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Agam Sutra 39, Chhed Sutra-5, 'Mahanishith'
One should not violate the study/purpose/Sutra number statement. Even the gods and asuras of this world are not worthy of violating the words of the Tirthankara. Secondly, as long as they are with them, let alone their darshan, but even their conversation, etc., should be regulated; so should we go violating the words of the Tirthankara? Thinking in that way, holding the hand of Sumati, he left with the Nagil Sadhu. Sutra - 663-669
_ Seeing with his eyes, he sat on pure and lifeless ground. After that, Sumati said that the knowledge-giving guru, parents, elders and sister or where you cannot give an answer, O God! What should I say? According to their command, it is necessary to do this and accept it. Whether it is good or bad for me, there is no time to think about it. But today, in this matter, the Arya has to answer it, and that too with difficult, harsh, unpleasant, evil, cruel words. Or how can my tongue rise before my elder brother, in whose lap I have played many times with clothes without impurity, with a dirty body. Or why doesn't he himself shy away from speaking such unwanted words? That this is Kushil. And one should not even look at those Sadhus with one's eyes. As long as he himself has not thought and spoken, in the meantime, the elder brother Nagil, who is skilled in knowing the shape of the gesture, recognized his heart's feeling that this Sumati is a liar with false kashayas. So he started thinking about what kind of answer to give. Sutra-670-676
Without reason, without occasion, even if he is angry, he will not be honored even if he is not understood now. So should I explain it to him now, so that he can spend time? Time will pass, then his kashayas will be pacified and then he will accept all the things I have said. Or is this present opportunity such that I can remove his doubts. Until he is specially understood, this Bhadrak brother will not understand anything. Thinking this, Nagil said to his younger brother Sumati - O brother! I am not blaming you, I consider it my own fault that - even if a relative is told with good intentions, he becomes angry. The living being caught in the net of eight karmas is to blame here, that the teachings that take him out of the four faults do not affect him. The soul, eaten by the faults of stubborn raga, dvesha, kadagrah, ignorance, mithyatva, even nectar like teachings seem like poison to it. Sutra-677
Hearing this, Sumati said - You are the truth-speaker and can speak in this way. But it is not at all appropriate for a Sadhu to speak in an unrefined way. Why doesn't he look at the other behavior of the great soul? Six, eight, four-five fasts, massakshaman, etc., after doing penance, they take food, they suffer from heat in the summer. And then, taking different kinds of abhigrahas like virasana, utkatukasana, doing difficult penance, etc., performing religious rituals, those who have dried up the flesh and blood, it is not appropriate for you, a great speaker of the assembly, a great Shravak, to think of such a Sadhu as Kushil.
After that, Nagil said - O Vats! Don't be satisfied with his religious rituals. Just as today I have been robbed by disbelief, by the suffering of being subjected to what has come without desire, even karma is destroyed by akam nirjara, then why not karma be destroyed by balatapas? Consider all of them to be balatapaswis. Don't you see the little consumption of the Utka Sutramarg? And then, O Vats Sumati! I don't have even a subtle hatred in my mind for this Sadhu, so that I can accept his fault. But I have understood from the Tirthankara Bhagvant that you should not look at Kushil.
Muni Diparatnasagar Krit (Mahanishith) Agam Sutra - Hindi Translation
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