zuddha vastra khAdIkA hI hotA hai| use icchAnusAra svadezI zuddha raMgoMmeM raMgA jA sakatA hai| yaha yAda rahe ki videzI vastroMke raMganemeM khUna carbIkA upayoga hotA hai, isaliye videza kapaDoMse moha kabhI mata krnaa| (18) beTI! tU bahuta AbhUSaNa bhI pahinanekI tRSNA mata karanA kiMtu sadaiva sadguNarUpI bhUSaNoMse apane Apako bhUSita rakhanekI pUrNa ceSTA avazya hI karate rhnaa| patisevA karanA striyoMkA mukhya dharma hai| isaliye sadaiva umaMgake sAtha patikI sevA karanA AjJA pAlana krnaa| kabhI bhI aisI koI bAta na karanA ki jisase patiko kaSTa

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8] sasurAla jAte samaya SOOSHOOSHOCS BOSS OSLO OSPOSTO CSECSECSECSHOUSES pahu~ce, va unakA citta dukhe| tU hara prakArase patiko prasanna rakhanekI ceSTA karate rahanA, kyoMki saMsArameM yahI terA sarvasva hai| svapnameM bhI pati sivAya anya puruSoMmeM hAsyAdi bhaNDa vacanarUpa vyavahAra na rakhanA, na kisIkI ora kudRSTi DAlanA na kabhI bure gIta gAnA jo zIladharmake ghAtaka haiM / tathA apane se bar3e puruSako pitA, samavayaskoMko bhAI aura laghuvayaska yuvA bAlakAdiko putravat smjhnaa| yahI terA saccA AbhUSaNa hai|| (19) zAka, bhAjI, caTanI, AcAra, mukhkhA tathA aneka bhAMtikA pakavAna, miSTAna Adi samayAnusAra jo apane gharase logoMko rucikara prakRtike anukUla tathA dharma va kulAcArake aviruddha hoM ve maryAdApUrvaka taiyAra karanA, kyoMki maryAdAke bAhira ina vastuoMmeM trasa jIvoMkI utpatti ho jAtI hai, jisase ve abhakSya ho jAte haiN| padArthokI maryAdA isa prakAra haiM ki "ATA va haldI mirca namaka Adi pisA huA masAlA zItaRtumeM 7 dina, uSNaRtumeM 5 dina aura varSARtu meM 3 dina rahatA hai|"aacaar, murabbA, miThAI, pUrI, pakavAna jisameM jalAza kama ho 24 ghaNTe, vaDI, pApaDa, semaI Adi jisa dina banAve usI dina, aura yadi ghI, tela, AdimeM seka rakkhI hoveM to dUsare dina taka, roTI saberekI zAma taka, dAla bhAta zAkAdi dopahara mAtra turaMtakA chanA huA pAnI do ghaDI, lavAMgAdise prAsuka kiyA huA dopahara aura garama kiyA huA pAnI, 8 pahara kAma A sakatA hai, pazcAt maryAdA bAhara smjhnaa| pAnI sadaiva gADhe aura svaccha sapheda khAdIke dauhare channese chAnakara jIvAnI usI jalAzayameM bhejnaa| rasoIghara, varanDA, cakkI, ukhala, bhojanazAlA, anAja Adi zodhane bInane chAnane va masAlA Adi pIsanekI jagaha zayanAgAra

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza DOGSBOSSESSO SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEXOS va baiThakakhAne meM Upara caMdobA rkhnaa| tAtparya jaisI dhArmika gRhakriyA tUne yahAM dekhI sIkhI hai, usI prakAra yadi vahAM kucha truTi dIkhe to caturAIse ThIka karanA aura rasoI bahuta caturAIse pAkazAstrakI vidhi pramANa karanA va Rtu va prakRtike anusAra usameM pheraphAra karate rhnaa| kaccI va kharI vastu besvAda honeke sivAya rogotpAdaka bhI hotI hai| yadi gharameM rasoIdArina ho to tU usake sAtha bhojanakI samhAla caukasI rakhanA kyoMki samasta kuTumbakA rakSaNa va ArogyatA bhojanapara hI nirbhara hai| dopaharako avakAza milanepara gharake phaTe purAne vastroMko sudhAranA, athavA baccoMkI jhaguliyAM, TopI, kAMcalI, (aMgiyA colI), or3hanI, ghAgharA Adi sudhAranA va navIna siinaa| bela bUTAdida kAr3hanA, gulUbaMda tAraNa, veSTana Adi gUMthanA tathA rahaTiyoMse sUta kAtanA kyoMki striyoMkA niyamapUrvaka nikammA rahanA ThIka nahIM hai| nikammA rahanese mana idhara udhara vyartha bhaTakane lagatA hai| (20) gharake choTe baccoMko avakAza pAkara apane pAsa biThalAnA aura choTI2 citta prasanna karanevAlI kathAyeM tathA prAcIna vIra puruSoM aura satI striyoMke Adarza caritra sunAyA krnaa| paraMtu bhaya aura zaMkA utpanna karanevAlI bhUta pretAdikI kathAyeM tathA duSTa nIca puruSoM dvArA saMgrahIta viSayotpAdaka kukathAyeM kabhI nahIM sunAnA, na Apa sunanA, kyoMki ina vikathAoMse bAlakoMke tathA apane citta para bahuta burA prabhAva par3atA hai| pratyeka kathAke aMtameM usakA uttama tAtparya nikAla kara avazya smjhaanaa| jo kathA sunAnese kisIko burI lage aisI kathA va pahelI tathA kahAvateM nahIM kahanA, aura na kabhI kutarka rUpase kisI para kucha kaTAkSa karake bolnaa|

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10] sasurAla jAte samaya RECSECSECRECOREOSECSEOCSEXSEXSEOCHECSEOCE (21) byAhakArya lokameM Ajakala eka vajanadAra beDI samajhI jAne lagI hai| kyoMki kupar3ha ajJAna striyAM sasurAla meM jAkara sasurAlavAloko apane duSTa svabhAvakA paricaya dekara nAnA bhAMtike nAca nacAtI aura niraMtara kalaha karake gharameM phUTakA aMkurAropaNa karatI tathA eka hI gharameM kaI cUlhe kara DAlatI haiN| gRhasthoMke gharoM meM kalaha va phUTakA honA hI unake nAzakA kAraNa ho jAtA hai, isIse aneka gharAne naSTa hote dekhe gaye haiN| isaliye tU aisA vartAva karanA ki jisase lokameM terI prasaMsA ho aura strI jAti parase yaha kalaha uTha jAve, tathA byAhako manuSya sAMsArika sukhakA sAdhana samajhane lge| yathArthameM dekhA jAya to jisa gharameM satI pativratA suAcaraNI strI rahatI hai, vahAM hI lakSmIkA vAsa hotA hai, aura vaha ghara svargake tulya hotA hai, isIse loga strIko lakSmI kahate haiN| aura vAstavameM hai bhI aisA hI kulAna viduSI sadAcAriNI catura strI hI lakSmI hai na ki koI jaDa vstu| (22) lagna ( byAha) ke samaya jo vacana tUne apane patiko diye haiM, unako tU sadaiva smaraNa rakhanA, jaise (1) mama gurostathA kuTubIjanAnAM yathAyogya vinayasuzrUSA karaNIyA ( mere guru tathA kuTumbIjanoMkI yathAyogya vinayasuzrUSA karanA) (2) mamajJAna lopanIyA ( merI AjJA ullaMghana nahIM karanA)(3) kaThora vAkyaM na vaktavyam( kaTu vacana na bolanA)(4) mama satpAtrAdijanAnAM gRhAgate sati AhArAdidAne kaluSitamano na kAryaH ( mere hitu, saMbaMdhI, mitra, bAMdhavAdi satpAtra digambara jaina tathA udAsIna saMyamI sAdhu zrAvaka vA anya sAdharmI Adi janoMke mere ghara Ane para AhAra Adi dAna dene meM kaluSita mana nahIM karanA)(5) abhibhAvakasya AjJA vinA paragRhe na gantavyam ( apane gurujanoM tathA saMrakSakoMkI AjJA vinA kisI

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[11 putrIko mAtAkA upadeza RECORRECTROCIECTECTROCHECRECIPECIROCHECRECE dUsareke ghara nahIM jaanaa|(6) bahujanasaMkIrNasthAne kutsitaghameM tathA vyasanAsaktajanAnAM gRhe na gantavyam ( bahuta AdamiyoMkI bhIr3a jahAM ho aise saMkucita sthAnameM khoTe dharmavAloke sthAnameM tathA dyUtAdi sapta vyasanoMmeM Asakta puruSoMke sthAnameM nahIM jaanaa|)(7) guptavArtA na rakSaNIyA tathA mama guptavArtA anyAgre na kathanIyA (mujhase koI bAta na chipAnA tathA merI va mere gharakI gupta vArtA kisIse na karanA) ye sAta vacana dene para hI tujhe tere patine bAmabhAgameM grahaNa kiyA thaa| so inakA sadaiva pAlana karate rahanA (23) beTI lagnakA samaya (muhUrta) na nikala jAya, isI car3abar3ase loga jyoM tyoM kara vivAhakI rIti va razma pUrI karake gaThajoDAdi saptapadI kara dete haiM, aura gRhasthAcAryake dvArA par3e hue pavitra maMtra va patiko patnIkI orase vacana aura patnIko patikI orase zikSA va vacanoMkI samajhane va samajhAnekI phikara nahIM rakhate haiN| isaliye maiM ukta sapta vAkyoke sivAya aura bhI kucha upayogI zikSA khulAsA rIti para kahatI hU~ kyoMki yaha terI bhalAIkA kAraNa hai, so tU dhyAnase sUnapati kahatA hai - (ka) e strI! tU mujhako ati Adarase varatI haiN| tU mere sAtha vRddha hovegii| tujhe saubhAgya deneke liye maiM terA kara grahaNa karatA huuN| deva (karma) ne mere ghara tathA vaMzakI rakSAke liye hI tujhe mere AdhIna kiyA hai| (kha) hai strI! abataka tU apane mAtApitAdiko hI premakI dRSTi se dekhatI thI, paraMtu Ajase tU mere mAtApitAdi kuTumbIjanoMse prema jodd'| kyoMki aba tujhe unhIke nikaTa adhikatara rahanA hai|

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12] sasurAla jAte samaya BSBSBUSBUSBUSBUSBUSBUSBUSBOCSECSECSENIOS (ga) he strI! Ajase merA sambandha tujhase huaa| jisa prakAra caMdramAkI cAMdanI, sUryakA rohiNI tathA dIpakakA prakAzase saMbaMdha hai, usI prakAra tU bhI Ajase merI ardhAGginI huii| isaliye hama tuma donoM apane2 vacanoMkA nirvAha karate hue, gRhastha-dharmakA pAlana karake uttama saMtAna prApta kreN| (gha) he strI! hama donoMko paraspara niSkapaTa prema rakhanA cAhie aura paraspara hitakArI tathA sammatipUrvaka vacana kahanA caahiye| donoMko hilamilakara rahanA caahiye| kyoMki hama donoMkA jIvanaparyaMta sAtha rahanA hai aura isImeM hama donoMkA hita va sukha hai| (cha) he strI! Ajase tU hamAre kulameM sammilita huI isaliye tU mere vAma bhAgameM A aura apane manako apanI pratijJAoM para dRr3ha kr| (24) beTI! tatpazcAt jaba saptapadI (sAta bhAMvara) hotI hai taba vara (pati) pratyeka padapara patnIse kahatA hai, usakA Azaya tU sun| pati kahatA hai (ka) he strI! Aja tU mere sAta eka pada ( pradakSiNA) calI, jisase tU merI sahAyaka samajhI jAtI hai, isaliye tU mere dharma artha kAmAdi sampUrNa kAryoM meM sahAyatA karanA, aura zuddha bhojanAdise merU pUrti karate rahanA, dekha, zuddha bhojana banAnese eka yaha bhI lAbha hogA ki yadi hamAre puNyodayase koI muni ArjikA tathA saMyamI vratI zrAvakAdi atithiyoMkA samAgama ho jAyA karegA, to unakA nirantarAya anudRSTa bhojana dAna de skeNge| aura kadAcita na bhI mile to bhI zuddha bhojana bananese dvArA prekSaNa karane aura atithilAbhakI

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [13 ECTECTESCSEXSEXSEXSEXOTEOUSESOTESCOTESCUESCRecs bhAvanA rakhanese hamako puNya lAbha hogaa| kyoMki sarasa va nirasa kiMtu zuddha prAsuka taiyAra bhojana hI atithiyoMke yogya hotA hai| (kha) he strI! aba tU mere sAtha dusarA pada clii| isase snehakI vRddhi huii| isI prakAra apanI prIti dvitIyAke caMdra samAna bar3hatI jAve aura tujase merA bala bhI bar3hatA rhe| (ga) he strI! isa tIsare padase tU merI sumati aura sampattikI vRddhi karanevAlI ho| (gha) he strI! tU isa cauthe padase mere manavAMchita sukhakI vRddhi karanevAlI ho| (Da) he strI! tU isa pAMcave padase mujhe saMtatikI vRddhi karanevAlI ho| (ca) he strI! tU chaThaveM padase mujhe RtuoMke samAna krIDArUpa aura sanmArgameM sthira rakhanevAlI ho| (cha) he strI! yaha sAtavIM pada mere hRdayameM terI orase bar3ha prItikA denevAlA ho, aura apanA donoM gRhasthAzramameM salAha (aikya) se rheN| (25) beTI isa prakAra saptapadIkA rahasya kahakara pati aura bhI kucha vizeSa sUcanA karatA hai, so sunapati kahatA hai (ka) he strI! tU sadaiva mere sadvicAroM meM sammilita rhnaa| samasta jIvamAtrako samAna ritise dekhnaa| aisI koI bAta jisase mujhe va tujhe duHkha utpanna hove, nahIM karanA, aura na vinA merI AjJAke koI bhI kArya apane manonukUla karanA isameM terA va hamArA kalyANa haiN| yathokta madIyacittAnugataM ca cittaM sadA mamAjJAparipAlana c| pativratAdharmaparAyaNaM tvaM, kuryAt sadA sarvamidaM prytnm||

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14] sasurAla jAte samaya CROCHEOCHECREOCEROCIEOCSEOCEACHERCREACHERCEOXX arthAt - sadaiva merI icchAnusAra calane aura merI AjJAoMko pAlana karanekA dhyAna rakhanA, aura jisa prakArase pativratA dharma pAlana ho aisA prayatna karate rhnaa| (kha) he strI! mere dvArA rakSita jo pazupakSI tathA Azritajana hoM unakA bhaleprakAra pAlana karanA, unheM yathAyogya saMtuSTa rakhanA, tU bhI saMtoSavRttise rahanA aura kabhI bhI apane cittako caMcala nahIM hone denaa| (ga) apanA sukha va duHkha jo kucha bhI, ho ekAntameM mujhase hI kahanA, aura gharakI bAta bahAra kabhI kisI anya strI puruSoMko nahIM khnaa|| (gha) sadaiva sAsu sasura, devara, jeTha, devarAnI jiThAnA, nanaMda va bAla baccoMse binA kisI prakArake dveSa bhAvase vartAva karanA, jisase terI kIrti va yaza ho, aura gharameM phUTa na paDane paaveN| (Ga) he strI! tU mere kalakA bhUSaNa banakara mere tana, dhana tathA janakI pUrI2 samhAla rkhnaa| ye zikSAeM (jo Aja maiM tujhe de rahA hUM) tU kabhI mata bhuulnaa| isImeM terA kalyANa va zreya hai aura isIse tU sukhako va yazako prApta hogii| (26) beTI! isa prakAra lagna samaya tujhe tere pati dvArA zikSAeM prApta huI hai| unako tU bhale prakAra pAlana karanA, jisase tujhe sukha mile, aura donoM kula vRddhi tathA yazako prApta hokara saMsArameM AdarzarUpa hoN| (27) beTI! tU baDoMkI AjJA pAlana karanA aura choToM para prema rkhnaa| kahA hai gurujanakI bhakti sadA, aru, choToM para prem| samavaya lakha Adara ucita, karo nivAho nem|| / kisIse IrSA nahIM krnaa| noMkaroM para mAtAke samAna kSamA aura prema rkhnaa| apane pitA athavA sasurako saMpattikA mAna

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [15 EXSEXSEXSEXSEXSEXSEXSEXSEXSEXSEOCEECRUs nahIM karanA aura na unakI garIbImeM kabhI ghbraanaa| uttama puruSa sampatti vipattimeM sadA eka hI bhAMti samudrake samAna gambhIra rahate haiM ve kabhI maryAdA nahIM chodd'te| pyArI beTI! eka bAta aura smaraNa rakhane lAyaka hai ki____yadi kadAcit koI strI cAhe vaha tujhase choTI ho yA baDI paraMtu yadi vaha azubhodayase vidhavA ho gaI ho aura tere gharakI ho yA vahAM rahatI ho, to usase bahuta prema va Adara bhAvase vartAva karanA, usake khAnapAnAdimeM kisI prakArakI truTi na karanA, na kabhI use ghRNAkI dRSTise dekhnaa| kyoMki vaha ghRNAkI pAtra nahIM kintu karUNAkI pAtra hai| dekho, unase ghRNA karake tiraskAra vyavahAra karane yA khAnapAna AdimeM truTi karane yA dharmasAdhanAmeM bAdhaka honese kabhIra bahuta burA pariNAma AjAtA haiN| ve atyaMta yAtanAeM yA tiraskArake kAraNa yA anya duSTA strI puruSoMke dvArA uttejana milanese apanA sanmArga chor3a baiThatI aura kevala apane donoM kuloMkI hI nahIM kiMtu dharma va samAjako bhI kalaMkita kara baiThatI haiN| unakI pralobhana denevAle duSTa jana pahile to mIThI2 bAtoM dvArA prema darzAte haiN| aura pazcAt jaba ve kisI prakAra unake jAlameM pha~sa jAtI hai, taba pIche unakA prathama dharma aura pazcAt dhana haraNa karake nirAdhAra avasthAmeM chor3a dete haiM, jisase ve becArI vezyAvRtti taka karake udarapUrti nahIM kara sakatI aura ubhayalokameM duHkha pAtI haiN| beTI! aisI nIca prakRtti naranAriyoMkI saMsArameM kabhI nahIM haiM ve ujale rUpa raMga svAMgadhArI bagulAvat AcaraNa karate haiN| unako pahicAna jarA kaThinatAse hotI hai, isaliye aise kusthaloMse nArI jAtikI rakSA karanA hama logoMkA karttavya hai|

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16] sasurAla jAte samaya && &CTESCORRECTECORRECTROCSROCEXSECRECHERCIENCE yadi hama logoMkA vyavahAra unake sAtha premapUrNa rahegA, hama unako dharmasAdhanAkA suyogya avasara degI va ghRNAkI dRSTise na dekhakara unakA yathocita satkAra karatI rahegI, to unheM kinhIM duSTa nara-nAriyoMse milanekA samaya hI na AvegA, ve apane sAtha premapUrNa vartAva rakkheMgI aura apane pratyeka kAryameM sahAnubhUti rkkheNgii| tathA apanA satI sAdhvI jIvana vyatIta karake apane ubhayaloka to sudhAregI hI kintu apane pavitra AcaraNase svadharma va samAjakA bhI mukha ujvala rkkheNgii| ____ jIvako saMsArameM karma hI sukha va duHkhakA hetu haiN| yaha koI nahIM jAnatA ki kaba kisako kisa sthalapara kisa puNya pApakarmakA udaya A jaaygaa| aura usa samaya usakI kyA dazA hogii| taba isa samaya jo dUsaroMko haMsatA, ghRNAkI dRSTise dekhatA yA adhikAra va avasara pAkara use yAtanAeM detA hai, pIche usakI bhI ukta dazA hotI hai| isalie beTI! kabhI kisIko tuccha na samajhanA caahie| na nirbala samajhakara duHkha denA caahie| nirbaloMkI hAya kabhIra bahuta adhika duHkhadAyaka hotI hai kahA hai nirbalako na satAiye, jAkI moTI haay| mue Dhorake cAmasoM, loha bhasma ho jaay|| isalie sadaiva unase yogya vyavahAra karanA tathA caturAIse unako unake yogya kartavya batAte rhnaa| yadi ve par3hI hoM tau uttamottama nIti va dharmakI pustakeM, satI sAdhvI aitihAsika yA vartamAna mahilAoMke jIvana caritra par3haneko denA, yadi par3hI na hoM aura bAla yA taruNa vayavAlI hoM to bambaI, Indaura, ArA Adike zrAvikAzramomeM bhijavAnekI ceSTA krnaa| yadi adhika vayakI

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [17 &XSECREECHOCHOCHECRECROCHOREOCSEOCEDURES hoM yA anyAnya kAraNoMse na jA sakeM to ghara para hI kisI suyogya vRddha sadAcAriNI mahilA dvArA yA apane hI gharake baccoMke dvArA aura caturAIse tU Apa hI unheM par3hAnekI ceSTA karanA ki, jisase ve apanA samaya jo gRhakAryoM meM bacatA haiM va jisameM vahAMkI saMgati va gappASTakeM hotI haiM ve zAstrAvalokanameM lagA ske| tathA jaba tU avakAza pAkara apanA svAdhyAya karane baiThe to unako bhI bulA liyA kara ki jise sunakara ve saMsArake viSayoMse virakta bhAvako dRr3ha karatI rheN| aura suna, unake sAmhane koI aisI ha~sI Adike vyavahAra va carcAeM kabhI na karanA ki jisase unako saMsArika viSayoMkI ora uttejanA mile| kyoMki yadi ina becArI vidhavAoMko yogya zikSA aura satsaMgati milatI rahe to ye kabhI bhI apane karttavya va AcaraNase pIche na pdd'e| __inako sAde moTe sapheda yA katthaI Adi raMgake vastra pahinanemeM, zuddha sAdA hitamita bhojana khAnemeM, ucita vyavahAra, gharameM satsaMga aura dharmazikSA mile va viruddha saMgati va svataMtra AhAra vihAra aura uttejaka vastrAbhUSaNa ( jo eka brahmacAriNI yA brahmacArIko anusevya haiM) vartAvameM na Ave to ye bhAratIya nAriyAM apane Adarzako yAvajIva kAyama rakha sakatI haiN| (28) dharma, nIti va satya hitopadezakI pustakoMkA svAdhyAya tU avazya hI avakAzAnusAra karate rhnaa| paraMtu daMtakathAoM va zrRGgArarasase bharI huI pustakoMko kabhI hAtha bhI nahIM lagAnA aura na nATaka Adi manakoM bigAr3anevAle kheloMko kabhI dekhane sunanekI icchA rkhnaa| paraMtu hAM! Izvarabhakti va nIti tathA dharmake gItoMko gAne tathA sunane meM hAni nahIM haiN|

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18] sasurAla jAte samaya CHECSECREECEOCHROCHECORRECTROCIRECIRECERCIENCE isaliye jaba kabhI jo cAhe tabhI aise bhajana gAna suratAlase gAyA va jor3A krnaa| (29) beTI! apane pati (ghara) ko AmadanI dekhakara usI pramANa kharca krnaa| Ayase adhika vyaya karanese pIche bahuta kaSTa uThAnA par3atA hai| kahA hai apanI pahuMca vicAra kara, kartava kariye daur| utane pAMva pasAriye, jitanI lAMbI saura // beTI! prAyaH puruSoMkI bArIka dRSTi nahIM rahatI hai| isaliye gharake kAmoM meM mitavyayatA rakhanA aura bacata karanA yaha striyoMkA hI kAma haiM aura yaha lAbhadAyaka bhI hai| (30) gharameM nokara cAkara prAyaH halkI jAtike va kama vetanavAle bhI hote haiN| so jaba ye loga bAjArase koI vastu lAveM, to tU kabhIra una vastuoMkI taula mApa va tapAsa bhI kara liyA karanA tAki ye loga corImeM pakar3e jAne aura ThagAI Adise bace raheM, tathA aura bhI kisI prakArakI aisI koI burAI na sIkhane paaveN| aura dekha! naukaroMse bArara takarAra nahIM karanA aura na unheM apane muMha lgaanaa| (31) nokara cAkaroMse aisA vartAva rakhanA, ki jisase ve tumheM gambhIra daMpati samajhate rheN| unake mana meM tumhArI orase mAna raheM aura dekha! vyaya tathA AyakA hisAba bhI barAbara rakhate rhnaa| isase hI tU bacata kara sakeMgI aura apavyayase bcegii| tAtparya ki tU saba prakArase gRhiNI zabdako sArthaka krnaa| (32) beTI! haraeka vastukA bAjAra bhAva prAyaH kama jyAdA hotA rahatA haiM, isaliye avasara dekhakara tU gharameM anAja gur3a ghI

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [19 ECREOCRACREACHEOCHEOCHOCKEOCSOCIEOCHOCHECSEOCs Adi padArtha bhI saMgraha kara rakhA karanA, tathA yogya samayameM dhanakA vyaya bhI yathAyogya karake apanI udAravRttikA paricaya dete rhnaa| paraMtu "akAle divAlI"arthAt vyartha vyaya kabhI nahIM krnaa| (33) beTI! "kor3Ira khajAnA aura bUndara dahAnA" bhara jAtA hai, aisA karake garIba bhI paisA ikaTThA kara sakatA hai, isaliye tU apane gharakI Aya vyayakA vicAra karake samayAnusAra kucha kucha bacata bhI karate rhnaa| (34) beTI! tU nirantara apanI zakti pramANa AhAra, auSadhi zAstra aura abhaya ye cAra prakArake dAna bhI karate rhnaa| dharmAyatanoMmeM satpAtrAdikoMmeM bhakti aura dIna-hIna puruSoMmeM karuNA bhAva rakhanA, kyoMki hAthakA diyA hI sAtha jAtA hai| isaliye isameM saMkoca na karanA arthAt zakti nahIM chupaanaa| manuSyako apanI AyakA caturthAMza vipattikAla va vRddhAvasthAke liye aura caturthAMza lagnAdi vyavahArakAryoMke liye avazya hI saMgraha rakhanA cAhiye, aura zeSAMza bhojana vastrAdimeM vyaya karanA caahiye| paraMtu nimna vAkya yAda rakhanA ki nIti na mIta galita bhaye, sampati dhariye jor| khAye kharce (dAnase) jo bace, to joriye kriir|| arthAt bhUkhe marakara yA vyavahAra bigAr3akara joDanA bhI acchA nahIM hotaa| (35) beTI! tere gharameM jo sahavyavahAra va uttama rIti nIti kulaparaMparAse calI AtI ho, use ekadama binA samajheM nahIM chor3a denA, kiMtu zraddhA sahita pAlana karanA aura jo vrata-niyama striyoMke liye Avazyaka hoM unheM samajhakara barAbara karate rahanA,

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20] sasurAla jAte samaya ECRECSEOCERCOSECSEOCERCHOICSECRECSEXSEXSECR kyoMki vartamAna kAlameM Izvara ( paramAtmA) kI prAptikA sAkSAt dvAra to nahIM hai aura na striyoMko usI paryAyameM kabhI mokSa hotA hai isaliye paramparA usakA dvAra kevala bhaktimArga hI hai| (36) beTI kabhI bhI zAMti, dayA, kSamA, zIla, saMtoSa, vinaya, sadAcAra va bhaktiko nahIM bhUlanA aura sadA udAra vRtti rakhanA, rIsa karake nahIM baiThanA, na nikammI baiThanA aura na kabhI kisIse kucha mAMganA va krodhake AvezameM Akara kabhI kaTu vacana bhI mata bolnaa| haTha nahIM karanA, chupakara corIse nahIM khAnA aura akelI kabhI kahIM mata jaanaa| parapuruSake sAtha kabhI mata hasanA, usase ekAMtameM bAta nahIM krnaa| yaha parapuruSoM arthAt samadhI ( vevAI) naMdoI devara bahanoI Adise hasI karane va holI khelanekI nIca prathA pApI vyabhicArI janoMse calAI va svIkAra kI hai| so tU ise svIkAra mata krnaa| yaha zIlavratako ghAtanevAlI hai, aisA svachanda vartAva duHkhadAyI hotA hai| kahA hai"mahAvRSTi cali phUTa kayArI jimI svataMtra hai bigarahiM naarii|" tAtparya striyoMke bAlApanameM mAtA-pitAke, taruNAvasthA aura vRddhAvasthAmeM patike aura yadi abhAgyavaza pativiyoga ho jAya to putroMke AdhIna rahanA caahiye| (37) beTI! maiM phirase tujhe kahatI hU~, ki saMsArameM striyoMko unakA pati hI deva hai, aura isI patirUpI deva (Izvara) kI kRpAse striyoMko putra pautrAdi vibhava va ihaloka aura paralokameM sukha aura yazakI prApti hotI hai| jisa gharameM patnI, patikI AjJAkAriNI va pativratA hai, aura dampattimeM prIti va salAha haiM vaha ghara paryAyameM svarga-tulya hai|

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[21 putrIko mAtAkA upadeza emeCREECSEXCSEXSEXSEOCHECREOCTOCHECRECE yasya putro vaze bhutyo, bhAryA yasya tathaiva c| abhAve sati saMtoSaH, svargastho'so mhiitle|| arthAt jisakA putra, bhutya aura strI vazameM ho tathA nirdhanatAmeM saMtoSa ho use vahIM svarga hai| isaliye tU apanA tana, mana aura dhana apane patiko arpaNa kara denA, aura patise vimukha svapnameM bhI rhnaa| (38) beTI! bahutasI striyAM patiko vaza karaneke liye va santAnakI icchAse jogI jAgAr3A guniyAM, joSI, bheSI Adiko sevA karane lagatI haiM, aura unheM apanA dhana detI hai| yahAM taka ki bahutasI striyAM unake gaMDA phUMdarA, tAvIja Adi banavAne tathA jhADA phUMkI karAneke liye ekAMtameM akelI apane hI gharameM yA kisI devI devatAke sthAnomeM va unake sthAnoM para jAkara milatI aura unake phaMdemeM phaMsakara balAtkAra apanA zIlAbharaNa gumA baiThatI haiM va koIra devI, dihADI yakSa, yakSaNi, bhUta, preta, bhauMro, bhavAnI, hanumAna, caMDI, muMDI, sattI pIra, paigaMbara, grahAdikI pUjA karatI hai, va inheM manAneke liye samaya, kusamaya, Thora, kuThaura akelI jAtI haiN| vahAMpara bhI ye duSTa puruSoM dvArA satAI jAkara apanA zIla aura dravya donoM kho AtI haiN| kyoMki prAyaH aise sthAnoMmeM cora aura vyabhicArI puruSa pragaTa yA luke chipe rahate haiN| jo samaya pAkara chakkA pau kara DAlate haiN| beTI! isameM iSTasiddhi kucha nahIM hotI hai, kevala dhana aura dharma jAtA hai| yadi ina jogI jAMgaDoMmeM puruSa vazIkaraNa aura santAnotpAdana zakti hotI to ghara baiThe hI pUjate, ghara ghara mAre mAre nahIM phirte| devI devatAmeM yaha zakti hotI to vaMdhyAko, kuMvArIko aura sadAcAriNI vidhavAko bhI putra ho jaataa| so

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22] sasurAla jAte samaya SUOSICIEUSEO SEXSHOOSEO SEOSEOKSESBO OSBOCITOCOS aisA na kabhI dekhA haiM aura na sunA hai ye saba kevala jhUTha pAkhaNDa haiN| tU bhUlakara kisIke hajAra bahakAnese bhI inake pheremeM na aanaa| karmakI gatI koI TAla nahIM sakatA hai| pativazakaraNakA maMtra "patikI sevA" haiN| aura yahI (yadi zubha udaya ho to) santAnotpattikA tAvIja hai| isaliye merI pyArI beTI! tU saba vyartha jhagar3oMko chor3akara apane patidevakI sevA hI sacce manase karanA, isImeM terA kalyANa hai|| (39) beTI! yadi kisI samaya terA pati va gurujana tujhe kaTuka vacana kaheM pati tADana bhI kare to tU manameM krodha va kheda nahIM karanA, na patikA doSa dikhAnA kintu apanI bhUla va doSa dekhnaa| "yaha kaTu vacana va tADana mere patine mujhe kisa kAraNase kiyA hai|" usapara vicAra kara puna: una doSo va kAraNoMko nahIM hone denA jisase ki punaH tADanA milanekA avasara na A ske| vaha tADana apanI bhalAIke hI liye smjhnaa| manuSya prAyaH parAye doSa dekhanemeM hI apanA amUlya samaya kho dete haiM so yadi vaha samaya apane hI doSa dekhanemeM va unakA nirAkaraNa karane meM bitAyA jAya to kitanA acchA ho! (40) beTI! terA pati uttama kulIna, sundara, rUpavAna, devatulya, saumyamUrti, sadAcArI, suzIla, puruSArthI aura sajjana puruSa hai, so prathama to tujhe aisA kuavasara hI nahIM milegA jisase ki tujhe tere patike saMbaMdhameM vyasanAdi sevana karanekA samAcAra suna pdd'e| aura (daiva na kare ki) kisI prakAra tere pUrva azubha karmake udayase tere patimeM aisA hI koI doSa kadAcit utpanna ho jAya, yA tujhe unake prati aisI zaMkA utpanna ho jAya, to tU unase ghRNA dveSa, krodha va mAnAdi nahIM karanA,

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [23 40638063CSECSOCSO CSDD CSDD CSDD CSDD CSDD CSDD CSDDOS kyoMki tU unase jitanA dveSa va ghRNAdi karegI ve tujhase utane hI dUra hote cale jAyage aura vyasanoMmeM phasate jaayge| "dekha kabhI garama lohA garama lohese nahIM kaTatA haiM, kintu ThaNDese hI kaTatA hai" aisA jAnakara tU kSamA va zAMti dhAraNa karanA tathA usa avasarameM pahilese bhI adhika prema bar3hAnA tAki unheM terI orase zaMkA na hone pAve, aura suavasara dekhakara mRdu hAsya vacanoM meM tU unake ve vAkya jo unhoMne tere mAMganepara terA pANigrahaNa karaneke samaya diye the, smaraNa karA diyA karanA basa yahI unako sumArgameM lAnekA saccA upAya hai| paraMtu beTI! maiM tujhe nizcayapUrvaka kahatI hU~ ki jo striyA~ apane patikI tana manase sevA karatI aura antaHkaraNase unapara saccA prema rakhatI haiN| to pati bhI unheM prANezvarI devI karake hRdayastha kara lete haiN| dekha sItA satI pativratA thI to rAmacaMdra bhI strIvratA the| jaba sItA harI gaI to usake viyogase pAgala ho gaye the| tU yaha na jAna ki rAmane sItAko vanameM chor3A thA, aura agni praveza karAyA thA, usase unakA sItApara kucha prema kama ho gayA thaa| nahIM beTI, ve rAjA the, isaliye unako prajAke saMdeha nivAraNArtha sItApara apane prANoMse bhI adhika prema karate hue aura unheM satI jAnate hue bhI vanavAsa aura agnipraveza lAcAra ho karanA par3A thaa| pavanaJjaya, sukhAnaMda, jayakumAra Adi bahuta mahApuruSoMke caritra purANoMmeM bhare paDe hai, jinase vidita hotA hai ki puruSa bhI apanI satI suzIlA striyoMko devI karake mAnate haiN| yadi strI cAhe, to apane patiko apanI sevA tathA premase sumArgI aura dveSa kalaha ityAdise kumArgI banA sakatI haiN| so he merI dulArI beTI! tU unheM prANezvara deva karake hI prema bhakti va sevA krnaa|

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24] sasurAla jAte samaya &PCREACHERCHOICROCHEOCHOCHOCIENCEOCHOCIENCRECS (41) beTI! jaba kabhI tujhe bahuta kheda pIDA va rogAdika ko vedanA, athavA anya kucha bhI daihika vyathA utpanna ho to tU apane dhairya va dharmase nahIM DiganA, kintu sItA draupadI, celanA, manoramA, menA, rayanamaMjUSA Adi mahAsatiyoMke caritrako smaraNa karanA athavA narka va pazugatike duHkhoMkA citavana karake yaha vicAra karanA ki "dekho! ina satiyoMko va una muniyoMko kaise ghora upasarga va kaSTa Ate the, tathA nArakiyoMko kitanA duHkha hai? mujhe to usakA asaMkhyAtavA bhAga bhI nahIM hai" ityAdi vicAra kara dRr3hatA rakhanA, samatAbhAvase sahana karanA aura yogya upacArase use dUra karanekA yatna krnaa| "dhIraja dharma mitra aru nArI, ApattikAla parakhiye caarii|" (42) beTI! vibhava pAnepara ahaMkAra na karanA, aura apanese baDe dhanI, mAnI jJAnI puruSoMke caritroM va svargakI sampatti va vaibhavako vicArakara ki 'puNyake prabhAvase indrAdi devoM rAjAoM aura amukara seThoMke kitanI sampatti va rUpa, bala, vidyA, saMyama Adi haiM, so mere to usakA aMza bhI nahIM hai' aisA vicArakara zAMta rhnaa| kyoMki saMsArameM choTe baDe dhanI, nirdhana, murkha, vidvAn AdikA vyavahAra paraspara sApekSa hai| vAstavameM saba karmakRta upAdhiyAM haiN| isakA mAna karanA vyartha hai| kahAvata hai "jabataka UTa pahADake nIce nahIM jAtA, tabhI taka apaneko bar3A samajatA rahatA hai|" isaliye Amra vRkSake samAna vibhavameM namra rahanA bhI ucita hai| (43) beTI! Ajakala prAyaH logoMmeM IrSAbhAva bahuta dekhane meM AtA hai| ye loga dUsaroMkI sukhI dekha niSkAraNa unameM tor3aphor3a macAkara duHkhI kara dete haiN| isaliye agara koI

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [25 PROCTOCTOCOCCROCTOCHROCROCHOCTOCHOCTOR hajAra sogandha khAkara bhI tujhase tere gharavAloMkI kucha burAI batAveM to kadApi use satya mata mAnanA aura na aisI ghRNita bAteM sunanekI icchA hI rkhnaa| kintu una kahanevAloMko aisA mukha banda uttara denA tAki be phira kabhI tujhe aisI bAteM sunAnekA sAhasa na kreN| (44) beTI! yadi tU kabhI kahIM kisIse apane gharakI bhalAI burAI sunakara Ave, to turata apane gharameM pragaTa kara denA tAki usapara vicAra hokara yogya prayatna kiyA jAve, kyoMki apane doSa Apako apane nahIM dIkhate haiN| aura dekha kabhI bhI apane muMhase apanI baDAI va dUsaroMkI burAI mata krnaa| kitane hI loga yoMhI cir3hAne camakAne va ha~sAne Adike liye kautuka rUpase bhI striyoMko unake mAM bApakI bhalAI burAI kahane lagate haiN| so tU isase manameM kheda mata karanA, kyoMki jisane beTI dI hai usase namra aura koI nahIM hai| saMsArameM dhairya (sahanazIlatA) baDI guNakArI vastu hai, sadA usakA avalambana krnaa| (45) he beTI! tU to ApahI sayAnI haiN| tUne yahAM saba kucha dekhA va sunA hai| Ajase terA navIna saMsArameM praveza hotA haiM, isaliye jora bAteM meMne kahIM hai athavA tUne dekhI sunI haiM unase aba tujhe anubhava karanekA samaya AyA hai| abhItaka ve saba korI kathAyeM hI thIM paraMtu aba unakA saccA dRzya tujhe dRSTigocara hogaa| loka prAya: thiyeTaroMmeM nATaka vagairaha khelameM rUpayA lagAkara dekhane jAte hai| paraMtu yaha unakI bhUla haiN| inheM ina kRtrima bheSadhAriyoMke kalpita kheloMke dekhanese kucha lAbha nahIM ho sakatA, isake badale unheM gRhasthAzramarUpI raMgabhUmimeM

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26 ] sasurAla jAte samaya SCIENCSECSECOS BIOSPEICS POSSOSPOOSSOCIBOSEXSHOCS rahakara hI saMsArake sacce svarUpakA anubhava karake, sacce (Atmika-avinAzI) sukhapara dRSTi lagAnA aura isI narajanmase hI use prApta karanekA udyama karanA cAhie, yahI sAra haiN| (46) he beTI! aba tU khuzIse jaa| tU AyuSyamatI putravatI sobhAgyavatI aura satI sAvitrI jaisI Adarza ramaNI ho jA! tere liye savArI taiyAra haiM samayI bhI ho gayA haiM, isaliye derI mata kr| isa prakAra mAtAne zikSA de putrIke mastaka para hAtha rakhakara AzIrvAda diyA aura putrI bhI mAtAke caraNa sparzakara premAzru girAtI huI uktazikSAoMkI maNimAlA kaSThameM pahinakara dhIre dhIre rathameM jA baitthii| (47) pazcAt sAsu apane jamAI (dAmAda) kI ora dekhakara bolI:-lAlAjI! yaha pAda pakSAlana karanevAlI dIna TahalanI, ApakI sevAke liye dI hai, isaliye Apa isake guNa doSoMpara vicAra na kara apane bar3e kulakA hI dhyAna rakhakara isakA jIvana nirvAha kiijiye| hama loka ApakI kucha bhI sevA suzrUSA karanemeM samartha nahIM hue na kucha daheja ( bheTa) hI de sake hai so kSamA kIjiye kyoMki Apa bar3e hai aura bar3oMke yahAM sabakA nirvAha ho sakatA hai| "Apa baDe saradAra ho jAnata ho rasa riiti| aisI sadA nivAhiyo, mAso ghaTe na priiti||" aisA kaha sAsune jamAIko navIna phala ( zrIphala) tathA kucha suvarNa va rUpayA mudrA bheTa dekara bidA kiyaa| (48) sAsukI namra vinatI para jamAIne bhI sAsukI miSTa vacanoMse saMtoSa kara kahA-'sAsujI! Apane gRharatna diyA so saba kucha diyA hai| isase adhika bahumUlya padArtha saMsArameM kyA ho

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [27 EPCOCIENCEROSECRECORRECORROCROCRACTROCIRCTECH sakatA hai? jisa prakAra vaha yahAM rahatI thIM usI prakAra vahAM bhI unake liye mAtAjI upasthita hai| Apa koI ciMtA na kreN| hama logoMko sadaiva apane pAsa hI samajhiye! sAsujI! saMsArameM saba prANI apane2 guNa karmAnusAra hI sukha duHkha banA lete haiN| yathArthameM jIvako sivAya usake guNa doSoM (svakRta karmoM) ke koI bhI sukha va duHkha denevAlA nahIM ho sakatA haiN| aura ve to hamArI gRhalakSmI hI haiM, to bhI maiM yathAzakti unako sukhI banAnemeM kasara na rkkhuugaa| mujhe smaraNa haiM ki maiMne jo sapta vacana byAha samaya ApakI pyArI putrI aura apanI ardhAMganAko diye the ve nimna prakAra haiM, maiM unakA bhale prakAra pAlana kruuNgaa| (1) parastrIbhiH ( pANigRhItArikta) krIDA na kAryA ( parastrI sevana nahIM karanA) (2) vezyAgRhe na gantavyam ( vezyA [gaNikAke ] ghara na jAnA) (3) dyUta krIDA na kAryA ( juA nahIM khelanA) (4) udyogAdravyopArjanena mama azanavastrAbharaNAni rakSaNIyAni ( udyoga dvArA dravya upArjana karake mere bhojana vastrAbhUSaNoMkI rakSA krnaa|) (5) dharmasthAne na varjanIyA (dharmasthAnameM jAnese nahIM rokanA) (6) anucita kaThora daNDo na dAtavyaH (anucita daNDa (tADanA) nahIM denaa|) (7) jIvanaparyaMta niraparAdhA na tyajanIyA (jIvanaparyaMta vinA aparAdha tyAga mata karanA) ityaadi| isa prakAra jamAIne sAsukoM sambodhana karake use praNAma kiyA aura apanI patnIko livAkara sasurAlase bidA huaa| aura dekhate dekhate dampati dRSTi se adRzya ho gye| bicArI mAtA va svajanAdi viyogAkula ho phira dekhate hue pIche lautte| ThIka hai-"beTI aru gAya, jahAM devoM tahaM jaay|" * *

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28] sasurAla jAte samaya SOSEXSHOUSEXIESESEOSES SECSECSEX 3800g mAtAkI zikSA beTI! jaba sasurAla jAnA, mata karanA apanA mana maanaa| karanA jo so sAsu sikhAve, yA jeThAnI nanada btaave|| jo hAM gharameM jeTha jeThAnI, karanA unahIkI mnmaanii| unakI sevA bana AvegA, to tU sukha sampati paavegii|| jeTho nanada sAsu jeThAnI, ina sabako tU samajha syaanii| unakI AjJA pAlana karanA, vadhU-dharma yaha manameM dhrnaa| jitane jeThe hoveM gharapara, unheM samajhanA pitA braabr| unakI AjJA zira para dharanA, mAnI hai sukhase dhAra bhrnaa| jo saubhAgyase ho devarAnI, karanA prema bahina sama jaanii| usako uttama kAma sikhAnA, apane kulakI cAla btaanaa| devarako lakhanA laghubhAI, Adara karanA prema jnaaii| unake duHkhameM duHkha manAnA sukhameM mila Ananda bddh'aanaa| jaba tuma unase kAma karAnA, apanA baDappana nahIM jtaanaa| prema sahita dhIre musakyA kara, AjJA denA zIla jtaakr|| aisA karane se devarAnI, bAta karegI saba mnmaanii| devara bhI AjJA mAneMge, tumako gRha devI jaaneNge| choTI nanaMda bahina hai choTI, usase bAta na karanA khottii| prema sahita usako AdaranA, dveSa virodha kabhI nahIM krnaa| yadi subhAgyavaza tere ghara para, hoveM naukara caakr| unapara kabhI na krodha jatAnA, kabhI nahIM durvacana sunaanaa|| zAMta bhAvase AjJA denA, jo kucha kahe use suna lenaa| unakA ucita prArthanA sunakara ucita hoya so karanA gunkr|| samaya samajhakara DATa batAnA, unako muMha nahIM kabhI lgaanaa| unake baccoMpara sudayA kara, kabhI kabhI karanA kucha aadr||

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [29 ECRECEOUSERECTECREECREOCHECREECREECREDUREXX utsava samaya unheM kucha denA, AziSa vacana unhIMke lenaa| unake duHkhameM dayA dikhAnA, yoM unako nija dAsa bnaanaa|| rakhanA catura dAsa aru dAsI, neka calata nIke vishvaasii| lobhI rasika mijAjI taskara, aise kabhI na rakhanA naukr|| nanada jiThAnI devarAnIke, bacce rakhanA jaise nijake / svaccha prema unapara nita karanA, uttama zikSA yaha mana dhrnaa|| jAti birAdarI ghara mana bhAye, mata jAnA tuma binA bulaaye| yadi bulAya bhejeM Adara kara, jAnA hukama bar3oMkA lekr|| purA paDosa nivAsI nArI, Aye Adara karanA bhaarii| jAte samaya premase kahanA, "AyA karo" kabhI to bhnaa|| ApasameM kara kalaha lar3AI, mata karanA unakI kubddaaii| jo tU gharameM kalaha karegI, duniyAM mujhako nAma dhregii| isase maiM tujhako sikhalAtI, mata honA kubuddhimeM maatii| kAma vahI karanA dina rAtI, jisako suna ho zItala chaatii|| gRhakAraja nija hAthoM karanA, isameM lAja na manameM dhrnaa| ghara kapar3e bAlaka aru bhojana, svaccha raheM yaha baDA pryojn|| gharako lipavAnA putavAnA, kapar3oMko bahudhA dhulvaanaa| laDakoMko akasara nahalAnA, bhojana apane hAtha bnaanaa|| itane mukhya kAma nArIke, jo nArI karatI haiM niike| vaha sabako pyArI hotI haiM, saba para adhikArI hotI hai| bUr3hA bArA athavA koI, bImArIse vyAkula hoii| citta de usakI sevA karanA, dayA dharma yaha manameM dhrnaa|| mata vicAranA burA kisIkA, to terA bhI hogA niikaa| parahitameM tU citta lagAnA, phala pAvogI taba mnmaanaa||

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30] sasurAla jAte samaya CIRCIRCBMXXCSECRECRECSECRECTROCHECRECS baDI sIkha yaha urameM dharanA, sevA pati caraNoMkI krnaa| terA sukha unake sukhameM haiM, tere unase prANa lage haiN| patiko bharasaka rAjI rakhanA, manameM nAma unhIMkA jpnaa| unakI AjJA sirapara dharanA, rUkhA uttara kabhI na denaa| deva jinendra dayAmaI dharmA, guru nirgrantha hareM dusskrmaa| zraddhAM bhakti sadA ina karanA, cAra dAna de pAtaka hrnaa|| kabhI bhUla mithyAtva na sevo, IrSA dveSa tyAga tuma devo| beTI donoM kulakI lAjA, jaise rahe karo so kaajaa|| nArI dharmakI kunjI haiM yaha sukha sampattikI pUMjI hai yh| yaha kartavya jisase bana Ave, soI manavAMchita phala paave|| yaha saba bAteM citameM dharanA, inakI avahelanA mata krnaa| jo inake anusAra calegI, sukhI rahegI bahuta phlegii| yaha zikSA na visAriyo, suna beTI cita dhaar| tajo zoka jAvo abai, harSa sahita susraar|| yA vidhi zikSA mAtane, daI sutAko saar| kulavantI yA vidhi caleM, mUrakha deya visaar|| yAse tana, mana, vacanase pAlo nija kula dhrm| 'dIpa' laho yaza yA janama, parabhava pAo shrm|| sutA-hiteSIvarNI dIpacaMda paravAra, nrsiNhpur-nivaasii|

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patrIko mAtAkA upadeza [31 &XRECSEXRESCREECHNOCRECTROXRECEXRESCRECTED svAsthya athavA ArogyatA ( gRhasthAzramarUpI mahalakI nIva zArIrika ArogyatA aura mAnasika zAMtipara hI nirbhaya hai| isI sambandhameM ___putrIyoMko kucha shikssaayeN| ) merI pyArI beTI aura bahino! kyA yaha tumako mAlUma hai ki byAhake pazcAt sasurAlameM jAkara (gRhasthAzramameM praveza karane para) tumako apane jIvana meM kyA kyA karanA hai? tuma kina kina bAtoMko uttaradAtA ho? kyoMki prAyaH AjakalakI bahuyeM sasurAlama pahu~cate hI sAsu, zvasura, devara, jeTha, jiThAnI, nanada tathA apane patiko bhI AjJAkArI banAkara svachanda pravartanekI ceSTA karatI haiN| ve saba para AjJA karanA, manonukUla acchAra khAnA, pahinanA aura sukhacaina ur3AnA hI apanA kartavya va jIvanakA sAra samajhatI haiN| ve gharameM laDa jhagaDakara vRddha sAsu sasura va anya kuTumbiyoMmeM phUTa utpanna kara apane pati sahita alaga rahane meM hI apanA bhalA samajhatI haiN| unako samajha hai ki jaba hama apane mAM bApako choDakara AyI hai to patiko kyoM unake mAM bApake sAtha rahane de? ina sabakI sevA kauna kare? ityaadi| yahAM taka ki koI koI to apane patiko lekara apane pIhara (mAM bApake ghara) calI jAtI haiN| paraMtu yaha kevala unakI bhUla hai isase unheM na to sukha hI milatA hai, aura na yaza hI kiMtu kAyaratAkA poTalA sirapara par3akara apayaza aura duHkhakA sthAna avazya bana jAtI haiN| isaliye yadi tumheM apane gharako svarga tulya banAkara devoM sarIkhe sukha bhoganA aura yaza prApta karanA hai to mAtAke upadezako dhyAnameM rakhakara nIce likhI kucha zikSAoM para bhI dhyAna do aura saccI gRhiNI banakara gRhasthAzrama saphala karo aura sukhI bno|

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32] sasurAla jAte samaya LYRECREECSEOCTECREECHECRECSECREECRECSECRECR (1) beTiyo aura bahinoM! jyoM hI tuma sasurAlameM jAoM tyoM hI vahAM apane saba gharake logoMkI pravRtti jAna lo ki kisakA svAsthya kisa prakAra ThIka raha sakatA hai| yahI sabase pahilI bAta tumhAre liye hogii| paraMtu dhyAna rahai ki kevala zArIrika svAsthyase hI Arogya nahIM rahatA hai, kiMtu usakA manase bhI ghaniSTa sambandha hai, arthAt vinA manakI zAMtike zArIrika ArogyatA kadApi nahIM raha sakatA haiN| (2) Arogya kevala auSadhise zuddha khAnapAnase svaccha havA prakAzAdi aura sugaMdhita vastroMse hI nahIM milatI hai kiMtu nIce likhI bAte bhI bahuta Avazyaka haiM jinapara pUrA dhyAna rakhanA caahiye| ina sabameM adhika mahatvakI atyAvazyaka bAta yaha hai ki 'manakI zAMti rakhanA' isImeM saba bAteM samAI haiM isIliye isI saMbaMdhameM kucha thor3IsI bAteM nIce likhI jAtI hai| (ka) apane gharameM kisIse kabhI UMce svara va krodhase garva va mAnase va kaTAkSa karate hue kapaTabhare, kaThina kaDuve vacana nahIM bolnaa| (kha) yadi tumako koI kaTuka vacana krodha va mAnake vaza hokara kahe bhI to tuma unheM zAMtise sunakara anasune kara do| kyoMki agniko bujhAneke liye pAnI hI DAlA jAtA hai na ki iidhn| isaliye tuma bhI usa krodharUpI agnimeM kSamA, zAMti va sahanazIlatA rUpI pAnI DAlakara bujhA do, aura namra (miSTa) vanacarUpI vAyumeM uDA do| kyoMki vaha krodhAgni uttarameM kaTuka vacana kahane tathA krodha va rosa karanese aura bhI dhadhakatI hai| yahAM taka ki vaha kabhIra gharakA ghara jalA DAlatI hai| yaha bar3A bhArI ArogyasakA ghAtaka hai|

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [33 RECEBOOSECRECEOCOCSOCIRCTCHEMICROcs (ga) bahinoM! vazIkaraNakA nAma tumane sunA hogA aura tumhAre muMhameM isa nAmase pAnI bhI bhara AyA hogaa| paraMtu tumane sunA hogA ki loga prAyaH aisA kahane lagate haiM ki na mAlUma isa bahUne kyA jAdU kara rakkhA hai| jisake ki sAsu, sasura, jeTha, devara, pati, nanaMda Adi sAsare mAtrake sabhI isakA kahanA mAnate haiN| yaha jitanA pAnI pilAtI haiM, saba utanA hI pAnI pIte haiM, ityaadi| so vaha vazIkaraNa maMtra, sivAya miSTa bhASaNake aura kucha nahIM kahA hai "sabake mana hara leta haiM, tulasI mIThe bol| yahI maMtra isa jAniye, vazIkaraNa anmol||" kAgA kisako dhana hare, koyala kAko det| kevala mIThe vacana se, jaga apanI kara let|| (gha) bahinoM! tuma sAkSAt premakI mUrtiyAM hoM, isaliye tuma sarvadA prasanna cita raho, tAki saba loga tumase prasanna rheN| smaraNa rakkho ki sAMThA (gannA) boogI to mIThA aura nIma lagAogI to kaDuA rasa paaogii| babUla bonese kAMTe hI phalate haiN| darpaNameM jaisA muMha karake dekho vaisA hI pratibimba dRSTi pdd'egaa| tAtparya yaha hai ki yadi tuma prasanna rahogI to saba prasanna rheNge| (Ga) beTiyoM! adekhAI va IrSAbhAva sarvathA sadaiva ArogyatAke ghAtaka haiN| jisa gharameM inakA praveza huvA, ki phira use zatrukI AvazyakatA nahIM rahatI hai| yahAM paraspara eka dUsareko dekhakara jalatI jhulasatI rahatI haiM aura isI prakAra bImAra hokara prANoMse hAtha dho baiThatI hai| isaliye kabhI bhI adekhAI nahIM karake parodaya dekhakara prasanna honA caahiye|

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34] sasurAla jAte samaya SUBESPOOSEISEX SEX SEXSPISEX SEXSHOCHSEXSHOOS (3) bahinoM! isa prakAra prema aura sarala svabhAvase tuma sabake sAtha vartAva karogI to tumhAre manakI zAMtike sAthara tumhAre zarIrakI nirogatA bhI rahegI, tuma aneka rogoMse bacI rahogI, jhagaDe TaMTese hI roga utpanna hotA hai aura phira jIvana viSake samAna duHkha svarUpa ho jAtA hai| (4) manakI zAMti arthAt ArogyatAke liye mujhe kaI bAteM kahanI haiN| unameM se prathama svacchatA va sughar3atA haiN| jitanI zAMti vastrAlaMkAroMse nahIM hotI utanI svacchatA va sughar3atAse hI hotI hai| itanA hI nahIM kiMtu vaha aneka rogoMse bacAtI hai| (5) tuma apanA zarIra, apane kapar3e apanA ghara tathA gharakI sampUrNa vastuyeM jaise ki vartana vagairaha nitya svaccha rkhnaa| baiThaka va rasoIghara Adi sthAna nitya svaccha rkhnaa| rasoI gharako caukA bhI kahate hai sau isameM dravya ( bhojanasAmagrI) kSetra (sthAna) kAla (samaya) aura apane bhAva ina cAra bAtoMkI zuddhi honA Avazyaka haiM, tabhI vaha caukA kahA jA sakatA hai| pahiraneke va hAtha muMha poMchaneke kapaDe jaise rUmAla, aMgoche, gaMjIpharAka, dhotI Adi nitya dhokara svaccha rakhanA, isake sivAya anya kapar3e cAdara, koTa, kurate Adi jo maile ho gaye hoM, unako dhobIke pAsa dhulA lenA athavA svayaM dho lenaa| baccoMko roja nahalAnA, aura unheM dhoye huye svaccha kapaDe pahirAnA caahiye| (6) gharakA AMganA, maMjoTA, dhinoMcI, panAlA aura hauja Adi apane sAmane va Apa hI svayaM sApha karanA, kyoMki inase badabU phailakara havAko bigAr3a detI hai, jisase bImArI phaila jAtI hai| jisa prakAra ki dasta na Anese peTa sApha na hokara becaina ho jAtI hai aura svAsthya bigaDa jAtA hai usI prakAra ghara sApha na honese bigaDa jAtA hai|

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[35 putrIko mAtAkA upadeza ESEXSEXERCTCHECEOCEDURESCRECECKeXos (7) ghara meM khAne pInekI vastueM apane Apa nitya zuddha (saMzodhana) karanA yaha tumhArA mukhya kArya hai, kyoMki bAjArase jo sAmAna AtA hai usameM prAyaH dhUla, miTTI, kaMkara, bhUsI, bhUsAkI leMDI tathA aura bhI aisI bahutasI hAnikAraka apavitra vastueM milI rahatI haiN| athavA gharameM rakhA huA anAja Adi bhI ghuna jAtA hai| usane laTa, kunthu Adi jIva paidA ho jAte haiN| kIDI makoDiyA car3ha jAtI haiN| aisI dazAmeM vinA zodhe, bIne, dalane, pIsane, kUTane, rAMdhane va khAnese turaMta roga utpanna ho jAtA hai| isaliye jahAMtaka ho sake bAjArU cIjeM bInA dhoye, sukhAye kAmameM mata laao| (8) rasoI taiyAra karanemeM bhI svacchatAkI AvazyakatA hai| rasoI banAne va khAneke bartana bilakula sApha mAMjanA cAhiye kyoMki unameM thoDI bhI jhUThana raha jAnese bahutase jIva utpanna ho jAte haiN| aura bhI phira jantU bhojanake sAtha khAnevAloMke peTameM jAte haiM, jisase aneka roga utpanna ho jAte haiN| ucca jAtike logoMmeM jahAM khAnapAna va caukA AdikI sughaDatA va svacchatA hotI hai vahAM bImArI bhI kama hotI hai| (9) pakAyA huA anAja bahuta jaldI bigaDane lagatA hai, isaliye vAsI bhojana nahIM rakhanA na kisIko khilaanaa| narama vastueM ki jinameM pAnIkA bhAga adhika hotA hai, jaldI calitarasa ho jAtI haiM, isaliye aisI vastuyeM turaMta taiyAra karake khAnA va khilAnA caahiye| taiyAra kiye hue bhojanake padArtha kabhI ughADe nahIM rahane denA cAhiye, kyoMki makkhI Adi jIva apane muMha va pAMkhoM dvArA aneka apavitra aura viSaile padArtha lAkara bhojanameM chor3a dete haiN| cauke meM saphAI rakhanese makkhiyAM vahAM nahIM AveM, isa prakArase prabaMdha rkkho|

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36] sasurAla jAte samaya PCMCSCRECTOCHECHERXXXSEXSEXSEXERCIENCE (10) rasoI karanA yaha tumhArA mukhya kAma hai isaliye isa kAmameM kisI prakAra Alasya na karake acche prema aura utsAhake sAtha ki jisase tumhAre bhojanakI prazaMsA hove, kiyA karo aisI rasoI bahuta svAdiSTa aura hitakArI hotI hai| (11) kisIko jimAte hue bhojana bar3e prema aura zuddha bhAvase ki "yaha bhojana sabako hitakArI ho|" parosanA, kyoMki binA manase va kubhAvoMse parosA huA bhojana khAnevAleko viSakA kAma karatA hai| tAtparya-parosaneke samaya jaisA bhAva mAtA putrake prati rakhatI haiM aisA rakhanA caahie| (12) bhojana taiyAra karaneke saMbaMdhameM eka Avazyaka bAta yaha bhI hai ki puruSoMkA bhojanadhAra prAyaH striyAM hI hotI haiN| ye unheM jaisA pavitra apavitra, svAdiSTa, SaTrasoM, nIrasa, caTapaTA yA sAdA bhojana banAkara khilAveM vaisA hI unheM khAnA par3atA hai aura kabhIra prakRti viruddha kaccA, caTapaTA va nirutsAhase banAyA huA bhojana hAni bhI pahuMcA detA hai| isaliye sadaiva Rtu udyama, prakRti deza aura rucike anusAra pheraphAra karate huye, sAdA bhojana banAnA cAhiye ki jisake zarIra Arogya rahe, manapara kisI prakArakA burA prabhAva nahIM par3ane pAve aura kabhI kleza uThAnekA aksara na Ave manake upara bhI bhojanakA bahuta prabhAva par3atA hai| (13) adhika khArA, khaTTA caraparA va mIThA bhojana choTe bar3e sabakI ArogyatAko hAnikAraka hai| yaha pAcanazaktiko bigAr3atA hai lohUko tapAtA, AMtoke rasoMko bigADatA aura bahutase carmarogoMko utpanna kara detA haiN| aise bhojanase khaTTI DakAra, hiMcakI, peTameM pavanakA rUkanA aura maror3a AnA, zarIra va galemeM khujalI AnA dasta va pezAbake

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [37 EXSEXSEXTECRECTECHECRECTECEMBEXTRICT sthAnoMmeM va peTameM pIlApanakA honA, aruci rahanA ityaadi| ye saba roga tumhArI pAkazAlAmeMse hI nikalate haiN| isaliye sAdA aura prakRti anusAra svAdiSTa bhojana banAnA caahiye| (14) prAyaH logoMse balAtkAra khIMcatAna karake adhika bhojana khilAnekI kucAla par3a rahI hai| isase hitake badale vaha anna sanna ( ajIrNa Adi bimArI) utpanna karake ulTA ahita kara detA haiN| isaliye adhika khIMcatAna kiye binA, icchA pramANa bhojana karanA va karAnA ucita hai, paraMtu jaise khIMcatAna nahIM karanA vaise bhUkhA bhI nahIM rakhanA caahiye| kyoMki bahutase loga saMkocavaza bhUkhe bhI raha jAte haiM isaliye unase avazya bArambAra pUchanA cAhiye, aura jinakI prakRti aura bhojanakA aMdAja tumheM mAluma ho unako Agraha na karake vicArake sAtha hI parosanA caahiye| (15) bahinoM! tuma gharakA bhUSaNa aura annapUrNA ho, tumhAre sivAya koI lakar3I, patthara, dhAtu va miTTIkI mUrtikA nAma annapUrNA, lakSmI, gRhadevI, yA kuladevI nahIM hai| tumhAre hAthameM puruSoMkI jIvanaDorI haiM, isaliye tuma saccI gRhiNI bnoN| svayaM uttama mArgakA avalambana karatI huI rAnI celanA Adike samAna apane pati va anya puruSoMko bhI sanmArgI banAo yahI tumhArA mukhya kartavya hai| (16) gharameM yadi karmavaza koI bImAra par3a jAve to tuma turaMta hauzayArI, prema, dayA aura utsAhase usakI sevA Tahala karane meM laga jaao| yaha kAma prAyaH hara jagaha davAkhAnoM (hospiTaloM auSadhAlaya) meM paricArikA (narsa) hI karatI haiM kAraNa puruSoMse striyoMkA svabhAva sahaja hI namra va dayAlu hotA hai, isaliye gharameM tumheM paricArikA ho| tumheM isa kAryameM nipuNa honA caahiye| aura isa viSayakI pustaka par3hakara tatsaMbaMdhI jJAna prApta karanA tumhArA kartavya hai

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38] sasurAla jAte samaya EXSECRECTECSEXERCOSECOREXSECOSECSEXXSEX kyoMki yaha kAma jaisA Avazyaka hai vaisA hI jokhamabharA aura javAbadArIkA bhI hai| tuma rogIsevAkA pATha mainAsundarIse siikho| dekho, usane apane kor3hI pati rAjA zrIpAlakI kaisI sevA kI thI, jisake prabhAvase unakA pati kAmadeva samAna niroga ho gayA thaa| (17) bImArIke samaya bahuta naranArI vyartha hI bhramotpAda bAteM kalpanA karake bImArakI davA Adi upacAra nahIM karate aura dhUrto (ThagoM) ke phande meM phaMsakara jhADa-phUMka (maMtra taMtra) karAte aura isa prakArakI bImArIko hAthase kho baiThate haiN| isaliye tuma kabhI aise bhole logoMke bahakAne meM na lgo| aura na kabhI pAkhaNDiyoMmeM dravya gamAo, kintu sadA apane va AsapAsavAloMke gharoMkI rakSA karanA tuma apanA kartavya smjho| (18) gharameM koI bImAra ho to usa bArIkIse bImArIkI jar3a DhuMDha nikaalo| prAyaH kharAba havA, adhika zIta, adhika uSNatA kharAba pAnI, prakRti viruddha anupasevya, abhakSya va aniSTa apavitra yA kaccA bhojana, maryAdA rahita bhojana, adhika bhojana kusamaya va rAtri bhojana ye saba roga utpanna honeke kAraNa haiM, isaliye isa ora dhyAna rkkho| (19) havA, pAnI ujelA aura pathya yogya honese hI auSadhi kAma detI hai| anyathA kusaMyogase kabhI amRtayoga auSadhi bhI viSakA kAma kara jAtI haiM isaliye ukta cAra bAtoM para vizeSa dhyAna denA caahiye| isake atirikta eka bAta aura dhyAnameM rakhanekI yaha hai ki tumheM rogIkA vizvAsa karake unake pAsa khAnepInekI koI vastu kabhI na rakhanA cAhiye, kyoMki yaha na mAlUma kaba kyA uThAkara khA le aura roga bar3ha jaay| kyoMki rogIkA citta DAMvADola rahatA

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [39 SOCIS CSECSECSESEOSESEISEX SEXSPISESEOS hai, isase kabhIra yaha ghabar3Akara jAnabUjhake kupathya kara baiThatA hai, isaliye usakI bahuta caukasI rakhanI caahie| (20) bImArake kamaremeM mana prasanna karanevAlI acchIra tasvIreM usake sAmane laTakAnA cAhiye jisase usakA citta unameM lagA rhe| aura vaha roga para punaH vicAra na karane paave| kyoMki niraMtara rogakA vicAra karate rahanese kabhIra rogIkA sAhasa ghaTa jAtA hai davAse vizvAsa uTha jAtA hai aura vaha rogako asAdhya mAnakara nirantara ciMtA ciMtAmeM bhasma hokara phira kabhI svAsthya lAbha nahIM kara sktaa| (21) rogIke pAsa baiThakara kabhI koI kAyaratA bhaya va zokotpAdaka bAta nahIM karanA cAhiye, na usase kabhI yaha kahanA cAhiye ki tumhArA roga asAdhya hai, kiMtu sadaiva use madhura vacanoM dvArA saMtoSa aura sAhasa baMdhAte rahanA cAhiye, kyoMki aisA na karanese kabhIra rogI ghabarA kara prANa taka choDa detA hai| isaliye sadaiva dila bahalAnevAlI uttama puruSoMkI kathAyeM, dhArmika upadeza, tatvacarcA, vairAgya bhAvanA, Izvarake guNAnuvAda, karmokA aura jIvakA svarUpa aura unase usake chUTanekA upAya ityAdikI carcA karate rahanA cAhiye tAki rogIkA lakSya rogakI ora jAve hI nhiiN| vedanA haTAnekA yaha bar3A bhArI upAya hai| (22) sabere uThakara gharake saba kibADa kholakara pratyeka sthAnameM navIna havA aura sUryakA prakAza pahuMcAnA cAhiye, kyoMki jisa gharameM havA aura prakAza barAbara nahIM pahuMcAyA jAtA hai usa gharameM rahanevAle aura adhikatara striyAM prAyaH pIlI par3a jAtI haiM aura sadaiva rogase pIDita banI rahakara vaisI hI nirbala saMtAna utpanna

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40] sasurAla jAte samaya OCRACHECRECRECROXIMOCROCHOCHOCIEOCIEOCTOCS karatI hai, paraMtu yaha saba bhUla haiN| isaliye havA aura prakAza saba makAnoMmeM pahuMcAnA atyAvazyaka haiN| rAtriko uparake bhAgameM rahanevAlI jAlIdAra khiDakiyAM havAke liye sadaiva khulI rakhanA cAhiye tAki sadaiva svaccha havA AtI jAtI rahe aura pakSI tathA cora AdikA bhI bhaya na rhe| (23) kabhI kabhI gharakI va AsapAsa vastIkI havA bigaDa jAnepara ghara va vastI kucha samayake lie choDa denA cAhiye, athavA havA zuddha karanevAle sugandhita padArthose havana kara pavana zuddhi karanA caahiye| (24) jisa prakAra havA Avazyaka hai usI prakAra pAnIkA bhI dhyAna rakhanA caahiye| pAnI uttama jalAzayase jahAM mailA Adi vastuyeM na paDatI ho vahAMse moTe kapaDeke do parta taka usase chAnakara lAnA cAhiye aura jIvAnI usI jalAzayameM pahuMcAnA cAhie pAnIke bartana bhUmise kucha UMcAI para rakhanA caahie| pAnImeM jUThe bartana nahIM DubonA caahiye| pAnIke bartana sadaiva aMdarase khUba kharoMcakara mAMjanA va dhonA caahiye| yadi pAnImeM kuMcha vAsa (gandha) AtI ho yA raMgata dikhAI de, to use Agapara garama kara phira ThaNDA karake kAmameM lAnA caahie| pAnIke samAna nahAne dhoneke liye bhI chanA huA pAnI Avazyaka hai| maiMle kucale hAthoM va apavitra zarIrase pAnI nahIM lenA cAhiye aura pAnI chAnanekA channA,maiMlA va phaTA huA nahIM rakhanA cAhie kintu sapheda svaccha gADhekA hove| (25) adhika sonA, dinako sonA va niyamAnusAra na sonA, sabere sUryodayake pIche bahuta samaya taka sote rahanA aura rAtriko vizeSa jAganA bhI svAsthyako hAnikAraka hai|

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [41 . POSEXSEXSEXCSEXSEXXSEXSEOCOSEOCEEDOSEOCOSEX (26) nikamme baiThe rahane meM bhI zarIrameM pramAda utpanna hokara aneka roga utpanna ho jAte haiN| isaliye mAnasika vA zArIrika ubhaya prakArake rogoMse bacaneke lie kabhI bhI nirudyamA nahIM rahanA caahiye| Ajakala bahutase puruSa apanI striyoMse gharakA kAma ( kUTanA, pIsanA, jhADanA, baToranA, roTI banAnA, baccoMko samhAlanA ityAdi) na karAkara unheM puruSoMke samAna Tenisa, kirakiTa hA~kI Adi khela khilAkara vyAyAma karanA cAhate haiM paraMtu yaha unakI bar3I bhUla hai| isase gharakA kAma ThIka na hokara baccoMkI samhAla bhI ThIka nahIM hotii| gharakA kharca bar3ha jAtA haiM aura choTe choTe kAmoMke liye bhI parAdhIna ho jAnA paDatA hai| isake sivAya striyoMkI lajjA bhI naSTa ho jAtI haiN| isaliye kUTanA, pIsanA, dalanA, jhADanA, pAnI bharanA, roTI karanA ityAdi kArya karanA hI uttamottama vyAyAma hai| isase eka pantha do kAja hote haiN| gharakA kArya uttamatAse ho, dravya bace aura svAsthya acchA rahe, samayakA bhI sadupayoga hove isalie gharake kAmoMse nivRtta honeke bAda zikSAprada dhArmika va naitika pustakoMkA svAdhyAya karanA cAhie va baccoMko bahalAte hue zikSA denI cAhie, IzvarakA bhajana karanA cAhie athavA rahaTiyA calAkara sUta kAtanA, kapar3e sInA, bunanA Adi kalAkauzala saMbaMdhI zikSA lenA caahie| aura yadi avakAza ho to kabhI kabhI apanI sAsu Adi gurAniyoMke sAtha bAhara khulI havAmeM bhI jAnA caahie| paraMtu to bhI gharUkAmoMko apane Apa karanekI apekSA aura koI bhI uttama vyAyAma nahIM ho sakatA haiN| (27) bahino aura beTiyoM! merA yaha saba kahanekA tAtparya yaha hai ki ArogyatA prApta karaneke lie sabase pradhAna kAraNa

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sasurAla jAte samaya PRECROCIEOSEXSECREECHECREECREOCHOCIRCRACK cittakI prasannatA hai, isaliye ve kAraNa jinase apanA va parakA citta prasanna rahe, yathAsaMbhava milAte rahanA caahiye| (28) striyoMko Rtu (mAsika) dharma pAlana karanA atyAvazyaka hai| prAyaH bahutasI striyAM ina dinomeM gharake saba kAmakAja karatI hai| sivAya roTI pakAneke kUTanA, pIsanA, pAnI bharanA, kapaDe dhonA, jhADanA, lIpanA, bartana mAMjanA, yahAM taka ki kisIse ghara nimaMtraNameM jImane jAnA, gAnA, bajAnA, aMjana, bhajana Adi zrRGgAra bhI karatI haiN| aisA karanA sarvathA varjita hai| isase saMtAna para bahuta burA prabhAva par3atA hai| dekhoM, barI pApaDa Adi acetana padArthokI inakI dRSTimAtrase kyA dazA hotI hai? isaliye inako ina dinoMmeM ukta saba kAmose alaga hI rahanA caahie| arthAt 4 dina taka ekAMta sthAna (kisI havAdAra koTharI) meM hI bitAnA cAhiye, aura apane bhojanake bartana va or3hane bichAneke kapaDe bilkula alaga rakhanA caahie| pazcAt pAMcave dina snAna karake gharakA kAma karanA ucita hai jisa gharameM rajodharmakI kriyA barAbara nahIM palatI hai, usa gharameM vratI zrAvaka va muni Adi satpAtroke AhArakI vidhi nahIM bana sakatI hai| isa viSayameM anya zrAvakAcAra va vaidyakake graMthoMmeM bahuta vicAra kiyA gayA hai, vahAMse dekhanA caahiye| yaha bAta svAsthyake lie bhI bahuta Avazyaka hai| (29) garbhavatI striyoMkI upavAsAdi vrata nahIM karanA cAhiye aura na manamAne khaTTe caTapaTe kaDUve Adi padArtha khAnA caahie| krodha, Alasa, vikathA, kalaha, mithyAbhASaNa, corI, kapaTa, maithuna Adi niMdyakArya nahIM karanA caahie| isase garbhasya

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [43 SOSPOSTO SEXSEOKSESBOCSOCSO CSO CSEXO CDXS bAlakako bahuta kaSTa pahuMcatA hai aura burA prabhAva par3atA hai tathA aMgahIna va rogI duHsvabhAvavAlI saMtAna hotI hai| (30) RtukAlameM garbhAdhAna honese bhI vikala aMga va duHsvabhAvavAlI asadAcArI saMtAna hotI hai| ataeva kamase kama 5 dina avazya hI bacA denA caahiye| (31) prAyaH bahutasI striyAM jaba kabhI gharase bAhara kahIM jImane Adike lie athavA mele ThelemeM jAtI haiM to bahutase vastrAbhUSaNoMse susajjita hokara ( yadi gharameM na hoM to mAMgakara bhI pahina) jAtI haiM jo ucita nahIM hai, paraMtu jaba ve ghara AtI hai to apane patike sanmukha maile kucale kapaDe pahinakara AbhUSaNa rahita naMga dhaDaMga (DAkanasI banakara) AtI haiN| isase hI unake pati unase ghRNA karane lagate haiN| isalie striyoMkA mukhya kartavya hai ki jaba ve kahIM bAhara jAveM, taba sAdhAraNa vastrAbhUSaNa pahinakara jAveM aura jaba patidevake sanmukha jAveM ( yadi pati ghara ho to rAtri samaya) to sampUrNa zrRMgAra karake jAveM jisase ArAdhya patikA citta unhIMke pAsa bandha jAve aura anyatra na jAne paave| zrRMgAra vAstavameM patihIke lie hotA hai, na ki auroMko dikhAneke lie| (32) yadi pati videzameM ho to bhI striyoMko zrRMgAra nahIM karanA caahie| tathA gharase bAhara atyanta AvazyakatA honepara bhI binA kisI vizvasta gurUjanako sAtha lie kadApi na jAnA caahie| (33) ajJAnatAvaza bahutasI putriyAM apane gurUjanoM (mAtA, pitA, mAmA, bar3A bhAI, kAkA, bar3I bhAbhI, mausI, phUA, phuphA, kAkI Adi) se apane paira pujavAtI haiM yaha unakI

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44] sasurAla jAte samaya ECRECTESCREDICTECRECTEDORESCRECTECTESCRECTECH baDI bhUla hai| isaliye inheM cAhie ki apane gurUjanoMse cAhe ve pitApakSake hoveM, cAheM zvasura (pati) pakSake hoM sabake svayaM pAMva pUjeM (pAvA Dhoka kreN|) (34) aMtima nivedana yahI hai ki gRhAsthAzrama eka bar3A bhArI vRkSa hai| isaliye isakI chAyA meM AnevAle va isakA Azraya lenevAle saba jIvoMkA yaha hitakArI va manovAMchita phaladAtA honA caahie| tAtparya yaha hai ki paropakAra, dAna atithisevA, devArcana paThanapAThanAdi kAryose gRhasthoMkI zobhA hotI hai jaisA ki nimnalikhita zlokase vidita hotA hai| isaliye usapara dhyAna denA cAhiye : sAnaMda sadanaM sutAstu sudhiyaH, kAMtA'mRtaM bhaassinnii| icchA jJAnadhanaM svayoSiti ratiH, svAjJAparA sevkaaH|| AtithyaM jinapUjanaM pratidinaM miSTaNannapAna gRhaM / sAdhoH saMgamupAsate hi satataM, dhanyo gRhsthaashrmH|| arthAt - jisa gharameM nitya AnaMdakA vAsa ho (saba prasanna citta hoM), putra buddhimAna hoM, strI miSTabhASiNI ho, jJAna hI jahAM dhana ho, puruSa apanI strI para prema karanevAlA ho, sevaka AjJAkArI ho, jahAM atithiyoMkA satkAra (dAna) hotA ho, jisameM jina bhagavAnakI pUjana hotI ho, jahAM miSTAna ( svAdiSTa zuddha) bhojana banatA ho, aura jahAM sAdhuoMkA samAgama rahatA ho, vaha ghara (gRhasthAzrama) dhanya hai| priya bandhuo aura bahino tathA beTiyo! kahAM haiM Aja ve mAtAeM jo apanI beTiyoMko ukta prakAra zikSaNa detI thI? hAya! Aja isa AryAvartameM dvija varNo meM bhI strI mahilAokA

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza ROCEBOOSTOLEROCIOCTRICTROCIROCIOCHROCEBOCHROCETICS eka prakArase abhAvasA hI dekhane meM AtA haiN| kahAM gaI sItA, draupadI, aMjanA, maiMnA va manoramA? hAya bhAratabhUmi! Aja tU aisI satiyoM va rAmacaMdra, harizacaMdra, vikrama jaise nararatnoM va umAsvAmI, samantabhadra, akalaGka Adi dharmapracArakoMko khokara hI gArata ho rahI hai| __ he bhAratIya sabhya naranAriyo! jAgo! jAgo! dekho eka pahiyese ratha nahIM clegaa| isaliye sthAna sthAna para putra aura putriyoMkI pAThazAlAeM kholo, Azrama kholo, rIti nIti va sadharma prakArakI zikSAkA gharogharameM pracAra karo tAki aihika sukhoMkI prApti ho, aura pAralaukika sukhoMke nikaTa bhI pahuMca sko| isa samaya hamako puruSoMmeM jaise sadAcAra vyApAra AdikI zikSA denA amISTa hai, usI prakAra striyoMmeM bhI kucha vyavahAragRhasthAzrama saMbaMdhI saba prakArakI zikSA denA Avazyaka hai| unnati yA avanatikA eka pradhAna kAraNa striyoMko bhI samajhanA caahiye| itylm| zrAvaNa vadi tithi mAgaNA, saMvat vIra mhnt| tIrthaMkara hata gatinako, loka zikhara tisstthnt|| samAja-hiteSI(sva.) varNI dIpacaMda paravAra, ( narasiMhapura P. C. nivAsI ) aysaay

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sasurAla jAte samaya SXSEOCIEOCORRECORPOCSOCTOCROCHECREOCTOCHEECHECE nArIjIvana-sAphalya jaina mahilAo uTho, kartavya cyuta kyoM ho rhiiN| par3akara avidyA nIMdameM, sarvasva apanA kho rhiiN| dhyAna do isapara tanika, kyoM hai huI aisI dshaa| dAsI banA hamako manuja, kyoM kara rahe yoM dudshaa||1|| jinameM sahastroM zikSitA, sAdhvI satI thIM pNdditaa| dropadI sItA sadRza sUrapUjya sadguNa mnndditaa|| unameM azikSA, mUrkhatA, ahamanyatAke vaza huii| pairakI jUtI saddaza, yaha pada pai ThukarAI gaI // 2 // yadi Atmagaurava aura pUrvaja dharma satiyoMkI tumheMhai lAja, strI janmako sArthaka bahina karanA tumheN| to phUTa matsara, IyA, ajJAna, Alasa, tyAga do| saMyukta balase zikSitA ho, vizvameM lalakAra do||3|| hama nAriyAM haiM mAnavoMse dharmakI shkaarinnii| deza jAtyoddhArako hama, pUrNa haiM adhikaarinnii|| kartavya apanese punaH gRha svarga tulya bnaayeNgii| aMjanA o celanA ko, jyotiyAM jhlkaayeNgii||4|| taja pattharoMke dhRNita gahane, dharma. AbhUSaNa sjaa| azlIla gAne tyAga strI-dharmakI baMzI bjaa|| nija putriyoM aura bAlakoMmeM, bhavya jyoti jgaayeNgii| niMdya nArI janmako, sArthaka ahA! kara jaayeNgii||5|| O

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putrIko mAtAkA upadeza [47 SOCIOECSECSESBOSBOSCOSOBOSCOSPOSOOS pUrva Adarza satI sItA so vaha mahimA, dikhAdo Aja phira koii| dharma apane pai dRr3ha rahanA, sikhAdo Aja phira koii|| dhruv| ki jaisI nArI thI sItA, ho vaisI nAri tuma bhI to| vahI kartavya nArIkA, batAdo Aja phira koI // 1 // huI haiM dharma honA saba, nahIM vidyAna gaurava hai| nArikA karma kyA hai A, lakhAdo Aja phira koii||2|| ucca Adarza dikhalAkara, baDhAyA thA satI gaurv| nAma zreNImeM unakI tuma, likhAdo Aja phira koI // 3 // kiyA ujjavala thA muM apanA, sabhI saMsArake aage| suyazakI jyoti jagameM jaga-magA do Aja phira koii||4|| uTho e viduSiyo! mahilAokI hai DUbatI naiyaa| kinAre, Ake e bahino, lagAdo Aja phira koii||5|| par3I haiM nIMda gaphalatameM avidyAkA nazA piikr| unheM sadjJAna amRta rasa, pilA do Aja phira koI // 6 // nahIM haiM teja bala sAhasa, banI kAyara sumati hiinaa| kalI sAhasakI dilameM A, khilAdo Aja phira koii||7|| "yatra nAryastu pUjyaMte, ramante devatA ttr|" isI priyanAdase nabhako, hilAdo Aja phira koI // 8 //

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48] sasurAla jAte samaya EXC8EXPOSODBO CSDD CSDD CSEXSO SEX SEX SEC8063 vidyA-mahimA prApta hogA vidyAse maan|| ttek|| pyArI bahano uTho sajo nija pUrva Atma sanmAna // 1 // jJAna prakAza pracura prakaTAo, dharma pativrata jyoti jgaao| zikSA strota sarasa sarasAo, sadguNa, sadvidyA apanAo, karo Atma kalyANa // 2 // karma kSetrameM paira bar3hAo, aikya dundubhi madhura bjaao| sAhasa ThAni viveka sajAo, mahilA-mahimA-atula baDhAo, prema sudhA kari pAna // 3 // vidyA vihita rUpa yauvana dhana, uttama kula santati nirmala tn| sukhadAyaka hai nahIM eka kSaNa, lalita kusuma semara sAhaza hai, vyartha na zobhAvAna // 4 // nava mahilA udyAna sajAkara, vidyAviTapa manojJa lgaakr| prema vArise rucira bar3hAkara, iMcchita phalako prApta karo, haiM yahI saukhya sopAna // 5 //

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0-00 ....................... AdhyAtmika graMtha bRhata sAmAyika pATha aura pratikamaNa 20-00 nemInAtha purANa 30-00 jambUsvAmI caritra zrI pAlacaritra dazalakSaNa dharmadIpaka (dazalakSaNavrata kathA sahit) 10-00 mahArANIcelanI 15-00 dharmaparIkSA 20-00 ArAdhanA kathA-koSa bhA-1 15-00 mokSazAstra(tattvArthasUtra) 40-00 mokSamArgakI saccI kahAnI 10-00 jainavrata kathA(40 vrata kathA) gaummaTa sAra jIvakAMDa 30-00 gaummaTa sAra karmakAMDa 28-00 svAmI kArtikeya anuprekSA 42-00 paramAtmaprakAza aura yogasAra 40-00 pravacanasAra-(kundakundAcArya) 36-00 labdhisAra(kSapaNAsAragarbhita) 64-00 aSTasahastrI bhAga 1-2-3 328-00 jaina dharmakA prAcIna itihAsa prathama bhAga 121-00 NamokAragraMtha 131-00 jainendra siddhAMta koSa 1-2-3-4-5 (12045) 600-00 sarvArthasiddhi 140-00 bhaktAmara rahasya(yaMtramaMtra sacitra) 80-00 digambara jaina pustakAlaya khapATiyA cakalA, gAMdhIcauka, sUrata-3.Te. naM.(0261)427621 .......... . . . . .

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eka hI jagahase graMtha maMgAveM hamAre yahAM dharma, nyAya jyotiSa, siddhAMta, kathA, ! purANa SaTkhaNDAgama, dhavala, jayadhavalake atirikta pavitra kAzmIrIkezara, dazAMga, dhUpa, agarabattI, kAMcakI va cAMdIkI mAlAyeM, janoI, jaina paMcaraMgI jhaMDA, bambaI (zolApura) indaura, dillI tInoM jaina parIkSAlayake pAThyakramakI pustakeM maMgavAkara hamAre lie sevAkA avasara diijiye| grAhakoMko saMtoSita karanA hamArA lakSya hai| parvake avasara para AvazyaktAnusAra uccakoTike jaina grantha ratna par3hake manuSya janma saphala banAIre ka patra ya khapATiyA cakalA, gAMdhIcauka, sUrata-3. Te. naM. (0261) 427621