Worries

Author(s): Dada Bhagwan
Publisher: Dada Bhagwan Foundation

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should one do to get rid of worries?
job does not work out? Here my wife is sick, what will happen to her? The children are not going to school properly, what will happen to them?' Tension is all these kind of pulls. I have not had tension for the last twenty-seven years, since my spontaneous Self realization.
Now there is a lot of difference between being careful and worrying. Carefulness is awareness and worry is to have anxieties, which eat you up from within.
Dadashri : There can never be a person whose worries have stopped. Even the worries of the devotees of Lord Krishna have not stopped. Worries blind and fracture all right reasoning and knowledge.
There is not a single person in this world that does not worry. Even the ascetics sometimes will worry. They don't have to worry about income tax, sales tax, rent etc., but on some days they will worry too. If they get into some conflict with their disciples, they will have worries. Worries cannot go without Self realization.
Normality liberates Questioner : Is dependency and worry the same thing?
Dadashri : Worry is above normal egoism and dependency is not ego. Dependency is helplessness, whereas worry is above normal egoism. You have worries when egoism becomes above normal, otherwise there would not be any worries. Who cannot sleep at night in this house? You could say that it would be the person with the most ego.
In one hour I will take away all your worries. I give you a guarantee that if you have even a single worry thereafter, then get a lawyer and file a lawsuit against me in the courts. I have made thousands of people worry-free. Ask from me whatever you want, I will grant that to you. However, ask judiciously. Ask for something that will never leave you. Do not ask for perishable things. Ask for eternal happiness.
The use of egoism is permitted, but not that of above normal egoism. It is wrong to worry and the result will be a birth in the animal kingdom.
Questioner : What is the solution to stop worrying?
Dadashri : Turn around. Let it go. Negate it and try out a way without egoism. The other way is to become ego less. This happens when you meet a Gnani Purush. He is the only one who can abolish your ego completely.
How do worries go away? Questioner : Why can't we get rid of worries? What
If you follow my five Aagnas (commandments) and still have worries, I give you permission to sue me. You have to stay in my Aagnas. Here you will get everything. Do you know what I have promised everybody here? Sue me for two lakh rupees if you have any worries.
Questioner : After receiving Gnan from you and surrendering my thoughts, speech and actions to you, I do not have any worries.
Dadashri : Yes, worries will not occur.