Maa Parmatmaa

Author(s): Namramuni
Publisher: Parasdham Mumbai

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person would be futile... the entire set of feelings is a delusion. The one whom she thinks is her world, is her delusion.
In recent times, love has become a shoddy word - it has lost its richness and elegance. Cheating, deceit and treachery take place in the name of love. One plays with feelings. “I LOVE YOU” is a loosely used phrase and if the opposite person shows some interest, the cycle begins...
Remember, if true love exists, the need to say "I LOVE YOU” does not arise. It becomes quite obvious in one's thoughts and behaviour.
If one needs to show, if one needs to prove love, then,
it's raag.
Exhibition of feelings is raag, understanding without using words or doing anything is love.
Continuous exchange of messages is raag because it is demanding...when one gives in... surrenders without any expectations, it is love.
Attachment demands give and take... it is based on calculations.
Just as the body needs oxygen to live, attachment thrives on selfishness. If the supply of oxygen decreases, it harms the breathing and thus, our life. Similarly, when selfish motives are unfulfilled, problems arise. Therefore, it is rightly
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