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phase of the world has come to me. There is not a single phase of the world, which I have not traversed. I am aware of the phases of every lifetime and this talk is the experience of all those phases. The 'one' who is beyond worldly interactions,
'settles' it The 'one' who is beyond worldly interactions (vyavahar) can 'settle it for you. Otherwise, nothing can be settled in worldly interactions. The one who is involved in the worldly life can never have the awareness of the worldly life. He will insist on the worldly life and is absorbed in it, consequently he will not 'know' the worldly interaction. The Gnani Purush is beyond the worldly life and therefore His speech comes forth such that everything becomes 'exact' for us. Suspicion is something that will never go away, even if one tries to get rid of it. On the contrary, it increases. It leaves through the speech of the Gnani.
Suspicion leads to destruction Outside of this satsang, people are of the opinion, Suspicions occur when it is a fact. We are not humans if suspicions do not arise. Do animals have suspicions? We are humans and that is why we have suspicions about our daughters.' That is what they teach us. Why do 'we' get rid of your suspicions? It is because they do not help at all, not even a little bit, and it causes harm to no end. That is why. 'We' would not be able to say this if suspicion is helpful. Even if it helps ten percent and harms ninety percent, 'we' would not be able to speak this way. However, it does not help even in the slightest and it does tremendous damage. The one who is suspicion-laden is a living dead
Suspicion is the cause of destruction. That is what kills people. Once it starts, there is no end to it and that is why it destroys people.
On the most part, if women become suspicious, they will forget about it but if they remember; then it will destroy them. On the other hand, men will create suspicion even if there is no cause for it. When a woman becomes suspicious, she is called a witch. Meaning she is possessed by both a ghost and a witch. This will kill a human being. 'We ask those who meet 'us' whom they become suspicious about whether it is people in their home, the neighbors, brother, wife, or anyone else. 'We' encourage them to tell 'us' so that 'we' can repair it for them.
Suspicion is a very contagious disease; it has become very widespread. A person with suspicion becomes very unhappy. It is very difficult! Once a person is overcome with suspicion, he will be suspicious about everyone. In this world, a dead person and a suspicion-laden (shankashil) person are both the same. A man that becomes suspicion-laden is suspicious everywhere. Such a person is same as a dead person; he lives a life of the dead. Why have suspicions where everything
happens automatically? You must not have suspicion on anything. Suspicion is the greatest of miseries. There is no other misery like it.
At night when you eat your supper and go to sleep, do you check to see if all the digestive enzymes are released properly or not? Do you check to see how much digestive enzyme is released or how much bile is released? Did you ever look into this?
Questioner: All that occurs automatically. What is the need for us to verify all that?
Dadashri: So then, do things not occur automatically on the outside? It works wonderfully internally and like wise, nothing needs to be done on the outside either. How well the blood, urine and excreta are separated internally! Even milk for a newborn baby is made in a new mother. So much preparation