Krodh

Author(s): Dada Bhagwan
Publisher: Mahavideh Foundation
Catalog link: https://jainqq.org/explore/009590/1

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krodha se zIla kA pratApa vizeSa ! ye krodha, mAna, mAyA aura lobha yahIM sArI kamaz2oriyA~ haiM jo balavAna hotA hai use krodha karane kI jarUrata hI kahA~ rahI ? magara yaha to krodha kA jo pratApa hai usa pratApa se sAmanevAle ko vaza meM karane jAtA hai, para jise krodha nahIM usake pAsa kucha hogA to sahI na ? usakA zIla nAmaka jo cAritrya hai usase jAnavara taka vaza meM ho jAte haiN| bAgha, zera, duzmana sabhI, sArA lazkara sabhI vaza meM ho jaayeN| 'dAdAzrI - krodha DaoN. nIrUbahana amIna

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dAdA bhagavAna prarUpita prakAzaka : ajita sI. paTela mahAvideha phAunDezana dAdA darzana, 5, mamatApArka sosAyaTI, navagujarAta kaoNleja ke pIche, usmAnapurA, ahamadAbAda - 380014, gujarAta. phona - (079) 27540408,27543979 E-Mail: info@dadabhagwan.org All Rights reserved - Dr. Niruben Amin Trimandir, Simandhar City, Ahmedabad-Kalol Highway, Post - Adalaj, Dist.-Gandhinagar-382421, Gujarat, India. krodha prathama saMskaraNa : prata 3000, pharavarI 2007 bhAva mUlya : 'parama vinaya' aura 'maiM kucha bhI jAnatA nahIM', yaha bhAva! dravya mUlya : 2.50 rupaye lesara kampojha : dAdA bhagavAna phAunDezana, ahamadAbAda. mUla gujarAtI saMkalana : DaoN. nIrUbahana amIna mudraka anuvAda : mahAtmAgaNa : mahAvideha phAunDezana (priMTiMga DivIz2ana), pArzvanAtha caimbarsa, naI riz2arva baiMka ke pAsa, usmAnapurA, ahamadAbAda-380014. phona : (079) 27542964, 27540216

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trimaMtra dAdA bhagavAna phAunDezana ke dvArA prakAzita pustakeM hindI 1. jJAnI purUSa kI pahacAna 7. bhUgate usI kI bhUla 2. sarva du:khoM se mukti 8. eDajasTa evarIvheyara 3. karma kA vijJAna 9. TakarAva TAlie 4. Atmabodha 10. huA so nyAya 5. maiM kauna hU~? 11. ciMtA 6. vartamAna tIrthakara zrI sImaMdhara svAmI 12. krodha English 1. Adjust Everywhere 14. Ahimsa (Non-violence) 2. The Fault of the Sufferer 15. Money 3. Whatever has happened is Justice 16. Celibacy : Brahmcharya 4. Avoid Clashes 17. Harmony in Marriage 5. Anger 18. Pratikraman 6. Worries 19. Flawless Vision 7. The Essence of All Religion 20. Generation Gap 8. Shree Simandhar Swami 21. Apatvani-1 9. Pure Love 22. Noble Use of Money 10. Death: Before, During & After... 23. Life Without Conflict 11. Gnani Purush Shri A.M.Patel 24. Spirituality in Speech 12. Who Am I? 25. Trimantra 13. The Science of Karma dAdA bhagavAna phAunDezana ke dvArA gujarAtI bhASA meM bhI bahuta sArI pustakeM prakAzita huI hai| vebasAiTa www.dadabhagwan.org para se bhI Apa ye sabhI pustakeM prApta kara sakate haiN| dAdA bhagavAna phAunDezana ke dvArA hara mahIne hindI, gujarAtI tathA aMgrejI bhASA meM dAdAvANI megez2Ina prakAzita hotA hai|

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'dAdA bhagavAna kauna? jUna 1958 kI eka saMdhyA kA karIba cha: baje kA samaya, bhIr3a se bharA surata zahara kA relve stteshn| pleTaphArma naM. 3 kI beMca para baiThe zrI aMbAlAla malajIbhAI paTela rUpI dehamaMdira meM kudaratI rUpa se, akrama rUpa meM, kaI janmoM se vyakta hone ke lie Atura 'dAdA bhagavAna' pUrNa rUpa se pragaTa hue| aura kudarata ne sarjita kiyA adhyAtma kA adbhuta aashcry| eka ghaNTe meM unako vizva darzana huaa| maiM kauna? bhagavAna kauna? jagata kauna calAtA hai? karma kyA? mukti kyA?' ityAdi jagata ke sAre AdhyAtmika praznoM ke saMpUrNa rahasya prakaTa hue| isa taraha kudarata ne vizva ke sanmukha eka advitIya pUrNa darzana prastuta kiyA aura usakemAdhyama bane zrI aMbAlAla malajIbhAI paTela, carotara kSetra ke bhAdaraNa gA~va ke pATIdAra, kAnTrekTa kA vyavasAya karane vAle, phira bhI pUrNatayA vItarAga puruSa! unheM prApti huI, usI prakAra kevala do hI ghaNToM meM anya mumukSu janoM ko bhI ve AtmajJAna kI prApti karavAte the, unake adbhuta siddha hue jJAnaprayoga se| use akrama mArga khaa| akrama, arthAta binA krama ke, aura krama arthAta sIr3hI dara sIr3hI, kramAnusAra Upara cddh'naa| akrama arthAta liphTa maarg| zaoNrTa ktt| ApazrI svayaM pratyeka ko 'dAdA bhagavAna kauna?' kA rahasya batAte hue kahate the ki "yaha dikhAI denevAle dAdA bhagavAna nahIM hai, ve to 'e. ema. paTela' hai| hama jJAnI puruSa haiM aura bhItara prakaTa hue haiM, ve 'dAdA bhagavAna' haiN| dAdA bhagavAna to caudaha loka ke nAtha haiN| ve Apa meM bhI haiN| sabhI meM haiN| ApameM avyakta rUpa meM rahe hue haiM aura yahA~' saMpUrNa rUpa se vyakta hue haiN| dAdA bhagavAna ko maiM bhI namaskAra karatA haiN|" 'vyApAra meM dharma honA cAhie, dharma meM vyApAra nahIM', isa siddhAMta se unhoMne pUrA jIvana bitaayaa| jIvana meM kabhI bhI unhoMne kisI ke pAsa se paisA nahIM liyaa| balki apane vyavasAya kI atirikta kamAI se bhaktoM ko yAtrA karavAte the| AtmajJAna prApti kI pratyakSa lIMka ! 'maiM to kucha logoM ko apane hAthoM siddhi pradAna karanevAlA huuN| pIche anugAmI cAhie ki nahIM cAhie? pIche logoM ko mArga to cAhie na?" - dAdAzrI parama pUjanIya dAdAzrI gA~va-gA~va, deza-videza paribhramaNa karake mumukSu janoM ko satsaMga aura AtmajJAna kI prApti karavAte the| ApazrI ne apane jIvanakAla meM hI pUjanIya DaoN. nIrUbahana amIna (nIrUmA~) ko AtmajJAna prApta karavAne kI jJAnasiddhi pradAna kI thii| dAdAzrI ke dehavilaya pazcAt nIrUmA~ vaise hI mumukSujanoM ko satsaMga aura AtmajJAna kI prApti, nimitta bhAva se karavA rahI thii| pUjya dIpakabhAI desAI ko dAdAzrI ne satsaMga karane kI siddhi pradAna kI thii| nIrUmA~ kI upasthiti meM hI unake AzIrvAda se pUjya dIpakabhAI deza-videzo meM kaI jagahoM para jAkara mumukSuoM ko AtmajJAna karavA rahe the, jo nIrUmA~ ke dehavilaya pazcAt jArI rhegaa| isa AtmajJAnaprApti ke bAda hajAroM mumukSu saMsAra meM rahate hue, jimmedAriyA~ nibhAte hue bhI mukta rahakara AtmaramaNatA kA anubhava karate haiN| graMtha meM mudrita vANI mokSArthI ko mArgadarzaka ke rupa meM atyaMta upayogI siddha ho, lekina mokSaprApti hetu AtmajJAna pAnA jarUrI hai| akrama mArga ke dvArA AtmajJAna kI prApti Aja bhI jArI hai, isake lie pratyakSa AtmajJAnI ko milakara AtmajJAna kI prApti kare tabhI saMbhava hai| prajvalita dIpaka hI dUsarA dIpaka prajvalita kara sakatA hai|

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nivedana AtmajJAnI zrI aMbAlAla mUlajIbhAI paTela, jinheM loga 'dAdA bhagavAna' ke nAma se bhI jAnate haiM, unake zrImukha se Atmatattva ke bAre meM jo vANI nikalI, usako rikArDa karake saMkalana tathA saMpAdana karake graMtho meM prakAzita kI gaI hai| maiM kauna hU~?' pustaka meM AtmA, AtmajJAna tathA jagatakartA ke bAre meM buniyAdI bAteM saMkSipta meM saMkalita kI gaI haiN| sujJa vAcaka ke adhyayana karate hI AtmasAkSAtkAra kI bhUmikA nizcita bana jAtI hai, aisA anekoM kA anubhava hai| 'aMbAlAlabhAI' ko saba 'dAdAjI' kahate the| 'dAdAjI' yAne pitAmaha aura 'dAdA bhagavAna' to ve bhItaravAle paramAtmA ko kahate the| zarIra bhagavAna nahIM ho sakatA hai, vaha to vinAzI hai| bhagavAna to avinAzI hai aura use ve 'dAdA bhagavAna' kahate the, jo jIvamAtra ke bhItara hai| saMpAdakIya krodha eka kamajorI hai, magara loga use bahAdurI samajhate haiN| krodha karane vAle se krodha nahIM karane vAle kA prabhAva kucha jyAdA hI hotA hai / Ama taura para jaba hamArI dhAraNA ke anusAra nahIM hotA, hamArI bAta sAmanevAlA samajhatA nahIM ho, Dipharansa oNpha vyupoInTa (dRSTibindu kA bheda) hotA hai, taba krodha ho jAtA hai| kaI bAra hama sahI hoM para koI hameM galata ThaharAye, taba krodha ho jAtA hai| para hama sahI haiM vaha hamAre dRSTibiMdu se hI na?sAmanevAlA bhI khuda ke dRSTibiMdu se khuda ko sahI hI mAnegA na! kaI bAra samajha meM nahIM Ane para, Age kA naz2ara nahIM AtA aura kyA karanA, yaha samajha meM hI nahIM AtA, taba krodha ho jAtA hai| apamAna hogA vahA~ krodha hogA, nukasAna hogA vahA~ krodha hogaa| isa prakAra mAna ke rakSaNArtha, lobha ke rakSaNArtha krodha ho jAtA hai| vahA~ mAna aura lobha kaSAya se mukta hone kI jAgRti meM AnA jarUrI hai| naukara se cAya ke kapa TUTa jAyeM, taba krodha ho jAtA hai, magara jamAI ke hAthoM TUTe taba? vahA~ krodha kaisA kaMTrola meM rahatA hai! arthAta bilipha (mAnyatA) para hI AdhArita hai na ? koI hamArA nukasAna yA apamAna kare to vaha hamAre hI karma kA phala hai, sAmane vAlA nimitta hai, aisI samajha phiTa ho gaI ho, tabhI krodha jaayegaa| jahA~-jahA~ aura jaba jaba krodha AtA hai, taba-taba noTa kara ke usa para jAgRti rkheN| aura hamAre krodha kI vajaha se jisako duHkha huA ho, usakA pratikramaNa kareM, pachatAvA kareM aura phira nahIM karU~gA aisA dRr3ha nizcaya kreN| kyoMki jisake prati krodha hogA, use duHkha hotA hai aura vaha phira baira baaNdhegaa| isI kAraNa agale janma meM phira A milegaa| mA~-bApa apanI saMtAnoM para aura guru apane ziSyoM para krodha kareM to usase puNya ba~dhatA hai, kyoMki usake pIche kA uddeza, tAtparya usake bhale ke lie, sudhArane hetu hai| svArtha ke khAtira hone para pApa ba~dhatA hai| vItarAgoM kI samajha kI bArIkI to dekhie !! prastuta pustikA meM krodha, jo ki bahuta parezAna karane vAlA khulA kaSAya hai, usake saMbaMdhI sArI bAteM kramaza: saMkalita kara yahA~ prakAzita huI haiM, jo sujJa pAThaka ko krodha se mukta hone meM pUrNatayA sahAyaka ho, yahI abhyrthnaa| - DaoN. nIrUbahana amIna prastuta anuvAda meM yaha vizeSa khyAla rakhA gayA hai ki vAcaka ko dAdAjI kI hI vANI sunI jA rahI hai, aisA anubhava ho| unakI hindI ke bAre meM unake hI zabda meM kaheM to "hamArI hindI yAne gujarAtI, hindI aura aMgrejI kA mizcara hai, lekina jaba 'TI' (cAya) banegI, taba acchI bnegii|" jJAnI kI vANI ko hindI bhASA meM yathArtha rUpa se anuvAdita karane kA prayatna kiyA gayA hai kintu dAdAzrI ke AtmajJAna kA sahI Azaya, jyoM kA tyoM to, Apako gujarAtI bhASA meM hI avagata hogaa| jinheM jJAna kI gaharAI meM jAnA ho, jJAna kA sahI marma samajhanA ho, vaha isa hetu gujarAtI bhASA sIkheM, aisI hamArA anurodha hai| anuvAda saMbaMdhI kamiyoM ke lie Apa ke kSamAprArthI haiN|

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krodha krodha kauna mAne, "maiM galata ?" praznakartA : hamAre sahI hone para bhI koI hameM galata ThaharAye, to bhItara usa para krodha AtA hai| to vaha krodha turanta na Aye, isa lie kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : hA~, magara Apa sahI ho taba na? kyA Apa sahI hote haiM vAstava meM? Apa sahI haiM, aisA Apako patA calatA haiM? praznakartA : hameM hamArA AtmA kahatA hai, ki hama sahI haiN| dAdAzrI : yaha to khuda-ba-khuda jaja, khuda hI vakIla aura khuda hI AropI, isalie Apa sahI hI hoMge na? Apa phira galata hoMge hI nahIM na? sAmanevAle ko bhI aisA hotA hai ki maiM hI sahI huuN| ApakI samajha meM AyA? ye haiM sabhI kamajoriyA~ koI tujhe dhamakAye, to tU ugra ho jAyegA na? praznakartA : hA~, ho jAtA huuN| dAdAzrI : to vaha kamajorI kahalAye yA bahAdurI kahalAye? praznakartA : para kisI jagaha to krodha honA hI cAhie ! dAdAzrI : nahIM, nhiiN| krodha to khuda hI eka kamajorI hai| kisI jagaha krodha honA cAhie. yaha to saMsArI bAta hai| yaha to khuda se krodha nikalatA nahIM haiM, isalie aisA bolate haiM ki krodha honA hI caahie| mana bhI nahIM bigar3e vaha balavAna praznakartA : taba phira merA koI apamAna kare aura maiM cupacApa baiThA rahU~ to vaha nirbalatA nahIM kahalAyegI? dAdAzrI : nahIM, ohoho! apamAna sahana karanA, yaha to mahAna bahAdurI khlaaye| abhI hameM koI gAliyA~ de, to hameM kucha bhI nahIM hogaa| usake prati mana bhI nahIM bigar3egA, yahI bahAdurI ! aura nirbalatA to ye sabhI kica-kica karate rahate hai na, jIva mAtra laThThabAjI karate rahate hai na, vo saba nirbalatA khlaaye| isalie apamAna zAMti se sahana karanA, yaha mahAna bahAdurI hai aura aisA apamAna eka bAra hI pAra kara deM, eka kadama lA~gha jAyeM, to sau kadama lA~ghane kI zakti prApta ho jAtI hai| ApakI samajha meM AyA? sAmanevAlA balavAna ho to usake sAmane to jIvamAtra nirbala ho hI jAtA hai| vaha to usakA svAbhAvika guNa hai| para yadi nirbala manuSya hameM cher3e, taba hama use kucha bhI nahIM kareM, taba vaha bahAdurI khlaayegii| vAstava meM nirbala kA rakSaNa karanA cAhie aura balavAna kA sAmanA karanA caahie| para isa kaliyuga meM aise manuSya hI nahIM rahe haiN| abhI to nirbala ko hI mAra mAra karate haiM aura balavAna se bhAgate haiN| bahuta kama loga aise haiM, jo nirbala kI rakSA karate haiM aura balavAna kA pratikAra karate prazrakartA : kintu mujhe yaha pUchanA thA ki anyAya ke lie cir3ha ho, vaha to acchA hai na? kisI bAta para hameM spaSTatayA anyAya hotA naz2ara Aye, taba jo prakopa hogA, vaha yogya hai? dAdAzrI : aisA hai, ki yaha saba krodha aura ciDha, ye sabhI kamajoriyA~ (vikanesa) haiN| sAre saMsAra ke pAsa ye kamajoriyA~ haiN|

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krodha krodha haiN| aisA ho to vaha kSatriya guNa kahalAyegA / bAkI, sArA saMsAra kamajora ko mAratA rahatA hai| ghara jAkara marda aurata para mardAnagI dikhAtA hai| khUTeba~dhI gAya ko mAreMge to vaha kisa ora jAyegI? aura chor3akara mAreMge to? bhAga jAyegI, nahIM to sAmanA kregii| manuSya khuda kI zakti ho to bhI sAmanevAle ko nahIM satAtA, apane duzmana ko bhI nahIM satAtA, usakA nAma bahAdurI hai| abhI koI Apake Upara krodha karatA ho aura Apa usa para krodha kareM, to vaha kAyaratA nahIM kahalAyegI? arthAta merA kyA kahanA hai ki ye krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha, ye saba nirbalatAeM haiN| jo balavAna hai, use krodha karane kI jarUrata hI kahA~ rahI? para yaha to krodha kA jo ruAba hai, usa ruAba se sAmanevAle ko vaza meM karane jAte haiM, para jise krodha nahIM hotA ho, usake pAsa ora kucha hogA to sahI na? usake pAsa 'zIla' nAma kA jo cAritrya hai, usase jAnavara bhI vaza meM A jAte haiN| bAgha, zera, duzmana, sabhI vaza meM A jAte hai! krodhI vaha abalA hI praznakartA : para dAdAjI, yadi koI manuSya kabhI hama para ubala par3e taba kyA karanA? dAdAzrI: ubala hI par3egA na! usake hAtha kI bAta thoDe hI hai? usake aMdara kI mazInarI para usakA aMkuza nahIM hai na! yaha jyoM-tyoM kara ke aMdara kI mazInarI calatI rahatI hai| apane aMkuza meM hone para to mazInarI garama hone hI nahIM degA na! yaha z2arA sA bhI garama ho jAnA yAnI gadhA ho jAnA, manuSya hokara gadhA ho jAnA! para aisA koI karegA hI nahIM na! jahA~ apanA aMkuza nahIM hai, vahA~ para phira kyA ho sakatA hai ? aisA hai, isa saMsAra meM kisI bhI samaya uttejita hone kA koI kAraNa hI nahIM hai| koI kahegA ki, "yaha lar3akA merA kahA nahIM mAnatA hai|" to bhI vaha ugra hone kA kAraNa nahIM hai| vahA~ tujhe ThaMDA raha kara kAma lenA hai| yaha to tU nirbala hai, isalie garama ho jAtA hai aura garama ho jAnA to bhayaMkara nirbalatA kahalAtI hai| isalie adhikAdhika nirbalatA hone para to garama hotA hai na! kamajora ko gussA bahuta AtA hai| isalie jo garama ho jAtA hai, usa para to dayA AnI cAhie ki isa becAre kA krodha para kucha bhI kaMTrola nahIM hai| jisakA apanA svabhAva bhI kaMTrola meM nahIM hai, usa para dayA AnI caahie| garama honA yAnI kyA ? ki pahale khuda jalanA aura bAda meM sAmanevAle ko jalA denaa| yaha diyAsalAI dAgI yAnI khuda bhar3a-bhar3a sulaganA aura phira sAmanevAle ko jalA ddaalnaa| arthAta garama honA apane vaza meM hotA to koI garama hotA hI nhiiN| jalana kise acchI lagegI? koI aisA kahe ki, "saMsAra meM kabhI kabhI krodha karane kI z2arUrata hotI hai|" taba maiM kahU~gA ki, "nahIM, aisA koI kAraNa nahIM hai ki jahA~ krodha karanA jarUrI ho|" krodha nirbalatA hai, isalie ho jAtA hai| bhagavAna ne isalie krodhI ko 'abalA' kahA hai| puruSa to kauna kahalAye? krodhamAna-mAyA-lobha Adi nirbalatAe~ jisameM nahIM hotIM, unheM bhagavAna ne 'puruSa' kahA hai| arthAta ye jo puruSa naz2ara Ate ho, unako 'abalA' kahA haiM, lekina unheM zarma nahIM AtI na? utane acche hai, varnA 'abalA' kahane para zaramA jAte na! lekina inako koI samajha hI nahIM hai| samajha kitanI hai? nahAne kA pAnI rakho to nahA leN| khAnA, nahAnA, sonA, ina sabakI samajha haiM, para dUsarI kucha samajha nahIM hai| manuSyatva kI jo vizeSa samajha kahI gaI hai, ki yaha 'sajjana puruSa' hai, aisI sajjanatA logoM ko naz2ara Aye, usakI samajha nahIM hai| krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha yaha to khulI kamajorI haiM aura bahuta krodha Ane para Apane hAtha-paira kA~pate nahIM dekhe? prazrakartA : zarIra bhI manA karatA hai ki tujhe krodha karane jaisA nahIM hai| dAdAzrI : hA~, zarIra bhI manA karatA hai ki yaha krodha hameM zobhA

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krodha nahIM detaa| arthAta krodha to bhArI kamajorI kahalAye / isalie krodha karanA hamAre lie ucita nahIM hai| nikhare parsanAliTI (vyaktitva), binA kamaz2orI praznakartA : yadi koI manuSya choTe bacce ko pITa rahA ho aura hama vahA~ se gujara rahe hoM, taba use aisA karane se manA kareM aura nahIM mAnane para Akhira meM DA~Takara yA krodha karake rokanA cAhie ki nahIM? dAdAzrI : krodha karane para bhI vaha mAre bagaira rahegA nhiiN| are, Apako bhI mAregA ! phira usake sAtha Apako krodha kyoM karanA cAhie? use AhistA se kucha kaheM, vyAvahArika bAtacIta kreN| bAkI usake prati krodha kareM vaha to vIkanesa (kamaz2orI) hai| praznakartA: to bacce ko pITane denA? dAdAzrI : nahIM, vahA~ jAkara hama kaheM ki, " bhAI jI, Apa aisA kyoM karate haiM ? isa bacce ne ApakA kyA bigAr3A hai?" aise use samajhAkara bAta kara sakate haiN| Apa usa para krodha kareM, vaha to ApakI kamaz2orI hogii| pahale apane meM kamaz2orI nahIM honI caahie| jisameM kamaz2orI nahIM hogI, usakA to prabhAva paDegA hii| vaha to yU~ hI sAmAnya rUpa meM hI kahegA na, to bhI sabhI mAna jaayeNge| praznakartA: kadAcita nahIM mAne ! dAdAzrI : nahIM mAnane kI kyA vajaha hai ? ApakI parsanAliTI (prabhAva) nahIM paDatI / arthAta, kamaz2orI nahIM honI cAhie, cAritryavAna honA caahie| 'mena oNpha parsanAliTI' honA caahie| lAkhoM gu~De use dekhate hI dafA ho jAyeM! cir3acir3e AdamI se to koI dafA nahIM hotA, ulTA mAreMge bhI! saMsAra to kamaz2ora ko hI mAregA na !! arthAta mena oNpha parsanAliTI honA caahie| parsanAliTI kaba AtI krodha hai ( vyaktitva kaba nikhare)? vijJAna jAnane para parsanAliTI AtI hai| isa saMsAra meM jo bhUla jAte hai, vaha (rileTIva) vyavahAra jJAna hai aura jise kabhI bhI bhulAyA nahIM jA sakatA vaha vijJAna hai| garamI se hima bhArI Apako mAlUma hai, himavarSA hotI hai? hima yAnI kAtila ThaMDa ! usa hima se per3a jala jAte hai, kapAsa ghAsa saba jala jAtA hai| vaha ThaMDa meM kyoM jala jAtA hogA? praznakartA: 'asImita' ThaMDa ke kaarnn| dAdAzrI : hA~, arthAta yadi Apa ThaMDe hokara raheM to aisA 'zIla' utpanna hogaa| 6 krodha baMda vahA~ pratApa praznakartA: para dAdAjI, z2arUrata se jyAdA ThaMDA honA, vaha bhI to eka kamaz2orI hai na? dAdAzrI : z2arUrata se jyAdA ThaMDA hone kI z2arUrata hI nahIM hai| hameM to limiTa meM rahanA hai, use 'normAliTI' kahate hai| bIlo normala iz2a da phIvara, ebaoNva normala iz2a da phIvara, nAinTI eiTa (98) ija da normala / arthAta hameM normAliTI hI caahie| krodhI ke bajAya krodha na karanevAle se loga adhika Darate haiN| kyA kAraNa hogA isakA? krodha baMda ho jAne para pratApa utpanna hotA hai, aisA kudarata kA niyama hai| nahIM to usako rakSaNa karanevAlA hI nahIM milatA na! krodha to rakSaNa thA, ajJAnatA meM krodha se rakSaNa hotA thA / cir3acir3e kA naMbara AkhirI praznakartA : sAtvika cir3ha yA sAtvika krodha acchA hai yA nahIM?

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krodha krodha praznakartA : udAharaNa dekara samajhAie to adhika spaSTatA hogii| dAdAzrI : hamAre loga nahIM kahate ki "kyoM bahuta gussA ho gaye?" taba kahe, "mujhe kucha sUjhatA nahIM, isalie gussA ho gyaa|" hA~, kucha sUjha nahIM par3ane para manuSya gussA kara baiThatA hai| jise sUjha par3e vaha gussA karegA? gussA karanA yAnI kyA? vaha gussA pahalA inAma kise degA? jahA~ nikalegA vahA~ pahale khuda ko jalAyegA, phira dUsare ko jlaayegaa| krodhAgni jalAyeM sva-para ko dAdAzrI : use loga kyA kaheMge? ye bacce bhI use kaheMge ki, "ye to cir3acir3e hI haiN|" cir3ha vaha mUrkhatA hai, phUlizanesa hai| cir3ha kamajorI kahalAtI hai| baccoM se hama pUche ki, "tumhAre pApAjI kaise hai?" taba ve bhI batAyeMge ki. "ve to bahata ciDacir3e hai|" bolie, aba AbarU bar3hI yA ghaTI? yaha kamajorI nahIM honI caahie| arthAta jahA~ sAtvikatA hogI, vahA~ kamajorI nahIM hogii| ghara ke choTe baccoM ko pUche ki, "tumhAre ghara meM pahalA naMbara kisakA?" taba bacce khojabIna kareM ki merI mA~ cir3hatI nahIM hai, isalie saba se acchI vaha hai| pahalA naMbara uskaa| phira dUsarA, tIsarA karate karate pApA kA naMbara Akhira meM AtA hai!!! aisA kyoM? kyoMki ve cir3hate haiN| cir3acir3e hai islie| maiM kahU~ ki, "pApA paise lAkara kharca karate haiM, phira bhI usakA AkhirI naMbara?" taba ve 'hA~' kahate haiN| bolie aba! mehanatamaz2adarI kareM, khilAyeM, paise lAkara deM, phira bhI AkhirI naMbara ApakA hI AtA hai na? krodha yAnI aMdhApana praznakartA : manuSya ko krodha Ane kA sAmAnya rUpa se mukhya kAraNa kyA ho sakatA hai? dAdAzrI : dikhanA baMda ho jAtA hai islie| manuSya dIvAra se kaba TakarAyegA? jaba use dIvAra naz2ara nahIM AtI, taba TakarAyegA na? isa prakAra aMdara naz2ara AnA baMda ho jAtA hai, isalie manuSya se krodha ho jAtA hai| Age kA rAstA nahIM milane para krodha ho jAtA hai| sUjha nahIM par3ane para krodha krodha kaba AtA hai ? taba kaheM, darzana aTakatA hai, isalie jJAna aTakatA hai, isalie krodha utpanna hotA hai| mAna bhI aisA hai| darzana aTakatA hai, isalie jJAna aTakatA hai, isalie mAna khar3A ho jAtA hai| krodha yAnI khuda apane ghara ko Aga lgaanaa| khuda ke ghara meM ghAsa bharI ho aura diyAsalAI jalAnA, usakA nAma krodha / arthAta pahale khuda jale aura bAda meM par3ausI ko jlaaye| ghAsa ke bar3e-bar3e gaLUra kisI ke kheta meM ikaTThe kiye ho, para eka hI diyAsalAI DAlane para kyA hogA? praznakartA : jala jaayegaa| dAdAzrI : aise hI eka bAra krodha karane para, do sAla meM jo kamAI kI ho vaha miTTI meM mila jAtI hai| krodha yAnI prakaTa agni| use khuda patA nahIM calatA ki maiM ne miTTI meM milA diyaa| kyoMki bAhara kI cIjoM meM koI kamI nahIM hotI, para bhItara saba qhatama ho jAtA hai| agale janma kI saba taiyAriyA~ hogI na, usameM se thor3A kharca ho jAtA hai| aura phira jyAdA kharca ho jAne para kyA hogA? yahA~ manuSya thA taba roTiyA~ khAtA thaa| phira vahA~ cArA khAne (jAnavara meM) jAnA pdde| yaha roTiyA~ chor3akara cArA khAne jAnA par3e, yaha ThIka kahalAyegA? varlDa (saMsAra) meM koI manuSya krodha ko nahIM jIta sktaa| krodha ke do rUpa hai, eka kur3hana ke rUpa meM (bAhara dikhAI denevAlA) aura dUsarA, becainI ke rUpa meM (jo bhItara hotA hai)| loga jo krodha ko jItate hai ve

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krodha krodha kur3hana rUpa ko jItate hai| isameM aisA hotA hai ki eka ko dabAne para dUsarA bar3hegA aura kaheMge ki maiM ne krodha ko jIta liyaa| pariNAma svarUpa mAna bddh'egaa| vAstava meM krodha pUrNatayA nahIM jItA jA sktaa| jo dikhAI detA hai usa krodha ko hI jItA khlaaye| tA~tA usakA nAma krodha jisa krodha meM tA~tA ho, vahI krodha kahalAtA hai| udAharaNArtha, patipani rAta meM khaba laDe, krodha z2abaradasta dhadhaka utthaa| sArI rAta donoM jAgate par3e rhe| subaha bIvI ne cAya kA pyAlA jarA paTaka kara rakhA, to pati samajha jAyegA ki abhI tA~tA (krodha kI pakar3a) hai ! usI kA nAma krodh| phira cAhe kitane bhI samaya kA ho! are, kitanoM ko to sArI jiMdagI kA hotA hai ! bApa beTe kA mu~ha nahIM dekhatA aura beTA bApa kA mu~ha nahIM dekhatA! krodha kA tA~tA to bigar3e hue cehare se hI patA calatA hai| tA~tA eka aisI vastu hai ki paMdraha sAla pahale merA apamAna huA ho aura vaha manuSya paMdraha sAla taka majhe nahIM milA ho| para Aja mujhe mila jAye to milane ke sAtha hI mujhe saba yAda A jAtA hai, vaha taaNtaa| tA~tA kisI kA jAtA nahIM hai| bar3e-bar3e sAdhu mahArAja bhI tA~tevAle hote hai| rAta ko yadi Apane kucha maz2Aka kI ho to paMdraha-paMdraha dinoM taka Apa se nahIM boleMge, aisA hotA hai vaha taaNtaa| ____ pharka, krodha aura gusse meM praznakartA : dAdAjI, gussA aura krodha meM kyA pharka hai ? dAdAzrI : krodha usakA nAma, jo ahaMkAra sahita ho| gussA aura ahaMkAra donoM milane para krodha kahalAtA haiN| aura beTe ke sAtha bApa gassA kare, vaha krodha nahIM khlaataa| usa krodha meM ahaMkAra sammilita nahIM hotA, isalie vaha gussA kahalAtA hai| isa para bhagavAna ne kahA ki, "yaha gussA kare to bhI isakA puNya jamA krnaa|" taba kahate haiM, "yaha gussA kare to bhI?" isa para kahA, "krodha kare to pApa hai, gusse kA pApa nahIM hai|" krodha meM ahaMkAra milA hotA hai aura Apako gussA Ane para bhItara Apako burA lagatA hai na! krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha do taraha ke hote hai: eka mor3e jA sakeM aise-nivaary| kisI ke Upara krodha AyA ho to use aMdara hI aMdara badala sakeM aura use zAMta kara sake, aisA mor3a sakanevAlA krodh| isa sTeja taka pahu~ce to vyavahAra bahuta suMdara ho jAtA hai| dUsare prakAra kA krodha jo mor3A nahIM jA sakatA aisA - anivArya / bahuta prayatna karane ke bAvajUda bhI phaTAkA phUTe bagaira rahate hI nahIM! vaha nahIM mur3anevAlA anivArya krodh| yaha krodha khuda kA ahita karatA hai aura sAmanevAle kA bhI ahita karatA hai| bhagavAna ne kahA~ taka kA krodha calA liyA hai ? sAdhuo aura cAritryavAloM ke lie, ki krodha jahA~ taka sAmanevAle manuSya ko duHkhadAyI na ho, utane krodha ko bhagavAna ne calA liyA hai| merA krodha majhe akele ko du:khadAyI ho, para anya kisI ko du:khadAyI na ho utanA krodha calA liyA hai| jAnanevAle ko pahacAnie praznakartA : hama sabhI jAnate haiM ki yaha krodha AyA, vaha kharAba hai| phira bhI... dAdAzrI : aisA hai na, jo krodhI hai vaha jAnatA nahIM, lobhI hai vaha jAnatA nahIM, mAnI hai vaha jAnatA nahIM, jAnanevAlA usase alaga hI hai| aura ina sabhI logoM ko mana meM hotA hai ki maiM jAnatA hU~ phira bhI kyoM hotA hai? aba jAnatA hU~, vaha kauna? yaha mAlUma nhiiN| 'kauna jAnatA hai'

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krodha yaha mAlUma nahIM hai, utanA hI khojanA hai| 'jAnanevAle' ko khoja nikAle, to saba calA jAye aisA hai| jAnanA to vaha kahalAye ki calA hI jAe, khar3A hI nahIM rhe| samyak upAya jAniye eka bAra praznakartA : yaha jAnane para bhI krodha ho jAtA hai, usakA nivAraNa kyA? dAdAzrI: kauna jAnatA hai ? jAnane ke bAda krodha hogA hI nhiiN| krodha hotA hai isalie jAnate hI nahIM, khAlI ahaMkAra karate ho ki 'maiM jAnatA huuN| praznakartA : krodha ho jAne ke bAda qhayAla AtA hai ki hameM krodha nahIM karanA caahie| dAdAzrI : nahIM, magara jAnane ke pazcAta krodha nahIM hotaa| hamane yahA~ do zIziyA~ rakhI ho| vahA~ kisI ne samajhAyA ho ki eka zIzI meM yaha davAI hai aura dUsarI zIzI meM poIz2ana (z2ahara) hai| donoM samAna dikhAI dete haiM, para usameM bhUlacUka ho to samajheMge na ki yaha jAnatA hI nahIM hai| bhUlacUka nahIM ho to, kaheMge ki jAnatA hai, para bhalacaka hotI hai isalie yaha nizcita ho gayA ki vaha jAnatA nahIM thaa| vaise hI krodha hotA hai, taba kucha jAnate nahIM haiM aura jAnane kA ahaMkAra lie phirate rahate haiN| ujAle meM kahIM Thokara lagatI hai kyA? isalie, ThokareM lagatI haiM matalaba jAnA hI nhiiN| yaha to a~dhere ko hI ujAlA kahate hai, vaha hamArI bhUla hai| isalie satsaMga meM baiThakara eka bAra 'jAniye', phira krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha sabhI cale jaayeNge| praznakartA : para krodha to sabhI ko ho jAtA hai na? dAdAzrI : isa bhAI se pUchie, ve to inkAra karate hai| krodha praznakartA : satsaMga meM Ane ke bAda krodha nahIM hotA na! dAdAzrI : aisA? inhoMne kauna sI davAI lI hogI? dveSa kA mUla naSTa ho jAye, aisI davAI pI lii|| samajhadArI se praznakartA : merA koI naz2adIkI riztedAra ho, usa para maiM krodhita ho jaauuN| vaha usakI dRSTi se zAyada sahI bhI ho para maiM apanI dRSTi se krodhita hoU~, to kisa vajaha se krodhita ho jAtA hU~? dAdAzrI: Apa A rahe haiM aura isa makAna ke upara se eka patthara sira para A girA aura khUna nikalA, to usa ghar3I krodha karoge? praznakartA : nahIM, vaha to kudaratI ho gayA hai| dAdAzrI : nahIM, magara krodha kyoM nahIM karate vahA~ pr| kyoMki khuda ne kisI ko dekhA nahIM, isalie krodha kaise hogA ? praznakartA : kisI ne jAna-bUjhakara mArA nahIM hai| dAdAzrI : aura abhI bAhara jAne para koI lar3akA patthara mAre aura hameM lage aura khUna nikale, to hama usa para krodha kareMge, kisa lie? usane majhe patthara mArA, isalie khUna nikalA aura krodha kareMge ki tU ne kyoM mArA? aura yadi pahAr3a para se lur3hakatA lur3hakatA patthara Akara lage aura sira se khUna nikale, taba dekheMge para krodha nahIM kreNge| yaha to hamAre mana meM aisA lagatA hai ki vahI kara rahA hai| koI manuSya jAna-bUjhakara mAra hI nahIM sktaa| arthAta pahAr3a para se patthara kA lur3haka nA aura yaha manuSya patthara mAre, ve doMno samAna hI hai| para bhrAMti se aisA dikhatA hai ki yaha karatA hai| isa varlDa (saMsAra) meM kisI manuSya kI saMDAsa jAne kI zakti nahIM hai|

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krodha krodha nikAlate Aye haiM, para vaha jAtA kyoM nahIM?" isa para maiM ne kahA ki,"Apa krodha nikAlane ke upAya nahIM jAnate haiN|" usane kahA ki, "krodha nikAlane ke upAya to zAstra meM likheM haiM, ve sabhI karate haiM, phira bhI krodha nahIM jaataa|" taba maiM ne kahA ki, "samyak upAya honA caahie|" taba kahe ki, "samyak upAya to bahuta paDhe, para usameM se kucha kAma nahIM aataa|" phira maiM ne kahA ki, "krodha ko baMda karane kA upAya khojanA mUrkhatA hai, kyoMki krodha to pariNAma hai| jaise Apane parIkSA dI ho aura rijalTa aayaa| aba maiM riz2alTa ko naSTa karane kA upAya karU~, usake samAna bAta hii| yaha rijalTa AyA vaha kisakA pariNAma hai ? hameM usameM badalAva karane kI AvazyakatA hai|" isalie yadi hameM patA cale ki kisI ne jAna-bUjhakara nahIM mArA, to vahA~ krodha nahIM krtaa| phira kahatA hai, "mujhe krodha A jAtA hai| merA svabhAva krodhI hai|" mue, svabhAva se krodha nahIM aataa| vo pulisavAle ke sAmane kyoM nahIM AtA? pulisavAlA dhamakAye, usa samaya pulisavAle para krodha kyoM nahIM AtA? use patnI para gassA AtA hai, baccoM para krodha AtA hai, par3ausI para, anDarahenDa (sahAyaka) para krodha AtA hai aura 'baoNsa' para kyoM nahIM AtA? krodha yU~ hI svabhAva se manuSya ko nahIM AtA hai| yaha to use apanI manamAnI karanI hai| praznakartA : kisa prakAra use kaMTrola kareM? dAdAzrI : samajha se| yaha jo Apake sAmane AtA hai, vaha to nimitta hai aura Apake hI karma kA phala detA hai| vaha nimitta bana gayA hai| aba aisA samajha meM Aye to krodha kaMTrola meM aayegaa| jaba patthara pahAr3a para se girA, aisA dekhate hai, taba Apa kaMTrola rakha sakate hai| to isameM bhI samajha rakhane kI jarUrata hai ki bhAI, yaha saba pahAr3a ke samAna hai| rAste meM koI gAr3IvAlA galata tarIke se rAste para hamAre sAmane AtA ho, to bhI vahA~ nahIM lar3eMge? krodha nahIM kareMge? kyoM? hama TakarAkara use tor3a deMge? aisA kareMge? nhiiN| to vahA~ kyoM nahIM karatA? vahA~ sayAnA ho jAtA hai ki maiM mara jaauuNgaa| taba usase jyAdA to yahA~ krodha karane meM mara jAte ho, para yaha citrapaTa naz2ara nahIM AtA aura vaha khalA dikhAI detA hai, itanA hI pharka hai ! vahA~ roDa para sAmanA nahIM karatA? krodha nahIM karatA, sAmanevAle kI bhUla hone para bhI? praznakartA : nhiiN| dAdAzrI : vaisA jIvana meM bhI samajha lene kI z2arUrata hai| pariNAma to, kAraNa badalane para hI badaleM eka bhAI mujha se kahatA hai ki, "anaMta avatAroM se yaha krodha hamAre loga kyA kahate hai ki, "krodha ko dabAo, krodha ko nikaalo|" are! aisA kyoM karatA hai? binA vaz2aha dimAga kharAba karate ho! aisA kahane para bhI krodha nikalatA to hai nahIM! phira bhI ve kaheMge ki, "nahIM sAhiba, thor3A-bahuta krodha daba to gayA hai|" are, vaha aMdara hai vahA~ taka use dabA huA nahIM khte| taba usa bhAI ne pUchA ki, "taba Apake pAsa dUsarA koI upAya hai?" maiM ne kahA, "hA~, upAya hai, Apa kareMge?" taba usane kahA, "haaN|" taba maiM ne batAyA ki, "eka bAra noTa kareM ki isa saMsAra meM khAsa kara kisake Upara krodha AtA hai?" jahA~ jahA~ krodha Aye, use noTa kara leM aura jahA~ krodha nahIM AtA ho use bhI jAna leN| eka bAra lisTa banA leM ki isa manuSya ke sAtha krodha nahIM hotaa| kucha loga ulTA kareM to bhI una para krodha nahIM AtA aura kucha to becAre sIdhA karate ho, phira bhI una para krodha AtA hai| isalie kucha kAraNa to hogA na?" prazrakartA : usake lie mana meM graMthi baMdha gaI hogI? dAdAzrI : hA~, graMthi baMdha gaI hai| usa graMthi ko chur3Ane ko aba kyA kareM? parIkSA to de dii| jitanI bAra jisake sAtha krodha honevAlA hai. utanI

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krodha krodha hai, usake bAda krodha baMda ho jaayegaa| hamane doSa dekhanA baMda kiyA, isalie saba baMda ho gyaa| krodha ke mUla meM ahaMkAra bAra usake sAtha ho jAnevAlA hai aura usake lie graMthi bhI baMdha gaI hai, para aba hameM kyA karanA cAhie? jisa para krodha AtA ho, usake lie mana kharAba nahIM hone denA caahie| mana sudhAranA ki bhAI, hamAre prArabdha ke hisAba se yaha manuSya aisA karatA hai| vaha jo kucha bhI karatA hai vaha hamAre karmoM kA udaya hai, isalie aisA karatA hai| isa prakAra hama mana ko sudhaareN| mana ko sudhArate rahe aura jaba sAmanevAle ke lie mana sudhara jAyegA, phira usake lie krodha honA baMda ho jaayegaa| thor3e samaya taka pichalA iphekTa (pahale kI asara) hai, utanA iphekTa dekara phira baMda ho jaayegaa| loga pUchate hai, "yaha hamAre krodha kI davAI kyA kareM?" maiM ne kahA. "Apa abhI kyA karate haiM?" taba kaheM. "krodha ko dabAte rahate hai|" maiM ne pachA, "pahacAna kara dabAte ho yA binA pahacAne? krodha ko pahacAnanA to hogA na?" krodha aura zAMti donoM sAtha-sAtha baiThe hote hai| aba hama krodha ko nahIM pahacAneM to vaha zAMti ko dabA deM, to zAMti mara jAyegI ! arthAta dabAne jaisI cIz2a nahIM hai| taba usakI samajha meM AtA hai ki krodha ahaMkAra hai| aba kisa prakAra ke ahaMkAra se krodha hotA hai, isakI tahaqIkAta karanI caahie| yaha jarA sUkSma bAta hai aura loga DhU~Dha nahIM paaye| hara eka kA upAya to hotA hI hai na? upAya bagaira to saMsAra hotA hI nahIM na! saMsAra to pariNAma kA hI nAza karanA cAhatA hai| arthAta krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha kA upAya yaha hai ki pariNAma ko kucha nahIM kareM, usake kAraNoM ko ur3A deM, to ve sabhI cale jaayeNge| isalie khada vicAraka hone caahie| varnA ajAgRta hone para kisa taraha upAya karegA? praznakartA : kAraNoM ko kisa taraha ur3AnA, yaha jarA phira se smjhaaiye| dAdAzrI : isa bhAI para mujhe krodha AtA ho to phira meM niSkarSa nikAluM ki isake upara jo krodha AtA hai, vaha maiM ne pahale usake doSa dekhe the usakA pariNAma hai| aba vaha jo jo doSa kare, use mana para nahIM laeN, to phira usake prati jo krodha hai vaha baMda hotA jaayegaa| para thoDe pUrva pariNAma hoMge, utanA Ane ke bAda dUsarA Age baMda ho jaayegaa| praznakartA : dUsaroM ke doSa dekhate haiM isalie krodha AtA hai ? __isa lar3ake ne glAsa phor3A to krodha A gayA, vahA~ hamArA kyA ahaMkAra hai? isa glAsa kA nukasAna hogA, aisA ahaMkAra hai| naphA-nukasAna kA ahaMkAra hai hamArA! isalie naphA-nukasAna ke ahaMkAra ko, usa para vicAra kara ke, nirmUla kiijie| galata ahaMkAra kA saMgraha karane para krodha hotA rhegaa| krodha hai, lobha hai, ve to vAstava meM mUlataH sAre ahaMkAra hI haiN| krodha kA zamana, kisa samajha se? krodha khuda hI ahaMkAra hai| aba isakI jA~ca-par3atAla karanI cAhie ki, kisa taraha vaha ahaMkAra hai| taba use pakar3a pAyeMge ki krodha vaha ahaMkAra hai| yaha krodha utpanna kyoM haA? taba kahe ki, "isa bahana ne kapa-rakAbI phor3a DAle, isalie krodha utpanna haa|" aba kapa-rakAbI phor3a DAle, usameM hameM kyA harja hai? taba kahe ki, "hamAre ghara kA nukasAna huA" aura nukasAna huA isalie phira use DA~TanA upara se? yaha ahaMkAra karanA, DA~TanA, yaha saba bArIkI se yadi socA jAye, to socane para vaha sArA ahaMkAra dhula jAye aisA hai| aba yaha kapa TUTa gayA vaha nivArya hai dAdAzrI : haaN| una doSoM ko dekhate haiM, use bhI hama jAna leM ki ye bhI galata pariNAma hI haiN| jaba ve galata pariNAma dikhanA baMda ho jAte

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krodha krodha ki anivArya hai? anivArya saMyoga hote haiM ki nahIM hote? seTha naukara ko DA~Te ki. "kapa-rakAbI kyoM phoDa DAle? tere hAtha TUTe hue the? aura tU aisA hai, vaisA hai|" yadi anivArya hai to use DA~TanA cAhie? jamAI ke hAthoM kapa-rakAbI TUTa jAne para vahA~ to eka zabda bhI nahIM bolate! kyoMki vaha supiriyara ThaharA, vahA~ cuppI! aura inphiriyara AyA vahA~ dutakAra diyA!!! ye sAre igoiz2ama (ahaMkAra) hai| supiriyara ke Age sabhI cuppI nahIM sAdha lete? yaha 'dAdAjI' ke hAthoM yadi kucha Ta jAye to mana meM kucha bhI nahIM hogA aura usa naukara ke hAthoM TUTa jAye to ? isa saMsAra ne kabhI nyAya dekhA hI nahIM hai| nAsamajhI kI vajaha se yaha saba hai| yadi buddhipUrvaka kI samajha hotI to bhI bahuta ho jAtA ! buddhi yadi vikasita hotI, samajhadArIvAlI hotI, to kahIM koI jhagar3A ho aisA hai hI nhiiN| aba jhagar3A karane para kucha kapa-rakAbI sAbUta ho jAnevAle haiM? sirpha saMtoSa letA hai, utanA hI na ! aura mana meM kleza hotA hai so alg| isalie isa vyApAra meM eka to kapa-rakAbI gaye vaha nukasAna, dUsare yaha kleza huA vaha nukasAna aura naukara ke sAtha baira ba~dhA vaha nukasAna!!! naukara baira bA~dhegA ki "maiM garIba hU~" isalie mujhe aisA kahate haiM na! para vaha baira kucha chor3anevAlA nahIM hai aura bhagavAna ne bhI kahA hai ki kisI ke sAtha baira mata baaNdhnaa| ho sake to prema bA~dhanA, magara baira mata baaNdhnaa| kyoMki prema ba~dhegA, to vaha prema apane Apa hI baira ko ukhADa phaiNkegaa| prema kI qabara to baira ko khoda DAle aisI hai. para baira kI qabara kauna khodegA? baira se to bairabar3hatA hI rahatA hai| aise niraMtara bar3hatA hI rahatA hai| baira kI vajaha se to yaha bhaTakanA hai saba! ye manuSya kyoM bhaTakate haiM? kyA tIrthaMkara nahIM mile the? taba kahe, "tIrthaMkara to mile. unakI dezanA bhI sunI magara kucha kAma nahIM aayii|" hai| isalie jJAnIpuruSa loMga sAiTa (dIrgha dRSTi) de dete haiN| loMga sAiTa ke AdhAra para saba 'jaisA hai vaisA' naz2ara AtA hai| __ baccoM para gussA Aye taba... praznakartA : ye ghara meM baccoM para krodha AtA hai usakA kyA kareM? dAdAzrI : nAsamajhI se krodha AtA hai| use hama pUche ki tujhe bar3A maz2A AyA thA? taba kahe ki mujhe andara bahuta burA lagA, bhItara bahuta duHkha huA thaa| use duHkha ho, hameM duHkha ho ! isameM bacce para cir3hane kI z2arUrata hI kahA~ rahI phira? aura cir3hane para sudharate hoM to ciddh'naa| rijalTa (pariNAma) acchA AtA ho to cir3hanA kAma kA, riz2alTa hI acchA nahIM AtA ho to cir3hane kA kyA artha hai? krodha karane se phAyadA hotA ho to karanA aura yadi fAyadA nahIM hotA ho to aise hI calA lenaa| praznakartA : agara hama krodha nA kare to ve hamArA sane hI nahIM. khAyeM bhI nhiiN| dAdAzrI : krodha karane ke bAda bhI kahA~ sunate haiM ?! vItarAgoM kI sUkSma dRSTi to dekhiye ! phira bhI hamAre loga kyA kahate haiM ki pitA apane baccoM para itanA krodhita ho gayA hai, isaliye yaha bApa nAlAyaka hai| aura kudarata ke yahA~ isakA kaisA nyAya hotA hai? pitA ko puNya baMdhatA hai| hA~, kyoMki isane bacce ke hita ke liye apane Apa para saMgharSaNa kiyaa| bacce ke sukha kI khAtira khuda para saMgharSaNa kiyA, isalie puNya bNdhegaa| bAkI saba prakAra kA krodha pApa hI bAMdhatA hai| yahI eka prakAra hai, jo bacce ke yA ziSya ke bhale ke liye krodha karate haiN| vo apanA sulagAkara unake sukha ke lie karate haiN| isalie puNya bNdhegaa| phira bhI loga to use apayaza hI deNge| para Izvara ke ghara saccA nyAya hai yA nahIM? apane beTe para, beTI para kyA-kyA ar3acaneM AtI hai, kahA~-kahA~ virodha hotA hai, to una virodhoM ko miTA de na ! virodha hotA hai, yaha choTI naz2ara (saMkucita dRSTi)

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krodha jo krodha karatA hai na, usameM hiMsaka bhAva nahIM hotA hai| bAkI saba meM hiMsaka bhAva hotA hai| phira bhI isameM tA~tA to rahatA hai, kyoMki ve beTI ko dekhate hI aMdara kleza zurU ho jAtA hai| 19 yadi krodha meM hiMsaka bhAva aura tA~tA, ye do nahIM hoM, to mokSa mila jAtA hai| aura yadi hiMsaka bhAva nahIM, sirpha tA~tA hai, to puNya baMdhatA hai| kaisI sUkSmatA se bhagavAna ne DhUMDha nikAlA hai! krodha kare phira bhI bA~dhe puNya ! bhagavAna ne kahA hai ki dUsaroM ke bhale ke lie krodha kareM, paramArtha hetu krodha kareM to usakA phala puNya milatA hai| aba isa kramikamArga meM to ziSya Darate hI rahate hai ki "abhI kucha kaheMge, abhI kucha kheNge|" aura ve (guru) bhI sAre dina subaha se akulAye huye hI baiThe rahate hai| to TheTha dasave guNakasthAna taka vaisA hI vess| ve AMkha lAla kareM to aMdara Aga jharatI hai| kitanI sArI vedanA hotI hogI! taba kaise pahu~ca pAyeM ? isalie mokSa pAnA kyA yoM hI laDDU khAne kA khela hai ? ye to kabhI hI aisA akrama vijJAna prApta hotA hai| krodha yAnI eka prakAra kA signala saMsAra ke loga kyA kahate haiM ki isa bhAI ne lar3ake para krodha kiyA, isalie vaha gunahagAra hai aura usane pApa baaNdhaa| bhagavAna aisA nahIM khte| bhagavAna kahate haiM ki, "lar3ake ke Upara krodha nahIM kiyA, isalie usakA bApa gunahagAra hai| isalie usakA sau rUpaye daMDa hotA hai|" taba kahe, "krodha karanA ThIka hai ?" taba kahate haiM, "nahIM, magara abhI usakI z2arUrata thii| yadi yahA~ krodha nahIM kiyA hotA to lar3akA ulTe rAste calA jaataa|" arthAta krodha eka prakAra kA lAla signala hai, aura kucha nahIM / yadi A~kha nahIM dikhAI hotI, yadi krodha nahIM kiyA hotA, to lar3akA ulTe krodha rAste para calA jaataa| isalie bhagavAna to lar3ake ke Upara bApa krodha kare, phira bhI use sau rUpaye InAma dete haiN| 20 krodha to lAla jhaMDA hai| yahI pablika ko patA nahIM aura kitanI dera lAla jhaMr3A khar3A karanA, kitane samaya ke lie khar3A karanA, yaha samajhane kI z2arUrata hai| abhI mela gADI jA rahI ho aura DhAI ghaNTe lAla jhaMDA lekara binA kAraNa khar3A rahe, to kyA hogA? yAnI lAla signala kI z2arUrata hai, magara kitanA TAIma (samaya) rakhanA, yaha samajhane kI z2arUrata hai| ThaMDA (zAMta rahanA), vaha harA signala hai| raudradhyAna kA rUpAMtara dharmadhyAna meM baccoM para krodha kiyA, para ApakA bhAva kyA hai ki aisA nahIM honA caahie| ApakA bhAva kyA hai ? praznakartA: aisA nahIM honA caahie| dAdAzrI : isalie yaha raudradhyAna thA, vaha dharmadhyAna meM rUpAMtarita ho gyaa| krodha huA phira bhI pariNAma meM AyA dharmadhyAna / praznakartA : aisA nahIM honA cAhie, yaha bhAva rahA hai isalie? dAdAzrI: hiMsaka bhAva nahIM hai usake piiche| hiMsaka bhAva bagaira krodha hotA hI nahIM, para krodha kI kucha eka dazA hai ki yadi khuda kA beTA, khuda kA mitra, khuda kI vAIpha para krodha karane para puNya ba~dhatA hai| kyoMki yaha dekhA jAtA hai ki krodha karane ke pIche usakA hetu kyA hai ? praznakartA prazasta krodha / dAdAzrI : vaha aprazasta krodha, burA kahalAye / isalie yaha krodha meM bhI itanA bheda hai| dUsarA, paisoM ke lie beTe ko bhalA-burA kaheM ki tU dhaMdhe meM ThIka se dhyAna nahIM detA, vaha krodha

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krodha alaga hai| bacce ko sudhArane ke lie, corI karatA ho, dUsarA kucha ulTAsIdhA karatA ho, usake lie hama lar3ake ko DA~Te, krodha kareM usakA phala bhagavAna ne puNya kahA hai| bhagavAna kitane sayAne hai ! krodha TAleM aise praznakartA: hama krodha kisake Upara karate haiM ? khAsa karake oNphisa meM sekreTarI ke Upara krodha nahIM karate aura aspatAla meM narsa ke Upara nahIM karate, para ghara meM vAIpha ke Upara hama krodha karate haiN| 21 dAdAzrI : isalie to jaba sau loga baiThe hoM aura suna rahe hoM, taba saba se kahatA hU~ ki ophisa meM baoNsa (mAlika) dhamakAtA ho yA koI DA~TatA ho, to una sabakA krodha loga ghara meM bIvI para nikAlate haiN| isalie mujhe kahanA par3atA hai ki, mue, bIvI se kyoM lar3ate ho, becArI se ! binA vajaha bIvI ko DA~Tate ho ! bAhara koI dhamakAye unase lar3o na, yahA~ kyoM lar3ate ho becArI se? eka bhAIsAhaba the, ve hamAre jAna-pahacAnavAle the| ve mujhe hamezA kahate the ki, "sAhiba, eka bAra mere yahA~ padhAriye!" makAna bA~dhane kA kAma karatA thaa| eka bAra maiM vahA~ se guz2ara rahA thA taba mujhe mila gayA aura bolA, "mere ghara calie, thor3I dera ke lie|" taba maiM usake ghara gyaa| vahA~ maiM ne pUchA, "are, do rUma meM tujhe anukUla rahatA hai?" to vaha kahane lagA, "maiM to memAra kahalAU~ na!" yaha to hamAre jamAne kI, acche samaya kI bAta karatA huuN| abhI to eka rUma meM rahanA par3atA hai, para acche jamAne meM bhI becAre ke do hI rUma the ! phira maiM ne pUchA, "kyA bIvI tujhe parezAna nahIM karatI ?" taba kahane lagA, "bIvI ko krodha A jAye para maiM krodha nahIM karatA hU~" maiM ne pUchA, "aisA kyoM?" taba kaheM, "taba to phira vaha krodha kare aura maiM bhI krodha karU~, phira ina do rUmoM meM, maiM kahA~ soU~ aura vo kahA~ soye ?!" vaha usa ora mu~ha karake so jAye aura maiM bhI isa ora mu~ha karake so jAU~, aisI hAlata meM to mujhe subaha krodha cAya bhI acchI nahIM milegii| vahI mujhe sukha denevAlI hai| usakI vaz2aha se hI maiM sukhI huuN| maiM ne pUchA, "bIvI kabhI krodha kare to?" taba kahe, "use manA letA huuN| 'yAra, jAne de na, merI hAlata maiM hI jAnatA hU~, ' aisA vaisA karake use manA letA huuN| para use khuza rakhatA huuN| bAhara mArapITa karake AU~ para ghara meM usase mArapITa nahIM krtaa|" aura hamAre loga bAhara mAra khAkara AyeM aura ghara meM mArapITa karate haiM / 22 yaha to sArA dina krodha karate haiN| gAyeM bhaiMse acchI ki krodha to nahIM krtii| jIvana meM kucha zAMti to honI cAhie na ! kamaz2orIvAlA to nahIM honA caahie| yaha to krodha hara ghar3I ho jAtA hai| Apa gAr3I meM Aye na, taba gAr3I sAre rAste para krodha kiyA kare to kyA hogA ? praznakartA: to yahA~ A hI nahIM skte| dAdAzrI : taba Apa yaha krodha karate haiM to usakI gAr3I kisa taraha calatI hogI? tU to krodha nahIM karatI? praznakartA: kabhI-kabhI ho jAtA hai| dAdAzrI : aura yadi donoM ko hotA ho, phira bAkI kyA rahA ? praznakartA : pati-patnI ke bIca thor3A-bahuta krodha to honA hI cAhie na ? dAdAzrI : nhiiN| aisA koI kAnUna nahIM hai| pati-patnI ke bIca meM to bahuta zAMti rahanI caahie| yadi duHkha ho to ve pati - patnI hI nahIM khlaaye| saccI phrenDazipa meM duHkha nahIM hotA, taba yaha to saba se bar3I phrenDazipa kahalAye !! yahA~ krodha nahIM honA caahie| yaha to logoM ne jabaradastI se diloM meM bIThA diyA hai, khuda ko hotA hai isalie kahane lage kI kAnUna aisA hI hai| pati-patnI ke daramiyAna to bilakula duHkha nahIM honA cAhie, bhale hI aura jagaha ho jAye /

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krodha krodha manamAnI se par3e mAra prazrakartA : ghara meM yA bAhara mitroM meM saba jagaha hara eka ke mata bhinna bhinna hote haiM aura usameM hamArI dhAraNA (manamAnI) ke anusAra nahIM hone para hameM krodha kyoM AtA hai? taba kyA karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : saba loga apanI dhAraNA ke anusAra karane jAyeM, to kyA hogA? aisA vicAra hI kyoM AtA hai? taranta hI vicAra AnA cAhie ki yadi sabhI apanI dhAraNA ke anusAra karane lageM, to yahA~ para sAre baratana tor3a DAleMge, Amane-sAmane aura khAne ko bhI nahIM rhegaa| isalie dhAraNA ke anusAra kabhI karanA hI nhiiN| dhAraNA hI nahIM karanA to galata nahIM tthhregaa| jise garaja hogI vaha dhAraNA karegA, aisA rkhnaa| praznakartA : hama kitane bhI zAMta rahe magara pati krodha kare to hameM kyA karanA cAhie? to thor3I dera baMda rakhane para apane Apa ThaMDI ho jAyegI aura hAtha lagAyeM yA use cheDeMge to hama jala jaayeNge| __ prazrakartA : mujhase to apane hasabaMDa pe krodha ho jAtA hai aura bahasa ho jAtI hai, kahA sunI aura vaha saba, to maiM kyA karU~? dAdAzrI : krodha tU karatI hai yA vaha? krodha kauna karatA hai? praznakartA: vaha, phira mujha se bhI ho jAtA hai| dAdAzrI : to hameM bhItara hI khuda ko ulAhanA denA cAhie, "kyoM tU aisA karatI hai? aisA kiyA to bhugatanA hI hogA na!" para pratikramaNa karane para ye sAre krodha khatama ho jAte haiN| varnA hamAre hI die hue ghUse, hameM phira bhugatane par3ate haiN| para pratikramaNa karane para z2arA ThaMDe par3a jAte hai| yaha to eka taraha kI pAzavatA praznakartA : hama se krodha ho jAye aura gAlI nikala jAye to kisa prakAra sudhAranA? dAdAzrI : aisA hai ki yaha jo krodha karatA hai aura gAlI bolatA hai, vaha apane Apa para kaMTrola nahIM hai, isalie yaha saba hotA hai| kaMTrola karane ke lie pahale thoDA samajhanA caahie| yadi koI hamAre para krodha kare, to hamase baradAzta hogA yA nahIM, yaha socanA caahie| hama krodha kareM. usase pahale hamAre Upara koI krodha kare to hamase baradAzta hogA? acchA lagegA yA nahIM? hameM jitanA acchA lage, utanA hI vartana auroM ke sAtha krnaa| vaha tujhe gAlI de aura tujhe dikkata na ho, Diprezana nahIM AtA ho, to tuma bhI vaisA karanA, varnA baMda kara denaa| gAliyA~ to de hI nahIM skte| yaha to eka taraha kI pAzavatA hai| anDaraDevalapDa pIpalsa. anakalcarDa (alpavikasita manuSya, asaMskRta)! dAdAzrI : vaha krodha kare aura usake sAtha jhagar3A karanA ho, to hameM bhI krodha karanA cAhie, anyathA nahIM! yadi philma baMda karanI ho to zAMta ho jaanaa| philma baMda nahIM karanI ho, to sArI rAta calane denA, kauna manA karatA hai? kyA pasaMda hai aisI philma? praznakartA : nahIM, aisI philma pasaMda nahIM hai| dAdAzrI : krodha karake kyA karanA hai? vaha manuSya krodha nahIM karatA, yaha to 'mikenikala eDajasTamenTa' (DiscArja hotI manuSya prakRti) krodha karatA hai| isalie phira khuda ko mana meM pachatAvA hotA hai ki yaha krodha nahIM kiyA hotA to acchA thaa| praznakartA : use ThaMDA karane kA upAya kyA? dAdAzrI : vaha to yadi mazIna garama huI ho aura ThaMDI karanI ho

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krodha 26 krodha zuddhAtmA ko yAda karake mana meM hI mAfI mA~ga lenaa| hajAroM meM koI dasa AdamI aise nikaleMge ki mAfI mA~gane se pahale hI jhaka jaayeN| pratikramaNa yahI saccA mokSamArga pahale to dayA rakhie, zAMti rakhie, samatA rakhie, kSamA rakhie, aisA upadeza sikhAte hai| taba yaha loga kyA kahate hai "are! mujhe krodha AtA rahatA hai aura tU kahatA hai ki kSamA rakhie, para maiM kisa prakAra kSamA rakhU?" isalie inako upadeza kisa prakAra diyA jAnA cAhie ki Apako krodha Ane para Apa isa prakAra mana meM pachatAvA kareM ki merI kyA kamajorI hai ki mujha se aisA krodha ho jAtA hai| to mujha se galata ho gayA, aisA pachatAvA karanA aura yadi Upara koI guru ho to unakI madada lenA aura phira se aisI kamajorI paidA na ho, aisA nizcaya krnaa| Apa aba krodha kI rakSA mata karanA, Upara se usakA pratikramaNa krnaa| nakada pariNAma, hArdika pratikramaNa ke prazrakartA : kisI ke Upara bhArI krodha ho gayA. phira bolakara capa ho gaye. bAda meM yaha jo bole usake lie jI bAra-bAra jalatA rahe, to usameM eka se adhika pratikramaNa karane hoMge? isalie dina meM kitane atikramaNa hote haiM aura kisake sAtha hue, use noTa karate rahanA aura usI samaya pratikramaNa kara lenaa| pratikramaNa meM hameM kyA karanA hogA? Apako krodha huA aura sAmanevAle manuSya ko duHkha huA, to usakI AtmA ko yAda karake usase kSamA mAMga lenaa| arthAta jo huA usakI kSamA mA~ga lenA aura phira se nahIM karU~gA aisI pratijJA karanA, aura AlocanA karanA yAnI kyA, ki hamAre pAsa doSa jAhira karanA ki merA yaha doSa ho gayA hai| mana meM bhI mAfI mA~gie praznakartA : dAdAjI, pazcAtApa yA pratikramaNa karate samaya kaI bAra aisA hotA hai ki koI bhUla ho gaI, kisI para krodha A gayA. taba bhItara duHkha hotA hai ki yaha galata ho gayA, para sAmanevAle se mAfI mA~gane kI himmata nahIM hotii| dAdAzrI : aise mAfI mA~ganI hI nahIM, varnA ve phira usakA durupayoga kreNge| "hA~, aba AI na ThikAne para?" aisA hai yaha ! nobala (khAnadAna) jAti nahIM hai! ye mAfI mA~gane lAyaka manuSya nahIM hai! isalie usake dAdAzrI : usameM do-tIna bAra sacce dila se pratikramaNa kareM aura ekadama caukasI ke sAtha huA to pUrNa ho gyaa| "he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujha se jabaradasta krodha huA, sAmanevAle ko bhArI kaSTa pahu~cAyA, usakI mAfI cAhatA huuN| Apake rUbarU bahuta mAfI mA~gatA huuN|" gunAha lekina bejAna praznakartA : atikramaNa se jo uttejanA hotI hai, vaha pratikramaNa se zAMta ho jAtI hai? dAdAzrI : hA~, zAMta ho jAtI hai| cikanI phAila(gAr3hA hisAba) hone para to pA~ca-pA~ca hajAra pratikramaNa karane par3ate haiM, taba zAMta hotA hai| gussA bAhara nahIM AyA ho aura vyAkulatA ho gaI ho, to bhI hama usake lie pratikramaNa nahIM kareM to utanA dAg2a hameM raha jaayegaa| pratikramaNa karane para sApha ho jAtA hai| atikramaNa kiyA isalie pratikramaNa kiijie| praznakartA : kisI ke sAtha krodha ho jAne ke bAda qhayAla meM AyA aura usI kSaNa para hama unakI mAfI mA~ga le, to vaha kyA kahalAye? dAdAzrI : abhI jJAna lene ke bAda krodha ho jAye aura phira mAfI mA~ga leM, to koI harja nhiiN| mukta ho gayA! aura aise rUbarU mAfI nahIM mA~ga sake aisA ho to mana meM mA~ga le, to ho gyaa|

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krodha krodha praznakartA : rUbarU sabake bIca meM ? dAdAzrI : aise koI nahIM mA~ge aura vaise hI andara mAphI mA~ga le to calegA, usameM harja nhiiN| kyoMki yaha ganAha cArja nahIM hai. yaha DiscArja hai| 'DiscArja' gunAha yAnI yaha cArja gunAha nahIM hai ! isalie itanA burA phala nahIM detA! khuda kI pratiSThA se khar3e kaSAya yaha saba vyavahAra Apa nahIM calAte, krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha Adi kaSAya calAte haiN| kaSAyoM kA hI rAja hai ! khuda kauna hai' usakA bhAna hone para kaSAya jaayeNge| krodha hone para pachatAvA ho, magara bhagavAna kA batAyA gayA pratikramaNa nahIM AtA to kyA hogA? pratikramaNa AtA to chuTakArA ho jaataa| adhika tagar3A huaa|" mAna tagar3A hotA rahatA hai, kyoMki mAyA ke ye beTe mareM aise nahIM haiN| unakA upAya kareM to jAyeM aise haiM, varnA jAnevAloM meM se nhiiN| ve mAyA kI saMtAne haiN| vaha mAna nAmaka bhaiMsA itanA tagar3A huaa| jitanA maiM ne krodha ko dabA diyA, maiM ne krodha ko dabA diyA kahatA hai, to phira vaha tagar3A huaa| isakI tulanA meM cAroM samAna the, vaha ThIka thaa| krodha aura mAyA haiM rakSaka krodha aura mAyA, ve to rakSaka haiN| ve to lobha aura mAna ke rakSaka haiN| lobha kI yathArtha rakSaka mAyA aura mAna kA yathArtha rakSaka krodh| phira bhI mAna ke lie thor3I bahuta mAyA istemAla hogI, kapaTa karate haiN| kapaTa karake bhI mAna prApta kara leM, kyA aisA karate haiM loga? arthAta yaha krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha kI sRSTi kahA~ taka khar3I hai ? 'maiM candulAla hU~ aura aisA hI hU~' aisA nizcaya hai vahA~ taka khar3I rhegii| jaba taka hamane pratiSThA kI huI hai ki 'maiM candulAla hU~', ina logoM ne hamArI pratiSThA kI aura hamane use mAna liyA ki 'maiM candulAla hU~', taba taka ye krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha andara rahate haiN| aura krodha kara ke lobha kara le| lobhI krodhI nahIM hotA aura yadi krodha kare to samajhanA ki ise lobha meM koI bAdhA AI hai, isalie mUA krodha karatA hai| varnA lobhI ko gAliyA~ dene para bhI ulTA kahegA, "bhale hI vaha zora macAtA rahe, hameM to apanA rUpayA mila gayA n|" lobhI aise hote haiM, kyoMki kapaTa saba kA rakSaNa karegA hI na! kapaTa arthAta mAyA aura krodha ve sabhI rakSaka hai| khuda kI pratiSThA kaba samApta hogI ki jaba 'maiM zuddhAtmA hU~' yaha bhAna hogA tb| arthAta khuda ke nija svarUpa meM Aye to pratiSThA TUTa jAtI hai| taba krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha jAyeMge varnA nahIM jaayeNge| mArate rahane para bhI nahIM jAyeMge aura ulTe bar3hate rheNge| eka ko mAreM to dUsarA bar3hegA aura dUsare ko mAreM to tIsarA bddh'egaa| krodha dubalA vahA~ mAna tagar3A eka mahArAja kahate hai, maiM ne krodha ko dabA-dabA kara nirmUla kara ddaalaa| maiM ne kahA, "usake pariNAma svarUpa yaha 'mAna' nAma kA bhaiMsA apane mAna para A~ca Ae, taba manuSya krodha kara letA hai| apanA mAna bhaMga hotA ho, vahA~ krodha hotA hai| krodha bholA hai| bholA pahale naSTa hotA hai| krodha to golA-bArUda hai aura golA-bArUda hogI, vahA~ lazkara lar3egA hii| krodha gayA phira lazkara kyoM lar3egA? phira to (aire-gaire) saba bhAga jaayeNge| koI khar3A nahIM rhegaa| krodha kA svarUpa krodha ugra paramANu hai| koThI ke andara bArUda bharA ho aura phUTe

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krodha krodha taba jvAlA bhar3akatI hai| bhItarI bArUda pUrA ho jAne para apane Apa koThI zAMta ho jAtI hai| aisA hI krodha kA hai| krodha ugra paramANu hai, aura ve jaba 'vyavasthita' ke niyama ke hisAba se phUTate haiM, taba cAroM aura se sulagate hai| hama ugra rahe use krodha nahIM kahate, jisa krodha meM tA~tA rahe, vahI krodha kahalAtA hai| krodha to kaba kahalAye ki bhItara jalana ho| jalana ho aura jvAlA bhar3akatI rahe aura dUsaroM ko bhI usakA asara phuNce| vaha kur3hana rUpa kahalAye aura baicenI rUpa meM khada akelA andara hI andara jalA karatA hai, para tA~tA to donoM hI rUpoM meM rhegaa| jaba ki ugratA alaga vastu hai| kur3hanA, sahana karanA ye bhI krodha krodhavAlI vANI nahIM nikale to sAmanevAle ko nahIM lgtii| mu~ha se bola deM, vahI krodha kahalAye aisA nahIM hai, bhItara kur3hatA rahe vaha bhI krodha hai| use sahana karanA vaha to Dabala (doharA) krodha hai| sahana karanA yAnI dabAte rhnaa| vaha to eka dina spriMga uchale taba patA clegaa| sahana kisa lie karanA? isakA to jJAna se hala nikAla denA hai| marate haiM, imozanala hone kI vajaha se! krodha jItA jAye aise dravya arthAta bAharI vyavahAra, vaha nahIM palaTatA para bhAva palaTe to bahuta ho gyaa| koI kahe ki krodha baMda karanA hai, to Aja hI krodha baMda nahIM hogaa| krodha baMda karanA ho to kisa prakAra hogA? krodha ko to pahacAnanA hogA, ki krodha kyA hai ? kyoM utpanna hotA hai ? usakA janma kisa AdhAra para hotA hai ? usakI mA~ kauna ? bApa kauna ? saba khoja karane ke bAda krodha ko pahacAna paayeN| chUTA huA chur3Aye Apako saba nikAlanA hai ? kyA kyA nikAlanA hai, btaaie| lisTa (sUci) banAkara mujhe diijie| vaha saba nikAla deNge| Apa krodha-mAnamAyA-lobha se ba~dhe hai ? praznakartA : ekdm| dAdAzrI : arthAta ba~dhA huA manuSya apane Apa kisa prakAra chUTa sakatA hai ? aise cAroM ora se hAtha-paira saba kasakara ba~dhe ho. to vaha apane Apa kisa taraha mukta ho sakatA hai ? praznakartA : use kisI kA sahArA lenA pdd'egaa| dAdAzrI : ba~dhe hue kI helpa (madada) lenI cAhie? praznakartA : svataMtra ho usakI helpa lenI caahie| dAdAzrI : hama kisI se pUche ki bhAI, koI hai yahA~ chUTA huA? mukta hai ? to hameM yahA~ helpa kro| arthAta jo mukta huA ho vaha mukta krodha meM bar3I hiMsA buddhi imozanala (Avezamaya) hotI hai, jJAna mozana (gati) meM rahatA hai| jaise vaha TreIna mozana meM calatI hai, yadi vaha imozanala ho jAye to? praznakartA : eksiDenTa ho jaaye| dAdAzrI: ADI-TeDhI hotI cale to eksiDenTa ho jaaye| isI taraha manuSya jaba imozanala hotA hai, taba kaI jIva bhItara mara jAte haiN| krodha huA ki kitane hI choTe choTe jIva mara kara khatama ho jAte haiM aura Upara se khada dAvA karatA hai ki, "maiM to ahiMsA dharma kA pAlana karatA hU~, jIva hiMsA to karatA hI nahIM huuN|" are, para krodha se to nire jIva hI

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krodha krodha kara detA hai, varnA aura koI nahIM kara skegaa| krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha kI khurAka kucha loga jAgRta hote haiM, ve kahate haiM ki yaha krodha hotA hai vaha hameM pasaMda nahIM hai, phira bhI karanA par3atA hai| aura kucha to krodha karate haiM aura kahate hai, "krodha nahIM kareM to hamArI gAr3I calegI hI nahIM, hamArI gAr3I baMda ho jaayegii|" aisA bhI kahate haiN| khilAte rahate haiN| pratidina bhojana karAte haiM aura phira ve (doSa) tagar3e hokara ghUmate rahate haiN| baccoM ko mAre, bhArI krodha meM Akara pITate haiM, phira bIvI kahegI, "becAre lar3ake ko kyoM itanA mArA?" taba kaheMge, "tU nahIM samajhegI, mArane yogya hI hai|" isa para krodha samajha jAtA hai ki, "ahaha, merI khurAka juTAI! bhUla hai aisA nahIM samajhatA aura mArane lAyaka hai aisA abhiprAya diyA hai, isalie yaha mujhe khurAka khilAtA hai|" ise khurAka juTAI kahate haiN| hama krodha ko enakareja (protsAhita) kareM, use acchA samajheM, vaha use khurAka dI kahalAtA haiN| krodha ko 'krodha kharAba hai' aisA samajheM to use khurAka nahIM dI khlaaye| krodha kI taraphadArI kI, usakA pakSa liyA. to use khurAka mila gyii| khurAka se to vaha jI rahA hai| loga to usakA pakSa lete haiM na? krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha niraMtara khuda kA hI curAkara khAte haiM, para logoM kI samajha meM nahIM aataa| ina cAroM ko yadi tIna sAla bhUkhe rakho, to ve bhAga jaayeNge| para jisa khurAka se ve jI rahe haiM vaha khurAka kyA ? yadi yaha nahIM jAneM, to ve kisa prakAra bhUkhe mareMge? usakI samajha nahIM hone se hI unheM khurAka milatI rahatI hai| ve jIte kisa prakAra haiM? aura ve bhI anAdi kAla se jI rahe haiM! isalie usakI khurAka baMda kara deM, aisA vicAra to kisI ko bhI nahIM AtA aura sabhI hAtha-mu~ha dhokara unheM nikAlane meM lage haiN| ve cAroM yoM hI jAnevAloM meM se nahIM haiN| ve to AtmA bAhara nikale taba sAtha meM bhItara ke sabhI karma paramANu jhAr3a-poMcha kara bAda meM nikle| unheM hiMsaka mAra nahIM cAhie, unheM to ahiMsaka mAra caahie| krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha kisI cIz2a ko hamane rakSaNa nahIM diyaa| krodha ho gayA ho taba koI kahe ki, "yaha krodha kyoM karate haiM?" taba maiM kaha dU~ ki, "yaha krodha bahuta galata cIz2a hai, merI nirbalatA ke kAraNa ho gyaa|" arthAt hamane rakSaNa nahIM kiyaa| para loga rakSaNa karateM haiN| AcArya ziSya ko kaba dhamakAtA hai ? krodha ho tb| usa samaya koI kahe. "mahArAja, ise kyoM dhamakAte ho?' taba mahArAja kahe, "vaha to dhamakAne yogya hI hai|" ho gayA khtm| yaha bole, vaha krodha kI khuraak| kiye hue krodha kA rakSaNa karanA, vahI usakI khuraak| ye sAdhu nasavAra sUMghate hoM aura hama kaheM, "sAhiba, Apa nasavAra sUMghate haiM ?" taba yadi vaha kahe, "nasavAra meM harja nhiiN|" to bar3hatA hai| ye cAroM, krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha haiM, unameM se eka para prema jyAdA hotA hai, dUsare para usase kama hogaa| isa taraha jisakI tarafadArI jyAdA, usakI priyatA adhik| sthUla karma : sUkSma karma sthUla karma yAnI kyA, yaha smjhaauuN| tujhe ekadama krodha AyA, tU krodha nahIM karanA cAhatA phira bhI A gayA. aisA hotA hai ki nahIM hotA? ina krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha ko tIna sAla taka yadi khurAka nahIM milatI to phira khuda-ba-khuda bhAga jAte haiM, hameM kahanA hI nahIM pdd'taa| kyoMki hara koI cIja apane-apane khurAka se jIvita rahatI hai aura saMsAra ke loga kyA karate haiM ? pratidina ina krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha ko khurAka

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krodha bhagavAna ne to kyA kahA hai ki terA krodha aisA hai ki tere sage mAmA ke sAtha tU krodha karatA hai to usakA mana tujha se alaga ho jAtA hai, sArI jindagI ke lie alaga ho jAtA hai, to terA krodha galata hai| vaha krodha jo sAmanevAle ke mana ko sAla-do sAla ke lie judA kara de| phira vApasa eka ho jAye, use apratyAkhAnI krodha kahA jAtA hai| jo mana ko brekaDAUna kara DAle, use aMtima kakSA kA yUz2alesa (nikammA) krodha kahA hai, use anaMtAnubaMdhI krodha kahA hai| aura lobha bhI aisA, phira mAna, ve sabhI aise kaThIna hote haiM ki unake khatama hone ke bAda manuSya sahI ThIkAne Aye aura guNasthAna prApta karatA hai, varnA guNasthAna meM hI nahIM aataa| krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha, ye cAra anaMtAnubaMdhI kaSAya jAyeM to bhI bahuta ho praznakartA : hotA hai| dAdAzrI : vaha krodha AyA to usakA phala yahA~ hI turanta mila jAtA haiN| loga kaheMge ki, "jAne dIjie na use, vaha to hai hI bahuta krodhii|" koI to use sAmane se thappaDa bhI mAra de| arthAt krodha honA yaha sthUla karma hai| aura krodha huA usake pIche Aja terA bhAva kyA hai ki "krodha karanA hI caahie|" to vaha agale avatAra kA phira se krodha kA hisAba hai| terA Aja kA bhAva hai ki krodha nahIM karanA cAhie, tere mana meM nizcaya ho ki krodha karanA hI nahIM hai, phira bhI ho jAtA hai, to agale avatAra ke lie tujhe baMdhana nahIM rhaa| yaha sthala karma meM tujhe krodha huA to tujhe isa avatAra mAra khAnI hogii| phira bhI tujhe agale avatAra kA baMdhana nahIM hogA, kyoMki sUkSma karma meM terA nizcaya hai ki krodha karanA hI nahIM caahie| aura Aja eka manuSya kisI para krodha nahIM karatA, phira bhI mana meM kahatA hai ki, "ina logoM para krodha kareM to hI ve sIdhe hoM aise haiN|" taba isase agale avatAra vaha phira krodhavAlA ho jAyegA ! arthAt bAhara jo krodha hotA hai vaha sthUla karma hai| (usa samaya aMdara jo bhAva hotA hai vaha sUkSma karma hai|) yadi hama yaha samajheM to sthala karma kA bilakula baMdhana nahIM hai| isalie yaha 'sAyansa' (vijJAna) maiM ne naI taraha se batAyA hai| abhI taka 'sthUla karma se baMdhana hai aisA jagata ko DhU~sa diyA hai aura usase loga bhar3akate rahate haiN| gyaa| aba ye kaba jAyeM ? 'jina' ke pAsa se suneM, to ye jaayeN| 'jina' yAnI AtmajJAnI, vaha kisI bhI dharma kA AtmajJAnI ho, cAhe vedAnta kA ho, cAhe jaina kA, para AtmajJAnI honA caahie| usake pAsa se sunane para zrAvaka hotA hai| aura zrAvaka hone para usake anaMtAnubaMdhI kaSAya jAte haiN| phira apane Apa hI kSayopakSama hotA rahatA hai| ____ aba dUsarA upAya yaha hai ki hama use bhedajJAna karA dete haiN| taba sAre kaSAya cale jAte haiM, khatama ho jAte haiN| yaha isa kAla kA Azcarya hai| isalie ise "akrama vijJAna" kahA hai na! bhedajJAna se chUTe kaSAya -- jaya saccidAnaMda prazrakartA : cAra kaSAyoM ko jItane ke lie koI prAthamika bhUmikA taiyAra karanA z2arUrI hai ? yadi z2arUrI ho to usake lie kyA karanA cAhie? dAdAzrI : aisA hai na, yadi krodha-mAna-mAyA-lobha, ye cAra cale jAyeM to vaha bhagavAna ho gayA!

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prAptisthAna zuddhAtmA ke prati prArthanA he aMtaryAmI paramAtmA! Apa pratyeka jIvamAtra meM virAjamAna haiM, vaise hI mujhe meM bhI birAjamAna hai| ApakA svarUpa vahI merA svarUpa hai| merA svarUpa zuddhAtmA hai| he zaddhAtmA bhagavAna ! maiM Apako abhedabhAva se atyaMta bhaktipUrvaka namaskAra karatA huuN| ajJAnatAvaza maiM ne ** jo bhI doSa kie hai, una sabhI doSoM ko Apake samakSa jAhira karatA huuN| unakA hRdayapUrvaka bahuta pachatAvA karatA hU~ aura kSamA mA~gatA huuN| he prabhu ! mujhe kSamA kare, kSamA kare, kSamA kare aura phira se aise doSa nahIM karU~ aisI Apa mujhe zakti de, zakti de, zakti de| he zuddhAtmA bhagavAna! Apa aisI kRpA kareM ki hamAre bhedabhAva chUTa jAye aura abheda svarUpa prApta ho| hama Apa meM abheda svarUpa se tanmayAkAra rhe| ** (jo doSa hue ho, ve mana meM jAhira kareM) pratikramaNa vidhi pratyakSa dAdA bhagavAna kI sAkSI meM dehadhArI ke mana-vacana-kAyA ke yoga, bhAvakarma-dravyakarma-nokarma se bhinna aise he zuddhAtmA bhagavAna, ApakI sAkSI meM Aja dina taka jo jo doSa hae haiM, usake lie kSamA mA~gatA huuN| pazcAtApa karatA huuN| AlocanA, pratikramaNa pratyAkhyAna karatA hU~ aura aise doSa kabhI bhI nahIM karU~ aisA dRDha nizcaya karatA hU~ / mujhe kSamA kareM, kSamA kareM, kSamA kreN| he dAdA bhagavAna ! mujhe aisA koI bhI doSa na karane kI parama zakti dIjiye, zakti dIjiye, zakti diijiye| * jisake prati doSa huA ho usa sAmanevAle vyakti kA nAma lenaa| ** jo doSa hue ho ve mana meM jAhira krnaa| (Apa zuddhAtmA aura jo doSa karatA hai usake pAsa pratikramaNa karavAnA candulAla ke pAsa doSoM kA pratikramaNa krvaanaa|) dAdA bhagavAna parivAra aDAlaja: trimaMdira saMkula, ahamadAbAda- kalola hAIve, posTa : aDAlaja, ji. gAMdhInagara, gujarAta - 382421. phona : (079) 3983 0100 E-mail : info@dadabhagwan.org ahamadAbAda : (079)27540408, 27543979 rAjakoTa : trimaMdira, phona: 99243 43416 muMbaI : 022-24113875, 24137616 pUNe : 98220 37740 beMglora : 9341948509 kolakattA : 033-30933885 U.S.A. : Tel:785-271-0869, E-mail : bamin@cox.net Tel.:951-734-4715 U.K. : Tel.:07956476253. E-mail: dadabhagwan_uk@yahoo.com Canada :416-675-3543 Australia :0423211778 Dubai :506754832 Singapore : 81129229 Malaysia : 126420710 Website: www.dadabhagwan.org & www.dadashri.org