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________________ Heart to Heart Pleasing lacs of Parents & thousends of teachers saMskAra A B C D priyam aho zrutam zrI bAbubhAI saremalajI beDAvAlA siddhAcala baMglojha, hIrA jaina sosAyaTI sAbaramatI, amadAvAda-5 cell - 9426585904 - Email : ahoshrut.bs@gmail.com
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________________ ABCD My dear brothers & sisters ! How are you? Fine? Aja Apako aisI bAta kahanI hai, jisase ApakA jIvana sukhI ho| Apa svayaM bhI sukhI hoN| aura Apake AsapAsa ke loga bhI sukhI hoN| jaba narsarI ke klAsa meM ApakA 1st day thaa| kyA Apako yAda hai? mammI ne Apako kaisA tamAcA mArA thA ki Apa kitane roe the, vaha mujhe Apako yAda nahIM karAnA hai| narsarI ke pahale dina Apane zAyada ABCD sIkhA thA. A for Apple, B for Ball, C for Cat, D for Dog. Right hai? Well, Aja maiM Apase jo bAteM karane jA rahA hU~, vaha bhI hai to ABCD kI hI, parantu yaha ABCD usase alaga hai, isameM A for Apple nahIM hai| isameM hai A for Art of living mAtra samaya vyatIta ho, dina, mahIne aura varSa bItate jAe~, use jIvana jInA nahIM kahA jAtA hai| kuttoM aura kauoM ko bhI to jIvana milA hai| unakA bhI samaya vyatIta hotA hai| vAstava meM jIvana jIne ke lie hameM Art of living AnA caahie| eka bahuta bar3A dArzanika thA, sokrettis| vaha aneka prakAra se Lucky thaa| parantu usakA eka Bad-luck thA ki usako Wife bahuta kharAba milI thii| mahAbhArata kI bhASA meM kahU~, to usakI Wife hiDiMbA jaisI thii| dina-rAta usake sAtha
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________________ ABCD jhagar3A karatI rahatI thii| I Know, yahA~ bahuta sAre lar3ake jhagar3A - Champion haiM| jhagar3A karane meM master. jhagar3A kie binA unakA kAma hI nahIM cltaa| Am I Right? My dear,nItizAstra meM kahA gayA hai puSpairapi yuddhaM nItivido necchanti nItijJa loga phUloM ke sAtha bhI yuddha karanA pasanda nahIM karate haiN| jhagar3A karane kA matalaba hai apane hI pairoM para kulhAr3I maarnaa| parantu sokreTIsa kI Wife Apa jaisI Lucky nahIM thii| use aisA saMskAra ABCD nahIM milA thaa| eka bAra sokreTisa thakA-mAMdA ghara aayaa| patnI ne use na pAnI ke lie pUchA, na ArAma ke lie puuchaa| use baiThane bhI nahIM diyA aura jora-jora se bolane lagI, bolatI hI rahI... bolatI hI rahI... itanA gussA, itane tIkhe aura kar3ave zabda, lAla-lAla A~kheM... My dears! Mark the spelling of Anger & Danger. Anger is one letter short of danger. If you want happiness in your life, never the angry, control your passions, otherwise they will control you. gussA karane se heDeka, bI. pI. problemsa tathA anya choTe-choTe problemsa hote haiN| eka strI bahuta hI gusse meM thii| usI samaya usakA do mahIne kA bAlaka rone lgaa| vaha strI bAlaka ko dUdha pilAne baiTha gii| kucha hI dera meM vaha bAlaka behoza ho gyaa| mammI ghabar3A gaI. bAlaka ko hospiTala meM Admit kiyaa| riporTa AyA ki bAlaka ke peTa meM Poison gayA thaa| mA~ kA dUdha, jo amRta kahalAtA hai, vaha bhI gusse ke kAraNa Poison effect ke kAraNa jahara bana gyaa| My dear! Aja karor3oM loga aise haiM, jinakA jIvana gusse ke kAraNa z2ahara bana gayA hai| I don't wish, Apake sAtha bhI aisA ho / Today I give you two life slogans. 1. sira para hamezA Ice Factory rakheM. 2. mukha meM hamezA Sugar Factory rakheM. hamArI mahAnatA Aga ke sAmane Aga banane meM nahIM hai| balki Ice Cool banane
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________________ ABCD meM hai| mammI-pApA yA TIcarsa yadi Apako DAMTate haiM, to vaha Apake bhale ke lie hai| Apa use svIkAra karanA siikheN| boleM to hamezA mIThA hI boleN| Apa kisI ko sAlA bhI kaha sakate haiM aura pyAra bhI kara sakate haiN| Apako donoM meM se kyA acchA lagatA hai? pyAra nA? Than try to understand. dUsaroM ko bhI vahI sunanA acchA lagatA hai| jaM icchasi appaNato jaM ca na icchasi appaNato ___ taM icchaha parassAvi Apa apane lie jo cAhate haiM, vahI dUsaroM ke lie bhI caaheN| Apa apane lie jo nahIM cAhate haiM, vaha dUsaroM ke lie bhI mata caaheN| ThaMDA mAthA aura mIThI jIbha, yahI sukhI jIvana kI kuMjI hai| A for Art of living. sokreTisa kI patnI ne use parezAna karane meM koI kasara nahIM chor3A thaa| cAlIsa minaTa taka vaha lagAtAra bolatI rhii| koI aura hotA to yA to ro detA yA lar3a letaa| parantu sokreTisa ko A for Art of living AtA thaa| sAmane ho Aga to Apa bana jAe~ paanii| sokreTisa maMda-maMda muskurA rahA hai| My dears, Apako yadi ha~sanA AtA ho to duniyA kI koI bhI tAkata Apako rulA nahIM sktii| Apa yadi sukhI rahanA sIkha leM, to duniyA kI koI bhI zakti Apako duHkhI nahIM kara sakatI hai| __ I ask you one question. Apa TI.vI. dekha rahe haiN| TI.vI. kA rimoTa Apake hAtha meM hai| Apa volyuma kama-jyAdA kara sakate haiN| cenala badala sakate haiN| TI.vI. oNna-oNpha kara sakate haiN| TI.vI. kA rimoTa Apake hAtha meM hai| ApakA rimoTa kisake hAtha meM hai? koI Apako do acche zabda kahe to Apa khuza ho jAe~ aura do bure zabda kahe to Apa nAkhuza ho jAe~, to samajha leM ki ApakA rimoTa dUsare ke hAtha meM hai| sAmane vAlA Apake sAtha aisA vyavahAra karatA hai ki Apako gussA A jAe, aura Apako gussA
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________________ ABCD A jAtA hai, to samajha leM ki rimoTa usake hAtha meM hai| TI.vI. kA Adds Apako AkarSita kare aura Apa AkarSita ho jAe~, to samajha leM ki rimoTa usake hAtha meM hai| yahI to hamArI gulAmI hai| AjAdI use kahate haiM ki rimoTa Apake hAtha meM ho| kisI kI tAkata nahIM ki Apako gussA dilA sake yA Apako lalacA sake| IndiakA Independence day bhale 15thAugust ko AtA hai, parantu ApakA Independence day taba AegA, jaba ApakA sukha kisI vastu, vyakti yA ghaTanA ke adhIna na hogA, balki Apake adhIna hogaa| __ghanToM taka lagAtAra bolakara Akhira Wife thaka gii| paira paTakatI huI Upara calI gii| sokreTisa ko lagA ki calo eka epIsoDa pUrA huaa| bAhara Akara zAnti se barAmade meM baiTha gyaa| Wife Upara to gaI, parantu abhI bhI gusse ke kAraNa usakA dimAga phaTA jA rahA thaa| Upara kicana thaa| jUThe baratana dhokara usakA gaMdA pAnI eka tapelI meM ikaTThA kiyA thaa| Wife tapelI lekara bAlkanI meM aaii| dekhA, nIce sokreTisa baiThA hai| usake mAthe para sArA pAnI DAla diyaa| kapar3e bigar3e, sArA zarIra bigar3a gyaa| parantu sokreTisa dhIme-dhIme ha~sa rahA thaa| __My dears, ha~sanA ApakA janmasiddha adhikAra hai| jIvana kI kisI bhI paristhiti meM isa adhikAra kA upayoga karanA yA nA karanA Apake hAtha meM hai| sokreTisa ko ha~sate hue dekhakara par3osI ne pUchA, "Why are you laughing?" ApakI patnI Apako itanA parezAna karatI hai, aura Apa ha~sa rahe haiM? Why? __ sokreTisa kahatA hai, "Everything is in order." par3osI kahatA hai, "mujhe to kucha bhI Order meM nahIM lagatA hai|" sokreTisa kahatA hai, "Apane kabhI bAdala dekhA hai? bAdala kyA karatA hai?" par3osI kahatA hai, "bAdala to garajate haiM" sokreTisa kahatA hai, "ThIka, phira?" par3osI kahatA hai, "phira barasate haiN|" sokreTisa muskurAte hue kahatA hai, "Very good to yaha Wife itanA garajI hai, phira barasegI to sahI nA?" Everything is in Order. Please make this your life-slogan. This is Art of living.
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________________ ABCD B for Bless Bless means zubhakAmanA... sakala vizva kA zubhamaMgala ho, aisI bhAvanA nitya rahe... Modern Science vicArazakti ke Upara bahuta risarca kara rahA hai| jApAna meM aisI sAIkala banI hai ki jaisA Apa vicAreM, usI prakAra Tarna letI hai| Modern Science kahatA hai ki pratyeka vyakti kI eka viziSTa Aura (AbhAmaMDala) hotI hai| jo vyakti hamezA sabake lie acchA vicAra karatA hai, usakI Aura acchI, layabaddha aura suvyavasthita hotI hai| usake zarIra kI rogapratikAraka zakti bar3hatI hai| usakA mana sahaja hI prasanna rahatA hai| usakI ekAgratA aura smaraNazakti bar3hatI hai| isake viparIta jo vyakti sabake lie nakArAtmaka vicAra karatA hai, sabakA kharAba cAhatA hai, usakA zarIra kamajora banatA hai| vaha saralatA se rogoM kA zikAra banatA hai| usakI ekAgratA aura smaraNazakti kamajora hotI hai| raziyana vaijJAnika kAminiyeva aura amerikana vaijJAnika ru DaoNlpha kIra ne prayoga karake yaha pramANita kara diyA hai ki zubha bhAvanAoM se paripUrNa vyakti yadi bIja meM pAnI kA siMcana kare to zIghra aMkura phUTatA hai| usameM adhika mAtrA meM phUla aura phala Ate haiM aura anya paudhoM kI apekSA vaha paudhA adhika svastha rahatA hai| pandraha varSoM taka usane aise parIkSaNa karake yaha niSkarSa nikAlA ki bhAvanAoM aura vicAroM ke dvArA pAnI meM koI aisA tattva DAlA jA sakatA hai, jisake viziSTa pariNAma prApta hote haiN| __ jisaprakAra pAnI meM parivartana kiyA jA sakatA hai, usI prakAra hamAre tana, mana aura AtmA meM bhI aisA parivartana kiyA jA sakatA hai, zubha bhAvanAoM se paripUrNa hamArA mana hamAre cAroM ora phaile hue AkAza meM eka guNAtmaka parivartana lA detA hai, jisakA prabhAva hamAre pAsa AnevAle vyakti ke Upara par3atA hai| ___ raziyana vaijJAnika kiriliyAna ne hAI phrikvensI phoTogrAphI kA vikAsa kiyA, jisake dvArA Aura kA- zarIra se nikalanevAlI taraMgoM kA phoTo khIMcA jA sakatA hai| isa phoTogrAphI ne yaha pramANita kara diyA hai ki mana ke vicAroM ke anusAra layabaddha athavA vikSipta AbhAmaMDala banatA hai| ___My dears! Always think good for others. jisa bAta ko moDarna sAInTisTa kAphI risarca karane ke bAda kahane kA prayAsa kara rahe haiM. usa bAta ko hamArI saMskRti lAkhoM varSa pahale hI kaha cukI hai|
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________________ ABCD zivamastu sarvajagataH - samasta vizva kA kalyANa ho| suhiNo bhavaMtu jIvA - sabhI jIva sukhI hoN| Each action has reaction. jo sabakA bhalA cAhatA hai, usakA svayaM kA bhalA hotA hai| Apa klAsarUma meM jAte haiM, ApakI bagala meM koI baiThA hai, Apa vicAra kareM ki usakA bhalA ho, TIcara enTara huA, Apa vicAreM ki usakA bhalA ho, dukAnadAra Apako koI vastu de rahA hai, vicAreM ki usakA bhalA ho, mammI Apako khAnA khilA rahI hai, Apa vicAreM ki usakA bhalA ho| My Dears, This is the secret of the bliss. B for Bless. C for Care Care means dhyAna rkhnaa| I Know Apa svayaM kA bahuta dhyAna rakhate haiN| bahuta se sTUDenTsa aise bhI haiM ki unake sara meM darda ho to sAre ghara kA mAthA dukhA dete haiN| yahA~ bAta hai dUsare kA dhyAna rakhane kii| Always think for others. Exam kA Tension Apako bahuta hotA hai| parantu vAstava meM Exam 4/6 dina nahIM hotI, balki hara roja hotI hai| risesa kA bela bajatA hai, Apa apanA Lunch box kholate haiN| Apako vicAra AtA hai ki ApakI bagala meM baiThA huA lar3akA Lunch box lAnA bhUla gayA hai| Apa apanA nAztA akele bhI khA sakate haiM, aura usake sAtha Share bhI kara sakate haiN| yaha bhI eka prakAra kA Exam hai| Sunday ko Apa Ground para Cricket khelane jA rahe haiN| koI andhA vyakti rAstA kraoNsa karanA cAhatA hai| Apa Cricket ground kI tarapha Age bhI bar3ha sakate haiM aura use roDa kraoNsa bhI karA sakate haiN| This is also a type of Exam. Apake Birthday para Apake pApA ne Apako 500 Rs. kharca karane die haiM, Apa una rupayoM se kisI hoTala, lArI yA dukAna se apanI pasanda kI vastu bhI kharIda sakate haiM aura una rupayoM se kisI garIba kI help bhI kara sakate haiN| This is also a type of Exam. Homework ho jAne ke bAda Apake pAsa eka ghanTA bacA hai| Apa vaha samaya TV dekhane meM waste bhI kara sakate haiM aura usa samaya meM ghara meM
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________________ 8 ABCD yA par3osa meM kisI kA kAma bhI kara sakate haiN| This is also a type of Exam. Life-exam. My dears, jitanA efforts Apa School-exam ke lie karate haiM, usase bhI adhika effort life exam ke lie kreN| This is C for Care. Aja Marketing kA jamAnA hai| TI.vI. meM nyuja peparsa meM, rAste para, phona para saba jagaha Apako aneka prakAra ke Adds dekhane ko mileNge| Apane Light vAle shoes kI adds dekhii| pApA becAre thake-mAMde ghara Ae aura Apane demand kara dii| jida pakar3a lI - "mujhe light vAlA shoes cAhie hI / " pApA Apako samajhAte haiM -"beTA ! tere pAsa 3 pairs shoes haiM, 2 pairs cappala haiM, 1 pairs slIparsa haiM, to phira tumheM nae shoes kyoM cAhie ...." "nA pApA, mujhe light vAlA shoes cAhie... cAhie... cAhie..." My dears! kala taka zAyada Apa aisI jida karate the, parantu aba Apa aisI jida kabhI nA kreN| Apake pAsa zAyada light vAlA shoes nahIM hai, shoes to hai nA? duniyA meM karor3o lar3ake aise haiM, jinake pAsa cappala yA slIpara bhI nahIM hai| ve naMge pA~va ghUmate haiN| aura duniyA meM lAkhoM lar3ake aise haiM, jinake pAsa paira hI nahIM haiN| yA kisI road-accident yA factory accident meM unake paira kaTa gae haiM yA poliyo ke kAraNa unake pA~va bekAra ho gae haiN| sArI jindagI ve apanI icchA se eka kadama nahIM cala sakate haiN| krikeTa kA eka bhI rana nahIM banA sakate haiM | My dears, kabhI yaha na vicAreM ki Apako kyA nahIM milA hai? Always think -Apako aisA kitanA kucha milA hai, jo lAkhoM - karor3oM ko nahIM milA hai| Do you know? duniyA meM hara roja 125 karor3a loga bhUkhe so jAte haiN| jinameM 42 karor3a loga bhArata ke haiN| apane zauka - mauja ke lie paise ur3Ane se pahale kyA Apako ve loga yAda nahIM Ane cAhie? jaba ApakI mammI Apase kahatI hai - "calo beTA! tujhe nae Dresa dilAne ke lie mArkeTa jAte haiN|" to Apa apanI mammI se kahanA, "mammI! mere pAsa 20 Dresa to haiN| mujhe nae Dresa kA kyA kAma hai? mammI, tU mujhe poor area meM le cl| mujhe apane pA~ca eksTrA Dresa - eksTrA phuTa-veyara DoneTa karane haiN|" This is C for Care.
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________________ ABCD tyohAra ke dinoM meM jaba sabhI loga miThAIyA~ khA rahe hote haiM, taba garIba ghara ke lar3ake apanI mammI se jida karate haiM- "mammI, mujhe bhI miThAI khAnI hai|" mammI use prema se kahatI hai.... "beTA, tumheM avazya miThAI dU~gI...." bAlaka khAnA khAne baiThatA hai to mammI khAnA parosatI hai, taba bAlaka jida pakar3a letA hai- "nahIM, mammI! mujhe roTI nahIM cAhie, mujhe miThAI cAhie / " "beTA, Aja roTI khA le, kala miThAI khA lenaa|" "nahIM, mujhe Aja hI miThAI cAhie / " "beTA, miThAI ghara meM nahIM hai, to tujhe kahA~ se lAkara dU~?" "nahIM, mujhe miThAI..." aura, lar3akA thAlI ko lAta mAra detA hai... usakI mammI jhopar3I ke kone meM jAkara sAr3I ke pallU se mu~ha Dha~kakara rone lagatI hai... usake mana meM vicAroM kA bavaMDara calane lagatA hai... "beTA, maiM tumheM kaise samajhAU~? hama itane amIra nahIM haiM ki hama miThAI khA sakeM, isa ghara meM to roTI bhI kaise AtI hai, yaha merA mana jAnatA hai..." udhara bAlaka rotA hai, aura idhara usakI mammI rotI hai| sAmane khATa para baiThe hue usake pApA kA galA bhara AtA hai... My dears, hama to bahuta sArI miThAIyA~ aura taraha-taraha ke pakavAna khAte haiM, aba Apake hAtha meM jaba bhI miThAI Ae, taba eka Tukar3A lekara aisI jhopar3I meM jAnA, aura miThAI ke lie rote hue kisI bacce ke mu~ha meM vaha Tukar3A rkhnaa| usa vakta usake cehare para jo smile AegA, vaha dekhakara Apako jo Ananda hogA... You will say - aisA Ananda to jIvana meM kabhI nahIM milaa| Remember, hama jo khAte haiM, usakA svAda to do - pA~ca minaTa hI rahatA hai, parantu jaba hama khilAte haiM, to usakA svAda jIvanaparyanta rahatA hai| jo Ananda dUsaroM ko khilAne meM hai, vaha Ananda svayaM khAne meM nahIM hai, jo Ananda dUsaroM ke A~sU poMchane me hai, vaha majA svayaM ha~sane meM nahIM hai, jo majA dUsaroM ko bA~Tane meM hai, vaha majA ikaTThA karane meM nahIM hai| sukha mile to use bA~TanA sIkheM, duHkha Ae to use akele sahana karanA siikheN| apane sukha kI mahaphila meM sabako bulAnA parantu apane azruoM kA tAla akele hI khaanaa| mila-bA~Takara khAne kA nAma saMskRti hai| saMgraha karake khAne kA nAma vikRti hai|
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________________ 10 Always remember this fact. C for Care ABCD D for Discipline Discipline means First is home Discipline. I know, yahA~ kucha sTuDenTsa aise haiM, jo mammI-pApA ke sAmane bolate haiN| kucha aise haiM jo mammI-pApA kI bAta nahIM mAnate haiN| kucha aise haiM, jo mammI-pApA ko parezAna karate haiN| Am I right? Apa eka bAta samajha lenA ki jo mammI-pApA ko duHkha detA hai, vaha jIvana meM kisI bhI prakAra kA sukha prApta karane ke yogya nahIM rhtaa| Aja Apa thor3e bar3e hue haiN| parantu pahale Apa choTe the| winter kA season thaa| mammI kI bagala meM Apa soe the| rAta ke DeDha baje mammI kI A~kheM khula giiN| mammI ke mana meM vicAra AyA ki merA beTA bahuta choTA hai| ise patA nahIM calatA, isane sote-sote pezAba kara dI hai| ThaMDa meM vaha gIle kapar3e meM soegA to bImAra par3a jaaegaa| lekina ghara meM dUsarA bed to hai nhiiN| Do you know, mammI ne kyA kiyA? mammI ne Apako uThAkara apanI side meM sUkhe bistara para Apako sulA diyA aura svayaM gIle meM so gii| can you understand? yaha mammI kA Apake Upara kitanA bar3A upakAra hai? ghara meM jaba pUrA paisA nahIM AtA thA, pUrI rasoI nahIM banatI thI, taba mammI svayaM bhUkhI rahatI thI aura Apako bhara peTa khilAtI thii| kabhI kisI vivAha Adi prasaMga meM jaba Apa mammI kI goda meM baiThe the, taba Apane mammI kI sAr3I bigAr3a dI thI, prasaMga bigAr3a diyA thA, phira bhI mammI ne apanA mu~ha nahIM bigAr3A thaa| Apa vaha dina yAda kareM, jaba eka ora cUlhe para rakhI mammI kI cAya khaula rahI thI aura dUsarI ora Apa cillA rahe the. Apa vaha dina yAda kareM, jaba Apake pApA ApakI sAIkila kI keriyara pakar3akara Apake pIche-pIche daur3a rahe the| Apa vaha dina yAda kareM, jaba ApakI khuzI ke lie Apake mammI-pApA ne apanI jamA-pU~jI kharca kara dI thii| My dears! hameM koI satat nau ghanTe ke lie vajana uThAe rakhane ko kahe to kyA hama aisA kara sakate haiM? mammI ne satat nau mahIne taka apane peTa meM ApakA bhAra uThAyA hai| mammI ne mauta jaisI pIr3A ko sahanakara Apako janma diyA hai| Apake bacapana kA mAtra eka varSa yadi zUTiMga karake rakhA ho, to hama usa Video film ko dekhakara
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________________ ABCD sisaka-sisaka kara rone lgeNge| itanA bar3A tyAga mammI-pApA ne hamAre lie kiyA hai| hama apanI hoziyArI se itane bar3e nahIM ho gae haiM, balki hama apane mammI-pApA ke upakAroM ke kAraNa yahA~ taka pahuMce haiN| aba hameM kyA karanA hai? hamArA pharja kyA hai?roja subaha unheM praNAma krnaa| jahA~ taka sambhava ho sake, hameM unakI sevA karanI hai| pApA thake mAMde ghara vApasa Ae~ to unake shoes utAreM, unheM pAnI deM, ve leTa jAe~ to unake paira dbaaeN| ghara ke kAma meM mammI kI madada kareM, hama sophA para baiThe-baiThe TI.vI. dekhate raheM aura mammI kacarA pheMkane nIce jAe, to yaha hamAre lie zarama kI bAta hai| mammI se kaha deM... "tuma mujhe koI na koI kAma batalAtI raho... nahIM to maiM khAnA nahIM khAUgA..." / hamArI lAcArI kI sthiti meM hamAre mammI-pApA ne hameM sambhAlA thA, unakI lAcArI kI sthiti meM hameM unheM sambhAlanA hai| hameM yaha saMkalpa karanA cAhie ki, "maiMne jaba pahalI sAMsa lI thI, taba mere mammI-pApA mere pAsa the, maiM unakI AkhirI sA~sa taka unake pAsa rhuuNgaa|" ___ Aja ghara jAkara sabase pahalA kAma - mammI-pApA ke paira chUnA, rotI huI A~khoM se unase mAphI maagnaa| Sorry mammI! Sorry pApA! maiMne Aja taka Apako bahuta parezAna kiyaa| maiMne mAtra apane bAre meM hI vicAra kiyA hai, Apake bAre meM kabhI bhI vicAra nahIM kiyaa| maiMne kitanI jida kI hai, Demands kiyA hai| kitanI bAra Apake sAmane gussA kiyA hai| I am very sorry. para aba maiM aisA kabhI nahIM kruuNgaa| aba se Apa jo bhI kaheMge, vaha kruuNgaa| I promise you. Aja Apa apane dila meM eka bAta likhakara rakha leM, 'mammI-pApA mere ghara ke bhagavAna haiN|' Apa jo bhI kareM, vaha isa bAta ko yAda karake kreN| Yes, this is home Discipline. 2nd is School Discipline. jisa prakAra mammI-pApA ghara ke bhagavAna haiM, isI prakAra yahA~ Apako par3hAnevAle Apake prinsIpalsa, TIcarsa - ye Apake skUla ke bhagavAna haiN| I Know, bahuta se sTUDenTsa TIcarsa kI mazkarI karate haiM, unakI Acting karake sabako ha~sAte haiM, unakI nindA karate haiM, unakI bAta nahIM mAnate haiM... sahI bAta hai nA? My dears! That's bad manner. Why do you come to
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________________ 12 ABCD the School? To learn? Well, then respect your teachers. That's the secret of well learning. jJAnaprApti kA rahasya yahI hai - guru ke prati smmaan| ___Apa Teachers kI mazkarI kareMge, unakI bAta nahIM mAneMge, to isakA nukazAna Teachers ko nahIM hogA, balki Apako hogaa| isase ApakA mana caMcana bnegaa| Memory power - smaraNazakti kamajora hogii| yAda kiyA hogA to exam ke samaya bhUla jaaeNge| jIvana meM Age nahIM bar3ha skeNge| Teachers hamAre lie kitanA sahana karate haiM! ghara meM rasoI banAkara On time yahA~ touch ho jAte haiN| khar3e-khar3e galA phAr3akara hameM par3hAte haiM, hamAre praznoM ke uttara dete haiN| unake ina upakAroM ke sAmane kyA hamArI koI feelings hI nahIM hai? Upara se bAteM karake hama unake kAma ko tuff banAe? My dears! I ask you one question. Have you listened the name of Sachin Tendulkar? O.K. why? You can say - vaha eka krikeTara thaa| You can say - vaha eka acchA krikeTara aura kaipTana thaa| You can say - usane sencurI banAI thii| You can say - usane Dabala sencurI banAI thii| You can say - use varlDa kapa milA thaa| right hai? O.K. ____ I say Apake sAre javAba adhUre haiN| I tell you - Why do you know him? sacina bahuta choTA thaa| mumbaI-vikrolI meM rahatA thaa| eka ground meM vaha krikeTa sIkhane jAtA thA, usake koca the ramAkAnta aayrekr| eka dina unhoMne sacina se kahA, "sacina, Aja mujhe bAhara jAnA hai| Aja maiM tere sAtha nahIM raha sktaa| tU Juniors ke sAtha khelnaa|" sacina ne kahA, "ThIka hai, sara!" ramAkAntajI cale ge| sacina Juniors ke sAtha khelane kI jagaha seniors kI maica dekhane baiTha gyaa| cAra ghanTe ke bAda koca AyA, sacina ko bulAyA aura pUchA, bola kitanA rana kiyA? sacina thor3A Darate Darate bolA, "maiMne khelA nahIM, maiM seniors kI Match dekha rahA thaa| ve caukA-chakkA lagAte the aura maiM tAliyA~ bajAtA thaa|" ramAkAntajI ne sacina ko eka joradAra tamAcA jar3a diyaa| sacina choTA thA, dubalA-patalA thaa| vaha
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________________ 13 ABCD nIce gira pdd'aa| usake hAtha meM nAztA kA DabbA thaa| DabbA girakara khula gyaa| nAztA bikhar3a gyaa| eka ora sacina kI AMkhoM meM AMsU the aura dUsarI ora ramAkAntajI kI A~khoM meM bhI AMsU the| unhoMne sacina se kahA, "sacina, koI khele aura tU tAlI bajAe, isalie maiM tere lie itanI mehanata nahIM karatA hU~, balki tU khele aura duniyA tAlI bajAe, isalie maiM mehanata karatA huuN|" My dears, sacina ko Apa isalie jAnate haiM, ki apane guru ke prati usake mana meM Adara thaa| sacina yadi gussA ho gayA hotA... jAIe, Apa kauna hote haiM mujhe DAMTanevAle, mujhe mAranevAle, lo yaha baiTa... ApakA krikeTa Apako mubAraka... mujhe nahIM sIkhanA krikeTa vikett| to Aja Apa sacina ko nahIM pahacAna rahe hote| sacina ko Apa isalie jAnate haiM, ki apane guru ke prati usake mana meM Adara thaa| sikandara ko Apa isalie jAnate haiM, ki apane guru erisToTala ke prati usake mana meM Adara thaa| chatrapati zivAjI mahArAja ko Apa isalie jAnate haiM, kAraNa ki apane guru rAmadAsa ke prati unake mana meM Adara thaa| narendrabhAI modI ko Apa isalie jAnate haiM, kAraNa ki unake guru ke. sudarzana ke prati unake mana meM Adara hai| AnevAlI duniyA Apako jAne, isake lie pahalI zarta yaha hai ki apane guru ke prati Apake mana meM Adara ke bhAva hoN| na vinA gurusambandhaM jJAnasyAdhigamaH smRtaH guru hI jJAna kA pravezadvAra hai| jo sTUDenTsa guru ke prati apane mana meM sammAna ke bhAva nahIM rakhate haiM, unake bhArI skUla-baiga eka bojha banakara raha jAtA hai| unhoMne apane mA~-bApa ke pasIne kI kamAI ko waste kiyA hai| ___My dears, always respect your teachers. jaba ve varga meM Ate haiM, taba hAtha jor3akara namaste kahate hue uThakara khar3e ho jaae| Teachers Apako skUla ke barAmade meM, kempasa meM, sar3aka para yA mArkeTa meM jahA~ kahIM bhI mileM, unheM hAtha jor3akara namaste kheN| I ask you zarma AtI hai? yadi zarma AtI ho to isa bAta para hameM zarma AnI cAhie? We should be proud of our teach ers. kabhI bhI Teachers kI nindA nahIM karanI cAhie aura na sunanI caahie| hamArI saMskRti kahatI hai -
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________________ ABCD guroryatra parivAdo, nindA cApi pravartate / karNau tatra pidhAtavyau, gantavyaM ca tatAnyataH // jahA~ hamAre guru ke viSaya meM apazabda bole jAte hoM, unakI nindA hotI ho, vahA~ apane kAna banda kara lene cAhie aura vahA~ se anyatra cale jAnA caahie| pratyeka guru pUrNimA ke dina hamase jitanA sambhava ho sake, choTI sI bheMTa bhI guru ko denI caahie| mAtra Apa yahA~ par3hate haiM, isIlie nahIM, jaba Apa bar3e ho jAe~, taba bhii| cAhe Apa duniyA ke kisI bhI kone meM raha rahe hoM, Apake guru Apako yAda Ane caahie| guru pUrNimA ke dina unheM koI bheTa denA avazya yAda rahanI caahie| Apake guru 60 varSa ke hoM, 70/75/80 varSa ke hoM, taba bhI ve kahA~ haiM? kisa prakAra jI rahe haiM? unheM koI takalIpha to nahIM hai nA? isa bAta kA Apako dhyAna rahanA caahie| jIvana meM Apa kitanA bhI vikAsa kara leM, Apake zikSaka aura ApakA vidyAlaya Apako hamezA yAda rahanA caahie| ___My dears. eka dina aisA AegA, jaba isa skUla meM ApakA AkhirI dina hogaa| Send off day. usa dina, jaba Apa isa skUla se vidA leM, taba yahA~ kI thor3I sI dhUla lete jaanaa| ghara meM kisI pavitra jagaha meM ise rakhanA aura pratidina isake darzana krnaa| yAda karanA ki yaha merI mAtRsaMsthA hai| hamArI saMskRti meM jo mahattva mAtA kA hai, vahI mahattva mAtRbhASA kA hai, vahI mahattva mAtRbhUmi kA hai aura vahI mahattva mAtRsaMsthA kA hai| bar3e hone ke bAda Apako apanI kamAI meM se mAtRsaMsthA ke lie bhI bhAga rakhanA cAhie, yahA~ AnevAle vidyArthI acche saMskAra prApta kareM, isake lie prayAsa karanA caahie| 3rd discipline is Social discipline. samAja meM hameM eka viziSTa anuzAsana ke sAtha rahanA par3atA hai, jise Apa ziSTatA, sajjanatA yA mAnavatA kaha sakate haiN| samAja ne hamAre vikAsa ke lie, hamArI surakSA ke lie, hamAre svAsthya ke lie, hamArI zikSA ke lie bahuta sAre tyAga kie haiN| jaMgala meM koI samAja nahIM hotA hai, to vahA~ koI sabhyatA bhI nahIM hotI hai| jo samAja hameM DaoNkTara, vakIla, sI.e. Adi DigrI taka pahucAtA hai, vaha DigrI prApta kara usa samAja ko ThaganA, galata tarIke se usake paise ThaganA, yaha kArya kitanA kharAba hai! My dears, hamArA eka dRr3hasaMkalpa honA cAhie, ki maiM bar3A hokara jo bhI
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________________ ABCD 15 kAma karU~gA, vaha sevA bhAva se kruuNgaa| rogI ko maiM apanA beTA samajha~gA / grAhaka ko maiM apanA svajana samajha~gA aura usake sAtha apane bhAI jaisA vyavahAra kruuNgaa| paise kama mileMge to koI bAta nahIM, lekina paise ke lie maiM kabhI apanA ImAna nahIM becuuNgaa| jo kAma isa deza kI janatA ke hita meM nahIM hogA, vaha kAma maiM kabhI nahIM kruuNgaa| eka Zoo thaa| praanniibaag| usameM eka cimpAMjI bhI thaa| usake piMjare ke pAsa bahuta bhIr3a lagatI thii| lar3akoM ko to usameM bahuta majA AtA thaa| eka dina vaha cimpAMjI Off ho gyaa| piMjarA khAlI ho gyaa| loga usake bAre meM pUchatAcha karane lge| Zoo vAle ne bahuta talAza kI parantu dUsarA cimpAMjI nahIM milaa| ve Tenzana meM A ge| aba kareM to kyA kareM? darzaka kama ho jAe~ge to Zoo baMda kara denA pdd'egaa| koI rAha dikhAI nahIM de rahI thii| usI samaya eka yuvaka unake pAsa AyA, "mujhe naukarI caahie| ekAunTiMga Adi kara sakatA huuN|" mainejara ne kahA, "hameM jarUrata nahIM hai / " yuvaka ne kahA, "plIz2a, dUsarA koI bhI kAma de dIjie, pyuna kA kAma, sApha-saphAI kA kAma, koI bhI kAma dIjie, mujhe naukarI kI bahuta jarUrata hai| " mainejara ke mana meM eka vicAra aayaa| usane kahA, "dekho, hamAre yahA~ vaise to koI kAma nahIM hai, parantu hamArA cimpAMjI Off ho gayA hai| hama tumheM Same vaisA hI Costume deMge, jise pahanakara tU Exact cimpAMjI hI lgoge| Zoo time meM tumheM Costume pahanakara piMjare meM rahanA par3egA, uchala-kUda karanA par3egA, per3a para jhUlanA par3egA, loga tumheM biskuTa Adi deMge, vaha tumheM khAnA par3egA aura Time pUrA hogA to tuma Costume badalakara ghara cale jaanaa| bolo, yaha kAma karanA hai?" yuvaka ko to cakkara A gyaa| "mujhe bandara bananA par3egA? bandara ke khela karane par3eMge?" parantu use paise kI bahuta jarUrata thii| usane kahA, "hA~, mujhe maMjUra hai|" dUsare dina se usakI duty zuru ho gaI / hara roja kitanI bar3I Audience milatI thI, kitanA kucha khAne ko milatA thaa| vaha uchala-kUda karake sabako ha~sAtA thA, use to majA A gyaa| eka bAra usake piMjare ke pAsa koI nahIM thA, phira bhI vaha uchala-kUda kara rahA thaa| vaha jarA jora se uchala pdd'aa| uchalakara vaha sIdhA bagala vAle piMjare meM jA giraa| usa piMjare meM siMha thaa| vaha yuvaka ghabar3A gayA.... "mara gayA.... abhI siMha jhapaTTA mAregA aura use phAr3akara khA jaaegaa|" vaha cillA uThA, "bacAo...bacAo..." tabhI siMha ne jora se dahAr3a mArI / dahAr3a sunakara yuvaka kA zarIra kAMpane lgaa| khela
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________________ 16 ABCD khatama... "bacAo..." tabhI siMha ne jora se chalAMga lgaaii| yuvaka ko kucha bhI dikhAI nahIM de rahA thA... aba to usake gale se AvAja bhI nahIM nikala rahI thii| bahuta himmata karake vaha kucha bolanA cAhatA thA, tabhI siMha kA paMjA sIdhA usake muMha para A pdd'aa| siMha usake kAna ke pAsa AyA aura dhIre se bolA, "AvAz2a mata kara, varanA donoM kI naukarI jaaegii|" yuvaka samajha gayA ki, maiM jaisA cimpAMjI hU~, vaisA hI yaha siMha hai| "Ao bhAI, hamadonoM eka samAna haiN|" terA bhalA ho, pahale kahanA cAhie thA nA, bekAra meM itanA DarA diyaa| Zootime pUrA huaa| yuvaka ko lagA ki eka bAra Zoo kA research karanA caahie| usane pratyeka piMjare kA nirIkSaNa kiyaa| bAgha ke piMjare meM bAgha kA Costume paDA thA, cIte ke piMjare meM cIte kA Costume par3A thA, rIcha ke piMjare meM rIcha kA Costume par3A thaa| yuvaka ko sArA idea samajha meM A gyaa| ___My dears, ve sabhI bAhara se jAnavara the, parantu andara se manuSya the| hama sabhI bAhara se manuSya haiM, parantu andara se kyA haiM? ___ yadi hameM dUsaroM ko lUTa lene kA mana kare, dUsare ko Thagane meM majA AtA ho, to samajhanA ki hama andara se bandara haiN| yadi hameM gussA bahuta AtA ho, to samajhanA ki hama andara se sA~pa haiM, yadi hama chala-kapaTa karate haiM, to samajhanA ki andara se hama siyAra haiN| yadi hama lar3AI-jhagar3A aura gAlI-galauja karate hoM, to samajhanA ki hama kutte haiN| ____My dears, Who are we? hama manuSya haiM, prema, karuNA, sevAbhAva, paropakAra, zAnti, ziSTAcAra, sabhyatA ye sabhI hamAre sadguNa haiN| hamAre pAsa jo bhI Ae, vaha zAnti prApta kare, yahI hamArI mAnavatA kA lakSaNa hai| My dears, This is social discipline. This is the path of the pleasure. Please always remember this ABCD. Be happy in your life. Wish you all the best.